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This week's conversation with Sarah Kerr invites you to broaden your perspective on death, shifting toward a soul-centered understanding. We talk about the role of archetypes: what are they, and why do they matter? In particular, we delve into the Archetype of the Deathwalker. As Sarah notes, “We are creatures of narrative. Everything in our world makes sense to us because we tell ourselves a story about it.” This leads us to consider the dominant cultural narrative around death, and how that story shapes our experiences. Could a new/old healing story emerge – one rooted in the journey of the soul – that would better serve the dead, the dying, and the living? instagram.com/sacreddeathcare
Kyle takes Josh through the Babylon 5 Season 1 episode "Deathwalker" If you want to hear Kyle's original episode on this episode of Babylon 5, you can find it here --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kyle-scher/support
This podcast episode is sponsored by Ritual + Shelter. Are you looking for a magical place to shop and hold space? Check out Ritual+Shelter online or in Homewood, Alabama. Browse through their bookshelves, which cover topics such as Energy Healing, Reiki, Chakras, Auras, Accessing the Akashic Records, Shadow Work, Astrology, and Earth-Based Healing. You can also find herbal teas and tinctures alongside crystals and oils to help establish a mindful mindset and fluid ambiance before meditation, ritual work, and reflection. Ritual+Shelter is dedicated to providing one-on-one, in-depth conversations with customers to help them find the most efficient healing methods and resources that match their unique interests and energy. They offer Tarot sessions, Reiki, sound bowl, and Crystal healing. Visit ritualshelter.com to book an appointment and bring peace back to the body, mind, and spirit. It's been an unexpectedly intense week. How perfect that the topic of today's episode is about spiritual, cultural, and the ancestral aspects of aging and dying. I lost a dear friend who was like an adoptive mother to me. My life went on pause.. no podcast.. no blog. Many people don't know this about me.. part of the work I do is in helping the soul through the transition into death, preparing the body for burial and helping the family as well. When it is someone close to you, the work can be harder. Although it does hold great honor to serve at this stage of life. So I took the week to offer the rituals, the ceremony, to help the family, and to mourn. My Aunt Micky as she was know to the entire community, also left me a gift, a gift in the reflection of my work back to me and how important it is for me to talk about this work and bring the conversation forward. We are at a time in humanity that is asking us to understand this cycle of life for death is a part of it. As we discuss in this episode, how we live is how we die. Having a spiritual practice can help you throughout your life to understand your soul, how you work through traumas, and what you choose to carry forward. Being a spiritual mentor allows me to live my purpose and do this work. I wanted to offer another glimpse into the mentoring that I offer. My student, Summer, came to me with huge gifts. Gifts she didn't understand, which made it hard for her to trust her abilities. She is also highly empathic and was taking on so much more energy from others than she needed to ... let's listen to what Summer has to say.
We talk with Zenith Virago, a highly respected celebrant, educator, public speaker and author and self-proclaimed Deathwalker. She is the founder of the Natural Death Care Centre and was named Byron Bay's Citizen of the Year in 2021 in recognition of her important work.Links:Zenith Virago, Deathwalker TrainingNatural Death Care CentreZenith on TEDx Want more? Check out our exclusive Patreon episodes here.Transcript of this episode is here.Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/iwatfDoubting your beliefs? Have questions about changing or leaving your faith? You are not alone and Recovering from Religion is here to help. Please visit: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
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By MID, you've likely lived through some loss. You know grief has no time for fancy words and clever jokes. In fact, it hasn't a lot of time for words, full-stop. It's a full-body experience that can change you on every level. No-one wants to talk about death, except for our guest: interfaith minister, author and death-walker Dr Jackie Bailey. Jackie has experienced a great deal of loss, and she spends her life walking others through it, helping people prepare for it, and acknowledging it when it happens. And if you think that makes for a depressing interview, you'd be wrong. Jackie is insightful, wise and funny, full of both practical and emotional support for the grieving. She's the perfect person to help us through the hard parts. Welcome to MID, Episode 6: GRIEF. Links for Jackie Bailey: Jackie's tips on writing a eulogyRead Jackie's eulogy for her mum hereYou can buy a copy of Jackie's beautiful book hereHelpful links mentioned in the show: Advanced care planning websiteA link to a printable advanced care directive wallet card hereThe list of questions you can ask someone incase they become non-responsivePalliative care help here. THE END BITS: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au Follow us on Instagram @MidbyMamamia or sign up to the MID newsletter, dropping weekly here. Want to go in the running to win a $50 voucher? Answer this short survey. CREDITS: Host: Holly Wainwright Executive Producer: Talissa Bazaz Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On this episode, Sean and Nick sit down with the incredible Brooke Przystal, owner of the Wildwood Sanitorium, Public Speaker, CEO of Wildwood Holistics and can be seen on Paranormal Lockdown and Deathwalker with Nick Groff.
Deathwalker and rites of passage facilitator Aralyn Doiron introduces A Knock on the Door, a journey to aliveness through the mortal portal. Everyone dies, but not everyone lives. In this experiential journey, participants get the opportunity to stand on the threshold of death, surmise about their own demise, and consider what, for them, is standing in the way of living fully.
Magical first New Moon
In this special two-part episode, Kerry Sunderland speaks with three bestselling Australian writers - Marele Day, Briohny Doyle and Heather Rose - about the intersection between grief and spirituality. This conversation was recorded live at the 2023 Byron Writers Festival. Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets.
Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets. In this special two-part episode, Kerry Sunderland speaks with three bestselling Australian writers - Marele Day, Briohny Doyle and Heather Rose - about the intersection between grief and spirituality. This conversation was recorded live at the 2023 Byron Writers Festival.
Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets.
In this special episode of Deathwalker's Guide to Life, Kerry Sunderland speaks with educator, doctor, podcaster and author Hilton Koppe about his remarkable memoir, One Curious Doctor: A Memoir of Medicine, Migration and Mortality. This conversation, which will be presented in two parts over two episodes, was recorded live at Byron Writers Festival 2023. Guest this week is Educator, doctor, podcaster and author Hilton Koppe.
Kerry Sunderland speaks with author Anne Tiernan, who wrote The Last Days of Joy, the bestselling book club pick that explores the aftermath of a suicide attempt and the perils of family secrets.
In the second part of this special episode of Deathwalker's Guide to Life, Kerry Sunderland continues the conversation with UK-based author, broadcaster, and journalist Hayley Campbell about her stunning 2022 book, All the Living and the Dead: A Personal Investigation into the Death Trade. This conversation was recorded live at Byron Writers Festival 2023. Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets.
In this special episode of Deathwalker's Guide to Life, Kerry Sunderland speaks with UK-based author, broadcaster, and journalist Hayley Campbell about her stunning 2022 book, All the Living and the Dead: A Personal Investigation into the Death Trade. This conversation, which will be presented in two parts over two episodes, was recorded live at Byron Writers Festival 2023. This is the first instalment of the two-part show.
Kerry Sunderland speaks with award-winning author Caroline Barron, who wrote Ripiro Beach: A memoir of life after near death and the novel Golden Days, about why it's so important to talk about death with family members, including children.
Kerry Sunderland speaks with author and publisher Iona Winter about suicide bereavement and her new project, the Elixir & Star Press Grief Almanac. Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets.
Kerry Sunderland and Laura Manson consider why each death is a unique undertaking and explore the power of ceremony and ritual. Join Kerry Sunderland for Deathwalkers Guide to Life. A show that explores how thinking and talking about death can help you live a life without regrets.
Being with dying - Kerry Sunderland speaks with celebrant and deathwalker Sacha Horton-Hoogerwerf about what it means to be 'with' someone as they walk towards death, and her desire to support children when family members have a life-limiting illness.
From posing semi-nude for Visible at 60 - the book and exhibition - to writing and performing her own one-woman show at 70, Ro Cambridge leads the way when it comes to unashamedly embracing ageing.
Welcome back to A DREAM GIVEN FORM: A BABYLON 5 PODCAST...Hosts Baz and Luke continue their look back at a season one of Babylon 5 with guest Zach Moore, as they discuss Deathwalker. There's plenty of moral dilemma, evil Sarah Douglas and Kosh being Kosh in this episode...Host / EditorBaz GreenlandCo-HostLuke WinchGuestZach MooreExecutive ProducerTony BlackFind us on Twitter: @ADreamGivenFormWe Made This on Twitter: @wmadethiswemadethisnetwork.comTitle music: Galactic Battles (c) Bonnie Grace via Epidemic Sound
Kerry Sunderland chats with funeral celebrant Pinky Agnew about both her work and her new book, 'This is farewell: readings and meditations on death and dying'
Join Detty and Gaz in another milestone episode we sit down with the silent victim of our jokes and probably biggest reason we've been able to destroy some scenarios with ease... Our friendly Deathwalker Phil, and get his viewpoints on the Deathwalker class and his experience with the shadow pooper of dps goodness..Find us on: Instagram at am_dirt Twitter @UamDirt YouTube @amdirtOr contact us directly at: contact@rollingterribly.com** Please note our episodes may contain spoilers for the game Frosthaven **
Ohhhhhhhh and we thought we were doing so well, but it was inevitable that we were going to get pulled up for rules mistakes and we absolutely welcomed it. We reveal feedback that was given to us and had a little chat about some of it. We dive into scenario 114 which continued the trend of special rule purple boxes and how large they appear to be getting.We discuss this particular scenario a little more than normal towards the end as we feel this was the first scenario to really get us talking about what the game was trying to do.And we praise our Deathwalker on finally cracking the heal meters although the man behind it failed to note any of them down :)Find us on: Instagram at am_dirt Twitter @UamDirt YouTube @amdirtOr contact us directly at: contact@rollingterribly.com** Please note our episodes may contain spoilers for the game Frosthaven **
On this episode, Sean and Nick are joined by fellow OWPS Investigator and Bell Mansion volunteer Ricky Hellard, as we take a journey through the career of Nick Groff. Best known for Ghost Adventures and Paranormal Lockdown, his latest foray into the paranormal is the amazing show, Deathwalker with Nick Groff. Join us as we talk beginnings, journeys, family and even get some breaking news that hasn't even been publicly announced yet!
Todays guest is Lee Kirkland. Lee Kirkland is a long time paranormal investigator out of Central Kentucky and has been seen on numerous paranormal television shows and investigated some of the most haunted locations all across America along side some of the most well known researchers and investigators in the field. His been on shows Paranormal Lockdown, Deathwalker and Hometown Horror. Currently Lee travels the country hosting events at haunted locations with his close friend Nick Groff on the Nick Groff Tour, which gives fans a chance to investigate some of the country's most popular and haunted locations with their favorite celebrity investigators. Lee is also the co-owner and Promoter of Cryptid Con: Bigfoot, Monsters and Legends in Lexington, KY. All this, plus Lisa Morton's Ghost Report on "Ashmore Estates" this week on Ghost Magnet with Bridget Marquardt. #Ghosts #UFO #Cryptid #Pennhurst #StanleyHotel #RobertTheDoll #RTD #AshmoreEstates #Cryptozoology #CreepyPeopleManagement
On this exciting episode, Sean and Nick welcome Dan Lafave, High School Teacher and owner of the Olde Park Hotel, who has appeared on numerous shows, including Paranormal 911, Fright Club and Nick Groff's Deathwalker! We hear about his career in the Air Force with a high security clearance, his terrifying encounter with an entity breaching security at an installation and being made an offer that he chose to refuse!
Hello, Tourists! We have a special Haunting Hour segment for you today! We have had the privilege of speaking with famed paranormal investigator, Nick Groff! You may know him as former host and executive producer of Ghost Adventures, who then went on to create Paranormal Lockdown, and is now bringing you his new show, Death Walker. Sit down and have a chat with us as we talk about Nick's new show and his life as a paranormal investigator! Check out Death Walker on the FilmRise TV app available on any smart device, or on YouTube @FilmRiseTrueCrime.Find Nick Groff:Instagram: @nickgroff_Twitter: @NickGroff_Facebook: facebook.com/OfficialNickGroffFollow Death Walker:Instagram: @deathwalkerseriesFacebook: facebook.com/DeathWalkerTVFollow FilmRise TV:Instagram: @wearefilmriseTwitter: @filmrisetvFacebook: facebook.com/FilmRiseTVFind us on our social media!Twitter: @NopevillecastInstagram: @nopevillepodcastFacebook: Nopeville PodcastWebsite: nopevillepodcast.comSupport us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/nopevillepodcastBuy us a coffee! : buymeacoffee.com/nopevilleVisit our Gift Shop: shop.spreadshirt.com/nopevilleThis podcast is sponsored by Spreaker Prime.
RECORDED BY HYPERION (EDDY GUTIERREZ) & ORIGINALLY AIRED 09 / 18 / 2007 Show Highlights: The Unnamed Path is not for everyone - it is a lonely path that requires lots of dedication and deep inner-plane work. Self-Determination empowers the individual to create his place in society instead of allowing society to determine his value. Coming out of the Shaman's closet allows you to live your life freely, honestly and to fully serve as a spiritual leader for your community. Divination techniques for how to determine your area of specialization within the Unnamed Path as a Shaman, Energy Worker, Deathwalker or Magician.
