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Co-regulation is one of the most powerful tools we have to help children learn how to manage emotions, but many parents wonder: Am I even doing it right? When your own emotions feel overwhelming and your child's emotions are spilling over, it can be hard to know if what you're doing is helping.In this episode, I break down the signs you're co-regulating effectively—and the red flags that mean you're missing the mark. By the end, you'll know how to create more emotional safety for your child, model healthy coping strategies, and begin to calm the brain first so that both self regulation and connection grow stronger, even in moments of emotional dysregulation.How do I know if co-regulation is actually working?When you're practicing co-regulation, look for these green lights:You pause before reacting—even if you're still triggered inside. That moment of not reacting right away wires calm into your nervous system and models it for your child.Your child returns to baseline faster. Meltdowns don't magically disappear, but recovery time shortens when your child feels emotional support.You're less reactive and more present. Instead of personalizing your child's behavior, you can stay grounded and focus on connection.These are powerful signs you're co-regulating right, even if the journey is messy. Remember: behavior is communication, not misbehavior.Why does my child stay upset for so long?Parents often worry: Why can't my child just “get over it”? The truth is, dysregulated kids get stuck in stress responses.When co-regulation is working, you'll notice:Less escalation over time—strong emotions are still there, but the intensity fades faster.More trust and closeness after difficult moments. Your child feels safe knowing you didn't “hold it against them.”Children begin to use their own words and tools. Over time, kids copy what you model: deep breathing, naming feelings, and even humor.Emotional regulation isn't instant. It's about progress, not perfection.Am I making mistakes with co-regulation?Yes—every parent does. The key is knowing what might get in the way:Performing calm instead of being calm. If you're smiling on the outside but resentful or tense inside, kids feel it in your body language, tone, and facial expressions.Rushing to fix emotions. Instead of shutting down your child's big feelings, ride the wave with them. That's how children learn self-regulation skills and trust that emotions aren't life-threatening.If irritation or anger doesn't ease over time, it may be a sign to get extra support for your own stress responses.Yelling less and staying calm isn't about being perfect—it's about having the right tools.Join the Dysregulation Insider VIP list and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit, designed to help you handle oppositional behaviors without losing it.Download it now at www.drroseann.com/newsletterWhat helps me co-regulate more effectively?Parents can build co-regulation strategies into daily life by checking in with their own emotional states first. Try:Slow, deep breathing before approaching your child.Body scans—ask yourself, Where am I tense? Can I soften this?Eye contact and active listening to show emotional support.Repair after tough moments—apologies and reconnection are powerful tools for healthy...

Parenting a child who doesn't respond to sticker charts, time-outs, or threats can feel defeating. You've tried rewards, consequences, and everything in between—and still the meltdowns, backtalk, and battles keep happening. You're not alone.In this episode, I explain why rewards and consequences don't land for dysregulated kids and what you can do instead. You'll learn the brain science behind why your child can't connect actions to outcomes in meltdown mode, plus practical strategies to shift from frustration to regulation.Why don't rewards and consequences work for my child?Many parents wonder why their child's behavior doesn't change despite sticker charts, time out, or taking away toys. The truth is:A dysregulated brain can't learn. When kids are in survival mode, their emotional brain takes over and logic shuts down.Rewards only stick when the brain is calm. Extrinsic rewards like tangible rewards or material rewards can't replace intrinsic motivation.Consequences may backfire. Punishment often increases frustration, lowers a child's self-esteem, and damages connection.It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Let's calm the brain first so your child can actually absorb lessons and develop lasting skills.How do I respond when my child's behavior feels out of control?When your child's actions push every button you have, it's tempting to react with harsher discipline. But behavior is communication, and what looks like “bad behavior” is often a stress response.Here's what helps instead:Pause before reacting. Ask yourself: “Is my child regulated enough for this to land?”Co-regulate first. A calm presence, gentle tone, and predictable routines teach safe and appropriate behavior more than threats ever will.Connection before correction. When your child feels seen and safe, they're far more likely to return to positive behaviors.This shift helps your child learn that they're not a “bad kid,” but a person developing the ability to manage emotions and actions.Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.What can I do to actually teach my child positive behaviors?Kids don't learn self-control through punishment—they learn through practice in everyday life when they're calm.Model regulation. Show how adults handle frustration with empathy and consistency.Teach in calm moments. Coping skills, flexibility, and problem-solving only stick when your child is regulated.Use natural consequences. These are more effective than arbitrary punishments because they're tied to specific behaviors.For example, if your child forgets homework, the natural consequence is explaining to their teacher—not losing screen time.Encourage effort, not just results. Praise hard work, practice, and small successes to build a child's self-esteem and intrinsic motivation.Remember, positive reinforcement doesn't mean bribery—it means helping your child connect actions to outcomes in a way that builds confidence and responsibility.Want real tools that actually work in the heat of a meltdown? Inside

When a child feels overwhelmed, their autonomic nervous system kicks into a stress response. Logic shuts down, emotional regulation goes offline, and no punishment in the world can teach better behavior in that moment. That's why we have to calm the brain first. When we do, co-regulation creates emotional resilience, nurtures healthy relationships, and supports lasting nervous system regulation—for our kids and for us.In this episode, I share why nervous system co-regulation beats consequences every time and how you can begin using simple, practical strategies to help your child move from survival mode into a calmer, more regulated state.Why don't consequences work when my child is dysregulated?When kids are in meltdown mode, their autonomic nervous system is in fight-flight-freeze. Logic and reasoning are shut down.Punishment adds shame and fear—which makes behavior worse, not better.A stressed brain can't learn. The sympathetic nervous system is in survival mode.Regulation must come before correction. Calm brains are the only brains that can take feedback.Behavior is communication. If your child is screaming, throwing things, or shutting down, it's their nervous system saying, “I feel unsafe.”How can I calm my child's brain when they're overwhelmed?Co-regulation begins with your nervous system. You can't expect a child to self-regulate if you're dysregulated too.Anchor yourself first: use deep breaths, a soft tone, or grounding mantras.Offer presence over words. Sometimes just eye contact, gentle rhythm, or physical closeness (like deep pressure hugs) communicates safety.Avoid escalating threats. Instead of, “You're losing your tablet all week,” try, “I see you're overwhelmed. Let's breathe together.”Use environmental signals. Soft voice, calm body language, and steady breathing send cues of safety to your child's nervous system.Co-regulating teaches children over time that they can move from dysregulation to calm with supportive relationships.Want a calmer home in just one week? Try Quick Calm—your 7-day reset designed to help busy parents raise a more regulated child.What does nervous system co-regulation look like in real life?Parents often ask, “But what do I do when the meltdown starts?” Here's what it looks like in daily life:Less talking, more being. Put down the lecture until your child reaches a regulated state.Mirror calm. Your facial expressions and body language send powerful signals through mirror neurons.Stay nearby. Instead of sending your child away (“Go calm down in your room”), model calm by staying present.Shift from red to yellow to green. Once they move out of the red zone of survival mode, you can use words to guide them back to balance.These small but profound effects build emotional connection and nurturing relationships—the foundation for healthy child development.You don't have to figure this out alone.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Pushes Your Buttons and Stop Oppositional Behaviors.Head to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and start your calm parenting journey today.How can co-regulation help me as a...

Leaving the house, turning off the tablet, starting homework—why does something so small spark such big meltdowns? If you're exhausted from what feels like Groundhog's Day every morning, afternoon, and bedtime, you're not alone.Here's the truth: it's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. And once you understand the real reason transitions are so hard for your child, you can begin shifting from constant battles to calmer, smoother days.In this episode, I explain the brain science behind transition struggles, why many children fight tooth and nail against even non-preferred activities, and practical steps you can use to make transitions easier at home, school, or even heading to dance class.Why does my child melt down during transition time?Many parents are shocked by how strongly their kids react when asked to switch from one activity to another. But the root cause isn't stubbornness—it's biology.During transition time, the brain has to “shift gears.” For a dysregulated child, this is exhausting and overwhelming.The brain's CEO (prefrontal cortex) goes offline under stress, making switching tasks harder.Kids with ADHD, anxiety, or sensory sensitivities struggle more because flexibility takes extra energy.Triggers like hunger, fatigue, and sensory overload often go unnoticed but make transitions harder.Behavior is communication. When your child melts down at the moment of change, they're really saying, “This is too much for me right now.”What are the hidden triggers that make transitions harder?One mom reported that mornings before school felt like a war zone. Her son ended up in tears on the floor while the family scrambled to get him out the door. Sound familiar?Here are the triggers many parents miss:Unpredictable routines – Sudden schedule shifts cause anxiety.Demands that feel rushed or critical – Even a few minutes earlier than expected can trigger stress.Overstimulation from screens – Coming off the computer or tablet without a reset makes kids crash.Emotional load – Stress at home (like divorce or conflict) amplifies reactivity.Think of yourself as a dysregulation detective. Instead of asking, “Why won't they just listen?” ask, “What's the root cause of this reaction?”If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works…Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment.Become an Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and take the first step to a calmer home.How can I make transitions easier for my child?Good news: with a few practical steps, you can shift from chaos to calm. These small adjustments work whether it's bedtime, leaving the house, or starting a non-preferred activity like homework.Preview and prepare – Give 5-minute warnings with visual timers. Kids need predictability.Co-regulate first – Let's calm the brain first. Sit together, breathe, squeeze a hand, or offer water. Your calmness teaches their nervous system safety.Build in micro resets – A stretch, a sip of water, or movement helps kids reset between activities.Offer limited choices – “Do you want to walk or skip to the car?” reduces resistance while giving healthy control.Practice when calm – Rehearse routines during low-stress moments. Like a learning curve in gymnastics class, repetition builds new brain...

