The Masked Swingers

Sabrina Baldini—TEDx speaker, sex educator, and host of After Sex Ed—joins us to explore what she calls “The Third Sexual Revolution.” From porn literacy and ED to dating app burnout and non-monogamy, we dive deep into how young men are navigating sex, relationships, and connection in a post-digital world.We talk about what's broken in sex ed, how porn is shaping sexual expectations, and why so many people are craving something real—both in and out of the bedroom.Whether you're a curious dater, a parent, or just someone questioning what sex means today—this episode will challenge, educate, and probably make you laugh.⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro: Who is Sabrina Baldini?2:00 – Why adult sex ed is more needed than ever6:30 – Teaching consent in kindergarten: A Canadian model10:00 – Sex ed trauma in the US: Robot babies & scare tactics13:45 – Porn literacy and how young men learn about sex18:00 – Why erections ≠ love (and why many men think they do)23:00 – Premature ejaculation & what it really means26:30 – The problem with 25-minute sex scenes31:00 – The Third Sexual Revolution: What it is & why now34:00 – Dating app fatigue and the rise of in-person connection38:30 – Can men and women really be friends?45:00 – Why non-monogamy might be part of the future51:00 – Is monogamy a spectrum?55:00 – What the cheating numbers really say about monogamy

Welcome back to The Unmasked Project, fka The Masked Swingers! In this live relationship coaching session, Layla opens up about the emotional intensity of dating while married in an ethical non-monogamy setup. Her partner, brand new to both polyamory and serious relationships, brings passion—but also insecurity and emotional dependency. With the help of renowned relationship coach Mary Jo Lorei, we dive deep into what happens when love overload meets emotional labor and blurred boundaries.If you've ever struggled to balance autonomy and connection in an open relationship, or wondered how to say no without guilt, this is the episode for you. Whether you're navigating non-monogamous dating, redefining love, or stuck in emotional overwhelm, this conversation is packed with clarity and courage.

Poly Breakups, Brazil Temptations & Billionaire Messes — This One Has It AllLayla's breakup hits hard—and Brian's response? He hires a relationship coach to get to the root of their patterns. This episode dives into the emotional chaos of poly breakups, why ending things can still feel like failure, and how coaching (yes, even for emotionally intelligent people) can uncover what therapy sometimes misses.Plus, Brian spills on a moment in Brazil where his commitment was tested, and the duo breaks down the recent scandals surrounding billionaires — like Diddy's "Freakoffs" and Elon Musk's wild family tree. What do power, ego, and control have to do with intimacy? Maybe everything.This one's messy, honest, and unexpectedly healing.

Formerly The Masked Swingers, Welcome to The Unmasked Project!In this powerful and candid episode of The Unmasked Project, Vudu Dahl opens up about her life as a cult survivor raised in the “House of Maro,” and how she began her healing journey through s*x work, kink therapy, and somatic healing. From escaping abuse to becoming a kink educator and running her er*tic wellness brand Dalier, she shares her inspiring path toward personal liberation and emotional healing.We've dropped the masks, but kept the raw, unfiltered vibe. The Unmasked Project is the evolution of our show—still hosted by Brian and Layla, still diving deep into intimacy, identity, and human connection. Only now, we're going even deeper. Same bold energy. New name. Fully unmasked.

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Layla's got a new man—and he's checking boxes she swore she'd never touch. A 32-year-old vanilla, new to non-monogamous relationships, with zero prior partners... and she's in love.This episode dives deep into the wild emotional ride of dating your first boyfriend while married, what happens when a pansexual, demisexual, poly powerhouse falls for someone outside the lifestyle, and whether she's love-bombing or just riding the new relationship energy high.Brian and Layla explore radical honesty, evolving intimate connections, and how to support someone learning the ropes of a poly lifestyle for the first time. It's s*xy, real, sometimes messy—and full of insights for anyone navigating open relationships, emotional growth, or that sweet spot where s*x positivity meets vulnerability.

This episode of The Masked Swingers is a women empowerment deep dive with a twist! We sit down with Stephanie Megan, host of Broke Girl Therapy, to talk about her life transformation—from broke and heartbroken in LA to podcast queen, cut queen, and non-monogamy advocate.From dating in LA and exploring open relationships, to navigating voyeur kinks, sexual exploration, and redefining love outside the rules—this is modern love done Stephanie-style: loud, honest, and hilariously messy.We get into it all: kink culture, cuckquean fantasies, dating app disasters, and the hot mess magic of healing through hookups. If you're into relationship advice, dating tips, or just want to laugh at some wild stories (hi, meth Adderall), you're in for a treat.

What happens when sobriety meets seduction? In this raw and revealing episode, Layla opens up about her 14-year journey from blackout nights and heroin highs to a higher power named... Britney Spears? Meanwhile, Brian gets real about porn, procrastination, and how quitting wasn't about frequency — it was about facing himself.From late-night binges to spiritual awakenings, we unpack our most personal addictions and the rituals, breakdowns, and hilarious tools that helped us crawl out. Yes, there's a vape replacement called “flavored air,” and yes, it's surprisingly helpful.If you've ever battled a habit, a hang-up, or just wondered "Am I addicted or just attached?" — this one's for you.

This week on The Masked Swingers… the face reveal is just the beginning.We finally unmask for real—and what comes next? A jaw-dropping confession about helping a couple start a family in a very unexpected way. This isn't just another relationship podcast clip. It's the kind of wild tale you can't make up.Brian shares how a casual Facebook message turned into a life-changing DNA surprise, the emotional therapy sessions that followed, and what it means to have a biological child you've never met. We talk donor siblings, modern parenting, queer families, and the kind of identity questions that hit deep.Oh—and don't miss our viral-ready rants on group chats, California traffic, and ungrateful motorcyclists. This one's got it all.

This week on The Masked Swingers… the masks start coming off.In Part 1 of our two-part unmasking, we dive into the why behind staying anonymous—and why we're finally ready to stop. We talk parenting while poly, facing family fallout, what it means to live authentically, and how wearing a literal mask sometimes just made us smaller. It's vulnerable, hilarious, occasionally sweaty—and just the beginning.

Bella Snow made history as the first Vietnamese trans woman featured in a Sephora campaign — but that's just the beginning. In this episode, she gets real about her transition, exploring non-monogamy, what it really takes to pass, and the confidence it took to show up fully as herself.

We're bringing back one of our favorite episodes and just in time for that spring fever

