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In this episode, Kate & Catherine interview thought leader, relationship coach, visionary Marla Mattenson about the skills and practices needed to keep your heart open, heal your pain and grow in your relationships.  Marla shares so much potent wisdom  -about aging with grace & power, how to navigate the portals of turning 40 & 50 + and the most essential practices needed to truly feel loved in your relationships and free in your life!    About the Guest: Marla Mattenson, Founder of The Ethical Sales Institute and the visionary behind the Ethical Sales Process, is a trailblazer in transforming sales paradigms from transactional to relational for professionals who prioritize the integrity and fulfillment of their services. With a rich background that spans neuroscience, mathematics, and relationship-based sales, Marla is at the forefront of championing a human-centered, consent-based approach to sales. This revolutionary method – the Ethical Sales Process – is especially crucial for professionals like attorneys, financial advisors, coaches, and consultants, for whom traditional sales tactics fail to resonate with their values and the nuanced nature of their work. Throughout a distinguished 25+ year career, Mattenson has profoundly impacted a wide range of business owners and high-profile clients, including Academy Award-winning figures, NBA coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Her innovative strategies and insights continue to redefine sales and relationship methodologies, garnering international acclaim. Mattenson is a sought-after speaker and expert in the fields of sales, business, and love. She has been featured across platforms such as The New York Times, Forbes, Oprah, Entrepreneur, NBC, CBS and more. Through The Ethical Sales Institute, she continues to inspire and equip professionals with the tools to thrive in an evolving marketplace defined by integrity, care, respect and genuine connections.   About the Hosts: Catherine Danieli is a love and relationship educator helping women heal fear-based relationship patterns so that they can experience radical self love and healthy, extraordinary romantic relationships. She not only cares about helping women find love but learn the skills and tools to make love last. She is incredibly passionate about conscious relationship and empowering people to create healthy relationships in their lives. She believes healthy relationships are what will heal the world. After overcoming her own painful journey through love addiction and codependency, and seeing so many people in pain over love, she has devoted her life to teaching women how to transform, heal and have new experiences in partnership. She works with women 1:1, leads workshops and retreats as well as couples' intensives.  http://www.CatherineDanieli.com 1:1 Work - https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/5efa0d4b1b74266574a0e48e Waitlist for the Invitation   Kate Harlow is the Owner & Creator of The Unscript'd Woman - a mission to liberate women all over the world to throw away the script and create a life that lights up their own soul. She mentors women to have a healthy, thriving relationship within themselves - so they can experience vibrant, expansive, growth based relationships in their lives. Kate has coached and mentored thousands of people for almost 15 years - facilitating life changing love talks, workshops and retreats globally. She's fiercely committed to helping women break free from the old, outdated, fantasy based paradigm of love - so they can experience real, liberated love in every facet of their lives.   Website:  https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/   Kenya Luxury Safari Retreat November 16-23, 2024 https://travelsoulsisters.com/the-kenya-experience The Immersion in Corfu, Greece  April 26- May 3, 2025 https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/the-immersion   Thanks for listening! It means so much to us that you listened to our podcast! If you would like to continue the conversation with us, head on over to our Facebook group, the New Truth Movement at https://www.facebook.com/groups/209821843509179/ With this podcast, we are building an international community of The New Truth Movement. If you know someone who would benefit from this message or could be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below! Follow the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast app on your mobile device. Leave us a review We appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on Apple Podcasts goes a long way! Thank You! 

Are you tired of sales conversations that lead nowhere? What's the secret sauce to achieving clarity and commanding higher rates in your business? This epic episode is about to revolutionize your approach. Join Marli Williams as she hosts Marla Mattenson, the founder behind the Ethical Sales Institute, to dissect the strategies for attracting ideal clients and standing in your worth. We're talking big-ticket offerings, with Marla sharing her journey from $75/hour to an astonishing $36,000/month for her exceptional mentorship. This episode isn't just about numbers; it's a masterclass in the ethical sales process and overcoming the highest form of lying—people-pleasing. Peek behind the curtain to discover the power of "no" and how to navigate clients' hidden financial truths. Get ready to be empowered as we explore the sales conversation as a dance of consent and respect. Subscribe now and prepare to elevate your leadership and your sales skills. Marla's Bio:Marla Mattenson has revolutionized how passionate professionals think about sales and selling.As the founder of the Ethical Sales Institute, she has created a one-of-a-kind learning community where students discover how to create “authentic trust relationships” within the first 10 minutes of every sales conversation.Marla specializes in creating “Safe Spaces” for both the buyer and the seller.Utilizing the latest developments in neuroscience she has created a system where practitioners feel as confident and comfortable in the “Sales Part” of their business as they feel in the “Fulfillment Part” of their Business.Her Ethical Sales Process eliminates the dread and stress of sales. Marla & the Ethical Sales Institute are dedicated to help you earn more while staying true to yourself and your personal & professional ethical standards.Links:IG: https://www.instagram.com/marla.mattenson/LN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marla-mattenson-08613195Stay Connected to The Marli Williams PodcastFollow us on Instagram: @marliwilliamsOur Website: www.podcast.marliwilliams.comHire Marli to Speak at your next event, conference, workshop or retreat!www.marliwilliams.comReally love the podcast and want to share it??Give us a review on your favorite platform and share this (or any) episode with a friend. Let's Lead Together and reach more people - we appreciate your support!!

Have you ever asked yourself: Am I ready for a relationship? How will I know? Everyone's been there, but the answers aren't always so clear. On this episode of the You Turn podcast, relationship and intimacy expert Marla Mattenson is here to talk about just how to know when you're ready to take that leap. She and Ashley discuss the seven signs that you're ready for a relationship, how to pick the right partner, and how to trust your intuition to guide you. From discussing how to live an unapologetic life to always being your most authentic self, Marla drops some serious wisdom. Check out Marla's website: https://marlamattenson.com/ You can find Marla on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mmattenson/ You can find Marla on Instagram @theintimacyexperts Connect with Ash: https://www.instagram.com/ashleystahl/ Take a FREE Quiz to Discover Your Most Authentic Career Path: https://www.ashleystahl.com/freequiz/

Today's episode is a conversation between Kole Whitty and Marla Mattenson. Kole is excited to introduce Marla, founder of the Ethical Sales Institute, to her audience. Marla discusses her background in creating connection and intimacy in various roles and explains how this has influenced her unique, relationship-focused approach to sales.  She outlines the Ethical Sales Process, emphasizing the importance of caring more about relationship building than transactions. She also discusses the philosophy behind their sales process, which includes celebrating choice, aligning with trust, and selling the way one serves.  Kole shares her own experiences and challenges with money and sales, emphasizing how one's approach to sales should align with their core principles and coaching style. Towards the end, Marla highlights the urgency for practitioners to fall in love with selling their work to bring it out into the world. https://www.instagram.com/marla.mattenson/ Tah and Koles Live Event Dec 2nd https://condorapproach.com/relationships-2838  

Marla Mattenson shares her strategies to revolutionize the sales process using the innovative approach “The Ethical Sales Process.” Marla will provide tips that empower law firms to leverage authenticity in their sales efforts, enabling them to close deals with integrity and trust. Her unique approach not only boosts team performance but also leads to higher client retention rates.

Navigating the chaos of growth is a hallmark of visionary leadership. In a rapidly evolving business landscape, it's imperative for leaders to not only embrace growth but also to steer their organizations skillfully through the inevitable turbulence and unpredictability that the chaos of growth often brings. This chaos of growth can encompass everything from scaling pains and shifting market dynamics to increased competition and evolving customer preferences. Visionary leaders must not only anticipate these challenges but also leverage them as catalysts for innovation and transformation. In this episode, we explore how these exceptional leaders not only navigate but also harness the chaos of growth to propel their organizations to new heights. Our guest today is Marla Mattenson, CEO of Mattenson Coaching and Consulting. Marla Mattenson is an internationally-recognized expert in helping thought leaders and their partners thrive in love and business. With over 25 years of experience, she has guided high-profile clients, including Academy Award winners and NBA players, to break free from limiting patterns and achieve success. Marla shares her wealth of knowledge on this critical topic, offering real-world examples, practical strategies, and expert advice on how visionary leaders can turn chaos into opportunities for innovation and progress. Join us on this enlightening journey as we delve deep into the chaos of growth, uncovering the strategies that visionary leaders employ to steer their organizations towards greater success and enduring prosperity.   Get the show notes for How Visionary Leaders Handle the Chaos of Growth with Marla Mattenson at Mattenson Coaching and Consulting Click to Tweet: Listening to a fantastic episode on Growth Think Tank with #MarlaMattenson featuring your host @GeneHammett https://bit.ly/gttMarlaMattenson   #ChaosofGrowth #GeneHammettPodcast #GHepisode1029 #Inc5000 #KeynoteSpeaker #ExecutiveCoach     Give Growth Think Tank a review on iTunes!

