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In this episode of the Spiritual Entrepreneur, we talk about how to stay in your joy when “shift happens”. With everything that is happening in the world right now, how do we stay in a high vibrational point of attraction? If you are going through “shift” in your life right now, join in! Because this episode is for you. What you will learn in this episode: How to stay in your joy The importance of finding and recognizing the gift in the “shift” Finding the next best feeling for you right now? How to shift your energy when “shift happens” Quick and easy ways to shift and transform when “shift” is happening to stay in your joy A sneak peek at the episode: [05:07] “What is that next emotion that I am willing to move up to?” [09:53] “Asking - What would be the gift?”... “What is that next rung that I could reach for? ” [10:29] “Those are some of the really quick and easy ways. If you're wanting to shift and transform when “shift” is happening in order to stay in your joy.” If you are looking for a community, a group of women spiritual entrepreneurs that are living and enjoying using spiritual tools to build their businesses, to help serve humanity, with “all the woo, and business too” ----> we are going to be launching the Spiritual Entrepreneur's Playground in September and I would LOVE to have you join us. If you are interested please join us at deviadea.com/sewaitlist to be the first to know when the doors to our Spiritual Entrepreneurs Playground open. To get weekly updates and the latest episodes, Follow me on Instagram @deviadea.
"Oh, my parents told me don't talk to strangers I wasn't brought up like that, to start with, like my parents. I guess growing up in a country town on a farm, you have to talk to strangers, you welcome people because somebody could be broken down on the side of the road, or, you know, there's just such a sense of community and connecting with people ""a deep dive into the art and science of connection and how we build relationships and how we have fleeting connections and what we can do with that to make a positive difference in the world?"01:25 Introduction to "Do Talk to strangers"04:17 ASKING (What does that means) 09:01 S12:29 N14:04 Natural Confidence17:34 Gratitude20:52 Be Curious KERRIE PHIPPS is an inspiring and energetic communicator whose passion is connecting and empowering difference - makers and leaders. She has been coaching, writing and speaking across the Asia Pacific region and beyond for over 20 years. Kerrie has trained extensively in brain-based coaching skills and built her own business supporting entrepreneurs and leaders globally. As the author of 4 books and co-author of 8, she delights in sharing stories of connection, hope and encouragement - because she personally knows the power of these in her own life. Through Kerrie's latest books, "DO Talk To Strangers - How to Connect with Anyone, Anywhere" and the sequel, the DO Talk To Strangers Travel Toolkit, her message goes beyond cultural and generational borders, tapping into a yearning that lies within each of us; the desire to connect with those around us.
He got kicked out of school at 15, left his dad’s bricklaying business, became a bouncer, and then built the world's Largest Concierge Company. Say what? Yup. Steve Sims joins us today to share how he got in the right rooms, led with a spirit of service, and ended up working with people like Sir Elton John and Elon Musk to organize wild adventures and become according to Forbes and Entrepreneur magazine, “The Real-Life Wizard of Oz". Connect with Steve: https://www.stevedsims.com/ TOPICS: Breaking free of intimidation of getting out of “our pond into another pond” with people who think bigger. Using nerves and fear in your favor & being the SOLUTION to someone’s problem Asking “What can I bring to this party?” and a new philosophy to networking WHO IS STEVE? Do you know anyone that’s worked with Sir Elton John or Elon Musk, sent people down to see the wreck of the Titanic on the sea bed or closed museums in Florence for a private dinner party and then had Andrea Bocelli serenade them while they eat their pasta – you do now Quoted as “The Real Life Wizard of Oz" by Forbes and Entrepreneur Magazine, Steve Sims is the best selling Author with "BLUEFISHING - the art of making things happen”, sought-after coach and a speaker at a variety of networks, groups, and associations as well as the Pentagon and Harvard – twice! RESOURCES: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/heatherparady/ HAPPY BRAIN: https://anchor.fm/happy-brain YOUTUBE: www.youtube.com/heatherparady TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@heatherparady?
Confronting Death and Asking "What's Next?" Saray Khumalo.......Saray Khumalo is the First Black African woman to summit Everest and reach the South Pole. She’s an award-winning mountaineer and a philanthropist who has used her climbs to build libraries across South Africa. Saray has recently partnered with Apple to Build Digital Libraries. She is also part of Forbes Woman and Africa Leading Women Summit 2021. Saray is a transformational and business executive coach of whom the South African president said, "She reminds us that through courage and perseverance, we can achieve our highest ambitions, for the greater good of humanity." More on Saray Khumalo: www.saraykhumalo.comSocial Media:https://www.facebook.com/saraykhumaloSpeaker/https://twitter.com/saraykhumalo?lang=enhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/saray-khumalo-acis-5437b21/https://www.instagram.com/saraykhumalo/ ......To find out more about hiring Dov Baron as an advisor or strategist for yourself or your organization: http://DovBaron.com Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Oftentimes, those who practice agility will turn their nose up at teams or companies that are not doing agile perfectly. And though the agile practices are important and are great pathways to success, many teams and companies often find ways that work for them that are not perfect agile. In this conversation, Dan and Sam highlight some of the ways in which companies and teams find what works for them, why perfect practicing agility isn’t the end-all-be-all, share the key characteristics for succeeding in agile, and, most importantly: why you shouldn’t be getting your agile shorts in a knot! Key Takeaways Should a team or company be doing agility perfectly? If a team finds a helpful practice for them, then that’s what they should do “That’s not agile,” or “That’s not the way story points work,” is not very helpful to somebody It’s important to remember that everyone is on their own agile journey and you shouldn’t judge where they are right now in it An agility mindset is what really matters; they will improve their practice over time As long as it works for them, they’re delivering, and their customers are happy then they’re good Just because a team isn’t doing something by the book doesn’t mean they are wrong in doing it Advice in entering a new role within a company that’s getting started with agility: Enter the company/role with curiosity Just because the role states you will be doing certain things doesn’t mean you will always be doing those things/won’t be doing other things Start with what the company already knows/is doing; you can adapt as you go along If you’re interviewing for a position of any kind, it’s not just about, “Do they want you?” but, “Do you want them?” When selecting a company you want to work for it is important to make sure that they breed a culture of innovation (regardless of where they are in their agile journey) and have a culture of constantly wanting to inspect, adapt, and innovate Strategies for failure in agility: There are degrees of planning that can be unhelpful when trying to forecast things out — but zero planning is also a strategy for failure There is this idea that agility is a binary state (I.e. “You either are or you are not agile”) — agility is more of a continuum (it never truly ends) Key characteristics for succeeding in agile: Curiosity is a key characteristic of anybody who wants to succeed in agile Low tolerance for impedance and that we cannot change things; we have to do it this way Question how things could be done/how things could be done differently Asking: “What would happen if ______?” Having an experimental mindset Don’t make assumptions about what you think are bad practices/what isn’t agile — you could learn a lot from these experiences Mentioned in this Episode: AgileThought.com/Events — Visit for AgileThought’s upcoming virtual events & RSVP! Agile Coaches Corner Ep. 116: “Modern Management Made Easy with Johanna Rothman” Jira Ralph Stacey Chart Wikispeed.org Discover to Deliver: Agile Product Planning and Analysis, by Ellen Gottesdiener and Mary Gorman Johanna Rothman’s Modern Management Made Easy Book Series Want to Learn More or Get in Touch? Visit the website and catch up with all the episodes on AgileThought.com! Email your thoughts or suggestions to Podcast@AgileThought.com or Tweet @AgileThought using #AgileThoughtPodcast!
Asking “What is Zen?” is much the same as the masters who challenge us to ask, “Who Am I?” These questions are meant to dissolve the questioner. This talk is but an introduction, so I welcome you to join the “Introduction to Zen” event being held this Sunday, 17 Jan by registering at zen.Eventbrite.com to explore together. // Recording note: Very strong winds in Cabo Verde presently. The winds blew some things over during this recording haha. // Namasté. InstantlyZen.com // sage@instantlyzen.com // Fb+IG: Selena Sage - Author and Instantly Zen
Asking “What is the AND Asset's Rate of Return?” Isn’t the wrong question, but it isn’t the whole question! In today's Better Wealth Episode of From the Front-lines, Jereme and I breakdown a powerful question we get asked each day “What is the Rate of Return of the AND Asset.” Listen as we describe why this question limits you to seeing the AND Asset in one benefit, because that isn’t ALL the AND Asset can do. Remember you can’t spend a rate of return! How important is strategy not only in growing your money but consuming it? Listen as Jereme and I dialogue around the idea of rate of return and financial strategy. Most importantly listen as we discuss why a tool that unlocks opportunities I may not have had is extremely more valuable than a rate of return. #BETTERWEALTH For more information on BetterWealth or the content you hear on the Podcast visit us at http://www.betterwealth.com/podcast (www.betterwealth.com/podcast). Episode Links & Resources: https://betterwealth.captivate.fm/episode/avoiding-retirement-risk-with-distribution-expert-wade-pfau (Episode #192 Avoiding Retirement Risk With Distribution Expert Wade Pfau)
There are just 20 spots available in my 2021 Year of Empowerment coaching program for parents… Don't miss your chance to join this powerful program! Be notified when I open enrollment for the 2021 Year of Empowerment Program (enrollment begins 11/23!) by clicking the link below: https://weturnedoutokay.com/weekly I am super excited to bring you today's episode, which includes so much good that my heart is practically bursting : ) It's a digest episode, and the first part is my conversation with Debbie Reber, founder of the TiLT Parenting Podcast, http://tiltparenting.com, and author of one of my favorite books, Differently Wired: Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World. Somewhere in the first few minutes we decide to depart from a kind of standard interview, Q&A sort of conversation and dive into something much better and more fun! Here are some of Debbie's ideas that felt so transformative for me: – "I love that you mention taking care of your body…" Debbie goes on to share how important this idea is, and how often we truly do forget. (My forgetting, as I share today, landed me in the hospital just a few weeks before our conversation.) – "Asking "What if I had no agenda at all?""… Debbie brings this up in reference to children and learning. If we don't have an agenda, we are free to just be in the moment and enjoying the time with our children. And more – if we don't have an agenda we are free to allow our kids on a voyage of self-discovery. This is crucial, even more so with the world turned upside down from the pandemic. – "I have permission to do whatever I want and feel whatever I feel."… Debbie shares this as a way of diffusing judgment. Giving ourselves this permission is so freeing. I hope this conversation is transformational for you, too! In Part 2 I read an essay I wrote recently, called "A hard decision I have made." It shares about the decision I recently made to close my Ninja Parenting Community – and after I read it, I share about something I'm truly excited about, the group coaching program I'm offering for 2021 called "The Year of Empowerment." 2021: The Year of Empowerment Program: … Helps you combat the challenge of others walking all over you, so you feel in charge of your destiny and your family's direction. … Helps you overcome your fears about your child's behavior and others'' judgment of that behavior or your parenting. So you know that you are making the right decisions for you and your family. … Helps you stop feeling guilty or unworthy so you can live your best life and model that for your kids. Each month of 2021 you'll be empowered to truly take the reins in your family life. You will know how to get good behavior from your child. You will know how to advocate for them, to help them love learning and get the best education possible – no matter how bad all of this feels right now. You will know how to feel good about getting the self-care time you need and deserve. How will this program work? 1. Each month of 2021 we will have a group coaching conversation, a powerful, in-depth, 90 minute call diving into the different aspects of empowerment including: – The setting of proper boundaries to eliminate toxic people from your life – Learning to say "no," so you only participate in and do what feels truly good for you – Advocating for your child – Learning the tenets of positive discipline, so your child does not walk all over you anymore – Teaching your child about the world – Living a truly wonderful and empowering life – Consequently modeling "how to live a truly wonderful and empowering life" for your family 2. A year's subscription to the acclaimed We Turned Out Okay Playbook! The We Turned Out Okay Playbook provides a place for you to envision and build out your life and your family's future. The 2021 Year of Empowerment program includes a whole year – 12 issues – of the Playbook, one each month, delivered directly to your mailbox! Each month you'll receive the Playbook, my top-shelf publication that shapes your thinking in a very positive and gratitude-centered way. (Learn more about the Playbook at: https://weturnedoutokay.com/playbook) Between our monthly calls and the daily, positive and creative thinking opportunities the Playbook offers, you have extremely powerful tools to shape your life how you want it. Cost and How to Enroll: The program costs $3000 for the year 2021. There are just 20 spots available. I'm offering a Black Friday special: 50% off! Just $1500 instead of the usual $3000! I'm opening up enrollment in the 2021 Year of Empowerment on Monday 11/23/20… Click the link below and sign up to get notified when enrollment begins! https://weturnedoutokay.com/weekly Cheers! And thanks for listening/reading! Karen Karen Lock Kolp, M.Ed. Creator and Founder of https://weturnedoutokay.com View this post, video of our conversation, and all notes and links in your browser by clicking the link below: https://weturnedoutokay.com/350
"Joy is a high frequency. Your life path is in a high frequency. Your best partner exists in a high frequency. Financial freedom is in a high frequency. Health is a high frequency."^^ You have to train yourself to operate in Joy (see "Layering" below).Words that are active in the physical realm, but have no meaning in the Multi-sensory (spiritual) world: How, What, When, Where, Why. If your question uses one of these words, rephrase it until it doesn't.TECHNIQUES:Layering, for training yourself to operate in Joy: Which of your five senses do you use most prominently? Spend some time every day forcing yourself to use that sense to only experience things that bring you joy.Resting in the Second Chakra, for feeling your real emotions:Place your hand on your navel, and visualize a waterfall gently washing from the top of your head down to the lowest part of your body. Then ask your self "what am I really feeling?" Let go of the question, go back into your body, and wait for the answer to come. Trust your intuition to understand it.Asking "What if..." Questions, when affirmations don't work:The Ego is resistant to things it doesn't believe, but not to curiosity. Instead of saying "I will get healthy," try asking "What if I were healthy?"Marie's message for you. Yeah, YOU:"You are precious, you are beyond the beyond, you are magnificent, you are naturally gifted and talented, and I celebrate your discovery of that." - Marie ManuchehriGRATITUDE:Ryan's grateful that the Universe has been giving him confirmations on the butts of cars at stoplights.Marie is grateful that she's gonna get to see her new grandbaby!!Abby is grateful for Ryan, because he won't let her say "no" to her True North.MARIE'S INFO:Website: energyintuitive.comRadio Show - Where Energy and Medicine Meet: themariemanuchehrishow.podbean.comBook - Intuitive Self Healing: https://amzn.to/36sZioMBook - How to Communicate with your Spirit Guides: https://amzn.to/3irnN86MORE DEETS:Join our tribe at patreon.com/truenorth11Get life coaching from Abby at IndigoCoaching.netGet ARC healing from Ryan at ARChealing.netFollow us on IG at @TrueNorthWithAbbyAndRyanWatch us at youtube.com/channel/UCGJV0w5O-YJ5xmm1bx_gxogEmail us at hello@truenorth11.comStalk us at truenorth11.com
Mystics are often seen as irrational. The word ‘mystical' is oft employed disparagingly as a synonym for the vague, dubious and enigmatic. In this convo with Dr Justin Sledge, scholar of religion and philosophy and host of Esoterica, we challenge and debate this conception. Asking: What is Logic? How does it work? What are its Origins and History? Is it Discovered or Invented? Is there a common Logic among the Mystics? What of Alternative and Paraconsistent Logics? Does a Two Truths Doctrine make sense? Does logic require faith at some level? What happens when mystics take logic to its limits? To what degree, if any, are mystics beholden to or bound by logic? Can mystics give up on logic? All this and more… --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
“Your brand is worth nothing (even if it’s “worth” millions) if it comes at the expense of your family time suffering. Family cannot take the back seat. Family deserves the best of you, not the rest of you.” -Terry Williams Whew! In this week’s episode I sit down with my husband and BFF, Mr. Terry Williams. And there is just so much goodness packed into our conversation. We get really real, discussing our takeaways from nearly 8 years of running a business together, as well as new revelations that came when we began marriage counseling last year. We share on what we’ve learned about: Saying “That can wait” and accepting when there are unhealthy approaches to work Adopting an “us” mentality Finding practical ways to balance work and family time Thinking about what's subconsciously being communicated when working on your laptop in the bedroom Asking: “What can I learn here?” Embracing the power of Quiet time If either you or your spouse is an entrepreneur, or plan to be in the future, you’ll really appreciate this one! Links mentioned in this episode: Here’s a link to the yummy and oh so clutch meal prep company we mention, Fab and Fit Foods Jump into fitness, nutrition and mindset coaching with TerrytheTrainer App. The Clean Eating Masterclass is free in the Family Room! Wanna connect with me? Click here to schedule an initial consultation! Also, make sure to subscribe to Bird Means Business so you don't miss an episode! For more episodes, visit: www.birdwilliamsconsulting.com/podcast I’d love to connect with you! Social Media: @birdwilliamsconsulting Email: Stay in the Loop
Special Guest Fareen Dating Expert for Highly Successful People Pet Peeves and Asking What a man wants www.instagram.com/femme_byfareen Please- Like - Share- Subscribe- Follow! We have a goal of 5,000 reviews - please help us reach that! If you would like to help keep this podcast running and show support - without ads - please donate: www.dewaynehill.com/payment Please Send in your questions and secret confessions www.dewaynehill.com/datingpodcastquestions Be Sure to check out the novel "Handful of Queens" coming in 2020 Men’s Secrets Exposed Podcast Instagram: Follow US - https://www.instagram.com/mensecretspodcast/ Check out the show on YouTube: http://bit.ly/MagicDTV Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/magicdtv/ Host: Corporate Comedy Magician Dewayne Hill website: http://www.dewaynehill.com IG follow: https://www.instagram.com/dewayne_hill YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/dewaynehill Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/magiciandewayne LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dewaynehill Co-Host: Angela Dileone, VIP Beauty Hair Stylist and Make Up Artist and Speaker IG Follow: https://www.instagram.com/vipbeautystylist Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vipbeautystylist Co-Host Drew Garcia - Business Solutions IG follow: https://www.instagram.com/andrewgisreal Co-Host - Vanessa Zamora - Women's Empowerment Coach and Business Speaker IG Follow: https://www.instagram.com/vanessazcoach
We’ve been inside a lot - and that’s ok. Because, I want to just do what needs to be done in order to let the experts figure this out. You know what friends - we are all going to figure this out. That’s what I want to talk to you about today - actually a few different concepts to help as we continue to navigate through what is likely changing times. Notice - I didn’t say - get back to normal - and that’s ok. The concepts I discuss today are ones you can use everyday in your life - especially through challenging times. IN THIS EPISODE: * Dealing with Anxiety * Considering - It’s ok * Asking - What if? * Being part of a tribe * Getting on email list: www.michellebourquecoaching.com/podcast76 * Work with me - www.michellebourquecoaching.com/workwithme * Questions for me: email - contact@michellebourquecoaching.com
Special Guest Fareen Dating Expert for Highly Successful People Pet Peeves and Asking What a man wants www.instagram.com/femme_byfareen Please- Like - Share- Subscribe- Follow! We have a goal of 5,000 reviews - please help us reach that! If you would like to help keep this podcast running and show support - without ads - please donate: www.dewaynehill.com/payment Please Send in your questions and secret confessions www.dewaynehill.com/datingpodcastquestions Be Sure to check out the novel "Handful of Queens" coming in 2020 Men’s Secrets Exposed Podcast Instagram: Follow US - https://www.instagram.com/mensecretspodcast/ Check out the show on YouTube: http://bit.ly/MagicDTV Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/magicdtv/ Host: Corporate Comedy Magician Dewayne Hill website: http://www.dewaynehill.com IG follow: https://www.instagram.com/dewayne_hill YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/dewaynehill Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/magiciandewayne LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dewaynehill Co-Host: Angela Dileone, VIP Beauty Hair Stylist and Make Up Artist and Speaker IG Follow: https://www.instagram.com/vipbeautystylist Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vipbeautystylist Co-Host Drew Garcia - Business Solutions IG follow: https://www.instagram.com/andrewgisreal Co-Host - Vanessa Zamora - Women's Empowerment Coach and Business Speaker IG Follow: https://www.instagram.com/vanessazcoach
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. His approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. He works less as a teacher and therapist but more of an awakener and revealing what is already inside all of us that has been repressed or suppressed, process consultant and co-journeyman on all our heroes journey. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. My bias is the relationships need 3 major elements to thrive and not just survive. 1. Shared Context 2. Shared Language and Tools 3. A Community and Tribe Joe's core belief is that we are all born into relationship for relationship, love, connection, belonging. We learned relationships in the context of relationship. We have all experienced aversive childhood experiences and trauma where we have been hurt, wounded and betrayed in relationship by mental, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse, addictions, abandonment, violations of human connection and loss of sense of safety, security and protection. So, relationship is the crucible to heal our past trauma we re-enact and sometimes feel we can never get beyond the X-Factor. Relationship is the context we have been wounded in so it is only in the context of relationship that we can be healed, therefore, it is vehicle on the path and practice of love to resolve and repair. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understo --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or Click here to schedule a Free 30-Minute Consultation https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. His approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. He works less as a teacher and therapist but more of an awakener and revealing what is already inside all of us that has been repressed or suppressed, process consultant and co-journeyman on all our heroes journey. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. My bias is the relationships need 3 major elements to thrive and not just survive. 1. Shared Context 2. Shared Language and Tools 3. A Community and Tribe Joe's core belief is that we are all born into relationship for relationship, love, connection, belonging. We learned relationships in the context of relationship. We have all experienced aversive childhood experiences and trauma where we have been hurt, wounded and betrayed in relationship by mental, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse, addictions, abandonment, violations of human connection and loss of sense of safety, security and protection. So, relationship is the crucible to heal our past trauma we re-enact and sometimes feel we can never get beyond the X-Factor. Relationship is the context we have been wounded in so it is only in the context of relationship that we can be healed, therefore, it is vehicle on the path and practice of love to resolve and repair. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive! Sponsorships: off for this episode --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to book a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. His approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. He works less as a teacher and therapist but more of an awakener and revealing what is already inside all of us that has been repressed or suppressed, process consultant and co-journeyman on all our heroes journey. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. My bias is the relationships need 3 major elements to thrive and not just survive. 1. Shared Context 2. Shared Language and Tools 3. A Community and Tribe Joe's core belief is that we are all born into relationship for relationship, love, connection, belonging. We learned relationships in the context of relationship. We have all experienced aversive childhood experiences and trauma where we have been hurt, wounded and betrayed in relationship by mental, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse, addictions, abandonment, violations of human connection and loss of sense of safety, security and protection. So, relationship is the crucible to heal our past trauma we re-enact and sometimes feel we can never get beyond the X-Factor. Relationship is the context we have been wounded in so it is only in the context of relationship that we can be healed, therefore, it is vehicle on the path and practice of love to resolve and repair. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to book a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach, I'm far from being the silent, blank therapist. I think my approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. I consider myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. I have developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive - Joe Whitcomb --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. His approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. He works less as a teacher and therapist but more of an awakener and revealing what is already inside all of us that has been repressed or suppressed, process consultant and co-journeyman on all our heroes journey. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. My bias is the relationships need 3 major elements to thrive and not just survive. 1. Shared Context 2. Shared Language and Tools 3. A Community and Tribe Joe's core belief is that we are all born into relationship for relationship, love, connection, belonging. We learned relationships in the context of relationship. We have all experienced aversive childhood experiences and trauma where we have been hurt, wounded and betrayed in relationship by mental, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse, addictions, abandonment, violations of human connection and loss of sense of safety, security and protection. So, relationship is the crucible to heal our past trauma we re-enact and sometimes feel we can never get beyond the X-Factor. Relationship is the context we have been wounded in so it is only in the context of relationship that we can be healed, therefore, it is vehicle on the path and practice of love to resolve and repair. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. His approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. He works less as a teacher and therapist but more of an awakener and revealing what is already inside all of us that has been repressed or suppressed, process consultant and co-journeyman on all our heroes journey. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. My bias is the relationships need 3 major elements to thrive and not just survive. 1. Shared Context 2. Shared Language and Tools 3. A Community and Tribe. Joe's core belief is that we are all born into relationship for relationship, love, connection, belonging. We learned relationships in the context of relationship. We have all experienced aversive childhood experiences and trauma where we have been hurt, wounded and betrayed in relationship by mental, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse, addictions, abandonment, violations of human connection and loss of sense of safety, security and protection. So, relationship is the crucible to heal our past trauma we re-enact and sometimes feel we can never get beyond the X-Factor. Relationship is the context we have been wounded in so it is only in the context of relationship that we can be healed, therefore, it is vehicle on the path and practice of love to resolve and repair. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach, I'm far from being the silent, blank therapist. I think my approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. I consider myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. I have developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach, I'm far from being the silent, blank therapist. I think my approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. I consider myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. I have developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach is far from being the silent, blank therapist. HIs approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. Joe considers myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. He is also a 12 year military veteran, first responder and treat PTSD and transition with men and women in the military. Joe has developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block most couples from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran, Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach, I'm far from being the silent, blank therapist. I think my approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. I consider myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. I have developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
Reboot Your Relationship with Joe Whitcomb 310-560-0726 or click here to schedule a FREE 30 Minute Consultation: https://calendly.com/rebootyourrelationship This podcast is best for couples, relationships, PTSD and those who "rage against the dying of the light." My area of expertise consists in helping with difficulties in relationships & social relationships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy partnerships. Such difficulties include finding and sustaining healthy intimacy, healing from a painful break-up or divorce, recovering from major loss, and growing up in aversive childhood experiences, trauma and difficult circumstances. I am particularly suited to helping those who have cultivated their intellects and creativity but would now like to develop a greater awareness of their emotional world. (Neuroscience of Relationships, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT and EMDR). Joe's approach, I'm far from being the silent, blank therapist. I think my approach provides the richest and most depth and exploration of how we love, work, and play. I consider myself more of a process consultant and co-journeyman. I am also a 12 year military veteran and treat PTSD and transition. I have developed brief 12-24 session relationship programs and intensives for couples to breakthrough the upper limit barriers that block them from experiences the love and intimacy both crave. My couples sessions range from 90-120 minutes and offer several couples weekend intensives for those wanting to go through a deep dive and Reboot Your Relationship. Joe Whitcomb is a US Military Veteran and Rescuer, Relationship Coach/Trainer/Speaker, an attachment-based, emotionally focused therapist, and developer of the Trauma-Informed Relationship Psychotherapy Method which focuses on trauma (PTSD and Aversive Childhood Experiences ACE's) and the impact on relationships, mind, body, emotions, health in couple relations, families, blending step-families, military, veterans, first responders, and adult survivors of childhood abuse/trauma. What Does it Mean to be Trauma Informed? Noticing and embracing that trauma is the expectation, not the exception – all beings experience trauma, just different levels - it doesn't matter if you were or are drowning at 1 feet, 7 feet or 21 feet, you were drowning. Awareness of how trauma effects the brain, body, spirit, sense of safety and security in the world Asking “What happened to you?” versus “What’s wrong with you?” Minimize re-victimization and facilitate recovery for all clients in the most culturally sensitive way we can, taking into account culture, race, gender, sexuality, spirituality, and other factors Behaviors are understood not merely as complaints but as attempts to cope and survive This Thing We Do…So Other’s May Live and Love Well and Thrive - Joe Whitcomb --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rebootyourrelationship/message
On today's show we have on the author of Wealth Can't Wait, Miracle Morning Millionaires and the new Tribe of Mentors as well as the founder of the sixth largest brokerage in the world, David Osborn. Asking WHAT is missing in your life won’t get you far, but asking WHO is missing is a game-changer. Tune in to this episode for a better understanding on how to cultivate your tribe of millionaires. Key Points From This Episode: Why David wrote 'Wealth Can't Wait' A directive to attend your 1st Tony Robbins conference How to harmonize with the vibration of success Why masterminds are so effective A vicious cycle vs. a virtuous cycle Winning the morning to win the day David's miracle morning routine and 2020 goals Why everything changed when David met Pat Hiban The 6 Effects of an Abundant Life Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: David's Website (https://davidosborn.com) Recommended Book: As A Man Thinketh Think and Grow Rich Listen to these books for free with Audible! (http://beforethemillions.com/book) Lifestyle Design App: Google Drive (https://drive.google.com) (http://beforethemillions.com/guide) Before The Millions Mastermind (https://beforethemillions.com/mastermind)
Parker Palmer is a writer, teacher, and activist whose work speaks deeply to many people in many different walks of life. He’s the founder and senior partner in The Center for Courage and Renewal. He’s the author of many books, including his newest one which we talk about on this episode: On The Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity and Getting Old. Parker is one of our favorite guests of the show and after you listen to this episode, you’ll know why he’s back for a second conversation.Need help with completing your goals in 2019? The One You Feed Transformation Program can help you accomplish your goals this year.But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!In This Interview, Parker Palmer and I Discuss…His book, On The Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity and Getting OldHis reflections looking back on his lifeThe resilient fabric of his lifeHow perfection is an illusionThe role mistakes can play in one’s lifeThe gift of age: Looking back on one’s life and saying “It all belongs”Another gift of age: Deep appreciation and gratitude for the present momentFeeling like you’re one of the lucky ones that you’re “old”Asking “What’s there for me to learn?” when facing problematic moments in life (like feeling down, or feeling self-pity)Moments of life that are burdened with egoThe correlation between ego concerns and anxietyThe importance and role of perspectiveThe what and why of the things we’re doingThe question (and trap!): Does my life have meaning?My legacy vs Our legacyHow we’re all embedded in community“I planted some seeds and found some people I wanted to garden with…”How life and work are profoundly communalReflecting on the question, “Have I been sufficiently open to and aware of the significant contributions others have made in my life – and in such a way to do a deep bow to them in the work that I do?”Turning attention outward vs inwardBeing one among many vs trying to be something or someone specialThe healing impact of getting out into the natural worldHis poem “Harrowing”To know when to say, “enough” because the rest of the world and the rest of my life is waitingParker Palmer LinksHomepageFacebookTwitterThe Great Courses Plus – Thousands of courses in virtually any topic and you can listen on demand anywhere. Get a full month for FREE! thegreatcoursesplus.com/wolfThirdlove – they have 70 sizes including their signature 1/2 cup sizes! Find your perfect fit online in 60 seconds with their no tape measure needed fit finder. Get 15% off our first order at www.thirdlove.com/wolfRobinhood is an investing app that allows you to buy and sell stocks, EFTs, Options, and Cryptos all commission free at any level. All it takes to do so is 4 taps in the app on your smartphone so it makes investing easy for beginners and experienced people alike. For The One You Feed listeners, get a free stock like Apple, Ford, or Sprint to help you build your portfolio by going to youfeed.robinhood.com
Megan Devine is a pioneer in the fields of grief support and emotional intelligence. Since 2009, she’s been writing and talking about grief and love, shaking up our culture’s ideas about both all along the way. In this episode we discuss these topics along with her newest book,It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t UnderstandNeed help with completing your goals in 2019? The One You Feed Transformation Program can help you accomplish your goals this year.But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!In This Interview, Megan Devine and I Discuss…Her book, It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t UnderstandThat the way we deal with grief in our culture is brokenHow grief is a no-win situation for everyoneThe fact that we don’t like to talk about griefHow we carry losses with usThe myth that happiness is the same as health and that if you’re not happy, you’re doing something wrongThat some things cannot be fixed, they can only be carriedHow cruel it is to say everything happens for a reason and that you create your realityOur limited tools for going through difficultyVictim blamingHow we can’t be 100% safeThat we aren’t 100% in control of how we react to thingsIf we think grief is a problem to be solved, all of our tools will fail usSadness isn’t a problem eitherHow you can’t “get over it and put it behind you”The importance of having pain Heard, Honored and ValidatedThe power of listening and curiosityThinking of pain as an experience to be tendedThe things we have to live through and endure, that we can’t escapeMaking these difficult things gentler on usDecreasing suffering inside of griefWellness vs. worsenessPaying attention to the cause and effect of thingsThe hierarchy of griefTreating compassion as the abundant resource that it isHopeMeeting people where they areAsking: Do you want empathy or a problem solved right now?Asking: What do you need in this moment? What would feel useful right now?You can’t heal someone’s pain by trying to take it away from themThe importance of showing yourself kindnessMegan Devine LinksHomepageAnimation on GriefInstagramTwitter
Emotional or existential distress is not as easily noticed in patients with serious illness. Dr. Jennifer Moore is a palliative medicine consultant, specializing in dignity therapy. Claire Suarez is a physician’s assistant working in in-patient oncology and is trained in meaning centered therapy. Irene, Dori and Giovanna reference Harvey Chochinov’s work in dignity therapy and how it uses questions to help discover meaning in patients lives. Asking: “What has meaning for you?” “What is the most meaningful for you?” “What had meaning before your illness?” “How has that changed?” “How has that impacted you?” “What keeps you going?” LInk to Dignity Therapy: http://www.dignityincare.ca/en/toolkit.html It is discussed how imparting meaning is not helpful for the patient but we can ask questions and actively listen. This exploration needs to be a journey of self-awareness. Patients can feel stuck in a situation, and showing kindness can help their experience. Patients may shy away from talking about meaning, but it can be helpful to explore. It doesn’t need to be an hour-long conversation; it can be many short conversations. The hosts end the season by talking about how the psychological condition can impact physical condition so treating patient, as a whole is important. Helping treat the priority of conditions directed by the patient can establish a therapeutic relationship of trust. Ask questions that go beyond the physical state.
At age 70, Letty Cottin Pogrebin felt fit as a fiddle on the fateful day she walked three miles to her routine mammogram. A founding editor of Ms. (magazine) and women's rights activist, she had energy and to spare until she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Facing six weeks of radiation treatment, she was now obligated to join others in the waiting room of Memorial Sloan-Kettering in New York City. So, putting on her journalist hat, she began interviewing fellow patients. The result? How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick--an invaluable handbook about "The New Illness Etiquette" for both the sick and their friends. 00:10 Intro to Letty Cottin Pogrebin, book author and founding editor of Ms. (magazine) 01:15 The Flu and cold season begins 01:45 Pogrebin gets a routine mammogram at age 70 02:10 Breast cancer diagnosis comes without warning signs 04:00 Shares news of cancer and radiation with close friends via email 05:00 Searches in vain for a book about sickness and friendship 05:50 Interviews waiting-room patients for How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who’s Sick 06:31 Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center attracts people the world over 07:45 Discovers discrepancies between their the experiences and wishes of sick people 08:15 Unexpectedly learns about caregivers’ needs 09:30 Ripple effect of illness touches families and friends 09:50 Bottom line: people want to be honest—both the sick and their friends 10:40 What a friend should be able to ask a sick friend 11:10 What a sick person should be able to say to a friend 11:55 Truth-telling and "The New Illness Etiquette" 12:30 A friend reacts perfectly to Pogrebin's diagnosis 13:15 Asking “Do you want to talk about it?” gives a sick person control 13:25 Other lines that are both true and helpful 14:30 Sick people don’t want to hear or answer, “How are you?” 15:55 Their responses can overwhelm friends with TMI 16:15 Asking “What’s happening?” gives patient control over how much to disclose 17:30 Nobody wants to be labeled sick (such as “cancer girl”) 18:15 Saying, “You look great!” can give false reassurance and seem disingenuous 18:30 “Empathy translated into action equals kindness” 18:50 “Illness is friendship’s proving ground” 19:15 Guidelines for visiting sick friends – be considerate 20:40 Guidelines for giving gifts to sick friends – pay attention to diagnoses 21:00 Examples of inappropriate gifts and insensitive comments 22:30 Personalize a friend’s illness to the point you know what gifts to give 24:15 Humor and laughter depend entirely on how well you know the patient 24:50 Remembers laughing at Marlo Thomas’s funny jokes 26:00 Disparages fruit baskets and extols massages (and other sensitive gifts) 27:20 Why ice cream scoops adorn the book cover 28:50 Contrasts generous gifts with the gift she really wanted 29:15 Follow up “What would you like?” with “You know I’m bringing something” 30:25 Illustrates differences between sick men and sick women 30:50 25% of men interviewed hadn’t disclosed their illness 31:15 Tells a heartbreaking story of Orthodox Jewish man hiding his cancer diagnosis 33:45 Cultural and gender barriers prevent many men from sharing the truth 34:10 Women tend to feel comfortable confiding in close friends 35:30 The book includes many lists for how to be helpful & honest 36:00 First step: learn what to say to a friend who’s sick (“Do no harm.”) 36:20 Also, learn appropriate things to say to the bereaved 37:10 Recommendation – Ryan Hamilton: Happy Face (on Netflix) BUY How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick Watch the trailer for Ryan Hamilton: Happy Face. Connect with Nonfiction4Life! Facebook Instagram Twitter YouTube Website Special thanks… Music Credit Sound Editing Credit
Synopsis: Interested in in-depth Bible reading and Bible study? Today’s guest host Jim Kerwin (M.A., Biblical Studies) from Finest of the Wheat Teaching Fellowship, introduces us to the subject of hermeneutics — how to read and study and share the Scriptures in context. And for our purposes this week, discovering the context comes down to remembering two ideas: Asking “What’s the context?” every time we open the Bible to read. When we think about what we’re reading right now in […]
Cathy Hanlin is the founder of Empowered Minds and also serves as a success and results coach. In this episode, Justyn and Cathy discuss their experience at the world famous Tony Robbins Unleash the Power Within seminar. This episode sheds light on many areas; particularly why waking up to see what your life could be and that changing the world starts with changing ourselves first. Justyn and Cathy even weigh-in on what it would take to achieve world peace. Check Out Empowered Minds! https://empoweredminds.mykajabi.com/ https://www.facebook.com/justownyou/ Episode Timeline: 2:00 “The Fire Walk” 6:45 Cathy’s toughest adversity 10:00 Empowered Minds and a struggling generation 12:50: Why its important to be the person first and start with ourselves in order to change the world 16:00 Living life in gratitude 20:30 What beliefs construct your reality 26:00 Asking “What do I really want?” 29:00 Letting go of the desire to control others 33:00 Understanding Failure 38:00 Things that Cathy is working on 41:00 Caring what others think of us and asking better questions 49:00 Is world Peace attainable? Thanks so much for your listen. The Creating the Game team appreciates it very much!
Check out our new Stress Reducer CourseJeff Warren is a former journalist and more recently is a researcher, writer, and teacher of meditation and personal growth practices. His most recent book, written with Dan Harris, is called, Meditation for Fidgitty Skeptics: A 10% Happier How to Book. Jeff is a likable, relatable guy who carries a lot of practical wisdom in his conversational style of communicating. If you've ever felt like you're not good at meditating or that meditation just isn't for you because your brain never turns off, this interview is for you because that's how Jeff would describe himself, particularly at the beginning of his practice years ago. We all know that meditation is good for us but for many, it just feels inaccessible and out of reach. If that is how you feel, what Jeff has to share in this interview will make that gap shrink in size so much so that you can hop right over it and try again.Audible www.audible.com/oneyoufeed 500-500 text oneyoufeedRxBar www.rxbar.com/wolf Promo code WOLF 25% off your first order= Casper www.casper.com/oneyoufeed use promo code ONEYOUFEED for $50 off select mattressesIn This Interview, Jeff Warren and I Discuss...The Wolf ParableHis book with Dan Harris, Meditation for Fidgitty Skeptics: A 10% Happier How to BookThe role of meditation in living with depressionThe voice in our headsNot identifying with the voices in our headsComing out of the conversation in our headsThe idea of "I can't meditate"Thinking we're supposed to stop thinking when we meditateChanging the relationship with your thoughtsFocusing on an anchor, getting lost in thought, realizing you're lost in thought and coming back to your anchor = mediationHow quick we are to conclude that meditation isn't for usThat meditation is a practiceCelebrating the coming back from thought in meditationTraining affability during meditationFinding enjoyment and curiosity during meditation Asking "What's the attitude in my mind right now?" during meditationThat attitude is what you're training during meditationLooking at the world with interestEquanimity = a lack of pushing and pulling on experienceOpening to experience so that there's no frictionWhen everything has permission to express its self fullyCheck out our new Stress Reducer Course
Today I’m talking with Traver Boehm. I first met Traver on his fortieth birthday in the aftermath of having lost his marriage and business in a single day. Devastated by these events he had embarked on a Year to Live, inspired by the Stephen Levine book of the same title, whereby he lived an entire year as if it was his last. This conversation is very touching and insightful - we discuss the realities of divorce, find out how Traver found meaning and put his life back together through service, what it means to return to dating and relationships and to be guided by the gut instinct - something Traver calls his 'God of the Gut' - and how he advises the divorced men he works with today. We also learn about Traver’s Year to Live where he worked with the elderly dying in the public hospice system, spent a month in a pitch black meditation cell in Guatemala, and more. He’s a very inspiring and heartfelt man and I think you’ll really enjoy this one. Topics include: - The single day in which Traver lost his marriage and business in the aftermath of a miscarriage - Some of the bad advice Traver received - How profound loss led to his Year To Live experiment - The reality of divorce for men - Traver’s hellish divorce experience - Why divorce robs people of meaning and direction - How men avoid feeling the pain of divorce and what it costs them - Traver’s work with divorced men - Straight talk about divorce - The surprising ways in which divorce has radically changed the way - - Traver dates and does relationship - Traver’s ‘God of the Gut’ and being guided by gut instinct and bodily wisdom - How Traver drowned out his painful feelings during his marriage with substances and overwork - Traver’s daily practice that accesses his gut instinct - Planning his Year To Live and the meaning of the experiment - Asking ’What would I really do if this was the last year of my life?’ - Traver’s time volunteering in hospices in New Mexico - Lessons learned from the dying - The little things that afford a dying person dignity and comfort - Why every person should volunteer to care for the elderly - How to volunteer for hospice work in the USA - Traver’s month meditation retreat in a pitch black cell in Guatemala - Gambling with his sanity in the pitch blackness - Where to find Traver’s blog and writings Find out more about Traver here: - http://www.traverboehm.com - http://www.traverboehm.com/year-live-project-blindfolds-maserati/ Visit www.guruviking.com for more interviews, audios, and articles. Music 'Deva Dasi' by Steve James
From music to business, to everything in between, some of the greatest and most creative work is accomplished in collaboration. This week, sales expert and Speaker Jeff Davis joins us to explore the ins and outs of what it takes to work together.We explore:+Why no one wants to steal your idea+Collaborations in hip hop versus other music genres+Finding what unique skill or style you bring to the table+Creating a culture of Togetherness+Identifying a decision-maker+Asking ‘What’s the objective?’ in a group setting+The Zappos open concept office layout+The problem with consensus-driven decisions+How strong leaders act during meetings+The Occupy Wall Street movement+Organizational bottlenecks+Technology’s impact on collaborationFind Jeff online:Twitter @Jeff_Davis2www.smasummit.comwww.jeffdavis2.comReferences/Resources:Simon Sinek - Leaders Eat Last — https://amzn.com/B00G3L0ZTQ Kanye West - Crack Music — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGSH72Jw8QE Eminem - Without Me — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVkUvmDQ3HY Season 5 Theme Song:cLOUD9 - After Party — available at www.chicagoloud9.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Nicki Minaj & Taylor Swift's "Bad Blood", Donald Trump being himself, Hillary Clinton, Asking--What's your type?, Saints and Sinners, loving the f*ck out of your neighbors, and other ratchetness.
Pastor Don preaches a sermon on Deuteronomy 8:1-9 entitled "Asking What and Not Why." Don preaches on a text out of our weekly Bible reading from the 5-5 Bible reading plan. Here we hear about the trials and tribulations of our lives.
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