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What do you do when your teen pushes back on your tech boundaries—especially when they paid for the device themselves? In this episode, Dr. Justin and Kylie Coulson tackle two parent questions about teenage independence, screen use, and safety. They offer a practical, relationship-first strategy for navigating the tension between adolescent autonomy and parental responsibility, using their tried-and-tested "Three E's" framework to build connection and cooperation. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:"Rules without relationship will lead to rebellion." KEY INSIGHTS FOR PARENTS: Adolescents Seek Autonomy: Teens paying for their own devices often feel ownership equals full control—parents must acknowledge this growing independence. Confiscation Isn’t the Answer: Power-based strategies (like taking away devices) often fuel resistance and damage relationships. Use the Three E's: Explore, Explain, Empower is a proven method for having meaningful, collaborative conversations with teens. Set the Stage for Success: Food, comfort, and a non-threatening tone can make hard conversations easier and more productive. Trust Takes Time: Teens may resist at first, but consistency, humility, and genuine listening will eventually build mutual trust. RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Three E's of Effective Discipline framework by Dr. Justin Coulson Happy Families Podcast submission form: happyfamilies.com.au ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Create a Connection-First Environment: Use food or small comforts to set a positive tone before difficult conversations. Explore: Invite your teen to share their views. Reflect back what they say without judgment. Explain: Briefly share your concerns around things like sleep, safety, and relationships. Empower: Ask your teen to come up with solutions. Collaborate to find common ground that feels fair for both sides. Stay Consistent and Patient: If the first conversation doesn’t go well, try again. Building trust is a long game—but it's worth it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us a textIn this episode of the L3 Leadership Podcast, Doug Smith interviews Dr. Meg Meeker, a pediatrician and author who focuses on the critical role of fathers in parenting. Dr. Meeker discusses the impact of fatherhood on children's mental health, the challenges fathers face, and the importance of strong father-child relationships. She offers practical advice for parents, including how to handle discipline, talk to kids about sex, and maintain connections after divorce. The conversation also covers healing father-child relationships and raising confident, well-adjusted children.00:00 Introduction and Background00:53 The Importance of Dads01:28 Challenges and Cultural Shifts02:24 NFL and Fatherhood08:08 Encouragement for Single Fathers11:03 Healing from Past Wounds16:41 Reconciliation and Apologies21:13 Coaching and Resources for Dads22:18 Understanding Kids' Needs from Dads23:35 Forming Strong Attachments in Early Childhood27:34 Effective Discipline and Boundaries30:27 Talking to Kids About Sexuality34:59 Parenting Beyond Childhood37:12 Raising Confident Kids40:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for DadsThe L3 Leadership Podcast is sponsored by Andocia Marketing Solutions. Andocia exists to bring leaders' visions to life. Visit https://andocia.com to learn more.▶️ WATCH FULL EPISODE: https://tinyurl.com/mrxvsn5c
The youngest Dory child lies in a hospital bed with a peanut lodged in his lungs. The doctors have done everything they can possibly do. They put James in an oxygen tent for the night and plan to remove the peanut surgically in the morning. The topic of oxygen leads to the lesson of oxygen. Then, we conclude our interview with Bonnie Fite and Effective Discipline. Learn how to save precious time, effort, and heartache.
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In this solo episode, Jess shares her reflections on a recent conversation she had. The conversation was about whether or not children should hear the word “no” and how parents who follow “this new wave of gentle parenting” are no longer the leaders in their homes.In the episode, Jess shares her thoughts on this view and tackles a common misconception about gentle parenting - that it's too permissive and doesn't allow for setting boundaries. She explains the crucial differences between permissive, authoritarian, and authoritative parenting styles, emphasizing that effective discipline combines warmth with firm boundaries.Jess shares her expert knowledge and advice on: Why it's important and loving to say "no" to children How to be a calm leader for kids during challenging moments How setting boundaries helps kids learn to navigate disappointment How setting boundaries teaches kids to question authority appropriatelyWith relatable examples and research-backed information, this episode provides valuable guidance for parents seeking to strike the right balance between empathy and structure.Jess mentions an episode with her friend Josh, and you can listen to that episode here.If you want to learn more about the different parenting styles Jess talks about in the episode, check out this blog post. You'll also find the research Jess refers to referenced at the end of the blog.Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First using the code ROBOTUNICORN.We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net.Credits:Editing by The Pod CabinArtwork by Wallflower StudioProduction by Nurtured First
Let us hear from you!In this episode, we discuss how to have more effective discipline immediately after separation. Thanks for listening! If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.comTo see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com
In this episode, David Bonnet shares his thoughts about the importance of being emotionally available and how fathers can better connect with their children, especially as they grow into adulthood. David discusses the challenges of earning the trust of adult children, the balance between guiding and allowing natural consequences, and the impact of showing empathy over strictness. He also talks about how to move from a stance of control to one of support, ultimately creating a stronger bond with your kids. This conversation is a powerful reminder that fatherhood is about more than just providing—it's about being there in a way that truly matters.Links and ResourcesDavid on LinkedInPastor's Penny---------Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:RUK Fitness
There's a saying by parents that goes, "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you." It's only until you become a parent yourself and are in the middle of disciplining your child that that statement rings true. In this episode, we talk about effective discipline of children and teens, and we get into how to deal with adult children living in your home. For those parents who don't like to discipline their kids becaues it hurts YOU too much - we talk about why that's selfish. Discipline is part of the long game in effectively training your child. Check out the EMNR (Evangelical Missions to Non-Christian Religions) conference in Jacksonville, Fl in August. https://emnr.org/conference/ Find Shanda www.shandafulbright.com Instagram & Facebook: @shandafulbright Email: hello@shandafulbright.com Free Resources: https://shandafulbright.com/links YouTube: http://bit.ly/ShandaYT2021 Store: www.Shandafulbright.com/shop
Parenting is an ever-evolving journey, and with it come myths that can often misguide us. In this episode, they continue the conversation from the last episode, diving deeper into debunking common parenting myths. From the truth behind discipline and punishment to the myth of constant entertainment for children, this discussion gets real about what parenting looks like today.Join us for heartfelt conversations and some eye-opening stories that promise to entertain and foster a sense of community among all our listeners. Remember, you're not alone on this wondrous journey of parenting, so let's unleash some myth-busting wisdom together!TakeawaysThere are a lot of perpetuated falsehoods surrounding parenting.Parents don't need to have all the answers. Discipline is about guidance and teaching, not punishment.Timestamps00:00 Respect, boundaries, consequences: parenting with understanding.04:42 Parents must model behavior for children's relationships.06:53 Parenting involves growth, admitting uncertainty, and patience.10:29 Children need unscheduled free play for development.15:27 Toddler tantrums are normal, parents should stay calm.16:51 As a parent, remain calm during tantrums.20:15 Parent coaches promote independent, capable, compassionate youth.
Discover effective discipline strategies for kids ages 1-12 in this episode, where we explore how to guide your child toward self-discipline and moral growth. Grab my best gentle discipline tools for ages 0-19. 30% Off Easter Sale of Ebook Bundle “Discipline Without Harm”
Do you talk to yourself harshly? Did you know it's as threatening as if someone else talked to you that way? Parenting expert Gen Muir is my guest today, in an episode packed with tools and techniques to help you (and me) not be so hard about potentially ruining the life of these kids we love so much. Her new book Little People, Big Feelings is an insight into not just powerful, research based tools and techniques - but a real-life reflection that this powerhouse Mum of four boys uses every day with her own family. The great news - apparently we only need to get it right 30% of the time to get an A in parenting. I wish highschool had those pass marks! We cover a lot - the role of self-compassion in parenting and the challenges of step-parenting, the importance of building strong relationships with children and creating a nurturing and supportive environment, self compassion around your own journey as a parent and - a vital discussion about choosing the right vehicle for your family. Enjoy the show. MICF shows on sale now Tickets at oshergunsberg.comhttps://www.comedyfestival.com.au/2024/shows/osher-guensberg-ntnnnnGot suggestions for Better Than Yesterday? I'd love you to get involved in our listener survey! https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/osherStay up to date by joining the mailing list here: Osher Günsberg - Better Than Yesterday Podcast | LinktreeCome check out our new Better Than Yesterday Instagram account - https://instagram.com/ogbetterthanyesterdayAnything else? Come visit us on discord. Join the oshergünsberg Discord Server Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We recorded a previous episode on the analogy of parents as coaches...and walked through how parenting changes as your kids mature and change. We have also talked a lot about the seasons of parenting...it has come up in several episodes.As our children walk through those seasons of life, the discipline that we impose serves a different purpose depending on the season of developement... So today we are going to talk about the purpose of discipline for our children and how it changes as they change!
In today's insightful episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Chris Hilken takes listeners through his unique eight-step process for disciplining children with wisdom and love. Drawing from his personal life experiences, including the loss of his wife and the challenges of blending a family, Chris discusses the importance of balancing grace and truth in parenting. He emphasizes the need for a structured yet compassionate approach to discipline, especially in moments of frustration and anger. Throughout the episode, Chris breaks down each step of his process, from ensuring calmness and setting clear expectations to diagnosing the degree of disobedience and executing appropriate discipline. This episode is more than just a guide; it's a journey into understanding the heart behind discipline and how to apply it in a way that fosters respect, learning, and love within the family. Whether you're struggling with discipline or looking for a more effective strategy, Chris's eight steps offer a practical and thoughtful roadmap for any dad aiming to navigate the complexities of parenting with grace and authority.
In this episode we talk about having a thorough understanding of the dynamics within your classroom. Understandably, each classroom is unique with its own set of personalities, strengths, and challenges. We discuss the importance to take the time to observe and get to know your students, paying attention to their individual learning styles, behavioral patterns, and social dynamics. Invariably, this knowledge will help you tailor your discipline techniques and create a positive and inclusive learning environment.
Parenting children through their opposition and defiance can be tough because it pushes our buttons. It can be difficult not to take their resistance personally. But keep the following principles in mind and you'll find your efforts to discipline your children a little less challenging: Here are the 5 themes: - Connect first, fix second - Parental self-regulation is important - Don't forget to mind the environment - Remember that children are not small adults (beware the curse of knowledge) - Children are not pets (i know it sounds ridiculous to state this but it's not as silly as it sounds) Learn more, enrol in our course - avoid power struggles and find more intuitive and less stressful ways to guide your young ones with the 'The Practice of Empathic Discipline' audio course here ➡️ WAYS TO EFFECTIVE DISCIPLINE NOW! To connect with Dr Davin Tan on Threads https://www.threads.net/@huddlewisdom Check out the website for more resources www.huddlewisdom.com
In today's episode, I want to talk about how to guide your kids in a good way. Discipline isn't just about what to do when kids act up; it's like a whole plan that includes stopping problems before they start, handling behaviour when it happens, and what to do afterward. I will be talking about the importance of having clear rules. That means you and your partner should make some rules or values together, and then you need to tell your kids what they are. It's like making sure everyone knows what's expected. Also, you gotta show them how it's done. Like, if you want them to tidy up or be nice to others, you need to do those things yourself because they learn by watching. Another thing I will discuss is when your kids do something good, you should notice and say something nice about it. It's not just about giving them stuff; it's about telling them they did a good job. Sometimes, it's good to let your kids see what happens because of their actions. Like if they don't put their dirty clothes away, they might run out of clean socks, and that's a natural result of not taking care of their stuff. Lastly, I'll be talking about taking a break (we call it timeouts) or spending time together (time-ins). Timeouts should be used carefully. For little kids, it's more like a short break to calm down or think about stuff. Time-ins are when you sit together to help your child feel better. If your child has autism or ADHD, you might need to change things a bit. Think about how they talk, what they like, and what makes them do stuff. And don't forget to tell them right away when they do something good to help them learn and do better. Follow me on: 1. Instagram: @leannetranpsychology2. Facebook - Leanne Tran Psychology3. Linked In: Leanne Tran Email me: hello@leannetran.com.au Visit my website: www.leannetran.com.au
Hey, Amazing Parents! This week we're doing something fun and diving deeper into 3, 2, Thank You! to learn how it can be used as the earliest form of gentle discipline. Tune in to learn how to establish yourself as the loving authority figure in your parent-child relationship. Using this technique, you can develop a loving relationship while actually getting your children to do what you ask them to do. Now, that's amazing! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts: Do you love my bite-size parenting tips? Perhaps you're telling friends, “I've learned so much from Parenting With Psychology and Dr. Lindsay.” Please consider rating and reviewing my show to help it reach more parents like you. Click here, then scroll down to the Ratings & Reviews section. Tap to rate with five stars, and click on “Write a review.” Tell other parents how, in just a few minutes a day, they can learn to get intentional about their parenting and load their parenting toolboxes with actionable, psychology-based parenting tools! If you haven't already done so, follow the podcast to be sure you never miss a new episode. Follow now! Resources:
In this episode we discuss how to create effective adolescent discipline (rather than mere punishment, which doesn't even work for rats). You will hear from students, parents of teens who survived those years, and our expert guest Dr. Sheila Krotz, founder and CEO of Positive Influences, providing science based training in 21st Century Learning and Living strategies; she's also a powerhouse elementary school principal. Please download, subscribe, and share this episode so we can keep building an informed supportive, humble community of caregivers.
In this episode we discuss how to create effective adolescent discipline (rather than mere punishment, which doesn't even work for rats). You will hear from students, parents of teens who survived those years, and our expert guest Dr. Sheila Krotz, founder and CEO of Positive Influences, providing science based training in 21st Century Learning and Living strategies; she's also a powerhouse elementary school principal. Please download, subscribe, and share this episode so we can keep building an informed supportive, humble community of caregivers.
In this episode we discuss how to create effective adolescent discipline (rather than mere punishment, which doesn't even work for rats). You will hear from students, parents of teens who survived those years, and our expert guest Dr. Sheila Krotz, founder and CEO of Positive Influences, providing science based training in 21st Century Learning and Living strategies; she's also a powerhouse elementary school principal. Please download, subscribe, and share this episode so we can keep building an informed supportive, humble community of caregivers.
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Monday Motivation – Freedom through Discipline and Intention Freedom can come with discipline and intention. Effective Discipline is focused. Discipline can create opportunity. Intentions allow us to consider more choices through planning ahead. Focused discipline and intention, can make way for realizing greater freedoms and opportunities. #DoYouHaveACoupleOfMInutes #Inspire #Think #Learn #Grow #Fulfilled #LiveFulfilled #Liberate #Illuminte #Amplify #PositiveChange #Leadership #Mentor #Coach #Develop #Lead #Listen #Encourage #Feelings #Intent #Expectations #PetrinaGooch #Petrina #TakeTheGoodTakeTheBad #Perfection #Imperfections #ShowingUp #ShowUpOpen #Self #SelfImprovement #SelfCare #MondayMotivation #Freedom #Discipline #Intention
Parenting Workshop - Ultimate Guide to Caring and Effective Discipline - Part 2 (Audio) with Dr. Greg Moody and Sr. Master Laura Sanborn - Find out the secrets and very specific practical tools for effective (and caring) parenting. Manage kids behavior yet help them develop independence. See more at DrGregMoody.com
When it comes to discipline, people often think, " What can I do so my dog learns they shouldn't do that again?" We get asked every so often how we use punishment to teach a dog not to do something. That question and more is discussed in this episode. Check it out!Support the show
Parenting Workshop - Ultimate Guide to Caring and Effective Discipline - Part 2 with Dr. Greg Moody and Sr. Master Laura Sanborn - Find out the secrets and very specific practical tools for effective (and caring) parenting. Manage kids behavior yet help them develop independence. See more at DrGregMoody.com
Parenting Workshop - Ultimate Guide to Caring and Effective Discipline - Part 1 with Dr. Greg Moody and Sr. Master Laura Sanborn - Find out the secrets and very specific practical tools for effective (and caring) parenting. Manage kids behavior yet help them develop independence. See more at DrGregMoody.com
Parenting Workshop - Ultimate Guide to Caring and Effective Discipline - Part 1 with Dr. Greg Moody and Sr. Master Laura Sanborn - Find out the secrets and very specific practical tools for effective (and caring) parenting. Manage kids behavior yet help them develop independence. See more at DrGregMoody.com
If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably already at least somewhat versed in the styles of positive, gentle, respectful or responsive parenting. But whatever you call it, there are many societal misconceptions about what these styles are. Here to help me bust some myths and dig into the research and brain science behind why we're shifting past behaviorism is Sarah R. Moore. From intergenerational transmission of parenting styles, redefining our goals, and the importance of strengthening mental and emotional health in our children, you won't want to miss this deep dive into WHY these new parenting styles are effective. And go ahead and share this episode with anyone in your life who isn't quite on board with positive parenting or feels it's too permissive. This is a safe space free of shame and judgment - we're all just doing the best we can! Want to get more from Dr. Sarah Bren? ✨ Follow Dr. Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsarahbren/ ✨ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter: https://drsarahbren.com/join-newsletter ✨ And check out her website for more free parenting resources: https://drsarahbren.com/resources
Time out is a great method to calm ourselves down, and it teaches children to self regulate their emotions. We will walk you through effective ways to use the time out and time in approach with your child and encourage you to use it as a parent when you need a break as well. Check out these similar resources: https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/visuals-over-verbals/ https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/help-kids-learn-mistakes/ https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/children-are-complex/
With 7 kids, 14 years apart, you can imagine what my house was like a few years ago. I had teenager tantrums and toddler tantrums simultaneously in the same place at the same time. My youngest kids were being taken to all the older kid's activities, which was really stressful. I spent hours in the car with my kids at arm's length from each other. Even when we got our 15-passenger van, there were still many many times that the kids were WAY TOO CLOSE to each other. It drove us nuts. Chaos felt like it was the norm on many days. I lost my temper easily and felt like I needed to yell to be heard. I was constantly being driven to sort out all kinds of issues and problems. I described to my own coach what home was like. I felt like I was living in everyone else's hurricanes, being blown this way and that. She asked what it would be like to be in the center or eye of the hurricane. That imagery struck me. What would it be like to be in the center of the chaos, yet remain calm? I could see the swirling chaos and problems surrounding me. I could just reach out and pluck one out at a time, here and there, carefully deciding which ones were the highest priorities. The rest I could allow to swirl. I imagined the eye of the hurricane as a place that was calm. I could make rational decisions and choices. I could carefully select which problems were the most important to address and the best ways to take care of them. I also knew I couldn't keep living in this chaos. I knew something had to change. My life wasn't working for me, and I wasn't the mom I had hoped to be. I was miserable, depressed, and anxious. My body was beginning to be ridden with all types of health problems. I had to make a change. I learned 9 important steps to managing my household and the problems inside it while keeping my sanity. I discovered that I was the key in how well the discipline in my home worked. Even though I now have a home twice as big with less than half the bodies in it, consequences are still part of my role as a parent. And now have 26 years of learning and practice when it comes to setting consequences that work.
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We are joined for today's pep talk by international parenting coach Mary Van Geffen! After finding herself overwhelmed by her Titanium-Willed Child, Mary became a Simplicity Parenting Counselor® and Professional Co-Active Coach® to help overwhelmed moms with strong-willed or spicy children. Mary has been an epic follow on Instagram and her parent tip-a-day is always packed with so much value. I asked her to be our guest to talk about parenting teens. We chat about the difference between being in charge versus control, how to foster an energy of cooperation that will help your teens hear you, what the real work of parenting is, a script you can use for setting tech boundaries with you kids, and an exercise to get you clear about the kind of family culture you want to create. connect with Mary: instagramHttp://cyclical-parenting.teachable.com/p/the-compassionate-response-meditation-workshopHttps://maryvangeffen.teachable.com/p/calm-in-chaosconnect with Maggie: www.maggiedipasquale.com1:1 mentoringparent coachingonline membership for college freshmen
In this episode, we discuss with Dr. Phelan, clinical psychologist and creator and author of the 1-2-3 Magic Program for Teacher and Parents. This effective strategy is easily learned and used with children to have happy relationships, solid connection and effective management in the discipline arena.Light Up Your Life is broadcast live Fridays at 11AM ET.Light Up Your Life TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).Light Up Your Life is broadcast on W4CS Radio – The Cancer Support Network (www.w4cs.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com).Light Up Your Life Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com).
Hey momma!;) Do you find yourself always shouting and easily getting angry lately? Have you ever yelled at your kids and been so surprised by just how angry you were? I mean where did that come from right? And then felt really guilty about it? Have you ever asked yourself, How can I stop shouting at my kids? Yelling is normal. Anger is a normal human emotion that we all feel, for sure! But I know you still feel guilty and terrible, right? You definitely want to stop yelling at your kids and just be a happier and more gentle mom. Oh momma, thats what we're gonna talk about here! See you inside (wink ;) Love, MommaDocJet . . Episode links you might also enjoy: How to work from home when our kids keep interrupting us. Learn 3 doable ways! https://mompreneurmadefulfilled.podbean.com/e/how-to-work-at-home-when-our-kids-keep-interrupting-us/ My story and how God led me to start this podcast https://mompreneurmadefulfilled.podbean.com/e/episode-1-my-story-and-how-god-led-me-to-start-this-podcast/ How to leep our kids entertained while mommy is working. My 6 years old son share his own work from home tips! https://mompreneurmadefulfilled.podbean.com/e/how-to-keep-our-kids-entertained-while-mommy-is-working-tips-for-mommy-and-especially-for-the-kids-too/ . . *Win Free Coffee Weekly! Share today's episode & tag me at @mompreneurmd (Instagram) *Snag Free Gifts and Find out More at https://mompreneurmd.com/ *Come connect with us and join free trainings inside the MomPreneurs Made Fulfilled Community- https://bit.ly/fulfilledmompreneurstribe *Contact me here- mompreneurmd.docjet@gmail.com *Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/mompreneurMD/ . . . Link to book mentioned in this episode: The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline by L.R.Knost https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0988995832/ref=x_gr_w_bb_glide_sout?ie=UTF8&tag=x_gr_w_bb_glide_sout-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0988995832&SubscriptionId=1MGPYB6YW3HWK55XCGG2
Nobody wants to be the parent who is constantly yelling. But at the same time, we want to get through to our kids. So what are the most effective ways to discipline? In this week's Mom Squad Pod, Dr. Kim Bell explains why discipline is different than punishment, how to de-escalate the anger and yelling, and how to use those moments to mold your child's behavior.
Why Yelling at Your Child Isn't a Good Idea — and How to Break the Habit
In this episode, I am going back to the Self-Mastery Disciplines and sharing the 4th concept - Trusting the Process. If you want to review the first three pls listen to episodes 63 Awareness, 64 Acceptance, and Conscious Choice 67.
I have a funny story to share with you about how I accidentally came up with this incredibly effective discipline hack. And I cannot wait to share it with you in hopes that you can take the same idea and incorporate it into your own family. Forgot your headphones? Head over to my blog for a written summary of today's episode! The Purpose Gathering is a community designed specifically to support and educate mom business owners who want to grow their business without sacrificing their family or their sanity. In future episodes I will cover topics pertaining to parenting, mind, body and soul self-care, marriage and of course business. This podcast has it all. Each week you can expect me to show up as my authentic self, saying it like it is, and providing you with mindset strategies and practical tips for living your best life as a purpose filled mama, wife and business owner. Thank you for tuning in!! Be sure to subscribe, and join me every Wednesday for a new episode of the Purpose Gathering Podcast. I can't wait until next time. xoxo Ashley Resources: Join our brand new free Community (no longer on Facebook) The Efficient Mompreneur - Online Course Find me on Instagram: @thepurposegathering Website: thepurposegathering.com Free Download: Productivity with Purpose Masterclass Free Download: Instagram Planning with Confidence
Victims of child abuse and neglect and sexual assault should be handled carefully by healthcare providers due to the sensitivity and severity of what happened to them. Dr. Sarah Brown joins us in this episode to talk about the difficult questions we must ask children and families in order to keep kids safe. We also discussed when and where to ask them and when to call authorities, if needed. Timing is as important as the questions themselves. Let's listen to Dr. Brown and learn how to ask the hard questions to victims of child abuse and neglect! [00:01 - 04:45] Opening Segment Welcoming today's guest, Dr. Sarah Brown Her path to child abuse and neglect and pediatrics [04:46 - 14:54] Let The Child Talk How to build a safe space for children and adults Our role as healthcare providers The power of small words The first step in asking about abuse from children What are the right questions to ask? Introducing things that are NOT okay [14:55 - 26:17] Talk About Abuse Somewhere Else The protocols in handling sexual assaults for healthcare providers How to efficiently report sexual assault What Dr. Brown does not recommend on talking about abuse [26:18 - 38:44] Be Careful with Telehealth Services The overlap between domestic violence and child abuse and neglect Hear Dr. Brown's thoughts about telehealth services Don't miss Dr. Brown's insights about the Safe and Together model [38:45 - 43:52] Relax and Take One Day At a Time How healthcare providers can take better care of themselves Listen to Dr. Brown's advice Dr. Brown's message for her resident self [43:53 - 50:06] Closing Segment Finals takeaways Believing the child is important Asking when you suspect child abuse Having an exam as soon as possible Informing the Child Protective Services Remembering that domestic violence and child abuse Being mindful with telehealth services Taking care of yourself Tweetable Quotes: “That goal of not interrupting as long as the child is narrating is important.” - Dr. Sarah Brown “Relax and take things one day at a time.” - Dr. Sarah Brown Resources Mentioned: https://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/ (Safe and Together Institute) https://bit.ly/3rwQPZo (National Health Resource Center on Domestic Violence) https://bit.ly/30nX4mz (CUES: an Evidence-Based Intervention) https://bit.ly/3v9aLE4 (Sexual Behaviors in Young Children: What's Normal, What's Not?) https://www.nationalchildrensalliance.org/ (National Children's Alliance) https://bit.ly/30ssrw5 (Effective Discipline to Raise Healthy Children) https://bit.ly/3rvo13C (The Evaluation of Suspected Child Physical Abuse) https://bit.ly/38ojlF1 (Understanding the Behavioral and Emotional Consequences of Child Abuse) https://bit.ly/3eqF1UT (The Evaluation of Children in the Primary Care Setting When Sexual Abuse Is Suspected) Pediatric Meltdown episode: https://apple.co/3caeM2i (Provider Wellness: Are You Taking Care of Yourself?) Email brownsa@bronsonhg.org to connect with Dr. Brown and know more about her space https://www.bronsonhealth.com/ (here). If you'd like to connect with me, you can find me at https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-lia-gaggino-80322a31/ (LinkedIn), https://www.facebook.com/DrLiaGaggino/ (Facebook), and https://twitter.com/gagginol?lang=en (Twitter) or email me at gagginol@yahoo.com. To learn more about me visit https://www.medicalbhs.com/ (https://www.medicalbhs.com/) LOVE WHAT YOU HEARD? Leave us a 5-star review so we can continue to provide you with great content. Share this episode and help people know more about children's health and well-being.
In this episode we unpack the definition of discipline and explore different parenting styles and how these affect our children's lifelong wellness. Be sure to listen to the end of the episode to learn two tips you can implement today to help you develop a discipline philosophy and be intentional about how you parent and teach. Also, follow PAWsitive Choices on Instagram and/or Facebook so you can take our poll to help make our next episode more applicable to you! Below are links to the resources mentioned in this episode. Below are links to the resources mentioned in this episode. Visit https://www.pawsitivechoices.com/podcast to listen to the episodes below: Episode #3 is about brain structures associated with calming strategies and emotions Episode #4 covers productive and collaborative problem solving Link to purchase Problem-solving Tool Kit: https://www.pawsitivechoices.com/store/problem-solving-tool-kit Tips for developing a discipline philosophy and defining your parenting/teaching style: #1: Reflect on how you and your partner define discipline. What comes to mind when you hear the word discipline? How were you disciplined growing up? How can you teach (rather than punish) your children when it comes to addressing misbehaviors in discipline moments? #2: Reflect on your parenting/teaching style. What parenting style did your parents/caregivers take in raising you? Did your caregivers both use the same style? What style do you lean toward in your parenting/teaching? How can you take a more authoritative approach by using connection/emotional responsiveness as well as boundaries and limit setting? The resources and activities described in the video are part of the PAWsitive Choices curriculum. You can learn more about this curriculum on our online store. Store: https://www.pawsitivechoices.com/storeCheck out our other free resources: https://www.pawsitivechoices.com/freebies© 2014-2020 PAWsitive Choices, LLC.
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Pastor Neal Berkey joins Dr. Teis today for a conversation on how to effectively discipline your children in a Biblical fashion. Be sure to tune in, AND don't forget to pick up your copy of "Raising God's Kids in Sin City" at DavidTeis.com!
Dr Justin Coulson speaks again about the important issue of discipline including the three E’s of Effective Discipline that will lead to better behaviour, better relationships, and happier families and how getting our hearts attuned to theirs changes everything about discipline.
Are you a parent who struggles with coming up with and enforcing effective consequences when your children misbehave, act out, or are just downright disobedient? Well we are here to discuss how to discipline effectively and prevent DDD-Discipline Deficit Disorder! Let's get better as we found out practical steps to get our kids to learn, grow, and thrive--without having to grab a belt!
All parents have to make decisions around disciplining their kids. What’s the best way? What if partners or co-parents disagree? In this episode of Parent Talks, we’re hearing from two parents as they share how discipline works in their families. And then Parent and Family Engagement Coordinator, Sam Sinanan, shares helpful research-based information about discipline and child development.
Getting our kids to obey and comply is a daily struggle for so many. Our classic styles of punishment just seem to be falling on deaf ears these days, doesn't it? You can take stuff away or give time outs until your face turns blue and the next day your kids are right back on their bad behaviors. Right? In this episode we'll talk about why "punishments" are only temporarily effective. Instead, using a combination of Natural Consequences - when something has happened that has enough natural "pain" to it so that the teachable moment for poor behavior can do the teaching for us -- like breaking a toy or losing a backpack or not finishing homework.Energy Replacement - when there's no logical consequence (like hitting a sibling or violating electronics limits) and so we have our kids come up with ways to replace the energy and peace and harmony from our lives when that happened. Our kids do chores or acts of service to replace that energy. We need to change the hearts of our kids by letting them own the consequences of their poor decision to misbehave. Here are the links for further material I refer to in this podcast:Love and Logic Energy Drain - audioEnergy Drain Idea List
Y’all, I KNOW you have read the incredible, amazing, searingly-beautiful words of today’s podcast guest somewhere, somehow. Her quotes go viral, get pinned thousands upon thousands of times, but most importantly, her tips and tactics on parenting can really, truly change the way you approach raising your own tiny humans. L.R. Knost is a best-selling author whose work and writings on gentle parenting have impacted countless parents, inspiring them to become more connected to parenting from a calmer, more encouraging and uplifting place. Her series of books (linked below) help parents to deal with the sometimes-big emotions of little kids in simple ways. L.R. is a mother of six, an activist, a wife and a self-proclaimed social justice warrior. She shares with me some incredible stories on her motherhood journey, her career, and so much more. Here’s just some of what we cover: + What is gentle parenting? + What she learned from being a your mom + Her amazing term for raising kids — “co-humaning” + Tactics for tantrums + Kids on social media + Why she doesn’t believe in time outs anymore + Her thoughts on sleep training + Her cancer battle and where her health stands now I cannot, CANNOT thank L.R. enough for allowing me to speak with her about her amazing work. I took so much from this conversation, and I know you will too. Check out L.R.’s books here: Two Thousand Kisses a Day: Gentle Parenting Through the Ages and Stages — https://amzn.to/323Zvui Jesus, the Gentle Parent: Gentle Christian Parenting — https://amzn.to/37zO2E9 The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline — https://amzn.to/2SEwenb Whispers Through Time: Communication Through the Ages and Stages of Childhood — https://amzn.to/32aUvEw And here is the book on sleep training that L.R. talks about during the podcast: https://amzn.to/38CKBhg Follow LR on Instagram @LRKnost Follow me on IG @SonniAbatta and check out more daily stories on motherhood, self-care and beauty at Sonni.me.
What is the #1 concern for most Modern Parents? How to effectively discipline their child or teen. Most Modern Parents want a discipline strategy that: Improves their child’s behavior, Teaches their child an important life lesson that they’ll use for the rest of their lives, And, most importantly, they don’t want disciplining their child to lead to a break down in the parent-child relationship. If you share these same concerns, then this is definitely the episode for you! Before listening to this episode, download the free PDF workbook that I’ve created for you that takes you step-by-step through everything that I talk about in the episode today (click HERE to get the workbook). By listening to this episode AND completing the free workbook, you will be able to create a behavior plan that works for you individual family. Disciplining a child at any age – from toddler to teenager – is always going to be difficult. You just can’t get around the fact that this is not a fun part of parenting - but you CAN make discipline effective. Here’s a breakdown of what you’ll learn in this episode: [00:40] Family rituals are easy to create and serve to create a strong parent-child bond. [03:50] Learn what a behavior plan is and why it should replace your current discipline strategy. [06:00] I explain the 3 elements that every successful behavior plan must contain, and I break those elements down in detail so that you know everything you need to create your own successful behavior plan. [18:00] Now that you know everything that is involved in creating a behavior plan, I give you the 3 reasons why it works so well in changing the behavior of modern kids. [21:20] I want YOUR behavior plan to be a success, so I also share with you several ways that I’ve seen some of my clients fail with a behavior plan – and they didn’t have to fail! You’re going to get some really great information in today’s episode - and don't forget to download the free workbook so you can get started creating your child's behavior plan right away.
Leslie and Leslyn have been talking about parenting and no such discussion would be complete without a few words about disciplining! Leslie begin by pointing out that no one thing will work with all children; a fact that frustrates parents to breaking points.A discussion about consequences begins with the point behind behavior modification - the goal of discipline. Is there a difference between girls and boys? How do you find that ‘thing’ that will make an impact and foster desirable behavior. When your ‘go to’ method fails to work, what do you do? When you are too tired to follow through, how are you to be taken seriously?Leslie and Leslyn share personal stories and antidotes to combat discipline challenges that will get you thinking about alternate ways to get your point across. If nothing else, they’ll remind you that you’re not alone and isolated in your feelings of frustration and ineffectiveness.
Learn an effective, consistent, easy to put into practice disciplinary technique for your household. Stop feeling like a nag or bad parent. Reduce the negativity and chaos and start feeling better about your parenting. This will help you raise respectful, honorable children. What better way to create awesome adults?
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Discipline | Herbert Cooper Proverbs 29:17 Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire. (NIV) Proverbs 19:18 Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise you will ruin their lives. (NLT) 4 Wrong Ways to Discipline 1. Threatening your kids 2. The repeating parrot 3. The bribing parent 4. Misusing compassion 5 Important Insights to Effective Discipline Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. (NKJV) 1. First time obedience Hebrews 12:7–11 As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? 8 If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all. 9 Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever? 10 For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness. 11 No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way. (NLT) 2. Limit choices early on 3. Train your child's heart through non-conflict instruction Deuteronomy 6:6-7 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. (NIV) 4. The type of correction depends on the motives 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. (NLT) Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him. (NKJV) Four Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Discipline Your Children How frequent is the offense? What’s the context of the moment? What is your child's age? What is the overall characterization of your child's behavior? 5. Show them don’t tell them 1 Corinthians 11:1 Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. (NIV)
Discipline | Herbert Cooper Proverbs 29:17 Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire. (NIV) Proverbs 19:18 Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise you will ruin their lives. (NLT) 4 Wrong Ways to Discipline 1. Threatening your kids 2. The repeating parrot 3. The bribing parent 4. Misusing compassion 5 Important Insights to Effective Discipline Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. (NKJV) 1. First time obedience Hebrews 12:7–11 As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? 8 If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all. 9 Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever? 10 For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness. 11 No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way. (NLT) 2. Limit choices early on 3. Train your child's heart through non-conflict instruction Deuteronomy 6:6-7 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. (NIV) 4. The type of correction depends on the motives 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. (NLT) Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him. (NKJV) Four Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Discipline Your Children How frequent is the offense? What’s the context of the moment? What is your child's age? What is the overall characterization of your child's behavior? 5. Show them don’t tell them 1 Corinthians 11:1 Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. (NIV)
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In anticipation of next week’s show, when my husband Dan will be coming on to share about discipline, I thought this week I would share my own perspective on effective discipline. At the beginning of this episode, I mention a new video series on Divine Mercy from Fr. Chris Alar!! If you don't know much about Divine Mercy, or you want to learn more, check out this free video series at ascensionpress.com/pages/divinemercyvideos (https://ascensionpress.com/pages/divinemercyvideos) I also share feedback from listener Megan who listened to the first forty episodes of Girlfriends through all of Lent. Thank you, Megan! :) Snippet from the Show “What a privilege and honor that our children’s first experience of who God is is through their relationship with us [their parents].” Here are four ideas I have to share – let’s see how Dan’s list compares next week when he comes on! Be clear. Set standards for your kids and expect them to meet them. Follow through. If you set a standard and a child fails to meet that standard, there must be consequences. It’s not personal. Kids are young and immature, and they are figuring out the world. They are going to choose wrongly sometimes, and if we react emotionally, it’s not helpful to any of us. It actually is personal. Invest in healthy, loving relationships with your kids, and discipline will become less necessary, and more effective when you use it. For more detailed shownotes, check out this episode at ascensionpress.com/girlfriends
This episode of Part 2 of the conversation about discipline our children. Our guests are pediatricians, Dr. Michelle Collins Ogle and Dr. Shontae Buffington. During the conversation we'll discuss the American Academy of Pediatrics policy on Effective Discipline, the policy's impact on African-American families and cultural influences of parenting recommendations.Guest Bios:Dr. Shontae Buffington is a pediatrician and an active American Academy of Pediatrics member practicing in southeast Georgia. She earned a Bachelors of Arts in Human Biology from Stanford University in Palo Alto, California and her medical degree from Howard University College of Medicine. Dr. Buffington completed her residency at the University of California Davis in Sacramento, California where she developed a keen interest in adolescent medicine, ADHD, and child behavioral disorders. In her free time, she designs, sews, and blogs about creating her own clothing.Dr. Michelle Collins Ogle is a Clinical Infectious Disease Specialist who has dedicated most of her career to providing comprehensive medical care to infants, children, adolescents and adults living with HIV / AIDS. She also has a special interest in assuring equal access for the treatment of HIV as well as other infections in young gay men and transgender youth. Dr. Collins Ogle received her training in Infectious Diseases at Childrens Hospital in Detroit, Michigan. She is currently the Medical Director at Warren-Vance Community Health Center, Inc., which provides comprehensive medical care for adolescents and adults living with HIV/AIDS in the most rural, isolated communities in the state.Dr. Ogle passionately advocates for patients living in rural, indigent isolated areas of North Carolina because she holds the belief that these patients deserve the same access to quality medical care as those living in urban areas. She expanded the HIV practice to provide a warm, non-judgmental and welcoming environment for transgender people living with HIV in rural NC. Providing hormone therapy and coordinated HIV care for the transgender population has been a welcomed service.Dr. Collins Ogle currently serves as the Pediatric liaison for the Pediatric Infectious Disease Society and the HIV Medicine Association, past Co-Chairman of the Steering Committee for the Ryan White Medical Providers Coalition which advocates and Lobbies legislators on the state and federal level to protect funding for HIV/AIDS medical care programs. She also proudly served as a member of the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS; Inducted Sept 4, 2014 resigned along with 5 other members in 2017 in protest of this administrations attempt to cut Medicaid and RW funding.References:American Academy of Pediatrics Effective Discipline Policyhttp://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/142/6/e20183112American Academy of Pediatrics, HealthyChildren.org: What's the Best Way to Discipline My Child?https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/communication-discipline/Pages/Disciplining-Your-Child.aspx
This episode of Part 2 of the conversation about discipline our children. Our guests are pediatricians, Dr. Michelle Collins Ogle and Dr. Shontae Buffington. During the conversation we'll discuss the American Academy of Pediatrics policy on Effective Discipline, the policy's impact on African-American families and cultural influences of parenting recommendations. Guest Bios: Dr. Shontae Buffington is a pediatrician and an active American Academy of Pediatrics member practicing in southeast Georgia. She earned a Bachelors of Arts in Human Biology from Stanford University in Palo Alto, California and her medical degree from Howard University College of Medicine. Dr. Buffington completed her residency at the University of California Davis in Sacramento, California where she developed a keen interest in adolescent medicine, ADHD, and child behavioral disorders. In her free time, she designs, sews, and blogs about creating her own clothing. Dr. Michelle Collins Ogle is a Clinical Infectious Disease Specialist who has dedicated most of her career to providing comprehensive medical care to infants, children, adolescents and adults living with HIV / AIDS. She also has a special interest in assuring equal access for the treatment of HIV as well as other infections in young gay men and transgender youth. Dr. Collins Ogle received her training in Infectious Diseases at Children’s Hospital in Detroit, Michigan. She is currently the Medical Director at Warren-Vance Community Health Center, Inc., which provides comprehensive medical care for adolescents and adults living with HIV/AIDS in the most rural, isolated communities in the state. Dr. Ogle passionately advocates for patients living in rural, indigent isolated areas of North Carolina because she holds the belief that these patients deserve the same access to quality medical care as those living in urban areas. She expanded the HIV practice to provide a warm, non-judgmental and welcoming environment for transgender people living with HIV in rural NC. Providing hormone therapy and coordinated HIV care for the transgender population has been a welcomed service. Dr. Collins Ogle currently serves as the Pediatric liaison for the Pediatric Infectious Disease Society and the HIV Medicine Association, past Co-Chairman of the Steering Committee for the Ryan White Medical Provider’s Coalition which advocates and Lobbies legislators on the state and federal level to protect funding for HIV/AIDS medical care programs. She also proudly served as a member of the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS; Inducted Sept 4, 2014 resigned along with 5 other members in 2017 in protest of this administration’s attempt to cut Medicaid and RW funding. References: American Academy of Pediatrics Effective Discipline Policy http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/142/6/e20183112 American Academy of Pediatrics, HealthyChildren.org: What's the Best Way to Discipline My Child? https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/communication-discipline/Pages/Disciplining-Your-Child.aspx
When it comes to parenting there is no such thing as the perfect parent. Most individuals parent as they were raised. However when it comes to hitting, spanking and corporal punishment on children does that really work or change the child's behavior? Attitudes are changing and abuse is abuse. Yet many parents are getting in trouble with Child Protective Services which children are being removed from their homes and parents are facing legal, financial problems and yes having to take classes for their reaction as it relates to perhaps the methods one chose to discipline thier child. When is comes to discipline for children, the age and development of the child must be taken into consideration. Discipline is also about teaching and not punishment. When a child acts out or break a rule there should be consequences. Yet how should a parent react? According to a survey many adults reported being spanked, hit, received corporal punishment or was called names by a parent. Twenty years later according to The American Academy Of Pediatrics On Spanking Children they believe don't do it ever.They have found that aversive discipline strategies including all forms of corporal punishment and yelling at or shaming children can cause issues in children even later in life. What they found is that the brain does not grow and develophitting as well once there has been physical punishment to the point where it can cause learning problems, problems with vocabulary and memory, as well as aggressive behaviors. So again with children's behavior becoming more challenging what can a parent do? Join in on the conversation as we discuss this topic live 11/12/18 at 12pm Pacific 516 387-1914.
Restoring Humanity are short(ish) segments on understanding a key idea of progressive education. This time, we're tackling discipline! What are the roots of our discipline system, what issues exist, and how can we solve them?This podcasts pairs with our resource (which is where most of the researched information is cited) on this topic.We also cite:William Bagley's Classroom Management (1908)School Discipline in Public Education (2011)For Public Schools, Segregation Then, Segregation Since (2013)How Racial Bias Affects the Quality of Black Students' Education (2016)The Trevor Project: Facts About Suicide (n.d.)Effective Discipline for Misbehavior: In School vs. Out of School Suspension (n.d.)ACLU: School to Prison Pipeline (n.d.) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
I'm so excited to bring you this week's show, all about timeouts! Also: I announce the name of the parenting book I'm working on right now! And I share some exciting news: the introduction to this book is available for you to read, for free, at Patreon.com/weturnedoutokay! This week's Magic Words for Parents video shares a quick phrase you can use to stop your child's begging and whining in stores like Target or food shopping. Watch by clicking here to join the We Turned Out Okay Facebook group, or by clicking here to watch in YouTube, where there's a whole playlist of Magic Words! Thanks to all the We Turned Out Okay Patreon patrons, and shout out to Tiffany, our latest patron! Tiffany's getting some awesome rewards, which you can get too, listen to today's show and go to Patreon.com/weturnedoutokay for more information : ) Do you find that giving a time out to your young child is an effective way to change that child's behavior? Maybe you find, as one coaching client of mine does, that timeouts become "a battle of wills" and aren't effective at all. Maybe your young child runs away from the timeout chair, giggling and leaving you super frustrated… If so, this is the show for you because today I'm teaching how to effectively discipline your young child! For notes on today's episode including my 4-step formula for disciplining effectively, as well as to sign up for my 3 Secrets of Happy Parenting live, online class, go to weturnedoutokay.com/229. Thanks for listening!
Do you have a hard time finding the balance of being too strict and too permissive? What seems to work on one kid falls short on another... When it comes to discipling our kids it is definitely not 'one size fits all' BUT there are basic principles that can guide our approach. Today Cos Davis, a licensed therapist and author of multiple books including - 'Parenting With A Purpose' discusses 7 baseline principles for effective disciplining of our kids.
Do you have a hard time finding the balance of being too strict and too permissive? What seems to work on one kid falls short on another... When it comes to discipling our kids it is definitely not 'one size fits all' BUT there are basic principles that can guide our approach. Today Cos Davis, a licensed therapist and author of multiple books including - 'Parenting With A Purpose' discusses 7 baseline principles for effective disciplining of our kids.
Do you have a hard time finding the balance of being too strict and too permissive? What seems to work on one kid falls short on another... When it comes to discipling our kids it is definitely not 'one size fits all' BUT there are basic principles that can guide our approach. Today Cos Davis, a licensed therapist and author of multiple books including - 'Parenting With A Purpose' discusses 7 baseline principles for effective disciplining of our kids.
Do you have a hard time finding the balance of being too strict and too permissive? What seems to work on one kid falls short on another... When it comes to discipling our kids it is definitely not 'one size fits all' BUT there are basic principles that can guide our approach. Today Cos Davis, a licensed therapist and author of multiple books including - 'Parenting With A Purpose' discusses 7 baseline principles for effective disciplining of our kids.
Host Dr. Marla Deibler Being a parent is one of the most rewarding experiences in life, but every family faces challenges that can be frustrating and overwhelming. For more than twenty-five years, internationally renowned clinical psychologist Thomas W. Phelan's 1-2-3 Magic has helped millions of parents, teachers, and caregivers raise independent, emotionally intelligent children and build happier, healthier families?all through an easy-to-understand program that you'll swear "works like magic." 1-2-3 Magic helps you discipline and set limits for your children by breaking down the complex task of parenting into straightforward steps. The 1-2-3 Magic program offers parents, pediatricians, mental health professionals, grandparents, teachers and even babysitters a simple and gentle-but-firm approach to managing the behavior of 2 to 12-year-olds, whether they are average kids or special-needs children. 1-2-3 Magic books sales have crossed the 1,500,000 mark, the number of foreign translations has passed twenty, and the 1-2-3 Magic book has consistently been the #1 child-discipline book on Amazon. Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. has worked with children, adults and families for over 35 years. He is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Illinois Psychological Association. In addition to writing and producing, Dr. Phelan maintains an active schedule of international lectures, and is a frequent guest on radio and television. His articles appear in numerous regional and national publications.
Creating a Family: Talk about Infertility, Adoption & Foster Care
Host Dawn Davenport, Executive Director of Creating a Family, the national infertility & adoption education and support nonprofit, interviews Kim John Payne, author of The Soul of Discipline: The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance- From Toddlers to Teens. He has been a family counselor for 30 years, and is the father of two teenagers. Rebecca Rozema, an adoption social worker with Bethany Christian Services and their National ADOPTS Program Director. Mom of 5 sons, 2 of which are foster sons. For a discussion of this show, go to our blog tomorrow http://creatingafamily.org/blog/. Creating a Family has many free resources related to this topic on our website at www.CreatingaFamily.org. If you enjoyed this show, we would very much appreciate you leaving us a review on iTunes. Either go to this website (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id266386337) or if you have iTunes on your phone, tablet or computer, simply type in "Creating a Family", click on Ratings/Reviews, and click on the # of stars. It only takes a moment and it really helps others find us. Thanks. Click to Tweet Share on Facebook Show Highlights Support the show (https://creatingafamily.org/donation/)
Today’s “Brains in Toyland” segment is called “Positive Parenting and Effective Discipline” Our guest is Dr. Joshua Rosenthal a child psychologist in New York City. We’ll be talking talk about his workshop called, “Positive Parenting & Effective Discipline” that he offers to parents for children between the ages of 2 and 7 years. We’ll address the principals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT) and his approaches and styles as a clinician including concepts of “Earlier is Better” and “Input versus Output.” Would you tell us about these. As always we’ll talk about what he, as a professional, wished parents knew, address common questions parents often have, and end with our “Five Fantastic Facts for Families”. We invite you to email with questions info@kidsAtoZ.com , follow us on BlogTalkRadio, Facebook, and Twitter. Have a great day.
The Natl Assoc of School Psychologists Kathy Cowan and Kelly Vaillancourt are our guests
We are talking about Effective Discipline techniques for children today with Kat Robertson. Share your tips!
We are talking about Effective Discipline techniques for children today with Kat Robertson. Share your tips!