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Ti, designer, artist, entrepreneur, Co-Founder of Crave. Crave is the first of its kind, pleasure jewelry. We adored hearing her journey on creating wearable pleasure jewelry, creating unique pieces, and the injustices of the patriarchy! Sign up for Crave's insider exclusives and get 15% off your orderIf you want to get our exclusive content, and see behind the masks ;), come join our Discord! Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Welcome Ti & Exciting Announcement! [05:04] - Inception of Pleasure Jewelry, Incognito, and Crave[12:48] - Lead with Emotion[18:00] - A GIFT?![21:19] - The Crave First Date Litmus Test[24:00] - Crowdfunded Pleasure Toys[26:19] - The Duet[31:22] - The Toilet Tangent[42:51] - Censorship in media[46:57] - Building a brand in spite of it all [51:12] - Bringing back the archival pieces[54:29] - Getting off: Eating in bed[55:51] - Getting off: Gen Z slangWanna learn more about Crave?Follow Crave on IGFollow Crave on TiktokOur favorite Crave Products: Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator NecklaceCrave Teaser RingMentioned in the episode:Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for MenOther Products we loveCome say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We have a very exciting announcement! We've also been  seeing so much more ENM on film and television. Do they do the lifestyle justice? Is this how the Vanilla world sees us? Let's talk about it!If you want to get our exclusive content, and see behind the masks ;), come join our Discord!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Our Announcement![02:43] - ENM in Film and Television[06:38] - Spoiler Warning! White Lotus Clip #1[13:38] - White Lotus Clip #2[20:23] - Dying for Sex Clip[29:06] - Brazil update[32:53] - Layla's new goal[33:44] - Speed Dating with Layla[34:32] - Getting offProducts we love: Sol De Janeiro Body Butter⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week we are revisiting one of our favorite episodes, and Brian and Layla tackle all your questions! Does size REALLY matter? Are you a part of the ugly couple? How do I find my community?! We loved hearing from you! If you have any questions you want Brian and Layla to answer, DM or email us!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Answering your burning questions[01:34] - Does Brian hate Blondes?[05:18] - Does size REALLY matter?[11:56] - Are WE the ugly couple?[19:20] - Where are ALL of the single men?![26:15] - Should I stop overnights for one of my partners?[31:09] - How do I find my ENM community?[37:23]- Some comments are bananasProducts we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Brian is joining us from beautiful Mexico! Layla and Brian dive into asking about play partner's pleasures, asking for our own pleasure, and learning to say no in the lifestyle. We love the twists and turns of this convo!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Update in about Brazil[09:00] - Layla's Domming experience[17:55] - Men saying they only care about partner's pleasure[23:42] - When women ask what you're into…[25:03] - People are learning how to say no and learning how to say what they want[31:27] - Vulnerability is hot[37:21] - Mullets are back and self confidence[42:32] - A little afternoon delightProducts we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week, we are joined by the incredible Mistress Tash Mia all the way from Australia! She shares so much about Kink and BDSM culture and the world of a Domme. Brian opens up a little bit?? Layla finds her new mentor.Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Welcome Mistress Tash Mia[07:00] - The 4 Domme Archetypes[13:13] - Psychological Twisting[17:38] - Can male dommes exist?