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Send us a textSherrie is BackSherrie Allsup is an international speaker, educator, and subject matter expert with lived experience. She speaks on topics such as sexual assault, sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide. Sherrie is a survivor of long-term sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide attempts. After much hard work and healing she became the founder and CEO of Courage Starts With You. For victims, Courage means telling someone and reaching out for help. For law enforcement, Courage means looking beyond the traditional victim interview technique to recognize how and why victims of assault may act differently than victims of crimes. She purchased a cemetery plot, purchased the outfit she wanted to be buried in, and made the decision that morning was going to be the day Sherrie Allsup no longer lived to endure the pain she lived daily throughout her life. Yet, those were not the cards that she was dealt. That was the moment that she began to take her power back. Sherrie Allsup's journey took a profound turn when faced with the contemplation of ending her life, she instead chose to reclaim her power. She now travels and shares her story to shine a light on the lifelong challenges that sexual abuse and trauma leave behind. Her pieces of training are centered around shining a light on the dark epidemic of sexual abuse and assault. She is also a member of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, Incest, and Neglect Network). She says, “Trauma victims almost live plan to plan or we wouldn't survive.” Embracing Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) psychotherapy, Sherrie embarked on a new chapter. In her own words, “This sentiment encapsulates her life, where she navigated each moment with a flickering flashlight, battling the pain that haunted her daily. Determined to break free from the past, she decided that the grip of her father's years of abuse is not going to define her”. Find Sherrie AllsupWebsiteFacebookLinkedinFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramTom Flynn InstagramApple PodcastSpotifyYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilySherri AllsupKetaReviveToyota of HackensackSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube
Join us for a special episode of the Dead America Podcast where we delve into the serious and pressing issue of sexual violence. Hosts Ed Watters and his wife, Theresa, share their personal experiences with sexual abuse and discuss the long-lasting impacts it has on survivors. The episode highlights the importance of education, open communication, and the role of organizations like RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network) in providing support and resources for survivors. Learn about different types of sexual violence, the challenges faced by victims, especially men and boys, and the importance of reporting and standing up against sexual assaults. This episode is part of Podcasthon and aims to raise awareness and support for RAINN's mission. 00:00 Introduction: The Power of Education 00:54 Special Episode Announcement 01:27 Highlighting RAINN's Mission 03:11 Personal Stories of Struggle and Healing 08:11 The Importance of Communication 21:21 Understanding Sexual Violence 33:19 Sexual Assault of Men and Boys 36:01 Intimate Partner Sexual Violence 40:42 Incest: Breaking the Silence 44:57 Drug Facilitated Sexual Assault 47:02 Statistics and the Criminal Justice System 57:51 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
In this episode, we explore the harsh realities of growing up in a household shaped by abuse and substance use. Cort's mom, Renee, shares her firsthand experience of navigating fear, instability, and trauma while trying to find their own path to healing. We discuss the emotional toll, the long-term effects, and the resilience it takes to break free from generational cycles. Whether you've lived through a similar experience or want to better understand the struggles faced by so many, this episode offers insight, validation, and hope. Whether you've experienced it firsthand or want to understand the impact, this podcast offers a space for healing, awareness, and hope.For support and additional resources, visit: • SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) – www.samhsa.gov (Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP) • National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN) – www.nctsn.org • Drug Policy Alliance – www.drugpolicy.org • RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) – www.rainn.org (Helpline: 1-800-656-HOPE)If you need immediate support, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted professional or crisis service. You are not alone.Follow us on IG for more: https://www.instagram.com/spillinitpodcast/?igsh=aXc4cDJmcmVxbGpjhttps://www.instagram.com/thecortreport/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/renee63eaglestar/?igsh=N21mNzBxdDltYjBHave an inspiring story you would like to share? Fill out this Questionnaire and we will be in touch.
The Healing Power of Expressive Writing: An Interview with Dr. Jamie Pennebaker In this enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative world of expressive writing with Dr. Jamie Pennebaker, a leading researcher in the field. Dr. Pennebaker recounts the fascinating journey from his initial studies on the impact of journaling on overcoming trauma to the development of the computer program, Linguistic Inquiry and Word Count (LIWC). Discover how expressive writing can remarkably improve physical and mental health, the significance of language in understanding emotional states, and practical advice for implementing these insights into daily life. Whether it's navigating personal hardships or fostering self-awareness, this conversation uncovers the profound benefits of putting thoughts into words. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:31 Discovering the Power of Expressive Writing 03:09 The First Study and Its Impact 06:02 Methodology and Instructions for Expressive Writing 09:48 Health Benefits and Challenges of Expressive Writing 17:07 Exploring Language and Mental Health 39:30 Case Study: Kathleen Folbigg and Text Analysis 43:16 Reflections and Future Outlook Mental Health Resources Australia: * Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au * Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 or beyondblue.org.au * 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 or 1800respect.org.au * Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 or kidshelpline.com.au * SANE Australia: 1800 187 263 or sane.org United States: * National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE or RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) at rainn.org * National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 * Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 * The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or nami.org * Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or samhsa.gov United Kingdom: * National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 or nationaldahelpline.org.uk * Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999 or rapecrisis.org.uk * Samaritans: 116 123 or samaritans.org * Mind: 0300 123 3393 or mind.org.uk * Shout Crisis Text Line: Text SHOUT to 85258 * NHS mental health services: via your GP or the NHS website.
Abuse can make you feel powerless, worthless, and hopeless. But healing is available in Christ. In this episode, Haley and Dustin discuss the impact abuse can have on a person and how God can heal us from past pain. With vulnerability and compassion, they share stories and walk through some practical, biblical steps we can take to move toward healing and recovery. Listen now – it's such an encouraging story and conversation on addiction, recovery, and the hope we have in Christ. Subscribe to the podcast and tune in each week as Haley and Dustin share with you what the Bible says about real-life issues with compassion, warmth, and wit. So you have every reason for hope, for every challenge in life. Because hope means everything. Hope Talks is a podcast of the ministry of Hope for the Heart. Listen in to learn more (05:07) Understanding the Impact of Abuse (13:57) Recovery From Past Abuse and Mistreatment (20:25) Healing From Childhood Trauma (22:05) Understanding & Addressing Personal Responsibility (26:14) Processing Childhood Realizations and Forgiveness (30:29) Steps to Healing From Past Trauma (38:42) Integrating Recovery Into Daily Life -------------- Abuse Recovery hotlines & resources National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. Visit www.thehotline.org Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741. Visit www.crisistextline.org RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: Call or text 800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453). Visit www.childhelp.org SAMHSA's National Helpline (Substance Use and Mental Health): Call 800-662-HELP (4357). Visit www.samhsa.gov Hope for the Heart resources: Abuse Recovery book: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/store/product/abuse-recovery Abuse Recovery video course: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/store/product/abuse-recovery-video-course Connect with Hope for the Heart on social! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopefortheheart Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopefortheheart Learn more about the ministry and resources of Hope for the Heart: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/ Learn more about Hope Talks and catch up on past episodes: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/hopetalks/ Want to talk with June Hunt on Hope in the Night about a difficult life issue? Schedule a time here: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/talk-with-june-hope-in-the-night God's plan for you: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/gods-plan-for-you/ Give to the ministry of Hope for the Heart: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/donation/givehope/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=notes&utm_campaign=hopetalks -------------- Bible verses mentioned in this episode Psalm 145:8 – “The LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love.” Psalm 147:3 – “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Matthew 8:14-15 – “When Jesus came into Peter's house, he saw Peter's mother-in-law lying in bed with a fever. He touched her hand, and the fever left her. She got up and began to wait for him.” Mark 5:21-43 – The story of Jesus raising Jairus' daughter from the dead. Romans 8:38-39 – “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
This episode references to sexual assault and other mature themes. The chapters we fear the most often hold the keys to our liberation. For Brittani, confronting the sexual assault she endured at 13 was not just a reckoning—it was a battle for her own voice. Her journey was anything but straightforward, winding through years of suppressed memories, silent struggles, and an internal war she fought alone. For 14 years, Brittani carried the weight of her silence, hiding behind walls that had protected her for so long. But when she finally began therapy and shared her story with her loved ones, those walls started to crumble. Piece by piece, she dismantled the silence that had held her captive, discovering a resilience she hadn't known was there. Now, Brittani isn't just surviving her past, she's facing it head-on, reclaiming her power, and rewriting her future. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988 https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453 https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.com Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
1 in 3 teens are victim to teen dating violence. That is one and a half million teens affected in the US alone. It is Teen Dating Violence Awareness month and all month long I will be talking about this topic. Because. It. Is. Happening. Every. Day.Why is teen dating violence so prevalent in teens? What are the repercussions of teen dating violence? And what IS the number one way to prevent teen dating violence and how do you develop more of that one attribute?! I will be answering all these questions today!! In the weeks ahead I'll cover..."What does a healthy relationship look like and feel like?""How do you set healthy boundaries?""What are the signs and red flags of an unhealthy and abusive relationship?""Where can I turn for support and help? And how do I support a friend who is in an abusive relationship?" Here are some resources to turn to immediately if you are in an abusive relationship!Love is Respect (loveisrespect.org) – Offers education on healthy relationships and resources for teens.National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org) – Provides support for those experiencing abuse.Break the Cycle (breakthecycle.org) – Focuses on ending dating violence among young people.RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) (rainn.org) – The largest anti-sexual violence organization in the U.S.Books: "The Confidence Code for Girls" by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman – Helps build self-esteem in young girls. "Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life" by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend – Teaches self-respect and assertiveness. National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233).Send us a textSupport the showPlease consider clicking below to make a one time donation to help "Monday Mindset With Isha Warriors" reach more people across the world!Donate Here
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes. [Lou's Story Part 3/3] Two women, bound by a shared history of manipulation and abuse. What started as Lou's solitary search for a single photograph spiraled into an unexpected connection with Eve —another woman ensnared by the same dark past. Together, they began to unearth what had long been buried, but the truth is rarely kind, and it only reveals itself when you're ready to face what lies beneath. Piece by painful piece, Lou and Eve began reclaiming their stories, finding strength in the solidarity of their shared resilience. But the funny thing about diving into your past is you don't know how much weight you're going to have to shed before you can come up for air. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988 https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453 https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.com Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes. [Lou's Story Part 2/3] Lou is searching for a photograph of John — but it's not just a picture she's after. Beneath the surface of one man's destruction lies a tangled web of resilience and buried truths waiting to be uncovered. In this chapter layers of manipulation are stripped away, exposing the hauntingly intertwined lives of Eve and Lou —two women forever linked by their shared past with John. As their stories unfold, they confront the ripple effects of trauma, the sinister disguises of control, and the power of reclaiming what was never his to take. From pregnancies to escapes, from shattered illusions to hard-fought reckonings, Lou and Eve retrace their paths, confronting the past as they piece together their present. Each revelation brings them closer to understanding not only John's shadow over their lives, but the strength they've found in breaking free from it. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988 https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453 https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.com Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes. [Lou's Story Part 1/3] Lou's story isn't just about survival—it's a battle cry of reclamation. In this chapter she unravels the deeply personal account of her entanglement with John, her manipulative and abusive ex-boyfriend. The emotional wounds of their relationship left scars that refused to fade, but it was the unexpected moment of seeing him again years later that pulled her back into the shadows of her past. As the trauma resurfaced, Lou found herself grappling with questions she thought she had buried. In retracing the steps of her formative years and confronting the weight of generational trauma, Lou begins to piece together a path toward recovery. But healing isn't a straight line — it's a labyrinth of pain, resilience, and startling realizations that could change everything. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988 https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453 https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.com Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our stories rarely unfold the way we expect. In the first eight chapters, Brittani Ard uncovered something about herself she never expected: the most powerful weapon she had was her own voice. It wasn't just a tool for healing — it was a force strong enough to confront her past and rewrite her future. But that discovery came at a cost. Retracing Kanon's steps wasn't just heartbreaking, it was a journey through pain, betrayal, and revelations since childhood that she wasn't prepared to face. Yet, amidst the wreckage of chasing a love that was never meant to be, Brittani found something even more extraordinary — true love, waiting in the most unexpected place. Season 2 isn't just about Brittani's story. It's about what happens when you refuse to be a victim of your own narrative. When you step into the raw, unfiltered truth of who you are and decide to own it. It turns out vulnerability isn't a weakness. It's where courage collides with strength, and where the most surprising chapters of life begin to take shape. *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988 https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453 https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.com Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This episode contains explicit discussions of childhood sexual abuse, trauma, and violence that may be triggering for some listeners. This content is intended for mature audiences only. If you're currently processing trauma, please consider whether this episode is appropriate for you at this time. Support resources are available in our show notes. Actor Antino Crowley-Kamenwati ("Law & Order: SVU," "Gotham") joins us at Café Reggio for a raw, unfiltered conversation about transformation. Beyond his distinctive appearance and powerful on-screen presence, Antino shares his journey from trauma to triumph, revealing how art and acting became his path to healing. This isn't your typical actor interview – it's a deep dive into survival, authenticity, and the power of owning your story. Antino opens up about his mission to help others facing similar struggles, proving that our darkest experiences can become our greatest source of light. Support Resources If you or someone you know has experienced sexual abuse, trauma, or is struggling with mental health issues, please know that help is available: National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Available 24/7, confidential support RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): WEBSITE The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): 1-800-950-6264 24/7 crisis counseling and support LGBT National Help Center: 1-888-843-4564 Peer support, community connections, and resource referrals Black Mental Health Alliance: WEBSITE Culturally competent mental health resources and support Male Survivor: WEBSITE Support specifically for male survivors of sexual trauma The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386 Crisis intervention and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth These organizations offer confidential support, counseling referrals, and resources. You don't have to carry your burden alone. Whether you're ready to speak now or just need information for the future, these resources are here for you. Feature Story: https://www.newyorksaid.com/still-waters-run-deep-the-unrelenting-truth-of-antino-crowley-kamenwati
In this episode, we laugh, cry, and philosophize with Callie Ott, an incredible actress, comedian, and the creator of Final Girl: The Musical, which debuted at the Hollywood Fringe Festival earlier this year. Inspired by true events, the one-woman show combines side-splitting humor and poignant explorations of toxic relationships and cycles of abuse through the lens of the final girl trope. We discuss Callie's lifelong love for the horror genre, the physical and emotional stamina you need to perform such an impactful one-person show (with 11 musical numbers!), the incredible healing power of art, and how talking candidly about our experiences can stop cycles of abuse. Despite the heavy subject matter, there is a lot of laughter! The episode also ends with a recording of one of the musical numbers from Final Girl, "Exorcise My Boyfriend."Content warning: This episode contains frank discussions of suicide, intimate partner abuse, and sexual assault. Please take care of yourselves! And if you or someone you know is grappling with suicidal ideation or intimate partner violence, please consider utilizing these resources: The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - Call or text 988 or visit https://988lifeline.org/ RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network) - Call 1-800-656-4673 or visit https://rainn.org/Follow Callie on socials at:IG - callieeottTwitter - @HorrorMarginsFacebook - @HorrorInTheMarginsPodcastInstagram - @horrorinthemarginsTikTok - @horrorinthemarginsIf there's a movie you'd like us to review or a creator you'd like us to interview, send us an email at horrorinthemargins@gmail.com. We're happy to consider your suggestions. Stay spooky, Pod People. Podcast intro - Music by The_Mountain from PixabayPodcast outro - Music by ComaStudio from Pixabay
In this impactful episode of Maritime Unity, host Eva Lianne Veldkamp welcomes Jessica St. Germaine, Director of Consulting at RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), to discuss critical issues in the maritime sector. Together, they delve into the challenges of inclusion, safety, and reporting policies in a dynamic and often vulnerable industry. Key topics include: -The ripple effect of the Midshipman X case and its influence on industry standards. -How trauma-informed policies create a safer and more supportive environment. -The urgent need to address bullying and harassment with effective solutions. -Practical strategies to foster a more inclusive maritime community. Whether you're a seafarer, industry leader, or advocate for change, this episode offers actionable insights to help build safer workplaces at sea and beyond.
