The Great Exchange

In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady Cone shares a compassionate yet uncompromising biblical response to Pride Month. As June rolls around and culture celebrates Pride, how should Christians respond? With truth, grace, and the unchanging power of the gospel-centered message of Jesus Christ.Brady discusses how believers can engage with the LGBTQ conversation without reacting in pride, how to avoid ineffective social media outrage, and why reclaiming the rainbow memes miss the mark. Instead, he offers a better way: loving people deeply, mourning sin, living humbly, and being ready to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with clarity and compassion.This is a call to live out Ephesians 4:29 and James 4:6 in the cultural firestorm — not with self-righteousness, but with Spirit-filled humility.

Technology is no longer neutral. From Snapstreaks to social media “likes,” our kids are being discipled by algorithms—shaping their identity, emotions, and spiritual lives. In this powerful conversation with Nathan Sutherland of Gospel Tech, we uncover how to protect our families, raise kids with digital discernment, and reclaim tech for God's purposes.

In this powerful episode, Brady Cone sits down with Amber and Ashley from Across My Heart Ministries—two sisters who are leading the next generation into a better understanding of biblical sexuality, purity, and God's design for relationships. They dive deep into:✅ What purity really means (hint: it's not just abstinence)✅ How Gen Z is rethinking purity culture✅ Why shame-based messaging fails—and the gospel doesn't✅ How parents can disciple their kids with grace and truth✅ What the word Yada actually means and how it changes everything

In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady Cone is joined by Linda Hunsberger from Minnesota to respond to the powerful detransition story of Luke Healy. Together, they discuss what it means to detransition, the difference between desisters and detransitioners, and why the Church must be ready to offer truth and hope to those who are walking away from gender ideology.

In this episode, Brady teams up with Josh Klein from  @FreethinkingMinistries to respond to a leaked LGBTQ+ youth leader training video from North Point Community Church — led by the influential Andy Stanley.We break down the language, theology, and cultural shifts revealed in the training and offer a biblical response rooted in truth and love. This is a critical conversation for anyone involved in youth ministry, Christian parenting, or church leadership.⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Intro02:05 Why this conversation matters10:59 Overview of North Point's LGBTQ+ training29:30 Discipleship vs. affirmation42:48 Gender dysphoria and youth identity52:29 Puberty blockers and medical harm1:05:15 The tragic consequences of “loving affirmation”1:15:01 What churches must do moving forward

In today's episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady speaks to parents and those with children in their lives about the challenges of raising kids in a world filled with confusion around sexuality and gender. Instead of living in fear or isolating children, Brady encourages a gospel-centered approach to equipping the next generation with a biblical foundation of identity, purpose, and hope.Brady unpacks three key aspects that the LGBTQ ideology offers children—identity, purpose, and hope—and explains how the gospel provides a better, transformative alternative. Through biblical truth and personal testimony, he encourages parents to disciple their children with a Christ-centered identity, a biblical vision for sexuality and gender, and a hope that is not rooted in feelings but in the unchanging truth of God.Key Topics Discussed:✅ The challenge of raising kids in a world of gender and sexuality confusion✅ Why fear-based parenting and isolation are not the answer✅ How the LGBTQ ideology provides a counterfeit version of identity, purpose, and hope✅ The biblical foundation for identity: Colossians 3:3 and 1 Corinthians 6✅ Teaching kids to embrace God's design for gender and sexuality✅ The importance of engaging with children's emotions and helping them replace cultural lies with God's truth✅ How to build a family culture of grace, transparency, and gospel hope✅ Practical do's and don'ts when discipling children in this areaScripture References:1 Corinthians 6:11 – "Such were some of you..."Colossians 3:3 – "For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God."Genesis 1:27 – "Male and female He created them."2 Peter 1:3 – "His divine power has granted us everything we need for life and godliness."Ephesians 6:12 – "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood..."Resources & Contact:Visit CalibrateMinistries.com for resources and support.Reach out to Brady for guidance or to support the ministry.Support the Podcast: www.calibrateministries.com Calibrate Ministries is fully donor-supported. If you'd like to partner with us, visit our website to contribute.

In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady analyzes a recent discussion between theologians Sean McDowell and Preston Sprinkle regarding Side B Theology and the concept of gay identity within Christianity. Brady provides in-depth commentary on the theological implications, concerns, and the broader cultural impact of Side B theology.Key TakeawaysWords Matter – The term gay Christian carries theological and cultural implications that contradict biblical teaching.Sanctification is Ongoing – Christians are called to transformation, not to embrace sinful desires as permanent.The Church Must Be Clear – Ambiguity in language and identity creates confusion both inside and outside the church.Love & Truth Go Hand in Hand – Christians should show love and grace but remain firm in biblical truth.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#BiblicalSexuality #SideBTheology #ChristianIdentity

Episode Summary: In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, host Brady Cone is joined by author and speaker Rosaria Butterfield to discuss the importance of repentance, biblical sexuality, and the misconceptions surrounding same-sex attraction within the church. They share personal experiences, insights into biblical teaching, and the role of hospitality in discipleship. This episode challenges listeners to examine how they engage with their faith and confront cultural narratives that contradict the gospel.Key Topics Discussed:How Brady and Rosaria Met: A story of reconciliation, humility, and the importance of words in online discourse.The Journey of Repentance: Rosaria's testimony of coming to faith, leaving behind a life of activism, and embracing Christ's transformative work.Biblical View on Sin and Temptation: Understanding indwelling sin, the necessity of repentance, and addressing misconceptions about same-sex attraction.The Dangers of Side B Theology: Why accepting same-sex attraction as an identity undermines biblical sanctification and the power of the gospel.The Role of Hospitality in Evangelism: How opening our homes can create gospel-centered relationships and foster discipleship.False Teaching in the Church: Identifying wolves versus wounded sheep and why calling out false doctrine is necessary for protecting the body of Christ.Cultural Misconceptions of Sexual Orientation: How Freudian and Darwinian ideologies have influenced modern understandings of identity and why Christians should reject them.Quotes from the Episode:“Homosexuality isn't special. Every Christian is called to die to self daily and pursue sanctification.” – Rosaria Butterfield“Same-sex attraction isn't just something we accept and manage—it's something we repent of.” – Brady Cone“The evangelical church got it wrong when it told people that only acting on temptation was sin. Sin starts in the heart.” – Rosaria Butterfield“Repentance isn't condemnation—it's grace. It's a gift that keeps us close to Christ.” – Brady Cone“If you are experiencing same-sex attraction, you're not called to celibacy—you're called to repentance.” – Rosaria ButterfieldResources Mentioned:The Gospel Comes with a House Key – Rosaria ButterfieldFive Lies of the Anti-Christian Age – Rosaria ButterfieldTransforming Homosexuality – Denny BurkPrecious Remedies Against Satan's Devices – Thomas BrooksCalibrate Ministries – calibrateministries.com (for resources, speaking requests, and support groups)Action Steps:Engage in Daily Repentance: Recognize and address sinful desires as they arise, seeking God's grace for transformation.Immerse Yourself in the Word: Allow Scripture to shape your identity rather than cultural ideologies.Invest in Gospel-Centered Community: Get involved in a local church and prioritize face-to-face discipleship.Extend Hospitality: Open your home to share life and truth with others.Discern False Teaching: Be aware of unbiblical influences within Christian spaces and seek doctrinal clarity.Connect with Us:Website: calibrateministries.comRequest Brady Cone for Speaking Engagements: calibrateministries.com/contactFollow Rosaria Butterfield's Work: rosariabutterfield.comFinal Encouragement:We pray that as you go through your week, you can live a life of repentance and grace, embracing God's standard for sexuality. Thank you for tuning in to Calibrate Conversations!Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Welcome to Calibrate Conversations! In this episode, we dive into the latest cultural and political discussions surrounding gender issues, including President Trump's recent executive order banning gender-affirming care for minors.  As Christians, how should we respond? While we celebrate policies that protect children, we must also recognize that laws don't change hearts—only Jesus does. We explore the spiritual implications of this issue, the deception fueling the gender movement, and how we can compassionately engage with those affected.  Join us as we discuss:  ✅ The reality of gender-affirming care and its harmful effects  ✅ Why laws alone won't solve the deeper problem  ✅ The role of Christians in offering truth, hope, and redemption  ✅ How to balance fighting for policy changes while ministering to hurting individuals  Let's approach these conversations with wisdom, truth, and compassion. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode!  Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#CalibrateConversations #Christianity #GenderDebate

