She's Not Doing So Well - Gay Perspective On Everyday Life

Send us a textJoin Bobby and Jim for another hilariously unfiltered episode of "Not Well". This week, the hosts dive deep into a whirlwind of personal adventures and societal critiques, proving that life is anything but "well". Get ready for candid tales from a cousin's recent wedding, complete with open bars and unexpected "spirals" that led to a guest "not making it". Hear about the hosts' wild night out in Cleveland, featuring casino wins on roulette  and a memorable, if not entirely conventional, bathhouse experience.The conversation takes a sharp turn into historical and political commentary, questioning founding fathers like George Washington and his unsettling practices. The hosts also tackle frustrating modern issues like Trump's pardons and the American "scam". Amidst the chaos, they share insights on learning from past relationships, the struggles of aging bodies, and the surprising benefits of a simple walk outside. Tune in for a raw, honest, and wildly entertaining discussion!Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis chaotic and hilarious episode of Not Well marks the return of Bobby and Jim after a whirlwind spring that included a trip to Ireland. They catch up on everything from skincare and sugar daddy dreams to bizarre road rage incidents and unhinged homemade driving signs. The centerpiece is their unforgettable Irish adventure—drunken nights in Dublin and Galway, being “cut-shamed” at a gay bar, dealing with horny 20-year-olds, and falling in love with Irish lads, butter, and unbothered pub culture. Also covered: PDA shaming, gay-coded pocket watch obsessions, airport nightmares, contact lens trauma, and the trauma of being the oldest in the club. With their trademark irreverent humor, they deliver a jam-packed download of nonsense, insight, and gay travel trauma.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this chaotic pre-vacation catch-up, Bobby and Jim return after a brief hiatus to unpack their lives before jetting off to Ireland. From skincare obsessions and Spirit Airlines horror stories to hot dentist encounters and the psychology behind sounding "too gay," the duo dives headfirst into everything. They rant about billionaires in space (screw you, Katy Perry), the illusion of economic wins, and the prison industrial complex. There's also a heartfelt moment reflecting on internalized shame in the gay community—and naturally, some dick talk and drunken bathroom confessions. Buckle up. It's messy, mouthy, and classic Not Well.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this unedited chaos-core episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into hot mess territory with unfiltered rants about April Fools' trauma, she-cocks, the “goon” community, straight men in denial, crying influencers, and the dream of a five-man Irish rugby orgy. Between travel anxieties and poop logistics on planes, they still find time to manifest fame, mock chemsex culture, and debate why lesbians are society's most helpful gays.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this outrageously entertaining episode of the "Not Well" podcast, hosts Bobby and Jim deliver a rollercoaster of laughter, shock, and unfiltered banter. Tune in as they explore Jim's wild travel escapades through Amsterdam's infamous red-light district, sharing eye-popping encounters involving explicit peep-show booths, quirky condom stores with flamingo-shaped protection, and surreal canal rides filled with unexpected comedy.They hilariously recount personal misadventures, including Bobby's comedic medical injection mishap, first chaotic pickleball experience, which left him hobbling like cartoon characters. Listener voicemails add another level of absurdity, featuring scandalous Cancun tales of snorkeling amidst diarrhea crises and wild anecdotes involving serotonin syndrome, food poisoning, and viral conjunctivitis.Get ready for unconventional debates about bizarre trends, from the shocking straight men cutting eyelashes to appear less gay to discussions on foreskin circumcision theories that link Kellogg's cereal founder to masturbation fears. The hosts dive headfirst into absurd territory with controversial art ideas, notably proposing humorous yet provocative imagery of Jesus with an inappropriate erection.This episode also tackles workplace drama, mocking adult tantrums over kitchen cleanliness and addressing humorous interactions that make daily office life surreal. Flat-earth conspiracy theories are humorously dismantled, questioning how believers rationalize visible curvature during air travel.Loaded with NSFW humor, bizarre revelations, and hysterically inappropriate comments, Bobby and Jim make sure no topic is taboo, and everything is up for comedic grabs. Whether discussing jet lag experiences, Michelin star dining gone awry, Palestinian solidarity moments at Lush cosmetics, or introducing quirky fashion products like bulge bands, this episode of "Not Well" is guaranteed to entertain, shock, and amuse in equal measures.Inappropriate Comments Analysis:Comment: "Jesus on the cross with a boner."Reason: Religious sensitivity; satirizes sacred imagery, could offend believers.Comment: "Men pay for sex because their dicks are ugly."Reason: Body-shaming; suggests a derogatory stereotype about people who engage sex workers.Comment: "Why clean a kitchen I don't use? Adult babies."Reason: Workplace insensitivity; belittles coworkers' intelligence and hygiene habits.Comment: "Snorkeling with diarrhea."Reason: Graphic and unsanitary imagery; excessively crude.Comment: "Flat-earthers: explain airplane curvature."Reason: Potentially insulting a belief group; mocking individuals' beliefs in a provocative manner.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this chaotic and hilarious episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into a variety of topics ranging from reality TV and cult conspiracies to open relationships and political absurdities. They kick things off with a Chris Lilley reference before discussing the eerie themes of Severance, the state of weight loss drugs like Zepbound, and their upcoming trip to Ireland.They also explore their thoughts on open relationships, the ridiculousness of transphobic sports policies, and the brainwashing of women through religious manipulation. Other highlights include workplace burnout, the absurdity of America's political landscape, the societal shame around pleasure, and an unexpected tangent about self-milking. The episode wraps up with reflections on nightlife becoming cringe, respecting personal boundaries, and the economics of tiny penises in the sex industry.Subjects Covered:Chris Lilley & Jemay referencesWeight loss drugs (Zepbound, Wegovy, Ozempic)Severance (TV show) and cult symbolismIreland trip planning (Dublin, farms, hot farmers)Open relationships & societal shamingPublic shaming & religious control over womenWork culture & the dream of a 4-day, 5-hour workweekVolleyball girl's transphobic fame at Trump's speechAmerica's broken political and economic systemsBizarre sexual confessions (toothbrushes & self-milking)The science of butt pleasure & prostate stimulationBrazil & why it's not high on the travel listThe ridiculousness of billionaires controlling our livesSexual freedom vs. societal constraintsOhio realtor leaving a hateful tip & getting firedLady Gaga album reactions & the culture of public cryingSmall dick competition for free tuitionRealization that nightlife is overratedBuffalo Bill and Betty—potential new queer bar nameSupport the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis episode dives into a chaotic mix of topics, kicking off with an absurd discussion about government spending on transgender mice before spiraling into an existential rant about sleep routines. The struggle of putting in a mouthguard, earplugs, and taking melatonin like a nightly pre-flight checklist is real, and the resentment toward winter laziness is reaching peak levels.Travel plans are a big theme, with talk of Amsterdam and Ireland outfit planning. The dilemma of picking the right aesthetic—whether it's brat summer green or something grungy for Amsterdam—sparks debate. There's also a revelation about the Netherlands and Dutch culture that, frankly, still doesn't make sense.Political chaos enters the mix with a breakdown of recent headlines, including a theory that there's a reason certain politicians act the way they do (cough Putin's leverage cough). A wild detour into the topic of the Epstein flight logs and why certain names keep appearing leads to some theories that are both hilarious and deeply disturbing.There's a rant about how Americans are perceived in Europe, with complaints about restaurant etiquette, slow service, and the European aversion to smiling. Apparently, asking for the check too soon is considered rude, but no one wants to acknowledge that sitting in a restaurant for three hours might not be for everyone. The general feeling is that some of these cultural differences are fair, but some are just unnecessary.A spicy travel story unfolds involving a random European encounter that may or may not have been flirting. The confusion of reading signals abroad is real, but the experience of being semi-hard in a Barcelona cooking class is apparently universal. There's also an official manifestation of meeting hot Irish rugby brothers, because why not dream big?Discussions about American history take a dark turn, with some brutal truths about how things really went down. The way Thanksgiving is framed in schools doesn't quite hold up, and there's a moment of horror at realizing how bad things actually were. The idea that early settlers ate each other when times got tough is casually thrown in, as well as the absurdity of how tobacco basically built an empire.The episode ends with more travel struggles, including an encounter with a less-than-friendly European shopkeeper who was not amused by a lost tourist wandering in with Google Maps open. The realization that Europeans aren't necessarily rude, but just different, is setting in, even if some customs still make no sense.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis episode was a whirlwind of chaotic energy fueled by cold brew, deep thoughts on dicks, and unsolicited introspection. Bobby and Jim discuss everything from waking up at ungodly hours, Botox touch-ups, and the undeniable power of bulge bands. There's talk of mysterious Irishmen, deep-seated bisexuality panic, and how Gen Z is dismantling the big dick industrial complex. The boys take a detour into a philosophical breakdown of averages (which nearly breaks Bobby's brain), get deep into Trump voters realizing they've been conned, and unpack why someone always has a bottle of lube at the ready.Somewhere along the way, Jim relives his DC trauma of watching Beaches next to a grieving classmate, Bobby gets manhandled in a Chicago bar bathroom, and they both theorize that being blind might make sex infinitely better. Also, a local takedown segment hilariously roasts a couple with too much sniffies exposure, and they contemplate why straight frat guys invented butt chugging. It all ends with Bobby questioning if he should go into politics and a serious, yet unserious, conversation about how tech bros like Elon Musk are destroying the world.Most Inappropriate MomentsThe boy pussy moan during straight sex.A man being “helped” to pee by an overly supportive stranger.A deep discussion about how straight frat boys invented butt chugging.The full forensic analysis of dried cum stains on various clothing items.Monkeypox paranoia spiraling into full-body checks.A local couple exposed for their public sniffies profiles.The realization that half of men have a dick under 5.5 inches.A therapy session gaslighting a man into believing he isn't sick.Someone carrying pre-lubed pockets “just in case.”The math breakdown of how dick size averages really work.Frat boys nervously explaining why butt chugging isn't gay.A man getting Botox while wearing a suspiciously stained hoodie.Straight men admitting they've thought about the other side.Airport passengers losing their minds over flight delays.A guy jerking off in a car with emergency lube on standby.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThe episode begins with a chaotic, rapid-fire discussion on current events, conspiracy theories, and pop culture, blending humor, absurdity, and deep frustration over political affairs. The hosts open with an explosive claim that the federal government is experiencing a private takeover under the guise of reform, referencing missing CDC datasets and security concerns with high-ranking officials using Gmail.The conversation pivots into political absurdities, touching on right-wing rhetoric and congressional moments, including a rant on trans rights and Republican politicians' hypocrisy. They mock a certain congresswoman for her performative outrage while criticizing the collective ugliness of some far-right figures. The discussion naturally evolves into admiration for Democratic Rep. Jasmine Crockett, who they argue should be president despite the societal barriers preventing a Black woman from holding the office.The episode takes a detour into pop culture, touching on the Grammys, Beyonce's Cowboy Carter, and the state of music today. They make an unexpected but passionate argument about the phenomenon of “hot dicks on ugly faces,” an epidemic they claim is taking over dating apps. This leads to reflections on their own perceived attractiveness, aging, and the existential crisis of being labeled a "daddy" by younger men.They also dive into their personal experiences, discussing their trip to Mexico, the joy of embracing one's desires without guilt, and the realization that Columbus, Ohio, isn't much different from Kentucky or other smaller towns. They reflect on how people irrationally judge other places while defending their own.Later in the episode, they discuss the surreal and pervasive nature of pharmaceutical advertisements, reminiscing about their childhood obsession with trans fats and the moment of victory when they were officially banned. They also introduce the concept of The Hill, a metaphor for a higher state of consciousness that allows for telepathic communication, particularly with animals. One of the hosts recounts an eerie moment when their dog seemingly responded to unspoken thoughts, reinforcing their belief in an untapped human ability.As the episode nears its end, they discuss eye exams, the stress of negotiating for a new car, and the importance of controlling the few things within one's power. The conversation, like the rest of the episode, swings wildly between humor, personal anecdotes, conspiracy theories, and existential musings.Ultimately, the episode encapsulates the signature blend of Not Well—a mix of gay comedy, sharp political critique, deep internet dives, and unfiltered chaos, all while maintaining an undercurrent of existential dread and dark humor.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis chaotic episode covers everything from personal health woes to existential dread, with plenty of political rants and inappropriate humor in between. The hosts, overtired and slightly sick, spiral through absurd conversations about bodily functions, credit scores, and the downfall of America.Main Topics Discussed:Energy Struggles & Gum Chewing – Trying to wake up, chewing gum aggressively for theanine, and realizing they're out of shape.Bloating & Puffy Nipples – Overeating salt-heavy ham leads to a discussion about gynecomastia and occasional nipple discharge.Asian Cuisine & Travel Biases – One host refuses to visit Asia, fearing unfamiliar food, while the other argues most of their favorite dishes are Asian.Credit Card Fraud & Financial Struggles – A story of identity theft, fraudulent Best Buy purchases, and how to manipulate credit scores.Homeownership Woes – Dealing with PMI, appraisals, and the realization that paying off a house takes forever.Elon Musk & Political Corruption – Discussing Musk's alleged Nazi salute, billionaire control, and Trump's repeal of executive orders harming LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare, and worker safety.Casual Workplace Racism & Replacement Theory – A co-worker complains that white people will be the minority by 2040, exposing deep-seated racism in everyday conversations.Violent Stomach Flu & Near-Death Experience – Vomiting bile, sweating through clothes, nearly passing out, and justifying eating a tortilla after losing nine pounds.Existential Dread & Life Speeding By – A marijuana-induced panic about how life is just a slow march toward death.Ireland Trip & Uncut Dicks – Excitement about visiting ancestral roots but mild hesitation over uncut men.Car Leases & Consumerism – Debating whether it's worth paying $500/month for a car just to drive to work.AI Warfare & Military Future – How war is shifting toward drones while outdated physical fitness tests still exist.Capitalism is a Scam – Longing for a simpler, barter-based existence instead of corporate greed ruling everything.Traveling for Dick – Admitting that most travel decisions are based on the attractiveness of local men.A mix of chaos, humor, and unfiltered opinions, this episode tackles everything from bodily fluids to the dystopian future of AI warfare—all with a healthy dose of existential dread.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis episode of Not Well dives deep into chaotic and hilarious conversations ranging from Trumpism, trans rights, societal failings, crumbs, childhood fears, and a lot of irreverent humor. Bobby and Jim dissect the ridiculousness of patriotism displayed during inaugurations, the bizarre cult-like worship of certain political figures, and the ongoing culture war surrounding trans individuals. They reminisce about their childhood quirks, like Bobby's fear of his parents turning into skeletons and his crumb phobia. The duo explores the hilarity and discomfort of booth seating, societal expectations, and even random moments like towel habits during sex. A surprising tangent about telepathy, autistic communication, and “The Hill” takes the episode into pseudo-scientific territory, leading to thought-provoking discussions about perception and reality. They end with discussions on representation in media and whether straight actors playing gay roles is truly authentic. It's unfiltered, chaotic, and thought-provoking.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis episode dives into an eclectic mix of subjects ranging from lighthearted banter to deeper reflections on societal norms and historical narratives. The hosts begin with a discussion about hair loss and confidence, exploring the practical and emotional impacts of embracing baldness versus pursuing treatments like hair transplants. The conversation shifts to weather preferences, with humorous takes on the struggle between cold-blooded individuals who thrive in winter and those who prefer sweltering heat.Childhood memories resurface as they reflect on past experiences in Cub Scouts and school, particularly moments that shaped their perspectives on self-expression and creativity. This segues into a broader conversation about parenting, emphasizing the importance of letting children explore their true interests without imposing adult expectations or societal norms.The hosts delve into history, discussing pivotal moments like Viking raids in Ireland, the Boston Tea Party, and the migration of Neanderthals and early humans. These reflections are framed with humor and a sense of curiosity about how history has been shaped, rewritten, and taught. The discussion also touches on the complexities of societal brainwashing, from historical narratives to modern national security issues, critiquing how the U.S. government uses terms like “terrorism” to control public perception.Cultural and genetic history becomes a central theme as they explore personal connections to Ireland, considering travel as a means of discovering identity and familial roots. The conversation incorporates reflections on how ancestry influences modern identity, with a humorous take on topics like Viking raids, Irish potato farming, and the genetic quirks of Neanderthals.Food nostalgia makes an appearance with a longing for discontinued treats like Butterfinger BBs, sparking a larger commentary on the emotional connections people form with comfort foods. There's also a whimsical exploration of social behaviors, from the excessive use of personal fans to the awkwardness of forced interactions, especially in nightlife or drug-induced settings.Animals and their intelligence are discussed, with the hosts highlighting how humans often dismiss the innate abilities of animals, particularly their advanced sensory perceptions and emotional intelligence. This leads to reflections on societal attitudes toward intelligence, drawing parallels between historical perceptions of Neanderthals and current biases against certain groups or ideas.The episode closes with heartfelt reflections on friendship, emphasizing the unique and irreplaceable bonds formed with close friends. The hosts consider how true friendship provides a sense of belonging and authenticity, contrasting it with superficial social interactions or fleeting acquaintances. This theme ties back to the idea of seekingSupport the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textGuess who's back? Back again. An old caller reemerges from the shadows, kicking off a wild and chaotic episode of Not Well. This week, the conversation dives into everything from holiday highs and lows to existential musings and absurd tangents that only Bobby and Jim can pull off.The holidays take center stage as the duo unpacks the weirdness of gift-giving, the stress of unwrapping presents in front of an audience, and the sheer absurdity of obligatory workplace gift exchanges. There's also a candid exploration of body image struggles, including a post-holiday battle with weight gain and self-perception, peppered with a bit of humor and self-deprecation.The episode doesn't hold back as the conversation veers into a discussion about evolving porn preferences, from fantasy-driven storylines to public settings and everything in between. This naturally leads into a reflection on queer spaces like The Eagle, where they share their appreciation for the raw, unapologetic energy of these establishments and lament the loss of that authenticity in some modern spaces.Drag culture takes a turn under the spotlight, with sharp critiques about how mainstream attention has dulled the creative edge of drag performances. There's a longing for more boundary-pushing art and a frustration with the predictability of certain performances. Despite the critiques, there's still respect for drag as a vital part of queer expression and culture.New Year's Eve antics are recounted in vivid detail, including awkward party moments, over-the-top social interactions, and a bit of introspection about the exhausting nature of large gatherings. There's a hilarious tangent about small talk and how draining it is, especially in high-energy social settings.The episode is rounded out by a series of unfiltered rants, including one about restaurant service during the holidays and the oddly frustrating world of twist-tie trash bags. A vision of a world without buttholes becomes a centerpiece of one of the more absurd yet surprisingly profound tangents.Finally, the episode wraps up with a critical take on RuPaul's Drag Race and a promise to keep challenging norms while staying true to the chaotic, queer energy that defines Not Well.This episode is an unfiltered, hilarious, and thought-provoking ride, filled with the trademark humor and raw honesty that listeners love.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textChaos in the Cosmos (and on Earth)In this wild episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive headfirst into chaos, tackling their latest adventures, current events, and gay life with unfiltered humor. From Pig Week shenanigans to alien drones, the duo delivers an unpredictable mix of laughs and insights.Florida Madness and Pig Week RevelationsThe episode begins with Bobby recounting his recent Florida trip during the infamous Pig Week, where "anything goes." From slings to fisting, the duo spares no detail, mixing shock with hilarity. Bobby shares a disappointing hookup experience with a longtime crush, sparking a larger conversation about the gap between fantasy and reality. Meanwhile, Jim reflects on self-perception and the question, “Am I as hot as I think I am?”Alien Drones and Galaxy GasThe conversation shifts to UFOs and the mysterious alien drones reportedly emerging from the Atlantic Ocean. Bobby shares his own UFO sighting during a Spirit Airlines flight, dubbing the airline "the Aldi of the skies." Speculation runs wild, with theories ranging from drones targeting straight men to enhancing Pig Week with Galaxy Gas. The duo imagines Trump's Space Force battling aliens at Pig Week, blending conspiracy theories with biting humor.Luigi Mangione and Healthcare ChaosLuigi Mangione, the hammer-wielding "healthcare vigilante," becomes a focal point as the guys hilariously weave his story into the week's absurdities. From battling alien drones to DJing at Pig Week, Mangione is reimagined as a folk hero for a chaotic world. Bobby and Jim critique corporate greed and the healthcare system, using Mangione's larger-than-life persona as comic relief.Life, Moles, and MortalityBobby and Jim briefly discuss viral "honor walks" for organ donors, balancing somber reflections with humor. They also explore their mutual phobia of moles, spiraling into a witty debate about turn-offs, attraction, and confidence in the gay community.Looking AheadThe episode ends with plans for an upcoming Chicago trip, promising new adventures. From Galaxy Gas experiments to EDM parties, Bobby and Jim leave listeners excited for the chaos to come. This unpredictable episode captures the essence of Not Well—raw, funny, and delightfully absurd.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this jam-packed episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim take listeners on a chaotic journey of humor, personal confessions, and existential musings. They open with a candid review of a TikTok-famous gum, dive into hygiene debates, and meander through Thanksgiving drama, small-town parades, and philosophical reflections about their younger selves. From humorous rants about priests being suspiciously gay to theories about history being rewritten, the duo keeps it raw, relatable, and hilariously unfiltered. They end on a more reflective note, discussing what happens to their beloved dogs if tragedy strikes, all while navigating the challenges of painting vivid pictures of their lives.Bulletpoint TopicsThe neuro-gum fiasco: a TikTok trend gone wrongGym hygiene debates: to floss or not to flossThanksgiving drama: vegetarian stuffing and MAGA-lite paradesPriests and their "gay eyes"—Bobby's epiphanyBobby's wine-drunk reflections on friendship and liberationExistential musings on past selves and life-changing decisions"Painting" mishaps: the messier side of gay sexSpeculations about lost history and hidden conspiraciesEnd-of-life questions: Who gets the dogs?The randomness of life: every decision leads hereSupport the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into a chaotic mix of current events, personal anecdotes, and sharp critiques of modern life. From calling out scams in corporate sales and wellness industries to discussing the absurdity of political figures like Sarah Huckabee Sanders, the duo spares no one. They unpack the ongoing struggles of LGBTQ+ spaces in Columbus, Ohio, reflecting on how the city has changed and why it might be time for new adventures.The discussion veers into hilariously explicit territory as Bobby recounts a “prostate milking” experience, while Jim muses on straight weekend activities being unremarkable at best. Nazis in Columbus, drone sales jobs, and wellness culture scams receive sharp, unfiltered commentary. Bobby and Jim critique the rise of far-right ideologies, touching on their impact on LGBTQ+ communities and the broader political landscape. Through it all, the pair balance humor with insight, serving up their signature blend of gay comedy and biting satire.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textQuote of the week: " I am just trying to avoid anyone here who has been inside me"  In this unfiltered unhinged instant classic episode, Bobby and Jim kick things off by embracing a doomed mission: pretending to be straight bros. Spoiler alert—it's hilarious and painfully bad. Their half-hearted attempt to discuss “smashing pussy” quickly devolves into a crisis of identity and nostalgia, sparking deep memories of hiding who they were and re-living past traumas, but with their signature humor and sass. From there, it's a high-speed jump into the absurd, as they share unhinged rants about Aldi's suspiciously moldy produce, America's unhealthy obsession with trauma porn, and their recurring political nightmare—the state of democracy and anti-trans legislation.Between deep dives into existential dread and biting humor, the duo talks about Roman bathhouse fantasies (because, of course), reminisces over pagers and the “texting” culture of yore, and dissects Stephen Hawking's aesthetic choices with zero chill. Bobby laments how dogs ruin spontaneous trips with their bougie pet camp needs, while Jim recounts his IV therapy adventure after a wild night out. The pair bond over fat kid moments—like stuffing their faces with stuffed crust pizza and sneakily devouring McDonald's double cheeseburgers before anyone notices. Sprinkle in wild, late-night escapades at AWOL's jock night, and you've got one spicy, laugh-out-loud ride.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this episode of Not Well, listeners are taken on a journey through a special segment featuring letters from the Founding Fathers, reimagined for today's turbulent political climate. With historical reflections and modern parallels, George Washington introduces the discussion, emphasizing the enduring importance of constitutional principles in safeguarding democracy and freedom. Through words brought to life by Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, James Madison, and Alexander Hamilton, the Founders explore the critical issues of governance, balance of power, and the dangers of unchecked ambition.The episode delves into how these principles apply to contemporary issues, including political divisions, the role of government, and the importance of protecting minority rights against majority tyranny. Through humor, wit, and a touch of reverence, the hosts reflect on the wisdom of the past to shed light on the challenges of the present, ultimately urging listeners to engage thoughtfully with the democratic process and safeguard liberty for all.Concluding with a powerful message from Alexander Hamilton, the podcast leaves its audience with a call to remain vigilant, pursue balance, and trust in the enduring framework of the Constitution to guide and protect the nation through the complexities of modern governance.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim take listeners on a wild ride of hilariously chaotic stories, cringe-worthy Lyft encounters, turning another year older, and messy nights out in New York City's queer scene. From Jim's struggle with an incompetent Lyft driver to Bobby's existential thoughts on Halloween costumes, the duo keeps it real and raw. Jim reflects on hitting 37, sharing his mixed feelings on aging, while Bobby hilariously overshares his panic over eating pumpkin seeds whole. Together, they tackle everything from misfit spa visits to bizarre political tirades, serving listeners the classic mix of humor, snark, and outright silliness that defines Not Well.The episode spirals into topics like the drama around trans identity in queer spaces, the absurdity of celebrity “coming out” moments (looking at you, Shawn Mendes), and Bobby's intense pumpkin seed confusion. With moments of introspection sprinkled throughout, the hosts navigate serious LGBTQ+ issues while delivering absurd observations with their trademark irreverence. The episode wraps up with a bold, unscripted tirade on Trump supporters, proving that Not Well remains as chaotic as ever.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this lively and humorous podcast episode, Bobby and Jim return with plenty of energy and discussions that range from Bobby's recent trip to Kansas City to the quirks of social life and nightlife in Columbus. Bobby, who has just recovered from being under the weather, reflects on his trip to Kansas City, praising the city's liberal atmosphere and vibrant nightlife. They dive into Kansas City's appeal, comparing it to places like Columbus, and highlight specific hotspots like "Missy B's," a multi-roomed bar with energetic vibes.As the conversation moves forward, the duo shares their frustrations about their local bar scene and how things have changed in the once-vibrant "Short North" area of Columbus, now overtaken by straights. This leads to a broader discussion on the culture of different cities, Kansas City being noted for its openness and active nightlife compared to what they see in Columbus. They express a longing for more queer spaces, noting how the culture in their hometown has shifted.The two hosts also discuss workplace dynamics and the awkwardness of dealing with co-workers who send mixed signals—whether about being too sensitive or quiet. This sparks a relatable rant about office culture, the challenges of maintaining a professional demeanor, and how some colleagues push the boundaries of polite behavior.Another entertaining segment is a reflection on funny and awkward experiences from past relationships and personal milestones, particularly around the awkwardness of wisdom teeth surgery and the shared fear among many gay individuals of accidentally coming out while under anesthesia.In the latter part of the episode, Bobby and Jim take a humorous and slightly exaggerated approach to discussing substances like poppers and "whip-its," reflecting on the appeal of various subcultures. They wrap things up with playful critiques on the increasing presence of kiosks in everyday life and how automation seems to be replacing human interaction in many service roles.Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim's dynamic chemistry is on full display as they bounce from one topic to another with wit and candor, offering relatable humor, insightful social commentary, and plenty of laughs.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a text In this episode, Bobby's AI voice steps in while Bobby recovers from a post-vacation sickness (thanks, Kansas City). The AI voice navigates through the mess of dating narcissists, offering tips on surviving the modern gay dating scene, and reminds listeners why voting matters, especially for LGBTQ+ rights. Plus, Brat Summer isn't over, thanks to Charli XCX's new release, and of course, some hilariously real talk about post-vacation sickness and the work dilemma that follows. Call us at 614-721-5336 for juicy gossip or to cuss us out! Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textIn this raw, unedited episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into an assortment of personal, humorous, and thought-provoking topics. The episode starts with Bobby revealing a recent life decision: he got Botox for the first time, leading to a lighthearted and detailed discussion about beauty treatments, anti-aging, and skincare routines. Jim shares his own skincare journey, discussing the importance of moisturizing and his use of specific products. They both laugh about how these routines have slowly taken over their lives, from feeling “glowy” to the pressures of having a regular skincare regimen.From there, the conversation shifts to body image issues, where they talk about how societal standards of beauty—especially in the queer community—can make people feel the need to constantly enhance their appearance. They poke fun at their own obsessions with staying youthful and looking “perfect,” but the humor doesn't stop the underlying message of the pressures gay men face around body image.Next, the pair turns their attention to one of Bobby's upcoming trips to Kansas City, where he plans to explore the local gay scene. They speculate about what to expect, from seedy clubs to potential hookups, while blending humor and anticipation about this Midwest gay adventure.The conversation takes a more critical turn when they discuss the problematic nature of mission trips, describing them as outdated and patronizing. They criticize how people go on these trips under the guise of “helping,” but really, they do more harm than good by reinforcing colonialist mindsets and doing little to create lasting change.The discussion circles back to modern-day internet habits, particularly their annoyance with clickbait culture. Bobby explains his frustration with being misled by sensationalist YouTube thumbnails and exaggerated headlines. The hosts dig into how everything in today's world is about getting someone to "click," reflecting on how media and advertising have evolved to manipulate people's attention for profit. The duo finds themselves going off on tangents, discussing everything from the awkwardness of being around elderly people who can't communicate, to the annoyance of outdoor smells, and their general frustrations with daily life.Towards the end, Bobby vents about a frustrating work situation where a colleague condescended to him, adding another layer of relatability to the episode. The episode wraps up with their usual quirky and unscripted fare, leaving listeners with plenty of laughs and several memorable takeaways.This episode showcases their ability to mix comedy with deeper reflections on societal norms, all while maintaining an unfiltered, carefree vibe that's become a hallmark of Not Well. From Botox confessions to clickbait rants, the episode is a whirlwind of humor, critique, and relatable gay culSupport the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

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Send us a textBobby and Jim are back from Puerto Vallarta, celebrating Bobby's 40th birthday in true chaotic fashion. From forgotten weed gummies to full blackouts in gay pool parties, the episode takes you on a wild journey. Highlights include Bobby's panic over leaving his weed gummies at home, several intense discussions about aging, and multiple bottoming revelations. They also reflect on their peak moments at Montemar, stories about a threesome with a cartel-adjacent daddy, and detailed escapades in the streets of PV, where they embraced their inner brat spirit. The episode dives into everything from tequila-fueled threesomes, hangover guacamole, the oddities of traveling, and new life philosophies like "Imodium before sex." The narrative gets both spicy and reflective, with Bobby deciding to make the most of his "daddy peak" and discussing the circle of life at Montemar.The chaotic pace is matched by snarky asides, irreverent observations on straight culture, and a whole lot of self-deprecating humor. Expect tons of outrageous stories about everything from nearly doing meth to deep discussions about belly buttons.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a textThis episode of Not Well is a mix of casual banter, unexpected plans, and a humorous yet honest take on life's little surprises. Bobby and Jim start off by discussing how they ended up recording the podcast, despite initial plans to do nothing for the day. They dive into random conversations about drinking habits, chugging beer, and the sheer absurdity of some of their experiences.The discussion also takes an amusing turn as they talk about everything from the anatomy of whales to evolution and how bizarrely complex life can be. They touch on political topics, including Kamala Harris, and offer a light-hearted yet critical look at current events. The episode is peppered with anecdotes about personal experiences, including the challenges of getting older, dealing with work stress, and the anticipation of an upcoming trip to Mexico.Towards the end, a listener's voicemail about helping someone struggling with addiction leads to a serious yet slightly humorous discussion about the difficulties of dealing with addiction and the importance of setting boundaries. Bobby and Jim both acknowledge that while they can offer some advice, they aren't professionals and suggest focusing on self-care and support.The episode closes with some light-hearted conversation about the anticipation of their trip, their anxieties about traveling, and a fun manifestation moment where they humorously envision meeting hot golfers in Mexico. The overall vibe is relaxed, relatable, and filled with the kind of humor that makes life's ups and downs a bit easier to handle.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.This episode of Not Well was an unedited rollercoaster of laughs, candid discussions, and some unexpected twists. Bobby and Jim kicked things off by recounting a wild Saturday of day drinking that spiraled out of control, leading to some hilarious encounters and thoughts on dart-playing, margaritas, and even the unexpected behavior of some possibly gay softball players.The conversation then meandered into deeper, more philosophical waters, tackling heavy topics like the ethics of cremation, the futility of military glorification, and societal norms around death. The guys didn't shy away from controversial opinions, discussing the often superficial nature of how we treat veterans versus other less “honorable” homeless people and how our obsession with bodies and afterlife rituals might be misplaced.In between these serious discussions, there was a lot of light-hearted banter about getting ready for an upcoming trip to Mexico, fashion choices, and even a funny voicemail about pretty privilege and homeless people. Bobby's sundry of the week lamented the challenges of dealing with difficult people at work, while Jim shared his struggle with the change from summer to fall, touching on the bittersweet feelings that come with the transition.Overall, it was an episode full of raw, unfiltered thoughts, blending humor with thought-provoking topics. No matter where you land on the spectrum of these discussions, it's clear the duo isn't afraid to speak their minds and have some fun along the way.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this hilarious and unapologetically candid episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive deep into the realities of turning 40, camping disasters, and navigating the treacherous waters of aging. As Bobby bids farewell to his 30s, the duo reflects on what it means to hit the big 4-0 and how it feels when your hangovers outlast your youthful spirit.The conversation veers into everything from the horror of assembling a tent at a questionable campsite to the realization that if you can't find the hot people at the bar, you might just be the hot person. With their signature mix of humor and vulnerability, they explore the quirks of middle-aged life, including the complexities of body image, the unexpected joys of ramen noodles, and why it's important to trust your gut – or as they call it, the “Oh” feeling.Listeners get a front-row seat to Bobby's midlife crisis, which he jokingly describes as “wondering where to hang my balls this weekend.” The episode also touches on more serious topics, like the importance of being on anti-HIV meds and making sure you're actually using them for their intended purpose.Bobby and Jim don't shy away from calling out the hypocrisy in today's society, as they dissect everything from problematic restaurant owners to politicians caught in drag scandals. They weave in stories of failed camping trips, encounters with creepy pool dwellers, and even a memorable massage from someone named Alan.This episode is a must-listen for anyone who enjoys a blend of sharp wit, relatable life struggles, and a bit of absurdity. Whether you're a straight  trying to figure out your life or a gay man just looking for some laughs, Bobby and Jim provide the perfect mix of humor and heart, making Not Well the go-to podcast for navigating the chaos of modern life.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this lively and irreverent episode of the "Not Well" podcast, hosts Bobby and Jim tackle a range of topics with their signature blend of humor and biting commentary. The episode opens with Bobby humorously expressing exasperation, setting the tone for a conversation filled with snark and wit. As they delve into the subject of Christianity, the hosts express their frustration with what they perceive as a common persecution complex among some Christians. They humorously critique the tendency to overreact to criticism and poke fun at historical and religious narratives.The hosts draw a satirical parallel between modern complaints and events like the Last Supper, quipping that it "wasn't even the last supper, but you guys have to cry about everything." This line highlights their playful take on the serious subject of religious persecution. They further challenge the traditional narrative by humorously suggesting that the real "first supper" was more akin to a feast of Dionysus, referencing ancient Greek culture and the Olympics.The discussion takes an unexpected turn as Bobby and Jim speculate about historical figures and their roles, including a tongue-in-cheek reference to a "Korean crusader." This humorous conjecture underscores the episode's theme of questioning and reinterpreting historical and religious events. The hosts maintain a light-hearted and irreverent tone throughout, engaging in a conversation that blends dark humor, satire, and a touch of skepticism.This episode of "Not Well" offers listeners a unique perspective on religious topics, combining comedy with thought-provoking insights. Bobby and Jim's approach challenges conventional views while keeping the atmosphere light and entertaining, making for an engaging and memorable episode.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into the unexpected announcement of President Biden stepping down, sparking a chaotic and humorous discussion about the political landscape. They express shock at the news, joke about Kamala Harris possibly becoming the next president, and comment on the absurdities of the political world, including Biden's physical struggles and Kamala's public persona. The hosts speculate on the implications of Harris's potential presidency, highlighting her public image and the comedic elements of her speeches.They also share personal anecdotes, including a recent wild weekend involving pool parties, bars, and meeting podcast listeners. The conversation shifts to their upcoming camping trip, where they discuss their insecurities, especially around body image and perceptions among their friends. The episode is peppered with lighthearted banter about their daily routines, such as the annoyance of morning rituals and the hilarity of public bathroom etiquette.Bobby and Jim also express their growing disinterest in straight spaces and the mundane nature of straight social events, preferring instead the freedom and excitement of gay gatherings. They end the episode with a humorous reflection on their shared experiences and a lighthearted sign-off.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.We kick things off with laughs and excitement, diving into a hilarious Ashley Tisdale video sighting. The conversation spirals into unexpected territory with mentions of bacterial vaginosis, stolen voices, and some notable cuts that keep everyone in stitches.Bobby then takes the stage to critique the Grammys, throwing shade at a four-time nominee and questioning the validity of music awards. The tea spills over Billie Eilish vs. Charlie XCX, societal biases, and some juicy personal anecdotes about cocaine use, high blood pressure, and the absurdities of workplace food theft. As if that wasn't enough, we also tackle political violence, the role of religion in society, and why certain political figures desperately need a reality check.Next, we dive into social observations and personal realizations, starting with tales of not noticing women and 'dick scanning' in Park City. The discussion shifts to the impact of transphobia and Matthew Shepherd's tragedy, interspersed with Aunt Lisa's hilarious 'ugly hot' celebrity game. We share our camping anxieties and excitement for 'Squirt weekend' at Camp Buck Wood, complete with public sexuality stories, 'sack diversity,' and 'ball painting.' We also humorously plan to call our campsite 'El Campground' for 'cis campers' and end with one of us feeling 'concrete legs' from being high, reflecting on life's novelty and excitement.The edible-fueled introspection continues with insights on autism, sensory overload during Notre Dame football games, and the beauty of solitude. We recount prime dining hall moments and the serenity of an overhead fan, blending humor with heartfelt exploration of personal growth and self-acceptance.Then, we tackle a beefy misunderstanding (not the food kind) and invite lesbians and gays to share their views on each other, aiming to compare notes and add some spice to the conversation.From there, we recount our bar outings, discussing social expectations and incidents like clapping at a bar, inquiries about Jimmy Carter, and a peculiar prayer to Helen Keller. Miscommunications, parade mishaps, and brunch party proposals highlight our social (mis)adventures, leading to reflections on organizing community events and improving social gatherings.Finally, we delve into vulnerability, body image, and social dynamics. We discuss the need for air conditioning, feelings of vulnerability in showers among friends, and personal grooming strategies. Observations on dental hygiene linked to sexual behavior, critiques of cycling attire and behavior, and whimsical musings about encountering Big Bird round out the fun. We conclude with an invitation for the LGBTQ+ community to share their perspectives, encapsulating discussions on personal vulnerabilities, societal observations, and the importance of community engagement.Join us for this whirlwind of laughs, snark,Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of 'Not Well,' hosts Bobby and Jim return from a pool session donning pink Speedos and dive into their usual humorous banter. They discuss everything from their forced poolside attire to the influence of their drunk sunglass escapades. Bobby identifies strongly with Hannah from the TV show 'Girls,' comparing himself to her while poking fun at the show's dramatic elements. They also touch upon various humorous topics such as gym etiquette, the peculiarities of cats, and the absurdity of fireworks celebrations. The podcast also features a voicemail rant that spirals into discussions on the absurdity of actor method performances, particularly criticizing character actors like Daniel Day-Lewis. The episode concludes with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their experiences at a recent Pride event, expressing their frustrations with their jobs, and diving into a discussion on social norms and expectations while humorously maintaining their trademark light-hearted tone.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this hilariously chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim kick things off with a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reminiscing about their childhood memories with Muzzy, the language bear. They humorously recount the bizarre yet endearing commercials that convinced American children they could effortlessly learn French. This blast from the past sets the stage for the duo's trademark blend of humor and irreverence as they segue into their recent adventure-filled trip to New York City.Their New York escapade is nothing short of unpredictable. From attending jock nights to indulging in Michelin star sushi, Bobby and Jim leave no stone unturned. They vividly describe the scene at the jock night, where modesty was nowhere to be found, and everyone was flaunting their assets. Bobby shares a particularly embarrassing moment involving a toe cap floating in a pool, while Jim talks about dealing with the aftermath of a shawarma feast that led to the infamous sulfur burps. Their detailed accounts of navigating Brooklyn's quaint neighborhoods, braving unexpected thunderstorms, and dining under the Brooklyn Bridge paint a vivid picture of their adventure.The episode doesn't shy away from the raw and risqué aspects of their trip. From candid discussions about sexual encounters at nightclubs to humorous takes on the peculiarities of gay nightlife, Bobby and Jim keep the laughter rolling. They recount perusing different rooms in search of the perfect partner, the awkwardness of making eye contact with someone less appealing, and the barbaric yet thrilling nature of these experiences. Their unfiltered storytelling captures the essence of their spontaneous and adventurous spirit, offering listeners a rollercoaster ride of humor, irreverence, and candid commentary on the eccentricities of gay life and travel.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.***Warning*** Bobby is hammeredHello, darlings! Buckle up for another electrifying episode of "Not Well" with your favorite disaster duo, Bobby and Jim! Tonight's show is serving up a cocktail of chaos, comedy, and maybe a touch of public indecency. As you hear this, we're probably knee-deep in Pride festivities, or as we like to call it, "Jock Night," where our busses and dicks are out in full celebratory swing.

Send us a Text Message.In this outrageous episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into a whirlwind of unfiltered hilarity and unexpected revelations. They start with Bobby's new venture, Sugar Daddy's Creamery, which prompts a bizarre yet amusing discussion on homemade ice cream flavors. The conversation spirals into chaotic territory, touching on everything from embarrassing nudist magazine photoshoots to their struggles with addiction, where Bobby hilariously admits to his gambling problem and past smoking habits.As they discuss body image and confidence, the duo doesn't shy away from poking fun at their own quirks and insecurities, leading to laugh-out-loud moments about bread bowls, dry mouth nightmares, and the awkwardness of hook-ups. They also tackle serious topics with their signature humor, including a heartfelt voicemail about autism and the challenges of growing up undiagnosed.The episode is peppered with random asides, such as bizarre encounters with elderly women at an ice cream shop, musings on human motivation driven by envy, lust, and jealousy, and a hilarious critique of Columbus trying to be a "big city." Bobby and Jim's dynamic banter, combined with their no-holds-barred commentary, makes this episode a rollercoaster of comedy and candidness.Bobby was out of control so get ready. Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim celebrate Pride Month with a humorous and cringeworthy intro, discussing LGBTQ+ identity and a quirky butter shop deal. They share their reactions to a listener's voicemail, sparking a deep discourse on public harassment, emergency responses, and Pride Month's diverse reactions. The conversation also covers corporate pride fatigue, activism, and the impact of religious and community cults. This episode critiques societal values, freedom, and social constructs, with a humorous take on parenthood, social pressures, and personal stories. The hosts also delve into diverse perspectives on fitness events, the philosophy of existence, and life's interconnectedness, wrapping up with light-hearted banter and a call to support through merch purchases.00:00 Introduction and Awkward Start00:12 Pride Month Celebrations00:19 Butter Shop Deals and Drawn Butter Discussion00:47 Crab Legs and Seafood Talk02:09 Sweating and Ear Irrigation02:49 Google Voice Voicemail03:07 Thatcher's Voicemail and Public Harassment07:20 Pride Month Reflections and Corporate Pride Critique12:51 Marjorie Taylor Greene Rant22:03 Cult Documentary Discussion34:12 Debating College Affordability34:54 Armed Resistance and Self-Defense38:22 Parents and Their Expectations43:47 High School Memories and Senior Pictures47:41 Rants on Public Behavior and Personal Preferences57:45 The Reality of Running and Fitness Culture01:05:08 Existential Thoughts and Reincarnation01:07:29 Closing Remarks and AnnouncementsSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this lively and unfiltered episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim dive into a myriad of topics, blending humor, personal anecdotes, and candid discussions on controversial issues. The episode kicks off with the hosts bantering about their recent experiences, including unexpected and awkward encounters with strangers. They recount a night out where Bobby found himself in an alley with a surprise penis in front of him, leading to a hilarious recounting of their adventures.The conversation then shifts to Bobby's attempts at playing a game of seduction, which he humorously admits is not going well. Jim teases Bobby about his direct approach to flirting and seduction, contrasting it with his own more coy and strategic methods. They discuss the concept of seduction techniques, drawing from the book "The Game," and how these tactics apply (or don't apply) in the gay community.Bobby shares his thoughts on the privilege and entitlement of celebrity children, particularly targeting Northwest and her Broadway debut, which he humorously compares to a "Make a Wish" performance. The hosts also delve into their own childhood memories, touching on moments that may have hinted at their sexual orientation from a young age.A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to a discussion on neurodivergence, with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their own experiences and traits that might suggest they are on the autism spectrum. This leads to a broader conversation about how they navigate social interactions and sensory overloads in crowded or noisy environments.The episode takes a serious yet comedic turn as the hosts express their frustration with societal expectations and the constant need to censor themselves to avoid offending others. Bobby passionately declares that he will no longer hold back and will speak his mind, regardless of potential backlash.The hosts wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to call in and share their most unfiltered thoughts and opinions, promising to protect their anonymity. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and honesty in their interactions, both on the podcast and in their personal lives.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.Hosts: Bobby and JimOpening Remarks:Bobby and Jim open the episode with casual banter, Bobby imitating Paris Hilton's voice.They express excitement for the episode, mentioning it's a bonus episode.Brief discussion about Paris Hilton's real voice and Bobby's past obsession with her.Main Segments:Reacting to Political Drama:Bobby and Jim react to a political video featuring Marjorie Taylor Greene (MTG).They humorously critique MTG's behavior and the chaos in Congress.Discussion on the insults exchanged in Congress, focusing on MTG's appearance being mocked.Bobby and Jim joke about wanting to make T-shirts with the phrase "Bleach-Blonde, Bad-Built, Butch Body."Commentary on Celebrity News:They talk about various celebrities, including Jojo Siwa and her transformation.They discuss Britney Spears and a viral video of her.They critique Jennifer Lopez's recent career moves, expressing discontent with her current projects.Harrison Butker's speech at a Catholic college is criticized, focusing on his views on women's roles.Personal Anecdotes:Bobby shares his recent solo trip to New York City, detailing his experiences and interactions.He describes going to the Eagle, a gay bar, and meeting various people, including a man named David from Columbia University.He recounts his experience at Goldilocks, a bear party, highlighting his awkward yet endearing interactions.Cultural Observations:Bobby and Jim discuss the culture and dynamics within gay bars and parties.They mention the importance of taking intermissions during long days in New York City to recharge.Listener Engagement:Bobby and Jim address listener questions and comments, discussing topics such as emotional versus physical affairs.They solicit listener input on seduction techniques and tips for their upcoming discussion on gay seduction strategies.Future Topics:Bobby hints at discussing a book called "The Game" and its implications for gay seduction.Jim mentions a future topic on autism and its potential overlap with being gay, teasing a deeper discussion in the next episode.Closing Remarks:Bobby and Jim wrap up the episode, encouraging listeners to call in with their seduction tips and feedback.They remind listeners to subscribe and follow the podcast.Bobby expresses excitement for the upcoming topics and interactions with listeners.This episode features a mix of humor, personal stories, and social commentary, staying true to the podcast's theme of exploring diverse aSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.The latest episode of "Not Well" features a lively and diverse array of topics including biting parrots, unconventional mattress activities, the phenomenon of whiskey dick, and humorous pool party antics. Bobby and Jim also share their thoughts on circuit gays, their experiences in high school, and amusing stories from their past.The episode kicks off with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their recent conversations, touching on amusing incidents like biting parrots, whiskey dick, and even cucumber cutouts. They discuss the idea of becoming circuit gays, a subculture within the gay community known for their party-centric lifestyle, and question if they're inadvertently becoming part of that scene.They also delve into their high school years, with Bobby admitting to cheating his way through school and even creating fake progress reports. Jim shares his experiences in Mexico, emphasizing the ease of getting through customs and his various adventures, including balcony sex and mingling with fellow tourists.The episode wraps up with discussions on their upcoming trips, social events, and the realization that they might indeed be circuit gays, but with their own unique twist. Overall, it's a humorous and candid episode that showcases Bobby and Jim's dynamic and entertaining friendship.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of "Not Well," the hosts engage in a vibrant and eclectic discussion that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting the podcast's signature mix of humor, candor, and edgy commentary. The episode kicks off with tales from a recent trip to Mexico, highlighting the hassles of dealing with customs and the quirky inconveniences of travel. This sets the stage for a deeper exploration of personal experiences and societal observations.A humorous and somewhat graphic segment unfolds as one host discusses the effects of eating a large quantity of grapes, which leads to an unexpected and uncomfortable digestive reaction, humorously detailing the trials of dealing with a stomach upset from seemingly innocent healthy snacks. This personal anecdote spirals into a broader discussion on how everyday choices, like diet or travel, can lead to unforeseen consequences.The conversation takes a playful turn with a discussion on physical discomforts associated with everyday objects, specifically the thumb pain experienced from holding Outshine bars too long. This lighthearted complaint is juxtaposed with a more serious contemplation of health and illness as they touch on the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, bringing a moment of reflection on community support for diseases.Throughout the episode, the hosts weave a theme of interconnectedness, musing on how everything from personal health to travel experiences are linked, creating a tapestry of life's oddities and adventures. They philosophize about the universe's bizarre connections, suggesting that every action and decision is part of a larger, interconnected system, whether it's dealing with customs in foreign countries, dietary repercussions, or the simple act of eating an icy treat.Overall, this episode encapsulates the essence of "Not Well," blending the trivial with the profound in a way that keeps listeners both entertained and reflective, always coming back for more of the unique takes on the chaotic journey of life.GayTravel, LGBTComedy, QueerLife, GayHealth, DragCulture, QueerVoices, LGBTQPodcast, GayHumor, QueerReflections, GayCommunitySupport, LGBTQLifestyle, GayBanter, QueerJourneys, GayExperiences, QueerInterconnectednessSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Tune in to this week's episode of "Not Well" where hosts Bobby and Jim navigate the chaotic and often hilarious realities of gay life with unapologetic honesty and sharp wit. In "Embracing the Chaos: Humor and Real Talk," listeners are treated to a no-holds-barred discussion that spans the complexities of health, personal anecdotes from gay camps, and candid insights into relationships within the LGBTQ+ community.Episode Highlights:Medications and Mishaps: Dive into the ups and downs of dealing with medications like Ozempic, complete with Bobby and Jim's personal tales of unexpected side effects and weight loss journeys.Life at Gay Camp: Explore the unique, often hilarious experiences at a gay camp, including candid discussions on nudity, social dynamics, and body image among peers.Unfiltered Sexuality and Social Interactions: The hosts share their frank and humorous experiences with sexuality and relationships, offering listeners an uncensored glimpse into their lives.Aging, Appearance, and Self-Perception: Engage with Bobby and Jim as they discuss the realities of aging within the gay community, tackling topics from body image to societal expectations with humor and honesty.Casual Banter and Social Commentary: From everyday interactions to broader societal issues, "Not Well" covers it all, delivering laughs and thoughtful commentary in equal measure.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

In this episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and freewheeling conversation that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting their podcast's ethos of exploring hot topics and deep dives into various societal issues. Their dialogue traverses the lighthearted to the serious, offering both humor and insight.Key Subjects Covered:Lifestyle and Leisure:The episode opens with a casual and relaxed tone as the hosts discuss their enjoyment of a rare Friday off, marked by beer drinking and anticipatory chatter about a weekend getaway. This segues into a broader discussion on leisure activities, personal preferences in beverages, and plans for future tattoos, highlighting their personal lives and interests.Social and Cultural Commentary:Bobby and Jim delve into more provocative territory, discussing societal norms and cultural phenomena. They offer opinions on everything from the social implications of tattooing to the dynamics of modern relationships and social interactions.Mental Health and Emotional Well-being:A significant part of the conversation turns towards mental health, with the hosts sharing personal anecdotes about coping with stress and emotional upheaval. They discuss the therapeutic effects of discussing personal issues openly, whether through humor or serious reflection.Travel and Adventures:The discussion includes detailed planning about their trip to New York, where they talk about not just the logistics but also the emotional significance of travel and its role in their lives, offering listeners a mix of travel tips intertwined with personal stories.Humor and Edgy Commentary:True to the podcast's nature, the conversation often veers into edgy and dark humor. The hosts explore topics that might be considered inappropriate in more formal settings, such as jokes about personal habits, nightlife, and even poking fun at societal expectations and norms.Detailed Exploration:Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim maintain a dynamic and engaging dialogue that keeps the listener entertained and involved. Their conversation is punctuated with laughter, comedic timing, and an evident chemistry that highlights their long-standing friendship and shared history.They touch on the importance of authenticity in media and personal expression, subtly critiquing the often sanitized nature of public discourse. The episode is not just about sharing laughs but also about the deeper connection that comes from sharing real-life experiences and opinions, however controversial they may be.The hosts' discussion about mental health is particularly poignant, offering a blend of personal vulnerability and supportive camaraderie that many listeners might find both relatable and comforting.SEO Considerations:Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements in medical understanding and treatment. This is juxtaposed with a lighter, though no less complex, exploration of bathhouse culture, where anonymity and adventure collide, offering a glimpse into the less-discussed corners of gay social life.As the episode unfolds, the conversation pivots to relational dynamics, particularly the caution advised when younger gay men interact with significantly older men. This topic opens a broader discussion on the nuances of mentorship, exploitation, and companionship within the community. In a shift towards the personal, the hosts share a humorous yet telling incident from a family group chat that surprises everyone involved, revealing the unexpected ways in which modern technology can alter family interactions. This familial theme is tenderly expanded as they reminisce about the bonding experiences between grandparents and grandchildren, illustrating the threads of connection that span generations.Midway through the episode, the dialogue takes a whimsical turn with discussions about living out a fantasy life with a hypothetical $10 million, and the comedic yet poignant mishaps during a karaoke session involving offensive language, highlighting the social sensitivities and the sometimes-blurred lines between humor and offense. The episode also delves into cultural trivia with a debate on what exactly corned beef is, proving that even the most mundane topics can spark engaging banter. As the hosts recount their adventures walking to a gay bar and the stark differences in perceived attractiveness standards in Columbus versus NYC, they unpack the complex interplay of beauty, body image, and self-esteem within the gay community.Concluding the episode, discussions become introspective and critical as the hosts discuss vacation planning around sexual adventures, punctuality in social engagements, and the evolving dynamics on platforms like Grindr regarding gender identity and tucking. These conversations not only reflect personal growth and community changes but also challenge the listeners to think about acceptance, respect, and the diverse ways of being within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. The episode wraps up with plans for a trip to New York City in June, promising more stories, reflections, and undoubtedly, a few misadventures, cementing "Not Well" as a podcast that both entertains and enlightens its audience.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo.Bobby kicks things off with an enthralling recount of his New York City adventures, from the vibrant gay nightlife at the Eagle to an unexpected experience of an earthquake. His stories of freedom, sexual exploration, and candid social interactions in the city's bars provide a deep dive into personal liberation and the complexities of identity expression in such open environments.Jim, not to be outdone, steers the conversation towards a lighter, yet equally thought-provoking direction, discussing the peculiar charm of candy cigarettes. This leads to a nostalgic journey back to childhood, questioning the impact of such products and the oddities of marketing strategies aimed at children.Front porch parties come under Jim's scrutiny next, where he humorously contrasts them with their backyard counterparts, drawing on personal anecdotes to illustrate the unique social dynamics they foster. Jim's reflections are a humorous ode to community gatherings and the subtle societal cues that dictate our social interactions in these spaces.The conversation takes another turn as Jim shares his musings on Shih Tzu dogs, adding a dose of humor to the episode. His comedic take on pet preferences and the personalities of different dog breeds elicits laughter while subtly questioning why we gravitate towards certain pets.Throughout the episode, a hilarious incident involving the TSA and a personal item of Bobby's offers a moment of comic relief, highlighting the absurdities often encountered during travel. This story ties back to the overarching theme of the episode: navigating the unexpected with humor and grace.00:00:00 - Introduction and playful banter about upcoming trip and bear parties00:03:09 - Reaction to a voicemail about JVN's appearance and past00:10:34 - Allure and societal implications of candy cigarettes00:16:49 -  shih tzu and bacon.00:19:57 - Reflections on front porch parties.00:23:29 - Encounter with TSA over a personal item00:23:51 - Coining the summer's hottest insult: "Creole banjee bitch."00:39:29 - Exploration of sexual freedom and experiences at a gay bar in NYC.00:45:33 - Earthquake experience in NYC, adding an unexpected twist to the trip.00:52:00 - Delving into the vibrant food and culture scene in Brooklyn.01:00:00 - The energy and excitement of attending a jockstrap Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Hey there, our fabulous "Not Well" listeners! It's your favorite dynamic duo, Bobby and Jim, back at it again with another episode that's sure to have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even clutching your pearls a little bit.So, let's dive right in, shall we? We couldn't resist starting off with the hot mess express that is the "plane lady" fiasco. I mean, come on, what kind of cocktail was she on? We're thinking a generous pour of Xanax, a splash of Ambien, and maybe even a sprinkle of meth for that extra oomph. But hey, we're not judging… okay, maybe a little.Moving on to the queen herself, Lizzo. Girl, what is going on? Taking a break? We need to talk about this. And don't even get us started on her dance crew and the desperate need for a "glow up." We're here to spill the tea, and trust us, there's plenty to go around.On a more personal note, yours truly just celebrated 12 years of living my best life in Columbus. Can you believe it? Leaving the nest and spreading my wings was the best decision ever. And speaking of leaving the nest, is it just us, or is it trippy to watch our siblings become parents? Like, suddenly they're all "mom" and "dad," and we're over here still trying to figure out how to adult.Okay, let's talk about something that really grinds our gears: the pharmaceutical industry. Have you seen the prices of drugs like Ozempic? It's like they're trying to bankrupt us while lining their own pockets. It's time for a reality check, folks.And finally, the solar eclipse. Are we excited? Meh. We've got mixed feelings. But you know what really eclipses our enthusiasm? When people in our community become parents and suddenly lose their spark. We said what we said.Alright, that's a wrap for this episode of "Not Well." If you're new here, buckle up, buttercup. We're not holding back. And to our ride-or-die listeners, we love you more than a drag queen loves a good wig. Until next time, stay fabulous and stay "Not Well.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Hey everyone, it's your hosts Bobby and Jim here with another wild ride of an episode of "Not Well." We've got a jam-packed show for you today, filled with everything from personal anecdotes to societal musings.First off, we want to give a shout out to our sponsor, Dr. Scholl's Skin Tag Remover. If you're looking to get rid of those pesky skin tags, this might just be the solution for you.In personal news, Bobby's been living it up and embracing his inner "show pony," while I've had a bizarre encounter with a fashion designer/music mogul at a local restaurant. We also discuss the complexities of dating and relationships, especially when it comes to navigating the gay scene.We dive into some heavier topics as well, like the recent news surrounding P. Diddy and the implications of Cat Williams' explosive interview. It's a reminder that the entertainment industry has some dark corners that are often overlooked.On a lighter note, we laugh about the absurdity of words like "extrajudicial" and the concept of "dickies" as a fashion statement. And in a moment of reflection, we ponder the very nature of money and debt, inspired by a parable about a traveler in a small town.We wrap up with a candid discussion on body image and the challenges plus-size travelers face. It's a topic that's close to home for many, and we don't shy away from the tough questions.So buckle up, grab your Bulge Band (don't forget to use our promo code for a discount), and get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions. Whether we're talking about our latest escapades or the state of the world, we're here to keep it real and maybe even change your name to Bobette if the mood strikes.Until next time, stay "Not Well" and keep living your truth!#notwell #podcast #life #relationships #society #humor[00:02:33] Play date with another couple.[00:03:47] Midlife crisis unfolding.[00:08:07] Losing weight makes me slutty.[00:11:18] Tattoo discussions with Spencer.[00:15:18] Meeting a mysterious fashion designer.[00:20:02] Dickies fashion history.[00:23:20] Kate Middleton's body double confusion.[00:25:38] Dick pic pet peeves.[00:30:14] Puff Daddy's name changes.[00:34:27] Money and Debt Concept.[00:37:51] Is there excuse for being fat?[00:40:17] The mental aspect of overeating.[00:44:29] Supportive friendships and disappointments.[00:47:22] Exploring curiosity about body parts.[00:49:33] Hammerhead cock.[00:53:43] Group showers at bars concept.[00:56:54] Risk reduction with Doxypep.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

"Grab Life by the Bulge: Unzipping the Secrets of Flaccid Confidence, Digital Flirting, and the Twists of Modern Gay Banter" embarks on an unabashed journey into the heart of contemporary gay dating, social dynamics, and self-empowerment. This episode doesn't just scratch the surface but dives deep into the fabric of what it means to find one's place and pride within the gay community today.The conversation opens up with a candid exploration of confidence, or as we playfully dub it, "flaccid confidence." We dissect the challenges and triumphs of embodying confidence in a world that constantly shifts the goalposts of what it means to be self-assured. Our discussion navigates through personal anecdotes and listener stories, revealing the nuanced layers of building and projecting confidence in both public and intimate settings.Transitioning to the digital realm, we pull back the curtain on the art of digital flirting through platforms like Grindr. The episode offers a humorous yet insightful critique of Grindr bios, highlighting the creativity, clichés, and sometimes cringe-worthy attempts at connection found within these digital hallways. We share tips and tales from the front lines of online dating, offering listeners a blend of advice, cautionary tales, and the undeniable humor found in seeking connection through screens."Reverse gaslighting" emerges as a focal point of discussion, where we unravel the complexities of modern gay banter. This segment sheds light on the ways communication within the community can be both empowering and perplexing, leading to moments of misunderstanding, revelation, and laughter. Through a mix of expert insights and real-life scenarios, we explore how these dynamics play out in friendships, romantic entanglements, and casual conversations, offering a fresh perspective on navigating social interactions with wit, wisdom, and a little wariness.Throughout the episode, keywords like gay life, digital flirting, community connection, and self-expression serve as beacons guiding the narrative. They encapsulate the essence of the discussion, resonating with listeners' experiences and aspirations.In essence, "Grab Life by the Bulge" is more than just an episode; it's a manifesto for embracing the full spectrum of gay identity with boldness and authenticity. It invites listeners to laugh, learn, and lean into the complexities of contemporary gay life, armed with a deeper understanding of themselves and the digital and real-world arenas they navigate.GO GET A BULGE BANDUSE CODE:  NOTWELLWhere should we go on our next trip? Needs to be a direct flight from Columbus Ohio Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

We kicked things off with a discussion about a political video that's giving off some serious "Handmaid's Tale" vibes. The eerie music, the dramatic speeches, and the over-the-top patriotic sentiments had us drawing parallels to Gilead and questioning the state of our union.From politics, we shifted to a more personal note, recounting our recent experiences and the aftermath of a wild night out. We reminisced about the good old days of partying and how age is starting to take its toll on our ability to recover from a night of debauchery.We also discussed the strange state of affairs in New York City, where an increased police and National Guard presence in the subway system has us feeling like we're living in a dystopian novel. The deployment of troops and the requirement for bag searches without any clear threat has us questioning the motives behind these security measures.In lighter news, we chatted about our recent vacation and how jumping back into work feels like we never left. We laughed about the absurdities of daily life and the never-ending cycle of work and brief holidays.As we continued, we delved into the peculiar world of celebrity behavior, specifically focusing on Amanda Bynes and her recent announcement about wearing wigs. We pondered what happened to the former child star and expressed our desire for a documentary to uncover the truth behind her transformation.Lastly, we wrapped up with a critique of bizarre fashion choices from the past, like the fox stole, and how these items are still somehow making a comeback. It's a mix of horror and humor as we try to make sense of why anyone would want to wear a dead animal around their neck.Remember, you can always reach out to us at 614-721-5336 or visit our website at www.notwellpodcast.com. And don't forget, life is short, so we're living it up as much as we can before we hit the big 4-0. Thanks for tuning in, and we'll catch you on the next one!Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Episode Summary: Reflections on Post-Vacation Blues and Enneagram PersonalitiesHey everyone, it's your host Bobby here with another episode of "This is Not Well." Today, we're diving deep into the post-vacation blues that hit us after our recent trip to Park City, Utah. I'm feeling the weight of it all, and it's got me thinking about Enneagrams and how they play into our personalities and reactions to life's ups and downs.Post-Trip Depression and Enneagram InsightsI'm a full-on Enneagram Six, the Loyalist, and I'm feeling super depressed post-trip. It's like all the dopamine from the fun times has just vanished.Last year was rough, but this year, I'm realizing how my Enneagram type contributes to the problems I create in my head.We're planning to dive deeper into Enneagrams next week, and we encourage you all to take the test too!The Highs and Lows of TravelOur return from Park City was a mess, with flight delays and mechanical issues causing chaos.We got trapped in Salt Lake City, which led to some unexpected adventures and a lot of walking in the airport.The need for a vacation after a vacation is real – the struggle to get back into the swing of things is tough.Encounters and ObservationsWe discuss the interesting mix of people and places in Salt Lake City, from homeless encampments to snowball-throwing strangers.I share a personal mishap involving a hot tub and a near-injury, highlighting the importance of safety and maybe even waivers for future trips.Reflections on Personal Growth and RelationshipsI talk about the progress I've made personally and how it's reflected in my physical health.We touch on the dynamics of relationships and the idea of opening up to new experiences with partners.A Word on Rude People and Being GratefulA reminder to listeners: don't be rude, and don't take invitations for granted. It's about mixing new and old friends, and not everyone can be included every time.We call out some famous figures in the gay community who have been problematic lately, emphasizing the importance of integrity.Final Thoughts and Looking AheadWe tease a discussion about a movie called "Poor Things" and the concept of neurodivergence.I reflect on the idea that some people might use labels as an easy out rather than addressing underlying issues.That's it for this episode. Remember, life is a rollercoaster, and it's okay to not be well sometimes. Join us next time as we continue to explore the complexities of life, personalities, and the aftermath of vacations. Stay tuned, and take care!Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Hey there, Not Well fam! It's your unfiltered duo, Bobby and Jim, back with another episode that's sure to ruffle some feathers. We're diving headfirst into the deep end of controversy, and we're not holding back. So, if you're easily offended, consider this your warning.We kicked things off with a bang, discussing the intimate details of our sex lives and the hilariously crude nicknames for our facial hair. Yeah, we went there. But don't worry, we didn't linger too long on that topic before moving on to the meat of the episode.We tackled the hot-button issue of language in the business world and how "culture" has become a loaded term. We shared our take on the backlash we received on TikTok for suggesting that street slang might not fly in a corporate setting. Spoiler alert: we're not buying into the white supremacy accusations that were thrown our way.Then, we took a wild ride through a range of topics, from the benefits of juice to the pros and cons of steroid use. We even touched on the sensitive subject of body image and how society equates being overweight with being unattractive. Trust us, we had plenty to say about that.As always, we didn't shy away from the more controversial topics, like the recent anti-trans legislation and the complexities of gender identity. We shared our brutally honest opinions on the matter, and let's just say, we're not here to coddle anyone's feelings.We wrapped things up with a personal story about a massage booking gone awry and a candid discussion on the pitfalls of Grindr and the impact of casual sex on relationships. It was a wild ride from start to finish, and we wouldn't have it any other way.So, if you're ready for a podcast that's as real as it gets, tune in to this episode of Not Well. We're serving up the truth with a side of sass, and we're not apologizing for it. Catch you on the flip side![00:02:02] Should I use steroids?[00:06:18] Ordering meds from Indian pharmacy.[00:09:37] Pronoun usage and identity.[00:13:26] Making food high while high.[00:17:21] Gender fluidity and massage bookings.[00:20:48] Bad perms and Trump supporters.[00:22:49] Texas Cowboys Are Gay.[00:28:35] Cosplaying as porn stars.[00:29:31] Internal ugliness and casual sex.[00:33:49] Rimjob.[00:40:29] Oppenheimer and atomic bomb.[00:41:30] The impact of scientific discoveries.[00:46:07] Passing out at Bakersfield.[00:48:32] Passing out in a restaurant.[00:52:14] Eating habits and advertising.[00:55:55] Politicians and cocaine use.[01:01:24] The effects of THC.[01:02:59] Asexual representation in LGBTQ community.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Episode 233 of the "Not Well" podcast with Bobby and Jim kicks off with their signature blend of humor and edginess, tackling a banned children's book parody that's laced with adult humor and sexual innuendos. Despite its controversy, the hosts dive into its comedic value, setting the tone for an episode filled with laughter and candid discussions.As the conversation unfolds, the duo shares their unconventional Super Bowl Sunday traditions, or the lack thereof, peppered with their thoughts on Usher's music and the cozy allure of weighted blankets. They even delve into the oddly satisfying aspects of everyday life, all while navigating the haze of edibles and the festive atmosphere.The episode takes a more serious turn as Bobby and Jim reflect on the recent Tucker Carlson interview with Vladimir Putin, sparking a debate on the current political climate and the impact of media on public perception. They also discuss President Biden's latest press conference, expressing concerns over his mental sharpness and the implications for American leadership.In a lighter vein, the hosts can't resist commenting on the buzz surrounding Drake's leaked intimate video, adding a touch of celebrity gossip to the mix. Bobby reveals a personal bathroom habit that promises to leave listeners with a lasting impression, adding another layer to their engaging banter.The episode wraps up with a candid rant about public restroom etiquette, or the glaring absence of it, highlighting the comedic horrors of communal bathroom experiences.Throughout Episode 233, "Not Well" maintains its unique charm with a mix of humor, introspection, and edgy commentary, inviting listeners into the world of Bobby and Jim for another unforgettable journey through pop culture, politics, and personal anecdotes.[00:00:00] Dad's Little Pecker.[00:04:19] The feeling of a weighted blanket.[00:07:48] Super Bowl halftime show feedback.[00:15:10] Sex toys discussion.[00:17:00] Vibrators and desensitization.[00:22:26] Underage underwear modeling industry.[00:24:45] Motocross rider's wardrobe malfunction.[00:32:08] Presidential statement and verbal flubs.[00:39:15] Drake's interesting video.[00:43:32] Revealing bathroom habits.[00:46:16] Public restroom experiences.[00:49:20] Drunk driving memories.[00:56:44] Teenage drivers and safety.[01:01:14] Dream revelations and desires.[01:04:39] All I want is an RVCameron Mandoo lets it all hang out and we are impressedOld Man 1 Vs Old Man 2 - United States Presidential Race 2024Super Bowl Best & Worst Commercials 2024 Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

In the latest episode of Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim deliver an eclectic mix of personal anecdotes, cultural observations, and insightful discussions, making for an engaging and entertaining listen.The episode opens with Bobby sharing his foray into the world of "puppy fatherhood." The arrival of his new puppy, Pam, has introduced him to the whirlwind of sleepless nights and the demanding schedules that come with pet parenting. Through tales of mishaps and moments of pure joy, Bobby brings listeners along on his journey of adjusting to life with Pam, offering both humor and heartwarming reflections on the bonds formed with our furry companions.Jim returns from his adventure in French Lick, Indiana, with stories that are as enlightening as they are entertaining. His newfound fascination with horses and the peculiar insights gained from local encounters provide a backdrop for a broader discussion on travel, personal growth, and the unexpected lessons learned from stepping out of one's comfort zone. Jim's reflections on the legacy of Helen Keller add a layer of depth to his narrative, highlighting the historical and personal significance of his trip.The episode then shifts to tackle some of today's hot topics, starting with a dive into the curious trend among parents of allowing children to swear in specific household areas, like the bathroom. This sparks a lively debate on modern parenting, societal norms, and the spaces we carve out for freedom and expression within the confines of our homes.Exploring the idiosyncrasies of small-town life through Jim's eyes offers listeners a glimpse into the charm and challenges of navigating social dynamics in conservative Indiana. From the bizarre world of local casinos to the feeling of being an outsider, the discussion opens up a window into the complexities and contradictions of American small-town existence.Music takes center stage as Bobby and Jim dissect the latest Grammys, offering their take on the highs and lows of the ceremony. From Dua Lipa's standout performance to the debates surrounding Beyoncé's notable snub for Album of the Year, the hosts navigate the intricacies of the music industry, its controversies, and the subjective nature of awards and recognition.This episode of Not Well is a rich tapestry of stories and discussions that span the spectrum from personal to public, trivial to profound. It serves as a reminder of the diverse experiences that shape our lives, the cultural moments that define our times, and the shared humanity that connects us all.Listeners are invited to join Bobby and Jim on this journey, offering an opportunity to reflect, laugh, and maybe even challenge their own perspectives. Tune in to Not Well for a ride through the captivating landscape of life and culture, where every listener is sure to find something that resonates.Support the showAs always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell