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You can listen wherever you get your podcasts, OR— BRAND NEW: we've included a fully edited transcript of our interview at the bottom of this post.In this episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, we have a coaching call with Laurel and Derrick. This call is such a good one because we cover ALL the big ideas behind the peaceful parenting approach, while applying them to real life scenarios in a home with three kids. Topics include sibling rivalry, nurturing our kids, self regulation, how to handle kids asking lots of questions and always wanting more, what parenting without punishment looks like, and more!**If you'd like an ad-free version of the podcast, consider becoming a supporter on Substack! > > If you already ARE a supporter, the ad-free version is waiting for you in the Substack app or you can enter the private feed URL in the podcast player of your choice.Know someone who might appreciate this post? Share it with them!We talk about:* 7:00 What it looks like when our children truly respect us* 9:00 7-year-old refusing to get dressed* 12:10 Why it is okay baby and nurture our kids* 14:00 Tuning into our own self regulation* 18:00 Mindset shifts to give our kids the benefit of the doubt* 19:30 How to handle sibling rivalry* 24:00 Don't try to make it a teachable moment* 38:00 When kids ask questions over and over* 41:00 Why kids always want more!* 45:00 Helping kids see how their actions affect other people* 55:00 Why kids lie and what to do* 57:00 Natural consequences, boundaries, and limits* 1:02 Peaceful Parenting MantrasResources mentioned in this episode:* Yoto Player-Screen Free Audio Book Player* The Peaceful Parenting Membership* Free Stop Sibling Fights E book* Free How To Stop Yelling at Your Kids e-coursexx Sarah and CoreyYour peaceful parenting team- click here for a free short consult or a coaching sessionVisit our website for free resources, podcast, coaching, membership and more!>> Please support us!!! 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No one listening or watching and they can't go where you don't want them to go and they aren't watching screens. BUT they are being entertained or kept company with audio that you can buy from YOTO or create yourself on one of their blank cards. Check them out HERETranscript:Derrick: Hi, good morning.Sarah: Hi Derek. Nice to meet you. Hi Laurel. Hi. Are you a firefighter, Derek? I'm—yeah, I'm actually—I see you've got your sweatshirt.Derrick: Yeah. Just a heads up, I may have to jump off if we get a call.Sarah: Okay. Well, so nice to meet you guys. So you've got three—boy, girl, girl. And what would you like to talk about today?Laurel: I think I just love your whole—I've sent Derek a couple things—but I just love your whole premise of peacefulness and remaining calm when it's easy to get angry. Mm-hmm. And just some tools for doing that. I guess like some basic things, because we would both like to say where, you know, we have like, you know, the streaks where we're all calm, calm, calm, and then just—and then her, yeah, limit. Yeah.And so yeah, just tools for when that happens. We have very typical age-appropriate kind of response kids, mm-hmm, that need to be told 80 times something. And so it's frustrating. And then how to help them kind of see—without bribing, without threatening discipline, without all of that. Yeah. Like how to have a better dialogue with our kids of teaching respect and teaching kind of “we do this, you do this.”Sarah: Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, maybe. Okay. So there's always gonna be situations where it's hard to stay calm, you know? Just being a parent—like of course your kids are gonna push your buttons sometimes. But rather than—so, we do always start with self-regulation.And what I mean by self-regulation isn't that you never get upset. It's that when you do get upset, you know how to calm yourself and take a minute, take a breath—whatever you need to do—so that you don't yell. Because yelling hurts our relationship with our kids. You mentioned respect. I think there's an old idea of respect that used to mean that kids were afraid of their parents, right?But real respect is that you care what another person thinks. Like, that's real respect. I don't want to do this because I don't want my dad or my mom to be unhappy with me—not that I'm afraid of what's gonna happen if I do it, but I care what they think and they care what I think. And that's how I define respect. True respect doesn't mean that you're afraid of somebody; it means that you care what they think, right?So when we yell, we chip away at that. Like yeah, we could get them to do what we want through yelling or threatening things or taking things away, but we're chipping away at our relationship with them. And that's really the only true influence.And as your kids are getting older, you're gonna see that you can control them when they're little, right? Because you can pick them up and move them from one place to another or whatever. But there's a famous quote by a psychologist that says, “The problem with using control when kids are young is that you never learn how to influence them, which is what you need as they get older.” Right? You need to be able to influence them, to get them to do what you would like them to do. And it's all about the relationship. That's really what I see as the most important thing.So back to what I was saying about yelling—yes, that's really important to be working on—but there's also: how do I be more effective so the kids will listen to me and I don't have to ask 80 times? How do I get their attention in an effective way? How do I get them to cooperate the first time or at least the second time?So it's a combination of learning how to calm yourself and stay calm when things are hard, and also being more effective as a parent—not asking 25 times, because that just trains them to ignore you. Like, “Oh, I don't have to do it until they yell,” or “I don't have to do it until they've asked me 25 times.”If there's something really unpleasant you had to do at work that you didn't want to do, you might also ignore your boss the first 24 times they asked you until you knew they were really serious, right? Mm-hmm. I mean, you wouldn't, but you know what I mean. If they can keep playing a little bit longer, they will keep playing a little bit longer.So I think what would be helpful is if you gave me some situations that have happened that you find challenging, and then we can do a little bit of a deeper dive into what you could have done instead, or what you could do next time if a similar thing comes up.Laurel: Yeah. I mean, for my daughter, for example, the middle one—she's so sweet, she's such a feeler—but then when she gets to the point where she's tired, hungry, it's all the things. She often doesn't wanna pick out her clothes. Something super simple like that.But when I'm making lunches and the other kids are getting ready and all the things, I just have to have her—I'm like, “You're seven, you can pick out clothes.” I give her some options, and then she'll just lay on the floor and start screaming, “You don't care! Why don't you pick out my clothes?”And then instead of me taking the time that I know I need to, I just tell her, “You have one minute or else this—so you lose this.” I just start kind of like, “This is yesterday.” You know, so she doesn't wanna get dressed, doesn't wanna get her shoes on. “You get my socks, you get all the big—” And then I end up picking her up, standing her up, “You need to get dressed.” And then both of us are frustrated.Sarah: Yeah. No, that's a great example.So first of all, whenever there's difficult behavior in our child, we try to look below the surface to see what's causing it. The symptom you see on the outside is a kid lying on the floor refusing to do something she's perfectly capable of doing herself. That's the iceberg part above the water. But what's underneath that?To me, I'm seeing a 7-year-old who has a 3-year-old sibling who probably does get help getting dressed, a capable older brother, and it's hard to give enough attention to three kids. What I see this as is a bid for attention and connection from you.I don't know if you listen to my podcast, but I did an episode about when kids ask you to do things for them that they can do themselves. Seven is a perfect age because you're like, “Oh my God, you're so capable of getting dressed yourself—what do you mean you want me to put your shoes on you?” But if you can shift your mind to think, Ah, she's asking me to do something she can do—she needs my connection and nurturing.So what if you thought, “Okay, I just spent all this energy yelling at her, trying to get her to do it. What if I just gave her the gift of picking her clothes out for her and getting her dressed?” It would probably be quicker, start your day on a happier note, and you would have met that need for connection.And yes, it's asking more of you in the moment, because you're trying to make lunches. But this is a beautiful example because you'll probably see it in other areas too—what's underneath this difficult behavior? Kids really are doing the best they can. That's one of our foundational paradigm shifts in peaceful parenting. Even when they're being difficult, they're doing the best they can with the resources they have in that moment.So when someone's being difficult, you can train yourself to think: Okay, if they're doing the best they can, what's going on underneath that's causing this behavior?I just want to say one more thing, because later on you might think, “Wait—Sarah's telling me to dress my 7-year-old. What about independence?” Just to put your fears aside: kids have such a strong natural drive for independence that you can baby them a little bit and it won't wreck them. Everybody needs a little babying sometimes—even you guys probably sometimes. Sometimes you just want Laurel to make you a coffee and bring it to you in bed. You can get your own coffee, but it's nice to be babied and nurtured.So we can do that safely. And I tell you, I have a 14-year-old, 17-year-old, and 20-year-old—very babied—and they're all super independent and competent kids. My husband used to say, “You're coddling them.” I'd say, “I'm nurturing them.”Laurel: Oh, I like that.Sarah: Okay. So I just wanted to say that in case the thought comes up later. Independence is important, but we don't have to push for it.Derrick: Yeah. No, I think that's super helpful. And I love—one of my good buddies just came out with a book called The Thing Beneath the Thing.Sarah: Oh, I love that.Derrick: It's such a good reminder. I think sometimes, like you addressed, Laurel is often a single mom and there is the reality of—she's gotta make lunch, she's gotta do laundry, she's gotta whatever. And sometimes there's just the logistical impossibility of, “I can't do that and this and get out the door in time and get you to camp on time, and here comes the carpool.”And so sometimes it just feels like there needs to be better planning. Like, “You just gotta wake up earlier, you gotta make lunch before you go to bed, or whatever,” to have the space to respond to the moment. Because the reality is, you never know when it's coming.Like, totally independent, and she wants to pick out her own clothes in one example—but then all these things creep up.Another way to describe what Laurel and I were talking about in terms of triggers is: I feel like we both really take a long time to light our fuse. But once it's lit, it's a very short fuse.Sarah: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.Derrick: So it's like for me especially, I'm cool as a cucumber and then all of a sudden the wick is lit and I'll explode.Sarah: Yeah. I think that's really good to be aware of. The thing is, if you go forward from today and start looking—you're calm, calm, calm, calm, calm—sometimes what's actually happening is what my mentor calls gathering kindling.We don't realize it, but we're gathering kindling along the way—resentment, eye-roll frustration. If you can start tuning in a little bit, you'll see that yeah, you're not yelling, but maybe you're getting more frustrated as it goes on. That's when you can intervene with yourself, like, “Okay, I need to take a five-minute break,” or, “We need to shift gears or tap each other out.”Because it feels like it comes out of nowhere, but it rarely does. We're just not aware of the building process of gathering kindling along the way.Derrick: Yeah. No, that's helpful. I have two examples that maybe you can help us with. You can pick one that you think is more important.Sarah: Sure. And I just want to comment on one more thing you said before you go on—sorry to interrupt you. If it's annoying to have to dress a 7-year-old in the middle of your morning routine, you can also make a mental note: Okay, what's under the thing? What's under the difficult behavior is this need for more connection and nurturing. So how can I fill that at a time that's more convenient for me?Maybe 7:30 in the morning while I'm trying to get everyone out the door is not a convenient time. But how can I find another time in the day, especially for my middle child? I've got three kids too, and I know the middle child can be a bit of a stirring-the-pot kid, at least mine was when he was little, trying to get his needs met. So how can I make sure I'm giving her that time she's asking for, but in more appropriate times?Derrick: Yeah, no, that's helpful. I think part of my challenge is just understanding what is age-appropriate. For example, our almost 10-year-old literally cannot remember to flush the toilet.Sarah: Mm-hmm.Derrick: And it's like, “Bro, flush the toilet.” It's been this ongoing thing. That's just one example. There are many things where you're going, “You're 10 years old, dude, you should know how to flush the toilet.” And then all the fears come in—“Is he ADD?”—and we start throwing things out there we don't even know.But it seems so simple: poop in the toilet, you flush it when you're done. Why is that? And that'll light a wick pretty quick, the third or fourth time you go in and the toilet's not flushed.Sarah: Yeah.Derrick: And then you talk about it very peacefully, and he'll throw something back at you.Sarah: So do you have him go back and flush the toilet?Derrick: We do.Sarah: Okay, good. Because if you make it a tiny bit unpleasant that he forgot—like he has to stop what he's doing and go back and flush it—that might help him in a kind and firm way. Like, “Oh, looks like you forgot. Pause your video game. Please go back and flush the toilet.”Also, maybe put up some signs or something. By the sink, by the toilet paper. There are just some things that, if they're not important to kids, it's very hard for them to remember. Or if it's not…I can't tell you how many times I've told my boys, “Don't put wet things in the hamper.” They're 17 and 20 and it drives me insane. Like how hard is it to not throw a wet washcloth in the hamper? They don't care if it smells like mildew.Derrick: Yeah.Sarah: It's very frustrating. But they're not doing it on purpose.Derrick: That's the narrative we write though, right? Like, you're just defiant, you're trying—because we've talked about this a million times. This is my desire.Sarah: And you feel disrespecedt.Derrick: Right.Sarah: That is so insightful of you, Derek, to realize that. To realize that's a trigger for you because it feels like he's doing it on purpose to disrespect you. But having that awareness and a mindset shift—he's not trying to give me a hard time. He's just absent-minded, he's 10, and he doesn't care if the poop sits in the toilet. He's just not thinking about it.Derrick: Yeah.I think the other example, which I'm sure is super common, is just: how do you manage them pushing each other's buttons? They can do it so quickly. And then it's literally musical chairs of explosive reactions. It happens everywhere. You're driving in the car, button pushed, explosion. The 3-year-old's melting, and Kira knows exactly what she's doing. Then Blake, then Kira. They just know. They get so much joy out of watching their sibling melt and scream. Meanwhile, you're in the front seat trying to drive and it's chaos.For me, that's when I'll blow my top. I'll get louder than their meltdown. And my narrative is: they're not even really upset, they're just turning it on to get whatever they want.Sarah: Classic sibling rivalry. Classic. Like, “How can I get Mom or Dad to show that they love me more than the other kid? Whose side are they gonna intervene on?” That's so classic.Kira came along and pushed Blake out of his preferred position as the baby and the apple of your eye. He had to learn to share you. Is it mostly Kira and Aubrey, or does everything roll downhill with all three?Derrick: It just triangulates and crosses over. They know each other's buttons. And you're right—it's always, “You always take her side. You never—”Sarah: Yes. And whenever you hear the words “always” and “never,” you know someone's triggered. They're not thinking clearly because they're upset and dysregulated.Sibling rivalry, or resentment, whatever you want to call it, is always about: “Who do they love more? Will my needs get met? Do they love me as much as my brother or sister?” That fear is what drives the button-pushing.It doesn't make sense that you'd pick a fight hoping your parent will choose you as the one who's right. But still, it's this drive to create conflict in hopes that you'll be the chosen one.So I could go over my sibling best practices with you guys if you want. That's really helpful for rivalry.Derrick: Yeah.Sarah: Okay. Do you currently have any rules about property or sharing in your house?Laurel: Not officially. I mean—Derrick: We typically will say stuff like, “That's Kira's. If she doesn't want to share it with you, give it back.” But the problem is we have so much community property.Sarah: Okay. That's what I call it: community property. Yeah. So you're doing exactly the right thing with things that belong to one person. They never have to share it if they don't want to, and other people have to ask before they touch it. Perfect.And in terms of community property, I'd suggest you have a rule: somebody gets to use something until they're done. Period. Long turns.I didn't know this when my kids were little, and I had ridiculous song-and-dance with timers—“Okay, you can have it for 10 minutes and then you can have it for 10 minutes.” But that actually increases anxiety. You want to relax into your play, not feel like, “Oh, I've only got this for 10 minutes.”So if it belongs to everyone, the person using it gets to use it as long as they want. And you empathize with the other person: “Oh, I know your brother's been playing with that pogo stick for an hour. It's so hard to wait, isn't it? When it's your turn, you'll have it as long as you want.”So if you have good sharing rules and community property rules right off the bat, you take away a lot of opportunities for resentment to build upDerrick: My biggest question is just how do you intervene when those rules are violated?Sarah: You just calmly say something like, “Oh, I know you really, really wanna play with the pogo stick. You cannot push your brother off of it just because you want a turn.” I'm just making things up here, but the idea is: you can't push your brother off just because you want something. Then you go back to the family rules. You could even make a sign—I actually have one I can send you to print out—that says, “In our family, we get to use it as long as we want.”And then you empathize with the aggressor about how hard it is to wait. Keep going back to the rules and offering lots of empathy. If someone's being difficult, recognize that they're having a hard time.Laurel, when Derrick said, “You always…” or “You never…,” anytime you hear words like that, you know somebody's hijacked by big feelings. That's not the time to make it a teachable moment. Just empathize with the hard time they're having. Nobody ever wants to calm down until they feel empathized with, acknowledged, and heard. You can always talk about it later if something needs to be discussed, but in the moment of heightened tension, just acknowledge feelings: “Oh my goodness, you were doing this thing and then your brother came and took it. This is so hard.”I also have a little ebook with these best practices laid out—I'll send it to you.The third best practice is: always be the moderator, not the negotiator. If there's a fight between the kids, your goal is to help them talk to each other. Don't try to solve it or say who's right or wrong. Even if you're right and careful not to favor one child, your solution will always fuel sibling rivalry. The child who wasn't chosen feels slighted, and the one who was chosen might think, “Dad loves me best.”So my phrase is: “Be Switzerland.” Stay neutral, intervene in a neutral way, and help them talk to each other. Give each child a chance to speak. Do you want to give me an example we can walk through?Derrick: A lot of times it's not even about taking, it's about disrupting. Aubrey has this baby doll she's obsessed with. She carries it everywhere—it looks really real, kind of creepy. Blake will walk by, pull the pacifier out of its mouth, and throw it across the room. Instant meltdown. His thing is, he knows the rules and how to toe the line. He'll say, “I didn't take the baby, I just disrupted it.”Sarah: Right, right.Derrick: And then, “Deal with it.”Sarah: Yeah, okay. So that's not exactly a “be Switzerland” moment, because it's not a two-way fight. He's just provoking his sister to get a rise out of her. That's classic sibling rivalry. It also sounds like he worries you don't love him as much as his sisters. Does he ever say that out loud?Laurel: He has sometimes. His other big thing is he doesn't have a brother, but they have each other. He constantly brings that up.Sarah: That's what I call a chip on his shoulder. When he provokes her like that, it's because he has feelings inside that make him act out. He's not a bad kid; he's having a hard time. Picking fights is often an attempt to get rid of difficult feelings. If we have a bad day and don't process it, we might come home cranky or pick a fight—it's not about the other person, it's about us.So I'd suggest having some heart-to-hearts with Blake, maybe at bedtime. Give him space to process. Say, “It must be really hard to have two little sisters and be the only boy. I bet you wish you had a brother.” Or, “I wonder if it's hard to share me and mom with your sisters. I wonder if it's hard being the oldest.” Share your own stories: “I remember when I was growing up, it was hard to be the big sister.” Or Derrick, you could share what it was like for your older sibling.The same goes for Kira: “It must be hard being in the middle—your big brother gets to do things you can't, and your little sister gets babied more.” The point is to let them express their feelings so they don't have to act them out by provoking.That provocative behavior is just difficult feelings looking for a way out. Your role is to open the door for those feelings. Say things like, “I know this must be hard. I hear you. You can always talk to me about your feelings. All your feelings are okay with me.” And you have to mean it—even if they say things like, “I wish they didn't exist,” or, “I wish you never had that baby.” That's totally normal. Don't be afraid of it. Resist the urge to offer silver linings like, “But sometimes you play so well together.” It's not time for optimism—it's time for listening and acknowledging.You can also say, “I'm sorry if I ever did anything that made you feel like I didn't love you as much as your sisters. I couldn't love anyone more than I love you.” You can say that to each child without lying, because it's true. That reassurance goes to the root of sibling rivalry.Derrick: That's really helpful. I'd love your insight on some of the things we're already doing. Lately, I've realized I spend more time in the girls' room at bedtime. Blake has his own room. He's more self-sufficient—he can read and put himself to sleep. For the past year, I've been reading in the girls' room instead, since they need more wrangling. So I've tried to switch that and spend more time in Blake's room reading with him. We've also started doing “mom dates” or “dad dates” with each kid.Sarah: That's perfect! My final best practice is one-on-one time. You're on the right track. It doesn't have to be a “date.” Special Time is 15 minutes a day with each child, right at home. You don't need to go to the aquarium or spend money. Just say, “I'm all yours for the next 15 minutes—what do you want to play?” Try to keep it play-centered and without screens.Laurel: Sometimes when we call it a “mommy date,” it turns into something big. That makes it hard to do consistently.Sarah: Exactly. You can still do those, but Special Time is smaller and daily. Fifteen minutes is manageable. With little ones, you might need to get creative—for example, one parent watches two kids while the other has Special Time with the third. You could even “hire” Blake to watch Aubrey for a few minutes so you can have time with Kira.Laurel: That makes sense. I did think of an example, though. What frustrates me most isn't sharing, but when they're unkind to each other. I harp on them about family sticking together and being kind. For example, last week at surf camp, both kids had zinc on their faces—Blake was orange, Kira was purple. She was so excited and bubbly that morning, which is unusual for her. In front of neighbor friends, Blake made fun of her purple face. It devastated her. I laid into him, telling him he's her protector and needs to be kind. I don't want to be too hard on him, but I also want him to understand.Sarah: Based on everything we've talked about, you can see how coming down hard on him might make him feel bad about himself and worry that you don't love him—fueling even more resentment. At the same time, of course we don't want siblings hurting each other's feelings. This is where empathic limits come in.You set the limit—“It's not okay to tease your sister because it hurts her feelings”—but you lead with his perspective. You might say, “Hey, I know people with color on their faces can look funny, and maybe you thought it was just a joke. At the same time, that really made your sister feel bad.” That way, you correct him without making him feel like a bad kid.Do you think he was trying to be funny, or was he trying to hurt her?Laurel: I think he was. He'll also reveal secrets or crushes in front of friends—he knows it's ammo.Sarah: Right. In that situation, I'd first empathize with Kira: “I'm so sorry your brother said that—it never feels good to be laughed at.” Then privately with Blake: “What's going on with you that you wanted to make your sister feel bad?” Come at it with curiosity, assuming he's doing the best he can. If he says, “I was just joking,” you can respond, “We need to be more careful with our jokes so they're not at anyone's expense.” That's correcting without shaming.Laurel: I love that. Sometimes I'm trying to say that, but not in a peaceful way, so he can't receive it. Then he asks, “Am I a bad kid?” and I have to backtrack.Sarah: Exactly—skip the part that makes him feel like a bad kid. Sensitive kids don't need much correction—they already feel things deeply. Just get curious.Laurel: That makes sense. Correcting without shaming.Sarah: Yes.Laurel: We also tried something new because of the constant questions. They'll keep asking: “Can I do this? Can I watch a show?” We got tired of repeating no. So now we say, “I don't know yet. Let me think about it. But if you ask again, the answer will be no.” Is that okay?Sarah: I used to say, “If I have to give a quick answer, it's going to be no.” I'd also say, “You can ask me as many times as you want, but the answer will still be no.” With empathy: “I know it's hard to hear no, but it's still no.” Another thing I said was, “It would be so much easier for me to say yes. But I love you enough to say no.” That helped my kids see it wasn't easy for me either.Laurel: That's helpful. Another thing: our kids do so much—they're busy and around people a lot, partly because of our personalities and being pastors. We try to build in downtime at home, but often after a fun day they complain on the way home: “Why do we have to go to bed?” They don't reflect on the fun—they just want more.Sarah: That's totally normal. You could go to an amusement park, eat pizza and ice cream, see a movie, and if you say no to one more thing, they'll say, “We never do anything fun!” Kids are wired to want more. That's evolutionary: quiet kids who didn't ask for needs wouldn't survive. Wanting isn't a problem, and it doesn't mean they'll turn into entitled adults.Kids live in the moment. If you say no to ice cream, they fixate on that, not the whole day. So stay in the moment with them: “You really wanted ice cream. I know it's disappointing we're not having it.” Resist the urge to say, “But we already did all these things.”Laurel: I love that. We even started singing “Never Enough” from The Greatest Showman, and now they hate it. It feels like nothing is ever enough.Sarah: That's normal.Laurel: I also want to bring it back to peaceful, no-fear parenting. I can be hard on myself, and I see that in my kids. I don't want that.Sarah: If you don't want your kids to be hard on themselves, model grace for yourself. Say, “I messed up, but I'm still worthy and lovable.” Being hard on yourself means you only feel lovable when you don't make mistakes. We want our kids to know they're lovable no matter what—even when they mess up or bother their siblings. That's true self-worth: being lovable because of who you are, not what you do. That's what gives kids the courage to take risks and not stay small out of fear of failure. They'll learn that from your modeling.Laurel: That makes sense.Sarah: And I've never, ever seen anyone do this work without being compassionate with themselves.Laurel: Hmm. Like—Sarah: You can't beat yourself up and be a peaceful parent.Laurel: Yeah, I know. Because then I'd see them doing it. It's like, no, I don't. Yeah. Yeah. I purposely don't want you guys to be that way. Yeah. That's great. Those are all good things to think about. I think the other questions I can tie back to what you've already answered, like being disrespectful or sassiness creeping in—the talking back kind of stuff. And that's all from, I mean, it stems from not feeling heard, not feeling empathized with.Sarah: Totally. And being hijacked by big feelings—even if it's your own big feelings of not getting what you want. That can be overwhelming and send them into fight, flight, or freeze. Sassiness and backtalk is the fight response. It's the mild fight. They're not screaming, hitting, or kicking, but just using rude talk.Laurel: Hmm. And so same response as a parent with that too? Just be in the moment with their feelings and then move on to talking about why and letting them kind of—Sarah: Yeah. And empathizing. Just like, “Ah, you're really…” Say they're saucy about you not letting them have some ice cream. “You never let me have ice cream! This is so unfair! You're so mean!” Whatever they might say. You can respond, “Ugh, I know, it's so hard. You wish you could have all the ice cream in the freezer. You'd eat the whole carton if you could.” Just recognize what they're feeling. It doesn't have to be a teachable moment about sugar or health. You can just be with them in their hard time about not getting what they want. And they'll get through to the other side—which builds resilience.Laurel: How do you discipline when it's needed—not punish, but discipline? For example, a deliberate rule is broken, somebody gets hurt, or stealing—like when it's clear they know it was wrong?Sarah: You want to help them see how their actions affect other people, property, or the community. That's where they internalize right and wrong. If you give them a punishment for breaking something, that only teaches them how their actions affect them—not how their actions affect others. That makes kids think, “What's in it for me? I better not do this thing because I don't want to get in trouble,” instead of, “I better not do this because it will hurt my sister or disappoint my parents.” So punishments and imposed consequences pull kids away from the real consequences—like someone getting hurt or trust being broken.You really want to help them understand: “The reason why we have this rule is because of X, Y, Z. And when you did this, here's what happened.” If they have a problem with the rule, talk about it together as a family. That works much better than punishment.Laurel: We had an incident at church where our 10-year-old was talking about something inappropriate with another kid. The other parent reached out, and I feel like we handled it okay. We talked with him, he was open, and we discussed what was said. Then we apologized to that parent in person and had a conversation. It didn't feel like we were forcing him to do something bad or shaming him.Sarah: That's good—it's about making a repair. That's always the focus. Without knowing the whole situation, I might not have said apologizing to the parent, because technically the parent wasn't directly involved. But if your son was willing and it felt authentic, that's great. What matters is the outcome: repair. Sometimes parents suggest an apology to make the child feel ashamed so they'll “remember it,” but that's not helpful. The question is: does the apology or repair actually improve the situation? That's what you keep in mind.Laurel: Well, thanks for all your wisdom.Sarah: You're welcome. It was really nice to meet you both.Part 2:Sarah: Welcome back, Laurel and Derek. Thanks for joining again. How have things been since our first coaching call?Laurel: Yeah. I feel like we gained several really good nuggets that we were able to try. One of them was about my daughter in the mornings—not wanting to get dressed, feeling stuck in the middle and left out. I've gotten to stop what I'm doing and pay attention to her. Even this morning, she still had a meltdown, but things went faster by the end compared to me being stubborn and telling her to do it on her own.Sarah: So you dropped your end of the power struggle.Laurel: Yeah. And it felt great because I wasn't frustrated afterward. I could move on right away instead of also blowing up. If we both blow up, it's bad. But if she's the only one, she can snap out of it quickly. I can't as easily, so it usually lingers for me. This way, it was so much better.We've had some challenging parenting moments this week, but looking at them through the lens of making our kids feel worthy and loved helped us respond differently. One thing you said last time—that “the perpetrator needs empathy”—really stuck with me. I always felt like the misbehaving child should feel our wrath to show how serious it was. But we were able to love our kids through a couple of tough situations, and it worked.Derrick: For me, the biggest takeaway was the “kindling” metaphor. I've even shared it with friends. Before, I thought I was being patient, but I was just collecting kindling until I blew up. Now I recognize the kindling and set it down—take a breath, or tell the kids I need a minute. This morning on the way to soccer, I told them I needed a little pity party in the front seat before I could play their game. That helped me calm before reengaging.Sarah: That's fantastic. You recognized you needed to calm yourself before jumping back in, instead of pushing through already-annoyed feelings.Laurel: Yeah. We did have questions moving forward. We had a couple of situations where we knew our kids were lying about something significant. We told them, “We love you, and we need you to tell the truth.” But they denied it for days before finally giving in. How do we encourage truth-telling and open communication?Sarah: Kids usually lie for three reasons: they're afraid of getting in trouble, they feel ashamed or embarrassed, or they're afraid of disappointing you. Sometimes it's all three. So the focus has to be: we might be unhappy with what you did, but we'll just work on fixing it. When they do admit the truth, it's important to say, “I'm so glad you told me.” That helps remove shame.Natural consequences happen without your involvement. If they take money from your wallet, the natural consequence is that you're missing money and trust is broken. But adding punishments just teaches them to hide better next time.Derrick: How do you frame the difference between a consequence and a boundary? Like if they mess up in an environment and we don't let them back into it for a while—is that a consequence or a boundary?Sarah: In peaceful parenting, we talk about limits. If they show they're not ready for a certain freedom, you set a limit to support them—not to punish. A consequence is meant to make them feel bad so they won't repeat it. A limit is about guidance and support.The way to tell: check your tone and your intent. If you're angry and reactive, it will feel punishing even if it's not meant to be. And if your intent is to make them suffer, that's a punishment. If your tone is empathetic and your intent is to support expectations, it's a limit.Derrick: That's helpful. Sometimes we beat ourselves up wondering if we're punishing when we're just setting limits. Your tone-and-intent framework is a good check.Sarah: And if you mess up in the moment, you can always walk it back. Say, “I was really angry when I said that. Let's rethink this.” That models responsibility for when we act out while triggered.Derrick: That's good.Sarah: You mentioned sibling rivalry last time. Did you try the “It's theirs until they're done with it” approach?Derrick: Yes—and it's like a miracle. It worked especially in the car.Sarah: That's great. I know car rides were tricky before.Laurel: What about mantras to help us remember not to let our kids' behavior define us as parents—or as people?Sarah: What you're talking about is shame. It's when we feel unworthy because of our kids' behavior or what others think. We have to separate our worth from our kids' actions. Even if your child is struggling, you're still a good, worthy, lovable person.Laurel: Almost the same thing we say to our kids: “You are worthy and lovable.”Sarah: Exactly. So when you feel yourself going into a shame spiral, remind yourself: “Even though my child did this thing, I am still worthy and lovable.” Hold both truths together.Laurel: Yes. That helps. One last question: mornings. School starts in a day, and we worry every morning will be a struggle with Kira. She resists everything—getting dressed, socks, breakfast. Then she's fine once we're in the car. How can we help her set her own boundaries about mornings?Sarah: It sounds like she gets anxious around transitions. She doesn't do well with being hurried. That anxiety overwhelms her, and she goes into fight mode—pushing back, lashing out.Laurel: Yes, that's exactly it.Sarah: So part of it is adjusting your routine—giving her more time in the morning. But another part is building resilience. The anti-anxiety phrase is: “We can handle this.” Remind her, “Even if it's not going how you wanted, you can handle it. We can do hard things.” Add in laughter to ease tension.And maybe accept that for now, you might need to spend 10 minutes helping her get dressed. That's okay. You can balance it by giving her extra nurturing at other times of the day so she doesn't seek it as much during rushed mornings.Derrick: That's good.Sarah: Thank you both so much. I've loved these conversations.Derrick: Thank you, Sarah.Sarah: You're welcome. It's been wonderful. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahrosensweet.substack.com/subscribe

In this powerful episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty explores two remarkable stories of resilience, hope, and personal growth that will inspire parents and children alike. First, Paula Schneider, CEO of Susan G. Komen and breast cancer survivor, shares her deeply moving journey of creating "Love Stays Strong," a children's book designed to help families navigate serious illness conversations. Drawing from her personal experience battling triple-negative breast cancer, Schneider developed a compassionate tool to help parents communicate difficult health challenges to their children. Her book uses metaphorical imagery of seasonal changes and supportive animal communities to create a gentle, reassuring approach to discussing serious medical conditions. The episode then shifts to the inspiring story of Mychal Conley Jr., a young entrepreneur who refused to let a teacher's discouraging words limit his dreams. After being told that becoming a CEO was "unrealistic," Mychal transformed that negative experience into a multimedia mission. At just 19, he's launched a podcast interviewing business leaders, created a magazine connecting current and future entrepreneurs, and published "I Am a CEO: Realistic," a book encouraging young people to pursue their ambitions. Both stories share a common thread: the importance of believing in oneself and supporting children's dreams. Mychal's father, Mychall Sr., emphasizes the critical role parents play in "pumping life" into their children's aspirations, while Schneider highlights the power of open, honest communication during challenging times. Listeners will find hope, practical advice, and inspiration in these narratives. Whether facing health challenges or entrepreneurial dreams, the message is clear: with support, resilience, and belief in oneself, seemingly impossible goals can become reality. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!  

