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Introduction to Why People Fail to Develop Mental Toughness Mental toughness isn't just about pushing through pain—it's about building a mindset that thrives under pressure. But here's the truth: most people fail to develop mental toughness because they have no clear purpose, they avoid discomfort, and they let negative self-talk control their actions. Think about it—elite athletes, military special forces, and high-performing entrepreneurs all have one thing in common: they know exactly why they push forward. Without a strong internal drive, your mind will quit before your body ever does. So, why do so many people struggle to develop this critical skill? In this episode of The Warrior Mind Podcast, we'll break down the biggest reasons why people fail to develop mental toughness—and what you can do to fix it. Myths Why People Fail to Develop Mental Toughness Before we dive into the real reasons behind mental weakness, let's clear up some of the biggest myths that hold people back. Myth #1: Mental Toughness is Just Willpower If you think you can white-knuckle your way through life on sheer willpower, you're setting yourself up for failure. Willpower is a limited resource—it drains fast under stress. Real mental toughness comes from habits, discipline, and an unshakable mission that keeps you strong even when motivation fades. Myth #2: Some People Are Just Born Tough Wrong. Mental resilience is trained, not inherited. Navy SEALs, pro athletes, and world-class entrepreneurs weren't born tougher than you—they developed their strength through adversity, repetition, and self-mastery. If you're waiting to “feel” tough before you act tough, you'll be waiting forever. Myth #3: Tough People Suppress Emotion Suppressing emotions doesn't make you stronger—it makes you fragile. True warriors don't ignore fear, doubt, or frustration—they channel those emotions into fuel. If you try to shut down your emotions, they will eventually break you. Why Most People Fail to Develop Mental Toughness If mental toughness were easy, everyone would have it. Here's why most people don't. They Lack a Clear Purpose and Mission Mental toughness isn't about being "hard"—it's about having a mission so powerful that nothing can stop you. Without a deep sense of purpose, most people crumble under pressure. Purpose is the anchor that keeps you pushing forward when motivation dies and obstacles pile up. They Run from Discomfort Instead of Embracing It Let's be real—most people love comfort. They avoid struggle, dodge adversity, and chase quick fixes. But here's the truth: you cannot grow and stay comfortable at the same time. Mental toughness is built through deliberate exposure to discomfort—not by avoiding it. Negative Self-Talk Controls Their Mind Your mind is either your greatest weapon or your worst enemy. If you constantly tell yourself: “I'm not good enough.” “This is too hard.” “I'll never be as strong as them.” …then you're programming yourself for weakness. Mental toughness starts with the words you say to yourself. Change your internal dialogue, and you change your life. They Rely on Motivation Instead of Discipline Motivation is a liar. It's there when things are easy, but the second life gets tough, it disappears. The people who develop true mental toughness don't wait to “feel” like doing the work—they do it regardless of how they feel. That's discipline. They Crave External Validation If your confidence depends on others clapping for you, you're in trouble. True mental toughness comes from within. It's not about Instagram likes, applause, or validation from others. It's about showing up for yourself, day after day, because you said you would. How to Develop Unshakable Mental Toughness You don't develop toughness by reading about it. You build it through action. Train Your Mind Like a Warrior Stop thinking like a victim and start thinking like...
Sex can be complicated. And in a relationship and it get's even more complicated. Certified Sex Therapist Sarah Watson helps people make it simple. We talk the basics of Sex Therapy, why couples lose their passion for each other and who's really to blame for a bad sex life, men or women. Then, it's Stockings and Santa Hats vs, Christmas Villages and Wreaths as we countdown the Top 5 Christmas Decorations. Sarah Watson: 01:32 Pointless: 40:54 Top 5 Christmas Decorations: 1:01:35 Contact the Show Sarah Watson Instagram Sarah Watson Website Sarah Watson Sex Education Website Sarah Watson Podcast: FLOW, straight talk about extreme periods Show Notes and Timestamps 00:00: Intro 01:33: What is Sex Therapy, Sex Therapy Explained 03:55: Why People Go to Sex Therapy 09:51: When to Go to Sex Therapy 13:22: Does Sex Therapy Work 15:36: Are Men or Women the Problem when it Comes to Sex 20:18: Why People Fail at Sex Therapy 22:41: The Importance of Conversation in Sex Therapy 25:36: Sex as a Power Struggle 27:35: How Popular is Sex Therapy 30:00: How Different Generations Approach Sex 33:04: Sex Therapist's Best Piece of Advice 35:57: When Someone Doesn't Have a Sex Drive 37:05: What to do with Mismatched Libidos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Did you ever have a dream that you buried? You decided it was a lost cause? Some-body said it was stupid? Or maybe you were afraid you would fail? Do you even know if you have such a buried desire? How scary is it to look at that dream and wonder if it’s too late to go back? Did you know, that most of us have a dream or desire that we have given up? In “Reli-able Plant” Douglas Vermeeren writes about Why People Fail to Achieve Their Goals, and estimates 70% of people who set goals fail at them and only 20% pursue goals in the first place? That estimate doesn’t tell us whether those who failed tried again and we don’t know but maybe the 80% were afraid to even try. If you have a dream that was so important that you were afraid to pursue it, you can be sure that it is in some way based on your deeper, truer calling. In fact, time is of the essence. The energy on the planet and the energy of the planets is right for pursuing your most authentic dream and we are being called upon to answer our callings Time to haul it out, polish it up and begin to clear out the resistance, the disbelief, the limitations that you think must come with this dream. Watch Here: https://youtu.be/yKuM5374RUU
Did you ever have a dream that you buried? You decided it was a lost cause? Some-body said it was stupid? Or maybe you were afraid you would fail? Do you even know if you have such a buried desire? How scary is it to look at that dream and wonder if it’s too late to go back? Did you know, that most of us have a dream or desire that we have given up? In “Reli-able Plant” Douglas Vermeeren writes about Why People Fail to Achieve Their Goals, and estimates 70% of people who set goals fail at them and only 20% pursue goals in the first place? That estimate doesn’t tell us whether those who failed tried again and we don’t know but maybe the 80% were afraid to even try. If you have a dream that was so important that you were afraid to pursue it, you can be sure that it is in some way based on your deeper, truer calling. In fact, time is of the essence. The energy on the planet and the energy of the planets is right for pursuing your most authentic dream and we are being called upon to answer our callings Time to haul it out, polish it up and begin to clear out the resistance, the disbelief, the limitations that you think must come with this dream. Watch Here: https://youtu.be/yKuM5374RUU
Did you ever have a dream that you buried? You decided it was a lost cause? Some-body said it was stupid? Or maybe you were afraid you would fail? Do you even know if you have such a buried desire? How scary is it to look at that dream and wonder if it's too late to go back? Did you know, that most of us have a dream or desire that we have given up? In “Reli-able Plant” Douglas Vermeeren writes about Why People Fail to Achieve Their Goals, and estimates 70% of people who set goals fail at them and only 20% pursue goals in the first place? That estimate doesn't tell us whether those who failed tried again and we don't know but maybe the 80% were afraid to even try. If you have a dream that was so important that you were afraid to pursue it, you can be sure that it is in some way based on your deeper, truer calling. In fact, time is of the essence. The energy on the planet and the energy of the planets is right for pursuing your most authentic dream and we are being called upon to answer our callings Time to haul it out, polish it up and begin to clear out the resistance, the disbelief, the limitations that you think must come with this dream. Watch Here: https://youtu.be/yKuM5374RUU
In this episode of the pH Nutrition Podcast, hosts Liam and Luke discuss the topic of fat loss. They share a blueprint of how they help their clients achieve their nutrition and weight loss goals, emphasizing the importance of understanding personal nutrition needs, and the role of consistency, personalization, and accountability in achieving and maintaining weight loss.They also discuss the importance of setting clear goals and having a long-term mindset. The hosts emphasize the importance of tracking your current diet and making necessary tweaks to align it with your health and weight loss goals. The conversation also covers common reasons people fail their diets and how to mitigate these failures.For more info on our programs head over to our website hereCheck out our Instagram page where we post tonnes of useful info here00:00 Introduction to the Podcast00:18 Discussing the Topic of Fat Loss01:21 The Importance of Personalized Nutrition01:54 Challenges in Starting a Diet05:59 Why People Fail to Continue Their Diet18:13 Setting Objective Goals for Your Diet19:57 Approaching Your Diet in 202420:38 The Importance of Tracking Your Current Intake23:21 Approaching Nutrition in a Way That Suits the Individual24:18 The Importance of Having a Coach25:38 Transitioning to Macros and Managing Portion Sizes26:01 The Role of Recipes and Meal Plans in Nutrition27:44 The Impact of Making Small Changes in Your Diet27:54 The Strategy of Making Additions Rather Than Subtractions28:34 The Benefits of Increasing Food Volume29:53 The Importance of Tracking and Understanding Your Current Intake36:34 The Role of Accountability in Achieving Nutritional Goals39:52 Planning for the End of the Coaching Period45:03 The Importance of Having a Roadmap for Your Nutritional Journey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Do you feel that your life is not moving forward in spite of your efforts? In this podcast, I unlock 7 secrets to help you get out of that zone.
