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The Relationship Show is a casual conversation between two L.A. based licensed mental health professionals, taking serious topics not so seriously. It contains strong language, is intended for mature audiences, and is for entertainment purposes only. Dr


    • Aug 19, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Our Relationship to Dieting, Wellness, and Intuitive Eating” with guest Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT - ep. 52

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2019 71:29


    Ep 52 TRS -  “Our Relationship to Dieting, Wellness, and Intuitive Eating” with guest Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT   Jenni, Wendy, and Candace discuss their thoughts and feelings about a New York Times opEd by novelist Jessica Knoll pointing out the impact she perceives the Diet Industry posing as the Wellness Industry has had on the self-esteem and self-images of women.  Conversation includes further explorations of Intuitive Eating, Health at Every Size, body dysmorphia, and eating disorders.    TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2019   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   w: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy intsta: IamDrWendy ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   w: www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -   Guest:    Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT   w: CandaceDaleMcKenzie.com  tw:  @CMcKenzieD   SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Jessica Knoll - “Smash the Wellness Industry” 6/8/2019 New York Times - https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/08/opinion/sunday/women-dieting-wellness.html   National Eating Disorder Association (NEDA) - https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org Eating Disorders Information Network - MyEdin.org National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD) - Anad.org   Intuitive Eating - IntuitiveEating.org “The Intuitive Eating Workbook” - Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch   Health At Every Size Community - Haescommunity.com “Health at Every Size” - Linda Bacon - LindaBacon.Org   “The Four Agreements” - Miguel Ruiz - https://www.miguelruiz.com/the-four-agreements     MUSIC CUES -   Black Eyed Peas - “Rock That Body” Susan Watson - “How Lovely to be a Woman” Gary Glitter - “You're Beautiful ”       - Produced and Edited by Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT -Special thanks to Robert Bailey and Tom Wilson for their forever voices.-   ***Crisis Text line:  741741*** ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 *** LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Teen 911: Trauma, Tech, and Building Healthy Relationships with Youth and their Families” with guest Jeremy Manné of Pacific Teen Treatment- ep. 51

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2019 74:50


    Ep 51 TRS -  “Teen 911:  Trauma, Tech, and Building Healthy Relationships for Emotional & Sensitive Youth and Their Families” with guest Jeremy Manné, founder of Pacific Teen Treatment   Jenni and Wendy talk contemporary teen issues and therapeutic treatment options for emotional and sensitive kids - with Jeremy Manné, founder of Pacific Teen Treatment. Tips for young people and their caregivers.    TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2019   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   w: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy intsta: IamDrWendy ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   w: www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -   Guest:    Jeremy Manné w:  PacificTeenTreatment.com e: Jeremy@pacificrtc.com fb: Pacific Teen Treatment ph: 800/531-5769 insta: @PacificTeenTreatment     MUSIC CUES -   Macy Gray  - “Hey Young World, Pt 2” Kim Wilde - “We're The Kids in America” Madonna - “Papa Don't Preach“ Joni Mitchell - “Talk To Me” Rufus Wainwright - “Beautiful Child”     - Produced and Edited by Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT -Special thanks to Robert Bailey and Tom Wilson for their forever voices.-   ***Crisis Text line:  741741*** ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 *** LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Let's Talk About Sex: Pride, Planned Parenthood, and Pregnancy Planning” with guest Janelle Watson, LMFT - ep. 50

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2019 72:23


    Ep 50 TRS -   “Let's Talk About Sex: Pride, Planned Parenthood, and Pregnancy Planning” with guest Janelle Watson, LMFT   Jenni and Wendy get educated about Pride, Planned Parenthood, and Pregnancy Planning with Janelle Watson, LMFT of Just Embrace Wellness. Tips for parents of LGBTQ Youth.  Information about Surrogacy and Egg Donation.   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2019   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   w: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy intsta: IamDrWendy ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   w: www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -   Guest:    Janelle Watson, LMFT w:  JustEmbraceWellness.com e: Janelle@justembracewellness.com fb: Just Embrace Wellness ph: 213/986-6071 insta: @JustEmbraceWellness   SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Planned Parenthood - https://www.plannedparenthood.org/ PFLAG - https://pflag.org/ LGBT Center Los Angeles - Youth LifeWorks (Youth Development) Program - https://lalgbtcenter.org/social-service-and-housing/youth/lifeworks-youth-development   MUSIC CUES -   Salt-n-Pepa  - “Let's Talk About Sex” Barbra Streisand - “Don't Rain on My Parade” Orchestral Maneuvers in the Dark - “Talking Loud and Clear“ Donny Hathaway - “Voices Inside (Everything is Everything)”     - Produced and Edited by Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT -Special thanks to Robert Bailey and Tom Wilson for their forever voices.-   ***Crisis Text line:  741741*** ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 *** LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "“Polyamory and Sex Play: Your Relationship May Be Kinkier Than You Think” with guest David Singer, LMFT - ep. 48

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2019 71:12


    Ep 48 TRS -   “Polyamory and Sex Play: Your Relationship May Be Kinkier Than You Think” with guest David Singer, LMFT   Jenni and Wendy get educated about Polyamory, Fetish, BDSM, and Kink from the LA Kink Shrink, David Singer, LMFT.  Their friend Candace sits in.   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2019   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **   Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD w: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy intsta: IamDrWendy ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT w: www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson insta: ThePreppyRebel   Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT w: http://candacedalemckenzie.com/   TRS GUEST -   Guest:    David Singer, LMFT w:  LAKinkShrink.com e: LAKinkShrink@gmail.com tw: @LAKinkShrink fb: LA Kink Shrink ph: 310/218-8859 other:  LAKinkShrink on FetLife.com     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Pat Califia - “UnMonogamy:  Loving Tricks and Tricking Lovers” - found in Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex Pauline Reage -The Story of O - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Story_of_O Just google: “Yes No Maybe List” Gottman Institute - https://www.gottman.com/     MUSIC CUES -   Psychedelic Furs  - “Love My Way” Muppets - “Mana Mana Song” Donny Osmond - “Puppy Love“ OMD - “Secret” Macy Gray - “Sexual Revolution”     - Produced and Edited by Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT -Special thanks to Robert Bailey and Tom Wilson for their forever voices.-   ***Crisis Text line:  741741*** ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 *** LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Relationship Lessons from a Dog Trainer” with guest Juan Romo, dog trainer - ep 47

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2019 113:33


    Episode 47 -   “Relationship Lessons from a Dog Trainer” with guest Juan Romo, dog trainer and life coach Jenni and Wendy were very good girls this week when they sat with LA-based dog trainer and life coach, Juan Romo to learn some new tricks and some relationship lessons.   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Juan Romo, dog trainer and life coach   Tw: @theK9Specialist e: Juan.Romo.dogeden@gmail.com Web:  https://www.dog-e-den.com/ Ph: 818/492-6096     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Gottman Institute - https://www.gottman.com/     MUSIC CUES -   George Clinton - "Atomic Dog" Led Zepplin - “Black Dog" Eminem - “Bad Influence” Snoop Dogg - “G-Funk Intro" Cat Stevens - “I Love My Dog" Snoop Dogg - "Doggy Dogg World"     ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Axis II Cluster B: Dealing with Difficult People Made Easier” with guests Dr. Shirley Imprezzelli and Kellee White, LMFT & spiritual medium - ep 46

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2018 109:06


    Ep 46 TRS -   “Axis II Cluster B: Dealing with Difficult People Made Easier” with guests Dr. Shirley Imprezzelli and Kellee White, LMFT & spiritual medium   "He's Axis II Cluster B!" Can dealing with difficult people be made any easier? How do we manage relationships with Narcissists, Borderlines, Histrionics, and Psycho or Sociopaths? Jenni and Wendy explore these questions in the contexts of trauma, families, and the spiritual realm with guests Dr. Shirley Imprezzelli and Kellee White, LMFT - psychotherapists and cohosts of the podcast Both Sides Now."   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Dr. Shirley Imprezzelli Fb: www.facebook.com/DrShirleyI Tw: @DrShirleyI Web:  DrShirley.com Podcast: BothSidesNowTV.com       Kellee White, LMFT Fb: www.facebook.com/TheBeverlyHillsMedium Tw: @White_Kellee Web:  KelleeWhite.com   Podcast: BothSidesNowTV.com   Facebook Live Wednesdays at 4pm       SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   James Van Praagh - vanpraagh.com Peter Levine - Somatic Therapy - https://traumahealing.org/ Dan Seigel - https://www.drdansiegel.com/ Dr. Stan Tatkin - PACT - https://stantatkin.com/ Paul Eckman on lying - https://www.paulekman.com/facial-expressions/signs-of-lying/   Books:  Sanaya Roman - "Living with Joy”     Laurie Kimartin - "Dead People Suck" Jerold J. Kreisman, et al. - "I Hate You Don't Leave Me”    Martha Stout - “The Sociopath Next Door"   February Esalen Peter Levine        MUSIC CUES -   Portrait - “In Another World" Holly Cole - “You've Got A Secret" Barry Manilow - “Mandy”  Madonna - “Borderline” Joni Mitchell- “Borderline” Carly Simon - You're So Vain   * As always, special thanks to Robert Bailey - voice of Dr. Wendy's Dream Journal*   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Being Unapologetically Yourself” with guest Roxy Wood, Drag Artist & Actress - ep 45

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2018 99:58


    Ep 45 TRS -  “Being Unapologetically Yourself" with guest Roxy Wood, Drag Artist & Actress   What can we learn about Self-Acceptance & "Being Unapologetically Yourself" from the LGBTQ Community? Spoiler Alert: A helluva lot! Wendy and Jenni are privileged to sit down with drag artist, actress, and hostess of "Legendary Drag Queen Bingo" Roxy Wood for a conversation on all things trans, drag, and living as authentically yourself as you can possibly stand.     TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **     Wendy O'Connor, LMFT, PsyD   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     Jenni J.V. Wilson, LMFT   web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Roxy Wood Fb: www.facebook.com/FoxxyRoxyWood Insta: @FoxxyRoxyWood YouTube:  http://www.youtube.com/foxxyroxywood IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2111096/   "Drag Queen Bingo" every Wednesday, Thursday, and Sunday nights Hamburger Mary's: https://www.hamburgermarys.com/weho/   SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Legendary Drag Queen Bingo - http://bingoboyinc.com/legendary-bingo/   LA LGBTQ Center - https://lalgbtcenter.org/   LA Gender Center - https://www.lagendercenter.org/   RuPaul Drag Race - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/RuPaul%27s_Drag_Race https://www.facebook.com/rupaulsdragrace/ RuPaul's Drag Con- https://rupaulsdragcon.com/ RuPaul - “Supermodel of the World”   Rocky Horror Picture Show (live shows in LA) - https://www.landmarktheatres.com/los-angeles/nuart-theatre/film-info/the-rocky-horror-picture-show     TV Shows: Golden Girls, Transparent, Steve Harvey - Family Feud, Grace and Frankie   Movies: "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" (Also Broadway show), “Wilson", "Anything"   Barack Obama 2018 speech  in South Africa -    https://www.hrc.org/resources/topic/transgender https://transequality.org/issues/resources/understanding-non-binary-people-how-to-be-respectful-and-supportive   MUSIC CUES -   RuPaul - “Supermodel (You Better Work)" Golden Girls Theme song - “Thank You For Being a Friend”  Chicago - “Roxie” Rocky Horror Picture Show - “Time Warp” Hedwig and the Angry Inch “Tear Me Down” Doris Day - “Que Sera Sera" Gin Wigmore - “Man Like That” Lily Allen - “F*ck You" Garbage - “Androgyny"       ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Welcome to the Yoniverse: Yoni Eggs with Holistic Healing and Spirituality educator guest Treasure Thompson" - ep 44

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2018 101:16


    Ep 44 TRS -  “Welcome to the Yoniverse: Yoni Eggs with Holistic Healing and Spirituality educator guest Treasure Thompson"   It's Weight Lifting for your Vagina!  Wendy and Jenni are learning the benefits of using "Yoni Eggs" from guest Treasure Thompson, a Healing and Spirituality educator and Advocate for Women's Empowerment.  For over 5000 years, women have been practicing with Yoni Eggs to increase the effectiveness of kegel exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor, gain control of one's vaginal muscles, and perhaps, a plethora of other claimed benefits.   This podcast is for informational purposes only.  Nothing here is meant to replace medical information.  Do not use a Yoni Egg before consulting with your physician and health team to decide what's best for you.  Definitely check with your doctor before using a Yoni Egg if you have a bladder, vaginal, or rectal prolapse, an internal infection, are menstruating, wearing an IUD or are pregnant.     TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content. **       web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Treasure Thompson  Web: TreasureGemz.com  Insta: @TreasureGemz Tw: @treasure_gemz fb: www.facebook.com/treasuregemz YouTube:  TreasureGemz Yoni-Eggs   Treasure's July 15, 2018 event tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sexy-summer-soiree-fashion-show-tickets-46088203056     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sexy-summer-soiree-fashion-show-tickets-46088203056 TreasureGemz.com     Lashed Store - Encino, CA:  https://www.lashedcosmetics.com/   Blush Boutique - Encino, CA:  https://website-416693626298426871412-womensclothingstore.business.site/  http://www.shopmyblush.com/   www.Lelo.com   Sex Toys & Tools:   www.Lelo.com “The Rabbit” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rabbit_vibrator,  "Pocket Rocket” https://vibratorvixen.com/pocket-rocket-plus-by-doc-johnson-review/,  "Comet II" by Jopen https://shevibe.com/key-by-jopen-comet-2-vibrating-g-spot-wand-blue.aspx,  "The Bullet” http://letstalksex.net/best-bullet-vibrators-and-vibrating-eggs-review-33-mini-sex-toys/,  “Uberlube” https://www.uberlube.com/     MUSIC CUES -   Janet Jackson - “Control” Salt-N-Pepa - “Shoop”   The Police - "Tea in the Sahara" Beyonce - “Sorry” Aretha Franklin - “(You Make Me Feel)  Like a Natural Woman"   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “We Have to Talk About It: Surviving the Impact of Suicide" - with guests Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT and TRS Teen Correspondent Christopher - ep 43

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018


    Ep 43 TRS -  “We Have to Talk About It: Surviving the Impact of Suicide" - with cohosts Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT & TRS Teen Correspondent Christopher   In the wake of recent celebrity suicides, Wendy and Jenni continue the important, if sometimes uncomfortable, conversation on Suicide and its far-reaching impacts. They are joined by guest cohosts Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT and TRS Teen Correspondent Christopher.   For more: Check out TRS Ep 32 - "The Netflix Series13 Reasons Why:  Relating to Teen Suicide, Depression, and the Cruelty of Youth”.  Wendy and Jenni talk about the Netflix series 13 Reasons Why, sharing some things to know about teen suicide, depression, and how parents and kids can survive the cruelty of youth. TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content.  This episode contains an intense and potentially triggering conversation regarding suicide and depression.  Please consider skipping this episode if you are sensitive to these topics.  Even if you feel otherwise in this moment, do not forget that you are important, loved, and not alone - there is support out there.**   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guests:     Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT Center for Discovery Web: CandaceDaleMcKenzie.com CandaceMcKenzie.net Tw: @CMcKenzieD     Teen Correspondent - Christopher: Tw: @A5trologicalPanda Insta: AstrologicalPanda     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   Seize The Awkward https://seizetheawkward.org/ #IAmTheChange - https://www.changedirection.org/320-changes-direction/ Our House - California - http://www.ourhouse-grief.org/ Grief & Mourning: https://grief.com/,  http://griefandmourning.com/resources/emergency   -Crisis Text Line - http://www.crisistextline.org/how-it-works/ - 741741   - National Suicide Prevention - https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ - 800/273-TALK (800/273-8255)   -National Alliance of Mental illness Los Angeles - crisis hotlines & hospitals -  http://namila.org/crisis-hotlines-hospitals/   - Balanced Mind Parent Network - http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/PageServer?pagename=bmpn_landing   - LGBTQ hotline - http://www.thetrevorproject.org/ - 866/488-7386   - Teen Line LA - https://teenlineonline.org/ - 310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863     - The Jason Foundation - http://jasonfoundation.com/   - Thirteen Reasons Why - by Jay Asher https://www.amazon.com/Thirteen-Reasons-Why-Jay-Asher/dp/159514188X https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thirteen_Reasons_Why   - Stages of Grief: https://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/grief/understanding-the-stages-of-grief/ https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-stages-of-loss-and-grief/   https://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/chris-cornells-daughter-sings-for-father-and-chester-bennington-w495960   TV Shows: 13 Reasons Why - Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/title/80117470   Movies: Ordinary People, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy     Books: Brene Brown - "Daring Greatly”- http://brenebrown.com/       MUSIC CUES -   Mike Shinoda - “Hold it Together" Jill Sobule - “Heroes” Monty Python - “Always Look on the Bright Side of Life”     ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  ***TEEN LINE web: teenlineonline.org - Text: 839863 - Ph: 310/855-HOPE (4673) or 800/TLC-TEEN (nationwide toll free from 6pm to 10pm PST)***

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Dating & Finding 'The One' in a Swipe Right World" - with guest Stacey Goryl, matchmaker - ep 42

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2018 115:19


    Ep 42 TRS -  “Dating & Finding 'The One' in a Swipe Right World" - with guest Stacey Goryl   in this episode, Wendy and Jenni are joined by Stacey Goryl of Forever Matchmaking whose slogan is: "Less Swiping, More Dating."  They tell their stories and talk about dating to find 'The One'.   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018     ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***      web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Stacey Goryl Web: ForeverMatchmaking.com Email:Stacey@forevermatchmaking.com Insta: @forevermatchmaking FB: https://www.facebook.com/ForeverMatchmaking/   Los Angeles Events:  "Love in The City" & "Love in The Valley"     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   TV Shows: "Blind Date”, “Love Connection"   Movies: Couples Retreat, Rear Window, Best In Show,     Books -  - Dr. Pat Allen “Getting To ‘I Do'”- http://www.drpatallen.com/   - Brene Brown - "Daring Greatly" http://brenebrown.com/     - Gary Chapman - “The 5 Love Languages:  The Secret to Love that Lasts" http://www.5lovelanguages.com/    - Harville Hendrix and Helen Lakelly Hunt -  “Getting The Love You Want:  A Guide For Couples” http://www.harvillehendrix.com/      - Jenny Block - “Open: Love, Sex, & Life in an Open Marriage" http://thejennyblock.com/open-marriage/     MUSIC CUES -   Nancy Wilson - "At Long Last Love” Fiona Apple - “Fast As You Can ” Blondie - “Call Me” Dinah Washington - “All of Me” Stacey Kent - “What the World Needs Now is Love”   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  ***TEEN LINE web: teenlineonline.org - Text: 839863 - Ph: 310/855-HOPE (4673) or 800/TLC-TEEN (nationwide toll free from 6pm to 10pm PST)***

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Moving Past Infidelity in Committed Relationships" - with guest Tony Davis, LMFT, AACAST - ep 41

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2018 103:45


    Ep 41 TRS -  “Moving Past Infidelity in Committed Relationships" - with guest Tony Davis, LMFT, AACAST   in this episode, Wendy and Jenni discuss ways individuals and couples can process, prevent, and move past infidelities in their committed relationships, with guest LA-based couples and sex therapist Tony Davis, LMFT.   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018     ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***      web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Tony Davis, LMFT Web: CouplesTherapistLA.com Email: Tony@couplestherapistLA.com Ph:  323/963-3183     SHOW MENTIONS & Resources -   AACAST - https://aacast.wildapricot.org/Staff Dr. Walter Brackelmanns UCLA - http://www.askdrb.com/   Movies: The Women (1939), The Four Seasons (1981), When Harry Met Sally (1989),     Books -  Dr. Pat Allen “Getting To ‘I Do'”- http://www.drpatallen.com/ Eckhart Tolle “The Power of Now” - https://www.eckharttolle.com/books/now/ Cecilia Jetha and Christopher Ryan “Sex at Dawn” - https://chrisryanphd.com/about-sex-at-dawn/ David Schnarch “Passionate Marriage” - http://passionatemarriage.com/   Esther Perel “Mating In Captivity”- estherperel.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en   Articles: LA Times Opinion- Daryl Austin, “My Wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms . Our marriage (and sex life) have never been better.” -http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-austin-separate-bedrooms-20180326-story.html   https://www.truthaboutdeception.com/community-features/ask-an-expert/questions-by-topic/infidelity/484-should-i-expose-someone-who-is-cheating.html   https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/jul/22/gay-dating-open-relationships-work-study   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201703/after-cheating-restoring-relationship-trust   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/surviving-infidelity/201305/should-the-children-know-youve-had-affair   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  ***TEEN LINE web: teenlineonline.org - Text: 839863 - Ph: 310/855-HOPE (4673) or 800/TLC-TEEN (nationwide toll free from 6pm to 10pm PST)***     MUSIC CUES -   Amy Winehouse - “Between the Cheats” Beyonce - “Hold Up" Al Green - “For The Good Times"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Is there a Relationship between Bullying, Suicide, & School Violence?" - with guest Danielle Matthew, LMFT of The Empowerment Space - ep 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2018 82:06


    Ep 40 TRS - “Is there a relationship between Bullying, Suicide, & School Violence?" with guest Danielle Matthew, LMFT   What's the relationship between Bullying, Suicide, & School Violence? In this episode Wendy and Jenni talk with Danielle Matthew, an LA-based marriage & family therapist and author of the book "The Empowered Child: How to Help Your Child Cope, Communicate, and Conquer Bullying” - based on The Empowerment Space, a recovery program Danielle founded that gives support to victims of bullying and their families.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018     ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  ***TEEN LINE web: teenlineonline.org - Text: 839863 - Ph: 310/855-HOPE (4673) or 800/TLC-TEEN (nationwide toll free from 6pm to 10pm PST)***   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Danielle Matthew, LMFT Web: empowerment.space Tw: @dmatthewempower Email: dmatthew@empowerment.space Ph:  818/267-4282 Book:  "The Empowered Child: How to Help Your Child Cope, Communicate, and Conquer Bullying"     SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Podcast - The Making of Oprah - https://www.npr.org/podcasts/500692140/making-oprah   ***Crisis Text line:  741741***  ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***  ***TEEN LINE web: teenlineonline.org - Text: 839863 - Ph: 310/855-HOPE (4673) or 800/TLC-TEEN (nationwide toll free from 6pm to 10pm PST)***     MUSIC CUES -   The Smiths - The Headmaster's Ritual The Animals - “Don't Let Me Be Misunderstood”  Rachel Crowe - “Mean Girls" Hunter Hayes - “Invisible” Barenaked Ladies - “I Saw It” Lady Gaga - “Born This Way” Chaka Khan - “Every Woman” Jill Scott - “Hate On Me” Taylor Swift - “Mean”     

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - “Can Medical Cannabis Help People Heal & Connect in Relationships?" with guest Barbara Harris Whitfield" - ep 39

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2018 75:14


    Ep 39 TRS - “Can Medical Cannabis Help People Heal & Connect in Relationships?" with guest Barbara Harris Whitfield   Can a Relationship with Cannabis Save You Some Drama or Maybe Just Save You?  With the recent implementation of recreational cannabis law in California, Wendy & Jenni met via Skype with Atlanta-based Cannabis-Advocate, Therapist, Author, and Consciousness Researcher Barbara Harris Whitfield, RT, CMT, to discuss how the Cannabis Community is evolving and the various medical uses cannabis might offer.   **Medical and recreational marijuana should be used responsibly and within the legal guidelines (21 y.o. and older).  Using marijuana is not for everyone and may exacerbate preexisting mental and physical health conditions - before imbibing, please consult with your physician, prescribing psychiatrist, and/or recovery case manager about whether or not cannabis might be the right choice for you. **   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2018   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   ***Crisis Text line:  741741 ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel   https://www.dea.gov/druginfo/drug_data_sheets/Marijuana.pdf   The Exhaustive Lit of Everyone Who's Died of A Marijuana Overdose https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/marijuana-lethal-dose_us_58f4ec07e4b0b9e9848d6297   TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Barbara Harris Whitfield (with Charles L. Whitfield, MD) Web:  http://www.barbara-whitfield.com/ Blog:  http://barbara-whitfield.blogspot.com/ Books:  "The Secrets of Medicinal Marijuana: A Guide for Patients and Those Who Care for Them"     SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Dr. Charles Whitfield - "Healing The Child Within" - Raphael Mechoulam - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raphael_Mechoulam - Documentary “The Scientist” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQDJi6Jb8d4&feature=youtu.be&list=PL-j8DfzPFwK04Fp980VJW6f6g1aC1nlRL - “Cheech & Chong: Up In Smoke” -  - https://auntzeldas.org/ - http://pineapplemag.com/ - https://www.learngreenflower.com/ - Podcast - Shrink Rap radio ep #506 - http://shrinkrapradio.com/506-exploring-the-medicinal-and-spiritual-potential-of-marijuana-with-barbara-harris/ - http://www.maps.org/ - https://mjbizdaily.com/ -  Chris Walsh - Vice President, Editorial & Strategic Development - Bruce Greyson - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bruce_Greyson - Sasha Shulgin- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Shulgin - Elizabeth Kubler Ross - http://www.ekrfoundation.org/ - Bonnie Greenwell - http://www.kundaliniguide.com/ - Ken Ring “Heading Toward Omega” and “Lessons from the Light"   MUSIC CUES -   Sublime - “Smoke Two Joints” Snoop Lion - “Smoke The Weed" (Feat: Collie Buddz”) Willie Nelson - “It's All Going to Pot” Amy Winehouse - “Addicted"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "2018 Time For Change" - ep 38

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2018 93:20


    Ep 38 TRS - “2018 Time For Change”   https://www.timesupnow.com/   Eight days into 2018, the morning after the Golden Globes aired, Wendy and Jenni sat down to talk about the Time's Up and #MeToo Movements, 2018 as a “Year of Change”, and what's easy or hard about making those big or small changes that we all dream about in our daily life.  Hop on board as they ride that tangent train through topics like: what it was like for Dr. Wendy to meet Mariah Carey, an Oprah Presidency, Aging Gracefully or Aging Tight, Meditation Pitfalls, and that actor who wouldn't take a photo with Dr. Wendy!     © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   ***Crisis Text line:  741741 ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - #TimesUp - https://www.timesupnow.com/ - #MeToo  -TV Shows Mentioned: “Better Late Than Never”, “Locked Up”, "Scared Straight”, “Big Little Lies”, "Late Night with Seth Meyers - “Five” on Lifetime - 2011 season - http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1877740/ - “El Chapo” documentary on Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/title/80184569  - Movies Mentioned: Three Billboards outside Ebbing Missouri, Mr. & Mrs. Smith - The Magic Pan  - Podcast - TRS ep # - “The Wise Bamboo Bends” January 2017 - Rashida Jones - "Fire & Fury" by Michael Wolff - Frances McDormand - Getty Images - http://www.etonline.com/frances-mcdormand-gets-political-talks-tequila-after-winning-golden-globe-best-drama-actress-93788  & https://www.goldenglobes.com/person/frances-mcdormand - Kris Jenner - http://people.com/style/kris-jenner-debuts-new-blonde-pixie-cut/   - David Cassidy “So much wasted time” http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/david-cassidys-daughter-reveals-final-words/story?id=51377243   MUSIC CUES -   Tears for Fears - “Change" Milt Jackson Quartet - “The Lady is a Tramp” Ann-Margaret - “There'll Be Some Changes Made"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Navigating a Politically-Charged Holiday Season"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2017 95:22


    Ep 37 TRS - “Navigating a Politically-Charged Holiday Season” -     ***Crisis Text line:  741741 ***National Suicide Hotline:  800/273-8255 ***   How do we navigate a nerve-wracking politically-charged holiday season when everyone is on edge and telling you to be of good cheer? Encouraging everyone to stay open and be their authentic selves, Wendy and Jenni wrap up 2017 with some tips on how to stay festive while avoiding end-of-year Anxiety Traps around family or work gatherings, break-ups, addictions, loneliness, and gift-giving.       © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Films: Roman J. Israel, Esq.     - Podcast - Crooked Media's “Pod Save America"     MUSIC CUES -   Bangles - “Hazy Shade of Winter” Mariah Carey - “All I Want For Christmas Is You" Band Aid - “(Feed The World) Do They Know It's Christmas Time” Shaggy - “It Wasn't Me”  Michael Buble - “All I Want For Christmas” John Lennon - “Happy Christmas (War is Over)” 

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    Halloween, Haunted Houses, and Horror Flicks: Our Relationship to Sex and Death

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2017 67:15


    Ep 36 TRS - “Halloween, Haunted Houses, and Horror Flicks: Our Relationship to Sex and Death”     Tis the beginning of the season, and Wendy and Jenni are falling in love with all things Fall.  They're talking Halloween, Haunted Houses, and Horror Flicks.   They're talking sex and death, and also... Donny Osmond?   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Films: The Shining, Faces of Death,, Halloween, Friday the 13th, The Mountain Between Us, National Velvet, 13 Reasons Why    - Clip: Eddie Murphy - “Delirious"   - Sensation Seeker Quiz - http://hsperson.com/test/high-sensation-seeking-test/   - Universal City Horror Nights   - Theories: Dispositional Alignment Theory, The Hedonic Paradox, Excitation Transfer Process/Theory - Dr. Dolf Zillman, Snuggle Theory   - Theatre: Sleep No More - NYC     MUSIC CUES -   The Smiths - “There is a Light and it Never Goes Out” Linkin Park - “What I've done”  Donny Osmond - “Puppy Love" Dead Man's Bones - “My Body's a Zombie For You”  Bobby Pickett - “Monster Mash"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Harvey Weinstein, Hollywood, and Our Culture's Relationship to Unwanted Sexual Advances" - ep 35

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2017 81:10


    Ep 35 TRS - “Harvey Weinstein, Hollywood, and Our Culture's Relationship to Unwanted Sexual Advances”     **If you or someone you know are looking for more information or support - please contact RAINN.ORG - the largest anti-sexual violence organization - and their 24/7 support line at 800/656-HOPE (4673)**   Wendy and Jenni talk with Wendy's pal “Jill Anonymous” about the Harvey Weinstein story.  They look at pieces of Hollywood's epidemic of bad behaviors, and how it reflects longstanding dysfunctional cultural attitudes.  This is a conversation exploring the psychological aspects of sexual harassment, intimidation, assault and rape, as well as the reasons why so many people have been scared to talk about it for so long.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel   TRS GUEST -    Guest: "Anonymous Jill"     SHOW MENTIONS  -   - RAINN.org   - 24/7 Hotline - 800/656-HOPE (   - https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/10/us/harvey-weinstein-accusations.html     MUSIC CUES -   Gin Wigmore - “Kill of the Night" Peggy Lee  - “I'm a Woman” The Love Boat Theme Dolly Parton - “Here You Come Again" Garbage - “Breaking Up The Girl"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Our Relationship to Money with Financial Stress Reduction Coach Chellie Campbell" - ep. 34

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2017 87:10


    Ep 34 TRS - “Our Relationship to Money, with Financial Stress Reduction Coach Chellie Campbell”     Wendy and Jenni talk to Financial Stress Reduction Coach, Chellie Campbell.  Chellie created the acclaimed Financial Stress Reduction Telecourse and Workshops, which are taught across the country. She is a highly sought after speaker who has written several books including: The Wealthy Spirit, Zero to Zillionaire: 8 Foolproof Steps to Financial Peace of Mind, and From Worry to Wealthy: A Woman's Guide to Financial Success Without the Stress.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel   TRS GUEST -    Guest:  Chellie Campbell   Web:  www.Chellie.com   Tw: @ChellieCampbell   insta: @ChellieCampbell   FB: facebook.com/chellicampbell   Email: Chellie@Chellie.com     SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Chellie Campbell - “The Wealthy Spirit” https://www.amazon.com/Wealthy-Spirit-Affirmations-Financial-Reduction/dp/157071777X   - Chellie Campbell - “Zero to Zillionaire: 8 Foolproof Steps to Financial Peace of Mind” https://www.amazon.com/Zero-Zillionaire-Foolproof-Steps-Financial/dp/1402206194   - Chellie Campbell - “From Worry To Wealthy: A Woman's Guide to Financial Success Without the Stress” https://www.amazon.com/Worry-Wealthy-Financial-Success-Without/dp/1492604801   - Chellie Campbell Resource Page http://www.chellie.com/resources/   - Judy Dench - “And Furthermore…” https://www.amazon.com/Furthermore-Judi-Dench/dp/1250002141   -Manuel J. Smith -  "When I Say No I Feel Guilty”  https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900   - Tony Robbins - TonyRobbins.com   -  Dave Ramsey - DaveRamsey.com   - Suze Orman - SuzeOrman.com         MUSIC CUES -   Sharon Jones and The Dap Kings - “Money” Titanic - “My Heart Will Go On” Willie Nelson - “It's Only Money" Cabaret - “Money"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Sandra Fischer's Relationship Reveal" - ep 33

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2017 82:28


    Ep 33 TRS -“Sandra Fischer's Relationship Reveal"   Wendy and Jenni talk to writer and consultant Sandra Fischer about Relationship Reveal - a game/tool Sandra created to help people identify and develop core competencies essential in intimate relationships.  Relationship Reveal can be used for discovery, skill-building, and personal growth.       © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel   TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Sandra Fischer   Web:  RelationshipReveal.com SandraKFischer.com   Tw: @skfischersea   FB: facebook.com/Sandra-Fischer-230911257066332/   Email: info@RelationshipReveal.com       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Myers-Briggs - MBTI - http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1 "Myers-Briggs” Type/MBTI-like Tests (unofficial):  http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp http://personality-testing.info/tests/OEJTS/   - Enneagram - https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/   - Disc program - https://www.discprofile.com/what-is-disc/overview/   -  Mark Manson - “Every Successful Relationship is Successful for the Same Exact Reasons” https://markmanson.net/relationship-advice   - Brene Brown - "Daring Greatly" http://brenebrown.com/   - David Schnarch - "Passionate Marriage" http://passionatemarriage.com/   - John Gottman w/Nan Silver - “The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work” and   “What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal” https://www.gottman.com/couples/     - Gary Chapman - “The 5 Love Languages:  The Secret to Love that Lasts" http://www.5lovelanguages.com/    - Harville Hendrix and Helen Lakelly Hunt -  “Getting The Love You Want:  A Guide For Couples” http://www.harvillehendrix.com/   -Dr. Sue Johnson - "Hold Me Tight" http://www.drsuejohnson.com/books/hold-me-tight/   - Jenny Block - “Open: Love, Sex, & Life in an Open Marriage" http://thejennyblock.com/open-marriage/     MUSIC CUES -   Clifford Brown - “What is This Thing Called Love” Salt N Pepa - “Let's Talk About Sex" Joni Mitchell - “Jericho"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "The Netflix Series 13 Reasons Why: Relating to Teen Suicide, Depression, and the Cruelty of Youth" - ep. 32

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2017 101:07


    Ep 32 - "The Netflix Series 13 Reasons Why:  Relating to Teen Suicide, Depression, and the Cruelty of Youth"   Wendy and Jenni talk about the Netflix series 13 Reasons Why, sharing some things to know about teen suicide, depression, and how parents and kids can survive the cruelty of youth.   **WARNING - Note the “E” for explicit content.  This episode contains an intense and potentially triggering conversation regarding suicide, depression, and sexual assault.  Please consider skipping this episode if you are sensitive to these topics.  Even if you feel otherwise in this moment, do not forget that you are important, loved, and not alone - there is support out there.**   24/7 National Suicide Hotline - 800/273-TALK (800/273-8255) Crisis/Suicide Text Line - 741741 LGBTQ crisis/suicide 24/7 hotline - 866/488-7386 Teen Line LA -  310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863       © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       SHOW MENTIONS  -   -Crisis Text Line - http://www.crisistextline.org/how-it-works/ - 741741   - National Suicide Prevention - https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ - 800/273-TALK (800/273-8255)   - LGBTQ hotline - http://www.thetrevorproject.org/ - 866/488-7386   - Teen Line LA - https://teenlineonline.org/ - 310/855-4673, text TEEN to 839863   -National Alliance of Mental illness Los Angeles - crisis hotlines & hospitals -  http://namila.org/crisis-hotlines-hospitals/   - Balanced Mind Parent Network - http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/PageServer?pagename=bmpn_landing   - The Jason Foundation - http://jasonfoundation.com/   - Thirteen Reasons Why - by Jay Asher https://www.amazon.com/Thirteen-Reasons-Why-Jay-Asher/dp/159514188X https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thirteen_Reasons_Why   - 13 Reasons Why - Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/title/80117470   - “The Teen Brain” - by Debra Bradley Ruder http://harvardmagazine.com/2008/09/the-teen-brain.html   -"The Teenage Brain Explained” - video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiduiTq1ei8   - IMPACT LA self-defense training - http://www.impactpersonalsafety.com/   - "Parents of Suicidal Teens say they feel alone” - by Jody Allard  https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2016/04/25/parents-of-suicidal-teens-say-they-feel-alone-here-are-resources-to-help/?utm_term=.4a82f9dc7c8d   - "10 Things Parents Can do to Prevent Suicide" - https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/emotional-problems/Pages/Ten-Things-Parents-Can-Do-to-Prevent-Suicide.aspx    MUSIC CUES -   Joy Division - “Love Will Tear Us Apart” Cristina Aguilara - “Genie in a Bottle" Ariana Grande - “Be Alright" Steven Sondheim - Into The Woods - “Finale”  

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Our Relationship to Food & Nutrition with guest Duane Law" - ep. 31

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2017 101:02


    Ep 31 TRS - "Our Relationship to Food & Nutrients with guest Duane Law, LAc" -      Wendy and Jenni talk to acupuncturist, naturopath, author, speaker, and owner of NaturalStressCare.org Duane Law, L.A.c about the long-term impact of what we put in our bodies, how it affects our moods and relationships, and how we can use nutrition, acupuncture and micronutrients to improve the quality of life... and perhaps even lengthen it.       © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy   ph: 310/712-1230     web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Duane Law   Web:  naturalstresscare.org   Tw: @DuaneLaw2   FB: facebook.com/NaturalStressCare   Blog: SelfCareAdvisor.net   Email: Duane@NaturalStressCare.org   Ph: 310/498-2777       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - “Bad Pharma” - by Ben Goldacre https://www.amazon.com/Bad-Pharma-Companies-Mislead-Patients/dp/0865478007 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bad_Pharma   - Journal of Orthomolecular Medicine - http://orthomolecular.org/library/jom/   - “Anatomy of An Epidemic” - by Robert Whitaker - http://robertwhitaker.org/robertwhitaker.org/Anatomy%20of%20an%20Epidemic.html   - Science Friday NPR -  http://www.sciencefriday.com/segments/how-older-brains-could-benefit-from-marijuana/   - The Daily Show on City Municipal Water - http://www.cc.com/video-clips/85lgid/the-daily-show-with-trevor-noah-brown-in-town---a-west-texas-water-crisis   - Kerlan-Jobe Orthopaedic Clinic - http://www.kerlanjobe.com/   - Dr McDougall's Starch-based Diet https://www.drmcdougall.com/   - The Meat We Eat - http://www.meatscience.org/themeatweeat   - The Environmental Working Group - EWG - http://www.ewg.org/   - Flora 3-6-9 - http://www.florahealth.com/product_categories_usa.cfm?category_id=6&prod_id=260   - 60 Minutes “The Flavorist” - http://www.cbsnews.com/videos/the-flavorists-tweaking-tastes-and-creating-cravings/   - Amy Day (on adrenals) - http://dramyday.com/   - L-Glutamine   -Eat The Rainbow http://lifehacker.com/what-it-means-to-eat-the-rainbow-1594799068   MUSIC CUES -   K.D. Lang - “Constant Craving” Fleetwood Mac - “Little Lies" Diana Ross - “Ain't No Mountain High Enough"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - The Asexuality Minority, with guest Jennie Steinberg, LMFT

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2017 92:46


    Ep 30 TRS - "The Asexual Minority with guest Jennie Steinberg, LMFT" Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni explore the meanings and complexities of Asexuality, and other non-cis-gender, non-heteronormative identities, with LA-Based therapist, Jennie Steinberg - a straight ally whose work focuses on sex, gender, and relationship minorities.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy       web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       TRS GUEST -    Guest:     Jennie Steinberg   Web:  JennieSteinberg.com   Tw: @TherapistJennie   FB: facebook.com/throughthewoodstherapycenter    Email: jennie@throughthewoodstherapy.com   Ph: 213/863-1652       SHOW MENTIONS  -   - Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN)   - “Four Things Everyone Should Know About Asexuality” – Jennie Steinberg http://www.jenniesteinberg.com/asexuality/   - http://www.whatisasexuality.com/intro/   -http://www.asexualityarchive.com/possible-signs-of-asexuality-part-1-about-you/   - http://time.com/2889469/asexual-orientation/ (2014 book by Julie Sondra Decker “The Invisible Orientation”)   - http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/asexuality   James Guay, LMFT -http://livingmorefully.com/   MUSIC CUES -   Chicago Symphony Orchestra - “Take Me Out to the Ballgame" Lady Gaga - "Born this way" Meatloaf - “I Would Do Anything for Love" Morrissey - “(I'm)The End of the Line”  PansexyJenny - “Asexual Love” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3QquQvXsNo

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "The Wise Bamboo Bends: the Measure of Success with Al Schwartz" - ep. 29

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2017 114:35


    Episode 29 - “The Wise Bamboo Bends:  the Measure of Success with Al Schwartz” Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni have a conversation about the meaning of success with TV director and producer, Sr Vice President of Dick Clark Productions, and Dr Wendy's Dad, Al Schwartz.     © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2017   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: IamDrWendy       web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel     TRS GUEST -    Guest:   Al Schwartz Email: aldcp@aol.com fb:  www.facebook.com/AlSchwartz   SHOW MENTIONS  - Hollywood Foreign Press Golden Globes Beverly Hilton Transparent American Music Awards Sid & Marty Krofft Dick Clark Productions Donny & Marie Osmond Haresfoot Club - University of Wisconsin Hasty Pudding Club - Harvard Triangle Club -  Princeton  JFK for President Ad MUSIC CUES - Donny & Marie Osmond - “They Call it Puppy Love”  Jack Hylton - "The Moon Belongs to Everyone" Nina Simone - "Four Women" Chiemi Eri - "Com On-A My House" Izumi Yukimura - “Till I Waltz Again With You” Frank Sinatra - “My Kind of Town" Rosemary Clooney - “Come On-A My House” 

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "2016 Wrap-Up: Gratitude for Our Guests" - ep 28

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2016 73:05


    Episode 28 - “2016 Wrap-Up: Gratitude for our Guests”   In their last episode of the year, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni reflect upon their podcasting year and lay down some serious gratitude for the wonderful guests who've helped make TRS unforgettable.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com     web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com   e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com   fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy   tw: @askDrWendy   intsta: iamDrWendy       web: www.JenniJVWilson.com   e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com   fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson   tw: @JenniJVWilson   insta: ThePreppyRebel       TRS GUESTS -    *Kriz Crane* Hair & Make-up Artist   web: http://www.KrizCrane.com/   e:  Kriz@KrizCrane.com   tw: @KrizCrane   insta: KrizCrane     *Riley K. Smith, LMFT* Integrative Body Psychotherapist   Web: http://www.RileysBubble.com/   Email:  Riley@RileysBubble.com     *Darlene Basch, LCSW, MFT* Therapist/Energy Healer   www.TransformationTherapy.com   fb: https://www.facebook.com/TransformationTherapywithDarleneBasch     *August McLaughlin* Podcast Host/Writer   http://www.augustmclaughlin.com/   Girl Boner Radio:     http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/gvb-radio/girl-boner-radio-with-august-mclaughlin   https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-boner-radio/id814715884?mt=2   tw: @AugstMcLaughlin     *Jonathan Bourne* Writer/Showrunner/Podcaster/Game Show God   Podcast: The Game Show Pubquiz Podcast   Tw: - @JonathanBourne     *Douglas Green, LMFT* Therapist/Author   web:  www.DouglasGreenmft.com          www.AskShirelle.com   FB:     https://www.facebook.com/Ask.Shirelle   FB:     https://www.facebook.com/TheTeachingsOfShirelle   tw:    @DougGreenAuthor       SHOW MENTIONS  -   *Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT* Therapist/Author   www.CandaceDaleMcKenzie.com   tw: @CMcKenzieD     *Anthony Pazos* Hair Artist   web: http://www.AnthonyPazos.com/   e:  Beauty@AnthonyPazos.com   tw:  @AnthonyPazos   insta: AnthonyPazos     *Dusty “Technology Guru” Porter* Podcast Host/Entrepreneur   Web: http://www.youtubecreatorshub.com/   Email:  technologyguru77@gmail.com   YouTube: Technologyguru   iTunes: Podcasters Unplugged - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/podcasters-unplugged/id1115935281?mt=2   iTunes:  YouTube Creators Hub - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/youtube-creators-hub/id843566797?mt=2   Tw: @techguru77     *Sonny Mayo*  Musician/Artist   Instagram: @Sonny_Mayo   Rock to Recovery   www.RocktoRecovery.org   tw: @RocktoRecovery   Instagram: @RocktoRecovery   FB: Rock to Recovery    Soundcloud:  https://soundcloud.com/rocktorecovery     *Ivy Iacono* Actress/Writer/Comic find her on Facebook!     *Starla Fortunato*  Photographer   www.StarlaFortunato.com   fb: https://www.facebook.com/starla.fortunato   tw: @StarlaFortunato     *Sybil Henry*  Brand Style Strategist   www.TheStyleConcierge.com   fb: https://www.facebook.com/HiSybil   tw: @SybilHenry     MUSIC CUES - Bowling For Soup - “We're A Couple of Misfits” Vince Guaraldi Trio - Charlie Brown Christmas - “Christmas is Coming" Vince Guaraldi Trio - Charlie Brown Christmas - “O Tannenbaum Vince Guaraldi Trio - Charlie Brown Christmas - “Christmas Time Is Here" Vampire Weekend - “Holiday" Aretha Franklin - “God Bless the Child” Barry Manilow - “It's Just Another New Years Eve” Brenda Lee - “Jingle Bell Rock"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Our Relationship to Beauty, Art, & Politics with Kriz Crane and Anthony Pazos" - ep 27

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2016 101:22


    Episode 27 - “Our Relationship to Beauty, Art, & Politics with guests Kriz Crane and Anthony Pazos"   On Monday 11/14/16, Wendy and Jenni sat down to have a light-hearted conversation about “Self-Confidence" with Dr. Wendy's “Glam Squad”, Los Angeles-Based Beauty Artists Kriz Crane (www.KrizCrane.com) and Anthony Pazos (www.AnthonyPazos.com).  However, with the protests continuing strong that day, the discussion quickly turned to the impact the 2016 U.S. Presidential Election was having on all of them, their clients, and the world.    © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016   TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com   web: www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy intsta: iamDrWendy   web: www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson insta: ThePreppyRebel   Guests:  Dr. Wendy's "Glam Squad" *Kriz Crane* web: http://www.KrizCrane.com/ e:  Kriz@KrizCrane.com tw: @KrizCrane insta: KrizCrane   *Anthony Pazos* web: http://www.AnthonyPazos.com/ e:  Beauty@AnthonyPazos.com tw:  @AnthonyPazos insta: AnthonyPazos   SHOW MENTIONS  - Clip from 11/13/16 "60 Minutes" with Leslie Stahl - http://www.cbsnews.com/news/60-minutes-donald-trump-family-melania-ivanka-lesley-stahl/   Kamala Harris - @KamalaHarris KamalaHarris.org https://Twitter.com/KamalaHarris   Change.org   NLP - neurolinguistic programming - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming   BOOK - Viktor Frankl - "Man's Search for Meaning”   **FACT CHECKS** This information may not be accurate past 11/16/16, but we have made every effort possible to fact check in our limited time.  We always encourage our listeners and clients to do their own homework and stay curious.  Please don't take our word for it on this stuff.  As Dr. Wendy always says, "Stay open!"   Furthermore we stand in support of the First Amendment, which protects Freedom of Speech (like this podcast), Freedom of the Press (real press - buy subscriptions to your local and national newspapers!), Freedom of Assembly (like the Protesters), Freedom of Religion (and the right NOT to have a Religion), Freedom of Expression (Art! Music! Dance!), AND TO PETITION THE GOVERNMENT FOR A REDRESS OF GRIEVANCES (let your leaders know what you expect of them and think of what they're doing - they must address letters!).   STATUS UPDATE – as of 11/17/16 -Truancy for students who march in LA – http://ktla.com/2016/11/14/l-a-students-planning-anti-trump-walkouts-monday/ http://laschoolreport.com/ -Michigan 90,000 voters didn't vote for prez https://ballotpedia.org/Presidential_election_in_Michigan,_2016 http://www.ibtimes.com/latest-2016-election-results-clinton-trump-popular-vote-final-tally-depends-4-million-2447595 http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/11/14/seven-reasons-why-hillary-clinton-lost-and-donald-trump-won.html -Breakdown of women who voted for Trump http://fivethirtyeight.com/features/clinton-couldnt-win-over-white-women/ http://fortune.com/2016/11/09/hillary-clinton-election-gender-gap/ -Hillary popular vote win - HRC having 2.2 million more popular votes than DJT is incorrect; As of 11/18/16, the current count of Popular Votes for HRC is around 1.43 million... and counting http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/who-won-the-popular-vote-donald-trump-or-hillary-clinton-w450627 https://www.thenation.com/article/hillary-clintons-popular-vote-victory-is-unprecedented-and-still-growing/ http://www.270towin.com/maps/clinton-trump-electoral-map http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2016/nov/14/blog-posting/no-donald-trump-not-beating-hillary-clinton-popula/ -Romney's popular vote - Romney earned 60,933,504 votes; as of 11/18/16, Trump is currently at 61,610,484 http://www.cnn.com/election/results/president http://www.investors.com/politics/commentary/did-trump-actually-get-fewer-votes-than-mitt-romney/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_presidential_election,_2012 -What is a blind trust? http://www.dictionary.com/browse/blind-trust?s=t https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blind_trust -Fraud Case Continuance http://www.vanityfair.com/news/2016/11/donald-trump-university-lawsuit http://www.usatoday.com/videos/news/nation/2016/11/17/94012088/ http://www.politico.com/blogs/under-the-radar/2016/11/trump-university-trial-hearing-schedule-231426 -Alleged Rape of 13 year old case http://www.snopes.com/2016/06/23/donald-trump-rape-lawsuit/ http://www.politico.com/story/2016/11/donald-trump-rape-lawsuit-dropped-230770 http://www.usnews.com/news/politics/articles/2016-11-10/lawsuits-against-donald-trump-unprecedented-for-president-elect -Pence Legal issues of 2014 https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-fix/wp/2016/11/17/vice-president-elect-mike-pence-has-his-own-email-dispute-in-indiana/   MUSIC CUES - Oingo Boingo - “Just Another Day” Britney Spears - “Hit Me Baby One More Time" National Youth Orchestra - “America the Beautiful” arranged by Phillip Rothman Bauhaus - “All We Ever Wanted Was Everything” The Smiths - “Unlovable” Donny Hathaway - “To Be Young Gifted and Black” Leonard Cohen - "Sisters of Mercy"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 4 (of 4)"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2016 32:31


    Episode 26 - “EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 4 (of 4)" Wendy and Jenni sit down to get the inside scoop on the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy and Attachment-Based EMDR with Somatic psychotherapist, writer, musician, artist, and Octogenarian Riley K. Smith, LMFT  (www.RileysBubble.com)  Part 1 - Riley's background, ideas on what gets people stuck, identifying the “Basic Wound”, connecting with the “Core Self", and then attending to the “Basic Wound”… the trick is to keep breathing Part 2 - What is EMDR and “Attachment-Based EMDR”?; Where are we looking for validation?; Is Breathing the most affordable “Happy Pill” ever?;  Riley shares how to Reassert our Presence in the space, Learn what we mean when we talk about “Linking"  Part 3 - How Riley stays active starting his 8th decade,  A look into "Riley's Bubble”, We learn what Satori is and why it's important, our thoughts on Hallucinogenics in the therapy session, How addiction relates to "The Basic Wound", Riley shares "The Basic Wound Mantra”, and Lights Up our Life Part 4 - The "Basic Wound" as “set-up for life's purpose/lesson, What it means to be human, JJVW overshare, The significance of going back to the things that bring us joy, Pushing past voices that shame. Special Thanks to Therapist Jammers: Riley "Ringleader" Smith, Darlene "Uke-Breaka-My-Heart" Basch, Jonathan "Kickin' Pickin'" Flier, Linda "Dulcimer Wings" Shreyer, Terry "Tub Bass Boss" Crowe, Steven "Tender Taps" Kassel, and Robert "Sweet Strings" Boress © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest:   Riley K. Smith, MA, LMFT Web: http://www.RileysBubble.com/ Email:  Riley@RileysBubble.com "How To Be A Couple And Still Be Free" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Couple-Still-Free/dp/1564145492 "How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Happy-Partners-Together/dp/1530583594/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476140564&sr=1-1 SHOW MENTIONS  - Part 1 Jack Lee Rosenberg, PhD & Beverly Kitaen-Morse, PsyD http://www.ibponline.org/ http://somaticperspectives.com/2012/07/rosenberg-kitaen/ Brene Brown http://brenebrown.com/ Michael Balint - "The Basic Fault" https://www.amazon.com/Basic-Fault-Therapeutic-Aspects-Regression/dp/0810110253 Part 2 Fluffing Your Aura - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMZNDJTVf2c About EMDR and Francine Shapiro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybkh4ekVWug A couple different Examples of how EMDR sessions can go - different methods: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpRQvcW2kUM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBIWGhVqF9s Laurel Parnell - Attachment-Based EMDR http://drlaurelparnell.com/ MUSIC CUES - Part 1 Steve Martin & Edie Brickell - “Remember Me This Way” Johnny Cash - “Jackson” The Mavericks - “Born to Be Blue” Sarah Harmer - “Things to Forget” Part 2 Garbage - “The Trick is To Keep Breathing” James Brown - “Eyesight" Fiona Apple - “Get Gone” Natalie Maines - “Mother” Part 3 Speedy West - “Texas Playboy Rag” Honey Honey - “I Don't Mind” Beatles - “Come Together" Whitney Houston - "You Light Up My Life” Part 4 Alabama Shakes - “Hold On” Randy Newman - “I'm Different” Beach Boys - “Be True To Your School" Lady Antebellum - “Generation Away" Amazing Grace Dark Town Strutters' Ball

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 3 (of 4)"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2016 31:33


    Episode 26 - “EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 3 (of 4)" Wendy and Jenni sit down to get the inside scoop on the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy and Attachment-Based EMDR with Somatic psychotherapist, writer, musician, artist, and Octogenarian Riley K. Smith, LMFT  (www.RileysBubble.com)  Part 1 - Riley's background, ideas on what gets people stuck, identifying the “Basic Wound”, connecting with the “Core Self", and then attending to the “Basic Wound”… the trick is to keep breathing Part 2 - What is EMDR and “Attachment-Based EMDR”?; Where are we looking for validation?; Is Breathing the most affordable “Happy Pill” ever?;  Riley shares how to Reassert our Presence in the space, Learn what we mean when we talk about “Linking"  Part 3 - How Riley stays active starting his 8th decade,  A look into "Riley's Bubble”, We learn what Satori is and why it's important, our thoughts on Hallucinogenics in the therapy session, How addiction relates to "The Basic Wound", Riley shares "The Basic Wound Mantra”, and Lights Up our Life Part 4 - The "Basic Wound" as “set-up for life's purpose/lesson, What it means to be human, JJVW overshare, The significance of going back to the things that bring us joy, Pushing past voices that shame. Special Thanks to Therapist Jammers: Riley "Ringleader" Smith, Darlene "Uke-Breaka-My-Heart" Basch, Jonathan "Kickin' Pickin'" Flier, Linda "Dulcimer Wings" Shreyer, Terry "Tub Bass Boss" Crowe, Steven "Tender Taps" Kassel, and Robert "Sweet Strings" Boress © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest:   Riley K. Smith, MA, LMFT Web: http://www.RileysBubble.com/ Email:  Riley@RileysBubble.com "How To Be A Couple And Still Be Free" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Couple-Still-Free/dp/1564145492 "How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Happy-Partners-Together/dp/1530583594/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476140564&sr=1-1 SHOW MENTIONS  - Part 1 Jack Lee Rosenberg, PhD & Beverly Kitaen-Morse, PsyD http://www.ibponline.org/ http://somaticperspectives.com/2012/07/rosenberg-kitaen/ Brene Brown http://brenebrown.com/ Michael Balint - "The Basic Fault" https://www.amazon.com/Basic-Fault-Therapeutic-Aspects-Regression/dp/0810110253 Part 2 Fluffing Your Aura - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMZNDJTVf2c About EMDR and Francine Shapiro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybkh4ekVWug A couple different Examples of how EMDR sessions can go - different methods: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpRQvcW2kUM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBIWGhVqF9s Laurel Parnell - Attachment-Based EMDR http://drlaurelparnell.com/ MUSIC CUES - Part 1 Steve Martin & Edie Brickell - “Remember Me This Way” Johnny Cash - “Jackson” The Mavericks - “Born to Be Blue” Sarah Harmer - “Things to Forget” Part 2 Garbage - “The Trick is To Keep Breathing” James Brown - “Eyesight" Fiona Apple - “Get Gone” Natalie Maines - “Mother” Part 3 Speedy West - “Texas Playboy Rag” Honey Honey - “I Don't Mind” Beatles - “Come Together" Whitney Houston - "You Light Up My Life” Part 4 Alabama Shakes - “Hold On” Randy Newman - “I'm Different” Beach Boys - “Be True To Your School" Lady Antebellum - “Generation Away" Amazing Grace Dark Town Strutters' Ball

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 2 (of 4)"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2016 26:52


    Episode 26 - “EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT - Part 2 (of 4)" Wendy and Jenni sit down to get the inside scoop on the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy and Attachment-Based EMDR with Somatic psychotherapist, writer, musician, artist, and Octogenarian Riley K. Smith  (www.RileysBubble.com)  Part 1 - Riley's background, ideas on what gets people stuck, identifying the “Basic Wound”, connecting with the “Core Self", and then attending to the “Basic Wound”… the trick is to keep breathing Part 2 - What is EMDR and “Attachment-Based EMDR”?; Where are we looking for validation?; Is Breathing the most affordable “Happy Pill” ever?;  Riley shares how to Reassert our Presence in the space, Learn what we mean when we talk about “Linking"  Part 3 - How Riley stays active starting his 8th decade,  A look into "Riley's Bubble”, We learn what Satori is and why it's important, our thoughts on Hallucinogenics in the therapy session, How addiction relates to "The Basic Wound", Riley shares "The Basic Wound Mantra”, and Lights Up our Life Part 4 - The "Basic Wound" as “set-up for life's purpose/lesson, What it means to be human, JJVW overshare, The significance of going back to the things that bring us joy, Pushing past voices that shame © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest:   Riley K. Smith, MA, LMFT Web: http://www.RileysBubble.com/ Email:  Riley@RileysBubble.com "How To Be A Couple And Still Be Free" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Couple-Still-Free/dp/1564145492 "How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Happy-Partners-Together/dp/1530583594/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476140564&sr=1-1 SHOW MENTIONS  - Part 1 Jack Lee Rosenberg, PhD & Beverly Kitaen-Morse, PsyD http://www.ibponline.org/ http://somaticperspectives.com/2012/07/rosenberg-kitaen/ Brene Brown http://brenebrown.com/ Michael Balint - "The Basic Fault" https://www.amazon.com/Basic-Fault-Therapeutic-Aspects-Regression/dp/0810110253 Part 2 Fluffing Your Aura - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMZNDJTVf2c About EMDR and Francine Shapiro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybkh4ekVWug A couple different Examples of how EMDR sessions can go - different methods: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpRQvcW2kUM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBIWGhVqF9s Laurel Parnell - Attachment-Based EMDR http://drlaurelparnell.com/ MUSIC CUES - Part 1 Steve Martin & Edie Brickell - “Remember Me This Way” Johnny Cash - “Jackson” The Mavericks - “Born to Be Blue” Sarah Harmer - “Things to Forget” Part 2 Garbage - “The Trick is To Keep Breathing” James Brown - “Eyesight" Fiona Apple - “Get Gone” Natalie Maines - “Mother” Part 3 Speedy West - “Texas Playboy Rag” Honey Honey - “I Don't Mind” Beatles - “Come Together" Whitney Houston - "You Light Up My Life” Part 4 Alabama Shakes - “Hold On” Randy Newman - “I'm Different" Lady Antebellum - “Generation Away" Amazing Grace

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2016 37:00


    Episode 26 - “EMDR, Getting Grounded, and Healing the Basic Wound with guest Riley K. Smith, LMFT" Wendy and Jenni sit down to get the inside scoop on the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy and Attachment-Based EMDR with Somatic psychotherapist, writer, musician, artist, and Octogenarian Riley K. Smith  (www.RileysBubble.com)  Part 1 - Riley's background, ideas on what gets people stuck, identifying the “Basic Wound”, connecting with the “Core Self", and then attending to the “Basic Wound”… the trick is to keep breathing Part 2 -What is EMDR and “Attachment-Based EMDR”?; Where are we looking for validation?; Is Breathing the most affordable “Happy Pill” ever?;  Riley shares how to Reassert our Presence in the space, Learn what we mean when we talk about “Linking"  Part 3 - How Riley stays active starting his 8th decade, Thoughts on The Art of Therapy,  A look into "Riley's Bubble”, We learn what Saatori is and why it's important, our thoughts on Hallucinogenics in the therapy session, How addiction relates to "The Basic Wound", Riley shares "The Basic Wound Mantra”, and Lights Up our Life Part 4 - The "Basic Wound" as “set-up for life's purpose/lesson, What it means to be human, JJVW overshare, The significance of going back to the things that bring us joy, Pushing past voices that shame © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest:   Riley K. Smith, MA, LMFT Web: http://www.RileysBubble.com/ Email:  Riley@RileysBubble.com "How To Be A Couple And Still Be Free" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Couple-Still-Free/dp/1564145492 "How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together" (with Tina B. Tessina) https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Happy-Partners-Together/dp/1530583594/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476140564&sr=1-1 SHOW MENTIONS  - Part 1 Jack Lee Rosenberg, PhD & Beverly Kitaen-Morse, PsyD http://www.ibponline.org/ http://somaticperspectives.com/2012/07/rosenberg-kitaen/ Brene Brown http://brenebrown.com/ Michael Balint - "The Basic Fault" https://www.amazon.com/Basic-Fault-Therapeutic-Aspects-Regression/dp/0810110253 Part 2 Fluffing Your Aura - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMZNDJTVf2c About EMDR and Francine Shapiro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybkh4ekVWug A couple different Examples of how EMDR sessions can go - different methods: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpRQvcW2kUM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBIWGhVqF9s Laurel Parnell - Attachment-Based EMDR http://drlaurelparnell.com/ MUSIC CUES - Part 1 Steve Martin & Edie Brickell - “Remember Me This Way” Johnny Cash - “Jackson” The Mavericks - “Born to Be Blue” Sarah Hammer - “Things to Forget” Part 2 Garbage - “The Trick is To Keep Breathing” James Brown - “Eyesight" Fiona Apple - “Get Gone” Natalie Maines - “Mother” Part 3 Speedy West “Texas Playboy Rag” Honey Honey “I Don't Mind” Beatles “Come Together" Whitney Houston "You Light Up My Life” Part 4 Alabama Shakes “Hold On” Randy Newman “I'm Different" Lady Antebellum “Generation Away" Amazing Grace

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "From Listener to Host: Finding Your Voice as an Online Content Creator with guest Dusty Porter"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2016 79:05


    Episode 25 - “From Listener to Host: Finding Your Voice as on Online Content Creator with guest Dusty Porter" We're joined by "Technology Guru” Dusty Porter (www.youtubecreatorshub.com) via Skype to explore the special virtual relationship between Online Content Creators and their Audiences.   © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest:   Dusty “Technology Guru” Porter Web: http://www.youtubecreatorshub.com/ Email:  technologyguru77@gmail.com YouTube: Technologyguru iTunes: Podcasters Unplugged - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/podcasters-unplugged/id1115935281?mt=2 iTunes:  YouTube Creators Hub - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/youtube-creators-hub/id843566797?mt=2 Tw: @techguru77 SHOW MENTIONS  - John Lee Dumas - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/eofire-entrepreneur-on-fire/id564001633?mt=2 http://www.eofire.com/ http://podcastersparadise.com/ Pat Flynn -  http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/ http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/podcasts/ Michael Hyatt https://michaelhyatt.com/thisisyourlife Zig Ziglar - https://www.ziglar.com/ Audacity & The Audacity Podcast http://www.audacityteam.org/ https://theaudacitytopodcast.com/ The Nerdist - http://nerdist.com/ http://nerdist.com/podcasts/nerdist-podcast-channel/ MUSIC CUES - Beastie Boys - “Pass the Mic" Tears For Fears -  “Shout” Aretha Franklin - "Ac-Cent-Tchu-Ate The Positive"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Red Flag Spotlight: Breaking Down Breaking-Up" with guest Candace McKenzie

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2016 112:03


    Episode 24 - “Red Flag Issues: Breaking Down Break-ups"   - In our first remote episode, we're joined via Skype by our friend Candace Dale McKenzie (www.CandaceDaleMcKenzie.com) to breakdown some Red Flag Issues around Breaking-Up.  © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest: Candace Dale McKenzie www.CandaceDaleMcKenzie.com tw: @CMcKenzieD READING AND INFO - Susan J. Elliott “Getting Past Your Break-Up” - http://gettingpastyourbreakup.com/ Katherine Woodward Thomas “Conscious Uncoupling” - http://www.consciousuncoupling.com/ Eckhart Tolle - "The Power of Now" Rachel Sussman - “The Break-up Bible”- http://rachelasussman.com/ Howard Bronson and Mike Riley - “How To Heal a Broken Heart in 30 Days” Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt “Getting The Love You Want” - http://harvilleandhelen.com/ Katherine Woodward Thomas “Calling In The One” Pat Allen “Getting To I Do” - http://www.drpatallen.com/ John Gottman “How Marriages Succeed and Fail” MUSIC CUES - Neil Sedaka “Breaking Up Is Hard To Do” George Michael “One More Try” Dixie Chicks “Let ‘er Rip” Gwen Stefani “Now That You Got It" Celine Dion “My Heart Will Go On" Billy Vera & The Beaters “At This Moment”

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Healing through Music with Rock to Recovery's Sonny Mayo"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2016 126:49


    Episode 22 - "Healing Through Music with Rock to Recovery's Sonny Mayo" In this episode we sit down to talk about the Relationship between Healing and Music with Sonny Mayo - a professional musician and Administrator/Cheerleader of Rock to Recovery - a non-profit organization staffed with professional musicians founded by Wesley Geer (of Korn) in 2012.  Rock to Recovery leads groups in over 60 treatment centers throughout Southern California, from Malibu to San Diego, bringing the power of creating and playing music to people getting and staying clean and sober.  © Jenni J.V. Wilson 2016 TRS email:  RelationshipShowLA@gmail.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest: Sonny Mayo  Instagram: @Sonny_Mayo Rock to Recovery www.RocktoRecovery.org tw: @RocktoRecovery Instagram: @RocktoRecovery FB: Rock to Recovery  Soundcloud:  https://soundcloud.com/rocktorecovery MENTIONS -  Ted Talks Zoom mic GruvGear.com  READING AND INFO - Oliver Sacks “Musicophilia" Daniel Levitin “This is Your Brain on Music” -  Daniel Levitin "The World in 6 Songs:  How the Musical Brain Created Human Nature" Music Cues - Amy Winehouse “Back to Black” Ashford & Simpson “Solid” MC Lyte “Cravin'” R. Kelly “Bounce Bounce” Rolling Stones “It's All Over Now” Muddy Waters “I Just Want to Make Love to You” KISS “Rock & Roll All Nite” The Doors “Five to One” Sting “I'm So Happy I Can't Stop Crying” Prince “Delirious” Prince “The Most Beautiful Girl in the World” Carpenters “Close to You” Harry Nilsson “Best Friend” Judy Garland “You Made Me Love You” Led Zeppelin “Whole Lotta Love” Metallica “For Whom The Bell Tolls” Whitesnake “Here I Go Again” The Sugar Hill Gang “Rapper's Delight” Rush “Tom Sawyer” Scorpions “Rock You Like A Hurricane” Ugly Kid Joe “I Hate Everything About You” Ray Charles “Old Man River” K.D. Lang “My Old Addiction” Bee Gees “You Should Be Dancing” Joan Armatrading “Bottom to the Top” Adam Ant “Don't Drink Don't Smoke"

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Red Flag Issues: Relating to Sociopaths with guest August McLaughlin - ep 21

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2016 95:58


    Episode 21 - “Red Flag Issue Episode:  Relating to Sociopaths with guest August McLaughlin" In this "Red Flag Issue” Episode, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni are joined by Health & Sexuality writer August McLaughlin (Girl Boner Radio).  In their chat they examine what Sociopathy can look like in romantic relationships, what the short- and long-term traumatizing effects can be, and how one might extricate oneself from this toxic connection. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest: August McLaughlin http://www.augustmclaughlin.com/ Girl Boner Radio:   http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/gvb-radio/girl-boner-radio-with-august-mclaughlin https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-boner-radio/id814715884?mt=2 tw: @AugstMcLaughlin MENTIONS -  READING AND INFO - Psychopathy Checklist - Dr. Robert Hare https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy_Checklist U.S. Presidents & Psychopathy - http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/09/which-us-president-was-the-biggest-psychopath.php Dr. Martha Stout “The Sociopath Next Door” -  http://www.amazon.com/Sociopath-Next-Door-Martha-Stout/dp/0767915828 Gavin DeBecker “The Gift of Fear” -  http://www.amazon.com/Other-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violence/dp/0440508835/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462820497&sr=1-1&keywords=the+gift+of+fear+by+gavin+de+becker Julia Cameron "The Artists Way” - http://www.amazon.com/Artists-Way-Julia-Cameron/dp/1585421464/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462820533&sr=1-1&keywords=the+artists+way+by+julia+cameron Helen Reddy “I Am Woman” - https://www.amazon.com/I-Am-Woman-Helen-Reddy-ebook/dp/B004LWYZYK?ie=UTF8&keywords=Helen%20Reddy%20autobiography&qid=1462818747&ref_=sr_1_1&s=books&sr=1-1 Jon Ronson “The Psychopath Test:  A Journey Through the Madness Industry” - http://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Test-Journey-Through-Industry/dp/1594485755/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462818676&sr=1-1&keywords=the+psychopath+test M.E. Thomas “Confessions of a Sociopath:  A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight” -http://www.amazon.com/Confessions-Sociopath-Spent-Hiding-Plain/dp/0307956652?ie=UTF8&keywords=confessions%20of%20a%20sociopath&qid=1462818785&ref_=sr_1_1&s=books&sr=1-1 Music Cues - Chicago “Hard For Me To Say I'm Sorry” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqq3tW3iACw Steppenwolf “Magic Carpet Ride” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4WiyxXpyZc Helen Reddy “You and Me Against The World” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxd-7dTsUfQ Helen Reddy “Can't Say Goodbye To You”- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R49k9iULZR0 Peter Gabriel “In Your Eyes” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3kFPBtc9BE Gloria Gaynor “I Will Survive” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tth-8wA3PdY Salt n Pepa “Let's Talk About Sex” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydrtF45-y-g Helen Reddy “I Am Woman Hear Me Roar” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zu4xpDuf84A Helen Reddy “Peaceful” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3BJjehjOGo Helen Reddy “Ain't No Way To Treat A Lady” -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrhMhOlzry0

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Meditation & Getting Grounded - ep 20

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2016 76:59


    Episode 20 - “Meditation and Getting Grounded in Life & Relationships with guest Darlene Basch" In this episode Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni are joined by Darlene Basch, LCSW to discuss the benefits of meditation, deep breaths, and getting grounded in our relationships.  Darlene shares how the approach she calls Transformation Therapy helps clients and their families get into their bodies and out of their heads to create joyous beautiful lives. More about Darlene and her practice can be found at www.TransformationTherapy.com www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest: Darlene Basch www.TransformationTherapy.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/TransformationTherapywithDarleneBasch 310/937-4974 MENTIONS -  Book: “Search Inside Yourself:  The Unexpected Path to Achieving Success, Happiness (and World Peace)” by Chade-Meng Tan - available on Amazon.com  Meditation Apps: https://www.calm.com/ https://www.insighttimer.com/ http://www.ichillapp.com/ https://www.headspace.com/ Background lighting Apps: https://justgetflux.com/ http://twilight.urbandroid.org/

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Dating Online & Dating Apps - ep 19

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2016 141:09


    Episode 19 - “Dating Online and Dating Apps” - with guests Jonathan Bourne and Ivy Iacono Just in time for Valentine's Day 2016, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni are joined by “Singles Correspondents” Jonathan Bourne and Ivy Iacono for a long but lively conversation about the ins & outs, ups & downs, of the current online dating climate.   Tune in to find out how dating may be like a job interview, what it could take to get to Dr. Wendy's Third Date Chicken Dinner, and why the first five minutes of meeting face-to-face might be the most critical to a romantic relationship. If you ever feel like you're always one stop sign behind Mr. or Mrs. Right, or if you don't even know where the road to love begins, this episode might just be your magic on-ramp. Let's go! www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guests: Jonathan Bourne - @JonathanBourne Ivy Iacono - find her on Facebook! READING, AGING STATICS, AND INFO - Pew Research on Online Dating http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/04/20/5-facts-about-online-dating/ Top Online Dating Sites - Consumer Affairs - http://www.consumeraffairs.com/dating_services/ Best Online Dating Apps - “Here's Where to Find Your New Favorite Dating App” - by Tara Block http://www.popsugar.com/love/Best-Online-Dating-Apps-30583474#photo-30583474 Best Hookup Apps & Sites - "Top 10: Hookup Websites”for Askmen.com - Adam Joseph http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-hookup-websites.html MUSIC CUES - Fiddler on The Roof Soundtrack - “Tevye's Dream” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hG-v-T1t-tg R. Kelly - “Ignition” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6y_4_b6RS8 Joe Cocker - “You Are So Beautiful” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4jwprFiDeU Sir Mixalot - “Baby Got Back” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY84MRnxVzo

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Aging Gracefully - ep 18

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2016 113:05


    Episode 18 - “Aging Gracefully - with Starla Fortunato & Sybil Henry" Two thousand years ago the average Roman had a life expectancy of 22 years.   By 1900 the average American life expectancy was about 50 - but with the advancements in medicine, health care, and technology,  in 2015 it takes us almost 80 years to get to where our bodies used to burn out at age 50. So how do we make those extra years worth it?  How do we take the potential Crisis of Aging and turn it into an Opportunity? Our guests Starla Fortunato and Sybil Henry are two strong insightful women who shared a lot of knowledge on the subject of Aging Gracefully - and it was obvious they're living it every day.   And I'm not gonna candy coat it… this episode has a LOT of estrogen in it.  But because women begin to increasingly outnumber men around the age of 30 - Today there are 128 women to every 100 men over 65, increasing to 196 women for every 100 men by age 80 - because of this, I can't help but think even our male listeners might find this conversation useful. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guests: Starla Fortunato - Photographer www.StarlaFortunato.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/starla.fortunato tw: @StarlaFortunato Sybil Henry - Brand Style Strategist www.TheStyleConcierge.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/HiSybil tw: @SybilHenry Resources & Clips: MENTIONS -  Malcolm Gladwell - “Outliers” http://gladwell.com/outliers/ Ari Seth Coen - Advanced Style (Blog, Movie, Book) http://advancedstyle.blogspot.com/ http://www.advancedstylethemovie.com/ http://www.amazon.com/Advanced-Style-Ari-Seth-Cohen/dp/157687592X Julie Cameron - “The Artist's Way” http://juliacameronlive.com/ http://www.amazon.com/The-Artists-Way-Julia-Cameron/dp/1585421464 Sweetzer Cellar Wines http://sweetzer-cellars.myshopify.com/collections/all https://www.facebook.com/sweetzercellars/ https://twitter.com/sweetzercellars READING, AGING STATICS, AND INFO - http://www.cnn.com/2015/07/03/health/secrets-aging-gracefully/ http://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/features/the-art-of-aging-gracefully http://www.ecumen.org/resources/50-tips-aging-gracefully-ecumen http://www.whitehouseconferenceonaging.gov/about/statistics.html https://www.census.gov/prod/2014pubs/p25-1140.pdf http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/older-american-health.htm MUSIC CUES - Joni Mitchell - “Down To You” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aj-Dl7txva4 Yvonne De Carlo - “I'm Still Here” (from Follies) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SRl89aEvUQ Black Eyed Peas - “Smells Like Funk” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AMqnOTscQnE Macklemore & Ryan Lewis - “Ten Thousand Hours” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxZPNXRT2fQ

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - The Pet/Person Relationship: Pt 2 - ep. 17

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2015 49:17


    Episode 17 - “Pet/Person Relationship:  Pt. 2 - with Douglas Green" Beyond acting as alarm systems, garbage disposals, rodent control, and hunting companions, the pet/person relationship is often a familial bond, with benefits including improvement of health and longevity for both people and animals. Studies are showing that owning a pet can benefit those suffering from a myriad of health and social concerns, including a variety of mental and physical illnesses.    Sure animals might be dirty, tracking mud into our homes, but studies also show that babies raised in households with pets develop less allergies and develop stronger immune systems than those who are not.  Therapeutically, animals are used to promote empathy and responsibility in children and adolescents, including those on the autistic spectrum.    In part 2 of this episode, we continue our conversation about the animal/human connection with Douglas Green (http://www.douglasgreenmft.com/), A marriage and family therapist here in Los Angeles, who has written a book about his own special relationship with a pet, titled "The Teachings of Shirelle:  Life Lessons from a Divine Knucklehead” (www.CavalleriaPress.com).   www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson www.DouglasGreenmft.com www.AskShirelle.com FB: https://www.facebook.com/Ask.Shirelle FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheTeachingsOfShirelle tw: @DougGreenAuthor Book - “The Teachings of Shirelle:  Life Lessons From a Divine Knucklehead” - Douglas Green http://www.amazon.com/The-Teachings-Shirelle-Lessons-Knucklehead/dp/099122812X Resources & Clips: ORGANIZATIONS - http://nkla.org/ https://www.aspca.org/ ARTICLES - Article: “Can Pets Keep Us Healthy?” https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2009/february/feature1.htm Article:  “How Humans Created Cats” http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2013/12/how-humans-created-cats/282391/ Article:  “A Brief History of House Cats” http://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/a-brief-history-of-house-cats-158390681/?no-ist VIDEOS - National Geographic Channel - Brilliant Beasts - "Genius Dog" http://www.natgeotv.com/ca/brilliant-beasts/videos/genius_dog National Geographic Channel - “The Truth About Cats” http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/wild/the-truth-about-cats/ National Geographic Channel - “The Secret Life of Dogs” http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/wild/destination-wild/episodes/the-secret-life-of-dogs/ MUSIC CUES - The Shirelles - “This is Dedicated to the One I Love” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mTeVE4rTm0 Cat Stevens - “I Love My Dog” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qcqk_SEsLPU Harry Nilsson - “Best Friend” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQhVMQ5Wcg8 Ani DeFranco - “Little Plastic Castles” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfhOTopqtnQ The Cure - “Lovecats” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jCxP0d5BtI Laura Nyro & The LaBelle Sisters - "Spanish Harlem" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xb6db0UM0nY The Shirelles - “Welcome Home Baby”  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRReLmsFlww The Shirelles - “Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jo-oXk5Bjrc "Scooby Doo Theme" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_C2HJvtRDY The Shirelles - “Everybody Loves A Lover” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QztqoL66-R0

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Pet/Person Relationship, Pt. 1 - ep. 16

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2015 68:21


    Episode 16 - “Person/Pet Relationships: Pt 1 - with Douglas Green" Animals not only share the earth with us, but are our companions, confidantes, protectors, coworkers, friends, and family... The domestication of cats and dogs runs alongside the evolution of human civilization.  To many of us, our relationships with our animals are as significant as any we have with fellow humans, and the loss of them can be devastating.  In the late 1970s, in Northern Israel, archeologists unearthed the buried remains of a human ancestor positioned with its hands resting on a 6-month old wolf pup – the skeletons are dated at over twelve thousand years old.  Although we cannot be 100% certain of the circumstances contributing to these skeleton postures, researchers believe it's further indication of the long existence of an affectionate bond between person and pet.   While dogs have been joining humans on the nomadic hunt long before we settled into agricultural societies, researchers find evidence of feline domestication may be more recent, only about ninety-five hundred years ago - when we started settling into villages and needed our furry nocturnal friends to aid in population control of rodents attracted to our grain storages.   So, what part of our natural selves do animals bring us back in touch with?  What lessons of life and death can we learn from our relationships with our pets?    In the following episodes we explore some of the special qualities of the animal/human connection and are joined by Douglas Green (http://www.douglasgreenmft.com/), A marriage and family therapist here in Los Angeles, who has written a book about his own special relationship with a pet, titled "The Teachings of Shirelle:  Life Lessons from a Divine Knucklehead” (www.CavalleriaPress.com).   www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson www.DouglasGreenmft.com www.AskShirelle.com FB: https://www.facebook.com/Ask.Shirelle FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheTeachingsOfShirelle tw: @DougGreenAuthor Book - “The Teachings of Shirelle:  Life Lessons From a Divine Knucklehead” - Douglas Green http://www.amazon.com/The-Teachings-Shirelle-Lessons-Knucklehead/dp/099122812X Resources & Clips: http://nkla.org/ https://www.aspca.org/ image of skeletons of Natufian human w/wolf pup http://news.sciencemag.org/sites/default/files/50417W_5.jpg Article: “Can Pets Keep Us Healthy?” https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2009/february/feature1.htm Article: “Evidence for Domestication of the dog 12,000 years ago in the Natufian of Israel" http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v276/n5688/abs/276608a0.html Article:  “How Humans Created Cats” http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2013/12/how-humans-created-cats/282391/ Article:  “A Brief History of House Cats” http://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/a-brief-history-of-house-cats-158390681/?no-ist Book - The Blessings of a Skinned Knee - Wendy Mogel, PhD http://www.wendymogel.com/books/skinned_knee The Chiffons - "One Fine Day" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvyOqKhKWQ4 Theme from Love Story (1970) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTSc4hBdCd0 Meghan Trainor - “Credit" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJgqrLtFTZg The Shirelles - “Mama Said" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQlImg2bm28

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - 2015 Holiday Hell Survival Guide: Part 2 - ep. 15

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2015 47:30


    Episode 15 - "2015 Holiday Hell Survival Guide: Part 2" In Part Two of our 2015 Holiday Hell Survival Guide, we're talking more with friend-of-the-show Ivy Iocano about party etiquette, navigating gifting gaffs, and some ways to handle any seasonal heaviness that might pop up.  So grab your dream journals, dreidels, and santa hats as we explore how one might maintain a sense of self during this traditionally self-less time of year.  Happy Holidays, y'all, from all of us here at The Relationship Show! www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources & Clips: Carole King - “Chanukah Prayer” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktJ8UERYBc0 Tony Bennett - “I'll Be Home For Christmas” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8T1ft2VYe14 Idina Menzel - “Do You Hear What I Hear?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4vWEStMuXY She & Him - “Baby It's Cold Outside” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVz6TCT5Bjs Judy Garland - “Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nH9RyySpkU8 Tracey Thorn - “Hard Candy Christmas” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkBzofZhYp4 Robert Earl Keen - “Merry Christmas From The Family https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TS682UIPcqs Keb Mo - “Shopping on Christmas Eve” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j7HkJJLeIA Mariah Carey - “All I Want For Christmas Is You” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXQViqx6GMY Lou Rawls - “What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ7bH8pFZgc Andy Williams - “Happy Holidays https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8W2ZyDNk8w For further reading: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/focus-forgiveness/201411/home-the-holidays-your-survival-guide https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/panic-life/201411/survive-the-holidays-social-anxiety http://www.brownepsychservices.com/#!Holiday-Survival-Guide-Feeling-Alone/c216m/9E080A28-E8A4-4EA0-9D20-4AF78BDAD1A0 http://www.realsimple.com/holidays-entertaining/holidays/holiday-survival-guide

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - 2015 Holiday Hell Survival Guide: Part 1 - ep. 14

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2015 60:35


    Episode 14 - "2015 Holiday Hell Survival Guide: Part 1" The holidays can be stressful in a myriad of ways and bring out the worst in people.  It seems there are million things to juggle and hundreds of people to please - how do we not get swept away by it all? With the end of the year holidays upon us, Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni have some ideas about how to get ahead of it.  They are joined by friend-of-the-show and "Singles Correspondent" Ivy Iocano to reflect on ways we can be loving and giving without sacrificing ourselves or our sanity.   In Part 1, they look at some ways families can approach interfaith and multicultural issues, how one might gracefully dodge those awkward and uncomfortable moments at holiday gatherings, and when to bring a new special someone to those inner circle holiday festivities.  So grab your scarves and muffs, as we wander in a Winter Wonderland... www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources & Clips: The Ronettes - "Sleigh Ride”  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6rDA2Czz0E Sesame Street - "People In Your Neighborhood" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YApVVllpJmM Yo Yo Ma - “Silent Night” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKn9Jfu4sV4 Rockapella - "Dreidel Dreidel Dreidel” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj8CS9GjBjQ National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation (1989) http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097958/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXkMaZz5Mo8 Michael Buble - "It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas” Adam Sandler - "The Thanksgiving song” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqGkbVXSaKU The Waitreses - “Christmas Wrapping” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nud2TQNahaU Vince Guaraldi Trio - “Christmas Time Is Here” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvI_FNrczzQ For further reading: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/focus-forgiveness/201411/home-the-holidays-your-survival-guide https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/panic-life/201411/survive-the-holidays-social-anxiety http://www.brownepsychservices.com/#!Holiday-Survival-Guide-Feeling-Alone/c216m/9E080A28-E8A4-4EA0-9D20-4AF78BDAD1A0 http://www.realsimple.com/holidays-entertaining/holidays/holiday-survival-guide

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Ashley Madison Hack: The Impact of Affairs, Technology, & Schadenfreude on Committed Relationships, Pt. 2 - ep. 13

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2015 45:59


    Episode 13 - “Ashley Madison Hack:  The Impact of Affairs, Technology, & Schadenfreude on Committed Relationships”:  Part 2  Looking for emotional connection outside a romantic relationship might mean game over for some people, or it could just be a game some people play.   In Part 2 of this episode, Wendy, Jenni, & Candace continue their conversation on the Ashley Madison hack and what it says about technology's power to prevent and distract from intimacy.  These days, with the fantasy of an affair being just a click away, how do we stay focused on our partners??  How does anyone trust their partners - especially if they've been hurt before?   Perhaps the answer to it all is hidden in Shakespeare's Sonnet one sixteen… tune in to find out!  **Correction: in this episode Miss Jenni refers to an essay on UnMonogamy by Camille Paglia - which is incorrect.  The essay entitled "UnMonogamy:  Loving Tricks and Tricking Lovers” was written by author Pat Califia and is included in her book “Public Sex:  The Culture of Radical Sex” (2nd edition, 2000) www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson www.CandaceMcKenzie.net tw:  @CMcKenzieD Resources & Clips: Recommended Ashley Madison Hack Coverage - http://www.wired.com/tag/ashley-madison/ AshleyMadison.com Nancy Wilson - Face It Girl, It's Over https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQXagInaXIU Esther Perel http://www.estherperel.com/ Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt http://harvilleandhelen.com/ John Gottman http://www.gottman.com/ Pat Califia - Public Sex:  The Culture of Radical Sex - "UnMonogamy: Loving Tricks and Tricking Lovers" http://pdfbook.caninebytes.com/read-free-online/620927.Public_Sex.html Peggy Vaughn - The Monogamy Myth http://www.dearpeggy.com/myth.html Erik Erikson's Stages of Development http://www.simplypsychology.org/Erik-Erikson.html William Shakespeare - Sonnet 116 http://www.shakespeare-online.com/sonnets/116detail.html

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Ashley Madison Hack: The Impact of Affairs, Technology, & Schadenfreude on Committed Relationships, Pt. 1 - ep. 12

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2015 60:06


    Episode 12 - “Ashley Madison Hack, Part 1:  The Impact of Affairs, Technology, & Schadenfreude on Committed Relationships” Due to hackers exposing millions of AshleyMadison.com users, recent conversations around the globe have been more focused on technology and infidelity in committed relationships.  Are online sites like Ashley Madison just the new personal ads?   What constitutes an affair?  Could even fantasizing become forbidden fruit? Is sexual monogamy the only way of expressing loyalty and commitment in long-term relationships? Should a partner's infidelity always be a traumatic event or is un-monogamy just another untamable part of human nature?  In this episode, Dr. Wendy and I are joined by Candace Dale Mckenzie (www.candacemckenzie.net) to take a closer look at the potential impact of the Ashley Madison Hack and the psychological consequences this cyber crime might have on modern romance. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources: Recommended Ashley Madison Hack Coverage - http://www.wired.com/tag/ashley-madison/ AshleyMadison.com Esther Perel http://www.estherperel.com/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en Rupert Holmes - Escape (The Piña Colada Song) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TazHNpt6OTo Frank Sinatra - All or Nothing At All https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfeBAo-08c0 Peaches & Herb - Reunited https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaem79tZ6W4 Jill Sobule - The Girl In The Affair https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnfszQjELrQ Gloria Gaynor - I Will Survive https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Faf1ch7Q9XE

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - "Ghosting": The Haunted Goodbye - ep. 11

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2015 71:57


    Episode 11 - “Ghosting”  - the Haunting Goodbye Breaking up has always been hard to do – so is “ghosting” - the haunting goodbye - just a new way of doing the same old thing – you know, that conflict avoidant thing formerly known as bailing, ditching, or blowing someone off?  Disappearing without a trace, ghosting is proving itself to be the newest trend in breaking off a relationship with no contact and no explanation. Current stats show women ghost more often than men, and that the majority of those under age 30 are using digital media to break-up with people - significant or otherwise.  Breaking up face-to-face or even over a phone call is becoming as rare as the critically endangered Cross River Gorilla.  So, what matters more – the message or the messaging system?  What do you do when being iced out with no closure?  What's the etiquette if you're the ghoster or ghostee?   And does ghosting speak to a larger societal or generational trend?  Or is this just human nature being played out on cell phones in the hands of old and young alike?   In this episode, Dr. Wendy and I are joined by Candace Dale Mackenzie (www.candacemckenzie.net) for a conversation about the psychology and impact of saying goodbye by going radio silent.  www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources: Modern Romance - by Aziz Ansari (with Eric Klinenberg) http://book.azizansari.com/ Billie Holiday - These Foolish Things https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_20tKuKtF8 Psychedelic Furs - Ghost In You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T87u5yuUVi8

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - The Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality Relationship, Pt. 2 - ep 10

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2015 38:13


    Episode 10 -  "Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality in a Relationship: Part 2" - In part 2 of this episode, we continue our exploration of what's likely to happen when a BPD* meets an NPD** and they fall in love.    Sure these are some mighty attractive people, but what's the attraction? And they can be some of the smartest people you'll ever meet, so why can't they break the fight-fuck cycle?  What's the long-term likelihood these two will stay together and actually work it out? In our efforts to illustrate some of the behaviors and relationship dynamics we're talking about, we refer to popular songs, high profile personalities and or couples, and recognizable pairings from real or fictional relationships. Tweet us your own #ToxicLove sitings in movies or TV at @AskDrWendy! *It is important to note, every person is different. The information in this podcast is not meant to be used as a clinical diagnosis. **Another important thing to point out is that we believe strongly that people are not their diagnoses.  However, in conversation about these personality disorders professionals often resort to shorthand, referring to someone with borderline personality disorder (BPD) as "a borderline" or someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as “a narcissist”.   We are no exception. However, this is a habit you will hear us actively trying to break in this public forum. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson CLIPS: Madonna - Borderline   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSaC-YbSDpo Macy Gray - Boo - no official video   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqWwRnf0eRA Black Eyed Peas - Shut Up  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRzMtlZjXpU Tina Turner - What's Love Got to Do with It  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGpFcHTxjZs Everything But the Girl - Rollercoaster    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQZNZ44ooZACaro Emerald - That Man   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9Xtl22x5Sg RESOURCES mentioned: ONLINE -  Welcome to Oz Forum -  https://www.bpdcentral.com/faq/family-member https://www.bpdcentral.com/narcissistic-disorder/hallmarks-of-npd/ https://www.bpdcentral.com/borderline-disorder/hallmarks-of-bpd/ National Alliance on Mental Illness - https://www.nami.org/ BOOKS - Stop Walking On Eggshells - by Paul T. Mason, MS, and Randi Kreger http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1438227586&sr=8-1&keywords=stop+walking+on+eggshells Stop Walking on Eggshells workbook - by Randi Kreger http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Workbook-Personality/dp/1572242760/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1438227586&sr=8-3&keywords=stop+walking+on+eggshells Disarming the Narcissist - Wendy T. Behary http://www.amazon.com/Disarming-Narcissist-Surviving-Thriving-Self-Absorbed/dp/1608827607/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1438227696&sr=1-1&keywords=disarming+the+narcissist DVDs - Burton and Taylor - DVD http://www.amazon.com/Burton-Taylor-Helena-Bonham-Carter/dp/B00DC5JVE6/ref=sr_1_1?s=movies-tv&ie=UTF8&qid=1438227738&sr=1-1&keywords=burton+and+taylor War of The Roses - Blu-ray http://www.amazon.com/War-Roses-Filmmaker-Signature-Blu-ray/dp/B008YAPQSY/ref=sr_1_1?s=movies-tv&ie=UTF8&qid=1438227770&sr=1-1&keywords=war+of+the+roses+blu+ray

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - The Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality Relationship, Pt. 1 - ep 9

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2015 45:12


    Episode 9 - "Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality in a Relationship: Part 1" - In part one, we discuss what Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) look and feel like to the uninitiated.  We explore what's likely to happen when a BPD meets a NPD and they fall in love.  We point out some of the recognizable developmental similarities between these two diagnoses, and talk about what can happen when these two choose to have children together.   *It's important to note that every person is different. The information in this podcast is not meant to be used as a clinical diagnosis. **Another important thing to point out is that we believe strongly that people are not their diagnoses.  However, in conversation about these personality disorders professionals often resort to shorthand, referring to someone with BPD as "a borderline" or someone with NPD as “a narcissist”.  We are no exception. However, this is a habit you will hear us actively trying to break in this public forum. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson SONG CLIPS from: Katy Perry - Hot N Cold   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTHNpusq654 Madonna - Borderline   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSaC-YbSDpo Carly Simon - You're So Vain  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j13oJajXx0M Ann Margaret - Let Me Entertain You  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zk4SyakxFWU Macy Gray - Still https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXhqT7XlFeM Billy Joel - She's Always A Woman  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cx3QmqV2pHg Joan Armatrading - When I Get It Right  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuwJZN_MeQ4 Rod Stewart - Da Ya Think I'm Sexy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hphwfq1wLJs

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Secrets & Lies, Pt. 2 - ep 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2015 47:38


    Episode 8 -  “Secrets and Lies: Part 2" - In part 2 of this episode, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni continue their conversation with Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT - (www.candacemckenzie.net).  As they further explore the influence of “Secrets and Lies” on modern relationships, these off-duty therapists take a closer look at deceptions in social media, internet dating, and what it all might have to do with the latest season of Bravo TV's “Shahs of Sunset”… Even if we all keep secrets and tell lies, can we minimize their negative impact on our lives and in our most important relationships? You'll have to listen, because we'll never tell! www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources mentioned: http://www.bravotv.com/shahs-of-sunset https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JoYmWT_TDQs

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Secrets & Lies, Pt. 1 - ep 7

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2015 44:27


    Episode 7 -  “Secrets and Lies: Part 1" - In this episode, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni sit down with their pal Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT (www.candacemckenzie.net) to explore what influence “Secrets and Lies” can have on our relationships. Should we tell our partners and children everything?  Do we HAVE to?  And how much information is TOO much information?  Even if we all keep secrets and tell lies, can we minimize their negative impact on our lives and in our most important relationships? www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Chemistry & Compatibility, Pt. 2 - ep 6

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2015 39:28


    Episode 6 - "Chemistry and Compatibility:  Part 2" - Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni continue their conversation on Chemistry & Compatibility on the eve of the 2015 Erickson Foundation Couples Therapy Convention.   "Twin-ship" may be creepy in a devoted couple, but is it better if opposites attract?  They share more thoughts on noted compatibility areas such as: sex, religion, and politics, “pontificate” on the attractiveness of seeing one's partner radiant & enthusiastic, and spitball on ways to rediscover lost chemistry when the “hotness” wears off. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Resources mentioned: John Gottman w/Nan Silver - https://www.gottman.com/couples/  “The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work” and   “What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal” Harville Hendrix and Helen Lakelly Hunt - http://www.harvillehendrix.com/  “Getting The Love You Want:  A Guide For Couples” Gary Chapman - http://www.5lovelanguages.com/  “The 5 Love Languages:  The Secret to Love that Lasts" "Myers-Briggs” Type/MBTI-like Tests (unofficial):  http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp http://personality-testing.info/tests/OEJTS/

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Chemistry & Compatibility, Pt. 1 - ep 5

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2015 43:48


    Episode 5 - "Chemistry and Compatibility:  Part 1" - From the Manhattan Beach Marriott, Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni sat down on the eve of the 2015 Erickson Foundation Couples Therapy Convention to split a Snickers bar and traverse the topic of Chemistry and Compatibility in long-term Coupledom.  Is one more important than the other?  Should we all be looking for our twin or our complete opposite? www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Body Image, Pt. 2 - ep 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2015 45:04


    Episode 4 - "Body Image, Self-Esteem, and Eating Disorders in Relationships: Part 2" - In Part 2 of this episode, Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni continue their conversation with Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT (www.candacemckenzie.net) on Body Image, Eating Disorders, Self-Esteem, and Relationships.  Providing tips and resources to challenge the messages keeping us stuck, they share ideas on improving interactions with those who might not think as much of themselves as others do.   Hashtag mentioned:  #messagetomyyoungerself www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson

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    The Relationship Show with Dr. Wendy & Miss Jenni - Body Image, Pt. 1 - ep 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2015 44:43


    Episode 3 - "Body Image, Self-Esteem, and Eating Disorders in Relationships: Part 1" - In this episode, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni are joined by their friend and colleague Candace Dale McKenzie, LMFT (www.candacemckenzie.net), who knows a little something about eating disorders.  The conversation explores how our body image can affect our relationships with others, food, the media, and most importantly, ourselves.   www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson

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