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In today's episode, we have the pleasure to interview Tammy J. Cohen, author of Text Messages to My Sons: A Guide to Using Mobile Devices to Connect and Communicate with Your Kids.Tammy is a dynamic speaker, award-winning author, podcaster, and brand messaging consultant. She's the founder of Women Beyond the Table and TC Brand Consulting, where she helps leaders align mission, values, and message for authentic impact. With an MBA from Baruch College's Zicklin School of Business, she blends warmth, humor, and practical wisdom to help families and teams communicate with intention.In this episode, you'll learn how to turn phones into a force for connection with simple daily texts, what to say (and why a reply isn't required) to build trust and resilience, and a repeatable framework for infusing love, gratitude, and accountability into short messages that cut through digital noise.We hope you enjoy this incredible conversation with Tammy J. Cohen.To Learn More about Tammy and buy her book visit: The Book: https://a.co/d/eooVgDBWebsite/Socials:https://tammyjcohen.com/https://www.instagram.com/tammyjcohen/https://www.linkedin.com/in/tammy-j-cohen/Chapters: 1:31 Life with more books and less distractions & mobile devices5:11 Physical books vs Digital reading7:52 You never read the same book twice… you're a new reader10:55 The story of Tammy's highly positive impact of phone usage19:31 Meeting people unselfishly where they are at22:15 The power of connection over poor mental health26:24 Healthy & positive relationships don't need to be 50/5028:42 The reciprocity will eventually come… at the right time33:07 Sharing gratitude and vulnerability36:28 Where to connect with Tammy, her work and her book37:36 Think of life as your best friend________________________________________________Join the world's largest non-fiction Book community!https://www.instagram.com/bookthinkers/The purpose of this podcast is to connect you, the listener, with new books, new mentors, and new resources that will help you achieve more and live better. Each and every episode will feature one of the world's top authors so that you know each and every time you tune-in, there is something valuable to learn. If you have any recommendations for guests, please DM them to us on Instagram. (www.instagram.com/bookthinkers)If you enjoyed this show, please consider leaving a review. It takes less than 60-seconds of your time, and really makes a difference when I am trying to land new guests. For more BookThinkers content, check out our Instagram or our website. Thank you for your time!