In this episode, we delve into a recent controversy surrounding a video that has sparked significant discussion. We're sharing the story of a woman who was removed from her church's worship team because of her same-sex marriage. We shine a light on the church leadership's missteps and give advice for church leaders who face difficult situations like this in years to come. Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Church #Sexuality

Join us as we dive deep into The Upside-Down Kingdom Study Bible, edited by Preston Sprinkle, to critically evaluate its theological insights. Does it hold up to proper biblical exegesis?In this video, we take an honest look at its interpretations of key topics like gender, sexuality, and the nature of the Kingdom of God. We'll explore whether its unique approach aligns with Scripture and traditional Christian doctrine or if it falls short of the mark.Whether you're curious about this study Bible or wrestling with some of the topics it addresses, this review will provide clarity and perspective. Share your thoughts in the comments—we'd love to hear from you!Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversationsTIMESTAMPS:(00:18) Discussion on the Upside-Down Kingdom Bible(17:15) Christianity and Progressive Bible Interpretation(33:00) Interpretation of 1 Corinthians 6(46:22) The Value of Diversity in Interpretation#Sexuality #Gender #StudyBible #PrestonSprinkle

How do you balance your love for family with your personal convictions, especially when welcoming LGBTQ family members during the holiday season? This episode of Calibrate Conversations challenges you to explore the delicate art of setting boundaries that honor both personal beliefs and foster meaningful connections. Join me, Brady Cone, as I share my own journey and convictions about inviting loved ones into our homes when their lifestyles might challenge traditional biblical teachings. Through prayer, discernment, and wisdom, discover how to extend grace and hospitality while staying true to your conscience.Hospitality is a cornerstone of Christian living, but it doesn't come without its complexities. Drawing from my experiences as a Couchsurfing host, I delve into the moral dilemmas that arise when guests' lifestyles clash with my convictions, such as hosting unmarried couples. By questioning the limits of spiritual authority and exploring the balance between biblical convictions and nurturing relationships, this episode offers insights into how to prioritize connection and gospel-sharing over attempting to control others' behaviors. Whether it means setting separate accommodations or organizing distinct holiday gatherings, I aim to inspire you to foster a loving and respectful home environment that reflects genuine care.Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be a tightrope walk, particularly when it involves LGBTQ family members. This episode encourages open conversations about personal convictions while striving to create an environment of grace and understanding. Reflecting on Jesus' example of associating with those deemed sinners, we consider how to set boundaries that protect without alienating, and invite without compromising core beliefs. Through thoughtful exploration of these themes, listeners are empowered to foster relationships that remain true to their values while embracing the transformative power of love and hospitality.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Setting Boundaries With LGBTQ Family Members(07:24) Navigating Hospitality and Boundaries With Others(20:09) Necessary Boundaries in Family Relationships(31:09) Navigating Boundaries and LGBTQ Relationships(37:50) Navigating Boundaries in Family DynamicsOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Hospitality #Christian

Merry Christmas from Calibrate Ministries!We're thankful for all of our Partners, subscribers, and listeners. If you would like to partner with us in 2025, please visit: https://calibrateministries.com/Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound cultural influences impacting gender dysphoria and the transgender movement, with a particular focus on the musician Cavetown, born Robin Skinner. We'll uncover how Cavetown's personal journey and the raw, emotional themes in her music resonate with many young people grappling with her own identities. We'll also address concerns about the potential for misinterpretation among teenagers who might mistake typical adolescent discomfort for a sign of being transgender, and we'll emphasize the importance of guidance and acceptance, rooted in Christian values, to navigate these complex issues.Listen in as we examine the evolving perspectives on transgender identity, especially for those who prefer to be recognized solely by their gender post-transition. This conversation highlights the mental health challenges faced by individuals and their families, scrutinizing the role of social media and influential figures like Cavetown. We'll share personal stories and ministry efforts that support parents of LGBTQ kids, critiquing societal pressures and questioning the narrative that transitioning is a cure-all for underlying mental health struggles. Through a compassionate lens, we reflect on the emotional and psychological battles accompanying gender transitions.Finally, we'll address the societal and political challenges surrounding transgender issues, emphasizing the need for a foundation built on truth and faith. By reflecting on the concept of deconstruction in the context of faith, we stress the importance of an unchanging identity rooted in Christ. As we confront the darkness in our world, we'll draw inspiration from the book of Jude, urging perseverance and the embodiment of hope. Together, let's navigate these pressing issues with love and steadfast faith, recognizing the impact of influential figures while discerning between those who intentionally mislead and those lost in their own struggles.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Influence of Cavetown and Gender Dysphoria(14:09) Gender Transition and Mental Health(22:19) Struggles With Gender Dysphoria and Transition(27:52) Building a Foundation on Truth(35:46) Navigating Gender Issues and PerseveranceOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Transgender #Sexuality 

Tim Barnett joins us on Calibrate Conversations for an eye-opening discussion on faith, apologetics, and the complex issues of sexuality and identity in today's world. As a passionate advocate for apologetics and a key figure at Stand To Reason @STRvideos Tim sheds light on his journey from a superficial grasp of Christianity to a deeper understanding through apologetics, offering invaluable insights for young Christians grappling with faith in diverse settings. Together, we emphasize the crucial role of establishing a solid foundation in biblical truth, equipping the next generation with vital tools to confidently navigate their beliefs amidst contemporary challenges.Our conversation ventures into the world of subjective versus objective truths, using captivating metaphors like "ice cream truth" and "insulin truth" to illustrate the distinction. We confront the perception of morality as subjective and argue for the existence of universal moral standards, addressing timely issues such as LGBTQ matters. By examining these through the lens of authoritative sources, we stress the importance of evaluating moral claims beyond personal or societal preferences, encouraging open dialogue within church communities to offer young people the answers they seek without straying from traditional teachings.We also tackle the trend of faith deconstruction among youth questioning traditional biblical interpretations of sexuality. By fostering an environment where doubts and questions are welcomed, we aim to build understanding and compassion. The episode closes with practical advice on engaging in empathetic conversations with LGBTQ individuals, focusing on building genuine relationships and embodying Christian love and grace. Join us as we explore how authenticity and empathy can lead to profound dialogue, guiding today's youth toward a balanced and meaningful understanding of faith and identity.Timestamps:(00:19) - Embracing God's Standard for Sexuality(09:34) - Exploring Morality and Objective Truth(18:26) - Understanding the Trend of Deconstruction(22:14) - Navigating Deconstruction and LGBTQ Issues(36:53) - Navigating Compassionate Dialogue With LGBTQ Individuals(43:32) - Navigating Relationships Through Deconstruction(49:35) - Empowering Authenticity in Today's Youth(57:52) - Ministry Focus on Sexuality and GenderJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#RedPenLogic #StandToReason #TimBarnett

