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Martin Seligman descubrió, estudiando a vendedores de MetLife, que quienes mejor resistían el rechazo no eran necesariamente los más talentosos, sino quienes sabían explicarse el fracaso de una forma más optimista y precisa. La gran lección: no siempre podemos controlar el resultado, pero sí podemos entrenar la historia que nos contamos después de fallar. Cuando dejamos de ver el error como una sentencia personal y empezamos a verlo como feedback, recuperamos energía, claridad y dirección.
Notre rapport à la prudence est brouillé. On en fait soit une vertu craintive qui freine l'action, soit un prétexte pour ne jamais trancher. Pourtant, au sens d'Aristote, la prudence est la vertu de l'action intelligente — voir en avance pour agir mieux.Dans cet épisode, Raphaëlle de Foucauld explore la prudence sous un angle nouveau, nourri par la psychologie positive et les neurosciences. Elle aborde l'optiréalisme de Martin Seligman, la régulation émotionnelle selon Damasio, et trois dimensions concrètes à cultiver au quotidien : l'autocontrôle, la patience et le courage.Elle invite aussi à une forme de prudence dont on parle peu : la prudence dans la parole. Avant d'ouvrir la bouche dans une conversation difficile, se demander si ce que l'on va dire va faire grandir la relation… ou l'abîmer.Un épisode pour sortir de la réactivité permanente et reprendre les commandes de ses choix.***********Retrouvez le texte de l'épisode sur notre blog.En vous abonnant sur Itunes pour recevoir les notifications et en nous laissant un avis, vous nous envoyez des bulles de bonheur !En suivant notre actu sur FB @2minutesdebonheur et sur insta @2minutesdebonheur, vous profiterez gratuitement de pleins de trucs, d'astuces et de mises en pratique liés au podcast de la semaine.Inscrivez-vous à la newsletter, vous serez ainsi notifié de nos nouveaux épisodes et vous recevrez un cadeau !Et surtout, partagez nos épisodes à tous ceux qui veulent prendre le temps d'être heureux !Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.
Calming the mind sounds simple, right? And yet most of us would rather do almost anything other than sitting quietly with our thoughts. In this episode, Dr. Aimee Prasek and Dr. Henry Emmons dig into the science of Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs), the surprising research on just how much we think, and the powerful practice of the observer self: the part of your mind that can step back, see what's happening, and choose differently. This episode makes the case that our relationship with our own minds might be the most important resilience work we do. Try It Free
In this episode, I explore why criticism can feel so painful for those of us who went to boarding school.For many ex-boarders, criticism does not simply feel like feedback. It can feel like danger. It can activate old patterns of shame, fear, compliance, dissociation or defensiveness.I reflect on boarding school conditioning, the fear of getting things wrong, Nick Duffell's work on wounded leaders, David Cameron's response to criticism, Rick Hanson's “Velcro for negativity and Teflon for positivity,” and Martin Seligman's three Ps: personal, permanent and pervasive.I also share practical ways to regulate the nervous system before responding, and why learning to receive feedback is essential for leadership, intimacy and growth.---Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/
Everyone gets off track with eating sometimes, even your host, Dr. Lisa Oldson. In this episode, Dr. Lisa shares an embarrassingly relatable Easter weekend story and walks you through her No Sweat, Reset Protocol. This compassionate, science-backed plan will help you get back on track after overeating or bingeing, without restriction, punishment, or shame. You'll learn why restricting after a binge makes cravings worse, what the dopamine crash after overeating does to your brain, and how to use psychologist Martin Seligman's optimistic explanatory style to stop the mean girl comments in their tracks. Plus: the 3-day reset eating plan, the harm mitigation mindset shift, and exactly what to eat right after getting off track. If you've ever felt derailed from your weight loss goals by a bad eating day and didn't know how to come back from it, this episode is for you.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our Weight Loss Strategy Lab at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…we'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.The Smart Weight Loss Coaching Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult your physician or a qualified healthcare provider before starting, stopping, or changing any medication.
What if the quietest person in the room is also the most dangerous observer in it? In this episode, Ben and Bob are joined by leadership coach Marcel for a conversation that cuts straight to the behavioural mechanics of humility.Marcel can be found https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcelvandehoef/And here for more insight from him and here Not the watered-down, doormat version the word often conjures, but the kind that functions as a precision instrument for reading people, reading rooms, and reading yourself. The conversation covers why silence in a meeting is not passivity, how the humble observer collects information that the loudest voice in the room never will, what Marcus Aurelius knew about staying grounded under social pressure, the difference between empathy and compassion when analysing another person's behaviour, and why political culture is one of the last environments where genuine humility can survive. If you work in investigation, behavioural analysis, leadership, or any field where reading people accurately gives you an edge, this one is built for you.Martin Seligman's work on character strengths is referenced throughout. Timothy Leary's interpersonal circumplex is discussed in the context of positioning within conversations. The coaching framework of staying curious longer, developed by Michael Bungay Stanier, also features. Subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss an episode #BehaviouralAnalysis #CriticalThinking #BehaviouralScience #podcast
Hope is one of the 24 VIA Character Strengths identified by Martin Seligman and Chris Peterson back in 2004 and included in the Values in Action inventory that they created. In this episode we explore how Seligman and Peterson defined Hope. We also introduce Rick Snyder's 'Hope Theory' and discuss other ways that we might consider the concept and how it relates to coaching. Tom provides a very personal account of his own relationship with Hope and his VIA Character Strengths report as life has unfolded over the last 7 years. We hope that our conversation on the topic will spark some ideas for you around the benefits of discussing Hope, along with other Character Strengths in the coaching room. Enjoy the podcast? If you're enjoying the podcast it would be great if you left us a review here or wherever you listen to your podcasts. Contact Details Find out about our Doctors' Transformational Coaching Diploma Connect with the hosts: Tom: www.linkedin.com/in/tomdillondoctorstranformationalcoachingdiploma/ Email: tomdillon@yourcoachingjourney.co.uk Helen: www.linkedin.com/in/helenleathers/ Email: helenleathers@yourcoachingjourney.co.uk Follow 'Your Coaching Journey' on Instagram or Linkedin: www.instagram.com/yourcoachingjourney/ www.linkedin.com/company/your-coaching-journey/ Do You Have a Question? From time to time we will have an episode where we answer listeners' questions about coaching. If you have a question, please send it to us using one of our email addresses above and you may get a mention in a future episode. (If you want to remain anonymous, that's absolutely fine, just let us know)
DJ Paris is the Host of the "Men on Point" Podcast, which focuses on the challenges men face. He is also the host of the "Keeping in Real" Podcast, which focuses on the elite performers in real estate. 0.00: Intro 2.00: Why DJ started his "Men on Point" Podcast 6.00: The epidemic of loneliness among men. 9.00: Link between our physical health and our mental health 20.00: Why we need to do hard things 22.00: The importance of good modelling by parents 28.00: The gifts from therapy (everything is lenses) 30.00: Importance of Mindfulness 35.00: Seeing your anger as an outside observer 41.00: Martin Seligman and "Positive Psychology" 42.00: How "Think and Grow Rich" changed DJs life 48.00: How all your self improvement makes you a better father Check out the latest episode here: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enter-the-lionheart/id1554904704 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4tD7VvMUvnOgChoNYShbcI #mentalhealth #mindset #health #entrepreneur #mindfulness #loneliness #self-improvement
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In this episode, we dive into the "Anxiety Trance"—the state where your brain becomes hypnotized by its own negative stories. Many people believe anxiety is simply worrying about the future, but it is actually driven by your explanatory style: the way you explain setbacks to yourself.Drawing on the research of Martin Seligman and the principles of positive psychology, I break down the three cognitive traps that keep you stuck in an anxiety spiral: Permanence, Pervasiveness, and Personalization.What You Will Learn:The Anatomy of the Trance: Why your brain assigns catastrophic meanings to simple events.The 3 Traps: How "Always," "Everything," and "Me" thinking fuels learned helplessness.The ABCDE Framework: A step-by-step guide to interrupting the program:Adversity: Stripping the event down to the facts.Belief: Identifying the automatic "hypnotic" thoughts.Consequence: Noticing the physical and emotional shift.Disputation: Becoming your own defense lawyer.Energization: Finding the counter-evidence to shift your state.The Hypnotherapy Edge: Why willpower isn't enough and how to address the subconscious programs formed during the childhood "imprint period".Practical Exercise:This week, simply try to "catch" the pattern. When you feel an anxiety spike, name which of the three traps you are falling into. Once you observe the pattern, you are no longer fully inside the trance.Connect with Mark Stubbles:Newsletter: Mark Stubbles (Anxiety Hypnotherapist) on SubstackWebsite: markstubbles.com
En este episodio de La Espuma de los Días, Adela Najmias y Margie Amkie explican la alegría como una emoción que impulsa acción, muestran cómo se combina con otras emociones para generar respuestas como el valor y cuestionan la idea de felicidad ligada a lo material, mientras retoman el modelo PERMA de Martin Seligman para hablar de pensamientos, compromiso, relaciones, significado y logros, y cómo aplicar esto en niños mediante el vínculo, los intereses y el equilibrio emocional.