In this captivating episode of Reading with Your Kids, two remarkable authors share deeply personal stories that transform challenging experiences into inspiring children's literature. David Soren, known for his animation work, introduces "INVISIBLE: The (Sort Of) True Story of Me & My Hidden Disease," a middle-grade novel that brilliantly explores living with Crohn's disease. By personifying his chronic illness as a character named Norm, Soren creates a humorous and heartfelt narrative that helps children understand invisible health challenges. His book offers a window into the experiences of kids managing complex medical conditions while maintaining their sense of imagination and hope. Simultaneously, Christine Alemshah brings cultural richness to children's literature with "Bea's Balikbayan Box of Treasures" Inspired by her Filipino heritage, Shaw explores the beautiful tradition of balikbayan boxes - care packages sent by families across oceans. Her story celebrates childhood imagination, family connections, and the universal joy of cardboard box adventures. Both authors emphasize the importance of representation in children's literature. They believe books should serve as mirrors where children see themselves and windows that allow readers to understand different experiences. Their work challenges traditional storytelling by introducing diverse characters and nuanced narratives that go beyond stereotypical representations. The episode also touches on broader themes of creativity, resilience, and the power of personal storytelling. From Soren's journey through animation and writing to Shaw's exploration of cultural identity, these authors demonstrate how personal experiences can be transformed into compelling narratives that educate, entertain, and inspire young readers. Listeners will be moved by the authors' vulnerability, humor, and commitment to creating meaningful children's literature that celebrates difference, encourages empathy, and sparks imagination. Whether you're a parent, educator, or book lover, this episode offers a profound look at how storytelling can bridge understanding and celebrate the beautiful complexity of human experiences. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

In Season 7 Episode 5, we are joined at the table with Scott and Molly Legg as they share with us from their parenting journey. Scott and Molly share about the importance of being in biblical community as a family and the impact that had on their children. They talk about the necessity of having a biblical definition of manhood and womanhood and how they incorporated that into their parenting. And finally, we discuss how prayer throughout their parenting experience has been such a transformative blessing in their children's lives, but theirs as well. Mentioned in this episode:Raising a Modern Day Knight by Robert LewisPraying the Scriptures for Your Children by Jody BerndtNavigators Biblical Virtues to Pray for Your Kids bookmark

Parenting expert and therapist Todd Sarner joins Andrew and Caroline to unpack what it really means to guide children without shame or punishment. From his 20+ years of experience, Todd outlines the three pillars of proactive parenting: strengthening attachment and connection, creating a rhythm and environment that supports kids, and teaching natural consequences without shame. Together, they explore how separation anxiety shows up at bedtime, mornings, and school transitions, and why “collect before you direct” can change everything. This episode gives parents practical tools to reduce power struggles, hold boundaries with empathy, and raise resilient, emotionally secure kids. Homework Ideas Collect Before You Direct: Practice greeting your child warmly (eye contact, smile, touch) before asking them to do something. Bridging Practice: At goodbyes (bedtime, school drop-off), give your child a clear picture of when and how you'll reconnect (“I'll see you in two sleeps” / “When you get home, I'll have a snack waiting for you”). Reset Routine: If family rules and follow-through feel inconsistent, hold a “reset” talk with your child: acknowledge the inconsistency, clarify expectations, and explain what will happen moving forward. Matter-of-Fact Consequences: Next time you enforce a limit, do it calmly and without shame — like Columbo, keep it simple, warm, and firm. Empathy Check: After holding a boundary, add empathy: “I know this is hard. I love you, and I'll be here when you're ready.” Recommended Resources: Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor MateParenting with Love and Logic by Charles Fay & Foster Cline Parenting Teens with Love and Logic by Charles Fay & Foster Cline About ToddTodd Sarner is a parenting coach and psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience helping families turn daily power struggles and emotional chaos into connection, calm, and cooperation at home. His work is grounded in attachment science and practical psychology, with a focus on giving parents real-world tools that actually work—especially when emotions are high and patience is low. Todd was an original intern of renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld and later served as a Faculty Member of the Neufeld Institute, where he trained professionals in attachment-based approaches to parenting.www.transformativeparenting.com www.masterclassforparents.comwww.facebook.com/tparenting www.instagram.com/tparenting www.x.com/tparenting www.linkedin.com/in/toddsarner/Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community! Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions! Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

In this episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with two remarkable children's authors who prove that storytelling is an art form rooted in family, imagination, and personal experience. Diana Lopez takes listeners into the magical world of her Los Monsteros series, specifically her latest book, "Ava and the Owl Witch." Set in the fictional town of Tres Leches, Texas, the story explores South Texas legends through the eyes of Ava, whose mother is a unique owl witch. Lopez shares her journey from writing realistic fiction to embracing fantasy, inspired by her work on the Disney film "Coco" novelization. Kathleen MacInnis Kichline brings her own enchanting tale, "Terrence McPhee and the Toy Eating Tree," to life. Inspired by a real childhood moment with her grandson, the book captures the universal childhood experience of losing a toy to a tree's mysterious grasp. MacInnis emphasizes the importance of shared storytelling and how books can create lasting bonds between generations. Both authors highlight the magic of children's literature - it's not just about entertainment, but about creating meaningful connections. They discuss their writing processes, from hand-written notebooks to navigating the challenges of series writing and illustration collaboration. The episode is a treasure trove of insights for parents, educators, and aspiring writers. Diana and Kathleen demonstrate how personal experiences can transform into captivating stories that resonate with children and adults alike. Their passion for storytelling shines through, reminding listeners that every lost toy, family legend, and childhood memory has the potential to become a beautiful narrative. Whether you're a parent looking to inspire a love of reading or a storyteller seeking inspiration, this episode offers a delightful journey into the world of children's literature. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Megan and Allison are joined by parenting expert Dr Justin Coulson and author Matt Stanton for a discussion about boys and reading in the face of recent headlines about declining literacy levels and engagement in reading for pleasure.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Parenting doesn't end when your kids grow up — it just changes. And for many, that shift can be confusing, frustrating, and even painful. How do you move from being the authority to being a supportive "peer"? And what do you do when your hopes for your adult children don't align with who they've become? Today, we're joined by Dr. Francine Toder, a clinical psychologist to discuss her new book Your Kids are Grown: Parenting 2.0 - With Strategies for Moving On. Drawing on decades of research, therapy, and her own lived experience, Dr. Toder shares practical wisdom on how to navigate this often-overlooked stage of family life. You'll learn how to let go, listen with empathy, and focus on your own growth while building stronger, healthier relationships with your adult kids — and perhaps, rediscovering yourself in the process. Francine Toder joins us from California. __________________________ Bio Francine Toder, Ph.D. is an emeritus faculty member of California State University, Sacramento and is a clinical psychologist retired from private practice. She is the author of 5 books. Her newest book is Your Kids are Grown: Parenting 2.0. Her extensive writing on diverse topics appears in magazines, professional journals, newspapers, blog sites and as edited book chapters. She resides in the San Francisco Bay area where she tries to practice the cello daily. ___________________________ For More on Francine Toder Your Kids are Grown: Parenting 2.0. Website ___________________________ Previous Podcast Conversations with Francine Toder The Vintage Years – Dr. Francine Toder Inward Traveler – Francine Toder PhD ___________________________ Podcast Conversations You May Like All Grown Up – Celia Dodd How to Reconnect with an Estranged Adult Child – Tina Gilbertson ___________________________ Mentioned in This Podcast Episode How Did the Latchkey Kids of Gen X Become the Helicopter Parents of Gen Z? by David French ___________________________ About The Retirement Wisdom Podcast There are many podcasts on retirement, often hosted by financial advisors with their own financial motives, that cover the money side of the street. This podcast is different. You'll get smarter about the investment decisions you'll make about the most important asset you'll have in retirement: your time. About Retirement Wisdom I help people who are retiring, but aren't quite done yet, discover what's next and build their custom version of their next life. A meaningful retirement doesn't just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how the Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one — on your own terms. About Your Podcast Host Joe Casey is an executive coach who helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a 26-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Joe has earned Master's degrees from the University of Southern California in Gerontology (at age 60), the University of Pennsylvania, and Middlesex University (UK), a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, and his coaching certification from Columbia University. In addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, ranked in the top 1% globally in popularity by Listen Notes, with over 1.6 million downloads. Business Insider recognized Joe as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He's the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy. _________________________ Wise Quotes  On Leveraging Curiosity "...when you step back and realize that that other person or those other persons are not you and you are curious about learning about them,

Unleashing Creativity: How Authors Adam Wallace and June Smalls Bring Magic to Children's Books In this exciting episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with two extraordinary children's book authors who prove that imagination knows no bounds. Adam Wallace, the creative genius behind "Hat Man" and "Turkey in Disguise," shares his incredible journey from self-publishing to becoming a prolific author with over 180 books. "Hat Man" is a groundbreaking book that combines superhero action, graphic novel elements, and music, creating an interactive experience kids will love. Wallace's innovative approach includes QR codes that bring the story to life, allowing children to watch music videos and engage with the narrative in multiple ways. The book follows Harvey West, a scared protagonist who transforms into different heroes by wearing magical hats - from cowboy to astronaut, each hat brings a new adventure. June Smalls, author of the "Digging for Dinosaurs" series, brings her own brand of interactive storytelling to the table. Her lift-the-flap books encourage children to explore and discover, inspired by her niece's childhood curiosity about finding history in the dirt. With books that allow kids to physically dig and uncover hidden treasures, Smalls makes learning an exciting, hands-on experience. Both authors emphasize the importance of creativity, joy, and maintaining childlike wonder. They discuss the magic of school visits, the power of imagination, and how seemingly simple books can inspire and transform young minds. Wallace's approach of finding fun in writing and Smalls' technique of daydreaming showcase the different paths to creative success. From self-publishing challenges to international book releases, these authors demonstrate that passion, persistence, and a willingness to play can turn storytelling into an art form that connects with children worldwide. Their books are more than just stories - they're gateways to imagination, learning, and endless possibilities. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply a lover of children's literature, this episode offers inspiring insights into the world of creative storytelling. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!  

Get ready for a delightful dive into the world of storytelling with Matthew Swanson and Robbi Behr, the dynamic duo behind the beloved Ben Yokoyama book series! In this heartwarming episode of Reading with Your Kids, the creative couple shares the story behind their final installment, "Ben Yokoyama and the Cookie of Destiny." Matthew, a self-proclaimed easily confused writer, and Robbi, a talented illustrator with a design background, have crafted a unique approach to children's books. Their series follows Ben, a literal-minded third-grader who gets hilariously tangled up in misinterpreted fortune cookie fortunes. This final book takes Ben and his best friend Janet on a cross-country road trip filled with typical Swanson-Behr hijinks. What makes their books special is the incredible collaboration between Matthew and Robbi. They're complete opposites - Matthew is deadline-driven and goal-oriented, while Robbi loves starting her day with an ice cream sundae and pushing deadlines to the last minute. Their complementary styles create magic on the page, resulting in beautifully illustrated books that help reluctant readers fall in love with storytelling. The couple's creativity extends beyond books. They spent an entire year traveling across the country in a bus, visiting Title One schools and giving away books through their Busload of Books nonprofit. Their mission? To bring books and creativity to underserved communities. Their four children are a source of constant inspiration and entertainment. From their daughter Alden to their son Auggie, each child reflects a unique blend of Matthew and Robbi's personalities. While this might be the end of the Ben Yokoyama series, the couple is excited about future projects, including a standalone novel called "Life on the Moon." Their passion for storytelling, collaboration, and connecting with young readers shines through in every word and illustration. It's a conversation that's part interview, part comedy routine, and completely heartwarming - a true celebration of creativity, family, and the joy of reading. We als welcome our Dean of All Things STEM & STEAM, Jennifer Swanson, back to the show to celebrate her latest book, "Three Weeks in the Rainforest." Jennifer shares the fascinating story behind her book, which explores a woman-led scientific team from the Field Museum conducting a rapid inventory in the Amazon. Inspired by an exhibit she discovered while visiting her daughter at Northwestern, Jennifer delved into the world of scientists who meticulously study biodiversity while working closely with indigenous communities. The conversation highlights Jennifer's lifelong passion for science, tracing back to her childhood science club and her ability to see scientific wonder everywhere. She vividly describes her interviews with scientists like Dr. Leslie de Souza, an ichthyologist who casually walks into waters inhabited by piranhas and anacondas. Beyond the book's content, Jennifer emphasizes the importance of nurturing children's curiosity, encouraging parents and educators to listen to kids' questions and help them explore answers, not just through the internet, but through resources like libraries. Her infectious enthusiasm for science shines through, making the complex world of scientific research accessible and exciting for young readers. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Parenting a teenager can feel like tiptoeing through a construction zone — and ADHD cranks the jackhammer. In this episode of The Soaring Child Podcast, host Dana Kay breaks down what's really happening in the teenage brain and why ADHD can intensify mood swings, impulsivity, and motivation slumps. This isn't “bad behavior” or “bad parenting” — it's a developing brain that needs different scaffolding, smarter systems, and calmer connection. Dana is joined by therapist Ashley Gobeil, who has over 15 years of experience supporting neurodiverse families. Together they unpack practical tools for emotional regulation, communication that doesn't escalate conflict, realistic academic supports, screen-time sanity, and how to get teens on board with nutrition changes by linking food to feelings and function. If you want fewer blowups and more buy-in, this conversation gives you the scripts, mindsets, and next steps. Links Mentioned in the Show: ▶ ADHD Thrive Jumpstart Program (with bonus masterclasses on Leaky Gut, Emotional Intelligence, Sensory/Body Activities, and Dealing with Defiance): https://info.adhdthriveinstitute.com/parentingadhd ▶ Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté (peer orientation & staying connected to teens) - https://amzn.to/4niwMKP Key Takeaways: [03:08] Why ADHD symptoms often intensify in the teen years [05:02] Teen brain pruning explained with the “patchy Wi-Fi” metaphor [08:07] Practical scaffolding: systems and supports that actually work [09:50] Communication that regulates instead of escalates [14:15] Staying connected to teens while peer orientation increases [22:50] Strategies for screen-time and motivation slumps [30:50] Linking food to function: how to get teens on board with nutrition Memorable Moments: “Your teen's brain is under construction.” “This isn't bad parenting. And your child isn't broken.” “Their brain just needs different support.” “Teens are going through some serious brain construction.” “That frontal lobe cortex literally is like the patchiest Wi-Fi possible.” “Teenagers with ADHD… those symptoms could exacerbate in those teenage years.” “They do need a lot of hands on help and scaffolding.” “Consciously, we want our kids to feel seen, heard, acknowledged, and valued for all parts of who they are.” “We actually still want them orbiting around us.” “There's no such thing as laziness — it's actually a lack of motivation.” Dana Kay Resources:

In this heartwarming episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty explores the power of multicultural children's literature through conversations with two remarkable authors who celebrate family, language, and personal growth. First, Mari Bellas shares her delightful picture book "Tio Ricky Doesn't Speak English," a touching story that highlights the important role children play as family translators. The book beautifully captures the experience of bilingual families, showing how language can be a bridge of understanding and love. Mari's passion stems from her own multicultural background, raising bilingual children and creating representation in children's literature. The episode then shifts to Meredith Rusu's inspiring book "When Auggie Learned to Play Chess," a touching narrative about a young boy finding confidence through learning chess with his father. Rusu's story is deeply personal, inspired by her father-in-law's immigration journey and the intergenerational connections formed over a chessboard. Both authors emphasize the importance of diverse storytelling, showing how children's books can:     Build cultural understanding     Celebrate family connections     Encourage language learning     Boost children's confidence     Create windows into different experiences Listeners will be inspired by the authors' personal stories of cultural identity, family bonds, and the transformative power of storytelling. Whether you're a parent interested in bilingualism, a lover of children's literature, or someone who appreciates heartwarming family narratives, this episode offers something special. The conversation goes beyond simple storytelling, exploring themes of resilience, communication, and the magic that happens when families share experiences across languages and generations. Parents, educators, and book lovers will find this episode both educational and deeply touching, reminding us that every story has the potential to connect, teach, and inspire. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Kate & Jol Temple read from ‘Mega Rich Guinea Pigs', book one in their hilarious new illustrated series.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Talking to our kids about the "birds & the bees" can feel overwhelming—but if we don't, the world will have the conversation for us. In this episode, Amy and Sara sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery to explore why this conversation is so important and how parents can approach it with confidence and grace. From understanding biblical sexuality to setting healthy boundaries with technology, Dr. Slattery offers practical wisdom for normalizing ongoing conversations with your kids—starting early and continuing as they grow. You'll hear insights on:• Why "the talk" can feel intimidating for parents.• How regular conversations create openness and trust.• Tips for having the "birds & the bees" conversation with kids.• The connection between screen limits and protecting our kids' hearts..Whether your kids are little or already teens, this episode will equip you to approach the “birds and bees” with biblical truth and everyday practicality.Links/Resources:Dr. Juli Slattery's NewsletterJava with Julie PodcastBook: Start Talking to Your Kids about Sex – Julia SaduskyBook: Mama Bear Apologetics® Guide to Sexuality –  Hillary Morgan FerrerBook: Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything – Juli SlatteryPDF: 4 Tips for Talking about the Birds and Bees--Question of the Week: Younger – Do you want to be a parent one day? What kind of parent do you want to be?Older – Do people talk about sex at school?--Hosts: Amy Lowe & Sara JonesGuests: Dr. Juli SlatteryProducers: Emily Alters & Cody Braun--Learn more about WinShape Camps at WinShapeCamps.org!Instagram: @WinShapeCampsTikTok: @WinShapeCampsFacebook: @WinShapeCamps Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A Heartwarming Exploration of Adoption and Honesty in Children's Literature In this captivating episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty delves into the transformative world of children's literature with two remarkable authors who are changing narratives about family, truth, and love. Allison Olson, an adoptive parent and adopted child herself, shares her groundbreaking book series "Surrounded by Love," which revolutionizes how adoption stories are told. With a mission to create inclusive, positive representations of adoption, Olson's books celebrate the love between birth families and adoptive families. Her innovative approach highlights the importance of open adoption, where 90% of modern adoptions now allow communication between birth and adoptive families. Switching gears, Pedro Iniguez brings a unique perspective with his debut picture book "The FIB," a clever story about a young boy whose small lie grows into a monster. Drawing from his background in horror writing, Inigas crafts a compelling moral tale that teaches children about the consequences of dishonesty in a fun, engaging way. Both authors demonstrate the power of children's literature to normalize complex experiences. Olson's books show that families come in all shapes and sizes, while Iniguez' uses metaphor to explore difficult topics like truth-telling. Their work goes beyond entertainment, offering valuable life lessons and promoting empathy. The episode explores profound themes: the beauty of adoption, the importance of representation, and the delicate art of storytelling for young minds. Listeners will be inspired by these authors' commitment to creating meaningful, inclusive children's books that reflect the diverse experiences of modern families. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply love children's literature, this episode offers fascinating insights into how books can shape understanding, celebrate diversity, and teach important life lessons. Don't miss this heartwarming, thought-provoking conversation that proves children's books are about so much more than just bedtime stories. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Allison chats to bestselling and beloved author Morris Gleitzman about his brand-new novel ‘Childish', potholes, and what we can do to get kids reading.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Send us a textHave we been approaching education all wrong? In this mind-shifting conversation with renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld, we explore the invisible but essential foundation of all learning: relationship.As another school year begins, Dr. Neufeld challenges educators to recognize their primary role as "attachment agents" rather than just instructors. The modern educational system often separates children from their natural "villages of cascading care," creating an environment nature never intended. When this happens, our first responsibility is to help children maintain connections with their primary caregivers while building secure attachments with us as teachers.Most provocatively, Dr. Neufeld argues that many of the competencies we're desperately trying to teach—empathy, self-regulation, resilience—cannot actually be taught at all. "We're teaching what can't be taught," he observes. "We can only teach children to perform." These qualities emerge naturally when children feel secure in their attachments and experience genuine playfulness.And here's where Dr. Neufeld's wisdom becomes truly transformative: he distinguishes between structured "play activities" and true playfulness. When the brain enters the play drive (as opposed to attachment or achievement drives), learning is optimized, creativity flourishes, and even sensory processing improves. This has profound implications for how we approach education, particularly for children with attention or sensory challenges.Twenty years after publishing his landmark book "Hold On to Your Kids," Dr. Neufeld's message remains more urgent than ever. In our digital age, where screens and social media compete for children's attention and attachment, educators must "retreat to the basics" rather than pushing harder with more structured learning.Ready to transform your approach to teaching and child development? Listen now to discover how prioritizing attachment and playfulness creates the optimal conditions for nature to do what it does best: grow children into their fullest potential.

In this powerful conversation, parenting coach and TEDx speaker Katherine Sellery returns to the show to share deep insights from her Conscious Parenting Revolution.   She opens up about her personal journey, the hidden patterns passed down through families, and how parents can finally break free from cycles that no longer serve them or their children.   You'll discover:   • How to recognize and heal inherited family patterns   • Why “connection before correction” transforms parenting   • The role of archetypes in parenting styles and biases   • How to see your child's behavior as a cry for connection, not just discipline   • Why giving yourself grace helps your kids thrive too   Katherine also shares her free resources, including her bestselling book Seven Strategies to Keep Your Relationship with Your Kids from Hitting the Boiling Point, her free parenting quiz, and access to the Conscious Parenting Revolution community.   If you're a parent who wants to raise emotionally healthy kids while healing your own inner child, this episode will shift your perspective in life-changing ways.  

In this inspiring episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with acclaimed author Peter H. Reynolds to celebrate the 20th anniversary of his transformative book, "The Dot." Located in the charming town of Dedham, Massachusetts, Reynolds shares the heartwarming story behind his beloved children's book that has sparked creativity in millions of children worldwide. "The Dot" tells the story of Vashti, a young girl who discovers her artistic potential through the encouragement of a compassionate teacher. Reynolds explains how the book has grown into an international phenomenon, with International Dot Day now celebrated in 190 countries and over 34 million dots created. The book's core message emphasizes the importance of creativity, confidence, and making one's mark on the world. Reynolds candidly discusses his own creative journey, tracing back to a pivotal moment with a math teacher who encouraged him to use art in storytelling. This single conversation set him on a path to becoming an author, illustrator, and founder of Fable Vision, demonstrating the profound impact a supportive educator can have on a child's life. In a delightful segment, the conversation also introduces Howard Pearlstein, another children's book author with a unique approach. Pearlstein has created an innovative "Emotion Book" series, including "The Shy Book" and "The Worried Book," which help children navigate complex feelings through engaging, character-driven narratives. His books provide simple, actionable strategies for kids to understand and manage emotions like shyness and worry. The episode beautifully highlights the power of storytelling in children's emotional and creative development. Both Reynolds and Pearlstein showcase how books can be transformative tools for understanding oneself and the world. Listeners are invited to explore more about these authors' work through their websites and upcoming events, including International Dot Day celebrations and book readings across the country. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, host Larry Hagner opens up about what it means to be the thermostat in your home, not just the thermometer. With economic uncertainty, workplace stress, and daily responsibilities piling up, Larry shares a powerful message: while we can't always control the outside world, we can control the atmosphere inside our homes.   Drawing from his own experience as a husband, father of four, entrepreneur, and coach to hundreds of men, Larry offers three simple but game-changing practices to help you lead with presence, peace, and intentionality. You'll learn how to create transition rituals, share stress in age-appropriate ways, and protect one daily “anchor moment” with your family.   This isn't just advice—it's a battle plan for fatherhood in today's chaotic world.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] - The Dad Edge movement: raising the next generation of fathers [1:06] - Why “Dad Jones” matters more than Dow Jones [2:30] - From entrepreneurship to emotional presence at home [3:38] - Why dads must become the thermostat, not the thermometer [4:31] - Breaking generational cycles through intentional leadership [5:21] - Tactical Nugget #1: Create a transition ritual [6:02] - From Zoom calls to family time in 60 seconds or less [7:39] - Zoom fatigue, blue-collar exhaustion, and stress overload [8:18] - Real-world examples of transition rituals that work [9:36] - The “warm-up” metaphor: why you can't sprint cold [10:40] - Tactical Nugget #2: Share age-appropriate context [11:48] - Explaining stress to a 9-year-old without oversharing [12:49] - Tactical Nugget #3: Protect one anchor moment daily [13:46] - The dinner table is sacred—don't let sports take it away [14:55] - The Hagner family: 70% dinner consistency even with teens [16:05] - Anchoring doesn't have to be nightly—just intentional [17:09] - What it means to protect your family's emotional economy [18:18] - Action step: Choose one ritual to stabilize your home [19:02] - Want to go deeper? Why Larry created the Dad Edge Alliance [20:14] - Introducing: The Dad Edge Business Brotherhood [21:01] - “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Be the Thermostat, Not the Thermometer Your mood sets the emotional tone in your home. Don't react to the chaos—lead through it.   2. Create a Transition Ritual Whether it's deep breathing, walking, or reading scripture, take 5–10 minutes to reset before re-entering home life.   3. Speak to Your Kids at Their Level You don't need to dump stress on your children—but you can share what's going on in ways they understand.   4. Protect One Daily Anchor Moment Whether it's a meal, bedtime routine, or morning coffee with your spouse—make it non-negotiable.   5. Your Family Needs a Grounded Leader They don't need a stressed-out provider. They need you—calm, present, and emotionally available. LINKS & RESOURCES   Join the Mastermind Paths Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Business Owner Brotherhood: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind   Books Mentioned: Building a Non-Anxious Life by Dr. John Delony: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-by-john-delony   Full Episode & Other Resources: Podcast Homepage: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Larry Hagner Instagram: https://instagram.com/thedadedge  

In this captivating episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty takes listeners on a delightful exploration of two remarkable children's books that spark imagination and address childhood experiences. First, author Sherri L. Smith introduces her speculative middle-grade novel, "Candace, the Universe and Everything." The book follows Candace, an eighth-grader navigating friendship challenges and a mysterious locker with an intriguing portal. Smith shares her writing journey, explaining how the story emerged from understanding how friendships evolve and the universal experience of feeling left out during adolescence. With a background in writing for comics like The Simpsons and licensed characters, Smith brings a unique perspective to storytelling. Her novel explores the "what if" concept, blending science fiction elements with relatable coming-of-age experiences. She's passionate about creating stories that help children understand complex emotional landscapes. The episode then shifts to Paul Mayer's heartwarming picture book, "The Big Yellow Adventure." As Vice President of Marketing at Dattco Transportaion, Mayer created this book to help children overcome anxiety about riding the school bus for the first time. The story follows Lily, a nervous kindergartener who discovers the joy of her first bus ride with the help of a friendly driver and a new friend. Mayer collaborated with Optimus Healthcare to ensure the book's content was age-appropriate and supportive. The book is available for free download in both English and Spanish, with a special coloring book version to engage young readers. Both authors demonstrate the power of children's literature in addressing emotional challenges, sparking imagination, and creating meaningful connections between parents and children. Listeners can find both books online and explore more about these incredible storytellers who are making a difference in children's lives, one page at a time. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Bethany Loveridge reads from her debut fantasy novel ‘Harper Wells Renegade Timeline Officer'Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

In this inspiring episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with two remarkable authors who are transforming how children approach challenges and learning. Lynn Smith, a former CNN news anchor, introduces her children's book "Just Keep Going," a heartwarming story about a mouse navigating big feelings and overcoming fears. Drawing from her experience coaching executives, Smith reveals how she developed a method to help people—and children—push through their "brain bully" of self-doubt. The book follows a mouse's journey through the forest, encountering friends who teach him practical techniques for managing anxiety, like deep breathing and visualization. Smith's motivation stems from her desire to help children learn resilience early, preventing the self-doubt many adults struggle with. Complementing Smith's approach, Shannon Anderson shares her books "Y Is For Yet?" and "Mindset Power," which dive deep into growth mindset principles. Anderson explains how teaching children to view mistakes as "growth spurts" can fundamentally change their approach to learning and challenges. Both authors emphasize critical parenting and teaching strategies:     Praise effort, not innate ability     Teach resilience     Encourage children to view challenges as opportunities     Help kids understand that learning is a process Key takeaways include:     Mistakes are learning opportunities     Neuroplasticity means our brains can always improve     Short-term, specific goals help build confidence     Resilience can be learned and practiced Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply interested in personal development, this episode offers valuable insights into helping children (and adults) develop a positive, growth-oriented mindset. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Stories that explore feelings can be a revelation for young readers and a powerful tool for the adults in their lives. Megan and Allison discuss the wide range of books on offer, from picture books to YA, and why they provide a safe space for kids to work through their own emotions and feelings.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Today we talk to a Pulmonologist who paid off nearly $300,000 of loans in less than 5 years. He shares that he initially operated under the ignorance is bliss mindset and opted to avoid worrying about his loans at all. Once he had a bit of a financial awakening, got married and started a family he realized he needed to get after the loans and take control of his financial life. He then made a goal to pay off his loans by age 40 and happened to accomplish that goal early. He shows that all it takes is a plan, and even if you get started a little late you can always become financially successful. Not only has he paid off his loans but he has also become a millionaire. His next goal is to reach financial independence by his mid 50s. After the interview we talk about how to pay for school for Finance 101. Southern Impression Homes takes owning rental property to the next level with their innovative 2.0 approach, focusing solely on turnkey new construction investment properties. Single family homes, duplexes and quads in high growth markets of Florida. They handle every aspect of the process with expertise and efficiency. Including financing, insurance, and property management. To learn more about build-to-rent, visit https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/southernimpressionhomes or call 904-831-8058! The White Coat Investor has been helping doctors, dentists, and other high-income professionals with their money since 2011. Our free personal finance resource covers an array of topics including how to use your retirement accounts, getting a doctor mortgage loan, how to manage your student loans, buying physician disability and malpractice insurance, asset allocation & asset location, how to invest in real estate, and so much more. We will help you learn how to manage your finances like a pro so you can stop worrying about money and start living your best life. If you're a high-income professional and ready to get a "fair shake" on Wall Street, The White Coat Investor is for you! Have you achieved a Milestone? You can be on the Milestones to Millionaire Podcast too! Apply here: https://whitecoatinvestor.com/milestones  Find 1000's of written articles on the blog: https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com  Our YouTube channel if you prefer watching videos to learn: https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/youtube  Student Loan Advice for all your student loan needs: https://studentloanadvice.com  Join the community on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewhitecoatinvestor  Join the community on Twitter: https://twitter.com/WCInvestor  Join the community on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewhitecoatinvestor  Join the community on Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/whitecoatinvestor  Learn faster with our Online Courses: https://whitecoatinvestor.teachable.com  Sign up for our Newsletter here: https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/free-monthly-newsletter  00:00 MtoM Podcast #240 02:28 Pulmonologist Pays Off Student Loans 15:14 Advice for Others 21:24 Paying for Your Kids' School

In this captivating episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty explores two remarkable stories that celebrate courage, creativity, and the power of trying new things. Listeners are treated to inspiring conversations with authors Alyssa Colman and Emily Raymond, who share their unique approaches to children's literature. Alyssa Colman's middle-grade novel "Where Only Storms Grow" transports readers to the challenging era of the Dust Bowl, offering a poignant look at family, hope, and resilience. Set in 1935, the book follows twins Howe and Joanna Stanton as they navigate the harsh realities of the Great Depression. Colman's meticulous research brings to life the devastating dust storms that reshaped American agriculture, creating a powerful narrative that teaches young readers about historical challenges and the importance of community. In a delightful contrast, Emily Raymond and her mother Gail Striegel present "Danny the Goat Does Not Like Pears," a charming picture book that explores the universal childhood experience of being afraid to try new things. Inspired by Emily's childhood memories of hiding vitamins, the book follows a goat who goes to extraordinary lengths to avoid eating pears, ultimately learning a valuable lesson about stepping out of one's comfort zone. Both stories share a common thread of hope, community, and personal growth. They demonstrate how children's literature can tackle complex themes in accessible, engaging ways. The authors discuss the importance of libraries as community spaces and the joy of connecting with young readers. For parents looking to spark meaningful conversations with their children, these books offer excellent starting points. Whether discussing historical resilience, overcoming food fears, or the importance of trying new experiences, these stories provide rich opportunities for family dialogue. This episode reminds us that great children's books are more than just entertainment—they're powerful tools for understanding the world, building empathy, and inspiring young minds to embrace challenges with courage and creativity.

This week, Ashley pops in solo to launch something new and fun for our community—the BIG Home Ed Book Club! Think bite-sized, practical reflections you can listen to on a walk, while folding laundry, or between activities. In this intro, Ashley: Shares why we're starting a book club now (hello accountability and actually finishing the gems on our shelves) Walks through the books on her current list and why they matter for home-educating families Explains how the series will work: short recaps, key takeaways, surprises, and who each book is best for—even if you don't read along! Books mentioned The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson — Next week's pick! The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt Untangled by Lisa Damour The Case for Make-Believe by Susan Linn Between by Sarah Ockwell-Smith Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings by Dr. Laura Markham The Read-Aloud Family by Sarah Mackenzie Let Them Be Kids by Jessica Smartt Raising Critical Thinkers by Julie Bogart What's next Read along: The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson Ashley will share a practical, no-fluff recap next week: big ideas, what surprised her, and how to apply it in real life Why this series will help Quick refreshers so the good stuff actually sticks Support for parents at different stages—from little years to tweens and teens Curated, relevant reads for UK home ed families (and beyond) Links Read-Aloud Revival: readaloudrevival.com (book lists, podcast, family book club) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram: @bighomeedpodcast Podcast page: www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast If you're new here This is a bonus mini-episode. For our usual conversations, start with earlier episodes to get a feel for our style and mission! In the mean time don't forget to: Subscribe so you don't miss the first book club review! Share this episode with a home ed friend who loves a good book stack! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help others find us!! Keywords: home education, homeschooling, book club, home ed resources, Durenda Wilson, The Four-Hour School Day, parenting books, tween parenting, read-alouds, Julie Bogart, UK home education

In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I dive into one of the greatest challenges facing parents today: raising kids in the digital age. Between iPhones, TikTok, YouTube, and even AI tools like ChatGPT, technology is moving at lightning speed—and as fathers, we can't afford to bury our heads in the sand.   I share three powerful strategies that will help you set the right boundaries for your kids without putting them in “tech prison.” From creating guardrails with apps like Bark, to implementing a family tech contract, to modeling discipline with our own devices, this episode is about protecting our kids while also preparing them to navigate the digital world with responsibility and confidence.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and today's focus on raising kids in the digital age [1:02] - Why technology is moving faster than parents can keep up [2:11] - Why this generation is the first to face AI, smartphones, and social media all at once [3:08] - Introducing Dad Edge Alliance and Boardroom Brotherhood for fathers [4:00] - Strategy #1: Set guardrails, not walls, around tech use [4:58] - The rookie mistake of limiting apps without realizing kids just switch platforms [6:12] - Workarounds kids use to bypass phone restrictions [7:05] - Why apps like Bark provide a real solution for parents [7:25] - Strategy #2: Create a family tech contract with clear boundaries and accountability [8:42] - Examples of contracts around bedtime, screen-free zones, and check-ins [8:59] - Strategy #3: Model discipline by living the same tech rules as your kids [9:56] - Why hypocrisy in tech rules undermines your authority [11:14] - Setting boundaries with work and modeling digital discipline at home [12:22] - The Bark app, Bark phone, and Bark watch explained [14:05] - Why I don't allow TikTok or YouTube for my younger kids [14:54] - The Bark watch for younger kids as a safe, affordable option [15:31] - Final recap of the three strategies for digital parenting [16:13] - Closing encouragement and link to resources     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Guardrails Beat Walls Complete restriction creates rebellion. Guardrails, not tech prisons, teach kids to manage technology responsibly while keeping them safe. 2. Apps Aren't Foolproof Kids can and will find workarounds. Relying only on built-in phone restrictions isn't enough—you need smarter tools like Bark to stay ahead. 3. Contracts Create Clarity A family tech contract sets clear expectations for screen time, apps, and accountability. Clarity prevents arguments and keeps kids accountable. 4. Model the Discipline You Preach If you tell your kids “no phones at dinner,” but you're scrolling, the rule collapses. Fathers must live the same digital discipline they demand. 5. Your Kids' Tech Is Your Business Phones, apps, and online behavior aren't private property for minors. Fathers must stay engaged, set boundaries, and protect their kids in the digital age.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Bark App & Devices (Protect your kids online): https://www.thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show Notes Page: https://www.thedadedge.com/1377 Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance (career-driven dads): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Boardroom (entrepreneurial dads): https://www.thedadedge.com/boardroom 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions     If this episode gave you clarity on parenting in the digital age, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising a generation of kids who are safe, confident, and prepared for a digital world.

Dive into a World of Wonder: Three Incredible Children's Books That Spark Imagination In this exciting episode of "Reading with Your Kids," host Jed Doherty explores three remarkable children's books that will captivate young readers and parents alike. First up is "Living Bridges" by Sandhya Acharya, a fascinating non-fiction picture book about an extraordinary engineering marvel in Meghalaya, India. These living bridges are created by carefully braiding tree roots, connecting communities across rivers in a breathtaking display of human ingenuity and nature's power. The book follows a young boy learning this incredible tradition from his uncle, teaching children about sustainability, community, and our connection to the natural world. Next, Namrata Jain introduces her Namaste series, a trilogy of books inspired by traditional Indian poetry called Dohas. Each book focuses on a different poet and teaches valuable life lessons through engaging stories. From Kabir Das's wisdom about not procrastinating to Tulsidas's insights on the power of kind words, these books are packed with timeless messages that resonate with both children and adults. Rounding out the episode is Madelyn Simon's "Poppy's Sweet Sibling Story," a delightful tale set in the Mungo Bungo jungle. This charming book follows two toucan siblings who learn the importance of trying new things and supporting each other. With vibrant illustrations and a heartwarming message about overcoming self-doubt, the book encourages children to embrace their potential. These books offer more than just entertainment—they're windows into different cultures, valuable life lessons, and the power of imagination. Whether you're looking to spark curiosity about global traditions, teach important values, or simply enjoy a great story, these books are sure to become family favorites. Parents and educators, get ready to embark on incredible reading adventures that will inspire, educate, and delight young minds!

Get ready for a heartwarming journey into children's literature with Ali Gilkeson, the New York Times bestselling author who's lighting up bookshelves everywhere! In this delightful episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with Ali to explore her latest children's book, "Keeping the Light." Following the success of her debut book "My Lighthouse," Ali returns with another enchanting tale featuring her young protagonist Finn. This time, Finn takes on the role of lighthouse keeper, learning a powerful lesson about judgment, kindness, and keeping hope alive for everyone - no matter who they are. Ali's transition from touring musician with Rend Collective to children's author is a testament to the magic of following your passion. She shares candid insights about balancing family life, creativity, and the challenges of life on the road. Her approach to writing is refreshingly inclusive - these books aren't just for Christian families, but for kids and families everywhere. The conversation takes delightful detours through Ali's Irish roots, the nostalgia of the 1980s, and the importance of intergenerational connections. Her storytelling goes beyond entertainment, offering meaningful lessons about self-discovery, community, and embracing one's unique magic. Parents and kids alike will love Ali's commitment to creating stories that spark imagination and teach important life lessons. But the literary magic doesn't stop there! The episode also features Maria O'Connor, an Australian author making her debut with "Magical Dreams and Sewing Machines." Maria's middle-grade novel offers a nostalgic peek into the 1980s, following 14-year-old Elena's journey of self-discovery through the lens of fashion and family. Drawing from her own experiences, Maria creates a touching narrative about finding one's inner magic and navigating the challenges of teenage life. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Lora Inak reads from ‘Elif's Itchy Palm', book one in her new junior fiction series ‘The Cockatoo Crew', illustrated by Kruti Desai.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

With the rate of divorce happening faster than it is for any other demographic, an increasing number of adults over 50 are navigating the uncharted waters of singlehood. It can be a challenging ride as they adjust after a so-called “Gray Divorce.” For some, it's a rough journey. Others cruise toward a new era of self-discovery and reinvention. But even under the best and most mutual of arrangements, it can be tough to keep things on an even keel.Host Betsy Allen dissects the aftermath of Gray Divorce with clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and author Dr. Judith Rabinor, including how to optimize chances for a positive way forward. You'll also hear from four older divorcees on the challenges they faced and the wisdom they gained from their experiences. This episode is the second of a two-part special on Gray Divorce presented by the Crow's Feet: Life As We Age podcast. If you'd like to hear Part I (Split Decision: Busting the Gray Divorce), you can listen here.For more information on Dr. Judith Rabinor, go to: judithruskayrabinorphd.com/Book: Befriending Your Ex After Divorce: Making Life Better For You, Your Kids, and, Yes, Your ExSupport the show

Primul episod din seria ParentED te introduce în lumea parentingului conștient, bazat pe cercetările lui Gordon Neufeld, Daniel Siegel și Gabor Maté. Diana și Bogdan Bălan, fondatorii ParentED Fest, dezvăluie cum teoria atașamentului poate transforma relația părinte-copil.DESPRE CE VEI ÎNVĂȚA:Cele 6 etape de atașament ale lui Gordon NeufeldDe ce cortexul prefrontal se maturizează abia la 25 de aniDiferența între a fi răspunsul copilului vs. a avea răspunsuriCum să pui limite sănătoase fără să rupi conexiuneaPrincipiul futilității: de la furie la tristețeSecretul "iubirii extravagante" fără răsfățINVITAȚI:- Diana Bălan, Master în Psihologie și Neuroștiința Sănătății Mintale (Kings College), Sleep Specialist.- Bogdan Bălan, Avocat devenit părinte conștient, co-fondator ParentED FestRESURSE MENȚIONATE:Gordon Neufeld, "Hold On to Your Kids"Daniel Siegel, Neuropsihiatru, cercetător în dezvoltarea cerebralăGabor Maté, Specialist în trauma și atașamentDr. Shefali, "Familia Fericită"PARENTED FEST 2025:4-5 Octombrie | parentedfest.roWorkshop cu Gordon Neufeld | Daniel Siegel în RomâniaCITATE CHEIE:"Parentingul nu e despre copil, e despre părinte""Nu poți să iubești prea mult un copil""Copilul trebuie să rămână vulnerabil pentru a păstra relația"Acest episod este creat în colaborare cu ParentED Fest și produs și distribuit cu susținerea LIDL.

Get ready for an incredible journey through children's literature that will inspire, educate, and warm your heart! In this episode of Reading with Your Kids, host Jed Doherty sits down with three remarkable authors who are changing the landscape of children's books one page at a time. First up is Wunneanatsu Lamb Cason, who shares the magical story behind "Grandmother Moon," a beautiful picture book that bridges generations and cultural understanding. Inspired by her own grandmother's teachings, Wunneanatsu creates a touching narrative that celebrates indigenous storytelling and the powerful bond between grandparents and grandchildren. Next, we dive into historical fiction with Darlene Campos and her middle-grade novel "The Center of the Earth." This eye-opening book explores the little-known story of Jewish refugees who found safety in Ecuador during the Holocaust. Campos brings history to life through the eyes of young characters, proving that children's literature can be both educational and deeply moving. Rounding out the episode is Jessica Marie, the creative mind behind the "Mess Monster" series. With humor and heart, Bell tackles relatable childhood experiences, showing kids that it's okay to be a little messy and imperfect. What makes this episode truly special is the authors' shared commitment to representation, empathy, and storytelling. They demonstrate how children's books can be powerful tools for understanding different cultures, experiences, and perspectives. Whether it's exploring indigenous traditions, uncovering hidden historical narratives, or simply making kids laugh, these authors prove that children's literature is about so much more than just entertainment. Parents, educators, and book lovers will walk away feeling inspired and excited about the incredible stories being told for young readers today. It's a reminder that every book is a potential window into another world, another experience, another way of understanding. So grab your kids, pick up a book, and get ready to explore, learn, and connect through the magic of storytelling! Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

Allison chats to debut author Kim Rackham about her delightful junior fiction verse novel ‘Hannah Backwards'. Plus Megan has two strong book recommendations – one for YA readers and one early learning educators.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Zana Fraillon reads from her new verse novel ‘Song Of A Thousand Seas'Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

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Today's guest, Jed Doherty is the host of the incredibly popular and award-winning podcast called Reading with Your Kids. Reading with Your Kids helps families grow closer through reading. The podcast was also an iHeartRadio Best Kids & Family Award Nominee. For over 35 years, Jed has also been delighting students and educators across the United States, the Caribbean and Central America. His one-man show blends amazing stage magic, laugh-out-loud comedy and heartfelt storytelling to create an unforgettable, message-driven experience for students in grades K–8.   Join Jed and I as we talk about his empowering podcast, and the positive reach it is having as well as his journey as a performer and creative. He is a master storyteller and a lot of fun to listen to. Not to mention a great guy!    --------- To learn more about today's guest Jed Doherty please visit: Website/Podcast: https://readingwithyourkids.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/magicjedlie/  -------- To learn more about host G. Brian Benson:   www.gbrianbenson.com http://www.friendlywordsnews.org/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/gbrianbenson Instagram: www.instagram.com/gbrianbenson Facebook: www.facebook.com/gbrianbensonmedia LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gbrianbenson/ Produced by Casey Jarombek ✌ Brought to you by Reawaken Media www.reawakenmedia.com 

When kids discover something they're passionate about, they tend to go all in and books are a great way to support that. Megan and Allison discuss how to find books about niche topics – and how to foster wider reading as well.Read the show notes for all book references at yourkidsnextread.com.au Connect with Allison, Megan and the Your Kid's Next Read Community on Facebook Visit allisontait.com | megandaley.com.au

Exclusive Deals For Reading With Your Kids Listeners! Visit www.zivo.life and use the promo code READ to get 30% off The Better Microalgae – your ultimate daily nutrient boost! Visit www.BigForkBrands.com and use the promo code READ to get 20% off the most delicious pork snacks ever. Visit www.CozyEarth.com and use the promo code READ to get an incredible 41% off their ultra cozy and comfy bedding. In this episode of “Reading with Your Kids,” we dive into the world of STEM picture books and musical adventures for children! The show kicks off with author Ashley Moseley and conservationist Dr. Michael Windelspecht, who chat about their collaborative books, “Nacho House Cat” and “Why Did the Tapir Cross the Street?” Ashley shares how her passion for working with kids and animal conservation inspired her stories, while Michael brings in his expertise from years of leading educational trips to Belize. Together, they explain how their books use fun stories and beautiful hand-painted illustrations to teach kids about jaguars, tapirs, and the importance of wildlife conservation—without overwhelming them with heavy science. There's even a fun classroom activity where kids draw jaguar spot patterns! Next up, we meet Steve Giddings from Prince Edward Island, Canada, who introduces his new children's book, “Mikey's New Friends.” Steve, a music educator and multi-instrumentalist, tells us about Mikey the microphone and his journey to find his place in a band. The story explores themes of friendship, teamwork, and embracing new experiences—plus, it's packed with musical fun! Steve shares how his own love of music and teaching inspired the series, and how he hopes it encourages kids to find their own creative paths, whether in traditional bands or rock groups. He also touches on the role of AI in music and writing, seeing it as a helpful tool when used ethically. The episode wraps up with a peek into life on Prince Edward Island, famous for Anne of Green Gables, stunning beaches, and a tight-knit community. Both segments highlight the joy of learning, creativity, and the power of stories to connect kids with the world around them. Click here to visit our website – www.ReadingWithYourKids.com Follow Us On Social Media Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/readingwithyourkids Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/readingwithyourkids/ X - https://x.com/jedliemagic LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/reading-with-your-kids-podcast/ Please consider leaving a review of this episode and the podcast on whatever app you are listening on, it really helps!

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Is your child's diet silently destroying their future? The truth about ultra-processed foods is shocking. In this powerful episode of the Savage Perspective Podcast, host Robert Sikes dives deep with nutrition expert Ali Miller to uncover how these foods are not just fueling obesity, but also affecting children's mental health, behavior, and learning. By replacing nutrient-empty processed snacks with whole, real foods, you can transform your child's health, development, and potential. From identifying “God foods” to decoding food labels, this episode is packed with practical tips to give your family the energy, focus, and resilience they deserve.Ready to take full control of your health and fitness? Join Robert's FREE Bodybuilding Masterclass today: https://www.ketobodybuilding.com/registration-2. Discover the tools you need to fuel your body, achieve your goals, and live the life you've imagined!Follow Ali on IG: https://www.instagram.com/alimillerrd/Get Keto Brick: https://www.ketobrick.com/Subscribe to the podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/42cjJssghqD01bdWBxRYEg?si=1XYKmPXmR4eKw2O9gGCEuQChapters:0:00 - The #1 Problem With Your Kid's Food 0:52 - She Wrote THE Book on Child Nutrition 1:59 - How She Turned a Client into a Business Partner 3:52 - The 5-Year Journey to Write This Book 5:55 - Why Kids NEED This More Than Ever 7:21 - Are We Getting Healthier or Sicker? 8:10 - The Truth About Your Child's Potential 9:22 - Parents Are Finally Saying NO to This 10:25 - The Horrifying Reality of Kids' Health Today 12:06 - The ONLY Food Rule That Matters 12:32 - What is "God Food"? 15:26 - Processed Food is WORSE Than You Think 16:23 - The First Healthy Swap EVERY Parent Should Make 17:07 - The Secret to Stable Moods & Behavior 18:13 - Should Your Kid Be KETO? 20:39 - How to Stop Toddler Meltdowns for Good 22:35 - We Recommend DOUBLE The Protein For Kids 24:41 - The Lie of "Neutral" Food Choices 25:54 - How to Handle Junk Food at School 27:34 - Will Healthy Eating Cause an Eating Disorder? 28:54 - She Was Bullied For Eating "Dog Food" 30:07 - The "Superhero" Method to Get Your Kids to Eat Healthy 32:03 - The Parenting Hack for Zero Pushback 34:04 - The ONE Thing That Changes Everything 36:45 - The Easiest Way to Get Your Kids to Help 37:30 - How to Reverse a "Junk Food" Palate 40:22 - The Food Industry is Rigged Against You 41:49 - What To Do When People Make Fun of Your Kid's Lunch 45:48 - The Challenge of Setting Food Boundaries 46:40 - The "God Food" Philosophy 49:54 - "I Don't Have Time to Cook Healthy Meals" 52:11 - The #1 Mistake Parents Make in the Kitchen 55:41 - How to Eat Healthy at Restaurants 59:24 - The TRUTH About Seed Oils 1:04:10 - What to do When You Accidentally Eat Bad Food 1:08:24 - Why Knowing Your Farmer is a Superpower 1:09:37 - Where to Get Ali Miller's New Book

This week I'm answering a question from a listener who'd like to know how to raise kids who won't resent your family rules or rebel against them. Is that even possible? Listen in on Episode 94 as we discuss what parents can do to reduce the risk of rebellion. Show Notes VERSES CITED: - Philippians 1:6 - "...he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." - 1 Corinthians 13:13 - “But now abide faith, hope, love, these three. But the greatest of these is love.”  - Hebrews 10:23 - “Let us hold fast to the confession of our hope without wavering....” - Hebrews 11:6 - “...without faith it is impossible to please God.” - 1 John 4:16 -  “God IS love.” - 1 John 4:19 - “We love because He first loved us.” - John 13:35 - “By this will all men know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” - Galatians 5:22 - "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness..." - Proverbs 3:11 - “...whom the LORD loves He reproves, even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.” - Proverbs 13:24 - “He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.”  - Deuteronomy 12:32 - “See that you do all I command you; do not add to it or take away from it.” - Proverbs 30:5-6 - “Do not add to His words, lest He rebuke you and prove you a liar.” - Revelation 2:18-19 - “...If anyone adds to them, God will add to him the plagues described in this book....” - John 2:1-11 - [story of Jesus turning water into wine at the marriage feast in Cana] - Ephesians 5:18 - "Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit." - James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all...." - Isaiah 40:11 - “He tends His flock like a shepherd ... He gently leads those that have young.” - Matthew 11:28 - “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” - Psalm 127:1-5 - “Unless the LORD builds the house, they who build it labor in vain...."  RELATED LINKS: - 50 Great Books to Read Aloud to Your Kids - 9 Benefits of Reading Fiction - Raising Kids Who Love to Read - A Few Favorite Board Games  - Praying for Yourself - Praying for Your Children - Praying for Your Teens - Praying for Your Adult Kids - Pancakes on the Porch (I will post link soon) - How Our Family Flew to Europe for Free STAY CONNECTED: Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website  

Kris Dehnert, he is the owner of Dugout Mugs, Bigg Golf, and Dehnert Media, and has been a digital entrepreneur since 2006 where he leveraged the power of a "new site" called Facebook to revolutionize the gym industry. Since then, he boasts over $70M in online sales, is a 3 time Inc. 5000 finalist, made the cover of Tampa Bay Business and Wealth Magazine, been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur Fast 50. Seen on CBS Morning, FOX & Friends, World News Tonight & Good Morning America!Highlight Bullets> Here's a glimpse of what you would learn…. Kris Dehnert's entrepreneurial journey and background in digital marketing.The significance of understanding and defining the target customer base.Strategies for building a loyal customer base and community engagement.The importance of creativity in product development and innovation.Effective marketing strategies, including the use of tripwires and upsells.Leveraging technology and tools for customer relationship management and marketing.The role of data segmentation in understanding customer behavior and preferences.Insights on collaboration and partnerships within the e-commerce space.The impact of perspective on business decisions and personal fulfillment.Emphasizing long-term vision and happiness in entrepreneurship.In this episode of the Ecomm Breakthrough Podcast, host Josh Hadley engages with Kris Dehnert, CEO of Dugout Mugs. Kris shares his journey from digital marketing to achieving over $70 million in online sales. He emphasizes the importance of understanding your core customer, nurturing relationships, and leveraging innovative marketing strategies. Kris discusses building a loyal customer base, effective use of technology, and creative product development. He also highlights the significance of long-term vision and personal fulfillment in entrepreneurship. This episode offers valuable insights for 6-7 figure business owners aiming to scale to 8 figures and beyond.Here are the 3 action items that Josh identified from this episode:Deeply Understand Your Customers to Drive SalesConduct regular surveys and analyze customer data to identify purchase patterns and unmet needs.Segment your audience based on demographics and behavior to personalize marketing efforts.Implement tripwire offers and upsells to maximize customer lifetime value.Leverage Innovation and Collaboration for GrowthContinuously seek customer feedback to improve and expand product offerings.Partner with complementary brands and explore affiliate marketing to lower customer acquisition costs.Test new product ideas on a small scale, iterate based on feedback, and scale successful innovations.Prioritize Long-Term Vision and Work-Life BalanceSet long-term business goals that align with your values and contribute to personal fulfillment.Balance daily tasks between immediate revenue generation and future growth initiatives.Focus on creating meaningful relationships with customers and partners to sustain long-term success.Resources mentioned in this episode:Here are the mentions with timestamps arranged by topic:Ecomm BreakthroughJosh Hadley on LinkedIneComm Breakthrough YouTubeeComm Breakthrough ConsultingeComm Breakthrough PodcastEmail Josh Hadley: Josh@eCommBreakthrough.comAmazonTeespringShopifySurveyMonkeyFacebookKlaviyoGo High LevelYotpoEmotiveShopify CollectiveClaudeChatGPTDugout MugsLinkedInThe SandlotThe Four Hour Workweek by Tim FerrissStart With Why by Simon SinekThe One Thing by Gary KellerHold On to Your Kids by Gordon NeufeldStrong Father, Strong Daughter by Meg MeekerGary Vaynerchuk (Gary Vee)Special Mention(s):Adam “Heist” Runquist on LinkedInKevin King on LinkedInMichael E. Gerber on LinkedInRelated Episode(s):“Cracking the Amazon Code: Learn From Adam Heist's Brand Scaling Secrets” on the eComm Breakthrough Podcast“Kevin King's Wicked-Smart Tips for Building an Audience of Raving Fans” on the eComm Breakthrough Podcast“Unlocking Entrepreneurial Greatness | Insider Secrets With E-myth Author Michael Gerber” on ...

Parenting often means walking a fine line between setting boundaries and showing warmth, all while managing your own feelings in the process. In this episode of Psychologists Off the Clock, Emily chats with Dr. Alissa Jerud about her book Emotion-Savvy Parenting and how recognizing and working with both your emotions and your child's can build stronger connections and a calmer home life.Dr. Jerud shares her approach, Emotion Savvy Parenting, which draws from evidence-based methods such as exposure-based treatments and dialectical behavior therapy skills. She breaks down what makes up our emotional experiences, offers tools like the CARE skills for navigating intense situations, and explores topics such as the limits of gentle parenting, why mid-meltdown logic usually falls flat, and how differing parenting styles between caregivers can create challenges.Listen and Learn: How can parents respond skillfully and effectively to their children while managing their own strong and uncomfortable emotions?Combining respectful parenting and evidence-based therapies to help parents manage their own emotions, maintain firm limits, and model emotional regulation for their childrenThe ways parents navigate the gray areas and overlaps between gentle parenting and autonomy-supportive parenting while avoiding the black-and-white thinking often seen on social mediaParents often step in to fix their child's struggles, but noticing and accepting their emotions and behaviors as they are can help children build resilience and support more effective parentingThe primary and secondary ingredients of emotions, their triggers, how thoughts shape them, and how they show up physically and behaviorally, help parents regulate their own emotions by targeting these different aspects of feelingsQuick, practical ways to manage intense emotions by regulating the body's physiological responseWhy rigid beliefs that children must always obey can create frustration and disconnect, while accepting their emotions and allowing authentic expression supports both kids' and parents' emotional well-beingThe importance of accepting and validating a child's emotions during emotional storms rather than trying to immediately fix or suppress themRecognizing that each child's emotional needs are unique, and effective parenting often means staying present and supportive without trying to immediately fix or validate the emotionResources: Alissa's Website: https://www.alissajerud.com/ Emotion-Savvy Parenting: A Shame-Free Guide to Navigating Emotional Storms and Deepening Connection: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9781032544946 Connect with Alissa on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/emotionsavvydoc/?hl=enhttps://www.facebook.com/emotionsavvydoc/https://www.linkedin.com/in/alissa-jerud-210764174 Emily's Articles:What's Wrong with Gentle Parenting? Psychology TodayThe Truth About Parents Who Yell at Their Kids, Psychology TodayAbout Alissa JerudAlissa Jerud, Ph.D. is a mom of two kids, a licensed clinical psychologist, a Clinical Assistant Professor at the University of Pennsylvania, and author of Emotion-Savvy Parenting: A Shame-Free Guide to Navigating Emotional Storms and Deepening Connection. She has a Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University of Washington and completed her postdoctoral fellowship at the University of Pennsylvania's Center for the Treatment and Study of Anxiety. In her private practice, Dr. Jerud specializes in exposure-based treatments for anxiety-related disorders, including obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), social anxiety disorder, panic disorder, specific phobias, and generalized anxiety disorder. Additionally, she specializes in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills training and particularly enjoys helping other parents learn research-backed strategies for accepting, regulating, and tolerating their emotions, as well as their children's. Dr. Jerud also trains other clinicians in exposure-based treatments and frequently gives workshops on anxiety, stress, mental health, parenting, and social support to companies large and small.Related Episodes386. Parents Are Stressed: What Do We Do About It? 373. How to Stop Freaking Out with Carla Naumburg344. Differently Wired Kids with Deborah Reber241. Emotion Coaching Skills for Families with Mindy Solomon240. Talking to Kids and Teens About Big Feelings with Adele LaFrance149. How to Not Lose It with Your Kids with Carla Naumburg14. Mindful Parenting9. Children's Emotions: Understanding and Responding to Your Child's EmotionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I had never heard of Erin Moriarity before she contacted me about having a conversation with her on “Erin Talks Money.” When I visited her Youtube channel I immediately realized what a powerhouse she is. She has over 200,000 subscribers to her Youtube channel and her videos are terrific. She has over 800 videos on topics most young investors or beginners at any age need to see. 36 videos on budgeting, 133 on retirement, and much more. Recently she started interviewing old experienced “experts." Her first two guest interviews were Ed Scott and Bill Bengen. I felt honored to be a part of a team who want to help teach her followers. Plus, if you read the comments on the YouTube video it's obvious she has a large group of loyal followers. By the way, her followers made me feel very welcome."Erin, that was an absolute Masterclass in investing! Thanks for bring Paul to your channel. I enjoyed seeing how comfortable you and the guest were and how the conversation naturally flowed between topics. I'm going to make sure my kids view this. Advice and insights for LIFE!""Excellent video, Erin! How do we know Erin is a force in investing advice? Look at the people she's had on her channel! I'm thankful to Erin not only for the great advice, but she is someone I can show my daughters, ages 21 and 25, and go "Look at Erin. If she can invest and make good choices w her money, so can you!". This means the world to me for them to see someone they can relate to, who disseminates complicated ideas and concepts in an understandable way. And BTW, I confirmed I'm subscribed to her channel “0:00 Introduction & Meet Paul Merriman 2:14 The Power of Starting Early (For You & Your Kids) 7:14 100% Equities for Young Investors & Avoiding Overexposure to the S&P 500 14:02 Predicting Future Returns, Compounding & Patience 22:27 Market Cycles, Psychology & Preparing for Bad Times 25:12 Choosing the Right Portfolio Complexity (Levels 1–3) 34:08 Traditional vs. Non-Traditional Index Funds & Vanguard Loyalty 41:34 Why We Own the Whole Market & The Case for 60/40 46:19 Staying the Course, Chasing Returns & Capturing Extra Gains 57:00 How Investing Has Changed & Automatic Enrollment Benefits 1:01:45 Knowing When You Have Enough & The Rise of Hourly Advisors 1:08:44 The 3 Things Every DIY Investor Should Do & Closing ThoughtsWatch the video here

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