Some days it feels like your child's big emotions are just too much—and your own stress boils over too. You're not failing as a parent. What's happening is called co-dysregulation—two nervous systems stuck in survival mode together.This episode matters because when kids struggle to regulate emotions, they rely on your calming presence to learn how to do it. When you practice co-regulation parenting, you're not just stopping meltdowns—you're teaching your child lifelong emotional skills for resilience and self regulation.In this episode, you'll learn:What co regulation really means (and what it isn't)Why kids mirror your nervous system—even without wordsPractical ways to pause, reset, and co regulate in difficult momentsWhy does my child's meltdown make me lose it too?When your child is in distress, your nervous system naturally reacts. This can feel overwhelming, especially if you weren't modeled healthy emotional regulation growing up.It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Your child's cues trigger your own stress responses.Mirror neurons mean your child learns to regulate emotions by watching you.Chronic stress, fatigue, and past trauma can intensify your reaction.Staying calm doesn't come naturally—it's a skill you practice over time, not perfection.When your child is dysregulated, it's easy to feel helpless.The Regulation Rescue Kit gives you the scripts and strategies you need to stay grounded and in control.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and get your free kit today.How can I stay calm when my child has big emotions?Your child learns best when you co-regulate in the moment. Instead of reacting, you anchor their storm with your calm.Pause before reacting. Take a deep breath, unclench your jaw, soften your facial expressions.Name what's happening. Try phrases like, “I see you're having a hard time. I'm here for you.”Offer gentle structure. Calm tone, clear expectations, and consistent limits help children feel safe.Practice self care. You can't be a calming presence if you're running on empty.Parent Tip: Kids don't just “catch” calm—they learn it through your regulated presence.Want proven tools to stop meltdowns before they spiral? Quick Calm gives you step-by-step strategies to help your child reset their brain and bring calm back into your home.What are examples of co-regulation strategies I can use today?Co-regulation parenting isn't about rescuing or fixing—it's about providing structure and emotional support during tough moments.Slow breathing together. Invite your child to take deep breaths with you.Grounding through touch. A gentle touch or steady eye contact signals safety.Model naming emotions. Say, “I feel frustrated, so I'm taking a deep breath.”Practice in calm times. Just like athletes train before the big game, kids benefit from practicing coping strategies when things are calm.Remember: A supportive environment helps children develop new skills for handling intense emotions.What if my child never seems to calm down?When children stay stuck in dysregulation, it can feel hopeless. But research suggests that consistent co-regulation...

You hold it together all day at work, only to walk in the door and snap at the first person you see. Sound familiar? That's exactly what your child is experiencing when they come home from school—and you're not alone in wondering what on earth is happening.After-school restraint collapse is real. Many parents feel overwhelmed when their child holds it together for teachers, only to unravel at home. In this episode, I explain why this happens and share practical steps so you can help your child regulate, reset, and reconnect after a long day.Why does my child melt down after school?What looks like defiance or disrespect is really your child's nervous system waving the white flag. After a long school day filled with demands, noise, and social stress, many kids come home emotionally depleted.It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Your child held it together in class, but once they feel safe at home, the emotional floodgates open. This isn't rebellion—it's release.Here's what's really happening behind those after-school meltdowns:Kids mask stress at school and let it out at home where it feels safe.Common triggers include: sensory overload, skipped meals, transitions, and sheer fatigue.Behavior is communication. Tears, shutdowns, or outbursts signal that your child's nervous system needs recovery—not punishment.When parents reframe restraint collapse as a call for regulation, it shifts everything.

Parenting a dysregulated child can leave you drained and second-guessing yourself. You try connecting, you set boundaries—yet the meltdowns, backtalk, and big emotions just don't stop. But here's the truth: it's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. And there is a way forward.In this episode, I'll introduce Regulation First Parenting—a practical, science-backed approach that helps children calm their nervous systems so connection and teaching can actually stick. You'll learn why traditional parenting advice often backfires, how co-regulation works, and what steps you can take today to bring more peace into your home.Why does my child melt down after school even when I try to connect?Many parents wonder, “Why does my child explode the minute they walk through the door?” You're not imagining it. When kids are running on stress responses, connection without regulation falls flat. Their nervous system is in survival mode, and even the kindest validation can unintentionally make anxiety and distress worse.That's why regulation has to come first. Until the brain is calm, your child simply can't access learning, connection, or even your love in the way you want them to.Regulation comes before connection. A dysregulated brain can't learn or fully receive your love and guidance.Gentle parenting without boundaries fuels dysregulation. Endless empathy without calm structure leaves kids feeling more overwhelmed.Behavior is communication. Every meltdown is your child's nervous system saying, “I need support, not punishment.”When you shift to this Regulation First Parenting mindset, you stop spinning your wheels and begin giving your child the calm foundation they need to eventually learn self regulation skills, emotional awareness, and positive outcomes.Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.How can I help my child regulate their emotions in difficult moments?Your child's nervous system syncs with yours through co-regulation. When you stay calm, they can borrow your calm.Over time, this builds their ability to self regulate.Tips for practicing co regulation:Model calm stress responses. Use deep breathing, softer facial expressions, or a gentle rhythm in your voice.Pause before reacting. Even a few seconds of self reflection helps you manage your own triggers.Practice mindfulness. A deep breath or butterfly tapping resets your body so you can respond instead of react.Use the traffic light model. Using this model helps parents feel less overwhelmed because it gives you a clear roadmap for when to pause, when to support, and when to guide your child's behavior.Red = stop talking. When your child is in full meltdown, their brain is in survival mode. This is the time to focus on your own calm, not correction.Yellow = stress is lowering. As their body begins to settle, your co-regulation helps them feel safe enough to start regaining control.Green = learning can happen. Once calm returns, your child's prefrontal cortex is back online. This is when connection and teaching finally stick.Why do discipline and sticker charts...

Parenting a child in emotional pain is exhausting — you're not imagining it. You're not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Erin Kerry, where we dig into a woman's experience of misdiagnosis, heavy psychiatric medication, and the healing path she found beyond labels.Why this matters: Too often medication is the first line of defense for children and adolescents. Erin's story shows how medical history, toxins, infections, and trauma can masquerade as psychiatric disorders — and why a comprehensive treatment plan matters for your child's life and daily functioning.What you'll learn: signs that behavior may be nervous-system driven, real risks of early psychotropic medication (including selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), when to seek second opinions, and alternatives that helped Erin recover.Why does my child have sudden mood swings — could it be bipolar or something else?Look beyond labels. Sudden shifts can come from infections, toxin exposure, PTSD, or PANS/PANDAS as well as bipolar disorder. It's scary when your child seems ‘possessed' or out of control.Takeaway: Ask about medical triggers (ear infections, mold, immune issues) before assuming a lifelong psychiatric diagnosis.Parent Tip: Request a full medical review from your child's doctor and consider immune or toxin screening.You don't have to figure this out alone.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Pushes Your Buttons and Stop Oppositional Behaviors.Head to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and start your calm parenting journey today.How risky is starting antidepressants or other psychiatric medication for kids?When it comes to childhood mental health medication, it's important for parents to know the meds. While SSRIs and other prescriptions can be helpful, in adolescents they may sometimes increase the risk of depression or self-harm.Erin shared how her own child worsened after starting Zoloft, later being prescribed heavy drugs like Depakote, lithium, and Seroquel. The experience was devastating for her family and highlights why medication isn't always the right first step.Parents should always weigh the risks, monitor mood closely, and insist on a clear treatment plan with ongoing follow-up.Parent tips for navigating childhood mental health medication:Get informed about side effects, drug interactions, and dosage.Ask for the lowest effective dose.Request frequent reassessments and clear communication from providers.How can I help my child without making medication the first move?When considering childhood mental health medication, it's essential to start with nervous-system care. Let's calm the brain first by looking at foundational areas like sleep, gut and immune health, trauma processing, and classroom accommodations before jumping straight to pills. Addressing these whole-child needs often creates meaningful progress without immediately turning to medication.Key takeaway: Behavior is communication. By addressing the medical, nutritional, emotional, and environmental factors, you support true healing instead of just managing symptoms.Parent tip: Try a multi-disciplinary team for the best results. This may include:A pediatrician for medical oversightChild psychiatrists for second opinionsTherapists for emotional support and trauma processingSchool staff to provide classroom accommodationsWhen should I...

Parenting feels harder than ever, and I want you to know—you're not imagining it.As a mom and as someone who works with so many parents every day, I see how the mental load of modern parenting leaves us feeling exhausted, guilty, and overwhelmed. It's not bad parenting—it's our dysregulated brains trying to manage family life in an overstimulating world.In this episode, I'm unpacking why parenting feels so hard right now and what's really driving the stress so many of us carry. From screen time to isolation to the unrealistic standards placed on mothers and fathers today, I'll show you how these hidden stressors impact both you and your child.Most importantly, I'll share simple, calming strategies to reset your nervous system so you can parent with more patience, joy, and confidence.Why does parenting feel so hard right now?I hear this question from so many parents, and the truth is, modern parenting carries a mental load that previous generations didn't face. You're not failing—it's the world we're raising kids in today.Here's why parenting feels so heavy:Double-edged sword of screens: Helpful for quiet moments, but dysregulating for both adults and kids.Isolation from community: Unlike a generation ago, many parents don't have neighbors, friends, or family to lean on.Unrealistic standards: Contradictory advice, social media pressure, and guilt about not doing “enough.”Sandwich generation stress: Working parents juggling their own children, younger siblings, and even aging parents.Parenting today can feel like a full-time job without a break. And when your nervous system is stuck in survival mode, it's harder to stay patient, present, and consistent.Why do I lose my patience with my child so quickly?When raising children today, it's no wonder your nervous system slips into survival mode. Even the most loving parent can snap—it doesn't mean you're failing. It means your brain is overwhelmed.Here's what happens inside your brain:Stress hormones flood your system with cortisol and adrenaline.Executive functioning shuts down, so calm responses feel impossible.Your child's dysregulation mirrors back, and their meltdown triggers yours.The truth? A dysregulated brain can't parent a dysregulated child. Whether you're navigating small children, a baby, or even young adults, the reason parenting feels so exhausting often comes back to your nervous system.Giving yourself moments of quality time and noticing when you're feeling overwhelmed is the first step to calm—for you and your child.

When your child's nervous system is stuck in fight, flight, or freeze, even minor frustrations can trigger explosive outbursts, shutdowns, or runaway behavior. It isn't disobedience—it's the autonomic nervous system in survival mode.Let us unpack why kids get trapped in these stress responses and how calming the brain first restores safety, regulation, and connection.Why does my child melt down after minor frustrations?When your child yells, slams doors, or shuts down over something small, it's not misbehavior—it's a stress response. Their sympathetic nervous system is in overdrive, pumping out stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline.Signs your child's nervous system is stuck in fight, flight, or freeze:Frequent emotional meltdowns and explosive outburstsOverreaction to minor frustrations with big emotionsNeeds 20–30 minutes (or more) to return to calmMood changes, poor focus, and low energy that linger afterwardBehavior is communication. What looks like defiance is really your child's nervous system waving a red flag for help.What does fight, flight, freeze, or fawn look like in kids?Kids react to stress in different ways, but all of these behaviors come from the same alarm system in the nervous system.Fight: yelling, arguing, aggression, lashing outFlight response: running away, hiding, avoiding tasksFreeze response: zoning out, poor concentration, blank stares, silenceFawn: perfectionism, hypervigilance, people-pleasing (often missed)These are autonomic survival responses—not bad choices.

When your child's emotions spiral into a meltdown, it can feel like everything in family life stops. The crying, yelling, or tantrum behavior takes over—and no amount of reasoning or sticker charts seems to help. You're not alone.The truth is, those first 60 seconds of any child meltdown make a huge difference. Whether it's toddler tantrums at nap time, an upset older child after school, or an autistic child overwhelmed by sensory overload, how you respond sets the tone.In this episode, I share three science-backed steps to help you stay calm, reduce power struggles, and guide your child back to calm behavior.Why does my child's meltdown get worse when I try to talk them down?When your child is having an emotional meltdown, it's natural to jump in with explanations, logic, or questions like “Why are you acting this way?” But here's the important point: over-talking adds fuel to the fire.Say less. Too many words overwhelm an upset child.Use a calm voice. A simple phrase like “I'm here. You're safe.” can be incredibly helpful.Silence is powerful. Sometimes a quiet spot and nonverbal reassurance calm behavior faster than talking.It makes sense—when your brain is in survival mode, logic can't land. A child's tantrums are communication, not misbehavior.What should I do first when my child is melting down?When your child is in the middle of an emotional meltdown, it's instinct to explain, reason, or ask “Why are you acting this way?” But here's the important point: over-talking makes tantrum behavior worse.Say less. Too many words overwhelm an upset child's emotions.Use a calm voice. A short phrase like “I'm here. You're safe.” helps your child calm faster.Silence works. Sometimes a quiet spot and steady body language soothe toddler tantrums, an older child's strong emotions, or even an autistic child facing sensory overload.When the brain is in survival mode, logic can't land. Behavior is communication—not misbehavior.How can I comfort my child without making things worse?You can't force emotional regulation—but you can model it. Co-regulation is how kids learn coping skills and positive behavior.Offer presence, not pressure. Sit nearby without hovering or demanding.Mind your body language. Get down on your child's level—kneel with younger kids or sit near an older child.Use gentle gestures. If it feels safe, a light touch on the back or shoulder can help an upset child calm.Think of it as creating a safe space where your child—whether a toddler in a tantrum, an older child with big emotions, or an autistic child in sensory overload—can borrow your calm until they find their own self-control.Yelling less and staying calm isn't about being perfect—it's about having the right tools.Join the Dysregulation Insider VIP list and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit, designed to help you handle oppositional behaviors without losing it.Download it now at www.drroseann.com/newsletterWhy does this approach work for both younger kids and older kids?These steps aren't random tips—they're grounded in child development and neuroscience.Polyvagal theory shows that calm cues shift the brain out of fight-or-flight.Mirror neurons explain why kids copy...

Parenting a child who melts down, shuts down, or pushes you away is exhausting—I know because I hear it from parents every day. You've tried sticker charts, consequences, rewards, and still your child's behavior problems keep coming back. In this episode, I'm sharing why waiting for your child's struggles to get “bad enough” is a dangerous mistake. You'll learn how to spot the early warning signs of child behavior problems, why early intervention matters, and the practical steps you can take right now to calm your child's brain and strengthen your parent-child relationship.Why do professionals tell me to “wait and see” with my child's behavior problems?I hear this all the time from parents—someone told them their child would “grow out of it.” But waiting often delays the help your child really needs.“Wait and see” is outdated advice. It often comes from well-meaning pediatricians, teachers, or family members.Delays lead to missed diagnoses like autism spectrum disorders, oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).Early intervention is never wasted. Parents regret waiting, not acting.Behavior is communication. When your child struggles, it's their nervous system asking for support.It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Let's calm the brain first.What happens if I wait until my child's behavior collapses?When parents wait for rock bottom, the fallout touches every part of a child's life—and the road back is much harder.Deeper dysregulation: Issues like aggression, anxiety, or school refusal grow more intense and harder to untangle.Increased risk factors: Delays raise the chances of substance abuse, low self-esteem, and long-term mental health struggles.Damaged relationships: Waiting strains the parent-child relationship and can create tension between family members.Shame builds: Children begin to believe “something is wrong with me,” which deepens behavior problems and lowers self-esteem.

Parenting a child with sensory challenges can feel like a guessing game. One day a fidget toy works, the next day it's tossed across the room. That's because it's not about the object—it's about the strategy behind it. Sensory tools aren't quick fixes, but when chosen with intention, they can transform how your child responds to stress, transitions, and everyday demands.In this episode, I'll share 5 therapist-recommended sensory tools that actually help kids regulate—not just distract them. You'll learn how to match tools to your child's sensory needs, whether they're bouncing off the walls or shutting down from overload.With the right sensory input, kids can build body awareness, reduce anxiety, and settle into calmer routines at home, in the classroom, and even at bedtime.Why does my child melt down even when I give them fidget toys?You've filled the bins with fidget toys and sensory tools, but the meltdowns keep coming. You're not alone.The truth is, fidgets can distract, but they don't always provide the sensory input a child's nervous system really needs.Here's what to remember:Fidgets don't work for every child—some kids need deep pressure to calm, others need movement or vestibular input to focus.Look for signs of sensory seekers and avoiders: crashing into couch cushions, covering ears at loud noises, refusing certain textures, or zoning out in busy places.Behavior is communication. A meltdown is your child's nervous system saying, “I can't handle this input.”The right sensory tool matters. Matching tools to your child's unique sensory processing needs is what leads to real regulation.

Parenting today feels overwhelming—and it's not your imagination. The latest Make America Healthy Again (MAHA) Report reveals shocking truths about kids' mental health and shows us just how deep this childhood chronic disease crisis runs.Our children are carrying the weight of poor diet, chronic stress, environmental exposures, and endless screen time—and it's affecting not just their moods but their overall health. As parents, it's easy to wonder, “Is this just my child?” or “Am I doing something wrong?”Let me reassure you—it's not bad parenting, it's a dysregulated brain. In this episode, I'll walk you through what the report means for American children's health and, most importantly, share practical steps you can take to calm the brain first, build resilience, and protect your child in today's overstimulating world.Why are so many American children struggling with mental health?Parents are searching for answers because the numbers in the Make America Healthy Again (MAHA) Report are staggering:Teen depression has doubled in recent years.Suicide is now the second leading cause of death for teens, rising 62% since 2007.Loneliness is at epidemic levels—73% of young adults report feeling isolated.Neurodevelopmental disorders like ADHD and autism continue to rise at alarming rates.These aren't just statistics from a government assessment. They represent the nation's health and, more importantly, our kids. The MAHA Commission—led by Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.—noted that the potential drivers of this crisis include ultra processed foods, poor physical activity, environmental chemicals, and chronic stress.This isn't just a public health concern—it's a matter of national security when so many American children of the same age are struggling with preventable mental and physical health conditions. The Human Services Department and National Institutes call this the biggest children's health crisis in modern U.S. history.Key Takeaways:It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain. Behavior is communication, and we need to calm the brain first.Environmental chemicals, ultraprocessed foods, and chronic stress are fueling this crisis in American children's health.Over-reliance on medicine and medication isn't fixing outcomes. The root causes—nutrition, stress, sleep, environmental exposures, and screen time—must be addressed.What hidden drivers of kids' health problems should parents know about?The MAHA Report shines a light on what's fueling the rise in dysregulation, ADHD, anxiety, and depression in kids today:Poor diet: 70% of children's calories now come from ultra-processed foods, leaving their brains starved of the nutrients they need to focus, learn, and regulate emotions.Environmental exposures: Everyday chemicals—like pesticides and microplastics—interfere with hormones and raise risks for autism, ADHD, and other mental health struggles.Chronic stress & sleep loss: Exhausted kids can't bounce back; lack of rest is draining their resilience.Technology overuse: Children average nine hours of non-school screen time daily, and social media alone doubles the risk for anxiety and depression.Over-medicalization: Prescriptions for ADHD, anxiety, and depression keep rising, yet long-term outcomes aren't improving.

If every mealtime in your house feels like a showdown—tears, gagging, or flat-out refusal to try a bite—you're probably exhausted and worried. You've bent over backwards with rewards, consequences, and endless negotiations, yet nothing seems to work. I want you to know—you're not alone.In this episode, I'll share why your picky eater's behavior is more than just “being fussy,” the biological factors that may be driving your child's picky eating habits—from sensory sensitivities to gut health—and how you can bring more calm (and more healthy foods) back to the dinner table.Why does my child's picky eating feel like a constant battle?If every mealtime feels like tug-of-war, you're not imagining it. What looks like “bad behavior” is often your child's biology at work. Many kids aren't refusing food out of stubbornness—they're reacting to sensory sensitivities or a stressed nervous system.When we understand that picky eating is often about dysregulation instead of defiance, everything starts to shift.Here are a few truths I want you to hold onto:Behavior is communication. Food refusal can be your child's way of saying, “This feels overwhelming.”Sensory triggers are real. Textures, smells, and even temperatures can set off strong reactions.It's not bad parenting. Picky eating is a sign of a dysregulated brain—not a reflection of your efforts.Power struggles backfire. The more meals feel like a battle, the harder it is for your child to feel safe around food.Your child isn't spoiled or dramatic—they're struggling. And when we calm the nervous system first, we can bring more peace (and variety) back to the table.When your child is dysregulated, it's easy to feel helpless.The Regulation Rescue Kit gives you the scripts and strategies you need to stay grounded and in control.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and get your free kit today.What biological factors cause picky eating in kids?If your child's picky eating feels bigger than just “not liking vegetables,” you're right—biology often plays a huge role.Research, including twin studies from King's College London, shows that both genetic factors and environmental factors shape how kids develop food preferences. That means picky eating isn't about willpower or stubbornness—it's about what's happening inside your child's body and brain.Common biological roots of picky eating include:Gut issues like dysbiosis or inflammation that can shift cravings and digestionNutritional deficiencies (zinc, magnesium, B6) that impact appetite and mood regulationNeurodevelopmental disorders such as ADHD, autism, anxiety, or OCD that make eating more restrictiveEarly feeding experiences (reflux, choking, low muscle tone) that create stress around foodGenetics—studies show identical twins share more picky eating behaviors than fraternal twinsConnections to other eating disorders such as ARFID, which can overlap with restrictive eating patterns and disordered eating behaviorsIn some cases, body image concerns may show up in older kids or teens, further complicating eating habits

Parenting a child who pushes back at every turn can feel downright draining. You've tried the time-outs, the sticker charts, the consequences—yet the meltdowns keep coming. It's easy to start second-guessing yourself or wondering if you're doing something wrong. You're not alone. It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.In this episode, I'll show you why what looks like defiance is actually emotional dysregulation—a nervous system issue, not a character flaw. We'll walk through the five signs your child is emotionally dysregulated, not defiant, and I'll give you practical, brain-based steps you can use to calm the storm and move forward with hope.Why does my child overreact to small problems?One of the biggest giveaways of emotional dysregulation is when kids have big feelings over little things. Maybe it's the broken crayon, the wrong-colored cup, or being asked to do five more minutes of homework.These disproportionate reactions are a sign that your child's nervous system is in overdrive. It isn't bad behavior—it's your child's body signaling stress overload.For younger children, this often looks like temper tantrums. For older children, it may show up as irritability, anger, or even shutting down. No matter their age, these big emotions tell you that their emotional regulation skills need support.The key question to ask yourself is: Is this their go-to response? If your child is regularly melting down over small problems, it's not about being oppositional or defiant. It's a clear sign they're struggling with:Emotional regulationSelf control and coping skillsA dysregulated brain that needs help returning to calmWhen you reframe these moments as emotional dysregulation rather than “bad behavior,” it shifts how you respond. Instead of getting caught in power struggles, you can focus on calming the brain first—because that's where real change begins.Why does my child stay upset long after a problem is solved?Some kids just can't seem to let go. Even after the situation is over, they're still stuck in those big emotions long after everyone else has moved on.This isn't about holding a grudge—it's their nervous system getting caught in a stress loop. No matter how much reassurance you give, they may replay the moment again and again.That's what emotional dysregulation does: it traps kids in the feeling and blocks them from practicing self regulation on their own.So what helps? Co-regulation. Your child's behavior is communication, and what they need most is your calm presence. That means:Keeping your tone soft and steadyModeling deep breaths and slowing your body downStaying close so they feel safe, even if they don't accept comfort right away

Have you ever wondered why your child melts down after the smallest stressor—no matter what strategies you try? It can leave you drained, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're doing something wrong. You're not alone. It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.In this episode, we uncover the hidden link between gut issues and emotional dysregulation in kids. You'll learn how the gut-brain connection affects mood, behavior, and focus—and discover practical steps to support both your child's emotional well-being and their gut microbiome at home.Why does my child melt down after eating certain foods?Many parents tell me they notice their child's behavior shifts right after meals—but what they don't realize is that the gut microbiome plays a significant role in emotional regulation.Food sensitivities like gluten, dairy, and artificial dyes can spark systemic inflammation, which shows up as mood swings and behavior changes.Constipation and poor gut health allow toxins to recirculate, affecting both emotional well-being and even pain perception.A leaky gut—or increased intestinal permeability—lets harmful substances enter the bloodstream, disrupting the brain and nervous system.So if your child melts down after eating, it may not be “just behavior.” It's communication from the gut-brain axis—and your child's body is asking for help.If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works…Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and take the first step to a calmer home.How are gut issues connected to emotional dysregulation?Most parents assume the gut is only about digestion, but it actually has a direct line to the central nervous system and your child's mental health. When the gut is off balance, your child's ability to regulate emotions, focus, and cope with stress takes a hit too.Did you know that up to 90% of serotonin, the neurotransmitter that helps regulate mood and attention, is made in the digestive tract? That means your child's gut isn't just helping them process food—it's helping them manage emotions and stay calm.When there's gut dysbiosis (an imbalance of beneficial gut bacteria), kids are more likely to struggle with heightened anxiety, depressive symptoms, and poor emotional regulation.Chronic stress and an unhealthy gut microbiome create a feedback loop that keeps kids stuck in cycles of emotional distress and behavioral challenges.

Parenting a child who melts down no matter how hard you try can feel draining and lonely. You've done the time-outs, taken away privileges, tried the sticker charts—and yet the child's behavior keeps coming back.Instead of helping, those strategies sometimes make things worse, leaving you wondering if you're doing something wrong. You're not alone, and it's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.In this episode, I'm breaking down why traditional discipline backfires on sensitive or neurodivergent kids, and what actually works instead. I'll give you practical strategies to calm the nervous system first, show you why connection always beats punishment, and teach you how to build the problem solving skills your child truly needs.Why doesn't time-out work for my neurodivergent child?If you've ever sent your child to time-out only to have the meltdown get worse, you're not imagining it. For many neurodivergent kids, time outs don't feel like teaching—they feel like rejection. And instead of calming down, their nervous system ramps up even more.Research shows that parents use time-outs inconsistently, and the reality is, they're often applied when a child is already at peak emotional dysregulation. In that state, the brain can't process or learn. Many neurodivergent kids experience shame, anxiety, or even sensory overload instead of gaining self-control.Here's what's really happening:Time-outs miss the teachable moment because kids are too dysregulated to reflect.Sensitive children feel wrong or rejected, which can trigger bigger power struggles.Connection is the game changer, because safety is what allows real emotional regulation.So if time-outs keep backfiring in your family, it isn't about bad parenting. It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.How can I stay calm when my child is melting down?I know how exhausting it feels when your child is screaming, crying, or refusing to listen. In those moments, your own nervous system wants to react—but here's the truth: your calm is your child's calm. This is why I call parents the emotional anchor.When you regulate yourself first, you model the very skill your child is struggling to build. You don't need to get it right 100% of the time—aiming for 80% is more than enough. Perfection isn't required for growth, and reminding yourself of that can reduce the pressure and pain you carry as a mom or dad.A few ways to anchor yourself:Pause before reacting. Even 30 seconds of breathing can calm your nervous system.Check your body language. Slow down, soften your tone, and relax your shoulders.Co-regulate first. Teaching happens later—after your child feels safe and understood.

If your child turns into a different person after screen time, you're not imagining it.You're not alone if your once-sweet kid becomes reactive, moody, or shut down after using digital devices. Many parents are overwhelmed by meltdowns, mood swings, and total refusal to transition after screen use—and they're left wondering what went wrong.Let me down what too much screen time really does to the developing brain and how it fuels dysregulation, anxiety, and poor emotional control. Most importantly, I'll share simple, consistent strategies you can use to set limits before things spiral out of control.Why does screen time affect my child's emotions so much?We often think of screens as harmless entertainment, but they trigger a storm inside the brain. Fast-paced videos and online games light up the dopamine system, conditioning kids to crave more and more stimulation. At the same time, the part of the brain that helps with self-regulation—the prefrontal cortex—gets underused.Add in blue light exposure that disrupts melatonin and sleep cycles, and you have a perfect storm for emotional dysregulation. Even young kids are being impacted. In fact, 40% of American 2.5-year-olds have their own device.This constant stimulation overwhelms the nervous system and wires the brain for volatility. And when there's no recovery time, kids start to struggle with mood, transitions, and basic regulation.Discover how to shift your child from chaos to calm with our proven Quick Calm Toolkit.What are signs of screen time dysregulation?If your child seems irritable or totally zoned out after screen use, that's not normal—it's their brain signaling overload. Many parents describe their kids as “not themselves” after using digital devices.Common red flags include:Meltdowns or aggression that show up after screen time endsMoodiness or emotional shutdown even after brief device useAvoidance of non-screen tasks like homework or choresRefusal to engage socially or try new activitiesAnxiety, anger, or compulsive behaviors tied to screen habitsIn fact, one mom told me her 10-year-old “checks out” for hours after gaming. He won't eat, talk, or play—and it's happening more often.How can I set screen limits without daily power struggles?The key is to set boundaries before the device turns on—not in the middle of a meltdown.Have calm, clear conversations ahead of time about screen time rules. Involve your child when possible by asking, “How much time feels fair to you?” This helps them feel heard—even if their answer is unrealistic.Once a boundary is set, stick to it without emotion or debate. That consistency is what rewires the brain for self-control.Use language that connects to brain health: “You're not in trouble. Your brain is just telling us it needs a break.” Or: “Your brain needs to recharge so it can feel strong and happy.”You can also plan buffer time after screens—like five minutes of movement, a snack, or calming connection. This supports the nervous system and makes transitions smoother.If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works…Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at

If you're a mom, dad, or caregiver constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next meltdown—you're not alone.I've been there, and I work with families every day who are exhausted by the cycle of big emotions, yelling, and guilt.In this episode, I'm sharing the exact parenting trick I've taught for over 30 years that helps you stay calm in the moment, so you can help your child regulate too. No special tools. No medication. Just your breath, a short pause, and a shift in energy that creates real change for your child and your family.Why does my child's behavior make me so upset?Your child isn't trying to make your life harder. They're reacting from a place of dysregulation—a nervous system stuck in fight, flight, or freeze. And when that happens, it often pulls us into the storm with them.That's what I call co-dysregulation. It happens when your child is upset, and instead of calming the situation, your energy fuels it.But when we learn to step back and regulate ourselves first, we shift into co-regulation—and that's where transformation begins.What is the calm parenting trick that works in 10 seconds?This is what I call the Love Pause. It's the calm parenting reset I've taught for over 30 years, and it works because it helps you create safety in your body and in your home.Here's what I do:Step back—both physically and mentally. Even one foot of space helps.Take a slow, deep breath in, and then blow it out even slower.Drop your shoulders and loosen your jaw—send the signal that the threat is over.Silently talk to yourself, with phrases like:“This is hard.”“I'm safe.”“My child is struggling—not attacking.”“I can be the calm in the storm.”This 10-second process resets your brain and body. It activates your vagus nerve, brings your thinking brain back online, and helps you parent from a place of intention—not reactivity.Yelling less and staying calm isn't about being perfect—it's about having the right tools.Join the Dysregulation Insider VIP list and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit, designed to help you handle oppositional behaviors without losing it.Download it now at www.drroseann.com/newsletterHow can I teach my kids to self-regulate?The more we model regulation, the more our kids learn how to do it too. That's how we teach kids what to do in the moment—by showing them with our actions.Let me give you an example—If your child is upset over homework and starts yelling, instead of yelling back, I want you to pause. Breathe. Then say: “Looks like your brain is overloaded. Let's take a walk or do some jumping jacks and then come back to it.”Here's what that response does:Shows your child that it's okay to struggleDemonstrates that there's a way back to calmCreates a supportive pattern they'll begin to use on their ownI've seen this play out in real life so many times—kids starting to regulate without prompting, just because they've seen it modeled consistently.What if I'm dealing with a moody teen?Teenagers are a whole different world. When my own teen slams their door or rolls their eyes, it's easy to get triggered. But instead of yelling, I breathe, reset, and say: “I can see you're upset. I'm here when you're ready to talk.”With teens, it's all about connection over correction. And the best moments for connection often happen...

If you're parenting a strong willed child, you're probably tired, frustrated, and maybe even wondering if you're a terrible mother. I want you to know—you're not. You're raising a deeply feeling, fiercely independent person who doesn't fit the mold... and that's not a bad thing.In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what no one tells you about raising strong willed kids. Not only do I work with these kids every day—I am one. And I've raised them, too.We'll talk about how to avoid power struggles, why your child isn't actually trying to make your life harder, and the daily practices that truly work.Why does my child push back on everything?Strong willed kids don't “misbehave” in the traditional sense. They crave autonomy, understanding, and respect—and when they don't get those things, their behavior can come across as defiant or dramatic.I've seen it in my own kids, and I lived it myself. I was the kid who needed to understand why before I could comply. My son Giancarlo is the same way—he's not being oppositional, he's genuinely curious. That persistence can feel exhausting, but it's the same trait that helps him thrive in science today.What looks like opposition is often just a need for clarity. These kids are thinkers. Leaders. Problem-solvers. We just have to help them use their power in productive ways.Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/What should I do when we're locked in a power struggle?Power struggles are a sign your child feels dismissed or disconnected. And the harder you push, the more they'll dig in.Instead of reacting with control, I've learned to invite collaboration. When your child has a strong opinion, acknowledge it. Say something like, “You clearly feel strongly about this, and I respect that. Let's figure it out together.”When I give my kids choices instead of demands, it lowers the temperature instantly. For example, rather than saying, “Put your shoes on now or you're grounded,” I'll say, “You can wear sneakers or sandals—up to you, but we need to leave in two minutes.”A few small shifts that reduce power struggles:Replace ultimatums with choicesUse “maybe” as a soft no when neededDon't try to “win”—try to connectWhat actually helps a strong willed child thrive?These kids need boundaries—but not harsh ones. They need clarity, consistency, and above all, connection.Traditional discipline often backfires. When we shame, lecture, or say things like “Why can't you be like your brother?” we're invalidating their emotions. That just leads to more resistance.Instead, I focus on:Pre-agreed routines to avoid debatesNatural consequences instead of punishmentExplanations that teach, not lectures that shut downEven teens benefit from visuals and gentle structure. And no matter the age, co-regulation is key. You can't redirect until you've calmed the storm—in them and in yourself.How can I keep my cool when my child constantly challenges me?Let's be honest—strong willed kids can trigger all our buttons. I've had moments where I've thought, “What am I doing wrong?” But I've learned to pause, breathe, and model the behavior I want to see.I use humor a lot in our house. Squat-offs, silly voices—anything to break the tension. When I regulate myself first, I can help my kids find calm too. We walk it off together, breathe together, and talk things through—when everyone is ready.

If your child zones out, explodes, or melts down over the “small stuff,” you're probably wondering if something deeper is going on—and you're not wrong for thinking that. So many parents come to me feeling defeated, exhausted, or flat-out confused by their child's behavior.Let me tell you something important: behavior is communication. It's never just “bad behavior.” It's your child's nervous system waving a red flag.And once we decode what that behavior really means—under or overstimulation, most often—we can start offering the right support. That's when everything begins to change.Why does my child seem lazy, unmotivated, or shut down?When kids appear “checked out,” we often label it as laziness or defiance. But what I see over and over again in my work is that these behaviors are really signs of understimulation—especially in younger children or kids with anxiety, ADHD, or depression.I call these behaviors “sneaky” because they look passive, but they're actually a big clue your child needs help with behavior and mental health support.I see this all the time—kids who zone out, cling to screens, or struggle to get going. They chase stimulation but can't stay focused. And transitions? Especially after screen time? Brutal.When that happens in my house, I don't push—I pause. I'll say, “Your brain seems a little sluggish—let's move together for a minute.” That quick reset helps the brain shift gears and brings focus back online.And instead of barking, “Get started now!” I'll say, “Do you want a timer or a little boost from me to get going?” That simple shift creates cooperation instead of conflict.Why does my child go from fine to furious in seconds?If your child runs hot—sudden meltdowns, overreactions, fear before routines—it's probably not “attitude.” It's a sign of overstimulation, another form of nervous system dysregulation that often gets misread as oppositional behavior or mood swings.In these moments, I focus on body awareness. If I make it a “thinking problem,” my child pushes back. So I say things like: “Your body's telling us this is too much right now. Let's take a break and shift gears.”When a child is overstimulated, they may:React aggressively to small changesRefuse to comply or shut downCover their ears or struggle in crowdsComplain about clothing textures or “itchy” socksExperience sudden overwhelming fear or anxiety before routinesI saw this in action recently at the grocery store. A little one was crying nonstop. His mom didn't scold, didn't rescue—she gently placed her hand on him, stayed calm, and let him regulate.And just like that, he calmed himself down. That's the power of co-regulation.You don't have to figure this out alone.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Pushes Your Buttons and Stop Oppositional Behaviors.Head to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and start your calm parenting journey today.What do I do when these signs show up over and over again?When patterns repeat—whether your child is zoning out or melting down—it's time to get curious instead of reactive.I always recommend parents become behavior detectives. Track for just one week:Time of dayFood and eating habitsScreen use or sensory overloadTransitions and triggersFrom there, you

I promised myself I wouldn't yell… and then I did. If you've ever felt that gut-punch after losing it with your child—again—you're not alone. I've been there too.As a mom and therapist, I know how exhausting it is to parent a child who's constantly melting down or talking back. But here's the good news: you can learn to respond, not react—and it starts with calming your own brain first.In this episode, I open up about what really drives those parenting blow-ups and how to calm your own nervous system first—so you can show up for your child with more calm, compassion, and confidence.Why do I lose it when I swore I wouldn't?Even when we know better, sometimes our nervous system doesn't. Our stress response kicks in, hijacks our rational brain, and suddenly we're reacting—not responding.That's what happened to me on a day that started with a broken air conditioner and ended with a wrong pizza order. What set me off wasn't the pizza—it was my empty stomach, my frayed nerves, and the fact that I didn't take time to regulate.We all have triggers. Sometimes it's noise, sometimes it's feeling disrespected, or simply being worn too thin. When we're running on empty, the little things feel huge.What can I do instead of yelling?I get this question all the time. The truth is, it starts with calming your nervous system. That means:Taking a pause, even just to breathe.Saying out loud, “I'm feeling overwhelmed. I need a minute to calm myself.”Reminding yourself, “This isn't misbehavior—it's dysregulation.”I often say to myself, “My calm is their calm.” When my kids are dysregulated, it's not my job to match their energy. It's my job to bring the calm. That's not easy—but it is possible with practice.​​Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.How do I stop the reactivity cycle in parenting?It comes down to awareness. I've learned to notice the signs that I'm headed toward a meltdown: clenched teeth, shallow breathing, skipping meals. That's when I know it's time to step back.Some of the best ways I regulate include:Movement: Even just a few squats or stretching.Hot/cold therapy: I use a heated neck wrap—my kids tease me, but it works!Quick phrases that interrupt the cycle, like: “I will not lose my stuff.”It's not about perfection. It's about progress—and learning to hit the pause button before things escalate.What should I do after I've already blown up?Reflect with self-compassion: Ask, “Was I hungry? Tired? Triggered? Overwhelmed?”Model accountability: Say, “I'm sorry I lost my temper. That's on me.”Focus on emotional repair:“We're both losing it—what can we do to stop this?”“I love you. You're safe. I'm learning, just like you.”Even toddlers understand phrases like “My brain feels hot.” Kids learn emotional regulation skills when we model repair and reflection.How do I rebuild trust and connection with my dysregulated child?Apologize with empathy: It shows your child that it's okay to make mistakes and come back to love.Don't normalize constant conflict: Show your child that healthy relationships have ups and...

When your child is left out, it's the kind of heartbreak you don't forget. I've sat in that front-row seat—literally—and watched it happen in real time. And I want you to know: I see you, I've been you, and I'm still holding space for the hurt it brings.In this episode, I'm sharing the very raw, personal story of how my son was excluded from a major school event. I'll walk you through how I handled it (internally and externally), what I said to the teacher, and what I wish every parent would remember when it comes to teaching their child about friendship, social skills, and emotional regulation.Why does it hurt so much when your child is left out?Because we know how wonderful our kids are. We see their kind hearts, their quirky humor, their potential—and when other kids ignore or reject them, it feels like the world just can't see what we do. That disconnect is painful. And when it happens publicly, it cuts even deeper.At my son Giancarlo's 8th-grade graduation, several of the other boys made speeches that mentioned all their friends—except him. He was the only child left out. I was sitting in the front row, so proud, so ready to celebrate his incredible journey as a dyslexic student who worked harder than most to get there. And instead, I sat in silent shock while my heart cracked open.How should we respond when our child feels left out?First, we have to co-regulate. I wanted to scream, to cry, to throw my arms in the air and demand someone fix this. But I didn't. Because our job in that moment is to stay present. To model regulation. To hold our kids close emotionally, even if we can't erase the pain.What I didn't do was rush to “fix it.” What I did do was sit with the discomfort. And later, I had a calm but direct conversation with the teacher. I told her how this impacted my son—not to place blame, but to make sure it never happens again. She cried. She apologized. And she owned it. That mattered.Should you talk to other parents or teachers when these things happen?Yes, but with intention. I didn't blame the other kids. I didn't even blame the parents. But I did hold the adult in charge—the teacher—accountable for letting it happen. In small school settings, we have the chance to teach inclusion. We need to take it.

If your child is anxious, reactive, or easily dysregulated, it might be time to look at what's on their plate. I talk with parents every day who feel stuck, not realizing that diet can be a fast, powerful way to regulate the nervous system.In this episode, I share the top 3 foods that make anxiety worse—and how small swaps can lead to big changes in behavior, mood, and emotional control.Why does my child crash after eating sugary snacks?Sugar and processed carbs are everywhere. And honestly? They're one of the most common triggers I see in anxious kids. These foods cause blood sugar spikes, followed by a crash that fuels anxiety, irritability, and mood swings.They also disrupt neurotransmitters like serotonin and GABA, which are key for staying calm and focused. And let's not forget the gut—simple carbs and added sugars increase inflammation, which affects both digestion and brain function.I've seen families swap out cereal and juice for things like turkey roll-ups or apples with nut butter—and notice calmer behavior that same day.What works: Combine healthy fats and proteins with carbs to avoid blood sugar crashes. That might look like yogurt with berries or a smoothie made with real fruit and nut butter.If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works…Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and take the first step to a calmer home.Are food dyes and additives making my child's anxiety worse?Yes. Dyes like Red 40 and additives like aspartame and MSG can overstimulate the nervous system, especially in sensitive or neurodivergent kids. These ingredients are commonly found in snacks, drinks, and even vitamins—and they've been linked to:Poor sleepDifficulty focusingIrritability and mood swingsOne mom told me her daughter would be “out of control for days” after eating just one candy with dye. After cutting it out completely, she saw a major shift in her child's mood and behavior.What to avoid: Neon-colored snacks, sodas, artificial sweeteners, and anything with a long ingredient list.What to try instead: Naturally colored fruits, freeze-dried snacks, or a simple homemade trail mix with seeds, coconut flakes, and a bit of dark chocolate.Can gluten really affect anxiety symptoms?In short—yes. Gluten, especially in the U.S., is often sprayed with pesticides that disrupt the gut and trigger inflammation, which can worsen symptoms of anxiety and even panic attacks.I've seen kids with undiagnosed gluten sensitivity deal with years of anxiety before we finally traced it back to their diet. My own nephew's anxiety improved after discovering he had celiac disease.The good news: There are tons of gluten-free options now—from brown rice to almond flour crackers to coconut wraps. You don't have to go without—just make smarter swaps.Can changing diet actually help reduce anxiety?Absolutely. Making food changes doesn't mean perfection or doing everything at once. But removing just one of these triggers—sugar, additives, or gluten—for 30 days can help your child sleep better, focus longer, and feel less anxious.Stick with whole foods, healthy fats, protein, and complex carbs. Be consistent. Even small changes, when done regularly, can have a powerful calming effect on the nervous system.

The answer lies in the nervous system. When a child's brain is in “survival mode,” even small stressors can feel huge. That's why these exercises are designed to activate the parasympathetic nervous system—the body's natural "calm and connect" state.No fancy equipment required. These therapeutic exercises are simple, science-backed ways to help children and teens regulate emotions and build emotional balance. The more consistently you practice them, the more emotional regulation skills improve over time.Let's walk through the top 5 therapeutic exercises to improve emotional regulation skills in children and teens.Why Does My Child Struggle With Emotional Regulation?Many kids today are stuck in fight-or-flight mode. Their nervous system is overreactive, which means even small stressors can trigger intense emotional reactions. And when that system never gets a chance to reset, emotional self-regulation becomes nearly impossible.

Does it feel like no matter what you try—therapy, medication, behavior plans, or new routines—your child still can't calm down, stay focused, or manage big emotions? You're not alone—and you're certainly not failing as a parent.So many families come to me after trying everything, only to watch their child continue to spiral. That's when we stop chasing symptoms and start addressing the root cause: a dysregulated nervous system.In this episode, I'm walking you through what actually works to create lasting change. From calming the brain and building emotional safety to using science-backed, sensory-based tools, you'll learn how to help your child regulate from the inside out.Why Doesn't Traditional Therapy Work for a Dysregulated Child?It's heartbreaking when therapy doesn't help, but the problem isn't the therapist—it's the timing. A dysregulated brain simply can't process insight.Talk therapy assumes the brain is ready to reason. But when kids are in chronic fight, flight, or freeze, that thinking part of the brain is offline.What Works Instead:Start with nervous system regulation—then therapy becomes effective.Use play, movement, and sensory input for younger or highly dysregulated kids.Don't expect meds to teach skills. They may reduce symptoms but don't build regulation.Regulation is a skill, not a switch. It develops with practice, connection, and safety—not punishment or over-verbalizing.Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.What Brain-Based Tools Can Help Regulate Emotional Reactivity?You don't need a complicated treatment plan filled with charts, timers, or new rewards every week. What your child really needs is simple, brain-friendly tools used consistently—tools that calm the nervous system and support regulation from the inside out.The key is working with your child's biology, not against it. When the nervous system feels safe and supported, the brain becomes more flexible, and emotional reactivity begins to settle. That's when your child can finally start to pause, think, and respond—not just react.One powerful option is neurofeedback or PEMF therapy, which helps the brain learn how to shift into more regulated patterns over time. These tools gently retrain the brain for calm and focus, creating lasting changes without side effects.Daily breathwork and grounding exercises are another game-changer. Long, slow exhales activate the vagus nerve, signaling to the body that it's safe. Even just a few minutes a day can make a big impact.Here are a few simple grounding strategies to try:Lying flat on the floor to reconnect with the bodyTapping each arm gently in a slow, calming rhythmDoing a body scan before bed to release tension and improve sleepSensory integration activities are incredibly effective for resetting a dysregulated brain. These movements strengthen the communication between both sides of the brain and support mood, focus, and behavior.Try incorporating:Cross-body movements (like cross crawls or opposite elbow-to-knee taps)Rhythm games (clapping, drumming, or patterned jumping)Deep pressure input (weighted blankets, bear hugs, or joint compressions)Biofeedback is another helpful tool. It teaches kids how to control automatic...