¿Cuánto tiempo llevamos quejándonos del mismo problema? No del de esta semana. Del de hace meses, del de hace años. Y la pregunta que cambia todo: ¿quejarnos de eso nos ha ayudado a cambiarlo?En este episodio de Vuelve a Casa, Ángel López va al fondo de uno de los patrones más extendidos y menos cuestionados de nuestra vida cotidiana: la queja como adicción.Porque la queja no es inocente. Tiene una lógica neurológica que la sostiene, un coste emocional que no vemos y una salida, si decidimos tomarla.En este episodio encontrarás:· Por qué el cerebro se engancha a la queja: dopamina social, ilusión de control y protección del ego. La ciencia detrás del hábito.· Shantideva y los kleshas: los estados mentales aflictivos del budismo Mahayana y su conexión directa con la queja adictiva.· Martin Seligman y el estilo explicativo: por qué algunas personas se recuperan de la adversidad y otras se quedan atascadas en ella.· La distinción que lo cambia todo: la diferencia entre queja adictiva y petición consciente. Pasar del estado pasivo a la acción que transforma.· Cinco herramientas prácticas para interrumpir el ciclo: desde el registro de quejas hasta la conversación que no nos atrevemos a tener.Un episodio especialmente relevante para quienes trabajan en entornos de alta exigencia, lideran equipos o simplemente sienten que llevan demasiado tiempo dando vueltas al mismo malestar.Apúntate a Másterclass: Espiritualidad: El camino para dejar de sufrir que tendrá lugar el 11 de abril a las 16h (ESP) | las 8h (MEX) por Zoom (quedará grabado).Ángel López es conferencista, formador y autor de los libros El Método del Estrés Positivo (con Rebeca López) y La vida es otra cosa, y mentor en educación socioemocional, mindfulness y liderazgo consciente.Síguele en Instagram @vivirconangel · Newsletter y cursos en vivirconangel.com · Si este episodio te ha movido algo, compártelo con quien sientas que lo necesita.
Sonja Lyubomirsky is one of the most influential happiness researchers of our time. Sonja moved to the United States from Moscow at age 9 in the 70s. She went to Harvard and Stanford in the 80s and began studying happiness in 1989 ... longer than almost anyone else alive! Positive psychology wasn't "founded" by Martin Seligman and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi for another decade. Sonja has published hundreds of papers including her Most Cited 2005 paper which defined the field by flipping a long-held assumption on its head: That happiness doesn't follow success but causes it. Sonja is now following up her bestsellers 'The How of Happiness' and 'The Myths Of Happiness' with a new book called 'How to Feel Loved', a joint effort co-written with relationship expert Dr. Harry Reis, which is a culmination of 30 years of research that all point to one central truth: that feeling loved (not just being loved!) is a crucial ingredient of happiness. In this conversation we talk about the four horsemen that can ruin a marriage, what MDMA does to our brains, why small talk doesn't build connection, the best advice for dating, how our brains respond to love, the single best way to feel happier today, and, of course, the eminent Professor Sonja Lyubomirsky's 3 most formative books. Let's flip the page to Chapter 158 now...
Vivimos en una época donde parecer seguro es casi obligatorio, donde tener respuestas rápidas parece más valioso que hacer buenas preguntas y donde reconocer un error puede interpretarse como debilidad.En este episodio de Vuelve a Casa hablo de una habilidad profundamente mal entendida en el siglo XXI: la humildad.Desde la Psicología Positiva, con el marco de fortalezas del carácter del VIA Institute on Character y los estudios de Martin Seligman y Peterson, exploramos la humildad como una verdadera fortaleza: la capacidad de reconocer límites, mantener una autoestima regulada y seguir aprendiendo.Y lo conecto con esta mirada con el principio budista de la “mente de principiante”, descrito por Shunryu Suzuki en Mente zen, mente de principiante, y entendemos cómo la apertura, la flexibilidad y la capacidad de escucha nos permiten vivir con menos ego y más presencia.También profundizo en:• La diferencia entre humildad, soberbia y arrogancia• Cómo la soberbia nace del miedo y agota nuestras relaciones• El impacto de la falta de humildad en organizaciones, liderazgo, familias y vínculos• Por qué la humildad reduce el estrés y relaja el sistema nervioso• Cinco claves prácticas para cultivar humildad en lo cotidianoPorque cuando bajamos la soberbia, no perdemos autoridad… recuperamos humanidad.Un episodio para reflexionar sobre cómo nos posicionamos ante la vida, el aprendizaje y el otro.Si quieres saber más de Ángel López puedes ver su Instagram @vivirconangel y su web https://vivirconangel.com y apuntarte a su newsletter donde manda información actualizada y muchas reflexiones para entender que “la vida es otra cosa”.No olvides compartir este episodio con quien sientas que lo necesite y, si te apetece, escríbele un mensaje sobre cómo has vivido este podcast y cuáles son las reflexiones que te llevas. Siempre lee los mensajes.
This edWeb podcast is part of a series of WebBriefs hosted by The Alliance of Former Chief State School Officers.The meeting recording can be accessed here.This edWeb podcast, hosted by the Alliance of Former Chief State School Officers, explores the pursuit of happiness as a foundational American ideal and its modern applications in positive psychology to boost student outcomes.The session opens with the pursuit of happiness from the Declaration of Independence, drawing on National Constitution Center insights into Thomas Jefferson and Benjamin Franklin's debates on this right as essential to liberty and self-governance.Next, an overview of positive psychology traces its origins to Martin Seligman, its founding father, who shifted focus from pathology to strengths, well-being, and flourishing. This leads into Shawn Achor's acclaimed TED Talk, rooted in his Harvard research—where he earned over a dozen teaching awards for the university's most popular positive psychology course—demonstrating how optimism training enhances productivity, reading, and math scores in schools and businesses.The presentation concludes with open dialogue among Alliance members, sharing personal experiences of pursuing happiness in educational leadership and policy.Learn more about viewing live edWeb presentations and on-demand recordings, earning CE certificates, and using accessibility features.
Happy New Year! This is the time of year when people make big changes. So, I'm bringing back my conversation with the co-author of Tomorrowmind. It's a fascinating book and especially relevant at this time of the year. Dr. Gabriella Rosen Kellerman writes that that career trajectories used to be like steamships (full steam ahead), and then they became more like sailboats (lots of tacking), but now we're swirling in whitewater. So how can we stay afloat? How can we flourish? “When you're kayaking in the whitewater. It's hard to get a sense of what could be around the bend, but if you know if what's coming up is a sudden cascade or versus another, you know, set of gentle bumps, or maybe it's a calmer space in the river, it can give you a great advantage.”On this episode of CRAFTED., we focus on PRISM, the five key skill groups that Gabriella says can help you be more successful: Prospection, Resilience, Innovation and creativity, Social support by way of rapid rapport, and Mattering and meaning. Gabriella was until recently the Chief Product Officer at BetterUp, a platform that helps organizations and people level up through a mixture of human and AI coaching. She originally appeared on the show in a two-part episode. Part one is includes more on the tomorrowmind skills and her career path; in part two, she describes how BetterUp builds products and innovated under her leadership. And stay tuned as we employ our own tomorrowminds here at CRAFTED... there are some big changes to the show, including a new name, coming this month!---Featured voices:Dr. Gabriella Rosen Kellerman, Partner at BCG, former CPO of BetterUp, and co-author, with Martin Seligman, of Tomorrowmind Me (Dan Blumberg) — I'm the host of CRAFTED. and the founder of Modern Product Minds. HMU if you want to build something great! I love building from zero to one.---And if you please…Share with a friend! Word of mouth is by far the most powerful way for podcasts to growSubscribe to the CRAFTED. newsletter at crafted.fmShare your feedback! I'm experimenting with new episode formats and would love your honest feedback on this and other episodes. Email me: dan@modernproductminds.com or DM me on LinkedInSponsor the show? I'm actively speaking to potential sponsors for 2026 episodes. Drop me a line and let's talk.Get psyched!… There are some big updates to this show coming soon!
The Dancing Housewife Podcast (formerly Coffee Break with The Dancing Housewife)
This week The Dancing Housewife dives deep into the concept of learned helplessness and its impact on ballroom dancers. Often, dancers feel discouraged despite their relentless efforts, thinking their hard work doesn't lead to improvement. Learn about the psychological roots of this phenomenon, originally studied by psychologists Martin Seligman and Steven Maier, and discover ways to combat it. We'll discuss how ballroom dance conditions dancers to feel powerless, and provide actionable steps to restore control, clarity, and motivation. By understanding and addressing learned helplessness, dancers can reignite their passion and thrive in their art. Join us to explore this important topic and learn how to turn setbacks into opportunities for growth.
The Transformative Power of Gratitude: How Noticing the “Why” Deepens Connection In this Thanksgiving-week episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the healing power of gratitude—both in everyday life and in relationships. What begins as a simple conversation about what they're grateful for quickly deepens into an exploration of why certain people, moments, and memories hold meaning. Drawing on the work of Dr. Martin Seligman, Dr. Skinner emphasizes that identifying the “why” behind our gratitude—not just naming the object of it—creates a more emotionally rich and neurologically uplifting experience. MaryAnn highlights the reality that family can be both a source of deep gratitude and profound pain. For those who lack supportive family relationships, they offer practical ways to find gratitude in mentors, ancestors, teachers, or meaningful communities—the “tribes” we discover along the way. Together, they reflect on how gratitude acts as a natural antidepressant, shifting our emotional state, reducing stress, increasing joy, and strengthening attachment bonds. Listeners are invited to slow down, reflect on the people who have shaped them, and express gratitude in intentional, meaningful ways—especially during the holiday season. Dr. Skinner closes with a heartfelt message of appreciation for listeners, along with a reminder that practicing gratitude is one of the most powerful tools for healing, connection, and resilience. Resources Mentioned & Related Readings Books & Research Referenced Martin Seligman – Flourish; research on gratitude, positive psychology, and well-being Brené Brown – The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly (concepts of shame, worthiness, and connection) Thich Nhat Hanh – Teachings on connection, compassion, and human interdependence John Gottman, PhD – Research on positive sentiment override and gratitude in relationships Robert Emmons, PhD – Leading researcher on gratitude as a psychological tool Stephen Porges, PhD – Polyvagal Theory (connection, co-regulation, and emotional safety) Therapeutic Concepts Referenced Gratitude journaling The “why” exercise from Martin Seligman Gratitude as a natural antidepressant Finding your tribe / community-based support Intergenerational resources (ancestral resilience) Practical Tools & Strategies Write down what you are grateful for and why it matters Gratitude lists (daily or weekly) Expressing gratitude directly to loved ones Identifying people from past or present who modeled love, stability, or compassion Using gratitude to shift emotional states and reduce anxiety or depression Human Intimacy Resources Human Intimacy Conference 2026 (Coupon Code: Black-Friday discount mentioned in episode) HumanIntimacy.com for courses, podcasts, and healing resources Upcoming episodes focused on healing, connection, and relationship resilience
Do you long for something deeper in your life? Are you innately drawn toward spirituality and curious about what you may find? Do you think we as humans are naturally wired to search for deeper meaning in our lives? Whether it be a walk in the woods, or through mediation or prayer, our guest today, Dr. Lisa Miller, believes that we are naturally able to tap into a heightened awareness of the world around us. We are able to cultivate circuits in our brains which help us to become more spiritually aware. By developing this awareness, we can begin to free ourselves from depression, anxiety, loss of creativity, and so much more. We can consider things from a more awakened, more elevated perspective. Dr. Miller believes when we feel depressed, this is an alert asking us for deeper spiritual exploration. Dr. Miller is a professor in the Clinical Psychology Program at Teachers College, Columbia University, where she founded the Spirituality Mind Body Institute, the first Ivy League graduate program and research institute in spirituality and psychology. She has been with the Department of Psychiatry at Columbia University Medical School for more than a decade. Dr. Miller is the NYT bestselling author of "The Spiritual Child" and her latest book is "The Awakened Brain." She is the Editor of the Oxford University Press Handbook of Psychology and Spirituality, Founding Co-Editor-in-Chief of the APA journal "Spirituality in Clinical Practice," an elected Fellow of The American Psychological Association (APA) and the two-time President of the APA Society for Psychology and Spirituality. A graduate of Yale University and University of Pennsylvania, she earned her doctorate under the founder of positive psychology, Martin Seligman, and she has served as Principal Investigator on multiple grant-funded research studies. Info: LisaMillerPhD.com.
Eleva tu energía y transforma tus días con tu nuevo DIARIO DE GRATITUD, descárgalo completamente gratis aquí: https://www.mardelcerro.com/gratitudEn este episodio, tengo en honor de platicar con Laura Martín, periodista especializada en Psicología Positiva Aplicada y fundadora de La Mujer Maravillosa.Laura comparte su experiencia con la Psicología Positiva de Martin Seligman, el estudio de las fortalezas personales y cómo usarlas con equilibrio para construir hábitos coherentes con tu bienestar. También hablamos del valor de las preguntas difíciles, del poder de la presencia y de la importancia de soltar las máscaras para volver a tu ritmo.Si sientes que estás cansada de correr, que te cuesta bajar el ritmo o que has vivido intentando agradar a todos, esta charla te va a recordar que no necesitas cambiar: solo entenderte mejor.Si te gustó este episodio te invito a escuchar:El error invisible que sabotea tus sueños (y cómo transformarlo) https://youtu.be/nSP6UiW7IncMúsica Relajante para Reducir Estrés, Ansiedad y Tensiones https://youtu.be/MYzQnJnhCBkMeditación para soltar la energía negativa y el estrés https://youtu.be/fo0HSHiulp8Más acerca de Laura:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lamujermaravillosa_/Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2pAaMDVydMR37KZaItXB0M?si=7aa8b9b5489c4d98
Our very special guest today is Angus Fletcher, professor of story science at Ohio State's Project Narrative. His research has been called “life-changing” by Brené Brown and “mind blowing” by Malcolm Gladwell; has been endorsed by psychologists, neuroscientists, and doctors such as Martin Seligman and Antonio Damasio; and has been supported by institutions ranging from the National Science Foundation to the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. In 2023, he was awarded the Commendation Medal by the U.S. Army for his “groundbreaking research” with U.S. Army Special Operations into primal intelligence. His latest book is called Primal Intelligence: You Are Smarter Than You Know. There are very few books or writers who have affected me as much as Angus and this book have. In the few weeks since I have read it, my coaching has changed. My thoughts about intuition, imagination and emotion have changed. I've watched close to 20 videos featuring Angus on youtube… and I don't typically ever watch that many videos about one person. Dr. Fletcher says that as humans, we think in story, not in words or pictures. He has plenty of research and street cred to back this up. Hollywood studios consult with him regularly. In addition to everything else, he's a screenwriter, and a very compelling author. I could go on and on but that wouldn't leave much time for us to talk, would it? So I will start with something familiar, and soon you will discover how mind-blowingly different some of Angus's groundbreaking ideas are. But first, the amazingly familiar part… Copy is powerful. You're responsible for how you use what you hear on this podcast. Most of the time, common sense is all you need. But if you make extreme claims... and/or if you're writing copy for offers in highly regulated industries like health, finance, and business opportunity... you may want to get a legal review after you write and before you start using your copy. My larger clients do this all the time. 1. A lot of people in the direct marketing community have felt boxed-in by the conventional wisdom that the only true kind of story is a hero's journey. I believe you have a very different point of view about stories, that includes that anatomy of the brain. Could you tell us about it? 2. Let's talk about primal intelligence. When I first found out about your book and before I read it, my guess about primal intelligence was, well, pretty primal. Lizard brain stuff. That is, the animal description that you either mate with something, or you kill it, or you eat it. You have a different and I think much more sophisticated and I would say much more useful definition of primal intelligence and it has to do with four qualities of thinking that have nothing to do with logic. Could you talk about that? 3. Our listeners are copywriters and business owners who use direct response copy in their businesses. Pragmatic creativity is high on the list of capabilities people always want to increase. Could you share your thoughts on what creativity is, from the point of view of primal intelligence? And how to increase our abilities to be creative? 4. In your book there's a surprisingly long list of people, including politicians, scientists and even a famous classical composer, as well as writers, who have mentioned Shakespeare as a major influence in their lives. What is it about Shakespeare's work that is so valuable to all these people? 5. Can you give us some more tips about using stories in our content and advertising that will capture people's attention and help us with our businesses? 6. Tell us about your work with Army special operators? 7. Would you like to give us a preview of the book Primal Intelligence? Links: Primal Intelligence https://www.amazon.com/Primal-Intelligence-Smarter-Than-Know/dp/0593715306 Angus's LinkedIn Address https://www.linkedin.com/in/angus-fletcher-99713617/ Download.