In this timely episode relating to conversations in the United States, Kara speaks with Danielle Tumminio Hansen, author of Speaking of Rape: The Limits of Language in Sexual Violence. RAINN (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network, the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization) notes that every 68 seconds an American is sexually assaulted. Kara and Danielle speak to their experiences around sexual assault and how it looked different from what they had learned, leading to confusion for both of them. In their conversation, Danielle explains how her book spells out why there is confusion on what constitutes sexual violence and how this continues to harm us. Danielle Tumminio Hansen is an Associate Professor of Practical Theology and Spiritual Care at Emory University. She's the author of several books, and her articles have been featured on national and international news outlets, including CNN and The Guardian. She's also an ordained Episcopal priest. www.danielletumminiohansen.com www.instagram.com/drdanielleethansen www.facebook.com/danielle.tumminio www.rainn.org
Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian talk about their perspective of the new Netflix show MONSTERS, the difference between play parties and orgies, and a BIG PSA for single guys in the ENM space. Plus, Brian spills on his experience with their first play party back and his first trimix experience! The following episode contains discussions of graphic and sensitive topics, including murder, violence, and sexual assault. Listener discretion is strongly advised. The content may be triggering or distressing for some listeners, particularly those who have experienced trauma. We share this information to raise awareness and foster open dialogue, but we recognize that not everyone may feel comfortable engaging with these topics. Resources: If you or someone you know is affected by the issues discussed, please seek support from the following organizations: RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for help regarding sexual violence. National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.thehotline.org for confidential support related to domestic violence. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call 988 or visit 988lifeline.org for 24/7 support if you're feeling overwhelmed or in crisis. VictimConnect Resource Center: Call 1-855-4-VICTIM (855-484-2846) or visit www.victimconnect.org for help navigating services for victims of crime. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Monsters [04:18] - Were they justified? [11:42] - SA statistics [18:24] - Orgy vs Play Party [25:00] - Brian's first Play Party back! [26:26] - The trimix experience [38:03] - Single guys in ENM ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com
Does it ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle, trying to heal from something that's left you feeling broken? You've probably been told to just push through it, but that's left you feeling even more lost and alone. It's time to break free from the pain and find real healing. Let's uncover the way forward together. "You are worth saving. You are worthy of a beautiful life and having your dream and being a loving person because we are all created out of love." - Cindy Benezra Cindy Benezra, an accomplished author, speaker, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and advocate, brings a wealth of personal experience and insight to the critical conversation surrounding trauma recovery. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Cindy's compelling memoir, Under the Orange Blossoms, provides a raw and courageous account of her healing journey. Her dedication to promoting awareness and initiating meaningful dialogues about the impact of sexual trauma reflects her unwavering commitment to empowering survivors. With a multicultural background shaped by diverse nationalities and global experiences, Cindy offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of trauma recovery. Her story serves as an inspiration, offering hope and valuable insights to those seeking healing and empowerment after similar experiences. Discover effective strategies for healing from childhood sexual abuse. Gain insights into mental health awareness and trauma recovery. Understand the profound impact of sexual trauma on mental health. Explore the benefits of therapy for abuse survivors (if you need a therapist, get 10% off your first month at Better Help with this link.) Learn how to navigate life as a third culture individual. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:02 - Introduction to Betterhelp and World Mental Health Day 00:01:17 - Cindy's Cultural Background and Identity 00:03:38 - Writing as a Healing Process 00:10:31 - Sharing Personal Trauma 00:13:24 - Overcoming Shame and Healing 00:13:46 - Overcoming Societal Pressures 00:16:06 - Difficulty in Reporting Abuse 00:19:53 - Recognizing the Reality of Abuse 00:24:42 - Self-realization and Accountability 00:26:54 - Sharing Wisdom and Providing Hope 00:28:03 - The Importance of Self-Love and Support 00:28:28 - Rebuilding and Worthiness 00:29:26 - Opening Up and Sharing Stories 00:30:29 - Healing and Mental Health Awareness Check out Cindy Benezra's book Under the Orange Blossoms available in most bookstores for an in-depth look at her journey and experiences. Visit www.Cindytalks.com to connect with Cindy, access her YouTube videos, and learn more about her work and advocacy. Explore the resources provided by RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) for support and assistance for survivors of abuse. Consider seeking professional help from a therapist or mental health professional to address any trauma or mental health challenges you may be facing. Connect with Lori & the Difference Makers: https://www.aworldofdifferencepodcast.com https://www.linkedin.com/company/aworldofdifference/ https://www.twitter.com/@awodpod https://www.youtube.com/@aworldofdifference https://www.facebook.com/A-World-of-Difference-613933132591673/ https://www.instagram.com/aworldof.difference https://www.patreon.com/aworldofdifference Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Masked Swingers BONUS episode! Layla's first GB! And Brian and Layla tackle a sensitive topic with infamous Diddy parties and what to look out for. They talk all about power dynamics at parties, how money influences that, and how to stay safe when going to a new party. Be on the lookout for part 2 coming on Friday! Disclaimer: The episode contains discussions about sensitive topics, including sex trafficking, exploitation, and other mature content. Viewer discretion is advised, especially for younger audiences or those who may find these topics distressing. Our aim is to shed light on these important issues and provide awareness, but we understand the content may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is affected by the topics discussed, we encourage you to seek professional support. Resources: - National Human Trafficking Hotline: Call 1-888-373-7888 or text "HELP" to 233733 (BEFREE) for confidential help or to report a tip. Available 24/7. - Polaris Project: Visit www.polarisproject.org for more information on human trafficking and ways to get help. - RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for support regarding sexual violence. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [00:51] - Layla' first….!!! [12:42] - The missing necklace [15:31] - Clear delineation of roles in a party [17:12] - Not all parties are made equal [24:48] - Money and Power dynamics [35:33] - How to avoid a party like Diddy party [44:22] - ENM consent culture ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IGFollow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com
Send me a text message! I do read them all! Include your phone number if you would like to correspond.I do a short run through of what narc abuse looks like and what it is. I used chat gpt as a source for my script and any “facts.” If you or someone you know are in an abuse relationship, feel unsafe, need help, support, resources etc. there are options:• National Abuse Hotline 800-799-7233Or textBEGIN to 88788https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence• Love Is Respect: Offers information and support for those in abusive relationships (www.loveisrespect.org).•The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV): Provides resources and advocacy for abuse survivors (www.ncadv.org).• ChildHelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453 (for children facing abuse).• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-4673 (for sexual abuse and assault survivors).
Send me a text message! I do read them all! Include your phone number if you would like to correspond.I do a small list of movies that show examples of what narc abuse can look like. Resources: • National Abuse Hotline800-799-7233Or textBEGIN to 88788https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence• Love Is Respect:Offers information and support for those in abusive relationships (www.loveisrespect.org).•The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV):Provides resources and advocacy for abuse survivors (www.ncadv.org).• ChildHelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453 (for children facing abuse).• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-4673 (for sexual abuse and assault survivors).
This week, the Taylors are back with another long-awaited solo episode to catch up with their Lemon Drops! To start off, Tay opens up about some of her recent health scares, including a breast cancer scare that underscores the critical importance of regular self-screening, and a major anxiety attack. They then dive into an advice segment where they share tips for discussing your mental health with your parents, essential communication skills to strengthen your relationships, and practical advice for high school students facing everyday pressures. The Taylors also provide actionable tips for managing anxiety and deliver a heartfelt message to anyone struggling with thoughts of self-harm. To finish off, they challenge you all to text a friend or loved one that you love and appreciate them!Check out our episode with Kevin Hines here:YouTube: Kevin Hines: All I Wanted to Do Was LiveSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4pDCPREguZINfqSrTMDVos?si=9b6d5d684412407cApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-squeeze/id1665203594?i=1000622383470If you or someone you know is seeking mental health resources:Call the NAMI Helpline: 1-800-950-6264Text the NAMI Helpline: “HELPLINE” to 62640988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): https://www.rainn.org/To email us your questions or share your story, you can reach out to lautner.thesqueezepodcast@gmail.comBe sure to rate, review, and follow the podcast so you don't miss an episode! Plus, follow us on Instagram:The Squeeze: https://instagram.com/thesqueeze/Tay Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylautner/Taylor Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylorlautner/& TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@thesqueezepodcastTo learn more from The Lemons Foundation, follow https://instagram.com/lemonsbytay/ and visit lemonsbytay.comEpisode Sponsors:Trust your gut with Seed's DS-01 Daily Synbiotic. Go to Seed.com/THESQUEEZE and use code 25THESQUEEZE to get 25% off your first month. Get 15% off your first month at ritual.com/THESQUEEZE. Start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ to your subscription today. Use code SQUEEZE at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. 1 time use only.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Trigger Warning: The following episode contains content about sexual assault, child abuse, drug abuse, death, violence, and mental illness that some viewers may find disturbing. Viewer discretion is advised.Today, the Taylors are sitting down for an exclusive episode with Angel Carter Conrad as she bravely opens up about the tragic passing of her twin brother, Aaron Carter, and other details surrounding the Carter family. To begin, Angel talks about what life was like for her and her siblings growing up while their parents struggled with addiction. She explains when she and her siblings began battling addiction themselves, then shares about her relationships with her family and explains the real reason why she filed a restraining order against Aaron. Angel gives valuable insight into why it is so important for children to have a stable environment to grow up in and talks about the genetic component of mental health and how it can often run in the family. Finally, she offers advice for talking to young kids about mental health, highlights some signs that show a child may be struggling, and gives tips for someone who sees themselves stuck in a generational cycle but feels discouraged that they aren't strong enough to break it. We want to give a huge thank you to Angel for her vulnerability and strength in sharing her unimaginable story.Be sure to follow Angel on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/angelcharissma/ and check out The Kids Mental Health Foundation https://kidsmentalhealthfoundation.org/.If you or someone you know is seeking mental health resources:Call the NAMI Helpline: 1-800-950-6264Text the NAMI Helpline: “HELPLINE” to 62640988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): https://www.rainn.org/To email us your questions or share your story, you can reach out to lautner.thesqueezepodcast@gmail.comBe sure to rate, review, and follow the podcast so you don't miss an episode! Plus, follow us on Instagram:The Squeeze: https://instagram.com/thesqueeze/Tay Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylautner/Taylor Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylorlautner/& TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@thesqueezepodcastTo learn more from The Lemons Foundation, follow https://instagram.com/lemonsbytay/ and visit lemonsbytay.comProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
From our friends at the LAist —In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault.For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network).Here are some resources that informed our reporting: Working It: Sex Workers on the Work of Sex (In particular, the essay "White Supremacy in Organizing" by Domino Rey) Unequal Desires: Race and Erotic Capital in the Stripping Industry by Siobhan Brooks Tits and Sass: Service Journalism by and for Sex Workers LA Co-op Lab U.S. Federation of Worker Cooperatives 2021 Worker Cooperative State of the Sector Report Yes, A Stripper Podcast For more resources For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise
My guest today is Caitlin Avery.Caitlin is an award-winning author, a triathlete, mountain biker, backpacker, black-diamond skier, and yoga enthusiast.I was honored to meet Caitlin through the kind introduction from Andrea Barton from episode 165. Thank you, Andrea!One of the books Caitlin has written tells the fictional story of a woman who outed her high school rapist through a Facebook post over 20 years after the fact. The book is titled, Life of Cyn. As you'll hear in our conversation today, the book is inspired by Caitlin's personal journey and experience.It's deeply moving and a powerful story of shedding shame, doing the hard work of healing and growing, and standing in one's courage while allowing others to support. Caitlin, thank you for sharing your story here on the podcast as well as through your writing. Your courage and strength shows up both places. Please note, as you begin to listen to this episode, we talk about rape and sexual assault throughout the conversation. Please take care of yourself first and foremost even if it means not listening today. I have included a link in the show notes to RAINN where there are many additional resources for anyone who has been affected by sexual assault or violence.Caitlin would be delighted if you would follow her on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook as Caitlin Avery Author. And those links are also in the show notes. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@caitlinaveryauthorInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlin_avery_authorFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/caitlinaveryauthor RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): www.rainn.orgAlcoholics Anonymous: www.aa.orgAl Anon: www.al-anon.orgMake Life Less Difficult
Hi friends! This week I do a half hour dive into my journey with dissociative identity disorder, or D.I.D. It's a long story, but as always, I do my best to sum it up for you! This week I explain how my D.I.D. was formed, how I discovered it and what I did to overcome it by coming out of the state of confusion I was once in. I briefly explain my once 3 separated personas, Kibbi, Paige and Tuna. This is only my experience with D.I.D. and everyone's is different! This podcast will now be bi-weekly but still released on Mondays, only every other Monday! (4pm PST) Much love, Kibbi Below are my socials and a few free resources: Tik Tok Sharing Story: https://www.tiktok.com/@kibbi.linga Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kibbi.linga?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Art instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kibbi.linga.art/ Art Website: www.kibbilinga.com Art Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kibbilingaspillsart/ Twitter: https://x.com/KibbiLinga FREE resources for childhood trauma or sexual abuse: Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunction (12 steps) https://adultchildren.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous (12 steps) https://siawso.org National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (U.S.) RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): www.rainn.org