When your child is constantly overwhelmed, melting down over transitions, or avoiding tasks altogether, it's easy to feel like they're just not trying. But the truth is much deeper than behavior. Their brain is likely dysregulated—and stuck in survival mode.Let's walk through what's really happening inside your child's brain when they can't focus, remember directions, or sit still… and what we can do to help them thrive.What Happens to the Brain When a Child Experiences Trauma or Chronic Stress?Trauma hijacks the nervous system. When a child experiences trauma or ongoing stress, their brain shifts into survival mode—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. This automatic response shuts down the very brain regions responsible for learning, focus, and behavior regulation.One of the first areas impacted is the prefrontal cortex, which governs executive functioning. When this part of the brain goes offline, your child may struggle with impulse control, organization, memory, and attention—not because they aren't capable, but because their brain is busy trying to stay safe.At the same time, the body floods with stress hormones like cortisol, keeping your child in a hypervigilant state. They may appear jumpy, on edge, or quick to react—because their nervous system is stuck in overdrive.Sensory input also becomes overwhelming, making even routine classroom activities feel chaotic or threatening. Transitions, bright lights, or loud sounds can easily trigger a shutdown or meltdown.Focus and memory decline when the brain is in survival modeImpulsivity and disorganization are signs the prefrontal cortex is offlineSensory overwhelm makes learning environments feel unsafeMeltdowns, avoidance, or zoning out are protective—not defiant—responsesReal-Life ExampleOne mom shared how her daughter would break down in tears every time math came up—not because she didn't understand the numbers, but because her nervous system went straight into panic mode. That fear of failure was rooted in earlier struggles that left her feeling ashamed and defeated.Once they shifted the focus to calming her brain first—with simple regulation strategies—her anxiety around math began to ease, and learning became possible again.What Does Emotional Dysregulation Look Like in the Classroom?Emotional dysregulation doesn't follow one script. It shows up in so many different ways—and that's exactly why kids get so often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or mislabeled.

Emotional dysregulation is one of the most common but often misunderstood signs of trauma in children. And trauma isn't always obvious and the signs can be easy to miss at first—explosive outbursts, sudden shutdowns, anxiety, panic, or even unexpected perfectionism. For today's episode, we're diving into the link between trauma and emotional dysregulation. We'll talk about how trauma impacts a child's developing brain and behavior, what red flags to look for, and most importantly, what tools and therapies actually help kids feel safe and regulated again.How Does Trauma Affect a Child's Brain and Behavior?Trauma keeps a child's brain locked in survival mode—where logic goes offline and calm feels out of reach. When the nervous system is overwhelmed, even small stressors can feel huge. That's why a forgotten homework assignment or a simple change in routine can trigger a full-blown meltdown.Emotional dysregulation is often the first and loudest clue that something deeper is going on. With cortisol and adrenaline flooding their system, it's harder for kids to focus, connect, or calm themselves down.And trauma isn't always what you think. It doesn't have to be one big event. It can be chronic stress, bullying, emotionally unsafe environments, or even ongoing family conflict. Every child's brain responds differently—but all of it matters.And the good news is: you can help calm their brain and get them back to feeling safe.Real-Life ExampleOne mom noticed her 10-year-old suddenly refusing to go to school. She was crying over forgotten pencils, melting down over tiny mistakes, and nothing seemed to make sense. The first response she got? “It's just anxiety.” But after digging deeper, they discovered unresolved trauma from a recent car accident was at the root of it all.What you're seeing isn't misbehavior. It's a dysregulated brain doing exactly what it's designed to do: protect your child.You don't have to figure this out alone. Grab your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and learn exactly what to say and do in the heat of the moment.No more guessing. No more guilt. Just clear, step-by-step support to help your child—and yourself—stay calm.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletterTake the first step toward a more peaceful, connected home.What Are the Signs of Trauma-Based Behavior in Children?Trauma doesn't always look how you expect. It often shows up as behavior that seems “off,” extreme, or out of proportion.If your child's reactions feel too big for the moment—or they're constantly withdrawing, shutting down, or clinging to control—that's a sign their nervous system may be stuck in survival mode.Here are some of the most common trauma-linked behaviors:Explosive reactions to small stressors — what looks like overreacting is actually a brain that doesn't feel safe.Shutting down or emotionally withdrawing — especially in response to demands or social situations.Sudden perfectionism or people-pleasing — some kids try to avoid chaos by being “extra good.”Over-controlling behavior and obsessive thinking — unpredictability feels dangerous to a dysregulated brain.Emotional outbursts followed by guilt or shame — they're not trying to be dramatic; they're overwhelmed.Increased sensitivity to noise, touch, or change — these aren't overreactions, they're nervous system red flags.Behavior is communication. And when trauma overlaps with ADHD,...

When your child explodes over something small, it can leave you feeling helpless, confused—and even blamed. You may find yourself asking, “Why are they so reactive? What am I missing?”These intense outbursts aren't about disrespect or defiance. They're signs of a nervous system in distress—a brain that's wired to overreact and struggles to come back to calm once it's triggered. Behind every meltdown is a child whose brain is crying out for help, not one who's trying to give you a hard time.In this episode, we'll break down what's really going on in the volatile brain—and what parents can do to bring peace back into their homes. From the neuroscience of emotional dysregulation to practical, daily tools, this episode gives you clarity, validation, and hope.What Causes Volatile Behavior in Kids?If your child melts down over seemingly minor things, it's not because they're manipulative or dramatic. Their brain is likely stuck in survival mode.Here's what's happening under the surface:The amygdala (emotional center) is in hyper-alert mode—constantly scanning for danger, even where there is none.The prefrontal cortex (logic and control) goes offline when triggered, making self-regulation impossible in that moment.Dopamine and serotonin—the neurotransmitters responsible for mood, focus, and impulse control—become imbalanced.Cortisol floods the brain, ramping up reactivity and stress.When a child is in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, they aren't choosing chaos. Their nervous system is hijacked.What are the Common Triggers of Volatile Behavior?Chronic stress, trauma, or poor sleepNeurodevelopmental conditions (ADHD, OCD, Autism)Brain inflammation from PANS/PANDASSensory overload or diet-related crashesGut-brain issues or birth traumaVolatility is the nervous system screaming for help—not a child trying to make your life harder.How do I calm my child's volatile brain?To calm a volatile brain, we need to regulate the nervous system, not just react to behavior. That means using proactive, brain-based tools consistently—not just during meltdowns.Here's where to start:Start with daily regulation—not just in the heat of the moment.These aren't one-time fixes. Your child's brain needs predictable, calming input every day to feel safe and balanced.Vagus nerve activation (humming, breathwork, cold water) helps shift the brain into a calm, parasympathetic state.Supplements like magnesium, omega-3s, and amino acids can support healthy brain chemistry.The CALM PEMF™ device supports parasympathetic tone and reduces inflammation.Co-regulation is key.When your child is dysregulated, your calm becomes their anchor.A soft voice, steady body language, or a gentle hug can signal safety to a dysregulated brain.Don't rush to fix the behavior—focus on being the calm in the storm.Make regulation part of your family rhythm.Kids with volatile brains thrive with repetition, rhythm, and regulation.Don't wait for meltdowns to use tools—practice regulation every day, when things are calm.Build rituals that help their nervous system settle: quiet mornings, screen-free transitions, sensory breaks.Look

When something like two young boys walking down the street with a loaded gun makes the news, it shocks us — but it shouldn't. In this case, police had already been called to their home more than 50 times. That's 50 missed chances to see not just behavior, but signs of deep nervous system dysregulation.Until we learn to recognize dysregulation as the root of extreme behavior, we'll keep missing what really matters. And by the time support arrives, it may already be too late. Let's take a closer look at what dysregulation actually looks like in kids, why it's so often misunderstood, and what needs to change so families get the help they deserve.Check out the Quick Calm toolkit and unlock your child's potential in just one week! It's a simple, deeper dive into the C.A.L.M.S. Protocol that's already helping families shift from chaos to calm.Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Are you wondering why your child goes from calm to chaos in seconds? The truth is, these intense reactions aren't about willfulness or defiance. They're signs of a dysregulated nervous system—and the vagus nerve plays a key role in all of it.Understanding how the vagus nerve affects behavior is a game-changer for parents. Once you know how to support it, you'll see real shifts in your child's ability to stay calm, focused, and connected. Let's explore what the vagus nerve does and how you can start using it to help your child regulate from the inside out.Check out the Quick Calm toolkit and unlock your child's potential in just one week! It's a simple, deeper dive into the C.A.L.M.S. Protocol that's already helping families shift from chaos to calm.Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

"I hate you, Mom!" These words can shatter even the strongest parent's heart. In that moment, you're faced with a tidal wave of emotion. You might wonder what went wrong, or whether you're somehow failing as a parent.But the truth is—they don't mean it. Let me help you understand what's underneath those explosive words and how you can respond in a way that calms the chaos, protects your connection, and supports your child's emotional growth. Because it's not about getting it perfect; it's about showing up with calm and compassion, even when it hurts most.If you need more tools to regulate yourself and your child, check out the Quick Calm toolkit and unlock your child's potential in just one week! It's a simple, deeper dive into the C.A.L.M.S. Protocol that's already helping families shift from chaos to calm.Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

If your child constantly seeks reassurance, insists on certain routines, or melts down when things aren't “just right,” they may be struggling with anxiety or even OCD. And while your instinct might be to soothe or fix things in the moment, that's actually the most common mistake parents make.Let's dive into the #1 thought-calming strategy every parent of an anxious or compulsive child needs to know: how to stop rescuing and start coaching. The real path to healing lies in helping your child calm their nervous system and build the coping tools to face fears head-on.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/

