Podcasts about orna donath

„Ich liebe mein Kind – aber manchmal bereue ich, Mutter geworden zu sein.“Ein Gedanke, den kaum jemand ausspricht – aber viel zu viele fühlen.In dieser Folge spreche ich über das Konzept Regretting Motherhood, die Forschung von Dr. Orna Donath, den Unterschied zur postnatalen Depression und die systemischen Strukturen, die Frauen in die Mutterschaft drängen – ohne sie dort zu halten.Diese Folge ist kein Angriff auf Kinder.Sondern ein Befreiungsschlag für Frauen, die sich selbst vermissen.Die still funktionieren, aber innerlich schreien. Die sich nicht trauen, ehrlich zu sein – aus Angst, als Rabenmutter abgestempelt zu werden.Du bist nicht falsch.Buch deinen Call. Komm rein. Hör auf, dich zu verstecken!Meine Einladung an dich

Orna is an Israeli sociologist, a teacher at Tel Aviv University, and the author of the landmark book, "Regretting Motherhood." This is a rebroadcast of episode 78, from 2023.

Send me a text!My guest today is documentary filmmaker, Towe Carlsson who, having found herself questioning her desire to have children and fearing regretting motherhood, went on to make a documentary called Motherhood, Confessions of Regret. Towe worked with three women and one of their children, as well as author of Regretting Motherhood, Orna Donath. The trailer, which can be seen on my social media today is moving and demonstrates the necessity for this conversation to be opened up within society. Towe and I discuss the makings of the film, which is currently in the editing process and the various reasons surrounding the mothers regrets and how their decisions to have children have impacted their lives. The full trailer can be seen here; https://youtu.be/TkGFFG6JSgc?si=vNgwuQarcKhMAWuG Thank you so much for listening to my show!You can follow and contact me here;Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/onesinglewoman/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551831488278TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@onesinglewomanYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@onesinglewomanpodcastemail - onesinglewomanpodcast@gmail.com

In this conversation, Keltie speaks with author and mother, Astrid Hurault de Ligny, about the complexities of motherhood, including Astrid's experience of maternal regret. You'll hear... Astrid's journey from the decision to have children, through the romanticized notions of motherhood, to the harsh realities of parenting, including the mental load and postpartum depression. How Astrid realized her feelings were more than postpartum depression, but actually, ones of regret that she had chosen motherhood. Why support — or a lack thereof — has played a key role in Astrid's regret. Why regretting motherhood doesn't mean not loving your child, or wishing they weren't born. Why she decided to start her Instagram channel, and ultimately, to write a book detailing her experiences.  The role therapy has played in Astrid's marriage and the support systems that have helped her navigate the challenges of parenting. Which feelings about motherhood are most present for Astrid today. How and if women on the fence about kids can safeguard themselves against regret in motherhood. As mentioned in the show:  Find Astrid's book, Le Regret Maternel, here.  Astrid can be found on Instagram at @le_regret_maternel. Find the book, Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath, here.  About Astrid: Astrid Hurault de Ligny is a soon-to-be 39-year-old woman who was born in France, and who has been living in Montreal, Canada, since 2008. She and her husband met in Montreal 12 years ago, and have a 6-year-old son together.  _ Join our upcoming Confidently Childfree Coaching intensive, which starts January 25th, here: kidsorchildfree.com/confidently-childfree-group-intensive And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Kids or Childfree Podcast if you love what you're hearing! You can leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts, or a rating on Spotify. Find us online at www.kidsorchildfree.com. Instagram: www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@kidsorchildfree

Text us your thoughts on this episode!Host Kelley Daring interviews Orna Donath, who conducted a study on women who regret becoming mothers and wrote a book about it (Regretting Motherhood). Orna was inspired by her previous study on Jewish Israeli women and men who don't want to be parents and the idea of women being promised that they will regret not becoming mothers troubled her and led her to explore the topic of regret and motherhood. She interviewed women who regretted becoming mothers and found that there was no previous academic study on the topic.For all the behind the scenes, check out the Call Her Daring Tik Tok (@CallHerDaring) and get all the shownotes at www.callherdaring.com

Orna Donath is a professor at Tel Aviv University and is the author of the landmark book "Regretting Motherhood." During our conversation, Orna talks about the lessons from her research, her own "silent knowing" that she didn't want to be a mom, the importance of knowing oneself, and her new research of elderly, childless women in Israel. Orna also talks about the role of fear in pressuring women to become a mom, her yearly dialogue with a dozen women who are trying to decide whether to have kids, healthy models for childless women, and her interviews with childless men.------------Book a meeting with Dan------------Keep Talking SubstackRate on SpotifyRate on Apple PodcastsSocial media and all episodes------------Support via VenmoSupport on SubstackSupport on Patreon------------00:00 Intro00:52 Stories of women who have regretted having kids 05:24 What has been traumatic to women about becoming mothers? 10:20 The role of fear in pressuring women to have kids 16:57 The lack of healthy models for women without kids 23:47 Lessons from elderly, childless women 29:07 Lessons from women who are wrestling with whether to have kids 36:13 Meaning and purpose in life without kids 42:43 Quotes in praise or Orna and her work 44:34 Men who don't want to have kids55:02 Addressing questions Orna wants to answer

Eveline Sozio wird vor sieben Jahren schwanger, genießt die Zeit mit Baby im Bauch, doch nach der Geburt erlebt sie alles andere als Glückseligkeit und tiefe Muttergefühle. Müsste sie die nicht haben? Eveline ist verunsichert, fühlt sich permanent gestresst, der ständige Schlafmangel sorgt für depressive Verstimmungen, das schreiende Kind für noch mehr Erschöpfung. Erst als ihr das Buch von Orna Donath über „Regretting Motherhood“ in die Hände fällt, erkennt Eveline, was mit ihr los ist. Warum sie ihre Tochter über alles liebt und trotzdem ihre Mutterschaft bereut, erzählt sie Linda Leinweber in der neuen Folge des IKEA Podcasts.

