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Best podcasts about quarter life

Latest podcast episodes about quarter life

HISTORY This Week
Freud & Jung: The Original Dream Team

HISTORY This Week

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 38:08


March 3rd, 1907. Dr. Sigmund Freud invites a guest into his office, Dr. Carl Jung. This is a meeting of the minds, about... the mind. Psychology. Freud and Jung will spend the next 13 hours discussing the unconscious, the hidden forces in our brains that guide our thoughts and decisions. They're two of the first doctors to explore this mysterious terrain, and this marathon meeting will spark a true friendship – until it all comes crashing down. How did Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung help shape the way we understand the human mind, that elusive unconscious? And why did their friendship eventually fall apart? Special thanks to our guests, Satya Doyle Byock, Jungian psychotherapist and author of Quarter Life, The Search for Self in Early Adulthood, and director of the Salome Institute of Jungian Studies; Dr. James Hollis, Jungian psychoanalyst and author of A Life of Meaning: Relocating Your Center of Spiritual Gravity; and Dr. George Makari, psychiatrist, historian, and author of Revolution in Mind: The Creation of Psychoanalysis, and director of the DeWitt Wallace Institute of Psychiatry at Weill Cornell. To stay updated: historythisweekpodcast.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Conversations in the dark Podcast
The Truth About The Quarter Life Crises: Here's What You Need To Break Free!

The Conversations in the dark Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 56:36


A conversation on a phenomenon known as QUARTER LIFE CRISIS with Petrina Adusei, a clinical mental health counselor in Ghana and a communications expert. Petrina expertly guides us through this overwhelming phase, offering practical tools and advice to conquer the chaos and reclaim control of your life.Get the full experience of Petrina's work at (MBScare)

Lunchtime Stories for Leaders
Die Midlife-Crisis als Chance für die eigene Lebensvision | Mit Franziska Ambacher

Lunchtime Stories for Leaders

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 35:44


Was ist die Sinnfrage? Was sind die typischen Warnsignale für eine Midlife-Crisis? Und was ist der Unterschied zwischen Quarterlife- und Midlife-Crisis? Darum geht es in der neuen Folge von „Leadership Masterclass – von den Besten lernen“, in der Host Brigitte Dyck diesmal Franziska Ambacher zu Gast hat. Diese hat das Coaching- und Beratungsunternehmen Changeify gegründet und berät Menschen in der zweiten Lebenshälfte, die sich beruflich verändern wollen. Ihr Credo: Hier lernst Du, was in Dir steckt! Dazu hat sie auch ein Buch geschrieben, ein Exemplar wird in dieser Folge auch unter allen, die eine Sterne-Bewertung für den Podcast machen, ausgelost! Für Franziska hat die Midlife-Crisis einen Sinn, nämlich innezuhalten, rauszuzoomen und zu schauen, wo man gerade steht. Diese Zeit nehmen wir uns im hektischen Alltag sonst nicht! Diese Krise kann man nicht runterschlucken, sondern muss sich ihr stellen. Jede:r stellt sich irgendwann die Sinnfrage, es gibt sogar Studien darüber, dass das überall auf der Welt passiert. Im Podcast geht es auch darum, wie die Midlife-Crisis im Job geschieht und aufzufangen ist. Denn in unserer Leistungsgesellschaft definieren wir uns über den Job. Führungskräfte können eingreifen, wenn sie die Warnsignale erkennen: Sozialer Rückzug und das „fehlende Feuer“. Viele sind hier relativ blind, diese Zeichen zu erkennen ist also schon viel wert. Danach sollte man die Mitarbeitenden natürlich darauf ansprechen und offene Fragen stellen, um herauszufinden, wie man dieser Person den Rücken freihalten kann. Außerdem grenzen die beiden die Midlife-Crisis zur Quarterlife-Crisis ab. In dieser sind die Probleme oft die vielen Möglichkeiten, man weiß gar nicht, wo man denn anfangen soll. Die Midlife-Crisis hingehen ist etwas, was lange unterdrückt wurde und bezieht sich auch auf Erwartungshaltungen, denen man nicht mehr gerecht werden kann. Franziska fasst die Quintessenz aus dem Buch zusammen: Kenne deine Werte, damit du mit erhobenem Haupt nach deiner Facon die Arbeitswelt mitgestalten kannst! Sense or Nonsense: Geht jede:r durch eine Midlife-Crisis? Hanna ist sich sicher: Alle müssen da durch, früher oder später! Einfacher ist es nach Brigitte, wenn man die Quarterlife-Crisis schon durch hat, dann hat man schonmal nach dem Sinn gesucht... FührungsQuickie: Sich mit sich selbst beschäftigen und eine Lebensvision für sich selbst entwickeln, die auf dem eigenen Wertegerüst beruht. Leitender Gedanke: Werde, was in dir steckt. Hier geht's zum Buch als Print und E-BookZur Website von Franziska: https://www.changeify.de Website: https://brigitte-dyck.com/Shop Alle Online Trainings: https://brigitte-dyck.com/shopOnline Training: Benutzen wir die KI oder benutzt die KI uns? https://brigitte-dyck.com/info-menschenbild_kiGeschenk für dich: RoleLandscape und LeaderCanvas: https://brigitte-dyck.com/geschenkBuch mit persönlicher Widmung ab April 2025: “30 Fragen, die dein Leben bereichern. Dein Turbo für mehr Klarheit, Wachstum und außergewöhnlichen Erfolg” https://brigitte-dyck.com/kontaktBuch mit persönlicher Widmung ab 15. Mai 2025: “Künstliche Intelligenz in der Führung. Chancen, Entscheidungen und Strategien für morgen” https://brigitte-dyck.com/info-menschenbild_kiYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LeadershipMasterclass_developInsta: https://www.instagram.com/brigittedyck_leadership/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brigitte-dyck%F0%9F%92%A1-future-leadership-325b3999/00:00:00 Intro und Begrüßung00:01:27 Sense or Nonsense00:03:12 Deep Dive00:04:24 Sinn einer Midlife-Crisis00:05:42 Abgrenzung zum Stress00:07:57 Anfälligkeit bei Führungskräften00:09:30 KI-Kurs von Brigitte00:11:23 Warnsignale00:15:26 Mentale Gesundheit am Arbeitsplatz00:16:52 Quarterlife-Crisis00:22:56 FührungsQuickie00:26:51 Tipps für Führungskräfte00:30:48 Krise transparent im Team machen00:33:10 Quintessenz aus dem Buch00:34:55 Leitender Gedanke

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well
389. Generational Differences in the Workplace with Michelle Quist Ryder

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 61:38


Ever feel like your workplace is a mix of different worlds, with each generation bringing its own style, perspective, and expectations? For our second episode of the year, Dr. Michelle Quist Ryder, CEO of the American Psychological Foundation, joins us to talk about how Baby Boomers to Gen Z can navigate work together. From remote work shifts to work-life balance expectations, you'll come away with new knowledge on supporting each other across generations and creating healthier, more productive workplaces. If bridging generational gaps feels tricky, this episode offers practical tips to make it easier. Listen and Learn:  Why generational gaps in values and tech create workplace challenges  Understanding generational anxiety and why adapting workplace culture unlocks success for everyone Are return-to-office mandates sparking workplace crises, and how can companies adapt post-pandemic? How self-determination theory can unlock happier workplaces and fix toxic job cultures Can bridging generational differences in work values create healthier, more adaptable workplaces? Does turning your passion into a career kill your creativity, and how can you avoid that trap? Resources:  ● Website: https://ampsychfdn.org/about/apf-team/ ● Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-quist-ryder ● Connect on X: https://twitter.com/mquistryder About Michelle Quist Ryder Dr. Michelle Quist Ryder is a social psychologist, research professional, and the CEO of the American Psychological Foundation, an organization that leverages the power of philanthropy to invest in research and advance psychological knowledge. Dr. Quist Ryder has an extensive background in human-centric organizational design, effective DEI practices, and leveraging psychology to solve critical societal issues. Related Episodes: 176. Fair Play with Eve Rodsky   206. Fair Play Part 2 with Eve Rodsky 274. Quarterlife  299. Leadership and the Changing Workplace with Chris Shipley 303. Both/And Thinking with Marianne Lewis 333. How Work Works with Michelle P. King 347. Job Changes & Career Pivots with Paula Brand 352.Twentysomethings with Meg Jay 338. ACT for Burnout  357. Is Your Work Worth It? How to Think About Meaningful Work with Jennifer Tosti-Kharas and Christopher Wong Michaelson 374. Developing and Deepening Connections with Adam Dorsay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Coaching Inn
S4 Episode 54: Quarterlife Coaching - working with young adults with Chloe Garland

The Coaching Inn

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 34:49 Transcription Available


Today Claire Pedrick speaks with Chloe Garland, founder of Quarterlife Coaching, about her journey into coaching, the challenges of building a coaching business, and the importance of addressing the needs of young adults navigating their careers.    Chloe shares her insights on existential coaching and the search for meaning in your career, emphasising the unique challenges faced by the younger generation today.   Takeaways The name 'Quarterlife Coaching' was a pivotal branding decision. Building a coaching business is often messy and requires persistence. Existential coaching addresses deeper questions of identity and meaning. Young people today are seeking fulfillment and meaning in their careers. Chloe's experience shows that age is less of a barrier in coaching than perceived. The coaching industry has become more accessible for younger coaches. Community and connection are vital for those experiencing quarterlife crises.   Contact Chloe Garland via Linked In Contact 3D to talk about low cost spaces for under 35s on Transforming Conversations - www.3dcoaching.com   If you like this episode, subscribe or follow The Coaching Inn on your podcast platform or our YouTube Channel to hear or see new episodes as they drop.    If you'd like to find out more about 3D Coaching, you can get all our new ideas and offers in our weekly email.    Coming Up:  Next:  Leadership - The Art of Being Human with Debs Wright   Keywords coaching, quarterlife crisis, young adults, existential coaching, career guidance, personal development, coaching business, B2B coaching, coaching for youth, coaching journey

Middle Age Mess
Quarter Life Matchmaker, Alexandra Freeman - Middle Age Mess, Episode 35

Middle Age Mess

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 31:06


Alexandra Freeman is clear - dating apps suck!! According to 99% of the free world, she's correct which is why she has gone all in on being a matchmaker for people aged 26 to whatever. She's here to tell you why the whole dating ecosystem has changed, why the apps are on the decline and how, if you just call her, she's going to set you up with the love of your life. For sure! Tonight! She's Canadian so I believe her. Check her out on www.matchmakeralexandra.com and see if you believe her, too. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Off The Record
Elliott Dawson

Off The Record

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 12:27


Wellington muso Elliott Dawson has released a new song called Quarter Life, written about that time he turned 25 and wondered how his life was going to pan out now that uni was over. He called up to chat about it and how many of his friends are flying away overseas on their OEs.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Radio One 91FM Dunedin
INTERVIEW: Elliott Dawson on new single 'Quarter Life' - Charlotte Esteve - Radio One 91FM

Radio One 91FM Dunedin

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024


INTERVIEW: Elliott Dawson on new single 'Quarter Life' by Charlotte Esteve on Radio One 91FM Dunedin

halottnak a coach
előítéletek nélkül a Z generációval (2021)

halottnak a coach

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 82:30


A mai vendégem Eszter, a pécsi katolikus neveltetésű 22 éves közgazdász, aki Budapesten az ország egyik legmenőbb cégénél dolgozik és bizony kétségei vannak a jövőjével kapcsolatban.  Története jól bemutatja a „Quarterlife crisis”-nek, magyarul kapunyitási pániknak nevezett jelenség sok elemét. A kapunyitási pánikot a kapuzárással ellentétben éppen a túl sok lehetőség kiszámíthatatlansága és az állandóan változó viszonyok jellemzik. Az életkezdési krízis leginkább a 20-as, 30-as, főképp a felsőoktatásban tanuló korosztályt érinti, kevésbé jellemző azokra a fiatalokra, akik nem mennek egyetemre.  Modern világunkban, habár a lehetőségek száma folyamatosan gyarapodik, éppen ebből adódik a fiatalokban a szorongás és a bizonytalanság: vajon jó úton indulnak-e majd el tanulmányaik befejezése után? Egyáltalán megfelelő hivatást választottak-e maguknak? Mi lesz, ha már a szülők nem lesznek ott jól megszokott támaszként a fiatal háta mögött? Annyi elvégzendő feladatot látnak maguk előtt a fiatalok, hogy jobbnak látják, ha bele sem kezdenek, mert túl bonyolultnak, túl összetettnek tűnnek számukra a felnőtt élet kihívásai.  Tartsatok velünk ebben a szuper, inspiráló és számomra reményt adó beszélgetésben! 

The Weekend University
Jungian Psychology, Navigating Quarter Life, and Searching for the Self — Satya Doyle Byock

The Weekend University

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 62:44


Satya Doyle Byock — a psychotherapist, writer, and the Director of the Salome Institute of Jungian Studies. Satya is the author of “Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood,” a book which argues that quarter life is a key developmental stage in its own right that we need to honour — both individually and collectively. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, and the Guardian. In this conversation, we explore: — How Jungian psychology can help us to navigate the key developmental periods in our lives — The 4 stages of growth and the need to separate from parental influences to find our own path — The difference between meaning types and stability types and why understanding this is the key to a healthy and productive life — Satya's stick figure exercise which she uses to help clients find clarity on life's big decisions. And more. You can learn about Satya's work and book at https://satyabyock.com --- Satya Doyle Byock is the author of “Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood,” now out in paperback from Random House (US) and Penguin Press (UK). Quarterlife has also been translated into French, Korean, Vietnamese, and Chinese. Satya's work has been featured on NPR's LifeKit, Morning Edition & Weekend Edition, The New York Times, The Guardian, Oprah Daily, The New York Post, Literary Hub, and many podcasts including Apple News in Conversation, Goop, Pulling the Thread, BBC Woman's Hour, and The Podcast with a Thousand Faces (The Joseph Campbell Foundation Podcast). (All links to the above can be found here.) Satya is a practicing psychotherapist in Portland, Oregon, and the director of The Salome Institute of Jungian Studies, where she regularly teaches online seminars. She was also the co-host of the now-completed podcast on Carl Jung's Red Book. You can follow her writing and join her monthly gatherings via her Substack newsletter Self & Society at https://satyadoylebyock.substack.com/ --- Interview Links — Satya's website - https://satyabyock.com

Music Elixir
Riding the Emotional Waves of TXT's 'Tomorrow': Echoes of the Past and Future

Music Elixir

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 38:27


Ever wondered how a single album can encapsulate the whirlwind of emotions we experience on the rollercoaster of life? Sarah and DJ Panic unravel the magic of TOMORROW X TOGETHER's (TXT) latest EP, zeroing in on tracks that stirred our souls and made us dance with joy. We kick off with our personal picks, including the heart-thumping 'The Killer (I Belong to You)' and the evocative 'I'll See You There Tomorrow', before delving into the lead track 'Deja Vu' and its sublime remix. Our conversation isn't just about the beats; it's a deep exploration into the album's ability to mirror the ethereal charm of déjà vu and the collective power of music to foster hope and resilience.The heart of our episode beats to the rhythm of emotions, where music transcends just sound and becomes a vessel for 'anemoia'—connecting us through a shared sense of the unknown familiar. We analyze the uplifting 'La La's' and the emotional rollercoaster that is 'Miracle', peeling back the layers to reveal the messages of togetherness that resonate throughout the album. It's a candid reflection on how these tracks not only bind us in shared experience but also underscore the significance of fan diversity and the undeniable impact streaming numbers have on the journey to chart success.We close our musical odyssey with a nod to the club anthems that have us reminiscing and dancing with abandon. There's a song that's become a personal anthem, a tune that encapsulates the nostalgia of a bygone era yet feels fresh and invigorating. We chat about the potential remixes and discuss how the music of TXT can evoke a sense of anemoia, taking us back in time or propelling us into the future. Join us as we celebrate the sweet vocal deliveries, Caribbean influences, and the many ways music touches our lives, all without a single guest—because sometimes, the music alone is the only companion you need.TOMORROW X TOGETHER info:InstagramXYoutubeTikTokSupport the Show.Please help Music Elixir by rating, reviewing, and sharing the episode. We appreciate your support!Follow us on:TwitterInstagram If have questions, comments, or requests click on our form:Music Elixir FormDJ Panic Blog:OK ASIA

The Fiftyfaces Podcast
Episode 257: BONUS: Avivah Wittenberg-Cox: Higher for Longer is not just for markets - Preparing for the 100 year and 4 Quarter life

The Fiftyfaces Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 31:06


In this bonus episode we meet with fellow INSEAD alumna Avivah Wittenberg-Cox advocates for new thinking in generational and gender balance. She is a consultant, coach and speaker on the rising impact of longevity on the people and on the workplace and provides advice to help businesses thrive. She is the author of seven books on gender, leadership and longevity and the host of the podcast 4-Quarter lives, where she applauds podcasts as a way to create “real conversations in a very noisy world”.   In this very real conversation we talk about Avivah's path to coaching and the importance of rethinking what we thought we knew about our lifespans, employment trajectories and retirement path. She draws upon her analogy of life having four quarters, and makes the point that most of us have discounted the potential of the third quarter – the years between 50 and 75.  We discuss the perils of trying to compress too much into the second quarter in particular – to try to “have it all” instead of spreading out goals and achievements.  We look at the endless potential of this phase and ask how employers can embrace this and in so doing promote more diversity in the workplace and more sustainable employment practices.  Given that Avivah is a coach we discuss the role of coaching and how it might be integrated into careers at an earlier stage than currently.  We also discuss continuing education and how universities and other institutions should adapt to the demand for lifelong learning.  Finally we look at the role of intuition, and how trusting one's instincts can be central to career success.   

Eat Your Crust
Quarterly Check-In on Our Quarter Life Crises

Eat Your Crust

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 40:27


Today we sit down and spill our hearts out about the quarter life crises we've recently been having! We chat about dealing with newfound autonomy in our lives and learning to understand what we want to do. We discuss the feeling of being chased by obligations and becoming paralyzed from stress. We muse about additional random learnings from Q1 of this year!Support the showFollow us on social media @eatyourcrustpod

The Coach's Journey
Episode #65: Chloë Garland – The Jam Donut Principle, Quarter-Life Crises and the Philosophy of Coaching

The Coach's Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 116:04


A quarter-life crisis is a period of intense soul searching that arrives when we are first confronted with the question of what to do with our lives.That's according to Chloë Garland, the founder of QuarterLife, a company that works with individuals and organisations to help people in their 20s and 30s not just survive, but thrive.In this episode of The Coach's Journey Podcast, Chloë sheds light on the generational shifts that have prolonged adolescence, and how many of us encounter our first truly meaningful life choices in our mid or late 20s.Chloë tells host Alex Whitton how studying philosophy encouraged her to ponder life's big questions, and how in her first coaching session – at age 22 – she was asked questions she had never considered before.That session left Chloë feeling ignited, and she describes the unusual experience of being called into coaching at a young age, knowing she had a gift for conversations but perhaps unaware of the profound impact she would have on the lives of young people she would meet along the way.In this episode, Chloë and Alex also talk about: • Living emergently, holding goals lightly, and embracing opportunities as they arise
 • The jam donut principle of purpose and presence
 • The power of metaphors and fables to simplify complex ideas
 • Psychodemographics, and how to find your niche
 • The value of shared experience in coaching, and the importance of owning your story
Chloë also shares some hugely valuable lessons on growing a coaching business, reflecting on investments, outsourcing, and how the fear of success can be as much of a hindrance as the fear of failure.

For The Long Haul
2024 first quarter life update.

For The Long Haul

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 36:09


Hey everyone in todays episode we are going over the first 3 months of the year and what has been happening with use over those last 3 months 

The Modern Model
We're Having Quarter Life Crises!

The Modern Model

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 47:43


*Cue "Quarter Life Crisis" by Taylor Bickett* Sel and Brandi discuss the pressures of turning 25, what it means to them and how they cope. What's the cause of a quarter life crisis? Society, internal pressure or a bit of both? Tune in to hear their take! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/themodernmodelpodcast/support

Serve Strong Finish Strong
Finding 4th Quarter Life Harmony - Jeff Eschliman

Serve Strong Finish Strong

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 40:03


In this episode, Jeff B Eschliman and I delve into the transformative power of personal growth and the search for balance through pivotal life moments. Jeff recounts a critical juncture in his life at 38, spurred by a revealing doctor's appointment. This incident became a catalyst for an "awakening" in 2008, altering his view of success and life balance. Jeff's journey towards enhancing his physical and mental well-being is both inspiring and instructive. We introduce an intriguing perspective, advocating for harmony over balance in life, drawing parallels with the worlds of music and sports.As the conversation progresses, I reflect on my past experiences with plate spinning, a metaphor for juggling multiple life goals, which often leads to burnout. To combat this, Jeff shares his unique "life harmony system," crafted from business processes, that helps prioritize personal and professional aspects of life. This system, which Jeff has been practicing for over a decade, includes a one-page life plan featuring core values, purpose statements, and monthly goals. Jeff's "Day of Zen" concept, a dedicated monthly day for reflection away from work and family, is a key component of this strategy. The discussion also covers the importance of strategic life planning for business owners, particularly as they approach retirement, emphasizing intentionality and the creation of 'whitespace' in one's schedule.Don't miss this episode if you're interested in learning about life harmony, strategic planning, and personal growth from seasoned professionals. Whether you're a business owner or simply someone seeking a more harmonious life, Jeff's insights and practical advice are invaluable.Jeff Eschliman is a seasoned corporate veteran with over 30 years of experience and a profound understanding of the elusive concept of work-life balance. His journey is one of transformation and realization. Once living what many would call a dream life - surviving a war, enjoying a lucrative career, extensive travels, and the comforts of a family and luxurious possessions - Jeff faced a turning point at age 38. In a routine doctor's appointment, he was confronted with a life-changing choice: accept a limiting prognosis or redefine his life on his own terms. Choosing the latter, Jeff embarked on a mission to help others do the same.Find Jeff here:https://jeffeschliman.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffeschliman/To learn more, visit:www.servingstrong.comListen to more episodes on Mission Matters:www.missionmatters.com/author/scott-couchenourPersonalize an experienceThe luxury hospitality space depends on the personalized touch to retain guests.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

The Focus Group with Sarah Longwell
S4 Ep11: Quarter-Life Crises (with Peter Hamby)

The Focus Group with Sarah Longwell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2023 48:57


Democrats need young voters on-side to win in 2024...so how is Gen Z feeling about the future of the country, and their leaders? What do young progressives and conservatives think about each other? Peter Hamby of Puck News joins Sarah to check in with a cross-section of young voters. show notes Peter's: https://puck.news/biden-gen-z-and-the-illiberal-left/ https://puck.news/bidens-youth-serum-shortage/ The Nineties by Chuck Klosterman

Am Oliventisch
#167 Sinneskrise dank der 30?

Am Oliventisch

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2023 37:47


Die große 30 macht vielen Problemen, doch für uns war das alles andere als schlimm 30 zu werden. Oder doch nicht?

Drinks First
40 - Quarter Life Crises, Intentional Dating, and Being Good in Bed

Drinks First

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 62:11


This week our guest (F, 27, Bi, Nolita) and I talk about how dating changes after 25, which dating apps are worth our time, what makes someone good in bed, and giving people outside our norms a chance.To match with our guest, please go to @drinks.first on instagram or flow.page/drinksfirst

Rare with Flair
74. a quarter-life fashion crisis

Rare with Flair

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2023 57:11


Case + Cass give an update on how their personal style has evolved over the past three years and some new pieces they love

Timeless Spirituality
Ep. 68 - The Legend of the Quarter-Life Funk (ft. Claire Campagna)

Timeless Spirituality

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2023 46:29


Welcome back!! In this episode, Claire Campagna is in the time machine to discuss the quarter-life crisis milestone, and how to use it as a springboard to find purpose and happiness. More importantly, there's a lot of Aquarius energy in this episode, so you know you're in for a fun one! Claire's bio: Claire Campagna is a soul-centered Life Purpose Coach, 200-RYT and astrology + Human Design lover local to Charlotte, North Carolina. Through coaching services, speaking, and writing, Claire helps holistically-minded individuals struggling with existential crises to (re)connect with themselves on a soul level so they can have clarity, direction and a plan to cultivate authentic fulfillment in their lives. Claire spent nearly 7 years as a successful Consultant in corporate America before being launched into coaching as a result of her own quarter-life crisis. She loves consciously connecting with others, learning and teaching about self-discovery, and is passionate about inspiring as many people as possible to nurture their soul connections so that they can experience authentic fulfillment and purpose. Links: https://www.clairecampagna.com/ where you can access the free "Tips for Soul Connection" download https://www.instagram.com/claire.campagna/

The Bike Shed
391: Learn with APPL

The Bike Shed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 40:45


Stephanie went to her first WNBA game. Also: Bingo. Joël's new project has him trying to bring in multiple databases to back their ActiveRecord models. He's never done multi-database setups in Rails before, and he doesn't hate it. Stephanie shares bits from a discussion with former Bike Shed host Steph Viccari about learning goals. Four elements stood out: Adventure (try something new) Passion (topic) Profit (from recent learnings) Low-risk (applicable today) = APPL Stephanie and Joël discuss what motivates them, what they find interesting vs. what has immediate business value, and how they advocate for themselves in these situations. They ponder if these topics can bring long-term value and discuss the impact that learning Elm had on Joël's client work. Elm (https://elm-lang.org/) Practical Object-Oriented Design in Ruby (https://www.poodr.com/) Design Patterns in Ruby (http://designpatternsinruby.com/) Quarter Life (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/579928/quarterlife-by-satya-doyle-byock/) Working Iteratively (https://thoughtbot.com/blog/working-iteratively) Transcript: JOËL: Hello and welcome to another episode of The Bike Shed, a weekly podcast from your friends at thoughtbot about developing great software. I'm Joël Quenneville. STEPHANIE: And I'm Stephanie Minn. And together, we're here to share a bit of what we've learned along the way. JOËL: So, Stephanie, what's new in your world? STEPHANIE: All right, I have a new-new thing and an old-new thing to share with you today. So the new-new thing is that I went to my first WNBA game [laughs] last week, which is also my third professional sports game ever, probably. I am not a sports person. But a rather new friend of mine invited me to go with her because they are fans, and so I was like, yeah, sure. I'll try anything once. And I went, and I had a great time. It was very exciting. I mean, I know the basic rules of basketball, right? Get the ball in the hoop. But I was very surprised to see how fast-paced it was. And, you know, I was like, wow, like, this is so much fun. There's so much going on, like, the music, you know, the crowd. It was very energizing. And then my friend actually told me that that was a pretty slow game, [chuckles] relative to how they normally go. And I was like, oh, wow, like, if that was slow, then I can't wait for a real competitive [laughs] game next time. So that's my new-new thing. I had a good time. Will do it again. I'm just, like, a 15-minute bike ride from the stadium for our team in Chicago. It's called The Sky. That's our WNBA team. So yeah, I'm looking forward to being basketball Stephanie, I guess. [chuckles] JOËL: That's really cool. How does the speed compare to other sports you've gone to see? STEPHANIE: I think this is why I was interested because I've really only seen baseball, for which I know very little. And that, I think, is, like, a much slower-paced kind of sport. Yeah, I have some memories of going to, like, college football games, which also, like, quite slow. I just remember standing around for a while. [laughs] So I think basketball might be the thing for me, at least in terms of engaging my interest. JOËL: You want something that actually engages you with the sport the whole time. It's not just a social event themed around occasionally watching someone do something. STEPHANIE: Yes, exactly. I also enjoyed the half-time performances, you know, there was just, like, a local dance team. And I thought that was all just very fun. And, yes, I had a lot to, you know, just, like, point to and ask questions about because there was just so much going on, as opposed to sitting and waiting, at least that was my experience [laughs] at other kinds of sports games. As for the old-new thing, now that it's summer, there is a local bar near me that does bingo every week. But it's not just normal bingo. It's called veggie bingo, which I realize is kind of confusing [chuckles] if you just, like, call it veggie bingo, but it's bingo where you win vegetables or, like, produce from local community gardens and other, you know, small batch food items. And I had a great time doing it last year. I met some new friends. It just became our weekly hangout. And so I'm looking forward to doing that again. And, I don't know, I'm just glad I have fun things to share about what's new in my world now that the weather is warm and I'm doing stuff again. I feel like there was one point in the winter where I was coming [chuckles] onto the show and sharing how I had just gotten a heated blanket in the middle of winter, and that was the most exciting thing going on for me. So it feels good to be able to bring up some new stuff. JOËL: Seasonality is a thing, right? And, you know, there are rhythms in life. And sometimes things are more fast-paced, sometimes they're a bit slower. That's really exciting. Did you take any produce home, or did you win anything when you went to play? STEPHANIE: I did. I won a big bag of produce the last time that I went. At this point, it was last season. But it was right before I was about to go on vacation. So I ended up -- JOËL: Oh no. STEPHANIE: [chuckles] Right. I ended up not being able to, you know, keep it in the fridge and just giving it away to my friends who did not win. So I think it was a good situation overall. That's my tip, is go to bingo or any kind of prize-winning hang out as a group, and then you can share the rewards. It's very exciting. Even if you don't win, you know, like, probably someone else at your table will win, and that is equally fun. JOËL: I think the closest I've been to that experience is going to play, like, bar trivia with some friends and then winning a gift card that covers our dinner and drinks for the evening. STEPHANIE: Yeah, yeah, that's great. I used to go to a local trivia around me too. The best part about bingo, though, is that it requires no skill at all. [laughs] I, yeah, didn't realize, again, how into these kinds of things I would be until I just tried it out. Like, that was...bingo is another thing I don't think I would have internally decided to go do. But yeah, my friends just have all these great ideas about fun things to do, and I will happily join them. So, Joël, what's new in your world? JOËL: So I've recently started a new client project. And one of the really interesting things that I've been doing on this project is trying to bring in multiple databases to back our ActiveRecord models. This is a Rails app. I've never done multi-database setups in Rails before. It's been a feature since Rails 6, but this is my first time interacting with that system. And, you know, it's actually pretty nice. STEPHANIE: Really? It ended up being pretty straightforward or pretty easy to set up? JOËL: Yeah. There's a little bit of futzing around you have to do with the database YAML configuration file. And then what you end up doing is setting up another base class for your ActiveRecord models to inherit from. So, typically, you have that application record that you would inherit from for your primary database. But for other databases, if you want a model to be backed by a table from that system, then you would have a separate base class that all of those models inherit from, and that's pretty much it. Everything else just works. A bunch of your Rake tasks get a little bit different. So you've got to, like, configure your setup scripts and your test scripts and all that thing a little bit differently. But yeah, you can just query, do all the normal things you do with an ActiveRecord model, but it's reading from a different database. STEPHANIE: That's really cool that it ended up being pretty painless. And I'm thinking, for the most part, as a developer, you know, working in that kind of codebase; maybe they don't really need to know too much about the details of the other databases. And they can just rely on the typical Rails conventions and things they know how to do via Rails. Do you suspect that there might be some future where that might become a gotcha or something that someone has to debug a little further because of the multi-database setup? JOËL: There are some infrastructure things, but I think I'm handling all of them upfront. So like I said, configuring various setup scripts, or test scripts, or CI, that kind of thing to make sure that they all work. Once that's all done, I think it should pretty much just work. And people can use them like they would normal ActiveRecord models. The one gotcha is that you can't join models across two different databases. You can't use ActiveRecord to write a query that would try to join two tables that are in different databases because the SQL won't allow for that. So, if you're ever trying to do something like that or you have some kind of association where you're trying to do some special join, that would not work. So, if somebody attempts that, they might get an unexpected error. Other than that, I think it just keeps working as normal, and people can treat it more or less as if it's one database. STEPHANIE: That's interesting. How do you model relationships between tables on the two different databases, then? Like, how would that work? JOËL: I've not gotten that far yet. For some things, I imagine just it's two queries. I'm not sure if the ActiveRecord associations handle that automatically for you. I think they probably will. So you probably can get away with an association where one model lives in one database. Let's say your article lives in one database, and it has many comments that live in a different database. Because then you would make one query to load the article, get the article ID, and then you would do another query to the second database and say, hey, find all the comments with this article ID, which is already, I think, what ActiveRecord does in one single database. It is making two queries. It's just that now those two queries are going to be two different databases rather than to a single one. STEPHANIE: Interesting. Okay. I did think that maybe ActiveRecord did some fancy join thing under the hood. And when you mentioned that that wouldn't be possible when the two tables are on different databases, I was kind of curious about how that would work. But that makes sense. That would be really cool if it is, you know, that straightforward. And, hopefully, it just doesn't become too big of an issue that comes back to haunt someone later. JOËL: Right. So pretty much, if there is a situation where you were relying on a JOIN, you will now have to make two separate queries and then combine the results yourself. STEPHANIE: Right. I also want to give you kudos for doing all the good work of setting it up so that, hopefully, future developers don't have to think about it. JOËL: Kudos to the Rails team as well. It's nice to have that just kind of built into the framework. Again, it's not something I've needed in, you know, a decade of doing Rails, but then, you know, now that I have run into a situation where I need that, it just works out of the box. So that's been really nice. So, a couple of weeks ago, we talked about the fact that we were going through review season and that we had to fill out reviews for ourselves then also fill out peer reviews for each other. You had brought up a really interesting conversation you had about reaching out to other people and trying to get feedback on what kind of review or feedback would be helpful for them. STEPHANIE: I did, yeah. Though, I think in this case, the person writing that feedback actually reached out to me, but certainly, it goes both ways. Spoiler alert - that person was Steph Viccari, former [laughs] host of The Bike Shed. JOËL: So Steph also reached out to me with similar questions. And that spawned a really interesting conversation around personal goals and what it looks like, particularly when it comes to what to learn next in technology. We started discussing things, and I listed out some different things that I was interested in. And then just kind of out of nowhere, Steph just pulls out this, like, oh, I noticed these four elements. And I'm going to list them out here because it's really cool. So these four elements were adventure, so trying something new. Passion, so something that's really exciting to you. Profit something where you can leverage some recent things that you've done to get more value out of some work you've already done. And then finally, low risk, something that would be applicable today. And it just kind of turns out that this makes a funny little acronym: APPL. And apples are often a symbol of learning. So that was kind of a fun coincidence. STEPHANIE: I love when someone is able to just pull apart or to tease out pieces of, you know, something that you might have just, like, kind of dumped all of into a message or something, and then to get, like, a second eye to really pick out the themes is so valuable, I think. And I'm obsessed with this framework. I think we might have come across something new that could really be helpful for a lot of other people. JOËL: It's definitely...I think it shows capacity for a higher level of thinking when someone's able to just look at a bunch of concrete things and say, wait a minute; I'm seeing some larger themes emerge from what you're talking about. And I always really appreciate it when I'm having a conversation with someone, and they're like, "Hey, I think what I'm hearing is this." And you're like, "Whoa, you're totally right. And I did not even know that that's where I was going." STEPHANIE: Absolutely. I'd love to go through this acronym and talk about a few different things that we've learned in our careers that kind of correspond with each of these elements. JOËL: Yeah, that sounds great. So I think, you know, the first one here is adventure, trying something new. So, what's something where you tried something new or adventurous that you think was worthwhile? STEPHANIE: Hosting this podcast. [laughs] It was a huge adventure for me and a really big stretch, I think. And that's what the idea of adventure evokes for me is, like, maybe it's uncharted territory for you, and you might have some reservations about it. But, you know, obviously, the flip side of an adventure is how fun and exciting and just new and stimulating it can be. And so I think, yeah, like, when I first started doing this with you, and even when you first asked me, I was pretty nervous. I was really hesitant. It took me a long time to, you know, think it over. I was like, do I want to commit to something that I have never done before, and it's, like, a pretty longer-term commitment? And I'm really glad I did it. It's certainly been an adventure. It's, you know, got its ups and downs. You know, not every week do I feel like that went really well, like, that was a great episode. Sometimes I'm like, that was just an okay episode, [laughs] and, you know, that's fine too. But I feel like this was really important in helping me feel more confident in sharing my technical opinions, helping me feel more comfortable just kind of, like, sharing where I am and not feeling like I should be somewhere else, like, some other level or have already known something. Like, the point is for us to share the journey week by week, and that was something that was really hard for me. So being on this Bike Shed adventure with you has been very valuable for me. JOËL: Yeah, it's sharing these new things we've learned along the way. STEPHANIE: Literally. Yes. What about you? Do you have something adventurous that you learned? JOËL: I think an important inflection point where I tried something new was when I learned the Elm programming language. So I had mostly done procedural languages back in the day. And then I got into Ruby, did a lot of OO. And then I got into Elm, which is statically-typed, purely functional, all these things that are kind of opposite of Ruby in some ways. But I think it shares with Ruby that same focus on developer happiness and developer productivity. So, in some ways, I felt really at home. But I had to learn just a whole new way of programming. And, one, it's cool. I have a new tool in my belt. And I think it's been a couple of years just learning how to use this language and how to be effective with it. But then afterwards, I spent a couple of years just kind of synthesizing the lessons learned there and trying to see, are there broader principles at play here? Are there ideas here that I can bring back to my work in Ruby? And then maybe even are there some ideas here that intersect with some theories and things that I know from Ruby? So maybe some ways of structuring data or structuring code from functional programming where some best practices there kind of converge on similar ideas as maybe some object-oriented best practices, or maybe some ideas from test-driven development converge on similar ideas from functional programming. And I think that's where, all of a sudden, I was unlocking all these new insights that made me a better Ruby developer because I'd gone on an adventure and done something completely out of left field. STEPHANIE: Yeah, absolutely. Do you remember what was hard about that when you first embarked on learning Elm? JOËL: All the things you're used to doing, you just can't do. So you don't have looping constructs in Elm. The only thing you can do is recursion, which, you know, it's been a long time since CS classes. And you don't typically write recursion in Ruby. So I had to learn a whole new thing. And then it turns out that most people don't write recursion. There's all these other ways of doing things that you have to learn. You have to learn to do folds or to use maps and things like that. Yeah, you're just like, oh, how do I do X in Elm? And you have to figure it out. And then maybe sometimes it turns out you're asking the wrong question. So it's like, oh, how do I do the equivalent of a for loop with array indexes in Elm to, like, iterate through a data structure? And it's like, well, kind of here's technically the way you could do that, but you would never solve a problem in that way. You've got to learn a new way of thinking, a new way of approaching problems. And I think it was that underlying new paradigm that was really difficult to get. But once I did get it, now that I have two paradigms, I think it made me a much more solid developer. STEPHANIE: Right. That sounds very humbling, too, to kind of have to invert what you thought you knew and just be in that, you know, beginner's mindset, which we've talked about a little bit before. JOËL: I think in some ways now being on the other side of it, it's similar to the insights you get from speaking multiple human languages, so being bilingual or trilingual or something like that where instead of just having assumptions about, oh, this is just how language works, because that's how your personal language works, now that you have more than one example to draw on, you can be like, oh, well, here's how languages tend to do things differently. Here's how languages are similar. And I think it gives you a much better and richer feeling for how languages work and how communication works. And similar to having multiple paradigms in programming, I think this has given me a much richer foundation now for exploring and building programs. STEPHANIE: That's really cool. I guess that actually leads quite well into the next element, which is passion. Because once you've tried some new things, you get the information of do I like this thing, or do I not like this thing? And then from there, you know, you gravitate towards the things you are passionate about to get a deeper understanding. And it becomes less about like, oh, just testing out the waters and like, knowing, hey, like, I constantly find myself thinking about this, like, let me keep going. JOËL: Yeah. Or sometimes, it's deciding what do I want to learn next? And you just pick something that's interesting to you without necessarily being like, oh, strategically, I think this is another paradigm that's going to expand my mind. Or this is going to make me, you know, help me get that promotion next quarter, purely based off of interest. Like, this sounds fun. STEPHANIE: That's really interesting because I think I actually came to it from a different angle, where one thing that I think was very helpful in my learning that came just, like, completely internally, like, no one told me to do this was reading books about design patterns. And that was something that I did a couple of years into my career because I was quite puzzled, I suppose, by my day-to-day experience in terms of wanting to solve a problem or develop a feature but not having a very good framework for steps to go about it, or not feeling very confident that I had a good strategy for doing it. It was very, for me, it felt very just kind of, like, throwing pasta to the wall and seeing what would stick. And I was really interested in reducing that pain, basically. And so that led me to read books. And, again, that was not something, like, someone was like, hey, I really think that you could benefit from this. It was just like, well, I want to improve my own experience. And, you know, some of the ones that I remember reading (And this was based off of recommendations from others kind of when I floated the idea.) was, you know, Sandi Metz's Practical Object-Oriented Design in Ruby. Design Patterns in Ruby by Ross Olsen. Those were just, like, purely out of interest. Yeah, I guess I'm curious, for you, what fun and passion look like. JOËL: Yeah, I think one thing that's a really fun side effect of passion learning is that I find that I tend to learn a lot faster and go a lot deeper, or I get more for every individual hour I put into learning just because passion or interest is such a multiplier. Similar to you, I think I went through a time where I was just gobbling up everything I could see on design patterns, and code structure, things like that. Yeah, I've always been really excited about data modeling in general and how to structure programs to make them easy to change while also not putting a high maintenance burden on it, learning those trade-offs, learning those principles, learning a lot of those ideas. I think that desire came out of some pain I felt pretty early on in my programming career, where I was just writing purely self-taught at this point from a few tutorials online. Code beyond a few hundred lines would just kind of implode under the weight of its own complexity. And so, like, I know that professional programmers are writing massively larger programs that are totally fine. So what am I missing? And so I think that sort of spurred an interest. And I've kind of been chasing that ever since. Even though I'm at the point where that is no longer a problem in my daily life, it is still an interest that I keep. STEPHANIE: Yeah. If I were to pull out another interest of yours that I've noticed that kind of seems in the same realm of, you know, you can just chase this forever, is working incrementally, right? And just all the ways that you can incorporate that into your day-to-day. And I know that's something we've talked about a lot. But I think that's really cool because, yeah, it just comes from just a pure desire on your own front to, like, see how far you can take it. JOËL: I think you pulled out something interesting there. Because sometimes, you have an interest in a whole new topic, and sometimes the interest is more about taking something I already know and just seeing can I take it to an extreme? What happens when I really go to the boundaries of this idea? And maybe I don't need to go there ever for a client project. But let me put up a proof of concept somewhere and try it out just for the fun of it to see can I take this idea, then push it to an extreme and see does it break at an extreme? Does it behave weirdly? And that is just an enriching journey in and of itself. Have you ever done, like, a...maybe not a whole learning journey but, you know, taken a few hours, or maybe even, like, some time on one of our investment Fridays to just explore some random idea and try it out? And it's like, huh, that was cool; that was a journey. And then maybe you move on to something next week because it's not like a big planned thing. But you're taking a few hours to dig into something totally random. STEPHANIE: I actually think I'm less inclined to do that than maybe you or other folks are. I find the things I choose to spend my time on do have to feel more relevant to me in the moment or at least in my day-to-day work. And I think that actually is another excellent transition into the last couple of elements in the APPL framework that we've now coined. The next being profit or, I guess, the idea of being valuable to you in your job in that moment, I suppose. Or I guess not even in that moment, but kind of connecting what you're learning to something that would provide you value. So I know you were talking about learning Elm, and now you're able to see all of the value that it has provided, but maybe at the time, that was a little bit less of your focus. But for me, I find that, like, a driver for how I choose to spend my time. Often it's because, yeah, for the goal of reducing pain. Being consultants, we work on a lot of different projects, sometimes in different frameworks, or languages, or new technologies. Like, you've mentioned having to, just now, on your new client project learning how to interact with different databases, and it sounds like older software that you might not have encountered before. And I think that ends up falling higher on my priority list depending on the timing of what I'm currently working on is, oh, like, you know, TypeScript is something that has, like, kind of come and go as my projects have shifted. And so when it comes back to working on something using it, I'm like, oh, like, I really want to focus on this right now because it has very clear value to me in the next three to six months, or however long. But I have also noticed that once I'm off of that project, that priority definitely recedes. JOËL: Yeah, I think that plays into that final element as well of the APPL, the low risk things that are applicable today that have value right now. Those tend to be things like, oh, I see that I'm going to be scheduled on a client that needs this technology next month. Maybe I should learn that, or maybe I should refresh this idea or go a little bit deeper because this is something new that I'm going to need. So, at some point, I knew that there was a Python project coming down the line. I was like, okay, well, maybe I'm going to spend a couple of Fridays digging into some Django tutorials and compare and contrast with Rails. STEPHANIE: The low-risk element is interesting to me because I found it to be a challenging balance to figure out how much time to invest in becoming really comfortable in a new technology. I find myself sometimes learning just enough to get what I need to get done. And then other times really feeling like, wow, like, I wish I knew this better because that would make my life easier, or I would just feel a lot better about what I'm doing. And kind of struggling with when to spend that time, especially when there's, you know, other expectations of me in terms of my delivery. JOËL: Yeah, that almost sounds like a contrast between technologies that fall in that low-risk bucket, like, immediately useful, versus ones that fall in the passion bucket that you're interested in taking deeply and maybe even to an extreme. STEPHANIE: That's really interesting. What I like about this list of themes that we've pulled out is that, like, one thing can fall into a number of different categories. And so it's really quite flexible. It actually reminds me of a book that I just finished reading. The book is called Quarterlife. And the thing that stuck out to me the most is the author, who is a psychotherapist; she has basically come up with two types of people, or at least two things, that end up being really big drivers of, like, human motivation and behavior. And that's stability types and meaning types, and the goal is to have a little bit of both. So you may be more inclined towards stability and wanting to learn the things that you need to know for your job, to do well in your role, kind of like we were talking about to reduce that pain, to feel a little more in control, or have a little more autonomy over your day to day and how you work. And then there's the seeking meaning, and when we talked about adventure and passion, it kind of reminded me of that. Like, those are things that we do because we want to feel something or understand something or because it's fun. And ironically, this list of four things has two that kind of fall into each category. And ultimately, the author, she, you know, was very upfront about needing both in our lives. And I thought that was a really cool distinction. And it was helpful for me to understand, like, oh yeah, like, in the early years of my career, I did really focus on learning things that would be profitable, or valuable, or low risk because those were the things that I needed in my job, like, right now. And I am now feeling stable enough to explore the meaningful aspects and feel excited by trying out things that I think I just wasn't ready for back in the day. But it actually sounds like you may kind of have a different leaning than I do. JOËL: That is really interesting. I think what was really fascinating as you mentioned those two sort of types of people. And, in my mind, now I'm immediately seeing some kind of two-dimensional graph, and now we've got four quadrants. And so are we leaning towards stability versus...was it adventure was the other one? Or meaning. STEPHANIE: Meaning, yes. JOËL: So now you've got, like, your quadrant that is high stability, high meaning, low stability, high meaning, like, all those four quadrants. And maybe these four things happen to fall into that, or maybe there's some other slightly different set of qualities that you could build a quadrant for here. One that is interesting, and I don't know how closely it intersects with this idea of stability versus meaning, is how quickly the things you learn become useful. So that low risk, like that L from APPL, those are things that are immediately useful. So you put a little bit of work learning this, and you can immediately use it on the job. In fact, that's probably why you're learning it. Whereas me going off and learning Elm is not because we've got any clients in the pipeline using Elm. It's purely for interest. Is it going to pay off? I think most learning pays off long-term, especially if it helps you build a richer understanding of the different ways software works or helps you have new mental models, new tools for doing things. And so I think, you know, 5, 6, 7 years later, learning Elm has been one of the highest payoff things that I've done to kind of take my coding career to the next level. That being said, I would not have seen that at the time. So the payoff is much more long-term. How do you kind of navigate when you're trying to learn something, whether you want something with a short-term payoff or a longer-term payoff? STEPHANIE: Yeah, that's so interesting. I wonder if there was maybe someone who could have helped you identify the ways that Elm could have possibly paid off. And I know, you know, you're looking back on it in retrospect, and it's easy to see, especially after many years and a lot of deep thinking about it. But kind of referring back to this idea of seeking meaning and that just being important to feeling happy at your job, like, maybe it was just valuable because you needed to scratch that itch and to experience something that would be interesting or stimulating in that way to prevent burning out or something like that. JOËL: Oh, I like that. So the idea that you're learning a thing, not specifically because you're expecting some payoff in the long term but because of the joy of learning, is reward in and of itself, and how that actually keeps you fresh in the moment to keep going on a career that might, you know, last 5, 10, 20, 30 years, and how that keeps you refreshed rather than like, oh, but, like, I'm going to see a payoff in five years where now, all of a sudden, I'm faced with a problem. And I can be like, ah, yes, of course, monads are what we need here. And that's a nice side effect, but maybe not the main thing you look for when you're going for something in that passion bucket. STEPHANIE: Yeah, absolutely. To go back to your question a little bit, I had mentioned that I was wondering if there was someone who could help point out ways that your interests might be useful. And I think that would be a strategy that I would try if I find myself in that conundrum, I suppose, of, like, being like, hey, like, this is really interesting to me. I'm not able to see any super immediate benefits, but maybe I can go find an expert in this who can share with me, like, from their experience, what diving deep into that topic helped them. And if that's something that I need to then kind of justify to a manager or just kind of explain, like, hey, this is why I'm spending my time doing this is because of this insight that I got from someone else. That would be, I think, a really great strategy if you find yourself needing to kind of explain your reasoning. But yeah, I also think it's, like, incredibly important to just have passion and joy in your work. And that should be a priority, right? Even if it's not immediately clear, the tangible or valuable to the company benefits in the current moment. JOËL: And I think what I'm hearing is that maybe it's a bit of a false premise to say there are some things that you follow for passion that only pay off in the long term. Because if you are in it for passion, then you're getting an immediate payoff regardless. You may also get an additional payoff in the long term. But you're absolutely getting some kind of payoff immediately as well. STEPHANIE: Yeah, I think that's true for adventure because knowing what you don't like is also really valuable information. So, if you try something and it ends up not panning out for you, you know, I think some people might feel a little bit disappointed or discouraged. They think, oh, like, they kind of wasted time. But I don't know; I think that's all part of the discovery process. And that brings you closer and closer to, yeah, knowing what you want out of your learning and your career. JOËL: So I'm really curious now. This whole, you know, APPL framework came out of a very random conversation. Is this something that maybe you're going to take into your own sort of goal-setting moving forward? Maybe try to identify, like, okay, what is something adventurous that I want to do, something I want to do for passion, something that I think for profit, and then something low risk? And then maybe have that inform where you put some energy in the next quarter, the next year, whatever timeline you're planning for. STEPHANIE: Yeah, I thought about this a little bit before we started recording. But one very loose goal of mine...and this actually, I think, came up a little more tangibly after coming back from RubyKaigi and being so inspired by all of the cool open-source tooling and hearing how meaningful it was for people to be working on something that they knew would have an impact on a lot of people in their development experience. Having an impact is something that I feel very passionate about and very interested in. And the adventure part for me might be, like, dabbling a little bit into open-source tooling and seeing if there might be a project that I would be interested or comfortable in dipping my feet into. What about you? Do you have anything in the near or long-term future that might fall into one of these buckets? JOËL: So I do have a list of things. I don't know that I will pursue all of them or maybe any of them. But here's my kind of rough APPL here. So something adventurous, something new would be digging into the language Rust. Again, the idea is to try a completely new paradigm, something low-level, something typed, something that deals with a lot of memory, something that does well with concurrency and parallelism. These are all things that I've not explored quite as much. So this would be covering new ground. Something that is a passion, something that's interesting to me, would be formal methods, so I'm thinking maybe a language like TLA+ or Alloy. Data modeling, in general, is something that really excites me. These techniques that I think build on some of the ideas that I have from types but that go, like, to an extreme and also in a slightly different direction are really intriguing to me. So, if there's something that maybe I'm staying up in the evenings to do, I think that might be the most intriguing thing for me right now. Something that might be more profitable, I think, would be digging into the world of data science, particularly looking at Notebooks as a technology. Right now, when I need to crunch data, I'm mostly just doing spreadsheets. But I think there are some really cool things that we could do with Notebooks that come up in client work. I manage to do them when you're with a random command-line script or sometimes with Excel. But I think having that tool would probably be something that allows me to do that job better. And then, finally, something low-risk that I know we could use on a client project would be digging in more into TypeScript. I know just enough to be dangerous, but we do TypeScript all the time. And so, mastering TypeScript would definitely be something that would pay off on a client project. STEPHANIE: I love that list. Thank you for sharing. JOËL: Also, I just want to note that there are only four things here. It doesn't fully spell APPL because there's no E at the end. And so when I see the acronym now, I think it looks like a stock ticker. STEPHANIE: It really does. But I think it's pretty trendy to have an acronym that's basically a word or a noun but then missing a vowel so... JOËL: Oh, absolutely. Time to register that applframework.com domain. STEPHANIE: Yeah, I agree. I also love what you said. You called it a rough APPL. And that was very [laughs] evocative for me as well. And just thinking about an apple that someone has, like, bitten into a little bit [laughs] and has some rough edges. But yeah, I hope that people, you know, maybe find some insight into the kinds of learnings and goals that they are interested in or are thinking about. And using these themes to communicate it to other people, I think, is really important, or even to yourself. Maybe yourself first and then to others because that's how your co-workers can know how to support you. JOËL: That's really interesting that you are thinking of it in terms of a tool for communication to others. I think when I first encountered this idea, it was more as a tool of self-discovery, trying to better understand why I was interested in different things and maybe better understanding how I want to divide up the energy that I have or the time that I have into different topics. But I can definitely see how that would be useful for communicating with team members as well. STEPHANIE: On that note, shall we wrap up? JOËL: Let's wrap up. STEPHANIE: Show notes for this episode can be found at bikeshed.fm. JOËL: This show has been produced and edited by Mandy Moore. STEPHANIE: If you enjoyed listening, one really easy way to support the show is to leave us a quick rating or even a review in iTunes. It really helps other folks find the show. JOËL: If you have any feedback for this or any of our other episodes, you can reach us @_bikeshed, or you can reach me @joelquen on Twitter. STEPHANIE: Or reach both of us at hosts@bikeshed.fm via email. JOËL: Thanks so much for listening to The Bike Shed, and we'll see you next week. ALL: Byeeeeeee!!!!!!! ANNOUNCER: This podcast is brought to you by thoughtbot, your expert strategy, design, development, and product management partner. We bring digital products from idea to success and teach you how because we care. Learn more at thoughtbot.com.