Supplements for ADHD are everywhere—promising a natural fix for focus, anxiety, and emotional regulation. But here's the problem: not all nutritional supplements are safe or effective for kids with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). In fact, some can actually make ADHD symptoms worse, especially in children with sensitive nervous systems, food sensitivities, or underlying genetic variants like MTHFR.As a parent, it's easy to get swept up in the promise of a quick solution. When your child is struggling with focus, mood swings, or emotional outbursts, you'll try anything to help. But not all ADHD supplements are created equal—and in this episode, I'm breaking down the three most common vitamins I see parents give their children that can actually do more harm than good.If you're confused about what's helping and what might be backfiring, this is the clarity you've been waiting for.Visit https://drroseann.com/magnesium to learn more about Multi-Mag Brain Formula and how it can support your child's path to focus and calm.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Don't miss out on our Natural ADHD Focus Formula Kit: https://drroseann.com/adhdkit

When your child frequently has intense emotional outbursts, it can leave you feeling helpless and unsure of how to help. You may have heard ADHD as a possible explanation, but sometimes these behaviors point to an underlying mood disorder that's making it hard for your child to manage their emotions.Understanding this can change everything. Let me help you see beyond the surface, so you can better understand what's really happening in your child's brain and how to support them in a way that truly helps.And remember—you're already on the right path simply by showing up and looking for answers.Help your child regulate their emotions through our Natural Mood and Behavior Regulation Kit!Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Ever find yourself wondering if your child's challenging behavior is just plain defiance or something more? What's important to understand is that behavior isn't simply a choice—often, it's a window into what's happening deep inside their brain and nervous system.Understanding the brain-behavior connection is key to unlocking why your child acts the way they do. And when you see behavior through this lens, it changes everything—how you respond, how you support, and how your child learns to regulate themselves. Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! If you're looking for natural, science-backed strategies to help regulate your child's focus, attention, and behavior, check out our practical tools that support calm and build real-life skills without relying on medication: https://drroseann.com/solutions Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Emotional dysregulation and anxiety can turn everyday moments into massive meltdowns. You try everything you know: staying calm, explaining consequences, offering choices. But nothing sticks and the spiral keeps happening—again and again.Let me help you stop the spiral. In this article, we'll break down how to put the CALMS Dysregulation Protocol into action during real-life parenting moments. You'll learn tools that empower you to respond with calm—even when your child is melting down, anxious, or seemingly unreachable.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com. If you're looking for practical tools to help your child manage anxiety and big emotions, check out our Anxiety Parent Kit. It's packed with easy-to-use strategies designed to support both you and your child through those tough moments.

Have you ever watched your child's meltdown and felt completely lost on how to help? Those intense outbursts, shutdowns, or explosive reactions can be heartbreaking and exhausting — yet they often get misunderstood as just “bad behavior” or defiance. The truth is, emotional dysregulation runs much deeper, and without the right support, both kids and parents can feel stuck in a frustrating cycle that no one wants.Understanding the signs and causes of emotional dysregulation is the first step. That's why I'm here! In this episode, I'll guide you through what emotional dysregulation looks like, why it happens, and share practical ways to help your child learn to regulate their emotions.If you want extra guidance, both the CALMS Dysregulation Protocol™ and my Quick Calm program offer structured plans to help you apply these strategies in everyday life. Remember, your calm presence is the foundation for your child's emotional regulation. When you learn to regulate yourself first, you hold the key to helping your child find their way back to calm.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

So many kids struggle with emotional dysregulation, but too often their struggles fly under the radar or get misunderstood. Instead of recognizing a child overwhelmed by feelings they can't control, they're labeled as “just being difficult” or even misdiagnosed. But beneath those behaviors lies a nervous system stuck in overdrive, quietly crying out for help.If we don't recognize what's really going on, these kids miss out on the understanding and support that could change everything for them. In today's episode, we're breaking down emotional dysregulation—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we can help our kids find calm and emotional balance again.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com. Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/

When aggression, rage, or emotional outbursts take over your child's world, it can feel like everything is spiraling out of control. But what if I told you that beneath those extreme behaviors lies a nervous system crying out for help? Today, we're diving into an incredibly serious and heartbreaking case—one that underscores what can happen when emotional dysregulation is missed, misunderstood, or left unsupported.If you suspect emotional dysregulation, don't wait—take action early, seek guidance, and remember you can find help at https://drroseann.com/help/.Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/

When your child struggles with dysregulation, OCD, or anxiety, it's easy to assume these challenges are purely mental or behavioral issues. But what if there's a hidden medical mystery behind what you're seeing? Oftentimes, underlying factors quietly influence your child's brain and body, turning their typical behaviors into overwhelming struggles. These causes often go unnoticed, leaving families stuck searching for answers and feeling frustrated by treatments that don't seem to work. I'm here to help you navigate this complex journey, shedding light on the hidden medical factors that might be driving your child's struggles. Together, we can move beyond surface-level symptoms to uncover the true roots of their challenges, paving the way for real healing and lasting change.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Experience real change with our 1-on-1 BrainBehaviorReset™ Program designed to soothe your child's nervous system and unlock their full potential.Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Feeling overwhelmed and out of options when it comes to your child's challenges? When all the usual approaches fail, a brain map becomes a game-changer. It helps us understand what's really going on so we can build a plan that uses your child's strengths to support their challenges.In today's episode, we'll dive into how brain mapping works, why it's such a powerful tool for parents, and how it can transform your approach to supporting your child. No guesswork—just data, clarity, and next steps.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com. Experience real change with our 1-on-1 BrainBehaviorReset™ Program designed to soothe your child's nervous system and unlock their full potential.

When your child has obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), school often becomes a challenging and overwhelming place. Constant worries, perfectionism, and mental rituals can make focusing and learning feel almost impossible. These struggles can leave both kids and parents feeling frustrated and exhausted.But with the right support and understanding, your child can start to feel safe, capable, and even thrive within the classroom environment. It's about creating a space where they can manage their symptoms without shame or fear. With the right tools in place, school can become a place of growth instead of stress.That's why I'm here—to walk you through simple, effective strategies that actually make a difference. Together, let's explore ways to reduce overwhelm, build confidence, and help your child feel more in control at school.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Tired of watching your child struggle with intrusive thoughts or compulsive behaviors? You're not powerless. Get the Natural OCD Thought Tamer Kit and break the OCD cycle! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

As parents, understanding what's really going on beneath our child's anxiety or OCD is one of the most important things we can do to support them. When they're dysregulated, the things we tell them are more than just words—they can either comfort and guide or shame and overwhelm them. In those heightened moments, anxious or intrusive thoughts can take over, and our children look to us to help them feel safe, grounded, and understood.That's why it's so important to be mindful of how we respond. Let me share five things parents should avoid saying to kids with OCD or anxiety and what to say instead to truly support their regulation, confidence, and emotional growth.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

When it comes to your child's focus, mood, and overall well-being, one nutrient that often gets overlooked is magnesium. This powerful mineral supports over 300 essential processes in the body, from muscle function to energy production. Most importantly, it helps regulate brain function, including focus, mood, and emotional stability.If you've noticed your child struggling with attention, mood swings, or irritability, magnesium may be the missing piece you've been searching for. With proper magnesium supplementation, you're giving them a solid foundation for thriving every day.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Check out our Neurotastic™ Multi-Mag Brain™ Formula and fuel your brain: https://drroseann.com/magnesiumDiscover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Does it ever feel like everything is just too much to handle as a parent? Between the constant demands, emotional outbursts, and the pressure to stay composed, I know that it can feel impossible to stay calm when your child is pushing your buttons. You're not alone. Parenting can be incredibly challenging, especially when it feels like your own nervous system is just as dysregulated as your child's. In today's episode, we'll explore some practical strategies that will help you stay grounded and guide your child through their emotions with more ease.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Parenting kids with ADHD or ODD can be incredibly challenging, but it's important to remember that these behaviors aren't a reflection of defiance or bad parenting. I understand how easy it is to feel stuck in a cycle of frustration and miscommunication, but the key lies in recognizing that these behaviors stem from neurological differences, not a lack of will or discipline.If you've been feeling frustrated, unsure of how to break the cycle of defiance or emotional outbursts, especially with the overlap of ADHD and ODD, this one's for you. Let's get started on this journey toward lasting change and emotional well-being.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Children's behaviors are often viewed through a lens of judgment—disobedient, defiant, or disrespectful—leading to quick conclusions and punishments. However, this perspective doesn't tell the whole story. More often than not, these behaviors are signs of deeper emotional or neurological struggles, not intentional misbehavior. By reframing how we view behavior, we open the door to greater connection and understanding with our children. Let's explore why we need to rethink "bad behavior" and how understanding its roots can transform how we respond, creating opportunities for healing, growth, and deeper emotional connections.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Have you ever watched your child struggle to start or finish a task, whether it's homework, chores, or even just a simple conversation? Often, it's easy to assume they're being defiant or lazy, but the reality is much more complex. This may be rooted in executive dysfunction. Understanding that this is not an act of defiance, but rather a brain-based difficulty, is key to supporting your child in overcoming these hurdles. In today's episode, we'll break down executive dysfunction, how it impacts your child's ability to focus, plan, and follow through, and most importantly, how you can help them strengthen these skills.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

Does it seem like no matter what approach you try, nothing sticks—and your kid remains anxious, overwhelmed, or shutting down? You're not alone, and it's not your fault. The reason so many therapies fall flat is because they don't address the root cause: a dysregulated nervous system.Take this as your sign to stop the exhausting cycle of trial and error. Until you calm the brain, lasting change in your child's behavior, attention, or emotional well-being just won't happen. That's exactly where the BrainBehaviorReset™ Program comes in—bringing science-backed solutions and proactive guidance so your child can finally thrive.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights from Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.