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In this episode we dive into the captivating world of date nights and their profound impact on relationships. Joining Taara for this episode is her partner, James, as they share their personal insights, experiences, and practical tips to help you nurture and revitalize your relationship through the power of date nights. Although Sylvie won't be joining Taara for this episode, Taara and James will take you on an engaging journey into the benefits of date nights. Discover how setting aside dedicated time for date nights can reignite passion, enhance communication, and foster emotional connection in your relationship. Throughout the episode, they share personal stories, creative ideas, and budget-friendly tips to help you plan memorable and meaningful date nights. They address potential challenges and provide guidance on how to prioritize date nights, even when one partner may not share the same enthusiasm. Listeners can also look forward to a Q&A segment, where Taara and James answer burning questions from the audience. They tackle topics such as the frequency of date nights, unique ideas for long-term couples, planning unforgettable dates on a tight budget, and navigating situations when one partner is less enthusiastic about date nights. If you're ready to breathe new life into your relationship and create lasting memories, this episode is a must-listen. So, grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready to explore the incredible power of date nights. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Ch0FAGbc7MA ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH ME: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
In this episode we dive into the captivating world of date nights and their profound impact on relationships. Joining Taara for this episode is her partner, James, as they share their personal insights, experiences, and practical tips to help you nurture and revitalize your relationship through the power of date nights. Although Sylvie won't be joining Taara for this episode, Taara and James will take you on an engaging journey into the benefits of date nights. Discover how setting aside dedicated time for date nights can reignite passion, enhance communication, and foster emotional connection in your relationship. Throughout the episode, they share personal stories, creative ideas, and budget-friendly tips to help you plan memorable and meaningful date nights. They address potential challenges and provide guidance on how to prioritize date nights, even when one partner may not share the same enthusiasm. Listeners can also look forward to a Q&A segment, where Taara and James answer burning questions from the audience. They tackle topics such as the frequency of date nights, unique ideas for long-term couples, planning unforgettable dates on a tight budget, and navigating situations when one partner is less enthusiastic about date nights. If you're ready to breathe new life into your relationship and create lasting memories, this episode is a must-listen. So, grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready to explore the incredible power of date nights. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Ch0FAGbc7MA ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH ME: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
Are you curious about the transformative power of somatic sex education? Do you want to hear about a retreat where consent was always in use and embodied presence was nurtured? Then join hosts Taara and Sylvie as they reflect on their experience at a retreat hosted by the Somatic Sex Educators Association in Portland. In this episode, Taara and Sylvie take you on a journey to a cozy Airbnb filled with 8 other people, where they explored the depths of their bodies and returned home with a newfound sense of self-awareness. They share their insights on the importance of consent and embodied presence throughout the retreat, which created a safe and welcoming space for everyone involved. But that's not all! They also delve into the workshops, community activities and peer support they enjoyed, as well as some aspects they would have changed. You'll hear about the power of somatic sex education and how spaces that prioritize consent and embodied awareness can help you connect with your body in ways you never thought possible. Whether you're a fellow somatic sex educator or a curious listener, tune in to this episode to learn more about the incredible benefits of somatic sex education and the transformative power of embodied presence. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/k00CPyiuLtU ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. When she's not educating others, Taara can be found spending time with her furry friends, experiencing the pleasure of nature, and always learning more about sex, sexuality, and relationships. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH ME: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
Are you curious about the transformative power of somatic sex education? Do you want to hear about a retreat where consent was always in use and embodied presence was nurtured? Then join hosts Taara and Sylvie as they reflect on their experience at a retreat hosted by the Somatic Sex Educators Association in Portland. In this episode, Taara and Sylvie take you on a journey to a cozy Airbnb filled with 8 other people, where they explored the depths of their bodies and returned home with a newfound sense of self-awareness. They share their insights on the importance of consent and embodied presence throughout the retreat, which created a safe and welcoming space for everyone involved. But that's not all! They also delve into the workshops, community activities and peer support they enjoyed, as well as some aspects they would have changed. You'll hear about the power of somatic sex education and how spaces that prioritize consent and embodied awareness can help you connect with your body in ways you never thought possible. Whether you're a fellow somatic sex educator or a curious listener, tune in to this episode to learn more about the incredible benefits of somatic sex education and the transformative power of embodied presence. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/k00CPyiuLtU ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. When she's not educating others, Taara can be found spending time with her furry friends, experiencing the pleasure of nature, and always learning more about sex, sexuality, and relationships. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH ME: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
◑Faves: sleep, sunsets & rises, squid (?), singing, summer, self-care & sex. ◑ Thinkin': ABOUT SEX(we're getting a little fired up here...) - "Back in our day" we didn't talk about it. If there was any talk it was either very discreet or considered obscene.-Now you can't get away from it-- provocative content is Ever-eeeyy-where.- Love is Love? OR Love is Sex?-When and where has the sexualization of children been normalized?-There is a big challenge in teaching and training boys to honor girls & women as sisters when girls aren't being trained in modesty.-“Do not stir up or awaken love until it pleases” (Song of Solomon 2:7; 3:5; 8:4, ESV-Luke 17:2(ESV) It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were cast into the sea than that he should cause one of these little ones to sin.-Proverbs 22:6-Be prepared to:* protect kiddos around you. *to talk about the sewual things*to speak Truth*to guard self-Make the decision to sanctify ◑ Devoted Discussion: SELF Starting with Self Awareness- Lamentations 3:40-the 4 Dimensions of self-awareness:1) Awareness of What Others Say and Think About You. The first dimension of self-awareness is being aware of how you impact other people. ... 2) Awareness of the Thoughts and Feelings You Have About Yourself. ... 3) Awareness of Who You Really Are. ... 4) Awareness of Who You Want to Become.-Exchange your self-strengths for God's - Self confidence can look easy... but it comes from death and resurrection. Deliverance from self-doubt, shame and deceit about identity.- For Self-righteousness see Matt 7:3-5-Romans 12:3, thinking of self soberly means removing expectations and pleasing people and aligning with the Word of God.-Doing self-discovery IN RELATIONSHIP with the Holy Spirit makes "looking in the mirror" of the Word effective! It allows us to ahve the safety of God when we see the ugly & the work that needs to happen. It allows us to receive the good fruit.-Holy Spirit PLUS the Word will lead to self confidence and self- satisfaction.-We need to revel in the self-satisfaction when it comes to give us the gumption we need to press in and on.- Called me higher song Christine mentions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bkgw5F_5wbI ◑Check out the whole of season 2 at this playlist:https://bit.ly/DIDplaylist ▼Crown & Sword Book: https://store.bookbaby.com/book/crown... ᕱ Support women rising out of poverty & trafficking with jewelry like Christine's: https://tradesofhope.com/?u=christine... ▼Connect with Christine Spoken Word Playlist: https://bit.ly/CJSpokenWords YouTube Channel: https://bit.ly/YouTubeChannel-CJ IG: https://www.instagram.com/christine_j... Bible Study Book: https://bit.ly/CrownAndSword Trades Of Hope: https://tradesofhope.com/?u=christine... Donations: https://account.venmo.com/u/Christine... (donations resource the printing of books & production of spoken words) ▼Connect with Jocelyn Donate:Venmo- https://account.venmo.com/u/Jocelyn-D... YouTube: / @bucketsofberries TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bucketsofberr... IG: https://www.instagram.com/buckets.of....
Are you tired of the same old dating scene? Do you crave something more adventurous and exciting? Look no further than the world of polyamory! In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin to explore the ins and outs of non-monogamous dating. Dr. Thouin is a polyamorous relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the complexities of multiple relationships. Her approach emphasizes mindfulness and personal growth, as she believes that dating can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. We dive into the philosophy of mindful dating and how it applies to polyamory. By being intentional and present in our dating experiences, we can learn more about ourselves and what we truly desire in relationships. We also discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of dating as a non-monogamous person, including how to meet other CNM folks and how to navigate rejection. And for those who are new to the world of polyamory, fear not! Dr. Thouin breaks down some common misconceptions and provides practical tips for creating a good online dating profile that accurately reflects our desires and boundaries. Overall, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in modern love and relationships. Join us as we explore the exciting and complex world of polyamory and dating. About Marie: Dr. Marie Thouin is the founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she helps people of all ages, genders, sexual, and relationship orientations navigate the path of intimate love in a creative and empowered way. She is also a leading scholar and researcher on compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships. She completed her PhD on compersion in 2021, and her work has since been featured in several publications and podcasts including ELLE, Multiamory, Loving Without Boundaries, and Sex Out Loud. She shares her research on her website, www.whatiscompersion.com, and is in the process of preparing a groundbreaking book on that topic. Websites: www.whatiscompersion.com & www.loveinsight-dating.com Instagram: @love_insight_dating LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-thouin/ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fT4knDPI1Ao ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
Are you tired of the same old dating scene? Do you crave something more adventurous and exciting? Look no further than the world of polyamory! In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin to explore the ins and outs of non-monogamous dating. Dr. Thouin is a polyamorous relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the complexities of multiple relationships. Her approach emphasizes mindfulness and personal growth, as she believes that dating can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. We dive into the philosophy of mindful dating and how it applies to polyamory. By being intentional and present in our dating experiences, we can learn more about ourselves and what we truly desire in relationships. We also discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of dating as a non-monogamous person, including how to meet other CNM folks and how to navigate rejection. And for those who are new to the world of polyamory, fear not! Dr. Thouin breaks down some common misconceptions and provides practical tips for creating a good online dating profile that accurately reflects our desires and boundaries. Overall, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in modern love and relationships. Join us as we explore the exciting and complex world of polyamory and dating. About Marie: Dr. Marie Thouin is the founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she helps people of all ages, genders, sexual, and relationship orientations navigate the path of intimate love in a creative and empowered way. She is also a leading scholar and researcher on compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships. She completed her PhD on compersion in 2021, and her work has since been featured in several publications and podcasts including ELLE, Multiamory, Loving Without Boundaries, and Sex Out Loud. She shares her research on her website, www.whatiscompersion.com, and is in the process of preparing a groundbreaking book on that topic. Websites: www.whatiscompersion.com & www.loveinsight-dating.com Instagram: @love_insight_dating LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-thouin/ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fT4knDPI1Ao ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
For this special episode, Sylvie interviews me and fellow educator Jenn about our unforgettable experience at a lifestyle/swinger hotel takeover. We discussed what it was like to go on this trip without our partners, the classes and workshops we taught, and how it felt for me to get back into hotel takeovers after a three-year hiatus. As a BDSM educator, Jenn has over 10 years of experience in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy, making her the perfect partner to join me on this adventure. We share our perspectives on the lifestyle community and how it has evolved over the years. From the excitement of meeting new people to the challenges of navigating this new environment, we cover it all. We also dive into the classes and workshops that we taught, including BDSM and consent workshops that were well-received by the attendees. Join us as we take you behind the scenes of a lifestyle hotel takeover and share our insights and experiences. Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle veteran or just curious about this community, this episode is a must-listen. About Jenn: Jenn is a BDSM/sex educator, host of Why Choose One podcast and a medical health professional. With over 10 years experience in BDSM, ethical non monogamy and ample experience on both sides of the slash, she has taken the knowledge she has personally experienced and learned over her years to create a class focused on pleasure and pain. Instagram: @whychooseonepodcast Podcast: Why Choose One WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5M8dLIpleCA ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
For this special episode, Sylvie interviews me and fellow educator Jenn about our unforgettable experience at a lifestyle/swinger hotel takeover. We discussed what it was like to go on this trip without our partners, the classes and workshops we taught, and how it felt for me to get back into hotel takeovers after a three-year hiatus. As a BDSM educator, Jenn has over 10 years of experience in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy, making her the perfect partner to join me on this adventure. We share our perspectives on the lifestyle community and how it has evolved over the years. From the excitement of meeting new people to the challenges of navigating this new environment, we cover it all. We also dive into the classes and workshops that we taught, including BDSM and consent workshops that were well-received by the attendees. Join us as we take you behind the scenes of a lifestyle hotel takeover and share our insights and experiences. Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle veteran or just curious about this community, this episode is a must-listen. About Jenn: Jenn is a BDSM/sex educator, host of Why Choose One podcast and a medical health professional. With over 10 years experience in BDSM, ethical non monogamy and ample experience on both sides of the slash, she has taken the knowledge she has personally experienced and learned over her years to create a class focused on pleasure and pain. Instagram: @whychooseonepodcast Podcast: Why Choose One WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5M8dLIpleCA ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
May is Masturbation Month and Taara and Sylvie are kicking it off by diving into the topic that's often considered taboo but crucial for our sexual health - masturbation! They have an open and honest conversation about the benefits of masturbation, common misconceptions, techniques, and tips, as well as the shame that can come with it. They explore how masturbation can be incorporated into relationships, from doing it in secret to using it as foreplay or even masturbating together. It's all about communication, intimacy, and exploring your sexuality. Taara and Sylvie bring their personal experiences to the table, sharing stories of their own self-discovery and the role that masturbation has played in their lives. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of self-pleasure, this episode is for you. So, get ready for an informative, fun, and judgment-free conversation about a topic that we believe needs to be talked about more. Let's dive in! WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/tbMOuOKjQsM ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. When she's not educating others, Taara can be found spending time with her furry friends, experiencing the pleasure of nature, and always learning more about sex, sexuality, and relationships. Join Taara on her journey towards discovering your authentic sexual self - you won't regret it! www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
May is Masturbation Month and Taara and Sylvie are kicking it off by diving into the topic that's often considered taboo but crucial for our sexual health - masturbation! They have an open and honest conversation about the benefits of masturbation, common misconceptions, techniques, and tips, as well as the shame that can come with it. They explore how masturbation can be incorporated into relationships, from doing it in secret to using it as foreplay or even masturbating together. It's all about communication, intimacy, and exploring your sexuality. Taara and Sylvie bring their personal experiences to the table, sharing stories of their own self-discovery and the role that masturbation has played in their lives. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of self-pleasure, this episode is for you. So, get ready for an informative, fun, and judgment-free conversation about a topic that we believe needs to be talked about more. Let's dive in! WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/tbMOuOKjQsM ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. With a passion for supporting individuals to embody consent and boundaries in their bodies, Taara provides non-judgmental sexual education to all who seek it. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. As an advanced student with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent, Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. When she's not educating others, Taara can be found spending time with her furry friends, experiencing the pleasure of nature, and always learning more about sex, sexuality, and relationships. Join Taara on her journey towards discovering your authentic sexual self - you won't regret it! www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I am currently enrolled in Ellen Heed's STREAM training (Scar Tissue Remediation Education and Management) with a focus on holistic pelvic care. My emphasis is on emerging from shame, increased choicefulness, pattern recognition, improved communication & boundary setting. I hold a space where my clients can safely and authentically show up in their bodies and minds, dark side and all, and be met there. The work I do is client-led, in service to stepping more into wholeness, happiness & eroticism. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
S2 EPISODE 012 :: It's VDay - celebrate the beautiful concept of loving ourselves as women and mamas!In this episode, there's NO. HOLDING. BACK. Jannine Mackinnon, a community builder and advocate for all women, specializes in Women's empowerment and female sexuality. She offers a safe space to challenge the social norms that we, as women and mothers, have been conditioned to accept as our reality. But it doesn't have to be.Did you know that women's empowerment goes beyond equal access, breaking gender bias, and feminism? It's all encompassing and it STARTS AT HOME with the decision ultimately being... our own. So let's talk about it!9:24 - Let's Talk MAMA MARTYRDOM - understanding ourselves as women, resisting the temptation to fall into martyrdom. 22:55 - Let's Talk FEMINISM - challenging the "anything you can do, I can do better" approach celebrating where women differ. 26:13 - Let's Talk HORMONES - did you know we have superpowers that come alive at different points in our cycle?32:19 - Let's talk RELATIONSHIPS - how the "transactional" approach to relationships, promotes disconnection. And the part where your host talks a mile a minute, to offset her flushed cheeks. (you will LOVE this part mamas)37:50 - Let's talk "ABOUT SEX, baby"- You will soon see (Youtube version), just how your favourite "PRUDE" (yours truly) is literally transformed in one sitting, as we "go there" in the world of self love, and tapping into our own needs.Give yourselves the ultimate day of self-love, and a much deserved reset. Sit back, and be enlightened by a candid conversation that will blow your mind, open your eyes, and relieve all that pressure (heh, heh).READ MORE HERE!WATCH THIS EPI HERE!LINKSLet's Talk :: JANNINEhttps://unapologeticmotherhood.com/IG - @jannine.mackinnonTikTok - @unapologeticmotherhoodPodcast - @UnapologeticMomsClub / @UnapologeticMomsClubFB - @unapologeticmotherhoodPIN - @JanninemackinnonLet's Talk SASS & SMALLSIG - @sassandsmalls (Main) @sassandsmalltalkpodcastFB/TW/PIN/TIKTOKWEBSITE SUBSCRIBE on YOUTUBEListen on any platform HERE!Send comments, questions, topic requests, or guests requests to: https://bit.ly/ContactSassandSmalls
SANEKDJ в iTunes. itunes.apple.com/ru/podcast/sanekdj/id1178349865 vk.com/sanekdjs promodj.com/sanek.dj bananastreet.ru/sanekdj ok.ru/sanekdjs t.me/sanekdj СЛУШАЙ! КАЧАЙ! ДЕЛИСЬ! ПОДПИСЫВАЙСЯ! Плейлист: ID - Panamerica (Remix) Dj Vini - People Are Still Having Sex (Mashup) Mariah Carey - You're Mine (Eternal) (Dance Mix) Hardwell, Flo Rida - Turn Spaceman Around (Bootleg Mix) Martin Garrix, Jay Hardway - Wizard (Remix) 50 Cent, Justin Timberlake - Ayo Technology (Mashup) Linkin Park - Numb (Remix) Mousse T., Hot 'n' Juicy, La Fuente - Horny Selecta (Mashup) Voodoo, Serano, Ciara, Kosheen, - About Sex, Catch At Night (Mashup) Nervo, Hook N Sling - Reason (Remix) Knife Party - You Blocked Me on Facebook Calvin Harris - Flashback Yam Nor, Alexey Lexx, Kelis - Milkshake Chris Brogan, Amy Pearson - Say What You Want Tim Cosmos, Eldar Stuff feat. Alison Fai - Together Lukas Vane - Falling (Extended Mix) Coldplay - Adventure Of A Lifetime (Remix) Fly Projec - Toca Toca (Remix) Avicii, Nicky Romero - I Could Be the One (Remix) Gibson Parker - Prismatic Nik Sunderro - Follow Me (Extended Mix) Major Lazer - Watch Out For This (Mashup) Ancalima & Loco Miguel - Gangsta's Paradise (Extended Mix) 50 Cent, Joel Corry - In Da Club (Bootleg) Laurent Wolf - No Stress (Remix) Tom Jones - Sex Bomb (MashUp) Picco, The Chemical Brothers - I Can't Galvanize (MashUp) Royksopp - What Else Is There (Remix) Will.I.Am. & Britney Spears - Scream And Shout (Remix) Greg Parys - Why Dont We Just Fuck (Remix) Valentiano Sanchez - Wake Up (Remix) GAZ51 - Не подруга ID - Panamerica (Remix) Dj Vini - People Are Still Having Sex (Mashup) Mariah Carey - You're Mine (Eternal) (Dance Mix) Hardwell, Flo Rida - Turn Spaceman Around (Bootleg Mix) Martin Garrix, Jay Hardway - Wizard (Remix) 50 Cent, Justin Timberlake - Ayo Technology (Mashup) Linkin Park - Numb (Remix) Mousse T., Hot 'n' Juicy, La Fuente - Horny Selecta (Mashup) Voodoo, Serano, Ciara, Kosheen, - About Sex, Catch At Night (Mashup) Nervo, Hook N Sling - Reason (Remix) Knife Party - You Blocked Me on Facebook Calvin Harris - Flashback Yam Nor, Alexey Lexx, Kelis - Milkshake Chris Brogan, Amy Pearson - Say What You Want Tim Cosmos, Eldar Stuff feat. Alison Fai - Together Lukas Vane - Falling (Extended Mix) Coldplay - Adventure Of A Lifetime (Remix) Fly Projec - Toca Toca (Remix) Avicii, Nicky Romero - I Could Be the One (Remix) Gibson Parker - Prismatic Nik Sunderro - Follow Me (Extended Mix) Major Lazer - Watch Out For This (Mashup) Ancalima & Loco Miguel - Gangsta's Paradise (Extended Mix) 50 Cent, Joel Corry - In Da Club (Bootleg) Laurent Wolf - No Stress (Remix) Tom Jones - Sex Bomb (MashUp) Picco, The Chemical Brothers - I Can't Galvanize (MashUp) Royksopp - What Else Is There (Remix) Will.I.Am. & Britney Spears - Scream And Shout (Remix) Greg Parys - Why Dont We Just Fuck (Remix) Valentiano Sanchez - Wake Up (Remix) GAZ51 - Не подруга
Salt-N-Pepa's here and they came to out-rap you -- but not in a mean way! Today we're talking about six Salt-N-Pepa hits across a handful of albums, the difference between '80s and '90s SNP, when #smarternotharder comes to hip-hop, and how talking "About Sex" sounded 30 years ago. Nobody's getting on OUR nerves in the third Beats Around The Bush ep of MASTAS... Our intro is the Yo! MTV Raps credits break, and our outro is 702. To contact us or buy our books, visit MarkAndSarahTalkAboutSongs.com. To become a patron of the show, visit patreon.com/mastas. SHOW NOTES Episode 25: "I'll Take Your Man" and "If That's Your Boyfriend (He Wasn't Last Night)" "Salt-N-Pepa: Our Life in 15 Songs" at Rolling Stone
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Top 5 News Headlines and Commentary for Wednesday July 6, 2022. 1. President Biden Makes Leasing Permits More Difficult to Obtain, Yet Urges Gas Companies to Cut Prices 2. Globally, 70 Percent of 10-Year-Olds Struggle With Literacy. 3. Biden Ships 5 Million Barrels of Oil From Strategic Petroleum Reserve Overseas as Gas Prices Spike. 4. Washington State School Board Director to Teach Children as Young as 9 About Sex at Her “WinkWink” Sex Shop 5. Biden Ships 5 Million Barrels of Oil From Strategic Petroleum Reserve Overseas as Gas Prices Spike
Think you know all there is to know about sex? Think again! Hosts Sarah and Darby are changing society's perspective on sex and the sex industry, one episode at a time. Each week, you will hear conversations breaking down the stigma around these taboo topics, stories from the industry, and the struggles and shame women face with their sexuality. If you've ever felt super uncomfortable talking about sex, this is the place you need to be. Instagram: www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic sexandbacon1@yahoo.com
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May Celebrations That Aren't About Sex: https://atheopaganism.wordpress.com/2019/04/10/may-celebrations-that-arent-about-sex/ How's that Maypole Thing Work?: https://atheopaganism.wordpress.com/2018/04/22/hows-that-maypole-thing-work/ https://theapsocietyorg.wordpress.com/community/ Beltane 2020 Episode: https://thewonderpodcast.podbean.com/e/its-beltane/ Beltane 2021 Episode: https://thewonderpodcast.podbean.com/e/beltanemay-day/ S3E15 TRANSCRIPT:----more---- Yucca: Welcome back to the wonder science-based paganism. I'm one of your hosts. Yucca Mark: and I'm the other one, Mark. Yucca: and today we're talking may day Beltane second spring, all of those, whatever name you call it. Mark: Yay. Summer is a coming in. And winter's gone away. Oh Yucca: It is, I, we were just saying, this is actually our third may day episode that we'll be doing. Mark: Yes. Yucca: So we'll put the links to the other ones. If you want to check those out as well for inspiration and things like that, we'll probably talk about a lot of the same things this time around is that's one of the things about it was cyclical holiday year, right? We come back to some of the same themes each year, but hopefully there'll be some new things in this episode as well. Mark: Sure for sure. Especially because you know, now at this particular moment, we are in a place where we're sort of gingerly, tentatively coming out of COVID. Yucca: I think we've said this so many times. Mark: I know, I know. And who knows? I mean, there, there could be another variant that. Pigs the needle again, but I really hope that this around this time, when it seems that the numbers are generally low, people can have gatherings in person And, celebrate because in most places in the Northern hemisphere, the weather is beautiful and it's just a really lovely time of year. Yucca: And, and it's a holiday that is often associated with outdoor activity. Unlike say the winter solstice where it's a lot of it's about being bundled up and inside and cozy and sharing drinks with each other. And. You know, Mark: right, Yucca: has more of an outdoor, you know, in the park bonfire, those of you who live near the beach. Bet, that would be amazing know fire on the beach. Maybe that would be wonderful, but yeah. Mark: The. The image that I have in relation to Mayday or Beltane . And we're going to talk about naming in a minute has to do with emergence into the outdoors. It's like, you know, we've spring arrives in at different times in different places based on climb in elevation and, and All of those different factors. But by the beginning of may, mostly. It's comfortable to go outside and there's this kind of exuberance about getting out from the walls and, you know, out into the sun and experiencing the bright new leaves of the foliage and All that wonderful stuff. So it's just, there's a, there's an enthusiasm about this holiday that I really love. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: So let's talk about names cause we've got a bunch of them, the the, the word bell team, which is used by most of the pagan community to, to designate this holiday. And we'll talk about what defines the holiday in a sec comes from the Irish bail to. Which is actually just the name of a month. It's the name of the month of may. And there's a similar word in Scott's Irish as in Scott's Gaelic as well. And both of those are often used as You know, kind of placeholder for the beginning of may holiday. But I don't actually use those Celtic names myself because I don't. Yucca: You don't have a specifically Celtic practice. Mark: I I don't. And and I also deliberately sort of stripped cultural references out of my practice when I started doing atheopagan ism, because I wanted to avoid any possibility of cultural appropriation, which we're going to talk about in a future episode. And and I wanted there to be kind of a blank slate for people to create their own new traditions and symbols and all that kind of stuff. Yucca: Sure and add, add to it. What is part of what's meaningful to them? Mark: Yes. Yucca: Right. Yeah. And no, and not saying at all that there's anything bad or wrong with any of the Celtic stuff. I mean, that's a big deal for my family. Right? We were, we identify as Celtic American, you know, we, we speak one of the Celtic languages. Actually my daughter was really interested in learning Irish because that was her grandpa's first language when he was little and in the home. When she was given some choices about what do you want to learn now? She didn't want to learn mom's language. She wanted to learn graph is language. So she's been learning it. And I'm in the background. I've been picking up on it a little bit. Right. Which is really very, quite fun to see the differences between the languages. So. So just to emphasize to everybody, this is not in any way of saying like, oh, like the Celtic side is bad or whatever. It's like, no, we're just saying, you know, everybody's going to be different. Their backgrounds are going to be different. My family happens to have a strong connection to that side of, of, of our heritage and, you know, for other people that's not their heritage or not a part that they connect with. Right. And that's totally fine. But the name Beltane is, is used pretty. Widely and much of the kind of Neo pagan community. Mark: Right. And, and it bears saying that we need to acknowledge that new modern Neo paganism, mostly stemmed from. You know, Gerald Gardner in the 1930s and forties and early fifties. And so it CA it was kind of a UK Britain, England centric. Yucca: Yeah, well, he was English. Mark: he was English. And so that was the lens that he was looking at everything through. And a lot of what we have inherited from those traditions is very Anglocentric, Yucca: Yeah. Mark: but paganism in and of itself inherently in terms of a relationship with the earth and and a ritual practice. That's key to the seasons of the year that, that. It's everybody and it has no language and it there's no particular culture that, that slotted to. So here's this holiday and it's defined as the mid point between the spring Equinox and the summer solstice. So it's. Yucca: It's the other side from, from Salween or Mark: Or Hallows. Yucca: So, yeah. Mark: exactly. So, and there are lots of cool parallels that you can do with those opposite sides of the year where built-in is often associated with sexuality and kind of life and vitality and fertility and all that kind of stuff. And Hallows is associated with death and decomposition and fallow fields and all that kind of stuff. Right. So you've got the, kind of the polar ends of the, the human experience happening there. So what are some other names that we use? I, I say may day, which is a little problematic, because what if you're celebrating? Not on May 1st. Yucca: Right. There's made a, and there's also the association. I usually say Mayday as well or second spring. But there's the labor. Wright's association with may day as well. That comes up for a lot of people, which I think was a, was purposeful. And the, when that was chosen. But for some people they don't who aren't part of the pagan community. They don't know the pagan association and they only have the, the labors rights Mark: Right, right. There's an interesting thing about international worker's day, which is May 1st which is that the United States deliberately put its workers day at the end of summer. In order to avoid engagement with those socialists and communists who were celebrating international workers' day on May 1st. So we have our labor day on the first weekend in September and nobody else does, but when those holidays were being defined like today there was a lot of fear around, you know, communism. So that's, Yucca: Yeah. Mark: how it happened. So, Yeah. Mayday or a second spring is another good one. I know that that's how you celebrate your, your holidays in terms of first and second seasons for each, each quadrant. And so let's talk a little bit about, you know, what the themes are and, and how we celebrate it. And then talk about some specific ritual things that we can do. Yucca: All right. Well, there's definitely. Like you were talking about this coming out, this emergence, this, you know, waking up around it. For us, we think about it a lot as well for the annual plants, because this is the time where. You're getting the gardens going. I mean, our last for us usually isn't until the 15th, we'll still have a couple good frosts. And of course the fruit trees that aren't from this area are all blooming already. And going here we are. You know, zapped by another frost. But we definitely associate it with, okay, here are the, the annual plants that are coming back, the things that we're planting in the garden and the the flowering plants and all of our, you know, our Forbes and things like that. And the color. So it's still kind of blend. Sometimes the holidays blend a little bit. The last one for us was more about the birds and the feathers, but there were bright colors with that. And then coming into this, more of the colors and just again, that, that awake, that youthful that, you know, here we are, Mark: Yes, everything's so, so fresh and new and sex is everywhere that trees and plants are all kind of hanging their parts out there saying, come and get me. And it's, it's just a very vital, very central kind of time. The air is perfumed in many places with the smell of all the different kinds of flowering plants. We just had Yucca: clouds of Paul and the go by Mark: Yes. Yes, exactly. Yucca: clouds Mark: Yeah, you can't can't help, but get it all over you. And if you have allergies, it's miserable. So it's, you know, it's a time when the world is really vital and even in desert climates, the world is really vital. I mean, the, the desert is palpably green. When you look out after the rainy season and, and after the snows have melted and you can see that things are really genuinely green they're there. They're not like tropical green, but they're definitely. Is Yucca: like it does after winter? Mark: I'm sure. Yeah. Where it's black and white Yucca: Oh yeah. Mark: it. Yucca: Yeah. Even so even in places or even, especially in places in brittle environments, there's just such a change between one season to another. Mark: Sure. Yucca: just, the more you tune into it. I noticed for me every single year, I mean, I've lived in other places, but I came back to where I'm, where I'm from. Even growing up here every year, I noticed something different and new despite by being out and hanging out outside and just paying attention. Mark: Yeah. There's I mean, life itself is opportunistic, right? Life, life is always looking to worm its way into whatever niche it can find in order to thrive. But right now there's so much opportunity for so many different kinds of organisms and they all kind of pop at once. And so you get this, this feeling of genuine exuberance and delight. From from the world, you know, everything's doing its thing and seems pretty happy about it. So, you know, that may be me anthropomorphizing my plant environments, but there's a, there's a. There's a way that that it seems enthusiastic. I go back to that word again and again Beltane or Mayday. Isn't an enthusiastic holiday. And in, in my wheel of the year, I associated a lot with young adulthood. Where there's lots of energy things are brand new and you're kind of trying them out because, you know, oh, wow, look, I've got these leaves which I didn't have right. A month ago. I've got all this, this new agency as a young adult, I can make decisions for myself. I, I have power that I didn't have before. I have autonomy that I didn't have before. And so I'm going to experiment. I'm going to try new things. I'm going to. Make friends I'm going to connect sexually and explore myself and find out what works for me and how that whole dynamic works with other people. So it's there's, there's just a lot of, of of, of trying and getting it done happening around this time of year. Yucca: Yeah. Yeah. I definitely feel that too. Mark: So, it's a glad time and it's not a surprise to me that the Christians decided to put their Easter right around this time, because there is a general feeling of. Of thankfulness for having gotten through the winter and have joy in the beauty of nature as it's blooming in front of us, that comes at this time of year. And while their themes are a little bit different in terms of salvation and resurrection and all that kind of stuff. The resurrection piece works well with dormant plants coming back to life and all that the salvation piece. Pagans don't have anything to do with, we got nothing to do with that. Yucca: At least most of us don't, there's, you know, there's a lot of different kinds of pagans. Mark: That's certainly true, but the, but the joyfulness, you know, there's a, there's a sense, even in the Christian Canon of this kind of joy and relief, right? Oh, we've been saying. Hooray. Whereas, you know, we don't feel like we need to be saved from anything but freezing and starving to death as pagans, but but we're really nonetheless that we didn't starve to death. Yucca: I like that sun being higher in the sky. That is great. We got a lot of sun here, but it was getting a bit much in the winter. The winter lasts a bit long. Mark: Yeah. There's something about February, especially, that's Just really, really rough. It just, Yucca: ah, let's keep rolling. Mark: Yeah. it, it won't last forever, even though it feels like it's already lasted forever. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: So, shall we go into some ritual things that we can do or what our practices are? Yucca: So, I mean, before we go into specifically rituals, are there types of things that you're doing this time of year, just that, or are your sort of may day-ish season things that you do? Mark: Well, I like to get flowers in the house. And we just had our wisteria bloom along our back fence. And that of course smells delicious. And it's these beautiful cascades of purple blossoms and they're there they're mostly done now, but they were just so pretty when, when they were Yucca: months ahead of us. Ours here will not flown for another few weeks probably. Yeah. Mark: So there, there was that, and we've got roses blooming, and we've got Calla lilies, and there's an, there's a beautiful. purple Iris. That's growing in one of our wine barrels right now. So there's just. You know, paying attention to all that. Once again, we come back to paying attention, but really acknowledging, wow, it's just awfully good to be here. And there's a lot of beauty around that's, that's really the primary thing for me for this, this holiday, that, and I feel my body waking up. I, I have a higher sex drive. I have a Bigger appetite. I, I feel, and I, I'm kinda antsy about sitting around, I, I wanna leave the house and go and do things and all that kind of stuff. So, there's, there's just this kind of, I don't know, coming out of hibernation and being hungry, sort of quality to it as well. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: How about you? Yucca: Well, it's a busy time of the year for us. And a lot of it is the focused on, again, not just going back out, we always change out colors in the, in the house. And that's kind of a gradual process of changing. I mean, it's the sort of thing we'd be doing anyways. The types of curtains we've got up during the winter are different than the ones we've got up in during the summer. And you know, changing out what's on the couch and all of that. And this year it's been quite fun because this is our. First like real season where we're at. And so we planted in the fall, we planted a bunch of perennials and I'm seeing which ones made it because that's one of the things of making it through that first winter. And I took some chances with things. This is not from our climate at all, but I thought I'll give it a shot. I have, there's a couple of little microclimates on our property. And so I tried some Papas, some American Papas and I'm going okay. So they, you know, they feel, find them in like, you know, New York, upstate New York, which is colder than us and they survive there. Mark: right. Yucca: So three of the five I planted made it. Right. So that's, you know, We'll see how they feel about our summers, but Mark: Right. Right. And they may, and they, may be a bit thirsty too. They may, they may want a lot more water than your desert plants. Yucca: Well, I plan to do them in an area that gets that has some it's for us, a wet area drains into it. Yeah. And then it's so fun every year because the kids are getting older and coming into really being like people now. And my daughter's just making up all kinds of holidays. Right. And the reptiles are. So we've decided that we spent the winter learning about the different mammals in our area. And now we decided it's time to learn about the different lizards that we have. And there's all kinds of lizards that are here. And there's a whole bunch that I'm going. I don't know how I'm going to tell the difference between these three species. Cause they all look the same. You're telling me there's a little red dot behind one of their ears. Okay. So, That again, just that sort of bringing the spring in and bringing the humans out. Right. The humans out of that house, we're living half outdoors again. So yeah, Mark: Nice. Yes. So. So why don't we go into some specific rituals that we like to do around this time? One of the things that I do when I, you know, seasonally redecorate my, my focus, my altar is I have some ribbons that are from a maypole dance that I did years ago. And there's a, there's a portion of a tree branch. That's. My focus sits up about 10 inches high. And so I drape, I've tied them together at one end and I drape these ribbons over the top of this branch so that it becomes like a little maypole. There. And we also have embroidery hoops that we have glued ribbons, colored, colorful ribbons around the top of, so, and then we cut them off. Three feet long or even longer. So what you end up with is this ring that you can hang from a tree and it's got all these beautiful ribbons hanging down from it that wave in the wind. And we put those in the, in the foliage outside as well, Yucca: Oh, lovely. Mark: So it just kinds of create some thematic stuff around it. Yucca: Yeah, we, we put ribbons, we've got a specific tree that we like to put things and, you know, we put little like, you know, Christmas bulbs and things like that in the winter. And then we put some of the ribbons out. And then we go out and untangled them because they get very tangled. Mark: Of course. You do Cloudy's do you know. Yucca: What are Cloudy's Mark: Cloud, is there an Irish tradition? I think, I think, or it may be a Scott's tradition. I'm but I seem to remember it's an Irish tradition and they are cloth that you hang in a tree and particularly with wishes for health, Yucca: Mm. Mark: and they, you know, various colored clogs and that kind of thing. So it, it sort of creates a prayer tree. Yucca: Okay. So like a prayer flag tree kind of. Okay. Yeah. We haven't done that, but that's a lovely idea Mark: Yeah, I like it. I like it too. And then of course there is the classic, which is the maypole dance. We will put a link to a blog post that. I have@atheopagan.org called how does that maypole thing work? And it's, it's step-by-step instructions for how to do a maypole circle. Maples are just so much fun there they're really joyous and dancing around one with a partner with, you know, all these couples with ribbons going in the opposite directions and weaving the ribbons up on the pole. Yucca: Bumping into each other. Occasionally. Mark: into each other a lot, Especially as you get closer to the pole, cause your ribbons are winding up and they're getting shorter and shorter. And you know, there's always music playing and it's just a very joyful, happy kind of time. And I have many memories of going to, built-in or may Mayday gatherings, you know, people where they're colorful clothing and it. It's just a really, really sweet spring celebration and a very old tradition of course may have existed in, not just in England, but also in other parts of Europe, continental, Europe, Yucca: in the Northern areas, which sometimes they're associated more with solstice, Mark: Yes. Yes. In Sweden. I know they do a maypole things that summer solstice. And that may just be Because it's, you know, Yucca: Because that is Sprig Mark: that is spring that's when it finally just gets warm enough to get that hooray. We're going outside feeling. Yucca: and hopefully it'll be on a weekend. Mark: Yes. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: Well, and if it's not, then you just push to the next weekend. I mean, Yucca: well, that's what we do. We use it like you were saying at the beginning that, you know, maybe it's not going to be on May 1st week kind of just do it around this time of year when it works for everybody. Mark: Right, right. Because it would be really disappointing if half the people you wanted to come, couldn't make it. Just because you insisted on doing it on a Wednesday. The other thing to bear in mind when it comes to, you know, being diligent about doing things exactly on the day, That's great, but bear in mind that the actual midpoint between the Equinox and the solstice is actually around May 7th. So. I consider May 1st through May 7th to be the week of may day, the week of Mayday or the week of bell pain. In the same way that Hallows is from Halloween to about November 6th or seventh, depending on the year. So, you know, give yourself a break. Don't. You know, force yourself to do something that creates a lot more insertion and trouble. It's okay to wait till the weekend to do something that, that you want to have a gathering with. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: I'm excited because The, the atheopagan community created a new program earlier this year called affinity groups. And those are groups that are, that share geographical affinity or that have some sort of identity or interest connection. So there's an LGBTQ group and there's a crafters group and there's a neuro-diverse. Diverse group and an activist group, but there's also groups that are in different geographical areas. And we have one for Northern California that is now called live Oak circle. And we are meeting in person at one of our houses to do a Mayday gathering on, on May 1st. And I'm really excited about it. I think it's going to be a really Nice. time. Yucca: That's great. Mark: Yeah. Yucca: And all, you'll be seeing some of those folks again and another, the next weekend, in fact, Mark: Yes, one of them, one of them will also be at the century retreat. Yucca: Yeah. So just a plug for that. I think that the day this comes out is the last day for registration, right? Mark: That's right. Yucca: the 25th of April. Yeah, because we need to know who's going to be there so we know how much food to have. Right. Mark: Right. Exactly. So, when you hear this podcast, if you hear it on Monday, the first, if you are still thinking about coming, please at least contact us through the, the contact email on the century re. Page to let us know that you want to come. You can, we'll work out getting your registration completed over the next couple of days, but we need to know that you're coming. And how many are in your party? Yucca: Yeah. We just need the count of what's going to be there or not. Yeah. Mark: because it's only, it's three weeks away. Yucca: Yup. Mark: We're in three weeks. We're going to be there. Yucca: Yup. Mark: And the whole, the whole thing just seems preposterous to me. I mean, I haven't left the state of California in a long time now And Yucca: either actually the last place I went was Colorado Springs was Colorado Springs or w w for the baby moon before my oldest was born six years ago. We went there cause it was the closest borders Mark: really? Yucca: bookish people. Yeah. We were like, Hey, let's go somewhere and spend the night somewhere. Cause we're never going to do this again for like 18 years. And what do we want to do? I want to go to a bookstore. Yeah. I want to go to a bookstore too. So we have lots of little bookstores as well, but we wanted one that was a little bit more like. Like wandering through a big library. So that anyways, yeah. That's the last time I've been out of state. It's been a while. Mark: Yeah. well, you know, there's been COVID and you've had kids and there's, there's all that stuff. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: So, yeah, it's it's going to happen so soon now I'm really, I got to go to my storage unit and get out of suitcase and all this stuff. So. What else do we have to say about Mayday and oh I we're, we're developing a re a relatively large list of things to put in the in the episode notes, but I do want to put in also, I have a blog post about may celebrations that aren't about sex. Yucca: Okay. Nice. Mark: So for people who, you know, are, are a sexual or a romantic, Or Yucca: Or do you want it to be a family thing and it's not appropriate for the particular people in the family right Mark: Right. Or they just aren't into it, you know, whatever that is. There's some ideas there for things that you can do to celebrate this time of year. So I want to Yucca: That's a great, yeah, because it really doesn't. I mean, I like the sex part, but it doesn't have to be about that. Mark: That's Right. Yucca: There's plenty of, of reawakening and all of that stuff that doesn't have to doesn't have to be it. Mark: Absolutely. And as always, we're working to be as inclusive as we possibly can. This non theist pagan science-based paganism path is something that really is open to everyone and not just in a tolerance sense, but in a true welcoming sense. We want you to have a practice. Really works for you, you know, that feels moving and meaningful and gives you a sense of place in the world and a sense of purpose in living. So that's, that's the thing. So what else do we have Yucca: You know, I think I'm just feeling happy about it being spring. Mark: Me too. Yucca: that's what I have to say. Spring awakening being outside color the bugs coming back, got all kinds of interesting things out. That's that's what's going on for us. So. Mark: Yep. That's what's happening here too. And we, we really love it. So, I got to get out on a trail. I haven't actually gone hiking for quite a while and I really want to do that. So I've got to, got to get myself going soon. Yucca: Good time for that. Mark: It is so happy spring everyone or summer, if that's the way you count it, which we didn't really talk about. But many people consider the cross quarter holidays to be the beginnings of the seasons instead of the solstices and equinoxes. Which is why summer solstice is called midnight. Often and the winter solstice is called mid-winter. But it just depends on how you count it. Calendars are arbitrary. Yucca: they are. Yeah. I mean, for where I am, the seasons are not equal. Winter and summer are really long and we have like a few weeks of spring and a few weeks of fall. And then. You know, we basically have winter and summer. I mean, there's nuances, but really just jumps right in. Yes, June is not spring for us. For some people, June a spring, but June is like not Judas 90 degrees. So yeah. Well, anyways, as we were saying, just happy spring or happy summer, everyone. And for those of you, cause we do see that there are quite a few of you listening in the Southern hemisphere. So the other way around, happy bottom for you. Mark: Yes, and I'm happy Hallows or solemn, meaningful Hallows, and be sure to look in the in the podcast archives for our has episodes, because you can certainly use all of that stuff for your celebration here in may as well. Yucca: Great. And is there a Southern hemisphere affinity group? Mark: There is yes, it's small right now, but there is a Southern hemisphere affinity group. Yucca: Yeah. So definitely check that out if Mark: Yep. if you're interested in joining an affinity group, you can. go to the atheopagan society website, which is the AP society.org, the AP society.org forward slash community. And that will take you to the page that lists all of the affinity groups. Yucca: Yeah. Mark: Okay. Well, thank you so much, Yucca. It's been a pleasure as always. Yucca: Thank you, mark.
Emily and Michelle welcome Marriage and Sex therapist and fellow podcaster Angela Skurtu to Cliterally Speaking. Michelle enjoys a bright Cava from Giocatto while Emily breaks out a 2002 commemorative bottle from Madonna, Confessions on the Dance Floor. Angela rounds out the wine selection with a tasty Pinot Grigio from Cavit. According to Angela, it's a bottle that will guarantee a buzz! Angela shares how makeup is designed to look as if you just had sex. They do a deep dive into all aspects of intimacy. They talk about affection, communication, the blame lane, the honeymoon phase (usually between 6 months and 2 years), how to flirt, how to bullshit, how people use humor in relationships and what it indicates about the status of the relationship, the impact children have on the sex life of couples. They have a fun, insightful, and deeply intimate discussion on their different experiences regarding having children or not. They talk about the role women often get thrown into whether they like it or not as the HOUSE CEO. They talk about the frustration associated with that when you just wish someone would initiate without having to be asked to help and the challenge to ask for help within a relationship. Angela poses the question: does a partner add to your life or subtract? They talk about pendulum swings between traditional roles and egalitarian, owning your sexuality, nuanced conversations between couples, and giving each other a vocabulary to navigate expectations. Angela stresses the need for comprehensive sex education and communication skills. They wrap it up with a fun conversation on orgasms. To connect with Angela, visit http://www.therapistinstlouis.com You can find her podcast "About Sex" wherever you listen to podcasts. http://www.aboutsexpodcast.com Thank you for listening and subscribing to Cliterally Speaking the Podcast. Visit our website: www.cliterallyspeakingpodcast.com Facebook: @cspeakpodcast Instagram: @cliterallyspeakingthepodcast Twitter: @cliterallyspea1 Please call our comment line: 812-727-0794 Watch our youtube channel (Cliterally Speaking the Podcast) for all the behind the scenes discussions during our recording sessions. Be on the lookout for the launch of our live-streaming channel on Twitch, CliterallySpeakingPodTV. Our patreon site is up - visit it here - http://bit.ly/32uOnVT
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Episode 3: T is for ThreesomeRob and Angel discuss group sex and a study that explored undergraduate attitudes about threesomes and undergraduate threesome behavior. Links and Resources from the episode: Morris, H., Chang, I. J., & Knox, D. (2016). Three’sa Crowd or Bonus?: College Students’ Threesome Experiences. Journal of Positive Sexuality, 2(November), 62-76. https://journalofpositivesexuality.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Threes-a-Crowd-or-Bonus-College-Students-Threesome-Experiences-Morris-Chang-Knox.pdfTell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help Improve your Sex Life by Justin LehMiller https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want-ebook/dp/B0776PYDNMJustin’s website, Sex & Psychology https://www.lehmiller.com/Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha https://amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813/Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641Supplemental Reading and Related Resources: Looking for a Third: A discussion about Unicorn Hunting: https://professorsex.com/blog/looking-for-a-third-a-discussion-about-unicorn-hunting-a-findpoly-postThe Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664Building Open Relationships: Your Hands-on Guide to Swinging, Polyamory, and Beyond by Dr. Liz Powell https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664Hooking up at the Best Swinger Site for Queer People https://professorsex.com/blog/swingtownsThis episode is sponsored by Kink Crate (KinkCrate.com). Podcast listeners can sign up and get 35% off their first crate by using code: AtoZ.Kink Crate is a monthly subscription box service, for adults, that contains kink and BDSM products, personal items, candy, stickers and other creative treats. Every month, for less than $50 (which includes shipping) your Kink Crate will be packed with 5 to 9 items, a kinky new theme, as well as the informative Kink Crate Handbook which often features content from Professor Sex. The handbook is the ultimate guide to your monthly crate, it will give you info on your items, useful tips for how to use them, and other pleasure-based sex ed content. Multiple crate options are available for every kind of couple and they also have a “single ladies” crate option. There’s no contract, so you can join or quit anytime you like. Kink Crate announces their themes every month, so you get a hint about what they’re up to, but the specific contents of the boxes are always a surprise.You can see Angel unbox some past Kink Crates on our YouTube channel (https://youtu.be/ZdSdh0M5j_w; https://youtu.be/scGGQCobct0)and read many articles that have featured in their handbook on the Professor Sex blog. (ProfessorSex.com; https://professorsex.com/blog/come-to-your-senses-engaging-all-your-senses-to-enhance-sexual-desire-and-pleasure)Kink Crate Giveaway Details:Kink Crate is also giving away a Naughty Librarian crate box to one lucky Sex from A to Z listener. To enter to win, subscribe to the podcast or the YouTube channel and email us a screenshot and your contact info. (Email to info@professorsex.com) Refer a friend who subscribes and enters, and if they tell us you sent them each new friend will count as an additional entry for you. US Shipping only (sorry, friends). Contest ends on February 5, 2020 and winners will be announced on the podcast on February 7.About “Sex from A to Z”:"Sex from A to Z" is a sex science podcast discussing in plain language the actual studies that inform how sex therapists, sex researchers, sex educators, and medical professionals make decisions about sexual health and wellness. On each episode we take a deep dive into a different piece of peer-reviewed literature, break it down and explore the social, scientific, and personal implications. This is a podcast for anyone interested in understanding the psychological, medical, and other scientific research behind sexual issues that impact all of us.“Sex from A to Z” is hosted by Angel Russell and Dr. Robert Zeglin, and produced by Steven Russell. Art for the podcast was created by Angel Russell. We will post links to all the articles we discuss and additional resources for exploring each topic. You can watch on YouTube or listen anywhere you find your favorite podcasts. To check out other episodes, updates, show links, and additional content, go to: ProfessorSex.com/podcast.
Episode 1.5: M is for MisgenderingRob and Angel briefly discuss gender identity and respecting other people’s pronouns. Supplemental Reading: Teen Vogue: What is Non-binary Gender (https://www.teenvogue.com/story/what-is-non-binary-gender)Teen Vogue: 5 Misconceptions about Sex and Gender - Video (https://www.teenvogue.com/video/watch/5-common-misconceptions-about-sex-and-gender)American Psychological Association definitions of sex, gender, and associated terms (https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/sexuality-definitions.pdf)This episode is sponsored by Kink Crate (KinkCrate.com). Podcast listeners can sign up and get 35% off their first crate by using code: AtoZ.Kink Crate is a monthly subscription box service, for adults, that contains kink and BDSM products, personal items, candy, stickers and other creative treats. Every month, for less than $50 (which includes shipping) your Kink Crate will be packed with 5 to 9 items, a kinky new theme, as well as the informative Kink Crate Handbook which often features content from Professor Sex. The handbook is the ultimate guide to your monthly crate, it will give you info on your items, useful tips for how to use them, and other pleasure-based sex ed content. Multiple crate options are available for every kind of couple and they also have a “single ladies” crate option. There’s no contract, so you can join or quit anytime you like. Kink Crate announces their themes every month, so you get a hint about what they’re up to, but the specific contents of the boxes are always a surprise.You can see Angel unbox some past Kink Crates on our YouTube channel (https://youtu.be/ZdSdh0M5j_w; https://youtu.be/scGGQCobct0)and read many articles that have featured in their handbook on the Professor Sex blog. (ProfessorSex.com; https://professorsex.com/blog/come-to-your-senses-engaging-all-your-senses-to-enhance-sexual-desire-and-pleasure; https://professorsex.com/blog/bottom-s-up-exploring-anal-play-beyond-penetration)Kink Crate Giveaway Details:Kink Crate is also giving away a Naughty Librarian crate box to one lucky Sex from A to Z listener. To enter to win, subscribe to the podcast or the YouTube channel and email us a screenshot and your contact info. (Email to info@professorsex.com) Refer a friend who subscribes and enters, and if they tell us you sent them each new friend will count as an additional entry for you. US Shipping only (sorry, friends). Contest ends on February 5, 2020 and winners will be announced on the podcast on February 7.About “Sex from A to Z”:"Sex from A to Z" is a sex science podcast discussing in plain language the actual studies that inform how sex therapists, sex researchers, sex educators, and medical professionals make decisions about sexual health and wellness. On each episode we take a deep dive into a different piece of peer-reviewed literature, break it down and explore the social, scientific, and personal implications. This is a podcast for anyone interested in understanding the psychological, medical, and other scientific research behind sexual issues that impact all of us.“Sex from A to Z” is hosted by Angel Russell and Dr. Robert Zeglin, and produced by Steven Russell. Art for the podcast was created by Angel Russell. We will post links to all the articles we discuss and additional resources for exploring each topic. You can watch on YouTube or listen anywhere you find your favorite podcasts. To check out other episodes, updates, show links, and additional content, go to: ProfessorSex.com/podcast.
Episode 1: P is for PleasureRob and Angel discuss an article from the Journal for Sex Education (Ingham, 2005) about the importance of pleasure-based sex education.Links from the show:The article: Roger Ingham (2005) ‘We didn't cover that at school’: education against pleasure or education for pleasure?, Sex Education, 5:4, 375-388, DOI: 10.1080/14681810500278451 (https://doi.org/10.1080/14681810500278451)Journal of Sex Education: https://www.tandfonline.com/loi/csed20Additional Reading: https://professorsex.com/blog/closing-the-sexual-education-pleasure-gap-why-sex-edThis episode is sponsored by Kink Crate (KinkCrate.com). Podcast listeners can sign up and get 35% off their first crate by using code: AtoZ.Kink Crate is a monthly subscription box service, for adults, that contains kink and BDSM products, personal items, candy, stickers and other creative treats. Every month, for less than $50 (which includes shipping) your Kink Crate will be packed with 5 to 9 items, a kinky new theme, as well as the informative Kink Crate Handbook which often features content from Professor Sex. The handbook is the ultimate guide to your monthly crate, it will give you info on your items, useful tips for how to use them, and other pleasure-based sex ed content. Multiple crate options are available for every kind of couple and they also have a “single ladies” crate option. There’s no contract, so you can join or quit anytime you like. Kink Crate announces their themes every month, so you get a hint about what they’re up to, but the specific contents of the boxes are always a surprise.You can see Angel unbox some past Kink Crates on our YouTube channel (https://youtu.be/ZdSdh0M5j_w; https://youtu.be/scGGQCobct0)and read many articles that have featured in their handbook on the Professor Sex blog. (ProfessorSex.com; https://professorsex.com/blog/come-to-your-senses-engaging-all-your-senses-to-enhance-sexual-desire-and-pleasure; https://professorsex.com/blog/bottom-s-up-exploring-anal-play-beyond-penetration)Kink Crate Giveaway Details:Kink Crate is also giving away a Naughty Librarian crate box to one lucky Sex from A to Z listener. To enter to win, subscribe to the podcast or the YouTube channel and email us a screenshot and your contact info. (Email to info@professorsex.com) Refer a friend who subscribes and enters, and if they tell us you sent them each new friend will count as an additional entry for you. US Shipping only (sorry, friends). Contest ends on February 5, 2020 and winners will be announced on the podcast on February 7.About “Sex from A to Z”:"Sex from A to Z" is a sex science podcast discussing in plain language the actual studies that inform how sex therapists, sex researchers, sex educators, and medical professionals make decisions about sexual health and wellness. On each episode we take a deep dive into a different piece of peer-reviewed literature, break it down and explore the social, scientific, and personal implications. This is a podcast for anyone interested in understanding the psychological, medical, and other scientific research behind sexual issues that impact all of us. “Sex from A to Z” is hosted by Angel Russell and Dr. Robert Zeglin, and produced by Steven Russell. Art for the podcast was created by Angel Russell. We will post links to all the articles we discuss and additional resources for exploring each topic. You can watch on YouTube or listen anywhere you find your favorite podcasts. To check out other episodes, updates, show links, and additional content, go to: ProfessorSex.com/podcast.
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SUNDAY REMIX:YOU AND YOUR BOD: What Does The Bible teach About Sex?-God created sex. It was His idea.-Sex is for married people!-A Stronghold is living your life believing a lie as something that is true. -Purity is the pathway to intimacy. -God restores, Redeems and Renews.-Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 10:3-5; Romans 1:21-25; 1 Corinthians 6:15-17.
On this episode, we meet Rob Bertman to discuss finance and his method for saving money called Keep, Cut Back, Eliminate. His method helps people save more money without missing out on the fun and without a complicated budget. While money is not directly about sex, most of the time you need some sort of money to have a sex life. Our guest this week: Rob Bertman, CFA, CFP - Founder, Family Budget Expert www.FamilyBudgetExpert.com About us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings a sense of humor along with an inquisitive mind. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Sometimes you are nervous about talking to that girl at the bar. If you have autism or other social disorders, our guest might be able to assist you as wingman in such a situation. This week we talk with Nicholas Maio about autism, sex, and dating. Nicholas is an applied behavioral analyst and sex therapist and also is himself on the autism spectrum. He shares info about how he helps his clients and some of his own struggles with the dating world. People with autism sometimes struggle with social interactions, which is a pretty important part of finding an intimate partner. Join us this episode to find out more. About our guest: Nicholas A. Maio, MSPSY, BCBA, LBA CEO & Behavior Analyst Sex Therapist in Practicum Empowered: A Center for Sexuality, LLC 8000 Bonhomme Ave, Ste 201, Clayton, MO, 63105 314-932-1105 (p), 314-932-1106 (f), www.empoweredcenter.com About us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings a sense of humor along with an inquisitive mind. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Our anonymous guest on this episode lost the ability to sustain an erection years ago due to Erectile Dysfunction. His ED was caused by diabetic neuropathy, and in this week's episode wee discuss his journey, including treatment options, intimacy, and finding happiness. His is an interesting story and we hope you can join us for this episode. About us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings a sense of humor along with an inquisitive mind. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
In the 1980's, an HIV diagnosis was equitable to getting a death sentence. No treatments existed and scientists knew very little about the virus. Today, with advances in education and research, it is not only a preventable disease, but treatments exist that make living with the disease much more manageable. Join us today as we also discuss Truvada, the treatment used in "pre-exposure prophylaxis". Truvada is a pill that patients can take daily to reduce the chance of HIV infection. Some other interesting things we discuss on this episode include how often people actually use condoms, ways that condoms can fail, dangers of lambskin condoms, latex allergies, STI transmission methods other than during penetrative sex, and much more. About our Guest: Matthew Swango, LMSW. Program Coordinator for Saint Louis Effort for AIDS Matthew holds a Bachelors of Psychology and a Masters in Social Work. He is a Licensed Master Social Worker who also is a Board Member for Empower Missouri. Matthew tests clients for HIV and STIs, conducts risk-reduction counseling sessions, facilitates biopsychosocial programs, and provides psychotherapy. About us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings a sense of humor along with an inquisitive mind. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
We have all heard of tantric sex, but do we really know what it is? We heard that Sting can have trantic sex for tweve hours. We hear that it is a spiritual experience. I don't think most of us know what it is. Our guest today enlightens us on the topic. We hope you enjoy the episode. About our Guest: Leianna Love, MA, DTR My Goddess Leianna Sacred Grounds School of Tantra Leianna has traveled many roads and considers herself to be a multi-dimensional healer. She brings to her work years as a Licensed therapist, dancer, yoga teacher, psychic energy healer, and a Dakini of the sensual arts. Having started many small start-ups in her past, organized many events and performed for years she sees herself as an entrepreneur wanna be. She is very excited to be among the great, curious, thriving community of St Louis. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings the jokes along with an inquisitive mind. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Nathan Shaw joined us this episode to discuss some of his own relationships and his own unique perspectives on sex. For one, he is single and plans to stay that way. He had two previous marriages, one of which only lasted 39 days. He still sexual partners, but only classifies the relationships as "hanging out" and makes it clear to any interested partners. He told us that he estimates he has been with more than 300 different sexual partners. Topics this episode include: Dating after 40, Relationships after years of not being in one, Turn on’s in your 20’s vs turn on’s in your late 30’s and up, Nathan's 39 day marriage, Nathan's secrets of getting laid to guys that he has shared over the years on radio and more. Nathan Shaw is one of the hosts of the podcast Brothers on Whatever and a very interesting guest. We hope you can join us for this episode. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. Joshua Skurtu is not a therapist, but brings the jokes along with a breadth of knowledge. ;-) About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
If you cannot tell from the title, this episode needs a bit of a trigger warning. It contains dscussions about rape, stalking, child molestation, and PTSD. Despite the warning, it is actually a wonderful episode with a great story of survival. If you are able to hear stories about those topics, I don't suggest you miss this one. Meredith is an amazing person and we felt very honored that she was willing to share her story with us. About our Guest: Meredith Dino I was born in St. Louis. At age two my parents divorced and I went to daycare while they worked. My sexual abuse began at age 6 at the daycare center. It continued until I was eight when my mom married and we moved to Detroit. Then the abuse stopped. I still struggle but I continue to learn how to live with my Post Traumatic Stress Disorder through therapy, medication, and the support of my family and friends. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book released in February. About Sex now livestreams video of episode tapings on Facebook before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Our guest this week is O. John and he is a very interesting person. His body is adorned in almost every corner with tattoos, including his chest, arms, back, legs, and his penis. Yes, I said his penis. I did not verify this, but he says he has Japanese style waves around the shaft and plans to get a rose tattooed on the head in the near future. Feel free to verify on your own time. ;-) This link has some photos of O. John in the partial nude, so you can see some of his tattoos while you listen along. Beware that the link is NSFW. The photos are not graphic, but do contain some veiled nudity. O. John lives bit of a wild life. During the day, he works a white-collared job. On the side, he has worked as a Buck Naked Handyman, been a part of a gay men's nudist group in San Francisco, and performs nude or mostly nude at parties, sometimes as a door greeter. (Not at Wal-Mart. They require more than a thong as a uniform.) Yes, a Buck Naked Handyman means he comes to your home and works around the house while wearing nothing at all. I wonder how that works out when he has to use a skill-saw. Splinters can be a bitch. He is very comfortable in his skin and very comfortable with his sexuality and joined us to share his story. We learned a lot of new terms, including what a JO show is! Listen in to find out what it is. (Don't Google it!) We hope you can join us for a fun and educational episode. About our Guest: O. John / The Tattooed Gentleman O. John, aka, The Tattooed Gentleman has been collecting his personal ink for nearly 30 years. His bodysuit is the work of several talented artists in San Francisco, St. Louis, Memphis and Jacksonville. As an entertainer and educator, he is playful and uninhibited, the Gentleman aims to amuse and confuse, but leaves you with something to think about. The Tattooed Gentleman is a frequent performer at Opera Atlanta and a member of St. Louis’ own Beggar’s Carnivale and Naughti Gras. About us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: About Sex Podcast Facebook Page // Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Every time I speak with someone that helps people recover from physical or sexual trauma, I am in awe. I ask them all the same question; How do you do it? How do you hear stories of abuse every day and still find a way to drive home and live a normal life? The answer is always something about self-care, but I have a feeling it’s also something about what kind of person they are. They are the kind of person that dedicates a big part of their life to helping people that need it the most. Something in them is able to hear those stories and still find a way to not break down, to not become disillusioned with humanity, and to not become cynical. Therapists throw around a term called compassion fatigue. It’s when a therapist hears the same stories over and over again and it does get to them. They are very empathetic people, and when their empathy has been bombarded with trauma after trauma, their brain has one solution to solve this problem: Apathy. They become apathetic, meaning they give zero forks about anyone or any problem that other people may have. It’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they cared too much and have been overwhelmed by their work. I have to assume that therapists that work with trauma victims have to be at a higher risk for compassion fatigue. Something drives them to this work. I have to assume trauma specialists simply have a lot of love to share and so they decided to find the people that needed it the most. Our guest this week, Megan Garza, is a trauma specialist that works with the YWCA. Apparently, their organization offers free counseling to those that need it the most. These are some amazing people. I hope you enjoy the episode. About our Guest Megan Garza is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified SpecialtyTrauma Care Supervisor with experience working in the mental health and violenceagainst women field since 1999. She is a graduate of Pepperdine University with aMaster’s degree in Clinical Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy and Universityof Missouri St. Louis with a 2 nd Master’s degree in Psychology. She works as anindividual and group therapist treating sexual trauma survivors as the Lead Therapistfor the YWCA Women’s Resource Center. Megan also works for Behavioral HealthResponse as a Mobile Outreach Crisis Counselor performing suicide and homicide crisisassessments, providing stabilization support in the community, and facilitatinginpatient psychiatric hospitalization admission, when necessary. She is on the Board ofdirectors of the National Partnership to End Interpersonal Violence Across the Lifespan(NPEIV) and serves as co-chair of the Practice committee working on policies andresearch related to Trauma Informed Care. Megan is an American Association ofMarriage and Family Therapist’s (AAMFT) Board Approved Clinical Supervisor an activemember of the St. Louis chapter of Marriage and Family Therapists. Megan has spokenat National conferences on sexual trauma and PTSD and has published research in thearea of sexual trauma, weight, and sexual behaviors. Her specialty areas include:sexual trauma, PTSD, women’s issues, crisis intervention, and children & adolescents.She is an outspoken advocate for the Endometriosis community. Megan is a long timeactive volunteer with Big Brothers Big Sisters and the Humane Society of Missouri. Sheis an avid traveler and has been to 1/7th of the globe. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
We are back from our break and boy is this new year already off with a bang. This morning I woke to a phone call. One missed call on screen, from my uncle. When I picked up, my mother and sister were crying and told me that a nuclear missile had been launched at Hawaii. They insisted the threat was real and they only had a few minutes left to live. Most of my family lives in Honolulu, so the news was something of a shock. I definitely freaked out with them. My entire family was going to die in less than a few minutes from an intercontinental ballistic missile sent from North Korea tipped with a nuclear payload capable of leveling the entire city of Honolulu. The idea did not sit well with me, to say the least. That's when I realized I hadn't published this week's podcast episode yet. Not really, but this week's guest Chris Scarberry, while not as memorable as a nuclear holocaust, definitely provided us with a fun episode for the week. We discussed HIV and sex and being in a romantic relationship with a therapist. We hope you enjoyed listening to this episode just as much as we enjoyed recording it. Edit: I forgot to mention, but my family did not die from a nuclear blast in Honolulu, Hawaii, in case you were worried. It was a false alarm, and we still don't know why it happened. After the hysteria died down, I was left with a numb feeling. In the span of a half hour, I went from shock, to denial, to telling my family where to escape on the island so they could be out of the range of the explosion centered on Pearl Harbor, to crying, to anger, to finally relief. They are safe. For now. Afterwards, I told my mother, "Next time you call me screaming and crying about your imminent death by nuclear holocaust, it had better be real." I await their next call with bated breath. About our Guest: Chris Scarberry is a therapist in private practice in South St. Louis. Hespecializes in working with HIV+ and LGBTQ clients with a variety of presentingmental health concerns. He has worked as a therapist for 17 years, a crisiscounselor for 11 years until 2015, and has been in private practice since 2007.He has served as a member of the planning council for regional funding for HIVservices and has presented on HIV and LGBTQ counseling in a variety offormats. His main personal interests include travelling with his partner Megan,cooking, music, animals and writing. Website: www.scarberrytherapy.com About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
Sex Addiction isn't real. Sex is real. Porn is real. Some other words that are real include diversity, fetus, vulnerable, science-based, evidence-based, entitlement, and transgender. Yes, transgendered people are real. This week it seems the Trump administration decided that these seven words don’t exist and should not be used by the CDC. Whether or not this ban is real, political leaders have been doing this as long as we have had scientific research. Misinformation about reality, or the censoring of reality, can be harmful. Myths about sex can make it difficult for people to feel normal in their sexuality. If they are told that their biological urges are sinful or weird, they can feel a split between sex and themselves. They can see sex as something outside the normal human experience or even outside of their own control. If we as humans label something as uncontrollable, then we may fail to even try to have control over it. Sex addiction is not a real addiction listed in the most recent edition of the DSM, the bible of mental health diagnosis. These individual’s struggles are a failure of logic brought on by shameful views of their own thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. People who self-label as sex addicts have the same amount of sex as people who do not. People who claim to have this addiction feel the need to hold themselves to a standard beyond the normal human condition. They feel amorous, they feel love, they feel horny, and yet they deny these feelings and push them down to hide and deny their own sexuality. They not only feel uncomfortable just talking about sex in a social setting, but can sometimes feel uncomfortable even discussing these topics with their sexual partners. They can literally be having sex with their partner and feel super uncomfortable just discussing birth control and condom usage. Our guest today is clinical psychologist Dr. David J. Ley, Ph.D. and the author of the books Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure, The Myth of Sex Addiction and Insatiable Wives. I also just found out he has a black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. What the hell? That's awesome. To me, he sounds like the Jason Bourne of the clinical psychology world, saving people from myths and misinformation about sex and relationships. Our discussion with him covers the myths of sex addiction, porn, the CDC’s list of banned words, and so much more. David J. Ley PhD (@DrDavidLey) on Twitter About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. Check us out at our new YouTube Channel. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
The Republican party decided this year that they are okay with pedophiles representing them in the Senate. Roy Moore lost the race yesterday for the Alabama Senate seat by only 1.5%. Many of the people in Alabama that voted for Moore may see pedophiles as the worst of the worst, but they also see Democrats as somehow an even lower form of human life. Ugh, Democrats. Such a dirty thing. It brings to mind words like liberal, social justice, or *gasp* even diversity and inclusion. What depravity this world hath wrought! The sitting President of the United States, Donald Trump, even openly supported this accused pedophile for the Alabama Senate race and directed the Republican National Party to send as much funding his way. He wanted to ensure as much as he could that this accused pedophile made it into office, no matter how many children were destroyed in Moore’s wake. Somehow, in our topsy-turvy world, the Republicans see pedophiles as a crucially important demographic that they don’t want to lose. They will do anything and everything within their will to ensure all those pedophiles stick with the Republican party, so that they don’t to lose those sweet, sweet pedophile votes to another party. After we discuss Roy Moore and the wonderful pedophile laden dystopia that is the Republican party’s vision for the future, we have a very special guest on to discuss LGBTQIA+ advocacy. Our guest this week is Jaimie Hilemann, a Trans and LGBTQIA+ advocate and educator. For those that do not know what all those letters mean, they stand for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, Queer or Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and plus. The plus is a way to leave it open for inclusion of people that do not fall into these categories. We discuss education, myths about trans people, transitioning, and non-pliments (Compliments that can be insulting or off-putting). We learned a lot about transgendered individuals and hope you can join us for this week’s episode. About Our Guest: Jaimie Hilemann After 24 years in the corporate world, from key account sales, sales training, tosales- management, Jaimie felt the need as a Trans woman to advocate and speakout for Trans and LGBTQIA+ issues. First volunteering with MTUG (MetroTrans Umbrella Group), in St. Louis, she eventually became Board President andstill collaborates with MTUG today.Aware of rapidly changing needs in the Trans community, she began consultingas a Trans Cultural Competency Educator, including educational and trainingconsulting under contract with DAP (Diversity Awareness Partnership).Realizing the need for full-time Trans and LGBTQIA+ focused advocacy, Jaimieformally founded the Trans Education Service LLC of St. Louis (TES LLC STL)in order to expand opportunities to educate regarding issues critical to thecommunity. TES is both a Trans and LGBTQIA+ cultural competencyeducational and training consultancy, and a consulting partner for diversity andinclusion policy, planning and implementation.Jaimie is a member of WPATH, with GEI (Global Education Initiative), training,and also a professional member of AASECT, the American Association ofSexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. Check us out at our new YouTube Channel. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
I’m going to lay down some truth here, people. Listen closely, especially the fellas. In your life, you may find yourself in a position of power or in a situation where someone is vulnerable to your actions. When you find yourself in this position, it’s important that you remember to do one thing: Don’t rape people. I know it’s easy to forget. We live busy lives, working long hours, spending time with family, and wasting so much more time bingeing Netflix episodes of Stranger Things, or spending hours and hours refreshing our Facebook feeds, hoping to get ahold of some of those juicy thumbs up. Or is it up thumbs? But among this busy life, you must find it in you to push through those urges to rape, coerce, or exploit vulnerable individuals into sexual situations. The damage you can do to another individual in such a situation can be life altering. Recently, many prominent men in positions of celebrity or political power, including comedians such Louis C.K. and Al Franken, have been accused by large swathes of women of sexual misconduct and sexual assault. Just today, Al Franken announced his resignation from the Senate amid these sexual allegations. Come on, guys! It is important to know when you are in a position of power so that you may be more vigilant to not exploit that power. Many professions, such as prison guards, police, and medical professionals understand how much power they have over the individuals they work with and serve, and because of this knowledge they have codes of ethics and rules in their professions that give them guidelines on how NOT to exploit those individuals. Yes, we have to tell these professionals not to do it. We had to make it a rule for a reason. Comedians have very few rules of the trade and many comedians are notorious for being rulebreakers when it comes to drugs and other taboo topics, but on this topic, they need to stand up and find it in their hearts to not rape people. They also should probably not kill people as well. No one likes to die. Which brings us to this week’s main topic: Death! While we do talk about the sexual misconduct of celebrities this episode, the main topic is about death from a legal standpoint and estate planning. Our guest Martha Burhardt, a lawyer, not only explains what a trust is, but she also shares some insight on how she deals with the taboo topic of death with her clients. Next week, Dr. David J. Ley Ph.D. will be joining us to discuss the myth of sex addiction and Ethical Porn for Dicks. We're pretty excited to have him join us. He is a clinical psychologist and has been featured on Dr. Phil As an aside, this is actually our sixtieth episode. We have been doing this podcast for over a year now. We have enjoyed having so many amazing guests and we look forward to having many more in the future. After next week's episode, we will be taking a break to rest and relax and enjoy the holidays. We hope to see you next week and again in the new year, 2018. About Our Guest: Martha Burkhardt - Burkhardt Law Firm - www.burkhardtlaw.com/blog Martha graduated from Dominican University and University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law. Post-graduation she proceeded to a positionwith Pension and Retirement Services. During that time she realized thatmany families and individuals need help understanding their estateplanning options and how they may impact the family’s future. Her goalhas become to fill the gap in knowledge that nearly all families findintimidating and confusing so that they may protect their future. About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on YouTube a week before the podcast episodes come out. If you just can't wait to listen, the livestream goes out a week before the podcast releases. Check us out at our new YouTube Channel. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu
This week we’re back with an episode that might sound like it’s just for new kinksters but it’s a reminder for everyone. Sex might be a part of your D/s relationship, but that’s not... The post D/s Isn’t About Sex, It’s About Power LB110 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
This week we’re back with an episode that might sound like it’s just for new kinksters but it’s a reminder for everyone. Sex might be a part of your D/s relationship, but that’s not... The post D/s Isn’t About Sex, It’s About Power LB110 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
A show about the role of men in society, we touch on the Matt Lauer story, feminism and the theory pf presentism in today's show.*Eli Manning Benched*The Hunt for Manhood*50 Shades of Matt Lauer*The Credibiltiy Gap*Its not About Sex, its About Power*The Theories of Presentism*Tax Deductions for Kids100 percent of the money pledged thru Patreon.com will go toward show costs such as advertising, server time, and broadcasting equipment. If we can get enough listeners we will expand the show to two hours and hire additional staff.
You let off the brake, slam it into first gear, and pop the clutch full throttle. The engine roars to life, your tires screaming into the void. There may be something out there, other people, cars, ironic t-shirts, but while you hold that wheel and feel that engine rumble to life you become one with the car. You shift to second gear, and another chorus roars to life. Third gear, you can feel the force in your chest as you accelerate. Fourth gear, the signs on the side of the road start to seem like streaks of color passing you by. When you finally hit fifth gear, the tachometer makes its final ascent and you pass into what feels like another dimension. In this episode of About Sex, we discuss how couples can shift into different gears through the five dimensions of touch. You shift through Affectionate, Sensual, Playful, Erotic, and finally Intercourse. Join us for this and much more with our special guest Monica Houttuin, who is also a sex therapist. That's right, two sex therapists in the room. What could go wrong? :) About our Guest: Monica Houttuin, LCSW, CST at Counseling Rediscovering Connections Monica is a Couples and Intimacy Specialist, Certified Sex Therapist and Educator. She works in private practice in Union Missouri and specializes working with couples struggling with issues of sex and intimacy. Her area of expertise is reviving sexual injury from affairs and helping couples make adaptations to their sexual connections as a results of chronic illness or just the regular effects of long term relationships and living a long life together. Monica earned her Master's Degree From Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri with an emphasis on Family Therapy and Mental Health. Upon completion of that degree, she earned a Certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan. Combining those credentials with many years of experience intense Clinical Supervision, she earned her certification as a sex therapist through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She has pursued advanced training in research proven effective methods to treating couples such approaches for couples therapy, including Crucible™ Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) and Gottmann Methods. Find her at: https://www.crcmo.com/ https://jumpstartyourhearts.com monicahouttuin.wordpress.com www.facebook.com/CounselingWithMonica/ twitter.com/monicahouttuin Episode 37 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed, a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist. You can talk to her about sex or other therapy needs at: www.therapistinstlouis.com References: McCarthy; Shifting Gears; https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/whats-your-sexual-style/201205/shifting-gears
Sex can be amazing, like a beautiful ballet, graceful and in perfect synchronicity. Sex can be passionate, like a sensual tango of pushing and pulling, holding roses in your teeth while throwing your partner across the room (in a loving way). Sex can also become a chore, like tap dancing, or like walking the dog or taking out the garbage, if the conditions are just right. But the good news is that it's normal. Relationships go through different phases and outside factors and stressors can affect your relationship and sex life. You need to understand the dance to know when you or your partner are pulling away; that way you know when to embrace them even closer. Find out more in this week's episode of About Sex, with Sex Therapist Angela Skurtu and her husband Josh! Episode 35 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
Some people marry for looks. Some people marry for safety and security. Some people marry to avoid war and destruction with a rival kingdom, as France has sent a declaration of war and the only way to avoid defeat is to create a stronger union with Spain. Some of these marriages / partnerships can change over time, and one of the big changes could be frequency or even existence of sex within the marriage. Find out the different reasons people marry and ways to keep a health sex life and marriage in this episode of About Sex, with Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sex Therapist, and her husband, Josh. Episode 34 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
Some people call Angela and tell her "We can't cuddle! We tried everything and still can't figure it out. Please help us! Just take our Money!" Well, not really. But Cuddling can be a great way for a couple to reconnect after a rough spot in their marriage and some may find it a new favorite part of their day. Find out more on how to cuddle in this week's episode of About Sex. Episode 31 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
Your body is changing all the time. Once, you were but a babe, hairless and just a squishy pile of giggles and dirty diapers. You grew to become a child, then a teenager, with new hair everywhere and an awakening of your sex life, and then on to adulthood. But the last stage can be just as exciting. Sex in your older years may come with some new challenges, but the happiest seniors have a strong sex life and find ways to work around the aches and pains. Find out more in this week's episode of About Sex. Episode 30 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
Some mental health workers have been treating patients for sex addiction with abstinence. This can wreck a marriage and there is no empirical evidence for the diagnosis or any of the treatments out there. To put it bluntly, they are shooting blindly into a forest trying to hit a target that may not even exist. Find out more in this week's episode of About Sex. Episode 29 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis / Ballwin Missouri area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
The title really speaks for itself. If you have a phobia of penises, the approved treatment is penis immersion therapy. This is also known as exposure therapy. No, that does not mean you surround yourself with rooms full of penises, no matter how many times you ask. There are actualy steps and safety ptotocols to find a healthy outcome in this situation. Find out more on this week's episode of About Sex. Episode 28 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
We have all heard the story. Boy meets girl. Girl falls in love. Girl has sexual encounters with boy and then finds out the boy has a second facebook account with photos of him and his wife and children. That boy is already married! There are red flags that signal someone is cheating on their partner. Listen to this week's episode of About Sex to hear more about this and other tips on hooking up ethically on tinder and other dating websites. Episode 27 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
We all want to be the perfect lover. The perfect romantic idealization of a Don Juan. The perfect knight in shining armor. We want our lovers to remember our passionate moments with a fire deep inside them. But most of us will settle for our lovers just remembering we even had sex. For some it may seem to come easy, but the reality is we have to work at it. We have to talk and learn and find a way to not only please ourselves, but give unending pleasure to our sexual partners. Find out more in this week's episode of About Sex. Episode 26 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com
With so much sexual messaging in open society it is increasingly more important to talk to our kids about healthy sexuality. This week we talk about how to get the ball rolling when it comes to having conversations with your kids about sex. The post Let’s talk About Sex appeared first on Only a Parent.
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