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Walking the Fairways segment of The Golfing Greenkeeper Podcast is proudly brought to you by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Dint Golf Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.dint.com.au and ⁠⁠Colin Campbell Chemicals⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.campbellchemicals.com.au There's lots going on around Australia and right here is where you will get all the info you need to stay up to date.In this episode I give you an update as to the extent of the recent floods that hit the NSW Mid North Coast with some details on just how much rain had fallen. There's also some course updates from NSW, Victoria, South Australia, and the Northern Territory.I have a new guest, Superintendent Ben Stacey from Tasmania Golf Club, jumping on to give us an update just what has been happening on another fantastic Hobart golf course, and Nigel Taylor joins me for an update into his Dirty Dozen year long quest all in an effort to raise awareness for mental health in the sports turf/greenkeeping industry.If any of the discussions in this podcast raised concerns with your mental health you can contact:Lifeline (Australia): 13 11 14 or visit ⁠⁠www.lifeline.org.au⁠⁠Beyond Blue (Australia): 1300 224 636 or visit ⁠⁠www.beyondblue.org.au⁠⁠MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978 or visit ⁠⁠mensline.org.auYou hit 'em clean and we'll keep 'em green!⁠⁠The Golfing Greenkeeper - Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Golfing Greenkeeper - Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Golfing Greenkeeper TV - YouTube⁠⁠Send me an email to - thegolfinggreenkeeper@gmail.comPeople and places mentioned in this podcast:Dint Golf Solutions - Instagram & Facebook⁠Colin Campbell Chemicals: Behind the Turf Podcast - Spotify⁠⁠Colin Campbell Chemicals: Behind the Turf Podcast - Apple⁠NSW STA Apprentice Day ASTMA Conference 2025⁠ASTMA Turf Trade Show RegistrationCorowa Golf ClubCarpentaria Golf ClubTwin Creeks Golf & Country ClubRoyal Hobart Golf ClubBunbury Golf ClubThe Dirty Dozen - InstagramThe Dirty Dozen - FacebookTasmania Golf ClubNambucca Heads Island Golf ClubPacific Dunes Golf ClubNewcastle Golf ClubClub TareeMacksville Country ClubKew Country ClubForster Tuncurry Golf Club - Tuncurry CourseKooindah Waters Golf ClubMassey Park Golf Club⁠Glenelg Golf ClubWilunga Golf CourseHeidelberg Golf ClubJabiru Golf Club

What if the strength we praise is the very silence that’s killing our men? In this deeply human episode of Sarah’s Thoughts, Sarah Grynberg reflects on the tragic loss within the Selwood family, a name etched into the heart of Australian sport, and the quiet crisis that continues to unfold in locker rooms, households, and hearts across the country. You’ll learn: *Why emotional silence is still rewarded—and how that’s costing lives.*What resilience really means beyond grit and performance.*How we begin to rewrite the script for our boys, one conversation at a time. This isn’t an episode about sport. It’s about survival. And it’s time we started listening. Before it’s too late. If you are in need of mental health support, please do not hesitate to reach out to MensLine Australia or Beyond Blue. Purchase Sarah's book: Living A Life Of Greatness here. To purchase Living A Life of Greatness outside Australia here or here. Watch A Life of Greatness Episodes On Youtube here. Sign up for Sarah’s newsletter (Greatness Guide) here. Purchase Sarah's Meditations here. Instagram: @sarahgrynberg Website: https://sarahgrynberg.com/ Facebook: facebook.com/sarahgrynberg Twitter: twitter.com/sarahgrynberg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The newspaper is full of the Adam Selwood tragedy and the Eagles win and the value of a ‘mental health round'.   Everyone knows a hashtag or a football round might make us feel a bit better but the issue is way deeper than that.   Asking RUOK? is a touch better but way more needs to be done.. Research into what works and what to do when some things don't work.. Answers -- practical, science based, proven strategies Healing stories, not just problem stories. Too many mental health talks are on the problem and the problem stories, and not enough on the stories of transformation and healing..   Topics to teach, train, coach and mentor people of all ages in:   Destigmatisation Resilience building Mindfulness training Internal and external ecosystem management Etc etc   The recent podcast I did with @Bryn Edwards, where he said ‘this is not a mental health crisis, it's an emotional health crisis'   The acknowledgment, expression and processing of emotions'   From an NLP point of view - state management..   Dr Peter Symons and his book Brain-Fuel Depletion and the recent seminar I MC'ed with Peter and Dr Clyde Jumeaux plus the many calls and discussions I have had with old mate and long-term mental health researcher and advocate Neil Cole and our great work with BlokesTalk BeachSide and the work with Paul Litwin and Mens Talk AU shows how men in particular need to feel OK about talking to someone about how they feel on the inside..   In a recent conversation with a past client who is involved heavily with Veterans and PTSD.. as he says, 'asking RUOK is not the Question.. asking on a scale of 0 to 10 how are you feeling?' is a far better question..     If you are under 5... let's talk about it..   We go into much further detail in this podcast including the structured Holistic Psychosocial Lifestyle Audit & Action Plan based on Rapoport's lifestyle dimensions—Family, Work, and Leisure—with integrated areas including Emotional Intelligence, Rumination, Stress Load, and Internal Chemistry.   This self-assessment helps evaluate key domains influencing mental health and offers tailored recommendations based on the results..   Find out more about Blokestalk Beachside here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2264593520407275   What number should you call if you have depression?     In life-threatening situations, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. If you are suicidal or in emotional distress, consider using the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Call or text 988 or start a chat online to connect with a trained crisis counselor. For people who need support with depression, anxiety or suicidal thoughts: Lifeline provides 24-hour crisis counselling, support groups and suicide prevention services. Call 13 11 14, text 0477 13 11 14 or chat online. Suicide Call Back Service provides 24/7 support if you or someone you know is feeling suicidal. Call 1300 659 467. Beyond Blue aims to increase awareness of depression and anxiety and reduce stigma. If you or a loved one need help, you can call 1300 22 4636, 24 hours/7 days a week or chat online. MindSpot is a free telephone and online service for people with anxiety, stress, low mood or depression. It provides online assessment and treatment for anxiety and depression. MindSpot is not an emergency or instant response service. Call 1800 61 44 34. Medicare Mental Health gives advice and will connect you to local mental health services. Call 1800 595 212. MensLine Australia is a professional telephone and online counselling service offering support to Australian men. Call 1300 78 99 78, 24 hours/7 or chat online.   #mentalhealth #suicideprevention #brainfueldepletion #mentalhealthmatters #blokestalkbeachside     

Walking the Fairways segment of The Golfing Greenkeeper Podcast is proudly brought to you by Colin Campbell Chemicals⁠⁠ www.campbellchemicals.com.au and Dint Golf Solutions⁠ www.dint.com.auThis episode of Walking the Fairways sees me chatting with Greens Director of Ashgrove Golf Club, Simon Putral in Brisbane, and Superintendent of Lakelands Golf Club, Richard Flesser, on the Gold Coast, to gain an insight into just what they experienced from Tropical Cyclone Alfred. We chat about damage done on their respective golf courses and I also discover how quickly they are able to recover!Also included is my 1st time experience of a game at Moore Park Golf Course just a few days ago. I was joined by lead spokesperson of the Save Moore Park Golf Course campaign, Jared Kendler, for a short round of the back 8 holes, which is the location of the where the NSW State Government are planning to repurpose the public golf course to make way for a public park. What I experienced was nothing short of amazing!I'm also joined on this episode by Nigel Taylor for an update of his Everesting Challenge that he is embarking on to raise awareness of mental health.You hit 'em clean, we'll keep 'em green!If any of the discussions in this podcast raised concerns with your mental health you can contact:Lifeline (Australia): 13 11 14 or visit ⁠www.lifeline.org.au⁠Beyond Blue (Australia): 1300 224 636 or visit ⁠www.beyondblue.org.au⁠MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978 or visit ⁠mensline.org.auPeople and Places mentioned in this podcast:Ashgrove Golf ClubLakelands Golf ClubHope Island Golf ClubSanctuary Cove Golf & Country ClubPalm Meadows Golf ClubMoore Park Golf Coursewww.savemooreparkgolfcourse.com.auThe Dirty Dozen (Nigel Taylor) Instagram The Dirty Dozen (Nigel Taylor) FacebookBehind the Turf Podcast

Walking the Fairways segment of The Golfing Greenkeeper Podcast is proudly brought to you by Dint Golf Solutions www.dint.com.au and Colin Campbell Chemicals www.campbellchemicals.com.auOn this episode of Walking the Fairways there's extensive news from right around Australia! You'll get an insight directly from Jared Kendler, board member and lead spokesperson of Moore Park Golf Collective. Jared provides us with an update of where everything is at regarding the NSW State Governments plan to cut Moore Park GC down to 9 holes and the Moore Park Golf Collective groups alternative proposal that has been put forward to not only retain 18 holes of golf but also increase other public recreational offerings on the site.There's lots of information regarding the opening of a number of completely renovated golf courses that are now open for play including Mount Lawley GC and Nedlands GC in Perth, along with the exciting redesigned NSW GC by UK based architects MacKenzie & Ebert.We hear from Royal Perth Golf Club Superintendent Pat Casey about the opening of the recently completed stage 1 works of their golf course masterplan designed by co architects Clayton Devries Pont (CDP) and Kruse Golf. And there's an update about the mouthwatering prospect of preview play at 7 Mile Beach Golf Course in Hobart, Tasmania.Join me on this lap around the country brought to you by new podcast partners Dint Golf Solutions and Colin Campbell Chemicals.You hit 'em clean and we'll keep 'em green!If any of the discussions in this podcast raised concerns with your mental health you can contact:Lifeline (Australia): 13 11 14 or visit ⁠www.lifeline.org.au⁠Beyond Blue (Australia): 1300 224 636 or visit ⁠www.beyondblue.org.au⁠MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978 or visit ⁠mensline.org.au⁠People and places mentioned in this podcast:Lakelands Golf ClubGold Coast Festival of GolfMoore Park Golf CollectiveMoore Park Golf CourseBallina Golf & Sports ClubBlackheath Golf and Community ClubKew Golf ClubRiversdale Golf ClubClayton Devries Pont (CDP)Kruse Golf - FacebookArm End Golf Course7 Mile Beach Golf CourseGlenelg Golf ClubRyan Van Der VeenRoyal Perth Golf ClubMount Lawley Golf ClubWanneroo Golf ClubNedlands Golf ClubBusselton Golf ClubHartfield Country ClubNigel Taylor - The Dirty Dozen Everest Challenge

Allan is one of Australia's most highly decorated citizens, being one of only five Australians in the past 49 years to receive Australia's highest bravery decoration, The Cross of Valour, awarded in 1998 for saving the life of a small boy trapped in a flooded storm water pipe in Coffs Harbour. In 2016, for another lifesaving rescue, Allan was awarded Australia's fourth highest bravery decoration, the Commendation for Brave Conduct for his rescue of an aboriginal man from the path of an incoming train at Redfern railway Station. In 2017 Allan was awarded the Medal of the Order of Australia (OAM) for service to Mental Health Support organisations and the community. He is the recipient of the NSW Police Commissioners Valour Award (VA) and the Royal Humane Society of NSW Galleghan Award. He is one of only 10 Australians to receive the Queen's Diamond Jubilee Medal, the Queen's Platinum Jubilee Medal and the Kings Coronation Medal. In September 2022, Allan was invited by St James Palace to attend the funeral of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II where he took part in the Chivalry and Gallantry Procession during the funeral proceedings. Allan is a 20 year veteran of the NSW Police force, and of recent times, a Deputy Commissioner of the Mental Health Commission of NSW. "Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of mental health issues, including topics related to suicide, which may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care while listening, and remember support is available if you need it. If you or someone you know is struggling, consider reaching out to one of these resources: Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention) Beyond Blue – 1300 22 4636 (support for mental health issues, available 24/7) Suicide Call Back Service – 1300 659 467 (24/7 support for people at risk of suicide and those affected by it) Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800 (free counselling for ages 5–25, available 24/7) MensLine Australia – 1300 78 99 78 (24/7 support for men dealing with family and relationship issues) For young people, Headspace offers online and in-person mental health support at headspace.org.au.

A recent honours thesis from University of South Australia student, Luigi Donnarumma, has investigated the relationship between social media and men's body image - particularly muscle dysmorphia, a form of body dysmorphia often seen in men, resulting in feelings of not being muscular or strong enough. TuneFM caught up with Luigi to discuss his paper, and the impacts of muscle dysphoria on young men. If you or a friend need help, you can contact LifeLine on 13 11 14, or MensLine Australia on 1300 78 99 78.Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/tunefmSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Mediation is meant to be a pathway to resolution, but what happens when one party has no intention of settling? In this episode we explore the troubles and solutions of mediation, offering practical tips on how to navigate manipulative tactics and protect your mental health. Whether it's property or parenting arrangements, this is an informative guide on what you can potentially expect before, during, and after mediation to stay one step ahead. If you've ever worried about being stuck in a mediation that feels like a game rather than a genuine effort to resolve issues, this episode is for you. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalised legal advice tailored to your circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You:

  22.11.24 What Happens Next? What's Behind the Gender-Based Violence Crisis? | 98  Every nine days, an Australian woman dies at the hands of a current or former partner. In this episode of Monash University's “What Happens Next?” podcast, Dr Susan Carland and her expert guests expose the deep-rooted forces perpetuating violence against women.  Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon challenges our national security priorities, while former Victims of Crime Commissioner Fiona McCormack AM unravels centuries of patriarchal influence. Professor Jane Fisher illuminates the complex barriers facing migrant and refugee communities, Professor Steven Roberts and Dr Stephanie Wescott reveal alarming trends in our schools and Associate Professor Charles Livingstone exposes the hidden links between gambling addiction and violence. Discover how patriarchal systems, economic inequality and modern threats such as social media's manosphere and technology-facilitated abuse create a perfect storm of violence – and learn why Australia's current response falls dangerously short. A full transcript of this episode is available on Monash Lens.   Learn more: Eliminating gender-based violence  Masculinity, part 1: It's a Man's World – “What Happens Next?” Gambling: A developing global disaster for public health   Australian resources recommended by our experts: Gender-Based Violence help: For anyone in immediate danger, call 000 for police and ambulance 1800RESPECT or 1800respect.org.au – Confidential national counselling and support service for people who have experienced, or are at risk of experiencing domestic, family and sexual violence, their family and friends and frontline workers 1800FULLSTOP (1800 385 578) – National violence and abuse trauma counselling and recovery service WhiteRibbon.org.au Rainbow Sexual, Domestic and Family Violence Helpline – 1800 497 212 13YARN (13 92 76) – A national crisis support line for mob Men's Referral Service (1300 766 491) – A service for men who use family violence Mensline Australia (1300 789 978) – telephone and online support for men in Australia Gambling help: 1800 858 858 or gamblinghelponline.org.au Information about the crisis: Ourwatch.org.au – Quick facts about violence against women RespectVictoria.vic.gov.au – Research and resources “What Happens Next?” will be back next week with part two of this series, ‘How Do We Build a Future Where Everyone Feels Safe?', the final episode of season nine.   If you're enjoying the show, don't forget to subscribe, or rate or review “What Happens Next?” to help listeners like yourself discover it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

BONUS mini episode: Divorce is a challenging journey, and there are so many things we wish we'd known before starting out. In this special episode, I share three key insights I learned along the way—insights that could save you time, stress, and money. From setting firm boundaries to creating a clear plan and building a strong support system, these lessons are invaluable for anyone facing separation or divorce. And there's more! Next week, we're hosting a free, live webinar designed to support you wherever you are in your divorce journey. This session will cover everything from practical advice on setting boundaries and protecting your finances to tips for handling high-conflict communication. Join us for actionable insights and a live Q&A session with my mum, a family law expert. Webinar registration link https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/divorcewebinarregistration Listen to This Episode If You:

If you've ever felt that your ex is using the legal system to keep you trapped or that you're facing ongoing harassment, this episode provides the support and strategies you need.  Divorce may mean separation, but sometimes, for those dealing with high-conflict exes, the abuse continues well after the split. In this episode, we discuss five key strategies to manage and escape post-separation abuse purgatory. From court misuse to constant control tactics, this episode offers crucial help for protecting yourself legally, emotionally, and financially.  Listen to This Episode If You:

When going through a divorce or de facto separation, one of the biggest questions you'll face is: Should I settle, or should I go to court? In this episode, we take an in depth look into the reasons why people choose to settle and why others decide to hold out for court. We discuss the risks, costs, and personal factors that play into this decision, while also highlighting potential pitfalls and traps that could influence you to settle too early or too late. Whether you're in the early stages of property settlement or nearing mediation, this episode will help you think critically about your own situation. Listen to This Episode If You:

This is a legal and emotional boundary check episode for you where we discuss 10 critical legal and emotional boundaries that are essential to maintain during this process. From communication and financial boundaries to setting clear limits on social media and handling high-conflict exes, this episode is packed with practical tips to help protect your emotional well-being and legal standing. Whether you're in the early stages of divorce or deep into the process, setting boundaries is crucial for navigating the journey with more clarity and peace of mind. Listen to This Episode If You:

What happens to your income, expenses and savings in the time between breaking up and official separation and getting final property orders? In this episode we take a look into what happens to your income, expenses, and savings during this in-between period. We discuss how the Family Court of Australia usually treats savings, the importance of documenting expenses, and how your wages may be considered. Whether you're squirrelling away savings, managing a joint account, or figuring out how to navigate expenses after separation, this episode provides crucial insights to help you protect yourself during property settlements. They also tackle the concept of "ad backs" and when they might apply. Please note that this is a general discussion and everyone's situation is different so please do not make any legal decisions based on this podcast discussion, always see a lawyer who knows the full facts of your case before making any decisions. Listen to This Episode If You: 

Whether you're going through a rough patch where stress is affecting your quality of life... through to dealing with anxious feelings that just won't go away - this episode is for you. We chat about the various natural approaches to supporting yourself if you're dealing with stress or anxiety - in addition to professional mental health care. If you're struggling mentally, we also recommend reaching out to one of these organisations for urgent and immediate support:

Do you ever wish you had a time machine to go back and give yourself advice before starting your divorce journey? In this episode, we share valuable insights and tips from listeners who have gone through it all. Together, we will break down some of the most important things people wish they had known before starting the process, from not rushing into decisions to custody issues. They also discuss some of the key mistakes to avoid, especially in high-conflict or narcissistic divorces. Whether you're just starting out or deep into the process, this episode will offer practical advice to help guide you through your divorce with more confidence and clarity. Listen to This Episode If You: ❓ Wonder how to gather the right information and evidence to protect yourself.

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When going through a divorce and dividing assets, there's an essential factor that many people overlook or have no idea about: future needs. In this episode, we discuss what "future needs" mean in family law in Australia, how they are considered by the court, and how they can significantly affect the division of property. From your health and age to your earning capacity and children's future, understanding these factors is crucial for a fair property settlement. We also touch on the future needs factors outlined in Section 75(2) of the Family Law Act and discuss how to navigate property settlements both inside and outside of court based on the four divorce personalities, high conflict, manipulative and controlling (narcissistic types), amicable and avoidant.  Listen to This Episode If You:

Are you wondering if you really need a lawyer for mediation or family dispute resolution? In this episode, we discuss the ins and outs of mediation and whether you really need a lawyer by your side. Explore the different types of meditations, the pros and cons of having legal representation, and pick up some helpful tips for those on a tight budget who may not be able to afford a lawyer. If you're wondering how to approach mediation in your divorce journey—whether it's about property settlements or children's matters—this episode will provide valuable insights to help you make a decision. Listen to This Episode If You:

The DARVO method—Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender—is a tactic often employed by narcissists in legal battles, particularly during divorce or family court cases. In this episode, we shed light on the DARVO strategy and share eight essential ways to protect yourself against it. Whether you're facing family violence court, property settlement agreements, or a child custody battle, these insights will empower you to stay calm, gather evidence, and ensure your truth is heard. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You:

Are you feeling like your lawyer isn't telling your full story? In this episode, Laura and Lynette dive into the issue of legal gatekeeping and how it can impact your divorce case. They discuss why it's crucial for your lawyer to present all the relevant facts, including those that might be uncomfortable or distressing about Family Violence or Coercive Control. With new property legislation potentially on the horizon in Australia, it's more important than ever to ensure your story is heard, whether it concerns property settlements or children's matters. Tune in to learn strategies for advocating for yourself and making sure your experiences are properly represented in court. Trigger Warning this could be distressing or triggering for victim survivors of family violence or coercive control.  Listen to This Episode If You:

In every divorce, there are two primary positions people find themselves in: sitting pretty or completely overstressed. In this episode, Laura and Lynette break down these common divorce dynamics and provide strategies to help you navigate whichever position you're in. Whether you're feeling trapped in a gilded cage with everything provided for you, or you're overwhelmed with stress, paying the bills, and managing all the responsibilities, this episode offers practical advice on how to shift the balance and move forward in your divorce journey. Listen to This Episode If You:

Divorce is often described as a journey, and just like any journey, it requires navigation tools to get to your destination successfully. In this episode, Laura and Lynette use the analogy of driving a car to discuss how to handle the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. They break down the five essential "tools" you need to navigate this journey: your handbrake, gas pedal, reverse, steering wheel, and road map. Whether you're dealing with gaslighting, running out of steam, or simply trying to stay on course, this episode provides practical advice and emotional support to help you reach the other side of your divorce in the best shape possible. Listen to This Episode If You:

Divorce & property settlements are confusing enough, especially when it comes to recognizing all contributions. Educate yourself about some of the most overlooked non financial contributions you may have made that will help increase your percentage of the property pool.  In this episode, we discuss the often-overlooked aspects of contributions in property settlements, focusing on non-financial parenting contributions. Explore the surprising elements that might not be considered but can play a significant role in determining your part of the property pool percentage during divorce or de facto separation. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You:

Are you struggling to document and present your experiences of coercive control or family violence in your paperwork or to your lawyer, mediator , police, court or counsellor? Feel like you have to KEEP telling your story and you wish there was a better way? Whether you're preparing for mediation, court, or consultations with your lawyer, effectively communicating these experiences is crucial for your case. In this episode, we cover simple ways to lay out your coercive control or family violence experiences in an easy to read and use format. Lyn provides practical strategies to ensure your story is heard and understood, aligning your documentation with the Family Law Act, and presenting your case compellingly. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Listen to This Episode If You:

Custody handovers can be one of the most stressful aspects of co-parenting, often referred to as "handover hell." Whether it's a tense interaction with your ex or the emotional strain on your children, it's crucial to find ways to make these transitions as smooth as possible. In this episode, Laura and Lynette dive into practical strategies for handling custody handovers, discussing everything from setting clear boundaries to using neutral locations for exchanges. They explore how to make handovers less stressful for both parents and kids, and offer insights on future-proofing your handover arrangements to avoid common pitfalls. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Listen to This Episode If You:

Are you in the process of getting divorced and need to find the right lawyer for your case? Choosing the right legal representation can be daunting, especially during an emotionally charged time. In this episode, Laura and Lynette dive into the ten essential steps and questions you need to consider when selecting a lawyer. They discuss the importance of finding a lawyer whose experience, ability, and personality align with your needs, and they offer practical advice on navigating this crucial decision. Listen to This Episode If You:   -

In today's episode we are joined by Wayne Holdsworth to share with you his personal story of tragedy and now, activism. This episode discusses suicide so please only continue listening today if it feels right for you. We discuss suicide and the need for increased awareness and action regarding mental health challenges and suicide prevention. We cover the urgent need to protect children and teens from cybercrime and share with you the proposed legislation in Australia. We hope this inspires you to join our collective action to reduce our alarming suicide rates and implore media outlets to prioritise mental health stories and to continue to reduce the existing stigma and shame surrounding suicide.   Head to https://www.stephlowe.com/podcasts/493 for show notes, episode transcripts and more.   If this story has affected you and you need crisis support, please reach out to Lifeline. You can call 131 114, text 0477 131 114, or visit http://www.lifeline.org.au for web chat. These services are available 24/7.   Need help? Where to find support: Lifeline: 131 114  MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978  Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467        Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636  Sextortion: esafety.gov.au

Struggling with what to do with your ex's stuff after a separation or divorce? Whether it's a garage full of clutter, valuable memorabilia, or just everyday items left behind, dealing with an ex's belongings can be frustrating and emotionally draining. In this episode, Laura and Lynette discuss practical strategies for handling your ex's stuff, from boxing it up to negotiating its removal, all while considering the legal implications. They also explore how different scenarios—whether amicable, manipulative, controlling, avoidant, or high conflict—affect the process. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical tips to navigate this tricky aspect of post-separation life. (Remember to see your lawyer before doing anything about this issue as each situation is different.)   Listen to This Episode If You: -

Are you navigating a difficult divorce or separation? In this insightful episode, Laura and Lynette share five crucial steps to help you empower yourself through your divorce or de facto journey. They discuss how your actions, boundaries, self-affirmation, and standing up for yourself can significantly impact the outcome of your case. With practical legal education and empowering strategies, this episode is a must-listen for anyone facing a challenging breakup, especially if dealing with a high-conflict, narcissistic or manipulative ex-partner. Download the reflection worksheet that goes with this episode off our Patreon account. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Listen to This Episode If You:

Having to go into a witness box? About to go to a family court trial or a family violence hearing? Are you feeling anxious about stepping into the witness box? In this episode, we offer invaluable guidance on how to navigate this daunting experience. Whether you're involved in family law  court proceedings or dealing with family violence or domestic violence trial, this episode provides ten essential tips to help you stay calm and composed. DOWNLOAD OUR PRINTABLE WITNESS BOX TIP SHEET FROM our website www.thedivorcecourse.com.au go to the free resources tab. From understanding the importance of honesty to managing your emotions to the rules of the witness box, Laura and Lynette share practical education to ensure you present your best self in court. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Listen to This Episode If You:

Are you struggling to deal with and address post-separation abuse? TRIGGER WARNING: Listener Discretion Advised: Domestic & Family Violence, Post Separation Abuse, Coercive Control and Suicide is mentioned in this episode. In this helpful episode, we discuss the various forms of abuse that can persist even after leaving an abusive relationship and what you can do about it. Using insights from the "Purple Book," Laura and Lynette (a family law expert) explore the patterns of coercive control, the legal and emotional challenges survivors face, and practical strategies for protection and recovery. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding and find support on your journey to freedom. (Please always see a lawyer for independent legal advice this is just an educational discussion not legal advice) Listen to this Episode If You:

Ever wondered what the deal is when it comes to mortgages during a divorce or de facto separation under Australian law? In this episode, we tackle the daunting topic head-on. Together with my mother, Lynette Galvin, a family law expert with 35 years of experience, we address commonly asked questions about mortgage responsibilities, court handling of joint mortgages, and strategies for dealing with uncooperative ex-partners before you've gotten your property settlement. Whether you're dealing with domestic violence, financial uncertainties, or high-conflict situations, this episode provides some insight into this complex issue within the context of Australian law. (Please always see a lawyer for independent legal advice this is just an educational discussion not legal advice) Listen to this Episode If You:

In this special bonus episode of The Divorce Course Podcast, host Laura Furiosi and her mother, Lynette Galvin, an experienced family lawyer with 35 years of expertise, discuss the latest updates to the Family Law Act and to their course. Listen in to learn how these updates can guide you through your separation or divorce process more effectively. Key Insights: Recent Amendments to the Australian Family Law Act: The Family Law Act and the rules for the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia have recently been updated as of May 6. These changes are significant and have been incorporated into the course materials to ensure participants are well-informed. Course Launch and Updates: Laura and Lynette introduce the newly launched course, emphasising its step-by-step guidance from pre-separation to finalising divorce. There is now a new optional court support course open to  screened platinum members addressing the needs of those who may end up in court despite efforts to avoid it. Educational Empowerment: The course equips participants with the knowledge to effectively communicate with their lawyers and understand the legal process, especially with the new amendments. Real-life testimonials highlight the course's impact on participants, including successful mediations and favourable court outcomes. For more information on course structure see www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol  Additional Support and Resources: Weekly Q&A sessions with Lynette for personalised support. A newly launched app for easy access to course materials and lessons. Positive feedback from course participants underscores the course's value in navigating the complexities of divorce. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.   To sign up to do the course go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Useful Resources:   Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Are you facing a challenging divorce or separation and looking for ways to save on legal fees by doing some of it yourself? Do you want to take control of your situation and handle some aspects independently? Listen to this episode to discover "Five Things You Can Do Yourself Without Lawyers to Keep Your Costs Down." Laura, a divorced mother of three, and her mother Lynette Galvin, a family law expert with 35 years of experience, share practical steps you can manage on your own. From writing letters to attending mediation, this episode is packed with tips to help you navigate some of your separation on your own with confidence. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Listen to this episode if you: Are navigating a divorce or de facto separation. Want to reduce your legal costs. Feel overwhelmed by the legal process and want to take proactive steps. Need practical education on handling parts of your divorce independently. Are looking for ways to reduce stress and gain confidence during this challenging time. Are worried that the disclosure process or mediation process is going to drain away all the money you've got for legal fees. Smart Divorce Moves: Five Cost-Saving Tasks You Can Handle Key Points: Writing Letters: Tips on how to draft letters to your ex regarding your separation and property settlement. Figuring Out Your Property Pool: Get an overview of how to identify and value your assets and debts. Full Disclosure: Discover the importance of full disclosure and how to gather and organise necessary documents with or without your lawyer. Attending Mediation: Tips on attending mediation without a lawyer and what to expect might happen. Creating Parenting Plans: How to draft a parenting plan. Overcoming Barriers: Build confidence to tackle these tasks independently and save money. Seeking Legal Advice: Reminder to get professional legal advice tailored to your situation when necessary. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.   For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Episodes Mentioned Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Creating your own parenting orders or parenting plans with the 12 agreements DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support   Useful Resources: Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Listen to this episode if you: Are frustrated with a disclosure issue in your divorce proceedings. Feel stumped by disclosure hurdles on your journey to freedom. Key Ideas: Reframing Full Disclosure: Learn why the term "full disclosure" can be ambiguous and potentially derail your settlement negotiations. Importance of Specificity: Understand the significance of specifying the exact documents or information necessary for your case rather than demanding blanket "full disclosure." Leveraging Lack of Disclosure: Discover how the absence of disclosure from the other party can sometimes work to your advantage in court proceedings. Taking Proactive Steps: Explore proactive strategies for navigating disclosure issues and maintaining control over your divorce process. Reality Check: Gain insights into conducting a reality check on the importance of requested documents and the potential consequences of withholding them. Overcoming Disclosure Dilemmas: Your Path to Divorce Victory This episode provides valuable guidance for anyone grappling with disclosure challenges in divorce proceedings, offering practical tips and a fresh perspective on navigating this often-frustrating aspect of the legal process. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case. For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case. Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned    https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastforty (DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasteightynine (Disclosure: the what, why, when & how of disclosure for divorce or de facto separation.)   https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode116 (Deadlocks in Divorce Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights and Stonewalling)   Useful Resources: Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.  

Has your ex just told you that they are the bread winner so therefore in the divorce they will get most of the property settlement? Has your ex just quit their job so they avoid paying child support? Has your ex downplayed your contributions in the marriage. Or are you just plain confused about what is considered in divorce when it comes to income/salary/wages. Well this episode is for you. Learn about how salary and earnings impact property division and child support in divorce proceedings. We aim to demystify the most common misconceptions floating around at the moment and put your mind at ease.  Join our insightful discussion around the concept of earnings, and let us shed light for you on how the courts assess both financial and non-financial contributions when dividing assets. Additionally, learn about the concept of "future needs," which encompasses various factors such as earnings, age, health, and childcare responsibilities.  By the end of the episode, listeners will gain valuable knowledge and a clearer understanding of how the court strives for equitable, rather than necessarily equal, distribution in divorce cases. Key Points: Debunking the myth that higher income guarantees a larger share of the property pool. Understanding how courts evaluate financial and non-financial contributions during property division. Exploring the concept of "future needs" and its significance in divorce settlements. Recognizing the court's aim for equitable distribution, considering various factors beyond income alone. Learning about the word “CAPACITY” and what it means in the court and what it means for CHILD SUPPORT & PROPERTY SETTLEMENT Listen to this episode if you want to: Gain clarity on how salary and earnings impact property settlement and child support. Understand the factors considered by courts when dividing assets in divorce cases. Learn about the concept of "future needs" and its role in achieving fair outcomes in divorce settlements. Learn about what to do if your ex quits their job to try not pay child support. For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case. Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned  Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce   How to divorce a statue: 7 tips to divorce an avoidant ex even if they stonewall you or disappear.   Surprising issues that are irrelevant in divorce & separation proceedings. So you can focus all your efforts on the things that your mediator, divorce lawyer or judge will actually care about.   Property Settlement: What is Fair?   Useful Resources: Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.  

Everyone seems to start talking about the percentage split in divorce for property straight away. In this episode, you will learn about the dangers of negotiating property split percentages prematurely in your divorce proceedings. We aim to help you discover why it's crucial to prioritise understanding the property pool before discussing percentages, as well as the potential financial and emotional costs of jumping into percentage negotiations too soon.  Understand how focusing on property pool valuations can lead to smoother negotiations and prevent misunderstandings down the line.  Listen to gain practical tips for dealing with different divorce personality types, from amicable to high conflict, and learn strategies for navigating negotiations effectively. With valuable insights and cautionary tales, this episode provides essential guidance for anyone facing divorce negotiations, helping you avoid costly mistakes and achieve a fair outcome. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case. Listen to this episode if you want to: Learn why negotiating percentages early in divorce proceedings can be detrimental Understand the importance of focusing on the property pool before discussing percentages Gain practical tips for dealing with different divorce personality types Avoid costly mistakes and achieve a fair outcome in divorce negotiations   The Pitfalls of Premature PERCENTAGE NEGOTIATIONS in Divorce property settlement Don't Miss Out On These Key Points: The dangers of negotiating percentages prematurely in divorce proceedings The importance of understanding the property pool before discussing percentages Potential financial and emotional costs of jumping into percentage negotiations too soon Practical advice for dealing with different divorce personality types Strategies for navigating negotiations effectively and achieving a fair outcome For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.   Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned  Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation property Settlements   Five Proven Steps you can take to finally get that agreement for property settlement or parenting consent orders   Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce   Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Part 2 Non financial & financial contributions during and after marriage   Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Financial Contributions before cohabitation and how it affects your property settlement   Useful Resources: Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

In this episode, you will learn about the recent changes to family law in Australia and how they affect you. Discover the shift from equal shared parental responsibility to joint decision making, as well as the elimination of the presumption of equal shared care. Understand the importance of prioritising children's best interests and the revamped role of independent children's lawyers. Explore simplified consequences for breaching court orders and gain practical advice for adapting to these changes in ongoing legal proceedings. With a positive outlook and a wealth of insights, this episode will give you an overview of what you need to understand in order to navigate the evolving landscape of family law in Australia. Listen to this episode if you want to: Stay Informed: Stay updated on recent changes to family law in Australia. Understanding Amendments: Gain insight into key amendments affecting parental responsibilities and children's welfare. Legal Implications: Learn about the implications of legislative changes for ongoing family law cases. Practical Tips: Receive practical tips on how to navigate the new legislation in court proceedings. Expert Analysis: Benefit from expert analysis and interpretation of complex legal concepts. Impact on Families: Understand how the amendments may impact families and parental decision-making. Optimistic Outlook: Hear a positive perspective on the potential benefits of the legislative changes. Don't Miss Out On These Key Points: What's Changed in Family Law: Get the lowdown on the latest tweaks to family law in Australia, like the switch from equal shared parental responsibility to joint decision making. Find out how these changes affect who gets to make the big decisions for the kids and what it means for consulting each other on the important stuff. Equal Shared Care No More: Hear about the removal of the assumption that parents will share care equally and how that could shake up custody arrangements. Putting Kids First: Learn how the new approach prioritises what's best for the kids, focusing on their safety and happiness above all. When Can You Change Things Up?: Understand the rules for going back to court and the steps you need to take to make it happen. Lawyers for the Little Ones: Discover the expanded role of independent children's lawyers and how they might get to chat with the kids now. Breaking the Rules: Get the scoop on the simplified consequences for not sticking to court orders and what it means for those who play fast and loose. Stopping the Legal Drama: Find out about the new order aimed at shutting down the drama queens (and kings) who keep dragging their exes back to court. Posting About It: Learn what you can and can't share about your case, including a few sneaky ways around the rules. Time to Get with the Program: Realise why it's essential to address these changes if you're already in the legal process or gearing up to start.   For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case. Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned Decoding the Best Interests of The Children   Useful Resources: Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.  

Listen to this episode if you or a friend: Are nervous or unsure how to report domestic violence or coercive control to the police. Want to understand the process and what happens after you report it. Need guidance on evidence collection and seeking support. Are interested in safety planning and available resources. Seek reassurance and empowerment in navigating the challenging situations involving domestic violence. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence. If you feel triggered please call 13 11 14 Lifeline and someone is there to listen. Call 1800 Respect if you or someone you know needs support in this area. Call 000 if in immediate danger. In this episode, we speak with Inspector Dwyer, Manager of State Domestic Family Violence and Vulnerable Persons Unit in the Queensland Police. We discuss the step-by-step process of reporting domestic violence and coercive control to the police. Learn what happens inside a police station so you can take those next steps with confidence instead of being afraid of the unknown. Inspector Dwyer provides valuable insights into the steps that people can take, the evidence required, and the support available to them. Don't Miss Out On These Key Points: Understanding the Process: Inspector Dwyer outlines the process of reporting domestic violence incidents, emphasising the importance of collecting evidence such as witness statements or medical reports. Follow-up and Communication: Victims should expect proactive communication from police officers, who are responsible for keeping them informed about the progress of their case. Dealing with Insufficient Evidence: If you feel your case has been dismissed prematurely, seek advice from a domestic violence coordinator or specialist within the police station. Coercive Control: Report patterns of coercive behaviour to the police. Safety Planning: Create a safety plan with the help of domestic violence service providers to mitigate risks associated with reporting abuse. Interstate Orders: Orders issued in one state are recognized nationally, ensuring protection for victims even if they move or travel to another state. Training and Awareness: Details on how the Queensland Police Service has invested in extensive training for its officers to recognize and respond effectively to domestic violence situations, including victim-centric, trauma-informed practices. Empowerment and Hope: Inspector Dwyer underscores the commitment to eradicating domestic violence and offers reassurance that victims survivors have support and resources available to them. For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Inspector Melissa Dwyer Bio: Melissa joined the Queensland Police Service in 1991, following her completion of secondary education the year prior. Initially serving in uniform, Melissa was later appointed to the Redcliffe Criminal Investigation Branch, becoming the first female appointed to the CIB in that District. She gained extensive experience as a regional Detective, specializing in investigating rape offenses, including those committed within marriage, and leading investigations into domestic and family violence (DFV) homicides. After 13 years as a regional Detective, Melissa became the Officer in Charge of a Prosecution Corp, serving as the senior prosecutor for DFV and serious and violent crimes. In 2015, she was promoted to Senior Sergeant in the Strategic Policy Branch, where she played a key role in leading the Queensland Police Service's implementation activities associated with the recommendations of the Not Now: Not Ever Report. Currently, Melissa serves as the Inspector Manager of the State DFV & Vulnerable Persons Unit, where she was instrumental in implementing the DFV Specialist Courts, earning joint agency Prime Minister's awards and Commissioners Outstanding Awards. She also developed and implemented the Queensland Drug & Alcohol Court. Melissa has provided evidence at the Commission of Inquiry into Police responses to DFV and led the development of DFV frontline and specialist training for the QPS, earning accolades at the 2023 International ACWAP awards. Her training was endorsed by ANROWS as best-practice and shared to assist interstate training development. Melissa holds post-graduate qualifications in DFV and is actively involved in enhancing collective responses to DFV through membership on external Boards. Her experiences have fueled her desire to improve the system and change outcomes for women and children while holding perpetrators accountable.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.   Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned  Domestic Violence and how to get out of it Part 1   Domestic Violence and Family Violence Part 2   Coercive Control in Divorce and after Separation   Stalkers gonna stalk - How to deal with coercive control, tracking & harassment   Post Separation Abuse and what you can do about it.   Coercive Control: how you can help yourself or a friend & what you need to know about the legal changes coming   Child Abuse, Family Violence or Risk and the notice you need to fill in for the Family Court.   What you might be doing that you don't yet realize may have significant ramifications to your property, parenting or domestic violence matters   Family & Domestic Violence and how it impacts on your case in The Family Court   Four things you might not realise are coercive control and the questions to ask yourself to see if it might be happening to you.   Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter then & How it can affect your Property, Chlildren's & Domestic Violence Matters.   The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 1   The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 2 Useful Resources:   Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

This is the Pep Talk you didn't know you needed when going through your divorce or separation. This episode serves as both a pep talk and a strategic guide for you navigating divorce or separation. Learn about the importance of proactive communication, assertiveness, and informed decision-making when dealing with legal representation, your ex and the family court.  Ultimately, "Just Ask" serves as an empowering reminder that while divorce proceedings can be daunting, you actually have the agency to shape the outcome if you can confidently articulate your preferences and pursue what you and your lawyers believe is fair and just. TRIGGER WARNING: A quick warning: This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence & Child Abuse, Sexual Abuse. If you feel triggered please call 13 11 14 Lifeline and someone is there to listen. Listen to this episode if you need support in 

Tackle the sensitive issue of parental trash talk during divorce and its impact on your children. Lyn, a Family Lawyer and Specialist provides valuable insights into understanding the dynamics of trash talk, its effects on children's mental health, and strategies for co-parents to shield their kids from harmful conversations.  From navigating legal perspectives to empowering coping mechanisms, this episode offers guidance to help you create a supportive environment for your children amidst divorce proceedings. In this episode you will learn about: 

During your divorce effective communication is key.  But what happens when you get sent big long ranting letters that take negotiations in circles instead of to settlement. In this episode you will gain valuable guidance on managing legal correspondence with your ex-partner or their representation. Learn the art of decoding divorce legal letters with their seven-step approach.

In this empowering episode, a legal negotiation expert shares valuable insights on navigating the challenging terrain of divorcing a narcissist. With a focus on strategy, leverage, anticipation, and personal empowerment, Laura & Lyn provide a roadmap for you to not only survive but thrive in the face of a narcissistic ex-spouse. For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au

Living beyond the age of fifty and deciding to end a long-term marriage comes with its unique set of challenges and Laura and Lyn are here to help navigate those waters. With a blend of legal insights and personal anecdotes, this podcast serves as a beacon of support for those entering the uncharted waters of grey divorces   In this episode, the essential topics of asset division, spousal maintenance, gender roles, and future planning are explored. Gain some valuable insights into anticipating the involvement of adult children, the complexity of gifting during divorce, and tips on maintaining financial security through this challenging life transition.     From empowering older women to stand up for their rights to discussing the nuanced considerations of future needs and ill health in property settlements, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to those facing grey divorces.    For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case. Useful Resources: Protecting Property and Pre-Nups Episode CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. You don't want to miss out on the answer to these questions What are some common challenges faced by individuals going through a grey divorce? How does property division work in the context of grey divorces? Are there specific considerations for pensions and spousal maintenance in grey divorces? How can individuals protect their property in new relationships after a grey divorce? What role do traditional roles play in creating problems in grey divorces? How can reverting to traditional roles trigger separations in grey divorces? Do older individuals in grey divorces often find themselves in traditional roles, and how does it impact their relationships? What risks are associated with handing over finances to a new partner in a grey divorce? How can older women in grey divorces overcome the inclination to follow traditional roles and fight for their rights? What advice is given to older individuals with a traditional mindset to ensure they get their fair share in divorce negotiations? How are future needs considered in property division for grey divorces, and what makes it different from younger couples? How does ill health affect property division in grey divorces, especially when one party is significantly sick? Can adult children become involved in property settlement disputes during grey divorces, and what impact does it have on the process? Is it possible to give gifts to children during the property settlement process, and what are the legal considerations? How can individuals make the separation process less painful and more efficient in grey divorces? Why is it important not to delay bringing a property settlement application in court for older couples? What unique pressures are faced by older individuals in grey divorces, and how can they navigate these challenges? How can individuals rebuild their social circles and find support during and after grey divorces? What suggestions are given for leading a fulfilling life after a grey divorce? How can older individuals go about finding love again after a grey divorce?  

Mark McConville is a seasoned comedian and a respected lecturer in Suicidology. With over two decades of experience in the entertainment industry, he has become one of Australia's most reliable and professional comedians. Mark's academic journey in mental health is equally impressive; he graduated from Griffith University with a Master's Degree in Suicidology and received the Griffith Award for Academic Excellence in 2016. His work now bridges the gap between laughter and serious discussions about mental health, emphasizing the power of humor in suicide prevention. As an Adjunct Lecturer at The Australian Institute for Suicide Research and Prevention, Mark continues to enlighten and engage audiences with his unique blend of comedy and compassion.   Mental Health Resources Lifeline 13 11 14 Beyond Blue 1300 22 46 36 - for online chat (3pm-12am AEST) or email responses within 24 hours MensLine Australia 1300 78 99 78 Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 13 YARN 13 92 76 - 24/7 for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people SANE Australia 1800 18 7263 headspace 1800 650 890 youthbeyondblue 1300 224 636 Veterans Support Service 1800 011 046 PANDA (perinatal anxiety and depression) 1300 726 306 The Eating Disorders Centre (eating disorders) (07) 3844 6055 Butterfly Foundation (eating disorders) 1800 334673 QLife (LGBTI) 1800 184 527 Griefline 1300 845 745 Grow Australia (support through peer groups) 1800 558 268 Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 24-hour national telephone counselling and online service for people 18 years and over Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 Free confidential 24-hour telephone and online counselling for young people aged 5 to 25 years Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 24-hour telephone support and online chat service with links to local services e-headspace Online counselling for young people 12 to 25 years MindhealthconnectWebsite aggregates mental health resources and content from the leading health Blue Knot Helpline and Redress Support Service Supporting adult survivors of childhood trauma and adult survivors of institutional child sexual abuse around the National Redress Scheme Call 1300 657 380 helpline@blueknot.org.au 1800 Respect Support if you, or someone you know, is experiencing sexual assault or domestic and family violence. 1800 737 732 available 24/7 - Online chat - available 24/7 - 1800respect.org.au

As many of you would be aware, Justin's nephew Logan died at the age of 20 after taking his own life. Craig Bruce is the executive producer of the Happy Families Podcast, and provides a quick update on Justin and Kylie and what the podcast will look like over the next few days. Justin and Kylie will be taking a break to spend time with family, before we return on Wednesday, November 15th with a timely conversation with Colin Campbell. After the death of his two teenage children in a car accident, Colin wrote the book 'Finding the Words', a powerful account of how he navigated through unimaginable grief. From everyone at Happy Families, thank you so much for all of your comments, thoughts and messages at this difficult time, If you or anyone you know needs help, reach out to the following services: Lifeline on 13 11 14, Suicide Callback Service on 1300 659 467, Mensline Australia on 1300 789 987or Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.