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You can listen wherever you get your podcasts, OR— BRAND NEW: we've included a fully edited transcript of our interview at the bottom of this post.In this episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, Corey and I discuss why “Special Time”- the gold standard for cultivating connection with our kids- might not work the best for complex kids. We cover who complex kids are, what parenting them looks like, how to co-create interests and activities together, and being playful to connect deeply while getting through the daily routine.**If you'd like an ad-free version of the podcast, consider becoming a supporter on Substack! > > If you already ARE a supporter, the ad-free version is waiting for you in the Substack app or you can enter the private feed URL in the podcast player of your choice.Know someone who might appreciate this post? Share it with them!We talk about:* 6:43 What is Special Time?* 7:51 What is a complex Kid?* 10:08 What does it look like to parent a complex Kid?* 19:30 What does daily life look like with complex Kids?* 22:03 What to do for connection when special time doesn't work?* 23:05 Cultivating shared hobbies* 27:00 Finding books you both love* 30:00 Instead of only putting kids in organized sports, exercise together!* 33:30 Sideways listening with our kids* 37:00 Playful parenting as we move through the daily routineResources mentioned in this episode:* Yoto Player-Screen Free Audio Book Player* The Peaceful Parenting Membership* What you Can Do When Parenting Hard: Coaching with Joanna * When Peaceful Parenting Doesn't Look Like It's “Supposed To” Look * How To Take the Coach Approach to Parenting Complex Kids with Elaine Taylor- Klaus * What Influencers are Getting Wrong About Peaceful Parenting * Staying Close to Your Tweens and Teens * How To Stop Fighting About Video Games with Scott Novis * Playful Heart Parenting with Mia Wisinski xx Sarah and CoreyYour peaceful parenting team- click here for a free short consult or a coaching sessionVisit our website for free resources, podcast, coaching, membership and more!>> Please support us!!! 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No one listening or watching and they can't go where you don't want them to go and they aren't watching screens. BUT they are being entertained or kept company with audio that you can buy from YOTO or create yourself on one of their blank cards. Check them out HERESarah: Hey everyone. Welcome back to another episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast. Today's episode is about why you shouldn't do special time, which is, I admit, a little bit of a provocative hook here. But it's something that Corey brought to my attention that we have been talking about a lot. And then after last week's podcast, we both agreed—after the podcast with Joanna and her complex kid—we both agreed we have to talk about this, because this is something that probably a lot of parents are feeling a lot of conflict, guilt, and shame around: not doing special time or not wanting to do special time or not being able to do special time.Sarah: Hey Corey. Welcome back to the podcast. Tell us a little bit about who you are and what you do.Corey: Hi, I am Corey Everett, and I am a trained peaceful parenting coach, and I work for Sarah. I live in Ontario, but I work with clients all over the world doing one-on-one coaching. And I myself am complex and have a complex child. And I have two kids. I never can remember this, but I have a 7-year-old and a 10-year-old.Sarah: I am glad you're not the only one who can't remember their kids' ages. I have to stop and think. Okay. Well, I'm so excited to talk about this. And this is actually something that you and I have talked about over the years, because you have found it really difficult to do special time with your complex kid. Maybe just tell us a little bit about what happened when you tried to do special time and why you eventually sort of gave it up. And, you know, this is something that Joanna in the podcast last week—the coaching podcast—she was talking about how she didn't want to do special time with her kid because she was so exhausted. So I think this is sort of like a two-part: why sometimes special time doesn't work for the kids and why it doesn't work for the parents. So let's start by talking about what happened when you would try to do special time with Big C, who's your 10-year-old.Corey: Okay, so when I would try and do special time with Big C, I actually found—first of all—I didn't really feel very present in it. I felt like I was trying to do it, but I felt like I didn't have a lot of energy for it. I think he could feel that. So I just didn't feel very engaged in it and I just felt exhausted, and it just felt like another thing on my to-do list. And so therefore he didn't necessarily enjoy it as much either.We did do a podcast—it'd be really great, I can put it in the show notes—where we talked about some things for peaceful parenting that aren't working, and I did a really good description in that one of why special time didn't work for him.Sarah: Okay.Corey: And so we can have them listen to that if they want more details on that part. Instead, I think I want to really focus on why it didn't work for me and why I'm finding with my clients it's not working for them either.Sarah: You know what, sorry to interrupt you. I realize we should really just say what special time is, in case—like it's such a gold standard of peaceful parenting—but there could be some parents listening to this, parents or caregivers who are newer to special time and might not know what it is.Special time—and there are, I think, some other brands of parenting that might have other names for it—but basically the gold standard is 15 minutes a day of one-on-one time with you and your child, where you put aside the to-do list, put away your phone, and some people suggest that you set a timer and say, “I'm all yours for the next 15 minutes. What do you want to play?” It's really immersing yourself in the child's world. That's one of the main ideas of special time: that we're immersed in our child's world of pretend play or some kind of play. It can be roughhousing or it can be playing Lego or dolls—something that is really child-centered and child-led.So that is special time. And let's take it from there. You had mentioned already that energetically it was really hard for you.Corey: I think the best way that I can explain this is if I paint the picture for you of what it looks like to be a parent of a complex kid. And—Sarah: Wait let's give a definition of complex—we've got to make sure we're covering the basics here. What's a complex kid?Corey: Okay, so a complex kid. This term, I first heard it from Elaine Taylor-Klaus—and we can also put in the show notes when you had her on the podcast. She is amazing. And basically, we're really often talking about neurodivergent kids here. But it can be more than that. It's just kids who need more.Sarah: It's that 20% of kids that we talk about—the 80% of kids who, you know, you say “Go put your shoes on and wait for me by the door,” and they go and do it and they don't have the extra big feelings. So in my idea of it, it can be neurodivergent and also spirited, sensitive, strong-willed. The kids who are not your average, typical kids. And I always say that when I tell people what I do—parenting coach—some people look at me like, “Why would anyone need a parenting coach?” and other people are like, “Oh, I could have used you when my kids were growing up.”So really there are kids who are—I'm sure they're wonderful—but they're not as more or complex as some other kids.Corey: Kids that you almost don't have to be as intentional about your parenting with.Sarah: Yeah. You don't have to read parenting books or listen to parenting podcasts. I would hazard a guess that most people who listen to this podcast have complex kids.Corey: Yes. They're our people. We always say the people who are our people are the ones who don't have to talk about challenges around putting on shoes.Sarah: I love that.Corey: That seems to be the number one thing we're always talking about.Sarah: We always use that as an example, whether it's sensory or strong-willed or attentional. It is kind of like one of those canary-in-the-coal-mine things. Will your child go and put their shoes on when you ask them to? If the answer is no, you probably have a complex kid.Corey: Yes, I love that it is the canary in the coal mine. So that's what our complex kids are. And for the parents of these kids, I think of these parents as being absolute rock stars. They are just trying so hard to peacefully parent their kids. And, like we said, they're reading all the books, they're listening to this podcast, they've probably signed up for all sorts of online seminars and courses and just do all of the things.Often these parents were not peacefully parented themselves. Most people weren't. So they're learning a whole new parenting style. And a lot of people today are getting all their information off Instagram and TikTok reels that aren't very nuanced, so they're also not getting really full information. They're trying so hard off of all these little sound snippets.Sarah: Or the peaceful parenting or gentle parenting advice that they're being given, and what's supposed to happen just doesn't look like that for their kid. And that reminds me—the other podcast that we did about when peaceful parenting doesn't “work,” we could link to that one too.Corey: Yes. Parents of complex kids are also trying to problem solve so many challenges because the world is often not designed for their kids, and it's often not designed for them.Sarah: Say more about that—about “not designed for their kids.” What's an example of how that might show up?Corey: So an example is conventional schooling. They're expected to go into this noisy environment and just be able to eat the food they've been sent and listen all day and stay in their seats and learn the same way that everyone else is learning. I didn't really realize how complex my kid was until I tried to send him to daycare.Sarah: I was just thinking about the spirit days at Big C's school, and how you've shared with me that those spirit days—like pajama day or “everyone wear the school colors day”—for some typical kids can be exciting and fun and a diversion. And for complex kids that can cause a whole level of stress and anticipation and the change of routine. Other parents of non-complex kids might be like, “Whatever, it's not a big deal.” For our complex kids, it throws them for a loop.Corey: Yes. My first moment of starting to realize there was something I needed to pay more attention to was they were having a movie day at Big C's daycare, and they said he kept covering his ears and hiding. And that was my first idea that every other kid was so excited that it was movie day. They'd been looking forward to it. And for my child it was just so loud, and then suddenly the lights were turned off, and the whole situation was throwing him off.So that's what I mean. We're designing the world for kids who are excited about movie day or special event days. But for complex kids, this is a complete change in their routine and all sorts of different sensory things that are happening that can make it really hard for them.Sarah: Or that they can't handle as much as other kids. I have a client who was just talking about how she's realized for her son, who's nine, that they literally can't do anything after school. They can't stop at the store and run in and grab a few things. They really just have to come straight home and not do anything extra or different. And he does so much better when he can just come home and unwind and needs that.Corey: Yes, exactly. So the world wasn't designed for them. And then consequently, the world was often not designed for those parents either. So many of the people we work with—including ourselves—only start to realize how complex we are once we start identifying it in our children. So it's just not really an accommodated world.Sarah: So talk about how that has led to burnout for you. And by the way, when you started talking about rock stars—in the membership the other day, in office hours, one of our members, I'll call him D, who works incredibly hard and has two very complex kids, was just sharing how dark and hard life had been feeling for him lately. And I said, honestly, I just want to give you a medal. And I grabbed this off my desk and held it up—this silver milagro from Mexico that's a bleeding heart. It was the closest thing I had to a medal.But I really feel like so many parents who have hard or more complex kids, all they feel is that they're doing a bad job. They don't realize that they're up against something other people are not up against. They don't realize that because that's all they know—unless you have one kid that's not complex and one that is—you just don't know that you're working so hard and things are still hard. It feels like you must be doing something wrong or failing. What they don't realize is that you can do everything “right” in peaceful parenting, and things are still really hard if you've got a complex kid.Corey: Yes. And the last thing I want to say to help paint this picture is that these parents—part of what they're dealing with, and I actually think this is huge—all parents today have a huge amount of family admin: managing appointments and things from the school and all those kinds of things. But that's this other crushing weight we're carrying as parents with complex kids: the admin.Sarah: Right.Corey: The amount of communication we have to do with daycare providers and teachers almost every day at points—Sarah: And also the searching. I've watched you go through this, and I watched my sister go through this, and countless clients. The searching to try to figure out what exactly is going on with my kid so that I can best support them. And even with the privilege you have and my sister has in terms of being able to access specialists and testing and all of that—even with that privilege—it's still almost a full-time job. And then getting the OT or the supports too.Corey: Yes. I started for this podcast listing some of the people I've had to coordinate with over the years, and I was like: different types of medical doctors, occupational therapists, speech-language pathologists, psychologists, social workers, dieticians… so many. And just so much coordinating and searching. And the other thing that's hard is you also then have homework from each of these people. So not only do you have to make appointments and get your children to appointments, you then have to fill out all this paperwork to get reimbursed or get payment sorted. Then there's all the paperwork they want you to sign for ongoing parts of that. Then they have homework for the kids that they're supposed to be doing all the time to help them with whatever's going on. It's endless.Sarah: Yeah. And then there's the day-to-day. Tell us—paint a little picture of the day-to-day living. Not only do we have the world that isn't built for them or for you, and then all of the extra stuff that goes along with having a complex kid, but then the day-to-day life. Speak to that a little bit.Corey: Yeah. I think that's the thing you just see is so painful to talk about for all the people in our membership and our clients, and I've experienced it firsthand. You had children to add love to your family. And then you love them so much and you're struggling because there's chronic dysregulation, and they're having such a hard time getting through your daily routines, and they need more supervision than the average child does. Just getting through the day can be really challenging when you have a complex kid. And then if you yourself are complex, your nervous system is getting completely overwhelmed by trying to be the calm for everyone's storms.Sarah: It's a lot, Corey. I understand why you get emotional about it. It's a lot. And you're still in the thick of it with two young kids. I think everyone who's listening to this can relate.Okay. So how and when did you decide that you were going to quit special time, and what does that look like? And—I just want to center us here—the reason why we do special time is for connection, right? Complex kids need connection just as much or more than typical kids. And so just because we're saying you might want to quit special time, it does not mean we're saying you want to quit connection. So what does that look like? What have you found? Because I know you're super connected with your kids. I've seen you together. I know the things they say to you and about you, and that you have an awesome connection. So what do you do for connection when special time does not work?Corey: A big thing that I've been telling clients and that I've done in my life is—first of all, I had to acknowledge to myself, it felt like shame. Because here I am—it's one of the first things we tell everyone we work with: “Are you getting one-on-one time doing special time with your child?” And then I'm sitting there being like, but I don't really do this. I get a ton of one-on-one time with my children. And I think that's at the heart of it. But what I realized is because we're carrying all those weights we talked about, your whole life feels like it's all about this kid. And then to be like, “You know what? Let's make it more about you and give you another 15 minutes,” just feels—I almost felt like I don't have this in me.So I realized: let's pick things that we can do together that are interesting for both them and me. Instead of getting locked in their play and being led by them, I'm finding things that we're co-creating together.Sarah: And can I just note too that you've told me—and I know you said you talked about this in another podcast—but I just want to say it again: a lot of times complex kids' play doesn't look like typical kids' play. So you might be like, “What do you want to play?” and they're like, “I don't know.” They don't have the same kind of “Okay, let's play store and you be this and I'll be this.” Or they play with their toys in a different manner. So it can also be just awkward to insist that you play with them when that's not their style anyway. I just wanted to throw that out there.Corey: Yeah. And, or if I did, they're always telling me I'm doing everything wrong.Sarah: Right. Because I do think that play—I do think that for most kids, even though we're saying don't do special time—I do think that for most kids it is important to put yourself in their world. And I don't want people to think, like, “Okay, this means I never have to try to do special time.” We're just saying if it's not working for you for these various reasons—whether it's because of your own constraints like it was for Joanna, or because it doesn't work for your kid—it doesn't mean that you're doing it wrong and that there's no way to connect and that you should just give up.But I do think that—just a side note—I'd say the majority of kids, play in their world is the key to a lot of connection. But for some complex kids, that just isn't their mode. For some of them.Corey: Yeah. Because I think we were coming out of special time feeling angry.Sarah: Right?Corey: Because we were coming out of it like, “I'm trying to get lost in my child's world,” and he's just like, “You're not doing anything right, Mommy.” It was frustrating for him because he had these ideas and he couldn't really get me to do it right. And I think for some kids that can be really empowering, where they like that feeling of being in control and telling them. But for him it was frustrating because he's like, “I had this vision, and you are just not executing.” I'm like, “I don't know, I'm trying to execute your vision.” So I think that's why for us, I could just tell it wasn't just me—neither of us were finding it was working.Sarah: But—Corey: We were desperately wanting to be together.Sarah: Okay. So you said “finding,” right? I interrupted you when you were talking about finding things that were co-interests—things that work for both of you, co-creating.Corey: Yes. When they were younger, one of the big things I did was buy myself really special pencil crayons and nice watercolor paints because both of them loved doing art. So I could sit and do art with them and use my fancy coloring books and feel very “we are together doing something” that was making me feel really good, but they also felt really happy, and they loved showing me what they were making.Sarah: And did you let them use your stuff? Because I think that would be really hard for me, because you can't really be like, “These are my special things, and you use these Crayola ones.” How did you navigate that?Corey: Okay, so that was really hard. This never would work for my husband, so I'm going to acknowledge for some people this wouldn't work. I let them grab my crayons, and they dropped them a lot. I acknowledged that they were not going to last. But I still wanted good ones available to me. So I had to be flexible. They definitely grabbed them, and the watercolors were wrecked really quickly. But they respected not touching my special brushes for some reason. So I kept my own special brushes for the painting.Sarah: You know, that reminds me—one of our members has a just-newly-3-year-old who's super complex, and she was talking about how she was doing a jigsaw puzzle, like a proper adult thousand-piece jigsaw puzzle. And she was really worried that—since it was on the table in a room where the parents could be—her kid was just going to come in and wreck it. Instead, her child is really good at jigsaw puzzles and is doing them with her. So I think sometimes—she's totally shocked and thrilled that this has become something—and this is clearly a case of coming into the adult world of a thousand-piece jigsaw puzzle. You just reminded me—she put a post in our Facebook group about how… I don't know, did you see that post?Corey: Yeah, I did.Sarah: About how wonderful it's been to have her just-turned-3-year-old do these adult jigsaw puzzles with her. So that's a perfect example of what you're talking about, I think.Corey: I think it's—so I love what you're saying here, because we're always told “go into their world,” but there's something really powerful about letting them into yours. I didn't actually realize that's what I was doing—I've been bringing them into my world with me, and then they feel really special being allowed in there with me. And so it creates this really beautiful thing, but I'm flexible about letting them in there, knowing it's going to look different.Sarah: Right. What are some other things that you've done besides art that might be inspiring?Corey: I realized a long time ago I had to let go of the idea that I needed to read really interesting books to my kids so that every night we could look forward to reading beautiful stories that drew me in. We actually realized bedtime has started getting hard again, and we realized it's because we're in between books. So that is something—and a shout-out to my mom; she's really good at researching books—she's come up with some really cool books that have really diverse characters and really interesting stories. That's been another really important thing: don't just read. I've picked really good books that draw me in.And so last night we actually just started a favorite series of mine. I kid you not, I'm reading to my 10-year-old a feminist fantasy book that I read when I was a tween. It's called Dealing with Dragons, and he actually is loving it.Sarah: Nice. So you're saying—maybe you misspoke—you said you had to give up on reading books that you… beautiful books that you liked. But did you mean that you were finding beautiful books that you liked?Corey: Yeah, sorry, that's—earlier on I felt like I was just reading, you know, books that I thought they would like.Sarah: Oh, okay.Corey: But instead I was like, “The heck with that,” and I found books that I loved, and I started reading those to my kids. And then they loved them. And then that really got us so excited about bedtime.Sarah: Great, great.Corey: We got through it, and we would read that together, and it became—I actually think reading books that I love to my kids has become one of the most important special times that we have each day.Sarah: So another co-creating—something that's interesting to both of you. And it's not necessarily going into their world and reading the Captain Underpants or something that they might like that you find mind-numbingly boring. And maybe Captain Underpants isn't boring—I've never read it—but I'm just using that as an example.Corey: That's a perfect example. So it's like, here, I'm providing those books for them to read to themselves for their reading time. Absolutely—read all the Captain Underpants, the Dog Man you would like. But my goodness, when I'm reading to you, I'm picking something. And look, we've abandoned lots of books that we started reading that they couldn't get into. We keep—we just keep trying.Sarah: Okay. What else—what else is next?Corey: Exercise.Sarah: Okay.Corey: I've realized exercise for me is the number one way for me to deal with stress. Of all things, I need to exercise to help manage stress. And it's very hard to fit in exercise when you have complex kids. So from the time they were little, we've been very flexible about how we've done it. But my husband and I have—once again, instead of picking things they're naturally into (this is starting to sound really funny)—we just brought them into our exercise with us, and they love it. From the time they were little, we had a balance bike for my littlest guy. He was on that balance bike, and we were riding bikes together.So my littlest one ended up being able to ride a regular bike before he was three.Sarah: Same with Maxine. Those balance bikes are amazing. She just—yeah. It's crazy.Corey: Yeah. And sometimes—Sarah: Sometimes you're like, “What have I done?” The 3-year-old is riding off.Corey: It's true. It was unbelievable, though. So we just rode our bikes together. From the time ours were very little, we had them as little guys on—you can get an attachment to your bike—and my husband put them on his road bike with him and would take them for rides on his road bike.Sarah: There's also the trailer bike too, which we had, which is good.Corey: So we did that. We had our youngest on skis when he was two. COVID kind of interrupted some of that, but now we ski every weekend with our kids, and we decided to do that instead of putting them into organized sports so that we would all be doing it together.Sarah: Oh, I love that. Instead of dropping them off and they're playing soccer, you're all doing stuff together.Corey: Yes.Sarah: I mean, and you could—and, you know, for other families—you could just go and kick the ball. Or I always say, chase your kids around the playground if you feel like you don't have time to exercise but you need to. It can be that simple, right? Kicking the ball around, chasing them around the playground—get some exercise and have some connection time too.Corey: Yeah. One of the ways we got our one son kind of good at running is taking the kite to the park, and we just ran around with the kite. But we started even going to—and I advised another family to do this—going to a track together, because it's a contained area where everyone could run at different speeds. And the really little ones were playing on the inside of the track with soccer balls and things like that, and then everyone else could be running around the track.Sarah: Love it.Corey: So getting really creative about literally bringing them into our world of things that we love, and then connecting deeply. And it's one of those things where it's an investment you make over time. It starts small, and you have to be really flexible. And there are these little hands grabbing all your fancy pencil crayons, and you're having to deal with it. And then one day you're sitting beside them, and they're using them themselves—drawing works of art.Sarah: Yeah, yeah.Corey: And it's happening now where my older son and I have been going for runs together around the neighborhood, and we have the best talks ever because I'm sideways listening. We should talk about sideways listening, actually.Sarah: Okay.Corey: So I learned about this from you. You have a great article—I recommend it to everyone—it's called “Staying Close to Your Tweens and Teens,” and that's where you talk about how it's actually easier for people, I think, to have important conversations when you're side to side, because it's not that intensity of looking at each other's faces. This is extra true for neurodivergent people who sometimes have a hard time with eye contact and talking in that way. So we go for these runs together all around our neighborhood, and I hear everything from my son during that time because we're side by side. So it's become special time, where it started when I taught him to come into my world with the track running and all the different things, and now that we're running, he's bringing me into his world.Sarah: Love it. Do you find that a lot of complex kids have special interests—do you find that there's a way that you can connect with them over their special interest? Does that feel connecting to you if it's not something—like, I'm literally just curious about that.Corey: I think that can be tricky, but I do think it's very important. I've learned that I was having a hard time with how much my kids loved video games because I've never liked video games. And, you know, as someone with ADHD, it's so hard to focus on things that I don't find interesting. And I realized that I've spent all this time cultivating bringing them into my world, and we've gotten to such a beautiful, connected space that I do need to go into theirs. And now that they're older, I'm finding it is easier to go into their world, because we're not trying to make some sort of play thing happen that wasn't natural.Sarah: Right.Corey: So I have been making a point now of—I've sat down and been like, “Show me how to play. I'm a beginner. Teach me how to do this.” And I've been playing video games with them. I'm so bad.Sarah: You know, in our podcast with Scott Novus about how to stop fighting with your kids about video games, he says how good it is for kids to see you be bad at something.Corey: They're seeing it.Sarah: I love that.Corey: I'm so bad. I cannot even a little bit. So they find it very funny. I've been playing with them and letting them talk to me about it, and I've found that's been really important too. Because I keep on saying, “Do you see why they love this so much?” And I'm kind of like, yes—and I see what skills you're learning now that I've tried it. It takes so much skill and practice to be good at these complex video games on the Switch and on the PlayStation. So I am learning a lot, and I feel like we are shifting now, where I found a way to connect with them by bringing them along with what I was into, and now that they're older, we are switching where I'm able to go back into their world.Sarah: Right. Love it. So we also—you know, I think delighting is something that probably you still do, and we always talk about that as the low-hanging fruit. If you can't do special time or it doesn't work for you, delighting in your child throughout the day—letting the love that you feel in your heart show on your face, right? And then finally, you talked about using routine—the things that you do throughout the day—as connection. Can you talk about that a little bit before we go?Corey: Yes. So this is where long-time listeners of our podcast know that although special time is a big fail for us, I'm really good at being silly with my kids. Really good at being silly. And I'm very inspired listening to Mia from Playful Heart—Playful Heart Parenting. I think I told you, listening to her talk, it was like the first time I heard someone talking about exactly how I do playful parenting. And it's just injecting play and silliness and drama throughout your everyday things you're doing together. And so we do that all the time to get through the schedule. Especially now, my 10-year-old is starting to act a little too cool for some of this, but it's still really happening with my 7-year-old, where we're always singing weird songs about what we're doing, and I'll take on weird accents and be my characters. I'm not going to demonstrate them here—it's far too embarrassing—but I still have my long-running characters I can't get over.Sarah: You've got, like, the dental hygienist—what's her name?Corey: Karen. Karen the dental hygienist.Sarah: What's the bus driver's name?Corey: I have Brett the bus driver. We have “Deep Breath,” who's like a yogi who comes in when everyone needs to take deep breaths. There's—oh, her name's So? I'm not sure why. So is the dresser who's really serious and doesn't know how to smile. So if my kids ever need help—this has also been a big way that I delight in them, I think—if they ever need help getting dressed (which complex kids need help getting dressed for a long—)Sarah: And even body doubling when they don't need help getting dressed, right?Corey: Yes. So I would always pretend to be a dresser who was sent in to get them dressed in their clothes, and they didn't know how to smile. So they're always trying to teach me how to smile when I'm keeping a serious face. And actually, recently I was doing this and I was having such a hard time not laughing that my lips started visibly quivering trying not to smile and laugh.Sarah: I love that.Corey: I think it was the hardest I've ever seen my 7-year-old laugh. He was on the floor laughing because I was like—Sarah: And for anyone who this sounds hard for—just, you know, it takes practice, and anyone, I think, can learn to be playful. And I love Mia's account—we'll link to that in the show notes. I love Mia's account for ideas just to get you started, because I know you—you're a drama kid. I'm not. But I still found ways to get playful even though it's not my natural instinct. And so you can—this way of getting playful and connecting through the day and through your daily routine—you can do that. It'll take maybe a little practice; you might feel funny at first. But I think it's possible for everyone to do that.So thank you so much. We have to wrap up, but I also want to point out that anyone who wants to connect with you, reach out to us. Corey's available for coaching. She's a wonderful coach. And I have people who specifically ask for Corey because they can relate to Corey's experience as a parent of complex kids. And so, on our website, reimaginepeacefulparenting.com, there is a booking link for a free short consult or for a coaching session. We'll also put that in the show notes. So if you want some more support, please reach out to us. Either of us are here and want to help you.And, Corey, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability—vulnerability about being a parent of a complex kid and sharing how you can do that connection, even if it feels like special time is just too hard and something that doesn't work for you or for your kid. And thanks to Joanna for also inspiring us to get this out there to you all.Corey, before I let you go, I'm going to ask the question I ask all my guests, which is: what would you tell your—you had a time machine and you could go back in time—what would you tell your younger parent self?Corey: Okay.Sarah: About parenting? What do you wish you knew?Corey: I think what I wish I knew—I think this is easier than I thought it would be, because I just told my best friend who just had a baby this—and it's: trust your intuition. I think I spent so much time looking for answers outside of myself, and I could feel they weren't right for my kid or for me, that I was so confused because other people were telling me, “This is what you should be doing.” And the more I've learned to trust my gut instinct and just connect deeply—and this special time example is perfect—I knew it wasn't working for us, and I intuitively knew other ways to do it. And I wish I could have just trusted that earlier.Sarah: And stopped doing it sooner and just gone with the other connection ideas. Yeah. Thank you so much, Corey. This has been so great. And, again, we'll put the link to anyone who wants to book a free short consult or coaching session, and also to our membership, which you've heard us mention a few times, which is just a wonderful space on the internet for people who want some community and support with their complex kid.Thanks, Corey.Corey: Thank you.>> Please support us!!! Please consider becoming a supporter to help support our free content, including The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, our free parenting support Facebook group, and our weekly parenting emails, “Weekend Reflections” and “Weekend Support” - plus our Flourish With Your Complex Child Summit (coming back in the spring for the 3rd year!) All of this free support for you takes a lot of time and energy from me and my team. 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Rachel Kapp, M.Ed., BCET, and Stephanie Pitts, M.Ed., BCET welcome back Diane Dempster, co-founder of Impact Parents. She discusses the different flavors of parent roles in the educational therapy process (“you handle it,” “micromanager,” and “in-betweeners”). She shares about the importance of creating a relationship with parents and personalizing the relationship. She also shares a tool, AC-E (acknowledge, show compassion, wait and explore) that can help diffuse upregulated situations. They once again discuss the differences between boundaries and agreements as well as discussions about recalibration of collaborative agreements.   Connect with Diane: Parenting with Impact impactparenting.com/podcast  Homework Without Headaches Workshop: https://impactparents.securechkout.com/HomeworkWorkshopSpecial?orid=23056&opid=255 10 Parenting Tips for School Success: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/homework-headaches-freebie?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=learn-smarter-podcast&utm_medium=event&utm_content=hh   Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/learnsmarterpodcast   How to connect with us: Join our e-mail list Rachel's Kapp Educational Therapy Group website Steph's My Ed Therapist website  @learnsmarterpodcast, @kappedtherapy, @myedtherapist   Other episodes mentioned:  Ep 135: Parenting your Complex Kid with Elaine Taylor-Klaus (Author Series) Ep 149: How to Prioritize while Parenting with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster (Author Series) Ep 157: Anatomy of the Trigger with Diane Dempster (Parenting Series)

Growing up in the 70s, Elaine was given mixed messaging regarding her expected future role as a woman. As an adult, it didn't take long before she was in full pursuit of trying to change the world, one person at a time. After becoming a mom, Elaine found herself needing to step aside from political activism to focus more on her children, whom she realized struggled more than she expected. With a fiery passion and deep desire to help others, Elaine began to direct her efforts towards helping parents of neurodiverse children, in tangible and compelling ways. Co-founding Impact Parents was the result of a major mindset shift and earning her coaching certification—both shaped by a decade of deep personal challenges in her parenting journey. On today's Success is Subjective episode, Elaine Taylor- Klaus explains to listeners the powerful work she is doing to make a tremendous impact on the neurodiverse community at large. She also infuses some of the most hopeful encouragement and advice for parents who are both grieving their child's life outcomes and working overtime as they try to push their child to succeed in the same ways as their neurotypical peers. If you're facing challenges in your parenting journey, this episode offers encouragement and insight you won't want to miss. Elaine's Resources:Website: Impact Parents IG: @ImpactParentsYouTube: ImpactParentsParenting with Impact Podcast Back On Track Virtual Summit Connect with Joanna Lilley  Therapeutic Consulting AssociationLilley Consulting WebsiteLilley Consulting on Facebook Lilley Consulting on YouTubeEmail joanna@lilleyconsulting.com#TherapeuticConsulting #LilleyConsulting #Successful #YoungAdults #TherapeuticPrograms #Therapy #MentalHealthMatters #Podcast #PodcastCommunity #StudentMentalHealth #TheJourney #SuccessIsSubjectivePodcast #TheUnpavedRoad #PFCAudioVideo #SelfEsteem #ParentingAdvice #ParentingTeens #SuccessfullAdults #RaisingComplexKids #ParentCoaching #ImpactParents #BackOnTrackSummit 

What if the way we view our kids could literally shape their brains? In this eye-opening conversation, Sue Langley blends neuroscience, psychology, and personal stories to explore how strengths-based parenting can shift everything. Whether you're feeling stuck or simply curious, this episode invites you to rethink what's possible for your child and for yourself. What to expect in this episode:Why every brain is “neurodiverse” and why that mattersHow the brain rewires itself through thoughts, emotions, and habitsThe dangers of over-identifying with labels and how to move beyond themHow to use strengths-based parenting to build self-efficacyThe key difference between fixing and supporting your childAbout Sue LangleySue is a global expert in positive psychology, emotional intelligence, and leadership neuroscience. As founder of the Langley Group and academic director of its institute, she turns complex research into practical strategies that help people and organizations thrive.With a master's in the Neuroscience of Leadership and certifications in MSCEIT, Strengths Profile, and Work on Wellbeing, Sue empowers leaders and teams worldwide to lead with purpose, foster wellbeing, and build strengths-based cultures.Connect with Sue:Website: Learn with Sue | Foundation Langley Group | Langley Group | Langley Group InstituteLinkedIn: Sue Langley Related Links:The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approachhttps://tinyurl.com/4zr2yx22When Kids Are Not Living up to Their Potentialhttps://tinyurl.com/22yxkmx6Parents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?https://tinyurl.com/3w9bksj6Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Futurehttps://tinyurl.com/kjp4wh4rWhat to Say to Your Child or Teen about Diagnosis for ADHD by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCChttps://tinyurl.com/puy7ua3tGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Got ADHD? Know someone who does? Ever wonder why so many people with ADHD struggle to get the help they need? It's a fascinating question—and one we dive into on this episode of Attention Talk Radio. Host and ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) sits down with Elaine Taylor-Klaus of Impact Parents (https://impactparents.com) to unpack the barriers that often keep people from seeking or accepting support. They explore the challenges, the nuances, and the hidden dynamics at play. If you or someone you love is navigating ADHD, this is a must-listen episode!  Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com.  Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com.

Raising a teenage son comes with its challenges—shifting moods, boundary-pushing, and the constant pull of screens. So how do you guide them through high school while keeping your relationship strong? In this episode, I sit down with a panel of experts to tackle the biggest parenting struggles, from getting them to open up to setting rules that actually work. Tune in for practical strategies to navigate these years with more confidence and less frustration.WHO'S ON THE PANEL?Sheila Akbar, President & CEO, Signet EducationYour host, and Signet's resident admissions and test-prep expert, Sheila has worked with hundreds of students and parents through learning challenges.Emmaline C, Executive Function SpecialistEmmaline has a Master's in Child Development from the Harvard School of Education and has helped hundreds of our clients effectively talk to their kids about accepting help.Blair M, Academic Skills Coach and School DirectorAs one of our top coaches and the Director of an excellent private school in Ohio, Blair brings years of experience from both sides of the equation.Andrew F, Academic Skills CoachOne of our most popular academic coaches with teenage boys. After a call with Andy, kids go from skeptical to sold that a better way is possible for them.Elaine Taylor-Klaus & Diane Dempster, Parenting ExpertsElaine and Diane are Co-Founders of Impact Parents, and bring to the table vast experience working with parents of neurodiverse children and teens.Access resources here: https://signeteducation.com/events/Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

You've tried the white noise, the cozy bedtime stories, even the perfectly timed evening routine. And still, sleep feels like a nightly mystery. If you relate to this, then this episode is for you! Dial in as we explore the subtle but powerful shifts that can make a real difference for complex kids who struggle to fall and stay asleep with sleep specialist Hilliary Giglio. Don't miss this conversation, which just might offer the clarity and hope you've been looking for. What to expect in this episode:Why “bedtime routine” means something different for every childThe surprising link between sensory processing and sleepWhy sleep strategies often fail and how to tweak themWhat to do when your child is afraid to sleep aloneHow to keep your cool and stop blaming yourself as a parentAbout Hilliary Giglio, MSWHilliary is a certified pediatric sleep specialist, family coach, and the founder of Tranquil Beginnings. With a background in psychology and social work, Hilliary brings over a decade of experience supporting families both professionally and personally. As a mom to two neurodivergent children, including a cancer survivor with low vision and a child navigating ADHD, anxiety, and sensory processing challenges, she understands the complexities that come with parenting kids with unique needs. Through personalized and compassionate sleep plans, Hilliary helps families create calmer nights and brighter days.Connect with Hilliary:Website: Tranquil BeginningsFacebook: Tranquil BeginningsInstagram: @tranquil.beginnings.sleepFree Sleep Resources Library: https://www.tranquil-beginnings.com/learnBook a Complementary Sleep Evaluation Call: https:/q/bit.ly/sleep-evaluation Related Links:Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it):https://tinyurl.com/2t39szrhIt All Starts with Sleep by Ari Tuckman, Psy.D., MBA:https://tinyurl.com/2rdva5jnADHD Identity is Connected to Sleep Management interview with Roberto Olivardia, Ph.D.:https://tinyurl.com/4c8xw978How to Manage ADHD Effectively: 6 Fundamental Steps by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC:https://tinyurl.com/yr7j3vxkDoes Your Child Need a Sleep Doctor? by Lisa Shives, M.D.:https://tinyurl.com/ycxsx8enMy Kid with ADHD Can't Sleep – What Should I Do? interview with David Pomeroy, M.D.:https://tinyurl.com/yk3wfzfs Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

Rebuilding trust within a family is no small feat, especially when past hurts linger. In this episode, Elaine and Diane tackle the complexities of mending relationships and navigating emotional barriers. They share practical insights and a transformative strategy -- cleaning-the-slate conversations -- to guide families in clearing old wounds and creating space for growth and connection.What to expect in this episode:How to acknowledge and address lingering resentments that hinder communicationThe “clean the slate” approach to resetting relationships and moving forwardStrategies for creating alignment and building trust with children of all agesThe importance of focusing on what you want to create in a relationshipHow parents can foster a collaborative environment, even when emotions run high Related Links:RESENTMENT! Understanding, Managing, & Overcoming It: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-066-resentment-understanding-managing-overcoming-it/id1565976964?i=1000569736937Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-092-pushing-the-reset-button-to-solve-problems/id1565976964?i=1000593625796How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-138-how-do-i-get-my-kids-to-talk-to-me-4-communication-tools/id1565976964?i=1000636865856Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative Solutions: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-147-shifting-from-nagging-to-collaborative-solutions/id1565976964?i=1000643612846When you Assume… Assume Best Intention by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/what-don-knotts-can-teach-us-about-communication/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents Sponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Discover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we'll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.What to expect in this episode:How societal ‘beauty' standards impact self-esteem and emotional well-beingPressures parents face and how to embrace grace and imperfectionNavigating feelings of betrayal by your body and finding peace in life's changesThe importance of seeing diverse bodies and brains in media and societyPractical ways to focus on the next step in parenting and self-careAbout Bridgett BrownBridgett is the CEO and founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, offering keynotes, workshops, and one-on-one coaching for individuals from preteens to adults. She empowers people to embrace their self-worth beyond societal expectations. With more than two decades of experience as a professional model, Bridgett combines her industry insights with curated studies in holistic health, body image, and eating disorders. She holds certifications as an Integrated Nutrition Health Coach from IIN, a Body Image Coach from the Institute for Body Image, an Eating Disorder Intuitive Therapy Practitioner from EDIT, and a physical Personal Trainer from WITS. An advocate for women's issues, mental health, and body diversity, she is also the host of Beyond Beauty Project: The Podcast. Connect with Bridgett:Website: Beyond Beauty ProjectInstagram: @beyond.beauty.projectLinkedIn: Bridgett Burrick BrownPodcast: Beyond Beauty Project: The PodcastRelated Links:Good Parenting Is Damage Control:https://tinyurl.com/mumeeru8Parenting With Humility: A Mom's Journey:https://tinyurl.com/wtncdxmkChanging What Kids Believe About Themselves:https://tinyurl.com/4zje4k8pThis Too Shall Pass by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCChttps://tinyurl.com/7c8b5yuzThis is Your Period in 2 Minuteshttps://tinyurl.com/33fhcra7Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

This episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast is a conversation with Elaine Taylor-Klaus who coined the term “complex kids” and has written two books on this subject. We discuss how to take the coach role to support our complex kids through their own journey. Elaine shares how this worked out with her kids who are grown now and how it is never too late to start parenting in this way.    We talk about: 4:25 Elaine's definition of “complex kids” 6:25 Why we need a more accommodated environment at home for complex kids 9:56 How to create flexible structure for complex kids 18:00 Why it is never too late to start peaceful parenting! 19:28 The “coach approach”  26:00 What do parents find hard about the coach approach? 35:00 What do natural consequences look like?   Download the episode transcript HERE   Resources mentioned in this episode: Parenting ADHD (now!) Summit - February 4 - 6, 2025 https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/ParentingADHDNow2025?orid=153391&opid=243 Impact Parents- Helping Parents Help Kids https://impactparents.com/  The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and More https://amzn.to/3PQPFpu Parenting ADHD Now! https://amzn.to/3PQPFpu    Connect with Sarah Rosensweet:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup YouTube: Peaceful Parenting with Sarah Rosensweet @peacefulparentingwithsarah4194 Website: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com   Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  Newsletter: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/newsletter  Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php   

Bedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach approach to foster collaboration, problem-solving, and resilience during these tricky times. From addressing executive function challenges to experimenting with creative wake-up solutions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help families transition smoothly in (and out) of sleep routines.Here is what to expect on this week's show:Why transitions like going to bed and waking up are especially hard for kidsHow to identify the real problem behind sleep struggles and where to beginThe importance of collaboration: involving your kids in finding solutionsMindset shifts: moving from “won't” to “can't” and assuming best intentionsCreative and effective experiments to address sleep and wake-up challengesRelated Links:Articles by Ari Tuckman, Roberto Olivardía, Dr. David Pomeroy, and Dr. Lisa Shives on the ImpactParents.com websitehttps://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/it-all-starts-with-sleep/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kid-with-adhd-cant-sleep/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/child-need-sleep-doctor/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-sleep-trouble/ An article written by Elaine, "Why can't I put myself to sleep?" http://touchstonecoaching.com/blog/2010/3/15/why-cant-i-put-myself-to-bed.html EP196: Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it)https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep196-why-sleep-is-so-hard-for-neurospicy-people-what/id1565976964?i=1000683159184Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsX: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents

Send us a textWelcome to the Moms of Tweens and Teens Podcast!Today, I'm excited to introduce two incredible guests, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-founders of ImpactParents and creators of the acclaimed podcast Parenting with Impact as well as authors of books, Parenting ADHD Now!: Easy Intervention Strategies to Empower Kids with ADHD and Parenting with Impact : Expert Advice to Empower Parents Raising Complex Kids.. These two powerhouses specialize in helping parents of neurodiverse and complex kids navigate the challenges of parenting with greater ease, connection, and understanding.Elaine and Diane are experts in neurodiversity-informed coaching, and they've spent over a decade equipping parents with the tools and strategies they need to build stronger relationships and support their kids' independence. Their work has been transformative for countless families, offering hope and practical solutions to challenges like ADHD, anxiety, executive function struggles, and more.In this episode, we're diving deep into topics like the independence paradox, collaborative problem-solving, and how to manage that fine line between support and enabling. If you've ever found yourself in a power struggle with your tween or teen—or if you're wondering how to rebuild connection and trust—this conversation will give you the clarity and encouragement you need.Get ready to take away actionable insights, fresh perspectives, and the reassurance that you're not alone on this parenting journey. Let's dive in!Where to find Elaine and Diane:Impact Parents Website: https://impactparents.com/Free Resources: https://impactparents.com/resources/Their Books: Parenting ADHD Now!: Easy Intervention Strategies to Empower Kids with ADHD and Parenting with Impact : Expert Advice to Empower Parents Raising Complex Kids.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/Facebook: https://www.facebook.cSupport the showCheck out our Moms of Tweens and Teens website HERESign up for our Moms of Tweens and Teens newsletter HERE Find more encouragement, wisdom, and resources: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Join our Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Momsoftweensandteens Find awesome resources on MOTTs University: https://www.mottsuniversity.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Sheryl also has an Inner Circle weekly Parenting Program with a community of like-minded moms, personal coaching, and tons of resources to equip and support you to love well, navigate the challenges and meet your tween and teen's unique needs during these pivotal years. Get on the waitlist to get all the details and to be the first to know when it opens! https://momsoftweensandteens.lpages.co/waiting-list-for-membe...

In today's podcast, Tania interviews Elaine Taylor-Klaus, CPCC, MCC, and Co-Founder of Impact Parenting. This podcast explores a parenting dilemma that many parents face- what happens when parents have different parenting styles? What if one parent prefers to gentle parent, while another has a more traditional parenting style? Elaine offers tips and strategies on how to co-parent- even when your styles collide- so that family harmony stays intact. Find out more about Elaine's incredible work here.Interested in more from the Institute?The Parenting Handbook: Your Guide to Raising Resilient Children is the ultimate guide to nurturing emotional regulation, resiliency, connection, and well-being in children. Find out more here .Our parenting membership comes with over 100 Parenting & Mental Health Courses and more!. Click here . Listeners can take 40% OFF their annual membership (or $19.99/m). Get your 7-Day Free Trial today!Our professional membership offers affordable, accessible training all in one spot for mental health professionals! Find out more here.We have amazing free parenting content on:YoutubeInstagramFacebook Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Navigating the school system can be overwhelming for parents of children with learning differences. In this episode, Elaine Taylor-Klaus sits down with Alyson Young who shares key information about what parents need to understand to advocate for kids with learning challenges. Tune in to learn how to unlock your child's potential and navigate school support systems and IEPs like a pro!Here is what to expect on this week's show:A clear breakdown of remediation, accommodation, and modificationWhy children with learning differences often slip through the cracksHow to see a diagnosis as empowering informationPractical advice on how to navigate the educational systemActionable steps for advocating effectively for children with learning differencesAbout Alyson YoungAlyson Young, Owner of The Learning Lab, is a dedicated advocate for struggling learners. Having taught in diverse educational settings, she witnessed the challenges faced by students with learning differences, such as ADHD and Dyslexia. Recognizing that traditional approaches often fall short, Aly decided to take action. With a background in psychology and sociology, she founded The Learning Lab to provide a tailored learning environment that fosters success and confidence in these children.Connect with Alyson Young:Website: https://learninglabfl.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learninglabfl/LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyson-young-sld/Email: aly@learninglabfl.comPhone: +1 954-260-0186Related Links:School Refusal: https://tinyurl.com/yh37h7xwWhen the School Says No…How to Get the Yes!: https://tinyurl.com/mrxwnrh5Helping 2E Kids Reach Their Academic Potential: https://tinyurl.com/yckataybRedefining Success For Parents, Students, and Teachers: https://tinyurl.com/m7h5mxpxWhat To Expect For This School Year: https://tinyurl.com/2wm79835Video and Article from Elaine's daughter, Sydney:https://tinyurl.com/bdjtapkbhttps://tinyurl.com/mryxpc6uGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsX: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents

In this episode Brook has guest Elaine Taylor-Klaus, Author and Co-Founder of Impact Parents. Brook and Elaine have a robust conversation about parenting a child that is  neurodivergent and the challenges that go with the behaviors with being ADHD or on the spectrum of Autism. Deep in the discussion the conversation move in the direction of generational repetition and as adults having similar diagnoses as a window into the stigma and judgment of the labels. This is a great conversation regardless of whether or not you are dealing with this issue. You may truly be surprised. Enjoy !!! Elaine can be contacted through her website at https://impactparents.com/ For exclusive membership perks join our membership site the Disengagement Zone at https://disengage.highconflict.net/ For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register. Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work.” https://www.highconflict.net/booklet  Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/emails

Parenting a neurodiverse teen can feel overwhelming—but it doesn't have to. In this episode, Dr. Cam sits down with Elaine Taylor-Klaus, a mom of neurodiverse kids turned parenting coach, to tackle the big questions and share real solutions for families navigating ADHD, autism, and beyond.

On Episode 249, Emily Kircher-Morris chats with Diane Dempster and Elaine Taylor-Klaus from Impact Parents, hosts of the Parenting with Impact podcast. They talk about the challenge of motivating neurodivergent kids, and break down why it's challenging. The chat includes a framework called PINCH, a way to remember and think about important elements of motivation. You'll come away with practical strategies for parents to foster a supportive environment that encourages engagement, and ways to move away from fear and stress as motivators. Takeaways Traditional parenting advice often doesn't apply to neurodivergent kids. Motivation can be misunderstood; it's not always lack of interest. Executive functioning skills play a crucial role in motivation. Dopamine is essential for engaging in non-preferred tasks. Fear-based parenting creates stress and is not sustainable. Intrinsic motivation develops later in life, especially for neurodivergent individuals. The PINCH framework helps identify different motivators for kids. Interest in a subject can significantly boost motivation. Competition can motivate but may also cause anxiety in some children. Collaboration and connection with peers can enhance motivation. Parents should experiment with different motivational strategies. Transparency and vulnerability in parenting can build trust. Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster co-founded ImpactParents.com in 2011 because traditional parenting advice wasn't working for their complex kids and they found no training or coaching available designed specifically to support them as parents of complex kids. Internationally recognized as leading parent educators, they use a coach-approach to help parents reduce the stress of raising children, teens, and young adults with ADHD, Anxiety, Autism, LD and more. They're the creators of Sanity School® behavior training, and the authors of many books including Parenting ADHD Now: Easy Intervention Strategies to Empower Kids with ADHD and The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety and More. BACKGROUND READING Impact Parents website Parenting with Impact podcast Facebook Instagram Twitter/X LinkedIn Pre-order Emily's new book! Get it at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or Target.

Send us a textHow to parent kids who struggle with ADHD, anxiety and lifeNobody wants their child to struggle, but it's inevitable at some point. Many of the problems our kids face will be part of a well-worn path through the teenage years.But some kids have more complex needs. Parenting them can be far more challenging, and require a far great draw on our own resources, which is why I've been looking out for advice that will help those of us who find ourselves in that situation.Having read the Essential Guide, by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, I knew she would be perfect for the podcast. The book is packed full of tips and support, and her thinking is completely in line with all of the advice I've uncovered over the years of making this podcast. Let me know what you think and if you enjoy the episode please give it five stars or a review if you have the time. BOOK:The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety and more: What Parents and Teachers Really Need to Know to Empower Complicated Kids with Confidence and Calm.CONTACT:https://impactparents.com/Support the showThank you so much for your support. Please hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. I don't have medical training so please seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. Rachel's email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com The website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact us:www.teenagersuntangled.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/Susie is available for a free 15 minute consultation, and has a great blog:www.amindful-life.co.uk

My guests are Diane Dempster and Elaine Taylor-Klaus, parent coaches and co-founders of Impact Parents. They provide behavioral management training for parents and educators for complex kids.  Elaine and Diane share their stories of parenting complex kids and how these experiences led them to become parent coaches. They discuss the challenges of parenting complex kids and emphasize the importance of communication, understanding, and patience. The episode is filled with valuable insights and practical advice to help parents navigate the complexities of raising children with ADHD, anxiety, and other executive function challenges. We dive into the top 10 pieces of advice for parents, including committing to calm, making it okay to make mistakes, teaching the life skill of asking for help, and much more. Whether your child is a six-year-old or a teenager, these tips are designed to help you create a supportive and nurturing environment for your complex kid. Don't miss this episode if you're looking for effective strategies to improve your parenting skills and build a stronger relationship with your child. Listen now and discover how you can thrive with your complex kid! Learn more from Impact Parents: https://impactparents.com/thrive Thank you for listening! Please share and leave a review! Stay connected to Kate at ADHDKidsCanThrive.com: ADHD Kids Can Thrive Sign Up Thank you for listening! Please share and leave a review!   #adhd #adhdkid #adhdparent #adhdkidscanthrive #adhdparentsupport #adhdsupport  #specialed #parenting #ADHDkidhealth #brainhealth #anxiety #depression #learningdisabilities #dyslexia #executivefunctioning    

Are you the parent of a complex kid? Do you realize that the number one predictor of success in raising complex kids is your relationship with your child? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews complex parent coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com). They talk about how this relationship is an exceptionally important factor in helping complex kids grow. It's also necessary for the parent to self-regulate the balance of the relationship and getting their complex child to activate. If you find parenting challenging, especially with complex kids, this is a show you won't want to miss. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com. Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com  

What if adjusting your parenting approach could unlock your neurodivergent child's full potential? This week I am delighted to be joined by Elaine Taylor-Klaus from Impact Parents as we explore the unique needs of neurodivergent, or "neuro-spicy," children. Elaine breaks down the differences between neurotypical and neurodivergent brains, addressing conditions like ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, trauma, and autism. We discuss how these differences impact executive function and why it's crucial for parents to adapt their expectations and strategies to support their children effectively.All in all it's a wonderful conversation which I have no doubt will help and give insight to many people.You can find Impact Parents everywhereFacebookInstagramAnd definitely check out their amazing "Parenting with impact"  podcast which is an amazing resource to all parents of neurodivergent/neurospicy kids.As always; HPNB still only has 5 billing cycles.So this means that you not only get 3 months FREE access, no obligation! BUT, if you decide you want to do the rest of the program, after only 5 months of paying $10/£8 a month you now get FREE LIFE TIME ACCESS! That's $50 max spend, in case you were wondering.Though I'm not terribly active on  Instagram and Facebook you can follow us there. I am however active on Threads so find me there! And, of course, you can always find us on our YouTube channel if you like your podcast in video form :) Visit healthypostnatalbody.com and get 3 months completely FREE access. No sales, no commitment, no BS. Email peter@healthypostnatalbody.com if you have any questions, comments or want to suggest a guest/topic     Playing us out; "Make a break" by Nom Fabrique

In this episode of Successful with ADHD, I had an enlightening conversation with Elaine Taylor-Klaus, a renowned thought leader in neurodiversity-informed coaching and parenting. Elaine, a master certified coach and co-founder of ImpactADHD and ImpactParents.com, shared her inspiring journey of raising a neurodiverse family while empowering parents and professionals worldwide.Elaine opened up about the challenges and triumphs of parenting children with ADHD and other learning differences, emphasizing the importance of parent education and support. We discussed how she transitioned from struggling to find resources for her own children to becoming a guiding force for other parents. Elaine's insights on coaching, emotional regulation, and fostering a growth mindset are invaluable for anyone navigating the complexities of ADHD.Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC, is a Master Certified Coach and co-founder of ImpactParents.com. She helps parents manage the challenges of raising complex kids through her online programs, Sanity School® for Parents and Teachers. An international speaker and author, Elaine has served as a parent adviser to the American Academy of Pediatrics and on the national board of CHADD (Children and Adults with ADHD). As a mother of three neurodiverse young adults, she advocates for neurodiversity inclusion in all areas of life. Elaine lives in Atlanta and is dedicated to improving the lives of complex kids and their families. Her books include The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and More and Parenting ADHD Now! Episode Highlights:[02:27] - Elaine's journey of discovering her children's neurodiverse needs.[05:13] - Navigating early parenting challenges and seeking support.[07:20] - The turning point: finding the right help and discovering the power of coaching.[10:57] - The impact of coaching on parenting and family dynamics.[14:21] - Mindset matters: viewing ADHD as a superpower or a challenge.[18:11] - Building executive functions and promoting independence.[23:42] - Effective strategies for parenting tweens and teens with ADHD.[29:22] - Balancing rewards, consequences, and fostering agency.[33:17] - The ongoing dance of parenting: adapting to new challenges. Connect with Elaine:Impact Parents: https://impactparents.com/successfull - Get a free chapter from Elaine's book, The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and MoreThank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.Are you a high-achieving adult who still struggles with the chaos of your ADHD, wants a hard reset to create structures and routines that stick, to ultimately build greater confidence? Check out our 12-week signature process, small group for adults with ADHD or suspected ADHD, 3C Activation, starting Wed, June 19 @ 10am EST ▶ https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/3cactivation

Are you the parent of a complex teen? It can present its challenges. It would be great if they had a manual, but they don't. Or do they? Each kid is a little bit different; however, puberty is a part of developing towards adulthood and there are certain fundamental concepts that are helpful to understand as an adult managing a complex kid. In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews complex parent coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com). They talk about the primitive developmental issues taking place with teens that are helpful for parents to know in order to navigate and thrive in raising teens. If you've got a complex kid, this is a show you don't want to miss. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com.  Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com  

Got ADHD? Do you find you are second guessing yourself, your kids, or anyone around you? It's common for people to fall out of trust. The question is what do you do when it happens? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews complex parent coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com) about trust, falling out of it, what to do, and how to manage it. If this resonates with you, this is a show you won't want to miss. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com. Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com  

Got ADHD? Do you struggle? Do you feel like you haven't been dealt a good deck of cards? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews complex parent coach, Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com). They talk about owning the ADHD diagnosis and some of the pitfalls of falling back on ADHD as an excuse rather than an explanation. The difference can have a big impact on your outcomes. If you want to maximize the most out of your experience, this is a show you won't want to miss. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com. Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com  

Got ADHD? Do you struggle with asking for help? What are the challenges associated with it? Is help helpful, or should you be able to do it on your own? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews complex parent coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com) on the topic. They talk about the nature of help as it relates to getting help for yourself, but also helping others, as well as the notion of influence and control and your own self-regulation to help you move forward. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com.  Our thanks to the sponsors of this show: CHADD.org, ADDCA.com, ImpactParents.com, and TimeTimer.com.  

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster about parental well-being. Ten Self Care Tips for Parents Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You're not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it's always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn't mean you don't deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids! Here is what to expect on this week's show: Parenting challenges can significantly impact the well-being and emotions of parents. Diane and Elaine explore the theme that parents often become stressed, overwhelmed, and experience a range of emotions due to their focus on their children. They emphasize the importance of parents taking care of themselves in order to effectively engage with their children. They discuss the need for parents to be in a good mental state to problem solve and navigate the complexities of parenting. Diane shares her personal experience of realizing her stress while watching home videos. She struggled to control the chaos in her life. Elaine adds that stress can lead to offensive or defensive approaches, such as shutting down or becoming aggressive. Diane explains the stages of dysregulation, where emotions and logical thinking compete in the brain. This often happens when parents feel overwhelmed, worried, or burdened by guilt or perfectionism. Elaine emphasizes that parents may react to stress in various ways, including internalizing, engaging in unhealthy behaviors, or resorting to explosions, blaming, and micromanaging. Prevention is crucial for maintaining emotional well-being and avoiding reactive behaviors. Diane and Elaine discuss the importance of recognizing triggers and staying aware to prevent escalation. Elaine shares an interesting perspective about how children and adults may already be in a triggered state, making explosive reactions more likely. Emotional regulation is a crucial skill that helps individuals manage their emotions and respond to challenging situations in a healthy manner. According to Diane and Elaine, it's important to be gentle with oneself when it comes to emotional regulation. They suggest taking a moment to breathe, reclaim your brain, and figure out what you need in that moment. They also highlight the importance of finding strategies that work for you, such as taking a walk or engaging in self-care activities. Ultimately, emotional regulation is about noticing and navigating your emotions. Links: Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation, & Self-Management What Story are You Telling Yourself? RESENTMENT! Understanding, Managing, and Overcoming It What Story are You Telling Yourself? Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find your ADHD teenager shutting down communication with you? If so, is it because they won't? Or because they can't due to impaired executive function? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) talks with ADHD parent coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com) and Dr. Ari Tuckman (https://adultadhdbook.com) for their expert insights. They share valuable insight to shed light on this very common obstacle that is often overlooked or just dismissed. If you find yourself just wanting to give up, listen to these thought leaders for their perspectives to understand this unique challenge in teens.  Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to https://digcoaching.com.

Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster Episode 146 Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions with Sonali Vongchusiri Sonali Vongchusiri is founder of Forward Together Parenting and the "Raising Your Strong-Willed Child" series. She often says that she WAS that kid and now she HAS three of those kids. As a parent coach she supports parents in shifting from "parenting perfectly" to "parenting with personality" -- helping parents step off the emotional roller-coaster, simplify parenting and stabilize their relationship with their kids by focusing on their needs as well as their kids. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Sonali Vongchusiri about navigating big emotions. Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Link: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/leadership-guide?utm_campaign=funnel&utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=episode&utm_content=leadership Here is what to expect on this week's show: Sonali shares her experiences and the difficulties she faced in her relationship with her children. Sonali realized she needed to find her own approach to parenting, one that aligned with her needs and the needs of her children. She emphasizes the importance of connection and sharing truth with ourselves and our kids, rather than trying to fit into a mold of what parenting should look like. Sonali emphasizes the challenge of meeting both parent and child needs simultaneously. She suggests acknowledging both the child and parent's needs instead of trying to fix the situation. One effective approach she recommends is using nonverbal communication. She expresses the importance of feeling safe and stable in any emotional situation, whether dealing with a frustrated child or facing overwhelming circumstances. Sonali introduces the SHUAVE Process, which involves accepting and approving of oneself, aligning with emotions, and feeling a sense of belonging and validation. Connect with Sonali Vongchusiri: https://www.forwardtogetherparenting.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisingyourstrongwilledchild https://www.instagram.com/raisingyourstrongwilledchild/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pulling out your hair trying to guide your ADHD child through puberty? ADHD combined with hormonal changes makes the capacity for concentration, focus, and self-regulation even more difficult for young minds. In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, Jeff Cpper (https://digcoaching.com) talks with Elaine Taylor-Klaus (https://impactparents.com) about parenting an ADHD child through the hormonal changes of puberty. The difficulties are real, the intricacies can be complicated, and parents may have extraordinary challenges in managing their ADHD child's struggles. If you have a child going through puberty, whether or not ADHD is involved, this episode will be beneficial to you.  Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to https://digcoaching.com. 

In today's episode, I sit down with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster from Impact Parents to discuss the intricacies of modern parenting. We delve into the challenges of setting expectations, raising 'complex kids,' and the evolving roles parents play in their children's lives. Join us as we uncover the secrets to a more fulfilling and less anxiety-driven approach to parenting.BIOElaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster co-founded ImpactParents.com in 2011 because traditional parenting advice wasn't working for their complex kids and they found no training or coaching available designed specifically to support them as parents of complex kids. Now internationally recognized as leading parent educators in the world, they use a coach-approach to help parents reduce the stress of raising children, teens, and young adults with ADHD, Anxiety, Autism, LD, and more. The creators of Sanity School® behavior training, they're authors of many books including Parenting ADHD Now: Easy Intervention Strategies to Empower Kids with ADHD and The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and More.Access free resource here: www.impactparents.com/forceAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Today I'm covering a topic that was suggested by a listener and, as soon as I read her email, I was like, Yes! And also, I can't believe we haven't done an episode on this yet! So… today we're going to be talking about being a parent with ADHD who is parenting neurodivergent children. Because I know there are endless parenting responsibilities that rely heavily on having solid executive function skills or balancing an inordinate amount of demands and emotional labor, and I know that these same requirements are likely not super strengths for a parent with ADHD. This is where my guest today, Elaine Taylor-Klaus, found herself — stressed, overwhelmed, and struggling as a mom to three complex kids. When she initially shared with a psychiatrist how badly she was doing and asked if there might be something else going on, she was told, yes, it's called being a mom. But Elaine pushed for answers, finally getting a diagnosis of ADHD when she was in her early 40s. That new identification, and the personal development journey it initiated, changed life for Elaine and her family in the best possible way. This is such a good conversation today, as we get into the many things parents with ADHD typically struggle with, how parents can best support themselves with the emotional and mental demands of parenting, and of course, we touch upon the many strengths of ADHD that can be leveraged to make a neuromixed family work better. I hope you enjoy it!   About Elaine Taylor-Klaus Elaine Taylor-Klaus is a professional certified coach, parenting coach, writer, speaker and mother in an ADHD family of five. The Co-Founder of ImpactADHD, Elaine provides ADD Parent Support for managing "complex" kids with ADHD and other challenges. ImpactADHD's coaching and training programs are dedicated to effectively support entire families by helping parents learn how to deal with a child with ADHD. Using online, group and personal coaching, as well as articles, blogs, forums and selected resources – all in an interactive format – ImpactADHD.com teaches parents to develop personalized strategic plans for themselves and their families. Through coaching with Elaine, and public presentations to schools and parent groups, parents are inspired to confidently raise successful, independent children. Elaine coaches parents, and teaches them how to use those skills to communicate more effectively with their kids. Elaine's husband, David, is also her business partner in their shared company, Touchstone Coaching, which is the parent company for ImpactADHD and DTK Coaching.   Things you'll learn: How receiving an ADHD diagnosis positively impacted Elaine's parenting and family life The most common challenges facing parents with ADHD as they navigate parenting in general, and specifically in raising neurodivergent kids What helps parents the most in bridging the gap for their children when they are also struggling being a person with ADHD The strengths that come with ADHD and how they can be leveraged to support one's life as a parent   Resources mentioned: Impact Parents The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety and More by Elaine Taylor-Klaus Special resources for Tilt Parenting listeners in ImpactParents Parenting with Impact Podcast Impact ADHD Resources for Parents Elaine Taylor-Klaus on LinkedIn Diane Demster   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Got ADHD?  Do you feel guilt and shame?  Do you struggle sometimes because you can't do everything?  In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD coach Jeff Copper (http://digcoaching.com), revisits an interview with Elaine Taylor Klaus about values and what to do when they conflict.  If you struggle with ADHD and emotions, this is a very validating show.  Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to https://digcoaching.com. 

Bullying? Oh, it's bad enough on its own, but together with ADHD it's a highly charged situation. In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, your host Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews Elaine Taylor-Klaus of ImpactParents.com (http://www.impactparents.com) on the topic of bullying. They talk about what it's like to be bullied by others and relate it to bullying yourself. If you or your family are impacted by bullying, this is an episode with impactful information to help you manage it and drop the bullying stick. Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to https://digcoaching.com. 

If you have a complex kid you don't need to ask the question “What is a complex kid?”. When you have done everything that parenting experts have told you to do, when typical parenting paradigms aren't working and you are still struggling, then a coaching approach may help. It's an empowerment based method all about transferring ownership and fostering independence. It works with all kids unbelievably well but particularly those where there are control issues involved. Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, is first and foremost the mom in an ADHD family of six, and her complex kids are now successful young adults. Professionally, she is a Master Certified Coach – bringing a coach-approach to her work as an internationally recognized speaker, author, educator and trusted advisor to parents, executives, health care and education professionals. For more info on Elaine check out https://impactparents.com/.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Elaine Taylor-Klaus, a master certified coach and co-founder of ImpactParents, discusses executive functioning, social-emotional regulation, behavior challenges, communicating with the school, and the the four phases of parenting as a way that parents can provide support while encouraging independence. Check out ImpactParents' free resources at: impactparents.com

"The work will come, more and more, once people feel heard." In this episode, Richard speaks to Elaine Taylor-Klaus the co-founder of Impact Parents.

I am excited to bring you this conversation with wonderful coach Elaine Taylor-Klaus! (So much so that even with less-than-perfect audio, you still get to hear it :) "Our job," Elaine shares, "is to be on our journey." What better way to joyfully support those we love than to feel secure and joyful ourselves? Once you've fallen in love with her during our conversation you can connect with Elaine at her website, impactparents.com - she's got a gift for you here! - and by listening to her Parenting With Impact Podcast.  Enjoy this wonderful conversation! Then, grab Elaine's amazing gift at impactparents.com/intuition. SO much love to you! Kay I share playful and loving energy pretty frequently here.. Instagram: @weturnedoutokay LinkedIn: Kay Lock Kolp, M.Ed. And my website is.. kaylockkolp.com It's got some fun art, interesting writing, and a very cute baby picture! On the About page.

Today I welcome Diane Dempster and Elaine Taylor-Klaus, certified coaches and experienced parents of complex children. As co-creators of ImpactParents.com, Diane and Elaine offer guidance, support, and resources to parents worldwide dealing with challenges such as ADHD and anxiety. With a coaching approach to parenting, they aim to empower children to become independent problem solvers while fostering confidence and self-esteem. Their deep understanding of the unique needs of complex children and passion for supporting parents make them trusted guests on the podcast. When Diane Dempster and Elaine Taylor-Klaus first met, they were both searching for a way to address the challenges faced by parents of complex kids. Diane, a neurotypical mom, and Elaine, who had been diagnosed with learning and attention issues, discovered they both had undergone significant improvements as parents after becoming coaches. Intrigued by the idea of applying a coaching approach to parenting, they decided to team up and develop a method that would empower children to become independent problem solvers. Through trial and error, they realized the importance of guiding parents through a process-oriented approach rather than simply providing solutions. By teaching parents to collaborate with their children, they found that they could foster a sense of agency and inspire kids to overcome obstacles. In this episode, you will be able to: Master the art of raising complex children through focus on personal growth and overcoming obstacles. Achieve harmony in families with children facing mental health challenges by balancing dynamics. Utilize coaching principles to help children flourish as autonomous problem solvers. Cultivate emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and trust-building in parental bonds. Embrace self-compassion, self-care, and recognize the importance of support networks for parents. As always, thanks for listening, and be sure and head over to Facebook and you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community, where we post tips and tools and do pop up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it! Diane and Elaine's Web and Social Links Website: https://impactparents.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ImpactParents About Randi Rubenstein Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays. She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S. At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along. Randi's Web and Social Links Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/ Resources and Links Take the "Is My Child Strong Willed Quiz,” it's free! Just go to: https://mastermindparenting.com/swc-quiz Book your FREE Solutions Session live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/ Join our Free Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/mastermindparenting  

Coaching experts Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster share the five most important independent living skills every teen or young adult with ADHD needs before they venture out to try "adulting" on their own.

Enjoy this special presentation from the first ever Whinypaluza Ultimate Marriage & Parenting Summit! Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster are the co-founders of ImpactParents.com, a coaching network for parents of children with ADHD, Anxiety, and more. They educate on a wide range of behavioral and therapeutic treatments from a coach approach, guiding parents to gain a deeper understanding of how to implement strategies with their complex children, teens, and young adults.  They are also the co-hosts of the podcast Parenting With Impact, and co-authors of several books on parenting complex kids.   Listen to this insightful Whinypaluza episode with Elaine Taylor-Klaus & Diane Dempster about tools to help parent complex kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and more, and how these techniques are useful for all families, regardless of neurodiversity. Here is what to expect on this week's show: The change you want for your kids starts with you, as the parent. How the coach approach builds a framework to help families NOW and teach kids to take ownership and be problem-solvers. The Impact Model for achieving change Key Strategies for Parenting and Partnering- what does this toolbox look like? Transferring Ownership & Control to your kid is done one step at a time. Shifting perspective: Is it naughty or neurological? Reasonable expectations: Raise the bar from where they are. Understanding and using motivation for your child. Creating the tone of the home- it starts with YOU. Removing “should” from your vocabulary- reduce pressure and start with where you are Solutions are in the successes: look for what is working, rather than what is not. Commit to calm: gain comfort in having confidence that you can handle whatever comes at you. Focus on putting things into practice and giving them time to implement before moving on to the “next thing.”     Links Mentioned: https://impactparents.com/ Sanity School For Parents https://impactparents.securechkout.com/SSP21S Parenting With Impact Podcast https://impactparents.com/podcast/ Motivating Your Complex Kid https://impactparents.com/whiny   Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter  Follow Rebecca Greene Blog  https://www.whinypaluza.com/ Book 1  https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2 Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a parent of a complex kid? Have a child with ADHD? Are you struggling? In this episode of Attention Talk Radio, ADHD and attention coach Jeff Copper (https://digcoaching.com) interviews Elaine Taylor-Klaus of Impact Parents (https://impactparents.com) about raising ADHD kids. They have an open conversation about what parents need to know and reveal some insights that could have a material impact on not only their lives as parents but their kids' lives, as well. If you're the parent of a complex kid or one with ADHD, this is a show you won't want to miss.  Attention Talk Radio is the leading site for self-help Internet radio shows focusing on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and attention deficit disorder, including managing symptoms of ADHD in adults with ADD or adults who have children with ADHD. Attention Talk Radio, hosted by Jeff Copper, attention and ADHD coach, is designed to help adults (particularly those diagnosed with or impacted by attention deficit disorder or its symptoms) in life or business who are stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated to help them get unstuck and moving forward by opening their minds to pay attention to what works. To learn more about attention and ADHD coach Jeff Copper, go to www.digcoaching.com. 

Elaine Taylor-Klaus joins co-host Lynne Edris to talk about the role of self-talk in self-care.  Learn why it is so important for you to address the patterns of self-talk that are holding you back from living the life you are capable of living, and the first step in getting "what's going on between your ears" (as Lynne always says) out of the way of your success! Download your complimentary copy of Elaine's 10 Self-Care Tips to help you be and do your best at Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, is first and foremost the mom in an ADHD ++ family of six, and her complex kids are now successful young adults. Professionally, she is a Master Certified Coach – bringing a coach-approach to her work as an internationally recognized speaker, author and educator. The co-founder of the first global coaching organization for parents and professionals of neurodiverse kids, ImpactParents.com, she is a trusted advisor to parents, executives, health care and education professionals. In addition to providing training for parents, ImpactParents has trained and certified hundreds of professionals around the world in neurodiversity-informed coaching skills. Elaine co-authored Parenting ADHD Now! in 2016 and published The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety and More, in 2020. The Essential Guide will be released in Spanish on Valentine's Day 2023. Podcast Co-Host Lynne Edris s a Productivity & ADHD Coach who helps distracted professionals from all over the world learn to accomplish what they intend and take control of their days with ease so that they can perform at the level of their abilities and have more time, more energy and more bandwidth for what matters most to them.  Lynne is a woman, wife, and mom with ADHD herself, so she understands the struggles and challenges of living with ADHD. She has gone from living in the constant state of chaos, overwhelm, and under-performance that adults with ADHD know far too well, to living a life of more success and fulfillment than she once dreamed possible. Her passion is to help others fulfill their own potential and start “firing on all cylinders” in all areas of your life. You can learn more about Lynne at , and text keyword “HACK” to 33777 to get her 7 Fool-Proof Productivity Hacks for unfocused professionals! ADHD Support Talk Radio is an award winning Podcast for Adults with ADD / ADHD. Co-hosts Tara McGillicuddy and Lynne Edris are joined by Adult ADHD experts and they cover important topics related to Adult ADD / ADHD. Podcast guests include Dr. Edward Hallowell, Dr. Stephanie Sarkis, Dr. Ari Tuckman, Laurie Dupar, Terry Matlen and many more. Tara McGillicuddy is the Producer, Owner and Co-host of the ADHD Support Talk Radio Podcast. You may contact Tara with general questions or feedback about the podcast, Tara has been known and celebrated in the ADHD community for decades of practical and long-lasting shifts in tens of thousands in her communities. The creator of ADDClasses.com, The ADHD Awareness Expo and ADHD Support Talk Radio Tara is one of the longest-standing leaders in the field. Over the years she has also honed her natural skills as an empath. She now also combines the rare gift of sight and energetic knowing and her latest project is Empath Now a resource to help Empower Empaths. Lynne Edris is the Co-host of the ADHD Support Talk Radio Podcast. You may contact Lynne with feedback about her episodes or if you are interested in having her interview you as a guest. We may be an affiliates for products we mention or recommend. If you purchase those items through our links we will earn a commission.

Listen to this Whinypaluza Wednesday Live vlog episode with The Greene Family! An extension of the weekly blog, join Rebecca and her family on the live vlog, brought to you here in case you missed it last week! Rebecca hosted a two day Parenting and Marriage Summit with excellent guest experts on, you guessed it: parenting and marriage! If you weren't able to attend, please be on the lookout for those presentations coming up on the podcast! This week, Rebecca discusses the lessons learned from her presenters on day 2 of the summit: Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster of ImpactParents honed in on complex behaviors in kids and how tools to cope with things like ADHD and anxiety translate well for all children. Things to consider: Is it naughty or neurological? Meet your child where they are at and set them up for success. What motivates your child? Rebekah Maddux-El Hakum spoke about marriage and relationships and teaches us to be more intentional with our words. “Never” and “Always” tend to be trigger words for an argument. She also discussed the stages our children go through and how we can't compare one child to another and expect them to be the same at the same ages. Allana Robinson taught us about how the brain works. She dives into thought, reasoning, and executive functioning in kids. Consistency and predictability will lead to a better sense of security in our kids. Judy Herman discusses marriage and navigating emotions. Be curious with your partner about how they feel, it pulls you away from being judgmental. Learning to empathize will go a long way. In regards to choosing a partner, we pick, project, and provoke, which relates to your relationship with your parents when you were a child. Dr. Laura Froyen teaches us that reframing triggers can create an opportunity to grow and learn. We can “reparent” ourselves and learn things we did not learn as children. Learning coping skills when you are calm will help you when you are in the midst of the conflict. Follow Rebecca Greene Blog  https://www.whinypaluza.com/ Book 1  https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2 Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert Elaine will share her tips on getting parents to be able to communicate with their children in a way that takes the stress out of the parent-child relationship.   Here is what you will learn:   How to deal with your children while you, the parents, are wildly emotional in your divorce process   What is Neurodiversity in children?   How to stop the blame and resentment cycle that parents may be in   Why the divorce rate is higher when parents have a neuro-diverse child   How the values that brought you into your current relationship with your partner can be used to reconnect in a co-parenting relationship   Coach approach to parenting instead of an authoritative approach   How to work with and communicate with a child who has lots of meltdowns and tantrums   When the parenting approach changes from giving their children a sense of agency to expecting them to accept an authoritative parenting approach   Children understand the coach approach to parenting vs the authoritative approach to parenting   How to get on the same of parenting with your co-parent   Parenting is an exercise of letting go   If parents have neuro-diverse children, the parents may also be neuro-diverse   What to do if both parents aren't on the same page   #parenting #co-parenting #coaching #authoritative #communication #neurodiversity #communication #children #parentingquiz #coachapproach #divorce #family #families #blame #esentment #sanity #complexkids #ImpactParents #TheAmicableDivorceExpert #podcast #divorcepodcast #control #acceptance #collaborativeco-parenting #metacognition #meltdowns #sanityschool  @ElaineTaylorKlaus @JudithWeigle   Biography   Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, is first and foremost the mom in an ADHD ++ family of six, and her complex kids are now successful young adults. Professionally, she is a Master Certified Coach – bringing a coach-approach to her work as an internationally recognized speaker, author and educator. The co-founder of the first global coaching organization for parents and professionals of neurodiverse kids, ImpactParents.com, she is a trusted advisor to parents, executives, health care and education professionals. She is also the co-founder of Sanity School®, a neurodiversity-informed behavior training program for parents.    In addition to providing training for parents, ImpactParents has trained and certified hundreds of professionals around the world in neurodiversity-informed coaching skills. Elaine co-authored Parenting ADHD Now! in 2016 and published The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety and More, in 2020. The Essential Guide will be released in Spanish on Valentine's Day 2023.    Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC CEO, ImpactParents.com Parent company for ImpactADHD®, ImpactAnxiety & ImpactComplexKids (404) 231-0390 voice Author: Parenting ADHD Now! & The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, anxiety, and more    https://impactparents.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent/ https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ https://twitter.com/ImpactParents https://www.youtube.com/c/ImpactParents https://impactparents.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent/ https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ https://twitter.com/ImpactParents https://www.youtube.com/c/ImpactParents

In today's episode. I do something different. I'm interviewing Elaine Taylor-Klaus; who is a thought leader in the world of parenting, complex kids, and neurodiversity We have a fascinating conversation around why an awareness of neurodiversity can help you and your clients. That same awareness is also really key whether you are a high-level leader of a global company or you coach leaders at any level. Enjoy! Love. Rich PS. For most of human history, it wasn't called coaching. It was called leadership. Download an FAQ for great leaders who want to be great coaches - with a handful of high-performing, high-fee clients. https://richlitvin.com/rules

On this week's edition of Soaring Child, we're joined by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, who's an author, parent educator, and certified coach, as well as the CEO of ImpactParents.com. She co-created the Sanity School Behavior Therapy Training Program to support parents of ADHD kids.   A lot of kids with ADHD have poor executive functioning skills, which help us organize, think, plan, and prioritize. It's basically how our mind works to get everything done. Executive functioning includes memory issues, emotional management, hyperactivity, sequencing, action, and engagement. These all interact with one another, so the challenge isn't in just one area. With ADHD, executive functioning can be impacted significantly, with kids not knowing how to complete tasks even if their mental abilities are quite high.   Parents of children with ADHD need to be trained to understand how to create an environment that's supportive for their kids who have difficulty with executive functioning. The parents' behavior is a critical factor in helping kids change. So is nutrition and mindset. Shifting our perspective allows for behaviors to change, which in turn changes the outcome.   Make sure you've pinpointed the right problem by breaking it down and looking at what's really happening. Take it in small parts to solve the bigger behavioral issues. As a parent, you can do it. You just can't do it all at once.   You should also enroll your child collaboratively in the process of understanding how you can solve this problem together. This gives them a sense of ownership.   Our kids need positive parenting in the context of understanding executive function and setting appropriate expectations. To feel seen, respected, and regarded in the relationship is the core of all of it.   Key Takeaways: [3:13] Why Elaine started Impact Parents [5:11] Why parents have to be trained first for their kids with ADHD [6:46] The role of nutrition in treating ADHD [8:22] Why mindset matters [13:21] Definition of executive functioning [15:06] The different areas that are impacted in executive functioning [17:46] The Coach Approach to Parenting [24:13] Working toward long-term goals [36:23] Parenting teens with ADHD   How To Connect With Elaine: https://www.impactparents.com https://impactparents.com/podcast/ https://impactparents.com/blog   Memorable Quotes: “A lot of the behavior management comes from really connecting to our kids in a relationship and building trust so that we can guide them to make healthier, better choices for themselves.”   “Our job as parents is to understand what's going on with our kids well enough to accept it without judgment and blame or shame.”   “Understanding the extent to which they're struggling with executive function is really important in helping them learn to navigate it.”   “If you're problem-solving on homework and you're trying to make sure they get it turned in and the real problem is getting started, then you're not tackling the right problem.”   “We have to let go of that fierce attachment to the outcome in the short term and really invest in our relationship with them in the long term and in their relationship with themself.”     Dana Kay Resources:   Website - https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/adhdthriveinstitute  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/adhdthriveinstitute/  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/ADHDThriveInstitute  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/74302454/  Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/adhdthriveinstitute/ Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@adhd_thriveinstitute     International Best Selling Book, Thriving with ADHD - https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/book/    Free Reduce ADHD Symptoms Naturally Masterclass - https://info.adhdthriveinstitute.com/25min-webinar-registration   ADHD Parenting Course - https://adhdthrivemethod.com/adhd-thrive-jump-start-parenting-4-adhd    ADHD Thrive Method 4 Kids Program - https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/packages/

We sit down with with Elaine Taylor-Klaus, a master certified coach and co-founder of ImpactParents, to clear up common misconceptions about adults with LD and ADHD, how to ask for the supports you need to succeed, and more! 

For this week's episode, we are going to talk more about raising complex kids. And to help me in this conversation, I am joined by Elaine Taylor-Klaus. She is the co-founder and CEO of ImpactParents.com, an online support resource for parents of complex kids in the world, serving parents on six continents and more than a hundred countries. She is the author of 2 books including The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and More -- a typical parenting book for kids who are not so typical. ​ If you want to learn more about this parenting approach, follow Elaine on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. Elaine is offering a free gift to everybody. (Yay!) If you go to ImpactParents.com/guide, you can get extra stuff that's not in her book and more comprehensive information as well.Find more show notes here: www.laurafroyen.com/podcast

We're continuing our family series on the podcast with our dear friends Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster of Impact Parents. Together, they have taken their ADHD coaching and evolved their work into an incredible resource for parents raising complex kids. Independence starts todayThe rock-climbing metaphor is striking. Every move toward independence and confidence happens in the smallest of movements, not giant stretches. It is only with the gift of hindsight that we're able to see the great strides we've made. But if that's the case, how do we know what to do here and now? Through an assessment of two parenting experiences this week from your fair hosts, Diane and Elaine walk us through the things we can celebrate, and the steps we might take to redirect in an effort to implement the tools we can learn to help our complex kids to be independent and successful. Take a minute to browse Impact Parents and learn more about the work Diane and Elaine are doing for parents.