RECORDED BY HYPERION (EDDY GUTIERREZ) & ORIGINALLY AIRED 04 / 23 / 2007 Show Highlights: Exploring unhealthy or dysfunctional attitudes toward death within our society. Why talking about death is important. Step-by-step process that happens at death. Birth, sex and death are the three most powerful magical experiences for humans. Humanity's fate and destiny is to return to the Cauldron of the Dark Mother upon death. The Mighty Dead are able to "cheat fate" and escape the Cauldron of the Dark Mother to remain as Guides in the Underworld, The services that a Deathwalker performs for his community.
'Living well as a practice for dying well' is the subject of deathwalker Zenith Virago's speech on September 23 at the third Death Matters conference in Christchurch. Based in Byron Shire, just north of Byron Bay, Virago is the founder of the Natural Death Care Centre. She has been dubbed a maverick pioneer in working towards cultural change in how we approach death. A deathwalker is someone who accompanies a dying person and their whanau through their journey, something Virago has assisted hundreds of people to do. She is the co-author of The Intimacy of Death and Dying, patron of The Good Funeral Guild in the UK, and the subject of documentary Zen & the Art of Dying.
'Living well as a practice for dying well' is the subject of deathwalker Zenith Virago's speech on September 23 at the third Death Matters conference in Christchurch. Based in Byron Shire, just north of Byron Bay, Virago is the founder of the Natural Death Care Centre. She has been dubbed a maverick pioneer in working towards cultural change in how we approach death.
Two veteran Star Trek podcasters watch Babylon 5 for the first time. Brent Allen and Jeff Akin search for Star Trek like messages in this series, deciding if they should have watched it sooner. In Deathwalker we learn that even the Minbari aren't above petty politics. And we still have references to VCR's?? Catch Us On YouTube For the Full, Unedited Episode: https://www.youtube.com/c/Babylon5FortheFirstTime Follow us on Twitter: @BabylonFirst Website: https://www.babylon5first.com/
What would people pay to live forever? That is one of the questions asked in today's episode discussion. Karen @aleveria Lou @louwsytsma and Jesse @JessejacksonDFW are listening to the music not the song. Please send us feedback at jklb5podcast@gmail.com
This week, we review the season one episode "Deathwalker."Joe loses count of the number of times Franklin wrongly claims that facts right in front of his face are impossible, Mike wonders if Larry D knows anything about the characters he's writing about, while Sarah points out that no, that's not what that word means...Spoiler-free discussion: 0:00:00 - 0:50:18Spoiler Zone: 0:50:18 - 0:54:30Next Episode and other Shenanigans: 0:54:30Music from this episode:"Surf Punk Rock" By absentrealities is licensed under CC-BY 3.0"Please Define The Error" By Delta Centauri is licensed under CC-BY 3.0"The Haunted McMansion" By Megabit Melodies is licensed under CC-BY 3.0"I Got a Hat" By Learning Station is licensed under CC-BY 3.0
Vera Wylde and Jessie Gender take up residence on Babylon 5, taking in one episode at a time. Season 1, Episode 9, Deathwalker - The arrival of a possible war criminal sends the Babylon 5 station into a spiral of tensions on what to do about it.
Deathwalker of Nihil Invocation and Vengeance Sorcery joins us this month on the Podcast. We talk about black metal and more black metal and what we're listening to and how Deathwalker records and what led him to this path and how the backwoods of Connecticut are just as isolated as could be. And more of course - not least of which is the signing of the 2 mentioned bands to Nuclear War Now! Relevant links: https://nihilinvocation.bandcamp.com/ https://vengeancesorcery.bandcamp.com/ https://www.instagram.com/nihilinvocation Music on this episode: Opening: Nihil Invocation "Demighoul (Cancerslug cover)" I'll Take You Onto the Grave Josh: Tim Hecker "Seasick" The North Water (Original Score)(Lakeshore Records) Boy Harsher "Escape" Runner (Soundtrack)(Nude Club Records)(Movie Information: https://boyharsher.lnk.to/TheRunnerOST) Malignant Altar "Rite of Krasue" Realms of Exquisite Morbidity (Dark Descent Records) Rick: HTRK "Straight to Hell" Rhinestones (N&J Blueberries) Anteloper "Ohoneotree Suite" Kudu (International Anthem) Burial "Strange Neighbourhood" Antidawn EP (Hyperdub) Deathwalker: Forest Thrall "Invocation" I (Self-Released) Closing: Nihil Invocation "The War I've Waged to Life and Those Who Cherish" The Valleys Green and Journeys Mourned Vengeance Sorcery "Abyss Realms of Time and Mind " If None Will Call the Devil's Blood... The Redscroll Podcast is a monthly show (new episodes on the first of the month) that works as a companion to what we do at Redscroll Records in Wallingford, CT USA. We are a record store that has a heavy emphasis on the left of center / underground music of the world. Whether it be underappreciated or just has a niche audience, marginalized or just off the radar it's all of interest to us. With the show we'll generally have a localized focus. We'll discuss what is in our personal rotation at the moment. We'll talk to guests who have to do with all of the above. And we'll talk about specific dealings with the store. If you have input you're welcome to contact us through email (redscroll@gmail.com). Oh, and please do subscribe! New episodes on the first of every month! (Subscribe on Android)(Subscribe elsewhere just by searching for us please!)
In this installment of The Podcasting Guild we take a look at the season one episode Deathwalker and try to figure out what society might look like if people did become immortal. Join as we go down the rabbit hole and continue exploring the Babylon 5 universe!
Join Laura and Xhafer, two internet strangers as they get to know each other while making jokes about one of their favorite TV shows from their childhood, Babylon 5.This episode covers Babylon 5's Season 1 Episode 10, Deathwalker.
Learn how to tell if you’ve been called to be a “deathwalker” and how to offer sacred care to others at the end of life. My guest Sarah Kerr has been a death doula, ritual healing practitioner, and trainer since 2012. She draws on nature-based spirituality, sacred sciences, and the richness of the human soul… Continue reading Ep. 328 Sacred Death Care and the Deathwalker Archetype with Sarah Kerr PhD
Na'Toth attacks an alien woman that has just arrived on the station, claiming that she is the Dilgar war criminal Jha'dur, also known as Deathwalker. And Talia is hired by Kosh to oversee some rather strange negotiations. We would love to hear your thoughts and experiences with Babylon 5 over the years, so please email us at theepsilonthree@gmail.com or find us on Facebook as The Epsilon Three. Thank you for downloading and listening. We hope you enjoy the show. If you do, then tell others. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/paul-wright27/message
Welcome aboard the space station Yum Yum 5 in which your intrepid hosts Ryan and Rachel Sliwinski try to re-watch and break down episodes of Babylon 5 without having a breakdown. This week Chatz: A Television Podcast join to discuss “Deathwalker”Remember that Yum Yum is God!COVER ART BY:artlizahhMUSIC BY:MbryoSUPPORT US: patreon.com/yumyumpodEMAIL US:yumyumpod@gmail.comFOLLOW US: Twitter: @YumYumPodcastFacebook: @YumYumPodcastInstagram: @yumyumpodReddit: r/YumYumPodcastLISTEN ON:Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2NbEuaHSpotify: https://spoti.fi/2CjDLSsGoogle Podcasts: https://bit.ly/37NheZPSimplecast: https://bit.ly/2ASPib8RadioPublic: https://bit.ly/30WxQ01iHeartRadio: https://ihr.fm/2VnKBgqStitcher: https://bit.ly/3hIryqFTuneIn: https://bit.ly/3dDzjuPYoutube: https://bit.ly/3dk7tDAChatz: A Television PodcastListen: https://chatzpod.simplecast.com/Follow: @chatzpod
Today's episode unpacks a topic that can be uncomfortable for some of us, but is something that we will all experience. Death. Death is the natural end of life, one certainty that every human being will experience, yet something we are often deeply unfamiliar with and shy away from. My guest today is Zenith Virago, a professional Deathwalker of over 20 years. Zenith is a leader in the field and has pioneered the concept of empowered continual care at the end of life.So what is a Deathwalker? A Deathwalker is a person who walks their own journey towards their death as openly, courageously and as best they can. They also walk with, or accompany someone else in their death journey – whether it's their own, or a loved ones.Zenith joins me today to talk about her own journey through life and places and spaces she navigates daily.You can find out more about Zenith here.
A creepy werewolf war criminal visits Babylon 5 with an offer that is probably too good to refuse. ~PSA~ while we often joke and exaggerate for comedic effect Ben and Steve actually did get sick, and fortunately their illness was quite mild. If you live in a place where it's available, please get vaccinated, and be smart with masks. PSA OVER! Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/lastbestb5 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastbestb5/ Please rate and review us!
Learn the powerful lessons that come from a long career of service to others at the end of life. My guest Zenith Virago is a respected pioneer and acknowledged expert in the fields of holistic death and dying. With over 20 years of experience she provides comfort, information and guidance to assist people through the… Continue reading Ep. 312 The Wisdom of a Deathwalker for Living and Dying Well with Zenith Virago
In this episode, Jacqui explores a very different level of emotional intelligence with Zenith Virago. Zenith is the EO and founding member of the NSW Charity, the Natural Death Care Centre. Co-author of the book The Intimacy of Death and Dying, and subject of the international independent documentary, Zen & the Art of Dying, and patron of the Good funeral guide, UK. Zenith is at the forefront and a leading pioneer of dying well, family led body care, meaningful and appropriate ceremony, and informing and educating communities to reclaim and be empowered before, during and after death. Often seen as a maverick she offers a hybrid of truly traditional ways blended with a more contemporary understanding, encouraging people to take their dying, death, after death care and ceremony back into their own hands and hearts, even in cases of sudden death and trauma. With a legal and community background, she is a seen as a community resource, assisting people to know and reclaim their legal rights, and co-create their own social rites of passage. She has been working towards more holistic cultural change in approaches to better and continual end of life and after death care for well over 25 years. Known as a Deathwalker, an educator and a celebrant, she shares the subtle and obvious layers involved, offering guidance, support and care to inform, enable and empower people to be as informed, open and courageous as they can, and to experience their dying and their loss in the best way they can. Simply, she accompanies and guides people in their losses. https://www.naturaldeathcarecentre.org
In the western world, in my experience, many people have fear around and associated with death and dying. At least this has been my observation. I lost my first husband, Brian, to Melanoma cancer 16 years ago and his passing was far from a celebration of his life. Whilst I am comfortable in the celebration we had at home after his funeral, there are many things that I would change if I could, about the way he passed away. As many people in my community have also witnessed, watching a loved one pass away a slow and painful death, is one of the worst experiences you can go through in life. In this episode I speak with Zenith Virago, who is a deathwalker. She is someone I am thrilled to share with you, in the hope that some elements of what we speak about, help spark a conversation for you with your loved ones. We talk about: · How a deathwalker can help support you in life and in passing · What it means for men to be given the space to show emotion · The difference between a policy and a law · Voluntary assisted death The topic of death is not easy. No-one wants to cause their loved ones grief at the thought of them not being Earthside in a physical capacity. If there is one thing I have learnt from this conversation it is that we have many more choices than we think we do, when it comes to the legalities of our passing, as well as how we want to be celebrated.
Deathwalker S1E9 (20 Apr 94) vs. The Homecoming- The Circle- The Siege S2 E1-3(26 Sep, 3 Oct, 10 Oct 93)-A quick consult of the Babylon Project wiki says the only two major Earth Alliance wars before the series Babylon 5 began were the Dilgar War (2230-2) & the Earth-Minbari War (2245-8), although we later vaguely learn of something called the Canal Wars, which don't sound like a major interstellar war & may've occurred between Earth Alliance & Mars separatists-League of Non-aligned Worlds, according to the Babylon Project wiki, has an average of 14 members, although that often fluctuates, but they are limited to 10 ambassadors w/ a collective single vote (although in Bob's memory it seems like sometimes the League only gets to use their vote as a tiebreaker when there's a deadlock among the 5 major powers) on the Babylon 5 Advisory Council. The entry doesn't give any sense of the League's history prior to it being invaded by the Dilgar in 2230-Frank Langella's roles include Skeletor in Masters of the Universe (1987) & the kindly Soviet spymaster Gabriel in The Americans (2013-8)
Andy and Van break down three more episodes from Season 1: 109 Deathwalker, 110 Believers, and 111 Survivors-- with no spoilers for future episodes, and looking for the best bits and most awesome parts. Believers is one of the most controversial episodes in the entire series; where do the guys come down on it? Do they agree? Tune in and find out! Thanks to all of our patrons for making shows like this possible! We have no advertisers and are entirely supported by our great listeners! The home of this show: http://www.b5review.com/ Be a part of the White Rocket Entertainment family by becoming a patron of the shows: https://www.patreon.com/vanallenplexico Brought to you by White Rocket Entertainment. http://www.plexico.net Follow Van on Twitter: @VanAllenPlexico https://twitter.com/VanAllenPlexico
Andy & Van return to discuss Deathwalker, Believers (one of the most controversial episodes of all), and Survivors--with no spoilers for future episodes, for first-time show watchers! Our B5 show now has its own web site: http://www.b5review.com/ Thanks to all of our patrons for making shows like this possible! We have no advertisers and are entirely supported by our great listeners! Be a part of the White Rocket Entertainment family by becoming a patron of the shows: https://www.patreon.com/vanallenplexico Brought to you by White Rocket Entertainment. http://www.plexico.net
As a Deathwalker or as a Celebrant, I bring a contemporary, natural, holistic awareness to death, ceremony and loss. My work is simple yet sacred. Inside everyone is the courage and capacity needed to be easier with death and dying, we just have to wake it up, remember, become more familiar, and practice it everyday. My work is a holistic hybrid of old and new ways, accompanying those who are dying and their carers, walking with the suddenly bereaved, creating ceremonies that encourage people to really honour their loved ones. a much loved member of the Byron Shire community, is the 2021 Byron Shire Citizen of the Year. Byron Shire Mayor, Simon Richardson, made the announcement at the Council’s Australia Day Awards which were held at the Cavanbah Centre on 25 January 2021. “Zenith has had a profound impact on our community in so many ways and it really is an enormous honour to present her with the Citizen of the Year award,” Mayor Richardson said. “Zenith is a pioneer and leader in her approach to dying; to helping people prepare for death and guiding them, and their families, through the end of life process which is frightening, uncertain and sad,” he said. And luckily, as you said, death can be fun But what I really bring is a familiarity and a willingness to go there. part of what my role has been in the Shire for the last 25 years has to bring a familiarity and normalness to death and ceremony and a range of other things. I'm just doing for others what I would want someone to do for me. I've been very fortunate to have death as a teacher at such a close proximity. And then it would just have its own energy. It will have its own life and death. I'm just showing up, but they are investing into me a trust and a respect that I'm going to be able to support them well, and I'm going to give them the information they need and a range of other things. And that together, that experience is going to be the best it can be. Fortunately death has really given me the opportunity to practise presence, because when you're sitting with someone who's dying and they don't have long to live, and they're looking at you to assist them in some way in that moment. I would say I'm being very present because in that work, I can't hold space for someone who's dying. I can co-create that moment with them because I'm bringing the skills and experience and the wisdom that I have to offer to them, but they are bringing their real life and death situation. Because they're teaching me what it actually means to die and how individual that is and how scary it can be for some people, how resistant they can be. But also how incredibly gracious they can be and courageous. that you're bigger than your body. You're part of the wave, you're part of the ocean. And so those experiences, I think, are very useful practises for dying and death. And part of what people need to do is grow courage to do with death and be bold if you're in any doubt, be bold. Mason Taylor: (57:46) Love it all by the way. I'm going to let you go soon. Before I hear about any other additional information you can tell us about workshops and other offerings and other resources, because I definitely want everyone to be able to get their hands on that. I'm curious, we've talked a lot about that preparation and going and being with people who are in the process of dying, but of course, in the ceremony after there is, I imagine... How do you prepare? Because you're speaking at people's death ceremonies, you said. It's very individual and unique and you could make generalisations. But the simplest one I find is that most people take comfort in the concept that something leaves the body, that the body physically dies, but something lives on and they don't need to put a name to that. I think it's the most useful question for them, for me, and for the people that are going to live on after they die, which is a what do you think will happen when you die? Mason and Zenith discuss: The acceptance of death. Why death is an inside job. Sleep as a practice for death. Crafting a ceremony for death. How facing death enhances life. The many ways we deal with loss. Dissolving the resistance of death. How to support children through death The phenomenon of terminal lucidity. The important practicalities around death. What is a healthy journey of bereavement? The advanced health care plan (The Natural Death Care Centre) Who is Zenith Virago? As a Deathwalker, Zenith is a respected pioneer & acknowledged expert in the fields of holistic death & dying. With over 20 years experience, she provides comfort, information and guidance to assist us through the natural and the sacred, the inner and outer journeying as we come to the transition at the end of our life. With a lightness of being, compassion and integrity she accompanies many people and those that love them, through their final and ultimate experience. Her enthusiastic and empowering approach allow for a richer exploration, whilst assisting people to reclaim their legal rights and their own rites of passage. Zenith has lived and swum in the deep ocean in Byron Bay since 1983 and feels it has been a rich and exciting life, Celebrating life and death, seeing her work as a privilege and an important part of her life’s journey, gives her a deep love and gratitude for the wonderful mystery of which we are all a part. Amongst many other things, Zenith is a grandmother, a para-legal, and the founding member of the non-profit Natural Death Care Centre, and the co author of the Intimacy of Death and Dying. (Allen & Unwin 2009) Resources: zenith virago.com Zenith's Facebook Zenith's Instagram The Natural Death Care Centre Death and After Death Care Plan Q: How Can I Support The SuperFeast Podcast? A: Tell all your friends and family and share online! We’d also love it if you could subscribe and review this podcast on iTunes. Or check us out on Stitcher, CastBox, iHeart RADIO:)! Plus we're on Spotify! Check Out The Transcript Here: Mason: (00:00) Hey, Zenith. Thank you for coming. Zenith Virago: (00:02) You're welcome. Thank you for the invitation. Mason: (00:04) Absolute pleasure. And it's nice to get an in person chat with you in our newly refurbished podcast. Doesn't it look slick? Zenith Virago: (00:13) It's very beautiful. It's very simple, very beautiful. Mason: (00:16) Well, it's still very bare grassroots, but I think I have so much different to me because I just had crap everywhere. So many books and things just lying around. Zenith Virago: (00:32) Simple is good because then you stay focused with the conversation, not distracted by other things, I would say. Mason: (00:41) I'm just going to pause here for a second... I'm really, and we'll come back to the Shire I know you've just been on tour. Zenith Virago: (00:46) Yeah. I've just done a series of workshops in Sydney and Melbourne, and that's been lots of fun. Deaths right up for everybody at the moment. Mason: (00:53) Death is right up in the face. Zenith Virago: (00:55) Yeah. Mason: (00:56) Obviously, in your work and I guess there's a reason why there's a few more women in here at Superfeast that I'm working with that are coming and doing your workshop. Dashana who has worked with us here for quite a while. Danny of course, but obviously there's a lot of resistance to death as always that comes up, but naturally there's a lot of people popping and realising, all right, I'm going to have to look at this in the face. Zenith Virago: (01:27) Yeah. It's absolutely not my experience that people are resistant because I spend most of my time talking to people about death and dying on the telephone, in the street, at the farmer's market, anywhere I go. I think, part of what my role has been in the Shire for the last 25 years has to bring a familiarity and normalness to death and ceremony and a range of other things. And because I'm out and about, it makes me very accessible. And so it's not like you've got to make an appointment. I'm often doing things like this well, on the radio when that's all there was. But now of course, million podcasts and it's great. Zenith Virago: (02:16) And I think actually radio or audio is the best medium because you can be driving your car, you can be sitting at home in the comfort of your own home and comfortable. So your emotional system, your nervous system is relaxed and then you listen to death and it's not so confronting because everything around you is supported. Mason: (02:40) Well, I think when I'm looking at your work and from the way that just meeting you, there's not a confronting tone around death. And everything that jumped out of me reading what you do had a very casual and approachable way of talking about dying well. And that's why it was nice. Zenith Virago: (03:01) Yeah. And really what I've spent most of my death work career doing is I'm just doing for others what I would want someone to do for me. So if I was a dying person, I would want someone who came along with no investment in trying to sell me anything, but was familiar with that journey, the practical journey, the legal journey, the emotional journey. And I would want to have a discussion with them and I would want them to lead it because I don't know where I'm going if you're dying and that's what happens. But often people think, well, they're dying we'll just let them lead the way. But it's already very challenging for them. They're facing up to the reality of leaving the people they love behind. They're looking at a physical decline. They're looking at going into an unknown there's a range of concerns they might have. Zenith Virago: (03:56) And so for them to have someone like me, who can accompany them in that journey with clear advice, and guidance, and humour, and lightness, and respect because I'm not dying. So I won't know what that's like until that's happening to me and the same for the families. So either because someone they love is dying or because someone has died suddenly. And so that's a very different set of circumstances when, especially if it's someone young and that they're killed in a car accident or they've killed themselves, or they've died by misadventure. Sometimes attempting to do something that seems relatively safe, but somehow or other they've died. Zenith Virago: (04:45) And so dealing with families in those situations I just know that when I walk into the door, something in them relaxes and deeply says, "Oh, thank God you've come." But they are managing themselves. So I'm not actually doing anything for them. I'm just showing up, but they are investing into me a trust and a respect that I'm going to be able to support them well, and I'm going to give them the information they need and a range of other things. And that together, that experience is going to be the best it can be. Mason: (05:31) I might go into your energy and presence because I meet a lot of people and not to say that any one way of approaching it or being is better or worse, but I can definitely sense in you a non-intrusiveness, a non-assuming, a confidence, and a collaborative effort nonetheless. Some people come in and they hide their energy from me altogether until they know what I'm about nonetheless. But if I may go with the very local term of holding a space, I can definitely see you've maybe holding it for me but residing in a space. Zenith Virago: (06:12) Well, I'm just being me. But what I do have going is I'm very present. I've learned to be very present because my life experience teaches me that sometimes I'm only going to get something once, like the Dalai Lama, up a mountain, like Ramdas in Hawaii. And if I'm not present, I'm going to miss that moment. But I'm also going to miss the moment where I can take a chance and have a deeper experience because I'm not holding back. So I'm willing to take that risk or seize that moment. And it's like anything that you practise, the more you practise, the better at it you get. You might get a few come a Cropper, but generally it's a bit like telling the truth. The more you tell the truth the better at it you get, you understand how it works in your body, how it works for the other person. Apologies how that works for you and the other person, how it clears things up and you move right along. Zenith Virago: (07:20) But if you don't practise those things, you don't get good at them. And so fortunately death has really given me the opportunity to practise presence, because when you're sitting with someone who's dying and they don't have long to live, and they're looking at you to assist them in some way in that moment. I have to read really quickly what's the best I can offer to them. Because it's not like here's a catalogue tell me what you want. At that stage it's about honing in and using what little energy they've got left to the best of their advantage and not wasting time on superfluous shit. Because time and energy are precious for people who are dying. So I've had some incredible teachers in that field. But what I also see over and over again is how incredible capable people are. Zenith Virago: (08:22) And incredibly courageous they are, either as people who are dying or families who are accompanying that person. And so all I'm doing is walking with them, accompanying them on their journey, but dancing with each individual person in that group to be the best I can be for them and offer them what I would want if I was that person. So if I was a 10 year old kid, if I was a bereaved partner, if I was a teenage person whatever. And it's fun. So I wouldn't say I was holding space. I would say I'm being very present because in that work, I can't hold space for someone who's dying. I can co-create that moment with them because I'm bringing the skills and experience and the wisdom that I have to offer to them, but they are bringing their real life and death situation. Zenith Virago: (09:28) And to think that I might know what they're feeling will be very matronizing of me to do that. So together we're co-creating that experience and the same at the ceremony. So when people come to a ceremony to honour someone who's died and their own feelings about that person and their own life, then what's really important is that I bring my crafting of that ceremony, but they bring their deep love for that person, their emotional response. And we're in that dance together. It's all about giving and receiving. And so the concept is part of what I'm teaching in the training actually, is to dissolve that concept of holding space, because it gets exhausting and it's unsustainable to rather bring a respect to the other people involved and see that you're all journeying together. And that together you will co-create whatever is happening. Mason: (10:40) There's so many things I really love to dive into there. The one thing that, I think, we're diving right into the deep end. And first of all yeah that was like just... And that's I was saying, I was like, "For lack of a better word holding space, and that was beautiful-" Zenith Virago: (10:55) It's a perfect opportunity. Mason: (10:56) It's a beautiful opportunity. Because then you talking about whether it is someone who's holding space and walking this path or a practitioner, it does get exhausting when you hold that space and you hold the obligation for you to look and act a particular way rather than being authentic, but that's a skill. And as you said, you bring a skill. Zenith Virago: (11:17) Yeah. But, well, I bring... I do. Mason: (11:20) Multiple skills. Zenith Virago: (11:21) Thank you. But what I really bring is a familiarity and a willingness to go there. And I can't bring a beginner's mind anymore because I'm not a beginner, but I spend a lot of time with the people who are teaching me. Because they're teaching me what it actually means to die and how individual that is and how scary it can be for some people, how resistant they can be. But also how incredibly gracious they can be and courageous. And some people are even excited. As if they're embarking on a journey. So a few years ago, a guy we did... So 25 years ago we did a coffin making workshop here. And one of the guys made a coffin. There were six people and he made his own coffin. And I hadn't seen him for 20 years. Zenith Virago: (12:23) Anyway, I get a phone call from him and he says, "Zenith, Zenith, I've got my departure date." And I'm like, " What do you mean you've got your depart date?" He said, "I've got this disease and they've told me I've only got three months to live and I really want to get sorted." And I was like, "Okay, great." And so I have to meet people where they're at. And so I sat with him. He was so excited about that but his young children were not excited about that. Mason: (12:56) Fair enough. Zenith Virago: (12:56) But anyway, we all got there together. Yeah. Mason: (12:59) I mean, that's like when you first hear about someone having an orgasmic birth and you go, "Hang on." Being excited about death for me, I can definitely see now after all that I've seen that that's completely... Like, I could imagine, I was thinking about my own death this morning, even before I was very aware of us doing this. And I was thinking about how many practical things would come up in my head. And then when I was reading your work about just doing the legals that I imagined would have the biggest impact, knowing that how worth it is, just prioritising getting all of the legals out of the way and all the practicals. Zenith Virago: (13:45) Yeah. Because it frees that energy out for living whilst you're dying. So this is what I would say quickly, everyone over 18 should have a will. Even if you've got nothing, it's a real hassle for people, especially if you don't have a partner or children, or you're estranged from your parents, then everybody should make a well, just buy the kit from the newsagent and follow those instructions because it's a real hassle for other people to tidy up your loose ends, if you should die suddenly. And if you're unwell or you're caring for someone who is dying, then you should look at filling in an advanced health care plan. And the other documents around that power of attorney. Mason: (14:33) Definitely, power of attorney. My mum, nine years ago, she had an aneurysm and just didn't have that part of power of attorney down. And now all of her finances are locked up in the trustee and guardian, and can't be invested and worked for because they won't let someone in her mental condition make a decision, huge. Zenith Virago: (14:53) Yeah, it's terrible. And it's one of the best investments you can make for the wellbeing of people who care for you is to do those three pieces of paperwork and the other one... And if you're reluctant to do paperwork, then I would encourage people on our website I've put together a plan called the death care plan. It's $8 and you can download it from the Natural Death Care Centre website, but it's the document that assist you to then go on to complete those legal papers, because it covers all the preliminary things and the whole journey, and it's fun and it's informative and you can plan whatever you want with it. But those things are external things, but they are very important. Zenith Virago: (15:47) I cannot encourage people enough to fill in those forms. Anyway, but death is actually an inside job. So a bit like how you're talking about birth. So part of what my learning is is that sex is a really great practise for dying well. So every time you're engaged in a sexual activity, you can do it with yourself. But of course, it's much more fun with someone else. So you all know how the French call orgasm the little death [crosstalk 00:16:25]. Zenith Virago: (16:27) So I gave a paper at the sex conference, which was if orgasm is the small death is death the total body orgasm. And I managed to convince everyone in the room that it was, because it's an expansive experience. So a bit like when you're engaged sexually, preferably with someone you love, but even if you're not in that degree of emotional connection but you're just having a great time together. Then the experience you're having is one of expansion. And especially if you are complementary to each other and sensitive to each other, then what you've got is when you're orgasming, you have that experience that you are outside of your skin and you are merging energetically with the other. And so you're losing that small awareness that we have of being in our own bodies. Zenith Virago: (17:31) And my understanding from lots of conversations, lots of research, lots of being with people is that that's what happens to that part of us that we believe leaves the body. So some people call it spirit. Some people call it soul, or essence, or consciousness. Some people don't believe in that, but the majority of people take comfort that something leaves the body. And so that practise of expanding out, a bit like when you sit at the beach and you just feel yourself poured out into the magnificence of the ocean and the horizon... I'm not a surfer, I'm a swimmer, but probably if you're a surfer, it's that feeling that you get when you're riding that wave, that you're bigger than your body. You're part of the wave, you're part of the ocean. And so those experiences, I think, are very useful practises for dying and death. Zenith Virago: (18:31) And sitting with people who are dying to bring that awareness into the room, whether you discuss it with them or not. But if you bring that expansion in, something in them will be expanding, they're coming and going and you may have it with your mom, I don't know because we haven't discussed that. But sometimes people energy when they're trapped in the body, sometimes you can feel it expanding out because it's not the mind. The mind may be messed up through a range of different things, but that energy, that consciousness is something else. And it can be trapped in a body, but it can still play. Mason: (19:20) That's been probably the most reassuring, like I'm going into that experience. Having that of being like, "All right, this is the last night, say goodbye or say goodbye actually when we're taking that decision." You don't have a decision anymore. She started showing signs of life, going through rehab, going through all of that, having [inaudible 00:19:44] for me. And you said, some people believe this and some people don't. I want to get to that for me at that time in my life, I was heavy in a place of belief and then a perception of my mom having that expansiveness and that playfulness, and perhaps a meaning of staying here, trapped if you've [inaudible 00:20:01]. Mason: (20:01) And that's how I have seen it at times, for sure. Knowing that there's still a playfulness and interaction with the world, a purpose for her and a meaning for her. Yeah, it's been difficult going, "Has this person died? Who they were, how am I mourning that person?" Even like this year, I'm talking to her, talking to someone guiding me through I'm going, "I still don't think I've quite got it, whether I'm mourning the death of the woman and the mother that was and reevaluating and moving into another relationship." That's a different conversation, but- Zenith Virago: (20:41) And you' re probably doing it all because life and death is like parenting. It's multifaceted, you're doing a million things all at the same time, but we don't break them down into small things, but they're probably a few big things that you're doing there, like many confronting situations. Mason: (21:02) And luckily, as you said, death can be fun. And luckily even that situation does get fun sometimes. Now, when you're talking about people having beliefs, say maybe a spirit or an essence leaving the body, I was really curious, and this is what I was really thinking about. I was thinking about all the different beliefs I've had over the years about what happens after I die. Catholic school being really scared into believing particular things. I remember going home crying because my stepdad was going to go to hell because he believed in evolution. That was that was a tough one that took a few weeks to reconcile internally. And then a bit of time as an atheist to get- Zenith Virago: (21:49) Counterbalance. Mason: (21:51) Counterbalance. I remember travelling, I think it was Brazil when I was writing The God Delusion and having that experience moving into a community of say connecting more to spirit, to Taoism, to reincarnation the idea of so many different possibilities. And I was just reflecting on how at times I'd felt really connected to a truth in various shades, in various incarnations of my belief system, some I still felt quite present with and others had fallen away. But nonetheless, I was thinking about the role that they had played over time. Some of them just been fun like a Taoism belief really springing myself and then shooting off and exploring the universe. But I'm curious as to where the roles of in people's individual and unique beliefs where they come in, I imagine it was different for every experience of whether the beliefs are used, whether at some point you find that they dissolve [inaudible 00:22:58]. Zenith Virago: (22:58) It's very individual and unique and you could make generalisations. But the simplest one I find is that most people take comfort in the concept that something leaves the body, that the body physically dies, but something lives on and they don't need to put a name to that. They don't need to understand it. Some people will, and they'll say it's a form or it's an energy, or they will come back as something, or there'll be all around. But really, I just think it's whatever gets you there. And we're all busy trying to live the best lives. We can work out the meaning of a human life and become the best person we can be. And now I'm in my sixties now, I'm 64. I've lived here for 35 years. Zenith Virago: (24:00) It's been an incredible life. And I can just see it's a very fortunate thing to live through all those stages of a life in a healthy mind, a healthy emotional system, a healthy body to live here in a community of diversity, but also the beauty of nature. And so many differing opinions and beliefs, and being able to access them, have conversations at dinner parties or on the street protest about what we believe in and what we don't. And really, we're all just trying to make sense of something. And I've been very fortunate to have death as a teacher at such a close proximity. And with such as I say, courageous and capable people who were very ordinary people. Really, we're all very ordinary people. Mason: (25:02) It's comforting that thought. Zenith Virago: (25:04) Yeah. And people's beliefs do support them. And it's amazing what people believe because sometimes years ago I was in Lismore and went to see this family. This guy, and he was a biker, he had the whole front yard covered with bikes and rusty things. And I would consider them to be a very ordinary Lismore family and they could be anywhere, but they were in Lismore and the guy was dying. He was a young guy, probably around 40. And I was quite young myself. And I feel that if people have only got enough energy, then I just ask them one question, because I think it's the most useful question for them, for me, and for the people that are going to live on after they die, which is what do you think will happen when you die? And it's a great question because people's answers sometimes are predictable. Sometimes people don't know, but often they'll give you something. And that guy said something like, "Oh, I think I'm going to come back as a butterfly." And no one in the room saw that coming and at the ceremony- Mason: (26:28) That's the opposite sound of a motor bike. Zenith Virago: (26:30) That's right. And it was something so incredible. And at the ceremony when I did that funeral for him, and I said that when I was with him, when he was dying and I asked this, and this was his reply you could see the ripple of the effect of that answer on all the people that were there on the women and on these hardcore guys. And I saw them with their wrap around dark glasses and their lips trembling like when the bottom lip... When people are crying, but they're not going to give into it because they're trying desperately to hold themselves together. So it can be a very surprising answer. Mason: (27:17) I think when I was saying before about just reading your energy, just off our first meeting and thinking, I feel like there's something unassuming about you. I guess, when you're in that setting where you've got... You can't assume anything because you've probably heard the most out there answers or not out there just. Zenith Virago: (27:37) Fortunately, I spend a lot of my time in wonder and in joy and in wonder. And I think part of that is our own natural predispositions, some people spend their time in different emotions. But I think like children often enjoy pure joy. Joy spontaneously arising, you can't make it happen. But I just find people fascinating. I find the world so fascinating. Of course, there's terrible things happening every day. But what I try to do is come neutral. I come present, I come neutral. And so I walk into that room into that bedside or into that family. And I don't think it's either good or bad. I just come. I assume nothing, exactly. Because some people are glad that someone's dying because they're relieved that their suffering is over, or they've never liked that person, that person has been a pain in the ass all their life, cruel to them, abused them and they're dying. Zenith Virago: (28:46) And they're glad that person's suffering. So if I come in and say, "Oh, so terrible." They're not going to tell me what they really feel. So if I come in neutral and they can read that energy, that I'm not all over them like, "Oh, poor you, poor you." Then you get further with people and people are more willing to sit and share with you how they really feel, which of course is what you want, because then you can work together to co-create the moment or the death or the ceremony, whatever. And as I say people I just... And I'm responding so I'm bringing presence, neutrality, kindness. I don't work with compassion because I don't really understand that is, but we all know what kindness feels like. Unless you're a Buddhist and you really get compassion. Great. But for me, I know when I'm kind to someone how that feels for me and what that looks like. Zenith Virago: (29:56) But I also know when someone's kind to me, even if it's something very simple, like picking up something that I've dropped or holding the door open, or going out of their way to show me somewhere when I'm lost. And it happens to me a lot now people carry my bags for me because I'm old and young men will often say, "Let me carry that for you." And also my dive tanks, that's the first time I experienced it as a diver, when this young guy said, "Let me take your tanks." I was like, "Why is he taking my tank?" [inaudible 00:30:30] it's because I'm old and he's being kind. And from there I respond to whoever or whatever is in front of me. And that way I'm not in what I was planning to say or what I thought the situation would be. I'm just right there like with you, we're just right here in this conversation. I don't worry about it before I walk in apart from getting here on time and that's it. And then it would just have its own energy. It will have its own life and death. Mason: (31:06) I think this next question is potentially one that's quite cliche when talking about death, but I feel an innocence about me wanting to go ask it anyway. Just the obvious one I feel. And I've talked about what happens with beliefs when one is approaching death. And is there a consistency of what comes up in their reflection on their life? Do you find again, it's across the board of people going to moments of gratitude to regrets? What are the common regrets? If so, is there any theme or? Zenith Virago: (31:45) Not for me, but there are other people who have published books and research on that. So there's classic five regrets of the dying, all of which are completely remediable while you're alive. Like spending more time with friends doing what you love, things like that, not working so hard. And then there are other people who have a checklist approach to that experience, but that's not my experience. And of course, I'm working with people... I'm not like a social worker who goes from bed to bed where they're trapped and I'm accosting them. I only come when people invite me. So they either invite me to come to the hospital or they invite me to come to their home or they invite me into a conversation in the street or on a podcast or whatever. But I just generally find people will die how they've lived. Zenith Virago: (32:47) So if people are open and curious and expansive, they will generally continue that. And if they're private and fearful and non-communicative, then they'll generally continue that. But one of the incredible things to know is that there's a condition called terminal lucidity, which means for people who have had dementia, people who've been in a coma. People who have been sleeping a lot because their body is closing down and they're getting ready to die... Like a woman, I was sharing this, and she told me that it happened to her husband. She said he had throat cancer and his voice had almost disappeared. Zenith Virago: (33:41) And so what can happen is that in the last few hours that they can come back. So even if they've had dementia for years, or like this guy's voice that had been high and squeaky suddenly came back... He was a truck driver, a deep truck drivers resonance, or people who have been sleeping and don't have much energy. People can sit up, hold a whole conversation, like a perfectly normal person or perfectly sane person, if they've had dementia, engage with people and then lay back down and die. And a lot of people have that experience. It's a very well-documented phenomenon that happens. Mason: (34:30) Do you find that's present even when there's a large amount of drugs involved? Zenith Virago: (34:34) It can. Mason: (34:35) It can. Zenith Virago: (34:37) The same as when people... So you've got people like Anita Moorjani who came here for the Uplift Festival and she wrote a book Dying To Be Me, I think it was. And so she had a very seriously well-documented stage four cancer died, was given morphine. Had this whole experience out there either in the mystery, in the universe, in whatever realm you want to put a name to. Had a whole experience with her dead father came back into her body, is alive and the cancer cured itself. And that's a miracle, I would say. There just doesn't seem to be any other explanation to that. And one of the questions I asked her was that a lot of people here in this Shire in particular, but I think elsewhere are wanting to have what they term a conscious death, which means they want to be present. They don't want to take drugs because they want to be present and she said, "They gave me morphine and I still had that experience." Maybe the morphine assisted it. I don't know. But I think it's very difficult to have a conscious death when you're in incredible pain. Mason: (36:08) That's a good point. Zenith Virago: (36:09) So each person has to make those decisions or their advanced health care plan person will be making those decisions for them. But it's a very difficult experience to watch someone die in incredible pain and suffering. It's not something that has to happen in this day and age, except for if you're on the side of the road and someone's died in an accident and their body's damaged or something like that. But if they're in hospital, they should be getting great pain relief and those symptoms should be addressed. Mason: (36:53) That's a good consideration from when there can be so much in being a purist. It's just worth tossing out. Zenith Virago: (37:04) And as I said right at the beginning that you won't know what decisions you're going to make until you are in that situation yourself. But it's very good to think about them. Have discussions with family, with partners, with friends, people who might have to make those decisions for you. And because it's much easier to follow someone's wishes or their instructions than try to make a life or death decision without any input for someone else. Mason: (37:38) Yeah. I remember having to do that with... I'm pretty sure we were having to do that with like my mum's organs back then. And I remember being like, "Well, this is a lot of pressure." Because again, I was in that stage where I was like, "Organs have consciousness." My mum's consciousness going into another body i wasn't that comfortable. And then I had a dream that night that she was in that Egyptian Pharaoh era and I was like, "Okay, cool. Maybe that's the sign that she can get embalmed." Zenith Virago: (38:09) And did you donate the organs? Mason: (38:12) Well she lived and so [crosstalk 00:38:14]. Zenith Virago: (38:14) But where did you get with your decision? Mason: (38:16) I said, yes, of course I would donate the... And that was because I was such an anti establishment hating on the medical system stage of my life back then, but then having a big healing process of... Well, I didn't know whether it was a healing process, I'm still tossing up of how much is a very... I don't think I've ever really spoken about this in public. Mason: (38:37) And just having that feeling going, "Is this appropriate to be intervening to this extent where we're taking off half of her skull to stop the swelling from going down into the spinal cord." And so nonetheless, I was grateful to the medical system for keeping her alive. And she's now been to my wedding, her being able to interact, laugh, still be herself. So of course there's an overwhelming gratitude and that's where I sit in the majority, but then there's a part of me philosophically, that's like, "Where should we be intervening that much?" Zenith Virago: (39:08) That's right. But that's part of being human- Mason: (39:10) This isn't a... yeah. Zenith Virago: (39:12) And having those incredible rich and confronting decisions to make, because they're uniquely yours that you have to be in that position as a son to make those decisions. And you can only make them based on your experience of the person with good, clear, legal advice and with your own heart. And whether you make those from a place of generosity and kindness and bigness and expensiveness, or you make them from a place of contraction and fear or both. Mason: (39:54) And that was where I got mum's kindness... Or both. And that's probably where of course, I had to tell myself a story of mum having this Egyptian lineage at the time in order to just go... Right now, it's the kind thing to do. And probably, I know that the consciousness will live on, but I'm creating a bit of a story that I don't know is actually true in having her organs. Basically I'm like, "Of course my mum would want to help contribute to life. And the people that would..." And that's where I got to a very practical place. I wasn't a very practical person back then, which did help me. Zenith Virago: (40:29) And that's why if you get to live a long life and you get to live through all those stages and you learn and grow, hopefully, you're not the same as you were five years ago or 10 years ago. And if you're lucky, you live a rich life and it confronts those beliefs that you hold and you either stick with them or you change them. And they expand and grow and it's an incredible being a human being. Mason: (40:59) Absolutely is an incredible thing, at least coming back to that realisation periodically or more so, and more so as you go through each little loop around the seasons. I think about death a lot, but in a superficial way, just as a marker, I mean really enjoying thinking into a somewhat more intimate- Zenith Virago: (41:21) But we all know that once we become parents, suddenly it gets very real. Because I can say to a class of people, "How do you feel about dying? Who feels okay?" And maybe two thirds of them depending will raise their hands. And then I say, "Those who've got their hands raised just now who feels okay about their children dying or their grandchildren or their nieces and nephews?" And it's very few people that still have their hand held at the end of that question. Because we can be okay about ourselves or we can be okay about someone who's older or whatever, but we're not so good with children and particularly our own children because parents would give their life to save that child. And again, that's one of those incredible things about human beings. We're so courageous, so selfless and so heroic when it comes to big situations. And so we never know how we're going to behave until we're in those. And you're saying that with your mom you had to really make some big calls there. Mason: (42:34) Yeah, it was definitely character building and very revealing in life in general because I've been thinking, I've been in the health world and have a health and wellness business. And I'm also someone that likes being quite subversive. And so on the other side of this I have this big problem with the word health itself because it's in opposition to something because naturally we have healthy and unhealthy. And so that's just my little internal questions that keep me spiralling towards where, and all I can feel is where it's spiralling me towards is death at this moment. Not any faster or slower, but so much of wisdom traditions, or many ancient traditions orient themselves around walking a path that's sustainable and preparing yourself for death the entire time. How do you feel about that? Do you relate to that? Is death such a... Because sometimes I'm like, "Well, that's such an..." Constantly looking at death. Zenith Virago: (43:40) Yeah. But deaths Omnipresent. It can happen at any time. It can happen. You can slip down the stairs, you can have a car accident, you can be in bed and someone can ram your house. There's so many possibilities in every single moment. And we can have close shaves and we all know how we feel when we have a near miss or close shave, something like that. But one of the great things for me is I think that when you fully go there and say, "Yep, I'm going to die. I don't know when that's going to be. It could be today. It could be tomorrow." And you dissolve that resistance. Like my life's fantastic, I don't particularly want to die. But I know that because I've explored it so deeply. I'm so comfortable. I'm in it every day. Zenith Virago: (44:35) It's so familiar for me that I... You can dissolve that resistance. And so then it frees up that energy for living. And I was very fortunate years ago to work with this other young guy who was dying, who was very ordinary, who didn't believe in spirit, he was a butcher. He just really cared that the family he was leaving behind would be okay, but he always knew he was going to die young. And he was 42, something like that. And up until then, I had worked with people who were dying without fear. And that's a wonderful thing. They're just there, they're not afraid, they're not bringing it on, but they're not afraid. But the thing about this guy, Phillip, was his name, is that he was dying with a grace and that grace manifested itself in his care for his family, extended family and for people. Zenith Virago: (45:46) And he was just so, I suppose the simplest way to say is, at peace. But he was more than at peace. At peace just doesn't do it justice to the energy that he had happening for him. As I say, he was a very ordinary guy. And when I went to say goodbye to him he said, "Oh mate, thanks for, coming. You've really changed my life this afternoon." And I said, "Mate you have really changed mine. And because you changed mine, you're going to impact a lot of people." Because one of the things I've learned is, So once you see someone dying without fear, it's a way to go. But if you're lucky enough to be with someone who's dying with grace, there is no other way to go. And so for people like me, I think, "Well, that's how I'm going to be. That's what I'm working towards." And I'm working towards that every minute. Zenith Virago: (46:46) So that if I die now my friends will be fine with that. My children, my grandchildren, everybody would say, "Wow, she really lived that life. She would have been prepared for that. She's comfortable. She spent a whole life teaching us about death. Now we have to step up to that mark and be sad and feel it, that loss, but not be sad for her." And no one should be saying I died too soon at my funeral, no one because it's impossible. And so the language around it is really tricky when people perpetuate concepts like, "Oh, they've died too soon." How can you die too soon? You're just dying. That's a neutral approach. They've just died. It's neither too soon or too late. It just is. And many of us would be dead already without medical intervention, without good pharmaceutical care. Lots of children used to die before they were five from one thing or another. Mason: (47:54) Yeah. It's an interesting thing at my mom's funeral would be like, "She died too late." Zenith Virago: (47:58) Yeah. Or she lived too, too long. Mason: (48:00) She lived too long, but we loved having her here for that extra 20, 30 years. That's when we talk about tonic herbs, we talk about just the beyond that philosophical elements, the Taoist organ system, what emotions come up with each organ through each season, what you can work on. So on and so forth, keep it lifestyle based. Don't go into anything specific. But the whole idea is to become more of yourself or a better person, whatever better means. I often say less of an asshole than... And that's one of our catchphrases is less assholes more [reishi 00:48:40]. Because sometimes it's not on my mission statement, but honestly, sometimes I think the only thing I can really... Because I'm such a person that goes, "Why am I doing this again? What's the point of all this again?" Mason: (48:52) And quite often where I land is just so that people are just as cool as possible when they die and I think the herbs can help with that. And so I feel like that's why I really enjoy this conversation. I'm really enjoying this because I definitely have not talked to anybody with your presence or experience or skill set in this. And I think especially based on what I've heard is more along that generic way of going and getting the survey of people who are in hospice and hearing those common five, which I think are very natural regrets to be having. But of course there's going to be nuance there. Zenith Virago: (49:38) Yeah. But I think your really facing death really enhances life. Because it's like when you get in bed at the end of every day and you become one with the mattress especially if your life's full [inaudible 00:49:59] young parents, but running a business. But just with the excitement of being alive and living in such a beautiful place like this, then I've spent most of my adult life falling into bed thinking, what a fucking great day that's been. And sleep is also a great practise for death because we just surrender to sleep into the unknown and assume, well, we don't even assume we just deeply trust somewhere we're going to wake up in the morning and life's going to carry on. But that's not the case. Mason: (50:35) It's not the case. I think about that a lot. I don't want to judge it, but way too much when I lay down at night for my whole life. As long as I can remember, I've had a fear of sleep and it's not so. Zenith Virago: (50:54) No, and it's common. And what often happens if you've had some experience as a child. And so I just spoke at the Seniors Festival this morning in Byron. Mason: (51:05) Cool I heard about that on Bay FM. Zenith Virago: (51:07) Yeah. And there was a woman there saying, "What should we tell the children? Our grandchildren were..." Whatever. And I was saying, "Well, basically you tell them the truth. And you tell them that with a respect for the age that they are, and for their connection to that person and for their learning about life and death." But generally children they'll thrive in that experience. They will take it and then they'll go off and play because they're very present. They're very in the moment and they don't know how they're supposed to behave. And it's been an incredible thing to witness here. So many families, so incredibly honest and trusting in their children's inner capacity to cope with that situation. Zenith Virago: (51:55) So we have open coffins and home vigils here a lot, where the body is at home up to five days after death. And the whole community might come through or the other school kids might come through. If it's a small child and kids are very capable and that whole protectionist approach. So religion, the funeral industry, the medical industry, they all are very protectionist to people like us who are just ordinary people. And then we become protectionist to children because we want to protect them. But it's a total disservice. So it's like when people have a dog and the dog dies and they get rid of the dog's body and they say, "Oh, the dog ran away or they've gone to a new home." That's so fucked up to do that to children, because nothing in the energy that they're reading is making sense then and adults are lying. Zenith Virago: (52:59) You are lying to children. And everyone does it obviously about the big things like the tooth fairy and Santa Claus and the Easter bunny, that's a different thing. But when it comes to really important things like death, it is just so important to be honest with the children, because they have an incredible capacity and they are growing that. And if you deny them that experience as children, or you lie to them by saying, "Oh, they've gone..." And this is a common one which is what some people will say who have that situation that you're in is that when they were kids, someone died and someone told them they went to sleep and didn't wake up. And so those kids are terrified to go to sleep. And it's such a simple thing without realising the incredible impact that that can have. Mason: (53:56) Never thought of that, yeah. Of course. Zenith Virago: (53:59) Yeah. And also children are completely egocentric to their capacity and life experience so far. So what they also need to know is that a person's death or illness has absolutely nothing to do with them. They have not caused it. They've not contributed to it in any way, and they cannot cure it. So sometimes children will try and make a pact with something, with a god, with something like we all pray when the chips are down. Even if we don't believe in God, if you are hanging onto that cliff it's like, "Please, let someone come and save me." So kids do that as well. But it's no good watching them make a deal like, "Oh, if you let mommy live, I'll be a good girl or I'll be a good boy." And then mommy dies. And then they feel they were good enough. Zenith Virago: (54:57) They might've done something naughty or something. So some of the consequences of death, especially around children are so important. And because what they read is everyone's upset. Something's not right, but no one's telling them what it is. And so they will think it's about them that's a very common thing. And you really want to avoid that happening at all costs, even if it's a grandparent and that grandchild has a close connection to them. It's part of a grandparent's role... Like I'm a grandparent myself now, to teach the grandchildren what it means to die and what death is about in preparation for when their parents will die. They're starting to build that resilience, build that awareness. And if you're lucky you have a dog that dies so that you can learn about it through an animal or a guinea pig or anything. Mason: (56:01) It makes so much sense. I'm going through my own little... I definitely remember not just grandma and grandpa just weren't there anymore. And they've got a little bit of a story about why that's the case. And yeah. And when mum was about to die I remember I wasn't praying to God or spirit or anything like that, it was definitely a proclamation. I'm going to do this, let's keep her here. And I'm going to make the miracle happen. And it was beautiful, but it was delusional. And then four years later when I couldn't make it happen, I started to crumble in. Zenith Virago: (56:40) But that's love, that's love in action. That's true your for your mom know, manifesting into desperation and an approach the best way you can. And it's also about keeping yourself together in a situation that's heartbreaking and terribly distressing and unfamiliar, and suddenly you become responsible for making decisions about someone else's life. It's hard enough making decisions about your own life. So things like that. And you really need great support in those times and good counsel, but what a lot of people say, they don't want to interfere. They think well, you should make that decision. [inaudible 00:57:25] like this. And people are terrified instead of stepping in. Whereas, it's a bold person. And part of what people need to do is grow courage to do with death and be bold if you're in any doubt, be bold. Mason: (57:46) Love it all by the way. I'm going to let you go soon. Before I hear about any other additional information you can tell us about workshops and other offerings and other resources, because I definitely want everyone to be able to get their hands on that. I'm curious, we've talked a lot about that preparation and going and being with people who are in the process of dying, but of course, in the ceremony after there is, I imagine... How do you prepare? Because you're speaking at people's death ceremonies, you said. Zenith Virago: (58:21) Yeah. So if I meet them, it's lovely if you get to meet them while they're alive. And usually they're interesting people who say, "I'd like to meet you if you're going to do the ceremony for me." But also because it's comforting for the family. So usually I say, "I never met so-and-so while they were alive." Or, "I never met them, but I've seen them around town." If that's the case, whatever the truth of that situation is. But if I did meet them while they were dying, then I just say, "And some of you may know that I went to see so-and-so when they were dying." And then I can speak to them a tiny bit as a person in that situation. And I asked them this question, and this was their answer, and it's incredibly comforting, but often I'm working with ceremonies for people who've died suddenly where I've never met them. Zenith Virago: (59:21) I'm never going to get the chance to meet them. I generally go and see their body at the funeral directors. So I have a physical awareness of who that person is. And then I'm working with the circumstances of the death and who they were, but I'm never speaking deeply about someone I've never met, or I don't know, that's for the family and friends. So part of what I'm teaching is about how the structure and content of the ceremony and the subtle layer that's at play during that ceremony. And in fact, I gave it to a woman this morning in 10 minutes the pearl of that knowledge, so that she could do something for someone who died a while ago and they didn't do any ceremony. And she said their whole family are adrift because of that. But a good ceremony can save you 12 months of therapy because you are calling in the divine, you're [missing 01:00:24] with the mystery and the magic you're in the not knowing. Zenith Virago: (01:00:28) And you're in that liminal space between death and the disposal of the body. So it's the last time generally that that person's physical body is there either in an open coffin or a closed coffin. And sometimes now you'll be in a situation where the person has been cremated and the ashes are there, but in sudden death... So that's more when it's an expected death and it's gone on for a time. But I would really encourage people if it's a sudden death to do that ceremony with the body there, it's very helpful and very healing. It may be very confronting, but like most challenging things when you face up to something and you put yourself into that challenge, the sense of accomplishment, and what you learned from that afterwards are exhilarating. It may not be exhilarating in that circumstance, but it's certainly beneficial. And it's been an incredible learning and I very rarely use the word privilege because it's overused in this term. Zenith Virago: (01:01:45) But it's been an incredible privilege to offer ceremony, a well-crafted ceremony as a rite of passage for the dead person in their journey towards disposal and disintegration, either in the ground or in the cremator. And as a rite of passage for the family or the friends, letting that person physically go and stepping back into their lives at the end of that ceremony, without that person physically in their lives. And because I live in a community where I'm either marrying or burying everybody, then I see those people. I see those people at the supermarket. I see them in the street parade for the Milan Festival. I see them at the cinema. I see them at a party. And I say, "How are you?" And they say, "I'm good." Because our connection is forged in the intensity of their death. Zenith Virago: (01:02:50) And so we have to go there. But what I see is how you can't change the circumstances of the death. Once it's occurred, you can work towards it. But the benefit of this getting a really great, meaningful, and appropriate ceremony and understanding its purpose as a rite of passage means that when you think back, you say, "Oh God, it was terrible when so-and-so died, but wow, we had the best fucking ceremony for them." And that can go a long way to compensate on an emotional acceptance and on a healthy journey of bereavement in that moment of loss. Mason: (01:03:43) Just the simple open casket distinction. I've never experienced it in my life. And it seems, in my mind, I'm like, yeah, it's something that's old-fashioned or used in TV and movies, because it's the only way to get a good bit of a comedy into a funeral scene. Zenith Virago: (01:04:03) Thought of that. Mason: (01:04:03) That's the only way I've really thought about it, and I can see why as a society- Zenith Virago: (01:04:10) It's very beneficial, but it's also that way for me when I am the celebrant or the person facilitating that ceremony, because sometimes there isn't anything to celebrate, it's just very sad. But if I am that person, then the way that you offer that up to people is crucial. So I'm never grinding them deeper into their, or deeper into their trauma. I'm trying to come neutral. Of course, I'm acknowledging everything, but it's not my role to make it worse and it's not my role to piss anybody off. So I'm having to dance with sometimes 400 people there without knowing who they are or what they feel, but just offering something that is of benefit to every individual and as a collective group, but having an open coffin, if people don't want to come, they won't. But even generally, I see that people who might be reluctant at the beginning of that ceremony will generally come when there's time later to come to that coffin. But it's really helpful to see a dead body. And especially if that's someone that you care for. Mason: (01:05:38) Yeah. Because otherwise it's taboo, you can't see them. Don't look at them, don't think- Zenith Virago: (01:05:43) Well, it's an unknown. And then you can really mind fuck with that. Whereas you see them, you can see they're dead. You know what death looks like. You can feel your emotions fully because of that situation is what it is. And also that will depend on how they died and who they are to you. But if you are a young person and you saw that person last in the fullness of life it can be really hard to get your head around, what is death? What does it actually mean? And it is the big question after what is the meaning of life? But what you've got clearly is a dead body. And if that's someone that you care for, it's great to be able to say goodbye and feel all those emotions that you feel for that person. And then it's what you believe in. So as I said, at the beginning, most people take comfort in the belief that something leaves the body. Mason: (01:06:49) Very quickly. Have you ever read the series... It's a Sci-fi series called Ender's Game? Zenith Virago: (01:06:54) Of course, I haven't. Mason: (01:06:57) The first book is a travesty. Don't worry, but the second and third one, he becomes, I can't remember the term, but he becomes a death talker and he's hired. And he travels around a now human populated universe, and has been called in for very special or unique situations of death to... I think about this quite often as well. And you're the first person I've met and I'm like, "Wow, that's what you do." And I often just thought about, that's been such a significant role to talk to people, have 400 people in front of you and yet be able to create a sense of closure or connection or connection to the reality all in one. Zenith Virago: (01:07:41) Closure is crap that concept. Mason: (01:07:43) Yeah. All right. That's out I'm learning a lot, no holding space, no closure. Zenith Virago: (01:07:48) And no giving permission. Mason: (01:07:51) Give them permission to mourn you mean or something like that? Zenith Virago: (01:07:54) No concept. Because people often say that to me, "Oh, you're giving them permission to die." And I'm like, "No they're dying, no one needs permission to die." But the other thing I probably would take this opportunity to say and it's about language and it maybe confronting for some, but I think it's very helpful for others. So the word suicide is very well used on a cultural level, in the media, in conversation when someone kills themselves and a lot of the language around suicide... So suicide means, Sui means oneself, and cide means to kill. Zenith Virago: (01:08:41) So you've got homicide, matricide, infanticide, genocide, ecocide all the cides all about killing. So what you're actually saying when you say the word suicide is that they've killed themselves. You're just saying it in a different language. But the phrase commit suicide is from when it was a crime to attempt to kill yourself or to attempt suicide. And if you succeeded, then you were dead and that was the end of it. And other people's suffering began. But if you failed, then you will be arrested and tried and sometimes put in prison for attempting to commit suicide. Mason: (01:09:25) Under suicide watch. Zenith Virago: (01:09:26) Yeah. And this is in Victorian times and things like that. But so when you're saying that phrase, you are perpetuating a concept that is a criminal action and now the latest phrase is death by suicide, but suicide doesn't kill you. People kill themselves. Whether they do that with a regret or they do it... But they make a choice and they make an action. And this will be very confronting for some people, especially if someone you love has killed themselves. But about 12 years ago, I started to stop using that phrase and started to use the phrase that they ended their own life. Zenith Virago: (01:10:15) So sometimes I still use that phrase, but most of the time I use the phrase that they killed themselves in conversation. If I'm asking someone about someone who's died like that. And the reason I feel it's important is because I see that it assists people in their healing because once you really get what has happened, it's a bit like being an alcoholic. Once you can own that you're an alcoholic, you can address it and work with it and hopefully overcome that situation. And so when families can really look at that situation and say... Or friends that that person killed themselves, then whether you agree with it or not, you're just bringing respect and a recognition to that action. That is what they've done. And somewhere in that, it starts to grow something in you that moves towards an easier healing and an easier living with that situation. Mason: (01:11:21) Everything you're talking about, looking at the body saying what it is ending your own life. It brings you into reality, that's what we're talking about right? Zenith Virago: (01:11:31) Yeah. But also it makes for healthier bereavement. So it allows you to live with that loss of that person in your life and with their death. Yeah. Mason: (01:11:46) Loved it, what a way to end a Tuesday, I really appreciate you coming in. Zenith Virago: (01:11:55) You're welcome, thank you for the invitation. Mason: (01:11:57) Yeah. No absol
Welcome to Episode 200 of The Necronomicast! For this milestone, I have the pleasure of welcoming to the program world renowned paranormal investigator, NICK GROFF! The world has gotten to know Nick from the television programs "Ghost Adventures", "Ghosts of Shepherdstown", and "Paranormal Lockdown". Tonight, get to know another side of Nick as we talk about his life, his passions, and what drives his inextinguishable spirit. Nick will share the story behind his new series "Death Walker" and much more during this exclusive late night conversation on the 200th episode of The Necronomicast!
Tonight we will start with the usual weekly recap of IW events and veteran themed news of the week. Special Guest is Jarred Prewitt. He and fellow Marine Matt Gregorio are currently writing a book called "Deathwalker Marines" to immortalize the actions of their unit during the Global War on Terror. Jarred was a Designated Marksman in Second Platoon, Cold Steel (Charlie Company) for Ramadi, Iraq Sept 2006-May 2007. Anbar Awakening. He was a Squad Leader in Garmser, Afghanistan March 2008-October 2008. A part of two “Surges”. In Jarred's words: "We want to interview as many 1/6 Marines/Attachments/Co-Units that worked with us during the time we were in along with those that came before and after us. We want to tell the story as honestly and completely as we can. Two perspectives can’t tell the entire story of the Anbar Awakening. We’ll never be able to get it all, but that’s not going to keep us from trying anyways. Goals of the book: It’s a multi-layered story of successes from the GWOT that were overlooked and/or forgotten about. The issue of mental health and the plague of suicide. We saw a lot of combat, our KIA list is long, but our post-war deaths at home list is three times as long. It’s a serious problem. It can’t be highlighted enough. The bevy of health issues that veterans deal with. Visit www.irreverentwarriors.com for a list of all upcoming #Silkieshikes! If you liked this episode or want to share you story, shoot us an email kevin@twentyonegun.net Visit www.twentyonegun.net for everything 21 Gun Follow 21 Gun on Instagram @21gunpodcast
In which we skip two episodes because honestly we had nothing good to say about either of them. “Deathwalker” brings us Operation Space Paperclip, a reference to the ancient Earth technology known as a “VCR”, and our nostalgia that this show came from a time when punching Nazis was morally unambiguous. “By Any Means Necessary” features an exciting new look for Sinclair, Justen explaining teacher union contracts, and Garibaldi “oink”ing softly into the night.Connect with the show at @babylonpodjectJusten can be found at @justenwritesAna can be found at @The_Mianaai, and also made our show art.Both Ana and Justen can also be found on The Compleat Discography, a Discworld re-read podcast.Jude Vais can be found at @eremiticjude. His other work can be found at Athrabeth - a Tolkien Podcast and at Garbage of the Five Rings."The Voice" of the Babylon Podject is provided by Alyson Grauer, who can be found at @dreamstobecomeClips from the original show remain copyrighted by Warner Bros, Inc. and are used under the Fair Use doctrine.Music attribution:The Descent by Kevin MacLeodLink: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4490-the-descentLicense: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/This show is edited and produced by Aaron Olson, who can be found at @urizenxvii
Recorded live from The Conjuring house before his Halloween Seance, Nick Groff is ready to talk! From Death Walker to Paranormal Lockdown, Nick brings his best stories and he’s been everywhere…Bobby Mackey's Music World, Linda Vista, The Trans-Allegheny Lunatic Asylum…The Queen Mary…Oman House…The Hinsdale House and More! Keeping Halloween going just one more week (until next week). ABOUT NICK GROFF Nick Groff was born in San José, California. Raised in New England, he's been fascinated with the paranormal since childhood, because of his passion for horror movies and some inexplicable experiences within his home and family. His strong vivacity led him to risk his own life twice within one year, he considers the first and gravest time a near-death experience that made him more sensitive to the supernatural. He then moved to Las Vegas, NV, to graduate with a BA in Film at the University of Nevada (UNLV). During his senior year he got engaged with his high school sweetheart, Veronique Roussel, who also was his partner during his first attempts of paranormal research in Nevada. As their wedding DJ they hired Zak Bagans, who Nick befriended, afterwards the two of them told each other about their individual experiences with ghosts. Then, from working together as DJ and camera operator for weddings, they became a team of young paranormal investigators and in order to make a proper documentary about ghosts they needed to hire one more person. They chose Aaron Goodwin, who Nick had met years before during an UNLV film conference. So, in 2004 the Ghost Adventures Crew was born, when, with no money but full of hopes, the three of them began to travel to the most haunted places in Nevada for their "Ghost Adventures: The Original Documentary" and later got the attention of critics and producers, which allowed them to create their own tv show on Travel Channel. "Ghost Adventures" was his first paranormal tv project, which he co-created, co-hosted and executive produced for ten seasons (2008-2014). He's had many experiences while filming it, the most important of which was when he saw the apparition of a woman at Linda Vista Hospital (Los Angeles, CA) that left a mark on him, definitively convincing him about the existence of the afterlife. He worked on many projects in different fields, from creating his own clothing brand, the "Phantom Collection", to writing his autobiographic book titled "Chasing Spirits: The Building of the Ghost Adventures Crew" (2012). As a singer he released in 2012 two music albums: "The Other Side" and "Spiritual War: Good vs Evil". Through his production company, Groff Entertainment, he produces some independent music artists besides his tv projects. Among his past important film projects there are the movie he wrote and directed, "Malevolence" (2004), and the tv shows he executive produced: Travel Channel's "Vegas Stripped" (2012) and Destination America's "Ghost Stalkers" (2014). His dedication for sports and wellness led him to open his own gym and in June 2013 he launched the "Drive Health & Fitness" in Methuen, MA, which he co-owned until August 2015. In 2014 he was an "American Ninja Warrior" competitor and applied again for the 2015 edition, he also raced and won the Boston Spartan Race. On November 24th, 2014 he announced to no longer be a part of the Ghost Adventures Crew and launched the Nick Groff Tour, through which he organizes events to meet his fans and investigate with them in America's most haunted locations. His show "Paranormal Lockdown" premiered in 2016 on Destination America, breaking the ratings records of the network and moved to TLC. Another show he has worked on was Destination America's "Ghosts of Shepherdstown" (2016), where he was called to assist the Shepherdstown, WV, police department with his expertise in the paranormal field. October was of course a busy month for him with another new series and some live events and I am going to ask him all about it but first… http://www.nickgrofftour.com https://www.instagram.com/nickgroff_/?hl=en https://www.facebook.com/OfficialNickGroff #NickGroff #DeathWalker #TheConjuring Ghost Magnet Podcast Links Facebook: @GhostMagnetTV Instagram: @ghost_magnet_podcast YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/yxk5t53z Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ghost-magnet-with-bridget-marquardt/id1451559688 Libsyn: https://ghostmagnet.libsyn.com NEW - The Ghost Magnet Shop: https://www.cafepress.com/ghostmagnet Bridget Marquardt Bridget Marquardt is best known to television audiences and pop-culture connoisseurs as the sweet and brainy star of E! Networks’ wildly popular reality show “The Girls Next Door.” After moving out of the Playboy mansion in January 2009, Marquardt hosted “Bridget’s Sexiest Beaches,” a sixteen-episode series on The Travel Channel in which she traveled the globe searching for the world’s best surf, sand, and sun in countries including Croatia, Jamaica, Thailand, Spain, Australia, and the United States. Instagram: @BridgetMarquardt Twitter: @Bridget Facebook: @BridgetMarquardt Lisa Morton - The Ghost Report Everyday is Halloween to award winning horror author and Ghost Reporter Lisa Morton. She has published four novels, 150 short stories, and three books on the history of Halloween. Her most recent releases include Weird Women: Classic Supernatural Fiction by Groundbreaking Female Writer 1852-1923 (co-edited with Leslie S. Klinger) and Calling the Spirits: A History of Seances. www.lisamorton.com
Author retired nurse (RN and FMP) and Founder of Power Places Tours Theresa Dominguez Weiss talks about her book “Deathwalker, Journeys of Life, Death and Beyond” (available on Amazon and other major retailers) about deathwalking her beloved Grrandmother to the other side at the moment of death and also shares life transforming experiences with Power Places and her 25 years experience in the medical field as a registered nurse and family medical practitioner! Check out her website today at www.theresadominguezweiss.com ! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/support
Author retired nurse (RN and FMP) and Founder of Power Places Tours Theresa Dominguez Weiss talks about her book “Deathwalker, Journeys of Life, Death and Beyond” (available on Amazon and other major retailers) about deathwalking her beloved Grandmother to the other side at the moment of death and also shares life transforming experiences with Power Places and her 25 years experience in the medical field as a registered nurse and family medical practitioner! Check out her website today at www.theresadominguezweiss.com !
Rhiannon Yandell takes us on a journey into the world of Deathwalking. Her sleepless nights are spent helping the souls of the lost find their way to another plane. Rhiannon's unique shamanistic gift backed by her large heart for the afflicted and hurting enable her to become a guide. From a young age she has had many paranormal experiences ranging from a vivid past life account, faces that relay her messages at night, disembodied voices, objects moving and multidimensional dreams. Rhiannon's message to the world is to be loving and and helpful to those around us. Through her gifts and omnist beliefs, Rhiannon uses her love to guide and be a vessel to those caught in between this life and the next.
Dr Lauren Tober sits down with Zenith Virago, to talk about death, dying well, what happens after we die, and living a life well lived. Zenith is a deathwalker, the co author of the book The Intimacy of Death and Dying, and the subject of the documentary, Zen & the Art of Dying. Zenith has been at the forefront and a leading pioneer of dying well, family led body care, meaningful and appropriate ceremony, and informing and educating communities to reclaim and be empowered before, during and after death.
This time around, Josue and I discuss the Babylon 5 Episode, “Deathwalker”. We talk about the deep dark secrets of the Dilgar race, as well as the secretive exploits of Ambassador Kosh. The post Ambassador Kosh has been a Busy Boy appeared first on Conspiracy of Light.
Welcome to Low Carb Conversations with and , Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioners. In this special episode Leah chats with Deathwalker in an interview for the Nutritional Therapy Association Australia. Discover what a Deathwalker is and how Zenith helps many people with conscious and integrated end of life and after death care consultations. Zenith discusses with Leah some of the many helpful tips people should have in order to help their families when the time comes. Watch the Interview Find out more about becoming a Deathwalker: Zenith’s Books and Films Documentary Films: Leah is speaking at the Low Carb Lifestyle Long Weekend Virtual Summit – it’s free! Sign up . Ways you can help support the Podcast! We are truly appreciative of any support you can give to the podcast! Here are some ways you can help us reach more people each week: Subscribe to the podcast (if you don’t already) so it automatically downloads for you each week and you never miss an episode. – it does not take very long to do and this really helps get the podcast seen by others. Recommend the podcast to your friends and family – recommendations from someone you know and trust are always invaluable. Another way to help if you think the content you are receiving is worthwhile and has helped you is to leave a small donation by clicking the “Donate” now Pay Pal button on the right side of the website. Join the , like the , and please use any affiliate links we post if you are thinking of buying the book or product we mention. Please help support the podcast so we can reach those that need help. Thank you so much!
A podcast by Ella Noah Bancroft Zenith Virago is an educator, facilitator, consultant, speaker, author, marriage celebrant, and Deathwalker. In this episode, we discuss the truths around death, dying and gay marriage. Zenith brings back contemporary, natural, holistic awareness to death, ceremony and loss. We also talk about the Vagina Conversations, an annual event that Zenith has been running in Byron Bay for the last four years. The event is a fundraiser for the Mullum Womens escape fund, highlighting domestic violence in our country. It was an honour to talk with Zenith, she is a role model for me and I admire her, her words and her work. Connect with Zenith: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/zenith.virago Website: https://www.zenithvirago.com/
Zenith Virago is a woman grounded in the gifts of understanding the nuances of humanity and the basic need for people to mark important times in their lives with sacredness. Zenith serves those traveling through birth, marriage and death. Highly respected for her guidance and presence in the Byron Shire and beyond, Zenith is a jewel, a wealth of embodied knowledge and deep reverence for the human experience. Zenith is the founder, EO and Deathwalker Trainer for the Natural Death Care Centre, a Byron Bay based charity. Zenith is also the creator of The Vagina Conversations, a performance of local women expressing empowered vagina stories. Today, I look forward to speaking with Zenith about the relationship between birth and death. With one of her roles as a deathwalker, Zenith is attuned to the transition between living in this physical body and ‘the other side’. We acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land we speak and listen on particularly on the 26th and 27th of January, a day of mourning.Interviewed guest: Zenith ViragoProduced and presented by Oni BlecherCopyright PBB Media, Oni Blecher and Zenith Virago 2020First aired on 99.9 BayFM Byron Bay Australia on 27th January 2020.This episode is sponsored by MooGoo Skin Care. www.moogoo.com.au.For a limited time our listeners can get a 15% discount on online purchases by quoting the code PBBPODCAST.www.pbbmedia.org
Zenith Virago is a woman grounded in the gifts of understanding the nuances of humanity and the basic need for people to mark important times in their lives with sacredness. Zenith serves those traveling through birth, marriage and death. Highly respected for her guidance and presence in the Byron Shire and beyond, Zenith is a jewel, a wealth of embodied knowledge and deep reverence for the human experience. Zenith is the founder, EO and Deathwalker Trainer for the Natural Death Care Centre, a Byron Bay based charity. Zenith is also the creator of The Vagina Conversations, a performance of local women expressing empowered vagina stories. Today, I look forward to speaking with Zenith about the relationship between birth and death. With one of her roles as a deathwalker, Zenith is attuned to the transition between living in this physical body and ‘the other side’. We acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land we speak and listen on particularly on the 26th and 27th of January, a day of mourning.Interviewed guest: Zenith ViragoProduced and presented by Oni BlecherCopyright PBB Media, Oni Blecher and Zenith Virago 2020First aired on 99.9 BayFM Byron Bay Australia on 27th January 2020.This episode is sponsored by MooGoo Skin Care. www.moogoo.com.au.For a limited time our listeners can get a 15% discount on online purchases by quoting the code PBBPODCAST.www.pbbmedia.org
At our podcast’s one year anniversary, it is very appropriate we would be blessed to have an interview with a person who has been one of our primary influences on The Death Dialogues Project’s mission. It was Zen’s work that empowered Becky to take a natural approach with her family— something she would have dreamed of doing, but without exposure to Zenith’s work would not have felt as confident on the journey. Zenith lives in Byron Bay, and is the EO and founding member of the NSW Charity, the Natural Death Care Centre. She is the co author of the book The Intimacy of Death and Dying, and subject of the international independent documentary, Zen & the Art of Dying. The inspirational dream of the NDCC is that every individual, community and service provider has the knowledge and capacity to do death well. Zenith has been at the forefront and a leading pioneer of dying well, family led body care, meaningful and appropriate ceremony, and informing and educating communities to reclaim and be empowered before, during and after death. Offering a hybrid of truly traditional ways blended with a more contemporary understanding, encouraging people to take their dying, death, after death care and ceremony back into their own hands and hearts, even in cases of sudden death and trauma. With a legal and community background and work history, she is a seen as a community resource, assisting people to know and reclaim their legal rights, and co-create their own social rites of passage. She has been working towards more holistic cultural change in approaches to better and continual end of life and after death care for well over 25 years. She is known as a Deathwalker, an educator and a celebrant, sharing the subtle and obvious layers involved, offering guidance, support and care to inform, enable and empower people to be as informed, open and courageous as they can, and to experience their dying and their loss in the best way they can. Simply, she accompanies and guides people in their loss. She now works, speaks and teaches both nationally and Internationally, and her work may best be summed up as assisting people to die well, and for those left behind to have a healthier bereavement, as they move into their healing with no or few regrets. Zenith Virago : Deathwalker. Celebrant. Author. Trainer. JP. (+61) 0427 924 310 Transformative Rites of Passage. Weddings & Funerals Conscious & Integrated End of Life & After Death Care Consultations zenithvirago.com Deathwalker Trainings naturaldeathcarecentre.org Co-Author of The Intimacy of Death & Dying naturaldeathcarecentre.org/publications Documentary Films zenandtheartofdying.com tenderdocumentary.com.au --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deathdialogues/message
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Welcome to Two Guys, One Sport! Every week, Chris and George will discuss the world of professional wrestling, covering topics far and wide that appeal to their unique tastes on this form of entertainment that we all hold dear. Sit back and enjoy, and remember, don't work yourself into a shoot! This week, we're taking a look all around the world of wrestling with a wide spread of topics. We begin with the finals of Stardom's 5 Star Grand Prix, transition into a recap of NJPW's Destruction in Kobe, and then look ahead to their Fighting Spirit shows coming up this weekend in the US. From there, we preview the future of broadcast wrestling in the US as WWE and AEW start their clash for supremacy, and then close it out with a much-deserved pasting of Ring of Honor. It's a great night to talk wrestling! Closing Song - "Deathwalker" by The Unguided
In this episode, Kyle shares his opinion on the Babylon 5 season 1 episode "Deathwalker". --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kyle-scher/support
"To do death well, we need to live well", Zenith Virago. A rich discussion on death and dying and living well with Zenith Virago for most family and community members. In this episode of Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond Annalee Atia speaks with Zenith Virago about the relevance of setting a place for death at your table and being an elder in your community. Death is an eventual part of life for all of us and like many other aspects of life, we have the choice to either integrate it into or seperate it from - our everyday reality. This grounding and honest conversation is great for most family members from 14yo and above - parents listen in first to determine if suitable for your children and circumstances and wonderful for all of us whether we have been touched by death or not. Find out more about Zenith's work here: www.naturaldeathcarecentre.orgAll Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond podcast are now ACM CPD (Continuing Professional Development) points recognised.You are tuned to Pregnancy, Birth & Beyond. Contemporary Conversations where Stories, Science, Traditions & New Ideas meet. Our show is coming to you from the studios of BayFM in Byron Bay and is broadcasting across Australia on the Community Radio Network, you can find us on iTunes and Spreaker and through your favourite podcast providers. First aired live on 99.9BayFM in Byron Bay, Australia on April 22nd, 2019.Produced and hosted by Annalee Atia for PBB Media Guest: Zenith ViragoAll rights reserved. www.pbbmedia.org
"To do death well, we need to live well", Zenith Virago. A rich discussion on death and dying and living well with Zenith Virago for most family and community members. In this episode of Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond Annalee Atia speaks with Zenith Virago about the relevance of setting a place for death at your table and being an elder in your community. Death is an eventual part of life for all of us and like many other aspects of life, we have the choice to either integrate it into or seperate it from - our everyday reality. This grounding and honest conversation is great for most family members from 14yo and above - parents listen in first to determine if suitable for your children and circumstances and wonderful for all of us whether we have been touched by death or not. Find out more about Zenith's work here: www.naturaldeathcarecentre.orgAll Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond podcast are now ACM CPD (Continuing Professional Development) points recognised.You are tuned to Pregnancy, Birth & Beyond. Contemporary Conversations where Stories, Science, Traditions & New Ideas meet. Our show is coming to you from the studios of BayFM in Byron Bay and is broadcasting across Australia on the Community Radio Network, you can find us on iTunes and Spreaker and through your favourite podcast providers. First aired live on 99.9BayFM in Byron Bay, Australia on April 22nd, 2019.Produced and hosted by Annalee Atia for PBB Media Guest: Zenith ViragoAll rights reserved. www.pbbmedia.org
Zenith Virago is a deathwalker, educator author, speaker and author. She is the founder, EO and Deathwalker Trainer for the Natural Death Care Centre.She brings a contemporary, natural, holistic awareness to death, ceremony and loss. She describes her work as “simple yet sacred”.It was such an honour to have Zenith as a guest on my podcast. She truly embodies this work and offers perspectives on how facing our own death, as well as the death of those we love the most, can have a profound impact on how we choose to live.We also speak about how to just be with people at the most intense moments of their lives and deaths. We cover how she works in a somatic way with people and ceremony.You can find out more from Zenith by visiting https://www.zenithvirago.comand www.naturaldeathcarecentre.orgA sincere thank you Zenith for your wisdom.Awakening the Body and Mind is a Listener Supported podcast that relies on donations. If you enjoyed this episode and found value in it, I appreciate any contribution you wish to give for the gift of this episode. Donations can be made through PayPal: PayPal.Me/awakeningbodyandmind
Our guest for this week is Zenith Virago, an educator, facilitator, consultant, speaker, author, marriage celebrant, and Deathwalker.Zenith has been working as a Deathwalker for the past 25 years, meaning that she has provided emotional support as well as legal and practical assistance to the families in her community who have either suffered or were about to suffer a tragic loss. She uses a somatic approach to consult the members of her community and educate them on the subject of death and dying. She believes that all of us have the capacity to comprehend and deal with death and her work is built around that notion of reconnecting with those secluded parts of our soul. Zenith has also co-founded the Natural Death Care Centre, an incorporated association and a registered Charity, founded around the belief of living well, dying well and experiencing loss well.Zenith has co-authored a book titled “The Intimacy of Death and Dying”, a book full of practical strategies and heartfelt advice on dealing in situations concerning death. From understanding personal grief to providing support for others in their time of need to approaches in educating children about the concept of death.In 2015, a documentary was made about Zenith titled “Zen & the Art of Dying”. It follows her story and reveals insight into her dealings as a Deathwalker of the town Byron Bay, Australia. The movie provides a great opportunity for reexamining the way we live, love and die while encouraging us to take a more active role in all three.Connect with Zenith:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/zenith.viragoLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zenith-virago-22b62a96/?locale=de_DEWebsite: https://www.zenithvirago.com/Zenith’s Story of Inspired Evolution“Death is a natural and sacred part of our lives.” - Zenith ViragoZenith has a professional background of working in law, more precisely as a paralegal. She lives in Byron Bay, which is a coastal town in the southeastern Australian state of New South Wales. It is there where she became a marriage and death celebrant and she has performed the services and the role of a Deathwalker for the past 25 years. A Deathwalker is a person who provides assistance and support to those who are dealing with death either through the passing of a loved one or who are expecting to die themselves.“I come and I offer them whatever I can in experience.” - Zenith ViragoAs a community, with Zenith’s help, the people of Byron Bay have managed to create their own culture around the process of dying. They are well acquainted with the legalities and their rights which makes them empowered when it comes to dealing with death. Each year they organize a festival called “The Day of the Dead” in celebration of life, death, love and with a goal of providing comfort and closure to those who have lost an important person in their lives.“My currency is kindness. So I’m trading in kindness every day, all day and the rewards, internally and externally, and in ways that I never even know, in a ripple out effect are boundless.” - Zenith ViragoZenith describes how and why she became a death celebrant. She had lost a dear friend and her death was very unexpected. She proceeds to explain the whole process including the preparation of the body to be buried, all the way through the actual burial ceremony. Zenith points out that all of the steps you go through in terms of preparing the body of a loved one to be laid to rest has a sort of a therapeutic effect on everyone involved.“We reclaimed that death process with her and it really changed the way we experienced her loss. So we were sad and we were shocked but we felt empowered because we’ve given her the sort of ceremony that she would’ve wanted and that we needed.” - Zenith ViragoThe Death Equation“Each death has an equation… It depends on who that person is and how they die... who you are, and your relationship to them, and your experience of death so far.” - Zenith ViragoDeath of a loved one leaves a mark. It affects our lives from that moment on. What that person or creature meant to us will be the first part of the equation that will determine the outcome of that effect. How they died is another. It’s not the same if we lose someone in an instant, unexpectedly, or due to a long illness, when we got a chance to live with the expectation of losing them. Finally, our understanding and relationship the death will mold everything together. How we perceive death, what we think happens, will shape the way we receive the information that someone has died and how long will it take for us to accept it. It is exactly this last part of the equation that we can directly work with in a way that allows us to adapt and better deal with the loss we’ve experienced.Zenith’s Message of Inspired EvolutionDeath is a taboo subject for most of us because it bears a lot of uncertainty, it’s connected to the concept of loss and it inevitably evokes anxiety and fear. Zenith’s story shows that there is an alternative. Closing ourselves off for something that is a natural part of the journey each and every one of us is on would be limiting and there is a lot we stand to lose if we don’t open ourselves up. This conversation will hopefully serve as an introduction to the process of getting familiar with death and reclaiming the process while overcoming at least some of our fears. We need to consider all aspects of life, not just the ones that come easily to us. Zenith reminds us that it is our obligation to do so:“You owe it to people, loved ones, and even people you don’t know, and the planet… everything… to live not just as fully as you can, but as well as you can, in cooperation with others.” - Zenith Virago See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
What if you could cheat death? What if the only thing stopping you from saving a life was God? What if Ivanova was a secret spy for the government? All these questions and more are discussed on this week's episode of Chatzylon 5. The viewer's guide for Chatzylon 5: tinyurl.com/chatzseason6 Please consider backing the Chatz Patreon, where you can also find our upcoming bonus film commentaries and our bi-weekly hangout show ChatzNightz. patreon.com/chatzpod Feedback? Questions/Comments? Follow Chatz on Twitter: twitter.com/chatzpod Follow Magellan on Twitter: twitter.com/justapfluke Email us: chatzpod@gmail.com
Babylon 5: Season 1, Episode 9
Van and Jarrod return to discuss four more episodes of Season 1 of Babylon 5: 107 The War Prayer, 108 And the Sky Full of Stars, 109 Deathwalker and 110 Believers. Be a part of the White Rocket Entertainment family by becoming a patron of the shows: https://www.patreon.com/vanallenplexico Brought to you by White Rocket Entertainment.
Listen in as Zenith tells me about the film made about her and her thoughts of empowering families. I am so grateful to be spending the Day of the Dead with her November 8, 2015 during my trip to Australia and New Zealand. For more information on this: www.doulajourney.com. From Zenith's website: "I am not fixed in any belief, religion or dogma, I embrace them all and work towards a more universal and accepting approach, open to discovery, and in love with the mystery. What happens after death will become clear to us when we die, It is our journey to get there that is my interest and passion. Ultimately, I am inspired by the words of the Dalai Lama, “my religion is simple, my religion is kindness”. The Documentary website: Zen and The Art of Dying End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005
Join us as we do a music review on the band Deathwalker! This music review is possible from our friends at Basement Records! If you enjoy metal, punk and everything Underground you will enjoy these guys! Please check out our website @Remnantxradio.com, follow us on twitter and send us a friend request on facebook!
Na’Toth goes nuts. Earth makes a deal for immortality. A genocidal maniac plots her greatest revenge. And a good cigar is a Cuban. It’s “Deathwalker,” wherein one of the quieter races on the B5 Advisory Council flexes its muscle and Talia contemplates leaving the service industry. Who’s on Team Abbut?
When a wanted War Criminal from the extinct Dilgar race arrives on the station, she reveals a secret that could throw the galaxy into chaos! Join us for chick fights and Jovian Sunspots in the Hour of Scampering, this time on Jumpgate!
Babylon 5 plays host to an infamous visitor. Jason returns as we discuss episode 1×09 – “Deathwalker”. Website: http://www.downbelowpodcast.com Email: mail@downbelowpodcast.com Facebook Group: http://www.facebook.com/groups/downbelowpodcast Facebook Spoiler Group: http://www.facebook.com/groups/downbelowspoilers Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/downbelowcast iTunes: http://www.itunes.com/podcast?id=772892900 Stitcher Radio: http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=41661&refid=stpr Feed URL: http://downbelowpodcast.com/feed/podcast/
Hello! Druss is back at it again in this mid-middle-quel to other books within this series. Will he prevail against all odds and defeat the stuff and things!? Probably... I discuss: The Legend of Deathwalker by David Gemmel.
Interview: Walter Koenig ("Alfred Bester") First, Tim, Summer, and Jeffrey talk with Walter Koenig about his time on Babylon 5 and his experiences interacting with the various cast members. Next, Tim and Summer discuss "Deathwalker". Source