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Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over, despite how much you love each other? In this powerful episode, I dive deep into why love alone isn't enough to break free from repetitive conflict patterns and what you can do to create lasting change in your relationship.Here's what you'll discover:• The surprising reason why we get stuck in survival mode during arguments, and how our childhood experiences shape our current relationship patterns• A practical, two-part solution to break free from repetitive conflicts through curiosity and awareness• The transformative power of slowing down and recognizing your blind spots to create deeper connection with your partnerWhether you're feeling frustrated by constant bickering or simply want to enhance your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights to help you move from reactive patterns to conscious, loving communication.I share personal examples and practical strategies that you can start using today to create the joyful, passionate partnership you deserve.Ready to transform your relationship? Listen now to learn how to break free from repeating arguments and create a deeper, more meaningful connection with your partner. Remember, it's not about perfect communication - it's about growing together through understanding and awareness.TAKE ACTION:Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMBetter Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife JOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager

First up, Georgetown law professor and former national legal director at the ACLU, David Cole, joins us to discuss the legal response to the Trump Administration's serial violations of the Constitution. Then Mike Ferner of Veterans for Peace checks in to update us halfway through his Fast for Gaza, 40 days of living on 250 calories per day, which is the average caloric intake of Palestinian survivors in Gaza. Finally, Pulitzer Prize winning journalist, Joe Holley, stops by to pay tribute to his mentor and colleague, the late crusading journalist, Ronnie Dugger, founder of the progressive Texas Observer.David Cole is the Honorable George J. Mitchell Professor in Law and Public Policy and former National Legal Director of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). He writes about and teaches constitutional law, freedom of speech, and constitutional criminal procedure. He is a regular contributor to The New York Review of Books and is the legal affairs correspondent for The Nation.Trump is obviously not concerned about antisemitism. He's concerned about targeting schools because they are places where people can criticize the president, where people can think independently, are taught to think independently, and often don't support what the president is doing. He's using his excuse to target a central institution of civil society.David ColeThe decision on Trump versus the United States is only about criminal liability for criminal acts, not for unconstitutional acts. And violating the Constitution is not a crime. Every president has violated the Constitution probably since George Washington. That's not a crime.David ColeMike Ferner served in the Navy during the Vietnam War, and he is former National Director and current Special Projects Coordinator for Veterans for Peace. He is the author of Inside the Red Zone: A Veteran for Peace Reports from Iraq.Two hundred and fifty calories is technically, officially, a starvation diet, and we're doing it for 40 days. The people in Gaza have been doing it for months and months and months, and they're dying like crazy. That's the whole concern that we're trying to raise. And I'll tell you at the end of this fast, on the 40th day, we are not just going out silently. There are going to be some fireworks before we're done with this thing. So all I'm saying is: stay tuned.Mike Ferner: Special Projects Coordinator of Veterans for Peace on “FastforGaza”They're (The Veterans Administration is) being defamed, Ralph, for the same reason that those right-wing corporatists defamed public education. So they can privatize it. And that's exactly what they're trying to do with the VA. And I can tell you every single member of Veterans for Peace has got nothing but praise for the VA.Mike FernerJoe Holley was the editor of the Texas Observer in the early 1980s. A former staff writer at The Washington Post and a Pulitzer Prize-winning editorial writer and columnist at the Houston Chronicle, he is the author of eight books, mostly about Texas.He would talk to people, and he would find out things going on about racial discrimination, about farm workers being mistreated, all kind of stories that the big papers weren't reporting. And this one guy, young Ronnie Dugger, would write these stories and expose things about Texas that a lot of Texans just did not know.Joe Holley on the late progressive journalist, Ronnie DuggerHe knew the dark side of Texas, but he always had an upbeat personality. I had numerous conversations with Ronnie (Dugger), and he was ferociously independent.Ralph NaderNews 6/13/251. On Monday, Israeli forces seized the Madleen, the ship carrying activist Greta Thunberg and others attempting to bring food and other supplies past the Israeli blockade into Gaza, and detained the crew. The ship was part of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition and Thunberg had been designated an “Ambassador of Conscience,” by Amnesty International. The group decried her detention, with Secretary General Agnès Callamard writing, “Israel has once again flouted its legal obligations towards civilians in the occupied Gaza Strip and demonstrated its chilling contempt for legally binding orders of the International Court of Justice.” On Tuesday, CBS reported that Israel deported Thunberg. Eight other passengers refused deportation and the Jerusalem Post reports they remain in Israeli custody. They will be represented in Israeli courts by Adalah - The Legal Center for Arab Minority Rights in Israel. One of these detainees is Rima Hassan, a French member of the European Parliament.2. Shortly before the Madleen was intercepted, members of Congress sent a letter to Secretary of State Marco Rubio expressing concern for the safety of these activists, citing the deadly 2010 raid of the Mavi Marmara, which ultimately resulted in the death of ten activists, including an American. This letter continued, “any attack on the Madleen or its civilian crew is a clear and blatant violation of international law. United Nations experts have called for the ship's safe passage and warned Israel to “refrain from any act of hostility” against the Madleen and its passengers…We call on you to monitor the Madleen's journey and deter any such hostile actions.” This letter was led by Rep. Rashida Tlaib, and drew signatures from Congressional progressives like Reps. Summer Lee, AOC, Ilhan Omar, Greg Casar, and others.3. On the other end of the political spectrum, Trump – ever unpredictable – seemed to criticize Israel's detention of Thunberg. In a press conference, “Trump was…asked about Thunberg's claim that she had been kidnapped.” The president responded “I think Israel has enough problems without kidnapping Greta Thunberg…Is that what she said? She was kidnapped by Israel?” The reporter replied “Yes, sir,” to which “Trump responded by shaking his head.” This from Newsweek.4. Of course, the major Trump news this week is his response to the uprising in Los Angeles. Set off by a new wave of ICE raids, protesters have clashed with police in the streets and Trump has responded by increasingly upping the ante, including threatening to arrest California Governor Gavin Newsom, per KTLA. Beyond such bluster however, Trump has moved to deploy U.S. Marines onto the streets of the nation's second-largest city. Reuters reports, “About 700 Marines were in a staging area in the Seal Beach area about 30 miles…south of Los Angeles, awaiting deployment to specific locations,” in addition to 2,100 National Guard troops. The deployment of these troops raises thorny legal questions. Per Reuters, “The Marines and National Guard troops lack the authority to makes arrests and will be charged only with protecting federal property and personnel,” but “California Attorney General Rob Bonta… [said] there was a risk that could violate an 1878 law that…forbids the U.S. military, including the National Guard, from taking part in civilian law enforcement.” Yet, despite all the tumult, these protests seem to have gotten the goods, so to speak: the City of Glendale announced it would, “end its agreement with…ICE to house federal immigration detainees.” All of this sets quite a scene going into Trump's military parade in DC slated for Saturday, June 14th.5. In classic fashion however, Trump's tough posture does not extend to corporate crime. Public Citizen's Rick Claypool reports, “Trump's DOJ just announced American corporations that engage in criminal bribery schemes abroad will no longer be prosecuted.” Claypool cites a June 9th memo from Deputy Attorney General Todd Blanche, which reads, “Effective today, prosecutors shall…not attribute…malfeasance to corporate structures.” Claypool also cites a Wall Street Journal piece noting that “the DOJ has already ended half of its criminal investigations into corporate bribery in foreign countries and shrunk its [Foreign Corrupt Practices Act] unit down to 25 employees.”6. Americans can at least take small comfort in one thing: the departure of Elon Musk from the top rungs of government. It remains to be seen what exactly precipitated his final exit and how deep his rift with Trump goes – Musk has already backed down on his harshest criticisms of the president, deleting his tweet claiming Trump was in Epstein files, per ABC. Yet, this appears to be a victory for Steve Bannon and the forces he represents within Trump's inner circle. On June 5th, the New York Times reported that Bannon, “said he was advising the president to cancel all [Musk's] contracts and… ‘initiate a formal investigation of his immigration status'.” Bannon added, “[Musk] should be deported from the country immediately.'” Bannon has even called for a special counsel probe, per the Hill. Bannon's apparent ascendency goes beyond the Oval Office as well. POLITICO Playbook reports Bannon had a 20-minute-long conversation with Pennsylvania Democratic Senator John Fetterman on Monday evening – while Fetterman dined with Washington bureau chief for Breitbart, Matt Boyle – at Butterworth's, the DC MAGA “watering hole.” This also from the Hill.7. On the way out, the Daily Beast reports, “Elon Musk's goons at the Department of Government Efficiency transmitted a large amount of data—all of it undetected—using a Starlink Wi-Fi terminal they installed on top of the White House.” Sources “suggested that the [the installation of the Starlink terminal] was intended to bypass White House systems that track the transmission of data—with names and time stamps—and secure it from spies.” It is unknown exactly what data Musk and his minions absconded with, and for what purpose. We can only hope the public gets some answers.8. With Musk and Trump parting ways, other political forces are now seeking to woo the richest man in the world. Semafor reports enigmatic Democratic Congressman Ro Khanna, who represents Silicon Valley and chaired Bernie Sanders' campaign in California, “talked with one of…Musk's ‘senior confidants' …about whether the ex-DOGE leader…might want to help the Democratic Party in the midterms.” Khanna added, “Having Elon speak out against the irrational tariff policy, against the deficit exploding Trump bill, and the anti-science and anti-immigrant agenda can help check Trump's unconstitutional administration…I look forward to Elon turning his fire against MAGA Republicans instead of Democrats in 2026.” On the other hand, the Hill reports ex-Democrat Andrew Yang is publicly appealing to Musk for an alliance following Musk's call for the establishment of an “America Party.” Yang himself founded the Forward Party in 2021. Yang indicated Musk has not responded to his overtures.9. Meanwhile, the leadership of the Democratic Party appears to be giving up entirely. In a leaked Zoom meeting, DNC Chair Ken Martin – only elected in February – said, “I don't know if I wanna do this anymore,” per POLITICO. On this call, Martin expressed frustration with DNC Vice Chair David Hogg, blaming him for, “[destroying] any chance I have to show the leadership that I need to.” Hogg meanwhile has doubled down, defying DNC leadership by “wading into another primary,” this time for the open seat left by the death of Congressman Gerry Conolly in Virginia, the Washington Post reports. The DNC is still weighing whether to void Hogg's election as Vice Chair.10. Finally, in some good news from New York City, State Assemblyman Zohran Mamdani appears to have closed the gap with disgraced former Governor Andrew Cuomo. Cuomo began the race with a 40-point lead; a new Data for Progress poll shows that lead has been cut down to just two points. Moreover, that poll was conducted before Mamdani was endorsed by AOC, who is expected to bring with her substantial support from Latinos and residents of Queens, among other groups. Notably, Mamdani has racked up tremendous numbers among young men, a demographic the Democratic Party has struggled to attract in recent elections. Cuomo will not go down without a fight however. The political nepo-baby has already secured a separate ballot line for the November election, meaning he will be in the race even if he loses the Democratic primary, and he is being boosted by a new million-dollar digital ad spend by Airbnb, per POLITICO. The New York City Democratic Primary will be held on June 24th.This has been Francesco DeSantis, with In Case You Haven't Heard. Get full access to Ralph Nader Radio Hour at www.ralphnaderradiohour.com/subscribe

