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Are you raising a future innovator, strategist, or systems architect? The INTJ is one of the rarest and most independent types—especially in girls—and their complex inner world can leave even the most insightful parent scratching their head. In this episode, we dive into the psychology behind the INTJ temperament, from their mysterious inner vision to their intense need for autonomy, structure, and meaning. Learn how to parent an INTJ child with confidence by understanding their four psychological functions (Ni, Te, Fi, Se), how they show up in babies, grade schoolers, teens, and adults, and what kinds of real-world activities will light them up. You'll also hear practical tips for helping INTJs build emotional awareness, balance their perfectionism, and adjust to life's inevitable curveballs. ✨ Take the free temperament test and find out if your child is an INTJ. Set up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/ Request a FREE Adult Temperament/Enneagram/Instincts Test: https://wendygossett.com/ Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/ or email me at WendyGossett.com Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367 Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.gossett/?next=%2F Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/wendygossett Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master's degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast. Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!
Send me a textAs an INTJ, you may be wondering what your role is in a relationship. In this video, I explore the unique strengths and skills of the INTJ personality, also known as the Strategizing Mystic. With the ability to strategize, plan, and bring order into people's lives, INTJs have a lot to offer in a relationship. Additionally, their long-term visioning component can help couples organize their lives in a way that utilizes their strengths and improves them as individuals. Watch the video to learn more!Original video: https://youtube.com/shorts/1SB4xTUMniY?si=YS8hnSAHzl0tLgaCSupport the Show.
Feeling lonely and like no one gets you? It's not uncommon for INTJs. As an INTJ, using Introverted Intuition (the Mystic) as your primary cognitive function can feel isolating at times. You see the world in a unique way, and it can be hard to find others who share your perspective. Only 5-7% of the population have Introverted Intuition as a strength, and it's even less as a dominant function, so it's understandable that you may feel like no one sees the world in the way you do. Because it's true! Instead of focusing on what you don't have in terms of understanding from others, try to focus on the strengths that come from having such a unique perspective. You bring a level of insight and strategic thinking to the table that is highly valued. Try reaching out to like-minded individuals, either online or in person, through groups, forums, or meetups focused on INTJs or personality type in general. These can be great places to connect with others who share your perspective and experiences. Bonus tip: The better you get at creating and expressing what's going on inside through logical structure, the more likely you'll be able to be understood and have a bit of solace.Original video: https://youtube.com/shorts/W0zTo0_5jUQ?si=0pyWxjBwRPaqhTU9Support the Show.
On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia dive into how INTJs can use personality know-how to embrace and love who they are. The conversation also touches on what the other 15 personality types can learn from INTJs about self-love. https://personalityhacker.com
Angelus, Mike & Moris have a conversation with writer & editor Lyzette Wanzer about her book Trauma, Tresses and Truth: Untangling Our Hair Through Personal Narratives. Link to Purchase the book: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/trauma-tresses-and-truth-lyzette-wanzer/1140926113 Lyzette's website: https://www.lyzettewanzermfa.com/ Lyzette on Twitter: https://x.com/INTJs_rock?s=20 @SoWellSpokenPod on IG & Twitter SoWellSpoken@gmail.com
A few years ago Josh Hubbard was a physically active, and mentally fit young man in his 20's. He got up one morning and felt a fairly strong headache but figured he was dehydrated. Hours later it became apparent he'd suffered a stroke. For a time he's lost complete use of his left arm. And while he did recover, it was only through daily (hourly, minute by minute), painstaking activity. Josh is an INTJ which stands for Introversion, Intuition, Thinking, and Judgment. INTJs are known for their strategic thinking, powerful insights, and constant thirst for knowledge. They make up only 2.1% of the population. In this episode, how did Josh react to this life-changing event, and what unique contributions did his personality make? Listen For 5:57 Josh's early interest in sports and his focus on schooling 11:30 Josh's detailed recount of the day he suffered his stroke 17:17 Commitment to self improvement and learning Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click Guest: JOSH HUBBARD Email | Website | LinkedIn | Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate's Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A few years ago Josh Hubbard was a physically active, and mentally fit young man in his 20's. He got up one morning and felt a fairly strong headache but figured he was dehydrated. Hours later it became apparent he'd suffered a stroke. For a time he's lost complete use of his left arm. And while he did recover, it was only through daily (hourly, minute by minute), painstaking activity. Josh is an INTJ which stands for Introversion, Intuition, Thinking, and Judgment. INTJs are known for their strategic thinking, powerful insights, and constant thirst for knowledge. They make up only 2.1% of the population. In this episode, how did Josh react to this life-changing event, and what unique contributions did his personality make? Listen For 5:57 Josh's early interest in sports and his focus on schooling 11:30 Josh's detailed recount of the day he suffered his stroke 17:17 Commitment to self improvement and learning Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click Guest: JOSH HUBBARD Email | Website | LinkedIn | Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate's Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Join Shannon and Christine as we chat with expert guest Lyzette Wanzer about Trauma, Tresses and Truth. Library Journal named her book, TRAUMA, TRESSES, & TRUTH: Untangling Our Hair Through Personal Narratives, a Top 10 Best Social Sciences Book. Ep. 140 Join us in community: Women Connected in Wisdom Community Listen to past episodes: https://womenconnectedinwisdompodcast.com/ Glo from head to toe by joining the shealo glo glo club at www.shealoglo.com ! Stillpoint: A Self-Care Playbook for Caregivers Join Christine at an event! Like & Subscribe to get notifications of when we are live: Women Connected in Wisdom Instagram Women Connected in Wisdom on Facebook Connect with Lyzette: https://www.lyzettewanzermfa.com Social media handles: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lyzettewanzer https://twitter.com/INTJs_rock https://www.govdocs.com/states-with-hair-discrimination-laws/ https://www.kelseyblackwell.com/ https://nativenewsonline.net/sovereignty/hospital-cuts-waist-length-hair-of-lakota-elder-family-aim-demand-answers Replay Passes for 2023 TT&T: Conference Interrogating Black Women's Natural Hair
S5E5 - What motivates an INTJ? What does it really mean to be an INxJ personality type? What does it look like to deprioritize sensory information as much as these personality types do? In this episode, we explore these questions and more with Johnson, an INTJ (we also met INFJ Joyce in the last episode) in this series of interviews exploring the intersection of the 16 Types personality system and motivation.Want to work together to find, understand, and apply knowledge of your type?Let's work together »
In this video, I take you on a deep dive into 'Introverted Intuition,' a profound concept that gives INFJs and INTJs their distinctive edge
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Welcome, heroes! It's time to embark on a journey deep into the strategic realm of the INTJ, also known as the Strategizing Mystic.
John Bodine discusses how the INFJ and INTJ can become the best performers of all the types (C.S. Joseph). Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ Learn to overcome your fears and unlock your potential: https://egohackingyourfear.com/ Join our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/CSJosephOffi... Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
This reflection is about domains of belonging and types of shifts when it's time to grow. Supporting themes: Solo- poly; Sex; Work; Family; Culture; Politics; Geography; Social conflict; Schooling: African-Americans; and MAGA-Republicans. Typology: Introverted intuition; INTJs and INFJs; Fi and Se; Type 8s. Note 1: This reflection was influenced in part by an article published by the National Library of Medicine (go to my Twitter account to access the link: YourNiDom1). Note 2: This episode marks the official start of Season 7.
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyte monthly member question regarding Te parent improvement for ISTJs (works for INTJs too!) Presented by Chris Taylor, aka Raka. Learn to overcome your fears and unlock your potential: https://egohackingyourfear.com/ Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph responds to the Acolyte monthly member question what are some tips for INTJs doing cold calling sales? Learn to overcome your fears and unlock your potential: https://egohackingyourfear.com/ Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
INTJs discuss their relationship with music. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out AsuraPsych @AsuraPsych !☆ https://www.youtube.com/@UCGtKKz_pY7_fUrexVE56sxA ☆Check out Angelina Bennet! ☆ https://amzn.to/3RPOaIg ☆Check out Solomon @solomonsurmounter__ ! ☆ https://youtu.be/NpbyhbLMGVY #INTJ #16types #mbti #emotions #jungianpsychology #jungian #cognitivefunctions #cognitivefunction
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyte member question how can an INTJ female Egohack their INTJ stepmother for a better relationship? Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
Hey there! We're here to talk about the incredible INTJs and their awe-inspiring cognitive abilities! If you're lucky enough to have an INTJ in your life, you'll definitely know they have an amazing knack for spotting patterns and connections, making them absolute rockstars at setting ambitious goals and envisioning multiple paths to success. However, their analytical thinking combined with their super high standards for themselves can trip them up, resulting in a pressure-cooker environment and allowing the Imposter Syndrome to rear its ugly head. You see, INTJs believe that anything less than perfection equals failure (you agree it is an impossible standard to meet, right?). When they inevitably fall short of this standard, they can feel like they are not living up to their own expectations and start doubting their abilities – while others, in the meantime, are inspired by the INTJ's achievements… In today's episode, we'll delve into three key reasons why INTJs are plagued with the Imposter Syndrome – their impatience, the tendency to compare themselves to others and their discomfort with being human (those pesky human emotions!). We will also explore how it can lead to missed opportunities, fear of taking risks, and isolation. Join us for an insightful episode on overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an INTJ, filled with valuable advice to help you thrive both personally and professionally. If you want to know more about the Imposter Syndrome, check out our book: https://amzn.to/40P0GvX Sign up for our newsletters to stay in the loop: https://bit.ly/dismantlingdysfunction IN THIS EPISODE: ● [01:49] Episode Introduction ● [04:33] Why Does the INTJ Experience Imposter Syndrome? ● [10:24] Impact of Imposter Syndrome on INTJs ● [34:57] Episode Gem ● [37:13] Episode Wrap Up KEY TAKEAWAYS: · INTJs have an innate tendency to measure their own worth and progress by comparing themselves to others, particularly those they regard as more accomplished or skillful and coming up short. This comparative analysis contributes to the Imposter Syndrome as they feel they're not living up to the standards set by their peers. The looming shadow of perceived underperformance can weigh heavily on their minds. · INTJs create paranoid stories about what people think about them and their ideas. Sharing themselves can cause them to feel so vulnerable that they are triggered into overanalyzing their interactions and looking for evidence that others believe they are weak or incompetent. They create scenarios in their minds where others judge them harshly, question their competence, or make fun of them behind their back. · INTJs may have difficulty forming deep emotional bonds, showing vulnerability, or expressing their feelings. This emotional distance can make it challenging for them to seek help or support when faced with Imposter Syndrome. As a result, they may experience feelings of isolation and self-doubt, which can further reinforce their belief that they are undeserving of their achievements. Join us throughout our series on how the Imposter Syndrome shows up in the 16 MBTI types (or 8 Striving Styles). If you are not sure what your Striving Styles are, make sure to visit www.whoareyoumeanttobe.com to complete the assessment today! Remember, if you need help dealing with dysfunctions at work or in your personal life, reach out to us.
This chain quest looks into the neurology that comes about related to the cognitive functions. This video 6/8 is on Introverted iNtuition dominants, INTJ and INFJ.iNtuition is a perceiving function. Perceiving functions are the 4 ways we learn and take in information to understand the world. iNtuition does it abstractly. What I mean by that is that it isn't focused on the specific sensory details, but that it looks for patterns and ideas to connect in order to see the larger, holistic picture. Extroverted iNtuition goes outward and is broad, Introverted iNtuition goes inward and is narrow. Narrow doesn't mean that it's detailed and specific, but rather that it's focused. So instead of finding as many potential connections as possible, it looks for the most probable single connection. If you have a shotgun blast, the spread outward from the tip of the gun is like how Ne works. Going backwards from the bullets to the source is more like how Ni works.It's also condensing - cutting the strings of many false-possibilities and refining an event or concept into one interpretation. Introverted iNtuitives are often really good at looking from different perspectives to understand the situation. The neurology of INTJs and INFJs helps them sift through different viewpoints until landing on the "correct" one - the one that will come true.In RPG terms, Introverted iNtution is like a slow and calculated, bow and arrow wielding hunter. I call them "sentinels.” Gunslingers, Extroverted iNtuitives, chase many new challenges and opportunities, but sentinels slowly track one beast. They look to connect with their target and understand where it came from and where it's going with a meta-perspective. So they're very good at finding the deeper underlying meaning of behind interactions. They'll imagine how things will be effected in the longer term. I like to think of it as if gunslingers and sentinels were to draw and explore a map. Gunslingers would want to mark it up with possibilities and “what-ifs.” They'd also try to clear as much of the dark fog of war as possible. Sentinels would draw a timeless map that shows how the lands have changed and where habitant populations are likely to move in the future. The fog of war is semi-revealed as they have a very good idea of what's there, despite not actually having cleared it. It's like they'd see the map and note a high probability of a mountain being here, a river being there, and a town being between them.Main brain regions used:Fp2 – “Process Manager” / "Vigilant Taskmaster"01 - "Visual Engineer"02 - "Abstract Impressionist"T3 - “Precise Speaker"T6 - "Purposeful Futurist"F7 - “Imaginative Mimic” or “Quick Analogizer"F8 - “Grounded Believer"If this interests you, go to www.darionardi.com and buy Dario Nardi's book(s). Neuroscience of Personality: Brain Savvy Insights For All Types of People by Dario NardiOriginal video ***Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ***Socials, courses, and 1-on-1 coaching services: geekpsychology.com INFP only community and safe place and INFP MasterclassGeeky Myers Briggs Personality Type MerchSupport on PatreonSupport the showBuy my book: Personal Transformation Journaling: End the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Create Lasting Positive Change Through Writing, Reflection and the Parts Work
Panelists talk about the advice they would give to other INTJs. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me (Original price: $152, you save $55). Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $67 per hour. :) If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out AsuraPsych!☆ https://www.youtube.com/@AsuraPsych ☆Check out Angelina Bennet! ☆ https://amzn.to/3RPOaIg ☆Check out Karen Keefer! ☆ Association of Psychological Type: https://www.aptinternational.org/ #INTJ #16types #mbti #jungianpsychology #jungian #cognitivefunctions #cognitivefunction
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyte question how can an INTJ survive with Muslim constraints being triple pragmatic. Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/csjoseph/support
INTJs discuss their relationship with their emotions. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me (Original price: $152, you save $55). Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $67 per hour. :) If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out AsuraPsych!☆ https://www.youtube.com/@UCGtKKz_pY7_fUrexVE56sxA ☆Check out Angelina Bennet! ☆ https://amzn.to/3RPOaIg ☆Check out Karen Keefer! ☆ Association of Psychological Type: https://www.aptinternational.org/ #INTJ #16types #mbti #emotions #jungianpsychology #jungian #cognitivefunctions #cognitivefunction
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph responds to the Acolyte question how can INTJs gain EgoHacking mastery? Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/csjoseph/support
You're an INTJ. You're into or involved with an INTJ. And you have questions about how to make it work.If any of those apply to you, then this video is for you! This video is a general overview of how an INTJ will behave in a relationship when they actually care about helping you.INTJs are known for being independent, analytical, and sometimes socially awkward individuals (Irony alert: that last part isn't true). They value efficiency and quality over quantity, so if something takes too much time or energy for its return value, then it's probably not worth doing. When it comes to relationships, this means that INTJs may be hesitant about committing because they don't want to waste their precious time on something that may not yield a beneficial return.If you find an INTJ who shows this sign of love, then appreciate it--even if it isn't how you and your personality type expresses it! It's not always about emotions (whether you're a male or female).Original video: https://youtu.be/zKzb-of1NLE Path of Heroes: Academy is an innovative rapid personal growth course that brings personality type and neuroscience together with real life and in-game RPG missions to help you discover your true character, improve your relationships with others, and develop your potential.Go to http://poha.geekpsychology.com for more.Buy my book: Personal Transformation Journaling: End the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Create Lasting Positive Change Through Writing, Reflection and the Parts Work
What are INTJ and INFP like in terms of processing emotions? How do they grow through personality type? Join this conversation with Chris - AsuraPsych (INTJ) and me, Matt Sherman - Geek Psychology (INFP), as we look into the INTJ personality type explained through the cognitive functions and real-life experiences.INFPs and INTJs both process their emotions by focusing inwards for a time, reflecting on the emotions, and gathering more information about the causes. They contemplate their feelings, absorbing them into themselves.INTJs tend to have a toggle between passive or active way of handling their emotions. Some allow it to pass over them like a storm cloud without interfering with their desire to rationalize things in an unemotional fashion...while others feel so strongly that they grasp onto a strong emotion and then become emotionally drained and need time to replenish themselves.I help geeks, gamers, and creatives to have more confidence and motivation.*****What are you working on right now?*****Support here: www.patreon.com/geekpsychologyAll Social Links: http://bio.geekpsychology.comCourses: http://courses.geekpsychology.comGeeky personal development merch based on MBTI 16 personalities: http://loot.geekpsychology.comwww.geekpsychology.com (Join the community of like-minded geeks and gamers who want to play life better: https://community.geekpsychology.com)www.inowfeelpositive.com (INFP only safe place and community with Discord)*****WANT TO BE COACHED BY ME?*****Ready to take your life or personal development to the next level? Need help with confidence or motivation? Ready to defeat anxiety and regain control over your life?Book your free strategy call with Matt Sherman today.http://schedule.geekpsychology.com*****FOR THE INFP "I Now Feel Positive" Masterclass*****Hey INFPs! Do you feel lost? Do you feel like you don't know yourself? Are you having trouble making friends, dating, finding a job or maintaining relationships? If so, I want to help. I'll teach you about the strengths and weaknesses of the INFP. I've carefully designed a 30-day course to teach techniques to help you use your superpowers to the fullest as well as overcoming struggles like time-management, planning for the future, having more confidence and motivation, and sticking with habits. All of this to help reshape your mind and be more positive!Go to www.inowfeelpositive.com and get the FREE ORIENTATION, JOURNAL outline, and INSTANT ANXIETY RELIEF TECHNIQUE.Disclaimer: These are my opinions. If you have a serious issue, go see a doctor. I'm sharing these because I have a lot of experience and I want to do my best to help where I can and make an impact in the best way that I can.Get your geeky personal growth merch here by joining the Geek Psychology movement. It's a visual reminder to achieve your goals and be the best version of yourself. How will you take your life more legendary today? What steps will you take? What challenges will you face? What impact will you make? Share it to spread geek culture and to challenge others to play life better. https://geekpsychology.creator-spring.com/ ***Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ***Socials, courses, and 1-on-1 coaching services: geekpsychology.com INFP only community and safe place and INFP MasterclassGeeky Myers Briggs Personality Type MerchSupport on Patreon
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ INTJs, Stop Giving up! (and also INFJs, ESFPs, and ESTPs). CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyte question how can INTJs stop running from making decisions. Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/csjoseph/support
Michael talks about the dating life of INTJs.
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Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ No, INTJs should not parent INTJs! CS Joseph Responds to the community. Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/csjoseph/support
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Personality tests can be a great way to gauge potential team members and ensure they are a great fit for your business. Myers Briggs is just one of the personality tests we use here at DoorGrow. Join Jason in this episode as he discusses and describes the Myers Briggs personality test and different personality types in depth. You'll Learn… [01:30] What even is Myers Briggs? [03:28] How to Hire Correctly Based on Personality Fit [05:00] Going in Depth for all 4 Attributes in Myers Briggs Assessments [17:37] The Common Personality Types in Business [32:07] What to do After You Figure Out Your Personality Type Tweetables “Now there's a lot of people that would argue that personality is not always static. Personality is not like always defined and that you can have multiple personalities.” “People have a main sort of way that they show up in the world and that's probably their primary sort of personality type and getting people to operate outside of that, there's some friction, there's some challenge.” “One of the biggest, most important things to look at in hiring is personality fit.” “A lot of times sensors gravitate towards manual labor or doing physical things where they can see physical, tangible, real world results.” Resources DoorGrow and Scale Mastermind DoorGrow Academy DoorGrow on YouTube DoorGrowClub DoorGrowLive TalkRoute Referral Link Transcript [00:00:00] Personality fit dictates whether or not they will naturally be good at this job or whether you're going to have to micromanage them, push them and constantly overcome friction in relation to doing the job, [00:00:11] All right, welcome DoorGrow Hackers to the #DoorGrowShow. If you are a property management entrepreneur that wants to add doors, make a difference, increase revenue, help others, impact lives, and you are interested in growing in business and life. And you are open to doing things a bit differently, then you are a DoorGrow Hacker. DoorGrow Hackers love the opportunities, daily variety, unique challenges, and freedom that property management brings. Many in real estate think you're crazy for doing it. You think they're crazy for not because you realize that property management is the ultimate, high trust gateway to real estate deals, relationships and residual income. [00:00:48] At DoorGrow, we are on a mission to transform property management business owners and their businesses. We want to transform the industry, eliminate the BS, build awareness, change perception, expand the market, and help the best property management entrepreneurs win. I'm your host, property management growth expert Jason Hull, the founder and CEO of DoorGrow. Now let's get into the show. [00:01:11] All right. So today what we're gonna be talking about is a tool that I use to look at personality types. Sometimes some people might view this as just looking at like the equivalent of looking at tea leaves, but we're gonna be talking about Myers Briggs and Myers Briggs assessments. So what is Myers Briggs? So Myers Briggs is a lens through which you can look at certain personality types and in Myers Briggs, there are 16 personality types that exist and a really great website you can go to, to do this testing is 16-- one and then the digit six-- so digits 16 --personalities dot com, so 16personalities.com. So if you go to this website, you can then take their assessment for free or have people on your team or people that you're hiring take this assessment for free. At the end of it, it will ask, "do you want these results emailed to you?" have them say yes, plug in their email address. [00:02:11] They will get the email results. Have them forward those results to you, or copy the link from that email and give that to you, that shows their results. It's important because then you can see the ratio, the percentage amount on each attribute. There's four attributes to understand in Myers, Briggs. 16 personalities added a fifth attribute, so to speak, but there's four main attributes. So I'm going to teach you quickly on this recording how to quickly, rapidly type somebody in Myers Briggs so that you can get clear on how they show up in this world and what they're like. [00:02:49] Now there's a lot of people that would argue that personality is not always static. Personality is not like always defined and that you can have multiple personalities. Todd Herman has a great book on that subject, which is about how he helps celebrity athletes and other celebrities come up with or create alternate egos. And it, I believe the book's called _The Alter Ego Effect_. Really cool book, really cool topic. So I highly recommend you check it out. I got to meet Todd in person, hear him speak in person at one of the masterminds I'm involved in as a student and it was really cool to meet him, ask him questions and get clarity on that, so it's worth checking out. [00:03:28] People have a main sort of way that they show up in the world and that's probably their primary sort of personality type and getting people to operate outside of that, there's some friction, there's some challenge. One of the biggest, most important things to look at in hiring is personality fit. I've spoken about this on some lives and some events before, but really quickly, there are three fits you need when hiring. Personality fit is one of them, culture fit is another, and skill fit. Most people hire based on skill fit alone. Like, 'can they do this job?' Or 'can I teach them to do this job?' But more importantly, is personality fit. Personality fit dictates whether or not they will naturally be good at this job or whether you're going to have to micromanage them, push them and constantly overcome friction in relation to doing the job, right. Somebody's personality, if they're really introverted and shy and don't like talking to people might not be a great salesperson, for example. Somebody in customer service-- if you're putting somebody into customer service, but they're really cold, analytical, and harsh in the way that they do things, they might be terrible at customer service, but maybe they make an awesome operations person. And so we wanna make sure that we're clear on the personality that would be a good fit for a particular role, so that when hiring, we can identify: are these people probably going to be a natural personality fit? The other is cultural fit. Cultural fit, we will not get into on this conversation, but it's the most important of the three fits and that's whether or not you will be able to trust them in the long run, because whether or not they share your values and that sort of thing. [00:05:00] So let's talk about Myers, Briggs, and how it can help you identify personality fit. You may want to type yourself, so let's go through and type you right now. So grab a pen or a paper or just something and write down there are four main attributes. So the first attribute you need to figure out is, are you an extrovert or an introvert? This is usually pretty obvious for most people. You can just ask people or you can just ask yourself if you know this person, "are they an extrovert, an introvert? Am I an extrovert or an introvert?" The main question I like to ask to figure out if somebody's an extrovert or an introvert, is do you get momentum and excitement from being around people? Or do you get momentum and need to recharge? Do you get recharged or more energy by being around people? Or do you need to be away from people in order to feel like yourself and recharge, and where do you like spending most of your time? Right. So some people are ambiverts, I'm an ambivert. In Myers Briggs, I tend to show up as an actual extrovert, but I have a lot of introvert tendencies. [00:06:08] So that's important to figure out like which one are they? Because for example, I'm an ENTP typically is how I show up. INTPs from the INTPs that I've known are quite more dramatically introverted. ENTPs are the most extroverted of all of the E types in Myers Briggs, which is half of the 16 personality types. They are the most introverted of all of the extroverted types, so a lot of times they might show up on a test as an INTP, but INTPs, I find are the most introverted of the introverted types and they are extreme introverts and they can go weeks without human contact, and they're totally fine with that. [00:06:49] A big differentiator there, if you're like me, confused about INTP or ENTP, like I have been in the past: are you charismatic and outgoing? You are probably not an INTP. You're probably not an extreme introvert. You're probably not super introverted if you have charisma and personality. I find INTPs, a lot of times are pretty deadpan, dry, and they're quite brilliant. [00:07:14] Anyway, we won't go into every single type, but I'll throw examples out throughout the process here. So mark whether you're E or an I. I show up more as an E, but a lot of people might categorize me as an I. So I get that extroverted trait by connecting with clients, coaching clients. I like being on the stage as I am right now, so to speak, sharing ideas with others and benefiting other people, extroverted trait. [00:07:39] So the next would be whether you are an intuitive or a sensor. So they categorize that letter instead of a E or an I, that next letter is an N for 'intuitive.' They use the second letter. I know it's confusing, but we've already used I in the first set, so they didn't wanna use it again. So it's an N for intuitive or S for a sensor. So how do we categorize these? So in general, my big question or differentiator that I'll ask between these is, "are you usually focused on high level theory, theoretical, big picture, which means you're more of an intuitive, or are you focused on more grounded, practical, real world, reality and your physical senses?" [00:08:23] So I find sensors are those that like things to be tactile, like they can touch them. They can see real results. A lot of times sensors gravitate towards manual labor or doing physical things where they can see physical, tangible, real world results. A lot of sensors end up in careers or positions where they are doing really grounded, real world work. It could be like policemen, firefighters, plumbers, contractors, stuff like that. A lot of them are more on the sensor category, people that do physical art or do physical things, people that do like tiling floors or people that enjoy building statues or creating things like those a lot of times can be sensors. They're very focused on their physical senses of touch, taste, smell, sight, et cetera. [00:09:17] Whereas intuitives go in-- a lot of times they're focused on theoretical, big pictures, big ideas, and thinking, and I'll point out that. There's no good or bad personality types necessarily. They're all needed. They're all good and useful in different things. So are you an intuitive or sensor? Another thing I look at with intuitive or sensors, I like to ask, what kind of TV shows are you into? Are you into shows that are very focused on grounded, practical things like crime dramas and historical period pieces and stuff like that (sensor) or are you focused more on, do you like the intuitive type of stuff, which could be more sci-fi or more fantasy based or some of these kind of things where you're getting exposed to potential ideas and big picture things. [00:10:04] That might relate to the last attribute a little bit too. So that's could be a red herring, but we'll get to that. The next major attribute would be thinker versus feeler. This is usually pretty obvious for most people, and the way that you wanna look at this, everybody is a feeler to some degree, and everybody is a thinker to some degree. A lot of times, feelers mistakenly think they're thinkers because they over-- they tend to overthink things. They ruminate things. They get stuck on things in their head because they're not really good at logical, analytical thinking. They're feelers. And so they just overthink everything, like "how is this gonna impact everybody else from an emotional standpoint?" so that does not mean you are a thinker. That means you are a feeler. [00:10:46] Thinkers, usually are very quick in their thinking and they approach things logically first. If you approach things from a feeling standpoint first, then you are probably more of a feeler. So if there's a problem and you're looking at this problem, would you use logic and reason first, or would you try and explore things emotionally and make sure people are okay? So another example I will give is if you saw somebody crying on a train that you were on or on a bus you were on or in a public place that you were at, and they were crying, would you naturally think: 'I'm gonna kind of give them their space and let them deal with their stuff,' or do you feel a natural need to immediately reach out and connect and maybe even touch them to communicate? Like, "are you okay? And can I help you with anything?" Thinker versus feeler, right? So, what is your go-to? [00:11:39] Me? I'm more of a thinker. I'm sure many of you could guess, more on the analytical logical side. I approach things through logic first. One other thing you can look at is a lot of times thinkers when they are not really good at processing emotion or experiencing emotion and don't want to feel negative emotion and so they've gotten really good, as a strategy of leveraging their logic and reason to avoid uncomfortable feelings in the future. So when they experience something uncomfortable or painful emotionally, their go to is to think, "how can I avoid feeling this ever again in the future, and how do I solve this as quick as possible?" And "how do I stop feeling this as soon as possible?" Whereas feelers know that the most effective strategy is to feel that fully, feel through it because the only thing you logically can do with a feeling is to feel it, and once you've fully felt it, it no longer controls you. [00:12:33] You can avoid a feeling indefinitely and it can constantly be affecting you for years and years to come. It can be a challenge for thinkers. Whereas if you fully feel through something, you cannot feel a feeling forever. You can't feel something forever you'll eventually just kind of get numb to it or get comfortable with it, get used to it, or have kind of processed it and worked through it, and then you can approach it logically and say, "all right, how can I view this in a healthy way? What good came from this? What could I get from that?" And go through maybe a positive focus exercise, so to speak. "Why is this positive?" Right. So thinker versus feeler. So which one are you? Do you approach things through logic and reason first, or do you approach things through feelings first? [00:13:17] Neither of these are right or wrong. We need both. I like to bring feelers in for things where it's customer service or it's relating to clients or it's community managers or client success managers or roles where we need somebody to love on our clients and make them feel good. Thinkers: operators, logical roles, things like that. So we want thinkers. [00:13:37] So moving beyond that. We get into the last of the four attributes, which is perceiving versus judging. So this is how you approach the observable world and how you approach learning and how you approach the world around you in your thinking and decision making, perceiving versus judging. [00:13:57] So a lot of people get really judgemental about the word judging and they're like, "I'm not judging. I'm not judgemental." That's not what that means. And perceiving a lot of people think, "well, I wanna be perceiving." So let me explain this, and then it'll be very clear to you, which one you are. So people that are Ps, that are perceiving, I find to be very creative. They like to pull in lots of ideas from lots of sources. They're very open minded, but they're a bit chaotic and they tend to thrive effectively in chaotic environments, but they live a lot of times. In chaos, they have a messy desk as do I right now. It's a bit messy. You can see my bookshelf is a bit crazy, right? [00:14:36] So these are, perceivers, they're really good at pulling in lots of ideas, and this is the advantage I have for my clients is I can pull in lots of ideas and create new ideas out of those ideas. And that's where the brilliance and genius comes out in these Ps and how I'm able to benefit clients and help them see things they couldn't see on their own or didn't see otherwise. And that's how we come up with new ideas in really ingenious acquisition strategies and growth strategies and things that are very counterintuitive to what they've been taught sometimes. And this is because Ps can see around the corner. They can see the bigger picture. They can see ideas that Js just cannot see. The problem with Ps though is sometimes they're a little too openminded, so open-minded they get diluted and distracted by too many different ideas. Sometimes Ps are very disorganized. They need support from their team members, from people that are Js. So my assistant is a J. [00:15:29] They handle my schedule. They handle calendars. They like that kind of stuff. They like checklists and spreadsheets. Js, judging have a box. They have a lens through which they view the world. Anything outside of that box-- when people say, "live outside the box," they're talking to Js. These are Ps talking to Js. [00:15:47] Js say, "this box keeps me safe. This box keeps the world moving forward. Everything outside of that, like woo woo stuff and maybe even Myers Briggs and aliens and conspiracy theories and all this stuff is complete bullshit, is BS, and is a waste of my time. So anything outside of my current worldview is a waste of my time and is not effective. Unless you can convince me logically otherwise, I'm not gonna waste time exploring all of this other stuff and looking at all this other stuff. This is what is necessary and needed." Right. And so Js are those that tend to move businesses forward as operators, as people that get stuff done. They are really good at calendars, spreadsheets, meticulous details, stuff like that because they will make a quick judgment and throw out anything that does not fit. [00:16:42] Whereas Ps put everything on the shelf, look at the big picture and come up with some new ideas in putting these different Lego pieces together. And they build really cool shit, right? They build really cool stuff. So Js though are really brilliant at cutting out the fluff, the crap, getting to the point, and moving things forward. That judging box protects the business and protects people and creates really good boundaries and moves things forward. So we need both. So are you perceiving or are you judging? [00:17:15] Usually if you need an operations person, you need a really good assistant. I do not recommend that they're a P typically. Some of you may, as entrepreneurs may be a P or perceiving, but if you are a J you will tend to want an assistant that is also a J, and if you are a P you'll tend to need an assistant that is a J, right? [00:17:37] So let's talk about some different personality types. Gosh, I don't have all 16 listed in front of me, but let's talk about some different types, right. ENTPs like myself are often called the debater personality type. They're not really well liked a lot of times because they enjoy the friction and the conflict of debate. I love being wrong and I love being right. Like either one is fine for me because either way I win and I learn and that open-mindedness and being a thinker and having that extroverted intuition, which is the EN allows me to do really creative stuff. And I'm generally naturally good at most things that I apply to. [00:18:17] I don't though, like to finish things. I love to start ideas, come up with creative ideas, and I have an entire mechanism and machine and team that I've creatively built around me that support me in getting stuff done. So having operators, having fulfillment team members, having client success managers, having sales and marketing manager, like I have a whole executive team and then I have layers underneath some of them. Now what are some good roles for, let's say operations, right? So operations. So Sarah, who is the operator on my team and also my fiance and is beautiful and who I love. She is an INTJ and generally is how she shows up on most tests. She is very introverted a lot of times. She can turn on the charm when she needs to, but she likes having a lot of space and a lot of time to herself, introverted intuition. [00:19:08] So a lot of really intuitive aspects to her. She just seems to know things, her unconscious figures things out that she doesn't even consciously know. Sometimes she's like, "I feel like we're losing money somewhere here and I don't see it yet, but I just know something's off, and she's always right. Like almost always right. INTJs love being right. They're almost always right, but they are a little rigid because of that J, so they can't see creatively around certain ideas. And so the debator ENTPs sometimes are really good at helping expose them to some new ideas and beating them in the debate situation. But they're great debaters and they love being right and they hate being wrong. [00:19:47] And they're sometimes very Spock-like Star Trek reference, but they can become so logical and sometimes so cold that emotionally, they will hurt people around them and hurt people from a feeling standpoint because they are thinkers. They are logical, analytical, intuitive thinkers, and they are Js. I find INTJs also really tend to always love animals sometimes, like pretty often, more than people. People drive them crazy because people are unreliable. People make like bad decisions and dumb decisions. They don't just do what they're supposed to do. INTJs are brilliant strategists. They make great operators. [00:20:26] Other roles, we've got the ENTJ, they're kind of the entrepreneur type. They sort of have the benefits of both of these personality types, and they're usually viewed as the entrepreneur, very enterprising. They're good at scaling things. They can sell very well. They're logical thinkers, intuitive, extroverted, and they're Js, so they make really great business owners, entrepreneurs, sales people, and they can grow and scale things effectively. They're not usually as good with sometimes IP, like intellectual property or coming up with new ideas or creating new ideas, but they're great at taking good ideas and scaling and building these things out in a lot of situations, but they may also have really good ideas. So it just depends. Because of their drive and their tenacity and their ability to figure things out, a lot of times, they are pretty creative and they can gather really good ideas and put things together. But the J usually limits their creativity in that area, but they can recognize a good idea when they see one, right? So ENTJs can be very effective entrepreneurs. [00:21:25] Other types of entrepreneurs that I'll see besides ENTP and ENTJ is I'll see ENFP. ENFPs are very interesting type of personality types. They are also quite introverted on the extroverted scale of the E types, but they love people. They like to analyze people. They like to figure people out. ENFPs are viewed almost as childlike or flirtatious by people when they're just trying to be friendly. And they're very friendly, but they come across very flirty with a lot of people. People always perceive them as flirts. They're great with other people. They love figuring out personality types. They love this kind of stuff. I learned this initially from, and was exposed to Myers Briggs by an ENFP, and they knew all the different types and they understood people. ENFPs love freedom and creativity. [00:22:14] They don't have that J. They're feelers that are perceiving. They have F and P and they're intuitives and they're extroverted, so they do not wanna be corralled. They're not great in nine to five job situations, sitting behind a desk and a cubicle. They need to be out. They need to be creativity. They need different environments. So ENFPs, a lot of bartenders are ENFP. It's because they get to connect with a lot of people. It's always different. They can set weird schedules and different schedules. A lot of actors and actresses might be sometimes ENFPs. You get a lot of flight attendants that might be ENFPs. You get a lot of hairdressers, lots of connecting with people, or beauty salons or things like this, and there's also a lot of real estate agents. I believe ENFPs are just love and sunshine. My mother is an ENFP, I believe, and she was a real estate agent, and people just love her. She's like everybody's mom and connects with everybody and she understands people and she's really sharp. [00:23:07] ENFPs are also really, really, almost religious. They have a deep spiritual sort of belief set internally. Whether they're part of a religion or not, they have really deep beliefs and they're really big advocates for that belief system. And so they like to almost campaign or push that belief out into the marketplace or into the world because they have deeply held beliefs. They're viewed very childlike on the surface and a lot of people don't realize this, but they are really deep, one of the deepest types. Even though they come across like loving, they love rainbows and unicorns and sunshine. A lot of 'em will dye their hair an interesting color and they love to connect with people. And so those are ENFPs. So, one of my daughters is ENFP. [00:23:54] Another really interesting type is the. Counselor type and they're the INFJ. They're an interesting hybrid between the introvert and extroverted types, in between thinkers and feelers, they have a J but they're a feeler they're intuitive intuition. So INFJs often end up being counselors. They are calming presences in an organization. They tend to be therapists, counselors. INFJs are very-- they can be also very adaptable, but INFJs tend to ruminate a lot because they're feelers. They overthink everyth. And they think about a lot of things. A lot of people talk about the INFJ "door slam." INFJs once they decide they don't like a person or they cut somebody off, they do a door slam and they will cut that person off for life a lot of times. So INFJs also, I find, tend to attract narcissists or believe everybody out there is a narcissist. [00:24:50] So INFJs because they have such a sensitive, intuitive feeling nature but they're also judging and they can be very, very judgemental. INFJs tend to be one of the most judgemental types towards other types. And they have a lot of judgements towards other types, but they also use that intuition to kind of feel out people and they're very feeling oriented. They're idealists in some ways. And they don't like when the world doesn't look a certain way and they're very intuitive feeling oriented. So INFJs can make really great counselors, therapists, you know, and social workers, stuff like this, where they're interacting with people on a one-on-one intimate, deep basis. [00:25:31] And those are INFJs. And so a lot of times they'll attract people that are narcissists, or they will view others as a narcissist because they are sometimes self depreciating or allow their needs to kind of be subservient to others. In some instances, until they really become healthier and learn effective boundary setting. In INFJ groups on Facebook and whatever, they complain about a lot of different people about being narcissists. I don't believe that everybody out there that they think is a narcissist is a narcissist or is self-absorbed or selfish. I think that they just aren't really good at attracting good people and setting healthy boundaries. And then they view all these people as the bad guy. So a typical scenario in less healthy INFJs or less evolved or less mature. [00:26:17] Let's see. What are other types? So the entertainer personality type is ESFP. They're very, openminded, very feeler oriented, very touch and sense oriented and extroverted. ESFPs. They're a lot of fun, sometimes a little bit too much fun. They're the ones that'll be dancing on the tabletop. They need to be the center of attention at all times, if there is a group and it's heightened and people are extrovert in getting attention, they will find a way to get more attention and get more extreme. So they will dance on the tabletop. They will like get everybody to pay attention to them. They will do things. They will be in charge of like getting the most attention sometimes, these ESFPs. They're the entertainer personality type. I sometimes joke that they are the NSFW types, not safe for work. In fact, I saw meme once it had all these hats, 16 hats with all the different types and one hat was missing and the person was putting on, it said not safe for work. The one that was missing was the ESFP, which I thought was funny. So they can be kind of a little bit, you know, extreme and so ESFJs, which I mentioned before, ESFJs are a bit more on the judging side. They're very practical because they're sensors. [00:27:31] They're also feelers, but they're judging. And so ESFJs and ISFJs are very feeler oriented. ISFJs are more on the introverted side. So ISFJs are very supportive people. They do not want to be in the foreground. ISFJs are the people that want to at the party not be involved at the party. They're not gonna be on the tabletop. ISFJs are those that love being in a supportive role. Putting them into a leadership role is usually a very bad idea. It's very uncomfortable for them. They often are nurses. They often are caretakers. They often are great internal office staff. They have amazing, amazing memories. ISFJs have amazing memories. So do INTJs, but ISFJs have really great memories. They remember numbers, they remember details because they're watching everything and they want to make sure everybody's taken care of, everybody's happy. [00:28:25] ISFJs often care more about other people than they do about themselves, and they expect everybody else to reciprocate and nobody ever will reciprocate at the level that they care and give to others, so they often feel sad or down that nobody cares for them the way that they wanna be cared for and the way they care for everybody else. That expectation that people will reciprocate is never at the level that they care. They're baking cakes for people. They're doing things for people. They're serving other people. Those are ISFJs, and they are great people to have as a support mechanism and a background support staff in a business. [00:29:04] ESFJs are a little bit more like them, but they're a little bit more extroverted. They have better boundaries. They're more willing to be in the foreground a bit, and they also can be really good, taking care of people, but they're sensors so they're focused on the practical things. [00:29:18] And then we've got ENFJs, which are similar. ENFJs are very extroverted intuition. They're great at being leaders of the community. They're really good at knowing who in the group is having a good time, who is not. I generally look for maybe like an ENFJ or ESFJ or somebody like that that's really organized to be a client success manager to take care of and love on our clients and make sure everybody's being dealt with because that extroverted intuition, they're able to perceive intuitively how everybody is receiving things, how they're doing. And they're feelers, so they care primarily about making sure everybody is having a good experience or feeling good about things and they're detail oriented because of that J and they make sure things get done. [00:30:01] So I think I've covered several different types. What else could I cover? INFP. INFPs are interesting. These are some of the most woo woo of all the types. The most open-minded they're introverted, intuitive feelers that are perceiving. These are people that usually find they wear flowy clothing and they're very woo woo, and they're into all sorts of different ideas that are really sometimes out there, and they are not great at practical real world reality. That's a difficult thing for them. And so you'll find that a lot of people in spiritual, new agey things, a lot of them might be INFPs. [00:30:41] I would not choose an INFP in my business to do anything that was like, think deadlines and timelines and getting things done efficiently, but they would be very good at like being very spiritual and intuitive and supporting clients through a process and, you know, stuff like that. INFPs are feelers. They have introverted intuition. So they are really focused on intuitively on themself a lot, and they go deep within and their processes. And then they perceive and pull everything in from the universe. And they're just so open minded, sometimes me being a bit more, you know, on the thinker side, feel like they're so open minded, maybe their brains have fallen out. Right. But INFPs have their place and they also can be really, really useful. [00:31:26] So a little different than the INFJ, which I talked about before, which is a counselor type, which are a bit more on the judging side and making sure things get done, which balances out all that intuition and intuitive internal stuff and introverted stuff and all that feeling. So INFPs, everything's based on a feeling. It's " I feel this way because intuitively I feel like this is a good idea or emotionally, I feel like this is a good idea." So they're very feeling based, so it's very difficult for somebody like an INTJ or somebody like an ENTJ to deal with those people sometimes, because they're just too open-minded, or S types sometimes might find them difficult. [00:32:01] So those are several different types. I can't think of any other of the 16 types that I might have missed, but one quick hack for anyone, once you get your Myers Briggs type or you get your team members' Myers Briggs type, I recommend that you don't listen to what I just said. You go and do a YouTube search on YouTube for that type. Put 'ENTP' or 'ISFJ' or 'ESFP' or 'INFP.' Put the four letters and then put 'in,' (I-N) 'in' and then 'minutes.' Write the word minutes on YouTube and you'll get these great cartoon explainer videos that some organizations have put out, which they'll show like ENTP in four minutes, or INTJ in five minutes or something. And these really describes for four to five minutes, that personality type in detail and even showing visual examples. And it really makes it clear. You can watch that and go, 'is that really me?' So if you do the 16 personalities test and you see any attributes that are close to 50%, it's like 53%, 54%. It might be a mistype. So you can go check out ENTP and ENFP in minutes and watch these videos and see: "which one really speaks to me?" [00:33:10] Because any one attribute creates a completely different personality type and a different way of approaching the world. Even if it's very similar to the other type, they have a very different. Cognitive stack and order in which they process information and do things, right? Whether they're extroverted or introverted or whether they're sensor or intuitive, or whether they're a thinker or feeler, they have a different stack in order of what those priorities are as how they approach the world. [00:33:34] So watch those videos and that will help you. Also, you can use those videos to get clarity on your team member and why you may have had frustrations or difficulties or challenges once you're aware of your type and aware of their type, you'll be able to better assess how can I better relate to them or communicate with them, or why are they the best fit, personality fit for this role? And if you watch that video and you're like, "I do not want this person as my operator," they shouldn't be your operator. Or, "I want this person as my client success manager," they could be your client success manager, and so that will help you assess whether they are the right personality fit for the role that you have them in. [00:34:11] So I recommend you assess yourself and assess all your team. And I hope this was a really helpful deep dive into Myers Briggs. And as with anything, figure out their personality type, reflect it back to them, ask them questions to see: "is this really you? This is what this kind of says about you," and see what feedback they give you. Because really when you wanna get to know a team member or a person it's really about getting to know _them_. So just use this as a lens and as a tool for feedback and throw those things out at them, those noodles at the wall, and see which ones stick. So that you get a clear picture and they mirror back to you or reflect back to you, "yes, that's true," or "no, that's not really accurate for me. I think I'm more this way," and this will give you a much clearer picture of their personality and whether or not they're a good fit for the role or position. So I hope this is helpful for everybody until next time, to our mutual growth. Bye everyone. [00:35:03] You just listened to the #DoorGrowShow. We are building a community of the savviest property management entrepreneurs on the planet in the DoorGrowClub. Join your fellow DoorGrow Hackers at doorgrowclub.com. Listen, everyone is doing the same stuff. 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Today, I welcome fellow type-enthusiast and esteemed author, Joe Arrigo (aka "Ghost of Jung" on YouTube), to discuss the burden that is being an INTJ. Why do INTJs focus so much on the future, rather than the present moment? Do INTJs find it hard to touch base with their feelings? What do INTJs value in relationships? Dating advice, conflict management, and, of course, the million dollar question, “are you evil”? Joe also shares with us a bit about his writing process in crafting his type manifesto, “Marble and Sculptor”. Buy “Marble and Sculptor” today on Etsy (PDF and Signed Copy): https://www.etsy.com/shop/GhostofJung?ref=seller-platform-mcnav Amazon (Kindle and paperback): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B42PTVZL Joe's YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/c/GhostofJung Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-arrigo Bangin' track created by Restless Mosaic.
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INTJs discuss their testimony, relationship with the church, and how INTJs approach Christianity and being Christian differently than the other 16 types.
Those with the INTJ personality type discuss career tips and advice for INTJs.
I ask INTJs on YouTube about their experience as Youtubers and about their cognitive functions (Ni, Te, Fi, Se).
In this episode Joel and Antonia answer an INTP listener's question about using the cognitive functions common to INTJs and other types. https://personalityhacker.com
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INTJs and INFPs describe their relationship dynamic.
Make no mistake about it, life for some of us at the moment is way too much to deal with and things are at risk of breaking down. This episode takes a closer look at Damo and Mark's personality types - when INTJs meet INFPs - and how being overwhelmed can challenge the most solid of friendships, perspectives and wise minds. ** Oh, and don't forget your bonus feature where Mark takes you into a murky world of corruption, cover-ups and proud cocks in the spectacular "A Vial Tale". ** ----- ** YOUR HOSTS ** Damo & Mark --- ** HOW TO LISTEN** Our Podcast is brilliantly hosted on Anchor. You can also listen and/or subscribe to us on the following platforms: Apple Podcasts / Google Podcasts / Pocket Casts / Spotify --- ** GET IN TOUCH ** Thanks for listening! Please drop us a line at imfinecast@gmail.com with any feedback or questions. You can follow us on social media: Instagram / Twitter / Facebook --- ** SHOW NOTES ** This is where we like to keep all the references and links to what we've talked about in this episode. --- Bulk Data --- Take The Jung Typology Test™ --- When an INTJ met an INFP --- Is Information Overload Hurting Mental Health?- --- A Brief Lesson On Locus Of Control from Slow Growth On Instagram --- ** INVESTING IN BRISTOL ** As a podcast, we are proud to support the Soil Association and The Bristol Cable. --- ** MUSIC ** I'm Fine Theme Music and Stings by the Monkey Fighters Check them out on Spotify or follow them on social media: Instagram / Twitter / Facebook --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/imfinecast/message
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In this episode, I am joined again with my INTJ sister-in-law. However, this time we are also joined with Katrina and Austin who so happen to be both ENFJs. We talk through different scenarios and how each of us would react in that moment. You can tell from the first scenario how both personalities can be complete opposites. Let us know on social media how you felt about the episode and if you relate. https://www.16personalities.com/ Katrina's YT Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/katrinalim28Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetalkativeintrovertpodcast/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetalkativeintrovert YouTube: https://bit.ly/3ebhDaVWebsite: https://thetalkativeintrovertpodcast.com/Email: thetalkativeintrovertpodcast@gmail.comTheme song: The Talkative Introvert Intro by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo https://soundcloud.com/mikieika
INTJs compare and contrast their type with Ti dominants (INTPs & ISTPs).
I am joined again with my INTJ sister-in-law, Leah. We scour the internet for a list of INTJ misconceptions and share the ones that really speak out to us. The first half of the episode, we break down these misconceptions and explain why they’re inaccurate. Then the second half really is just two INTJs ranting about random stuff. Enjoy!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetalkativeintrovertpodcast/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetalkativeintrovert YouTube: https://bit.ly/3ebhDaVWebsite: https://thetalkativeintrovertpodcast.com/Email: thetalkativeintrovertpodcast@gmail.comTheme song: The Talkative Introvert Intro by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo https://soundcloud.com/mikieika
7 female INTJs discuss their experiences as the type.
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ENFPs react to INTJs thoughts on ENFPs. We have a discussion on the two types and their dynamics together.
We compare and contrast the 5w4 INTJs with 5w4 ENFPs.
5 INTJs discuss fictional INTJs they relate to, their pet peeves, how they feel receiving compliments and more! (Questions start 3:00 in!)
2 INTJs discuss what it's like to have Fi.
Lauren (INTJ), Michael (INTJ) and I discuss and contrast our types. We also talk about why INTJs sometimes mistype as INFJ, especially if they are female!
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Why would an introverted electrical engineer leave her successful and lucrative career in high tech to join the team at a small nonprofit, and how did she go from being part of the team to running the entire organization? Since March is Multiple Sclerosis Awareness month, I thought it would be a neat idea to interview Sara Loud, the CEO of Accelerated Cure Project. Not only will we hear about Sara’s surprising career change, we’ll also learn how an innovative approach to sharing research results is speeding up efforts towards finding a cure for M.S. OH, and one last thing. Sara and I are both introverts--INTJs on Meyers Briggs. It’s so rare to have two INTJ women in the same space at the same time, we had to talk a little about what it’s like to be an introverted leader and the challenges... Read more on the YNL website...
Support us on Patreon at http://www.patreon.com/dopeamine INTPs and INTJs can often be mistaken for one another when someone is trying to figure out their type. I think one of the reasons for that is because these two types can sometimes admire and want to be like the other. There are certain strengths that each have that the other would certainly like to utilize from time to time. This video talks about some of those functions and behaviors that each type admires about each other. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cosmiccalibration/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cosmiccalibration/support
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Us ENFPs have a good connection with INTJs, which may be surprising to a lot of people. When it comes to the 16 personalities and the level of knowledge one has in personality psychology, while reading and watching videos may be really helpful, I've found that the best place to look is personal connections. I've spent a good amount of quality time with Rowan, my Little INTJ Brother from The Big Brothers Program. His life experience reveals some of the awesome INTJ superpowers. If you've missed my interview with Rowan, it's just recently released, search for "Living On a Boat: A Surprising INTJ Interview". Don’t miss future episodes of this podcast, subscribe here: iTunes | Google Play Music | Stitcher | TuneIn | RSS/XML If you want to follow my travels or catch some shorter videos and updates I share, you can find me on Facebook (DreamsAroundTheWorldHQ) | and as TheDanJohnston on Instagram and Twitter | I publish new videos weekly on YouTube as well. If you enjoy the podcast and would like to submit your own question for a future episode, you can do so here: www.DreamsAroundTheWorld.com/ask-dan/ And if you haven't already, be sure to check out my free training on turning your personality type into an incredible life, The Life Design Approach. Get it here: www.DreamsAroundTheWorld.com/freetraining/
Do INTJS really get sad? Is that possible?
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Call it weird or strange, but these three things are quite interesting!
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What's are the main differences between INFJs and INTJs? How can you tell the two apart to figure out which one you are and/or understand what makes each type unique? Tune in to this episode to find out! INFJ Personality GuideTo grab a free copy of my book, The INFJ Personality Guide. (Click here.)FREE INFJ Writer CourseWant to learn how to make money as an INFJ writer? Sign up for the free INFJ Writer course.
What a weird phrase. “I'm in my element.” It just popped into my head the other day (coincidentally, I was weeding) and before long I was writing this podcast in my head. What does it mean to be in your element? According to Cambridge dictionary, the expression means: “to be happy because you are doing what you like or can do best.” Sounds good to me. I couldn't find much on the origin of the phrase, so I decided to come up with my own, somewhat educated, theory. I guess the element it points to comes from the traditional, elements or substances that were thought to comprise all matter in the universe. They're likely familiar to you: earth, air, fire and water. I know I know - us westerners miss out the fifth element, aether, and unlike the Taoists, we don't consider wood and metal to be their own elements. Oh and seeing as we'll be talking firmly in metaphors today, I won't be mentioning the ACTUAL elements, definied by the periodic table. Not today. Since I'm a westerner, and not a scientist, we're going with Earth, Air, Fire and Water. Now, what I like about talking in terms of these four elements is that it doesn't take much for us to quickly agree on a pretty much universal language. I think we can all agree that fire is hot. Water is wet. Air is light. Earth is dense. And from these concepts we can really say a LOT about something - or, more interestingly, someONE. To prove this, let's do a quick quiz. I'm a redhead, I blush easily, I'm quick to anger, quick off the mark and full of fiery passion. Can you guess the element I what I identify with most? If you guessed fire, you'd be correct! We're speaking the same metaphorical language. And then there's my friend. She has deep blue eyes, cries at every romantic movie, goes with the flow and makes decisions with her heart, not her head. Any guesses? I reckon my friend is all about the WATER element. OK, these symbols are not set in stone (ha - another metaphorical phrase based on our understanding of elements) they are fluid, like… water! But for the most part, they're a great shorthand for us to communicate with ourselves and others about a vast range of complex feelings, sensations, perspectives and approaches to life. This is also the reason I love personality type tests and astrology, but let's stick to the elements for today. You might at this point still be wondering why I'm going on about these arguably archaic concepts, but all will become clear soon. So going back to me digging in the dirt, weeding out pesky greens, and generally having a lovely time on a work-away type holiday, and it occurred to me that I had surrounded myself with something that was missing in my life. Earth. And yes, I realise the literal meaning but that was just a signpost pointing to the underlying epiphany I was having. I was, until this trip, lacking the EARTH element in my life. I have an abundance of fire. No one is telling me I could use a bit more drive or to be less patient. If anything, I could probably do with tempering my fire. And I actually have tempered it, come to think of it, as I look back to my past few years in Brighton. That is one watery - possibly airy too - city. I was literally by the sea. And I was surrounded by incredibly artistic, easy going people who were certainly in touch with their emotional side. I realised my Feeling function, which I associate most with Water, was underdeveloped. Interestingly, Fire isn't the element that is least in touch with it's emotions, it's really Air that commands the mind and left-brained decision making. But the emotions that Fire commands, mostly rage, passion and obsession, are ones I have let historically get the better of me. A healthy balance of Fire and Water means tempering those heated emotions, without extinguishing them. It's looking at them, holding them, sticking with them until they sizzle out. I did pay attention to this, and started to use more language that spoke to my feeling side. Instead of saying ‘I think this' I would say ‘I feel this.' In my journal, I'd write more about how I felt that day, rather than what was happening. If I felt pissed off, I'd sit with it. I would try not to stuff it down, only to let it surge back up later with a vengeance. I'd say I've done pretty well, and my biggest relationship triggers for ragey Cat *cough*family* have improved dramatically. OK so I've worked with Water to temper the Fire. The second element dominating me, I believe is Air. Like I mentioned, this is the one that speaks to my Thinking function. Oh BOY do I love to overanalyse. If you do to, it could mean that Air has a grip on your mind. I personally associate INTJs most of all with Air because of how logical they tend to be, as well as being big picture thinkers. Interestingly, you could be just as likely to be a genius as an airhead when it comes to having a dominant air element. Lots of air can make you indecisive, inconsistent, full of ‘hot air' and a wee bit selfish. It's like air-dominant folk need their balloon popped, they need to be brought down to earth. Enter: the element of Earth. I was in the rainforest of Peru when I realised I needed to spend less time at my laptop, and more time doing things with my body and with a small community of real live, people. Er - call this a 30 year old crisis if you like, but even months after returning home I felt this urge to be more earthy, more real - it had stuck with me. Here's a fun fact: the element of Air is also associated with… technology! Hah. So naturally, an overabundance of Air became next on my list of elements to balance. Earth is the counter to Air, just as Water is the counter to Fire. Just as I had naturally been drawn to Brighton and embraced my Watery side, I've more recently been led to the Algarve and had the opportunity to develop my Earthy side. So I've been led to a villa in the Algarve where I've spent the past few weeks helping out in the garden in exchange for room and board. It's a pretty awesome way to travel if you have a flexible job and don't want to spend a lot of cash on lame, lonely Airbnbs. I get to meet people AND get my paws in the mud. This was really my idea of an experiment, maybe an extension of last year's YOF. But I didn't realise what my subconscious had been doing until the other day, when this phrase popped into my head: In your element. I have the hardest time identifying with the element of Earth, if I'm honest. Sure, Earth is stable. Grounded. Hard-working. Persistent. Gritty. Nurturing. Loyal. But where's the fun, freedom and flexibility of Air? Where's the intensity of Fire and the depth of Water? Earth is kind of… boring. But you know what I haven't been when I'm up to my wrists in soil, with bugs crawling around in my field of vision, and grass stained leggings? I have NEVER been bored. I have been so very satisfied. That's the only word really. Content, may be. Tired, sure, but it's a physical tiredness. It always recovers by the next day and you know the coolest thing? It doesn't deplete mental energy! Yeah. If anything, using the physical energy seems to - seems to - increase my mental energy. I don't understand any of this myself, I'm just laying down the facts. Or the feels, more like. So how does this ramble about metaphorical elements help you? Well… How about you identify your dominant element? If you've taken a personality type test like Myers Briggs, I'll bet you'll find this super easy. Or if you're into astrology, you're probably well versed in this. It doesn't matter: it's all the same principle because ALL of this is SUBJECTIVE. Yeah. I'm not saying you literally have more fire in you or that being born under the Sun in Pisces literally makes you a watery dreamer. But… If you identify with these traits and associations , these archetypes, then you may find this process very useful. Then you can identify what element you might want to enhance a bit more, and experiment with ways to do that. You can be super abstract, just focussing on the quality of an element you know you want to develop. Let's say you realise you're lacking in Air and decide you want to be better at critical thinking, using your rational mind to see the world clearly, so you read a book about the subject. Or you could be really literal, realising you want more Fire because you're feeling a little cold and apathetic, so you paint a picture with lots of red and orange, and light some candles (er, but do be careful, you don't want too much fire!) The parts of me that I'm abbreviating to these symbols, these elements, ALL have their upside and their downside. And naturally, we can let our traits and preferences get out of balance, and our actions and behaviours ultimately reflect that. Then we end up snapping at a co-worker (Fire) or staying in a shitty relationship longer than we should have (Earth.) It's super helpful, in my experience to start communicating with yourself in these symbolic ways. Some of you will take to this more than others because yes, we're all different. But we're also really similar, and that's why these systems work. It's like having lots of different ways to organise your CDs. Back when CDs were a thing. I chose alphabetically. My sister chose colour, organising the spines like a rainbow. So if you've stuck with me through this super esoteric ramble, I applaud you. And as a reward, I have a pretty snazzy online quiz you can take for free, that tells you your dominant element, explains all the four elements in depth, explains how they might relate to your Myers-Briggs type, and tell you what to play up as well as what to watch out for. You can find that quiz and all the tips at thecreativeintrovert.com/elements And as always, let me know if you're enjoying the show! I love receiving sweet reviews on whatever podcast app you use and you can always email me, hello@thecreativeintrovert.com
Here's the full question Rebecca sent in: "Have you ever considered making a video on the synergy of ENFP - INTJ relationships? Both my close friend/business partner and romantic partner are INTJs and we all seem to just make a powerhouse team. This partnering seems to really surprise some people and, granted, none of us are great on day to day tasks! However, we seem to always be on the same wavelength and can make fairly enormous and immediate impacts when we all set our minds to the same goal. On the whole I think INTJs get a very bad reputation. Mainly from people who just don't take the time to understand or can't see beneath the armor. I'd be really interested to see what you think about ENFP-INTJ teams. What do you think?" Don’t miss future episodes of this podcast, subscribe here: iTunes | Google Play Music | Stitcher | TuneIn | RSS/XML If you want to follow my travels or catch some shorter videos and updates I share, you can find me on Facebook (DreamsAroundTheWorldHQ) | and as TheDanJohnston on Instagram and Twitter | I publish new videos weekly on YouTube as well. Are you, or someone you know, suffering from ENFP? If so, you should seek immediate non-medical attention. Introducing: ENFP Unleashed. Click here for more details. And if you haven't already, be sure to check out my free training on turning your personality type into an incredible life, The Life Design Approach. Get it here: www.DreamsAroundTheWorld.com/freetraining/ If you enjoy the podcast and would like to submit your own question for a future episode, you can do so here: www.DreamsAroundTheWorld.com/ask-dan/
Thanks for tuning in to Myers-Briggs Question Corner!Today’s question is from a woman I’ll call Mary:How can I best communicate with my INTJ boss?I’ll first talk about the natural communication style for INTJs, then INFPs, and will then discuss strategies for each to implement to better understand and work with each other. We'll also include some snippets of conversation of what a discussion between an INFP and INTJ might sound like.---Myers-Briggs Question Corner is the weekly MBTI career podcast brought to you by DC Metro Career Counselor Edythe Richards.Edythe is the creator of A Top Career - a web site which specializes in helping people back into work.Find out more at www.atopcareer.com
The content of this includes Thought Catalog, Heidi Priebe’s article “How to tell if an INTJ likes you (as told by 29 INTJs)”
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Today on the show we're talking about how all 16 personality types react to being defensive and how they use that to protect their ego. We get upset, we get offended, we get hurt and when it's least expected we can fire back in uncharacteristic ways. That's because our tertiary function takes over and has it's moment of rage. INTJs, for example, may attack someone's moral character. INFJs may attempt to logically break down why someone hurt them. ENFPs will emotionally shutdown and get factual. Those are only a few examples that we break down in this episode of Super Myers-Briggs Turbo EX! Sign up for the FREE easy mode course at http://www.supermbti.training --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cosmiccalibration/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cosmiccalibration/support
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Have you ever been asked what your superpower would be, if you were a superhero? I always struggled to pick between being able to fly and being invisible. Typically introverted answers: picking the two superpowers that would let me escape extroverted situations… More than being a fun game to play when you're six, this is a great question to ask yourself throughout life. Your superpowers don't have to be extraordinary or win you any awards, let alone save the world… they are simply the abilities you have that come easier to you than most, and that energise you more than most. Individually, they may not strike you as special at all – in fact, until you hear this podcast episode, you might not be aware of them at all – but when you do identify them and start to harness them more, you start to see evidence of your true capabilities. Stop focussing on your kryptonite! Introverts tend to be especially critical of themselves, because of our tendency to focus inward so much. Unsurprisingly, treating yourself too critically can easily reduce your self esteem. Low self esteem makes life a lot more challenging. In short: you want to bolster your self esteem, not tear it down. It does serve us to be critical when it comes to honing our skills; being able to accurately assess where you're at is one of the core ingredients to getting to where you want to go. But there will be nothing to assess and improve at without first acknowledging what your superpowers are. Not sure what your Superpowers are yet? That's OK: here are some ideas to get the ball rolling, based on what we know about the nature of introverts. 1. You're probably considerate of others This is particularly helpful when it comes to communication with others. It means an introvert doesn't give too much away and can be more deliberate and diplomatic in their speech. It also makes us less quick to make judgements – which, when done without much thought, can land an extrovert in hot water. However, overthinking can lead to unnecessary anxiety. Anxiety about speaking your mind can mean you appear closed off and distant to others and hinder real connection forming, which is vital for trust and forming long-lasting relationships. 2. You're probably a deep-thinker What they say has gone through a natural mental filter, which tests how accurate, important and appropriate something is. This means that a 1-to-1 conversation can be very rich and full of depth, leading to more meaningful friendships. The downside to this is that it takes a while for our thoughts to mature and develop to a state where we're ready to let them out into the world. This is definitely a drawback in heated, fast-paced debates. It also means on the whole we're averse to small talk - again, not the best at dinner parties or networking events. 3. You're probably quite focussed You can pay attention to those you are speaking to. Which is great if you're speaking to one person, but even at a larger scale this can be picked up. For example a lecture in a theatre will often be able to notice if there's someone paying true attention to them: and this will mean a lot to them. The problem is for introverts who in turn, also need to focus quite intensely in order to get a good understanding of something. This is particularly true for highly sensitive introverts who struggle to maintain focus in an overstimulating environment. 4. You're probably very attentive As a result of our focus, introverts also make for great at paying attention to others, making for great listeners. There is a difference between passive listening: which usually looks like someone who is purely being quiet out of politeness, and is really just waiting for their conversational partner to finish speaking. Active listening however looks like someone who has all there attention focussed on you, and who is getting ready not to just speak their own opinions or to steer the conversation in their own self serving direction, but to dig deeper into the last thing you said. The downside is introverts can also pay too much attention to what others are thinking about themselves: which can cause stress and anxiety when doing something that exposes you to the public. 5. You're probably independent Compared to extroverts, who very much rely on the responses and feedback of others, introverts are less concerned with their outside world. This is particularly true for the more left-brain, analytical introverts (usually ISTJs, INTJs, ISTPs, INTPs - check out Marti Olsen Laney for more on left-brain introversion.) This gives introverts greater ability to be selfless: to create from a place that is not driven by vanity or muddied by the opinions of others. 6. You're probably empathic They have the ability to tune into their communication partners and this is done through intuitive strength rather than using any sleazy influence tactics. Mirror neurones are a real thing: and both introverts and extroverts have them but could it be that introverts, particularly highly sensitive people, are more able to tune into them? Empathy is a great skill, whether it comes naturally to you or you learn to develop it. It means people are quicker to trust you and feel less threatened by you. Now we've talked about the generic introvert superpowers, let's talk about your unique Superpowers - the ones that set you apart from the next creative introvert. You might have some or even all of the introvert superpowers, this isn't where your Superpowers end. You have your own unique Superpowers, that distinguish you from the next creative introvert and that will make you the one fit for your life purpose. Not sure what your unique Superpowers are? That's understandable. One of the mistakes people make when identifying their Superpowers is that they immediately think of their abilities in areas that society tends to deem the most important. You might think of your academic history… and how difficult you found maths. You might think of sporting achievements… and remember you were always picked last for teams. You might think of your workplace history… and remember how you always got passed by for promotions. In focussing on the big, obvious (and actually very insignificant) roles society has suggested you play, you end up missing the Superpowers you do have in other areas. It can help to think about something that doesn't feel emotionally loaded. For example, baking cakes with your mother when you were a child - or baking cakes with your children now. What about you shines in these moments? Are you endlessly patient? Are you meticulously precise? Are you a natural in the kitchen and rarely have to follow a recipe? It's these little moments that bring us joy, boost our energy and feel so easy to us that point to our actual Superpowers. ACTION STEPS: 1) Have a Superpower brainstorm by jotting ideas down from the following questions: • What are you really good at? • What comes naturally for you? • What activities make you feel energised? • What quality do you bring to an activity? • What do you get asked for help with by others? 2) Put your Superpowers to use It's one thing to have a nice list of things you can keep in your wallet when you need a pick-me-up (which I do recommend) but it's another to actually put these to use as much as possible in your daily life. Now you have your list (you can also add the typical introvert Superpowers too if they resonated with you) start to list real life ways you can use these Superpowers. For example, if one of my Superpowers is being attentive, I know I can bring this to occasions when I meet new people. These aren't usually the most introvert-friendly events, but if I know I have my Superpower in my back pocket, I have more reassurance that I can use this to my advantage. Think about how these Superpowers can help you through day-to-day life as well as the more challenging occasions we might face. Try following the sentence structure below to work through each Superpower: I can use the Superpower of ________ when I _________ Go one step further and think of an event or upcoming project where you can really put your Superpower/s to use. Make a point of using this as your intention in going into that event/project (often a much better way of setting goals than focussing purely on the end result.)
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According to the Washington Post, roughly 2 million people a year take the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. And according to A Number I Just Made Up, 66% of those were administered by people who work in corporate HR departments, habitually doing the voice of the boss from Office Space, like she's making fun of that mentality, except she's actually saying the thing she's pretending she's mocking and it's not funny, Linda. Anyway, by having you answer a series of questions, the Myers-Briggs Quiz has been studiously designed, researched and reported to most accurately tell you which character from the Harry Potter Universe you are. And of those, the people who scored INTJ (or Severus Snape) seem to be the most excited about their results. So, here we go to Reddit to read INTJs bragging about themselves and complaining about everything else. This week, The F Plus Gangbang isn't that serious.
In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a question from a listener about how INTJs can deal with xxFP types (ENFP, INFP, ESFP, ISFP). http://personalityhacker.com
This week we put away our party hats and social butterfly personalities and tip our glasses to that often-misunderstood and maligned tribe who represents about one third of all people … introverts! This episode's wine: Big House Pinot Evil Pinot Noir from CaliforniaThis episode's cheese: Colby Jack Emily and James explore how taking a bag of wine from a box of wine is like giving birth to a baby calf. Emily tells us all about the Myers Briggs personality, the four characterizations within and profile and her self-diagnosis as an introverted, intuitive, thinking judgmental person — we’re totally shocked to learn Emily is judgmental!! James questions the validity of the test—ever the cynic—and Emily praises the other INTJs — in fiction, most of who happen to by psychopathic murderous geniuses, which doesn’t really dissuade Emily from admiring them. James talks about how introverts are demonized a bit, and the idea that intorverts are energized by solitary creative pursuits, and strained by social encounters and extroverts are energized by social encounters. We learn about introverts need to sit quietly and process information and think and learn, and the exhausting exercise of socializing on introverts. Emily’s surprised her daugheter doesn’t appear to be an introvert aften spending so many hours staring up at the ceiling fan, without interest in any other subject. Children have the instinct for extroversion, until the world sets upon them and teacher them to fear other people’s judgments. Emily tells us about ambiverts, who are estimated to be up to 2/3 of all people. They fall on the spectrum between introverts and extraverts, and they flip back and forth between the two worlds. But not Donald Trump, who we perceive as 100 percent extrovert. Wine discounts everything we’ve said about the introvert. Emily lets us know about the origins of ther maiden name, Peck, who liked to live on the peak of mountains and avoid socializing for several millennia, other than for procreating. James goes off an a tangent about his love of Katharine Hepburn and Meryl Streep and how, the mispercetions people have because of his affinity for those fine actresses and their drunkenss—Katharine, not Meryl. Also, we love You Must Remember This! Can you be heterosexual and love Katharine Hepburn and the Jets? James tells us about Susan Cain and her book and TED talk about the strength and value of introverts and society tries to subvert their instincts and their thoughtfulness. Intorverts, she said, often give in to society’s pressure to be overly social and allow their instincts to be overruled. And all the great religious figures have found great wisdom in introversion and solitude. We talk about the dangers of open office spaces — one of the many pitfall of gearing a world toward extroverts, and the perks of being an introvert, despite the push of the value extroverts. Resting bitch face sucks if you're also an introvert. But marketers and advertisers are trying to get into our psyche to get to introverts, especially when ads invade our personal spaces. Next time you see an ad on the door of a bathroom stall, know it's geared toward introverts. Also, the majority of us take our phones into the bathroom. Marketers, leave us alone! Another perk of being an introvert is having a close-knit group of friends, as opposed to a huge number of friends. Also, small talk sucks. Just, stop talking to introverts about the weather! And, James wants to end on himself by talking about narcissistic introverts. He also wants to be eaten by Hannibal Lecter, who is a loveable evil genius, in a way. James' fan fiction would be about Hannibal Lecter and Clarice turning into hobos. Also, fava beans and Chianti would not be a good combination for someone like Hannibal Lecter. Just sayin'. Visit our website at www.classylittlepodcast.com for show notes and extras! Cheers!
Is monogamy over? A new Time magazine story says it should be, and we wonder just how much influence Dan Savage has had on our sex lives. We also discuss the (reliable) glories of the pull-out method, and how relationships change birth-control strategies. And: What an ENFP discovered about Myers-Briggs dating (avoid INTJs!).
You’ll be happy to know this is the first episode in which I get to prove I really am only sorta awesome - not fully awesome. In the opening minute of the show, I mistakenly refer to this as episode two of the show, even though it is, in reality, episode three. Viva la sorta! That doesn’t dampen my excitement about this episode at all, however, because I am so thrilled to introduce you to the third regular co-host of this incredibly awesome team! Kelly Gordon of Love Well is one of my long-time blogging friends, and she is all kinds of awesome. I am so thrilled that she said yes to joining me in this project. Today, I manage to stretch Kelly’s five minute life story into ten minutes (at least!) because I cannot stop asking her questions about her life, particularly about the years she worked as a local news producer. She shares about the challenges of solo parenting along with the one thing she is always talking about, a topic that I got quite a kick out of. All of that and - as always - we share our Awesome of the Week! Click here to listen to Ep. 03! Show notes: 1) What my first blog looked like when Kelly and I became friends. (Oh, 2007. Bless your heart.) 2) Kelly and I are both ENFPs married to INTJs - a Myers-Briggs match that is a lot of things but never boring! (Don’t know your MB type? We talk about it a lot around here. The 16personalities.com test is my current favorite of the online version of the tests.) 3) Here, let Ariel illustrate why this episode is almost an hour long! 4) I’ll happily confess to being a BIG fan of Stitch Fix! Click here to check it out for yourself if you haven’t already! I kept trying to get a good picture of my new top but it never happened. You can find better examples than my clumsy description here and here. 5) Kelly, for this gift of inspiration, we thank thee! Chipotle-Glazed Meatloaf with Sweet Potatoes. And yes. Yes! I HATE CILANTRO. Don’t try to change me. It’s genetic. 6) Finally, if Miss Pretty doesn’t just look like the loveliest archetype of a California girl, then I don’t even know what: Find Kelly on her blog, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram! As always, thanks to Progger for allowing us to use the song Strut! Find more about Progger on their website and at BandCamp. Feedback on today’s show? Leave a comment below (click on the date) or find me on Facebook or Instagram!
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