Jason & Alexis
6/2 FRI HOUR 1: Twins, Minnesota Con, expensive ice cream, cheese race and quarter-life crises

Jason & Alexis

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 34:42


The old gray mare she ain't what she used to be after a Twins game. LOL! Local Comic-Con, Minnesota Con, is here this weekend and now's the time to request tickets for "The Jason Show"; Monday is its debut in Chicago! What's the most expensive ice cream and it costs how much?! A woman wins the annual cheese race unconscious. When did we have life crises? Quarter-life? In our 40s? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20s in the 20s
25. Our Quarter Life Crises

20s in the 20s

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2023 60:14


Hi everyone and welcome back to the pod! Emma and I are all over the place in this episode but we get a pass because we are in our quarter life crises (that's how you say crisis plural, right?). Anyways, hope you enjoy this episode! Also please follow us on other platforms where we post most frequently!! Follow us on instagram: 20s in the 20s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/20sinthe20s.podcast/ Emma: www.instagram.com/emma.macrae_/ Gwyneth: www.instagram.com/itsgwyneththomas/ Check out Gwyneth's YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/gwyneththomas/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/twentiesinthe20s/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/twentiesinthe20s/support

Austin Enneagram
EPISODE 43 - Helen Palmer Type 6

Austin Enneagram

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2023


My friend and the founder of the merry band of chainstitching geniuses at Ft Lonesome joins me again to discuss Helen Palmer's chapter on type 6. My take away is that 6s are roving confirmation bias seekers/busters. Finding all the facts to support their ideas or finding all the facts that don't. Also, Kathie's idea of a knight in shining armor might have to be a series for each number. I love it. When I said Russ Hudson had a word for 4s, I meant Claudio Naranjo used the word “vindictive”When Kathie refers to IFS therapy, she is talking about Internal Family Systems therapyThe Jungian podcast we love is called The Salome Institute, led by Satya Doyle Byock (author of “Quarterlife”— an excellent gift for anyone in their 20s).Tim Urban is the author Kathie refers to — he wrote “What's our Problem” and Kathie recommends him on Lex Fridman podcast #360The documentary on the NXIVM cult is called “Seduced”The parable of the farmer is from the children's book “Zen Shorts” by Jon Muthend music is Doubt by Twenty One Pilots

The Femails
A New Approach To The Quarterlife Crisis

The Femails

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2023 36:07


Have you ever thought “I'm stuck. What's wrong with me? Is this all there is? Today's guest, Satya Doyle Byock, hears these refrains regularly in her psychotherapy practice where she works with “Quarterlifers,” individuals between the ages of (roughly) sixteen to thirty-six. She understands their frustration. Some clients have done everything “right”: graduate, get a job, meet a partner. Yet, they are unfulfilled and unclear on what to do next. While society is quick to label the emotions and behavior of this age group as generational traits, Satya sees things differently. She believes these struggles are part of the developmental journey of Quarterlife, a distinct stage that every person goes through which has been virtually ignored by popular culture and psychology. We'll discuss her new approach to a quarterlife crisis, why it matters, and engage with Satya's four pillars of Quarterlife development. Weekly Newsletter Sign-Up: http://bit.ly/37hqtQW Follow Career Contessa: http://bit.ly/2TMH2QP  Quarterlife Book: https://amzn.to/3EwoLhe  Satya Website: https://satyabyock.com/   Episode Perks: For a limited time, get 20% off the entire InsideTracker store when you sign up at insidetracker.com/CONTESSA.     Produced by Dear Media.

Morning Person Podcast
Are You a "Stability" or "Meaning" Type? with Satya Doyle Byock

Morning Person Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2023 42:48


This podcast episode is a companion to “Issue #63: Opening Up About My Quarterlife Crisis.”Four months ago, I began the process of methodically unravelling the life I've spent my entire adulthood building. I moved out of my house into a studio apartment, separated from my husband, and began living with my dog only part-time. The urge to rebuild seemed to come out of nowhere after a decade of following all the rules. It wasn't until I came across Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood by Portland-based Psychotherapist Satya Doyle Byock that I finally felt like I had the diagnostic language to describe what I was going through.Satya argues that midlife crises are happening earlier, during a stage she calls “Quarterlife,” or the first part of adulthood between the ages of sixteen and thirty-six. According to her, this crisis often stems from an imbalance when a quarterlifer is either too much of a “Meaning Type” or a “Stability Type.” People can find themselves anywhere along the spectrum between the two types, but it became immediately clear which category I fell into…Thanks for listening! You can access the original issue here. Get full access to morning person at www.morningpersonnewsletter.com/subscribe

The Quarter Life Happy Hour
S6 E15: The Quarter Life Runs on Dunkin' ft. Molly Gruber

The Quarter Life Happy Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 37:42


Welcome back for another Wednesday! Joining me is Tik Tok and Instagram influencer, Molly Gruber. We first met when she came and interviewed at my job and now she's living her best life out in Florida. Having spontaneously moved out to Florida with her boyfriend, Molly discusses her fears and triumphs during this transition as well as transiting out of her niche as "Dunkin' Girl" on social media.https://instagram.com/quarterlifehappyhour

Hoops Crew
S3E17: The 2023 Super Bowl Spectacular (w/ Joe Ehrenkrantz and Kyra Corradin)

Hoops Crew

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2023 90:18


The Super Bowl is upon us and so we present to you a VERY special episode, with appearances by Adele, Bradley Cooper, Lebron James, and Justin Timberlake. We discuss our guest Joe's history with Philly sports. We then discuss the costume matchup in Kyra's Costume Corner. Other topics include: textiles, throat singing, horse poop, crab poop, and coffee beans that have been pooped. It's the greatest episode yet, and one that you will never forget. Get on in here - it's hoops crew time!18:00 1st Quarter / Life of a Philly Sports Fan

Journalism.co.uk podcast
Avery Anapol, commissioning editor at The Conversation, on engaging younger audiences with academic content

Journalism.co.uk podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2023


Quarter Life is an article series created for people in their 20s and 30s, giving them practical content rooted in research via a new text messaging service

My Quarter Life Crisis
20. The Quarter Life Slump

My Quarter Life Crisis

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2022 62:02


Alt title: Depression & Daddy Issues What do we do when we've "checked all the boxes" in life? How do we find peace in where we're at when we miss aspects of the past or are only looking to the future? Let's discuss. @myquarterlifecrisis.pod @addisoneteaki @caroline.clon

Alternative Music Lyrics Annotated
The Soundtrack of Your Twenties // Quarter Life Crisis

Alternative Music Lyrics Annotated

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2022 40:26


Do you feel like you're "doing everything right" but still feel like something is missing? Or maybe you just turned 23 and feel pressure to grow up and "become an adult".  Today we interviewed rising Nashville artist, Taylor Bickett and Satya Doyle Byock, author of Quarter-Life, to work through these quarter life crisis feelings. This episode was inspired by Taylor Bickett's new song QUARTER LIFE CRISIS. We interview Taylor about her background in music, her rise through TikTok, and of course the emotions and the inspiration behind QUARTER LIFE CRISIS.To answer the questions we both had on working through these quarter-life emotions, I got the chance to interview Satya Doyle Byock,  author of Quarterlife, a book on searching for both meaning and stability in early adulthood. We discuss how our world has been structured for stability, but satisfaction doesn't necessarily mean playing along in a game of life. We walk through finding both meaning and stability, her stick figure exercise (which she discuses in length on NPR's Life Kit), and finding ways to not just "grow up" but round out life. Follow Taylor Bickett on TikTok @taylorbickettmusic and SpotifyFollow Satya Doyle Bycok on Instagram and purchase her book Quarterlife here!(If you want to hear more from Satya and her work, attend her course on dream work starting November 6th)Thank you for Listening!Find us on Instagram @alternativemusic_annotated & TikTok @alternativemusiclyricsKeep up with The Soundtrack of Your Twenties with our playlist updated every episode!

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well
274. Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood with Satya Doyle Byock

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 61:01


If you're trying to figure out how to navigate this whole adulthood thing, and maybe even do some personal growth along the way, we have the perfect episode for you this week! Listen in as Debbie talks with Satya Doyle Byock, Jungian psychotherapist, and author of the book Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. Satya shares her ideas about the struggle to find both meaning and stability in adulthood, and offers ideas for fostering psychological growth. Listen and Learn: Hear Debbie's attempt to "nutshell" all of Jungian psychology in two minutes or less (Jungians everywhere, please forgive her!) Some of the unique aspects of the stage of quarterlife (or early adulthood, typically in the 20s and early 30s), and why Satya loves working with this age group in her clinical practice. Why quarterlife can be a time of "crisis" for some people, and how it can be viewed as an opportunity for psychological growth How the traditional markers of adulthood reflect acquisition culture. How the traditional markers of adulthood reflect acquisition culture. The tension between seeking meaning and stability, and the unique challenges faced by "meaning types" and "stability types" What Carl Jung had to say about the "serpentine path" of self-exploration Why it can be worthwhile to explore the darker, "shadow" aspects of ourselves The four pillars of psychological growth How Jungian and behavioral psychology approaches might have more in common than you realize! (And yes, non-therapist listeners, we know you might not care about this at all!) Resources: Buy the book Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood! Find Satya online at SatyaByock.com and follow her on Instagram @satyabyock. Check out some online salons & seminars on classical Jungian psychology and its current application at SalomeInstitute.com and on Instagram: @satyabyock. Grab your copy of all our favorite books at bookshop.org/shop/offtheclockpsych. Check out Debbie, Yael, and Jill's websites to access their offerings, sign up for their newsletters, buy their books, and more!  About Satya Satya Doyle Byock is a psychotherapist in private practice in Portland, Oregon and the author of Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood (Random House, 2022). Her clinical work and writing focus on how developmental psychology attends to the first twenty years of adulthood, incorporating a depth psychological as well as social justice lens. Rather than just emphasize the search for security and stability in this stage of life, Satya has introduced a framework for an exploration of meaning as well. Satya's clinical work, writing, and teaching are rooted in Jungian psychology, trauma-informed care, and historical research. She teaches online at The Salome Institute of Jungian Studies, which she founded and directs. You can find her at SatyaByock.com and SalomeInstitute.com and on Instagram: @satyabyock. Related Episodes 138. Exploring Existence and Purpose: Existentialism with Robyn Walser 116. Building a Meaningful, Values-based Life with Jenna LeJeune 79. Thriving In Adolescence with Louise Hayes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Think Out Loud
‘Quarterlife' explores the period between adolescence and midlife

Think Out Loud

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 27:35


People who are in the period of their lives between adolescence and midlife, from roughly age 16 to 36, might face anxiety, depression and confusion about the next steps in their lives. Satya Doyle Byock is the author of Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood and a psychotherapist in private practice in Portland. Her book dives into this time in people's lives and how society can better support those experiencing it. She joins us with details about the book.

The Human Design Podcast
#211 Interview with Satya Byock - Quarter Life, Beyond the Crisis

The Human Design Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2022 72:00


In this episode, I'm joined by such a facinating and interesting guest, Psychotherapist and author of Quarter Life - The search for self in early adulthood. (If I'd had this book back when I was 28… wow so powerful!!) Satya is a Pure Generator 4/1 and is so on-purpose with her aligned life. I absolutely loved her book and this incredible conversation too. I found reading this book made so much sense and explained why I'd behaved in specific ways in the past. I trust that you'll get some absolute gems in todays episode, I know I did!Big Love, Mxx------Body Graph Chart's details:Instagram @bodygraphchartWeb: https://bodygraphchart.com/#a_aid=emmadunwoodyDISCOUNT CODE: humandesignpodcast------Satya's Details:Web SatyaByock.comWeb SalomeInstitute.comBook purchase https://geni.us/quarterlife-book?track=humandesignInstagram @satyabyockHDX Membership https://www.emmadunwoody.com/membershipWant to sponsor the podcast? Apply here for the "Millions of Millionaires" project: https://forms.gle/Hs2MGFSuyRrVKJ116Instagram @the_human_design_coachHuman Design FB Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/285696835929546/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/1386906244772463/Music: Spark Of Inspiration by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

A Phil Svitek Podcast - A Series From Your 360 Creative Coach
Examining Quarterlife Through "Wild" And "Into The Wild" With Psychotherapist Satya Doyle Byock

A Phil Svitek Podcast - A Series From Your 360 Creative Coach

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 48:13


Satya Doyle Byock (@satyabyock) is a psychotherapist and founding director of The Salome Institute of Jungian Studies who recently came out with a book titled Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. I absolutely love her work and its message. In fact, it resonates in my own artistic work. Which is why I thought it'd be fun to invite her and discuss quarterlife through the lens of popular stories. After all, Robert McKee says, "Stories are the creative conversion of life itself into a more powerful, clearer, more meaningful experience." So, using "Wild" and "Into The Wild," we examine the struggles quarterlifers face in our modern society. For some quick context, "Into the Wild" is a 2007 American biographical adventure drama film written, co-produced, and directed by Sean Penn. It is an adaptation of the 1996 non-fiction book of the same name written by Jon Krakauer and tells the story of Christopher McCandless ("Alexander Supertramp"), a man who hiked across North America into the Alaskan wilderness in the early 1990s after graduating Emory University. And "Wild" is a 2014 American biographical adventure drama film directed by Jean-Marc Vallée and starring Reese Witherspoon, with Laura Dern, Thomas Sadoski, Michiel Huisman, Gaby Hoffmann, Kevin Rankin, and W. Earl Brown appearing in supporting roles. The screenplay was adapted by Nick Hornby from Cheryl Strayed's 2012 memoir Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail, which is about a solo backpacking trip Strayed undertook on the trail in 1995 after numerous personal issues had left her life in shambles. And yes, we deliberately chose these because they were popular books that got turned into movies. Plus, they're nonfiction stories. We have a very deep conversation about these subjects and I hope you find it as enlightening and inspirational as I did. So check out this episode and please share your thoughts down in the comment section or hit me up on social media @PhilSvitek. Lastly, for more free resources from your 360 creative coach, check out my website at http://philsvitek.com. RESOURCES/LINKS: -Coach or Consultant Services: https://philsvitek.com/lets-work-together/ -Podcast Services: http://philsvitek.com/podcastservices -Love Market Film: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Market-Amy-Cassandra-Martinez/dp/B09DFS3FTZ/ref=sr_1_14 -Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/philsvitek -Merchandise: https://shop.spreadshirt.com/phil-svitek---360-creative-coach/ -Instagram: http://instagram.com/philsvitek -Facebook: http://facebook.com/philippsvitek -Twitter: http://twitter.com/philsvitek -Financially Fit Foundation: http://financiallyfitfoundation.org -Master Mental Fortitude Book: http://mastermentalfortitude.com -Elan, Elan Book: http://philsvitek.com/elan-elan -In Search of Sunrise Book: http://philsvitek.com/in-search-of-sunrise -A Bogotá Trip Film: https://philsvitek.com/a-bogota-trip/

Modern Day Hippies
Quarter Life Awakening

Modern Day Hippies

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 32:23


Some may say quarter life crisis, well we are in the midst of a quarter life awakening. Both of us have turned 25 and we feel blessed for everything we have. Reflecting on the time we have had on this earth so far of experiences and growth, change is inevitable. Change is the only constant thing that happens in our lives and it is sometimes scary. We are feeling all of the things after living a quarter of our lives -- change, adulting, loving, learning, and growing. And it will keep going ~ Time goes by way too fast - Never stop learning about yourself and the life we live in! We love you Modern Day Hippies

Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
Navigating Quarterlife (Satya Doyle Bock)

Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2022 55:04


“The focus of adulthood has been on stability, just, you know, find a job and don't leave it, find a partner and don't get divorced, have babies, you know, white picket fence, the vision of adulthood has been so wedded to stability that it was hard for me, even in writing the book and sorting this out, to pull them apart, you know, that the understanding full stop is that the goal of adulthood is to gain stability and then midlife, we now understand people have to search for meaning because there wasn't time for that prior. I'm trying to revise that and name what I think all of us have known for a long time, which is that it just doesn't work that way. It's not that easy. And actually, if we aren't finding our own personal sense of meaning in this world, while also working to gain some sense of physical, emotional, relational stability, then there's gonna just continue to be a lot of angst and confusion and pain and, and, you know, all sorts of symptoms resulting from that,” so says Satya Doyle Byock, psychotherapist and author of Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. Satya has dedicated her career to influencing the way developmental psychology views and attends to “Quarterlifers”, or individuals between the ages of sixteen and thirty-six. Her incredible new book draws upon Jungian psychology, social justice advocacy, trauma-informed care, and historical research to provide readers with guideposts for this period of life, which has too long been ignored by popular culture and psychology, she argues.  Some quarterlifers, “stability types” as Satya calls them, have done everything “right” by society's standards, yet remain unfulfilled and unclear on what to do next. “Meaning types”, at the other end of the spectrum, are not interested in the prescribed path, but feel as though they are drifting through life directionless. Some don't want to participate in life at all. Our conversation explores this spectrum of being, setting to untangle the messy, uncharted path to wholeness as we engage with Satya's four pillars of Quarterlife development, a powerful toolkit for young adults looking for a way through their psychological and existential crises. We talk about the cultural hazing cycle, young adults' devotion to parental expectations, and the importance of developing our discernment muscle. So whether you are a young adult, or are simply seeking to understand the struggles of a generation, I hope our conversation leaves you eager to explore the ever-evolving balance between stability and meaning.    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: Meaning types vs. stability types…  Stuck in ambivalence.. Developing discernment… MORE FROM SATYA BYOCK: Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood Are You a Meaning Type or Stability Type? — Take the Quiz Satya's Website The Salomé Institute of Jungian Studies Follow Satya on Instagram To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

All Of It
Navigating Your Quarterlife

All Of It

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 25:26


The years between adolescence and middle age can be some of the trickiest to navigate, especially in a modern world filled with uncertainty about the stability of the future. Psychotherapist and author Satya Doyle Byock has written a new book about this stage, which she defines as the "quarterlife" period from ages 16 to 36. She joins us to discuss the book, titled Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood, and take calls from listeners.

This Is the Author
S7 E33: Simran Jeet Singh, Maya Payne Smart, and Satya Doyle Byock

This Is the Author

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 16:21


S7E33: In this episode, meet executive director for the Aspen Institute's Religion & Society Program Simran Jeet Singh, parent educator and literacy advocate Maya Payne Smart, and writer and psychotherapist Satya Doyle Byock. Press play to hear the authors describe the journeys they each took that led them to writing their audiobooks. Enjoy! The Light We Give by Simran Jeet Singh: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/623324/the-light-we-give/ Reading for Our Lives by Maya Payne Smart: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/670701/reading-for-our-lives/ Quarterlife by Satya Doyle Byock: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/579928/quarterlife/

Carl Jung's Red Book + Astrology
Bonus - Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood

Carl Jung's Red Book + Astrology

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 8:07


Satya Doyle Byock, co-host of this podcast, has a new book out with Random House, Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. In this Bonus episode, Satya introduces the book to listeners and reads a short excerpt from Chapter 2.  Quarterlife is the book that Satya needed in her 20s and that she's been looking for since for her clients. As a psychotherapist, Satya has focused on the stage of early adulthood—what she calls Quarterlife—and the need for a Jungian lens for that population.  Learn More: Book: Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood Visit: satyabyock.com

SuperMamas
Episode 319: Keeping it Real with the Super Mamas: Paulina's Quarter Life Tune-Up

SuperMamas

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 53:27


You're probably wondering what is a quarter life tune up is. We often talk about self-care for moms, taking care of your mental health making time to do things you love, but what about our physical health? This week, Paulina talks about what's going on inside her body and the recent feelings that have made her focus on taking care of herself in all ways. Her personal version of tuning herself up. We also talk about the emotions we have felt over the last few weeks, especially with all the tragic events going on in the world. We have been “feeling our feelings”, as we explain during the episode, and we realize that we all have a different healing process. For full notes, visit http://supermamas.com Like us on https://www.facebook.com/supermamaspodcast/ Double tap on https://www.instagram.com/_supermamas/

Conversations with a Wounded Healer
190 - Satya Doyle Byock - Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood

Conversations with a Wounded Healer

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 56:33


Here's a hot take for you: The teachings of a privileged white dude from the past can help us sort through our modern existential crises. OK, in the world of Jungian psychology, my pithy opening salvo is far from controversial; it's indisputable. One of the folks translating Carl Jung's classic analytical foundation into a contemporary application is Satya Doyle Byock, LPC.  At The Salomé Institute of Jungian Studies, Satya and faculty provide online salons and seminars that delve into the power of Jung's work to heal complex personal and societal issues. In addition to hosting the Institute's podcast, Satya is about to release Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood, a much-needed guide for bridging the gap between adolescence and mid-life.  “There's kind of this whack-a-mole game of social justice where it's like there's a never-ending number of problems and pains and sufferings, and it's so exhausting,” she says. “When I found Jung's psychology, It really spoke to me from a feminist and anti-racist perspective.” Even if you “don't know” Jung, you know Jung. He coined the idea of the “introvert” and “extrovert” personalities, archetypes, and the power of the unconscious––a fundamental aspect Satya wants to rescue from the patriarchy's toxic clutches.  GUEST BIO Satya Doyle Byock, LPC, is a psychotherapist in private practice, the director of and teacher at The Salome Institute of Jungian Studies, and the author of the forthcoming book "Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood," to be published by Random House July 26, 2022 For full show notes, resources, and links to connect with our guest, visit: http://www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast *** Conversations with a Wounded Healer is a proud member of @mhnrnetwork. Let's be friends! You can find me in the following places... Website: www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WoundedHealr/ https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartTherapy/ Instagram: @headhearttherapy Twitter: @WoundedHealr @HeadHeart_Chi

The Oil Check
EP 58: Worms, UFC, and Quarter life crises.

The Oil Check

Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 45:47


This week there isn't much UFC so we discuss a wide variety of topics from skin diseases, and dying alone.contact:theoilcheck@gmail.com

The Space Beyond Scarce
Episode 19: Finding Meaning and Stability in Quarterlife

The Space Beyond Scarce

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2022 56:14


Kate talks with Jungian psychotherapist and founder of The Salome Institute, Satya Doyle Byock. They discuss Satya's new book, Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. Their conversation gets into: -Balancing the need for meaning and the need for stability in Quarterlife and beyond. -Jungian perspectives on finding wholeness by confronting our shadow. -How scarcity mindset shows up for those who seek stability vs. those who seek meaning. And much more! Pre-order Satya's book HERE, and check out her work at the Salome Institute HERE. Go HERE to learn more about Kate's current offerings or to sign up for her weekly newsletter.

The Quarter Life Happy Hour
S4 E21: “Happy to Be Here in the Quarter Life” w/ Kate

The Quarter Life Happy Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 64:00


2 years ago, the pandemic shook up the entire world and I threw myself into podcasting. Today, I've aired 4 seasons of “The Quarter Life Happy Hour” on streaming platforms, met a bunch of amazing people on the way, strengthened friendships, learned so much from strangers, grew as a public speaker, and gained the right amount of confidence to bash on my ex boyfriends. :)Happy Two Year Anniversary to my passion project! Here's to many more chaotic years exploiting my life for the love of entertainment. I have “Happy to be Here” host, Kate back this week to reflect on the last year of the show, what we've learned, favorite moments, episodes, and guest stars, and of course, what's next for the 1/4 life crisis.Thank you guys so much for listening and supporting me. I'm forever grateful. Let's keep the crazy going!Season 5 airs April 20th!!!

Really Important Fictional Things
Find Your People (Web Series)

Really Important Fictional Things

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 83:33


See full show notes HERE.This week we give an update on what we watched last week (it's a funky mix), dive into the creation and wonder that is web series from the mid 2000s, and then look at the newest movies added to all streaming services. The web series we chat about are The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo, Quarterlife, Broad City, Awkward Black Girl.Next week, we're going to be talking about Licorice Pizza. It's in theaters now if you want to see it (we recommend the theater experience for this one if you're comfortable doing so right now). If not, it isn't a very spoil-able movie and we have a lot of thoughts either way.

Timeless Spirituality
Ep. 4 - Revelations of the Quarter-Life Funk (with Rachel Alyce)

Timeless Spirituality

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 54:10


Time Travelers, welcome back!! In this week's episode, Rachel recalls a Victorian life where she was "the help" who was having an affair with the man of the house, and another scene where she was projected forward into the future of her current incarnation.  Rachel Alyce is a spiritual author and business coach helping women to grow their spiritual business. She is also the author of The Quarter-Life Funk: Get Your Shit Together & Manifest an Abundant Life. Rachel shares her journey of her Saturn Return, spiritual awakening and manifestation journey. In this book she shares the real truth on how to manifest.  Website: www.rachelalyce.co IG: @rachelalyce.co

Food For Worms Podcast
Episode 34 | ”Quarter Life Infinite Crisis / Top 5 Villains”

Food For Worms Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 82:05


This week your protagonists at the Food For Worms Podcast discuss how life can come at you fast, and decided to switch it up and do a Top 5  Villains list.  If you listen intently, you'll hear Darien clearly throwing the assignment to the wind… villain material? Who's to say? *looks into camera* *winks*.   Submit Anonymous Topic & Questions: https://bit.ly/FFWGRABBAG   This episode of the Food For Worms Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Use our referral link and get 10% off your first month of BetterHelp at: https://betterhelp.com/foodforworms    #Sponsored Find us on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Stitcher or wherever you get your podcasts.  You'll find us on most socials at: @foodforwormspodcast, @legendarien & @noshirt_noshoes_ Inquiries: foodforwormspodcast@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/food-for-worms-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/food-for-worms-podcast/support