Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system. These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts. Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships. This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.For more information, visit:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
In this conversation, Jen Peters, an inner child expert, discusses the significance of inner child work in healing trauma and understanding adult behaviors. The dialogue explores how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the empowerment found in healing, and the importance of recognizing and addressing deep-seated wounds. The conversation also touches on parental alienation, estrangement, and the role of parents in influencing their children's emotional well-being. Jen emphasizes the need for self-love and reparenting as essential components of the healing journey.Key TakeawaysMost struggles in adulthood stem from childhood events.Inner child work connects us with parts of ourselves needing support.Healing is an empowerment process, not about blame.Patterns in relationships often reflect childhood wounds.Access points for inner child work include therapy and self-guided practices.Multiple inner children can exist, each carrying different traumas.Healing trauma can lead to emotional detachment from past events.Parental relationships significantly influence children's emotional health.Womb trauma can have lasting effects on individuals.Self-love is crucial for healing and empowerment.Chapters00:00 - Understanding Inner Child Work02:55 - The Impact of Childhood on Adulthood05:46 - Empowerment Through Inner Child Healing09:04 - Patterns in Relationships and Responsibility11:51 - Access Points for Inner Child Work15:07 - Exploring Different Stages of Inner Child17:56 - Healing Trauma and Emotional Responses21:08 - The Role of Parents in Shaping Wounds23:54 - Navigating Parental Alienation and Estrangement27:00 - The Depth of Womb Trauma30:08 - The Spiritual Aspect of Healing33:00 - Reparenting and Self-LoveIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, a panel of parents discusses their experiences with gratitude amidst the challenges of parental alienation. They explore how gratitude can transform pain into joy, the importance of community, and the role of vulnerability in healing. Through personal stories, they illustrate the journey from anger and resentment to a place of appreciation for life's experiences, emphasizing that gratitude can coexist with difficult emotions.Key TakeawaysGratitude can emerge from unexpected places.Finding humor in pain can foster connection.Shifting focus from personal suffering to joy in others' lives is transformative.Gratitude is a practice that requires cultivation.Alienation can lead to personal growth and deeper understanding.Being present in life enhances relationships and gratitude.Vulnerability is essential for authentic connections.Pain and suffering can create capacity for gratitude.Gratitude helps in coping with negative emotions.Community support is vital in the journey of healing.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Gratitude in Parenting03:08 - Finding Humor and Connection in Pain05:47 - Shifting Focus: From Pain to Gratitude08:52 - The Journey of Gratitude: Personal Stories12:09 - Transformative Power of Alienation14:46 - Gratitude for Life's Experiences18:05 - Navigating Relationships and Gratitude20:56 - The Role of Vulnerability in Gratitude23:57 - Coping with Anger and Bitterness through Gratitude26:49 - Conclusion: Embracing Gratitude in Everyday LifeIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
This conversation explores the transformative power of gratitude in the context of recovery from parental alienation. Panelists share their personal journeys, reflecting on how their understanding of gratitude has evolved from a self-centered perspective to one that embraces community support and emotional healing. They discuss the challenges of feeling gratitude during times of estrangement and the practices they have adopted to cultivate gratitude in their daily lives. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing small moments of gratitude and how these can lead to deeper emotional connections and resilience.Key TakeawaysGratitude can be found even in difficult times.Community support enhances the experience of gratitude.Practicing gratitude requires intentionality and reflection.Alienation can cloud the ability to feel gratitude.Gratitude can transform from a transactional to a heartfelt experience.Daily rituals can help cultivate a gratitude practice.Gratitude can be a pathway to emotional healing.Recognizing small moments of gratitude is essential.Gratitude can help break cycles of intergenerational trauma.Sharing gratitude with others fosters connection and joy.Chapters00:00 - The Journey of Gratitude in Recovery07:12 - Understanding Gratitude Before and After Alienation14:08 - The Transformation of Gratitude Through Community Support21:06 - Practicing Gratitude: Daily Rituals and Reflections30:49 - Gratitude for Children: Navigating Alienation and EstrangementIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this conversation, Bill Eddy discusses the BIFF method for responding to hostile communications, the importance of self-restraint in high-conflict situations, and strategies for protecting oneself in court. He emphasizes the need to keep communication simple and repetitive, and the significance of telling one's own story in legal contexts. The discussion also touches on the impact of family systems on emotional responses and the role of AI in communication strategies.Key TakeawaysBIFF responses help manage hostile communications effectively.Self-restraint is crucial when dealing with high-conflict personalities.Keeping communication simple and repetitive aids in clarity.Understanding family systems can help in managing emotional responses.Telling your own story is vital in legal situations.Protecting oneself from false allegations is essential in court.The BIFF method can be adapted for various communication scenarios.AI tools can mimic BIFF responses, but may not be effective for learning.Emotional stability is key in high-conflict situations.Resources and support are available for those dealing with high-conflict personalities.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to BIFF Responses and AI03:10 - Understanding Family Systems and Emotional Responses05:52 - The BIFF Method Explained09:04 - Self-Restraint in Communication12:13 - Protecting Yourself in High-Conflict Situations14:50 - Strategies for Court and High-Conflict Personalities17:50 - The Importance of Storytelling in Court20:47 - Final Thoughts and ResourcesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this conversation, Lauren Joss and Bill Eddy delve into the complexities of parental alienation, exploring how family dynamics, personality disorders, and emotional health impact relationships between parents and children. They discuss the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and introduce innovative methods for conflict resolution and communication skills that can help families navigate high-conflict situations.Key TakeawaysChildren grow up in families that see people as all good or all bad.Parental alienation is a gradual process, built brick by brick.Emotional processes in families are often overlooked.Alienating parents may not be aware of their impact on children.Children absorb their parents' emotions, leading to conflict.The dynamics of family systems can create isolation among siblings.Teaching children flexible thinking and emotional management is crucial.Innovative methods can help parents learn to communicate better.Court systems are beginning to adopt new methods for conflict resolution.Support systems are essential for individuals dealing with parental alienation.Chapters00:00 - Understanding Parental Alienation Dynamics10:07 - The Role of Personality Disorders in Family Systems19:54 - Building Healthy Relationships Among Children30:07 - Innovative Solutions for High-Conflict FamiliesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this conversation, Lawrence Joss explores the complexities of parental alienation through personal anecdotes and analogies, particularly focusing on the metaphor of a jungle and a lemon tree. He emphasizes the importance of individual growth, setting boundaries, and the role of community in healing family dynamics. Joss shares his journey of understanding and addressing the trauma within his family system, advocating for self-work and service to others as pathways to reclaiming relationships and fostering love.Key TakeawaysParental alienation can suffocate love within families.Individual change is crucial for systemic healing.Boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics.Personal growth can lead to better parenting.Community support is vital in overcoming challenges.Understanding trauma helps in addressing family issues.Service to others can provide personal fulfillment.The journey of healing is ongoing and requires effort.Emotional and spiritual work is necessary for change.Love and connection can be reclaimed through consistent effort.Chapters00:00 - The Weeds of Parental Alienation03:01 - Understanding the Jungle of Family Dynamics06:13 - The Importance of Boundaries08:53 - Personal Growth and Systemic Change12:05 - The Lemon Tree Analogy14:51 - Reclaiming Our Family Systems18:11 - The Power of Community and ServiceIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
SummaryIn this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss shares his personal journey through parental alienation, emphasizing the importance of community support, understanding boundaries, and the impact of family dynamics. He discusses the concept of 'siloing' in relationships and how it affects children's perceptions of their parents. The conversation highlights the shift from a self-centered perspective to a community-focused approach, advocating for service as a means of healing and connection.Key TakeawaysParental alienation can be a painful and confusing experience.Community support is crucial for emotional and spiritual healing.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Children often adapt to survive in alienating environments.Siloing can prevent siblings from forming healthy relationships.Shifting focus from 'me' to 'we' can foster healing.Service to others can provide purpose and fulfillment.Understanding the dynamics of parental alienation is vital for recovery.Emotional growth often takes time and life experience.Love and connection can exist without expectations.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Parental Alienation and Community Support02:48 - Personal Journey Through Parental Alienation06:04 - The Role of Community in Healing08:55 - Understanding Boundaries and Agency11:49 - The Impact of Siloing on Family Relationships15:10 - Shifting Perspectives: From Me to We18:06 - Finding Purpose Through Service20:55 - Conclusion: Embracing Change and ConnectionIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
SummaryIn this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss discusses the complexities of parental alienation and the legal system with insights from attorneys and mental health professionals. The conversation covers the challenges faced by parents navigating family law, the importance of self-representation, and the need for child-centered approaches in therapy. Listeners are encouraged to document their experiences, seek support, and take charge of their cases to improve outcomes for themselves and their children.Key TakeawaysThe legal system often exacerbates conflict between parents.Self-representation can be a viable option if done correctly.Documentation is key in family law cases.Limited scope attorneys can provide targeted assistance.Child-centered therapy focuses on the needs of the child.Parents should actively seek to understand their children's perspectives.Emotional support is crucial for parents in high-conflict situations.The importance of building trust with children in therapy.Parents need to show up emotionally for their children.The system needs reform to better support families in crisis.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to the Family Disappeared Podcast02:06 - The Challenges of Parental Alienation04:01 - Navigating the Legal System: Insights from an Attorney06:53 - Understanding Family Law vs. Traditional Law09:52 - Self-Representation in Family Court12:11 - The Role of Limited Scope Attorneys14:10 - The Importance of Documentation and Support22:51 - Child-Centered Approaches in Therapy24:18 - Building Trust with Children in Therapy26:35 - The Impact of Parental Actions on Children32:45 - Attachment Issues in High-Conflict Divorces35:33 - Conclusion and Resources for SupportIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
SummaryIn this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss revisits key insights from previous conversations with professionals in the field of therapy and psychology. The discussion covers themes of parental alienation, the importance of community support, and the power of personal agency in overcoming adversity. Lawrence emphasizes the significance of understanding neutral circumstances, the role of judgment in our lives, and the therapeutic potential of writing amends letters for reconciliation. The episode also explores concepts of reparenting, somatic awareness, and practical strategies for fostering gratitude and hope in challenging situations.Key TakeawaysCircumstances are neutral, and our perception shapes our experience.Judgment and evaluation are constant processes in our minds.We have the power to create positive changes in our lives.Understanding estrangement and alienation is crucial for healing.Amends letters can facilitate reconciliation between estranged family members.Reparenting helps heal childhood wounds and fosters self-agency.Agency is essential for healthy relationships and personal empowerment.Somatic awareness connects our body and mind for better emotional health.Practicing gratitude can transform our perspective on difficult situations.Creating hope is vital for overcoming challenges and fostering resilience.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to the Best of Series02:53 - The Volcanic Analogy: Growth Through Adversity04:14 - Understanding Neutral Circumstances11:56 - The Power of Judgment and Evaluation15:18 - Estrangement vs. Alienation: Definitions and Impacts18:59 - The Importance of Men's Letters in Reconciliation22:46 - Reparenting: Healing Childhood Wounds25:35 - Agency and Self-Agency: Empowering Relationships29:57 - Somatic Awareness: Connecting Body and Mind32:19 - Gratitude Power-Up: Transforming Perspectives35:39 - Better by Eight: Creating Positive ChangeIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
SummaryThis conversation explores the profound effects of parental alienation on individuals and families, highlighting personal growth, emotional healing, and the journey of reconnecting with estranged children. The speakers share their experiences, insights, and the importance of community support in navigating the challenges of alienation and recovery.Key TakeawaysParental alienation can lead to a feeling of survival rather than living.Engaging in creative expression, like dance, can be healing.It's essential to meet estranged children where they are emotionally.Recovery involves accepting powerlessness over the situation.Children also suffer from the effects of parental alienation.Communication should be approached with compassion and understanding.Recovery is a continuous journey, not a destination.Building a supportive community is crucial for healing.Trust in the child's ability to see through alienation.Navigating relationships requires emotional intelligence and self-awareness.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Parental Alienation and Personal Growth04:33 - The Journey of Reuniting with Children11:38 - Impact of Parental Alienation on Relationships15:15 - Parenting Without Access: Challenges and Insights20:37 - Navigating Emotions and Recovery24:02 - Shifts in Relationships and Communication30:01 - Lessons Learned and Moving ForwardIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss introduces a compilation of impactful moments from previous episodes, focusing on the theme of parental alienation and its profound effects on families. The conversation highlights personal stories of struggle, recovery, and the importance of community support. Various speakers share their experiences with parental alienation, the journey of healing, and the systemic issues within family courts. The episode emphasizes the need for authenticity, vulnerability, and personal growth in the face of adversity, while also calling for systemic change to better support families in crisis.Key TakeawaysParental alienation can affect anyone in a family.Emotional and spiritual work is crucial for healing.Support groups provide a sense of community and understanding.Recovery involves focusing on oneself and personal growth.Authenticity in parenting can lead to healthier relationships.Systemic issues in family courts need to be addressed.Parenting roles evolve through personal experiences and recovery.Acceptance of what is can lead to peace and healing.Resources for emotional and legal support are essential.Sharing personal stories can help others feel less alone.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Best of Family Disappeared Podcast01:36 The Impact of Parental Alienation03:38 Personal Stories of Struggle and Recovery09:59 Understanding Parental Alienation12:40 The Journey of Recovery15:42 Authenticity and Vulnerability in Parenting19:12 Systemic Issues in Family Courts20:16 Evolving Parenting Roles22:49 Lessons from Recovery Steps29:43 Resources for Support and Change33:38 Conclusion and Call to ActionIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues the conversation with Dr. William Bernet, focusing on the innovative resources and strategies being developed to address parental alienation. They discuss a new book aimed at educating judges and mental health professionals, the importance of the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG), and the need for accurate information in the field. Dr. Bernet shares insights on the challenges faced by mental health professionals and advocates for awareness of misinformation surrounding parental alienation. The episode concludes with a hopeful story of reunification between a parent and child, emphasizing the potential for positive outcomes in challenging situations.Key TakeawaysThe new book on parental alienation will be concise and free. Its title will be "Parental Alienation Theory: official synopsis".Innovative testing is being integrated into evaluations for parental alienation.The PASG aims to educate and support professionals and families.Misinformation about parental alienation is prevalent and harmful.Mental health professionals need to seek out education on parental alienation.Early intervention can lead to positive outcomes for families.The importance of community support in dealing with parental alienation.Adversarial collaboration can help resolve disagreements in the field.The new book will be available in multiple languages.Staying in touch with children can lead to reunification after alienation.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation and New Resources03:03 Innovative Testing and Evaluation in Parental Alienation10:20 The Launch of a Groundbreaking Book15:16 Understanding the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG)18:11 Advice for Mental Health Professionals22:58 Misinformation and Advocacy in Parental Alienation25:29 Positive Outcomes and Hopeful StoriesKnow more about Dr. Bernet and PASG here:https://www.pasg.info/Book title "Parental Alienation Theory: official synopsis"If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss interviews Dr. Bill Bernet, a child psychiatrist and forensic psychiatrist with extensive experience in parental alienation. They discuss the historical context of parental alienation, the role of Richard Gardner in defining the term, and the challenges faced in the court system. Dr. Bernet shares insights on the polarization within the family law community and highlights collaborative efforts to bridge divides. The conversation also touches on innovative strategies for early intervention and the significance of the PARQ test in assessing parental alienation.Key TakeawaysParental alienation was not widely recognized in the early days.Dr. Bill Bernet has been involved in parental alienation for decades.Richard Gardner introduced the term parental alienation syndrome in 1985.Many therapists still struggle to identify parental alienation.Judges have varying levels of understanding about parental alienation.Polarization exists between domestic violence advocates and parental alienation proponents.Early intervention is crucial for addressing mild cases of parental alienation.The PARQ test shows a 99% accuracy in identifying alienated children.Collaboration between different advocacy groups is essential for progress.The focus should always be on the well-being of the children involved.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation02:57 Dr. Bill Bernet's Journey in Parental Alienation05:55 Understanding Parental Alienation: Historical Context09:08 The Role of Richard Gardner in Defining Parental Alienation11:51 Navigating the Court System: Challenges and Strategies14:56 Polarization in the Family Law Community18:07 Collaborative Efforts: Bridging Divides21:08 Future Directions in Parental Alienation Research23:53 Innovative Strategies for Early Intervention26:54 The PARQ Test: A Breakthrough in Assessment29:48 Conclusion and Reflections on the JourneyKnow more about Dr. Bernet and PASG here:https://www.pasg.info/If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence and Anna explore the themes of recovery, personal growth, and the impact of family dynamics on relationships. They discuss the importance of community support, the challenges of powerlessness in relationships, and the journey towards self-discovery through meditation and emotional awareness. The conversation highlights the significance of letting go of titles and embracing a more authentic self, as well as the role of chaos in shaping one's identity. Through their personal experiences, they emphasize the transformative power of recovery and the importance of vulnerability in healing.Key TakeawaysRecovery is about community, not just individual experiences.Letting go of titles can lead to a more authentic self.Personal growth often comes from painful experiences.Building a relationship with oneself is crucial in recovery.Meditation can help regulate the nervous system and promote peace.The journey of recovery involves learning to feel emotions.Support groups provide a space for vulnerability and growth.Chaos can become addictive, making peace feel uncomfortable.It's important to give oneself permission to ask for help.The work done in recovery can positively impact future generations.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Recovery and Flexibility01:58 Personal Experiences in Recovery03:48 Understanding Powerlessness in Relationships08:11 The Impact of Family Dynamics11:54 Addiction to Chaos and Finding Peace16:03 Exploring Meditation and Self-Discovery20:14 The Role of Titles in Relationships 26:06 Community and Support in RecoveryDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues the conversation with Dr. Alan Blotcky, focusing on the complexities of parental alienation. They discuss the importance of succinct communication in court, the dynamics of alienation, the role of experts, financial challenges in legal proceedings, and the impact of social media on perceptions of parental alienation. Dr. Blotcky shares success stories from reunification therapy and emphasizes the need for a supportive team to navigate these challenging situations. The conversation concludes with a positive message about the potential for change and healing in the context of parental alienation.Key TakeawaysAdvocating for oneself is crucial in parental alienation cases.Succinct communication in court can significantly impact outcomes.Understanding the behaviors and their effects is more important than labels.Success in reunification therapy is possible with the right approach.Financial resources can limit access to expert testimony.Many therapists lack an understanding of parental alienation.Social media can spread misinformation about parental alienation.Judges may resist new information and cling to old biases.Building a supportive team is essential for navigating legal challenges.Parental alienation can be addressed and improved with the right strategies.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation02:55 Navigating Court and Advocacy06:10 Understanding Alienation Dynamics08:49 The Role of Experts in Legal Cases11:52 Financial Challenges in Legal Proceedings14:46 Reunification Therapy Success Stories19:01 The Impact of Social Media on Perceptions22:11 Shifts in Understanding Parental Alienation24:52 Closing Thoughts and Positive MessagesDr Alan Blotcky - https://www.alanblotckyphd.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss speaks with Dr. Alan Blotcky, a clinical and forensic psychologist specializing in parental alienation. They explore the complexities of parental alienation, including its definitions, behavioral strategies, and varying degrees of severity. Dr. Blotcky emphasizes the importance of effective legal representation and the need for both parents to engage in therapy for successful reunification. The conversation also addresses common misconceptions about parental alienation and the challenges faced in the court system.Key TakeawaysParental alienation can be mild, moderate, or severe.Effective legal representation is crucial in parental alienation cases.Judges often order reunification therapy without addressing the alienating parent's behavior.Alienating parents may not realize the harm they cause to their children.The treatment for parental alienation varies based on severity.Coordination among all parties involved in a case is essential for success.Misconceptions about parental alienation can hinder progress in cases.More information in court does not always lead to better outcomes.Therapists play a critical role in addressing parental alienation.Support from the community is vital for those affected by parental alienation.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation09:02 Understanding Parental Alienation18:08 The Role of Attorneys in Parental Alienation Cases23:51 Misconceptions About Parental AlienationDr Alan Blotcky - https://www.alanblotckyphd.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss interviews Dana, a previously alienated child who has grown into an adult and author. Dana shares her journey of healing from childhood alienation, the complexities of reconnecting with her mother, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, the lessons learned from regret, and the power of choice in moving forward. Dana's insights provide valuable guidance for others facing similar experiences, highlighting the need for education and self-empowerment in the healing process.Key TakeawaysBeing an alienated child is part of her experience, not her identity.Reconnecting with estranged parents can be complex and requires readiness.Navigating family dynamics is challenging for alienated children.Community support is crucial for healing and understanding.Education about psychological abuse can empower individuals.It's important to express one's truth for personal healing.Regret can be a powerful motivator for change and growth.The power of choice is essential in moving forward after trauma.Healing involves facing uncomfortable emotions and experiences.Service to others can be a transformative part of the healing journey.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Alienation and Healing04:24 Reconnecting with the Mother11:30 Navigating Family Dynamics20:12 The Importance of Community and Support26:27 Lessons from Regret and Healing34:46 The Power of Choice and Moving ForwardDana Laquidara - https://danalaquidara.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss interviews Dana Laquidera, an adult alienated child who shares her powerful story of parental alienation. Dana recounts her early experiences of being separated from her mother at a young age, the emotional turmoil it caused, and the long journey of healing and reconnection with her family. The conversation delves into the psychological impact of alienation on identity, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the importance of community and support in the healing process.Key TakeawaysDana shares her traumatic experience of being alienated from her mother at four years old.The emotional impact of parental alienation can lead to repression of feelings in children.Children often feel powerless and afraid to ask questions during alienation.Dana's journey highlights the importance of community and resources for healing.Reconnecting with a parent after alienation can be a complex emotional process.The narrative controlled by the alienating parent can distort children's perceptions.Dana's memoir, titled 'You Know Who', reflects her experiences and insights.Healing involves acknowledging and processing repressed emotions.The journey of healing can take many years and requires self-discovery.Dana emphasizes the importance of understanding the child's perspective in alienation situations.Dana Laquidara - https://danalaquidara.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Randi Fine, an expert on narcissistic personality disorders. They delve into the complexities of trauma bonding, the effects of parental alienation on children, and the importance of reunification therapy. Randi explains the role of 'flying monkeys' in narcissistic relationships and emphasizes the need for internal validation and resilience in the healing process. The discussion also highlights the critical role of legal support for parents fighting for their children in cases of parental alienation.Key TakeawaysTrauma bonding can lead to unhealthy relationships.Children affected by parental alienation need reunification therapy.Narcissists often use 'flying monkeys' to manipulate others.Internal validation is crucial for healing from narcissistic abuse.Legal support is essential for parents in custody battles.The effects of narcissistic abuse can be lifelong.It's important to recognize reactive behaviors in abusive relationships.Support from family and friends is vital for those in trauma bonds.Healing is a continuous process that requires resilience.Acknowledging one's own behavior is key to rebuilding relationships.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Trauma Bonding and Narcissism04:23 The Impact of Parental Alienation on Children10:42 Understanding the Role of Flying Monkeys12:35 Reconnecting with Ex-Flying Monkeys18:04 The Importance of Internal Validation24:17 Fighting for Children in the Legal SystemRandi Fine : https://www.randifine.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss engages with Randi Fine, a narcissistic abuse expert, to delve into the complexities of trauma bonding and narcissistic relationships. They explore the nuances of narcissism, the signs of narcissistic behavior, and the psychological impact of trauma bonds. Randi explains how these unhealthy attachments form and the challenges they present, especially in the context of parental alienation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing manipulative behaviors and the need for support in breaking free from these toxic cycles.Key TakeawaysTrauma bonding is an unhealthy attachment formed in toxic relationships.Narcissistic personality disorder is a serious condition, not just narcissistic tendencies.Intermittent reinforcement keeps victims trapped in a cycle of hope and despair.Children can exhibit narcissistic behaviors due to parental alienation, but it doesn't mean they have NPD.The healing process from narcissistic abuse can take time and requires support.Narcissists manipulate their victims through charm and neglect.It's crucial to recognize red flags early in relationships with narcissists.The cycle of abuse often includes love bombing followed by devaluation.Breaking free from a trauma bond requires understanding and support.Being nice to a narcissist often leads to more abuse, not less.Randi Fine : https://www.randifine.com/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with therapist Emily Moon, discussing the complexities of parenting, especially in the context of parental alienation. They explore the importance of community support, transitioning from a protective to a providing role, the significance of discipline and boundaries, and the value of quality relationships over quantity. Emily emphasizes self-care and personal growth for parents, while also providing actionable strategies for positive parenting.Key TakeawaysParenting mistakes can lead to harmful dynamics.Establishing a supportive community is crucial.Transitioning from protection to provision is essential.Discipline should be consistent and respectful.Quality relationships matter more than quantity.Self-care is vital for effective parenting.Children thrive in safe and consistent environments.Fun and joy are important aspects of parenting.Parents should avoid negative talk about the other parent.It's okay to let children love both parents.Episode Highlights00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges04:20 Building a Supportive Community07:12 Transitioning from Protection to Provision10:54 Discipline and Boundaries in Parenting16:31 Quality Over Quantity in Relationships21:16 Personal Growth and Self-Care24:40 Positive Parenting StrategiesEmily Moon: https://www.emilymoon.life/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss speaks with therapist Emily Moon about the complexities of parenting during high-conflict divorce situations. They explore the emotional challenges faced by parents, the impact of parental alienation, and the importance of vulnerability and accountability in parenting. Emily shares her personal experiences with alienation and offers insights into common challenges parents face, including counter-parenting dynamics and the need for emotional regulation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of teaching children about right and wrong while acknowledging their feelings and developmental stages.Key TakeawaysParenting in high-conflict situations can be overwhelming.Striving for perfection in parenting can lead to harm.Alienating parents often prioritize conflict over children's well-being.Hopelessness is a common feeling among targeted parents.Children's emotional states are influenced by their parents' emotions.Vulnerability fosters deeper connections with children.Parents should acknowledge their imperfections to teach accountability.Understanding child development is crucial in parenting discussions.Counterparenting can severely impact children's emotional health.Support systems are essential for parents navigating these challenges.Emily Moon: https://www.emilymoon.life/Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this New Year's episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss reflects on the past year, discussing personal growth, community support, and the journey of reconnecting with children affected by parental alienation. Guests share their experiences of acceptance, forgiveness, and the importance of setting intentions for the new year, emphasizing the need for patience and self-compassion in the healing process. In this conversation, participants reflect on their intentions for the New Year, emphasizing the importance of setting personal goals, the healing power of writing, and the significance of building connections with family. They discuss the challenges of acceptance in relationships, the joy of community, and the value of service as a means of personal growth. The dialogue highlights the emotional complexities of family dynamics and the shared journey of recovery, culminating in a hopeful outlook for the future.Key TakeawaysCommunity support is vital during challenging times.Personal growth often comes from acceptance of difficult situations.Reconnecting with children requires patience and understanding.Forgiveness is a nuanced part of emotional recovery.Setting intentions can help guide personal growth in the new year.It's important to acknowledge both the joys and struggles of parenting.Practicing self-compassion can lead to a richer life experience.Engaging in lighthearted activities can balance serious recovery work.Building a supportive community can foster healing and connection.Recognizing the blessings in life can shift focus from loss to gratitude. Setting goals can create balance in life.Writing can be a powerful tool for healing.Journaling helps process emotions and experiences.Creating connections is essential for emotional well-being.Acceptance is key in navigating family relationships.Service to others can provide a sense of purpose.Embracing joy and community enhances recovery.It's important to allow space for all emotions.Modeling acceptance can positively influence children.Finding joy in simple activities can uplift spirits.LINKS FOR PREVIOUS THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS PODCASTS:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvS8LXhLs3w&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=18https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GirAtZbHciI&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=19https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlzMvk29zYo&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this Christmas episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss and guests discuss the challenges of parental alienation during the holidays. They share personal stories of estrangement, recovery, and the importance of community support. The conversation highlights the emotional complexities of missing loved ones while also finding joy in new traditions and connections.The guests reflect on their journeys, the significance of planning for the holidays, and the cherished memories that bring warmth to their experiences. In this conversation, participants share their experiences and strategies for navigating the emotional complexities of the holiday season, particularly in the context of estrangement and alienation. They discuss the importance of having a plan, finding joy through service, creating new memories, and leaning into community support. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mental health and self-care during the holidays, encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings and seek connection with others.Key TakeawaysChristmas can be a painful reminder of estrangement.Recovery allows for a better connection with oneself.Creating new traditions is essential for healing.It's important to live for oneself, not just for the kids.Hope for the future is a powerful motivator.Community support is crucial during the holidays.Finding joy in small moments can uplift spirits.Planning for the holidays can provide structure and comfort.Cherished memories can bring warmth amidst challenges.Emotional well-being is key to navigating estrangement. The devastation of alienation can lead to a lack of motivation during the holidays.Having a plan can provide emotional grounding and structure.Engaging in service work can help shift focus from personal pain to joy in helping others.Creating new holiday memories is essential for personal healing.Mental health strategies, such as community support, are crucial during the holidays.Leaning into relationships and connections can combat feelings of isolation.It's important to acknowledge and communicate personal feelings and needs.Finding joy in small traditions can help maintain a sense of normalcy.Self-care practices are vital for emotional well-being during the holidays.Embracing gratitude can lead to a more positive holiday experience.LINKS FOR PREVIOUS THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS PODCASTS:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvS8LXhLs3w&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=18https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GirAtZbHciI&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=19https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlzMvk29zYo&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with attorney Rachel King, who shares valuable insights on navigating the legal system, particularly in family law.They discuss the importance of understanding the attorney-client relationship, managing legal fees, and clients' rights when facing attorney misconduct. Rachel also provides a sneak peek into her upcoming book, which aims to empower individuals going through divorce and family law issues. The episode concludes with a discussion on self-representation in court and the challenges it presents.Key TakeawaysUnderstanding your agency in legal matters is crucial.95% of family law cases settle, often without trial.Effective communication with your attorney can prevent misunderstandings.Reviewing invoices promptly can help manage legal fees.Judges have discretion, making family law unpredictable.Observing court proceedings can provide valuable insights.Self-representation requires a solid understanding of the law.Emotional detachment is key for effective legal representation.Word choice in court can significantly impact outcomes.Reporting attorney misconduct is a viable option.Chapters00:00 Navigating Legal Relationships04:46 Understanding Attorney Fees and Billing Practices10:59 Addressing Attorney Misconduct and Client Rights15:42 Insights from Rachel King's Upcoming Book31:10 Self-Representation in Family Law CasesRachel King - https://rachelkingattorney.com/Rachel's book - "Getting Divorced - Now What?"Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Feeling overwhelmed during a court appearance can be a daunting experience, but attorney Rachel King is here to guide you through the legal maze with confidence. In our latest episode, Rachel draws from her expertise to share transformative strategies for selecting the right attorney and maintaining agency in your legal battles. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, Rachel's insights will empower you to navigate the legal landscape with poise. Her upcoming book promises to be a vital resource for anyone looking to better understand the intricacies of legal representation.We dive into the heart of family law litigation, highlighting the importance of selecting a trustworthy attorney who communicates openly and sets realistic expectations. Trusting your instincts is essential when choosing legal representation, especially in challenging situations like divorce or parental alienation cases. Rachel also sheds light on recognizing ineffective legal representation and understanding when an attorney may not be the right fit, ensuring you're never stuck with unrealistic promises or poor communication.Effective client-attorney communication is the cornerstone of a successful legal journey. Rachel emphasizes the need for clear expectations and understanding between clients and their legal representatives, urging both parties to establish mutual guidelines from the outset. As we wrap up, we focus on the positive impact of community support and kindness, encouraging listeners to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from its empowering insights. Join us in spreading gratitude and continuing our exploration of the legal world with open hearts and minds.Rachel King - https://rachelkingattorney.com/Rachel's book - "Getting Divorced - Now What?"Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Dr. Sue, focusing on the themes of healing, responsibility, and the complexities of parent-child and grandparent-grandchild relationships. Dr. Sue emphasizes the importance of empathy, self-compassion, and understanding in navigating these relationships, while also addressing the challenges posed by narcissistic individuals. The discussion highlights the need for personal growth and the significance of setting boundaries to foster healthier connections.Key TakeawaysHealing starts with taking responsibility for our actions.It's crucial to meet children where they are emotionally.Self-compassion is essential for personal growth.Children should not bear the emotional burdens of their parents.Empathy can bridge gaps in strained relationships.Grandparents must resolve issues with parents first.Time and patience are key in rebuilding relationships.You can only change your own behavior, not others.Good enough parenting is sufficient for healthy development.Conflict resolution requires compassion and understanding.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Healing and Responsibility02:55 Navigating Parent-Child Relationships06:14 The Role of Grandparents in Reconnection09:02 Empathy and Understanding in Relationships11:49 Self-Compassion and Overcoming Shame14:50 Boundaries and Emotional Needs18:04 Managing Conflict with Narcissistic Individuals20:53 The Importance of Personal Change24:04 Final Thoughts and ResourcesDr Sue Cornbluth - www.drsueandyou.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
What happens when the people you love decide not to spend the holidays with you? Join me, Lawrence Joss, as I navigate the emotional minefield of family dynamics during Thanksgiving. Through my personal journey, I explore the crucial steps of emotional and spiritual healing, finding solace and understanding in the face of family estrangement. Drawing from personal growth and the support of a 12-step program, I share the emotional labor required to accept and validate loved ones' choices. Whether you're experiencing alienation from your children or strained relationships with siblings, discover how community and support groups, like Parental Alienation Anonymous, can be a lifeline during the holiday season.Our journey doesn't stop at understanding; it moves toward action, creativity, and new traditions. I offer insights on managing limited interactions during holiday gatherings, emphasizing the importance of being present, flexible, and understanding, especially when time with loved ones is scarce. From creating collaborative artworks to redefining Thanksgiving traditions, this episode is a heartfelt guide for fostering positivity in challenging circumstances. Hear how embracing new Thanksgiving traditions can bring unexpected joy, and uncover practical advice on navigating reunions with young adult children. Connect with our podcast community, share your stories, and become part of a supportive network dedicated to healing and growth.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss interviews Dr. Sue Cornbluth, a national parenting expert specializing in parental alienation and estrangement. The conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, emphasizing the importance of self-connection and accountability in healing relationships.Dr. Sue shares her insights on the differences between alienation and estrangement, the necessity of self-compassion, and effective communication strategies for reconnecting with children and grandchildren. The episode highlights the long-term nature of healing and the need for parents to take responsibility for their actions while fostering healthier relationships.Key TakeawaysSelf-compassion is crucial for emotional healing.Reconnecting with oneself is essential before reconnecting with children.Alienation involves one parent brainwashing the child against the other.Estrangement is when children distance themselves from their parents due to various factors.Accountability means feeling the impact of one's actions on one's children.Healing takes time and requires self-awareness and coping skills.Effective communication is key to rebuilding trust with children.Acceptance does not mean liking the situation but recognizing it.Parents must meet children on their terms for reconnection.No one is a perfect parent; mistakes are part of the journey.Dr Sue Cornbluth - www.drsueandyou.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss delves into the complexities of alienation and estrangement within family dynamics. The conversation explores how communication styles, conflict avoidance, and personal reflections on parenting contribute to these issues. Guests share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of understanding and adapting communication to foster healthier relationships. The discussion highlights the challenges of navigating emotions, the impact of family origins on behavior, and the potential for growth and healing through self-awareness and accountability. In this conversation, participants explore the complexities of parental alienation, the futility of seeking validation from professionals, and the transformative power of recovery. They share personal experiences of navigating the legal and mental health systems, the challenges of communication, and the journey toward self-acceptance and healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of personal growth, compassion, and finding balance in life amidst struggles.Key TakeawaysWe contribute to alienation unknowingly.Conflict avoidance can perpetuate dysfunction.Meeting children where they are is crucial.Disagreements can strengthen relationships.Communication styles are learned behaviors.No communication can be a damaging form of communication.Defensive responses hinder connection.Reflecting on past mistakes is essential for growth.Understanding family dynamics is key to healing.Taking ownership of our actions fosters accountability. Nobody wins in alienation; it's a losing game for all.The desire to win can lead to destructive behaviors.Seeking validation from professionals can drain energy.Personal growth often requires letting go of the need to be right.Recovery involves shifting focus from past trauma to present healing.Finding balance is crucial for emotional well-being.Self-care practices can significantly improve mental health.Embracing change can lead to new opportunities for happiness.Compassion for oneself is essential for healing.Sharing experiences in the community fosters understanding and growth.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss and a panel of parents discuss the complex dynamics of parental alienation. They explore their roles in contributing to alienation, the emotional struggles they face, and the impact of their family of origin on their current relationships. Through personal stories and reflections, the panel emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, forgiveness, and healing in navigating the challenges of estrangement and rebuilding connections with their children.Key TakeawaysParental alienation is a complex issue that affects many families.Self-reflection is crucial in understanding our role in alienation.Emotional dysregulation can lead to unintentional alienating behaviors.Forgiveness and compassion for ourselves are essential in the healing process.Family of origin dynamics often influence our current relationships.Codependency can hinder our ability to be present for our children.It's important to allow children to have their own experiences with both parents.Learning from mistakes can lead to personal growth and improved relationships.Support groups provide valuable resources and community for healing.The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience and understanding.Episode Highlights:00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation02:53 Understanding Our Role in Alienation06:12 Panel Introductions and Personal Stories08:56 The Alienator Within Us12:11 Reflections on Personal Contributions to Alienation14:52 Family of Origin Influences18:08 Coping Mechanisms and Their Impact20:48 Learning from Mistakes24:01 The Journey of Healing and Forgiveness26:52 Conclusion and Call to ActionDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Join us as we embark on a profound exploration of narcissistic family dynamics with our esteemed guest, Randi Fine, a renowned expert in narcissistic abuse. Through this engaging conversation, we unravel the complexities of family roles, parental alienation, and the emotional challenges faced in these environments. Randi brings clarity to the distinctions between dysfunction and true narcissistic traits, offering new perspectives for those navigating these tumultuous waters. As we share personal stories, the episode invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider the impact of patriarchal influences on familial relationships.Our discussion takes a closer look at the red flags in relationships that often indicate narcissistic behavior, such as rapid relationship progression and manipulative conversational tactics. With Randi's insights, we explore the dynamics of the golden child, scapegoat, and invisible child, and how these roles shape family interactions. We shine a light on the courage required to break free from toxic systems, emphasizing the importance of self-care, personal empowerment, and setting strong examples for the younger generation. The path to healing is fraught with challenges, but the rewards of personal growth and self-discovery are worth every step.As we wrap up this episode, we celebrate the power of community and gratitude in the healing process. By fostering an environment of support and positivity, we encourage listeners to engage with their healing journeys and share their experiences with others who may benefit. Whether it's through simple joys or deeper connections, this episode is a heartfelt invitation to embrace transformation and continue the journey of growth alongside a supportive community. We look forward to connecting with you in future episodes, where we'll continue to explore these vital themes and offer paths to liberation and empowerment.Randi Fine - www.randifine.com"Close Encounters Of The Worst Kind" Randi Finehttps://www.randifine.com/booksFAMILIES DIVIDED TV "Navigating the Dating Scene in Today's World After Alienation from your Children - Randi Fine"Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss engages with Randi Fine, a narcissistic abuse expert and recovery coach. They delve into the complexities of narcissism, particularly focusing on its definition as a serious personality disorder, the dynamics of narcissistic abuse within family systems, and the profound impact it has on children. Randi explains how narcissists manipulate their victims, the psychological mechanisms at play, and the long-term effects of growing up in such environments. The conversation also highlights the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships with narcissists and offers insights into the journey of recovery from narcissistic abuse.Key TakeawaysNarcissism is a serious personality disorder, not just inflated self-esteem.Narcissists objectify people and see them as tools for their needs.Children in narcissistic families often suffer from anxiety and other disorders.Narcissistic indoctrination starts from birth, affecting children's development.The roles assigned to children in narcissistic families can be damaging.Narcissists use psychological warfare to control their victims.Recognizing red flags in relationships is crucial for prevention.Recovery from narcissistic abuse is a complex journey.Narcissists require constant admiration and attention to function.Understanding the dynamics of narcissistic abuse can aid in healing.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Narcissism and Its Impact02:57 Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder05:50 The Dynamics of Narcissistic Abuse in Families08:45 The Role of Children in Narcissistic Relationships12:03 The Psychological Mechanisms of Narcissism14:58 The Long-Term Effects of Narcissistic Parenting17:48 Recognizing Red Flags in Narcissistic Relationships21:13 The Journey to Recovery from Narcissistic AbuseRandi Fine - www.randifine.com"Close Encounters Of The Worst Kind" Randi Finehttps://www.randifine.com/booksDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss and Melanie Gill delve into the complexities of parental alienation, and it's profound effects on children. They discuss the concept of ambiguous loss, where children experience a sense of loss for a parent they cannot connect with, leading to emotional neglect and trauma. The conversation explores the roots of parental alienation, therapeutic interventions, and strategies for parents to foster secure attachments with their children. Melanie shares success stories that highlight the potential for change and healing within family systems, emphasizing the importance of understanding attachment as a lifelong bond.Key TakeawaysParental alienation leads to ambiguous loss for both parents and children.Children experience emotional neglect during parental alienation.Mindfulness and EMDR can help parents manage their triggers.Video interaction guidance supports attunement between parents and children.The attachment bond between parent and child is permanent.Therapeutic interventions can lead to significant family healing.Alienators can change when they recognize the harm they cause.Children may exhibit behaviors resembling autism due to trauma.Role reversal in children can occur in enmeshed relationships.Hope exists for families to reconnect and heal.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation and Ambiguous Loss04:50 Understanding the Impact of Alienation on Children11:01 The Roots of Parental Alienation16:14 Therapeutic Approaches and Interventions21:30 Strategies for Parents to Foster Secure Attachment26:17 Success Stories and Hope for Change31:58 Conclusion: The Permanence of AttachmentContact Melanie Gill - melaniegill@mediabar.co.ukFAMILIES DIVIDED - youtube.com/c/FamiliesDividedTVDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss engages with Melanie Gill, an attachment specialist and psychologist, to explore the profound impact of attachment theory on child development and the implications of parental alienation.They discuss how disrupted attachment relationships can lead to mental health issues, the neuroscience behind child development, and the importance of advocacy in addressing these challenges. Melanie shares her insights from years of experience as an expert witness in parental alienation cases, emphasizing the need for proper forensic assessments to uncover the truth in complex family dynamics. The conversation highlights the critical role of community support and the ongoing journey of healing for families affected by these issues.Key TakeawaysAttachment is fundamental to child development.Disrupted attachment can lead to mental health issues.Children adapt to their environments, often at a cost.Cognitive dissonance can create turmoil in a child's mind.Lying can have damaging effects on the brain.Neuroscience provides insights into trauma and development.Advocacy is crucial for policy change in child welfare.Forensic assessments can reveal underlying family dynamics.Community support is essential for healing.Understanding attachment can help in addressing parental alienation.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Attachment and Parental Alienation04:14 Understanding Attachment Theory10:51 The Impact of Disrupted Attachment19:04 Neuroscience and Child Development21:29 Advocacy and Political Engagement28:40 The Role of Forensic Assessment33:11 Coping with Parental AlienationContact Melanie Gill - melaniegill@mediabar.co.ukFAMILIES DIVIDED - youtube.com/c/FamiliesDividedTVDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
What if understanding a single term could transform your family's future? Tune in to our latest episode of the Family Disappeared Podcast, where we dissect the complex issue of parental alienation with the invaluable insights of Dr. Kelley Baker. I share my personal journey of overcoming chronic pain through a collaborative therapeutic approach, underscoring the power of a well-coordinated team that understands the emotional and physical toll parental alienation can take. Explore the delicate dance between attorneys and mental health professionals in family court cases. Dr. Baker sheds light on how understanding their distinctive roles can significantly impact case outcomes. Learn practical strategies to foster cooperation between your legal and mental health advisors, and discover how to navigate the challenges of professional disagreements. Dr. Baker shares her wisdom on assessing and treating parental alienation, emphasizing balanced professional engagement and the importance of avoiding perceived favoritism.Discover how integrating individual and family therapy can support child and family mental health. We discuss the necessity of communication between therapists and how parents can facilitate this process through court orders and HIPAA releases. Hear about successful holistic approaches to reintegration, featuring Dr. Baker's inspiring case study that underscores the power of collaboration among legal and mental health professionals. Stay with us until the end for a chance to win a free consultation with Dr. Baker and a sneak peek into her upcoming book on therapeutic interventions for parent-child contact problems.Dr Baker has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation. In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "Dr Kelley Baker ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be October 7, 2024."Contact Dr Kelley Baker - kabakerphd@gmail.comHer new book - "Therapeutic Interventions for Parent-Child Contact Problems" is scheduled for release in Fall 2024.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Dr. Kelley Baker discusses the court system, assessments, no-contact orders, and the challenges of parental alienation. She emphasizes the importance of advocacy, education, and collaboration between mental health professionals and legal professionals. The conversation also touches on the distinction between parental alienation and estrangement, the impact of false abuse allegations, and the frustrations within the court system. Dr. Baker highlights the need for accurate assessments, timely interventions, and unified teamwork to support families in high-conflict divorces.Key TakeawaysAdvocacy and education are crucial in navigating the court system and addressing parental alienation.Collaboration between mental health professionals and legal professionals is essential for effective interventions.False abuse allegations can have a lasting impact on the credibility and reputation of the accused parent.Challenges within the court system include delays in obtaining assessments and court orders and the need for coordinated teamwork.Accurate assessments, timely interventions, and unified approaches are key to supporting families in high-conflict divorces.Episode Highlights:00:00 Introduction and Overview03:23 Advocacy, Education, and Collaboration13:19 Recognizing Levels of Resistance in Parental Alienation19:01 Parental Alienation vs. Estrangement20:26 Accurate vs. False Abuse Allegations28:33 Challenges within the Court System32:19 The Importance of Unified Teamwork33:18 Conclusion and Closing RemarksDr Baker has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation. In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "Dr Kelley Baker ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be October 7, 2024."Contact Dr Kelley Baker - kabakerphd@gmail.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa, a chronic pain specialist, about the correlation between physical and emotional pain. They discuss the book 'The Way Out' and the concept of pain reprocessing therapy. Vanessa shares success stories of clients who have found relief from chronic pain through this therapy. They also talk about the importance of language in describing pain and the practice of somatic tracking. Overall, the episode emphasizes the possibility of finding relief from pain and improving relationships through understanding and working with the body's sensations.Key TakeawaysPhysical and emotional pain are often correlated, and addressing emotional pain can help alleviate physical pain.Pain reprocessing therapy can help individuals understand and change their relationship with pain, leading to relief.Language is important in describing pain, and reframing how we talk about pain can impact our experience of it.Somatic tracking is a practice that involves getting curious about the sensations in our body and learning to be present with them.Finding relief from chronic pain is possible, and it can lead to improved relationships and a richer life.PPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" . In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "VANESSA ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.com"The Way Out" by Alan Gordon"Tell Me About Your Pain" podcast: curablehealth.com/tellmeaboutyourpainDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa Blackstone, the executive director at Pain Psychology Center, about chronic pain and its emotional and physical components. They discuss how chronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and how it affects relationships.Vanessa explains the concept of Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) and how it helps individuals change their response to pain. They also explore the connection between emotional trauma and physical pain, and the importance of getting to know and understand the pain.The episode ends with Lawrence sharing his personal experience with chronic pain and expressing gratitude for the journey it has led him on.Key TakeawaysChronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and it affects relationships.Pain reprocessing therapy (PRT) helps individuals change their response to pain by providing tools and psychoeducation.Emotional trauma and physical pain come from the same part of the brain, and our brain sends physical sensations to our body as a response to emotional triggers.It is important to get to know and understand the pain before trying to make it go away, as it helps us respond to the physical sensations in a healthier way.Chronic pain can be a result of unresolved emotional trauma or a type A personality that is constantly powering through.Slowing down, taking care of ourselves, and changing our response to pain can have a profound impact on our overall well-being and relationships.Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.comPPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" . In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "VANESSA ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Have you ever felt the heartache of being alienated from your own children or grandchildren? Today, we invite you on a profound journey of healing and understanding as we explore the emotional and psychological experiences of alienated parents and grandparents. Joined by Stephen and Anna from the Parental Alienation Anonymous community, we share invaluable insights into self-compassion, grounding oneself, and the critical importance of maintaining direct communication rather than being ensnared in triangulated dialogues. Through personal reflections and poignant stories, we underscore how setting boundaries can pave the way for healthier family dynamics.Navigating the turbulent waters of parent-child relationships amidst personal struggles and isolation is no easy feat. We confront the feelings of guilt, shame, and confusion that often accompany decisions meant to protect or distance oneself from children during challenging times. By reflecting on past choices and their impact, we emphasize the necessity of community support, resources, and personal resilience. This episode sheds light on the ongoing journey of unpacking past actions and seeking a balanced approach to reconnecting with our children.Understanding family dynamics, dysfunction, and the role of boundaries forms the heart of our discussion. Anna's candid sharing about growing up without boundaries, leading to codependency in her adult relationships, and Lawrence's reflection on his own boundary struggles during his divorce, offer relatable and powerful lessons. We explore the concept of "leaky boundaries" and the challenges of conflict avoidance, using vivid metaphors and heartwarming anecdotes to bring our points to life. Join us for a thoughtful and enriching conversation dedicated to learning, setting, and modeling healthy boundaries for personal growth and better relationships.*PLEASE NOTE: The PAA survey mentioned in this episode is closed for 2024. The new version of the survey will be released in January 2025.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
What happens when you receive an unexpected Father's Day card from an estranged daughter after years of silence? Join us on this heartfelt episode of the Family Disappeared Podcast, where we unravel the emotional and healing journeys of alienated parents. We're diving deep into the experiences of our regular panelists, Anna and Stephen, who share their personal stories of growth. Hear firsthand how small, positive interactions, like a simple card or text, can carry immense weight and significance on the path to recovery.Shifting our perspectives is a cornerstone of this episode. We discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating minor victories without letting a pessimistic outlook overshadow them. Anna sheds light on her transformative journey through a 12-step program, revealing how acknowledging her own role in family dynamics led to profound growth. This episode emphasizes the necessity of self-reflection and taking responsibility for our actions, rather than succumbing to the urge to fix others as a means of regulating our own emotions.The conversation doesn't stop there. We explore the concept of "splitting" in parents, especially during times of emotional stress, mirroring the children's struggles with conflicting realities. You'll hear about Stephen's joyous reconnection with his daughter and Anna's healing encounter with her son, both highlighting the complexities and emotional depths involved in mending estranged relationships. This episode offers valuable insights into the importance of mindful parenting, personal growth, and the ongoing journey toward genuine, heartfelt connections. Tune in for a rich tapestry of stories and lessons that shed light on the intricate dynamics of estrangement and the hope for healing.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Navigating the turbulent waters of parental alienation can feel overwhelming, but what if there was a way to become the stable, unyielding lighthouse your children need? Join us as we share heartfelt stories, including my own personal journey from chaos to calm that inspired the birth of this podcast. We're thrilled to welcome Cindy from iSNAF, whose invaluable insights into family systems and misaligned dynamics shed light on the complex roles parents play in these situations. Cindy also brings exciting news—a special giveaway for a free seat in one of iSNAF's grief groups, designed to help families heal together.Together with Cindy, we examine the intricate dance of grief and transformation through the stages of denial, bargaining, anger, depression, and acceptance. Discover how stepping outside your own pain to serve others can be a powerful catalyst for healing. We emphasize the importance of self-compassion and transformational tools like vision boards, helping parents rebuild their lives amidst the heartache of parental alienation. Cindy's stories of reunification, including a mother reconnecting with her sons and a father's daring act of solidarity, serve as poignant reminders that change is possible with courage and a bit of creativity.From setting healthy boundaries to ensuring financial well-being, this episode covers crucial steps toward personal empowerment and stability. Learn how to become a "lighthouse parent," find strength in supportive communities, and avoid the pitfalls of misinformed advice. Cindy shares inspiring success stories and practical tips for navigating the challenges of parental alienation, emphasizing the importance of self-stabilization and emotional regulation. Tune in to hear about roundtable programs designed to support parents in areas like grief and financial management, ensuring you are better prepared for the journey of reunification with your children.ISNAF website: isnaf.info"ISNAF has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a place on the 'Parental Alienation Grief Program' that they offer. In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "I LOVE ISNAF" or "ISNAF ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be August 26, 2024."Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
What does it feel like to confront the painful reality of parental alienation head-on? Join us for an emotional exploration into the lives of parents navigating this devastating issue. We begin with a deep dive into the transformative power of family systems therapy, a lifeline for those grappling with estrangement and alienation. I share my own journey, from the heartache of discovering Amy Baker's work to the profound relief it brought me. We also welcome Cindy Hirsch, CEO of ISNAF, who enriches our understanding of parental alienation with insights about the organization's mission and the vital resources they offer, like e-books, roundtables, and grief groups.Our discussion takes you through the harrowing process of divorce, the unexpected rise of parental alienation, and the relentless legal battles that followed. We also highlight the extensive support available for parents through ISNAF, including a 135-page handbook, private coaching, and specialized programs on healing and resilience. This episode is a powerful testament to the unwavering hope, community strength, and indispensable resources that can guide parents through the labyrinthine challenges of parental alienation.ISNAF website: isnaf.info"ISNAF has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a place on the 'Parental Alienation Grief Program' that they offer. In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page: "I LOVE ISNAF" or "ISNAF ROCKS!". The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be August 26, 2024."Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Ready to transform your journey of healing from parental alienation? Tune in as we share how connecting with a supportive community can turn feelings of pain into a resurgence of hope and joy. You'll discover how emotional, spiritual, and physical healing can empower you to change your relationships and interactions. Hear from Seth, who navigates his son's rare disease amidst the emotional toll of alienation, and Mary, who reflects on her unexpected growth from divorce and alienation.Gain insights from personal stories of resilience and recovery, demonstrating the transformative power of community support. Through honest conversations, Mary and Seth reveal how their experiences of shifting family dynamics and fostering positive connections have brought profound changes to their lives. This episode underscores the importance of prioritizing emotional sobriety, self-care, and maintaining a simple, mindful approach to recovery. Join us for an inspiring discussion that highlights the significance of personal growth, resilience, and finding joy outside of relationships with our children.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
What if the pain of losing connection with your family could be transformed into a journey of healing and acceptance? In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, we explore the profound impact of parental alienation and the transformative power of finding supportive communities. We welcome newcomers like Mary, who bravely recounts her painful estrangement from her youngest daughter and grandsons, and highlights the crucial role that Parental Alienation Anonymous (PAA) played in her healing.Vanessa and Mary take us deeper into their initial apprehensions and eventual solace found in PAA meetings, revealing the dual benefits and challenges of these 12-step gatherings. Seth reflects on the authenticity and safety he experienced in meetings, emphasizing the importance of community support for individuals at different stages of their struggles. We also discuss various entry points to the community, whether through structured meetings or the flexibility of our podcast, all contributing to a holistic approach to recovery that includes therapy, meditation, and self-care practices.Moreover, Seth and Vanessa shed light on the healing power of humor, nature, and finding beauty in everyday moments. They explain how engaging with both podcasts and community meetings provides a supportive environment where individuals can share their grief without burdening other relationships. The episode wraps up with reflections on connecting with nature and finding moments of joy, illustrating how these elements contribute to emotional healing. Join us as we continue our collective journey of exploring, growing, and healing together, and make sure to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from our discussion.Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Can early childhood emotional experiences dictate the quality of our adult relationships? Join us on Family Disappeared as we welcome Noah Rothschild, a somatic therapist dedicated to uncovering the hidden impacts of our formative years. We take a deep dive into how childhood emotional injuries carve out our need for external validation, and introduce the weighty concept of emotional incest—where a child becomes the emotional regulator for a parent. Rothschild explores how these early experiences can manifest as physical blocks within our bodies, emphasizing the transformative power of attachment and presence in parenting. This episode promises to offer profound insights into self-healing and the intricate mind-body connection.Be prepared for a transformative journey as we explore Integrative Body Psychotherapy (IBP), and it's reparenting techniques. Discover how recognizing our children's behaviors as reflections of their struggles and inherited trauma can engender compassion for ourselves and them. Rothschild sheds light on the importance of somatic work, highlighting how reparenting can break generational patterns and cultivate healthier relationships. This episode underscores the crucial role of self-healing in changing the course of our lives positively, and how it can lead to a deeper, more compassionate family dynamic.We delve into the power of 'Good Parent Messages' in IBP, drawing from the wisdom of pioneers Jack Rosenberg and Beverly Kitaen-Morse. Imagine the healing potential of affirmations like "I love you" and "I see you" in rewiring our inner dialogue and filling the voids left by unmet childhood needs. Through a blend of breathwork, movement, and cognitive therapy, IBP bypasses surface-level narratives to address core emotional wounds. Whether discussing the significance of grounding oneself or releasing stored trauma, Rothschild's insights offer a path to profound presence and self-love. Don't miss this episode if you're eager to understand the mind-body connection, and embark on a journey of self-healing.Dr Noah Rothschild - www.noahrothschild.comInstagram - 'innerchildhealer'Free Facebook group -' innerchildempowerment with Noah Rothschild'Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Have you ever wondered how reconnecting with your body could heal emotional wounds? Join us as we share a transformative journey through somatic therapy, guided by the expertise of integrative body psychotherapist Noah Rothschild. This episode promises to shed light on how moving beyond traditional talk therapy to somatic approaches can help address deep-seated traumas and foster healthier relationships. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, we explore the profound impact of somatic therapy, especially for those grappling with parental alienation, estrangement, and other relationship challenges.Moving from cognitive stories to sensory experiences, we delve into the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy (IBP). Many of us feel stuck in our heads, battling stories that seem insurmountable. Noah reveals how awakening the body's sensory neurons can unlock generational wounds and subconscious patterns. Discover the critical role early life experiences play in our emotional disconnection and learn how accessing the perceptions of the heart and body can lead to profound healing and self-discovery.Limbic attunement, the cornerstone of feeling safe and loved from early childhood, is often overlooked but vitally important. We discuss how it's absence can lead to defense mechanisms that shape our interactions with others, including our children. Through the practice of self-attunement and simple breathing exercises, we highlight how cultivating presence within ourselves can enhance emotional well-being and strengthen our relationships. Tune in to learn practical tips and gain insights into fostering genuine connections through the transformative power of attunement and somatic therapy.Dr Noah Rothschild - www.noahrothschild.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaireThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Can a family graduation ceremony serve as a catalyst for healing? Join me, Lawrence Joss, on the Family Disappeared Podcast, as we uncover the emotional layers of estrangement and reconciliation during pivotal life moments. In this episode, I recount the turbulent journey of co-parenting and the profound impact of witnessing my daughter's graduation. We unpack the feelings of pride, exclusion, and hope that come with such events, while also exploring the importance of emotional resilience and the support systems that aid us through these challenging times.Navigating significant milestones with an estranged co-parent is never easy. I'll share candid reflections on past mistakes, like making negative comments about my ex-partner, and the steps I've taken to foster better communication. With my daughter's desire for normalcy and the looming anxiety of her graduation, I'll provide strategies for staying calm and emotionally available without adding pressure. Using practical advice and personal anecdotes, I aim to guide and encourage other parents facing similar hurdles, emphasizing the power of thoughtful planning and nonviolent communication.Graduations can be a bittersweet mix of joy and nostalgia, especially when attending multiple ceremonies. I'll discuss the healing relationships that have helped me through difficult times, including my bond with my little brother from "Big Brothers Big Sisters". As we move through post-graduation emotions, I'll reflect on the necessity of setting boundaries for emotional well-being. From choosing to step back during family photo ops to savoring moments of connection over tacos, this episode underscores the value of community and self-care. Share your own stories and join our collective journey toward healing and hope.Non-Violent Communication (NVC) - www.nvcacademy.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire“Family Disappeared” podcast survey:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessmentThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Ever wondered why the current family law system feels so inadequate? Join us for an enlightening conversation as we tackle the urgent need for family law reform, prioritizing the well-being of children over contentious litigation. We sit down with Cathy Himlin, an expert in both the foster care system and family law, to explore how channeling resources into counseling and support can significantly reduce conflicts and help families heal. Cathy shares her profound insights into the similarities between the foster care system and cases of parental alienation, offering practical legal processes that could be adapted to improve outcomes.In our compelling discussion with Cathy, we dive into the emotional trauma and attachment disorders that children face in high-conflict divorces. Cathy sheds light on how attachment ruptures in these situations can mirror the emotional harm seen in foster care cases. Our conversation emphasizes the critical need for timely intervention and supervised visitation to prevent prolonged separation and additional trauma. We also discuss the importance of skilled therapists who can help children articulate their feelings of rejection and begin the healing process, making a strong case for systemic change.We then shift our focus to the pressing need for family court system reform. The discussion highlights the lack of child-centered training for judges and attorneys and proposes the introduction of specialized roles such as court officers and trained social workers to provide essential insights into family dynamics and child development. Finally, we offer practical tips for parents on selecting effective therapists, stressing the importance of confidentiality, unbiased communication, and the right therapeutic approaches. Tune in for a rich discussion aimed at fostering better family dynamics and advocating for systemic change.Click on the parent section on Cathy's website to sign up for the free 15 minute consultation mentioned in the podcast.Cathy Himlin - www.himlinconsulting.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire“Family Disappeared” podcast survey:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessmentThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Ever wonder how to support children caught in the turmoil of high-conflict divorce and custody battles? Join us as we host Cathy Himlin, a seasoned licensed marriage and family therapist, who shares her profound insights into family therapy within the court system. Through her child-centric approach, Cathy reveals the intricacies of helping children reconnect with rejected parents, offering listeners a unique look into her innovative modalities for mending broken relationships, and her specialized parenting class designed to aid rejected parents.Navigating the complex world of court-involved family therapy can be daunting, but Cathy demystifies this challenging landscape. Learn about the "list of three" method for selecting therapists and the ethical dilemmas professionals often face. Cathy highlights the importance of maintaining clear boundaries and a child-focused approach, steering clear of controversial reunification practices. We also discuss significant legislative changes in California that are shaping the future of family therapy, emphasizing the importance of supporting and repairing family bonds without causing harm.The journey doesn't end when children become young adults. Discover the ongoing efforts parents make to maintain connections with their children even into their mid-20s and beyond. Simple acts like sending cards can have a profound impact, even if initially met with rejection. We introduce the Rejected Parents Newsletter (which you can sign up for on Cathy's website), packed with strategies for mending strained relationships. Drawing parallels between attachment issues in foster care and those in high-conflict divorces, this episode offers valuable insights into fostering resilience and healthy family dynamics. Don't miss this enlightening discussion on therapeutic approaches in family conflict.Cathy Himlin - www.himlinconsulting.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire“Family Disappeared” podcast survey:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessmentThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Could you be the key to unlocking your child's heart once again? In our heartwarming episode with Dr. Amy Baker, we explore the multifaceted journey of healing through parental alienation. Discover the essential strategies to become an A++ parent, even in the face of hurtful statements from your estranged child. Dr. Baker sheds light on the transformative power of writing amends letters, fostering empathy, and understanding towards your child, offering a path to rebuild fractured relationships.We dive into the often-overlooked early signs of alienation, highlighting how seemingly minor behaviors can spiral into significant family issues. Learn how to recognize these signs, implement proactive communication strategies, and modify behaviors to protect your family dynamics. Practical advice, such as maintaining a journal and seeking early legal counsel, equips parents with the tools to address and resolve potential issues before they escalate.Finally, this episode offers a beacon of hope for parents struggling with the complexities of parental alienation. From powerful stories of persistent parental love to actionable steps for enhancing attachment and navigating conflicts, we provide a comprehensive guide to reconnecting with your child. Hear touching success stories, including a father's unwavering weekly visits and a mother's consistent gestures, illustrating the profound impact of showing up for your children, no matter the response. Join us for an inspiring journey towards healing and reconnection.Dr Baker has generously offered a free session as a prize for our audience. In order to be included in the competition, please do the following; SUBSCRIBE ON OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, AND LEAVE THE COMMENT "Amy Baker Rocks". Competition closes on June 24, 2024. Competition winners will be announced one week after closing, and selected randomly from the YouTube comments.Dr Amy Baker: www.amyjbaker.comDon't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@parentalalienationadvocatesIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email- familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSWebsite: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire“Family Disappeared” podcast survey:https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/podcast-assessmentThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerKriztle Mesa - Social Media ManagerGen Rodelas-Kajabi ExpertKim Fernandez - Outreach CoordinatorConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
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