Ever wonder why talking about relationship problems sometimes makes things worse? In this  episode, Todd Creager therapist and relationship expert shares why "just talking about it" isn't always the solution – and what you can do instead. He's seen countless couples struggle with communication, only to end up more frustrated than when they started. But there's hope, and he's here to show you a better way.In this episode, you'll discover:- The crucial difference between "venting" and "sharing," and why one builds connection while the other creates distance- How to move past surface-level "secondary emotions" like anger and frustration to reach the vulnerable, primary emotions that lead to real understanding- Simple techniques to create a safe space for authentic communication, including non-verbal cues that can transform your conversationsWhether you're struggling with constant arguments or just want to enhance your relationship's communication, this episode offers practical insights to help you and your partner truly connect. Join Todd Creager as he explains how to make your conversations count and create the deep, meaningful connection you've been seeking. Because when we communicate with the right intent, amazing things happen. As always, I'm here to make the world safe for love.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Summer is here, and so are the shenanigans! In today's episode, Melissa and Mandy dive into some of the quirkiest (and a few wild) crimes that have taken place during the sunny season. From beachside thefts to ice cream shop heists, we've got it all. Get ready to hear stories about crafty criminals, unlikely heroes, and even a few strange but funny moments that make summer crime a little less scary and a lot more bizarre. Melissa shares her thoughts on beach thefts, including a film director catching thieves stealing from surfers in Newport Beach. Then, Mandy gets into a flower-stealing arrest in Seal Beach, California, and some reflections on her own sneaky gardening tendencies. They also cover the story of a stolen truck full of camping gear, ice cream shop break-ins by both bears and thieves, and a string of boat thefts in the UK and the US. Finally, they discuss some wild summer crimes, like stolen ATM machines, ice cream pint thefts, and even a 5-year-old boy helping to crack a lemur theft case.    Thank you to this week's sponsors!  Take control of your health outside the doctor's office today and get a $100 credit towards your annual membership at Functionhealth.com/mysteries. But act fast; $100 credit is only for the first thousand listeners.  Order now on easycanvasprints.com/moms for a discount on 16x20 canvases.  Right now, Skylight is offering our listeners $30 off their 15 inch Calendars by going to SkylightCal.com/MOMS.  Right now, IQBAR is offering our special podcast listeners 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, text MOMS to 64000. Message and data rates may apply. See terms for details.  

