Podcast appearances and mentions of julie lyles carr

Lots of people have lots of opinions about what it means to be a "good" Christian girl. But what is simply performance and what is actually based on your relationship with God? Julie Lyles Carr, AllMomDoes host, tackles this complex and layered topic in this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4eDLqcJ 

Julie goes solo this episode, unpacking the latest parenting trends, with insights on what to take with you from those trends and what to consider leaving behind.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4vpESpp 

The select soccer practices, the travel team, the chess club, the homework, the test prep...moms today are navigating not just a more complex world when it comes to raising their kids, but also all the add-ons that are supposed to help our kids prepare for an uncertain future. But what if you decided to get off the hamster wheel and make your kids...and your life...more simple? Novelist and journalist Christine Gunderson joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful conversation about the forces that drive us to do more more more for our kids and why it could be time for a reset.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4xfKrIr Key  Topics:The evolution of motherhood from the 1960s to todayImpact of societal expectations on mothersThe role of community in raising childrenThe importance of boredom and free time for kidsThe influence of technology and screen time on literacy and creativitySound bites:"Why are we doing all this stuff?""Fast content shortens attention spans.""Share passions, don't impose them."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Motherhood Today03:04 The Changing Landscape of Motherhood05:47 Community and Its Role in Parenting08:38 The Impact of Scheduling on Children11:26 Boredom and Creativity in Kids14:35 The Walk Away Wife Syndrome17:23 Finding Solutions Through Community20:10 Unrealized Aspirations and Parenting22:49 Conclusion and ResourcesKeywords: motherhood, parenting pressures, community, family life, homeschooling, childhood freedom, social anxiety, screen time, work-life balance, novel

Statistics show that summer time means...more screen time. That's right. When school's out, the devices, the online gaming, the screens are on. What can you do to have a better balance this summer when it comes to screens? AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr shares the latest research and helpful tips when it comes to your kids and your screens.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4vmhGrO Key Topics:Impact of screen time on children's health and visionBlue light and sleep cyclesPhysical and social effects of excessive screen useBenefits of controlled screen time and online relationshipsMicro habits for reducing screen timeTeaching life skills and independenceModeling healthy tech habits as parentsFamily screen fast and proactive planningSound Bites"Kids spend 7.5 hours a day on screens""Tech neck is a real physical toll""Micro habits make change easier"Chapters:00:00 Introduction and seasonal context for parents01:19 Summer routines and increased screen time02:18 Statistics on children's screen usage03:35 Health impacts: eye strain and blue light04:57 Physical toll of screen time: tech neck06:22 Social anxiety and online interactions07:17 Rethinking screen time: benefits of moderate use08:36 Developing soft skills through digital platforms10:24 Micro habits for managing screen time12:04 Replacing screen time with engaging activities14:52 Teaching basic life skills during summer17:35 Handling objectionable content and open conversations21:34 The importance of intentional content consumption22:25 Family screen fast: a 24-hour challenge24:28 Proactive planning and family bonding26:01 Encouraging scripture memorization and values26:58 Modeling healthy screen habits as parents28:16 Balancing control and independence29:39 Preparing kids for future digital challenges30:33 Summarizing key takeaways and encouragement Keywords: screen time, summer activities, parenting, children's health, digital habits, life skills, family routines, self-regulation, technology, child development

You've probably been told to read the Bible...but you might not have been given a strategy for how. Tim Mulgrew joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fascinating look at the enduring truths and timelessness of the Bible and why understanding God's intent for Scripture can change how you read the Bible today.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3PoRJbw 

Your home life? It's a business. Really. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed with all the stuff and responsibilities and endless task lists, Lisa Woodruff of Organize365 is here to help! She joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with a fresh perspective on how much time it actually takes of run a home and family, why analyzing those jobs through a business lens brings greater clarity, and how you can equip yourself to get out of the quicksand of modern life.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4d3UkzDKey Topics:Household management as an economic engineStatistics on household spending and timeMental models for household organizationStrategies to reduce overwhelm and increase productivityTakeaways:Households are a $68 trillion industry in the US economy.On average, 28 hours a week are spent on household chores.Applying business principles to household management can increase efficiency.Planning and contingency strategies improve goal attainment.Small, intentional changes can significantly reduce overwhelm.Sound Bites:"Small, intentional changes can significantly reduce overwhelm.""Planning and contingency strategies improve goal attainment.""Households are a $68 trillion industry in the US economy."Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Lisa's origin story02:05 Household management as an economic engine04:26 Statistics on household spending and time07:24 Applying business principles to household management11:11 Strategies to reduce overwhelm and increase productivity14:25 The importance of planning and contingency strategies19:20 Self-care and rethinking priorities in midlife28:51 Escaping quicksand: the metaphor for overwhelm34:54 Resources and where to find Lisa WoodruffResources:The Sunday BasketEscaping Quicksand Book

It's the generation that just doesn't get talked about all that much...but it's the generation that is being raised right now! Dave Boden joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for this insightful look into Gen Alpha, those kids born between 2010 to 2025. They've got some unique dynamics to the world they're in, ones that we need to know as we're parenting and teaching and coaching. This is a conversation you don't want to miss!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4dav6Re Key Topics:Generational studies and their importanceThe emergence of Gen Alpha and its characteristicsThe impact of COVID-19 on Gen AlphaThe role of technology and AI in shaping young mindsParenting trends and their effects on children's mental healthSound Bites:"One generation will tell of your deeds to the next""Anxiousness in Gen Alpha is rising rapidly""Every source of information may be driven by AI"Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Generational Conversations02:38 Understanding Generational Dynamics06:47 The Anxious Generation: Gen Alpha14:39 Gentle Parenting and Its Implications19:29 The Impact of the Pandemic on Gen Alpha25:44 Navigating AI and Future Careers for Gen AlphaResources:Book: Raising Gen Alpha: Helping Kids Navigate Everything from Anxiety to AI

