Podcast appearances and mentions of christian wisdom

What do you do when you don't know what to do? Angela Williams Gorrell joins Mark Labberton to discuss her latest book, Braving Difficult Decisions. With poignant storytelling and theological depth, Gorrell shares how this book was born out of personal crucibles and a yearning to make sense of liminal, paralyzing spaces we all encounter—individually and communally. Together they explore how discernment is not just about decision-making but also about cultivating a life of wisdom, attentiveness, and spiritual depth. Rooted in Christian tradition yet capacious across communities and contexts, Gorrell invites listeners to slow down, ask deeper questions, and consider the spiritual, emotional, and communal terrain that shapes every meaningful decision. Episode Highlights “To not make a decision is to make one as well.” “This journey is about an inward journey that says, how do I look at the state of my own soul?” “Sometimes good decisions don't feel good.” “What if the best idea isn't the good idea? And what if the data can't tell us that?” “Lady Wisdom invites us to dine—to sit at a table with God and others, and not rush the meal.” Helpful Links and Resources Braving Difficult Decisions, by Angela Williams Gorrell The Gravity of Joy, by Angela Williams Gorrell Life Worth Living course at Yale www.angelagorrell.com @angelagorrell on Instagram Show Notes The “liminal space” of facing a difficult decision, arriving at a crossroads Defining discernment as “a practice, not a single moment of choice” The book stems from her decision to leave a tenured-track faculty position, and a painful personal choice about marriage Perpetua and Felicity—early Christian martyrs Individual discernment and soul work Life Worth Living at Yale “Can I be suffering and my life still be good?” The deeply heartbreaking experience of grappling with the question of divorce “I really struggled to find a book that was like, you can be deeply Christian, deeply spiritual, and make this very difficult choice.” “You have to put them in your own heart and soul. You have to grapple with these ideas, and then you write them.” Should we avoid difficult decisions? Discerning, then acting “To not make a decision is to make one as well.” “I wanted to write a book that spoke to that liminal space where we feel paralyzed.” “Good decisions don't always feel good—they might still break your heart” Discusses difference between chronic pain and acute pain in decision-making Discernment helps identify not just what is “right,” but what leads toward peace Michaela O'Donnell and chronic pain Discernment is about “looking at the state of your own soul and becoming a steward of it” “This story that God is nurturing in the world—that story doesn't hinge on like this decision in your life.” Self-examination, and feeling alone in the decision Community-based decision-making “There are all these false binaries.” “What baggage do you have from the past? And how do you make sure that you're not seeing the present moment through the past?” Being as gracious as possible “ What is a way that we can create space to really hear from God?—to hear from each other, and to move forward in a way that we're doing change together and not to each other.” “They need to figure out something together that matters deeply.” The book offers a pathway for congregations and organizations discerning together “How do we do change with people?” Encourages communities to take time, name past wounds, and define who makes decisions Identifies the importance of setting clear expectations, timelines, and spiritual framing “Listening to everyone takes time, but it leads to deeper collective ownership.” Invites communities to ask: What values do we want to embody in this moment? “Sometimes the most valuable part of the process is the slowness.” Wisdom, complexity, and culture Decision-making in our polarized society must account for nuance, empathy, and complexity “What if the data tells us one thing, but the Spirit tells us something else?” Resist “data-driven” decisions as totalizing; discernment includes emotion, history, and spirituality. “Sometimes good decisions don't feel good, you know? Sometimes a life worth living is not about pursuing happiness.” “Lady Wisdom invites us to come and to dine at her house and to sit at a table together.” Names systemic fatigue: “Organizations optimize while their people starve.” Decision-making is affected by race, gender, trauma, context—“there is no one-size-fits-all path” Discernment as a practice, not a moment Braving Difficult Decisions includes exercises and frameworks, such as the “iceberg model” “Most big questions are like an iceberg. There's all this ice beneath the surface that you don't see. That's really the stuff that people are grappling with.” Encourages ongoing wisdom practices: surrender, self-reflection, value-alignment The book is not just a guide for one hard moment, but a long-term companion Ideal for pastors, therapists, educators, spiritual directors, and leaders About Angela Williams Gorrell Rev. Dr. Angela Williams Gorrell is an author, speaker, and consultant. Gorrell speaks and writes about finding the life worth living, joy, meaning, and purpose, and the intersection of spiritual and mental health. She is the author of Always On, The Gravity of Joy, and Braving Difficult Decisions: What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do. Angela's research has been highlighted in media sources such as the New York Times, the Washington Post, and NPR. Gorrell has taught at several schools including Yale University and Baylor University. She has provided thought leadership and consulting for numerous organizations including the US Army and the NBA. You can find her at her website www.angelagorrell.com or on instagram @angelagorrell. Production Credits Conversing is produced and distributed in partnership with Comment magazine and Fuller Seminary.

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariWhen Truth Hits Hard: The Cross Is Still the AnswerNOW ON YOUTUBEInspired by the powerful lyrics in Son of Heaven by Brandon Lake, this episode goes straight to the heart. Cari shares a moment when truth collided with emotion—a reminder that no matter what we face, the Cross is still the answer, and the Blood is still the Blood. When life feels heavy, confusing, or overwhelming, it's not always comfort we need—sometimes it's clarity. This raw and real conversation will call you higher, challenge your perspective, and point you back to Jesus.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariParenting While Broken: Understanding Your Own UpbringingNOW ON YOUTUBEHow much of the way you parent is shaped by how you were raised? In this episode, we take a deep dive into understanding our own upbringing and how it influences the way we show up as parents. Sometimes, the patterns we carry aren't healthy—but awareness can bring healing and change. Join us as we explore how to break cycles, extend grace to ourselves and our parents, and create a new legacy for our children.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariTalking Instead of Praying: When Words Replace WorshipNOW ON YOUTUBEAre you talking about your problems more than you're praying about them? In this episode, we explore the subtle but significant difference between venting and seeking God. When we fill our minds and conversations with worries, complaints, or endless processing, we can miss the power of surrendering it all to Him. Join us as we discuss how to shift from over-talking to deepening our prayer life, trusting that God hears, sees, and moves when we truly seek Him.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

In this message, Pastor Isiah walks through Ephesians 5:11–21 verse by verse, calling believers to live alert, walk in wisdom, and be filled with the Spirit. With biblical insight, practical truth, and powerful illustrations, this sermon challenges us to expose darkness, redeem our time, and submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. It's a bold wake-up call to live fully in the light of God's purpose.

In this episode of Equipping the Saints, Pastors Moline and Goodroad, along with Vicar Flanick, continue a detailed look at the Book of Proverbs. This episode explores Proverbs 16:16-33.

In this episode of Equipping the Saints, Pastors Moline and Goodroad along with Vicar Flanick continue a detailed look at the Book of Proverbs. This episode explores Proverbs 16:1-15.

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariBeing Thankful: The Power of True Gratitude – Being Intentional, Not EmptyNOW ON YOUTUBEGratitude is more than just saying “thank you” — it's about truly living with a heart of thankfulness. In this episode, we dive into what it means to be intentional about gratitude, avoiding empty gestures, and cultivating a lifestyle that reflects genuine appreciation. Whether in your faith, relationships, or daily routines, learn how to shift from routine thanks to deep, meaningful gratitude that transforms your perspective and your walk with God.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariSilencing Food Noise: A Conversation with Dr. Daniel Burton and CariNOW ON YOUTUBEStruggling with constant thoughts about food? In this episode, Dr. Daniel Burton and Cari dive deep into the concept of "food noise" — those relentless cravings and mental battles around eating. They share practical strategies for finding freedom, balancing nutrition, and aligning your health journey with faith. Whether you're navigating emotional eating or seeking a more peaceful relationship with food, this episode offers insight and hope.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.comConnect with Dr. Daniel Burton:Website:      drdans-empowermenthub.mn.coYouTube:    @theofficialdrdan

In this episode of Equipping the Saints, Pastors Moline and Goodroad along with the Vicar continue a detailed look at the Book of Proverbs. This episode explores Proverbs 15:18-33.

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariBrandon and Cari: The Love Story You've Been Waiting ForNOW ON YOUTUBEYou've asked, and now I'm sharing — the love story of Brandon and Cari. In this heartfelt episode, they open up about my journey, from how they met to the moments that tested their faith and strengthened their bond. This is a raw and real conversation about love, commitment, and building a marriage centered on God. Whether you're single, dating, or married, their story will inspire you to trust in God's timing and embrace the beauty of a Christ-centered relationship.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Catherine Macora has been a Consecrated Woman of Regnum Christi for 28 years. The Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi form part of a Society of Apostolic Life based in Rome, Italy. With centers around the world, the Consecrated Women dedicate their lives to announce God's word and bring His love and mercy to others through various forms of evangelization projects, education and mission work.   From Austin, Texas, Catherine graduated from University of Texas at Austin and worked in public relations and marketing in Houston, Texas and London, England for 10 years before discovering her call to be consecrated.  During her consecrated life she has worked in Regnum Christi schools in Spain and the USA. She has also worked with youth and Youth Missions. She has given spiritual guidance and formation to all ages but predominantly young adults and married women. Catherine spent many years caring for her elderly parents before they were called to their eternal rest. In 2023, Catherine completed a Master's Certificate in Christian Wisdom at Holy Apostles College & Seminary and taught a scripture class at the School of Pastoral Leadership and Evangelization located at University of St. Mary of the Lake in Mundelein. Currently, Catherine resides in the Chicago community, offering spiritual guidance, spiritual formation retreats and supporting local parish ministries.   https://consecratedwomen.org

Struggling with decisions? Your new heart discerns God's voice. Discover how living from your heart, not intellect, leads to clarity in today's study.

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariIn the Feels: Grief, Grace, and Trusting God's ControlNOW ON YOUTUBEIn this raw and unscripted episode, Cari shares her heart about the passing of her mother-in-law and the emotional waves that come with loss. She explores the power of sitting with your feelings, acknowledging the pain, and finding peace in knowing that God is in control. Sometimes the greatest healing happens when we stop striving and simply rest in His presence.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariNOW ON YOUTUBEJust like a solution needs dwell time to fully work, so does our spiritual journey. In this episode, Cari explores the importance of allowing time for God's truth to settle in our hearts, His healing to take root, and His direction to become clear. Transformation doesn't happen instantly—sometimes, we need to sit in His presence and trust the process. Don't rush what God is doing in you!Verses:Psalm 37:3 - Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.Psalm 23:6 - Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.Psalm 4:8 - In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety.Colossians 3:16 - Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.Psalm 27:4 - One thing I ask from the Lordthis only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord  and to seek him in his temple.Psalm 131:1 - My heart is not proud, Lord, my eyes are not haughty; I do not concern myself with great matters or things too wonderful for me.Deuteronomy 5:33 - Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess.1 John 4:13 - This is how we know that we live in him and he in us: He has given us of his Spirit.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariNOW ON YOUTUBEIn today's fast-paced world, self-care often feels like just another item on our never-ending to-do list. But what if it didn't have to be? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Shivani Gupta, a leading expert in Ayurveda and the creator of Fusionary Formulas, to explore how ancient Ayurvedic practices—like the power of turmeric—can transform your health, reduce inflammation, and help you thrive. Dr. Gupta shares practical, time-efficient ways to integrate self-care into your daily routine, bridging the gap between Eastern wisdom and modern Western lifestyles. If you're ready to step into a healthier, more vibrant life without sacrificing your busy schedule, this episode is for you!URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.comConnect with Dr. Shivani Gupta: (Use Code VeryCari at Checkout!)Website: shivanigupta.comWebsite:     fusionaryformulas.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariNOW ON YOUTUBEEven the strongest believers experience exhaustion, doubt, and discouragement. In this episode, we explore Elijah's “broom bush moment,” looking at the parallels with Elijah's time under the broom tree in 1 Kings 19. After great victories, both prophets faced deep weariness—yet God met them in their lowest moments with rest, provision, and a renewed calling. If you've ever felt burned out, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step, this episode will remind you that sometimes, God's first instruction isn't to do more—but to rest, recharge, and listen for His still, small voice.Verses:1 Kings 18:16  - 1 Kings 19:21URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

Join the Facebook Group: All Things Very CariNOW ON YOUTUBEMY DIET TRAUMA STORY - Listen Now - In this episode, Cari dives into the transformative journey of growth and change, both physically and spiritually. She explores the challenges of letting go of old habits, mindsets, and routines to embrace a new, healthier way of living—body, mind, and spirit. Drawing on her personal experiences and biblical wisdom, Cari unpacks how these changes aren't just external but deeply internal and spiritual. Discover how the renewal process strengthens your relationship with God and equips you to step into the new creation He's called you to be. This episode is packed with encouragement, insights, and actionable steps to help you navigate your own transformation with grace and faith.Verses:2 Corinthians 5:17: Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:The old has gone, the new is here!Galatians 6:15: Neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything; what counts is the new creation.Ephesians 4:22: You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;Romans 6:4: We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.Colossians 3:10: and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.Romans 6:22: But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life.Romans 12:1: Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.1 Corinthians 1:30: It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption.1 Corinthians 3:16: Don't you know that you yourselves are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in your midst?URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.com

NOW ON YOUTUBEListen to the First EpisodeIn this candid and insightful episode, Cari sits down with Rachel Cool to discuss three major red flags that couples should watch for in their marriages. Drawing from her years in ministry and personal experience, Rachel dives deep into topics like communication breakdowns, emotional disconnect, and prioritizing everything but your relationship. Together, Cari and Rachel offer practical tips and godly wisdom to help you address these warning signs and strengthen your marriage. Whether you're newly married or have been together for years, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways to help you build a thriving, Christ-centered partnership.URHERE Information- www.verycaripodcast.com/urhereFoundations of Faith-  RachelMCool.comConnect with Cari:Instagram: instagram.com/carithompsonrnFacebook: www.facebook.com/cari.ayres.3Website:     VeryCariPodcast.comConnect with Rachel:Instagram: instagram.com/rachelmcoolWebsite:     RachelMCool.com - Sign Up For Foundations of Faith Today!Website:     AEMARRIAGE.com - Learn about the Marriage Check In and Start 2025 off right!