How do we unlock passion, financial success, and unlimited joy in relationships and business? Discover the answers in this episode. Today's guest, Marla Mattenson, shares her expertise on love, sales, and business. Her insights on relationships, business, and spirituality offer a unique perspective on achieving success and fulfillment. She highlights the importance of embracing feedback, being authentic, and overcoming limiting beliefs in reaching our true potential and live a life of joy and abundance. Marla is the creator of the Ethical Sales Process and co-founder of the Intimacy Experts. She is a renowned speaker and expert in sales, business, and relationships. With her diverse background in neuroscience, mathematics, and relationship-based sales, she has helped businesses, couples, and individuals unlock passion, financial success, and unlimited joy. Join us as we will delve into some of the key themes of this episode, including the power of feedback, the role of love in life and business, the importance of trusting that all is well, the role of intuition in finding lasting love, and the practice of ethical sales. Key Takeaways 00:03:00 What Marla wishes she knew before starting life 00:04:00 Feedback versus criticism and how to receive them 00:07:40 Benefits of putting all cards on the table in relationships 00:08:55 Marla's approach to new relationships and human design 00:10:50 Complete transparency in female friendships and vulnerability of asking for deeper connections 00:12:45 Intuition and lasting love 00:15:25 Marla's abandonment issues and growth in her relationship  00:18:50 Redefining sales and science of rejection 00:20:50 Difference between traditional sales and ethical sales 00:24:05 Practicing ethical sales: transforming fear of rejection into celebrating clarity 00:20:50 Difference between traditional sales and ethical sales 00:27:50 Professional development is personal development Memorable Quotes "A sale is not always for a financial exchange. A sale is not always for money. You actually have to make a sale of someone's time, someone's energy, someone's attention before you're gonna make a financial sale of money.” [00:22:30] - Marla Mattenson "That fear of rejection completely diminishes when your focus is not on getting a yes. You're not avoiding a no at all costs, so rejection doesn't become painful. What happens is your focus is clarity and therefore if the no comes. You get to celebrate somebody's choice cuz you want your choices celebrated.” [00:24:19] - Marla Mattenson Links Mentioned  The Ethical Sales Seminar ($33, coming up on Aug 26th 2023): https://ethicalsalesinstitute.com/esp-seminar?wpam_id=33 The ESP Amplifier ($3,333, begins Sept 7 for 8 weeks): https://ethicalsalesinstitute.com/sp/esp-amplifier/?wpam_id=33 The Client Whisperer Quiz (free & fun to take + helps the audience member learn more about themselves and the Ethical Sales Institute all in one go!): https://ethicalsalesinstitute.com/op/7cpt-assessment/?wpam_id=33 Marla's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marla-mattenson-08613195/ Marla's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ Marla's Website: https://theintimacyexperts.org/ Subscribe to Mary Dee's Youtube Follow Mary on Instagram and Linkedin  Check out The Breasties! The first all-inclusive nonprofit organization that creates community for breast and gynecologic cancer survivors, previvors, thrivers, and carevivors.  

CEO of The Intimacy Experts Marla Mattenson, is sharing her Ethical Sales Process and how it doesn't just apply to business, but can also show up in our relationships with family, friends, and loved ones. This is a powerful conversation especially if you could use some training on how to not only say "no", but how to receive a "no" in all kinds of human transactions. Whether it's love, finances, or sharing ideas, get ready to boost your awareness on ethical sales practices across the board.

Do you desire the next level of deep connection and growth with your partner? I have 3 words for you: surrender, collaboration & play.  In today's episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker aka “The Intimacy Experts”, join me to share some beautiful advice & wisdom about these three intimate relationship essentials, and so much more! These love, life & business partners share vulnerably about their beautiful union and what it has taken for them to build a business together, grow their intimacy, and express their playfulness in their relationship.  We discuss: Their definition of intimacy (and what it takes to achieve it) How Marla made the transition from “mine” to “ours” in her business Julian's journey with anger and his profound transformation How to explore more play in your relationship - and why you would want to! A look at “The Lover's Play Course”, their DIY course to start having more fun in your relationship And a lot more… Connect with Marla and Julian here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ (https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/) Facebook:http://facebook.com/theintimacyexperts ( facebook.com/theintimacyexperts) The Lovers Play Course:https://theintimacyexperts.org/play-with-intimacy/ ( https://theintimacyexperts.org/play-with-intimacy/) The Intimacy Experts Home Site:https://theintimacyexperts.org ( https://theintimacyexperts.org) If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.alexandrastockwell.com (www.alexandrastockwell.com) Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage) LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/)

Do you desire the next level of deep connection and growth with your partner? I have 3 words for you: surrender, collaboration & play.  In today's episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker aka “The Intimacy Experts”, join me to share some beautiful advice & wisdom about these three intimate relationship essentials, and so much more! These love, life & business partners share vulnerably about their beautiful union and what it has taken for them to build a business together, grow their intimacy, and express their playfulness in their relationship.  We discuss: Their definition of intimacy (and what it takes to achieve it) How Marla made the transition from “mine” to “ours” in her business Julian's journey with anger and his profound transformation How to explore more play in your relationship - and why you would want to! A look at “The Lover's Play Course”, their DIY course to start having more fun in your relationship And a lot more…   Connect with Marla and Julian here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ Facebook: facebook.com/theintimacyexperts The Lovers Play Course: https://theintimacyexperts.org/play-with-intimacy/ The Intimacy Experts Home Site: https://theintimacyexperts.org If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/

The duality of being a fearless businesswoman but also a loving and caring mom can be hard to tackle. As women, it's common to struggle between business life and family matters. To handle this topic we invited Marla Mattenson, an experienced entrepeneur but also a family specialist. Marla is an internationally-recognized expert guiding women to evolve in love and business. She has been coaching and working with couples, businesses, and families since 1994 using her background in neuroscience and mathematics, Marla teaches practical techniques and personal enlightenment to unlock passion, financial success, and unlimited joy. Don't miss out! #LMOL #Moms #entrepeneurs #businesswoman #Partners #relationships

Most of us are not aware of being controlling. We think that we're doing it out of kindness, trying to help our partners. But in fact, we don't realize that our actions come across to them as controlling. So how do you begin to unpack that? And how do you stop it for good? Relationship and intimacy expert Marla Mattenson is here to walk us through the ways to finally let go of control in our relationships. Tune in to this episode: How To Let Go of Control in Relationship with Marla Mattenson. Key points covered in this episode: ✔️ Assume and be curious. Do you catch yourself irritated with your partner's words or actions? Feeling resentful of them? You may be showing signs of being controlling. There's nothing wrong with that. Give yourself space to learn and grow. ✔️ Ask for a redo. Your constant need for control makes you unconsciously think they're in the wrong. Recreate the scenario with them when you both can be in your best selves. The goal is to come out of it with more love. ✔️ Become the vibration of worthiness. Knowing our worth makes admitting our flaws much easier. But most of us were raised by parents or caregivers who didn't feel worthy. It's never too late to break the cycle. ✔️ Align yourself to the new definition of intimacy. It's the ability to be unguarded and receptive at the same time in different aspects of your relationship. The idea is to lower your defenses, even if it feels scary, so you can increase your capacity to receive more than just your own way of being. ✔️ Every controlling expression has a reason. You shared a preference with your partner. You didn't mean to sound controlling, but they felt it was. Honor their feelings. If your partner is feeling it, it's true. ✔️ Not everyone will enjoy your personal expression. Kindness can also mean setting firm boundaries. Some people may think that's controlling, and that's okay. This is your way of taking personal responsibility for your actions and choices. Marla Mattenson is an internationally recognized expert working with thought leaders and their partners in love and business. Using her background in neuroscience and mathematics, Marla guides couples and individuals to uncover the hidden patterns in relationship and business to unlock passion, financial success, and unlimited joy. Over the course of her 20+ year career, Marla has helped thousands including Academy Award-winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla's advice has appeared in The New York Times, Forbes, Oprah, NBC, ABC, CBS, and Entrepreneur to name a few. She lives what she teaches with Julian Colker, her love, life, and business partner. Website: https://theintimacyexperts.org  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theintimacyexperts  Instagram: https://instagram.com/theintimacyexperts Free Gift: The REDO:  https://theintimacyexpertsacademy.thinkific.com/pages/the-re-do ————————————— ★★★ About Marie-Elizabeth Mali ★★★ Marie-Elizabeth is the founder of Relationship Alchemy, where she helps women create loving and nourishing intimate relationships that support their work in the world. ★ TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY ASSESSMENT ★ The relationship you desire is possible! Click here to discover what missing pieces are stopping you from having the passion and connection you desire. If you're partnered: https://relationshipalchemyassessment.com. 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Apply here and book a call: https://relationshipalchemy.com/catalyze-love.   ツ CONNECT WITH ME ツ Relationship Alchemy Free Group (women only): https://facebook.com/groups/relationshipalchemyfree Facebook: https://facebook.com/relationshipalchemymem Instagram: https://instagram.com/relationshipalchemymem LinkedIn: https://linkedin/in/relationshipalchemymem Twitter: https://twitter.com/memali108 As a Relationship Transformation Expert, two-time TEDx Speaker, and host of the Relationship Alchemy podcast, Marie-Elizabeth Mali shows women how to cultivate deeper love and connection in their intimate relationships. Drawing on her Master's degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and over 20 years of working with clients, she teaches women how to show up as authentic leaders in their relationships and work instead of twisting themselves to fit in. Marie-Elizabeth's work has been featured in Thrive Global, SWAAY, and Forbes. She is also a member of the Forbes Business Council, a published author with an MFA in Poetry from Sarah Lawrence College, and an underwater photographer who has a thing for sharks. Learn more at https://relationshipalchemy.com.

