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In this powerful and honest episode, I explore the often silent struggle of health anxiety—the persistent worry that something is physically wrong, even when medical reassurance is present. I break down what health anxiety really is, where it comes from, and most importantly, how to manage it with compassion and presence. You'll learn: What health anxiety looks and feels like in everyday life The brain science behind why we spiral into fear 5 practical tools to help you manage and shift anxious thinking How to reframe fear into trust and presence Whether you struggle with chronic health worry or want to better support someone who does, this episode offers mindful practices and mindset shifts to help you come back to your body, your breath, and the present moment.
Do you carry mom guilt over things you said or did during the hard seasons of motherhood? Motherhood mistakes can feel heavy, but we were often doing the best we could at the time. Today, I am sharing how you can use the ADD model to let go of parenting regrets and unrealistic expectations as parents. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:13] Why Does Mom Guilt Hit Us So Hard?[04:06] Does Nostalgia Have You Seeing the Past Through Rose-Colored Glasses While Also Wondering If You Did Enough as a Parent?[10:27] Do You Have Unrealistic Expectations And Misplaced Responsibility For Your Children?[15:56] Using The ADD Model to Process Mom Guilt[23:00] Want to Learn More About Ways You Can Apply The ADD Method in Your Life? If So, Grab a Copy of My Book, Emotional Confidence!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.RELATED EPISODES:210: My Daughter's Story: A Christian Teen's Journey Through Depression, Suicide + Eating DisordersSend us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.
Let's be real friends, motherhood is hard. We're all craving relief from the overwhelming emotions that come with it, but how do we actually find it? Today, I'm joined by best-selling author Becky Thompson to bring some deep encouragement for moms. We go beyond surface-level fixes and talk honestly about the real emotions in motherhood. This episode reminds us that real peace and rest are possible, even when motherhood feels relentless.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:21] How Can We Stop Feeling Overwhelmed in Motherhood?[08:09] Why Are We Running From Rest?[11:56] The Rest We Are Longing For Is a “Filling of The Spirit”[16:13] How Can We Feel Peace When The World is Full of Problems?[20:00] When God Becomes Our Peace, It Changes How We Move Through Life[26:16] Small Practical Steps We Can Take to Find Rest and Peace [30:53] Alicia's Reflections: Jesus Wants Us to Go Deeper and Build Intimacy With HimRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with author Becky ThompsonRELATED EPISODES:246: Join Me in Italy in 2025 for a Rest-Filled, Christ-Centered Travel Retreat for Women!247: Avoiding Burnout: Finding Emotional + Mental Rest Despite Everyday Overwhelm253: What Does Realistic Rest Look Like When You're Tired of Being Tired? with Jess ConnollySend us a textBook Your Free Call with Me: https://www.aliciamichelle.com/conversation
What if your emotions could actually draw you closer to God instead of pulling you off course? In this thought-provoking episode of Seek Go Create, host Tim Winders sits down with Alicia Michelle—Christian life coach, neuro coach, and author of Emotional Confidence. Alicia shares her powerful personal story of burnout and recovery, revealing how a life-altering health crisis forced her to reconsider everything she believed about emotional resilience, faith, and rest. Discover practical, faith-centered tools to manage your emotions, break free from perfectionism, and find true peace. If you're feeling overwhelmed or searching for deeper purpose, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and equipped.""Acknowledge, discern, and decide—three simple things you can do to manage your emotions." - Alicia Michelle Access all show and episode resources HEREAbout Our Guest:Alicia Michelle is a respected Christian life coach, neuro coach, author, and host of the podcast "The Christian Mindset Coach." She specializes in combining biblical truth with brain science to help individuals manage their emotions, overcome anxiety, and build emotional resilience rooted in faith. With ICF certification—the gold standard in coaching—Alicia brings professional expertise and personal experience, having navigated her own journey through severe health challenges and emotional overwhelm. Her latest book, "Emotional Confidence," and her Emotional Confidence Club membership provide practical, science-backed tools for anyone seeking peace, purpose, and authentic connection with God. Reasons to Listen: Discover practical tools from Alicia Michelle—a Christian life coach and neuro coach—on how to manage your emotions using both science and scripture.Hear a candid story about Alicia's life-altering health crisis and how it radically shifted her mindset, offering powerful lessons for anyone feeling overwhelmed or “stuck.”Learn about the unique ADD method (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) that Alicia teaches for processing difficult emotions and strengthening emotional resilience grounded in faith.Episode Resources & Action Steps:Resources Mentioned:AliciaMichelle.com - Alicia's main website where you can learn more about her coaching services, membership (Emotional Confidence Club), and other resources.Book: "Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture" - Alicia's book that shares her ADD (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) method to help manage emotions with practical steps grounded in science and scripture.Podcast: The Christian Mindset Coach - Hosted by Alicia Michelle, this podcast dives deeper into mindset, faith, and emotional tools for Christian living.Action Steps for Listeners:Journal Regularly or Try Morning Pages: Set aside time a few mornings each week to write freely for 10 minutes or fill 2–3 pages. This can help you process your thoughts and bring clarity to underlying emotions. Schedule Daily Rest and Connection with God: Create intentional daily rhythms for rest, prayer, or quiet time—whether it's a 25-minute timer outside, or a few moments of stillness. Use this space to check in emotionally and spiritually, as discussed in the episode.Implement the
Are you physically at the dinner table with your kids—but mentally still stuck at work? In this episode of the Dad Central Show, Drew and Ed dive deep into why so many dads fall into the “provider trap” and lose emotional connection with their children—despite being present in the same room. They discuss why being available isn't the same as being fully present, and how stress, identity, and modern pressures create invisible barriers between fathers and their families. Learn a powerful 5-minute strategy to shift from “work mode” to “dad mode” without needing a vacation. Discover why connection is built in the “boring” and how small moments create lifelong trust with your kids. Get real advice from two fathers who've lived it—plus practical ways to regulate stress and show up with calm presence. Tap play now to reclaim meaningful moments with your kids—without sacrificing your responsibilities or your peace. ------ To instantly learn top secret hacks to calm parenting and become the dad your family brags about, download our free guide to stop yelling. FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING Our free guide helps dads manage anger, stop yelling, and build stronger connections with their kids. Get proven tips, practical tools, and simple strategies to become a calmer, more confident father—starting today: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/ "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."
This week on The Art of Charm, we're joined by award-winning psychologist and bestselling author Ethan Kross to explore the fascinating science of emotion regulation. In his newest book Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don't Manage You, Ethan reveals how emotions secretly drive 90% of our lives—and how mastering them can unlock performance, connection, and fulfillment. We dig into why your emotions feel so overwhelming, why trying harder isn't the solution, and how building your own mental "toolbox" is the real path to emotional fitness. Whether you're leading teams, raising a family, or striving for personal excellence, this conversation will give you the tactical edge you didn't even realize you needed. [00:00:00] What exactly are emotions — and why are they so hard to define? [00:06:35] How emotions are helpful — until they aren't [00:08:33] Why emotional triggers are unique to each person (and why empathy matters) [00:12:14] The surprising connection between sleep, food, and your emotional resilience [00:16:31] How to design your environment for automatic emotional shifts [00:28:20] The secret to becoming a better emotional advisor for friends, family, and teams [00:37:05] Why belief in your ability to regulate emotions is just as important as skill [00:45:51] When emotional avoidance is actually healthy [00:48:39] How elite performers make emotional regulation automatic (WOOP framework explained) Emotions aren't irrational noise — they're signals. But they must be managed with tools, not brute force. Your triggers, emotional responses, and coping strategies are as unique as your fingerprint. Stop copying other people's solutions. Mastering emotions is like mastering fitness: belief, awareness, and deliberate practice matter more than natural talent. The environment you live and work in can either sabotage or support your emotional state — design it thoughtfully. Emotional support isn't just about listening; it's about knowing when (and how) to move from empathy to problem-solving. You can't think your way through every emotional challenge — but you can train yourself to act automatically under pressure. Tired of awkward handshakes and collecting business cards without building real connections? Dive into our Free Social Capital Networking Masterclass. Learn practical strategies to make your interactions meaningful and boost your confidence in any social situation. Sign up for free at theartofcharm.com/sc and elevate your networking from awkward to awesome. Don't miss out on a network of opportunities! Unleash the power of covert networking to infiltrate high-value circles and build a 7-figure network in just 90 days. Ready to start? Check out our CIA-proven guide to networking like a spy! Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince—where high-end essentials meet unbeatable prices. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Ready to turn your business idea into reality? Shopify makes it easy to start, scale, and succeed—whether you're launching a side hustle or building the next big brand. Sign up for your $1/month trial at shopify.com/charm. Need to hire top talent—fast? Skip the waiting game and get more qualified applicants with Indeed. Claim your $75 Sponsored Job Credit now at Indeed.com/charm. Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Ethan Kross's website Shift: Managing Your Emotions--So They Don't Manage You AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok What to Listen ForEpisode Takeaways:A Word From Our SponsorsResources from this EpisodeCheck in with AJ and Johnny! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever found yourself waiting for a miracle, wondering if God is really working behind the scenes? Today, my sister Kris joins us to vulnerably share her story of trusting God through her journey with addiction. We talk about the power of prayer and how God used our family relationship to lead her toward healing and salvation. If you're holding on to hope and faith through hard times, this episode will encourage your heart and remind you that He is always in control.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:39] “Good Things Are Coming, Even When We Can't See It Yet”[06:32] My Sister's Experience with Addiction[10:55] How Our Conversations on a Road Trip Played Into Kris's Recovery Journey [14:02] How Our Evolving Relationship Inspired Kris to Explore Her Inner World[16:07] What is It Like to Go Through Recovery With Christ?[21:51] How Addictions Sneak Up On Us[27:34] Don't Stop Praying For Yourself or Your Loved Ones[31:14] “A Day Without Laughter is a Day Wasted”[35:28] Alicia's Reflections: We Need to Trust That God is In ControlRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.RELATED EPISODES:306: On Addiction, the Enneagram and a Healthy Fix for Our Inner Brokenness with Ian Morgan CronSend us a text
Feeling like there's never enough time to be the dad you want to be? What if the real issue isn't your schedule—but your priorities? This episode tackles one of the most common struggles modern dads face: time management. If you're juggling work, kids, and your own mental health, chances are you're overwhelmed—and burning out. We're sharing honest, practical strategies to help dads stop saying "yes" to everything and start reclaiming time with purpose. Discover how the 80/20 rule can transform your parenting and your peace of mind Learn how to build a simple, flexible routine that grounds both you and your kids Get real tips on how to delegate, automate, and protect your mental energy every day Tap play to learn how to set boundaries, say no, and finally manage your time in a way that strengthens your family and reduces your stress. Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood Are you stressed and overwhelmed by the responsibilities of fatherhood? This show helps overwhelmed dads conquer stress, build confidence, and become the father their family brags about. Listen to discover: Effective strategies to reduce parenting stress and manage emotions for a calm parenting approach = happy children. Practical advice on building strong parent-child relationships through improved communication and parenting skills, even when co-parenting with ex-partners. Expert insights on navigating custody issues and instilling positive parenting values to develop disciplined and resilient kids. Since 2019 Co-hosts Drew and Ed have impacted over 400,000 dads through their work with Dad Central. Every Monday, join them for real-life examples and practical, time-tested strategies on how to win at being a dad. Once a month, hear from expert guests or mentor dads sharing their top tips to enjoy and thrive in fatherhood. To instantly learn top secret hacks to calm parenting and become the dad your family brags about, download our free guide to stop yelling. FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING: Our guide is based on extensive research and experience working with parents just like you. We'll guide you through each step, offering practical tips, strategies, and exercises to help you understand your triggers, improve your communication skills, and foster a stronger relationship with your children, ultimately becoming a more confident and effective dad: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/ "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."
Even if you don't think of yourself as an addict, today's episode will show you how addiction can take many forms. Author Ian Morgan Cron invites us to look beneath the surface, showing how we are all addicted to something, whether it's control, approval, performance, or distraction. In this conversation, you'll learn how the 12 Steps can bring healing to our inner brokenness and why overcoming addictions is more relevant to all of us than we might realize.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:12] What Can the 12 Steps Teach Us About Wholeness, Even If We Are 'Well Adjusted'?[06:10] How Does Recognizing Our Inner Ache Guide Us Toward Wholeness?[08:23] How Addictions Can Sneak Up On Us + The Connection Between The 12 Steps and Christianity [12:19] “To Be Alive Is to Be Addicted”[14:22] How Do We Figure Out What Our Addictions Are?[22:26] What if Addictions Are an Invitation From God?[24:30] How Can the Church Become a Place Where It Is Safe to Be Broken?[32:16] The Ways Enneagram Types Deal With Their Inner Brokenness + Is The Enneagram Against Biblical Teachings?[37:42] A Deeper Dive Into The Enneagram - Subtypes + Countertypes[40:17] Alicia's Reflections: Can You Identify The Brokenness Inside of You? And If So, What Are You Going to Do About It?RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with author Ian Morgan CronRELATED EPISODES:122: I Am an Addict with Amanda Anderson125: How the Hustle Culture + Need to Achieve Nearly Took My Life126: Confessions of a Recovering Workaholic + PerfectionistSend us a text
Think coaching your kid's sports team is simple? Think again—what you do on the sidelines might be shaping their future more than you think. Whether you're leading a tee-ball team or guiding your child through high-performance hockey, the intersection of parenting and coaching is filled with unseen landmines. In this episode, former MLB catcher and manager Mike Matheny opens up about how coaching his own son after a 13-year major league career changed the way he views discipline, success, and fatherhood forever. Discover how to coach your child without favoritism or friction—and how Mike handled his son throwing equipment on the field Learn the core values behind Mike's “Champion's Edges” framework and how to apply it whether you're coaching or parenting Get a raw look at how building a culture of character, not just competition, helps kids succeed far beyond sports Hit play now to learn how to lead with purpose, coach with humility, and raise resilient kids who win on and off the field. Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood Are you stressed and overwhelmed by the responsibilities of fatherhood? This show helps overwhelmed dads conquer stress, build confidence, and become the father their family brags about. Listen to discover: Effective strategies to reduce parenting stress and manage emotions for a calm parenting approach = happy children. Practical advice on building strong parent-child relationships through improved communication and parenting skills, even when co-parenting with ex-partners. Expert insights on navigating custody issues and instilling positive parenting values to develop disciplined and resilient kids. Since 2019 Co-hosts Drew and Ed have impacted over 400,000 dads through their work with Dad Central. Every Monday, join them for real-life examples and practical, time-tested strategies on how to win at being a dad. Once a month, hear from expert guests or mentor dads sharing their top tips to enjoy and thrive in fatherhood. To instantly learn top secret hacks to calm parenting and become the dad your family brags about, download our free guide to stop yelling. FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING: Our guide is based on extensive research and experience working with parents just like you. We'll guide you through each step, offering practical tips, strategies, and exercises to help you understand your triggers, improve your communication skills, and foster a stronger relationship with your children, ultimately becoming a more confident and effective dad: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/ "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."
Do procrastination, complaining, and victim thinking impact your day-to-day life without you even realizing it? As part of our Mental Fitness Series, author John G. Miller joins us for an eye-opening episode about how we can shift negative thought patterns with his “Question Behind the Question” (QBQ) concept.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:49] What Does “QBQ” Mean + How Is It Built on Negative Thought Patterns?[06:15] “We Can Only Change Ourselves”[08:10] The Importance of Acknowledging Our Feelings Then Moving Forward[11:33] What Are “Incorrect Questions? And How Do They Perpetuate Victim Thinking?[13:48] How Can Parents Balance Accountability And Consequences Without Falling Into Blame Or Fear-Based Parenting?[17:52] What Question Can Shift Us From Procrastination to Purposeful Action?[20:53] Have You Ever Said, “I'm Waiting on God for Answers”?[23:58] The Power of Believing “I Can Only Change Me”[26:40] Alicia's Reflections: Are You Taking This Conversation as Personal Alignment, or Are You Taking Offense? Take Some Time With The Lord and Let It Simmer in Your HeartRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with author John G. MillerRELATED EPISODES:304: Stop Negative Thought Spirals: “Get Off the Mat” + “What Thoughts Will You Let Land?” (Mental Fitness Series)Send us a textAre you managing your emotions, or are they managing you? Take the free Emotional Confidence Quiz to discover your unique persona and get personalized training for more peace and clarity! Take the quiz now at AliciaMichelle.com/quiz.
Are you showing up as the leader your family needs—or just surviving fatherhood on autopilot? In today's fast-paced world, being an intentional, present father is harder than ever. Whether you're juggling long work hours or navigating the emotional weight of parenting, this episode dives into how to lead your family with resilience, consistency, and purpose—even when life feels overwhelming. Learn how former MLB player and manager Mike Matheny built a fatherhood "advisory board" to stay accountable and consistent in parenting Discover how coaching youth sports can sharpen your leadership skills at home Gain practical insights on instilling character, grit, and purpose in your kids through old-school values and new-school wisdom Tune in now to hear Mike's powerful strategies for becoming the kind of father your kids—and your legacy—deserve. Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood Are you stressed and overwhelmed by the responsibilities of fatherhood? This show helps overwhelmed dads conquer stress, build confidence, and become the father their family brags about. Listen to discover: Effective strategies to reduce parenting stress and manage emotions for a calm parenting approach = happy children. Practical advice on building strong parent-child relationships through improved communication and parenting skills, even when co-parenting with ex-partners. Expert insights on navigating custody issues and instilling positive parenting values to develop disciplined and resilient kids. Since 2019 Co-hosts Drew and Ed have impacted over 400,000 dads through their work with Dad Central. Every Monday, join them for real-life examples and practical, time-tested strategies on how to win at being a dad. Once a month, hear from expert guests or mentor dads sharing their top tips to enjoy and thrive in fatherhood. To instantly learn top secret hacks to calm parenting and become the dad your family brags about, download our free guide to stop yelling. FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING: Our guide is based on extensive research and experience working with parents just like you. We'll guide you through each step, offering practical tips, strategies, and exercises to help you understand your triggers, improve your communication skills, and foster a stronger relationship with your children, ultimately becoming a more confident and effective dad: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/ "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."
The World's #1 Personal Development Book Podcast! Sara Raymond is author of You Are Not Broken: A Compassionate Guide to Uncovering Inner Wisdom and Transforming Your Life with HypnotherapySara is a certified hypnotherapist, transformational coach, and instructor in yoga, Pilates, and meditation. Since co-founding The Mindful Movement in 2016, she has helped millions embrace their inner calm, develop a positive mindset, and heal from the stress that holds them back. With nearly 900,000 subscribers on YouTube, her work has become an oasis for those seeking true transformation.In today's conversation, we'll explore how hypnotherapy works, why so many people misunderstand it, and how you can use it to break free from limiting beliefs. Sara shares the science behind hypnosis, the power of suggestion, and how our subconscious mind shapes our reality. If you're interested in personal growth, mindfulness, or breaking through mental barriers, this episode is for you.We hope you enjoy this incredible conversation with Sara Raymond.To learn more about Sara, buy her book , and other resources follow the links below:The Book: https://a.co/d/cNH45SQWebsite: https://www.themindfulmovement.com/https://youtube.com/@themindfulmovement?si=oBmOP9uA0hRu_ifEChapters: 0:00 Intro1:35 Sara's First Hypnotherapy Session – Her Experience & Initial Thoughts 5:26 Misconceptions About Hypnotherapy – Why It's Often Misunderstood 7:05 Social Media & Hypnosis – How Mindless Scrolling Puts You in a Trance 9:18 The Story Behind Sarah's Book – Communicating Transformation Through Hypnosis 11:33 Hypnotherapy in the Digital Age – How Online Sessions Help Integrate the Practice 17:08 Nick's Exploration of Hypnosis & Meditation – Sensory Deprivation, Past Lives & More 20:38 The Lemon Experiment – A Demonstration of the Mind's Power Over the Body 24:16 Resistance to Hypnosis & Spiritual Practices – What It Reveals About You 26:05 Self-Correction & Inner Wisdom – Slowing Down to Find Your Own Answers28:44 Meditation & Perspective – Creating Space to Think & Manage Emotions 30:32 The Science of Hypnotherapy – The Power of Stillness & Trying It for Yourself 34:31 Where to Find Sarah + Key Idea From the Book – You Are Not Broken________________________________________________Join the world's largest non-fiction Book community!https://www.instagram.com/bookthinkers/The purpose of this podcast is to connect you, the listener, with new books, new mentors, and new resources that will help you achieve more and live better. Each and every episode will feature one of the world's top authors so that you know each and every time you tune-in, there is something valuable to learn. If you have any recommendations for guests, please DM them to us on Instagram. (www.instagram.com/bookthinkers)If you enjoyed this show, please consider leaving a review. It takes less than 60-seconds of your time, and really makes a difference when I am trying to land new guests. For more BookThinkers content, check out our Instagram or our website. Thank you for your time!
Do you deal with negative thought spirals? You have the ability to take control of your thoughts, and today I want to show you how. This is first episode of our mental fitness series where I'll share practical tools and powerful reminders of what's possible when we choose which thoughts we allow to “land” in our minds.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[01:23] What is Mental Fitness and How Does It Help with Negative Thought Spirals?[05:04] It's Up to Us: Will We Rise to the Challenge and Take Control of Our Thoughts and Emotions?[11:27] We Must Choose to Take Control of the Lies and False Mental Narratives That Keep Us Stuck[15:19] We Must Decide That Mental Discipline Is Worth Training For[17:53] Try This Practical Skill to Take Control of Negative Thought SpiralsRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.RELATED EPISODES:302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing with Mark and Jill SavageSend us a textAre you managing your emotions, or are they managing you? Take the free Emotional Confidence Quiz to discover your unique persona and get personalized training for more peace and clarity! Take the quiz now at AliciaMichelle.com/quiz.
Embracing Emotional Confidence to Manage Emotions Managing emotions is an essential skill. Whether dealing with fear, anxiety, stress, or the everyday ups and downs, understanding how to navigate your emotions is crucial. Learning to build emotional confidence and manage emotions is essential for mental and emotional well-being. Your Emotions Manifesting Physically in Your Body The brain, the mind, body, and spirit are so interwoven. There are physical manifestations of not taking care of yourself that can lead to both acute and chronic illness. Acknowledge: The First Step to Emotional Confidence The journey to managing emotions begins with acknowledgment. It involves understanding why you feel a certain way and accepting those feelings. This step is leaning into God's compassion and recognizing that emotions are a natural response to life's events. By acknowledging emotions, we create space for self-compassion and begin the process of healing and growth. Discern: Separating Fact from Fiction Once you acknowledge your emotions, the next step towards emotional confidence is to discern. You're saying it's true that… but it's not true that… Ask God for clarity in discerning what is reality and what is not. Decide: Taking Action Toward Emotional Mastery The final step is to decide how to proceed. This decision-making process involves determining what action to take once you have clarity. It's about choosing a path aligned with your values and the truth, rather than being driven by emotional reactivity. This step also includes inviting God's courage to help you stay on the path He has laid out for you while focusing on your mindset and not returning to fear and anxiety. Having a strong identity in Christ and leaning on Him as you work to build emotional confidence and manage emotions. Building a Routine for Emotional Resilience Cultivating emotional confidence is an ongoing practice. It requires patience, regularity, and a willingness to act. You must be willing to take action. Being in the right mindset to take action Your body needs to be in the right state to logically process before you can begin the A, D, and D steps. The nervous system has two different phases: the sympathetic and the parasympathetic. When you are in the sympathetic phase, that is, your fight or flight mode, you cannot effectively use your executive functioning or decision-making skills. The Parasympathetic phase is your rest and digest phase, where you want to be to logically process and use the A, D, and D steps. About Alicia Michelle Alicia Michelle is an ICF-Certified Coach (ACC, CPLC) and certified NeuroCoach™, passionate about helping Christian women learn practical, brain-based-and-biblically-accurate tools to confidently manage everyday emotions and overcome toxic patterns like perfectionism, performance, comparison, people-pleasing and more! Website for Alicia Michelle Alicia Michelle's Book: Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture Additional Resources Download the eBook A guide for alleviating anxiety and developing healthy habits for a healthy mind Access all links and full shownotes
Are father wounds unknowingly impacting your emotions in marriage? Sometimes, we do not realize where our emotional triggers in marriage come from, and today, we are shining the light on them. Join us as counselor Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield discusses how we can heal from father wounds and build emotional confidence along the way. This episode discusses some heavier topics, so please take care of yourself and reach out for support or sit with the Lord if you feel triggered and extra tender after listening. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:23] What Are Father Wounds?[07:20] How to Know if a Struggle is Rooted in a Father Wound[12:01] “The Father Wound Has a Strong Origin in Satan Himself”[15:40] How Can We Break The Generational Cycle of Trauma?[21:37] What Are The Signs of Father Wounds in Marriage and Parenting?[24:43] The Importance of Addressing These Wounds[27:29] Using The “HEAL” Acronym to Work Through Bitterness and Anger Towards Our Fathers[34:48] Alicia's Reflections: If This Was Triggering For You, Take Some Time to Take Care of Yourself Today and Reach Out For Additional Support if NeededRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with counselor Dr. Michelle Watson CanfieldRELATED EPISODES:299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. Method301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya Sam302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing with Mark and Jill SavageSend us a textAre you managing your emotions, or are they managing you? Take the free Emotional Confidence Quiz to discover your unique persona and get personalized training for more peace and clarity! Take the quiz now at AliciaMichelle.com/quiz.
In this episode, you will learn a way you can manage your emotions better as an athlete to keep yourself from getting so upset and frustrated when things don't go your way. ➡️ Interested in 1-1 mental performance coaching? Schedule your free introductory call to learn more: https://www.successstartswithin.com/get-coaching
Navigating emotions in marriage isn't always easy, but the right mindset can make all the difference. Today, marriage coaches Mark and Jill Savage join us to discuss the importance of changing your mindset in marriage because when you change your thoughts, you change your relationship.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:23] Mark and Jill's Story of Repairing Their Marriage After Infidelity [12:11] The Concept of Emotional Constipation and Emotional Diarrhea[15:15] How Did Emotions Play Into Their Marriage?[19:48] How Can Couples Manage Their Toxic Thoughts and Emotions in Marriage?[23:08] “Every Single Day We Have New Opportunities to Rewire Our Brains”[31:44] The Importance of Daily Discipline & Changing Your Thoughts [38:01] Alicia's Reflections: What Are You Focusing on In Your Marriage?RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with marriage coaches Mark and Jill SavageRELATED EPISODES:299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. Method301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya SamSend us a textAre you managing your emotions, or are they managing you? Take the free Emotional Confidence Quiz to discover your unique persona and get personalized training for more peace and clarity! Take the quiz now at AliciaMichelle.com/quiz.
How can we support the men in our lives in recognizing and processing their emotions - without it leading to conflict? If you've been looking for ways to improve communication in marriage, this episode is for you. International speaker Sathiya Sam joins us to share his insights on building emotional intimacy and preventing emotional shutdown in marriage.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:13] What Emotional Challenges Do Men Face?[05:56] Why is Anger The Most Socially Acceptable Emotion For Men?[09:12] How Sathiya Helps Men Step Into and Emotionally Process More Passive Emotions[13:36] How Can We Encourage the Men in Our Lives to Recognize and Embrace Their Emotions?[17:57] Connecting Sexual Intimacy with Emotional Intimacy[23:44] How Can We Help Men See The Importance of Emotional Expression?[27:16] Supportive Ways to Approach an Emotionally Charged Topic[34:45] Understanding Different Processing Styles - Verbal vs Internal Processor[39:09] Alicia's Reflections: How Can We Help Our Relationships By Presenting These Concepts From a Supportive Perspective?RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with international speaker Sathiya SamRELATED EPISODES:299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. MethodSend us a text
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Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day devotional, to find biblical joy even in the hardest seasons of motherhood. Episode 241 // Ready for part 2? We've looked at the 5 practical steps that help us manage seasons of stress and overwhelming emotions. But what about the spiritual action steps? Those are even MORE important! We all go through emotionally hard seasons of life - and it makes a world of difference to stand firm in your faith through the storm. These 5 steps are central, friend. In part 1 of our conversation, we looked at practical steps. Today, in part 2, we're looking at spiritual action steps. “As pressure and stress bear down on me, I find joy in your commands.” Psalm 139:143 - the Lord's commands bring JOY! Let's find that joy together today. hugs & blessings, Jess RESOURCES FOR YOU FREE: Grab your FREE 45-day Bible and Prayer Guide today. DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day devotional, to find biblical joy even in the hardest seasons of motherhood. LISTEN NEXT: Feeling DEFEATED As A Mom? You Are Not Alone - And God Has A Plan For You (Episode 176) GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today. Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today! FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. MISSION Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days. Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Are you looking for a tool to help you with expressing emotions in marriage? Last week we discussed why it is important to bring our emotions to God first, but what happens when we need to express our emotions in marriage? Join me today as I share how we can use the ADD method to build emotional confidence in our relationships. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:39] The Importance of Working Through Our Emotions with God First[02:51] 5 Ground Rules For Processing Emotions in Relationships [11:05] Why Is It Important to Use Calming Techniques Before and After Intense Conversations? [12:48] The First Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Acknowledge [16:30] The Second Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Discern [20:24] The Third Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Decide[26:00] Want to Learn Additional Tools to Help You In Marriage? Stay Tuned for Upcoming Episodes! RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.How Emotionally Confident Are You? This 2-Minute Quiz Will Reveal Your Biggest Challenges in Managing Emotions (plus 3 Action Steps to Find More Calm and Peace Based on Your Persona!)RELATED EPISODES:299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?Send us a text
In today's episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast with host Simon Goode, we dive into the crucial topic of managing emotions during performance management meetings. Simon, a seasoned professional mediator, addresses the challenges often faced in these meetings, especially when conflict escalates. He explores various de-escalation strategies tailored for performance management conversations by focusing on five key aspects: certainty, relatedness, autonomy, status, and fairness. Simon also discusses the importance of balancing assertiveness with empathy, offering step-by-step insights into how to maintain composure through both verbal and nonverbal communication. Whether you're aiming to foster collaboration or need to take a more direct approach, Simon's guidance in this episode provides valuable tools to help navigate performance-related discussions effectively. Tune in to learn how to keep these crucial conversations more productive and less contentious.--------------------EPISODE SUMMARY: Understanding Performance Management ConflictsPerformance management processes as potentially adversarial.Natural combativeness and defensive responses.Approach to de-escalation in performance management settings.Balancing assertiveness and empathy.De-escalation Skills and Their ApplicationOverview of five aspects: certainty, relatedness, autonomy, status, and fairness.Individual context-based approach to either assertiveness or empathy.Five options for responding to conflict: competing, compromising, accommodating, avoiding, collaborating.De-escalation Strategy: CertaintyProviding certainty through information about what to expect.Discussing behavior, consequences, and facts.Transparency and specificity in addressing issues.De-escalation Strategy: RelatednessDemonstrating understanding and empathy.Allowing questions and pausing to slow the pace.Addressing emotions and processing time.De-escalation Strategy: AutonomyGiving a sense of control over the meeting and issue.Offering choices and soliciting input on problem-solving.De-escalation Strategy: StatusMaking the person feel important.Acknowledging contributions and separating issue from personal attributes.De-escalation Strategy: FairnessAllowing responses and questions.Implementing transparent processes and outlining change expectations.Nonverbal Aspects of De-escalationVoice tone, volume, and pace adjustments.Facial expression and body language considerations.Maintaining a composed presence to influence meeting dynamics.Click here to send me a quick message via FanMailwebsite: simongoode.com email: podcast@simongoode.com
We all desire emotional intimacy but should we share all of our emotions in marriage? Today we are exploring why emotional regulation and seeking God's wisdom before we go to our partners with our emotions can strengthen our relationships. If you want to improve your mindset in marriage and create deeper connections, join me today! WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:39] Emotions Are Healthy But They Do Not Have to Guide Our Future[04:19] Feeling a Big Emotion? Take It to God First[09:19] Do You Place Unrealistic Expectations on Your Partner?[12:09] 2 Questions to Ask Yourself While Processing Your Emotions with the Lord[16:08] Bringing Your Emotions to God First Strengthens Your Relationship with Him and Your MarriageRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.RELATED EPISODES:296: Are You In an Emotionally Toxic Friendship?Send us a text
In today's podcast, I interviewed Perrin White, a Speech-Language Pathologist, Certified Orofacial Myologist, Registered Yoga Teacher, and Breath Coach. In this episode we discuss: Double Bubble of Self-Care (ie. energy hygiene) How life's traumatic experiences gives us purpose The benefits of "tongue resting posture" Mouth taping The impact technology is having on our breath Take a listen to this episode and share your takeaways with Perrin and I on Instagram @OneWade and @breathewellbewell. Sign up to be the first to know when my new interactive self-care book, 100 Mindful Moments to Balance & Energize is out. Join a free community to make self-care accessible and sustainable. Learn more: Wadebrill.com/100mindfulmoments ***** Perrin White is a Speech-Language Pathologist, Certified Orofacial Myologist, Registered Yoga Teacher, and Breath Coach. As founder and owner of Breathe Well Be Well, Perrin combines both her professional and personal background in airway health to help clients find their deepest, truest breath through better learning about their own bodies and what it is capable of! Breathe Well Be Well provides support for everything from mouth breathing, snoring, teeth grinding, TMJD, speech issues, feeding-swallowing difficulties, anxiety, and sleep apnea using myofunctional therapy, functional breathwork, meditation, and the lens of curiosity over criticism. Find more information about these offerings at www.breathewellbewell.info and follow on Instagram @breathewellbewell.
What's your mindset around getting older as a Christian woman? Aging often impacts women's confidence, especially in our western culture. In today's episode (in honor of my 50th birthday!), we're talking about uplifting ways to process your emotions and build godly confidence during this stage of life.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:52] Are You Questioning Your Role, Body Changes, or Purpose During This Stage of Life?[07:42] The Importance of Refocusing Our Thoughts on The Reality of Life[09:58] 5 Powerful Truths to Focus on as We Grow Older[19:52] 5 Action Steps We Can Use to Support Us As We Navigate AgingRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to restore your soul in beautiful Tuscany? Join us for an unforgettable 10 days of rejuvenation, exploration, and fun in Italy!RELATED EPISODES:177: Coping with Grief and Shattering Loss when Tragedy Strikes with Lisa Appelo214: Managing All the Feels Through Life's Big Transitions with Nicki Koziarz262: Learning to Age Gratefully with Heather CreekmoreSend us a text
Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series, a special segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Join therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC, as she answers real-life parenting questions to help you find your calm in the chaos of parenting—and not lose your, well… you know.TODAY'S QUESTION:"What are some coping strategies I can teach my child for handling big feelings like anger, sadness, or frustration?"Big emotions can feel overwhelming for both kids and parents. When frustration, anger, or sadness take over, it's easy to default to saying, “Calm down!”—but let's be honest, that rarely works. In this episode, Vanessa shares a real strategy that helps kids manage big emotions in a way that actually makes sense for their developing brains. She breaks down the steps—starting with movement, then using distraction, and finally introducing coping strategies after kids are calm. Plus, she shares why practicing coping skills before emotions run high is the key to long-term success.TUNE IN TO LEARN:Why traditional “calm down” strategies don't work in the heat of the momentThe step-by-step approach to helping kids regulate their emotionsHow movement can help release built-up energy before calming downThe power of distraction as a reset tool before talking about emotionsWhy practicing coping strategies before meltdowns makes all the differenceTAKEAWAY MESSAGE:Helping kids manage big emotions isn't about stopping the feelings—it's about giving them the tools to navigate them. By using movement, redirection, and practiced coping strategies, you're helping your child develop emotional regulation skills that will serve them for life.Download Vanessa's FREE 120 Coping Strategies Guide—complete with videos to help you and your child implement these tools—by clicking this link: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskillsListen in, and remember... you're always free to be mindful!Send us a text120 COPING SKILLShttps://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskillsCULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGEhttps://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallengeSUBMIT QUESTIONS for CONSULT A COUNSELOR:https://qrco.de/consultacounselorWATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@counselorvdejesus GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT!https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindfulUse this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice.STAY CONNECTED:Show Hashtag: #freetobemindfulpodcastWebsite: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcastAll Social Channels: @counselorvdejesus DISCLAIMER:Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.
How can you believe in God's love when the wounds of the past feel overwhelming and you're dealing with broken trust? Whether you've dealt with a betrayal in a relationship, hardships in life, or church hurt - you are not alone in what you're going through. If you are having difficulty trusting God after you've been hurt, today's episode with author Rachael Adams will bring some healing into your life. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[05:15] Have You Been Hurt and Are Doubting God's Love?[09:08] How Can We Use God's Love to Start Over in Unthinkable Situations?[12:40] How Can The Idea of “Loving Fearlessly” Help Us to Move Forward When We Are Wounded?[17:00] What Can We Do If We Feel Unloveable and Undeserving of Receiving God's Love?[21:06] I Read All of The Bible Verses and Still Don't Feel God's Love - What Do I Do? [22:56] Reflecting on 1 Corinthians 13:4-8[25:06] Alicia's Reflections: We Cannot Gloss Over The Difficult Moments - Be Willing to Sit in The MuckRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!RELATED EPISODES:291: Turning Inward to Make Outward Changes This YearSend us a text
Today's podcast features, leaderning & develpment consultant, trainer and coach, Kelsey Ley. We discuss how important it is for manager's to understand themselves so that they can lead with intention. This is not only important to enhance business, but managers have a huge impact on their direct repoorts' well-being. Kelsey shares a powerful framework that helps managers understand what type of manager they tend to opperate from and how understanding this is key. Kelsey also shares insights in how managers can manage conflict, enhance accoutability and offer feedback with more assertiveness and ease. Take a listen to the whole episode and join us on LinkedIn to continue the conversation Wade Brill and Kelsey Ley. Want more support regulating your mindset, nervous system and emotions as a leader? Reach out to discover what working together can look like. Schedule a Connection Call here. ___ KELSEY LEY Website Learning & Development Consultant, Trainer, and Coach With a formal education background and current focus on manager development, Kelsey brings over 14 years of teaching, coaching, and community development to her work. She has partnered with companies such as Principal, Meta, Bender Management, Verano, the Boys and Girls Club, and many others. Fun facts: Former girl scout, new resident of Tucson, AZ, and mom to a 3 year old with another on the way!
Friendships are a beautiful gift from God, but have you ever experienced a toxic friendship that crossed emotional boundaries? In today's episode, I share key signs of a toxic friendship and how to set boundaries around them – especially if you struggle with people-pleasing.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:04] What is an Emotionally Toxic Friendship?[05:11] “A Healthy Friendship is Based on Mutual Truth and Care”[08:37] How Do Friendships Vary in Purpose and Support?[11:54] Are You in an Over-Dependent Relationship?[18:37] Tools We Can Use to Set Boundaries in Toxic Friendships[22:53] Do You Want The Fear of Offending Someone to Stop You From Making Healthy Choices in Friendships?[25:00] Should We Always Bring Up Boundaries in Toxic Relationships? [27:20] Friendships Do Not Replace Our Relationship With GodRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Ready for a step-by-step plan based on the Bible + brain science to identify + rewire subconscious thoughts so they line up with your true identity in Christ? Join us in the Christian Mindset Makeover!Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes on EmotionsAll Episodes on BoundariesSend us a text
Many of us feel lonelier than ever, but what if there were ways to start building connections and overcome that loneliness? Author Becky Harling joins us to discuss powerful mindset shifts for loneliness that we can implement today.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:56] Why Do We Feel Guilt and Shame Around Loneliness? [06:57] How Can We Break Free From The Things That Keep Us Stuck in Loneliness?[10:15] How Does Authentic Connection Relate to Our Connection With The Lord?[13:36] Why is Embracing Humility an Essential Step in Working Through Loneliness?[16:05] “Stop Comparing and Start Cheering”[19:38] How Has The Cultural Shift Towards Self-Sufficiency Kept Us From Giving and Receiving Comfort? [26:58] Why Is It Important to Overcome Being Easily Offended?[36:41] Alicia's Reflections: Ask Yourself “What Is My Responsibility and How Can I Look At Loneliness in a New Light?”RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with author Becky HarlingRELATED EPISODES:238: “How Can I Feel More Connected + Less Lonely This Year?”Send us a text
If you deal with chronic pain you know that managing emotions often feels emotionally draining. There is a lot of science-based evidence on the emotion-pain connection - which is what I will be sharing about today. You are not alone in the emotions you experience with chronic pain and I am walking this journey right alongside you.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:39] Four Scientific Reasons Why Chronic Pain Can Feel So Emotionally Debilitating[14:19] Suffering is Not Something We Can Avoid - But We Can Reframe It[19:21] How Can We Use ADD to Walk Through Chronic Pain?[30:12] A Real-Life Example of How I Used ADD as Emotional Support While Dealing With a Frozen Shoulder[32:10] Want Support Managing Emotions Around Chronic Pain? Join Us In The Emotional Confidence Club!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes on EmotionsSend us a text
Do you struggle with naming emotions? Do you wish you had a tool to help you name your feelings? In today's episode, author Anjuli Paschall joins us to share why noticing your feelings may feel challenging and ways you can start to learn more about them. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[05:05] Our Emotions Are a Gift That Draws Us Closer to God[07:48] The Story Behind Anjuli's Latest Book “Feel”[11:07] Why Is Noticing and Naming Our Emotions So Challenging?[15:23] What Are The Temptations We May Experience With Certain Emotions and How Can We Move Through These Feelings?[20:06] We Are Not Here to Fix Our Emotions, We Are Here to Become Vulnerable and Build Deeper Connections[25:44] A Liturgy For When You Feel Numb[31:09] Alicia's Reflections: The Importance of Exploring the Depths of Our EmotionsRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with author Anjuli PaschallBook a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!Imagine if you could use brain science and the Bible together to rewire those inner lies that keep you from believing God's truth about your identity--those limiting beliefs, perfectionistic ideals, unresolved fears, and more! Join the hundreds of women who have found renewed confidence + freedom in the Christian Mindset Makeover! RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes on EmotionsSend us a text
Asking yourself ‘What am I feeling?' can feel very daunting, but understanding your emotions is a powerful step toward emotional self-awareness. Join me today as we explore how analyzing your emotions can bring you closer to yourself and God.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:33] How Can We Build a Habit Around Noticing Our Emotions?[05:14] The First Question to Ask Yourself: “What Am I Feeling?”[11:54] The Second Question to Ask Yourself: “Why Does It Make Sense That I'm Feeling This Way?”[13:46] What Keeps You From Asking Yourself These Questions?[15:08] We Are In Control of Our Actions and Habits[15:55] I'd Love to Help You Get to The Next Level in Your Life - Book a Free 15-Minute Call With Me!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Book a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes on EmotionsSend us a text
It is the time of year when everyone is goal-setting and focusing on outward achievements - but what if God is calling you to embrace emotional replenishment first? Join me today as I talk about the impact of going inward and how not every season of life is about outward production. It might be the time to step back, focus inward, and start waiting on God to bring replenishment.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[01:16] What if Turning Inward For Replenishment is What You Need For The Big Changes You Desire in Life?[04:32] Just Like Nature, We Each Experience Seasons of Rest and Growth[07:27] “There is Hidden Wisdom in a Tree's Annual Dormancy”[09:39] We Need to be Replenished to Show Up Well For Others[12:52] What Does The Process of Replenishment Look Like?[15:56] Have You Bought The Lie That Progress Only Looks Like Achievement?[17:51] Finding Emotional Strength and Replenishment to Prepare Ourselves For Different Situations[21:08] Do You Need Emotional Replenishment? Book a Free 15-Minute Call With Me to Discuss The Next Steps in Your Emotional Management Journey!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Book a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!Ready to refresh your mind, body, and spirit as you explore one of the world's most beloved regions? Join Alicia in September 2025 for a life-changing travel retreat to Italy!Imagine if you could use brain science and the Bible together to rewire those inner lies that keep you from believing God's truth about your identity--those limiting beliefs, perfectionistic ideals, unresolved fears, and more! Join the hundreds of women who have found renewed confidence + freedom in the Christian Mindset Makeover! RELATED EPISODES:Episodes on Goals + Life TransitionsSend us a text
If you struggle with managing anxiety around your fear of the future, you are not alone. Today is a replay of the most popular episode this year and as we are all creating new year goals, it is important to bring it back. As we head into 2025, I hope this episode helps with ideas around managing fear so you feel confident to step into your God-given dreams - no matter what comes your way.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:50] Is Fear Bad?[07:42] What is The Difference Between Worldly Fear And Godly Fear? [11:16] What is The Concept of Pachad And Yirah?[15:20] Are You Stuck in The Fear Coping Mechanism Cycle?[17:09] What Is A Healthy Coping Mechanism To Deal With Fear?[18:11] Are There “Cracks In Your Foundation” When It Comes to Trusting God? [21:55] Working Through Fear with the “Calm Your Anxiety Toolkit”[24:05] The Exciting Things That Are Coming in 2025![28:10] A Powerful Prayer Dedicating Our Upcoming Year to ChristRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Do anxious thoughts consume your mind + steal your peace? If so, check out the “Calm Your Anxiety Toolkit”RELATED EPISODES:163: How I Take Courage, Manage Anxiety, and Release Fear with Amy Debrucque201: It's Time to Make a Plan to Manage Anxiety, Release Fear and Stop Worry 239: Stuck in An “Expired” Season? Seeking God for Perspective on What's Next with Shayna Rattler249: Learning to Expectantly Believe God for Big Dreams (Even If You've Been Hurt)Send us a text
How can we trust God and overcome fear as we step into our career calling? In today's episode, Christian career coach Kelsey Kemp joins us to uncover what it truly means to partner with God while exploring our life's purpose - despite the very real fears that can hold us back. If finding purpose has been on your heart, this episode will support you to move forward with confidence.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:05] What Are The Biggest Lies People Struggle With When It Comes to Seeking Their God-Given Calling?[06:20] The Importance of Taking Action When Seeking God for Our Calling[09:04] Create an Energy-Giving versus Energy-Draining List[14:15] Ask Yourself This Question When You Feel Paralyzed By Which Calling to Choose[17:00] How Can We Hold The Tension When We Know Our Calling Is Coming But It Is Not Quite There Yet?[19:18] “Our Calling Is Much Less of a Singular Event, It Is a Lifelong Conversation With God” [26:03] Alicia's Reflections: Many Different Emotions Come Up Around Life Transitions, Use Emotional Confidence to Help Support You Through Them!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with Christian career coach Kelsey KempRELATED EPISODES:All Episodes on Emotional ConfidenceSend us a text
Is empty nest syndrome impacting your life too? Today, motivational speaker Ann Dunagan joins us to share insights on managing emotions through this transition and how to work through feelings of loneliness, identity shifts, and fear of the unknown while trusting God's plan for this new season. It is possible to have emotional confidence throughout this journey and this episode gives us practical tools to do just that.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:51] What Are The Most Common Emotions That Come Up During Empty Nest Syndrome?[10:09] How Does Bringing Our Emotions to God Help to Solidify Our Relationship With Him?[12:02] Practical Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage During the Empty Nest Season[15:17] How Can We Balance the Emotions Surrounding Our Adult Children Making Their Own Decisions?[19:38] Letting Go of Parenting Shame and Releasing Our Responsibility to God[25:21] The Three Steps of Managing Emotions + Free Bible Verses on Joy[28:45] Alicia's Reflections: Do You Feel That The Best is Gone? Do you Have a Fear of This Being Your “New Normal?” [32:33] Using ADD + Emotional Confidence to Navigate the Emotions of an Empty NesterRESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with best-selling author & motivational speaker Ann DunaganSend us a text
I'm excited to introduce you to a powerful tool called EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), also known as tapping. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of stress, emotional eating, or self-doubt, or if you're just looking to create more balance in your life, EFT might be helpful to you. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What Is EFT Tapping? How Does EFT Help Women Over 40? Why Is EFT So Effective? What Does an EFT Session Look Like? Why I Choose Clinical EFT Over Tapping Scripts: How EFT Can Help You Release Limiting Beliefs and Emotional Roadblocks Mentioned in this episode Free call: If you're feeling stuck with cravings, emotional eating, or health goals, let's chat! I offer a free call to see if EFT and coaching are the right fit for you.
What does leaving a legacy mean to you? In this episode, author Sally Clarkson shares how living for God has supported her throughout her life and how our legacy is something we discover during different seasons of life. Although life was never promised to be perfect, living without regret is possible when we realize that we are already accepted in God's eyes. Know that it is possible to flourish and have a life well lived - no matter what story you are in right now. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:01] What Inspired Sally to Write Her Latest Book “Well Lived”[07:32] How Can We Let God Direct Our Stories?[12:54] “Getting Rid of Fear is Letting Go of The Voices That Make Us Feel Insecure”[17:52] How Do We Rebuild Our Trust in The Lord?[24:34] The Importance of Bringing Light Into People's Lives [30:10] “You Develop Your Spiritual Muscle by Connecting with God a Little Each Day” [33:00] Life Was Never Promised to Be Perfect - Have Courage & Let Go of Expectations [39:43] Alicia's Reflections: We Have The Ability to Be the Light for Everyone Around Us RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with best-selling author Sally ClarksonSend us a text
Although the holidays bring joy, they can also bring holiday stress. Taking care of our mental health during the holidays is essential to fully enjoy the season. If you want to prepare yourself for the emotions during the holidays, join me today! Make sure to grab a journal as I share a practical three-part plan to help you build emotional confidence and navigate this season with peace and intention.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[01:56] Why Are The Holidays Full of Emotional Triggers?[07:16] 3 Ways to Diffuse The Emotional Overwhelm of The Holidays[12:35] Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Experience Holiday Stress[15:47] What Are We In Control of and Responsible For?[21:33] The Three-Part Plan You Can Use to Be Emotionally Confident Through The Holidays [26:10] Want More Practical Tools to Help You Through Holiday Stress? Grab Your Copy of Emotional Confidence Today!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About Emotions276: Emotional Prep: How to Find Calm First So You Can Process Your Feelings282: Emotional Responsibility: How to Stop Owning Other's Feelings + Take Charge of Your OwnSend us a text
In this episode, my guest is Dr. Ethan Kross, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of Michigan, director of the Emotion & Self-Control Laboratory, and author of the bestselling book Chatter. We discuss the purpose of the inner voice in your head and its impact on emotional well-being and motivation. We also explore practical tools to manage negative internal chatter and eliminate intrusive thoughts. Topics include how music, exercise, mental distancing techniques, and expressive writing can help rescript your inner dialogue to be self-encouraging and effective in creating outward behavioral changes. Dr. Kross explains why venting to others is self-defeating and offers better alternatives. Throughout the episode, he provides research-supported, actionable protocols to help you shift your internal dialogue and accompanying emotional state, fostering greater happiness and resilience. Access the full show notes for this episode at hubermanlab.com. Pre-order Andrew's new book, Protocols: protocolsbook.com Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman ExpressVPN: https://expressvpn.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps 00:00:00 Dr. Ethan Kross 00:02:45 Sponsors: ExpressVPN & Eight Sleep 00:05:38 Inner Voice & Benefits 00:10:33 Music & Emotions 00:15:09 Shifting Emotions, Emotional Congruency, Facial Expressions 00:20:25 Resistance to Shifting Emotion; Tool: Invisible Support, Affectionate Touch 00:27:16 Tool: Expressive Writing; Sensory Shifters 00:30:41 Sponsors: AG1 & Joovv 00:33:27 Inner Voice Benefits, Thinking vs. Writing, Tool: Journaling 00:44:01 Decision Making, Individualization; Tool: Exercise 00:50:24 “Chatter,” Trauma, Depression, Anxiety 00:54:37 Sponsor: Function 00:56:25 Tool: Combating Chatter, Mental Distancing; Distraction & Social Media 01:04:30 Tools: 2 AM Chatter Strategy, Mental Time Travel; Venting 01:13:41 Time, Chatter & Flow 01:18:01 Focusing on Present, Mental Time Travel 01:22:49 Texting, Social Media, Sharing Emotions 01:28:31 AI & Individualized Tools for Emotional Regulation 01:33:07 Imaginary Friend, Developing Inner Voice; Negative Emotions 01:40:20 Tool: Nature & Cognitive Restoration; Awe; Screens, Modifying Spaces 01:49:34 Cities vs. Nature, Organizing Space & Compensatory Control 01:56:00 Emotional Regulation & Shifters, Screens 02:01:19 Historical Approaches to Manage Emotions; Motivation & Mental Tools 02:10:12 Mechanical & Behavioral Interventions, Emotional Regulation 02:15:52 Tool: Stop Intrusive Voices; Anxiety 02:21:55 Assessing Risk & Consequence; Flow & Cognitive Engagement 02:31:02 “Cognitive Velocity”; Resetting 02:36:43 Transition States, Tool: Goal Pursuit & WOOP 02:43:59 Attention, Emotional Flexibility; Avoidance 02:54:15 Emotional Contagion 03:00:22 Validating Emotions, Wisdom; Shift Book 03:06:59 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures
It's the time of year when being thankful is at the front of our minds, but when can this slip into toxic gratitude? Join me today as I share Bible verses and tools that you can use to process your emotions and step into healthy gratitude this season. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[01:44] 3 Verses to Support Us As We Lean Into Gratitude[06:24] How Can We Tell When We Are Slipping Into Toxic Gratitude?[11:15] How Can We Use ADD to Work Through Our Emotions So We Can Experience Authentic Gratitude?[17:17] The Power of Thanking God in Advance [20:02] Do You Want to Learn More About Handling Your Emotions? If So, Make Sure to Get Your Copy of Emotional Confidence Today!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About EmotionsSend us a text
My book Emotional Confidence has officially been out in the world for a week and I want all of you to join us in celebration! I hosted my very first book launch party to celebrate with those who live locally and have been supporting me through this journey. Today I wanted to share the speech I wrote about what can happen when we trust God to work through us, a prayer from my friend Carlie Kercheval, and six ways that you can pray for this book. If you haven't already, make sure to grab your copy of Emotional Confidence and write a review so this book can get into the hearts of those who need it most. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:39] Hosting a Book Launch Party For Emotional Confidence [02:44] An Example of What Can Happen When We Imperfectly Follow God and Allow Him to Work Through Us[12:22] A Prayer Over Emotional Confidence By Carlie Kercheval[15:58] 6 Ways That You Can Help Us Pray For This Book. Make Sure to Grab Your Copy of Emotional Confidence Today!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture.”RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About EmotionsSend us a text
Are you tired of your emotions getting the best of you? In this episode of Visibly Fit, Alicia Michelle joins me to talk about her new book, Emotional Confidence: Three Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by your feelings or struggled to keep them in check, this conversation is for you. Alicia gets real about how her personal battle with emotions nearly cost her everything and how she found healing through faith and science.This episode isn't just about managing emotions; it's about transforming how you live and connect with God in everyday moments. Whether you're navigating stress, relationships, or personal growth, this episode will give you tools to experience real freedom. You'll walk away with practical, actionable steps to get unstuck, find peace, and trust God fully. Tune in to discover how emotional confidence can change your life – because you deserve to thrive emotionally, physically, and spiritually!Chapter:[00:00] Podcast Preview[00:52] Introduction to the Visibly Fit Podcast[01:31] The Importance of Processing Emotions[02:57] Introducing Alicia Michelle[04:25] Alicia's New Book: Emotional Confidence[05:21] The Journey to Writing the Book[08:23] Defining Emotional Confidence[09:06] The Connection to Weight Loss[10:19] The A.D.D. Method[10:31] Step 1: Acknowledge[11:05] Step 2: Discern[12:03] Step 3: Decide[16:04] The Challenge of Emotional Patterns[17:51] Why People Struggle with Emotions[20:50] The Overwhelming Nature of Emotions[23:20] The Impact of Unprocessed Emotions[26:00] Resetting Emotions[29:13] Favorite Emotional Reset Techniques[:32:12] Using Scripture for Emotional Support[35:15] Cultural Influences on Emotions[:36:10] Where to Find Alicia's Book[37:13] Closing Thoughts and ResourcesResources mentioned:Alicia Michelle's WebsiteVisibly Fit 7-Week Accelerator ProgramConnect with today's guest:InstagramFacebookAlicia Michelle is a lover of Jesus, a wife to her best friend of 15 years, a homeschooling mom to four energetic and creative kids, and the Founder and editor of YourVibrantFamily.com. A former Christian magazine editor, she is also the author of "Plan to Be Flexible", "Back to School Survival Manual" and Creator/Producer of Your Vibrant Family's online video courses "bloom” and “rhythm” along with Your Vibrant Family printables. She is also a monthly contributor to several popular family blogs. She believes each day offers new opportunities to grow in grace, and that "acceptance with joy" is one of the hidden secrets of the Christian life.P.S. If you're just checking out the show to see if it's a good fit for you, welcome!If you're really serious about becoming Visibly Fit, you'll get the best experience if you download the worksheets available at https://wendiepett.com/visiblyfitpodcast.
We're tying our series on managing emotions together with testimonials of how this powerful mindset work can truly transform your life and relationships. In this episode, I'll be opening up with personal stories and testimonials to show you how managing emotions can strengthen your relationships and create a more joyful life. My book, Emotional Confidence officially launches tomorrow (11/12/24), and next week I will be sharing an audio from my book launch party, right here on the podcast - stay tuned!WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[00:33] Emotional Confidence Launches Tomorrow (and Big TARGET announcement!)[06:41] How Do Unprocessed Emotions Affect Us Overall?[08:44] My Story: How Learning to Manage Emotions Dramatically Changed My Life[18:17] 3 Testimonials That Show The Impact of Using The Book's Emotional Management Tools [25:44] The Importance of Coming Up With a “Why” Statement For Managing Your Emotions[30:10] How is NOT Managing Your Emotions Stealing From You? Grab Your Copy of Emotional Confidence Today!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture.”RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About Emotions271: (New Book!) Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science + Scripture282: Emotional Responsibility: How to Stop Owning Other's Feelings + Take Charge of Your OwnSend us a text
What does it mean to take responsibility for your feelings? Today, I am discussing how we can take charge of our feelings in a way that honors both ourselves and the people around us. Determining our emotional responsibility is key to having a thriving life!WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:27] What Does It Mean to Take Emotional Responsibility as a Christian?[15:36] What is Our Emotional Responsibility in Relationships? [21:55] Why is it Important to Determine Emotional Responsibility?[24:10] What Are You Responsible and NOT Responsible For?[30:23] What is God Responsible For When It Comes to Our Emotions?[33:14] 3 Questions We Can Ask Ourselves to Determine Emotional Responsibility[35:14] Did You Love This Conversation on Emotional Responsibility? If So, Get Your Copy of Emotional Confidence!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”, coming November 12, 2024!RELATED EPISODES:110: Conviction vs Condemnation: What's the Difference?275: How Can I Name What I'm Feeling (When My Emotions Feel So Overwhelming)?276: Do This BEFORE You Process Your Emotions (Emotional Prep)277: Step 1: How Can We ACKNOWLEDGE Our Emotions Without Letting Them Take Over?278: Step 2: How Can We DISCERN God's Voice Over the Chaos of Our Emotions?279: Step 3: How Can We DECIDE to Respond to Our Feelings In Light Of Biblical Truth?Send us a text
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2367: Emotional development in children evolves with age, and how caregivers respond to their feelings plays a key role in shaping emotional intelligence. Sanya Pelini outlines strategies to help kids identify, understand, and manage their emotions, from infancy to childhood, emphasizing the importance of validation and modeling appropriate emotional responses. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/age-age-guide-helping-kids-manage-emotions/ Quotes to ponder: "How we react to our kids' emotions has an impact on the development of their emotional intelligence." "Naming emotions also helps toddlers learn that emotions are normal." "Kids who feel safe are more likely to develop and use appropriate emotion regulation skills to deal with difficult feelings." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're dealing with up-and-down emotions in perimenopause, you may wonder, “What's happening to my body and my moods?” In this episode, author Dr. Mikala Albertson shares how mood changes in menopause can affect us, ways to start the conversation with our doctor about hormone testing, and how we can address our fears around our bodies changing. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:18] Why Are So Many Women Surprised By Hormonal Changes In Midlife?[06:14] Taking a Symptomatic Approach to Our Challenges During Midlife[11:11] What Inspired Mikala to Write Her Book “Everything I Wish I Could Tell You About Midlife”[15:28] How Can We Address Our Fears Around Changing in Midlife?[21:56] What Are The Timelines of Perimenopause vs Menopause?[27:11] Where Do We Start The Conversation With Our Doctor About Hormone Testing?[35:52] How Can We Restore and Maintain Our Libido as Our Body Changes During Midlife?[38:25] Can We Still Build Muscle During Perimenopause and Menopause?[40:26] “My Hope Is That Women Feel Seen and Understood Throughout This Book”[44:55] Alicia's Reflections: How Can We Emotionally Support Ourselves During Midlife and Perimenopause? Using My Book Emotional Confidence to Help!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”, coming November 12, 2024!Connect with board-certified family practice doctor and author Dr. Mikala AlbertsonRELATED EPISODES:262: Learning to Age Gratefully with Heather CreekmoreSend us a text
Managing our emotions is crucial for navigating difficult conversations during times of political anxiety and election stress. Join me as I discuss the importance of speaking the truth in love and share key questions to ask yourself before engaging with those who hold differing opinions—all while building emotional confidence with Scripture in mind.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:15] How to Stay Kind and Christ-Like in Difficult Situations (Pre-Order Two Copies of Emotional Confidence For This BONUS Training!)[04:39] As Followers of Christ, We Are Called to Speak Truth in Love[07:30] Could Not Responding Be the Best Response? [11:08] Why Is It Important to Be Cautious About Issues Not Directly Addressed in Scripture?[12:46] “God is The One Who Convinces Hearts of What is True”[15:23] How Can We Use ADD to Navigate Conflict With People Who Have Differing Opinions?[26:26] How Can Emotional Prep Help Us During These Situations?[29:09] Looking for Support in Managing Your Emotions During Conflict? If So, Get Your Copy of Emotional Confidence!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”, coming November 12, 2024!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About Emotions271: (New Book!) Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science + Scripture272: Healing from the Shame of Unprocessed Emotions in Your Life and Relationships273: Overcome the Fear of Managing Emotions with 4 Empowering Truths274: Are Emotions Sinful? How Can We Honor Emotions While Also Honoring Biblical Truth?275: How Can I Name What I'm Feeling (When My Emotions Feel So Overwhelming)?276: Do This BEFORE You Process Your Emotions (Emotional Prep)277: Step 1: How Can We ACKNOWLEDGE Our Emotions Without Letting Them Take Over?278: Step 2: How Can We DISCERN God's Voice Over the Chaos of Our Emotions?279: Step 3: How Can We DECIDE to Respond to Our Feelings In Light Of Biblical Truth?Send us a text
In today's episode, I'm guiding you through the "Decide" step of ADD (my signature emotional management tool), where we learn how to obey God instead of giving in to our emotional impulses. I share practical tools to help us manage our emotions and surrender them to God, even when it's hard. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:39] Decide: What Action Does God Want Us to Take and Where Does He Want Us To Emotionally Dwell?[07:17] God Inspires Us to Make The Right Decisions, Despite What We Are Feeling [11:09] Once We Know We Are Seen, It Becomes So Much Easier to Obey God[13:15] “Make The Best Decision You Can in The Moment Based on The Wisdom You're Given by The Holy Spirit”[16:00] Want to Learn How to Apply the ADD Emotional Management Tool in Your Everyday Day? If So, Join The Book Launch Team for Emotional Confidence!RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to join the launch team for my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”, coming November 12th!RELATED EPISODES:All Episodes About Emotions271: (New Book!) Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science + Scripture272: Healing from the Shame of Unprocessed Emotions in Your Life and Relationships273: Overcome the Fear of Managing Emotions with 4 Empowering Truths274: Are Emotions Sinful? How Can We Honor Emotions While Also Honoring Biblical Truth?275: How Can I Name What I'm Feeling (When My Emotions Feel So Overwhelming)?276: Do This BEFORE You Process Your Emotions (Emotional Prep)277: Step 1: How Can We ACKNOWLEDGE Our Emotions Without Letting Them Take Over?278: Step 2: How Can We DISCERN God's Voice Over the Chaos of Our Emotions?Send us a text