Podcasts about identity shift

Nervous system leadership becomes essential when pressure and stress quietly shape team culture. If you feel responsible for the emotional tone of every room, this isn't a leadership flaw. It may be identity-level misalignment, not lack of strength.Most leaders try to fix culture with strategy.But culture is shaped long before strategy is spoken.In this episode, we explore nervous system leadership — not as theory, but as lived practice. If you've ever felt exhausted from carrying the emotional climate of your team, or confused about why tension returns even when results are strong, this conversation will meet you.This episode reinforces a simple truth:You cannot control every nervous system in the room.But you absolutely influence the tone that enters it.This is not about becoming softer.It is about becoming steadier.And steadiness is not passive. It is regulated intensity. Controlled momentum. Grounded authority.In Season 4, we are walking through the Identity-Level Recalibration pathway — moving from recognition, to release, to reclamation, and now to reinforcement. Reinforcement is where awareness becomes pattern. Where hope becomes embodied leadership.In this conversation, we explore:• Why burnout in leadership often stems from over-transmitting urgency• How pressure culture forms through shared stress responses• The difference between implied urgency and stated standards• Why many high-capacity humans became the “thermostat” long before they became leaders• How one embodied pause before entering a room can begin reshaping cultureIdentity-Level Recalibration is not another productivity tactic.It is not performance optimization.It is not a communication hack.If you've ever wondered:Why does my team mirror my stress?Why does culture feel tense even when goals are clear?Why am I tired of being the strongest nervous system in every room?You're not broken.You may simply be reinforcing patterns you learned long before you were leading.Reinforcement is hopeful because culture is responsive. Not instant. But responsive. Consistency builds trust. Steadiness compounds.Today's Micro Recalibration:Before your next interaction, pause and ask, “Am I about to transmit urgency — or steadiness?” Take one full breath. Name expectations clearly. Replace implied pressure with calm clarity.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

Nervous system regulation in leadership becomes critical when pressure and confusion quietly shape team culture. If your presence feels heavier than you intend, this isn't failure. It may be identity-level misalignment, not lack of skill.You've likely felt it before.You walk into a room tense, and the room tightens.You walk in steady, and something shifts.Conversations soften.People breathe.Thinking expands.This episode explores nervous system regulation in leadership — not as theory, but as lived reality.In Season 4, we're walking the Identity-Level Recalibration pathway slowly and relationally. This week, we've recognized tension and released shame. Today, we reclaim something powerful:Your regulation is not softness.It is infrastructure.For high-capacity leaders, urgency often feels productive. Tightness feels sharp. Speed feels strong. But over time, pressure can quietly become culture. Not because you lack character. Because your nervous system learned to equate vigilance with safety.And what shaped your nervous system long before you shaped your team?Most high-capacity leaders did not inherit steadiness. They became it.Culture is not only defined by strategy, vision statements, or KPIs. Culture is a shared autonomic state. It is what nervous systems do together. When a leader is braced, others brace. When a leader is steady, others settle.Identity-Level Recalibration is not mindset work.It is not performance optimization.It is not about becoming more impressive.In this episode, we explore:• Why your nervous system shapes leadership relationships more than you realize• The hidden confusion high achievers feel when steadiness seems “too soft”• How burnout and pressure culture often stem from inherited vigilance• Why regulation is not passivity, but grounded authority• How reclaiming your steadiness changes team culture without announcementsThis is about orientation before resolution.Recognition before reaction.Embodiment before instruction.If you've ever wondered why your team mirrors your mood — this conversation will help you see clearly without turning on yourself.Today's Micro Recalibration:Before your next interaction, take one steady breath. Feel your feet on the ground. Enter the room without rushing to fill silence. Notice what shifts when you stop interrupting Explore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

Why do high performers plateau — even when they're working harder than ever?In this powerful episode of Mindset Mastery Moments, Dr. Alisa — The #1 Mindset Disrupter — sits down with Trevor McGregor, former Head Coach personally selected by Tony Robbins, to uncover the real reason ambitious leaders stall.After completing over 45,000 coaching sessions with Olympic athletes, Fortune 500 CEOs, and billionaires, Trevor discovered a surprising truth:It's not strategy that limits growth — it's identity.Together, they explore:• Why success can secretly cap your next level• The identity ceiling that keeps high achievers stuck• The hidden psychological cost of scaling• The dark side of reaching new heights• The 5 Freedoms required to grow without losing your health, relationships, or sanityIf you look successful on paper but feel internally restless, burned out, or capped — this conversation will challenge how you think about performance and growth.This isn't surface-level motivation.This is mindset mastery.

Leadership pressure can quietly shape culture long before burnout shows up. If you feel exhaustion beneath competence, this may not be failure — but identity-level misalignment. Today we release shame and soften the grip.Leadership pressure rarely announces itself.It often looks like competence.Responsibility.High standards.And over time, it becomes culture.In this episode, we explore how pressure can move from personal strategy to collective atmosphere — and why releasing it requires compassion, not shame.This conversation sits inside burnout and pressure, while layering identity shift and leadership relationships. Because pressure is rarely just about workload. It is often about identity — who you believe you must be in order for things to stay stable.Many high-performing leaders learned early that safety meant vigilance. That love meant competence. That stability meant holding everything together. That strategy built excellence. It built trust. It built companies.But what once stabilized can eventually constrict.When urgency becomes default, teams feel it — even if they cannot name it. Culture absorbs nervous system patterns long before it absorbs strategy.Pressure culture does not begin with ego. It begins with protection.And when you begin to see that your urgency might be shaping the room, shame often follows.This episode gently interrupts that shame.You did not create pressure culture because you are broken.You created it because you learned it.Clear Takeaways:• Pressure once created stability — and acknowledging that matters.• You are not your coping strategy. Responsibility is something you learned, not who you are.• Pressure can keep you competent — but it can quietly keep you alone.• Releasing urgency does not lower standards; it removes fear from the room.• Compassion, not criticism, is what allows pressure patterns to soften.This is not about dismantling excellence.It is about releasing unnecessary tension.Recognition allowed you to see the pattern.Release allows you to soften it.Today's Micro Recalibration:When you feel the impulse to step in quickly, exhale.Let your shoulders drop slightly.Ask gently: “Is this mine to carry?”If yes, respond steadily.If no, let it stay where it belongs.Release is rarely dramatic.It is the quieExplore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

In this episode of The Career Refresh, Jill Griffin breaks down what really happens when you step into a new version of your career, and why the people around you may not be ready for your evolution. Jill explores how identity, boundaries, and internal validation shape your career growth and leadership presence. If you're in a season of reinvention, feeling friction from others, or sensing that you're outgrowing old patterns, this episode gives you the clarity, language, and mindset shifts to evolve with confidence and intention.Why your growth disrupts old dynamics and how to stay grounded when others resistHow to stop shrinking into outdated expectations and lead with intentionThe four leadership shifts required when you shift into your next-level identitySupport the showJill Griffin, host of The Career Refresh, delivers expert guidance on workplace challenges and career transitions. Jill leverages her experience working for the world's top brands like Coca-Cola, Microsoft, Hilton Hotels, and Martha Stewart to address leadership, burnout, team dynamics, and the 4Ps (perfectionism, people-pleasing, procrastination, and personalities). Visit JillGriffinCoaching.com for more details on: Book a 1:1 Career Strategy and Executive Coaching HERE Build a Leadership Identity That Earns Trust and Delivers Results. Gallup CliftonStrengths Corporate Workshops to build a strengths-based culture Team Dynamics training to increase retention, communication, goal setting, and effective decision-making Keynote Speaking Grab a personal Resume Refresh with Jill Griffin HERE Follow @JillGriffinOffical on Instagram for daily inspiration Connect with and follow Jill on LinkedIn

Send a textBeyond Discipline: Reallocating Wealth for Flexibility After $300K IncomeIn the first episode of a six-part “reset series” on The Retire Early Retire Now podcast, host Hunter Kelly—a certified financial planner and founder of Palm Valley Wealth Management—argues that for high earners (around $300,000+ household income), discipline stops being the primary advantage. He explains that early-career habits like maxing retirement accounts, avoiding lifestyle creep, and living below your means are essential when income is lower and compounding hasn't taken over, but those same habits can create rigidity later. Kelly describes a common pattern: high-income couples in their 40s who do “all the right things” (maxing 401(k)s, backdoor Roths, HSAs, college savings, and extra debt payments) yet feel trapped when considering job changes, sabbaticals, or reducing stress because most of their net worth is locked in retirement accounts, home equity, or mortgage payoff. He highlights diminishing returns from incremental savings increases (e.g., raising savings from 25% to 32% on a $350,000 income) compared with the emotional relief and freedom gained from better structural positioning—building accessible brokerage assets, maintaining an adequate cash runway, and funding goals with the right “buckets.” He frames the shift as moving from “accumulator to allocator,” noting that discipline can become identity and loosening it can feel like regression, when it may actually be evolution. The episode closes with signs a listener may have outgrown pure discipline (saving aggressively but still stressed, feeling trapped, hesitating to spend despite strong numbers, and lacking clarity on what money is for), an invitation to explore Palm Valley's “Palm Valley Pathway” and schedule a no-cost 15-minute call, and standard educational-purpose disclaimers.00:00 Discipline Stops Winning00:23 Reset Series Setup01:37 Why Discipline Works Early02:53 High Income Rigidity Trap04:21 Diminishing Returns Math06:23 Build Flexible Money Buckets08:17 Outdated Rules Analogy09:05 Identity Shift to Allocator10:22 Signs Youve Outgrown Discipline12:04 Next Steps and DisclaimerCheck out the Palm Valley Wealth Management WebsitePalmValleywm.comCheck us out on InstagramLinkedIn FacebookListen to the Podcast Here! AppleSpotify

Leadership relationships can carry subtle pressure even when results are strong. If your team feels tense or braced, this may not be burnout — but nervous system misalignment. Today we explore recognition before resolution.There's a kind of tension in leadership that doesn't show up on dashboards.Deadlines are met.Revenue is steady.Your team performs.And yet something feels tight.Maybe meetings move quickly but not easily.Maybe decisions get made but leave a residue of fatigue.Maybe you leave conversations thinking, “That went well,” but your body feels braced.If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.Today we explore why a team can feel tense even when results are strong — and why that tension is rarely about competence or commitment. More often, it's about atmosphere.Leadership is not just what you say.It's what your nervous system communicates before you speak.Many high-capacity leaders learned early that safety meant responsibility. That love meant competence. That stability meant holding everything together. That strategy built excellence. It created reliability. It made you the one others count on.But over time, the same strategy can quietly create pressure inside teams.Not because you are failing.Because you are evolving.This episode is about recognition before resolution.We explore:• Why high standards can quietly carry urgency• How tension spreads through tone, posture, and pace• The fear leaders rarely say out loud: If I stop carrying everything, will things fall apart?• Why noticing tension does not mean you've done something wrong• How steadiness strengthens standards rather than lowering themYou are not the villain in your own story.If you're noticing tension, that doesn't make you a bad leader. It makes you a conscious one.Identity-Level Recalibration is not another mindset tactic or productivity strategy. It is root-level recalibration — the shift that allows every other leadership tool to work. Because identity precedes behavior. When your internal posture changes, your culture changes.This week we begin with awareness.Not fixing.Not correcting.Not optimizing.Awareness, practiced consistently, becomes capacity.Today's Micro Recalibration:Before your next meeting, instead of scanning the room first, scan your body.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

What if your clutter isn't really about your stuff… but about your identity? In this powerful episode of Authentic Talks, Shanta sits down with brand strategist, life coach, and author Don Suttajit to talk about his new book, Tidy Less, Live More: An Identity-Based Approach to Decluttering and Organizing Your Home and Life.After spending 15 years helping corporations find their voice, Don realized something deeper: many of us lose ourselves — and our homes begin reflecting that inner confusion. Through his “I AM” system and his Live Freely Project,Don shares why traditional organizing methods often fail and how lasting change starts from the inside out. Why organizing systems don't stickThe connection between inner clutter and physical clutterScarcity mindset and how it shows up in our homesIdentity-based motivation and behavior changeHow to declutter with purposeWhy “new year, new me” resolutions failWhat it truly means to live freelyIf you've ever cleaned a space only to see it fall apart again…If you've struggled to let go of things you paid for…If you've felt overwhelmed, stuck, or divided internally… This conversation will meet you right where you are. Because decluttering isn't about perfection — it's about becoming.It's time to tidy less… and live more.Don's websites and social media:Website URL: https://livefreely.co/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livefreelyproject/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@livefreelyprojectLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donsuttajit/Host:Instagram: @AuthenticTalks2.0 Email: AuthenticShanta@gmail.com Website: www.AuthenticTalks2.com Facebook: AuthenticTalks2Youtube: @authentictalkswithshanta7489 #AuthenticTalks#TidyLessLiveMore#DeclutterYourLife#DeclutterYourHome#InnerWork#PersonalGrowthJourney#LiveFreelyBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/authentic-talks-2-0-with-shanta--4116672/support.

Have you ever felt successful on the outside but restless within, as if you're outgrowing the life you've built?If you're navigating a major life or career transition and struggling to make sense of it with logic alone, this episode is your guide to moving beyond mental stuckness. Through creativity, mindfulness, and embodiment practices, Sarah Andreas helps you understand the inner shifts necessary for authentic reinvention, especially when your identity feels connected to past success.Discover how creativity, beyond art, can unlock clarity and reconnect you with your future self.Learn why letting go of long-held professional identities is essential for meaningful growth.Explore Sarah's 3-step framework of Reveal, Render, and Rise to navigate change with intention, not fear.Press play now to learn how to move through transitions with confidence, creativity, and the courage to become who you're meant to be.˚KEY POINTS AND TIMESTAMPS:01:23 - Introducing Sarah Andreas and the idea of reinvention02:34 - Why creativity brings clarity beyond logic05:22 - Embodiment practices and getting out of the head07:25 - External success and inner restlessness10:21 - Professional identity as a barrier to change14:25 - The reinvention process: reveal, render, rise18:53 - Holding plans lightly and navigating transition23:15 - Reframing midlife crisis as awakening28:06 - Embracing uncertainty and stepping into the unknown˚MEMORABLE QUOTE:"If you're not living a life that you love, you need to do reinvention."˚VALUABLE RESOURCES:Sarah's website: https://sarahandreas.com/˚Coaching with Agi: https://personaldevelopmentmasterypodcast.com/mentor˚

“I wasn't failing. I just wasn't growing.”Adam Tasker had the career. The family. Three kids. Responsibility handled.But privately, he knew he was drifting.After being diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, following his sons' diagnoses, he began to look at how he was operating. Not just as a father, but as a leader. At home. In business. With himself.In this conversation, Skye and Adam unpack:What actually changes after a late ADHD diagnosisHow overwhelm escalates and why some days collapse fastThe identity shift from practitioner to leader in businessDelegation, emotional regulation, and being the tone-setter at homeThey talk through structure, routines, communication, and the tension between flexibility and discipline in a neurodivergent household.This episode is not about productivity hacks.It is about responsibility, self-awareness, and learning to lead without burning out or defaulting to shame.If you are a parent, a founder, or someone who knows you are capable of more than “going through the motions,” this conversation will resonate.Connect with Adam Tasker, COO of High Performance Father, at https://highperformancefather.com or email him directly at adam@highperformancefather.com for resources and support. P.S. If your ADHD symptoms turn every business day into chaos—unfinished tasks piling up, revenue stuck, systems that don't stick—it's not you. It's your operating system. We help service business owners unblock their next $50-500k with simple systems that focus their brain. Watch this video to see how we do it, then take the program walkthrough.

I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...What does reinvention really look like in midlife?In this powerful episode of Casa De Confidence, Julie sits down with Amy Stone for an honest conversation about confidence, visibility, identity shifts, and stepping into leadership without abandoning who you've been.This episode explores:Reinvention after 40Confidence building for women leadersNavigating personal growth and career transitionsVisibility mindset and overcoming self-doubtEmotional intelligence in leadershipCourage, identity, and next-level expansionAmy shares insights about what it takes to evolve without shrinking, how to step into your voice, and why showing up before you feel ready is often the bravest move you can make.If you are a woman entrepreneur, executive, coach, or creative navigating growth in midlife, this conversation will resonate deeply.Because confidence isn't a personality trait. It's a practice.Support the showOther helpful resources for you: For more about me and what I do, check out my website. Are you ready to get some help with:Podcast launch/re-launchPodcast growth, to increase your authority and position yourself as the thought leader you are. Or Leveraging your podcast to build your online biz and get more clientsSign up for a FREE 30 minute Confident Podcast Potential Discovery Call In this session I will: Identify the pain point that is holding you back. Suggest a next step strategy for solving the pain point.https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/30-minutes-free-coaching-sessioin Then we will talk about working together to accelerate the process. Do you want a podcast audit? Check out this linkIf you're looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you'd be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. We love ...

You've been told you're exceptional. Dependable. The one they can count on.And you are.But what if the very trait that made you indispensable… is the thing quietly capping your authority?This episode is not about time management. It's not about delegation hacks or color-coding your calendar. It's about identity. Specifically, the identity of being “the reliable one” - and why that role feels powerful while simultaneously keeping you boxed in.If you're the leader who:Rewrites the deck before it goes upstairs so no one looks sloppySmooths tension in meetings before it becomes visibleFixes the half-baked idea instead of letting it breatheAbsorbs emotional undercurrents like it's part of your job descriptionFeels constantly “on,” even when you're technically offThis conversation is for you.We're unpacking the over-functioning pattern that so many high-capacity women fall into - not because they're weak, but because they're competent. Because they care. Because somewhere along the way, leadership fused with self-sacrifice.Here's the uncomfortable truth:When you are the emotional glue, you are rarely the strategic threat.Systems love the fixer. They reward the stabilizer. They pile responsibility onto the one who makes everything run smoothly.But authority?Authority doesn't go to the person who keeps everything comfortable.It goes to the person willing to let discomfort surface long enough to redesign the structure.Inside this episode, we explore:The hidden contract of reliability (and why it keeps you typecast)What actually happens when you stop rescuingWhy letting things “wobble” is data, not disasterThe ego hit of no longer being the heroThe difference between indispensability and impactAnd five practical shifts to move from shock absorber… to architectBecause here's the real question:Have you built a team — or have you built a dynamic where you are the safety net for everyone else's growth?

Send a textMigration and displacement can be traumatic not only because of what prompted the move, but because the nervous system loses multiple safety cues at once—home, language, social rules, community, and familiar identity. In this episode, we explore migration and displacement trauma as both a trauma pathway (chronic stress, uncertainty, vigilance) and a grief pathway (loss of belonging, status, and “nervous system home base”). Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at why safety cues disappear, how identity disruption adds a second layer, and what helps in realistic, culturally respectful ways. We close with a grounding practice designed to support “two homes”: honouring roots while allowing slow settling.In this episode, you'll learnA clear definition of migration and displacement trauma (loss + uncertainty + low control + low support)Why migration involves grief as well as nervous-system adaptationPolyvagal-informed patterns: hypervigilance, social anxiety, shutdown, and “in-between” functioningThe identity layer: language, status loss, and feeling “not from there / not from here”Common signs (non-diagnostic): isolation, overworking, paperwork, hypervigilance, shame, waves of griefWhat helps: rebuilding safety cues, language compassion, low-demand belonging, naming grief, informed supportA grounding practice for bridging roots and the present groundGrounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Two Homes”One hand on chest (roots), one hand on belly/thigh (present ground)4 breaths as a “bridge” between handsPhrases: “I carry my roots” + “I am here/allowed to settle, one step at a time”Orient to one neutral/pleasant objectCheck the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them.What's next: Community Shock: Disasters & Public Events (No War Content)Support the show

▷ 本集引導在開始之前，先吐一口氣。不是為了放鬆，而是為了讓你的身體，先卸下它不需要再扛的東西。你不需要撐著聽。這一集，不是來要求你的。▷ 本集寫給誰如果你是一個高效率、高表現、在團隊裡常常被依賴、被指派、被期待的人 ——你很可能會在這一集裡，聽到一些你從來沒有被允許說出口的感覺。這一集不是給「不努力的人」。這一集是給 —— 越有能力，越難停下來的人。給那些：明明做得很好，卻越來越累；明明沒有出錯，卻總覺得哪裡不對的人。▷ 本集核心高表現者的「卡住」，幾乎從來不是因為能力不足。很多時候，是因為——你的 nervous system capacity 已經被用完了。你以為你是在把事情做好，但你其實常常在替整個系統「補漏洞」：團隊沒接住的，你接老闆沒處理的，你扛家庭情緒沒消化的，你吞氣氛尷尬的，你緩和你的高效率，慢慢變成一種「過度承擔」。你用你的神經系統在 hold space，但系統並沒有為你 hold space。▷ 在本集你會經驗到為什麼「卡住」不是自律下降，而是承載力用完台灣文化裡，「責任內化」如何被獎勵、被內建成習慣為什麼你停不下來不是不會休息，而是「不敢停」你真正需要的不是更好的時間管理，而是重新定義：這是不是我的角色Reset（被理解）到 Reclaim（主權回收）的轉向：「這件事，真的還需要由我來撐嗎？」▷ Season 2 的轉向Season 1 的 Reset，是讓你被理解：你不是壞掉、不是太敏感、不是不夠堅強。Season 2 的 Reclaim，是更成熟的選擇：在你知道自己被理解之後，你還要不要繼續過度承擔？這就是第二季的主軸 —— Leadership Begins in the Body.▷ Somatic Practice這不是放鬆練習，是一個「角色辨識」與「責任回收」的練習。當你想起一個最近讓你很累的情境，問身體：「我是在做我該做的事，還是在補別人的位？」「我是在履行我的主權 authority，還是在過度承擔？」找到身體最緊的地方，對它說： 「謝謝你撐了這麼久。」 「你不需要一個人完成所有事。」 「我願意練習，不再自動補位。」▷ Integration如果你聽完有一點點鬆、也有一點點不安——很正常。因為對高表現者來說，停下來不是技術問題，而是身份問題：如果我不再補位，那我是誰？有些轉化，不是靠理解完成的， 而是靠一次一次「被承接」完成的。▷ Work with LolaApply for The Lola System™ 90 https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口，為「準備好真正改變，但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite｜https://lolalinocean.com Instagram｜https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalin LinkedIn｜https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin

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Hoffen, bangen und sich ständig Gedanken darüber machen, ob man alles richtig macht, zerfrisst einen. Und doch tun es die meisten. Sie merken oft nicht, dass diese Denkstruktur antrainiert wurde und zur Gewohnheit geworden ist. Viele halten Sorgen für normal. Dass alles gut laufen kann, ist für sie unvorstellbar. Heute klären wir, ob das wirklich so ist und was Du tun kannst, um Dir keine Sorgen mehr zu machen. Denn ich gehe davon aus, dass Du keine machen möchtest. Auf ins Abenteuer

Power dynamics can still register in the nervous system, but when pressure and relational strain ease, it's often a sign of identity-level alignment. This episode explores why hierarchy feels different when your body no longer braces for safety.Power dynamics don't disappear just because you're more aligned.Hierarchy still exists. Authority still registers. Systems still function the way they always have.What often changes first is how your body meets those dynamics.In this Saturday episode on Horizontal Alignment, we explore how Identity-Level Recalibration begins to show up in real relationships, conversations, and leadership moments, not through effort or performance, but through presence.This episode is especially resonant if you've noticed that:Conversations with authority feel quieter than they used toYour body still registers hierarchy, but doesn't spiral afterwardYou're no longer replaying interactions or managing yourself internallyPower dynamics feel noticeable, but less personalYou're staying connected without shrinking or posturingRather than explaining power dynamics, this episode stays with the lived experience of meeting them from a different internal place.When alignment deepens, the nervous system still reads the room, but it no longer assumes danger. Responses become proportional. Context returns. Self-judgment softens without effort.This is not detachment.It's regulation.And it's one of the quiet byproducts of this work.This episode reflects the heart of Identity-Level Recalibration: not changing behavior, but changing the internal orientation that behavior flows from.Today's Micro Recalibration:When you notice a power dynamic today, ask quietly:“What does my body do, and how quickly does it settle?”No fixing.No correcting.Just notice how fast you return to yourself.That return is alignment in motion.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

Leadership relationships can create quiet pressure even when nothing is said. In this episode, we explore why easing tension around authority isn't a confidence issue, but an identity-level shift that settles the nervous system and restores capacity.For many high-capacity humans, momentum has always been measured by effort. More clarity. More confidence. More action. But there is another kind of momentum that rarely gets named, especially in leadership relationships.In this episode, we explore what changes when you stop shrinking around authority and why real momentum often shows up first as quiet steadiness rather than visible movement.This conversation sits at the intersection of identity shift, nervous system regulation, and relational attachment. When you are no longer bracing before conversations or replaying them afterward, your system conserves energy that was once spent managing approval, tone, and outcomes. Nothing dramatic changes on the surface, but internally, something important reorganizes.This is not about becoming more assertive or performing confidence. It is about recognizing when your nervous system no longer needs to work as hard to keep you safe in the presence of authority. That settling is not complacency. It is capacity returning.Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) is not another mindset strategy or communication tactic. It is the root-level recalibration that allows steadiness to emerge without effort. When identity shifts, behavior follows naturally, not forcefully.If renewed momentum feels subtle or even easy to overlook, you are not doing it wrong. Ease is often the first evidence that something real is changing.Today's Micro Recalibration:At the end of the day, pause and ask yourself, “Where did something feel lighter than it used to?”No evaluation. No improvement plan. Just let your system register the shift.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things...

Are you ambitious… but exhausted?In this powerful episode of Mindset Mastery Moments, Dr. Alisa Whyte sits down with executive coach Rebecca Olson to unpack the hidden struggles of high-achieving working moms. From the silent identity crisis that often follows motherhood to the pressure of cultural expectations, this conversation goes deep into what it really means to succeed without losing yourself.Rebecca shares her practical Three C's Framework—Clarity, Confidence, and Control—to help ambitious women reclaim their identity, set boundaries without guilt, and build sustainable work-life balance.If you've ever felt successful on paper but drained in real life, this episode will shift how you define ambition—and empower you to rewrite your rules.Key Takeaways• Women often feel exhausted despite their achievements• Cultural expectations can create internal conflict for mothers• Defining success is a personal journey for every woman• Setting boundaries is crucial for emotional well-being• Women need to reclaim their identities beyond motherhood• The Three C's framework helps women find balance• Emotional management is key to overcoming overwhelm• Women can have fulfilling careers and be present mothers• It's important to prioritize self-care and personal time• Success is about making empowered choicesConnect with Rebecca Olson

In today's episode, I talk about the identity shift I made that changed everything and it had nothing to do with a new strategy or working harder. I'm done hurrying, rushing, and operating like there's never enough time. That decision alone cracked open something bigger: the realization that the way you move through your days is a direct reflection of the CEO you're becoming. If you're ready to stop letting an overcrowded, reactive schedule run your business and start leading from a place of intention and identity, this episode will challenge you to make the shift.

Today on the Dream Makers Podcast I'm sitting down with Karli Whitwell - and we are going deep into identity, manifestation, self-trust and what actually happens when you hit the edge of your comfort zone.Because here's the truth - most people don't fail... they just tap out the moment it gets uncomfortable.In this conversation we talk about:- Identity stabilisation and why you keep snapping back to the old version of you- Manifestation beyond the fluffy stuff — becoming the person who can actually hold the result- The tap out vs lean in moment (this is EVERYTHING)- Nervous system regulation for entrepreneurs and creatives- Self-trust in business and how you slowly erode it without realising- Money mindset, money identity and the relationship you truly have with income- Why discomfort doesn't mean you're unsafe - it means you're expandingThis episode is for women, creatives, entrepreneurs - Dream Makers building something real.The coach.The artist.The business owner.The mama with a vision in her chest.The creative who knows they're meant for more.We talk about staying.Staying when it's quiet.Staying when it's wobbly.Staying when it would be easier to pivot, quit or make it mean something about you.Because your vision isn't a cute idea.It's a commitment.And the micro-moment where you choose not to tap out?That's the quantum leap.We also speak about my upcoming book Let Your Vision Be Bigger Than Your Bullsh*t (at the time of recording we're just days away from celebrating the launch

Leadership relationships can feel unsteady when authority depends on approval. This episode explores relational strain and internal authority, showing why the tension isn't failure or confidence issues, but identity-level misalignment that the nervous system is learning to recalibrate.Many capable, high-performing humans are taught that authority comes from position.From titles.From roles.From being affirmed, followed, or agreed with.But positional power often asks the nervous system to stay alert, scanning for response, approval, or control.In this episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly walks alongside listeners through the Reclamation stage of Identity-Level Recalibration, exploring the felt difference between positional power and internal authority, and why one exhausts the body while the other settles it.This episode is especially relevant if you:Feel steady only when others affirm your decisionsNotice subtle bracing or posturing in leadership relationshipsCarry responsibility without final authoritySense relief when you stop scanning for approval, followed by unexpected exposureWant authority that feels embodied rather than performedRather than defining authority or asking listeners to claim it, this episode focuses on sensing it.Internal authority is not something you assert.It is something the body recognizes.Julie explores why reclaiming internal authority can feel quieter than expected, and why the absence of immediate feedback does not mean the absence of authority. This is not withdrawal, disengagement, or detachment. It is a nervous system learning to stand without leaning.This is not mindset work or productivity advice.Identity-Level Recalibration is root-level alignment that begins with who you are, not what you do. When identity settles, behavior follows naturally.Today's Micro Recalibration:The next time you notice yourself preparing to speak or act, ask quietly:What does steadiness feel like in my body right now?Not confidence.Not certainty.Just noticing.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

#199 - Healing Eczema from the Inside Out: Toxins, Steroid Withdrawal & the Identity Shift That Changes Everything with Kat Vong If you've ever looked in the mirror and felt betrayed by your own skin… If you've been told “it's just genetic” or “here's another prescription”… If you're quietly wondering whether something deeper is going on— Stop scrolling. This episode is the one you've been waiting for. Today I'm joined by my friend Kat Vong—host of the Well Done podcast and founder-in-the-making of a clean beauty brand for women with chronic skin struggles. Kat's story is raw, emotional, and wildly empowering. After years of battling off-and-on eczema that left her in physical pain and emotional exhaustion, Kat's body erupted in severe eczema just three weeks before her wedding. We're talking weeping wounds. Steroid injections. Oral steroids. Topicals on repeat. And that was just the beginning. What unfolded over the next several years included topical steroid withdrawal, toxic overload, leaky gut, postpartum depression, a NICU stay with twins at UCLA—and ultimately, a complete identity shift that changed everything. This conversation is about more than eczema. It's about the skin–gut–toxin connection. It's about stress, identity, and the nervous system. It's about what happens when you decide to heal—and cut off every other option. The best news - whether it's your skin or something else, healing.is.possible. In This Episode, We Cover: Heavy metals, phthalates, parabens—and how toxic burden shows up in your skin Leaky gut and why “everything” can suddenly become a trigger Why detox can initially make flares worse The missing piece in chronic healing: identity and mindset The hidden dangers of long-term topical steroid use What topical steroid withdrawal (TSW) actually looks like The beauty industry's blind spots—and what needs to change Practical skin barrier repair from the inside out How meditation rewires your biology (yes, really) Timestamps 00:00 – Meet Kat: severe eczema, beauty industry insider, and the wedding-week flare from hell 02:00 – Three types of steroids in three weeks (and why that mattered later) 03:30 – When the flares came back worse than before 05:00 – Discovering topical steroid withdrawal (TSW) and sleeping on towels 08:00 – The functional testing that changed everything: toxins, gut, inflammation 09:30 – Heavy metals, parabens, phthalates, mold—and why her practitioner was shocked 11:00 – Leaky gut, gluten markers, and the “everything is a trigger” phase 12:00 – Detox + TSW: when healing looks worse before it gets better 13:30 – Pregnancy, temporary glowing skin, and the devastating steroid shot before delivery 15:00 – NICU, postpartum depression, and the emotional toll of skin disease 18:30 – The surprising non-food trigger most people ignore: toxic burden 20:00 – Stress as gasoline on the inflammatory fire 21:30 – “You can't drain the bathtub if the faucet's still running.” 22:30 – Identity work: “I am someone who has eczema” vs. “I am someone who heals.” 26:00 – The meditations that changed her brain (inspired by Joe Dispenza and his books Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself and You Are the Placebo) 29:00 – The desperation loop that keeps people stuck 30:00 – Decide vs. choose: cutting off every other option 31:30 – Skin barrier repair explained simply (bricks + mortar analogy) 34:00 – Makeup, shame, leadership, and not feeling “enough” in the beauty industry 37:00 – Beauty, identity, and self-worth beyond appearance 39:00 – If you feel stuck, here's what you need to hear 41:00 – Turning pain into purpose 42:00 – Kat's upcoming clean beauty brand for chronic skin conditions Let's Talk Root Causes What struck me most in this conversation? It wasn't just the heavy metals or the leaky gut (although yes, those matter). It was this: You cannot heal in the same identity that created the illness. I've seen this over and over in clinical practice. We can remove inflammatory foods. We can support detox pathways. We can rebuild the gut lining. But if someone still believes, deep down, “This is just who I am”… the body listens. Kat didn't just detox her liver. She detoxed her identity. And that's where the shift happened. If You're Struggling with Chronic Condition Right Now… Here's your gentle but firm nudge: Get proper testing. Guessing is exhausting. Reduce inflammation first (you can't drain a bathtub with the faucet running). Support detox pathways before aggressive detox. Repair the gut lining. Regulate the nervous system daily. Decide that healing is happening—even if your eyes haven't caught up yet. Your body is not broken. It's communicating. And as someone who has walked countless women through chronic conditions, autoimmunity, skin flares—I can tell you: when we address toxins, gut integrity, stress, and identity together… things change. Connect with Kat Follow Kat's amazing journey and podcast: Instagram: @thewelldonepod Personal page: @iamkatvong Website: thewelldonepod.com Her upcoming clean beauty line is being formulated specifically for women who have felt invisible in the makeup aisle. And honestly? It's about time. If this episode resonated, send it to the friend who keeps saying, “It's just my hormones,” or “I guess I just have sensitive skin.” Sometimes it's not just sensitive skin. Sometimes it's your body asking for a new story. And that story? It can end very differently than it began.   ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments!

What if high-performance habits didn't require more willpower?Learn a practical 5-step system for leadership change—starting with identity, shrinking habits into micro-behaviours, engineering your environment, rewarding consistency, and focusing on one keystone habit that creates a ripple effect.Stop forcing new behaviours and start becoming the leader your goals demand.Fasttrack your leadership skills with Dex AI Coach: https://app.coachvox.ai/share/DexRandallSubscribe for more leadership and burnout recovery insights →  https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7393784577229709312 Join the Leadership Development Program: https://go.dexrandall.com/leadershipSend a text----------------------------------- Resources:Leadership without Burnout https://go.dexrandall.com/leadershipDex AI Coach https://app.coachvox.ai/share/dexrandallConfidential. Expert. Free. Solve problems fast.For even more TIPS see FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandallINSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandallLINKEDIN: @coachdexrandallYOUTUBE: @dexburnoutcoachSee https://linktr.ee/coachdexrandall for all links

If you're ready to stop trying to become her and start wiring her in, this episode is for you. This is a powerful, neuroscience-based affirmation experience designed to rewire your identity at the subconscious level. These are not surface-level positive thoughts. This is neural rehearsal. Your brain changes through repetition. Your nervous system changes through safety. Your identity determines your behavior. In this 20-minute affirmation experience, you will: Rewire your self-concept Strengthen identity-level confidence Regulate your nervous system around growth and visibility Condition your brain to expect success, support, and expansion Practice embodying your highest self This episode blends affirmations, emotional amplification, posture anchoring, and future self rehearsal to create real internal shifts. Listen daily for 21 days for best results. Identity drives behavior. Behavior drives results. This is where real transformation begins. If you want deeper identity rewiring and behavioral neuroscience-based coaching, explore Becoming Her Collective below. https://alliecasazza.com/collective  My links here:https://alliecasazza.com/tpslinks — Allie Casazza is a behavioral neuroscience-based coach specializing in identity change, subconscious reprogramming, nervous system regulation, and lasting transformation for women ready to expand their lives.

If you've been thinking…How do I reinvent myself in 2026?
Why do I feel the urge to start over?
How do I upgrade my identity and finally get different results?
Is this the year I stop repeating old patterns?    This episode is your starting line. Today marks the beginning of the Year of the Fire Horse — a cycle known for speed, bold action, and decisive movement. But reinvention doesn't happen because the calendar changes.    It happens when your identity changes. In this episode, we break down what it actually means to reinvent yourself, how identity shifts create real life and business results, and how to intentionally step into a new version of yourself without chaos or burnout.    RESOURCES MENTIONED:    **ONLY TIME THIS YEAR** > 3 Days to Make Bank Online Live Training Series  Register for FREE HERE (hosted on a private YouTube Live!). VIP tickets also available!    **Abundance Sale Ending** Make More Work Less: The Money Relationship Healing & Manifestation Program GET THIS LIMITED TIME OFFER HERE    >> Join the famous ProjectME Posse Business & Money Coaching Membership HERE    {FREE GIFT-LIMITED TIME} Walk into Your Wealthiest Season walking manifestation series + Guided Wealth Journal GET IT HERE    CONNECT WITH TIFF:  Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany   Tiffany on TikTok @projectme_with_tiffany  Tiffany on YouTube: ProjectME TV  Tiffany's FREE Abundance Email Community: JOIN HERE > The Secret Posse Digest     Inside this episode:  • How to reinvent yourself in 2026 without blowing up your life
  • The psychology behind identity shifts and personal growth
  • Why most people fail at self-improvement goals
• How to upgrade your identity to increase income and confidence
  • The difference between motivation and identity-level change  • How to stop repeating old patterns in business and life
  • What the Fire Horse energy symbolizes for growth and momentum
  • How to create acceleration without forcing results  If you're ready for a real identity upgrade in your business, your income, your confidence, or your habits > this episode will help you move with intention instead of impulse. 

You know that strange, disoriented feeling when you've accomplished so much… and yet you know there's more? Not burnout. Not failure. Not dissatisfaction. But that subtle, unsettling identity shift that happens when you're stepping into your next level. In this episode, we're talking about reinvention — not the glossy, Instagram version — but the psychological shift that happens when you move from who you've been known for… into who you're becoming. Because here's the truth: imposter syndrome hits differently during reinvention. Not because you're unqualified. But because you're not fluent yet in the next version of you. We unpack: Why identity work always lags behind growth The grief that quietly shows up when you release a former version of yourself Why women tie worth to mastery (and how that keeps us stuck) How hustle culture makes reinvention harder than it needs to be Why community shortens the imposter syndrome phase How to create a "bridge identity" while you step into your next chapter Why belonging is claimed — not earned If you've been thinking: "Do I still belong here?" "Am I too late?" "Who am I to talk about this?" "Did I miss my window?" This episode is for you. You're not behind. You're not lost. You're becoming. And you don't have to reinvent alone.   Resources Mentioned In The Episode: Join the Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/linkedinsuccesstips  Learn more about The Visibility Salon: https://visibilitysalon.com   Magical Quotes From The Episode: "You're not uncomfortable because you're incapable. You're uncomfortable because you're not fluent yet in who you're becoming." "Reinvention isn't erasure. It's integration." "Belonging isn't something you earn after you feel ready. You claim it — and then the confidence follows."   Help Us Spread The Word! It would be awesome if you shared the Good Girls Get Rich Podcast with your fellow entrepreneurs on Twitter. Click here to tweet some love! If this episode has taught you just one thing, I would love if you could head on over to Apple Podcasts and SUBSCRIBE TO THE SHOW! And if you're moved to, kindly leave us a rating and review. Maybe you'll get a shout out on the show!   Ways to Subscribe to Good Girls Get Rich: Click here to subscribe via Apple Podcasts Click here to subscribe via PlayerFM Good Girls Get Rich is also on Spotify Take a listen on Podcast Addict

Can your business make a million in one year?Most people will say no. Not because it's impossible, but because they're thinking about it the wrong way. Making your first $1 Million is not about hustle. It's not about stacking side projects. It's not about 14 income streams and burnout disguised as ambition.It's about leverage.Leverage over effort.Outcomes over deliverables.Focus over distraction.If your income is tied directly to your time, you're capped. If you're solving small problems, you're paid small money. If you're scattered across too many offers, too many audiences, too many channels, you're diluted.The path to $1 Million requires three uncomfortable shifts:Obsess over leverage, not effort.Solve a $10 Million problem to earn $1 Million.Go narrower to go bigger with one flagship offer, one defined buyer, and one primary distribution engine.This episode also confronts the uncomfortable truth about wealth: if it costs you your family, your health, or your identity, that's not success. That's ego dressed up as ambition. The real question becomes this: " If you had to build a $1 Million business with only one offer, one audience, and one channel… what would you choose?"Your answer will reveal everything...What You'll Learn:Why leverage beats effort if you want real scaleHow to reverse-engineer $1 Million without the hustle trapThe “solve a $10 Million problem” mindset shiftWhy outcomes sell and deliverables get negotiated downHow focus becomes your unfair advantage when discomfort hitsThe one-offer, one-audience, one-channel test that clarifies everythingHow to build recurring revenue while protecting your energyBeyond The Episode Gems:Buy My Book, Strategize Up: The Blueprint To Scale Your Business: StrategizeUpBook.comDiscover All Podcasts On The HubSpot Podcast NetworkGet Free HubSpot Marketing Tools To Help You Grow Your BusinessGrow Your Business Faster Using HubSpot's CRM PlatformListen to My First Million on the HubSpot Podcast NetworkSupport The Podcast & Connect With Troy: Rate & Review iDigress: iDigress.fm/ReviewsFollow Troy's Socials @FindTroy: LinkedIn, Instagram, Threads, TikTokSubscribe to Troy's YouTube Channel For Strategy Videos & See Masterclass EpisodesNeed Growth Strategy, A Keynote Speaker, Or Want To Sponsor The Podcast? Go To FindTroy.com

Have you ever noticed that subtle internal shift before you speak up?The quiet bracing.The self-editing.The sense that your truth might cost you something.For many high performers, this pressure shows up before the conversation even begins. Not because something is wrong, but because your nervous system learned to stay safe by managing yourself in moments of authority, hierarchy, or relational power.In this episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly introduces the Recognition stage of Identity-Level Recalibration. This is the stage where nothing needs to be fixed, solved, or optimized.This episode explores:Why high performers often feel pressure or tension before speaking, even when they're capable and prepared.How the nervous system responds first, and the story follows to explain the sensation.Why bracing and self-editing are not weaknesses, but once-useful strategies.How managing yourself quietly became a form of safety in leadership relationships.Why paying attention to your body can feel vague or unprofessional, and why that reaction makes sense.How body awareness is a legitimate form of data you may not have been taught to read yet.What Recognition really means inside Identity-Level Recalibration.Why awareness alone creates movement, even without immediate action.Season 4 is focused on integration, not information.Earlier seasons explored the psychology and nervous system science behind this work. This season walks the recalibration pathway in real time, through daily micro moments, so insight becomes embodied rather than intellectual.This episode is especially relevant if any of the following feel familiar:You feel pressure before conversations that matter.You notice yourself bracing or self-editing around authority.You are successful on paper, but sense an internal strain you can't explain.You are navigating leadership relationships without final authority.You want sustainable alignment rather than another strategy.Today's Micro Recalibration:The next time you notice yourself bracing before a conversation, ask quietly:What did my body notice before my mind explained?No fixing, just awareness.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

In this episode of Gents Talk, supported by BULOVA Canada (Ep# 189), Jade Smith delivers a raw and deeply personal conversation about grief, trauma, and the moments that change you forever.This episode explores what happens when you're faced with a loss you weren't prepared for — when you're told not to look, not to come, not to see — and how those moments can stay with you long after the world moves on. It's not just about loss; it's about the shock, the guilt, the unanswered questions, and the emotional weight we are often expected to carry in silence.

Belonging and inner life can feel exhausting when connection depends on holding everything together. This episode explores why that fatigue isn't failure, but a signal to anchor belonging beyond roles, performance, and relational responsibility.There is a quiet exhaustion that doesn't come from conflict, failure, or broken relationships.It comes from believing that belonging depends on your steadiness, your usefulness, or your ability to hold things together.In this Sunday episode of The Recalibration, we move into Vertical Alignment — the place where identity is anchored beyond human roles, nervous system strategies, and relational performance.This conversation is especially for high-capacity humans who have learned early that connection often comes with responsibility. Being the adaptable one. The steady one. The one who carries emotional weight so relationships don't fracture. Over time, that pattern can create subtle burnout, spiritual exhaustion, and a quiet fear: If I stop holding everything together, will I still belong?Through Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR), we don't try to solve that question with reassurance or effort. We allow belonging to relocate — from something you manage horizontally to something you receive vertically.This episode weaves together themes of identity shift, attachment, nervous system regulation, and faith, grounded in the words of Jesus of Nazareth, whose invitation — “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” — reframes belonging as presence before performance.ILR is not another mindset tactic or productivity strategy. It is the root-level recalibration that makes every other tool effective again. When identity rests before it relates, relationships no longer require over-functioning. They become places of presence rather than pressure.This episode closes Week 4 by anchoring what has been noticed, released, reclaimed, reinforced, and integrated — not through momentum, but through rest.Today's Micro RecalibrationWhere have I been earning belonging — and what would it feel like to rest instead?Not to fix.Not to explain.Just to notice.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

▷ 本集引導在開始之前，先跟著我，呼吸一次。不是為了放鬆，而是為了 —— 讓你的身體回到它真正的速度。這一集，是 The Lola System™ Season 2 的第一集。 也是一個全新階段的入口。Season 1，我們做的是 Reset：讓你明白，你不是壞掉、不是太敏感、不是不夠堅強。Season 2，我們要做的是 Reclaim：把你的人生主權、身體主權、節奏主權，一一拿回來。▷ 本集核心很多女性在做 Vision Board 的時候，反而變得更焦慮。如果你也是，我想先很清楚地說：你不是不想要。你也不是不夠積極。你不是不夠正向，也不是吸引力法則失敗。你正在經驗的是一件非常身體的事 ——你的腦袋想要，但你的身體還不敢承載。高端女性的焦慮，往往不是因為目標太大，而是因為 —— 目標一旦實現，會改變太多東西。關係、身份、金錢、權力、節奏，甚至是那個「一直很能撐」的自己。Vision Board 對你來說，不只是願望板，而是一面鏡子。它讓你同時看見：你想要的未來，以及你還不敢走進去的自己。▷ 你會在這一集聽到為什麼 Vision Board 會觸發焦慮，而不是動力為什麼這不是意志力問題，而是安全感與承載力問題為什麼「舊方法失效」不是退步，而是升級前兆高端女性最難放下的，往往不是努力，而是掌控如何把 Vision Board 從「目標」翻譯成「身體承載」▷ Season 2 的關鍵轉向Season 1 的 Reset，是理解。Season 2 的 Reclaim，是選擇。你開始問的，不再只是：「我可不可以做到？」而是 —— 「這樣做，我的身體是否同意？」 「這樣做，我是否在背叛我的節奏？」 「這樣做，是不是我真正想要的人生？」這就是 Reclaim。▷ Somatic Practice這一集，我會帶你做一個簡單但精準的身體練習。不是為了立刻不焦慮，也不是要你正向。而是 —— 把焦慮從腦袋，拉回身體，讓主權回到你自己。你會被邀請去感受： 當你想像某個未來時，身體哪裡先收縮？它正在保護你免於什麼？Season 2 的路不是逼身體跟上野心，而是讓野心開始尊重身體。▷ 本集不是要你「完成」如果你聽完有一點點鬆 ... 很好。但你也可能發現，回到生活之後，那個收縮又回來了。這不是你沒有學會，而是因為——有些轉化，不是靠理解完成的，而是靠被承接完成的。尤其當你要走進新的身份、關係、收入與影響力層級，你的神經系統需要的是一個能反覆確認安全的場域。這也是 The Lola System™ 90 存在的原因。▷ Work with LolaApply for The Lola System™ 90 https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口，為「準備好真正改變，但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite｜https://lolalinocean.com Instagram｜https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalin LinkedIn｜https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin

Relationship shifts can feel confusing when nothing is “wrong,” yet something feels different. This episode explores how identity-level recalibration allows you to make sense of relational change without urgency, drama, or fear of losing belonging.Some relational shifts don't arrive with conflict, boundaries, or conversations.They arrive quietly.You feel less responsible.Less vigilant.Less compelled to manage the moment.And for high-capacity humans — people accustomed to responsibility, steadiness, and relational competence — that quiet can feel disorienting.In this episode of The Recalibration, we explore horizontal alignment: the phase of integration where experience is allowed to settle into real life without being interpreted, explained, or turned into a story.This conversation is especially for those navigating relationship changes that don't fit familiar narratives of growth or loss. You may notice:less emotional charge in certain connectionsmore neutrality without disengagementfewer explanations without withdrawalThat doesn't mean something is wrong.It often means discernment is replacing fear.Drawing on identity-level recalibration (ILR), this episode gently reframes integration as a nervous-system process, not a cognitive one. Unlike mindset work or productivity strategies, ILR begins with who you are being, not what you should do — allowing clarity to emerge without forcing resolution.You'll hear how:belonging doesn't disappear when performance relaxesoutgrowing a role doesn't require outgrowing the relationshipmeaning can form without narrative fixationThis is companionship work, not instruction.Orientation, not urgency.Recognition before resolution.Today's Micro Recalibration:“What did this week reveal about how I relate to belonging?”Let the question sit beside you. No answers required yet.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

The power of movement & defining the love you want: movement choirs; nervous system regulation & a ten-step path to figure out the type of love you deserve On this episode of The Lisa Burke Show, dancers Veronique Scheer and Gabrielle Staiger talk about how the body stores emotions. Mentor Rick Serrano walks through a simple checklist to define a partner that matches your life goals and one deserving of you. Traumatic Injury to Identity Shift, Education and Trauma-Healing workshops Veronique Scheer, founder of Very Unique Yoga, was a professional musical theatre performer living her dream life in Barcelona as a young adult. This dream was abruptly halted by a devastating motorbike accident at 21. Through years of rehabilitation, a law degree (plan B) and reinvention, Veronique turned to yoga, pilates and trauma-healing practice. She realised that movement could me more than performance or aesthetics; it could be a tool for nervous system regulation, trauma healing and identity reconstruction. “The nervous system governs how we experience life.” Today, Veronique's work blends movement science, hormonal literacy and nervous system education into a holistic approach, particularly supporting women navigating stress, burnout, postnatal recovery and life transitions. She distinguishes between nervous system regulation and long‑term training, emphasising that our reactions often arise from stored patterns in the nervous system long before cognition catches up. Co-regulation in couples Veronique also conducts couples yoga classes, and can see how their nervous systems sync in a calming or dysregulated way. Through workshops and couple classes, she sees first‑hand how movement can reveal communication patterns, power struggles, people‑pleasing and sexual disconnect. These workshops also show how playful, shared movement can help partners remember why they fell in love. Using practices such as AcroYoga, she watches trust, control and surrender play out physically: some couples re‑discover laughter and tenderness; others confront that their relationship may actually be over. Veronique's upcoming digital academy and app (launching 2026) brings together: - Nervous system regulation - Hormonal health education - Trauma-aware movement - Conscious relationship development

When relationships start feeling easier, many high performers feel confused instead of relieved. This episode explores why ease is not a loss of depth, but a signal of identity-level alignment and nervous system safety returning.There is a particular kind of relief that doesn't come from fixing anything.It comes from effort easing.From not managing.From showing up without explaining.From realizing that connection can remain even when you stop carrying it.And for high-capacity humans who are used to pressure, responsibility, and emotional attentiveness, that ease can feel unsettling. Almost suspicious. As if something important has been missed.In this episode of The Recalibration, we explore why certain friendships begin to feel lighter after identity-level recalibration — not because people changed, but because roles loosened.This is not about replacing relationships or drawing conclusions.It's about recognizing how alignment shows up in the body.When effort decreases and connection remains, the nervous system registers safety.When pauses no longer feel dangerous, regulation deepens.When presence replaces monitoring, clarity begins to emerge without urgency.Many people mistake ease for complacency.But in reality, ease is one of the clearest signals of alignment.This episode continues Season 4's relational arc by focusing on renewed momentum — not momentum driven by effort, but movement that arises naturally when misalignment releases. It reflects the core of Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR): not another mindset tool or productivity strategy, but the root-level recalibration that makes every other tool effective by realigning who you are, not just what you do.Rather than instruction, this episode offers orientation.Rather than resolution, it offers recognition.Rather than urgency, it offers companionship.You're not becoming less relational.You're becoming more honest about how connection actually feels.Today's Micro Recalibration:Where am I noticing more ease in my relationships — without trying to explain it, protect it, or make it mean something?Let that noticing be enough.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

What if the breakthrough wasn't fame… but discipline?Episode 206 is a powerful one.Joey YAK went from elite athlete to touring artist to walking away from it all. He chose family over fame, got sober, rebuilt his life, became a top-performing sales leader, and eventually founded his own creative agency.This conversation goes beyond business tactics. It's about identity, maturity, responsibility, and building something that actually lasts.If you're a business owner trying to grow without losing your values, this episode will resonate.Thanks for listening and being part of this journey with us.Connect with Joey YAK PieperInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/joey.yak/Get Attention STL Website: https://getattentionstl.com/Connect with Builders of AuthorityWebsite: https://buildauthority.comFREE Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/7685392924809322GoHighLevel Extended 30-day Free Trial w/TONS of Personal Branding Bonuses: http://gohighlevel.com/adammcchesney

In this soul-stirring episode, we're joined by Author and Cohost of the Afropolitan Podcast Chika Uwazie. As a globally recognized writer and cultural commentator, Chika gives language to the feelings so many of us hide. We're diving deep into the concept of timeline grief—that quiet mourning for the version of the future you thought you'd have—and how to gain the courage to reinvent yourself on your own terms.Tune in to learn:How to release the silent shame of unfulfilled plans and navigate the messy middle of emotional reinvention.The secrets to understanding quiet grief and why high-achievers feel so confused when life doesn't follow the original spreadsheet so "success."Why the soft life isn't just a social media trend, but a necessary reclamation of your peace and authority.If you've ever felt behind in life or like you're forcing an old plan to fit a new you, Chika's insights will help you start owning the authority of your actual, evolving life.Free Gift: Reset Your Life Now GuideThat ache when life doesn't match what you imagined? It's called timeline grief, and you're not alone. This free 7-day guide gives you daily prompts to help you release what's not working, get clear on what you actually want, and take the first steps toward what's next.Chika's Giveaway Contribution: One-on-One Coaching SessionReady to stop feeling like you're behind and start moving toward a career you actually love? Enter to win a 1-1 coaching session with Chika where you'll get the clarity needed to reset your life and successfully navigate your next big career pivot! Connect with Chika: Website | YouTube | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!

“I feel like I have a suitcase of responsibilities chained to my ankle that I drag around everywhere.” When a client shared this with Jackie, it perfectly captured what so many high-achieving women silently carry. In this episode of the Wildly Wealthy Woman Podcast, Jackie explores the identity shift required to move from overworked and over-responsible… to supported, wealthy, and in flow. This episode is for the woman who: Has built something meaningful Is highly capable and deeply responsible Feels anxiety in her chest, neck, shoulders, or arms Is tired of managing her life instead of enjoying it You're not anxious because you don't know what you're doing. You're anxious because you learned how to carry too much — often from a season of past scarcity. Scarcity with money.Scarcity with support.Scarcity where doing it yourself felt like the only safe option. Even now, when life looks good, your nervous system still asks: “What if it goes away?”“What if I let go and everything falls apart?” Jackie shares why traditional productivity advice doesn't solve this pattern — and how the real shift comes from changing your state and identity, not your to-do list. Referencing insights from Tony Robbins, Jackie explains: “Your state determines your story.” If your body is living in stress, control, and responsibility, no amount of mindset work will help you enjoy your life. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why overworking is rooted in identity, not ambition How past scarcity keeps high-achieving women in survival mode Why responsibility gets stored in the body The difference between calming anxiety and releasing the identity behind it How tapping changes your state and affirmations change your identity What it means to move from management mode into self-energy Why miracles happen when the body feels safe to receive The Core Shift This episode introduces the powerful reframe: You are not “just this way.”You are not “just the responsible one.” That identity helped you survive and succeed. But it is not who you truly are. Inside Jackie's work — and especially inside the upcoming 21 Days of Tapping & Affirmations — you don't just calm anxiety. You release the identity that learned to carry everything alone. From Overworked to Wildly Wealthy Wildly wealthy isn't about doing more. It's about: Shoulders softening Breath deepening Delegating without panic Taking time off without anxiety Living inside your life instead of managing it When your nervous system no longer believes everything depends on you, you move into flow. And that's where miracles begin. Join the 21 Days of Tapping & Affirmations This March, Jackie is guiding high-achieving women through 21 days of identity-level tapping and affirmations to: Release past scarcity Put down the weight of responsibility Stop overworking Step into the Wildly Wealthy Woman identity If this episode felt like it was speaking directly to you, this experience was made for you.

In this episode, we are joined by Transformation Guide & Spiritual Coach Talia Joy to explore why building your life on external expectations is a recipe for burnout and how to pivot to a model of sustainable success. Talia introduces the concept of the YOU-Print—your unique energetic blueprint—to help you stop shrinking your presence and start leading from a place of full-bodied alignment.Tune in to learn:How to avoid the crash out that happens when you hit external milestones but feel hollow or depleted inside.The secrets to identifying your unique YOU-Print and using your core values as the energetic blueprint for maximum expression and profit.How to stop chasing external definitions of success and instead use your internal values as a decision-making filter for your daily life.Practical steps to create a messy list of what fulfills you and whittle it down to the top 3–5 core values that serve as your true north.Whether you are craving more freedom, richness, or connection, Talia shows you how to use your unique identity as the foundation for unshakeable authority.Free Gift: Uncovering Your YOU-PrintUncovering your unique You-Print and your core values isn't just a reflective exercise — it's one of the most tangible, practical ways to create more meaning, fulfillment, joy, and abundance in your life. When you're clear on what you truly value most, your decisions get simpler, your energy gets cleaner, and your daily life starts to feel more aligned instead of forced.Talia's Giveaway Contribution: Clarity & Momentum ExperienceReady to break through your current obstacles and step into your next level of leadership with total alignment? Enter to win the Clarity & Momentum Experience with Talia Joy—a week of high-level voice memo support designed to clear your blocks and turn your big vision into actionable momentum (a $555 value)!Connect with Talia: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!

▷ 本集精華這不是一集普通的結尾，而是一場整合與重生。你不只是「學會了什麼」，你的身體與神經系統，已經走過一段不可逆的轉變。▷ 在本集你會聽到回顧你在 Season 1 中完成的深層覺醒為什麼你已經不可能回到過去的版本身體、情緒、神經系統如何整合成新的身份一場引導你錨定新狀態的 Closing Ceremony以及，如何把這個狀態帶進未來的人生▷ 深度版內容很多人成長，停留在「理解」。但真正的轉變，發生在身體層級。這一集不是要你變得更好，而是讓你清楚知道：你已經回不去那個總是撐著、懷疑自己、與身體斷線的版本。這是一場身體 × 神經系統 × 身份的整合儀式。（真正的轉化，不在文字，而在你聽見的節奏裡。）▷ 在本集中，你會開始感受你已經不是從前的你你的身體，已經知道如何帶路以及，你準備好走向下一階段的自己▷ Work with Lola Lin  Apply for The Lola System™ 90 Nervous System Reset  https://lolalinocean.com/apply▷ Connect with Lola  LinkedIn｜https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalinIG｜https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalinWebsite｜https://lolalinocean.com

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Send us a textWhat if your life is simply reflecting the frequency you're broadcasting?In this powerful episode, I sit down with Steve Linton—former U.S. Marine, professional pilot, and world-class skydiver with over 17,000 jumps—whose journey took him from sleeping in his car to earning a six-figure month in under six months.Steve's core message is both simple and confronting: frequency drives results. Change your internal signal, and your patterns, relationships, and income must follow.We explore frequency not just as a spiritual concept, but as physics plus pattern—vibration reinforced through repetition. Steve shares how a persistent “why me?” mindset kept him trapped in cycles of struggle, even after earning two degrees. The turning point came when a mentor delivered a blunt truth: your attitude is the engine. From there, everything changed.In this conversation, Steve breaks down the exact tools he used to rebuild his life:Rewriting identity before changing behaviourPresent-tense “contracts” with himself to reprogram the subconsciousVisualisation that makes success feel normal, not distantGratitude practiced with emotional charge—not surface-level positivityAnd the unglamorous but essential truth: mindset without action changes nothingWe also dive into self-image psychology, subconscious conditioning, and why protecting your environment—and your circle—matters, especially when doubt comes from those closest to you. Steve shares grounded, repeatable practices you can apply immediately: morning and evening affirmations, sensory-rich visualisation, upgrading your environment, serving others to shift state, and executing quietly while your goals are still forming.This episode is about discipline over drama, clarity over chaos, and the unwavering decision not to quit.If you're ready for a reset around money, purpose, health, or direction, this conversation offers a practical roadmap to turn belief into behaviour—and behaviour into real-world results.Get his new book here (click link)If this resonated, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show.I'd love to hear from you: what one daily habit will you commit to this week?Support the showThank you for listening

After a three-year hiatus, Prerak and Sofia are finally back behind the mic! A lot has changed since our last episode in 2022—we've finished our medical residencies, hit the big 3-0, and seen the world of Desi-American representation explode in ways we never imagined. In this episode, we're catching you up on everything you missed. Prerak shares the story of his residency at Stanford, his recent marriage, and how he went from medical student to marathon runner. Sofia fills us in on her time at NYU, her world travels to places like South Africa and Japan, and her new-found love for weightlifting. We also dive into the "Identity Shift" that happens when you enter your 30s—from managing finances and politics to the pressure of staying fit and avoiding "Uncle/Auntie status." Plus, we discuss the massive shift in the Desi-American landscape, including the rise of South Asian figures in the U.S. government and the "London-fication" of the NYC dining scene. We're so excited to be back with weekly episodes. Let's get into it! TIME STAMPS:  00:00 Welcome to Red, White, and Brown: The Return 00:54 Why we took a three-year break (The Residency Reality) 02:08 Goals for Season 4: Audience connection and weekly episodes 03:55 Prerak's Life Update: Moving back West, Marriage, and a new Dog 05:41 Sophia's Life Update: Global travels and surviving NYU residency 08:05 Fighting "Uncle Status": Prioritizing health and fitness 09:54 Prerak's + Sofia's Fitness Journeys & Tips for staying active with a busy schedule 17:45 Getting serious about politics, taxes, and the stock market 19:22 The "Time Crunch": Planning life, safaris, and kids 21:18 How the Desi-American space has changed since 2022 Chapters (00:00:00) - Welcome to Red, White, and Brown: The Return(00:00:54) - Why we took a three-year break (The Residency Reality)(00:02:08) - Goals for Season 4: Audience connection and weekly episodes(00:03:55) - Prerak's Life Update: Moving back West, Marriage, and a new Dog(00:05:41) - Sophia's Life Update: Global travels and surviving NYU residency(00:08:05) - Fighting "Uncle Status": Prioritizing health and fitness(00:09:54) - Prerak's + Sofia's Fitness Journeys & Tips for staying active with a busy schedule(00:17:45) - Getting serious about politics, taxes, and the stock market(00:19:22) - The "Time Crunch": Planning life, safaris, and kids(00:21:18) - How the Desi-American space has changed since 2022

Parenting pressure can feel exhausting even when nothing is “wrong.” This episode explores the hidden roles parents step into, why they create strain, and how identity-level recalibration allows you to release responsibility without losing authority.Many parents feel exhausted without being able to point to a clear reason why.They're still showing up.Still caring deeply.Still doing what needs to be done.And yet, something feels heavy.In this Tuesday episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly guides listeners through the Release stage of identity-level recalibration — the moment when we begin to loosen the roles we've been carrying out of habit, not necessity.These roles often formed during seasons when stability, safety, or emotional regulation depended on us stepping in. They were not mistakes. They were intelligent responses to real needs. But what once protected something important can quietly become exhausting when it's no longer required in the same way.This episode is an invitation to understand — without shame — the over-functioning parental roles many high-capacity humans step into, and how releasing them does not mean losing authority, care, or connection.In this episode, you'll explore:Why parenting exhaustion often comes from roles, not effortHow over-functioning develops as a protective response, not a flawWhat happens in the nervous system when responsibility never clocks outWhy releasing a role does not mean disengaging or becoming less capableHow presence often becomes steadier — not weaker — when pressure easesJulie weaves together relational insight, nervous system awareness, and identity-level reframing to show why this work is not about doing less — but about releasing what no longer belongs.This is not mindset work.It's not a productivity adjustment.And it's not another parenting strategy.Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) addresses the root — allowing pressure to release so clarity, authority, and ease can return naturally.This episode prioritizes orientation over urgency, understanding before action, and companionship over correction.Today's Micro RecalibrationFinish this sentence gently, without fixing or justifying:“One role I keep stepping into with my child that feels heavy is…”Awareness is enough for today.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

In this insightful MTNTOUGH Podcast episode, host Dustin Defenderfer reconnects with lifelong hunter, former backcountry guide, respected hunting voice, and entrepreneur Remi Warren for an honest check-in on his transformative 2025 journey. Remi dives deep into major life and business shifts: selling his 20+ year outfitting business after decades of guiding hard miles in wild places, acquiring Day 6 Arrows and Broadheads as a product manufacturing company focused on high-quality arrows and broadheads, overhauling nutrition with wild game meat, vegetables, consistent meals, and gut health improvements, adding marathon running and structured fitness goals to boost energy and performance, navigating intense work-life balance as a dad of two young kids, managing high cortisol and stress from multiple businesses, and stepping through fear to embrace identity-level change instead of fleeting New Year's resolutions. He shares raw reflections on how past guiding experience fuels product innovation, the emotional weight of letting go of outfitting identity, building presence with family amid entrepreneurial demands, leveraging mental toughness from mountain hunts into daily discipline, and staying always ready through faith, patience, and consistent effort. Perfect for hunters, entrepreneurs, dads, and men redefining success while staying dangerous physically, mentally, spiritually, and nutritionally.Presented by Sig Sauer.V I D E O S TO W A T C H N E X T

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Relationships can feel disorienting when roles shift and old patterns loosen. This episode sits with relational strain, uncertainty, and quiet fear — not as failure, but as an identity-level reorganization happening inside closeness.What happens when a relationship feels lighter — but also more uncertain?When roles loosen, effort drops, and clarity returns, many high-capacity humans don't feel relief right away. They feel exposed. The questions that surface aren't about communication skills or fixing the relationship. They're about identity, belonging, and safety inside closeness.This episode is intentionally different.Instead of teaching or resolving, we slow down and stay with the real, lived questions that emerge when relationships recalibrate — especially for people who have long carried responsibility, emotional labor, and steadiness for others.In this extended Saturday episode, we gently walk through the questions that clients, friends, and leaders most often ask — sometimes out loud, often silently — as identity shifts inside relationship:“If I stop playing this role… will I still be chosen?”“If I stop over-carrying — if I stop holding the emotional center — what is my place in this relationship now?”“Who am I to us if I'm not the one stabilizing everything?”“If things feel lighter in this relationship… am I allowed to enjoy that without waiting for the other shoe to drop?”“If I relax into this ease, am I being naive about what could happen next?”“What if my partner doesn't meet me here?”“What if mutuality doesn't appear right away?”“What if my partner doesn't change?”“How long does this feel awkward before it feels natural?”“How do I stay present in this relationship without compensating?”These questions aren't signs that something is wrong. They are evidence that identity is reorganizing faster than relational patterns — and that the nervous system is learning how to stay present without bracing, performing, or disappearing.Drawing from years of coaching high-capacity humans, lived relational experience, and the Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) pathway, this episode offers orientation rather than answers. We protect slowness. We honor grief for roles that once protected something real. We resist premature resolution. And we let the body feel what the mind is tempted to manage.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things

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Relationships can feel confusing when clarity returns without effort. If you're noticing less pressure, less rehearsal, and more internal knowing, this episode explores why that's not withdrawal—but identity-level realignment beginning to settle.There's a moment in relationships when something quietly changes inside you.You're no longer rehearsing what to say.You're not scanning for emotional shifts.You're not managing closeness the way you used to.Instead, you simply know what you feel.For many people—especially high-capacity, deeply responsible partners—this return of clarity can feel both relieving and vulnerable. Relief, because the internal noise has softened. Vulnerable, because awareness often brings memory: how much adapting once made connection possible, and how much energy that required.In this episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly explores the Reclamation stage of the Identity-Level Recalibration process as it unfolds inside marriage and close partnership. This is not about fixing communication, having the “right” conversation, or making a decision. It's about understanding why clarity returns when pressure drops—and why knowing what you feel again doesn't mean you're pulling away.Drawing from psychology, nervous system science, and identity development, Julie explains how internal authority comes back online when the body shifts from constant emotional management into felt safety. When the nervous system moves out of vigilance, truth becomes accessible again—without urgency or justification.This episode gently addresses the quiet questions many listeners carry:What if I'm changing and my partner isn't here yet?Why does awareness feel tender instead of triumphant?Can I trust clarity if it feels ordinary?This is not mindset work or productivity advice. Identity-Level Recalibration is a root-level process that makes every other tool effective—because it begins with who you are, not what you do.Today's Micro RecalibrationNotice where in your relationship you feel a quiet sense of knowing—without needing to explain or act on it.Let clarity exist without urgency.Knowing what you feel isn't a conclusion. It's orientation.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes. → Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.) → One link to all things