Relax with Meditation

 Mistakes are the portals of discovery.Your mind will give back to you exactly what you put into it.Fall if you will, but rise you must.Absence, the highest form of presence.Shut your eyes and see.People trample over flowers, yet only to embrace a cactus.Ask no questions and you'll hear no lies.Beware the horns of a bull, the heels of the horse, and the smile of an Englishman.Life is too short to read a bad book.To learn one must be humble. But life is the great teacher.Every life is in many days, day after day. We walk through ourselves, meeting robbers, ghosts, giants, old men, young men, wives, widows, brothers-in-love. But always meeting ourselves.Think you're escaping and run into yourself. Longest way round is the shortest way home.To live, to err, to fall, to triumph, to recreate life out of life.My Video:  Quotes James Joyce  https://youtu.be/7RPFApOQDwUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-James-Joyce.mp3

 If you want to be the same as other people.In nature every leaf, every tree, and…  is different and no leaf, tree, dog want to be different as they are!And that idea to fit perfectly causes all the madness… Everybody should be different and also behave differently.If we suppress our true nature and act differently from what we want we become step by step mad… We lose our identification with ourselves and become something different than we are… We isolate ourselves from our true selves and the people. We don't know anymore who we are…In wars, they tried to train every soldier to be the same and to act the same… That never had worked out… And even they tried their best because everybody is different.If we want to be the same as our idol we are acting against our nature or against God…One reason is, we don't want to be hurt because we are different… And then to fit in perfectly creates depression, neuroses, psychoses, and paranoia… (page 153 book: Veronica decides to die /Paulo Coelho).Think this really over! You can only be yourself even your spouse wants to change that… Leave her alone!!! I see it everywhere, males act like cowards/slaves in front of their spouse otherwise they don't get the love or sex that they want! This is so disgusting!!! But females lose their sexual interests if they can control their spouse.And then the tamed/enslaved man is taking drugs or use FaceBook to forget what he really wants! It is better to be mad than: To function like a robot.To be tamed by a spouse.To have depression, neuroses, psychoses and paranoia.To fit in to get the money that you want. To be a slave or an emotional prostitute.Yes, be yourself… This was a hard decision for me … I was running behind a girl that I loved… And I knew that this was madness… Every day, I was coming home crying in front of my community … I didn't care and then this never has happened again… The women were seducing me… I did not need to become somebody else or to seduce a girl. It was so attractive for a female to be together with a guy who is authentic… Yes, females love that… a real man and not such a lousy disgusting coward… Because cowards can't love or surrender to love… For that, you have to be brave… And even in front of my Bosses I acted the same and got the promotion… Because my bosses could 100% trust in me and I did my best for them without losing my identity. My Video: What is to be mad? https://youtu.be/W0truhQ97AoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-to-be-mad.mp3

 Recently, I instructed a lot of beginners to meditate.The biggest challenge is you can't learn to meditate within 10 days!And to learn to meditate fast is just good business. Dreadful teachers make 10 days meditation retreats and even don't care if you are a beginner…The risk to get psychotic or schizophrenia in such meditation retreats is not so seldom!!!!!Be humble you can't win a marathon without a long training - so is it with meditation… Still, everybody can learn meditation and even you have done when you have been a baby! We begin with meditation to enjoy more our life. And we don't make an ego trip to become that meditation master adored by millions of disciples… What is meditation?1.) To watch and let happen! And not to interfere when you are watching your feelings and thoughts! Every thought and emotion is good!Zen: Feel your emotions and don't be your emotion. Don't suppress your feelings or thoughts otherwise, this is not meditation!!!!2.) To connect with the divine or with God! We need a focus point outside of our thoughts and emotions.We choose a focus point that is beneficial and that we can also use in our daily life to calm down and to connect with God!The traditional mediation Vipassana chooses the breathing in and out through our nose as a focus point… But there exist better focus points… For instance, the second Chakra/Navel Chakra or the best is the name of God which we like the most! Imagine you sit on a bank close to a river and watch the ships going up and down the river. On the other side, you see a tree… Between the ships is a gap so that you can see the tree. Your focus point is the tree and your thoughts, emotions are the ships… After the thoughts pass by, we focus on our focus point and look that we relax. When we repeat again and again the name of God we connect with God so that we gain after some years bliss in our meditation. I think that is the best! How to make the meditation fun? We make body exercise or dance before we start with our meditation… So that our body is already relaxed and so our mind… For instance, if you run for 20 minutes so that you exhaust your body, your mind is much more relaxed!If we are angry and meditate for hours we can't get calmness in our mind but if we exhaust our body heavily we get peace in our mind!!!The same is with depression and sadness… Exercise the body until you have released your suppressed feelings… My Video: How to start with meditation 1 https://youtu.be/ylewjeddkPIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-start-with-meditation-1.mp3

Inspired by Jay ShettyWe can create a great relationship when we ask the right questions. Forget the fantasy of finding a “perfect partner.” A relationship's quality depends on what we make of it.When dating, we should enjoy ourselves and ask meaningful questions to understand what the other person wants.0. Why Ask the Scary Questions?If you're afraid to ask hard questions, deep down you might already know the answer. Avoiding the truth only delays the pain — and it will always backfire.We often live in lies, and that keeps us from moving forward.A healthy relationship is not only about chemistry — it's about clarity.If you want real connection, you need real conversations.People who hide from uncomfortable topics often face a bigger crash when the truth comes out. In my experience, speaking honestly reveals true friends, and those who don't belong will leave — saving time and energy.If you change yourself just to fit in with people who aren't right for you, it isolates you, damages your well-being, and can lead to deep despair. Rejection is scary, but pretending is worse.1. What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like for You?A healthy relationship:Gives you space to grow (unhealthy: forces you to shrink to fit)Holds you through hard times (unhealthy: makes you feel like a burden)Brings you peace (unhealthy: keeps you addicted to chaos)Challenges you with kindness (unhealthy: criticizes you into silence)Helps you trust your voice (unhealthy: makes you doubt it)Reminds you of your worth (unhealthy: makes you fight to prove it)Ask: What are your terms and conditions for a healthy relationship?Even better, explore their family relationship patterns — these often shape how they love.2. What Does Commitment Mean for You?Wishful thinking doesn't create a healthy relationship. Commitment does.Commitment is:Showing up on boring daysTalking things out instead of running awayFeeling safe, even when you disagreeAccepting differences without disrespectKnowing you're valued, even on your worst dayRespecting each other's space while staying connectedChoosing each other again and again, not just when it's easyThis conversation isn't about forcing commitment immediately — it's about understanding values before a crisis.3. How Do You Handle Conflict?Do you:A. Take time to process? (Hiding)B. Want to solve it immediately? (Venting)C. Explode emotionally? (Exploding)Healthy couples address conflicts early and calmly — not through avoidance, disrespect, or fighting.Ask: What are your long-term intentions? Are we going in the same direction?4. What Does Emotional Availability Mean to You?Are you emotionally open and vulnerable with your partner? Can they handle it?Emotionally available people share and respect emotions.Emotionally unavailable people hide feelings, punish honesty, or block connection.If your partner can't sit with your emotions, the relationship's depth will be limited.5. How Do You Recharge — Alone or With People?Introverts often recharge alone.Extroverts recharge through social interaction.Knowing this prevents misunderstandings when one person needs space and the other wants connection.Ask: What helps you during stress — space, talking, or distraction?6. What Does Being Ready for a Relationship Mean to You?Readiness often means:Emotional healingFinancial stabilityClarity on what you wantYou can't force a casual relationship into a committed one if the other person doesn't want it.7. What Does Independence Look Like in a Relationship?Some feel safe with space, others with closeness.Independence is about boundaries — and boundaries build security, not distance.8. What Are You Still Healing From?Deep, healthy relationships require emotional work and often therapy. Without it, many people can't truly be emotionally available.Final ThoughtIf you want a lasting, meaningful relationship, you must:Ask real questions earlyKeep your heart openWork through your own traumasPractice honesty, even when uncomfortableWithout this, the relationship will stay on the surface — and surface connections break easily in hard times.My Video:  How to Get the Perfect Relationship? https://youtu.be/K9WIi04UiQMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Get-the-Perfect-Relationship.mp3

 Is a good learner more critical than a teacher?Without a student, you can't teach! All these overpraising of a teacher crumbles if there is no learner who is surrendering to the teaching!Imagine you give a seminar over a meaningful topic, and after 1 month you ask the participating students what they have learned… It will crumble your ego… When you teach, expect that not more than 5% of your students will do what you have said or understand, or memorize the essence …Again, what is more critical the student or the teacher?  For what is good, to give a seminar? 1.) to make money.2.) to build up your ego.3.) to build up self-esteem.4.) to become arrogant.Mostly what I have learned, I have learned by myself.And Seminars are the worst place to learn something for me.Why? 1.) I can't stop the teacher when I have not understood anything.2.) I can't repeat the sentence that was important for me when I have heard it.3.) I get overwhelmed to memorize the most important things.4.) I can't learn at my pace.5.) If I am tired, I can't stop the teacher.6.) And I have to go somewhere else, and lose time and energy to travel to the seminar!7.) Most of the seminars are overwhelming for the students…8.) Long seminars over 6 hours are the worst…because usually, we don't learn for such a long time.  9.) And even I have to spend huge money on seminars… I bought Photographs courses from the best photographs (Michael Melfort, Joel Sartore, Bob Christ… ) of this galaxy for a penny… because I waited until the price went down from $1000$ to $50.  I never would exchange these priceless video courses for a seminar with these photographs… Because the photograph teachers want to make you happy and present you with excellent arranged photo opportunities and when you come home, you didn't have learned much… You can't repeat your success…If you go to a famous Guru and even he/she is a fake guru if you surrender, your life will change tremendously for your best… How many people surrender? Not more than 1 %!!! For what should the Gurus be real… for 1 %? When I started my inner journey, I learned, and I acted on that…. Bhagwan wanted that we surrender to every guru…Through an insane Guru, who nobody would surrender, I got my Kundalini. When I went to the concert of Nusrat Fathe Ali Khan, I got a Samadhi, and my life changed dramatically. Even I didn't have known this very fat Nusrat or liked his music… But I surrendered totally when I saw him. I thought I could die because through Nusrat's energy my heart ached a lot and my heart was beating irregularly and strong.My Video: A good Learner is more important… https://youtu.be/DpyV0Z5VRr0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/A-good-Learner-is-more-important….mp3

 The devil was struggling. His devils asked him, what should we do, the people help each other and caring lovely for each other…MAKE AN ORGANIZATION OUT OF IT!Yes, and it worked and works everywhere!The problem is if the LOVE is missing everything will capsize. The love should be our driving force for everything…Why doesn't the public therapy for drug addiction, or depression is not working?Why are these so famous Indian spiritual Ashrams have an issue with suicide?Why are all the Religions failing to give the people the faith and care that they need? Why are the people drug addicted?Why are the people social media addicted? Why do people choose FaceBook or Instagram over love? Why people choose an unhealthy lifestyle?Why the NATO countries are choosing Sanction and war to make the world better?I was in many Ashrams and spiritual growing communities…And even in Ashrams that were caring for the poor people…Still, there was no love but cruelty in daily life to function!For instance in the Ashram of the “Mother of immortal love”, a mother needed milk for her baby and she was willing to pay for it… She got rejected … Yes, every organization is cruel… The cook in the kitchen could not give her the milk, this was permitted!  How to get in a huge Ashram milk that had even cows? Not possible! Even so, I tried my best and then I bought the milk outside of the Ashram.In the same Ashram happened this … A mother and a baby were playing on the beach and the mother left the baby to get a ticket to visit “the mother of immortal love”… The baby went into the water and was drown… 100 of devotees of that Ashram did not do anything to rescue that baby, they just watched it. Even the sea was calm and easy to enter with a perfect sand beach. I swam just 20 minutes before that incident in the Ocean. A roommate of mine came too late to rescue the baby and the devotees abused him, that he dared to enter the sea.And then they put a signboard in English that the people should not swim there, but the issue was that the Indians can't swim… and most of them could not read English. For what reasons were the signboards even before that accident, that the Western People should not communicate with the Indians?This was too much for me, and I left the Ashram, even it was Christmas! Afterward, the book “Holy Hell”  about that Ashram was published from one of the dearest devotees of this “Holy Guru” of that Ashram! Read it!I have seen only one Ashram where love was the driving force! And that was the Ashram of Osho in Oregon/USA… Osho said: You only can help or transform people if you do have a loving heart!There is only one remedy. LOVE!!!Kindle love in your heart and the world will change!If you have love in your heart the world becomes amazing.The morning will be inspiring and so awesome beautiful …Just only through love…My Video: Something about love https://youtu.be/2S1F7Z-73gQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Something-about-love.mp3

 Even you think bad about me… Still, I like to motivate you to become an egoist… Be open to that!1. How can you love others if you don't love yourself?2. If we don't value ourselves, how can we value other people?  3. If we don't appreciate ourselves, how can we appreciate other people?4. If we don't compliment ourselves how can we compliment other people?5. If we are not honest with ourselves, how can we honest with other people?6. If we don't adore ourselves, how can we adore other people?7. If we are not kind to ourselves, how can we be kind to other people?8. When we do not appreciate and thankful for what we have accomplished in our life, how can we appreciate and thankful to other people?9. When we can't forgive ourselves for our failures, mistakes, how can we forgive other people?10. If we see ourselves as negative or as a failure… then we will see also the other people negative!11. If we see ourselves as successful, then we can also appreciate other people's success.  12. When you don't do what you like, how can you appreciate when people do what they like?13. When we are jealous about things that other people do, why we don't do them by ourselves?14. When we don't tolerate ourselves, what we are, then we never tolerate and accept other people! Because every person has to fit in our template or Jail… How is it if we break out of our Jail, that we have constructed by ourselves?15. When we allow ourselves only to think positive, how can we accept other people's negativity, or even speak to them? After the law of polarity, if there is something negative then there must be the same amount something positive… regardless of what we think we are cached in the prison of polarity… There is only one solution: to accept and welcome everything and then the thinking will stop… The problem is judging… What is bad to think first on ourselves? My Video: The Art to be an egoist! https://youtu.be/QFLpWRBaH9oMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-Art-to-be-an-egoist.mp3

 How can intelligent, educated people fervently believe demonstrable falsehoods simply because a leader—a known liar, cheat, and failed opportunist—declares them? We all recognize the type: the charismatic demagogue who sells dreams but delivers only betrayal.Common sense ceases to function when it's not applied. Yet so many suspend critical thinking to embrace blatant nonsense. Why?The Cult of the Chronic LiarBlind faith in pathological dishonesty isn't just irrational—it's tribal.People don't follow such leaders despite the lies but because of them. The lies are loyalty tests.To question the leader is to betray the tribe. This is how cults operate—whether political or religious.The High Cost of Independent ThoughtI've paid for my skepticism:Spiritual groups (like Osho's) were accused of “brainwashing,” yet they encouraged more critical thinking than mainstream society. The irony? It's the masses who are truly brainwashed.Politics everywhere is a rigged duopoly:Germany's CDU/SPD, America's Democrats/Republicans, Britain's Labour/Tories—all serve the same masters: wealth and war.Every new U.S. president starts 2 wars on average; every system funnels money upward while pretending to debate “left vs. right.”Why Don't "Smart" People See This?CowardiceMost fear isolation more than deception. It's safer to chant slogans than to stand alone.Comfort in IllusionBelieving “your side” is virtuous—despite identical outcomes—is easier than admitting the game is fixed.Manufactured DivisionThe elite want us fighting over pronouns or tax cuts while they loot the treasury.Democracy? Or Theater of Compliance?We call this system “democracy,” but it's really a rotation of masks on the same face. The majority choose their own oppressors because:Critical thinking is punished (bullying, ostracism).Conformity is rewarded (social approval, false belonging).The curse of awareness is loneliness. But the alternative—complicity in collective delusion—is far worse.My Video:  What is happening  https://youtu.be/Qv0K8gaYrGIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/What-is-happening.mp3

 Nearly 40 years ago, my friend and I were climbing in the Italian Dolomite… The Eldorado for mountain climbing and skying… It is so awesome and exciting to climb the vertical rock walls with a fixed steal robe… We climbed through the cave tunnels, constructed in WWI to kill the enemies… my grandfather was one of them… And then we climbed the Cristallo Cortina, slept on 3400m in an icy hut, and drinking tea… In the morning, we like to climb down….The first snow was coming down…It was very slippery, slowly we climbed down… Suddenly the weather changed, and it was snowing like crazy… For that, the Dolomite is famous, that from a blue sky, the weather can change to snowing within 15 minutes…Still, we kept climbing … the massive rock wall was very steep and also the track … we had to go along this wall, the path was 50cm wide, and you could look directly down 500m, one small step wrong … your life is over…And then an avalanche dropped down, the path was destroyed, and we are desperate…. My Grandfather, a great mountain climber, died through that! We were pressing our body against the rock, not to get hit by an avalanche… It was terrible…My friend said we have only one chance to climb immediately up to the hut… That means 3 hours up… We returned and tried our best to go up as fast as possible without risking to slip down ….After 2 hours, I got the infamous mountain sickness … I didn't mention anything, and I was climbing in a total trance, one step after the next… I knew I had the power to overcome everything… Don't care, just go… Even I was getting so dizzy that I puke, my heart was pounding like crazy…The last 500m was the worst … My friend saw me and said stop, you have to go down immediately… Never, I can't … we reached the hut, and I cried… and could not stop crying, it was too much… Quite a lot of mountaineers were sitting in front of the door, and I was crying, and it was so humiliating… They didn't care, many accidents happened … 2days ago, we had celebrated our 2.5-hour climb of the big 1000m wall, it was a record… even done by people from a flat area…  now I was crying and mountain sick…The defeat can come every moment in our life without any warning… Be prepared, and bragging makes everything worse!My Video: Episode 6, remain humble https://youtu.be/i0J0uGRgEfoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Episode-6-remain-humble.mp3

 The 3 most important thing for a long-lasting marriage is:Money: If an overspender is together with a saver…. The marriage is finished… Communication: For every intimacy relationship we need to address honestly our problems and to look honestly for a solution… Every couple needs to speak openly overall kind of relationship problems… Otherwise it will not last…SexIf sex is not working out then one partner starts to cheat…This means both have to fulfill the sexual desires of each other…What else?If you are together with a spouse that doesn't like the parents …If your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't have a lovely relationship with his mother or her father … You will get the same… This means, check whether your boyfriend or girlfriend has a lovely relationship to his mother or her father… If yes, you will get the same if you act accordingly … Look. That they love and respect their parents! After the 75 years research of Harvard University, people with a loving relationship are the happiest, have the best health, and most extended longevity.Intimacy means you should be vulnerable.  Both should be honest, share their positive as negative emotions. Otherwise, you don't have an intimacy relationship…Without total honesty no relationship will work out long-term. Both should be loyal in every aspect.Trust: So more, you trust each other, so better is the relationship.A couple who can't enjoy silence can't enjoy their time!Forgiveness is a must… If you recognize that your partner doesn't forgive you and even is blackmailing you with a bad consciousness, separate… With B. S people we don't want to be together!A female has to respect his boyfriend and will never expose him in front of other people… Otherwise let her go because every person needs that!Selfish love doesn't work out… You don't want to be together with somebody who is egocentric, like most of all artists… At the end of the day, if you don't fulfill every desire they treat you badly…. You deserve more….People who love to take selfies everywhere are unable to love! They look for attention, let these creepy guys go… Party girls and Gold diggers can't match a good relationship… For sex they might be good because they remain what they are and will not change to a loyal, trustworthy person! My Video: What is the must for a spouse…https://youtu.be/1IO0-A5BlhQ.My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-the-must-for-a-spouse…..mp3

 (Based on Chris Lonsdale's TEDx Talk)Debunking 2 MythsYou don't need "talent."Immersion abroad isn't required."A drowning man can't learn to swim." Forced immersion without support causes stress, not fluency.The 5 Principles of Rapid Language AcquisitionRelevance is KeyFocus on content that matters to you (e.g., job, hobbies, survival phrases).Example: A chef prioritizes kitchen vocabulary over sports terms.Use It Immediately.Communicate from Day 1, like a child.Tool analogy: You master a hammer by hammering, not studying manuals.Comprehension Before PerfectionUnderstand messages first → subconscious acquisition follows."Comprehensible input" (listening/reading slightly above your level) is the engine.Physiological TrainingLanguage is muscle memory. Train your mouth/ears to recognize and produce sounds.Example: Mimic native speakers' facial movements to nail pronunciation.Psych State MattersLearn best when happy, curious, and tolerant of ambiguity.Rule: Embrace not understanding every word. Focus on what you do grasp.The 7 Actions to Fluency in 6 Months1. Brain SoakingListen to the language constantly (even passively).Absorb rhythms, patterns, and repeated phrases.2. Meaning FirstDecipher messages through context, tone, and body language (like babies do).3. Mix & CreateCombine known words creatively (*10 verbs + 10 nouns = 1,000+ phrases*).Example: Baby Okay "Me bath now" → communicates clearly despite "bad" grammar.4. Master the CoreHigh-frequency words deliver 85% coverage (1,000 words) in most languages.Week 1: Survival phrases ("What's this?", "Repeat please").Week 2: Pronouns + basics ("you," "give," "hot").Week 4: "Glue" words ("but," "though").5. Find a "Language Parent"A supportive speaker who:Understands you without correcting mistakes.Models correct language naturally.Avoid: Critical spouses/teachers.6. Copy the FaceObserve and mimic native speakers' mouth/tongue movements to perfect sounds.7. Direct ConnectionLink words to mental images/senses—not translations.Example: "Fire" → smell smoke, hear crackling, see flames.Ditch flashcards; build visceral associations.Key TakeawaysPrioritize comprehension over grammar rules.Speak immediately—perfection comes later.Learn like a child: Playful, curious, and unafraid of mistakes.Quality > quantity: 1,000 relevant words beat 5,000 random ones.Final Tip: Spend 30+ minutes daily on comprehensible input (e.g., YouTube videos, simple books) + 15 minutes speaking.Why This WorksBacked by language acquisition research (e.g., Stephen Krashen's theories).Mimics how humans learn first languages naturally.Used by polyglots and military rapid-language programs.My Video:  How to Learn Any Language in Six Months https://youtu.be/m_hgFPBnDFEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-Learn-Any-Language-in-Six-Months.mp3

 Fear is essential! Try out to go beyond your imaginations, rules, moralities and try out something entirely new.Jimmy Rogers, the legendary hedge fund manager has done this again and again… Still, he was the most successful hedge fund manager… Maybe that is why!We have imprisoned ourselves by our assumption, moralities… and can't get what we want… Even we don't know what we want…  Life is too short to wait for that magic moment that everything will change in our favor…But what is in our favor?To get rich and successful and to function like a clock or better like the Movie “Clockwork Orange” (Stanley Kubrick) One of the greatest movies!In this movie, they press the people to fit in the society for every price! But we don't need that, we have done it already by ourselves and locked ourselves in a prison and threw away the key…But where is the key… In a madhouse?  I read now the roman “Veronika decides to die!” By the famous author Paulo CoelhoVeronika has only a few days to live after her suicide attempt … and she is in a madhouse… She discovers her genius talent as a pianist…She goes beyond her sexual imaginations …She tries out again and again what she never has tried out before…And then she started to enjoy her life!!!!We stop our thinking on the border of our morality…Morality doesn't understand life... because it is a shortcut to rationalize…What is beyond our self-imposed rules? I got as an Atheist from Bhagwan the spiritual name Ghanshyam. The Meaning is: “This is a name for God and to be unconditionally is an answer of God.”So what, I experienced as an Atheist through a deep love with my darling God. We both applied the wild sexual Tantra and through that our heart opened to God…For sure, making love in the right way is the path to God… (Read, “The conference of the birds” by the greatest Sufi Atar) Where is love there is God!I was abused for my wrong writing by my parents as dyslexia and stutterer … I could/can not learn German grammar… And I could not be creative…Nearly all of my German girlfriend hindered me to speak out what I was thinking. When I forced them to stop their bad behavior and separated I became a creative writer and my stuttering stopped !!! Don't let other people stop you, just leave them alone;- I do always so!!!I was abused by my father (he was a great musician) for my inability to make music… Guess, I learned to make music on the Sitar, Keyboard, Tabla and singing! I suffered from incurable diseases and no doctor could heal them, even our so “great doctors”  killed me (clinical dead) two times … Today I am totally healthy because I cured my diseases by myself self and I don't trust doctors!A Sufi can keep every rule and break every rule…Because every rule is a veil in front of God … We should go beyond our rules to discover God.When a Phoenix dies he burns himself and a new Phoenix is born.The old Phoenix has to die… until we burn our old ego with all of these rules, assumptions nothing new can happen to us!So you don't need to make suicide to discover what is beyond your imagination…Life can be amazing so why not try out something entirely new? My Video: Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side… https://youtu.be/cJeOfBX0InkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Hey-babe-take-a-walk-on-the-wild-side….mp3

Then miracles will happen. Why?  If we know, what we are making wrong, only then we can change. This makes sense,… Mostly of all people think that they know themselves. Oscar Wild said I am by myself the greatest mystery… Actually, we don't even know our self…  And if we make mistakes then we blemish the other people…. In relationships, other people see us much better, than we see ourselves… Because we are blind by our mistakes, short longings, bad habits and …I had a girlfriend in Munich and I was living in Bremen (800km distance). On a beautiful day in Munich, I visited her. Before that, I recognize that mainly all Munich citizens had been in a bad mood, because of the Foehn wind (the Foehn is changing the people's moods when they live in such area). I arrived and she was nagging on me like crazy, I could not bear that and escaped to the English Garden… After some time I realized, she was the embodiment of my inner child, that was nagging like her… I came back to her, and without saying anything; she said, that she had been stroked from a cognition, that she was treating me badly because of her bad mood… The Sufis are saying, that the spouse is a reflection of ourselves; so all that we see on bad habits, mistakes that we have also somehow inside of us…. The Saint Krishnamurty said, you are the world, what you see that you are. or Goethe said, your own sins you find first on other…  And it is really magic, if we recognize in the right moment our mistake then the outcome will change…. Self-knowledge is the first step for improvement….My Video: Learn to criticize yourself! https://youtu.be/pLPlsI0df9wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Learn-to-criticize-yourself.mp3

 The very best learning course is Pimsleur (you get the CDs cheap from eBay, otherwise the app is expensive). Because you start to speak and memorize like a baby. All the other language courses like to copy the methods of Pimsleur but they are so lousy copies… And you need Flashcards that can speak like Flashcards deluxe (Android) to learn and memorize the pronunciation…7 actions for rapid language acquisition Action #1  Listen a lot.  Called brain soaking… just hear very much from the language, if you don't understand it doesn't matter.You are listening to the rhythms, to the patterns that repeat…Action #2Focus on getting the meaning First (before the words) use Body language.From body language, you can understand a lot without hearing… Action #3Start mixing it doesn't have been perfect.Get creative, start mixing,… it just has to work.If you have 10 verbs 10 nouns 10 adjectives, you can make 1000 possible phrases.In English 1000 words give you 85% of the meaning, 3000 words give you 98% that you use in daily conversation.Week 1 The toolbox in your new languageWhat is this?How do you say?I don't understand.Repeat that, please.What does that mean?Week 2-3Pronouns, common verbs, adjectivesYou That MeGive Hot By week3 you should be saying things like:Simple pronouns, nouns, verbsWeek 4 Glue wordsBut, and, even though, therefore, although Action #5You get somebody interested in you as a person that is just like a parent for language, so that it is safe to speak, to make mistakes, so this person helps you to understand the message.For instance: HelloTalk, HiNative,  Chat, Speak Learn Foreign languageHow should the Language parent teach you a new language?Try to understand what you are saying.Do not correct mistakes.Confirms understanding by using the correct language.Use words the learner knows.  Spouses are not very good at this…Action #6Copy the faceYou have to get the right muscle to work so that you can sound in a way that other people understand you…Action #7Direct connectInstead of repeating a word,  connect the word with an image for instance fire: you can see it, feel it smell it, hear itMy Video: How to learn a language in 6 months? https://youtu.be/6D-2V67L7t0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-learn-a-language-in-6-months.mp3

 Tinnitus—internal high-frequency sounds—can stem from neck tension. When neck muscles or shoulders compress arteries leading to your inner ear, it may trigger or worsen ringing. Test if it's neck-related:Stretch your neck. If the sound changes, your tinnitus is likely linked to tension.Notice if symptoms fade when relaxed or in certain positions.Alone when you repeat again and again, every day many times these Affirmations: Every day, my tinnitus is getting less and less.Every day, I ignore my Tinnitus more and more.Then the tinnitus is getting less. Don't worry but accept your tinnitus, otherwise the tinnitus will get worse. 6-Step Routine (Do 2x Daily)1. Earlobe Stress Point (1 min per side)Locate the depression directly behind your earlobe, near the jaw joint.Open your mouth slightly; press the point with gentle circular motions.2. "Hidden Cave" Pressure Point (1–2 min)Move two thumb-widths behind your earlobe to find a tender depression.Press firmly with both thumbs and massage in slow circles.3. Outer Ear Massage (1–2 min)Fold your ear forward. Press index and middle fingers against the back of your ear.Slide fingers up and down, creating friction against the ear canal.Release and observe the quietness that follows.4. Neck Activation (8 reps)Rub downward from skull to shoulders with both hands.Tap firmly along the same path until your neck feels warm.5. Kidney/Lower Back Stimulation (8 reps)Vigorously rub and tap your lower back (over the kidneys) until the area is hot.Purpose: Energizes circulation from lower back to head.6. Neck Muscle ReleaseRotate head 45° right; massage the left front neck muscles (rub, tap).Rotate head 45° left; repeat on the right front neck muscles.Do Hypnotherapy For Treating Tinnitus - every day for 30 days.  For instance: Youtube:  Treating Tinnitus - Hypnotherapy, Suzanne RobichaudMy Video:  Best Relief for Neck-Related Tinnitus  https://youtu.be/VWM5EVltgwMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Best-Relief-for-Neck-Related-Tinnitus.mp3

 Imagine you want to serve the women…All women love intercourse because we are biologically programmed to make kids.When I was starting with dating, I attended the very best Tantra/sex groups with the best Therapists in the world… Because I wanted to learn to love women… And then I wanted to become the best lover in the world… For sure, I had the fortune to learn the best Tantra and Tao-love techniques … And, do you think if you have this attitude to love and serve women at best, that you will attract women? But, still, you have to open your heart and to be relaxed …. And for that is meditation… For every date, I was exercising my body and meditating at least 1 hour… I was imaging and feeling my fears of rejecting and failing… To get even more relaxed!You can't win a battle if you don't be prepared for the worst. Did I got rejected, did I failed? Who cares… If you learn something, you win. Ask why she doesn't like you, what you have done wrong! Most of the time, when I failed I had targeted the wrong women or at the wrong time… When I urgently wanted a girl, I always got rejected… Only when I was relaxed, I was successful.Because I can't serve a girl well when I need her! And the girl will recognize that… Approach women when you want to serve women. The women want a leader with confidence, a great lover, a guy that can seduce well… Be a man… The biological system of females is programmed to get a strong male for getting strong, healthy babies… The females long unconscious for a baby, and for that they need a man and not a weakling, softy, coward, … The women want to experience passionate love and a guy with purpose and a goal in his life!  Still, you need to be sensitive… The Tao says a man should be as strong as a woodcutter and sensible like a baby…  My Video: How to seduce, part 7? https://youtu.be/qVxgFnswQjUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-7.mp3

 The first method: from Scott Young & Vat Jaiswal..Both candidates traveled within 1 year to 4 countries and learned 4 new languages and even learned Chinese… For every language to learn, they need only 3 months.Amazing? The trick, speak only regardless of how bad, the foreign language. It is allowed to use, Google-Translate, or any other dictionary, travel guide… Push through that zone of fear and frustration… so that language learning is fun… Don't speak your native language, speak only that foreign language to the people in that country… Because we (that is totally true for me) are afraid to make mistakes and even we know the foreign language, we can't communicate with this new language. So we have to go through huge resistance until we can communicate…  How did I learn Thai? My new girlfriend didn't want to learn English, and so I had to speak in Thai… We have to break as fas as possible our inside language barrier !!!Next method:How to learn any language within 6 months?You don't need a talent for speaking a new language… Every baby can learn every language? There is only one exception that is me, so I speak English because my German nobody understands… We need  meaning or relevance, why we want to learn that language… We can memorize only when we need that…         Principle #1Focus on language content that is relevant to you! Make a conversation up in your mind.Imagine situations that you want to speak… prepare the best sentence … Principle #2Use your new language as a tool to communicate from Day 1. That method is the most important step to learn a new language. We master tools by using tools.We learn tools fastest when they are relevant.  What is important, relevant, meaningful?  Learn just this and apply it. Principle #3When you first understand the Message,you will unconsciously acquire the language.So, I have learned English, through reading.Comprehension is the key to learn a language.Language learning is not about knowledge it is about applying!Principle #4We need a physiological training about sounds for hearing and speaking to train our ears and our muscles to speak… We have inside of us filter that filter in that we are familiar and filter out that we are not familiar. When you teach your baby a language, the baby watches your mimic and hears your sounds… If we hear on the radio or watch TV in that foreign language we get familiar with the sounds and mimic. So I learned to sing Bhajans in many different Indian Languages…just through hearing and singing/chanting. Principle #5Physiological state matters.Take a deep breath and relaxIf you are sad, angry, worried, upset, you are not going to learn easily! Threatening will make learning impossible… If you are happy, relaxed in an alpha state, curious, you will learn quickly.Principle #6You need to be tolerant of ambiguity.  Don't care how often are you are wrong… When you learn a musical instrument, you are most of the time wrong!!!!If you want to learn a language Get it wrong, to make mistakes instead of correct… In the database of our brain, we don't have the new sounds of that new language… Make sense, If we speak the new language even accurate it sounds wrong… So we have to explore the new sounds…If you want to understand 100% or perfect, you can't learn a language.Because you will be incredibly upset all the time because you are not perfect.If you are comfortable with getting some, not getting some … you learn easily.Just paying attention to what you do understand.You are going to be fine, relaxed, and you will be learning quickly…For instance, if You are going to the Netherlands as a German and the Dutch people recognize that you are a German, they speak only Dutch so that you have to learn Dutch. It works!Principle #7 Learn the foreign alphabet. Because foreign language uses a different pronunciation…you need to learn the new pronunciation. My Video: How to learn a language in 6 months? https://youtu.be/6D-2V67L7t0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-learn-a-language-in-6-months.mp3

 What is life but an unpleasant interruption to a peaceful nonexistence.Before you come alive, life is nothing; it 's up to you to give it a meaning, and value is nothing else but the meaning that you choose.If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company.Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you.We are our choices.the worst part about being lied to is knowing you werent worth the truthOnly the guy who isn't rowing has time to rock the boat.There may be more beautiful times, but this one is ours.I can always choose, but I ought to know that if I do not choose, Iam still choosing.We make our own hell out of the people around us.He who asks a question is a fool for a minute; he who does not remains a fool forever.When you realize that by changing your perspective, big things can be seen as little things, it becomes much harder to worry about anything. Commitment is an act, not a word.Sometimes the truth is too simple for intellectuals.Man is condemned to be free; because once thrown into the world, he is responsible for everything he does.Death is a continuation of my life without me.We do not judge the people we love.Life has no meaning the moment you lose the illusion of being eternal.Your judgement judges you and defines you.My Video: Quotes Jean Paul Satre  https://youtu.be/bgas9FPWSZIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Jean-Paul-Satre.mp3 

 Positive thinking can't understand that we need the polarity and that the world is a representative of the polarity… For instance, you drive a car, and you recognize that your vehicle is drifting… 1.) You immediately apply positive thinking, you ignore the drifting, and you are off the road… Those are the results of positive thinking! 2.) You stop the car, you check if everything is okay, and you think the worst … 2.1) Are the tires okay? 2.2) Are the brakes okay? 2.3) Is the street slippery?…  2.4) After you checked everything, you let go of the negativity that doesn't apply!  2.5) And then you fix the problem! 2.6) Drive slowly, that works most of the time!If I would be a positive thinker, I never could design new stuff as an engineer… As an engineer, I am always focused on the worst-case or the worst scenery to develop the best… For instance, the accidents of the Boeing 373 max… To become more fuel-efficient they mounted a new, bigger engine inside of the wings instead to install it under the wings like the previous version of the Boeing 373. The whole aerodynamic worsen through this new design, and they made only a software fix, that never worked out. As positive thinker they thought everything will work even without additional training for the pilots… If you trust positive thinker for the stock market, you will get bankrupt…  If you create positive thoughts, the polarity inside of yourself is creating negative thoughts to counteract… If you want calmness in your mind, meditate, focus on God, and to let go of EVERY Thought! And with FOCUS ON GOD, you gain bliss, faith, and peace in your mind!  Solution:We focus on the positive outcome and LET GO the negativity.We don't suppress the negativity because we also need information about the negativity…If we are angry about something…Find the solution… We do ask ourselves: 1.) What has the situation to do with ourselves? 2.) Would be an integer person angry in this situation? 3.) What has this situation to do with our past?4.) Is it necessary to improve ourselves and let go of our suppressed emotions or traumas to become calm?5.) Do we project our inside suppressed anger on this situation?6.) Is it better to accept the situation or to change the situation?7.) Would it be better to find a solution that would improve the situation? Act accordingly! My Video: You can't improve before you suffer! https://youtu.be/i_QNExTDDVsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-can't-improve-before-you-suffer.mp3

 If everything went wrong in the bed on the first date… What to do?PanicDo you want to be an integer guy? What would do an integer guy?Address the elephant in the room, instead of making facebook…Face it…The girl is annoyed and even thinks it might be her mistake, and if you ignore her, you mess up…I have many experiences in failing in bed… Even my first date went wrong…Every man can fail. Even many times, the girl is too tense that you can't enter… (Read: How to seduce, part 5?)Or the girl doesn't like to have sex because you didn't warm her up enough, or you want it too fast, or she had periods… Speak openly about your failures, don't blemish it on the girl!!!For instance:Apologize, You had too much stress; that she looks too good to be true, and so you were anxious …That is the most crucial thing…And then, ask her, just too sleep close to you without having sex… And later it will work!Because when you are too over-excited instead to be relaxed, the same is true for females, sex will not work! When you sleep close together, you will relax. Both bodies are longing for sex, the only problem is to use the condom… Remember, the most critical thing for nature is to multiply - to create kids… The bodies know what to do, only your thinking is the hindrance! My Video: How to seduce, part 6? https://youtu.be/h_1_YFu14LoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-6.mp3

 If we are doing a job that needs full focus, and again and again, we get disturbed by our colleagues/family… So that we can't continue with our job…Good news that the problem is quite common… After research, an interruption in our work-flow can cost us 25 minutes…when we need uninterrupted time to think…  and even 25% of these tasks can't be resolved on the same day!Solution: Don't overthink? (jokes must be) The programmers who are designing computer software, even have to cope with an interruption in their work-flow up to every 3 minutes… The problem is: Not so much the interruption…but that we lose our control over our focus… There was a research about 2 groups working under full focus. The first group gets disturbed on random through a loud noise.The second group gets also disturbed on random through loud noise, but they can switch off this noise…  Results: The second group could get 5 times more things done than the first group… EVEN the first group didn't use the switch to turn off the noise!If we have a choice, our ego will comply much easier!I was grown up in a big family (my mother got 5 kids in 3 years) and when somebody interrupted me with the things that I was doing, I got upset… After some time, I learned to focus so much on the things that I was doing, that nobody could stop me, and even I could not recognize that my siblings were demanding something from me… I just switched them from inside off… Because I want to do the stuff…I have written a lot of my books in noisy hotel lobbies… Can you see the point?If we give our jobs the highest priority and everything else is just a distraction… And distraction we can switch off.It is not a miracle that IT-professionals have the highest focus and can deal even with an interruption every 3 minutes… If your focus is to socialize with people, you don't need and don't have that focus.Solution 2 (no joke)You give your colleagues a manual about how to deal with you under construction!Politeness wins:Can I interrupt you? (You don't put on your desk a gun. Because this is threatening…) You replay: YesNot right now!Wait a minute!When it is urgent to interrupt you.Sorry, please I need urgently something… (And then you look in your drawer for the gun… )Okay, if it must be, then I can help you….  When you are working in a corporation. Ask to do a big task at home. Or stick a paper on your room or in front of your desk (if this is possible in your firm), that you want to work for 1.5 hours (no interruption) from XX:00 to YY:00 and then you are available for XX minutes… And put off your phone… My Video: How to deal with Interruption? https://youtu.be/ZsM-roC4M9IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-deal-with-Interruption.mp3

  | Billy GrahamIt seems we have lost time.200 years ago, the fastest we could travel was on horseback.Then came the car, making us three times faster.100 years ago, Lindbergh flew from New York to Paris in 33 hours.30 years ago, the Concorde reduced that time to just 3.5 hours.Yet today, despite faster cars and planes, we claim to have no time—while in the past, people had plenty. We rush from place to place like madmen, often without even knowing why. Time collapses upon us.How much time do we really have?You have so much time—but for what?You have time to serve God.You have time to live according to His will and obey Him."My times are in Your hands." (Psalm 31:15)What Will You Do With Your Years?If you live to be 70:Your first 15 years are childhood.You spend 20 years sleeping.The last 5 years may bring physical limitations.That leaves just 30 years for everything else—much of which is spent eating and working.What is your life? It vanishes like a mist.Our time is already in God's hands. He has set the day we will pass from this world—whether by accident, illness, or age.Rich people cannot buy more minutes.Science cannot invent extra time.You cannot save time to spend later.Where Does Your Time Go?How much do you dedicate to the Lord—to contemplation or meditation?Are you truly committed to Him?Instead of running frantically from task to task or scrolling mindlessly on social media, pause. Distraction and stress will never bring happiness.We are enslaved by time, frustrated as we rush from one thing to the next, always feeling behind.Don't you see? Without peace in our minds and faith in our hearts, life is futile.And that peace and faith come only from God.You could donate all your wealth to the poor or build grand temples, churches, or mosques—yet still lack true peace. (As Bodhidharma proved to the king.)Daily meditation and contemplation on the Lord are essential.God has a unique plan for your life, and following it brings joy. Stray from it, and you'll never know that peace.Time can be our tool—or we can become its slaves.What matters is not the length of your days, but the depth of your life.Distraction, stress, and empty pursuits waste it.How often have you asked: "Is this worth the stress and pain?"Most of the time, it isn't.Is time spent in meditation wasted? No—it brings relaxation, peace, and connection with God, which is priceless.We cannot love without stillness—and God commands us to love one another.Let love, not stress or social media, dominate your life.Through meditation, we find that love.Every day is a battle between good and evil.Choose God—and you will win.My Video:  Life is Short  https://youtu.be/8OArQFFk2bQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Life-is-Short.mp3

 I see it everywhere that people say we will accomplish something like the Brexit and even don't know how to do it!It is common and as stupid as possible to announce your forecasted results… Because you do have all the odds (including God, Allah doesn't like bragging or proud people) against yourself… And you depend on so many things, people,… that you don't have under your control. If I say, I will finish my work until a particular day. Then that is okay! If I work together with a team, I have to estimate more time. Because I can't estimate so easy the manpower… But if I say: “I finish the job, and then I will have huge success.” I am dam wrong!Because I can't forecast it precisely what will happen after my job is done …. Still, I can image my desired success, and I don't need to tell it! My goals are my secret. Because I want providence or that God supports me. Does it make sense? For instance, when I hear in a movie: “I will love you forever…” That is so disgusting, dishonest,…because nobody can know how a relationship will work out in the future.  If you can't keep your promise, it looks really shabby…   Then you become a guy who can't keep a promise… Your friends can't respect you anymore…. When I recognized as a kid that my parents can't keep their promise, I got frustrated to have such lousy parents, and I lost all of my respect!!! And so are children, they always check their parents… and it is disgusting to break your promise that you have given your kids. Because the kids admire you and they lose all of their confidence in you when you break your commitment!What is if you say: “I will try my best… And if I forget my best intention, please mention it.”Humbleness attracts good outcome… Bragging attracts bad outcome!!! And bragging is provoking to sabotage your outcome. I had failed even when everything looked great, and I accomplished it, even everything and every person were against it… Remember always, we don't have anything under our control. I have read on a signboard of a farmer's house: “Everything depends on God's blessing.”Because the farmer knows that he has to do the work and can't determine the weather, the pest that can ruin his crops, the selling price... My Video: Don't announce your success until you own it. https://youtu.be/xOpNwZkf48oMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Don't-announce-your-success-until-you-own-it..mp3

 We unconsciously forge our ego from our habits—then, like slaves, we obey them.We lock ourselves in a prison of repetition… and forget we hold the key.As children, we played many roles with joy. But as adults, we harden into a single character—a robot programmed to:Offer fake smiles on cueReply "Good" when asked "How are you?"Perform coolness for approvalAct like an actor starving for applauseWe've forgotten how to take a vacation from our own ego.The Cost of PerformanceSuicides often trace back to the isolation of constant acting.But when we're authentic:We experience real love more deeplyOthers understand us (because we finally show who we are)No energy is wasted on maintaining a facadeVulnerability dissolves ego. A fake smile convinces no one; real appreciation does.Ego is a Tool—Not an IdentityAt different ages, we need different habits (and egos). Clinging to one rigid version of ourselves stifles growth.Stop rehearsing the same responses—seek new answers to old problems.Stop styling your ego—like polishing a cage instead of stepping outside it.The ChoiceYou can:Design a "perfect" character (and exhaust yourself performing it), orChange freely—shedding old skins like a snake.But best of all? Be authentic.When you do, you'll find:Salesmen close deals not with tricks, but with truthRelationships thrive without scriptsLife feels lighter because you're no longer the director, actor, and critic of your own showMy Video:  EGO is Suffering https://youtu.be/bFk-IYwZI6cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/EGO-is-Suffering.mp3

 Do you eat to feel better or to relieve stress? Many people eat 1. to comfort themselves, 2. to calm down, 3. to relief their stress, 4. to reward themselves, 5. as an antidote to being alone.6. as an antidote to feeling boring.Be honest, what of the list above sticks to you?Occasionally using food as a reward or to celebrate isn't bad… But, when overeating is our primary emotional coping mechanism then we run in big problems.Unfortunately, emotional eating doesn't fix emotional problems… Emotional eating fills our stomach with junk or unhealthy food and makes us fat and unhealthy.Even more, you feel worse after consuming your junk food and you feel guilty for overeating. Emotional hunger can't be filled with food.The difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger… Both are triggering our appetite…Emotional hunger comes on suddenly.Physical hunger comes more gradually.Emotional hunger craves specific comfort foods, like sugary snacks, fatty food, junk food.Physical hunger can be satisfied with anything including healthy stuff. Emotional hunger leads often to mindless eating, or overeating. Physical hunger is more aware of how much we eat and what we eat. Emotional hunger can't be satisfied… You want more and more…Physical hunger is satisfied when your stomach is full. Emotional hunger is craving for specific unhealthy food and can't be appeased.Emotional hunger leads to regret, guilt or shame.After you try to appease your emotional hunger you beat yourself up, you feel guilty.Never the less emotional eating helps a lot to suppress negative feelings, like anxiety, anger, sadness, loneliness, resentment, shame, to cope with boredom and feeling empty…Or even to cope with an abortion…Very often the parents have forced the kid to eat too much…  When the parents are fat, then they want their child to suffer from the same… The next reason can be that you remember the time when you felt good by eating unhealthy or too much food. And then your bad consciousness keeps you in your emotional hunger…this is a vicious circuit. Remember, everything that you oppose, neglect, fight; you will attract… The cure of overeating:The first step is always to be aware of what we are making, in this case, why do we want to eat?Second, accept what you are doing instead of to punish yourself for wrongdoing… A bad consciousness will keep you in your craving! Celebrate (without food) every day when you advance to become what you like to be.Keep an emotional eating diary to expose and accept your overeating…. Find the pattern when you are drawn to food…Every time you overeat or feel compelled to eat… Take a moment to figure out what has triggered the urge. If you find out the reason, then look for the underlying emotion that you like to suppress…And then breath deep in this emotion… and really feel it until it is gone… If you are angry:Make exhausting and powerful body exercises, even the best would be that you make this every day…Every day exercise your body at least 30 minutes or make interval training. For instance, 3 times 20 seconds do your very best to exhaust your body, make a pause after 20 seconds, and for 2 minutes stretch your body.  The best is you choose exercises that you like, instead of to look for the best exercises. Because what you like is easier to do every day…Get every day 8 hours of sleep…Give yourself time to relax, at least 30 minutes every day.Try to avoid stressful situations or stress makers! Because you like to be relaxed. If you are scared or stressed, then dance like crazy to the music that you like… And make a list for the worst cases, look for the solution for every scenery… If you are exhausted drink a cup of tea, take a bath…If you are bored, get outside for a stroll, read an exciting book, make music, learn something new… When you can't resist your craving… try to count until 50… and later wait for 5 minutes …10 minutes.And then think do you really need that or is it not sport or dancing better…Try to enjoy every bite that you eat… eat slowly and try to chew 32 times before you swallow. And never see TV or be distracted when you eat… Because every distraction makes you eat more…. And be thankful for your food…Slowly change your food to healthy food… Learn to feel uncomfortable emotions without that you have to eat. This might be very difficult… So look for a feeling and body orientated therapy like Bioenergetic…And get hypnosis Mp3 for obesity from Dr. Steve Jones… Hear every night for at least one month the Mp3… Otherwise, I can make you a specific Hypnosis Mp3.My Video: How to Stop Emotional Eating? https://youtu.be/XGw0HNAloY4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-Stop-Emotional-Eating.mp3

 What can you say on your first date?First, make sure that she comes on time! Before the date, say: “ I don't wait more than 10 minutes!” (My whole life experiences tell me, there was not one person who has disrespect my time, disrespect me, and was a lousy person!)Smile, introduce yourself again, and hug her… Say how beautiful she looks in her dress…Say, honestly, how you feel, when you see her. Be thankful that she has shown up on time! (Otherwise, let her go! Don't wait)  Ask her how she feels…Make fun, how many dates you do have every day because you are so attractive and you are a good person because you were on time? The goals of dating are: 1.) to break the ice, 2.) build up intimacy with words, 3.) to entertain with humor, 4.) to build up esteem, 5.) to find similarities between you and her…6.) and eventually to connect with the body without speaking…We don't speak about politics and religion… we talk honestly about our experience with fun….For instance, ask her:1.) What are your passions and your passions during your childhood?2.) What kind of interests do you have?3.) What are the craziest things you have done?4.) What have been the happiest moments in your life?5.) How was your first love affair? How it has happened? (Then, you learn what she is scared of…) 6.) Are you a spiritual person?7.) What is about your relationship with your family?8.) What would you do differently if you could turn back the time?9.) What did you want to become when you were 5 years old?10.) Who did influence you at most?11.) What would you do if you would have only a particular time to live? After every answer, you pick up 1 to 3 words (mirroring) and use the words to tell your experience.So that you find common ground and similarities.  And with these deep questions, you open her heart and connect… You go to this irresistible event with her, lean close to her, hug her and kiss her when it is okay for her… Keep the emotional contact with her and stop talking, have fun…Find a reason that she is coming to your well prepared (clean) home,… with condoms…Show her your pictures… give her a drink, sit on the same side with her… relax, have fun. You have to learn intuitive what the girl wants, without asking… We need to connect with the heart without words!!!! And don't bring her and you in the head through speaking!!!!!And then approach her body with her consents, (if she gets tense, it was too early, try it again, 5 to 10 minutes later) feel her emotions … kiss her, embrace her, and after some time undress her and … with condom! You have to lead and don't ask for permission! She always can reject you … Okay? Many girls are terrified to sleep with a stranger, and even they (the female nature wants a baby) desperately want to have sex…  Then they are tense, and you can't enter.  Spread her legs and bend them down to her boobs (her butt directed to the sky and her legs are in the air), lock her legs with your arms… And then it is easy when she is wet… My Video: How to seduce, part 5? https://youtu.be/_1Ps31LqUiwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-6.mp3

 I want to help you get what you truly want. But first, ask yourself these questions—honestly. Your answers could change your life.We live in a world drowning in distractions—social media, endless scrolling, artificial validation. But beneath the noise:Can you still enjoy your life?Do you have the courage to live without compromise?Can you speak your truth—even to your boss, spouse, or family—when something isn't right?Does your job still fulfill you, or just fund your existence?Are you surrounded by people you love and who uplift you?Have you maintained your standards, or did life wear you down?Do you ever pause to reflect, or are you too busy distracting yourself?Are your relationships mutual—do you give and receive support?Can you pursue your desires without harming others?We rarely check in with ourselves until something breaks—our health, our relationships, our happiness. The Dalai Lama once said:"People only think about their bodies when they're already sick."The same applies to our lives. Prevention is the best doctor.A Mirror from KrabiI live in paradise—Krabi, Thailand—yet I watch tourists obsess over their phones, staging "perfect" photos to prove they're happy online. Posting has replaced feeling.Can you relate?When was the last time you sat quietly—no phone, no distractions—and asked: "Am I on track?"This isn't judgment. It's a wake-up call. Your life is happening now.My Video: Did You Get What You Wanted? https://youtu.be/Kie-Asz67m8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Did-You-Get-What-You-Wanted.mp3

 We are feeling beings that can think… even most of the time we do think wrong… And when you want to seduce a girl, you have to trust your intuition… Train your intuition and don't trust your thoughts! Even, when I was a true beginner, when I had a girl in my arms, I knew if she liked me or not! Because when the girl is getting soft and my heart opened and then her heart opened… And then you can go further… A kiss is for me meaningless…I want her in my arms… I always focused on embracing the girl, and just a touch is meaningless… I can't go with every girl in the bed, but I can embrace most of all girls that I like… And that feels so good… and I don't like kissing.As a man, you have to go further without asking the girl! So you must train your intuition. You have to understand what the girl wants without asking… And that every man can sense! From most girls, I didn't know the name before I was in bed with her… And I never have asked a girl can I sleep with you… Because this will kill the energy/emotions/love… You approach her, and if she doesn't like that, she will signal it to you. Talking for what?  Talking will bring you in your head, and you have to go in your heart to seduce… So after talking, you go outside and get in touch with her… no thinking… I have done it again and again, just approach an unknown girl, and when it was sure I embraced her and then we went together,… Often it was on a long bus journey, in a plane or somewhere else, it works.What is when a girl is angry with you or doesn't like you? This is the best chance!For instance, honest, I can't speak Korean… I was in India, I had bought a bus ticket from Rishikesh to Dehli… I was entering the bus, and the organizer didn't like to give me a seat…  Because he had oversold all seats… “Don't do such things with me…” I shouted so angrily that I want my seat that was occupied by a Korean girl!!! “And I don't care if I get a seat next to the driver or so.” It was dam clear to me that I had to catch this bus… So what, I was pushing like crazy that the organizer had no chance then to give me the seat… There was sitting a beautiful Korean girl in the next seat… And she was upset that her friend could not join this bus and had to go to the other bus, because of me… She hated me, and I could understand this… She put a bag beside her and me… I didn't care… After some time she removed the bag because I ignored her totally and looked that I was at the maximum distance with her. I knew if a girl is upset wit me, and I ignore her… after some time the chance is high that she will approach me!  Try it out, it works!After 3 hours, we were sleeping close together, embracing each other… And our journey ended at the same hotel, and she could not speak English…   So what, for what is speaking well?Needless to say, that I am an introvert and I had problems to speak in front of an attractive girl…My Video: How to seduce, part 4? https://youtu.be/cSraJN2WFaMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-4.mp3

 Don't be a wussy, coward, weakling… don't be lukewarm,… be passionate for something, be a leaderDon't try to seduce a girl in a club or disco, because the chances are too bad. In the clubs, the girls like to reject and in the end, they will brag how many guys they have rejected!!! First, go for a relaxed girl somewhere… because she has an open heart and you don't want to try to date a girl full of problems because this will not work.If you approach a hot girl on the street, think: Most men are afraid to approach a super beautiful or sexy girl… so that these girls are often alone and easy.First look in her eyes, smile, approach… look how she reacts… is she looking back? Is she looking in your eyes?Is she looking first in your eyes and then upwards?… Let her go … No chancesIs she looking first in your eyes and then downwards?… Great… Does she keep eye contact when you approach her?… the best…Give her a compliment, how gorgeous she is, be personal, be specific, tell her what you love on her,… Forget all these pickup lines, and I never have used them. Fake compliments will not help because the girl recognizes them as fake! Find out if she has a boyfriend… then dating doesn't make sense… So many times, Thai-girls asked me “Do you have a girlfriend?” And this in the first 3 minutes, mostly as an opener… When I was a student, I have looked in her eyes and tried to keep the eye- contact, and then I embraced her when it felt good … it worked… Even I have done it on a ferry to Vancouver Islands… and then we went to her home… Train your intuition … If you see a girl that is ashamed or shy or her face turns red when you look at her… Go for her!!! Get in contact, introduce yourself, and give her a compliment… and try to speak with her in a relaxed way, break the ice, be funny, tell her what you like on her… Look always how she reacts when you look on a girl, is she fondling her hairs, lips… This is a good sign… When you approach her, she wants to impress, so she is putting out her bops… men should do the same, straight spin/neck, breast out so that this looks confident. Girls are afraid to go to a date, and to the same time, they want a date with a passionate guy. So, just say: I don't want a date, I just want to know you more, to speak with such a cute girl,… besides that, do you have a boyfriend? My name is … (Casanova) and you are Jane… (get her name and speak to her as often as possible with her name…)I am on the way to a cafe, can you join me… Or where do you like to go, so that I can join you….?And I love to go to this park/movie/Cafe, to go dancing, but not alone… Look for a reason to go with her out and then ask for a phone number…Big issue? First, you need a reason and then say: “Let exchange our phone numbers because we want to see us again…” Give her your phone, let her type her number and then phone her immediately…  Be specific! Then say: “I will phone you tomorrow at 5Pm because she hates uncertainty and hates guys who can't keep their promise” If she can't she will tell you… Call her, and say where you have met her… and make an irresistible offer for an awesome day…”I invite you to the 7 islands tour”… You say: “BE ON TIME (that is important) because the tour operator will not wait…, or I am a busy person… “  Don't brag, impress her with your passion and humor…  If you get the date finally, embrace her and tell her how beautiful she looks in her dress…be specific, be personal…Typically, women need 1- 2 hours just to make herself beautiful, … so she has invested heavily in this dating… And she doesn't want to be disappointed with a lukewarm, dishonest, dispassionate…!  Introduce yourself, say statements/questions that she will comment on… be funny, tell some funny stories that you have experienced… don't brag!!! Impress her with your honesty and tell from your passions… Answer all of her questions with honesty! Afterward, when the conversation was good, go with her to a park and get in body contact… feel her hands and slowly with her consents (feel her permissions and don't ask for it) touch her body, embrace her, give her a kiss… My Video: How to seduce, part 3? https://youtu.be/Gczo8dDua6QMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-3.mp3

 The disease of the Introverts and Perfectionists… You can do it, or you can learn… Failure is only possible if you can't learn from your wrongdoing or if you can't forgive yourself…There is always a second chance when you have learned from your wrongdoing! If you are a perfectionist… Think always, it is good enough and nothing is perfect. Everything can fail… Only God is perfect…All of these regrets and to feel guilty are based that we can't live our own moralities/standards or ethics…For example, you are a male and fail in the bed. That is usually for males the most painful situation in their life,… Even every man will fail or has been unable in the bed at least one time.  And females don't understand why males take that failing so dam seriously. Solution: Say sorry, that I was unable to sleep with you, and this has nothing to do with you, and that has happened before. This always happens if I am too excited, too much under pressure, or have too much stress. Please forgive me that I could not sleep with you. (But don't say that you have slept with another girl an hour before!!!)What is if you are addicted or have done something awful (had an accident, lost your job…). You feel guilty, and this guilt keeps you in your addiction or in your bad consciousness…So longer you go the wrong track or feel guilty so worse it becomes…The solution is easy, you choose to speak openly about your feelings, your regrets to your friends, family, colleagues. If you can't disclosure your emotions, your thoughts then go to a therapist… And even better you share your emotions with people who are in the same situation and who have overcome your problem… For instance, the AA (Anonymous Alcoholics) is a self-help organization for all kinds of addiction…. If we have messed up in our relationships or profession…First, we should analyze our moralities/standards and ask ourselves:Do our moralities really serve us?Are our standards not too high?Have we decided or lived wrong because our moralities are not fitting us?Are our ethics designed for feeling guilty?Did we overtake consciousness or unconsciousness our standards from our parents? Could our parents live their standards?Second, if we have done wrong, apologize immediately, Sorry, I have done wrong, and I try to compensate that… Was the input for your job as promised or enough?Did you honestly have a chance to accomplish your goal or job?Very often, we agree to something that we never have a chance to accomplish or do accordingly… Before we promise anything, we must feel good about it… For instance, it is quite hard to get from me any promise… For what should I give a promise when it is not necessary? In relationships, we don't have our partner under our control, and that is the beauty of a lovely relationship…We try our best. And through misunderstanding, we encounter tragedies, … That is normal.Forgiveness and gratitude for remaining in our love-relationship are a must to fondle the devotion to our lover! So what, we don't know what will happen in the next years… If the relationship is not fitting anymore, or the love is over, separate… Be grateful for the good time you are in the relationship and go on in your life! When you start something new, then very often you have done it wrong in the past.For instance, I have begun with Feng Shui… And after adopting the rules of Feng Shui I must admit, my previous life-time would have been much easier if I would have integrated Feng Shui in my life sooner…So what, should I beat myself up or should I be happy that I have invited Feng Shui in my life? When you grow older, you have made so many mistakes that you don't care anymore…My Video: How to forgive yourself? https://youtu.be/WouiqKO0yFwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-forgive-yourself.mp3

 People will come to love their oppression, to adore the technologies that undo their capacities to think.The victim of mind-manipulation does not know that he is a victim. To him, the walls of his prison are invisible, and he believes himself to be free.Medical science has made such tremendous progress that there is hardly a healthy human left.The deepest sin against the human mind is to believe things without evidence.Never have so many been manipulated so much by so few.... the greater part of the population is not very intelligent, dreads responsibility, and desires nothing better than to be told what to do. Provided the rulers do not interfere with its material comforts and its cherished beliefs, it is perfectly happy to let itself be ruled.The propagandist's purpose is to make one set of people forget that certain other sets of people are human.Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.Experience is not what happens to you; it's what you do with what happens to you.Reality cannot be ignored except at a price; and the longer the ignorance is persisted in, the higher and more terrible becomes the price that must be paid.There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.This Power Elite directly employs several millions of the country´s working force in its factories, offices and stores, controls many millions more by lending them the money to buy its products, and, through its ownership of the media of mass communication, influences the thoughts, the feelings and the actions of virtually everybody. To parody the words of W. Churchill, never have so many been manipulated so much by few.Dictators can always consolidate their tyranny by an appeal to patriotism.Most ignorance is vincible ignorance. We don't know because we don't want to know.The question of the next generation will not be one of how to liberate the masses, but rather, how to make them love their servitude.People often ask me what is the most effective technique for transforming their life. It is a little embarrassing that after years and years of research and experimentation, I have to say that the best answer is - just be a little kinder.Love casts out fear; but conversely fear casts out love. And not only love. Fear also casts out intelligence, casts out goodness, casts out all thought of beauty and truth.If most of us remain ignorant of ourselves, it is because self-knowledge is painful and we prefer the pleasures of illusion.My Video:  Quotes Aldous Huxley  https://youtu.be/WP90lcPVNHEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Aldous-Huxley.mp3

  Because it is exciting and cheap.1. You meet many amazing people.2. You are not so isolated in your hotel. 3. You connect easier with the local people.4. You save so much money. 5. You have so many adventures.6. You can develop faith in God in all of your struggles of traveling cheap… And that is so true!!!7. You get the best information from experienced travelers.8. You can easily connect with other amazing travelers.Usually, people choose via the internet a hotel with specific features and they forget that they want also to meet new people. The people like more to stay in their comfort zone and so they choose the same dishes they eat at home and stay with the same people in the hotel.You can stay for free with couchsurfing.com. When you use workaway.com, you will stay with the locals for free and you work 4-5 hours and get food and earn some money… What is about women… Every man is raping them?For instance, the beautiful French girl F (21) is hitchhiking and Couchsurfing (she stayed already at over 100 hosts) for free, needs only $50 per month, flies for $120 from Stockholm to Krabi with Norwegian Airways .. And she got never raped or sold her. She stayed with me for free, even I gave her the food for free… I took beautiful pictures when she was making yoga at the beach…You can do volunteer work when you travel and you will meet great people …When I was a student, I worked for a minimum wage in the USA and in Amsterdam;   organized by IAESTE… Then I worked also as a volunteer in a spiritual place for free in France… Did I like that? Was it worth to do so? Did I improve my English? Was it better than TV and Facebook? Then I saw people working for small firms for 4 to 5 hours a day including food and a small salary… in Panama (workaway)… You can do so!  European students like to work in Australia for some months to earn the money to travel in Asia… My Video: Why is cheap traveling more fun? https://youtu.be/vs8-WIFUQR8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-is-cheap-traveling-more-fun.mp3

 It sounds bazaar… What is bazaar is exciting!Imagine you move into the house of a millionaire who got bankrupt and made suicide… Do you think that still negative energy is in this house?Do you think that this negative energy in this house will negatively influence you? Many years ago, I visited an exhibition of Tibetan art (furniture, carpets, singing bowls, Tangkas) in a big new hall…  And the energy of this hall became sacred just through this exhibition… When I was in Tibet, I visited a monastery and the energy was so negative and later I heard that many monks were killed in this monastery and I felt that …If we move into a new home or if something severe negative happened in our house, we make an energy clearing in our home… Afterward, our home feels more relaxed and positive…  Or do it once a month!How to make it?We need a drum (like a djembe), bell, cymbals, gong, energy chimes (with 3 tones), singing bowl, or clapping,…If we are in a good mood, we can make the clearing. We start from our main entrance, going right (following the next wall to the right side), and going through every room in a circle; so that we finish at the main entrance. And while we are walking through the house, we hit our percussion instrument, if possible with different sounds. At every door, corner, we hit, even more, our instrument. Let yourself time. Make this procedure 3 times and do it for every floor, including basement, garage, closet, bathroom. Afterward, if our home is clean and tidy we should make a home blessing.For every religion and for every person, it can be different!Our Ashram in India has always made the blessing for the homes of the householder … The most important rooms are the main sleeping room, living room, and the home altar.We prayed in the main rooms for the blessing of God/divine with incense sticks, oil ghee lamps, tabla… And we have sung devotional songs for the lord… For the Feng Shui blessing, we get a representative of the 5 elements (metal, water, wood, fire, earth) put it on a table. Burn an incense stick and a candle for the fire element, close our eyes, open our heart and feel love and gratitude for our home.  My Video: What is House clearing and blessing? https://youtu.be/hQ-S_NrebBEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-House-clearing-and-blessing.mp3

 Regret and guilt can weigh heavily on the heart, but they don't have to define you. Here's how to release these emotions and reclaim your peace:1. Acknowledge and Accept Your FeelingsDon't suppress or ignore regret or guilt—they're natural emotions.Accept that mistakes happen, but they don't diminish your worth.2. Learn from the ExperienceAsk yourself:What led to this situation?What would I do differently now?Turn regret into wisdom by focusing on growth, not self-punishment.3. Practice Self-CompassionTreat yourself as you would a dear friend: with kindness, not criticism.Remind yourself: "I did the best I could with what I knew at the time."4. Take Responsibility (If Needed)If others were hurt, a sincere apology or amends can ease guilt.But avoid endless self-reproach—once you've done your part, let go.5. Focus on the PresentRegret lives in the past; freedom lives in the now. Try mindfulness or meditation to ground yourself in today.6. Reframe Your PerspectiveAsk:How did this experience make me stronger?What positive changes came from it?View mistakes as lessons, not failures.7. Set Boundaries with GuiltIf others try to manipulate you with guilt, remember: their emotions are their responsibility.Protect your peace by saying no when needed.8. Seek SupportTalk to someone you trust—a friend, family member, or therapist.Sharing your burden often lightens it.9. Forgive YourselfHolding onto guilt won't rewrite the past.Repeat: "I am human, and I deserve forgiveness."10. Take Positive ActionChannel your energy into helping others, pursuing goals, or living in alignment with your values.Action replaces stagnation with purpose.11. Release PerfectionismNo one is flawless—mistakes are part of being human.Celebrate progress, not perfection.12. Give It TimeHealing isn't linear. Be patient; the weight of regret will ease as you grow.My Video:  How to Let Go of Regret and Guilt? https://youtu.be/6trfF3UQuW4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-Let-Go-of-Regret-and-Guilt.mp3

 14 Years ago, I was in Brasilia, and I wanted to go to a Party… But I didn't know where the party was, and I could speak only a little bit of Spain…So I asked again and again… And there were 5 handsome young big guys, and I asked them… They replied in broken English, we are on the way to this party, you can join us… I followed them, and they went to the beach… And suddenly they attacked me… I thought, how dare to attack me… And my thought was so stupid and arrogant…Never the less, I had fought like crazy to defense me when I was a kid… Every day I was fighting 3 to 4 hours…. And what you do learn as a kid you never lose.When the Brazilian were attacking me, immediately I jumped to the ground and were boxing and kicking from the ground (this I never have done before). One Guy was threatening me with a gun….And then Goddess Kali was coming, entering my body…. I got up very fast, yelled like crazy, and ready to kill them… I kicked away the pistole, and to the same time, I was boxing, and I strangled the neck of one guy.Within 20 seconds the guys were running for their life, and I wanted just to kill them…You can't defend your life if you do not be ready to kill when necessary! The tremendous power of Kali saved my life… I went first to the police and then finally I found the place of the party…I entered the entrance, the guys let me in. Inside were such gorgeous girls in elegant, and expensive garments. The parents in smoking and party dresses ….  and the boys in worn-out blue jeans…. So that doesn't match… I went straight to the toilet… And I looked so shabby, it was so embarrassing for me, with torn shorts/shirt, bloody knees, and blood in my face… I didn't feel any pain… So what, I washed myself and went back to the party. And I danced like crazy… I was afraid to date a beautiful girl … At 2 o'clock in the morning, I came back to my pension and a half-hour later a black magic girl knocked on my door… I knew her from the previous night. So what, Goddess Kali is black and so she, and we had a very wild night together… Never give up. And trust in God.My Video: Episode 5, Fight for your life  https://youtu.be/ElxqYZyWZgMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Episode-5-Fight-for-your-life.mp3

 When you have made the decision and follow the rules/strategies to 100%, you don't have to think anymore…You just act accordingly …For instance, the bravery of the soldier of Napoleon/Hitler… they just act accordingly, not thinking, no guessing… this means full commitment… No problem anymoreIf a person, even he is the worst sinner, has made the decision to become a yogi, he is already a saint… Srimad BhagavatamIf you want to shift your life, you just act…For instance, when I understood that eating meat is stupid, unethical and for what is this good… I changed immediately. When I could understand that eating only raw is the best I could change immediately…When I could understand that total surrender to the inner part instead to follow my ego…For what, should I live such a lousy ego life? I could change immediately.When I convinced quite a lot of people (even my best friends) to stop smoking, after some time they were disgusted to smoke … and stopped smoking…Imagine, if you are compromising your decision then you never have made the shift to be on a higher level….And even it is only 2% that you compromise to eat unhealthy food… You never have made the decision to live healthily…For instance, it was really magical when our Asram was traveling through India that I could get everywhere my raw-cost. Because I have made the decision to eat only raw-cost, I attracted everywhere my bananas, fruits… And that even when I was hiking in the Himalaya…If you don't have made your decision to 100% you will attract everywhere your own resistance …The first step: Convince yourself to 100%For instance, I always find enough material to write every week my 2 blogs, because I have made the decision….And I hate inconsistency,… Sorry, I can't hardly accept inconsistency people… It is for me so disgusting… Because it is disgusting, I don't want to become that. Second step:Hate inconsistency … If you make your decision, you cut off all other things that are not in line with your choice…All successful entrepreneurs have one thing in common, they went through that never return option… and all unsuccessful entrepreneurs didn't make it until the never return option.For instance, I never could convince me to marry. Why? I want to have sex with my darling regularly and for that is the marriage the worst place. I have never seen a marriage that would work out for me. Third step:You need a raw model to follow up… My Video: What is, if you don't commit to 100 %? https://youtu.be/wZMXA9KFBp0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-if-you-don't-commit-to-100.mp3

 When I saw on YouTube the last fights of Muhammed Ali, it was just such a disgrace…Or the singing Career of Whitney Houston… DisgraceBut if you compare the singing of Babara Streisand, Michael Cohen … It looks so that it becomes better so older they are.But you say that it is singing…Look what is doing Jacky Chan so older so better, and today he is the highest-paid actor in the world… age 65…When we reach our zenith, we should be grateful and start something new. How can we find out that we can't go higher?Simple, we lose our interest.If you are not any more enthusiastic about the things that you are doing for a long time,- the time is over. Start something new.And that is true for every area of our life.The best is, we start our inner journey when we have reached our Zenith…Why… If you know the method to become top you can become top in every area…For instance, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Greatest bodybuilder, actor, filmmaker, and then Politician (Governor of California) …What is missing… To become a Yogi, Sufi,…  My Video: You have to know when it is over https://youtu.be/wPIltxo2574My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-have-to-know-when-it-is-over.mp3

 (In the spirit of Billy Graham's unflinching truth-telling)The Hidden Child of GodWhile others played in innocence,You wept in shadows.Where they were shaped by laughter,You were tempered by rejection's jagged stones—Misunderstood. Isolated. Bearing burdens too heavy for small shoulders.Questioning:"Why was I the outcast?Why did loneliness cradle me like a mother?"The Divine AnswerThis was no accident. Heaven forges warriors in fire, not comfort.Your tears were holy water.Your wounds were sacred classrooms.That crushing weight? The Potter's hands molding clay."The smith hammers glowing steel without pity—His focus is the sword's final form."So God allowed your pain—not as punishment, but preparation.The Chosen Child's MarkingsYou never belonged in the crowd's shallow games.Bullies smelled divinity on you—and attacked what they couldn't understand.Your ‘abandonment' was armor—the enemy can't kill what he can't find.World says: "Trauma."God says: "Training."World whispers: "Tragedy."Heaven roars: "Transformation."The Unbreakable Warrior's CrownNow they marvel at your strength—But they don't know the price.They envy your faith—Unaware it was forged in furnaces that would break them.Result:No one can blackmail you—you've already survived hell.What was stolen in youth, God restores with interest.Your childhood didn't destroy you; it anointed you.My Story: From Hell to Heaven's ArmsBorn unwanted. Quarantined as an infant, crying among strangers.Raised in hatred. Beaten daily. Hated for my honesty. My sister's torment.Escaped. Cut ties forever.Yet God...Gave me satori at 10 years old—high in a tree's embrace.Opened spiritual visions at 12, though I knew not meditation.Spared me from the 2004 tsunami after drawing me to India.I'd never been baptized.With 28 years, I got my Kundalini and had the opportunity to be over 10 years in mediation retreats mainly in India. The president of Hindus adored me… Now?Life remains a battlefield. But every challenge deepens my faith.Final Charge to the ChosenYour pain had purpose.Your isolation was incubation.What man meant for evil, God shaped for glory."Have faith in the Lord.You were never abandoned—You were set apart. "My Video:  The Chosen One's Childhood  https://youtu.be/VIpuHdgI87MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/The-Chosen-One's-Childhood.mp3

 When I saw on YouTube the last fights of Muhammed Ali, it was just such a disgrace…Or the singing Career of Whitney Houston… DisgraceBut if you compare the singing of Babara Streisand, Michael Cohen … It looks so that it becomes better so older they are.But you say that it is singing…Look what is doing Jacky Chan so older so better, and today he is the highest-paid actor in the world… age 65…When we reach our zenith, we should be grateful and start something new. How can we find out that we can't go higher?Simple, we lose our interest.If you are not any more enthusiastic about the things that you are doing for a long time,- the time is over. Start something new.And that is true for every area of our life.The best is, we start our inner journey when we have reached our Zenith…Why… If you know the method to become top you can become top in every area…For instance, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Greatest bodybuilder, actor, filmmaker, and then Politician (Governor of California) …What is missing… To become a Yogi, Sufi,…  My Video: You have to know when it is over https://youtu.be/wPIltxo2574My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-have-to-know-when-it-is-over.mp3

 Insights (TED) of a 93-year-old man who makes bodybuilding …When we had been hunters to find food, we had only a chance to survive when we tried our best physically and mentally … After we killed that animal, we had to eat as much as possible to sustain our body as long as possible; and to relax to be inactive to gain our power back…So what, overeating was a must …Inactivity was a must to relax…And these necessary habits are destroying us today.And today we overeat and be inactive even we didn't do any exercise…Successful aging is possible:Three factors are contributing to successful aging and guess that are using the Japanese with the highest longevity… (50000 Japanese are over 100 years old)1.) work hard2.) right diet3.) body exerciseThe aged person is suffering from inactivity, poor diet, overweight, diabetes …And this happened through retirement.Retirement is voluntary or involuntary unemployment for up to 30 years…Unemployment cause:1.) Chronic disease 2.) Mental problems3.) Poor health 4.) Disabilities5.) More medical consultation6.) More hospital admissionsFor what is work good? 1.) Work is therapeutic2.) Good for health3.) Self-worth4.) Family esteem5.) Identity6.) Standing in the communityInactivity killsThe aged people should be integrated into the workforce for health reasons as it was 100 years ago. Exercise is both a preventive measure and treatment.The motivation can be:to be sexieror vanity.People who exercise in strenuous competitive sports live longer.With 80 years the body has lost 50% of the muscle strength of a 50 years-old-person…Just train and get your muscles back…You can rebuild your body at any age…My Video: Inactivity is a major cause of death… https://youtu.be/M8SMGqu-0f0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Inactivity-is-a-major-cause-of-death….mp3

 If we served others or embraced the role of a servant, we would be far more efficient!Consider the story of the great Portuguese pianist Maria João Pires. One evening, she received a phone call asking her to perform Mozart's Concerto K.466 the next day in Amsterdam—but she misunderstood and prepared K.488 instead, a completely different piece. When she arrived, the conductor informed her that she was expected to play K.488.She protested, “I can't do this; I'm not prepared!”The conductor replied, “But you performed this concerto just a year ago…”Overwhelmed, she nearly left the concert hall in distress. Yet when the performance began, she played the concerto absolutely flawlessly.What happened?I believe many of us have experienced this: a moment when internal resistance shatters, and we accomplish something previously thought impossible.Key Lessons:She surrendered her ego.By admitting she couldn't play the concerto well, she stopped resisting. In that moment, her subconscious—where the entire piece was stored—took over.Repetition alone doesn't guarantee mastery.We often fail despite endless practice because pressure triggers self-sabotage. Forcing memorization is inefficient. Maria João Pires once said, “Repeating something mindlessly until I ‘learn' it is pointless. I practice for 45 minutes, or twice that if I'm enjoying it. Without joy, I can't retain anything.”Overworking harms more than it helps—a fact backed by science.She reconnected with joy.Remembering the pleasure of playing certain passages made her eager to experience that joy again.She played for Mozart, not perfection.Focusing on honoring Mozart—rather than avoiding mistakes—freed her to perform effortlessly.The Takeaway:True mastery comes from releasing ego, embracing joy, and serving something greater than ourselves.My Video: How Inefficient Is Our Ego? https://youtu.be/tamCW0FTETsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-Inefficient-Is-Our-Ego.mp3

 Make a list:What is lovable on you?Write a least 10 reasons why it is fantastic to be together with you.Learn to love yourself… Otherwise, you will attract the wrong spouse (who hates the opposite sex).Embrace yourself and imagine why your dream partner loves you! Let your dream partner tell you why he/she loves you! For Instance, Your imaginary dream partner tells You: “I love you because you are so cute, handsome, smart, honest, you are so wonderful in the bed… I always want to sleep with you…”  Do this for 1 to 2 minutes every day.Make body exercise to lose weight, to relax, to become more confident, and to become more attractive! Learn to Relax with meditation (Kundalini meditation from Osho,…), Yoga, Qigong, dancing, drumming… Because when you are relaxed, dating is easier!Links at the end…Build up your confidence/self-esteemPraise yourself for every step forward or things that you have done… even for cooking your own meal…Get a ‘Dating Confidence Hypnosis' mp3 from Dr. Steve G. Jones (for $15) and fall to sleep when you hear the Hypnosis mp3. Do that for 30 days, every day.  Link at the end.Build up a positive attitude. Because with a positive attitude you attract good people. Learn to praise other people, give honest compliments, so that the people feel good!… And say thank you even for small things that people have done for you. Let it when you are greedy or needy for sex! Females hate guys who are needy for sex! Seduce only, when you are relaxed and have built up your self-esteem. Enjoy seducing, otherwise, if you don't enjoy it the girls run away!Learn to smile when you approach people… Then dating is easier!The society wants you to fail as a seducer… Most of what you read in the media about sex, seducing is wrong because of the negative influence of the feminists.Forget, all these B. S. about sex, ‘men behavior' from the Feminists, … Many years ago, my mother and sister were in Tunisia. My sister spoke with these feminists, and later she watched them on the beach fucking with the street boys (age between 12 and 18 years old)… and even with 5 boys, one after the next!!! And this was so embarrassing that the Tunisian street boys thought that all Western women like to sleep with them. Frequently, when my aged mother went to the market a boy grabbed her bosom and wanted to seduce her… Why do the feminists, like the famous feminist Alice Schwarzer, travel to Tunisia? Why the feminists don't complain/protest against the raping of women through Muslim immigrants? Every 6th Swedish female got raped through a Muslim immigrant!My Video: How to seduce, part 2?  https://youtu.be/birFmY7bdnUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-2.mp3

 Trueness hurts or is a precious gift.If you discover that your boyfriend is cheating on you… The price is high, but only so you can decide.We all get disappointed because we thought our friend is always acting in our way… And then our illusion is crumbled … And this happens in every area of our life…For instance:Through the Boeing 737 Max accidents, 347 people died… Boeing denied their responsibilities. In a bad situation, we do the same.After investigation, the Boeing 737 has aeronautical misconstructions to build a fuel-efficient aircraft that can compete with Airbus… And this misconstruction of the Boeing was compensated with a smarter software… We all try to compensate or cover up our mistakes through lying, cheating… And at the end of the day, we get crushed…  The normal regulation for simulation, worst-case scenarios had worked out for this Boeing 737. But the aeronautical misconstructions didn't work out for all situations, so the crashes happened…Also, the training for that aircraft was only 2.5 hours on an Apple tablet… After all these crashes, Boeing learned a lot and can improve the Boeing 737 Max with smarter software and additional training for the pilots…  How would it be if we are honest in the first place instead to use cover-ups, cheating…There would be no invention if there were no disappointments.And I ask myself are disappointments not really good for us…?Why should we not embrace frustration?After every frustration, I get very creative… My creativity is based on frustration…What is when a friend frustrate me? The German word is ent-täuschung for disappointingAnd the German word means the end of deception/fallacy/delusion… We discover something new that will change our lives because we have lived in an illusion about that subject… And that is good.Never the less we have to pay for that with frustration… My Video: You have to pay for your discoveries https://youtu.be/m_9QAIZPAnAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-have-to-pay-for-your-discoveries.mp3

 Throughout history, indigenous people from China, Africa, and America have believed that music, particularly rhythm and drumming, is intertwined with healing and wellness.And the military has used drumming for encouragement and to dispel the fear… Actually, it is working…For the Shaman is drumming crucial to go in another realm where he can heal or ask …It is even proved that we can go by certain rhythms in a trance… And this becomes a problem for specific fabric work, that through a fixed rhythmic pattern the fabric workers go in trance…So that the fabric has to change continuously the rhythmic of the noise or labor work. Otherwise, too many accidents will happen…Our society has forgotten the powerful drumming, Drumming is much more powerful than meditation for relaxation and dispels our fears…And even easier to learn!I have introduced the drumming for sleeping in a previous blog…This means you tap with your left and right hand on your tights in the rhythmic of the heart (60 to 90 beats), and after few minutes you slow down the rhythmic (30-45beats), and you will start yawning.    And this technique also works to lower our stress level.Imagine your unborn kid always hears the heartbeat of his/her mother… If the heartbeat is going fast, the baby is getting nervous and if the heartbeat slows down the baby calms down…. Our mind is hooked up through the rhythmic and forget to think… So deeper the drum sounds so more impact…Try out with your spouse to breath deeply in and out and don't try to be synchrony… After some time both of you are breathing synchrony… We are hardwired to rhythmics Other studies proof that drumming 1.) is calming down,2.) give us focus,3.) has healing effects for: hypertension, asthma, chronic pain, arthritis, mental illness, migraines, Autistic, cancer, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, stroke, paralysis, emotional disorders …,4.) boosts the immune system,5.) promotes the production of endorphins and endogenous opiates, the bodies own morphine-like painkillers, and can thereby help in the control of pain,6.) brings harmony in our brain, balances out our left (thinking) and right side (emotions) of the brain, and7.) Releases Negative Feelings, Blockages, and Emotional Traumas.The easiest drum to learn is the African Djembe or the Indian Tabla… I have learned to play a little bit Tabla and taught myself the Djembe. I love the sound of the Tabla, and the Djembe is light, compact and easier to play.   Or look at the video Best drummer. My Video: Why is drumming so precious?  https://youtu.be/b8oJU6vpw5cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-is-drumming-so-precious.mp3

 The Controversial Truth1. The Crisis of FaithFor 50 years, Mother Teresa secretly struggled with a loss of connection to God, describing feelings of abandonment in private writings ("The Saint of Calcutta").She confessed to experiencing "the presence of the devil" five years before her death—yet publicly upheld an image of unwavering faith.2. Questionable Medical PracticesMultiple reports (including from volunteers like Hemley Gonzalez and journalist Donald Macintyre) reveal:Reused, unsterilized needles and contaminated water (justifying it as "God's will").No trained medical staff in her hospices, despite $30M/year in donations.Filthy conditions: Urine/feces-soaked laundry washed next to eating utensils.Refusal to improve care: Volunteers offering boilers or supplies were told "Jesus doesn't want that."3. Exploitation of Suffering?Critics (like atheist Christopher Hitchens) argue:She romanticized pain as "piety," denying painkillers to the dying.Focused on baptizing the terminally ill (often without consent) over alleviating suffering.Tied patients like animals: Reports describe children tethered to beds, a woman bound to a tree, and volunteers laughing at their distress.4. The "Miracle" ControversyHer first canonization "miracle" (a cancer cure) was debunked as the result of medical treatment.Funding priorities: Despite massive donations, facilities remained squalid—fueling accusations of performative charity.5. Legacy: Compassion or Cult?Pro: She drew global attention to the poor and inspired humanitarian work.Con: Evidence suggests her missions prioritized Catholic dogma over genuine care, with volunteers "intoxicated by the myth" (Macintyre).Key SourcesDocumentary: Hell's Angel: Mother Teresa of Calcutta (Chatterjee, 1994)Investigations: The Washington Post, New StatesmanVolunteer testimonies: Hemley Gonzalez, Donald MacintyreMy Video:  Mother Teresa: Saint or Sinner https://youtu.be/p1j41iIRCsoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Mother-Teresa-Saint-or-Sinner.mp3For sources on the claims & quotes:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OZtJUEXykEhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEaKXRJ4NB4https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/02/25/why-to-many-critics-mother-teresa-is-still-no-saint/https://www.newstatesman.com/long-reads/2005/08/squalid-truth-behind-legacy-mother-teresahttps://edition.cnn.com/2016/08/31/asia/mother-teresa-controversies/index.htmlhttps://www.nytimes.com/1995/02/08/movies/critic-s-notebook-a-skeptical-look-at-mother-teresa.htmlhttps://www.nytimes.com/1996/01/14/books/books-in-brief-nonfiction-068195.htmlhttps://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/mother-teresa-s-canonization-controversy-clouds-nun-s-work-n641181https://www.irishtimes.com/culture/icon-of-the-poor-leaves-legacy-of-controversy-1.105892

 We hear Spiritual people proclaiming that they are desireless…25 years ago, when we moved to India to renounce the world … it looked weird… India was very poor, and the people were cheerful, happy, and healthy…And when we came back to our well-developed country, we saw the wealthy population comparable to India, and to the same time, the people were unsatisfied, depressed, and unhealthy.And that even looked much weirder…So more the people gained so more unhappy, unhealthy, depressed the people were or are… In recent years I went to India and Nepal…and the healthy, cheerfulness and happiness were gone…. What is desireless? Is desireless just a temporary relief?There was a guy who was sweating in his suit and in his shoes like crazy during the hot summertime… I asked him why he is wearing his suit and his tight shoes… He said when He undresses and goes out of his shoes, he feels so liberated and joyful…Yes, so more we have so more problems we will attract…And if we feel for a short time desireless, this is just true for that moment!We can be only desireless when we renounce the world or if we are free of identification… My Video: Can we be desireless? https://youtu.be/4n_nrj_zumwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Can-we-be-desireless.mp3

 When I see and hear all these superstars …90% of them are taking cocaine on the stage.When I was present in the concerts of classical Indian Ragas with the most excellent Indian musicians, and even unknown Indian Musician I totally got emerged and could hardly go out of that space… It was incredible and indescribable… And all of these Indian Musicians don't take drugs… Because you need that awareness for making such Divine music… The western-style is to get rid of the inside distraction through drugs to make great art… And we see the drug misuse also with the top-salespeople. The Indian musician aim is to get emerged with the divine, and their goal is not to have success for any price… Their goal is to serve God- to make it happen that they become a channel of God…If we sacrifice our health, awareness, honesty for any success, we are on the wrong path!It is just stupid to have only money or success as a goal…Because we miss God… Through God, we can become much greater.I remember the most excellent musicians I ever have seen Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan… He sang all kind of music styles, he even became a discotheque star in New York City with singing the praise of Ali and Allah… For what is success good if we lose the connection to God? If we read Napoleon Hill, the very embodiment of teaching how to become successful…Napoleon Hills son was born without ears … and so he never should hear … Napoleon Hill said I will make him hear… Every day, Napoleon prayed for hours to make his son hear… After four years his son started to hear… Or look on Dr. Patrick Liew, born poor, today Billionaire, Cofounder Success Resources, he is a praying every day to serve the people better… And he desires to help the poor… and to make people rich… Why don't you take God with you on the journey to become successful? For instance, you have to decide… Follow your ego or God…?You can ask God when you:pull a Tarot card, throw dice, make the I-Ging, swing a pendulum, open a religious book on a random page… This needs about half a year until it will work.Or just follow your heart… even this is quite difficult. But everybody can learn that…For instance, Jack Canfield (Chicken soup for the soul, one of the most successful books), Bob Proctor are doing so…My Video: Is really the success worth it? https://youtu.be/SzmfCoqOqlkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Is-really-the-success-worth-it.mp3

 All over the place, from the popular culture to the propaganda system, there is constant pressure to make people feel that they are helpless, that the only role they can have is to ratify decisions and to consume.Everyone's worried about stopping terrorism. Well, there's really an easy way: Stop participating in it.Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so.The smart way to keep people passive and obedient is to strictly limit the spectrum of acceptable opinion, but allow very lively debate within that spectrum.The whole educational and professional training system is a very elaborate filter, which just weeds out people who are too independent, and who think for themselves, and who don't know how to be submissive, and so on — because they're dysfunctional to the institutions.If we don't believe in freedom of expression for people we despise, we don't believe in it at all.The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all the people.There are very few people who are going to look into the mirror and say, 'That person I see is a savage monster;' instead, they make up some construction that justifies what they do.Any dictator would admire the uniformity and obedience of the U.S. media.In the US, there is basically one party - the business party. It has two factions, called Democrats and Republicans, which are somewhat different but carry out variations on the same policies. By and large, I am opposed to those policies. As is most of the population.It is pretty ironic that the so-called 'least advanced' people are the ones taking the lead in trying to protect all of us, while the richest and most powerful among us are the ones who are trying to drive the society to destruction.You cannot control your own population by force, but it can be distracted by consumption.I have often thought that if a rational Fascist dictatorship were to exist, then it would choose the American system.Governments regard their own citizens as their main enemy, and they have to be - protect themselves. That's why you have state secret laws. Citizens are not supposed to know what their government is doing to them.I stated that Hiroshima and Nagasaki are 'among the most unspeakable crimes in history.' I took no position on just where they stand on the scale of horrors relative to Auschwitz, the bombing of Chungking, Lidice, and so on.The 'peace movement' exists only in the fantasies of the paranoid.There are two problems for our species' survival - nuclear war and environmental catastrophe - and we're hurtling towards them. Knowingly.My Video:  Quotes Noam Chomsky https://youtu.be/O_alJOMloAIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Noam-Chomsky.mp3

 All women and men love to be seduced!!!Because the new lover loves them and appreciates them…What is then wrong to seduce?So many lonely females are waiting that their dream partner is showing up and seduce them… Maybe it never will happen!And similar is this with men.We do have extrovert and introverts…For an introvert like me, is it quite challenging to speak to a stranger…Females don't like introverts because they don't have a chance to get seduced from them.Even worse, most females are scared to seduce a man!What is if you learn just to speak to a stranger?Everywhere are men and women without a spouse!When you don't try you have lost in any case…Many baby steps lead to success…If you can't go in front of a sexy or attractive stranger, make small talk, get her or his phone number….Try out, to go in front of an average stranger and make your small talk…If you can't even that ask old people for direction…And then every day you go one step further… Until you can ask for that telephone number…Then you choose more and more attractive strangers… As a kid, you could do that!!!In the meantime, you do your homework!Address always in your life the elephant in the room for everything!!!!Ask yourself: ‘What are the limiting beliefs that hinder you to get the spouse you want?' …Be honest…write down at least 10 limited beliefsFor instance: ‘I am too unattractive, too old, too fat…'And then look for people with the same disabilities who have a spouse… Convinced, for every pot you will find a lid!!!For everything that we can't do, we have a trauma inside of us that prevent us from getting what we want… Remember your first dating or contact with the opposite sex that had been so devastating…And these are the traumas…Feel them and let go of them… and imagine that you are today older and smarter. Okay, don't limit yourself… Expose your anxiety.For females, skip the next section, -5 sentences, without reading!Ladies skip it, this section it is not for you!!!!Go to a Go-go-bar, bristle, nightclub, infamous sauna and try to speak to these nude or half-nude girls… You don't have to sleep with them. Feel your anxiety! Learn to speak freely with these girls about all of your sexual desires, until your fear of females is gone! For females: Go to a bodybuilding studio and ask the most attractive guys for direction…  And start to train with these men… Give compliments to the men, how strong they are… Go to a beach, sauna or to a nudist beach, expose your body (in a Bikini) and speak with some men… Normally, in Europe, nobody thinks about sex when they are in a sauna together with the opposite sex… And in the sauna everybody is nude. Feel your anxiety.My Video: How to seduce, part 1? https://youtu.be/aZZlNbWN464My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-1.mp3

 It might be the most crucial lesson in Your life!When I visited a friend, saw his houses, yacht, even his cars…. Everywhere junk and clutter.Why does my friend need a Pickup? To carry always his junk with him?We go through our life and collect things that we later don't need anymore… And if we don't get rid of them, they occupied us also from inside.Get rid of everything that you don't need anymore.When we do a job and don't finish the job, still our brain is working on this job… Finish every job as soon as possible.If we are surrounded in our home from things that we don't like,…?The teaching of Feng Shui:We should surround us with things that we do like, and life becomes much more relaxed and beautiful.If we sweep the dirt under the carpet, the dirt is still there…If we put the things out of our sight, still the things remain in our subconsciousness…If we want to start a new life and that we should do again and again…Then this is only possible if we get rid of the garbage, junk, clutter inside and outside.We can't build a new house on our premise when the old house is not removed…If we hang on the old we can't be open for new opportunities, and after some time we get punished,- we lose our job, firm, income, happiness, love…There is only one thing, we should do, to become optimal to be in the here and now… Even my small house is quite empty; still I had to work a week to get rid of the clutter and junk. And then I could arrange my furniture new by the rules of Feng Shui…And the results are fantastic. It cost even not much money (but hard work) so that everybody can do so! For what we should store things that we hardly use anymore…Everybody should know the 80/20 rule… 20% of our work contributes to 80% of our income… For what we do need the additionally 80%?  And with this in mind, we start to get rid of the things that we do not need… Sometimes we think, what is if we need this again? If we still love, for instance, our music instrument even we don't use it anymore… Don't through it away… If we have bought so much cloth that we never wear… Get rid of it…Read the book: “Clear your Clutter with Feng Shui”.My Video: Why should we declutter our home? https://youtu.be/d_P4iGb7n1wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-should-we-declutter.mp3

 I come across again and again with People who fail on their healthy lifestyle and all the other goals… And I hardly know anybody who keeps his longterm goals!And I don't have such problems to keep my goals… What are the problems?At the beginning of the goal-setting, most of the people are very enthusiastic. After 4 weeks, it starts to become more and more difficult…. Before we start with any goal-setting, we need to be convinced to 100%… If we understand a pendulum … A pendulum is swinging from one side to the other side…And so our mind….First, we are enthusiastic/ overeager to have a new goal, and after some time our mind is going in the other direction of being lazy/ frustrated… So more we are excited so more we will be frustrated later…Solution:Make a worry list before you set any goalPrioritize the worst outcome…Make a doubt listPrioritize the worst.Make a positive outcome list:Ask yourself:Why is your goal good?For what you need this goal?Does your goal serve you long term?Does your goal fit you?Does God/divine want that you set this goal?Do you have any ideal who has done it already which you can follow?If you like to give up…Read your positive outcome list.Ask yourself:Why do you want to give up?How many times you have given up already?Why don't you want the benefits of your goal setting?Why do you want to follow the mass/ society/ friends instead to get what you want?Is it not worth to rebel against the norm of society? Is there any Hero/ Ideal/ Inventor who hasn't lived his/her life independently…?Become a member of a group which has the same desires as you.Be together with same minded people. Remember you are the average of the people which you are close together…If your family, spouse, friends don't have such goal, they will hinder you from keeping your goals…It is better to be alone than to be together with the wrong people for your goal setting.Never the less you need a personal connection to people to share your emotions, problems… If your personal relationships are not serving your goal, then avoid speaking about your goals…For instance, you can work in a different area than your friends and still keep your friendships …The biggest struggle is to keep a religious or healthy lifestyle when you are living with people together who are living the opposite… I have never seen that this will work out for a religious or healthy lifestyle…My first priorities are a religious and healthy lifestyle… And so I can keep them!It is okay for me to live with the wrong people for a year… And it always ended before that one year! Because it doesn't fit!My Video: How can I keep my long term goals? https://youtu.be/nV5O5MPm-dAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-can-I-keep-my-long-term-goals.mp3