Cutting ties with family is not just a personal choice; it's a cultural phenomenon with far-reaching consequences. We're tackling the controversial trend of going no contact, especially within the LGBTQ community, and how this practice, amplified by social media and even some psychological approaches, disrupts family harmony. Joined by insights from an Israeli psychologist and a revealing clip from MSNBC, we dissect the ideological shift that is reshaping how we handle familial and generational bonds. Our conversation anchors on viewing these challenges through a biblical perspective, recognizing our shared human frailty, and the transformative power of grace and forgiveness.Our complex world often prioritizes self-interest, leading to divisiveness that creeps into even the most faith-based communities. We share our personal stories and the joy discovered in serving others, acknowledging the cultural polarization that complicates political and religious identities. Despite sharing core beliefs, many feel isolated when political discrepancies are left unaddressed. We're advocating for humility and love as foundational values, fostering unity and open dialogue within the Christian community, and encouraging a deeper understanding of how these dynamics affect our interactions.Emotional resilience and biblical discipleship aren't just buzzwords; they're crucial tools for navigating today's parenting landscape and the fragility brought on by digital echo chambers. By examining the story of King David and his emotional candor with God, we highlight a path toward healing and maturity. Our discussion extends to the pitfalls of unchecked pride and the necessity of difficult conversations to build stronger, Christ-centered relationships. We invite you to join us on this journey of emotional and spiritual growth, where true strength is found in surrender to God's unchanging grace.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) - The Impact of Going No Contact(12:36) - Navigating Culture and Divisiveness in Christianity(23:22) - Biblical Discipleship and Emotional Resilience(29:41) - Emotional Resilience in Christian Discipleship(40:22) - Strength Through the LordOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

This week, we explore the world of non-monogamous relationships, focusing on the trends of polygamy and polyamory. In our conversation, we dissect the cultural and religious contexts of these practices, noting how polygamy is often associated with religious traditions, typically involving one man with multiple wives. Despite some attempting to justify it with biblical references, we argue that such arrangements stray from God's intended design for marriage. On the other hand, polyamory has gained visibility through cultural shifts and celebrity endorsements, encompassing romantic, emotional, and sexual relationships among three or more people, regardless of gender. We also tackle the controversial topic of whether polyamory should be classified as a sexual orientation, presenting a perspective that challenges this notion.We navigate the complexities of blurred relationship boundaries, where polyamory often emerges unintentionally in relationships. We compare this with the more structured approach of polygamy, exploring how cultural changes have influenced these dynamics. The discussion highlights the evolving language of relationships, such as the increasing use of the term "partner" over traditional titles. We differentiate between polyamory and open relationships, emphasizing the role of consent and commitment structures. Through real-world experiences and the challenges faced by individuals, particularly in Christian communities, we provide insights into how families grapple with these evolving relationship norms and prepare for their complexities.TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) - Exploring Polygamy vs. Polyamory Trends(10:33) - Differences in Polygamy and Polyamory(18:19) - Navigating Blurred Relationship BoundariesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Polygamy #Polyamory #BiblicalSexuality

Complementarianism doesn't mean inequality, and egalitarianism isn't necessarily the solution. Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the often controversial terrain of gender roles and biblical sexuality, with a spotlight on the thought-provoking podcast "Sons of Patriarchy." This episode will challenge your understanding of patriarchy, and the contentious figure of Doug Wilson, a pastor known for his polarizing views. As we prepare for the heated debates likely to arise from this podcast, we urge listeners to consider the complexities and biases inherent in these discussions.Our conversation navigates the tension between complementarian and egalitarian beliefs within Christian relationships, dissecting misconceptions and misapplications that have led to misunderstandings and allegations of abuse. We argue for a scripturally grounded approach that promotes accountability and mutual respect in marriages, cautioning against extreme interpretations on either side. By examining the role of church leadership in fostering healthy relationships, we aim to inspire a balanced, respectful dialogue that upholds the dignity and worth of both spouses. Tune in for a thought-provoking journey through the intersection of Christianity, theology, culture, and personal relationships.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Chapters(00:19) - Exploring Gender Roles and Biblical Sexuality(09:35) - Gender Roles in Christian Relationships(14:41) - Navigating Gender Roles and Church CultureOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#DougWilson #complementarianism #egalitarianism

Join me on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound challenges and heartaches faced by parents and family members of LGBTQ children from a Christian perspective. In this episode, we share insights and stories from Calibrate Ministries, shedding light on the emotional and spiritual burdens these families carry when their children do not align with their beliefs. We celebrate the joy of witnessing a child's return to faith while acknowledging the sorrow of those who continue to walk away. Through encouragement and support, we emphasize the importance of not condemning these families but rather recognizing their steadfast faith as a testimony to the world.We also address the evolving relationship between parents and their adult children, especially concerning LGBTQ issues. This conversation highlights the shift from parental authority to mentorship and support, urging parents to relinquish control and trust God with the outcomes. By focusing on their identity in Christ and receiving support from the church community, parents can navigate the complexities of maintaining relationships and setting boundaries. We discuss the need for wisdom, discernment, and the strength that comes from the faith community, while acknowledging the pain that can accompany broken relationships.Lastly, we emphasize parenting LGBTQ children with grace, encouraging a balance between avoiding self-righteousness and maintaining hope in their potential transformation. We discuss the importance of creating a welcoming and grace-filled environment for children to return to, drawing on the story of the prodigal son. This episode offers support and encouragement for parents, highlighting the opportunity to join a parents ministry and find solace in a shared journey. Embracing growth and self-reflection through God's grace, we extend love and encouragement, reminding listeners of the absence of condemnation for those in Christ and inviting them to explore further resources at Calibrate Ministries.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Navigating Parenting LGBTQ Prodigal Children(09:44) Establishing Boundaries With LGBTQ Loved Ones(19:12) Parenting LGBTQ Children With Grace(32:31) Supporting Parents of LGBTQ ChildrenOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Prodigal #Parenting #LGBTQ

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore "The Widening of God's Mercy," a new book by Richard B. Hayes and his son, Christopher B. Hayes. This episode unpacks the unexpected shift in Richard's perspective, a retired New Testament professor once known for his staunch defense of traditional biblical marriage. Together with Christopher, a professor at Fuller Seminary, they present a more inclusive stance on sexuality, which has stirred controversy and conversation within both evangelical and LGBTQ communities. We analyze their use of terms like "inclusive" and "hospitality" and challenge their assumptions about human sexuality from a conservative Christian viewpoint.Listen in as we navigate the complexities of interpreting God's character across the Old and New Testaments, especially concerning LGBTQ inclusion in the church. We discuss how some scholars might misinterpret biblical stories, like those involving child sacrifice, and explore the implications of open theism versus dispensational theology. Our conversation emphasizes that God's nature remains unchanged even as His interactions with humanity evolve, offering insights into the balance between scriptural authority and contemporary societal issues.This episode highlights the transformative power of God's mercy and the need for a compassionate, yet biblically grounded approach to modern debates on sexuality. Through personal stories and scriptural analysis, we invite you to consider a narrative that honors God's unchanging truth while engaging with the complexities of human experience.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) The Widening of God's Mercy(09:20) Misinterpretation of God's Old Testament Character(15:35) God's Mercy and Biblical Sexuality(28:33) Challenge of Old Testament Interpretation(34:26) Reimagining Scripture and Sexuality(40:55) Sexuality, Scripture and Personal Experience(56:05) The Transformative Power of God's Mercy(01:02:38) God's Unchanging Mercy and TruthOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Christianity #Marriage

Ready to question some widely accepted teachings on sexual purity? "Every Man's Battle" might be doing more harm than good. On this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady dissects the implications of this popular book and its over-the-top graphic content, arguing for a healthier, more biblically sound approach to tackling lust and sexual sin. By illustrating the pendulum effect, where extreme corrective measures backfire, he open the floor to a critical and balanced discussion on the real solutions to these deep-rooted issues.As Brady ventures into the murky waters of marriage expectations, he challenges harmful stereotypes and generalizations about men's struggles with lust. Brady shares his personal journey of fidelity to his wife, countering the narrative that all men face the same battles. He also confront the dangerous idea of treating wives as mere objects for sexual gratification, advocating instead for relationships built on love, mutual respect, and true intimacy. By rethinking these conventional narratives, he aims to set a new standard for what a healthy marriage should look like.Navigating the broader implications of abuse and redemption within relationships, we touch on the #MeToo and #ChurchToo movements, dissecting high-profile scandals and their impact on public consciousness. Brady critiques the misuse of influential resources like "Love and Respect," discussing how they can lead to manipulation and unrealistic marital expectations. Through the lens of biblical principles and gospel-centered leadership, he calls for accountability, balanced perspectives, and heart-level transformation to foster relationships that reflect God's true design.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Abuse #Sexuality #EveryMansBattle #JulieRoys #SheilaWrayGregoire

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we address a pressing issue within Christianity, prompted by the recent resignation of Pastor Steve Lawson due to moral failure. This episode examines the pitfalls of consumeristic Christianity and the dangers of pastors spreading themselves too thin with numerous commitments. We explore the critical need for pastors to be deeply involved in their local congregations and held accountable within a biblical eldership structure. Emphasizing the importance of local church involvement, mutual accountability, and authentic discipleship, we argue for a shift away from valuing charismatic preachers to prioritizing shepherds who engage deeply with their church communities.Listen in as we discuss how to respond when Christian leaders or members fall into sin, emphasizing the importance of demonstrating hope in Jesus. We explore the necessity of praying for God's grace in the lives of sinners and developing better responses that bring glory to God. By being vigilant in our personal lives and relationships, confessing sin early, and embracing God's standard for sexuality, we can foster a community that reflects Christ's love and hope. This episode aims to encourage you in your walk with the Lord and inspire a deeper commitment to authentic discipleship and mutual accountability within the church.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#stevelawson #sexuality #Christianity

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound influences of social media on today's youth, particularly those grappling with LGBTQ issues. In our first chapter, we examine how platforms like TikTok provide teenagers with a sense of validation, belonging, and identity, often conflicting with Christian teachings. Through a critical analysis of a YouTube podcast clip featuring lesbian women, we emphasize the importance of understanding these natural desires for connection and how they can be misdirected. We also underscore the necessity of discipleship and applying the gospel to transform hearts, drawing insights from the book of James to highlight the need to protect our children from harmful external influences.In the following chapters, we address parenting decisions and the impact of smartphones and school environments on children. From the humorous moment when Rowan mistook a phone for a body part to a serious discussion about the anxiety technology causes in younger generations, we stress the importance of modeling responsible behavior and maintaining parental control. We also critique the overreach of public school systems in LGBTQ matters, advocating for alternatives like homeschooling in regions with problematic policies. Lastly, we encourage listeners to evaluate their own lives for worldly influences, set boundaries, and seek spiritual transformation to better navigate and model a Christ-centered life for their children. Tune in and equip yourself with insights to foster a heart aligned with your values.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#TikTok #SocialMedia #Parenting

Struggling with my own journey of same-sex attraction, I once believed that my persistent desires meant God must be okay with it. In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, we unpack the story of a woman who arrived at a similar conclusion after years of prayer and self-reflection. We delve into the challenging yet liberating truth that God's promises aren't about removing our struggles but rather empowering us to surrender and live in obedience. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, we explore how daily surrender, community, confession, and accountability are vital parts of the discipleship process, leading to genuine transformation and a life of peace with Christ.We also address the psychological toll of concealing one's sexuality and the freedom that comes with living authentically within a Christian community. The weight of others' opinions can be crushing, but anchoring our identity in Christ brings unparalleled relief. Furthermore, we tackle the controversial topic of conversion therapy, separating harmful misconceptions from the true journey of spiritual growth. By examining the choices we do have in living a life aligned with faith, we emphasize the importance of building a compassionate, grace-filled community where authenticity and support can truly thrive.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:37 - 01:50) Exposing False Beliefs on Same-Sex Attraction(06:09 - 07:17) Transformation and Surrender in Discipleship(14:54 - 16:21) Struggles and Authenticity in Christian Community(22:26 - 23:25) The Efficacy of Conversion TherapyOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#TikTok #LGBTQ #MadeItOutPodcast #Christian #Christianity

What if the wisdom you're following is leading you astray? Join us as we unravel the profound insights from the book of James, contrasting earthly wisdom marked by selfish ambition and jealousy with heavenly wisdom that is pure, peace-loving, and merciful. We explore the damaging effects of pursuing significance through worldly means and emphasize the importance of examining our hearts to ensure our actions align with godly principles, bearing good fruit instead of disorder.Our discussion delves into contemporary issues, such as critical race theory, through the lens of biblical wisdom. We share personal reflections on the value of gentleness in conflict and the unparalleled strength found in meekness. With practical advice on being teachable and open to reason, we highlight how these qualities can lead to better relationships and deeper understanding. As we seek unity rooted in wisdom and equal treatment, we address the dangers of tribalism in both religious and political arenas. Reflecting on the controversy surrounding Megan Basham's book, "Shepherds for Sale," we discuss the divisiveness it has caused within the Christian community and call for a perspective filled with mercy and compassion. Finally, we provide practical steps for living out biblical truths, emphasizing patience, empathy, and a prayerful approach to seeking divine wisdom in all aspects of life. Tune in for an enlightening episode that challenges you to reflect on your motives and pursue true, godly wisdom.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:01) The Pursuit of True Wisdom(06:41) Wisdom From Above(23:39) Unity Through Wisdom and Equal Treatment(37:00) Biblical Wisdom in Daily LifeOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Sexuality #Wisdom #Christian

Join us for an uplifting and transformative conversation on Calibrate Conversations, where we welcome Ally Kutz as our special guest. Ally shares her powerful testimony of finding hope and freedom through faith in Christ. From growing up in a Christian home, grappling with her identity and sexuality, to living a gay lifestyle for over a decade, Ally's journey is one of inner conflict, steadfast love for Jesus, and ultimate redemption. Her story underscores the liberating truth found in the gospel and aims to challenge the world's narratives about sexuality and transformation.Throughout this episode, we explore the profound shifts that come from seeking God's guidance. Ally recounts a pivotal moment with Pastor Paul that led her to a deeper spiritual quest, culminating in a transformative shift in her heart. We discuss the misconceptions within the church regarding sexuality and the importance of focusing on a relationship with Jesus rather than adhering to societal or even traditional church expectations. Listen in as we tackle complex issues surrounding LGBTQ relationships within the church, the impact of generational sins, and the damaging effects of rigid gender stereotypes. Ally shares her experiences with love and support from her church community, the struggle between faith and sexuality, and the importance of setting boundaries while maintaining love. We also address the significance of genuine discipleship and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding believers through personal struggles. This episode is a compelling narrative of transformation, truth, and the beauty of a life continually growing in Christ.TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Hope and Freedom Testimony(07:35) Identity Transformation Through Faith(17:39) Embracing Identity in Christ(33:35) Navigating Church and LGBTQ Relationships(42:23) Transformed by Truth and Love(53:14) Navigating Gender Stereotypes and Sexuality(01:00:29) Navigating Sexual Choices and Susceptibility(01:06:00) Navigating Family Acceptance and BoundariesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Sexuality #LGBTQ #Christian

How can parents remain faithful to their beliefs while supporting children who identify as LGBTQ? Join us for a thought-provoking conversation on "Calibrate Conversations" with our special guest, Mary Comm, a ministry leader from Oklahoma. Mary brings a wealth of experience in ministering to parents of LGBTQ children and those affected by abortion, sharing her personal stories and insights. You'll learn how her own experience with abortion has shaped her ministry, emphasizing the church's critical need for compassion and understanding.We tackle the emotional and societal challenges that parents face when their children come out as LGBTQ. Drawing from personal narratives, including my own journey with my daughter, we discuss the turmoil and pressures that can arise. Mary and I highlight the significance of addressing personal grief and shame through faith, prayer, and creating safe spaces for Christ-centered forgiveness. This episode serves as a guide for navigating complex family dynamics without compromising faith, offering hope and support for parents and families.Finally, the episode delves into broader cultural issues influencing LGBTQ identities and abortion. We explore how society's focus on self-centered sexuality can lead to significant pain and denial of consequences, offering valuable resources and testimonies that demonstrate the power of God's grace in transforming lives. This episode is a beacon of hope, showcasing the positive strides the church is making in offering grace and redemption. Whether you're a parent grappling with these issues or someone seeking to understand them better, you will find this conversation both enlightening and encouraging.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Embracing Biblical Sexuality and Healing(10:30) Navigating Parenting LGBTQ Children(19:20) Navigating LGBTQ Parenting Challenges(28:59) Journey of Parenting LGBTQ Children(41:07) Parenting LGBTQ Support and Hope(53:30) Finding Hope in God's GraceGrab your copy of Mary's Bible Study here:https://a.co/d/eFfd39ZOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #parenting #Christian 

Can sex work through platforms like OnlyFans offer genuine empowerment, or is it a path to dysfunction? On today's episode of Calibrate Conversations, we unpack this pressing debate by diving into the meteoric rise of OnlyFans. With figures that stun—1.25 million daily active users and a revenue leap from $375 million in 2020 to $2.5 billion in 2022—OnlyFans has become a monumental digital force. We explore whether this phenomenon can be seen as a form of self-determination or if it aligns more with the biblical warnings about sexual perversion leading to societal decay. Real-world anecdotes, including the story of a teacher who swapped her traditional career for the lucrative allure of OnlyFans, bring these discussions to life. We also examine the darker ties between sex work and human trafficking, and how pornography exacerbates these issues, underscoring the legislative battles being fought to protect vulnerable individuals, particularly minors.Our conversation then shifts to a beacon of hope amidst these concerns—the transformative power of Jesus Christ. Drawing inspiration from Paul's teachings on redemption and sanctification, we delve into how embracing God's standards for sexuality can offer true freedom and restoration. Despite past transgressions, believers are washed, sanctified, and justified through Jesus and the Holy Spirit. This discussion isn't just theoretical; it's a call to action to extend this hope and transformative love to those searching for meaning in all the wrong places. Tune in for a compelling dialogue that not only scrutinizes the complexities of the sex work industry but also illuminates the unwavering hope found in faith.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPSOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#SexWork #OnlyFans #Pornography 

What happens when a popular video game streamer's past as an OnlyFans content creator is exposed? This week on Calibrate Conversations, we examine the fallout surrounding Kylie Cox, better known as Sketch, and the whirlwind of mixed reactions that ensued after his involvement in gay pornography came to light. We dissect his response through an awkward apology video where he acknowledges his past and emphasizes his personal growth and transformation. We also explore the varied public reactions, from those defending his past as a legitimate form of sex work to others who criticize him harshly, and consider the broader implications of his actions.  In our second segment, we reflect on the darker side of social media, focusing on the intense struggles and desperation that often drive people to public confessions and the inevitable online bullying that follows. We advocate for kindness and empathy, highlighting the importance of finding true value as image bearers of God rather than chasing online fame. Sharing personal stories of social awkwardness and ridicule, we urge listeners to cultivate genuine, supportive relationships. Tune in as we emphasize the necessity of finding worth in Christ and taking a compassionate stance towards those in need of love and understanding in today's digital age.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Timestamps:(00:16) Controversy Surrounding Social Media Influencer(08:30) Online Bullying and Seeking HopeOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Gender isn't a social construct—it's a divine design. Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we confront the contentious issue of gender identity through the unwavering lens of biblical truth. Our exploration begins with the foundational narrative in Genesis, affirming that God intentionally created humanity as male and female. We dissect modern distinctions between gender and biological sex, countering prevalent lies of the transgender movement with scriptural truths, underscoring the significance of adhering to God's divine order in our lives.As we navigate the complexities of identity in today's society, we draw from Carl Trueman's "Strange New World" to critique the modern shift towards self-discovery and immediate gender affirmation. Historically, identity was shaped by external factors such as family and religion, but now it's driven by internal feelings, leading to instability. By comparing past practices of "watchful waiting" to the current trend of rushed transitions, we advocate for a more thoughtful, scientifically grounded approach that prioritizes internal understanding over external changes.In the latter part of our discussion, we emphasize the transformative power of redemption through Christ. Addressing the embodiment of gender, we highlight the physical and spiritual aspects of human identity, drawing from biblical passages and the hope of resurrection. We wrap up with a call to compassion, urging prayers and community support for those struggling with gender dysphoria. Listen in as we explore how aligning with God's standard for sexuality can lead to true healing and inner renewal, offering hope and restoration in Christ.Timestamps:(00:16) Challenging Gender Identity Lies and Truths(10:21) The Disturbing Truth About Gender Transition(19:51) Navigating Gender Identity and Biblical Truths(25:27) The Embodiment of Gender Identity(36:57) The Transformative Power of Redemption(48:40) Embracing Identity in Christ(59:12) Prayer for Gender Identity RestorationJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Gender #Transgender #Christian

Unlock the secrets to parenting with grace in today's ever-evolving landscape. Join us for an engaging conversation with youth minister Crystal Nelson, who brings over 20 years of experience to the table. From creating a youth group and a traveling soccer team in Nebraska to penning her new book, "Toilet Tales," Crystal's journey is filled with compelling insights and humorous anecdotes that middle school boys will love. Her dedication to guiding teens through the labyrinth of love, relationships, and the challenges posed by drugs and alcohol is truly inspiring. We also take a deep look at the profound impact of social media and the upheavals caused by COVID-19 on both teens and their parents.Parenting isn't always a walk in the park, and many parents grapple with hidden shame and guilt. Together with Crystal, we unravel these deep-seated feelings, offering biblical wisdom and practical advice. Highlighting the importance of unconditional love and finding worth in God rather than in children's achievements, we explore the pressure-laden world of modern parenting. With an emphasis on understanding the teen brain and maintaining a delicate balance between being a parent and a friend, this episode is a treasure trove of valuable insights for any parent navigating the tumultuous teenage years.The complexities of identity formation during adolescence are intricately discussed, from the pressures of sports and academics to the need for building a supportive community. Crystal emphasizes the role of open communication and positive affirmation, sharing personal stories and real-life examples. We touch on essential topics like drug and alcohol counseling and the significance of early conversations about love and relationships. The digital age's impact on family dynamics and the necessity of multiple caring adults in a child's life are also covered, making this episode a must-listen for anyone invested in the well-being of today's youth.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Navigating Teenage Life and Relationships(09:11) Parenting With Grace and Unconditional Love(14:36) Navigating Parenting and Teen Realities(21:29) Building Healthy Identity and Community(26:24) Navigating Family, Community, and Identity(35:25) Navigating Generational Relationships(40:50) The Power of Early Conversations(51:01) Navigating Parenting in the Digital AgeGrab your copy of Crystal's Book "Toilet Tales" here:https://a.co/d/0cPZM8YAJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Parenting #Teenagers #Christian

Can memes really reflect our deepest beliefs? Join us on this insightful episode of Calibrate Conversations as we unpack the intersection of LGBTQ theology and modern expressions of sexuality during Pride Month. We begin by analyzing the significance of memes from both LGBTQ and Christian perspectives, uncovering their theological implications. From discussing the notion that God made trans people to participate in creation to critiquing the "Sparkle Creed," we emphasize the necessity of aligning our beliefs with biblical teachings and the transformative power of the gospel.In our second segment, we tackle the delicate art of communicating about sensitive issues, especially online and within personal relationships. We emphasize the importance of timing, tone, and context, providing practical advice on how to navigate difficult conversations—whether addressing a loved one's struggles with sin or interacting on social media. By scrutinizing harsh memes and comments, we challenge whether these truly bring people closer to Jesus or inadvertently harm relationships and witness.Finally, we confront the sensitive topic of LGBTQ pride from a Christian perspective, exploring the biblical concept of pride as sin. We question the effectiveness of critical or mocking social media posts about LGBTQ pride, urging listeners to consider whether such content aligns with Ephesians 4:29. Through self-reflection and communication that fosters humility, kindness, and grace, we aim to build others up and offer grace to all who hear. TIMESTAMP:(00:16) Navigating Theology and Communication(11:08) Navigating LGBTQ Conversations Online(23:54) Reconsidering Messaging(33:37) Promoting Humility and GraceJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

What happens when a dedicated pastor, educator, and community leader like Pastor Dustin Alley faces the brink of exhaustion? Join us on Calibrate Conversations as Dustin shares his transformative journey from near burnout to spiritual renewal through the powerful scripture of John 15:3-4. Discover how this revelation redefined his mission and fueled his passion for the Men After God Network, aimed at fostering better husbands, fathers, and community leaders for God's kingdom.Faith is a dynamic journey, much like marriage, requiring intentional and varied practices to maintain vibrancy. Pastor Dustin reflects on the evolving nature of one's relationship with Jesus and the crucial balance needed to avoid spiritual burnout. This episode highlights the beauty of diverse spiritual practices, whether through worship, prayer, or just being in God's presence, and the importance of understanding one's personal identity in Christ. Learn how different personalities can harmoniously contribute to the faith community, enhancing the strength of the church and its mission.Family devotion and emotional connection take center stage as we discuss the vital role fathers play in their children's spiritual and emotional growth. Pastor Dustin shares practical examples of intentional family time, emphasizing the significance of listening to and supporting teenagers, especially as they navigate challenges like sexual identity. This episode underscores the necessity of serving others while prioritizing self-care to prevent burnout, offering valuable insights for building strong family bonds and fostering personal growth within the local church and community.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Embracing God's Standard for Sexuality(13:22) Deepening Your Relationship With Jesus(19:35) Family Devotion and Emotional Connection(29:28) Importance of Family, Listening, and Self-Care(41:31) Importance of Serving and RestingJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Manhood #Masculinity #Jesus #God #Bible

Can a marriage serve as a cure for deep-seated sexual sin? Join us as we tackle this provocative question by scrutinizing the controversial theology of Doug Wilson, founder of Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho. We dissect Wilson's troubling views on marriage and gender roles, such as his belief that women should be controlled by their fathers until marriage and that they should avoid questioning their relationships. Balancing this, we advocate for a healthier complementarian approach that champions mutual respect and communication. Additionally, we broaden our discussion to examine how these issues relate to broader theological concerns, including same-sex attraction and marriage, promoting equality and respect in all relationships.Moreover, we unravel the flawed notion that marriage can fix sexual sin through a heartbreaking case where Wilson arranged a marriage for a man with a history of sexual abuse. Personal anecdotes and critical analysis reveal the dangers of expecting a spouse to heal profound personal issues. Highlighting the necessity of genuine repentance and transformation before entering marriage, we emphasize the vital role of discipleship and sanctification in true healing. Listen as we advocate for marriages rooted in self-giving love, accountability, and heart-level ministry, challenging harmful beliefs and encouraging a healthier, Christ-centered approach to sexuality and relationships.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Unraveling Doug Wilson's Controversial Theology(09:50) Expecting Marriage to Cure Sexual Sin(15:23) Transforming Sexuality Through Discipleship and SanctificationJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#DougWilson #Theology #Abuse #Christianity #DouglasWilson

Join us in this enlightening episode of Calibrate Conversations as we navigate the complexities of Pride Month through a biblical lens. Drawing inspiration from Jesus' encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well in John, chapter 4, we explore how to engage with others in a Christ-like manner. Jesus' model of compassion, truth, and the offer of eternal life serves as a foundation for our discussion, providing insights on reflecting both grace and truth in our interactions during Pride Month.Listen in as we tackle the challenging balance of love and truth in relationships, particularly with those who have differing views on sexuality and gender. We emphasize the importance of kindness, respect, humility, and honesty about God's design for human identity and relationships. By examining Jesus' respectful and transformative conversation with the Samaritan woman, we illustrate how to engage others with compassion and understanding, guiding them towards their true identity in Christ without compromising biblical truths.We also address the broader issues surrounding LGBTQ+ relationships and the personal struggles many Christians face. This includes responding to friends and family attending pride events and building meaningful relationships rooted in love and truth. Additionally, we discuss how to see individuals as whole persons made in the image of God, the role of social media, and guiding children through cultural messages about sexuality and gender. Finally, we focus on the power of prayer, sharing truth with discernment, and being conduits of hope and love in a world that desperately needs it. Stay engaged with us, and let's continue to pray for transformation in the lives of LGBTQ individuals.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Navigating Pride Month With Love(08:54) Navigating Love and Truth in Relationships(17:57) Navigating LGBTQ Issues With Grace(32:47) Navigating LGBTQ+ Relationships With Love(39:37) Prayer for Hope and LoveJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#PrideMonth #LGBTQ #PrideMonth2024 #Christianity #Jesus

When Harrison Butker stepped up to the podium for his commencement address, little did we know it would spark a nationwide conversation on marriage, parenting, and gender roles. On today's episode, we're unpacking the Kansas City Chiefs kicker's traditional views and the media tempest they've stirred up. Butker's speech didn't just touch on women as homemakers—it called into question the balance of work-life commitments and the role of faith in family life. Join us as we sift through the heated debates and reflect on the authenticity of choosing a path aligned with personal convictions in an ever-evolving society.The dialogue takes a turn towards the nuances of gender dynamics and the irony of a society that both questions and upholds family values. From examining the pressures that shape our decisions about career and family to discussing the support systems for single parents, we're probing the essence of what it means to lead a Christ-centered life in any circumstance. I'll also share insights from my own experiences—how marrying young has shaped my journey and the invaluable growth found in the years before settling down. Let's navigate these pivotal issues together, seeking understanding amid the clamor and finding our own definitions of fulfillment.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) God's Standard for Sexuality and Family(13:27) Gender Roles and Family DynamicsOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#KansasCityChiefs #HarrisonButker #Gender