In this week's episode of the Girlfriend Doctor Show, we had a delightful conversation about love, hate, and all things in between with Marla Mattenson. Marla is a an award-winning author, Sex-Ed teacher, spiritual life coach, and much more. She, along with her husband Julian, are the founders Intimacy Experts, a program built to guide couples through every aspect in order to form a blissful and honest marriage and communion. Of course we branch off in many different topics but for the most part, Marla discusses the reasons for high numbers of divorce, the many layers of intimacy, being extremely transparent to prevent dishonesty and cheating, and techniques to help guide couples to break bad habits. One concept that Marla really emphasized is that happiness is not a forever feeling. One is going to be down in the dumps one way or another, at one time or another and mistakes may be made in the dumps. One makes mistakes when one is in the dumps but it should not a time to shame or judge a partner, it is a time evaluate not only the mistake but the actions that led to that mistake from both angles. Be sure to tune in to find out more about sustaining a prosperous relationship with your other half! KEY TAKEAWAYS [1:31] Reasons for high numbers of divorce [5:35] Intimacy is more than just ·  [8:18] Why people cheat [12:38] Share and Scribe Technique for dealing with resentment [29:09] Happiness is not a forever feeling ​​[31:50] Getting a redo to break bad habits [35:00] Feeling unworthy in a relationships is the root of every single issue HOW TO CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://theintimacyexperts.org/ MEMORABLE QUOTES: “One of the biggest challenges in relationships and why it even gets to divorce in the first place is lack of communication. Lack of really sharing the truth on what's going on insides until it gets so bad, that the only option is to leave.” “If you're thinking about cheating and haven't told your partner, now is the time to talk about it before you do something.” “The idea is to open the idea of communication in a way that leads to deeper intimacy. Intimacy, as we define it … is to be simultaneously unguarded and receptive at the same time.” “Intimacy is way more than just sex. And, when sex is off, it feels like 90% of the relationship. And that's why, if you're feeling uncomfortable in your physical body, it's really challenging to want to have sex.” “Unless you're actively growing together, you're unintentionally growing apart.” “Cheating is not a deal-breaker in a relationship. It is an opportunity to take a look at how the patterns came together between the two of you, activated in such a way that cheating was the outcome.” “Cheating is never one partner is the issue problem, or the perpetrator of that experience. It had to happen because both partners are engaged in relationship in way that allowed that to move forward.” “The idea of us being dishonest, all of us are dishonest. All of us are dishonest, even on a subtle level because words are never going to completely the exact experience of what you're experiencing inside.” “If you haven't been using the resentment that is in your relationship as an opportunity to connect, here is a technique… The share and scribe is a technique that's meant to clear resentment before it starts, as it's building, after it's already there.” “Reconciliation for something that happened in the past is definitely necessary for the person who experienced it to be able to move forward in truth.” “Happiness is a human emotion that comes and goes just like every other emotion. It is an unsustainable, you can't sustain it forever. “Happiness is not the goal of a relationship. The relationship to be fully expressed, is really the goal, if you're going to have one in a relationship. Nobody has to shove it down.” “If you don't feel worthy inside, you're going to receive that as if there's something is wrong with you. But if you feel worthy inside, you're going to be like understand, this is about them.”

If you really want to experience joy, you have to look at your anger the right way. Heidi Stevens' interview with Marla Mattenson of The Intimacy Experts, gets really juicy. They're talking about raising your emotional vibration by tapping into your unconscious rage. Stop burying your anger and use it as the power source it is to unlock joy, love, and intimacy in your relationship and community.

Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker, known as the Intimacy Experts, teach couples in business together how to grow their companies without sacrificing the quality of their relationship.  Having been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, Oprah, NBC, ABC, CBS, this powerhouse couple is co-creating a world where full expression, heartfelt appreciation, and wild play are the backbone of success in business and life. In this episode, Marla and Julian join the show to discuss the power of play and why any high-performer who neglects their relationships will grow to regret it very quickly. Click here to get the full show notes and resources from this week's episode  

Good People, Today I had an absolutely delightful conversation with the intimacy experts, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, who are partners in business, love and life. They specialize in working with entrepreneur couples who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business, helping them experience passion, freedom and connection in their relationship. Marla and Julian both shared their personal and professional truths, which centered around realizing that you are completely responsible for life and what happens within it, and how to handle the negative inner voices. Their truths have helped them become better partners in work and life. We also unpack the complex topic of intimacy. What is intimacy and why is it so scary? Diving deeper, Marla and Julian break down the five main realms of intimacy, different techniques used to help couples get unstuck from past arguments and rework the past to create positive outcomes. This is an action-packed episode. So sit back, relax, and take a listen. I’ll see you in the next one. Some Questions I Ask: What truth, once you acknowledged it, led to a breakthrough in your life? (6:49)What is intimacy? (14:56)Why do you think intimacy is so scary for people? (18:55)How would you approach coaching a couple where one person is committed and the other is stuck in anger? (28:37)How would you differentiate between activating and triggering your partner? (42:36)In This Episode You Will Learn: How becoming aware of your own negativity can lead to heightened empathy and transformation. (7:25)The 5 main realms of intimacy. (15:27)How to rewire negative intimate interactions with your partner and create positive outcomes. (24:24)How venting techniques can help couples move through anger. (29:21)How quarantining has brought people closer together. (38:38)Connect with Marla & Julian: WebsiteInstagram See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You’re working as hard as you can, trying to get everything possible done before someone or something else calls for your attention. When you first started your career, it felt essential to answer all those calls, to stretch yourself, and appear superhuman to your coworkers, clients, and boss.Here’s the truth: Hustling can only get you so far. What worked then may not work for you now. In fact, it may hinder your ability to be productive, connect with others, and ultimately take care of yourself along the way. In this episode, Karlee interviews Marla Mattenson, who is an internationally recognized expert that works with thought leaders and partners on all topics surrounding love and business. She effectively utilizes her background in neuroscience and mathematics to guide individuals to unlock their passion, financial success, and joy.Throughout our conversation, you’re going to hear Marla’s take on the five types of intimacy and practical tools to help you succeed in life, love, and at work. She breaks down why “hustle culture” is unsustainable, five steps to learning to receive, and how to create space in your schedule.Tune in to learn Marla Mattenson’s practical tips to staying focused, and getting focused, grounded, and present.Some Questions Karlee Asks: How does working in neurology and mathematics give you a different perspective on intimacy and relationships? (8:03)How do driven women learn to surrender and relax without things falling apart? (12:27)What ways are you seeing the collective consciousness present within women right now in your practice? (20:10)What does it look like to increase your capacity to receive? (39:51)How can you ease the transition between who you were and who you’re growing into, when the people around you don't understand that you are changing? (47:02)In This Episode You'll Learn: Why holding the duality of your heart and mind is essential to intimacy, life, and business. (8:14)What it means to truly and powerfully surrender. (12:56)Why it’s essential to schedule space and creative time to stay grounded and present. (16:42)How hustling is both initially effective and extremely limiting. (25:29)What it means to be open to receiving. (26:39)The Five Steps of Receiving. (35:29)Marla’s technique for increasing your capacity to receive. (41:09)Resources Mentioned: Episode 41: Is Your Work Mojo Down? Here’s 4 Types of Nourishment for the Soul of Your CareerConnect with Marla:MarlaMattenson.comInstagram: @theintimacyexpertsPeople Mentioned: Paul Selig See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Let’s talk about manifesting… to join me, Relationship & Intimacy Expert, Marla Mattenson is coming on the show and I couldn’t think of a better person for the topic. Marla specializes in working with entrepreneur couples, who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. She teaches her clients how to collapse time, bend time and manifest their highest visions.    Tune in to hear:   How Marla explains the unseen world and how we can use the unseen world to create our reality.   How she began her entrepreneurial journey and how she continues to expand her vision beyond her wildest dreams!   Incredible business and personal advice from a 7 figure entrepreneur.

Here’s to living in LOVE! This week’s pod is the first time I’m bringing on a guest for the second time, but this time her partner joins us as well: Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, better known as The Intimacy Experts. They are internationally celebrated visionaries, drawing from a unique background in neuroscience, mathematics, and emotional intelligence. Marla and Julian guide their clients to learn to live in harmony in relationships, business, and to amplify their impact, income, and intimacy. This powerhouse couple is co-creating a world where full expression, heartfelt appreciation, and wild play are the backbone of success in business and life. In this episode, Marla and Julian share some awesome nuggets throughout this entire conversation that you can immediately apply to your life. We talk in-depth about the idea that all feedback is love – yes, even internet trolls’ comments. But especially when you’re in a tense moment and truly triggered, all feedback is love once we return to the intention of a pristine, pure soul. With this, Marla and Julian talk about how to expand your definition of love, what it means to receive negativity thrown your way and transmute it as love, and how love can sprout from any situation. This was one of the juiciest, most fulfilling conversations I’ve had in a long time. You’re going to love it. Some Questions I Ask: How are internet trolls’ feedback actually love? (20:03)How do you define love? (36:31)How has moment in history that’s hopefully transforming humanity impacted your personal lives and business? (39:17)In This Episode, You Will Learn: Why all feedback is love. (18:12)How to take the aggression that comes at you and transmute it as love. (25:21)How to expand your view of what love is. (28:25)How a moment of horror can spur a trend of love. (36:44)How to cultivate more intimacy within your relationships. (43:05)How simply asking questions and checking in can transform the communication in relationships. (50:41)Connect with The Intimacy Experts: WebsiteInstagram See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

I’m very excited to share another episode in my Movers & Shakers series, where I feature amazing people who are making a huge impact in not only their lives but the lives of others. This week I had the pleasure of sitting down in studio with my good friends Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker, The […]

Squeezing the juice out of life is easy for "The Intimacy Experts", Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker. As partners in business and life, this couple's study of emotional intelligence is redefining the conversation on intimacy. They know that with intimacy also comes vulnerability, blame, and unfortunately also commonly resentment. So during this episode, they reveal the 6 key steps to clearing resentment, and how to put the fun back into your relationship. So get ready for an eye-opening and intimate conversation with the experts themselves.

Episode 58: My Favourite Business PodcastsThis week I share some of my favourite podcasts that have helped me build my business. The podcasts cover everything from marketing to money to mindset... I really don't know where I'd be today without these audio inspirations!  I talk about the first podcast I ever listened to only a few years ago by a huge mentor of mine Amy Porterfield. Her podcast is called Online Marketing Made Easy and when I discovered her she blew my mind with her wealth of knowledge. Amy has really inspired me with her blend of hard-hitting business strategy and lighter, more fun and inspiring style. I share another favourite podcast, my mentor Rick Mulready and I reference a very special episode of his show that I was on, where Rick and I talk all about mindset and playing a bigger game in our businesses. It's a slightly different side of me than you've likely ever seen, and if you're interested in the "inner game" stuff, I recommend you check it out. And from there I share quite a few others, you'll have to listen to learn them all!Links mentioned in this episode:Marketing Made EasyAmy PorterfieldEpisode #106: Are You Repelling or Attracting Your Potential Customers with Jasmine Starhttps://www.amyporterfield.com/2016/04/106-repelling-attracting-potential-customers/Episode #207: Why You Aren't Taking Action with Brooke Castillohttps://www.amyporterfield.com/2018/06/217/The Art of Online BusinessRick MulreadyEpisode: Why Growing Your Business is 90% Mindset, with Lianne Kimhttps://rickmulready.com/business-mindset-lianne-kim/Mind Your BusinessJames WedmoreEpisode #186: The 7 Universal Laws of Abundance with Christy Whitmanhttp://mindyourbusinesspodcast.com/podcast/186Oprah's Super Soul PodcastEkhart Tolle – 10 Part Series around his ground breaking book “A New Earth”http://www.oprah.com/own-a-new-earth/chapter-1How to Lead for Female EntrepreneursKris Plachyhttps://krisplachy.com/podcast/Life Coach School PodcastBrooke Castillohttps://thelifecoachschool.com/podcasts/The CEO Teacher PodcastKayse MorrisEpisode: Quiet the Noise to Build the Business of your Dreams with Jasmine Starhttps://kaysemorris.com/podcast/quiet-the-noise-to-build-the-business-of-your-dreams-with-jasmine-star/The Business of Thinking Big PodcastLianne KimEpisode #41: Dealing with Imposter Syndromehttps://www.liannekim.com/blog/41The Small Non-Profit PodcastCindy Wagmanhttps://charityvillage.com/cms/knowledge-centre/the-small-nonprofit-podcastScrew the Nine to Five PodcastJill & Josh StantonEpisode: An Intimate Look into our Struggles as Couplepreneurs with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colkerhttps://www.screwtheninetofive.com/intimacy

Trust doesn't need proof. Trust is ultimately about the relationship you have with yourself. -James Williams   WORK WITH EMILY Book your Clarity Call: iheartmylifebooking.com E-mail: info@iheartmylife.com   DURING THIS EPISODE Are you ready for more magic, momentum, and money in 2020 in life and business? Did you miss our I Heart My Life LIVE event but want all of the trainings and inspiration from being there in person? We've got you covered! We're taking everything from the stage to your screen -- all the top takeaways from Emily and James Williams, Dr. James Rouse, David Neagle, Marla Mattenson and Tricia Brouk. We’ve condensed the three-day event into this masterclass to really give you a taste of what I Heart My Life Live was all about because we're going to be doing this again, and we want to see you in the room. We also want to see you getting big results in 2020, so we've broken down everything that we taught from the stage in this master class.   HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL EXPERIENCE ON THE MASTERCLASS   Our 20/20 Perfect Vision Framework - I'll personally walk you through all of the "hows" of achieving a perfect vision. There are four key steps to getting clear not only on your action steps but what you actually want.   One simple phrase that best-selling author and serial entrepreneur Dr. James Rouse taught our audience that's going to change the game for your happiness and relationships.   My personal list of success principles that are key to your next quantum leap (that I specifically used on my own journey to 7-figures).   Top money and wealth practices and tips from David Neagle and Marla Mattenson on hacking your mindset and biology if it's keeping you broke and stuck.   One question to ask yourself today that will support you in fully committing to your vision in 2020 -- meaning you'll be able to bypass anything that tries to stop you from reaching your goals -- fear, doubt, worry, your family (you get it!)!   ABOUT THE I HEART MY LIFE SHOW Tune into the I Heart My Life Show with Success Coach Emily Williams to learn how to design a life you love, manifest more success and wealth, move past fear and blocks and create joy in your life and business. Emily and her world-renowned guests will help you create a life that's better than your dreams and give you tangible action steps to get there — quickly. She'll cut through the fluff and share what's worked for her and the world's most successful people. She believes that success is an inside job — not just about another strategy. The I Heart My Life Show will help you finally heart your life, experience extraordinary success, make more money, live according to your own desires, and give you permission to go after what you really want.   SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-heart-my-life-show/id1330534524 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zw6fI37FrfVjZMXlMiZZ6   CONNECT WITH EMILY https://www.iheartmylife.com/ https://www.instagram.com/iheartmylifenow/ https://www.facebook.com/iheartmylifenow https://www.linkedin.com/company/i-heart-my-life/ Email: info@iheartmylife.com   LEARN MORE ABOUT EMILY More about Emily, her company I Heart My Life, and her coaching programs can be found at www.iheartmylife.com. Emily Williams is a success coach, entrepreneur, and author with a seven-figure business who, at one point, couldn’t get a job at Starbucks. After experiencing a quarter-life crisis, she moved from Ohio to London (where she knew no one!), and in 2014 launched her business, I Heart My Life. She made $442 in her first month—and then went on to hit six figures in six months before her 30th birthday. She grew it to seven figures in under 18 months. Today, she works with female entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them bust through the obstacles that hold their dreams and goals hostage so they can free themselves to live the lives they want, build their own online business, and hit their money goals. She's been featured in Money, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, and Success Magazine.

Marla Mattenson, relationship expert who specializes in working with entrepreneurial couples, joins Damona to discuss the key to building successful, healthy communication. Headlines for the week: 4 signs your partner could break up with you, should you save yourself for marriage like Tim Tebow, and is it good for you to roast your partner? Listener questions include: should you be worried if someone is flirting with your boo at work and what to do when you want your ex back for Valentine's Day? Find Marla on social media @theintimacyexperts or online at marlamattenson.com Get your copy of the 30 Day Dating Playbook at 30daydating.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don't need to ask permission from anyone to do what it is that you were put on this earth to do, but you can ask for support. -James Williams   WORK WITH EMILY iheartmylifebooking.com E-mail: info@iheartmylife.com   DURING THIS EPISODE Transformation does not stop once you leave the room. That’s why James and I are sharing some of the transformations we witnessed at our first annual I Heart My Life Live. We want to give you that behind the scenes experience of what actually happened at I Heart My Life Live and hope you take it and apply it to your life business to create your own transformation.   FINDING THE COURAGE TO RELEASE WHAT NO LONGER SERVS YOU Dawn is someone who really inspired us because she got herself into alignment. One of the biggest transformations we talk about is having clarity around what's next for you. Sometimes that means being brave enough to release the things that are no longer working. Take a look at what's serving you and what's not. Ask yourself what you need to release in order to move towards that thing that you really want to create this year. When you're in alignment, you are unstoppable.   ASKING FOR SUPPORT INSTEAD OF PERMISSION A very brave woman stood up at the live event and talked about this movement that she's creating to serve women around the world who have experienced postpartum depression. All of us in the room were so impressed by her and felt her heart for doing this work. She also shared that she felt like she needed to ask her husband for permission to have funding to move forward with this dream. James did an incredible job at supporting her and helping her understand that it's not about asking for permission, it's about asking for support. One of the things that we see in our community and especially in rooms that are full of driven women is this indecision piece. We revert to this little girl's mindset of asking for permission instead of granting ourselves permission and moving full speed ahead with what it is that we want to do. There's a difference between asking for permission and asking for support. The important piece is that you give yourself permission to ask for support, but to go full in and believe that you can figure it out.   RAISING YOUR PRICES What would you put into a service, package, or product that cost $250,000? This is something Marla Mattenson encouraged people to think about. Money is your coach inviting you to go to the next level, inviting you to become that next level version of you. That means you transform your mindset. You get creative. You up your game. Step into your power. Become more confident. That's one of the most significant transformations that we shared from the stage at I Heart My Life Live. It goes back to really thinking about what it is that you actually desire.   THE REASONS YOU CAN DO SOMETHING Our next transformation is all about seeing the reasons why you can do something, not why you can’t. So, we want to invite you to open up your eyes and look around and see everything that is possible for you. All of our speakers have a story of transformation, and you do as well. And so it's really important that you start to look at why you can do something. And frankly, if you have the desire to do something, that means your capability is right there alongside it. It's not always going to be easy. And yes, there might be a learning curve, but that doesn't mean that you can't do it.   FEAR AROUND THE PROCESS Most of us have fear around what's to come. One of the main four fears that we know from a study that was done worldwide is there's this fear that we will be responsible for the actions that we take for our own ruin. Do you really have a fear of a process, or is it that you don't trust yourself enough to succeed? The truth is, there is no perfect process. Go in alignment with where you want to go and stop waiting for the path to be laid out in front of you to be perfect. Just Move Forward.   JAMES AND EMILY'S TRANSFORMATIONS James I think my biggest transformation was reconfirming that you do have your own path. What I do as a coach is very similar to what a lot of people do, but I have my lane. When I'm running in my lane, then I'm my best self, and things work out. Emily My biggest transformation was that I'm capable of far more than I give myself credit.   ABOUT THE I HEART MY LIFE SHOW Tune into the I Heart My Life Show with Success Coach Emily Williams to learn how to design a life you love, manifest more success and wealth, move past fear and blocks and create joy in your life and business. Emily and her world-renowned guests will help you create a life that's better than your dreams and give you tangible action steps to get there — quickly. She'll cut through the fluff and share what's worked for her and the world's most successful people. She believes that success is an inside job — not just about another strategy. The I Heart My Life Show will help you finally heart your life, experience extraordinary success, make more money, live according to your own desires, and give you permission to go after what you really want.   SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-heart-my-life-show/id1330534524 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zw6fI37FrfVjZMXlMiZZ6 CONNECT WITH EMILY https://www.iheartmylife.com/ https://www.instagram.com/iheartmylifenow/ https://www.facebook.com/iheartmylifenow https://www.linkedin.com/company/i-heart-my-life/ Email: info@iheartmylife.com   LEARN MORE ABOUT EMILY More about Emily, her company I Heart My Life and her coaching programs can be found at www.iheartmylife.com. Emily Williams is a success coach, entrepreneur, and author with a seven-figure business who, at one point, couldn’t get a job at Starbucks. After experiencing a quarter-life crisis, she moved from Ohio to London (where she knew no one!), and in 2014 launched her business, I Heart My Life. She made $442 in her first month—and then went on to hit six figures in six months before her 30th birthday. She grew it to seven figures in under 18 months. Today, she works with female entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them bust through the obstacles that hold their dreams and goals hostage so they can free themselves to live the lives they want, build their own online business, and hit their money goals. She's been featured in Money, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, and Success Magazine.