How is your New Year's resolution panning out for you? There is a good chance that you make up a part of the 80% statistic that has failed at maintaining their New Year's Resolution come February. Did you know that there's an actual word for going HARD in the beginning only to find yourself falling off of the bandwagon shortly after? It's a word in Sanskrit referred to as arambhashura. It means, to be a hero in the beginning. We are all guilty of this and it doesn't take a New Year's resolution to find ourselves here. There's a new book, project, job or relationship that we set our focus on and we tend to go ALL IN. The problem with this is that we fail to see the speed bumps along the way; we don't plan for the unexpected. Tune in as Coach Ashlie Walton and Detective Walton break down how to avoid the burnout and recognize the discovery and growth that exists behind those brick walls. Check out Why People Fail by Siimon Reynolds. ⩥ PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL ⩤ https://bi3xbvVont.ly/ CLICK HERE for our best-selling products: https://amzn.to/3xaG3xw and https://rdbl.co/3DIQVUC CLICK HERE to join our free Police, Fire, Military and Families Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/38w2e7r Check out our website and learn more about how you can work with LEO Warriors by going to: https://www.leowarriors.com/ Like what you hear? We are honored. Drop a review and subscribe to our show. The Tactical Living Podcast is owned by LEO Warriors, LLC. None of the content presented may be copied, repurposed or used without the owner's prior consent. For PR, speaking requests and other networking opportunities, contact LEO Warriors: EMAIL: ashliewalton555@gmail.com. ADDRESS: P.O. Box 400115 Hesperia, Ca. 92340 ASHLIE'S FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/police.fire.lawenforcement ➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤ This episode is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something by clicking on one of our links, we'll receive a small commission.
Lucas Miller is the Managing Partner of Bannock Capital, LLC a boutique commercial real estate investment firm that focuses on acquiring, operating, and raising capital for distressed commercial real estate. He is also the founder of Fear Free Passive Investing – a Youtube channel and podcast focusing on the honest and passionate education of investors in private real estate equity. His no-sales approach to educating individuals has been downloaded thousands of times and viewed by hundreds of individuals who have taken the leap from Wall Street to controlling their own future. Lucas is a frequent speaker and guest lecturer on real estate private equity, creative investing, and business growth. Lucas lives in the Northern Virginia area with his family and spends his time volunteering time at several different charitable organizations and Boards. Let's tune in to his story! [00:01 - 10:31] Opening Segment Fortune Cribs helps investors buy short-term rentals and select markets across the country for as little as 10% down with no cash on cash returns in the 20-30% range. They will design furnish and manage all your day-to-day operations, making your experience truly hands-off. If you want to take the next step in growing your real estate investing business, go to FortuneCribs.com and book your free consultation now! Let's welcome our guest, Lucas Miller Lucas reminisces about his real estate beginnings The story of a flip that Lucas regrets [10:32 - 18:22] Think Like a Business Owner Not as a Landlord Why People Fail in Real Estate Landlord versus Business Owner The Benefits of Passive Investing for Real Estate Aspirants [18:23 - 22:53] How to Present Yourselves to LPs Questions to Prepared for From Limited Partners Lucas enumerates the top three common points LPs focus on [22:54 - 32:30] The Legacy Round Want to know the best-kept secret when it comes to investing in single or multifamily flips? Hire an interior designer. Elevate your design, reconfigure your floor plans and develop functional spaces all to maximize your ROI. Melanie Rene Designs has over 12 years of experience designing in the San Diego real estate market and is ready to help you increase your profits on flips buying, wholesale short-term rentals retail, and more! Just reach out to Melanie at melanierene@gmail.com.
What's a mistake managers do, that if they didn't, would make a positive difference to team effectiveness? How can a people manager inspire a team to continuously improve their productivity? 'Win Fast' CHAPTER: Spend more time in Field Four, Field 1 - things you're terrible at Field 2 - reasonably good at Field 3 - excellent at Field 4 - stuff you are fabulous at and also enjoy. Always look for the limiting factor Eli Goldratt, and his book ‘The Goal' and his Theory of Constraints, to identify the key challenge or constraint which is the single limiter to your progress and focus on fixing constraints as a way to move forward. Live by the 64/4 rule Focus on the most important 20% of that 20%, that means 4% of what you do accounts for 64% of all your results, focus on the top 4% of your current activities. Do your most important tasks first Schwab technique – do a list of your top 6 items end of day, ready for the next day. My three success protection questions Every month ask yourself: Q1. What do I currently asssume is true that might not be? Q2: What could possibly go wrong? Q3. What could I do if things went wrong? Use ZBT - Zero Base Thinking - to quickly Transform your life Look at the major areas in your life and ask yourself, ‘Knowing what I know now, would I still have done this?' Got any examples of how using ZBT thinking has got people out feeling obliged or being stuck in a situation that isn't serving them? Apply the plus one method Ask yourself, ‘What's one thing I could do right now to move this project forward?' Something small, something quick, something easy to make happen. Put on someone else's head. What would Einstein, Donald Trump, the chess grandmaster, Kasparov, do? What's one productivity tip that if you were writing the book again you'd add that's not already there? ABOUT SIIMON REYNOLDS Siimon Reynolds is a leading high-performance coach for CEOs and entrepreneurs, coaching business leaders globally. One of his companies founded in 2000 with only 2 people, 8 years later employed 6000 staff in 14 countries and was valued at $500 million. He's won over 50 industry awards including: · Advertising agency of the year · Gold Lion, Cannes International Festival of Creativity · Grand Prize, London International Advertising Awards · Australian TV Commercial of the Year · Magazine Campaign of the Year · Newspaper Ad of the Year. His book, ‘Why People Fail', reached No. 1 on the Australian bestseller list in the Business and Self-improvement categories. His latest book, ‘Win Fast', is a checklist on super productivity. With his incisive thinking and brilliant business mind he mentors CEOs and entrepreneurs from all over the world from his homes in Los Angeles and Sydney. Contact: http://siimonreynolds.com/ ABOUT HOST, NINA SUNDAY Author of 'Workplace Wisdom for 9 to thrive', Nina frequents the speaking stage, in-person in Australia/New Zealand and virtually to international audiences from a professional studio on transforming team culture. With a Bachelor of Arts and Diploma in Education, and graduate of the 3-year program of the Australian Film, TV and Radio School, Nina worked as Production Manager in television, before founding Brainpower Training Pty Ltd, leading a team of Facilitators Australia-wide. Nina is a past chapter president of Professional Speakers Australia, a CSP (Certified Speaking Professional) and twice-certified CVP (Certified Virtual Presenter) and can present virtually for any timezone. Book Nina as a speaker for your conference visit https://ninasunday.com . Brainpower Training's face-to-face and online workshops in Productivity, Communication, Leadership or Change and will take your team to the next level. Visit: https://www.brainpowertraining.com.au/training-topics/ Follow Nina Sunday: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ninasunday/ Instagram: @ManageSelf_LeadOthers Twitter: @ninasunday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
#046 - On this episode, I'm joined by special guest, Nick Shaw, Co-Founder, and CEO of Renaissance Periodization, otherwise known as RP. You might have even seen some of the RP Transformations on social media like Instagram because he's got thousands of them - from everyday joes to elite CrossFit athletes. Nick and his team have created something truly unique and easy to follow with their nutrition template and the RP diet app! During this interview, we discuss WHY PEOPLE FAIL at their diets, like, why is dieting so hard, what makes people successful with their diets, and some of the topics in his book ‘Fit for Success’ and how you can start using these techniques today to improve all areas of your life, especially your health and fitness.You'll want to stick around until the end where we discuss how you can start planting the seeds of success early on with your children so that they grow up to be confident in any situation.
Episode 21 of The Blank Canvas Podcast with Siimon Reynolds. This week’s guest is the advertising whiz kid is who created the landmark 1987 Grim Reaper ad campaign that warned Australian’s about the dangers of AIDS. Since that time Siimon has continued to blaze a trail through the advertising and marketing worlds. I’ve had the fortune to work with Siimon over the years and I’m happy to report that in addition to his brilliant mind, he’s a great collaborator and in fact a gentle soul. In fact, I admire the way he has managed to straddle the often conflicting pull of being a creative person, a successful businessman and a good guy. ABOUT SIIMON REYNOLDS Siimon is one of the most sought-after international mentors to business owners and CEO’s. His achievements include: Winner of Advertising Agency Of The Year twice. Winner of every major advertising award - including the Cannes Grand Prix. He co-founded and built the 15th biggest marketing services group in the world in just 8 years (Photon Group). Siimon has authored 6 books including ‘Why People Fail’, which won the Silver Medal for best U.S business success book in year 2012. His latest book WIN FAST, is out now via Penguin Random House. Siimon has given keynote speeches to over 60,000 people - and has shared the stage with Richard Branson and Tony Robbins. Siimon was a ‘shark’ on Australia’s original version of Shark Tank (Channel 7’s Dragon’s Den). http://siimonreynolds.com/ W: https://theblankcanvaspodcast.com.au/ W: https://leerogers.com.au/ SOCIALS Insta: @theblankcanvaspodcast FB - The Blank Canvas Podcast Twitter: @blankcanvaspod THE BLANK CANVAS TEAM Produced by Lee Rogers & Rien MacDonald. Audio support by Jason Murphy/GASinc Music by Rodrigo Enrique Bustos.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Siimon Reynolds is the “Mentor to business leaders worldwide”. He started with a failure and has built on that ever since! He was leading the creative department for a large ad agency at the age of 21 and fired at the age of 23! What did this teach him? He was ‘out of his depth’. So he learned, and learned and learned. He went on to build FIVE multimillion dollar companies; one started with two people and grew to 6000 employees and over $500 million in revenue across 54 countries. These experiences motivated him to write two books Why People Fail and Win Fast which can be found on his website. Now he is dedicated to mentoring others to overcome obstacles to personal and professional success. Find his books and more at: https://siimonreynolds.com
Simon Reynolds is the “Mentor to business leaders worldwide”. He started with a failure and has built on that ever since! He was leading the creative department for a large ad agency at the age of 21 and fired at the age of 23! What did this teach him? He was ‘out of his depth’. So he learned, and learned and learned. He went on to build FIVE multimillion dollar companies; one started with two people and grew to 6000 employees and over $500 million in revenue across 54 countries. These experiences motivated him to write two books Why People Fail and Win Fast which can be found on his website. Now he is dedicated to mentoring others to overcome obstacles to personal and professional success. Find his books and more at: https://siimonreynolds.com
Richard and Eric essentially live out the Dunning-Kruger effect by talking about the Dunning-Kruger effect. They introduce the concept and land on an important question: To what degree do we recognize incompetence — not just in others, but in ourselves? Does it matter? This troubling phenomenon is seemingly (and unfortunately) a ubiquitous feature of the human psyche.Kruger, J., & Dunning, D. (1999). Unskilled and unaware of it: How difficulties in recognizing one's own incompetence lead to inflated self-assessments. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 77(6), 1121–1134. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.77.6.1121Dunning, D., Johnson, K., Ehrlinger, J., & Kruger, J. (2003). Why People Fail to Recognize Their Own Incompetence. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 12(3), 83–87. https://doi.org/10.1111/1467-8721.01235https://www.verywellmind.com/an-overview-of-the-dunning-kruger-effect-4160740
Nine Mysteries Of Life You Need To Understand. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Adenuga spoke about the secrets wisdom that guides this life that if you know them you will surely succeed. These secrets shows you the way to success, what is life and why is life. In this podcast you will learn about the forces of life and of God, this is going to change your life forever, hear it now and share with your friends and relatives.
Nine Mysteries Of Life You Need To Understand. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Adenuga spoke about the secrets wisdom that guides this life that if you know them you will surely succeed. These secrets shows you the way to success, what is life and why is life. In this podcast you will learn about the forces of life and of God, this is going to change your life forever, hear it now and share with your friends and relatives.
Nine Mysteries Of Life You Need To Understand. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Adenuga spoke about the secrets wisdom that guides this life that if you know them you will surely succeed. These secrets shows you the way to success, what is life and why is life. In this podcast you will learn about the forces of life and of God, this is going to change your life forever, hear it now and share with your friends and relatives.
In this session, I'm going to elaborate and explain the main reasons the holding you back from investing. Here are the things I'm going to be explaining or diving into to help you get unstuck: Why People Fail to Invest Fear = lack of knowledge Not committed! or understand it requires time They focus on complaining and not doing! Lack of persistence [Being financially ready: required funds, mortgages] Do not have a system in place Do not take the time to ID what a good property looks like Do not take the time to LIST the obstacles Find more about us on Simply Do It Guided Real Estate Investing http://simplydoit.net/ http://reistart.com/ https://www.facebook.com/wealthinrealestate Book on Amazon: http://a.co/gyNtnKG http://sdi.re #simplydoit meet@simplydoit.net פודקאסט השקעות נדל"ן בעברי: HEB https://anchor.fm/simplydo Podcast on Real Estate Investing: Eng https://anchor.fm/simplydoit The main website with info about Simply Do It and about Investing Video https://simplydoit.net/ Available Properties Properties: http://reistart.com/ Meeting: SimplyDoIt.net/intake
Hello and welcome to Film Pro Productivity, the podcast that helps film professionals and other creatives to live a more focused, effective and HAPPY life. My name is Carter Ferguson and this is EPISODE 40 – THE LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS: PART 1 That was Napoleon Hill speaking there in 1954 and during the next six episodes I will be introducing you to the concepts and principles which he first presented in his very powerful book THE LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS – It’s the book that his more well-known work Think and Grow Rich was based on as well as many many other self-help books and concepts which we find discussed in productivity circles today - And if you think you’ve got nothing to learn from something written nearly a hundred years ago, then think again. This is potent stuff. Whilst still a young man Napoleon Hill met Andrew Carnegie a Scottish-American industrialist, business magnate, and philanthropist. Carnegie led the expansion of the American steel industry in the late 19th century and became one of the richest Americans in history. Andrew Carnegie is the third-wealthiest figure of the modern period (net worth of $310 billion). and came to understand that a formula for success could be outlined in simple lessons which anyone could understand. He was commissioned by Carnegie to prove this statement and went on to spend twenty plus years of his life studying Carnegie and his associates to find this elusive formula. During this time he was granted access to America's ELITE including the likes of Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, Theodore Roosevelt, John D Rockefeller and Henry Ford. At first, he compiled his notes into a series of lectures which were personally delivered across the USA over a period of about seven years. These were then compiled into booklets and finally the manuscripts became published as a single volume known as “THE LAW OF SUCCESS” in 1928 – That book was only distributed to 118 of the very wealthy and successful men who had contributed to its content and one of these original copies was used to create a reprinted version of The Law of Success in 2010. One thing I’d like to say though about WHEN this was written - and I mention this as I find it a little hard on the ear myself - is that in 1928 it was commonplace to use the term “men” or “man” when speaking generally about HUMANKIND where today more gender-neutral words or phrasings such “they” or “those” would work instead. I will often, but NOT ALWAYS NEUTRALISE THE GENDER put forth in the text, however - I DON’T DO THIS when QUOTING DIRECTLY from someone, which I do often, or where it isn’t factually accurate for me to neutralise gender. For example, when I said there that the book was “distributed to 118 of the very wealthy and successful MEN who had contributed to its content” it’s because it’s factually accurate. As far as I am aware, he neither interviewed not distributed this to women, but that doesn’t mean that there is nothing for all of us to learn from it. Hill was all about inclusion and I’m certain that if he wrote this book today he would have made this adaptation. He would have been horrified that his positive words somehow made any section of his readership uncomfortable or feel isolated. I say this as a kinda fair warning that on occasion you will hear these gender-specific words and they may jar a little, but bear with me if you are easily “triggered”, as these lessons in SUCCESS are accessible and relevant to all, and the BENEFITS you will gain from them will MORE THAN makeup FOR A FEW ANACHRONISTIC and GENDER SPECIFIC QUOTATIONS. With that point made, let’s move on. The Law of Success was effectively condensed version into THINK AND GROW RICH, which wasn’t released until 1937. Rumour has it that this 9-year hiatus came about because the "authorities" felt that SUCH AN EXACT GUIDE TO SUCCESS, AS SEEN IN THE ORIGINAL, could be a threat to their roles in government and society. In THINK AND GROW RICH the concepts and ideas are diluted to make it shorter but it’s generally considered now that the real gold can be found in this -THE LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS. Hill warns against PASSING JUDGMENT before having read the entire sixteen lessons. THOSE WHO TAKE UP THE COURSE WITH AN OPEN MIND, he tells us, WILL BE RICHLY REWARDED – so bear with ME over the next 6 episodes, KEEP AN OPEN MIND AS I PROCEED, and you will get a glimpse of the vision which Napoleon Hill set forth in the 1100 or so pages that make up the LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS. You cannot push any one up a ladder unless he is willing to climb a little by himself. Andrew Carnegie UNQUOTE These shows are a kinda six-part “series within the series” – and organised so as to introduce you to the concepts within the book - ON THAT NOTE MANY YOU WILL LIKELY RECOGNISE TOPICS WHICH I’VE TACKLED IN EARLIER EPISODES as the rules and theories which Napoleon Hill introduces here are intrinsically part of what productivity has become. It’s worth mentioning too, that throughout his lessons, Hill doesn’t hold back on giving examples and if anything, it is this that truly separates it in content from THINK AND GROW RICH. In the 1950s Hill filmed a series of lectures based on this work. He’d had a few years to develop his ideas and there are a few nuggets of wisdom from that, which I will use here. The first of these was this: He said that “Success is a very profound and interesting thing because the line of demarcation between success and failure is so slight that it is often hard to see where one ends and the other begins.” For those of us struggling with the many failures and disappointments that come along in life and work, it’s worth noting that Hill’s words predict for us SUCCESS with a slight shifting of our outlook and our actions. I hope that this short series of episodes brings you the key to that success. On a final note, I’m switching around lesson 2 and lesson 1 from the book because Napoleon Hill did so later in life himself and because to me it makes far more sense this way around. In this chapter though, Hill first suggests we read with a pencil and pad to hand as the lessons will “superinduce a flow of thoughts covering a wide range of subjects”. I realise that many who listen to podcasts are doing other things as they do so, driving, walking the dog or whatever, but if you can, I’d try and take a bit of a breather between the lessons in case I too, accidentally superinduce your FLOW OF THOUGHTS too much and you have a meltdown. Without further ado, hang onto your seats and let’s look at THE LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS. WHATEVER THE MIND CAN CONCEIVE AND BELIEVE THE MIND CAN ACHIEVE Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. Without a purpose and a plan, people drift aimlessly through life. Napoleon Hill Unquote LESSON 2 in The LAW OF SUCCESS is titled A DEFINITE CHIEF AIM: and here Hill states that “This lesson will show you how to do away forever - with aimlessness - and fix your heart and hand upon some definite, well-conceived purpose.” It is important that you recognize that all success begins with definiteness of purpose - with a clear picture in your mind of precisely what you want from life. Hill warns us NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE VALUE OF THIS IDEA DUE TO ITS SIMPLICITY. There is no greatness where there is no simplicity, goodness and truth. Leo Tolstoy unquote It’ll come as no surprise to listeners to this show that what we need to do is to set an objective and a time frame before we can achieve it, and that’s as true for a small task as it is for a life goal. I talk about this often as WITHOUT HAVING A SOLID AIM TO FOCUS ON YOU CANNOT EFFECTIVELY, EFFICIENTLY, AND AS DIRECTLY AS POSSIBLE, ACHIEVE IT. Hill’s specific instruction in regard to this lesson 2 - A DEFINITE CHIEF AIM is to “procure a neat pocket size a notebook” · and on page 1 write down a clear description of your major aim in life - the one circumstance or position or thing which you will be willing to accept as your idea of success - and remember before you begin writing that your only limitations are those which you set up in your own mind or which others to set up for you. Please be the master of your own destiny, and try not to allow yourself to be side lined into achieving someone else’s desires in place of your own. · On page 2 Hill asks us to write down a clear statement of precisely what you intend to GIVE IN RETURN for that which you desire from life. Hill firmly believes that there is NO SUCH THING AS SOMETHING FOR NOTHING. · Thirdly he asks you to memorize both of your statements WHAT YOU DESIRE AND WHAT YOU INTEND TO GIVE IN RETURN FOR IT and to repeat them at least a dozen times daily.” Humility leads to strength and not to weakness. It is the highest form of self-respect to admit mistakes and to make amends for them. John J. McCloy UNQUOTE Lesson 2 covers a lot of ground, not least of which is the time he spends on the importance of HUMILITY, which he describes as the FORERUNNER TO SUCCESS – but what Hill also gets into in this lesson is POWER. “Success is the development of the POWER with which to get whatever one wants in life without interfering with the rights of others.” To Hill, POWER is ORGANIZED ENERGY or EFFORT and his book is called the Law of Success as it teaches how we may organize facts and knowledge and the faculties of our mind, into a unit of power. THIS POWER, HE SAYS, BRINGS YOU A DEFINITE PROMISE: That through its mastery and application you can get whatever you want, with but two qualifying words - "WITHIN REASON." This is a point on which I’ve hung my hat in the past, In episode 28 - YOU HAVE THE POWER I say BE CONFIDENT BUT NOT DELUSIONAL and when Hill says "You Can Do It if You Believe You Can!" he doesn’t mean you can become Harry Potter or ride a unicorn. It’s the sort of thing that you’d think doesn’t need to be voiced, but in my experience there are those out there that keep themselves back from success because they cannot recognise that they are in some way the problem, and it is they that keep themselves in check. No man has a chance to enjoy permanent success until he begins to look in a mirror for the real cause of all his mistakes. Napoleon Hill Unquote In the next lesson, we will look at how you can organize the faculties of your mind and the faculties of others, to co-ordinate and focus on your DEFINITE CHIEF AIM. The key-note of this entire lesson may be found in the word "definite." That any DEFINITE CHIEF AIM that is deliberately fixed in the mind and held there, with the determination to realize it, finally saturates the entire subconscious mind until it automatically influences your physical action toward the achievement of that purpose. Your DEFINITE CHIEF AIM in life should be selected with deliberate care, and after it has been selected it should be written out as outlined before and placed where you will see it AT LEAST ONCE A DAY - I HAVE MY AIMS WRITTEN ON MY OFFICE WALL for example and ON THE WHITEBOARDS which I use every day. The psychological effect of this is to impress this purpose upon your SUBCONSCIOUS mind so strongly that IT ACCEPTS THAT PURPOSE AS A PATTERN OR BLUEPRINT that will eventually DOMINATE YOUR ACTIVITIES IN LIFE and lead you, step by step, TOWARD THE ATTAINMENT OF THAT THAT AIM. Hill says “Suppose your definite chief aim is far above your present station in life. What of it? It is your privilege - nay, your DUTY, to aim high in life.” It’s now that I get to the start of 16 lessons, but before I do, I want you to really consider what has been proposed here in this one. Don’t just let it pass and move on, pause the show if you have to and really consider what has been said. IF YOU HAVE TO SPEND A FEW DAYS OR WEEKS CONSIDERING HOW SETTING YOURSELF A CONTRACT TO ACHIEVE A DEFINITE CHIEF AIM, COULD CHANGE YOUR LIFE THEN DO IT. Thomas Jefferson SAID Nothing can stop the someone with the RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE from achieving his goal; and NOTHING ON EARTH CAN HELP THE MAN (or woman) with the WRONG MENTAL ATTITUDE. WHATEVER THE MIND CAN CONCEIVE AND BELIEVE THE MIND CAN ACHIEVE LESSON 1 - THE MASTER MIND: Hill discusses many things in this first lesson as he prepares and primes the reader for what is to come. He talks about how to STIMULATE YOUR IMAGINATION so that it will create PRACTICAL PLANS and NEW IDEAS, and how ORGANIZED EFFORT, IS THE SOURCE OF ALL POWER! Don’t skip passed this statement either – TAKE HEED AND CONSIDER THE WORDS - ORGANISED EFFORT IS THE SOURCE OF ALL POWER. If we set our minds to it, and can intelligently coordinate the efforts of the many, WORKING IN HARMONY, we can achieve truly great things. This isn’t a throwaway statement either. He really means it. This is the principle through which you may borrow and use the education, the experience, the influence and perhaps the capital of other people in CARRYING OUT YOUR OWN PLANS IN LIFE. It is the principle through which you can accomplish in one year more than you could accomplish without it in a lifetime if you depended entirely upon your own efforts for success. Hill explains that the MASTERMIND PRINCIPLE can also give you absolute protection against failure provided that your purpose is in using this principle is BENEFICIAL TO ALL WHOM YOU INFLUENCE. Hill explains that the "Master Mind" is an invisible STRONGER third mind which is developed by a friendly alliance, in a spirit of harmony of purpose, between two or more minds. I’ll say it again - AN INVISIBLE STRONGER THIRD MIND WHICH IS DEVELOPED BY A FRIENDLY ALLIANCE, IN A SPIRIT OF HARMONY OF PURPOSE, BETWEEN TWO OR MORE MINDS. He clarifies too that NO TWO OR MORE MINDS EVER MET WITHOUT CREATING, out of the contact, ANOTHER MIND but warns us that this INVISIBLE creation is not always a "Master Mind.” as a MASTER MIND ONLY forms when those TWO OR MORE PEOPLE WORK TOGETHER IN HARMONY of purpose and effort. I’ve seen many of the theories behind THE MASTER MIND discussed in productivity circles over the years and it’s one that is of great interest to me. It is based on the idiom that SUCCESS DOES NOT COME WITHOUT THE COOPERATION OF OTHERS - I haven’t thought about that particular concept very often but I’ve unconsciously been part of MASTER MIND groups at various points in my life and I’m very open to embracing it. I’ve had an awareness of it I think though, as I often think of Jim Rohn who famously said that “we become the average of the five people we spend the most time with.” In other words, if you spend a lot of time with a bunch of wasters, then you’re not going to be getting out of your rut anytime soon, and it’s highly likely you will become a bit of a waster yourself. If however you spend your time with high flyers you will follow most likely along that path too. When discussing of THE MASTER MIND Hill says something similar to Rohn – He says “It has been found that a group of six or seven sales people may use the law so effectively that their sales may be increased to unbelievable proportions.” He adds the caveat though that “It is strictly for minds who trust each other and are interested in the good success of all parties involved.” In my experience, it is with those final words that I have seen many a MASTER MIND destroyed by selfishness and EGO. On that note Hill advises that you “Control your mental attitude and make yourself friendly and agreeable with everyone with whom you are closely associated if you expect friendly cooperation in return. Indifference cannot create a mastermind alliance, and a negative mental attitude can bring you nothing but failure. Your mental attitude is the one and the only thing over which you have complete control. Whilst researching this book, he reminds us, I had the collaboration of practically every outstanding successful man this country has produced during the past 50 years and I can tell you DEFINITELY that their success was due in main to their knowledge and application of the MASTERMIND principle. Henry Ford's gigantic success may be traced to the successful application of this MASTER MIND principle, he says “With all the self-reliance a man could have, Ford, did not depend upon himself for the knowledge necessary in the successful development of his industries. He surrounded himself with men who supplied the knowledge which he, himself, DID NOT and COULD NOT possess. Moreover, Ford picked men who COULD AND DID HARMONIZE IN GROUP EFFORT.” – Hill talks elsewhere of how FORD’s true mastermind alliance was with HIS WIFE who supported and encouraged him. In this chapter Hill also looks at WHY PEOPLE FAIL and WHY SOME PEOPLE ANTAGONIZE OTHERS WITHOUT KNOWING IT, and how SUCCESS is often a matter of TACTFUL NEGOTIATION. He also explains that EVERY HUMAN BEING possesses at least two distinct personalities; one destructive and one constructive. My default is self-destruction, and anything on top of that is a bloody lot of work. Gillian Anderson UNQUOTE Summing Up The master mind is a simple enough thing to understand, although like many other concepts it is harder to put into practice. I’m going to end this episode here but over the next five episodes I will dip into each of the remaining lessons. These lessons are constantly relating to one another and I’ll refer back to these first two many times. In summary today though: Lesson 2 states that you must do away forever with aimlessness and fix your heart and hand upon some definite, well-conceived purpose. In your struggle for SUCCESS you should keep constantly in mind the necessity of knowing what it is that you want - Know precisely what your definite purpose is – and utilise the principle of organized effort in the attainment of that DEFINITE PURPOSE. …and Lesson 1 encourages to form A "Master Mind" - an invisible stronger third mind, developed through friendly alliance, in a spirit of harmony of purpose, between two or more minds. No two or more minds ever met without creating, out of the contact, another mind, but that this invisible creation is not always a "Master Mind." That ONLY forms when those two or more people work together in harmony of purpose and effort. Please consider the theory of THE MASTER MIND ALLIANCE. How can you create a harmonious master mind group that will further your purpose. I’m pretty sure I’ll be looking into this further in a future episode. Call To Action If you haven’t done so already, then you need to start putting serious time into rediscovering your one chief aim. Consider it, focus on it, and move on with purpose. Hill actually gives a CALL TO ACTION WITHIN THESE CHAPTERS. He reminds us that there is no such thing as something for nothing. Everything including your personal success has a price that must be paid and the only price you are requested to pay for the present is the effort necessary to do three simple things: 1. Decide definitely where you wish to be in what you wish to be doing during the next three years. 2. Decide how much money you desire to be making and what you are going to do to earn it. 3. Form a mastermind alliance with at least one person (he suggests in your immediate family although these days I’d advise caution on that front) and at least one other person among those to whom you are selling your services. Gary Keller said “Success demands singleness of purpose. You need to be doing fewer things for more effect instead of doing more things with side effects. It is those who concentrate on but one thing at a time who advance in this world.” In the next episode I’ll be firing straight into several more of Napoleon Hill’s Law Of Success lessons. If you are listening to these back to back though, I’d suggest giving yourself a bit of a breather between them as there’s some big topics here. In the show notes for today’s episode I’ll be including a link to a free pdf of the full THE LAW OF SUCCESS IN 16 LESSONS BOOK as it’s now in the public domain. 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Today, I am lucky to have here with me a CEO, author, president of the Applied Science and Performance Institute, and someone who is consistently working to spread awareness around the Ketogenic Lifestyle, Dr. Ryan P. Lowery. He earned his BS and MS in exercise physiology and exercise and nutrition science from the University of Tampa and completed his doctorate work at Concordia University in Health and Human Performance with a focus on “The Effects of a Well-Formulated Ketogenic Diet and Exogenous Ketone Supplementation on Various Markers of Health and Body Composition in Healthy and Diseased Populations.” Over his career, Ryan has published over 150 papers, abstracts, and book chapters on human performance and sports nutrition and has dedicated his life to educating the masses. In his free time, Ryan enjoys spending time with his best friend, Scoot the Keto Pup, jet skiing, and traveling around the world. The way to his heart is through a good glass of wine and Keto desserts. In this episode, Ryan and I talk about his amazing story and what he is currently working on. First, Ryan reveals what ignited his passion for educating people on the importance of healthy eating. Then, Ryan explains the future of obesity and why inspired action is the only thing that will change the world. He also describes tips for eating Keto, why some people fail when trying the lifestyle, and how you can gain muscle. Tune in! This show is sponsored by the World's Healthiest Keto Coffee beans, Purity Coffee. Get your bag of beans delivered to your door: www.ketokampcoffee.com , use the coupon code ketokamp for 10% off. Grab the Keto Kickstart Guide for FREE: www.ketokickstartguide.com // T I M E S T A M P S [00:30] September 10, 2002 Ryan’s dad drove him down to the shore because something was wrong with his grandmother. When he got there, his grandmother had passed. His grandmother was obese, which ultimately contributed to her passing in her early 60’s. This initiated Ryan’s entire journey of educating people. [03:45] The Future of Obesity The obesity trend in children is unacceptable. Obesity trends are not only in America, but it is also happening all over the world. At the end of the day, it takes inspired action. [06:50] How Ryan Started with Keto Ryan is a self-proclaimed carboholic. After college, Ryan could no longer eat his normal amount of carbs. He realized his metabolism wasn’t the same. The first time Ryan started the keto diet, he felt terrible. Three times a day, he would make keto moose, and that was literally all he ate. [10:00] Biggest Reason for the Keto Flu It is going to take time for your body to adjust to using fat as fuel. The use of electrolytes can mitigate a lot of the flu. Sodium has been demonized; however, you need to be salting everything. Some people can completely switch to keto, whereas other people need to transition to the diet slowly. Make habit changes to develop a long-term lifestyle. [13:45] Building Muscle with the Ketogenic Diet You need to allow time for the adaptation period. The phase may be one to three weeks. Plus, you probably will not be training as hard. After you adapt, the ketogenic diet group will gain just as much muscle as individuals who are eating a carbohydrate diet. Each group ate the exact same amount of protein. [17:40] Why People Fail with the Ketogenic Diet A lot of people do not have the right information about the ketogenic diet. Also, people have trouble understanding what constitutes a well-formulated ketogenic diet and how to get electrolytes. Eating keto isn’t about eating high-fat, it is about eating low-carb. [20:10] Long-Term Keto Success Dial-in the electrolytes. Don’t be afraid of having tons of sodium. However, you don’t want table salt. Movement – if you want long-term benefits, you need some form of movement. This doesn’t have to be doing squats at the gym; you could be going for a walk or a hike once a day. Mindset – Ryan calls it intermittent eating rather than intermittent fasting. Find a place where you are comfortable. [24:00] Working Out While Fasting If your goal is to become a bodybuilder, working out while fasting probably won’t help with that goal. Ryan recommends shifting your eating habits earlier. Many people skip breakfast, then eat lunch and dinner. Ryan says to eat a bigger breakfast and then eat a smaller dinner. [27:35] The Ketogenic Bible The Ketogenic Bible: The Authoritative Guide to Ketosis makes understanding keto practical. Jacob Wilson and Ryan Lowery offer a comprehensive look at the ketogenic diet and the fat-burning state it induces, ketosis. Ryan’s favorite part of writing the book was looking up the history. For instance, Ryan found out the political motivations behind the reason’s society eats the way it does. Butter is back, and avocado sales are soaring. [35:00] The Applied Science & Performance Institute Their mission is to challenge current dogma in the health and human performance realms with new insight to effectively promote a healthy lifestyle and optimize physical performance. They want the information they find out from research to get out to the masses as soon as possible. To support the institute check out their website: The Applied Science & Performance Institute [39:00] The Ketogenic Diet Puts You at a Metabolic Advantage You are burning fat at a higher rate with ketosis. All calories are not the same. Carb calories vs. fiber calories are completely different. If you are trying to diet on a low-fat diet vs. a low-carb diet, the adherence rate to a low-carb diet is much higher. On a low-carb diet, people tend to eat fewer calories by nature. [49:00] What Ryan is Most Excited About The potential we see in the neurological areas is so fascinating because keto is much more than a fat loss lifestyle. Keto provides a fuel source for the brain to utilize. Ryan works with NFL alumni. Some of them can’t leave their house without a monitor because they don’t know how to get home. Instead of attacking it with drugs, it could be their brain starving for energy. [55:30] The Definition of Perfect Health Health is multifaceted. Living in a state of fulfillment and gratitude will take up a majority of our health. We could be in a poor state internally, but if we are fulfilled, then we are in a far better state than someone who is not. AND MUCH MORE! Resources from this episode: Visit Ryan’s Website Visit Ketogenic.com Watch Ryan’s KetoCon 2018 Talk Connect with Dr. Ryan P. Lowery: LinkedIn YouTube Twitter Instagram Facebook The Ketogenic Bible: The Authoritative Guide to Ketosis by Dr. Ryan P. Lowery The Applied Science & Performance Institute This podcast is for information purposes only. Statements and views expressed on this podcast are not medical advice. 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Why People Fail Before we get into that, let’s discuss, “What is Failure?” Because when you think of the statement, “Why People Fail.” You’re most likely thinking of failure as a horrible result—where the person gets the worst outcome that could possibly happen from the efforts that they’re putting in. It’s true, that’s one kind […]
Siimon Reynolds is a renowned Australian entrepreneur and award-winning marketer. He is one of the world's leading high performance coaches for CEO's and entrepreneurs.He has created and built five 7 figure ++ businesses in a row. One of his businesses started with only two people and 8 years later employed over 6000 staff in 14 countries. The group comprised 54 companies and was valued on the stock exchange at over $500 million.He speaks globally on the subjects of high performance, leadership, productivity and ultra achievement.His most recent book, “Why People Fail,“ reached No. 1 on the Australian bestseller list in both the Business and Self Improvement categories. It won the Silver Medal at the 2012 U.S Axiom Business Book Awards and was a finalist at the CEO READ business book awards.His marketing expertise is highly sought after in the media. He has been featured on many shows, including 60 Minutes, Today Tonight, A Current Affair, Bloomberg and America's Today Show on NBC. The conversation with Siimon was full of high quality insights on a range of subjects. It was such a privilege to have him on the show.
For those participating in the Unbreakable Training and currently doing the 21 day challenge, I personally congratulate you for being committed to your life starting with your health. It actually takes a high level of bravery to commit to a goal. It takes boldness to actually do three things a day that matter to you. It takes someone Unbreakable to actually do three things a day for 21 straight days. This podcast Why People Fail in the Middle is the second in a series to discuss in an open forum the secrets behind success. I have taught over 1000 clients about the fundamentals of success and find this lesson the most critical one. And if you are watching or listening you can track and watch people go through lesson one either on Unbreakable Lessons or on facebook at Unbreakablelessons or at unbreakable community. The first episode was a broad discussion of the lesson and the pitfalls and to do the lesson you must first have a goal you actually are wanting to attain in the next 60 days and to select 3 simple things you will do every day to ensure you succeed and to do those three things every day for 21 days. And the episode was to discuss for first 7 days. Today’s episode is about the middle: The middle days when 70% of the people quit. Yes that many people fail in the middle. Most people in any endeavor fail on the quest for success in the middle. Whether it be a work on a project, or in training for a race, or in a relationship, or while learning anything, or in their spiritual life the middle is the hell they cannot get through. I have found 2% quit in the first 7 days or in the beginning of a project. The excitement is real, it is fun, things are moving and changing, and there is progress. And, what is really happening here is that there are no excuses or reasons to not do the simple things. Let me tell you a secret, the simple things make you successful. Not the bold wow, last ditch efforts that weren’t a part of the plan. The medal of honor heroic action isn’t the key to success. The heroic action is when everything falls apart. Albeit you may need to do that and few can muster that type of action, but remember heroism is because the simple things weren’t done and now you die or live. So here is the deal the utter beauty of the 21 day challenge for you. You literally always have to use this way of beginning something new or when you are developing a new skill. It takes 21 days to integrate the new way into your life, into your timeline, into your capacity to use the thing you are starting. There are no hacks, no short cuts to success. And this 3 week integration challenge is one of many rules of success, and only 20% of the people use it and can even make it through 21 days. So last episode I talked about the first 7 days. And everyone really can do it for a week. But what the Hell happens on days 8 through 18? What happens in the middle? Today’s episode is about the middle. To begin let me tell you what doesn’t change, even if you quit. What doesn’t change was your goal, and the three simple things you decided you need to do to make the goal happen. That didn’t change. So what happens to 70% of the people. What changed. Let me make a list and as I go through the list you will begin to agree on the things that change to stop you or anyone from getting it done. The way you feel your excitement about the goal or the things you said were important. Support from others Your body hurts more now or you are tired The weather changed You may have gotten sick or some stupid thing like that Work changed You get bored You don’t want to anymore People laugh at you Or your performance in the actual thing you are doing gets worse I will stop the list there. Because the reality is that we humans if left by ourselves can come up with about 1 million reasons to fucking quit on ourselves. We can even right books and make millions on proving to the world the reasons are more important than the outcome. REASONs and excuses. Reasons are lethal to our objectives. No reasonable man or woman would do whatever it takes. The reasonable person reasons himself right out of succeeding 80% of the time. Excuses literally excuse you. I am tired. Got it you are now excused from the table. I forgot (which by chance is the number one excuse known to man) to call or to do whatever, got it you are excused. Meanwhile the three simple tasks aren’t getting done. All you had to do was do the three things, but people are often an excuse. I don’t feel like it, so you don’t do it. My wife doesn’t support me doing it, so you are excuses. Your knee is swollen or feet hurt, so you reason that if you do it more you will do more damage or maybe you will die, so you are excused. It is raining, Ok you are out. You have a fever, no reasonable person would do this sick so you quit. But here is what happens in the middle, it gets boring. Getting up and riding a stationary bike each morning at 5 am is down right boring. Why? Because you are boring. You not the bike. You have to beat boredom away inside of you. But you are blaming the bike for your own grey nature. So we excuse ourselves from learning to create excitement when real excitement only comes from within. In the middle other than boredom the next battle is tired/pain/and exhaustion. I call these the three amigos. The three amigos don’t want you to win. But they are so real. It hurts to run 5 miles every day. It is mentally exhausting to run the 15th tranche of five miles. The end isn’t even in sight. And you are tired of it. In the middle the battle is real so people quit to avoid the battle. In the middle greatness happens if you just do the three simple things no matter what. In the middle champions are created. Because they kept doing the three simple things. In the middle you have to kill of your reasons and never excuse yourself ever. Stop looking for a way out. Look for a way in through the bullshit that are your reasons. The true battle in your life is to win this exchange. So my respect is to the people who joined our team to win this battle. It is amazing to witness the changes in you. I know it may not feel good, or may seem no one knows. We know because we are doing out 21 day challenge with you. And we too are in our battle. But I know how to get through. Kill your excuses. We will get you through. Write down every reason that comes up and carry those reasons around and read them when you want to quit. I quit on making a million dollars because my friends said I was stupid. I quit because my foot hurt. If it didn’t hurt I would be an Olympic athlete. Imagine reading those excuses to your kids!
Preparing For the PANCE/PANRE Exam: Conversation with Certified Medical Educators The thing standing between you and becoming a PA, other than school of course, is the PANCE exam. The Physician Assistant National Certification Exam is the ultimate goal of your PA training; it is THE comprehensive review of everything you learned in PA school. Passing this test is the last hurdle to becoming a Certified Physician Assistant and getting started in your career. There are multiple tactics people use to best prepare for this test, so for today’s episode I asked Mike Nowak PA-C, director of Certified Medical Educators and a practicing PA to join me on the podcast. Mike has trained thousands of PAs over the years during his three- and five-day review courses and shares his best study tips and test recommendations with us. Find Mike Nowak, PA-C and Certified Medical Educators here: FACEBOOK: CertMedEd facebook page WEBSITE: Certified medical educators Links from Episode 9 Amazon links are “affiliate links” which means I earn a couple of dollars if you purchase using that link at no extra cost you. It’s a great way to help support PA startup, the podcast, and helps us continue our efforts. NCCPA blueprint Current Medical Diagnosis and Treatment, Comprehensive book (The “Blue Bible”) 2019 Edition-https://amzn.to/2HWpY5O 2018 Edition-https://amzn.to/2FKjfbV Flashcards–https://amzn.to/2WJVgk2 CMDT Specialty Guides Family Medicine–https://amzn.to/2FJabE2 Cardiology–https://amzn.to/2HVUbSy Surgery–https://amzn.to/2WKgwGd Pediatrics–https://amzn.to/2CQJdJX OBGYN–https://amzn.to/2Id1WTL Geriatrics–https://amzn.to/2FKM1Jf Orthopedics–https://amzn.to/2I3Hkx7 Gastroenterology–https://amzn.to/2I3HKDH Emergency Medicine–https://amzn.to/2FTt5cx HIGHLIGHTS—Time stamps of pertinent info for quick reference: 0:03–Killer Intro Music 0:27–Chris Darst, PA-C Has a Cold (er, Upper Respiratory Infection) 6:03–Hawaii Review Course! 10:20–Setting up a Study Schedule 13:40–Strategic Studying 15:08–Lag Time for New Information 17:53–Board Review Courses 18:43–Differences Between PANCE/PANRE 20:22–When Should Studying Start? 23:40–Variety with Studying 26:15–Why People Fail the PANCE Exam 29:24–Best Study Advice I’ve Heard 30:49–Test Taking Tips 35:30–Looking Forward: Preparing for your next boards
Siimon Reynolds - a successful entrepreneur, an award winning author and speaker and now a leading high performance coach for CEO's and entrepreneurs, is also one of my good friends. After becoming a Creative Director of a top advertising agency at just age 21, Siimon went on to win almost every major advertising award for creativity in the world, including the Gold Lion at Cannes, TV Commercial Of The Year, Magazine Ad Of The Year, Newspaper Ad Of The Year, and Agency Of The Year twice. Catching up at his home in LA, we spoke, strangely enough, not just about what it takes to achieve success - but more importantly, about what leaders can learn from failure - based on his most recent bestselling book, ‘Why People Fail’.
Siimon Reynolds - a successful entrepreneur, an award winning author and speaker and now a leading high performance coach for CEO's and entrepreneurs, is also one of my good friends. After becoming a Creative Director of a top advertising agency at just age 21, Siimon went on to win almost every major advertising award for creativity in the world, including the Gold Lion at Cannes, TV Commercial Of The Year, Magazine Ad Of The Year, Newspaper Ad Of The Year, and Agency Of The Year twice. Catching up at his home in LA, we spoke, strangely enough, not just about what it takes to achieve success - but more importantly, about what leaders can learn from failure - based on his most recent bestselling book, ‘Why People Fail’.
Why People Fail with Siimon Reynolds How can you make sure to not fail, but succeed! The media always seems to focus on those who are successful. But failure should be addressed, as well. Most successful people have failed many times, and failures happen more than successes! “Failure, for any ambitious person, is their constant companion. Success is only occasional,” said Siimon Reynolds. * Press play above to listen to this weeks Podcast * Simmon Reynolds is an internationally renowned expert on the predictable science of success and achievement. Also, he is a marketing guru and the co-founder of the Photon Group, a marketing services group. Plus, he is an author who wrote Why People Fail. There are several primary causes for people to fail: poor self-image, lack of a daily ritual, lack of clarity, and shortage of energy. Siimon shares many tips on how to be more successful, including listing reasons why you can achieve something, meditating, creating a business plan, evaluating and refining marketing efforts, being positive and a kind person, and being persistent. Study failure and understand it. Then you can unlock the key to success! In this episode of Business Brain Food you will learn: ** Why failures, not only successes, should be discussed ** Reasons why people fail ** Tips to be more successful ** Strategy for turning failures into positive results ** How to learn from competitors Resources mentioned in this episode: ** The Fortune Institute: www.thefortuneinstitute.com ** Why People Fail: www.amazon.com/Why-People-Fail-Obstacles-Overcome/dp/1118106172 ** Ben Fewtrell LinkedIn: inkedin.com/in/benfewtrell ** Ben Fewtrell Twitter: twitter.com/bfewtrell ** Ben Fewtrell Facebook: facebook.com/ActioncoachANZ ** Break Through Your Glass Ceiling with the Power of Strategic Planning: actioncoachanz.com/strategicplanningwebinar ** Brad Sugars: bradsugars.com ** Martin Seligman: psychology.sas.upenn.edu/people/seligman ** Barbara Fredrickson: www.amazon.com/Positivity-Top-Notch-Research-Reveals-Upward/dp/0307393747 ** Robert Cialdini: www.influenceatwork.com ** Tony Robbins: www.tonyrobbins.com ** Henry David Thoreau: www.biography.com/people/henry-david-thoreau-9506784 ** Sam Walton: corporate.walmart.com/our-story/history/sam-walton ** Starbucks App: www.starbucks.com/coffeehouse/mobile-apps ** thefortuneinstitue.com What does it take to be successful and avoid failure? As an entrepreneur, use the tips provided by Reynolds in this podcast! Also, if you are enjoying these Business Brain Food podcasts, then make sure to share them via social media sites or email the links to family and friends. A lot of time and effort goes into producing each of these podcasts with the goal in mind of the more people we can inspire about business the better. You can help us do just that! Until next time, have a profitable day. Cheers, Ben Fewtrell (02) 9111 5000
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Failure is a natural part of the learning and growth process and a topic that Siimon Reynolds dedicated an entire book on. His book is entitled "Why People Fail" and it hits home on the importance of mastering failure to achieve your aims, hopes and dreams. Failure is the ambitious person's constant companion. It can dog you for months, years or even decades before you finally achieve your goal. Siimon was a guest on HCL Radio on we discussed his book and the notion of failure in great detail. He said, "Successful people fail more then failures but they keep persisting and adjusting their strategies until they finally gt where they want to go." HCL Radio - Where developing leaders is more then just a game!
Failure is a natural part of the learning and growth process and a topic that Siimon Reynolds dedicated an entire book on. His book is entitled "Why People Fail" and it hits home on the importance of mastering failure to achieve your aims, hopes and dreams. Failure is the ambitious person's constant companion. It can dog you for months, years or even decades before you finally achieve your goal. Siimon was a guest on HCL Radio on we discussed his book and the notion of failure in great detail. He said, "Successful people fail more then failures but they keep persisting and adjusting their strategies until they finally gt where they want to go." HCL Radio - Where developing leaders is more then just a game!