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I'd love to hear from you drop me a text!I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr Laurie Mintz, a sex therapist, professor, and author of Becoming Cliterate. We explored the cultural narratives surrounding female pleasure, the "orgasm gap," and practical ways to empower women to embrace their sexuality.Episode SummaryDr Laurie Mintz shared how her experience teaching human sexuality at the University of Florida revealed a shocking lack of knowledge about female anatomy and pleasure. This inspired her to write Becoming Cliterate and help women close the "orgasm gap." We covered loads of ground in this episode, including:The cultural myths and taboos that hold women back from embracing pleasure.Why understanding your anatomy is so important for empowerment.The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how to reignite intimacy.Practical ways to prioritise pleasure and create a fulfilling sex life.This conversation is packed with humour, actionable advice, and relatable insights for anyone looking to reconnect with themselves and their relationships.Key TakeawaysYou're Not Broken: Struggling with desire or orgasms is common and can be addressed with the right tools and mindset.Responsive Desire: You don't need to wait to feel "in the mood" - desire often follows arousal.Prioritise Pleasure: Schedule time for intimacy and create an environment that feels good for you.Resources & LinksBecoming Cliterate by Dr Laurie MintzA Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex by Dr Laurie MintzConnect with Dr Laurie: www.drlauriemintz.comFollow Dr Laurie on Instagram and Facebook: @DrLaurieMintz  Find out more about Juliette Karaman here: https://feelfullyyou.com Follow Juliette on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/juliettekaraman/ Follow Juliette on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/juliette.karamanvanschaardenburg Don't forget to Rate and leave a review so more people can tune in and the ripple effect spreads further.

Be honest, are you faking it in the bedroom? If you are, you are not alone. Studies show that up to 70% of women have faked an orgasm at least once. But here's the real question: why do we fake it, and at what cost? From the societal pressures to perform to the orgasm gap to myths about what sex should look like, the reasons are complex, and in midlife, as our bodies' hormones and desires change, it can feel even more challenging to prioritize our pleasure. This week, episode 41 of Pleasure in the Pause is about reclaiming your sexual pleasure! Are you ready to awaken your sensuality and feel more empowered in your body? Access the FREE Pleasure Upgrade Bundle at https://www.pleasureinthepause.com/gift.Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, speaker and emeritus professor whose life's work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives. She is the author of two popular press books—both written to empower women sexually and both with published studies demonstrating that readers enhance their sexual functioning: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.Highlights from our discussion include:Understanding the biological, psychological and social factors impacting midlife sexualityLearning how to cultivate self-love and overcome negative body image to feel sexually empoweredExploring techniques for enhancing clitoral stimulation and achieving more satisfying orgasmsCommunicating your needs to your partner and negotiate new scripts for mutually pleasurable sexIncorporating mindfulness and self-pleasure practices to prioritize your own desire and satisfactionYour sexual pleasure is your birthright, not a luxury.Start small, be patient and kind with yourself, and remember - you deserve to experience magnificent sex at every age. Your pleasure matters.CONNECT WITH DR. LAURIE MINTZ:WebsiteBecoming Cliterate (Amazon)CONNECT WITH GABRIELLA ESPINOSA:InstagramLinkedInWork with Gabriella! LINKS MENTIONED:Ep 21 | Redefining Sexual Medicine and Education for Midlife Women with Dr. Rachel RubinEp 15 | Nurturing Your Vulva Garden: A Path to Renewed Pleasure in Midlife with Dr. Maria UlokoEp 6 | Bridging the Bedroom Gap with Dr Maria SophoclesNorth American Menopause Society (NAMS)International Society of the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH)She Comes First by Ian Kerner (Amazon)Ep 9 | Better Sex through Mindfulness with Dr Lori BrottoReady to try Vella Women's Pleasure Serum for yourself? You deserve this. Go to https://vellabio.com/GABRIELLA to get 15% off your first order. Trust me—this little pleasure potion is a game-changer.

In this episode, we welcome Dr. Laurie Mintz, an esteemed professor, author, speaker, and therapist, renowned for her expertise in human sexuality. Dr. Mintz, an Emeritus Professor at the University of Florida, has dedicated her career to teaching the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students. She is the acclaimed author of "Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It" and "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex," both backed by research demonstrating their effectiveness. Dr. Mintz's influence extends beyond the classroom. She has delivered presentations and workshops to diverse audiences, including a TEDx talk that has garnered over two million views. With over 30 years of experience in private practice, she has helped countless individuals and couples navigate both general and sexual issues. Recognized as a Fellow of the American Psychological Association and named one of Forbes' “50 over 50” women innovators in 2023, Dr. Mintz's contributions to the field are significant and widely respected. Join us for a candid and informative conversation with Dr. Laurie Mintz as we uncover insights and actionable advice to improve sexual well-being and foster healthier, more satisfying sexual relationships. In this episode, we dive deep into several crucial topics: The Orgasm Gap and How to Close It Hook-up Culture and the Orgasm Gap Orgasm Gap vs. Desire Discrepancy/Deficiency  Getting Cliterate  Introducing Toys to Partners Media vs. Real Life Sexual Experiences Masturbation for People with Vulvas You can find Dr. Laurie Mintz here: @drlauriemintz | drlauriemintz.com Please support Dr. Laurie's  foundation of choice:   Planned Parenthood was founded over 100 years ago on the revolutionary idea that women have the right to access the information and care they need to live strong, healthy lives. Today, the Planned Parenthood Action Fund (PPAF) fights to protect that right — often in the face of extreme politicians trying to take it away. Let's connect: @headsouth.world | @headsouthradio | @Kittycatmeyer

In Episode 153 of the podcast, host Andrea Atherton teams up with intimacy coach Twila B Goode to tackle a topic close to many hearts: reigniting the flames of passion in relationships post-40. Together, they embark on a candid discussion about the unique dynamics and hurdles faced by couples navigating intimacy at this stage of life. With Twila's expertise guiding the conversation, listeners are treated to a wealth of practical insights and proven strategies aimed at revitalizing connection and intimacy.Andrea and Twila shed light on the multifaceted nature of intimacy, emphasizing that it encompasses far more than just physical affection. From fostering emotional intimacy to nurturing open communication and vulnerability, they unveil the essential components that underpin a thriving relationship beyond midlife. By dispelling common myths and misconceptions surrounding intimacy in later years, they empower listeners to embrace the potential for growth and renewal within their relationships while embracing the natural patterns of change and evolution.In their exploration, Andrea and Twila tackle head-on the challenges that often accompany aging, from shifting priorities and responsibilities to changes in body image and desire. With empathy and encouragement, they offer practical tips and actionable advice for couples seeking to reignite the spark and navigate the journey of intimacy after 40. Listeners are inspired to embark on a journey of rediscovery, reclaiming the passion and connection that lies at the heart of enduring love and fulfillment.Twila B. Goode Social media links:IG Instagram.com/twilab.goode Website www.twilabgoode.com Mindful Love Clarity Callhttps://www.andreaatherton.com/booking-calendarAndrea Atherton Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/Love Anarchy Websitehttps://loveanarchypodcast.buzzsprout.comLove Anarchy Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/loveanarchypodcast/Andrea Atherton Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/andreaatherton-17/

Crank up the Salt-N-Pepa, friends, cuz Your Doctor Friends are TALKIN SEX, BABY! In all seriousness, Your Doctor Friends think that healthcare providers can do a better job making sexual health education and treatment more accessible and less stigmatized. Sexual health concerns, and sexual dysfunction are so prevalent, and deserve meaningful, evidence-based treatment strategies within reach. So let's break down some stigma, and have a candid conversation about all things SEX! We are so happy to welcome our guest, and expert in all things sexual health, Lyndsey Harper, MD, FACOG! Dr. Harper completed her OB-GYN residency in 2011 at Baylor Scott & White Health in Dallas, Texas, saw patients in private practice for seven years, and is now an OB-GYN hospitalist. Dr. Harper is Associate Professor of OB-GYN for Texas A&M College of Medicine, a Fellow of The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and a Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. She is also the Founder and CEO of Rosy, which is a resource to connect the 84 million women in the US with sexual problems with hope, community, and research-backed solutions to improve their lives. She has been named Forbes Top 53 Women Disrupting Healthcare, People Newspapers' 20 Under 40, a Top Innovator in North Texas for 2020 and a DBJ Top Woman in Tech. And hey! Here's a special promotion just for our listeners! Get Rosy's Silver Membership (which includes all of Rosy's educational content, full access to the erotica library, and a personalized daily Wellness Plan) FREE FOR ONE MONTH by clicking this ROSY LINK or by going to meetrosy.com and using the promo code 'DOCTORFRIENDS'. Resources in this episode include: Dr. Harper's Texas A&M University bio page. The International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health webpage. "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" by Laurie Mintz, PhD. "Becoming Cliterate" also by Laurie Mintz, PhD. "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski, PhD. A recent New York Times article titled "8 Sex Myths That Experts Wish Would Go Away". For more episodes, limited edition merch, or to become a Friend of Your Doctor Friends (and more), follow this link! This includes the famous "Advice from the last generation of doctors that inhaled lead" shirt :) Also, CHECK OUT AMAZING HEALTH PODCASTS on The Health Podcast Network   Find us at: Website: yourdoctorfriendspodcast.com  Email: yourdoctorfriendspodcast@gmail.com  Connect with us: @your_doctor_friends (IG) Send/DM us a voice memo/question and we might play it on the show! @yourdoctorfriendspodcast1013 (YouTube) @JeremyAllandMD (IG, FB, Twitter) @JuliaBrueneMD (IG) @HealthPodNet (IG)

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Passionate sex is considered the ‘great sex' in our culture and we should aim for it as the ideal. In this episode I will explain why we shouldn't uphold it as the greatest sex to aim for because it will make our sex lives more poor and more difficult in real life. I will tell you the real reasons why we chase passionate sex, why we believe it is the best, how to let go of this belief and how we can create an even richer and more effortless sex life. And how by doing that we will keep authentic passionate sex as part of this variety.Learn Holistic Sex:See all Holistic Sex courses here Get in touch with me:Alexey Welsh website

Erotic Pleasure Podcast is the number 1 spot to meet all your erotic and sexual fantasies. We are dedicated to ensuring that you achieve your maximum erotic and sexual pleasures. Now sit back, grab your lube, sex-toy and get ready to cum!!!!!!!

Erotic Pleasure Podcast is the number 1 spot to meet all your erotic and sexual fantasies. We are dedicated to ensuring that you achieve your maximum erotic and sexual pleasures. Now sit back, grab your lube, sex-toy and get ready to cum!!!!!!!

Erotic Pleasure Podcast is the number 1 spot to meet all your erotic and sexual fantasies. We are dedicated to ensuring that you achieve your maximum erotic and sexual pleasures. Now sit back, grab your lube, sex-toy and get ready to cum!!!!!!!

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Join host Lu Ngo in Episode 28 of Doing Well: The Wellbeing Science Insights Podcast for a captivating exploration of "The Orgasm Gap: Causes and Personal and Societal Solutions." Lu's special guest for this episode is renowned expert Dr. Laurie Mintz, an Emeritus Professor at the University of Florida and author of the groundbreaking books, Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. In this thought-provoking conversation, Lu and Dr. Laurie delve into the impact of the orgasm gap on one's overall well-being. Discover the societal and personal factors that contribute to this gap, as well as the potential solutions that can help bridge it.  Gain valuable insights into the importance of sexual communication and discover practical strategies that couples can employ to enhance mutual pleasure and closeness. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that sheds light on an important aspect of sexual well-being. Expand your knowledge and empower yourself with Dr. Laurie Mintz's expertise in this enlightening episode. Watch now on YouTube and discover the keys to closing the orgasm gap for enhanced well-being and intimacy. Connect with Dr. Laurie's social media on: Books: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/becoming-cliterate and https://www.drlauriemintz.com/a-tired-womans-guide-to-passionate- Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oD2ja2BT-0E Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/drlauriemintzcom/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrLaurieMintz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurieMintz Produced by the Wellbeing Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://we.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Wellbeing Science Labs. Follow us on social media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wellbeingsciencelabs  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellbeing.science.labs/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellbeing.science.labs/  LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/showcase/wellbeing-science-labs  Twitter: https://twitter.com/WeScienceLabs  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wellbeing.science.labs   Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/wellbeingsciencelabs/  You can also subscribe and listen to our podcasts on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doing-well-the-wellbeing-science-insights-podcast/id1648515329  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/63Gni7VN4Ca6IicSuttwQL  Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7cd001d1-b7ba-4b22-a0f3-17c1a9c6e818/doing-well-the-wellbeing-science-insights-podcast  iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-doing-well-the-wellbeing-s-102890038/  Podbean: https://wellbeingscienceinsights.podbean.com/  PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3402363  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/doing-well-the-wellbeing-scien-4914859  Google Podcast: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3dlbGxiZWluZ3NjaWVuY2VpbnNpZ2h0cy9mZWVkLnhtbA 

Why do nearly 70% of women fake orgasms? There are many valid reasons why women aren't having better orgasms, but it doesn't have to be this way. In this episode, sexual psychologist and author Dr. Laurie Mintz joins to discuss The Orgasm Gap, and all things sexual pleasure for women. We discuss understanding female anatomy, different ways women orgasm, communication during partnered sex, and how women can feel better in their bodies and sex lives. Dr. Laurie Mintz is the Professor of Psychology of Human Sexuality at the University of Florida, as well as a certified Sex Therapist. Her books, “A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex” and “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It” have helped millions of women live empowered, pleasurable lives and enjoy more fulfilling sexual experiences. Discussed in this episode:Why women fake orgasmsWays that most women orgasm naturally Closing the orgasm gap in womenHow communication helps sexSteps women can take to improve their sex livesReceptive desire in long-term relationshipsSome things to be aware of about porn and women's orgasm“There is no such thing as giving and receiving too much pleasure. Embracing pleasure is a healing act — especially for women.” - Dr. Laurie MintzRelated to this episode:Laurie Mintz's TedX Talk: A New Sexual Revolution for Orgasm EqualityBook: A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate SexBook: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get ItBook Picks: Fempower Health Full Selection of Sexual Health BooksLaurie's Blog on Psychology TodayLaurie's Website: www.drlauriemintz.com Related Episode: Become Your Own Pleasure Activist | Dr. Cat MeyerRelated Episode: Your Orgasm Questions Answered | Dr. Rachel RubinMore Episodes on

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida where she teaches Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 55 academic works. She is the author of two popular press books—both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.  Mintz has a private practice, working with clients on general and sexual issues. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. Key points: Laurie introduces herself Eating disorders and sexuality Penis size anxiety Representations of the penis The importance of the clitoris Prioritizing pleasure with vibrators Men being invested in women's pleasure Closing the orgasm gap Relevant links: Laurie's Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/  Laurie's Instagram: @drlauriemintz  Cam's Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

This episode is for all the therapists, clinicians, and professors out there who hope to write a popular book for the general public about your field of expertise. How do you make the leap from clinic or classroom to the bestseller lists? And do you have to become a social media influencer in order to pull it off? How do you know if you have anything really new to say, and what if your peers criticize you? Today's guest is here to tell us how she managed through all of that.Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life's work is helping people live more authentic, joyful, and sexually satisfying lives. As a tenured professor at the University of Florida, Laurie teaches the psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergrad students each year. She's the author of two popular books, both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Laurie also writes a popular blog on Psychology Today, and maintains an active social media platform with over 50k Instagram followers, as well as a small private practice working with individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. In this episode, you'll learn:How to transition from being a practitioner or professor into a bestselling author.The surprising correlation between one's sex life and overall happiness—and why talking about it with your therapist is important.The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire.How Laurie ran clinical trials to analyze the efficacy of the advice in her book.How to get the most out of social media—such as community and support—while dealing with the trolls. (Hint: Block, block, block!)For more, check out:drlauriemintz.commaggielangrick.comwonderwell.pressAnd follow:instagram.com/drlauriemintzinstagram.com/maggielangrickinstagram.com/wonderwellpressinstagram.com/selfishgiftpodcast

Hi friends! I know I have been mentioning this interview for a while now, and we were finally able to make it happen! My very special guest today is Dr. Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. Dr. Laurie is a college professor at the University of Florida who teaches the psychology of human sexuality and has over twenty years of experience working with private clients on general and sexual issues. She has also published more than fifty research studies, has written two books (Becoming Cliterate, and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex), is a speaker (including a fabulous TedTalk which is linked below), and even writes a popular blog on Psychology Today. She is also a Taurus! I have read her book Becoming Cliterate numerous times now, so narrowing down what questions I wanted to ask and share with you was pretty difficult, but I know you are going to take so many great things away from our conversation today! If you want to find out more about Dr. Laurie Mintz, you can check out the links below: Her website: drlauriemintz.com Follow her on IG: @drlauriemintz And watch her TedTalk here And like always: You can leave me a voicemail here Follow me on the IG @newmoonhannah Support the podcast here! Subscribe to my Cat's Cradle Newsletter here Don't forget to leave a review and share with someone you think will enjoy! Love you, and sending you the biggest hug! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/newmoonwellbeing/message

Get ready to up your sexual game and close the orgasm gap! In this juicy episode, we welcome Dr. Laurie Mintz, a leading expert in the field of sex therapy and the author of "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" and "Becoming Cliterate." She explains the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm and shares her expertise on teaching female orgasm. The orgasm gap is a cultural problem, and Dr. Mintz provides practical solutions to close it, including the use of lube, vibrators, and external stimulation. Dr. Mintz shares practical tips and tricks on how to stimulate the clitoris, harness the power of responsive and receptive desire, and bring mindfulness into the bedroom. Get ready to ignite your senses and leave your old sexual habits behind, as Dr. Mintz helps us close the orgasm gap and achieve the sex life we deserve.Today on That Sex Chick:The orgasm gap and strategies to close itMasturbation for understanding your body & communicating desiresThe role of toys and stimulators in enhancing female orgasmDebunking myths around vibrators & desensitizationLetting go of societal expectations of libido and sexual desireMindfulness and yoga for better sexThis show is sponsored by:Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.Learn more about Couples Goals hereConnect with Dr. Laurie:Website: drlauriemintz.com Instagram: @drlauriemintz Books: A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex ; Becoming CliterateReferenced: Rev Bev Connect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: sexandlove.coFree resources: sexandlove.co/resourcesFacebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you'll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Men who are aware of female sexual anatomy relax more around sex and enjoy their sexual pleasure more. Why? Because they don't have to work so hard (no pun intended) to “give” their partner an orgasm. Research shows that even in relationships, 85% of men will orgasm during sex while only 65% of women will orgasm during sex. Only 4% of women experience orgasm from only penetration, and a lot of women don't have their first orgasm until they try a vibrator. While the entertainment industry has culturally taught us that men only orgasm from thrusting fast and hard, there are more pleasurable experiences to be discovered. There's so much sexual freedom that comes from learning about female sexual anatomy! We cover topics like: 2:14: Why women have fewer orgasms than men and how it's not your job to give your partner an orgasm (but tips to help you do it!) 4:30 How men can understand female anatomy to have mutual orgasms during sex 9:40 Introducing vibrators and sex toys for sex with a partner 12:30 Why vibration can cause men to orgasm too 15:00 What makes women orgasm and does penis size matter? 20:00 How to contact Dr. Laurie Mintz Dr. Laurie Mintz is a Professor at the University of Florida where she teaches Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 55 academic works. She is the author of two popular press books—both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.  Mintz has a private practice, working with clients on general and sexual issues. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. CONNECT WITH DR. LAURIE MINTZ: Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters- And How to Get It: https://amzn.to/3wudYzY Social media: drlauriemintz CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE): Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ RESOURCES: Free sex resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

Ep 224: Before Work Passionate Sex Number 14 of the Sexual Bucket List Series. The Sexual Bucket List Series continues with a hot impromptu at-home morning sex date. If you'd like to hear all the other Bucket List episodes, visit Spotify where I have them categorized into a public playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzeldaHzbdsSsd22HF5eLIn this hot steamy sexy spicy intense episode, immerse yourself in the story. Enjoy the sultry sexy ASMR elements, giving a love bite, and all the yumminess of climaxing. This story is told in the second person POV so "You" are a participant since it's told where you are a part of the story. Have fun!Podcast Sponsor: Thank you to my sponsor Authors Help Service! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/Want a deal on male sextoys and penis pumps? Check this out (affiliate): https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1737681&u=3101443&m=86420&urllink=&afftrack=Male and female Sex Toys, use this code RUANWILLOW10 to get 10% OFF at checkout or click this affiliate link: https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=130Ask Ruan anything anonymously on the Wisdom app: https://wisdom.app/ruanwillow/askFind Ruan Willow's erotica books and audiobooks here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowGet exclusive content by subscribing here: https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillowSee podcast merchandise here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/Latest book released: The Car Sex Challenge https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/5411396c-6519-11ed-8688-3b084a1c7e29In this short spicy erotic novella, book three in The Sex Challenge Series, where two consenting adults enjoy some secretive sexual play while in semi-public, the day of play continues for Brad and Anna, the second-marriage newlyweds.Brad had all the advantages in the last two rounds when the play happened in the kitchen and then the grocery store, but Anna is struck with an idea to win this next challenge. She suggests they play their sex games in a car wash to see who caves and climaxes first before the car emerges from the car wash. Even if they get caught with their pants down, Anna still intends to win. She knows her lover's deepest desires and plans to seduce Brad to a loss.They end this round both optimistic for the rest of their day of play, their intimacy is growing as are their libidos because the day isn't over yet!Check out the first two books in this series: The Kitchen Sex Challenge and The Grocery Store Sex Challenge, both available in ebooks and audiobooks narrated by Ruan Willow herself.This is book 3 of 6.Get the book here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/5411396c-6519-11ed-8688-3b084a1c7e29Get the Ruan Willow Discount see all the discounts and deals on sex toys and pleasure/intimate products https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/Support the show

We've talked a lot about orgasms on this show, but there's still much to explore! So today's episode is going to dig into some interesting aspects of orgasm we haven't really discussed before. We're also going to consider some tips on having better and more pleasurable orgasms. I am joined once again by sex therapist Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida and author of the books Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  as well as A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Some of the topics we discuss include: We hear a lot about the importance of closing the orgasm gap--but we also hear a lot about how orgasms shouldn't be the goal of sex. So is orgasm the goal or not? Is orgasm a reliable metric of whether people are having good and satisfying sex? Some women say they aren't sure whether they've had an orgasm before. How do you know if you've had one or not? What's the key to helping women have more orgasms? What do we know about multiple orgasms in men? How can everyone get more pleasure from orgasm? Learn more about Laurie at drlauriemintz.com Thank you to our sponsors! Level-up your intimate life with Beducated, the Netflix of better sex! They have a whole library of online courses to teach you what you need to know. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using my last name - LEHMILLER - as the coupon code. Sign up now at: http://beducate.me/pd2247-lehmiller FirmTech's Performance Ring is designed to boost your sexual stamina and give you harder, longer-lasting erections, while also enhancing pleasure. Their Tech Ring has the added benefit of tracking your erectile health. Visit myfirmtech.com and be sure to use my exclusive discount code Justin20 to save 20% off your purchase.  *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Most people will encounter a sexual problem at some point in their lives, but most will suffer in silence. Shame and embarrassment lead a lot of folks to avoid talking about sex problems and seeking help for them. Unfortunately, by doing nothing, these problems often end up growing into much bigger issues. But it doesn't have to be this way! Many sex problems can be solved on our own, without the need for therapy. So let's talk about things you can do to solve common sexual problems and get your sex life back on track. I am joined once again by sex therapist Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida and author of the books Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  as well as A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Some of the topics we discuss include: What it means to give yourself permission. How a little bit of sex education can go a long way toward resolving sexual difficulties. Examples of "homework" exercises you can do to work on problem areas. When self-help isn't enough and you should head straight to a therapist or healthcare provider. Reasons why some people have difficulty orgasming. Tips for dealing with orgasmic difficulties. General tips for preventing sexual difficulties and maintaining a healthy sex life. Learn more about Laurie at drlauriemintz.com Thank you to our sponsors! The Handy, made by Sweet Tech, is an automatic stroker designed for self-pleasure. Pair it with your sleeve of choice to mimic realistic sensations of different partnered activities with precise speed and stroke control. Visit https://link.thehandy.com/sexandpsych-1 to learn more and use my exclusive discount code (sexandpsych) to get 10% off your order. FirmTech's Performance Ring is designed to boost your sexual stamina and give you harder, longer-lasting erections, while also enhancing pleasure. Their Tech Ring has the added benefit of tracking your erectile health. Visit myfirmtech.com and be sure to use my exclusive discount code Justin20 to save 20% off your purchase.  The Kinsey Institute's (kinseyinstitute.org) 75th anniversary is underway and you are invited to join in the celebration! Follow @kinseyinstitute on social media to learn more about upcoming events. Also, please consider a gift or donation to the Institute to support sex research and education. Click here to donate. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

There is nothing hotter than telling stories about naughty girls finding time with her friends' moms. Picture amy, who's dying for love, giving in to those sexual desires and taking advantage of the opportunity presented to her. She was left by her boyfriend at a party while she was out and being horny before hand didn't help either. Wetter now than ever, listening to water flowing by as she masturbated on a park bench wasn't enough anymore! This man was quite persistent despite all odds - quickly wining over every argument she put up in order to convince him. He's not only interested in sex - he wants something deeper too... As soon as you saw some red flags popping up (weren't you warned?), don't worry because these two go even further - fulfilling your fantasies until you climax hard - promises made true through our erotic tales told through Talerotica subscriptions provided you come back again and spread this sexy message!

This episode is for all the therapists, clinicians, and professors out there who hope to write a popular book for the general public about your field of expertise. How do you make the leap from clinic or classroom to the bestseller lists? And do you have to become a social media influencer in order to pull it off? How do you know if you have anything really new to say, and what if your peers criticize you? Today's guest is here to tell us how she managed through all of that.Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life's work is helping people live more authentic, joyful, and sexually satisfying lives. As a tenured professor at the University of Florida, Laurie teaches the psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergrad students each year. She's the author of two popular books, both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Laurie also writes a popular blog on Psychology Today, and maintains an active social media platform with over 50k Instagram followers, as well as a small private practice working with individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. In this episode, you'll learn:How to transition from being a practitioner or professor into a bestselling author.The surprising correlation between one's sex life and overall happiness—and why talking about it with your therapist is important.The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire.How Laurie ran clinical trials to analyze the efficacy of the advice in her book.How to get the most out of social media—such as community and support—while dealing with the trolls. (Hint: Block, block, block!)For more, check out:drlauriemintz.commaggielangrick.comwonderwell.pressAnd follow:instagram.com/drlauriemintzinstagram.com/maggielangrickinstagram.com/wonderwellpressinstagram.com/selfishgiftpodcast

Okay honeys... if you're anything like us you got a liiittle carried away when it came to the sex scenes of Bridgerton season 2. Don't get us wrong, we love season 1, but something about those PASSIONATE, CONNECTED moments just hits different. And now, WE WANT IT TOO! Cue Devi Ward Erickson, a Tantra expert who's here to give us all the tools we need to f*ck like a Bridgerton. From breathing techniques, to grounding, to touching, to eye contact we cover all the bases and learn how Tantra is both very accessible and practical. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of “The Language of Love,” I sit down with Dr. Laurie Mintz. Dr. Laurie is a sex therapist and a professor who has written two amazing books about sexual pleasure: “A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex” and “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It.” I was thrilled to sit down with Dr. Laurie because we have a lot in common: Like me, she originally was going to school for psychology, but when she became her studies, she realized that there was a huge lack of focus on sexual pleasure. Also like me, she grew up in a house where sexuality was not a shameful topic or something to be afraid of, and so she was innately comfortable tackling these topics with her clients and being a trailblazer in what was then a very new field. On this episode of the “The Language of Love,” Dr. Laurie and I will help you discover: • What Orgasm Equality Means (Hint: It's the exact opposite of the Orgasm Gap) • Why Orgasm Equality Can Lead to Gender Equality Outside the Bedroom as Well • How Women Can Begin to Find their Orgasmic Power • Why I Believe that We Won't Have Political Equality for Men and Women Until We Can Have Orgasm Equality in the Bedroom First If you're struggling with orgasm or any love, sex, and relationship issues, please reach out to me. I would love to help you begin your journey to feeling more empowered in the bedroom. Send your questions here or reach out to me on social media (Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok), or email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com. You can also leave me a voice message on Speakpipe, or book a private appointment with me at Appointments@LauraBerman.com.

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Welcome to an exciting episode of the perry podcast with the wonderful host Rachel Hughes. This time Rachel meets Dr. Laurie Mintz to talk about how to address our body changes and potential pleasure changes during perimenopause to our partner. Dr. Mintz (check out her website here) is psychologist, professor, speaker and author of 'Becoming Cliterate' and 'A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex'. You can also follow her on Instagram here. Perimenopause can be a lonely journey - and it shouldn't be that way. Join us in our free community app here to connect with like-minded warriors in the same stage of life. Disclaimer: This podcast is not medical advice, does not take the place of medical advice from your physician, and is not intended to treat or cure any disease. Patients should see a qualified medical provider for assessment and treatment. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/perryapp/message

Dr. Laurie Mintz is a sexuality therapist and professor at The University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality. Her latest book, the sex-positive http://amzn.to/2rXdHFC (Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It), focuses on female sexual pleasure. Mintz has authored more than fifty research articles in academic journals, as well as http://drlauriemintz.com/books/a-tired-womans-guide-to-passionate-sex/ (A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex).  We talk about the fact we have been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. Yup it's that podcast and it's the best!! You will definitely learn something. We did. 

Welcome along with me and Dr. Laurie Mintz and a cohort of female physicians as we do a book club on her amazing book, “Becoming Cliterate” Why she wrote the book. Why the knowledge of female anatomy and pleasure keeps getting lost. Her new inspiration to educate young men. And her informal poll on what the guys want. Learn who started researching the orgasm gap in the first place. How many different types of orgasms are possible and do they all come from the clitoris or from many different places – and why do we even care? The idea of “consent” when you have sex that you don't really want to or do it as a “duty or obligation” Her wish for physicians to help their patients. Becoming Cliterate https://amzn.to/3n7nNyK A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex https://amzn.to/3n7nNyK --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kj-casperson/message

Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life's work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives through the art and science of psychology. Background story - how she got into sexuality education and therapy? Everyone cares about a woman's libido – but I want to ask – are women just having boring sex? Tell us the stats about orgasmic inequality and how this ties in to affecting a woman's libido The orgasm gap is even worse for the hook up culture – can you tell us the data and why it is concerning. What is her opinion on scheduling sex? She talks about stress and overwork as top reasons for lowered sex life – my women say “oh yeah” but what should they actually do about it. She says that “empowerment in the bedroom leads to confidence in the boardroom” – please tell us more. In her “tired guide” book you say there is no pill for desire – that book was 2009 – now there is a pill and an injection – what are her thoughts about these? If someone asked me to re-do sex ed for our youth – I would include pleasure, vulvar anatomy, the lie that PIV causes orgasms for women – what would you add? I want to ask her about three women and hear her advice A 20 yo single, just starting out A 38 yo, married, kids, full time job – lost her libido, doesn't enjoy sex A 58 yo, post menopause, kids out of the house, husband feels like a roomate What her opinion of us educators not being able to use or being afraid of saying certain words on Becoming Cliterate https://amzn.to/373dMe6 The Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex: https://amzn.to/373dMe6 https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz https://amzn.to/3C9UelT --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kj-casperson/message

Today we talked to Dr. Ashley Fuller to discuss Low Libido and Sexual Dysfunction. We covered how to screen patients for sexual dysfunction including how to approach the topic with patients, describe how to approach the common concern of low libido from a practical and evidence-based perspective, manage a treatment plan for hypoactive sexual desire disorder, and apply key principles to be a resource for women struggling with sexual dysfunction. See below resources discussed during the talk! Resources Books A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex by Laurie B. Mintz, PhD Becoming Cliterate by Laurie B. Mintz, PhD Girls & Sex: Navigating the complicated new landscape by Peggy Orenstein Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity by Peggy Orenstein Websites The North American Menopause Society: journals, resources, seminars, and patient resources Gennev: Empowering women to take control of their health in the second half of life starting with menopause International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health Sexual Wellness Lelo: Sona Cruise Clitoral sonic stimulator Womanizer: Womanizer Premium Suction clitoral massager Dipsea: audio stories that spark your imagination and get you in the mood Rosy: Sexual Wellness (Solutions) Woman Deserve (also an app) Omgyes.com: honest, practical resource about women's pleasure.

Join Jenna and Kimberly for the fifth episode of six part series to Fall Back In Love with Your Sex Life where they unpack a concept map for a variety of intimate encounters that will help your marriage flourish. This episode unpacks and explores Passionate sex on the continuum of love making.     Information for our Guests and Hosts:   Based on the Book: Total Intimacy   Want to work with us? MARRIAGE COACHING: www.aspenhausassociates.com/marriage-coaching-program LEADERSHIP COACHING: www.aspenhausassociates.com/coaching   You can find us at: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ArablePodcast Instagram: @arablepodcast Instagram: @TheJennaMountain Instagram: @TheKimberlyGalindo Website: www.arablepodcast.com  

Dr. Laurie is a feminist professor, speaker, and therapist. She's also the author of the books "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" and "Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How To Get It."D. Laurie joins us to explain exactly what the "orgasm gap" is and gives pointers on how to challenge stereotypes that feed it. We're on a mission for equality babes, not only in the boardroom, but in the bedroom too!Find Dr. Laurie here: IG: @drlauriemintzwww.drlauriemintz.comWe'd like to thank our partners this week:The Rescue Kit Company: For 10% off your purchase of any of their curated kits visit therescuekitco.com and use code: SAUCY10 at checkout. Follow @therescuekitcoVivi & Kay: For 20% off your buttery soft headband purchase visit etsy.com/shop/viviandkay and use code: SAUCY at check out. Follow @viviandkayThe Rescue Kit Company is proud to provide peace of mind with their simple, affordable, high-quality fashion emergency kits. Created by sisters, CEOs and seasoned stylists, The Bride Kit, The Closet Kit, and our Micro Kits are user-friendly, elegant, and cost-effective products curated specifically to prevent + solve any unexpected wardrobe mishaps that could arise.USE CODE SAUCY10 AT CHECK OUT

Join Reba as she learns about the types of education available to those pursuing a career in the business of sex.On The Business of Sex Podcast:@onthebusinessofsex Website: https://www.onthebusinessofsex.com/Goodreads book list: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/128635372-on-the-business-of-sex-podcast Studio & Producers:Switch and Board- @switchandboard http://switchandboard.com/ Host & Producer:Reba Corrine Thomas- CEO @sexpertconsultants, Pleasure Educator, Entertainer, and Cannabis Advocate @rebathediva https://sexpertconsultants.com/ Guests:Dr. Patti Britton- Clinical Sexologist and pioneer of sex coaching https://drpattibritton.com/ Dr. Laurie Mintz -Professor,Licensed Psychologist, and Author of “A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex” and “Becoming Clitorate: Why Orgasm Equlity Matters And How To Get It.” @drlauriemintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Raqual Savage- Board Certified Sex Coach, Sex Educator and former Sex Worker @raquelsavage (instagram), @Raquel_Savage (Twitter), https://www.raquelsavage.com/ Stebe McGough- Director of R&D at Women and Couples Wellness, and an associate professor of Clinical Sexology, https://www.womenandcouples.com/ Cam Fraser- ex Coach as well as a Certified Sexologist, Counselor, Registered Yoga Teacher, Tantric Practitioner, and Workshop Facilitator @thecamfraser #mensexpleasure podcast. Founder of the @reverenceretreat https://www.cam-fraser.com/ Mia Davis- Founder and CEO of Tabu @talk.tabu https://www.talktabu.com/about/ https://www.miamdavis.com/tabu Erica Smith- Sex educator provideing public and private sexuality education, consulting, training, and speaking. @ericasmith.sex.ed https://www.ericasmitheac.com/Support Sex Workers:The Sex Workers Project at the Urban Justice Center https://swp.urbanjustice.org/ 

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*This episode originally aired June 2020. Enjoy!Wish you enjoyed sex more? Are you looking to better satisfy your partner?  Join Dr. Tammy and Dr. Laurie Mintz as they discuss why our culture's emphasis on intercourse and the male orgasm perpetuates pleasure inequality in the bedroom, and how becoming cliterate will create much more excitement between the sheets.INTERESTED IN BECOMING A CERTIFIED AS A SEX THERAPIST? Visit  the ISTI - Integrative Sex Therapy Institute.  If you are already a therapist, find out how to receive your AASECT Sex Therapist Certification. Or, elevate your practice in relational psychotherapy by earning the new Certified Sex and Couples Therapist designation (CSCT).​ AASECT and CSCT renewal and re-certification classes are also offered.  GUEST BIO: Dr. Laurie Mintz is an award-winning professor at the University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality.  Dr. Mintz has published over 50 scholarly articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. For almost 30 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice, working with both individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. She is also the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women: A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex and Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How To Get It. Dr. Mintz a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. Watch her recent Tedx Talk: A New Revolution for Orgasm Equality.    THE TROUBLE WITH SEX RESOURCES, REFERENCES & INFO· To read more about how to improve your sex life, check out Dr. Tammy's Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together.· Learn more about love, marriage, monogamy and how to redefine your commitment to each other in Dr. Tammy's TEDX talk - The New Monogamy - or her book by the same name. ·  Want more Dr. Tammy?  Read: The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheats  and Getting the Sex You Want.

Reba talks to various professionals in sex-related businesses about the term “sex worker” to find out who identifies as a sex worker and who does not. On The Business of Sex Podcast:@onthebusinessofsex Website: https://www.onthebusinessofsex.com/Goodreads book list: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/128635372-on-the-business-of-sex-podcast Support us https://www.patreon.com/onthebusinessofsexStudio & Producers:Switch and Board- @switchandboard http://switchandboard.com/ Host & Producer:Reba Corrine Thomas- CEO @sexpertconsultants, Pleasure Educator, Entertainer, and Cannabis Advocate @rebathediva https://sexpertconsultants.com/ Guests:Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo- Director of the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment. https://instituteforsexuality.com/about/faculty/roz-dischiavo/ Ashley Cobb- Sex Blogger and Influencer @sexwithashley https://www.sexwithashley.com/ Dr. Laurie Mintz -Professor,Licensed Psychologist, and Author of “A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex” and “Becoming Clitorate: Why Orgasm Equlity Matters And How To Get It.” @drlauriemintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Mia Davis- Founder and CEO of Tabu @talk.tabu https://www.talktabu.com/about/ https://www.miamdavis.com/tabu Eva Mystique- Professional  Burlesque Dancer @evamystique http://www.evamystique.com/ Stoya- Pornographer, Performer, Director, Producer, and Sex Advice Columnist @stoya https://hellostoya.com/ https://slate.com/author/stoya Brian Gibney- Surrogate Partner https://www.bgsurrogatetherapy.com/ Andre Shakti- Sex Worker, Professional Dominatrix, Stripper, Non-Monogamy Educator, Columnist @_andreshakti_ https://www.iampoly.net/ https://sanctuarytheclub.com/ Raquel Savage- Sex Coach, Sex Educator and Sex Worker @raquelsavage https://www.raquelsavage.com/ Support Sex Workers:https://www.hips.org/about.html Songs:Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comFrozen Mountains by Alexander NakaradaAttribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0)Drifting Minds by Alexander NakaradaAttribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Drifting Away by Hayden FolkerCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported LicenseDaybreak by Hayden FolkerCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported LicenseParallax Mix (New) 4 by Hayden FolkerCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported LicenseUncertainty by Arthur VynckeCreative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 UnportedGrace by Hayden FolkerCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported Licensehttps://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/deed.en_US

It's the final guest episode in season two, and I want to end with a bang (so to speak). I was so excited to chat to the extraordinary Dr Laurie Mintz and this conversation did not disappoint. Dr Mintz is a therapist with nearly 3 decades of experience, a professor at the University of Florida teaching the Psychology of Human Sexuality, and a highly regarded speaker and author, who has dedicated her career to female pleasure and promoting sex positive conversations and education among the students she's taught. She is the author of the hugely popular books “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It” and “A Tired Women's Guide to Passionate Sex”. In this episode, Laurie and I discuss everything you need to know about female pleasure. If you identify as a woman or have sex with someone who does, then you need to listen to this episode! We talk sexual anatomy, the right to pleasure, what's wrong with the way we're taught about sex, and how to get the most pleasure possible. Dr Laurie Mintz is utterly wonderful to follow on Instagram and you can find her there @drlauriemintz. Her website is www.drlauriemintz.com, and you can purchase her books online there too! This is what the clitoris really looks like… https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what-is-the-clitoris

It’s the final guest episode in season two, and I want to end with a bang (so to speak). I was so excited to chat to the extraordinary Dr Laurie Mintz and this conversation did not disappoint. Dr Mintz is a therapist with nearly 3 decades of experience, a professor at the University of Florida teaching the Psychology of Human Sexuality, and a highly regarded speaker and author, who has dedicated her career to female pleasure and promoting sex positive conversations and education among the students she’s taught. She is the author of the hugely popular books “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It” and “A Tired Women’s Guide to Passionate Sex”. In this episode, Laurie and I discuss everything you need to know about female pleasure. If you identify as a woman or have sex with someone who does, then you need to listen to this episode! We talk sexual anatomy, the right to pleasure, what’s wrong with the way we’re taught about sex, and how to get the most pleasure possible. Dr Laurie Mintz is utterly wonderful to follow on Instagram and you can find her there @drlauriemintz. Her website is www.drlauriemintz.com, and you can purchase her books online there too! This is what the clitoris really looks like… https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what-is-the-clitoris

Has your sex life been put on the back burner since you became a parent? Do you find yourself struggling to get in the mood or to have the same spontaneous arousal as your partner? Or, do you have the feeling that you are somehow sexually broken? You are not alone! Women’s sexual desire is not the same as men’s, and it’s time you stop comparing yourself to your male counterpart and learn what it takes to have fulfilling and pleasurable sex. So, how can you create the sex life you want?   Tune in to this episode of Mom Enough with Sex and Intimacy Coach, Irene Fehr. Out of her own experience in a “happy marriage turned sexless,” Irene focused her efforts to understand women’s pleasure and sexuality, uncovering the common myths that result in women blaming themselves for their sexless marriages. She outlines the truth about women’s sexual desire, highlights the roles partners can play in recovering women’s libido, and shares tips to help you get back to yourself and your sex life after becoming a mom. You won’t want to miss this intimate, and hopeful, conversation on sex and desire!   WHAT HAVE YOU NOTICED ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE AFTER BECOMING A PARENT? What myth about women’s sexuality surprised you the most? How will this information change your approach to sex and intimacy in the future?   WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SEX AFTER PARENTHOOD? ❉ HOW TO WANT SEX AGAIN. Learn more about the four myths and the roadmap to sexual desire in this free 3-video minicourse. ❉ WHY DO COUPLES STOP HAVING SEX? Why do couples stop having sex in a long-term relationship — and why is that a good thing?   ❉ CHILDREN BENEFIT WHEN THEIR PARENTS' RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG. Dr. Laurie Mintz, author of A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex, joins Marti and Erin for a lively discussion of how the exhausting demands of parenting can cause us to lose focus on what we need to feel healthy and good about ourselves.

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Wish you enjoyed sex more? Are you looking to better satisfy your partner? Join Dr. Tammy and Dr. Laurie Mintz as they discuss why our culture's emphasis on intercourse and the male orgasm perpetuates pleasure inequality in the bedroom, and how becoming cliterate will create much more excitement between the sheets. DR. TAMMY WANTS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS about Sex, Love & Relationships and help you with your Trouble with Sex. Send your questions to drtammy@thetroublewithsex.com.PROMO CODES & DEALS!DAME PRODUCTSIT'S TIME FOR PLEASURE! Enjoy solo play or enhance sex with your partner with Toys from DAME. Visit dameproducts.com/troublewithsex and type in promo code DRTAMMY at check out for 15% OFF your order!GUEST BIO:Dr. Laurie Mintz is an award-winning professor at the University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 scholarly articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. For almost 30 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice, working with both individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. She is also the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women: A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex and Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How To Get It. Dr. Mintz a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. Watch her recent Tedx Talk: A New Revolution for Orgasm Equality.THE TROUBLE WITH SEX RESOURCES, REFERENCES & INFO· To read more about how to improve your sex life, check out Dr. Tammy's Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together.· Learn more about love, marriage, monogamy and how to redefine your commitment to each other in Dr. Tammy's TEDX talk - The New Monogamy - or her book by the same name. · Want more Dr. Tammy? Read: The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheats and Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thetroublewithsex)

Middle age and menopause don't have to mean your sex life is impaired or worse, over. But there can be additional challenges such as vaginal dryness, loss of libido, fatigue, even embarrassment over body changes that make us feel less than sexy.  Our Chief Medical Officer, Dr. Rebecca Dunsmoor-Su, spends a lot of time at her practice helping women regain their vibrant sex lives, and one thing she does is recommend books by Dr. Laurie Mintz, particularly A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.  In this podcast, Dr. Dunsmoor-Su got to chat directly with Dr. Mintz about all the things that can dampen the spark and how to reignite it. Dr. Laurie Mintz is a licensed psychologist in private practice and a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research studies in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology.  Dr. Mintz is also the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship.  

60. The Secret to a Wild, Passionate Sex Life that’s Full of Variety (P.S. Don’t Have Sex When You’re Happy) This episode is going to be huge. Today - I’ve got one of my oldest (and most degenerate) friends on the podcast - the one and only Lusty Burger, as he’s famously known. Today, we go through Lusty’s story, coming from a minority background, his struggles with sexuality, premature ejaculation and porn addiction - and how he overcame them to live a life of crazy sexual experiences with a variety of different women. In particular - I address an interesting concept - “why you shouldn’t have sex when you’re happy”. Timestamp: [3:10] Lusty’s story [12:22] Teaming up with Andrew in the early days [14:23] Life with Premature Ejaculation [20:08] Going 60 days without cumming [22:33] Giving the woman an experience [23:42] Some of Lusty’s turning points in learning about sexuality [26:41] Getting over porn addiction [29:54] The changes that lusty has noticed from the start to now [37:01] Don’t have sex when you’re happy [41:37] “What is your perspective about seeing our past clients?” [47:41] Crazy sexual experiences that were once thought impossible [53:35] Final words of hope if you are feeling beaten down or defeated

Subtle signs of emotional abuse, getting back your passionate sex life, and more by Dr. Laurie Betito

  Welcome to episode 151 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Shane Birkel to the podcast. In this episode he speaks with me about relationship challenges that affect sexual function, how excitement lessens as bonds deepen and ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation.     Shane Birkel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice near Boston. He works primarily with couples and is a certified Relational Life Therapist with Terry Real as his mentor.     Shane hosts a weekly podcast called the Couples Therapist Couch that is all about the practice of Couples Therapy. He is the creator of the Couples Therapist Inner Circle which is a membership site supporting therapists in their work with couples.    In This Episode You Will Hear:     Relational challenges that affect sexual function   How many people don’t realize the negative habits they have that will impact sex in a relationship   Looking at overdependence on our partners for how we feel about ourselves  The importance of showing up as yourself as your relationship evolves   Getting stuck doing the same things   Ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation   Understanding that your partner cannot meet all of your needs  Learning to not put too much expectation on your relationship   How excitement lessens as bonds deepen   Looking at the issue of control       101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/  https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/     Find Shane here:   https://shanebirkel.com   https://couplestherapistcouch.com       Find me on social media:  https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      Work with me:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/    Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

We sit down with Susan Bratton + we get SPUNKY in this episode!! What we chat about: Why Salad Is The New Viagra How To Supercharge Your Sex Drive Reversing The 2 Major Libido Depressants Libido/Arousal/Desire Hormones Are The King, Queen and Joker! The Sexual Soulmate Pact Technique Connect with Susan on her website, Instagram, and YouTube! Get her sexual soulmate pact! Connect with Lahana on her website, Facebook, and Instagram. About Susan Bratton Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships.Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion.   Married to her husband Tim since 1993, Susan is an author, award-winning speaker, and serial entrepreneur who teaches passionate lovemaking techniques to her fans around the world. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.”   Susan is Chair Emeritus of the ad:tech conference; she was both CMO and a member of the Board of Directors for an Anthony Robbins tech start-up as well as serving on numerous boards throughout her career. In 2009, Susan was honored as a “Silicon Valley Woman of Influence” by The Business Journal and as a “Top 10 Internet Pioneer” by AdAge Magazine. In 2010, was bestowed the Lifetime Industry Achievement award by dmg World Media.   Susan’s straight-talking, fearless approach is rooted in her personal experience of watching her sex life wither while she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When their relationship hit a crisis point, the couple made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to keep their family together and revive the passion in their marriage. Today, she and her husband have the kind of dream relationship most people long-since stopped believing is even possible—until they discover Susan’s teachings.   Susan is CEO and co-founder (with her husband) of Personal Life Media. Through her company, Susan has authored 20 books includingRelationship Magic, The Passion Patchand30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic, as well as her International #1 Amazon best-seller,Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex.   She has also created and published numerous online courses including her wildly popularRevive Her DriveandSteamy Sex Ed® DVD Collection,as well as programs such as:Seduction Trilogy,Expand Her Orgasm Tonight,The Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, Female Liquid Orgasm,andKeep Her Coming.   Millions of couples and singles have been touched by her TV appearances and Better Lover YouTube channel. Through her Insider’s Club newsletter at Personal Life Media.com, Susan gives away, free of charge, countless MP3 audios, videos, articles, and ebooks.   Susan believes that shame-free, frequent sexual pleasure is every man and woman’s birthright: “After 25 years of marriage, I know from experience that deep, passionate intimacy with my partner is priceless: a priority that tops my list of must-haves alongside good health and the love of family and friends. I have made it my mission to aid anyone who wants the kind of lovemaking that improves with age.”   She and her husband split their time between their home on Mt. Tamalpais in Mill Valley, California and their cozy beach shack in Encinitas, with occasional trips to far-off lands to visit their globe-trotting daughter.

Female bodied people come to me all of time asking this very common question, “Why can’t I have an orgasm during sex?”  Then I’m usually asking them if sex to them means penetration.  They usually answer yes.  This episode is going to tackle the social, cultural, and physiological nature of the vulva!      Dr. Laurie Mintz, teaches human sexuality at University of Florida, has private practice, and has written two books the Tired Women’s Guide to Passionate Sex, and today’s topic Becoming Cliterate.      You can find Dr. Mintz here:  https://www.drlauriemintz.com/    @drlauriemintz (insta and twitter)      Find me on all the socials!   Instagram @erikamileytherapy  + @sextalkwitherikamileyTwitter @sextalkwitherikamileyFacebook.com/sextalkwitherikamiley https://www.youtube.com/user/MrsErikaMiley erikamiley.com erika@erikamiley.com  

My guest on today's show is Stephanie Beuhler. She's a licensed therapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, a graduate of UCLA and Pepperdine (among others), and a best-selling writer who has authored many enlightening books on sexuality and sex therapy, including intimacy in particular which her book Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues, touches on. She has also extended her prolific leanings with more academic-centered projects for textbooks and journals. And most important of all, she is extremely passionate and caring towards her patients regarding topics of sexuality, cancer survivors, and infertility issues. And this episode will dive into how infertility can affect couples and the many approaches towards mitigating the challenges that can arise. Stephanie Beuhler is an amazing guest and an even more amazing provider of insight and illumination on the topic. Enjoy! Some of the Manifestations of Infertility Issues in Sex Lives A lot of couples who are struggling with the issue of infertility usually complain about just how robotic the act feels. You go to a doctor, you track the most opportune times for conception, and you work on it. Stephanie says that sex than can feel like a ‘job' for many people. Instead of sex being this freeing and liberating thing, it is largely a matter of sticking to a schedule and punching the time card. It can be very discouraging to have difficulties getting pregnant and then having the sexual issues poured on top of that. In short, the pressure to perform on demand can lead to erectile dysfunction in men. The stress that accumulates from peers who are having kids, from parents who want grandkids, all of those factors can have very detrimental effects on the quality of relationships. Fortunately, there are solutions and ways to manage these issues and approach infertility through a healthier lens. Same-Sex Couples and Infertility-Type Issues Stephanie states that it is a different dynamic between same-sex couples because they go into the process knowing that they will either be getting a sperm donation, a surrogate mother or adopting. But this also comes with its fair share of complications and stresses. Many times, it's hard to know what choice is best for the couple. And the process for adoption can be a very time-consuming and expensive process. While talking on this subject, Stephanie shares a very interesting stat and trend for LGBT couples and birth rates--in fact, on birth rates in general. Listen along to hear her speak on the topic. The Most Common Sexual Problems for Women Stephanie talks of painful vaginal intercourse for women being of the many problems that can arise for women, which leads to a lack of possibility for pregnancy. And this is described and represented under the diagnosis of vaginismus. Vaginismus means that intercourse is not possible for women because of past traumas or often, there is no single distinguishing cause and can happen without any pattern or correlative reason. It can lead to extreme pain during sex, and even the insertion of tampons can become impossible for women with vaginismus. Stephanie goes into much more detail during the episode. And it is important stuff to be aware of. Sexual Problems for Men The problems for men usually range from low desire, premature ejaculation, to erectile dysfunction. And when talking about erectile dysfunction, it can be caused by the pressure of trying to get pregnant and just how crucial the timing can be. And maybe, as Stephanie states, it can even be the result of the ambivalence of the man who may be second-guessing having children in the first place. And even the financial aspects of having a kid can lead to erectile dysfunction. In fact, Stephanie states that it is one of the biggest reasons why many men develop erectile dysfunction, in general, is stress about finances. For this and more interesting facts, including some information on delayed ejaculation, listen along! When All Else Fails, Take a Break! Advice that Stephanie gives for couples often involves telling them to stop trying for pregnancy for a little bit. Sometimes all it takes is that relaxation and the stress-relief of not having to try so hard to reframe the whole obstacle and bring passionate sex back into the mix. That way disappointments and expectations are kept to a minimum as well. And who knows, it can even lead to pregnancy given the relaxed atmosphere. It can also relieve pressure in the dynamic, which can alleviate erectile dysfunction and a variety of other performance issues. For much more on desire during pregnancy and this important topic, listen along! Key Links for Stephanie: Website and Resources for Stephanie: https://thebuehlerinstitute.com/ || https://www.learnsextherapy.com/ Affiliate Links for her books: Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues: https://amzn.to/2TCBNo7 What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex:https://amzn.to/2UDvjBJ Sex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected (Sex, Love, and Psychology): https://amzn.to/2XXySF7 A Heart-Pounding Guide to Passionate Sex: https://amzn.to/2CkmPse More info: Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.com Web - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/ Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/ If you're enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcast Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/More info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

My guest on today’s show is Stephanie Beuhler. She’s a licensed therapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, a graduate of UCLA and Pepperdine (among others), and a best-selling writer who has authored many enlightening books on sexuality and sex therapy, including intimacy in particular which her book Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues, touches on. She has also extended her prolific leanings with more academic-centered projects for textbooks and journals.And most important of all, she is extremely passionate and caring towards her patients regarding topics of sexuality, cancer survivors, and infertility issues. And this episode will dive into how infertility can affect couples and the many approaches towards mitigating the challenges that can arise. Stephanie Beuhler is an amazing guest and an even more amazing provider of insight and illumination on the topic. Enjoy!Some of the Manifestations of Infertility Issues in Sex LivesA lot of couples who are struggling with the issue of infertility usually complain about just how robotic the act feels. You go to a doctor, you track the most opportune times for conception, and you work on it.Stephanie says that sex than can feel like a ‘job’ for many people. Instead of sex being this freeing and liberating thing, it is largely a matter of sticking to a schedule and punching the time card. It can be very discouraging to have difficulties getting pregnant and then having the sexual issues poured on top of that.In short, the pressure to perform on demand can lead to erectile dysfunction in men. The stress that accumulates from peers who are having kids, from parents who want grandkids, all of those factors can have very detrimental effects on the quality of relationships. Fortunately, there are solutions and ways to manage these issues and approach infertility through a healthier lens.Same-Sex Couples and Infertility-Type IssuesStephanie states that it is a different dynamic between same-sex couples because they go into the process knowing that they will either be getting a sperm donation, a surrogate mother or adopting. But this also comes with its fair share of complications and stresses.Many times, it’s hard to know what choice is best for the couple. And the process for adoption can be a very time-consuming and expensive process.While talking on this subject, Stephanie shares a very interesting stat and trend for LGBT couples and birth rates--in fact, on birth rates in general. Listen along to hear her speak on the topic.The Most Common Sexual Problems for WomenStephanie talks of painful vaginal intercourse for women being of the many problems that can arise for women, which leads to a lack of possibility for pregnancy. And this is described and represented under the diagnosis of vaginismus.Vaginismus means that intercourse is not possible for women because of past traumas or often, there is no single distinguishing cause and can happen without any pattern or correlative reason. It can lead to extreme pain during sex, and even the insertion of tampons can become impossible for women with vaginismus.Stephanie goes into much more detail during the episode. And it is important stuff to be aware of.Sexual Problems for MenThe problems for men usually range from low desire, premature ejaculation, to erectile dysfunction. And when talking about erectile dysfunction, it can be caused by the pressure of trying to get pregnant and just how crucial the timing can be. And maybe, as Stephanie states, it can even be the result of the ambivalence of the man who may be second-guessing having children in the first place.And even the financial aspects of having a kid can lead to erectile dysfunction. In fact, Stephanie states that it is one of the biggest reasons why many men develop erectile dysfunction, in general, is stress about finances. For this and more interesting facts, including some information on delayed ejaculation, listen along!When All Else Fails, Take a Break!Advice that Stephanie gives for couples often involves telling them to stop trying for pregnancy for a little bit. Sometimes all it takes is that relaxation and the stress-relief of not having to try so hard to reframe the whole obstacle and bring passionate sex back into the mix. That way disappointments and expectations are kept to a minimum as well. And who knows, it can even lead to pregnancy given the relaxed atmosphere. It can also relieve pressure in the dynamic, which can alleviate erectile dysfunction and a variety of other performance issues.For much more on desire during pregnancy and this important topic, listen along!Key Links for Stephanie: Website and Resources for Stephanie: https://thebuehlerinstitute.com/ || https://www.learnsextherapy.com/Affiliate Links for her books: Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues: https://amzn.to/2TCBNo7What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex:https://amzn.to/2UDvjBJSex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected (Sex, Love, and Psychology): https://amzn.to/2XXySF7A Heart-Pounding Guide to Passionate Sex: https://amzn.to/2CkmPseMore info:Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

My guest on today’s show is Stephanie Beuhler. She’s a licensed therapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, a graduate of UCLA and Pepperdine (among others), and a best-selling writer who has authored many enlightening books on sexuality and sex therapy, including intimacy in particular which her book Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues, touches on. She has also extended her prolific leanings with more academic-centered projects for textbooks and journals.And most important of all, she is extremely passionate and caring towards her patients regarding topics of sexuality, cancer survivors, and infertility issues. And this episode will dive into how infertility can affect couples and the many approaches towards mitigating the challenges that can arise. Stephanie Beuhler is an amazing guest and an even more amazing provider of insight and illumination on the topic. Enjoy!Some of the Manifestations of Infertility Issues in Sex LivesA lot of couples who are struggling with the issue of infertility usually complain about just how robotic the act feels. You go to a doctor, you track the most opportune times for conception, and you work on it.Stephanie says that sex than can feel like a ‘job’ for many people. Instead of sex being this freeing and liberating thing, it is largely a matter of sticking to a schedule and punching the time card. It can be very discouraging to have difficulties getting pregnant and then having the sexual issues poured on top of that.In short, the pressure to perform on demand can lead to erectile dysfunction in men. The stress that accumulates from peers who are having kids, from parents who want grandkids, all of those factors can have very detrimental effects on the quality of relationships. Fortunately, there are solutions and ways to manage these issues and approach infertility through a healthier lens.Same-Sex Couples and Infertility-Type IssuesStephanie states that it is a different dynamic between same-sex couples because they go into the process knowing that they will either be getting a sperm donation, a surrogate mother or adopting. But this also comes with its fair share of complications and stresses.Many times, it’s hard to know what choice is best for the couple. And the process for adoption can be a very time-consuming and expensive process.While talking on this subject, Stephanie shares a very interesting stat and trend for LGBT couples and birth rates--in fact, on birth rates in general. Listen along to hear her speak on the topic.The Most Common Sexual Problems for WomenStephanie talks of painful vaginal intercourse for women being of the many problems that can arise for women, which leads to a lack of possibility for pregnancy. And this is described and represented under the diagnosis of vaginismus.Vaginismus means that intercourse is not possible for women because of past traumas or often, there is no single distinguishing cause and can happen without any pattern or correlative reason. It can lead to extreme pain during sex, and even the insertion of tampons can become impossible for women with vaginismus.Stephanie goes into much more detail during the episode. And it is important stuff to be aware of.Sexual Problems for MenThe problems for men usually range from low desire, premature ejaculation, to erectile dysfunction. And when talking about erectile dysfunction, it can be caused by the pressure of trying to get pregnant and just how crucial the timing can be. And maybe, as Stephanie states, it can even be the result of the ambivalence of the man who may be second-guessing having children in the first place.And even the financial aspects of having a kid can lead to erectile dysfunction. In fact, Stephanie states that it is one of the biggest reasons why many men develop erectile dysfunction, in general, is stress about finances. For this and more interesting facts, including some information on delayed ejaculation, listen along!When All Else Fails, Take a Break!Advice that Stephanie gives for couples often involves telling them to stop trying for pregnancy for a little bit. Sometimes all it takes is that relaxation and the stress-relief of not having to try so hard to reframe the whole obstacle and bring passionate sex back into the mix. That way disappointments and expectations are kept to a minimum as well. And who knows, it can even lead to pregnancy given the relaxed atmosphere. It can also relieve pressure in the dynamic, which can alleviate erectile dysfunction and a variety of other performance issues.For much more on desire during pregnancy and this important topic, listen along!Key Links for Stephanie: Website and Resources for Stephanie: https://thebuehlerinstitute.com/ || https://www.learnsextherapy.com/Affiliate Links for her books: Counseling Couples Before, During, and After Pregnancy: Sexuality and Intimacy Issues: https://amzn.to/2TCBNo7What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex:https://amzn.to/2UDvjBJSex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected (Sex, Love, and Psychology): https://amzn.to/2XXySF7A Heart-Pounding Guide to Passionate Sex: https://amzn.to/2CkmPseMore info:Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

Today on the show I am talking to Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, author, speaker, and therapist. She teaches psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students annually and she has also authored two books, Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters — And How to Get It, along with A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Inside this episode, Laurie shares her findings on the orgasm gap that exists in relationships and why that often starts at the beginning of a sex ed program. We also dive into the importance of self-discovery and understanding what works best for you as an individual, and then communicating that to your partner. Finally, we bust some of society’s myths about sex and Laurie shares her take-home advice that women can implement in their sexual journeys today. So if you want to learn all of Laurie’s incredible secrets to experience orgasms during sex, don’t miss out on today’s episode! Highlights Laurie’s background and how she came to teach psychology of human sexuality. How the orgasm gap inspired Laurie to write Becoming Cliterate. Understanding why there is so much ignorance about female sexual pleasure. The effective strategy of sex education in the Netherlands. First steps a woman can take to increase her “cliteracy”. How to incorporate yourself; a journey of self-discovery. Why sexual communication can really go a long way. Getting rid of the myth that sex should be spontaneous. Approaching your partner about introducing new ideas into your sex life. Advice for women struggling to orgasm or struggling with low sexual desire. Tweetables “It’s truly, truly impossible to have an orgasm while you are worrying about something.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19] “Mindfulness is putting your mind and body in the same place.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19] “Communication is the bedrock to make your bed rock.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:26:17] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Dr. Laurie Mintz — http://drlauriemintz.com/ Laurie on Twitter — https://twitter.com/drlauriemintz Becoming Cliterate — https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Cliterate-Orgasm-Equality-Matters/dp/0062664557 A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex — https://www.amazon.com/Tired-Womans-Guide-Passionate-Sex/dp/1605501077 OMGYes — https://www.omgyes.com/ Calm — https://www.calm.com/ Head Space — https://www.headspace.com/

Dr. Laurie Mintz, LP who is in private practice, a professor for the University of Florida, author of Becoming Cliterate & A Tired Woman's Guide To Passionate Sex joins us on the couch today to discuss the importance and the stigma around a women's sexual pleasure. Dr. Laurie breaks down why a woman's sexual satisfaction is often overlooked, and what we as women can do to address misogynistic views around female sexuality. Lastly, Dr. Laurie discusses the red flags in a relationship when a partner is not concerned with your sexual satisfaction - and why you should run as fast as you can if this happens to you!  Resources Mentioned: Books Becoming Cliterate, by Dr. Laurie Mintz  A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex, A Tired Woman's Guide To Passionate Sex, By Dr. Laurie Mintzby Dr. Laurie Mintz Contact Dr. Laurie Mintz, PhD. at: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Email questions/comments to adatewithdarkness@gmail.com Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: A Date With Darkness Twitter: @Adatewdarkness Facebook: A Date With Darkness To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

  Show notes: Midgett, an 82 year-old Black Lesbian writer of erotica living in San Francisco, talks about the importance of having meaningful work and a passionate sex life at every age. She has written two books, “New York Flavor with a San Francisco Beat” and “Brown on Brown: Black Lesbian Erotica.” Her email address is midgettsf@aol.com You can find her on YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNK8wZkVnLo She has also written a monthly inspirational column, Midgett's Corner, for the Western Edition, a newspaper that caters to San Francisco's Western Addition neighborhood. http://www.thewesternedition.com/?c=125&a=2880

What makes the ins and outs of sexuality so hard to talk aboout?  It turns out, if couples do talk about sex, the conversation is often mostly about frequency. However, what is missing are the zillion of other thoughts and feelings we have about intimacy (or lack there of), desire (or lack thereof), fantasies (or lack thereof), pleasure (or lack therefo) and, oh yeah, the mechanics of sex as well.   But don’t sweat it, in this episode Therapist Uncensored co-host Dr. Ann Kelley joins guest Dr. Susan Ansorge to talk about talking about sex.   Learn to overcome the difficulties of opening up to yourself and your sexual partner about these very personal and understandably anxiety-filled conversations. Dr. Susan Ansorge is a practicing psychologist in Austin, TX. Her interest, training and experience in working with sexual issues began during her tenure as a staff psychologist at the UT Counseling and Mental Health Center, and has continued through her 17 years of private practice. Dr. Ansorge was also member of the Austin Women’s Psychotherapy Project, bringing leaders in the field of gender-aware Psychotherapy to the Austin area, as well as presenting locally and nationally on topics in the areas of gender and sexuality as they relate to psychotherapy. Her written work has appeared in the National Center for PTSD Quarterly. 0:00-10:00 Introduction General difficulties in discussing sex with your partner Learning to talk about talking about sex Desire discrepancy and more complicated questions/conversations about sex The difficulty in beginning a discussion that you are afraid might be hurtful to your partner   10:00-20:00 How best to get dialogue going with your partner about desires and likes/dislikes When and where is the right place and time for the right conversation about your shared sex life? How sex is initiated and finding a compatible middle ground Desires and fantasies can often be considered taboo, but fantasies can also be a gold mine of communication Difference in fantasies between men and women, women of different ages   20:00-30:00 The element of novelty in women’s fantasies and element of pleasing their partner in men’s fantasies Part of women’s fantasies is being desired Caretaking and nurturing is counterintuitive to sexual narcissism Avoiding arousal/desire censorship   30:00-40:00 How to bring up talking about sex to one’s partner and using available resources Appreciating one’s partners perspective just like in any communication setting Wrap up and outro   Resources Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641) by Esther Perel, former guest on our show. The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment  (https://www.harpercollins.com/9780060984281/the-erotic-mind/) by Jack Morin  Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship (https://www.amazon.com/Tired-Womans-Guide-Passionate-Sex/dp/1605501077)  by Laurie B. Mintz   Come as You Are (https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090)  by Emily Nagosaki We appreciate our sponsor TheraNest! Our show is not just for mental health professionals AT ALL, but if you are a mental health professional, you will appreciate our sponsor as well! Most of us do not want to spend our time on the business aspect of our practice. (https://www.theranest.com/TherapistUncensored?utm_source=tu&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=july-2018) . Please click above and check it out. Want to support this work and stay in touch?The best way to stay in touch right now is to  join our Facebook page (click here) (https://www.facebook.com/austinshrinks/)... Support this podcast

Want to learn how practicing mindfulness can lead to better sex? Instead of thinking about the emails you need to respond to or the kid's lunches that need to be packed — think about the amazing orgasm you're about to have! Sex with your partner should be incredible, and mindfulness can help with just that. Listen and learn for a better sex life full of passion, connection and mindfulness. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to put your head and body in the same place to practice mindfulness. Practicing mindfulness in daily life so it's easier to do in the bedroom. Understanding the myths surrounding female pleasure to help improve your sex life. Century's-old vibrators and how women have been using them for years to improve their sex life. Communicating about sex in your relationship. How to avoid 'spectator sex' so that you can be more present for real amazing sex. And much more! Dr. Laurie Mintz is a professor at the University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality. She is also a licensed psychologist in private practice, and the author of two books, both aimed at empowering women sexually: A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex and Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How To Get It. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/144 Hood River Couples Retreat: Join us in Hood River, Oregon for our Couple's Retreat July 29 - August 4, 2018. Strengthen your relationship in just 5 days while vacation in the majestic Columbia River Gorge. Learn more details here: Hood River Couples Retreat Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Songfinch: Songfinch brings your stories, feelings and memories to life through one-of-a-kind songs from scratch. Using your unique stories along with your desired genre, vocalist gender and song moods, they curate the perfect professional songwriter to handcraft the most personal gift you can give. Visit Songfinch.com and enter the promo code IDO to get 10% off! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

Happy New year - 1st Podcast of 2018 to ease you in the week. This week ARB is a little confused. IVF has a listener request to talk about romantic sex, but ARB isn't so sure if he's had any!

Sex can be amazing, like a beautiful ballet, graceful and in perfect synchronicity. Sex can be passionate, like a sensual tango of pushing and pulling, holding roses in your teeth while throwing your partner across the room (in a loving way). Sex can also become a chore, like tap dancing, or like walking the dog or taking out the garbage, if the conditions are just right. But the good news is that it's normal. Relationships go through different phases and outside factors and stressors can affect your relationship and sex life. You need to understand the dance to know when you or your partner are pulling away; that way you know when to embrace them even closer. Find out more in this week's episode of About Sex, with Sex Therapist Angela Skurtu and her husband Josh!    Episode 35 Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed at: www.therapistinstlouis.com

Today’s episode is about sex in a Christian marriage. You may recall that several episodes back, my guests shared that they had managed to reignite the passion in their marriage following childbirth by using a technique that they had learned on podcast called One Extraordinary Marriage. Well, I reached out to the hosts of that podcast, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, because I wanted to get the information from the source. We don’t agree on everything that we discuss in this episode, but we had a great time talking about it, and these two have some very useful insights into how to come to terms with sexuality within the Christian context. And since we don’t have very many Christians on this show talking about their religion, I’m very excited about this one. You can learn more abuot Tony and Alisa at their website: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ Be sure to check out our sponsors for today’s episode: Little Bird, the independent diamond & engagement ring experts. The best way to buy an engagement ring ​is with a bird's eye view. You can find them at littlebirdtoldyou.com If you like what we’re up to here at together, please consider supporting our crowdfunding campaign at patreon.com/together - we’re on a mission to crush shame, and we’re just getting off the ground, so every penny helps.  Thank you!

We discuss the following topics:   -      One simple reason why your love lifemaybe suffering -      Why and how it is possible to recreateromance and regenerate the chemistry with the person you’re with, even ifyou’ve been with your partner for many years -      The essential ingredient to ensure yourrelationship is sparkly and juicy -      One short practice exercise (10 minutes)daily that can help you rekindle your relationship with your partner and giveyou the passionate sex you’ve always wanted that focus on each otherphysically, sexually and emotionally -      What extended orgasms mean, and yes -both men and women can achieve extended orgasms -      A manual stimulation technique thatheightens orgasmic sensitivity   Leave your comments on here: www.nicolelana.com/extended-orgasms-interview-with-alicia-davon-1  

Kara's young attorney friend Sandor sits in for a fun show, and we learn about how the two met, as Kara brought her roommate to the date. Sam tells of the new Search feature on our website. We talk to author Laurie Mintz about her book, "The Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex."

Kara's young attorney friend Sandor sits in for a fun show, and we learn about how the two met, as Kara brought her roommate to the date. Sam tells of the new Search feature on our website. We talk to author Laurie Mintz about her book, "The Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex."

Today, Kelly is joined by Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a tenured college professor at the University of Florida, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist with over 30 years of experience working with private clients, on both general and sexual issues. She is the author of two books aimed at empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. In today's conversation, they explore sexual scripts, the orgasm gap and much more! So, if you are looking to become Cliterate, hit play because this is another juicy one! Today on Higher Sex:Exploring the orgasm gap and how to close it  Ways to change your sexual script for passionate sex Dr. Laurie's visions around an improved sex-education system Strategies to help you reclaim your sexual desireResources: https://bliss-therapy.orgBecoming Cliterate A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex This show is produced by Soulfire Productions