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YogiRise Podcast
Ep19. Madeleine Black - Unbroken - Survivor and Activist of Sexual Abuse

YogiRise Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 49:57


It was a pleasure and a journey for me to be able to have Madeleine on the podcast and to discuss this topic. She is incredibly insisting and is truly a beautiful women inside and out. Madeleine Black is an author, speaker, sexual violence activist, former psychotherapist and hosts her podcast show called “Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling” After decades of silence, Madeleine decided to share her own story publicly online in September 2014 and she completely underestimated what the response would be. She is passionate about speaking out to end the shame, stigma and silence surrounding sexual violence and to help others find their courage and voice too.   Madeleines Link Website - https://madeleineblack.co.uk TedX Talk - https://youtu.be/_ouhY155398?si=-DnPGbsgz0ZSA1vC Podcast - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718   Jens Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/jen.heb/

The Pilates Lounge
The Evolution of Movement with Madeline Black

The Pilates Lounge

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 60:27


In this episode of the Pilates Lounge, Katie Crane interviews Madeleine Black, a distinguished movement expert with over 35 years of experience, who delves into the significance of creativity in Pilates instruction. They explore avenues for instructors to expand their knowledge and skills, stressing the value of engaging in physical practice, experimenting with different movement techniques, and seeking guidance from mentors and communities. Madeleine underlines the importance of understanding anatomy, biomechanics, and the limitations of conventional models and terminology. She advocates for a holistic approach, emphasizing the benefits of endurance, strength, and fascial glide in one's self-practice routine. The conversation highlights how various factors can influence movement patterns, shedding light on the roles of the feet, hands, and equipment in optimizing movement efficiency and tissue transformation. The dialogue extends to the concept of healing through movement, stressing the need to listen to the body, address imbalances, and embrace a comprehensive approach to health and wellness. Madeleine draws insights from her books, 'Centred' and 'Pilates Applications for Health Conditions Programs and Perspectives,' promoting a deeper understanding of the movement's impact on health conditions and the significance of mindful body awareness.   Takeaways Creativity in Pilates instruction enhances practice understanding and exploration.. Instructors learn and grow through physical practice, exploring various movements, and seeking community mentorship. Understanding anatomy and biomechanics is crucial for effective teaching, but traditional models and terminology may not accurately reflect how the body moves. Self-practice is essential for movement educators to maintain their own physical abilities and address any issues or limitations they may have. Endurance, strength, and fascial glide are key aspects to focus on in self-practice and maintaining overall movement health. Understanding the body's movement patterns and how they can be influenced is crucial for creating efficient movement and tissue changes. The feet and hands play a significant role in activating the body and creating force vectors that move through the body. Healing through movement is possible, and it involves listening to the body, addressing imbalances, and making adjustments to movement patterns. A holistic approach to health and wellness considers the whole body and its interconnectedness. Books like 'Centred' and 'Pilates Applications for Health Conditions Programs and Perspectives provide valuable insights into movement and its impact on various health conditions.           Take advantage of your FREE gift! Claim it now here: https://www.thepilatesprofessional.com.au/free-gift-workshop   Unlock Your Pilates Potential! Take This FREE 60-second Quiz To Find Out ”What's your Pilates Personality? https://go2.bucketquizzes.com/sf/75440977   Subscribe to our biweekly Pilates Muse newsletter for exclusive updates. https://www.thepilatesprofessional.com.au/the-pilates-muse-publication  

The Lemonade Podcast
07. Madeleine Black on shame, courage, and the power of forgiveness

The Lemonade Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 43:24


International speaker, storyteller for The Forgiveness Project, and best-selling author of the book 'Unbroken', Madeleine Black, joins me on the podcast to tell her story of experiencing sexual violence at the hands of two men when she was just thirteen. Years later, Madeleine made the courageous decision to forgive the men who hurt her. Forgiveness, she believes, was key to healing and leading a fulfilling and happy life, no longer governed by the past. Madeleine and I discuss the mental and physical impact of trauma, and how her experience of gang rape led to suicidal ideation, disordered eating, and destructive drug and alcohol use. We talk about the culture of victim blaming and the shame that often arises in those who experience sexual assault. She shares the tools that helped support her recovery, including finding her voice, therapy and plant medicine. If you'd like to connect with Madeleine, you can follow her on Instagram and check out her website here. If you're based in the UK and have experienced sexual violence, please consider seeking support from Rape Crisis England & Wales.To be the first to know about every new Lemonade episode, click 'subscribe' and follow me over on Instagram.The Lemonade Podcast is proudly sponsored by Nurecover. If saunas and ice baths are your thing, head to the website and use the discount code LOTTENU for 15% off your purchase. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Genuinely You
Gina Gardiner & Friends: Madeleine Black

Genuinely You

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2023 30:01


Welcome to the 'Gina Gardiner & Friends Show' - this episode features my guest, Madeleine Black whose theme was 'The Power of Forgiveness.'

Courageous Recovery
Episode 161 - with Emma-Jane Taylor

Courageous Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2023 30:25


Emma-Jane Taylor – Award Winning Advocate for survivors of CSA - Recognised as a National Treasure by GB News, 2022 Motivational Speaker /Ardent campaigner for survivors of Child Sex Abuse/ Media commentator/ Editor of The Real Silence  Founder of The Works Co & Project 90/10, Author of Don't Hold Back, TEDx Speaker/ Corporate Behaviour Change Trainer/Mentor Twitter @ejtayloruk - LinkedIn @emmajanetayloruk – Instagram @emmajanetayloruk   Emma-Jane's personal and traumatic story of struggle and hardship covered in her debut book entitled ‘Don't Hold Back' has given her the positive tools and focus she needed to fight back, to create a power-house of strength; compassion and dedication to living. Emma-Jane was once told ‘she was the girl going nowhere, the failure' and most people thought she would be dead or in prison by the time she was 20. Her reality, like many, was very different. Survivor of child sex abuse, abandonment & rejection. Throughout her teenage years she drank excessively, took drugs, became bulimic. By 15 years old was exhausted by life, addicted and struggling with various disorders. Her school life struggled, she was often put into isolation, on report, given regular detentions or suspended. She was written off as a child, labelled a juvenile delinquent by a child psychiatric at 14 and told regularly told she was a failure, going nowhere - none of which helped her with her difficulties or development. As a young girl she struggled with nerves, night terrors, late development, OCD, PTSD, nausea, eating disorders, paranoia, anxiety. At 19 she took off to Spain and at 23 she found the confidence to start an A-Z of therapy.   Podcasts: Second Chance with (Netflix) Raphael Rowe, Unbroken with Madeleine Black, Inspire with Steve Twynham, Traci Cornelius Women Rockin' Business Radio: Talk Radio with Ian Collins, Men's Radio Station with Russ Kane and Phil Dave, BBC Berkshire with Phil Kennedy Drivetime, Wellbeing with Bill Buckley, Andrew Peach Show and Michelle Jordan, Radio Lantau Hong Kong with Kimberley Kleczka, Motivational Firewood with Steve Gamlin  Brand Ambassador: Riverside Counselling, Berkshire Community Foundation, World Jenny's Day https://www.notmyshame.global/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmajanetayloruk/ https://twitter.com/ejtayloruk https://www.instagram.com/emmajanetayloruk/ https://www.facebook.com/emmajanetayloruk/ email - office@emmajanetaylor.com acourageousrecovery.com

INSPIRE with Nicola Wills
EPISODE 7 | Madeleine Black | The ULTIMATE story of survival, forgiveness and healing

INSPIRE with Nicola Wills

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 50:37


Note from Inspire: This episode contains a discussion of sexual assault and suicide. Today's guest will share with you the power of forgiveness to heal and to find peace despitehorrific circumstances.  After keeping silent for 38 years, Madeleine Black shares her heartbreaking story of being gang raped at 13,  in her best-selling book ‘Unbroken.'  Now an international speaker including two TedX talks, she has found her voice and purpose at 51, to ‘Speak Up' and by doing so giving permission for others tofind their voice as well.So what did it take to get to this point of peace and forgiveness? • From being the ‘good' girl one day and then the ‘troubled teen' the next, she was admitted to a children's psychiatric ward but no-one asked, “what happened to you?” • Suffocated by guilt and shame believing she “bought this on herself,” to recognising the societal narrative of ‘victim blaming' and becoming a voice for change. • From being fearful of men to making a conscious decision to only work with male clients and face her fear head on. • From fantasising about revenge to discovering the greatest revenge of all is reclaiming your power and leading a fulfilling and happy life. Madeline's story illustrates there is life after severe trauma, you can heal and you can find peace.  “It's not what happens to us that is important, it's what we do with what happens to us…If we choose to.” Listen to this episode if: • you are afraid to speak your story. •you have ever experienced sexual assault or abuse. • you are holding onto past trauma. •you want to understand the power of forgiveness.  Instagram @madblack65 https://madeleineblack.co.uk/                     Inspire the PodcastInstagram @inspirewithnicola Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No Where To Go But Up
#189 TEDx Speaker Madeleine Black Shares How She Chose To (F)ace (E)verything (A)nd (R)ise... Recorded 12/9/2020

