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 What sets emotionally intelligent couples apart is their ability to stay connected, even when disagreements arise.I'm often more concerned about couples who never fight, because avoiding conflict entirely can hide unresolved hurts. After all, the closer you are, the more likely ruptures are to happen, and how you handle them matters.Here are three things emotionally intelligent couples do differently when they are in conflict.1. They don't assume the worst about their partner's intentWe've all been there. One sharp comment can seem like an attack on your character. For example, you forget to text back and it is interpreted as not caring. A request for space could be misconstrued as abandonment.Instead of assuming the worst, the most emotionally intelligent couples will ask questions like:“Can you help me understand what was happening for you?”“What did you hear me say?”“What part of this feels hardest?”“What's been on your mind lately that I haven't asked about?”“What's something you want more of right now?”The strongest, most emotionally intelligent couples genuinely see who their partner is becoming, not who they want them to be or who they once were.2. They take responsibility for their emotions and plan how to regulate them togetherEmotionally intelligent couples don't expect their partner to fix their feelings, but they also don't shut each other out. A partner's presence can help them stay regulated and connected, even in anger or frustration.Pausing during conflict is one of the hardest skills. It's hardest when you're triggered and least able to access your tools. I often encourage couples to plan ahead with a “clean pause” script, like: “I need 20 minutes so I don't say something I'll regret. I'll come back.”3. They stay curious, even during major conflictsWhen people feel threatened, the brain loves shortcuts. Emotionally intelligent couples slow this process down and become, in effect, investigators of each other's inner worlds.Curiosity has been associated with greater closeness and intimacy in conversations, especially during moments of disagreement.Part of why curiosity disappears whether it's one, 10, or 20 years in is because we start living off our assumptions. We tell ourselves we already know what our partner meant, what they felt, and why they did it because the person across from you is so familiar.The problem is that once you think you already know the story, you stop learning about your partner's actual experience. Conflict then becomes two competing narratives instead of a shared inquiry into what's really happening, even when you disagree.My Video: The best relationships stay connected regardless of what. https://youtu.be/t3G0YEVtmhIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-best-relationships-stay-connected-regardless-of-what.mp3

 Book: The study of the art of motorcycle maintenance The only Zen you can find on the tops of mountains is the Zen you bring up there.Quality is a direct experience independent of and prior to intellectual abstractions. To live only for some future goal is shallow. It's the sides of the mountain that sustain life, not the top.If you run from technology, it will chase you.The place to improve the world is first in one's own heart and head and hands.Boredom always precedes a period of great creativity.We do need a return to individual integrity, self-reliance, and old-fashioned gumption. We really do.The truth knocks on the door and you say, go away, I'm looking for the truth, and it goes away. Puzzling.Metaphysics is a restaurant where they give you a thirty thousand page menu, and no food.The Buddha resides as comfortably in the circuits of a digital computer or the gears of a cycle transmission as he does at the top of a mountain.If you stare at a wall from four in the morning till nine at night, and you do that for a week, you are getting pretty close to nothingness.When somebody goes outside the cultural norms, the culture has to protect itself.I really don't mind dying because I figure I haven't wasted this life.There's no such thing as morality.My Video:  Robert M. Pirsig Quotes  https://youtu.be/XviK0zOx8pQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Robert-M.-Pirsig-Quotes.mp3

 In Bhutan, you see many houses and temples decorated with phallus symbols. Naturally, you ask: Why?This question leads to profound insights—and just might change your life.Who Was Drukpa Kunley?Drukpa Kunley was born in 1455 in Lhasa, Tibet. He became a monk and later a Lama, following the Tantric teachings. He was a deeply sincere seeker with great insights, and during his time in monasteries, he was admired for his wisdom.But he often asked uncomfortable questions—questions that mostly went unanswered.What if our discipline is driven by fear of punishment or a need for validation?What if we achieve a higher rank and feel proud of it? Isn't that motivation rooted in ego?Why do we need validation that we are "good"?Isn't our very search for enlightenment an ego trip?Why do we aspire to become a Lama or a Rinpoche?Might it not be better to just be an ordinary person?The Monk Who Left the MonasteryOne day, he left the monastery for good. He traveled through Tibet, teaching as he went—but he was just as likely to be found in taverns, drinking alcohol with ordinary people.When he visited temples, he would invite the monks to drink with him. If they refused, he would ask:"Are you afraid of the alcohol? Or are you afraid of breaking the rules? Or perhaps you're afraid of losing your status as an honorable monk?"The Saint of 5000 WomenDrukpa Kunley became known for his unconventional methods of enlightening others—especially women, which earned him the title "The Saint of 5000 Women." Women would sometimes seek his blessing through sexual intercourse.His intention was radical for his time: to show that enlightenment and a healthy sex life are not mutually exclusive. He sought to demonstrate that celibacy is not a requirement for spiritual realization.How the Mad Saint Saved BhutanAt that time, Bhutan was suffering from unfavorable signs that led to bad harvests. The people needed a solution to change their negative karma.They asked Drukpa Kunley for his blessing.He explained that Bhutan was under a curse from a goddess. To counter it, he introduced sexual Tantra to the kingdom. From that moment on, the curse was lifted, and the land prospered again.Teachings That ChallengeMany religious people came to him for advice. They would list all the practices and sacrifices they had already made on their spiritual path.His response cut through their seeking:"If you have done it the right way, why do you need my validation?"He taught that if you have built a genuine connection—a true faith—in God, you don't need anyone else to validate it.The Ego Trap of EnlightenmentDrukpa Kunley questioned the very goals of the spiritual path:In Buddhism, the goal is Nirvana, enlightenment, or freedom from rebirth.But he saw these as ego-driven aspirations. You cannot reach them, he suggested, because they were never truly separate from you to begin with.The Sufis say: Don't make a business out of your death. Surrender to God without conditions—not even for paradise.The true Christians, he observed, put God first in every decision, without conditions or bargaining.Why Do We Need Spiritual Titles?Drukpa Kunley also questioned the need for spiritual titles—Lama, Rinpoche, and so on. These, he pointed out, are creations of the ego.Purpose vs. FaithWestern philosophy has created a life built around purpose or mission—think of Tolstoy. This often happens, Drukpa Kunley might observe, when people have lost their faith in God.The danger of a purpose-driven life is that your purpose can be taken away. You can age, fall ill, or face war—and suddenly your mission is gone.But no one can take away your connection to God.Faith in God is infinitely superior to any earthly purpose.My Video:  Drukpa Kunley: The Mad SaintMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Drukpa-Kunley-The-Mad-Saint.mp3

 Two simple practices can make a profound difference:Massage THIS spot for 1 minute daily to restore potency.Add raw, unprocessed cacao mass to your morning drink—it will improve your performance in every area of your life.The 60-Second Massage That Changes EverythingWhen you gently massage this point for 60 seconds each day, you:Detox the blood vessels in the pelvic areaRelease chronic tension in the pelvic musclesDecompress the nerves responsible for erection, restoring sensitivityMassage the prostate glandWhat Is This Point?This is one of the most important points in Yoga and Traditional Chinese Medicine. It is called:The PerineumHui Yin (in Chinese medicine)The "One Million Dollar Point"The "Gate of Death"This point is located in the area of the root chakra, and it connects the root chakra directly to the crown chakra.Where to find it:It lies between your legs, between the scrotum and the tip of your tailbone (coccyx). There is a small "cave" or indentation—massage inside this area.The point may feel tender at first. With regular massage, the tenderness will fade.How to Massage This PointBe gentle. Use light pressure—never force it.Use oil. Castor oil is ideal, but any natural cold-pressed oil (like coconut oil) works well.Be consistent. Massage every day. You may begin to notice results after about one month. Continue the practice for life.Get comfortable. Lie down on your bed relaxed, or sit on the edge of a chair with your knees open. If your pelvis is tense, you won't get the full benefit.Timing matters. Do not do this massage right before sexual activity. Do it when you are relaxed, without pressure or expectation.Technique:Massage the area gently, then press for 5 seconds, release for 5 seconds. Repeat this 4 times.Raw Cacao: Nature's Performance BoosterRaw cacao mass supports your entire body—including your sexual vitality. It has one of the highest antioxidant levels of any food, specifically flavonoids, which are superb for cardiovascular health. And good circulation is exactly what your sexual organs need.1. Better Cardiovascular and Heart HealthBlood Pressure & Circulation: The high level of flavanols in raw cacao helps produce nitric oxide, which relaxes arteries, lowers blood pressure, and improves overall blood flow.Reduced "Bad" Cholesterol: Raw cacao helps reduce the oxidation of LDL cholesterol, preventing plaque formation. This benefit is often lost in heavily processed chocolate.2. Superior Antioxidant ContentRaw cacao contains significantly higher levels of antioxidants—specifically flavonoids—because it is not subjected to high heat (roasting) or chemical processing. It has one of the highest ORAC (Oxygen Radical Absorbance Capacity) scores of any food. Some estimates suggest it has 40 times the antioxidants of blueberries.3. Improved Cognitive Function and MoodMental Clarity: Raw cacao boosts focus, memory, and attention span by improving cerebral blood flow.Natural Mood Enhancer: It contains compounds like Anandamide (the "bliss molecule") and Phenylethylamine (PEA), which promote feelings of euphoria and relaxation. These compounds are far more preserved in raw, unprocessed cacao.4. Higher Mineral DensityMagnesium: Essential for muscle function, nerve health, and heart health.Iron: Raw cacao provides a highly absorbable source of plant-based iron—especially valuable for vegetarians and vegans.Other Minerals: It is also rich in potassium, copper, manganese, and phosphorus.My Video:  How to Increase Your Potency? https://youtu.be/pXt7lpbOeNQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Increase-Your-Potency.mp3

 For many years, Carl Jung studied dying people and published his observations shortly before his own death. Here is what he discovered.1. You do not have a soul. You are the soul.2. As people drew closer to death, their dreams changed completely.3. In their dreams, the ego began to fade—along with concerns about reputation, wealth, success, and identity.4. Symbols of homelessness, mandalas, circles, and images of completion began to appear.5. These symbols appeared in a specific sequence, as if the psyche knew that death was near.6. The psyche was preparing for a transformation—or a return. (Jung explored this deeply in his book Memories, Dreams, Reflections.)7. In their final week, patients stopped fearing death. It wasn't because they had found religion. It was because their unconscious had shown them something—a vision, a knowing—that their "small self" was only a temporary construction. Beneath it, something was waiting. Something that had already been there. Something that did not die.Jung called this the Self—the part of you that existed before you were born and continues after you pass away.8. Most people never meet their true Self. They live their entire lives identified with their ego—the small self that is terrified of disappearing.9. But those who do their inner work—a process Jung called individuation, the integration of the unconscious—they meet their true Self while still alive. And when they do, they no longer fear death.Why? Because they realize that the part of them afraid of dying was never real. The small self, the ego, is just a mask—a temporary structure built to navigate the world. It was never who we truly are.10. This realization is not about preparing for a next life. It is about waking up—now—and knowing what you really are, before death arrives.11. If you wake up before death, you understand that you wasted your life on a false assumption: that you are only the small self, the ego. The ego is not in control. And if you never looked deeper, you missed the one thing that truly matters: the true Self—the eternal part of you that was there before you took birth and will remain long after your death.12. Jung also discovered a pattern in the dreams of dying people—four stages that emerged months before death. He saw these as the psyche preparing for the final curtain.Stage One: The JourneyThe person dreams of journeys—long roads, distant lands, crossing rivers, climbing mountains.Stage Two: The GuidesDreams fill with animals, old figures, and guides. Jung called these archetypes—universal symbols that appear in every culture, like the Wise Old Man or the Great Mother. When these figures appeared night after night, Jung knew the dreamer was being guided—not by the conscious mind, but by something deeper. The true Self was preparing them for what comes next.Stage Three: The LightThe dreams become luminous. They are filled with light, golden views, glowing cities, radiant figures. Patients would wake and describe these dreams with tears in their eyes—not from sadness, but because the dreams felt so real. The unconscious was showing them their true Self, the place they were about to return to.Stage Four: The DissolutionIn the final stage, the person stops dreaming about themselves. The individual self fades away. Instead, they dream in symbols—unity, circles, mandalas, spirals. The true Self has fully emerged. No longer separated. No longer alone. Connected to something infinite.In these final dreams, the ego dissolves. What remains is pure consciousness—no longer personal, but universal.13. Jung documented these four stages across different cultures and belief systems. The pattern was always the same.And he noted that those who practice contemplation—who do the inner work—can experience the true Self without being in the process of dying.My Video:  Carl Jung's Final Message Before He Died https://youtu.be/sZa6rGbPFzYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Carl-Jung's-Final-Message-Before-He-Died.mp3

 Many people assume emotional security means never feeling jealous, arguing or questioning where they stand. But couples in emotionally secure relationships can navigate discomfort without losing trust in each other.1. In relationships, small problems are blown up to immense problems… For what is that good?We want to solve our problems and don't want to enlarge them in the future… Just solve them in the here and now. Strategy go in baby steps… If you want to go from A to B in the night you can see only 50m, and you have to go 400km… Should you panic, or you ask what is If I am going wrongOr I have an accidentIf I am not on timeIf I have not enough petrol, even you have… This leads to nothing.It is always enough to solve the problems that you have right now. We go forward, stubbornly forward regardless how the situation looks projected in the future.We don't know the future and to assume the worst case scenery makes life awful. Here are five things good relationships do regularly.1. They always resolve conflicts.Secure couples argue, sometimes passionately. In fact, research shows that they're quite skilled at it. The difference is that they don't sweep problems under the rug or storm off indefinitely.Instead, they face discomfort head-on, acknowledging hurt feelings, admitting faults and tolerating the awkwardness of disagreement.Most importantly, they always adjust their behavior afterward. For a conflict to truly end, it must leave both partners feeling heard and respected.2. They give each other freedomEmotionally secure couples enjoy nights out separately, maintain friendships outside the relationship, and pursue personal goals without guilt. They know trust grows when closeness and autonomy coexist.Constant proximity is not a measure of intimacy. Secure partners understand that individuality fuels attraction and energy, making time together richer and more rewarding.3. They don't narrate each other's feelingsIn insecure relationships, partners often assume they know what the other is thinking: “You're distant because you don't care,” or, “You're mad because I didn't take your advice.” This can escalate misunderstandings.Secure couples strive to resist this impulse: When one of them seems off, the other asks and then listens. They ask, they listen and they trust the answers.When you trust your partner will tell you what you need to know, you don't feel compelled to read between the lines.4. They make space for boredomNot every phase of a healthy relationship has to feel electric. Workweeks, errands, and responsibilities can make life feel repetitive. In insecure couples, this monotony can trigger panic or doubt about the “spark.”Emotionally secure couples, on the other hand, know not to panic when things sometimes feel monotonous. They see steadiness as a sign of safety, not stagnation, and recognize that love isn't meant to feel like a constant high.5. They don't outsource reassuranceEven secure people have moments of doubt, but they don't bombard each other with constant “Do you love me?” check-ins, nor do they withdraw in protest when reassurance isn't immediate. They rely on evidence from their actions.My Video:  Real Relationships have real problems https://youtu.be/utfbigq_9YwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Real-Relationships-have-real-problems.mp3

 If you want to meet someone who can fix any situation you don't like, who can bring you happiness in spite of what other people say or believe, look in a mirror, then say this magic word: 'Hello.'What the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls a butterfly.Every problem in your life carries a gift inside it.You wait a lifetime to meet someone who understands you, accepts you as you are. At the end, you find that someone, all along, has been you.Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.Mistakes - call them unexpected learning experiences.To bring anything into your life, imagine that it's already there.Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours.The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life.You're never given a dream without the power to make it true.Life does not listen to your logic; it goes on its own way, undisturbed. You have to listen to life.Cherish yesterday, Dream tomorrow, Live today.If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem.I do not exist to impress the world. I exist to live my life in a way that will make me happy.You are always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or a different past.A tiny change today brings a dramatically different tomorrow.There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.My Video:  Richard Bach Quotes https://youtu.be/dMGpsQXhKxsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Richard-Bach-Quotes.mp3

 If you feel you don't have enough today, you will feel you don't have enough tomorrow. This cycle continues until you die.You will never be at peace with yourself or truly happy as long as you operate from a place of wanting more.Society constantly tells you to want more. Successful people teach that you deserve more and, in the best cases, give you a plan to get it. But even when you succeed and gain a lot, the desire remains: you want more.Gandhi said, “The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed.” It is the same for the greedy soul; there will never be enough.We apply this logic to our relationships, too. We think we deserve a better spouse, and our spouse often thinks the same of us.We are told we must improve every day, do better every day. This mantra implies we are perpetually incomplete and never good enough.Stop and ask yourself:Good enough for what?When will you be good enough?What happens as you age and your abilities naturally decline?Chances are, you will die before you ever feel you are “good enough.”What if, instead, you chose to enjoy your time in the here and now? Or will you choose to punish yourself with a litany of lack?You are not good enough.You do not have enough.Your spouse is not good enough.Your car is not good enough.Your children are not good enough.Your work is not good enough.Your salary is not enough.Your boss or customers are not good enough.The weather is not good enough.Your body is not good enough—too fat, ill, unattractive, not sexy enough.You are not young anymore…The truth is, we can always find something to complain about. But we can also always find something to be grateful for.If you feel you don't have enough, start by being grateful for everything you do have—for all you encounter, even for your spouse.Let the entrepreneurs chase their new goals. Let society tell you that you need a newer car. You can choose to let yourself be happy and at peace.Until you accept your situation, you cannot genuinely change it.There is a world of difference between creating from joy and creating from need or greed. An artist creates not from lack, but from a fullness of spirit. That is why their work is profoundly creative and their life feels fulfilled.We can live that way, too.I have nothing against self-improvement. But it must come without pressure. And from that place of acceptance and peace, improvement doesn't just happen—it flows.My Video:  The Myth of "Not Enough" https://youtu.be/yTaKKBpF5aYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-Myth-of-Not-Enough.mp3

 We've all heard it — and maybe even felt it in our bones:Kindness is seen as a liability. Softness is mistaken for surrender.In politics, relationships, and business, showing too much generosity or empathy is often interpreted as an opening — a weakness to be exploited. It can feel like we're still living in a jungle where only the strong survive, and morality is a luxury few can afford.But is that the whole truth?Does living effectively mean we must be ruthless or rigid all the time?Not at all.What it calls for is not the abandonment of kindness, but the pairing of compassion with clarity, boundaries, and the willingness to act when needed.The Classroom PrincipleImagine you're a teacher with a room full of students aged 8 to 15.If you walk in with only softness and no structure, chaos follows. The moment they sense indecision, inconsistency, or emotional fragility, the dynamic shifts. Authority crumbles.But if you embody calm strength, clear rules, and fair discipline, something else happens:The classroom becomes a space of safety. Students know what to expect. They feel held.They might test the boundaries — that's natural — but they also understand there are consequences.And within that structure, real learning — and yes, real caring — can flourish.Love Without Awareness Is SufferingThere's a proverb from the Bhagavad Gita that captures this perfectly:“Love without awareness is suffering.”Love is not weakness.Love doesn't mean you avoid punishing misbehavior.Love means doing what is truly best for the other person in that moment.But what is “best”?It's that which benefits their growth, stability, or well-being — even when it's uncomfortable in the short term.If you let your children grow without morality, discipline, or direction, is that loving?Most of us would say no. True love sometimes looks like saying no. It looks like holding the line. It looks like allowing a consequence to unfold so a deeper lesson is learned.The Formula for Conscious StrengthThis applies far beyond parenting. In any relationship — romantic, professional, or social — when situations escalate or boundaries are crossed, intervention is necessary.That intervention may take the form of:A firm conversation.A clear consequence.In extreme cases, what some might call a “punishment” or corrective action.But here's the crucial part — and where conscious strength differs from mere dominance:After the correction comes forgiveness.After the boundary is re-established, you return to kindness.You don't hold a grudge. You don't weaponize past mistakes.You restore the relationship from a place of strength, not resentment.It's a cycle:Boundary → Consequence → Forgiveness → Love.So, Must We Be Ruthless?No. We must be conscious.Benevolence without boundaries is an invitation to be taken advantage of.Strength without compassion is just tyranny.The balance lies in knowing when to extend an open hand and when to show a firm one.It's understanding that real love protects — and sometimes protection requires saying “this far, and no further.”We may live in a world that still operates on jungle rules in many ways, but we don't have to become beasts to navigate it.We can be both kind and strong.Both loving and disciplined.Both generous and discerning.That's not weakness — that's wisdom.And perhaps, in the end, that's the truest form of strength there is.What do you think? Have you experienced moments where softness was mistaken for weakness — or where firmness was the most loving choice? Share your thoughts below.My Video:  Benevolence Is Not Weakness: https://youtu.be/1iDeYDB07lAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Benevolence-Is-Not-Weakness.mp3

 First and always: Ask your eye doctor before trying anything—even when Ophthalmology research has proven these benefits.I want to save you time. Below are the four best, research-backed formulas for healing and supporting your eyes using seeds.The Golden Rule: Grind and SoakIn every case, you must grind and soak the seeds in liquid. Otherwise, your gut cannot absorb the nutrients—and in some cases, it can even be dangerous.I personally blend tomatoes, cucumber, and pepper, then add freshly ground seeds and let them soak for 5–10 minutes. Alternatively, I add the ground seeds to my smoothie and blend them.Important warning: Some seeds, like chia and flax, absorb 4–5 times their volume in liquid. They expand into a large mass.How to kill a horse?If you give a horse oats first and then water, the grain swells so rapidly in the gut that it can rupture. The safe way is to let the horse drink water first, then eat the grain.The same principle applies to humans.Never eat dry grains (like chia or flax seeds) and then drink water. Always soak them first.1. Hemp Seeds for the EyesDosage: 30 grams (about 3 tablespoons)Preparation: Grind fresh, soak for at least 5 minutes, then eat.Best time: Every morning for maximum benefit.Research Results:32% reduction in ocular inflammation after 6 weeksHelped with dry eyes and sharper morning vision within 10 daysCalms irritation2. Chia Seeds with Coconut OilDosage: 30 grams chia seeds + 120 ml liquid + 1 teaspoon coconut or olive oilPreparation: Grind chia seeds fresh, soak in liquid, add oil, then eat.Best time: Every morning.Research Results:38% improvement in tear film stability in just 3 weeksLess dry eyes, less burning, less of that "scratchy" feelingEye lubrication improves within 1–2 daysCataract prevention and repair: approximately 90 days3. Ground Flaxseed with Avocado or a Fat SourceDosage: 30 grams flaxseed + 120 ml liquid + ¼ avocado (or 1 teaspoon coconut oil)Preparation: Grind flaxseed fresh, soak in liquid, blend with avocado or oil.Best time: Every morning.Research Results:44% improvement in tear production41% reduction in oxidative stress markers in the lensWithin 1 week: noticeably less drynessWithin 3 weeks: visible improvement in nighttime clarity and reduced glare sensitivity4. Sunflower Seeds with Avocado and Lemon JuiceDosage: 36 grams raw, unsalted sunflower seeds + ¼ ripe avocado + juice of ½ lemonPreparation: Grind sunflower seeds fresh, add liquid, add avocado and lemon juice, then eat.Best time: Every morning.Research Results (for people over 55, studied over 18 months):25% reduced risk of cataract progression34% improvement in lens clarity measurements41% reduction in oxidative damage markersMeasurable slowdown in age-related macular degenerationReduced eye fatigue within hoursMorning blurriness starts clearing within daysAfter 90 days of consistent use: structural eye repairSuggested Rotation PlanTo get a wide range of nutrients, rotate these four formulas:Morning 1: Hemp seedsMorning 2: Chia seeds with coconut oilMorning 3: Ground flaxseed with avocadoMorning 4: Sunflower seeds with avocado and lemon juiceThen repeat.Final ReminderAlways consult your eye doctor before starting any new health regimen—even natural ones. These seeds are powerful medicine for your eyes, and your doctor can help you use them safely and effectively.My Video:  How to Repair Your Eyes with Seeds?  https://youtu.be/A-TKWJQLwFUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Repair-Your-Eyes-with-Seeds.mp3

 Maybe It Shouldn't.I've watched those viral videos where elderly people share their life insights—the ones with millions of views. It struck me that what truly resonates isn't advice on success, but reflections on what we mean to other people. On connection.I should know. I've died three times—or had three Near-Death Experiences. Once, my entire body was paralyzed. Believe me, there are things worse than death. These encounters strip everything back to what is essential.Here is what I learned matters most:That you enjoy your life.That you connect with God (or the Divine, or the Universe—whatever you call it).That you share your love openly.That you live a healthy lifestyle with a plant-based diet and consistent movement.Looking back, I am deeply grateful for the path I chose.I followed my heart. I shared love and sexuality with the women I desired. I even experienced the Divine through a profound, tantric connection with my partner—a revelation for a former atheist. Yes, separation hurts. But to share that level of intimacy with someone you love is priceless. When you are old, that window closes. I am grateful for the therapy and inner work that freed me to love, overcoming the traumas that once locked my heart away. Today, I am not married, but I live with a woman I chose. We met 20 years ago and have shared love and intimacy freely, without the confines of a traditional marriage.I am also happy for the over ten years I spent in meditation retreats, living in celibacy. That surrender to God is a treasure beyond measure.I am happy for my health and fitness, the direct result of my lifestyle choices.Sure, I'm proud of my work as an engineer designing high-tech systems. But it was only a part of my life—and one that often disconnected me from myself. I couldn't stop solving technical problems, even in the middle of the night.Do not get trapped by success or money. Without a connection to something greater, everything you gain feels meaningless in the end.My mother, whose family lost everything in WWII, would tell us: "Close your eyes. Only what you see now, you truly own." You can lose possessions, status, even people. But you cannot lose God once you have surrendered.If you enjoy your life and do the things that call to you, you will never regret those happy moments. You will, however, regret the strenuous work that proved futile. Ask yourself: How much are you sacrificing for a little more success, recognition, or money?Today, a new trap is destroying lives: smartphone and social media addiction. Suicide rates and unhappiness are at their highest because of it. Everywhere, you see parents who care more for their screens than for their children.So here is my final insight: Give your space to living people. Open your heart. Love.And remember: prevention is the best doctor. Choose a healthy lifestyle not just for your body, but for your soul. That is a life that makes sense.My Video:  Does Your Life Make Sense? https://youtu.be/qKpeIGVRAcsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Does-Your-Life-Make-Sense.mp3

 Book: All Quiet on the Western FrontLife did not intend to make us perfect. Whoever is perfect belongs in a museum.We have our dreams because without them we could not bear the truth.Never do anything complicated when something simple will serve as well. It's one of the most important secrets of living.Strange how complicated we can make things just to avoid showing what we feel!Anything you can settle with money is cheap.It's only terrible to have nothing to wait for.we have so much to say, and we shall never say it.Modesty and conscientiousness receive their reward only in novels. In life they are exploited and then shoved aside.To forget is the secret of eternal youth. One grows old only through memory. There's much too little forgetting.Keep things at arm's length... If you let anything come too near you want to hold on to it. And there is nothing a man can hold on to.With blinded eyes I stared at the sky, this grey, endless sky of a crazy god, who had made life and death for his amusement.You may turn into an archangel, a fool, or a criminal—no one will see it. But when a button is missing—everyone sees that.My Video:  Erich Maria Remarque Quotes  https://youtu.be/8w1J2nEAYaYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Erich-Maria-Remarque-Quotes.mp3 

 The 14.5% That Changes EverythingIf you work 40 hours a week—8 hours a day—that's your baseline. Add in a lunch break (1 hour), a commute (1 hour), and suddenly you're at 50 hours dedicated to work each week.Then there's life's maintenance: eating, preparing food, cleaning, shopping—call it 2.5 hours a day. Exercise for 30 minutes. Quality time with family, a spouse, or a hobby: 2 hours. That's another 5 hours daily.Sleep? That's 8 hours.Add it all up on a workday: 23 hours accounted for. That leaves just 1 hour truly free.What about the weekends?Sleep: 8 hours.Maintenance (food, chores, shopping): 3 hours.Exercise: 30 minutes.Quality time: 2.5 hours.Total: 14 hours.That leaves 10 hours free each weekend day.So, across a week, you have roughly 1 free hour each workday and 10 each weekend day. That's 25 hours a week you could direct toward something special.Over 51 weeks (excluding vacation), that sums to 1,275 hours. A year has 8,760 hours. This means 14.5% of your year is discretionary time.Let that sink in. 85.5% of your time is committed. But 14.5% is yours to design.And yet, for most people, that 14.5% vanishes—often into the void of social media, endless scrolling, or tasks that feel urgent but aren't important.So, the real question is: Where is your 14.5% actually going?This is where people get stuck. They feel busy, assume they're productive, and live off stories like: “I don't have time,” “This week was crazy,” or “I've just been slammed.”But have you ever truly looked at where your time is lost?Think about it this way: If you wanted to get in the best shape of your life, a good trainer wouldn't start by screaming at you to run harder. They'd say, “Track everything you eat for a month.” Because you can't improve what you refuse to measure.Time works the same way.That 14.5% is supposedly “yours,” but most of us are flying blind. We have opinions and excuses, but no real data.You can't fix what you won't look at.The Challenge: Your Time AuditFor the next seven days, I want you to track everything you do in 30-minute increments.Yes, everything. Work, commute, meals, dishes, deep work, scrolling, Netflix, gym, walking the dog, family time. All of it.(You'll get even deeper insights if you do this for 30 days, but start with just seven.)I know how this sounds. It's intense. You're basically choosing to become a time-obsessive for a week. But I promise, if you do it, this will be one of the most eye-opening exercises of your year.I do this regularly to see how I lose my precious time. I want to learn piano and improve my Thai. If I want to do that, I need to find the time for it—without burning out.Three Rules for a Successful AuditBefore you start, follow these three rules so you don't accidentally ruin the whole point.Rule 1: Do NOT Alter Your Week.This is the biggest mistake. People treat the audit like a performance review and try to “win” by looking good on paper. Don't. If you normally game for four hours, log four hours. If you scroll for two hours before bed, log it. The goal is not a perfect week; it's your real week. You can't plug leaks you refuse to write down.Rule 2: Look for Patterns.Don't obsess over one weird day. Zoom out. Patterns are where the leaks live. Track for a week (or a month) and calmly analyze where the hours go.Rule 3: Stay Curious, Not Critical.You're going to see things you don't love. That's normal. But if you use this audit as ammunition to beat yourself up, it stops working.Treat everything like data—like a scientist running an experiment, emotionally detached from the outcome. Guilt is terrible fuel. It burns hot for a day, then you crash, back at zero with extra shame on top.Remember: This is about catching patterns you didn't consciously choose, so you can choose differently.Your Permission SlipHere's the truth about your 14.5%.Some of it should go to deep work—the stuff that moves your life forward and makes you proud when your head hits the pillow.And some of it should go to being a human. Resting. Screwing around. Doing absolutely nothing “productive” on purpose.This audit is not about turning your free time into a second job. It's not about squeezing every drop from your life like you're optimizing a robot. It's about making sure you're spending your time on purpose instead of by accident.Because often, the leak isn't “fun.” The leak is the weird stuff that sneaks in: the scrolling that doesn't even feel good, the half-working/half-distracting limbo, the activities that look like rest but leave you more drained.The audit shows you the difference.I have very productive days where I don't lose time. And I have to “pay” for those with rest. Don't become a robot that just functions.The opposite trap is procrastination—wasting time on meaningless things instead of truly enjoying it. We often think we can't enjoy our time because we've wasted it. Our bad conscience drives more procrastination.Instead, first ensure you enjoy your time to become productive. Your inner child will sabotage your efforts if it doesn't get playtime.First, enjoy time. Then, productivity will follow.My Video:  Where Does Your Time Actually Go https://youtu.be/2YOMAvt8Bh8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Where-Does-Your-Time-Actually-Go.mp3

 Because the producer of Ginger put Sulfur Dioxide inside of the Ginger. Ginger is a common medicine for health care. However, polysaccharides, vitamins, and water inside ginger are suitable for microbial reproduction and are prone to mold. To prevent ginger from becoming moldy and maintain its bright color, it is common to fumigate ginger with sulfur. This process can easily lead to excessive sulfur dioxide, which is seriously harmful to the human body. The residual sulfur dioxide in herbal medicine can not only cause bad taste, but can also cause respiratory symptoms such as coughing, chest tightness, and throat irritation. At the same time, residual sulfur dioxide within ginger may react chemically with other ingredients, changing the composition or content of the effective ingredients, thereby affecting the quality of ginger. Therefore, it is necessary to conduct quality testing on ginger to determine whether it is sulfur-fumigated.  Buy Organic: Certified organic ginger is prohibited from being treated with synthetic sulfur dioxide.    Buy Local or "Living Ginger": Look for ginger at farmers' markets or in stores that sell "living ginger" (with green shoots still attached). It's less likely to have been treated for long-distance shipping.I tried to buy organic Ginger in Krabi/Thailand and even the organic Ginger was sulfur-fumigated…After I checked all the markets, there was only one old woman who sold organic Ginger.On the internet I could not buy organic Ginger and normally I can buy online nearly every vegetable. How to identify organic Ginger…The sulfur-fumigated Ginger has a strong and shinny peel, you can only remove the peel with a knife and this Ginger is white inside.The organic Ginger has a very thin peel similar to New Potatoes that goes off by itself, or just rub the peel off. And this Ginger is inside yellowish…Grow Your Own Ginger is surprisingly easy to grow in a pot from an organic rhizome. Peeling and Soaking: If you must use conventional ginger, peel it thoroughly and soak it in warm water for 15-30 minutes. This can help reduce surface-level residues.With which vegetables can you substitute Ginger?These vegetable provide a pungent, warming quality similar to ginger.    Galangal: The closest relative. It's a bit sharper, more citrusy and piney. Essential in Thai and Southeast Asian cuisine. Use it as a 1:1 substitute.    Turmeric (Fresh): Provides earthiness and a warm, peppery flavor. It won't be as sharp, but it gives a beautiful yellow color and is a powerful anti-inflammatory. Use about 1.5 times the amount of ginger.    Horseradish (Freshly Grated): Delivers a powerful, sharp, sinus-clearing heat. It's best in sauces, dressings, or with roasted meats. Start with half the amount of ginger.    Daikon Radish: When cooked, it becomes mild and slightly sweet, but when raw, it has a sharp, peppery bite that can mimic ginger in salads or pickles.For Medicinal & Tea Purposes (Anti-inflammatory, Digestive Aid):These are your best bets for replicating ginger's health benefits.    Turmeric (+ Black Pepper): The #1 alternative. Curcumin in turmeric is a potent anti-inflammatory. Crucially, always combine with a pinch of black pepper, which increases curcumin absorption by 2000%.    Galangal: Also used extensively in traditional medicine for digestion and inflammation. It's a very close functional substitute.    Meadowsweet Herb: Excellent for soothing digestive issues and stomach aches, much like ginger. Brew as a tea.    Angelica Root: Used in traditional medicine for bloating, cramping, and loss of appetite. Has a warm, slightly bitter flavor.    Quick Guide: Which Alternative to use alternatives to ginger when you cook?If the Recipe/Use Is... Best Substitute WhyThai Curry or Soup Galangal Authentic, similar texture and flavor profile.Stir-fry, Golden Milk, Smoothies Fresh Turmeric Adds color, earthiness, and powerful anti-inflammatory properties.Digestive Tea Turmeric & Black Pepper or Meadowsweet Targets inflammation and soothes the gut effectively.Condiment or Sauce Fresh Horseradish Provides a sharp, clean heat that stands up well.My Video:  The normal Ginger is toxic! https://youtu.be/nQv9632L7w8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-normal-Ginger-is-toxic.mp3

 In traditional Chinese medicine, it is well known: a man needs sex until he dies.Psychology confirms this. Freud and Jung both recognized that the sexual drive is fundamental.Every male animal has a primal instinct to procreate. This is wired so deeply into our brains that we feel sexual urges independently of our emotions or thoughts. Nature needs children for the future.And if there is no sexuality anymore, a man loses a sense of purpose—and eventually, he dies.To deny sex is to deny life itself.If you want vitality as you age, you must remain engaged with your sexuality. Even in old age, you can restore your sexual function—with training and good health. (Always consult your urologist first.)The Link Between Sex and AgingAging begins when we lose our sex drive.Without sex, men age much faster.As we grow older, we naturally lose some of our drive, vitality, liveliness, and passion. But through sex—solo or with a partner—we can maintain all of them at a much higher level.I want to confront you and break the taboo: Masturbation is not bad.Masturbation is healthy—as long as it's not done in excess or in the wrong way. And sharing sex with a partner is even better.But let's be clear: Masturbation is not dirty.For men over 60, masturbation is not just okay—it's a must for staying fit and healthy.1. Mindless Masturbation Can Lead to Numbness and EDThe key is how you do it.If you can no longer produce as much fluid, daily stimulation is still beneficial. Release only when you feel the need.But quick, tense, disconnected self-pleasure is harmful. When you teach your brain the same pattern—same hand, same motion, same outcome—it becomes boring. Sensitivity drops. Stiffness fades. Confidence drops. Loneliness increases. Disconnection grows.The fix: Make self-pleasure intentional, not performance-driven. Avoid porn. No rushing. No pressure. Reconnect with feeling, not fantasy.2. Not Masturbating Can Lead to Prostate Congestion and InflammationWithout regular release, the prostate can become congested. This can lead to:Frequent urination at nightInflammationIncreased risk of prostate cancerA Harvard study proves that men with fewer than 21 ejaculations per month have a significantly higher risk of prostate cancer.Regular ejaculation flushes out toxins and keeps the prostate healthy.3. Shame Around Self-Touch Damages Mental HealthLet me say it again: Masturbation is not dirty. Speak about it openly.Shame is a stressor. It raises cortisol, tightens muscles, and floods the brain with anxiety. Over time, this can lead to depression, heart disease, immune issues, and even dementia.But masturbation—when done correctly—releases dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. These are the body's natural antidepressants.You are never too old for self-pleasure.4. Sexual Activity Stimulates TestosteroneYes, even solo activity.As we age, our testosterone naturally declines. But if you stop touching your body altogether, you lose even more testosterone—along with energy, vitality, and muscle mass.The good news: You can support healthy testosterone levels.Maca root is one powerful aid. After taking it daily for two months, many men notice a real difference. I have personally increased my testosterone with Maca and other supplements—the difference in endurance and power is huge.(Always consult your physician before starting any new supplement.)5. Use It or Lose ItThis applies to muscles—and it applies to erections.Stimulate every day, whether or not you release fluid. Regular stimulation maintains blood flow, nerve sensitivity, and tissue health.6. The Pornography ProblemToday's pornography is ultra-stimulating: fast, high-intensity, and endless.Your brain was not designed for that level of dopamine flooding. After prolonged exposure, many men find they cannot perform without porn—or even with a real partner.The fix: Try a 30-day detox. No porn. No fantasy. Just reconnect with your own body and sensation.7. Conscious Masturbation Improves Longevity and Quality of LifeWhen done mindfully, self-pleasure offers real benefits:Better sleepLower anxietyImproved circulationGreater vitalityEnhanced moodFinal ThoughtMasturbation is not something to hide from or feel ashamed of. It is a natural, healthy part of being human—at every age.Treat your body with respect. Listen to it. Care for it. And don't be afraid to enjoy the pleasure it was designed to give you.

 In Chinese astrology,  is one of the most powerful and unpredictable combinations in the 60-year cycle. The last one was in 1966, and the next one begins on February 17, 2026.Here is a forecast for the year, applying the principles of Chinese astrology to analyze the energy, opportunities, and challenges we might expect.The Core Elements: Understanding the Fire HorseTo understand the forecast, you have to look at the specific elements at play:The Animal (Horse): The Horse is Yang, active, energetic, independent, and loves freedom. It hates restrictions and moves fast.The Element (Fire): This is a Yang Fire year. Yang Fire is the fire of the sun—blazing, bright, illuminating, but also capable of scorching everything in its path if it gets out of control.The Celestial Stem (Bing): "Bing" represents pure Yang Fire. When you put Yang Fire on top of a Yang Fire Horse, you get a double-dose of intense, explosive energy.General Forecast: The Year of Blazing PassionBecause this is a double-fire year, the energy is extreme. It is a year of high highs and low lows. There is very little middle ground.1. Speed and RevolutionThe Horse moves fast, and Fire makes it move faster. This year will feel like life is on fast-forward. Industries related to speed, communication, and energy (technology, transportation, AI, energy sectors) will likely see rapid, disruptive changes. Innovation will happen at a breakneck pace.2. Passion and ConflictFire represents passion, but it also represents war and anger. On a personal level, relationships formed this year can be incredibly passionate but may burn out just as quickly. On a global scale, this can indicate an increase in conflicts, heated arguments, and social unrest. People will be less willing to compromise and more willing to fight for what they believe is right.3. VolatilityThe Fire Horse is notoriously difficult to control. This applies to the stock market, political landscapes, and personal plans. Expect the unexpected. Plans made in January may be completely irrelevant by June. Flexibility will be the key to survival.Forecast by Zodiac SignsBest Signs for 2026:Tiger and Dog: These are the Horse's closest allies (the triad of affinity). The Fire Horse energy will boost your courage and energy. It's a year to take risks and expand your horizons.Goat (Sheep) and Tiger: The Goat (Yin Earth) can actually benefit from the Fire Horse, as Fire creates Earth. If you are a Goat, the intense energy of the year can feel productive and grounding rather than chaotic.Challenging Signs (Clashing with the Horse):Rat: The Rat and Horse are direct opposites (opposite signs on the zodiac wheel). This is a year of direct conflict. Rats may feel like they are swimming against the current. Expect major changes, potential moves, or relationship shake-ups. It's a year to be cautious and avoid legal disputes.Rooster: The Rooster is in a secret conflict with the Horse. This can manifest as internal frustration—feeling like you're working hard but getting no recognition, or feeling restricted by rules you don't agree with.The Rabbit:2026 is specifically difficult for the Rabbit because of a concept known as the "Pillar of Fatalism." Rabbits should be extremely cautious with their health, avoid travel to remote places, and double-check all legal documents.Elemental InteractionsFire Melts Metal: Those born in Years of the Monkey and Rooster (Metal signs) may feel "melted" or drained by the overwhelming Fire. They need to conserve energy and not overexert themselves.Fire Burns Earth: Earth signs (Dragon, Goat, Dog) might feel the heat. The Earth can be cracked and dried out by too much Fire. They need to ensure stability and not let the fast pace of the year burn them out.Water Controls Fire: Water signs (Rat, Pig) are the only ones who can naturally control this energy. However, if the Fire is too strong, the Water evaporates. Pigs and Rats can succeed this year, but only if they are strategic and don't try to fight every fire head-on.The "Fire Horse Curse" – Should You Be Worried?In traditional Chinese culture, there is a superstition that girls born in the year of the Fire Horse are "cursed" because they will be too strong-willed to control, leading to a difficult life. In modern times, this is generally seen as an outdated myth, but it reflects the astrological truth: People born in 2026 (starting Feb 17) will have very strong, independent, and fiery personalities. They will be natural leaders, but they will need to learn patience and emotional regulation to avoid burning bridges.Summary Forecast2026 is a year to harness the fire, not be consumed by it.Career: Move fast, but don't get burned by impatience. It is a great year for entrepreneurs and starting new projects, but a risky year for long-term, slow-burn investments.Love: Passion is high, but so is the potential for jealousy and arguments. Keep the spark alive without letting it become a wildfire.Health: Watch out for inflammation, heart issues, and stress. The Fire energy can lead to burnout if you don't take time to cool down.In short: Buckle up. 2026 will be wild, bright, and fast. It's a year for bold moves, but you must respect the heat.My Video:  The Year of the Fire Horse  https://youtu.be/Ebqe1hikWr0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-Year-of-the-Fire-Horse.mp3

 Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.A designer knows he has achieved perfection not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.War is not an adventure. It is a disease. It is like typhus.And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye.The meaning of things lies not in the things themselves, but in our attitude towards them.What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well.I know but one freedom, and that is the freedom of the mind.When you give yourself, you receive more than you give.True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.The time for action is now. It's never too late to do something.It is in the compelling zest of high adventure and of victory, and in creative action, that man finds his supreme joys.To be a man is, precisely, to be responsible.He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.We say nothing essential about the cathedral when we speak of its stones. We say nothing essential about Man when we seek to define him by the qualities of men.Only he can understand what a farm is, what a country is, who shall have sacrificed part of himself to his farm or country, fought to save it, struggled to make it beautiful. Only then will the love of farm or country fill his heart.Whoever loves above all the approach of love will never know the joy of attaining it.My Video:  Antoine de Saint-Exupery quotes https://youtu.be/0uXUrU-nsokMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Antoine-de-Saint-Exupery-quotes.mp3

 For over 20 years, Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross consulted with the dying. She discovered that most of them shared a profound regret: they had not lived their life's purpose. Many never even discovered the reason they were born.In their final moments, they realized that success, money, and wealth were not what mattered.Before we are born, our souls are given a mission—a life we are intended to live. This means fulfilling what God or the Divine has planned for us. Yet without the contemplation found in meditation or prayer, and without a conscious decision to align with a higher will, we cannot follow this purpose.In centuries past, people would seek guidance. They would pray, then consult the Tarot, the I Ching, a pendulum, or randomly open a sacred text to find a message meant for them. Today, we just pick up our phones. Is it any wonder the Western world seems to lurch from one catastrophe to the next?We must learn to train our intuition and trust it more than outdated rules, dogmas, or obsolete assumptions. For centuries, India's rigid caste system denied intuition in favor of ancient rules, leading to catastrophic societal results.With our birth, we forget our mission. Even worse, our parents often do not guide us toward our true calling. Society, media, and social media then manipulate us to function within their rules. We become defined by others' expectations.We ignore our inner voice and our connection to the Divine until we can no longer hear them at all.After my second Near-Death Experience, I knew I had been wrong. I had suffered tremendously for things that don't truly matter—success, money, fitting in. I was bullied for being different, yet I still tried to conform, even though I was—and am—a misfit.That experience changed my life completely. I found true love and learned to enjoy a life that had previously felt impossible.Most people waste their first 60 years doing what others expect of them instead of what they genuinely desire. Often, we must walk the wrong path to find the true one.According to Dr. Kübler-Ross, every soul has specific work to do.In our lives, we encounter patterns and hints of what we are meant to live. Yet these callings often feel inconvenient, so we choose the path of suffering instead. There are moments when we feel a quiet nudge to do something, whether others approve or not. We frequently ignore it because it doesn't seem to make logical sense.We have trained our minds to mute our inner calling, opting instead for distractions or actions that offer immediate profit or gain. We tell ourselves to be serious, practical, and to fit in—and in doing so, we silence our soul.So ask yourself, every night before you sleep: What am I here for?Keep asking until you know the answer.My Video:  Our Soul Contract https://youtu.be/IPHfJPZ1Hv8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Our-Soul-Contract.mp3

 Sounds exaggerated?When you have faith that you can heal your disease — it becomes true.When you have faith that you can't heal it — that also becomes true.Today, holistic and alternative medicine is so advanced that almost every illness can be treated naturally.Take cancer, for example — there are many holistic and alternative methods available. You just need to find the one that resonates with you.I don't want to brag, but I was fortunate when my former girlfriend came to me with stage 3 intestinal cancer.Even during the COVID crisis, when I had no access to my favorite doctors in India or the healer William Nonog in the Philippines, I told her simply:“We will heal this.”First, she had to adopt a plant-based diet, eliminate sugar, and take a very bitter-tasting Thai herbal juice prescribed by our local herbal doctor.And we also had a Plan B.No problem — we monitored the cancer every second week, then every fourth week.At the same time, my friend was diagnosed with thyroid cancer.No problem — healed as well.Healing the HeartNo drug can truly heal the heart.Only a plant-based diet combined with daily exercise can do that.My Own Healing JourneyI will soon share how I healed my severe scoliosis, twisted spine, and herniated disc — and how my spine became stronger than ever.Doctors told me there was no chance. I told them,“I'll bet I'll heal within three years.”And I did — I can prove it.I also healed my osteoarthritis within three months using only holistic methods — something conventional medicine could not do.And I healed my tinnitus in just three weeks using neck exercises and my own hypnotherapy MP3.As an engineer, I was trained to solve every technical problem efficiently.When it comes to health, the same principle applies — the only difference is faith.Healing starts with faith — and ends with faith.How to Heal Fear (the Root of Disease)Step 1: Face your fear directly.When you can't do it alone, or if you are emotionally unstable (Psychoses) get the help of a Therapist.Feel your fear — don't become your fear.Breathe deeply into it.Imagine the worst possible outcome until the fear dissolves.Do this for two hours.Don't stop before the two hours are over.The next time, do it for one hour.Then reduce it to 30 minutes.Step 2: A daily exercise to reduce fear by 50%Place your palms together and press them tightly, leaving as little air between them as possible.Hold them in front of your chest and focus on your fear.Do this for 10 minutes every day.Healing is not a miracle — it's a decision.Once you align your faith, actions, and emotions, your body knows exactly how to restore itself.My Video:  All Diseases Are Curable  https://youtu.be/dLOMjv27DFkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/All-Diseases-Are-Curable.mp3

 For instance, Relationship!After Anthonie Robbins we should make a list for our dream partner and one for our hell partner.You think, you have finally found your dream partner and as the days goes by … The relationship becomes worse… What went wrong? 1. Both persons are attracting unconsciousness the partner that fits best to their child hood or traumas and are similar to their parents! That is 100% proved over 100 years from psychology.2. When we demand something from our partner that he/she doesn't want then we push our partner.  That creates tension and that makes our relationship not better, mostly worse.3. We think we have deserved a better partner and our partner thinks the same about us. 4. Even if we demand unconsciously something that our partner doesn't want he/she feels the tension. 5. So more we demand or entitle something so worse the situation becomes and that is true for nearly every situation. The Solution how to make out everything something good.2. We forgive everything that had hurt us in that situation or relationship.3. We accept the reality. Before we want to change the situation WE HAVE TO ACCEPT the situation. When we accept the situation we free us from our tension and are open for a solution that we could not see before. 4. We are grateful for our challenges because they will teach us a valuable lesson. Even more we should be grateful for everything, the good things and the things in our life. That is the best remedy for depression  proved  by the University of London. The next study from the University of London is that so more we are grateful so happier we are and the most happiest people are the most grateful people. For instance, Warren Buffet and Oprah Winfrey are doing EVERY MORNING a gratitude list for 20 minutes directly when they get out of the bed. 1. We do our best and don't calculate that our partner should recognize that and do the same! Other wise it will not work because it is again entitlement. When we are getting in love with a person, we get identified with our partner… And that creates tension, fear of loosing our partner…  So higher our love so higher the tension, fear…That is normal.After some time our love subsides and that is normal for worldly love.Then comes our demanding or entitlement for something that our partner doesn't want to give us. What is if we would apply the strategy that I have introduced you before?That can create a good relationship or something that we wanted.  At least we have done our best and can't blemish ourselves for not doing so. We have learned a lot and can do it next time better.That is our choice! My Video:  Entitlement is the biggest trap of all time.   https://youtu.be/7Xc1lddgdPkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Entitlement-is-the-biggest-trap-of-all-time.mp3

 I wanted to help a woman who needed success, and she was struggling with self-discipline.I asked her, "Why don't you choose something you're passionate about?"And she said, "That doesn't work out."I said, "When I write a book, I can write anywhere—even at a noisy train station, a bus terminal, or in freezing temperatures. I don't care, because I want to write that book."But then you don't have it under your control? I don't need to. I need to be relaxed and in the flow; then I can ignore everything. I proved this again yesterday, and it was so noisy.People think they need a perfect meditation room to meditate. What nonsense. If you cannot meditate right now, you cannot meditate at all. My previous Guru told us to meditate at the train station to learn how. What if a mosquito bites you? Watch it. And when you watch the mosquito bite you, your meditation will be transformed.If you are obsessed with your goal and relaxed at the same time, then your obsession will help you.And if you are "in the flow" while doing the things necessary to reach your goal, you become unstoppable.If you focus only on the goal and not on what you are doing right now, your obsession becomes a nightmare.For instance, you want to leave your home and get to work fast… but you can't find your car key. You put yourself under pressure, and so you can't even see your key when it's right in front of you. This never happens to me because I have a second key stored in a secret place. So I don't struggle.If you focus intensely, you need to be relaxed, and that means having a Plan B. Regardless of what I do, I don't care about the outcome or the time it takes when I am in the flow. And mostly, I am the fastest one because I don't put myself under pressure.When you are doing something with self-discipline alone, you are just a lame duck. Ask yourself how you can motivate yourself to do the things. Why are these tasks important for you?When I started to write, I was so terribly tired I thought I couldn't write anything. And then it happened—without motivation, just by doing.Enough tricks…

 The fact that millions of people share the same vices does not make these vices virtues, the fact that they share so many errors does not make the errors to be truths, and the fact that millions of people share the same form of mental pathology does not make these people sane.It takes a moment to tell someone you love them, but it takes a lifetime to prove it.The lust for power is not rooted in strength but in weakness.The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity.Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice.If other people do not understand our behavior-so what? Their request that we must only do what they understand is an attempt to dictate to us. If this is being 'asocial' or 'irrational' in their eyes, so be it. Mostly they resent our freedom and our courage to be ourselves. We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them.Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love.FORTITUDE IS THE CAPACITY TO SAY NO WHEN THE WORLD WANTS TO HEAR 'YES'Hate is a product of the unfulfilled life.As long as anyone believes that his ideal and purpose is outside him, that it is above the clouds, in the past or in the future, he will go outside himself and seek fulfillment where it cannot be found. He will look for solutions and answers at every point except where they can be found- in himself.The deepest need of the human being is to overcome ourseparateness, to leave the prison of our loneliness.Selfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either.The affirmation of one's own life, happiness, growth and freedom, is rooted in one's capacity to love.The scars left from the child's defeat in the fight against irrational authority are to be found at the bottom of every neurosis.The danger of the past was that men became slaves. The danger of the future is that man may become robots.

 Have you noticed your vision becoming blurred? While age is a factor, eye health issues are rising faster than ever—and they aren't just for those over 60. Conditions like dry eyes, cataracts, and macular degeneration are becoming more common across all ages.The American Optometric Association confirms that after age 60, eyes become more fragile. But many people are experiencing symptoms earlier. The standard solutions offered often only manage the symptoms without addressing the root cause of healing.What if there was a natural way to support your eyes from the inside out?Healing Through Nutrition: The Nighttime RitualThe key may lie in what you consume just before sleep. Eating specific fruits 30 to 60 minutes before bed can provide your body with critical nutrients that work to repair your eyes overnight. During deep sleep, your body enters a state of regeneration. The antioxidants, vitamins, and phytochemicals in these fruits can:Regenerate damaged photoreceptor cells.Improve blood flow to the retina.Help slow the progression of age-related macular degeneration.Don't expect overnight miracles, but many report noticeably improved clarity and comfort after just a few nights.Important First Step: Always consult an eye doctor for a proper diagnosis. This nutritional approach is meant to be a powerful complement to professional care, not a replacement.The Ultimate Pre-Sleep Eye-Health SmoothieThe most effective method is to blend the following fruits into a smoothie. Consume it within the crucial 30-60 minute window before you go to sleep.Base Ingredient: Goji BerriesStart with 2 tablespoons of dried organic goji berries. Soak them in hot water for at least 10 minutes to soften, then add them to your blender. Goji berries are renowned in traditional medicine for supporting vision and are rich in zeaxanthin and antioxidants.The Fresh Fruit BlendCombine the soaked goji berries with the following fresh fruits (all measurements are approximate for one serving):1 cup of red dragon fruit2 golden kiwis1 cup of watermelon (blend the fruit including the green rind, where many of the key nutrients are concentrated)1 cup of blackcurrants1 cup of blueberries1 cup of papayaPro Tip: For an extra boost, add a teaspoon of dark cocoa powder to the blend. It can enhance the antioxidant profile and flavor.Why This Combination WorksEach fruit brings a powerhouse of eye-specific nutrients:Goji Berries, Kiwi, & Papaya: Extremely high in Vitamin C and zeaxanthin, which protect the retina.Blueberries & Blackcurrants: Packed with anthocyanins that improve night vision and reduce eye fatigue.Watermelon (with rind) & Dragon Fruit: Rich in lycopene and other carotenoids that filter harmful blue light and fight oxidative damage.Cocoa Powder: Contains flavonoids that improve blood flow, including to the delicate vessels in the eyes.By giving your body these tools at night, you align with its natural repair cycle, offering your eyes the best chance to heal and strengthen themselves.Remember: Consistency is key. Make this nighttime smoothie a ritual, get regular check-ups, and you may be amazed at how much you can support your vision naturally.My Video:  The #1 Fruit You Should Eat Before Sleep for Healthy Eyes https://youtu.be/L0Tt6g_2Hb4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-1-Fruit-You-Should-Eat-Before-Sleep-or-Healthy-Eyes.mp3

 Then you have to learn to accept every thought and every emotion—from yourself and from everyone else.There is no shortcut.Positive thinking often just pushes negativity into the subconscious, which can cause severe diseases or suicide in the future. Just compare countries like Australia and the USA; they have the highest suicide rates and also the highest emphasis on positive thinking.How can you accept every negative feeling?Do Encounter and Bioenergetic groups!After you do Encounter and Bioenergetic groups, you can gain peace in your mind by starting Meditation.Meditation is about watching and allowing every thought and emotion to happen… and then learning to connect with God. This is what meditation and worshiping the Lord truly are.The best worship comes from the Africans when a healer is present. You sing the glory of the Lord and dance like crazy… and magic will happen.The second best is to join Sufi groups for Dikir or Sikir nights and whirling.Trance dancing is also helpful. I started with trance dancing myself, and for this, the Kundalini Meditation from Osho is great.We will always have to face challenges, and we should never avoid them… because avoidance only increases our anxiety.Our anxiety creates 80% of all our thoughts. If we allow ourselves to feel our anxiety and worries, they disappear.Do this exercise with a qualified therapist if you are afraid to do it alone or if you have a history of psychosis or emotional instability: Learn to breathe deeply into your fears and imagine the worst possible outcome until the fears are gone. The best approach is to give yourself a time limit and do this with the intention: "I will feel all of my fears for half an hour." Then the fears are done.For anger, we can exhaust our bodies by doing sports until the anger subsides. Boxing against a bag or doing bioenergetic exercises is best, but jogging also works. Do whatever fits you best to release your anger.If you can't do it alone, go to a therapist where you can express anger, or join encounter groups, or do the Dynamic Meditation from Osho in a place where you can release your anger safely.My Video:  Do you want to have peace in your mind? https://youtu.be/dx3NOBFZKmoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Do-you-want-to-have-peace-in-your-mind.mp3

 Love or Compromise?Is it love that holds a relationship together? Or is it compromise?Love is what draws us together in the first place. But compromise is what keeps us together.Love alone is not enough. Psychologists define love as an emotion. And like all emotions, love fluctuates with stress, sleep, health, and the thousands of other factors that shape our daily lives.You can love your partner deeply and still get annoyed, frustrated, or angry with them. Love won't shield you from conflict, nor will it magically resolve your disagreements.That's why even the happiest couples argue and go through rough patches, regardless of how much love they share. The difference is that strong couples understand love can't fix everything—but compromise can.The Psychology of CompromiseCompromise happens when you balance what you want, what your partner wants, and what's best for the relationship itself.Every couple brings together unique habits, values, and experiences. Expecting perfect alignment is unrealistic. Instead, healthy couples learn to negotiate their shared reality. They turn “my way” and “your way” into “our way.”But compromise only works when it's rooted in a strong sense of we.Research shows that couples who describe their conflicts using “we” language—“we decided,” “we talked,” “we figured it out”—feel more connected and satisfied after disagreements. When both partners see compromise as a shared effort rather than a personal loss, it actively strengthens the bond between them.What Compromise Looks Like in Real LifeCompromise doesn't always look romantic. Sometimes it means agreeing to watch a movie you'd never choose yourself. Other times, it means listening to your partner vent while resisting the urge to immediately offer solutions.Rigid, black-and-white thinking—where one person must be right and the other wrong—will never work in a relationship. Even if you are technically right, if your partner cannot follow or agree, you are both left stuck. Insisting on fairness in small things—“You have to clean up, it's your turn, I did it last time”—often leads to unnecessary conflict. Maybe your partner did something else for you in the meantime. Is getting furious over such things really worth it?Instead, you'll constantly be presented with a choice: Are you willing to meet your partner halfway?Today, it might be about chores. Tomorrow, how you spend your evening. Next month, how you navigate family holidays. It might involve finding middle ground, taking turns, or agreeing to a third option neither of you had initially considered.What matters is that both of you feel heard and respected, and that no one feels the need to “win” or “be right.” When you consistently make enough space for one another's needs, you build something that love alone rarely provides: reliability.My Video:  What Keeps Relationships Together? https://youtu.be/zeQIEntAAOYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/What-Keeps-Relationships-Together.mp3 

I want to provoke you…Bhagwan (Osho)'s motto was:“Live here and now.”Enjoy this moment.The past is over, and you can't live in the future.Alan Watts would agree — and so would Zen philosophy.But what happens when we set goals and believe that once we achieve them, we'll finally be happy and fulfilled?I used to think that when I earned my engineering degree, everything would change.Yet on my way to that goal, I had a Near-Death Experience — I left my body, saw it from above, and couldn't even recognize that it was me.When I came back, I realized that I had been suffering my whole life. My childhood was hell — daily abuse. But life, I realized, should be the sum of happy moments.When I finally got my degree, I was seriously ill. My degree — my lifelong dream — suddenly meant nothing.Even though becoming an engineer had been my childhood goal, it no longer held any meaning.Can you relate to that?I'm not against setting goals.I'm against suffering for goals that don't serve us.I saw students who performed even better than me — and yet they enjoyed their time.Short-term suffering is fine if it's for something meaningful.But most of our suffering comes from suppressed childhood traumas that we never processed — and so we end up repeating them.Much of what we suffer for are things that others could easily enjoy.The problem is our ego — our identification with something that makes us suffer.The Alcoholics Anonymous program suggests a helpful question when facing problems:“What does this have to do with me?”There's always someone who could handle the same problem with joy.Now, I always ask myself:Does this make sense, or is it just an ego trip?Why should I suffer for an ego trip?Ask yourself the same — and find a solution without your ego in the way.Imagine how much your spouse (and the rest of the world) would appreciate it if you dropped unnecessary principles and ego trips — and just were yourself.We learn so many rules and assumptions in childhood that are completely nonsensical.Every day, question whether those rules still serve you or whether they're even true.We must keep adapting to an ever-changing world.For example: a girl gets bitten by a dog, and for the rest of her life, she's terrified of dogs — avoiding every place they might appear. Instead of healing her fear, she lets it rule her life.Life is too short for ego trips, unprocessed traumas, and emotional loops we keep repeating.The solution is simple:See a life coach to work through your problems, or a therapist to heal your traumas.There is only this moment, and we can't truly enjoy it if we're trapped by our ego or haunted by our past.My Video:  The Benefit of Living With No Purpose  https://youtu.be/VIFuLpxXPAEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-Benefit-of-Living-With-No-Purpose.mp3

 If there really is a god, then he really looks after me.Do not let circumstances control you. You change your circumstances.I never wanted to be the next Bruce Lee. I just wanted to be the first Jackie Chan.Don't try to be like Jackie. There is only one Jackie. Study computers instead.I'm crazy, but I'm not stupid.As a father, I always want my son to be perfect. When he was young, I tried to train him in martial arts, but he said, 'I don't want to become like Bruce Lee's son, with everybody telling me how good my father was.' I just think my son is too lazy.Chinese people need to be controlled; otherwise, they will do whatever they want.I do small things. I try to do good things every day.My dream is to continue filming until my body tells me to stop.I hate violence, yes I do. It's kind of a dilemma, huh?.We learn martial arts as helping weakness. You never fight for people to get hurt. You're always helping people. If everyone does some good, think of what a good world this will be.Speaking English is like tongue-twist for me. I can speak each word perfect, but then you have to string them together like, 'Blah, blah, blah.' That's when I get crazy.My schedule goes: wake up, running, exercise, downstairs, running shoes off, then to the shower. That's the Jackie Chan diary.When you are learning about a martial art, it is about respect.American stuntmen are smart - they think about safety. When they do a jump in a car, they calculate everything: the speed, the distance... But in Hong Kong, we don't know how to count. Everything we do is a guess. If you've got the guts, you do it. All of my stuntmen have gotten hurt. I'm not sure if it's good to have freedom or not. I'm really confused now.When I'm in meetings until 5am and then have to get up two hours later for filming, sometimes I ask myself 'why?'When I give somebody something and see their face, it just makes me so happy.My Video: Jackie Chan Quotes https://youtu.be/zdCtH-pUJHIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Jackie-Chan-Quotes.mp3

 Disclaimer: I am not a physician. This is a personal account of my successful journey. Please consult your doctor before starting any new health protocol.My Starting Point:I was facing the painful, progressive degeneration of knee cartilage (osteoarthritis). Standard orthopedic treatments offered only temporary relief. I refused to accept that and developed a multi-faceted holistic approach. Within three months, I achieved total healing.STAND NEVER AGAIN WITH STRAIGHT KNEES! The knee joint should be always loose because you block the energy, and you put your back muscles under unnecessary tensions. Stand so, that your knee joints are above your feet.The 4-Pillar Protocol That Worked for Me:Pillar 1: High-Repetition, Low-Impact Movement (The Foundation)    Cycling: Based on the research of Prof. Bellemans (Orthopedic Surgeon for the Belgian Olympic Team), I committed to:        What: 10-15 minutes on a stationary bike.        How: Low resistance, high repetition.        When: Twice daily, with at least a 10-hour break between sessions to allow for cartilage recovery and rebuilding.    Supported Squats:        Form: Half-squats only, never exceeding a 90-degree angle to protect the knee.        Technique: Vary toe position (pointing in and out) to strengthen all the supporting muscles around the knee joint.        Rule: Perform slowly and never through pain.Pillar 2: Targeted Supplementation (The Building Blocks)Based on research, I took supplements to provide the raw materials for repair:    Collagen: The fundamental building block for connective tissue repair.    Glucosamine: Supports joint lubrication and cartilage health.    MSM (Methylsulfonylmethane): Provides sulfur, crucial for ligament elasticity.    Hyaluronic Acid: Supports the synovial fluid that cushions the joint.Pillar 3: Frequency Healing (The Biohack)I used a Spooky2 Rife plasma generator to stimulate healing at a cellular level.    My Frequencies & Routine:        7.5 Hz: (3 min) for pain modulation and nerve calming.        63 Hz: (3 min) for cartilage repair and cellular communication.        120 Hz: (3 min) for anti-inflammatory support.        770 Hz / 962 Hz: (3 min) for synovial fluid and tissue regeneration.        1550 Hz: (3 min) for deep tissue penetration.    Application: Used the plasma tube 15cm from my knee, 3 times daily.    Result: I noticed improvements within just two days. Consistency was key.Pillar 4: Topical Therapy & Anti-Inflammatory Nutrition    Healing Castor Oil Pack:        65% Cold-Pressed Castor Oil        30% Pharmaceutical-Grade DMSO (enhances penetration)        5% Clove Essential Oil (powerful anti-inflammatory)        Always patch-test first for skin sensitivity.    Always shake that Castor Oil pack before every application and massage the entire knee joint.    Dietary Shift:        Eliminated: Acid-forming, inflammatory foods like meat and all processed foods.        Embraced: A whole-food, plant-based, primarily raw diet to reduce systemic inflammation.Conclusion:Healing required a full-system approach. Movement rebuilt the joint, supplements provided the materials, frequencies stimulated the repair processes, and diet reduced the inflammatory load. It demanded discipline, but the result—a pain-free, fully functional knee—was worth every effort.My Video:  How I have healed my osteoarthritis? https://youtu.be/veJuADBFW9QMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-I-have-healed-my-osteoarthritis.mp3

 Two Lies We Often Hear“You will never amount to anything.”“You can be anything you want.”Both are false.The truth is: your purpose is discovered, not invented. It grows out of your experiences, struggles, and unique path.Purpose Has No Age LimitYou don't have to find your purpose in your twenties—or even in your thirties. Many people only discover it later in life.🎾 Andre Agassi was one of the greatest tennis players ever, yet he hated playing tennis. His real mission? Education reform.🍏 Steve Jobs started as a hippie, but the lessons he picked up along the way eventually shaped Apple.Your path doesn't have to be straight. Even success in one field doesn't mean you've found your true calling.For me, engineering was my genius—but not my purpose. Only after two near-death experiences did I understand that my mission was spiritual. Yet the discipline I learned in engineering—focus, persistence, determination—prepared me for it.Four Paths to PurposeThere is no single way to find your calling. But most people discover theirs through one of four paths:Pain → PurposeMany people transform suffering into service. Their experiences with illness, trauma, or loss fuel a mission to help others avoid the same pain.PotentialIf you don't yet know your potential, experiment. Try 50 different tasks in a year. Fail fast, learn fast. Eventually, you'll discover your natural talents.Problem-SolvingSee a problem? Find a solution. Many great purposes are born from simply fixing what's broken.Platform (Experience)Everything you've lived through—successes, failures, skills, struggles—can serve others. Your experience makes you an expert in someone else's eyes.A Simple Exercise: Make 4 ListsA skill but no passion → Example: a job you're good at but don't love. Write down three advantages of that job. How could you learn to appreciate it?A skill and passion → This is the sweet spot. Your potential purpose lies here.No skill and no passion → Outsource it. Don't waste energy here.No skill but passion → Learn it. Build the skills to match your excitement.Passion vs. PurposeYour passion is for you.Your purpose is for others.Ask yourself: Who does my work positively impact?When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change. Meaning often comes not from the work itself, but from the lives it touches.⚡ Purpose is not a destination—it's a process. Start with what you know, learn from what you don't, and let your experiences shape the mission only you can fulfill.My Video:  Find Your Life's Purpose by Doing This ONE Thing  https://youtu.be/sTgKIDeC7LQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Find-Your-Life's-Purpose-by-Doing-This-ONE-Thing.mp3

 In the Transylvanian village of Biertan, Romania, there is a tiny room that may have saved more marriages than any modern therapist. For nearly 300 years, the village recorded only one divorce—thanks to a very unusual tradition.When couples wanted to separate, they weren't allowed to do so immediately. Instead, under the guidance of the local bishop, they were locked together in a small room for up to six weeks (usually about two).Inside this room there was only:one bed,one set of utensils,one plate,one chair, andone table.The couple had to cook, eat, sleep, and talk together in this confined space. The idea wasn't to punish them, but to slow things down and force communication. With no distractions, no escape, and no one else to turn to, they were left with only each other.The results were remarkable. Whether it was the enforced closeness, the shared discomfort, or the power of silence, nearly all couples reconciled.What This Tradition Teaches UsToday, divorce has become far too easy. Many relationships end quickly, often without real effort to understand one another.The lesson from Biertan is simple:Don't rush. Give the relationship time before making final decisions.Face each other honestly. Stay with the discomfort instead of running from it.Talk and listen. Often, it's the silence and shared space that rebuilds connection.A Modern ApproachOf course, we don't need to lock couples in a room anymore. But the principle still applies:Start with therapy. Couples therapy provides a safe space to explore emotions, conflicts, and misunderstandings. Even if the relationship cannot be saved, therapy helps both partners understand themselves better.Limit distractions. Set aside phones, work, and external pressures, and give each other undivided attention.Practice patience. Healing a relationship is not instant—it takes time, courage, and humility.Sometimes, saving a marriage is less about grand gestures and more about creating the conditions where love, communication, and forgiveness can grow again.My Video: How to Save a Marriage in Romania? https://youtu.be/75KZMnMHdEIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Save-a-Marriage-in-Romania.mp3.

 I cured by myself successful my broken disk, L4-L5, herniated disk,... strong Scoliosis and twisted spine mainly through exercises, Qigong and Accupuncture. Now my spine is better than ever before.My Diagnosis:    Herniated Disc (L4-L5)Sequestered Disc Fragment (broken off)    Severe Scoliosis    A Twisted SpineNerve CompressionMy Recovery Tools:    Qigong (for energy flow and alignment)    Targeted Exercises (for strength and stability)    Acupuncture (for pain relief and neural balance)My Result:Today, my spine is stronger, more aligned, and more functional than ever before.What I Learned:    The body wants to heal. It needs the right signals, patience, and consistency.    Energy matters. Qigong wasn't just movement—it was rewiring my nervous system and restoring bioenergetic flow.    Structure follows function. By moving correctly and consistently, my spine gradually reorganized itself.    Pain is a message, not a life sentence. I listened, responded, and persisted.My Message to You:If you've been told your condition is “permanent,” please know:    You are not broken beyond repair.    You have more power than you've been led to believe.    Your journey may require courage and patience, but healing is possible.Would you like help turning this into:   I was told by multiple orthopedic doctors that my condition was permanent. That my herniated disc, severe scoliosis, and twisted spine were a life sentence. They offered me pain management, not solutions. They saw scans, not potential.I refused to believe them.I decided to listen to my body instead of my medical files. I turned to Qigong, acupuncture, and targeted exercises—not as alternatives, but as primary tools for transformation.And today?My spine is straighter, stronger, and more functional than ever.The Truth No One Told Me:    Doctors are experts in disease, not always in healing.    Scans show where you've been, not where you can go.    The body's ability to regenerate is vastly underestimated.If you've been told you “have no chance,” remember:You are the only one who gets to decide your limits.Would You Like to Share Your Full Story?STAND NEVER AGAIN WITH STRAIGHT KNEES! The knee joint should be always loose because you block the energy, and you put your back muscles under unnecessary tensions. Stand so, that your knee joints are above your feet.My Holistic Protocol: 7 Steps That Rebuilt My Spine1. Daily Dedicated Exercise (2 Hours/Day) – Qigong & YogaPrinciple: A strong muscular “corset” is essential for spinal stability and alignment.2. Intensive AcupunctureProtocol: Daily sessions for at least 14 days.Insight: Weekly sessions are far too weak for severe trauma. Intensity and consistency break pain cycles and stimulate healing.3. Osteopathic CareFocus: Treating the body as one interconnected system—releasing hidden tensions and restoring balance.4. Structural Alignment TherapiesTried: Chiropractic, Dorn Method, osteopathic manipulation.Goal: Physically realign the vertebrae and pelvis to create the foundation for long-term healing.5. Spiritual Spine HealingIn Europe, I discovered healers trained in energetic scoliosis correction. Through non-physical methods, they worked on my spine's alignment.💡 Note: This therapy was so effective that it's even covered by some German health insurance plans. At only €40 per session, it became a crucial step in finally straightening my spine.6. Radical Rehabilitation Exercises and taking collagen (Hydrolysate) as supplementDr. John Bergmann's Twists: 100 fast, vertical twists per side to stimulate cartilage growth and mobility.The “Woodcutter” (My Method):Stand with legs shoulder-width apart.Bend backwards with arms raised.Swing forward forcefully, arms sweeping between the legs.Start with 5 reps, build to 100 over six months.This builds tremendous core strength and spinal resilience.7. Anti-Inflammatory, Plant-Based DietEliminated: Meat, processed, and acid-forming foods.Embraced: Whole-food, plant-based eating for reduced inflammation and steady healing energy.The ResultToday, my spine is not only pain-free—it's stronger and more flexible than ever. I move with freedom I never thought possible.My Message to YouHealing is not passive. It demands an open mind, relentless effort, and the courage to go beyond conventional limits.Your body has an astonishing ability to regenerate—if you give it the right tools, consistency, and belief.My Video:  How I cured successful my broken disk from my spine? https://youtu.be/YUEg7zuDJyAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-I-cured-successful-my-broken-disk-from-my-spine.mp3

 Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year. What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.The only way to have a friend is to be one.To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything beautiful, for beauty is God's handwriting.A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes longer.The first wealth is health.It is not length of life, but depth of life.To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.All I have seen teaches me to trust the creator for all I have not seen.Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail.Character is higher than intellect. A great soul will be strong to live as well as think.The age of a woman doesn't mean a thing. The best tunes are played on the oldest fiddles.Speak the truth, and all things alive or brute are vouchers, and the very roots of the grass underground there, do seem to stir and move to bear you witness.What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have never been discovered.Every man I meet is in some way my superior.The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn.A great part of courage is the courage of having done the thing before.For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.A great man is always willing to be little.An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory.People only see what they are prepared to see.Money often costs too much.My Video:  Ralph Waldo Emerson Quotes https://youtu.be/cCgYNx14EPEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Ralph-Waldo-Emerson-Quotes.mp3

 Early January has this weird pressure, right?Like you're supposed to redesign your whole life in one sitting.That was me for years. I'd download a 30-question PDF, sit there trying to “reflect,” and three hours later have pages of thoughts with no clue what to actually do differently.By February, I'd forgotten most of it anyway.So, the last few years I've been testing what actually changes behavior vs what just sounds deep.Turns out all it takes is the right 10 questions and about 20 minutes of honesty.That's what this newsletter is.I hope a couple of these 10 questions will make you stop and go, “Oh… THAT'S why last year felt off! ”Do it right, and your next 11 months will feel different.3 RulesWrite fast — Don't edit. Set a timer for 20 minutes and keep it moving.First honest answer wins — No overthinking. Whatever comes to mind first is usually what's trueUse paper — Don't let this get buried in your notes app or a Notion graveyard.Part 1: The MirrorLooking back on your 20251. What happened last year? List 5 key moments, milestones, or memories.Years blur together when you don't stop to name what actually happened. This question slows things down. When you list what stood out, patterns emerge. What mattered. What changed you?Pro tip: If you're blanking, scroll back through your camera roll and find highlights. You capture what matters without realizing it. You'll also find 47 screenshots of things you meant to buy and never did.2. What's one thing you can do now that you couldn't do a year ago?Growth is sneaky. It happens so gradually, you forget it's even happening. This question forces you to acknowledge progress you've already normalized.You have something like this, too. So what's one thing you can do now that past-you struggled with?3. If a stranger looked at your calendar and bank statement from last year, what would they say you value most?This one stings. It's easy to say you value health, freedom, relationships, etc. But your calendar and credit card don't lie. They show what actually got your time and attention (turns out Uber Eats double steak burritos from Chipotle is one of my core values 🤷🏻‍♂️)Once you see the gap, you know exactly what needs to change this year.4. Who had the biggest impact on you last year? What changed because of them?People shape us whether we like it or not. Some expand you, others drain you. And sometimes it's not even someone you know personally. A podcast that hit at the right time. A creator who said something that rewired how you think. A friend who told you what you needed to hear instead of what you wanted to.Your answer shows you who to keep close in 2026.5. What's something you said yes to that should've been a hell no?We've all got one. Mine started with ‘this will only take a weekend' and ended four months later… The point is that every yes is a trade-off. When you say yes to the wrong thing, you're quietly saying no to something better. Name the regret.Your answer to this question is how boundaries start forming naturally.6. What's one thing you changed your mind on last year?We live in a world where people are terrified of changing their minds. You see people who do publicly get called “grifter” or “wishy-washy.” Like evolving is some kind of character flaw. But really, it's evidence that you learned something.So what shifted last year? If nothing comes to mind, you were probably running on autopilot. And if something big changed, it's worth knowing why.Part 2: The MapWhat will your 2026 look like?7. What do you need to let go of to move forward?Before you add anything new, subtract. Think if you have any old goals that don't fit anymore, grudges you're still carrying, or identities you've outgrown. You can't grab what's next for you this year if your hands are full trying to play catch-up from last year.8. What story are you telling yourself that's keeping you stuck?If you're a regular of this newsletter, you know where I'm going with this. Who you think you are is nothing but a story you keep telling yourself. “I'm bad with money. I missed my shot. If they really knew me, they'd leave too.” They're just stories you repeated so long they started running your decisions.So If 2025 looked suspiciously like 2024, a story probably stayed in charge. Answer this question and spend some time picturing how good your life would be if you stopped believing the limiting story.9. What would make this year feel like you wasted it?I know, I know… this sounds negative. But it's actually one of the most liberating questions you can ask. Everyone obsesses over what they want. Almost nobody defines what failure looks like for them. When you name it, you create a floor you refuse to fall through.10. If you could only accomplish THREE things this year, what would they be?If everything's important, nothing is. Know which three goals get your best energy. Hit those, and everything else becomes a bonus instead of a reason to feel behind at the end of the year.10 questions. 20 minutes.Do this once, and you'll have more clarity than most people get from month-long planning sessions.My Video:  How to improve this year? https://youtu.be/aVignbApojQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-improve-this-year.mp3

 Most of our struggles in relationships come from wrong expectations about love.The three biggest challenges in marriage are communication, sex, and money.If even one of these is broken, the relationship will suffer.Take sex as an example:We all have desires. If we can't live them inside our marriage, they will show up outside of it. The more rules and demands you place on your partner, the less happy you become. As Tony Robbins says:👉 The fewer rules you impose, the happier you are.Instead of chasing perfection in love, learn to accept, reduce demands, and open your heart. A big heart that tries to solve problems with love will find relationships much easier.💡 The Lies We Learned About LoveLove is the most wanted thing in life—yet also the most misunderstood.We confuse it with the illusions sold to us through:NovelsMoviesSongsAdvertisementsThese are not real love. They feed us false ideas that lead to disappointment: the myth of everlasting passion, the soul partner who solves everything, or chemistry that lasts forever.⚡ Chemistry vs. CompatibilityOne of the biggest mistakes:👉 Confusing chemistry with compatibility.You can feel strong chemistry with someone and still end up in a toxic relationship.You cannot love a narcissist or a cheater just because the sex is good.Real love is about deeper connection—not excitement alone.Science shows we often mistake stress and anxiety for attraction. That spark, that “butterfly” feeling, is often just adrenaline. But adrenaline is not love.Ask yourself next time:❓ Do I feel safe with this person, or just stimulated?In truth, healthy love is:Safe and stimulatingPeaceful and passionateRespectful without showing offGrowth-oriented without pressure🛑 Why Boundaries MatterLove without boundaries is not love—it's self-abandonment.Don't give up your hobbies, friends, or personal growth for your partner.No relationship should stop you from therapy, meditation, sports, or your spiritual path.God (or your inner truth) must remain more important than your partner.Boundaries protect love. They keep the right people in and push the wrong ones out.🔥 Drama vs. PeaceWe're addicted to drama because it feels exciting. But real love is not chaos.Peace is not boring.Passion is not toxic.A good relationship makes exciting things even better, but also makes ordinary moments feel safe and fulfilling.Ask yourself:How do you feel with your partner on a normal day, without distractions, without your phone, without doing anything special?⚔️ Conflict Is Not the EnemyConflicts don't ruin relationships—how you fight does.Healthy couples don't avoid arguments. They use them to grow.Real love is not loud; it's quiet.Connection means being seen even when you're imperfect.True love stays with you through the hard times.You don't find a dream partner—you choose every day to build one another.Love is a commitment to grow and heal together, not to seek perfection.🧠 Childhood PatternsMost people repeat three emotional patterns in their relationships, all rooted in childhood. These patterns are never healthy, and they keep us stuck.Ask yourself:What must someone do so you feel loved?Are your answers (kiss, gift, attention) just surface gestures?Or do they reflect the heart's attitude behind the action?A kiss without love is nothing. A kiss with presence, tenderness, and truth—that's love.❤️ The Essence of LoveReal love is not about excitement or perfection. It is about:Safety without boredomPassion without chaosGrowth without pressureBoundaries without distanceConnection without conditionsLove is not something you find—it is something you choose, protect, and grow every single day.My Video:  How to Let Go of Wrong Ideas About Love?  https://youtu.be/TUS4_p8dQ8EMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Let-Go-of-Wrong-Ideas-About-Love.mp3

 If you follow news about the New Age movement, its forecasts are about a major conscious shift for everybody and a shift to a reality of abundance…They fail to understand that through mobile phones, people are becoming so distracted they have no space for God or real consciousness…The New Age ignores politics, and now we are spiraling down into dictatorship, censorship, and huge debts that will end catastrophically…Europe is preparing for a war against Russia, and the majority of citizens even support the political parties that want that war and are enacting censorship…Trump, the President of the USA, is the most criminal, cheating, corrupt politician in power we have ever seen. He supports the genocide of the Palestinians and, with his insane trade wars, drives the poor of Africa and Asia to starvation and terrorist acts…The New Age doesn't care, living in a fantasy with soft music. They ask, "For what? That is not their problem." They just want to ascend to a higher realm…Through sanctions from the West on other countries, an average of 560,000 people have died per year from 1971 until today. Trump enacted 2,300 sanctions during his previous term as president! Now he wants to kill more?!How could the Americans vote for such a criminal, lying person as president?Every day we are closer to a nuclear apocalypse, and we have never been so close to it than we are right now.Instead of fighting for peace, social justice, and a connection to God, the New Age just accepts everything until they have their boots on the battlefield.Unhappiness is growing every day to dizzying heights in the West.The suicide rate is the highest it has ever been in the West.The ostrich policy of burying its head in the sand when things get dangerous fits the New Age movement perfectly.Tell me more.And the New Age movement from the West will tell us about a consciousness shift to a higher realm!The opposite is true.The third revelation of Fatima tells us of a slow drift into comfortable emptiness.Faith dying not through persecution, but through noise, distraction, and false comfort.Churches filled with art but empty of prayer.A world connected by invisible wires, yet people more isolated than ever.What more nonsense is coming from the New Age movement?We will wait until they are recruited and sent to war.My Video:  The New Age movement has lost its grip on reality! https://youtu.be/b-OCwiwdTjEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-New-Age-movement-has-lost-its-grip-on-reality.mp3

 Inspired by Jay Shetty and Esther PerelHow do you know when to leave your relationship?How do you know when it can be saved?Should you stay, or should you go?Both answers already live inside you — and whichever choice you make, the other one will still haunt you.If you leave, you may think you've lost something valuable.If you stay, you may feel you've missed the chance to find a better match.Every decision comes with loss and consequences:The grief of not trying everything to improve the relationshipThe hope that things will get better over time, thinking this is just a crisisThe regret of your own mistakesOr the regret of not leaving soonerSome breakups are extreme — they can ruin your life. In these cases, it can resemble an addiction: relationship addiction.How Can You Save Your Relationship?It's not only about the other person — it's about you.Anyone can improve a relationship. There are countless strategies that work.If you change for the better, your partner often follows. Relationships are interconnected — your actions shape their responses.If you stop responding to certain words or behaviors, your partner will eventually stop repeating them.The key: You must change.Ideally, both partners should explore body-oriented and emotional therapy together. This can resolve many conflicts.A Simple Starting PointAsk: What is one thing I can do to improve our relationship?Do it. Then ask about the next step.Worst strategy: Trying to change someone who doesn't want to change.That always fails.Why Small Issues EscalateMinor conflicts often spiral because we misinterpret them.Example:You don't wash the dishes after eating.Interpretations:You don't love meYou want to control meYou don't appreciate meYou only want things your wayBut often, it's not about the dishes at all — it's about recognition, respect, value, trust, or closeness.Instead of taking it personally, just do the task or find a shared solution.Example: Cooking MessesIf your partner always leaves a mess after cooking and refuses to clean, you need an agreement.In one case, frying with overheated oil on a gas stove without a lid caused dangerous splatters in a wooden kitchen.The solution? Either cook more carefully or don't fry at all.In relationships, sometimes you must give up power and practice humility.Giving Space and Learning from Each OtherLet your partner express their creativity and do things their way — you might learn something new.Even if you're the more experienced one, give them the space to explore.Personal NoteAfter completing the Kailash Kora trek at 5,700m, I realized something: if I could take it step-by-step there, I could survive anything — even a year of a roller-coaster relationship.What doesn't kill you truly can make you stronger.Two Types of People in RelationshipsThose more afraid of losing the other — fearing abandonment or rejection.Those more afraid of losing themselves — fighting for their identity and ideas.Most power struggles are not really about power.Power is just the defense mechanism. The control battle hides a deeper fear.When people are afraid, they fight. The issue is not the fight itself, but the fear underneath.Always look beneath the conflict.Ask: What am I really afraid of losing here — control, connection, or myself?My Video: When to leave or quit a relationship? https://youtu.be/AokAJRc8JcEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/When-to-leave-or-quit-a-relationship.mp3

 Everything is more beautiful because we're doomed. You will never be lovelier than you are now. We will never be here again.The journey is its own reward.Be both a speaker of words and a doer of deeds.The stars never lie, but the astrologers lie about the stars.There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.The difficulty is not so great to die for a friend, as to find a friend worth dying for.Everything flows and nothing stays.Yet, taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe.Better to live or die, once and for all, than die by inches.Because they're stupid, that's why. That's why everybody does everything.Words empty as the wind are best left unsaid.Light is the task where many share the toil.Each man delights in the work that suits him best.And what he greatly thought, he nobly dared.I guess some people never change... Or, they quickly change and then quickly change back.Of all creatures that breathe and move upon the earth, nothing is bred that is weaker than man.After the event, even a fool is wise.Hateful to me as are the gates of hell, Is he who, hiding one thing in his heart, Utters another.Always to be best, and distinguished above the rest.In youth and beauty, wisdom is but rare!Wise to resolve, and patient to perform.I'm in a place where I don't know where I am!Sleep and Death, who are twin brothers.Trying is the first step toward failure.If you serve too many masters, you'll soon suffer.Whoever obeys the gods, to him they particularly listen.To speak his thoughts is every freeman's right, in peace and war, in council and in fight.There is the heat of Love, the pulsing rush of Longing, the lover's whisper, irresistible—magic to make the sanest man go mad.My Video:  Quotes Homer https://youtu.be/4TOEV_wvHlYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Quotes-Homer.mp3

 Powerful Motivational Speech | Inspired by Tony Robbins1. Where Is Your Focus Going?If your focus is on achieving your goals, your attention is on the future.If your focus is on the past, you're wasting your time and energy.You can't change the past. If you focus on what's missing, you'll never move forward.Instead, be thankful for every lesson and challenge you've faced.Your failures? They were your best teachers.Gratitude is the key.You can only truly enjoy life in the here and now.We can't control the outer world.We can control only our inner world — and even that takes discipline.Too often, we react to situations instead of responding appropriately.What we can control is:Our focusThe meaning we give to situations, events, and challengesAsk yourself: What meaning will serve me best?Fear and Anger: The Two DestroyersTwo emotions will destroy your relationships, your business, and your life: Fear and Anger.You cannot be grateful and fearful at the same time.You cannot be angry and grateful simultaneously.The happiest people are also the most grateful people.So practice gratitude relentlessly.Say “thank you” — out loud or in your mind — a thousand times a day.Do that, and you will start attracting the good into your life.Practice in Private, Win in PublicProfessional singers or actors might perform for one minute on stage —but they've practiced for a thousand minutes in private.The same goes for life.You must train, prepare, and grow behind the scenes.And always connect your actions to a higher purpose.If you fall short of that purpose, you won't achieve what you're aiming for.Before you sleep tonight, ask yourself:What is my higher purpose?Purpose Can ChangeWhen I was young, I thought my purpose was to design new things as an engineer.I was very good at it.But after two near-death experiences and severe illnesses, I discovered a different purpose.I didn't choose it — life chose it for me.Self-Esteem Is EarnedSelf-esteem is not built through compliments or praise from others.It comes from doing incredibly difficult things you once thought impossible.Stop beating yourself up — it doesn't work.The people who forgive themselves the fastest are often the most successful.Look at Nick Vujicic — born with no arms and no legs — and yet he's done extraordinary things.He's deeply grateful for his life.And you dare to complain?Care About Something Bigger Than YourselfIf you find something to care about more than yourself, you won't be trapped in constant self-focus.Do you want an extraordinary life — on your terms?I never set out to create an “extraordinary” life, but I have one — because I refused to compromise my standards or my morals.It hasn't been easy.I've fought so hard for my values that I've been bullied, left alone, and rejected.But that's the price.If you can hold your standards no matter what, you've done something extraordinary for yourself.If not, you'll join the crowd of losers who numb themselves with beer, drugs, and excuses.In 2026, focus on yourself. Stay silent. Build your strength in private. Let your results speak for you.My Video: FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND STAY SILENT  https://youtu.be/kX03YjAZ3ycMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/FOCUS-ON-YOURSELF-AND-STAY-SILENT.mp3 

 In a society where selfishness and blind obedience are the norm, love and happiness vanish.For most people, the top priority is worrying about what others think of them.The generation raised on mobile phones is the unhappiest in modern history — unhappier than the previous three generations.Even worse, almost everyone wants to fit in, which gives politicians the freedom to do whatever they want.Our generation fought for peace, social justice, and freedom — and we achieved it.The mobile-phone generation, however, mostly cares about how they pose themselves on social media, and ignores politics.The results?Censorship.Overspending on the military-industrial complex.Massive corruption, with money funneled into wars that never serve the citizens.Coincidence?My childhood was hell — and because of that, I decided to change my life completely.I chose happiness, love, spiritual well-being, and health — regardless of what others thought of me.And I achieved that, living outside the rules of society.Yes, I was bullied. People abandoned me.My family cut ties, and I laughed it off.Girlfriends tried to censor or “tame” me — and dared to call that love. I walked away.Even now, I see women trying to censor men in almost every relationship — and the men are too cowardly to resist.For example:I became a devotee of Bhagwan and wore red.Bhagwan encouraged free sharing of love and sexuality — even group experiences.I invested all my money in therapy, sold my car, and moved into a 4-person community.I lived in India in an Ashram for 10 years, and in other Ashrams across Europe.I changed my gurus many times.I repeatedly healed my body using alternative methods when doctors failed me.I've eaten only raw food — no rice, no noodles, only vegetables and fruit — for 40 years.I have been drug-free for 40 years.I meditate and practice Qigong every day.If you read the success stories of entrepreneurs like Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and Elon Musk, you'll see that they became successful by refusing to live by society's standards.And what about religion and spirituality?Look at the lives of Buddha, Muhammad, Jesus, Moses…Did they conform to society — or did they leave it?If you want to be truly happy, successful, or spiritual, you must leave the herd mentality.You must become your own master and stop caring what others think.Otherwise, you are letting fear dictate your life.And fear is a terrible guide.Remember: Nazism comes before the downfall — the Bible warned us.My Video:  Never Get Enslaved https://youtu.be/O-Xn6jrvPMAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Never-Get-Enslaved.mp3

 Castor oil has unique penetrating power — it breaks up congestion, dissolves blockages, and supports healing deep in the tissues.When combined with baking soda, it becomes a versatile natural remedy for skin, joints, digestion, and more.This simple blend can address over 19 health issues — from rough skin and scars to fungal infections and joint pain.✨ Benefits of Castor OilDeep penetration into the skinIntense hydration and nourishmentStimulates collagen production → improves scars, wrinkles, and skin textureNatural anti-inflammatory and healing properties✨ Benefits of Baking SodaGentle exfoliation → removes dead skin cellsAntimicrobial action → protects small cuts from infectionHelps balance skin pH🧴 How to Make the Castor Oil + Soda PasteMix 1 spoon castor oil with 1 spoon baking soda.Test on a small patch of skin first (to check for sensitivity).Apply paste to the desired area (cuts, scars, dry skin, wrinkles, etc.).Leave for 15 minutes.For best results: cover with a warm cloth.Rinse with warm water.👉 Use every second day or 2 times per week. (Too frequent use may over-alkalize the skin.)🌱 Uses & ApplicationsFor SkinAcne & scars → apply 15–20 min, twice a weekWrinkles & aging skin → improves elasticity and textureRough or cracked skin (feet & palms) → softens and repairsNails → strengthens and helps repair damageInsect bites & rashes → soothes irritationFor Fungal InfectionsNail fungus, athlete's foot → apply paste, cover, leave for 30 min, twice dailyFor Warts & EczemaApply paste directly, cover with a bandageLeave on continuously (changing paste & bandage twice daily)Over time, the wart or eczema patch may shrink or fall off💪 For Joints, Muscles & CirculationMassage paste into sore muscles and jointsImproves circulation and stimulates lymphatic drainageHelps remove toxins via the lymph nodes (apply with circular massage under arms, groin, belly)🌿 For Digestion & BloatingMassage paste on the abdomen, cover with warm cloth for 30 minHelps relieve congestion, bloating, and sluggish digestionOptional internal use: Take only 2–5 drops of castor oil (too much works as a strong laxative!)My Video:  Miraculous Castor Oil with Baking Soda  https://youtu.be/xr_GnEh6dFAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Miraculous-Castor-Oil-with-Baking-Soda.mp3

 The Power of "One More Step"1. The Secret of Relentless Progress    The Shipwreck Survivor: A 14-year-old girl survived by repeating "one more stroke" until she reached shore.    Buddha's Wisdom: When disciples asked, "How far to the monastery?" he always answered: "Just one more kilometer."    The Lesson: Success isn't about the finish line—it's about refusing to stop.Try This: When exhausted, say: "Just one more call. One more rep. One more try."2. Your Past Doesn't Define You—It Fuels You    Bitcoin Billionaire: Went to jail, called it "the best lecture in positivity."    My Story:        Childhood hell → Near-death experience → Chose happiness.        Couldn't speak German properly → Learned English + wrote books.    Pain = Your Greatest Teacher:        "The worst times forge the strongest minds."→ Action Step: Write down one past struggle that made you stronger. Thank it.3. The Obstacle Is the Asset    Stuttering Child → Multilingual Author: If I'd listened to "You're stupid," I'd never have written a word.    Science Backs This: Post-traumatic growth shows 70% of people gain strength, clarity, or purpose after trauma .    Your Turn:        "What if my biggest weakness is my secret weapon?"4. Fail Forward—Never Backward    Repeating Mistakes = Stagnation:        "If you keep doing what hurt you, you'll keep hurting."    Repeating Success Wrong = Disaster:        Past strategies won't work in a new world (e.g., Blockbuster vs. Netflix).    Solution: Act from imagination, not memory.→ Hack: Ask daily: "Am I moving forward—or just replaying the past?"5. Cut the "Backward-Looking" People    Toxic Nostalgia: Friends stuck reminiscing "remember when…" drain your future.    Upgrade Your Circle: Surround yourself with people who ask:        "What's your next move?"        "Where are you traveling this year?"    Key Insight: Misery loves company—don't RSVP.Final Challenge: The "Unstoppable" Test    Physical: Do one more push-up than usual.    Mental: Learn one new word in a foreign language today.    Emotional: Forgive one past hurt holding you back.Remember:    The girl in the lake didn't swim the whole way at once—she swam one stroke at a time.    You don't need to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step.Why This Works:    Neuroscience: Small wins trigger dopamine, fueling motivation .    History: From Edison to Einstein, breakthroughs came from persistence, not perfection.    You: Every obstacle you've survived proves you're built for this.Question: What's your "one more step" today? (Reply with your commitment.) My Video:  How to Become Unstoppable https://youtu.be/2unpK64we0IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Become-Unstoppable.mp3

 If you do not take an interest in the affairs of your government, then you are doomed to live under the rule of fools.Reality is created by the mind, we can change our reality by changing our mind.A wise man speaks because he has something to say; a fool because he has to say something.No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.The right question is usually more important than the right answer.The one who learns and learns and doesn't practice is like the one who plows and plows and never plants.The first and the best victory is to conquer self.Don't force your children into your ways, for they were created for a time different from your own.Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws.Never discourage anyone who continually makes progress, no matter how slow... even if that someone is yourself!We understand why children are afraid of darkness ... but why are men afraid of light?I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing.The greatest wealth is to live content with little.Just as bees make honey from thyme, the strongest and driest of herbs, so do the wise profit from the most difficult of experiences.The measure of a man is what he does with power.One cannot make a slave of a free person, for a free person is free even in a prison.Poverty doesn't come because of the decrease of wealth but because of the increase of desires.Ignorance is the root cause of all difficulties.False words are not only evil in themselves, but they infect the soul with evil.Those who are able to see beyond the shadows and lies of their culture will never be understood let alone believed by the masses.The worst of all deceptions is self-deception.One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors.When you feel grateful, you become great, and eventually attract great things.The price of apathy towards public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.Happiness springs from doing good and helping others.My Video:   Quotes Plato https://youtu.be/P2moxOUt8iQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Quotes-Plato.mp3

 All religions are based on lies.But what happens if we skip the lies — and simply surrender to God?Life suddenly becomes wonderful. It begins to make sense.Science shows us something similar: after just five years, 95% of scientific “truths” turn out to be wrong or incomplete.Politics? Built on lies and false assumptions — which almost never come true.Our personal lives? Often shaped by illusions and deceptions.Even the Bible reminds us: the world is an illusion.So why do we assume religion must always hold truth?There is no hell, no heaven, no moksha, no nirvana, no past lives, no karma.Or as Buddha put it: karma is indescribable.The Tao — or God — that you can describe is not truly the Tao, nor truly God.The Modern Replacement for GodToday, people have replaced God with the smartphone.The results are clear:The rise of destructive ideologies like NazismGenerations marked by unhappinessRecord-high suicide ratesWidespread drug addictionThe disappearance of true loveThe AlternativeWhat if we skipped the phone — and replaced it with God?What if we skipped the lies — and chose truth instead?What if we cared for each other — instead of caring for a device?Then our world would blossom.My Video:  Skipping the Lies and Surrendering to God  https://youtu.be/GcxM0hw91VwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Skipping-the-Lies-and-Surrendering-to-God.mp3

 Neck-related tinnitus is often caused by tension in the neck muscles.Main Causes of Neck Muscle TensionPhysical strain – poor posture, incorrect head position, or prolonged mobile phone use.Emotional factors – trauma, suppressed negative emotions, and unresolved thoughts.I address this with my hypnotherapy MP3. (I am a certified hypnotherapist.)Resistance to the tinnitus itself – when we fight against the sound, we create even more tension in the muscles.This too can be released with my hypnotherapy MP3.The SolutionHere are 4 simple neck exercises you can do daily—in the morning, throughout the day, and at night before bed:Slow head rotationsTurn your head gently left and right.A full 180° turn should take about 30 seconds.Forward and backward stretchesSlowly lower your head forward until your chin touches your chest.Then carefully tilt your head backward as far as it comfortably goes.Side tiltsTilt your head slowly to the left, then to the right.Neck circlesSlowly rotate your head in a full circle to the left, then to the right.Night RoutineBefore bed, listen to my hypnotherapy MP3 and simply follow my guidance.If you fall asleep while listening—even better.ResultsWithin one week, most people notice a clear difference.After 30 days, either the tinnitus is gone—or you stop caring about it, because your mind and body are at peace.My Video:  How to Cure Neck-Related Tinnitus? https://youtu.be/VICtk6ZjZ08My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Cure-Neck-Related-Tinnitus.mp3https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/photosinternet/tinnitus-with-sleep2.mp3

 Here, we bring together everything science has proven about manifestation:How to remove all the obstacles that prevent your desired outcome.Think back to a time when you wanted something so badly — and it just wouldn't happen.Maybe it was a relationship, a job, or an opportunity.Why couldn't you get it?Because of your obsession.The more you run after something (or someone), the faster it runs away.Now, think of a time when something incredible just fell into place effortlessly.A time when you barely even thought about it — maybe you didn't even care much.Why did that happen?Why do the things we chase seem to run further away,while the things we're indifferent about seem to flow to us without resistance?Because your reality — the “universe” — isn't something that happens to you.It's something that responds to you.You're not waiting for reality to change.Reality is waiting for you to change.Remember those times when you wanted something so badly and didn't get it —but the moment you stopped caring and let it go…Boom — it showed up.That's the law:What you chase, obsess over, or constantly check on — you push away.Your reality will always mirror back the state you're in.It won't change while you're in the state of lack.When you stop checking, stop trying to control it, stop waiting —that's when your reality shifts, and your desired outcome moves toward you.You've shifted into the version of reality that attracts what you wanted.If you assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled — and sustain that assumption — it will harden into fact.It's not hope or wishing; it's faith.You don't look for signs.You don't wonder when it will come.Bible: “Faith can move mountains.”With unshakable faith, you can manifest anything much more easily.You stop interfering.You stop overthinking.You stop doubting.You stop trying to force it into place.That's when things begin to move.Your reality shifts without resistance — and then it shows up effortlessly.When you don't care:You're not blocking it.You're not attached.You're not in a state of waiting.And so, it flows.You can't fake detachment.If deep down you're still craving it, you're blocking it.Step 1 — Stop ChasingStop thinking you need this to happen or that you're waiting for it.Make a list:Why this is not important.Why you don't need it.Why you can live well without it (and already have).The silly reasons you've been chasing it.Step 2 — Make Peace with Not KnowingAccept that you don't know when or how it will happen.Read your list from Step 1 and add more reasons why it's not important.Make a gratitude list for everything you already have and have accomplished.Thank God for it.Ask yourself: Do I really need this “toy”? Will it matter in 30 years?When doubts creep in, acknowledge them, thank them for showing up — then let them go.Focus on what you can do now.Do everything necessary to move toward your outcome, but without focusing on it.The path itself is the goal.For example:If I'm writing a book, my focus is on writing — not on publishing.Learn to sit with uncertainty while giving your best effort to whatever you're doing right now.Step 3 — Accept the GapWhen you shift gears, there's always a gap before results show up.Nothing happens instantly.In the meantime:Enjoy your life without caring about the outcome.Do your best in serving others.Celebrate when other people get their desires fulfilled.That's when the magic happens.You can also imagine you already have it — but personally, I never liked this method because it feels like cheating.My Video:  How to Manifest? https://youtu.be/LkDiMMeBn0wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Manifest.mp3

 The first step after a breakup is to release your emotions—sadness, anger, fear, confusion, and all the rest.Emotions don't always make sense, yet they shape who we are. If we suppress them, starting a new relationship becomes a disaster. Why? Because we attract what we suppress and end up repeating the old story.The best approach is feeling-based and body-oriented therapy, which also helps release the deeper traumas that contributed to the separation.Ask Yourself:Could you speak freely and share all your emotions?Could you be authentic?Could you solve your money problems together?Was your sex life fulfilling?These questions bring clarity and reveal the real issues behind the breakup.What Happens When Someone Breaks Up With UsWe blame ourselves.We ignore red flags.We lose self-awareness.We take all the responsibility for the breakup.This affects:ConfidenceSelf-worthOur future outlookHow we deal with loneliness and self-loveWe also grieve—not only the person, but the future we imagined with them.Stop the IdealizationYou are not really missing them.You are missing:The version of them you idealized.The future you thought they promised.The moments you believed were the truth.The comfort of certainty.The illusion that they were right for you.Be shamelessly honest with yourself. Clarity heals, idealization traps.Write down what actually happened.What did they really do?What didn't they do?No fantasies—just facts.The Foundation of a Long-Term RelationshipThere are three essential elements:You feel seen.You feel supported.You feel safe.If these three are missing, the relationship cannot last.Break the Repetition of the MindScience has shown: emotions create thoughts, but thoughts cannot create emotions.This is confirmed by psychology, neuroscience, meditation, and spiritual traditions.That's why we keep replaying the same thoughts about the relationship—until we release the emotions underneath.Every minute spent releasing negative emotions saves you at least 20 minutes of overthinking.✨ The path forward is not about erasing the past—it's about releasing the emotions tied to it, so you can live with clarity and freedom.My Video: What to Do After You Separate? https://youtu.be/IknOHXYWDAoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/What-to-Do-After-You-Separate.mp3

 A serious and good philosophical work could be written consisting entirely of jokes.The limits of my language means the limits of my world.I don't know why we are here, but I'm pretty sure that it is not in order to enjoy ourselves.Whereof one cannot speak, thereof one must be silent.Hell isn't other people. Hell is yourself.The real question of life after death isn't whether or not it exists, but even if it does what problem this really solves.Nothing is so difficult as not deceiving oneself.If people never did silly things nothing intelligent would ever get done.I am my world.Death is not an event in life: we do not live to experience death. If we take eternity to mean not infinite temporal duration but timelessness, then eternal life belongs to those who live in the present. Our life has no end in the way in which our visual field has no limits.Only describe, don't explain.A man will be imprisoned in a room with a door that's unlocked and opens inwards; as long as it does not occur to him to pull rather than push.If we take eternity to mean not infinite temporal duration but timelessness, then eternal life belongs to those who live in the present.The problems are solved, not by giving new information, but by arranging what we have known since long.Don't for heaven's sake, be afraid of talking nonsense! But you must pay attention to your nonsense.We are asleep. Our Life is a dream. But we wake up sometimes, just enough to know that we are dreaming.Not how the world is, but that it is, is the mystery.We feel that even if all possible scientific questions be answered, the problems of life have still not been touched at all.What can be shown, cannot be said.My Video:  Ludwig Wittgenstein Quotes https://youtu.be/ssKUcgBQvcwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Ludwig-Wittgenstein-quotes.mp3

 (Inspired by Jack Ma & Divine Wisdom)1. The Secret No One Tells You    "Before market research, before technology, before your degree—put God first. That's the real billionaire mindset."    Jack Ma's Story: Failed college twice, rejected from 30+ jobs. Started praying. Then built Alibaba in a tiny apartment with 18 people and faith.    Key: Success isn't just hustle + luck. It's alignment with divine purpose.2. Why God is Your Ultimate Competitive Edge    Clarity Beyond Logic: Decisions stop being just "smart" and start being right.        Example: Jeff Bezos' "Regret Minimization Framework" (prayer-like reflection before big leaps).    Peace Beyond Circumstances:        No therapist can prescribe the calm of "God's got this."        "Man plans, God laughs." — But His plans are better.    Strength in Failure: Jack Ma's failures became fuel because he saw them as divine redirection.3. How to Actually "Put God First"(It's Not Just Praying Before Meals)    Morning Surrender: Start your day with "God, use me today." (Not "Here's my to-do list, bless it.")    Decision Filter: Ask:        "Does this honor God?"        "Is this driven by ego or service?"    Work as Worship:        Sweep floors like you're building a cathedral.        Jack Ma: "We didn't sell products—we served dreams."4. The "God Factor" in Business    Alibaba's Miracle: No funding, no tech—just 18 people praying in an apartment. Today: $500B empire.    Modern Proof:        Chick-fil-A (closed Sundays) outperforms competitors.        Hobby Lobby credits growth to biblical principles.    Not Superstition: It's operating in divine flow.5. Try This Today    5-Minute "God First" Challenge:        Write your biggest problem.        Below it, write: "God's solution is…"        Sit silently for 3 minutes. Listen.        Act on the first nudge (call someone, delete a toxic plan, etc.).The Bottom Line    "You can have the map (strategy) or the compass (God). The compass always wins."Your Move:    If you're stuck: Pray before you plan.    If you're winning: Thank God louder than your ego.(For deeper study: Read Jack Ma's speeches on faith + hustle.)Why This Works:    Neuroscience: Prayer reduces anxiety by 27% (Harvard study).    History: From Rockefeller to Oprah, top achievers credit divine guidance.    You: That gut feeling? That's God's WiFi. Stop ignoring it.Question: What's one thing you'll hand over to God today? Comment below. My Video: PUT GOD FIRST: The Billionaire's Secret to Success https://youtu.be/srBHQmCdUAwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/PUT-GOD-FIRST-The-Billionaire's-Secret-to-Success.mp3

 Why Being Hard on Yourself is Killing Your Success(Inspired by Ed Mylett & Neuroscience)1. Your Worst Enemy is You    The Mistake: Negative self-talk like "I'm not good enough" or "I always mess up."    The Science: Self-criticism spikes cortisol (stress hormone), shutting down creativity and problem-solving .    Fix It: Talk to yourself like you would to a best friend. Example:        "I messed up that presentation." → "I'll improve next time. What's one thing I did well?"2. Confidence is a Skill (Not Luck)    The Lie: "Confidence comes from never failing."    The Truth: Confidence comes from preparation.        Golden Rule: For 1 minute on stage, train for 1,000 minutes (Ed's 10,000-hour principle) .        Action: Master one small skill this week (e.g., eye contact, storytelling).3. Name Your "Demons" to Tame Them    Your mind has "voices": The Perfectionist, The Complainer, The Fearful Child.    Strategy:        Notice negative thoughts ("Ugh, I'm so stupid").        Label them: "Ah, there's The Hyper-Critic again."        Thank them: "Thanks for sharing, but I've got this."    Why It Works: Naming emotions reduces their power by 50% (UCLA study) .4. Forgive Faster Than Anyone Else    Stock Traders' Secret: The best forgive mistakes instantly—no dwelling.    Try This:        Drop a glass? "I forgive myself."        Bomb a meeting? "What's the lesson? Onward."    Ed's Hack: "Speed of forgiveness = Speed of success."5. Gratitude Overrides Negativity    1,000 Thank-Yous a Day: Floods your brain with serotonin (joy chemical).    Example:        "Thank you for this coffee."        "Thank you for the traffic—extra podcast time!"    Result: No mental space for self-hate.30-Second Action Plan    Pause: Next time you screw up, say: "I'm human. What's the lesson?"    Label: Identify one negative thought today (e.g., "The Imposter Syndrome").    Gratitude Bomb: Text someone "Thank you for ______." Right now.Key Quote"Self-love isn't earned—it's the baseline. You wouldn't starve a plant for growing crooked. Don't starve your soul for being human."Your Turn: Which "demon" (Perfectionist, Critic, etc.) will you disarm today? Why This Works:    Brain Rewiring: Self-compassion activates the prefrontal cortex (problem-solving) .    Success Proof: Top performers like Joel Bauer and traders use these exact tools.Bonus: Try *"The 5-Second Rule"* (Mel Robbins): When negativity hits, interrupt it by counting *"5-4-3-2-1—STOP."* Then replace it with gratitude.

 The real magic lies in synergy.DMSO acts as a powerful carrier, pulling castor oil's ricinoleic acid (anti-inflammatory) and clove oil's eugenol (analgesic and antiseptic) deep into the tissues, directly targeting inflammation, pain, and damage.This blend provides relief far beyond what topical oils alone can achieve.✨ Key Ingredients & BenefitsCastor Oil – The carrierRich in ricinoleic acid (anti-inflammatory)Deep penetration into skin, joints, muscles, and connective tissueSupports detox, skin repair, and pain reliefDMSO (Dimethyl Sulfoxide) – The enhancerA natural sulfur compound (also found in garlic)Transports active compounds through the skin barrierRepairs cellular DNA, supports tendon & joint healingBoosts sulfur levels → vital for connective tissue healthClove Oil (or Black Seed Oil) – The activeContains eugenol, a natural pain reliever & anti-inflammatoryTraditionally used for toothaches, inflammation, and infectionsBlack seed oil has similar effects, but clove oil is more affordable🧪 Suggested Blend (Starting Formula)65% Cold-Pressed, Hexane-Free Castor Oil30% 99.99% Pharmaceutical-Grade DMSO5% 100% Pure Clove Essential Oil(or 2–3 capsules of powdered clove supplement)👉 Example:5 tbsp Castor oil1.5 tbsp DMSO25 drops Clove essential oil (or powdered clove equivalent)Shake well before every use.Always mix and store in glass containers (DMSO dissolves plastics).⚠️ Critical Safety PrecautionsPurity – Only use 99.99% USP/Pharmaceutical Grade DMSO.Clean Skin – Wash thoroughly with soap & water, then wipe with rubbing alcohol before applying. DMSO carries anything on your skin into your bloodstream.No Broken Skin – Never apply to cuts or open wounds.Dilution – Never use DMSO undiluted; always mix in castor oil.Patch Test – Test on inner elbow for 24 hrs before wider use.Glass Only – Store and mix in glass jars, never plastic.Clove Oil – Must be diluted; undiluted use can cause burns.🌱 How to UseClean the target area (soap + water + alcohol wipe).Apply a small amount of blend with clean fingers or cotton.Optional Pack – Cover with soft cloth + plastic wrap, then apply heat (hot water bottle/heating pad) for 20–45 minutes.Absorb – Warmth and even a garlic taste in your mouth are normal (sign of DMSO action).Frequency – Once daily, preferably at night.🌿 Healing ApplicationsArthritis & OsteoarthritisApply morning, evening, and as needed.Many see results in 3–14 days.Tendonitis, Tennis Elbow, Wrist PainHelps where ice packs only give partial relief.Consistent use for weeks → noticeable healing.Muscle Strains, Soreness, Back PainProvides quick warmth and pain relief.Liver DetoxRub over skin above liver area.Digestive Issues (Cramps, Bloating)Apply to abdomen + cover with warm cloth for 30 min.Skin HealthDry/damaged skin, acne, rashes, psoriasis, eczemaReduces scars, stretch marks, fine wrinklesMy Video:  Castor Oil + DMSO + Clove (or Black Seed) Oil: A Healing SynergyMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Castor-Oil-DMSO-Clove-or-Black-Seed-Oil-A-Healing-Synergy.mp3

 The 30-Minute Mindset Revolution"Your life changes the moment you make a new, real decision." — Tony Robbins1. Your Current Reality is a Mirror of Past Decisions    Every aspect of your life (relationships, finances, health) reflects choices you've made—or avoided.     Tony's Insight: "Success is 80% psychology, 20% mechanics." Limiting beliefs (e.g., "I'm not smart enough") are often inherited from family/society, not facts 79.2. The "Assumption Trap"    Most assumptions are outdated or false (e.g., "Enlightenment is a myth," "I need a perfect plan to start").    Breakthrough Tool: Challenge one assumption daily. Ask:        "Is this belief serving me?"        "What if the opposite were true?"    Science Backs This: Stanford studies show questioning beliefs boosts cognitive flexibility by 300% 3.3. The Power of a Single DecisionImagine, you are a beautiful lady 19 years old, your mother died and you had 2 years ago a severe motorcycle accident and lost your brain… In the meantime you learned to speak again..Your mother trusted her friend and authorized her to take the money from the life insurance to administrate it for you.Your family wanted only the money and don't want to take care of you…You decided against your family and to trust your mother's friend Lod.  Lod and her boyfriend Rudi decided to take care of you… And then they found a school for brain rehabilitation with people the same age as you.. First You felt so lonely to stay at this school, never less you agreed and then you enjoyed your time there. In 2 years you will be healed.  Your new parents decided sex is good for you and got a coil for you to prevent pregnancy…     Tony Robbins' 7-Step Breakthrough Framework:        Change Your Environment (e.g., the brain rehab school in your story).        Face the Real Issue (e.g., the family's greed vs. the girl's need for care).        Embrace Your Power (her choice to trust Lod/Rudi).        Shift Perspective (from "I'm broken" to "I'm healing").        Own Your Truth (acknowledging her worth beyond money).        Let Go of the Past (releasing resentment toward her family).        Design a Compelling Future (sexuality, health, independence).    Result: In 30 minutes, she redirected her life's trajectory.4. Suffering as a Catalyst    Pain pushes us to change only when it exceeds our fear of the unknown.    Tony's Strategy: "Use suffering as fuel." The girl's accident and betrayal became her motivation to rebuild.    Action Step: Write down:        "What pain am I tolerating?"        "What decision have I avoided because of fear?"5. The "Enough is Enough" Moment    Case Study: Tony's client, a bankrupt entrepreneur, decided in one moment to stop blaming the economy—and quadrupled his income in a year.    Your Turn: Identify one area where you'll say "no more" today.30-Minute Challenge: Rewrite Your Story    Minute 1–5: List 3 assumptions holding you back (e.g., "I'm bad with money").    Minute 6–15: Recall a past decision that changed everything (like the girl's trust in Lod). Feel its power.    Minute 16–25: Apply Robbins' "Three Forces of Decision" 9:        Focus: What do you really want? (e.g., "Financial freedom").        Emotion: Link pain to inaction, joy to action.        Action: Commit to one step (e.g., "Call a financial coach today").    Minute 26–30: Declare aloud: "This is my new truth: ______."Key TakeawayMy story proves it: One decision can override a lifetime of limits. Whether it's trusting a stranger, leaving toxicity, or betting on yourself—clarity + courage = unstoppable transformation.Now: What's the one decision you've been avoiding? Make it in the next 30 minutes.(For deeper training, explore Tony's Breakthrough Framework)Why This Works:    Neuroscience: Decisions rewire the brain's prefrontal cortex, boosting willpower 3.    Spiritual Alignment: Your emphasis on faith mirrors Robbins' principle: "Belief in a higher purpose fuels resilience".    Real-World Proof: The girl's recovery and Robbins' client successes show decisions trump conditions.My Video: Break Limits & Achieve Anything: https://youtu.be/KAylcJqO_j4 My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Break-Limits-Achieve-Anything.mp3