Figuring It Out

TIMESTAMPS00:00 - Intro02:15 - The Origin of ‘Sweet Bobby'04:08 - Simran seemed to know everything about your personal life… why not tell your friends?05:41- Did anyone ever tell you, “This seems fishy—why not do a video call?”09:15 - At any point, did this all feel… real?10:16 - What made you finally say, “Yes, let's go public”?12:06 - Catfishing: Should it be considered a cybercrime?15:25 - Looking back, were there any RED FLAGS that make you think, “This should've stopped here”?20:58 - Do you think people will ever truly understand your story?24:48 - 1 in 4 people have fallen victim to catfishing… why is this happening more than ever?29:36 - Did being part of a close-knit Punjabi Sikh community make this whole thing seem more legit?34:48 - How has this changed your views on long-distance relationships and real… brown men?36:38 - Does it bother you that the documentary was called “Sweet Bobby”?38:27 - Simran worked in banking… how did she even find the time to pull this off?42:26 - You stopped attending community events… but Simran carried on like nothing happened?42:49 - Did you guys actually live in the same neighborhood?45:53 - Why hasn't the Punjabi Sikh community held Simran accountable?48:24 - Have you ever run into her in London? Is she still in the UK?49:10 - Some say this was jealousy… others say she had romantic feelings for you. What do you think?53:11 - Do you still feel “Bobby” owes you anything?59:26 - When you showed your dad the apology letter… why was he ‘casual' about it?01:05:09 - Do people still update you on what Simran is up to today?01:15:56 - After all this… did you go back to dating?

Helen Sampson @TheUncoupleCoach worked in divorce litigation for years and witnessed hundreds of divorces progress through the legal system. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:30 - About Helen 05:15 - Main causes of divorce 10:44 - 4 horsemen theory/communication styles 14:00 - Re-marriage 17:30 - Is marriage still important? 20:16 - Divorcing in your 30s 22:22 - The happily ever after effect 24:22 - Red flags vs human flaws 31:11 - Marrying a lifestyle 32:40 - Pre-nups 42:58 - Emotional toll of a divorce 47:45 - 5 stages of grief 49:50 - How to avoid divorce

The London Egg Bank is the largest frozen egg bank in the UK, with over 20,000 stored eggs from a diverse range of backgrounds.

TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 02:25 - January: The national month of breakups 04:39 - Top 3 reasons behind breakups 07:19 - Separated but happy 09:15 - Is the grass greener elsewhere? 11:36- Couple therapy 14:27- Can people change? 15:32 - Lying & cheating 18:00 - The ultimatum 21:55 - Going back to an ex 23:16 - Push-and-pull in a couple 24:56 - Attachment styles 31:00 - Not always the victim 33:16 - Red flags 35:06 - Why do heartbreaks physically hurt? 40:00 - Does time heal everything? 41:51 - 'I love this version of myself that you brought out' 43:40 - Loving dearly & yet letting go 47:27 - Does attraction & intimacy fade? 50:00 - How to move on? 52:00 - Love isn't lost 54:55 - Rebounds 58:00 - Ready for the next relationship?

As we get older, our social circles diminish, and we find ourselves with fewer and fewer people to turn to. Imagine realising one day that all your friends and family have gone from your life. Re-engage is making life less lonely for thousands of older people every year. Older people tell us that our volunteer-led activities make them happier and more able to trust others. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 02:20 - Re-engage: A charity caring for older people 07:29 - Call your companion service 14:00 - How to get involved? 16:52 - Loneliness around the holiday season 22:54 - The 'Not so good' Christmasses 28:20 - Fast forwarding to 2025 instead 35:14 - Being around family at Christmas 39:58 - Wishing you the best for 2025

Sofia Jin is British Korean actor and presenter. She has hosted sports broadcast for ESPN, conducted press interviews for clients including Nat Geo, and hosted live events for a number of corporate clients. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:32 - Who is Sophia Jin? 02:41 - Half British, half Korean heritage 03:51 - Voice cover, storytelling 07:14  - Sense of purpose 09:48 - The loudest person is not the most confident 12:51 - Auditioning & the day-to-day 16:43 - You have to really love it 22:24 - Self worth amid life's highs and lows 23:25 - Dreading year-end & goals we haven't ticked 28:25 - Tips to get in the industry 31:31 - Passion vs Stable income 34:52 - My sponsor dropped me  39:10 - Standing up for the 8th time 42:18 - A letter to myself 45:22 - Trying to fit in 48:06 - Tough conversations with friends 53:42 - Identity crisis?

Identifying as being a British Mauritian with both parents migrating from Mauritius to the UK in the 1970's, Shelina Permalloo was the first woman of colour to win BBC's MasterChef-UK in 2012. In this podcast, we revisit her MasterChef journey, media work she's taken up since, her dream project of opening her own restaurant & first and foremost as she puts it, her mum life. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:17 - Who is Shelina? 02:26 - The first woman of colour on a food show 04:10 - Why MasterChef? 05:49 - From 25,000 applicants to 70 07:19 - Imposter syndrome 09:42 - I won with Mauritian food 10:43 - The pressure cooker 11:33 - A defining moment 12:20 - The finals 13:25 - Life after MasterChef (Media work, Lakaz Maman) 16:58 - Why I sold the restaurant 19:40 - An all-female led management team 21:58 - Bonding over food 24:01 - Reaffirming my British-Mauritian identity 25:11 - Tackling criticism 27:41 - Mauritius & its diversity 28:36 - More than just exotic cuisine 33:15 - What's next? 35:05 - Food experience in Mauritius CONNECT WITH ME Spotify⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5P3BPjurTTMKSRAwFLAPpz?si=8b835a5f86734ba⁠1 Apple Podcast⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/figuring-out/id1677026977⁠ Instagram⁠https://www.instagram.com/_jemma_p

Holly Cooke is the founder of 'The Lonely Girls Club', one of the UK's largest communities for women. It started with 10 people in a Facebook group with 5 girls meeting at a pancake house in Covent Garden in November 2018. 6 years later, 'The Lonely Girls Club' is an organisation of over 100k community members. It runs weekly events across the country for members to attend solo, have fun, connect with others and leave having met an incredible group of people to start building friendships with. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:30 - The Lonely Girls Club 02:39 - Bumble BFF 06:28 - Not everyone is your person 08:02 - 50% of adults feel lonely 10:14 - Sense of community 11:13 - Member club of 100k women 13:12 - Japan as a collectivist society 14:20 - Connections across all ages 19:17 - Loneliness among older people 20:15 - Working from home & loneliness 22:07 - Self love vs seeking companionship 32:00 - The scariest thing I did 33:58 - People are kind 39:49- Symptoms of loneliness 44:07 - Friends have different priorities 47:16 - The 'How are you?' question

Liza Gundowry, is the second ever Miss Mauritius, to have placed among the Top 12 contestants at Miss World 2024. She shares incredible journey as a Miss World finalist from intense preparations to unforgettable moments but also her truth behind the Miss Mauritius journey. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 02:03 - Who is Liza? 04:20 - Pre Miss-Mauritius 05:10 - Top 12 at Miss World 07:47 - Behind the scenes of Miss Mauritius/Miss World 10:25 - I knew I had the potential 11:34 - Resilience 12:28 - Mauritian were worried about me 13:40 - A test of faith 14:50 - Prep: Makeup, rehearsals, piano practice 17:00 - Liza's message to aspiring Miss Mauritius 18:36 - Lack of support from the organisation 21:30 - We spent Rs 1mn of our own money 23:47 - Attempt of control 24:27 - Lack of transparency 25:51 - Threatened to be dethroned 28:00 - The journalist from MBC 30:55 - Impact on my mental health 33:35 - They wouldn't allow my mum to join 34:14 - What was the reaction from the organisation? 35:23 - "What chances? The girl hasn't won anything" 38:13 - I didn't hear from them ever again 39:30 - Why voice it now? 41:55 - What's next?

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance” — Oscar Wilde. This week, I speak to Hansinee, the founder of the 'Zoli Mamzel' community. A discussion that unravels self-love & setting boundaries xx

This week, I'm talking to Tom Stroud from Love Is Blind UK & we unpacked so much in this 50 minutes chat. Let us what you think xx (or rather

Love Is Blind UK's Tash Waters opens up for the first time since the show. Tash answers the question the Internet has been asking, whether she and Tom Stroud would consider dating?! She also shares her journey prior to Love Is Blind, how she was scouted, her friendship dynamics since (including with Maria) and how she now feels empowered and almost 'ruthless' when it comes to dating outside of the pods. #LoveIsBlindUK #LoveIsBlind #LoveIsBlindNetflix ⌚TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 2:00 - Tash's childhood, siblings, hobbies 3:30 - Why Tash went on LoveIsBlind? 5:22 - How Tash's family reacted 7:57 - Girls Tash connected with 9:10 - Losing 5 stones 12:37 - Self-love journey 13:44 - Any other romantic connections? 14:57 - I knew he was going to be there 17:59 - Would you & Tom consider dating? 20:44 - A year on, a voice note at 10pm 23:30 - I doubt myself a lot 25:13 - Was it the "Nerdy" comment? 26:17 - The first time I saw him 28:21- Approaching dating since LoveIsBlind 33:55 - Proud & happy moments

Money Content Creator of the Year 2024, Sammie Ellard-King has been 'Helping Britain Get Financially Fit'. With over 150k followers on Instagram, Sammie offers actionable insights on financial smarts such as investing, and budgeting. Disclaimer: We are not financial advisors. This video, and the ideas presented in it, are for education purposes only and the information is being presented without consideration of the investment objectives, risk tolerance, or financial circumstances of any specific investor. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 -Intro 1:37 - Relationship with money 3:25 - Debt snowball vs Debt avalanche 7:52 - Personal finance is personal 10:25 - Start small 12:49 - The 3-banks system 20:27 - Build your emergency fund 21:52 - Practical budgeting 27:30 - Work: Does loyalty pay? 33:14 - 9/10 people don't like their job 38:09 - If indebted, talk to someone 43:05 - Don't max yourself out 44:50 - Getting around lifestyle inflation 48:45 - Biggest financial mistake 50:33 - How to identify money traps 53:57 - Top 3 money things at the moment

On 14 February 1990, an Airbus A320-231 registered as VT-EPN, crashed onto a golf course while attempting to land at Bangalore, killing 92 of 146 people on board. Tulsi Vagjian, aged 10 at the time, survived. Her parents and brother did not. In an interview with The Guardian, she shared that she stayed in hospital for nearly five months where she was treated for severe burns and skin grafts. She then went to live with her grandparents, on the same street as her family home. Although she says the loss of her parents was often talked about, it was not until later, when she was about 13, that “it suddenly dawned on me that they were not returning from India”. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/oct/06/tulsi-vagjiani-the-woman-who-lost-her-family-in-a-plane-crash-and-found-the-beauty-in-her-burns

This week, I speak to Amberine who is famously known for her tagline 'Bonzour tou le monde ' in Mauritius. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 01:30 - About Amberine 03:43 - The journey as a comedian 05:33 - The first viral video 10:25 - Challenges 13:40 - Body-shaming &tackling haters 16:51 - Hobbies outside of comedy 19:30 - Drawing inspiration 22:38 - Your message to others 25:58 - Do you get recognised? 27:48 - Navigating quarter-life crisis

Dr Shahzadi Harper is a GP and a pioneer in promoting women's hormonal well-being. She believes that looking good, feeling healthy and yes, sexy, are all within reach of each and every woman and is committed to optimising women's health and empowering them to make informed choices. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 1:40: Who is Dr. Shahzadi? 2:20: Women need to talk about these issues 8:37: The difference between Perimenopause and Menopause 12:44: Perimenopause: Symptoms, tests 17:30: From Postnatal to Perimenopause 20:00: Endometriosis 23:30: Painful sexual interactions 25:35: Normalising hormonal changes 32:24: Understanding PCOS: symptoms and treatment 36:30: Age groups most affected by PCOS 37:24: How can diet help with PCOS? 39:40: Do men suffer from hormonal changes?

Former Financial Advisor at LPL Financial, Ishant Ayadassen is the founder of ZUNKO-a fintech startup that will soon allow Mauritians to trade US stocks, local stocks, and crypto easily. In this week's podcast, we discuss: ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 01:50 - About Ishant 02:43 - The eye-opening conference 04:25 - The idea behind the trading app 05:55 - Binary Economics 11:05 - Zunko & bootstrapping 12:46 - The name 'Zunko' 16:17 - The tech expertise 19:14 - Hiring 21:56 - Short term cash generating vs long shot ideas 22:58 - Raising capital 24:03 - Bootstrapping vs Blitzscaling 28:38 - Pitching Zunko to banks 34:07- UX UI interface 35:23 - Marketing 36:24 - Investing for beginners 37:30 - Your money depreciates 39:05 - Investing in the stock market 42:03 - ETFs 43:46 - Indexes 46:01 - Risk appetite, goals & time horizon 51:48 - Signs YOU are doing financially well Disclaimer: We are not financial advisors. This video, and the ideas presented in it, are for education purposes only and the information is being presented without consideration of the investment objectives, risk tolerance, or financial circumstances of any specific investor.

Anne Gaëlle Bourquin, most commonly known as Anne Ga amongst the Mauritians, is a singer, writer, composer and performer. Her first single, Remember Me, released in 2019 received an overwhelming response from the Mauritian and International audience. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 02:06 - Who is Annega? 03:59 - Annega's journey at age 7 06:56 - The first album 08:21 - Favourite song 08:54 - Love always 11:00 - Drawing inspiration 13:41 - Playing the kayamb 16:06 - The second album 21:25 - The music industry in Mauritius 25:36 - Meaning behind Annega's tattoos 28:12 - Understanding our emotions 32:11 - Connecting with oneself 34:16 - What's next?

"Johnny Cassell was pivotal in my decision to travel 5000 miles to establish a relationship I had completely misunderstood. His advice provided unfounded insight that I allowed my ego to overlook." https://www.johnnycassell.com/about-johnny-cassell In this week's podcast, I talk to Johnny who specialises in dating advice, image consultation and integrating clients into social scenes ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 05:49: Female Hypergamy 10:24: Excessive feminine or masculine energy 14:32: Do men have reservations wrt dating? 16:53: Approaching people in real life 22:28: Approaching a group of women 24:07: Is dating a volume game? 25:30: Chemistry Vs Compatibility 26:19 Do men want marriage? 29:30: What are men looking for in a woman? 32:00: Men communicate less 34:12: Online dating 37:09: Instagram is the real online dating 40:19: Just saying “Hey" doesn't help 43:42 Conscious Dating 51:11: The Commitment Ladder

Hasan Kubba is the author of award-winning debut book 'The Unfair Advantage'. He is specialist in technology startups, marketing, and fundraising and mentor to many early-stage entrepreneurs. In this week's podcast, we discuss: ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 05:34 - What is Unfair Advantage? 08:23 - Can one be 100% self-made? 12:13 - The power of the word 'YET' 13:49 - Reality Growth Mindset 16:52 - Chapter One vs Chapter 30 20:14 - Is Gratitude just woo-woo? 23:14 - The Biggest predictor of success 31:45 - The Lucky Syndrome 39:38 - Individualism in the western world 44:57 - Did we Millennials get it wrong?

This week, I speak to a London-based Paediatrician who shares her experience working with kids, younger children and how this changed her perception on life. We also discuss Gender Pay within the NHS (National Health Service) in the UK. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 1:30 - Who is Dr Radhika? 2:59 - Struggles working for the NHS 6:34 - COVID-19 10:00 - Working with children 11:59 - The Regrets of the Dying 12:55 - Talking about failures 19:33 - Gender Pay Gap 23:06 - Riddle time 25:36 - Patients don't trust female doctors 28:50 - Being South Asian 32:46 - Contents creation 37:30 - Spotlight effect 39:00 - Message to my younger self

In conversation with Jessica Gagen-Miss England & Top 8 Miss World Finalist. A whole year after we recorded our first chat where we discussed Jess' STEM interest & journey, I catch up with Jess after the Miss World finals that took place in India this year. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 01:04 - Who is Jessica Gagen? 02:35 - Connections & Friendships 03:22 - Did you feel intimidated? 06:01 - Fitting in 08:13 - The interview behind closed doors 11:01 - The Finals 13:21- Top 8 14:50 - Question time 16:33 - Back to reality 17:23 - Mauritius: First press trip 22:20 - Women critical of each other 28:27 - Chapter 30 32:45 - Comparison is the thief of joy 35:20 - Let your path to success be malleable 38:03 - Home is your people 44:43 - Be present

Does your business have an email list? As successful as it might be, "You don't own your audience online". In this episode, Angus Parker who is the Manager & Director of Operations for Ali Abdaal, reveals how they grew the business from 300k subscribers to 5million. I really hope you get as much value as I did from this conversation. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 01:44 - Turned over £5.1mn revenue 02:36 - Landing the job working for Ali Abdaal 04:20 - My cold email to Ali 06:27 - Networking Tip: Give vs Take 10:53 - Even Ali struggled: His Pain points 14:00 - Feel Good Productivity 16:30 - Deep Dive Podcast 18:06 - Attacking bottlenecks 19:35 - Your Time has a Price 24:56 - Imposter Syndrome 32:32 - The community behind YouTube 39:06 - The ONE valuable thing businesses should have 41:55 - Does a 'Freebie' always work? 47:30 - Can you develop an unfair advantage? 52:30 - You don't own your audience

Siobhan Copland is a London-based professional matchmaker (yes it is a thing) and she's the founder of the matchmaking agency Cupid in the City. In this episode, we discuss how dating has evolved, the pros and cons of dating apps, how men and women approach dating and the challenges of modern relationships. Let us know what else we've missed that you'd like to hear about xx ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 3:52 - Women are more proactive 7:35 - Height vs Weight: Dating Criteria 10:00 - Is dating trickier for independent women? 14:29 - Is social media ruining it for us? 17:19 - 62% of divorces initiated by women 24:54 - Long relationships: Evolving expectations 30:21 - Are men intimated by women? 39:07 - Only 10% of men on apps get replied to 40:35 - Maximiser vs Satisficer 44:03 - Fireworks vs Fireplace 54:13 - Giving ourselves some grace 57:06 - Losing the 'fun' in dating as we age?

In this video, I discuss what I believe is the easiest and simplest passive income stream, especially if you are only getting started on your 'Finance Journey'. Opening a High-Interest Savings Account only takes 5 minutes and you could be missing out by not looking into some of these accounts that are being offered by financial institutions, especially at this time when inflation is at all times high.

Robin Waite is a professional business coach and author of the book "Take Your Own". He was a guest on Ali Abdaal's (Number 1 Productivity Expert & YouTuber) on Season 6-Episode 9. In this episode, Robin talks about the one thing that prevents us from starting whatever it is we have in mind-and that is FEAR. Fear of judgment, fear of failure but how by having a clear goal, ignoring all the shiny things and blocking outside noise can get you there. Robin also shares practical tips about how to start & grow a business in 2024. Take your signed FREE copy “Take Your Shot” here https://fearless.biz/tys

In this video, I go through 5 things you should be aware of if you are thinking of buying your first property in 2024 (UK focus). ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:02 - LTV & Mortgage Affordability 04:05 - Buying with Someone 07:33 - Negotiate (inc. Stamp Duties) 10:24 - Shared Ownership 11:46 - Rundown Properties & Renovate 13:44 - Being Flexible

HM Rawat is the Co-Founder and CEO of Lingo, a startup that is looking to establish itself as the world's most rewarding token. They raised $5.5mn and signed over 200 celebrities. Prior to Lingo, HM owned and managed 15 restaurants across Mauritius and South Africa, exiting for 7 figures.

I often get asked about my university experience in London and as I was reflecting on the current cost of living, I thought of putting together 10 tested & proven ways to save or make money during university (based on my own personal experience)

In conversation with Shanny Ramsamy, an independent singer-songwriter from the island of Mauritius. Former laureate* on the Technical side, Shanny shared her views on the Education system and academic achievements versus more creative passions. Can we actually achieve a "Best of Both worlds" balance? *A-level students in Mauritius have the option to compete for state-funded scholarships

In conversation with Alex Samuelson, the Co-Founder of MariDeal-the first online e-commerce marketplace connecting customers and hotels, recreational venues in Mauritius. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 0:00 - Intro 06:51 - How was MariDeal created? 11:11 - Understanding the concept 15:44 - KPIs 18:00 - AI 27:45 - Customer experience 41:13 - Competitors 46:28 - Post-covid revenge spending 51:21 - Investing before covid

Per a Harvard research paper, we spend on average 46% of our time on tasks that we should NOT be doing due to our wandering mind and distraction, that's ONE-THIRD of our lifetime. So, together let's review some unconventional productivity tips for 2024. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:30 - Reflecting on your visuality board 06:29 - Make your goals trackable 08:33 - Decluttering 08:59 - Parkison's Law 13:20 - Overlay a new good habit with an existing good habit 16:51 - Garbage in, Garbage out 17:24 - Richard Feynman; the case study 20:27 - FiletofFish1066; favourite anecdote 23:41 - Akrasia effect

Disclaimer: This conversation contains details of sexual, physical and emotional abuse that some viewers may find distressing or elements of this talk to be objectionable. Voted Woman of the Year 2023, Nina Aouilk, is a mindset coach and motivational TEDx speaker who has made raising awareness & helping others, by sharing her story, her focus. Raped by her father at the age of 14 and forced to marry one of her abusers, Nina breaks the silence on the false beliefs around her culture, counts of domestic abuse, her struggles and how her three children became her main source of hope.

I hosted Former WTF1 editor, F1 journalist-Katy Fairman for the last podcast of this year. Katy shares with us how she would prefund her tickets to F1 races before eventually landing her first F1-related paid job at WTF1. We asked for names and Katy candidly shared how she landed interviews with Pierre Gasly, Max Verstappen, Sebastian Vettel and many others. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:56 - How I started 09:18 - I asked Pierre Gasly 12:50 - My interviews early on 16:05 - Joining & leaving WTF1 26:34 - From freelancer writer to F1 journalist 30:41 - My question to Lewis Hamilton 33:33 - F1 drivers I have interviewed 41:09 - My full circle moment interviewing Nico Rosberg 43:27 - Critics from passionate F1 fans 50:00 - Working in a male-dominated industry

In this video, I discuss 6 passive income ideas, that you can consider when planning for 2024. ⌚️TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 02.09 - Investing in properties-Rental Income 06:03 - Investing in REITs 09.24 - Dividend investing-stocks 10.50 - Index funds 14.39 - Affiliate Marketing 16.40 - Digital products (Books, courses) 19.59 - Youtube Adsense 23.45 - Subscription Model

The amount of NO's before that first Yes! Another episode from my 'Mauritius-Mini series' and in this episode, I chat to Bryan Foo-Kune. Bryan is the Director of Fashion Heights, CEO of Play On Line, events owner of the Papi Chulo group and equally part-time DJ. As a man who wears many hats, Bryan lays out his thinking process behind all the business ventures he has tapped into, including the ones he thought about but did not execute on. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 01:29 - About Bryan 02:34 - Back to Mauritius after studies 05:02 - From employee to employer 08:33 - The workforce in Mauritius 11:19 - Pitching to international brands 15:43 - Right time vs Right idea18:29 - Rejection & Redirection 22:02 - Living your passion25:10 - How to achieve a balance?28:18 - Brain drain & hope for the next generation RECORDED at Workshop17 in Grand-Baie, Mauritius Video recording by DAARKA Studios https://www.instagram.com/daarka_official/ CONNECT WITH ME Spotify ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5P3BPjurTTMKSRAwFLAPpz?si=8b835a5f86734ba⁠1 Apple Podcast ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/figuring-out/id1677026977⁠ Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jemma.permalloo/ ♪ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p⁠ Email: hi@jemmapermalloo.com CONNECT WITH BRYANFashion Heights: https://www.instagram.com/fashionheightsltd/?hl=en-gb ⁠Papi Chulo: https://www.instagram.com/papichulo.mu/ LEAVE A REVIEW If you enjoyed listening to the podcast, we'd love for you to leave a review in the comments below or Spotify & Apple Podcast to help others discover the show :) RESOURCES & GEAR I USE Camera: https://amzn.to/46qSKTN Microphone: https://amzn.to/3PPkhHr Microphone arm stands: https://amzn.to/3LYeIoW Tripod: https://amzn.to/3FcbxpX Lighting: https://amzn.to/46mRhxO This is how I jumpstarted Youtube with Ali Abdaal's PTYA (Part-time Youtuber Academy) course https://academy.aliabdaal.com/a/2147573862/AVMHdKz4 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned on this channel at no cost to you.

Four years later, Ornella walks us through her participation at the Miss Mauritius pageant which she went on winning. In this intimate and quite candid chat, we also discuss: 09:17 -Her marriage & life as a new mum of 23 years old 13:00 - Dealing with Mum Guilt 17:27 - How she, as a public figure on a small island, feels about showing her baby publicly 21:56 - Her battle against sexual abuse and paedophila (Personally, I was SO grateful for Ornella's bravery and decision to talk about her past on a public platform, in her pursuit to raise awareness) 24:30 - Her views on Body Image (she had a lot to say and I'm sure her words will inspire many women going through the same) 35:50 - Managing contents creation & the job of an influencer in Mauritius ⚠️ If you know of a victim who might need help or you need to report someone, please contact the Child Development Unit (CDU) or Brigade des Mineurs (Mauritius). All contact details listed under section 11 in this link

Anaesthetics and ICU doctor by training, CEO of SomX (a healthtech and biotech-specific communications group) and host of the Healthtech Podcast, Dr James Somauroo had a lot to share on the future of AI in the Healthcare & Healthtech space. While most talk about their fascination with AI and how it can revolutionalise the way things are done from using ChatGPT to plan your holiday, getting that school essay written for you or sensor-driven production improvement, we attempted to explore how AI can risk disrupting the Healthcare space if its application is banalised. #AI#chatGPT#Healthcare#artificialintelligence#telemedicine Thanks for listening! Connect with me here on:

Co-founder of Yhangry, Siddhi Mithal, took ‘Demand-Supply' out of textbooks and actually applied it

"I would go to the bathroom, throw up and come back to desk pretending like everything was normal". Solicitor and social media creator, Henry Nelson-Case breaks the silence on his experience while practising Law. Through #worktok, he shares relatable work and office environment dynamics. For his Tedx talk, he chose to shed light on Why Men Need to Talk About Their Mental Health https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t54rqKbAxPE Thanks for listening! Connect with me here on:

**Trigger warning: This conversation references death and some cases in the Accident & Emergency ward. International actor model, Shiksha Matabadul, reveals she was messed around as a non-lead character, on an Indian tv show set. Bold and vocal, yet her views may shock some. Feminist or not feminist? She calls it a Generational Curse. She did not take her husband's family name after she got married and interestingly enough, it was her mother-in-law who supported her. A former A&E nurse for NHS UK, Shiksha shares the dark hours spent in ward, often dealing with life & death situations. In this conversation, we also discuss the current NHS crisis, how stretched staff are and yet underpaid when nearly 40% of the UK population go to A&E every year! Thanks for listening! Connect with me here on:

Rahul and Sushank met on Tinder in 2017 and fast-forward six years later, they are now married-happily married. In their words, happiness is after all a choice. This was one unfiltered episode where we discuss: When they realised they have an attraction for the same sex How they both had their Coming Out-The unfolding of their story to their marriage in the UK The positivity and (brutal) negativity from social media Their views and practical considerations on kids Thanks for listening! Connect with me here on:

In conversation with Founder of Millennial Money UK. We talk Money & Managing Finances and some of our Best & Worst investment decisions. We also discuss the current economic realities and how to best optimise our finances. *Disclosure: This conversation engages our personal views and does not represent our respective firms or place of work. Thanks for listening! You can find me here on: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@jemma_permalloo

"My relationship with God is no one's business." As a modern muslim woman who shows herself publicly on social media platforms, Nabeela opens up on her experience with hate and trolls from the online community. We also discuss her exciting and demanding job as a Bullion Trader in Australia and how she moved 4 countries in her early 20s. Thanks for listening! You can find me here on: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@jemma_permalloo

Mocked for her red hair when she was younger, Jessica Gagen made headlines for speaking up about the bullying she suffered on several media platforms. Her second attempt at the Miss England contest was the lucky one or rather one that would not be leaving her with regrets. As she prepares for the Miss World contest, Jessica Gagen shares her inspiring journey on: -Starting her degree at the age of 24 unlike the conventional age of 18-19 -Being one of the 9 girls to study Aerospace Engineering in a class of 100 -How she was scouted for Miss England and the behind the scenes of the beauty pageant. Thanks for listening! You can connect with me on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemma.permalloo/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@jemma-permalloo Find out more about Jessica here: https://instagram.com/jessicaashley_?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

"I will regret this for the rest of my life if I don't ask." In a candid conversation with Shivani Pau, host of the Millennial Mind podcast, she recounts how she jumped on a perhaps lifetime opportunity to ask Steven Bartlett, to be on her podcast when she was accompanying her auntie Reshma Saujani. The phrase “If you don't ask, you don't get” may get old and sound cliche but put into real life situations, the probability of “getting” something when you don't even try asking, is almost certain. While if you ask, you're at least face with a binary outcome? #selfdevelopment#justask#motivationalwords Thanks for listening! You can find me here on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemma.permalloo/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p Find out more about Shivani here: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/

Meet Bushra Siddique who took a leap of faith to leave the field of Banking and become a full time Contents Creator and Influencer. With 70,000 people following her, she talks candidly about how she eventually started making as much money as she used to in her corporate job. Married at 25, she also shares her secret for a happy marriage and how she strikes the balance as a new mum. Mum shaming, haters & trolls? Bushra opens up on the realities of social media. #corporatelife#contentscreation#newmum#millennialtalk Find out more about Bushra here:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/bsiddlife?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Thanks for listening!You can find me here on:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/jemma.permalloo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p

Let's unpack Fertility Myths & Truths with NHS Clinical and Entrepreneur, Ravina Bhanot. We discuss many topics, including: - Infertility isn't always a woman's issue- When does your fertility rate start declining?- Why we shouldn't ask women if and when they are having children?-Eggs freezing -Period Pain and Leave#periodpain#ivf#fertilityissues#fertilitymyth#eggsfreezingFind out more about Ravina here:Instagram https://instagram.com/doctor.ravina?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@doctor.ravinaThanks for listening!You can find me here on:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/jemma.permalloo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p

Having manifested it deeply, Ramzan Miah, model and artist, made it to BBC's Strictly Come Dancing. Ramzan very humbly shared his struggles and successes  as a South Asian model and we particularly connected on the Power of Manifesting Goals. If you have been enjoying the podcast, please click follow on either Spotify or Apple Podcast. Your support goes a long way as I continue building this platform and reach out to more guests. Thank you! Link to Ramzan's social https://www.instagram.com/ramzan_miah/?hl=enThanks for listening!You can find me here on:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/jemma.permalloo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p

Louise Macnab, a former corporate lawyer, has been through her own journey of discovering more about Gut Health when she was diagnosed with SIBO and gut related issues. Louise is the founder of JERMS, a gut health brand on a mission to make good gut health accessible. She shares her experience as an entrepreneur. I particularly resonated with her non-judgemental views: Everyone does not have to be vegan to start taking an interest and prioritise his or her gut health.There was certainly a lot that I took away from this episode, let me know what you think in the review section. Thanks for listening!You can find me here on:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/jemma.permalloo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p

Meet Ian Wafula-an International freelance journalist who is currently working with BBC Africa Eye. Previously he produced and reported for “Focus on Africa” which runs on the BBC World Service.Our discussion goes past the realms of journalism as Ian opens up on mental's health, cultural paradigms and on a more sensitive note, racial discrimination. I was so grateful to Ian for being willing to share so candidly, at times showing vulnerability in his personal anecdotes.  I apologise for the volume that didn't sound consistent throughout (my mics dropped out a few times) but I hope you find this conversation as insightful as I did, let me know what you think. Thanks for listening!You can find me here on:Instagramhttps://instagram.com/jemma.permalloo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@_jemma_p