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Join Paul in an all new episode, as he shares how to repeatedly make money doing flips!    Apply for mentorship program: https://form.jotform.com/240273740262349 Visit Stan Store: www.stan.store/paulproperty    The Show Transcript: Hi and welcome to the property side hustle podcast  Today, we're taking a long overdue look at the exciting world of property flipping – turning tired, neglected houses into stunning homes and substantial profits.  In today's episode you're going to learn the ins and outs of this fast-paced strategy, from finding the right deal to managing a refurb and then finally selling and handing over the keys to a happy buyer and banking those profits.   Property flipping, at its very core, is about buying a property below market value, renovating it quickly and efficiently, and then selling it for a profit.  It's not just about slapping on a coat of paint; it's a strategic process that requires careful planning, market knowledge, and a touch of creativity here and there. So, let's break down the key steps to flipping success.   First up we have step 1: The Hunt – Finding Your First Property Flip The first, and arguably most crucial, step is finding the right property.  You're looking for a diamond in the rough – a property with potential, but one that's currently undervalued.  Think about properties in need of cosmetic updates, outdated kitchens and bathrooms, or even minor structural repairs.  These are the types of properties where you can add significant value. Remember the whole point is you have to see a property you can add value and force that appreciation in price by way of a refurb. Where do you find these hidden gems?  Auctions are a great place to start, offering the potential for below-market-value purchases.  Keep an eye out for probate sales, where properties are sold quickly due to inheritance.  Networking with estate agents and attending property meetups can also give you access to pre-market deals.  Repossession listings can be a great source of deals, and you can access a list of repossessed property on a website called repolist.co.uk (you do have to pay, but it's worth it if you're looking to buy a potential flip) and also don't forget your good old online property portals like Rightmove and Zoopla are also valuable resources.  Remember, speed is often key in this market, so be prepared to act quickly when you find a promising lead as you might be up against other investors also looking at their next flip. Step 2: The Numbers Game – Crunching the Costs Host:  Before you even think about making an offer, you need to crunch the numbers.  This is where many aspiring flippers fall down.  Don't just focus on the potential sale price; meticulously calculate all your costs.  This includes the purchase price, of course, but also legal fees, stamp duty, renovation costs (be realistic!), also any holding costs (like mortgage payments and council tax during the renovation), and your selling costs (estate agent fees, etc.).   Get multiple quotes from contractors for the renovation work.  Don't just go for the cheapest option; prioritise quality and reliability.  Factor in a contingency fund for unexpected expenses – because, in flipping, there are always unexpected expenses!  And finally, be realistic about your profit margin.  Don't get greedy.  A healthy profit is good, but overpricing can lead to a property sitting on the market for too long, eating into your profits. There's market value and then there's priced to sell. So, think about those holding costs if you're going to take 6 months to sell the damn thing. You'd be surprised how many people forget this end of the flipping process.   Step 3: The Renovation – Transforming the Space You've secured the property, the numbers stack up, and now it's time to get your hands dirty – or, more likely, oversee the contractors.  This is where your project management skills come into play.  Create a detailed renovation plan, set a timeline, and stick to it as closely as possible. This is called a schedule of works – this details, what happens and when and in what order things will happen. It helps keep things moving along smoothly. Focus on the areas that will have the biggest impact on the sale price.  Kitchen and bathrooms are usually a good investment. (But you can easily over-spend here too, so does the kitchen need a complete over-haul, or can you use the units and just replace the doors and worktops? Doing this can drastically cut your costs by over half. Also look at kitchens and bathrooms on resale sites like Facebook marketplace as you may pick up an absolute bargain for an almost new kitchen or bathroom. Consider updating the flooring through-out but try stay away from that awful grey carpet. I remember years ago many landlords and investors would paint all the walls magnolia and the carpets would be a rough weave of magnolia too. Nowadays the colour is grey! Want to stand out when you sell, don't make it look like there's 50 shades of grey in your property, it's drab and it screams basic and cheap. Consider repainting and improving the curb appeal.  Don't forget the small details – things like new door handles, light fixtures, and landscaping can make a big difference. Talking of the garden most people overlook the outside spaces and just make it presentable and that's it. Getting a premium price means putting in some creative effort and most gardens are bog standard so if yours has some nice features then it will stand out a mile when marketed for sale. A nice garden can get viewings alone! Keep the style modern and neutral to appeal to a wider range of buyers.  And, of course, ensure all work is compliant with building regulations. If there has been any major construction work, like knocking down walls, building of extensions, new heating systems, new electrics etc then you'll likely need to ensure it all meets building regs standards and this will need to be certified before any sale takes place. So, get your ducks in a row and make sure you have this taken care off before advertising the property. Step 4: The Marketing – Showcasing Your Masterpiece The renovation is complete, and your property looks amazing. Now it's time to shout about it!  Professional photography is essential.  High-quality photos will showcase your property in its best light and attract more potential buyers.  Make sure the agent is aware of any stand-out features and have them write their best ever property description highlighting the key features and benefits. You might also consider using a property staging company at least for the photos. An empty property never photographs well. It's hard for potential buyers to picture which room is what and how they would live in the property. New builds have show homes for a reason, they sell the dream and have people signing up left right and centre because they fall in love with the décor and design of the furniture… Want a premium price? Consider staging your property there are many companies now who offer this for very reasonable rates. You've received an offer – congratulations!  Negotiate wisely but be prepared to compromise.  Remember, you're in the business of flipping, so holding out for the absolute top price might not always be the best strategy.  Once you've accepted an offer, work closely with your solicitor to ensure a smooth and efficient transaction. Delays with solicitors are often just one solicitor waiting for information from the other solicitor, so make sure that nobody is waiting around for you to provide information. And that's it!  You've successfully flipped a property.  Now you can take your profits and move on to your next project.  Remember, property flipping is a business.  It requires hard work, dedication, and a keen eye for opportunity. But with the right approach, it can be incredibly rewarding, both financially and personally but what's my takeaway from the strategy… Next up I'll share my thoughts but first... Are you struggling to make waves in property? Maybe you're ready to follow your passion for property, but you don't know how to start… Well, we have a mentor program that's unique in the UK. We offer select people an amazing package called property basecamp Unique, because we offer to work with you for as long as you need us too. We help you on your property journey every month, every day with support, guidance, help and education. Another unique part of all this is…. We don't charge an arm and a leg to support you ongoing… no we only charge one set fee, and we have payment plans if you'd prefer to spread the cost. That fee gets you a 1-2-1 video call every single month, that call is with me to help get your property journey set on the right tracks and to help you ongoing for as long as you need us. Plus, you get access to multiple online courses too and many other benefits. So, if you want help and a friend in your corner to support you and answer your questions 1-2-1 then apply for property basecamp today and if we think you're a good fit – we will be in touch with you. Make your property dreams and your goals reality with me at your side... In today's episode I have shared the basic process of property flips in the UK but what are my key takeaways I can share with you… What I know is success is 100% repeatable with flips if you follow a set-path and you don't make these very common mistakes. Rule Number 1: People often get their numbers wrong. They pay too much for the property, they under-estimate the cost of the works, and they over-estimate what they can sell the property for. This is super common and any one of these could completely wipe out any profits you may have had. It's vital your numbers are sensible without being over cautious. Rule Number 2:  We Get Emotionally Involved By this I mean I see time and time again that people, over develop and spend too much money. You're looking to improve a property not create the best 3 bed property on the planet. It's super common to see people putting in expensive kitchens and bathrooms with integrated appliances and top of the range gadgets. Yes, it's going to look amazing, but will you get that money back in the sales price? Probably not. My advice is to stick to a budget and to decide on the level of spec beforehand. You cannot go basing your investment on a spreadsheet before you buy and then during the refurb your spending extra cash left right and centre creating some dream home. By all means create a good end product but you need to not over-develop by getting emotionally involved. You're not going to live in the property. Its going to be sold, concentrate on the numbers at all times. Rule Number 3: Lack of Contingency OK so many people work out the assumed cost of the works and forget they need a contingency, or they have a very small contingency that is just not realistic. In my experience there will always be things that cost more than you expected. There are sometimes issues you uncover that you had no idea existed and now they need to be fixed. These things again can de-rail what was a great deal. My advice is make sure you have a 10% contingency on basic refurbs. If the refurb is back to brick and you know you have potential issues with damp, roofs electrics, structure then you need a 15% contingency on top of the assumed cost of works. That way you have what I call wriggle room, and it won't hurt your bottom line too much if at all. If you can avoid these mistakes, then property flipping is a fab way of generating an amazing cash-flowing property business. No tenants, no headaches with managing agents, no worries about non-payment of rent and a process that if followed in the right manner will repeatably give you success after success and put money in your bank. Now I speak with lots of people, and many are wanting to avoid tenant issues and looking at flips, so I hope you enjoyed this episode and it gave you food for thought… Remember if your looking for my help on your property journey then apply for property basecamp today over at psnpropertyblog.com or check the show notes for the links. That's it for today's episode please like and follow our podcast for more property insights, next time I'm going to be talking about another creative strategy so make sure you tune in for that one… Till next time, stay safe, and take it easy  

Rule Number 1 - assume everything you say is being recorded. You might know this already.  I bet there's someone working near you who's forgotten and could put your business at risk in 2025. Share this and remind them.  https://www.comsteria.co.uk

This week's talk is a look back to an episode from 2021. It's a more lighthearted look at things that get in our way, riffing off a great story from Zander and Zander's book The Art of Possibility. Maybe you, too, would benefit from remembering Rule Number Six? I'd love to hear your feedback, questions, and experience with these ideas! Send me a note at fycuriosity.com, or contact me on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter! I also post pretty regularly on TikTok.

Fire-bombings across suburban Melbourne have been terrorising citizens for the last 18 months. But why are they happening? And what can police do to counter act them? Former AFP Officer Rohan Pike joins host Brent Sanders to explain how high taxes and opportunistic criminals are leading to catastrophic levels of illegal tobacco being siphoned through Melbourne streets.  As well, a bank note production company - half-owned by the Australian Reserve Bank - allegedly bribed foreign officials in exchange for the right to produce their nation's currency. Hear how Rohan was brought in, and how he never would've expected the vast, global scale of the investigation.  Bribes worth millions, a string of dramatic Melbourne raids, and tension between Rohan, the AFP and the ever powerful Australian Reserve Bank….See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Osher explores rules 10-13 of his 101 RULES OF SHOWBUSINESS, including this beaut: Rule Number 13: Nothing works unless everything works. Every moment you're at work is a moment you're not with your family or doing something you love. Time is money and you only get so many hours alive, so don't waste either. To avoid days slowing down, budgets getting blown or work grinding to a halt - be helpful. For more (and every episode ever) head to oshergunsberg.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rule Number 3 is where it starts to get weird... Story from J Campbell Make sure to check out more of their work at u/Erutious    Cover Art from Zack Cy                     Original Post: Whispering Pines Memorial Forest : u/Erutious  Original YouTube link: I got a job in the sewers. WE HAVE STRANGE RULES     For more stories like this one, check out my YouTube channel: Lighthouse Horror | YouTube  Patreon: Lighthouse Horror | Patreon Merch: lighthousehorror.com  Music: Lucas King - YouTube Myuu - YouTube  Incompetech Darren Curtis Music - YouTube  Thank you for listening to this scary story! If you enjoyed this new creepypasta story, please check out some of my other horror stories. We'll be uploading new episodes every week, featuring ghost stories, haunted encounters, mysteries, true stories, creepypasta, and anything supernatural and paranormal. Don't miss out on the thrill and suspense that await you in each episode!

Rule Number 1 - only pick fights you can't lose. Rule Number 2 - learn to recognise when you're dealing with a winner. Some advice from Comsteria's Colin Kelly.

Speaker: Garry Evans Scripture Reading: 2 Timothy 3:16-17 Thank you for listening this week's Sunday morning sermon from Glendale Road Church of Christ in Murray, Kentucky. We would love for you to join us at any of our services: Sunday Morning at 9AM, Bible study to follow Sunday Evening at 6PM Wednesday Bible Study at 6:30PM If you have any questions or if we can be of service, contact us at 270-753-3714. You can visit our website at www.glendaleroadchurch.org. Have a blessed day!

In this episode, novelist Erin Flanagan reads from her thriller novel Come with Me and chats about writing novels, women with dark sides, her publication trajectory, the significance of women friends, and more with co-hosts Heather Fowler and Reine Dugas. The recipe for the Rule Number 6, the custom cocktail for this book, is on the Hot Redhead Media blog. Grab your copy of Come with Me now, make your Rule Number 6, and have a listen.

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The question of how to improve dog obedience boils down to one thing: in the eyes of your dog, who is in charge? When no leadership is in place, dogs usually take on the role of the leader... and this paves the way for bad behavior issues to arise. I always tell dog owners that if they want to see a significant improvement in dog obedience, they HAVE TO BE THE LEADERS. And Rule Number Three of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules — DOING EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN TERMS — helps dog owners become just that: the leaders dogs respect and trust. But what exactly does “DOING EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN TERMS” mean? What does it entail? And why is it such a CRUCIAL rule? Read on to learn more. Key Takeaways The dog who feels they can invade and control your space will be very protective of you because they feel that they're in charge. This is where behavior issues come in. Doing EVERYTHING ON YOUR TERMS helps establish that you're in charge, and you're the one calling the shots. Rule Number Three encourages dog owners to be the ULTIMATE decision makers for everything that involves their dogs. From feeding, to affection, to leisure, exercise — everything should be your call! LEARN HOW TO IMPROVE DOG OBEDIENCE WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE™️ Table of Contents: How to Improve Dog Obedience: Recap of Doggy Dan Golden Rule Number 1 and Rule Number 2 Rule Number Three: How To Improve Dog Obedience By Doing Everything On Your Terms How to Improve Dog Obedience: The Story of a Woman with an Aggressive Dog How to Improve Dog Obedience: The Dog Psychology Behind Rule Number Three If Dog Obedience Training Gets Hard, Remember These 4 Reasons Why Rule Number Three Is a Must-Do Conclusion: Learn How to Improve Dog Obedience + The Powerful Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules with the Dog Calming Code How to Improve Dog Obedience: Recap of Doggy Dan Golden Rule #1 and Rule #2 The common factor between these two rules are taking control and being the leader in your relationship with your dog. You see, most behavior issues come from dog owners not putting these rules in place. And through the lens of dog psychology, without these rules, your dog has no other choice but to be the leader instead. So here's why Rule Number One and Rule Number Two are essential pillars in dog training. Rule #1 of Doggy Dan's Five Golden Rules: Controlling the Food The goal of Rule Number One is to help dog owners understand that for dogs, FOOD IS NOT JUST FOOD. The power of food is HUGE and dog owners can really use their dog's daily meals to teach BIG lessons. Dogs regard FOOD as a treasure. It's their lifeline. When they have it, life could not be better. FOOD IS EVERYTHING! And when you take control of the food, it sends a powerful message to your dog about who is really in charge. IMPROVE DOG OBEDIENCE WITH THE RIGHT FOUNDATION, CHECK OUT DOG CALMING CODE NOW Rule #2 of Doggy Dan's Five Golden Rules: Delaying Acknowledgment After Separation Rule Number Two is inspired by how wolves operate in the wild. Every after separation, wolves would go to their leader NOT TO SHOW AFFECTION but to actually see if the Alpha is still capable of providing food and protecting the pack. Our dogs are domesticated, but they still operate like this! Some dog owners would say “My dog is just so affectionate. They just want to reconnect with me.” In the eyes of your dog, it's a different story. They're also checking on you, eager to see if you truly are a capable leader. Delaying acknowledgment or attention is like an Alpha's way of assuring the other pack members “Don't challenge me. I am still the leader.” Rule #3: How To Improve Dog Obedience By Doing Everything On Your Terms In the first two rules, we really stress the idea that your pup should see you as their food provider and as the confident leader who can handle anything that comes their way. For Rule #3, the golden rule is EVERYTHING ON YOUR TERMS What does it mean? In every interaction, only two things can happen: you do everything on your terms OR your dog gets the upper hand and does things on their terms. Being in control and being in charge DOES NOT STOP with food and affection. Decisions like where to go, what to do, where to potty, when to give hugs and pats, and when to train, are your call. It's like this: your dog should know when it comes to decision making, YOUR word is the green light. BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG'S EYES WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE™️ Why? Why does it matter that YOU give the go signal for everything? Because dogs ARE ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR THE ONE WHO IS IN CONTROL. They are also VERY PARTICULAR WITH HIERARCHY. Dogs actually play mind games with us. A dog's cuddles and bid for attention, DO NOT ALWAYS MEAN AFFECTION. It's always their way to check if YOU ARE A WORTHY LEADER. You can counter these games by showing to your dog “No, in this house, I call the shots. Everything's on my own terms.” However, in my years as a top dog trainer, I have seen a lot of dog owners fall into the trap of letting their dog INVADE THEIR SPACE. DOGS KNOW SPACE and they know getting into your space means they're challenging your leadership. Here's a quick example... Let's say your dog is being affectionate to you. They come up to you and start licking your arms for attention or a pat, or they jump up to share your seat. Now, giving them a pat or a cuddle SEEMS HARMLESS, RIGHT? But this is where most dog owners get it wrong: the moment you give in to ANY request, you are letting them invade your space without your consent. Your dog will think they're in charge. After all, THEY requested, and YOU answered. It's telling your dog that they — not you — are the actual leader. LEARN MORE ABOUT THE DOGGY DAN GOLDEN RULE #3 WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE How Rule #3 of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules Improve Dog Obedience by Communicating YOUR Leadership Here's a quick disclaimer: I AM NOT SUGGESTING YOU COMPLETELY IGNORE REQUESTS FROM YOUR DOG. In truth, I encourage you to listen to your dog's needs. Our dogs require love, food, and plenty of playtime from us! And as dog owners, that's our responsibility. However, the general rule here is EVERYTHING MUST BE ON YOUR OWN TERMS. You can give your dog a treat, or a hug or a pat WITHOUT indulging to your dog's every request. You are NOT going to deny food, but YOU control when to give the food, what to give, and how to discipline a dog's approach to mealtimes. Of course, you can play with your dog! But making the decision what to play, when to play it, where to play it is yours alone to make. When you do this, there will come a MAJOR shift to how your dog views you and themselves. DOG CALMING CODE: HOW TO BECOME THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG'S EYES! The dog — the rowdy, restless, anxious, aggressive, and even resistant one — who previously saw themselves as the Alpha will start to look up to you, THEIR BELOVED LEADER! How to Improve Your Dog's Obedience: The Story of a Woman with an Aggressive Dog I received a phone call one day from a woman who called me about a concern she had with her aggressive German Shepherd. Her dog had barking issues and was very aggressive to anyone getting near the property! The family was seriously considering putting him down. She was a smart dog owner who was already following Rule #1 and Rule #2. But she was still having major issues and her dog had started to bite strangers. “What would you do, Dan? My big dog is still aggressive to everyone!” I then asked if the dog was constantly asking for pats and cuddles. “Hang on! Yes my big dog loves asking for pats and cuddles! All the time!” I immediately knew what was wrong. He was always being rewarded whenever he invaded her space and demanded attention! Remember: a dog who feels can freely invade and control your space is far more likely to over protect you and react to anything that comes near you. This explains her dog's aggression, and why the dog bites! He felt like he was in charge and was being very protective of his owner! LEARN MORE ABOUT DOGGY DAN'S FIVE GOLDEN RULES WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE! I told her to put Rule #3 in place. EVERYTHING should be on her terms. A day or two after the call she cancelled her appointment, so I rang her up to check on what happened. “It worked, Dan! His aggression stopped after I followed your suggestions. Not giving in to his requests has changed him!” I can still hear the excitement and disbelief in her voice! What made the difference? Through Rule #3, she was able to let him know “Hey, I can handle myself. Thank you, but I don't need protecting.” Can you imagine? The dog who was previously chasing and biting people, and barking excessively around the property, FINALLY calmed down! How to Improve Dog Obedience: The Dog Psychology Behind Rule #3 These are three of the biggest reasons why Rule #3 resonates with our dogs. Dogs Always Check for the Leader For dogs, hierarchy makes them feel that everything in life is right and in order. Dogs thrive in packs... after all, they share 99.998% of their genes with wolves! And because they belong in packs, having a leader is a must. Our dogs are relentless when it comes to keeping the leader in check. The leader must be capable of protecting and providing. It's a risk if they're not! This leadership check-up continues even with our domesticated dogs. One of the BEST WAYS to tell your dog “I'm fine, I can lead” — inspired by dog psychology — is to call the shots and do everything on your terms. When your dogs can depend on you and your decisions, they will trust you as their leader. DOGS NEED YOU TO BECOME THE LEADER! LEARN HOW WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE! Dogs Naturally Assume the Role of the Leader The moment they get into your home, dogs naturally seek out who's in charge. You can see this in the way they challenge everybody. You might think “Did I get a bad dog?” The answer is NO. It's simply this: the dog has assumed the responsibility of being charge, and feel the need to control everything that's happening around YOU. If they don't see you in control of their food, you are not the leader. If they can easily invade your space, you are not the leader. If you give in to requests, you are not the leader. So what choice do our dogs have? BECOME THE LEADER INSTEAD. AND BECAUSE LEADERSHIP MEANS PROTECTING YOU, your dog is always uneasy, and even anxious. They may resort to barking and leash pulling, and can show more signs of separation anxiety. Leadership is ESSENTIAL for dogs to thrive, and if the dog can't get it from you, they will assume it. Dogs Don't See Us As Equals And because dogs don't see us as equals, they can easily feel that they're ABOVE us. Obedience problems come up, they don't respond to your call, and no matter what you do they remain aggressive. You can nip the problem in the bud with the Five Golden Rules of leadership in place. AND I KNOW IT'S HARD! I empathize with that: you love your dogs, you want to shower them with all the love! DOG CALMING CODE: THE ONLINE DOG TRAINING PROGRAM FOR IMPROVING DOG OBEDIENCE But your dog DOESN'T SEE YOU AS THEIR EQUAL. It's either you're the alpha, or simply a pack member who needs all the guarding and protection. Dogs are not inherently bad; they don't disobey just because. Leadership is simply not there. If Dog Obedience Training Gets Hard, Remember These 4 Reasons Why Rule #3 is a Must-Do Any loving dog owner can find Rule Number Three challenging! After all, we just really want to give in to what our dogs ask from us. So if following Rule #3 becomes challenging, here are some facts to remember. When Dogs Know You Are the Leader, They Are Calmer Let's bring all the first three rules together and discuss how they play out through the lens of dog psychology. If you control the food, your dog will be able to switch off from being constantly on guard and protecting the family. They can relax, knowing someone else in charge. This is when you start seeing them nap a lot more during the day :) DOG CALMING CODE: THE ONLINE DOG TRAINER PROGRAM THAT MAKES DOGS CALMER AND MORE OBEDIENT If you delay acknowledgment after separation, your dog will see you're still a most capable leader even after being away from them. It shows your dog YOU CAN PROTECT AND PROVIDE. Once you start doing everything on your own terms — from feeding, to training, to leisure, to exercise — your dog will understand they really don't have to make the decisions. There's you! You know what to do! All these rules make a calmer dog! They're protected! No matter what happens, they're in good hands! And a calmer dog performs better in training and in real life! When Dogs See You As a Leader, They Listen and Obey More An endless supply of the best treats in the world means nothing if your dog doesn't see any reason to obey you. Why should they listen to you when they're busy finding food, protecting the property, and staying on the lookout for threats? This is why I don't agree with shock collar training or overusing treat training. They would never work UNLESS you know what pushes dogs to listen and obey.   Establishing Your Leadership Helps Improve Dog Behavior Just like in the story of the woman and her German Shepherd, you won't only see a change in dog obedience, but in your dog's overall behavior. Dogs can overcome food aggression because now they know someone else is in charge of food. It's no longer a life-or-death issue for them of protecting the food. Separation anxiety also improves because your dog will no longer see you as a pup they need to protect. You're now the Alpha! Not a pup in danger. Recall training can also come with lesser resistance because you embrace your role of the leader in such a solid way that makes dogs say “Yes, I will listen and obey!” LEARN THE FULL DETAILS OF THE DOG CALMING CODE HERE! Being a Leader in Your Dog's Eyes Builds a Stronger Relationship I always say this: the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules is a surefire way to making your dog TRUST AND LOVE you. You're showing you are an Alpha — the one that protects and feeds the pack — and the leader of the dog pack that can't be swayed or toppled by brute force. And after you check the boxes off your dog's “Is This Human Still Capable of Taking Care of Me” checklist, their respect for you will grow because you're their lifeline. You control the food. You are the giver of affection. You do everything on your own terms. Your dogs can happily say “Well, someone's here to protect me now. I better chill and listen to their instructions.” It's just so beautiful how dog psychology works! DOG CALMING CODE: IMPROVE DOG OBEDIENCE WITH DOG PSYCHOLOGY Conclusion: Learn How to Improve Dog Obedience + The Powerful Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules with the Dog Calming Code Improving dog obedience — when done right — will not call for force or fear. Once operated within the rules of dog psychology, improving dog obedience will be less harsh but FAR MORE EFFECTIVE. By following Rule #3 (together with Rule #1 and Rule #2) you will find a more effective way that will surely leave a mark on your dogs. Now, if you're new to the concept of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules, you might have questions about Rule #3 such as: Is it OK for my dog to sit on the couch with me? What do I do when my dog invades my space? When my dog drops their toy on my feet is this invading my space? If I deny my dog's request for attention, when can I pat my dog? Can I pat my dog when he is sitting by my feet? My dog barks at me if I don't give her attention, what should I do? How long should I wait until I take my dog for a walk? How do I make my dog see me as the leader if I have a very big dog? Can I let my dog on the bed? And if so, when? ...and so much more. My program, the Dog Calming Code talks extensively about Rule Number Three and the Five Golden Rules of Dog Training. If you're a dog owner looking into improving both dog obedience and dog behavior, this is your comprehensive and complete guide. You can learn more about the Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code here.   ~ Doggy Dan 

Rule Number Two of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules always surprises dog owners who are new to the concept. If viewed through the lens of human psychology, Rule Number Two can make any dog owner go “But oh, isn't that going to hurt my dog's feelings?” After all, Rule Number Two is about delaying acknowledgement after a moment of separation from your dog. As a trainer who has seen the Five Golden Rules successfully adopted by over 88,000 dog owners, I'm here to tell you that in the eyes of your dog, observing Rule Number Two is ESSENTIAL in gaining their respect and love. And no, it will not hurt their feelings

On this inspirational episode I discuss Rule Number 2 from the book, The Energy Bus. This book is written by author Jon Gordon. We deep dive into the meaning of having desire, understanding the vision and staying focused on the end in mind. The Energy Bus says that Events + Perception/Positive Energy = Outcome. In other words, there are lots of things you've got no control over, but what you do control is how you perceive those events. So, by choosing to have positive thoughts, rather than negative ones, you can achieve better results.If you enjoy funny, clean, positive & inspirational content then you definitely don't want to miss this one! Support the show

Curse of Politics was created by Air Quotes Media with support from our presenting sponsor TELUS, as well as CN Rail.David Herle, Scott Reid, Jordan Leichnitz and Kory Teneycke provide insights on the latest in Canadian politics. Plus, our weekly segments #Clippings + #HeyYou!Thank you for joining us on #CurseOfPolitics. Please take a moment to give us a rating and review on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts or your favourite podcast app.Watch conversations from Curse of Politics via Air Quotes Media on YouTube.

Hey Lackers! In this episode Joe and Brad do something crazy and get serious! They collectively review a chapter from Jordan Peterson's, 12 Rules For Life. Stand up straight with your shoulders back. It is an episode not to be missed! It is a true C- review. So come on, hit rock bottom with us!Follow us on our social media:https://www.facebook.com/lackingfundamentals/ https://www.instagram.com/lackingfundamentals/ https://twitter.com/Lackingfundame1lackingfundamentals@gmail.com

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A conversation between Squiz Kids' Bryce Corbett and Australia's eSafety Commissioner, Julie Inman-Grant about the importance of teaching kids to be media literate. Specifically, how Newshounds - Squiz Kids' new, free media literacy program for primary school kids - and the eSafety Commission's 'Mighty Heroes' campaign are together working to keep kids safe online. LINKS: eSafety Commission's 'Mighty Heroes' Fun characters designed to help students have positive safe experiences online and develop good habits when using technology.  Mighty heroes | eSafety Commissioner Mighty heroes student page | eSafety Commissioner The Mighty Heroes complement the 0-5yrs, Swoosh and Glide education material which can be used to teach lower primary students how to make good choices when they are online. Teachers can read the picture book to the class or read along with the video, and then explore the puzzles with students. Swoosh, Glide and Rule Number 5 | eSafety Commissioner  For both age groups - the eSafety Commission provides Family Tech Agreements Family tech agreements | eSafety Commissioner Squiz Kids 'Newshounds' An eight-part podcast + classroom activity booklet teaching kids to be critical consumers of media. Sign-up for a free account at www.squizkids.com.au

Even with the uncertainty in the market and the slowdown of the economy, the land is still selling, and there are investors out there looking for the right opportunities and waiting to buy it at a profit. So, if you find something that matches what you are looking for, it is a great opportunity. Don't be scared because other investors are nervous right now. Learn how to see value in a farm that is on the listing that the seller and the listing agent can't recognize and ways to add value to a farm that is currently not there. Take some advice from one of the best investors of our time and learn how to apply it to your land purchases in the future.  Today's episode, November Special, is power-packed with tips and insights from Warren Buffet's investing rules that you should consider when it comes to buying and selling land. Warren Buffet is one of the world's most successful financial investors and CEO of Berkshire Hathaway. Warren follows investment principles that many investors are now adopting around the globe. His strategy follows several important tenets and investment principles that we will look at in this episode.  Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Episode intro; November Special  [09:51] Hunting season; Jake's experience out there hunting deer all-day [03:54] Ten Warren Buffet land and selling buying quotes  [04:56] Be fearful when others are greedy and greedy when others are fearful [06:08] Rule Number one, never lose money; rule number two, never forget rule number one [07:15] If you're not willing to own stock for 10 years, don't even think of owning it for 10 minutes [08:33] Price is what you pay; value is what you get  [09:38] Risk comes from not knowing what you're doing [10:24] No matter how great the talent or efforts, some things just take time.   [11:20] Act slowly and decisively and let your money continually compound [12:24] The most important investment you can make is in yourself. [14:29] Episode wrap-up and call to action  Notable Quotes  A 50% loss requires a 100% gain to get even; a 75% loss requires a 300% gain; focus on gaining, not losing money first. Nobody can predict what a stock can do the next day, week, or month; big money is investing for the long term. Never invest in something you don't fully understand; keep learning and researching until you understand.   Building sustainable wealth takes time, don't rush the process by taking excess risk. Trading based on emotions is a recipe for disaster, but patience get rewarded.  https://linktr.ee/TheLandPodcast https://linktr.ee/exodustrailcamera https://bit.ly/TheDeerGearPodcast

From my latest book "You Can't Outrun A Poor Diet", a critical chapter. Please give a listen. I think this may be one of the most critical rules of weight loss. Rob read's this chapter and discusses it with you.Thank you:Jonathan and Lyn GildonGildongroup.com386-451-2412Dr. Doris Antosdaytonabackpain.com386-259-9500

Ever get the feeling that Instagram is listening to you? It might be — or it might not. In the words of one of our favorite Facebook relationship statuses, it's complicated. Here, our experts explore how customer data platforms (CDPs) can take out the “ick” factor for brands in search of more personalized, automated customer experiences.Guided by the use cases proposed in the MarTech article “19 CDP Use Cases That Can Annoy or Engage Your Audiences,” Billie and Billy break down when marketing and re-marketing tactics are creepy vs. cool, and when they're annoying vs. appreciated. We'll explore how to take the pushy out of push notifications, the differences between CDPs and CRMs and CEPs, and examples of when location tracking works like gangbusters — or when it breaks up the party. Let's not make it weird, k?Hot topics:The power of content to change intentHow investing in a CDP is like building a houseWhich brand Billy recently bought a shirt from — and is now already on his way toward VIP statusWhat kind of push will send you to Burger King instead of McDonald's What kind of push will not send you to the movies instead of driving on the freewayKeep the growth going:Read the episode transcriptionFollow Billie Loewen, WillowTree Partner & VP of Growth Marketing on LinkedInFollow Billy Fischer, WillowTree Partner & VP of Business Development on LinkedInFollow WillowTree on LinkedIn

In this special episode of The Mallu Show, we've Rizwan Ramzan shares 10 Things to Look for in Friendships for You! I would love to hear your genuine feedback. INSTAGRAM: @rizmango https://www.instagram.com/rizmango/ 0:00 Intro 1:24 Rule Number 1 3:10 Rule Number 2 4:34 Rule Number 3 7:37 Rule Number 4 11:41 Rule Number 5 16:04 Rule Number 6 17:01 Rule Number 7 18:29 Rule Number 8 20:53 Rule Number 9 22:09 Rule Number 10 22:43 A Confession 24:42 Ending of the Podcast! - About : RizMango by Rizwan Ramzan Ahamed - Mango Social is the ULTIMATE self-improvement & self-help channel. We began as a channel only for motivational and inspirational videos in English. Eventually, we are starting to cover topics such as personal growth, etiquette, meditation, mental health, communication skills & even entrepreneurship in Malayalam. Today RizMango is the home for The Mallu Show or TMS - The No.1 Self-Improvement Podcast in Malayalam and Kerala's Smartest Podcast. A show where we host the country's greatest success stories and try digging out their secrets to success. Every conversation on The Mallu Show is intellectual, deep & informational. We cover everyone from entrepreneurs to homemakers to writers to even athletes. Every conversation is an EXTREME learning experience for the viewer. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/themallushow/message

So we went through a hurricane this past week and it reminded me something important...I'm not in control, but I know who is. How do I trust God more especially when I want to control everything around me.Support the show

Warren Buffet is probably the most successful and well known investor of our time. He has amassed an incredible net worth, and helped many people do the same. And when it all boils down, he states that it comes back to 2 Golden Rules:Don't lose money.Don't forget Rule Number 1.And whilst he certainly knows more about investing than me, those two rules can give them impression that he only backs winners. That he has 100% record when it comes to investing. And that's not true.And it's that fear of loss that holds a lot of people back from even starting investing. The mindset that you have to get 100% of your trades correct is overwhelming, stopping people from ever starting. In today's Podcast episode, I want to give you a variation on Buffet's first rule - one that's more realistic, and more actionable.

Jessica addresses why we shouldn't create excuses for ourselves. Distractions and negative thinking is the largest thing that generally holds people back from what they are doing. Turning in a project late, missing dinner, not going into work because you decided to party a little bit too much the night before. These are all prime examples of excuses we usually make for ourselves to get out of doing the work! Jessica talks about Rule Number 11 of She Rules- No Complaining. Jessica talks about how we need to remind ourselves what we are trying to complain about, is it worth it? Was the situation really that bad to where I had to cancel plans? Am I actually bothered by a minor inconvenience ? Focus on leveling your mind for success! Match the struggle with Positivity! Remind yourself of what you've already accomplished! #SHERULES How to Get Involved:  Listen in as SHE RULES movement leader Jessica Stroud interviews incredible Entrepreneurs. Jessica's goal is to pull out how they make their own RULES so you can too.  Jessica is on a mission to shed light on the path of other Entrepreneurs so their climb to the TOP is easier and faster. Jessica Stroud is on a mission to help self-driven women write their own rules.  Join the She Rules Movement at SheRules Connect with Jessica easily on Facebook, Instagram, and She Rules. Listen to this and other great episodes on Apple Podcasts.             

Jeremy Lewis (IG: @JeremyLewisVegasRealtor ) is the first realtor in America to do home walk-throughs on social media. He's the creator of the Jeremy Lewis Social Media Mastery Course. Bella Ferrari (IG: @ferrariibellaa ) is the creator of LitSpice CBD and a marketing director for Pacific Sun Belt Mortgages. Shannon Miller (IG: @Shannon MillerLV ) is the creator of SM Business Consulting Michael's Men of Action program is a Master's course dedicated to helping people elevate their social lives by building elite social circles and becoming higher status. Click the link below to learn more: https://go.moamentoring.com/i/2 Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSartain Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-michael-sartain-podcast/id1579791157 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2faAYwvDD9Bvkpwv6umlPO?si=8Q3ak9HnSlKjuChsTXr6YQ&dl_branch=1 Filmed at Sticky Paws Studios: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UComrBVcqGLDs3Ue-yWAft8w 0:00 Intro 1:21 Using Onlyfans to sell real estate 1:27 How did Shannon meet Jeremy? 2:54 Another vegas guy looking to get laid 3:36 How did Bella meet Jeremy? 4:22 Who the fuck is that guy? 5:47 Preselection 6:17 UNLV History Major 7:44 Crossing the Rubicon 8:36 Ed Bernstein workers comp 9:19 *Do not follow your dreams 11:00 Richard Creighton 11:56 The real estate scenery has changed 12:20 Using social media for business 13:23 Status is status is status 14:03 **Criticizing you for using social media 15:12 **He was just trying to get in my pants. 16:04 **You don't know who's open 17:24 Christmas video 18:45 Subject matter expertise 20:50 *Elon Musk 21:33 1955 21:48 **Selling real estate and fucking a porn star 23:36 Business Consulting 24:45 Losing it all and getting it back 27:48 Before and after the crash 28:37 Rebuild their real estate business 29:55 *Training beautiful women to sell real estate 31:15 **Path of least resistance 33:00 Wants to work 35:05 The 80-20 rule 36:34 Flat Earthers 37:16 Dating a Flat Earther 39:22 *Attack uneducated populous 42:18 CBD Spice 46:27 Marketing for a mortgage broker 47:39 *It's legal now 48:51 Deleted 180,000 IG followers 49:14 **Status is status is status 51:16 Vibe with your tribe 52:14 Kendall Jenner and Paris Hilton 53:14 Status in evolution 54:47 I would never sleep with Dan 55:17 I'm a vault 56:30 *Safeway 58:04 Parental investment hypothesis 58:49 Everything I do is to attract women 1:00:39 Your man told you to take your Instagram down 1:03:12 Foot fetish OnlyFans 1:03:47 Jeremy's ex 1:04:49 ***Losing all your money, the dark side 1:07:37 You would have liked me but… 1:09:09 Entitlement robs you of everything 1:10:21 Sticky Paws, Wet Republic 1:11:35 Back injury 1:13:11 Overweight leading to mental disorders 1:15:15 Seizure free for two years 1:16:25 **Fake drink 1:17:21 *Typical Vegas Guy 1:19:01 Deka dick and Tern dick 1:20:18 Can't produce sperm 1:21:20 *Dad bod 1:23:50 Magnet for narcissists 1:25:56 If you did meet a nice guy he wouldn't even notice him 1:28:04 Who is fucking these people? 1:28:39 CJ Sparxx 1:29:30 *Attraction is not a choice 1:31:32 **First Date 1:33:05 If no women wanted me, you wouldn't want me 1:33:47 Hypergamy 1:35:09 Zero sexual partners 1:36:27 Fuck boys 1:36:56 ***Women do not care about your feelings 1:38:10 Define a Fuckboy 1:39:29 *Complete honesty 1:40:50 Golden Vagina 1:42:00 Rule Number 2 1:42:19 *Men do not love with their penis 1:43:11 Testosterone 1:43:56 Men and women cheating 1:45:33 Women have more to lose 1:46:17 Separating sex from intimacy 1:47:55 Cheating with prostitutes 1:50:08 *Cheating on a woman who had threesomes with you 1:51:57 *Men killing men over women 1:55:07 Hairless murder apes 1:56:28 Traditional monogamy 1:57:51 Women my mom picked for me 1:59:31 Latin masculine culture 2:01:16 Adventures in Dating 2:06:15 OJ Simpson 2:06:41 Differences between men and women 2:09:09 Girl giving a blow job to Machine Gun Kelly 2:09:36 Social Media Mastery Program 2:13:52 I don't make the most money, but I have the most power 2:16:54 Corey Chaloff 2:18:02 He could use social media for that 2:20:15 Gary Keller 2:22:26 Open house plus speed dating 2:28:14 Outro 2:29:20 Sticky Paws Studios 2:29:39 Men Of Action Mentoring Course

It is not very often that I intubate an asthmatic but when I do I always think about PEM rule number 91. Rule Number 92 is meant to help me be more efficient and do what is right for my patients and rule number 93 helps me to things one step at a time. 

In this episode we discuss the tragic Hauler accident 1st off involving the DGR Racing hauler and the tragic loss of driver Steven Stotts. After this we discuss the World of Outlaws Texas Two Step at Cotton Bowl Speedway, the heartbreak for Sam Hafertepe Jr. and the wins for Sheldon Haudenschild and Carson Macedo before previewing and making predictions for the beginning of the California swing. After this we dive into NASCAR and the truck race and NASCARs caution inconsistency, Ryan Sieg vs Ty Gibbs and the Xfinity Series race and the Pennzoil 400 cup race after another awesome race for the next gen car, tire strategy finally being back in the series, Ross Chastain's strong run, the battle between Kyle Busch and Martin Truex Jr. and Alex Bowman “backing in” to the win

The mindset of the wealthy is utilization not accumulation. In this episode shares with us how to transition from the fear of not having enough money to the confidence that all of your money is constantly growing and the strategies that help you do just that. My Guest: Stephanie Walter. Today's guest, Stephanie Walter, is the CEO of Erbe Wealth, a capital raiser, syndicator, and real estate investor. She recently retired and sold her insurance agency of 16 years by following the key principles she teaches professionals to use. She teaches professional people to “unlearn” what most of us have been wired to think about money and re-educating people on attaining lasting wealth. She is a gateway between these professionals and well vetted deals. Stephanie lives with her husband and young son in Colorado. Quote Rule Number 1: Never lose money. Rule Number 2: Never forget Rule Number 1. Links & Resources www.erbewealth.com Show: http://www.estierand.com/breakthrough (www.estierand.com/breakthrough) Part 1 of this episode where you hear more go to https://www.estierand.com/captivate-podcast/wealth-utilization-with-stephanie-walter-1-2/ (estierand.com/137-1) Did you enjoy this episode? Then https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/estie-rand/id1358797306?mt=2&ls=1 (subscribe to my podcast on iTunes), so you can get automatic updates whenever another episode goes live (and you will be helping me get to #1 on iTunes, making us all cooler in the process!)

Jeanette of the Mundane Adventures of a Fangirl is back today to talk with Rob about the chosen escape routes and methods of Hilts, Cavendish and the dynamic duo - Willie and Danny.

The mindset of the wealthy is utilization not accumulation. In this episode shares with us how to transition from the fear of not having enough money to the confidence that all of your money is constantly growing and the strategies that help you do just that. My Guest: Stephanie Walter. Today's guest, Stephanie Walter, is the CEO of Erbe Wealth, a capital raiser, syndicator, and real estate investor. She recently retired and sold her insurance agency of 16 years by following the key principles she teaches professionals to use. She teaches professional people to “unlearn” what most of us have been wired to think about money and re-educating people on attaining lasting wealth. She is a gateway between these professionals and well vetted deals. Stephanie lives with her husband and young son in Colorado. Quote Rule Number 1: Never lose money. Rule Number 2: Never forget Rule Number 1. Links & Resources www.erbewealth.com Show: http://www.estierand.com/breakthrough (www.estierand.com/breakthrough) Part 2 of this episode where you hear more go to https://www.estierand.com/captivate-podcast/wealth-utilization-with-stephanie-walter-2/ (estierand.com/137-2) Did you enjoy this episode? Then https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/estie-rand/id1358797306?mt=2&ls=1 (subscribe to my podcast on iTunes), so you can get automatic updates whenever another episode goes live (and you will be helping me get to #1 on iTunes, making us all cooler in the process!)

Strategizing Sunday Rule Number 1 Source: https://denise.blog/2020/05/07/rule-1/ Author: Denise Caston-Clark is director of Tap Dance Detroit and the annual Motor City Tap Fest. She was a Radio City Rockette for 10 years and toured nationally with the Tony Award winning musical, Crazy For You. Denise has also had the honor of performing the choreography of Savion Glover at a showcase in New York City. She performed on tour in Australia, dancing all over the continent in Elvis to the Max. Her choreography has been seen in many productions in which she performed, including shows at Caesars Windsor in Ontario, Canada. Are you practicing your tip for the day? Share with us on social media and tag @dancetipsdaily to be shared on our platform! Don't forget to follow us on IG and Facebook @dancetipsdaily! Stay up to date with DTD & Subscribe to the once a month newsletter at www.dancetipsdaily.com Like what you heard? Give us a 5 star rating or share with a friend to help us keep bringing well rounded & grounded dance content to you! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dance-tips-daily/support

Rule Number 9: Go into every conversation believing that you have something to learn. We've all been in situations where someone seems to be talking endlessly, and we're tempted to disengage. Listening to someone else can often be helpful in improving your own life. It's far better to learn from another person's experiences and mistakes than to suffer them yourself. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 9.

“Be Precise In Your Speech.” What does this mean? In summary, Jordan Peterson’s Rule 10 instructs you to define problems exactly. Don’t just leave a problem as a vague, diffuse issue. This will keep you irritated and anxious. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 10.

“Do Not Bother Children When They Are Skateboarding.” What does this mean? Why should you leave skateboarding kids alone? Like many of Jordan Peterson's rules, this goes deeper than literally leaving skateboarding kids alone. Discuss the true meaning of Jordan Peterson's Rule 11 with Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan

In 12 Rules for Life, Rule #12 is “Pet A Cat When You Encounter One On The Street.” What does Jordan Peterson even mean here? Like most of Jordan Peterson's 12 rules, this is more of a metaphor for how to live life. In summary, life is tough. It hurts at times. This pain gives life meaning. Take time to enjoy the little pleasures in life. Pet a cat when you see one on the street. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Belinda as they discuss the last rule.

Rule Number 5: “Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them”. What does this mean? The ultimate point is that you have a responsibility to teach your child the rules of society. If you don’t, society will, in a much meaner way. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 5. They then go on to discuss the recent news, all things currently happening in the world. In this episode, Thomas brings a 2015 Peregrine Pinot Noir, Cam brings a 2018 Kendall Jackson Chardonnay, Chris brings a 2018 Emilio Moro Tempranillo and Megan brings a 2018 Catena Malbec.

In this episode of Wine & Wisdom, we are joined by Jesse from Kies Wines who takes us through the history of their winery and family. They also discuss two of their wines Monkey Nutt Tree Merlot and Chaff Mill Cabernet Sauvignon. To order wine from Kies Wines visit https://www.kieswines.com.au/ Rule Number 6: Set your house in perfect order before you criticise the world. Many, perhaps even most, of the adults who abuse children were abused themselves as children. However, the majority of people who were abused as children do not abuse their own children. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 6.

Rule Number 7: Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient). To share does not mean to give away something you value, and get nothing back. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 7.

Rule Number 8: “Tell the truth – or at least don’t lie”. What does this mean? Why is lying so bad to yourself? Why is telling the truth so good? This rule discusses not only lying to others, but also lying to yourself and obscuring your personal truth. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 8.

Rule Number 4: “Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, No Who Someone Else is Today”. No matter how good you are at something, or how you rank your accomplishments, there is someone out there who makes you look incompetent. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 3.

What is the secret to the best sex ever? Do you know the 4 rules of sex?

This week I have a more lighthearted look at things that get in our way, riffing off a great story from Zander and Zander's book The Art of Possibility. Maybe you, too, would benefit from remembering Rule Number Six? I'd love to hear your feedback, questions, and experience with these ideas! Send me a note at fycuriosity.com, or contact me on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter! I also post pretty regularly on TikTok.

Join us tonight for some real talk and some real music. As always, please apply Rule Number 1 when calling into the show. Call in 563-999-3050 press #1

Rule Number 3; “Make friends with people who want the best for you.”. We tend to hang around people who have the same kinds of weaknesses or those who make us feel better. The people who really improve in life are those who have the courage to go beyond and associate themselves with people who push them outside of comfort zone. Join Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan as they discuss Rule Number 3. In this episode, Thomas brings a 2013 Geoff Merrill Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon, Cam brings a 2017 Pirate Cru, Slurpy Puppy GSM, Chris brings a 2016 Bunnamagoo Estate Cabernet Sauvignon and Megan brings a 2021 Savannah Estate Marsanne. Listen to find out who takes out the win this week in the wine competition.

In this episode of Wine & Wisdom, Thomas, Cam, Chris and Megan discuss the book 12 Rules for Life by Jordan B Peterson. It provides life advice through essays in abstract ethical principles, psychology, mythology, religion, and personal anecdotes. The book topped bestseller lists in Canada, the United States, and the United Kingdom, and has sold over five million copies worldwide. Together they discuss Rule Number 2; “Treat yourself like you are someone you are responsible for helping.”.

FamilyLife Today® Radio Transcript  References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. Creating A More Romantic MarriageDay 1 of 8Guest:                       Dennis RaineyFrom the series:       Why Romance is Important _______________________________________________________________ (Nat King Cole singing "L-O-V-E") Bob:                Believe it or not, this is FamilyLife Today.  Our host is best-selling author and conference speaker, Dennis Rainey.  I'm Bob Lepine.  Stay with us as we talk about L-O-V-E today on FamilyLife Today.                         And welcome to FamilyLife Today.  Thanks for joining us on the broadcast. Dennis:          Do you think our listeners know who Nat King Cole is, Bob? Bob:                Oh, yeah, everybody knows who Nat King Cole is.  I bought a two-record collection when I was in college, just because I thought, "He's got the smoothest voice, it's the most romantic music I've ever heard." Dennis:          Well, you know, we also have a lot of romantic adventures at our FamilyLife Marriage Conference, and I've got a letter here from a conferee couple who attended the Phoenix FamilyLife Marriage Conference – I think this was back in 1991.  This is a classic, keeper letter from the archives of the thousands of attendees who have been to our conference. Bob:                Now, this is on hotel stationery, right? Dennis:          That's right – the Hyatt Regency Scottsdale.  "Dear Dennis, when you suggested last night for us to be more creative in our romance, you never gave us the warning that it could be dangerous."  Then in all capital letters, it reads, "RULE NUMBER 1 – ALWAYS BE PREPARED!  AT LEAST WITH A SPARE KEY" – and now the rest of the story.                         "After dinner and the sunset, we decided to take your advice and to add a little romance and be a little daring.  Staying here at the hotel, we crept out onto our fourth-floor balcony for an incredibly romantic view, not to mention some privacy.  Unbeknown to us, while we were 'communicating' and 'learning more about each other,' the maid was inside our bedroom, turning down our bedsheets for us.  She did not know we were on the balcony.  We did not know she was in the room.  Maybe you can guess the rest.  She locked the sliding glass door."  It is signed, "Two lovers, romantic sky, and lots of privacy.  Embarrassed from California." Bob:                So you have no idea how they ever got back in, huh? Dennis:          Your mind is only left to wonder – how did they get back in, there on the fourth floor of the hotel? Bob:                Well, that is a part of what we hope will be a romantic evening for couples at the FamilyLife Marriage Conference, but we hope that's not the end of romantic evenings for couples. Dennis:          Well, we really talk about FamilyLife Marriage Conference, taking Saturday and making it an adventure.  That's not the kind of adventure we're talking about.  We are talking about adding romance to your relationship, and I think at our conferences across the United States, that's what a lot of couples really seen infused back into their marriage relationship through all the teachings of scripture that build intimacy in their marriage relationship, they better understand how to relate to each other as husband and wife, and what I wanted to do, Bob, was I wanted to take the next few days, prior to Valentine's Day, and I wanted us to talk about the all-important subject of romance. Bob:                Now, you call it an all-important subject.  You kind of get the feel that romance is something that's a part of the courtship process.  After marriage, romance just doesn't seem like it has the same, you know –  Dennis:          – sizzle. Bob:                Yeah, yeah. Dennis:          Yeah, that's right.  Well, let me just read something from Song of Solomon, okay?  Song of Solomon, chapter 1, verse 2 – "May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth, for your love is better than wine; your oils have a pleasing fragrance; your name is like purified oil; therefore, the maidens love you.  Draw me after you."                         Now, here's the Shulamite woman who is attracted to Solomon.  She is wanting her husband as the bride, and, you know, it's interesting that our God devoted an entire book of the 66 books that are in the inspired Word of God to this subject of romantic love, and one of the reasons why I wanted to talk about this is I think Christians are afraid of the subject, Bob.  I think we're afraid to address this whole area of romantic love in marriage even though our God thought it all up in the first place. Bob:                Some people have suggested that Song of Solomon is a parable showing us God's love for Israel or Jesus' love for His church.  You're saying that God put it in the Bible to talk about the romantic relationship between a husband and wife? Dennis:          I wonder about the people who say that – if they really read the verses, because they've got to do away with a lot of physical imagery that doesn't leave that much to the imagination.  I mean, it's clear they're talking about the whole area of romantic and sexual love in a marriage relationship. Bob:                Is romance really important for a marriage?  I mean, can't a marriage survive just fine for 30 or 40 years and not have a whole lot of sizzle and spark to it? Dennis:          Well, I think marriages can survive, I think that's a key word, but will they be what God intended?  I say not.  One of the things that happens in a marriage relationship is if we don't have romance, something that adds excitement and adventure, intrigue, thrill, I think we get caught up in the negative about our spouse, and when you begin to focus on the negative and the faults of the other person, that relationship begins to spiral downward.  And one of the reasons why I think Valentine's is such an important time of the year, especially for the Christian marriages, is to remind us that we ought to be making this subject of romance a part of our everyday diet in our marriage relationship. The Bible speaks about, over in Proverbs, chapter 5, verse 15 and then 18 through 19, that a man was to be captured by his wife's sexual powers.  He was to be captivated by his wife.  That's a powerful image to be literally captured by your spouse.  The Bible is talking about this as far as thrill, excitement, adventure, an emotional excitement that I think sets a marriage apart from just a pure friendship.  I mean, Barbara is my friend, but there is a side of our friendship that goes way beyond just two friends who are pals to two people who, yes, share a marriage bed together and who dream thoughts and share intimacies that are shared with nobody else on this planet, and that's what God intended, I believe, in the marriage relationship. Bob:                Well, now, you've got 50 percent of your audience listening to you, goin', "Preach it, Brother Rainey.  Yes, amen."   Dennis:          And what sex might they be? Bob:                Well, some of 'em are women who are saying, "Yes, talk to my husband and teach him how to be more romantic with me," and others are men saying, "Yes, talk to my wife."  It's interesting that opposites attract in this area. Dennis:          Well, you know, therein lies a real problem in discussing this, because I'll just let our listeners in on some research we did out of our FamilyLife Marriage Conference.  We researched over 800 of our conferees at three different FamilyLife Marriage Conferences last spring about how they viewed romance, and, I've got to tell you, men and women view it through a different set of eyes.  A woman looks at romance through the eyes of intimacy, relationship, warmth.  It's that connectedness of the soul and emotions, heart-to-heart.  And the men looked at romance – well, how shall we say it?  It was one word – sex.  And you see what God is up to here, because he made us different.  We are to depend upon each other, and in the process of being different, I think what God wants to do is cause both of us to love each other where we are.                         You see what God is up to here, is I think God is wanting to knock the edges off of me, as a man, and our male listeners, learning how to love their wives in a way that communicates love so that she feels love – not how we feel about love or what communicates love to us as men but instead learning to put on the side of love that meets a wife at that relational point of need, and there are a lot of men today who I think are frustrated sexually in their marriage relationships, primarily – listen carefully – primarily because they still have not learned how to meet their wives' emotional needs so she can be released to meet her husband's needs. Bob:                Mm-hm.  I've had Mary Ann from time to time say to me, "I just don't feel like we've had an opportunity to talk with one another over the last two or three days," and for a wife that is a sign of drift in the marriage relationship, isn't it? Dennis:          Yeah, and I've had that same conversation with Barbara as well.  I think the reason God gave us romance is He gave us a mysterious emotional love that we were to experience together as a couple.  Even Webster's definition of romance, which talks about excitement, love, adventure – all those words, I think, are a part of what marriage ought to be – Christian marriage.  Our God designed these emotions.  I think romance – romantic love – is a part of the character of God.  May I quote a Christian statesman?  One of the most godly men who has ever lived who wrote a book, "My Utmost For His Highest."  It's been on the best-seller list for years – Oswald Chambers.  Listen to what he said about passion in Christian marriage.  "Human nature, if it is healthy, demands excitement, and if it does not obtain its thrilling excitement in the right way, it will seek it in the wrong.  God never made bloodless stoics.  He makes passionate saints." I love that quote, because I think that's the picture of a God who loves his people and who wired us to have excitement and thrill and adventure.  It's not just for the single people who are involved in courtship, or just for the newly married couple who are just starting out with the high-intensity, high-octane of fresh married love.  No, that romantic love, I believe, was meant to still pull us along and sweep us along in a steady current all the way through our married life. Bob:                And yet it's become almost a cliché, Dennis, to talk about the honeymoon being over.  It does seem that relationships go through some kind of stages. Dennis:          Well, at our FamilyLife Marriage Conference, we talk about there being five phases of marriage deterioration.  In other words, every marriage goes through some predictable phases where it begins to lose steam, and reality begins to set in.  The first phase is what we call the "romance phase," and that's usually dating, honeymoon – it's when we're spending hours to get ready for a date, hours to plan the date.  Each person sees each other at their very best, but it's not a real picture of a real relationship. This phase gives way to Phase 2, which we call the "transition phase," and this is honeymoon or early marriage, and I like to say at this phase – this is where reality begins to edit the illusion.  The illusion of what we thought was a relationship is now being snipped away at by the cold, hard realities of life, and couples begin to make adjustments to each other in their values, their habits, their expectations, and can give way to criticism and snipping at each other, and the feelings begin to lower during this period of time. Well, Phase 2 gives way to Phase 3, which is the full-blown reality phase and, frankly, this is where marriages are either won or lost.  Some of the things that press in against us during this reality phase – moving – a lot of couples move after they get married; differing friends; job changes and stress; conflicting material values – they start seeing how they handle the checkbook; children come along, there's parenting pressures; in-law interference; difficulties; health issues; problems in life – all of these things press in against the relationship and now the illusion has been fully edited. Bob:                And they begin to put a little chill on the romantic side of marriage, don't they? Dennis:          Well, romance is replaced by disappointment and discouragement, and when that begins to fuel the relationship, two people who had turned toward each other in the dating years now can turn against each other, and that really leads us to the fourth phase, the "retaliation phase," and that's where emotional and even physical retaliation becomes an alternative, and it's unthinkable that a couple who had held hands would now cut away at the person they said they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with.  Resentment and bitterness begin to take up residence where romance had once been.  A man begins to sell his life out to his job, because that's where he gets rewards; women to likewise, or she sells her life out to her children, and what begins to happen here is marriage is viewed with despair – no longer expectancy, excitement or thrill.  You don't look forward to getting home in the evening and spending the evening together or the weekends together.  You find a way to allow that relationship to be crowded out.  And that really gives way to the last phase, Phase 5 – that's the "rejection phase," and that's the death of a relationship in which there are really two alternatives – one which is legal divorce, where two people separate and go their own ways or, really, where most relationships end up dying, and that is emotional divorce, where two people just simply withdraw from each other, and there's a truce.  Bob:                It seems like in the early phases that you describe, Dennis, romance is easy.  In the last two phases, it's almost impossible, because of the anger or the bitterness or the other things that have begun to take root.  It's really in that middle phase, the reality phase, where, as you said, the battle for romance is won or lost. Dennis:          You know, that's where we've got to win the battle, is before you ever get to this time of resentment and retaliation and rejection, where you're at the tail-end of the relationship, and you've got to breathe so much life back into the marriage it almost seems hopeless.  But you know what?  I want to go back to that reality phase, because that's where all of us live.  We've all got to learn, in the midst of the time pressures with kids and finances and jobs and health issues – how do we hammer out a Christian life? You know, I've given the better part of two decades here at FamilyLife dedicating myself and this ministry to writing books like, "Staying Close," to helping couples deal with the reality phase, or "Building Your Mate's Self-Esteem," another book where we talked about how you can build up the other person so you don't ever get to the point where you're rejecting your spouse; or the FamilyLife Marriage Conference, which is a weekend to help couples go back to that reality phase, and give them a biblical game plan for how they can move through reality and move on to blessing, where their relationship and love for one another matures and grows, and I think that's exactly what God wants to do, as He instructs us to the scripture.  He is moving us to mature love, commitment, and it's nothing that's not spoken enough about today, and we're going to be talking about it a lot here in the coming days. Bob:                Well, Dennis, some of our listeners are thinkin', "The last thing on my mind is romance at this point.  We've moved into Phases 4 or 5 – retaliation or rejection, and the anger and the bitterness that is a part of this – I can't even think about romance.  Is this series going to apply to me?" Dennis:          I think it will, and we're going to be sensitive to those couples who are finding themselves in unequally yoked marriages where a person is married to someone who is not a believer or someone who is not growing spiritually.  Perhaps Psalm 27, verse 13 would bring some hope – "I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.  Wait for the Lord, be strong, and let your heart take courage.  Yes, wait for the Lord."  And I think there's a time to wait in prayer, but there may be some things that a person can do in that situation, where you're married to a spouse who is totally apathetic about that relationship, and if you're in that situation, could I encourage you to, yes, do pray, and do ask God to deliver you from despair and begin to give you the courage that only He can give you to build into that marriage and perhaps by adding romance back into that relationship, perhaps that will be the missing ingredient to help your spouse come to faith in Jesus Christ.                         Let me just conclude our broadcast today with some action points that can help you be a better romantic lover of your spouse.  First of all, take a romantic inventory of your relationship.  On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being excellent, how would you rate romance as a part of your marriage relationship?  Tonight ask your spouse to do that and then compare notes and see how you're doing.                         Secondly, and this comes from the questions book.  You shared about how listeners could get a copy of that – from the questions book, I like to ask Barbara this question all the time, because it really does spark romance in our relationship, and it sounds odd, but I ask her this question – What are the three most romantic times that we've shared together?  What brought those sparks originally?  What's caused romance?  Why would you select that?  And there's something about reliving those romantic moments that I think gives us insight into why our spouse chose that and can also add that excitement back to our relationship today.                         A third application point would be to pray and ask God to help you begin courting your spouse.  You know, there are some listeners who are in a hurting marriage, where that's where they need to start right there – is in prayer asking God to give them some hope, to begin to court their spouse once again. Bob:                Well, let me add a fourth, and that's to join us back here tomorrow at this same time, when we're going to talk about the "romance robbers" in a relationship – the foxes in the vineyard, right? Dennis:          That's right. Bob:                That's on tomorrow's edition of FamilyLife Today.  I hope you can join us for that.  Our engineer is Mark Whitlock, our host is Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine.  We'll see you tomorrow for another edition of 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