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From embracing Zionism as a Holocaust survivor to becoming a vocal critic of Israeli policies, renowned doctor and author Gabor Maté reflects on the evolution in his thinking, on trauma as a driving force behind Zionism and Israel, and on how collective Jewish trauma has been exploited by Israel to justify its war in Gaza. In this episode: Gabor Mate (@DrGaborMate), Physician and Author Episode credits: This episode was produced by Tamara Khandaker and Sonia Bhagat, with Noor Wazwaz, Phillip Lanos, Spencer Cline, Hagir Saleh, Melanie Marich, and our host, Malika Bilal. It was edited by Alexandra Locke. Our sound designer is Alex Roldan. Our video editors are Hisham Abu Salah and Mohanned Al-Melhem. Alexandra Locke is The Take’s executive producer. Ney Alvarez is Al Jazeera’s head of audio. Connect with us: @AJEPodcasts on Instagram, X, Facebook, Threads and YouTube
Join Daniel Maté, an award-winning composer and playwright, into a rich journey through musical theater, mental health and activism. Co-author of 'The Myth Of Normal' with his father Dr. Gabor Maté, Daniel shares insights on 'getting unstuck' through his unique mental chiropractice and his compassionate approach to Israeli-Palestinian dialogue. His viral debates on Zionism have resonated worldwide. This episode also explores musical activism for vulnerable populations, Daniel & Gabor's upcoming book "Hello Again" which explores the quality of the adult parent-child relationship, and perspectives on trauma, healing and modern medicine.⭐ Please consider leaving us a review on apple podcasts to help us grow.
On this week's episode of In The Circle, I'm thrilled to reconnect with my friend, Dr. Gabor Maté. Gabor Maté is a renowned medical doctor, five-time international bestselling author, humanitarian, and highly respected speaker. His acclaimed book on addiction, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, is widely used in academic institutions across Canada and the U.S. His latest work, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, spent 19 weeks on the New York Times list and remains a top bestseller in Canada.This marks the 10th time I've interviewed Gabor, and I'm truly grateful for his ongoing support. Our collaborations have brought positive change to the Recovery 2.0 community.Tommy Discusses:Life beyond, and before, addictionThe role of trauma in addiction The importance of grievingThe inequality in access to addiction recoveryOur need for human connectionWould you like to be a guest on the In The Circle Podcast? Submit Your Question Here: R20.com/inthecircleRecovery 2.0 Spiritual Journey to IndiaVisiting India is a not-to-be-missed experience - especially for anyone interested in spirituality, yoga, meditation, and the exotic. Come immerse yourself with the Recovery 2.0 community in an unforgettable, 10-day journey to Rishikesh, India. Learn more and apply: R20.com/india2025 Serve Others in Recovery at the Highest Level. Become a Recovery 2.0 Certified Coach!The Recovery 2.0 Coach Training Program brings together the most powerful philosophies and practices of modern-day recovery, yoga, meditation, breathwork, nutrition and healthy lifestyle so that you can Serve People in Recovery at the Highest Level. If you are a yoga teacher or serious practitioner of yoga, apply here: R20.com/coachtraining2024 Join Us in Costa Rica! If you are looking for a way to deepen your recovery journey and meet others in the Recovery 2.0 community, come and join us in Costa Rica this November for an unforgettable 7-day recovery immersion where the jungle meets the sea. There are only a few spots left! Learn more and apply: R20.com/costarica2024Further Links & ResourcesCatch a Meeting. We offer 40+ Live Online Recovery meetings every week. Come and find your community here. Meetings are always free.Want ongoing recovery insights and inspiration delivered to your inbox? Subscribe to the Weekly UPLIFTJoin our Recovery 2.0 Community: access your authentic power, connect with others on a similar path, and thrive in life beyond addictionSubscribe to The Recovery Channel on YouTubeVisit our websiteCome and experience an in-person event or retreat: r20.com/eventsAddiction is part of everyone's...
Please join us for “Neurodiversity and the Myth of Normal” with Pam Collins from Neurodivergent by Nature. Pam Collins is a late-identified neurodivergent parent to two amazing multiply neurodivergent adult sons. She provides Neurodiverse-Affirming parent coaching, consulting, and education services to families and community partners and has been supporting families for over 25 years in British Columbia and outside of Canada. She is a volunteer for the Alliance Against Seclusion and Restraint. She is passionate about the most current research in psychology, especially related to neurodivergence (Autism, PDA, ADHD) and neuroscience (Trauma, anxiety, and depression). She works to share information with others so they can be informed to make decisions, experience joy, and be hopeful.Support the show
Send us a Text Message.This is an example of the two free additional Bonus Episode I offer every month to my Patreon community along with an ad-free version of the podcast at;patreon.com/JeremyMcCandlessEpisode Notes: The Myth of Trauma - A Christian PerspectiveEpisode Title: The Myth of Trauma - A Christian Perspective in the Light of Reading Gabor Maté's "The Myth of Normal"Main Themes:Maté's Thesis:Gabor Maté's book argues that what society considers "normal" is actually maladaptive and rooted in a toxic cultural framework, leading to widespread trauma and stress. Maté critiques societal norms that perpetuate stress, disconnection, and trauma, proposing that many health issues stem from these factors.Biblical Perspective:From a Christian viewpoint, normalcy is defined by God's purpose for humanity, as outlined in the Bible.Romans 12:2 emphasizes transforming one's mind to discern God's will, rather than conforming to worldly standards.Christianity offers a framework for understanding health and normalcy based on biblical principles and spiritual well-being.Five Main Themes of Maté's Book:Trauma and Its Impact:Cultural Toxicity:Mind-Body Connection:Healing and Recovery:Small t and Big T Trauma.Christian Counter Perspectives:Human Dignity:Role of Forgiveness:Ultimate Hope and Redemption:Community and the Church:Worldview and Authority:Conclusion:While Maté's insights into trauma and societal norms offer valuable perspectives, a Christian viewpoint emphasizes spiritual health, the reality of sin, and the transformative power of a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Maté's advocacy for psychedelics and engaging with spirits for healing is critically examined and refuted based on biblical principles of sobriety, self-control, dependence on God, and the sanctity of the body (Ephesians 5:18, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20).Closing Thoughts:Understanding trauma and societal issues from both secular and Christian perspectives can provide a comprehensive view of health and well-being. Embracing biblical principles offers a unique and holistic approach to healing, grounded in faith and community.Scripture References:Romans 12:2John 16:33Psalm 147:3James 5:14-161 Corinthians 12:12-27Galatians 6:2Hebrews 10:24-251 Peter 4:8Isaiah 53:5Revelation 21:4Ephesians 5:181 Corinthians 6:19-20Genesis 1:27Matthew 6:14-15Ephesians 4:32Colossians 2:8Ask Ralph - Christian FinancePractical Advice based in Christian Faith. Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Jeremy McCandless is creating podcasts and devotional resources | PatreonHelp us continue making great content for listeners everywhere.https://thebibleproject.buzzsprout.com
In honor of dry July, Karolina is debunking the most common myths and objections about going alcohol-free. What if everything you believed about "normal drinking" was a lie? Society puts "normal drinking" on a pedestal: the cultured person who enjoys just one glass of wine over a nice dinner. But is this achievable or even desirable? It turns out that 60% of regular drinkers overdrink, and it's also been proven that 40% to 50% of our drinking is underreported. And drinking doesn't feel good - would you rather be someone who drinks normally and never gets the wake up call? Or would you rather be a person who gets the negative consequence, reevaluates alcohol, and wakes up to the life you were really supposed to live? When you join Karolina's 22-day Dry Bootcamp, you'll learn how to relax and have fun without alcohol, build a sustainable, alcohol-free lifestyle, and discover your deeper why. Plus, you'll get all the guides, rituals, and meditations to help you connect to your higher self. We start August 6th. Sign up for just $59! IN THIS EPISODE: Why "normal drinking" is actually a myth and why what society views as normal is often an unhealthy illusion The majority of people underreport their alcohol consumption by 40% to 50% (!), plus, what this means for your perceptions of "moderate" drinking How intuition and listening to your body's signals will shift you into greater confidence, courage, and purpose The REAL impact of even a single drink on your body (think disrupted sleep cycles and metabolic changes!) A sneak peek into Karolina's 22-day Dry Bootcamp, which starts August 6th. Break free from alcohol and align with your highest self. LINKS/RESOURCES MENTIONED: Dry Bootcamp starts August 6th! If you're ready for a life-changing break from alcohol, this program will inspire you to reevaluate alcohol through daily lessons and an immersive community. Sign up now for just $59! Karolina's book is available in hardcover, Kindle, and as an audiobook. When you get your copy of Euphoric: Ditch Alcohol and Gain a Happier, More Confident You today, you'll also unlock tons of resources to support you on your journey. Loved the book? We'd be honored if you left a review! Tune in to Episode 132: Isn't Drinking Cultural?! Follow @euphoric.af on Instagram. And as always, rate, review, and subscribe so we can continue spreading our message far and wide.
As we begin to better understand the immense impact that trauma and environment have on our psyche and body we need to develop new pathways to healing. In today's episode, Niall is sharing a very exclusive discussion with world-renowned trauma expert and physician, Dr. Gabor Maté. Niall recently took part in a panel with Dr. Maté, along with Tammy Darcy, Founder of the Shone Project and Brent Pope, former rugby player and mental health advocate. Hosted by Claire McKenna, the panel discussed the current state of mental health in Ireland, along with solutions to change our toxic culture and create healing in society. Dr. Maté's new book ‘The Myth Of Normal' is a groundbreaking investigation into the causes of illness, a bracing critique of how our society breeds disease, and a pathway to health and healing. This panel recording took place at ‘Exploring The Myth Of Normal In A Toxic Culture', presented by Jacqueline Kyne on Thursday, 20 June 2024 at RDS Concert Hall, Dublin. Thank you to Jacqueline Kyne Events, find out more about their events at https://www.jacquelinekyne.com/ For more mindfulness content check out Niall's Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/niallbreslin Follow Niall on IG @bressie, TikTok @niallbreslin, FB @whereismymindpodcast and Twitter @nbrez and visit his website: www.niallbreslin.com. Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this show and all Lemonada shows lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. Stay up to date with Lemonada Media on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia. If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally or feeling hopeless, it's important to talk to someone about it now. You can contact one of the resources below for free. In Ireland/U.K.: https://www.samaritans.org/ In the U.S.: https://988lifeline.org/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
หนังสือ The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture ของ Gabor Maté and Daniel Maté - เมื่อยุคสมัยของความเป็นปกตินั้นเปลี่ยนแปลงไปอย่างสิ้นเชิง มันจะหมายถึงอย่างไรถ้าเราผิดปกติ - การพูดถึงคำว่าปกตินั้น มักจะพูดอยู่กรอบแคบว่า เราต้องเป็นเหมือนคนในสังคมถึงจะปกติ แต่จริง ๆ ทางจิตวิทยาไม่ได้เป็นแบบนั้น - สุขภาพของแต่ละคนนั้นแตกต่างกัน สภาพแวดล้อม ความคิด รวมไปถึงจิตใจก็เป็นส่วนที่สำคัญที่จะเข้าใจตัวเราเองว่าสิ่งใดเกิดขึ้นสิ่งนั้นย่อมมีเหตุผลเสมอ - การเปลี่ยนแปลงของความคิดและจิตใจ ก็จำเป็นจะต้องเรียนรู้ที่จะมีพันธะ กับความเป็นเนื้อแท้ของสรรพสิ่ง เพราะชีวิตจะขาดการยอมรับและการค้นหาตัวเองไปไม่ได้ - สิ่งใดเกิดขึ้นกับความคิด อารมณ์ และจิตใจของเราล้วนเป็นเรื่องปกติสามัญ ถ้าเราไม่ไหวที่จะเป็นแบบนี้ก็ขอให้ปรึกษาคนที่ปรึกษาได้ วัฒนธรรมที่เป็นพิษจะทำให้เราแย่ลงได้
“The question is not why the addiction, but why the pain.” — Dr. Gabor Maté Dr. Gabor Maté is a physician, public speaker, and bestselling author whose work has been translated into 30+ languages. For 20 years, Dr. Maté worked as a family doctor and palliative care director. He then spent 12 years in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside with patients challenged by hardcore drug addiction, mental illness, and HIV, including in North America's first Supervised Injection Site. His award-winning book on addiction, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, is used in universities globally. His most recent book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture, is a New York Times bestseller and one of the best books I've ever read. In fact, if I could give one book to everyone on the planet to read, it would be this one. Dr. Maté is also an expert in childhood developmental issues, ADHD, mind/body health, trauma, and parenting — you're about to see why. In this episode: • Why the medical system is keeping us sick. • How schools are destroying our children's future – and what to do about it. • The role of trauma in bringing kindness and unity back to our society; and • How to prioritize healing and happiness in your daily routine. Let's WIN THE DAY with Dr. Gabor Maté! _
How do we deal with personal and societal trauma and pain in this moment of war, political polarization, increasing violence, domestic terror, and despair? Experts say we must look at the root causes of our pain, and yet the US is in the grip of a battle over exactly that — with efforts to ban books, censor news, cancel truth-tellers and hide history. How do we come together and overcome what the US surgeon general says is loneliness on an “epidemic” scale, when our society and culture work to separate us and tell us to heal alone? Today's guests have experienced personal trauma and turned it into fuel for making social change. V, formerly known as Eve Ensler, is the co-founder of One Billion Rising and V-Day, the global movement to end violence against women and girls. Her latest book, “Reckoning”, is out in paperback this month. Dr. Gabor Maté, a Holocaust survivor, is a retired physician and author of several groundbreaking books on healing personal and collective pain. His latest, written with his son Daniel Maté is “The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture”. What are the things making people feel desperate, broken and afraid? And what can we do to help one another look at what feels unbearable with a view to changing it? All that, plus V lays out the plans for V Day on February 14, where this year's theme is Rise for Freedom, and a commentary from Laura on the power of feelings and the teachings of the late great queer author/activist Amber Hollibaugh.Guests:• Gabor Maté: Physician (retired), Public Speaker & Bestselling Author, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture• V (formerly Eve Ensler): Playwright, Activist, Author, Founder V-Day & One Billion Rising Full Episode Notes are located HERE. They include related episodes, articles, and more. The following full uncut conversation is from our recent episode 'Looking at the Unbearable with Dr. Gabor Maté & V (formerly Eve Ensler).' It is available here as a podcast thanks to generous contributions from listeners like you. Thank you. Support the podcast by becoming a member => LauraFlanders.org/donate The Laura Flanders Show Crew: Laura Flanders, Sabrina Artel, David Neuman, Nat Needham, Rory O'Conner, Janet Hernandez, Sarah Miller and Jeannie Hopper FOLLOW The Laura Flanders ShowTwitter: twitter.com/thelfshowTikTok: tiktok.com/@thelfshowFacebook: facebook.com/theLFshowInstagram: instagram.com/thelfshowYouTube: youtube.com/@thelfshow ACCESSIBILITY - The broadcast edition of this episode is available with closed captioned by clicking here for our YouTube Channel
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I not normal??" "Why do I not fit in??" "Why do I have to go through all of this when other seem so normal??" If you have, I get it. I've been there many times and I've cried a lot over the feeling of not fitting in. I truly feel you. And my mother was no help with that... All she said to me has made it worse. But what is "normal"? Is there such a thing? In this episode I want to share with you why "normal" is an illusion and an unhelpful one at that... And there's good news too! To share your experience and ask questions email Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me Access the FREE Self-Love Guided Practice here⬇ https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Apply to join Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle here⬇ https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ To know more about the 1:1 10 weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme email Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me With Love!
Emily is delighted to welcome back Gabor Maté, MD, the esteemed physician and author best known for his breakthrough analysis of addiction as a psychophysiological response to childhood trauma and emotional loss. Gabor co-wrote his latest work, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, alongside his son Daniel Maté. It became an instant New York Times bestseller, and the duo is already working on their next project, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children. Emily and Gabor explore the pain behind addiction and the promise of wholeness. Gabor touches on addiction as an attempt to solve a problem of pain, cites the demands and technical diversions of our modern lives as catalysts of the current mental health crisis, and invites readers to embark on a journey of reconnection through compassionate self-examination. About Gabor Maté A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. His book on addiction - In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction - received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing, he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. Learn More: Website YouTube Facebook Instagram X To read the full show notes and discover more resources visit https://www.narmtraining.com/podcast *** NARM Training Institute https://www.NARMtraining.com View upcoming trainings: https://narmtraining.com/schedule Join the Inner Circle: https://narmtraining.com/online-learning/inner-circle *** The NARM Training Institute provides tools for transforming complex trauma through: in-person and online trainings for mental health care professionals; in-person and online workshops on complex trauma and how it interplays with areas like addiction, parenting, and cultural trauma; an online self-paced learning program, the NARM Inner Circle; and other trauma-informed learning resources. We want to connect with you! Facebook @NARMtraining YouTube Instagram @thenarmtraininginstitute
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Dr. Gabor Maté talks to us about how to reconnect with your feelings, trust your instincts, and help kids express emotions in healthy ways. If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Gabor Maté, MD, (pronunciation: GAH-bor MAH-tay) is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture will be published on September 13, 2022 and is available to pre-order now. To learn more, join his e-news list at www.drgabormate.com. Get Hunter's best selling book, Raising Good Humans now! Over 200,000 copies sold! Click here to order and get book bonuses! And now Hunter's newly released book, Raising Good Humans Every Day, is available to order! Click here to get your copy! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://mindfulmamamentor.com/mindful-mama-podcast-sponsors/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Bok, dobrodošli u novu epizodu pomalo too much podcasta! Nadamo da ste spremni za hrpu tema koje prolazimo u ovoj epizodi. :D Teme koje smo prošle: - pripreme za Evino vjenčanje - naše viđenje aktualne tematike oko nove pjesme LayZ-ja - pravo na izbor (pobačaj) - što je autentičnost - kako su people pleasing, auentičnost i osobne granice povezani - vježba za postizanje autentičnosti Nekoliko tema i ljudi koje smo još spomenule kroz epizodu: MAJA KRIŠTAFOR: https://www.instagram.com/majakristafor/ DUJE KOVAČEVIĆ: https://www.instagram.com/dujekovacevic PAULA BREČAK: https://www.instagram.com/thewolfnomad/ PAMELA PERKIĆ: https://www.instagram.com/pamelaperkic/ Što smo čitale i gledale: - The Myth Of Normal, Dr. Gabor Mate (knjiga) - I Am Not Your Guru (Netflix) - Awake (Netflix) Evin nastup u Lood podcastu: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgtigYusY2w&t=2092s&ab_channel=LOODPODCAST Link na spomenuti komentar i Evin odgovor o pravima žena: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SikayJSDaNQ&lc=UgzeM7D9GTpBtVbUIFx4AaABAg ☕ Počasti nas s kavom ako ti se svidjela epizoda: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pomalotoomuch POVEŽITE SE S NAMA: Eva: https://www.instagram.com/toomucheva Marie: https://www.instagram.com/mariewasler Slušajte, gledajte & subscribeajte naš podcast: YOUTUBE: https://bit.ly/3ytU2hP SPOTIFY: https://spoti.fi/3RNtHCj APPLE: https://apple.co/3RNuD9W Ako nam se želiš zahvaliti za naš rad i trud, bile bismo ti zahvalne da ovu epizodu podijeliš na svojim društvenim mrežama ili svojim prijateljima i da nas označiš (@toomucheva, @mariewasler) te da podcast ocijeniš i/ ili komentiraš na platformi na kojoj nas slušaš. Hvala ti!
With mental health, we often create a separation between those that are “sick” and those that are “normal.” But I've found that the reality is we're all on a continuum of mental and emotional wellbeing at any given moment. Whether we develop challenges and imbalances and how well we do when we experience them is also largely dependent on our environemnt, made up of culture, socioeconomic factors, family dynamics, diet, and more. I remember an incidence when I was volunteering as a nurse practitioner and nurse midwife at a refugee camp on the border of Rwanda and the DRC - the Congo - in Kisoro, Uganda. A woman walked in through the front doors into the waiting room and started getting into everyone's face telling them stories, asking questions, walking into exam rooms and picking up stethoscopes and interrupting exams… and then she went back out to the waiting room, popped a squat, and peed in the corner! it was clear she was having a psychotic episode. I was watching this wondering, wait, what's happening? And what are we supposed to do? Aren't we supposed to do something? Are we supposed to talk to someone, or call someone? But what I noticed was most people smiled and found her amusing. Some patients waiting twere a little annoyed, of course, but most engaged with her or just chuckled. Someone cleaned up her pee. I spoke with my interpreter and she explained that she is a local villager who comes in every now and then and does that. She causes no harm and just stays for a few minutes but eventually leaves (and doesn't usually pee;). I thought, holy shit! If that was in the US, someone would have called the cops and she'd have been arrested and probaly experience a very stressful process of being handcuffed and dragged away and put into a jail and whatnot. Later, I heard Gabor Mate say that “the best place to have schizophrenia isn't North America with all its meds. It's a village in Africa or India” where there's acceptance; where people make room for your quirks; where conneciton isn't broken but maintained, where one isn't not excluded or ostracized but wher you're welcomed, and where there's room for you to act out or express what you need to.” Exactly. Disease isn't an isolated instance. It's a culturally constructed paradigm. Those of us who live in a materialistic society, in a culture that cuts us off from our spirituality and connection by ignoring emotional and social needs and idealizing individualism, materialism and consumerism and distancing from nature are set up for pathology. What we value in modern industrialized society isn't who people are, but what people produce or consume. Those who don't do either are pushed to the side and devalued, like our elders. In a healthier society where we aren't walking around in a myth of normal, people are more likely to make room for our differences; where we aren't excluded, but welcomed in. Symptoms of different diagnoses - depression, anxiety, etc. - can be present in all of us at certain times in different degrees. A continuum. Often, there is too much focus on treating the symptoms rather than the underlying root causes. When we do this, we tend to worsen the illness over time because we're not addressing the root cause, which persists and causes more suffering. A lot of people receive these official diagnoses when sick enough to seek out help. But many of us live with these symptoms sans a diagnosis, day to day, some days worse than others. But we don't need to receive an official diagnosis before starting to address some of the essential root causes. When we can own and see the common humanity of this suffering, we can stop saying, oh whew! I'm glad I don't have that disease. Or, wow sucks to be them. But rather, we can start to inquire why are so many us -if not all of us - feeling this way? When we can let go of the myth that there is some kind of “normal” that walks around unaffected by the dysfunctional in our society, there is less “othering” and more genuine compassion for others - and ourselves; there is less fear, knowing we're not isolated and alone in our experience. Now, the root causes of mental health issues are generally not rooted in biology. Sure - they're connected. But there is no gene or group of genes that if you have it, you'll for sure get a specific mental illness. The closest we have gotten to that is research that shows if you have a large group of amorphous genes, you may be more likely to develop a range of mental illnesses. However, this arguably proof of an increased sensitivity more than a tendency to have a specific mental illness. So, when we're looking at all the children in our communities with various diagnoses, perhaps they are more the canaries in the coal mine. When a canary dies in a coal mine, the miners didn't say, “Hey! The bird just died. Must be weak.” NO. They said, “Time to GTF out!” Why do we tend to see those with mental illness in our society as weaker somehow? Why can't we see it as an indicator of an unhealthy environment expressed by those with an exquisite sensitivity? Krishnamurti said, “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” Exactly. I think we're in a society that has unnatural stressors and in a context where it is so challenging to learn how to manage them. Instead, we learn to repress our feelings. Gabor Mate said, “Biology is shaped by our social circumstances and psychological experiences.” So there's culture, socioeconomic systems, oppressive systems, multigenerational family history and intergenerational trauma… these are all part of the environment, and all of them impact the individual. And since we're all impacted by our environment, there is no “normal,” as we use traditionally use the term. There is no single person with no symptoms that are in the DSM-5 (which, BTW was initially created for statistical data collection and severe inpatient cases). The unhealthy societal conditions, the harmful thoughts and beliefs we hold within us, have to be addressed no matter what. We can also stop looking to shift our circumstances or history - because that can't change anyway - and instead shift how we relate to it. The story we tell. When we see it's not what happens to us, but what happens inside of us, then we have the power to heal. Knowing we have choices can help us make a shift. This means a change of our worldview is required, because that is what gets shifted with trauma and growing up in a toxic society. While medications can be life-saving, addressing the root cause of our chronic illnesses will require a lot of discomfort, because the solution isn't in keeping the treatment biological in a pill. It's in recognizing that the root cause is often in our environment and how we choose to relate to our life experiences. That means we are empowered and responsible for how we feel - and that can be scary AF. But it's worth it. You will learn:// Why there is no such thing as “normal”// How modern industrialized society influences pathology// What we can do to stop “othering” people (and ourselves) who have mental health challenges// Where mental health issues often stem from in the first place (hint: it's not all our biology!)// How psychedelics, meditation, and time in nature can help us change our worldview AND help us healResources:// Episode 50: When Someone You Love Has a Mental Illness // Episode 97: Psychedelics and Spiritual Practice // Learn more about “The Myth of Normal” in Gabor Mate's book // If you want to dive into this level of healing with a small group of self-identified womyn, having plant medicine retreats in Alaska and Hawaii, adventures in nature and learning more about your mind and your deeper Soul Purpose, visit AdventureMastermind.com to get on the waitlist to be the first to hear about the next dates and locations. (P.S. 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THE MYTH OF NORMAL: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture Episode 157 Welcome to The Unconventional Book Club, the perfect podcast for busy people who want to learn but don't have time to read. Hosted by Book Doula and founder of Live Life Happy Publishing, Andrea Seydel, this show is all about summarizing books, interviewing authors, and exploring key positive psychology concepts to help you live life happier. Each episode of The Unconventional Book Club will leave you with powerful learning opportunities and practical takeaways that you can start implementing right away. Andrea's expertise and passion for books and positive psychology will help you uncover the insights and wisdom hidden within each book and apply them to your life. In addition to book summaries and author interviews, Andrea shares her own personal experiences and insights as a Book Doula. She'll inspire you to share your own knowledge and stories with the world and offer guidance on how to painlessly give birth to your own book and get it published. If you're looking for a fun, engaging, and insightful podcast that will help you live life happier, then The Unconventional Book Club is for you. Subscribe now and join the conversation. Don't forget to leave a comment or review and connect with Andrea and Live Life Happy Publishing at www.andreaseydel.com www.livelifehappypublishing.com And if you've ever dreamed of writing your own book, be sure to reach out to Andrea for a FREE discovery call. As the Book Doula, she'll help you turn your idea into a reality and touch the lives of others with your words.
In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer discuss Gabor and Daniel Maté's book The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing In A Toxic Culture.About4.3/5 · GoodreadsThe Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture got a 4.33 stars review on Goodreads.90% liked this bookDescription'It all starts with waking up... to what our bodies are expressing and our minds are suppressing Western countries invest billions in healthcare, yet mental illness and chronic diseases are on a seemingly unstoppable rise. Nearly 70% of Americans are now on prescription drugs. ... Google BooksOriginally published: September 13, 2022Authors: Gabor Maté, Daniel MatéGenre: Self-help bookOriginal language: EnglishNominations: Goodreads Choice Awards Best NonfictionLet Raquel and Jennifer know what you think about this and other episodes of Madness Cafe on IG @madnesscafepodcast or by email at madnesscafepodcast@gmail.com.And don't forget to rate and review the show wherever you listen!Thanks for listening and responding!
Encore Presentation of my Interview with Daniel Mate from November of 2022: After reading his game-changing book "The Myth of Normal," it was such an honor to have Co-Writer Daniel Maté on the show to do a deep dive on trauma, sickness and health and the mind/body connection. Daniel and I chat about how in Western countries that pride themselves on their healthcare systems, chronic illness and general ill health are on the rise. Nearly 70 percent of Americans are on at least one prescription drug; more than half take two. In Canada, every fifth person has high blood pressure. In Europe, hypertension is diagnosed in more than 30 percent of the population. And everywhere, adolescent mental illness is on the rise. So what is really “normal” when it comes to health? This is one of my favorite conversations that I've ever had on the show. It may just change how you look at western medicine. Daniel Maté is a composer, lyricist, and playwright for musical theatre based in BC and New York. He received the prestigious Edward Kleban Prize for Most Promising Lyricist in American Musical Theatre, a Jonathan Larson Foundation Grant, and the ASCAP Foundation's Cole Porter Award for Excellence in Music and Lyrics. He has presented his work at the historic Kennedy Center in Washington, DC and New York's Lincoln Center, and was an invited participant in the inaugural Johnny Mercer Writers Colony. Outside of music and theatre, Daniel runs the world's only “mental chiropractic” service, Take A Walk With Daniel and he Co-Authored the brand new Internationally Bestselling book “The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture” with his father, Dr. Gabor Mate. Website: https://www.walkwithdaniel.com/https://www.danielmate.com/Instagram: @DanielbmateTwitter: @DanielbmateTo stay connected with Better Place Project and for updates and behind the scenes info, please follow us on social media:Website:https://www.betterplaceproject.org/ Instagram: @BetterPlaceProj To follow Steve on Instagram@SteveNorrisOfficialFacebook: Facebook.com/BetterPlaceProjectPodcastTwitter: @BetterPlaceProjEmail: BetterPlaceProjectPodcast@gmail.com
Have you ever stopped to wonder why so many toxic relationship and behavioral patterns in our culture are considered to be "normal"? In this week's episode, Chelsea uses the wisdom of Gabor Mate's latest book "The Myth of Normal" to unpack some of our culture's most inverted conceptions of normal, while inviting us to question what is right for us as an individual and as a collective.Resources Mentioned:"The Myth of Normal" by Gabor MateGabor Mate interview: https://youtu.be/uPup-1pDepYChelsea's Offerings: https://www.chelseacora.com/work-with-meThe Soulful Self Podcast feedback survey: https://forms.gle/c6H56bns8QzS56Rp9Follow The Soulful Self Podcast on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfulselfpodcast/Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/OfKD4Zp1mLo
Ever felt like you're spinning your wheels when it comes to personal growth and change? Wondering how therapy can help you navigate the winding roads of life? Join us as we demystify the role of therapy in facilitating change and the importance of taking ownership of your own growth. We'll dive into various tools and techniques therapists offer their clients, highlighting the critical concept that change must come from within the individual.Discover the power of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and its ability to challenge and reshape thought processes, as well as other methods like Behavioral Therapy and emotional management. We'll also reflect on the challenges of change and the need for patience and persistence in the journey toward self-improvement. Plus, get some insider recommendations on influential books that have shaped our understanding of therapy and change. So come along for this enlightening discussion and learn how to harness the power of change in your own life.La version française est disponible ici. "The Myth Of Normal" by Gabor Mate can be purchased here .YouTube Channel For The PodcastCoaching Program
Download my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.app SHOW DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk to renowned physician, speaker and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté about his latest book The Myth of Normal, common misconceptions of what makes us sick, how to manage childhood trauma, parenting and mental health, and so much more! Dr. Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. Read the blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/the-myth-of-normal-with-dr-gabor-mate Sign up to Patreon to get access to full AD-FREE episodes, exclusive downloads, live Q&As, and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleaf OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS: -BiOptimizers Sleep Breakthrough: If you're struggling with sleep, I highly recommend giving Sleep Breakthrough a try. It truly is a game-changer! For 10% off your order use the code DRLEAF10 at https://sleepbreakthrough.com/drleaf. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: 3:30 The past impacts the present 5:00, 8:00, 53:30 Why childhood is so important 6:30 Dr. Gabor Maté's incredible story 10:44 How the genetic revolution has failed us 16:30, 41:30 Why we need to change the way we understand mental & physical health 21:30 Why the mind is so important 26:30 How modern society impacts our wellbeing 32:20 Trauma & the mind-body connection 48:20 Why we need to improve our current system of healthcare 51:00 The power of people's stories 53:30 How to help your child with their mental health ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: -Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.com -Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com! - Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources -Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/- -Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf -Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf -Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf *DISCLAIMER: This podcast and blog are for educational purposes only and are not intended as medical advice. We always encourage each person to make the decision that seems best for their situation with the guidance of a medical professional.
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The Art of Charm is brought to you by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/charm today to get 10% off your first month. In today's episode, we cover the myth of normal with Gabor Mate. Gabor is a renowned physician and author who has dedicated his life to exploring the themes of health, normality, and mental health. With a background in medicine, Gabor challenges existing norms and values, advocating for a world in which our practices reflect the true needs of individuals and society. He has written a number of books, including his best-selling work The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, in which he questions traditional ideas of what is normal and challenges readers to think critically about our assumptions. Modern society is rewarding us for unhealthy behavior and punishing us for healthy behavior, but how did this come to be, how is it affecting you and everyone you care about, and what steps can you take to protect yourself and your loved ones? What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 What is the myth of normal? How has culture become toxic to the human condition? Why is being nice harmful to your mental health? Modern culture is destroying parent-child relationships – 15:37 How does modern culture erode a child's ability to form bonds with their parents and what can you do ensure you have a healthy relationship with your kids? Why do we feel the need to escape reality and pursue virtual relationships and virtual experiences? What is trauma? – 25:11 How do we misuse the word “trauma” and how does it lead us to ignore serious problems in our relationships? What can you do to heal your trauma so it stops harming you and your relationships? Can we use anger to heal? – 35:40 Why is anger important for self-respect and feeling good about yourself and what is the difference between unhealthy and healthy anger? What 5 steps can you take to overcome your limiting beliefs so you can unlock your potential and achieve your dreams? What does it mean to be “normal” in a society where normal behavior seems increasingly harmful to our health and relationships? All the time we spend inside, alone, and on devices is not doing us any favors. But how did this happen? What pushed humans to develop lifestyles that are making us unhappy and unhealthy? It starts with the parents and how we have structured our lives to promote relationships that don't serve us, discourage healthy expression of our emotions and boundary setting. A Word From Our Sponsors Are you ready to take your career to the next level in 2023? Looking to grow your high-value social circle? After coaching over 10,000 clients including military special operators and Fortune 500 executives we've learned a thing or two about what it actually takes to grow your network. In fact, over 90% of the amazing guests on this show are from referrals in our personal networks. We've packaged our best insights inside a course called, Social Capital. And, as a thank you for being a podcast listener, we want to give you this training for FREE to start 2023. To get your hands on this training and immediately start improving your relationships, go to theartofcharm.com/sc Running out of things to say in conversation… and still struggling to get people interested in you? That's an uncomfortable position to be in. Don't want to risk getting tongue-tied and screwing things up the next time you meet someone? Check out Conversation Magic now to make sure you don't crash and burn. With our bulletproof formula, you'll be flirting up a storm, sparking fun and engaging conversations, and making high-value friends anywhere! Resources from this Episode The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Mate Gabor Mate's website Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Daniel Maté is a composer, lyricist, playwright for musical theatre based in BC and New York, and co-author of the book “The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture” with his father Dr. Gabor Maté. We talk about the colorful and complicated relationship between children and parents in this special in-person interview with Daniel.00:00:00 00:02:46 Daniel's Writing Process with His Father, Dr. Gabor Maté 00:11:38 The Unique Relationship Between Parents and Children 00:24:46 Playing the Blame Game and Loving People Where They Are At 00:32:56 Establishing Boundaries 00:36:23 The Millennial Generation Parenting 00:39:44 Happy Medium Between Gentle Parenting VS Abusive Parenting 00:49:34 Teaching Children Emotions 00:54:53 True Authenticity While Functioning in Society 01:00:43 Respecting the Journey of Healing 01:04:29 Different Modalities of Healing, Meditation, and Herbal Remedies 01:25:01 The Public and Private Lives of Daniel and Dr. Gabor 01:34:07 Where to Find Daniel 01:38:32 SuperchatsThe Unique Relationship Between Parents and ChildrenIf you take the relationship and put it in an ideal vacuum, it's a weird and unique relationship. Parents are fully-grown adults capable of making choices and has had a range of experiences, while children are a non-thing coming into the world who didn't make the choice to be here. Secondly, children don't get to choose their parents and vice versa. Cosmically, karmically, it could be. However, children don't usually turn out as their parents expect, but parents also turn out differently than how kids “expect” them to be. Even though children don't have cognitive expectations, we are all born into the world as an expectation for a certain kind of environment: an unstressed, fully emotionally-attuned, emotionally available, and communitarian environment. Another unique thing is that the parent and child didn't only just procreate and create the other, but they conditioned each other. Third, there is a power and responsibility dynamic. Parents have every responsibility to keep their child alive and shield them from dangers, while children have none just as nature intended giving space for the child to grow into their own power in a loving home.Links and Resources:Official WebsiteWalk with Daniel: A Mental Chiropractic ServiceLet's Get Lyrical With Carice & DanielInstagram: @cariceanddanielgetlyricalDaniel's InstagramMeta-DescriptionMusical theatre composer-lyricist Daniel Mate talks about writing “The Myth of Normal” with his father Gabor Mate, modern-day parenting, and the different modalities of healing.Support the show
Stress within our culture can affect us all in so many ways. Is it healthy to be well-adjusted to a toxic society? This week, join me in conversation with renowned addiction expert, speaker, and author Dr. Gabor Maté. Dr. Gabor has written 5 excellent books, and the latest is titled The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Society. Sponsors: Stir: Stir is the app designed for parents who just happen to be single. Download Stir or tell your single friends to try it out! HelloFresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/humans65 and use code humans65 for 65% off plus free shipping!BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of therapy at www.betterhelp.com/HUMANS Produced by Dear Media This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.
On this week's podcast, we are joined by Daniel Maté. In addition to co-writing recent New York Times bestseller The Myth of Normal with his father, Dr. Gabor Maté, Daniel is a composer, lyricist, playwright, podcaster, artist, musician, and mental chiropractor - a current day renaissance man. Hear about how Daniel relates to his father, his experience growing up with Maté privilege, and how he contextualizes the complexities of the parent-child relationship psychologically while providing us with insightful reframes that speak to how we relate to our parents as adults. A few quotes from the book we feel compelled to share with you in hopes of inspiring you to read/listen to the book: “Trauma, until we work it through, keeps us stuck in the past, robbing us of the present moment's riches, limiting who we can be.” “What joys have you denied yourself out of a belief that you don't deserve them, or out of a conditioned fear that they'll be snatched away?” “Whether we realize it or not, it is our woundedness, or how we cope with it, that dictates much of our behavior, shapes our social habits, and informs our ways of thinking about the world.” “Time after time it was the “nice” people, the ones who compulsively put other's expectations and needs ahead of their own and who repressed their so-called negative emotions, who showed up with chronic illness in my family practice, or who came under my care at the hospital palliative ward I directed.” “Chronic rage, by contrast, floods the system with stress hormones long past the allotted time. Over the long term, such a hormonal surplus, whatever may have instigated it, can make us anxious or depressed; suppress immunity; promote inflammation; narrow blood vessels, promoting vascular disease throughout the body;” “It doesn't matter whether we can point to other people who seem more traumatized than we are, for there is no comparing suffering. Nor is it appropriate to use our own trauma as a way of placing ourselves above others—“You haven't suffered like I have”—or as a cudgel to beat back others' legitimate grievances when we behave destructively. We each carry our wounds in our own way; there is neither sense nor value in gauging them against those of others.” “Like our other needs, meaning is an inherent expectation. Its denial has dire consequences. Far from a purely psychological need, our hormones and nervous systems clock its presence or absence. As a medical study in 2020 found, the "presence [of] and search for meaning in life are important for health and well-being." Simply put, the more meaningful you find your life, the better your measures of mental and physical health are likely to be. Order The Myth of Normal:Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture by Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté here. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:41 - Daniel describes what he does 6:31 - Reawakening the inner artist 15:48 - Adult parent-child dynamics 34:21 - Special offers 35:34 - The Myth of Normal book 1:09:32 - Special offers Useful Links: Daniel Maté's website Instagram @danielbmaté Dr. Gabor Maté's website Instagram @gabormatéMD Order The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture by Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté here Listen to Daniel read The Myth of Normal on Audible Enroll in Relationship Mastery Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Community Text Apply to Relationship Coach Training
Women are often made to look after the emotional needs of their families, while simultaneously denying their own. Gabor Maté – who has decades of experience as a doctor working with mental illness, trauma, and addiction – says that's having a very real physical effect on our bodies by way of autoimmune diseases.In this chat, Fearne and Gabor discuss the relationship between mental stress and physical outcomes, as well as the way in which the political systems we live in are having a huge impact on our personal mental health.The Myth Of Normal, the book that Gabor has written with his son Daniel, is available to buy now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Gabor's new book The Myth of Normal, about trauma and mental and physical illness in modern Western society ... Are we all victims of a “toxic” culture? ... Gabor's early years in Nazi- and then Soviet-occupied Hungary ... What Gabor thinks standard theories of addiction get wrong ... Can trauma ever be a good thing? ... Was Bob's childhood traumatic? And if so, how? ... Trauma, attachment, and authenticity ... Is modern society hostile to community? ... The difference between healthy and unhealthy anger ... A primer on “compassionate inquiry” ... The time Gabor was leading an ayahuasca retreat and got deposed by shamans ... Gabor on why cognitive empathy is difficult but essential ... What Gabor sees as the essence of the book ...
1:02 Gabor's new book The Myth of Normal, about trauma and mental and physical illness in modern Western society7:40 Are we all victims of a “toxic” culture?14:09 Gabor's early years in Nazi- and then Soviet-occupied Hungary21:30 What Gabor thinks standard theories of addiction get wrong24:02 Can trauma ever be a good thing?26:34 Was Bob's childhood traumatic? And if so, how?39:46 Trauma, attachment, and authenticity46:57 Is modern society hostile to community?53:43 The difference between healthy and unhealthy anger57:32 A primer on “compassionate inquiry”1:02:16 The time Gabor was leading an ayahuasca retreat and got deposed by shamans1:06:53 Gabor on why cognitive empathy is difficult but essential1:12:40 What Gabor sees as the essence of the bookRobert Wright (Bloggingheads.tv, The Evolution of God, Nonzero, Why Buddhism Is True) and Gabor Maté (Scattered Minds, When the Body Says No, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts). Recorded January 26, 2023.Comments on BhTV: http://bloggingheads.tv/videos/65651Twitter: https://twitter.com/NonzeroPodsFacebook: https://facebook.com/bloggingheads/Podcasts: https://bloggingheads.tv/subscribe This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nonzero.substack.com/subscribe
Gabor's new book The Myth of Normal, about trauma and mental and physical illness in modern Western society ... Are we all victims of a “toxic” culture? ... Gabor's early years in Nazi- and then Soviet-occupied Hungary ... What Gabor thinks standard theories of addiction get wrong ... Can trauma ever be a good thing? ... Was Bob's childhood traumatic? And if so, how? ... Trauma, attachment, and authenticity ... Is modern society hostile to community? ... The difference between healthy and unhealthy anger ... A primer on “compassionate inquiry” ... The time Gabor was leading an ayahuasca retreat and got deposed by shamans ... Gabor on why cognitive empathy is difficult but essential ... What Gabor sees as the essence of the book ...
To hear the rest of this discussion, please join us on Patreon at - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Here is a preview of my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté and his Son Daniel Maté, in which Dr. Maté talks about the way capitalism kills people, his latest book which he wrote with Daniel, the New York Times best-seller "The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture," and more. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly with expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. Daniel Maté is a Vancouver-born, Brooklyn-based composer, lyricist, playwright, and co-author of the NYT best-seller The Myth of Normal. He's won several prestigious awards for his musical theatre songwriting, including the Edward Kleban Prize, Cole Porter Award, and Jonathan Larson Grant. He's the co-host, with Carice van Houten of Game of Thrones fame, of the new podcast Let's Get Lyrical with Carice and Daniel. He also runs the world's only mental chiropractic service, which is called Take A Walk With Daniel. ***Please support The Katie Halper Show *** For bonus content, exclusive interviews, to support independent media and to help make this program possible, please join us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Follow Katie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/kthalps
We live in a traumatized world where everyone has some degree of pain and trauma to be addressed. In this episode, we explore Peter Levine's work around trauma and how it gets frozen in our nervous system through an immobility (or “freeze”) response. Recognizing this reality can change everything, as we discover our need to complete trauma responses by moving out of immobility and into our bodies, recovering anger as an expression of advocacy rather than aggression, and grief as a path to unfreezing. These are critical practices on the path to a flourishing life which helps change us and, ultimately, the world around us.
I am so unbelievably honoured to welcome Dr. Gabor. Maté and Daniel Maté to discuss their latest book, The Myth of Normal. Dr. Gabor Maté is a world renowned physician and trauma expert. He's written numerous bestselling books and changed the lives of millions. Through his pioneering work with addiction, mental health and trauma for over 30 years, his breakthrough work has helped shed light on the connections between physical and mental health and has influenced the way we think about and treat mental illness. Dr. Gabor's co-author is his son Daniel Maté, who was an acclaimed composer, lyricist and playwright amongst many other accomplishments.Together, they host workshops and help so many people. In this fantastically thought provoking and timely book, they draw your attention to the role that social and environmental factors play in mental health. This book shares extensive evidence detailing how the problems so many of us face are not individual, but a natural consequence of a broken culture and unattended psychic wounds. I have more compassion for myself and everyone else after reading this incredible book, and I can't wait to discuss it further with these two heroes who wrote it. Find more information:Dr Gabor Maté website: https://drgabormate.com/Daniel Maté website: https://www.danielmate.com/bioThe Myth of Normal Book: https://drgabormate.com/book/the-myth-of-normal/Information on Hello Again Podcast: https://www.helloagainproject.com/the-podcastLet's Get Lyrical Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-get-lyrical-with-carice-daniel/id1661415500Please follow @poppyjamie and let me know your thoughts about the episode!A big thank you to our sponsors:Huel Black Edition is a high protein, nutritionally complete meal in a convenient shake. That means it has everything your body needs in just two scoops. Head to huel.com/unwind now and get a free t-shirt and shaker with your first order! Stoov, the cordless heated cushion and heated chair cover brand that keeps you warm sustainably with infrared heating technology. Head to stoov.com and enter the code UNWIND at checkout for 10% off.***Produced by Georgie RutherfordEdited by George Drake Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today I have the honor of connecting with the renowned speaker and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté! Dr. Maté is highly sought-after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, trauma, stress, and childhood development. He recently wrote a New York Times bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture. For many of us, the concept of trauma is controversial and largely misunderstood. In today's discussion with Dr. Maté, I am transparent, honest, and open about how I grew up and how my childhood experiences have influenced me throughout my lifetime. We get into the definition of trauma, why trauma is so widespread and misunderstood, the differences between habit and addiction, the impact of a toxic culture and materialism, and the epidemic of loneliness. We discuss the impact of the pandemic, a loss of control, why women are at greater risk of developing autoimmune disorders, and the impact of adverse childhood events. We also speak about what negatively impacts healthy childhood development, multigenerational trauma, and healing through compassionate inquiry. I hope you will find great value in listening to today's thought-provoking and insightful podcast! IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: Dr. Maté discusses and defines trauma. The difference between a habit and an addiction. How do various addictions ( drugs, work, shopping, attention, etc.) differ? How the loneliness and isolation from childhood trauma get carried into adult life and could lead to illness. How the social isolation of the pandemic brought some families closer together and drove others further apart. How materialism ties into trauma, addiction, and the current epidemic of loneliness. How many of the problems clinicians deal with today result from trauma and disconnection What studies show about women and autoimmune diseases. Why do we need to acknowledge the impact of the disparity within our modern-day materialist culture? What can we do to ensure that our young children develop in a healthy way? Healing from multigenerational trauma. Connect with Cynthia Thurlow • Follow on Twitter, Instagram & LinkedIn • Check out Cynthia's website Connect with Dr. Gabor Maté On his website On Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube Dr. Maté's book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, and all his other books are available online and from most bookstores. Books mentioned: Hold Onto Your Kids by Dr. Gabor Maté and Gordon Neufeld Dr. Maté's book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, is available from most bookstores
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One of the major difficulties associated with trauma is that when it's unresolved, new events that are stressful or might trigger certain emotions can exacerbate a person's traumatic reactions. Many strategies have proven successful in helping individuals overcome trauma. In this episode, I speak with a renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté, who is highly sought after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Gabor describes how we can overcome trauma and heal ourselves. He covers topics such as attachment, authenticity, and childhood trauma and explains how these factors contribute to our ability to overcome trauma. ************* LINKS & RESOURCES ************* Learn how to heal and overcome childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse, ptsd, cptsd, higher ACE scores, anxiety, depression, and mental health issues and illness. Learn tools that therapists, trauma coaches, mindset leaders, neuroscientists, and researchers use to help people heal and recover from mental health problems. Discover real and practical advice and guidance for how to understand and overcome childhood trauma, abuse, and narc abuse mental trauma. Heal your body and mind, stop limiting beliefs, end self-sabotage, and become the HERO of your own story. Join our FREE COMMUNITY as a member of the Unbroken Nation: https://www.thinkunbrokenacademy.com/share/AEGok414shubQSzq?utm_source=manual Join us for our FREE trauma Transformation conference this December at: https://unbrokencon.com/ Download the first three chapters of the Award-Winning Book Think Unbroken: Understanding and Overcoming Childhood Trauma: https://book.thinkunbroken.com/ Join the Think Unbroken Trauma Transformation Course: https://coaching.thinkunbroken.com/ @Michael Unbroken: https://www.instagram.com/michaelunbroken/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@michaelunbroken Learn more at https://www.thinkunbrokenpodcast.com Learn More About Gabor Maté at: https://drgabormate.com/
Gabor Maté, M.D.: “95% of trauma is multi-generational. You unwittingly pass it on.” Gabor, a physician, New York Times bestselling author, and internationally renowned speaker, joins mbg co-CEO, Jason Wachob, to discuss how buried trauma can harm your health, plus: - Gabor's upbringing & his professional work around trauma (~00:42) - What trauma really means (~05:07) - Gabor's personal experience with trauma (~10:18) - How trauma gets passed down from one generation to the next (~12:47) - How your personal trauma can affect your physical health (~17:20) - The relationship between stress and illness (~20:51) - How to start resolving your trauma (~27:53) - Why so many people have a hard time saying “no” (~31:39) - The real reason children start resenting their parents (~34:10) - Why you don't actually have to socialize kids (~39:19) - How our culture makes us sick (~44:00) - What's unique about our cultural trauma today (~47:04) - What we can do about a lack of social connection (~48:40) - Why we attract others with similar traumas (~52:09) Trigger warning: This podcast includes mentions of suicidal ideation. You're never alone. If you or someone you know are struggling, call the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org. Referenced in the episode: - Gabor's latest book, The Myth Of Normal. - Gabor's previous bestsellers, Hold On To Your Kids, When The Body Says No, In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts, and Scattered Minds. - A study on childhood trauma & adult illnesses. - A study on self-silencing during conflict & mortality. - The Roseto study. - A study on loneliness & mortality. - Read more about Jean-Martin Charcot. We hope you enjoy this episode, and feel free to watch the full video on YouTube! Whether it's an article or podcast, we want to know what we can do to help here at mindbodygreen. Let us know at: podcast@mindbodygreen.com.
“Our culture's skewed idea of normality,” says the well known physician and author, Dr. Gabor Maté, “is the single biggest impediment to fostering a healthier world, even keeping us from acting on what we already know.” Some years ago, his book, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, touched and helped a tremendous number of people looking for insight into their addictive behaviors with his focus on traumas suffered at a young age. Addiction, he stressed, is one result of inadequate and counter-productive efforts to treat one's pain. In his new book, The Myth of Normal, Gabor makes the case for viewing trauma as the common template underlying most physical and mental maladies. We discussed Gabor's perspectives and personal evolution, including his growing appreciation for the value of psychedelics in identifying and healing trauma.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Gabor Mate is a multi-bestselling author and a world leading expert on trauma and how it effects us throughout our whole lives. A holocaust survivor and a first generation immigrant, Gabor's knowledge and wisdom on the scars trauma leaves behind is deep and drawn from personal experience. In a conversation that unlocks the answers to people's most burning questions about trauma, mental health, ADHD, and the hidden hardwire of our brain, Gabor brings us one step closer to really knowing ourselves and our inner urges. Gabor's voice, both literally and in terms of what he has to say, is like a balm for anyone who's mental health has ever caused them worries. Gabor has been through things few of us can ever imagine, and his insights are those few of us could ever have thought of before. Topics: Early context How does someone correct their traumatic events? How did your traumatic event show shape you? What did you focus on in your career? What did working with patients towards the end of their life teach you? The importance of following our passion The Myth Of Normal How would our approaches change if we took away the concept of normal? How parents behaviour can impact a child How do you define trauma? Does everyone have trauma? Why can two people with the same trauma turn out differently? Being controlled by our trauma Do we ever cut the putter master strings? How does someone become more aware? Additions and how we develop them How do we find our sense of worth? Why is authenticity so important Taking personal responsibility The 5 Rs to take control of your life ADHD Do you think society is getting more toxic? What are you still struggling with? The last guest's question Gabor: Instagram - https://bit.ly/3zLZvRK Twitter - https://bit.ly/3E7nca4 Gabor's book, The Myth Of Normal: https://amzn.to/3tlR7VP The Dairy sign up link: bit.ly/3fUcF8q Watch the episodes on Youtube: https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb Follow us on Telegram: https://g2ul0.app.link/E5re0ADNKsb Sponsors: Amex - https://bit.ly/3TATNKc Huel - https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb
Dr. Gabor Maté (addiction, stress, and childhood development speaker & bestselling author) joins us to explain which groups of people tend to be most prone to chronic illness, practical ways we can prevent these diagnoses, and the link between childhood trauma and mental & physical health conditions later on in life. He details health conditions you may not know have stress-related causes and explains why healthy attachment and meeting a child's needs is even more important than we think. Dr. Maté identifies characteristics of those who are prone to chronic illness, reveals why autoimmune diseases predominantly affect women, and discusses the dangers of systematic denial of our emotions. He and Mayim consider the ways well-meaning loving parents can unintentionally create lower level trauma in their kids, how feelings of being unwanted can lead to workaholism, and the limitations of a traditional nuclear family. They discuss Dr. Maté's time working at a supervised injection site, why most people in the prison system are highly traumatized, and why trauma goes hand-in-hand with addiction.Dr. Gabor Maté's New Book, THE MYTH OF NORMAL: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/608273/the-myth-of-normal-by-gabor-mate-md-with-daniel-mate/BialikBreakdown.comYouTube.com/mayimbialik
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Today's guest is a brilliantly original thinker and bestselling author on addiction, trauma, parenting, and the social context of human diseases and imbalances - Dr. Gabor Maté. Contrary to mainstream medicine, he asserts that most health issues and diseases aren't individual problems but reflections of a person's relationship with their physical, emotional, and social environment. Join Dr. Maté and Vishen for a fascinating discussion on how personal and societal responsibility cannot be separated when it comes to mental and physical health. Dr. Gabor Maté was a physician for nearly 30 years whose best-selling books have been published in more than thirty languages. He skillfully weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. He is also a co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally Listen out for: - The reason behind health deterioration despite the increase in our lifespan. - What toxic culture is, what's causing it, and what to do about it. - 50% of Danish men are infertile and Dr. Gabor Maté knows the reason. - How can our disease or tragedy become our biggest teacher. - How public health can be improved by having a child-honoring society. - How both Donald Trump and Hilary Clinton unwittingly promote childhood trauma. - How to heal your trauma and the role of spirituality and psychedelics. Bonus: - Get your copy of Dr. Gabor Maté's new book here
Today we welcome Dr. Gabor Maté. A physician, renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Gabor is highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, stress, and childhood development. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing, he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction. He is also a co-developer of Compassionate Inquiry, a therapeutic approach for deep healing and transformation. His newest book is called The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture.In this episode, I talk to Gabor Maté about The Myth of Normal. Healthcare in Western societies tend to focus on physical health, without accounting for an individual's lived experience. The tension between authenticity and attachment and the pressures of a capitalist culture puts undue stress on our minds and bodies. Dr. Maté invites us to rethink trauma and disease, by emphasizing holistic well-being and the role of agency. We also touch on the topics of early childhood, epigenetics, and self-improvement. Website: drgabormate.comTwitter: @drgabormate Topics02:36 The Myth of Normal06:14 Maslow's Metagrumbles10:25 From individual to global well-being13:25 Authenticity vs attachment20:48 No separation of psyche and soma28:05 Trauma is what happens inside you33:34 Dr. Gabor Maté's early childhood 37:20 Trauma denial and victimhood mentality41:05 Disease is a long term process45:21 Epigenetics and the role of environment50:24 Screening for special and gifted education52:45 Pathways to wholeness58:01 The four A's of healing 1:06:44 Compassionate Inquiry1:10:16 Authentic satisfaction
Stephanie sits down with esteemed physician, world-renowned trauma expert, and Last Day fan favorite Dr. Gabor Mate. They dig into Gabor's new book The Myth of Normal, which took him 10 years to write and is (in Stephanie's opinion) a true masterpiece. Topics include addiction, toxic culture, sending mean texts to your spouse, the inextricable link between mind and body, and how we can all start to heal, individually and collectively. This conversation is not to be missed. Purchase your own copy of The Myth of Normal and join our Lemonada Book Club powered by Penguin Random House by visiting www.penguinrandomhouse.com/lemonada. Hear Dr. Gabor Mate's original conversation with Stephanie here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/last-day/id1468896686?i=1000488387968 Resources: To learn more about the people and organizations featured in this episode and access critical information about suicide and violence prevention visit: https://lastdayresources.simvoly.com/. Stephanie Wittels Wachs is the host. Jackie Danziger is our supervising producer. Our producers are Kegan Zema and Giulia Hjort. Hannah Boomershine and Erianna Jiles are our associate producers. Andi Kristinsdottir is our audio engineer. Music is by Hannis Brown. Our story consultant is Kaya Henderson. Executive producers are Jessica Cordova Kramer and Stephanie Wittels Wachs. This season of Last Day is created in partnership with the Kendeda Fund, the Annie E. Casey Foundation, the Pritzker Pucker Family Foundation, Levi Strauss & Co, and Everytown for Gun Safety Support Fund. Follow Stephanie on Twitter and Instagram at @wittelstephanie. Stay up to date with us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia. If you want to continue the conversation with other listeners, please join our Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/lastdaypodcast. By the way, we have three whole other seasons! Go listen to them wherever you're listening right now. You can also get premium content and behind the scenes material by subscribing to Lemonada Premium on Apple Podcasts. Want to become a Lemonada superfan? Join us at https://joinsubtext.com/lemonadasuperfan. Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and all other Lemonada series: lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. To follow along with a transcript, go to www.lemonadamedia.com/show/lastday shortly after the air date.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In This Episode We Talk About:The teachings and practices of our amazing guest, Dr. Gabor Maté!A deep dive into the science and psychology behind traumaSpecific examples of a healthy reparenting processThe relationships between mind and body, stress and illnessCommon personality traits of people with chronic illnessThe importance of listening to your body every dayHow to navigate screen time with children as parentsThe evolutionary need for authenticityBrain activity behind addictive personalitiesUnderstanding ADHDHow defense mechanisms from your youth can reappear later in lifeAgency, anger, acceptance!The importance of nature and free play time for children Resources: Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation Journal - NEW DROP AVAILABLE NOW Get Tickets to our Magnetic Meet Up on September 17th, 2022 in Los Angeles, CA In The Episode:Seed- 15% off your first month's supply with code TBM15Seed's DS-01™ Daily Synbiotic (for adults ages 18+)Seed's PDS-08™Pediatric Daily Synbiotic - (for kids ages 3-17) Beekeeper's Naturals - 25% off your purchase with code TBMThroat SprayNasal SpraySoothing LozengesB.Better Cough SyrupExpanded Ep. 137 x Carly Stein of Beekeeper's Naturals The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Dr. Gabor Maté (book)Hold Onto Your Kids - Dr. Gabor Maté & Gordon Neufeld, Ph. D.Dr. Darcia Narvaez, Ph.D. (author)Dr. Richard Schwartz, Ph.D. - Internal Family SystemsDr. Peter Levine - Somatic ExperiencingA Course In Miracles - Helen SchucmanNY Times - This Teen Was Prescribed 10 Psychiatric Drugs. She's Not Alone.NY Times - Mothers Are The "Shock Absorbers" Of Our Society Where To Find Gabor!The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Dr. Gabor Maté (book)IG - @gabormatemdDrGaborMate.comYouTubeThe Wisdom Of Trauma Documentary Get Started With To Be Magnetic™ - Use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of The Pathway or $20 off any a la carte workshop.How To ManifestUnblocked Inner ChildUnblocked ShadowThe Unblocking ChallengeSafe DIUnblocked DIFear DIAnxiety DIAligned Action DI Our Offerings:The Pathway - 12-month all-access membership includes ALL of our a la cartes + more!How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow, The Love Bundle, Unblocked Money+ The Daily Practice includes our Deep Imagining Library with over 18+ DIs+ Unblocked Boundaries + Unblocked Full Moon+ Uplevel - 3 in 1 includes Rut, Rock Bottom & Next Level workshops+ Monthly Supported Class+ Community Group to connect with fellow manifestors+ Automatic access to any new offering or DI that becomes available as well!Free Offerings to Get You StartedThe MotivationFree Clarity Exercise - Journal prompt + 1 Deep ImaginingExpanded Podcast - Manifestation 101 SubmitSubmit to Be a Process Guest
Renowned physician Dr. Gabor Maté joins Rick and Forrest on this episode of Being Well to explore the many problems for our body and mind that arise out of our modern culture, and what we can do to meet our needs, heal ourselves, and become more whole. They discuss our increasing separation from one another, issues with aspects of the medical model, the true nature of addiction, the developmental needs of children, the myth of “normal,” and recovering from traumatic experiences.About Our Guest: Dr. Gabor Maté is one of the world's leading experts on trauma, addiction, and childhood development. His work has had an enormous impact on how we understand the interactions between our internal world and the world around us, and he is the bestselling author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Scattered Minds, and his newest book The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture.Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:55: What Gabor means by a toxic culture4:25: Interpersonal biology - our physiology is modulated by our relationships7:10: What components are needed for a healthy culture?11:55: Examples of toxic culture's impact on people's behavior15:20: Addiction21:00: How and when to distinguish degrees of trauma27:05: Where and when to express healthy anger33:10: How turning against the self manifests as illness 36:45: What supports people in returning to their authentic nature?40:00: Psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, and creating a sacred context41:45: Grief, integration, and letting go44:55: Gabor's relationship with his children48:25: Five kinds of compassion, disillusionment, and truth51:20: Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?53:25: RecapGrief and Loss Workshop: We all face losses in life, from separation and disappointment to shocking, even traumatic events. Join me August 13 and 14 for 7 hours of LIVE, online teaching focused on learning simple, powerful practices that help us come to terms with loss, heal, and find happiness again. Use coupon code BEINGWELL25 at checkout for an additional 25% off the registration price.Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:Bombas designed their socks, shirts, and underwear to be the clothes you can't wait to put on every day. Visit bombas.com/beingwell and use code beingwell for 20% off. Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Ready to shake up your protein Ritual? Being Well listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/WELL.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website
Dr. Gabor Maté — The Myth of Normal, Metabolizing Anger, Processing Trauma, and Finding the Still Voice Within | Brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear, Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplement, and ButcherBox premium meats delivered to your door.Dr. Gabor Maté (@DrGaborMate) is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics that includes addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It. He has also coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages.His new book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture.Please enjoy! *This episode is brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear! For men, Tommy John offers six different styles so you can find the one that suits you best. Their line of men's briefs and boxers is one of my top choices for all-day comfort. I tested their Second Skin Mid-Length Boxer Brief and the Cool Cotton Trunk.Shop Tommy John's Labor Day Sale now at TommyJohn.com/Tim and save 25% sitewide. There's little risk because of Tommy John's “Best Pair You'll Ever Wear or It's Free” guarantee. Offer ends September 11th.*This episode is also brought to you by Athletic Greens. I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1 by Athletic Greens, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. Right now, Athletic Greens is offering you their Vitamin D Liquid Formula free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit AthleticGreens.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive the free Vitamin D Liquid Formula (and five free travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That's up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive all-in-one daily greens product.*This episode is also brought to you by ButcherBox! ButcherBox makes it easy for you to get high-quality, humanely raised meat that you can trust. They deliver delicious, 100% grass-fed, grass-finished beef; free-range organic chicken; heritage-breed pork; and wild-caught seafood directly to your door.And now, ButcherBox is offering you, my dear listeners, a fantastic deal—free chicken for a year! Get 2 lbs. of free-range, organic chicken breasts for free in every order when you sign up at butcherbox.com/TIM. Plus, get an extra $10 off your first box with promo code TIM10 at checkout. Claim this deal at butcherbox.com/TIM.*For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast.For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsorsSign up for Tim's email newsletter (5-Bullet Friday) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim's books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissYouTube: youtube.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, Margaret Atwood, Mark Zuckerberg, Peter Thiel, Dr. Gabor Maté, Anne Lamott, Sarah Silverman, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.