No Where To Go But Up

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2023 40:07


In this episode I speak to Madeleine Black. This episode was recorded in early December of 2020 and is evergreen. I had stumbled across Madeleine's TEDx talk and reached out to have her on the podcast. Madeleine Black is a British author who wrote the book "Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption." The book is a memoir about her experiences as a survivor of sexual violence and her journey to recovery and healing. Black has used her personal story to advocate for survivors of sexual violence and to raise awareness about the issue. Madeleine's TEDx Keynote: https://youtu.be/_ouhY155398 You can find Madeleine here: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/ You can find Sean Dustin here: https://linktr.ee/nowheretogobutup --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/no-where-to-go-but-up/message

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
122: Positive Touch with Tammy McLellan

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2022 33:20


Tammy is Canadian and moved to Scotland in 1989.   She is trained in adult massage and when she had her first child it just felt logical to massage her.   She then discovered research about the benefits of massage for preterm babies and became passionate about massage for all, especially babies/children.  She began teaching parents, mid-wives, health visitors, early years practioners and the Scottish School of Child & Baby Massage was born 28 years ago.   She ran her business while having and raising a family of 7 children. She has many stories about the profound impact that massage has on lives of other babies/parents with bonding, health & well-being and wants to start writing a book now that most of the young people have moved out!!  Some key points from our interview:·       How unbroken means being able to pick herself up whatever happens·       How life in Vancouver was chaotic as she was born to a schizophrenic mother ·       How she fell in love with massage at 12 when received one from a Dutch woman and started to have massage parties teaching her friends as a teenager·       How when she moved to Scotland, she met Jim and qualified in massage·       How her family became one of seven children including one son who has severe autism and epilepsy·       How she loves teaching mums to massage their babies and has so many stories of mental health improving for the mums and physical health too for babies·       How she believes that massage can be used to help others connect to themselves and their baby which improves the bonding between them both·       How self-care is not a luxury but an important way to take care of our healthHer website for training: http://www.babymassage.org.uk/Online course for Parents: https://bambinoandi.co.uk/Facebook:  Scottish School of Child & Baby Massage                                          *                               *                           *                          *Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718    Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
121: Everyday Heroes with Jaz Ampaw-Farr

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2022 32:57


Jaz Ampaw-Farr is a ‘resilience ninja', international speaker, coach and author. Hailed in the US as ‘The British Oprah', Jaz has travelled the world advising governments, educators and helping tens of thousands of people with her bespoke leadership development programmes, training courses and motivational speeches. As a successful entrepreneur, mum of three, and former teacher - she knows a thing or two about galvanising people into taking action! With a passion for resilience, positive disruption, and a human-first approach to everything, Jaz's energy is infectious and you can't help but become mesmerised and fall under her captivating spell Some key points from our interview:·       How she believes that unbroken is about being unbreakable and being able to reform with a new story to be resilient·       How she feels that resilience is all about knowing what to do when you don't know what to do·       How her start in life was tough and being beaten, neglected and sexually abused left her feeling broken, worthless and defeated for many years ·       How she ended up in care at eight years and homeless as a teenager but meeting five everyday heroes when she was at school changed her life ·       How having a family is her success as she broke the cycle·       How she's passionate about helping people to become at least 10% braver·       How her brother dying of a heroin overdose motivated her to speak out to show others what is possible in choosing a different life·       How when she recently received an award at a conference, she was moved as she reflected on the enormity of her journey from foster care to speaker of the year  www.jazampawfarr.com Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718 Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
120: Don't Stop Dreaming with Andrea Rainsford

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2022 35:26


Andrea Rainsford –Andrea had an extensive career in the corporate world, working as a Business Development Manager for Ernst & Young and Eversheds.  A career change beckoned following a stroke and in 2009, Andrea graduated with a BSc in Computing Science. A need to help and guide small businesses followed and SEO Angel was born in 2014.  SEO Angel aims to de-mystify SEO, to help small and micro businesses with their visibility and watch them thrive! Some key points from our interview:·        How she believes that Unbroken means her life had many broken shards of glass at times, but she's examined and fixed them and is thriving again·         How in 2003 she was diagnosed with ME which almost broke her as she fought against the illness and believes that could be what led to her stroke·        How once she was left hospital, she didn't leave her house for six years·        How she was unable to carry on with her work and went to university and got a degree in computing science·        How she went to university in a wheelchair, but walked in for her graduation with crutches  ·        How despite being told by her Dr's that she won't walk again she never gave up on her dream of walking unaided·        How she practices self-care ·        How at the time of this interview she has walked without the use of crutches for the last eight weeks only but is also determined to dance unaided too!·        How she recognises that it would be so easy to wallow in everything she's been through, but she chose to get back https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-rainsford-seo-angelhttps://www.subscribepage.com/o4t3y8 Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718    Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
119: Don't Lean On Your Excuses- with Steve Judge

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 36:37


As a professional speaker, author and resilience coach Steve's mission is to deliver his story that took him from wheelchair to world champion and beyond.  He explains how he fixed his broken life and the learnings he gained which he now shares to empower people with the right mindset to go confidently on their journey in the direction of their dreams, their GOLD.   He's passionate about everyone experiencing the happiness and fulfilment of achieving the life that they have imagined and truly deserve Some key points from our interview: ·        How Kuntsugi means unbroken to him, which is a Japanese word that refers to a broken vase that is mended with gold, making it better and more unique·        How he believes that resilience is a like a wave and there are a range of emotions you need to go through to come out the other side·        How a car accident in 2002 caused so many injuries to his legs that he was told he may never walk again·        How his patience was tested as he wore a cage over his leg for 18 months but could also only twist the bolts through his legs by 1mm per day, which grew his leg back·        How even walking just 10 seconds per day caused utter exhaustion, but he pushed himself to improve·        How he stopped saying “Why me?” and instead I'd say “Try me!”·        How years later he was looking for a new challenge and discovered paratriathlon's and started his training ·        How he has always focused on what he can do rather that what he can't do·        How he went from being told he may never walk again to becoming British and then world champion in the paratriathlon·        How he believes if you want to become a high achiever in life then you need to start focusing on what you want to achieve www.steve-judge.co.uk Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718    Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
118: Almost 13 With Joan Kane

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2022 31:49


Joan Kane (director, writer, performer, educator) recently performed her script of Almost 13 in the Edinburgh Festival Fringereceiving a five-star review. She also got favourable reviews for her direction of Safe and what do you mean in New York and Edinburgh.  She is the founding Artistic Director of Ego Actus Theatre Company. Off Broadway, she directed Sycorax at HERE, Play Nice! at 59e59 theatres, and I Know What Boys Want at Theatre Row. She directed Six Characters in Search of an Author in Oslo, Norway and Kafka's Belinda in Prague. Joan was awarded Best Director in the United Solo Festival where she has directed six pieces. She was named to the Indie Theatre Hall of Fame by nytheatre.com.  She has also directed plays and readings at the Lark, Ensemble Studio Theatre, Urban Stages, Workshop Theatre, Nylon Fusion, Abingdon Theatre, Oberon Theatre, the Samuel French Short Play Festival, T. Schreiber Studio, and many others. Joan is an alumni of the LaMama directing and playwriting symposiums in Umbria, Italy. She is a member of the Playwright/Director unit at Actor's Studio, the League of Professional Theatre Women, the Dramatists Guild, and the Society of Stage Directors & Choreographers Some key points from our interview:·        How she believes that being broken is ok ·        How in the summer of 1969 she witnessed a gang member being murdered and she was then raped by the murderer to silence her·        How she became a selected mute after these traumas, as she was too scared to speak out·        How a friend encouraged her to go for therapy at high school as she was having obtrusive dreams·        How she was encouraged at a writing retreat in Italy to share her story·        How it took her many years to write her story down due to shame and denial·        How writing has been her escape from trauma and her therapy too·        How she's passionate about storytelling and wrote “Almost 13” which are her memories of a young girl's violent summer in Brooklyn and plays all 10 characters herself ·        How she believes we can all have horrible things happen to us, but we can survive them too Review of Almost 13  - “Joan Kane sets an example to others to face up to their stories and to be prepared to share them in order to disseminate, perhaps dissipate and gain some healing through the process”Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718   Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
117: Life After Hate with Arno Michaelis

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2022 41:04


Arno Michaelis is a speaker, author of My Life After Hate, co-author of The Gift of Our Wounds,  Filmmaker, and Peacebuilding Consultant.  In the late 1980s and early 1990s, Arno was a leader of hate groups, and frontman of the hate-metal band Centurion before single parenthood, love for his daughter, and the forgiveness shown by people he once hated helped to change his world, bringing love for diversity and gratitude for all life.  Arno has appeared on CNN's “Anderson Cooper 360”, “The View”, the BBC, CBC, and ABC. He has published op-ed on CNN, The Huffington Post, The Washington Post, and Al Jazeera English.·        How he feels proud of his broken heart as it opened him up for the world to touch the most tender part of him·        How his faith in humanity remains unbroken·        How he had an idyllic childhood even though he ended up in hate groups·        How violence and hatred made sense in his world when nothing else did and he likens it to an addiction·        How a black women pointed to his newly tattooed swastika on his finger and told him “That's not who you are” and her compassion totally disarmed him and left him powerless·        How he left hate groups and went to the rave scene which was hyper diverse and found himself embraced by the people he would have attacked in the past ·        How he struggles with self-forgiveness but recognises its importance and that it's a process·        How he believes people commit crimes because they are suffering ·        How he now embraces diversity, practices gratitude, is a Buddhist, promotes peace and has totally tuned his life around     https://www.parents4peace.org     https://www.instagram.com/arnomichaelis/?hl=en Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718    Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

I Never Knew (INK) by Life Coach Maureen
"It Wasn't My Fault- No More Shame"- Episode 22- Madeleine Black talks about forgiving the 2 men who raped her at age 13.

