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A Preplanned Detour - Groundwork for RedemptionWebsite: http://www.battle4freedom.com/Network: https://www.mojo50.comStreaming: https://www.rumble.com/Battle4Freedomhttps://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah%2043%3A11&version=CJBIsaiah 43:11I, yes I, am Adonai; besides me there is no deliverer.Genesis 46:1 Isra'el took everything he owned with him on his journey. He arrived at Be'er-Sheva and offered sacrifices to the G_d of his father Yitz'chak. 2 In a vision at night G_d called to Isra'el, "Ya`akov! Ya`akov!" He answered, "Here I am." 3 He said, "I am G_d, the G_d of your father. Don't be afraid to go down to Egypt. It is there that I will make you into a great nation. 4 Not only will I go down with you to Egypt; but I will also bring you back here again, after Yosef has closed your eyes."Genesis 46:5 So Ya`akov left Be'er-Sheva; the sons of Isra'el brought Ya`akov their father, their little ones and their wives in the wagons Pharaoh had sent to carry them. 6 They took their cattle and their possessions which they had acquired in the land of Kena`an and arrived in Egypt, Ya`akov and all his descendants with him — 7 his sons, grandsons, daughters, granddaughters and all his descendants he brought with him into Egypt.Genesis 46:8 These are the names of Isra'el's children who came into Egypt, Ya`akov and his sons: Re'uven Ya`akov's firstborn; 9 and the sons of Re'uven — Hanokh, Pallu, Hetzron and Karmi. 10 The sons of Shim`on: Y'mu'el, Yamin, Ohad, Yakhin, Tzochar and Sha'ul the son of a Kena`ani woman. 11 The sons of Levi: Gershon, K'hat and M'rari.Genesis 46:12 The sons of Y'hudah: `Er, Onan, Shelah, Peretz and Zerach; but `Er and Onan died in the land of Kena`an. The sons of Peretz were Hetzron and Hamul. 13 The sons of Yissakhar: Tola, Puvah, Yov and Shimron. 14 The sons of Z'vulun: Sered, Elon and Yachle'el. 15 These were the children of Le'ah whom she bore to Ya`akov in Paddan-Aram, with his daughter Dinah. In sum, his sons and daughters numbered thirty-three. Genesis 46:16 The sons of Gad: Tzifyon, Haggi, Shuni, Etzbon, `Eri, Arodi and Ar'eli. 17 The children of Asher: Yimnah, Yishvah, Yishvi, B'ri`ah, and their sister Serach. The sons of B'ri`ah were Hever and Malki'el. 18 These were the children of Zilpah, whom Lavan gave to Le'ah his daughter; she bore them to Ya`akov — sixteen people. Genesis 46:19 The sons of Rachel Ya`akov's wife: Yosef and Binyamin. 20 To Yosef in the land of Egypt were born M'nasheh and Efrayim, whom Osnat the daughter of Poti-Fera priest of On bore to him. 21 The sons of Binyamin: Bela, Bekher, Ashbel, Gera, Na`aman, Echi, Rosh, Mupim, Hupim and Ard. 22 These were the children of Rachel who were born to Ya`akov — in sum, fourteen people.Genesis 46:23 The sons of Dan: Hushim. 24 The sons of Naftali: Yachtze'el, Guni, Yetzer and Shillem. 25 These were the sons of Bilhah, whom Lavan gave to Rachel his daughter; she bore them to Ya`akov — in sum, seven people.Genesis 46:26 All the people belonging to Ya`akov coming into Egypt, his direct descendants (not counting Ya`akov's sons' wives), totaled sixty-six. 27 The sons of Yosef, born to him in Egypt, were two in number. Thus all the people in Ya`akov's family who entered Egypt numbered seventy.Genesis 46:28 Ya`akov sent Y'hudah ahead of him to Yosef, so that the latter might guide him on the road to Goshen; thus they arrived in the land of Goshen. 29 Yosef prepared his chariot and went up to Goshen to meet Isra'el his father. He presented himself to him, embraced him and wept on his neck for a long time. 30 Then Isra'el said to Yosef, "Now I can die, because I have seen your face and seen that you are still alive."Genesis 46:31 Yosef said to his brothers and his father's family, "I'm going up to tell Pharaoh. I'll say to him, `My brothers and my father's family, who were in the land of Kena`an, have come to me. 32 The men are shepherds and keepers of livestock; they have brought their flocks, their herds and all their possessions.' 33 Now when Pharaoh summons you and asks, `What is your occupation?' 34 tell him, `Your servants have been keepers of livestock from our youth until now, both we and our ancestors.' This will ensure that you will live in the land of Goshen — for any shepherd is abhorrent to the Egyptians."Credit to:https://unsplash.com/photos/pathway-between-trees-74TufExdP3Yhttps://unsplash.com/photos/black-and-white-arrow-sign-Vckq-heaypghttps://unsplash.com/photos/gray-wall-paint-taO2fC7sxDU
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Understanding_the_situation_in_Israel_today___Rabbi_Karmi_Ingber
"Wioska nie musi być definiowana górnolotnie. Częścią naszej wioski może być pani z warzywniaka". Zapraszam państwa do wysłuchania i obejrzenia rozmowy z Agnieszką Stein. Jedną z najbardziej znanych i cenionych psycholożek w Polsce.Agnieszka Stein, psycholog. Z dziećmi i ich rodzicami związana zawodowo od ponad dwóch dekad. Autorka książek, webinarów, kursów.Bliskie jej jest podejście związane z Rodzicielstwem Bliskości i Porozumieniem bez Przemocy. Pięknie mówi o wiosce, o holistycznym podejściu do człowieka, ale przede wszystkim: do relacji.Jej najnowsza publikacja, którą współtworzyła z Małgorzatą Stańczyk, nosi tytuł: "Jak rodzi się bliskość. Inspiracje dla rodziców". Jest pozycją o więzi, o komunikacji, o potencjalnie trudnych zachowaniach dziecka, o wsparciu. O słuchaniu, widzeniu, uważności. Nie tylko na dziecko, ale również na własne zasoby, potrzeby.Agnieszka Stein często podkreśla, żeby widzieć siebie, zauważać, co się z nami dzieje, tak, by móc reagować na własne komunikaty. I dopiero w kontekście tego próbować odpowiedzieć na drugą osobę. Na jej zasoby, na jej energię. I wreszcie: na jej słowa i działania.Zapraszam państwa do odsłuchania naszej rozmowy. Jestem pewna, że znajdziecie w niej części, które okażą się jakoś wspierające dla was.
To zaskakujące, jak aktualne i potrzebne są nam baśnie. A do czego ich potrzebujemy? O tym opowiada nam prof. Eliza Pieciul-Karmińska, popularyzatorka wiedzy o baśniach braci Grimm.Tym razem zapraszamy Was na odcinek literaturoznawczy. Ale nie sięgamy po pozycje ze świata biznesu czy te napisane przez technologicznych guru. Razem z prof. Elizą Pieciul-Karmińską cofamy się do czasów braci Grimm oraz innych baśniopisarzy. Po co?Po to, aby dotrzeć do nieoczywistego źródła wiedzy… o nas samych. Okazuje się, że z dawnych baśni można wyczytać bardzo wiele o współczesnej osobowości. Razem z rozmówczynią zastanawiamy się, czy w tak technologicznym świecie obecność archaicznych baśni jest w ogóle uzasadniona. Zadajemy pytania o strukturę modelowej baśni i dopytujemy, jakie utwory są na krótkiej liście pani prof. Pieciul-Karmińskiej.Nie pomijamy też wątków dotyczących rywalizacji między baśniopisarzami z krwi i kości a takimi, którzy swoje pomysły generują przy pomocy krzemowych zwojów mózgowych. Czy sztuczna inteligencja jest w stanie napisać dobrą baśń? Z jakim elementem baśni sztuczna inteligencja miałaby największy problem w procesie twórczym?
Chcesz więcej strasznych historii? Słuchaj, obserwuj i wystaw ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐W 2012 roku w Brazylii rozbito grupę kanibali, którzy sprzedawali ludzkie mięso. Ich mroczna działalność była powiązana z falą tajemniczych zaginięć młodych kobiet w północno-wschodniej części kraju. Za tymi przerażającymi zbrodniami stała niebezpieczna sekta, którą utworzyły dwie kobiety wraz ze swoim charyzmatycznym partnerem.Szacuje się, że setki nieświadomych osób mogły nieumyślnie dopuścić się kanibalizmu, spożywając "przysmaki" sprzedawane przez sektę.W dzisiejszym odcinku Krzyk Horror Podcast poznasz historię rodziny, którą przeklęła cała Brazylia.Źródła: Wikipedia, CNN Brasil, SBT News Uwagi: Część szczegółów została sfabularyzowana. W celu poznania dokładnych szczegółów sprawy zachęcam do obejrzenia reportażu SBT News: Canibais de Pernambuco conversam com Cabrini sobre crimes que chocaram o Brasil | Conexão Repórter.
Introduction to the seven mindsets for a great life _ Rabbi Karmi Ingber
Introduction to the seven mindsets for a great life _ Rabbi Karmi Ingber
✅ Zdobądź nagrania wystąpień z konferencji: https://bit.ly/KonferencjaGK
Ludzie, zwłaszcza w kościołach, szukają duchowości. Karmią się duchowo Biblią, wzmacniają duchowym śpiewaniem i generalnie co kawałek jest coś duchowego. Ale co to jest duchowość według Biblii? Czy ta popularna w kościołach duchowość to jest na pewno to samo co Biblia miała na myśli? Ja twierdzę, że niekoniecznie i że może to być sprawa ważniejsza niż się wydaje, która ma daleko większe konsekwencje niż tylko nieprawidłowa definicja.
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Dzisiaj czytamy Ewangelię Jana, rozdziały 5-6 Dowiedz się więcej na temat Ewangelii Jana: https://bibliawrok.pl/nowy-testament/ewangelia-sw-jana/ Linki, które warto sprawdzić: youtube.com/@bibliawrok instagram.com/bibliawrok tiktok.com/@bibliawrok facebook.com/bibliawrok Biblia w rok
11 października w Sopotece odbyło się podwójne spotkanie autorskie wokół książki „Żyli długo i szczęśliwie, póki nie umarli”, będącej wyborem baśni z pierwszej edycji słynnego zbioru „Kinder- und Hausmärchen”, nieprzetłumaczonej dotąd na język polski. Gościniami spotkania były Eliza Pieciul-Karmińska, badaczka i tłumaczka baśni Grimmów, która wybrała baśnie do zbioru „Żyli długo i szczęśliwie, póki nie umarli” oraz Michalina Jurczyk, która wspomniany zbiór zilustrowała. Jak wyglądała praca nad książką? Czy twórczość braci Grimm wciąż potrafi zaskoczyć? Czy zebrane przez nich baśnie nadal mogą zaoferować coś interesującego dzisiejszym czytelnikom? I dlaczego nadal wracamy do opowieści sprzed ponad dwustu lat? Czego w nich szukamy, my, współcześni? Podczas spotkania odpowiedzi na te i inne pytania poszukiwała Karolina Romanowska. Wydarzenie odbyło się w ramach projektu „To właśnie baśnie” dofinansowanego ze środków Ministra Kultury i Dziedzictwa Narodowego pochodzących z Funduszu Promocji Kultury.
Gościnią programu była Justyna Mieszalska - prezes Centrum Medycznego WUM.
W Sydney działa kuchnia założona przez rabina Davida Slavina i jego żonę Layę, która w dzisiejszych czasach wysokich kosztów życia karmi potrzebujące rodziny.
Exodus 6:8-7:79 Moses reported this to the Israelites, but they did not listen to him because of their discouragement and harsh labor.10 Then the Lord said to Moses, 11 “Go, tell Pharaoh king of Egypt to let the Israelites go out of his country.”12 But Moses said to the Lord, “If the Israelites will not listen to me, why would Pharaoh listen to me, since I speak with faltering lips?”13 Now the Lord spoke to Moses and Aaron about the Israelites and Pharaoh king of Egypt, and he commanded them to bring the Israelites out of Egypt.14 These were the heads of their families: The sons of Reuben the firstborn son of Israel were Hanok and Pallu, Hezron and Karmi. These were the clans of Reuben.15 The sons of Simeon were Jemuel, Jamin, Ohad, Jakin, Zohar and Shaul the son of a Canaanite woman. These were the clans of Simeon.16 These were the names of the sons of Levi according to their records: Gershon, Kohath and Merari. Levi lived 137 years.17 The sons of Gershon, by clans, were Libni and Shimei.18 The sons of Kohath were Amram, Izhar, Hebron and Uzziel. Kohath lived 133 years.19 The sons of Merari were Mahli and Mushi. These were the clans of Levi according to their records.20 Amram married his father's sister Jochebed, who bore him Aaron and Moses. Amram lived 137 years.21 The sons of Izhar were Korah, Nepheg and Zikri.22 The sons of Uzziel were Mishael, Elzaphan and Sithri.23 Aaron married Elisheba, daughter of Amminadab and sister of Nahshon, and she bore him Nadab and Abihu, Eleazar and Ithamar.24 The sons of Korah were Assir, Elkanah and Abiasaph. These were the Korahite clans.25 Eleazar son of Aaron married one of the daughters of Putiel, and she bore him Phinehas. These were the heads of the Levite families, clan by clan.26 It was this Aaron and Moses to whom the Lord said, “Bring the Israelites out of Egypt by their divisions.” 27 They were the ones who spoke to Pharaoh king of Egypt about bringing the Israelites out of Egypt—this same Moses and Aaron.28 Now when the Lord spoke to Moses in Egypt, 29 he said to him, “I am the Lord. Tell Pharaoh king of Egypt everything I tell you.”30 But Moses said to the Lord, “Since I speak with faltering lips, why would Pharaoh listen to me?”7:1 Then the Lord said to Moses, “See, I have made you like God to Pharaoh, and your brother Aaron will be your prophet. 2 You are to say everything I command you, and your brother Aaron is to tell Pharaoh to let the Israelites go out of his country. 3 But I will harden Pharaoh's heart, and though I multiply my signs and wonders in Egypt, 4 he will not listen to you. Then I will lay my hand on Egypt and with mighty acts of judgment I will bring out my divisions, my people the Israelites. 5 And the Egyptians will know that I am the Lord when I stretch out my hand against Egypt and bring the Israelites out of it.”6 Moses and Aaron did just as the Lord commanded them. 7 Moses was eighty years old and Aaron eighty-three when they spoke to Pharaoh.
Zapraszam do rozmowy rzeki z Kubą Tepperem – właścicielem czterech restauracji serwujących kuchnię japońską i koreańską. Rozmawiamy gastronomii, biznesie, zmianach i oczywiście – o gościnności.Linki:- Strona domowa- Instagram | X/Twitter- Jakub Tepper na Twitterze/X- Min's Table- Kim Chi Ken- TonariPartnerzy: Palarnia kawy HAYB (w odcinku kod -10% na kawy i herbaty!)Prowadzący: Krzysztof KołaczMam prośbę: Oceń ten podcast w Apple Podcasts oraz na Spotify. Zostaw tyle gwiazdek, ile uznasz. Twoja opinia ma znaczenie!Zainteresowany współpracą? Pogadajmy! kawa@boczemunie.plSłuchaj, gdzie chcesz: Apple Podcasts | Spotify i przez RSS.Rozdziały:00:00:00: INTRO00:00:32: Wstępniak00:01:53: Gość: Kuba Tepper00:10:11: Chcę mieć gastro. No i?00:19:51: Turystyka gastronomiczna00:24:52: Fine fooding, zmiana i gościnność00:33:08: Gastro w Polsce00:37:57: Porażki00:45:05: „The Bear”00:49:03: Największe marzenie i książki
Temu i Shein jeszcze bardziej rozpychają się na rynku. Ci dwaj giganci chińskiego e-handlu zostali uznani za VLOP-y, co oznacza, że będą podlegać ściślejszym regulacjom. W "Techstoriach Light" także o Mecie, która chce utuczyć swoją AI naszymi danymi i jak USA szykują nam trzęsienie ziemi w świecie sztucznej inteligencji. Na skróty do omawianych tematów: 02:13 - Bingo Techstorii: Chiny 16:32 - Meta chce trenować na nas AI 23:49 - Będzie trzęsienie ziemi w świecie AI? Polecane odcinki TECHSTORII - 54, 59, 76: - https://audycje.tokfm.pl/podcast/147516,54-Cala-prawda-o-Temu-i-Shein-Jak-podbija-nas-chinski-e-handel - https://audycje.tokfm.pl/podcast/149173,59-Kulisy-awantury-w-OpenAI-Kto-i-dlaczego-wyrzucil-Altmana - https://audycje.tokfm.pl/podcast/155262,76-Nvidia-Jak-stala-sie-krolowa-rewolucji-AI-Czy-cos-moze-jej-zagrozic
#TataMariusz, czyli Mariusz Rzepka. Czytam dla dzieci, ale jeśli lubisz wiersze, bajki czy opowiadania - zostań ze mną, dla rodziców też się coś znajdzie. ;) A co? Np. wesołe wierszyki (często z przesłaniem), poważniejsze opowiadania i bajki edukacyjne, fragmenty książek, lektury i wiersze pisane przez najmłodszych. W każdym z nas siedzi dziecko. Odkryj je na nowo słuchając moich nagrań! ;) Zapraszam! https://tatamariusz.pl;
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Dr Ghada Karmi is a Palestinian Author, Academic and Doctor of Medicine, who was forced from her home in Jerusalem in the Nakba of 1948. Hala Hanina is a Women's Rights Activist and PhD Student from Gaza. Support 100% independent media proudly centring Palestinian voices against attempted erasure: https://www.palestinedeepdive.com/support Deep Dive Daily. Your Palestine & Israel news roundup, straight to your inbox. Subscribe now: https://palestinedeepdive.us4.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=2931c4b53e89e695a30817efb&id=ea848d5a28
Dzisiaj rozmowa o zaufaniu z dr Agnieszką Kozak. I co ciekawe nie chodzi o budowanie zaufania, ale o jego odkopywanie, czy może karmienie, ponieważ zaufanie do siebie jest naszym wyposażeniem fabrycznym, ale (używając dalej tej metafory) nie serwisowane, zaczyna szwankować i nie spełnia już swojej roli - bardzo ważnej roli.Zaufanie do siebie jest kluczowe także dla rozwoju osobistego i sukcesu w różnych obszarach życia. Obejmuje to akceptację siebie i swoich umiejętności, a także odwagę do podejmowania ryzyka.Ludzie ufający sobie posiadają silną motywację, rozwijają samodyscyplinę, są bardziej elastyczni psychicznie i łatwiej radzą sobie z błędami. Zaufanie do siebie sprzyja także nawiązywaniu zdrowych relacji, a osoby pewne siebie są bardziej otwarte na twórcze myślenie i innowacyjne podejścia. Można napisać, że zaufanie do siebie stanowi fundament, na którym buduje się pozytywny rozwój osobisty. Więcej na stronie:https://rozwojosobistydlakazdego.pl/rodk269Daj znać w sekcji Q&A na Spotify, co sądzisz o tym odcinku?Wesprzyj podcast na:https://patronite.pl/RODKlubhttps://buycoffee.to/rodk
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Almost two months have passed since Hamas's October 7th attack, in which it killed around 1,200 Israeli civilians. The retaliatory campaign that has been waged since then by the Israeli state against the Palestinian population—predominantly in Gaza, but also in the West Bank—has been nightmarish to behold. The latest estimates suggest as many as 15,000 people have been killed. For those of us who believe in the cause of Palestinian Liberation, how do we make sense of what is happening? And how can we act to stop it? This month we're joined on the show by Ghada Karmi. Born in Jerusalem, her family fled Palestine in 1948 during the Nakba. She has lived for several decades in Great Britain, where she trained as a Doctor of Medicine at Bristol University. She established the first British-Palestinian medical charity in 1972 and was an Associate Fellow at the Royal Institute for International Affairs. Ghada is also the author of the best-selling memoir In Search of Fatima and the new book One State: The Only Democratic Future for Palestine-Israel, which was published in 2023 by Pluto Press. We discuss the history of Zionism, the Nakba and the creation of the state of Israel, and the situation in Gaza since October 7th. We also talk about the international response, the importance of language and framing in political discourse, and why any future political settlement must look beyond the rubric of a two-state solution.
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Welcome back to Analyze Scripts, where a psychiatrist and a therapist analyze what Hollywood gets right and wrong about mental health. Today, we are covering "The Bear" season 2. This season was a standout with food, relationships and understanding the character's histories. We could not have asked for more amazing mental health content to discuss. Richie wins Dr. Furey over (he is a swiftie?) and Jamie Lee Curtis playing their mother, Donna was an unexpected gift. We see depictions of borderline personality disorder, addiction and what can happen when complex families get together over the holidays. We also give you some tips on how to manage stressors that can arise when family gathers. Over all we give this season a "chef's kiss," we hope you enjoy! Instagram TikTok Webiste Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Hi, I'm Dr. Katrina Fieri, a psychiatrist. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And I'm Portia Pendleton, a licensed clinical social worker. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And this is Analyze Scripts, a podcast where two shrinks analyze the depiction of mental health in movies and TV shows. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Our hope is that you learn some legit info about mental health while feeling like you're chatting with your girlfriends. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: There is so much misinformation out there, and it drives us nuts. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And if someday we pay off our student loans or land a sponsorship, like. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: With a lay flat airline or a major beauty brand, even better. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So sit back, relax, grab some popcorn. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And your DSM Five and enjoy. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Welcome back. We're so excited to be talking about one of our, like, surprising I don't think anyone else was surprised, but we both found the Bear this year and watched both season one and now two. So if you haven't listened to our episode on the Bear season one, go check it out. It is uploaded to everywhere. You can find all of our other podcasts. But today we are so thrilled to be talking about the Bear season two and all of its intensity and intense emotions. Wow. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I feel nervous, like, even getting started. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah, there's a lot to cover. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Oh, my gosh. I also just want to say, is this the best show ever? I feel like yes. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I like how the episodes are not all, like, hours. One of them was this season, which it was worth it. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Oh, my God. Portia Pendleton LCSW: But I just love the shorter episodes. I love all of the dynamic characters. I like the scenes, the sets. I like food. Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I want to be a chef. I realize it's, like, such a beautiful combination of art and science. Right. Like, the way they're cooking, and it's so creative. It's so beautiful the way everything's shot. The character development, especially this season, was astounding. It's so smartly written, and I just found myself at the end of it being, like, so sad. It was over and wanting more, and I was like, is this the best. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Show of all time? Maybe. I think so. I also just love a good family s show, like, on TV. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I love succession. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Well, not really you, but he doesn't really have any family. I guess that's the point. No. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah. So are you saying you really like the interpersonal dynamics? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And obviously we would like that. Right? It's two shrinks. Obviously. That's what we're into. But I feel like this is the reason we wanted to start this podcast, is to just shine light when people get it so right. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It's done so well. And I'm just like, how on earth are they tackling such intense topics and dynamics? Like, oh, my God, we'll get into the feast of the seven fishes. But, like, that family dynamic. Grief, suicide, addiction, depression, stress, like, guilt, grief, and then also in this season, resilience and growth. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So much growth. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Like, achieving your dreams and fulfilling your potential that you didn't even know was there. And how being in the right environment with the right leader can really pull that out of people. And how Carmee was so good at that, despite going through so much struggle himself. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Whoa. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: How did they get it was so good. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So good. So I think we're going to get started by talking about some of the supporting characters before we really get into the meat with the Feast of the Seven Fishes and some of the more main characters. But I fell in love with Tina this season. What did you think about Tina and her arc? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I loved how her depiction in season one was just like things hadn't changed. Right. They're all kind of set in their ways. That's how we do things. Like pretty resistant to change. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yes, very resistant. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Which is something, again, I think everyone can relate to. When you're working at a job and initially something comes down the pipe and you're like, oh, I don't know how we could do this. No one wants it, really. Everyone's pushing back. Everyone gets grouchy. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Especially when it's like a younger, new hot show and you have all this experience and you're like, you don't know what you're talking about. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Yeah. So she was pushing back. We didn't really get a lot of her backstory. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: We didn't really get anyone's except for Carmen. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Her singing, it was like she goes and does karaoke. Beautiful voice. Stunning voice. Yeah. So then she goes to school. Yes. It's supposed to be her and Ibrahim. And she seems to really flourish and enjoy and kind of soak up all the information. And then her and Sydney have some beautiful moments when Know asks her several times to step up. And Tina seems really moved by that and appreciated. And she totally rises to the challenge and kicks butt. And in the later episodes, she's just rocking the kitchen. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: She totally rose to the occasion. I feel like her versus Ibrahim was such an interesting depiction. Like, they were both sort know, the old guard, you could say, and both kind of resistant to the change that was coming with Carmee and Sydney. But then you see Carmee's, like, investing in his staff by sending them to school, sending Marcus to Denmark. And she was so thrilled and she really lit up. She hugged him. Ibrahim, on the other hand, was really not into it. He was scared. He didn't go. But then he showed up at the end and I loved that they all welcomed him back with open and there. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Was still a place. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: There's still a place for him. How beautiful is you can always come home. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I liked when he was doing the Serve Safe thing online. I remember doing that. It's like, so boring. And I mean, it's good, notable information. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But it's just like, come on. Yeah, it's one of those certificates. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It's just so funny. They're like, oh, it's served like, we might not be able to open. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It was just so funny. But I just loved how Carme gave Tina his knife and then she tried to give it back to him and he's like, I didn't ask for it back. Just all of that just investment in your staff was so beautiful. He didn't just fire everyone and bring in people who are already trained. He believed in them. Right. And then I thought the scenes with her and Sydney were really beautiful. Especially as we got to understand Sydney's background more with her mom right. And how her mom died when she was four. And I was just like, oh, look at yeah. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Like, I wonder what it was like for Sydney to initially be butting heads with Tina in season one and just kind of Sydney being brought on. And Sydney is very educated right. In Chef culture in Chef land. And Tina, I think is a wonderful chef, but just has been doing right the same thing. They've been making these more like sandwich shop type stuff. Sydney was more like of, I guess, an elevated places or had her own. And I think it was hard to watch like in season one, tina, I felt empathy for her being kind of challenged and struggling to kind of get on the ship and having a young woman kind of telling you that your mashed potatoes aren't good and to do it again. And you see that then in season two, Tina kind of checking, right? Like, do you want me to do it again? And then I think it's the second to last episode. Carmen's like no, it's perfect. Yeah. And that all is so meaningful to her. The knife is meaningful. That feedback is meaningful. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And it all started in season one. Remember when Tina was like falling behind and Sydney picked up the slack and then didn't rub it in her know. Portia Pendleton LCSW: She could trust her. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Right. It was just really beautiful and just so beautifully written. And to see their dynamic unfold, I thought was really beautiful. And I just am curious about that dynamic. Since Tina is older, maybe unconsciously, some kind of mother figure to her. But then Sydney has more of the authority in that workplace relationship. I just thought it was interesting. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. What did you think of like, reaction? What do you think that was coming. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Feel like I think he was scared. That's the only thing I can think of. He was saying he didn't want to wear a uniform. I also wonder about his background. Does he come from somewhere where uniforms signify something that's. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I think there was a really fast reference in season one to Carmi about him from someone else that he was in the military. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: That's what I was wondering. Portia Pendleton LCSW: A different country. And he had come mean we could only guess then from that what that means or how he is doing from that experience, but maybe yeah, uniform thing for sure. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: The uniform thing was, like, the real sticking point. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I think he totally had a different reaction than Tina. Like, I don't want to go. Why do I have to do this? And it wasn't like, I'm too old. Portia Pendleton LCSW: To learn new things. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And he doesn't look too old to learn new things, by the way. You're never too old to learn new things. But it was something about the uniform and conforming. I'm not sure it'd be really interesting to get more of that. But then we don't see him for a while, and then all of a sudden he shows back up and he's, like, excited to work, takeout window. And again, we already said it, but I just love that there was still a spot for him. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. And I liked how Tina and him had that conversation in the window right, where they were, like, talking about everyone in the third. That was that was sweet. And it was Tina really knowing, I think, how to approach him, knowing that she can't just say things directly, knowing that he needed the space to kind of not be able to talk about himself directly, and then he would come back. That was really just, like, good people. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Right, right. And so, again, we're just seeing, like, really rise to the occasion. We also see Marcus rise to the occasion, which I never doubted he would. He was always so into the desserts, and I was like, even in season one, I was like, I had no idea so much went into making food and desserts. And it's like chemistry, really. But season two starts off with him at I believe it's his mother's bedside. Right? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So she's ill. I don't think we really understand or. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Learn what exactly seems serious. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It seems serious. It seems chronic, like it's been going on for a long time, but, like, one of those situations where it's always tenuous. Like it's been going on for a long time, but it could nosedive at any time. So it sounds like she has, like, this round the clock care. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: What did you think about kind of seeing him with his mom, seeing the dynamic between him and Sydney develop in the context of the stuff with Sydney and her mom? There's a lot of moms in season two. A lot of mom stuff. Portia Pendleton LCSW: A lot. I think that Marcus, in a really nice way, has the capacity to be really empathetic and sweet with Sydney if they get there about her mom and then his mom. I think they just both have grief and loss in different ways about the mother figure in their life at different times, of course, and in different ways. But I think that that's really something to connect on if they again go there. I thought it was funny how I think it was between Carme and Sydney when she was like, yeah, my mom's dead, so we don't really have a relationship and it's hard when she's dead. Yeah. It was just such a normal thing. It's been a long time. It happened when she was four. Of course it still impacts her, but it's that using kind of comedy or to make Levity of a really tough situation, because you can see Carmen be like, kind of, I don't know how to handle this. And she's like, yeah, well, then they kind of chuckle. It's just something that I think a lot of people do. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I think, again, like, so beautifully written because it's so normal, like, at Sydney's age or younger, for people to ask you, like, what about your parents? And they're assuming you still have them. Right. And it's really awkward to be on the receiving end when you don't have both of, like, well, how do I share this with the person without making them uncomfortable? Right. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And, like, having that uncomfortable sense. And she's like, don't say I'm sorry. We can just move on. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Right. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So I thought it was, like, a. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Really interesting way to bring that up. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And the acting I know we're going to say this over and over again, but I just want to point out, for Sydney, it felt so real, and obviously that's what acting should be. But she just nailed the head on making the awkwardness of, oh, someone's asking me this, and I don't know how to say yeah. It was just so yes. So good. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So good. And when Marcus asks her out at the end, how awkward. I was so happy when he did. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I thought they were totally vibing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Like, when he was in Denmark, and they were FaceTiming and joking, and they kept pretending to like, I thought they were totally vibing. And then it totally threw her off. Yes. Portia Pendleton LCSW: What do you think about that? I don't know, because I would say, based on the show, that she had. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: To have been picking up on, that. Portia Pendleton LCSW: They were, like, silly at least. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Right. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So then for her to be like, did she shut it down? Because she was just so uncomfortable, nervous. You know what I mean? Or was it did it come out of left field? And she was just like, oh, I thought we were being friends. I don't know why it threw her. It seems like it, quote unquote, shouldn't have, but obviously it did for a then and then. Right. Kind of having that awkward kind of explosion right at the end where Marcus then yells at her, well, you're mad at me. And it was just you could tell. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: He was uncomfortable because he took his shot. Portia Pendleton LCSW: He felt vulnerable. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah. Do you think she's in love with Carmee? Do you think that's what it is? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I feel like it could go either way. Like, I could argue yes or no. I feel like yes, because she made that thing about Claire or seemed so awkward when she found out that Carmen was seeing someone. But then right I could argue 100% the other way, too. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It's just because it's taking attention away. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. And then it was just like, why didn't you tell me? And then she's helping him, right. Kind of coaching him how to be a boyfriend or being like, don't be a jerk. You are dating, giving him that feedback. So I don't know. I think it could go either way in season three, and I wouldn't be surprised. I would like to know. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Okay. The scene of them fixing the table. Like in the last episode. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I thought they were going to kiss. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: That's what I mean. That's what I mean is I can't tell the vibe. Portia Pendleton LCSW: But then, because they didn't, I was like, oh, I just get it. Totally mean. Again, the writers are phenomenal. So I don't think so. But I think we're supposed to think that. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Exactly. I think we're supposed to feel, like, in limbo and not really be able to peg the Sydney love carme in a way that she idealizes him as a chef up to him, and he's really, again, brought her in, believed in her, got her that at the end. Was it from Tom Brown, the beautiful chef outfit? Is that why she loves, quote unquote, him? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Is it, like, romantic or more like ideal mentorship? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But there's something about it that feels romantic. Like, I did pick up on that jealousy with Claire, and it wasn't clear. Like, is that because she's into Carmen or because Claire's taking his attention away and she's, like, ****** about it and he's know, kind of ******** up. But that was where when Marcus asked her out, I was like, is it because she has feelings for Carmen, or. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Is it because she doesn't want to. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: End up like him by starting to date someone and getting distracted or dating in the workplace? But I would love them together because. Portia Pendleton LCSW: They kind of did have a date, right, in season one when she made him food. I guess. I wouldn't call it a date. They had a dinner or lunch. I'm not sure which one together that seemed like it could go somewhere. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: They seem like they have a really nice connection, whether that's just friends or like, I would like to see it progress. I really like Marcus. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah, me too. He's sweet. And I think Sydney and Marcus are just in our shrink opinions. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Like a good so they're a good fit. Yeah, I think so. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Neither feel toxic. It doesn't feel like it would be an icky relationship. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Their personalities, like, balance each other. I don't know. I really am rooting for them. I was bummed she didn't take them up on it. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And then she's, like, throwing up, and I was like, is she pregnant? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I feel like she doesn't know just because there's no data right. To like she would have to have had sex with someone that we never saw, we didn't know about. I feel like she was just so anxious. So let's talk about right, like, physical manifestation of anxiety. Like nausea. Sometimes we do actually vomit from the nausea. Could sweat. I mean, they're all sweating because they're moving a million miles a minute, but they all, I would assume, are so nervous. There's so much on the line. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, exactly. Other common symptoms of anxiety would be, like your tingling of your fingers or legs. Your heartbeat going fast. Start feeling like it's skipping a beat. Your blood pressure going up. You might have a headache. You might lose your appetite. You might be really restless. Like, walking around a lot. Things like that. Yeah, some diarrhea. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I think we saw that from all of them. And fun little I was just, like, laughing throughout the whole season with Carmen. Just, like, having Tums and then FAK at one point is like also, he's, like, takes a sip, too. And I was like, first of all, TMI, I can relate. I am a pepto girly. I do drink it regularly. You know what if you need it? I was just, like, feeling very connected to Carme in those moments. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I was like, I feel you. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Anxiety really gets to your stomach. It totally does. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: You know why? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I'd love to know. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Nerd, please tell. So there's also serotonin receptors in your gut. And so that's why when you start an SSRI, which works on the serotonin receptors, the early side effects can be, like, some diarrhea, some upset stomach and stuff like that. So there's totally a connection there. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I didn't know that. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, I guess that's why they always say, right? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Like, mind gut connection. Totally. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And I feel like in medicine, we're still uncovering that connection, but it totally makes sense. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Cool. Yeah. Didn't know. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Anyway, so we have a lot of new characters in this season two, so they all kind of come out in the Christmas episode. The fishes. All of the fishes happening. So is there anything else up until then that we want to talk about? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I guess the only other thing I wanted to touch on was the dynamic between Sydney and her dad. I thought that it was just so, again, well written. What's it called a broken record. But just seeing, like so she still lives with her dad. It sounds like she's tried a couple of things, and they haven't really worked. And I'm wondering now, seeing how nervous she was in the finale, if she gets in her own way, if she's going to be successful. But then her anxiety takes over, and she's like, I can't do this, and I quit. Or if she gets in over her head or things like that. But he's still supporting her. But you get the sense at this point, he's like, okay, I want to support you. And it sounds like you're putting a lot on the line. You're working really hard, you're not getting paid. Like, are you sure about this? Kind of thing, but he makes room for her reaction. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And tries to give her fatherly advice in a way that I feel like she hears and doesn't feel rejected by. Portia Pendleton LCSW: No, I don't think she feels rejected. I think she puts so much pressure on herself because it sounds I mean, she's so concerned with what her dad thinks about the food. Right. And rightfully so. Of course, her parents proud, but I think based on their conversations throughout season two, it just seems like she really wants to be good for him, and it's not coming from him, though. It's not this pressure that's like, you have to be or you're out. Right. It's like he says, which I think is so sweet, like, you can stay here forever, but I want you to be happy and doing your thing. And then at the end, he's like, this is the thing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And I was like, so she's throwing up the dumpster, he's leaving, and he's like, Babe, baby, babe. It was so sweet. You could tell that's his little girl like, Are you okay? When he doesn't want to intrude. I thought he did such a good job of toeing that line with an adult child. I kept thinking, like, I could cry saying this. I hope I get to see my kids find their thing someday and get to be there, like, cheering them on. And I'm sure it's just so hard to have those conversations with your adult kid who's kind of floundering for a little bit, and it's like, of course you're going to flounder. Okay. So it's just so beautiful. There were no ultimatums. No, there was no, like, you got to get out. Portia Pendleton LCSW: You get your **** together. And it didn't seem like she was taking advantage of him either. I think he knows that, and that's why he is more giving, I guess, with his resources. It's not like, oh, you're not doing anything, and you're living here. She's working so hard. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, exactly. And I love that he was there to see it and support her, and even in that spot, like, gave her space. No, definitely. Really beautiful. Loved it. Okay, everyone, take a deep breath. Drink your pepto, take your propranolol. We're going to get into maybe the best episode of TV of all time, episode six called Fishes, where we see the family dynamic in our face, and it's like, guest star, guest star, guest star. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Whoa, whoa, whoa. Phenomenal acting, phenomenal writing, phenomenal cinematography. It was so good. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Oh, my God. I hope I doubt they did, but I hope they had a therapist on set to debrief with. Oh, my God, they were doing this. If you want one for season three, reach out. We're here. But holy ****. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So how did you feel watching it? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Let's start there. I felt like I was running a marathon. Portia Pendleton LCSW: That's a great talking about it again. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: My heart rate, I can tell, is increasing. It was just chaotic. Yes. Chaotic, nervous, confused, excited because we were finally going to meet his mom. I always want to know about people's mom. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I felt like I was there. I felt like I was sitting at the table or in the kitchen just, like, observing it. And what's funny is, I would assume at least unless you have just really good luck, that most people listening and both of us have experienced chaos, right? So whether it's at work in a professional setting, whether it's with your own family, whether it's watching friend stuff, but being present for really intense and poor interpersonal skills and just that feeling you get. You're so uncomfortable, but you're paralyzed, you can't look away. You're feeling all of those kind of physical symptoms that we talked about before. It's just this feeling that I've had before in my life that I had watching this episode, which, again, the fact that they can elicit that through a screen, it just blows me. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Astounding. Astounding, astounding, astounding. I totally agree. And I feel like as you were saying that, I was thinking initially of all of the guests at the table, like, Frozen, when Mikey and Uncle Lee, played by Bob Odenkirk, were going at it and the tension was rising, and they're all just, like, trying to figure out how do you diffuse the situation? And you see everyone's trauma response kicking in, but then also just the know Carmee and, like, just interact with Donna, played by Jamie Lee Curtis, like, what a surprise. But perfect in the role. Just the way they try to navigate her is also the same thing you're talking about. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So the episode starts off with them outside, right? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And, like, Sugar smoking, real nervous, and. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I'm like, okay, what's going on? I really hadn't had any spoilers for this show, so I'm, like, super blind about it, right? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But I was like, oh, my God, isn't she pregnant? Portia Pendleton LCSW: And then, no, it's actually right. And then you see Mikey, right, kind of talking to her and saying all these things, and I was like, well, who are they talking about? And then it becomes clear that it's their mom. And then Carme comes out, and they're like, don't do anything. Don't ask her if she's don't. And I was like, I wonder what that's going to be about. And then it was like, when you finally see the kitchen, and I can't remember if it's through Carmen's eyes, I want to say it is. It's just, like, chaotic visual representation of their family dynamic. Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: 100%. 100%. Yes. Portia Pendleton LCSW: There's sauce splattered on the walls. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: There's, like, a million timers all going. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Off, all startle response, right? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: She's, like, drinking and smoking up a wazoo. Portia Pendleton LCSW: You're like, Are you going to set. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: The house on fire? It's so chaotic. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Sugar is so anxious, and I thought it was just so again, you saw everyone's family roles. So Mikey seems to be kind of, like, aligned, knows how to work with his mom. He's kind of like, whatever, this is how it is. There's probably a better way to explain it. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Almost like learned helplessness. So that's a concept where back in the day, they did some experiment with mice or rats where they would basically drown them. Do you remember reading about this? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Probably in bachelor's level Psych, right? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Learning about depression. They did something where they would basically put mice in some tank of water and not give them a way out and just see how long till they gave up. What a terrible experiment. But it led to this concept of learned helplessness, where it's like when you're in a situation, an environment where you just lose hope that you're going to get out of it, you just sort of give up or accept, like, this is it. I kind of feel like with Mikey. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Maybe that was his know, which we can circle back to and talk a lot, you know, coping with it with substances. And you see then, like, kind of on the other end, continuing to poke the bear, for lack of a better word. She's asking, Are you okay? Can I do anything? Can I do anything? And you just see from the outside that is not working. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But don't you think don't you think this is my theory as to okay. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So if that didn't work, sugar would. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Have learned in childhood not to do it, but she's doing it as an adult, and she's the girl. There's always something with mother daughter relationships, especially when there's more siblings, and you're the only girl we saw this with. But, like, I would imagine that growing up, there would be times when that would work and that would lead to a connection with Donna, and she would calm down and maybe even express gratitude, like, in a overly familiar or, like, kind of inappropriately, like, parentified. Sugar become parentified and become, like, the caretaker of her mom. And I bet for Sugar, that felt really good. She got her mom's positive attention. She felt good. I bet her mom would say things like, you're such a good girl. I don't know what I'd do without. Like, I'm sure that happened intermittently enough where it would reinforce this behavior. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And I bet it happened when they're alone, right? So, like, Donna has all these guests over. She's making the dinner. No one can help, right? Like, she then wants all this gratitude. She wants to be the center of attention. And so then Sugar challenging that and being in the parent role is like a big no. I'm in the one in charge. Exactly. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Threatening her sense of superiority and competency. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And remember with Sugar partner, who brought, like, a casserole, and everyone's like, she throws it outside, and it's tuna, so it has, like, a distinct smell. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And he's like, It's a fish. He's like, this is the 8th fish. Portia Pendleton LCSW: That was perfect. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But so I think that's what's going on with Sugar and. Then Carmi feels like the one who. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So, you know, I think if I picked one word, I'd say, like like, he kind of checks out. He's gone. And then I think it's interesting, and I would be curious to know because he was in New York for a while, but is that because he went with Cousin Michelle, played by know she asked her then, but he seemed really hesitant to or like, that wouldn't be know. He was immediately sucked back into the trauma right. Of his family, which I feel like happens. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Right. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So it seemed like I got the. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Sense that this was happening when he was in Denmark and he came home for the holiday, but I don't think people expected him to. It seemed like people were kind of surprised. You saw that tension between Mikey and Carmee. I get the sense Mikey's older than Carmel. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I think Carmen's the youngest. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So sugar's in the middle. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Maybe. I don't know why I think that, but I think that I could see that. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But again, you see that sort of competition, that tension. Like, it was nice of you to show up. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Big. Big. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Um, which is always, to me, so sad when there's, like, a sibling or someone who's done so, like, don't you just wish one of them had Sydney's dad to be like, good? Like, none of them get it right from Donna. We don't even know where their dad is. Right. But yeah. So Carmen comes back and it's like. Portia Pendleton LCSW: The guilt tripping that he gets from his mom. To your point about just it was just so icky. Like, you're basically saying that you want him to stay here and live with you. She didn't say this exactly, but she's telling him that she wants him to be here with her and almost like, how dare you go and leave me. I need you. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I can't believe I'm not the son. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Exactly. Instead of, wow, you're so amazing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: God, in Michelin Star, even taking credit. Portia Pendleton LCSW: For it could be, like, another way in that she doesn't take right. Like, you're my son and you did this wonderful thing. It's like no, it's like that other. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Because you left her. Yes. Yeah. So, Portia, if you had to diagnose Donna with something, what would it be? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Sounds like narcissism and maybe some borderline personality traits. Especially with the fear of abandonment. Fear of abandonment? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Substance use. Really? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. And especially I'm curious we can talk about this later, but I'm curious at the end when she shows up, is she sober? Has she gotten treatment? Is this a manipulative tactic to use on Sugar's husband? I don't know. Because it could have go either way. I thought it was really interesting, the insight that she had with I ruin everything, because I hear that a lot in substance use land. I hear that a lot in borderline land. So I don't know. Are you sober now and you have all this guilt, are you not? And you're just kind of, again, like, self sabotaging relationships. Instead of going in there and saying, I'm so proud of you, it's like, no, you don't show up, and you make it about you, but you have so much pain. She's obviously in so much pain. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Well, and I think that speaks to what you've said before, is I feel like she leans more in the borderline personality realm than the narcissism realm. But I think there's narcissistic flavors there. But I think with this fear of abandonment, just with the way everyone's walking on eggshells, her quick light switch flip of a mood at the very end when she drove her car into the house. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I mean, just like the self harming. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: In that way, the manipulative way of just like, screaming at everyone and then, oh, my God. It was just shocking. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I wonder if she expected them to come after her. Right. So if I'm thinking of someone who has Borderline who's incredibly in an intense emotional state this is not like your day to day. You're doing okay. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I think she was at that moment, right. She felt incredibly devalued, put down. So someone with these traits can't tolerate that. So she feels like annihilated. And then I think she was trying to commit suicide or a suicidal gesture. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I feel like gesture, if I'm being really picky. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Because I guess she seemed very intoxicated. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes, exactly. So, like, also, was it a mistake? Did you mean to reverse? Did you mean to hit as far as this rage, we have no idea. But how traumatizing. So I'm wondering, right. Like, if Carme had run after her. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: If he did, Mikey did. He was the one who was like, mom. Mom. I think, if I remember correctly, when the car crashed. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. So I'm saying before that, right? Like, as she leaves the table, I'm wondering if someone had then pursued her. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: She would have been wanting exactly. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And because she didn't get it, she then had made this big gesture to get everyone's attention back. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And that is very much in line with borderline personality disorder behaviors. Right. Just instigating. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. I think my knee jerk reaction with all TV characters is always like, no, they are narcissists traits, for sure. But I don't know why I didn't say that first. She displays many traits of Borderline, especially when someone is in a really intensive emotional state. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yes. And just that all the toxic dynamic, the splitting, the pitting one against the other, the manipulative tactics, the rage, the suicidal gestures, all of it is just. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And it's like you keep digging your own hole. And I think when someone's watching without any knowledge of borderline or I don't know, I guess understanding of it, it can be so frustrating. It's like she keeps making things worse. Right. Like, over and over and over again. It's like she keeps pushing everyone far away. Why can't she just come in and be like, you know what it's like. Because she's not capable of it. In that moment, she's so hurt. She feels so, like you said before, like annihilated. So there's no coming back. She can't see that. She could just dot, dot, dot, right. Come into the restaurant. Sam. Sorry. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: She could just because that would taking accountability. Exactly. Being able to hold on to the fact that she has good and bad within her. And people with borderline personality disorder really struggle to hold on to two opposing feelings, two opposing beliefs or views at the same time, especially about themselves. Right? They can't tolerate feeling bad. That's why they project it out on other people. That's why they act out and become the victim or become the martyr or just leave, abandon situations where there's been something that they regret. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So much self loathing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So much self loathing. But it keeps hurting everyone. And I thought like, that I was shocked. She showed up at the end to the restaurant. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Maybe in an internal right. I could only imagine what was going on in her head. Part curiosity, part wanting to be a part of it, wanting to be included, wanting to not feel abandoned. But at the same time, maybe the fear that they would reject you, the fear that it would be uncomfortable, the fear that someone would make a comment. And then you could just see the hurt when Sugar's husband accidentally said that Sugar is pregnant and she didn't know. Right. And then she's just like, flustered. But again, she's going to internalize that as right, I'm not important enough to know this. I'm an abandoned life. They're abandoning me, I'm sure. Also, the self loathing of like, they don't love me, they don't want me. I'm so bad. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But I think often with people who struggle with Bpd, it's very hard to tolerate that amount of self loathing. Sometimes totally for a little bit of time. I think we see displayed in the finale where she's showing up and thinking about going in. But to actually go in would involve reckoning with all the harm you've caused and sort of accepting it and taking some accountability, which I don't think she's able to do because know her psychological limitations so often. Then you project it onto other people, so it turns into, well, Sugar didn't tell me. Well, Carmi didn't invite me. Like, it's their fault they're leaving me. And this is the classic dance we see with Bpd. There's even a very good book out there called I Hate You. Don't leave me. Is that push and pull, that seeking of love or help or attention, then rejecting it. And so she leaves or rejects them before they can reject her. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And she wants I thought it was really interesting and important that they included it in the writing with her repeatedly asking him to tell her it's okay, right, to leave. She's like, you need to tell me it's okay. You need to tell me it's okay. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Because then she puts it on exactly that he's the one. Portia Pendleton LCSW: He said, it's okay. And she can kind of, like, move past the fact that she chose to leave, right? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: He said, I leave. Can't even hold on to that accountability. Amazing writing. And again, I just feel like the only way you get this so right is if you have lived experience, right? So to the writers, God bless you. I hope you're doing okay. And I just wonder, is it healing to create art like this that resonates with so many people and then other people, I'm sure, watch it and recognize their own family members or their own toxic dynamics. And I got to believe you feel less alone, right. When you're like, oh, my God, I'm not the only one who lives through stuff like this, so maybe it isn't me. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Some of the commentary that this episode received was like, it not sugar coating. And there are some movies that make holidays wildly stressful and ridiculous with crazy family dynamics. Even the movie, I think it's like four Christmases, right? And so there are other ones out there. But some of the commentary on this specific episode was like, this does happen, right? If you have a dysfunctional family, which a lot of people do, the holidays are so intense and stressful and getting everyone together when most of the people have poor communication skills and these intense feelings and they don't know how to handle them, and they're adults and there's no accountability, there's no self awareness. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: There's a lot of substance. Portia Pendleton LCSW: There's drinking. Exactly. It's just like this recipe for disaster. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yes, exactly. And we see the disaster play out, and it's so true. And I feel like in situations like this where everyone comes back to home. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It'S like everyone just fulfills their roles again. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And I thought we saw that really well with the three siblings and all the other supporting characters. And I'm sure something that you talk about with your patients like I do, especially around holidays. It's interesting that this episode is going to come out during the holiday season is like, setting boundaries for yourself and really being thoughtful about like, is it in my best interest to go home? What's it going to be like? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Can I bring someone? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Sometimes in a hotel, it's really important to think about. Oh, my God. But Jamie Lee Curtis. Wow. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I mean, the cast was just like, phenomenal. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And then Sarah Paulson cousin Michelle. Then we have John Mulaney playing Stevie, Michelle's partner. That was just such he's such like a non fit. Right? But he loves going the blessing he gave trying to deescalate Mikey. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: He did such a good job at first, and then it was like Uncle Lee made the comment, I think, about the mom, which again, I felt like was also an attempt to acknowledge what everyone is thinking and feeling and validate it and say okay, well, now that's over. And that just escalated. Like, why do you think that was? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I felt like it was in Mikey's mind, like, a slight to. I mean, you could have taken it either way. I think if you were secure and calm and not traumatized by what happened, not drinking, not high, it could have come across as like, okay, this, like, the healing moment. But I think you could totally look at it the other way because of how he's been acting the rest of the night. He was antagonizing Mikey. Yeah. And just, like, doing unnecessary things. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Is he her brother? Portia Pendleton LCSW: I don't know. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: The uncles and the cousins. It gets very confusing. But also, I think that displayed, like, even though Mikey in a lot of ways is really checked out, that's still his mom, and there's always a tie to your totally. Even when they're really awful parents, that's still your mom. And you can get very defensive, and I'm sure there's more backstory, like, where is their dad? What happened? If she's the parent who stayed? Even if she's so dysfunctional to kids, like, well, you stayed. You at least love me enough. Totally stay. So I could see him just like, that was it. And they'd already been at each other's throats, and he's high, and, like, I also thought it just displayed a really awful way to shame someone struggling with substance use. You're not of your whole freaking family. It made me so upset. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It just felt like, I can empathize with being around someone who is struggling with a substance use disorder. That's one of the hardest things to do. Absolutely. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: 100%. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And some of the things that Uncle. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Lee was doing just felt so unnecessary. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Like, why did you interrupt the story to tell Mikey and everyone, well, we've heard this a million times, and then see the end of it. Why couldn't you have just left the room? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Just leave it alone. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Like, you know, he's using, so what does that mean? People, when they're using, are not making their best choices. They're not really using good communication skills or can sit with things. They're going to react. So it's like, Why were you doing that? I know you've got to have known that that would have happened. So that's where, I'm, like, it felt even with the comment he made after the dinner or after Donna had that explosion, was like, what are you like, just sit there for a moment. It was weird. And just felt like, in that scenario, unhelpful. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah. And I got to feel like or got to think he just has so much anger at my at everyone, that it's like he's just, like, fed up, and it's not really clear why. I wonder if we'll learn why at some point, but then don't go. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. If he's in therapy with me, it'd be like, okay, this sounds really stressful and really hard for you, so what would it be like to not go? What would it be like to go to someone else's family holiday for that day or do something else? What would it be like to go for an hour? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yes, exactly. And I always will tell my patient, because usually the first thing they say is like, oh, my God, that'll be so hard. I can't do it. And I always say, well, it's going. Portia Pendleton LCSW: To be hard either way. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It's going to be hard to just go and follow the same old routines, same old patterns. Like, that's this version of hard. This other version of hard. Listening to your instincts, respecting your own limits, that'll be hard, too. Which hard do you want to choose? And do you want to try this new version and see how it right? But so hard. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So hard. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I know. Last time I said I hated Richie. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Oh, my gosh. I know. I was thinking about you. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I have totally flipped. Yes, of course love him. Like, I've totally flipped, and I love him. And I was so sad to see him so happy in this episode with Tiffany, that was Anderson. And I'm like, what happened? How did it break down? Portia Pendleton LCSW: He's still so in love with Know, inviting her to the Taylor Swift concert. What's? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: The Taylor Swift song? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Oh, my God. I know. I was like, Is that love story? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It can't be. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And then I was like, oh, my God, it is. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And he's just, like, jamming out. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And I was just like, this is so, like, everything about and I liked Richie season one, because I felt sorry for him. He wasn't doing things that I enjoyed, but I just felt really sorry for him. And this like, I was so proud of him. I got teary, like, a couple times. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: With was when he was at the fancy restaurant and really just stepped up. Was wearing his to be there. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It's like he was finally seen, and not in this icky family dynamic where he's like, you know, they know how to do it. Exactly. He was seen as like, no, you're a person who matters and who has a place here, and you're important. Right. And we like you. Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And he saw himself. He finally saw his own self worth. And I loved when he came back, and he just kept saying, I wear suits now. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I wear suits. Richie, you look like a million bucks. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I know. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So for the third person asks him, right? Like, what are you wearing a suit? What are you wearing a suit for? And then to someone, maybe it was FAK. He was like, Because I feel better about myself. And I was like, wow. Also, you're, like, identifying emotions. You're connecting with yourself. You know that this makes you feel better, and you're doing it. Wow. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And again, back with the uniform, the suit. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Like with Ibrahim, how he was so turned off by it. Now Richie's really embracing Chef coat. Portia Pendleton LCSW: There's so much because wearing it's so funny that you say that. Just thought of it. He has like an orange T shirt on the opening night because know he's doing the but like, everyone else has the know that says or they have the really nice chef coat or they're wearing a really nice suit, which is so adorable. I love when Richie exactly is consoling him because he's scared. Because Richie is handling right. I don't know what that job is called. It seems like the most stressful job I've ever is that like a yes? Yeah. I've never worked in a restaurant where that's a thing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, you make sure all the plates I only know because my husband did this for a while. But you make sure all the plates are right. They look right. They get there. I don't know if that's expo or. Portia Pendleton LCSW: If just like calling out these things. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And that girl, remember he was so impressed by her and everything. But yeah, Richie consoling FAK when he needed him in the front and back. It's just like you see the trickle down of Karmi believing in people trickling down. And it's just like beautiful. It's so beautiful. And I totally flipped on Richie. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah, I'm worried about him. And after we say this, we can kind of segue into Carme throughout the show. But I was like, oh, what's going to happen in season three after Carmen says all of those horrible things to Richie when Carme's in the walk in? Like, Richie seems okay because he keeps saying, well, I love you. Well, I love you. Well, I love you. As Carme is saying, like, you're a leech. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: F you. Portia Pendleton LCSW: F you. I hate you. F you. Like, you have no one, your daughter, all these things. And Richie. Just saying. I love you. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I'm going to cry. But also beautiful because I feel like Richie has probably been in that place and said stuff like that to people when he's in so much pain to push them away. And he knows it's almost like Richie knows what Carmen he's doing. Portia Pendleton LCSW: His head. He now is this like all of a sudden he's gone through a lot. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I feel like he can stand there and tolerate it because he knows that's not what he really means. He's trying to push me away. He needs to know I'm here. And it's like, how do you get there? How do you get there so fast? Portia Pendleton LCSW: It was incredible. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Incredible. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I freaking love Richie. No words. Totally. I loved watching him, his moments. I definitely teared up that whole episode. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yes. Yeah. I just loved seeing him step into his power and believe in it. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It was like a 35 minutes episode that was so incredibly done. Even that one, right? So we've been talking about Fishes forks from the beginning of the episode to the end. Even the imagery of him waking up earlier and earlier and earlier and getting up quicker and doing his hair, it was like those tiny little things was so good. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: This is so good. And it's just like, I want everyone to feel that pride. Right. And it's just like, if Richie can get there, anyone can get right. Like, I just feel like we learned a little bit about his backstory. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I don't know why they separated. That wasn't given. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Sure. I'm hopeful we'll find out. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Because they seem so happy. Again, I have to imagine Richie is kind of like a milder version of Donna, maybe, where you not in like I don't think he meets criteria for Bpd, but I think he self sabotages. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So I could based on low self esteem exactly. And just being like, I wonder if he had Add that went undiagnosed as a kid and developed a lot of anxiety about that and just fell into like, well, I'm not good enough. I'm never going to achieve, so this is all I'm good for. And then when he gets close to having good things, sabotages it. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And some dad was in the army. I'm using a really generalized stereotype, but really maybe really strict, really demanding, dismissive, not loving. And again, maybe he was. But that's a trope. Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: That is a you're moving a you know, attachments to friends and stuff are getting disrupted very often. So again, I think maybe he had security and stability with Tiffany, and then it was like too much. Yeah, he didn't deserve it or something like that. I kind of want them to get back together. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I know. Because you could tell he was over. And then she said, I love you. Right. Getting off the phone when she told him that she was engaged. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And she probably does love him, but. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Knows that she at least that version of Richie isn't good for her, which. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Is like I could see him having had a substance use problem. Maybe she went to Al Anon and started setting boundaries and had to say, can't do this. Oh, but I love him now. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So basically, I totally flipped. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Well, I'm glad you did. I was thinking about you. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Oh, my God. When he's jamming out to Taylor Swift. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I was thinking about you were like, yeah, of course it is. It is the love god, Richie. Yeah. Notable. So Carmee carme has some big, interesting factoids about his past. We see the development with Claire. We see the ultimate breakdown at the just it was fascinating. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It was so good. I'm glad we left him for the end, because there's so much to talk about. I just really want to give him a hug in that freezer. Yeah. Portia Pendleton LCSW: First of all, you're, like, cold. So cold. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: You're so cold. Portia Pendleton LCSW: They never showed that, you know what I mean? They didn't get, like, a shot. Oh, like the cold air coming out of the vent or whatever. So I wasn't even thinking it for a while. It's just like the chaos. He's missing the service. He's doing all this stuff. But imagine they're freezing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: There's, like, ice everywhere. They're very cold. I was like, how long has he been in here? Is he going to get hypothermia? But before we get to him stuck in the freezer, tell me more about your reaction to him over the season and how we see his character developing and him falling in love. Portia Pendleton LCSW: So I thought it was really interesting, even just the little bits that we got. So learning that he had never been to a party ever, I was like, he seems really almost hyper focused, wise, gets into something. Right. He was in chef school. That's it. There was no partying. There was nothing. He became a little obsessive about it. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And it's like, do you think it's because he likes it, or was it his ticket out of dysfunction? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Either or both. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, it's like, that's all he did. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Like, no girlfriends, no history. He's so kind of like one track minded. One track minded. Is that a coping skill? Right. So in order to not let the chaos in, even that clip, which I think was from season one, which we saw again in the freezer scene, when Joe McHale's, joel McHale role or boss chef, is just, like, dehumanizing him and saying these horrible things to him. It's like, how did he get through that? Did Mikey do that to him? Did Donna do that to him? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Oh, I'm sure Donna did that to him. I feel like he is a great example of an avoidant attachment. Like, knocked it on the head. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yeah. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I think all along, Donna, I'm sure, talked to him the same way Joel McHale's character did, and he's, like, dissociated. He has maintained an emotional distance and avoidance to avoid so getting hurt. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Yes. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And just focusing on your career again. But I think he's just wanting his mom's love and approval by getting the Michelin star. But then he will never get it because it's not about her. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Right. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So he's just doomed, like the poor guy. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And he almost can't handle it. Having an emotional relationship with someone else. First of all, this is a wildly stressful time. Right. Like, he's opening a restaurant. There's so much pressure there's, so much. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Early, so much money. Portia Pendleton LCSW: True. But I feel like he internalizes that and to be like, see, I can't do this. I can't see someone. Yes. It's bad things. Like, this is a wildly stressful time. You could have forgotten the fridge guy anyway, right. I think Claire is good for him. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I totally do. And I think of anyone who would understand how much work and commitment and time it's taking. It's a resident physician who's, like, living. Portia Pendleton LCSW: At the hospital for their career. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I think of anyone who could understand it would be someone like her. I don't get the sense she was feeling, like, slighted or jealous or anything like that. Maybe because he had been making time for her, but I feel like she'd understand. I don't think he can imagine someone else, perhaps especially a woman, perhaps especially a romantic partner, could understand that he has his own needs, and that's okay, right? Because his mom has never, ever demonstrated that that was okay. So I don't think he knows how to do, like, even with friends or even with things like that. I don't think he knows how to do that. But I think he's capable of learning. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I think he's capable. I thought it was interesting, the scene with I think it was him and Sydney when she's asking him, like, well, how much do you love her? And he's like, well, I love her a lot. And she's like, okay, then you should be her boyfriend. You love her. Usually I don't know. Sometimes people date before love, right? No, you love her. You've also liked her for years, it seems like. So it seemed like almost one of the I would say more rare cases where it's like the guy is kind of not getting it. I think it's not because he is not that if he wanted to, he would. Right. I think he just has no awareness that you guys are dating and you love her and you should be together. It's like that never even crossed his mind that, oh, I should ask her out. He's like, how do I ask her out? Well, what does that look like? What does that mean? He has no idea. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: No idea. And I think he's so scared of that because even when they bump into each other, he gives her a fake number. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I love that she called him on it, like, multiple times. She was like, why did and finally he tells her, why did you give me a fake number? Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Yeah, that makes me a little nervous, because I think with someone like him, you need to go really slow and respect his boundaries, and that's going to be hard for him to open up. And so I just hope Claire could be patient with that and not intrusive, which I think would feel more like his mom. It broke my heart when she rushed to the freezer and heard everything he said, and then he heard her voicemail. Portia Pendleton LCSW: But I really because the voicemail was. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So like you even see in that scene, he throws the phone down. Portia Pendleton LCSW: He can't take it. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: It's too much for him. That's what I mean, is I feel like you have to tread a little lighter. Like, it's getting really intense really fast, it seems like. Again, I feel like the timeline is. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Like, over several months, so it's not. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Like in a week. But for him, someone who's never had a relationship, never had friends or anything, it's going to feel like a lot. And so I just am really curious to see how that all plays out. But I feel like, yeah, he just doesn't know how to. Have relationships because they've been so hurtful in the past. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And I don't think he would looking maybe to season three. I think he would need a lot of pushing, which could be good or bad, to apologize to her. Richie, they initiated that fight in the cooler because he's like, what did you do? Like, you finally had something good. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And he kept saying to him, like, you can have something like you're you deserve good. You can have good. And I feel like Carme couldn't even hear that. So he rages against him, and hugely. But that's what he has. That was such a good character. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Back to the fishes episode. Or to Donna specifically. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But Richie doesn't leave. I know. Richie stays and keeps saying, I love you. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I know. Oh, my God, I'm going to cry. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I know. Portia Pendleton LCSW: I could cry. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: I know. Portia Pendleton LCSW: It's been a long week. I'm a little overtired, so the emotions are free. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: But it's also so beautiful, though, because he's in so much pain. He's so stressed out. You can tell Carmen is just beating himself up. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Oh, my it's a self loathing. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: So huge. And Richie's just like, dude, we got it. We love you. Portia Pendleton LCSW: And they do. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: They have it because of him. He has instilled this confidence in them that is so beautiful, and I just want him to be able to find that for himself and find some balance, and I just really want that for him. Portia Pendleton LCSW: The little bit lighter moment in that final episode I was just laughing at was when one of the chefs is out there doing math. Oh, my know. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: And Marcus is like, I think I. Portia Pendleton LCSW: Have to fire you. Yeah, I'm going to go ask. And then he's talking, and they kind of repair him. And Sydney, in that moment, he's like, I know things are weird, but this is happening. And she's like, that's wild. He's like, I know. I literally said that's wild. And then she's like, yeah, I think you let him go. And it's just such a funny moment. They're like, yeah, right. Yeah, we should fire him. And then there's like, chef, whatever's, 86. And then they're like, yes, chef. Moving on. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: All the guest chefs. I love that Sydney's dad would say, good job, Chef. It's just so nice. I also love that the one doing the meth was like, what? Portia Pendleton LCSW: Over? Yeah, but maybe not in other restaurants that he's worked in, right? We also saw some talk. I was just kind of, like, thinking that we had mentioned, I think talking about the class of drugs with Ambien included. So when Carmen and Claire are at the party in an earlier episode, and that one guy who ends up getting arrested is like, yeah, I do a lot of ambient and steal self. Dr. Katrina Furey MD: Again, there is documented cases. Like, there's, like, peer reviewed scientific literature about ambient induced parasomnias that means, like, sleepwalking stuff. Like, when you're moving and doing stuff in your sleep so you don't realize you're doing it. Like eating, having sex. I think there
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It is often better to talk about solutions rather than problems. And today, on "The Watchdog," Lowkey talks to British-Palestinian intellectual Ghada Karmi about her new book, "One State: The Only Democratic Future for Palestine-Israel."In "One State," Karmi envisages uniting the land, from the River Jordan to the Mediterranean Sea, under one secular, democratic nation, allowing refugees to return to their homeland in safety and enjoy the same rights and securities that those currently living there have. She insists that this is the only way to end the anti-democratic nature of the Israeli state.Lowkey and Karmi have previously teamed up to debate at the Oxford Union together, and earlier this summer, they were scheduled to discuss her new book in person at a London book launch with the Balfour Project. Yet the night before the event was planned, Karmi received a phone call telling her that it had been canceled. The reason? A Zionist organization called Yachad had pressured the Balfour Project over Lowkey's inclusion. For the Balfour Project, she alleges, "keeping them [Yachad] happy was more important than keeping me and you happy." Thus, the event was canceled. There is likely more to this cancellation than a misunderstanding; while the organization's official mission is to "empower British Jews to support a political resolution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict," in reality, it works closely with Israeli intelligence organizations Shin Bet and Shabak.Karmi is a survivor of the Nakba of 1948 – the nascent Israeli state's systematic expulsion of Palestinians from their land. While many understand the Nakba as an ongoing process, there is no doubt that 1948 stands out as a particularly bloody and genocidal year in Palestinian history. Today, she talked of her childhood memories, how, despite her parents' assurances, she had a premonition that her family would never be back, and how her family never talked about Palestine because it was simply too traumatic.One of the little-publicized aspects of the Nakba was the severance of human ties so that people who had been your neighbors, friends or employers somehow disappeared. Because in the rush to save one's family, where were those people? And as so often happened, they were never reclaimed. Those people went, we don't know where, and they didn't know where we had gone. And that is a significant aspect of our eviction of our homeland that often is not talked about.Support the showThe MintPress podcast, “The Watchdog,” hosted by British-Iraqi hip hop artist Lowkey, closely examines organizations about which it is in the public interest to know – including intelligence, lobby and special interest groups influencing policies that infringe on free speech and target dissent. The Watchdog goes against the grain by casting a light on stories largely ignored by the mainstream, corporate media.Lowkey is a British-Iraqi hip-hop artist, academic and political campaigner. As a musician, he has collaborated with the Arctic Monkeys, Wretch 32, Immortal Technique and Akala. He is a patron of Stop The War Coalition, Palestine Solidarity Campaign, the Racial Justice Network and The Peace and Justice Project, founded by Jeremy Corbyn. He has spoken and performed on platforms from the Oxford Union to the Royal Albert Hall and Glastonbury. His latest album, Soundtrack To The Struggle 2, featured Noam Chomsky and Frankie Boyle and has been streamed millions of times.