This week on Calibrate Conversations we explore popular cultural takes on marriage. Listen in as we confront the good, the bad, and the downright ugly opinions circulating online and in the public sphere about this sacred union. I kick off the conversation with a reflection on the power of words, particularly how we talk about our spouses. Discover why it's crucial to frame your partner in a positive light among friends and family, and why belittling your other half can do more harm than good. Then, Brady dissects a viral social media stance on marital independence, questioning whether acts of domestic kindness are indeed burdensome or simply love in action. This segment challenges us to cultivate a culture of mutual service and support in our relationships.The episode then takes a turn into more controversial territory, examining the views of Pastor Joel Webbon on marital control and the alarming comments from a worship pastor at JD Greer's church concerning premarital sex. Hear why Brady passionately disagree with these perspectives, advocating for equality and intellectual freedom within marriage, and stressing the alignment of church leadership with spiritual maturity. As we wrap up, Brady opens up about his personal journey, sharing how honesty about past struggles with homosexuality has enriched his marriage, underscoring the sanctifying journey that marriage is meant to be. Embrace the notion that the covenant of marriage can shape us into better, more Christ-like individuals, as we navigate through challenges with grace, forgiveness, and unwavering commitment.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(02:03 - 04:05) Honoring Spouses(14:24 - 15:31) Misguided Views on Pre-Marital Sex(17:08 - 17:52) Christian Couples and Intentional Relationships(19:42 - 21:02) Navigating Disclosure in Dating Relationships(25:54 - 27:14) Marriage and Sanctification Through Discipleship(31:18 - 31:49) Christian Movements and Unhealthy BehaviorOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Have you ever grappled with the real story behind the fiery end of Sodom and Gomorrah? Our latest Calibrate Conversations episode ventures deep into the heart of these ancient cities, as we untangle the threads of sin, judgment, and the ongoing debates about biblical sexuality. With insights from Peter Goeman of Shepherd's Theological Seminary @shepherdstheologicalsemina6171 and the archaeological expertise of Joel Kramer ( @ExpeditionBible   we examine the layers of interpretation surrounding Genesis 19, providing you with a fresh and thoughtful perspective on a story that has long been a source of contention.The Scriptures are a treasure trove of narratives that challenge us, especially when they touch upon the sensitive topics of sex and societal norms. We navigate these waters with care, discussing Dr. Goeman's dissertation findings on homosexuality in the Old Testament and exploring how these stories fit within the wider context of the Bible. Our aim is to equip you with the confidence to interpret Scripture amidst the complexities of modern ethical dilemmas.Amid discussions of sin and its consequences, we never lose sight of the redemptive power of grace. This episode doesn't just dissect the past—it offers a path forward for anyone grappling with LGBTQ issues within a Christian framework. Through archaeological discoveries and thoughtful theological discourse, we bring to light the enduring message of hope and transformation in Christ. Plus, with Joel Kramer's captivating findings providing concrete evidence from the supposed sites of Sodom and Gomorrah, you'll gain a richer appreciation for the biblical world and its timeless lessons. Join us for an episode that promises profound insights and an unwavering look at grace in the face of judgment.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) The Truth About Sodom and Gomorrah(10:43) Interpreting Scripture With Confidence(19:41) Debating Scripture(30:58) Homosexuality as Rebellion Against God(41:11) Exploring Biblical Archaeology and Sulfur(01:00:26) Grace, Redemption, HopeJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#SodomAndGomorrah #homosexuality #LGBTQ #Christian #Bible

Listen in as I tackle the delicate and profound topic of same-sex couples with children within the church community. We explore the intricate journey these families may face, particularly the pursuit of repentance and the challenges of maintaining family stability during such transitions. I share insights on the imperative of parents to model a life of repentance and find their fulfillment in Jesus, emphasizing the church's role in providing unwavering support, love, and guidance during these transformative times. This conversation also touches upon the parallels between same-sex families and other non-traditional family structures, reinforcing the message that God's grace abounds where the family ideal is not met.  As we continue, we delve into the emotional complexities that can arise when one partner in a same-sex relationship seeks to deepen their relationship with Christ. This often leads to difficult decisions regarding separation and the potential for custody disputes over children. I discuss the importance of gospel repentance and the church's commitment to creating a stable, nurturing environment for all involved. We consider the painful sacrifices that may be required but conclude with a reminder of the hope and better future that Jesus promises. Tune in for an honest and compassionate examination of these sensitive issues, as we reaffirm our dedication to spreading the gospel and engaging in ministry that bridges the gaps in the lives of both adults and children.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) - Navigating Same-Sex Couples in Church (08:15) - Navigating Repentance in Same-Sex Relationships (14:56) - Spreading Gospel and Engaging MinistryJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

In today's episode, Brady tackles tough questions from a youth group Q&A session, offering the same answers and insights to our listeners. It's an eye-opening look at the depth of sexual struggles among today's youth, highlighting the urgency for open dialogue within the church.Timestamps:(00:16) - Guidance on Combating Unhealthy Sexual Desires (12:03) - Responsibility, Modesty, Singleness, LGBTQ Evangelism (21:12) - Understanding Homosexuality in Christianity (36:55) - Navigating LGBTQ Issues in Christianity (49:47) - Loving LGBTQ Individuals With Grace (56:16) - Navigating Sexual Identity and RelationshipsJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

This week, I welcome Anthony Curnutt back to Calibrate Conversations for an enlightening discussion on his latest work, "Framework for Biblical Masculinity." Anthony's unique perspective, shaped by his blue-collar roots, cuts through the cultural confusion surrounding masculinity. We tackle the tough questions about what it means to be a man of God in today's world and the pressing need for a discipleship tool that can lead men to fulfill their roles as husbands and fathers. Anthony's journey from a self-proclaimed "community college dropout" to an inspiring author is a testament to the glory of God and serves as an encouragement for all men on their spiritual paths.  Listen in as we explore the concept of biblical masculinity and the crisis it faces in contemporary society. From the influence of the feminist movement and the sexual revolution to the distorted societal expectations of men, we dissect how these factors have left many men grappling with their identities. The conversation doesn't stop there; we dive into the heart of male leadership and servanthood, as exemplified by Jesus Christ. Understand the importance of community, accountability, and finding one's identity in Christ for fostering a biblical masculinity that blesses families and society at large.  The path to healing emotional wounds is a silent struggle for many men, and we confront this reality head-on. Sharing personal stories and insights, we address the power of forgiveness, both in giving and receiving, and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding us through vulnerability. Anthony and I discuss the necessity of addressing childhood traumas, breaking cycles of emotional unavailability, and guiding our children through their own emotional journeys. By embracing grace and understanding within our relationships, we underline the importance of building trust and deep connections. Don't miss out on this powerful episode that aims to equip men with the tools to develop a biblical understanding of masculinity.Connect with Anthony:Buy Anthony's New Book here:https://a.co/d/get9WAyListen to Real Men Talk Podcast:https://www.realmenministries.us/real-men-talkConnect with Real Men Ministries:https://www.realmenministries.us/homeTIMESTAMPS:(00:16) - Embracing Biblical Masculinity in Culture (07:20) - Rediscovering Biblical Masculinity and Community (14:35) - Masculinity and Biblical Manhood in Servanthood (28:49) - Exploring Men's Emotional Wounds (34:34) - Healing From Unspoken Wounds (43:08) - Understanding Grace and Biblical MasculinityJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

I was pleasantly surprised when I watched this short video from Impact Video Ministries! In this response video, I dive a bit deeper into some important nuances and further talk about how Christians should love the LGBTQ+ community. Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#ImpactVideoMinistries #LGBTQ #Christianity

Growing up near the echo of sirens and the chaos of the streets, Dr. Chris Featherstone's path from agnosticism to faith is as compelling as it is enlightening. His story, interwoven with deep dives into forensic psychology, theology, psychotherapy, and criminal justice, speaks to the transformative power of adversity. On our latest podcast, Dr. Featherstone joins me to discuss how such challenges can become the crucible for discovering purpose, with a special focus on how God's standards can profoundly shape our views on sexuality and culture.The mind's landscape can be as enigmatic as it is prone to manipulation, something Dr. Featherstone knows all too well. Together, we uncover the psychological intricacies of cult behavior and belief systems, exploring why people from all walks of life may be drawn into these communities. We reflect on the healing from church hurt, maintaining faith through community, and the delicate act of questioning beliefs without losing one's spiritual anchor. This segment is an eye-opening journey through the psychology of personal conviction and the importance of discernment in faith.Venturing into the digital epoch, where teenagers are bombarded with countless influences, Dr. Featherstone and I share insights on parenting in such a complex era. We emphasize the necessity of authoritative guidance and strong family ties to help young individuals navigate their identities and relationships. By presenting servant leadership and the sacrificial love exemplified by Jesus, we discuss strategies for raising children who not only honor their families but are also equipped to embark on their transformative journeys. Join us for this heartening exploration of faith, purpose, and the indelible impact of aligning with divine standards in every facet of our lives.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Finding Faith and Purpose Through Adversity(09:59) The Psychology of Cults and Belief(17:55) Exploring Cult Dynamics and Psychological Manipulation(31:00) Recognizing Cult Dynamics and Belongingness(40:05) Parenting and Teenagers in Modern Society(49:04) Parenting Philosophy and Setting Standards(54:57) Raising Sons to Love and Respect(01:10:53) Embracing God's Standards for SexualityFollow Dr. Chris Featherstone for more great content here:https://www.youtube.com/@DrChrisFeatherstoneOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Join us for a profound conversation with Greg Koukl, the mind behind Stand To Reason, as we navigate the increasingly complex dialogue between faith, sexuality, and the cultural transformations that challenge Christian conversations today. As our societal landscape morphs, so too does the discourse around biblical sexual ethics, rendering Greg's apologetic work more vital than ever. Our discussion moves from the respectful engagement in an era dominated by the dehumanizing effects of social media to the intricacies of gender dysphoria and the significant impact of recent legal decisions. This episode promises to equip believers with compassionate, yet firm strategies for holding meaningful conversations on some of today's most sensitive issues.  The journey through gender identity and its spiritual and scientific dimensions proves to be both sensitive and enlightening. Unpacking the prevalence of gender dysphoria, particularly among adolescents, we tackle the controversy of social contagion and the politicization of science within the framework of faith. Greg brings to light the importance of understanding the binary nature of gender dysphoria against the backdrop of mental health challenges. Providing clarity in a time of confusion, our exchange seeks to highlight the spiritual narratives underpinning the current societal views on gender.  Concluding this essential dialogue, we reflect on the Christian experience, including the church's own pitfalls and the necessity for honesty in our sexual struggles. Greg sheds light on celibacy in gay relationships and the invaluable support provided by ministries like Calibrate for parents of LGBTQ children. By emphasizing the necessity of community and sharing resources freely, we aim to reinforce the importance of upholding God's standards for sexuality. This episode is an invitation to join a conversation that holds space for encouragement, community building, and steadfast faith in Christ above all.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) - Cultural Shifts in Biblical Sexual Ethics (14:46) - Gender Dysphoria and Societal Influences (22:11) - Navigating Struggles in Christian Living (34:09) - Clarifying Biblical Stance on Homosexuality (42:20) - Ethical Perspectives on LGBTQ Relationships (57:41) - Community Building Through Free ResourcesResources from Stand To Reason:Website: https://www.str.orgYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@STRvideos Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/standtoreason93Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/standtoreason/Get Greg's books here:https://store.str.org/home

Listen in as we explore the intriguing and controversial Queen James Bible, a revision of the classic King James Version that has sparked conversation due to its altered passages on homosexuality. Unearth the reasons behind its name and how King James I's efforts to make the Bible accessible in English have been both celebrated and critiqued.In our thoughtful analysis, we tackle the complexities of scriptural interpretation, specifically focusing on the verses from Leviticus and Romans that have traditionally been cited in discussions about homosexuality. The Queen James Bible suggests these passages may not condemn same-sex relationships but rather idolatrous practices associated with ancient rites. Are the makers of the Queen James Version correct?Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) - Queen James Bible (16:26) - Interpretation of Biblical Passages on Homosexuality (24:06) - Interpreting Bible Passages that deal with sexualityOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

This week, Brady is joined by Jonathan Noyes of Stand To Reason (@STRvideos) to talk about the impact our worldview has on how we view sexuality. The pair talk about the difference having the Holy Spirit makes in the life of the believer--particularly in fighting sin. Jonathan explains how the naturalism embraced by many in our culture has an impact on what they believe. Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Atheism #Christianity #Sexuality

Listen in as we explore the sensitive and controversial topic of the Billy Graham Rule, a principle where men, particularly in Christian circles, avoid spending time alone with women who are not their wives. The conversation unpacks the heated debate sparked by a tweet about the rule's negative implications for women, discussing feelings of degradation and limitation in both professional and personal realms. We also address the necessity of boundaries and the challenge of maintaining meaningful interactions across genders, reflecting on the rule's origin as a protective measure for Billy Graham and its modern-day application. As we navigate this complex subject, we invite listeners to consider the nuanced aspects of creating safe yet inclusive spaces within Christian ethics and relationships.This candid discussion is essential listening for anyone seeking wisdom in their interactions with the opposite sex. We lay out foundational principles of respect, protection, and avoiding assumptions that can enlighten your approach to setting boundaries. Illuminating personal anecdotes and scriptural references, including the oft-quoted 1 Thessalonians 5:22, contribute to a rich tapestry of insights into how we can battle lust through restoration and cultivate edifying friendships. Church leaders, ministry workers, and anyone invested in the health of Christian communities will find value in our exploration of these sensitive yet critical topics. Join us as we offer a fresh lens through which to view the very real challenges of maintaining integrity and compassion in our relational lives.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) - Exploring Boundaries in Ministerial Relationships (09:12) - Challenges With Billy Graham Rule (16:32) - Principles of Restoration and RelationshipsOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Listen in as Dr. Peter Goeman from Shepherd's Theological Seminary joins us to unravel the truths and common misconceptions about biblical sexuality. Together, we tackle the contentious interpretations of the word "homosexual" in the Bible and the cultural attempts to invalidate its teachings in the modern context. Dr. Goeman brings his expertise to the forefront, emphasizing the importance of understanding the original languages to faithfully apply the Scriptures to our lives.In our thought-provoking conversation, we navigate the challenges of interpreting and applying Old Testament laws, especially concerning discussions around homosexuality. Dr. Goeman shares insights from his dissertation, focusing on the relevance of Old Testament passages to the New Testament, and we confront arguments that aim to sidestep these scriptures based on contemporary perceptions of love. The discussion also explores the role of special revelation in shaping our ethical framework and the resources available through Calibrate Ministries for parents of LGBTQ children. Join us to gain clarity on the complexities involved in understanding ancient laws to today's society, and to understand the distinctions between misinterpretations and the true intent of Scripture.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Understanding Biblical Sexuality Through Scholarly Analysis(10:21) Interpreting and Applying Old Testament Scripture(14:31) Interpreting Old Testament Laws and Creation(25:31) Analyzing Polygamy in the BibleConnect w/ Dr. Goeman here:Youtube:  @thebiblesojourner  Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-bible-sojournerWebsite: https://petergoeman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pjgoeman/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/goemanpjTwitter: https://twitter.com/petergoeman_Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Growing up on a Florida farm, Aaron might have seemed to have an idyllic childhood, but beneath the surface, he was wrestling with a challenge that many find incongruent with their faith – same-sex attraction. As we sat across from each other, I was struck by Aaron's unflinching candor about his journey, a narrative that unfolds as a testament to resilience and grace amidst the often tumultuous intersection of Christianity and sexuality. This conversation opens a window into the heart of someone navigating the waters of personal identity, longing for connection, and the deep-seated desire to remain true to his spiritual convictions.  Throughout our discussion, Aaron pulls back the curtain on the misconceptions and personal challenges he's faced, shining a light on the complex emotions that accompany a life lived at the crossroads of societal expectations and self-acceptance. We explore the poignant struggles of self-denial, the stigmatization faced within religious communities, and the universal battle against loneliness. Aaron's vulnerability highlights the tension many people feel when their authenticity seems at odds with their faith, painting a vivid picture of the courage it takes to stand firm in one's beliefs while also seeking acceptance.  In a moving narrative, Aaron shares moments of weakness and triumph, from the grip of sexual addiction to the power of grace that has proven to be his beacon in the darkness. His story is a reminder of the critical role a supportive church family can play, and the enduring nature of God's love that extends beyond our human frailties. This episode is a celebration of genuine connection, a call to parents to embrace their children's emotional experiences, and an inspiring look at finding one's identity in Christ amidst the trials we face. Join us as we witness Aaron's powerful journey of faith, sexuality, and the redemptive power of a supportive church community.TIMESTAMPS(00:09) - Navigating Same-Sex Attraction With Grace (12:17) - Misconceptions and Challenges of Same-Sex Attraction (21:16) - Navigating Sexual Addiction and Loneliness (32:44) - The Struggle With Guilt and Brokenness (36:51) - Navigating Faith and Sexuality as Christians (47:51) - The Challenges of Online Connections (54:48) - God's Unconditional Love and SupportJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Brady offers his hot take on the recent Alistair Begg controversy. Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations