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Millionaire Mindset Lesson - There's Always More MoneyToday I'm sharing with you one of my key millionaire mindset lessons. Now, becoming a millionaire doesn't really make you special or clever, but the truth is that my biggest secret for becoming one is focusing on very specific mindset upgrades.  Now this is the first mindset lesson I want you to master, and that's there's always more money. There's always more money. One of the cornerstones of Soul Rich Woman philosophy is that there's always more because as a Soul Rich Woman, the soul is rich, abundant, and full. There's enough for everyone. And we live in a world of abundance. That's why we have Soul and rich. You can be rich in health, wealth, and happiness and full of it. Have you noticed there's always at least one more happen when you look for it, or color when you look for it? There's always another hair clip when you really want to find it. There's always one more coin in the bottom of your purse, or one more sweet at the bottom of your bag for your kid when your child asks for it. I'm not saying that income inequality isn't real and that there's no poverty in the world, but chances are you have every opportunity to change your circumstances.  Number 1: One way we keep ourselves small is by thinking that the world is a zero game. Number 2: There is no limit to what you can dream.  Number 3: There's no cap to your earning potential.  Number 4: You have brilliance and a diamond is within you and you deserve to shine. Number 5: The universe sometimes will manifest itself.In this episode, key takeaways:1. All wealthy women are great for the planet.  2. Tell yourself there's always enough. 3. Always believe that there is enough.4. There are always more opportunities. 5. There are always more ideas.Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

5 TIPS TO GET THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS WITHOUT TRIGGERING YOUR MONEY BLOCKS (TOO MUCH) This is the time of the year that can get very stressful for some people, but it doesn't have to be because we are Soul Rich Woman. Now I've got really some great tips for you today. The first thing I want to acknowledge is that holiday time can be really exciting for some people and for others it can be really stressful or even sad, so don't beat yourself up over it either way, especially for this year, it can be a triggering experience to spend time with your family and loved ones over this holiday season, particularly if you have been spending a lot of time working on your personal development and money blocks, you still might be quite vulnerable to other people's energies. Now, here are some tips to get through the holiday period without triggering your money blocks too much. Tip 1: Have a canned response.Tip 2: Get really good at changing the subject.Tip 3: Be clear about what you want.Tip 4: You don't have to keep presents you don't like.Tip 5: Do some EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).In this episode, key takeaways:1. You don't have to tell them about the ins and out of your business. 2. Turn the spotlight back on them so that you just put it back on them.3. Ask people what you want for your present. 4. Declutter your stuff that doesn't make you feel good. 5. If you are triggered, go into the bathroom and do a little bit of tapping.   Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

Money And Me Power To Get Anything You Desire Step 3 of 5We have already talked about the first two steps of the Manifesting Formula. Now the third step is a really crucial one. This is where a lot of people quit before they get started. Another problem around Manifesting is really very easy to get excited at the beginning. And then you lose steam, you lose enthusiasm, and you lose those positive vibes. Is it because whether you are busy, something comes up along the way and then there could be something new? So like a shiny star object syndrome comes up. So all these things will distract you as you are pursuing this manifesting formula towards becoming a Soul Rich Woman or achieving your Soul Goals and the dreams that you want. You have to get into that flow of positivity. And when you do that, and when those synchronicities or what we call things that look like intuitively start to happen to you, or suddenly you start to see opportunities, start to see lucky things happening, that's when all the things start to feel magical.  We also want to be realistic about this. The manifesting formula is practical. That's why positive anchors are so important. You need to create things that will remind you of your goal constantly and keep your intentions focused. And when you feel really good about your goal, you are going to start to act in different ways. And that's going to make the next step much easier if you can hack that.   Number 1: Embrace the power of positive and automatic anchors. Number 2: Prime yourself subconsciously, not as a victim, but as a positive one to achieve your goal.Number 3: Build a really strong foundation of belief from multiple angles.Number 4: Use different way to remind yourself.Number 5: Manifesting is to make things real.In this episode, key takeaways:1. Passwords are very important and it's easy to do it as a manifesting anchor. 2. Put that goal or that dream very clearly and distinctively into your space so that it will go into your mind.  3. Layer them into your life so that you're not working too hard all the time to remember your goal.  4. The magic is in the details and the repetition. 5. Give yourself the best chance of achieving your goals.    Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

Nine  Most Common Self-Care Mistakes Entrepreneurs Make (and how to avoid them)I want to talk about the nine most common self-care mistakes entrepreneurs make and how to avoid them. Self-care isn't just about getting manicures and facials, or even getting your hair colored, or hair done, or even just getting your Botox or your fillers. It's about giving yourself the time and space to live your life as a well-rounded person. It's about treating yourself the way you treat a best friend, your best friend. Entrepreneurship makes it way too easy to ignore self-care. If most of us are honest, we'll admit that we weren't super hot at self-care even before we started our businesses. So self-care is really a mindset problem rather than a logistical one. Here are the nine most common self-care mistakes that entrepreneurs like you and I make.Number one: Skipping meals, eating way too much junk food, or constantly hitting the caffeine to get you through the day.Number two: Going short on sleep, working late into the night, or getting up way too early for clients.Number three: Ignoring your body's need to pee because you just need five more minutes to finish this jobNumber four: Discounting your inner alarm bells and taking on clients that you really don't want to work with. Number five: Regularly standing up to your friends or family to meet a business deadline. Number six: Giving up your hobbies and other non-work interest because you just don't have time. Number seven: Neglecting your meditation, journaling, or other spiritual practice. Number eight: Forgetting to take time out to connect with whatever form of spirit or source that takes for you. Number nine: Feeling as though you need to do everything yourself and refusing to allow the universe to help. In this episode, key takeaways:1. There's only one resource that your business truly can't do without, and that's you.  2. There's a will, there's a way.3. Balancing is important.4. Combine self-care and business together.5. Implement no working days.6. Get clear on your working hours. 7. Implement boundaries with your clients.8. Invest in some help.9. Upgrade your Soul Rich Woman.Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

Transcript for Ep168:I have a free gift for you, Money Blueprint for Women Leaders.  It is downloadable at www.janetaisyahquek.com/money.Hi, It's Janet Aisyah and in this bonus episode, I would like to share with you my success in launching the Podcast SEASON 3.  Launching the PODCAST SEASON 1&2 impacted my life instantly in 2020 & 2021.  I truly agree that a podcast is not only about building an online presence, but most importantly online credibility and recognition by showing up consistently.  Headhunted more than 10 times directly from companies and recruiters in 3 months from Asia Pacific, US and Europe even in this covid 19 situation. 1) I realized that my message impacted more people than I ever thought it could now with listeners and followers in more than 12 countries. 2) After awarded Platinum Instant Podcast Leader, I have garnered more than 100 likes on social media and some friends commented that now I am a Queen and drew attention to new connections who are keen to know what I am doing and how podcast can help them. 3) I got to introduce my podcast as a way of personal branding when I joined my new company. My colleagues were impressed with my podcast show especially my overseas colleagues. 4) I get to complete my 3 years of Podcast content in less than 12 days. 5)As I keep the momentum to complete the Season 3, I am able to think on the spot a topic and free flow the content to share. This is possible with the proven structure, process and system in place.1.       10 objections:  When I got to start the podcast SEASON 3, I was not sure if this is something I want to continue or just wait to see what results I have before embarking. Since I am taking career break so I decided to prepare myself by continuing before I get busy once I start my new job or my business which is working in progress. I realized that time flies so fast and now it has been 2 years since I started my Season 1. So I decided to use this time to continue SEASON 3 so I will have 3 years of content. By now I have already taken a career break almost 1.5 years , started my new job for a 1 year and I saw my SEASON 1&2 have helped me to get leads, enquiries and my first 2 C-suite clients. By showing up and having my voice heard, people will come to know who I am and what I stand for, and people will support me just like headhunters have approached me instead of me going to them.  More people will come get to know me and my brand once I build my online business in the future. At first my husband was worried if I have time to do SEASON 3 before I can see the results but I told him this is part of my own branding and for future online business that I am going to embark on. Since I am available now, it will be best time to do otherwise there is never a good time. Best is because I have the choice to do it and with my husband support, I can have a breakthrough and it also influenced him to see things differently about the power of online presence after I completed SEASON 3 episodes in 48 hours especially during Covid 19 times. He saw I have became more confident and I  have discipline to get my recording done despite I could just sit on it and delay since I could use the time to enjoy my break and leave. I don't know how I can continue recording when there is uncertainty due to lockdown in Singapore as I no longer able to do at the head office. Genecia and Joanne explained to me that they will support and guide me to do it online, I just need to follow what they need me to do.  Having the whole Soul Rich Woman team put me at ease knowing that I just to have to focus on my script and they do the rest. I just need to share my posting and recording on weekly basis without worry about the technical part that I am more at ease. As I am not sure if I have enough topics to share in season 3, my mentor Genecia spent time with me to draw out and guided me to position myself in the topics I could share. That gave me ideas and topics I could share.Another issue I had was time, I am working at the moment but I have to juggle between spending time with children, catching up with my friends during leave and also I have commit to complete 55 episodes. But because I believed in the importance of doing the podcast and in the urgency of doing it now rather than later, I was able to make arrangements, do when having the momentum so that things could be done earlier. It is a relieve for me that I have content ready and I can focus on enjoying rest of my leave and family now. On top of all those issues, I had fears on the outcome if I will be repeating myself in some of the topics. Will listeners get bored on what I shared.   How will people react? But because it has been my dream to reach out to my 1st 10 000 audience in 3 years so I need to continue to build my content and so keep me going. I also understand that as I have more episodes, my voice is easily searchable on internet. Podcast is a marketing vehicle that can be used again and again for life. I was also feeling anxious about what I am going to share if listeners will connect with me despite I have launched SEASON 2.   I still went ahead as I realized I have so much content to offer and empower women who can achieve success like myself.   Understanding that my intention is to share and inspire and not to criticize or destroy other people's lives, gave me the courage to continue despite the hardwork and continue SEASON 3.Recording the episodes also requires a lot of time and effort especially during my leave.  I got tired at times when there are distractions that I had to record again due to environmental noises not within my control. . I spent less time with my children and my others to do list. And there were a few tasks I had to set aside just to give priority to my podcast recording.  But I now see this to be my big lesson in life.  If you want to succeed in anything, you have to stay focus, remind yourself why you first started, make it happen and you have to set it as your number one priority.  I have been getting attention of some responses that they see me as podcast lead and amazing that I could do season 3. Having launched SEASON 3, I am also anxious about what will happen next? Then by going back to understanding my intentions since I started Season 1 and remind myself why I started that this will be about doing something positive for me and for others, and by knowing that I have a strong team of soul rich woman to support me, my worries are tamed and controlled. So, having your family and friends to support you in what you are doing, and giving you the understanding of the journey you wish to embark on is already a great encouragement, not to mention that having the soul rich woman team is your rocket launcher!  Knowing that you have people behind you who will look after your best interest and following up on you so that you don't fall to you're the little voices inside your head is a great support.  Therefore I believe that no matter how good you think you are you need a team who can support and guide you, but most importantly people who know what they are doing.  The soul rich woman team makes you feel you are family and that they've got your back every step of the way. Conclusion:Having launched my podcast show SEASON 3 in 48 hours, it boosted my confidence to a higher level and achieve so many great results in 48 hours.   I feel that I have grown to next level and continue to hone my skills and learning to bring my business online.    I feel that I am also blessed to have crossed paths with Soul Rich Woman team who could help me make it possible. When we raise our voices together, the words woman power becomes more than just a phrase. It becomes a movement.Know that your dreams are valid and on your path, you're never denied and only be directed. Let your voice be heard. Its time!If you are C-suites, Senior Leader and Woman Leader who wants to be like me to have your voice heard and shine, I will like to invite you to schedule a call with me at www.janetaisyahquek.com/coaching.Facebook:www.linkedin.com/in/janetquekLinkedin:https://www.facebook.com/janetaisyahquekMoney Blueprint for Women Leaders linkhttps://janetqcc.clickfunnels.com/financialblueprinthttp://www.janetaisyahquek.com/money21 Ways to be Headhuntedhttp://www.janetaisyahquek.com/headhuntedPodcast Coaching for C-suiteshttps://shor.by/leaderonline

Steps to Success - How to Manifest Exactly What You Need to Join Soul Rich Woman ProgramI want to talk about the six steps to success, how to get anything you want, manifesting exactly what you need to join Soul Rich Woman Blueprint program.  I want to share with you my most effective tools and strategies for manifesting money and not just any old amount of money. However, the exact amount you need to take up my coaching program. Whether is it the Money Mindset program or the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint program, I want to help you to create the wealth you need right now and then to help you invest that into your future and growth. I know that this will bring you so much more abundance and good fortune into your life.Number 1: Clear your money blocks.Number 2: Get clarity about what you're asking for.Number 3: Express gratitude and track your incoming money.Number 4: Be a visionary. Number 5: Make a commitment.Number 6: Take action. In this episode, key takeaways:1. You have to deal with your money blocks before you can manifest huge amounts of money.  2. Record your earnings.  3. Record every single cent, every single dollar you earn or receive.4. Create a vision board of all the things that you are going to have 5. Make it real.  6. One action will show the universe that you are serious about this and ready to receive. Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindsetHey gorgeous,Today I want to share with you my most effective tools and strategies for manifesting money.And not just any old amount of money. The exact amount you need to join the Soul Rich Woman program this month.I want to help you create the wealth you need right now. And then to help you invest that in your future and growth.I know this will bring so much more abundance and good fortune into your life! I've watched so many Soul Rich Woman grow their lives beyond their wildest dreams in this program. So, are you ready to play along? Let's get creative and help you manifest the money you need to join the awesome community inside Soul Rich Woman this month.1) Clear Your Money BlocksThe first step is always getting clear of any old money beliefs and patterns that are holding you back. So, sorry to dive in with you at the deep end but you've got this, I promise! You have to deal with your money blocks before you can manifest big bucks.How do you do that?! You need to get clear what the blocks are and then work with each one in turn to assess whether it's actually true. Read my advice on dealing with money blocks here.2) Get Clarity About What You're Asking ForIn this case, you're asking for a set sum of money to join the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint Money Mindset program so it's really simple. Take a large piece of paper and at the top, write down the amount that you need to join today. Stick it somewhere visible. Somewhere you'll see it every day. Your fridge door?! You're gonna record your earnings here. And I promise this'll be super motivational as you see the amount you need decreasing every day.3) Express Gratitude and Track Your Incoming MoneyExpress gratitude for everything that comes into your life each and every day. Record every cent you earn or receive. At the end of every day, mark off the money that's come in on your piece of paper (see above). Calculate your new money goal. You're getting closer! You're taking steps towards your financial goal. Nice work!4) Be a Visionary!Create a vision board of all of the things you're going to have, be and do when you uplevel. Because Soul Rich Woman Blueprint Money Mindset program is one big upleveling party. You're going to have so much more abundance in your life. Dreaming of a new car? More time to yourself? Some beautiful art? A handful of wealthy uplifting clients? Get it all on your vision board and display your creation somewhere prominent. You want to see it often as a visual reminder of what you're aiming for.5) Make a CommitmentTell your friends and family that you're joining Soul Rich Woman Blueprint Money Mindset program next month. Make it real. Write down the date you're going to start in your diary. One month from now. Clear aside some time to work through the modules – you'll need about two hours a week for weeks. Commit yourself!6) Take ActionWrite a list of 30 actions you could take to make money. Anything from a yard sale to increasing your prices, making an offer to sorting out those unpaid invoices. Once you've completed your list take action on one task. Yes! right here, right now. That one action will show the universe that you're serious about this. You're ready to receive!And that's it! It's pretty simple really. And super exciting!I can't wait to see you reach for your dreams and come join us inside Soul Rich Woman Blueprint Money Mindset program – it's life changing.This is your time and you're ready for the next step,Genecia

How To Use My 3 Best Money Affirmations To Change Your LifeMoney affirmations can get a little bit iffy for some of you, but you know that I absolutely love good affirmations because I think they really have a powerful impact on your life and business, and it can be as powerful as reading a book or taking a course. Affirmations are a huge part of how I have manifested my life and business, and I always recommend them as a great starting point if you are looking to upgrade your life or to have more belief in yourself to own and love the F word.  There are three best affirmations that I have that can help you shift from feeling negative and frustrated to feeling really good about yourself, abundant, and deserving really quickly. Affirmation 1: My face is my fortune.  Affirmation 2: I serve, I deserve.  Affirmation 3: This is what a wealthy person looks like.In this episode, key takeaways:1. Affirmations can impact your money mindset.2. For your customers to connect with you, you need to be seen.  3. I deserve to be rich when I add value to other people's lives.  4. Remind yourself that you can be a Soul Rich Woman.Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

Kim Kiyosaki: Invest In Yourself And Get To Financial Freedom with Rich WomanIn this episode we have a very special guest is none other than Kim Kiyosaki. She is an Internationally renowned speaker, best-selling author of “Rich Woman” and “Good Deal, Bad Deal”, Radio Show Host, Entrepreneur and Real Estate Investor. She is also the founder of the Rich Woman organisation. Kim realised early on in her career that she didn't want to be an employee. In search of something more, she worked to develop her skills and made her first real estate purchase. She now controls millions of dollars of investment property and is committed to helping women achieve financial freedom through investing and taking control of their financial futures. Rich woman bookKim Kiyosaki wrote the book entitled “Rich Woman”. Here she shared the inspiration behind the birth of the book: (3:45)The reason Genecia I wrote Rich Woman was because Robert and I, we travel the world teaching the Rich Dad philosophy taking two big groups and I will get up on stage and I will speak to the women for just a few minutes and at every event whether it's Singapore or we're London, Tokyo, Johannesburg wherever it was at the end of the event I'd always be surrounded by women and they had the same questions and the same issues and the biggest thing I realized is there's a huge huge huge demand for women to be educated about money and actually, we women, not only have we not been expected to know much about money but we've actually been taught to depend upon somebody else for our financial well-being.Financial Literacy Financial independence is not based on gender. It happens through education. This is Kim's encouragement for women to be financially secured:(4:52)So my whole message is we need to be in control of our finances we need to step-up and be financially literate and ideally it's up to each one of us to be financially secured (5:07)Nobody's gonna do that for us (5:09)No financial advisor no financial planner it's up to us. And it's not rocket science anybody can do it but it takes time and it takes education She added that to be financially stable requires a process: (6:17)Actually starting to take control of your finances starts very simple. You start small and take baby steps we don't go for the big deals we stick with the small deals. And the most important thing is that understand there's no secret sauce, there's no magic pill (6:49)It's a process and it's a process of education, it's a process of experience but it's not difficult. (06:58)it's just a matter of committing Risk taking in BusinessYou don't have to have it all figured out to start a business. Oftentimes you don't have anything but risk. Here's how Kim started from nothing: (7:41)I started with nothing and I'm gonna tell you that the best thing of all is that I didn't have the money, Robert and I did not have the money.  (8:10)Probably for the first 10-12 real estate deals I did, I did not have the money now what that forces you to do is get very very very creative For Kim, she chose real estate as an avenue to invest:(8:22)Once you see the property or whatever investment it is you're interested in. Once you see it , and touch it and feel it then put your mind to work on how can I now get the money, how can I create the money in order to get the investment.(9:54)What you want to do is create positive cash flow. My investment of choice is real estate there's many other ways to gather cash flow whatever works for you.(10:05)But we had 10 thousand dollars a month cash flow from our rental properties. But we only had 3 thousand dollars a month in living expenses. So at that point $10,000 coming in and $3,000 going out we were financially free.  Achieving financial freedomFinancial freedom may seem difficult at first but it is not impossible. As Kim ventured into Real Estate this is what they experienced: (10:39)Number 1 I did not have to worry about money anymore and number 2 it gave me the luxury to ask myself what I really want to do with my life. So it's all about financial freedom. (10:50)It's about freedom, not so much about the money but freedom is that having choices to live the life you want to live. That's what it's about.Filling up the gap in your cash flowThere's no one way to fill the gap, but the key is education and being fearless. Here is Kim's encouragement:(11:57)I made a ton of mistakes, a ton.  I mean that's the key to success, I'm gonna tell you right now, that the key to success is making mistakes everybody is still afraid of making a mistake, the only way we learn is by making a mistake. (12:24)The key is you gotta got into action I will always say get some education get some education get some financial education on the asset class you like and then once you have some education start very small take baby steps put a little money down because as soon as you put so many down my interest goes way up. (12:57)One thing I recommend for women especially is to go out and buy a 1 ounce silver coin. it's been across 20 dollars US today. But what that does because you know got this asset this gold or silver coin all of the sudden your interest will go up will look at the prices of silver every single day, what's it doing. Why is it up, why is it down? And because you've just parted with 20 dollars US you become this quasi expert on silver. (13:31)I'm a big believer in you've gotta  put some money down, get into the game and then that's where the real learning happens. You gotta go out and do the real thing. Raising kids and being married while building your wealthYour family, most importantly your kids should not be a reason for you not to seek for financial stability. Although Kim and Robert don't have kids, she shared a very good example here: (14:09)Robert and I do not have kids, really by choice.(14:19)But my girlfriends for example Lisa Lannon, she's a Rich Dad advisor, she and her husband Josh, they have very successful businesses they have 2 kids they involve their kids in their business, they involve their kids in their investing so when they go out and lock at a property they bring the children along so they educate the kids as well as educate themselves. So for women, especially with the internet there's so much opportunity offer in the internet for business and things like that I think the parent of course can be the best teacher. So why not include the kids. It amazes me how young kids get interested in money. They know about money. When their very very young. So why not educate them while your educating yourself. (15:14)I don't think it has to be one or the other.  I think you can do it together.(15:21)and same with the relationship same with couples I'm not advocating for the woman to go out there she's married and she has a life partner then she goes out there and do this all by herself and separate from her spouse this is ideally investing it's something you want to do together as a couple because you grow together you learn together. Invest in yourselfBeing a woman is not an excuse to remain financially dependent on someone else. Be encouraged with Kim's words: (20:00)Most important investment is to invest in yourself and to invest in your education. And for me, it's about your financial education. (20:12)At some point you gotta put yourself first. As a woman we tend to put everybody else first, we put our husbands, our family, our kids, everybody else first . There comes a time you gotta say “hey! I gotta put myself first” (21:05)Oftentimes, too many of us women find ourselves in a financial crisis and they're not educated about money. They have no idea. (21:27)Especially if you are a mom, I think you owe it to yourself to get financially educated to take care of your kids in case something happens. (21:53)When people say “I'll try to get there” “I'll try to be there” “I'll try to make it” If you're saying I'll try, you're already saying “I'm not gonna do it” . Cause try doesn't even exist.  (22:22)So just be honest with yourself  The secret of SuccessThere's no such thing as a secret to success, according to Kim it's all about personal development and letting go of fear: (28:07)Well there's really no secret except we work on ourselves we work on this because this is what holds us back the fear the doubt the all of the things that get in our way that's  what holds us back from success. (28:29)For somebody who is just starting out. If you're just starting out in investment, in real estate, in a business, it's scary because it's an unknown. You haven't done this before we got this horrible fear of making mistakes. So when we come up against obstacles and things like that oftentimes this is the biggest obstacle. So if we can keep clearing our thoughts, our beliefs, our ideas especially around money, that can free us up to move forward with a lot of energy.Women EmpowermentThis is the perfect moment for women to stand out and stand up. Gone are the days of taking the back seat. Here is Kim's call to all women:(38:11)For women right now I'm saying women we need to go for it the world is really messed up right now it's messed up financially, economically, morally, ethically and I think it's up to the women to turn things around because we deal with different energy, we deal with different spirit we bring a whole different personality to the world. 38:42-39:05 Right now it's up to women to  stand up to start being role models start being leaders in their families in their communities in their cities in their countries and that's more why I speak or why I educate it's not just about you getting financial security it's really about women stepping up in taking leadership roles and really changing the world.  Transformation Financial situations that hinder us from being secure can only be changed with real transformation. Here is Kim's explanation based on Neuroscience: (39:51)If you're in that situation you gotta ask yourself if I keep doing what I'm doing every single day am I gonna get the outcome I want?(40:10) If they keep doing what they're doing is that gonna change that situation or not and if it's not then they have to ask themselves what do I need to do in order to change it? So, for real change to happen, real transformation to happen it's a four step project, a four step  process. One, you gotta get information. Two, you gotta take action so if somebody's in that situation and they're not doing anything different nothing's gonna change so you got to take action that's different. the 3rd step is what's called feedback so for every action we take, every single action we take there's feedback.(41:28)The fourth step is called incubation where you take time being yourself and really incorporate what you've learned into your body of knowledge. Key Takeaways : Have a proper allocation of your scarce resources to satisfy needs and wants Educate yourself first before anything else. Change your money mindset.   Make it your goal to be financially secured. Don't be afraid to take risks and invest.  Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset[00:00:02]Speaker 1: A strong and independent woman is something to behold. She pays her own bills, buys her own things, and she doesn't let a man affect her stability or self-confidence. She is a Soul Rich Woman.[00:00:15]Speaker 2: Are you ready to be rich in doing what you love be on purpose and in control of your life again. And for women who love the F-word podcast, we will be openly talking about getting more clients online, getting recognition as the leader and female entrepreneur, and also the F-word being fabulous, having freedom and financial independence. It's time to own and love the F word. Welcome to the show.[00:00:48]Speaker 2: All right, Kim, thank you very much for being here.[00:00:52]Speaker 3: Thank you, Genecia. I'm so excited to talk with you.[00:00:57]Speaker 2: Yes. Okay. So I want to say I'm really very blessed to meet you. I love to see you in Singapore real soon. So for those of you who do not know Kim that well yet, so let me just do a quick introduction. And now Kim is an internationally renowned speaker, best selling author of Rich Woman. I must flaunt my book. I have all these stickies here as well. You got to sign them when you come here. Okay.[00:01:30]Speaker 2: And of course, you're the author of The Good Deal, Bad Deal, radio show host, entrepreneur, and real estate investor. Now, Kim realized early in her career that she didn't want to be an employee in search of something more. She worked to develop her skills and made her first real estate purchase. She now controls millions of dollars of investment property and is committed of helping women to achieve financial freedom through investing and taking control of their financial futures. OK, so we have Kim in the house. Kim, once again, welcome. Thank you.[00:02:13]Speaker 3: Thank you, Genecia. Thank you for having me. I can't wait to see you in Singapore.[00:02:18]Speaker 2: Yes. So when are you going to come to Singapore? I know you're going to be in Singapore earlier.[00:02:25]Speaker 3: Yes. So there's the big masters of the century. The name of that event, I'll be there for that 23rd, 24th. And then we are doing our Rich Woman event for two days with my team of women. We're dear girlfriends, entrepreneurs, investors, we travel the world, and we do not do this event very often, very rarely, actually. But Veronica and Richard best resources, they've been so good to us. So we're really, really excited to come to Singapore and to meet the women of Singapore. I know Singapore very well, and I know the women of Singapore and Asia are our house, and it's time for the women to step up because the world needs strong women leaders right now, and that's one of the reasons that we're coming and we're teaching and we're educating.[00:03:23]Speaker 2: What made you wanted to write this book, Rich Woman? I mean, like, I've read it, I love it so much. I educated myself, so, I mean, like, you have started at such an early age, and then you put this whole piece together, and it's for us. So why do you do it? At the beginning?[00:03:44]Speaker 3: Yeah. The reason Genecia, I wrote Rich Woman was because Robert and I would travel the world teaching the Rich Dad philosophy, speaking to big groups, and I would get up on stage and I would speak to the women for just a few minutes. And at every event, whether it was Singapore or London, Tokyo, Johannesburg, wherever it was, at the end of the event, I'd always be surrounded by women. And they had the same questions and the same issues. And the biggest thing I realized is there's a huge, huge, huge demand for women to be educated about money. And actually, we women, not only have we not been expected to know much about money, but we've actually been taught to depend upon somebody else for our financial well-being be it a husband, family member, government. We've actually been taught not to take, not to not to take care of ourselves financially, but to be dependent on somebody else. So that puts us often in dire straits. My whole message is we need to be in control of our own finances. We need to step up and be financially literate. And ideally, it's up to each one of us to be financially secure and financially, nobody's going to do that for us.[00:05:08]Speaker 3: No financial advisor, no financial planner, and it's not rocket science. Anybody can do it. But it takes time when it takes education.[00:05:17]Speaker 2: I think one of the big pieces is when you said, anybody can do it, anyone can do it, it feels like a hurdle because a lot of us in our education system, we are taught that to go this way or when we were supposed to go to the left, if we go to the right. If teachers say go to the right, we'll go to the right. So we're kind of like, boxed up in this system where we are not taught financial literacy at a very young age in our generation. And how can we do more now that you're saying that anybody can do? How can we cross this hurdle in our minds that we can actually do it?[00:05:53]Speaker 3: Yeah, well, when you say minds, when you say mind Genecia, that's the biggest part of it. Number one is our thoughts and our beliefs rule everything. So if our thoughts and beliefs are, I don't know anything about money, I'm not good with numbers, somebody else will take care of me, then that's a recipe for disaster. So actually starting to take control of your finances starts very simple. We start small. We take baby steps. We don't go for the big deals. We stay with the small deals. The most important thing is that understand, there's no cost, there's no magic pill, there's no real. Everybody wants the fast answer. Give me the answer. Give me the secret. There's not, it's a process, and it's a process of education. It's a process of experience. But it's not difficult. It's just a matter of committing to wanting to have what money really is. It's about freedom. It's about having choices. And too many of us women find ourselves in dire financial strength as we get older due to death of a spouse, divorce, bad money management. So too many of us women find ourselves in a financial crisis, and that does not have to happen.[00:07:21]Speaker 3: So it is not difficult, but it does take time. You got to commit to it and you've got to put in the effort.[00:07:31]Speaker 2: So what is the minimum amount that any woman can start to build her financial future?[00:07:38]Speaker 3: Well, I started with nothing. I started with nothing. And I'm going to tell you, probably the best thing of all is that I did not have the money. Robert and I did not have the money. So, for example, our very first investment, my very first investment was a little two bedroom, one bath house in a place called Portland, Oregon. It was $45,000. I needed $5,000 down $5,000. Did not have it. But here's the beauty of it. Probably for the first ten to twelve real estate deals, I did, I did not have the money. And what that forces you to do is get very, very creative. So once you see the property, or whatever investment it is you're interested in, once you see it and touch it and feel it, then it puts your mind to work on, how can I now get the money? How can I create the money in order to get the investment? And that's probably one of the biggest things. So when people say, when I get the money, I'll invest, chances are when I have extra money, then I'll start investing. Chances are we're always so busy, we always have something that takes up our money.[00:08:56]Speaker 3: I always say, find the investment first, then the money moves up. Figure out how to get the money.[00:09:03]Speaker 2: I remember watching one of the interviews, in fact, in a recent one that you did when you were in London, you talk about achieving financially free is so simple. You spoke about the concept of keeping your expenses low while the money that you bring in just higher than whatever you're spending. And that difference in itself is financial freedom. Tell us more about this mind boggling concept, because people think that having financial freedom is multimillions of dollars.[00:09:35]Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. In 1984, Robert and I were financially free, and exactly as you say, everybody thought, oh, you must have millions of dollars set aside in savings that you're going to live off of. No, that was not the case. And our formula is very simple. What you want to do is create positive cash flow. My investment of choice is real estate. There's many other ways to gather cash flow, whatever works for you. But we had $10,000 a month cash flow from our rental properties, but we only had $3,000 a month in living expenses. So at that point, 10,000 coming in, 3000 going out. We were financially free. And the most beautiful thing about that is that for the first time, I didn't have to worry about money, which was huge. We all worry about money. How do we pay our bills? How are we going to make this payment? How are we going to do the next thing we want to do financially? Number one, I did not have to worry about money anymore. And number two, it gave me the luxury to ask myself, what do I really want to do with my life? So it's all about financial freedom.[00:10:49]Speaker 3: It's about freedom. It's not so much about the money. It's about freedom. It's about having choices to live the life you want to live. That's what it's about. And then every single real estate investor, successful real estate investor that I know are small, work through their process. And today, because of that, that's what makes them successful. And so I'm very straightforward. I'm very forthright on what it's going to take, the reality of what it's going to take any woman if I can do it, I didn't know anything about money. I didn't know anything about investing. I didn't know anything about real estate. So if I can do it, you can do it too.[00:11:31]Speaker 2: But there must be a gap that you filled up, right? I mean, the time when you understood your expenses are low and having more cash flow to that point of zero, to that point of acceleration, what was it that filled the gap for you and Robert?[00:11:46]Speaker 3: When you say fill the gap, meaning.[00:11:49]Speaker 2: How do you have that awareness to know that, okay, I need to do this, I need to do this, I need to do this?[00:11:54]Speaker 3: Oh, I made a ton of mistakes. A ton of mistakes. A ton. That's the key to success. I'm going to tell you right now that's the key to success is making mistakes. Everybody is so afraid of making a mistake. The only way we learn is by making a mistake. So Robert started to explain to me what his Rich Dad taught him about real estate. And he's like, okay, so go buy something. Go figure it out. I'm like, I don't know how to figure this out. I just went bumbling and stumbling along. But the key is you've got to get into action. So I always say, get some education, get some education. Get some financial education on the asset class you like, there's four asset classes, the asset class you like. And then once you have some education, start very small. Take baby steps, put a little money down. Because as soon as I put some money down, my interest goes way up. Way up. If I put $100 onto something, I'm going to be interested in what that's going to do. So, for example, today, one thing I recommend for women especially, is go out and buy a 1oz silver coin.[00:13:02]Speaker 3: It's going to cost about $20 US today. But what that does is because you've now got this asset or this gold silver coin, all of a sudden your interest will go up. You'll look at the price of silver every single day. What's it doing? Why is it up, why is it down? And because you've just started with $20, you become this quasi-expert on silver. I'm a big believer, and you've got to put some money down, get into the game, and then that's where the real learning happens. You got to go out and do the real thing.[00:13:41]Speaker 2: I love that is where your treasure is. That's where your heart will be. Now, how can a woman with kids, a lot of them are asking, they have kids, they have work all at the same time. You're saying they have bills of pain thinking about education also, I can't do this. So how do you advise them to strike a balance between raising kids and building their wealth?[00:14:07]Speaker 3: Right? That's a great question. Robert and I do not have kids purely by choice. I have one kid called Robert. That's enough for me. That all I can handle. But my girlfriend, for example, Lisa Lannon, she's a rich dad advisor. She and her husband Josh teach. They have very successful businesses. They have two kids. They involve their kids in their business, they involve their kids in their investing. So when they go out and look at a property, they bring their children along. So they educate the kids as well as educate themselves. So for women, especially with the Internet, there's so much opportunity out there on the Internet for business and things like that. I think the parent, of course, is going to be the best teacher. So why not include the kids? It amazes me how young kids get interested in money. I mean, they know about money when they're very, very young, so why not educate them while you're educating yourself? I don't think it has to be one or the other. I think you can do it together. Yeah, and same with relationships, same with couples. I'm not advocating that a woman go out there, she's married and she has a life partner, that you go out there and do this all by herself and separate from her spouse.[00:15:30]Speaker 3: This is ideally, investing is something that you want to do together as a couple, because you grow together, you learn together. I do not understand why people you work so hard for your money. We work every single day for the paycheck, or if you're a business owner for that revenue. You work so hard for it, why would you turn it over to somebody else who you hope and pray is going to do a good job with it. Nobody is going to take care of your money better than you. And the most important thing I think someone can do is be aware, get educated and invest their money themselves and be responsible for your finances.[00:16:19]Speaker 2: That's right. And if you have not signed up for our Rich Women event happening on the 26th and 27 October, do remember to stay tuned to the end because we've got a really special gift for you where you can get a really special, I would say, discount. Okay? So do remember to stay tuned till the end. All right? Very, very important. Now, I'm very curious. You mentioned about your partnership with Robert and your relationship, right. And this is a question that always asks power couples. Okay. And how do you consistently, we talk about power struggle. How do you consistently work together hand in hand? You know, what it's like two relationship advice or three tips you would give any woman who probably have some kind of thing going on, but how can they manage it better, just like you?[00:17:19]Speaker 3: Well, I don't do it perfectly by any means. Robert and I being married is not the easiest thing either. You're always working on it to keep growing and to keep growing. So to be married and to be business partners is not for everybody. Absolutely not for everybody. It works for us. But the one thing I found is that we have very different roles. So Robert was always his story. He's the visionary. I love the business, and I never, ever expected to be on stage doing the whole Rich Woman thing. I love business. Even today, we have totally reinvented our company over the last few months. So I was not actively involved for the last few years. Today, I am the CEO and President. I am in there every single day running the company with our team. But I love the business. And Robert is the author. He's the big picture. So that works really well for us. Not in fact, the only arguments we have are about the business. We don't have arguments personally. We have arguments about the business because we're very passionate about our business. It is our baby. Our mission from day one in 1996 has always been to elevate the financial well-being of humanity.[00:18:46]Speaker 3: We live that. We breathe that with the company. Today, we're getting back to our roots of what that's about. We're building, bringing out the cash flow clubs. Our first product. Our first product, Genecia, was the cash flow board game. And that's near and dear to our hearts because that's where people can teach people. So Robert and I don't have to be going all over the world teaching people can teach each other through this cash flow board game. So in terms of how we work with a couple, I don't have three tips. It's always a dance. It's always a dance. And you've got to allow each other to bring their talents and their gifts to the table, and that's what works best for us.[00:19:33]Speaker 2: Many women tell me that, oh, Genecia, I can't come for the Rich Woman event. I'm too busy taking care of my kids. Oh, I need to ask my husband about the investment I'm about to make. Why would you say to these women with so many things, to consult someone else?[00:19:52]Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. I think the most important investment anybody can make, men or woman, the most important investment is to invest in yourself and to invest in your education. And for me, it's about your financial education. So to think that at some point you've got to put yourself first as a woman, we tend to put everybody else first. We put our husbands, our family, our kids, everybody else first. There comes a time where you got to say, hey, I got to put myself first. It's like when you get on an airplane and they say, in case of emergency, put your oxygen mask on first before helping others. Right? Right. So I think women have got to start putting on their oxygen mask first, start taking care of themselves. And to say, I can't come because of my husband or my kids, it's just an excuse. It is just an excuse. Either you want to do it or you don't. If you don't want to do it, just say, I don't want to do it. Don't say it's because of my kids. Don't use the excuse. There are so many excuses out there. So you got to decide for yourself what's most important to you in your life.[00:21:04]Speaker 3: And as I said, oftentimes too many of us women find ourselves in a financial crisis, and they're not educated about money. They have no idea. Let's say the husband passes away. She has no idea where the money is, what they've got, where it is. Mr. and Mrs. Helper, come along. I'll take care of you. And next thing you know, she's broken. Especially if you're a mom. I think you owe it to yourself to get financially educated, to take care of you and your kids in case something happens.[00:21:36]Speaker 2: Wow, that's really a golden nugget, ladies. Delete all your excuses and bring on that action. It's either a yes or yes. There's no other way.[00:21:47]Speaker 3: For example, I'll give you one thing that I've learned over the years, is that when people say, I'll try to get there, I'll try to be there, I'll try to make it. If you're saying I try, you've already said I'm not going to do it because try doesn't even exist. Trying to pick up this pen. When I pick up note you picked up the pen. Try to pick it up. I picked it up trying to not even exist. So as soon as somebody says, I'll try to be there, I'll think about it. It's just an excuse so just be honest with yourself whether we want to do it and invest in ourselves. So what are the three investment avenues, other than herself, that a woman can look into to start building her first steps to wealth?[00:22:39]Speaker 3: Well, Genecia, there's four asset classes, and Warren Buffett says there's many ways to financial heaven, and you've got to find a way that's right for you. So the four asset classes, one is business, investing in other businesses, building your own business. There's real estate, which is my investment of choice. I love real estate. I understand it. It works for me. There's paper assets like stocks, funds, mutual funds. And there's commodities. Commodities, Gold, silver, copper, soybeans, coffee. Those are all commodities. So you've got to find the investment, the asset class that sings to you and it will it will speak to you. So, for example, I knew early on that real estate, it's fun to me. It's a fun game. I enjoy it. I understand it. My girlfriend, who was an accountant, loved trading. She loved day trading. She loved trading what's called options, stock options. She was very good at it because that's the way her mind works. So don't go along just with what I say. Just because I do real estate, that doesn't mean that might be the best thing for you. But my two investment choices are business and real estate. I tried stocks.[00:24:03]Speaker 3: I've taken classes in stocks. I have studied the stock options, things like that. It doesn't fit with my personality. So you've got to find the one that's right for you. And then the other key is there's two things that investors invest for. One is capital gains. Capital gains is you buy a stock at $20, it goes to $50. You sell it, and your profit is called capital gains. If you buy a house for $100,000, put a little money into it, sell it for $150,000, your profit is called capital gains. You must sell an asset in order to realize capital gains, you have to sell. The other thing investors invest for is cash flow. I am the queen of cash flow. I love cash flow. So cash flow is where, like in paper, in stocks, maybe every twice a year, once a quarter, you get a dividend check on your stock. That dividend is cash flow because you're putting money in, it's working for you. It's giving you a return cash flow. You buy a rental property every month. You collect the rent, you pay the mortgage, you pay the expenses. If you've managed the property well, at the end of the month, you have a positive cash flow.[00:25:23]Speaker 3: So I am all about cash flow, because once you buy an asset and it's giving you cash flow every month, eventually you keep accumulating more and more assets that are giving you cash flow that's flowing into your income column. At some point, your income from your cash flow will replace the job salary paycheck that you're getting. And at that point, you're financially free. That's what I'm about. Money has the power, especially for women, to enslave you or to set you free. Too many women marry for money, are in bad relationships, because they're afraid they can't make it on their own financially. They are in jobs they hate because they need the paycheck. So I am not about having money in slavery. I am all about money setting you free.[00:26:21]Speaker 2: Wow. This is a very important statement. It's all about having the money that allows you to set you free, right?[00:26:28]Speaker 3: Yes, free. You want to live the life, you want to do what it is you really want to do with your life. We all have a gift, we all have a talent. Often times it's covered up because we have to work for money. We have to kind of sell our souls for money. So what if you had the financial freedom where you didn't have to do that anymore, where you could just live your life true to who you are at this point?[00:26:52]Speaker 2: So what will you be sharing with our audience, our women, this coming October? What exactly will you be covering into? How we're going to discover our personality types to work in the different asset areas, or we're going to learn more than that. Tell us more.[00:27:09]Speaker 3: Well, there's a lot we're going to cover in two days. And I have my three girlfriends again, entrepreneurs, so, Lisa Lannon, Steel Stanford, Ronny Jaggers, entrepreneurs, investors, very, very successful. We teach as a team. A lot of fun. And we're going to cover really three areas. So we're going to cover financial development, financial education, financial development. We're going to talk about investments. You're actually going to analyze some investments. We're going to talk about business development, entrepreneurship, building a business, investing in a business. We're going to analyze a business. But the real key to all of this is personal development, because you are the foundation of everything successful in your life. And for me and for Robert, people often ask, what's your secret to success? What's your secret? Well, there's really no secret except we work on ourselves, we work on this because this is what holds us back. The fear, the doubt, all of the things that get in our way, that's what holds us back from success. So the more we can clear this and work on this and work on us, the more we broke. So for somebody who's just starting out, if you're just starting out in investments, in real estate, in a business, it's scary because it's an unknown.[00:28:39]Speaker 3: We haven't done this before. We've got this horrible fear of making mistakes. So when we come up against obstacles and things like that, oftentimes this is the biggest obstacle. So if we can keep clearing our thoughts, our beliefs, our ideas, especially around money, that can free us up to move forward and have a lot more energy.[00:29:00]Speaker 2: Wow, I love that. Now, for those of you who just joined us, we just want to acknowledge you right now, with as many of you here in the room, we just want to acknowledge you. We know that you could be doing something else. So we are doing everything in our power to make it well worth your time. All right, so after the end of this webinar, the webinar replay will be posted on Success Resources Facebook page. So not to worry if you missed the front part. So it'd be available on the Success Resources Facebook page. And also, at the end of the webinar, we will be sharing with you a gift. Okay, last but not least, you get to ask questions. And we have already more than ten questions sitting on my table that were already pregiven to us and so one whole list. So the team has really filtered some of those important ones that desperately want them to be answered. So, Kim, one of the questions that came in during the Q and A actually asked how to start a real estate business with limited resources. So that's one of the questions that the participants have given us. What would you say about that?[00:30:14]Speaker 3: A lot of people say that they all think it takes money to make money. I'm here to tell you, it doesn't take money to make money. I'm a walking example of it. As I said earlier, my first, probably ten investments, I did not have the money. And what the number one excuse people use is, I don't have money, so I can't invest. I would say, number one, start getting educated on whatever it is that interests you. Whether it's real estate, whether it's business, whether it's stocks, bonds, options, whatever it is, start getting educated, because then you'll start to see things differently. And the second thing is, go find an investment. Whether you have money or not, go find one. Just go start looking. Start small. I always say, get some education. Take baby steps. Start small. Go buy a share of stock that can cost you like, $10. That's easy. But don't overthink it. Just get into some action. Get some education. Start small. Go buy that silver, 1oz silver coin. Go buy a share of stock online. There's so much opportunity online for you to create assets online. But I would start there. I would start there.[00:31:37]Speaker 3: Just start. Don't think about it so much. We get into analysis, paralysis. And they all want the formula first. Just start. Just start. There's two things you can invest. You can invest time and you can invest money. So before you start investing your money, invest the time in your education and your investment education. Do that first, then invest a little bit of money.[00:32:03]Speaker 2: A little bit.[00:32:05]Speaker 3: A little bit. Because you're going to make mistakes. Okay, I'm going to say one more thing, Genecia.[00:32:09]Speaker 2: Yes.[00:32:11]Speaker 3: So we all go to school, especially in Singapore. School is very important. We're all taught to go to the right school, you got to get the education. All this, let me tell you that what they teach you in school is opposite of what it takes to be successful in real life. So, for example, number one, in school, they say, don't make a mistake. They punish you, right, for making a mistake. They give you an F. They give you a red mark. They humiliate you in front of people. Okay? So people come out of school scared to death of making a mistake. The only way we learn is by making a mistake. A mistake only shows you something that you didn't know. So you make the mistake, and you get the lesson instead of going, oh, my God, I made a mistake, and you beat yourself up. What's the lesson? Where is it? What's the learning in that mistake? When we get smarter, then we can move forward. So number one, they teach you not to make mistakes. Number two, school teaches you to do it on your own in real life. If you do it on your own, you're only going to go so far.[00:33:13]Speaker 3: You need a team. You need people around to support. You need the team for investing. You need the team for business in order to grow and build it. And the third thing that a school says is, there's only one right answer. Well, no, there's a lot of right answers to the same problem. There's a lot of right answers to one problem. There's not one right answer. And we're trained to look for the one right answer. Give me the one right answer. Everybody says, how do I get successful? Give me the answer. No, there's no one right answer. There's a lot of answers. So a lot of it is deprogramming our mind. What we were taught in school, school actually can hinder our success from what it takes to be successful in our life.[00:34:00]Speaker 2: Wow, that's very good advice. One of the other questions is what are your go to time management strategies? I mean, you're so busy about business managing so many things. How do you do that?[00:34:14]Speaker 3: I have no idea. There's different personality types. My personality type is called a quick start. I go to solution very quickly. I go to action very quickly. And sometimes that's a plus, and sometimes that's a minus. But I just know that I know the most important things I need to handle, and I do my best to handle those first in the day.[00:34:46]Speaker 2: Do you intuitively know what exactly you have to handle, or do you, like, have a priority list that you do or something?[00:34:55]Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good question. As I've gotten older, and maybe because of more experience and more knowledge, my intuition does kick in stronger. And I don't have to do lists. I don't do well with them. But I have maybe five things, like, every day, maybe five things that I have to do. And here's the thing that has worked for me. Oftentimes there are things that are uncomfortable that I don't want to do. Like, you got to make that phone call and tell somebody that you're not going to do business with them or there's an upset and you need to confront it. So what I've learned is I've gotten pretty good at confronting the things that make me uncomfortable. Wow. Well, I would say this in all aspects of life, and this comes if you want to build your business, if you want to start investing, if you have a hard, you've got to start getting comfortable being uncomfortable. You've got to do those things that are going to stretch you. If you want to be successful, you've got to get out of your comfort zone. If you keep doing the same thing day in and day out and day in and day out and not stretch yourself and not get out of your comfort zone, you're never going to grow.[00:36:17]Speaker 3: So my fitness coach says, you got to get comfortable being uncomfortable. And he gives me the hard exercise, and I'm like, I really don't want to do that. I really don't want to run up those stairs 20 times. He goes, well, then just stay comfortable and stay where you're at.[00:36:36]Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, I love that. And how do you know I just want to add one more question to this. How do you know exactly when you are in the comfort zone so that you can activate the other part of you and say, hey, it's time to get out and get moving?[00:36:53]Speaker 3: Yeah, well, because you feel it inside. Like, let's say there's a phone call you need to make and it's going to be uncomfortable. You know, your body will tell you because it'll feel like this angst and you might be a little scary. It might feel like little goosebumps and all of that stuff. You know, when there's something that you need to do, that's going to take a little more effort and either you're going to do it or you're not. So, for example, on my very first real estate property, my little two bedroom, one bath house, I was scared to death. What if I make a mistake? What if the tenant moves out? What if I lose money? What if, what if, what if, what if I was scared to death? And there came a time where I went, okay, I'm either going to do this deal or I'm not. And I knew if I did it, there was going to be a big learning curve and it was going to make me very uncomfortable, but I was going to learn something. And if I didn't do it, I wasn't going to learn anything. So you know in your heart, whether you're backing off or whether you're pushing forward, you know, and you know when you wimp out and you know when you go for it.[00:38:09]Speaker 3: Right now, for women right now, I'm saying women, we need to go for it. We need to go for it. The world is really messed up right now. It's messed up financially, economically, morally, ethically, and I think it's up to the women to turn things around, because we bring a different energy, we bring a different spirit, we bring a whole different personality to the world. And too many of us have been sitting in the background letting everybody else, letting our spouse and everybody else do stuff. Right now, it's up to women to stand up, start being role models, start being leaders in their families and their communities, in their cities, in their countries. And that's more why I speak and why I educate. It's not just about you getting financially secure. It's really about women stepping up and taking a leadership role and really changing the world, really making a difference in the world. It's about making a difference in the world.[00:39:09]Speaker 2: Wow. Two more questions. How to recover from paycheck to paycheck situation when you have too many obligations? How to recover from paycheck to paycheck situation when you have too many obligations?[00:39:28]Speaker 3: So I'm assuming they're talking about financial obligations.[00:39:32]Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.[00:39:33]Speaker 3: Financial obligations. Okay, so this comes from neuroscience. I've studied neuroscience lately and how real change and real transformation happens. So if you're in that situation, you got to ask yourself, if I keep doing what I'm doing every single day, am I going to get the outcome I want? So if somebody is living paycheck to paycheck and they've got all these obligations, if they keep doing what they're doing, is it going to change that situation or not? And if it's not, then they got to ask themselves, what do I need to do in order to change it? So for real change to happen, real transformation to happen, it's a four step project, a four step process. One, you got to get information. Two, you got to take action. So if somebody's in that situation and they're not doing anything different, nothing's going to change. So you got to take action. That's different. The third step is what's called feedback. So for every action we take, every single action we take, there's feedback. So if I shake your hand and you shake my hand back, that feedback. If you touch your finger to a hot stove and it burns, that's feedback.[00:41:00]Speaker 3: Too often we have all this feedback coming to us. That is gems. They're gems. They are like, the best information, but we're ignoring it. We're not aware of it, we're not paying attention to it, so we don't learn from it. And then the fourth is when you get that feedback, let's say you're launching a new product and nobody buys it, sales or zero, that's feedback. So then you got to take that feedback, what you've learned. And the fourth step is called incubation, where you take time to yourself and really incorporate what you've learned into your body of knowledge. So if somebody is living paycheck to paycheck and struggling, they got to ask themselves, is what I'm doing if I keep doing this every single day? Is it going to change. And if not, then they got to start looking for new answers. They want to be comfortable and it's the killer. It's the killer. If you just want to be comfortable, then just know that as long as you want to be comfortable, nothing's going to change and you're not going to try to get the outcome.[00:42:15]Speaker 2: For people to be from moving to them, from unconscious competence to conscious competence, would probably take the Rich Woman education. You must invest in yourself so that you can up level your financial knowledge and really your financial education. Here at Rich Woman. [00:42:40]Speaker 3: Most women, they love to spend money. We love to shop, we love to spend money, right? So at the two day seminar, we're just going to talk about how to spend money differently, how to spend it, what to spend it on, instead of spending it on shoes and handbags and all that good clothes and all of that stuff. We're going to talk about how to spend your money so that it makes you money and it makes you financially free. Again, it's not rocket science. It's just rethinking changing your mindset to think a different way, to see things differently. For example, everybody's talking about a big crash that's coming. There's probably a global economic crash that's going to happen. Well, if that happens, especially, let's say for real estate, when a real estate crash happens, that's the best opportunity to buy your investments that are going to make you a lot of money. It's just like when clothes go on. When the store has a big clothing sale, we all go in and buy because it's cheap. Well, when there's a real estate crash, it's cheap. You go in and buy. But unless you know what to look for, unless you know a good deal from a bad deal, you're going to miss the opportunity.[00:43:53]Speaker 3: So right now at our event, we're going to talk about how do you find a good deal versus a bad deal? How do you spot a good business from a bad business so you know what to look for as you're looking into your future.[00:44:09]Speaker 2: Wow, this is really exciting. We will know exactly what to look for.[00:44:16]Speaker 3: They don't know what questions to ask. They don't know what to look for. So probably the best way to say it is these two days, we're going to open your eyes for that.[00:44:24]Speaker 2: Wow, this is really awesome. So I'm really very excited. And the last question is, what's your greatest attribute to your success?[00:44:38]Speaker 3: The greatest attribute to my success? I never stopped learning. There we go. I never stopped learning. And I work on this and I work on my personal growth. I'm always looking at my beliefs, my thoughts. I mean, if one thing, if you took nothing away from this webinar right now, one thing, be aware of your thoughts. Just every once in a while, listen to your thoughts. Listen to your belief? Because I catch myself all the time, every day with this negative thought, this negative belief, and I stop myself and I catch myself, and I go, okay, so is that serving me or not? If we can start to be more aware about what our thoughts are, what our beliefs are, what we're saying to ourselves, what we're saying to other people, that's huge. And we talk about one of the keys to my successes that would be one of the keys to my successes is being aware of all that selftalk and that self chatter and that little voice in your head, as the singer would say.[00:45:43]Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite quote that keeps you motivated or keeps you going? Kim.[00:45:54]Speaker 3: There's a quote by I think it was Emerson. I think it was Emerson. He said, Nothing happens until something moves. Nothing happens until something moves. And to me, that says, if you're not in motion and you're not moving, nothing's going to happen. So I like to set goals for myself that I don't know if I can accomplish them. And then what I do is so, for example, with the book Rich Woman yes. I set a deadline on when the book we set a deadline on when the book was going to launch, and then everything from there went backwards. And so I said, okay, I agree to that. That means I got to get the book written by this time. I got to get this done. I got to get this done. And I also have people around me who are counting on me to deliver. So that's one of my keys for a goal. I set a goal, I set a deadline, and then I have people that are counting on me, so I don't want to let them know.[00:46:58]Speaker 2: Wow. So it's not just your own responsibility, but also your responsibility to others.[00:47:04]Speaker 3: Yes. And in order to be successful, you've got to have a good team of people. And the most number one factor for me and I learned this the hard way is I only want to be around people and deal with people who I trust, and that's huge. So, for example, Richard and Veronica success resources. We've known each other for 22 years. I trust them explicitly, but I only want to deal with people I trust. Too many people are only in it for the money. So if your goal we talk about goals. If your goal is to make money, if that's the goal, if you're starting a business and the goal of your business is to make money, chances are you're not going to make it because that goal is not strong enough. When you hit the obstacles, when you have the setbacks, when you have the negative responses, when you have all of the problems that will come from being a business owner, if your whole goal is just to make money not strong enough, you've got to have a real strong reason why you're in business. What's your purpose? What's the bigger picture? What is it for you that's going to keep you going through that adversity?[00:48:17]Speaker 3: That's key?[00:48:19]Speaker 2: Wow. So much. Thank you. Kim, thanks so much for sharing with us so much of your wisdom today. I really enjoyed it. I really enjoyed the conversation with you. And I really look forward to seeing you here in Singapore as well.[00:48:35]Speaker 3: I love Singapore. It's such a great spot, and the people there are fabulous. We always have a good time. And the reason we do a women only event is because we want to create a very safe, sacred place where women can share and be open and maybe talk about things that other times I wouldn't talk about. So it becomes a very intimate environment and very powerful, too.[00:49:00]Speaker 2: Do take action. Wait no further. Because you need to step out of your comfort zone and go invest in your financial future. Be a Rich Woman.[00:49:13]Speaker 3: It's time for you to invest in yourself.[00:49:15]Speaker 2: Yes. All right. So thank you, guys. Thank you and take care. Bye bye.[00:49:21]Speaker 3: Bye bye.[00:49:23]Speaker 1: Thank you for joining me today. I'm so honored to have you here. Making more money in your business doesn't have to be stressful, time consuming, or difficult. Small changes can make a big difference. If you love this episode and you want more tools like this using your business, your team and your clients, visit our website at soulrichwoman.com, S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N.com. Sending you my love and speak to you soon.

FWEP0001  Do not be fooled by Genecia's impeccable appearance. Have been crowned as Miss Singapore and Miss Singapore International, many are quick to think Genecia was born with a silver spoon. However, behind this beautiful face there is a hardworking and self-sacrificing woman in power. This young lady had it all, but easy. As a teenager she was forced to put herself through her education by teaching an array of wellness classes such as: yoga, aerobics and line dancing.These years of hardship molded her and lead her to become the founder of Soul Rich Woman, where she educates and elevates women to realize their highest power.Interviewer: Elena CardoneThe architect behind many of Grant Cardone Enterprises' ventures, Elena is an experienced business woman, entrepreneur and investor with her and Grant's influence felt with Cardone Capital which is closing in on 5,000 units under management with a real estate portfolio valued at $1 billion.Connect with Elena Cardone: https://elenacardone.com/about/FWEP0001 Not Everything Is As It Seems - Women in Power Singapore with Genecia Alluora In this episode, let me encourage you as a former Miss Singapore and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence in 2010; and founder of Soul Rich Woman, the number one female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 12,000 women across the region, with presence in 7 countries, including Singapore, Malaysia, the Philippines, Vietnam, and Indonesia.  Self-SupportingAt an early age of 14 I have learned to face challenges and took on responsibilities due to life's circumstances.(3:33)“A lot of people thought that when I was Ms. Singapore they think that I was born with a silver spoon. But it did not start that way I had to support myself through school since I was 14 years old, teaching Yoga, aerobics and line dancing through my school years so I put myself through college I put myself  through university so it was really tough.” Financial CrisisDue to a financial crisis, I had to step up and think of ways to support myself and my family. I had to do sacrifices to make it through in life.(4:06)“At that time my dad lost everything due to the financial crisis. (4:20) Because of that I had to come up and do my own stuff and I think that has really molded me through my years and then after that I became an occupational therapist. (4:53) Back then I was the youngest instructor in Singapore and then I went on to do classes but it was not easy because when I'm seeing other girls doing things in their free time they are going to the movie, going for shopping and then I'm working after school.” Empowering WomenWhat I experienced during my teenage years gave me a better perspective on influence and how it can be used to empower others.(5:47) “I've come along way with my experiences, now it's time to share and shortcut other woman's journey and empower others because empowered women empower others.(6:45) After that I took on these skills, I went on to coach and mentor many women to transform their confidence from being ugly duckling to be more confident and become the better version of themselves.”  The motivation to changeAs I moved up the ladder and gained success, I realized I needed more freedom and not be bound by time and money.(6:56)“Because I went through that transformation myself too. That movement actually gave me the confidence to do more in my life. In 2012-2013 I told myself I'm no longer going to trade time for money because as an image consultant you work you get paid when you stop working you don't get paid. So I said I want to move this online.”  Process of growthYou need to expand and broaden your horizons to progress in life. You need to invest in yourself too.(7:21) “So I went through a process seeking mentors, looking for coaches to coach me on the process spent hundreds and thousands of dollars looking for resources to grow my knowledge. (7:38)I worked my way up then I took my vision of helping more women to be more confident and then I started a platform called “You are possible academy” because I launched my own book in 2013, it's about personal branding then after that I went online.”  A heart for womenDespite the success that I attained there was still something missing, I felt like I wasn't where I was supposed to be.(8:25) “During this whole period my heart has always been with the women even though I was doing the retail business. It was tough, because there was a calling at the back of my head like “Genecia you gotta do this” you can't just give up the women and just do a coffee retail chain. Move up and do more.” Stepping stone (11:15) “You know back then, I was bullied I was really bullied by mean girls in school. You know I was poor, I really didn't  have any money to change my bag or even to change my clothes besides my school clothes.”I faced the roadblocks in my life. From adjusting to our family's financial situation to being bullied at school and doing jobs while studying. These situations could have hindered me, but instead of viewing them as stumbling blocks I used them as stepping stones to reaching my dreams.  Key Takeaways:  Success is not determined by financial status. Life's changes should not stop you from pursuing your dreams. Keep learning, keep growing. Do not give up on what you are most passionate about. Roadblocks are stepping stones. Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset[00:00:02]Speaker 1: A strong and independent woman is something to behold. She pays her own bills, buys her own things, and she doesn't let a man affect her stability or self-confidence. She is a Soul Rich woman. Are you ready to be rich doing what you love beyond on purpose and in control of your life again? As for women who love the F-word podcast, we will be openly talking about getting more clients online, getting recognition as the leader and female entrepreneur and also the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom and financial independence. It's time to own and love the F word. Welcome to the show.[00:00:52]Speaker 2: Elena Cardone started her career in Hollywood and soon became a successful actress and model of TV and film fame. A lifelong competitive sport shooter and now author, businesswoman public speaker, empire builder and visionary. Elena currently hosts her own show, Women in Power and cohosts the G and E show with her husband Grant Cardone, who is also the best-selling author, entrepreneur, and real estate investor. Together they have created a real estate portfolio of almost $1 billion. Elena has been happily married since 2004, July 4 to be exact, in their lives with her husband Grant and their two daughters Sabrina and Scarlett in Miami Beach. Elena came to Singapore together with Grant over a week and they were here to speak at the National Achievers Congress. Someone introduced us and we became friends and got me in for her interview as one of her guests. And in return, I also interviewed her as well on her story. So do take a listen. I hope you enjoyed these episodes.[00:02:23]Speaker 3: Welcome to this week's episode of Women Empower. Today, I have Ms. Genecia Alluora. She is Woman Empower Singapore. She has won Miss Singapore and Miss Singapore International. She represents Singapore not only once, but twice. Who does that? This woman, that's who. She also founded and is the creator of Soul Rich Woman Asia. And she connects about 200,000 plus women in the entrepreneurial space and really educates and elevates and motivates women to represent themselves at the highest level. So, without further ado, thank you so much for being on the show. It is such an honor and a pleasure to meet you.[00:03:12]Speaker 4: Thank you for having me on your show.[00:03:14]Speaker 3: It is wonderful to have you. So, okay, bring me back so my audience can understand. Have you always just been this successful go getter type woman or was this something you developed? How were you raised?[00:03:30]Speaker 4: Well, a little bit of my back story. A lot of people thought that when I was Miss Singapore, they think that I'm born with a silver spoon.[00:03:38]Speaker 3: That's what everyone would think. Looking at you, you looked so beautiful and so together and so intelligent. It's like, okay.[00:03:45]Speaker 4: Well, it didn't start that way. I had to support myself through school since I was 14 years old, teaching yoga, aerobics and line dancing through my school years. So I put myself through college. I put myself through University. So it was really tough.[00:04:01]Speaker 3: So why did you have to support yourself at 14 most?[00:04:05]Speaker 4: Well, at that time, my dad lost everything due to the financial crisis.[00:04:10]Speaker 3: Was this in 2008?[00:04:13]Speaker 4: Way back more.[00:04:15]Speaker 3: Way back more. Okay, well, you're way young to me.[00:04:17]Speaker 4: Okay. Yeah. And because of that, I had to come out and do my own stuff. And I think that has really molded me through my years. And then after that, I became an occupational therapist.[00:04:31]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:04:32]Speaker 4: Yes.[00:04:32]Speaker 3: So at 14, when the crash happened, your father lost everything. Did he say you have to go to work or was this now an initiative that you took on your own?[00:04:42]Speaker 4: My mom kicked my ass. She pawned her gold, her jewelry to give me the money to do the certification as an instructor. So back then, I was the youngest instructor in Singapore, and then I went on to do classes. But it was not easy because when I'm seeing other girls doing things in their free time, they are going to the movies, going for shopping, and then I'm working after school. So can you imagine waking up 05:00 a.m. in the morning to go to school?[00:05:12]Speaker 3: Not at 14.[00:05:13]Speaker 4: And then 12:00 p.m. 1, you finish class after that project work, you finish about 4, and after that I rest for about an hour, take a quick nap, and I rush for classes back to back from 07:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m.. Wow. And by the time I reach home, I'm really exhausted. And that went on for many years.[00:05:34]Speaker 3: So that's what I call the sacrifice phase, which you probably didn't appreciate at the time. [00:05:38]Oh, I totally hated it. [00:05:40]You hated sacrifice phase. Are you now glad that you did sacrifice phase?[00:05:45]Speaker 4: Yes, definitely. Because I've come a long way and I have experiences. Now, it's time to share and shortcut other women's journey and empower others. Because empowered women empower others.[00:05:59]Speaker 5: Right. And so, when you finally got to this point in your life where you feel like, was it just an urge? Where you felt like, now it's my responsibility to help fast track other women, what point was that? Was it like a certain amount of money you made? Or when were you like, okay, I now know how to take care of myself, I want to branch out and help others now.[00:06:23]Speaker 4: In 2006, I won miss Singapore and I became an image consultant. And that because of my experience teaching and training and coaching. Having the extra skill set was quite easy for me to move forward. My clientele grew. They were CEOs of companies, directors of companies, as well as politicians here in Singapore. After that, I took on this skill and I went on to coach and mentor many women to transform their confidence from being an ugly duckling to a more confident version of themselves. So because I went through that transformation myself too, that movement actually gave me the confidence to do more in my life. In 2012, 2013, I told myself, I'm no longer going to trade time for money. Because as an image consultant, you work, you get paid. You work, you get paid, you work, you get paid. When you stop working, you don't get paid. So I said, you know what? I want to move this online. How can I go online? So I went through a process seeking mentors, looking for coaches to coach me on the process. Spent hundreds and thousands of dollars looking for resources to grow my knowledge.[00:07:31]Speaker 3: So you invested on yourself?[00:07:33]I invested in myself. [00:07:34]How did you have hundred and thousand of dollars?[00:07:36]I saved over the years.[00:07:37]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:07:37]Speaker 4: I worked my way up, and then from there, I took my vision of helping more women to be more confident. And then I started a platform called you are Possible Academy because I launched my own book in 2013. It's about personal branding. Then after that, I went to I went online. Right. That's when I make my first pot of gold.[00:08:01]Speaker 5: Wow. The first pot of gold[00:08:02]Speaker 4: Across my first pot of gold was when I make my first million dollars.[00:08:08]Speaker 3: Wow.[00:08:08]Speaker 4: And then I invested and started a cafe retail chain. We were in three countries singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia.[00:08:17]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:08:18]Speaker 4: And then we had seven outlets. We exited to a public listed company owner just recently.[00:08:24]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:08:24]Speaker 4: During this whole period, my heart has always been with the women. Even though I was doing retail business and it was tough, and I was called to this it's just like calling the back of my head. It's like, Genecia, you got to do you got to do this. You can't just give up the women and just do a cafe retail chain. You got to move up and do more. So during the time I was based in Indonesia for two years, running the caffe retail chain with my franchisee. I do online. I did webinars, I did online programs. I launched my membership program.[00:08:59]Speaker 3: Are you confident the whole time? Are you scared, like the first webinar you did or you're like, is this going to be a disaster? Do you ever have self doubt or is it just you just go in positive the whole way?[00:09:10]Speaker 4: It was tough because you didn't know how many audience were there. In fact, when I first switched on my webcam and used Google Hangouts back in 2013, there was zero viewers. You know.[00:09:20]I love that. [00:09:22]And it grew from one to ten and then to the first hundred. And that's how You Are Possible Academy grew. Subsequently, the women.[00:09:30]Speaker 3: How long did it take to grow?[00:09:31]Speaker 4: About three years. And I did about 1000 webinars probably every week. I did one every week. Wednesday at 09:00 p.m..[00:09:41]Speaker 3: They're free webinars.[00:09:42]Speaker 4: Free webinars.[00:09:43]Speaker 3: How would you think about the branding?[00:09:45]Speaker 4: Branding. How do you do funnels, marketing, automation? How do you become more confident?[00:09:50]Speaker 3: How long are they?[00:09:52]Speaker 4: By an hour.[00:09:53]Speaker 5: Good. Eleven.[00:09:54]Speaker 4: Okay. And then I kind of moved all these things online, and the women started to come in, and then they said, Genecia, can you not put your possible academy? Because Singapore's education system has so tuned us to, like, in school. So the women in my community feedback to me and said, Genecia, you got to choose a better name.[00:10:14]Speaker 3: No, they're not like, impossible.[00:10:17]Speaker 4: They don't like the name academy. They want something a little bit more, like, with depth and, like, with the inner academy.[00:10:24]Speaker 3: They don't like academy.[00:10:25]Speaker 4: They do like academy. I said, okay, let's do a rebranding. So in 2015, I did a rebranding. It's called Soul Rich Woman because all women have a soul. It's rich, wealthy, and we shine when we have confidence from within. So Soul Rich Woman.[00:10:41]Speaker 3: Okay, love this so far. If you said you went through the transformation yourself, were you an ugly duckling?[00:10:51]Speaker 5: No.[00:10:52]Speaker 4: Yeah, I was.[00:10:53]Speaker 3: Okay, so how does an ugly duckling, which is very difficult for me to buy, by the way, but I'm going to I'm going to buy because I have no reason to believe it would lie to me. But how does an ugly duckling go to Miss Singapore and Miss Singapore International. How did you even know you had it within you in the first place?[00:11:14]Speaker 4: You knew back then, I was bullied. I was really bullied by mean girls in school.[00:11:19]Speaker 3: Wow.[00:11:19]Speaker 4: You know, I was poor. I really didn't have any money to change my bags or even to change my clothes because I had the school clothes. So the mean girls would come to me, you know, PE lessons, what we call physical activities. They will pull my shirt, and then you'll pool open, and then they will see my bra, and they're like, oh, you're wearing the same bra again, like that. And there were times they took my school bag, and then he threw it across the classroom floor, and my books will be all over the floor, and you're like that. So myself. And things took a dip. But you see, I started when I was 14, and I told myself that whatever my family situation, maybe I'm not going to give up.[00:12:01]Speaker 5: Right?[00:12:02]Speaker 4: Yeah. So I took on.[00:12:06]Speaker 3: Did you feel that is the fuel to become determined to make it?[00:12:10]Speaker 4: I knock on doors and say, would you be willing to coach me in my public speaking? I knock on doors. Would you be open to willing to coach me on my image? Would you be willing to train me to walk and have good department? And that was when all these people, what they call the guardians, and people who really helped me and coached me, mentored me to become Miss Singapore.[00:12:34]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:12:34]Speaker 3: And what did that feel like, being crowned Miss Singapore?[00:12:39]Speaker 4: It was life changing, really, once in a lifetime opportunity, because for someone like me, it was a way out. And definitely it allowed me to travel the world. Since then, I've traveled more than what, 10-20 countries, 50 cities because of my title, Miss Singapore. It has given me so much privilege.[00:13:01]Speaker 3: Do people know who you are when you walk on the street?[00:13:04]Speaker 4: Yes. During that time, yes. But now, because I've taken a backseat, more focused on developing the platform Soul Rich Woman, so not so much in the front light, but fronting more on the business lines.[00:13:16]Speaker 3: So when you were crowned Miss Singapore knowing that you had been bullied, that you're the girl that has to go and chase your books around, how do you now wear this crown and now transition from feeling a certain way as that girl to now all of a sudden, people think that you're just that new girl, that new image. Don't you still have the same insecurities as the previous girl? And then what do you do? How do you transition into that life? You just kind of acknowledge them and move forward anyway.[00:13:48]Speaker 4: I'm very blessed to be Miss Singapore. Really, doors open for me, there were transformational causes that changed my life. I invested in myself, went for many, many different courses. In fact, in 2007, I went to Taiwan for a year and took on multiple transformational healing courses to let go of my past, my anger, my hatred, whatever, feelings that all women sometimes have a tendency to hold and play again, like a broken record. So I stopped completely on that, and my life completely flew from there. So it was kind of like a stepping stone.[00:14:28]Speaker 3: Do you feel like or maybe you don't even think about this question, but do you think Asian women have the same advantages as the Western society, culture, Americans, Europeans? Or do you think we're equal, or one has more than the other?[00:14:46]Speaker 4: I believe all women have the same rights, they have same opportunities, same things that have been given to us. However, at the end of the day, Asia is a different animal. We have Vietnam, we are in Malaysia, just race alone. We have different races, and in different races, we have different culture and dialects. And that different permutations because Soul Rich Woman is in Southeast Asia. We're in seven countries, and we're connecting almost 200,000 women across this region. And just alone when we travel to different countries, we have to be a little bit different because women at different phase of their life. Say, for example, when we went to Vietnam in Hanoi, the women in Hanoi versus women in Ho Chi Min are quite different. Women in Hanoi are a little bit more, they told me that they were stigmatized if they were to give up their jobs and go into entrepreneurship. Soul Rich Woman first went to Hanoi in Vietnam, we made a mistake. We didn't know. We were like, oh, you must do a business, have a side hustle. Let's build your empire.[00:15:54]Speaker 3: Right, right.[00:15:55]Speaker 4: And then they said, oh, no, but Genecia, this is not the culture here. Hanoi and Ho Chi Min are two different breeds of women.[00:16:02]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:16:02]Speaker 4: So that's when we learned, we said, oh, then what do you girls need? They say, we need more confidence in our daily lives to stand up for ourselves, to own our power, not just being a housewife and being a working person, but really be able to chase our dreams. That has been swept under the carpet for a very long time. So that was what we did in Hanoi. So that is why in different countries we do different things. Like in Malaysia, women are sighted for two main reasons why they are not able to step out because fear of failure and lack of support from family members. So that's why communities are so important. And that's why in Malaysia, we are also very strong. We have about 500 or 10 members over there. Wow. Supporting each other on your entrepreneurship journey.[00:16:51]Speaker 3: So what do you tell the woman who's struggling maybe with a cultural issue they want to step out, but they're not supported by their family and they don't have the confidence yet to do it, despite of or maybe they don't want to do it because they don't want to lose the respect or that's a toughy situation.[00:17:13]Speaker 4: Really tough.[00:17:14]Speaker 3: Did they come to you for advice? And if they do, what do you tell these women?[00:17:18]Speaker 4: So these women needed more confidence in looking at their dreams and finding the time to love themselves most. Because I find that the key to success for all women is self love. Only when you are able to love yourself, that's when you can give. But most women are empty vessels because they give their kids, they give their husbands, they give to household chores, they give to everything else but forgetting the self love is they key.[00:17:45]Speaker 3: And if they did that first, there would be more for the other.[00:17:48]Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right. Their cup is so full and overflowing.[00:17:52]Speaker 3: Yeah.[00:17:53]Speaker 5: Oh wow. That's awesome.[00:17:56]Speaker 3: And this Soul Rich Woman, what's your proudest success story that's come out of that? Do women tell you that she came from blah blah, blah and then went to what's a good transformational story that really said, I'm on the right path with this.[00:18:16]Speaker 5: Wow. I have heard hundreds of stories.[00:18:16]Speaker 4:  That make it all worth it, right?[00:18:21]Speaker 5: Yeah.[00:18:22]Speaker 4: I think a lot of the women, the main thing amongst all female entrepreneurs, the key thing is always about the C word, which is confidence. But most importantly is the F word.[00:18:35]Speaker 3: The F word. I couldn't wait to talk to you about the F word. She has the F word. You want to tell them what it is?[00:18:42]Speaker 4: Yes. For women who love the F word, being fabulous, having freedom and financial independence.[00:18:50]Speaker 3: Okay, but first of all, does the F word translate as it does in America?[00:18:57]Speaker 4: We have the F word here.[00:18:58]Speaker 3: I say the F word.[00:19:02]Speaker 4: Just joking. But definitely for us, when I talk about the F word, why, I talk about financial independence and not financial freedom. Because the difference  is financial freedom. Of course, you are free to do everyone, probably you have passive income. But for a lot of women, when you're first starting out, how do you even first make a dollar? How do you first even make a first thousand dollars if you're a stay at home mom?[00:19:27]Speaker 5: Right.[00:19:28]Speaker 4: How are you balance that?[00:19:30]Speaker 3: If you hadn't had education, you don't know what you want to do. You don't know what you're good at.[00:19:34]Speaker 4: Yeah, precisely. So you have to start somewhere. So if you are able to earn a $1,000 every single month, passively or online, through online businesses, can you imagine what life will change? You could buy the extra dress for your daughter.[00:19:48]Speaker 3: And is this financial freedom?[00:19:50]Speaker 4: This is more financial independence. That's why I said we want to focus on helping women to be more financially independent. They could be receiving some money from their husbands, that's fine. But could they do something more for themselves? And because of that extra money that they have on hand, they could be more independent to make choices for themselves.[00:20:09]Speaker 3: So let me ask you this. If they go for the financial independence and let's say they have the side job, they're selling makeup on the side online, but they're not neglecting any of their responsibilities as a wife, a mother, or whatever they agreed upon. So this income, does it go to the household or should it be hers or does that not matter? Separate or together?[00:20:32]Speaker 4: And it will be her decision. But what I usually see is women usually keep it and hold it for emergency or things that they are always wanted to do. You see, we women must have a voice.[00:20:44]Speaker 3: I'm the same way. I have our money and then I have my money.[00:20:48]Speaker 4: My money.[00:20:48]Speaker 3: But he has no problem with us having our money, and he has no problem with me having my money. And I love that. I feel really blessed in that area. I'm like, thank you. I don't know what it is in my brain that needs my little thing.[00:21:02]Speaker 4: Yeah. Because we need to make our own choices. And that's when we feel like we have a choice to choose whether we want to give you the money or we give our family the money or I give my own dreams the money.[00:21:14]Speaker 3: To reinvest in yourself. Because when I've heard you say a number of times in this interview.[00:21:19]Speaker 4: Yes. In fact, finding a mentor is why we created Soul Rich Woman was to help women to go from offline to online to be more confident and more customers make a positive impact in the world. If you can't even have a say in what you want to do and be always a victim of your own circumstances, then I'm here to kick some ass, you know, and really to get out of your comfort zone and go towards the dreams that you always wanted to achieve. So that is why being fabulous, having freedom and financial independence is so important.[00:21:57]Speaker 3: Yes. And this is what's brought you kind of, like, alive. I see it in you. It's your passion. And you want this for other women. [00:22:03]Speaker 4: Yeah, I do, too. [00:22:05]Speaker 3: I feel like happy, empowered women or that have the confidence in themselves, they have no need to try to destroy another woman, try to throw their books across the hall, because that came from something. Those girls have a problem. A happy woman or girl does not treat other people like that. You know what I'm saying? So it's like the more that a woman can help herself and find her own confidence, the more she just wants to help and love and nurture other people. I believe it's innately in us.[00:22:37]Speaker 4: That's right. Yeah, that's very true. In fact, I really believe that alone you are strong, together we are unstoppable.[00:22:46]Speaker 3: I say the same thing in this book, build an empire. I say I was raised to believe that I had to do everything by myself. Like, I had to be Miss Independent. Miss Independent. And I tried so hard, and I could only get, like, this far. And it just so happened that when I got together with my husband and that I actually started to depend on somebody else and trust somebody else, and then from there, we added to the team and grew. And now we have staff and people that help us and build. But there is no you're doing it on your own. No empire has ever been built on your own. It takes a team. It takes a village.[00:23:23]Speaker 4: Yes. When a woman is empowered, the whole village benefits.[00:23:26]Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that. Because she wants the best for everyone.[00:23:29]Speaker 5: That's right.[00:23:29]Speaker 3: Because she knows ultimately it's going to benefit herself and everyone involved.[00:23:34]Speaker 4: Yes. So when we empower one, we touch a life that one will pass on to the other. So we actually have a mentoring program for girls under 30. So this we actually have cash sponsorships from different women who are more wealth to do. So, they gave us their cash sponsorships, and they gave us so we fund this entire program in Singapore, where we help underprivileged girls, where they don't have those opportunities to learn skills beyond education, which is just the books and the four walls in school.[00:24:05]Speaker 3: Kind of like you.[00:24:06]Speaker 4: Yes. And then help them to give them an opportunity to because not everybody can be Miss Singapore let's put it this way. Can we give them a skill? Because when you give them a skill everyone can be an entrepreneur.[00:24:14]Speaker 3: Because everyone can be an entrepreneur.[00:24:17]Speaker 4: Everyone can be an entrepreneur.[00:24:18]Speaker 3: I believe I do, too.[00:24:19]Speaker 4: Yeah. So, through this program, we want to equip this girl's skill so they can start early. Why do you have to wait till you graduate?[00:24:29]Speaker 3: Why do you have to wait till you went through the whole decade or whatever it wants to figure it out. You figured it out. Here the here's the don't let you go.[00:24:37]Speaker 4: Why do you have to wait until you get married and have kids and then after a failed marriage, and then you come to me and then you say, Genecia, I need help. Why do you have to go through that? Can we shorten it?[00:24:47]Speaker 3: Yes. That's what I wrote this book for. I want to fast track the process .[00:24:51]Speaker 4: Precisely.[00:24:53]Speaker 3: Yes. So can you tell my viewers, can my viewers in America join Soul Rich Woman?[00:24:57]Speaker 4: Yes, you can help. So we definitely need help here in Southeast Asia. We need time, we need resources, and we also need cash, sponsorships. So time, if you are a volunteer, you can volunteer, with us to be let's say you have a skill that you want to share as an entrepreneur. You want to teach funnels. You want to teach how to overcome their mindset. We welcome you if you have resources, like a venue. So we work with people like Facebook, Mercedes-Benz. These are like partners who give us their resources so that we can bring the community together. And that makes a lot of difference.[00:25:30]Speaker 5: Right?[00:25:30]Speaker 4: So venue, if you have resources, like. A jet, for example.[00:25:32]Speaker 3:Girls we've done that.[00:25:36]Speaker 4: Girls who are underprivileged have never had a chance to do all these things. Right? And then if you have cash and money to help us as well, to fund the project to give girls because we want to buy them good things, we want to support the program, we want to give some trainers who help us pro bonu fees, right? We can't expect everyone to do for free because there is some sustainability within the platform itself. Right? So, yes, I took up my part of goal, which is my cafe retail chain. We exited a public listed company. I took out all my money and invested into the platform. So it has to succeed.[00:26:12]Speaker 3: It will succeed.[00:26:14]Speaker 4: There's no other option. It's like the way and the only way.[00:26:17]Speaker 3: And where can people like, if someone wanted to say, okay, I have $100, I have $1,000, I have 10,000, how do they reach you? Or how do they offer their time or their service?[00:26:27]Speaker 4: You can go to be.soulrichwann.com, which is b,e, dot, soulrichwoman. S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N Woman. Yeah .com.[00:26:41]Speaker 3: Okay. That's awesome. Okay, so before we wrap up, on our last note, what would be a 14 year old self if you had one piece of advice for her? When that backpack went across the wall, the books went and you just I'm sure you probably had a lump in your throat trying to hold back tears, what would you have told that you are now? What would you have told that little girl.[00:27:06]Speaker 4: Your past that's not equal to your future?[00:27:11]Speaker 3: Wow, that's heavy. All these women of the world made me so emotional. I've never cried on Women in Power before. I interviewed this woman last week in Dubai and she made me cry. And now you make me cry. You're so amazing. I cannot thank you enough for coming on this show. You made me cry to exposing this part of the world. And it's so amazing to me. That what I'm finding on my journey around the globe and meeting the women of the world, that we all want the same thing. We all want to help each other, not only ourselves, men as well. But we focus on ourselves for now. Yes. And we all want to make a difference and we all just want to be loved, be taken care of, take care of others. And it's really beautiful. It doesn't matter what culture you are, what religion, what culture.[00:28:05]Speaker 4: Yes.[00:28:05]Speaker 3: We all want the same thing.[00:28:06]Speaker 4: We all want the same thing. We want to be heard. We want our voices to be heard. We want to be seen. We want to be recognized.[00:28:14]Speaker 3: Yes. Thank you so much for being on the show.[00:28:17]Speaker 4: Thank you.[00:28:17]Speaker 3: You are such a beautiful soul. This is a Soul Rich Woman. Thank you so much. From Women in Power, singapore.[00:28:26]Speaker 5: Wow.[00:28:29]Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining me today. I'm so honored that we are connected.[00:28:33]Speaker 4: And I hope that I can continue to serve you as you build your dreams.[00:28:38]Speaker 1: And if you love this episode and I hope that you did, rate it five stars, give us that glowing review because it will help more women around the world finding this Soul Rich Woman podcast. Alone, you are strong, together we are unstoppable. Now share this with every woman who needs it because this is how we are changing the world, one woman at a time. As always, get out of your comfort zone and go towards the dreams you've always wanted to achieve. For women who love the F word being fabulous, having freedom and financial independence. My dear Soul Rich Woman, sending you my love and I'll speak to you soon. Bye for now.

144: 7 SIGNS YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOUR MINDSET[00:00:06]Speaker 1: Hey gorgeous, and welcome to today's episode. I'm your host, Genecia Alluora. Now, today I want to share the seven signs you need to work on your mindset. Now, when it comes to money, sooner or later there will be a wake-up call that happens for each of us.[00:00:25]Speaker 1: Maybe the last year has been a massive wake-up call for you. Your business might have to change completely because you realize that your old ways of marketing don't work anymore. Or maybe you've decided that life is too short to do the work that doesn't lock you up anymore. Often a bad client experience can be the wake-up call you need. There comes a time in every entrepreneur's life when you feel like throwing in the towel, giving up.[00:00:56]Speaker 1: After all, when you start a business, nobody really tells you how much is going to mess up with your confidence. Now, I just want to say this. You might have had all these moments yourself. Do you ever feel like there is an invisible glass ceiling holding you back from success? Maybe you've been stuck at a particular income level for years.[00:01:22]Speaker 1: Maybe you're telling yourself that you're too busy right now or the money isn't that important to you. Maybe you have conflicting feelings about wealth, worried that maybe it's not for you or that you have something to do something or you have to do something outside of your values to really make money or truly make enough money. If you are doing all that you can but still not making the financial breakthroughs, you know they are within your reach. It's time to do something different. You need a money reset.[00:02:00]Speaker 1: Now, if you are undercharging in your business, you feel like you're pushing against the flow of money and can't figure out why it's so hard, I've got some answers for you that might just crack the code. I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one female entrepreneur network here in Southeast Asia and also a money mindset coach. I also created the Soul Rich Women Blueprint that has helped thousands and tens of thousands of women to go breakthrough and own and love their F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. I did not grow up with a good relationship to money and yet I've created millions of dollars in business revenue working to my strengths and also wrote books, personal development books. And all I can say is we all can have it all.[00:03:06]Speaker 1: So if you think you might need to get another certificate or lose another ten kilos or somehow magically become the perfect you before you can make money, I'm here to tell you that that is bullshit. Now, I have the seven signs for you that money mindset is actually the next crucial step. If any of these seven reasons are true for you, then you'll love to work with me further. Now, reason one, you know it's your time. Finally this year you set big goals, thinking that this will be the year that your dreams come true.[00:03:47]Speaker 1: You might even have a book that is sitting on your computer 90% done or program or course that's ready to launch. But something's just stopping you. Every day you wake up and you think now it's the time, now it's the right time. But the moment your income doesn't match up with your intelligence or with your degree or potential and the gifts you offer up to the world, you are tired. And you are tired of waiting for someone else to choose you, or you deem that you are ready to earn more.[00:04:26]Speaker 1: I'm sure you're frustrated in yourself that you haven't done it yet. But maybe today is the day and you know that it's now or never. And I see that for you. And I'm here to help you to make it come true. Reason two, you love personal development, but the money hasn't shown up yet.[00:04:50]Speaker 1: Well, you could be feeling like a fraud or flaky person right now, because you're doing everything that's right, but it's just not working. I bet you have a dream board, a vision board, or you journal your goals regularly and you are a very positive person. You probably read every book that talks about making money, abundance under the sun. But you feel like there's still a missing puzzle piece. It feels unfair.[00:05:24]Speaker 1: If you're honest with yourself, you know that you've been sabotaging money behaviors that is working against you, but you can't really change them. Well, that's really normal. Reason three, you don't earn what you're worth and you suspect that you're worth a lot more. The charge what you are worthing gets a really bad reputation, especially when we talk about it here in Soul Rich Woman, you need to charge your worth. [00:05:53]Speaker 1: Do less about the training, there should be a boundary. But you know, it really gets a bad reputation when we talk about these things. It's because women don't see that they are worth the amount and they're always using the excuse or that sentence. Women should just help women. Why should I charge or get someone to pay me for my products or services?[00:06:21]Speaker 1: OK? I mean, you can't put a price tag on yourself as a human being, you are priceless. But guess what? Your business isn't. You actually have to name a price.[00:06:36]Speaker 1: Every day I meet people. I meet women who are simply undercharging. They are doing pro bono work all the time. They are struggling to survive. Or even if they are well to do, they are not able to scale their business to the next level.[00:06:58]Speaker 1: They know it, but they feel powerless to do anything about it. You might know it too, but you're still getting feedback that you are too expensive. Why should you charge when you're helping other people? You should be doing for free, you should be doing cheaper. And even when you know that you are drastically undercharging.[00:07:21]Speaker 1: And that's usually the problem. When you undercharge, you energetically attract clients who will never be happy, who are usually complainers, and people who will step on you to go to the next step or face. And that's really so frustrating. Reason four, you want to live a first class, amazing life, but you're stuck in the rut. You're stuck in your cupboard.[00:07:53]Speaker 1: I mean, I've been there and it sucks. You are sick of compromising areas in your life, like where you stay, what you eat, how you are treating your family, because we're talking about owning and loving the F-word. So being fabulous, freedom, financial independence and a happy family. So you're kind of sick of compromising all these four F-words in your life. Where you live, how you dress or how you travel.[00:08:21]Speaker 1: It's exhausting, super tiring to have to justify every single dollar, every single cent. Think about it. Wouldn't it be nice and cool to have a peace of mind that you can always make more money? You're seeing other women rapidly increasing their income and you are kind of jealous. Yes, don't look left, look right.[00:08:46]Speaker 1: Yes, I'm speaking to you right now. Sometimes you're kind of jealous that it's not you. All right, it's okay to admit it. Reason number five, you already know that you need a money mindset makeover. Maybe this isn't the first time you've checked out my work or listened to my podcast or been to my website or seen my landing pages of my programs.[00:09:18]Speaker 1: You might even have gone through situations when you think, I've got to sort this out. For example, when you start to perspire, when you talk to an accountant or anyone official or officially about money. Or you sit and procrastinate, like sending out invoices. People send me their confessions all the time and say that they are so scared about money, in particular, talking about it and asking for it. You might even think you are really bad with money.[00:09:52]Speaker 1: But I've never met anyone whom I have not helped or I can't help. You'll be surprised about how practical money manifesting can be. And it's not about lighting a candle under the full moon and just making wishes. It's about taking a practical inventory of your past experiences and examining it with all your beliefs and habits around money. Reason six, you feel like you repel money.[00:10:23]Speaker 1: Maybe you have a real feast or feminine relationship to money. You know how to manifest money quickly when you really need to. But it's not predictable or it comes at a great personal cost. Like, for example, you're really stressed out or burnout. When you have a good month, you often attract unexpected bills or fines that will wipe it all out.[00:10:48]Speaker 1: So you're always going like two steps forward and one steps back. Ten steps forward and three steps back. And that can be so frustrating. Reason number seven, you want to make more money, but you're also scared some people are surprised to learn that even millionaires are scared. Making more money doesn't make the fear go away.[00:11:15]Speaker 1: Same for me. Even at the stage where I'm at, making money is scary sometimes. Now, for example, you could be scared by your own personal potential because of your vision for your life is huge. You sometimes worry about what it would mean to be truly wealthy, that somehow it would turn into a negative experience. Or you would sabotage it in some way.[00:11:43]Speaker 1: Or you are worried that some history of ghost or past souls of people will come back and ask you for money. Or you're worried about your parents who ask you for money. You're worried about your relatives coming to ask you for money. If you are rich, you worry about tax bills because you worry about getting into trouble. You worry about losing your privacy or safety.[00:12:10]Speaker 1: You worry you get scammed. You worry about friends and family asking you for more money. You worry that it's actually going to be a huge negative experience. And you can see where I'm going. This is really common.[00:12:27]Speaker 1: And you can see these conflicting things and how much they could be holding you back. Okay, so that's the seven pretty big signs that you need to work on your money mindset. How much money do you think you have left on the table because of your money blocks? Maybe your wake-up call this year is that there's no time like the present to make your dreams come true. If you are still listening, it's pretty obvious that you have money blocks that you need to deal with.[00:12:59]Speaker 1: Everyone has their own flavor of money blocks and I'm here to help you identify yours and clear it. I've created a free masterclass to help you start clearing your money blocks and limiting beliefs and those sabotaging patterns. It will walk you through, step by step, through recognizing them and then dealing with the seven most common entrepreneurial money blocks, okay? And then you can get it free today from soulrichwoman.com. That is S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N.com[00:13:38]Speaker 1: Remember, money blocks doesn't have to derail you. You can embrace them and move on to creating the life that you want, the F-word that you want for yourself, family, financial independence, being fabulous, having freedom. But it all starts with your awareness. Once you know your block, you then can stop sabotaging behaviors, that you can stop them, that they will not come to haunt you, and then you can move on to the next level.[00:14:12]Speaker 1: That's when you can make money no matter what. Again. That's at soulrichwoman.com. Okay, I'll see you there in a few minutes. Remember, this is your time and you are ready for your next step.[00:14:25]Speaker 1: For Women who love the F word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. You can have it all.

142: 5 TIPS TO GET THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS WITHOUT TRIGGERING YOUR MONEY BLOCKS (TOO MUCH)[00:00:05]Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. And welcome to today's episode. I'm your host, Genecia Alluora. Today I want to share with you the five tips to get through the holidays without triggering your money blocks. Or triggering too much of your money blocks. Now we're talking about five things you can do to make sure your money blocks aren't traded too much over the holiday period.[00:00:28]Speaker 1: Now. This is the time of the year that can get very stressful for some people. But it doesn't have to because we are Soul Rich Woman. Now, I've got really some great tips for you today.[00:00:40]Speaker 1: The first thing I want to acknowledge is that holiday time can be really exciting for some people. And for others, it can be really stressful or even sad. So don't beat yourself up over it. Either way, especially for this year. It can be a triggering experience to spend time with your family and loved ones over this holiday season. Particularly if you have been spending a lot of time working on your personal development and money blocks, you still might be quite vulnerable to other people's energies.[00:01:12]Speaker 1: Now, here are some tips to get through the holiday period without triggering your money blocks too much. Number one, has a canned response. Now, this tip number one is a go to response when your family asks you about potentially triggering topics. This can really apply to questions about your business, so it pays to be prepared ahead of time. Now, you might have someone in your family who constantly ask you a how's your business doing right now?[00:01:43]Speaker 1: Or what are you doing for business again? Or you mean you change another business? Are you qualified to even do this? And they make you feel like shit. Here's the thing.[00:01:57]Speaker 1: You don't have to tell them about the ins and out of your business. You don't have to tell them how many clients you have, how much they pay you. You don't have to tell them anything if you don't want to. Here's a really simple go to response. It can be something like, hey, it's doing great.[00:02:18]Speaker 1: Thanks so much for asking. Well, there's a lot of things happening. I'm really, very excited. Thanks so much for your concern. As simple as that.[00:02:30]Speaker 1: Now, my family used to ask me about my programs or even my books, all the time. Because to them, a book meant real business. Having an online course or running something that is tangible. It looks tangible to them. So even though it was just a book or a program, it was just pretty a small part of my business.[00:02:50]Speaker 1: But to my family, it meant like, wow, you are real because you got a published book. You got this, you got that. So in the past, I would kind of tell a story of like well, actually, a book is just one part of my marketing plan. And, you know, right online course is something that I created because I'm very passionate about sharing. Actually, I have a lot more things in my business, blah, blah, blah. And I could literally see their eyes glaze over it, or that would lead to more uncomfortable, awkward situations and conversations about, oh, so you help people with money, but you're bankrupt.[00:03:34]Speaker 1: How does it work? Oh, so you help people with money, but you are doing okay only how does that work? Or you help people with their money, how does it even function or work in the online world? So I just decided my go to response was just going to be, oh, it's going great.[00:03:59]Speaker 1: Thanks so much for asking. It's really good right now. I'm excited about the things I'm doing now. Thank you so much for your concern. Easier said than done, Genecia.[00:04:08]Speaker 1: Okay, yes, I know, but the thing is, your business isn't any of their business, OK? And if telling them all the ins and outs lead to some awkward stuff or makes you feel like shit about yourself, then don't do it, my dear. Number two, change the subject. Which leads me to tip number two get really good at changing subject. Now this is what we call in NLP called Pattern Interrupt.[00:04:38]Speaker 1: Now you remember that game, I don't know if you've ever played it, but you take turns to ask each other questions and you are not allowed to say yes or no. And you had to counter with another question. So I got really, really good at that. And now you can do the same thing over the holidays. Instead of answering all the questions about business or your money or your bankruptcy or your debt or anything at all that makes you feel stressed. You know what get really good at changing subject.[00:05:15]Speaker 1: And you can say, oh, I love this steamboat that you have just made. What's in it? Yeah, I love this so bad. What ingredients do you use? Completely bypass what they've just asked you.[00:05:29]Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's doing great. What about you? What's new on you? New on your side? What's going on with you?[00:05:36]Speaker 1: You know what, people love talking about themselves. So just turn the spotlight back on them so that you just put it back on them and it's easy. Change the subject again and again. Make it again to see how long you can avoid their questions. By the end of it, they'll feel great because people love talking about themselves and they'll be like, she's such a great conversationalist, she's such a great talker, she's such a great person to have at the table.[00:06:13]Speaker 1: Then it won't lead you down the path of talking about things that you don't want to or that could be potentially awkward. Number three, be clear about what you want. Now, this tip number three is all about presence. If presents trigger you, then there are a couple of ways around it. You could just straight ask people, what exactly you want for your present.[00:06:39]Speaker 1: Or tell people, what exactly you want for your present? Direct them don't just assume and don't make it a test of their love or their love language and then blame them later. Okay. Well, if they love me, my parents will finally get me the present I love. No, don't test them.[00:07:01]Speaker 1: Just tell them what you want. What's so difficult? Just say, right? That's really sure way of triggering all your old money stuff is going to continue if something has triggered you in the past. If you know that your parents are terrible at buying presents or your husband or whoever, and they have always forgotten what you like and they've always forgotten your favorite colors. Don't test them again and again to see whether they pass the test the following year of this year and see how much they love you. Correct. Just tell them upfront.[00:07:44]Speaker 1: Say hey. Mommy. Daddy. In case you need some guidance on what to get me for this holiday season, here's a link. Or you know what, I would love an amazing gift voucher. Make it really easy and just direct them. Don't worry about if you people don't buy you the right stuff, just tell them. Number four. You don't have to keep presents you don't like.[00:08:14]Speaker 1: Okay, which brings me to my fourth point. If you get presents you don't like and it does trigger old memories, you don't have to keep them. You can say thank you graciously, but you do not have to keep them. You can go straight from their house and drop it off at the charity store. Someone else is going to love that.[00:08:36]Speaker 1: If you get presents a bit before the holiday season of festive season and you open them and you don't like it, you rewrap it and donate to charity. A lot of times, a lot of places, a lot of events during these holiday seasons have wishing trees or where they will gift out to other people who are more in need of the gifts that you don't need. So someone else will love that. Just because someone's gifted you something, doesn't mean you need to make a shrine of it in your house. Keep it in like a white elephant in your home and then keep it forever.[00:09:22]Speaker 1: No need. It's okay and totally fine for you to declutter your stuff. I repeat, declutter your stuff that doesn't make you feel good and stuff that's not part of your first class life, not part of your F word life. Fabulous freedom, financial independence and a happy family. OK, then, of course, the question will be, I know you're going to ask me. Genecia, what happens if all of this doesn't work?[00:09:56]Speaker 1: Then what if like what people will say, Hey, I heard about your business. It sounds like you're ripping people off or you get terrible present. And you think, oh, for Christ's sake. Why don't you ever buy something else that I love or you just feel attacked from all angles and you feel really terrible about yourself. Well, here's tip number five for you, go do some EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, otherwise known as tapping. Now, this has saved me many times in situations where I feel bad about myself. This was a technique I learned in 2008 and I think 2008 and I really love it so much. It's like my secret weapon when I'm going through emotional trenches and emotional, I will say lows. [00:10:46]So if you are in your family house and you are getting triggered, go into the bathroom and do a little bit of tapping. Ok, now I will know that you will say, even though I have these feelings, even though my family are annoying. Even though nobody loves me and by me presence that I like, I deeply and completely love and accept myself so say that to yourself. Even though I have these feelings, even though my family are super annoying, even though nobody loves me, it's not and buys me present that I like, I deeply and completely love and accept myself, then that way you are responsible for your own feelings.[00:11:33]Speaker 1: It might just be a temporary fix until you can get home, but that's OK just tap out all the ugly negative feelings so that you can move forward and be happier person during the session at your family's home. Now we are winding down now for the rest of the year. So I want to see from my family to yours, thank you so much for joining me at Soul Rich Woman, listening to my podcast, reading my blogs, the entire year or even watching my live shows, my live videos, my live streams. [00:12:12]You know, this might be even your first for some of you. You're like, who is this lady, who is this woman? But thank you so much for watching my live videos or listening to my podcast or even visiting my blogs. It has been such an absolute pleasure. I hope that you get everything that you want and even if you don't, I give you permission to go out there and buy them yourself. You are responsible for creating and owning your own F word and no one else can do it for you. Give yourself that gift, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family.[00:12:57]  Speaker 1: You can have it all, sending you my love and I'll speak to you soon. Bye for now.

THE END OF YEAR RITUAL TO FINISH THE YEAR WITH A BANG (Repeat from Ep 143)[00:00:03]Speaker 1: Hey, gorgeous. Welcome to today's episode. I'm your host, Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman and creator of the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint. On today's episode, I want to talk about the end of your ritual to finish the year with a bang. Now, for most, 2020 and 2021 have been a really rough year.[00:00:30]Speaker 1: No one could have predicted what the last 24 months have thrown at us. If you have made it through physically and emotionally in one piece, congratulations. You are amazing. And even if you haven't, that's okay too. Now, if you have had a good year, despite the obvious, then I want you to celebrate without guilt, without shame, without heartbreaks.[00:00:55]Speaker 1: However, the year has gone, and especially if things didn't go to plan, I recommend this year-end ritual to close out the year. And you have the power to completely change your experience this brand new year that's coming up. We know that when the clock tick tock, tick tock, tick tock over, nothing really magical happens. I mean, it's not Cinderella, right? I mean, it's just another day, like another moment. But I don't know about you, though, it really feels for me like a chance to completely shift things.[00:01:37]Speaker 1: I usually get pretty emotional and go through a decluttering and I would say decluttering journey when I reach the year-end and I move towards the new year because I love the energy of a new year. And this year, more than ever, I'm longing for a calm, health and happiness for all of you, even more and more of you to own and love the F word. So let's end the year with one really simple but profound end of the year ritual. This one has completely changed my life repeatedly. And it doesn't matter how hangover that you have on New Year's Day, OK?[00:02:25]Speaker 1: It's really a simple one to do or to do, even over the next two weeks. Now, this exercise is to make a list of everything, every single thing that you are proud of over the last year. Sounds easy, but trickier than it sounds. First, do this as a partner, OK?[00:02:50]Speaker 1: That's the key. So that you don't chicken out and get shy and say, I don't know, I don't know why I did. What things did I do good? Oh, I don't really do anything amazing. I was just at home working from home most of the time, staying at home, hiding at home. Okay, I know that's going to happen.[00:03:11]Speaker 1: So it's best to do this with someone who really understands you, who really sees you for you and your accomplishments and who will draw out of you, who will draw out all these list of things that you are proud of this year. So take turns asking each other what you're proud of. Start with I'm proud of and least things out. Like learning to live in a lockdown, not killing your partner, staying connected with your family, mastering Zoom, going for a walk wearing masks. Then you can move to business accomplishments.[00:03:53]Speaker 1: Then you can move to your tricky situations that you've dealt with, boundaries you have enforced, goals that you have achieved, personal accomplishments, awards that you have won, anything that you want to acknowledge yourself for. Don't be shy or modest. It's time to really shine a light on everything you have done because you deserve to shine. There is a diamond that is within you and you deserve to shine. And seriously, it's kind of hard to remember everything.[00:04:28]Speaker 1: So here's how to take it to the next level. When your partner simply asks you what else? And then silence. No prompting, no jumping in for their turn. Just ask the next question, what else?[00:04:42]Speaker 1: And wait. Keep asking until you have at least 50, 50 of the items that you are ever proud of for the past year. 50, so there's no like trying to chitchat or trying to look at your phone for social media, looking at your notifications, looking at your WhatsApp? No switch that all off.[00:05:08]Speaker 1: Put that one site, commit 30 minutes to an hour. Just doing this for partner. Remember, keep asking what else? What else? What else?[00:05:17]Speaker 1: Until you have at least 50. So there'll be lots of pauses. You'll want to think about the negatives or the not so nice experience. And when you think you're done, you'll say, okay, I forgot about this one. Just keep asking, what else?[00:05:35]Speaker 1: Now trust me, even after this year, you'll be buzzing at the end of it. So don't give up. The list of accomplishments and things you're proud of is important. But the question what else is extremely important too. You probably get stuck at about the fifth or the 6th things you're proud of because you just don't want to brag.[00:05:59]Speaker 1: You don't want to talk about accomplishments, you discount who you are, you discount your achievements or simply just forgotten or what I call kind of like a denial. You just live life and then just sweep it under the carpet and you don't think that's necessarily an important thing that is important. So did this year really, really suck? I once did this with a friend who thought that she had a bad year until we did this exercise. It took us about 45 minutes and she ended up with 42 things that she was proud of.[00:06:37]Speaker 1: But it took some digging. So that is why the question is so important. Keep asking and don't give up. Recognizing everything you've achieved in this phase of adversity is so good for you. It's awesome to remember everything.[00:06:55]Speaker 1: It's also great to manifest and to acknowledge all your wins, both big and small, so that you can attract even more luck and abundance into the new year. Work on a mix of business and personal as long as you get at least 30 to 50 good things. If you do it by yourself, eventually you run out of steam and move on to something else? Because you have a lot of noise between the two years haha. That's right.[00:07:29]Speaker 1: Noise between the two years of yours. So for best results, you need a partner to hold the space for you and gently ask what else, my dear? What else? As soon as you run out of good things to say about yourself, what else? When you think you haven't done anything good, what else?[00:07:53]Speaker 1: As soon as you think there's nothing else to celebrate, what else? If you tell yourself it was the worst year, what else? When you think you have written everything, what else? By the way, you don't have to do this as a year-end ritual. You could do this quarterly or even monthly.[00:08:22]Speaker 1: I would love you to share yours with me. Go for at least five. So tag me on Instagram or Tiktok or on Facebook with your list. You can find me at Genecia Alluora G-E-N-E-C-I-A-L-L-U-O-R-A. Tag me.[00:08:46]Speaker 1: I really love to hear them big and small. Please don't be shy. You should really break your ass off. Literally, just shine brilliantly with every good thing that you have done, okay?[00:09:03]Speaker 1: And next time, if you're having a bad day or have a read over all these 50 good things that you have done in the past year. And everything all awesome that you've accomplished, imagine just me sitting next to you and saying, what else? Every time you get stuck. What else, my dear? Time to close out this year and start writing a new chapter. Sending you my love and I'll speak to you soon.[00:09:35]Speaker 1: Bye for now.

98/192: What Professions And Industries Have The Biggest Money BlocksMoney blocks, money blocks, money blocks! Which do you think has the biggest money block? I have them, you have them, pretty much everyone has money blocks of some kind. It's pretty safe to say we all have money blocks, even if we don't know it yet. These blocks are pretty huge in themselves and I have a lot of resources for you to help to clear them, but let's dive into some common professions that we see here in Soul Rich Woman. Finance Professionals  08:44- 08:54  If you're a financial advisor or professional who feels ashamed because you are already in debt or your accounting is really a mess. 08:59- 09:07 You feel really guilty because you don't always follow your own advice perfectly and all these blocks are keeping you from helping more people.  09:15- 09:23 But you wonder why people would pay you to do their taxes? And to you, it's obvious and easy. Not for everyone. 09:24- 09:29 Understanding that money blocks will help you to attract more clients. Health and wealthiness and fitness professionals 03:12- 03:26 These money blocks are pretty huge in themselves and I have a lot of resources for you to help clear them but let's dive into some common profession that we see here in Soul Rich Woman and the blocks that they have. 03:27- 03:30  First, health and wealthiness and fitness professionals. 03:50- 03:57 Many people working in the health industry have beliefs and feel like, number one, “Good health should be free.” 04:00- 04:11  Number two, “I'm taking advantage of people's illnesses.” Number three, “I can't offer people's solutions or supplements because I should not be salesy.” 04:12- 04:18 Now the whole reason that people come to you when you're a health professional is to learn how to better take care of themselves. 04:43- 04:48 They come to you for knowledge and by you not giving them what you know,  04:53- 04:57 then you're not serving them to your best of your ability. 05:25- 05:34 You need to set boundaries. Now, these include asking for payment upfront, creating packages because that's how transformation happens.  Universal blocks 02:52- 03:11  Here are some of the most common universal blocks that I have always seen. “I have to work really hard to make money.” Number two, “I don't deserve or I'm not good enough to be wealthy or to be rich.” Number three, “I can't help people and make money.”  07:59- 08:03 Remember yourself that clients are coming to you for your skills to hold them accountable.  05:03- 05:12 This affirmation, “I serve, I deserve.” is a really good one to use as a  patent interrupter for those sources of blocks.  05:13- 05:22 It reminds you that you're being served to people and it's okay to charge in return for your expertise and experience.Key Takeaways: Health and wellness professionals. Finance professionals. Spiritual professionals. Artists and creative professionals. MLM or Direct sales businesses.  Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

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In this HCI Podcast episode, Dr. Jonathan H. Westover talks with Genecia Alluora about empowering women to go after what they want and to dream big. See the video here: https://youtu.be/QShuuu-WfaY. Genecia Alluora (https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/) is a former beauty queen and the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, South East Asia's leading network for female entrepreneurs connecting 12,000+ women and 200,000 subscribers across the region.  The network helps women to build their brand recognition and online reputation as a leader, for more customers, confidence and credibility - while making a positive impact in the world. Including Malaysia, Philippines, Vietnam, and Indonesia. Prior, she was an owner of a cafe retail chain with a presence in 3 countries, and successfully exited to a public listed company just recently.  Please consider supporting the podcast on Patreon and leaving a review wherever you listen to your podcasts! Go to cardiotabs.com/innovations and use code innovations to get a free Mental Health Pack featuring Cardiotabs Omega-3 Lemon Minis and Curcumin when you sign up for a subscription. Get 3 months of GUSTO free when you run your first payroll, at Gusto.com/HCI. Get up to 20% off by using code HCI for the summer sale at shop.Ekster.com/HCI. Check out the Ready for Takeoff podcast at Wix.com/readyfortakeoff. Check out Zapier.com/HCI to explore their business automations! Go to Swag.com/HCI and use promo code HCI10. Check out the HCI Academy: Courses, Micro-Credentials, and Certificates to Upskill and Reskill for the Future of Work! Check out the LinkedIn Alchemizing Human Capital Newsletter. Check out Dr. Westover's book, The Future Leader. Check out Dr. Westover's book, 'Bluer than Indigo' Leadership. Check out Dr. Westover's book, The Alchemy of Truly Remarkable Leadership. Check out the latest issue of the Human Capital Leadership magazine. Ranked #5 Workplace Podcast Ranked #6 Performance Management Podcast Ranked #7 HR Podcast Ranked #12 Talent Management Podcast Ranked in the Top 20 Personal Development and Self-Improvement Podcasts  Ranked in the Top 30 Leadership Podcasts Each HCI Podcast episode (Program, ID No. 592296) has been approved for 0.50 HR (General) recertification credit hours toward aPHR™, aPHRi™, PHR®, PHRca®, SPHR®, GPHR®, PHRi™ and SPHRi™ recertification through HR Certification Institute® (HRCI®). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019.  She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and SRW academy, she mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. Her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.Before establishing Soul Rich Woman, Genecia was an owner of a cafe retail chain with a presence in 3 countries with 18 franchisees and licensees that successfully exited to a public listed company after 4 years. She is the winner of 2 awards in 2014, The ‘Franchisee and Franchisor of The Year - Runner Up' by Franchise and Licensing Association (Singapore).For women who love the F-word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and Family. Genecia is a podcast host and producer since 2019 for her 3 podcasts "For Women Who Love The F Word" with listeners in 131 countries; a daily 10 minutes marketing podcasts "Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" with 1000+ downloads every month and “Make It Happen" : Secrets To Go From Stuck To Unstoppable Without Changing Who You Are Even if No One Believes In You Or Stand By. She is also the author of "Personal Branding Secrets" and her new book "Make It Happen: Secrets to go from Stuck To Unstoppable Without Changing Who You Are. Even If No One Believes In You Or Stands By You." From as young as 14 years of age, Genecia had to support herself through school. Through working in a 9-5 job as an occupational therapist and later became a serial entrepreneur, Genecia had gone through the highs and lows of being a business owner. Her epic journey from being in a six-figure debt to becoming a millionaire in 2013, fuelled her passion to support women to do the same - to own the F-word!Profiled in CNBC, Forbes and China Daily, Genecia is a thought leader and leading women's empowerment expert. She is regularly invited to speak on TV and Radio as well as conferences. She has shared the stage with great minds like Gary Vaynerchuk, Mary Buffett, Kim Kiyosaki and Neil Patel. “Alone we are strong, together we are UNSTOPPABLE.” - Genecia AlluoraSoul Rich WomanMake it Happen Summit LinkInstant Podcast Leader LinkYou Can Heal Your Life by Louise HayThe Shadow Effect by Chopra, Ford, & Williamson Rich Woman by Kim KiyosakiEmail: talkaboutleadershippodcast@gmail.com

This is a MUST-listen episode. Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman, will inspire and motivate you. At the brink of death, on the ledge of a 10-story building, she changed her life. Her mother pulled her back from the edge and said, "Turn your mess into your message." And she's never looked back.

This is a MUST-listen episode. Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman, will inspire and motivate you. At the brink of death, on the ledge of a 10-story building, she changed her life. Her mother pulled her back from the edge and said, "Turn your mess into your message." And she's never looked back.

Bonus Episode for Season 2嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目，在这一集中我将会聊到我的第二季播客，今天要和您分享为何我继续做播客这个话题。参与播客的确影响了我的思维，播客不仅仅是在线上建立人与人的链接，但最重要的是，它帮助我理清我过去的思维，为什么我会遇到这些问题，并在我的播客后得到一个很好的释放。 1) 在第一季的播客，我成功地使用我的第二语言，英语，在我的播客节目中，这是我从未想过的事情，现在，我也用着我熟悉的母语在分享我的一些领悟。2）这段时期，我也发现遇到了更好的自己，我也更了解自己和身边的人，尤其是我的家人，这对我来说是一个鼓励。 3) 我也受到我的灵性老师在我的面子书发布上给于的认同和上课时的建议，我深感受到了他们很有力量的鼓励。 4) 我身边的家人朋友也开始很好奇我在做什么，后来也开始的收听我的节目。 5）我很开心拥有自己的第一和第二季播客，现在我已经分享了112 集，而且，这些都可以在全球 20 多个平台上收听，并且我即将为第三季的播客做准备。 a) 在我参加Master Class的第一天，Genecia 正在分享 Soul Rich Woman 如何帮助企业从线下走向线上，作为一家公司的领导者，我也想着如何让 DDG 也能开展线上业务 . b) 一直以来书籍就是我的导师，我能够从我阅读的书籍中学到很多东西，它们引导着我，但是，我需要一个了解我所在的市场和趋势的人，即新加坡，因此我积极的在寻找解决方案。 起初，我加入了Soul Rice Woman Blueprint，我学会了如何使用现代技术来推广我们的产品，因此我决定加入 4 合 1 小组，之后，我想要更加专注并看到结果，因此我决定加入导师课程。 c) 我想帮助我的公司的线上业务， 在接受指导期间，Genecia 告诉我，为了帮助我的公司，我需要先建立自己的品牌。 后来我才恍然大悟，我忘了先要爱自己后才有能力再爱别人。 d) 我告诉 Genecia 我想在不久的将来我可以出版我自己的书，她建议我参加播客，这是提高我达成的更快方法，尤其是我是公司的领导者。 e) 尽管我是公司的领导者，但我并不清楚我的人生目标和定位，通过播客，我找到了自己的方向，这对我来说也是一次自我疗愈的旅程，因为我在播客分享了多年的经验和故事。 f)我是个害怕面对镜头的人，如果是直播或录像的话，我无法很好地表达自己，当然，我在做之前有很多恐惧，比如别人会看我什么，如果我不能接受怎么办，在我的播客教练 Joanne Lee 的帮助下，我也克服了这些恐惧。 而且由于SRW做了95%的工作，幕后制作都是由他们完成的，我不必担心任何行政任务，我只是专注于写稿而去深挖自己。 g) 我在写稿的时候有很多复杂的感受，最后我找到了我的方向，作为我的导师 Genecia 告诉我，我可以利用我过去的经验，把它写成我的故事，收听的人可以从中受益， 我的经验或许是一个指南，也许可以缩短听众们一些不必要的道路。 h) 最重要的是，在第一季的我担心我的英语不够流利，人们会如何反应？ 我不像其他受过良好培训的人那么专业吗， 然而，在与 Genecia 讨论后，我也相信团队会支持并帮助我克服这个问题，也因为如此，所以我继续做参与第二季和将来的第三季。 i) 我也对分享我的故事和真实地说出我内心深处的感受感到焦虑和不安，但我意识到这就是我，听到我故事的人会有得到一些启发，也明白我的意图是分享和激励而不是批评或破坏他人的生活，这给了我走出去做播客的勇气。 j) 最初我必须将我的写作转换成英文，后来我觉得累了，因为我不得不消耗大量精力在想写什么，坐在桌子上想着我的过去。为了优先考虑完成我的播客，我不得不搁置一些事情。但我现在认为这是人生中的重要一课。如果你想要完成一些大而有影响力的事情，你必须给于大量的精力去让它发生，把它作为你的第一要务，这也是我继续第二季和第三季的播客的原因。 k) 播客上线后，我也很担心接下来会发生什么？我回到我的意图和我的目标，特别是能为职业母亲做一些积极的事情，也知道我有一个强大的Soul Rich Woman 团队来支持我，其实我的担忧是多余的。 我的播客推出后，我的信心提高到了更高的水平。 我觉得我克服了对做新事物和因结果而受到评判的恐惧。 我觉得我也很幸运能与 Soul Rich Woman 团队相遇，他们可以帮助我实现这个目标。 播客推出后让我非常高兴，因为我能够如此即时地向听众分享我的故事，而且每周我都是第一个收听自己的播客。 现在我已经分享了我的故事，我意识到人们实际上是在欣赏我所做的。如果我继续隐藏在我的恐惧之下，我就不会触动人们的心，最重要的是我的家人的心。 这也证明，学习新东西永远不会太迟，没有对错之分，但关键是要采取行动，我对播客的兴趣让我的儿子和我的丈夫感到惊讶。其实我也有这种感觉。但是推出我自己的播客节目后，让我感到很欣慰，并有一种真正的好感觉，我战胜了恐惧，我成功地努力使自己一天天成长。 当我们一起说出自己的梦想时，我们就是一个力量！因为你知道你的梦想是有意义的，你会被引导在你的道路上。 是时候让你的声音被听见了。 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，今天要和您分享回到中心这个话题。我的人生是在这一两年过的比较踏实，因为在之前，我都是以外在世界的物质给我快乐，名副其实的以物喜，我一直以为人生就是这样，在生活里，也一直以为自己是对的，错的永远是别人，一直到我决定面对自己的困难和我不要再等待别人去改变，就开始了我回归自己的路。  虽然说在回归自己的路，但是在该面对的课题和问题上，我还是一样需要面对，然而随着这样的改变，我比较能看清事情的真相，当我和别人相处的时候，我也会从他人的遭遇去照见自己，在和他人互相交流的时候，我会换位思考，同时会自我反思里，比较不会对自己有批评和嫌弃，也知道我应该如何的去面对这些遇见。   然而，回到中心是我们每个人应该去学习而可以让我们看的清晰，这样才能在生活里更加懂的应付各式各样的遇见，同时也是可以让自己看到世界的美好，痛苦，烦恼都是在我们心里的创伤，而外在显化是来让我们看清，我们内在的世界是需要调整，因为每个人最终都需要一份的平静和谐。   我在社会工作好几年后，曾经有一段时间，我常常在想，做人真的很无聊，每天都在做者同样的事，日子是重复而乏味，到底意义何在？不停的换工作也是其中一个原因，而我最近也有了一个发现，以前，我总是喜欢吃辛辣的食物，然而这一两年开始，我自然而然的不会天天想吃辛辣的食物，原来那是基于我开始在做我热情和喜欢的事情，所以我不需要借由吃辛辣的食物来让我有平衡感，日子原来是要我们自己去创造的。  在我的体验里，尤其是对于我们是朝九晚五的打工族，首先，我建议大家先爱上自己的工作，我相信大家都有过‘Monday Blue',曾经我也非常害怕，每次星期日的晚上心情就非常的莫名的抗拒，一直到我决定面对我的工作的时候，我渐渐的就没有了这样的害怕的习性。  其实，这个道理很简单，因为我的无明，所以我害怕，这就好像当你处在黑暗的房间，你的害怕会因为你看不清，我当时的心情就是如此，但是一切都在改变，当你愿意打开我的心防，你的宇宙永远是爱你，比你爱她，还要爱你，所以我们对自己其实根本不必存有怀疑。  我们日常生活的事情都是息息相关的，所有的事情都没有偶然，其中的原因是我们没有去了解，这些事情都是可以从我们心里面去一个个的解开，所以我们的自我察觉的练习是非常的重要。继续的学习去解开和疗愈自己。  现在的日常生活里，我常常会观察这些事情的发生，就是为什么会有这个结果，这些结果的背后是什么样的本质而有这样的结果，也因为我自己经历过，所以现在我可以看的比较清晰，这里有我们的自我攻击，自我不接纳和不值得感等而引发的。  有一次，由于孩子忘了要准备上烹饪课的材料而发脾气，因为时间允许，我便去帮忙他买，然而，当我回来的时候，他却对我说道，他一无是处，我并不需要这样的协助他，当时，我是这样的回应说我是他的妈妈，我当然要尽力的保护他，我告诉他，这个家永远是他安全的中心，我并不选择和他争论我的付出或是他的自我攻击和不值得感。  如果在以前我会觉得难受或甚至的难过到哭泣，但是这一次我的确看到了事情的本质，也就是我自己如如不动的在我们的稳定空间，外在发生的一切，会以最快的速度，也一样的和我们自己回到中心。  就好像我在前因后果分享里讲述过的： 当我们不想长出苹果时，我们就不要种苹果，如果长出了苹果，那么我们就是要在种植上改变，而不是一味的纠结着为何是苹果而走不出来，也就是我们常常都是看果而没去改因，如果继续这样就会是一直的循环，就算把树上所有的苹果栽下来，再长出来的还是苹果！  在我的疗愈历程，我最感恩的是我上的一个修炼种子的课程，这是一个修自己的心的课程，我记得有一次老师问了我们一个问题，这个问题是：如果你遇见一个让你很痛苦的人，你会如何呢？当然，那时的我们还是没能很好的知道，真正的我们可以做的是什么，后来，老师又问了我们，是谁要修自己的心，忽然，我们大家都在那一刻明白了，原来要修的是我们，而不是对方，而如果我们在这里不去计较，凭着我们的接纳，我们就可以察觉，而再度的疗愈自己！  这样的明白，我真的在那一刻长了一些智慧，也让我自己又多了一份清晰，所以你也会活的很自在，就是当你有多少的烦恼，你就会有懂的解决方案，这个智慧是真的需要修我们的心而长出来的，而且，当我们在这个状态，少了很多我执，烦恼都已经去掉一大半。  我们常常在互相斗争里，为了尊严而各种伤害，然而，尊严是自带的气场，不是捍卫而来的，我们需要的只是相信和交托给自己的内在这个宇宙，一切就会自然而然的，就像天地万物般的自然的发展。  当你准备好了，宇宙就会为你开路, 我们从出生也就意味着我们的不归之路，到后来的学习只不过是，让我们如何可以好好的离开这个地球做准备，所以人是空空的来，空空的去，那么在来和去的之间，我们要如何的体验，可以用我们的5感6觉去做各式各样的体验，但是无论你想要如何的体验，永远记得爱是唯一的解决方案。  您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，我的第二季播客就在这里完结了，期待在第三季的播客和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

Secrets to go from Stuck To Unstoppable  In episode of 651 I chat with Genecia Alluora, a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019.  We chat about how she's built a business and a following through her hard work and mindset.  She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and SRW academy, she mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online.

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您继续分享阴阳平衡这个话题。 所谓的完整人格，就是在我们能够在精神层次里的阴阳平衡，一般我们认为是指男女的性别，就是我们可以看见的外相，虽然这也是一个很明显的阴和阳的不同，但是，我们虽然是其中一个性别，但是我们的另一个力量也是不能没有的，而且，天地万物也是分阴阳的。  每一个人在阴或阳的缺乏下，也会导致我们的行为举止的不稳定，这是我们每个人都会有的，我们一定要知道，阴阳平衡是一个只能在内在调理，为何当我们想做一件事时会老是磨磨蹭蹭，为何我们有时眼高手低，这些都是我们内在不和谐导致的，最简单的方法，我们可以通过练瑜伽，晒太阳和链接一些大师们的阴阳等等的能量来滋养自己，持之永恒，让自己补充精，气，神可以往完整人格的方向。  在疗愈的领域，疗愈师时常会看破不说破，有一些时候，对于一个疗愈师，他们更需要做到在说话的阴阳平衡，并不是不可以说，而是有时候说出来并没有帮助，反而让来访者陷入更深渊，那就没有很好的帮助到来访者，而是必须以另外的一种方式去引导，这样才可以很好的帮助来访者解开他们的迷惘。  每个人的做法都是对于自己的最佳利益和独特的，并没有对错，如果看在我们眼里的不舒服，其实是我们需要去疗愈的部分，因为内在的创伤引发了这样的不平衡。  遇见过的2位灵性老师，他们都创造了很多的项目可以去影响别人，其中一位在很多的时候接受了无数的礼物， 让他可以锦上添花，而去让他更加的有力量的去继续的创造的影响别人，也许对他来说，这是他来享受他的创造后的一个回流，另外的一位老师却是相反的做法，比较低调的做法，没有这样的锦上添花，是一种实实在在的去影响他人，所以格花入格眼，我们也不要太转牛角尖而失去学习的机会。  从表面来说，我们会有许多社会框架来评论这样的发生，但是2个灵性老师还是很积极的去进行他们的任务，物质都是阴阳能量，在我们的角度，这也是他们各自在世间的不同的演绎的戏码而已。  这让我想起，我们身为现代的女人们，尤其是在婚姻里，有时我们会太过于强势或柔软，而让自己内心失去平衡，结果，反而让家庭失去了应该有的阴阳平衡，夫妻的互相尊重而带动孩子才能有着完整思维人格的成长。  在为自己做生命密码的解读， 我发现在9号阳性能量和3号阴性能量是能滋养我，9号的关键词是慈悲，而3号的关键词是演讲者，所以对我来说，从这里再去延申我可以做的事，这样的能够比较容易的清楚去生活而利用自己的主性格去活出自己所要的。  当我们更好的了解能滋养我们的阴阳能量的时候，我们就是会以他们的行为作为一个定位，也可以让自己会比较看得清自己要活成什么样子，每个人都是不一样的活法，我们都是来遇见更好的自己，所以把自己了解了是很重要的事情，因为我们早已经被社会道德框著了许久，以为这才是我们要的，尤其是演讲者的能量，播客会是我的起点，我能为我内在的声音有一个输出的表达能力，这就是我后来在做播客时给自己的定位，这些细节都是从导师指引后再一步一脚印的去发现知晓的。  当为他人做水晶钵疗愈的时候，我渐渐觉得许多的任务其实并不难的去完成，而是我有多坚持，我打从心里到底喜不喜欢做这件事，还是因为这水晶钵漂亮，只是买了摆放而已，做播客能挑起我对事物的表达能力，这样的训练为了就是往活成自己的方向前行。  幸福是什么，它是一个磁场的相和，那么当我们的财富，情感，健康出了问题，也就是我们内在的阴阳出了问题，所以说阴阳平衡对我们来说是非常重要，我们这一生都是在找合一，跟自己合一，我接纳我自己的优缺点，我还可以接纳他人的优缺点，拿回自己的力量才是对的，做个真正的阳性力量强大的人，我们的修行其实就是一直的不断在自我的推翻惯有的模式，然后去慢慢的融合找到我们的阴阳平衡来做自己，那么你的幸福自然而然的就到了。  现在我们都不由自主的都是向外索取，因为内在的力量全都放在别人身上，必需由外界来肯定我们自己，一但没有了这些，我们就觉得不幸福，所以我们也不知觉变得控制行为，我们没有察觉这样的行为，仍然以我都是为你好做为一个合理的理由来掩饰自己。  所有的一切都是从家庭的教育开始，父为阳，母为阴，如何养育我们的下一代的确需要用心，而且自己也要提升，不能老是用自己感受里的那一套，我们的眼光一定要开阔，我们还可以应用老祖宗的智慧，但是以现代化的意识去完成，我们不能食古不化，痛苦的是自己之外还阻挡别人的发展。  木火土金水，相生也相克，生活中人与人也是如此，彼此间都能滋养对方，但也能打击对方，如果我们的行为刚刚好，能让别人长生机，别人以为你的贡献而受到很大的鼓励，因而向死而生，但是，如果我们太彰显过了头，让别人有自惭形秽的感受，因而升起嫉妒，羡慕等，这样的话我们就无法的很的影响他人阴阳平衡的提升。  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您分享阴阳平衡这个话题。 所谓的完整人格，就是在我们能够在精神层次里的阴阳平衡，一般我们认为是指男女的性别，就是我们可以看见的外相，虽然这也是一个很明显的阴和阳的不同，但是，我们虽然是其中一个性别，但是我们的另一个力量也是不能没有的，而且，天地万物也是分阴阳的。 每一个人在阴或阳的缺乏下，也会导致我们的行为举止的不稳定，这是我们每个人都会有的，我们一定要知道，阴阳平衡是一个只能在内在调理，为何当我们想做一件事时会老是磨磨蹭蹭，为何我们有时眼高手低，这些都是我们内在不和谐导致的，最简单的方法，我们可以通过练瑜伽，晒太阳和链接一些大师们的阴阳等等的能量来滋养自己，持之永恒，让自己补充精，气，神可以往完整人格的方向。  在疗愈的领域，疗愈师时常会看破不说破，有一些时候，对于一个疗愈师，他们更需要做到在说话的阴阳平衡，并不是不可以说，而是有时候说出来并没有帮助，反而让来访者陷入更深渊，那就没有很好的帮助到来访者，而是必须以另外的一种方式去引导，这样才可以很好的帮助来访者解开他们的迷惘。  每个公司的领导都需要有好的助理，也就好像每个老板都需要有好的主管，这也是阴阳面的组合，一方下令，一方行动，才能把事情办好，如果每个都在下令，没能完成，如果每个都在行动，也是混乱没有秩序，也是不行。  我的上司在公司的角色就是阳的状态，而我是阴的状态，就是外向和内守的这样配合，这样的保持平衡，我们呈现出一种和谐的状态，这样公司的上下也是能调和，这样是最为理想，但是无论如何，当下都是还在寻找阴阳平衡，这能通过我们的内在智慧，去为这样的平衡来互相的协调。  而另一个层次，就是同事和同事之间，每当公司发生一些状况，这里都是源自每个职员的阴阳平衡上出了一些状况，有些职员内在阳盛，也会导致外在强势过头，然而另外的职员内在阴多，就会导致外在的软弱，这样就会被互相的对上了，表面上我们真的无法知晓，所以，我们是需要以爱出发，才能好好的解决问题。  当我们处在比较明朗的状态，任何一些我们无法办到的一定有其他方法的去完成，阴阳平衡是我们要的状态，但是如果我们自己都没有好好的调理自己内在的平衡，在其他人的合作关系上就会常常的有冲突，而导致关系破裂。  曾经看过一部电影，讲述一个从小就被指定为一位宗教的上师，他从来没有尝试过人生的柴米油盐酱醋茶，从小就有人为他准备的妥当，所以有一次，他决定在不告知任何人的情况下，带了一个背包和一点钱，开始了他的流浪生涯，开始他从来没体验过的东西，在他走出的第一个经历就是和满是汗水的工人们挤火车。   我们常常想觉得别人的命比较好，其实并不是如此，我们大家要经历的生活体验都是不一样的，所以我们回到自己，去发现自己要的是什么，而不是不必要的比较，这位宗教上司在其他方面都是很高能量的状态，那么，为何在我们的眼里，他还要自己为难自己呢，这里还是回到完整人格的状态，心里渴望的一种完整，没有一些自己想要的经历，就是没有一些更深一层的领悟。  人生的经历就是我们的一个重要历程，如果你羡慕别人一生幸福，那是你的主观的一面，我们过好我们的生活就是对自己最大的慈悲。  我们每个人都有这样的经历，总那么懒散想做什么也做不成，觉得自己一无是处，心里渴望可是又积极不起来，看到这个人做这好，也就去尝试，看到另外一个人在那个好，也跟着去尝试，一但自己没有勇气去做，又变成眼高手低，说到底，身体就是缺了阳性的能量。  我们的生命总是一次又一次的给予机会，所以现在的你也不要着急，不管我们在何时要醒来，永远都不会迟，只要你一次又一次的种下你的意图，虽然在过去都没有开花，但是，当一切是时候，自然的就会开花后甚至结果。  从你的家庭，工作和财富状态，你可以做一个评估，我们是需要往自己的心理层面去了解自己，因为一切还在你自己的主观的‘我'里，也还会是一个很单面的状态，比如我们很多人，时常被社会道德绑架的生活着，然而如果我们能运用阳性的意志而去自己的客观的‘我'里，就是会脱离，你的人生会因此而不一样。  没有行动力的话，任何计划都是没有意义的，这世界上有哪一样的产品不是经过自己的起心动念，再配合行动而创造出来的，如果我们真心想为自己好，就把最简单的事情做好，先把感恩日记写好，写感恩日记是宇宙中最好的行动，感恩是现在社会最重要的“药”。  大部分的我们追求者完美，但是完美也是不完美和完美拼凑出来的，与其说完美，那么倒不如去完整它，想体验什么就去，想成为什么就去努力，当然，不要忘了必须是慈悲的前提下而去做的。  您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您继续分享前因后果这个话题。 小时候，我们总会被告知，我们一定要做好人，我们总认为好人就会有好报，但是，我们还是看到很多的好人也被疾病折磨而还无法享清福就离开这个世界，我后来的身心灵的学习，略知有一些是我们无法理解的业力牵扯，也领悟到有一些的原因是总是为别人好而让自己背负，也忘了爱自己，做自己，没有先把自己照顾好，而导致这个很难明白为什么会是这样的结果。 自己决定，自己负责，这是其中的一个自然法则，也就是说这世界上没有人可以来负责我们的人生，就像一些人去这样的背负，但是，如果你会活的很不开心，每天似乎像一具没有生命的躯体，慢慢的我们的身体的毛病会不断的提醒我们，应该做自己的时候了。 我们常常在结果里争扎，也就是说没有看见行为背后是一个怎么样的前因后果，但是这样的我们一直重复着我们的习性，那是因为我们一直在果里面改，而不在因里面改，那就好像一颗树结出来的是苹果，但是我们其实是想要柳橙，那么我们必须种柳橙，而不是在苹果上改，因为再怎么改，结果最多是苹果派，苹果汁或其他，但还是以苹果的产品。 人的习气是一个因的开始，好比说爱评判别人，这也包括在心里的嘀咕，在这里我就开始种了一个因，这样起心动念会造成一个回流来给我们，自然法则是这样的顺天应人，如果你要过好好你的人生，我们必须学习和知道的尤其是前因后果，我们说任何的话，最会造成一种对别人和自己的一个影响。 我们可以选择性的至少可以造好的因，给人鼓励，肯定和支持，这样的我们也会把我们自身的频率净化成更好感觉的磁场，如果我们每个人都学习这样的提升，不过还是没有所谓的对错好坏，只是大家都是给大家一个机会成长，集体的意识的学习还是有一定强大的影响力。 我们要改的当然还是很多，就一点一点的去改变，但是不要再像机器人那个的还是过着同样的生活，就会意义不大，当我们有意图的为自己而改变，那么我们也就是开始为自己的人生换剧本，新的人生道路就会比想象中的喜悦，这和世界的物质没有很大的关系。 个人或集体的提升都是非常重要的，个人的学习提升可以带动小范围的影响力，好像家庭，公司的发展，集体的学习是让更大的范围更快的影响而快速的可以达到目标，尤其是对于一个社会，甚至一个国家的发展，这是一个无形的因而有的一个果。 我有一个主管，有一次，当在和他开会时，我和他在一些点上无法共识，于是我发表了自己的一些意见，可是，似乎还无法让他释怀，我们还是各持所见，当我再次的想表达有些我的意见，忽然间，我觉得我应该在好好的聆听。 因为基于一些因素，公司的缺货而必须推掉好几个小订单而对自己有责怪，他把这样的时候往身上扛，结果就让他很沉重，这样一来，他再看很多的事情的时候，都是满满的自责，如果没有一定的自我察觉，我们一般的反应，一定是向外，寻找一些去掩盖内心的自责，我们不愿意让人看见这样脆弱的我们。 每间公司的职员都是想把事情做好的，可是，如果我们还是以自我为中心，我们会因为自己的执着而错失好的助手，所以身为管理层的一部分，我们有必要的把自己放在一个谦卑的位置，去看看事情的本质，其实有时候也不容易的发现，但是最为重要的是我们一定要对他们的信任，慢慢的就可以看到事情的本质。 我们总是觉得自己不够好，这会有两个反应，第一个就是把所有的不好都往自己推，这样就越来越贬低自己，让自已越来越没价值，这也是不行，另一种就是把所有的不好都往外推，让自己成为怨妇体质，越来越不受别人欢迎，所以们还是要回到为何觉得自己不够好的因上，才可以改果。 从小，我就是乖乖听话的孩子，我也是很感恩这样的一个我，从这样的的性格，一步一步的推着我内在想要的样子去寻找，过去的每一天，我的开心是非常短暂的，我每天活在过去的经验里来判断现在的情形，然后再用未来的无知来吓自己和试图以控制的行为，当然，我内心是软弱的，所以我后来用强硬的手段来掩饰自己的脆弱，身体的不间断的小疾病也是一个让我们去学习如何的改变我们。 也相信是因为当种了一个意图，而我的小宇宙开始的为我带来了属于我自己的疗愈方法，我参加线上呼吸瑜伽，我参加线上气功，这些练习把我带到我更好的状态，是我没有想过的，如果我因为需要付费而纠结不去上，心和脑的不链接，我相信我是不会收到这样美好的礼物。 我们还是会为了必须交付学费而止步，最主要的是我们要用自己的直觉力去判断，什么才是对我们的好的，那如果把这笔钱守住，可是心里还是有那份焦虑和恐惧，那么这不会是我们的最佳利益，身体的好状态才可以让我们拿回更多的果实，因此一些不是金钱上的衡量也是必须知晓的。 目前我的身体甲状腺的课题，让我重新的再一次好好的看自己，我要的是什么，当我走到人生的半百，我可以为自己做些什么，可以为这个社会做写什么，我赋予我的生命什么意义，我可以做什么，我还能做什么，这些都是你我他有一天会想的问题，那么现在开始做可以做的吧，好好的种一个因。 最后，和你们分享蔡璧名老师在‘医道同源'里的这段智慧语录：「当你在心身的工夫上扎根日深、你心身的强度挺得住外来风雨，你的求学路、情场、职场才可能不病不伤、游刃有余。不管在哪个职业的分位里、不管在哪个处境中，你都能重视自己的心灵与身体，都会致力保全心身。于是，在错综复杂的人际关系里，你的心仍能自由。在一辈子两万多天的人生里，享受身为一个人可以拥有的情、欲与爱，能够因为有情有欲，而更加幸福，而不是因为有情有欲，反而害了自己，落得遍体鳞伤的下场。终于，你发现，心静了，气就顺。随着内心器量与心神静定的提升，人际的沟通与和谐、职业的专精与升进、情爱的能量与格局、身体的疗愈与强化，都将同步成就。」 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

Episode #170: Imagine sitting on a window ledge and contemplating whether being on this Earth is worth it anymore, then 7 short years later that same person is named Miss Singapore. Genecia Alluora was that little girl that questioned her worthiness and her confidence was shaken due to bullies at school. Now she is inspiring women around the world to find their voice and empowering them to find their financial freedom. Genecia shares with us her journey of overcoming her fears of failure and stepping into success. What are those keys? Tune in and find out as she tells us her favorite "f" word, why grit is so important, and how to be the leader of your own path. Join us, subscribe, and share this amazing podcast with your loved ones!Bio:Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019. She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and SRW academy, she mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. Her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.Before establishing Soul Rich Woman, Genecia was an owner of a cafe retail chain with a presence in 3 countries with 18 franchisees and licensees that successfully exited to a public listed company after 4 years. She is the winner of 2 awards in 2014, The Franchisee and Franchisor of The Year - Runner Up by Franchise and Licensing Association (Singapore).For women who love the F-word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and Family. Genecia is a podcast host and producer since 2019 for her 3 podcasts "For Women Who Love The F Word" with listeners in 131 countries; a daily 10 minutes marketing podcasts "Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" with 1000+ downloads every month and “Make It Happen" : Secrets To Go From Stuck To Unstoppable Without Changing Who You Are Even if No One Believes In You Or Stand By. She is also the author of "Personal Branding Secrets" and her new book "Make It Happen: Secrets to go from Stuck To Unstoppable Without Changing Who You Are. Even If No One Believes In You Or Stands By You." From as young as 14 years of age, Genecia had to support herself through school. Through working in a 9-5 job as an occupational therapist and later became a serial entrepreneur, Genecia had gone through the highs and lows of being a business owner. Her epic journey from being in a six-figure debt to becoming a millionaire in 2013, fuelled her passion to support women to do the same - to own the F-word!Profiled in CNBC, Forbes and China Daily, Genecia is a thought leader and leading women's empowerment expert. She is regularly invited to speak on TV and Radio as well as conferences. She has shared the stage with great minds like Gary Vaynerchuk, Mary Buffett, Kim Kiyosaki and Neil Patel.“Alone we are strong, together we are UNSTOPPABLE.” - Genecia AlluoraContact Genecia:Website:  soulrichwoman.comFacebook: facebook.com/soulrichwomanFacebook: facebook.com/geneciaalluoraInstagram: instagram.com/geneciaalluoraTwitter: twitter.com/GeneciaAlluoraLinkedIn: linked

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您分享前因后果这个话题。 小时候，我们总会被告知，我们一定要做好人，我们总认为好人就会有好报，但是，我们还是看到很多的好人也被疾病折磨而还无法享清福就离开这个世界，我后来的身心灵的学习，略知有一些是我们无法理解的业力牵扯，也领悟到有一些的原因是总是为别人好而让自己背负，也忘了爱自己，做自己，没有先把自己照顾好，而导致这个很难明白为什么会是这样的结果。 自己决定，自己负责，这是其中的一个自然法则，也就是说这世界上没有人可以来负责我们的人生，就像一些人去这样的背负，但是，如果你会活的很不开心，每天似乎像一具没有生命的躯体，慢慢的我们的身体的毛病会不断的提醒我们，应该做自己的时候了。 我们常常在结果里争扎，也就是说没有看见行为背后是一个怎么样的前因后果，但是这样的我们一直重复着我们的习性，那是因为我们一直在果里面改，而不在因里面改，那就好像一颗树结出来的是苹果，但是我们其实是想要柳橙，那么我们必须种柳橙，而不是在苹果上改，因为再怎么改，结果最多是苹果派，苹果汁或其他，但还是以苹果的产品。 在我们的起心动念里，你的念头里有着什么的无形想象，也是一个很重要的因，举个例子，比如我向宇宙下一个订单，我想要一辆奢华的跑车，那我为何下这样的宇宙订单呢，那是因为我的头脑里有着我想要向别人展示，让别人看到我有多厉害，还是我真的打从骨子里欣赏这跑车的性能等等等，这里是可以去清理你的意识底层部分，当然，这样如果以自己为享乐的前提，你必须踮踮脚看你是否触碰与否，这也是一个关键之一。 我也常常会希望心想事成，在我的学习前部分，我也是会尝试向宇宙下订单，当然我这也就是碰碰运气，但我都以一种乐观的态度去面对，一直到后来，我渐渐的明白它的运作，才知道这里有我开始的因，然后我积极的爬格子，不畏惧和不恐惧，勇猛精进和我有多笃定，这样才能有那个果，并不是好像买彩票这样的等待奇迹，所以我还是相信奇迹是送给努力的人的。 在我的曼陀罗里的宇宙下订单的学习，它分为三个层次，意识在最里面的那个圈，第二个圈是能量，而第三个圈是物质，这里是要有最底层的练习，如果我们的意识没有那么的纯粹，我们的能量也是浊的，物质的方面并没法让我们能轻而易举的心想事成。 我喜欢和别人分享自己所看到的文章或一些疗愈上的好音乐，尤其是每当对方有苦恼的时候，很多时候，我们人人都是看似健康快乐，但是背后总是隐藏着许多的感受，受伤，委屈等等，所以我们时不时都可以给人一些这样的分享。 最近和朋友分享了一个声音的疗愈，朋友说当她闭上眼睛，内心的不禁的涌起了许多情绪，眼泪不禁的流出来，那是因为她的内心有释放了，我听了的当下是非常感动的，就这么一个动作，我们可以帮助到人，那一刻，也让我深深的感受到帮人的方法其实很简单，然而，我们就是常常把所有的事情复杂化，以为必须要有3头6臂才可以办到，其实并不是如此。 在这被物质包围的世界，***我们都会看到许多人有，我过的比别人好心态的发表，然而，面子书也都会有一些有意义的公益节目等，学习去感受他们的频率，不要被世俗外表的美与丑，好与坏来牵引着自己走向那个无明的世界。 我们是可以让自己创造，就去创造吧，用自己的创造，学习去大胆的分享吧，我们就是独一无二的个体，但是我们又是本质上一样的整体，学习不要被扭曲的观念所限制，学习不去和别人比较，学习什么是真理，因为有太多的真理并不是真理，只有我们去领悟到才知道。 当我还没投资在提升我的意识之前，我就是把我的钱投资在物质的享受上，这也是没错，但是他们能如何的让你提升，好比说，就听过这样的一个女明星人的故事，她喜欢买名牌包包和其他追随时尚的物质享受，由于长期的这样加上包括其他的消费，导致有一次她破产了，也就是说她花光了先生的钱而先生申请破产，由于，他自己本身一像来都不必为生活烦恼，突然，人生就一片黑暗，,然而，就在这样的情形下，他开始变卖这些有价值的包，也因为这样而让它开启了她的人生的另一个生意机会。 我们常常会因为要放松而选择做一些我们喜欢做的事情，然而，这里并没有偶然，许多的事情都是从这里开始，因为你的一颗种子，让你慢慢的开花结果，我们种什么就会长出什么果实，很多时候我们都是在果里努力，这样往往就会努力白费了。 身为女人，我们都必须把自己的力量拿回来，就算女人有了家庭，除了在责任的负责，我们必须有自己的时间，自己的爱好等，当我们如何的种我们的因也就是我们会有一份果，全都是自己必须付出的，行为就是一个好的因，所有的人都被你吸引而来就是一份好的果。 我们常说女神，可能就是大家公认的外表长得漂亮，然而，还有一种女神就是一个懂自己要活成什么样的女人，他不会天天惦记着担心这个，担心那个，女人也有很多时候，我们的付出就会期待有回报，那么谁见谁都怕呀。 我们一定离不开这个法则，不管你愿不愿意，那就是我们要守住我们的起心动念，这虽然是不容易的，但是人生毕竟时时刻刻都是在学习，这当然也是我们回来这地球的原因，就是再一次的学习看清楚我们之前没过的课题，而想尽办法的去跨越它。 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您继续分享中庸之道这个话题。 每个人的生命都是起起落落，没有永远的失败或成功，但失败时不灰心，成功时不自大，一切都是在我们的自己如何看待，当我们保持中立住我们的思维，我们的路可以走的更轻盈，我们的视野会更宽阔，你可以对人生，对生命的通透。 我们就会像一只盘旋在天空中的老鹰，在上空盘旋的时候，把一切看得清清楚楚，如果我们把自己处在有限的方格里，我们就会生产出越来越多的我执，一切就好像一个天枰，如果一边的沉下， 就是我们的偏离的状态, 当我们还是个正在寻找自己的时候，我们就是不断的吸取，不断的累积，但是当我们成为自己的时候，我们就是要放下所有的一切，回到简简单单，单纯的自己，这就是我们要学到的中庸之道。 我们的人生都会来到一个又一个的转变层次，这个转变可以是对生命的另一个开始，可以对社会的一种贡献，我个人很喜欢这句话：取之于社会，用之以社会，但你已经来到做自己一个阶段，是开始放下的时候，不要紧紧的捉着你的成就而逐渐的起了傲慢心，这是每个人都必经之路，这个看似很无常，但是转变可以掌握在自己手中。 我们的身体也是需要得到滋养，在学习和努力的同时我们也不要忘了也要锻炼身体，我发现观想呼吸是一个非常好的练习，它不只让我到目前为止时时刻刻保持平静的心情，也容易的保持安静的听取他人的意见，也可以调整我身上的小毛病，因为我曾经在我的身体觉得很不舒服的时候就应用上这个方法，但是也要选择适合自己身体状态的呼吸法。 我们锻炼身体时，可以把自己观想成自己要的健康状态，但是，如果没法达到，我们也就不要陷入那种恐惧，焦虑，主要是也不要和别人做比较，尤其时要拥有曲线的身材，因为这也让我们就会陷入妒忌，而反而没有了上进心，自己的能量也是不稳定，所以我们只锻炼自己要的健康状态就很好了，我们也不需要和别人一样，最主要的是我们的配备是什么，不能一味的对自己的身体百般要求不属于自己的范围，这也是不接纳自己，不接受自己的一种表现。 当我们拥有越来越平衡的人生，慢慢的对于物质和欲望的要求只是一种适合就好，不会过度的贪念，也会越来越知道自己要的是什么，自然而然的对自己身体的一切都是舒服的，也会喜欢这也的自己。 在我还没学身心灵的时候，我会看见疗愈师们发生的一些事情，我就会很困惑，为何身为疗愈师的他们还是会有很多的问题，我后来才知道这是所谓的课题，每一次过完了课题就会再升一级，做为一名疗愈师的他们就是继续和来访者一起成长，这样就会越来越完整人格。 我们这一辈子要经历的有很多，也许就是不可能完成的，那么我们也一定是尽我们最大的能力去做，也不能因为这样就不需要成长，因为课题是不管你要不要，愿不愿意，你都是在经历，但是当我们对抗的时候，我们要面对的是需要用更多的力量去完成，比如身体疾病的承担，这是烦恼里的烦恼。 人不可能是全能，我们都知道疗愈者也同时被疗愈，所以我们自己才是真正的疗愈自己的人，但是在你还未知如何去疗愈自己之前，你是必须要有一个指引者，慢慢的才可以有方向，保持中庸的态度对待每一个人是我们最应该有的修养，器满则倾，所以我们也不要太以自我为中心，同时我们也把自己的双耳打开，因为可能随时这是来填补我们的缺点。 这是一个共赢的年代，如果我们还是以自我利益为中心会活得很辛苦，因为处处都会以别人为敌，当我们是和别人处在一起成长的时候，那么我们进步的空间更加的庞大，速度也更加的快，集体意识的效应是不可忽略的。 我们会看到真正成功的人，他们的心总是心念者如何的回馈社会，他们成立基金去协助更需要帮助的人，我们虽然没有这样的能力，但是我们只要做好自己，照顾好自己再到自己的家人和来到我们生命的人，这样就已经很足够了。 没有人天生就是完好无缺，好好的理清接下来自己要怎么舒服的过，如何过的理想，记得别人的东西永远只是一个参考，我们处在的每个地方，都是会有需要我们的服务的部分，就这样处在自己范围能做的事，然后好好有认知的做， 因为每一个人都有各自的频率，能和我们遇见的都是有着和我们相似的课题，这就是为何他们没有遇见别人，所以我们是最好的人选去帮助他们。 就算是有人和你在做同样的东西，或者你和大机构做的性质是一样的，但也不是说你就没有了机会，因为每一个人的时间和能力都有限，所以这个世界的问题是全部人集体努力去完成的，如果我们还有这样的害怕，那么我们要深一层的去看见，我们的这个害怕的背后是我们对自己没有信心还是其他因素，因为这将是一个阻挡你前进的核心问题。 我们一定是在这样的法则下生活， 只要我们愿意去做，老天爷一定会让我们有路可走，如果我们愿意疗愈我们的创伤，我们愿意去面对我们所遇到的难题，你会发觉原来一切就是信任和交托，自然而然的所有的一切都是会有好的安排，如果我们没有心和脑的链接，有时我们的头脑分析过头，反而，会让我们做任何事都已经有了一个主观的感受而放弃。 幸福喜悦是一种我们所追求的，物质的丰盛只是让你在这一生里过的轻松，但它会让你不停的增加你的欲望，一切外在的只是一个象， 不要迷失和太沉迷而越陷越深，保持清醒和清晰，继续勇往直前的启用你的天赋才华去创造利他人的事情，这就是中庸之道！ 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

Genecia Alluora,  founder of Soul Rich Woman, with a vision to support 1 million women in business and leadership brand online to own and love the F-word: Fabulous,  Freedom, Financial Independence and Family.From as young as 14 years of age, Genecia had to support herself through school, all the while enduring bullying from classmates to the point of wanting to end her life.  With the encouragement of her mother, Genecia persevered She later worked as an occupational therapist before becoming a serial entrepreneur.   A former Miss Singapore,  Genecia's  journey from being in a six-figure debt to becoming a millionaire in 2013, fueled her passion to support women to do the same. Genecia has received numerous awards and honors; one by Noble Queen as Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020, hosts 3 podcasts and is the author of 2 books. Genecia is a thought leader and leading women's empowerment expert.This is her story.Connect with Genecia and receive the free gifts :*Delegate 80% of Your To-Do List & Make Money Online""You Are Possible"www.soulrichwoman.com 

139: DoNation By Laurus Enterprises Interviews Genecia AlluoraToday's episode is a really special one because I was part of a fundraiser, a charity event in the Philippines. But it's virtual. It's organized by Laura's Enterprises with the support of the world's largest event organizer who brings in Tony Robbins, T Haf Ecker, Robert Kiyosaki Success Resources Private Limited of Singapore. So this event is called Do Nation. Let's do it for the nation. There is a virtual charity learning event and aim to fundraise for front liners and event liners. I'm really blessed to be a part of this. So I hope you enjoy this interview and let me know if you love this episode. Genecia Alluora's Story of Bullying(09:43-11:24) I had to support myself at a very young age since I was 14 years old, and I wasn't able to kind of really build up my self-esteem well. So in school, I wasn't able to buy new clothes, new shoes, and therefore, I was often bullied in school because of my look. Imagine me with really short hair, maybe as short as yours. Rich, you have hair. Okay. So almost very short. And I have very dark eye circles, really bushy eyebrows, very tomboyish because of the way I was being brought up to defend myself, to defend for myself, and not with a lot of money in my pocket. I wasn't able to present myself well, I didn't have a lot of confidence, so I was always the spot where people would bully me. The girls have cornered me at the basketball court. I remember one time, and then they pull over my PE shirt, exposing my bra, and then one of them will actually say, oh, you're wearing the same bra. And I felt totally humiliated. Humiliated. So throughout my years, I was consistently being bullied because of my background, and I lost my self-esteem. In fact, there was one other incident that shook me up that I didn't even want to think about joining a beauty pageant because totally, I lost myself completely. There were times that they took my bag. My bag has holes in them, and they threw it across the classroom floor. And all my books were strewn all across the floor. And at that moment in time, I wanted to commit suicide. I just wanted to die. Her Journey Towards Joining Beauty Pageant(11:27-11:50) My self-esteem continued to go downhill. But you see, we are the average of the five people we hang with the most. And sometimes when we don't have coverage, we don't have bravery. We lost ourselves. It's the people around us who will support us and give us that support. And my friends believed in me. My friends saw the potential in me and say Genecia, you should just join a beauty pageant. Just go for it.(12:03-12:07) And my friends, eventually they enrolled me to join Miss Singapore.(12:11-12:24) And the best part was, I wasn't groomed. I didn't have a lot of money to buy a pair of heels. In fact, I could only afford one pair of black color heels. But in any beauty pageant, you need to have one black and one silver. And you have to have clothes for multiple events.(12:35-12:44) So I went to knock on doors, and eventually, I found someone who was willing to give me a sponsorship to teach me how to do public speaking. (12:46-13:18) Her name was Rebecca. And she gave me all the DVDs, CDs, her notes, and everything possible. She gave it to me. And then she said, can you give me your wallet, your bank? And I was a little bit blurred and naive at the time. Okay. I just passed you my bag, and she took out my wallet, unzip my wallet and pour all the money I have in my wallet. And I'm like, Rebecca, why are you taking all my money? That's all that I have. $60 is all that I have for the month for my food and transport and everything else.(13:36-13:56) And I told myself since you took all my money, I have no money. Right. So I better study hard and make sure I do well in my pageant. Right. So eventually I scored really well, and I won Miss Singapore International in 2006 because of Rebecca's teachings,public speaking, learn how to groom myself. All because I took the first step to commit to my success. Concept of Value Exchange Pushed her to do well in Pageantry(16:24-16:57) I think I never really understood the power of value exchange until much later in life. But definitely, when I looked back, I finally understood why she took that $60. There may be very little to some of you, the listeners, audience who's watching this right now, but for me, it was a lot back in those days. So we talked about the value, the proportion of the value that you have right now in your pocket when you give, whether it's 100 pesos or how much you're giving. It's not how much you give, but how much you have that you're actually giving.Her Message to People who are Struggling. (20:46-21:21) Don't think that you are alone because there's someone else out there. I totally get you. If you have depression and anxiety, it's time and possible for the journey. Just know that someone has gone before you and someone has overcome before you. So be an Overcomer. Learn to Ask for Help don't feel like you're being judged if you ask for help or if I ask for help means I'm weak, means I'm lousy, means I'm no good. But if I hadn't asked for help, I hadn't had friends who gave me that support. I will not be here today and be able to do more with my life. (21:23-21:36)So I want to encourage you to really step out of your comfort zone and really ask for help. Don't feel that someone else is judging you. Always know that there is a brighter, lighter hit at the end of the tunnel.Does and Don'ts in Starting a BusinessDon't be an Automatic Expert on Certain Things.(28:21-28:41) So to really do a cafe business, you need to don't become like a chef, you try to start a restaurant. You hold a camera, you think you're a photographer, you hold an iPhone, you think you're a blogger, you have a website, you think you are a blogger or something like that along the line. So don't think that you know how to be a barista. You can make a cafe. Don't Do Retail Business in this Covid-19 Season(28:50-29:14) I would say in this Covid-19 season, don't really start a retail business anymore. I will recommend you to reinvent the idea into a kiosk and then do takeaways, something that is duplicatable, something that is easy. Similar concept to bubble tea. Do something that is easy for people to take away with. I think that would be a better choice.Get a Franchise(30:21-30:36)If you were to do a cafe, get a franchise, that is the easiest way to get started, even though it could be a little more pricey. But that investment that you put upfront guarantees you that you have a system and process that's proven and you can make money immediately.  (30:49-30:57) Why? Because the brand is really known in the market and it's easy for people to trust you and know that your coffee is good. (31:07-31:13) Other than that, the brand actually has a trust factor involved. So definitely that will work in itself.Build a Team(31:24-31:44) I think one thing that I found success in the cafe business and I've learned is by having a team, we could put our skillset and strengths together and we are not functioning alone. And because we're not alone, we could easily put the processes together and eventually create something that's worthy of selling.How did Genecia Maximize her time?(40:38-41:11) Maximizing my time really means really sticking to my schedule as if I am doing the business as I would do before and after Covid. I think that in itself is a state of mindset where you can't tell yourself, oh, because it's Covid, therefore, I am not going to function the way I am. I'm going to sleep in a little bit more. I'm going to lazy around a little bit more. I mean, you could do exactly just that. But what is your vision? What is your big why? I think that is the question I want to keep reminding myself. (42:31-43:15) When I maximize my time, I want to always keep my vision in mind, keep that idea of why am I doing what I'm doing? Maximizing time also involves using management tools. I would highly recommend you to check Asana. Asana is a project management tool that is super useful. I have a team of 21 in the Philippines and they are all in Davao and I manage them all on my tools via Skype and Asana. And maximizing my time also means delegating 80% of my to-do list to them. So I only do 20% of my to-do list functioning in my zone of genius. Why Delegation is Very Important in Maximizing Time? (48:45-49:35) All you need is just to have $50 for a task that you completely hate to do. Like for example, bookkeeping like, for example, posting on your social media, getting things scheduled and posting things out, things like that can be easily outsourced and delegated for just $50 a week or $50 a month. It doesn't have to be, oh, I have to hire a full-time employee. It can be just a task or two, three tasks bundled together. As long as the person gets things done for you, you can go bit by bit. The two of the biggest mindset blocks for all the entrepreneurs I see, female entrepreneurs alike, is that they have this mindset of I can do better than the virtual assistant, I can do better than my employees.(49:39-49:44)But the thing is you're forgetting that you could maximize and function in your zone of genius.(50:04-50:10) And number two, the other block that a lot of entrepreneurs have is that they need to spend a lot of money to do delegating.Why Investing in Yourself Matters?(54:07-55:17) I will invest in myself, go for a program that will change and transform either my skill set and then also my mindset. I think the skill set is something that I've learned that nobody can take away from me. I started when I was 14 years old, had to support myself through school as yoga, aerobics, and line dancing instructor because I started when I was 14 teaching classes, being able to move a class of 100, to move a group in a Stadium of 1000, that gave me the skill set, to be able to give instructions whether it's in a small group or big group at a very young age. And that was why I was given the opportunity to work with politicians, CEOs and celebrities. Because of that, I had the advantage over other people when I was doing my business when I was an image consultant and doing my business, and I looked at the whole course on its own. So if I were to only have $1,000, I would do the same. Invest in myself, look at the skill set that is the future that people want. Why Action is Needed to Reach Your Goals?(55:26-56:33) One of the greatest swimmers of all time in Singapore, his name is Joseph Schooling. He won an Olympic gold, our very first Singapore Olympic gold just a few years ago. For Joseph Schooling to win an Olympic goal, he had to hire a coach to coach him how to swim in the pool. But did the coach need to jump in the pool to swim? For Joseph Schooling on the day of the Olympics, the answer is no. Joseph Schooling will wake up five to 06:00 a.m. Every single day and swim and worked his ass off to eventually winning the Olympic goals. So even if you invest in yourself to find a skill set that eventually will pay your bills, you must take action to jump into the pool and swim to achieve your Olympic goal. Like Joseph Schooling, the coach and mentor of the course can only guide you through, give you the system, the process that you can take you there because it's proven, but it takes you all your energy, 100% to swim through, to end, to finish line.Why Genecia's Mother is the Greatest Woman for her?(00:59:27-01:00:31) I look at my life now where I am, if not for her, I would not be where I am today. Like, set up pawning her goal to send me for instructor certifications, which I hated her for. Like, why do I need to work at a young age? Why do I need to do this to want to share with you my depression, my committing suicide, going through different relationships in life. And my mom has always been there, even though sometimes as a daughter, we are rebellious, we are running, going through our own course in life. So for me, I think I'm just being human and looking at my mom, I want to honour her. Even up to now, I would say my mom is still the greatest person ever. And I will say whatever I'm doing now is role modelling after her because she's also a leader in the community. She guides other women. She teaches other women how to live a confident, fulfilling, healthy life. And I'm exactly doing the same. Just an online version.Tips to Embrace our Mothers and Honour Them.Philosophy and Principles (01:03:10-01:03:24) I totally disagree with her most of the time. But over the years, I invested myself a lot in personal development, inner healing work. I do so much of that that I realized that choose to be happy, then choose to be right. Embrace her Indifferences.(01:03:29-01:04:09) She has gone through her own journey and education and her life experiences. So when she says certain things about you, about your work, about your life, just let her say because she has gone through her journey to be what she is today, there is definitely a generation difference to where we are now. So just be open-hearted and love her and embrace who she is. And that is one thing, one of the biggest lessons that I've learnt, embracing my mother and our differences. And I no longer think that I need to be right. I always choose to be happy and I just listen to her and just smile and not my head, even though I disagree What drove Her to build the Sole Rich Woman?(01:05:57-01:06:08) I was trapped in the nine to five red race for about a year because I was already making more working part-time and as an instructor. And I decided that I think nine to five isn't for me.(01:06:23-01:06:58) I feel that my life has been called for. So I went into image consultancy because my pageant winning Miss Singapore has really opened doors for me. And getting that specification as an image consultant did help me to pass ways to get to know more. I would say more influential people like your network goes to your net worth. So I think that really has helped me tremendously. But I was trading time for money. By work, I get paid, I work, I get paid, I don't work, I don't get paid. So that in itself I struggled and I was looking for a way out to go from offline to online, to bring my business online.How Mentoring Helps her in Building Soul Rich Woman(01:06:59-01:07:39) And how can I really make my first million? And that was just what I was thinking. I have never made my million before. I gotta do it myself. How can I get there? I invested in a mentor eventually. And his name is James Wee. He's also my partner in the cafe retail chain. He's also now the partner and the man behind So Rich Woman. So, yes, even though I run Soul Rich Woman, I'm the founder, but he's the man behind looking at all the different strategies and how we are charting out the cash flow and all these things. So it's very important. What is the Vision of a Soul Rich Woman?(01:07:40-01:08:22) I went online knowing that I can empower and equip more women to shortcut their success, to own and love the effort, be fabulous, have freedom, financial independence, and above all, family. I don't want women to start going round and round in circles because I feel that there's just so much time wasted when you're just going round and round in circles. There is definitely a way to shortcut your success, to reach your goal in a shorter period of time if you have the right mentor and the right community. Because when a woman changes her life, her entire community benefits. And alone, you are strong. But together we are unstoppable.What is the Most Important Lesson she learned in Life? How will she Influence people through it?(01:09:34-01:10:10) One of the biggest lessons I learned in life is never to give up. And if I were to win Miss Universe, I would actually use this motivational skill set that I have to actually get everyone who's been in touch with me one light at a time to tell them that the sky's the limit and there's no storm that you cannot conquer Never give up only as you're willing to step out of your comfort zone no dream that you cannot achieve in your life because alone we are strong together we are unstoppable.What advice would you give to youngsters? (01:16:46-01:16:51) Believe in yourself. Be confident. Stay true to your soul, to your heart.What advice would you give to people struggling with this Pandemic?(01:21:40-01:21:54) Remember, quit thinking, start doing and never give up on your dreams. Even Covid-19 has happened. Life definitely must go on. Find a mentor and stay connected.(01:22:12-01:22:43) People are having issues, and they feel that they're alone. So don't feel that you're alone. I just want to just call out to you right now if you're feeling alone, just know that we have resources available for you. And as we do this as a nation together to support our front liners in the Philippines, we also would like you to lend your hand, hundred pesos to get started, to make a donation so that we can do more with our effort together because alone we are strong, together we are unstoppable.Key Takeaways:1. It's not how much you give, but how much actually give.2. Be an Overcomer.3. Learn to ask for help.4. Never give up.5. Believe in yourself.Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您分享中庸之道这个话题。每个人的生命都是起起落落，没有永远的失败或成功，但失败时不灰心，成功时不自大，一切都是在我们的自己如何看待，当我们保持中立住我们的思维，我们的路可以走的更轻盈，我们的视野会更宽阔，你可以对人生，对生命有的通透。 我们就会像一只盘旋在天空中的老鹰，在上空盘旋的时候，把一切看得清清楚楚，如果我们把自己处在有限的方格里，我们就会生出越来越多的我执，一切就好像一个天枰，如果一边的沉下， 就是我们的偏离的状态, 当我们还正在寻找自己的时候，我们就是不断的吸取，不断的累积，但是当我们成为自己的时候，我们就是要放下所有的一切，回到简简单单，单纯的自己，这就是我们要学到的中庸之道。 我们的人生都会来到一个又一个的转变层次，这个转变可以是对生命的另一个开始，可以对社会的一种贡献，我个人很喜欢这句话：取之于社会，用之以社会，但你已经来到做自己一个阶段，是开始放下的时候，不要紧紧的捉着你的成就而逐渐的起了傲慢心，这是每个人都必经之路，这个看似很无常，但是转变可以掌握在自己手中。 我和孩子的关系数是2，我们的相处模式就是好像之前我提过的，我们可以吵架后过不久可以在一起看视频，在和孩子相处的时候，我常常会让孩子表达他的意见，我也时常的向他提问和分享，虽然我还是一个在学习的母亲，但是我一直保持着我的学习态度，我相信这样的教育是有增值的。 当我们学习一个技术或工具的时候，我们是可以拿来输出的，如果没有这样你就不知道自己哪里学不好，学不够，又或者学误了，学习开始只是在头脑层次，需要这样的练习法才会知道学到如何，学后无法输出这也是我们很多人的阻挡前进的一个原因。 如果我们的学习让自己增长五毒心：贪、嗔、痴、慢、疑，那么我们的学习就应该重新的检讨，又或者，我们越学习越每一天都过得很不舒服，跟家人，跟身边的人越来越看不顺眼，这样的学习是有问题的，因为，我们的学习能让自己遇到困难也还是能临危不乱的应付，也能在别人和自己反方向时还能理出一个中立的状态，那么这就是学习的真正目的。 我们的学习很明显的目的就是为了更好的和他人相处，知道各自的卡点和课题，这样的反推的去和自己的家人，其他的人共处，你将会了解到这个世界就是你内在的世界，而去所有的问题都不是问题，你可以有一套你的解决方案。 每一天，我们的心情都会是不一样的，比如说今天我打算要好好的练瑜伽，可是因为发生了某件事，我又把它搁置了，我们通常一天可以计划了好多的事情，有可能为一个想法又改变了，但是我们深信这是一个小小的放松，并没有伤大雅，唯一会阻止我们的就是我们的信念，如果我们因为一天的放松而否定掉我们自己，那么我们的坚持也会同样的容易被打碎。 有时候我们也是必须孤独的，所谓独处能生智慧，当我们静下来的时候，我们的内在的就会有很多比较纯粹的想法，当我们独处我们那个直接面对自己的任何状态，都是能让自己好好的和自己和解，而不是单单从头脑为了保护你的安全而有的想法，这是一个真正面对自己的最佳时机，我们一定要有独处的时候。 锁定我们自己的目标，就算是转换目标，这两个的转换之间的关系是什么，如果自己内心没有什么恐惧，那就表示并没有什么大碍，也许只是自己交准频率而已，但是如果自己觉得很不舒服，那么独处后的想法就是一个必要的动作了。 我们在一个环境太久了，就会把自己投入进去，这也是我们常说的入戏太深，做为领导，我也因为太过的投入而忘了我只是在扮演一个角色，我曾经分享过我的职员不是因为敬重我，而是敬畏我，敬畏里面是有一个害怕的能量，后来，我开始的察觉这样的不同，开始的把我自己转变，这样我的频率就变得不一样，现在和他们相处起来我自己也觉得舒服。 当我们在扮演的角色里有着很大的宽容，自然而然的很多事情都是顺心顺意，心里老是不相信别人也就更多的磨难，随着我们的年龄越来越大，我们的体验和经验也越来越多，这也是我们会让我们远离初心的一个关键的，我们会滋养着我执，会有一种以为很了不起，其实我们的了不起，只是我们主观的感受，只要一天我们没看清楚这个世界是一个幻象，我们就会困在里面。 可以如何的教导我们的接班人，让年轻一代发挥他们的优点，这还是要有一些计划的，当我在是领导的时候，我就要开始的规划，察觉他们的长处和适合的部门，让他们开始的在自己的单位发挥他们的优点，而我也可以开始我的另一层次的人生。 我们这一生带不走任何东西，所以活着就是要好好的面对，好好的对待身边的人，如果你无法如此，那么你就是需要疗愈，疗愈的过程是能让你回归自己，善待自己和他人才是你的最终目标，这是一个让自己从戏内走出戏外的历程，你会前所未有的清晰和喜悦。 古人有说，一代教育一代，我们要做的是把自己了解透后再去好好的引导别人，把自己看清楚，是我们此生的目的，有一句谚语说：上梁不正下梁歪，它的来源是这样的：古时人们的房屋都是木材的，一旦上梁安放不正，就会影响整个房屋结构，下梁自然也不正了，所以你看这是何等重要，而去是不变的定律。 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您继续分享二元对立这个话题。  我们生活里的二元是让我们去体验，让我们想想，如果我们没有感受过痛苦，怎能会知道痛苦不好受，而想要去追求痛苦的对面立面去快乐，痛苦都是来自我们的对立，一但我们可以看到二元的本质，我们便知道只是角度的不一样，而当大家都以自己最佳利益的角度去看，那么痛苦里其实有着转变快乐的本质，如果我们在提升去更高的意识的时候，这些都是可以被看到而去转化的。  首先，我们不要抗拒二元里的对立，二元会一直存在，它不会消失，一直到你可以接受所有的发生，这样就能超越它而从另一个角度去知道其实这些我们所谓的对与错并不存在，那是一个非常全面的角度，但我们不在那个角度，我们还是要保持着那个谦卑的心去学习而获知的，智慧者说：一切真理为半正确的真理，所有的矛盾观点，都可以被调整和化解。  我对，你错是一个在自己感受里的幻象，这是我们的心智，或者说是我们的思维的主观我，小我也是为了你的安全考虑，而让我们认为我有必要这样的保护自己，很无奈，这就是我们的看不清晰的部分，而大家一而再，再而三的伤害彼此。  孩子们就是自然而然的在二元里去学习成长的，很多的事情都是冲着对错，好坏等为标准，包括我的孩子还没完全的理解在他学习里的二元体验，毕竟我们还是受集体潜意识的影响，这就是我们出生在这个地球的缘故，当我们再次回到就是要再一次的学习。  孩子的一位较好同学，**他是天生高敏感, 情绪体，在念小学时常常会被老师安排需要被辅导, 老师也告诉班上孩子们，有必要让着他，有一次，我去接孩子放学，遇见他的妈妈，我们就聊了一会儿，他告诉我说，孩子目前在看医生和吃药，因为不知如何处理这样孩子的事情，自己也是孩子的母亲，也许这也对那个孩子最好的安排，哪一刻，也不禁的为自己一直以来因为听孩子说而有的担心有了另外的一个见解。  前几年这孩子也常常来我家找孩子聊天，我也发现他在音乐方面很有天分，如今孩子已经升上中三了，我家孩子有时也提起他，感觉情况是越来越好，学习方面也有出色的表现，因为这件事情，也让我在看待自己的孩子上，不要因为别人如何的认为我们的孩子而让自己变成另一种妈妈 ，我做我可以做的，给于孩子平静的陪伴，其他的就让老天爷安排。  我们都是很主观的在我们的感受里，一切我认为的对，在别人的角度不一定也是如此，这倒是要看看当时我们各自是在哪一个立场，所以我们有必要的活在当下，就是要跳出过去的框架和对未来无知的莫名的担心，这样反而才不会让事情更加的不明朗化。  我是个完美主义的人，任何不是我们所期待的导致我的失落也是我痛苦的开始，就好像我在信念系统分享里提到我以前的不自信，而让自己常常处在对错的状态里来平衡自己，经过不断的打磨，我才慢慢的从自己的自信里去了解其实我们不需要完美。  刚开始每当我在面子书分享的时候， 我时常会纠结，我说的对不对，有没有词不达意，后来，这个关键词：【管别人什么事】，改变了我这样的不自信，虽然这个词在世俗的观点来看可能有一些不恰当，然而，我这样的想法还是回到二元对立，我终于再度明白我又在自己主观的感受里去分析这件事情。  经过这样我才越来越明白为何我们的世界这么纷乱，是因为我们的二元对立过度的强化了，我认为我的是正确的，你也认为你的是正确的，但是，到底那个是我的最佳利益，只要自己知道，别人的意见只是个参考而已。  任何一件事情，没有相同见解，我们常常就是要迎合别人而让自己活得太纠结，太委屈，也让我们的身体承受了不少的疾病，这是值得让我们去研究的课题，我跟随内心的指引而去做，每天把自己静下来，这样才能很好的看见自己在二元里卡点，而拥有适当的处理方式。  我在读一本关于六祖的故事，六祖在还没正式的开始转授佛法的时候，曾经和一群猎人在一起，他们吃的都是荤食，然而六祖，他就只是吃窝边菜，虽然如此，六祖并没有因为这样而把自己否定了，而且，再经过15年的修行，他最后成为第6代佛法的传承人。  我们也会时常的因为自己的所谓的过错而把自己捆绑，潜意识里不想原谅那样的自己，有时候甚至是无意识的， 关于茹素这方面的纠结，有时我想茹素，有时我又想吃荤食，一直到后来听了一个老师的经历，我才开始的意识到，其实茹素最重要的是我们自己本身的心态是如何，如果我们因为恐惧所谓的报应而去茹素，那么我们内在也是有极大的恐惧能量，这样反而的会让自己更加的处在对抗之中，身体也会因为这样的出现疾病，因为我们身体的细胞完全被恐惧给同化。   现在想吃什么就是会去吃，并没有什么纠结，而是主要的是我们不要过度的暴饮暴食，放肆的享受，这才是比较诚恳的态度，还是回到我们的行为举止，我们可以感恩的心，因为他们的牺牲而滋养我们的这具肉身，让我们有力气的在社会里可以做一份贡献。  只要活在这个世界，二元永远在你身边的每一处，都是无所不在，你要如何的在这个二元里保有一份觉知，而不再让你受到伤害，不再有损你的情感，健康和财富，才是上上之策，而在我们的余生，活出自己初心想要的样子才是重点。  您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

I have a free gift for you, Money Blueprint for Women Leaders. It is downloadable at www.janetaisyahquek.com/money.Hi, It's Janet Aisyah and in this bonus episode I would like to share with you my success in launching the Podcast SEASON 2. Launching the PODCAST SEASON 2 impacted my life instantly in 2020. I truly agree that a podcast is not only about building online presence, but most importantly online credibility and recognition by showing up consistently.  1) Headhunted more than 10 times directly from companies and recruiters in 3 months from Asia Pacific, US and Europe even in this covid 19 situation. 2) I realized that my message impacted more people than I ever thought it could now with listeners and followers in 9 countries in 3 months.After awarded Platinum Instant Podcast Leader, I have garnered more than 100 likes on social media and some friends commented that now I am a Queen and drew attention to new connections who are keen to know what I am doing and how podcast can help them. 3) My husband has also showed more support by helping with the tech stuff whenever I need to prepare for my podcast recording and ensuring children are cooperative. My children now are used to me doing my work as podcast host though knowing that I have left my job. Initially, my youngest son told me that podcast is not working but I explained how this is going to help me in seeing as a leader online and eventually I have C-suite who connected with me after 3 years signed up a clarity call. A friend signed up Instant Leader Podcast after my recommendation. 4) I was given opportunity to share on NAC virtual Global platform with my mentor Genecia and podcast coach Joanne Lee. I have done more than 14 FB live with them in 1 2 months. This was not possible if I had not started my IPL show. 5) It has helped me to set a routine though I am not working for 9 months. I get to complete my 2 years of Podcast content in 3 months. 6) As I keep the momentum to complete the Season 2, I am able to think on the spot a topic and free flow the content to share. This is possible with the proven structure, process and system in place. 1. 10 objections:  a) When I got to start the podcast SEASON 2, I was not sure if this is something I want to continue or just wait to see what results I have before embarking. Since I am taking career break so I decided to prepare myself by continuing before I get busy once I start my new job or my business which is working in progress. I realized that time flies so fast and now it has been 9 months since I quit my last job. So I decided to use this time to continue SEASON 2 so I will have 2 years of content. b) By now I have already taken a career break almost 9 months and I saw my SEASON 1 has helped me to get leads, enquiries and my first 2 C-suite clients. I do not have any income since August 2019 as I left my corporate job to care for my late mum before she passed on late Nov 2019. I would be spending on my savings which meant that I have to cut down on other expenses so to invest in myself , I then thought that I really want to achieve my dream of being an entrepreneur and I got to invest in myself. So it was a money issue. But when I realized that I can actually earn more the moment I have built my reputation online. By showing up and having my voice heard, people will come to know who I am and what I stand for, and people will support me just like headhunters have approached me instead of me going to them. More people will come get to know me and my brand and once I build my online businessc) At first my husband was worried that I am not earning yet I continue to spend for SEASON 2 before I can see income coming in but I told him this is part of my own branding and for future online business that I am going to embark on. Since I am available now, it will be best time to do otherwise there is never a good time. Best is because I have the choice to do it and with my husband support, I can have a breakthrough and it also influenced him to see things differently about the power of online presence after I completed SEASON 2 episodes in 48 hours especially during lockdown period during Covid 19. He saw I have became more confident eventhough I am not working but I have discipline to get my recording done despite I could just sit on it and delay since I have time. d) I don't know how I can continue recording when there is circuit breaker in Singapore as I no longer able to do at the head office. Genecia and Joanne explained to me that they will support and guide me to do it online, I just need to follow what they need me to do. Having the whole Soul Rich Woman team put me at ease knowing that I just to have to focus on my script and they do the rest. I just need to share my posting and recording on weekly basis without worry about the technical part that I am more at ease. e) As I am not sure if I have enough topics to share in season 2, my mentor Genecia spent time with me to draw out and guided me to position myself in the topics I could share. That gave me ideas and topics I could share. As I was also building my business as Podcast Coach and given opportunities to do FB live and conduct virtual events, I have topics to share more on my experience and learnings. f) Another issue I had was time, though I am not working at the moment but I have to juggle between attending to children, new business opportunity and going for job interviews during the period I have commit to complete 55 episodes. My helper has returned home due to emergency family matter to attend to. But because I believed in the importance of doing the podcast and in the urgency of doing it now rather than later, I was able to make arrangements, do when having the momentum so that things could be done earlier. It is a relieve for me that I have content ready and I can focus on building my business and attending to leads and enquiries. g) On top of all those issues, I had fears on the outcome if I will be repeating myself in some of the topics. Will listeners get bored on what I shared. How will people react? But because it has been my dream to reach out to my 1st 10 000 audience in 3 years so I need to continue to build my content and so keep me going. I also understand that as I have more episodes, my voice is easily searchable on internet. Podcast is a marketing vehicle that can be used again and again for life. h) I was also feeling anxious about what I am going to share if listeners will connect with me despite I have launched SEASON 2. I still went ahead as I realized I have so much content to offer and empower women who can achieve success like myself. Understanding that my intention is to share and inspire and not to criticize or destroy other people's lives, gave me the courage to continue despite the hardwork and continue SEASON 2.i) Recording the episodes also requires a lot of time and effort especially is in Ramandan when I cannot eat and drink from sunrise to sunset. I got tired at times when there are distractions that I had to record again due to environmental noises not within my control. . I spent less time with my children and on my own to do list. And there were a few tasks I had to set aside just to give priority to my podcast recording. But I now see this to be my big lesson in life. If you want to succeed in anything, you have to stay focus, remind yourself why you first started, make it happen and you have to set it as your number one priority. I have been getting attention of some responses that they see me as expert in podcast leader online and refer someone to me. j) Having launched SEASON 2, I am also anxious about what will happen next? Some how I am looking forward to SEASON 3 with new level of perspectives and new learnings. Then by going back to understanding my intentions and remind myself why I started that this will be about doing something positive for me and for others, and by knowing that I have a strong team of soul rich woman to support me, my worries are tamed and controlled. So, having your family and friends to support you in what you are doing, and giving you the understanding of the journey you wish to embark on is already a great encouragement, not to mention that having the soul rich woman team is your rocket launcher! Knowing that you have people behind you who will look after your best interest and following up on you so that you don't fall to you're the little voices inside your head is a great support. Therefore I believe that no matter how good you think you are you need a team who can support and guide you, but most importantly people who know what they are doing. The soul rich woman team makes you feel you are family and that they've got your back every step of the way. Conclusion:Having launched my podcast show SEASON 2 in 48 hours, it boosted my confidence to a higher level and achieve so many great results in 3 months. I feel that I have grown to next level and continue to hone my skills and learning to bring my business online. I feel that I am also blessed to have crossed paths with Soul Rich Woman team who could help me make it possible. When we raise our voices together, the words woman power becomes more than just a phrase. It becomes a movement.Know that your dreams are valid and on your path, you're never denied and only be directed. Let your voice be heard. Its time!If you are C-suites, Senior Leader and Woman Leader who wants to be like me to have your voice heard and shine, I will like to invite you to schedule a call with me at www.janetaisyahquek.com/coaching.Linkedin:www.linkedin.com/in/janetquekFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/janetaisyahquekMoney Blueprint for Women Leaders linkhttps://janetqcc.clickfunnels.com/financialblueprinthttp://www.janetaisyahquek.com/money21 Ways to be Headhuntedhttp://www.janetaisyahquek.com/headhuntedPodcast Coaching for C-suiteshttps://shor.by/leaderonline

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您分享二元对立这个话题。 我们生活里的二元是让我们去体验，让我们想想，如果我们没有感受过痛苦，怎能会知道痛苦不好受，而想要去追求痛苦的对面立面去快乐，痛苦都是来自我们的对立，一但我们可以看到二元的本质，我们便知道只是角度的不一样，而当大家都以自己最佳利益的角度去看，那么痛苦里其实有着转变快乐的本质，如果我们在提升去更高的意识的时候，这些都是可以被看到而去转化的。  首先，我们不要抗拒二元里的对立，二元会一直存在，它不会消失，一直到你可以接受所有的发生，这样就能超越它而从另一个角度去知道其实这些我们所谓的对与错并不存在，那是一个非常全面的角度，但我们不在那个角度，我们还是要保持着那个谦卑的心去学习而获知的，智慧者说：一切真理为半正确的真理，所有的矛盾观点，都可以被调整和化解。  我对，你错是一个在自己感受里的幻象，这是我们的心智，或者说是我们的思维的主观我，小我也是为了你的安全考虑，而让我们认为我有必要这样的保护自己，很无奈，这就是我们的看不清晰的部分，而大家一而再，再而三的伤害彼此。  第一次上身心灵课程的时候，当老师告诉我们这世上没有所谓的对错好坏，这的确让我惊讶不已，从小到大，从来没人告诉过自己，我们真的可以活在这个世界里没有对错好坏，可是当时的我就是对于对就是对，错就是错非常强烈的人，对任何的事情都得交待的清清楚楚，要不然就会以对错去批评。  这也就是为什么我常常会看到同事之间，有时，我会觉得这个同事也没错，那个同事也没错，结果，因为我不懂得处理而让自己也陷入生气之中，毕竟，同意这个同事后就是意味着另一个同事是错的，心里的感觉就是很不舒服，然而，当我是领导时，还真的可以看清但没法理清，所以也让我很懊恼，但我一开始上身心灵课程的时候，我就懂得是怎么一回事，这还真的让我犹如沐浴春风那样的舒服。  没有人想被批评，当我们有不肯定别人，也就是我们的一个卡点需要去解锁，也许曾经在我们小的时候，有被否定过一次，这样就把内在小孩定格了，每次一发生状况，我们的这个内在小孩的伤就跳出来以过去的经验来，而让头脑会来保护我们，也因过度的保护不愿去面对，让我们的这个内在小孩也不愿意的去面对和长大了。  人与人的差异，一定存在，我们是无法让所有的人都思维想法一致，但是我们可以在異中求同，同中存異，这样的去肯定彼此，让彼此互相的支持，这是唯一的解决方案，你一定见过，当我们看着夜空的烟花，都是各式各样的颜色，才能把月空绽放的如此美丽，就要看我们如何转念了。  我曾经一度的非常不喜欢自己，尤其是在身为领导，每当我责骂了职员后，我自己心里又很懊恼，就这样的每次在矛盾的过日子，自己和自己纠结，也还从不放过自己， 真的是很痛苦和累的，回到家里也扮演一个没有力量的妈妈，为了自己的平衡，所有起心动念都是负面的，也觉得自己很差劲的同时也有很多的怨妇情节，这样的日子真的就是一场自己自导自演的噩梦。  每天的循环又循环，自己真的不知道自己在做什么，我有一次我很苦恼的告诉我的老师，我要寻找一个系统可以好好的管理公司，而我不需要用责骂的方法，我的老师只对我说，其实那就是我不信任自己的同时我也不信任职员的原因，也就是我种了这样的一颗种子让它长出了这样的烦恼，忽然间，我好像觉得我懂了，于是我开始学习抛开二元对立的信念。  我们学习穿越二元，整合我们内在的什么是对错好坏，因为每个当下对于我们都是最好的安排，学习臣服和交托，这样你就会活得比较自由自在， 因为我们越对抗，我们就越无能为力，接纳这样的自己后，我们就可以从这里开始，然后欣赏这样勇敢的自己。  经过这样的在公司里的实验和实践，我的确的看见我老师讲的一样，再一次的让我领悟万物唯心造的法则，就是这样的说如此清楚，只是如果我们没有自己去进行，永远只是在大脑层次，好像我们常常说，道理人人懂，但是事情发生时却无法应用上。  当你在最困难的时候，如果你还能以正面的心态去面对，那么你的日子也即将反弹为容易的，在我当领导时遇到的瓶颈时期，我一开始就是逃避，把全部的力量放在外面，希望可以轻而易举度过，当然，这也就越来越糟糕，因为我还是处在对立的频率。  当我和同事在进行一个产品标准时的讨论，我看见同事担心自己不够资格去开创在这一方面的专业，于是我们便开始了一些交流，同事本身也是很清楚自己的卡点，也就是卡在他的过往经历里的那个定点，认为自己不行，因为没有很好的底，这样的在自己的主观感受里打转着，在我们的交谈，我设定了一个意图，让她可以敞开心后放下担心和恐惧。  我们常常都很清楚自己的卡的在那里，重点是我们不知道的如何去解锁，这可以说容易也不容易的事情，就在那一个螺旋的状态下，一下子上升，一下子下降，如果没有很好的有着内在的如如不动，还真的会让自己越来越迷惘和负面等二元想法。   其实人与人之间，只需要一个互相的支持，而不要以二元的角度去相处，这样的一来一回沟通，彼此间的感受到的温暖却是非笔墨所能形容的，我此刻真正的感受到这样的喜悦和有温度，对我们来说，这种眼睛看不见的正面能量转递，是这样的起了很好的正能量感受。  相信自己，相信别人，给我带来的含义是有着平等的感觉，这里没有对立的，而对立是你错，我对，就好像一个天秤,它已经是向一边倾斜了，一但没有了平衡，你就会阴阳不协调，你就是不快乐，这就是为何我们常常不快乐可是又不知道为什么。  您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

The Encouragement Engineering podcast offers listeners the ability to combat the negativity that inundates our daily lives with a positive perspective and positive actions. Our guest today is Genecia Alluora. Genecia is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019. She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. Genecia is a podcast host and producer since 2019 for her 3 podcasts "For Women Who Love The F Word" with listeners in 131 countries; a daily 10 minutes marketing podcasts "Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" & Secrets To Go From Stuck To Unstoppable Without Changing Who You Are Even if No One Believes In You Or Stand By. She has been profiled in CNBC, Forbes and China Daily, Genecia is a thought leader and leading women's empowerment expert. She is regularly invited to speak on TV and Radio as well as conferences. She has shared the stage with great minds like Gary Vaynerchuk, Mary Buffett, Kim Kiyosaki and Neil Patel. Listen as we discuss: Transformation Freedom Positive Mindset Daily Routines Website: http://soulrichwoman.com Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/soulrichwoman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/soulrichwoman/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/GeneciaAlluora Be sure to follow The Encouragement Engineering podcast at https://encouragementengineer.com or https://bobbrummspeaks.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Violet Flame Meditation (Morning) That I Personally Use And Found It Beneficial. Enjoy!

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您继续分享能量振动这个话题。 任何的的东西都有各自的振动，也就是说所有的一切都是在振动，虽然在表面上看的时候却没有在动，我在一篇文章里读到一个很实际的例子，日常生活中，你可以看看你家的电风扇，当扇叶转的特别快的时候，你是不是可以看穿后面景象，但是如果扇叶一旦停止，后面的景象就被阻挡了，这就是振动频率的快慢不同而呈现出来我们的看得见或看不见。 能量是一直在变，如果我们不明白这里能量振动的原因，这就是为何我们时常会惊讶，为何一个人可以变得如此的彻底，还有我们听过的很多很多的故事，曾经小时候学习不怎么样的，长大后却可以是有很好发展，曾经是坏到极点的人，后来变成一个慈善家的等等故事，这样的能量改变，也就是我们常说的无常。 如果你喜欢的观察着别人，你是否曾经注意过你周围的人事物，但是大多数我们是看他们穿什么衣服，带什么包包，戴什么珠宝等等，然而，其实这是可以更加的深入，还是可以看到比较本质的层面，尤其我们说相由心生，也就是说一个人的面孔就可以看到他的心理层面，一般人都有这个能力，当然深一层这个是要学和练习的，但是也有人与生俱来就有这个能量天赋，他们能看见匹配他当下的状态物体的能量。 我的孩子是上早课的，有过一段日子我的的内心是非常害怕他上课迟到，于是就会发生不愉快的事情，比如，孩子就会无端端的发脾气，或者，就会有莫名不顺心的事情发生，结果我们也是会向对方发脾气而因此大家就会不开心的去上班或上课。  后来，每次当孩子在准备的时候，我开始的有意识的会选择磨我的水晶钵，同时我也在我的意念里放了我的意图，就是我不聚焦在上课迟到的这个点上，当我开始这样的转换时，我的能量振动开始的改变，事情变得顺利的， 孩子的能量也被水晶钵的平静加持和我的松开，而被影响也慢慢的也跟上脚步，这样的结果也就让准时到学校的事情接近百分之99，这也让我一家人的感情有所改变。 有形的世界都是源自无形的世界， 这样的有到无之间，都是我们的创造，我们要什么，我们必须去有一个定位，就好像GPS，你一定会有一个地方你想去，你才可以去把他设定，然后再行驶到达目的地，所以我要什么是很重要的，一但找到了，就聚焦这件事，享受这个历程，当你欢欢喜喜的到达，目的他只是顺带显化给到你。 有一次会议过后，我的同事对我说，他看到我的改变，以前的那个我已经的没有再看到了，这让我深深的感动，我这样的一步一步的变成我想成为的人，我们渴望同事对我们好，我们就去创造对同事好，同时不要带着期望的等回报，我们一定会有收获的。 一开始的管理就是单向的沟通，结果大家都是表里不一的情形，当然也是发生很多的事情，也让自己开始的怀疑自己的能力，但是，我却是往外的去质疑和攻击遇到的对象，久而久之，我也完全看不到一个有核心价值观的公司，每个职员们没有一条心的往前走，于是，我也开始好奇那些成功的国际企业，他们是如何的做到。 我以为我做个严厉的领导，我就可以管好公司，但是证明事情并不是如此的，如果说是生产部，那就另当别论，每家公司里的成员都是一份子，一定是需要他们的贡献，公司才能变得更完整，领导固然重要，但是还是以大方向为前提，细节的部分就是靠职员们的努力灌溉和加持。 每个公司职员都是一个很重要的力量，因为我们永远不知道，压倒骆驼的可能就是最后那一根稻草，如果你还是觉得你是领导而没有让你有了那双内在的智慧眼，那么能量振动是一个非常有效的法则，毕竟人无千日好，花无百日红，这是一个很重要的合作关系。  进几年来，我对声音非常的喜爱，常常都会听各式各样的音乐，尤其是疗愈的音乐，时常都会做一些收藏，对我来说这些都是每天必定聆听的，也包括有力量的音乐和一些大自然的音乐，有一些歌声就好像是可以穿透人心，的确很共振我。  其实这些声音都是有疗愈作用，也就是说有一些演唱者的声音在透过音高镜里都会出现一副很漂亮且平衡的振动图样，形成曼陀罗画像，曼陀罗是一个非常纯粹的意识，所以当我们听着这些音乐时，尤其因为大家的集体意识的共振，所以都是会有比较深层的清理。 当我知道这些原理后，我对音乐的选择也会变得比较在意，比如说如果我的心情莫名的比较不稳定的时候，我就会有意识的选择比较疗愈的海豚声的等等，大致上，我也不会再听比较吵闹的歌曲，因为在能量振动的利益来说是会让我更加的不稳定，这些的影响力也是看不着，摸不着，但是是实实在在的影响着。 钢琴是一个我个人非常喜欢的乐器，一直到我开始行动学习，从这里我去学习如何认识音符，虽然是在萌芽的阶段，但是，也让我感觉到非常不一样，也让我渐渐的进入这样的音乐世界，除此之外，我也开始学习用水晶钵创造自己的疗愈音乐，我这样的改变我的整体的能量振动频率，的确的让我觉得现在我的人生真的可以不一样，但我深入的做这些事情，这里面是喜悦和丰盛的。 通过能量振动来改变我们的生活，可以提升到更加美好的层次, 当你处在非常不好的情绪，你是想要更好的能量来把你从这样的状态提升到好情绪，而不是继续的往下掉，我们常常处在自己的感受和感觉里无法出来，现在知道了，就开始去行动和创造吧，你会有你不一样的发现，永远记得，你就是你自己的独一无二的你。 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

Violet Flame Meditation (Evening) That I Personally Use And Found It Beneficial. Enjoy!

嗨，我是Deon, 欢迎您收听我的节目回归自己，在这一集中我将会聊到：自然法则，今天要和您分享能量振动这个话题。任何的东西都有各自的振动，也就是说所有的一切都是在振动，虽然在表面上看的时候却没有在动，我在一篇文章里读到一个很实际的例子，日常生活中，你可以看看你家的电风扇，当扇叶转的特别快的时候，你是不是可以看穿后面景象，但是如果扇叶一旦停止，后面的景象就被阻挡了，这就是振动频率的快慢不同而呈现出来我们的看得见或看不见。 能量是一直在变，如果我们不明白这里能量振动的原因，这就是为何我们时常会惊讶，为何一个人可以变得如此的彻底，还有我们听过的很多很多的故事，曾经小时候学习不怎么样的，长大后却可以是有很好发展，曾经是坏到极点的人，后来变成一个慈善家的等等故事，这样的能量改变，也就是我们常说的无常。 如果你喜欢的观察着别人，你是否曾经注意过你周围的人事物，但是大多数我们是看他们穿什么衣服，带什么包包，戴什么珠宝等等，然而，其实这是可以更加的深入，还是可以看到比较本质的层面，尤其我们说相由心生，也就是说一个人的面孔就可以看到他的心理层面，一般人都有这个能力，当然深一层这个是要学和练习的，但是也有人与生俱来就有这个能量天赋，他们能看见匹配他当下的状态物体的能量。 我们这一生和什么人在一起，其实简单的说法那是因为我们所缺的而需要去过的课题，夫妻彼此在一起也是，都是要让我们遇见更好的自己， 尤其是当我们嫁或娶给什么样的人，你可以从他的身上看到自己想要或缺点，只是常常却因为不自己不够清醒而会和他产生矛盾。 一般夫妻之间的结合，本是趋向着一个阴阳的合一，也因为内在小孩的伤还没有完全的疗愈，随之，我们就会看到所谓对方的缺点，然而，就像在相同起源里分享的其下如其上，其上如其下，当下因为同频共振而一起共同生活，但是随着同住一处，而发生的种种，在表面上，我们不会承认这个伤，除非这个内在小孩的伤有得到认同和谅解而成长，要不然，我们一定会不停的攻击别人，所谓的在自己眼里的那些问题。 以前我常常觉得我先生是个很科学的人，后来在我的疗愈里，我发现原来我是那个喜欢探索，什么事情都需要有证有据的，我才忽然察觉原来自己也有这样的样子，就好像看镜子一般，我看见我先生的有的，其实也就是我有的，只是当下的我们有没有看到，如果我们有够清晰，根本不用猜疑，你其实就是看到你自己，所以你看别人的时候，也是可以让你了解自己的时候。 我们有多不了解自己，就会多不了解外在的发生，而只是一味的责怪外面的发生，当你了解自己的时候，你会知道应该如何的调整和应付这样的发生，因为你会知道所有的发生是让你如何的去修自己来遇见自己。 在工作上，如果你常常觉得为何总是遇人不淑， 那么你大概可以从两个方面看，第一个是你的思维是怎么样的，是不是常常以怀疑的态度对待你遇到的人，不信任别人做的事或过度的为别人好而在自己的良好感受里，同质相吸，所以最后你还是会碰见而一直在这样的循环里。 我看过一个纪录片讲述我们外在的世界其实就是我们头脑里反应出来的我们的世界，也就是说在我们的眼睛看到的都是我们的创造的画面，外在的都是我们的能量振动而显化，也就是说，如果你能回归中心，你和你自己相合，你就可以创造外在的一切是你要的，然而，这是最难的一环，因为我们的小我还是存在的，但是我们可以利用心和脑的链接练习决这一环。 我们的思维也是一种能量振动，思维背后的感受，情绪和反应都是和你的环境共振的，我们的头脑是我们的安全机制，所以我们时时刻刻都会回顾过去和担心未来，这就是我们要跳出来的点。 我们可以从有一个实验里看到，一整组的节拍器在不规矩的状态下向左右摇摆，最后他们都会回到一致共振的状态，我们从这里可以看到能量的转递而导致最后他们同频共振，这是一个很好的简单示范而可以让我们明白，就是和谁在一起我们就会变成什么样的异曲同工之妙。 （注：大家可以再Youtube 搜寻【节拍器同频共振】就可以看到视频）。我们想要如何的过生活，无可否认这是我们的自由意志，但是不要忘了，选择在于我们，我们也就负责我们环境的能量频率，如果我们能通过更好的方法来提升我们的环境能量频率，那么我们也就可以改变我们的未来，我曾经分享过孟母三迁的故事，孟母的思维模式是一个很经典的例子，我们每个人都听过这个故事，但是，你是否想过深一层里有着这样的原理。 当我们还是不够认识这些自然的发生时，我们会认为别人为何的莫名其妙，我们大家都是能量振动的，所以当你明白了这一点，你会比较的释怀为何这样，为何那样，同频一定共振，我们也可以看看身边的朋友来了解自己，不要说你和他不不一样而否定掉，先看看你们的嗜好就可以心知肚明的。 当你想要某些状态，你就可以创造，如果你抗拒某样东西，就表示你和那样东西能量不匹配，所以我们不要嫌弃自己现在的样子，我们的行动力永远可以改变所有的一切，在加上通过一些疗愈工具把自己的意识提升，这是一定可以办到的。 您可以通过我的社交媒体平台与我联系，我的链接将会显示在我的播客平台Shownote中。今天的分享就到这里，下一期我将会继续和你们分享自然法则的历程，期待下次和你们再度空中见面。Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/leeyongtehInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/d_t_l_y/Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/deon-teh-leeyong-573a0766/

 Episode129: Money And MeHello, gorgeous. Welcome to this episode. Now, this was a presentation that I did and I shared about money and me, money and you and I would like you to transform your business and your life with these few concepts that I'm about to share in the presentation.Value your time, you value yourself. (03:50-04:18) How much is your time worth per hour? How much is your time worth per hour? Now, that's very important, because if you view the value of money, sometimes it's tight to your time, how you value your time and what you're doing every single 24 hours a day. So the way you spend your time is the way you value yourself. And it's the way that you can grow your abundance and manifest more money or abundance into your life.What is Soul Rich Woman's vision?(08:26-09:21) Life was more than just making money. Life was more than just whatever that I'm doing right now because I have no business background and I moved into building a legacy business that I call Soul Rich Woman. So this Soul Rich Woman, let me just share with you why I call it Soul Rich Woman. I believe that women or people and generally for myself, I feel that women should have the soul. They have a soul, once you have the soul, you have a soul, you can develop abundance in any way you want. So with the soul, that's how you develop and you evolve as a person and bear for the fruits of whatever they are doing. And that is the definition of Soul Rich Woman. And it ties in with the F word, fabulous, freedom, financial independence and happy family. And that defines not a person but how you value, at which point in your life.Beliefs that help Genecia break through hardships in life.  1. You deserve to be rich when you give value to others.(10:21- 10:41) You deserve to be rich because you provide value to other people's lives. So that is the first belief that transform my life because I also wanted to do free. I want to help those people who are poor, but I must make myself rich first. I must make myself successful first before I could give more to other people.2. Be an excellent receiver. (11:27-11:54) So as I'm giving, I must learn to receive. So when people ask me, oh, can I help you with your business? Can I get you or can I help you with this project? I say no, I can do it myself because I grew up at 14 years old fighting for my rice bowl. So I'm very independent. So I opened my heart to learn to receive, to be an excellent receiver. That's how the abundance walks through the doors.3. Be grateful for everything you received.(12:00-12:27) Become more and more grateful for every single penny and every single cent that comes in and goes out by having a gratitude mindset and saying thank you for every single sentence and writing down to the $0.05. I learned that by saying that appreciating every single cent gave me a lot more, 100 times more by being grateful for every single one that I have. 4. Practice this powerful mantra.(13:02-14:24) All you need to do is just raise your right hand and put your right hand onto your heart. And then in three, two, one, let's speak this together. Three, two, “I love myself and I set myself free. This is my time, I'm ready for the next step.” Now pause and breathe in and breathe out. Notice how you feel at this current moment. Be at peace and notice the feeling about taking the next step and relaxing. So that is my journey about money and with money. And notice how we've transitioned and being at peace and aligned with our heart. That's when the soul is truly happy.Key Takeaways:1. Give value to others2. Do something you love.3. Be an Excellent Receiver. 4. There is hope and light at the end of the tunnel.5. Invest in Self-Healing and Personal Development.Key Resources:Subscribe to Genecia's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWomanVisit SRW's website: https://www.soulrichwoman.comFollow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/Check Genecia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.comSecrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

In this episode of IDEAS+LEADERS podcast am speaking with Genecia Alluora on female entrepreneurship in the digital era. What are the barriers? How to overcome them? How to build a personal brand and set up a successful business? We are answering these questions in this episode. Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019. She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and SRW academy, she mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. Her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word. You can connect with Genecia HERE. Thank you for joining me on this episode of IDEAS+LEADERS. If you enjoyed this episode, please share, subscribe and review so that more people can enjoy the podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/pl/podcast/ideas-leaders/id1531433083

It's easy to confuse the way to wealth and well-being as more ‘doing' and ‘action' alone, when actually, it's when we're able to do the inner soul work that everything else falls into place.That doesn't mean all you have to do is close your eyes and think about riches for it to land your lap. What it means is to find the balance between achievement externally that's aligned to achievement internally in your soul.My guest this week is Genecia Alluora, former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner, Business Coach and Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia.Genecia talks about how she's overcome being bullied and mocked in school to how she's accomplished so much in her life today.Genecia's network connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program the F-word meaning - Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and Family. Key Takeaways from this episode:The importance of aligning your inner soul with your external life for your well-beingHow starting from wherever you are, rather than waiting for perfection is what gets you the results you wantThe things that happen in your life happen for a reason - what are you learning from it and how are you using them to move forward?Failures are never just failures. They are stepping stones to real and true freedom.I learned a lot from Genecia and I'm sure you'll do too!RESOURCESConnect with Genecia Alluoca on Instagram, Linkedin, FacebookCheck out her website http://soulrichwoman.com/Download Genecia's free ebook on Personal Branding and 7 Steps to Delegate 80% of Your To-Do List.The Straits Times article on Social Selling that Genecia talks about is here.

In this episode, Leah interviews Genecia Alluora, who is the founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia. Get ready to be inspired! Genecia has created a multi-million dollar business that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. Tune in while Leah and Genecia talk about the hardships of entrepreneurship and the importance of turning your messes into messages. Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019. She is awarded by Noble Queen Most Prominent Women Empowerment in 2020. She is also a Business Coach and awarded as Mentor of the Year in Powerhouse Global Ltd., the Founder of Soul Rich Woman. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and SRW academy, she mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. Her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and Family. Get the All Class SUPER Pass for $2,222 HERE: https://theleahsteele.kartra.com/page/2022ALLCLASSSUPERPASS-PODCAST Where to Find Genecia: Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/soulrichwoman/https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora Twitter: https://twitter.com/GeneciaAlluora LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/https://www.linkedin.com/company/soulrichwoman/ Pinterest:https://www.pinterest.ph/geneciaalluora/ Website:http://soulrichwoman.com Want to know how to get further connected to all of the things in Leahland? Keep reading! Find Leah on Social Media:  Instagram: www.instagram.com/theleahsteele Facebook:www.facebook.com/theleahsteele Twitter: www.twitter.com/theleahsteele LinkedIn:www.linkedin.com/in/theleahsteele YouTube:www.youtube.com/leahsteele Join Leah's FREE Facebook group WEALTH ALCHEMY for Monthly Wealth Forecasts and all things Wealth Alchemy at www.facebook.com/groups/realwealthalchemy Get your daily dose of Leah - REAL, RAW & UNCENSORED - by joining her FREE Telegram Channel here: https://t.me/thewealthwitch For more information on Leah and her current offerings, visit her website:  www.theleahsteele.com Opt-in to Leah's email list and receive a FREE excerpt from her new book Wealth Alchemy HERE: https://theleahsteele.kartra.com/page/WealthAlchemyBook Have questions or want to hear a certain topic on the podcast?! Email media@theleahsteele for inquiries!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For the last several years – and especially since the pandemic hit in early 2020 – businesses have been trending towards a digital workforce. But for your digital business to be successful, you'll need to know what does and doesn't work for the online setting. How do you manage a fully digital business, with employees who telecommute from around the world? Entrepreneur and online business expert Genecia Alluora reveals her tips for success here. Genecia is a serial entrepreneur and former Miss Universe-Singapore. She is the founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female online business network in Southeast Asia. Genecia also hosts the podcasts “For Women Who Love The F Word” and “Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint,” and has appeared in media like Forbes and CNBC.Kicking off our interview, Genecia shares her incredible journey from her poor childhood, through working hard and acting on invaluable advice, to starting her own businesses. It sounds like a rags to riches story, but one in which our protagonist worked hard for all she's got. Eventually, Genecia decided to pay it forward, starting Soul Rich Woman to lift up other ambitious women.Genecia is driven to empower women to go after what they want, to dream big and achieve those dreams. She also talks about the so-called “F word” that plays into her journey to success — and your journey, too. What “F word” is she referring to? Watch or listen to the interview to find out!Genecia manages a fully digital business, working with remote employees from around the world. (That's actually a lot like how Petite2Queen is set up!) In our podcast, Genecia reveals what it takes to make a business digital, and how to successfully manage it. We also turn our discussion the telecommuting. It was already a rising trend, but COVID-19 accelerated it even more. How do you effectively manage employees who work remotely? How can you do so when they live in different parts of the country or different parts of the world? Genecia shares her tips for people and organizations moving in this direction. One hint: It requires hiring the right employees and trusting them to do their jobs. Genecia has built one of the leading women support groups in Southeast Asia. She explains how her online business model has actually played into this immense success, and how this model can help your own businesses thrive, too.Learn more about Genecia Alluora at her official website here. You can also find out about her company, Soul Rich Woman, here. And be sure to tune into her podcasts, podcasts “For Women Who Love The F Word” and “Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint.”Support the show (https://p2q.link/donate)

Today I'm speaking with Genecia Alluora. Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore turned business coach as the founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F' membership program. She mentors thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online.    Before establishing her coaching business, Soul Rich Woman, Genecia was an owner of a successful cafe retail chain.   What is incredible about Genecia's story is that as young as 14 years of age, Genecia had to support herself through school where she was often bullied.    Genecia has gone through the highs and lows of being a business owner which we share on this episode. How she went from being in a six-figure debt to becoming a millionaire in 2013, to how this fuelled her passion to support women to do the same - to own the F-word - Freedom in their lives.   We touch on many things in this interview from building a memorable brand online, to being resourceful as you're starting your business, how to handle rejection and No's, the concept of value exchange and why it's important to charge for your work, 2 tips for getting out of debt, how to find a coach or mentor, and how to really define your niche online effectively.   I appreciate Genecia's take on growing her business, as it's certainly different from mine and it's always nice to hear different perspectives. I teach more of a top down approach, starting with high ticket clients so you can earn an income to then create smaller, more affordable programs for the masses, whereas Genecia teaches the other way, a bottom-up approach.   You don't want to miss this interview so buckle in and keep this party going!   Oh but before we dive into this interview, as a reminder, if you are a new and aspiring coach who wants to create a high-impact, soul aligned coaching business and land paid clients in just a matter of 6 weeks or less - DM me now on Instagram and say “COACH”. I will follow up and show you how you can structure your signature coaching offering and land your first paid clients. Ok let's get into this interview! Be sure to let us know if you're listening by posting a screenshot of this episode and tagging us on instagram, Genecia is @@geneciaalluora and I'm at @punchdrunksoul and let us know what you think of this interview!   Aha Moments:   How to build a memorable brand online Why Genecia had to knock on doors to get sponsored for Miss Singapore and what it taught her about business How to handle rejection and No's in your business The concept of value exchange and why it's important to charge for your work 2 tips for getting out of debt that Genecia learned after getting out of 6-figure debt her self How to find a coach or mentor that truly aligns with you What your niche really is and how to define it online effectively   Links: Check out Genecia's website www.soulrichwoman.com Find Genecia on Facebook at Soul Rich Woman or Genecia Alluora Follow Genecia on Instagram at @geneciaalluora or @soulrichwomanasia Follow Genecia on Twitter @geneciaalluora or @soulrichwoman Follow Genecia on LinkedIn at Genecia or Soul Rich Woman Check out Genecia's Pinterest at Genecia Alluora Interested in learning more about Path to Freedom? Click here!

Genecia Alluora is former Miss Singapore and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region, with presence in 7 countries including Singapore, Malaysia, the Philippines, Vietnam, and Indonesia. She is the recipient of

Would you like to attract clients online, get recognition, build a brand and make a positive impact in the world? If so my guest Genecia Alluora is a renowned expert at helping women to do just that. She is a former Miss Singapore and South-east Asia Woman of Excellence 2010. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region, with presence in 7 countries. Genecia has gone through the highs and lows of being a business owner. Her epic journey from six-figure debt to making her first million, fueled her passion to empower women into being fabulous, acquiring freedom and financial independence. Join us for inspiration and wisdom to help you to successfully build your business.

Starting an online business, or moving your brand from offline to online can be intimidating for anyone. It's even more intimidating for the woman who is somewhat technophobic, or feels like she doesn't have enough time to figure out this online thing. Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman - the biggest network of female entrepreneurs in South-East Asia, is all about helping women entrepreneurs “shortcut their success” through building an online business. In addition to some very practical, technical tips for building your brand digitally, she also shares her insights on some of the limiting mindsets and beliefs we first need to overcome as women. The story of this former Miss Singapore starts from humble beginnings, and is testament to her belief that as women, “alone we are strong, together we are unstoppable”. #HWaW #buildanonlinebusiness #onlinebusiness #geneciaalluora Audiodacious website · Mzeelia Media website

I have a fabulous guest joining me today: Genecia Alluora. She has so many accolades, including Miss Singapore and Southeast Asia's Woman of Excellence in 2010. Genecia is the founder of Soul Rich Woman, which is the number-one female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia. Genecia's entrepreneurial spirit has been evident her whole life. When she was fourteen years old, she had to work to support herself through school. Later on, she came up with a way to make her work as a yoga instructor more profitable. Unfortunately, bullying was also a large part of Genecia's school life. However, she used this experience to fuel her pursuit of business success both online and in a café chain. She says that her calling now is to empower other women. Follow me on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sara.fennell/