Resilient Couples: How to Stay Strong Through Life's Hardest Challenges Summary: In this inspiring episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, explore what it means to build resiliency as individuals and as couples—especially in the face of life's most difficult challenges. Drawing from personal experiences, research, and decades of clinical work, they discuss the essential components of resilience: adaptability, emotional regulation, flexibility, and hope. The conversation delves into why emotional self-awareness is the foundation of resilient relationships, how couples can “fight well,” and what it means to create safety before deeper connection can occur. They reference experts such as Dr. Al Siebert, Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Stephen Porges, and Dr. Martin Seligman, offering insights into the neurobiology of resilience and the relational skills that sustain connection through adversity. Listeners will walk away with practical strategies to strengthen their emotional core, improve communication, and cultivate hope—even in seasons of deep pain or uncertainty. Key Takeaways: Resiliency begins with emotional regulation and self-awareness. Adaptability and flexibility are learned skills that sustain connection. Safety is the foundation for relational repair after trauma. Emotional intelligence helps us stay curious and connected rather than reactive. Hope is a neurological process—and a critical part of healing together. Resources Mentioned: The Survivor Personality – Dr. Al Siebert The Body Keeps the Score – Dr. Bessel van der Kolk Polyvagal Theory – Dr. Stephen Porges The Whole-Brain Child & Mindsight – Dr. Dan Siegel Emotional Intelligence – Dr. Daniel Goleman The Hope Circuit – Dr. Martin Seligman Treating Sexual Addiction: A Compassionate Approach – Dr. Kevin Skinner HumanIntimacy.com – Courses: Companionship Course, Rise: Hope and Healing from Sexual Betrayal, and Reclaim: Healing from Pornography
Crezi că viața personală și cea profesională sunt două lumi separate? În acest episod, explorăm o perspectivă diferită: munca ca parte integrantă a sensului vieții noastre, nu ca o sferă separată pe care trebuie să o echilibrăm cu restul existenței.Ce vei descoperi în acest episod:De ce conceptul de "work-life balance" poate fi înșelător și cum să privim sensul muncii ca parte din sensul viețiiCele trei nevoi fundamentale care ne motivează intrinsec: autonomia, măiestria și sensul (Daniel Pink)Cum teoria autodeterminării (Deci & Ryan) explică de ce avem nevoie de competență, autonomie și relații apropiateModelul PERMA al lui Martin Seligman pentru o viață împlinită: emoții pozitive, angajament, relații, sens și realizăriFilosofia lui Viktor Frankl despre puterea "De ce"-ului în a depăși orice "Cum"Paradoxul organizațional: de ce a face oamenii ușor de înlocuit poate limita contribuția lor realăCum ficțiunile împărtășite ne permit să colaborăm la scară largă (Yuval Harari)Tendința naturală către autoactualizare în condiții potrivite pentru creștere Pentru cine este acest episod:Acest episod este dedicat oricui simte că munca sa nu are suficient sens, managerilor care vor să creeze organizații unde oamenii prosperă, și tuturor celor care caută să-și înțeleagă mai bine motivațiile profunde și să-și construiască o viață profesională autentică și împlinitoare.Date cheie din episod:Autonomie, măiestrie și sens ca piloni ai motivației intrinseci (Daniel Pink)Teoria autodeterminării: competență + autonomie + relații (Deci & Ryan)PERMA: Positive emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, Achievement (Seligman)"Cel ce-și găsește 'De ce'-ul poate îndura aproape orice 'Cum'" (Viktor Frankl)Tensiunea între a fi ușor de înlocuit și contribuție unicăFicțiunile colective ca fundament al colaborării umane (Harari)Modelul Evoluției Conștiinței al lui Richard BarrettResurse: 1. Daniel Pink, Drive2. Edward Deci și Richard Ryan, Teoria autodeterminării3. Martin Seligman, Modelul PERMA4. Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning5. Yuval Noah Harari, Sapiens6. Abraham Maslow, Piramida nevoilor7. Richard Barrett, Evoluția ConștiințeiAcest episod este produs și distribuit cu susținerea E.ON Energie România.
In this episode you discover how to use Positive EFT to tap in strong feelings of love that flows through your energy system. You then discover how to expand that powerful sense of love to encompass your loved ones, your home, your community, and the entire world.---Resources:Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience". Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Flow-Psychology-Experience-Perennial-Classics/dp/0061339202/ref=sr_1_1Note: Enter the name Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi into YouTube search for multiple videos featuring Dr. Csikszentmihalyi.Martin E. P. Seligman, "Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being". Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Flourish-Visionary-Understanding-Happiness-Well-being/dp/1439190763/ref=sr_1_4Note: Enter the name Martin Seligman in YouTube search to watch multiple videos featuring Dr. Seligman. Podcast episode: "Creating EFT Choices Method Resource States to Achieve Any Goal". https://www.spreaker.com/episode/creating-eft-choices-method-resource-states-to-achieve-any-goal--52465939Note: Enter Dr. Patracia Carrington in YouTube search to see multiple videos featuring Pat Carrington's EFT Choices Method and other topics.Silvia Hartmann, "Positive EFT: Stronger, Faster, Smarter but most of all Happier". Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Positive-EFT-Stronger-Smarter-Happier/dp/1908269359/ref=sr_1_1Note: Enter Silvia Hartmann in YouTube search to see multiple videos featuring Dr. Silvia Hartmann.Heart and Soul Tapping Points Guide: To receive a copy of the Heart and Soul Tapping Points guide, create an email with the subject line, "Heart and Soul Tapping", address it to CarterMethod@gmail.com, and send it off. ---Host: Stephen Carter - Website: https://StressReliefRadio.com - Email: CarterMethod@gmail.com---Technical information:Recording and initial edits with Twisted Wave. Additional edits with Amadeus Pro, Hush, Levelator, Soften, and Audyllic. Final edits and rendering with Hindenburg Pro. Microphone: Rode Procaster for first half of epiosde. Unknown microphone for second part of episode recorded 10 years ago.--- Key words:Emotional_Freedom_Techniques, Thought_Field_Therapy, TFT, emotional_wellbeing, peace, calm, relaxation,---
Worksheet: Your PERMA RecoveryWhat if recovery isn't just about stopping the bad stuff, but actually building something incredible?For too long, we've thought of recovery as simply not using. We white-knuckle our way through each day, fighting urges and saying no to everything that once brought us pleasure. But what happens when you've been sober for months or even years, and you're left thinking, "Is this it? Is this what recovery looks like?"In this powerful episode, hosts Duane and Eric challenge the traditional view of recovery and introduce you to something revolutionary: the science of thriving. They explore how recovery can transform from a grim process of enduring abstinence into an exciting journey of building the life you genuinely want to live.The hosts dive deep into positive psychology – the scientific study of what makes life worth living. Instead of just focusing on what's wrong with us, positive psychology asks a game-changing question: What makes a life flourishing and meaningful?You'll discover the PERMA model, developed by Dr. Martin Seligman, the father of positive psychology. This roadmap breaks down thriving into five key elements: Positive emotions (joy, gratitude, hope), Engagement (finding your flow), Relationships (authentic connections), Meaning (serving something bigger than yourself), and Accomplishment (achieving goals that matter to you).But here's what makes this episode special – it's not just theory. Duane and Eric show you exactly how to take these big concepts and break them down into tiny, manageable steps. You don't need to transform your entire life overnight. You just need to pick one element that resonates with you and take one small step this week.The episode also explores the concept of post-traumatic growth – the idea that hitting rock bottom can actually become the foundation for building something stronger. Like SpaceX learning from rocket explosions to build better spacecraft, your struggles with addiction can teach you lessons that help you create an even more meaningful life.This isn't about ignoring the hard work of staying sober. It's about shifting your focus from just running away from addiction to actively running toward a beautiful vision of your future. The hosts share insights from successful guests who have appeared on The Addicted Mind Podcast – people who don't just avoid their old destructive behaviors, but have built lives so fulfilling that those behaviors have lost their appeal entirely.Whether you're in early recovery feeling like you're just surviving, or you've been sober for years but feel stuck in a rut, this episode offers hope and practical tools. You'll learn how to identify what's missing in your recovery and take concrete steps to build it.Recovery doesn't have to be about deprivation – it can be about inspiration. Your journey isn't just about what you're leaving behind; it's about the incredible life you're building ahead.Key TopicsThe "Dry Drunk" Problem: Why stopping isn't enough and how to move beyond just surviving The PERMA Model: Five building blocks of a thriving life (Positive emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, Accomplishment) Post-Traumatic Growth: How hitting rock bottom can become your foundation for building something stronger From Deprivation to Inspiration: Shifting recovery from enduring abstinence to exciting life-building Micro-Steps Strategy: How to break down big goals into tiny, manageable actions you can't fail at Beyond Traditional Recovery: Moving from fixing what's broken to building what's strongTimestamp[00:01:30] - The dangerous trap of thinking recovery is just about stopping [00:03:00] - What is the "dry drunk" phenomenon and why it happens [00:07:00] - Introduction to positive psychology and the paradigm shift [00:08:30] - Breaking down the PERMA model for thriving in recovery [00:10:30] - Understanding post-traumatic growth and learning from rock bottom [00:13:00] - Practical action steps: How to choose your focus area [00:16:30] - The mindset shift: Running toward something beautiful instead of away from addictionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
How much do you think you can change your personality? This week, Joey and Jess talk about life satisfaction, sad auras, nominative determinism, nature versus nurture, Martin Seligman, magical meat sacks. They don't talk about marinade bags. references Forbes: How Singer-Songwriter EJAE Found Rumi's Voice In ‘KPop Demon Hunters' @thetalesoftayls' sad aura tweet Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Most people's life satisfaction matches their personality traits: True correlations in multitrait, multirater, multisample data. [PDF] Nominative determinism Eeyore Martin Seligman Dungeon Crawler Carl
Worksheet: Uncovering Your SuperpowersWhat if you had superpowers you didn't even know existed? What if the very qualities that could transform your recovery have been hiding inside you all along?In this powerful episode, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind flip the script on traditional recovery thinking. Instead of endlessly focusing on what's broken, they show you how to uncover what's strong. Using tools from positive psychology, they guide you through a process of discovering your hidden character strengths – those amazing qualities that addiction and trauma may have buried but never destroyed.If you've ever looked in the mirror and only seen an addict, a failure, or someone who's fundamentally flawed, this episode is for you. The hosts understand that feeling of being defined entirely by your struggles. They know what it's like when your identity feels completely wrapped up in setbacks and mistakes.But here's the truth they want you to know: You are not broken. You have incredible strengths that are just waiting to be rediscovered.The episode introduces you to groundbreaking research by Dr. Martin Seligman and Dr. Christopher Peterson, who identified 24 character strengths that every person possesses. These aren't made-up feel-good concepts – they're scientifically proven traits like bravery, creativity, kindness, perseverance, and hope that exist in all of us to varying degrees.The research is clear: when people identify their top strengths and find new ways to use them daily, they experience lasting increases in happiness and decreases in depression. This isn't just positive thinking – it's an evidence-based path to wellness.During the episode, you'll participate in a real-time exercise to identify one of your own strengths. The hosts walk you through remembering a time when you overcame a challenge, then help you pinpoint the inner quality that made it possible. Was it courage? Creativity? Persistence? Kindness?But identifying your strength is just the beginning. The real magic happens when you consciously use these strengths in new ways. The hosts provide concrete examples: if your strength is curiosity, spend 15 minutes learning something new. If it's kindness, buy coffee for the person behind you in line. If it's bravery, speak up in that meeting where you usually stay quiet.This approach fundamentally changes how you see yourself. Instead of being someone who needs to fix all their broken parts, you become someone who can build on their existing strengths. You shift from asking "What's wrong with me?" to "What's strong with me?"The hosts are careful to point out this isn't about ignoring challenges or pretending weaknesses don't exist. It's about building up your strengths so you have a solid foundation from which to face difficulties. Both sides of the coin are true – you have challenges AND you have incredible strengths.People in long-term recovery who tap into their strengths become amazingly creative, strong, and resilient. When they start relying on these positive characteristics, transformation happens.This episode includes practical action steps you can take right now, plus access to a free worksheet that guides you through identifying your strengths and planning specific ways to use them. It's designed to help you live the life you want to live in recovery.If you're tired of focusing only on what's wrong and ready to start building on what's right, this episode offers a powerful new perspective. Your strengths have been there all along – it's time to uncover them and put them to work.Key TopicsThe problem with deficit-focused thinking – why constantly focusing on flaws keeps you stuckIntroduction to positive psychology – the science of what makes life worth livingThe 24 universal character strengths – research-backed traits everyone possessesReal-time strength identification exercise – discovering your own superpowers through reflectionPractical implementation strategies – specific ways to use your strengths in daily lifeShifting self-perception – moving from "what's wrong with me" to "what's strong with me"Building on strengths vs. fixing weaknesses – a balanced approach to personal growthStep 4: Timestamp List (7 Key Moments)[00:01:00] - The hidden superpower thought experiment and why we focus on defects instead of strengths[00:03:00] - The narrative of deficits: how seeing yourself as fundamentally flawed keeps you stuck[00:05:00] - Introduction to positive psychology and the 24 universal character strengths research[00:07:00] - Real-life examples of people in recovery tapping into their strengths[00:08:00] - Interactive exercise: identifying your own strength through proud moment reflection[00:09:00] - Taking action: specific ways to use your identified strength this week[00:11:00] - How focusing on strengths fundamentally changes your self-perceptionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Leaders often assume transformation comes from learning new skills or following the latest management trend. But real change begins when we confront our own beliefs, reflect deeply, and choose to step out of victimhood into agency. That inner work is what lays the foundation for lasting growth in how we lead and live. Only then can leaders create change that resonates far beyond the workplace.In this episode of the Happiness Squad Podcast, Ashish Kothari and Shawn Quinn talk about the deep reflection leaders need to build their own reality and move from victimhood to agency in life and leadership.Shawn Quinn is the Managing Partner of Lift Consulting and Faculty Director of the Positive Leadership program at the University of Michigan's Ross School of Business. A leading voice in positive leadership and organizational transformation, he has advised global companies including GE, Coca-Cola, American Express, and the U.S. Army. Shawn is also co-author of Leading Innovation: How to Jumpstart Your Organization's Growth Engine.Shawn and Ashish explored how transformation doesn't come from another training, another framework, or another leadership fad. It happens when we pause, reflect, and face the beliefs that hold us back.Things you will also learn in this episode:• Breaking free from a victim mindset• Why belief shifts matter more than skills in true transformation• The power of small experiments, reflection, and awareness to spark change• How leaders at any level—not just executives—can create meaningful impact• How workplace behaviors ripple outward into family, children, and community• The challenge of systems and people resisting changeTune in now and see for yourself how this shift unlocks the kind of transformation no trend or tactic can deliver.✅Resources:• Related episode: (Robert Quinn) https://player.captivate.fm/episode/1b7c5df6-06e1-4929-83d3-5849caa6b9b5 • Strengthsfinder by Gallup: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/254033/strengthsfinder.aspx • A Fundamental State of Leadership Approach: https://scholar.valpo.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1444&context=jvbl • Charles Snyder's Hope Theory: https://www.mindtools.com/aov3izj/snyders-hope-theory • The Sunflower Model: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/ee784c9c-cf26-48df-b07f-b4c0dcc638f3 • The Sunflower Model: https://happinesssquad.com/the-sunflower-model-career-transition-guide-with-ashish-kothari/ • The Power of the 5:1 Ratio: https://michiganvirtual.org/blog/the-power-of-the-51-ratio-in-the-classroom-how-fostering-positive-interactions-can-transform-student-learning/ • Martin Seligman's Learned Helplessness:
FAN MAIL--We would love YOUR feedback--Send us a Text MessageHave you ever considered that your happiness might be something you can learn rather than simply experience? This eye-opening exploration of Martin Seligman's work reveals one of psychology's most transformative findings: individuals can choose how they think.We dive deep into the remarkable shift in psychological thinking that occurred in the late 1960s—moving from environmental determinism to individual choice and control. As the father of positive psychology, Seligman revolutionized our understanding of well-being by focusing not on treating mental illness but on cultivating what makes life worth living. His PERMA model (Positive emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment) offers a comprehensive framework for flourishing that has transformed countless lives worldwide.Perhaps most fascinating is the astonishing convergence of virtues across millennia and diverse cultures. From Confucius to Aristotle, from the Samurai code to the Bhagavad Gita, six core virtues consistently emerge: wisdom, courage, love, justice, temperance, and spirituality. This universal agreement suggests something profound about human nature and our shared path to fulfillment. When combined with the supernatural virtues of faith, hope, and love emphasized in Christian tradition, these virtues become powerful forces for transformation—not just in our own lives but rippling outward to illuminate those around us. By choosing our thoughts and embracing these timeless virtues, we gain the remarkable ability to shape not just our mental landscape but our entire experience of life. What will you choose to think today?Key Points from the Episode:• Psychology shifted in the late 1960s from emphasizing environment to focusing on individual choice and control• Martin Seligman, the father of positive psychology, moved the field from studying mental illness to examining what makes life fulfilling• The PERMA model identifies five elements of well-being: positive emotions, engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishment• Six core virtues appear across all major cultures: wisdom, courage, love, justice, temperance, and spirituality• Living virtuously isn't just a Western concept but a universal path to happiness and flourishing• Christian supernatural virtues of faith, hope, and love can make believers "a light unto the nations"• We can become beacons to those around us by embracing and living out these virtuesKeep fighting the good fight and living the virtuous, flourishing life.Other resources: Want to leave a review? Click here, and if we earned a five-star review from you **high five and knuckle bumps**, we appreciate it greatly, thank you so much!
Nuestra invitada en el episodio #321 de Máximo Desempeño es Angela María Orozco, quien rompió todas las reglas del liderazgo tradicional. Abogada, dos veces ministra y la única persona que logró durante cuatro años completos que los transportadores colombianos no entraran en paro nacional. Su secreto no está en imponer autoridad, sino en una filosofía que crea el ambiente ideal para el rendimiento: "duro con los temas, suave con las personas". Desde negociar con personas hostiles hasta transformar sectores enteros, Angela María nos enseña que el verdadero poder no grita, persuade. Donde otros construían muros, ella construyó puentes. Su capacidad de aplacar el ego para enfocarse únicamente en resultados la convirtió en una líder diferente. En esta conversación descubrirás por qué la gente que sabe hacia dónde va puede permitirse ir despacio y paladear el "ir llegando". Exploraremos cómo el bienestar no es resultado del éxito sino su causa, por qué los mejores líderes del mundo pasan tanto tiempo "perdiendo" como ganando, y cómo crear esas condiciones donde tu equipo entra en flow y se vuelve imparable. También abordamos las claves del libro "La Psicología del Liderazgo: Cómo Crear Equipos Imparables" de Sébastien Page, donde descubrimos el marco PERMA de Martin Seligman, por qué pedir retroalimentación diariamente transforma culturas organizacionales, y cómo casos como Wells Fargo y Volkswagen nos enseñan las trampas de la fijación excesiva en objetivos sin valores claros.Si lideras equipos, negocias conflictos o simplemente quieres entender cómo funcionan los líderes más efectivos del mundo, este episodio te va a cambiar la perspectiva. Prepárate para una masterclass sobre construcción de consensos, paciencia estratégica y el arte de liderar sin perder la humanidad.¿Lista o listo para descubrir por qué cuando sabes hacia dónde vas, todo cambia? Dale play y comparte con alguien a quien le pueda servir.
We haven't done any self-help lately, so Paris braved Oprah's Book Club list to pull the recently published Secrets of Adulthood straight from its maw. Though it attempted to take her, she fought her way out to bring you this episode about the science of happiness and the pop cultural grift which swirls around it. References & Resources: Dr. Robert Waldinger: What makes a good life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness The Good Life by Robert Waldinger, MD & Marc Shulz, PhD Dr. Laurie's Happiness Lab Podcast The Science of Well-Being: Dr. Laurie's Yale course, free for adults and a teen version Martin Seligman's Authentic Happiness The Wiser Model University of New Hampshire - Positive Psychology The You You Are by Ricken Hale, PhD Content Warnings: In addition to our usual barnyard language, today's episode includes discussion or mention of capitalism and eating the rich.
¿Cómo se convierte el dolor en un motor de transformación y liderazgo?En este episodio de #TheWayPodcast, conversamos con Nicole Pérez Cuéter, fundadora de Blum, una plataforma creada para impulsar el talento mid-senior en Latinoamérica a través de liderazgo, mentoría y coaching con un enfoque de género.Nicole trabajó en banca y en Procter & Gamble, y luego lideró durante seis años la estrategia de talento para las startups de Polymath Ventures, con más de 700 colaboradores en la región. Paralelamente, se especializó en Psicología Positiva en la Universidad de Pennsylvania, inspirada por referentes como Angela Duckworth y Martin Seligman.Hoy dirige Blum, un espacio donde más del 70% de las participantes y mentoras son mujeres, y que busca convertir experiencias difíciles en fuerza, resiliencia y crecimiento profesional.Una conversación honesta y poderosa sobre dolor, propósito y liderazgo.
In this episode of Flow Sunday Service, Manuel shares a heartwarming moment baking with his daughter and a key insight from Martin Seligman's Authentic Happiness: instead of only fixing weaknesses, we should build on our children's strengths. Using the VIA Strengths Test as a starting point, he encourages parents to discover what truly lights their kids up—and then step back to let them shine. A missing ingredient turned into a golden opportunity, and the lesson goes far beyond the kitchen. ✅ Key Takeaways ✅ Focus on developing your kids' strengths, not just fixing weaknesses.✅ The VIA Strengths Test is a free and valuable tool for discovery.✅ Flexibility and problem-solving can turn obstacles into opportunities.✅ Encouraging independence helps children build confidence.✅ Everyday moments can hold powerful lessons about growth and resilience. Make sure to subscribe and follow me for updates, tips, and more ways to stay in the flow! You can connect with me on:• Instagram: @flow_network__• YouTube: @flow_network__• TikTok: @theflownetwork• LinkedIn Newsletter: Daily Flow Stay tuned for more great content, and as always, stay in the flow!
In this episode of The Infinite Spark of Being, we explore the psychological phenomenon of learned helplessness—how it's installed, how it shows up in your life, and most importantly, how to break free.We unpack the original experiment by Dr. Martin Seligman, explore how systems like school, work, media, and even some spiritual paths condition us to give up our agency, and offer actionable steps to reclaim your inner power.Whether you're stuck in a loop of defeat or simply tired of feeling small, this episode will help you remember: you are not powerless.
In this episode, we explore why accepting love is one of the most powerful — and challenging — strengths we can develop. Inspired by Martin Seligman's insights in Authentic Happiness and the gospel story of Martha and Mary, we reflect on how letting ourselves be loved can heal the pressure to always be achieving. ✅ Key Takeaways ✅ Accepting love is an active strength✅ Many achievers feel safer giving than receiving✅ Being lovable means opening to vulnerability✅ Presence matters more than perfection✅ True connection starts with letting yourself be seen Make sure to subscribe and follow me for updates, tips, and more ways to stay in the flow! You can connect with me on:• Instagram: @flow_network__• YouTube: @flow_network__• TikTok: @theflownetwork• LinkedIn Newsletter: Daily Flow Stay tuned for more great content, and as always, stay in the flow!
