Podcasts about untangled faith

Amy Fritz is joined by Melissa J. Hogan on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss the lawsuit involving Johnny Hunt and the SBC, addressing misconceptions and the importance of the judge's resolution.   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com In this episode we: Explore the origins and developments of the Johnny Hunt lawsuit against the SBC. Unpack the significance of the Guidepost Report in uncovering abuse within the SBC. Clarify common misconceptions about defamation cases and the impact of public testimony. Reveal the judge's resolution and its implications for survivors and the SBC. Highlight the importance of understanding power dynamics and trauma-informed perspectives in cases of abuse. Featured Guest Melissa J. Hogan https://melissajhogan.substack.com   Resources mentioned Dr. David Pooler Professor David Pooler: What is consent and power in clergy-laity relations? | Diana R. Garland School of Social Work | Baylor University Judge Rules Against Johnny Hunt in Defamation Suit over SBC Abuse Report - Christianity Today If you liked this episode you'll like these: 83: Dave Ramsey's Legal Nightmare: Time Share Exit Team Class-Action Lawsuit Deep Dive with Melissa Hogan 94: Lawsuit Update: Hypocrisy and Double Standards at Ramsey Solutions  Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Tiffany Yecke Brooks joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss her book Holy Ghosted and searching for a less anxious faith   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com In this episode, we: Explore the concept of spiritual anxiety as a trauma response and its impact on individuals raised in legalistic religious environments. Discuss the influence of religious teachings and cultural pressures on Gen X and millennials' spiritual experiences. Examine how control and manipulation manifest in religious communities through various rhetorical techniques. Highlight the historical presence of spiritual anxiety among church figures and the recognition of healthier ways to engage with faith. Reflect on the notion of God's will as a relationship rather than a specific path, encouraging a focus on making thoughtful and intentional decisions.     Featured Guest Tiffany Yecke Brooks   Resources mentioned Holy Ghosted https://amzn.to/4llmYPZ https://tiffanyyeckebrooks.com https://tiffanyyeckebrooks.substack.com   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Dr. Diane Langberg joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss her insights on abuse within the church and her latest book, "When the Church Harms God's People."   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com In this episode, we: Explore the evolution of understanding abuse and trauma over the past five decades with Dr. Langberg. Discuss the misconceptions surrounding abuse and domestic violence within Christian communities. Examine the bravery required for victims to speak up and how church leaders should respond to disclosures of abuse. Address the importance of protecting individuals over preserving institutions or marriages. Consider what true repentance looks like for perpetrators and how mercy and love can be extended to them responsibly. Look at the challenges faced by survivors and the need for vigilance and wisdom in church settings. Highlight the essential role of education and training for leaders in recognizing and responding to abuse situations.   Featured Guest Dr. Diane Langberg   Resources mentioned When The Church Harms God's People https://amzn.to/4lbpqsn   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Caleb Campbell joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss his journey from pastoring to becoming an author, and how to engage lovingly with Christian nationalists.    Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode we: Explore Caleb Campbell's background and transformation from a neo-Nazi skinhead to a church pastor. Discover the origins and motivations behind Caleb's book on Christian nationalism. Reflect on the challenges pastors face in navigating cultural and political divides, particularly within the past decade. Reframe the approach to Christian nationalism as a mission field rather than an enemy to combat. Consider practical steps for engaging in meaningful, compassionate conversations with those holding nationalist views. Featured Guest Caleb Campbell https://www.disarmingleviathan.com   Resources mentioned Faithful Counseling https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Disarming Leviathan: Loving Your Christian Nationalist Neighbor https://amzn.to/4hEwCdi The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family https://amzn.to/4hEwCdi   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Marty Duren joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to explore the intersections of faith, politics, and societal issues. Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com In this episode Amy and Marty: Talk about Marty's journey away from the Moral Majority Discuss the impact of Christian Nationalism and how that's different than patriotism Consider how proximity changes how we understand different issues. Talk about why Marty hates the word "impactful"!   Featured Guest Mary Duren Kingdom in the Midst - On Earth as It is in Heaven Marty on Bluesky: Marty Duren (@martyduren.bsky.social) — Bluesky Marty on Facebook: Facebook   Resources mentioned Faithful Counseling- get 10% off here: BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today Marty's Book, The Disparate Ones https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-disparate-ones-essays-on-being-in-the-world-but-not-of-the-world/ae8b8e3c312ea6ff?ean=9781736282182&next=t&next=t Blood Brothers https://amzn.to/41qTiYq The Hundred Years' War on Palestine https://amzn.to/4i3G9fa Whose Promised Land  https://amzn.to/43lCULB A Stranger In the Land https://amzn.to/43lCULB   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Attorney and Institutional Response Specialist Melissa J. Hogan joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast for a candid discussion about how communities and leaders should respond when there is a breakdown of trust in a marriage, especially when issues of abuse or infidelity are involved. What happens when we diagnose an abuse issue as a marriage issue?   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode we talk about What communities, leaders, and friends should consider when addressing trust breakdowns in marriages. Why the first instinct to restore the marriage might be harmful. Common myths around quick-fixes such as short-term therapies and intensives. Practical steps and resources for leaders.   Featured Guest Melissa J. Hogan https://melissajhogan.substack.com   Resources mentioned GRACE https://www.netgrace.org Dr. Diane Langberg https://www.dianelangeberg.com Caring Well Conference 2019 ERLC National Conference - Caring Well on Vimeo Gretchen Baskerville About Me | Life-Saving Divorce Leslie Vernick Home - Leslie Vernick Natalie Hoffman Flying Free Support for Women in Abusive Relationships   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Lynna Sutherland, whom Amy refers to as the "Sharon McMahon of the PCA" stops by the Untangled Faith podcast to talk about her work in her ministry Advocacy From the Presbyterian Pew   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   Amy and Lynna talk about What inspired Lynna Sutherland to start Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew Complexity of the PCA How understanding the origin of the PCA helps Lynna in her work Current issues: DASA Advice for men in leadership in the denomination Advice for women   Featured Guest: Lynna Sutherland Presbyterian Pew   Resources mentioned Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew: Presbyterian Pew Dr. Langberg on Russell Moore podcast Harm, Trauma, and Church Abuse - Christianity Today Darby Strickland Home | Darby Strickland Ian Sears case, Nashville Presbytery Nashville pastor ousted: A landmark in PCA abuse reformMee   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Natasha Smith joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to share her journey through grief, faith, and the power of presence during life's hardest moments. "Grief starts when you start to let go." – Natasha Smith   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode we talk about The emotional rollercoaster of awaiting MRI results and the devastating news Natasha's family received. The ICU waiting room as both a heavy and holy space The honest expression of grief and the complexities of maintaining faith amidst sorrow and disappointment. The importance of a supportive community. Secondary and invisible grief. How accurate theology can shape our understanding of suffering and God's role in it.   Featured Guest Natasha Smith Homepage - Natasha Smith   Resources mentioned This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Natasha Smith's book Can You Just Sit With Me? Dr. Diane Langberg- Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores.   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Lore Wilbert joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to talk about her book, "A Curious Faith," and the spiritual discipline of curiosity, revisiting themes of certainty, vulnerability, and the role of questioning within faith communities.   In this episode, we: Explore the themes and inspirations behind Lore Wilbert's book, "A Curious Faith." Discuss the societal expectation of certainty within faith communities and the richness found in admitting uncertainty Learn about Lore's experiences with using curiosity as a protective mechanism and its impacts on relationships. Reflect on the biblical story of Moses through a chapter from Lori's book, emphasizing the significance of unexpected life challenges. Highlight the need for ethical responsibility in acknowledging sources and giving proper credit, discussing issues of plagiarism in Christian publishing. Address the complexity of accepting both good and bad elements in the world through a Christian perspective. Consider the importance of curiosity as a spiritual discipline and its role in fostering understanding and genuine faith.   Resources: A Curious Faith by Lore Wilbert https://amzn.to/41rzkPg Lore's Substack (1) S A Y A B L E | Lore Wilbert | Substack      If you liked this episode, check out these: 90: Historical & Cultural Influences on Evangelicalism. Guest: Karen Swallow Prior 51: Celebrities for Jesus. Guest: Katelyn Beaty   Where you can find me: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com @amyfritz.bsky.social https://untangledfaithpodcast.com Amy Fritz (@amyhenningfritz) on Threads https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz

Sara Billups joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss how the focus on end times, culture wars, and consumerism in the evangelical church formed many of us growing up in the 80s and 90s.  "If I'm being formed by these forces, in what ways am I being formed by Jesus?" – Sara Billups   03:42 Sara's background 09:35 Sara's faith and family history. 25:20 The Moral Majority 28:46 Our desire for a common enemy 38:01 Consumerism and prosperity gospel 40:11 The importance of community   Resources: Orphaned Believers: https://amzn.to/3ULDoFy Jesus and John Wayne: https://amzn.to/3ULDoFy   If you liked this episode, check out these: 116 How Evangelicals Aligned with Republicans: A Conversation with Chris Staron (untangledfaithpodcast.com) 115: What Happens When You Mix Politics and Faith with Kaitlyn Schiess (untangledfaithpodcast.com)   Where you can find me: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com Amy Fritz (@amyhenningfritz) on Threads https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz

Amy Fritz is joined by her husband, Nathan Fritz, on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss their chainging relationship with faith and politics, particularly in the context of the 2016 election and its aftermath. "It's not just that we don't all think the same, and there isn't necessarily a clear biblical rule on every political thing. We might value some of the same things, but not everybody agrees on how to get to that place."– Amy Fritz In this episode we talk about: What started our process of rethinking the "Christian" approach to politics. Trump Derangement Syndrome. What it means to vote for policies as opposed to a person. The problem with "mean Tweets". Examine government inefficiencies while recognizing its role in providing necessary support. The role of the Church in providing social safety nets. Consider the impact of media and public perception on faith and politics, including concerns about media legitimacy and the term "Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS)."   Resources: https://currentpub.com/2016/06/25/james-dobson-on-the-character-of-the-president-of-the-united-states/ https://news.gallup.com/poll/235022/presidential-moral-leadership-less-important-republicans.aspx?utm_source=alert&utm_medium=email&utm_content=morelink&utm_campaign=syndication https://thepreamble.com/p/jemar-tisby-advice-for-single-issue https://www.cnn.com/2015/09/13/politics/barack-obama-religion-christian-misperceptions/index.html https://ministrywatch.com/health-share-ministries-face-growing-chorus-of-complaints-and-lawsuits   If you liked this episode, check out these ones: 116 How Evangelicals Aligned with Republicans: A Conversation with Chris Staron (untangledfaithpodcast.com) 115: What Happens When You Mix Politics and Faith with Kaitlyn Schiess (untangledfaithpodcast.com)   Where you can find me: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com Amy Fritz (@amyhenningfritz) on Threads https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz

Chris Staron joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss the ties between evangelicalism and the Republican Party and the impact of societal changes on faith and politics. “No party is going to be 100% a christian party. And if they were, I'd actually be really suspicious of them.” – Chris Staron In this episode we: Talk about the history of how evangelical Christianity became associated with the Republican Party. Discuss the impact of government regulations and civil rights changes on business owners, using historical examples. Explore Ronald Reagan's appeal to evangelical voters and the shift from Jimmy Carter's presidency. Reflect on how race, economics, and societal unrest influenced evangelicals' political affiliations. Find Chris Staron: Chris Staron, Author at Truce Podcast   This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com Amy Fritz (@amyhenningfritz) on Threads https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz Tune in next week for a heartfelt conversation with Amy's husband about the intersections of politics and faith.

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In this episode, I sit down with Megan Nilsen, a kingdom life coach, author, and speaker, to dive into her inspiring journey of faith, purpose, and discovering the "why" behind it all. Megan's story is one of transformation—from working various jobs to finding her calling as a life coach. Her insights will help you navigate your own path with intention and faith. What We Talk About: 1. **Megan's Journey to Coaching** Megan shares her personal story, including nearly 29 years of marriage, raising four kids (two of whom are adopted from Ethiopia), and her deep passion for adoption. She talks about moving from jobs that didn't fulfill her to becoming a school counselor and eventually finding her true calling as a life coach. 2. **Why Knowing Your ‘Why' Matters** Megan dives into the importance of understanding the deeper reasons behind what we do. Using examples like weight loss, she explains how knowing your "why" can keep you motivated and on track, making life feel more fulfilling and purposeful. 3. **Aligning Your Actions with God's Plans** We chat about how to make sure what you're doing lines up with what you feel called to do. Megan shares practical steps, like doing a quick survey of your life to see where you're happy or not so happy. She also introduces her “Holy Spirit stoplight” idea to help you figure out which projects to go all-in on and which to let go of. 4. **Facing Fears and Disappointments** Megan knows that fear of failure and past letdowns can hold you back. She shares her own experiences and gives tips on how to move past those fears by trusting God's plan and staying open to new possibilities. 5. **The Power of Journaling with God** Megan talks about how journaling with God has been a game-changer for her and her clients. She explains how you can write your thoughts and questions to God, then listen for His guidance. This practice has helped her make decisions and take actions based on what she feels God is leading her to do. 6. **Get in Touch with Megan** Megan invites you to connect with her on her website, MeganBNilsen.com, and check out her resources like the "Untangled Faith" book, her podcast, and coaching services. She also recommends the "God-sized Dreams" tool to help you figure out your own dreams and goals. CONNECT WITH MEGAN: Links: Website: https://meganbnilsen.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/MeganNilsenKingdomLifeCoach IG: https://www.instagram.com/megan_nilsen/ Podcast: https://meganbnilsen.com/podcast/ ACTION ITEMS: - Check out the "Untangled Faith" study guide for personal reflection or to use in a group study. - Reach out to Megan if you're interested in having her speak at your event. - Check out the Quiz at God Size Dreams CONNECT WITH JAN: Here are all the best places and FREE stuff

Have you ever wondered how to truly anchor your identity in something greater than yourself, and hear a voice that guides and inspires you every day? In this episode of Seek Go Create, host Tim Winders sits down with Megan Nilsen, a dynamic life coach and author, to delve into her transformative journey of faith, motherhood, and journaling. Megan shares powerful insights on connecting deeply with God, breaking generational chains, and living out your divine purpose with grace. Tune in to discover practical tools and heartfelt stories that may just change the way you navigate your spiritual and personal journey."Journaling is a powerful tool to bring your confusion to light and seek God's guidance amidst the chaos." - Megan Nilsen Access all show and episode resources HEREAbout Our Guest:Megan Nilsen is a dynamic content creator, life coach, podcaster, and author dedicated to guiding individuals in anchoring their identity in Christ and hearing God's voice. With a background in kingdom coaching, she has written two insightful books, "A Beautiful Exchange" and "Untangled Faith," complete with a companion journal tailored for small group or Bible study use. Megan's expertise extends to her unique 10-week guide for studying "Untangled Faith," addressing the needs of those seeking deeper spiritual connection. Her innovative concepts, such as two-way journaling, and her heartfelt approach to overcoming life's challenges, make Megan a sought-after speaker and mentor for those navigating their spiritual and personal journeys.Reasons to Listen: 1. **Unlock Journaling Secrets**: Discover Megan Nilsen's approach to "two-way journaling," a transformative tool for hearing God's voice and deepening spiritual connections.2. **Explore Personal Growth**: Learn how Megan's journey of authenticity and faith empowered her to break generational chains and find her true purpose—insightful for anyone seeking similar breakthroughs.3. **Practical Resources & Inspiration**: Access free tools like a litmus test for discerning God's voice and a guide to identifying a God-sized dream, plus practical insights for integrating journaling into your daily life.Episode Resources & Action Steps:### Resources Mentioned:1. **Megan Nilsen's Books and Companion Journal:** - **"A Beautiful Exchange"** - **"Untangled Faith" with a companion journal** - Available on Amazon, suitable for small group or Bible study.2. **Megan Nilsen's Free Resources:** - A litmus test for discerning God's voice - Five questions to identify a God-sized dream.3. **Megan Nilsen's Podcast and Website:** - Megan's podcast, focusing on kingdom coaching and faith. - Megan's website, where additional resources and information can be found.### Action Steps:1. **Start Two-Way Journaling:** - Implement Megan Nilsen's practice of two-way journaling by writing out your thoughts and then listening for God's perspective, aiming for a two-way conversation with God. 2. **Begin a Small Group Study:** - Gather a group and utilize Megan Nilsen's 10-week guide for "Untangled Faith" to facilitate discussions, using the provided podcast episode pairings, small group questions, and reflection questions.3. **Utilize Free Tools for...

Boz Tchividjian, attorney and advocate for abuse survivors joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to answer your questions. What's his origin story as an attorney? The origins of GRACE. Thoughts on the Us v Them messaging from many churches. NDAs Who is the Ronan Farrow or Jody Kantor of  #churchtoo reporting? Who did Billy Graham vote for? (Just kidding. Boz didn't completely clear this one up for us!) Links: Sexual Abuse Attorney For Victims | Boz Tchividjian Sexual Abuse Lawyer (bozlawpa.com) GRACE: GRACE (netgrace.org) Diane Langberg at the Caring Well Conference: Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores – Diane Langberg on Vimeo Boz at the Caring Well Conference: Winter Inside the Church and Hope for Spring – Boz Tchividjian on Vimeo Support the show: Newsletter signup Paypal Donation Come chat with me! Twitter: Amy Fritz  Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz

We're no longer releasing new episodes of the Untangled Faith podcast. Instead, we'll be re-sharing some of the old classic episodes. Thanks for supporting the podcast!   On the first episode of The Untangled Faith Podcast, Amy has a conversation with author and speaker, Mary DeMuth about the characteristics of a spiritually abusive environment.  We also hear from the first in our series of wounded resisters as Colleen shares part 1 of her story of discovering her pastor was hiding a big secret from their congregation. Show links: 10 Ways to Spot Spiritual Abuse | Mary DeMuth A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing Amy and Heather go on the record for Bob Smietana in this article Esau McCaulley, The Unsettling Power of Easter Mary Demuth

Amy shares her decision regarding the future of the Untangled Faith podcast. Thanks so much for your support over the last three years.   How to reach Amy: Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com    

Chuck DeGroat returns to the Untangled Faith podcast with host Amy Fritz to explore the transformative work of moving from self-awareness to self-regulation and how our response to shame changes everything. “I call the work that I do sometimes excavation work, because we're removing rubble. . .There's a lot of rubble that has kept me inwardly oriented and not as merciful or more prone to bitterness than prone to justice as I do my own work. And as I identify these parts of me that are self-protective, and befriend them and bless them and offer peace to them, there is a sense in which we all can live from that deep heart God created us for in love, goodness, faith, gentleness, meekness. . .And so I often say in the work that I do, the greatest asset is that I'm working with image bearers.” - Chuck DeGroat   In this episode we: - Address the repercussions of the Calvin University president's resignation and its ripple effect on community leaders. - Discuss the need for self-awareness in understanding one's actions as incomplete without self-regulation - Discuss the delicate balance between speaking out on issues and exercising prudence in engagement. - Unpack the concept of shame, its link to narcissism, and the importance of having strategies to work through it. - Share personal stories that highlight our relationship with shame in relationship dynamics. Other Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/07/13/46-when-narcissism-comes-to-church-guest-chuck-degroat/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/08/10/51-celebrities-for-jesus-guest-katelyn-beaty/ Support the Show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz

 In this thought-provoking episode of Untangled Faith, Amy Fritz sits down with Kristen LaValley to discuss the complex and often misunderstood intersection of faith, prayer, and suffering. Kristen opens up about the emotional journey of navigating her high-risk pregnancy and the pressures of expecting specific outcomes from prayer. You'll love hearing Kristen's and Amy's conversation (including some personal anecdotes that might surprise you!) Where you can find Kristen: Website: https://www.kristenlavalley.com Substack: https://www.kristenlavalley.substack.com Instagram: @kristen.lavalley Kristen's book Even If He Doesn't: https://amzn.to/4gVFImn (affiliate links used) Episodes you might enjoy: https://www.untangledfaithpodcast.com/46-when-narcissism-comes-to-church-guest-chuck-degroat/ https://www.untangledfaithpodcast.com/112-leaving-the-ifb-and-finding-the-real-jesus-guest-ryan-george/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz    

In this solo episode of the Untangled Faith podcast, Amy Fritz shares a deeply personal essay about the pain and process of coping with the death of a dream, specifically related to her and her husband's journey with Ramsey Solutions. "What do you do when you have a dream that dies?" – Amy Fritz   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode Amy talks about What it feels like to chase a dream How Jon Acuff's writings and work encouraged them to apply at Ramsey Solutions What it was like call time of death on a dream   Resources mentioned This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Quitter by Jon Acuff If you liked this episode, you'll love these ones: 71: Why You Should Reconsider A Ramsey Solutions Job 94: Lawsuit Update: Hypocrisy and Double Standards at Ramsey Solutions Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

Welcome to Untangled Faith, where we navigate the complex journey of faith and the challenges we face in our spiritual communities. In this episode we're diving deep into the world of church affiliation and the personal implications it carries for believers. Guests Nathan Fritz, Amanda Turnbull, and Melissa Anne share their comfort (or discomfort) with the idea of church membership as well as some of their backstories that have informed how they approach this topic.   To follow more the Amanda and Melissa's story, check it out here: Burning Butterflies (pod.link) If you enjoyed this episode, you're going to love this one: 96: The Reshaping of the American Church. Guest: Bob Smietana – Untangled Faith Podcast   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter:https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon:https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel-https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Looking for a place that allows you to pull up a seat at the table and have honest and vulnerable conversations about faith and life? Hi! That's exactly what we're doing at the Untangled Faith Podcast. Hello! I'm Amy Fritz, the host of the Untangled Faith podcast. I pressed "publish" in April of 2021 and we're still going!  I'm fine-tuning a bit as we move into 2024 and I can't wait to have conversations with voices that understand what it's like to navigate these spaces that are full of land mines and broken systems and people. I'm so glad you're here. If you want to hear me, in my own voice, share some thoughts as we move into this year, check out the latest episode of Untangled Faith in your favorite podcast player.

Have you ever thought of starting a podcast? Today at the Table, Melissa and Amanda are joined by the amazing podcaster and encourager Amy Fritz! She is not only the host of the Untangled Faith Podcast, but works with the Christian Podcasters Association. Listen to Untangled Faith at https://untangledfaithpodcast.com or https://untangledfaith.substack.comCheck out the Christian Podcasters Association at https://www.christianpodcastersassociation.comGet your checklist for starting a podcast in the latest free issue of Asha Media Magazine at https://ashamediaonline.com/magazineThank you for joining Melissa and Amanda at the Table! This has been a production of Asha Media. Please share the Tablecast with other women by leaving us a rating on your listening platform. If you enjoyed this episode, please help us share it more with other women just like you by leaving us a rating!

"The sustained influence of an abusive leadership structure sinks its tentacles very deep, and you are not extracted from it without great harm." - Bo PritchardBo Pritchard continues to share his story with the Untangled Faith podcast. This is the fourth part of this story. You can catch them all by starting with episode 103 here: Untangled Faith: Recovering From Spiritual Abuse (pod.link) Episodes you might enjoy:Colby and Kat Wilkins' Story – Untangled Faith PodcastSupport the show:Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.comJoin us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaithThis podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangledWhere you can find me:Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvghttps://untangledfaithpodcast.comhttps://instagram.com/untangledfaith https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz Host/Creator: Amy FritzProducers:Michele PjanicPhil and Susan PerduePam ForsytheChelle Taylor

Bo Pritchard continues to share his story with the Untangled Faith podcast.This is part 2 of Bo's story. Don't miss the first part in episode 103 here: 103: Sensemaking Painful Church Experiences. Guest: Bo Pritchard – Untangled Faith PodcastBo Pritchard sits down with Amy Fritz to share his story of longing to be an "us" in a church community and learning the hard way what happens when a community values transactions over relationships.Stay tuned because this account overlaps with the story the Kat and Colby Wilkins shared on the Untangled Faith podcast in 2022.Resources:Leave a message for Amy sharing about an episode you enjoyed or something you appreciate about the podcast: Hello! – Untangled Faith Podcast Episodes you might enjoy:The Wilkins' story: Colby and Kat Wilkins' Story – Untangled Faith PodcastDeep & Wide, Finding a Faith that is Deeper and Richer than you Hoped.Support the show:Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.comJoin us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaithThis podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangledWhere you can find me:Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvghttps://untangledfaithpodcast.comhttps://instagram.com/untangledfaith https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz Host/Creator: Amy FritzProducers:Michele PjanicPhil and Susan PerduePam ForsytheChelle Taylor

The meta narrative around the story is relationships versus transactions. The things I remember are not events, they're relationships. - Bo PritchardBo Pritchard sits down with Amy Fritz to share his story of longing to be an "us" in a church community and learning the hard way what happens when a community values transactions over relationships.Stay tuned because this account overlaps with the story the Kat and Colby Wilkins shared on the Untangled Faith podcast in 2022.Resources:Leave a message for Amy sharing about an episode you enjoyed or something you appreciate about the podcast: Hello! – Untangled Faith Podcast Episodes you might enjoy:The Wilkins' story: Colby and Kat Wilkins' Story – Untangled Faith PodcastDeep & Wide, Finding a Faith that is Deeper and Richer than you Hoped.Support the show:Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.comJoin us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaithThis podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangledWhere you can find me:Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvghttps://untangledfaithpodcast.comhttps://instagram.com/untangledfaith https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz Host/Creator: Amy FritzProducers:Michele PjanicPhil and Susan PerduePam ForsytheChelle Taylor

If you're going to act like your neighbor or love your neighbor and act like good global neighbors in the world, there will be a cost to it... it's just going to come with a cost. - Emily SmithDr. Emily Smith, author and epidemiologist joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to talk about the cost of speaking out the science of being a good SamaritanResources: https://emilysmith.substack.comEmily's new book The Science of the Good Samaritan https://amzn.to/46O8Ua0Episodes you might enjoy:https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/08/16/91-navigating-the-intersection-of-faith-politics-guest-kaitlyn-schiess/https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/05/24/81-prophetic-presence-lyndsey-medford-on-trusting-god-through-chronic-illness/ Support the show:Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.comJoin us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaithThis podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangledWhere you can find me:Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvghttps://untangledfaithpodcast.comhttps://instagram.com/untangledfaith https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz Host/Creator: Amy FritzProducers:Michele PjanicPhil and Susan PerduePam ForsytheChelle Taylor

Lauren and Luke Smallcomb from Flourish Therapy join Amy on the Untangled Faith podcast today to talk about healing from painful experiences in faith communities. Lauren and Luke have their own story of disillusionment as they reckoned with the American evanglical faith system they were brought up in. After serving as missionaries for several years, the Smallcombs transitioned to doing counseling while still living abroad. You're going to enjoy hearing their story and their insights.   In this episode, you will: Discover healthy approaches to advocacy pitfalls in faith communities for a more inclusive and supportive environment. Embrace self-reflection and self-awareness to unlock the key to personal growth and healing within faith communities. Learn how to access and express anger in a constructive way to navigate the healing process and find peace. Unlock the power of compassionate curiosity and grace in faith communities to foster understanding, empathy, and healing. Explore the importance of healing from pain within faith communities and discover practical steps to embark on your own journey of healing. Resources: Luke and Lauren's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flourish_therapy/ Luke and Lauren's website: https://flourishtherapy.co Leave me a voice mail message! I would love to share your voice in an upcoming episode celebrating 100 episodes of the podcast. You can go to this link to leave me a message: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/hello   Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/05/31/82-the-role-of-the-church-in-mental-health-guest-allie/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/09/13/95-untwisting-scripture-does-god-really-want-to-break-us-guest-rebecca-davis/     Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Amy Fritz, host of The Untangled Faith podcast, sits down with Tim to discuss her story. Amy gives some of her background. Tim and Amy discuss how her husband came to work for Dave Ramsey. They also discuss the red flags Amy and her husband began to see. Tim and Amy discuss the scandals that now plague Dave Ramsay's ministry. Lastly, they discuss the resulting issues for Amy and her husband after her husband left Dave Ramsay's company. Follow Us On Instagram @thenewevangelicals   Support Our Work Get Tickets To Theology Beer Camp  PROMOCODE: TNEGODPOD Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rebecca Davis joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to discuss the complexities of truth, defamation, and the misuse of scripture in addressing suffering and abuse within the church. "Truth can never be considered slander, even if it's negative." – Rebecca Davis   Check out Rebecca's Trauma Informed Book Coaching program   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode we Explore the difference between truth and accusations of slander Examine the evangelical response to accusations Hear Rebecca's personal journey in handling difficult stories Discuss the concept of "brokenness" in religious teachings and it's damaging implications for abuse survivors Critique the teachings of influential figures on suffering and brokenness, including Nancy Leigh DeMoss Wolgemuth.   Featured Guest Rebecca Davis    Resources mentioned This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Untwisting Scriptures That Were Used to Tie You Up, Gag You, and Tangle Your Mind: Book 3 Your Words, Your Emotions Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church The Lord Is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

In a world where Amy Fritz thought she knew the ins and outs of the way she thought a faith-based busines should work, she found herself plunged into a bewildering labyrinth of toxicity. The air was heavy with unspoken tensions, and the invisible shackles around her tightened every day, but just when Amy thought she had reached her breaking point, an unexpected twist emerged, shattering her reality and offering a glimmer of hope. What did Amy discover that could potentially change the course of her life and view of work? Stay tuned, for the answers lie in the depths of her courageous journey.My special guest is Amy FritzAmy Fritz features as our guest on today's episode. Navigating the tricky waters of toxic workplace environments with grace, empathy, and a deep personal understanding, Amy is a force to be reckoned with. Drawing from her husband and friends' encounters with such situations, Amy breaks down the complex nuances of spiritual abuse and its consequent fallout. Renowned as the host of the 'Untangled Faith Podcast', Amy uses her platform to provide insightful content that resonates with those struggling in similar scenarios. Her straightforward yet empathetic approach positions her as a trusted source of advice and inspiration in this critical discussion.Don't be afraid to leave a toxic work environment. Your mental health and well-being are worth prioritizing. - Amy FritzIn this episode, you will be able to:Find out how to turn a harmful workplace atmosphere into a supportive and conducive setting for excellent work.Gauge how giving voice to the voiceless can invigorate an organization's transparency and growth.Discern the link between passive participation in wrongdoings and becoming an endorser of the same.Deal with the fear and courage intertwined in confronting a corrosive work atmosphere.Be spurred to initiate a positive transformation within your organization by valuing hidden efforts and ground-level changes.Transforming a Hostile WorkplaceEstablishing a positive and healthy workplace environment begins with acknowledging the existence of toxicity and hostility. Individuals must not shy away from uncomfortable truths and instead face them head-on. By publicly rejecting harmful behaviors and attitudes, employees and leaders alike can set the tone for a more supportive, respectful, and transparent workspace.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit Untangled Faith Podcast: Go to the Untangled Faith podcast to hear more about Amy Fritz's experiences with toxic workplace environments and spiritual abuse.Check out Ramsey Solutions: Explore Ramsey Solutions, the organization that Amy mentioned in the podcast, to learn more about those that have been speaking out about the toxic workplace environment there.Read about the Caring Well Conference: Look up the Caring Well conference, hosted by the ERLC, and what Boz Tchvidjan had to say about it, and. how others found it to be image management.Educate yourself on toxic workplace environments: Take the time to research and educate yourself on the signs and effects of toxic workplace environments to better understand and support those who may be experiencing them.Support survivors of toxic workplace environments: If you know someone who has experienced a toxic workplace environment, offer them support and resources to help them navigate their situation and heal.Foster a culture of accountability: Encourage open dialogue and accountability within your own workplace or community to prevent and address toxic behaviors.Seek out trusted resources: Look for books, podcasts, or organizations that specialize in addressing toxic workplace environmentsTransparency is key. Let the light shine on toxic leaders and hold them accountable for their actions. - Amy FritzThe key moments in this episode are:00:00:02 - Introduction,00:01:25 - Importance of Knowing,00:05:22 - Complicated Feelings,00:07:01 - Collusion and Complicity,00:10:41 - Perspectives on Collusion,00:12:57 - Canary in the Coal Mine,00:14:40 - The Importance of Speaking Truth,00:15:49 - The Power of Prophetic Voices,00:16:30 - Recognizing Our Complicity,00:19:22 - Why We Should Want to Know,00:21:33 - Navigating Complicated Situations,00:28:42 - "Importance of Financial Transparency",00:32:46 - "The Role of Whistleblowers",00:36:14 - "Shifting Empathy Towards Survivors and Whistleblowers",00:39:39 - "Personal Experience with Whistleblowing",00:41:22 - "Dealing with Conflicting Information",00:42:41 - Power Dynamics and Giving Power Away,00:43:17 - Influence and Trust,00:44:20 - He Said, She Said and Evidence,00:45:06 - Power and Patriarchy,00:46:54 - Speaking Out and Hope,When we know better, we do better. - Amy FritzTimestamped summary of this episode:00:00:02 - Introduction,Lori Adams-Brown introduces the podcast episode and explains that it is a recorded conversation with Amy Fritz, host of the Untangled Faith Podcast. They discuss toxic workplace environments and the importance of knowing about harmful situations.00:01:25 - Importance of Knowing,Amy Fritz explains why it is important to know about toxic workplace environments. She emphasizes the need to have information to make informed decisions and take appropriate action.00:05:22 - Complicated Feelings,Lori Adams-Brown and Amy Fritz discuss the complicated feelings people may have when they learn that something or someone they like or benefit from has caused harm. They acknowledge that it can be difficult to process and decide how to respond.00:07:01 - Collusion and Complicity,The conversation explores the concept of collusion and complicity when someone partners with or endorses a person or organization that has been abusive or toxic. They discuss the complexities of these situations and the need for further understanding and questioning.00:10:41 - Perspectives on Collusion,Amy Fritz shares her perspective on seeing individuals collaborate or work with toxic leaders. She mentions the importance of considering different factors, such as behind-the-scenes advocacy or the unintended message of endorsement.00:12:57 - Canary in the Coal Mine,Lori Adams-Brown and Amy Fritz discuss the role of being a "canary in the coal mine" and how someone's presence or departure can send a message about the00:14:40 - The Importance of Speaking Truth,The guest shares a story about someone who spoke truth to a conference audience and emphasized the need for introspection before hosting conferences. She highlights the importance of using influence and power wisely and not squandering opportunities to make a meaningful impact.00:15:49 - The Power of Prophetic Voices,The guest discusses the importance of prophetic voices who call out injustices and bring attention to ongoing issues. She praises those who use their influence to speak up, even at the risk of not being invited back. She acknowledges the complexities of certain individuals, like Rachel Dunn Hollander, who can be both helpful and hurtful.00:16:30 - Recognizing Our Complicity,The guest acknowledges that everyone is complicit to some extent and shares her personal struggles to maintain integrity in her faith-based spaces. She encourages listeners to strive for high standards and not be complicit in actions that harm others, even if they are unaware of the specific issues at hand.00:19:22 - Why We Should Want to Know,The guest highlights the importance of seeking truth and being willing to hear uncomfortable information, regardless of religious beliefs or lack thereof. She emphasizes that acknowledging our imperfections and being open to learning and growth is part of our integrity and faith.00:21:33 - Navigating Complicated Situations,The guest recognizes the challenges faced by individuals who may be financially dependent or deeply connected to problematic organizations. She distinguishes between those who may00:28:42 - "Importance of Financial Transparency",The hosts discuss the importance of financial transparency in organizations, particularly in nonprofits and churches. They mention the lack of reporting requirements for some organizations and emphasize the need for transparency to ensure funds are being used for their intended purposes.00:32:46 - "The Role of Whistleblowers",The hosts highlight the importance of whistleblowers in exposing toxic leaders and organizations. They mention that women often serve as whistleblowers and encourage listeners to listen to their stories and believe them, as history has shown that whistleblowers are often telling the truth.00:36:14 - "Shifting Empathy Towards Survivors and Whistleblowers",The hosts discuss the need to shift empathy towards survivors and whistleblowers instead of toxic leaders. They encourage listeners to have brave conversations, listen to survivors' stories without expecting anything in return, and offer statements of belief and support.00:39:39 - "Personal Experience with Whistleblowing",The hosts share their personal experiences with whistleblowing and receiving information about misconduct. They emphasize the importance of integrity and being willing to listen to difficult information, even if it challenges existing relationships or beliefs.00:41:22 - "Dealing with Conflicting Information",The hosts discuss the challenges of processing conflicting information and making decisions based on what is true. They emphasize the importance of seeking guidance from trusted individuals outside of the situation and maintaining integrity in handling sensitive information.00:42:41 - Power Dynamics and Giving Power Away,The guest emphasizes her belief in giving power away and discusses the importance of not enabling someone addicted to power. They also touch on the power dynamics between Dave Ramsey and the guest's organization.00:43:17 - Influence and Trust,The guest talks about how people often give automatic trust and influence to those with power and influence. She also highlights the challenge of being believed when speaking out against a powerful individual.00:44:20 - He Said, She Said and Evidence,The guest explains why the "he said, she said" approach is troubling and emphasizes the importance of looking at tangible evidence such as depositions, audio recordings, and transcripts.00:45:06 - Power and Patriarchy,The guest discusses the dynamics of power and how it can be abused, especially under patriarchy. She believes that good leadership is based on integrity and character, and toxic individuals will eventually face consequences.00:46:54 - Speaking Out and Hope,The guest explains her motivation for speaking out about the harm caused by powerful individuals. She believes that speaking out is a sign of hope and a desire for justice and restoration. Both guests express their hope for a future where they don't have to talk about these issues anymore.

In a world where Amy Fritz thought she knew the ins and outs of the way she thought a faith-based business such as the Lampo Group or Ramsey Solutions should work, she found herself plunged into a bewildering labyrinth of toxicity. The air was heavy with unspoken tensions, and the invisible shackles around her tightened every day, but just when Amy thought she had reached her breaking point, an unexpected twist emerged, shattering her reality and offering a glimmer of hope. What did Amy discover that could potentially change the course of her life and view of work? Stay tuned, for the answers lie in the depths of her courageous journey.My special guest is Amy FritzAmy Fritz features as our guest on today's episode. Navigating the tricky waters of toxic workplace environments with grace, empathy, and a deep personal understanding, Amy is a force to be reckoned with. Drawing from her husband and friends' encounters with such situations, Amy breaks down the complex nuances of spiritual abuse and its consequent fallout. Renowned as the host of the 'Untangled Faith Podcast', Amy uses her platform to provide insightful content that resonates with those struggling in similar scenarios. Her straightforward yet empathetic approach positions her as a trusted source of advice and inspiration in this critical discussion.Don't be afraid to leave a toxic work environment. Your mental health and well-being are worth prioritizing. - Amy FritzIn this episode, you will be able to:Find out how to turn a harmful workplace atmosphere into a supportive and conducive setting for excellent work.Gauge how giving voice to the voiceless can invigorate an organization's transparency and growth.Discern the link between passive participation in wrongdoings and becoming an endorser of the same.Deal with the fear and courage intertwined in confronting a corrosive work atmosphere.Be spurred to initiate a positive transformation within your organization by valuing hidden efforts and ground-level changes.Transforming a Hostile WorkplaceEstablishing a positive and healthy workplace environment begins with acknowledging the existence of toxicity and hostility. Individuals must not shy away from uncomfortable truths and instead face them head-on. By publicly rejecting harmful behaviors and attitudes, employees and leaders alike can set the tone for a more supportive, respectful, and transparent workspace.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit Untangled Faith Podcast: Go to the Untangled Faith podcast to hear more about Amy Fritz's experiences with toxic workplace environments and spiritual abuse. Check out Ramsey Solutions: Explore Ramsey Solutions, the organization that Amy mentioned in the podcast, to learn more about those that have been speaking out about the toxic workplace environment there.Read about the Caring Well Conference: Look up the Caring Well conference, hosted by the ERLC, and what Boz Tchvidjan had to say about it, and. how others found it to be image management.Educate yourself on toxic workplace environments: Take the time to research and educate yourself on the signs and effects of toxic workplace environments to better understand and support those who may be experiencing them.Support survivors of toxic workplace environments: If you know someone who has experienced a toxic workplace environment, offer them support and resources to help them navigate their situation and heal.Foster a culture of accountability: Encourage open dialogue and accountability within your own workplace or community to prevent and address toxic behaviors.Seek out trusted resources: Look for books, podcasts, or organizations that specialize in addressing toxic workplace environmentsTransparency is key. Let the light shine on toxic leaders and hold them accountable for their actions. - Amy FritzThe key moments in this episode are:00:00:02 - Introduction,00:01:25 - Importance of Knowing,00:05:22 - Complicated Feelings,00:07:01 - Collusion and Complicity,00:10:41 - Perspectives on Collusion,00:12:57 - Canary in the Coal Mine,00:14:40 - The Importance of Speaking Truth,00:15:49 - The Power of Prophetic Voices,00:16:30 - Recognizing Our Complicity,00:19:22 - Why We Should Want to Know,00:21:33 - Navigating Complicated Situations,00:28:42 - "Importance of Financial Transparency",00:32:46 - "The Role of Whistleblowers",00:36:14 - "Shifting Empathy Towards Survivors and Whistleblowers",00:39:39 - "Personal Experience with Whistleblowing",00:41:22 - "Dealing with Conflicting Information",00:42:41 - Power Dynamics and Giving Power Away,00:43:17 - Influence and Trust,00:44:20 - He Said, She Said and Evidence,00:45:06 - Power and Patriarchy,00:46:54 - Speaking Out and Hope,When we know better, we do better. - Lori Adams-BrownTimestamped summary of this episode:00:00:02 - Introduction,Lori Adams-Brown introduces the podcast episode and explains that it is a recorded conversation with Amy Fritz, host of the Untangled Faith Podcast. They discuss toxic workplace environments and the importance of knowing about harmful situations.00:01:25 - Importance of Knowing,Amy Fritz explains why it is important to know about toxic workplace environments. She emphasizes the need to have information to make informed decisions and take appropriate action.00:05:22 - Complicated Feelings,Lori Adams-Brown and Amy Fritz discuss the complicated feelings people may have when they learn that something or someone they like or benefit from has caused harm. They acknowledge that it can be difficult to process and decide how to respond.00:07:01 - Collusion and Complicity,The conversation explores the concept of collusion and complicity when someone partners with or endorses a person or organization that has been abusive or toxic. They discuss the complexities of these situations and the need for further understanding and questioning.00:10:41 - Perspectives on Collusion,Amy Fritz shares her perspective on seeing individuals collaborate or work with toxic leaders. She mentions the importance of considering different factors, such as behind-the-scenes advocacy or the unintended message of endorsement.00:12:57 - Canary in the Coal Mine,Lori Adams-Brown and Amy Fritz discuss the role of being a "canary in the coal mine" and how someone's presence or departure can send a message about the00:14:40 - The Importance of Speaking Truth,The guest shares a story about someone who spoke truth to a conference audience and emphasized the need for introspection before hosting conferences. She highlights the importance of using influence and power wisely and not squandering opportunities to make a meaningful impact.00:15:49 - The Power of Prophetic Voices,The guest discusses the importance of prophetic voices who call out injustices and bring attention to ongoing issues. She praises those who use their influence to speak up, even at the risk of not being invited back. She acknowledges the complexities of certain individuals, like Rachel Dunn Hollander, who can be both helpful and hurtful.00:16:30 - Recognizing Our Complicity,The guest acknowledges that everyone is complicit to some extent and shares her personal struggles to maintain integrity in her faith-based spaces. She encourages listeners to strive for high standards and not be complicit in actions that harm others, even if they are unaware of the specific issues at hand.00:19:22 - Why We Should Want to Know,The guest highlights the importance of seeking truth and being willing to hear uncomfortable information, regardless of religious beliefs or lack thereof. She emphasizes that acknowledging our imperfections and being open to learning and growth is part of our integrity and faith.00:21:33 - Navigating Complicated Situations,The guest recognizes the challenges faced by individuals who may be financially dependent or deeply connected to problematic organizations. She distinguishes between those who may00:28:42 - "Importance of Financial Transparency",The hosts discuss the importance of financial transparency in organizations, particularly in nonprofits and churches. They mention the lack of reporting requirements for some organizations and emphasize the need for transparency to ensure funds are being used for their intended purposes.00:32:46 - "The Role of Whistleblowers",The hosts highlight the importance of whistleblowers in exposing toxic leaders and organizations. They mention that women often serve as whistleblowers and encourage listeners to listen to their stories and believe them, as history has shown that whistleblowers are often telling the truth.00:36:14 - "Shifting Empathy Towards Survivors and Whistleblowers",The hosts discuss the need to shift empathy towards survivors and whistleblowers instead of toxic leaders. They encourage listeners to have brave conversations, listen to survivors' stories without expecting anything in return, and offer statements of belief and support.00:39:39 - "Personal Experience with Whistleblowing",The hosts share their personal experiences with whistleblowing and receiving information about misconduct. They emphasize the importance of integrity and being willing to listen to difficult information, even if it challenges existing relationships or beliefs.00:41:22 - "Dealing with Conflicting Information",The hosts discuss the challenges of processing conflicting information and making decisions based on what is true. They emphasize the importance of seeking guidance from trusted individuals outside of the situation and maintaining integrity in handling sensitive information.00:42:41 - Power Dynamics and Giving Power Away,The guest emphasizes her belief in giving power away and discusses the importance of not enabling someone addicted to power. They also touch on the power dynamics between Dave Ramsey and the guest's organization.00:43:17 - Influence and Trust,The guest talks about how people often give automatic trust and influence to those with power and influence. She also highlights the challenge of being believed when speaking out against a powerful individual.00:44:20 - He Said, She Said and Evidence,The guest explains why the "he said, she said" approach is troubling and emphasizes the importance of looking at tangible evidence such as depositions, audio recordings, and transcripts.00:45:06 - Power and Patriarchy,The guest discusses the dynamics of power and how it can be abused, especially under patriarchy. She believes that good leadership is based on integrity and character, and toxic individuals will eventually face consequences.00:46:54 - Speaking Out and Hope,The guest explains her motivation for speaking out about the harm caused by powerful individuals. She believes that speaking out is a sign of hope and a desire for justice and restoration. Both guests express their hope for a future where they don't have to talk about these issues anymore.

Lawsuit Update: Hypocrisy and Double Standards at Ramsey Solutions Explicit content and language warning.   ** This is a conversation that was recorded for the Untangled Faith Patreon community in December of 2022. Since it has been about a year since there was much movement in the O'Connor lawsuit, I decided to share this audio publicly. If you hear any mention of "upcoming" dates, keep in mind that this was recorded almost a year ago.**   In this episode of the Untangled Faith podcast, host Amy Fritz is joined by attorney, Melissa Hogan, to discuss the ongoing lawsuits that involve Dave Ramsey's company, Ramsey Solutions (The Lampo Group), and the hypocrisy and double standards within the organization. Melissa shares from her perspective as an attorney and from her personal experience with Ramsey Solutions in regard to the O'Connor lawsuit. Melissa and Amy also discuss the inadequate investigation conducted by Ramsey Solutions and shed light on the power dynamics within the organization and the intimidation faced by individuals who challenge the status quo. This episode serves as a wake-up call to listeners, reminding them of the need for ethical and responsible behavior within organizations. We should all be living in a way that if a camera was following us around, our goal is to be able to stand by whatever we've said or done. - Melissa Hogan   Resources: Court documents from the O'Connor Lawsuit https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/17372107/oconnor-v-the-lampo-group-llc/?filed_after=&filed_before=&entry_gte=&entry_lte=&order_by=desc RNS reporting on O'Connor Lawsuit https://religionnews.com/2022/09/02/at-dave-ramseys-company-some-sex-outside-marriage-was-ok-court-documents-show-righteous-living-oral-sex-hogan/ Partial timeline of events, and O'Connor Lawsuit document map. https://untangledfaith.substack.com/p/hypocrisy-and-double-standards-at   Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2021/11/03/20-our-ramsey-story-part-4-the-got-your-six-meeting-1-of-2-episodes/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2021/11/03/21-our-ramsey-story-part-5-the-got-your-six-meeting-2-of-2-episodes/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

"Read widely and in diverse communities. Challenge your biases and seek out perspectives that differ from your own. This will lead to a better understanding of Scripture and its application to our lives." - Kaitlyn Schiess While an undergrad at Liberty University, Kaitlyn Schiess detoured from her plan to go to law school after the ideas involved in the intersection of religion and politics captured her attention. That detour led to Dallas Seminary and Duke Divinity School instead of law school and it has lead to two books on the subjects we're not supposed to talk about in polite company: Religion and Politics. And that's a lucky break for us because Kaitlyn is the perfect person to join the Untangled Faith podcast to talk about this in a way that feels more like an invitation to something better than a challenge to enter a boxing ring.   Key moments from this episode: Excitement for the New Book, Kaitlyn's Unexpected Path into Religion and Politics, Co-opting the Phrase "City on a Hill", The Importance of Reading Widely and in Community, Exploring Diverse Perspectives through Commentaries, Navigating Political Differences in Christian Community, The History of Cherry Picking Verses, Moving Beyond Cherry Picking, The Bible's Relevance to Political Questions, Seeking Christ-likeness,   Resources: Purchase Kaitlyn's new book: The Ballot and the Bible. https://amzn.to/3DNVy0L Follow Kaitlyn: https://kaitlynschiess.com   Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/08/09/90-historical-cultural-influences-on-evangelicalism-guest-karen-swallow-prior/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/06/14/84-boz-tchividjian-on-fighting-against-abuse-in-the-church/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Dr. Karen Swallow Prior joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to talk about how Stories, Metaphors, and Images have influenced the Evangelical imagination.   We should always be trying to be aware of cultural influences and think about how they shape us as humans. - Karen Swallow Prior In this episode we: Discuss the cultural forces that drive evangelical norms. Learn some context and origin and development of the evangelical faith. Contend with sentimentality issues complicating the evangelical landscape. Grapple with the issues of incongruence between the message and the messenger.   Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/06/28/86-part-1-shiny-happy-people-the-impact-of-iblp-and-bill-gothard-on-the-evangelical-church-guests-kristina-kallman-and-jj-merrick/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/10/26/58-untwisting-scriptures-guest-rebecca-davis/   Resources: Find Dr. Karen Swallow Prior here: https://substack.com/@karenswallowprior Buy Karen's book: https://amzn.to/3YqW666   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Discover the shocking truth about toxic work environments and the defense mechanism that keeps us blind to the abuse. Join host Lori Adams-Brown as she interviews whistleblower Amy Fritz, who exposes the dark underbelly of a faith-based organization, leaving you questioning who you can trust and what lies beneath the surface of your own workplace.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the need for addressing unhealthy work conditions prevalent in faith-driven spaces.Grasp how turning a blind eye to betrayal contributes to toxic workplaces.Unearth the complex process of reconciling faith with the practices of Christian authorities and groups.Recognize the extensive impact of harmful work conditions on employees and their families.Know the vital role of opposing maltreatment and backing individuals on their journey of faith.My special guest is Amy FritzMeet Amy Fritz: a champion for people who have found themselves wrapped up in toxic work environments and a tireless advocate for the exposure of complicated coping mechanisms like betrayal blindness. Drawing from her personal journey and deeply-rooted faith, Amy has turned the lessons from her experiences into a brave and confronting podcast, “Untangled Faith”. Here, she illuminates the pervasive issues often hidden in the background of workplaces, offering understanding, solidarity and hope to those battling similar demons. Amy personifies the transformative power of speaking out, keeping her faith at the heart of all she does.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Check out Amy Fritz's podcast, Untangled Faith, for community, encouragement, and anti-gaslighting support for those who have had difficult experiences with toxic work environments and churches. Attend Podcast Movement in Denver in August to meet both Amy Fritz and Lori Adams-Brown, and connect with other podcast hosts and industry professionals. Read Jennifer Fried's book, Blind to Betrayal, to gain a deeper understanding of betrayal blindness and its impact on individuals in toxic environments.Explore the concept of Darvo (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender) coined by the same person who introduced the term betrayal blindness. This can help shed light on manipulative tactics used in toxic environments. Reflect on the potential costs of staying in a toxic work environment or church, such as the loss of income, community, and relationships. Consider seeking professional guidance or support in making difficult decisions. Take steps to recognize betrayal blindnessBetrayal blindness can prevent us from recognizing toxic work environments and the harm they can cause. - Amy FritzThe key moments in this episode are:00:00:02 - Introduction, 00:01:19 - Amy's Background and Podcast, 00:07:46 - Betrayal Blindness, 00:12:36 - Impact on Relationships and Community, 00:14:57 - Amy's Experience with Ramsey Solutions, 00:16:49 - Volunteering Information and Admin Duties, 00:18:35 - Gossip and Negative Feedback, 00:20:00 - Toxic Culture and Cover-ups, 00:22:25 - Resignation and Lies, 00:27:06 - Image Management and Abuse, 00:32:56 - Dave's Endorsement of Timeshare Exit Team, 00:35:29 - Untangling Faith and...

Discover the shocking truth about toxic work environments and the defense mechanism that keeps us blind to the abuse. Join host Lori Adams-Brown as she interviews whistleblower Amy Fritz, who exposes the dark underbelly of a faith-based organization, leaving you questioning who you can trust and what lies beneath the surface of your own workplace.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the need for addressing unhealthy work conditions prevalent in faith-driven spaces.Grasp how turning a blind eye to betrayal contributes to toxic workplaces.Unearth the complex process of reconciling faith with the practices of Christian authorities and groups.Recognize the extensive impact of harmful work conditions on employees and their families.Know the vital role of opposing maltreatment and backing individuals on their journey of faith.My special guest is Amy FritzMeet Amy Fritz: a champion for people who have found themselves wrapped up in toxic work environments and a tireless advocate for the exposure of complicated coping mechanisms like betrayal blindness. Drawing from her personal journey and deeply-rooted faith, Amy has turned the lessons from her experiences into a brave and confronting podcast, “Untangled Faith”. Here, she illuminates the pervasive issues often hidden in the background of workplaces, offering understanding, solidarity and hope to those battling similar demons. Amy personifies the transformative power of speaking out, keeping her faith at the heart of all she does.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Check out Amy Fritz's podcast, Untangled Faith, for community, encouragement, and anti-gaslighting support for those who have had difficult experiences with toxic work environments and churches. Attend Podcast Movement in Denver in August to meet both Amy Fritz and Lori Adams-Brown, and connect with other podcast hosts and industry professionals. Read Jennifer Fried's book, Blind to Betrayal, to gain a deeper understanding of betrayal blindness and its impact on individuals in toxic environments.Explore the concept of Darvo (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender) coined by the same person who introduced the term betrayal blindness. This can help shed light on manipulative tactics used in toxic environments. Reflect on the potential costs of staying in a toxic work environment or church, such as the loss of income, community, and relationships. Consider seeking professional guidance or support in making difficult decisions. Take steps to recognize betrayal blindnessBetrayal blindness can prevent us from recognizing toxic work environments and the harm they can cause. - Amy FritzThe key moments in this episode are:00:00:02 - Introduction, 00:01:19 - Amy's Background and Podcast, 00:07:46 - Betrayal Blindness, 00:12:36 - Impact on Relationships and Community, 00:14:57 - Amy's Experience with Ramsey Solutions, 00:16:49 - Volunteering Information and Admin Duties, 00:18:35 - Gossip and Negative Feedback, 00:20:00 - Toxic Culture and Cover-ups, 00:22:25 - Resignation and Lies, 00:27:06 - Image Management and Abuse, 00:32:56 - Dave's Endorsement of Timeshare Exit Team, 00:35:29 - Untangling Faith and...

"That was such a freeing thing to realize, oh, wait a minute, this isn't mine to hold. This isn't mine to carry."-Ally Henny In this episode of Untangled Faith, Ally Henny and Amy Fritz discuss the burden of responsibility placed on people of color in predominantly white spaces, including the myth of the model minority. In this episode, we talk about- The implication of model minority narrative and the weight they impose on individuals Strengthening your voice against injustice and acknowledging your capacity for change. The inefficacy of hollow demonstrations within racial justice theatre. Deciding to actively oppose hate speech and racist rhetoric in politics. My special guest is Ally Henny Ally Henny, a passionate writer and advocate on race-related issues, is a powerful force in the conversation surrounding the experiences of black individuals in predominantly white spaces. Drawing on her own journey as a woman of color, Ally empowers and educates her audience through authentic storytelling and thought-provoking discussions. Ally's new book, I Won't Shut Up: Finding Your Voice When the World Tries to Silence You, is a testament to her unwavering commitment to amplifying marginalized voices. Links: https://allyhenny.com Ally's new book: I Won't Shut Up: Finding Your Voice When the World tries to Silence You. https://amzn.to/44aSsiA   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Boz Tchividjian, attorney and advocate for abuse survivors joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to answer your questions and talk about fighting against abuse in the church. What's his origin story as an attorney? The origins of GRACE. Thoughts on the Us v Them messaging from many churches. NDAs Who is the Ronan Farrow or Jody Kantor of  #churchtoo reporting? Who did Billy Graham vote for? (Just kidding. Boz didn't completely clear this one up for us!) (This episode originally aired in May 2022) Links: Sexual Abuse Attorney For Victims | Boz Tchividjian Sexual Abuse Lawyer (bozlawpa.com) https://bozlawpa.com GRACE: GRACE (netgrace.org) https://www.netgrace.org Diane Langberg at the Caring Well Conference: Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores - Diane Langberg on Vimeo https://vimeo.com/365071832 Boz at the Caring Well Conference: Winter Inside the Church and Hope for Spring - Boz Tchividjian on Vimeo https://vimeo.com/365039986   Related Episodes: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/02/22/71-in-the-dark-spiritual-and-ethical-implications-of-ramsey-solutions-updated-employee-agreement/ https:///untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/03/01/72-unraveling-abuse-in-the-church-pete-singer-on-third-party-investigations-trauma-informed-practices/Bo Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Hey Friend- Is it just me or do you ever wonder…is that God's voice or mine? As Christian women who want to let Him lead us in this WITH-God Life, sometimes it's hard to quiet the noise around us, and let's be honest the noise inside us, so that we can hear HIS voice above all the others…And then often we second guess whether or not it was really Him or just our great idea…have you been there too? That's why on today's episode I want to introduce you to one of my very good friends, Megan Nilsen. Megan is a speaker, author, life coach, and founder of the Beautiful Exchange Community. She offers Christ-centered coaching for those seeking kingdom alignment and strategy during a transitional season in faith, relationships, or vocational calling. She loves discovering what God put in the hearts of women that will help them walk in greater confidence, fulfillment, and purpose. Now do you see why I have her in my life?It was actually a discerning question Megan asked me that led to faith being up-front-and-center with all I share through REDEEM Her Time…thank you Megan, I am forever grateful for your wisdom and challenging me to listen to God's voice and walk in obedience.And friend, I know you're gonna glean some wisdom today to apply in your life too. Why not listen in on our conversation…I pray this blesses, challenges and moves you to action!L.Y.L.A.S. (Love Ya Like A Sis)LissaGrab Megan's Untangled Faith Book + JournalFollow Megan's Podcast The Kingdom Life Coaching PodcastConnect with Megan and Book a Curiosity Call on her website P.S. Grab one of my free 50th Bday FIND-the-TIME Coaching Calls before the party's over! Visit the REDEEM Her Time Website https://redeemhertime.com> Schedule a 1 Hr Schedule-Shaping Strategy Session> Join the free REDEEM Her Time Community> Schedule a free 15 Min Find-the-Time Call> Submit a question or comment…or leave a review>>> or DO ALL-THE-ABOVE!

Hey Friend- Is it just me or do you ever wonder…is that God's voice or mine? As Christian women who want to let Him lead us in this WITH-God Life, sometimes it's hard to quiet the noise around us, and let's be honest the noise inside us, so that we can hear HIS voice above all the others…And then often we second guess whether or not it was really Him or just our great idea…have you been there too? That's why on today's episode I want to introduce you to one of my very good friends, Megan Nilsen. Megan is a speaker, author, life coach, and founder of the Beautiful Exchange Community. She offers Christ-centered coaching for those seeking kingdom alignment and strategy during a transitional season in faith, relationships, or vocational calling. She loves discovering what God put in the hearts of women that will help them walk in greater confidence, fulfillment, and purpose. Now do you see why I have her in my life?It was actually a discerning question Megan asked me that led to faith being up-front-and-center with all I share through REDEEM Her Time…thank you Megan, I am forever grateful for your wisdom and challenging me to listen to God's voice and walk in obedience.And friend, I know you're gonna glean some wisdom today to apply in your life too. Why not listen in on our conversation…I pray this blesses, challenges and moves you to action!L.Y.L.A.S. (Love Ya Like A Sis)LissaGrab Megan's Untangled Faith Book + JournalFollow Megan's Podcast The Kingdom Life Coaching PodcastConnect with Megan and Book a Curiosity Call on her website P.S. Grab one of my free 50th Bday FIND-the-TIME Coaching Calls before the party's over! Visit the REDEEM Her Time Website https://redeemhertime.com> Schedule a 1 Hr Schedule-Shaping Strategy Session> Join the free REDEEM Her Time Community> Schedule a free 15 Min Find-the-Time Call> Submit a question or comment…or leave a review>>> or DO ALL-THE-ABOVE!

Dave Ramsey's Legal Nightmare: Time Share Exit Team Class-Action Lawsuit Deep Dive with Melissa Hogan Dave Ramsey is facing a class action lawsuit from invested fans who trusted his endorsement of Timeshare Exit Team, a company accused of committing fraud. The case raises questions about what Ramsey knew or should have known, and whether he did due diligence before endorsing the company. This episode covers: The controversial partnership between Ramsey Solutions and Timeshare Exit Team. The legal implications surrounding the class-action lawsuit filed against Dave Ramsey. The importance of transparency and thorough evaluation in business interactions. The power of class-action lawsuits in promoting a responsible corporate culture. My special guest is Amy Fritz, Melissa Hogan Melissa Hogan is an accomplished lawyer with a career spanning over two decades. Her extensive experience has given her a deep understanding of the legal world, which she shares with listeners on the Untangled Faith podcast. Host Amy Fritz invites Melissa to discuss the recent class-action lawsuit against Dave Ramsey. Melissa simplifies the complex legal issues surrounding the case, helping listeners to better understand its implications. The key moments in this episode are: How the Lawsuit was Discovered Allegations Against Timeshare Exit Team Endorsed Local Provider Program Expectations for Ramsey's Response Class Action Lawsuit Timeline  Resources: Melissa Hogan's article on the Time Share Exit Team Class Action Lawsuit against Dave Ramsey and Ramsey Solutions. https://melissajhogan.medium.com/breaking-dave-ramsey-sued-by-former-fans-in-class-action-lawsuit-3b92d3cb60d8 Sign up here for a resource with easy access to Ramsey Solutions related lawsuit records, podcasts, articles, employee reviews. . . https://untangledfaithpodcast.aweb.page/p/7c5e76a1-f0a4-4310-a4ea-9a94144c2a97 Related Episodes: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/02/22/71-in-the-dark-spiritual-and-ethical-implications-of-ramsey-solutions-updated-employee-agreement/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/07/20/48-former-ramsey-solutions-employees-reflect-on-their-experience-with-ramsey-meetings/ Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

Amy Fritz grew up loving Jesus but figured out along the way that something needed changing—not with Jesus and not with loving Jesus. That part remained true and held her and her husband, Nathan, fast through a painful and difficult process that included job loss and uncertainty. Rather, Amy learned she needed to step beyond her natural people-pleasing tendencies in order to remain true to God and pass on the legacy to her kids and others that following Jesus and doing the right thing is always the best choice. As host and founder of the popular podcast, Untangled Faith, Amy explores the sad truth that sometimes people in the faith community abuse their power and hurt others in the name of Christ. She doesn't throw out "church" - that's not God's plan. But she's taken a hard topic and helped people by sitting alongside of them in their pain and questions, inviting them to be with Jesus rather than simply a fan. And sometimes that's a hard choice, but always a good choice, to make.   Amy is the founder/visionary/host of the Untangled Faith Podcast. She lives near Nashville with her husband, three children, and two dogs. She loves to read, write, talk, and connect people to other people and resources. She loves Jesus and hates spiritual abuse. Some gems from Amy: If we threw out every church because it was imperfect there would be nothing left. It doesn't matter what age you are when you lose a parent, you still feel orphaned. If you mom dies, you may need to go to therapy to learn how to talk to your dad.  You can do the right things and life can still be very difficult. If you are disillusioned or hurt, don't throw out Jesus. Come sit next to me, there's room at my table.

In this episode of Untangled Faith, author and podcast host, Jesse Eubanks, joins Amy Fritz to talk about using the Enneagram for navigating church life after pain. This episode covers: Is the Enneagram Christian? Evading the aspects of Christian celebrity culture. Developing nurturing relationships while nurturing your well-being. Leveraging the Enneagram to accelerate spiritual development and self-understanding. Acknowledging individual traumas and the value of supportive systems. Links: Jesse's new book: How We Relate: Understanding God, Yourself, and Others through the Enneagram. https://amzn.to/3MxLVs3 Relate Better resources: https://relatebetter.com https://lovethyneighborhood.org Jesse Eubanks on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jesseeubanks Sign up for Amy's email list and get her weekly podcast updates and monthly newsletter: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com   Related Episodes:   https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/07/13/46-when-narcissism-comes-to-church-guest-chuck-degroat/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

This episode contains content that may be difficult for those who have experienced violence or who are sensitive to mentions of abuse or intimate partner violence. Please take care when listening. In 2007, Pastor Neil Schori sat down with a woman who had come to him for marriage counseling. You probably recognize her name: Stacy Peterson. Not long after that conversation, Stacy when missing and still has not been found. Her husband, Drew Peterson, is serving time in prison for being convicted of murdering his previous wife. Pastor Neil joins the Untangled Faith podcast to share his thoughts on the Steven Crowder video, what he wishes he had known about intimate partner violence and what friends and faith community leaders need to know to be safe places for those who may not even know they are in danger.     In this episode, we talk about: The multiple facets of abuse go beyond bodily injury. The necessity of pastors to possess the right skills to manage abusive scenarios. Red flags the signal abuse situations. Empowering victims How incorrect theology is harming those being abused.   Links: Document the Abuse website: https://documenttheabuse.com Neil Schori on Twitter: https://twitter.com/neilschori Neil Schori coaching: https://www.facebook.com/SchoriCoaching Sign up for Amy's email list and get her weekly podcast updates and monthly newsletter: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com   Related Episodes:   https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/05/11/43-what-weve-gotten-wrong-about-divorce-guest-gretchen-baskerville/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

It's time to celebrate 2 years of the Untangled Faith podcast! Amy Fritz's husband, Nathan, interviews Amy for this episode to answer some of your questions. Has podcasting looked like Amy thought it would? What would Amy like the church to look like in the future? What from Amy's background prepared her to speak up? How much money is Amy making on the podcast? What are some highlights of the second year of podcasting? Link to the document of all-things Ramsey Solutions: https://untangledfaithpodcast.aweb.page/p/7c5e76a1-f0a4-4310-a4ea-9a94144c2a97   Links: https://amzn.to/3KKV7Hn  The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb   Related Episodes:   https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/02/22/71-in-the-dark-spiritual-and-ethical-implications-of-ramsey-solutions-updated-employee-agreement/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2021/10/13/17-our-ramsey-story-part-1-hoping-to-be-chosen/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor

  Have you been told to (or seen others) push through personal pain and trauma while engaging in advocacy for the health of the Church without being given the tools to manage your (or their) own emotional wellness? Are you often feeling overwhelmed and exhausted? Meet Lori Anne Thompson: a compassionate survivor, storyteller, and student. Lori Anne is a devoted wife, mother, and enthusiastic cook who loves to share her passion for sustainable rhythms and healing for those who have survived trauma. Lori Anne and Amy talk through these topics in this episode of the Untangled Faith podcast: The Three Phases of Recovery How trauma can't be your whole life Chronic activation Finding sustainable ways to give back Red flags to look for Becoming what we're against The power of saying no.   If you want to submit a question for the 2nd-anniversary episode, you can submit a question here: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/anniversary   Links: https://loriannethompson.com https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/podcasts/bulletin/cpac-trump-transgenderism-oscars.html Truth & Repair: How Trauma Survivors Envision Justice by Judith Herman: https://amzn.to/3mxzx0W     Related Episodes: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/01/25/67-the-secret-to-being-courageous-guest-kj-ramsey/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2022/09/14/55-a-curious-faith-guest-lore-wilbert/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor  

go more in depth with Amy and her story: Dave Ramsey, Christian personal finance guru, defies COVID-19 to keep staff at desks (religionnews.com) Is Dave Ramsey's empire the 'best place to work in America'? Say no and you're out (religionnews.com) Full Ramsey Solutions Response (religionnews.com) At Dave Ramsey's company, some sex outside marriage was OK, court documents show (religionnews.com) Dave Ramsey's Latest Attempt to Control and Silence Employees: Company-Wide NDAs and Forced Arbitration | by Melissa J. Hogan | Feb, 2023 | Medium Our Story of Leaving Ramsey Solutions • Amy Fritz (amyfritzwrites.com) Why Write About Lampo (dba Ramsey Solutions)? – danwatt.orgSupport the show

Podcast host and writer Amy Fritz joins us to talk about her Evangelical story and how her family moved from Minnesota to Tennessee as her husband Nathan took a job at Ramsey Solutions. She talks about how she came to realize that Ramsey Solutions was a toxic environment and that led her to thinking about untangling her faith from other unhealthy personalities, organizations and ideas. Follow Amy Fritz on Twitter: @amyfritz Listen to the Untangled Faith podcast right here: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/ Check out Zach's music by going to: https://muzach.bandcamp.com Twitter: Twitter: @vcwpod Zach- @muzach Dave- @Davejlester Podcast music by Zach Malm Logo by Zach Malm

To kick off 2023 Amy shares a brief origin story of the Untangled Faith podcast. Quotes from this episode: "My adult life has been filled with the realization that so many of these people and systems that influenced what I believed being a “good Christian” looked like weren't who or what I thought they were." "So many people I grew up viewing as the standard bearers of Christianity turned out to be hypocrites and grifters and abusers." "And that's when felt this heavy feeling that someone needed to go first. If someone would just be willing to go first others would likely have the courage to do so, too. And maybe I could go first."   Blog post Amy wrote in April 2020 about why her husband resigned from Ramsey Solutions: Our Story of Leaving Ramsey Solutions • Amy Fritz (amyfritzwrites.com) https://amyfritzwrites.com/2020/04/15/leaving-ramsey-solutions/   Related episodes: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2021/10/13/17-our-ramsey-story-part-1-hoping-to-be-chosen/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2021/12/29/27-ryan-ramsey-a-message-for-people-who-have-lost-their-faith-community-for-those-who-care-about-them/ Leave a review for the podcast: https://podcasts.app.com/us/podcast/untangled-faith/id1561001170 Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith   Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz   Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michele Pjanic Phil and Susan Perdue Pam Forsythe Chelle Taylor      

To celebrate this 200th episode, I invited my friend and host of the Untangled Faith podcast, Amy Fritz on the show to help me answer a few questions Grace Enough listeners submitted. I hope the answers give you a little peak behind the curtain of Grace Enough. Questions Discussed During the 200th Episode Celebration: Have all of your guests been eager to be interviewed? -Michele Bowman How do you find such great guests? -Belinda Letchford What have you learned about yourself through this process? -Amy Fritz How do you handle it when you're interviewing someone you disagree with? -Sarah DeSalvo What are your tips for time management with homeschool/kids and podcasting/media? -Jennifer Eikenhorst What's your most downloaded episode? Why do you think it was that popular? Do you have a favorite guest? Who? What's your dream for this podcast? What are your favorite and least favorite parts of podcasting? Describe your listener. How has the podcasting experience changed you since the Amber of 199 episodes ago? Show Notes cont. Episodes Referenced: 184: Amy Fritz | Untangling Faith After Ramsey Solutions 41: Susan Alexander Yates | Thriving in Transition 183: Lina Abujamra | Fractured Faith 104: Susie Rowan | Bible Study Fellowship, Executive Director 102: Christopher Yuan | Transformation & Holy Sexuality Sponsor: FREE advent Study: Family Christmas in the Psalms Come be a part of the Grace Enough Gang Follow Grace Enough: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube Become a Grace Enough supporter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Amy Fritz is the host of the Untangled Faith podcast, a mom, and wife, with a heart for those hurt by leaders they trust. Today, Amy shares how her somewhat charmed upbringing was shattered when her mom died suddenly, how she ran away to Middle Tennessee, and discovering that all was not as it seemed at a prominent Christian organization. Dealing with the sense of betrayal took time and ultimately gave her compassion for others dealing with the trauma from spiritual abuse. Amy's story reminds us that God is still good even when the leaders who use his name aren't. Listen to Amy's story in your favorite podcast player now! Stories Amy shared: Being a mom and wife in Middle Tennessee Growing up in Minnesota in a new Christian family Feeling like the trophy student and model Christian Losing her mom to brain cancer during an MRI Struggling with the problem of pain and grief in the world Running away to Middle Tennessee and joining The Lampo Group Getting a warning from another wife early on Realizing that there were problems at the company The social media interactions that raised red flags The moment the spiritual abuse dawned on her husband Noticing her friend had disappeared Leaving the company with no job ahead of time. Being harassed by his former company What Amy has learned about herself after going through heartbreak Great quotes from Amy: I had such a golden growing up experience that I did not see a lot of terribly painful things. All the truthful things in the world, they don't stand up next to sitting next to somebody and letting them grieve. We talk a lot about sin nature but don't seem to apply it to ourselves. Narcissism is in the blood of our churches. I knew God would provide for us. Resources we mentioned: Amy's website & podcast The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb: Searching for Jesus' Path of Power in a Church that Has Abandoned It by Jamin Goggin & Kyle Strobel The Daily Beast article on Dave Ramsey Narcissism and The System It Breeds by Diane Langberg The Religion News Service Article featuring Amy Related episodes: Kyle Strobel and Integrating Spirituality and Theology Nicole Jacobsmeyer and Joy After Suffering Chuck DeGroat and the Invitation to Obscurity The post Amy Fritz the Community of the Broken appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Amy Fritz is the host of the Untangled Faith podcast, a mom, and wife, with a heart for those hurt by leaders they trust. Today, Amy shares how her somewhat charmed upbringing was shattered when her mom died suddenly, how she ran away to Middle Tennessee, and discovering that all was not as it seemed […] The post Amy Fritz the Community of the Broken appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Today I'm chatting with Vee Weir about money shame and the benefit of listing to diverse messages.Vee Frugal FoxWeir Digital MarketingNot Another Personal Finance PodcastUnpacking The Dave Ramsey Cult: Trauma, Shame, And Guilt Around Money40% of Americans don't have $400 in the bank for emergency expenses: Federal ReserveFormer Ramsey Solutions Employee Says She Was Fired for Coming Out as a LesbianThe Case Against Dave Ramsey (Chris Hogan Scandal by Melissa Hogan)Dave Ramsey's company fires employees over premarital sex, court documents sayDave Ramsey fired staffer for taking Covid precautions, lawsuit saysReaction to Dave Ramsey's Racism VideoWe didn't talk about this, but Untangled Faith is a fantastic resource from former Ramsey Solutions employeesCome say hi on Instagram. Want to subscribe and listen on the go? You can do that on iTunes, Stitcher, Google Play and Spotify!

Jenai Auman joins Amy Fritz to talk about why people stay in unhealthy faith communities or organizations and why people continue to support these institutions and leaders even when there are reputable sources reporting red flags. This is part 2 of the conversation that Amy and Emily Snook started last week. This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling here: https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Other episodes you might like: Untangled Faith: 59: Why Do People Stay and Support Unhealthy Communities and Leaders. Guest: Emily Snook on Apple Podcasts 46: When Narcissism Comes to Church. Guest: Chuck DeGroat – Untangled Faith Podcast 51: Celebrities for Jesus. Guest: Katelyn Beaty – Untangled Faith Podcast Leave a review for the podcast: https://podcasts.app.com/us/podcast/untangled-faith/id1561001170 Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith   Where you can find Jenai: Instagram: https://instagram.com/jeaniauman Substack: https://jenaiauman.substack.com   Where you can find me: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz https://twitter.com/faithuntangled https://twitter.com/amyfritz https://facebook.com/untangledfaith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producers: Michelle Pjanic, Phil & Susan Perdue

Shannan Martin drops by the Untangled Faith podcast to talk with Amy Fritz about learning how to be a good neighbor. Amy shares how she was afraid Shannan might cause her to get in trouble with Amy's husband's former employer, Dave Ramsey.   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   Featured Guest Shannan Martin   Resources mentioned This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Start With Hello https://amzn.to/403XSva   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky  

Bob Smietana swings by the Untangled Faith podcast to talk to Amy about his new book, Reorganized Religion, how he was able to land an interview with Beth Moore that broke the news that she was no longer in the SBC, and his hope for the future of religion.   Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com   In this episode Issues facing modern churches "Only a fool fights in a burning house." The Beth Moore interview The need for organized religion   Featured Guest Bob Smietana, Religion Journalist   Resources mentioned This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Reorganized Religion https://amzn.to/3ZXcwEw   Tell Your Friends! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend. Tag us if you share it on social media.   Follow Untangled Faith wherever you listen to podcasts Follow on Apple podcasts Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Spotify Follow on Podcast Addict   Want to share your thoughts with us or talk about partnering with the show? Email: amy@untangledfaithpodcast.com Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow me on BlueSky

FREE RESOURCE for those who have been spiritually wounded or want to better understand spiritual abuse. Amy Fritz and Amber discuss her husband's dream job at Ramsey Solutions, why he left, and her passion for helping others untangling their faith from all that's untrue. Untangling Faith After Ramsey Solutions Questions Discussed: (3:25) Share a little of your faith journey with us. When did you begin walking with Jesus? (5:54) Several years ago, your husband was hired by Ramsey Solutions. Share a bit of that journey with us. (14:34) How would you describe your husband's experience the first few years at Ramsey and your experience as a spouse? (23:47) What eventually took place that led your husband to leave Ramsey? (32:32) At what point, did the Chris Hogan cover up take place? (37:06) When did you finally reconnect with Melissa Hogan? (42:37) By and large, churches host Dave's FPU and employees have been known to say it's the best place to work. How do you feel about it now? (45:24) Is there a both/and here? Both, good advice worth following and an abuse of power and bullying? (50:19) Since your family's experience with Ramsey solutions, you have launched the Untangled Faith podcast: A podcast for anyone who has found their self disillusioned or discouraged in their faith journey and who wants to hold on to their faith while untangling it from all that is not good or true. What were your hopes when you launched the show? (54:12) How has your podcast, Untangled Faith, helped you untangle your own faith? SHOW NOTES cont. Resources Mentioned: Untangled Faith Podcast with Amy Fritz Season 3: Our Ramsey Story, Part 1: Hoping To Be Chosen Season 3: Our Ramsey Story, Part 2: Spies, Cash, Fear, and Rich People Habits Season 3: Our Ramsey Story, Part 3: Everything Falls Apart Article: Spies, Cash, and Fear: Inside Christian Money Guru Dave Ramsey's Social Media Witch Hunt  Article: Our Story of Leaving Ramsey Solutions by Amy Fritz I would love to connect with you on IG. Grace Enough on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode includes mention of guns and a reference to an assault allegation. Please take care when listening. Wade Mullen, impression management expert, joins Amy Fritz to share his observations of a Ramsey Solutions employee meeting. Wade Mullen shares how impression management works and points out some specific tactics that some people or organizations may use when they feel like their image is threatened. [00:02:52] Background [00:06:16] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 1. [00:13:28] Wade Mullen observations. Appealing to cultural norms and standards. Generational norms. [00:16:04] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 2. [00:16:20] Language that stigmatizes others. [00:18:35] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 3. [00:19:10] Legitimizing. Comparisons. Define the situation. [00:24:15] The different categories of people taking in these messages. Condemning the condemner. [00:28:16] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 4. [00:28:48] The difficulty of giving critical feedback. [00:29:27] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 5. [00:30:21] Wade Mullen observations. Language of self-promotion. Creating the Us v. Them dichotomy. [00:33:22] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 6. (Mention of assault allegation) [00:34:08] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 7. [00:34:25] Condemning the condemner. Exaggeration. Negative events misrepresented. [00:37:02] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 8. [00:37:51] Got Your Six meeting clip from May 2019. [00:38:51] MUM effect.  [00:40:54] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 9. [00:41:57] Intimidating messaging. Unhealthy preoccupation with the identity at the top. [00:44:57] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 10. [00:45:08] Appeal to cultural norms. [00:45:49] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 11. [00:47:16] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 12. [00:48:33] What are we called to be loyal to? [00:50:14] Ad break [00:51:19] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 13. [00:51:43] Self-promotion and organizational promotion. [00:53:30] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 14. [00:55:47] Prosocial behavior. Distancing. [00:57:02] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 15. [00:58:24] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 16. [00:59:38] Stigmatizing. [01:00:27] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 17. [01:02:23] Belittling legitimate concerns. [01:03:31] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 18. [01:05:38] Dave Ramsey meeting audio part 19.   [01:06:10] Is there a freedom to express concerns? [01:07:26] Advice for those in this sort of environment. Sensemaking. [01:11:56] Advice for organizations. Resources: Wade Mullen Cubicles of Charm, Crucibles of Condemnation Erving Goffman book. Something's Not Right: Decoding the Hidden Tactics of Abuse--and Freeing Yourself from Its Power Nashville Scene Article Daily Beast Article This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling here. Are you interested in starting a podcast? Our sponsor, Libsyn makes it easy. As a friend of the Untangled Faith podcast, when you sign up with Libsyn, you get your first month of hosting for free. Sign up here and use the code: FRIEND.  This episode is made possible by the support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information and to access the bonus audio visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | Patreon   Newsletter signup Paypal Donation Twitter: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producer: Michelle Pjanic Related Episodes: Got Your Six Episode, Part 1 Got Your Six Episode, Part 2

Kristen Moser and Dan Watt join Amy Fritz to share their experience as former employees of Ramsey Solutions. In this episode, they share what it was like to experience Ramsey Solutions team meetings- particularly when the meetings were used to control a narrative or manage the image of the organization. [00:02:05] Intro Kristen Moser and Dan Watt [00:19:10] In what category of listener in the meetings, were Dan and Kristen? [00:24:19] Discrediting those who speak out. [00:28:00] The pattern of Dave's meetings. [00:37:42] Pattern of disparaging spouses. [00:43:18] Response to January RNS article. [00:59:51] Dave's demand for loyalty. [01:00:00] PR spectacles. [01:03:59] RS's use of NDA's. [01:10:40] Sensemaking.    Links: Got Your Six Meeting, Part 1 Got Your Six Meeting, Part 2 Nashville Scene Article Religion News Service December 2020 article Religion News Service January 2021 article Ramsey Response to the RNS article Liberty University Convocation   This episode is made possible by the support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information and to access the bonus audio with Chuck DeGroat visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | Patreon   Newsletter signup Paypal Donation Twitter: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producer: Michelle Pjanic

Author, licensed therapist, spiritual director, and speaker Chuck DeGroat joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith Podcast. Chuck DeGroat is the author of the book When Narcissism Comes to Church which came out in 2020. The paperback edition releases soon making this a perfect time for a conversation with him on the podcast. Amy and Chuck talk about all things narcissism including the many faces of narcissism in faith communities, what systemic narcissism looks like, and what to do when you hear reports that a leader you admire has hurt someone. How do you know what is true? Time stamps:  [00:03:13] Amy's experience on the launch team for Chuck's book, When Narcissism Comes to Church. [00:04:48] What is narcissism? [00:06:53] Systemic narcissism [00:11:58] Do our church systems attract narcissistic leaders? [00:17:21] How does Chuck deal with resistance from pastors to seeing their own unhealth? [00:18:40] Suggestions for those who want to build healthy faith communities [00:24:50] Different ways narcissism presents itself. [00:28:13] What if someone tells me they have had painful experiences with a pastor who is kind to me? [00:31:40] Encouragement to leaders to be proactive in regard to their church culture health. [00:37:05] False vulnerability and performative vulnerability. 00:43:26] In a complex situation, how do you differentiate between who is the victim and who is the abuser? Resources: When Narcissism Comes to Church GRACE Narcissism and the System it Breeds by Dr. Diane Langberg Redeeming Power A Church Called Tov Something's Not Right This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling here. Are you interested in starting a podcast? Our sponsor, Libsyn, makes it easy. As a friend of the Untangled Faith podcast, when you sign up with Libsyn, you get your first month of hosting for free. Sign up here and use the code: FRIEND.  This episode is made possible by the support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information and to access the bonus audio with Chuck DeGroat visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | Patreon Newsletter signup Paypal Donation Twitter: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producer: Michelle Pjanic Related Episodes: Untangled Faith: 38: Misunderstood: Are We “Dogging” on the Church? Guests: Jenai Auman and Mary DeMuth on Apple Podcasts

Author KJ Ramsey joins Amy Fritz to talk about KJ's new book The Lord Is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love. This is for you if you've ever struggled with knowing what to share and when to share your experience of spiritual abuse. This is for you if you've walked through the valley and wondered if the Good Shepherd was actually “good” because your own experience with those supposed to be shepherds left you hurting. KJ Ramsey is one of the kindest and most insightful voices I listen to in regard to spiritual abuse. I can't wait for you to listen. Time stamps: [00:02:58] What's it like to have Ryan (KJ's husband) becoming more known as he shares his voice with the world? [00:05:43] The writing process and working out your thoughts in public. [00:10:12] How do you decide what to share and when to share it? [00:17:00] How raw should we be when sharing our stories? [00:19:50] Aren't we just airing dirty laundry? [00:21:25] We don't have to so tightly guard this thing that Christ has promised will prevail. [00:25:20] Using Psalm 23 as the scaffolding of The Lord is My Courage. [00:34:15] Where are the shepherds? [00:35:50] Goodness and love are hounding us. [00:38:30] Feeling less of a concern to gatekeep about getting everything right.   Resources: The Lord Is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers Narcissism and the System it Breeds by Dr. Diane Langberg This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and for 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling here. Are you interested in starting a podcast? Our sponsor, Libsyn, makes it easy. As a friend of the Untangled Faith podcast, when you sign up with Libsyn, you get your first month of hosting for free. Sign up here and use the code: FRIEND.  This episode is made possible by the support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information and to access the bonus audio with KJ visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | Patreon   Newsletter signup Paypal Donation Twitter: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producer: Michelle Pjanic Related Episodes: 7: Pastoring People Who Have Experienced Church Hurt. Guest: Ryan Ramsey   27: Ryan Ramsey- A message for people who have lost their faith community & for those who care about them.

Today's episode kicks off part one of our three part season finale, where we do a deep examination of Ramsey Solutions. Today's guest, Amy Fritz, shares her story of her family's experience with Ramsey Solutions, Dave Ramsey's Company. Amy's husband, Nathan Fritz, worked at Ramsey Solutions and made his exit after realizing he was no longer aligned with the company. After his departure, interesting things happened— including, but not limited to the Chris Hogan controversy. And, yes, we talk allllll about it. ___________________________________________ Connect with today's guest, Amy Fritz, @untangledfaith on Instagram and @faithuntangled on Twitter If you liked today's episode, you definitely need to listen to Amy's extensive Ramsey series on her podcast, Untangled Faith  Connect with our co-host, Vee, @veefrugalfox on Instagram __________________________________________ Disclaimer:  Price of Avocado Toast podcast is marketed as and in fact is “one man's opinion.” This show is not nor should anything said on it be construed as “legal, tax, or financial advice.” If you make investing or legal decisions after listening to this show it is recommended that you consult a qualified professional first. If you don't, the decision is yours and yours alone. __________________________________________ If you're interested in talking with Haley in further depth about your financial situation, schedule a free consultation here to see if financial coaching is right for you. Schedule free consultation here We want talk with YOU about your highs and your lows so we can normalize conversations about money with normal people. If you are interested in chatting with us and telling your story, or asking us questions, please reach out! Send us an email haley@priceofavocadotoast.com or reach out on Instagram @priceofavocadotoast Do you have a question for us or suggestions for future episodes? Check out our website, linktr.ee/thepriceofavocadotoast, where you can leave us feedback regarding what YOU want to hear more of! You can also email us at haley@priceofavocadotoast.com Follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook Music and producing done by Bearcatshark. Follow @bearcatshark on Instagram! Music available on all streaming platforms. 

Boz Tchividjian, attorney and advocate for abuse survivors joins Amy Fritz on the Untangled Faith podcast to answer your questions. What's his origin story as an attorney? The origins of GRACE. Thoughts on the Us v Them messaging from many churches. NDAs Who is the Ronan Farrow or Jody Kantor of  #churchtoo reporting? Who did Billy Graham vote for? (Just kidding. Boz didn't completely clear this one up for us!) Links: Sexual Abuse Attorney For Victims | Boz Tchividjian Sexual Abuse Lawyer (bozlawpa.com) GRACE: GRACE (netgrace.org) Diane Langberg at the Caring Well Conference: Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores - Diane Langberg on Vimeo Boz at the Caring Well Conference: Winter Inside the Church and Hope for Spring - Boz Tchividjian on Vimeo   Support the show: Newsletter signup Patreon membership community Paypal Donation  Buy me a coffee Come chat with me! Twitter: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Instagram: Amy Fritz Untangled Faith Website: Untangled Faith Host/Creator: Amy Fritz Producer: Michelle Pjanic

Because we desparately needed something to laugh about, Amy asked her friend, Heather Fulk, to join her to share funny church stories. I hope you're ready to laugh! This episode is made possible by support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | Patreon How you can support the show: Share this episode with a friend Leave a review Newsletter signup Patreon membership community Paypal Donation Support the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)

To wrap up this season on grief, Melissa Hogan joins Amy to share candidly the grief and being the mom of a child with a rare fatal disease.  She shares this beautiful and terrible journey with us.Colby and Kat Wilkins & Emily Snook join Amy again to share their thoughts on the podcast season and the responses they have received. Emily also gives us some bonus schooling on Baptist polity. [00:00:00] Intro[00:01:39] Melissa[00:29:44] Colby and Kat Wilkins and Emily Snook[00:42:00] Emily gets real Baptist![00:43:00] Colby talks[00:46:15] Kat- the pieces are coming together[00:50:14] Emily has something to say[00:54:00] Kat and ColbyResourcesEverything Doesn't Happen for a ReasonHunter SyndromeProject AliveEmily Rapp- Dragon MomWade MullenThis episode is made possible by support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | PatreonHow you can support the show:Share this episode with a friendLeave a reviewNewsletter signupPatreon membership communityPaypal Donation Support the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)

At the end of episode 34, Kat said "Things just exploded and they needed to."We pick up right where we left off with Kat and Colby Wilkins. That wasn't the final explosion.They share how their time at their former church came to an end, and some surprising timing coincidences with this podcast, as well as the way God provided a pastoral presence for them in the form of some friends.Emily Snook and Amy keep talking about the things they miss about the "before" and how we need to acknowledge that life has changed, and holding the tension of the imperfect "now" as we wait for a redeemed "not yet."Resources:This Too Shall Last by KJ RamseyChasing Vines by Beth MooreBeing Known podcast- Curt Thompson & Pepper Sweeney The Discomfort You're Feeling is GriefSunflowers and toxic soilThis episode is made possible by support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | PatreonHow you can support the show:Share this episode with a friendLeave a reviewNewsletter signupPatreon membership communityPaypal DonationSupport the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)

Kat and Colby Wilkins join Amy Fritz to talk about how they lost their faith community.This is Colby's first time on the show ,and he shares about how, in the words of Dr. Wade Mullen, his internal world was being dismantled.This episode is a part of a series on grief. Amy shares some insights from Dr. Diane Langberg and Dr. Wade Mullen.“You cannot live in this world and not grieve. To live here and not grieve is to be out of touch with reality. It is a failure to live in truth.” - Diane LangbergTime stamps:Men speaking up about spiritual abuse: [00:02:20]Colby sets the record straight regarding the narrative about Kat: [00:03:29]Picking up where we left off with the Wilkin's story: [00:06:30]Colby is told from that lead pastor that he has heard things about Kat that are concerning. [0023:25]“Colby, Kat needs to be led.” [00:25:42]The lead pastor approached Kat [00:27:37]“Things just exploded. And they needed to explode.”[00:29:24][00:33:30]The mosaic of grief [00:35:43]Previous episodes with the Wilkins:Untangled Faith: 30: Let's Talk about Grief: On Grief & Loss of Community & Story with Curtis Chang on Apple PodcastsUntangled Faith: 31: Let's Talk About Grief: The Mosaic of Grief & How Denial is a Good Thing on Apple PodcastsUntangled Faith: 32: Let's Talk About Grief: Is It Okay To Be Angry? on Apple PodcastsResources:Suffering and The Heart of God by Dr. Diane LangbergSomething's Not Right: Decoding the Hidden Tactics of Abuse and Freeing Yourself from its Power by Dr. Wade MullenThe Emotionally Healthy Church by Peter ScazzeroEpisode 19: Our Ramsey Story: Everything Falls ApartThis episode is made possible by support of the Untangled Faith membership community. For more information visit: Untangled Faith Podcast is creating a podcast. | PatreonHow you can support the show:Share this episode with a friendLeave a reviewNewsletter signupPatreon membership communityPaypal DonationSupport the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)

I've been doing a deep dive on all things grief.This makes me super fun at parties.This season, I hope to walk us through the stages of grief. These are stages that are squishy. They bleed into each other. We don't process grief in a way that allows us to check off boxes finishing one stage and moving on to the next. And many of us are dealing with several losses simultaneously.Loss of faith community.Loss of relationships.Loss of a dream you had that died.Whatever the loss, it's worth honoring by taking a moment to pay attention.Join me for the upcoming season Untangled Faith where we tackle the topic of grief.Coming February 9th.Support the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)

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We recieved notice today that we are guilty of copyright infringement.

I recieved a comment from the host of the Untangled Faith podcast

A story about a pastor plagiarizing sermons.

The dramatic conclusion of our review of the podcast, Untangled Faith

Some explanation about the Untangled Faith Pt 2 episode

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If you've ever found yourself hurt or disillusioned by your faith journey and wanted to hold onto your faith while untangling it from all the things that aren't good or true, this is the podcast for you.We're sharing the hard and hopeful stories. We're talking about what happens when deep hurts collide with our faith experience. We're exploring what it means to be a wounded resisters hanging on to our faith.  And we're talking about what hope looks like on the other side.Join us for season 1 of Untangled Faith, coming April 14 2021.Instagram: Untangled Faith PodcastTwitter:  @FaithUntangledFacebook: Untangled Faith PodcastSupport the show (https://buymeacoffee.com/untangledfaith)