As it turns out, fatigue isn't just a mom's game. As more and more dads are involved in the day-to-day of family life, they have times they struggle too! Jon Gustin joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about the pressures and challenges facing today's dads, why compassion over competition is key to healthy parenting, and how to have the talks that matter the most.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4vMewyr 

When you're dealing with conflict or tension in your marriage, praying together and for each other might be the last thing you want to do. Brad and Heidi Mitchell join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an eye-opening discussion about how you can bring prayer into the toughest times in your marriage and ideas for how to pray when conflict is high.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/41L7g8n Main Topics Covered:The transformative power of prayer in marriage, especially during conflictsHow perceptions of marriage have evolved culturally and the impact of social mediaRecognizing spiritual attacks at different marriage stages, including empty nest and "gray divorce"Building resilience through authentic, raw prayer, and shared spiritual practicesStrategies for praying for a struggling spouse and fostering long-term faithfulnessThe enemy's tactics today, from cultural influences to the rise of pornographyThe importance of intentionality and preemptive prayer during life transitionsTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the importance of prayer in marriage00:29 - The Mitchells' personal journey through marriage challenges01:18 - Building a Christ-centered marriage ministry01:47 - The role of experience in guiding married couples02:23 - Cultural shifts and the portrayal of marriage on social media03:10 - The decline of marriage and its implications in the church04:19 - The dark times that shaped the Mitchells' ministry call05:38 - Strategies to keep marriage strong amid cultural pressures06:08 - Challenges faced during different marriage stages, including long-term marriages07:28 - The importance of vigilance against spiritual attacks08:20 - Specific timing vulnerabilities in marriage, such as raising kids or becoming empty nesters09:32 - The role of complacency versus active spiritual protection10:25 - Preemptive prayer and strategic spiritual defense11:18 - Rethinking prayer beyond ritual, embracing raw authenticity12:22 - Overcoming barriers to prayer during conflict13:46 - Psalm prayers and Scriptures as tools for unity15:11 - How to pray when conflicts or tension are high16:24 - The significance of prayerful agreement and seeking divine guidance17:48 - Praying separately and then coming into agreement18:40 - Supporting a spouse in a faith crisis through prayer and patience19:37 - Engaging in silent, ongoing intercession for a spouse's spiritual health22:49 - Maintaining faith and strength in long-term spiritual battles23:47 - Living a prayerful life that witnesses to a struggling spouse24:40 - New tactics of spiritual attack in current culture26:31 - How societal pressures and media influence marriage expectations27:37 - Romanticizing marriage and the pressure to meet high ideals29:04 - The shallow portrayal of marriage today and the need for biblical foundation30:46 - The rise of quickie divorces and the erosion of biblical values31:57 - Pornography's infiltration and its devastating effect on marital intimacy32:07 - Resources available: the Mitchells' book Build Your Marriage with Prayer33:19 - Connecting with the Mitchells online and where to find their ministry34:07 - Key research findings on prayer and marital successResources & Links:Build Your Marriage - Ministry website with books, resources, and conference infoSpiritual Mismatch by Lee and Leslie Strobel - Insights on faith dynamics in marriageSpecial Notes:Only 5% of couples pray together—this resource aims to change that trendThe importance of honest, authentic prayer life even during conflictsStrategies for praying for spouses who are distant from faithRecognizing and combating modern tactics of spiritual attack 

Being heard, understood, and sympathized with are great things...but living life to the full also means living with courage. Ann White joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a conversation about what is means to have courage in an anxious era and how sometimes the greatest courage of all is to get deeply honest about who you are.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4cVlFFc Key TopicsThe importance of courage rooted in faith, not the absence of fearAnne's personal journey from trauma and fear to trust and courageous actionThe seven steps to courage that transform emotional and spiritual healthPractical ways to identify safe people to share your struggles withThe role of vulnerability and its relationship with true courageHow to distinguish who to trust when seeking supportBalancing fear and courage: making daily intentional choicesThe significance of personal responsibility in growth and healingResources for emotional health: Bible studies, audio Bibles, and moreHow living courageously unlocks abundant life and joyTimestamps00:00 - Introduction to Courage and the Theme of the Episode01:00 - Anne White's Background and Journey of Faith02:00 - The Power of Vulnerability in Building Courage04:00 - Reckoning with Past Fears and Embracing God's Power06:00 - The Root of Courage: Discipleship and Personal Transformation07:30 - The Role of Biblically Sound Courage in Daily Life09:00 - Courage and Vulnerability in Women's Ministries11:00 - A Life-Changing Moment: Writing the Reality of Struggles12:30 - Steps of Courage: Facing Fear and Taking Risks14:00 - Choosing Trustworthy Support Systems16:00 - How to Identify Safe People to Share Your Heart18:00 - The Relationship Between Fear, Anxiety, and Courage21:00 - Practical Ways to Overcome Obstacles and Make Courageous Changes24:00 - The Power of Personal Responsibility in Response to Difficulties27:00 - Faith-Driven Decisions: Trusting God's Guidance in Courage29:00 - How Fear and Courage Coexist — Making the Daily Choice32:00 - The Stakes of Remaining in Comfort Zone Instead of Courage34:00 - The Transformational Power of Living Courageously with God36:00 - Resources for Emotional and Spiritual Growth: Bible Studies, podcasts, and apps38:00 - Connecting with Anne White and Courage for Life Ecosystem39:00 - Final Encouragement to Step Into Courage and Live Abundantly

Note: This episode might be a good one to put in those ear buds if you have little ears around. Whether you're navigating a new relationship and adding step kids to the mix, or if you're family is growing through your children getting married and in-laws coming on the scene, becoming a blended family brings its own challenges and perspectives. Inés Franklin joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with important tools, perspective, and experience about the blended family experience, helping you move to blended AND blessed.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4tMxt2e 

Baylor professor Dr. Allison Alford joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fascinating discussion about the role of adult daughters, how we underestimate what it takes on the part of daughters to keep the extended family engine going, what healthy boundaries and frank conversations have to do with caring for aging parents, and so much more!Show Notes:In this episode: https://bit.ly/4caov7N The significance of daughtering as a lifelong role and its influence on identityThe concept of invisible labor and mental load in family systemsHow identity, geography, and socioeconomic status affect daughtering responsibilitiesThe emotional and logistical dimensions of caring for aging parents and relativesThe evolution of gender roles and expectations for sons and daughters across generationsPractical strategies for setting boundaries and sharing responsibilitiesThe importance of intentional communication with sons to foster empathy and involvementHow cultural backgrounds influence caregiving and independence normsThe role of family agency and decision-making in honoring parent relationshipsDr. Alford's upcoming book, Good Daughtering, and resources for taking charge of your daughtering roleTimestamps:(00:00) Why daughtering is the foundational role shaping family life(03:01) Recognizing invisible labor and emotional work in family systems(07:14) The impact of geographic and socioeconomic factors on elder care(10:11) Defining “doing daughtering”: the mental, emotional, logistical work(12:32) The disparity between daughters' roles in different family structures(15:14) Birth order, personality, and proximity influencing daughtering dynamics(20:11) The changing landscape for sons and their involvement in caregiving(23:07) Cultivating empathy and leadership in sons from a young age(26:39) Navigating independence, cultural expectations, and boundary setting(29:45) The agency we have in choosing how to honor and support aging parents(32:21) Where to find Dr. Alford's book Good Daughtering and connecting with her online

What are the things that work with our kids when it comes to, not just telling them about God, but helping them develop their own relationship with Him? Amanda Jass is a former educator and faith curriculum writer who helps parents and kids connect in a fresh way in faith conversations. She joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to look at what hasn't worked in kids' ministry, what kinds of resources and approaches are helpful, and why simply letting us kids ask the hard questions while we don't feel like we have all the answers is actually really important.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3PHoIrA Takeaways:Amanda Jass shares her journey in children's ministry.The importance of intentional curriculum development for children.Parents should be the primary spiritual educators of their children.Encouraging questions in faith is vital for children's understanding.There are gaps in current children's ministry resources that need addressing.Storytelling is an effective way to teach biblical principles.Parents can use devotionals to facilitate spiritual conversations.Children learn best when they see faith modeled in their parents.It's okay for parents to not have all the answers to their children's questions.The new book 'Adventures in the Friendly Forest' offers a unique approach to teaching faithSound Bites:"Asking questions can be a good thing.""Kids are watching us closely.""God is the one who makes things grow."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest02:50 Amanda's Journey in Children's Ministry05:40 The Importance of Intentional Curriculum Development08:31 Addressing Gaps in Children's Ministry Resources11:05 Encouraging Questions and Conversations in Faith14:02 The Role of Parents in Spiritual Education16:57 Introducing 'Adventures in the Friendly Forest'19:57 The Structure and Purpose of the Devotional22:30 Conclusion and Resources for ParentsKeywords: children's ministry, parenting, faith formation, spiritual education, curriculum development, family resources, children's books, intentional parenting, devotional resources, spiritual conversations

Many of the stories of the women in the Bible often live in the shadows. René Echevarria, screenwriter and producer, has helped bring their lives into the spotlight with the new series from Fox, The Faithful. He joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fascinating conversation about his own journey to faith, what the lives of women found in the book of Genesis have taught him, and why their stories matter more than ever today.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/40RPkZe 

It's an exciting first! TedX speaker, company founder, and teen (yes, teenager!) Sonia Suthar reached out to AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr about being on the podcast! You're going to love this conversation about how to help your teen be ready for communicating with their university professor or their boss, how to be both thoughtful about the anxiety your teen may feel in those situations and also how to help them be ready ~ it's an episode you don't want to miss!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4uxxhFe Takeaways:Sonia emphasizes the need for teens to learn life skills that are not taught in school.Parents play a crucial role in supporting their children's communication development.The fear of judgment and rejection is a significant barrier for many teens.Soft skills are essential for success in college and the workplace.COVID-19 has exacerbated communication anxiety among young people.Building a supportive environment helps teens feel more confident in their communication.Reframing failure as a learning opportunity can empower teens.Understanding emotional intelligence is vital for both parents and teens.Initiation is key for teens to develop independence and self-advocacy.Sonia's TED Talk experience highlights the importance of public speaking for young people.Sound Bites:"Agency is key for self-advocacy.""You're always gonna be judged.""Reframing failure is valuable."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Communication Gaps in Teens03:01 Sonia's Journey into Life Skills Coaching05:54 Understanding the Roots of Communication Anxiety08:45 The Role of Parents in Supporting Communication Skills11:37 The Importance of Soft Skills in Today's World14:37 Impact of COVID-19 on Social Skills Development17:34 Building a Baseline for Communication Skills20:40 Reframing Fear of Rejection and Judgment23:15 Navigating Generational Communication Gaps26:12 Sonia's TED Talk Experience and Initiation in TeensKeywords: communication, teens, life skills, parenting, anxiety, soft skills, COVID-19, emotional intelligence, rejection, generational gaps

Ash Ruddy had no reason to think that this would be the day she would go into labor. After all, she was barely past the halfway mark in her pregnancy. But she soon found herself in a world of early labor, NICU, diagnosis, and more. Ash joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to talk about miracles in hard places and how faith held her family together.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4rWtDmL 

Our culture, our content feeds have a lot to say about what our houses should look like and what we should own. But is there a better way to look at how we live life in our homes? Decluttering expert Katy Wells joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast for an insightful conversation about why healthy homes have expected messes, what your clutter personality style is, and how to embrace space in your life.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3ZVmtTp Takeaways:Clutter is a life skill that many are not taught.Cultural expectations create pressure on women to maintain perfect homes.There is a distinction between clutter (optional) and expected mess (inevitable).A good enough home is about how it feels, not just how it looks.Mental health is affected by clutter and organization.Understanding your ‘stuff story' helps in decluttering.Connection to oneself and others is a key desire in life.Thrifting can be a spiritual experience for some.Identity influences behavior regarding organization and clutter.It's important to find balance and harmony in home management.Sound Bites:“I was not born organized.”“Identity drives behavior.”“Thrifting is a spiritual experience.”Chapters:00:00 – Introduction to Decluttering and Organization02:47 – Understanding Clutter and Expected Mess05:48 – Cultural Pressures and Expectations on Women08:57 – Defining a Good Enough Home11:39 – The Connection Between Clutter and Mental Health14:34 – The Role of Identity in Clutter Management17:27 – Navigating Clutter in Shared Spaces20:20 – Maximized Minimalism: Finding Balance23:06 – The Emotional Weight of Clutter26:03 – Creating a Personal Stuff Story28:53 – Conclusion and ResourcesKeywords: clutter, organization, mental health, minimalism, motherhood, home management, cultural expectations, decluttering, wellness, parenting

She's a popular content creator and Bible teacher. And she's also encouraging you to ask the hard questions about your faith and to embrace the friction. Kendall Mariah joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a refreshing conversation about spiritual questions, fighting for your faith, and how Christians sometimes behave badly in the comment section!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4aVS6lW Takeaways:Kendall emphasizes the importance of questioning one's faith for deeper understanding.Cultural differences can significantly impact one's faith experience.Friction in faith can lead to growth or destruction, depending on how it's handled.Performative Christianity often lacks depth and authenticity.Consistency in online and offline behavior is crucial for integrity.Asking questions about faith is a sign of care and engagement.Intimacy with God is built through genuine relationship, not performative acts.Faith should be autonomous and not solely inherited from tradition.Kendall's experiences highlight the need for personal responsibility in faith.The conversation encourages listeners to embrace friction as a catalyst for growth.Sound Bites:"We want a frictionless faith.""I think I'm finding my faith.""Consistency bodes to integrity."Chapters:00:00 - Introduction to the Podcast and Guest01:58 - Cultural Differences in Faith Experiences05:59 - The Importance of Autonomous Faith08:51 - Understanding Friction in Faith14:52 - The Dangers of Performative Christianity21:53 - Online Behavior vs. Real-Life Interactions28:49 - Conclusion and ResourcesKeywords: faith, Christianity, cultural differences, performative Christianity, online behavior, friction in faith, autonomous faith, personal growth, spiritual journey, community

AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr welcomes Christy Osborne back to the podcast! Christy was on the show a few years ago, early in her sobriety journey. Today, she returns to talk about the latest research on alcohol dependence, why women struggle to talk about their alcohol use in church settings, and much more!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4rIbTe5 Takeaways:Christy Osborne shares her journey to sobriety and its impact on her life.The sober curious movement is gaining traction, especially among younger generations.Alcohol is classified as a class one carcinogen, similar to tobacco.Women often feel unable to discuss their struggles with alcohol in church settings.Socializing without alcohol can lead to deeper connections and authentic interactions.Nootropics and other alternatives to alcohol raise questions about dependency and coping mechanisms.Cortisol levels are affected by alcohol consumption, impacting mental health.Non-alcoholic alternatives can be helpful for those transitioning away from alcohol.Community support is crucial for women navigating sobriety.The journey to sobriety is ultimately about drawing closer to Jesus.Sound Bites:"I had this actual come Jesus moment.""Alcohol is a class one carcinogen.""We are not meant to live life alone."Chapters:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome Back02:12 - Christy's Journey to Sobriety04:43 - The Sober Curious Movement08:43 - Understanding Alcohol's Impact on Health14:06 - Socializing Without Alcohol17:10 - Nootropics and Alternatives to Alcohol18:53 - Avoidance and Alcohol20:53 - Cortisol and Alcohol's Effects22:54 - Non-Alcoholic Alternatives24:33 - The Power of Community27:07 - Upcoming Events and Closing ThoughtsKeywords: sobriety, alcohol, health, community, women, coaching, sober curious, mental health, non-alcoholic, support

Clean, tidy, and organized didn't come easy to Dana K. White. So she decided to go public with it! Dana joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful conversation about decluttering and organizing for the messy among us, with great tips for easily getting your kids in on the decluttering game!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46zOZNV Takeaways:Dana K. White is a decluttering expert and author.She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's clutter threshold.The container concept is about setting limits on what can be kept.Teaching kids to declutter can be fun and engaging.One-in-one-out rule helps maintain organization.Shared spaces should reflect the lowest clutter threshold.Gifts should be viewed as love, not just items.Winnie's Pile of Pillows introduces decluttering to children.Decluttering is a process that requires patience and practice.It's important to communicate the value of space to children.Sound Bites:"I teach decluttering for a living""Shared spaces need to be decluttered down""One in one out is how you maintain progress"Chapters:00:00 - Introduction and Technical Challenges01:13 - Meet Dana K. White: The Decluttering Expert02:29 - The Journey from Chaos to Clarity05:17 - Understanding the Container Concept12:31 - Teaching Kids to Declutter18:04 - Managing Clutter Thresholds in Shared Spaces24:00 - Navigating Gifts and Sentimentality25:06 - Introducing 'Winnie's Pile of Pillows'Keywords: decluttering, organization, parenting, home management, container concept, kids, gifts, clutter threshold, home, podcast

His early life reads like a Tom Clancy novel...and then he encountered Jesus. Discover how coach JT Tapias thought he had outrun his past with achievement and athletic success only to learn that there was something more in this powerful two-part episode with AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4bmDY5T 

Maybe you're trying to get pregnant with your next baby. Maybe you're trying to figure out how to make perimenopause not so...awful. Wherever you're at in your reproductive arc, you need real answers. Rachel Swanson joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an eye-opening conversation about the simple changes that make a big difference on this week's episode.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/49xwPyp 

You're offended, I'm offended, we're all offended and trying to get the world to operate in a way in which we don't get offended. But the reality is, life and people just don't work that way. What does it mean to live 'unoffendable'? Author and Bible teacher Alexandra is today's guest on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr and she reveals how to build resilience, grace, and realistic boundaries, not just for ourselves, but to also show our kids how to walk in emotional health in a complicated world.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4byvVTy Takeaways:We are raising people who are watching how we handle these things.Our past does not define us, it only gets to shape us.Healing takes work and intention.A prayerful mom is a mom who can move mountains.We have to trust God to parent them.Letting go is an invitation to live in freedom.The work you are doing now will leave a legacy.Modeling forgiveness is crucial for emotional health.Navigating personal stories helps in parenting.Resilience is built through facing challenges.Sound Bites:"Healing takes work and intention.""I am not the Holy Spirit.""We have to trust God to parent them.""We are the ones holding ourselves hostage.""Letting go is an invitation to live in freedom.""The work you are doing now will leave a legacy."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Emotional Health in Parenting02:53 The Genesis of Emotional Health Conversations06:02 Navigating Personal Stories and Identity08:58 Healing and Parenting from a Place of Humility12:01 The Role of Resilience in Parenting14:58 Boundaries and Letting Go18:09 Repairing Relationships and Modeling Forgiveness21:02 Navigating Consequences and Comfort in Parenting23:55 The Balance of Letting Go and Holding Boundaries26:47 Living Beyond Offense and Embracing Healing30:06 Conclusion and Encouragement for MothersKeywords: emotional health, parenting, resilience, forgiveness, boundaries, personal stories, healing, motherhood, identity, relationships

We're all looking for those big moments with God, those times when He calls us to step out of our comfort zone, reach for something impossible, have the deepest impact. But what do we miss when we're only looking for big? Podcaster and author Cynthia Yanof joins allmomdoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful (and hilarious) conversation about how our lives are most often built in the small moments and microdecisions that all too often we can miss if we don't know what to look for.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4brSWaG 

He's a dedicated physician in the growing area of sleep medicine, and he also sees that there's a whole lot about our spiritual lives that has to do with what our slumber looks like. Dr. Benjamin Long joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fascinating look at the connection between sleep and our relationship with God. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3NgINUd

It would be great if our kids were naturally buddies, if there were never times of conflict, bullying, and general unlikability. But that's not real life. AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr tackles your question about how to help our kids (and ourselves) with our sibling relationships.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4adZYiQTakeaways:Sibling relationships are foundational to family dynamics.Fairness in parenting can shape sibling relationships positively.Teaching conflict resolution is crucial for healthy sibling interactions.Adult sibling relationships can be complicated and require clear communication.Repairing relationships after conflict is essential for long-term harmony.Modeling healthy relationships helps children navigate their own.Acknowledging unfair situations can reduce resentment among siblings.Parents should avoid favoritism to maintain sibling bonds.Encouraging independence in sibling relationships fosters stronger connections.Seeking professional help can provide tools for managing difficult sibling dynamics.Sound Bites:"That's so weird. Other moms I know don't do things like that.""I would love to talk about this whole topic of sibling rivalry.""Siblings are all over the Bible, and I don't think it's any mistake.""I want to encourage you to think about the wrapped Christmas batteries.""There is conflict that is appropriate.""Repairing relationships is essential for long-term harmony.""Be clear, put it in writing.""We want things to be as fair as possible."Chapters:00:00 - The Foundation of Sibling Relationships07:07 - Fairness in Parenting11:30 - Conflict Resolution and Communication19:34 - Navigating Adult Sibling Relationships30:00 - The Importance of Repairing RelationshipsKeywords:sibling relationships, parenting, conflict resolution, family dynamics, fairness, communication, adult siblings, family therapy, sibling rivalry, childhood development

It's not just in your head. Anxiety impacts your body, your energy levels, your focus, your outlook, and your spiritual life. Becky Keife is our guest on the AllMomDoes podcast, and she and host Julie Lyles Carr dig into the ways that anxiety impacts our lives as women, and how we can use God's word and His wisdom for moving our bodies, prayer, and more to combat the effects of anxiety in our lives.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4rM9sIn TakeawaysAnxiety is a common struggle for many women today.The access to information can heighten feelings of anxiety.Understanding the difference between common stress and clinical anxiety is crucial.Self-compassion is essential when dealing with anxiety.Hormonal changes can significantly impact anxiety levels in women.Communication about anxiety in relationships can be challenging.Recognizing triggers is key to managing anxiety effectively.Practical steps, like journaling and breath exercises, can help alleviate anxiety.Asking God for guidance can provide clarity and peace.Becky's new book offers practical tools for managing anxiety.Sound Bites"The access to information can heighten anxiety.""Practical steps can help alleviate anxiety.""Asking God for guidance can provide clarity."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the All Mom Does Podcast00:48 Meet Becky Keife: Ministering to Women01:31 The Role of Anxiety in Modern Life04:42 Understanding Modern Anxiety Among Women07:23 Defining Anxiety: Symptoms and Signals09:41 When Anxiety Becomes Debilitating11:30 Self-Compassion and Seeking Help12:59 Hormonal Influences on Anxiety14:54 Anxiety in Marriage: Communication Challenges19:23 Understanding Triggers: The Lemon Bar Analogy23:43 The Gift and Burden of Anxiety25:34 Moving Beyond Naming Anxiety29:30 Practical Steps to Manage Anxiety30:38 Introducing A Versa Day for the Anxious Soul34:01 Conclusion and ResourcesKeywordsanxiety, mental health, women, motherhood, self-compassion, spiritual growth, emotional wellness, Becky Keife, All Mom Does, podcast

Listener note: This episode might be a good one to pop on those headphones or earbuds if you have little ears nearby. Part of our conversation includes a suicide and a cancer diagnosis.She's known for her laughter, wit, and upbeat outlook on life. But the last five years have taken a toll on Scarlet Hiltibidal and she's ready to talk about it. Scarlet joins AllMomDoes podcast host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about what it takes to face life challenges with honesty while still remaining hopeful-ish.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48wWPYS Takeaways:Scarlet is a mom of four, navigating chaos and change.Her new book 'Hopeful-ish' addresses personal pain and hope.The title was inspired by her husband's suggestion to lighten it up.Scarlet's writing process is influenced by her interactions with women facing similar struggles.Post-COVID, many are wrestling with feelings of sadness and despair.The importance of tending to one's faith like a farm is emphasized.Humor can coexist with deeper emotional struggles.Scarlet shares a poignant story about a donut and a young girl that brought her hope.Being open with children about faith and struggles is crucial.Hope is a gift from the Holy Spirit, not something we can manufacture.Sound Bites:"I want people to read it.""I was not running to God.""Don't fake your faith!"Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates02:51 The Creative Process Behind 'Hopeful-ish'05:31 Processing Grief and Loss Post-COVID08:48 Wrestling with Hope and Personal Struggles11:34 Balancing Humor and Heaviness in Life14:16 The Donkey Attack and Farming Adventures17:13 The Journey of Becoming a Farmer19:08 Tending to the Farm of Your Soul21:13 Navigating Jadedness and Hope23:04 The Gift of Hope in Difficult Times28:43 Parenting Through Faith and Challenges Keywords: Scarlet Hiltibidal, Hopeful-ish, grief, faith, motherhood, creativity, COVID-19, personal growth, humor, parenting

What did Julie do when her daughter grabbed a tweezer to pluck the chin hair of Grammie during Thanksgiving? Sometimes there is no contingency plan when things happen that you don't expect.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/44oO9m5 

With holiday hosting just around the corner, queen of hospitality Abby Kuykendall is the perfect person to help get you in the right frame of mind! Abby joins AllMomDoes podcast host Julie Lyles Carr to discuss what true hospitality is all about, and how to let go of stress, expectations, and perfection so you can focus on your people instead!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3K9KQbzTakeaways:Hospitality connects people and is a way to show love.It's important to redefine hospitality beyond entertaining.Cultural pressures can hinder our ability to practice hospitality.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy hospitality.Authenticity in hospitality leads to deeper connections.Women often bear the mental load of hospitality tasks.Introverts and extroverts experience hospitality differently.Throwing off expectations can enhance the hospitality experience.God calls us to practice hospitality regardless of our skills.The journey of hospitality is about being true to oneself. I'm not carrying that torch alone.We have to look at our calendars.Set that up at the beginning.Take the stress off of yourself.Potluck it up, man.A coffee meetup in the front yard.Opening our resources to be hospitable.Using your resources to build those connections.We can distract ourselves away from what the point is.I want to focus on and he's like, Oh, if it was dirty.Sound bites:"It's not about trying to be Martha Stewart""I'm not carrying that torch alone.""We have to look at our calendars.""Set that up at the beginning.""Take the stress off of yourself.""Potluck it up, man.""A coffee meetup in the front yard.""Opening our resources to be hospitable."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Hospitality and Connection01:53 Redefining Hospitality: From Entertaining to Authenticity04:58 Cultural Pressures and Expectations in Hospitality10:06 Overcoming Anxiety and Setting Boundaries in Hospitality18:51 Navigating Different Personalities in Hospitality21:56 Navigating Hospitality with Family Dynamics22:47 Planning and Preparation for Hospitality24:56 The Power of Potlucks and Delegation26:55 Innovative Approaches to Hosting27:53 Hospitality Beyond the Home29:38 Building Relationships Through Shared Experiences31:33 Creating Presence Over Perfection33:23 Teamwork in Hospitality35:57 Setting Expectations in Co-Hosting37:33 Connecting with the AudienceKeywords:hospitality, connection, authenticity, cultural pressures, boundaries, introverts, extroverts, community, anxiety, expectations, hospitality, family dynamics, planning, potluck, hosting, relationships, presence, teamwork, expectations, community

In elevating opportunities and understanding for girls, there's a group that's gotten left behind; boys. With fewer male college admissions, longer days sitting at desks in the classroom, and a generation who has substituted real adventure and challenge for video games, it's no wonder parents are trying to figure out how to best raise their sons. Author and boy mom Rebekah Lovell joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast to share how she's maximizing work and play for her boys to prepare them for their lives as men.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3WLGdHs Takeaways:Raising boys involves understanding their unique wiring and energy.Boys often express themselves through physical activity and exploration.It's essential to balance nurturing with allowing boys to take risks.Boys need to learn emotional regulation and resilience.Mentorship plays a crucial role in a boy's development.Boys thrive when they feel challenged and capable.Encouraging boys to take on responsibilities fosters independence.Boys can learn valuable lessons from hero stories and role models.It's important to celebrate masculinity without diminishing femininity.Creating a supportive environment helps boys navigate societal pressures.Sound bites:"We want boys who launch.""Boys need to know they measure up.""Boys need to know they can try again.""We want good men who will lead.""Boys need mentors to guide them.""Boys are hero worshippers."Chapters:00:00 Navigating Boy World04:31 Understanding Boys' Nature and Nurture10:39 Emotional Landscapes of Boys13:54 Raising Resilient Sons19:07 Challenging Passivity in Boys30:06 Finding Male Mentors for BoysKeywords:raising boys, boyhood, parenting, emotional intelligence, masculinity, boys' nature, nurturing boys, resilience, mentorship, family dynamics

What should you be saying to your kids? In a time of gentle parenting, the come back of authoritative styles and more, it can be confusing to know how to talk to your kids and how to correct them. Amy Hughes joins Julie Lyles Carr on this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast to unpack what's up with parent speak.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47gtJO3 Takeaways:Writing is often a reflection of what we need to hear ourselves.Gentle parenting is a response to authoritarian styles of parenting.Language choices can significantly impact a child's emotional health.Phrases like 'don't be sad' can shame children for their feelings.Encouraging children to express emotions is crucial for their development.The balance between authority and gentleness is a common struggle for parents.Children need to learn how to navigate different communication styles.Role-playing can help prepare children for real-world interactions.Awareness of harmful phrases can lead to better communication.Parenting is a journey of learning and growth for both parents and children.Sound bites:"This needs to be its own book.""Don't be sad is shaming.""Hurry up can cause anxiety."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Dynamics02:51 The Importance of Language in Parenting05:53 Navigating Emotional Expression10:00 Replacing Harmful Phrases12:07 Building Emotional Resilience16:32 Trends in Parenting Challenges19:07 Engaging with Community Language22:43 Understanding Rising Childhood Anxiety25:43 Preparing Kids for the Real World27:54 The Role of Repair in ParentingKeywords:parenting, communication, childhood emotions, language impact, gentle parenting, childhood anxiety, emotional intelligence, parenting challenges, family dynamics, child psychology

Parents are spending billions of dollars and countless hours on their kids' sports activities. But have we stopped to consider spiritual growth and family life in the midst of all things sports? Ed Uszynski, sports coach, author, and parent, joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to unpack how to keep the holy in hockey, blessing in the basketball, and faith on the field.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4o7maiI Takeaways:The youth sports landscape has dramatically changed over the years.Parents often feel overwhelmed by the demands of youth sports.The shift from play to performance has led to a more competitive environment.Parental identity can become intertwined with children's performance.The youth sports industry is a multi-billion dollar complex.Many parents feel pressured to ensure their children succeed in sports.Character development is as important as athletic performance.Most kids quit sports by their teenage years due to pressure.The lessons learned in sports can impact life beyond the field.Parents should focus on their children's growth rather than just performance.Discipleship in parenting is crucial for guiding children.Character development should be prioritized over performance in sports.Parents should expect more from youth sports experiences.It's important to model faith and community involvement for children.Coaches may not always have the best interests of families in mind.Parents can and should make choices about their children's activities.It's okay to leave a sports team if it's not a good fit.Youth sports should be fun and not a source of stress.Families should communicate and pray together about sports commitments.There are resources available to help parents navigate youth sports.Sound Bites:"We need help.""This is to enhance our kids' lives.""Where do you think that comes from?""The clock is ticking.""We should expect more for our dollar.""I really am my child's primary discipler.""You can fire the coach."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Youth Sports Landscape02:54 The Shift from Play to Performance06:48 Understanding the Youth Sports Industrial Complex08:36 Parental Identity and Expectations12:01 The Pressure of Performance and Its Consequences16:39 Life Lessons Beyond the Field19:45 Discipleship in Youth Sports21:56 Balancing Passion and Priorities25:13 Navigating Youth Sports Commitments30:04 The Importance of Family Dynamics33:48 Course Correction in Youth Sports36:59 Resources for Parents in Youth SportsKeywords:youth sports, parenting, extracurricular activities, performance pressure, sports industry, parental expectations, youth sports culture, character development, sports parenting, sports ministry, youth sports, parenting, discipleship, character development, family dynamics, sports commitments, decision making, youth athletics, sports culture, faith and sports

Maybe it's not your compatibility; maybe it's your game plan...or lack thereof. Marriage coach Tondra Gregory joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to explore where marriages are struggling today and why you need a game plan to help you succeed in love.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48Pbsc3 Takeaways:Churches often lack dedicated marriage ministries.Marriage is a key part of reflecting God's image.Conflict resolution is a critical skill for couples.Social media presents new challenges for trust in relationships.Setting boundaries around technology is essential.Couples need to adjust their roles as life changes.Communication is vital for a successful marriage.Using sports analogies can help men understand marital concepts.Flexibility in marriage plans is necessary for success.Resources and tools are available to help couples thrive.  Sound bites:"We need to talk about all of this.""We need to adjust our game plan.""We are always looking for more tools."    Chapters:00:00 The Importance of Marriage in Faith Communities02:53 Conflict Resolution: A Timeless Challenge05:57 Navigating Modern Relationships in the Digital Age09:05 Balancing Responsibilities in Marriage11:58 Using Sports Analogies to Enhance Communication15:01 Resources for Strengthening Marriages  Keywords: marriage, faith communities, conflict resolution, social media, relationship advice, communication, marriage ministry, modern challenges, responsibilities, sports analogies

She was the host of a popular parenting podcast and good church girl. So why did it make her have a panic attack? Heather MacFayden joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an honest and vulnerable conversation about the one thing we're doing as moms that is working against us.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46RdzdN 

When you're used to working off of blueprints, production schedules, and closing dates, holding it all with an open hand and trusting God's timing can be tricky. Star of HGTV's Fixer to Fabulous Jenny Marrs joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look into what it means to trust God when your personality and your profession is built on to-do lists and timelines.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46vGmV8 

Ever dream of moving out on some land, raising some chickens, and writing some romance novels? Melissa Ferguson, TikTok phenom and all-around fascinating person did just that! Check out how her faith guided her through making big changes in her life in this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46NQoQq 

Do you sometimes think you should have been named something else? Spoken poet and author Hosanna Wong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look at the names we give ourselves contrasted with what God calls us.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VmhyZj 

She's a fellow podcaster and author and she's also a champion of making motherhood fun again! Courtney DeFeo of Pardon the Mess joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with powerful reminders and tips about making motherhood joyful...and funny!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VOMYHR 

Dave and Ashley Willis bring insight, wisdom, and experiences in their own marriage to the podcast today! They join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why gaming is becoming a big issue for couples, how apathy in relationship has become the new 'conflict,' and what you can do to enrich your relationship now.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4moDIWJ 

Why do we think things have to be perfect? What are we trying to avoid in our attempts to make things perfect? Co-founder of Sister I'm With You Jess Johnston is on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why we are afraid to show up as our true selves, what role boundaries play in authenticity, and why letting go of perfectionism can be the best thing you can do to find community.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kwu6au 

We are so excited about this summer series. If you are headed out on a road trip or lounging in the yard, get those ear buds in and fill yourself up with this content. We want you to have all this in one place.She runs a successful estate sales business in Austin, TX. And she's learned some fascinating things about how we move through our seasons of life and what it has to do with all of our stuff. Allison Armstrong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr on the podcast!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4nIta5S 

Stress is a part of every day life. We're never going to outrun it. But that doesn't mean it has to take us down. Barb Roose joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast for an in-depth look at what stress is, how to know when you're headed for overwhelm, and how you can be stronger than stress.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/40GFo4T 

What does soup have to do with clutter, self care, and Sabbath rest? A whole lot more than you'd think! The incredible Kathi Lipp is back on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr and she's serving up great recipes and powerful wisdom in this timely conversation!Show Notes: https://bit.ly/44URytv 

You're making all the things happen. You're juggling the kids, the job, the marriage, and the expectations of the people around you. And slowly, you're coming undone. Author Alyssa Joy Bethke and AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr talk about how to get out of the cycle of all the things while stil honoring the things God is asking you to do.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/45Yrm2c 

This is the first in a 6-part Summer '25 Simplify Series! Enjoy these top 6 episodes that were fan favorites from this past year. It started when all her stuff became completely overwhelming and led to a deeper understanding about how to be rich in what matters. Julia Ubbenga joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fresh perspective on what the average 300,000 items in our house say not just about our ability to organize but about the state of our spiritual lives.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kAe4g7 

Wondering how to pray for your teen son? Are you not sure what to pray for your teen daughter? Million Praying Moms founder Brooke McGlothlin and women's ministry lead Stacey Thacker joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr on the podcast with empowering ideas for making prayer a powerful part of your parenting in those exciting and challenging teen years.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4eseqE5 

Feeling anxious, stressed, overwhelmed, it's not all just in your head. There are times that life comes out us with incredible challenge, loss, and hardship. How do we stay trusting in God, how do we reclaim peace, when our circumstances don't make sense? Kara Stout joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about bringing questions and hurts to God.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46itVfC 

What started as a journey of doubt and question led to a deep fascination of the Bible for Zach Windahl. Founder of The Brand Sunday and a passionate leader for making scripture accessible and understandable for people, Zach joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a refreshing and insightful conversation about the life and times of the Bible and God's Word speaks into our today.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4ndHqmZ 

Second-guessing, playing small, self-sabotaging, chasing perfectionism or overthinking to the point of overwhelm? Sound familiar? Podcaster and bestselling author Mary Marantz joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a conversation that will help you uncover why you minimize what you do, why you hide behind perfectionism, and why calling something 'good' is something God taught us first.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4edjjAz