Podcasts about adlerian psychology

Abu⁠ and Obssa complete their read-through of ⁠Artificial Condition⁠ by Martha Wells. They discuss Murderbot's trauma on Ganaka Pit and how the bot's fears could be interpreted through Adlerian psychology. Get bonus content and helpful reading materials: https://www.patreon.com/scifibookclubpod Keep the conversation going in our free Discord: https://discord.gg/bVrhwWm7j4 Watch the video version of this episode: www.youtube.com/@loreparty Keep up with this season's reading schedule: https://tinyurl.com/sfbc-season2 (00:00) Intro (03:11) Chapter Summaries (10:55) Our Impressions (21:43) Adlerian Psychology (33:53) The Nature of Fear (39:17) Is Fear Necessary? (43:55) Final Ratings (46:26) Up Next & Goodbye Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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When leaders and their staff are misaligned, work satisfaction diminishes, and business results suffer. This is the reality in many organizations today. Despite their best efforts, people at all levels and in every role often dig in their heels, resist, and feel helpless to address frustrations. Quality and commitment suffer with some people disengaging partially or even participating in sabotaging behaviors. Top talent may leave and diminished trust and morale lead to losses in innovation and the ability to address growing complexity and the accelerating speed of change. The opportunity costs are significant. The loss of key knowledge about the business can cause customer relationships to suffer and staff to be at odds. Leaders and employees can avoid all these pitfalls by becoming realigned and co-creating a healthy workplace culture where loyalty and caring collaboration become the norm.   What we will discuss in this interview may include: What are some beliefs you hold about people and their use of power from the psychology of Alfred AdlerWhat are the risks for using authoritarian, controlling and micromanaging practices in workplaces?Will you share some powerful turn-around stories of applying Adlerian principles in organizations?How do you address resistance to change?How do you help leaders see the value of investing in development of people and healthy culture practices? Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/YTUMri_--oM

Focusing and Self-Discovery with Jeffrey Morrison on The Living Process with Greg Madison. Episode 28 In this episode, I welcome Jeffrey Morrison who is well-known in our community as a Focusing Oriented Therapist and Teacher of Focusing. Jeffrey and I outline his interesting journey from philosophy and theology through existential-phenomenological therapy into the world of Focusing and Gendlin's philosophy. We discuss the importance of structure when teaching a natural process, as well as psychedelics and the role of death awareness in developing spirituality. We touch on Jeffrey's interest in trauma, neuroscience, the role of the physical body, and also how Focusing can help us avoid joining the polarised conflicts that are plaguing our world. Jeffrey studied philosophy, and religion before concentrating on psychology after being exposed to Focusing. He has worked in various settings with adolescents, parents, and teachers. He has trained in Family System Therapy, Adlerian Psychology, meditation, aspects of Feldenkrais, Zen, and recently co-wrote a chapter on Polyvagal Theory and trauma. He operates his clinical practice as well as offering certifying courses in FOT in Seattle and Vashon Island, Washington, as well as online. He is a Certifying Coordinator with The International Focusing Institute. Episode 28, The Living Process with guest Jeffrey Morrison https://youtu.be/l9eLZ6pfg3k The Living Process - all episodes and podcast links: https://www.londonfocusing.com/the-living-process/ YouTube video channel: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLC0TgN6iVu3n9d9q2l43z1xBMYY3p9FQL The Living Process on the FOT Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLx3FqA70kQWuHCHmEiZnkn1VcrRIPbcvk For more information on Jeffrey and his work: Seattle Focusing https://seattlefocusing.org Morrison Therapy https://morrisontherapy.com Focusing-Oriented Therapy for the Treatment of Trauma (Jeffrey Morrison and Riley Patterson) in the edited book Experiential Therapies for Treating Trauma (Eds. Senreich, Straussner, Dann, Routledge 2025). #somaticexperience#trauma#Focusing#Gendlin#Bodytherapy#Zen#Experientialpractice#bodymind #thelivingprocess#buddhist #psychotherapy#mindfulness #spiritualawakening #experientialpractice #thelivingprocess

I am so excited to be launching this podcast. In this intro episode, I explain my Adlerian family history and some of the core concepts of Adlerian psychology from which I give parenting advice. So glad to have you onboard. Please feel free to share with your friends, subscribe and write a review! Happy ParentingAlysonwww.alysonschafer.comDo you have a parenting question for me? Submit it to hello@alysonschafer.com Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us in this episode as we explore the world of The Challenge Coach, Pascale Brady, who is also the founder and President of Global Life Coaching LLC. Pascale is a certified Adlerian parent educator, a Positive Discipline trainer, an Empowering People in the Workplace practitioner, an intercultural trainer and coach, a wellness/mindfulness trainer, and a sought-after speaker, particularly on the topics of Courage and Resilience. Her journey to becoming a life and business coach 18 years ago was inspired by her experiences with Adlerian Psychology, which she encountered through Adlerian parenting classes she attended at PEP in Maryland (the Parent Encouragement Program). She incorporates Adlerian principles and tools in her coaching practice, as well as in corporate training sessions, and regularly discusses Adlerian Psychology with various coaching groups. Tune in to gain insights on how Adlerian Psychology led Pascale Brady into the field of coaching.

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DiploChatz welcomes you to our Second Season - Episode 3!Episode 3 Description:We will begin every DiploChatz show with a warm welcome to you! On Episode 3 of DiploChatz, we are joined by Cheryl Erwin is a Certified Positive Discipline Lead Trainer and the co-author of several books and resources in the bestselling Positive Discipline series, including Positive Discipline for Single Parents, Positive Discipline for Preschoolers, Positive Discipline: the First Three Years, and the “Positive Discipline for Early Childhood Educators” training manual, which are available in several languages. She was a marriage and family therapist in private practice for 25 years, and was the Mental Health Consultant for Early Head Start at the University of Nevada, Reno. She is a popular international speaker and trainer, both in person and online, and has taught in China, Egypt, Spain, the UK, Canada, Taiwan, and all across Latin America. Cheryl is married and has one adult son and two remarkable grandchildren.What is Positive Discipline?Positive Discipline is a model based on Adlerian Psychology. It can be used by parents, teachers, couples, businesses, and community leaders to learn to create responsible, respectful, and resourceful relationships in their communities. Based on the bestselling Positive Discipline books by Jane Nelsen, Lynn Lott, and their co-authors (including Cheryl Erwin), this model can be applied to both children and adults to become contributing members of their communities.  The premise of this model is to help people find a sense of belonging and significance following FIVE CRITERIA:  Helps children feel a sense of connection. (Belonging and significance)Is mutually respectful and encouraging.  (Kind and firm at the same time.)Is effective long - term. (Considers what the child is thinking, feeling, learning, and deciding about himself and his world – and what to do in the future to survive or to thrive.)Teaches important social and life skills.  (Respect, concern for others, problem solving, communication, and cooperation as well as the skills to contribute to the home, school, or larger community.)Invites children to discover how capable they are. (Encourages the constructive use of personal power and autonomy.)Positive Discipline is currently taught and practiced in more than 90 countries and has been translated into many languages. DiploChatz featured an ongoing Segment: MINDFULNESS MOMENT WITH DR. YVONNE STEDHAMEvery month DiploChatz proudly features a segment called Mindfulness Moment with Dr. Yvonne Stedham. This segment provides practical advice on how mindfulness can support you in your daily life. This episode's Mindfulness Moment Segment is titled: Mindfulness of Thoughts Who is Dr. Yvonne?In addition to a three-decade-long career in academia as a professor in the College of Business at the University of Nevada, Reno, Dr. Yvonne Stedham is a Center for Mindfulness-trained mindfulness instructor. She has taught Mindful Leadership courses to MBA students, judges, and business executives and has a variety provided mindfulness programs to many organizations, including Microsoft, Hometown Health, and the Nevada Department of Transportation. Dr. Yvonne has been continuously affiliated with the Northern Nevada International Center for decades.Credits:  Manuel Mederos, DiploChatz Host, Producer, Audio Editor, Content Director, Sound Engineer, FX/Music Coordinator, and Guest Coordinator   Send any chatz ideas we should take into consSupport the show

Dr. Kelli goes back to her roots in Adlerian Psychology to explore the goals of human behavior. This episode is sponsored by Harmony 783 earthing shoes. USE DISCOUNT CODE: KELLI1 https://harmony783.com/pages/my-shop?utm_source=jump&utm_campaign=2305666

Q1. Daughter talks like a “mean girl” to her sister. Will she talk to everyone like that? In this episode I also discuss a common parenting trend I see: The gridlock between parent and teen as the parent says “why should I do something nice for you when you are being so rude and irresponsible” and the child is thinking “why would I want to be nice and co-operate with you when you are so mean to me?”. I also shared some great ways for parents to get more involved and learn more about Adlerian parenting ideas. Here are the links: NASAP (North American Society of Adlerian Psychology) annual conference June 1-4 in Denver, CO. Check out The Parent TrackICASSI (International Committee of Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes) in Dublin, Ireland. I am attending the first week July 30th to Aug 5th, but there is also the second week Aug 6th – 12th. You can do one or the other or BOTH! The Daily Adler e-newsletter and The Daily Adler Podcast (hosted by my brother Jeff Knight). If you have a question for me, email me at alyson@alysonschafer.com Check out more free parenting advice on my blog at www.alysonschafer.com Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive a free “Home Responsibilities by Age” checklist. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Oliver Levy joins me to talk about mindful parenting. Plus since he's a sports coach and a sports dad, as well as a parenting coach, I asked him about the peaceful approach to kids and sports.   Oliver Levy is the Ceo and Founder of MPTK. He became a parenting coach in 2016. He became a retired yeller in 2017. He no longer yells or raises his voice at his children. He retired as a parent in 2019. He is now a mentor to his children. Both him and his wife are living their best lives as parents and they are just loving it. He has been married to his beautiful Queen Lisa since 2007. He has 3 children (ages 29, 14, & 11).    Oliver has been there, in the same shoes as parents who struggled with temper tantrums, kids not listening, whining, sibling battles, co-parenting battles, teenager issues and more.     We talk about: [4:10] The events that brought Oliver into this work [7:15] His wife's ultimatum that changed the course of his parenting [8:35] Finding his way through his personal challenges to coaching parents [11:35] The 12 laws of mindful parenting [22:45] How to coach a kid who's a bad sport [24:30] Finding the root cause to our behaviors as parents [28:15] How to use car rides to create open communication lines [34:05] Tips for coaching your own kids [37:30] How should kids be introduced to sports [42:35] When you feel like your kids should be in sports or on a team, even if they don't want to be [46:00] How to handle your kids wanting to quit sports [53:20] Advice to his younger parent self    The misbehaviors mentioned above caused him many challenges in his marriage. After having several meltdowns, and constantly yelling at home, he became determined to find a healthier, happier means of raising great kids without losing control.    This was the catalyst for developing Mindful Parenting Tools. He immersed himself in the study and principles of Adlerian Psychology and several child psychologists and parenting experts.    Oliver believes that trauma can affect kids when it comes to self-esteem, self-confidence, resilience, being respectful, taking responsibility and setting goals so they can create the life that they desire. He also believes that parents, teachers, sports coaches and other caregivers in the community must be equipped with modern-day parenting tools & strategies to avoid trauma in the home and in the community.   He is on a mission to equip 10 million parents with actionable steps so they too, can feel composed and confident when guiding their children to greater achievements with fewer frustration despite any past trauma.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling' Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling  Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  https://linktr.ee/Parentingtools    Connect with Oliver Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MindfulParentingToolkit/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MindfulTool Website: www.mindfulparentingtoolkit.com    Connect with Sarah Rosensweet   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://www.sarahrosensweet.com  Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php   

To donate to my PayPal (thank you): https://paypal.me/danieru22?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US NOTES Join us as we discuss Alfred Adler and Classical Adlerian Depth Psychotherapy. Erik Mansager, PhD, obtained his bachelor's degree in Humanities from St. Thomas Theological Seminary in Denver, and his master's degree in Counselling from the University of Arizona. He completed his Doctorate in depth psychology specializing in the Psychology of Religion at the Catholic University of Leuven, Belgium. Dr. Mansager completed the Americas Institute of Adlerian Studies' Program for Professionals and is a certified Classical Adlerian Depth Psychotherapist (CADP) from the Adlerian Institute of Northwestern Washington. He is also certified as a CADP Training Analyst. Dr. Mansager presents at national and international venues, is a past President of the North American Society of Adlerian Psychology (NASAP), and he is a NASAP Diplomate of Adlerian Psychology. His numerous publications include journal articles, books and book chapters, training manuals, and monographs. He has been the guest editor of The Journal of Individual Psychology for four special issues – including spirituality, LGBT affirmation, social justice, and CADP – and has written extensively on the critical collaboration between psychology and spirituality. Note: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a mental health professional or business consultant.

Join Dr. Kimberly as she continues her series on Adlerian voices. During this episode, Dr. Bengü Ergüner Tekinalp ( Bengü) meets Dr. Kimberly for an informative discussion. Bengü shares her career journey from a student in Turkey (Türkiye) to a Professor at Drake University and President of the North American Society of Adlerian Psychology. Listen to learn more about Bengü's views on her experiences as an immigrant, teaching, counseling, and Adlerian Psychology. To learn more about the North American Society of Adlerian Psychology and to attend the conference June 1 - 4, please visit https://www.alfredadler.org/2023conference. Early Bird registration ends on April 22nd. Provide assistance to the relief funds in Turkey: Turkish Americans and Friends of Türkiye https://bridgetoturkiye.org/ Drake University School of Education MS: Counseling https://www.drake.edu/counseling/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tea-and-therapy/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tea-and-therapy/support

Do you have the courage to break your life-lie?'The Courage To Be Disliked' by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga is a Japanese version of a self-help/psychology book. It showcases Adlerian psychology through means of a Socratic dialogue between a philosopher and youth. It is primarily about how to change mental thought patterns by taking individual responsibility and not playing the victim card.I summarised the book as follows. "It's ultimately a useful tool for improvement. I believe much of life is tricking your own brain, body and habits into better outcomes. The philosopher did come across as a bit too assured and I would be curious to know the Adlerian view on pragmatism and whether other schools of psychology can work."I hope you have a fantastic day wherever you are in the world. Kyrin out!Timeline:(0:00) - Intro(0:28) - Synopsis(2:52) - Adlerian Psychology: The pill pill(8:46) - The Philosopher: Embodying the individual psychology(17:13) - Observations/Takeaways(24:03) - SummaryConnect with Mere Mortals:Website: https://www.meremortalspodcast.com/Discord: https://discord.gg/jjfq9eGReUInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meremortalspodcast/

In this episode of the podcast, I speak with a fellow senior Adlerian teacher, practitioner and friend, Wes Wingett. We discuss one of the most practical tools for understanding human behaviour and how to mine our memories of the past in order to bring about change in the way we solve problems, behave and function today. North American Society of Adlerian Psychology website is here. Wes on YouTubeWes's email weswingett@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa's next guest has so many amazing contributions to the field of play therapy. Terry Kottman is the founder of Adlerian Play Therapy and the League of Extraordinary Adlerian Play Therapists. She is an unbelievably fun and engaging presenter and author who teaches around the world and writes about so many different aspects of play therapy. In 2014, she was granted a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Play Therapy; in 2017, she was given a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Iowa Association for Play Therapy; and in 2020, she received a third Lifetime Achievement Award from the North American Society for Adlerian Psychology (…she seems to be collecting them). In this episode, Terry will take you into the world of Adlerian Therapy and share how she developed Adlerian Play Therapy. You'll also learn: How to bring more of YOU into your client's sessions; How to custom-design your sessions to meet your client's unique needs; How to enhance your client's insight into themselves and what it means to “spit in the client's soup;” How to navigate the client's process when phases of the therapeutic work are not discrete; and How to attune not just to your client, but to their entire treatment process (a meta-attunement of sorts). Listen to the brilliant words of Terry Kottman and feel inspired and jazzed about play therapy and the work you're doing with your clients.

Robert Omwa is bringing Adlerian Psychology to teachers in Kenya, his home country that has a long history of corporal discipline, mostly through caning.  He grew up being caned at school, and then become a teacher who caned his pupils, when he decided there must be another way.  Listen to his journey and the remarkable impact he is making.    Mentioned in the podcast:  Beacon Teachers Africa  http://beaconteachersafrica.org Precious Seeds Africa  https://www.end-violence.org/members/precious-seed-africa Follow Robert here:  https://www.facebook.com/RobertOmwa https://www.instagram.com/omwarobert  https://twitter.com/RobertOmwa www.linkedin.com/in/robert-ouko-omwa-hsc-aaa76211b  Powerful teacher testimonial:  https://youtu.be/7G_RcqqL7CY

In this episode of the Young Opportunist Podcast, we review Courage to be Disliked, a book written by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. With over 3 million copies sold in Asia, this novel is definitely a buy! It documents the journey of the 'Youth' struggling with confidence, self-image and direction, seeking advice from the 'Philosopher' who draws knowledge from Adlerian Psychology. Some of our key talking points include:Unhappiness is something you choose yourselfThe excuse we use to not reach our full potential - The Inferiority ComplexHow comparing yourself to others can lead to an unhealthy path - Life is Not a Competition Separation of TasksOnce again please hit the follow button if you are enjoying our episodes, and if you have time leave us a review.Follow us on Instagram to keep updated with what's new!Reece & BenFollow us on Instagram to stay updated!Thanks again for listening,Reece & Ben

Joyfully Raising Grands is a podcast for grandparents raising grandchildren with a focus on community, resource, and love. We hope to shine a light on the positive actions we can take every day to become our best selves, serve our grandchildren well and find joy every day. We are always up to something and YOU can always find out what we are up to at Laura Leigh (lauraleighllc.com), on Instagram @lauraleighllc or Facebook at lauraleigh. Check out our new membership: Grandfamily Nation! We would love to see you there! :) Today we welcome Pascale Brady. Pascale Brady, CPCC, PCC, MBA, founder and President of Global Life Coaching LLC, is The Challenge Coach ©. Pascale is a professional certified life, business and mentor Coach, a consultant, and a trainer/speaker with 30+ years of professional experience, both in the corporate world and as an entrepreneur. After 12 years as an international sales and marketing executive, Pascale was certified as a coach with CTI and founded her company Global Life Coaching in 2005. In addition to coaching, Pascale is an intercultural trainer, a certified Adlerian parent educator, a wellness/mindfulness trainer, and a sought-after speaker especially on the topics of Courage and Resilience. She is French, German, American and Adlerian and works fluently in all four languages! Pascale is also a widow and the proud mom of two young adult women. Pascale is passionate about helping her clients transform their challenges into growth and success, because “pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional”. Pascale's purpose is simple: She wants to help people transform their challenges into growth and success. From personal childhood illness to parental divorce and blended families. From a seriously ill child to a spouse who suffered with and died of cancer. From expatriation to immigration. From being a corporate executive to being out of work and eventually starting my own business. Life throws us challenges when we very least expect them: the better prepared we are to handle them, the better we can deal with those life challenges. Through my "life training" I am now well equipped to deal with whatever life throws my way next, and I'm ready to help YOU build and grow your own toolbox. Not only will you survive, you will THRIVE! As a Master Certified Coach with over 30 years of experience, I empower individuals, couples, parents and teams to overcome challenges in life or at work. To help people courageously tackle their greatest challenges, I draw upon The Coaches Training Institute's (CTI) Co-Active model of coaching, Adlerian Psychology, Authentic Happiness, Positive Psychology, Positive Intelligence, Appreciative Inquiry, Imago Couples Theory, Psychodrama, Action Learning and Neuroscience. thechallengecoach.com/blog thechallengecoach.com/sample-session FB: challengecoachpascale pascale.brady@thechallengecoach.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joyfullyraisinggrands/support

Join me on Sunday, September 26 @ 4 PM EST for a Zoom Call all about this. Register Now:  tinyurl.com/KeepCalmMotherOn   Humans need belonging and significance.  That's a key factor in Adlerian Psychology which is the foundation of Positive Discipline by Jane Nelson. Last week, I admitted I needed to stop rushing.  Well, I've slowed down and found another "area to grow".  I need to work on less praise and correction and more encouragement. Join me on Sunday, September 26 @ 4 PM EST for a Zoom Call all about this. Register Now:  tinyurl.com/KeepCalmMotherOn   Join the Apple of My Eye 10 Challenge!   Let's do it together, motherhood is way too serious to do be serious all the time & way too important to do alone.  I'll send you 10 days of prompts & we both can practice being the kind mom we want to be.    Join the Apple of My Eye 10 Challenge!     Keep the conversation going on Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/everyday_runner_christy/   Self-Care:  Dance party by yourself.  Move your body and grove.  Motion changes emotion.  Have fun and enjoy this moment.   Family Fun Idea: Make the pumpkin things.  Here is my kid's favorite 3 ingredient muffin.  The third ingredient is chocolate chips or craisins.  https://www.theseasonedmom.com/what-were-eating-two-ingredient-pumpkin-spice-mini-muffins/

Alfred Adler was a part of Freud's inner circle along with Carl Jung until the three began to form very divergent ideas and split. Adler formed a theory of psychology based on the concepts of advantage/disadvantage and superiority/inferiority. As with all psychodynamically influenced theories, this is an example of motivational-based psychology. The concept of birth order being an important influencer of an individual's personality development also comes from Adler.  https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/adlerian-psychology

In this week's episode, Professor and Psychotherapist Michael Drane and MFT Intern Ashley Haynes-Gibson answer Laura's questions from our previous Relationship Live Show. Laura, 43, has engaged in a lot of therapeutic healing and wants to know how to find the right partner, as well as friends, after leaving the Mormon Church 12 years ago. Listen in as we discuss Adlerian Psychology around what constitutes a 'mid-life crisis', how to develop a healthy schema of relationships, how to base your match mate on personality traits rather than hobbies, as well as some fascinating statistics around singles in the U.S. This episode is reserved for our beloved Stalkers of the podcast. To catch the rest of this episode, go to: patreon.com/upcpodcast. Stay safe out there friends, and we hope you enjoy the show.                                          * * * Follow us on all platforms at @upcpodcast Unpopular Culture Podcast is a Forensic Psychology podcast created and hosted by Professor & Psychotherapist Michael Drane. Working with a team of professionals, he seeks to shine a light into the broken underbelly of society. Listen as he explores subjects like: True Crime: Serial Killers, Murders, Stalkers, Cults, Forensic Analysis Psychology: Mental Illness, Personality Disorders, Social Phenomenon, Mob Mentality, Psychosis Culture: Sexuality, Satanic Panic, Relationships, TV Analysis, Movie Analysis, Character Analysis We are an independent psychology podcast. Help us keep UPC free of ads and on the air by supporting the show. Additionally, gain access to our "Stalkers Only" archive, and help be a part of the creative process. Support the Show! —> patreon.com/upcpodcast 

In this fascinating episode of Coaching Uncaged, Animas Centre Director Robert Stephenson is joined by educational innovator, psychotherapist, coach, author and Founder of the Adler Graduate Professional School, Linda J. Page. Robert and Linda delve into Adlerian Psychology, a psychotherapy approach based upon the work of pioneer Alfred Adler. They explore what it is, some of the historical background of the work, as well as some of the many crossovers that Adlerian psychology has with coaching - including being a systemic approach, as opposed to a mechanistic one, that looks at the relationships between things, not just the things themselves. Linda shares the background that piqued her interest in Adlerian psychology, and the journey that led to her founding of the Adler Graduate Professional School in Ontario, Canada. Linda touches on the idea of what Adler called ‘social interest', and the notion of believing in yourself and others as the key to health and wellbeing, drawing similarities to the practice of coaching. Robert and Linda also explore the notion of working on the self as a coach, the benefits of reflection for both coach and client, as well as the importance of cultivating what she terms ‘appreciative curiosity' when working with new clients. Touching on buddhism, diversity and inclusion as well as the politicalness of coaching, Linda shares case studies, historical references, personal anecdotes and even a short poem in this deeply interesting conversation that explores the similarities and crossovers between Adlerian Psychology and coaching. You can find out more about Linda and her work here: http://www.lindajpage.com/ We hope that you enjoy this episode!

Dr Frank Walton is an internationally acclaimed and well respected Adlerian psychologist with more than 40 years’ experience working with families in private practice in Columbia, South Carolina.   He has taught Adlerian family counselling practices around the globe. He has produced and published many resources, articles and manuals on teens and teen suicide. He was the psychological consultant for the critically acclaimed and award winning video “Teen Suicide: An Approach To Prevention”.    Check out the free downloadable resources on Dr Walton’s website.   The South Carolina Society of Adlerian Psychology’s Annual Conference International Committee of Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes  (ICASSI)

Do you ever go to bed feeling like a bad parent? I’ve been there.    Today we're talking all things parenting which means that I'm going to do a lot more listening than talking as I let our guest, Amy McCready, take the wheel.    We’re going to be talking about dealing with tantrums, teaching your kids to be independent, and most importantly, that there’s no such thing as a perfect parent.   Amy was a trainer and senior manager for Fortune 500 companies when she found herself in the throes of parenting toddlers – complete with all of the yelling and temper tantrums you can imagine – and she decided there MUST be a better way.   After years of researching Adlerian Psychology and Positive Discipline, Amy put the knowledge into practice with her own family. Astounded by the transformation she experienced with her two boys, Amy knew she had to share these methods with other parents, so she created the Positive Parenting Solutions Course.   Not only is Amy a trusted teacher by over 75,000 families worldwide, but she is a valued contributor on many media outlets. Amy is a regular parenting contributor on the Today Show, has authored two best-selling books, and she has written and appeared on a plethora of other media outlets.   If you want to feel empowered at the end of the day instead of feeling like you’re failing as a parent, this is the episode for you.    Don't forget to leave a review if you are loving the show!    Let's Connect:  Follow Me on Instagram  Join The Free Mama Movement on Facebook   Show notes available at www.thefreemama.com/53

Adlerian Psychology is an intense and determined look at how we don't really need to take our past lives into account when forming our everyday life. While I have the benefit of taking this incrementally into my own life, I want to empower you to do the same. Some of the ideas and credits in this book are not meant to rule all, but add perspective. Boundaried kindness is what the world needs more of, and in fact, more self-compassion would help us all in bringing this about.  Link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/Courage-Be-Disliked-Phenomenon-Happiness/dp/1501197274/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3FWLPNMIM59I7&dchild=1&keywords=the+courage+to+be+disliked&qid=1617923903&sprefix=The+courage+to+be+dislike%2Caps%2C189&sr=8-1

This week Ned Noon and Dusty Ely review The Courage to be Disliked. This book takes a look at a revolutionary perspective of Adlerian Psychology.

Dr Belangee is an Adlerian clinician in private practice in Canton Georgia where she specializes in treating eating disorders from an Adlerian perspective.  In this episode we talk about social media’s impact on body image, family factors and personality traits of people who develop anorexia or bulimia, the difference between the two disorders, signs to watch for, preventative measures in your parenting, and how to approach dieting when it’s actually needed.  Check out more about Susan here:  Linkedin:  www.linkedin.com/in/susan-belangee-ph-d-lpc-b5248975 And Susan provided some great resources for listeners:  National Eating Disorders Association – www.nationaleatingdisorders.org ED Referral – www.edreferral.com (main page); for outside of US: www.edreferral.com/international Boys and Eating Disorders - https://childmind.org/article/boys-and-eating-disorders/ (The Child Mind Institute site is a great one for general mental health info as well) Book – Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by Mary Pipher; recently revised 2019 for 25th anniversary If you are interested in learning more about Adlerian psychology and parenting, check out the North American Society of Adlerian Psychology:  https://www.alfredadler.org and consider membership.

REBROADCAST – over the December/January break I’m re-sharing two older episodes that are by far the most downloaded episodes of the podcast. If you missed them first time around, this is your perfect chance to catch up. Enjoy! Sign up to the bookmark newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/1119b1358a84/thebookmark   About the Authors Ichiro Kishimi was born in Kyoto, where he still lives, in 1956. He has aspired to become a philosopher since his days in high school. Since 1989, while specialising in Classical Western philosophy, with a special focus on Platonic philosophy, he has researched Adlerian psychology; he writes and lectures on the subject, and provides counselling for “youths” in psychiatric clinics as a certified counsellor and consultant for the Japanese Society of Adlerian Psychology. Fumitake Koga, an award-winning professional writer and author, was born in 1973. He has released numerous bestselling works of business-related and general non-fiction. He encountered Adlerian psychology in his late twenties, and was deeply affected by its conventional wisdom-defying ideas. Thereafter, Koga made numerous visits to Ichiro Kishimi in Kyoto, gleaned from him the essence of Adlerian psychology, and took down the notes for the classical “dialogue format” method of Greek philosophy that is used in this book Source: https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/books/general-books/self-help-practical/The-Courage-to-be-Disliked-Ichiro-Kishimi-and-Fumitake-Koga-9781760630492 About the Book In this fable-style book, the core concepts of Adlerian psychology are explored and applied to everyday scenarios. It’s a huge bestseller in Asia, with over 3 million copies sold. The book is all about being the person you really want to be – by being less concerned with the opinions of others, your doubts or your past experiences. As more and more people seem to be paralysed in the limbo-land between their truest self and assumptions of others, this book provides refreshing alternative mindset and views. If you suffer with the need to please others, imposter syndrome, the joy-thief of comparison or a tendency to attribute your current situation to your previous experiences then this will provide a challenging and worthwhile perspective. Buy the book from The Book Depository - https://www.bookdepository.com/The-Courage-to-be-Disliked/9781760630492/?a_aid=stephsbookshelf Would you like to take better notes from the books you read?  Get your copy of Archley's beautiful book journal, the Book of Books here: https://www.archleys.com/?ref=JamVyS-U4mVR   BIG IDEA 1 (2:56) – Denying determinism. This is the concept of denying trauma – even from awful life events – and recognising your have the choice on how to respond to it.  For instance, just because something bad happened to you it doesn’t mean that your life will be bad as a result of it. We often see this in our own lives, or those around us today, but by denying the idea of determinism, we realize that our past does not determine our future. In some cases, we behave in a certain way to achieve a goal or live according to other people’s view. One of the biggest points shared in this book is that most of us lack the courage to be happy – because it requires change. This is why some people choose to live a miserable or unhappy life because being happy requires challenging changes. BIG IDEA 2 (6:24) – Own your tasks. Each one of us has our own tasks and we should not interfere with other people’s tasks. These three tasks are work, friendship and love. One of the most important ideas here is not looking for or seeking recognition from others – just focusing on your own tasks and our contribution to others/society. If we need other people to interfere with us, recognize us or celebrate our achievement, we are worried about what other people think about us and not who we truly want to be. This idea comes down to freedom, or the courage to be disliked. This is about not needing other people’s recognition, reward or validation to feel like we have contributed. Focus on your own tasks – work, love and friendships. BIG IDEA 3 (7:33) – All problems are all interpersonal relationship problems. Most interpersonal relationship problems (think comparison, jealousy, imposter syndrome, regret etc) are solved by first accepting yourself as you are. When we do not accept ourselves, sometimes this is used as an excuse to dislike or make assumptions about what others think. The great idea here is that you are the only who is worried about you!  If we think about it, when we are only worried about ourselves, we can do more of what we really want to do. One great quote shared in the book is “We cannot alter objective facts but subjective interpretations can be altered as one likes.” Most of the things around us are purely subjective, so if someone does not like something, it’s their opinion and doesn’t matter. The book is very clear that it is not about doing things that would purposely hurt others, but that the subjective opinions of others aren’t as important and defining as we often make them out to be.   Music By: Paper Airplanes By Cody Martin   Let’s Connect   LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/steph-clarke   Instagram: @stephsbizbookshelf   Enjoying the show?   Please hit subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and leave a review on iTunes to help others find us.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join two social scientists as they discuss Martin Luther King's 1967 speech to the American Psychological Association. During this speech, Dr. King urged Social scientists to "tell it like it" in regards to issues related to Civil Rights movements and challenges in society. During this episode, Dr. Kimberly is joined by Hallie M. Williams Sr. Hallie is a Master's level Clinical psychotherapist in St. Paul Minnesota. He is the President and Executive Director of Squared Away Youth (A nonprofit Cooperation in Minnesota) and Vice President at NASAP: North American Society of Adlerian Psychology. These two social scientists spend an hour discussing personal and professional thoughts related to Dr. King's speech, components of Adlerian theory, and the connection between social scientists and social justice. To Contact Hallie, please email halliesr@yahoo.com Join Dr. Kimberly on Saturday, November 28th at 10 am as she continues the discussion and presentation on Social Justice and thoughts post-election https://bit.ly/359bIQr Tea and therapy podcast and community events are donation-based events. You may listen and attend for free, donations received this month will benefit the Poor people campaign in Indiana. https://www.poorpeoplescampaign.org/committee/indiana/ To Donate to Tea and Therapy: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/TeaAndTherapy --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/Tea-and-Therapy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Tea-and-Therapy/support

Pascale Brady, founder and President of Global Life Coaching LLC is The Challenge Coach ©.  A business coach and consultant, life coach, and mentor coach with 30+ years of professional experience, both in the corporate world and as an entrepreneur, she guides executives and managers individually or as part of groups or teams to successfully master their challenges and effectively resolve problems. In her work, she draws upon The Coaches Training Institute's (CTI) Co-Active model of coaching, Relationship Systems Coaching, Adlerian Psychology, Positive Psychology, Imago Theory, and Action Learning, to encourage courageous growth, respectful communication, and meaningful conversations. With a keen awareness of each client's bottom line, Pascale draws upon vast corporate experience to productively lead executives and managers to realize better performance. Her unique style of coaching – fearless, energetic, and enthusiastic – is wrapped in deep human compassion, which has helped her many clients plow through obstacles to achieve desired results.In this episode, Dean Newlund and Pascale Brady discuss:Calming your brain and facing your day while persevering through tough situations.Being aware of the energy you are putting out into the universe.Being grateful and showing gratitude even when faced with hardship. Play your life: the coaching game.Key Takeaways:Most problems compared to dealing with this pandemic are trivial, it puts things in perspective.A challenge requires daily structure and a daily plan to get through while still being appreciative of yourself. The importance of recognizing the emotions the most strongly experienced in difficult situations.Creating a structure to give us back a sense of control. "Coaches and therapists are a needed profession right now." —  Pascale Brady  See Dean's TedTalk “Why Business Needs Intuition” here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EEq9IYvgV7I Connect with Pascale Brady:  Website: www.thechallengecoach.comTwitter: @pascalbradyFacebook: Pascale.Brady.TheChallengeCoachLinkedIn: The Challenge CoachEmail: pascale.brady@thechallengecoach.com  Connect with Dean:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgqRK8GC8jBIFYPmECUCMkwWebsite: https://www.mfileadership.com/The Mission Statement E-Newsletter: https://www.mfileadership.com/blog/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deannewlund/Twitter: https://twitter.com/deannewlundFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MissionFacilitators/Email: dean.newlund@mfileadership.comPhone: 1-800-926-7370

In this final episode about Adlerian Psychology we focus on why it is important to "process what happens" - something that Adler was rather dismissive about. Apparently it is often important to understand ourselves and the people around us better before we can 'move on'. Otherwise we lose the connection to our actual needs and get stuck where we are.

Liz Berholz (B.A./B.Sc.) is a Certified Parent Educator, an Adler Institute-Trained Life & Professional Coach, a speaker, and a mother. She earned her BA/BSc in Biology and History at Dalhousie University, worked in HR and Marketing on Wall Street and Bay Street—but the move to motherhood proved a transformative one. This shift morphed into a mission: to help families move beyond the yelling, nagging and frustrations often associated with everyday parenting. Since COVID, her coaching on corporate resiliency training has seen a boom in clientele. - Adler International, Adler-Trained Life & Professional Coach (A.T.C.) - International Coaching Federation, ACC Certified Coach, ICF Member - Ontario Society of Adlerian Psychology, ONSAP Member - Parent Education Network, Facilitator & Parent Educator Website https://lizbparenting.com/

We build on our first conversation about Adlerian Psychology and focus in this episode on the concept of 'the courage to be disliked'. We discuss it from different angles and come to the conclusion that it has to be reframed in order to make sense. The discussion is partly based on the two books: "The Courage to be Disliked" and "The Courage to be Happy", both by Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi. For suggestions or online sessions contact me at https://www.elliscounselling.com

Alfred Adler was a contemporary of Freud and for several years influenced by his thought. He then went on to develop the movement of 'Individual Psychology'. This movement became influential, both in therapy and pedagogy and is still important today in self-development and inspirational psychology. We discuss some Adlerian thoughts today based on two books: "The Courage to be Disliked" and "The Courage to be Happy", both by Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi. For suggestions or online sessions contact me at https://www.elliscounselling.com

Q1 (6:17) My 18 yo DD has severe depression / anxiety and spends her days on Netflix and has stopped doing homework. I am done policing. What else can I do?  Q2 (10:38) My family has been following the COVID protocols, but the grandparents have not.  With bubbles opening, how do I let them know they can’t hug or kiss the grandkids without hurting their feelings?   Additional Adlerian Resources to Check out:  NASAP North American Society for Adlerian Psychology  ICASSI International Committee of Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes Adlerpedia All Things Adler

Vincent Spera 4 of 4. Episodes 17 - 20 are an interview with Vincent Spera, a self-defense and leadership instructor who is pursuing his PhD in Adlerian Psychology. Topics explored include individual psychology, deescalation, empowerment of trauma survivors and spirituality.

Vincent Spera 3 of 4. Episodes 17 - 20 are an interview with Vincent Spera, a self-defense and leadership instructor who is pursuing his PhD in Adlerian Psychology. Topics explored include individual psychology, deescalation, empowerment of trauma survivors and spirituality.

Welcome to the first full episode of Tea and Therapy.  In this episode, Dr. Kimberly provides a brief overview of Adlerian and Individual Psychology, while Joi pours the tea with her tea knowledge.  During this episode, Dr. Kimberly discusses the basics of Adlerian Psychology while Joi provides insights on the various types of teas.  Join us and please remember to subscribe, rate and share the episode.  Are there topics you'd like to hear on Tea and Therapy? Be sure to leave a message or send an email to TeaAndTherapy@drkimberlym.com   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/Tea-and-Therapy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Tea-and-Therapy/support

Vincent Spera 2 of 4. Episodes 17 - 20 are an interview with Vincent Spera, a self-defense and leadership instructor who is pursuing his PhD in Adlerian Psychology. Topics explored include individual psychology, deescalation, empowerment of trauma survivors and spirituality.

Vincent Spera 1 of 4. Episodes 17 - 20 are an interview with Vincent Spera, a self-defense and leadership instructor who is pursuing his PhD in Adlerian Psychology. Topics explored include martial arts, individual psychology, deescalation, empowerment of trauma survivors and spirituality.

Jane Nelsen, Mary Maguire: Adlerian Psychology and Education | Steve Hargadon | Aug 2 2011 by Steve Hargadon

Join the Joyful Courage Tribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage.  Raising our children while growing ourselves... :::: Hey friends!  Can’t believe that it is nearly halfway through June! -       Book launch – IG Giveaway -       JCA Teens program -       NASAP and TP -       Looking ahead at the summer -       Planning for next fall o   More JCA Teens o   Possible JCA Tweens/Preteens o   Live workshops/classes Today I want to get back to basics. I am a Positive Discipline Trainer. My recent time in Tucson at NASAP and co-facilitating the TP has brought me back to the building blocks of positive discipline…. I am also finding myself on exploratory calls with new clients who are eager to do one on one work and looking for resources to share what the philosophy of PD is all about, with the Joyful Courage spin, or course. So, I decided I would do a show about it. I am excited to share, and if you are someone who feels like you know all about PD, I invite you to listen from a place of curiosity and wonder – to catch yourself when you think “I know all of this” and shift into “what is here for me to learn?”  Because that is one of my favorite things about this work – there are so many layers. Right when I think “oh yeah, NOW I get it” life throws me something new, or my kids step into a new place of development, or I just simply find myself back in my old ways of thinking (because it is so darn familiar) and I realize, yet again, that there is more to learn…. Excited? Me too. A lot of people hear the words, Positive Discipline and assume that it is all about being nice while we dole out consequences to our kids. Or they get really stuck on the word “positive “ and think it is all about being permissive and letting our kids run the show. Some people mistakenly believe that PD parents don’t ever want their kids to feel bad, and perhaps lump PD with helicoptering, coddling or enabling our kids.  This is totally NOT what PD is all about. To start, one thing I really appreciate about Positive Discipline is that it is a program that has it’s roots in Adlerian Psychology. Alfred Adler was one of the first social psychologists. He worked with individuals and families and found, time and time again, that human behavior was motivated by a sense of belonging and significance. He found that we are always moving towards, or moving from, our sense of connection and knowing that we matter.  And when behavior starts to look like mischief, it can be linked back to the individuals perception of belonging and significance. Jane Nelsen, the author and co-author of the library of Positive Discipline books, talks about belonging and significance as our longing for love and responsibility.   -       Kind and firm -       Belonging and significance -       Mutual respect/dignity for all -       Encouragement -       Social interest -       Take time for training -       The courage to be imperfect/mistakes as opportunities to learn -       We always have a choice ::::: Joyful Courage: Calming the drama and taking control of your parenting journey  This book is all about how to show up as a Joyful Courage parent so that you have better access to the tools you need in hot parenting moments – tools that are helpful and maintain connection with your child. THE BOOK IS READY FOR YOU TO BUY– Go to www.joyfulcourage.com/book The best way to stay up to date on the book news is to join my newsletter list, if you haven’t already.  Sign up at www.joyfulcourage.com/join  Thank you to everyone that has been so encouraging on this journey!!!  I appreciate you!!!! ::::: Be a Subscriber Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on Apple Podcast to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!!  AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast to help me spread the show to an ever-larger audience!! CLICK HERE to watch a video that shows up how to subscribe with your iPhone!

Special guest: Vicki Hoefle. Ask an audience of parents to shout out the most annoying behaviors their children exhibit that they desperately want to get rid of—there won't be lack of answers. From fighting and hitting to getting up from the table, getting out of bed, making a mess, whining and talking back—parents have a bunch of challenges they are trying to solve to make their family homes more peaceful, their mornings or evening routines easier and their kids more cooperative or responsible. But what if I told you that the strategies we often employ to deal with these frustrating behaviors was, well, wrong? From nagging to judging, correcting, time-outs, reminding, lecturing and saving—our strategies might just be mere bandaids –or the very things that are making the behaviors worse? And what if there were actually strategies—governed by a key parenting philosophy-- that could make it better—and help our kids to become confident, competence, responsible members of society? What in the world could make this magical philosophy work so well? You might be surprised by the answer—it's Duct tape. Vicki Hoefle is a popular parent educator, speaker and author of Duct Tape Parenting: A Less Is More Approach to Raising Respectful, Responsible, and Resilient Kids and The Straight Talk on Parenting: A No Nonsense Approach on How to Grow a Grownup. She has Helped thousands of families for over two decades by sharing her parenting tips and techniques across the country. She combines expertise in Adlerian Psychology with a suite of actionable, time-tested tools. A master story teller who is part comedian, part sage, mostly parent, Vicki offers ways to strengthen and enhance the parent-child relationship and bring out the best in each parent, the best in each child, and the best in each encounter. Vicki Hoefle leads parent education programs nationwide. Vicki's parenting philosophy and approach to raising “thinking” children, does not include “getting children” to comply or using so-called “discipline” strategies (which include nagging, reminding, lecturing, bribing, counting, and time-outing) for dealing with pesky behaviors. Her strategies work for every family—and we couldn't be more excited to talk about them today. The post How to Use Duct Tape Parenting to Raise Respectful, Responsible & Resilient Kids with Vicki Hoefle appeared first on drrobynsilverman.com.

Special guest: Vicki Hoefle. Ask an audience of parents to shout out the most annoying behaviors their children exhibit that they desperately want to get rid of—there won't be lack of answers. From fighting and hitting to getting up from the table, getting out of bed, making a mess, whining and talking back—parents have a bunch of challenges they are trying to solve to make their family homes more peaceful, their mornings or evening routines easier and their kids more cooperative or responsible. But what if I told you that the strategies we often employ to deal with these frustrating behaviors was, well, wrong? From nagging to judging, correcting, time-outs, reminding, lecturing and saving—our strategies might just be mere bandaids –or the very things that are making the behaviors worse? And what if there were actually strategies—governed by a key parenting philosophy-- that could make it better—and help our kids to become confident, competence, responsible members of society? What in the world could make this magical philosophy work so well? You might be surprised by the answer—it's Duct tape. Vicki Hoefle is a popular parent educator, speaker and author of Duct Tape Parenting: A Less Is More Approach to Raising Respectful, Responsible, and Resilient Kids and The Straight Talk on Parenting: A No Nonsense Approach on How to Grow a Grownup. She has Helped thousands of families for over two decades by sharing her parenting tips and techniques across the country. She combines expertise in Adlerian Psychology with a suite of actionable, time-tested tools. A master story teller who is part comedian, part sage, mostly parent, Vicki offers ways to strengthen and enhance the parent-child relationship and bring out the best in each parent, the best in each child, and the best in each encounter. Vicki Hoefle leads parent education programs nationwide. Vicki's parenting philosophy and approach to raising “thinking” children, does not include “getting children” to comply or using so-called “discipline” strategies (which include nagging, reminding, lecturing, bribing, counting, and time-outing) for dealing with pesky behaviors. Her strategies work for every family—and we couldn't be more excited to talk about them today. The post How to Use Duct Tape Parenting to Raise Respectful, Responsible & Resilient Kids with Vicki Hoefle appeared first on drrobynsilverman.com.

Special guest: Vicki Hoefle. Ask an audience of parents to shout out the most annoying behaviors their children exhibit that they desperately want to get rid of—there won’t be lack of answers. From fighting and hitting to getting up from the table, getting out of bed, making a mess, whining and talking back—parents have a bunch of challenges they are trying to solve to make their family homes more peaceful, their mornings or evening routines easier and their kids more cooperative or responsible. But what if I told you that the strategies we often employ to deal with these frustrating behaviors was, well, wrong? From nagging to judging, correcting, time-outs, reminding, lecturing and saving—our strategies might just be mere bandaids –or the very things that are making the behaviors worse? And what if there were actually strategies—governed by a key parenting philosophy-- that could make it better—and help our kids to become confident, competence, responsible members of society? What in the world could make this magical philosophy work so well? You might be surprised by the answer—it’s Duct tape. Vicki Hoefle is a popular parent educator, speaker and author of Duct Tape Parenting: A Less Is More Approach to Raising Respectful, Responsible, and Resilient Kids and The Straight Talk on Parenting: A No Nonsense Approach on How to Grow a Grownup. She has Helped thousands of families for over two decades by sharing her parenting tips and techniques across the country. She combines expertise in Adlerian Psychology with a suite of actionable, time-tested tools. A master story teller who is part comedian, part sage, mostly parent, Vicki offers ways to strengthen and enhance the parent-child relationship and bring out the best in each parent, the best in each child, and the best in each encounter. Vicki Hoefle leads parent education programs nationwide. Vicki’s parenting philosophy and approach to raising “thinking” children, does not include “getting children” to comply or using so-called “discipline” strategies (which include nagging, reminding, lecturing, bribing, counting, and time-outing) for dealing with pesky behaviors. Her strategies work for every family—and we couldn’t be more excited to talk about them today. The post How to Use Duct Tape Parenting to Raise Respectful, Responsible & Resilient Kids with Vicki Hoefle appeared first on drrobynsilverman.com.

Special guest: Vicki Hoefle. Ask an audience of parents to shout out the most annoying behaviors their children exhibit that they desperately want to get rid of—there won’t be lack of answers. From fighting and hitting to getting up from the table, getting out of bed, making a mess, whining and talking back—parents have a bunch of challenges they are trying to solve to make their family homes more peaceful, their mornings or evening routines easier and their kids more cooperative or responsible. But what if I told you that the strategies we often employ to deal with these frustrating behaviors was, well, wrong? From nagging to judging, correcting, time-outs, reminding, lecturing and saving—our strategies might just be mere bandaids –or the very things that are making the behaviors worse? And what if there were actually strategies—governed by a key parenting philosophy-- that could make it better—and help our kids to become confident, competence, responsible members of society? What in the world could make this magical philosophy work so well? You might be surprised by the answer—it’s Duct tape. Vicki Hoefle is a popular parent educator, speaker and author of Duct Tape Parenting: A Less Is More Approach to Raising Respectful, Responsible, and Resilient Kids and The Straight Talk on Parenting: A No Nonsense Approach on How to Grow a Grownup. She has Helped thousands of families for over two decades by sharing her parenting tips and techniques across the country. She combines expertise in Adlerian Psychology with a suite of actionable, time-tested tools. A master story teller who is part comedian, part sage, mostly parent, Vicki offers ways to strengthen and enhance the parent-child relationship and bring out the best in each parent, the best in each child, and the best in each encounter. Vicki Hoefle leads parent education programs nationwide. Vicki’s parenting philosophy and approach to raising “thinking” children, does not include “getting children” to comply or using so-called “discipline” strategies (which include nagging, reminding, lecturing, bribing, counting, and time-outing) for dealing with pesky behaviors. Her strategies work for every family—and we couldn’t be more excited to talk about them today. The post How to Use Duct Tape Parenting to Raise Respectful, Responsible & Resilient Kids with Vicki Hoefle appeared first on drrobynsilverman.com.

About the Authors Ichiro Kishimi was born in Kyoto, where he still lives, in 1956. He has aspired to become a philosopher since his days in high school. Since 1989, while specialising in Classical Western philosophy, with a special focus on Platonic philosophy, he has researched Adlerian psychology; he writes and lectures on the subject, and provides counselling for “youths” in psychiatric clinics as a certified counsellor and consultant for the Japanese Society of Adlerian Psychology.   Fumitake Koga, an award-winning professional writer and author, was born in 1973. He has released numerous bestselling works of business-related and general non-fiction. He encountered Adlerian psychology in his late twenties, and was deeply affected by its conventional wisdom-defying ideas. Thereafter, Koga made numerous visits to Ichiro Kishimi in Kyoto, gleaned from him the essence of Adlerian psychology, and took down the notes for the classical “dialogue format” method of Greek philosophy that is used in this book. (Source: https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/books/general-books/self-help- practical/The-Courage-to-be-Disliked-Ichiro-Kishimi-and-Fumitake-Koga-9781760630492) About the Book   In this fable-style book, the core concepts of Adlerian psychology are explored and applied to everyday scenarios. It’s a huge bestseller in Asia, with over 3 million copies sold.  The book is all about being the person you really want to be – by being less concerned with the opinions of others, your doubts or your past experiences. As more and more people seem to be paralysed in the limbo-land between their truest self and assumptions of others, this book provides refreshing alternative mindset and views. If you suffer with the need to please others, imposter syndrome, the joy-thief of comparison or a tendency to attribute your current situation to your previous experiences then this will provide a challenging and worthwhile perspective. BIG IDEA 1 (2:56) - Denying determinism. This is the concept of denying trauma - even from awful life events - and recognising your have the choice on how to respond to it.  For instance, just because something bad happened to you it doesn’t mean that your life will be bad as a result of it. We often see this in our own lives, or those around us today, but by denying the idea of determinism, we realize that our past does not determine our future.   In some cases, we behave in a certain way to achieve a goal or live according to other people’s view. One of the biggest points shared in this book is that most of us lack the courage to be happy - because it requires change. This is why some people choose to live a miserable or unhappy life because being happy requires challenging changes.   BIG IDEA 2 (6:24) - Own your tasks. Each one of us has our own tasks and we should not interfere with other people’s tasks. These three tasks are work, friendship and love. One of the most important ideas here is not looking for or seeking recognition from others - just focusing on your own tasks and our contribution to others/society.   If we need other people to interfere with us, recognize us or celebrate our achievement, we are worried about what other people think about us and not who we truly want to be.   This idea comes down to freedom, or the courage to be disliked. This is about not needing other people’s recognition, reward or validation to feel like we have contributed. Focus on your own tasks - work, love and friendships.   BIG IDEA 3 (7:33) - All problems are all interpersonal relationship problems. Most interpersonal relationship problems (think comparison, jealousy, imposter syndrome, regret etc) are solved by first accepting yourself as you are. When we do not accept ourselves, sometimes this is used as an excuse to dislike or make assumptions about what others think.   The great idea here is that YOU are the only who is worried about you!  If we think about it, when we are only worried about ourselves, we can do more of what we really want to do. One great quote shared in the book is “We cannot alter objective facts but subjective interpretations can be altered as one likes.” Most of the things around us are purely subjective, so if someone does not like something, it’s their opinion and doesn’t matter.   The book is very clear that is not about doing things that would purposely hurt others, but that the subjective opinions of others aren’t as important and defining as we often make them out to be. Click here to buy on The Book Depository  Let's Connect Email - steph@stephclarke.com LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/steph-clarke  IG - @stephsbizbookshelf Visit www.stephsbusinessbookshelf.com for full shownotes  

Dr. Kelli Ritter earned her Ph.D. in Counseling from Georgia State University where she developed a passion for Adlerian Psychology, play therapy and traumatology. She has spent the last twenty years working with children, teens and families in various roles through counseling, parent education and consulting services. As an Associate Professor in counseling, Dr. Kelli is most proud of developing the very popular Wellness and Resilience in Counseling elective course at Argosy, Atlanta and she currently provides workshops, retreats and trainings in the areas of wellness, trauma-competent supervision and wholehearted living. Kelli and Sarah discuss the less glamorous aspects of self-care that can make a big difference, the absolute messiness of spiritual awakening and how looking at our own wounds can help us be better at empathy. Learn more about Kelli in the full show notes for this episode at: headhearttherapy.com/podcast   Let’s be friends! ~Sarah You can find me in the following places... Website: www.headhearttherapy.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WoundedHealr/ https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartTherapy/ Instagram: @headhearttherapy Twitter: @WoundedHealr @HeadHeart_Chi

At this year's Adlerian Summer School Peter Armstrong had the opportunity to sit down with one of the keynote speakers, Mia Levitt Frank, a psychotherapist and Director of the Adlerian School of Coaching in Israel. 

Hi everyone, Please join me, Jorianne The Coffee Psychic , tonight, with my guest Dr. Al  Milliren , At www.BlogTalkRadio/JorianneTheCoffeePsychic.com  live tonight September 3rd at 8:00 PM  CST as we explore the field of Adlerian Psychology and how it relates to your life. what were your early life experiences and what did you decide about life and how those decisions influences your life today.Call in with your questions!  Both for De Al and Jorianne!   Feel free to call in with any questions or stories at 347-633-9404 or call 219-940-9292 to schedule your very Psychic Reading or House Party

Hi everyone, Please join me, Jorianne The Coffee Psychic , tonight, with my guest Dr. Al  Milliren , At www.BlogTalkRadio/JorianneTheCoffeePsychic.com  live tonight September 3rd at 8:00 PM  CST as we explore the field of Adlerian Psychology and how it relates to your life. what were your early life experiences and what did you decide about life and how those decisions influences your life today.Call in with your questions!  Both for De Al and Jorianne!   Feel free to call in with any questions or stories at 347-633-9404 or call 219-940-9292 to schedule your very Psychic Reading or House Party

Mental Help Net (www.mentalhelp.net) presents the Wise Counsel Podcast (wisecounsel.mentalhelp.net), hosted by David Van Nuys, Ed.D. "Rebecca LaFountain, Ed.D. on Adlerian Psychotherapy". In this edition of the Wise Counsel Podcast, Dr. Van Nuys interviews Rebecca LaFountain, Ed.D. on the topic of Adlerian Psychotherapy. Adlerian psychotherapy is based on the work of Alfred Adler, who is best known as an early disciple of Sigmund Freud who broke away to pursue his own independent line of psychotherapy. Adler is the originator of many psychological concepts that remain popular today, including the the idea that birth order is an important determinant of personality, and the "inferiority complex", although they are not always tightly identified as originating with Adler. Dr. LaFountain reviews Adler's contributions and clarifies frequently misunderstood concepts. As presented by Dr. LaFountain, Adler was a man "ahead of his time" who anticipated hugely popular later developments in psychotherapy including positive psychology, family systems and humanistic person-centered therapy.