I Never Knew (INK) by Life Coach Maureen

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 58:14


*Trigger warning* Listener discretion advised, mature material On today's episode I speak with Madeleine Black Author, TedX Speaker, Podcast Host and Advocate for speak against sexual violence. Madeleine tells her story of being raped by 2 men at age 13 and how it affected her life. She walks us through her process of healing and how she has turned her journey of survival into helping others. Her book, "Unbroken" available at Amazon. To contact Madeleine, see her Ted Talk, Podcast, and Book please go to https://madeleineblack.co.uk/

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
116: Stroke of Luck with Andy Dobinson

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 33:17


He says he's just a bloke that runs ultra-trail marathons in his spare time…16 now!!He lives just outside of Glasgow with his awesome wife Nikki who has been and is his total rock. He's 48 years young and passionate about running, cycling and all things motorsport and if he's not in trainers, he's on a bike or driving a car. ‘Anxiously chilled out' describes his approach to stuff now after suffering a catastrophic stroke, out of the blue, in February of 2017 at 42, that changed his life and set him on a new and exciting path and adventure.  He thinks the words loyal, considerate, challenging and inappropriately dark humoured would best describe him. Some key points from our interview:·       How he thinks the word unbroken means acceptance of who and what he is·       How at forty-two years old he suffered a cryptogenic stroke despite being obsessed with cycling and training·       How he wasn't sure it was a stroke when it happened, but his wife had read about FAST (face, arms, speech and time) acronym and knew it was worse than just an ear infection, which is what he thought he had·       How he didn't want to make a fuss and call an ambulance, even though he was aware that he couldn't stand or speak properly ·       How he found himself in dark spaces emotionally·       How he believes his stubbornness helped him to recover physically and emotionally·       How he made a choice of who he was now going to become because of his stroke·       How he believes that his stroke was the best thing that ever happened to him as it softened him·       How he accepts and loves who he is now and feels he's a more compassionate version of himself  Reach Out to Andy here: Instagram - andyd2574_stroke_of_luck Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718   Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
115: Perfectly Flawed with Deborah Henley

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 33:18


Deborah Henley has over 20 years in psychology and personal developmentFormerly a competitive oarswoman, sailor and swimmer, with qualifications in neurolinguistics, hypnotherapy and the expressive arts - she draws on some extraordinary life experiences, a keen commercial sensibility and a quirky and creative perspective on lifeHer book, ‘Your Leadership Story', was shortlisted in the Business Book Awards and has become a transformational programme for speakers to find their message and storyWorking with global bluechips such as Accenture, AmEx, Microsoft and the MOD, she inspires her audiences to bring the life and soul back into their organisationsHer vision is to equip leaders to create cultures in which everyone can shine - even (or especially when) they feel ‘Perfectly Flawed'Some key points from our interview:How unbroken means to her that our soul, and our essence is like water and can't be broken How she focused on looking after her father's needs when her mother left when she was eleven, before her own needs How as an adult she was able to let go of her anger and frustration and was able to forgive her mother How she felt as if she didn't matter much, and she struggled with her self-worthHow her journey has been about creating healthy boundaries and learning to put herself first and standing up for her soulHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718  Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
114: Don't Dim Your Light with Roxy Rhodes

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 32:47


Roxy Rhodes is a psychotherapist and business coach with a private practice in Derbyshire who works predominantly with women who are ready to make some life changes.  Her no BS, filter-free and empathic approach makes her a force to be reckoned with. She'll call you out on your excuses and hold your hand to make the changes.  Her sarcastic humour will immediately put you at ease and you'll find yourself feeling like you've known her for years. She genuinely loves to watch women grow and says that's her "why" that underpins everything she does.  Some key points from our interview: ·      How Unbroken means being whole and authentic and not using any valid reason as an excuse to not do the things we want to do·      How at aged two she was scalded over 70% of her body and wasn't expected to live·      How miraculously her organs that had shut down started to work again and she need her hands or feet amputated ·      How she grew up in hospitals and loved everything about them·      How she feels that because her parents never covered up her burns and skin grafts, she never felt any shame around them ·      How she believes we are only vulnerable if we are ashamed ·      How she learnt to put good boundaries in place to support herself·      How she wants to inspire other to not try and fit in and don't let anything hold you back, go after your dreams You can find out more about her at roxyrhodestherapy.co.uk and filterfreebusiness.com ..And join her free Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/filterfreebusiness"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718   Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
113: Journey Inwards with Peter Paul Parker

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 37:05


Peter Paul Parker is a Dahn Master in the mind-body-spirit arena, a musician and sound healer. He works with both the energy and physical body. Peter is a Ki Gong champion, winning the international competition with the British Team in Korea in 2016. Peter runs a successful coaching business achieving amazing results with highly sensitive people and empaths using the Dream Method.He has set up a local charity called Brighter Living helping the elderly with their health and well-being using Ki Gong and meditation. Peter has also worked with schools locally, helping students connect with themselves.Peter has launched the Bright Beings Academy online internationally, which incorporates everything that he does to empower people to reach their full potential as human beings. Peter's motto is ‘Journey Inwards – Succeed Outwards' Some key points from our interview:·        How he believes that unbroken means that even though at times it may feel like the end of the road, he knows it isn't and he keeps going·        How he used to focus on what the fall over but now he focuses on the come back·        How his mother became his best friend as he couldn't understand his brother's energy, but she passed away when he was eleven·        How he struggled when he was sent to boarding school after his mother died and felt like it was hell because there were paedophiles and bullies there·        How he left the sales world to become a musician and loved improvising music as it became a type of meditation for him·        How he looks back and sees that his drinking habit covered up the pressures of the music world and his unprocessed childhood trauma – ptsd -now helped by traditional Chinese medicine·        How he discovered Ki Gong at a mind, body & spirit festival he was at with his wife and it spoke to him·        How he believes that everything we go through comes up in our body- “The Body Keeps the Score”“Journey Inwards – Succeed Outwards”Reach Out To Peter here >>                            https://www.peterpaulparker.co.uk/"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718  Short of time but want to tune in?Watch Short Vlog Versions on our You Tube Channel HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
112: Grow Through Grief with Charlotte Rush

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 30:08


Charlotte Rush is a Marketing Director with a career spanning over 20 years. In recent months she has started to embark on a journey of becoming a lived experience speaker, telling her story, which details how she has been shaped by grief, and how she's now playing an active role in moving beyond it. An orphan by the age of five, Charlotte is currently writing a book about her life, which was initially merely a form of therapy for herself. Charlotte now hopes that by sharing her story she can help others understand how you can emerge from a life defined by grief to build something meaningful and loving. It's a story of resilience – about how even the darkest and most disabling challenges life can throw at you can be overcome with drive and determination and a growing understanding of the grieving process Some key points from our interview:·       How unbroken means being able to adapt to life's biggest challenges that are thrown at you ·       How she lost both of her parents by the time she was five years old and went on to live with grief all her life·       How she never had any specialist support as a young child growing up with grief·       How she was recently diagnosed with PTSD because of her childhood even though it felt like it was just a normal life for her·       How she feels that she's just on the start of her journey at aged forty·       How she now feels comfortable about living with grief all her life and decided to write her story down to help othersReach out to Charlotte on...www.rushconsulting.co.uk"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
111: My Mother, Munchausen's and Me with Helen Naylor

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 39:37


After a lifetime spent caring for her disabled parents, Helen had her own children, and began to suspect her mum was deliberately pretending to be unwellShe began reading her mother's 55 years' worth of diaries after her death in 2016 and discovered her mum's deception went far beyond anything she had imaginedShe wrote My Mother, Munchausen's, and Me in the aftermath, piecing together the truth about her parents, her childhood, and her identitySome key points from our interview:• How Unbroken means moving forward with happened to her without it defeating her• How after she read her mother's diaries, she realised that her whole childhood was founded on lies• How it took her many years to realise that her childhood was abusive as she had been gaslit by her mother for years and it didn't occur to her to question it• How her mother controlled her thoughts, ran her down constantly, believing she was a failure, telling her what she liked and didn't like- since she has developed mental health awareness.• How her mother's symptoms of Parkinson's didn't match the illness and even her Parkinson's nurse realised she wasn't being truthful about her condition• How she chose to forgive her mother as she wanted to be free of her grip on her, but it's continuous work• How she's determined to create the best life she can for her and her family and will love wholeheartedly and sincerely even though it terrifies her to be vulnerable*Factitious disorder, malingering, hypochondriasis all are similar meaning terms.www.helennaylorwriter.com"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://www.buzzsprout.com/1386718Watch edited highlights on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
110: Complicit with Winnie M Li

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 34:33


Winnie M Li is an author and activist. Her debut novel Dark Chapter is a fictional retelling of her real-life stranger rape in Belfast, from victim and perpetrator perspectives. Translated into ten languages, it won The Guardian's Not The Booker Prize, and was nominated for an Edgar Award and the Best First Novel Award. She is currently adapting it for the screen.Her second novel Complicit was published in Summer 2022 and selected by The New York Times for their August book club. Winnie is also Founder of Clear Lines, the UK's first-ever festival addressing sexual assault and consent through the arts and discussion. Her PhD research at the London School of Economics explores media engagement by rape survivors as a form of activism. She holds an honorary doctorate from the National University of Ireland in recognition of her writing and activismSome key points from our interview:How being Unbroken means being able to retain her essence of who she is despite everything she has gone through.How she writes and speaks about rape to leave a trail, offer hope, and build communities for other survivors.How she wrote every other chapter from the perpetrators point of view in her first book “Dark Chapter” to try and make sense to what had happened in this 15-year old's life.How she chooses not to be angry after hearing that the man who raped her has now been linked to other cases of sexual assault since his release from prison.How her second book “Complicit” looks at the misogyny, power, exploitation, and the open secrets that have become normalised in the film industry for women.How she never assumed that she would meet a partner one day and become a mum.LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/winniemliSocial media: Twitter @winniemliInstagram winniemliFacebook https://www.facebook.com/winniemli"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch the highlights of the interview on YouTube HERE

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
109: Removing the Mask with Richard Hobday

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2022 33:36


Richie is an entrepreneur, film producer and actor. His entrepreneurship spans successful businesses across property development; sport; and education. As an actor Richie has appeared in many TV, Feature films on Netflix and Amazon, and has recently completed a number of international Bollywood films. Richie believes everyone in life can act and we all take on the role of a character in life. He has found acting to be a successful way of tackling and dealing with deep personal matters. We wear masks which hide the true ‘us' and help portray different images. But what lays behind the mask? - often trauma, sadness, and darkness. Richie is in the process of removing his mask and raising awareness of childhood sexual abuse and the impact this has in adulthood, particularly amongst middle aged malesSome key points from our interview:How he believes that Unbroken means overcoming traumas that could have broken him, but didn't .How he's now on a mission to remove his mask of trauma and feels passionate about speaking out about the childhood sexual abuse he experienced as a teenager.How he struggled with shame and blame for years, wrongly thinking it was his fault but now understands that the blame lies 100% with the perpetrator.How it took the impact of other traumas to bring the feelings of the childhood sexual abuse to the surface and now wants to speak out to heal himself and other men too.How he recognises that he used alcohol to self-medicate to stop the pain and negative thoughts he was feeling.How he recognises the importance of speaking out to rid the feelings of shame to reclaim his life."Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
108: Hope with Lynn Crilly

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 30:35


Lynn is a mental health awareness champion, counsellor, film producer and author of four books that give advice and hope to sufferers of mental illness and their families, including Hope with Eating Disorders 2nd Edition, Hope with OCD, Hope with Depression and Hope with Anxiety, all published by Hammersmith Health Books.  A mother to grown-up twin daughters, Charlotte and Samantha, and Grandma to Charlotte's 6-month-old twins Georgia and Reggie, Lynn's passion for mental health awareness came through the battles she faced with Samantha, who suffered with anorexia nervosa in her teens and obsessive-compulsive disorder in her early 20s. Some key points from our interview: ·        How she believes that we are broken at times, but we can make waves to make ourselves better·        How when she noticed the changes in her daughter's behaviour regarding food, that she had to speak to her about it·        How she spent four years looking for help to deal with her daughter's eating disorder and decided to discharge her from all treatments and do it herself ·        How she believes that the way eating disorders are approached hasn't changed or evolved·        How she's passionate about breaking the taboos around mental illness and that no family ever feels alone in their struggle·        How she's so proud of her daughter who has produced and co-written a short film called “A Day with OCD” – obsessive compulsive disorder.·        How she works with the whole family and not just the sufferer of the eating disorder·        How eating disorder recovery is possible  Website: www.lynncrilly.comhttps://www.instagram.com/lynn_crilly/"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
107- The Bullied Brain With Jennifer Fraser

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2022 32:37


Jennifer Fraser is the founder of The Bullied Brain. She's an award-winning teacher, best-selling author, and unlikely whistle-blower. And key in mental health awareness. Her new book The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health tells the story of her journey to repair after battling to protect students from teacher abuse and failing.  With a PhD in Comparative Literature, she believed that there must be research that could help her recover.  That's when she discovered what scientists know about the amazing powers, we have within to repair our hurt brains. And to contribute to suicide prevention. Some key points from our interview: ·        How she feels that we are never unbroken as our brains are never unbreakable·        How she discovered her son was a victim of bullying and abuse, including emotional abuse from teachers at his school when she took the testimonies of 8 other students who had also been bullied·        How she discovered that the school had known about this for a year and failed to protect their students·        How she decided to do the research into the neuroscience of being bullied and wrote her book to show the impact of bullying on the brain but also how it can be healed too·        How her own trauma of being emotionally, physically, and sexually abused by 3 teachers was triggered by her son's trauma·        How she went to the police to report her own abuse to stop covering up and to honour a student “Ellen” who tragically died by suicide after being abused by a head teacher that was covered up by the school·        How we all have the power to convert our mind bully to our own empathic coach in order to rewire our brain"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
106 : Piece of Mind with David Mark

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 51:17


David Mark is recognised as a 'master of the dark psychological thriller', drawing upon his 15 years of experience as a crime journalist. After a decade as a full-time novelist and Sunday Times bestseller, David penned the critically-acclaimed memoir PIECE OF MIND, detailing his lifelong battle with depression, mania, OCD, addiction and hallucinations. The book has been labelled 'a life-saver' and 'essential reading' by readers, contemporaries, and mental health professionals. How he feels that unbroken means that he's like a wild horse as he's not had his will snapped or been broken into submission by his illness.How he believes that he's so much more than the events in his life.How being truthful was not as difficult as he thought it would be when he was writing his memoir,How writing really helped him to work out what was his illness and what was his personality.How he used to think he was demonic because of the hideous hallucinations he experienced but managed to grow used to them by learning what was real and what wasn't.How he still struggles with the idea of being vulnerable and weak.How he can't emphasis enough that we should treat people who are unwell with tenderness, patience and compassion.How he now feels he's at the best he'll ever be and never though he could be this well with his mental illness."Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/

HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo
Ep94 - Madeleine Black: Unbroken - Finding Courage After Assault

HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 43:52


Madeleine Black was 13 years old when she was raped and tortured by two men. Her story kept her silent for years. That is, until she decided to open up publicly. What happened next is a story of strength that caused this successful psychotherapist to choose a different path. That of storyteller, author and courage cultivator.  On this episode of HIListically Speaking, be inspired by one woman's healing journey following the ultimate betrayal. And how her pain became her purpose.  Discover the power that comes in healing the unhealed parts of yourself. Reveal the importance of sharing your story with one or with many. And learn how letting go of anger and finding compassion can be the ultimate freedom to become unbroken. Connect with Madeleine, listen to her podcast or pick up a copy of her book by visiting her website, www.madeleineblack.co.uk   If this conversation touched, moved or inspired you in anyway...pass it along and consider signing up to receive info on upcoming HIListically Speaking episodes at http://hilisticallyspeaking.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary RussoCreated/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding Edited by David Sais Recorded on SquadCast (Free 7 Day Trial) Connect with Hilary on Social Media @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilaryrusso/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: http://www.hilaryrusso.com/

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
105 - The Courage To Heal with Laura Davis

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 33:47


#howtowriteabook  #sexualabuse #healingLaura Davis is the author of The Burning Light of Two Stars, the story of her loving yet tumultuous relationship with her mother, and six other non-fiction books, including The Courage to Heal, Allies in Healing, I Thought We‘d Never Speak Again, and Becoming the Parent You Want to Be. Her groundbreaking books have been translated into 11 languages and sold 1.8 million copies. In addition to writing books that inspire and change people's lives, the work of Laura's heart is to teach. For more than twenty years, she's helped people find their voices, tell their stories, and hone their craft. Laura loves creating supportive, intimate writing communities online, in person, and internationally. You can learn about Laura's books, workshops, read the first five chapters of her new memoir and all of her upcoming writer's retreats,  from her website www.lauradavis.net. Some key points from our interview:•How she believes we can be stronger at the broken places of our lives•How her supressed memories of her abuse reappeared 25 years later•How her mother didn't believe her when she told her about the abuse she experienced from her grandfather, and it caused an estrangement between them•How she was able to care for her mother in her later life, even though she felt she had betrayed her•How she never got the apology she wished for from her•How she recognised they had a great bond and chose to reconcile with her•How she feels she has an active relationship with her mother since she's died and focuses on all the positive things, she gave her rather than the challenging ones"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
104: Better not Bitter with Siya Twani

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 34:18


Meet the man who, like a giraffe, stuck his neck out for what he believed.  Like Nelson Mandela, Siya Twani was imprisoned for making a stand against injustice in South Africa. Siya is a Resilience and Mental toughness motivational speaker who speaks in schools and businesses across the country Siya is a motivational speaker on a mission to empower, educate and enthuse people, especially children and young people, with resilience skills. With over 30 years' experience of speaking in the education sector, he is highly recommended by Ofsted and other authorities and can put his message across in an articulate manner that is accessible to all  Some key points from our interview:·        How he believes he's not a broken person but more of a wounded healer·        How he feels he was imprisoned from the moment he was born as he was born under apartheid·        How he refuses to believe he was a victim of apartheid, but the victor of his life·        How at just 17 he was sent to prison for 4 years because he was speaking out about the injustices within the education system for black students·        How he was tortured and brutalised during his time in prison but chose to forgive his captors years later·        How he learnt to let go of his anger and bring in empathy and understanding by realising his oppressors were victims too of apartheid·        How he strongly believes that through love and understanding we can all make this world a better place to live in ·        How he his philosophy that governs his life is “face it, embrace it, defy it and conquer it”Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling     

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
103: Mental with Jermaine Pennant

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 36:17


Jermaine Pennant had a 25 year career as a professional footballer. A product of the Notts county and Arsenal FC youth and becoming a Liverpool FC legend. His talent is undeniable, yet this was often overshadowed by his behaviour off pitch. From scandalous headlines to stupid mistakes. Jermaine wants to open up and talk in depth about his childhood which left him unguided and unable to understand who he was. Now thirty nine years old he has started to unpick the destructive cycles and really find himself. His brand new podcast, Brutally honest is not only a chance to help other people listen and take note from his mistakes but also for Jermaine to talk it out with guests on the podcast to really get into depth on the subject to create more lightbulb moments for himselfSome key points from our interview• How he believes that being unbroken means using something that could break you to create you instead• How he's now on a mission to understand how his challenging childhood shaped his behaviour which led to some of his mistakes• How he used his passion and talent of football to escape his childhood and thinks life would have been very different if he didn't have that• How he understands that his Dad was doing the best job he could as a young father looking after a toddler who had been abandoned by his mother at three years old• How when his football career was over, he went on a journey of self-discovery to gain more insight into his own personal journey in order to improve and work on himself• How he's passionate about speaking out about mental health and encouraging others to speak out if they're strugglinghttps://www.wearehoi.com/brutally-honest-jermain-pennant/https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1369p9Q0vYQ"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
102: Just a Boy with Richard McCaan

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 35:17


Richard is a Times No1. Bestselling author and has now written 4 books. His first, Just a Boy, sold close to half a million copies and is translated into eleven languages.  He's the founder of the iCan Academy and has worked with organisations across the globe for the last 15 years sharing his personal story of resilience. He's also an award winning speaker and a Fellow of The Professional Speaking Association and in 2019 was awarded the PSAE (Professional Speaking Award for Excellence)He was just a week away from his sixth birthday in October 1975, when he woke to discover his mother was missing.  She was the first victim of the notorious serial killer, Peter Sutcliffe. Despite other tragic losses, and a period of dabbling with drugs and prison, Richard decided to turn his life around.  We met through The Forgiveness Project when I was looking for help with the publication process for my book and Richard kindly offered to help.  It was then that we both realised that the number 44, was a very meaningful number to both of us!Some key points from our interview:How life was tough and chaotic even before his mother was murdered as he grew up on a Leeds council estate experiencing poverty, alcohol, and violence How the death of his mother , Wilma McCann, felt like a double blow because it was public and reported in the paper How he was able to understand when he became a parent how difficult it must have been for his father looking after four traumatised childrenHow he's able to look back and remember moments of joy from his childhoodHow he's able to see the gifts of the tragedies in his lifeHow hearing a speech Desmond Tutu in 2010 it transformed his life and realised he was able to choose to forgive Peter Sutcliffe in order to free himselfHow he rang the brother of Peter Sutcliffe when he heard he had passed away to offer his condolences How he believes that resilience is the ability to bounce back from life's challenges and we all have the capacity to do Wilma McCann, 28, Leeds, October 1975Emily Jackson, 42, Leeds, January 1976Irene Richardson, 28, Leeds, February 1977Patricia Atkinson, 32, Bradford, April 1977Jayne McDonald, 16, Leeds, June 1977Jean Jordan, 21, Manchester, October 1977Yvonne Pearson, 22, Bradford, January 1978Helen Rytka, 18, Huddersfield, January 1978Vera Millward, 41, Manchester, May 1978Josephine Whittaker, 19, Halifax, May 1979Barbara Leach, 20, Bradford, September 1979Marguerite Walls, 47, Leeds, August 1980Jacqueline Hill, 20, Leeds, November 1980First book is Just a BoyTed talk link https://youtu.be/c7Mvjj8xxPo Twitter: https://twitter.com/iCanSpeaker Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardmccann/ Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
101: Your True North with Sarah Ibrahim

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 35:13


Sarah is now one full year clean from cocaine addiction and has been using the 20 years of lived experience and her subsequent training as a recovery coach to help bring others out of the darkness of addiction to dance with her in the light.  Sarah is a single mum to a 3-year-old boy who has been the catalyst for massive transformation in her life.  She strives to be her best for them both. A born leader, Sarah is using her skills, knowledge and experience to create a new recovery community to bring people together and support personal transformationsI met Sarah online and have always been impressed by her ability to be totally honest.  Not every day is great for her as she recovers but she's not afraid to show that vulnerable side of herself.She has been on a massive personal transformation and now feels that her purpose in life is to help others on their recovery journeySome key points from our interview:How unbroken means to her about retrieving all the broken parts of herself that had been lostHow she never believed that dabbling in drugs as a teenager would lead to a drug addiction and cocaine dependenceHow she's learnt through her personal journey of healing, that cocaine stopped her from feeling the hurt of her childhood abandonment issuesHow becoming a mum made her ask herself some important questions which led to her realising she needed to stop before it stopped herHow when she made the decision to quit cocaine, she felt she had to be accountable and chose to go public with her storyHow she realised that drugs never gave her confidence she thought they did, as that was always inside of herHow she's passionate about helping others to heal and recover from drug addiction and has no set up an online community called “Recovery Central”TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLxNHG3f/  IG: www.instagram.com/the_recovery_witch  FB Personal: www.facebook.com/therecoverywitch2911  FB Biz: www.facebook.com/therecoverywitch  FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/perpetualmotionwithsarah  YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/channel/UCxOdbVy_Cm4RRZ79MSswOjQHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling  

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
100: Right from Wrong with Jacob Dunne

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 39:57


Jacob Dunne is an author and consultant facilitating important conversations around criminal justice, education, and mental health.   He presented “The Punch” series for Radio 4 which won best factual series at the national radio academy awards 2021. Which followed Jacob's personal experience of Restorative Justice, how it has benefitted other perpetrators and victims of crime, and what the benefits might look like if we were to adopt Restorative approaches more broadly throughout society  He is a former Longford scholar and received a first-class honours in criminology from Nottingham Trent University in 2019 His debut book ‘Right From Wrong” published by Harper North was released on May 12, 2022, which he hopes will shine a light on the reforms and support needed to break an endless cycle of division and hopelessness I know Jacob from our involvement with The Forgiveness Project and was always so impressed by how he managed to turn his life around, after that fatal night when he threw a single punch which resulted in the death of James Hodgkinson Some key points from our interview:·        How he believes his inner child is in a state of unbrokenness and innocence·        How he struggled in his teenage years at school and found the experience degrading·        How he was labelled with ADHD, dyslexia and being on the autistic spectrum whilst at school·        How he feels he failed at school and had a negative belief system and eventually stopped going to school·        How he got involved with dealing drugs, being part of a gang and getting involved with fights·        How he was sentenced to prison at aged 19 after throwing an unprovoked single punch, which killed James·        How he met James's parents, Joan and David, through the Restorative Justice process as it felt he owed it to them to answers their questions·        How their concern about him and his future disarmed him·        How he recognises the importance of self compassion and compassion for others·        How he's passionate about sharing his story and talking about conflict and restorative justice to show people that anyone can turn things around with the right support"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling      

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
96: Kicking It- With Amy Connell

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2022 29:47


I met Amy at my Karate club and have witnessed her personal growth and achievements over the years and always been inspired by her grit and determination.  I think you will be too! She earned her first Scottish National Team cap at 14 and has been following her passion with the sport around the world since. She started an online business at 18 to allow her to pursue her passion and build an income alongside travelling and competing as a self-funded Karate athlete.  In 2015, she suffered a career threatening injury, with doctors saying she would not be able to compete again. Through two years of rehabilitation and persistence, she returned to competition going on to win British titles and a European medal. She uses this experience to help people going through tough times in their life and find the joy in every day.  Most recently, she represented Team GB in contention for the Tokyo Olympics for 2020. Wearing the tracksuit and representing Great Britain, was something she could have only dreamed of as a little girl. Some key points from our interview:·        How she believes that even the negative experiences in her life have been an opportunity for her to learn and grow from·        How she's always striving to be a better athlete and person through fitness and personal development·        How she recognises the importance of surrounding herself with positive people when she was injured and focusing on working on her mindset·        How she had to allow herself time to be heartbroken when her hopes of competing in the Olympics didn't happen·        How the discipline of being an athlete helped her to train both her body and her mind and feels she's much stronger now than before she was injured·        How she hopes her story inspires others that despite experiencing hard times, there is a way out·        How her practice of gratitude and looking for joy every day, helps her to remain positive "Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
95: Trauma Survivor with Lou Lebentz

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 39:40


Sometimes we meet people in life for the first time that we feel like we've known for years.  That was exactly what it felt like when I met my guest, Lou Lebentz, a few years ago through the PSA (Professional Speaking Association)She is a well-known UK psychotherapist, EMDR specialist, trauma clinician and Founder of “Trauma Thrivers” a hugely popular trauma informed Facebook community for those in recovery from trauma and addiction.  Previously, Lou worked in rehab at the Priory Hospital Roehampton, and before that, in both the Rag Trade and the Radio Industry.  The change in career choice made possible because of her own struggles with mental health and desperately seeking suitable treatment and wellnessLou's current mission now she recognizes trauma sits underneath most mental health conditions is to move beyond individual work so she can educate and trauma-inform groups.  Lou says, “If I could help enlighten as many people as possible on how to recognise and rectify trauma within themselves and others.  Not only would that help us all do the personal work required but we could also stop repeating the mass re-traumatisation within our society, our species and ultimately our world.Some key points from our interview:How she believes that human beings are unbreakable despite feeling broken at timesHow she recognises she had one trauma after another from a young age, but also feels affected by her mother's generational trauma How she was abused by a female babysitter at just aged four, but couldn't speak about it for many yearsHow she experienced sexual violence at 19 when she was raped How her avoidance of all the hurt and trauma led her to numbing out by using alcohol and believed that happiness was found in money and material things How she's grateful that her drink was spiked with LSD as it led her to psychosis, rehabilitation and weeks in a psychiatric hospital, but it was also a turning point for her and woke her up to her traumaHow she retrained as a trauma therapist to help others trauma survivors to shine againWebsiteshttps://traumathrivers.com/Socials https://www.facebook.com/groups/traumathrivers/https://www.instagram.com/traumathrivers_loulebentz/https://www.facebook.com/loulebentztraumathrivershttps://www.linkedin.com/in/loulebentz/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9oIwwwD_ZDlleY_WOpH9XwPodcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-trauma-thrivers-podcast/id1561794822Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbrokenYou can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
93: Untold Lies with Raga Olga D'Silva

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 38:12


Raga Olga D'SilvaI met Raga through social media when she asked to interview me and was instantly drawn to her.  She is warm, loveable and authenticWith over 25 years of experience in the creative field, Raga has worked in senior positions in advertising in India and New Zealand and has been the recipient of several prestigious awards.Raga is a co-founder of India's largest international speaker agency, Speaking Minds. Raga is a published author of Untold Lies, her debut book which received much love. Raga has been named as one of the top most Diversity & Inclusion Leaders by the World HRD Congress in 2022.  Raga was also named amongst the Top 100 wonder women in advertising, marketing, and entertainment in 2021. She is on several DEI Boards, including Sony Pictures and Aristocrat. Raga is a host of several online shows, including Coming out stories from India. Raga is a known advocate in the LGBT space. A two times TedX speaker, Raga is an established voice in the LGBT community and engages with corporates around the world on intersectionality, LGBT lived experience and being aware of our Unconscious Biases.Raga is currently writing three books, scripts for OTT web series and working on her first short film. A story that Raga wrote during lockdown is being made into a feature film by Onir, an award-winning filmmakerSome key points from our interviewHow she believes that she has been broken many times, but putting the pieces back together makes her feel that she remains unbrokenHow she has now created a better version of herselfHow most of her life she felt trapped when she was growing up in the slums of India with an alcoholic fatherHow when her mother discovered that she was gay, she tried to stab her as she was so ashamed How Raga herself recognises she was homophobic towards herself for many yearsHow it took many years for her to accept herself, stop lying to herself and others and live her life as a gay womanHow she's now passionate about speaking out to help shift the culture, conditioning and biases present in communitiesSocial media: Instagram/Twitter: @Totally Out NowYoutube channel : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFuR9o3OCaH5WvFm03upHXwTedX talk: 50 & Out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Visx4Ps2J4ATexX talk: Will you Cancel me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pd_8wdMZFoU&t=408sHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbrokenYou can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
92: Bonus Time with Brian Pennie

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 37:35


Brian Pennie is an author, speaker, PhD candidate, university lecturer, and life-change strategist. His life used to be very different, however. On October 8 2013, he experienced his first day clean after 15 years of chronic heroin addiction.Addiction nearly killed him, but on that fateful day in October, he received a gift. Call it what you will: a perspective shift, an awakening, or simply dumb luck — that's not important – what matters, is that it completely changed the course of his life.In what seemed like an instant, the world seemed to glow. Colours were more colourful. Sounds were more cheerful. Things that were once hollow were now full of depth. He felt more alive than ever before and he hasn't looked back since.He says:"Captivated by this sudden change, I started to question why I felt so alive. I didn't see it at first, but then it hit me. It had tortured me my entire life. The voices in my head, the stories that I spun myself – the ones that drove my anxiety and, in turn, my addiction – they were gone. For as long as I could remember, thinking had consumed me – my mind racing about what I thought needed to do – but the voices were silent and my anxiety was gone. The race was over and my new life had begun."Some key points from the interview:-How addiction had him early on, but he could not see it.-How his addiction forced him to lead a double life.-How he catches himself if he becomes anxious or thinks negative thoughts.-how he is "Schizophrenically Normal"-How he studied a load of self help, and the revelations that came.-How, after his awakening he had a desire to help others.-How the "Words we speak become the world we live in"Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
91: I talk to angels with Beverley Densham

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 34:51


Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
90: A Song Inside - With Gill Mann

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 35:15


Gill Mann is a psychotherapist and author. She started working life as a lawyer but finally found the courage to follow her heart and re-train as a therapist - and has never regretted it for a moment. She has worked within the NHS, a university counselling service and in private practice. Longer-term work – with its potential for changing lives - is her passion. Writing has always been Gill's other passion but in 2014 it became a lifeline. She learned that her son, Sam had died while travelling overseas. For two years she kept a journal, writing about him and her grieving. She found herself addressing Sam too - there was so much still to say. Another bereaved mother read Gill's journal, and urged her to publish it, saying it had made her feel much less alone. Gill's memoir, A Song Inside, was published by Retreat West Books in July 2020.I was introduced to Gill by another of my podcast guests, Claire Dyer.  Reading her book brought up so many questions for me and I wondered how she coped with all the unanswered questions she might have I think when people hear the word Schizophrenia, they are a little scared by that label, so it was really refreshing to have an open discussion to what it looked like for her as a mother with a son who had that diagnosis We also discuss her grief journey and readjusting to her world that will forever be changed.Some key points from our interview:How she feels that unbroken is about surviving even though the trauma of losing her son, Sam, has had a huge impact How she was determined not to let her trauma build a brittle shell around her to avoid her pain How despite her concerns about Sam, it would take a meeting with several family members for her to be listened to and for him to be diagnosed with schizophreniaHow writing and talking about Sam helps to end the schizophrenia stigma How as a mother she struggled with guilt and regret and feels it's a natural responseHow she had to learn and process her complicated grief through her new changed world Website: https://www.gillmannauthor.co.ukHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
89: Happiness is a Choice with Holly Matthews

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 43:31


Holly Matthews is Former TV actress (Waterloo Road, Casualty & Byker grove) a widowed Mum of 2, a Self-Development Coach & founder of The Happy Me Project. The Happy Me project is an online and in person, straight talking self-development programme, podcast and online membership.Holly's Ted Talk has been watched by over 150,000 people and she has appeared on Lorraine, BBC, ITV, Talk Radio and featured in The Daily Mail, Mirror, The Sun, Closer, Hello, Psychologies Life Labs and Spirit & Destiny and Prima Magazine.Holly's relatable and raw approach to self-development has her teaching people how to feel ‘more happy and less crappy' in a way that reaches those that never thought self and personal development' would be for them.I had met Holly online and she seemed to be genuine, but I guess I was intrigued by how she had learnt to be so resilient, positive and have such a strong mindset, as It had only been a few years that she became a young widow, with two small children when her husband Ross died from a brain tumour.Some key points from our interview:-How starting her acting career at just eleven years old taught her how to bounce back-How even as a child she practised self-development-How her husband was diagnosed with a brain tumour at twenty-nine years old-How they both made smart choices with their careers and money which gave them the luxury of not working for Ross's final year -How she learnt to find a way through her grief by allowing her to be where she was at-How she recognises that she still has bad days and that's ok too-How she encourages her children to experience their loss and deal with their grief-How she has learnt to pack her better days full of life and joy as she recognises that pain is temporaryYou can more info about Holly and her Happy Me project here:Website: www.iamhollymatthews.comMembership:https://www.iamhollymatthews.com/happymeprojectmembership/"Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling

Radical Audacity in Love & Life with Tiphany Kane
Unbroken: Healing from Trauma Through Storytelling with guest Madeleine Black

Radical Audacity in Love & Life with Tiphany Kane

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 58:10


(Episode Note: This episode contains discussions of rape and sexual trauma)Madeleine Black has an unusual personal story that she uses to inspire and motivate others.  She chose to forgive the two men who gang-raped her at thirteen years old and she shares her story for many reasons.Madeleine wants to end the shame, stigma, and silence surrounding sexual violence enabling others to find their voice, whatever their story is.  She wants people to know that it's not what happens to us that is important but what we do with it.  Madeleine is passionate about discussing how changing her mindset tapped into her resilience and transformed her life, making people question their own thinking and encouraging them to see that there are always choices to make, and if we choose to, we can get past anything that happens to us in life both professionally and in our personal life.  She wants to encourage others to live their life courageously too; but ultimately she wants to inspire hope and show people that we are all so much stronger than we think we are.Madeleine Balck is a 2x TEDx speaker, a psychotherapist, a podcaster, and an author. Madeline's memoir, Unbroken, was published on April 4th 2017.Contact Madeleine:Book - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Unbroken-Journey-Shattered-Violence-Survival/dp/1786062763Facebook – www.facebook.com/MadeleineBlackUnbrokenTwitter – www.twitter.com/madblack65Instagram – www.instagram.com/madblack65Instagram – www.instagram.com/unbrokenthepodcastwithmbLinkedIn – www.linkedin.com/in/madeleineblackspeaker444YouTube – www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbrokenPodcast: Unbroken: Healing Through Story TellingContact Tiphany:DM Tiphany on Instagram: @tiphanykaneHeck Yes! Newsletter: click here to get the NewsletterHeck Yes! Facebook Group: click here to join the FB groupHeck Yes! Membership Group: click here to join the membership group

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
88: It's OK with Aaron Cargill

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 31:18


Aaron runs a mental health inspired clothing brand called It's Okay. It's Okay was founded from a spell of severe depression and a close suicide attempt, luckily he was able to fight his way back and create a brand that's foundations are to support, spread MH awareness, fight the stigma and not leave anyone behind. With each and every sale they donate 10% of their profits to designated monthly focused charity, to ensure that everyone gets a shareSome key points from our interview:How he recognises that his depression started after experiencing so much loss and trauma in such a short period of timeHow he was forced back to his hometown after his divorce which was where he grew up and suffered a turbulent childhoodHow he found the courage to speak out about his depression, but it took a few attempts to find the right supportHow he couldn't have come back from depression without speaking out, his therapist and his dog WillowHow he's passionate about overcoming the stigma of mental illness for everyoneHow he's speaking out to improve mental health and share mental health tips on his websiteHow he's started a clothing brand with a heart that also offers support for people experiencing all types of mental health issues; it's so much more than a fashion brand Website: www.itsokclothing.comHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
87: Day by Day with Polly Vickery

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 32:40


Polly got in contact with as she had listened to the show and felt it was time to tell her own story of personal trauma and grief.  This is the first time she has spoken out publicly and I was profoundly moved by our conversation.In 2019 Polly was on holiday in France with her husband and their ten-month-old son. They were driving home from the beach when their car was hit by truck. Her son was killed instantly, and her husband Larry died in hospital a day later. She was trapped in the back of car and airlifted to hospital where she was put into a coma and woken up 3 days later. She was sure her son had died but thought Larry had just been knocked out but was then told he had died as well. She was left unable to walk due to broken pelvis and spent 3 months in a wheelchair after she finally left hospital.She started to work on recovering physically and mentally. She decided to have another child and went on to have Florence by sperm doner… in the meantime she also met her current partner, Ben. Before the accident she ran a fashion label with her sister, all very east London hipster, but gave it up when she had Max and got a proper job before she got pregnant. She has even pitched on Dragons Den! She's now a web designer and living back in Bristol.She says “To outside world I have a wonderful life, but it's marked by the worst tragedy”Some key points from our interview:How she feels that even though part of her life stopped very suddenly after the car accident, she chose to carry on livingHow she knew instantly when she saw her baby after the accident, that he had diedHow sometimes she looks back now and wonders how she has managed to cope with it all How her rehabilitation gave her a focus to heal herself both physically and mentallyHow even though she felt nervous about sharing her story she wants to show others that life goes onHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
86: Grandad Wheels with Brian Abram

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 39:00


Brian Abram is 64 and lives in Halifax. In 2013 he survived a horrific cycling accident that left him paralysed and a full-time wheelchair user.  After weeks in a coma and a year in hospital he returned home to a very different life. He then wrote a silly story to amuse his grandson, who was just 6 months old when he had his accident.  Encouraged by others, (including Quentin Blake who said, “It's an impressive piece of work,”) he self-published his first book in 2019.  Two years later there are now four books.  He now spends his time doing lots of school visits to raise awareness about disability and to show kids that being in a wheelchair, is no barrier to having fun.Everything he makes is donated to charities that help people who have suffered a spinal injury like me. So far, he's raised just over £28,000 for the Spinal Injuries Association and Back Up Some key points from our interview:·        How he recognises that his body might have been broken physically inn his accident, but mentally he remains unbroken·        How his uses his positivity that he inherited from his mother and dark humour to help him·        How he met the woman who saved his life in the most extraordinary way·        How he first decided to write a children's book for his grandson to explain why he was different to other Grandads ·        How he's now passionate about sharing his story in schools to raise awareness of life in a wheelchair and more importantly the fun he can still have“Nothing is forever; be patient” – Brian Abram You can get more info about Brian and his books here: www.grandadwheels.com You can read his personal blog here: www.thestrifeofbrian.com Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
85: Daffodils -With Louise Beech

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 37:11


I was so excited to interview the author Louise Beech, as I've not only read all of her books, both published and unpublished, but she's a dear friend too! It took many years and many rejections for Louise Beech to finally get a book deal in 2015. Her debut, How to be Brave, got to No4 on Amazon and was a Guardian Readers' Pick; Maria in the Moon was described as ‘quirky, darkly comic and heartfelt' by the Sunday Mirror; The Lion Tamer Who Lost shortlisted for the Popular Romantic Novel of 2019 at the RNA Awards and longlisted for the Polari Prize 2019; Call Me Star Girl longlisted for the Guardian's Not The Booker Prize and was Best magazine's Best Book of the Year 2019; I Am Dust was a Crime Magazine Monthly Pick; and This Is How We Are Human was a Clare Mackintosh Book Club pick.  Louise's memoir Daffodils will be released in audiobook 1st April, exploring a shocking family suicide attempt and a difficult childhood. Nothing Else, her eight novel, will be released 23rd June. Today we are going to explore writing a memoir and how that impacted her... Some key points from our interviewHow even though she felt like she had been broken in the past, she's not unbroken as she was never truly brokenHow she reversed her decision in writing her memoir after her mother jumped off the Humber bridge and miraculously survived How she wanted to look back over her difficult childhood, childhood trauma and the challenging relationship with her mother to make sense of it and possibly retrieve some of her deeply buried memoriesHow growing up with a mother that has a narcissistic personality disorder shaped her into stepping into a mothering and nurturing role from a very young ageHow she knows that even though her mind has deeply buried memories around childhood sexual abuse, and she can't currently access them, her body knows and remembers the traumaHow from a very young age, writing has always been a therapy and escapism for her.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
84- From Chaos to Calm with Gen Edwards

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 38:11


Gen Edwards is an intuitive energy healer, born in Zimbabwe, and who lived in South Africa for a long time. She is currently loving living in Leeds, and healing globally! She is an accredited healing facilitator using The Emotion Code and The Body Code; and has been practising as a healer since 2015, when she got her first energy healing qualification. Gen has helped hundreds of people all around the world with emotional, physical and mental issues, by helping to sort out old, emotional baggage that no longer serves them and that leads to stress and disease. She works on the premise that our bodies have a powerful ability to restore our own health if conditions are right, so she tries to make the conditions right, with the right energy balance. Just before our interview she told me she was worried that she might not be a good fit for my show as she didn't have a big story or a life altering event, but has grown up with low self-esteem and a feeling of not being good enough and it would take till she was in her 50's to finally be happy with who she was and accept herself I reassured her that her story would resonate with so many people and it's great to show others that despite being in her 50's she was able to do the work and make the changes needed to reverse and change her mindset, thought patterns and behaviour  Some key points from our interview:·        How her definition of Unbroken is to be like a tree that can bend and sway in the wind and doesn't snap due to its resilience·        How she always knew at a very young age she had been adopted at birth·        How despite being adopted into a loving and supportive family, she always felt not good enough and had a mother wound·        How it would take till she reached her 50's that she decided to stop stuffing her hurt down and deal with her stuff·        How she was amazed when her energy healer asked her in their first Kinesiology  session “Who abandoned you?”·        How she decided to work on herself and has reached a peaceful and loving place and no longer thinks she's not good enough·        How she uses holistic therapies and alternative medicine to release trapped emotion and has trained in The Emotion Code and Body Code  ·        How she is passionate now about helping others to heal and transform with acceptance, gratitude and love for a more peaceful life Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling      

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
83: The Beauty of Pain with Enas Daeki

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 35:19


Enas was born in Libya, into a culture where women, though educated, often leave behind that education and potential, to become mothers and homemakers.  A tradition that she wholeheartedly respects and understands, yet her ambition as a little girl growing up in this culture, was to be all that she could be in her life. Wherever that would take her. She is a coach and mentor, currently training to lead international programmes, whilst also running Arabela Beauty Agency which she founded in the UK and it facilitates and establishes beauty brands She has had many painful experiences in her life but has been able to transform her pain into life lessons and she now says that the hardest of times have also been her greatest teacher. Some key points from our interview: ·        How despite feeling broken many times she recognises that she is unbreakable and feels as if she's walked through fire.·        How she felt unhappy of who she was for a long time and developed an eating disorder and emotional eating as a coping mechanism.·        How her life changed contrastingly when her family became refugees in the UK, leaving behind a life of privilege and comfort.·        How she decided to stay in the UK when her mother left to return to Libya once the civil war was over and how that decision means that her mother no longer speaks to her. ·        How she has learnt to develop a better image of herself and stops feeling guilty about things that weren't her fault through life coaching.·        How she's passionate about her personal development and wants to help others to be the best version of themselves too.·        How she's learnt to overcome her inferiority complex and is now a wellness warrior for herself and others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling  

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
82: Grit and Resilience with Dennis Relojo-Howell

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 30:09


I first met Dennis through social media when he asked me to be a guest blogger for his blog PsychReg.  I've watched it over the years, and it has grown.  It now includes conferences, academic papers, and a podcast too. When I ask people to be a guest, I ask them to send me a short bio, but his is definitely the shortest one I've ever received! He emailed me this – “Dennis Relojo-Howell is the founder of Psychreg and is the host of The DRH Show”  However, he has an amazing story of starting life in the slums of Manila where he lived with his family with no running water or electricity to becoming an international speaker, author and award-winning blog psychologist We discuss how living in the slums shaped his life and how he used education as his route out.  He has a passion now in teaching resilience as a skill, especially to young people also growing up in a challenging environment Some key points from our interview:·      How he's grateful for his childhood as it influenced and shaped him·      How he recognises he was salvaged by his parents when he was an adolescent when he experienced a disconnect from himself·      How his parents instilled the value of education to all three of their children who all have completed at least one university degree·       How he's used education as way for social mobility ·      How he believes that resilience is something that can be taught to everyone ·      How's he's passionate now about giving back by developing a resilience intervention using blogging for people living in low- and middle-income countries·      How he doesn't share his story to get pity but to show people with the right mindset, resilience and grit you can make positive changes to your life You can get more info about Dennis here:https://twitter.com/dennisr_howellhttps://twitter.com/wearepsychreghttps://www.youtube.com/psychregHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
81: Guardian Angel with Anneke Weemaes

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 35:04


Anneke is Dutch born and Australian bred. At the age of 21 she was about as bold as she could be. She took the step, like a lot of Aussies, to venture to Europe… for 6 months. 20 years later she finally returned. Broken, but she returned She survived the Belgium terror attack when Brussels airport was bombed in March 2016 and was close enough to feel the bombs, hear the screams. She was able to wipe the tears away from injured people and hold hands with those in pain… feel helpless for those she lost.  The wounds this experience had on her mind, heart and soul took a long time to heal. She had to relearn how to live, breath, eat and sleep.  Without the right support she wouldn't be here today, she wouldn't be able to talk with me right now and share with the value of ‘heart happy'.  Appreciating the small lights in life that give space for future hope.  Some key points from our interview:·      How she will not let anything defeat her and is determined to grow from her experience·      How her instinct was to go back into the airport and help where she could, despite the threat that there maybe more explosions from other bombs·      How her inner critique let her think that she was a failure following the bombing·      How it was only when she moved away from Brussels and back home to Australia that she got the emotional support she needed·      How she discovered that her day gets better when she looks for the joy and is grateful·      How she works on being kind to herself to make herself “heart happy”  You can contact Anneke here https://www.linkedin.com/in/annekeweemaesHosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.uk/Watch via YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/MadeleineBlackUnbroken You can listen to the full extended series of incredible stories on https://podfollow.com/unbroken-healing-through-storytelling 

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling
80: Second Chance With Tara Notrica

Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 41:34


Tara Notrica is 57 years old and a mother to 2 children, Jared, age 21 and Samantha, aged 17. She's been married to Barry for 24 years and they live in New York Prior to becoming ill with a rare disease called Mast Cell Disease, she was a Special Education Teacher/Administrator. Her disease causes her to have anaphylactic episodes from multiple triggers, which can cause anaphylactic shock Since there is no cure and very few medications for her disease, her transplant doctor and Tara decided to proceed with having a transplant.  In July 2015, she had an autologous stem cell transplant using her own stem cells. In June 2018, she had an allogeneic bone marrow transplant from an unrelated donor.  However, due to various complications, she was hospitalized extensively at MSKCC in New York City.  Her story has been made into a documentary called “Second Chance” featuring all original music co-written and recorded by Samantha The full documentary will be available to the public in Spring 2022, after it has finished completing the film festival circuit Some key points from our interview:·        How despite feeling that her body is semi broken, she feels that her spirit, courage, and resilience remains unbroken·        How whatever is going on with her health she always tries to persevere·        How it took five years before she would receive her diagnosis·        How her resilience developed by her determination to be here for her children and desire to watch them grow up·        How despite her many health conditions she still finds time to lobby for changes in the law to offer transport to children whose parents are unable to take them to school due to ill health·        How she's determined to raise awareness about rare diseases and stem cell transplants·        How her daughter Samantha has recorded nine separate songs for the documentary “Second Chance” which reflects all the different topics they went through as a family   https://www.instagram.com/taranotrica/Instagram-TaraNotrica Trailer Link/Film Information www.4thcoastproductions.com/secondchancedocumentary "Unbroken: Healing Through Storytelling" features  individuals who have all triumphed after adversity and have not just bounced back in life, but forward and are now making a difference for others.Hosted by Madeleine Black, the show will share stories of all the amazing people Madeleine has met on her own journey as an author/speaker and these stories will heal, motivate, inspire and bring hope when they share their wisdom and knowledge with her.She really believes in the power that comes when we share our stories, that in fact we are not story tellers but story healers. Tune in to discover what helped them to stay unbroken and together we will discover that none of us are broken beyond repair.You can find out more about Madeleine, her story and her memoir, Unbroken,  from her website: https://madeleineblack.co.ukWatch the edit on You Tube as well! https://youtu.be/-NfVe_jb0ag   

Flip Your Lid with Kim Honeycutt
Madeleine Black: Rape Survivor And Thriver

Flip Your Lid with Kim Honeycutt

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2021 55:47


Trigger Warning: This episode contains sexual violence. In this episode, Kim Honeycutt interviews Madeleine Black, who was violently assaulted. They discuss the behavior that happens after trauma, how to have fulfilled relationships moving forward, and more about her powerful story of healing.  Madeleine Black's Bio: I have an unusual personal story which I use to inspire and motivate others. I chose to forgive the two men who gang-raped me when I was thirteen years old, and I share my story for many reasons. I want to end the shame, stigma, and silence surrounding sexual violence, enabling others to find their voice, whatever their story is. I want people to know that it's not what happens to us that is important but what we do with it. I will show how changing my mindset tapped into my resilience and transformed my life, making people question their own thinking and encouraging them to see that there are always choices to make, and if we choose to, we can get past anything that happens to us in life both professionally and in our personal life. I want to encourage others to live their lives courageously, too, but ultimately, I want to inspire hope and show people that we are all so much stronger than we think we are. The sharing of my story publicly on https://www.theforgivenessproject.com/madeleine-black (The Forgiveness Project's website) in September 2014 opened many doors for me in ways I never imagined, and the invitations started to pour in. Many women and men got in contact and explained how reading my story gave them strength, hope, and a different perspective of what's possible in their lives. I have taken part in both TV and radio interviews and has been invited to share my story of being gang-raped as a teenager at conferences, book events, schools, etc. I recognize that I was a victim of a crime that left me silent for many years but has now found my voice and intends to use it. Not just for me, but for so many who can't find theirs yet.