In this raw and real episode, our host gets super personal about her rough journey through a toxic relationship. She opens up about living with a partner who was not only an alcoholic but probably on drugs too. Despite all the abuse and chaos, she stuck around, trapped in a vicious cycle. With unfiltered honesty, she talks about the fear, confusion, and heartache she went through, and why it was so hard to leave. This episode is a no-holds-barred look at the impact of addiction and abuse, highlighting the tough road to finally breaking free. Tune in for a heartfelt chat about resilience, survival, and finding the strength to move on. **Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about drug and alcohol use, domestic violence, including verbal, psychological, and physical abuse. Listener discretion is advised, as the content may be triggering or distressing for some individuals.** **The Network/La Red**: - A survivor-led organization that addresses partner abuse in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, polyamorous, and queer communities. - Provides free services, including safety planning, support groups, and legal advocacy. - Website: [tnlr.org](https://tnlr.org/) **National Domestic Violence Hotline**: - Offers confidential support and resources for anyone affected by domestic violence, including LGBTQ+ individuals. - Provides crisis intervention, safety planning, and referrals to local resources. - Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat online at [thehotline.org](https://www.thehotline.org/) **GLBT National Help Center**: - Provides free and confidential support for LGBTQ+ individuals, including those experiencing domestic violence. - Offers peer support chat, hotline, and online resources. - Call: 1-888-843-4564 or chat online at [glbthotline.org](https://www.glbthotline.org/) **The Anti-Violence Project (AVP)**: - Offers support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ survivors of violence, including domestic violence, sexual assault, and hate crimes. - Provides counseling, safety planning, legal advocacy, and community organizing. - Website: [avp.org](https://avp.org/) **Lambda Legal**: - Provides legal advocacy and support for LGBTQ+ individuals facing discrimination, including in cases of domestic violence. - Offers resources on legal rights, protections, and strategies for survivors. - Website: [lambdalegal.org](https://www.lambdalegal.org/) **Fenway Health**: - Provides healthcare, counseling, and support services specifically for LGBTQ+ individuals, including survivors of domestic violence. - Offers resources on healthy relationships and LGBTQ+ affirming care. - Website: [fenwayhealth.org](https://fenwayhealth.org/) **RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)**: - Offers support for survivors of sexual violence, including those within the LGBTQ+ community. - Provides a hotline, online chat, and resources for survivors and their loved ones. - Call: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or chat online at [rainn.org](https://www.rainn.org/) **Trans Lifeline**: - Offers direct emotional and financial support to trans people in crisis, including those experiencing domestic violence. - Provides a hotline staffed by transgender volunteers. - Call: US: 877-565-8860, Canada: 877-330-6366, or visit [translifeline.org](https://translifeline.org/)
Care More Be Better: Social Impact, Sustainability + Regeneration Now
In this poignant and insightful episode of Care More, Be Better, host Corinna Bellizzi shares her personal story of survival for the first time. She then shares an interview with Tim Mousseau, a survivor of sexual violence turned speaker and advocate. They explore the complexities of sexual violence, harassment, and the essential steps needed to create safer environments in both personal and professional settings. Tim shares his powerful story, offering guidance on how to support survivors, set boundaries, and foster empathetic curiosity to cultivate safer, more inclusive cultures.Key Points:[00:00:00] **Introduction and Context**: - Corinna discusses a trending question from TikTok: "If you were alone in the woods, would you rather encounter a man or a bear?" - She shares her own harrowing experience of abuse and the profound impact it had on her life. Emphasizes the importance of speaking out to raise awareness and support others.[00:07:52] ** Introducing Tim Mousseau**[00:11:20] **Tim Mousseau's Story**: - Tim recounts receiving anonymous letters and photos of his assault, triggering his journey of dealing with trauma and seeking support. - The significant challenges he faced with the police and his employer's response. - The transformative power of therapy and support groups in his healing process. - His decision to speak publicly about his experience to reclaim control and empower others.[00:17:20] **Understanding and Supporting Survivors**: - The importance of empathy and not victim-blaming or shaming. - How to support someone who comes forward with their story: creating safe spaces, offering resources, and respecting their autonomy. - The significance of documentation and the challenges with the legal system.[00:23:26] **Creating Safer Work Environments**: - Redefining workplace policies to be more comprehensive and supportive of employees. - Importance of clear reporting channels and proactive measures to address harassment and violence. - The role of managers in fostering a culture of safety and respect.[00:32:55] **Boundaries and Empathetic Curiosity**: - The importance of understanding and respecting personal boundaries. - Strategies for setting and communicating boundaries in both personal and professional contexts. - Encouraging organizations to model and respect boundaries to create inclusive environments.[00:39:42] **Workplace Dating and Consent**[00:45:17] **Educational Resources and Tools**: - Recommended resources for parents, educators, and organizations to teach consent and support survivors. - The role of media literacy in understanding and addressing issues related to sexual violence.[00:54:53] **Empowerment through Empathy**: - The power of empathetic curiosity in building safer communities. - Fostering environments where individuals feel cared for and respected.[00:57:26] **Call to Action**Final Thoughts:This episode emphasizes the critical importance of speaking out, supporting survivors, and fostering empathetic and safe environments. Tim Mousseau's journey offers valuable insights and practical advice for individuals and organizations alike, highlighting the transformative power of empathy and respect.Resources Mentioned:- Tim Mousseau's Website: https://www.timmousseau.com- Joyful Heart Foundation: https://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org- 1 in 6: https://1in6.org- RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): https://www.rainn.org- Know Your Title IX: https://www.knowyourix.org- Start Strong Program: https://www.startstrongboston.org- Sexual Citizens: A Landmark Study of Sex, Power, and Assault on Campus: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Citizen...Host Contact Information:- Email: corinna@caremorebebetter.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/corinnabell... and https://www.instagram.com/caremore.be...- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@corinnabellizzi- Website: Care More Be Better https://www.caremorebebetter.com
In this episode, Jenn and Daren delve into the harrowing topic of domestic violence and physical abuse, focusing on the entertainment and music industries where violence against women, especially Black women, is rampant. They urge listeners to take care of themselves and provide resources for victims and survivors of abuse at the end of the episode. The conversation begins with the recent allegations against Diddy and the leaked video of his violent behavior towards Cassie. Jenn and Daren dissect Diddy's non-apology and the broader implications of such public displays of violence. Then, they cover the disturbing case of DJ Akademiks, who has been accused of heinous acts of abuse and has threatened to expose others in the industry. The conversation extends to other known abusers in the entertainment industry, stressing the need for accountability and support for victims. In the third segment, Jenn and Daren highlight the toxic culture that enables abusers to thrive, emphasizing the importance of believing victims and holding abusers accountable. It will take the community of people around abusers speaking up to break the cycle of harm. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text the word "BEGIN" to 88788. For sexual assault resources, contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). These resources are available 24/7 and are 100% confidential. Reference Material: * National Domestic Violence Hotline - https://www.thehotline.org/ * RAINN: Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - https://www.rainn.org/ * What Happens to Famous Black Men Following Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Allegations? - https://www.theroot.com/what-happens-to-famous-black-men-following-domestic-vio-1851293287 * S6E5 - Recognizing Sexual Assault Awareness Month - https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple/s6e5-recognizing-sexual-assault-awareness-month * Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) “Let's make a narcissist's apology from scratch” - https://www.instagram.com/chescaleigh/reel/C7M6NazyGvg/?hl=en * Dr. Jessica Taylor (@DrJessTaylor)FAMOUS MAN ABUSING WOMEN Script - https://x.com/DrJessTaylor/status/1792254495130341604?s=19 www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren't beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.