For the 146th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Orna Donath, an Israeli sociologist, author, and feminist activist who wrote the book Regretting Motherhood based on her research. We talk about ambivalence vs. regret, the difference in how the genders are socialized around parenthood, the external pressures women face to become mothers, how she conducted her study, and more. For more Orna Donath: Buy Orna's book Regretting Motherhood: A Study Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans, which is a horny way to support the show: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Lume is a whole-body deodorant for pits, privates, and beyond. Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code PPU at lumedeodorant.com! #lumepod STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ppupod.com, click Lovehoney, and enter code Private at checkout. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Fleshlight is offering Private Parts Unknown listeners 10% off with code PRIVATE. Go to ppupod.com, click Fleshlight, and enter code PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our first episode on regretful parents was such a hit, we wanted to dive even deeper. In this episode, we're joined by Orna Donath, a sociologist who probably knows more about parental regret than anyone on the planet. She is the author of the book, ‘Regretting Motherhood' — which covers her study of 23 women on their experiences with regret over their role as mothers. You can buy Orna's book HERE to read it yourself.To find the article on orgs to support in Israel and Palestine, visit CharityWatch.Become a monthly subscriber to support this show. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Instagram and TikTok at @dinkypod. If you have a question or comment, email us at dinky@dinkypod.comThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5953015/advertisement

In today's episode, my friend and colleague Amya Pinka joins me to discuss being undecided about whether she wants to have children in the future. We discuss the various factors that are going into her decision - like having a little brother who is 20 years younger than her, the desire to travel freely and see the world, as well as her foray into being a COVID dog parent.Amya is fiercely defiant of taking the traditional road and remains refreshingly unswayed by the masses. We had such a fun conversation and I'm hoping I can speak to her again as she evolves in her journey.  The book I reference is called Regretting Motherhood: A Study by sociologist Orna Donath. *Please note: I mention the zika virus in relation to a trip to Africa, but that was incorrect; the topic between my mother and I came up in 2015 when we traveled to the U.S. Virgin Islands. Support the showEmail me questions at childfree.me.podcast@gmail.com - I'd love to hear from you!Follow on the Gram: @childfreeme_Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 10MWPZUG3AZBGZPR

Leen is urgentiearts en heeft een vriend en kind. Daar heeft ze spijt van. Niet dat ze hen niet graag ziet (verre van!) maar ze had toch eigenlijk liever een leven op zichzelf geleid. Sinds de geboorte van haar kind ervaart ze het moederschap als iets denigrerends en als een aanval op haar autonomie. Leen is wat je noemt een spijtmoeder. Liefst van al was ze nooit moeder geworden. Nu de klok niet meer terug te draaien valt, probeert ze haar liefde voor vriend en kind op de eerste plaats te zetten en haar spijt als levenskompas te gebruiken om toch zoveel mogelijk autonomie terug te vinden in het leven dat ze nu leidt. We hebben het in deze podcast over twee boeken: “Spijt van het moederschap” door Orna Donath en “De Middernachtbibliotheek” van Matt Haig. De voorstellingen van de theatershow TOT ONZE GROTE SPIJT vind je hier : www.johanterryn.com/speellijst Het boek kan je hier bestellen: https://www.johanterryn.com/shop See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“There's something incredibly dangerous to the status quo about us no longer feeling ashamed for choosing lives that are right for us, and within that choosing to direct our creative life force energy that we all embody into whatever we so choose.” - Ruby Warrington Today I delve into the complex and often ignored topic of non-motherhood with author Ruby Warrington. Ruby wrote “Women Without Kids” to challenge the prevailing societal narratives surrounding motherhood and unravel the inherent binary thinking that erases the diversity of human relationships and caregiving experiences. We explore the broad motherhood spectrum, which encompasses women who are unable to have children and those who consciously choose not to. Ruby passionately dissects the harmful effects of pronatalism, an ideology that values parents over non-parents within a colonial capitalist framework. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the vital role of non-parents, particularly women, in societal transformation amid the daunting challenges of climate impact and economic collapse. Furthermore, we explore the notion of deviance and shame associated with choosing alternative paths in life and how shedding shame can unleash our creative potential and empower us to challenge the status quo. Also in this episode: breaking down the mommy binary undoing the ideology of valuing parents over non-parents within colonial capitalism women without kids as a necessary vital part of societal transformation among decimating climate impact and economic collapse found family and less hierarchical ways of creating community and family what caregiving looks like within and outside the role of motherhood social life in berlin and the value of community engagement undoing shame of being “deviant” or “other” and taking back our creative potential Ruby Warrington is creator of the term Sober Curious. Author of the 2018 book and million download podcast of the same title, her work has spearheaded a global movement to reevaluate our relationship to alcohol. Other works include Material Girl, Mystical World (2017), The Numinous Astro Deck  (2019), and The Sober Curious Reset (2020). With 20+ years' experience as a lifestyle journalist and editor, Ruby is known as an astute cultural commentator and true thought leader. She is also the founder of self-publishing incubator Numinous Books. Her new book, Women Without Kids, is out now. Links: Ruby's Website: https://www.rubywarrington.com/ Ruby's Books: https://www.rubywarrington.com/books/ Women Without Kids Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-without-kids/id1642683714 Women without Kids Retreat at Krippalu Center in June https://kripalu.org/presenters-programs/women-without-kids Reclaiming All Parts of You: Healing the Roots of Shame and Insecurity [Free workbook & meditation download] https://witty-creator-9045.ck.page/e89cafda64 Research: Gateway women, Jody Day https://gateway-women.com/ Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/552538/regretting-motherhood-by-orna-donath/ Disclaimer: The DEPTH Work Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Any information on this podcast in no way to be construed or substituted as psychological counseling, psychotherapy, mental health counseling, or any other type of therapy or medical advice.

Orna Donath is an Israeli sociologist, a teacher at Tel Aviv University, and the author of the landmark book, "Regretting Motherhood." During our conversation, Orna talks about the women she profiled in her book, the difference between regretting motherhood and having ambivalence towards it, and why and how women end up in a life where they regret being mothers. Orna also talks about regretting motherhood as one of our world's taboo topics, the idea that being childless is "selfish," what it is like for women to "come out" as regretting parenthood, and whether the desire to be child-free is an innate orientation.This is one of the most important and interesting conversations I've ever had. Amazingly, Orna's work is the first of its kind: a study that gives voice to women whose experience of motherhood has been an unequivocal mistake. We often, I think, like to believe such people don't exist, hence the shame that's often associated with those who affirm this experience. Orna has helped to bring such women out of the shadows and, I hope, begun to lessen the stigma of those who honestly share the regret they feel about an irreversible, life-changing decision.If we are to live in a world that respects and encourages individuality and personal preferences, then Orna's work is a consciousness-raising offering. I hope that it will help millions of women learn that they are not alone, and reduce the likelihood of people being influenced by conformity and peer pressure over honoring one's inner compass.------------Support via VenmoSupport on SubstackSupport on Patreon------------Show notesRate on SpotifyRate on Apple PodcastsSocial media and all episodes------------(00:00) Intro (04:27) The genesis of the study "Regretting Motherhood" (06:46) Defining regret (10:25) Ambivalence vs. regret (13:24) Similarities with "coming out" as gay (16:55) A first-of-its-kind study(20:25) Quotes from women (23:55) Completness vs. deficiency (29:55) Normative vs. normal (32:57) Is being childfree selfish? (38:00) Who is most at risk for regretting parenthood? (42:44) Can removing stigma reduce regret? (46:40) Are there advantages of being childfree? (51:30) What it's like to know you don't want kids (54:55) How Orna endured in honoring her preference (58:40) Orna's forthcoming study of elderly childfree people

Few would admit to regretting their decision to become parents. But that doesn't mean there are not people who do indeed regret the choice to have kids. Is it possible to still love your children while regretting the choice to have had them? Is the admission of regret necessarily a bad thing? Orna Donath, author of Regretting Motherhood, joins the podcast.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5432816/advertisement

Did you know that Reddit's Regretful Parents subreddit has over 72k members? Today's episode covers the topic of regretful parenting — a doozy of a subject! While it may be taboo, there are more and more parents coming clean about their lived experiences, whether it's through social research or social media forums like Reddit. In this episode, we talk about the primary reasons parents regret, the sociology behind it all — and more.  Read Newsweek's piece titled, 'I Regret Having Children': The Moms United In An Uncomfortable Truth' Tap this link to purchase a copy of Orna Donath's book, Regretting Motherhood. To read the article from our Shit Parents Say segment, tap here. To support this show, click here. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Instagram and TikTok at @dinkypod.  If you have a question or comment, email us at dinkypod@gmail.com.   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dinky-podcast/support

Bloß nicht alleinerziehend! Das war der erste Gedanke, als Lea erfahren hat, dass sie schwanger ist. Zwei Jahre später ist genau das eingetreten. Der Vater sieht die Tochter nach der Trennung nur ab und zu. Die meiste Zeit kümmert sich Lea als Solomutter um die Erziehung des Kindes. Sie wünscht sich echte Unterstützung von der Politik und ihrem Umfeld. Stattdessen bekommt sie oft nur oberflächliches Lob wie: "Toll wie du das hinkriegst." Die Alltagsfeministinnen befassen sich heute mit Tabus & Fakten rund um alleinerziehende Eltern. Warum betrifft das vor allem Frauen? Wieso gelten Eineltern- und Patchworkfamilien immer noch als Familien zweiter Klasse? Was muss sich ändern, damit die (finanzielle) Diskriminierung von Alleinerziehenden aufhört? Feedback, Themenwünsche oder Coaching-Interesse? alltagsfeministinnen@rbb-online.de oder schickt uns Sprachnachrichten an 0172 395 92 51 (WhatsApp) Ein Coaching-Podcast mit Sonja Koppitz und Johanna Fröhlich Zapata Feminismus to Go als PDF: https://rbburl.de/schreibimpuls Link zur Radiosendung: https://rbburl.de/alltagsfeministinnenamsonntag Links zum Weiterlesen: Stellungnahme des Verbands Alleinerziehender Mütter und Väter (VAMV) zu Inflationshilfen für Alleinerziehende (PDF): https://www.vamv.de/fileadmin/user_upload/bund/dokumente/Stellungnahmen/2022/VAMV_Stellungnahme_Anhoerung_AE_20062022.pdf Infos für Alleinerziehende vom Familienministerium (BMFSJ): https://www.bmfsfj.de/bmfsfj/themen/familie/chancen-und-teilhabe-fuer-familien/alleinerziehende Regretting Motherhood - Originalstudie von Orna Donath: https://www.sueddeutsche.de/gesundheit/unglueckliche-muetter-sie-wollen-ihr-leben-zurueck-1.2419449 https://missy-magazine.de/blog/2022/02/07/regretting-motherhood/ Buch zum Thema: Anne Dittmann: solo, selbst & ständig. Was Alleinerziehende wirklich brauchen. Ein Wut- und Mutmachbuch. Kösel Verlag. 18,00 Euro www.rbbkultur.de/alltagsfeministinnen

In this week's episode of Spinsterhood Reimagined, I talk to journalist, author, editor, thought leader and podcaster, Ruby Warrington. Ruby latest book 'Women Without Kids' will be published in the spring but is available to pre-order now. She is the creator of the term ‘Sober Curious', and the author of the 2018 book and million download podcast of the same name. Her work on the subject has spearheaded a global movement to reevaluate our relationship to alcohol. Her other books include ‘Material Girl, Mystical World' and ‘The Sober Curious Reset'. With more than 20 years' experience as a lifestyle journalist and editor, Ruby is known as an astute culture commentator and thought leader. She's also the founder of self-publishing imprint, Numinous Books. In this episode, Ruby and I talk about the three motivators that drove her to write Women Without Kids; the nuances of not having children and her theory of the 'motherhood spectrum'; and how the desire to be a parent is something that can be ever-changing over the course of someone's life.    We also talk about the importance of being supported when making the often complex decision of whether or not to have a baby; how women without kids are diminished in society; and how childfree women can often be seen as ‘selfish', especially when they prioritise and spend time on their personal growth.    Ruby and I also talk about Orna Donath's studies on women who regret having kids, as well as our own feelings around being told we'll regret not becoming mothers; the healing that Ruby has done with her own mother as a result of writing her book; and how she feels now that the book is about to be birthed into the world!Finally, we talk about Ruby's love of astrology; how the term ‘woowoo' is being reclaimed; Ruby's meditation and yoga practices; and her platform, The Numinous.  Follow Ruby on Instagram: @rubywarringtonFind out more at Ruby's website:https://www.rubywarrington.com/Pre-Order ‘Women Without Kids' (UK Link):https://www.amazon.co.uk/Women-Without-Kids-Revolutionary-Sisterhood-ebook/dp/B0B19DQ3K3 Pre-Order ‘Women Without Kids' (US Link):https://www.amazon.com/Women-Without-Kids-Revolutionary-Sisterhood/dp/1683649273 Listen to Ruby's podcast, Sober Curious, on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/3GukloeJytjkvFoSLaUaayAnd on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sober-curious/id1460377009Listen to ‘Women Without Kids' on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/27nkJLSZgjcv6zawomaaKm And on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-without-kids/id1642683714 The Numinous:https://www.the-numinous.com/  Fancy getting your hands on my FREE Top 10 Mindset Tips? Head over to: www.lucymeggeson.com Interested in my 1-1 Coaching to help you feel happier and more positive about your single status? E-mail me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com Join my private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1870817913309222/?ref=share Follow me on Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Follow me on Twitter: @LucyMeggeson Email me: lucy@lucymeggeson.com And thank you so much for listening!!!

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CODE PROMO MATRESCENCE POUR 90 EUROS SUR TES 4 PREMIERES COMMANDES HelloFresh.fr/LAMATRESCENCEPOUR SOUTENIR LE PODCAST RENDEZ-VOUS SUR WWW.PATREON.COM/CLEMENTINESARLATDevenir mère, dans un monde qui a oublié de nous prendre en considération, peut vite devenir un très gros fardeau. C'est exactement ce qu'a ressenti Astrid Hurault de ligny qui a créé le compte : le regret maternel, sur les réseaux sociaux.Regretter d'être mère n'est pas un thème nouveau, vous avez déjà sûrement entendu l'actrice Anémone en parler publiquement en 2011. Mais sa voix, à l'époque, n'avait pas forcément trouvé un écho auprès de la société.La sociologue Orna Donath a, elle, écrit un livre en 2015 sur son regret d'avoir été mère… Aujourd'hui la parole se libère petit à petit autour de ce thème et le tabou ultime d'avouer ne pas aimer ce rôle, commence à se dissiper.C'est exactement pour ça qu'Astrid, française vivant à Quebec a écrit cet ouvrage. Parler pour exorciser, parler pour visibiliser, parler pour ne pas devenir folle.A travers son livre on comprend que ce regret n'est surtout pas choisi, qu'il faut apprendre à vivre avec, que le regard que la société nous renvoie peut peser et qu'il faut apprendre à trouver des stratégies pour apercevoir la lumière dans ce qui peut être un tunnel de la maternité. Astrid raconte, décortique et pose un regard lucide sur la charge mentale qui est, selon elle, le facteur numéro 1 à ce regret auprès de nombreuses mères.Merci à elle pour son témoignage lumineux qui j'espère aidera celles et ceux qui en ont besoin!Je vous souhaite une très bonne écouteC'était Astrid Hurault de Ligny, autrice.Je suis Clémentine Sarlat, vôtre hôte. Si vous avez aimé cet épisode n'hésitez pas à mettre 5 étoiles ou le partager sur les réseaux sociaux @ lamatrescenceLe podcast vient de reprendre après une longue pause bébé, si vous cherchez un thème particulier, allez sur le site www.lamatrescence.fr pour trouver votre bonheur et le mettre dans vos oreilles. Il y a déjà plus de 110 épisodes.Cet épisode a été produit par Mini MinoisPrenez soin de vousA la semaine prochaine Vous pouvez consulter notre politique de confidentialité sur https://art19.com/privacy ainsi que la notice de confidentialité de la Californie sur https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

While those of us without children are frequently warned of the possibility of regretting their absence, a story we don't often hear is of the parents who regret having children. In this episode with Israeli sociologist Dr. Orna Donath, we unpack her groundbreaking work on this highly stigmatized topic of motherhood regret. Orna helps us understand the distinctions between ambivalence and regret, as well as non-natalism and anti-natalism. We also discuss her thoughts on the stringent control that society has over our emotions and actions, specifically as they relate to procreative decisions. From voluntary childlessness to the influence of neoliberalism on feminist thought, we end with reflection on how pronatalism is inherently oppressive and a cause for much confusion and suffering for parents and non-parents alike, while also being ecologically destructive. See episode website for show notes and links: https://www.populationbalance.org/episode-83-orna-donath ABOUT US The Overpopulation Podcast features enlightening conversations between Population Balance Executive Director Nandita Bajaj, cohost Alan Ware, and expert guests. We cover a broad variety of topics that explore the impacts of our expanding human footprint on human rights, animal protection, and environmental restoration, as well as individual and collective solutions. Learn more here: https://www.populationbalance.org/

Contrary to what society would like us to believe, not every woman wants to be a mother. Some women regret the choice altogether.Orna Donath was only 16 years old when knew with certainty that she never wanted to be a mother. In the decades that followed she never waivered in that decision. Today, Orna is a sociologist and author in Tel Aviv, Israel. In this rerelease of one of our most beloved season one episodes, she joins Kassia and Sabrina to talk about:• Her personal experience of the stigma society places on women who choose not to mother• Her thought-provoking research on women who deeply regret their decision to have children• How we can begin to untangle womanhood from motherhoodLike what you hear and want more? Sign up for our newsletter full of episode updates and resources on issues impacting women around the world. 

Spijt van het moederschap.Dat bestaat en niet alleen geanticipeerde spijt, zoals dat zo deftig heet. De spijt die je verwacht te zullen hebben. Bang om de verkeerde keuze te maken? Dat is angst voor spijt later. Dat betekent de verkeerde keus, dat je spijt zult krijgen.Spijt van het moederschap is er nu in het Nederlands. Het is een boek van de sociologe Orna Donath. Ze interviewde 23 vrouwen over dit onderwerp.In deze podcast leg ik je uit wat het behelst, Spijt van het moederschap, en waarom je dit boek moet lezen. Ook als je niet bang bent voor spijt, ook als je kindvrij leeft of juist een bakfiets vol grut rondtrapt.Het is een belangrijk boek voor alle vrouwen. Lees. Dit. Boek.Meer kennis over gezinsgeluk, moederschap en je kinderwens? Download de beslisgids en ontvang die kekke nieuwsbrief. https://wilikeenkind.nl/gratis/  Het is een controversieel onderwerp. En het is een hype. Beau van Erven Dorens  

Sociologist Orna Donath, author of the book Regretting Motherhood, on the roots and the impact on women of society's greatest taboo. In the episode we discuss:-Why the subject of “regretting motherhood” is so taboo – and why it is so hard for women to express their regret about having kids-The “feeling rules” about motherhood, which only permit us to feel a certain way about it-Why loving one's children and loving being a mom are not the same thing-Why there is no country or society where femininity is not synonymous with motherhood -The importance of acknowledging the diversity among women and all female identifying individuals when it comes to our gifts, our limitations, and our desires for our lives-Why maternal regret is often hidden by complaints about the material difficulties of the role-The damage done to children when women are pushed into motherhood against their will-Why being honest about how things really are – no matter how painful – creates a culture of trust and helps people feel more secure -Why telling women they will regret not having kids is a “political use of emotion”-Insights from Orna's new study, which looks at the lives of older women without kids-Why people – especially women - who chose to live alone are also subject to stigma concerning their life choicesGet your copy of Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath HERE.You can also pre-order your copy of Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood HERE.

For the 98th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Orna Donath, an Israeli sociologist, author, and feminist activist who wrote the book Regretting Motherhood based on her research. We talk about ambivalence vs. regret, the difference in how the genders are socialized around parenthood, the external pressures women face to become mothers, how she conducted her study, and more. For more Orna Donath: Buy Orna's book Regretting Motherhood: A Study ***BUY A PRO-ABORTION SHIRT TO HELP SUPPORT OUR "ABORTION IN POST-ROE AMERICA" REPORTING TRIP (use code PRIVATE to save 10%): https://www.bonfire.com/store/private-parts-unknown/ Here's a playlist of our previous abortion-related episodes, including the "Men Have Abortions Too" series: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BFDkcQYzdfq5YEV5buzzO?si=19a1d68b109845dd Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Go to RexMD.com/private today to get started with a sample pack prescription of generic Viagra. All orders come with FREE 2-day shipping. Rex MD – the authority in men's telehealth. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak and Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram and Twitter.

Anna Brooke was born with a health issue which means that pregnancy and childbirth could be very dangerous for both herself and the child. Over time, she came to accept that she wouldn't be able to have biological kids of her own. So instead of becoming a mother to the teen daughter she used to write to in her diary, Anna now works as a high school teacher. She's showing her students that there are other ways to live. I'm so happy to be able to complicate the narrative around people without children, and super grateful to Anna for being so open, honest and vulnerable about her childfree journey.Check out Anna's artwork here.The books we discussed in this episode: Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath, Selfish, Shallow and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers On The Decision Not To Have Kids, edited by Meghan Daum, and The Nine Lives of Rose Napolitano by Donna Freitas (who's been on the We are Childfree podcast!)This podcast is made possible by the generous support of the We are Childfree membership community. Join us at wearechildfree.com

2022-06-29 Abortion Chronique Subject by Delali Links: -La servante écarlate de Margaret Atwood -La parabole du semeur de Octavia Butler – Le regret d'être mère de Orna Donath – Trois petits mots d'Ashley Rhodes Carter

Una madre arrepentida es una mujer que aunque ama a sus hijos, se arrepiente de haber sido madre. Es un concepto que tiene que ver con el rol, no con el amor o con los hijos. Este concepto esta cuñado en el libro Madres arrepentidas: Una mirada radical a la maternidad y sus falacias sociales, escrito por la socióloga Orna Donath. Se trata de una investigación social, no es ficción y luego se convirtió en un movimiento y un # en redes sociales donde por primera vez muchas mujeres pudieron sentir que lo que les pasaba no solo les pasaba a ellas. En este episodio Carla y Dani conversaron sobre este tema, con mucho y respeto y con la única intensión de ayudar a aquellas mujeres que se sienten de esta forma y la desolación es un sentimiento que las invaden. A través de libros, testimonios recabados y referencias de muchos tipos es tratado el tema. Libros Madres arrepentidas: Una mirada radical a la maternidad y sus falacias sociales. Orna Donath. La hija oscura. Elena Ferrante Saga las dos amigas. Elena Ferrante Los días del abandono. Elena Ferrante El segundo Sexo. Simone de Beauvoir. La mística de la feminidad. Betty Friedan Película La hija oscura. Netflix Seríes Isabel. Inspirada en la vida d ela escritora chilena Isabel Allende. HBO Miss América. HBO Otras referencias Investigación citada, realizada por la Universidad de Valencia- España y dirigida por la doctora María Ángeles Durán. Cifras de ONU mujer sobre el trabajo femenino de cuidado no remunerado Grupo de Telegram Nuestro grupo de Telegram, para construir comunidad alrededor de este podcast completamente gratis. Para unirte haz clic en el link: https://t.me/joinchat/M1BzCR3IAqy81OkjKXqYdA Se trata de un espacio de valor y de crecimiento en comunidad. Será nuestra pequeña tribu de apoyo, un espacio de coraje colectivo. Todas las que se unan podrán acceder a: • Audios exclusivos: respondiendo preguntas • Reseñando libros, películas, series y todo el contenido que consumimos y creemos puede ser de valor para ustedes. • Zoom exclusivos solo para integrantes de esta comunidad • Conversación o discusión de un tema en específico de interés para todas Si quieres sugerirnos un tema , contarnos tus historias o simplemente saludarnos puedes hacerlo en podemosvivirestahistoria@gmail.com Suscríbete, déjanos un comentario y comparte con tus amigas ¿Dónde nos puedes encontrar? En nuestra redes sociales: • Carla Candia Casado es @agobiosdemadre • Daniela Kammoun es @danikammoun y @projectglamm

From Tant que je serai, I'm Tsippora and this is the podcast Tant que je serai Noire. A series of episodes that questions black women desire and non-desire to have children. In this podcast my guests are challenging social and cultural norms to push people to discover different points of views and to think differently. Like me, at the young age of 16, my guest Orna Donath knew with certainty that she would never be a mother. Orna Donath, a Doctor of Sociology who studies the field of non-motherhood, motherhood, and regret. She is a social activist and the writer of the book Regretting Motherhood, published in two thousand and fifteen, which was translated into fourteen languages. To Orna, this self-realization of not being a mother was not as extraordinary as society would want her to believe. To her, it was something normal. Just as common as choosing to become a mother. Another interesting point is the fact that there are women out there who have become mothers and regret the decision and that is so taboo and so stigmatized that it's rarely spoken about. With Orna we talked about the social pressures around motherhood, the stigma around regret, and why it's such a sensitive subject for mothers. I am so happy to had the opportunity to discuss with such an interesting woman, thank you Orna. Enjoy !

Il y a 7 ans, un livre-choc était publié en Israël. Écrit par la sociologue Orna Donath, il s'intitule Le regret d'être mère. Et depuis, petit à petit, en France, comme ailleurs, des femmes osent le dire : elles aiment leurs enfants mais si c'était à refaire elles n'en referaient pas ! Anne-Sophie, maman d'Ella 4 ans et elle fait partie de ces femmes courageuses qui brisent le tabou. Ce sentiment de regret elle l'a éprouvé pendant plusieurs mois… Jusqu'à inventer votre façon très personnelle d'être une maman. On en discute avec Sophie Marinopoulos, psychologue et psychologue, fondatrice des Pâtes au beurre.

Dass es oft anstrengend ist, Kinder zu haben, und Mütter nicht allesamt rund um die Uhr in ihrer Rolle glücklich aufgehen, hat sich mittlerweile herumgesprochen. Der Hashtag RegrettingMotherhood und die Debatte um das Bereuen, Kinder bekommen zu haben, kamen zwar bereits vor einigen Jahren auf. Trotzdem wird nun ein Film, der mütterliche Reue thematisiert, – Maggie Gyllenhaals "Frau im Dunkeln" – als großartiger Tabubruch gefeiert. Ist er das wirklich? Wie wird die feministische Perspektive auf Mutterschaft, weibliche Aufopferung und den Ausbruch aus einem bürgerlichen Leben mit Kindern fiktionalisiert? Was ist eigentlich Reue? Und wie sieht es auf der anderen Seite aus, nämlich bei Frauen und Männern, die sich nichts mehr wünschen, als Kinder zu bekommen, bei denen es aber nicht klappen will? Ein solches Paar zeigt der Film "Was wir wollten" mit Elyas M'Barek, der wie "Frau im Dunkeln" an einem sonnigen Urlaubsstrand spielt. In der neuen Folge des Feuilletonpodcasts "Die sogenannte Gegenwart" folgen Lars Weisbrod und Nina Pauer den sehnsüchtigen Blicken, die sich Eltern und Kinderlose von ihren Strandliegen aus zuwerfen. In dieser Folge sprechen die beiden über: - den Film "Frau im Dunkeln" auf Netflix - den Film "Was wir wollten" auf Netflix - den Aufsatz "Regretting Motherhood. A Sociopolitical Analysis" von Orna Donath: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273291332_Regretting_Motherhood_A_Sociopolitical_Analysis - die Bücher "Transformative Experience" und "Was können wir wissen, bevor wir uns entscheiden?" (Reclam) von L. A. Paul - das Buch "Wellen" von Eduard von Keyserling (dtv Verlagsgesellschaft) - und das Buch "Kinderfrei statt kinderlos. Ein Manifest" von Verena Brunschweiger (Büchner-Verlag)

In questa puntata, Maura Gancitano e Andrea Colamedici raccontano Una cosa enorme, spettacolo andato in scena al Teatro Vascello per la XXXVI edizione di Roma Europa Festival.Il desiderio di essere madre e il suo contrario, la capacità di prendersi cura sono il cuore del lavoro. In scena, una donna con una pancia enorme si muove nel suo spazio fatto di pochi oggetti tra i quali riesce ancora a essere se stessa: un frigorifero, una macchina del gas, una poltrona, una pianta morta. La donna è in costante e paranoico ascolto di una minaccia che incombe dall'alto.È incinta da un tempo indefinito e da un tempo infinito cerca di tenere dentro di sé il proprio pargolo, di impedirgli di venire al mondo.Che peso ha nelle viscere di una donna l'essere e il non essere madre? Che forma o che resistenza accanita assumiamo nel riconoscerci, nel ritrovarci a doverci prendere cura? Che peso ha un/a figlia/o, una madre, un padre?In una lentezza serrata, senza scampo, Una cosa enorme parte dal confronto aperto con l'essere generativ_ e lo declina con l'essere generat_. Fabiana Iacozzilli declina le interviste audio e le parole di Orna Donath e di Sheila Heti sull'essere madri, nel silenzio, fino a dissolvere la scena in una dimensione installativa. L'ordine naturale si mescola, lentamente si svuotano i simboli e la realtà aderisce a se stessa mentre i performer continuano a cercare sui propri corpi, un centimetro alla volta, un'appartenenza che continua a trasformarsi.

2015 veröffentlichte die israelische Soziologin Orna Donath eine Studie, in der sie Frauen mit Kindern fragte, ob sie noch mal Kinder bekommen würden, wenn sie erneut vor der Entscheidung stehen würden. Die Frauen, die die Frage klar mit Nein beantworteten, bezeichnet die Studie als Regretting Motherhood-Phänomen. Das beschreibt das Bereuen des Mutter oder Vaterseins. Katharina kennt es und spricht heute mit uns über ihre Geschichte als Mutter, warum sie eigentlich keine Kinder wollte und trotzdem schwanger wurde. Sie hatte sich ihr Leben ganz anders vorgestellt und trotzdem liebt sie ihren Sohn über alles. Wie das geht und wie sie sich mit der Mutterreue fühlt, erzählt sie heute mutig, offen und ehrlich. Wir nähern uns damit in einer neuen Folge von Psycho trifft Coach einem Tabuthema, das viele Frauen beschäftigt, aber noch zu wenig Raum in unserer Gesellschaft erhält.

Few would admit to regretting their decision to become parents. But that doesn't mean there are not people who do indeed regret the choice to have kids. Is it possible to still love your children while regretting the choice to have had them? Is the admission of regret necessarily a bad thing? Orna Donath, author of Regretting Motherhood, joins the podcast.

At the young age of 16, Orna Donath knew with certainty that she would never be a mother. To Orna, this self-realization was not as extraordinary as society would want her to believe. To her, it was mundane. Just as common as choosing to become a mother. In the decades that followed she became a sociologist and author, producing thought-provoking research on women who regret motherhood along with those who chose to never have children at all. She joins us to share her own personal experience of the stigma societies place on women who choose to not mother as well as how we can begin the complex journey to untangle womanhood from motherhood.

Great strides have been made in advancing women's reproductive autonomy, but there is still much to accomplish. Kathleen Mogelgaard, new president of the Population Institute discusses the Institute's work, including reducing the unmet need for family planning (affecting over 200 million women around the world) and an active effort to permanently repeal the global gag rule (which interferes with provision of important family planning services). Regarding the recent surge in baby-bust alarmism, Kathleen notes that the lower birth rate in the U.S. represents real progress – women taking advantage of a greater diversity of opportunities, and fewer unintended and fewer teen pregnancies. We all agree the response to dropping birth rates – an emphasis on bumping up birth rates – is demeaning, reducing the role of women to manufacturers of future workers, consumers and taxpayers. Also on the agenda: the history of the “population taboo,” the continuing need to improve overpopulation literacy, and the real possibility of seeing an end to population growth this century. LINKS: Pronatalism and Overpopulation: Challenging the Social Pressures to Procreate – register here for free webinar hosted by World Population Balance on July 7, 2021 Double Dividends: Population Dynamics & Climate Adaptation – 2014 Wilson Center panel What is a Solutionary? Population Institute Population: Off the Radar, Not Off the Map – by Kathleen Mogelgaard Don't Panic About Slower Population Growth – by Kathleen Mogelgaard 2019 UNFPA State of the World Population Report: Unfinished Business: The Pursuit of Rights and Choices for All (Kathleen Mogelgaard was lead researcher and author) Global Health, Empowerment and Rights Act ORNA DONATH Speaks About FREEDOM on [m]otherhood – video clip Regretting Motherhood – by Orna Donath [m]otherhood – a transmedia documentary   The Overpopulation Podcast is produced by World Population Balance, a non-profit organization committed to alerting and educating that overpopulation is a root cause of resource depletion, species extinction, poverty, and climate change. Our mission is to chart a path for human civilization that – rather than causing greater misery – enables good lives on a healthy planet. We advocate and support a smaller, truly sustainable human population – through voluntary reduction in birth rates.  We envision a world where no one suffers in dire poverty and misery for lack of enough food, water, and other basic needs. We see a world where all species thrive and where lower consumption and population are in balance with Earth's finite resources. Subscribe to Balanced View print newsletter (please request print version only if you're not content to get this via email/website link) Share Your Thoughts With Us Join the Sustainable Population Activists online community Join the Sustainable Population Meetup Receive Overpopulation Updates via email        

Daniela Echeverry is a 23 year old Colombian woman who was recently sterilised. I spoke to her six months after her tubal ligation, and she sounded so happy and healthy, with no regrets about her decision. It was really interesting to hear from someone in a majority Catholic country in South America, where you might think that access to reproductive healthcare would be restricted, and comparing that with experiences you've shared with me, from so-called progressive countries. Of course, I'm not a doctor, so if you're considering a tubal ligation, or another sterilisation procedure, please seek medical advice. I'm just here to support women embracing their choices, whatever those may be - you go, Daniela!Read Regretting Motherhood: A Study, by Orna Donath, and check out Daniela's Redbubble store for childfree merch.Read more childfree stories at wearechildfree.comAnd follow We are Childfree on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook

Hello everyone! WELCOME TO OUR PODCAST, ‘Too Long For A Voice Note'- a podcast about everything and nothing at the same time, some chats are just too long for a voice note. Season 2 Episode 2. In this episode, we talk about male body image and a little bit about the Zac Efron story that was trending last week. We also discuss motherhood and the book called, 'Regretting Motherhood' by Orna Donath. Leave us a comment and let us know if you have an opinion about anything we talked about, we'd love to hear from you. Thank you for listening and we'll see you soon! Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toolongpodcast/ Graphics by Alex Diaz: https://alxdz.co.uk/ Music by Leche: https://lecheband.com/

No quarto episódio da biblioteca feminista do Fala Frida, falamos sobre o livro Feminismo em comum, da filósofa Márcia Tiburi. Márcia nos presenteia com definições precisas de patriarcado, machismo e misoginia e defende que o feminismo atua como um contradispositivo que visa desmantelar a ordem patriarcal. Afiada em suas colocações, nos ajuda a refletir sobre privilégios, lugar de fala, lugar de escuta e muito mais. Aproveito para compartilhar um texto que publiquei no Fala Frida sobre lugar de fala: http://falafrida.com.br/2019/10/31/quem-pode-falar-sobre-opressao-e-preconceito/. Os livros que comentei no episódio são O calibã e a Bruxa, de Silvia Federici, Mães arrependidas de Orna Donath e Os homens explicam tudo para mim, de Rebeca Solnit. Vem comigo colocar mais um livro importante na nossa biblioteca feminista! Para apoiar a produção deste podcast e do Fala Frida acesse www.apoia.se/falafrida.