Podcasts about your kids about sex

Navigating the teenage years has never been easy, whether you're the parent or the child. So as parents, how can you help your teenager or pre-teen have a better experience? What practically can you do to put them in a stronger position to navigate their teenage years safely, with more clarity about God's love for them and design for their sexuality? Three guests – James Talbert, Josh Miller, and Chelsey Nutgren – join Juli to share some much-needed practical advice for raising surrendered kids in our current cultural moment.   Guests: James Talbert, Josh Miller, Chelsey Nutgren   James' Website: Citizens Akron Josh's Website: Riverwood Chapel Akron   Website: AXIS.org Website: Center for Humane Technology   Resource Series: Blog: Talking to Your Kids About Sex: Why, When, and How Blog: 5 Reasons You're Not Talking to Your Kids About Sex (and How to Overcome Them) Blog: Sexual Integrity: The Heart of Sexually Discipling Your Kids   Find out more about donating to Authentic Intimacy.   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Guys, are you ready to take back control of the sex education your kids receive? It's been an ever growing trend to let outside influences shape our children's understanding of sexuality.  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Rodney Wright, author of ‘How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex'. Rodney is a seasoned veteran with Pure Desire Ministries and shares his wisdom on how to guide your kids through these sensitive topics with confidence and clarity. Men, this isn't just a conversation, it's a call to action to break the silence in our faith communities - it's more important than ever! Check out Rodney's Book (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God   Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30!  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon.   

This month, we have dedicated our episodes to talking about sex. Not always the easiest topic to handle, especially with our children, but a necessary one. First, we laid a foundation and discussed the theology of sex. Then we talked about the psychology of sex and how conversations will change over the years with our children. On this episode of Coming & Going, we will discuss what it looks like to answer the tough, awkward, and crucial questions that our kids bring to us regarding sex. Joe sits down with Ben and Kathy Kelly, to chat about how they have navigated this topic within their parenting.Resources: Listen to the last two episodes on this topic here!Navigating Conversations About Sexuality Throughout the Years with Elizabeth Strong: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEO1V0ee1z0&list=PLmCIM7qAZkgDV0Cp8HWiSkEsqDwNsSsT7Talking to Your Kids About Sex & Sexuality with Pastor Jacob Ley: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3svBcWtFqyA&list=PLmCIM7qAZkgDV0Cp8HWiSkEsqDwNsSsT7&index=2See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sexual Integrity…sounds like a hard concept to grasp and an even harder concept to teach the kids we love. But our new friend Jim Burns and our long-time friend, Erin Mashaw, have written a book to help us do just that! We're so excited about this book and about our conversation with Jim and Erin that brings such grace, hope and wisdom to the topic. We can't wait for you to listen in on this one.  A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity: God's Plan for Sex and Your Body (For Ages 10-17 or Grades 6-12)  Doing Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out HomeWord If you enjoyed this episode, you may also find this episode as helpful. Ep 56: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex . . . . . Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube! Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . . If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor: Hiya Health: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/RBG. This deal is not available on their regular website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

During this 2024 Restore presentation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares valuable insights on how parents can foster an ongoing, healthy, and honest dialogue with their children about sex and how doing so will empower them to make informed, confident, and integrity-driven choices around sexuality. For a deeper exploration on these topics, enroll in Dr. Finlayson-Fife's recently updated How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex course!

Micah and Tori join Matt for a conversation about gospel transformation and sexuality. How does the freedom that gospel transformation provides apply to our sexual lives? How do we navigate this in our lives in order to prevent the destructive realities that can occur? Check out the book: How to Talk with Your Kids About Sex by Rodney and Tracie Wright. You can find it on the Pure Desire Ministries website.

Today we're diving into How to Talk to Your Kids About SEX, SEXUALITY & GENDER with founder of Garden to Garden Biblical Consulting (and dear friend of mine), Leah Kate King. In this episode, we're diving into the crucial conversations Christian parents need to have with their kids about sex and sexuality.  Leah shares insights on what she wishes more Christians understood about these topics and the essential teachings we should be passing on to our children. We explore some of the biggest misconceptions and confusions young people face regarding sexuality and how parents can help guide them through these challenges. Leah also shares practical tips for fostering an open and honest environment where kids feel comfortable asking questions and advice for parents who might feel uneasy or unprepared for these conversations. To connect with Leah, head over to @leahkateking / @garden_to_garden_bc on IG or https://gardentogardenbiblicalconsulting.com! SHOP MY BOOKS: Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3Lusgrz Love Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs  FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose  Shop my favorite Bible studies + devotionals, code HANNAHHUGHES: ⁠thedailygraceco.com/HANNAHH⁠  Connect: ⁠www.thehannahhughes.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/⁠  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thebywordsshow/⁠  Shop my Amazon faves: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bywords/support

This episode is a really special one. I am delighted to introduce you to today's guest, John Fort. John is the director of Be Broken Ministries, which exists to help individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ.  John is also the author of several books, including Honest Talk—a New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, which we talk about today. John vulnerably and courageously shares his story of sexual and pornography addiction and how God has redeemed his story to give him a purpose driven by hope and healing.  I loved talking with John!  He is full of wisdom, reassurance and, there's that word again, hope. He encourages parents to be honest with their kids about their own sexual past and then shows us how to do it. I read his book cover to cover in a few days and I can't encourage you enough to get your own copy. But start by listening to this episode and getting to know John better. You'll be so glad you did!  Find John here: Be Broken Ministries Find John's books here: Honest Talk—a new perspective on talking to your kids about sex Father-Son Accountability : Integrity Through Relationship  Some favorite quotes from today's episode: *”I was a little afraid to get into this work but God kept shutting all the other doors. It was like He said, “I didn't bring you out of this for nothing.” John Fort *”There is so much freedom in honesty.” Greta Eskridge  *”Look at what God did! He did it for me and He can do it for you.” Greta Eskridge *”If parents would be brave enough to tell their own story then their kids would be able to say, ‘oh you do understand!' and then they could talk.” John Fort *”He realized at that moment that he was not too broken to be loved by his parents or by God. For the first time he felt a surge of hope that he had someone to talk to about sex and maybe his father could help him. That event , just hearing his father's sexual story became the turning point for this young man to actively engage in his own journey to sexual wholeness.” John Fort *”My problem had nothing to do with sex. I was using pornography and other sexual things to deal with emotions I didn't know what to do with.” John Fort *”The days I looked at pornography as a teenager were the days something bad happened and I didn't know what to do with that.” John Fort *”If in our house we never talk about body parts, we never talk about anything, that gives the silent message that it's not OK to talk about these things.” John Fort *”We surveyed a bunch of teenagers and asked why don't you talk to your parents about sex. They had two answers: ‘I'm afraid my parents won't understand my past' or ‘I'll get in trouble for what I say or even what I ask.'” John Fort *”Your story is simply a way to show them it is OK to talk about these things.” John Fort *”We can pretend its not happening or we can just talk about it.” Greta Eskridge  *”You don't even know what your kids are dealing with until you ask. And the older they get the more often we have to ask them what they're seeing and what they're hearing.” John Fort *”People are looking for help for their addictions and hope for their broken hearts. They want living water. If we run away or become judgmental or uncomfortable any time we see sexual pain, we will miss the greatest opportunities to enter the pain of their sexual brokenness and share the love of Jesus Christ.” Julie Slattery *”Emotional resilience is connected to sexual wholeness.” Greta Eskridge  *“We think that telling our story is going to make our kids not respect us, but the opposite is true if we do it well.” John Fort  Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my show! I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a rating and review of the podcast if you haven't already. I appreciate each one of you. Keep chasing joy! Greta The Greta Eskridge Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org 

Teaching your children the truth about sex might seem a bit scary, but if you don't do it, who will? Television? Movies? The public school system? Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his insightful discussion with Dr. Kevin Leman and Kathy Flores Bell about their book, A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sex. You'll not only learn how to give your children the truth and guidance they need about the serious subject of sex, but you may even deepen your relationship with them as well. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

As a parent you may have experienced an overwhelming sense of panic when you realize it's time to have that talk about the birds and the bees with your kids. On today's edition of Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson talks with Christian psychologist, author and speaker, Dr. Kevin Leman, and co-founder of Team Lizzie Bell, Kathy Flores Bell, about the book they co-authored entitled, A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sex. You'll be enlightened and entertained as you learn how you can trade those sweaty palms and the dread of the sex talk for a much more prepared and natural discussion with your kids. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andee Martineau of the Connect Method Parenting Podcast to share valuable insights on how parents can foster an ongoing, healthy, and honest dialogue with their children and how doing so will empower them to make informed, confident, and integrity-driven choices about their desires and sexuality. For a deeper exploration on these topics, enroll in Dr. Finlayson-Fife's recently updated How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex course!

Welcome to Episode 153 of the Being Human Podcast: How to Talk About Gender Issues How do we talk about gender issues to people who don't necessarily share the same views? How can we make sense of the gender ideologies and confusion so prevalent in our culture today? In this week's episode, Dr. Greg shares important principles to remember when engaging others in conversation on this sensitive topic.   Discussed in the episode:  How do we communicate a Catholic perspective on gender ideology to those who may not share the same perspective? The meaning and importance of owning our mistakes as a Church; Entering into relationship with another as a necessary prerequisite to evangelizing with love; Why it's essential to recognize the distinction between gender stereotypes and gender identity; The importance of understanding that each person has different parts and experiences within themselves; How communion can be possible in the midst of varying parts and perspectives; Seeing the developmental stages starting from conception as a gradual becoming more of who God calls us to be; Why modeling from the same-sex parent and complementarity from the opposite-sex parent significantly impacts the formation of a child's identity.   Resources mentioned or relevant:  Past Being Human episodes:  Episode #151: From Gender Dysphoria to Gender Integration: A Proposal Episode #152: Towards a New Revolution of Gender Truth Episode #149: A New Approach to the Gender Crisis;   Episode #148: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex; Episode #75: Gender Fluidity or Complementarity? (Part 1 of 4) Episode #35: Why Do I Feel Like I Have Conflicting Parts? w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski;  Learn more about our CPMAP Certification;  Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, for encouragement on your journey of becoming the best human you can be; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE's - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow us on Instagram: @catholicpsych; Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  

Welcome to Episode 152 of the Being Human Podcast: Towards a New Revolution of Gender Truth What are some ways that transgenderism develops? Why is it important to our human development to have both a mom and a dad? How can we understand the equality of men and women while recognizing the presence of differences? In this week's episode, Dr. Greg answers these questions while breaking open how the current gender crisis provides an opportunity to discover on a deeper level the glory of God shining through our being made as male and female.     Discussed in the episode:  What Saint Thomas Aquinas got wrong about men and women; How St. John Paul II's Theology of the Body gave the Church a positive path forward on issues related to family, marriage, and human sexuality; The need for a compassionate yet truthful approach to the gender crisis;  Why children need a model of healthy masculinity and femininity from their parents; Why we are called to be integrated beings and to develop both masculine and feminine characteristics;  What the case of Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner can teach us about underlying trauma in gender confusion; Why we need to go beyond gender stereotypes when defining what constitutes a man or a woman;  Proposing “gender integration” as the solution to the gender crisis.   Resources mentioned or relevant:  Learn more about our CPMAP Certification! Past Being Human Gender Series Episodes:  Episode 151: From Gender Dysphoria to Gender Integration: A Proposal Episode #149: A New Approach to the Gender Crisis;   Episode #148: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex;  Episode #110: Beyond Stereotypes: Gender, Culture, and Catholicism w/ Dr. Jennifer E. Morel;  Episode #75: Gender Fluidity or Complementarity? (Part 1 of 4) Dr. John Money and the Sinister Origins of Gender Ideology;  Learn more about our CPMAP Certification! Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, for encouragement on your journey of becoming the best human you can be; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE's - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow us on Instagram: @catholicpsych; Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  

Welcome to Episode 151 of the Being Human Podcast: From Gender Dysphoria to Gender Integration: A Proposal We're in the midst of what could be considered a gender revolution. What's the answer to the rapidly growing gender dysphoria prevalent in our culture? In this week's episode, Dr. Greg proposes how a new and deepening understanding of Church teaching can provide the antidote to gender confusion.    Discussed in the episode:  The importance of understanding gender as being deeply tied to our biology;  How the gender confusion prevalent in our culture can prompt a new and deepening understanding of God's design for our sexuality;  What is the intrinsic connection between our body, our spirit, and our personhood? Our need to have new formulations of answers that pull from the traditions of the Church in response to the questions our culture is asking about gender; Following Christ's example of upholding objective truth while also entering into the pain and suffering of people when addressing the issue of gender confusion; How the relationship between and with mom and dad contributes to a child's psychosexual development;  The impact of distortions in our relationship with mom and/or dad and how that can contribute to gender confusion; How our current culture contributes to “rapid onset” gender dysphoria and confusion;  Self-hatred as one of the root causes of gender dysphoria; Proposing “gender integration” as the solution to the “gender revolution” confusion.    Resources mentioned or relevant:  Learn more about our CPMAP Certification! Past Being Human Gender Series Episodes:  Episode #149: A New Approach to the Gender Crisis;   Episode #148: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex;  Episode #110: Beyond Stereotypes: Gender, Culture, and Catholicism w/ Dr. Jennifer E. Morel;  Episode #75: Gender Fluidity or Complementarity? (Part 1 of 4) Letter to the Bishops of the Catholic Church on the Collaboration of Men and Women in the Church and in the World by Pope Benedict XVI;  What is a Woman? Documentary by Matt Walsh; Learn more about the masculine and feminine genius in Dr. Greg's Relationships course, A Marriage Built to Last;  Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, for encouragement on your journey of becoming the best human you can be; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE's - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow us on Instagram: @catholicpsych; Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  

When it comes to educating kids about sexuality, a ‘one and done' conversational approach is just not enough to equip them with the knowledge and understanding they need to make sense of sex and gender in our cultural landscape. So if that doesn't work, what should we be doing? As we continue our series working through different themes around God and sexuality, Juli and Hannah Nitz sit down in this special edition bonus episode to explain what it looks like to teach your kids about biblical sexuality in our current cultural moment.     Guest: Hannah Nitz     Looking for more resources on talking to kids about sex? Click here Blog: Talking to Your Kids About Sex: Why, When, and How Blog: 5 Reasons You're Not Talking to Your Kids About Sex (and How to Overcome Them) Blog: Sexual Integrity: The Heart of Sexually Discipling Your Kids Java with Juli: #486 Teaching Sexual Discipleship: How to Walk in Truth and Love with LGBTQ+ Kids

Jeremy Waldridge of Pure Life Alliance helps us understand the struggles of sexual brokenness and the hope for healing. ABOUT JEREMY WALDRIDGE: Jeremy Waldridge is the executive director of Pure Life Alliance and has over a decade of experience leading men out of the crippling effects of shame and addiction. ADDITIONAL RESOURCE: Books: Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slatterly Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex by John W Ford Ministries: Pure Life Alliance Pure Desire Be Broken Filters: Vid Angel - Movies Covenant Eyes Plucky Accountable to You

Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF's “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org Show Notes: Earlier this season, Nicole Breining spoke about her husband's pornography addiction that resulted in betrayal trauma and a serious strain on their relationship. But what impact does pornography addiction have on the rest of the family? Do kids experience a similar type of trauma when they learn parents struggle with a problematic sexual behavior? How should parents respond if and when they discover their children are viewing pornography? In this episode of Crosspoint, Dr. John Thorington addresses these questions. John is a licensed professional counselor and certified sexual recovery therapist, and he has a private practice in Huntsville, Alabama, called Restoring Hearts Counseling. If you haven't already, listen to his first episode with Crosspoint from its first season, titled “The Theological Implications of Addiction.” John talks about how parents might navigate a conversation with kids when a parent is struggling with problematic sexual behaviors, how to set boundaries in recovery, and what resources to use in next steps. We then flip the script to talk about how parents can move forward when they learn their child is the one struggling with problematic sexual behaviors, turning to God's design rather than the world's during ongoing conversations. Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode:  Restoring Hearts Counseling, John's practice that offers competent counseling and treats teen pornography addiction and other compulsive online behaviors with a Christian perspective Pure Desire Ministries, which seeks to provide hope, freedom, and healing from sexual brokenness through Jesus Christ Be Broken Ministries, which helps men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ and equips others to do the same Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents by Daniel Weiss and Joshua Glaser, written to help parents navigate conversations with their kids about pornography Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex by John Fort, a guide that provides parents a new approach to help children safely navigate today's hypersexual culture The Porn Phenomenon: The Impact of Pornography in the Digital Age, a Barna Report published in partnership with Josh McDowell Ministries Focus on the Family, a global Christian ministry dedicated to helping families thrive Covenant Eyes: Screen Accountability™ Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships by Barb Winters Pure Teens: Honoring God, Relationships, and Sex by Dr. John Thorington As you listen to this conversation with John, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor:  What is the value of backing up promises with action when navigating recovery from addiction with your family? If you're a parent finding out that your child is viewing pornography, how can you make sure you respond well so that your relationship is not damaged? What can we learn from Jesus' example as He interacts with the woman at the well in John 4:1-26? How can you be proactive in educating your kids about God's design for sex and sexuality in a world where we often see a rebellion against that design? John talks about the potential harm we can do by framing conversations about sex in a negative light. How ought God's design and His positive view of it shape how we talk about sex? 

Today is part two of Raising Christ Followers in an Over sexualized Culture. Angie jumps in all the tough conversations parents need to have about sex, sexual identity theory and the LGBTQ+ movement. Here are two of the invaluable resources you cite in this article that you  may find useful.   Ten of the Best Resources to Talk to Your Kids About Sex https://mytruegirl.com/blog/ten-of-the-best-resources-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-sex/   A Catholic Response to Gender Identity Theory chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://files.ecatholic.com/12494/documents/2023/1/EN_A%20Catholic%20Response%20to%20Gender%20Identity%20Theory_FINAL2023.pdf?t=1674605305000   You can also learn more about Valor Global Online at www.valoronline.org To buy Angie's book, The Way of Valor  https://www.amazon.com/Way-Valor-Education-Culture-Changing-Generation/dp/1955362033/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=  

Today is part one of Raising Christ Followers in an Over sexualized Culture. Angie jumps in all the tough conversations parents need to have about sex, sexual identity theory and the LGBTQ+ movement. Here are two of the invaluable resources you cite in this article that you  may find useful.   Ten of the Best Resources to Talk to Your Kids About Sex https://mytruegirl.com/blog/ten-of-the-best-resources-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-sex/   A Catholic Response to Gender Identity Theory chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://files.ecatholic.com/12494/documents/2023/1/EN_A%20Catholic%20Response%20to%20Gender%20Identity%20Theory_FINAL2023.pdf?t=1674605305000   You can also learn more about Valor Global Online at www.valoronline.org To buy Angie's book, The Way of Valor  https://www.amazon.com/Way-Valor-Education-Culture-Changing-Generation/dp/1955362033/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=  

**Part 1 of 2 with John Fort** Join us in this episode to learn from John Fort, Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries. John is the author of Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, which discusses 6 critical conversations we need to have with our kids. John helps us see that we can't just think of "The Talk" -- this is a conversation that starts with emotions and feelings and goes on for years. Through these two episodes, you will be much better equipped to discuss this sensitive but incredibly important topic with your children. Let us not shy away but dive in -- for the sake of our children's purity and wholeness!

How do we teach kids that God made their bodies and that He made their bodies good? Are there creative and intentional ways to connect with kids and help them develop a Biblical theology around their bodies? In this episode, Juli connects with her friend Francie Winslow, a mother of six on a mission to imprint upon the hearts of her children the beauty of God's design of their bodies and vision for their sexuality.   Guest: Francie Winslow     Francie's Instagram: @franciewinslow Francie's Website: franciewinslow.com/ Podcast: Heaven in Your Home Album: Heaven in Your Home Family Music Blog: 5 Reasons You're Not Talking to Your Kids About Sex (and  How to Overcome Them) Java with Juli: #460 How to Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality With Your Kids

Duke & North Carolina University hospitals encourage and perform transgender treatment on 2 year olds and the WHO recommends sexual education for infants age 0-4. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Michael Gasparro joins Trending with Timmerie to discuss.  (4:27)  What is a Christian's response to pride month? (27:12) Resources and tips for talking to your kids about sex in an age appropriate way. (39:05)   Resources mentioned :    Courage – for Catholics experiencing same sex attraction  https://couragerc.org/   Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Sex  https://www.amazon.com/Tips-Talking-Your-Kids-about/dp/B085HLJ86X    Theology of His Body & Her Body  https://ascensionpress.com/products/theology-of-his-body-slash-theology-of-her-body-2-books-1-volume    Person and Identity Project – Parent Resources  https://personandidentity.com/parents/   Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Porn Proofing Your Home  https://www.amazon.com/Good-Pictures-Bad-Porn-Proofing-Todays/dp/0615927335   Made this Way by Trent Horn & Leila Miller https://shop.catholic.com/made-this-way-how-to-prepare-kids-to-face-todays-tough-moral-issues/ Dr. Leonard Sax books: https://www.leonardsax.com/books/  Girls on the Edge  Boys Adrift  Why Gender Matters   https://www.josephnicolosi.com/book-store/siayfehvtq7a22r4ud6yjkc8djhos3    Irreversible Damage by Abigail Shrier  https://www.amazon.com/Irreversible-Damage-Transgender-Seducing-Daughters/dp/B084YC53BR/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=580750986197&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9031298&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=5029784763932288951&hvtargid=kwd-914704793883&hydadcr=22595_13493276&keywords=abigail+shrier+irreversible+damage&qid=1685577825&sr=8-1 

Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF's “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org.   Show Notes: CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), return to the podcast today to continue our series on pornography and sexuality. If you haven't listened to the first episode in this series, I encourage you to check out that episode first, get to know Brent and Nicole's story, then return to hear today's episode as we dive into the nature of addiction.  We discuss statistics and real-world case studies regarding the pornography industry that reveal the magnitude of its harmful effects on society and on individuals alike. Brent and Nicole then unpack terms and concepts such as the cyclone of addiction, the shame cycle, and neurochemistry of the brain that all point to God's intricate design for His creation. Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode: ·      Restoring the Soul podcast: Part 1 with Tony Anderson, and Part 2 with Tony Anderson ·      Fight the New Drug ·      The Social Dilemma ·      Pure Desire Ministries, through which Brent and Nicole help men and women heal from unwanted sexual behaviors and their repercussions   As you listen to this conversation with Brent and Nicole, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: We refer to the statistic that 49% of rescued sex trafficking victims were forced to participate in the production of pornographic material. How ought that knowledge affect decisions to consume that pornographic material?   How does the pornography industry harm our perceptions of others as individuals made in the image of God? Why might “rigid, disengaged homes,” per Brent's description, often become an environment in which many individuals become sex addicts? What habits can you establish to “live in this world of technology… but do it in a healthy manner,” as Brent says? What sin struggles have prompted you to feel shame and hide from God and from fellow believers?   Loads of Additional Resources on this topic Problematic Sexual Behavior (Men): Books: Laaser, M. (2004). Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (3rd ed.). Zondervan. Roberts, T. (2008). Pure Desire: How one man's triumph can help others break free from sexual temptation. Regal. Roberts, T. (2021). Seven Pillars of Freedom (5th ed.). Pure Desire Ministries International. Stringer, J. (2018). Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing. NavPress. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 19). What If My Betrayed Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 185) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-betrayed-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, March 8). How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Sexual Betrayal (No. 244) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/how-to-help-your-spouse-heal-from-your-sexual-betrayal/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 22). The Impact of Sexual Addiction w/ Dr. Adrian Hickmon (No. 281) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-impact-of-sexual-addiction-w-adrian-hickmon/ Video Series: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2020). Sexual Integrity 101 [Video series]. Pure Desire Ministries International. Ward, G., Wiles, J., & Wiles, T. [Executive Producers]. (2013). Conqueror Series: The battle plan for purity [Video series]. KingdomWorks Studios.   Problematic Sexual Behavior (Women): Books: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2019). Unraveled: Managing love, sex, and relationships. Pure Desire Ministries International. Stringer, J. (2018). Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing. NavPress. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, October 20). The Female Addict and Unraveled (No. 172) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-female-addict-unraveled/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 19). What If My Betrayed Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 185) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-betrayed-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, March 8). How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Sexual Betrayal (No. 244) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/how-to-help-your-spouse-heal-from-your-sexual-betrayal/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 22). The Impact of Sexual Addiction w/ Dr. Adrian Hickmon (No. 281) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-impact-of-sexual-addiction-w-adrian-hickmon/ Video Series: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2020). Sexual Integrity 101 [Video series]. Pure Desire Ministries International.   Betrayal Trauma: Books: Kolb, H., Jameson, A., & Roberts, D. (2022). Betrayal & Beyond: Healing the trauma of sexual betrayal (3rd ed.). Pure Desire Ministries International. Pure Desire Ministries. 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma (ebook). https://puredesire.org/free-ebook-7-keys-to-understanding-betrayal-trauma/ Steffens, B. & Means, M. (2021). Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal (2nd ed.). Armin Lear Press Inc. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, November 3). Boundaries in Recovery (No. 174) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/boundaries-in-recovery/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, May 11). What If My Struggling Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 201) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-struggling-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, July 13). Hope for Betrayed Men (No. 210) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/hope-for-betrayed-men/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, July 27). 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma (No. 212) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/7-keys-to-understanding-betrayal-trauma/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, February 1). Women's Takeover #1: Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara Steffens (No. 239) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/womens-takeover-1-healing-from-betrayal-w-dr-barbara-steffens/   Healthy Sexuality: Books: Gregoire, S. (2022). The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (2nd ed.). Zondervan Books. Gregoire, S. & Gregoire, K.  (2022). The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Zondervan Books. Roberts, T. & Roberts, D. (2010). Sexy Christians: The Purpose, Power and Passion of Biblical Intimacy. Baker Books. Slattery, J. (2018). Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters. Multnomah. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, July 9). Soul Ties (No. 105) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/soul-ties/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, July 30). Sexual Discipleship w/ Juli Slattery (No. 108) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/sexual-discipleship-w-juli-slattery/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, April 26). The Good Guide to Great Sex w/ Dr. Keith and Sheila Wray Gregoire (No. 251) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-good-guide-to-great-sex-w-dr-keith-sheil-wray-gregoire/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 1). The Four Pillars of Sexual Love w/ Dr. Juli Slattery (No. 278) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-four-pillars-of-sexual-love-w-dr-juli-slattery/   Young Adults/College Age: Books (Young Men): Bennett, B., Butcher, B., & Roberts, T. (2016). Living Free. Pure Desire Ministries International. Books (Young Women): Bradley R. & Roberts, D. (2012). Behind the Mask: Authentic living for young women. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/  Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2018, January 30). Living Free w/Ben Bennett (No. 30) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcast/living-free/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, September 17). Love, Sex, and Dating (No. 115) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/love-sex-and-dating/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, March 31). Getting Healthy Before Marriage w/ Drew Boa (No. 143) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/getting-healthy-before-marriage-w-drew-boa/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 12). Groups for Young Women (No. 184) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcast/groups-for-young-women/   Parents: Books: Roberts, B. & Kolb, H. (2018). Digital Natives: Raising an Online Generation. Pure Desire Ministries International. Wright, R. & Wright, T. (2020). How to Talk with Your Kids About Sex. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, August 13). What Parents Need to Know about Porn (No. 110) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-parents-need-to-know-about-porn/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, August 3). The Effects of Pornography w/ Josh McDowell (No. 213) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-effects-of-pornography-w-josh-mcdowell/   Pastors/Chaplains/Churches: Books: Laaser, M. (2004). Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (3rd ed.). Zondervan. Roberts, T. (2008). Pure Desire: How one man's triumph can help others break free from sexual temptation. Regal. Stumbo, N. (2017). Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, August 3). The Effects of Pornography w/ Josh McDowell (No. 213) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-effects-of-pornography-w-josh-mcdowell/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, October 27). No Shame Churches (No. 173) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/no-shame-churches/   Singles: Books: Gregoire, S. (2022). The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (2nd ed.). Zondervan Books. Gregoire, S. & Gregoire, K.  (2022). The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Zondervan Books. Slattery, J. (2018). Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters. Multnomah. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, September 17). Love, Sex, and Dating (No. 115) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/love-sex-and-dating/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, March 31). Getting Healthy Before Marriage w/ Drew Boa (No. 143) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/getting-healthy-before-marriage-w-drew-boa/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, July 26). Unmet Longings & Unhealthy Behaviors w/ Ben Bennett (No. 264) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/unmet-longings-unhealthy-behaviors-w-ben-bennett/   Miscellaneous: Books on Trauma: Falk, K. & Goldberg, J. (2018). Struggle Well: Thriving in the Aftermath of Trauma. Lioncrest. Van Der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Penguin Books.   Websites: Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists: https://www.apsats.org/ Authentic Intimacy: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ Pure Desire Ministries International: https://puredesire.org.

Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF's “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org.   Show Notes: In January 2023, Pensacola OCF hosted a one-day workshop to discuss sexual brokenness and unwanted sexual behaviors like pornography addiction and to introduce solutions for healing and wholeness. CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), led sessions throughout that one-day workshop, and they join me today on the podcast as we begin a series of episodes focusing on similar topics. Brent and Nicole share their story and the impact that porn had on their marriage in this episode, and their remaining three Crosspoint episodes will cover topics such as the nature of addiction, the shame cycle, and the neurochemistry of the brain. Having reached a breaking point in their marriage in 2012 and recovered since then by God's grace, Brent and Nicole talk about why that addiction placed such a strain on their marriage, how God worked through accountability partners in their healing process, and more. Above all, their desire is for listeners to understand there is hope and that God can restore anyone struggling with problematic sexual behaviors. Brent retired from the Navy in 2017 after a distinguished 27-year career, and he currently serves as a Foursquare Institutional Chaplain with Pure Desire Ministries, through which he helps men walk in sexual purity and break free from unwanted sexual behaviors. Nicole received a Bachelor of Science in biochemistry from the University of Illinois and a Doctor of Pharmacy from the University of Illinois at Chicago, going on to work as a hospital pharmacist for 25 years. Nicole also has been working with Pure Desire Ministries, leading their betrayal and beyond groups for spouses for about three years. Both Brent and Nicole are accredited pastoral professionals. As you listen to this conversation with Brent and Nicole, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How can the church establish a culture of grace, especially as applies to this topic of addiction? Brent refers to Ephesians 5:25, which says “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” How does this verse shape your view of emotional intimacy in marriage? Brent talks about the iPhone's contribution to an increased accessibility to pornography in recent years. What steps can you take to ensure your own devices aren't contributing to addictive behaviors? How does our freedom in Christ set us free from the shame of our secrets? Nicole talks about realizing her husband's struggles with pornography prompted her to react in sin as well. If you've been hurt by someone else's sin, what's the value of not using their sin as license to sin in response? If you're struggling with addictive behaviors, sexual or otherwise, what positive habits can you establish to replace those behaviors? Why is assessing your heart posture in all things so critical?   Loads of Resources on this topic Problematic Sexual Behavior (Men): Books: Laaser, M. (2004). Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (3rd ed.). Zondervan. Roberts, T. (2008). Pure Desire: How one man's triumph can help others break free from sexual temptation. Regal. Roberts, T. (2021). Seven Pillars of Freedom (5th ed.). Pure Desire Ministries International. Stringer, J. (2018). Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing. NavPress. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 19). What If My Betrayed Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 185) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-betrayed-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, March 8). How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Sexual Betrayal (No. 244) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/how-to-help-your-spouse-heal-from-your-sexual-betrayal/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 22). The Impact of Sexual Addiction w/ Dr. Adrian Hickmon (No. 281) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-impact-of-sexual-addiction-w-adrian-hickmon/ Video Series: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2020). Sexual Integrity 101 [Video series]. Pure Desire Ministries International. Ward, G., Wiles, J., & Wiles, T. [Executive Producers]. (2013). Conqueror Series: The battle plan for purity [Video series]. KingdomWorks Studios.   Problematic Sexual Behavior (Women): Books: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2019). Unraveled: Managing love, sex, and relationships. Pure Desire Ministries International. Stringer, J. (2018). Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing. NavPress. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, October 20). The Female Addict and Unraveled (No. 172) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-female-addict-unraveled/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 19). What If My Betrayed Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 185) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-betrayed-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, March 8). How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Sexual Betrayal (No. 244) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/how-to-help-your-spouse-heal-from-your-sexual-betrayal/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 22). The Impact of Sexual Addiction w/ Dr. Adrian Hickmon (No. 281) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-impact-of-sexual-addiction-w-adrian-hickmon/ Video Series: Kolb, H. [Editor]. (2020). Sexual Integrity 101 [Video series]. Pure Desire Ministries International.   Betrayal Trauma: Books: Kolb, H., Jameson, A., & Roberts, D. (2022). Betrayal & Beyond: Healing the trauma of sexual betrayal (3rd ed.). Pure Desire Ministries International. Pure Desire Ministries. 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma (ebook). https://puredesire.org/free-ebook-7-keys-to-understanding-betrayal-trauma/ Steffens, B. & Means, M. (2021). Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal (2nd ed.). Armin Lear Press Inc. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, November 3). Boundaries in Recovery (No. 174) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/boundaries-in-recovery/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, May 11). What If My Struggling Spouse Doesn't Want Healing? (No. 201) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-if-my-struggling-spouse-doesnt-want-healing/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, July 13). Hope for Betrayed Men (No. 210) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/hope-for-betrayed-men/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, July 27). 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma (No. 212) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/7-keys-to-understanding-betrayal-trauma/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, February 1). Women's Takeover #1: Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara Steffens (No. 239) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/womens-takeover-1-healing-from-betrayal-w-dr-barbara-steffens/   Healthy Sexuality: Books: Gregoire, S. (2022). The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (2nd ed.). Zondervan Books. Gregoire, S. & Gregoire, K.  (2022). The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Zondervan Books. Roberts, T. & Roberts, D. (2010). Sexy Christians: The Purpose, Power and Passion of Biblical Intimacy. Baker Books. Slattery, J. (2018). Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters. Multnomah. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, July 9). Soul Ties (No. 105) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/soul-ties/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, July 30). Sexual Discipleship w/ Juli Slattery (No. 108) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/sexual-discipleship-w-juli-slattery/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, April 26). The Good Guide to Great Sex w/ Dr. Keith and Sheila Wray Gregoire (No. 251) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-good-guide-to-great-sex-w-dr-keith-sheil-wray-gregoire/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, November 1). The Four Pillars of Sexual Love w/ Dr. Juli Slattery (No. 278) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-four-pillars-of-sexual-love-w-dr-juli-slattery/   Young Adults/College Age: Books (Young Men): Bennett, B., Butcher, B., & Roberts, T. (2016). Living Free. Pure Desire Ministries International. Books (Young Women): Bradley R. & Roberts, D. (2012). Behind the Mask: Authentic living for young women. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/  Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2018, January 30). Living Free w/Ben Bennett (No. 30) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcast/living-free/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, September 17). Love, Sex, and Dating (No. 115) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/love-sex-and-dating/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, March 31). Getting Healthy Before Marriage w/ Drew Boa (No. 143) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/getting-healthy-before-marriage-w-drew-boa/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, January 12). Groups for Young Women (No. 184) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcast/groups-for-young-women/   Parents: Books: Roberts, B. & Kolb, H. (2018). Digital Natives: Raising an Online Generation. Pure Desire Ministries International. Wright, R. & Wright, T. (2020). How to Talk with Your Kids About Sex. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, August 13). What Parents Need to Know about Porn (No. 110) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/what-parents-need-to-know-about-porn/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, August 3). The Effects of Pornography w/ Josh McDowell (No. 213) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-effects-of-pornography-w-josh-mcdowell/   Pastors/Chaplains/Churches: Books: Laaser, M. (2004). Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (3rd ed.). Zondervan. Roberts, T. (2008). Pure Desire: How one man's triumph can help others break free from sexual temptation. Regal. Stumbo, N. (2017). Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Pure Desire Ministries International. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2021, August 3). The Effects of Pornography w/ Josh McDowell (No. 213) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/the-effects-of-pornography-w-josh-mcdowell/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, October 27). No Shame Churches (No. 173) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/no-shame-churches/   Singles: Books: Gregoire, S. (2022). The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (2nd ed.). Zondervan Books. Gregoire, S. & Gregoire, K.  (2022). The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Zondervan Books. Slattery, J. (2018). Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters. Multnomah. Podcasts: https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2019, September 17). Love, Sex, and Dating (No. 115) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/love-sex-and-dating/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2020, March 31). Getting Healthy Before Marriage w/ Drew Boa (No. 143) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/getting-healthy-before-marriage-w-drew-boa/ Stumbo, N. & Winsor, T. (Hosts). (2022, July 26). Unmet Longings & Unhealthy Behaviors w/ Ben Bennett (No. 264) [Audio podcast episode]. In Pure Desire Podcast. https://puredesire.org/podcasts/unmet-longings-unhealthy-behaviors-w-ben-bennett/   Miscellaneous: Books on Trauma: Falk, K. & Goldberg, J. (2018). Struggle Well: Thriving in the Aftermath of Trauma. Lioncrest. Van Der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Penguin Books.   Websites: Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists: https://www.apsats.org/ Authentic Intimacy: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ Pure Desire Ministries International: https://puredesire.org.

Could sex be a way to comfort each other in marriage? What holds you back, and what can you discover. Also, on May 16th from 6:30-8:00 pm Ruth will host an online workshop on How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex. For more information go to Awaken-Love.net

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Raising Culturally-Conscious Christian Kids in a Chaotic Culture - with Catherine Segars Have you and your spouse ever disagreed about how to raise your kids? Disagreements about parenting can wreak havoc on a marriage. Further, raising Christian kids is no small feat. Today, our guest is Catherine Segars, an author, podcaster, speaker, and motherhood apologist who helps parents be a godly example for their children. In our conversation, we discussed the wild ride it is to be a parent. Culture can cause challenges when it comes to raising Christian kids. Catherine provides guidance on how to equip children with a tool belt to help then navigate, make decisions, and grow in a faith that they can call their own.   The Importance of Unity in Parenting You'd think that every Christian would want to raise Christian kids, but that is not always the case. When husbands and wives aren't in sync with the way they parent their kids, it can cause friction in the marriage and family dynamics. Catherine said, “You gotta be united. Kids will sense weakness very quickly.” It's not always easy for parents to be on a united front when it comes to parenting, but Catherine says this is extremely important to reach the end goal of raising Christian kids. When parents are in sync and on the same page, they will have more success behind raising children that stay in faith.   Words Matter When Raising Christian Kids Catherine believes in helping children create awareness around the terms they use and the biblical truth behind those words. So often in culture, words are modified and changed based on the culture's beliefs at the time. As cultures continue to develop, terms and definitions are skewed subjectively based on the person speaking about the term. Catherine says when raising Christian kids, it's important that children are taught to be active truth-seekers and challenge the definitions that are being reformed in society. Challenging definitions of truth allows us to make sure we have accurate definitions of words that are consistent with reality and biblical truth.   Allow Kids to Question Everything As a parent, you have got to be on your toes in this day and age. Society and culture are trying to teach kids not how to think but what to think. True education is teaching kids how to process information and arrive at a truthful conclusion. We can teach our kids how to look at an issue from all sides, and to figure out the truth of that. It's important that children have the chance to think and question for themselves in order to arrive at their own conclusion. Parents remember, this is healthy behavior when raising Christian kids.    Challenge Labels in Culture We need to start challenging labels in culture and society. Culture labels people and discards them. God does not. If you stand up for truth, you are going to get labeled. Catherine repeating what Jesus taught, said, “The enemy is the father of lies.” We need to have the expectation that we will be labeled if we are standing for biblical truth. As we are raising Christian kids to be resilient and courageous, it's very possible that it may happen to us. This doesn't mean we have to put labels on other people. We need to have that expectation we will be labeled, we may get discarded, but we will not operate that way. We can't operate by the world's standard; we operate by our God's standards of helping and serving people. It's key to remember that we, as parents must always lead by example when raising Christian kids. This is how we walk the talk and help our kids to become leaders who love God and love people in a chaotic world. YOU'VE GOT TO ALSO HEAR THIS: Episode 8 - Teen Pregnancy, Parenting, and Talking to Your Kids About Sex - with My Mom, Paula Wynn Links Mentioned in this Episode Catherine Segars Website Christian Parent, Crazy World Podcast   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! So, share these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.  

Are you having sex with your partner and not feeling like you have a clear understanding of their sexual needs? Are you unsure of how to ask questions, make requests, or navigate through conversations about sexuality? If so, it may be time to look toward honest and authentic sex.   Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Shana James, who has coached more than a thousand men and women to have passionate connections and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're single and looking to date, want a long-term relationship, or your relationship isn't satisfying, Shana quickly pinpoints the cause in her new book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Intimacy and Keep Your Relationship Alive   She will talk about how she believes that it is important, to be honest with oneself and others in order to create closer connections, the importance of being able to have conversations about sex in a way that is comfortable for both parties, and shares her experience working with clients who want more foreplay or longer experiences.   Tune in now and learn more about how to be honest with your partner during this vulnerable time and still remain in sync with your long-term goals! Highlights: (03:05 ) Being committed to authenticity (05:48) The Impact of Presence (07:02) Breaking Down the Meaning of Honest and Sex (16:38) What is Sex mean to Shana? (19:21) The Making of Honest Sex  (24:31) How to Ask for What You Want Sexually (31:25) Steps Toward Being Honest and Open in Sexuality (34:12 ) The Importance of Self-Pleasure in a Relationship (37:11) How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex (41:48) Understanding the word ‘Intimacy' (50:46) Things That Both Males & Females Should Be Aware of if They Are Interested in Relationships (54:31) Co-creating More of What You Want   Links: Website: shanajamescoaching.com LinkedIn: Shana James Facebook: Shana James Book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Connection and Keep Passionate Relationships Alive.   Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

Many would agree that having "the talk" or bringing up "the birds and the bees" with our children gives us a lump in our throat! How can we better tackle this necessary conversation and be faithfully discipling our children? Join us as we stumble through this topic.Show notes:God's Design for Sex series4 Principles for Talking to Your Kids About SexKids, Let's Talk About Sex- TGC

In an INFO PACKED episode you don't want to miss, we are joined by Audrey Werner, the founder and President of the Matthew 18 Group. Audrey is a former sex educator and STD nurse and has devoted her life to exposing where the “sex education” message came from and what the true intent behind that message is. An international speaker and author of "10 Tips on How NOT to Talk to Your Kids About Sex," Audrey explains in detail the motivations and impact of Alfred Kinsey on today's “sexuality education” and specifically the “groomer” class and their commitment to sexualizing young children. From Henry Ford, Andrew Carnegie, and John D. Rockefeller to Alfred Kinsey, Hugh Hefner, and Margaret Sanger, this diabolical agenda was birthed nearly 100 years ago with the goal of destroying our Judeo-Christian culture and laws. Learn the history of the “follow the science” degenerate elites of the 1930's and 1940's and why, according to Planned Parenthood, "Sex Ed" is the linchpin of abortion on demand. Learn more about Audrey's ministry here: www.matthew18.org Pick up Audrey's important book here: https://tinyurl.com/4ydv76n3 Date: 07/21/22 To help UnAborted create more pro-life content and take our content to the streets, become a Patron of the show at https://www.patreon.com/unaborted To help Seth educate and expose culture to the evil of abortion so that every person has a right to be born, become an ALLY of The White Rose Resistance at https://thewhiterose.life

A new MP3 sermon from Generations Radio is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Did Christians Buy into Kinsey? - How Not to Talk to Your Kids About Sex Subtitle: How Not to Talk About Sex Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Generations Radio Event: Radio Broadcast Date: 4/6/2022 Length: 36 min.

How did you learn about sex?How do you talk to your children about sex?What gets in the way of sex?What does the Bible say about sex?How does the church handle the topic of sex?We have tried to avoid this topic, but we finally go there. We get real about sex, purity culture, sex drive, pornography, kids and everything that gets in the way of satisfying sex life in marriage. Give us some grace in this one, but also learn from what we have done wrong.A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sex

Today my guest is John Fort, the Director of Training at Be Broken and also a family care specialist. John brings a background in education and addiction recovery that gives him a unique perspective on dealing with sensitive issues in today's modern family. He is also an experienced parent who can understand firsthand the challenges and difficulties of raising kids in a sex-saturated culture.In our discussion, we highlight the importance of parents being transparent with their kids about their history of sexual brokenness and leverage these conversations to help their kids navigate their own struggles with sexual topics and questions. This conversation deals with the fears that both parent and child likely have, how emotions connect to sexuality, and some practical applications to help families be more open about the ongoing journey from brokenness to wholeness in Christ.For help having these conversations, get John's book: Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex.More Resources for Parents:Emotional Resilience (online course)A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn (online course)Related Podcasts:A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult ConversationsTalking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn'tPortrait of a Brave Parent----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

In this episode, we're talking about how to cut through the shame, awkwardness and embarrassment that we've been taught to have when talking about sex; specifically when it comes to talking to your kids. Click here to check out the show notes. We also talk about some resources that you can check out on this topic: Episode 8: Has Purity Culture Harmed Your Sex Life? How To Overcome Religious Shame YouTube Video — The Ultimate Guide to Talk to Your Kids About Sex

Our guest-host, CNN's Alisyn Camerota, is joined by her twin 16-year old daughters and Dr. Lea Lis, The Shameless Psychiatrist, for part two of a revealing conversation about what dating and romance is really like for teenagers today.  Building on the conversation from our previous episode, Dr. Lis reminds us that boys shouldn't be left out of this conversation. "I see so many of them are just lost," she says. "They don't connect. They can't form bonds. Moms and dads don't say anything. They'll talk to the girls. And they don't say anything to boys," Dr. Lis can be heard saying in today's episode.  Dr. Lis shares some practical advice about how to talk to boys about sex, and offers detailed suggestions for "coming of age rituals" to help young men and women navigate their passage into adulthood.  You'll also hear Dr. Lis' best tips for teenagers on how to navigate relationships and sex.  Parents need to be having these conversations with their kids and this episode will give you the skills and tools to start the dialogue.  Dr. Lis book, No Shame, Real Talk with Your Kids About Sex, Self-Confidence, and Health Relationships is available HERE.  Let us know what you think! Email your thoughts to connect@distractionpodcast.com.   This episode is sponsored by Landmark College in Putney, Vermont.  It's the college for students who learn differently! Landmark offers comprehensive supports for students with ADHD and other learning differences, both on campus and online. Learn more HERE!

Our guest-host, CNN's Alisyn Camerota, is joined by her twin 16-year old daughters on the podcast for a revealing conversation about what dating and romance is really like for teenagers today. They are joined by Dr. Lea Lis, The Shameless Psychiatrist, for a candid conversation about the rise of the hook-up culture, why your first sexual experience should be special, and how parents from the 80's need to back-off a bit and not force their own teenage experience on their kids.  Dr. Lis shares some insights about how the pandemic has affected relationships, how to talk to teen girls about sex and prioritizing their own pleasure, as well as the shame that many feel if they're "not being a nice girl" and how to counter it. Dr. Lis recommends teens "set expectations up front" before a situation arises. Dr. Lis book, No Shame, Real Talk with Your Kids About Sex, Self-Confidence, and Health Relationships is available HERE.  There's a lot to dive into in this episode so please let us know what you think! Email your thoughts to connect@distractionpodcast.com.  And keep an eye out for the rest of this conversation when we release it on Thursday! This episode is sponsored by Landmark College in Putney, Vermont.  It's the college for students who learn differently! Landmark offers comprehensive supports for students with ADHD and other learning differences, both on campus and online. Learn more HERE!

Dr. Lea Lis, double board certified Adult and Child Psychiatrist and Author of the book, "No Shame - Real Talk with Your Kids About Sex, Self Confidence and Healthy Relationships" * joins Leslie to talk about all things teens, sexuality, relationship development, parenting and how to help teens navigate their boundaries confidently.Dr. Lis is a true expert in child psychology and sexuality and is changing the way we talk to our kids about sex which lends itself beautifully to this deep and open dialogue about what healthy teenand parent relationships need to look and sound like.If you are a parent of a child, this Episode 20 is not to be missed. You will be challenged, educated and encouraged. Perhaps more importantly, your eyes will be opened around the critical need for understanding your own journey through sex and relationships and how to help empower yourself and your children and teens through theirs.*Dr. Lea Lis is the Shameless Psychiatrist.Dr. Lis is a medical doctor who is a double board certified Adult and Child Psychiatrist. She has been working with families since the beginning of her psychiatric career. She is uniquely positioned to help parents and children face many mental health challenges and live healthy lives. During her training and residency at St. Vincent's Hospital in New York and New York University, and her private psychiatric practice (Mindful Kid), she has developed expertise in working with modern families of all types. Psychiatry and medicine is Dr. Lis' calling since age 15 when she started working at Hillside Psychiatric Hospital. She has a thriving clinical practice where she sees adults and children with all types of mental health issues in Southampton, New York. She has a well received column on Psychology Today and Thrive Global, and has appeared as an expert on parenting in programming by ABC, CBS and NBC. She has been featured in numerous media outlets such as The Chicago Tribune, The Washington Post, and in niche publications like Good Housekeeping, Purist Magazine and Psychiatric News. She has been interviewed as an expert on multiple podcasts. Dr. Lea is active in the American Psychiatric Association, having served as a member of their National Ethics Committee and on the Board of Trustees. She served as Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at New York University Medical Center, and has presented numerous symposia and workshops at the annual APA meetings and at the meetings of the Institute of Psychiatric Services. Her Academic publications have appeared in the Journal of Psychiatric Practice and the Journal of Academic Psychiatry.Thank you for listening to The Smart Sex Podcast. Please SUBSCRIBE as doing so keeps this podcast alive.Leslie Gustafson, Sex & Relationship Therapist, Coach & Host can be found on all major social media platforms @LeslieGustafson1 of Leslie Gustafson.

“It's okay to make mistakes when you're advocating or speaking out. And not everyone's going to welcome your participation. That's okay. That's the price we pay for our privilege. Just listen, learn and continue to do the best you can to make a positive difference.”   This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, I am going to share six actionable steps that you can take right away to address race, identity, prejudice within your own families.   Some of the topics covered in this episode include: Common reasons why White parents choose to not to talk about racism and prejudices (and how that choice is actually a privilege) The importance of intentionality when teaching kids about race, racism, and privilege. Six actionable steps that parents can start taking TODAY to effectively and appropriately address race, racism, and privilege within their family.   If you're feeling intimidated or unsure of how to discuss the topics of race, racism, and privilege with your children, know that you are not alone. However, these conversations are necessary building blocks to a more equal society. So I encourage parents to make a commitment to complete at least one step a week to genuinely address these difficult topics within your households.   If you have enjoyed this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to Instagram and share it your IG stories and tag me, @the3Dparent   Do you have a parenting question for an upcoming episode?  I would LOVE to connect with you and answer your questions. Please share your parenting question here!   Grab your free copy of the 10 Steps To Get Back in Control of Your Children here!   EPISODE RESOURCES: Explanation of what it is to be a white accomplice: https://www.whiteaccomplices.org PDF on what children understand about race from birth through age 6+:  Five episode program for parents from Seattle's King 5 News on race, racism, identity Harvard Implicit Association Test Children's Book: Something Happened in Our Town: A Child's Story About Racial Injustice by Marianne Celano PhD, Marietta Collins PhD, and Ann Hazard PhD. Here is a link to a YouTube read-aloud version. Children's Book: A Kids Book About Racism by Jelani Memory. Here is a link to a YouTube read-aloud version. Website with book lists on police brutality, black heroes, recognizing privilege and more resources King 5 Series on Race and Parenting:  “How we talk to our kids about race, racism and identity”  http://www.willaplayschool.org   EPISODES TO FURTHER THE DISCUSSION: Episode 24: Surviving and Thriving During the Coronavirus Outbreak Episode 28: Talking to Your Kids About Sex   CONNECT WITH THE 3D PARENT: Instagram Facebook