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 1.) When you need a girlfriend Ask yourself why?2.) Do you want to fill this void inside of yourself?3.) Do you want not to be alone?4.) Do you want regular sex with a female?5.) Do you want to feel self-confident because of a girlfriend?6.) Do you want to show other people that you are attractive and smart because you have a beautiful girlfriend? 7.) Who have You to become to deserve a girlfriend…?The best is you want to connect with a woman to share an emotional and sexual connection…You will feel trust and love in such a relationship… You can enjoy your time together, you can share your feelings, …. Regardless of what reason you want a girlfriend, you need to build up:1.) Confidence.2.) To become happy and fulfilled.3.) To love yourself.4.) To overcome your deepest fears.5.) To build up the love that you can share.6.) To build up self-esteem.7.) To be relaxed and funny.8.) To develop your lifestyle. 9.) To become attractive through fitness and clothes.10.) To learn seduction styles.Otherwise, you are not so attractive!The best scenery is that you are always independent. And that you can be together with women whenever you want.The worst scenery is if all the women reject you! Do you think the women fail or you?In this case, you need to prepare yourself to be the best you as I have described before in the list!With a girlfriend, you will have your freedom and also your fears. When you marry then the dream is over… My Video: I need a girlfriend? https://youtu.be/LK1N7IyvE4IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/I-need-a-girlfriend..mp3

 Focus on long-term success, but be willing to make short-term adjustments to get there.For a Cause to be Just, it must be durable, resilient and timeless.Leadership is not a license to do less. Leadership is a responsibility to do more.Pure pragmatism can't imagine a bold future. Pure idealism can't get anything done. It's when the two cooperate that magic happens.Communication is not about saying what we think. Communication is about ensuring others hear what we mean.It is a luxury to put our interests first. It is an honor to put the interests of others before our own.That idea is so fantastic. Stop talking about it and do it.When people are financially invested, they want a return. When people are emotionally invested, they want to contribute.To get the best advice, it's better to talk to a few people personally than it is to talk to a lot of people digitally.When we try to please everyone, we end up pleasing no one…least of all, ourselves.Greatness happens when the person with the wild imagination collaborates with the person who knows how to get things done.The goal is not to be perfect by the end. The goal is to be better today.When we focus on the competition, we become reactive. When we focus on improving ourselves, we become innovative.Leaders take the risk to trust first.A culture is strong when people work with each other, for each other. A culture is weak when people work against each other, for themselves.It's better to endure the discomfort of the truth now than to suffer the discomfort of the lie later.If there are people who care, there is always hope.Loyalty is the desire to defend someone when they are not there to defend themselves.The more we focus on what our competition is doing, the less we're focused on what we're doing.The best leaders are also the best followers. They follow a purpose, cause, or belief bigger than themselves.My Video:  Quotes Simon Sinek https://youtu.be/aecOzH7PZskMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Simon-Sinek.mp3

 In the USA are dying every year, 600,000 people through heart diseases. 50% of the young Adults (18-24 years) have at least one coronary heart disease risk factor, be it too much stress, high blood pressure, unhealthy food…The good news is that 80% of young people can easily prevent heart disease.So earlier we are starting so healthier we will be later. We begin with body-exercises and to avoid, smoking, industrially processed food, junk food, drugs…What food is the best for our heart?1.) Avocado  A.) Has a lot of monounsaturated fatty acids, which helps lower cholesterol levels and may help prevent blood clotting. B.) Contain potassium, which may help control blood pressure, and C.) magnesium, which has been associated with a lower risk of heart disease in men.  2,) AsparagusA.) It contains vitamin K, which can help with blood clotting, C.) Potassium, which helps regulate blood pressure. D.) Has two nutrients that help lower blood cholesterol: soluble fiber and saponins3.) Plain Cacao powder or Cocoa (is heated up Cacao)Put a spoon full of Cacao powder in a glass of hot water and add honey. And drink it at least 3 times per week.A.)Because of the flavonoid, - antioxidants that can help suppress LDL or “bad” cholesterol.B.) Flavonoid keeps the arteries flexible and prevents white blood cells from sticking to the walls of blood vessels.C.) and magnesium, which has been associated with a lower risk of heart disease in men.   4.)  Kale, Watercress, Romain lettuce, spinach, China cabbage, and leafy cabbage.A.) Source of alpha-linolenic acid that improves the heart.B.) It has the inflammation-fighting phytonutrients that can prevent plaque formation on your arteries.C.) Rich in Lutein that protects against atherosclerosis and so prevents heart attack or stroke. D.) Rich in Potassium, Magnesium5.) Lentils is the very best…A.) Thanks to their high fiber, folate, and magnesium content. B.) Decrease the risk of death by heart disease by as much as a whopping 82 percent.  C.) Magnesium helps lower blood pressure, folate lowers the level of a damaging amino acid in the bloodstream.6.) Nuts/Oil-Seeds (not peanuts)A.) Improve cholesterol through unsaturated fats.B.) For instance, Walnut and Flaxseed contain an omega-3 fatty acid that prevents blood clots. C.) If you eat them every day, it will lower your risk for Heart diseases by 29%. 7.) OrangesA.) Rich on Pectin that blocks cholesterol absorption and helps prevent the scarring of heart tissue.B.) Potassium can help keep blood pressure in check.My Video: The best food for your heart. https://youtu.be/bf7jKUO0rO0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-best-food-for-your-heart..mp3

 (From a TED talk, link at the end.)No law or regulation could stop to sell sex!Every regulation and law have made sex-workers unsafe and vulnerable:1.) For exploitation from the police, clients, pimps, and brothels.2.) Homicide through the clients, pimps, and brothels.3.) To take Drugs because of forced prostitution. 4.) Trafficking of immigrants, kids for prostitution and working under slavery.  This means the laws and regulations for prostitution were mainly created to exploit the women who like to have an extra income!!!Even if prostitution is allowed under specific rules… the laws make it unsafe…For instance, they stop a woman with condoms and when she is a not a registered prostitute she is going to jail! Makes that sex safe? Or if a female needs fast money… First, she needs to pay big money for the registration, health check… How can she pay for that? What is if you are a very poor woman from the Philippines, Cambodia, Thailand, Vietnam and you need money for your kids, and one kid needs surgery? If you make prostitution, you are a bad woman and a criminal. If your child dies, you are a bad mother! If you work in an unlawful brothel, you lose your freedom…What is if you can't sleep with everybody and want to have a choice?  As a prostitute, you don't have a choice because it is dangerous to offer your service and it is difficult to choose!  If you can't choose your customer, it is much more dangerous.If the police get you, you get raped in any case, and you will go to jail. For instance, prostitution is forbidden in Thailand, and the police are making a fortune from the prostitutes. They have to pay 6000 THB every month to the police, the bar pays 20000 THB to the police, and the police can rape them… If the prostitutes can't work together with friends or a pimp like in England, they risk getting killed by their clients.In Sweden, it is forbidden to buy sex… Every prostitute like to have protection and safety. In Sweden, the Clients are afraid to tell their name… because they don't like to get punished through the law… And again the prostitutes live dangerously… Without knowing anything from their client, the prostitutes can easily be killed. Every law and every regulation leads to exploitation and to a risk for the prostitute. Because of that, New Zealand has decriminalized prostitution…. Still, this is not good enough. A prostitute should have the same rights as any other employee! My Video: Criminalization of Sex-workers doesn't work. https://youtu.be/TSdXTYyOTKEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Criminalization-of-Sex-workers-doesn't-work..mp3

 Denmark is under the 3 top happiest countries since many years… I think we can learn from them, the hygge lifestyle!1.) The concept of hygge is taking action that serves you instead to look for solutions on the internet. Take your downtime seriously and look for relaxation. Choose, instead to distract yourself from yourself.2.) Look for the minimum on furniture and things in your home … that will relax you. And choose Wood because it feels so well and looks cozy… Look at my home everything is out of wood…3.) Get rid of this terrible blue-white light… and look for a light with 2700-3000 Kelvin and also get some red lights… That relax your mind and your eyes. For sure, candlelight is the best… but here in Thailand we like it cool. Sit close to the window with the sunlight coming in … 4.)  Surround yourself with nature… If you live in the city get as much as possible plants for your apartment… That feels good and is good! And it will never harm you even when you sleep.5.) Enjoy hot cacao or cocoa with water and honey… Yes, it is very healthy and feels so good.  6.) Cardamom is a good smelling herb that you can put everywhere… it tastes good and is healthy.7.) Enjoy your time at home and choose the most comfortable cloth… regardless of how that looks… You should feel happy in that cloth…8.) Buy the clothing that feels good on your skin instead to buy designer cloth to look good. Because we want to feel good… 9.) Treat yourself with respect…Serve yourself a good meal on a nice plate and with all kind of decoration… Because you are your best guest. Eat slowly and enjoy.10.) Take cuddling seriously… Cuddle with your partner, kids or pets… Or give yourself a healing… Maybe I am a Danish … Only I don't take Cardamom all the other points are my lifestyle for 35 years… Who wonders? I lived in Bremen and Bremen is close to Denmark… And Bremen is one of the happiest city in Germany. Convinced? My Video: How to enjoy the Danish lifestyle? https://youtu.be/znYQAyavlzwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-enjoy-the-Danish-lifestyle.mp3

 What if I told you that the things you're chasing—  The promotion,  The raise of your salary  A new car,  A perfect body—  are not truly what you're seeking?  They're just drops in the ocean.Do you respect yourself?  Do you love yourself?  Are you happy and grateful for what you have and what you've accomplished?  If not, you're running away from your real problems.Time is the most precious commodity you have.  You can't get a single second back.  Time passes on its own; use it wisely.  Live every second as if it matters.  Do you want to enjoy your time?  That's what matters.  Are you with the right people?  Are you wasting your time on social media?  Where's your love?  Do you love someone?  Are your relationships fulfilling?  If you spend your time with people who don't value it, let them go.  Maybe they're not worth your time.  It's not about how you make your money.  It's about enjoying your work and earning enough to live well.  Ask yourself: What's your purpose in life?  Why are you here?  Deep down, we all want to have a purpose.  We want to do what makes sense for us.  For example, I want to make everything as good as I can, without compromise.  One of my bosses once said, “Work is the most important thing in life because we spend most of our time and energy working to earn money.”  Yet everywhere, I see people working half-heartedly, unmotivated, and often doing poor-quality work.  Another boss said, “You have to learn to do things you can't or don't like to do—and learn to enjoy them. Otherwise, your work suffers.”  For instance, I used to hate answering the phone.  The solution? My supervisors connected their phone lines to mine when they were away.  I learned to manage their calls and take responsibility for the outcomes.  If your work sucks, your life sucks.  Why aren't you trying your best?  Surrender your life to God, not to social media!  In our ashram, we learned to enjoy every task, even cleaning toilets or sorting garbage.  If we can do it, anyone can!  If you can't or don't like to do something, do it for the Lord.  Sacrifice your work and its outcomes for the Lord.  Imagine you're working for the Lord, and He is pleased with what you're doing.  Be proud that you can serve Him!  That's when life makes sense.  We all need a spiritual connection to God. If we don't have one, we should strive for it.  In the end, the most important thing is this:  Your health is your wealth.  A healthy lifestyle with a plant-based diet and daily workouts is key.  Even cycling to work counts.  If you don't work out every day, you'll never build a strong, lasting habit. I've never met anyone who maintained a workout routine without doing it daily.  Avoid industrially processed food and junk food.  My Video:  What Makes Sense? https://youtu.be/Joto-1fIM_QMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/What-Makes-Sense.mp3

 Most of all people don't like to make regular workouts or body exercise. What would be the minimum of body exercise that we do need to keep our body healthy?  After the American Heart Association (AHA), the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM), and other health organizations are the minimum of training per week:A.) 150 minutes of moderate aerobic (or cardio) exercise, or B.) 75 minutes of intense aerobic exercise (or a combo of both), C.)  plus two sessions of total-body strength training.A.) The150 minutes moderate cardio exercise can be a power walk or a bicycle ride where at least your heart is pumping harder for 10 minutes, and you should sweat a little bit.B.) The 75 minutes of intense cardio training should be hard running or swimming.You can make for instance 5 times 30 minutes moderate cardio exercise or 3 times 25 minutes intense cardio training over the week. For sure it is better to exercise every day. If you can't make your body exercise every day, just do it over the weekend. This cardio exercise will make your cardiovascular system much better, and that is good enough.  Even 80% of Americans fail to do this minimum on training.  C.) The two sessions of total-body strength training should be for your major muscle groups (legs, hips, back, abdomen, chest, shoulders, and arms) through a variety of exercises when you do them. It is not important how much time you spend it is important that you build up your muscles. And you don't need to become a Tarzan or Arnold Schwarzenegger.If you keep this training (A or B + C) for your life you will gain much better health… My Video: What's the Least Amount of Body-Exercise? https://youtu.be/FSRrQMI9GukMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-the-Least-Amount-of-Body-Exercise.mp3

 Try to be the best you that you can be when you date… Just to be yourself will not work so good. 1.) Before you go dating ask Yourself: What is your intention when you date somebody? Do you want just to impress that person or to have sex, or to have fun or to go dancing? With an intention, you ground yourself … instead to be confused…Don't put yourself under pressure… Just to have fun is for the beginning enough instead to expect too much. 2.) Exercise your body a lot to relax before you date… Or meditate … so that you build up more self-esteem… So happier you are so easier is dating!  3.) If you are overconfident then maybe you look like an arrogant Ass-@***…. Make jokes about yourself, tell funny stories about how you have failed. That will break the ice!4.) If you have too less confidence… Go in the morning and before dating in front of a mirror, and imagine to see in the mirror your darling… Close your eyes and let tell your darling what she/he loves from you for 2-3 minutes. Open your eyes and look at how you do have changed!5.) Buy dating Mp3 hypnosis from Dr. Steve G. Jones and hear it when you go sleeping… Or I can make also a specific Dating Mp3 for you, (I am a certified Hypnotist by Dr. Steve G. Jones). Because in Hypnosis You can change your mind very easy and effective!6.) Present the best version of yourself physically (as well as emotionally).Look what fashion your dating mate likes and match up. Your cloth should be iron and clean, your hairs (and beard) well trimmed and fashionable …  7.) Keep it positive—and yes, keep it light. Fun and Small talk are for the first date the best… Don't become seriously, - both of you want to be entertained… Don't tell your problems… 8.) Have an interest in that person… instead to try to impress (that is the worst)… Ask genuine questions. Because everybody loves to tell something about themselves. And then you follow up… 9.) Look what you want. If you can't stand that person keep it short and go. If that person has some behavior that you dislike… common give it a chance. Don't judge too early.10.) Have some strategies to break the ice and to have fun… If you start with a game or have some funny question, connecting is much easier. And it gives you more confidence… This doesn't mean that you have to apply them, … 11.) Don't be cool, be vulnerable. Show your interest, show that you love that person instead to hold back… Imagine you are out with an over cool guy and the next night you are out with a guy who shows how he loves you. Which guy you will choose? Don't overdo it… text your new darling but not every minute!12. Be persistent (but don't cross into being pushy).If you just had an amazing time with someone and don't want it to end, tell the person how much you enjoyed the date and offer up a nightcap or second date. If the other person politely declines, leave it there for the night—if you try too aggressively to get someone home with you or to go out with you again, it's a massive turn-off, and you'll blow any future potential. Instead, just thank them for the evening. Seeing your graceful reaction might even turn things around after the other person has a few days to think. For a man, it is important that you make the first step for an intimate relationship and don't ask for permission!!! If she likes it, she will show it to you… If not, then say sorry and let it… My Video: New Dating Strategies that will work! https://youtu.be/mBLThk6JpSoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/New-Dating-Strategies-that-will-work.mp3

 Feel the fear and:  Do it!  1. Fear will never go away as long as I continue to grow.  2. The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out and do it.  3. The only way to feel better about myself is to go out and do it.  4. Not only am I going to experience fear whenever I'm in unfamiliar territory, but so is everyone else.  5. Pushing through fear is less frightening than living with the underlying fear that comes from a feeling of helplessness.  At the heart of every fear is the underlying belief that “I can't handle it." This is why we hesitate, procrastinate, or avoid stepping outside our comfort zones. But the good news is, once we recognize this narrative, we can actively choose to transform it into "I can handle it” and trust that we can handle the opportunities coming our way.  Here are some of my favorite strategies for this, which I've been experimenting with and enjoying:  - **Remember that the only difference between fear and excitement is a smile.** Physiologically, fear and excitement are actually very similar. I've found that transforming fear into excitement is easier than trying to completely neutralize the feeling. Maybe try finding the exciting angle of this opportunity, opening up your body language, taking a deep belly breath—and maybe even cracking a smile.  - **Reframing with a Growth Mindset.** Instead of seeing challenges as threats, view them as opportunities for growth. Meaningful growth only happens outside our comfort zone, so every uncomfortable experience is a gift. Embrace this deliberate discomfort.  When we avoid fear, it piles up, limiting our freedom and keeping us stuck in the same small space. But when we challenge it and take another small step toward clearing our fears, we gradually create a wider clearing—a space where we feel confident, capable, and free to pursue what we truly want.  **Reflection Questions:**  - What is something outside your comfort zone that you want to do but have been avoiding?  - What might be the doubt that has been holding you back?  - What is one small step you can take today toward breaking through it?  Think of three times in the past where you proved to yourself that you could handle a challenge you were previously intimidated by.  **How can you use this ‘Bank of Evidence' to rise to future opportunities?**  It's not about eliminating fear entirely, but rather showing ourselves over and over again that we can, in fact, handle it.  And slowly but surely, each time we face our fears, we prove to ourselves that we are stronger, braver, and more capable than we once might have thought.  My Video:  How to Deal with Fear? https://youtu.be/U3XACPKtn74My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-Deal-with-Fear.mp3

 In the spiritual scene, people think that we can break the ego… And if we have broken the ego, we get enlightenment… The Psychologists don't think that it is possible to break the ego permanently and they can prove that. What is the ego?In the spiritual/religious scene, we define the ego as the root of all sorrow or as the collection of our negative feelings, thoughts, and habits. Actually, this is not true!Our ego is the collection of all of our habits, feelings, and thoughts.Everything that we have learned is part of our ego, be it our skills, habits, bad temper, and even our diseases. When we had been a baby, we had inside of us the divine and our animal mind that is part of the ego. We grew up and lost the connection to the divine, and our ego was formed through our environment, parents, and so on. Actually, our ego helps us to survive. For that reason, the Psychologists are not against the ego.Through spiritual, religious contemplation, we increase the divine inside of us. So that we get reconnected to the divine and can feel the divine as love, or bliss or calmness of the mind or as a Satori or Samadhi. Many of the holy saints or gurus are teaching us that we have to get rid totally of our ego to become divine, egoless, or enlightenment. And these gurus proclaim that they are egoless.  The history tells us rather more that these so divine gurus have cheated us… We all lose our ego during our sleep. And when we wake up, our ego is back. After we experience a Samadhi or Satori, we are again in our ego. We can only lose our ego for a specific time and never permanently. If we break our ego permanently we will die… Because our ego is so intervened in our body and mind. We can't live without our ego. The great Guru Ramakrishna said we can't break our ego, we can only make our ego a servant of God or of the people… Instead, to build up more and more our selfish Ego, we can become step by step a servant of God. And this part is following the Christian, Sufis, Yogis, and Buddhists. And it starts that we try our best to serve our family, coworkers, clients, customer, God… If we combine it with spiritual and religious contemplation, we connect with God and experience the divine….  My Video: How to break the ego? https://youtu.be/Bp-c1ZkcGWkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-break-the-ego.mp3

 After 2050, more people will die from infection/inflammation than from cancer.The reasons are that through the antibiotic in the food, the bacteria become more and more resistant to the antibiotic, and the overuse of disinfection.The food industry is feeding our animals with an antibiotic since over 50years.Because through antibiotic the animals grow faster and are protected against diseases. In the meantime, a bacteria (Superbug), has developed that can kill everybody and is resistant to the antibiotic or any other common disinfection. If we are under intense stress or our immune system is weak the Superbug has the chance to grow in our body and to kill us!! In the future, antibiotic will not work anymore because we can't increase the doses of antibiotic anymore and the bacteria become resistant to the antibiotic.    For instance, in Germany dying 14,000 People through a Superbug infection which they got in a hospital… Why? The hospitals grow the Superbug like crazy through the overuse of disinfection and antibiotic. The disinfection and antibiotics kill healthy bacteria and give room for the Superbug.And this also comes true for shrimps farms in Asia….Instead to use clean, purified water they put an antibiotic in the water of the shrimps.  In Canada, they have done a survive for the Superbug in shrimps. Even the Canadian government thought it is enough to check for an antibiotic in our food. It is not allowed in Canada to sell food with an antibiotic. The survive checked for the 1.) Superbug,2.) for bacteria that produce ESBL strains to neutralize antibiotic, and3.) for bacteria that are multi-resistance of a different antibiotic.The results have been shocking!The Sciences bought from the supermarket 50 different packages of frozen shrimps mainly from Asia. And then they tested the packages for bacteria. The results:1.) 17% of the packages contained the Superbug even one product was from an organic farm or was a high certified product. 2.) 33% of the boxes contained bacteria that produce ESBL strains to neutralize antibiotic.3.) 88% of the packages contained bacteria that are multi-resistance of a different antibiotic.What is if you think that you don't care because you cook the shrimps?And now comes the problem…When you prepare the shrimps, the Superbugs are all over the place in the kitchen and maybe also on your body and the bodies of your family…. The Superbug can survive for months on the floor or on the spice containers or on the kitchen cabinet….What is if even in your chicken, poultry, pork, seafood, or beef are the Superbug? Imagine you buy seafood, you cut it, and cut the salad with this knife… Then you can have the Superbug in your salad and finally in your gut!  What is if you eat probiotic as fermented vegetables with this salad? Then the probiotic can kill the Superbug! And this I proof again and again that you have to eat probiotic every day!!!!!!My Video: How the antibiotic can kill us?! https://youtu.be/x-fLN8HqUGo My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-the-antibiotic-can-kill-us.mp3

 When we are wounded, betrayed, or subjected to injustice...We gave our trust, kindness, and our heart, only to have it trampled by those who never deserved it.Life is life, and these things happen to everyone...Should we react or retaliate? It depends on the situation, and often, we can't do so...Still, we can learn to let go.We carry many suppressed emotions and traumas within us...These suppressed emotions and traumas are often triggered or brought to the surface by the poor behavior of others.Releasing these suppressed emotions is healthy and necessary.Remember, no one can hurt us unless we give them permission to do so.Quote: Gandhi.On the other hand, there is justice, which operates through God or Karma...God's justice works silently, like the slow pull of the tide, addressing wrongdoers through karma, consequences, and balance—without requiring anger or intervention.Karma is real, patient, and relentless. It always catches up with those who harm others, as their actions are etched into the fabric of their existence.Consequences of Harmful ActionsPeople who harm others eventually lose what they once took for granted. They make mistakes and crumble under the weight of their own actions as time reveals their deceit and cruelty.The universe stops rewarding those who take without giving, causing them to lose the illusion of control and realize that their struggles are the result of their choices catching up to them.Personal Growth and Moving ForwardTrue justice is about restoration and balance, allowing life to move in its natural rhythm. It reminds us that every action carries weight and that every choice has a cost.The strongest form of revenge is choosing growth over vengeance. Refuse to let others' actions define you, and step forward instead of looking backward.My Video: Dealing with Those Who Have Hurt You https://youtu.be/6zN4yqpxMWQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Dealing-with-Those-Who-Have-Hurt-You.mp3

 What is better the normal relationships or Long-Distance Relationships?Both relationships have their positives and negatives… There is no holy grail!When I was in a long-distance relationship, I wanted more time for myself…And I had to build up my happiness by myself and became much more independent. Who cannot be alone can't be together… And this is so crucial to understand… Most couples are together because they can't live alone… What kind of relationship is that? This is not love…This is slavery.First, become your own master before you can surrender in love to somebody else.Only two independent people can love each other!!!If You are all the time together with your partner, how can you appreciate your partner?In the marketing, we lean scarcity sells the best… And so is it also with your darling… Who doesn't know separation doesn't understand love… (Attar)In our separation from our darling:We appreciate our time to be together much much more!We build up more love because we long each other to see us again… We gain more trust and faith in our partner because we don't know what our partner is doing.When we communicate over far distance, we learn intuitively what our partner needs, and this is so priceless… And we learn when to communicate… For instance: In my relationships, we had so many golden moments when we are phoning precisely to the right time… I learned to feel from the distance in which mood my darling was and when to call. My Video: What is good on Long-Distance Relationships? https://youtu.be/ciWKpGAPRKAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-good-on-Long-Distance-Relationships.mp3

 Dr. Bruce Lipton has proved and explained how we can heal our self with our mind.What we are?A battery with 50Trillions cells.We are not an entity; we are a community of 50Trillions cells.Every cell is communicating via the energy or via the vibration.Every cell is intelligent. The cells are in a community, they give up their personal intelligence and respond to the central voice… If the central voice wants to die the cells will die.The central voice is the mind.The mind is influenced by the internal and external environment.The brain perceives the signals from the internal and external environment and interpret these signals and send the information to the cells to control the behavior and genetics.Explanation of the placebo effect:You have a positive thought that something can heal you, even you don't know it (for instance sugar pill); if you believe in it, then it can heal yourself.It is proved that 1/3 of all healing occurs through the placebo effect or through that thought.What is if you have negative thinking that you can't be healed? This is the nocebo effect.As positive thinking/feelings/belief can heal you, negative thinking/feelings can kill you!!!If the doctor gives you the belief that you will die this belief will kill you!What is if we suppress our negative feelings and thoughts?Then these suppressed negative feelings and thoughts will harm our body! The solution is to release our negativity so that the positivity comes by itself! If we practice “Positive thinking”, then we suppress our negativity, and that will harm our body!Some sects of the Baptists contemplate on God to go in Ecstasy. And when they are in Ecstasy, even deadly Rattlesnakes can bite them without harming them.Or some drink Strychnine in Toxic doses and when they in that state of belief the toxic doesn't affect them.Even we would not have so many evidence in the past that Faith heals… at least the Baptists proof that…. Instead, we still believe that Mosquitoes can make us ill… What you believe you will harvest and that proves the Quantum Physics. Next week I will write more…If we had stronger beliefs, we would be much stronger.In 1961, Terry Jo Duperrault, an 11year old girl was found alone on the Ocean in a small broken white raft. She over lived the family massacre and were drifting 4 days without water or food, far away from the Bahamas. She prayed to God and trusted in God… She is still alive!  Don't be limited through your beliefs. Also, we can use the energy of the cell for healing. With Qigong, acupuncture, acupressure we lead the energy through our body in a certain way to heal the body!My Video: Quantum physics proves that faith heals https://youtu.be/MiECabMy9M0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Quantum-physics-proves-that-faith-heals.mp3

 What if the beliefs you've held close, the very things that gave you purpose, suddenly seemed like strangers?How do you hold on to meaning when it feels like it's slipping through your fingers?These were the questions that weighed down the wealthy, famous writer Tolstoy.Even though he had a loving family and children…Nothing was missing to enjoy his life…Yet, he was consumed by an inner emptiness.In his 50s, he faced an existential crisis…What is my life's purpose?What is all of this for?Why am I here?Why should I continue living if everything I love and cherish will ultimately fade away?Tolstoy's own meaning of life—his fame and success—felt like an illusion to him.Because it is so…For a religious seeker, fame, success, money, and family are just illusions.He wanted to find something that would last and give him a reason to keep going.For every religious person, worldly life is meaningless and often disgusting.In his autobiography, Confession, his search for meaning brought him to the verge of suicide.Personal satisfaction becomes a hollow pursuit; it doesn't give us meaning.In the end, he discovered a truth that was as simple as it was profound…But meaningless for religious people!Tolstoy realized that meaning could not be found in grand pursuits or intellectual answers but in acts of humility, connecting with others, and accepting life as it is.Only by merging myself with the whole of humanity could I find my life's purpose!Life has no meaning, nor is it meaningless. (Quote Bhagwan or Osho.)Tolstoy failed. Without a spiritual connection to God—found through contemplation—life has no meaning.You have to look beyond your physical body, emotions, and thoughts.“I can't die; I am energy.” These were the last words of Wilhelm Einstein.I don't want to brag, but I was clinically dead three times or had three near-death experiences.I read everything I could find about near-death experiences… Guess what? What I experienced is normal, and what all religions say about death is a big lie to exploit people.You can never die! There is no hell, no paradise, no Moksha, and no Nirvana. But there is God!You have never felt such unlimited freedom as many feel when leaving their bodies.God wanted me to come back into my body—my cage—and so I did.If you surrender your life to God, your life will make sense to you!Instead of running like a hungry dog after worldly pleasures! (Quote Attar, the greatest Sufi.)When my child died, my life fell apart…My only focus in life became my spiritual journey, and God came to me… God became my purpose.I spent over ten years in meditation retreats because life doesn't make sense without surrendering to God.We have the choice: to be slaves to our egos or to God.When religions lost their grip on people, they began searching for purpose or meaning in their lives—or to make a difference in the world.How disgusting is this sentence? I call this megalomania!How does one become humble by serving the Lord?Do it for God!The meaning of life or purpose is for irreligious people.  My Video:  Tolstoy's Surprising Solution to the Meaning of Life https://youtu.be/FpsQNNtXqvsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Tolstoy's-Surprising-Solution-to-the-Meaning-of-Life.mp3

 Today, in the past and in the future this formula works/worked and will work…They present somebody who could never find the solution/recipe/healing … And then they sell some awkward solution that never will help…Don't buy in such Merry Tales…These Merry Tales are sold from all Religions in the world (paradise/hell/enlightenment, moksha, never get reborn). Today the same Merry Tales are sold from about 50% of the Advertisement on the internet.  How would it be if you believe in yourself, in your capabilities, instead to trust any internet advertisement?I can tell you stories from me where I was incurable ill and healed them all by myself. Because I believe that every disease is curable with the help of God … And I never wish that you will be in such worse situations I already was …For instance, through an accident my back was incurable. Also, I had strong scoliosis. I always said to these awful doctors and even to the best orthopedic doctors… You are wrong! I did the opposite what they have recommended to me.And today my back is straight and better than before. Why? Because I did the opposite what the doctors were telling me!!!Question: Do you still believe in these Titles or positions? You need just to be an American President then everything is true?! Or what? The people getting the positions or titles to exploit better people. I believe in God and never believe in anything until I have tried it out!!!For me is God real, so real like you!Before, I was an atheist who got never baptized in any Religion… I don't need to be baptized, or I don't need any Religion, to be religious…. For what? Religions want to sell their dreams to become rich.  And do you think that any sold strategy of the internet had helped me…? For sure not!! Because all of these B.S. strategies offered on the internet to cure your back has only one idea to make money… Trust yourself, trust God and never trust anybody who makes a living with:I have an easy strategy with miracles cure…With my strategy, everybody is getting richI always win on the stock market…There will rarely be any strategy that is easy to implement and gives you all that you want!You don't get anything for free… only this block… My Video: Selling Dreams and delivering B.S. https://youtu.be/eYzylcZJZlIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Selling-Dreams-and-delivering-B.S..mp3

 How to find out who is lying?There exist sciences proved evident how to spot a liar. First, we should find out:Why people lie? Or why do we lie?Be honest! If we would tell everything our sweetheart,…Think this over what will happen?In a relationship should we keep a secret so that our partner doesn't get hurt? Or should we tell the truth immediately even it breaks the person?  We lie to protect our friends and us from the truth.We are against lying and covertly for it, and that starts with our childhood.The truth hurts.And the truth always finds his way, regardless of how good we cover it up.We can only postpone the truth and never suppress it all the time.In the meantime, we win time. And that is good so.Lying is an attempt to bridge our fantasias how we wish to be or what we really like…In average we lie 10 to 200 times/dayWhen strangers meet each other, they lie 3 times in the first 10 minutes1.) We lie more to strangers than to coworker.2.) Extroverts lie more than introverts.3.) Men lie 8times more to themselves than to other people.4.) Women lie more to protect other people.5.) Married couples lie 10% in every underlying action why they do it.What is if we deceive or to cheat a person to profit from that?.The Corporations in the USA cheat nearly 1 Trillion Dollar per year. This is huge and even better than the organized crime!How to cheat and deceive?Find out what the people want and are hungry for…And then sell dreams and deliver B.S. like the Motivation speaker, Stock market trader. Because everybody is willing to give you something whatever they are hungry for…When you don't like to be deceived look for what you are hungry for…And recognize these Cheaters with their:1.) Easy to get rich-formula, 2.) to get healthy, 3.) to lose weight, 4.) to become attractive… 5.) to become successful.Most of all Motivation speaker, Marketing experts use our hungriness to cheat us.If we want to spot a lie, we need the reason why that person will lie. 1.) The person likes to distance himself from that subject he/she lies about.2.) We have to communicate with that person to find out if he/she is lying. 3.) An honest person is likely cooperative, open, helpful to get to the truth, provide details.  4.) A dishonest person is withdrawn, looking down, lower their voice, pause.5.) If you ask a deceptive guy to tell their story… he/she brings too many details which nobody will care for (irrelevant), and he/she illogically tells their story. 6.) Then ask them to tell their story backward… they can't. 7.) Or the liar gets fast furious about the topic, and when you change the subject, the anger disappears immediately. If you come back to the issue again anger… He doesn't want to speak or to be confronted with that problem because he has to lie. We need evidence!1.) Ask uncomfortable questions, be curious, look for contradiction,  2.) confront the person, 3.) look at how he/she reacts, 4.) are his/her emotions real and fitting to the situation? Still, remain polite and friendly; otherwise, the liar recognizes your intention.Body language signals of lying.1.) When they lie, the muscles of their upper body contracts.2.) Or a fake smile it is a reduced smile with the lips and no smiling with the eyes… 3.) Shrug their shoulders, head shakes.4.) Expression of contempt, cover up their anger.5.) One lip-corner pulls up and turns in asynchronous expression.6.) Shift their blink rate.7.) Point their feeds toward an exit.8.) They will put objects between themselves and the other person to protect them9.) They alter the vocal tone to much lower 10.) They like to speak faster and be nervous. My Video: How to spot lies? https://youtu.be/k2Ycv0ea1nAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-spot-lies.mp3

 As a man, I describe that men are different… And women misinterpret us…  1.)  A man is rather more mind orientated and a women more heart orientated…   Problem-solving makes him feel good! Logic makes him feel good! Being mind-oriented makes him want to fix. It's just how he relates to the world.A man can not fix the emotions of his spouse. The emotions of females are even scary for men.  Solution: feel your emotions, let your feelings come and go; without disturbing your partner with your feelings. Nobody can understand with the mind emotions nor can you explain why you have at this moment this feeling… In any case who cares. Feel your emotions and let them go. Many men may not understand the strong emotional reaction of their spouse. Still, he wants to help. To the same time, he can not help… That makes him feel overwhelmed…Women should not explain why they feel so, just say it is enough if you are close to me and be silent…   until the emotions are over. 2.) Men pull away from women in a close relationship because they like to be independent and autonomous. They need their space to define themselves. Women pull away because they feel negative emotions, got hurt….  And when the man pulls away, they think that they have done something wrong… The Females needs intimacy, and if the man pulls away they feel hurt… And they can't understand that men don't need so much intimacy … Let the man separates for a while so that he can recover and feel love again… Many men hate when women always act like a sling plant… they need their space!3.) Men like to provide to make women happy …And he likes to give without to get pressed or to fulfill her desires. And the women like to organize and don't want to give the room for free giving … For instance, my father liked to give as a surprise something, and my mother wanted rather more that he is delivering exactly what she wants…Give more space to the man; otherwise, he doesn't like to be the provider anymore or to function for his spouse! Remember, a man feels competent by doing. A woman feels loved by being taken care of.If you want your relationship run smoother, give up some control and let a man start doing things for you. Everyone will be much happier as a result.My Video: How to deal with men in relationships? https://youtu.be/ew6LxVTLJp0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-deal-with-men-in-relationships.mp3

 No one can be good for long if goodness is not in demand.Don't be afraid of death so much as an inadequate life.Because things are the way they are, things will not stay the way they are.Grub first, then ethics.He who laughs has not yet heard the bad news.War is like love; it always finds a way.People remain what they are even if their faces fall apart.Why be a man when you can be a success?Everyone chases after happiness, not noticing that happiness is right at their heels.What's breaking into a bank compared with founding a bank?The law was made for one thing alone, for the exploitation of those who don't understand it, or are prevented by naked misery from obeying it.Whenever there are great virtues, it's a sure sign something's wrong.Intelligence is not to make no mistakes, but quickly to see how to make them good.To live means to finesse the processes to which one is subjugated.From the cradle to the coffin underwear comes first.People are too durable, that's their main trouble. They can do too much to themselves, they last too long.Poverty makes you wise but it's a curse.Poverty makes you sad as well as wise.Unhappy the land that is in need of heroes.The finest plans have always been spoiled by the littleness of them that should carry them out. Even emperors can't do it all by themselves.There are many elements to a campaign. Leadership is number one. Everything else is number two.The world of knowledge takes a crazy turn when teachers themselves are taught to learn.Don't tell me peace has broken out.

 Imagine you are a baby and your mother force you not to cry.Do you think that this will work?Imagine you do positive thinking and force yourself to be positive… Do you think that this will work? And both is the same!Express your negative emotions, don't suppress them! The Feelings are creating thoughts. It is only a one-way road, science proofed! Thoughts can't create emotions!There exist no great Actor or Singer who doesn't express their feelings on the stage totally!What is then bad on emotions? People who never have studied psychology have created positive thinking… The side effects of positive thinking are devastating diseases… and that is good for the doctors…  And always, in the end, it proves that Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich had been right…We have to remove our negative suppressed feelings and traumas to change ourselves. Otherwise our traumas, suppressed feelings will sabotage our success or outcome…What is inside is outside, every obstacle that we face outside is created through our psychology and that have proved at least Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich … And there is no way around it… Freud had used Hypnosis, and still, it is not good enough? The today Hypnosis is done with positive thinking and NLP… And so the Hypnosis is not efficient anymore! How stupid because the Positive thinkers have done so!!!! For instance, if I make a Hypnosis Mp3 and hear it every night before I sleep for at least 30 days. I can change a lot with releasing of my negative suppressed feelings… even I am not aware of it!… And then I attract the things that I need without forcing anything… Life is simple, or we make it difficult! For instance, I was in the Male Menopause and had huge sexual problems; I didn't like to have sex… What to do? Hypnosis. Here is a part of my Hypnosis script (I am a certified Hypnotist)Relax and relax more and more.Remember and feel that you have failed in the bed. Remember these devastating moments and let them go.You have 1 minute time.Remember and feel your fears of being together with an unknown woman in the bed… And let them go.You have 1 minute.Think of any moralities that prevent you from having sex with any women. And let them go.You have 1 minute.Forget all of your bad experience in the bed together with a woman.Relax and relax more. Notice how relaxed you are right now.Remember the beautiful moments when you had sex with so different women, and you had no problem. Remember for 2 minutes those moments.……It goes on and on, and I address later all of my sexual problems…Life is simple or we make it difficult!I hope this will help You!!! My Video: You can't force it! https://youtu.be/1zDVtmTDyMwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-can't-force-it.mp3

 When you do not like your work, make two lists. One list should be of what you like about your work, and the other list should be what you do not want. Also, think about what you can afford while working at this job. Choose one or two tasks you do not want and focus on how to make them good and fun in the next months. Check the reason why you do not like these tasks. If your idea or attitude is wrong, then change them. Maybe you see these tasks from a mistaken viewpoint. Ask friends to help you to improve your opinion about these tasks to become happy through these tasks. Check your mindset about these tasks until you are happy and fulfilled through these tasks, and you have accomplished your goal. See the good in everything, or do you prefer to suffer? One boss said to me, ‘What you cannot or do not like, you have to do this to become better.' He said, ‘I know you have problems with phoning that you'll need to call me about, so I give you my extension when I am not at my desk.'  Unfortunately, I had two chiefs, and the other manager made the same. So then I had to make for them the phone calls and even had to decide for them. I learned a lot.We have our happiness in our hands!If we have boring work to do, we can do a meditation out of them or just relax. Stressful jobs are challenging us to remain relaxed and focused.We can solve problems with colleagues if we change the way we talk to and approach them. There are many books for dealing with difficult people. We can learn so much and even have fun trying out the different strategies to deal with difficult people.Stupid people cultivate their weakness, sorrow, and ego, while wise people eliminate their weakness, pain, and ego.Even if I am qualified, I should be able to make any type of work without any complaints. Life shows us again and again how fast we can slip down and have to start again with a simple task to make money.I remember my time at the ashram. Nobody liked to wash the dishes after midnight. Imagine pots and dishes from over twenty thousand people. Nevertheless, we always had a group of people for this task. One time, it had been three professors, one doctor, and me. The group chose me as the supervisor; this meant I had more to do than the others did. Imagine a room, 300 square foot, filled with pots and dishes. We did this chore without hesitation or complaint. For everyone, it was just very natural to do this chore.My Video: How to make your work fun? https://youtu.be/CzYpspYnM3IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-make-your-work-fun.mp3

 Learning vs. Acquisition: What Matters More? 1. Learning (Conscious Knowledge):Rules, grammar, and vocabulary studied deliberately.Example: Memorizing verb conjugations from a textbook.2. Acquisition (Subconscious Knowledge):Internalized language you use without thinking (like your native tongue).Example: Speaking fluently in conversations.Science says: Focus on acquisition—it's how we naturally master languages.How Acquisition WorksComes from understanding messages in context.Requires comprehensible input (language slightly above your level but mostly understandable).Why Apps Often Fail?Most apps teach through:Repetition without real-world application.Translation-based drills (inefficient).Better alternatives:Online teachers who speak only the target language (no translation).Tools like Pimsleur that prompt direct responses in the language.The Baby Method: Learn Like a Native SpeakerChildren acquire language by:Listening to slow, clear speech paired with visual context (e.g., pointing to an apple while saying "apple").Focusing on meaning—not grammar rules.Absorbing stories and real-world interactions.Key Insight:Grammar is acquired subconsciously through exposure, not memorization.Example: You learned English grammar by reading books, not studying textbooks.Grammar: Stop "Learning" ItProblem: Explicit grammar study doesn't lead to fluency.Students forget rules when speaking.Mistakes persist because the brain prioritizes meaning over correctness.Solution:Get comprehensible input (95% understandable content).Grammar sticks automatically when you focus on messages, not rules.Vocabulary: Ditch FlashcardsWords are acquired:Incidentally: Through reading/listening to engaging content.Incrementally: By inferring meaning from context.Example:Read a sentence with 1–2 unknown words.Guess the meaning from context or ask for clarification.Result: Vocabulary enters your subconscious effortlessly.Actionable Steps to FluencyPrioritize input over output: Listen/read before speaking.Choose compelling content (interesting podcasts, books, shows).Seek "i+1" input (slightly challenging but mostly comprehensible).Avoid translation—think directly in the target language.Embrace mistakes—they're part of acquisition.Key TakeawaysAcquisition > Learning: Fluency comes from understanding, not memorization.Babies are the model: Focus on meaning, not rules.Input matters most: Engage with content you mostly understand.Patience pays off: Grammar and vocabulary emerge naturally.Final Tip: Spend 80% of your time on comprehensible input (reading/listening) and 20% on speaking/writing.Why This WorksBacked by Stephen Krashen's Input Hypothesis (language acquisition theory).Mimics how humans naturally learn first languages.Proven by polyglots and immersion-based programs.My Video: How to REALLY Learn Languages https://youtu.be/R_w4YfMkCPgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-REALLY-Learn-Languages.mp3

 We want love, and we go to the wrong people and suffer. Or we choose the wrong moment and get a slap in our face…. Why do we act in such a stupid way? I have seen many times, when I was not open for a new love story I became the target of girls… And the same I have done by myself… So cooler I am so more attractive? Seems so? Maybe we need this slap in our face? If we run behind women/men, they run away, because they recognize our intention… If we need their love, how can these people produce this love?On the other hand, we want much more than love… our body wants sex, our emotions intimacy…  If we need love, we should give us first love…. If we love ourselves, we are attractive to the others… The same story is when we are attracted to people, who don't care for us. - We try to get attention from them or even to make many things for them to be attractive by them. It is different if we are desperate and people like to help us because they have compassion for us. Maybe, quite a lot of people loves/likes us, and we ignore them even they are doing a lot for us… Why are they not attractive to us? Why do we run after people to get rejected who don't care for us…? Life is too short to waste a single second with anyone who doesn't appreciate or value us. The second best strategy that brings us great suffering is that we want everybody loves us.Maybe this is still alive from our babyhood… A healthy baby knows already to which people it should go to get love and attention, the other people it will omit. Different people like different people, it is impossible to be loved by everybody. My previous Guru Bhagwan said, for every friend I make, I get a new enemy - after the law of polarity. The wisdom of Buddha is, to be friendly and kind to everybody without having any relationship.  Because a relationship is sorrow (Buddha). If we selflessly love and serve everybody, we are beyond worldly matters… and even we get beaten up, we create out of every arrow a bunch of roses (Buddha). When we get a slap in our right side of our face, we should turn our face and beg for the next slap on our left side face… (Jesus). Great quotes by the Religions to exploit the people!!! Life is different!First, Love yourself.  You are the most import person in your life!My Video: Why suffer when We want love? https://youtu.be/RmnOlz6e7UAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-suffer-when-We-want-love.mp3

 Why is it so important to be prepared and to live in the here and now? And this is even true for an army….“No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength"  Quote from the greatest Army strategist: Graf Moltke. If we are not prepared for new situations, we can fail. For instance an examination, a speech over an unknown subject for an auditorium… When we are well prepared to face that situation, we often fail. Because we want to apply all that we have prepared for.  Instead to look at what is needed to do. For instance, if we listen to discussions, we realize that very often the people do not listen but speak… and the results are lousy… We should act according to the situation and not as we want… And this is true for every area of our life.This means that we are well prepared, and when we in the situation, we forget every plan and do what the best is. The situation is bigger than our preparation because there are so many components that we can't calculate. And this is the meaning of the quote “No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength" from the genie Graf Moltke. Without preparation, we can't get the outcome. It is too time-consuming to speak about details in a subject, where the people have too less knowledge. Everybody should be prepared, or we can't go into details.It looks like common sense and common sense is not common practice.  My Video: Preparation is a must but adapt to the situation. https://youtu.be/CW2n5_FRSm4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Preparation-is-a-must-but-adapt-to-the-situation..mp3

 If you can define love, then it is not love at all.My childhood was hell—no love at all.After my second near-death experience, I unconsciously sought to find love.I began with self-help groups, then explored bioenergetics, encounter groups, Primel, Tantra I and II, meditation, and Bhakti Yoga. I even spent 12 years in meditation retreats.Shouldn't I be an expert on love by now?Yet, to this day, I cannot define love.But I want to help you find love!If you release all your suppressed negative emotions through bioenergetics, encounter groups, or similar practices, love will naturally arise within you.This happens because your heart opens.In this state, it becomes easy to fall in love with someone.The reality is, you need a projection for your love.In the Quran, it is said that because we are weak, God gives us someone to love so that our hearts may open.However, it is not necessary to share your love with another person.An example:After three years of meditation retreats, I attended a concert by Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan. I experienced such intense heart pain that I thought I would die—I had never felt anything like it before.Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan opened my heart chakra.In that moment, I could only experience love. Everything and everyone became indescribably beautiful. That was real love, though I didn't feel it in the usual way—I was able to embrace everyone with love.We call this a Samadhi experience.No worldly love was ever enough for me.Love is God, but God is more than love.Another example:I was once a staunch atheist. I was never baptized into any religion, and I never will be.My first experience of God came during a deep Tantric love relationship.It was a total surrender to love by both of us.It was both a nightmare and a paradise.The love burned away our egos, and that was excruciatingly painful.The relationship ended after 11 weeks.I was chosen by God.But I thought, “Who cares? I'll never change my attitude because I'm an atheist.”Yet, no one has free will, and God wanted me, even though I didn't want God.I was defeated by God.I was humiliated by God.Can you not see the connection between love and God?I once had a desire to perform a kora (circumambulation) around Mount Kailash, the holiest place for Tibetans and Hindus.When I began the trek toward Kailash, I was overwhelmed with love for the Lord, crying for the Lord.Everyone in our group had a profound spiritual experience while trying to touch Kailash.What can you do?Attend an African Christian worship service led by a healer.Miracles will happen.Sing and dance with all your heart for the Lord—Jesus.Jesus will come because He must.This happened to me, and I am not a Christian.When Jesus comes to you, you experience so much more than love.My Video:  Is worldly love true love? https://youtu.be/jkGdY77FE3gMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Is-worldly-love-true-love.mp3

 Or what makes diseases disappear?As a logical thinking person I have learned before I can solve any problem I need to know: 1.) The “Why?”  2.) Or what has caused that problem?Makes sense?! For Western Medicine, this approach is not true!!!!Western Medicine is fighting the symptoms instead to find out the reason for those diseases.What you fight you will empower!Today we know that all the Cancer treatments are less successful than no treatment and not to say the patient that he has cancer.If you convince a healthy person that he is terminal ill, then the likelihood that this person will die soon is nearly 100%... That have tried out already the Greeks in ancient's time. The emperor said to the captured soldiers, within a half year we will give you poison so that you die… Within one week every soldier was dead even without providing any poison. The emperor has done this experiment 3 times, and it always worked to 100%.  Fear is the best poison!!!! If you address the causes of the diseases, then you heal the diseases…If you find out for instance through shift work, you got ill…(Shift work is one of the worst that you can do to your body….)Change the work to regular work, and you get cured.The problem is to find the causes of diseases, and that is many times very difficult!And even it is mostly a combination for instance of an unhealthy Lifestyle and suppressed negative feelings.Chronicle diseases are caused by:1.) Suppression of feelings, traumas, fear, anger, 2.) Unhealthy Food,- Junk food, meat, industrially processed food, dairy products.3.) Too much Stress.4.) Too less Sleep, for instance not to sleep at night with shift work. 5.) A lack of Physical Activity6.) Gut Health. Leaky Gut will destroy your whole body!!!! The Gut needs probiotic every day and gets damaged through Gluten and acid food like meat… 7.) Infections.8.) Environmental Toxins.9.) Too less Sunlight.10.) Side-effects of Medicaments70% of the chronicle diseases are caused by the wrong food!Thomas Edison said:The doctor of the future will no longer treat the human frame with drugs, but rather will cure and prevent disease with nutrition.Even I got all of these correct, with Qigong and Acupressure I got my health.My Video: What causes chronicle diseases? https://youtu.be/R_w6mSxYLwYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-causes-chronicle-diseases.mp3

 We read in the newspaper or on the internet much news about science, what they have found out and after some time, it is proven that the publication was wrong. Do you know that a new science publication after three to five years is outdated or ninety percent false?A long time ago, people thought the earth was a disk, but that has been proven wrong by scientists. Scientists have also verified that a bumblebee cannot fly. In Robert M. Pirsig's bestselling book, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, he explained how short living is today a science publication, so that we can't trust anymore what scientists are publishing.Previously, we believed in Religion and today in science.  So we all need something that we can believe in. Our minds want for everything to be one hundred percent proven, and even if we have evidence, after some time the doubts come again. The main problem is that we are so over intellectual that we need verification for everything and we can't trust anymore our heart. So we got the proofs from science, and then we had our faith in something that was real for us and not in the illusionary world of Religion.Science became more and more unreliable. In the last twenty years, science proved that the religion scripture became true in very obscure facts like everything is God = Energy; levitation, telepathy, thoughts reading, miracle healing, living without oxygen under the soil for one year, materializing from things (telekinesis) through other spiritual people. And so the history of the Bible with Jesus got proof. The genesis of mankind is the weak point of all religion.Religion became less reliable because religious leaders had manipulated Religion to misuse their power. If we see for instance the many wars between Protestant bishops and Catholic bishops or in India between different Hindu sects or in Tibet between different Buddhist sects… If you look at the hundreds of different versions of the Bible and compare them with the original Jewish versions, then you know how the Christians are manipulating their scriptures. The worst example is when the Christians burned women as witches and killed millions of innocent women and this in the name of God or love… Who can believe then in God anymore?It is also true that Christians had abused science as evil and suppressed it in the Middle Ages.In the 20th century, science became arrogant and omnipotent. What Western science could not understand could not be true; this is similar to Religious thinking. Western medical science proved for instance that Chinese healing is not working. What was the reason? This was very simple jealousy. Beware of this thinking by our self.I used to work as an engineer on a science project. I was very disappointed because I saw how superficial and imprecise my colleagues were. It was more critical for them to publish results than to have precise work. Also, I could see their results in connection with their sponsors. In other words, the sponsors were dictating the results of the science. And it only got worse. I wasn't surprised when five years passed, and that science had failed. If we are open to new things, even without proof, we have much more opportunities in life.My Video: Science - A Belief Or A Fact? https://youtu.be/kpHjJiUb79cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Science--A-Belief-Or-A-Fact.mp3

 What is the most important goal I wish to accomplish?Think about it seriously. Is it positive, constructive, and creative? Chasing goals that are not meaningful is a waste of time. Instead, focus on enjoying your life and accepting the things you believe need to change. Look for the good in everything.In your mind, imagine that you have already accomplished your goal. Feel what it is like to have it.How will it change your lifestyle?Project it. Visualize having it right now in your current reality, not in a distant reality.Go into meditation. Within your imagination, create a short scene where you have now achieved what you want.Use your senses and feel what it is like to have accomplished it. Start taking meaningful steps to achieve your goal. Take small, manageable steps toward your objective.Always remember why you want to accomplish your goal so that you remain motivated.Have patience; don't rush. The more you force something, the harder it becomes to achieve.The more relaxed you are while working toward your goal, the easier it will be!You need to be relaxed to be creative.Often, we must change our path, or we may fail because we haven't learned the necessary things to achieve our dreams.Keep going, regardless of what happens.My Video: Ask Yourself https://youtu.be/CEdTF6AUMbMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Ask-Yourself.mp3

 Our passions are connected with our sexuality …So older we grow and specific after the male or female menopause a big part of our passions disappear… and so our sexuality.Our religious Leaders/ Saints, Gurus who are old saying that passions are evil… Because they are jealous. How much sexuality remains after 60 years? Not much!!!!And the youngsters think that they have to scarify their passions, love, and sexuality for Religion!!!But why has God given us our passions and sexuality?Because we should deny or abuse them?Our passions and our passionate love can work for us … We can kill with a knife, or we can cut vegetables … it depends what we make with the knife and so with our passions!The greatest art, the greatest love, the most significant inventions, the greatest human beings were born out of passions.Still, also the worst acts like killing, tortures happened out of passions. If we have passions, we can utilize them. And what is bad on sex? That the old guys are jealous! Why should we care for the jealousy of other people… That is their problem…Maybe, these old guys were scared to live their sexuality, and now it is too late! In ancient time lived the king Jada Bharata in India.He denied all of his passions and was always calm and controlled. He never was indulged in any emotional encounter… So that his citizen admired him as a Saint.When the time for dying came, the king renounced the world and went in the jungle to prepare his death… He meditated and doing spiritual exercises the entire day. He ate what he could find in the jungle without harming any being. One day, a deer came to drink water nearby where the royal sage was meditating. At the same moment, a lion roared at a little distance off. The deer was so terrified that she, without satisfying her thirst, made a big jump to cross the river. The deer was pregnant, and suddenly gave birth to a little fawn, and immediately after she fell dead.The king rescued the fawn and nurtured the fawn… After some time he got involved and in love with the fawn. Day and night, he cared for the fawn and forgot his worship to God…Then he died, and his last thought was on the fawn… So that he became a deer his next life… The whole story shows us that we should live our passions when we are young. Suppression of our passions and sexuality never works out. When we live our passions and sexuality, we find peace in our lives and can think happily on God.   My Video: Be Passionate or die! https://youtu.be/LUFDUWaiubYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Be-Passionate-or-die.mp3

 I have seen a movie clip about that, and it was not true.The author thinks that we take drugs because we don't live in a perfect world.First, we live in a perfect world!Second, we are not white mice! The white mice will choose drugs when being alone, too fewer exercises, bad food …For instance, in Krabi/Thailand, 1.) one of the most beautiful places in the world, 2.) with excellent food, 3.) great selection of spas and recreation, 4.) even with a good variety of beautiful sexy girls, Ladyboys and all of these to a low price… Still, you see the tourists taking all kind of drugs and that quite a lot… What are the real causes of addiction:1.) Suppressed negative feelings and traumas2.) Fear3.) To have problems4.) Depression/Frustration5.) Anger 6.) Sadness7.) Unhappiness8.) Not enough sex or not to share your sex with a sex-partner. 9.) No sense in living, a mission is missing.Only if we eliminate the cause of addiction, we can get rid of an addiction.Most of all addicted people are just only changing their addiction instead to get rid of the addiction! And that is science proofed. You can't really improve anything when you don't change the cause or reason through that the problem is caused!!!For instance: If somebody is overweighted, he should ask why he overeats, exercises too less or lives an unhealthy lifestyle! Next step change your life that you don't need to live an unhealthy lifestyle.Last step: Live a healthy lifestyle.My Video: What causes Addiction? https://youtu.be/bXvhkMpxe4kMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-causes-Addiction.mp3

 Looks very controversial but it works…A female computer scientist analyzed online dating at OkCupid from 10 Millions of daters.She analyzed all of the successful dating conversations between 2013 and 2018: 1.) 61% of conversations take place between an older man and a younger woman, and in almost half of them, the age gap is at least five years older. 2.) The older-woman-younger-man combo is significantly rarer (appearing in less than one-third of all conversations), and in only 12% of these is the woman at least five years older.3.) Men start 80% of conversations on OkCupid, and they tend to message younger women. The older men get the women, so younger the women are 4.) Women, on the other hand, message and respond most often to men about their own age. Once they reach 35, women actually respond more often to younger guys. But because men are usually the conversation starters, the older-man-younger-woman paradigm prevails.5.)But when women message men, they're actually more likely to get a response from younger men than they are from older ones. A 40-year-old woman will have better luck messaging a 25-year-old man (60% reply rate)   than a 55-year-old one (36% reply rate), according to the data. And a 30-year-old man is more likely to respond to a message from a 50-year-old woman than to a message from any other age group. When women make the first move, the age gap dating norm is reversed.For instance: Trevor, a 28-year-old mathematician,  “Well to be honest,” said Trevor, “I usually go for older women. They have more interesting jobs and hobbies, and their profiles are just better… no stupid selfie-only profiles.”For instance me. I had a tough life and very strenuous study with awful health problems. Until 25 years I was a virgin… And the dating with women didn't work out.So I have made the group Sexual Awareness in the Bhagwan/Osho scene… And then I was together with a 50 years old teacher who had already 4 kids in the same age as me… So what, she wanted sex like crazy, and I was capable ..,, And the relationship was very relaxed or the most relaxed relationship I ever had with a woman… There are a lot of those 50-year-old women who really clean up with the 20-year-old dudes. To be fair, very few 50-year-old women (fewer than 1%) actually message men this young, but when they do, they kill it.  In an interview, Cindy Gallop, the 57-year-old founder of MakeLoveNotPorn.com who openly champions the benefits of women dating younger men. My Video: Older women should date younger men! https://youtu.be/QJg89MdItxkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Older-women-should-date-younger-men.mp3

 The Struggle of Unopened DoorsWe often knock on doors that refuse to open.We push, strive, and insist we know where we need to be.But when opportunities slip away, prayers seem unanswered, or life takes unexpected turns, frustration creeps in. Doubt whispers, "Is God even listening?"Truth: God is not ignoring you. He is protecting you.Why God Says "Wait" or "No"Imagine a baby reaching for a flame or a sharp knife. A loving parent intervenes—even as the child protests, unaware of the danger avoided.So it is with God.We think we know what's best, but He sees what we cannot:Which doors lead to blessings.Which paths end in destruction.If a door remains closed, there is a reason.The Purpose of Divine DelaysProtectionWhat we think we want could harm us.PreparationGod's "not yet" means "You're not ready yet."Something GreaterHis plans exceed our limited vision (Isaiah 55:9).Example:Recall a time when life veered "off course"—only to later reveal a better path you'd never have chosen.Discerning God's DoorsNot every open door is from Him. Some are:Tests of faith.Traps disguised as opportunities.Lessons in patience.God's doors come with:✔ Peace, not confusion.✔ Alignment with His Word, not compromise.✔ Growth, not destruction.Ask before stepping forward:"Lord, is this from You?" —Then wait for His answer.The Power of WaitingWe idolize speed, but God operates beyond time.His delays are not denials.Waiting is preparation.Use the pause to:Grow closer to Him.Strengthen your faith.Avoid battles you're not meant to fight.Promise:When God opens the right door, no one can shut it (Revelation 3:8).A Call to TrustWill you surrender your timeline, your will, your expectations?His timing is perfect.His plans are good.His love is certain."Be still, and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10)My Video: God Is in Control https://youtu.be/hr-VDbyoI3gMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/God-Is-in-Control.mp3

 I have seen a short video about that. -The women said it is enough to do everything at best and contribute to the world, to make the world better…This is not enough!Imagine you are in a football team and your team like to visit a cave close to your area…After you enter the cave, it starts to rain, and you cannot go out anymore. The cave is flooded, and you try to find a dry place. You wait 14 days until you get rescued… What to do in the meantime????Meditation!!!I want to remember at these amazing Cave rescue in Chiang Rai/Thailand on the 11July 2018.My question is Why?Regardless of what we are doing, we need a spiritual place inside of ourselves that is outside of our situation. Because we never, never can find lasting peace in our worldly doing.The world is for accomplishment and not designed for peace.Even the greatest worldly love is very unharmonious.We can only find Peace In Mind inside of our True Self or in God, or in Meditation!!!The greatest gift is to be connected with God and to surrender our lives to God.The next best is to find peace in mind through meditation.If you chase only worldly things, you are an inferior being…Because you never will have a spiritual place where you can find peace in mind.In Scotland was the famous spiritual community FINDHORN founded from previous officers… Sounds weird…?Because during WWII these officers found peace in mind on the battlefield!They saw the Light of God in their most dangerous situations! And after WWII they founded Findhorn!! You can even be very successful like Dr. Patrick Liew and believe in God as a Chinese. That is not a contradiction!!!And that proves Dr. Patrick Liew. Today Dr. Patrick Liew's agenda is to help other people in emergencies, in poverties and to become rich and successful.If you develop faith in God, you are one of the wealthiest Person in the Galaxy… And you will find peace in God like the founders of Findhorn. Without deep faith in God, we can only find peace in mind with meditation… I embrace God and meditate! Both are better!  My Video: How to find Peace in your mind? https://youtu.be/AdMrJU37ja8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-find-Peace-in-your-mind.mp3

 And that again and again and again….Regardless of how often we get hurt…At the end of the day, we fulfill with love our heart desires ….It doesn't make sense to read and see a love story or to hear love songs;- if we use them as surrogate compensation for our loveless life.And that I see everywhere.When I was a disciple of Bhagwan, we were encouraged to live the love, to open our heart and to love;- instead of to live partnerships.Because God is Love and Love is God!When we are in Love, we open up our heart not only for our darling also for God.In love, we are closer to God… I was an atheist coming out of a traditional atheist family, and I was never baptized in any Religion…Today, God is my focus, because of my deep tantric Love to a Girl.We both made Tantra and opened so to the divine or for me to God…I never have thought that….And after this dramatic love story, I had many other love stories, and even again the same happened to another darling of me… She loved me and then her heart opened, and she got connected to God…Should I stop love women, even at my age (60)? Or is not my love to God enough?Or should I be serious and don't be in that madness of Love?Is not this madness of love the best purifier of our soul?In love, all of our hidden demons are coming up, and we get such a hard time.Our lover doesn't hurt us, the unhealed emotional wounds of our childhood are hurting us. When we feel our unhealed emotional wounds our emotional wounds will heal.What is bad with falling in love?That we are too cowardly and too comfortable!!My Video: Don't be afraid to fall in love https://youtu.be/d-t2fqHtIBoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Don't-be-afraid-to-fall-in-love.mp3

 History repeats itself, first as tragedy, second as farce.The only antidote to mental suffering is physical pain.Social progress can be measured by the social position of the female sex.Workers of the world unite; you have nothing to lose but your chains.The production of too many useful things results in too many useless people.The rich will do anything for the poor but get off their backs. If anything is certain, it is that I myself am not a Marxist. The theory of Communism may be summed up in one sentence: Abolish all private property.Anyone who knows anything of history knows that great social changes are impossible without feminine upheaval. Social progress can be measured exactly by the social position of the fair sex, the ugly ones included.The ruling ideas of each age have ever been the ideas of its ruling class.Revolutions are the locomotives of history.Democracy is the road to socialism.Capital is reckless of the health or length of life of the laborer, unless under compulsion from society.Landlords, like all other men, love to reap where they never sowed.Medicine heals doubts as well as diseases.My Video:  Karl Marx quotes https://youtu.be/7zgSAMfKP1cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Karl-Marx-quotes.mp3

 Everybody, be it your sweet girlfriend, boyfriend, cat or dog want to control you… We all want more power…Even we like to live in a monastery peacefully there are always people who want to overpower us and to mislead us…The only solution looks like to live alone and close the door of negative influence…This is not working because we still need some help, food, shelter…Somebody should take power and serve the people instead to exploit the people… Then this power struggle would have a happy end.My strategies to get rid of the power struggle and bring your power back are:(All of my Strategies should be only applied when they are noncriminal, legitimate and ethical)1.) Go out of this terrible situation… Better alone than together with somebody who wants to control you!2.) Be like the “The Godfather” (Novel written by Mario Puzo). When it gets seriously be cool. The best fighters are always calm and fearless!!!Say what you desire, regardless if the other guy doesn't like that…Don't say anything more, don't discuss …. (that makes you weak) Don't become personal.And then act without mercy to get your power back… This works because you didn't disclosure your strategies to get what you want. 3.) Learn JudoBe weak.Wait that the other person is attacking you. Use the power of the attacker and lead his/her power to bring him/her so to fall… For instance: Your parents abuse you. You agree that you are the worst child… You ask your parents why they have educated you to be the worst child. Bad parents raising up bad children!!! Because the kids adapt to the parent's behavior and education. 4.) Learn Aikido…Wait that the other person is attacking you.Follow the other guy in every movement (you agree to everything)…And then change the direction of his/her movement and get him down… (change the direction and overpower him/her)For instance:Your chief is attacking you that you have failed, that you are so bad… You agree to everything (calm him down). You tell him next time you will make it better (change the direction).You tell him that you had the problems: That you misunderstood him (communication failure), that the resources were missing…My Video: Life is a power struggle https://youtu.be/EspLz4fnB-MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Life-is-a-power-struggle.mp3

1.) Unprocessed raw food is usually the best. Because it lifts up your body and spirit.If you don't believe that, just eat only for one day raw:  fruits, salad or vegetables. Don't eat any seeds, kernels.You will recognize how light your body feels and meditation is so much better. The feelings will be more intense, and the spiritual energy is going natural upwards.Besides that, fermented vegetables should eat everybody.  Because we need Probiotic in our food. We don't need so much protein, - Baby milk has only 1.5% protein and in Tomatoes are 3% protein, in Bananas are more than 10% protein. Animal proteins should be avoided.But not everybody can eat only raw, because everybody is different.   2.) The next best is vegetarian food without industrially processed food, cheese, eggs. How to become a vegan? You have enough time to become better and better. Never set yourself under pressure with a better diet if you don't have to. Fighting for a healthier lifestyle is creating so much tension inside of your body/mind that the change will harm more than to benefit your body.Change in Baby-steps and accept your failures. Look for a group with the same goals.What is the worst food?1.) White sugar and all kind of artificial sugar. White Sugar is a nightmare for the body, it is even worse than smoking, and promotes cancer and diabetes. Instead, sweeten your dishes with honey, brown sugar, coconut sugar, Xylitol or maple-syrup. 2.) Avoid preservatives and pesticides; they are at most in meat and fish products.3.) Alcohol, like wine, beer. With liquor, you lose too much energy; you can't focus …. 4.) White flour is garbage!! - No Nutrition! White flour keeps your energy in your digestion system. The body is dealing with white flour like with white sugar. It promotes diabetes.5.) Margarine and industrially processed oil are so worse; they clog the veins, make you fat and promote diabetes.  6.) All kind of fried food.7.) Meat, fish.8.) Dairy products. Asian people (not like Indo) can't digest cow milk, because they don't have the genes to digest cow milk. Only Kefir or Yogurt can be eaten from people who are used on cow milk. Through the Probiotic in Kefir and Yogurt, the animal protein doesn't harm anymore. My Video: What food is spiritual acceptable?   https://youtu.be/GWWIKRKOIXMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-food-is-spiritual-acceptable.mp3

 I saw a shocking video about an unsuccessful suicide attempt, Jumping from the Golden Gate bridge in San Francisco …Every guy who had over lived this jump, (from 2000 only 20 guys survived) regret that they have jumped from the Golden Gate bridge… On average for one suicide 115 people are suffering.All suicide candidates think that nobody is caring for them….And here is something wrong and dam wrong….If somebody is in depression or is a drama magnet, then we read, again and again, we should: 1. Leave this guy because he/she can pull us down.2. He/she is a burden.3. He/She is a hindrance for our courier.4. That are his/her problems.5. He/she is negative, and we should only be around positive people…And the guys who are writing these kinds of articles will also get in deep depression as everybody else… Because everybody will have some deep crises in their life. If you don't care about your friends and family when they are in deep crises.- What kind of person are you? What happens if this guy is taking suicide?I have prevented quite a lot of suicides… Always, I was angry with the family or friends of that suicide victim because they didn't care for him/her.When you want to prevent suicide: First, build up trust.Second, care for him/her, and show compassion.Third, hear what he is saying and ask questions.Forth, let him/her speak as much as possible!!!!!Fifth, in the end, you can say something meaningful!Sixth, never expect a Thank You because you have hindered him/her to do what he/she wanted!In Asia and Australia, we have a 10 times higher suicide rate than in Europe… Because in Europe we have a better-created suicide prevention system…If we have no Suicide prevention system in our country, we have to help ….Money, wealth or success is not everything… Good relationships are much better.In a good relationship, we help our Friends/family in their crises. My Video: Why Suicide? https://youtu.be/0MveTpaS3UIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-Suicide.mp3

 Feeling stressed out?Stress is worrying about something that hasn't happened yet or trying to solve a problem in the future that doesn't even exist.Peace is only found in the present.Productivity is only in the present.You can only be peaceful and productive right now.People often escape into thoughts about their past or future.Rather than always worrying about becoming, just be.Live in the here and now, and enjoy your life.Don't chase—be fully present.Because only now can you truly enjoy your life.And when you are fully present, there is no space for stress.Stress always exists in the future.It arises when the mind moves toward the future.For example, you might have a problem and start worrying about what will happen in the future if you don't solve it.Here's an analogy:You're sitting in a boat, and water is leaking inside.Instead of pumping the water out or emptying the boat with a bucket, you feel stressed out.The solution? Don't overthink—just get the job done in the present.At the same time, navigate your boat toward land. Most boats have an autopilot, so use it while you try to fix the hole.If all else fails, call for emergency help (every boat should have an AIS system) so another boat can rescue you. Or get into your dinghy.It's easy to say…And it's easy to do when you're doing everything you can. Once you've done all you can, you stop worrying, and the stress disappears.Yes, this has happened to me too…And I've been in even more dangerous situations while sailing alone.Chasing the future is stressful. Instead, work in the here and now, relaxed.Do whatever you can do—nothing more is possible.And if it doesn't work out, consider it a valuable life lesson.I always calculate in advance: What if it doesn't work out?I always have a Plan B…This way, I can work relaxed and worry-free.I've been bankrupt three times—what's one more? Who cares?The most important thing is to have faith in the Lord. Without it, you are a poor being indeed!My Video:  Are You Chasing Stress Instead of Success? https://youtu.be/Tw1ScSqsoUIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Are-You-Chasing-Stress-Instead-of-Success.mp3

 The Non-violence or Ahimsa was first introduced from the Hindu-Religion.Ahimsa or non-violence was created for the Braman (Priest) and Sannyasins (Monks) to live a peaceful life in a remote resort. That makes sense.Afterward, Buddhism, Jainism, and Christians had the fatal idea to integrate Ahimsa for everybody in their Religion… And this was one of the biggest mistakes that Religions have ever done!! If we look at the history of India and Tibet:In the 3rd Century B. C “Ashoka The Great” made Buddhism the state Religion of India. In the sixth century A. C., the Huns invaded India and destroyed  Buddhist monasteries. Afterward, the Muslims in the 12th century overtook India… The very downfall for India was Buddhism.What happens to Tibet? The same, conquered and destroyed from China… Do we need more evidence?If somebody or a country stick to Ahimsa, they rather more invite offenders or an invasion… The other Buddhist countries didn't practice Ahimsa and could defend themselves.Even so, the Buddhists are not vegetarian, and that is a contradiction to Ahimsa. The Christian countries made and make wars after wars and killed so many people even in the name of their Christian God that it is hard to believe in their scriptures (Bible). I can't believe in any scriptures when the rules are broken from the Religions Leaders!The worst was the witch-hunt that torched millions of innocent women in the name of the Christian God! If we compare both Religions with the Hindu scripture, we must admit that the Hindu Religion is well designed.Killing or harming of people are not allowed for the Priests (Brahman) and Monks (Sannyasin). Threatening without fighting is allowed to defend themselves. The Warriors (Kashitras) should be the ruler, Civil servants, and soldiers of the country.For the Hindus, it is impossible that a Brahman should rule the country. Because a Brahman has to be peacefully when their country is attacked. For Instance, the Dalai Lama or any Bishop would be inadequate to rule a country… Because their Darma is to be peacefully in any situation and this will never work out for any country. We can also learn from the Hindu scripture that punishment is necessary as it is to live a high morality as the leader. When the leader is immoral the subordinates will become unethical over time.We need punishment to teach people to become better… The Hindu system recommends the punishment should go in steps harder when the delinquent doesn't obey…For instance, your kid is beating up your other siblings.1.) In a friendly voice, you explain that this is not good and that he should not attack other kids.2.) In an unfriendly voice, you remind him what you have said before.3.) In an angry voice, you repeat what you said.4.) You threaten your kid that he will not get any pocket money if he continues.5.) You threaten your kid to hit him when he is doing it one time again.6.) You hit your nasty child…Non-violence (ahimsa) would not work out to educate a nasty child/delinquent…   My Video: Why does non-violence not work? https://youtu.be/lZbCiKk17iYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-does-non-violence-not-work.mp3

 I wake up every morning believing today is going to be better than yesterday.Again this is spam, and this is total nonsense.It is even often so that it gets first worse to get better!I have learned and profited much more from my worst days than from my best days!When everything is getting better and better… how boring!If we don't get challenged through huge obstacles, we can't improve!We get for every obstacle also the power to overcome that challenge!And then I read: Be in the flow and everything is easy! I agree! But, if I face a new challenge, I am not anymore in the flow. Because my fears kicked in. If I can't be in the flow so that everything is easy, should I quite?Or if everything is not getting better should I quite? If we apply Positive Thinking for every doing, we are on war with our negativity … Then we are just like the USA to create a new enemy and to make war.Everything that we neglect will work against us!!!I have a garden, and I use my garbage as fertilizer.When we have negative thoughts, we should use them for ourselves!For instance, you go on travel, and you become doubtful … Great!!!Make your worry list, prioritize the list with the worst first…Find solutions for every worry…And think over which solutions are useful and it is done!Without your worry list, you will be in a worse situation when something is going wrong.Preparation is a must but adapt to the situation.“No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength"  Quote from the greatest Army strategist: Graf Moltke. Life is easy if it is difficult we have done it! My Video: Everything is getting better and better? https://youtu.be/5FFFAGuXq7wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Everything-is-getting-better-and-better.mp3

 Reading consists of two phases: consumption and digestion.To retain and use knowledge, you must properly digest what you consume.Memorizing everything you read shouldn't be the goal—understanding should.We remember the essence of a book so we can apply, analyze, evaluate, and even create something new.Not all information is equal.Poor learning methods make remembering:HarderMore time-consumingLess effectiveThe PACER Method: Categorize & Digest InformationWe process information into 5 categories (PACER) to store it in long-term memory.Our memory operates in three layers:Sensory memory (fleeting impressions) → Forgotten quickly.Short-term memory (words, names, numbers) → Limited storage.Long-term memory (concepts, meaning) → Retained through understanding.1. P – Procedural InformationWhat it is: Step-by-step instructions (e.g., coding, languages, photography).How to learn: Practice immediately.Learning without doing is pointless. Example: You can't learn photography just by reading—you must take photos.Key insight:90% of consumed info is forgotten.Digestion > Consumption. Focus on quality (deep processing) over quantity (mindless reading).2. A – Analogous InformationWhat it is: Knowledge connected to prior understanding (e.g., "leading lines" in landscape photography).How to learn: Critique & contextualize.Ask: When does this apply? When doesn't it?Example: "Leading lines" work for paths/streams but not for forests/lakes.Why it sticks: Your brain anchors new info to existing knowledge.3. C – Conceptual InformationWhat it is: Theories, facts, and systems (e.g., engineering principles).How to learn: Mapping (connecting ideas across domains).Example: An automation engineer studies medicine, satellites, and robotics to design an artificial heart.Key mindset:Beginners may feel overwhelmed, but expertise grows through applied learning.Always ask: How can I use this? Useless knowledge fades fast.4. E – Evidence InformationWhat it is: Proof that supports conceptual claims (e.g., accident reports validating traffic rules).How to learn: Store & rehearse.Store: Write it down (e.g., "Didn't stop at red light → collision").Rehearse: Ask:How do I apply this? (Stop at red lights.)What concept does this reinforce? (Traffic safety.)Why does this matter? (Prevent accidents.)5. R – Reference InformationWhat it is: Specific, unchanging details (e.g., mathematical constants, medical terms).How to learn: Store & drill.Store: Take notes.Rehearse: Use flashcards for recall.Key TakeawaysBalance consumption and digestion. Fewer concepts deeply understood > volumes skimmed.Not all knowledge is equal. Prioritize what's actionable.PACER organizes learning:Procedural → PracticeAnalogous → CritiqueConceptual → MapEvidence → Store & RehearseReference → DrillWhat stays in your brain matters more than what goes in.My Video:  How to Remember Everything You Read  https://youtu.be/LimAVySDrfQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-Remember-Everything-You-Read.mp3

 The biological clock is ticking, the women are over 30 and want desperately their own family. And they can't find a husband, they blame it on the society or on the men…Their husband has to be the truthful provider for their dreams … 1.) The husband has to pay…2.) Has to be the perfect friend/partner…Why do men not like to marry anymore?1.) Today, the men are getting more and more frustrated through the norms of society and through the women… More and more men dislike to make a courier or to study… 2.) It is hard for males to find any female who is not cheating on them… And they don't want to be the slave/provider of their spouse. 3.) The laws are totally against men, if they procreate a kid, after the divorce, they have to pay for the kid/kids and the spouse… Even the spouse has cheated them….4.) Every 4th kid is procreated outside of the marriage in Germany!!! 5.) The divorce rate is going through the roof… I made my decision with 11 years never to marry under these divorce laws!!! Because these divorce laws promote wives to cheat their husbands.Sex, money, and communication are the most critical aspects of any marriage!!!1.) 50% of all husbands would not have married when they have known how sexless is the marriage. Unmarried men have much more sex. After 5 years only 7% of the husbands have sex more than once a week… 2.) Even so, 80% of all purchases decisions are making the women in the USA…Does it mean that the husbands have to buy what their spouse wants? Or the husbands purchase the things for their wife to get sex?3.) Today the smartphone is more important than to communicate! It is so hard to say your honest opinion to your spouse… If I can't say what I want, I separate!!! No muzzle!!!! And all psychologists back me up. If women think that they can blackmail and censor their husband, they terminate their own marriage/relationship! And this is for 100% sure…  My mother married quite late with over 30, and she said so older you are so harder it is to adapt to your spouse… And this is the next problem, to be flexible and open for a different lifestyle… The black successful American ladies, even they look beautiful can't find a spouse… Because they want at least an equal successful African partner and this is hard to find…Now, I am again together with a girl, and I always look that I can adapt… Because she has different desires than me…And for me as an introvert, in my age (60) it is hard to find a girl, so I have to compromise my desires…   I am grateful for every moment that I can be with her together… Instead of demanding!!!If I can be flexible, why can't the 30 years old women??? My Video: Why women over 30 remain single? https://youtu.be/lMFnXx4C2o4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-women-over-30-remain-single.mp3

The world is changing and today very fast. A conservative attitude wants that everything remains as it is… This is Fear to change, fear of the future.We want to be innovative and not to be conservative otherwise we can't adapt in the best way to a situation.  I bring here some examples: In an interview with Berthold Beitz, Chief of ThyssenKrupp and Mannesmann to his 99th birthday… The reporter praised him of his heroically acts to save 800Jews in WWII and as a steel manufacturer to create the third biggest mobile phone networks in Europe… Berthold Beitz said simple, Stop I have also made many mistakes… I look only forward never backward…. I am focused on what I can do now…and the past I let go… Oh, this is so good, and he worked until he died, - 11 months later. Bhagwan/Osho was growing up at his grandparents. When they were traveling to the city, his grandfather died. His grandmother never went back even they had a huge house with many servants… Bhagwan asked: Why? His grandmother said, we never can go back because the world is changing. She also became Bhagwan's first disciple. Jesus said to Paulus: Let the dead bury the dead people and come….What doesn't serve us anymore we let go… Otherwise, it will pull us down!A religious pundit defines God and what we should do. A religious person tunes in God follows God and never define God. Because God is changing all the time. So it never will exist a conservative God only an innovative God. Never define God or put God in a box. We even can't understand ourselves, how can we understand God? Be in the flow. The religious scriptures are just the index finger that is pointing on the moon but doesn't let your index finger become bigger than the moon (Zen).My Video: Why does a conservative attitude harm us? https://youtu.be/_35VuXyj1SMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-does-a-conservative-attitude-harm-us.mp3

 Our Kidneys are very important, and if they don't work properly it will harm our entire body… Many people got Kidney stones and/or a polluted Kidney that influence our feelings, immune system, sexual potency, our skin, and our eyes. After the Chinese Healing, the feelings of our Kidney are deep fear and kindness. After the Western alternative Healing, Kidneys diseases are related to relationship problems. What is bad for the Kidneys?1.) Coffee.2.) Spices.3.) Acid food,- meat, cooked tomatoes, all kind of cooked fruits, be it fruit juice from the supermarket.4.) Alcohol. 5.) To drink too less clean (distilled) water.6.) Under-cooled kidneys... Easy Kidney cleanses in the morning.On an empty stomach, best in the morning eat at least 3Kg Watermelon and wait for 2 hours. Dr. Sebi: Cleaning of the kidneys and liver with “The Foundation”The Foundation is used as a general cleaner for the entire body. It cleanses the blood, the kidneys and the toxic of the liver. You get the herbs from www.iherbs.com. After Dr. Sebi 1 part burdock root—Blood purifier, liver cleanser, kidney cleanser 1 part yellow dock—Blood purifier, liver cleanser, kidney cleanser ½ part sarsaparilla—Binds with toxins 1 part elderberry—Removes pathogens 1 part hydrangea root—Breaks up calcification Mix all parts thoroughly in blender. Make 500 mg capsules or quarter-teaspoon doses (1/2g). Dosage: two capsules two or three times daily. Take them for 1 -2 months.My Video: How to do a Kidney cleanses? https://youtu.be/Wky89Bc87hwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-do-a-Kidney-cleanses.mp3

 Why isn't money free? Why do you have to work for money?You can live however you want, and if you want God to help you, will He just do it?You have to be or become the chosen one.This means contemplating God, or meditating, and being honest in every aspect of your life.If you mistreat a chosen one, you will be punished in ways you cannot imagine!I have heard many times that during wartime, people received visions of God. For instance, just ten days before the execution of the Scholl siblings, they experienced tremendous spiritual encounters with the Lord. This was also true for Viktor Frankl during his time in a Nazi concentration camp. Viktor Frankl survived, while most Jews did not.Do you think that is a coincidence?The worst times can be the best times!This has proven true for me and for many incredibly successful people. For instance, take Elon Musk.Why shouldn't we use our worst times to discover God, instead of focusing solely on building wealth and success?When you talk to older people, most of them are filled with regrets because they feel they didn't achieve the things they wanted—family, spouse, vacations, and so on.Conversely, when you speak with truly religious people, they often have no regrets, even if they did not fulfill their worldly desires.Because, in the end, it doesn't matter.If you can't connect with God—or whatever you choose to call it—you have wasted your life.Facebook will not save your life.My Video: People often think, God is for free. https://youtu.be/BsN7YWT0PrYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/People-often-think-God-is-for-free.mp3

 Only through huge dramas we can get connected and opened for a new dimension.When I left the second time my body (with 21) through the wrong treatment of a doctor;-my life changed totally…I became aware of how precious is life and how I had wasted my life through my suffering…How can we connect to God if we have never experienced such hardness in life? Nobody can have real faith in God if he would not be rescued in his worst times of life through God.For sure, we should be worth to get rescued by God.   How many inventions were created through the hardships of people?And then I read these over stupids comments don't be together with a drama magnet…There exist people who run again and again in the same dramas without learning anything from that… We shake our heads and think how stupid these drama magnets are… After some time later we are in a crisis and …. You are a drama magnet?!!!!Instead, we should learn from others crises and our crises.There is always a lesson in any struggle. How boring is a life without drama?We can win only big when we risk big. If we fail hugely, we can learn hugely…I never have seen any great successful person who was never in huge dramas….We should embrace every challenge and be thankful for that. Because only in big challenges we can change to become better.My Video: What is good on our dramas? https://youtu.be/4hzlgsGalgsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-good-on-our-dramas..mp3

 I have seen a YouTube “ Life inside Bali's Infamous Kerobokan Prison. (link at the end)I recommended that everybody sees this YouTube…. At the end the linkBecause it is so inspirational and honest what people are doing in prison to give their life a meaning… Even with a life sentence jail punishment.Imagine, You are in prison for the rest of your life, and you got caught with 18 years by smugglings drugs.Maybe you would think shame for yourself and your family… Still, most of the prisoner staying positive in this jail!!!!What helps?Again spirituality, faith in God and doing something meaningful best the whole day!They teach each other their skills, making their workouts, regret their wrongdoing and pray to God! Instead of fighting against each other they deal lovely and honest with their fellows! They share their feelings and tell what concern them….And these kind of honesty, and loveliness are so seldom on this planet.We live in isolation, show how great we are on Facebook, have learned to smile for our Selfies. Inside we know that we just cheat ourselves and others. Because nobody wants to be a negative person and to have problems. And that is all B. S..I remember, when I was a disciple of Bhagwan, and we all should be blissful … When my greatest worldly love affair broke, I changed from wearing red (that we should dress as a disciple) to black… And shown everybody my desperation… And to the same time, I was positive and convinced that this was the way out of my self-constructed prison!At least this was honest, and I didn't care for anything else!You can be only you and if you show how you are and share what you are miracles will happen… Yes, they happened to me after one tragedy, the next disaster, that I nearly lost everything and won God! And that is priceless! And we don't have to go for that in prison to learn to stay positive and to become spiritual.I would rather say go out of your prison and become a human being with all kinds of feelings… My Video: Inside of Bali's Prison https://youtu.be/j4MQb6NKF3oMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Inside-of-Bali's-Prison.mp3

 - Carl JungWhat is the difference between forcing things to get them done and operating from a position of power?When we force things, we operate from a mindset of winning or losing, or from a place of scarcity. In contrast, when we operate from power, we recognize that we can gain from both winning and losing, and strive for improvement. In every situation, we learn something valuable. As a result, we grow, and everything around us can improve as well.This means we are operating from a position of power rather than forcing outcomes.As a Zen quote says, “The grass grows by itself.” You don't need to pull the grass; it grows naturally. This reflects the concept of Wu Wei: to do without doing, or to be in the flow. When I put myself under pressure, I become ineffective.For instance, all those rigid concepts about writing a book—such as writing a page every day or structuring it first—are absolute nonsense. Instead, write when you enjoy it! I have written books in many noisy places: in the mountains, on the beach, at train stations, and in crowded hotel lobbies. Sometimes, I was freezing; I didn't care. The key is to write what is inside you without judgment, and afterward, you can structure it. If something doesn't fit, delete it. This is the approach of many successful authors: don't force it!**How do we get into a position of power?**We need to bring light into our shadow. Carl Jung describes these different inner voices as our shadow—comprising suppressed emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Until we integrate our shadow into our persona, we cannot operate from a position of power and fully harness our potential.We have many different personas inside us, and if we are unaware of this, our unconsciousness determines our lives. By bringing awareness to our unconsciousness, we can identify the various personas that influence our decisions. For example, the super-ego and our inner child are often in conflict. If we want to enjoy our lives, we should lean into our inner child and playfully address our problems.The super-ego tends to force things, which may not be beneficial in many situations. While the super-ego has its place—for getting things done, being punctual, adhering to our principles, and maintaining our morals—our inner child seeks joy and creativity.Moreover, we all possess masculine and feminine aspects within us. The traits, habits, and emotions that we dislike in others are often reflections of ourselves, despite our denial. As Goethe said, “Your own sins you first discover in other people.”If we don't acknowledge and accept our shadow, we will waste a lot of energy fighting against it. For example, men often seek new romantic partners, while their girlfriends or spouses may resent this behavior. Ironically, women sometimes experience boredom in their sex lives with their partners after about six months. Unaddressed emotions arise during crises, turning our lives into chaos. Crises reveal our suppressed negative emotions, and this awareness is valuable because it helps us understand what lies within us.We should accept every emotion, thought, and aspect of our shadow; otherwise, we cannot fully enjoy our lives. Initially, it is difficult when our darker sides come to the surface, but fighting against negativity only exacerbates the problem.Our goals related to money and fame are just a part of life and shouldn't replace love and relationships.**What about shame?**Shame is the belief that we are flawed. It creates a shadow that leads to negative self-judgment. For instance, consider masturbation, a common act that many judge negatively despite its prevalence.**What about guilt?**Guilt involves judging our actions—feeling that what we did was wrong.We should openly discuss our shame and guilt to accept both fully.My Video: Once your shadow finds light, the shift happens. https://youtu.be/J7UqosdQ88cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Once-your-shadow-finds-light-the-shift-happens.mp3

 The Ikigai has 4 components: 1.) Something that you love.A.) Something that you love to do. B.) That stop your thinking.C.) Anything that causes you to be present.D.) Flow state.E.) LoveF.) For instance: Drawing, dancing, singing.G.) It should take us in the state of bliss.2.) Something that the world needs.Something that creates a visual difference in the world.That you feel somehow essential to do.Like in the ancient time like a hunter, builder, chef, farmer, arrow maker.3.) Something that pays you well.Because you don't want to worry about money. So that you can afford what you desire.Enough to live a comfortable life.4.) Something that you are good at. This means you have some talents and through training you become good. Overcome the obstacles that are fulfilling to become good.Our Profession is the most important part of our life. We spend most of our time and energy on working to make money. We should choose for our profession at least two of these categories from Ikigai to become happy. In this Diagram you will find the best categories of combinations that will lead to a fulfilling life.These 4 categories combinations lead to 4 motives for your profession:1.) Passion2.) Mission3.) Profession4.) VocationFor every motive, we should focus on something to become better and happier. 1.) Passion - Combination: Something that you love and that you are good at.We need to make enough money to live a fulfilling life… Imagine, your family always requires much more money than you can imagine. Give your passion the focus to make money!2.) Mission- Combination: Something that you love and that the world needs. A mission without to become that very expert is not a mission at all. Learn everyday like me for instance. Otherwise, You can't become good!3.) Profession - Combination: Something that you are good at and that pays you well.You try out, again and again, new things that make you happy and enough money!Otherwise, you will not be a happy person. 4.) Vocation - Combination: Something that the world needs and that pays you well. Challenge yourself to become better than the rest in your niche. Otherwise, you can't make the money that you need, and your job will be not exciting. My Video: Ikigai, Japanese formula for choosing a profession. https://youtu.be/4a9P4LwsM_4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Ikigai-Japanese-formula-for-happiness.mp3