Intimacy expert and consultant to entrepreneurial couples, Marla Mattenson, is on the podcast this week sharing the ultimate tools for feeling empowered in your relationship, communicating like a badass, and redefining your partnership. To learn more, and for the complete show notes, visit: http://www.avajohanna.com/TheAlchemizedLife (AvaJohanna.com/TheAlchemizedLife) Resources: https://marlamattenson.com/ (WEBSITE) | https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ (INSTAGRAM) https://mailchi.mp/avajohanna/money-meditation (Download the free Make That Money, Honey! Guided Meditation) Sponsors: Skillshare: Get two months free by visiting http://skillshare.com/alchemized (Skillshare.com/Alchemized) Stay Up To Date: Follow https://www.instagram.com/thealchemizedlife (@TheAlchemizedLife) and https://www.instagram.com/avajohanna (@AvaJohanna) on Instagram https://www.avajohanna.com/sign-up (Subscribe to Newsletter) Visit https://www.avajohanna.com (AvaJohanna.com) Learn more about 1:1 Mentorship with Ava https://www.avajohanna.com/mentorship-program (HERE) Upcoming Events: Join me in Santa Barbara for the VIP Immersion Retreat http://www.avajohanna.com/vip-weekend (HERE) Alchemized Life is a production of http://crate.media (Crate Media)

Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship, increase pleasure, joy and passion all while crushing sales. Over the course of her 25-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award-winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla was also a National Board Certified mathematics teacher in Los Angeles for seven years and is currently on the board of directors of a charter school in Hollywood consulting for them on their sexual education programs for 7th – 12th grade. She’s coached couples, families, individuals, companies, as well as school culture and leadership. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with entrepreneurial couples to transform their negative habitual patterns because the hidden power of successful businesses is the stable, loving relationships behind the scenes. 3:00 – Competition in the relationship work industry 5:45 – Defining mindset 9:29 – Judgements in relationship 13:46 – Consciously choosing how to react to an upset partner 17:52 – Making the conscious decision to pivot towards one-another 24:23 – Diving into uncomfortable emotions 27:34 – Collaboration and antagonism in relationship 31:21 – Freedom, evolution, and the power of “Yes, and…” in relationships 34:19 – Disagreement and interpreting “No” 38:45 – Consciously choosing behaviors to achieve desired outcomes 44:16 – Business and romance in relationships Find Marla at: www.MarlaMattenson.com Instagram: @theintimacyexperts Email: marla@MarlaMattenson.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship, increase pleasure, joy and passion all while crushing sales. Over the course of her 25-year career, […]

In this week’s episode, Rob rants about our internal stories and how they impact our lives, and the lives of those around us. He looks at the stories we tell ourselves about our own identities, about how we relate as individuals to society, and the stories that affect the way we interact with children. 1:09 – Insights from a recent medicine journey 5:50 – The impact of stories we have 10:23 – Stories creating isolation 13:10 – Social media 14:56 – The story of reality and agreement 17:44 – Stories and parenting 19:38 – The stories we tell about ourselves Find Marla Mattenson at: MarlaMattenson.com And David Neagle at: DavidNeagle.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

One woman’s story of how non-sexual physical touch helped her discover a path to healing and a deeper connection with her partner after their miscarriage. Learn more about Marla Mattenson at marlamattenson.com Learn more about Best Self Magazine at bestselfmedia.com

“It's not easy to increase your capacity to receive because it's really uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable in your mind. It’s uncomfortable, uncomfortable in your body. It's uncomfortable in your emotions. And so getting comfortable with all that discomfort is what's going to allow you to see.” - Marla Mattenson    WORK WITH EMILY iheartmylifebooking.com info@iheartmylife.com ABOUT OUR GUEST Marla Mattenson is a relationship and intimacy expert who specializes in working with entrepreneurial couples who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. Her unique approach to coaching comes from her background in mathematics and neuroscience. Marla uses pattern recognition to reveal the negative habitual responses that couples experience and how to change those patterns to achieve their desired outcome. In short, Marla is incredible at helping those of us who work closely with our partners in life and in business achieve more success in our relationship. Connect with Marla at https://marlamattenson.com/   DURING THIS EPISODE I actually allowed Marla to give me feedback about the way in which I'm holding myself back in my life and in our business, and how to move through it. Ultimately, our goal here today with this episode in particular, is to support you in increasing your capacity to receive more money, more success, more love, more happiness.   WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR CAPACITY TO RECEIVE Tell the Universe you are ready to receive Intentionally pivot to the things that bring you joy Look for different opportunities that you haven’t seen before Do something new to get new results Get comfortable with discomfort    CHANGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH DISCOMFORT Discomfort is the first thing you need to be willing to receive Discomfort means growth Discomfort means opportunity Be curious rather than afraid of what comes next Our biology is designed to keep us safe and small Pivot and move toward your vision when you feel the sabotage creeping in   RECEIVING FEEDBACK AND RESPONDING TO CHALLENGE Preplan how you will respond to feedback and challenges Pause long enough to receive the message and let it land Know where your growth edges are and be willing to lean into that space All feedback that you receive is love   ABOUT THE I HEART MY LIFE SHOW Tune into the I Heart My Life Show with Success Coach Emily Williams to learn how to design a life you love, manifest more success and wealth, move past fear and blocks and create joy in your life and business. Emily and her world-renowned guests will help you create a life that’s better than your dreams and give you tangible action steps to get there — quickly. She’ll cut through the fluff and share what’s worked for her and the world’s most successful people. She believes that success is an inside job — not just about another strategy. The I Heart My Life Show will help you finally heart your life, experience extraordinary success, make more money, live according to your own desires and give you permission to go after what you really want.   SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-heart-my-life-show/id1330534524 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zw6fI37FrfVjZMXlMiZZ6   CONNECT WITH EMILY https://www.iheartmylife.com/ https://www.instagram.com/iheartmylifenow/ https://www.facebook.com/iheartmylifenow https://www.linkedin.com/company/i-heart-my-life/    LEARN MORE ABOUT EMILY More about Emily, her company I Heart My Life and her coaching programs can be found at www.iheartmylife.com. Emily Williams is a success coach, entrepreneur, and author with a seven-figure business who, at one point, couldn’t get a job at Starbucks. After experiencing a quarter life crisis, she moved from Ohio to London (where she knew no one!) and in 2014 launched her business, I Heart My Life. She made $442 in her first month—and then went on to hit six figures in six months, before her 30th birthday. She grew it to seven figures in under 18 months. Today, she works with female entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them bust through the obstacles that hold their dreams and goals hostage so they can free themselves to live the lives they want, build their own online business and hit their money goals. She’s been featured in Money, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes and Success Magazine.

Oh boy...things are getting real uncomfortable over here today! We're diving deep into our personal relationship and giving you a behind-the-scenes look at our lives! We have Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker from The Intimacy Experts joining us on the podcast today, so get ready for some awesome takeaways! Read full show notes: https://www.screwtheninetofive.com/intimacy

Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship. Over the course of her 25 year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla was also a National Board Certified mathematics teacher in Los Angeles for seven years and is currently on the board of directors of a charter school in Hollywood consulting for them on their sexual education programs for 7th – 12th grade. She’s coached couples, families, individuals, companies, as well as school culture and leadership. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with couples to transform their negative habitual patterns because the hidden power of successful businesses, are the stable, loving relationships behind the scenes.   We talk to Marla about the positive and negative power struggles that happen in the Classroom and she shares some strategies and techniques that can help shift the way look at power in the classroom. 

In this episode you'll meet one of my most favorite mentors in the world, Marla Mattenson to understand The Neuroscience of Up-leveling.     Why do we stop short of our BIG goals?  Well maybe because it's so dang uncomfortable! We discuss this in detail and show you exactly how to reach your big vision despite how scary it can feel.   Plus we also get into the juicy debate of “is this fear or intuition” telling me not to take this action in my business? We begin to answer this question that often leads most of us on a slippery slope to giving up and giving in.  If you don't know Marla already...you should because Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching entrepreneurial couples using a non-traditional approach. She teaches couples how to uncover the hidden patterns in their relationship and business through neuroscience and mathematics.   Over the course of her 25-year career, Marla helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. She works with Julian Colker, her love, life and business partner.  She is one of the most talented mentors I've had—you can't wiggle out of your dreams with Marla!

Being able to connect with your partner and truly understand how they feel is at the core of any lasting relationship. Today on the podcast, I am joined by Marla Mattenson, a relationship and intimacy expert for entrepreneur couples. Marla and her husband Julain are such epic leaders for love and developing a relationship built on trust, authenticity, truth. She helps couples understand how to truly coexist with someone and grow as a couple. She discusses how to use conflict with your partner as a way to connect, having premade agreements for how you handle conflicts as a couple and being aware of your judgments of your partner. Marla also shares how to keep the passion alive in your relationship and why you need to make time for physical touch every day.   About Marla Mattenson:   Marla is a Relationship & Intimacy Expert who specializes in working with entrepreneur couples, who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business.    Her unique approach to coaching comes from her background in mathematics and neuroscience. Marla uses pattern recognition to reveal the negative habitual responses couples experience and how to change those patterns to achieve their desired outcome.    This approach allows couples to experience the passion, freedom, and connection they always knew was possible in relationship. Using pristine clarity in communication, allows couples to develop their business to keep pace with their growing intimacy.   Inside this episode, Marla shares: How Marla started working with entrepreneur couples What makes Marla feel alive Using her relationship for her own transformation How to use conflict as a way to connect Understanding your partners level of abuse Being with a partner who isn't into growth Helping your partner to navigate through their problems Premade agreements for handling conflicts Figuring out how you can show up differently The 5 questions for receiving Removing ammo and blame toward your partner Why righteousness is the biggest separator in relationships Becoming aware of judgment Learning from the truths that people tell you about yourself Keeping passion and intimacy alive Leaning into what your partner wants Making time for physical touch every day Using communication to find out what your partner wants An immersion that Marla and her husband Julian are offering for couples   You can find more about Marla at: Website | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter   Check out our Hungry for Happiness community for more details, programs, and tips on how to thrive as a wellness coach! Website | Samantha's Instagram | HFH Instagram | Facebook | Book | Certification Program     The Hungry for Happiness podcast combines personal development, deep conversations, and comedy to shake up the way you connect with yourself and the world. Be sure to subscribe on iTunes so you don't miss an episode!

Intimacy Secrets For Couples With Marla Mattenson

Marla Mattenson is a.k.a. the "intimacy expert" on Instagram. My conversation with her proved her social media handle was accurate! Entrepreneurial relationships have a different set of rules! If you're a go getter and your partner doesn't have the same drive this is a must listen! We cover what it's like for married couples who are both entrepreneurial as well.  www.MarlaMattenson.com IG: @TheIntimacyExperts www.SheilaBella.com/prettyrichuniversity   

In episode 36, Darla is joined by Marla Mattenson to talk about committing to your transformation and the importance of doing our own inner work as retreat leaders. Join me for this new free training all about people who have failed and lived to tell the tale. https://RetreatAndGrowRich.com/RetreatFails Find a complete transcript at https://alignedentrepreneurs.com/ep-36-committing-to-your-transformation-with-marla-mattenson

We are absolutely gushing rainbows at Method Meets Magic Radio over our upcoming guest for Monday's show when we'll be kicking off the Abundance Series! The fabulous Marla Mattenson, Relationship & Intimacy Coach for Entrepreneurial Couples, will be on the show teaching us how to create abundance in our intimate relationships. Remember, abundance is a state of being and a way of operating in life, therefore we can create abundance in ANY area of our lives. Tune in to hear what Marla has to say about creating abundance in the area of intimacy!

On Episode 46, Marla Mattenson returns with her partner Julian Colker who work together to coach couples in their relationships including how to use technology mindfully.Some of the questions I ask:How to deal with devices and how they can potentially create rough spots when it comes to our intimate relationships [2.28]Why a pre-planned advance agreements between a couple is important to set each other up for success [5:07]How technology can be used to amplify the positive in your relationship [7:55]Ways that technology can make things simple for you and your partner[13:29]How much is too much communication via text message? [18:48]What are some suggestions for those who feel they can’t commit to a simple or disciplined technology use plan? [24:13]Upcoming in person workshop Marla and Julian have about touch [28:38]What you’ll learn:Technology is a tool which can add value to your relationship and also take away from it [2:48]Pre planned advance agreements about technology between yourself and your partner [3:49]Close the gap of misinterpretation that can potentially happen when communicating through devices [5:39]Humans are now getting Dopamine and Serotonin hits which cause us to bond with our technology instead of bonding with our partner or other humans [7:30]How to use technology in a way to connect deeper with your partner’s love language [8:40]Ways to set intention about wanting to grow with your partner [10:32]How sharing your calendar with your partner so they are aware of the times you are busy and free so they can plan things around your schedule [11:31]Use technology to keep track of things your partner likes on the phone [12:53]Starting your morning routine to engage a passionate relationship that doesn’t prioritise a technology first [14:48]Setting boundaries around technology use in your family [15:26]How to creatively communicate using technology [17:16]Ways to have an intentional digital detox [21:45]Have the belief that it’s possible to be disconnected from your phone [24:48]Ways to apply technology in a way to uplift and advance your life and relationship [25:30]What’s a thought each of you would leave about technology in relationships? [31:21]Resources:Apps: Love Nudge - talks about the 5 love languages you can sign up with your partnerMarla Matteson & Julian Colker’s workshop: See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“This is our mission: All couples on the planet will use their relationship as the vehicle for their own personal transformation.”You may be familiar with the name of this month’s guest. That’s because I interviewed Marla’s romantic partner - Julian Colker - way back on episode 33 of the Stay Grounded Podcast.As an entrepreneurial power couple the story is only complete when you interview both halves, so I couldn’t wait to go down the rabbit hole with Marla.Marla is a relationship & intimacy expert who specializes in coaching entrepreneurial couples.If you’re in a relationship with another entrepreneur (or someone with an entrepreneur mindset) you’ll understand the specific challenges and opportunities that arise from this union. Fuelled by risk-taking, a growth mindset, and a desire to put yourself ‘out there’, entrepreneurial couples can struggle to create work-life harmony and create quality space for each other.But use your relationship as a mirror to fuel radical self-awareness, and you can both fly higher.It’s what Marla helps couples achieve together.“I am in charge of me. Nobody can shift my balance of my mind, except me.”I took so much away from this episode. Marla oozes with passion and enthusiasm for her work and is overflowing with practical ideas and suggestions that you can start using with your partner today.From the Mirror Tactic, to the importance of being unapologetically kind, to the power of presence, and the 1-10 test, this episode will equip you with practical things that will help you create more intimacy and connection at home.When you’re an entrepreneur with a mission and passionate about making your business thrive, it can be hard to create the same levels of success in your relationship.But as Marla reminds us, how you do one thing is how you do everything.And if you’re settling in your love life, you’re likely leaving entrepreneurial success on the table too.So tune in and learn some relationship wisdom from a specialist with over 23 years experience who’s helped over 12,000 couples, including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs.Her insights and strategies could change everything for you, the same way it did for me.“You have to listen, but listen in a particular way because we can listen with judgment or we can with curiosity.”How to contactCheck out Marla’s work - www.marlamattenson.comFollow Marla on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mmattenson/Stay up-to-date on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexpertsTweet Marla - https://twitter.com/MarlaMattensonConnect with Marla on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/marla-mattenson-08613195/ We thrive on your feedback, so if you’ve enjoyed this show, please rate us and leave us a review. And don’t forget to subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode again. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

On today's episode, Seth speaks to Marla Mattenson about how she became successful in being a Relationship & Intimacy Expert who specializes in working with entrepreneur couples, who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. Her unique approach to coaching comes from her background in mathematics and neuroscience. Marla uses pattern recognition to reveal the negative habitual responses couples experience and how to change those patterns to achieve their desired outcome. This approach allows couples to experience the passion, freedom, and connection they always knew was possible in their relationship. Using pristine clarity in communication, allows couples to develop their business to keep pace with their growing intimacy. She also talks about how she can help couples create the relationship & business they've always dreamed possible! - Fall in LOVE again - CONNECT in new & exciting ways - Build an unbreakable UNION - Increase INCOME & Build Your EMPIRE - Experience PASSION & Physical INTIMACY Learn more about Marla Mattenson here, https://marlamattenson.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy 2019, Good People! Our first interview of the year is with relationship and intimacy expert, Marla Mattenson. Marla’s work focuses on entrepreneurial couples, having worked with Academy Award-winning actors, professional athletes, and Grammy-winning singers. A former doula and high school teacher, Marla’s background in math and neuroscience help her to apply pattern recognition when coaching her clients on how to choose new and creative ways to view each other and their relationship. It’s what she calls a very logical approach to emotional material. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Happy New Year! Getting started on the right foot is the key to a prosperous new year. We are at our most ambitious and we feel unstoppable. That energy has the power to push us to new heights but it also has the power to overwhelm us. Our guest Marla Mattenson is going to help us guide our energy to push us to that next level.

On today’s episode of Love, Then Money, Marla Mattenson shares her wisdom of managing intimacy and relationships within an entrepreneurial lifestyle. Throughout her 23 years of experience in the field, she has coached Academy Award Winning actors, producers, directors, Grammy-Award Winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla specifically focuses on the importance of learning to receive love, help, and the truth from others. Learning to receive will open up so many important doors within a relationship, especially a relationship where one or both people are transitioning into an entrepreneurial life. Get ready to learn all about incorporating the value of receiving into all aspects of life and relationships, from creating pathways to positive change, enhancing your sex life, and starting up a business. Some Questions I Ask: · How do you create a growth mindset in a relationship that’s unfamiliar with that mode? How do you learn to receive? (3:45)· What if the concept of “self-help” is completely foreign to you? (9:45)· What do you do if both parties aren’t willing to make space for change in your relationship? (9:51)· What is the role of gender roles in today’s relationships? (15:10)· When and how can you implement a session of 3-minutes of sexy-time into your schedule with your partner? (31:49)· How can we overcome the societal negativity around money? (42:05)· What is the #1 thing for parents to teach their children about money? (52:34)· How do you navigate making the leap into entrepreneurship within a relationship? (55:35)In This Episode You Will Learn: · How learning to receive can benefit your relationship. (4:17)· Key reflection questions to prepare for receiving truth and making positive change. (5:52)· How to claim responsibility for your own happiness. (11:10)· How to approach gender roles in today’s relationships. (16:15)· How reframing stories you tell yourself can open you up to the truth. (26:47)· Ways to kick-start sexual intimacy in your relationship again. (32:26)· How you can learn to love money and reject societal negativity around money. (46:00)· How to integrate everything your life to allow for full access to life. (49:53)· Why teaching children the truth about wealth is crucial. (52:45)· How to successfully navigate a relationship while starting a business. (55:57)Connect with Marla Mattenson:WebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagram See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneurial relationship and intimacy experts Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker who work with entrepreneurial couples to transform their negative habitual patterns. We discuss the ins and outs of partnering in love and business and how to work together to breed phenomenal results in both. What You’ll Discover In This Episode: ✔️ The Winning Combination You Need To Be A Powerhouse Pair ✔️ How To Measure If Your Partner’s Passion For Entrepreneurship Measures Up ✔️ The Biggest Dangers Entrepreneur Couples Need To Watch Out For ✔️ Rules For Sharing Experiences That Will Uplift The Relationship ✔️ What Can Happen If Either The Business Or Love Stops Flourishing ✔️ The Biggest Obstacle In Every Human’s Life And How To Conquer It ✔️So Much More! This was an awesome discussion with Marla and Julian I hope you enjoy. Now let’s jump right in and get to the straight talk! Important Resources & Links From This Episode: The Relationship Redo Marla On Facebook The Intimacy Experts On Facebook

On this brunch date, Ginni talks to Relationship and Intimacy expert Marla Mattenson. Ginni and Marla discuss her philosophy, background, and tips for better communication. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this weeks episode I had the pleasure of interviewing another beautiful and talented well woman named Marla Mattenson.Marla is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching entrepreneurial couples using a non-traditional approach. She teaches couples how to uncover the hidden patterns in their relationship and business through neuroscience and mathematics. Over the course of her 23-year career, Marla helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. She works with Julian Colker, her love, life and business partner.Marla and I got into the topic of business and intimacy in a big juicy way: Listen In!Marla dug into recognizing patterns in our relationships and what that means and how when we understand these better it helps our relationships in all areas of our lives.We also got into understanding non-verbal cues in our body language to help us foster better relationship skillsHow to get back on the romance trail if you have fallen offHow to connect with our partner in new and exciting waysAs business women how does building a better relationship with our significant other increase our income and our empireHow does self-acceptance play a role in intimacyHow does self-care play a role in intimacyIf you haven't already please Don't Forget To Subscribe & Review Us ITunes- THIS IS SO IMPORTANT TO THE SHOW.Are you subscribed to my podcast? If you're not, I want to encourage you to do that today. I don't want you to miss an episode. I'm adding a bunch of bonus episodes to the mix and if you're not subscribed there's a good chance you'll miss out on those. Click here to subscribe in iTunes! Now if you're feeling the extra love, I would be really grateful if you left me a review over on iTunes, too. Those reviews help other people find my podcast and they're also fun for me to go in and read and then highlight you on an future episode. Just click here to review, select "Ratings and Reviews" and "Write a Review" and let me know what your favorite part of the podcast is. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey, Boss! There are some subjects that I just KNOW weigh on the minds of entrepreneurs more than others...and being in a relationship is one of them. When I opened up the polls and asked all of my followers across all platforms what questions they had for relationship and intimacy experts Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, I was blown away by the response. The vulnerability, the rawness, and the open curiosity that came back to me was absolutely astounding. I had so much amazing feedback and engagement, in fact, that the questions more than filled our entire time in this interview, so I had to choose carefully. And let me tell you, the selection of questions we dig into will not disappoint! How many time per week is ‘normal' and ‘healthy' to have sex when you're in a long-term relationship? Do relationships between entrepreneurs and non-entrepreneurs actually work out in the long run? If you're in a position where you're so damn successful you can offer your partner the option to not work, what is the best way to navigate this scenario…especially if you're a woman? From flipping traditional gender roles to a 3-minute sex ritual you can set up on the daily to keep things exciting and fresh, we cover so many different questions and angles to this conversation that I'm thinking of bringing these two back on a quarterly basis. You're gonna love this interview, Boss! If you enjoy the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag me - @SunnyLenarduzzi and I'll be sure to share your comments and big takeaways on my Instagram Stories as well. Also, please make sure to give us a review on iTunes (or Google Play, Stitcher, Android, TuneIn, Spotify). Dig in, Boss. It's all about the love today, and I hope you get as much from this interview as I did! You can find the Show Notes for this episode HERE   ____________________________________________   RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Marla & Julian on Instagram   Marla & Julian on Facebook   Julian Colker's website Marla Mattenson's website   Marla Mattenson on Instagram   David Naegle   Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas   Sign up to my FREE TRAINING on How to 100x Your Subscriber Base and Double Your Revenue Using YouTube.   Sunny Lenarduzzi's YouTube Channel _____________________________________________ Say hi to Sunny Lenarduzzi on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SunnyLenarduzzi/ Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/add/sunnylenarduzzi Twitter: https://twitter.com/SunnyLenarduzzi YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/SunnyLenarduzzi Instagram: http://instagram.com/sunnylenarduzzi/   Sign up to my FREE TRAINING on How to 100x Your Subscriber Base and Double Your Revenue Using YouTube.   Join our community in “Be Your Own Boss Mastermind” Facebook Group here: http://www.byoboss.today   Listen to The Sunny Show Podcast here: iTunes Google Play Stitcher Android TuneIn Spotify  

Marla N. Mattenson is an entrepreneur and frequent speaker on the topic of relationships, intimacy and wealth building. Over the course of her 22-year career, she developed a unique, scientific approach to relationships to help entrepreneur couples rock both the boardroom and the bedroom, helping more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Find more at https://marlamattenson.com/.On each episode of the Technology For Mindfulness Podcast, Robert Plotkin, co-creator of the “Hack Your Mind” series at MIT, explores the intersection between the practice of mindfulness & the use of technology in the modern age. Show notes can be found at TechnologyForMindfulness.com/. Come back often & feel free to subscribe in iTunes or add the Technology For Mindfulness Podcast to your favorite podcast application.Follow us on:https://Twitter.com/TechForMindfulhttps://Facebook.com/TechnologyForMindfulnessSubscribe to the Technology For Mindfulness Podcast via:iTunes: apple.co/2opAqpnStitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/robert-plotkin/technology-for-mindfulnessTuneIn: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Technology-Podcasts/Technology-For-Mindfulness-p963257/YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCadmsqRjuiilNT5bwHFHDfQRSS: https://feeds.feedburner.com/TechnologyForMindfulnessMusic courtesy of Tobu - Colors [NCS Release]youtu.be/MEJCwccKWG0www.7obu.com@7obuwww.facebook.com/tobuofficialwww.twitter.com/tobuofficialwww.youtube.com/tobuofficial See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Have you ever asked yourself: Am I ready for a relationship? How will I know? Everyone’s been there, but the answers aren’t always so clear. On this episode of the You Turn podcast, relationship and intimacy expert Marla Mattenson is here to talk about just how to know when you’re ready to take that leap. She and Ashley discuss the seven signs that you’re ready for a relationship, how to pick the right partner, and how to trust your intuition to guide you. From discussing how to live an unapologetic life to always being your most authentic self, Marla drops some serious wisdom. Don’t forget to stay tuned for Ashley’s post episode thoughts! Check out Marla’s website here. You can find Marla on Facebook here. You can find Marla on Instagram @theintimacyexperts

Marla is a relationship and intimacy expert who specializes in coaching entrepreneurial couples using a non-traditional approach. She teaches couples how to uncover hidden patterns in their relationships and business through neuroscience and mathematics. Over the course of 20 years, she has helped more than 12,000 couples including academy award winners, coaches, NBA players, Emmy award winning artists and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla works with her love life and partner Julian Colker. In this episode, Marla talks about some of the mindset tools and techniques that have transformed her life and others. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's guest reminds us that our role as speakers and communicators it not just to convey information. It's to help people grow and transform their lives. She shares how she has helped people pursue personal growth, make deeper connections, and move them to action.

The entrepreneurial journey is one of trials and tribulations. If you ever feel like you want to quit, you know what we mean One of the tried and true ways to fight the hills and valleys of being in business is working with your partner in life. For some, it's a rewarding venture. For some, it's an added complexity. No matter where you are in the spectrum, it can make the journey that much manageable and my guest Marla Mattenson is a specialist when it comes to relationships in the entrepreneur world.

It's one heck of a balancing act to try to make sure that your love life and your professional life work smoothly. How often have you wondered how your relationship and your work life fit together? What happens when the person you're in love with, dating, or married to is also someone you work with? I know so many of you are excited to hear from today’s guest, relationship and intimacy expert Marla Mattenson. Over her 23 year long career, she's helped more than 12,000 couples, including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. She and I dig into what makes an entrepreneur couple different from your average couple, and draw on her unique gift of working with couples to transform their negative habitual patterns. Marla uses her neuroscience and a mathematics background to work with couples, and she practices what she preaches by running a business with her husband! “We have to make sure that we're valuing our partner purely for who they are -- not because of who they are in the business, not because of who they are in the world, just for who they are in partnership.” Notable Moments: Hear how Marla fell into this fantastic (and so needed) niche. Learn how to tell if someone is a good match for you right from the beginning. Marla shares why angel investors get squeamish when working with married business partners. Understand why you don't need to have exactly the same ambition level as your partner. Learn about “exquisite attention” and how Marla uses it when couples hit a rough patch. Links Mentioned In This Episode: *this post may contain affiliate links...for more info, please see my full disclosure* Relationship Redo Marla’s Website  

How to Create More Trust and Intimacy in Your Relationship. When a couple is in business together, there can be moments of conflict. A foundational piece of keeping peace in moving the mission forward together is that there has to be one Alpha leading at any one given time. Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker are relationship and intimacy experts whose focus is helping entrepreneurs.

Marla Mattenson is a relationship and intimacy expert who has worked with over 12,000 couples over the span of her career. As the result of her successful work, she has been featured on NBC, ABC, FOX, and Entrepreneur magazine. She focuses primarily on entrepreneur couples who have struggles with communication due to their busy lives and have a desire to rekindle and transform both their relationship and business. Marla’s unique approach to relationship coach stems from her background in mathematics and neuroscience, as well as pattern recognition to identify the negative responses couples experience in order to help change those patterns. In this episode, Marla speaks about the common struggles entrepreneur couples face such as time management and relationship involvement. She mentions the necessity of creating a relationship vision for each partner in a relationship in order to fully understand what one wants and needs. Marla emphasizes that through an abundance mindset and willingness to work through hardships, high-performing couples are able build a stronger bond.

What does a doula, massage therapist, high school math teacher, and a 7-figure relationship expert have in common?   Meet Marla Mattenson. She’s a successful coach who works with entrepreneur couples to strengthen their relationships and business. In this episode, she threads the pieces of her random past together to prove that you can leverage one core skillset to create endless opportunities throughout every leg of your journey.   Episode Topics   Parallels between childbirth and entrepreneurship ‘Doula’ defined Communication and trust as an expertise Self-reflection and pivoting after trauma Entrepreneur’s intuition and listening to your calling Do you have an affinity for intensity? The impact of a trustworthy inner-city high school math teacher Earning trust to help clients through intimate issues Applying an entrepreneurial spirit as a teacher Why Marla doesn’t believe in fixed incomes Finding opportunity on a plane. Again. (see episode 7) How hiring a money mindset coach boosted Marla’s self-confidence Doula clients vs. relationship coaching clients [5:39] Born entrepreneur: Since age 11, Marla's monetized everything she's done from babysitting to hand-crafted jewelry.   [7:17] Starting line: In 1993, she became a pregnancy massage therapist and one of her teachers mentioned she'd make a good doula. Turns out, she did.   [8:01] Realizing potential: Began working with couples as a postpartum doula — coaching them through high-intensity moments.   [9:22] "The intensity of how comfortable I can be living in the unknown, flying blind, living by my vision without anybody else paving the path ahead of me. I'm paving my own path. That's kind of what birth is."   [13:01] Traumatic transition: Marla was in an accident that rolled her car down Topanga Canyon in L.A.   [15:06] Soul searching: She took a month off to heal, meditate, and self-reflect. "If I had another life to live, what would I do?"   [15:31] Pivoting: Went back to school to be an OBGYN but changed majors to Mathematics. Earned her Masters in Mathematics and Medical and Life Sciences at UCLA. [20:33] Increasing impact: Took her drive for math into the classroom and taught math to inner-city high schoolers in L.A. for 7 years. [20:53] Continued education: With the support of Math for America, Marla earned a national board certification and taught math and Pedagogy to teachers across the US.   [22:17] Seeing opportunity: "I was hired initially at a school with a principal who was very open to me developing programs, so I did a lot of project-based learning." [22:58] Honoring entrepreneur spirit: Marla's methods were recognized by a man who helped with project-based learning around the country. He trained her personally —leading to more opportunities.   [24:17] Earning client trust: "You'll never get hired as a doula or anybody who's really gonna help someone through something intimate unless people trust you...People tend to feel very safe with me."   [29:18] Entrepreneur’s intuition: Felt the pull to coach couples full time and hired a high-level entrepreneur business money mindset coach.   [31:06] Shifting into expertise: “[My coach] did for me what I'd been doing for others all these years which was to help me see, 'Oh, I can believe in myself as much as I can believe in others."   [32:35] Same skills, different format: Marla applied the same skillset as a doula to working with entrepreneur couples.   [36:56] Opportunity seeker at heart: "I don't believe in fixed incomes...there's always more you can do to uplevel if you're not happy with how much money you're bringing in."   [37:25] Opportunity everywhere: A man made conversation with Marla on a plane. He was the president of CBS in LA and offered to have her on a show.   [38:03] First client connection: Marla compares her first paying clients as a doula to her first clients as a relationship expert.   [40:54] Channeling energy: "I'm just a vessel here. I get myself out of the way more and more so [energy] can easily and effortlessly really channel through me so people get results."   “You have to not be looking for opportunities to really miss them.”     Connect with MarlaMattenson.com Facebook Insta     Subscribe to the Experts Unleashed YouTube Channel for exclusive video trainings and content. Join our Facebook group  where you’ll find thousands of fellow experts plus access to hangouts and webinars to support you on your journey.   Want Joel's personal help to develop, launch, or scale your business? Contact him directly for private consulting opportunities.

It would normally cost you six-figures to work with this relationship coach. Her clients include millionaire entrepreneurs, academy award winning actors, and grammy winning stars.  But I’ve convinced her to join us on So Money to give us her best advice on how to succeed in your relationship, especially when it comes to financial challenges of all sorts. Marla Mattenson is a relationship and intimacy expert who specializes in coaching entrepreneurial couples. But what makes her advice so effective is that it’s data-driven. She uses her neuroscience and math background to help clients transform their negative habitual patterns. And get this: If you’re wondering why it’s so hard to be in a relationship, Marla says it’s because as humans, we are sort of hard-wired to sabotage them. But she’s got some good news, too, including simple and effective ways to find peace with your money differences. To learn more about Marla, visit her website at MarlaMattenson.com or find her on Instagram @marla_mattenson. To read her Dear Marla column for Entrepreneur and submit a questions click here. For more visit www.somoneypodcast.com.

Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching entrepreneur couples with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to transform their relationship to experience freedom and connection they always knew was possible. In this episode we discuss how to create a life-long love affair with your partner. Show notes: https://wp.me/p1sazk-3ia

Are you looking to transform your relationships in your life and business? Do you want to break through years and generations of money blocks and old patterns? The guest on this episode is Relationship and Intimacy Expert Marla Mattenson who specializes in working with entrepreneur couples who have a desire to transform both their relationship and their business. With a background in mathematics and neuroscience, she has a unique approach to coaching that allows couples to experience the passion, freedom, and connection they desire in their relationship. She’s sharing her expertise on the IHML Show, giving simple steps and shifts that will allow couples to develop their business and their relationship and at the same time, become the best versions of themselves. Her work is simple yet powerful. Emily and James worked with Marla in 2017, and experienced huge shifts through her coaching. We know you'll be impacted too. Marla Mattenson is a seven figure relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching entrepreneur couples with an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with couples to identify their negative habitual patterns. Over the course of her 22-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. For Further Insight: Website: www.marlamattenson.com Follow on Twitter: www.twitter.com/MarlaMattenson Facebook: www.facebook.com/mmattenson

Today’s guest is Marla Mattenson. Marla is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching entrepreneur couples with an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with couples to identify their negative habitual patterns. Over the course of her 22-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. You can learn more about Marla at www.MarlaMattenson.com. This episode is being brought to you by Zero to Launch in 14 Days – the premiere podcast training course. Sign up for your Podcasting Breakthrough Discovery Call today, and don’t forget to grab your free report “The Simple 5-Step Process to Launch a Rockin’ Podcast in Just 14 Days”. Be sure to subscribe to Consciously Speaking so that you don’t miss a single episode, and while you’re at it, won’t you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.MichaelNeeley.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter.

In a midst of a conflict or when we are angry at our partner, Marla Mattenson, Relationship and Intimacy expert, asserts that we are actually seeing our partner as a threat. This can send us into a flight, flight or freeze response which, in relationship, results in lying, blaming and defense. To have a working, intimate and fulfilling relationship, it’s important to be able to respond in a responsible way. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with couples to identify these negative habitual patterns. Over the course of her 22 year career she's helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Currently, she specializes in coaching entrepreneurial couples who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business. Today, we’ll talk about why we see our partners as a threat, how to begin navigating conflict given this discovery, and what to do when we mess it up.   LINKS:  Marla Mattenson's Website Facebook Twitter Instagram     Call the show!  (702) 605-4609   The song featured on this show is "Slow Burn" by Autograf. 

Lets talk about Relationship and Sex!  In this episode I sit and talk with Marla Mattenson who is a Relationship and Sex Coach.  We talk about what it takes to keep your relationship(s) going.  Marla works with a lot of couples across the country, and she works with CEOs and Business owners on not only their relationship at home but also the office as well.  Key word today… Communication.  Do you know what it really is?  Take notes!  

In this show we had Marla Mattenson on with us.  Marla is a life coach specializing in relationships & sex. We had the opportunity to discuss advice that she would give some couples to spice up their relationships.  Get the ice ready folks, this was one hot show!