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I continue to interest myself with the concept of “attachments.” How and why we attach to anything. In this episode, I'm focusing specifically on relational attachments again.The concept is that in our childhood, we learned how to best attach to our primary caregivers and others. As no parent or caregiver or person is perfect, we have to hypothesize that nobody learns how to attach in perfect health. We adapt and cope. And unless you have given specific attention and done the work to understand yourself, chances are high, if not 100%, that you have some attachment styles and habits that are not serving your relationships best today. I start off questioning how attached we should be, at all, and looking first at how we attach to ourselves. My expert guest is Jessica Baum. Jessica is a renowned psychotherapist who has specialized in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica feels that connection—to ourselves and others—is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples find wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. Jessica previously authored the bestselling book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, which established her as a trusted voice in the healing of attachment wounds and building secure, fulfilling relationships. Her new book is, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, which was the catalyst for the conversation you are about to hear. Type “Jessica B-A-U-M” in anywhere and you'll find her. If you buy her book she has some free gifts at her website Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever wondered why you over-give to keep the peace, shut down to stay “strong,” or feel that push-pull of wanting closeness but fearing it—your attachment style is likely running the show behind the scenes.In this episode, I'm joined by Jessica Baum, therapist and author of Anxiously Attached and Safe. We break down attachment theory in real, everyday terms—how early experiences shape the way you love, what “secure” actually feels like in your body, and how to move from survival patterns to safe, connected relationships.We're diving into:✔️ The 4 attachment patterns (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)—and why most of us are blends depending on the person and season✔️ How anxious people-pleasing/self-abandonment and avoidant “I'm fine” independence form—and practical steps to heal (interoception, anchoring relationships, and rupture & repair)✔️ Raising (and re-raising) secure: what kids need now, why it's never too late to repair, and the role of friendship/community in feeling safeIf you're ready to stop waiting for the other shoe to drop and start feeling secure from the inside out—this conversation is for you.

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same kinds of relationships—or why certain dynamics show up in both your personal life and your business?    In this episode, Nicole sits down with Jessica Baum, a 2/4 Pure Generator, licensed psychotherapist, and bestselling author of Anxiously Attached, to unpack the hidden patterns that shape how we connect, love, and lead. Jessica shares insights from her upcoming book Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, and together they explore how understanding attachment theory can become a roadmap for healing and creating more fulfilling connections. Through heartfelt stories and clear explanations, Jessica breaks down the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and shows how these early patterns influence our adult lives. She explains how attachment wounds live in the body, shaping our nervous system responses and influencing the way we handle love, conflict, and even success. Nicole brings in the lens of Human Design, connecting the energetic and emotional aspects of our patterns to how we show up in our relationships and careers. Jessica and Nicole also talk about what true healing looks like: learning to feel safe in your body, finding supportive relationships that help regulate your nervous system, and honoring the coping mechanisms—or “protectors”—that once kept you safe.  If you've ever felt stuck in repeating cycles or longed for more ease in your relationships, this episode will help you see that transformation is possible.  Listen now!   Learn more about your Human Design and get your full chart for free at https://www.nicolelaino.com/chart   To download the Secret Podcast on how to Build & Scale Your Business with Human Design click here: nicolelaino.com/secretpodcast  Connect with Jessica Baum: - Visit her website at https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview  - Follow Jessica Baum on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/@beselffull  - ​​Don't miss Jessica Baum's upcoming release, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, out October 28. Be sure to visit nicolelaino.com/podcastlinks for all of the current links to events, freebies, and more! If you enjoyed this week's episode, I'd so appreciate you doing a few things for me:  Please subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen! Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts.  Tag me @nicolelainoofficial on your IG stories with a story of you listening to the podcast and I'll make sure to share your post!  Interested in learning more about working with me? Click here to learn more about how we can work together.   

Show Notes: https://eggshelltherapy.com/podcast-blog/2025/10/18/jessica-baum/Jessica, author of Anxiously Attached, returns to discuss her new book, Safe, which expands beyond her first work to cover all four attachment patterns: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. Drawing on interpersonal neurobiology, she explores how early attachment wounds live in the body as implicit memory and cannot be healed alone. They require safe, anchoring relationships where nervous systems can co-regulate, whether with therapists, coaches, or trusted others. She reframes triggers as awakenings, inviting curiosity about what earlier wounds are being touched, and contextualizes people-pleasing as an intelligent adaptation rather than a flaw.Eggshell Therapy and Coaching: eggshelltherapy.com About Imi Lo: www.imiloimilo.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/eggshelltherapy_imilo/ Newsletters: https://eepurl.com/bykHRzDisclaimers: https://www.eggshelltherapy.com/disclaimers Trigger Warning: This episode may cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, relationship challenges, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics, and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics. Disclaimer: The content provided is for informational purposes only. Please do not consider any of the content clinical or professional advice. None of the content can substitute mental health intervention. Opinions and views expressed by the host and the guests are personal views and they reserve the right to change their opinions. We also cannot guarantee that everything mentioned is factual and completely accurate. Any action you take based on the information in this episode is taken at your own risk.

Jessica's path and my path are elegantly aligned, our souls are here to do the deep work, to be role models of authenticity and credibility, to walk our talk. A dear colleague and returning guest, Jessica Baum and I reunited on Intimate Conversations to dive into the profound wisdom of her healing journey after the conscious completion of her marriage and the wisdom of this experience written for you, in her newest book, Safe. In this brave, revealing and heartfelt conversation, we explored not just her expertise as a psychotherapist and author, but her lived experience of love, loss, grief, and deep integration. We talked about… -How leaving a relationship—despite love being present—taught her to honor her own needs and stop trying to “fix” partners who weren't ready to do the work, to bless and release with love -Why we're so often magnetized to the “familiar” (even when it's painful), and how implicit memory and attachment wounds stored in the body can unconsciously guide our choices in love -The importance of safe people, safe mentors and safe environments when doing the deep healing of trauma and attachment wounds, and why support is essential—not optional -The difference between a trauma bond (recreating old wounds with a partner) and true healing partnership where both people are willing to do the work and evolve together -How respecting someone's capacity—without judgment—helped Jessica find compassion for her ex, while staying committed to her own path of growth and embodiment -Her practices for cultivating secure attachment through yoga, friendships, presence, and building safety in her own body—leading to deeper joy and connection with life -And the heart and science behind her new book Safe, which she hopes will become a companion for readers ready to break free from old patterns and create secure, fulfilling relationships I loved witnessing how we've both grown since our last Podcast. I respect her commitment to the work, to guiding her practitioners, to writing this next book and to having even more rich, soul-stirring connections with her friends. I love how we're both open to healthy partnership from wholeness and even deeper integration. Jessica also shared some beautiful free gifts with her book—like her Wheel of Attachment blueprint and a conversation with her mentor Bonnie Badenoch—so that you feel deeply supported as you walk this path of healing. https://www.beselffull.com/anxiouslyattached Join us over on After The Show on www.Patreon.com/allanapratt where she answers the 3 questions in what I'll call a cosmic way, grooving to Pearl Jam and blessings each other's bravery, expansion and homecoming. I know you'll feel Jessica's compassion, wisdom, and authenticity radiating through every word of this new book. ➡️ Go check out patreon.com/allanapratt for Exclusive content! About Jessica:   JESSICA BAUM is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life—why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection—to ourselves and others—is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. Jessica is a certified addiction specialist and Imago couples therapist with advanced training in EMDR, experiential therapy, CBT, and DBT. Her bestselling book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, established her as a trusted voice in the healing of attachment wounds and building secure, fulfilling relationships. Website: https://www.beselffull.com Facebook URL https://www.facebook.com/@beselffull Instagram URL https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ YouTube URL https://www.youtube.com/@jessicabaumlmhc Book: https://www.amazon.com/Safe-Attachment-Informed-Building-Secure-Relationships/dp/0593850815   Schedule your Intimacy Breakthrough Experience with me today https://allanapratt.com/connect Scholarship Code: READYNOW ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Finding the One is Bullsh*t. Becoming the One is brilliant and beautiful, and ironically the key to attracting your ideal partner. Move beyond the fear of getting hurt again. Register for Become the One Introductory Program. http://allanapratt.com/becomeintro Use Code: BTO22 to get over 40% off ________________________________________________________ ❤️ We're thrilled to partner with Magic Mind for this episode. 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In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is joined by psychotherapist and attachment expert Jessica Baum to explore the science of attachment styles and their impact on intimacy, relationships, and emotional health. Together, they discuss how childhood experiences shape adult romantic patterns, why anxious and avoidant individuals are often drawn together, and practical strategies for healing insecure attachments. Listeners will gain valuable insights into building safer, more fulfilling connections and recognizing the difference between true intimacy and intensity in relationships. Just write check out growtherapy at GrowTherapy.com/DRMALIK Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:00:49 Attachment styles overview 00:03:59 Parenting and attachment 00:07:49 Anxious and avoidant dynamics 00:12:14 Sex and intimacy patterns 00:16:44 Disorganized attachment explained 00:23:05 Healing attachment outside romance 00:26:00 Intensity vs. real intimacy 00:33:50 Modern culture and avoidance 00:40:19 Letting go of unhealthy bonds 00:51:41 Trauma impact on sexual health Check out my free e-book Better Sex, Better Life https://www.renamalikmd.com/morepleasure Check out Grow Therapy at **GrowTherapy.com/DRMALIK** Get Jessica Baum's book Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships: https://amzn.to/4pM1duZ Jessica's Freebies for You! https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview Stay connected with Jessica on social media for daily insights and updates. Don't miss out—follow her now and check out these links! INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/consciousrelationshipgroup LINKEDIN - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-baum-lmhc-cap-038a1538/ Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

JESSICA BAUM is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection to ourselves and others is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads the Conscious Relationship Group, a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. Jessica is a certified addiction specialist and Imago couples therapist with advanced training in EMDR, experiential therapy, CBT, and DBT. Her bestselling book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, established her as a trusted authority on healing attachment wounds and building secure, fulfilling relationships.Grab Jessica's freebie: https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview.Ashlynn Mitchell is the voice behind This Is Ashlynn, a show redefining what it means to thrive in midlife. She is also the former cohost of the top 10 podcast The Betrayed, The Addicted & The Expert. After a public divorce that ended a 21-year marriage, she turned pain into purpose. For over 10 years, she has coached women through the messy, magical process of healing and reinvention after betrayal, divorce, or years of self-abandonment.With two teenage daughters and a life rebuilt from the ground up, Ashlynn leads with lived experience. Through coaching and soulful retreats, she helps women trust themselves again, reclaim joy, and stop playing small, with or without a shared experience of betrayal or divorce. Her work is for women ready to own their story, their pleasure, their peace, and their power. When she's not coaching, you'll find her hiking, roller skating, or dancing like no one's watching.Find her at www.thisisashlynn.com and on Instagram @this.isAshlynn

In this episode, Jessica and James explore how your attachment style influences the relationships you form at work and at home, and what strategies you can do to lead with safety. The post Leading with Safety: What Attachment Theory Teaches Us About Trust and Influence w Jessica Baum appeared first on .

Jessica Baum shares her personal journey through anxiety and depression that led her into studying attachment theory and writing her books. She explains how cultural messages about independence often conflict with our biological need for connection, and how healing happens through safe, consistent relationships. Her work emphasizes the importance of “anchors”—people who can provide presence, safety, and co-regulation—as a pathway toward secure attachment and earned security. Colter, Lauren, and Jessica talk about topics such as: - Codependency = anxious attachment - Cultural pressure for independence - Healing through safe connection - Importance of anchors/secure people - Co-regulation before self-regulation - Familiar vs. healthy attraction Freebie from Jessica: https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview Give Me Discounts! NOCD.COM - If you're tired of unwanted thoughts affecting your relationships and other areas of your life, visit nocd.com Audible - Visit audible.com/janeaustin to get listen to this incredible reading rendition of Pride & Prejudice Skylight - Visit skylightcal.com/IDO for $30 off your 15 inch calendar.  Function - 160+ Lab Tests for $365. Learn more & get started at www.functionhealth.com/IDO Amazfit - Visit www.amazfit.com/IDO to get 10% off Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why does it always seem like déjà vu when it comes to your love life? Ever catch yourself wondering, “Why does every guy I date end up cheating, no matter who he is?” Or maybe you're on the flip side thinking, “Why does every woman I date always seem to have anger issues?”  It's almost like you're stuck in a dating loop, attracting the same person in a different body. But why does this keep happening? In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with therapist and relationship expert Jessica Baum, author of new book Safe, to explore why our love lives so often play out like déjà vu. Jessica takes us far beyond attachment labels like “anxious” or “avoidant.” She reveals how our parents' nervous systems wire our own from infancy, shaping the way we connect, attach, and seek safety. Those early wounds often live in our bodies as sensation, surfacing later when a partner pulls away, rolls their eyes, or simply doesn't show up the way we need. If you're ready to stop repeating old patterns, this episode is your first step. We explore:  Why traditional attachment labels don't tell the whole story and what does. How to tell the difference between your "thinking" left brain and your "feeling" right brain. The surprising reason you keep attracting the same type of partner (and how to break the cycle). Why "triggers" are actually invitations for healing and how to reframe them. How memory is stored not just in your mind, but in your gut, heart, and muscles. What it truly means to heal in a relationship, and why you can't do it alone. The subtle signs your nervous system is scanning for to answer, "Are you with me?" A powerful, real-life example of rupture and repair between a parent and adult child. Practical steps to start creating safety within yourself and your relationships. Remember to check out Jessica's other books, including Anxiously Attached. And don't forget to preorder your copy of Safe, coming out on October 28. It's the manual your relationships have been missing. As a special gift for listeners, she's offering free bonuses, including a deep-dive healing blueprint and a rare interview with her mentor. You can find her at jessicabaumlmhc.com and on Instagram @jessicabaumlmhc  If you want to share your own love story, I'd love to hear it. Send me an email at languageoflovepod@gmail.com. Want to know what you really want in love? Take the quiz  now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Note: Gabe was having some audio issues at the beginning of the interview.A listener writes in asking what to do now that her friend got quickie married to someone with a lot of internalized misogyny. Then, psychotherapist Jessica Baum joins the show to talk about healing attachment wounds from a trauma-informed lens. And finally, Gabe shares what it's been like dealing with brain fog during his chronic illness.Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a monthly livestream, PLUS MORE:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. WatsonOur Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.rosettastone.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is an encore episode with Jessica Baum. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) who supports those struggling with anxiety, relationship conflict, marital issues, and codependent relationships. She's the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, published in June 2022, and Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, available October 2025. Jessica is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a group practice providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in south Florida since 2016, the Self-full® Method, and her sister company, Be Self-full.In this episode of Last First Date Radio:Tools to use when triggered in a relationshipHow to become aware of repeating patterns of low self-worth and abandonmentHow our nervous system impacts our relationships and is unconsciously driving our behaviorHealthy chemistry versus an activated nervous systemConnect with Jessica at https://www.beselffull.com/ and @jessicabaumlmhc on instagram. Order her book Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love https://amzn.to/3M7DRMq, and preorder her newest book, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships https://amzn.to/45dHtGW►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

In this episode, I sit down with renowned therapist, author, and relationship expert Jessica Baum to unpack the roots of anxious attachment. We dive deep into the patterns that keep us stuck, the myths around chemistry and connection, and why healing our nervous system is essential for breaking free from addiction, co-dependency, and relational burnout. If you've ever felt like you're too much, not enough, or always chasing emotional safety, you're going to feel seen and soothed in this one. What We Cover: Why so many of us are anxiously attached How core wounds silently shape our relationships The connection between attachment and addiction What a healthy relationship actually feels like Join the Membership: Get your FREE 7-day trial to A Sober Girls Guide Membership. Get the tools and support you need to make changes stick. Follow Us: Instagram  Website    

Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed.Why do some people have anxious or avoidant attachment styles, while others are totally secure? A lot of it comes down to our formative years in childhood, as early as infancy — but we aren't stuck in those patterns forever. If you're working on cultivating a secure attachment style in your relationships, this throwback to our attachment theory episode with expert Jessica Baum is a must-listen. Jessica is a psychotherapist and couples counselor, founder of The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, and the founder of Be Self-full®, a company that provides counseling, group coaching and courses for couples and individuals. Listen to our full episode with Jess here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Jessica:@jessicabaumlmhcBeselffull.comBuy Jessica's book Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

In this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn't just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and psychological necessity that shapes the way we connect, heal, and grow. Whether you've struggled with abandonment wounds, anxious or avoidant patterns, or felt unseen in your relationships, this conversation offers deep clarity and actionable insights. Topics Covered:

In today's podcast, we explore an insightful non-fiction title by author Jessica Baum. Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love is a “road map for building strong and secure relationships for those who struggle with anxiety in their romantic connections.” Find this title in the FVRL collection: https://fvrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S21C1869469