[19:18] - Mental vs. Physical sides of domming[21:21] - You can't ungrow[28:52] - When do you know your sub is in the subspace?[30:22] - The importance of aftercare[34:34] - Where are people finding Tash? [39:48] - Learning how to domme safely as a beginner[41:55] - Misconceptions about BDSM[48:32] - How do we give this a try?Wanna learn more about Misstress Tash Mia?Check out her IGHow to be a domme online courseCome say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ Products we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are talking all about breakups in the space! It's awkward enough when you have a breakup in the friend group let alone when the friend group all plays with each other. What's the etiquette? How do swingers typically navigate it? How would you navigate these new dynamics?Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - ENM conversations in White Lotus[05:28] - Breakups in the space[07:24] - Pause for Gen Z lingo[10:43] - Back to Breakups[15:45] - Hypothetical! Susan and Jeff[25:10] - New scenario: James and Sasha[30:54] - I'm so embarrassed[42:51] - THE GYM COUPLE[46:38] - What's going on with Clyde?[50:23] - Experimenting with PeptidesProducts we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers!  Brian and Layla jump in and get vulnerable about where they can grow. Brian shares about going back to Brazil as a married man and the challenges he faces with his own narrative around Brazil. Layla breathes with her meta, and we get exciting updates on the gym friend and Clyde!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - You, Me, Her: Winning a trip to Mexico![04:09] - Brian, the sex traveler[10:35] - Changing the narrative of Brazil[19:06] - Layla's Meta and growth and breathwork![26:40] - Would you swipe if…?[34:25] - Gym friend update![41:36] - Clyde update!*Products we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Another year around the sun, and we are celebrating Brian's Birthday! In this episode, Brian recaps his birthday spontaneous play, a sexy chain, and Layla gets vulnerable.Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Cosmetic procedures[06:57] - The spontaneous play party[18:46] - The one regret of the night[23:29] - Layla's favorite part of the night[28:56] - Theories about Men [33:15] - Why this debate is so personal[40:20] - The sexy, human centipede[47:15] - A new discovery*Products we love: ⁠Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace⁠⁠Crave Teaser Ring⁠⁠Vibrating Rose⁠⁠Squirtopia Blanket⁠ (use code: TMSfan)⁠Flintts Mints⁠⁠Manscaped⁠⁠The Game of Lifestyle⁠⁠Mood Lighting⁠⁠Pop Star⁠Come say hi!⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are so excited to be joined by Dr. Arriana, a board-certified OB/GYN. We have been dying to have someone answer our questions, addressing misconceptions, and making sure that we continue to share knowledge that will help keep our community safe. Definitely having her come back in the future, email us your questions for Dr. Arriana!Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult your own doctor or a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your health or medical conditions.Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introducing Dr. Arriana & Disclaimer![02:48] - All about BV [13:25] - Mythbusting Misconceptions[17:44] - Let's talk about birth control[26:28] - What's PMDD?[35:22] - Reddit Rapid Fire Come say hi! ⁠Follow us on IG⁠⁠Follow us on TT⁠Email us with your questions at ⁠themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com⁠ *Products we love: Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator NecklaceCrave Teaser RingVibrating RoseSquirtopia Blanket (use code: TMSfan)Flintts MintsManscapedThe Game of LifestyleMood LightingPop Star*Affiliate links

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Beautiful Vanessa joins Brian and Layla! She shares her experience on what it means to be ENM, both partnered and single, and bringing a real perspective of the lifestyle to the mainstream – PLAYBOY!!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introducing Vanessa![06:50] - Fetlife Question[08:04] - Does everyone eventually leave the ENM space[09:21] - How did you get into lifestyle?[12:02] - Opening up a relationship just to avoid breaking up[15:39] - Brian gets…insecure?[18:12] - Going through phases of partnered and single in the space[25:43] - Lifestyle being a point of contention in a new relationship[34:38] - Accidentally stumbling into a throuple[40:22] - No sleepovers?! And codependence[43:33] - Let's talk about PLAYBOY!*Products we love: Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator NecklaceCrave Teaser RingVibrating Rose Squirtopia Blanket (use code: TMSfan)LipstickFlintts MintsManscapedThe Game of LifestyleMood LightingPop Star*affiliate linksCome say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian are back for a 1:1 conversation about kinks, apps, and what features can help us find our future kink partners!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introduction[01:48] - Exploring Kink without Play[05:18] - How do you define Kink?[11:05] - How do you find someone you're kink-patible with?[15:30] - Using apps to find your kink partner[24:17] - Rate these featuresCome say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Jacki is BACK by popular request! We talk about STIs, the spread, the stigma, things people don't know, and why condoms are sooo sexy!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Jacki's back![02:14] - STI outbreaks[04:15] - DRY January[08:25] - Yes, it can spread south to mouth[11:37] - The risk with STI[12:30] - Hypothetically… can you eradicate STIs?[14:42] - Stigmatizing…then people don't take care of their health[22:47] - Addressing internal stigma[29:10] - DoxyPEP[37:12] - The taste of protection[40:28] - International Condom Day![43:46] - Let's talk about RubberWanna learn more about AHF?Check outtheir siteGet yourfree STI testsCheck outtheir IGCheck outtheir TTCheck out them out onTwitter/XSupportOut of the ClosetCome say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Let's talk about the Elephant in the room. The new administration takes office, Brian and Layla clarify on Brian's hot take on play party attendance, and Layla shares her budding relationship with her Meta! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Trump takes office [11:48] - Clarifying Brian's potluck comment [14:40] - Who isn't playing with Brian? [20:25] - Dry January [22:00] - Bringing my Meta to a party [29:15] - Avoiding co-dependence [32:26] - Updates on Clyde [33:35] - Fluffers! [34:12] - The Gym Couple Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This is an extra juicy episode. Brian shares his latest TriMix fail, and venturing into a new territory on his ENM journey. Layla and Brian dive into what it means to respect boundaries and agreements, and when is it a good time to revisit agreements. Plus, updates on Layla's 2025 goal! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - TriMix Nightmare [11:29] - The Hotel Hookup [16:33] - Respecting Boundaries & Etiquette in ENM [18:57] - Venturing into new territory [21:53] - Breaking Agreements [28:12] - Revisiting Agreements [39:13] - Updates on Clyde [44:08] - The Couple from the Gym Saga [47:21] - Planning the GB! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are psyched to be back refreshed and ready for 2025! We hop right into a heated debate. Do you have to play if you go play parties? Then, Brian and Layla share their New Year's Resolution, fun stories from the break, and so much more. Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Hop into the heated discussion! [07:13] - The Wildfires and conspiracies [14:38] - Layla's New Year's Resolutions [18:55] - Introducing… [28:18] - Brian's New Year's Resolutions [42:01] - New Hot Couple [48:09] - We are manifesting this year! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers, and the last episode of 2024! We have had a BLAST this year exploring, making memories, trying new things and new people ;p We are taking a look back on the year, sharing what made it memorable, and predicting what's to come in 2025! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Layla's harrowing garlanding [04:51] - The 2023 Prediction [10:43] - Did it happen in 2024? [21:01] - What's been the biggest change of your life in 2024? [32:18] - Favorites of 2024! [43:09] - Best Lesson of 2024 [48:07] - What are you looking forward to in 2025? & 2025 Bucket list items! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are re-visiting one of our favorite episodes! For this episode, we are joined by Greeneyes & JR to share their journey with growing up with religion, finding religion, living by their faith, losing their religion, and ultimately finding ENM! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Layla got kicked out of Christian School & Brian's religious background [05:15] - Welcome Greeneyez & JR! [06:38] - Their religious backgrounds [11:19] - LDS and rules around sexuality [15:16] - Do people judge those who don't do a mission? [18:44] - What is at the core of Mormonism? [19:46] - Starting to questioning and turning away from the church [22:49] - The Provo Soak [24:55] - But how did you get to ENM from questioning your faith?? [31:12] - More ex-mormons in ENM? [33:27] - We're married, but we're dating [34:58] - Residual guilt and finding liberation [38:56] - So…Does your family know? [43:38] - What are your favorite vanilla activities with new lifestyle friends? Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com 

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This is the ultimate gift guide for your ENM holiday party. These are the items we love that would make great stocking stuffers, Secret Santa, or White Elephant gifts! FTC | This video is not sponsored. Links listed are affiliate links Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - The Ultimate Gift Guide for Lifestyle [02:39] - Crave [06:46] - Vibrating Rose [10:21] - Squirt blanket [13:57] - Isamaya Lipstick [17:25] - Flintts Mints [20:55] - Manscaped [31:11] - The Game of Lifestyle [36:00] - Mood Lighting [38:38] - Pop Star Products mentioned: Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace Crave Ring Vibrating Rose Squirtopia Blanket (use code: TMSfan for 10% off) Isamaya Lipstick Flintts Mints Manscaped The Game of Lifestyle Mood Lighting Pop Star Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla tackle all your questions! Does size REALLY matter? Are you a part of the ugly couple? How do I find my community?! We loved hearing from you! If you have any questions you want Brian and Layla to answer, DM or email us! ----------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Answering your burning questions [01:34] - Does Brian hate Blondes? [05:18] - Does size REALLY matter? [11:56] - Are WE the ugly couple? [19:20] - Where are ALL of the single men?! [26:15] - Should I stop overnights for one of my partners? [31:09] - How do I find my ENM community? [37:23] - Some comments are bananas ------------ Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week is a little different! Brian opens up and asks for support on a recent development. Would you ever consider Polyamory? What do you think about the term “body count”? Answer in our poll! PS. Your answers are anonymous! ----------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Happy Podcast Day [00:28] - The Girlfriend Proposition [05:08] - Love Hate relationship with Poly [17:22] - Single Women in the space [20:01] - Back to the potential GF [25:30] - What do you want, Brian? [27:43] - Is it easier to be poly or lifestyle? [32:29] - Body Count, love it or hate it? [43:22] - What do YOU think? ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla are joined by the beautiful and brilliant Jacki! We dive deep into navigating sexual health and relationships in the Lifestyle. Jacki shares insights from the Aids Healthcare Foundation, including free STI testing and the importance of PEP & PrEP for protection. Hear the truth about PrEP's side effects, and find out why everyone—even Lifestyle folks—might want to consider it. Plus, brace yourself for stories on why Coachella got mad at AHF and Layla's NIGHTMARE DATE. We love this episode and the incredible balance of fun, funny, AND we learned so much! ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Letting someone hit rock bottom [05:22] - Welcome Jacki [07:02] - Aids Healthcare Foundation (AHF) [09:36] - Free STI testing  [11:11] - PEP & PrEP [18:07] - Side effects of PrEP [19:23] - Should Lifestyle people be on PrEP? [21:10] - Eye Syphilis?! [27:13] - Coachella got mad at us ----------- Wanna learn more about AHF? Check out their site Get your free STI tests Check out their IG Check out their TT Check out them out on Twitter/X Support Out of the Closet ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla take on some BIG topics. We traverse politics both in and out of the play space, what Halloween means to the ENM community, and patterns they notice in the spaces they are in. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Brian's spontaneous Vegas Play [03:18] - Let's talk about politics [12:51] - Politics in the Play space [20:25 - The Biggest Party of the Year [29:21] - Using the Play space to avoid… ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes with the incredible Woz & Tee! They answer burning questions, tell us how to give the best compliments, how NOT to be a creep, and everything you need to know for your first play party! ----------- Come say hi! ⁠Follow us on IG⁠ ⁠Follow us on TT⁠ Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian talk about their perspective of the new Netflix show MONSTERS, the difference between play parties and orgies, and a BIG PSA for single guys in the ENM space. Plus, Brian spills on his experience with their first play party back and his first trimix experience! The following episode contains discussions of graphic and sensitive topics, including murder, violence, and sexual assault. Listener discretion is strongly advised. The content may be triggering or distressing for some listeners, particularly those who have experienced trauma. We share this information to raise awareness and foster open dialogue, but we recognize that not everyone may feel comfortable engaging with these topics. Resources: If you or someone you know is affected by the issues discussed, please seek support from the following organizations: RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for help regarding sexual violence. National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.thehotline.org for confidential support related to domestic violence. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call 988 or visit 988lifeline.org for 24/7 support if you're feeling overwhelmed or in crisis. VictimConnect Resource Center: Call 1-855-4-VICTIM (855-484-2846) or visit www.victimconnect.org for help navigating services for victims of crime. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Monsters [04:18] - Were they justified? [11:42] - SA statistics [18:24] - Orgy vs Play Party [25:00] - Brian's first Play Party back! [26:26] - The trimix experience [38:03] - Single guys in ENM ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Ana joins Layla and Brian and teach them how to PLAY with their food. The world of ENM is so vast, and we LOVE unlocking new kinks! What's your fantasy? If you like what you see, check out Ana's other links down below! She donates a percentage of her proceeds to charities each month. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Ana WAS the cake [2:31] - The food fantasy [3:56] - What is Sploshing? [5:49] - What foods are you playing with? [9:49] - Food Play horror stories [11:27] - Next on the bucket list [15:21] - Food Play Demonstration! [21:10] - Relaxing into new sensations --------- Wanna learn more about Ana? Check out her other content Check out her IG ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are picking up on Part 2 because is just so much more to chat about! This is a raw insight into their thoughts and opinions on what's going on in the media! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

The Masked Swingers BONUS episode! Layla's first GB! And Brian and Layla tackle a sensitive topic with infamous Diddy parties and what to look out for. They talk all about power dynamics at parties, how money influences that, and how to stay safe when going to a new party. Be on the lookout for part 2 coming on Friday! Disclaimer: The episode contains discussions about sensitive topics, including sex trafficking, exploitation, and other mature content. Viewer discretion is advised, especially for younger audiences or those who may find these topics distressing. Our aim is to shed light on these important issues and provide awareness, but we understand the content may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is affected by the topics discussed, we encourage you to seek professional support. Resources: - National Human Trafficking Hotline: Call 1-888-373-7888 or text "HELP" to 233733 (BEFREE) for confidential help or to report a tip. Available 24/7. - Polaris Project: Visit www.polarisproject.org for more information on human trafficking and ways to get help. - RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for support regarding sexual violence. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [00:51] - Layla' first….!!! [12:42] - The missing necklace [15:31] - Clear delineation of roles in a party [17:12] - Not all parties are made equal [24:48] - Money and Power dynamics [35:33] - How to avoid a party like Diddy party [44:22] - ENM consent culture ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IGFollow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian are joined by the incredible Tia Lynn Campbell ALL ABOUT

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Brian get vulnerable. It's Layla's birthday! Sophia Domina is launching her book with a BDSM Party. Layla's Mom was a Playboy model?! So much to catch up on. Our besties go into lessons from their breaks, the realities of STI scares, and having each other's backs for their first party back. Listen to Sophia's Domme brilliance in her episode! ----------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Happy Birthday LAYLA! [01:53] - What's that necklace? [05:24] - The Play break is done [06:49] - Hump Film Festival [11:43] - Prioritizing mental and physical health [20:01] - The BDSM Party [25:57] - STI and ENM [33:00] - Brian gets vulnerable [41:14] - Million Subs reveal ----------- Come Say Hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian sit down with her husband's soulmate, Cami from the Double Teamed podcast! They dive deep into the real Poly dynamics of watching you husband fall in love with another person and then support him through the breakup. This beautiful, vulnerable episode is true peace and compersion. Double Teamed Podcast is dedicated to exploring various relationship styles and sexualities, aiming to shed light on these often-taboo topics and foster greater understanding and acceptance among younger generations. Hosts Cami and Niki share candid and heartfelt conversations about their experiences with relationships, dating, and kink. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [11:57] - What attracted you to my husband? [17:30] - Watching my husband fall in love with another person [21:14] - Dating Twins [24:41] - Lessons from my first ENM relationship [27:29] - Why did you end it? [32:55] - How to convert your Vanilla friends [37:16] - A Primary Foundation [40:39] - I helped my husband through his heartbreak [42:13] - What would you do differently in hindsight? [46:00] - Rapid questions ------------ Curious about the Double Teamed Podcast? Listen to Double Teamed Podcast on Spotify Follow Double Teamed on IG Follow Cami on IG Follow Double Teamed Podcast on TT Get Cami's first thought on X ----------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This episode, we're exposing some of the juiciest secrets from Reddit, and you won't want to miss it. Inspired by Layla's unforgettable swinger trip that went sideways, we're giving you all the updates and sharing our reactions to some wild Reddit stories. With an ethical non-monogamy (ENM) lens, we'll be asking the big question: Is it cheating? We'd love to hear from you, too—comment below with your take! Do you think these stories cross the line, or are they fair game in an open relationship? ---------- Episodes mentioned: Layla's hot, swinger weekend turned into a nightmare 24 hours Ally from Passport 2 Pleasure episode ---------- Come Say Hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [02:15] - We keep seeing this girl at raves [04:03] - Layla's lifestyle break [06:59] - Brian's lifestyle break [11:05] - Is it Cheating…Facetime [15:23] - Is it Cheating…Anonymous OF [21:06] - Is it Cheating…Bachelorette Party [28:00] - Until Next Time

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are joined (again!) by Michael from The Play LA. He shares not only what it's like to build a safe community in a space where breakups and jealousy happens, but also getting vulnerable with his own experience dealing with a break up AND coming out as Poly to his family. This is a juicy one! Listen to Michael's previous episode! As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice is a highly respected authority in the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) space, combining extensive personal experience with a strong background as a leader in the field. Guided by the principles of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry, Michael curates safe and inclusive spaces that foster genuine connections and drive cultural evolution. Michael has curated over 100 events that have become staples in the ENM and polyamorous scenes. His deep understanding of these dynamics, both through his work with The Play and his personal journey, makes him an invaluable resource on all things ENM, polyamory, and beyond. Curious about The Play? Apply here to be a part of the amazing community. Follow The Play on IG. Follow Michael on IG. Come Say Hi! Follow The Masked Swingers on IG. Follow The Masked Swingers on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [01:11] - A little bit about The Play and community [05:04] - What happens when a couple breaks up?? [06:24] - The distrust in single men [9:36] - Disentangling as a couple [13:01] - Real Poly Shit [21:55] - Is Brian Poly? [23:27] - Jealousy & Reclamation [26:36] - Our worst fear [34:59] - To those who want to embrace their Poly…

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week is a little different. Layla gets vulnerable and shared about her experience at a mini ENM weekend. There are a lot of layers so get ready to dive into the discomfort of jealousy and come out on the other side. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - The Unexpected Call [03:20] - Going to the hospital [8:16] - Trying to connect after a hard day [11:05] - The simmer of annoyance [18:11] - Exploring Jealousy [23:07] - The impact of jealousy [29:15] - Unspoken agreements and communication [32:27] - Is it causing a scene? [38:47] - Navigating insecurity [45:08] - Hard for vulnerability [54:22] - Taking a break ---------- Come say hi! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Come experience You, Me & Her with us in LA! Get your tickets to the outdoor event and screening! Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week is a super special episode! We are joined by the magnificent creative team behind You, Me & Her. Selina and Dan dive into the real story behind this film, finding your sexuality as an adult, and exploring new dynamics within your marriage! You, Me & Her has won over 13 awards in the indie film festival scene including Best Feature Film at the Mexican American Film & Television Awards, and Best Romantic Comedy at the Los Angeles Film Festival!  Set against the backdrop of a serene summer night, this cinematic gem delves into the complexities of a decade-long relationship. Mags (played by Ringel) and Ash (Ritesh Rajan of *Russian Doll* and *Jungle Book*) find themselves in a rut during their first vacation post-baby. Enter Angela (Sydney Park of *The Walking Dead* and *First Love*), a spiritual digital nomad who sparks a new dynamic. The trio's exploration into the idea of a threesome brings unexpected twists and opportunities for reconnection. “What looks to be a raunchy sex comedy eventually turns into something more substantial, as Ringel's nuanced script finds surprising depth as well as humor in a strained domesticity nearing the breaking point.” - Dennis Harvey, 48 hills Can't get enough of Selina & Dan? Visit You, Me & Her site Follow You, Me & Her on IG Follow 2 Hands Production on IG Follow Two Hands Production on YT Follow Selina on IG Want more from The Masked Swingers? Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Welcome Selina & Dan! [02:05] - The Vegas Origin Story [7:44] - The excitement of the fantasy [8:48] - Being honest with yourself and your partner [12:45] - Perfect timing  [14:04] - The Message of the Movie [16:36] - The Pole to Hole ratio [18:33] - Let's get vulnerable [20:20] - Interactive experience of You, Me & Her [25:43] - Navigating the nuance of ENM & authentic storytelling [30:44] - How not to intro ENM [41:28] - The Debrief

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week we are joined by the beautiful, the hilarious, the sexy Kitana Kisses. We talk about her experience as a trans woman in the lifestyle space, how she played with Brian, the torture party with Layla, dating as a trans woman, and everything in between. We had so much fun chatting with her. Buckle up for the ride of a lifetime. Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introducing Kitana Kisses [06:01] - Unicorn of unicorns [13:17] - Inappropriate experiences [14:50] - Trans fetishization [21:49] - Kitana's journey [26:17] - The torture party Love Kitana? Find her socials: Check out her IG Her X Her TikTok Come find us! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week, we are joined by the hilarious Mo James! He is a stand-up comedian in the LA area, bringing the conversation and the laughs about the funny, awkward side of ENM. Topics Covered Brian keeps stabbing people with his…red bull can Layla feeling the pressure of playing amidst a lot of changes happening What are acceptable behaviors when it comes to race play? Making ENM relatable in comedy Mo does a live performance Brian & Mo's BEEF! Where you can find Mo! Timestamps [00:00] - Introduction & Brian tries a new mask[ 04:16] - The unexpected backdoor entry [9:19] - The pressure of playing with ENM friends [20:08] - Mo joins! [21:06] - The race question [24:25] - The rules of Comedy and ENM [30:05] - Toeing the line of relatability and uniqueness [32:37] - The live performance [35:02] - The p*rn star story [37:57] - The beef [42:25] - Embracing the communication of ENM [44:41] - Where you can find Mo Where you can find Mo The Kinky Comedy Show! Next show on August 17th Mo's site Mo's IG Come Say Hi! Join our Discord Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

*We apologize for some audio issues in this episode!* Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! We have the angelic, beautiful Dom joining us today! She shares her journey as an Escort. She shares her horror stories, dive into the details of what escorts are, and we put Brian in the hot seat! Topics Covered Breastmilk Kink Pregnancy Kink What drives you to pay for an Escort Listen to your gut Getting started in the industry Vetting potential clients Attraction to clients Brian's honeymoon massage horror story X hack for finding providers Pricing hypotheticals Come find us! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Join our Discord Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! As promised, we are recapping Brian's first GB! It's harder than it looks. Resources and Links Missed the original GB episode? You can listen to it here. Come say hi! Join our Discord! Follow us on IG! Follow us on TT! Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com 

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! This week we have the one and only Ken Feels! You may have seen Ken on your spicy platform of choice, but he shares his journey from creating a sex-positive, educational platform to going full pro in the adult industry, and his ENM journey in the background of all of that.  All about Ken: Check out his Spicy OF Check out his Sex Course OF Follow Ken on IG Follow Ken on X Come say hi! Join our Discord! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com