In this episode,  Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager dives deep into what our parents (and society) never taught us about healthy love. Just like we take golf lessons to improve our swing or attend medical school to become doctors, shouldn't we learn how to create and maintain healthy relationships? Drawing from my 40+ years of experience as a relationship expert, I share why most of us weren't taught the essential skills for lasting love and what we can do about it.Key takeaways from this episode:- Discover the three pillars of healthy love: repair, attunement, and curiosity - and how to implement them in your relationship- Learn why conflict feels so unsafe and how to transform your connection to be stronger than your pain- Understand how to express yourself authentically instead of just presenting what you think others want to see- Find out why it's never too late to learn healthy love skills, regardless of your age or relationship historyWhether you're struggling with communication, feeling disconnected, or simply want to enhance your relationship, this episode provides practical insights to help you create the loving partnership you desire. Join me in making the world safer for healthy love - one relationship at a time. Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Have you ever wished you could stop an argument with your partner before it spirals out of control? In this episode, I share powerful insights on how to hit the pause button on conflicts before they even begin. Drawing from my 40 years of experience as a relationship therapist, I'll show you how to transform potentially explosive situations into opportunities for deeper connection.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why your brain tricks you into overreacting during arguments and the simple breathing technique to regain control• The game-changing difference between "clean intentions" and defensive reactions that can instantly defuse tension• How to share your feelings vulnerably without blame, even when you're angry or hurt• Practical steps to break free from triggering patterns that lead to fightsHere's the truth: fights don't just happen - we create them through unconscious patterns and reactions. But with the right tools and awareness, you can learn to pause, reset, and respond in ways that bring you closer rather than push you apart. The impact of mastering this skill goes beyond just avoiding arguments - it creates a foundation of safety and connection that benefits your whole family.Ready to transform your relationship dynamics? Join me for this insightful episode where I'll teach you exactly how to catch yourself before reactions take over and create the loving connection you desire.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Ever wonder why your partner seems to be listening but isn't really hearing you? In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the fascinating neurochemical reason behind why your partner tunes out during conversations or gets defensive when you're trying to communicate.As someone who's worked with countless couples (and experienced this in my own marriage!), I'll explain why it's not just about "not caring" - it's actually about what's happening in your partner's brain.In this episode, you'll discover:- The surprising role dopamine plays in why your partner might choose their phone over listening to you (and what to do about it)- Why defensive reactions are actually fear responses in disguise, and how understanding this can transform your conversations- A practical approach to breaking the cycle of poor communication that creates lasting, sustainable change in your relationshipIf you're tired of feeling unheard or want to become a better listener yourself, this episode offers real solutions that go beyond simple communication techniques. I'll share personal examples from my own marriage and clinical practice that will help you create deeper connection with your partner.Join me as we explore the chemistry behind communication and learn how to make your partner feel truly heard. Because when we understand the "why" behind our behaviors, we can create the loving, attentive relationship we all desire.This is Todd Creager, making the world safe for love - one conversation at a time.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the intimate connection between communication and sexual satisfaction. As a sex therapist, I've seen how great communication can transform couples' sex lives - and it's not just about talking! I'll show you how both verbal and non-verbal communication can create the intensity and connection needed for an extraordinary intimate relationship.What you'll discover in this episode:- Why being "right" is killing your sex life, and how to shift from debate mode to deep connection- The power of non-verbal communication (93% of all communication!) and practical ways to use eye contact, touch, and tone to create sexual chemistry- My proven techniques for conscious flirting and keeping the spark alive, especially in long-term relationships- How to use both pleasant and challenging conversations to deepen intimacy and reach your sexual potentialHere's the truth: as your communication opens up, so do the different parts of your body required for great sex. Whether you're struggling with intimate conversations or looking to take your relationship to the next level, this episode will give you practical tools to create more passion and connection in your relationship.Join me as we make the world safe for love, one conversation at a time. Trust me - your relationship will thank you for listening to this one.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

In this episode, I'm diving into something that's absolutely crucial for keeping your relationship vibrant and alive - playfulness! While we're naturally playful during courtship, many couples lose that spark once they settle into the routine of committed life. But here's the thing - playfulness isn't about expensive vacations or grand gestures; it's about using your imagination to create magical moments in everyday life.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why maintaining playfulness is vital for long-term relationship satisfaction, and how the "functionality trap" can slowly drain the joy from your partnership- Simple, practical ways to inject spontaneity into your relationship - from impromptu dance sessions to surprise love notes (even if being playful doesn't come naturally to you)- How committed relationships can actually become a safe space for exploring new sides of yourself and taking chances with your partnerHere's something I've noticed in my years as a marriage therapist: I've never seen a couple's relationship get worse from adding more playfulness - it always improves! Whether you're naturally playful or not, this episode will give you actionable ways to bring more joy, spontaneity, and connection into your relationship, even on a regular Tuesday at 6 PM.Join me as we explore how to keep that playful spark alive in your relationship. Because remember, we're not just making relationships work - we're making them thrive with love, connection, and yes, a healthy dose of fun!Time Line:00:00 The importance of playfulness in relationships00:39 Why couples become too functional01:16 Using imagination to create playful moments02:25 Making playfulness a daily priority03:21 How committed relationships can liberate usTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com ✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

In this podcast episode, I'm going to guide you through the essential process of creating a safe space to heal from trauma. As someone who has worked with thousands of trauma survivors, I know firsthand how challenging yet crucial it is to establish both internal and external safety for genuine healing to begin.In this episode, you'll discover:• Simple yet powerful techniques to create internal safety, including specific breathing exercises and self-compassion practices that you can start using immediately• How to recognize and respond to your body's trauma responses (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn) with understanding instead of judgment• Practical steps to build an emotionally safe environment, including setting healthy boundaries and choosing supportive people to have in your healing journeyIf you're carrying trauma - whether from relationships, infidelity, or other experiences - this episode offers gentle, practical guidance for beginning your healing journey. I'll walk you through actual grounding exercises and share compassionate insights to help you create the safety you need and deserve.Remember, healing is not a straight line, and you don't have to do this alone. Join me as we explore how to make the world safer for love, starting with creating safety within ourselves.Tune in now to and find out how to begin your healing in a safe, supportive space.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

In this  episode, I share how love can be the most potent healing force for trauma. Drawing from my decades of experience as a relationship expert and therapist, I share deep insights about how paying attention with care - which is my definition of love - can transform trauma healing, whether it's in therapy, relationships, or self-love.Tune in and you'll discover:- Why having someone who loves and truly sees you during traumatic experiences can prevent PTSD, and how you can be that person for someone else- The powerful connection between self-love and healing, especially in cases of relationship trauma and infidelity- How to become a "Partner in Pain" (PIP) and meet loved ones where it hurts - a crucial skill for supporting someone through traumaWhether you're healing from your own trauma, supporting a loved one through theirs, or simply want to understand the transformative power of love, this episode offers practical wisdom and heartfelt guidance. Join me as we explore how attention with care can create breakthrough moments of healing and help people return to their healthy selves.Ready to harness the healing power of love? Listen now and learn how to make your relationships a safe haven for healing trauma. Because together, we're making the world safe for love.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

Send us a textIn this episode of the Quivercast, we sit down with Chris Sardelis @sardelisphoto—surfer, surf photographer, and filmmaker—whose deep roots in the Southern California surf scene have shaped his creative journey. Originally from Long Beach, Chris found his true passion in the waves of Seal Beach, where he began surfing at a young age and quickly earned his place in the local lineup. His path eventually led him to Harbour Surfboards, where the legendary Rich Harbour mentored him. It was there that Chris honed his skills behind the lens, capturing the soul of surfing through photography and making a name for himself in several prominent surf publications.Chris shares the inspiration behind his latest project: a documentary film honoring the life and legacy of Rich Harbour. With over a decade in the making, this passion project brings to light the story of a true surf pioneer and the influence he had on generations of surfers and craftsmen. The film is set to screen at festivals across the country and will come to its home, The Bay Theatre in Seal Beach, this June. Tune in to hear Chris reflect on the Seal Beach surf scene, his creative evolution, and what it means to preserve surf history through film.Support the showBUY THE ENDLESS SUMMER BOX SET HERE!If you like the QuiverCast here are some ways to help us keep going! I always like Coffee! Buy me a Coffee! Find Us: Website: thequivercast.com Instagram: @quiver_cast Facebook: The QuiverCast Sound Editing by: The Steele Collective

Hello to you listening in Seal Beach, California!Coming to you from Whidbey Island, Washington this is Stories From Women Who Walk with 60 Seconds for Thoughts on Thursday and your host, Diane Wyzga. I remember a story about a woman who sat down at the bar in a pub, placed her order, turned to the person sitting next to her and said, “Hello.” When he turned to her she asked: "What is something you are really satisfied about?" Why does that story stand out in my mind? Because everything in our personal and professional lives rests on our willingness to connect and engage as well as our ability to communicate.Nothing communicates better than your heartfelt story artfully told in your own voice designed to connect, engage and influence your audience. When you have your origin/personal brand story well in hand you can:Declare what you do, how you do it, for whom, and the benefit of your product or service;Give your elevator pitch in a clear, concise, and confident manner;Invite your clients to feel the way you do about your business;Clarify your ideas and amplify your message to the audience who needs to hear it; and  Simplify the process so you stand out from the noise.CTA: This calls for a Story Architect. Let's have a 20-minute, no pressure, no sales, no obligation Discovery Chat. Email me at info@quartermoonstoryarts.net  OR  DM me on LinkedIn and let me know how I can help.You're always invited: “Come for the stories - stay for the magic!” Speaking of magic, would you subscribe, share a 5-star rating + nice review on your social media or podcast channel of choice, and join us next time!Meanwhile, stop by my Quarter Moon Story Arts website to:✓ Check out What I Offer,✓ Arrange your free Story Start-up Session,✓ Stay current with me on LinkedIn.Stories From Women Who Walk Production TeamPodcaster: Diane F Wyzga & Quarter Moon Story ArtsMusic: Mer's Waltz from Crossing the Waters by Steve Schuch & Night Heron MusicAll content and image © 2019 to Present Quarter Moon Story Arts. All rights reserved.

 In this episode of The Let's Talk About Love & Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I'm diving deep into the three most common ways partners lose trust in their relationships. As a relationship expert who has worked with thousands of couples, I've seen how these trust-breaking behaviors can damage even the strongest bonds - but I've also witnessed remarkable healing when partners are willing to do the work.What you'll discover in this episode:• Why "little lies" aren't so little - Learn how even small deceptions can create damaging parent-child dynamics and why honesty truly is the best policy in relationships• The devastating impact of broken promises - Understand how reliability issues erode trust over time and practical ways to rebuild it through "under-promising and over-delivering"• The deep wounds of betrayal and infidelity - Gain insight into why cheating cuts so deep and what's really happening psychologically when partners betray trustFrom my years of experience helping couples heal, I'll share why these trust issues often stem from immaturity and how partners can "grow up" to create more honest, reliable relationships. Whether you're struggling with trust issues or want to prevent them, this episode provides crucial understanding about what makes relationships feel safe and secure.Ready to make your relationship more trustworthy? Join me for this honest conversation about building and maintaining trust with the one you love. Remember, while these issues are serious, repair is possible with the right guidance and commitment to growth.Making the world safe for love,TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  ✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife JOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Hi everyone! In today's special episode, I'm diving deep into how EMDR therapy can help heal the profound trauma of infidelity. As someone who's worked with thousands of couples dealing with infidelity, I'm excited to share how this powerful therapeutic approach can transform both the betrayed and betraying partners. I'm also joined by my colleague Mary Eason, an expert EMDR therapist, to discuss the crucial work of EMDR Trauma Recovery Assistance Programs in helping communities heal from trauma.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why infidelity is an "interpersonal crime" and how EMDR helps both partners process their trauma- The fascinating science behind how EMDR works to heal trauma stored in our brains and bodies- Real client stories showing how couples can achieve post-traumatic growth and build stronger relationships after infidelity- How EMDR Trauma Recovery Networks are making healing accessible to communities affected by disasters and crisisI share vulnerable insights from my 40+ years of marriage and clinical practice to help you understand that while infidelity is devastating, there is hope for healing when we address the deeper wounds and trauma patterns. Whether you're a therapist, someone impacted by infidelity, or just curious about EMDR, this episode offers valuable perspectives on healing relationship trauma.Join me for this important conversation about transforming pain into growth through the power of trauma-informed therapy.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

Hi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of experience helping couples heal and transform their relationships, I'll guide you through these crucial indicators that might be affecting your ability to form and maintain healthy connections.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify if fear of intimacy, emotional numbness, or overreacting to small triggers are impacting your relationships- Real-life examples from my therapy practice that illustrate how unhealed trauma shows up in everyday relationships- Why some people sabotage good relationships and what this reveals about past hurts- The surprising connection between hyperindependence, codependency, and early relationship woundsWhat makes this episode especially valuable is that I share specific client stories that bring these concepts to life, helping you recognize these patterns in your own relationships. I'll explain why we develop these protective mechanisms and, most importantly, offer hope by showing how these patterns can be healed through self-awareness and therapy.Whether you're struggling in your current relationship or wanting to build healthier connections in the future, this episode provides the insights you need to start your healing journey. Join me as we explore these important signposts of relationship trauma and take the first step toward making the world safe for love.Listen now to understand the hidden influences that might be shaping your relationships and learn how to move toward deeper, more fulfilling connections.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

Hi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I'll help you understand how abandonment, rejection, betrayal, and humiliation traumas shape our current relationships and what we can do to begin healing.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify the signs of these four traumas in your relationships and understand why you might be sabotaging your connections or struggling with intimacy- Real-life examples from my practice that illustrate how early trauma manifests in adult relationships, from trust issues to fear of vulnerability- Practical first steps toward healing, including how to become curious about your protective mechanisms instead of judging themWhether you've experienced these traumas yourself or are in a relationship with someone who has, this episode provides valuable insights into why we react the way we do in our closest relationships. I'll share compassionate strategies for beginning the healing journey and moving toward more authentic, connected relationships.Join me as we explore these important topics and take the first steps toward making your relationships safer, more fulfilling, and more authentic. Because everyone deserves to experience love without the weight of past trauma holding them back.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

We were at the 2025 Dirtbags Leadoff Dinner last Friday at the Old Ranch Country Club in Seal Beach to celebrate the start of the season and talk to new coach TJ Bruce, his mentor and old coach Mike Weathers, emcee John Rami and PGA Tour golfer John Mallinger who is helping with the Dirtbags Collective.

In today's deeply personal episode, I dive into the complex connection between childhood trauma and intimacy struggles. As both a couples therapist and trauma specialist, I've seen firsthand how our early experiences shape our ability to form deep, meaningful connections. I share my own journey of overcoming defensive patterns in my marriage and explain how childhood experiences influence our capacity for true intimacy.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why seemingly small childhood experiences can create significant barriers to intimacy - even without major trauma• How to recognize and appreciate the protective parts of yourself that may be blocking genuine connection• The practical steps to move beyond your protective patterns and create deeper intimacy with your partner• Real-life examples from my practice showing how couples can break free from trauma-based relationship cyclesWhether you struggle with trust, defensive reactions, or difficulty being vulnerable, this episode offers hope and practical guidance. I explain why everyone has the capacity for true intimacy, no matter their past, and share concrete ways to start healing those old wounds. Join me as we explore how to create the deep, authentic relationships we all deserve.Ready to make your relationship safer and more intimate? Listen now to learn how to recognize and transform the patterns holding you back from the connection you desire. Together, we're making the world safe for love.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Need Help with Healing From Trauma?How most people deal with trauma won't help you heal and have the life you want.   Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma.  Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right! While infidelity often leads to PTSD, I've witnessed countless couples in my practice who've not only healed but emerged stronger through this challenging journey. I'll share my expertise on how to transform trauma into an opportunity for profound relationship growth and renewal.Key takeaways from this episode:Discover the 5 essential questions that help determine if you're ready to take your relationship to the next level after infidelityLearn practical techniques for healthy emotional regulation as a couple, including my proven "catch and throw" exercise for better communicationUnderstand how to maintain growth while facing challenges, and why romance plays a crucial role in the healing processGet actionable steps to create a new, stronger vision for your relationship, even with the scars of infidelityWhether you're currently healing from infidelity or working with couples who are, this episode offers hope and practical guidance for turning crisis into opportunity. As I always say, you can have a beautiful relationship despite the scars - sometimes even because of them. Join me as we explore how to make real, lasting change from the inside out.Tune in now to learn how to transform your relationship's deepest wounds into catalysts for growth and deeper connection. Together, we're making the world safe for love.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Our guest this week is an “OG” Seal Beach ripper who caught his first wave in 1969. He was sponsored and worked at the iconic Harbour Surfboards, which led to a long-time friendship and bond with Rich, who eventually encouraged him to take up his passion in photography in 2002. His short time behind the lens quickly resulted with his first published photo in Surfer just about a year later. His dedication and keen eye, with the help from his wife/artist Enzia Farrel, Art Brewer, Larry “Flame” Moore, Tom Carey, and Warren Bolster, (so it is to no surprise) his amazing images graced the pages in Surfer, Surfing, and Transworld and many other publications. The last few years he has been working a new film “Harbour Chronicles”- a documentary to celebrate the life of Rich Harbour REST IN PEACE!! We welcome to the show, a man's-man who was a civil servant for 32 years as a Firefighter for The County of LosdAngeles, Mr. Chris “SARGE” Sardelis!!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"It's a deep rooted fear of every adoptive parent that the parent will get rejected." - Dr. Asra Ali Read the transcript of this episode here: https://app.swellai.com/t/tp_01JHS4S4K9DW0G3AZRZKWG970A =============== Join Unraveling Adoption's in-person Adoption Healing Quest in Seal Beach, CA on February 8, 2025. More info and registration here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/adoption-healing-quest-an-interactive-event-for-the-adoption-community-tickets-1095804814699?aff=oddtdtcreator =============== EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the pleasure of speaking with Dr. Asra Ali, an adoptee from India whose adoption was facilitated by Mother Teresa. Dr. Asra shared her unique adoption story, highlighting the positive experiences she had growing up in a loving family that embraced her identity as an adopted child from a young age. We delved into the cultural narratives surrounding adoption in India, discussing the historical preference for male children and the significant shifts that have occurred over the years. Dr. Asra explained how adoption practices have evolved, moving from informal arrangements to more structured legal processes to combat issues like human trafficking. As a psychologist and child and family therapist, Dr. Asra works with adoptive families in India, helping them navigate the complexities of adoption. She emphasized the importance of honesty and emotional support for adopted children, noting that many adoptive parents struggle with insecurity and often keep the child's adoption a secret. This can lead to emotional disconnects and challenges for the child. Throughout our conversation, Dr. Asra provided valuable insights into the common mistakes adoptive parents make and the need for open communication about adoption. She also shared her mixed feelings about her own adoption, reflecting on the unanswered questions regarding her biological family. Listeners will find this episode enlightening as we explore the intricacies of adoption in India and the universal themes that resonate with adoptive families worldwide. Dr. Asra's work is a testament to the importance of understanding and supporting adopted children, and I encourage anyone interested in this topic to reach out to her for guidance. ===============

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I answer the five most crucial questions about triggers that both betrayed and betraying partners frequently ask.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why triggers aren't necessarily a problem, but rather opportunities to develop emotional muscle and deepen your connection- Practical strategies to support your partner during triggered moments, including my powerful concept of "attunement"- How to prevent triggers from controlling your relationship while maintaining sensitivity and understandingWhat makes this episode special is that I share real-world examples from my practice, including a recent success story where a couple transformed a triggering moment into an opportunity for deeper connection. You'll learn the difference between regular emotions and trauma-based triggers, and get actionable steps for both partners to handle these challenging moments with grace and maturity.Whether you're the betrayed or betraying partner, this episode will give you the tools and understanding needed to navigate triggers effectively and strengthen your relationship. Join me as we make the world safe for love, one relationship at a time.Listen now to transform how you handle triggers in your relationship's healing journey.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Hello to you listening in Seal Beach, California!Coming to you from Whidbey Island, Washington this is Stories From Women Who Walk with 60 Seconds for Thoughts on Thursday and your host, Diane Wyzga. I remember hearing about a woman who sat down at the bar in a pub, placed her order, turned to the person sitting next to her and said, “Hello.” When he turned to her she asked: "What is something you are really satisfied about?" Why does that story stand out in my mind? Because everything in our personal and professional lives rests on our willingness to connect and engage as well as our ability to communicate.Nothing communicates better than your heartfelt story artfully told in your own voice designed to connect, engage and influence your audience. When you have your origin/personal brand story well in hand you can:Declare what you do, how you do it, for whom, and the benefit of your product or service;Give your elevator pitch in a clear, concise, and confident manner;Invite your clients to feel the way you do about your business;Clarify your ideas and amplify your message to the audience who needs to hear it; and  Simplify the process so you stand out from the noise.This calls for a Story Architect. Let's have a 20-minute, no pressure, no sales, no obligation Discovery Chat. Email me at info@quartermoonstoryarts.net  OR  DM me on LinkedIn and let me know how I can help.You're always invited: “Come for the stories - stay for the magic!” Speaking of magic, would you subscribe and spread the word with a generous 5-star review and comment - it helps us all - and join us next time!Meanwhile, stop by my Quarter Moon Story Arts website to:✓ Check out Services I Offer,✓ For a no-obligation conversation about your communication challenges, get in touch with me today✓ Stay current with Diane on LinkedIn, as Wyzga on Words on Substack, and now on Pandora Radio!Stories From Women Who Walk Production TeamPodcaster: Diane F Wyzga & Quarter Moon Story ArtsMusic: Mer's Waltz from Crossing the Waters by Steve Schuch & Night Heron MusicAll content and image © 2019 to Present Quarter Moon Story Arts. All rights reserved. 

"I was able to kind of reinvent myself into who I probably would have been at some level had I not been adopted." -- Brad Ewell Read the transcript: https://app.swellai.com/t/tp_01JGAR0QVDBKHQG88R7JAJ292Z EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the honor of speaking with Brad Ewell, a late discovery adoptee (LDA) who learned about his adoption at the age of 48. Brad shared his shocking journey of self-discovery after taking an ancestry DNA test, which revealed a truth that had been hidden from him for nearly five decades. He discussed the confusion and betrayal he felt upon learning that everyone around him had known he was adopted, while he had no idea. Brad reflected on his upbringing, his struggles with identity, and how he tried to fit into a life that never felt quite right. Our conversation also explored Brad's reconnection with his biological family, including his birth father, who had been incarcerated for decades. This relationship has provided him with unexpected closure and understanding. Brad emphasized the importance of community and therapy for those navigating similar experiences, highlighting the need for openness in adoption. His story serves as a powerful reminder of the significance of truth and the healing that can come from embracing one's identity. =============== Join our in-person Adoption Healing Quest in Seal Beach, CA on February 8, 2025. More info and registration here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/adoption-healing-quest-an-interactive-event-for-the-adoption-community-tickets-1095804814699?aff=oddtdtcreator RESOURCES: Brad's information: Here are all of Brad's blog posts and links: https://linktr.ee/LDA_BRAD?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=1bf18b6f-2423-47a2-b68d-431ac6c7bc13 Right to Know organization: https://righttoknow.us/ Find Brad's adoption account on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/a_late_discovery/ Find Brad's art on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cut_and_shoot_art?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D Other resources mentioned in this episode: Fred Nicora's another LDA that Brad mentions. He was an Unraveling Adoption episode guest too: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/26549451 ===============

Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, I know how challenging this journey can be. I'll share practical insights on developing emotional muscle, mastering attunement, and embracing vulnerability to help heal your relationship.In this episode, you'll discover:How to develop real emotional muscle by exploring tension rather than avoiding it, allowing you to stay present with your partner even during difficult conversationsThe power of true attunement (my favorite concept!) and why it's so different from just listening - learn how to make your partner feel truly heard and understoodPractical strategies for handling setbacks and recognizing genuine progress in your relationship's healing journeyWhether you're the person who was betrayed or the one who strayed, this episode offers valuable guidance for both partners wanting to rebuild trust and deepen their connection. I share real examples and metaphors to help you understand these concepts in action, including a personal story about how vulnerability can be wonderfully contagious.Join me as we explore these essential tools for healing after infidelity. Together, we can make the world safe for love.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to take responsibility without drowning in shame. If you're someone who has betrayed your partner and is working to rebuild trust and heal your relationship, this episode is especially for you.I dive deep into answering the five most common questions I receive from people who have been unfaithful and are genuinely trying to make things right:Learn the crucial difference between showing genuine remorse and getting lost in self-destructive shameDiscover practical strategies for staying present with your partner's pain without becoming overwhelmed by your own emotionsUnderstand how to connect with and heal the wounded parts of yourself that contributed to the betrayal, while still taking full responsibility for your actionsGet specific guidance on how to actually support your partner's healing process, rather than just wishing the pain would go awayWhether you're in the early stages of discovery or further along in your healing journey, this episode provides compassionate, practical guidance for moving forward with intention and maturity. I share real examples from my clinical practice and offer concrete tools you can start using today to rebuild trust and connection.Join me as we explore how to navigate this challenging territory with wisdom, self-compassion, and a genuine commitment to growth and healing. Together, we can make the world safer for love.Listen now to begin your journey toward genuine healing and transformation.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Marla Tellez talks with ORANGE COUNTY DISTRICT ATTORNEY TODD SPITZER about the now viral Seal Beach PD social media campaign "Don't Steal in Seal," also Prop 36 and crime in general, as well as new 2025 California laws.

In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've ever felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed after discovering your partner's betrayal, this episode is your lifeline.I'll be answering the top five questions I hear from clients struggling to navigate the complex emotional landscape of healing after betrayal. This isn't just another podcast - it's a compassionate guide to reclaiming your emotional well-being.Key Insights You'll Discover:- Learn how to balance your healing journey while potentially supporting your partner- Understand the critical difference between feeling your emotions and getting stuck in them- Discover powerful techniques to nurture and love your wounded inner child- Get practical advice on when and how to share your pain with others- Gain clarity on whether you need professional support during this challenging timeWhether you're trying to rebuild your relationship or find your path forward, this episode offers a compassionate, real-world approach to healing. I'll share personal insights, therapeutic strategies, and heartfelt guidance to help you move from pain to empowerment.Don't suffer in silence. Tune in and start your healing journey today. Remember, you're stronger than you think, and recovery is possible.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing your relationship patterns - including the potential for infidelity.Ever wondered why you struggle with intimacy or keep finding yourself in the same relationship challenges? Get ready for some serious insights! In this episode, I'll break down:• How childhood attachment experiences shape your adult relationship dynamics• The three critical attachment styles and their impact on relationship health• Why some people are more prone to cheating based on early life experiences• Practical strategies to recognize and heal attachment wounds• The incredible possibility of transforming your attachment style for healthier relationshipsIf you've ever felt stuck in destructive relationship patterns or want to understand the deep-rooted reasons behind relationship challenges, this episode is your roadmap to healing and connection. I'm pulling back the curtain on how our earliest experiences create relationship blueprints that can either sabotage or support our love lives.Don't miss this chance to unlock the secrets of your relationship patterns. Tune in now and start your journey to more authentic, fulfilling connections!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity. As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Learn practical techniques to handle overwhelming emotions during difficult conversations• Discover how to set realistic expectations for healing and avoid rushing back to "normal"• Gain insights on balancing both partners' needs for expression and understanding• Master the art of expressing hurt without pushing your partner away• Understand how to deal with defensiveness and create a truly safe space for communicationWhether you're healing from infidelity or simply want to strengthen your relationship's communication, this episode is packed with valuable strategies. I'll guide you through the process of developing what I call "emotional muscle" – the ability to stay present and connected even when things get tough.Join me as we explore the path to creating a new, stronger relationship foundation. Remember, it's not about getting back to normal – it's about building something even better. Tune in now and let's make the world safer for love, together.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:• Discover the new concept of "micro-cheating" and how it's blurring the lines of infidelity• Learn how digital communication is creating new challenges for trust and transparency in relationships• Understand the emotional impact of digital betrayals and why they can be just as painful as physical affairs• Explore strategies for preventing digital infidelity and strengthening your relationship in the age of technologyAs someone who's been working in this field for decades, I've seen firsthand how the digital age has transformed the way we navigate love and commitment. Whether you're in a relationship, single, or just curious about human behavior, this episode will give you valuable insights into the complexities of modern romance.So join me as we unpack this important topic and learn how to make our relationships stronger, more honest, and more resilient in the face of digital temptations. Don't miss out on this crucial conversation – tune in now!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

 In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever wondered if you're making a mountain out of a molehill when it comes to your partner's interactions with others? Or maybe you're questioning if your own actions might be crossing a line? Well, you're not alone, and I'm here to help you navigate these tricky waters.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain clarity on what truly constitutes micro-cheating and when we might be "splitting hairs"• Learn how to balance the need for freedom and spontaneity with respect for your partner• Discover the importance of intent in our interactions with others and how it affects our relationships• Understand the role of openness and trust in preventing the "slippery slope" of micro-cheatingAs always, I'll be sharing my insights with warmth, empathy, and a dash of humor.Whether you're in a committed relationship or simply curious about the complexities of modern love, this episode will give you valuable food for thought.So, if you're ready to make your world safer for love and gain some practical wisdom along the way, tune in to this episode. Let's explore the nuances of micro-cheating together and strengthen our relationships in the process.Don't miss out on this important conversation – hit play now!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude.In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone who's dedicated to helping people navigate pain and difficulties in their relationships, I know firsthand how transformative gratitude can be. Here's what you can expect from this heartfelt discussion:• Discover how to cultivate gratitude even when faced with personal struggles or global challenges• Learn about the concept of post-traumatic growth and how it can lead to profound personal development• Explore practical ways to tune into the frequency of gratitude in your daily life• Understand how embracing both joy and pain can lead to a more fulfilling life and stronger relationshipsI'll share insights on how to live from the inside out, tapping into our highest consciousness to find gratitude in unexpected places. Whether you're dealing with relationship issues, personal setbacks, or just feeling overwhelmed by the state of the world, this episode will offer you a fresh perspective and practical tools to help you navigate life's ups and downs.So, join me as we make the world a little safer for love, one grateful moment at a time. Tune in, and let's explore the transformative power of gratitude together. Your heart (and your relationships) will thank you for it!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wondered how those small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to major relationship problems?In this episode, I'll be exploring the slippery slope of micro-cheating and why it's more significant than you might think.Here's what you can expect:• Discover what micro-cheating really is and how it differs from full-blown infidelity• Learn why transparency and openness are crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship• Understand the unconscious impact of secrets on your connection with your partner• Gain insights into how small actions can create cracks in the foundation of your relationship• Hear real-life examples and practical advice on fostering trust and intimacyAs someone who's been helping couples for over 40 years, I've seen firsthand how these small betrayals can snowball into bigger issues. But don't worry – I'll also share strategies for reversing this trend and strengthening your bond with your partner.So, whether you're curious about the dynamics of micro-cheating or looking to fortify your own relationship, this episode is for you. TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundaries and learn to recognize potential red flags• Discover how seemingly innocent actions, like social media interactions or phone habits, could be signs of micro-cheating• Learn how to navigate the delicate balance between privacy and openness in your relationship• Understand the importance of emotional presence and how its absence might indicate underlying issuesIn this episode, I'll share real-life examples from my practice and offer practical advice on how to address these concerns with your partner.Whether you're worried about micro-cheating in your relationship or simply want to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with valuable information to help you cultivate a healthier, more transparent partnership.So, grab your headphones and join me as we unpack this complex topic together. Trust me, you won't want to miss the insights and strategies I'll be sharing to help you protect and nurture your relationship. Let's make the world safe for love, one conversation at a time!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Our guests this week are good friends that went into the restaurant business together. 24 years ago, they were young, surfing a ton, and both had a lot of experience working in the restaurant industry. Maybe they were naïve, ambitious, or just a couple of young entrepreneurs looking to live out the American Dream of owning their own business? Call it “crazy coincidences or circumstances”, but they were able to buy an Iconic Restaurant “The Glider Inn” in Seal Beach. Over the years they have stayed true and focused on the Fundamentals, Great Fresh Food, Warm Ambience, Family Atmosphere, capped off with Stellar Service! Fast forward to today their original venture Mahe' is still a local & tourist favorite. Since then they have expanded with the additions of “The Brant Kitchen & Bar”, and “Ola Mexican Kitchen” at Pacific City in Long Beach and Huntington Beach! We welcome to the show “The Dynamite Duo” or better yet “The TNT” of the restaurant world Toby Reece and Tony Andrews! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships. Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss!Here's what you can expect from this episode:Discover the true definition of cheating and how micro-cheating fits into the pictureLearn about the subtle ways micro-cheating can sneak into your relationship without you even realizing itUnderstand the potential dangers of micro-cheating and how it can lead to bigger issues down the roadExplore the concept of "micro-hiding" and its connection to relationship strugglesGain valuable insights on how to build a more open, honest, and loving partnershipAs a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how these small acts of secrecy can impact relationships. But don't worry – I'm here to help you navigate these tricky waters with compassion and understanding. Whether you're curious about your own behavior or concerned about your partner's, this episode will give you the tools to address micro-cheating head-on.So, are you ready to make your relationship stronger and more transparent? Tune in now to learn how to create a safe space for love in your life. Remember, every small step towards openness is a giant leap for your relationship. Let's talk about love, sex, and yes, even those little secrets we keep. TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity

Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger and more connected than ever before. Here's what you can expect:• Discover the three healthy mindsets that can transform your relationship after infidelity• Learn practical, actionable habits to support ongoing relationship growth• Hear inspiring stories of real couples who've experienced significant transformations• Understand how neuroplasticity plays a role in rebuilding intimacy and trustAs we dive into this final installment, I want to remind you that healing is possible. I've witnessed countless couples overcome the pain of infidelity and create relationships that are more vibrant, honest, and fulfilling than they ever imagined.So whether you're in the midst of healing or simply want to take your relationship to new heights, this episode is packed with insights and strategies you can start using today. Join me as we explore the power of post-traumatic growth and learn how to cultivate a relationship that's not just surviving, but truly thriving.Don't miss out on this transformative conversation. Tune in now and discover how you can create the relationship you've always dreamed of, even in the face of life's greatest challenges.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

 Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process.After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharing some powerful insights and strategies to help you and your partner deal with triggers effectively. Here's what you'll learn:• The most common triggers couples face after infidelity and why recognizing them is critical for healing• Practical techniques for both the betrayed and betraying partners to manage triggers without letting them spiral out of control• The vital role of self-compassion and self-soothing in the healing journey• Real-life success stories from my practice, including a couple who reclaimed their relationship by confronting triggers head-on in ItalyWhether you're currently dealing with the aftermath of infidelity or simply want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with valuable tools and insights. Join me as we explore how to transform triggers from stumbling blocks into stepping stones on your path to healing and reconnection. Don't miss out on this powerful conversation. Tune in now and take the first step towards a stronger, more resilient relationship.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?" But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration.In this episode, we're going to explore:• Why it's essential for the betrayer to move past shame and self-loathing to be present for their partner's healing• How to create a safe environment for both partners to participate in the healing process• The critical role of attachment styles in understanding and addressing infidelity• Practical strategies, like journaling, to facilitate self-awareness and growth for the betrayerHere's why you won't want to miss this episode:• Gain insights into the betrayer's perspective and emotional journey• Learn how to foster empathy and understanding between both partners• Discover tools to prevent future infidelity by addressing root causes• Understand how healing the betrayer contributes to overall relationship repairRemember, healing from infidelity is a journey for both partners. By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain valuable knowledge to help create a stronger, more resilient relationship. So join me as we explore this important topic and take another step towards healing infidelity from the inside out.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles and infidelity. You'll discover:• The #1 attachment style that makes people more likely to cheat• How childhood experiences shape adult relationships • Why "once a cheater, always a cheater" is actually a myth• How to heal from infidelity by understanding attachment• Simple ways to improve your relationship's attachment securityThis information completely changed how I view infidelity. I think it could be a game-changer for your relationship too.AKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Welcome back to the Holy Duffer Podcast! In this episode, titled "Mastering Heads-Up Putting: Transform Your Game" we delve into the benefits and strategies behind heads-up putting, with actionable advice to incorporate into your practice routine for noticeable improvements.We'll hear from Sasho McKenzie, a renowned biomechanist and co-founder of the Stack System, as he shares his insights on the biomechanics behind this technique..Mark and Strolan share their personal experiences, including golf tech insights from Coach Larry Salmi at Golf Tech and the challenges of playing at the Navy course in Seal Beach, California.Get ready for a mix of expert advice, personal anecdotes, and plenty of laughs—this episode promises an entertaining and informative journey through the world of golf improvement.Don't forget to like, follow, and visit us at holyduffer.com for more content and to engage with your hosts!Tune in to elevate your game with the Holy Duffer Podcast!SHOW NOTES:Larry Salmi - GolftecNation Golf - FellowshipSasho McKenzie - Discussion on Heads up putting at the PGA Convention. *This is where the clip in the Podcast is from.Mark Crossfield - Sasho on Heads up Putting

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership. In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on:How to recognize if you're stuck in a parent-child pattern in your relationshipThe importance of vulnerability and expressing your needs as an adultPractical tips for communicating more effectively with your partnerWays to shift your perspective and see your partner as an equalHere's why you won't want to miss this episode:• You'll learn how to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns that may be holding you back• I'll share real-life examples and scenarios to help you apply these concepts to your own relationship• You'll gain a deeper understanding of how to create a more balanced and fulfilling partnershipWhether you feel like the "parent" or the "child" in your relationship, this episode will provide you with the tools and insights to create a more equal, respectful, and loving connection with your partner. So, join me as we explore the path to creating a true partnership of equals. Trust me, this episode has the potential to transform your relationship in ways you never thought possible. Don't miss out – tune in now and let's start this journey together!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

The Pink Patch Project started in 2013 as a local Breast Cancer Awareness project with a police department in Seal Beach, California. Since then, the project has expanded to hundreds of law enforcement, fire, and EMS agencies, raising over $1.5 million worldwide for breast cancer research and education. In this episode, Deputy Amanda Gress sits down with Sheriff Terry Wagner, Chief Deputy Ben Houchin, and Captain John Vik to discuss LSO's efforts to support the Pink Patch Project in 2024. Learn about the project, LSO's patch designs, t-shirts, and more in this episode of the 902 Podcast. T-Shirt Link: www.NEPinkPatchProject.com Episode Music Credits: Vittoro by Blue Dot Sessions Rodney Skopes by Blue Dot Sessions (www.sessions.blue)

Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting and healing the betrayed partner.If you've been hurt by infidelity, or you're trying to help someone who has, this episode is for you. We'll explore:• Why blaming yourself for your partner's infidelity is common, and how to overcome it• The importance of acknowledging and healing both your adult and younger selves• How to build a strong support system when you're feeling vulnerable• Practical ways the betraying partner can help in the healing processThroughout our discussion, I'll share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. You'll learn how to move past self-blame, process trauma, and lay the groundwork for rebuilding trust and intimacy.Remember, healing is possible, and you're not alone in this journey. Join me as we explore the path to recovery and growth after infidelity. Let's talk about love, sex, and healing – together.TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.comHELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Rowanne Karapogosian, from Seal Beach, California, USAYou can find The Monitor Daily Podcast, as well as a wide range of other audio content, at christianscience.com/audio.

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences.Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The answers often lie in our early childhood experiences and how they shape our adult relationships. Join me as I unpack this fascinating topic and share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate the treacherous waters of infidelity.Here's what you'll discover in this episode:• The four main attachment styles and how they impact your relationships• Why understanding your attachment style is crucial for healing from infidelity• How childhood experiences shape our adult relationship behaviors• Practical exercises to uncover hidden childhood attachment issuesWhether you're dealing with infidelity or simply want to improve your relationships, this episode offers valuable insights that can transform the way you connect with your partner. I'll share real-life examples from my therapy practice and guide you through the process of self-discovery and healing.Remember, there's hope for healing and creating the relationship you've always dreamed of. Tune in now to take the first step towards understanding yourself and your partner on a deeper level. Let's start this journey of healing from the inside out together!TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com HELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

Another assassination attempt has been made on Donald Trump and all it proves is the hypocrisy of the Democratic Party and the media. They act surprised when an attempt is made on his life, when they consistently paint Trump as the “ultimate threat to democracy”. Also on this episode, we have a set of special stories about running a visibly and vocally conservative business in California. The first business owners joining us are Frank and Jennifer, who own a store called Beachin in Seal Beach in Southern California. Then, Patriot store owner Joy Miedecke also details her experiences with the so-called “tolerant Left”. Katie Grimes, editor-in-chief of the California Globe, then joins us for California Corner to debunk Gavin Newsom's ridiculous top 10 ways California leads the nation. Lastly, Congressional Candidate Michael Maher shares why he's running to flip the last Democratic District in the Central Valley. You won't want to miss it!

Andy Vargas, acclaimed successor to the throne of Latino soul music in the U.S., has been making waves in the music industry for over two decades. As Santana's lead vocalist since 2000, he has collaborated with musical titans such as Juanes, Mana, Chris Perez, Frankie J, The Black Eyed Peas, Beyonce, and Enrique Iglesias. Given his first shot by legendary producer and managers Terry Melcher, Bruce Johnston of the Beach Boys, and Lou Adler, Andy inked a record deal at the age of 16 to Ron Fair at RCA, BMG. Here, he wrote and recorded Pop, Latin funk, and R&B Soul music. This caught the interest of Clive Davis and Carlos Santana, who asked him to support the worldwide smash “Supernatural” record. Vargas has crafted a unique music genre, earning him widespread recognition and acclaim. He has also expanded his professional reach by co-founding Malaspalabras Records (MPR) alongside acclaimed comedian George Lopez and music distribution giant, United Masters. MPR is committed to safeguarding artists' rights and launching fresh talents in both conventional distribution and the evolving Web3 arena. This year marks a significant milestone in Andy's journey as a musician. He has earned solo recognition, securing a coveted spot among the illustrious lineup of the Dave Koz Friends at Sea Cruise. For two weeks of musical bliss sailing through the Mediterranean, he'll share the stage with fellow superstar musicians, promising an unforgettable experience for all aboard.% But Andy's musical odyssey doesn't end there. He's set to join his mentor, the legendary Carlos Santana, and the Santana Band for the 2024 Oneness tour, featuring the iconic Counting Crows. This collaboration with musical giants is a testament to Andy's talent and unwavering dedication to his craft. Beyond his musical pursuits, Vargas is dedicated to giving back. In 2015, he founded The Andy Vargas Foundation (AVF), a non-profit organization with a mission to inspire, mentor, and educate underprivileged youth with dreams of making it in the music industry. AVF offers a host of free community programs, such as instrument training, vocal coaching, music composition and production workshops, music business courses, and college scholarships. Amidst these grand ventures, Andy remains deeply connected to his roots, finding solace and joy in performing on his favorite local So Cal stages, Spaghettini in Seal Beach and Herb Alpert's Vibrato, throughout the year. Here, amidst the cozy ambiance and intimate setting, he shares his gift with fans, creating moments of magic that linger long after the last note fades. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/matt-brown57/support