Ep. 147 In this episode of Fearless Fridays with Maryann, special guest Patty Cabot shares her 20-year struggle with weight fluctuations and how she discovered that her eating disorder was a result of childhood sexual abuse. Through therapies like EMDR and chiropractic care, Patty embarked on a journey of healing and self-discovery. She emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and finding a supportive tribe. Patty's memoir, "Not That Girl Anymore," is available for free on her website, where she aims to provide hope and resources for those who have experienced trauma. The Misconception of Physical Appearance Dictating Love Patty Cabot's sincere narrative begins with a raw admission of what many individuals struggle with silently—body image and its perceived effect on love and relationships. Her journey mirrors a society that fosters a narrow understanding of attractiveness, which becomes mistakenly synonymous with romantic success. Patty reflects, "I found myself unacceptable when I was heavy," a confession that slices through the complex layers of self-esteem. This psychological battle is a climate ripe for eating disorders, often manifesting as coping mechanisms for emotional turbulence. Regardless of Patty's prowess in dieting, the persistent cycles of weight gain and loss signified a deeper, unresolved discord. Resources: EMDR Association - Resource for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing NEDA (National Eating Disorders Association) - nationaleatingdisorders.org RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) - rainn.org Connect with Patty Book: Not That Girl Anymore Website: https://www.pattycabot.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063599580134 Connect with Maryann Website: https://www.maryannriveradannert.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/maryannriveradannert/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/MRDEmpowermentSolutions Linkedin: https://www.bit.ly/maryannriveradannert Short Bio from Patty Cabot After gaining and losing 50 to 75 pounds every two years or so since my teens, I decided I needed professional help. In 2005, at the age of 38, I started working with a therapist that specializes in eating disorders, trauma and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). She thought my issues with food and weight were a symptom of a much deeper issue: my childhood sexual abuse. I was sexually abused by family members until I was 10. For much of my life I would have chosen death before revealing that, so deep was my shame. But I was desperate to find love and believed resolving my weight was key. So began the next 12 years of my life working with my therapist using EMDR, a chiropractor to release trapped fight or flight responses, a sex therapist and group therapy for sexual abuse. Chapters 0:00 Trigger Warning 1:27 Patty's Struggle with Weight and Relationships 2:47 Discovering the Root Cause: Sexual Abuse 3:30 Explanation of EMDR Therapy 4:23 Impact of Therapy on Eating Disorders 7:16 Exploring Various Therapies for Healing 10:59 The Role of a Supportive Tribe in Healing 16:36 Living Fearlessly and Looking Forward Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
**Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic violence, including verbal, psychological, and physical abuse within same-sex relationships. Listener discretion is advised, as the content may be triggering or distressing for some individuals.** **The Network/La Red**: - A survivor-led organization that addresses partner abuse in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, polyamorous, and queer communities. - Provides free services, including safety planning, support groups, and legal advocacy. - Website: [tnlr.org](https://tnlr.org/)**National Domestic Violence Hotline**: - Offers confidential support and resources for anyone affected by domestic violence, including LGBTQ+ individuals. - Provides crisis intervention, safety planning, and referrals to local resources. - Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat online at [thehotline.org](https://www.thehotline.org/)**GLBT National Help Center**: - Provides free and confidential support for LGBTQ+ individuals, including those experiencing domestic violence. - Offers peer support chat, hotline, and online resources. - Call: 1-888-843-4564 or chat online at [glbthotline.org](https://www.glbthotline.org/)**The Anti-Violence Project (AVP)**: - Offers support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ survivors of violence, including domestic violence, sexual assault, and hate crimes. - Provides counseling, safety planning, legal advocacy, and community organizing. - Website: [avp.org](https://avp.org/)**Lambda Legal**: - Provides legal advocacy and support for LGBTQ+ individuals facing discrimination, including in cases of domestic violence. - Offers resources on legal rights, protections, and strategies for survivors. - Website: [lambdalegal.org](https://www.lambdalegal.org/)**Fenway Health**: - Provides healthcare, counseling, and support services specifically for LGBTQ+ individuals, including survivors of domestic violence. - Offers resources on healthy relationships and LGBTQ+ affirming care. - Website: [fenwayhealth.org](https://fenwayhealth.org/)**RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)**: - Offers support for survivors of sexual violence, including those within the LGBTQ+ community. - Provides a hotline, online chat, and resources for survivors and their loved ones. - Call: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or chat online at [rainn.org](https://www.rainn.org/)**Trans Lifeline**: - Offers direct emotional and financial support to trans people in crisis, including those experiencing domestic violence. - Provides a hotline staffed by transgender volunteers. - Call: US: 877-565-8860, Canada: 877-330-6366, or visit [translifeline.org](https://translifeline.org/)
In Episode 9 of "Inside the Squad", Lt. Dan Long (LPD Special Victims Unit), Alex Baker (Forensic Nurse), Tanya Malone (Forensic Nurse), and Norah Ashcraft (YWCA Legal Advocate) discuss sexual assault awareness. RAINN (Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network) stats: Out of 1,000 sexual assault incidents, 975 perps will walk free, 310 are reported to police, 50 reports lead to arrest. This team of local professionals walk listeners through the process of what happens once an incident occurs, and how we as a community bond together to assist and find justice for the victim. Remember to check us out on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Nextdoor! Email show ideas and questions to insidethesquad@lafayette.in.gov.
The Netflix series “Baby Reindeer” written by Scottish comedian Richard Gadd based on the true story of a period in his life when he was stalked by a woman whom he gave a free cup of tea while working as a bartender in London, has been burning itself into the eyeballs and psyches of millions of people. Lisa was fascinated by the hit show's unflinching honesty, style, structure and incredible performances by both Gadd and Jessica Gunning. Joining Lisa and Dean to break it all down is another incredible actor, David Rysdahl. You may remember David from this season's “Fargo”, playing sweet “Wayne” the husband of Juno Temple's “Dot”. His other credits include “Oppenheimer”, “Black Mirror” and he is currently shooting Noah Hawley's new “Alien” series in Bangkok. David shares his reaction to “Baby Reindeer” and the aspects of Gadd's character “Donny Dunn” that he identifies with. David performed for years in New York as a clown and was part of the “alt” comedy scene. We talk about Hollywood predators, the insecurities of fame…and so much more. Join us for the conversation. You can read Dawn Glen's insightful article about “Baby Reindeer” here:https://www.thecustardtv.com/netflixs-baby-reindeer-is-an-unflinching-look-at-abuse/ If you or someone you care about needs support contact In the U.S. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) National Sexual Assault Hotline https://www.rainn.org/resources In the U.K. https://www.wearesurvivors.org.uk In Australia https://www.samsn.org.au Stalking Safety Planning resource: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/stalking-safety-planning/#:~:text=Help%20create%20a%20stalking%20safety%20plan&text=We%20are%20here%20to%20support,or%20chat%20at%20thehotline.org. Stalking Prevention Awareness https://www.stalkingawareness.org/contact/ Here are some of David's favorite organization doing great work to help save the environment. Please check out https://www.urbanoceanlab.org/sandy-community-resilience https://www.greenwave.org
In today's True Crime Tuesday, we peel back the curtain on a trio of horrendous cases. Our first case takes us into the twisted world of Roger Hughes, a man who stands accused of 119 counts of unspeakable acts against children. The story unravels with a standoff and leads to a shocking discovery of warrants for his arrest. As investigators dig deeper, they uncover a trail of trafficking, sodomy, and rape. Roger's extensive rap sheet, which I'll share on Patreon (patreon.com/loveandmurder), is a grim testament to his descent from DUIs to heinous crimes against the innocent.Next, we confront the betrayal of trust with the case of Officer Daniel Julian, charged with using his police training to commit the very crimes he's sworn to stop. A female officer becomes his victim, but her quick thinking leads to a recording that captures the horror. As the case unfolds in court, we grapple with the grim irony and await justice.Finally, we honor the memory of Kulsuma Akter, a mother whose life was tragically cut short in broad daylight as she walked with her baby. The manhunt for suspect Habibur Masum grips Bradford, England, with fear and sorrow. The police plea for your help to bring the perpetrator to justice.Join the conversation and let your voice be heard. This week's poll asks whether Officer Daniel should have been immediately fired or justly suspended pending the verdict. Share your thoughts and engage with fellow LaMs in our beyond the pod Facebook group.Share this episode, spread the word, and until next time, All Love and No Murder Resources for help:- National Center for Missing & Exploited Children: 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678)- RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-HOPE (1-800-656-4673)Sources:https://www.kalb.com/2021/11/04/pineville-man-charged-with-119-counts-trafficking-children-sexual-purposes/https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13287087/terrified-policewoman-officer-trying-rape-pin-floor-court.htmlhttps://www.foxnews.com/world/mother-stabbed-death-walking-her-baby-stroller-suspect-still-loose-police*************************************************************************************************
Sherrie Allsup is an international speaker, educator, and subject matter expert with lived experience. She speaks on topics such as sexual assault, sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide. Sherrie is a survivor of long-term sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide attempts. After much hard work and healing she became the founder and CEO of Courage Starts With You. For victims, Courage means telling someone and reaching out for help. For law enforcement, Courage means looking beyond the traditional victim interview technique to recognize how and why victims of assault may act differently than victims of crimes. She purchased a cemetery plot, purchased the outfit she wanted to be buried in, and made the decision that morning was going to be the day Sherrie Allsup no longer lived to endure the pain she lived daily throughout her life. Yet, those were not the cards that she was dealt. That was the moment that she began to take her power back. Sherrie Allsup's journey took a profound turn when faced with the contemplation of ending her life, she instead chose to reclaim her power. She now travels and shares her story to shine a light on the lifelong challenges that sexual abuse and trauma leave behind.Her pieces of training are centered around shining a light on the dark epidemic of sexual abuse and assault. She is also a member of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, Incest, and Neglect Network). She says, “Trauma victims almost live plan to plan or we wouldn't survive.” Embracing Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) psychotherapy, Sherrie embarked on a new chapter. In her own words, “This sentiment encapsulates her life, where she navigated each moment with a flickering flashlight, battling the pain that haunted her daily. Determined to break free from the past, she decided that the grip of her father's years of abuse is not going to define her”.Find SherrieWebsiteFacebookLinkedinFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyToyota of HackensackPoPl Discount code TSP20The Oakley KitchenCubita CafeSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube
Today on How To LA, we're dropping Part 1 of the latest Imperfect Paradise series Strippers Union. It's one of the hottest stories from last year's hot labor summer that features a North Hollywood strip club and its dancers' fight to unionize. Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
Part 1: In 2023, North Hollywood's Star Garden reopened as the only unionized strip club in the U.S. LAist Producer Emma Alabaster tells us the behind-the-scenes story of the workplace conditions that pushed the dancers into action. CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes sensitive content about sexual assault. For sexual assault and harassment support and resources, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, which is a service of RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network). For more, visit https://LAist.com/ImperfectParadise Support LAist Today: https://LAist.com/donate Grow your business–no matter what stage you're in. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/paradiseSupport for this podcast is made possible by Gordon and Dona Crawford, who believe that quality journalism makes Los Angeles a better place to live.
In the latest installment of Friends Talking Nerdy with Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd, listeners are treated to a diverse array of engaging topics and insightful discussions. First up, Professor Aubrey shares the exciting news of a significant victory achieved by her union at the college where she teaches. With an insider's perspective, she delves into the meticulous efforts and strategic negotiations that culminated in a favorable deal for all professors involved. From the challenges faced to the triumphs celebrated, Professor Aubrey provides a behind-the-scenes look at the hard-won success. Next, Tim the Nerd delves into the recent allegations swirling around WWE mogul Vince McMahon. With a keen eye for detail, Tim the Nerd unpacks the legal complexities surrounding McMahon's alleged failure to honor an NDA agreement, shedding light on the implications of the case. Importantly, he also directs listeners to resources such as RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), offering support and guidance for those affected by similar situations. Rounding out the episode, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd engage in a thought-provoking discussion inspired by the Psychology Today article "8 Ways to Recover From Rejection" by Michelle P. Maidenberg Ph.D. Drawing from personal anecdotes and shared experiences, they explore the article's insights and offer their perspectives on coping with rejection in various aspects of life. Through candid reflections and empathetic dialogue, they provide valuable takeaways for listeners navigating their own encounters with rejection. As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms. Head to our Linktree for more information on where to find us online. Friends Talking Nerdy is a proud member of the Deluxe Edition Network. Head to their website to find out more information about all the shows available on the Network. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ftnerdy/message
Join Caitlin Cornell (she/her) as she talks with Denver Health SANE nurse, Michelle Metz (she/her) as they provide a review of what SANE exams entail, how SANE exams can facilitate the healing process for survivors, and ways professionals in this field can mitigate burnout.Community ResourcesDenver Health 303-436-4949Denver Health SANE ProgramNational Suicide and Crisis Hotline 988National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673Run by RAINN (Rape, abuse, incest national network) this hotline is free and available 24/7 National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233Auraria Campus Counseling Resources MSU Denver: 303-615-9988Located at Tivoli Student Union Suite 651CU Denver: 303-315-7270Located at Tivoli Student Union Suite 454CCD: 303-352-6436Located at Tivoli Student Union Suite 245Colorado Crisis Line text TALK to 38255operated 24/7, free and confidentialAuararia Crisis Helpline 303-615-9911Victim Connect Resource Center Stalking Helpline contact the VictimConnect Resource Center by phone or text at 1-855-4-VICTIMIf you are in crisis and need immediate support, please call our 24/7 interpersonal violence helpline at 303-556-2255.Request an Appointment with an Advocate athttps://www.thepca.org/online-appointment-requestRequest a Violence Prevention Presentation at https://www.thepca.org/prevention-educationInstagram @phoenixcenter
Get ready for an empowering episode of Radically Loved as we dive into the inspiring journey of Brittany Means, a dynamic writer and editor who's breaking the cycle of abuse and rewriting her narrative. In this riveting conversation, we explore the intersections of poverty, abuse, and addiction while delving into the importance of recognizing signs of abuse and neglect.Brittany opens up about the complexities of forgiveness, sharing her unique perspective on this transformative process. She bares it all on the vulnerability of memoir writing, detailing the surprises and challenges encountered during her courageous journey.But that's not all – we get an exclusive sneak peek into Brittany's upcoming project on health and mental health within religious communities, promising thought-provoking insights.In this episode, you'll discover that breaking the cycle of abuse requires self-awareness and a reflective examination of how past experiences shape our behavior. Recognizing signs of abuse and neglect becomes a crucial step in fostering a safe space for children to share their truths.TakeawaysBreaking the cycle of abuse requires self-awareness and reflection on how past experiences have shaped one's behavior.Recognizing signs of abuse and neglect is crucial in order to support children and create a safe environment for them to speak their truth.Forgiveness is a complex process that can be defined in different ways for different people. It is important to find a definition that aligns with one's own healing journey.Writing can be a cathartic tool for processing trauma, but it is essential to prioritize self-care and engage in grounding practices outside of writing.Memory is unreliable, and our brains can create different narratives of the same events. It is important to be aware of the limitations of memory when writing memoirs.Connecting with mentors and finding inspiration from other writers can be instrumental in developing one's own writing style and pursuing a career in writing.Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning00:59 Introduction of Guest01:56 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse04:30 The Intersection of Poverty, Abuse, and Addiction09:25 Recognizing Signs of Abuse and Neglect12:30 The Complexity of Forgiveness21:26 The Intimacy and Vulnerability of Memoir Writing24:55 Mentors and Inspirations29:36 Self-Care and Writing Practices38:19 Cutting Out Parts of the Book and Surprises in the Writing Process42:23 Upcoming Project45:06 Connecting with Brittany Means46:13 Final TakeawayResources:Remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, and there are people and organizations ready to provide support. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call emergency services in your country.Hotlines:National Domestic Violence Hotline (USA): https://www.thehotline.org/ Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 1-800-787-32242.RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - USA): https://www.rainn.org/ National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (USA): https://www.childhelp.org/ Phone: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Phone: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)National Sexual Violence Resource Center (USA): https://www.nsvrc.org/ International Resources:International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies: http://www.hotpeachpages.net/ 2. International Suicide Prevention Hotlines: https://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Online Resources:Pandora's Project: http://www.pandys.org/Psych Central - Abuse and Trauma Center: https://psychcentral.com/lib/types-of-abuseRape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) Online Hotline: https://ohl.rainn.org/online/ Connect with Brittany MeansWebsite: www.brittanymeans.com Hell If We Don't Change Our Ways Book: https://www.brittanymeans.com/book Twitter: https://twitter.com/BrittanyMeansIt Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/brittanymeansit Connect with Rosie Acosta: Get You Are Radically Loved the book: https://www.radicallyloved.com/book Listen to Rosie on Radio Headspace: https://open.spotify.com/episode/51BBKoCzz2Wzmi7TTsYfNI?si=65bc001ec09d4e8e&nd=1 Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies at https://www.radicallyloved.com/free-stuff! Connect with Tessa Tovar:Website: https://tessatovar.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tessamarietovar/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHMYm-7kNZfulgaiCi2w8CwOutside the Studio Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outside-the-studio-with-tessa-tovar/id1483077110Book of Poetry for Savasana: https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Moon-Book-Poetry-Savasana/dp/1731243588
When you were growing up, did you have a host of great role models when it came to how to be a good man?No, probably not. The vast majority of men with whom we work lacked solid role models for healthy masculinity, both at home and at school. This damaged their ability to succeed in dating, relationships, and sex, and led to a lot of suffering.Scott Kaltenbaugh is working to change that. He's in the school system working in the classroom as well as doing one-on-one mentorship with boys and young men. The goal is to teach them how to be "a calm but assured version of masculinity."But how do you do that? What do you teach, and how do you describe what it is to wield power? Listen for a fascinating view into an inspiring potential future for us as a culture. (Also, if you have sons or may have sons in the future, this one will be of particular interest to you.)---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love life for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)—Memorable quotes from this episode:“I was starting to see so much toxic masculinity I started to devalue my own masculinity.”“These boys don't get shown possibilities — it's just, ‘Don't be these things.'”“I started to see how much harm our boys are facing.”“I can't control what the world does to me, but I can control how I meet that.”“Emotion are tools. They're important.”“Power is our ability to meet and shape the world around us.”“Sometimes it's important to bond shoulder-to-shoulder; sometimes it's important to bond face-to-face.”---Mentioned on the episodeScott's program, the Inspiring Men Project, and his own siteThis is Your Moment (program to stop rape)RAINN (Rape & Incest National Network) -- free, confidential chat-based support for anyone who has experience any form of sexual assaultSacred Sonz -- virtual and in-person support for boys and teens
The Christmas horror classic the surprisingly caught more backlash from it's advertising campaign than it's content. SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Service Administration) https://www.mentalhealth.gov/get-help/immediate-help RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): https://www.rainn.org Don't forget to subscribe. Follow me on TikTok: @BannedRonnie Twitter: @RonnieUrsenbach Facebook: @BannedMediaPodcast Instagram: @BannedMediaPodcast or send e-mail to BannedMediaPodcast@gmail.com https://patreon.com/BannedMediaPodcast
“Rule 4: Check In Regularly The best way to ensure that all parties are comfortable with any sexual activity is to talk about it, check in periodically, and make sure everyone involved consents before escalating or changing activities. Boundaries can change over time as you grow and experience new things. So what was okay recently, may not be okay today or tomorrow. You can withdraw consent at any point if you feel uncomfortable. One way to do this is to clearly communicate to your partner that you are no longer comfortable with this activity and wish to stop. Withdrawing consent can sometimes be challenging or difficult to do verbally, so non-verbal cues can also be used to convey this. That's where the next rule becomes really important. Rule 5: Respect Each Other Respect is about honoring one another's boundaries. Enthusiastic consent is a model for understanding consent that focuses on a positive expression of consent. Simply put, enthusiastic consent means looking for the presence of a “yes” rather than the absence of a “no.” Enthusiastic consent can be expressed verbally or through nonverbal cues, such as positive body language like smiling, maintaining eye contact, and nodding. These cues alone do not necessarily represent consent, but they are additional details that may reflect consent. It is necessary, however, to still seek verbal confirmation. The important part of consent, enthusiastic or otherwise, is checking in with your partner regularly to make sure that they are still on the same page. Enthusiastic consent can look like: Asking permission before you change the type or degree of sexual activity with phrases like “Is this OK?” Confirming that there is reciprocal interest before initiating any physical touch. Letting your partner know that it's okay to stop at any time. Periodically checking in with your partner, such as asking “Is this still okay?” Accepting an answer of “no” without asking again Providing positive feedback when you're comfortable with an activity. Explicitly agreeing to certain activities, either by saying “yes” or another affirmative statement, like “I'm open to trying.” Using physical cues to let the other person know you're comfortable taking things to the next level (see note below). Consent does NOT look like: Refusing to acknowledge “no” A partner who is disengaged, nonresponsive, or visibly upset Assuming that wearing certain clothes, flirting, or kissing is an invitation for anything more Someone being under the legal age of consent, as defined by the state Someone being incapacitated because of drugs or alcohol Pressuring someone into sexual activity by repeatedly asking or using fear, intimidation, or coercion. Assuming you have permission to engage in a sexual act because you've done it in the past Physiological responses like an erection, lubrication, arousal, or orgasm are involuntary, meaning your body might react one way even when you are not consenting to the activity. Sometimes perpetrators will use the fact that these physiological responses occur to maintain secrecy or minimize a survivor's experience by using phrases such as, "You know you liked it." In no way does a physiological response mean that you consented to what happened. If you have been sexually abused or assaulted, it is not your fault.” -RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network.) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
Keep the cat away from that Nazi and get ready to separate the art from the artist because we're discussing Bryan Singer's 1998 Stephen King adaptation Apt Pupil! Joining us for the discussion is The Losers' Club podcast co-host Jenn Adams! Join us as we discuss the long road to getting this adaptation made before delving into the Bryan Singer of it all in an admittedly difficult and heavy conversation. Plus: the tragedy of Brad Renfro, David Schwimmer and his mustache wig, Ann Dowd(?!?!) and the always excellent Ian McKellan marching in an SS uniform. We are also offering a content warning for this episode because we do discuss the sexual assault allegations against Bryan Singer in detail, so proceed with caution. And if you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available: RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) Website: https://www.rainn.org/ Online chat hotline: https://hotline.rainn.org/online Telephone hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673) References: French, Alex and Potter, Maximillian. (March 2019). "Nobody is Going to Believe You". The Atlantic. Karger, Dan (December 13, 1996). "King's Cursed Movie". Entertainment Weekly. Dretzka, Gary (October 11, 1998). "Unusual Suspects: Filmmaker Bryan Singer's decision to interpret Stephen King isn't the most likely pairing". Chicago Tribune. Welkos, Robert W. (May 22, 1997). "So young, he's scary: Director Singer moves from 'Suspects' to Stephen King story". Austin American-Statesman. Questions? Comments? Snark? Connect with the boys on Twitter, Instagram, Youtube, Letterboxd, Facebook, or join the Facebook Group to get in touch with other listeners Trace: @tracedthurman Joe: @bstolemyremote Mike: @TheMovieMike / @EvolutionPod Be sure to support the boys on Patreon! Theme Music: Alexander Nakarada Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Content Warning: In this week's episode, we will be discussing issues that may be disturbing or triggering to some. Some things we will be discussing will include but are not limited to mentions of Sexual Assault, Coercion, Mental Health Struggles, etc. If you or someone you know is struggling, please refer to this episode description for resources and support. While this episode will not include either party from the following case, we are discussing it with their consent. Over a year ago, one of our podcast hosts was accused of SA. We were asked to hold them accountable but struggled to figure out what that meant. This episode is us reflecting on our response to a very serious situation, an apology for our shortcomings, and an attempt to understand what holding someone accountable looks like. For more information about accountability and alternative justice, go to www.safebae.org/360-schools/accountability-training/ *********** Unfortunately, the audio file for this episode got corrupted so we are forced to use our backup. Please excuse the poor audio quality. You will also notice we re-recorded certain parts to better reflect our feelings on the situation. Thank you for your patience. Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline (USA): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit https://www.rainn.org/ RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Offers support, information, and resources for survivors of sexual assault in the United States. Visit their website at https://www.rainn.org/ Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 (US) or 686868 (Canada) to connect with a trained crisis counselor. National Domestic Violence Hotline (USA): Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit https://www.thehotline.org/ 1in6: Offers support and resources for male survivors of sexual abuse. Visit their website at https://1in6.org/ Women's Aid (UK): Provides information and support for women experiencing domestic violence and sexual assault. Visit their website at https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ VictimConnect: Offers a helpline and online chat services for all victims of crime in the United States. Visit their website at https://victimconnect.org/
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