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What happens when you win financially… but lose yourself in the process?In this raw, unfiltered conversation, entrepreneur and coach Anthony Sparks opens up about the hidden cost of hustle culture—how chasing success nearly cost him his marriage, his peace, and his identity.This episode is for the man who's:- Winning on paper but losing peace in private- Feeling crushed by money pressure- Providing financially but absent emotionally- Wondering if success has quietly become his masterWe talk about:- Why mammon isn't a money problem—it's a master problem- How ambition turns into idolatry without you noticing- The difference between having money and financial literacy- Why most men are exhausted even when they're “successful”- Rebuilding a marriage after business became the mistress- How to lead your home without sacrificing your soulCHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction: The Climb and the Fall00:38 Welcome to Better Than Best Academy01:05 Meet Anthony Sparks: From Dysfunction to Success01:51 Early Life Struggles and Financial Literacy04:22 Discovering Network Marketing06:47 Building Success and Overcoming Challenges12:40 The Importance of Identity and Self-Worth16:26 Marriage Struggles and Redemption22:23 Ego Death and Family Priorities23:49 The Power of Vulnerability24:30 Ego and Family Sacrifices25:41 Financial Success and True Wealth28:51 Understanding Financial Literacy35:53 Taking Responsibility for Financial Situations38:19 Building a Lasting Legacy41:42 Connecting with Anthony Spark43:35 Final Thoughts and InvitationThis isn't hype.It's wisdom forged in the fire.

You ever zoom in on something and instantly regret it?That's how most men judge themselves—by the tiny, imperfect tiles of their worst days.But God isn't looking at one moment.He's painting a masterpiece.In today's video, I'm breaking down the Mosaic Principle:Why you feel stuck, how shame keeps you zoomed in, and how God restores your energy by shifting your focus from self to Christ.We're talking about:• why missed workouts, snoozed alarms, and bad weeks don't define you• how eternity reframes your identity• self-focused vs Christ-focused living• how shame, guilt, and condemnation blind you to your calling• the psychology of identity formation (CBT + NLP)• and the 5 Mosaic Questions that will restore your vision and consistencyIf you're ready to stop judging yourself by your worst moments and start seeing yourself the way God sees you—this message is going to hit home.

You're anxious — not because you're weak, but because you're carrying a weight God never built you to hold.In this video, we break down the real reason you're anxious…and why the cure Jesus gives is shockingly simple.Most people think anxiety is just emotional.Bonhoeffer said it's theological.A belief system.A quiet sermon the anxious heart preaches:“God won't come through for me… so I must save myself.”In this breakdown of Matthew 6, we uncover:

You've been grinding. Pushing. Strategizing.But nothing is changing… and it's starting to mess with your head.Before you double down or burn out, hear this:Sometimes the reason your hustle stops working isn't because you're failing... it's because God is shifting you from striving to being formed.In this video, Red Wallace breaks down why trying harder isn't helping, why breakthrough often stays hidden underground, and what to do when your effort hits a wall.

You're standing at a crossroads.The door in front of you won't open.But you don't know if it's God closing it… or the enemy resisting your calling.In this deep dive, Red Wallace unpacks how to biblically discern the difference between a God-closed door and spiritual warfare — using a framework straight from Scripture, psychology, and the Holy Spirit.If you've ever wrestled with: • “Am I supposed to pivot or press forward?” • “Is this God redirecting me?” • “Why does obedience feel harder than disobedience?” • “Is this attack… or training?”This video will give you clarity, confidence, and peace.⛓️‍

Still stuck, even after all the journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks? You're not alone — and you're not crazy.I used to live and breathe self-help.I woke up at 4AM, visualized my dream life, repeated affirmations, lit the candles…And still felt empty.Then God told me something that shattered me — and changed everything:“You're not broken because you're not working hard enough. You're broken because you're working without Me.”This video is for every Christian caught in the trap of performance, hustle, and spiritual burnout.It's not about self-improvement. It's about self-surrender.You'll learn: - Why the self-help movement leaves you feeling hollow - How Jesus and the gospel completely flip self-help culture upside down - What Dietrich Bonhoeffer saw coming decades ago - Why surrender, not striving, is the key to transformation

When my veneer fell out mid-lunch, I thought it was a dental problem. God used it to expose a deeper one: performance pressure disguised as “being excellent.” This is a message for high-achieving Christian men who lead well in business but feel empty at home. Grace builds what polish breaks.In this video you'll learn:- The difference between excellence (fruit of grace) and perfectionism (fruit of fear)- Why image-management creates burnout and blocks connection- How God fills the gap (2 Corinthians 12:9) and restores identity and presenceResources:

What if your self-help habits are actually making you less like Jesus?You read the books. You try the morning routines. You feel productive… but deep down, you're still anxious, disconnected, or stuck.Today, we're diving into the Dunning-Kruger effect and why self-help without Christ can lead to pride, burnout, or even spiritual emptiness.I'll walk you through:00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Dangers of Self-Help01:12 The Dunning-Kruger Effect: Confidence vs. Competence01:56 Mount Stupid: The Perils of Overconfidence02:46 Valley of Despair: Overcoming Shame and Failure03:19 Slope of Enlightenment: Knowledge vs. Intimacy04:04 Plateau of Wisdom: True Maturity in Christ05:29 Self-Check Moments: Reflect and Grow06:57 Exciting Announcement: P2P Journal Launch08:22 Final Thoughts: Walking with Jesus and CommunityThis is not a shame video—it's an invitation to grow with God, not just for Him.

Are you saying “yes” to every opportunity... yet feeling spiritually dry, drained, and directionless?

Husbands — is your tone tearing down the very people you're called to love?It's not just what you say — it's how you say it. In this video, I'm sharing the 5 tone shifts that changed everything for me: the way I talk to my wife, the atmosphere in my home, and the way I lead as a man of God.I used to snap out of exhaustion, not anger — but my tone was still lethal. Maybe you've been there: your wife or kids flinch at your words, even when you didn't mean harm. That's when I realized: your tone sets the temperature of your home.

Could it be that the harder you try to “fix” your wife, the more cracks you're putting in your marriage, your peace, and her trust?I know—it sounds backwards. But here's the truth every Christian husband has to wrestle with: you don't transform your wife by force. You transform your marriage by surrender. By walking with God. By leading from a place of example, not control.In this video, I'm breaking it down:

Do you feel like life is hitting harder the closer you walk with God? Good. That's not punishment—it's proof.In this message, I'm unpacking why the pressure, the pain, and the problems you face are often confirmation that you're moving in obedience. Obedience always attracts opposition—but it also unlocks destiny.

From drug dealing and jail time to building a thriving RV rental franchise, Garr Russell's testimony is one of radical transformation, relentless faith, and restored purpose. In this raw and powerful interview, Garr shares how he went from the pit to God's promise, how entrepreneurship became a tool for redemption, and how you can bounce back from even the worst of seasons.

At 21, Jason Pollock was living in a friend's basement, lost, broken, and searching for purpose. Then—one encounter changed everything.In this raw and powerful conversation, Jason shares how a stranger's question about prayer began a 30-year journey of redemption, spiritual growth, and deep faith. From battling head trauma and daily migraines, to overcoming shame, addiction, and self-doubt—this is a testimony of God's grace in the darkest moments.If you've ever wondered if you're too far gone, if God's grace could ever reach someone like you—this episode is for you.Connect with Jasen here: https://www.facebook.com/jasen.pollock

The Secret Battle Most Men Are Losing (But Can't Afford To)Most men aren't falling in public—they're falling in private.In this powerful and deeply personal video, Red Wallace—Legacy Identity Coach and founder of the Better Than Best Academy—reveals how a quiet lack of self-control is silently sabotaging men's leadership, marriages, and fatherhood.Through vulnerable stories and biblical truth, Red shows why true strength isn't loud—it's restrained, and why mastering your emotions isn't optional if you want to build a legacy that lasts.

What if everything you've been taught about anger and respect is backwards?You grew up thinking anger made you strong—but it's been slowly burning down your influence. Your wife feels crushed, not covered. Your kids see a short fuse, not a strong father.But there's a better way. A biblical way. A powerful way.In this video, I'll walk you through the G.E.N.T.L.E. Method—a practical and Spirit-filled framework to help you trade harsh reactions for holy responses. You'll discover that gentleness isn't weakness—it's Christ-like strength under control.We'll unpack:✅ Why anger is a symptom, not the root✅ How pride and insecurity fuel outbursts✅ Biblical insight from Jesus, Paul, and Proverbs✅ A real-life roleplay of gentleness in action✅ A challenge to practice one part of the GENTLE method this week00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gentleness00:17 Understanding Anger and Its Roots00:58 The Biblical Perspective on Gentleness02:00 The Impact of Anger on Relationships04:04 Practical Steps to Cultivate Gentleness09:35 The GENTLE Method Framework12:06 Applying Gentleness in Real Life13:43 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge

Procrastination isn't a productivity problem — it's a faithfulness problem.In this video, Coach Red Wallace unpacks the true cost of delay — not just to your schedule, but to your marriage, your kids, and your calling. With raw stories, biblical insight, and practical tools, you'll discover:Why “I'll do it later” is slow-motion disobedienceHow procrastination disconnects you from your purpose4 actionable steps to live with unshakable faithfulnessIf you're tired of spinning your wheels, doubting your direction, or postponing what God's called you to — this message is your wake-up call.

What does it really mean to be a good man? Spoiler: it's not about being nice—it's about living with conviction, integrity, and compassion.In this episode of the Fruit of the Spirit series, mindset coach and worship drummer Red Wallace breaks down the power of GOODNESS—not as a personality trait, but as a calling for godly men.You'll learn:* The difference between kindness and goodness* How to lead your family with quiet strength* What to do when your actions don't match your words* 4 practical ways to live a life of goodness, starting today▶ Download the FREE Goodness Action Sheet:https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/goodness

Are you holding your family together but feel like you're falling apart inside?In today's video, we're diving deep into why kindness isn't weakness—it's a spiritual superpower. Especially for Christian men leading their homes, kindness is how we set the atmosphere, heal wounds, and reflect the heart of Christ.

Are you struggling with patience and feeling disconnected from God's plan? In this impactful video, Coach Red Wallace from Better Than Best Academy reveals why patience is crucial for strong leadership at home. Discover how patience, defined as self-discipline plus time, can transform your relationships, lead to spiritual maturity, and build a lasting legacy. Learn practical strategies to replace hasty reactions with thoughtful, diligent actions, and embrace God's timing in your life.00:00 Introduction: Struggling with Patience and Purpose01:19 The Power of Patience: Self-Discipline Over Time02:34 Biblical Insights: Patience as Love in Motion03:11 Real-Life Challenges: Patience in Everyday Situations04:06 Expectations vs. Reality: The Root of Patience Problems06:01 Proverbs Wisdom: Diligence Over Haste09:05 Practical Steps: Building a Legacy Through Patience12:18 Conclusion: Reflect and Choose Your Path

You were never meant to carry it all alone. The performance. The pressure. The pride.This video is for every man who's been holding it together on the outside but breaking down on the inside.We dive into the story of Jairus and how humility—not strength—was the turning point that brought healing.You'll learn the 4 steps to truly lay down your pride and pick up peace through a powerful metaphor: the backpack full of invisible stones.⚔️ It's time to drop the weight.⚔️ It's time to stop surviving and start surrendering.⚔️ It's time to live free.

What if fear wasn't your enemy, but the doorway to unshakeable joy?

My Son's Face After I Yelled Changed EverythingWhen Coach Red Wallace yelled at his son, he saw a look that shattered his heart – and it changed him forever. In this powerful episode, Red shares the moment he realised anger was breaking the very bond he wanted to build. Discover how he transformed his approach to fatherhood, leadership, and marriage by learning to lead with a love stronger than anger.You'll learn:✅ The life-changing lesson from his son's silent reaction✅ Biblical wisdom on anger and love✅ CALM: A strategy to replace yelling with connection✅ Practical love drills for fathers, husbands, and leaders

Are you tired of performing, striving, and still feeling empty?In this video, I share my personal journey from burnout and spiritual exhaustion to learning how to truly abide in Christ—and what real, lasting fruit looks like when it's born from presence, not pressure.Jesus didn't call us to hustle harder. He called us to abide.Here's how to stop taping fake fruit to a dead tree and start living a life rooted in the Vine.

Why are you still stuck even though you're praying more, reading more, and trying harder?In this video, I'm unpacking the real reason you're not growing — and it has nothing to do with how hard you're working.We often chase self-help strategies, but God isn't asking us to be more impressive. He's inviting us to be more surrendered.

I thought I was chasing my dream. Music, fame, recognition. But one heartbreak and one sentence changed everything. What followed wasn't just pain—it was purpose.In this video, I'm not giving you hype. I'm handing you a key to lasting impact: FAITHFULNESS.

Most men and leaders think playing it safe is wise, thinking the devil is after their comfort, chasing the “easy” life— but what if the very thing you're avoiding is exactly what God is calling you toward?In this video, I share a raw part of my journey — stepping away from comfort, facing fear, and walking in obedience even when it didn't make sense. You'll hear how faith isn't the absence of fear, but obedience in spite of it… and how what looks risky to the world might actually be the safest place: inside God's will.

Why are you still tired—even after you rest?You slow down, take time off, even go on vacation... but you still feel exhausted.In this powerful teaching based on Mark 2:23–28, Coach Red Wallace unpacks one of Jesus' most disruptive lessons: “The Sabbath was made for man—not man for the Sabbath.”If you're caught in a cycle of hustle, performance, and religious rules, this message is for you.You'll learn:Why your “rest” isn't restoring you- The difference between religious rest and Kingdom rhythm- How Jesus redefines Sabbath as a relationship, not a rule- 3 practical steps to reclaim real rest and resist burnout

You've been pushing, striving, grinding... trying to stay on fire for God—yet deep down, you're exhausted.What if the problem isn't your passion—but your pace?In this video, we're unpacking the idea of **“un-rushed urgency”**—how Jesus walked with purpose without ever being in a hurry. You'll learn how to stop outrunning your calling and start walking in sync with Heaven.

Correction without compassion isn't leadership — it's spiritual damage.If you've ever been hurt by someone who claimed they were helping you “in love”… or if you're in a position of leadership and want to make sure you're building people up — not tearing them down — this video is for you.Today, we're flipping the script on correction.We'll unpack 3 essential moves every Christlike leader must master to guide with truth and love — so you correct without crushing and lead like Jesus, not a Pharisee.

Have you ever left church feeling more broken than blessed? You're not alone. In this heartfelt message, Coach Red speaks directly to the silent pain of church hurt—the wounds left not by God, but by people who misrepresented Him.If you've been wrestling with your faith, disillusioned by toxic church experiences, or feel stuck between loving God and being done with religion, this video is for you. Discover how to heal, rebuild trust, and find real community again.

Why Success Is Sabotaging Your PurposeWhat if the thing you're chasing... is the very thing pulling you away from your calling?In this message, you'll discover the truth behind career confusion and spiritual misalignment.

Break This Label Before It Breaks You.Most Christian men aren't tired because they're busy. They're exhausted because they've carried labels God never gave them. In this raw and honest video, I share the 3 tools that shattered the lies and helped me reclaim my God-given identity.Inside, you'll learn how to:

What would your daughter say if she had to give your eulogy today?In this powerful video, Coach Red Wallace shares the emotional moment his client, Anthony, broke down—and made the bold decision to start living a legacy, not just leaving one. Through a tool called the Legacy Letter, you'll discover 3 life-changing prompts that will help you become the man God created you to be.Whether you're a husband, father, or Christian man feeling stuck or disconnected, this video is your call to realign with purpose and lead your family with clarity and peace.

In a world chasing clout, fame, and performance, could quiet faithfulness be the most radical calling of all?

The 4% Miracle: How Georges Cordoba Defied DeathWhat if the doctors gave you a 4% chance to live? Georges Cordoba was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma, eight brain tumors, and endured ten surgeries. But through faith, radical mindset shifts, and a holistic journey, Georges became the first in his family to beat cancer.

Have you ever felt like you're hustling nonstop but still falling behind? Like your time, energy, and money just keep slipping through your fingers?

Your mindset is like a cracked windshield—one small negative thought can spread and distort the way you see yourself and the world. But you don't have to live that way!

You're praying wrong — and it's keeping you stuck.

Have you ever felt like your life is stuck on repeat, like a nightmare version of Groundhog Day? No matter how hard you try, your mind keeps cycling through fear, doubt, and negativity. But here's the truth: your thoughts shape your life!In today's video, we're diving deep into Philippians 4:8-9 and uncovering five powerful steps to rewire your brain, stop negative thought patterns, and step into the peace of God.

In this powerful episode of the Better Than Best Academy Podcast, Coach Red sits down with Jordan Davis, aka The Smoking Pastor. With over 20 years of experience in kids ministry, a passion for barbecue, and a heart for serving others, Jordan shares his journey through faith, failure, and redemption.

What if BBQ was more than just food—it was a way to bring people together, spread love, and experience God's presence?

"He Died & Saw Heaven… Then God Sent Him Back!"

From a life of addiction and over 15 years in prison to becoming a thriving entrepreneur, Jason Head's story is one of resilience, redemption, and hope. In this episode of the Better Than Best Academy Podcast, Coach Red sits down with Jason to discuss his journey from battling addiction to building a successful landscaping business. Discover how Jason turned his struggles into strength, overcame impossible odds, and now inspires others with his book, From Prison to Periwinkles. Whether you're battling addiction, seeking second chances, or simply need motivation, this story will show you that transformation is possible for everyone.

Join Coach Red and Jasen Pollock on Better Than Best Academy Podcast as they dive deep into resilience, faith, and personal transformation. Jasen—a Christ follower, father of 10, and successful entrepreneur—shares his journey through addiction recovery, navigating family dynamics, and overcoming life's toughest trials with unwavering faith. Discover how grace, forgiveness, and intentional living can empower your purpose. Perfect for Christian men, leaders, and anyone seeking inspiration to rebuild and thrive. 00:00 Introduction: Embracing Your Response 00:21 Foundation of Faith Amidst Adversity 00:56 Empowerment Through Better Than Best Academy 01:16 Meet Jason Pollock: A Journey of Resilience 02:23 Living Intentionally and Manifesting Positivity 06:36 The Power of Forgiveness 10:20 Modeling Resilience and Faith to Children 13:17 Leading and Loving in a Blended Family 15:15 The Importance of Prayer in Relationships 17:40 Balancing Business and Family Life 18:00 Starting a New Business 18:50 Building a Strong Foundation 20:00 Rebuilding After Divorce 22:34 The Importance of Forgiveness 25:15 Embracing Growth Opportunities 25:45 The Role of a Judas in Life 27:42 The Power of Forgiveness 31:20 Looking Ahead: Future Plans 33:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement