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How Do you Perceive Your Situation? Rocks or Diamonds?download and listen, Laureen and Tony Giorgio Hosts.   Sponsored by: Teague's Grocery and Cafe 130 Soco Road Maggie Valley NC 28751Breakfast/lunch Delivery by GRUBHUB  Natalie Keefer from-Savvy Sisters Solutions Mckeesport PA • Marketing Agency"Wonderful ministry and amazing podcast full of hope and God's words" Eddie Floyd From-America Matters Media."Best Message about our Lord and Savior ANYWHERE. LOVE BOTH of them."    Contact Us Living With Victory Ministries, Inc.P.O. Box 1982Maggie Valley, North Carolina 28751 livingwithvictory.orglivingwithvictory.podbean.comlivingwithvictory@gmail.comThank You For Listening  

This week we’re discussing the key to something that is universally desired… a happy and fulfilling life.The key is simple, and everyone can do it. Not everyone wants to though! The key is to take charge of your well-being. (Funnily enough, plenty of people don’t want to take charge.)Now when I say well-being, I’m not just talking about health. I mean well-being on all levels, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. You don’t have to be a total control freak, or a type A personality to take charge. You just have to have the desire, and be willing to change. Because if you’re not willing to change, well HELLO, nothing changes! So once you’ve got your willingness, what’s next? How DO you take charge and go about attaining deeper happiness?Well, you learn and practise the techniques that facilitate positive change, that lead us to greater well-being, that bring us freedom, that unleash our true power.A big part of improving your happiness, is not, funnily enough, going out and doing happy things with happy people, although those are good. (I’m not trashing those!) It’s about releasing the things that make you unhappy, stressed out and anxious.It’s about freeing yourself of your hangups, blockages and limitations. All those things that hold you back and cause you to stagnate or play small or accept less than you deserve.We need techniques and practices that help to free us of our sh*t, so that we can be uplifters in the world. The more people there are who have freed themselves, the better the world will be. That’s why it’s so important that each of us plays our part. We uplift ourselves and we uplift the whole dang world. As I always say, our own well-being radiates out and uplifts everyone we meet. The world needs more of that, right?I’m not talking about full-blown liberation or enlightenment here. I’m talking about incrementally achieving ever higher states of well-being.These things are totally possible when we accept our power, and take charge of our own well-being.Listen in as I share the practices and techniques that have had a massive impact in uplifting my life and the lives of my clients. Techniques that liberate us, AND fill our cup. Nice!RESOURCES:Get on the wait list for The Inner Circle MembershipThe Quantum Liberation Spa Guided Meditation

Rachael Herron tackles some difficult questions in this mini episode: Do you need a writing mentor? Or a pen name? How DO you write in a year like 2020, anyway? And what’s the best way to hack your way to a productive writing day? How Do You Write Podcast: Explore the processes of working writers with bestselling author Rachael Herron. Want tips on how to write the book you long to finish? Here you'll gain insight from other writers on how to get in the chair, tricks to stay in it, and inspiration to get your own words flowing. Join Rachael's Slack channel, Onward Writers. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

How DO we go about building up those change management muscles? How do we make ourselves and our business stronger and better able to weather this ever-changing environment? Meet Elatia Abate. She is an entrepreneur, educator, and future-forward strategist. She partners with organizations that range in size from Fortune 500 to early-stage start-ups to help leaders make sense of the ever-growing disruption in our world and channel that disruption into tangible results. Key Takeaways: - How resilience and change management are intertwined - What does the future of work/future of business look like NOW? - Strategies to exist and thrive in a constantly changing environment - What Elatia learned from her personal experiment in resiliency

While enjoying a day on the lake in Mr. Jacobs’ boat, Everett, Laura and newcomer, Destin, wonder about salvation… How DO we know if we’re really saved?  Mr. Jacobs helps explain! (Isaiah 59:2; 2nd Peter 3:9; Romans 10:9; Ephesians 1; 2nd Corinthians 5:17; 1st John 4:20; 1st Corinthians 13:1; Matthew 22; John 14:15)

Liz and Tom don their relationship counselor caps and do their best to help out friends of the show in their pursuit of love and happiness. With next to no qualifications.Welcome back to another Ask Liz and Tom episode where we are here to try our best to help!How do you tell a friend that they behave differently with their current significant other? How DO you ask a fellow human being out? Answers to these and more await you within!If you have a question for Liz and Tom or a story for the show then write us at ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com, and please rate, review, subscribe and share the show! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

How DO you get books out to children who are out of school, sheltering in place, and have no access to books at home? What if I told you there was such a thing as book fairies, and they deliver! Eileen Minogue, the Executive Director of "The Book Fairies" on Long Island in New York. Believe it or not, but—and you’ll hear the full story in this episode—this organization holds a Guiness world record! Connect on the show notes page: https://yournonprofitlife.com/ep24-eileen-minogue/

This week Chelsey dives deeper into Psalm 73:28, "But for me it is good to be near God; I have made the Lord my refuge, that I may tell of all your works." The Lord revealed to Chelsey that these 3 commands are choices we have to make. We have to choose to be near to The Lord. We have to choose to make Him our refuge, and we are called to tell the world of His works.The Lord made it clear to her that while He desires to be near her (He slways it), He desires to be her refuge, and He desires her to share of the amazing things He does...that it's her choice to be obedient in all 3 of these things. What does Psalm 73:26 Call us to Do?1. Be near to God! This doesn't change because of  circumstances, this should be a constant in all of our lives.2. Make The Lord our refuge - we need to stop turning to earthly things to fill this void and create a false safety net. 3. We are to tell of all His works. The Lord calls us to share the amazing things He does in our life (in His timing, not always right away) but to give examples to the world around us that The Lord is moving even in our days!How Do we Live This Truth Out?• Get in His word even when we don't feel like it. His word NEVER returns void (Isaiah 55:11). We grow nearer to The Lord by having a growing relationship with Him. • First we need to ask Him to reveal what things we turn to when we should be turning to Him. Repent of not turning to Him, receive His forgiveness and choose Him daily as your refuge!!• Share what God is doing in your life with someone! It can be family, a neighbor, a friend, your barista at Sbux, just SAHRE HIM and what He's doing in your life with anyone that will listen, it will always bless them! (Remember Isaiah 55:11).Q & A 1. How do you handle being friends with non-believers? ◦ Proverbs 17:17 - A friend loves at all times. - The Lord will call me into relationship with people who love Him and those who don't know Him. He calls me to love them and how them the hands and feet of Jesus. There are friendships I've had for years where they are not walking with Jesus but they fully respect my faith and what's important to me. ◦ Proverbs 11:14 - Where there is no guidance a peoples fall. - God calls us to walk in wisdom so if you're finding yourself feeling tempted within friendships who don't respect you, your faith, cause you to stumble due to their lack of guidance this is where we have to lean into the Holy Spirit and ask The Lord what to do with these friendships.2. What are you favorite stories in the Bible?◦ I love 2 Chronicles 20 - King Jehoshaphat's pleas with The Lord when He is facing something he doesn't know what to do with is such a testament to how we feel when we cry out to God in the same way. His words in vs. 12 are, "For we are powerless against this great horde coming against us, for we don't know what to do but our eyes are fixed on you. ◦ Habakkuk - this short book is a powerful one. It gives great perspective on God working in the midst of things we don't understand as well as us seeing we are able to go to God with all of our feelings and trust that He hears us. ◦ John 4 - The Woman at The Well - This was the first story in the Bible that opened my heart to fully accepting the truth that Jesus loves me regardless of what my past sin was. I am redeemed in Him and I'm filled with joy to speak of the redemption He's worked out in my life.  3. Do you think social media is a distraction or blessing? How do you balance screen time when you find yourself with lots of time on your hands?◦ I think it can be both a blessing and distraction. The Lord gave me Matthew 6:19-25 last year when working through discontentment. This is what I use to keep my social media time as a blessing. When it begins to cause me to feel tripped up by my emotions or falling into feeling of discontentment I know I need to take a break and get my heart back aligned in what God wants to use this for. ◦ For balancing screen time, I don't get this perfect but one thing that has worked is all apps on my phone are locked until 9AM. I also set a time limit for the day on IG at 40min a day. (this is the only form of SM I have). So setting limits and alarms are helpful! The Lord gave us boundaries for a reason so we certainly need them in all areas of our life.

In this episode of the ENDS Podcast, Bazz used his own experience with filing for a domestic LLC and how to start your own business in Detroit well the state of Michigan. ENDS Podcast Episode Time Stamp: 1:18 How Do legitimize my business in Michigan 2:11 Google Search found LARA Corporation Division 3:18 Choose Form 700 for Domestic Limited Liability Company ENDS Music Submission Link: https://www.endsstream.com/p/music-submissions.html ENDS Media Magazine Submission Link: https://www.endsmedia.stream/p/hbspt.html --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ends-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ends-podcast/support

That's right girl... How DO you make the transition when it's 85 one day and 68 the next? How do you decorate in a sustainable, cozy... GORGEOUS way for....drumroll............ FALL? We're dishing all the inspiration you need.CUE THE FALL WINE MUSIC! - Get a Bottle for a PENNY!Angela is sipping Bauer Pötltl from the Austria and Dry Farm WinesToday’s “What We’re Sipping” segment is brought to you by Dry Farm Wines. Dry Farms is an online wine subscription that pairs organic, biodynamic, naturally yeasted, low-sugar, lower-alcohol wines from all over the world. As Dry Farm customers, we get to share in their love for organic, naturally and traditionally made wines. “Better, not more.” So check out their better wines. You can get either 3,6 or 12 bottles delivered to your door monthly. Drink Dry Farm Wines with Ang and Shaye! Shop and Sip at: https://bit.ly/ ryFarmWinewithHomemakerChicNine 56 Studio - Welcome to our new sponsor www.nine56studio.com Sustainable, luxury loungewear for homemakers, work-from-home mamas, and homebodies. (Sound familiar???). Chic, comfy styles you need to look and feel your best. We love their loungewear because it's ethically produced in the Midwest, sewn from organic cotton grown in the USA, garment-dyed with low-impact, non-toxic dyes, and shipped in eco-packaging. From early morning strategy sessions at the kitchen table to chasing babes around the house, Nine 56 Studio luxury loungewear is created to help women find their work-from-home stride. Free shipping and return shipping in the US. Women-owned company. 20% off with discount code for our lovely Homemaker Chic Podcast listeners. Use the code Chic20 for 20% off!Today's takeaway:Bring the outdoors IN~Avoid made in China garbage that will end up on next years garage sale pile.You're a homemaker of many talents... THIS is your moment! It's time to decorate!

Liam and Ness reveal the Number 1, All Time Favourite Christmas Food and why you need it at your Christmas Dinner. Whats the Most Given Christmas Gift to MEN EVER? And Tensions are running High Between our Hosts in a heated Podcast that asks How Do you Deal with a Christmas BRAT.  

Episode: When you read a passage in Scripture or hear about someone’s experience with the supernatural (be it angelic, demonic, etc), what is your instinct? Explain it using specific hermeneutical tools? How? Do […] The post Esther Acolatse - Powers, Principalities, and the Spirit first appeared on OnScript.

Show Description: Episode 5 - Limitations are self-imposed because we base them on a belief we have about what we can and cannot do. Believe in our limitless potential.Top Takeaways:· As humans, we have limitless possibilities for our growth potential. We can be more than we are, do more than we do, and contribute more to humanity. All our limitations are self-imposed. · Our Expectations Influence Our Outcomes - As we build up our self-image by taking action and moving outside our comfort zones, we create a new belief that we can succeed. · How Do we Open to New Ideas? By working on personal development, we gain self-confidence and recognize that happiness arises from within ourselves. · Our mindset moves away from being fixed into a growth mindset. · Be Sure We Discount the Naysayers - If we notice that our self-talk isn’t helpful, we can learn to reframe the stories we are telling ourselves, so we are an encouraging voice. · Don’t Compare Ourselves to Others - Comparing ourselves to others is an act of fear of being our authentic selves. · Have a Vision for Our Lives - The vision we have of ourselves allows us to see who we want to become and take intentional steps on that path. · Our Authentic Self Has No Limitations - When we are inspired, during meditation, when we are in flow, we cannot comprehend limitations. · How Do We Move Forward? Realize that we hold the key to our self-imposed prison of self-doubt, indecision, and fear. Our present understanding doesn’t limit our possibilities. Episode Links:Ø Research from the University of CaliforniaØ Words are PowerfulØ The Past isn’t an Indication of the FutureØ Embrace all our DifferencesØ https://terrikozlowski.com/limitations-are-self-imposed/ Limitations are self-imposed because we base them on a belief we have about what we can and cannot do. Believe in our limitless potential. Do you need help to see that all limitations are self-imposed? Do you need support to see your potential and to believe in yourself? Reach out to me at https://TerriKozlowski.com Support the show (https://paypal.me/TerriKozlowski)

How DO you use corn starch to stop sweat? Why was Adam a "punch and judy" hitter? And what makes a good leader? Those and more as part of this week's "Ask Adam Anything"! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

You are passionate about working in CX/UX, but you are tired of feeling like you constantly have to sell it. How DO we get that seat at the table that we should have? What can we do to try to *once and for all* find the right allies and sponsors, and increase understanding and respect for CX/UX? Super special guest Elisa del Galdo will be sharing actionable advice (and probably a few war stories!). Join live to ask questions and share comments. Watch on YouTube https://youtu.be/qvGP0ioWj-U

It’s time to redefine #girlboss. Thanks to Sophia Amoruso and her spectacular rise to fame for quirky fashion and a quick run on Netflix, #girlboss is synonymous with fashionable/thin/childless/white/young/ambitious women. My claim to #girlboss has nothing to do with any of that, except the woman part.  And the ambition part.  Like the ambition I have to out-earn my husband. I used to feel it was taboo to say out that loud, even to him.  Have you experienced some kind of business shaming or judgment, whether it’s the voice in your head or people in your life who want you to tow the line as they have? I’ve felt the shaming so many times in the past three years while running my own business. And it is exhausting. It’s the reason I’ve built the business I have. I needed to find my people. The women who want to unapologetically chase success. #Girlbosses. Women like us know we’re good at what we do and the unique way we do it. But knowing we’re good at what we do isn’t enough.  Do you know what a makes million-dollar #girlboss different from everyone else who’s jealous of them? It’s not vision. Or revenue, although that helps. Or even having enough time. You’re a #girlboss when you start treating your business like you run it, and stop treating it like just another job where you’re the hardest-working employee. I want to reclaim #girlboss, so that’s it’s not just a synonym  #Girlboss isn’t just a word for ultra-feminine women who happen to run businesses. #Girlboss is a movement for ambitious women. So that means understanding our financials beyond revenue, profit, and expenses.  Running a team. Setting goals and knowing how to hit them.  If we can’t do the things that make our businesses stable, then they won’t grow. Why do we expect that burning ourselves out on client work will ever get us to the level and platform we want to get to?  This is the conversation we need to be having.  So let’s start it right now. How DO you become a #girlboss? This is the Reclaiming #girlboss Framework Set bold goals.  Embrace the numbers.  Love marketing + sales.  Protect your time by building systems and processes.  Don’t let the inner mean girl keep you small. Over the next five weeks I’ll be diving deeper into these five elements that help you transform from the number one employee to the girlboss, and I’ll be bringing on a few experts to help. Setting bold goalsis more than writing goals in your favorite notebook. (Although, that’s fun!)  It’s about knowing where we’re driving our businesses and being able to map out the steps to  get there. It’s about the guts and the vision and following the path that YOU set for this business. Embracing the numbersis yes, knowing your profit/loss and revenue. But it’s also ripping off the bandaid to look at them consistently. To know what metrics we should look at and what story those numbers are telling us about our businesses.  Loving marketing + sales is about how you talk about and sell your business, and understanding you can’t have one without the other. Marketing doesn’t do you any good if you don’t sell and you can’t sell if you don’t know how to talk about what your products and services do for your customer. And if you don’t know how to talk about your products and services,  you’re not doing marketing.  Protecting your time is about building businesses that can grow beyond the one-woman team. It’s about treating your business like you’re the boss. Stepping into leadership, hiring for the things you shouldn’t and can’t do, and one day -- building something that could run without you. And finally, silencing that inner mean girl. Focusing on your mindset, manifesting, and the “woo woo,” is too often sold to us entrepreneurial women as a cure for what ails our businesses. I think it’s over-emphasized, or at least, emphasized with no follow-up. If you don’t know anything about how to track your finances, when to hire and fire, or how to sell, you can have the most wonderful mindset in the world, but you’ll still have a failing business. Working on mindset is not a cure, it’s a practice.   You must take time to do the work, showing up time and time again to work through your inner demons, but getting stronger and faster at conquering them each time. But we must also know that that work is practice for the concrete steps we’re taking to grow our businesses.  Reclaiming #girlboss is about empowering entrepreneurial women to actually do the thing they set out to do: build amazing businesses that matter, without losing who you are in the process, or waking up to realize you’ve accidentally built a monster that you don’t know how to tame. Let’s say those big dreams aloud. Decide how we’ll get there. Create businesses that support the dream. And find others along the way to make it oh, so fun.  On the next few episodes we’ll be diving into how to scale a business like a boss with smarter strategies where I pull back the curtain on how I run and think about strategy for 7-figure businesses, guest Echo Huang breaking down how women can build wealth, strategist Kristen Westcott is going to make flow of your business feel sexy and more we’ll announce shortly. Let’s go Girlbosses! About Marketing Magic: The Marketing Magic podcast is where women entrepreneurs trying to do all the things come to get inspiration, business strategy, and on-air coaching on how to get their business noticed and growing. If you have a business that people need to know about in order for it to grow, you’re in the right place. This is the place to uncomplicate your marketing. Be sure to listen, subscribe, and leave a review! Join the conversation of other unapologetically successful women in her Facebook community, The #GirlBoss Club.

Almost all HOBBYISTS make this fatal mistake in their business.  Are you? Do you think that network marketing is all about sales?  Well think again! There’s a HUGE misconception that you have to be ‘good in sales’ to be good in network marketing.  Heck!  You’ve probably been told that by a prospect: “I don’t want to join your team, because I’m not good at sales.” In fact, a huge part of why so many network marketers feel overwhelmed in their business, fail to scale, and start experiencing burnout is that they’re 100% focused on practicing and teaching SALES strategies. See, the harsh reality is this. You’ll never build a business that will give you total freedom until you STOP thinking only about sales – And instead focus on DUPLICATION. How DO successful network marketers create duplication? That’s exactly what I reveal for you in this week’s super-valuable podcast episode. Today, I’ll be debunking one of the biggest misconceptions about network marketing, and I’ll help you make the shift from thinking like a sales person to becoming a true business owner. Conduct a systems audit for your business. You can download the PDF resource HERE.   Episode Quotes "Network marketing is a business of LEADERSHIP and TRAINING. It’s really a business of duplication." "You’ll never create true duplication approaching network marketing like a sales business." "Duplication isn’t teaching people how to work harder; it’s working SMARTER.” "If your business doesn’t run without you, it’s not a business.  It’s a JOB." "Systems give you the leverage to impact and serve the masses."   Listen to Learn 01:27 - Review of the Week 02:36 - Network marketing is not a SALES business 07:09 - LLA student success stories 10:16 - Power of duplication and leverage 17:52 - SYSTEMS: The key to creating duplication 22:24 - The 4 'Freedom Systems' 24:49 - Systems, Teaching & Training, Leadership 29:47 - My homework assignment for you   If you have questions, text me at (215) 608-1454, and let me know what do you need help with, what issues are your struggling, and what topics you want me to cover in future episodes. SPECIAL OFFER! Enroll now and become a Certified Legacy Leader™ - www.legacyleadershipacademy.com/specialoffer The systems audit scorecard download: http://yourvirtualupline.com/173

#ppcchat Twitter discussion that runs on Tuesdays at 5pm GMT - Led by April Dunford (@aprildunford) Q1 What (if anything) does the term "positioning" mean to a PPC marketer? Q2 I’m interested in storytelling and how we use it in a practical way in marketing. Do you use storytelling as a tool in your work? How? Do you use a structured storytelling approach? Q3 In my work as a consultant, I am often working with teams to help them think about their product in new ways. Do you find yourself doing this? How do you help teams understand that a new perspective might be needed? Is this relevant in PPC? Q4 Describe what you used to do before you used our product? What made you decide to try something else? Once you did, what other potential solutions did you look at? This helps me understand what my real competitors are - including status quo --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ppcchat/message

This is Pat Iyer. Before I start this podcast, I’ve got to tell you about the first ever LNC conference I planned for July 2020. Nowhere else can you get 4 days of an outstanding virtual legal nurse consulting conference in July 2020. I’m so excited to share this news with you. Along with my colleague, Barbara Levin, I’ve created a conference for you. Here’s a sneak peak. Imagine how your business will change when you  Use today’s marketing techniques to attract and retain attorney clientsIdentify the biggest traps to your financial health and use proven strategies to grow your moneyConfidently handle attempts by your clients to negotiate your fees and payment termsCreate a simple strategy for making compelling videos to market your businessEffectively use the largest business network to attract clientsLearn new questioning techniques to take the fear out of selling to attorneysHelp your attorney client understand the hidden data that exists in medical recordsDiscover the lessons learned from a prominent comedian’s death in a same day surgery unit: Joan RiversGet insider tips on testifying techniques from a successful physician expert witnessDiscover what a trial attorney looks for in a case and LNC - from a legal nurse consultant/nurse practitioner /attorneyVerify you have all the right legal language in place in your fee agreementsKnow how to analyze a spinal surgery complication caseApply techniques to create outstanding personal injury reportsNetwork with LNCs dedicated to growing their businesses Here is the link to get your spot: LNC.tips/July2020virtual. Join us from anywhere in the world. Heather Garbutt is an expert in the creation of positive dynamics in relationships. She's a psychotherapist whom I met in a course that I just finished called "The Business of Speaking," and I thought it would be interesting to have you hear from a love and relationships coach. Her practice extends across the globe, and she's speaking to us today from Great Britain. Relationships, and marriages, and couples.What does it take to be able to have a happy and healthy relationshipWhat might you think are the qualities of couples who stay happily together?How Do we Ensure We Fall into The “Happy Ever After” category?So what if you are in a relationship that is basically healthy but lost its sparkle? Get all these tips and more. Click here to get the transcript for this podcast! https://youtu.be/WbuYH3DyFnA Join us for the First Ever Legal Nurse Consulting Livecast/ Virtual Conference! I teamed up with a legal nurse consultant colleague, Barbara Levin, to plan the first ever virtual legal nurse consulting conference. We’ve assembled a panel of legal nurse consultants, nurses, attorneys, physicians, and business experts to provide you with an educational and networking event. – all without having to leave your house. Think of it: a legal nurse consulting event without airfare, hotel, food, or transportation costs. No masks and no germs!The conference dates are July 9, 10, 16, and 17, 2020. You can be anywhere in the world and join us for this event. We’ve got business development to help you ramp up your business, and clinical topics to update you. Get the details at LNC.tips/July2020virtual. Be sure to go there now to find out how you can join us for a terrific event.  Your Presenter Heather is an expert in the creation of positive dynamics in relationships, a Psychotherapist, Love and Relationship Coach. Her practice extends across the globe. Connect with Heather on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/heather.garbutt.77 Listen to this Podcast on your phone. Download our mobile app BIZ.EDU

As a concealed firearm carrier you’ve decided that you’re willing to defend the lives of not only yourself, but friends, family and even strangers.  While most people train and prepare themselves for a gunfight, it’s just as important to train for the aftermath as well.  Ideally in a gunfight the attacker would be the only person sustaining injuries.  However, there is a good chance that you or another innocent person in your vicinity will be shot.  Knowing the ins and outs of tactical medicine is a must for not only this scenario, but many others. On this episode we’ve invited Shawn Whittington to discuss tactical medicine. Topics and Questions Addressed in this Episode   In lieu of a tactical medicine trauma kit, a lot of people probably carry a first aid kit.  Can you start of by explaining the basic differences between a first aid kit and a trauma kit?   When is it appropriate to carry a first aid kit, and at a bare minimum what should it consist of? When is it appropriate to carry a trauma kit, and at a bare minimum what should it consist of? Is there a good mix between a first aid kit and a trauma kit? At the risk of carrying a paramedics bag around with you at all times, what are some of the other essential items to carry in your trauma kit to make yourself even more prepared? What would you say is the single most important item to keep in your trauma kit? Is there anything that you see in a typical trauma kit that you really think people can go without? Can you and should you tailor the contents of your trauma kit to your everyday life? How Do you Follow Shawn?   Email: swhittington@88tactical.com Facebook: @shawnngina   How Do You Follow Trigger Discipline?   Website: www.triggerdiscpline.info Instagram: @trigger_discipline_podcast Facebook: @triggerdisciplinepodcast Twitter: @TriggerDiscpl2 Contact Us: contact@triggerdiscipline.info   Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the hosts, guest and other employees and associates.  These views do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any company, organization or government entity associated with the hosts, guest or other employees and associates.  Any content provided by our hosts, guest, employees or associates are of  their opinion, and are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, club, organization, company, individual or government entity.

Episode Notes Patti and Jonathan discuss episodes of X-Men: The Animated Series that YOU helped pick! There’s time travel with laser-nadoes, jeans in the family, and accents. What is the constitution of an infant? How DO we do it in Jersey? Find out on this summer series episode of Mutant Musings! Show Notes X-Men: The Animated Series

This is Pat Iyer. Before I start this podcast, I’ve got to tell you about the first ever LNC conference I planned for July 2020. Nowhere else can you get 4 days of an outstanding virtual legal nurse consulting conference in July 2020. I’m so excited to share this news with you. Along with my colleague, Barbara Levin, I’ve created a conference for you. Here’s a sneak peak. Imagine how your business will change when you  Use today’s marketing techniques to attract and retain attorney clientsIdentify the biggest traps to your financial health and use proven strategies to grow your moneyConfidently handle attempts by your clients to negotiate your fees and payment termsCreate a simple strategy for making compelling videos to market your businessEffectively use the largest business network to attract clientsLearn new questioning techniques to take the fear out of selling to attorneysHelp your attorney client understand the hidden data that exists in medical recordsDiscover the lessons learned from a prominent comedian’s death in a same day surgery unit: Joan RiversGet insider tips on testifying techniques from a successful physician expert witnessDiscover what a trial attorney looks for in a case and LNC - from a legal nurse consultant/nurse practitioner /attorneyVerify you have all the right legal language in place in your fee agreementsKnow how to analyze a spinal surgery complication caseApply techniques to create outstanding personal injury reportsNetwork with LNCs dedicated to growing their businesses Here is the link to get your spot: LNC.tips/July2020virtual. Join us from anywhere in the world. Heather Garbutt is an expert in the creation of positive dynamics in relationships. She's a psychotherapist whom I met in a course that I just finished called "The Business of Speaking," and I thought it would be interesting to have you hear from a love and relationships coach. Her practice extends across the globe, and she's speaking to us today from Great Britain. Relationships, and marriages, and couples.What does it take to be able to have a happy and healthy relationshipWhat might you think are the qualities of couples who stay happily together?How Do we Ensure We Fall into The “Happy Ever After” category?So what if you are in a relationship that is basically healthy but lost its sparkle? Get all these tips and more. Click here to get the transcript for this podcast! https://youtu.be/l__oqZvuMM8 Join us for the First Ever Legal Nurse Consulting Livecast/ Virtual Conference! I teamed up with a legal nurse consultant colleague, Barbara Levin, to plan the first ever virtual legal nurse consulting conference. We’ve assembled a panel of legal nurse consultants, nurses, attorneys, physicians, and business experts to provide you with an educational and networking event. – all without having to leave your house. Think of it: a legal nurse consulting event without airfare, hotel, food, or transportation costs. No masks and no germs!The conference dates are July 9, 10, 16, and 17, 2020. You can be anywhere in the world and join us for this event. We’ve got business development to help you ramp up your business, and clinical topics to update you. Get the details at LNC.tips/July2020virtual. Be sure to go there now to find out how you can join us for a terrific event.  Your Presenter Heather is an expert in the creation of positive dynamics in relationships, a Psychotherapist, Love and Relationship Coach. Her practice extends across the globe. Connect with Heather on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/heather.garbutt.77 Listen to this Podcast on your phone. Download our mobile app BIZ.EDU

A very special episode today with the Head of Talent at ZOOM... Jodi Rabinowitz, and Author of Courageous, Ryan Berman! These 2 powerhouse guests gave us a ton of takeaways for these COVID times we are living in.  In addition to the topic of prioritizing employee well-being at ZOOM, Jodi and Chris explored how ZOOM leveraged their OWN platform to onboard and connect their new hires in the beginning of the Coronavirus Crisis. The two also touched on the notion that ZOOM was never intended to go from Business to Customer... but they've made those adjustments and navigated well.  Ryan and Chris explored the origins of Ryan's plan of Knowledge + Faith + Action = COURAGE. They also discussed "The business apocalypse: You need time but you don't have time." How DO you work in and around that idea?  Thank you do Jodi and Ryan for their time and expert advice. This episode has a lot to offer.

1:07 Introduction, Horst Prelog and Scott Turner on Mindfulness Manufacturing podcast.  Trevor talks about these two gentlemen, their background, accomplishments and how this impacted manufacturing and  3:42 A challenging undertaking.  Horst spends time talking about taking over a successful organization and the challenges that go along with this.  Explaining how important it is to have goals and everyone moving in the same direction with good alignment.  Focus on the people and what is expected. 5:50 People and Different mindsets.  We were great but how do we become greater?  Horst references good to great and not to become complacent and giving good direction. 7:40 Hands on, Scott and I were hands on people!  We established a clear vision of where wewanted to go, what is our mission on this journey and what are the values we are achieving to get there.    We created a credo writing down our goals and what is important for everyone to have and understand.  10:04 A collaborative approach.  Horst talks about collaboration as well asnon negotiables for the team and how important this is with leadership.    12:00 The credo!  Horst explained the credoand how we wrote this down and handed it out to every person in the organization that created accountability and the team held us to it.  Respect, trust, values and commitment, we decided on and we always helped each other.   16:21 I can’t say that this is an easy thing to do.  Horst talks about if you choose not to follow these values you will find trouble down the road.  It’s a slippery slope violating our commitments and how important it is to stick to it. 19:40 We changed the compensation model.  Horst explains how he and Scott changed the compensationmodel so each person's compensation (bonus) was affected if there were challenges.  This was not an easy undertaking but the right thing to do.  22:00 Howdo you handle that one plant who doesn't want to help the other plants? Horst explains how he would spend time talking with these plants and helping them understand and convincing them the right thing to do is help each other.  There are certain percentages who don't want to, and we would ask if they would want to be a part of this team.  The right seat of the bus and if you didn’t want to be a part of it then exiting the bus.  25:27 Scott and I were a fantastic team!  We worked so well together and as a leader you have to recognize what are your strengths and when do you need to fill in with people who can help you.   27:10 The learning environment, why is that so important?  Horst and Scott talk about the importance of being a learning organization and without that you are limited.  You always requirelearning; all businesses have to do this.  Firing people is not the answer, no one is perfect, and you have to learn that hiring and firing is not the way, becoming a learning company is the way.  Horst shares under his and Scott’s leadership the different leadership learning programs offered.     

Stood down or sacked and needing to pivot to find a job? Which way? How? Do you need to upskill, reskill, into which industry? It's all a bit hard and even hard in a global crisis so we've pulled together some expert advice. We've mined the collective wisdom of an entrepreneur, psychologist and a career coach to share their insights and tips on how to bag your next role or career move if you have been stood down or lost your job due to Covid-19. GUESTS: Adam Jacobs, co-founder of Hatch Exchange a B-B online marketplace for workers who have been stood down due to the pandemic and THE ICONIC, online fashion store. Rhonda Andrews, senior psychologist at Barrington Centre Kate Richardson, career mentor and executive coach (And if you enjoy the show help us out by rating and reviewing us, it helps others find us.) Producer: Maria Tickle

Hello Creative Friends, It's fair to say that in this time, we are understanding and re-defining the word "essential" in new ways. Especially during times of collective distress, it's easy to feel like making or creating is not only unhelpful, but selfish. How DO artists matter? What do they offer? Would the world miss them if they were gone? If we imagine a world without art, I think we can collectively agree that feels immediately and viscerally awful. But why? That's harder to articulate. In this episode I tell the story of how an art lesson with 7 year olds, taught me a unique way that artists are in fact, VERY ESSENTIAL.  Artists are deeply needed right now, but the ways they're needed are very different than other essential workers. Understanding the ways we serve people beyond making things is a great first step in moving forward authentically and our own special offerings. AKA Secret Sauce. ABOUT THIS PODCAST Welcome to Secret Sauce, a podcast about the secret ingredients in life and work, hosted by Becca Borrelli. Secret Sauce explores artistry as a helpful framework for inspiring meaning and understanding in our everyday lives.  ABOUT BECCA Becca is an illustrator-educator and part founder of Austin-based female maker collective: Lemon House. She spends most of her time designing adult coloring books, interactive murals, and speaking to organizations about mindfulness, meditation and the benefits of art-making. Clients include Visa, Dell Children’s Hospital, Austin Independent School District, University Hospital- Cleveland, the Austin Downtown Alliance and the Anti-Defamation League.  Becca is most inspired by the invisible connections between all things. Her work aims to be a playful, bright, and hopeful interpretation of the world's whimsical and magical sides. She has fallen in love with her hometown in Austin, where she spends free time exploring nature and hunting for breakfast tacos with her husband and their super-pups Layla and Rose.    Website: beccajborrelli.com Instagram: @beccaborrelliart

Episode 006 ... Week in review of May 9, 2020 covering the following discussion topics ...1) News of the week:- Shanghai Disney to open with restrictions on May 11th- Disney Springs - phased opening starting on May 20th- Disney sends out survey to select guest with upcoming reservations at WDW asking about various conditions that could impact their trip and what would cause them to cancel- Topic starts @1:53 ...2) How Do we Book Our Trips, and Has that Changed?- Jason and Phil discuss how they book their Disney trips- They discuss if recent events have impacted how they will book in the future (e.g., increase likelihood to use a Travel Agent, now only book direct with Disney, etc.)- Topic starts @16:02 ...3) Which 2nd Park for a 6 Year Old and Grandmother?- Jason and Phil discuss what park, other than Magic Kingdom they feel would be best for non-Disney Superfans to go to on their first tripsource: https://www.disboards.com/threads/which-2nd-park-for-a-6-year-old-and-a-grandparent.3799419/- Topic starts @24:54 ...4) Which Meal to Pay Out of Pocket?- When you are short on dining plan credits, where is most cost efficient to pay out of pocket?- Also get some of Phil and Jason's take on the Disney Dining Plansource: https://www.disboards.com/threads/which-one-to-pay-oop.3799355/- Topic starts @32:16 ...5) Invented Topic: What to Bring vs Buy At Disney?- Should you bring a stroller with you or rent when down at Disney? What about Disney T-shirts or other clothes? Food?- Topic starts @38:11 ...6) Unpopular Theme Park Opinions- Discussion about takes about elements in the Disney Parks that people have that might be controversial to others- Topic starts @51:20 ...*** Reminder to like, subscribe, rate, and review the DBC Pod wherever you get your podcast ***Note: This podcast is not affiliated with any message boards, blogs, news sites, or other podcastsMusic: https://www.purple-planet.com

Happy-Lean-Financially Free-CAN'T or HOW? Do we choose to be fat, broke, or unhappy? Could we choose not to be?

Is it ok to dob someone in for having a bbq or a party during the Covid-19 pandemic? How DO you dob someone in? Jay & Dave asked Steve Smith from Mackay police these questions

The death of a character can be one of the most powerful experiences a story has to offer. When done right, it makes us feel and think about real life, and the people we’ve lost, the experiences we share. It helps us feel things that otherwise can often be so hard to feel. So . . . how do we do that right? How DO we tell a good death? What makes the best ones work so well? We dig in.

STAY YOUNG & HEALTHY - even though we get old? HOW HOW HOW and WHO and WHY? Some people stay young and healthy all of their life- HOW? Do you want to be?

In part 2 of CoSIDA's Listening and Leading webinar series presented by Capital One, we're joined by sports psychologist (and 2019 CoSIDA Convention presenter) Dr. Jarrod Spencer as he discussed dealing with anxiety and uncertainly in our COVID-19 environment and how you can manage your anxieties and concerns. The webinar was hosted by Trip Durham of 2DConsulting, LLC. Numerous questions from the attendees also were addressed. Among the topics covered: - How DO we deal with our new unknowns and the anxieties creeping into our everyday lives? - Dr. Spencer offered advice on how best to work in isolation; the extreme importance of sleep and your toil bad sleep habits has on your immunity system and psychological outlook; how to work through your own fears; adjusting to being at home with your family or adjusting to being alone; fighting feels of depression; the importance of healthy eating and setting up a routine of exercise.

This week Chelsey dives deeper into Psalm 73:28, "But for me it is good to be near God; I have made the Lord my refuge, that I may tell of all your works." The Lord revealed to Chelsey that these 3 commands are choices we have to make. We have to choose to be near to The Lord. We have to choose to make Him our refuge, and we are called to tell the world of His works.The Lord made it clear to her that while He desires to be near her (He slways it), He desires to be her refuge, and He desires her to share of the amazing things He does...that it's her choice to be obedient in all 3 of these things. What does Psalm 73:26 Call us to Do?Be near to God! This doesn't change because of  circumstances, this should be a constant in all of our lives.Make The Lord our refuge - we need to stop turning to earthly things to fill this void and create a false safety net. We are to tell of all His works. The Lord calls us to share the amazing things He does in our life (in His timing, not always right away) but to give examples to the world around us that The Lord is moving even in our days!How Do we Live This Truth Out?Get in His word even when we don't feel like it. His word NEVER returns void (Isaiah 55:11). We grow nearer to The Lord by having a growing relationship with Him. First we need to ask Him to reveal what things we turn to when we should be turning to Him. Repent of not turning to Him, receive His forgiveness and choose Him daily as your refuge!!Share what God is doing in your life with someone! It can be family, a neighbor, a friend, your barista at Sbux, just SAHRE HIM and what He's doing in your life with anyone that will listen, it will always bless them! (Remember Isaiah 55:11).Q & A How do you handle being friends with non-believers? Proverbs 17:17 - A friend loves at all times. - The Lord will call me into relationship with people who love Him and those who don't know Him. He calls me to love them and how them the hands and feet of Jesus. There are friendships I've had for years where they are not walking with Jesus but they fully respect my faith and what's important to me. Proverbs 11:14 - Where there is no guidance a peoples fall. - God calls us to walk in wisdom so if you're finding yourself feeling tempted within friendships who don't respect you, your faith, cause you to stumble due to their lack of guidance this is where we have to lean into the Holy Spirit and ask The Lord what to do with these friendships.What are you favorite stories in the Bible?I love 2 Chronicles 20 - King Jehoshaphat's pleas with The Lord when He is facing something he doesn't know what to do with is such a testament to how we feel when we cry out to God in the same way. His words in vs. 12 are, "For we are powerless against this great horde coming against us, for we don't know what to do but our eyes are fixed on you. Habakkuk - this short book is a powerful one. It gives great perspective on God working in the midst of things we don't understand as well as us seeing we are able to go to God with all of our feelings and trust that He hears us. John 4 - The Woman at The Well - This was the first story in the Bible that opened my heart to fully accepting the truth that Jesus loves me regardless of what my past sin was. I am redeemed in Him and I'm filled with joy to speak of the redemption He's worked out in my life.  Do you think social media is a distraction or blessing? How do you balance screen time when you find yourself with lots of time on your hands?I think it can be both a blessing and distraction. The Lord gave me Matthew 6:19-25 last year when working through discontentment. This is what I use to keep my social media time as a blessing. When it begins to cause me to feel tripped up by my emotions or falling into feeling of discontentment I know I need to take a break and get my heart back aligned in what God wants to use this for. For balancing screen time, I don't get this perfect but one thing that has worked is all apps on my phone are locked until 9AM. I also set a time limit for the day on IG at 40min a day. (this is the only form of SM I have). So setting limits and alarms are helpful! The Lord gave us boundaries for a reason so we certainly need them in all areas of our life.   

Today I talk about when facing the fear of death, it really proposes the question " How Do you Want To Live?" I also discuss not sitting on our gifts but using our gifts so we can live fully in our power. How we can overcome the stories in our head, fear from the past, mass hysteria over the Coronavirus, and choose faith instead.

An eager captain holds a crew mate's hate in check as he asks an inventor for a ridiculous favor.  Can you chip a tooth in a dream? When is a good season to harvest fog? What is “pretty ghost stuff”? Why does Sam have so little information? How do you kill a boat? Is getting eaten by wyverns ever the better choice? How DO you get into the adventurers guild? *wink wink* What yard do you want to crash in? Is there a god of tables? Is a fruit bowl still a fruit bowl if there is no fruit in it? Is king death really a king? Or about death? Or real? How do you not have a neck? Want to send the show a message or ask a question? Email us at Recorderandsam@gmail.com Support the show! https://www.patreon.com/recorderandsam Discord Server: https://discord.gg/SMyexz

FREE DOWNLOADSDatenightconversations.comMarriageprayerchallenge.comparentingprayerchallenge.com “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” - Ephesians 4:1 How do I become more selfless in my marriage?What are some Tips for consistency in communication within marriage to build intimacy?How do we live for God together...my husband never really been to church Etc?How do you work through disagreements on hobbies? IE motorcycles?How do you keep chasing dreams God's call you to, when your spouse is in a totally negative place?Do you still struggle with trusting your husband? Speaking about p 0rn and how can you battle thoughts?What is your number one advice to couples struggling?READ TRANSCRIPT[Aaron] Hey, we're Aaron and Jennifer Smith with Marriage After God. [Jennifer] Helping you cultivate an extraordinary marriage. [Aaron] And today, we're gonna answer some questions from the community about not seeing eye-to-eye in marriage. Welcome to the Marriage After God podcast, where we believe that marriage was meant for more than just happily ever after. [Jennifer] I'm Jennifer, also known as Unveiled Wife. [Aaron] And I'm Aaron, also known as Husband Revolution. [Jennifer] We have been married for over a decade. [Aaron] And so far, we have four young children. [Jennifer] We have been doing marriage ministry online for over seven years through blogging and social media. [Aaron] With the desire to inspire couples to keep God at the center of their marriage, encouraging them to walk in faith every day. [Jennifer] We believe that Christian marriage should be an extraordinary one, full of life-- Love-- And power. [Aaron] That can only be found by chasing after God-- Together. [Aaron] Thank you for joining in this journey as we chase boldly after God's will for our life together. [Jennifer] This is Marriage After God. [Aaron] Hey, welcome back to another episode of the Marriage After God podcast. This is gonna be a Q&A episode where we polled our community and we got a buncha questions about a specific topic, which is not seeing eye-to-eye, and we're gonna answer those in a bit. But first, before we get into that, Jennifer, is there anything new going on in your life? Is there anything you wanna chat with me about? [Jennifer] I love chatting with you. Something that I wanted to share, that's been on my heart for our listeners, is just something that I been doing intentionally with a girlfriend of mine and that is discipleship and it's going really well, we meet bi-weekly. And the reason that I wanted to bring it up is because I think so often we can go about our days and our times and our schedules and just focus on what is at hand and what we need to do and sometimes we forget about discipleship or mentorship or how we impact other peoples' lives. And I just think it's really important for us to consider, you know, who's that older, more mature Christian in our life that we can glean from? So, someone we can be spending time with that will fill us up that will maybe speak truth into our life or see something that isn't going the way it should be and call it out in us or maybe we can go to them for a question. And then, who's that person who is younger than you that you can reach out to and have an impact in their life? You know, be that person for them. Toward God. Yeah. Encouraging them. Yeah. So, I just, I'm bringing it up because it's been going so well in my personal life that I just thought, "Man, if they're not thinking about this, "I want them to be thinking about this." [Aaron] Well, and it's a, we've talked about this in past episodes, about the necessity of community and walking with each other and our ministries in other people's lives. Yeah. [Aaron] Just the importance of we're not autonomous creatures, we're part of a body, and God's given us gifts that must be used to glorify Him and to mutually build up the Church and to encourage each other and to bless each other, so. [Jennifer] And sometimes our flesh can get in the way, you know, those insecurities where we go, "Oh, it'd be really nice to spend time with that person." But then we answer for them, right? We go, "Oh, they're too busy." Or, "They can't." Or, "I don't know"-- You're really good at this, aren't you? "I don't know what to say." Answering for people. Answering for people, yeah. And you've drawn me out of this. But my encouragement to that person is don't answer for that person but surrender to God, pray about your desire to build that relationship up, and then have the courage to just ask. And if they say, "I can't at this time," receive it and say, "Okay," and pray about, maybe, who else you can engage with in that way. But chances are, they're gonna be thrilled to hear from you. [Aaron] Yeah, I've been through something very similar. Not necessarily, I don't have a scheduled meeting with a single person each week or every other week, but I've been trying to intentionally meet regularly with all the men from our fellowship. Mainly to get to know them more, to get into deeper relationship with them, to be encouraged by them. But also to, yeah, disciple. And we're called to make disciples, we're called to walk with each other and sharpen each other, as iron sharpens iron. If we're not doing that and we're just kind of going about our day and, yeah, we see 'em at church on Sundays and then we leave and we have dinners every once in awhile, but if there's no intentional, like, "'Kay, I actually want to be in this person's life, "lifting them up to the Father, "and I want someone in my life doing that for me," we're kind of missing out on a huge part of what it means to be a believer, so. That's a great encouragement for everyone listening. Yeah. So, before we get into the questions, we wanna tell everyone about our free things that we have to offer you guys. We've made a bunch of resources now that I feel like they keep compiling, like, we're making more and more. 'Cause we get an idea and then we're like, "Okay, "let's make it and let's give it to everyone," so. [Jennifer] And I gotta admit, I'm the one that pushes for the new ones because I want you guys who have already been through, maybe, some of the ones that we've been offering to jump into the new one, which, the newest one we just launched is the Parenting Prayer Challenge, which, oh my gosh, I'm so excited about. [Aaron] Yeah, it's a totally free email challenge and essentially, we send you an email every day for 31 days giving you a prayer prompt for a specific area of your child's life, either your son or your daughter, and it's a reminder every day. [Jennifer] And it doesn't matter what age your kids are because it could be for your infant all the way up to your adult-- Your kids that are out of the house. Children, yeah. [Aaron] And you can get that at parentingprayerchallenge.com, all one word. It's totally free, you should go sign up today if you haven't. And just a quick note on the other ones, we have a free download called Date Night Conversations. It's a list of 52 conversation starters. You can get that at datenightconversations.com, one word. And then the last one is Marriage Prayer Challenge. It's similar to the Parenting Prayer Challenge, but it's for your marriage. Prayer's best. [Aaron] Yeah, you can sign up to pray for your wife or you can sign up to pray for your husband and we send you a prompt every day for 31 days. So, get those, those are completely free. [Jennifer] All right, so we are moving on to today's topic, which, we're doing a Q&A. We already polled the community from social media. We usually do this on Instagram, so if you're not already following, be sure to follow @marriageaftergod. You can also follow me @unveiledwife for some more wife encouragement and then @husbandrevolution for more husband stuff. [Aaron] And we'd love for you to be following us on Instagram so that you can see the behind the scenes stuff in our life. When we do the polls, we'd love for you to participate in those. We look at all those questions that you guys give us. [Jennifer] So, what we do is we poll you guys, we ask you to submit your questions, and then we use those to order these Q&As. [Aaron] Sometimes the questions are not all in the same category, but if we find enough in a category, we're like, "Oh, that's what we're gonna talk about." And so, we try and answer those. And we also always wanna start with: we don't have all the answers. Yeah. That's a funny way to start out a Q&A. We don't. We know this. [Aaron] We will answer to the best of our abilities, we will answer based off of things we've experienced and, as always, we're gonna try and, to the best of our abilities, point back to scripture. We don't always do that well either, but that's our heart because we know that the Word of God is the Word of God; it's perfect and we know that everything that we order our life by should be ordered by it. And so, we try, to the best of our ability, to do that, so. [Jennifer] So, today's kind of overarching topic is not seeing eye-to-eye in your marriage, which can play out in a lotta different ways, but I would also label this as disunity. So, this idea of not being unified-- [Aaron] Right, not on the same page. [Jennifer] Not on the same page in marriage. [Aaron] Which is that, the analogy of not seeing eye-to-eye, that we're unbalanced, you know, one's higher, one's lower, and so you're not seeing in the same space. And so, you have the, unity is a huge thing for marriage. And I'm sure that many marriages don't even struggle with this, right? Like, this is a unique issue in-- [Jennifer] I'm gonna correct Aaron, I'm gonna correct that. [Aaron] We're not gonna see eye-to-eye on this. [Jennifer] I think every marriage encounters this. Yeah. A lot, actually. Every human relationship. Yeah. [Aaron] In the history of human relationships. [Jennifer] Because we're all different heights. [Aaron] Like, it started in the Garden of Eden. You look at Adam and Eve. Come on, guys. [Aaron] Eve was like, "Oh, it does look good to eat." And Adam's like, "All right." No, just checkin'. [Aaron] And just, from the very beginning, not seeing eye-to-eye. But that's what we're gonna talk about today. There's quite a few questions, so why don't you start off reading some scripture? Okay. So, we're gonna dig into Ephesians 4 and starting in Verse 1, it says this: "I, therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, "urge you to walk in a manner worthy of "the calling to which you have been called, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, "bearing with one another in love, "eager to maintain the unity of "the spirit in the bond of peace." And if, for some reason, you hear that verse right now and you're like, "You guys have shared "that verse so many times on this podcast"-- A couple. I'm not gonna apologize. The more we say that verse and the more you hear it and the more we live according to it, we will experience this, right babe? [Aaron] Well, and it's essentially Biblical meditation. We're repeating it, we're chewing on it, we're gonna say it over and over again because it's true. [Jennifer] And we're gonna see how it applies to our life and, you know, what we are-- [Aaron] Well, and it's a good tone to start with, to set the mood for this conversation, because no matter where you're at in your marriage, you could be thinking, like, "My husband "just thinks this certain way "and I'm not gonna get on that page with him." Or, "My wife just doesn't understand," fill in the blank. If we're eager to maintain unity with our bride-- Maintenance. With our spouse. [Aaron] That's gonna be the place that we start from, not a, "They need to change because I'm not gonna change." It's a, "What needs to change so that "we're on the same page?" And maintain is, that's a constantly occurring, that's not a, "Okay, we got on the same page "and now we're fine for the rest of our lives." This is a consistent-- Oh, we gotta realign-- Checking. Oh, we gotta do it again. Yeah. Oh, let's do it again. Let's continue to be this way, yeah. [Jennifer] Yeah, so I couldn't help but start out, also, obviously, God's Word is the priority and first and foremost, but I also wanted to start out sharing a little bit from Marriage After God because we've-- Book plug! Written a book for you and if you haven't gotten it yet, we want to urge you to get it, but this is from page 56 in Marriage After God and it talks about this idea of oneness, okay? You know, in Genesis, it talks about two becoming one flesh and so, we though it'd be great to elaborate on this in Marriage After God and so-- [Aaron] Okay, so I'm actually gonna read this section. Jennifer's actually a little outta breath, being pregnant and all-- He's saving me! [Aaron] So, it says this, it's on page 56: "One flesh does not mean two "independent individuals sometimes acting as one, "neither does it mean two individuals "negotiating a workable schedule where they "inhabit the same space but leave each other alone. "One flesh is a picture of unity, a joining together, "a growing together, where parts of each are woven together "in a way that there is no noticeable seam. "Oneness is one of the greatest ways "we show the world the true gospel." [Jennifer] So, what you're saying is it's powerful. Yeah. Our oneness in marriage. Did we write this? Yeah. [Aaron] Yeah, the idea of oneness it's not our idea, it's a Biblical idea, we pulled that from the Bible directly. And it's, again, the reason why I wanna talk about this and we always go back to it is because our marriage represents something more than just our marriage. It's a symbol that God created to represent Christ and the Church and the relationship between the two, that we are no longer separate, we're no longer nomads, we actually are part of Christ, we are one with Christ, the same way my wife and I are one. But when we walk in disunity, when we walk in brokenness and we're not seeing eye-to-eye, we're against each other where actually-- [Jennifer] Or even apathy where it's like, "I know we're off, I know we're"-- "And I don't care." "Not seeing eye-to-eye "and I don't care." Yeah. That's so dangerous. It's not the symbol that God intends it to be, so we're walking in opposition to God's way when we walk that way, so-- So, it's good to maintain that, you know, what you were talking about earlier, it's good to-- Maintain, yeah. Have priority in our marriage to focus on unity. [Aaron] So, question one, from the community, it says, "How do I become more selfless in my marriage? "I wanna please my spouse." Okay, first of all, this is just an outstanding question. I love that someone is even admitting that they want this because so often, our flesh gets in the way, our selfish nature gets in the way of even admitting this. [Aaron] Yeah, 'cause we're selfish. Yup. Naturally, without the Spirit workin' in us. I guess I would first say, this was specifically from a wife to a husband but I said spouse because it goes both ways, and the short answer and the practical answer is: serve the other person. Yeah. Right? The antidote to selfishness is service, you know? The antidote to wanting my feet washed is washing someone's feet. You know, you look at the picture of Christ and what he did for his disciples. And so, I guess, I just had a conversation with a brother from church, we were talkin' about meeting with people, and I brought up this idea of how, if you look at anything in life, how does anything grow? You feed it. Like a tree: you water it, you nurture it, you feed it, you prune it, and it grows. If I want my muscles to grow, I have to work them out, I have to use them, I have to feed them with the right nutrients, and I have to do the correct thing for them to work. I can't just sit back, wish they grew, desire them to grow, desire these things to happen, but do nothing. Children, right? You want them to grow-- You gotta feed 'em, it's like-- No. Oh, that's not-- But more than that, you can't just sit back and just let them have at it in the world, you gotta-- Yeah. Teach them and-- [Aaron] They can't be left to their own devices, they have to be guided and teached and disciplined and corrected-- Taught. And talked to and taught. You said teached. [Aaron] Teached. Oh, did I really? Yeah. Okay. So, in the same way, to become more selfless or, on the flip side, less selfish, you have to practice and work out that muscle. Yeah. So, an example in our marriage: we all go through these seasons where I want physical intimacy and maybe Jennifer can't give it to me. Like, we're pregnant right now, so this is a natural thing that happens, but times that we're not pregnant, maybe she's tired or whatever. And in my selfish flesh, I want something physical. But the selfless, spiritual-driven decision would be like, "Okay, I'm using that as a trigger, "I'm recognizing I want something. "I bet my wife wants something, too." And so, I tried, and I didn't do this every time, I don't do this all the time, but it's something I tried practicing is, "I'm gonna go and try and"-- [Jennifer] Give me the thing that it is you want. So, if it's a foot massage or-- Yeah, I want something-- Physical touch. [Aaron] Physical but I'm gonna go and say, "Hey, can I give you a massage?" And she wasn't even expecting it. Yeah. And that, it wasn't to manipulate, it was purely like, "I know I want something and right now, I'm just, "I know she probably can't give it or isn't interested "and it would be very selfish for me to "try and make her feel bad about it "or try and get something without her desiring it as well." So, I go and serve her. And so, that was one example, is practicing that muscle of service. Which, again, I'm not tryna make myself sound great. [Jennifer] So, I think the word that keeps coming to my mind as you're talking, Aaron, is the word initiation. And we have to be initiators, we have to be people who are willing to start first and not let our selfishness get in the way of that. And so, that would be my answer to this question, is: be an initiator. But even, prior to that, I would say we have to be people who are willing to get into God's Word and know it and let it transform us. And how does that happen? When we recognize our selfishness and we repent of it. Mm hm. Right? Because without repenting of your own selfishness when you see it flare up, you're never gonna change. You're always gonna be a selfish person. [Aaron] Which, repentance literally means to change your mind about. So, thinking you deserve something and therefore you're not gonna give something because if you're not getting what you deserve, why would you give what someone else doesn't deserve, right? And two scriptures come to mind when I think about this, a way of thinking about how to know when to give, to be selfless. I think of the Golden Rule: "Do unto others "as you would have them do unto you." And that's kind of a trigger, is any time I'm desiring something, it's probably a safe bet that the other person in my life, my wife, also is desiring something, right? And so, if I take that as a trigger, like, "Oh, I want, I'm trying, my flesh wants something "or my heart wants something." I can say, like, "Oh, I can go give this to my wife. "The thing that I want, I can give to her." But it's gonna be different, it may not be the exact thing I want, but. Let's say I want time to myself. It's probably possible that you want time to yourself. So, I can go be like, "Hey, "would you want to go out tonight?" Or, "Is there anyone you want to get together with?" Or, "Do you just need to go take a bath?" Yeah. Like, I can think that way. And so, I think of that loving your neighbor as yourself or doing unto others as you would have them do unto you, it's just thinking about the things that you want and then flipping it and saying, "How can I give the thing that I want to someone else?" The second verse that comes to mind is in Luke and it's about lending to people and it says this, it's Luke 6:34 through 36, it says, and this is Jesus talking: "And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, "what credit is that to you? "Even sinners lend to sinners to get back the same amount. "But love your enemies and do good and lend. "Expect nothing in return. "Your reward will be great "and you will be sons of the most high, "for He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. "Be merciful even as your Father is merciful." And this is kind of not directly talking about selfishness but it's this idea of lending without this expectation. Like, give without saying, "I'm giving to you "only if I'm guaranteed you're gonna return it to me." That's true selflessness. So, that's what it's saying, is God's even kind to the ungrateful and evil, he's patient with them, let's the rain fall on them as well and gives them crops. That's what this idea's talking about. You know, so we should be merciful, so. [Jennifer] You know, I was gonna ask you a question in conjunction to this question and that is: when people, when a couple, when they're not seeing eye-to-eye or there's disunity in the marriage, usually they don't want to serve each other, right, and so there's that that they're combating. And my question was gonna be: how do you do that, how do you serve each other, how do you love each other amidst that disunity? But I feel like you just answered it in that scripture. [Aaron] Well, it's giving, so, and we always go back to this, I have this quote I say all the time: we can't let our obedience be contingent on our spouse's actions. Like, "Well, you're not loving me "the way I wanna be loved or deserve to be loved, "therefore I'm not gonna respect you." It doesn't work that way. The only person we have control over is ourselves. So, the only person we have to worry who's being obedient, yes, I'm concerned if my wife's being obedient to the Lord, but for me, the only person I can actually control, in the Spirit that God's given me, is myself. And so, even if my spouse isn't walking the way I want them to or doing what I want them to, I can still choose to walk in righteousness, I can still choose to walk in love and be graceful and merciful and patient and kind and loving, right, on my side. That's really good. So, even when there is disunity, even when you're not seeing eye-to-eye on a specific thing in your marriage, you can still love unconditionally. Right, exactly. Cool. Okay, so let's move on to number two. "How do we live for God together? "My husband never really has been "to church or anything like that, so." [Aaron] Okay, and again, this would go back to you have a wife that's not, doesn't go to church with you, isn't a believer, and the husband is a believer or vice versa in the situation. [Jennifer] So, how do you live for God together when one person isn't already living for God? [Aaron] Again, I go back to you can't control the other person. You can't make someone live for God that doesn't wanna live for God. [Jennifer] Basically, this is a not seeing eye-to-eye on a spiritual level. [Aaron] Yeah, on the greatest level, I would imagine. But you, the Bible gives instruction to the wife on how she can walk in a certain way that can totally spiritually influence her husband. You see that with the husband, the husband can walk a certain way that will influence his wife. [Jennifer] Regardless, any person who is following Christ and Christ is living inside of them has an impact in this world. Yeah. Bottom line. [Aaron] And if your spouse, as the Bible says, is willing to stay with you, even if they don't love God, if they're not walking with God, and they're staying with you and you love God, think about the thousands and thousands of hours that that person who doesn't know God is gonna be around God because of you. Like, it's not like you walk up to a stranger on the street and they had a split second that you got to preach the gospel to them. Like, this person's living in the gospel daily. It's going have effect. Mm hm. [Aaron] So, I would say there's no answer on how you can walk together with God if the other person doesn't want to, but you can walk with God for your spouse and in front of your spouse and toward your spouse. [Jennifer] And I would say your greatest desire, before even living for God together, is: how can I get my spouse to live for God? And so, being prayerful for their salvation and being prayerful that they have a growing desire to serve God. Nonstop. [Jennifer] That's a foundational thing that needs to happen. One more note on this. So, me and you, we got married, and from the beginning, wanted to serve God together. Yeah. Right? Essentially, what this wife is desiring, for her and her husband, we were there. But even in the middle of two believers who love God, loved each other, and wanted to serve God together, we were often not on the same page spiritually, we were often at odds with each other in how we wanted to serve God, in our own sins. So, even in the midst of what you might be desiring, of that perfect, like, we're both chasing God together, you still have to walk in your own faith, uprightly, with God for your spouse because they're going to fail you at times, they're not going to be on the same page with you. And that's something that we experienced. Yeah. So, we were on the other spectrum of wanting to do it together but still felt chaotic sometimes. [Jennifer] Yeah, and I would say, after all these years of continually growing in our personal relationship with God, that is what has brought us closer together and has driven that desire to continue to serve Him together. And so, I would say to live for God means that you know Him and so, a good starting place, well, we already talked prayer and praying for salvation, but, is knowing God, getting in His Word, going through resources like Husband After God or Wife After God. [Aaron] Yeah, our marriage devotionals. [Jennifer] Yeah, which you can get and maybe you'll start it and maybe your spouse won't. Maybe you'll be halfway through and it's still sitting untouched for your spouse. Maybe you'll be finished with it for months and finally they pick it up. I don't know how God orchestrates all of that, all I know is I've heard plenty of stories where a couple has the resource and they start going through it and it draws their hearts closer to God, so. And that's just one resource out of so many out there. [Aaron] Okay, so question number three. We have a lotta questions, so we'll see if we can get through 'em. It says, "What are some tips for consistency "and communication within marriage to build intimacy? "i.e. You may not be in an agreement on a topic, "so how do you communicate through it?" [Jennifer] Gosh, I wanna say don't go into it super inflamed and heated. But that's the best way. You go in at a hundred. No, but sometimes you just feel that intense about it and so, whatta you do, Aaron, when you have that intense of an emotion about a topic or about something that you need to navigate with your spouse? I mean, practically, being quiet, starting with silence. I think of that scripture that says, "Be slow to speak and quick to listen and quick to hear." 'Cause often, to be honest, most of the communication issues in marriage is misunderstanding. Because you, as a emotional creatures, God's made you more emotional, you're gonna say something with emotional words and I'm gonna interpret that a hundred different ways and none of the ways I interpret it are how you feel, right? And men being logical creatures, and that doesn't mean women are illogical, it's just hearing something and it's not what you meant and it's not what you're saying and I'm hearing it a certain way and I'm putting it through my own filters and that's what happens, so. Being slower to just jump at the person and be like, "Oh, you said this and that hurt me." But actually hearing and listening and being slower to saying stuff because once the words leave our lips, they're gone and they're-- Yeah, but we're also held accountable to them, right? I think something that I've learned in our own marriage, Aaron, is the way that I can have self control in coming to you with my emotions and still be respectful but still communicate them to you and let you know, "Hey, when this happened, I felt this way." And so, I'm not yelling at you, I'm not out of control, I'm not making you feel little, I'm just explaining this is what happened and this is how it made me feel. And I think it's important for couples, like you said, to be slow to speak and quick to listen so that we hear each other. I think hearing each other is so important. [Aaron] Yeah, and then, and we always bring this up, is: what is your intention? Is your intention to win, is it to defeat your spouse? [Jennifer] Well, the goal should be unity, right? Right. But that has to be a conscious decision, like, "Am I mad right now and I wanna destroy you "or do I actually want there to be peace?" And not just apathy, like, "I just don't wanna deal with it "so let's not talk about it anymore," but, "Am I fighting for something and it's chaotic "or is this something that I even need to be fighting about? "Is this even matter, what I'm frustrated about "or what we're miscommunicating about?" But recognizing that the whole purpose, at the end of it, is that we're unified, we're reconciled, we are one again, we're in intimacy, you know? [Jennifer] Well, and intimacy means to be known. It's not just a physical intimacy, although that's how you're known physically, it means to be known. And the way that we make ourselves known is we are vulnerable, we are transparent, we are real. And so, we're not hiding anything, we're not keeping things from each other, but we're also not disrespectfully just throwing it all out there. There's this self control that comes with it and a safe place where we know we can communicate back and forth and that's what builds intimacy in marriage. That's what makes me feel known, that's what makes you feel known. [Aaron] Yeah, so knowing your end result, which is, it should be humbleness, because God wants his people to be humble, and it should be reconciliation. So, that deals with 99% of our arguments from day to day. It's very rare that we're having arguments over real big things, it's always the little things. And then, what happens is you get all those little things, when the big things do come up, you're gonna be infinitely better at dealing with that with your spouse 'cause you know that you're on the same team. [Jennifer] A good little side note tip would be to start out and use sentences with I instead of you. So, you're not pointing the finger here, you're actually opening your hand and saying, "I want you to know who I am." [Aaron] Mm hm, yeah, that's good, that was a good tip. So, here's a good one. Everyone's gonna have some level of issue. [Jennifer] What's the first thing that pops into your mind when we say this question? [Aaron] How do you work through disagreements on hobbies? And the example that was given is motorcycles and it's probably very personal to that person. Yeah. But women have, this actually could be a wife's hobby. But any hobby at all, hobby's essentially the extracurricular, it's, "I have this passion "outside of my home or outside of my work or"-- [Jennifer] Which, I know you'll generally answer, but I just have to say, when I saw this question come through, I think there would be a disagreement on something like the example they gave, motorcycles-- Motorcycles, right. [Jennifer] Because it's dangerous, right, and so, we also have to address that aspect of, maybe, what this question means, but why don't you kick it off? [Aaron] I would, on the hobbies side of things, regardless of what the hobby is, because there's so many different levels of ability. There could be a wife that is into skydiving with their husband and most people would be like, "No way," but they're like, "No, this is totally fun." So, I'm not gonna just pick on any specific hobby 'cause that doesn't matter, for the most part. I'm sure there's hobbies that are absolutely like, "Well, that's sin, you shouldn't be doing that." [Jennifer] And then there are safer ones, like quilting. [Aaron] And then there could be totally benign ones that mean nothing and it's like, "Well, what's the big deal? "This is not a sin that I'm doing this." The questions should always be wrapped up in wisdom. Can you afford it? If your wife or your husband's not in agreement with it, that should be immediately a red flag because you're not in unity and it's not just a, "That person needs to change how they think about my hobby," because what if God put an insight or a discernment in your spouse? Because remember, you guys are on the same team, regardless of if you feel like you're in a team or not, and your spouse has a reason for having an issue with it. Now, that spouse, as you guys communicate about the hobby, humbly, it could, you could find out that the spouse just has, like your wife, has some sort of disposition from a childhood about the thing you're doing. So, it has nothing to do with anything else other than they just feel uncomfortable. [Jennifer] But if that's the case, is it worth it to listen and hear? Absolutely. Yeah. [Aaron] But what I'm saying is they could, through the conversation, be like, "You know what? "I am being irrational and it's not that big of a deal." Or-- The point is that they're talking about it. Yeah. Or it comes to this side of, "Well, "I just can't get behind it." And then at that point, are you gonna say, "Well, then get outta here 'cause I'm gonna keep doin' it"? And then essentially, you're choosing a hobby over your spouse. Well, on the flip side to this, the spouse that's in disagreement with that spouse's hobby, what's your heart posture and reasoning? Because are you just against it because you don't like them spending time alone from you? Are you just against it because you don't like what they like? So, I feel like the biggest part of this question, and it's for both spouses in the marriage, is: what are the motivations of your heart? On both sides. And are you communicating that to each other? [Aaron] Right, and usually, if you're defensive about something, if you're trying to defend and protect your hobby, that usually is rooted in something and you gotta immediately start asking yourself, "Why am I trying to protect this so much? "Why does this thing mean so much to me?" Because you could be using that hobby as a surrogate for your marriage. Like, "I get more fulfillment out of this thing "than I do out of my marriage or my kids." [Jennifer] Like an escape or something, yeah. [Aaron] And if that's the case, that's dangerous and that's called an idol. You should be careful with that. So, I think, any, there should be nothing in our life, not a single hobby should have any sort of weight against our family, against our ministry, against our marriage, against our responsibilities at our work, with our kids, none of that. Anything, it doesn't matter what the hobby is, it shouldn't be off the table for a negotiation. It should be something that you should humbly be willing to release, if necessary. And the necessity could be your wife or your husband just is like, "I don't like it." And to be honest, even if they're irrational, they are one with you. And if you're gonna just say, "I disagree with you, "you're irrational, I'm gonna keep doing it," you've just literally, how are you ever gonna be intimate, on any level, with a person that you said, "I don't care what you say, I'm doing it anyway"? You just can't. So, I would just put a warning in anyone's life, and this goes for the husbands and the wives, if there's anything in their life, a book club, a quilting club, a hobby of, like, you name it, everyone that's listening is probably thinking, "Oh, I have this hobby." [Jennifer] "I know what my thing is," yeah. [Aaron] And my job right now is not to say hobbies are bad 'cause you can totally have a healthy hobby, maybe it's something that you do with your family, maybe that it's something that you do by yourself, and you have total control over it and it doesn't get in the way of your responsibilities and your family totally feels taken care of and loved and that you're present-- [Jennifer] And they actually enjoy participating in it with you. [Aaron] Yeah, there's lots of things. But at the same time, if you have any level of, "I'm not lettin' this thing go "and no one's gonna stop me," that's a wrong heart. And whatever that thing is that you're into has got some sorta hold of you that you need to deal with. Yeah. So, I wanna share two things. One of them just kinda popped into my heart and I can't push it away for some reason and that is: if you, the individual, have some sort of hobby and you've been feeling convicted in your own heart because of timing, finances, lack of-- How often you're doin' it. [Jennifer] Yeah, whatever the thing is, please please please please please don't push that feeling off and just wait for your spouse to come and share their disagreement with you about it. Be a mature, Christian person, yield to the Holy Spirit-- Who's speaking to you. And say, "God, what are you trying to tell me "and how can I surrender this to you?" If that means give it up 100%, are you willing to do that? I just felt like I had to say that. The other thing is more personal, but I just wanted to share an encouragement. I didn't want it to all sound negative. But Aaron, you have been so good at, first, learning who I am, I don't wanna say studying me, but over time together, you know me pretty well and you know the things that fuel me, as a person, like writing and painting and crafting, and you encourage me in it. Now, there have been times in our marriage where we've been so strapped, it's like, "You can't spend that money on that, "you know, whatever that thing is." But there's also been, often, there's been times where you know that I've been going, going, going and you look at me and go, "I think you "just need to go to a coffee shop and write. "You just need to go do this thing with your girlfriends. "You just need to," and you're a supporter and an advocate for giving me space and time to be fueled by the things that interest me and I just had to say that because I think that, as a husband and wife, we have an incredible position and opportunity to support one another in the things that do fuel us, the things, the hobbies that we're interested in. And you've been really good at that, so I just wanted to say thank you but also use it as a testimony for those listening that they can be that way in marriage, it just requires communication. Yeah. That was good, thank you, I wasn't expecting that. Okay, why don't you read question number five? [Jennifer] How do you keep chasing dreams God's called you to when your spouse is in a totally negative place? So, I'm imagining this is a season, not just a day but not always like this, but they're just in a negative place and how are you supposed to keep moving forward with those dreams that you, maybe, were chasing together or were hoping to chase together? [Aaron] This, it sounds more personal, it sounds like this person, whoever it is, feels like God's called them to something specific. Oh, like individually. Yeah. And they're spouse is in another place. Okay. Either emotionally or mentally or maybe they hate their job and the other spouse is trying to pursue a ministry of some sort or-- Okay. [Aaron] The question itself tells me that the initial, the way the question's worded tells me that they're missing out on the first calling. The marriage? The marriage. [Jennifer] Yeah, that's what I was thinking. [Aaron] We have a responsibility, we're told to love our neighbor as ourself. And I always say, "Who's your closest neighbor?" Yeah. It's your spouse. And then your kids and then your actual neighbors and then your fellowship. And it's not like you neglect the others for the first, but you don't go out of order. I don't neglect my wife, when she needs me the most, to go serve someone else. That's out of order. Well, and here's what I think about that, is: if, let's say it is individual and one of the spouses is pursuing ministry or whatever they feel God has called them to do or maybe it's that they had a specific calling as a couple and that person's in a negative place now and they're not doing that anymore. How effective would either one of them be in any of those situations if they're not unified in their marriage? Not very effective at all. Well, and here's, this is actually the sad part, is they actually could be effective. But they're not effective where it counts. You know, we have children at home, we have our marriage to take care of, and it's not just to have a happy marriage, it's that we have a powerful marriage and that we, like, if I can't minister, we say this in our book Marriage After God quite a bit, actually, if I can't minister to my spouse, what right do I have to go and minister to someone else? I don't want to minister to you, you're in a negative place, but I'm gonna go try and minister other people that are in a negative place. There's something backwards with that. And I also understand that you could be, have already in this mode and you see God moving and God's using you and then your spouse, your husband, your wife, is going through something. And you're like, "Well, do I have to put everything "on hold because this thing's happening?" Yes. Is it totally possible that God brought them to that place and then is asking them to postpone it or wait until-- Absolutely. Something else happens? That could be part of it, right, just as an encouragement. [Aaron] Yeah, I'll get, I don't have the specific scripture on this, but Jesus, when Jesus talked to the Pharisees, you know, we all have a negative connotation of the Pharisees, right? But the Pharisees were God's people and they were the priests in line, they were the ones that were to teach the law to everyone, right? But Jesus, the problem Jesus had with the Pharisees was not just that they were Pharisees. The reason they get a bad rap is because of how they acted. They acted holy and they did the thing that they believed God was calling them to do without doing the things that they should have been doing. [Jennifer] The very specific things that He-- [Aaron] Yeah, He gives this example and He says, "You take advantage of your parents. "You say, "The things that I would "give to you, I give to God instead."" And that's exactly, that's what this question sounds like to me. "God's calling me to this thing over here "but my spouse is holding me back." And I feel like Jesus would say the exact same thing to that person: "Okay, you wanna do what I want you to do, but you're "neglecting the thing I've already told you to do. "I've told you to honor your husband "or submit to your husband." Or, "I've told you to love your wife "as Christ loves the Church. "And yet, you don't wanna do that thing 'cause "they're holding you back from my call in your life? "My call in your life is that also." And so, in another place, Jesus tells to the Pharisees, he says, "You tithe your mint and your cumin "and yet you neglect the weightier things of the law." He says, "You should, the weightier things "are justice and love and mercy." And he says, "And you don't do those things when you "shoulda done those things and the other ones." So, I just go back to this idea of if there's something going on, let's say you have a spouse that gets injured and you no longer can go do the things that you usually do and the ministry that you had and now you have to focus on your spouse. Does that change that you're doing ministry? No. No, you just have changed your energies to a place that the energies need to be right now. If your spouse is in an emotional place, broken, they lost a family member, they're depressed, they're going through things, do you just leave them behind because they're getting in the way of the true ministry? No, if it says the good shepherd was willing to leave the 99 for the one, the one is your spouse. You don't, you leave the 99 that God can take care of because it's God and it's His sheep and His ministry, and you can minister to the one that God's given you. And minister and wash and take care of. And that should never be neglected. I just, we can't do that, I can't tell someone, "Yeah." Well, first of all, we like to use words like, "God told me to," and "God's shown me," and "God's given me" as if that's a trump card. "You can't tell me I'm not supposed to "do this thing because God called me to it." But you know what I can tell you? I know what the Word of God says and if you're not doing the things that the Word of God says, it doesn't matter what you believe, you're wrong. And I'm not trying to be harsh but I am trying to be harsh because many, many families have fallen apart because of this very thing. "No, I'm doing what God wants me to do "and you need to be left behind." [Jennifer] They forsake what He said in His Word. [Aaron] Yeah, and another quote in the book, I said-- In what book? In Marriage After God, yeah. I said, "Don't sacrifice your marriage "on the altar of, quote unquote, ministry." Like, "Oh, I'm doing ministry over here, "so my wife has to deal with it. "She's not gonna ever see me, she has no idea if I love her. "She gets the last bits of my energies "rather than getting the best of my energies "and being the thing that energizes me to do more ministry." It's so much more fruitful to do it the other way than leave them behind. And I just, I think that's my answer. [Jennifer] I think you've covered it really well. So well that I think we should move on to number six. Do you wanna read that one? [Aaron] Yeah, it's about me. Do you, Jennifer, struggle with trusting me? [Jennifer] Do I struggle with trusting you? [Aaron] Specifically speaking about porn, how can you battle thoughts, like the-- [Jennifer] So, I just have to say, I feel like we need to record a whole 'nother episode on this topic altogether because-- [Aaron] We've already done one but-- I know. We should probably do another one. Well, I have received, really, lately, a lot of wives messaging me about this very topic, about trust and rebuilding trust after finding out that your spouse has sinned against you, sinned, especially with pornography, and so, that just needs to happen, but it's not gonna happen this season, so I'm just gonna have to plant that seed and say, "Stay tuned." But just to answer this question, up front, for you guys. I don't struggle to trust you anymore, Aaron. Why? [Jennifer] I think it's because we've worked so hard on building that trust back up and it absolutely takes time. And because, in the beginning, there were times that I did struggle with doubt and fear, especially times that I know you were left alone while I was out running an errand or something like that. And you know what it required is humility and communication. Because I had to be willing to say, "Hey, I'm thinking about you right now and I just, "I don't want you to fall into temptation. "Just be strong, I'll be back at this time." Or when I got back, I would ask you, "Hey, how've you been?" And the more times that we had encounters where you continued to stay pure, it built that trust up in my heart. [Aaron] And then, specifically, along that journey, what did I do, anytime I did choose to get back into pornography? You told me and you repented and you shared with me your own frustrations over the struggle of sin that you had, but you owned it and you were real with me and-- [Aaron] And no matter how little the offense was. [Jennifer] No, and I knew that you struggled with shame and guilt and I knew it was hard for you to tell me. And you learned how to give me a place to respond when I was emotional over it because it makes, I mean, just thinking-- Without trying to control your response. Yeah, 'cause it just, it made me broken knowing that those things took place and I felt a lotta things and I thought a lotta thoughts. But I would say that the humility of you coming to me or me coming to you and the reconciliation process was so important. And when I say reconciliation, I mean we talked about it. Even if it took two and a half hours, we talked about it. We prayed for each other and we tried to affirm each other that we were gonna move forward. Right. And the, some of the, just the practical things is: first of all, it does take time and you should never expect your spouse to just flip a switch and be like, "Well, I'm gonna trust you again." 'Cause that's actually not even Biblical. It does take time to build trust. Now, forgiveness immediately is Biblical, but that doesn't mean immediately, "Oh, we're back to where we were." No, there's been broken trust and it takes time, it takes repetitive purity, right? And then, the other practical is: I made a commitment to tell you, to let you know. And here's the thing, is: the offenses, although they changed in size, relatively, the thing I did, I still confessed it to you and you were able to see the true repentance in me. And so, it's not like it was the same each time, it was less and less and less. But my continuing to come to you and say, "Hey, I made this choice. "Yeah, it was a split second, "but I chose it and I feel shameful about it "and I wanna repent to you because this is not who I am "and it's not who I wanna be and so, I need to tell you." 'Cause I've learned, through the Word of God and through experience, that the confession and repentance is one of the ways that God's given us to kill our flesh. My flesh hates it, it wants to hide in the darkness and keep its, it wants, my flesh wants to not be known because it feels icky and I don't wanna be seen for what I truly am. So, the being consistent and telling you the truth and not just waiting 'til you found out but actually coming forth and saying, "Hey, I made a bad choice." And calling it what it is, a choice, not minimizing it, not justifying it. Those kinds of things helped you trust that I was actually changing. And that I love you and that I don't wanna be that person and that I'm willing to tell you because I want you to know, for my sake, so that I can heal and change and repent and be repented of that sin. [Jennifer] Yeah, I appreciate you sharing all of that and the second part of this question is: how can you battle those thoughts? And I just am thinking back to all of the stuff that I used to struggle with because the sin that you chose to partake in were like seeds planted in my mind and heart for the temptation to feel insecure or unloved and fall into those traps where your mind is just going wildly crazy with the worst kinds of thoughts about you and of our relationship. And I would say that being vulnerable with those and still being willing to be in an intimate place with you where I can say, "Because you did this, I feel this way," or, "I'm thinking these things," and revealing those types of thoughts to you helped me battle them. Because I gave you the opportunity to affirm me and say, "No no no no no, I know I chose that "and I'm so sorry, but that's not who you are. "You don't have to be insecure because of what I did." And there was this back and forth of understanding each other that I think was really valuable. Right. And again, another thing that, for the spouse that has dealt with this and is dealing with it, the mistrust is a natural consequence for a sin. Yeah. Right? And so, we have to recognize that. And so, another thing that builds trust, from the offender's side, is, 'cause what happens is: I've confessed, we've dealt with that event, and then you are leaving somewhere and it's a time when you know I would, usually, in the past-- [Jennifer] You mean I flared up with anxiety inside my whole being? Well, but, no, if you say something like, "Hey"-- Oh. "I wanna encourage you to stay pure while I'm gone." The not truly repentant person would say, "Babe, babe, we already dealt with that, you don't need to bring that up." Oh, getting defensive-- Like, "C'mon, you don't trust me?" No, I should be totally humble and willing to be like, "You're right, thank you for reminding me "and be praying for me and I'm gonna let you know "if I feel tempted and I'm gonna call you and I'm gonna." Instead of being defensive and prideful, I'm gonna be humble and realize that it's totally natural for my wife to not trust me and she's gonna learn trust by how I receive her care for me in that moment. You reminding me, like, "Hey, don't go to that thing." Me receiving that is a trustworthy action, right? Yeah. Another way that I battled thoughts of mistrust was I asked a lot of questions. So, if I ever felt uneasy about a situation or discerning. You know, maybe I woke up from a dream or something where it was like I couldn't shake it, I asked. Or you just feel it. Like, "Hey, something's off." Yeah, I asked you. I asked, "Have you been struggling?" And so, I think that when we recognize that we're battling thoughts, you can't just keep battling them, you can't just keep, you're just gonna be wrestling the whole time, right? And so, being able to open up and share with your spouse the types of thoughts that you're having and also go to God and say, "God, these are "the types of thoughts that I'm having," and finding scriptures that would help fight those thoughts for you and-- [Aaron] Well, and also be praying and asking God to transform your own heart, asking God to transform your spouse's heart. To purify your marriage. Yeah, to use you both for His work and for His kingdom. [Jennifer] See, I told you that this was gonna be a big topic. I feel like we just-- There's a lot, there's a lot more, yeah. [Jennifer] We need to be able to do another episode on that. Yeah. All right, so the last question, it's kind of a bigger, blanket one. It'd be: What is your number one advice to couples who are currently struggling with this eye-to-eye thing? They're not on the same page, they feel at odds with each other. [Jennifer] Well, I will say this: one of the most powerful, impactful, incredible ways that God got ahold of our hearts, Aaron, and made change and transformation in our lives and our marriage was entering into mature, Christian, Biblical community and being transparent with people who we allowed to speak into our lives and say-- "You're off base, bro." But sometimes we didn't even see that we were off on that whole eye-to-eye thing and we got called out for it and so, like, bickering or whatever the thing was. And I just remember how, and even still to this day, it's been such a huge part of our testimony, is being in Biblical community and how being a part of the body, and I don't mean like a one day a week type thing, I mean immersed in it where you know you can text that person, call that person, meet them on the fly for dinner to gain wisdom, to ask advice, to cry about, to praise for, you know, all the things. [Aaron] So, the bit of advice I would give that goes in align with being a community, and it kind of, it's, I talked about it quite a bit in this episode, is humbleness. And in Luke 14:11, he says, "For everyone "who exalts himself will be humbled "and he who humbles himself will be exalted." And all through Proverbs, it talks about this idea of the humble will be lifted up and the haughty are God's opposed. To receive anything from community, you have to be humbled and willing to hear. Like, "Hey, I think you are being a bonehead, Aaron." Like, "Oh, you're right, I agree. "I didn't realize that, I need to change in that area, "I need to go apologize to my wife." So, that humbleness, and even outside of community, in your marriage, if you're in a difficult place, there's something miraculously, spiritually powerful about humbleness. All of these fights we get in, all of the eye-to-eye issues, it's all because they're not seeing our eyes, they're not on our page, which is pridefulness. When we could be like, "Maybe I need to be on their page." [Jennifer] Or humility would point your spouse's eyes up to God and say, "No, look at Him." Right. [Jennifer] "Don't look at me in this, look at Him." [Aaron] Or recognizing you're wrong or maybe don't know or don't have the answer or need to sit back and say, "You know what? "I'm just gonna, I'm gonna let you have this one because, "I mean, I know I've been wrong in the past anyways." It's not a false humility, it's true humbleness, recognizing who you serve, you serve God. And so, in community, which was the number one thing that we believe totally transformed our life, but it also took us, in community, being willing to listen and hear and receive, which takes humbleness. And time. And time, yeah. So, that would be my bit of advice, is: man, humbleness is gonna go infinitely farther than any level of selfishness or pride. [Jennifer] So, the next time, it could be today, tomorrow, next week-- [Aaron] It's gonna be right after this episode, probably. [Jennifer] If you are finding yourself in a place where you're not seeing eye-to-eye with your spouse, remember humility. Absolutely. Remember to pray. Remember to go to God and say, "God, what is it that you want? "'Cause I don't want to get in "the way of what you're doing." Yeah, "How can my response and actions "and attitude right now glorify you?" And that, man, it changes everything 'cause you're like, "Oh. "Yelling and throwing a dish at the wall "is not gonna glorify God right now." Or, "Telling my spouse that they don't know anything "or that they're wrong, those might not glorify God." [Jennifer] Well, that wraps us up for this episode of having answered your guys' questions. Thank you again so much for being there and submitting those questions when we called out for them. Yeah, appreciate it. And, again, if you wanna participate in a Q&A episode, all you need to do is follow @marriageaftergod on Instagram and wait for the next time we poll for 'em. And then you can submit your question and we try and get through as many as we can with the time that we have. And if we ever do an episode where you're like, "I know my question would've fit in there," and maybe we didn't get to it, just message us and let us know. But we just love hearing from you guys and we love participating in this way where we get to kind of answer your questions or at least try. [Aaron] So, as usual, we end every episode with prayer. So Jennifer, why don't you pray for us? [Jennifer] Dear God, thank you so much for marriage. Thank you for our spouses and thank you for the opportunity that we get every day to walk this life with each other. We pray for humility to be a priority in our lives, that we would walk humbly before each other, that we would be motivated by how you're moving in our lives individually and in our marriages. God, we thank you for our marriages and we just pray for unity. We pray that, even in times where we don't see eye-to-eye or we have disagreements or there's conflict, that you would remain at the center of our marriage and that we can submit our hearts to you. God, we pray that we would be one with each other, that we would pursue oneness in our marriage and support each other in that way. And God, we pray that these situations that come up in marriage where we don't see eye-to-eye would be an opportunity where we can learn from each other, where we can grow to understand each other, where we can experience intimacy. No matter what, we pray that your will would be done and that you would be glorified. In Jesus' name, amen. Amen. So, thanks for joining us on this week's episode. We love y'all, we thank you for being a part of the Marriage After God community. And we just wanna invite you, if you have not yet, would you leave us a review? We love your reviews, they help the podcast get reach, and new people find it because of your reviews. So, if you wanna leave us a star rating and a text review, we'd love that. See you next week. Did you enjoy today's show? If you did, it would mean the world to us if you could leave us a review on iTunes. 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I NO I’m LIAR YAHERRD!? Intro: Frontal Lobe- Daniel Cesar Host: @SoonPlus Special Guest: Julz Color (Julzincolor.com) Inquiry for pieces- julzpaint@gmail.com (3:00) New Media 1st VR Piece was sold today in 2020 Binding and tradition will not die, I refuse to accept that we will go full digital. Archetypes: a very typical example of a certain person or thing. (8:47) Life moments are on REPEAT...everything moves in CIRCLES Holiday check points make the year move too fast. (11:00) How Do you separate inspiration from imitation? Future Vs Designer (Example) (14:00) Gaze Ball Artist: Jeff Koons (16:00) There is Art in Everything There is always depth Details are everywhere Take the time (18:00) What is the art behind putting a PRICE on your pieces? @TheFeelsSea (Seattle Art Scene) What tier does an artist pick for themselves? Art is not tangible, its perception. Collectors control the price of the Art Market. (21:45) Figurine: statuette, especially one of a human form. (25:30) My Art is listening to me and not seeing me. (36:50) Go Beyond the Edge. We’ve seen the same stories throughout the decade. BE HONEST with SELF. YAHERRD Book Recommendations: Crime & Punishment - Fyodor Dostoevsky Because of a Women - Malanda Kisongo What Is the What - Dave Eggers (49:05) Mamba Mentality Tribute (55:05) YOUR LUCKY YOU HAVE A PASSION?! Get out there and and FAIL. When you hear “NO” it’s okay...you will LIVE. Do what the fuq you want and love within GOOD Morality Outro: Dragonball Durag- Thundercat

Howdo folks, Sorry about last week I was absolutely fucked with the cold so couldn't do any recording. Today we have an interview with Chuck from the Defenders of Kobold, a Live play RPG Twitch channel they also have a Youtube and a whole load of other stuff, I have been a twitch sub for Defenders for 9 months and they are just a bunch of friends playing games which is why I like it, no over production, at all. It was good to sit down with Chuck and hear his and the Defenders story. I hope you guys enjoy and if you want to know more @KoboldDefenders their twitter handle and all the links are there. The links to the people I plugged at the end of the episode are as follows The Summit of Kings Swordsfalls twitter Unconquered Kickstarter Monkey Paw Games Twitter Experimental XP and Levelling Rules for the Worlds Most Popular Fantasy RPG Mr Barber's Twitter

Pastor Don and Brad discuss the true meaning of the Gospel.  We all know what sharing the Gospel is about if we are Christians.  Receiving  Christ is the biggest decision of anyone's life.  But, they explore another aspect of the Gospel that is often missed.  Loving your neighbor. How Do we do this?  Check this out.

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Howdo folks, I know it's a little late but had other things to do today and I did have time to record and edit earlier. Today I talk about the goings on with Hamanshiron and the future of the game and the system, along with a few insights I have picked up over the past 8 or 9 months of us building the game. There is a mini rant in this episode about something but there is very little in the way of rant in this one, and next week is the Infinity actual play podcast so it might be a couple of weeks before we get back to regularly scheduled rants. As I do in the podcast I have to thank Graeme Barber @pocgamer on twitter for his idea for Psionics which inspired the new Psionic rules which will be tested on our table, currently available to download on the Patreon and will be available to the general public in April when the next update is completed. As always I hope you guys have a great week Happy Hobby Patreon Link Drivethrurpg itch.io Graeme Barber Twitter Blog text

Life coach and psychedelic advocate Rizen sits down with Roman for an hour long conversation about the use of psychedelics and their use for spiritual awakening. 00:01 - 3:59 Intro with Meditation 4:00 - 7:59 What are Psychedelics? 8:38 - 16:55 How Do they Work? 16:56 - 33:10 Personal Experience 33:11 - 43:09 Psychedelics and Spirituality 43:10 - 50:14 The Dark Side of Psychedelics 50:15 - 57:04 Alternatives to Psychedelics 57:05 - Final Thoughts

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Colleen Magarity - Runs HHH Lacrosse, Former Colorado Coach, 3x National Champion and All American, WPLL Player  PART 2 01:11 Controlling What You Can Control -Story of a 22' -Can't get anxious  -Do your role the best you can  -Things to control in a game  -Being happy for your teammates if they are getting recruited a lot  -Good recruiters see how good your are on your worst day 05:53 Getting Expert Level Coaching  -Being taught what it will be like at the next level -Don't be complacent with just being good in high school if your committed -Understanding the why portion of the game  -Celebrating little things  -Learning to move without the ball  -Using film  -Having an advocate  -Finding an advocate  15:40 Getting Great at Being You -Every players x factor  -Know your own role and do it well -Positions within positions  -Tendencies of left handed players  -Positions within attacker position -Positions within midfield position  -What coaches are looking for within goalies  24:10 Highlight Videos -Getting more and more important  -Timing -Diversity of clips  -Show off ball as well as on ball clips  -Having quality film  -Using highlights not just plays -The competition in highlight videos  -The use of stats -Don't doctor your shots  30:15 Emailing coaches-When to start -22's should start -21's should be emailing a lot  -When to email and when not to  -Using highlights in emails to coaches 34:54 Campus Visits  -Visiting campus before getting recruited  -Putting the cart before the horse -Do's and Don'ts on campus visits  -Parents role  -Prepare speaking about yourself -Don't talk about playing time  -Don't jump into scholarships until they bring it up -Be respectful to your parents  -Don't throw other coaches under the bus 41:18 NCAA Rules -September 1st of junior year is an important date to know  -Different programs official visits procedures -Official: Paid by the institution (allowed 5 of them) -Unofficial: Paid for by the athletes parents (allowed unlimited) -Family decisions  -Evaluation periods  -Dead periods  -June, July and 3 weeks in November to be evaluated  -Advice on talking to coaches  48:34 Scholarships  -3 different types *Financial aid  *Merit aid  *Athletic aid  -Can you stack financial aid and athletic aid? -12.0 scholarships to divide amongst the team  -The importance of getting anything  -Negotiation and its place in the process -The ability to earn more later-Signing NLI  59:01 Timelines for Class of 2021 -In the thick of it all  -Middle ground is starting to find homes -Schools are never done -D1 & D3 are starting their process -2021's recruiting by D1 schools in the coming summer -What to do as a 2021 coming January  -The options to re-class  -Use of a PG year  1:10:19 Knowing If Your Good Enough -Are you competing against top talent? -Self reflection  -Ask your coaches -Using JM3 Video assessments  1:11:56 How Do you Know Your Being Recruited? -General interest is common early in the process -Phone calls are a big indicator  -Getting on campus gives a personal connection  -The small grey area -Don't watch how many times they watch your video 1:15:13 Finding a Good Lacrosse Club Where Your From -Travel to play with another club  -Find a spot that works for you -If a place is full ask for a recommendation of another  -Find an advocate  -Just go crush it at camp 1:17:10 Is Division 1 Really for You? -Know what the grind of D1 is like  -You have to love lacrosse -Its a job  -Can you work off your butt off for 4 years? -Division 3's role

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Welcome to Everything Trying to Kill You, the horror comedy podcast that analyzes your favorite scary movies! In episode 53 The Eyes of My Mother, your hosts Mary Kay McBrayer, Rachel Estridge, and Mary Beyer answer important questions like these:You come upon a person chained in your basement, barn, et cetera… what do you do? Did Franny go to school? Why was there so much isolation? Were there any issues of plausibility that distracted from the film to you? Were you getting Manley Pointer/Flannery O’Connor vibes from Charlie? Is this movie scary? Were the surgery scenes with Franny and her mom upsetting? What’s the most frightening part of this movie? What’s the relationship like between Franny and her father? What does Franny do with that viscera after she puts it in the fridge? What does the story of St. Francis have to do with this narrative? Why set the tone with his story? What’s the difference between saying “Please don’t hurt my baby” versus “Please don’t take my baby?” Why is it important that the antagonist is a woman? What’s going on with Fran’s loneliness and sociopathy? Do they work together? How DO they work? How did you like the character of Antonio’s mother? Does this foley artist deserve an Oscar? Did you like the score of this movie?The Eyes of My Mother (2016)– Directed by Nicolas Pesce. Performances by Kika Magalhães and Will Crill.Genre: Horror, Slasher, Thriller, Foreign, Torture, DramaWhere to watch: NetflixSummary: A young, lonely woman is consumed by her deepest and darkest desires after tragedy strikes her quiet country life.Links: Pre-order Mary Kay’s book on Apple Books, Indiebound, Amazon, or from her person via email.

Well, we did it! We let the Cork Float in real-time! Tune in as Allison and Lucia let the cork float on what was actually showing up today! How DO we put all these good skills we're talking and learning about to work and actually DO THE WORK??? In every opportunity that presents itself! Put yourself on high alert! Priority Numero Uno! Tomorrow may be too late! Those opportunities are every moment of every day! You have this chance to be AWARE. Once you become aware, catching yourself with the evidence. . . you have this chance to do it differently. You can't 'unknow' that now!! And. . . they show up over and over and over and over and. . . Call it a gift from your inner guidance, your intuitive self. Inspired thoughts inspire growth and action. You'll find your own 'right cocktail' in the doing! Psst....BTW.....What do you want to say about it all? Thank you for tuning in, listening, and adding your 2 cents! One thought inspires another, so thank you for your link in the chain of collaboration and connection here! :)Additionally, be sure to join the conversation by rating this podcast, leaving feedback and/or joining us in the private Let Your Cork Float Facebook group. What we offer is a safe place to explore all aspects and intricacies (good and bad) of our woven lives, and how you want to weigh in on them all. After all, we are a tribe and we are here to support and lift each other up to our fulfill our unique greatness.In this private FB group, you'll not only find your loving and accepting tribe, but you'll also find additional audio files of conversations that happen after the formal podcast recording has ended. We'll call it ... a virtual "off-camera" peek into the private conversations between your two wise hosts.You can find out more about Lucia from her website at http://www.luciaferraro.com/about or click here to book a 1:1 coaching session with her.You can also see Lucia and Allison in their first interview together on YouTube here.Allison offers a self-guided online class called Accelerate Your Mojo and 1:1 coaching for that class. She's created other classes including Visualization Mastery 201. She also writes self-help and children's books. Go to www.living360coaching.com to learn more.