Send us a text**Check out The Resistance Remedy HERE!**Can you lead with optimism without slipping into toxic positivity? In this episode, Jason Adair from Southern Regional Education Board and I unpack what real optimism looks like in schools—and why it's a critical ingredient in the Ownership Mindset.We explore the difference between sugarcoated cheerleading and grounded, actionable hope. Drawing on the work of Simon Sinek and Martin Seligman, they highlight how coaches can model optimism, build agency, and support accountability—especially when the system feels heavy.Because without optimism, coaching becomes blind compliance. **Check out The Resistance Remedy HERE!**To Learn more about Jason's organization, SREB (Southern Regional Education Board), check it out here: https://www.sreb.org/Let's Stay Connected!Website | Instagram | Twitter | Linkedin | Facebook | Contact Us
What if the most resilient people aren't the ones who bounce back quickly—but those who allow themselves to break, feel, grieve, and still move forward?In this heartfelt episode, we explore tragic optimism—a powerful reframe introduced by Viktor Frankl—and how it allows us to hold both pain and hope without bypassing either. You'll learn how real resilience comes not from fixing or rushing, but from the ability to live with the full truth of what is and keep going anyway.We'll explore:• Why “bouncing back” is a cultural myth• What tragic optimism really means (and what it's not)• The nervous system's role in resilience and meaning-making• The 3 Ps of pessimism—and how to unlearn them• Practical tools to regulate your body, reframe your thoughts, and hold space for grief and growth at onceThis is your invitation to stop striving to return to “how things used to be”—and instead, build capacity to bounce forward with wisdom, gentleness, and courage.Timestamps:00:00 – Resilient people aren't the fastest to recover06:55 – When Breath Becomes Air & the phrase “devastatingly beautiful”10:14 – What tragic optimism really means (Viktor Frankl)13:05 – Why it's not toxic positivity (Brad Stulberg's take)15:15 – Introducing learned optimism (Martin Seligman)17:32 – The 3 Ps of pessimism and how to flip them20:18 – Why your nervous system must feel safe before optimism is possible23:12 – You can't access nuance from a dysregulated state25:50 – The nervous system's role in meaning-making28:36 – Post-traumatic growth: Making meaning, not finding it31:45 – What it means to hold both pain and hope33:58 – How to actually practice tragic optimism36:10 – Step 1: Reframe with “both/and” language37:15 – Step 2: Befriend your nervous system, not fight it38:48 – Step 3: Hold space for others with “Tell me more”40:10 – What resilience really looks like: bouncing forward41:50 – Why regulating isn't about avoiding pain—it's about holding it43:30 – Final thoughts: You can be devastatingly beautiful too
We often think happiness means constant pleasure. But real, lasting joy comes from something deeper — engagement. In this episode, we explore Martin Seligman's second path to happiness: the Engaged Life. It's not always easy, but it's powerful. Discover how flow states — intense, immersive moments — hold the key to authentic fulfillment. Key Takeaways:✅ Happiness isn't just about feeling good — it includes engagement and meaning✅ Flow is the gateway to the Engaged Life — intense, focused, and deeply rewarding✅ You can design your life to increase flow moments by reflecting on past peak experiences✅ Asking “When was I last fully absorbed?” helps you reconnect with real joy✅ Lasting happiness comes not from comfort, but from conscious, meaningful engagement Make sure to subscribe and follow me for updates, tips, and more ways to stay in the flow! You can connect with me on:• Instagram: @flow_network__• YouTube: @flow_network__• TikTok: @theflownetwork• LinkedIn Newsletter: Daily Flow Stay tuned for more great content, and as always, stay in the flow!
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From October 10, 1995: Author and science journalist Dr. Daniel Goleman discusses his New York Times best-selling book, Emotional Intelligence. He explains how to handle our anger, how controlling impulses affect our lives and how we can increase our EQ at any point in our lives. Also, Dr. Martin Seligman—psychologist, educator and author of The Optimistic Child—explains the three aspects of optimism, how optimism increases emotional intelligence, and the correlation between pessimism and depression.
What if your greatest business challenge could become your launchpad into thought leadership? Today, Bill Sherman sits down with Aaron Marcum, visionary behind Breakaway 365 and bestselling author of EntreThrive, to explore how a journey from entrepreneur to industry thought leader unfolds—often unintentionally. Aaron shares how his frustration with data gaps in the home care space led to the founding of a data analytics company and, unexpectedly, a national reputation as a thought leader. Along the way, he leveraged the insights of thinkers like Brian Tracy and Michael Gerber, and later deepened his impact through a Master's in Applied Positive Psychology under the guidance of Dr. Martin Seligman. Aaron breaks down how storytelling with data shifted his role from CEO to an in-demand industry voice, fueling brand growth, product evolution, and ultimately, a lucrative exit. But he didn't stop there. With EntreThrive, he's now equipping entrepreneurs to beat burnout, overcome inertia, and find lasting fulfillment. Whether he's on stage, coaching leaders, or writing his next big idea, Aaron exemplifies how thought leadership evolves with intention and legacy in mind. He doesn't just teach frameworks—he lives them. And his mission? To empower other coaches and entrepreneurs to do the same, with impact that extends beyond business and into family, travel, and values. Three Key Takeaways: • Thought Leadership Can Be Accidental—But It Shouldn't Stay That Way: Aaron began as a consumer of thought leadership, applying insights from Brian Tracy and Michael Gerber to his business. Over time, he evolved into a recognized voice in the home care industry by solving real problems with data, eventually becoming an intentional and strategic thought leader. • Data + Storytelling = Impact: His ability to interpret data and turn it into actionable insights transformed his brand visibility, customer engagement, and exit valuation. By controlling the narrative through thought leadership, he elevated his company's reputation and market value. • Purpose Drives the Next Chapter: After exiting two companies, Aaron continues to lead with purpose—not for profit, but for impact. Through EntreThrive and Breakaway 365, he's focused on coaching entrepreneurs to overcome burnout and thrive, combining positive psychology, personal experience, and a calling to serve others. If you're exploring how thought leadership can evolve from personal insight to organizational strategy, this episode offers complementary perspectives. In Discovering Thought Leadership, Mark Smith shares his journey from HR research to establishing a formal thought leadership role at SHRM, navigating internal structures to align research with actionable business goals.
Welcome back to Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, featuring hosts Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagle, and Teighlor Polendo. In today's episode, we explore “reframing”—a powerful mental communication tool backed by research that helps cultivate resilience, clarity, and purpose. The discussion juxtaposes growth versus fixed mindsets and optimism versus pessimism, drawing on insights from Martin Seligman's “Learned Optimism” and Carol Dweck's “Mindset: The Psychology of Success.” Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, we delve into how shifting our perspectives can turn challenges into opportunities for growth. Whether it's navigating relationship breakups or dealing with everyday inconveniences, reframing aids in approaching problems from new angles and adapting a growth-oriented mindset. Join us as we uncover ways to enhance your emotional well-being and relationship dynamics through the transformative power of reframing. Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Experts/Resources: Martin Seligman - Learned Optimism https://www.amazon.com/Learned-Optimism-Change-Your-Mind/dp/0671019112 Brene Brown - Rising Strong https://brenebrown.com/book/rising-strong/ Carol Dweck - Mindset: The New Psychology of Success https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40745.Mindset AFAF Links : Episode #004: Birthday Mindset! How to Stay Positive https://pod.link/afafwithtalkdoc/episode/655b369db039ba1eea98440837bb86d4
In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of positive psychology and explore actionable strategies to boost your well-being and performance. Key topics include: Understanding Positive Psychology: An overview of this scientific field that focuses on strengths, virtues, and factors contributing to a fulfilling life. Why We Resist Positive Psychology: Negativity Bias, skepticism, negative potency, steeper negative gradients, negativity dominance and negativity differential. The PERMA Model: Developed by Martin Seligman, this framework outlines five core elements of well-being Practical Techniques: Gratitude Journaling: Regularly writing down things you're thankful for to shift focus toward positivity. Mindfulness Practices: Engaging in mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) to enhance present-moment awareness and reduce stress. Learned Optimism: Adopting a mindset that challenges negative self-talk and fosters a more optimistic outlook. Broaden-and-Build Theory: Exploring how positive emotions can broaden your perspective and build lasting personal resources, leading to increased resilience and creativity. Join me as we uncover how integrating these positive psychology techniques can lead to a more vibrant, productive, and meaningful life Become A Patreon: www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperience Get the free "Letting Go" workbook www.thepositivityxperience.com
Did you know that the best way to ensure happiness and focus is to ensure you have a sense of ‘meaning' when it comes to your work? But what exactly is meaning and how do you create it? Dr Gabriella Rosen Kellerman is a Harvard trained physician, co-author of the international bestseller Tomorrowmind with Martin Seligman, and Chief Innovation Officer at BetterUp. Gabriella shares: -
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3466: Kylee Lessard explores Dr. Martin Seligman's groundbreaking framework for flourishing, defined as thriving through fulfillment, meaningful tasks, and deeper connections. By focusing on the five pillars of well-being, Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment (PERMA), she offers practical strategies to nurture a flourishing life. With reflective prompts and actionable tips, this guide empowers you to design a daily routine that fosters long-term happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/what-is-flourishing Quotes to ponder: “To flourish is to find fulfillment in our lives, accomplishing meaningful and worthwhile tasks, and connecting with others at a deeper level.” “Other people are the best antidote to the 'downs' of life and the single most reliable 'up.'” “Meditation gives me this incredible base from which to flourish, just like mindful movement and nourishment of my body do.” Episode references: University of Pennsylvania Positive Psychology Center: https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu Braid Mission volunteer program: https://braidmission.org Flourish by Martin Seligman: https://www.amazon.com/Flourish-Visionary-Understanding-Happiness-Well-being/dp/1439190763 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3458: Brian Tracy emphasizes that true happiness stems from cultivating moral character and practicing virtues such as integrity, trust, and truthfulness. By aligning our inner values with our desired outer world, we can strengthen relationships, enhance our self-esteem, and achieve a fulfilling, purpose-driven life. Striving to live authentically and consistently with our highest ideals paves the way to greatness and lasting success. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.briantracy.com/blog/personal-success/success-factor-moral-character-a-good-person/ Quotes to ponder: "Only the good can be happy, and only the virtuous can be good." "The ultimate expression of trust is truthfulness." "Refuse to compromise your moral character. Refuse to pretend or wish or hope that something is not true, when in your heart, you know it is." Episode references: Success Principles by Jack Canfield: https://www.amazon.com/Success-Principles-TM-Hundred-Reach/dp/0060594896 Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman: https://www.amazon.com/Authentic-Happiness-Psychology-Potential-Fulfilling/dp/0743222989 The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Caroline Miller shares the overlooked science that helps you pursue your most ambitious goals. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) The top goal-setting myths to abandon immediately 2) The two types of goals and how to set them 3) The BRIDGE methodology for effective goal-setting Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1015 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT CAROLINE — For over three decades, Caroline Adams Miller has been a pioneer with her groundbreaking work in the areas of the science of goal setting, grit, happiness, and success. She is recognized as one of the world's leading positive psychology experts on this research and how it can be applied to one's life and work for maximum transformation. She is the author of nine books, including My Name is Caroline, Getting Grit, Positively Caroline and Creating Your Best Life, which the "father of Positive Psychology," Dr. Martin Seligman, lauded in Flourish as "adding a major missing piece" to the world of goal setting. She is a magna cum laude graduate of Harvard University and attained one of the first 32 degrees in the world in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania.• Book: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life • Book: Getting Grit: The Evidence-Based Approach to Cultivating Passion, Perseverance, and Purpose • Book site: BigGoalsBook.com • Child Mind Institute: ChildMind.org • Website: CarolineMiller.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment by Daniel Kahneman, Olivier Sibony, Cass Sunstein • Book: Woman's Inhumanity to Woman by Phyllis Chessler • Study: “Benefits of Frequent Positive Affect” by Sonja Lyubomirsky, Laura King, Ed Diener • Survey: VIA's Character Strengths Survey • Tool: Perplexity • Tool: Google Notebook — THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Lingoda. Visit try.lingoda.com/Awesome50 and save up to 50% off with their biggest sale of the year!• Jenni Kayne. Use the code AWESOME15 to get 15% off your order!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Are things really as bad as they seem? Has Gen Z given up hope for the world? And why was the father of positive psychology a lifelong pessimist? SOURCES:Albert Bandura, professor of psychology at Stanford University.David Brooks, author and opinion columnist. Andrew Grove, former C.E.O. and chairman of Intel Corporation.Kalev Leetaru, founder of the GDELT Project.Steven Maier, professor of behavioral neuroscience at the University of Colorado Boulder.Michelle Obama, attorney, author, and former first lady of the United States.Steven Pinker, professor of psychology at Harvard University.Amanda Ripley, journalist and author.Martin Seligman, professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania.Jean Twenge, professor of psychology at San Diego State University.Edward Zigler, professor emeritus of psychology at Yale University. RESOURCES:"Chicken Littles Are Ruining America," by David Brooks (The Atlantic, 2024).Generations, by Jean Twenge (2023).Enlightenment Now, by Steven Pinker (2018)."The Short History of Global Living Conditions and Why It Matters That We Know It," by Max Roser (Our World in Data, 2016)."Learned Helplessness at Fifty: Insights from Neuroscience," by Steven F. Maier and Martin E. P. Seligman (Psychological Review, 2016)."Short- and Long-Term Consequences of Stressor Controllability in Adolescent Rats," by Kenneth H. Kubala, John P. Christianson, Steven F. Maier, et al. (Behavioural Brain Research, 2012).The Better Angels of Our Nature, by Steven Pinker (2011)."Forecasting Large-Scale Human Behavior Using Global News Media Tone in Time and Space," by Kalev Leetaru (First Monday, 2011)."Motivational Aspects of Changes in IQ Test Performance of Culturally Deprived Nursery School Children," by Edward Zigler and Earl C. Butterfield (Child Development, 1968)."Failure to Escape Traumatic Shock," by Martin E. P. Seligman and Steven F. Maier (Journal of Experimental Psychology, 1967).Upworthy. EXTRAS:"Why Is U.S. Media So Negative?" by Freakonomics Radio (2021).
Is it better to explain a mistake or just accept responsibility? What's the difference between an excuse and a justification? And why is it important to remember that you're not a pizzeria on the Jersey Shore? SOURCES:Robert Cialdini, professor of psychology at Arizona State University.Raymond Higgins, professor emeritus of psychology at University of Kansas.Martin Seligman, professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania.Rick Snyder, professor emeritus of psychology at University of Kansas. RESOURCES:"‘Explain, but Make No Excuses': Service Recovery After Public Service Failures," by Matthias Döring (Public Management Review, 2022)."To Justify or Excuse?: A Meta-Analytic Review of the Effects of Explanations," by John C. Shaw, Eric Wild, and Jason A. Colquitt (Journal of Applied Psychology, 2003)."Excuses: Their Effective Role in the Negotiation of Reality," by C. R. Snyder and Raymond L. Higgins (Psychological Bulletin, 1988)."The Attributional Style Questionnaire," by Christopher Peterson, Amy Semmel, Carl von Baeyer, Lyn Y. Abramson, Gerald I. Metalsky, and Martin E. P. Seligman (Cognitive Therapy and Research, 1982). EXTRAS:"How Can You Convince Someone They're Wrong?" by No Stupid Questions (2021)."Under the Boardwalk," song by The Drifters (1964).
Join us in this insightful episode as we explore the concept of 'The Map vs. The Territory' in retirement planning. Discover how mental models can enhance decision-making and lead to a more fulfilling retirement. Our special guest, Dr. Daniel Crosby, discusses his latest book, "The Soul of Wealth," offering profound insights into achieving soulful wealth beyond mere numbers. Learn how to balance maps and reality, and the importance of feedback loops in financial planning. Plus, get practical advice on adapting to the unpredictable nature of life and finances. Don't miss this engaging conversation on rocking retirement with agility and purpose!PRACTICAL PLANNING SEGMENT(00:30) Talking about the map versus the territory and how it applies to retirement(2:00) Personal anecdote about GPS maps (4:00) Maps are a good abstraction to help us navigate things but understand maps are not reality(5:15) Practical example using map versus territory(07:25) Maps can be very useful in retirement planning, but they can also have limitations(9:00) If we view map as reality, it's easy to create static rules and can reduce our ability to adapt(10:00) In the context of retirement planning, the map is the plan and comes with a lot of limitations.(12:31) There are multiple ways to deal with variability of inflationINTERVIEW WITH AUTHOR DR. DANIEL CROSBY(16:22) Dr. Daniel Crosby is the author of the newly released book The Soul of Wealth(18:25) Use a phrase called soulful wealth to describe what makes life rich(20:00) Retirement is not a spreadsheet(22:48) Martin Seligman is the father of positive psychology and the PERMA Model(29:37) You have to get very specific in what it means to have meaning in life(31:00) The Three B's of having purpose in life- Believing, Belonging, Becoming (35:26) What is it, especially around retirement, that creates this crisis of confidence with people?(39:25) Identify when you are lying to yourself and it becomes harder to be complacent (40:45) Have a purpose for your money(44:55) One of the most fulfilling ways to spend money is giving it awaySMART SPRINT(48:32) In the next seven days, evaluate whatever retirement plan you have in place and identify specifically what is the feedback loop to improve that plan.RESOURCESDr. Daniel Crosbyhttps://www.danielcrosby.comThe Soul of Wealthhttps://www.amazon.com/Soul-Wealth-reflections-money-meaning/dp/1804090441Six Shot Saturdayhttps://sixshotsaturday.comOrion Advisor Serviceshttps://www.orion.comMartin Seligmanhttps://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu
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