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A listener wrote to us with a heartbreaking question: What can I say to my friend who won’t leave an abuser? Is there anything I can say to get through to her? We bring on survivor Ashley Trujillo from Betrayal Season 2, who’s faced a similar choice, and therapist Jessica Baum to unpack the trauma, denial, and deep attachment that can keep people stuck. For more on attachment and healing, check out Jessica Baum’s book "Anxiously Attached, Becoming More Secure in Life and Love.” If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at betrayalpod@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram at @betrayalpod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Where did you find inspiration and meaning in 2024? This week sex therapist and friend of the podcast TRACEY COX joins Andrew to reflect on another year of The Meaningful Life, and to discuss the episodes that meant the most to them.  They share highlights from episodes with: Samantha Rodman Whiten (Dr Psych Mom) on Being an Adult Child of Dysfunctional Parents. Jessica Baum on Anxious Attachment. Douglas Thomas on What You Can Learn About Yourself from Your Sexual Fantasies. Robert Glover on People Pleasing Robert Neimeyer on the Six Tasks of Grief Joseph Lee on Jungian Dream Analysis (bonus material) Alan Pearce on Comas and Near-Death Experiences (bonus material).  Subscriber Content This Week  If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing:  More things we learned last year and first news on exciting new projects for 2025  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Buy Great Sex Starts at 50: How to Age-Proof Your Libido by Tracey Cox Get the advice you need on your sex life from Tracey Cox Listen to Tracey Cox and Kelsey Chittick's SexTok podcast Follow Tracey Cox on social media: Instagram, Facebook and Twitter/X. Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Living a life well lived by exploring the depths of Psychology and Polyvagal Theory with Dr. Stephen Porges. Join host Sam Webster on the Growth Mindset Psychology Show as he engages in a deep and enlightening conversation with Dr. Stephen Porges, the renowned researcher behind polyvagal theory. This episode delves into fundamental truths about psychology, societal norms, and personal growth. Dr. Porges shares insights on the body's physiological reactions to safety and threat, how they impact our behavior, and how understanding these can help us lead fulfilling lives. Tune in to explore the science of self-improvement and the importance of curiosity, all while unravelling the complexities of human existence. Recommended Books Our Polyvagal World - Stephen Porges & Seth Porges Recommended Episodes The Psychology of Fear, Security & Emotional Intelligence: Neuroscience lessons from Polyvagal Theory - 13th Aug 2024 How Attachment styles affect all relationships: w/ Jessica Baum - 14th Jun 2024 The Neuroscience of Growth Mindset: Learning and behaviour change - 30th July 2024 Attachment Styles: Understanding our emotional blueprinte - 20th Feb 2024 Stephen W. Porges, PhD Website - StephenPorges.com Work - PolyvagalInstitute.org Books - Book List Wikipedia - Stephen-Porges Meet Sam Free Call - Schedule Link Growth Mindset Psychology: Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Website - GrowthMindsetPodcast.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Expansive Thinking Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Curiosity, Safety and Mindset 02:15 Basics of PolyVagal Theory and Episode Outline 05:51 The Rubik's Cube of Psychology 06:45 Primitive Organisms and Threat Response 07:31 Creating a Safe Learning Environment 08:43 Polyvagal Theory and Personal Reactions 11:06 Intuition vs. Neural Reflex 12:31 The Role of Voice and Intonation 15:50 Social Pressure and Authenticity 18:18 The Physiology of Safety and Stress 20:27 Dealing with Constant Threat - Academic and Professional Challenges 23:55 Stephen's Personal Journey and Academic Frustrations 30:10 Curiosity, Creativity, and Personal Fulfillment 41:45 The Zen of Loading the Dishwasher 41:54 The Power of Focus 43:18 Polyvagal Music: Healing Through Sound 46:11 The Importance of Physiological State and Co-Regulation 46:56 The Role of Rhythm in Well-being 48:46 Exploring the History of Psychology 50:15 The Intersection of Technology and Research 52:55 Final Remarks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to manage stress, build a calmer state of mind and create a foundation for growth and autonomy. Polyvagal Theory is an intriguing sounding term that holds a lot of answers to how the body perceives threats and gives a surprising amount of actionable take homes that we can use in our everyday lives. Join Sam Webster in this episode of the Growth Mindset Psychology Podcast as he dives deep into the fascinating world of fear, security, emotional intelligence and neuroscience. There are three main states in which our nervous system operates: Sympathetic (fight or flight) Parasympathetic (rest and digest) Dorsal vagal (shutdown) They impact our reactions, mental health, and ability to engage with the world. We'll learn how the body controls itself without conscious control and how to build techniques that give us the freedom to choose our own state and outcomes. This is essential listening for anyone with experience of trauma or attachment injuries but it is also fundamental for creating the security we need to have a growth mindset. Sponsors:

Much of how we interact with the world comes from early experiences from our childhood, with our family, and in our community. Attachment styles are psychological models for understanding the ways in which we tend to bond to others, particularly our spouses. This week's guest reveals how understanding your attachment patterns might help you navigate your relationships with more grace. Listen and learn: The difference between secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles Why we often partner with people who make attachments more challenging How to move toward the ever-elusive secure attachment style Links Jessica's Site ABOUT OUR GUEST Jessica Baum is the founder of Be Self-full® and The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach. She's the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love. Like the Show? Leave us a review Check out our YouTube channel

Uncover the reasons behind your behaviour patterns and what to do about it. Attachment is a core part of human instinct that is formed incredibly early yet impacts our whole life. Jessica Baum is a Licensed Mental Health Counsellor, Relationship Expert and author. Expect to learn: Why anxious attachment styles develop How to alter an attachment style How to communicate effectively with each attachment style What happens in couple therapy Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer as you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Sponsor - ShortForm Summaries and guides for the world's best books and ideas. FREE trial and 20% off annual fee - ShortForm.com/Psychology Jessica Baum Insta - @JessicaBaumLMHC Website and coaching - BeSelfFull.com Anxiously Attached - UK Book - US Book Other Reading Attachment - Amir Levine - UK Book - US Book Body Keeps the Score - UK Book - US Book Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Attachment styles 01:41 Attachment Styles and Growth Mindset 01:53 The Origins of Attachment Theory 05:37 Metacognition in Development 08:12 Couples Therapy for Attachment Issues 12:09 Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation 15:19 Dependency vs Interdependency 19:07 Catastrophizing and Attachment Styles 21:40 Mirror Neurons and Attunement 25:32 Cultural Impacts on Attachment 27:24 Attachment as an Evolutionary Feature 31:22 Signs You Need to Explore Attachment 32:51 Steelmanning Attachment Theory 35:13 Gender Differences in Attachment 37:22 Narcissism and Attachment Wounds 39:09 ADHD vs Disorganized Attachment 42:46 The Imago Dialogue 45:16 Expectations in Attachment Therapy 46:25 Areas for Future Attachment Research 47:49 Boundaries and Implicit Memory 49:28 Neuroception and Building Awareness 51:42 Closing Thoughts and Resources 52:31 Earliest Memories 53:02 Kindest Thing 55:05 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the world of anxious attachment with Jessica Baum, renowned therapist and author of the transformative book, Anxiously Attached. In our conversation, Jessica explains what anxious attachment is, how it forms, and its effects on relationships. We also explore the dynamics of anxious-avoidant partnerships and discuss practical strategies for managing insecurities and building healthier, more secure connections. Whether you're new to the concept of attachment styles or seeking to deepen your understanding and heal from anxious attachment, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Jessica provides clarity on why we act the way we do in relationships and how we can start the journey toward healing and secure attachment. What You'll Learn: The definition and characteristics of anxious attachment. How early childhood experiences shape attachment styles. The impact of anxious attachment on relationship dynamics. Strategies to identify and manage anxiously attached behaviours. Techniques for self-soothing and handling fears of abandonment. Insights into the anxious-avoidant relationship dynamic and how to navigate it. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/  W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 GUEST LINKS:IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/?hl=enW: https://www.beselffull.com/B: https://www.amazon.com.au/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An anxious attachment style is very common, and can lead to chaotic and unsuccessful relationships. Research suggests that anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviours that get in the way of finding and sustaining love.  In this episode psychotherapist Jessica Baum talks with Andrew about identifying and understanding our attachment style, and building the inner resources required to create more secure, happier relationships.  Jessica Baum is the founder of The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, and the author of Anxiously Attached: How to Heal and Feel More Secure in Love. She created the Self-full Method to help people in both one-on-one and online transformational group coaching who are struggling with anxiety, relationship conflict, marital issues, and codependent relationships. Subscriber Content This Week If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing: When does anxious attachment become love addiction or codependency? Three things Jessica Baum knows to be true. AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Read Jessica Baum's book Anxiously Attached: How to Heal and Feel More Secure in Love. Visit Jessica Baum's website to learn more about her work, including the Self-full method. Follow Jessica Baum on Instagram and YouTube @jessicabaumlmhc and on Facebook @beselffull Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50. Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Talking with Jessica Baum, psychotherapist, speaker and author of the book Anxiously Attached about attachment styles, dysfunction, healing our attachment wounds and learning to thrive in an insecurely attached society.  Find out more about Jessica here: https://www.beselffull.com/  Jessica's Book ‘Anxiously Attached': https://a.co/d/45zHGjT  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Quince - Indulge in affordable luxury! Go to Quince.com/TALK for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. • Shopify - Go to shopify.com/kctalk now to grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We will learn: • The unspoken emotional pacts we make in relationships. • How to manage anxious attachments. • The powerful steps to sit with your past wounds, understand their impact, and start to heal.Have you ever found yourself wondering why certain feelings just won't leave you be? Like you're carrying this invisible backpack filled with emotions that somehow seem too familiar, no matter where you go or who you're with? You might have asked yourself, why do these bits of the past cling so stubbornly, shaping not just moments, but your very life story?See, the thing is, we're all a product of our experiences, but sometimes, it's not the ones you can outright remember that have the tightest grip. It's those subtle, often overlooked emotional imprints from our youngest years that silently steer the ship of our behavior, relationships, and, yes, even our self-worth.But here's a kicker: these same shadows, as painful as they can be, also have the power to lead to the most profound understanding of ourselves. Today, we're diving into just how much of our adult selves are blueprints scribbled in our young minds. Our guest is Jessica Baum. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/338 Become a Mind Love Member for high-value Masterclasses, Growth Workbooks, Monthly Meditations, and Uninterrupted Listening FREE 5-Days to Purpose Email Course Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes to wake up inspired Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We will learn: • The unspoken emotional pacts we make in relationships. • How to manage anxious attachments. • The powerful steps to sit with your past wounds, understand their impact, and start to heal. Have you ever found yourself wondering why certain feelings just won't leave you be? Like you're carrying this invisible backpack filled with emotions that somehow seem too familiar, no matter where you go or who you're with?  You might have asked yourself, why do these bits of the past cling so stubbornly, shaping not just moments, but your very life story? See, the thing is, we're all a product of our experiences, but sometimes, it's not the ones you can outright remember that have the tightest grip. It's those subtle, often overlooked emotional imprints from our youngest years that silently steer the ship of our behavior, relationships, and, yes, even our self-worth. But here's a kicker: these same shadows, as painful as they can be, also have the power to lead to the most profound understanding of ourselves.  Today, we're diving into just how much of our adult selves are blueprints scribbled in our young minds. Our guest is Jessica Baum. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method.  Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/338 Become a Mind Love Member for high-value Masterclasses, Growth Workbooks, Monthly Meditations, and Uninterrupted Listening FREE 5-Days to Purpose Email Course Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes to wake up inspired Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are back talking about one of our favorite topics with the help of fellow licensed mental health counselor, Jessica Baum. Jessica is the founder of The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach and her work is focused on developing a meaningful connection with oneself and in understanding our own core patterns so that we can better understand how we relate in our relationships. She recently came out with a new book Anxiously Attached to offer a roadmap to help you go from anxiously attached to building strong, secure relationships. In this episode we hear Jessica's take on Attachment Theory, talk about the "anxious avoidant dance",  and discuss how one's insecure attachment can be affected by using dating apps.  Learn more about Jessica HERE. Follow Jessica on Instagram HERE.  Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapyodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don't know what it is? Click here!   Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jessica Baum, LMHC, is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. Her book Anxiously Attached helps people understand their attachment style and build an inner strength that will lead them to more secure and satisfying relationships. It is an empowering road map for those who struggle with anxiety in their romantic connections   She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Through her sister company, Be Self-full®, Jessica offers transformational courses and online coaching services that support individuals and couples to form healthy, long-term relationships. Born and raised in Manhattan, she now lives in West Palm Beach, Florida. 

Attachment theory is a valuable lense to examine ourselves and our relationships. Understanding how most of us will fall into common negative attachment patterns can help you heal and thrive in your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn more about attachment theory, breaking negative patterns and much more! In this episode with Jessica Baum we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to negotiate comfort between closeness and space in your relationship What attachment patterns are and how they are formed How our partner's can help us co-regulate our nervous system Navigating your partner's capacity for growth The anxious/avoidant negative cycle and how to break it And much more! Sponsors Foria is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/ido. Athena Club is your one stop shop to fulfilling all of your shaving needs. Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honour of Valentine's week, we're bringing you a bonus episode for Day 2 of all things love, for all you anxiously attached out there who are seeking romance. (It's me... this episode is for me.) Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we throw it back to a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Dating while anxiously attached can be a mind-fuck. Is it chemistry, or trauma? Am I attracted to them, or is this volatility just playing into a wound? Why does the "safe" guy feel boring AF? We're throwing it back to the key answers to all these Qs from our attachment styles episode with expert Jessica Baum.Jessica is a psychotherapist and couples counselor, founder of The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, and the founder of Be Self-full®, a company that provides counseling, group coaching and courses for couples and individuals. Listen to our full episode with Jess here.Take Jessica's quiz to find out what your attachment style is!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Jessica:@jessicabaumlmhcBeselffull.comBuy Jessica's book Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love Our show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerKyla Killackey, Digital EditorCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you've been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren't sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Jessica Baum is a Psychotherapist, Author, Relationship Coach, and Founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Through her sister company, Be Self-full®, Jessica offers transformational courses and online coaching services that support individuals and couples to form healthy, long-term relationships. She's the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love which we discuss in this interview. Join The Newsletter + Receive Your Free List of 52 Selfcare Tips RESOURCES MENTIONED Websites: https://www.beselffull.com/ and https://www.relationshipspb.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beselffull Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ Book: Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love Books Jess references: Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives Our Polyvagal World: How Safety and Trauma Change Us by Stephen Porges, PhD Please rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! XO, Michele Rate + Review: 1. Click on this link 2. Click “Listen on Apple Podcasts” link 3. Scroll down to “Ratings and Reviews” 4. Click on “write a review”, rate and a leave short review and you're done! If you'd like to advertise or sponsor the show, you can reach out here. This episode was sponsored by Design a Life You Love, A Woman's Guide to Living a Happier and More Fulfilled Life. My book includes 52 inspirations, one for every week of the year, each with practical tips to guide you to self-love and success on your own terms. It makes a great gift for yourself or a friend!

The fear of abandonment, difficulty managing emotions in relationships, and a need for reassurance are just a few signs you might have an anxious attachment. Attachment issues are on the rise, and they can cause a lot of pain. They often stem beyond just romantic relationships. Jessica Baum is a psychotherapist and the author of Anxiously Attached. Some of the things she talks about today are how to cope with relationship anxiety, how to figure out your attachment style, and how to heal from anxious attachment. Links & Resources Attachment Style Quiz Visit Jessica's website — beselfful.com Offers From Our Sponsors BetterHelp — Visit BetterHelp.com/mentallystrong today to get 10% off your first month! LMNT — Get your electrolytes in balance with LMNT! Go to DrinkLMNT.com/stronger, and get a free sample pack with any purchase! Babbel — Get 55% off at Babbel.com/STRONGER Shopify — Sign up for a $1/month trial period at shopify.com/mentallystronger Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium — Get exclusive bonus episodes, access to the Mentally Stronger community, and answers to your questions about mental strength! Connect with the Show Buy Amy's books on mental strength Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Email the show — Podcast@AmyMorinLCSW.com Order 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know your attachment style? Jana is talking to relationship coach Jessica Baum to fill in the blanks on anxious attachment styles.  Find out how they form, how to handle anxiety, and what to do when you feel an emotional trigger.  Plus, Jana opens up about why her attachment to Allan is unlike anything she's experienced before. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Psychotherapist, author, and relationship expert, Jessica Baum, join us to discuss her latest book, "Anxiously Attached," sharing insights on the journey to secure and fulfilling life and love. Discover your attachment style through Jessica's quiz—fear, anxious, secure, or detached—and delve into a transformative conversation about healing wounds, building conscious relationships, and understanding the roots of our present dynamics. Connect With Jessica: Website: https://www.beselffull.com  Instagram: @jessicabaumlmhc Book: 'Anxiously Attached'  Podcast Sponsors and Discounts: VionicShoes.com - use code GABBY at checkout for 15% off your entire order when you log into your account  HVMN - save 30% off your first subscription order of Ketone-IQ at HVMN.com/GABBY ​BetterHelp.com/GR today to get 10% off your first month EarthBreeze.com/GABBY for 40% off Maui Nui- Go to mauinuivenison.com/GABBY to get 20% off your first order. Follow Gabby on:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialGabrielleReece/ Gabby Reece Website - https://gabriellereece.com/ Bio: Gabrielle 'Gabby' Reece is an American actress, podcaster, and former model and professional volleyball player best known for hosting a lifestyle, health & fitness podcast titled The Gabby Reece Show. Additionally, she is the co-founder of XPT | Extreme Performance Training and Laird Superfood alongside her husband and big wave surfer Laird Hamilton. The Gabby Reece Show talks to top experts with the goal of extracting the best information you will need to navigate the universe of health, fitness, relationships, parenting, and business. Gabby keeps it simple but gets to the heart of the conversation with the hopes of providing you with realistic takeaways. The Gabby Reece Show Transcript: https://gabriellereece.com/podcast/ The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeEINLNlGvIceFOP7aAZk5A Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Erin and Sara sit down with psychotherapist Jessica Baum, the founder of Be Self-full, and the author of "Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love." They discuss the different insecure attachment styles and how we develop them, why it's important to have compassion for yourself, how to begin to heal, and more.Executive Producers: Erin Foster, Sara Foster, and Allison BresnickAssociate Producer: Montana McBirneyAudio Engineer: Josh WindischThis episode is sponsored by: Open (withopen.com/FOSTER)Jenni Kayne (Jennikayne.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER15)Exponent Beauty (exponentbeauty.com PROMO CODE: FOSTERS20)Vegamour (vegamour.com/foster PROMO CODE: foster)Boll & Branch (bollandbranch.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER15)BetterHelp (betterhelp.com/foster) 

LifeBlood: We talked about moving from insecure to secure in relationships, why relationships are so hard, why we are the way we are and act the way we do, how to recognize our fears and adaptive strategies, and how to become more secure in life and love, with Jesscia Baum, Founder of The Relationship Institute, psychotherapist, and author.        Listen to learn how to know whether or not to trust your intuition! You can learn more about Jessica at BeSelfFull.com, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and LinkedIn. Get your copy of Anxiously Attached HERE https://amzn.to/47QaDw0 Thanks, as always for listening! If you got some value and enjoyed the show, please leave us a review here: ​​https://ratethispodcast.com/lifebloodpodcast You can learn more about us at LifeBlood.Live, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube and Facebook or you'd like to be a guest on the show, contact us at contact@LifeBlood.Live.  Stay up to date by getting our monthly updates. Want to say “Thanks!” You can buy us a cup of coffee. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeblood

Welcome to the Anxiety RX podcast! Today's episode features Jessica Baum, LMHC and psychotherapist. We dive into the world of attachment, breaking down misconceptions and emphasizing its dynamic nature. Jessica shares insights on the importance of understanding our inner child and creating a safe space for healing. We explore the connection between body and mind, urging listeners to go beyond quick-fix strategies for anxiety. The conversation deepens into developmental trauma and the potential for rewiring the brain through revisiting past traumas. Whether you're navigating attachment styles or seeking a deeper understanding of anxiety, make sure to check out this episode! Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions. PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 2700+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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Jessica Baum, LMHC, is the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, and founder of Be Self-full® (beselffull.com), supporting individuals and couples to form healthy, long-term relationships with virtual coaching and transformational courses worldwide. As a couples and family therapist for over a decade, Jessica utilizes her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. With a foundation in interpersonal neurobiology, it has helped thousands of clients to heal from trauma. Born and raised in Manhattan, she now lives in West Palm Beach, Florida working with clients internationally. Learn more about Jessica's book and redeem a free course: https://www.beselffull.com/podcast-link Stay connected with Jessica: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/   Additional Resources:

Jessica is a psychotherapist who helps individuals and couples restore connection and have conscious relationships.  She is the founder of Be Self-full®, a company that provides tailored coaching services, helping women empower themselves.  Be Self-full® is her sister company to The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach where she offers psychotherapy services to clients in Florida.  She is the author of the great book – Anxiously attached – how to heal and feel more secure in love.  Here are some of the things we talked about in today's show:    The different attachment styles – anxious, avoidant and secure  The behaviors of the activated anxiously attachment and how it gets triggered in relationships   The link of our primary caregivers, how we grew up and what we seek out in romantic relationships later in life  Your inner child,  the secret language of the “little me” pact and core wounds The Anxious Avoidant Dance why they are energetically drawn to one another  Why we can't heal if we don't feel safe. The reason our bodies won't allow it.  The 5 top signs you are in a toxic relationship (gaslighting, you're the only investor, silent treatment, not supported, they never take accountability)  And more..   (WEBSITE) Online Relationship Counseling | Online Couples Counseling (beselffull.com) (YOUTUBE) (1)   Jessica Baum, LMHC - YouTube (FACEBOOK) Facebook (INSTAGRAM) Jessica Baum LMHC (@jessicabaumlmhc) • Instagram photos and videos Anxiously Attached book:  https://www.amazon.co.uk/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060

On this weeks episode we are joined by Jessica Baum.  Jessicas journey to becoming a psychotherapist started when she was just a little girl. She would always ask the question “why?” Why was this happening? Or Why do I feel like this?  Growing up and experiencing the highs and lows of life, Jessica was inspired to complete studies in mental health counseling. Specialising in psychodrama and experiential therapy, whilst also practicing cognitive therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy, EMDR therapy and Post Induction Therapy. Jessica then became a certified Imago Therapist (relationship modality therapist) and an addiction specialist focused on chemical abuse, dependency, co-dependency, and anxiety. I created the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach to help establish healthier relationships between individuals. This practice sees clients in person. I created Be Self-full® to offer coaching and transformational online courses which address relationship issues from a coaching perspective and allows our team to effectively help individuals worldwide. Jessica is one of the most intelligent women I have ever interviewed. I learnt so much from her and I know that you are going to love this episode. As always, if you experienced any value from this episode every please do leave a review below, and share. The bigger the podcast gets the bigger the guests we get!  During this episode together, topics we cover: - What is attachment theory - How to recognise what style you are and how you can recognise styles in loved ones - Ways to develop your conflict style - How to heal trauma and not force yourself  into a different attachment style - How to be awakened by your emotions and stop avoiding - Neuroplasticity - How to become more secure in a relationship _________ Before you go! Check out my website to join my weekly newsletter to get your Tuesday morning weekly emails www.kirstyraynor.com Supporting the Mindset and Me Podcast: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review over on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share to your IG stories & follow along on instagram below. Follow Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ Follow Kirsty on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/kirstyraynor Follow The Mindset and Me Podcast on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/mindsetandmepodcast

Licensed mental health counselor and author Jill Sylvester discusses strategies and tips, along with trusting your own inner voice, to live your very best life.   Today's discussion: Interview with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Author of "Anxiously Attached"Contact Jill SylvesterFollow us on IG @jillsylvesterSend us questions or feedback at jill@jillsylvester.comFor more information or to check out our other products: www.jillsylvester.comThanks to our sound engineer Joe Merrick/Tom Corry, producer Carl Sylvester, Tracy Colucci for newsletter creation and McKenna Hickey (www.helloparasolco.com) for podcast soundbites on IG. Thanks for listening!

Today we are dedicating the whole podcast to an idea we've discussed briefly in other episodes: the inner child. Is this psychological jargon or does it have a place in the life of a Christian? Rick and Lauren discuss how we believe it is the latter and how we can bring these wounded places from our past into the presence of Jesus. As always, their discussion is centered around authenticity and vulnerability. We hope you enjoy it. Rick references Anxiously Attached by Jessica Baum. Rick references our episode How Running From Runs Us Rick references our episode on Spiritual Formation with Stacey Tafao Email Rick at rickdunn61@gmail.com or find him on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. Email Lauren at laurengmorgan@gmail.com or find her on Instagram.

As Jason Lytton's release date grows closer, Andrea learns more about the psychology of perpetrators. We listen as Ashley and her therapist Jessica Baum consider how Jason's arrest forced Ashley to confront other painful aspects of her life she had tried to suppress.  If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at betrayalpod@gmail.com.   To report a case of child sexual exploitation, call The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's CyberTipline at 1-800-THE-LOST  If you or someone you know is worried about their sexual thoughts and feelings towards children reach out to stopitnow.org  In the UK reach out to stopitnow.org.uk  Where to Find Jessica Baum and her book Anxiously Attached: www.jessicabaumlmhc.com/anxiously-attached See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this weeks episode Sabrina is joined by Jessica Baum LMHC to go over narcissism, anxious and avoidant dynamics, how to date and spot a narcissist and so much more! Get Jessicas Book HERE! Check out Jessicas practice HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? Check it out

Jessica Baum, is the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love.  In this episode Jessica shares how our wounds from our childhood determines our attachment style and gives us advice on how to flip the script. You will also learn how to detect your attachment style and why we pick partners who reinforce our core wounds. Jessica has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the self-full Method. The Self-full Method is focused on developing a meaningful connection with oneself, and understanding your core patterns, so you can better understand how you relate in relationships.Connect with Jessica on the web at https://www.beselffull.com/Pick up a copy of her book https://www.beselffull.com/anxiouslyattached

I'm joined by psychotherapist, relationship expert, and author, Jessica Baum. Jessica's work is focused on developing a meaningful connection with oneself and on understanding our own core patterns so that we can better understand how we relate in our relationships.  We discuss: How to identify the different attachment styles The link between childhood experiences and behavioural patterns in adulthood How to move towards a secure attachment style  Tools to regulate your nervous system  How to cultivate healthier relationships with others Why doing the inner work is as important as setting boundaries with others Each week I unpack a wellness trend with GP Gemma Newman. This week on Fact or Fad we're looking at bone broth - is it a cure-all drink? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are things ever going TOO well so your brain forces you to mess it up?Trust me, you're not alone! As part of our human nature, we yearn for genuine love and affection. We tend to gravitate toward relationships that will reinforce our need for affection and validate our feelings. We always search for someone who can be there with us when we feel lost and helpless, and someone who can embrace us even when we feel unworthy of love. Sounds simple enough right? But if all of that is true, why do all of my relationships keep turning into relationsh*ts?! Well today besties, we're getting some answers. Today, we have Jessica Baum. Jessica is a psychotherapist, author, thought leader, relationship coach, and founder of the Be Self-full® - a company that provides tailored coaching services, helping women empower themselves. Out of the four relationship attachment styles, Violet and Jessica put their focus on the Anxious and Avoidant style and why people who possess these attachment styles are easily drawn to each other. So if you're wondering why things can be going GREAT only for your brain to shut down and force you to run away, you're about to find out! Don't worry, you're not as messed up as you think you are. The duo also talks about how love bombing, despite its negative connotation online, can be pleasantly genuine, how to set healthy boundaries for you and your relationships, how we actually CAN get addicted to a person, and why we are responsible for our own anxiety. We're unpacking A LOT today - but whatever it is you do, do NOT text your ex after this. So hit play and listen up!THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:ApostropheSave $15-off your first visit with an Apostrophe provider at https://www.apostrophe.com/pod/ADULTING/ when you use our code: ADULTUNG to get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for $5. Just Break Up PodcastSubscribe to https://www.JustBreakUpPod.com/ for a weekly dose of love and laughs and all the relationship advice you want to hear!What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:09 What's your attachment style?06:42 Avoidant and anxious styles both fear intimacy08:14 Anxious-avoidant dance12:52 Genuine love bombing15:22 Partner with someone who could stay calm for you19:39 How can you help a partner with anxious attachment style26:33 Setting boundaries without hurting other people29:17 From really good to really bad relationships real fast30:41 Why do we tend to self-sabotage?33:33 How is the nervous system related to our relationship?35:26 Is it possible to get addicted to someone?38:50 What is a healthy chemistry like? 40:59 Anxious people are responsible for their own anxiety43:19 How do you recognize an unhealthy pattern in your love life?47:45 What does it mean to be “Be Self Full”?50:37 Self full is all about loveConnect with Jessica on:Be Self FullInstagramLinkedInAnxiously Attached BookGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.