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Send us Fan Mail- - Sex and intimacy expert Susan Bratton says she's having the best, most orgasmic sex of her life — at 65. In this conversation, she and physician Dr. Debra Durst break down exactly what changed after 90 days of vaginal rejuvenation.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst of RevitalyzeMD sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton to discuss her 90-day experience with the Fotona 4V Lux laser treatment — a non-ablative, dual-wavelength approach to vaginal restoration that goes beyond the vaginal canal to address the full vulvovaginal system, including the clitoris and labia.What you'll learn in this video:- Why regenerative vaginal treatments can take up to 90 days to show full results — and what that healing timeline actually feels like- The difference between older ablative (CO2) lasers and newer non-ablative laser technology- Why treating only the internal vaginal canal misses a major part of female sexual anatomy- How blood flow, collagen stimulation, and nerve regeneration work together to improve sensation, lubrication, and orgasmic function- What role PRP and exosome injections play alongside laser treatmentStart Your Transformation — Grab Your Free GuideResearch shows the #1 trait that makes you attractive to the opposite sex isn't intelligence, success, or income - it's playfulness.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst sits down with Kim Seltzer, dating and confidence expert from the Charisma Quotient podcast, to explore how outer confidence — style, body language, and flirting - shapes attraction just as much as biology and hormones do. Kim shares how she went from feeling invisible after her divorce to helping thousands of men and women rebuild confidence from the outside in.

Send us Fan Mail- - Sex and intimacy expert Susan Bratton says she's having the best, most orgasmic sex of her life — at 65. In this conversation, she and physician Dr. Debra Durst break down exactly what changed after 90 days of vaginal rejuvenation.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst of RevitalyzeMD sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton to discuss her 90-day experience with the Fotona 4V Lux laser treatment — a non-ablative, dual-wavelength approach to vaginal restoration that goes beyond the vaginal canal to address the full vulvovaginal system, including the clitoris and labia.What you'll learn in this video:- Why regenerative vaginal treatments can take up to 90 days to show full results — and what that healing timeline actually feels like- The difference between older ablative (CO2) lasers and newer non-ablative laser technology- Why treating only the internal vaginal canal misses a major part of female sexual anatomy- How blood flow, collagen stimulation, and nerve regeneration work together to improve sensation, lubrication, and orgasmic function- What role PRP and exosome injections play alongside laser treatmentStart Your Transformation — Grab Your Free GuideResearch shows the #1 trait that makes you attractive to the opposite sex isn't intelligence, success, or income - it's playfulness.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst sits down with Kim Seltzer, dating and confidence expert from the Charisma Quotient podcast, to explore how outer confidence — style, body language, and flirting - shapes attraction just as much as biology and hormones do. Kim shares how she went from feeling invisible after her divorce to helping thousands of men and women rebuild confidence from the outside in.

Send us Fan MailResearch shows the #1 trait that makes you attractive to the opposite sex isn't intelligence, success, or income - it's playfulness.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst sits down with Kim Seltzer, dating and confidence expert from the Charisma Quotient podcast, to explore how outer confidence — style, body language, and flirting - shapes attraction just as much as biology and hormones do. Kim shares how she went from feeling invisible after her divorce to helping thousands of men and women rebuild confidence from the outside in.

Send us Fan MailResearch shows the #1 trait that makes you attractive to the opposite sex isn't intelligence, success, or income - it's playfulness.In this episode, Dr. Debra Durst sits down with Kim Seltzer, dating and confidence expert from the Charisma Quotient podcast, to explore how outer confidence — style, body language, and flirting - shapes attraction just as much as biology and hormones do. Kim shares how she went from feeling invisible after her divorce to helping thousands of men and women rebuild confidence from the outside in.

We're going on a Playtone Records tour! It's finally time for us to cover Tom Hanks' directorial debut, which is chock full of fictional music by fictional artists. We're talking about The Wonders, of course, but the Playtone roster runs deep with 60s nostalgia! This one features several real-liife songwriters we've talked about before, and we have a couple surprising tangents as well. We also get a call from the real Guy Patterson – sort of. Featuring specials guests Paul Goetz and Kim Seltzer.

Kim Seltzer & Mark Shaiken

Happy Valentine's Day, Food Heals Nation! In this episode we're exploring stories of true love, self love, break ups, bad dates, heartaches, romance, sexuality, meditation, manifestation, and more. Tune in to hear: - How Josh Trent called in his true love with a yoga prayer - Kim Seltzer explains how to dress for romantic success and why a little red lipstick goes a long way - Stephanie Kwong's shocking Match.com Nightmare and what it taught her about love - Danielle Mercurio teaches us a sexy way to meditate with your man  - Erica Mandy and Laura Petersen share their worst dates - What do do when you're in a nacracssistic relationship with Whitney Lauritsen and Nicole Dersweh - And finally what the heck is a jade egg and how does it support our yonis with Suzy Hardy and Elise Carr   Free Manifestation Workshop: Mark your calendars for Wednesday February 23rd at 5pm PT/8pm ET for a FREE workshop with JJ Flizanes on 3 Reasons Why Talk Therapy is Ineffective and What You Can Do Instead! PLUS how to heal your trauma and manifest your dream life! (The secrets to manifesting will be discussed!) Sign up at www.foodhealsnation.com/therapy.   Thank You to Our Sponsors! Organifi Organifi takes pride in offering the best tasting superfood products on the market at a price that works out to less than $3 a day. You can experience Organifi's high quality superfoods without breaking the bank. Go to www.organifi.com/foodheals and use code foodheals for 20% off your order.   Global Healing Center Global Healing Center is my happy place! The mission of Global Healing is to guide you on your journey to a healthy, balanced life through cleansing, nutrition, exercise, and a happy mind.  Use coupon code foodheals21 to get 20% off all your supplements at www.GlobalHealing.com    

According to Kim Seltzer, confidence is everything! She is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Specialist and she's here today to help you unveil your most attractive self. We all have a confident side it's just that sometimes it's hard to see. It was her own personal transformation that ignited her passion for this kind of work and she will share her story today. So, whether you're looking to simply update your image, or completely transform your dating life her philosophy is simple; work from the inside out to achieve the best version of you.   About Kimberly Seltzer, LCSW: Kimmy attended Indiana University, majoring in psychology, speech communication and theatre. At the University of Chicago she completed her master's degree and became a LCSW all while performing improv at Second City. After practicing as a therapist for over 10 years, she moved to California and trained with one of the top Image Consultants in Los Angeles, Ashley Rothschild at The Rothchild Image. She obtained a certification in Style Coaching through the Style Coaching Institute in the UK which teaches the unique combined use of life coaching, NLP and styling.     Guest ontact Information WEBSITE: https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimmyseltzer       Thanks for listening to the show! It means so much to us that you listened to our podcast! If you would like to continue the conversation, please email me at allen@drallenlycka.com or visit our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/drallenlycka.    We would love to have you join us there, and welcome your messages. We check our Messenger often.   As a big thank you for listening to our podcast, we'd like to offer you a free copy of Dr. Lycka's bestselling book. The show is built on “The Secrets to Living A Fantastic Life.” Get your free copy by clicking here: https://secretsbook.now.site/home   We are building a community of like-minded people in the personal development/self-help/professional development industries, and are always looking for wonderful guests for our show. If you have any recommendations, please email us!   Dr. Allen Lycka's Social Media Links Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/drallenlycka Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/dr_allen_lycka/ Twitter:  https://www.twitter.com/drallenlycka LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/allenlycka YouTube:  https://www.YouTube.com/c/drallenlycka   Subscribe to the show We would be honored to have you subscribe to the show – you can subscribe to the podcast app on your mobile device.   Leave a review We appreciate your feedback, as every little bit helps us produce even better shows. We want to bring value to your day, and have you join us time and again.  Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on iTunes or your favorite app goes a long way! Thank you!

Hook-up culture seems to have surpassed traditional dating among young adults. But is that also the case for our teens? What is your teen telling you about their relationships? Or is it impossible to even find out what a "relationship" looks like for GenZ? Join us today for a conversation with dating and relationship coach Kim Seltzer.

Your significant other of six years has a narcissistic personality disorder and an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. Even when sober, she can turn on a dime and engage in narcissistic rage, which includes venomous, disrespectful rants and the destruction of expensive artwork. It seems obvious that you should break up with her, but she's unemployable and unable to care for herself, and living arrangements for whoever leaves would be difficult to secure in the midst of the pandemic. What's your next move? We'll do what we can to help assuage narcissistic rage and more here on Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in! Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/475 On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: What are you avoiding just because the desired outcome would take longer than you'd like? What do you do when your significant other ruins your stuff in fits of narcissistic rage but breaking up is logistically difficult? [Thanks to friend and therapist Kim Seltzer for helping us field this one!] You're excited about becoming a first-time parent, but you're worried it won't allow you the time to do your full-time job and pursue a career in competitive golf. Does this make you a selfish jerk? An opening for advancement has come up at your company, but you're not sure you're ready for it just yet. Should you go for it anyway, or wait until you've got more experience under your belt and hope that opportunity knocks again? While you're not currently disabled, you do have multiple sclerosis that will gradually incapacitate you to some degree over time. Are you obligated to disclose this on a job application? [Thanks to once-adversary, now-friend, and attorney Jeremy Golan for helping us with this one!] Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com! Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger. Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi. Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course...

In order to truly have the life you want; the career, house, family, relationships, car, lifestyle, wealth, freedom, you name it….you must learn what success is and where it comes from. In today’s episode your host, Heather J. Crider, CEO of Digital Architect Media, high-performance strategist, neurocoach, author, and speaker, interviews dating and image expert, Kimmy Seltzer.  Why does your confidence suffer, and what to do about it?   How you look on the outside can affect your inside thoughts and confidence. In this episode, we discuss why your external appearance has such an impact on your internal thoughts and confidence, despite what we usually think! What you will learn: Why style and appearance have such an impact on how you feel internally. It likely has an even bigger impact than you think. Why color affects our mood and psychology around colors. How to be more confident and comfortable being seen. It is important to remove distractions so you can be authentically you. Kim Seltzer is a confidence therapist and authentic dating specialist. In her business, Elite Image Makeovers, she helps her clients with their style along with their emotional and social intelligence. They find the root of where their fear of being seen started and break down those barriers so their most confident self can shine through.  Website: https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/ Podcast: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Blog: https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/adviceblog/ IG:  https://instagram.com/kimmyseltzer?igshid=9xbn3r3dtmw1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/     Let me know what takeaways you had from this episode. If there is something you hear in this episode that inspires you, please leave a comment or submit a contact us form and tell me all about it, I’d love to hear from you. Also, if you are struck by something, please feel free to share. Visit Me On Social Media @Heatherjcrider and follow along at www.goreflectyourself.com  

In this episode you will learn: Not to be overwhelmed dressing for a date Dealing with wardrobe frustration Closet audit With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style & confidence coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim Seltzer has helped thousands of people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kim has changed lives by changing their style, emotional and social intelligence using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging, and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma, and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, and iDate. Kim is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and DigitalRomance.com, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo Shine, and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also find Kim as the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, and the cable reality dating show, The Romance. You can also listen to her now on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient.  And she currently is hosting The Flirt Academy workshops nationwide. To receive your free gift, click here. https://dm6nmjgp.pages.infusionsoft.net

Ep #112 - Susan and Kim talk about the symbiotic relationship of empowerment and the how we feel about our image in the mirror.--Visit Kim Seltzer's website at: http://KimmySeltzer.com--Visit Susan's website at: https://SusanBurrell.com

Everyday Rockstar (0:00:00) Lisa and Richie talk with this weeks featured Everyday Rockstar. You can nominate yourself or someone you know by emailing thelisashow@byu.edu.   Epic Charcuterie Boards (0:06:59) Whether you're feeling fancy, ready to party or just plain hungry, making a charcuterie board is never the wrong decision. But when it comes to actually making a board, the task can feel daunting. You might ask yourself: what should I put on my board? How do I arrange the foods? What snacks go well with this cheese? Well, worry no more about your board: Joining us on the show today is Maegan Brown, a charcuterie expert and author of the Beautiful Boards cookbook. Today, we're discussing the art of creating and displaying the charcuterie board of your dreams.   Women's Dating Mistakes (0:20:51) If you've seen ‘How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days', then you know there are plenty of things a woman can do to scare off a man—and vice versa. The absence of a postdate text or call can send us reeling. Women especially will go home after a date and over analyze everything they said and did. They wonder if they were clingy, if they made scary assumptions about the future, or talked too much about their ex. It's hard to read a situation and figure out what you're doing wrong. So we invited our favorite relationship expert, Kim Seltzer, on the show today to tell us about the biggest mistakes women make on dates and how they can learn from them.   Fermented Foods (0:41:01) The foods that really deserve the number one spot on the list of the underappreciated and forgotten is fermented foods. For those of you who don't know what counts as a fermented food, think sauerkraut, yogurt, and sourdough bread. The idea of something being fermented sounds gross, but foods that have undergone this process can surprisingly be good for you. There's also new trend of fermenting food yourself. So, we wanted to discuss this trend and what we need to know about fermentation. We've invited food and nutrition expert of over 20 years, Toby Amidor, on the show to tell us everything we need to know.   Online Dating for Beginners (0:59:34) Dating is difficult under normal circumstances. But right now, it is literally harder than ever to meet new people—I mean in some ways it can be literally dangerous to put yourself out there! And while a few months ago online dating was one option, right now, it's almost the sole option for people looking to date. So, here for those of us who are downloading those apps for the first time we have tips from dating concierge Amy Nobile.   COVID-19 and Divorce (1:14:28) While COVID-19 has brought many families closer together, unfortunately it has also put pressure on couples already struggling to keep their marriages afloat. According to USA Today, the pandemic has forced divorce rates to skyrocket. This is one of the hardest things people go through, and finances just make it harder. So, how can you avoid money mistakes during divorce to make it as smooth and painless as possible? Deanna Brown is a Certified Financial Planner and Divorce Financial Analyst. We wanted to invite her on the show today to help us understand more about how to make smart monetary decisions throughout the divorce process.   Storm Chasers (1:28:13) It's3 am, you're asleep in your bed when you hear the loud crack of thunder outside your window. You can smell the rain, and you peak through your blinds to see the sky lighting up with electric blue and purple lightning. You're thankful you can admire this beautiful storm from a distance. But not everyone feels the same way you do. Today we are speaking with someone who willingly places himself in the middle of crazy storms worse than the one I described. Warren Faidley is the first professional storm-chasing photojournalist whose photos are seen around the world in National Geographic, Discovery Channel, and the BBC; and he's the first person to capture a tornado on motion-picture film.

Lisa and Richie talk to this week's Everyday Rockstar, Maegan Brown talks about Charcuterie boards, Kim Seltzer explains dating mistakes, Toby Amidor discusses eating fermented foods, Amy Nobile gives online dating tips, Deanna Brown teaches how to manage finances in divorce, Warren Faidley discusses his experiences chasing storms.

Having trouble navigating the single parent landscape? "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on mama drama, daddy issues, cranky kids, difficult daughters, horndog sons, troubled tweens, and a whole lot more. Everything you need to know to navigate the deep end of the dating pool!

Having trouble navigating the single parent landscape? "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on mama drama, daddy issues, cranky kids, difficult daughters, horndog sons, troubled tweens, and a whole lot more. Everything you need to know to navigate the deep end of the dating pool!

Paul Mehta explains ALS, Kim Seltzer gives dating tips, Ashley Finley discusses how to be allies with people experiencing discrimination, Matt Mendenhall discusses birdwatching, Rich Wistocki explains how to talk to kids about technology, Ebony Thomas discusses black representation in popular media.

(0:00:00) Everyday RockstarRichie speaks with this week's Everyday Rockstar. Submit your Everyday Rockstar nominations to thelisashow@byu.edu.  (0:05:54) Non-Traditional Forms of Affection What's the most creative thing you've done to show someone you love them? Sometimes, the traditional ways of saying "I love you" get a little boring. Sabrina Wang shares out-of-the-box gestures to show your loved ones that you care.  (0:20:27) Giving a Great First DateAren't first dates the worst? While the majority of first dates do not turn into the romantic relationship you were hoping for, relationship expert Kim Seltzer shares a few things you can do to better enjoy your dating life.  (0:40:41) BloballThere truly is a sport for everyone, even for those with little hand and foot coordination. One of these sports is Bloball-- all you need is a ping-pong ball, a table, and your windpipes. Kenny Weiland, inventor of the game, explains how to play.  (0:52:09) How to Stop Stalking People OnlineHave you ever found yourself repeatedly returning to the social media profile of someone specific? Most of us can say we have. But why? Dr. Karen North helps us understand our social media habits.  (1:09:03) Virtual Cooking ClassesCooking is an art that doesn't come naturally to everyone. Luckily, we have cooking classes to help us out. But have you ever considered taking an online cooking class? Cherly Slocum, a James Beard award-winning food author, tells us all we need to know about choosing the right virtual cooking class.  (1:25:19) B.D. White's Artistic ProcessB.D. White, an artist based in New York City, shares his story of painting streetlights in the city to showcasing his art all around the world. 

Stephanie Sarkis explains journaling techniques, Martin Hurlburt gives financial advice, Bob Stahn talks about resources that help with PTSD, Iskra Fileva teaches about closure, Rich Conroy gives tips for bike commuting, Kim Seltzer talks about boosting self-confidence.

Becoming an effective podcaster takes skill and practice, especially if you want your charisma as a host to be an asset. The host of The Charisma Quotient and CEO ofSeltzer Style, Kim Seltzer, joins this episode to talk about how she does business and what her perception of podcasting is. Understand the seemingly complex thought process that goes into the creation of a podcast, starting from signing up a guest, to arranging your intro, all the way to formulating your call to action. Also, learn in this conversation how you can monetize your podcast without devaluing it with sponsorship, but still recoup your costs, and then some. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!Here's How » Join the Binge Factor community today:thebingefactor.comFacebookInstagramLinkedInPinterestYoutube

If you are someone that gets totally stressed out about the "weigh in" experience then this episode will be super helpful for you! This episode is a MUST LISTEN if you experience any of the following: You change your nutrition/fitness game plan almost daily based on what the scale says. Example: "Oh I've lost weight...I can CHEAT today!" or "Oh no I'm UP....no eating for me today!". You are nearing a goal number and you are really stressing out because your results are slowing down. Example: "I'm so close to being under 200lbs for the first time in 20 years....why is it taking so long to cross that line???" You feel a ton of anxiety about the scale and you get in your head about it pretty much no matter what it says. Listen in as I walk you through a series of steps that you can take to get out of your head about the scale!   Fit & Flirty Challenge launches on 4.27.20 I'm doing a special 14 Day Fit & Flirty Challenge with my buddy Kim Seltzer who is a world famous fashion and self confidence coach. We launch the challenge on 4.27.20 and you can get signed up at www.MillionPoundMission.com

Sailing Adventures (0:00:00) While taking an adventure might seem like something out of reach, we hope that you are still making exciting plans and wishlists for the future. Adventure can bring so much meaning to your life and you learn so much about yourself and the world around you. If you are hoping to take an adventure with a significant other and you are unsure what is a fit for you, we have an exciting segment today to answer those questions. We are joined by friend of the show John Zeratsky as he tells us about how he and his wife lived and cruised on a sailboat throughout Central America for 18 months!   Quarantine-Approved Dates (0:17:16) Were you looking forward to taking that special someone on a date before the world shut down? For anyone who's currently trying to meet people and go on dates, social distancing and stay at home orders has made the process more difficult.... but not impossible. With the use of technology and other creative ideas we can continue to move forward in our dating life. With us today to give us some tips for dating while keeping ourselves and those around us safe is Kim Seltzer. Kim is a certified confidence and dating coach, and a therapist.   Racial Inequities and COVID-19 (0:36:36) As we continue to dissect the different aspects of the reality of this COVID-19 pandemic, there are many things to consider. One of those topics is the racial inequity that exists in the medical and social system we live in. Minority communities have many risks and aspects that they must consider in addition to the recommendations they have received from officials. Here to discuss this with us is Dr. Patrice Harris , president of the American Medical Association and a psychiatrist by specialty.   Safe, Not Stuck (0:50:41) It's even easier to slip into a moody version of yourself when you've been stuck in the house for a couple of weeks. And when you're stuck with the same people all day every day, they get to see everything. So, how can we avoid slipping into moody, negative versions of ourselves and be positive through this social isolation time? Wendell Miracle is a Happiness Coach and Motivational Speaker with over 400,000 followers on Instagram. We've invited him on the show today to coach us through this time of uncertainty and a rollercoaster of emotions.   Mini Book Club: April Reads (1:04:46) Rachel Wadham, of BYU Radio's Worlds Awaiting, talks to Lisa and Richie about the best books to check out this month.   Recovering from Abuse (1:25:32) In the United States, an average of 20 people experience domestic violence every minute equating to more than 10 million abuse victims annually. And during the coronavirus, we've seen these numbers skyrocket as Shelter-In-Place rules have led to more isolation and abuse. Unfortunately, recovering from the trauma that comes with abuse can take a very long time. Survivors of abuse have their lives completely rocked and are left often feeling ashamed and confused. We invited Mannette Morgan on the show to talk about how victims of abuse can overcome their challenges and find the peace they are longing for. Mannette is the author of the book “Finding Your Voice: A Path to Recovery for Survivors of Abuse”.

John Zeratsky talks about his sailing experiences, Kim Seltzer gives dating ideas, Patrice Harris discusses race dynamics in a pandemic, Wendell Miracle teaches how to have a positive attitude, Rachel Wadham gives book recommendations, Mannette Morgan gives advice for healing from abuse.

Kimberly Seltzer is a Makeover & Confidence Expert, Therapist and Dating Coach based in Los Angeles. She utilizes the unique combined use of therapy, in-field date coaching, NLP and styling to help people with their confidence and dating life. Kimberly helps men and women update and discover their personalized image through wardrobe consultation and assistance in purchasing clothes that fit each body type and lifestyle. She has developed her own wing gal approach with clients doing in-field work working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts confidence and attraction.   In this episode Doug and Guest discuss: How to build and keep your community and how to get them to fall in love with you. When you're scared or nervous about something, the only way that you're going to get over it is to do it. Breaking down the barrier of salesperson and prospect and making it about building a relationship with your community. It makes sense to make money from your strengths, people are asking you for help. It is your right to be able to ask for money for that. Key Takeaways:  Confidence equals experience. Find the people with experience where you need it, and you will gain confidence. Being authentic and vulnerable builds trust and cultivates relationships with listeners. Try not to have too much of an agenda, so the show can go where it needs to. Mix up your episode format, keep it fresh.   “I don't care if you have a podcast about (something from) nuts and bolts about business to a comedy show., people love and relate to people who they like. We know this to be true about sales, you'll buy something from people you like. And so podcasting is no different.” - Kim Seltzer   Connect with Kim Seltzer: Twitter: https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/ Website: https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/   TurnKey Podcast Productions Important Links: The Ultimate Podcast Launch Formula  www.turnkeypodcast.com/ultimatelaunchformula  FREE workshop on how to "Be A Great Guest." Free E-Book 5 Ways to Make Money Podcasting at www.Turnkeypodcast.com/gift     Want to learn how to podcast? Enroll in our DIY course to get on the fast track to successful and profitable podcasting! TurnkeyPodcast.com/grow   Canva Pro: Create Stunning Design in Minutes!   Check out Headliner to create social media posts with video easily- make.headliner.app   Simplecast is the easiest way to set up your podcast hosting- Simplecast.com   Zoom is the easiest way to schedule meetings and record your podcast interviews- Zoom.us   Acuity is the easiest way to schedule your podcast interviews, meetings, and life. Acuityscheduling.com     Connect with Doug Sandler:   Twitter: djdoug  Facebook: dj.doug.sandler  Website: turnkeypodcast.com/  Email: doug@turnkeypodcast.com   Phone: (410) 340-6861 Instagram: turnkeypodcast/ LinkedIn: doug-sandler-1a346649/     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Kimberly Seltzer is a Makeover & Confidence Expert, Therapist and Dating Coach based in Los Angeles. She utilizes the unique combined use of therapy, in-field date coaching, NLP and styling to help people with their confidence and dating life. Kimberly helps men and women update and discover their personalized image through wardrobe consultation and assistance in purchasing clothes that fit each body type and lifestyle. She has developed her own wing gal approach with clients doing in-field work working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts confidence and attraction.   In this episode Doug and Guest discuss: How to build and keep your community and how to get them to fall in love with you. When you're scared or nervous about something, the only way that you're going to get over it is to do it. Breaking down the barrier of salesperson and prospect and making it about building a relationship with your community. It makes sense to make money from your strengths, people are asking you for help. It is your right to be able to ask for money for that. Key Takeaways:  Confidence equals experience. Find the people with experience where you need it, and you will gain confidence. Being authentic and vulnerable builds trust and cultivates relationships with listeners. Try not to have too much of an agenda, so the show can go where it needs to. Mix up your episode format, keep it fresh.   “I don't care if you have a podcast about (something from) nuts and bolts about business to a comedy show., people love and relate to people who they like. We know this to be true about sales, you'll buy something from people you like. And so podcasting is no different.” - Kim Seltzer   Connect with Kim Seltzer: Twitter: https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/ Website: https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/   TurnKey Podcast Productions Important Links: The Ultimate Podcast Launch Formula  www.turnkeypodcast.com/ultimatelaunchformula  FREE workshop on how to "Be A Great Guest." Free E-Book 5 Ways to Make Money Podcasting at www.Turnkeypodcast.com/gift     Want to learn how to podcast? Enroll in our DIY course to get on the fast track to successful and profitable podcasting! TurnkeyPodcast.com/grow   Canva Pro: Create Stunning Design in Minutes!   Check out Headliner to create social media posts with video easily- make.headliner.app   Simplecast is the easiest way to set up your podcast hosting- Simplecast.com   Zoom is the easiest way to schedule meetings and record your podcast interviews- Zoom.us   Acuity is the easiest way to schedule your podcast interviews, meetings, and life. Acuityscheduling.com     Connect with Doug Sandler:   Twitter: djdoug  Facebook: dj.doug.sandler  Website: turnkeypodcast.com/  Email: doug@turnkeypodcast.com   Phone: (410) 340-6861 Instagram: turnkeypodcast/ LinkedIn: doug-sandler-1a346649/     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

A popular topic now a days is how to date during the coronavirus.

A popular topic now a days is how to date during the coronavirus.

A popular topic now a days is how to date during the coronavirus.

With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style & confidence coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim Seltzer has helped thousands of people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kim has changed lives by changing their style, emotional and social intelligence using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal and iDate. Kim is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and DigitalRomance.com, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo Shine and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also find Kim as a frequent co-host on the podcast The Jordan Harbinger Show with Jordan Harbinger as well as acting as the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, and the cable reality dating show, The Romance. You can also listen to her now on her own podcast, The Charisma Quotient. And she currently is hosting The Flirt Academy workshops nationwide.   Connect with Kim Seltzer: SeltzerStyle Website: http://www.seltzerstyle.com Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/  Twitter:  @seltzerkimberly Instagram: @kimmyseltzer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlyseltzer/     Reach The Nice Guys Here: Doug- @DJDoug Strickland- @NiceGuyonBiz Nice Important Links:   Subscribe to the Podcast website: Niceguysonbusiness.com Book Doug and/or Strick as a speaker at your upcoming event. Doug's Amazon #1 Best selling book Nice Guys Finish First.   Partner Links: Amazon.com: Click before buying anything. Help support the podcast. Acuity Scheduling: Stop wasting time going back and forth scheduling appointments  TurnKey Podcast Productions Important Links: The Ultimate Podcast Launch Formula  www.turnkeypodcast.com/ultimatelaunchformula FREE workshop on how to "Be A Great Guest." Free E-Book 5 Ways to Make Money Podcasting at www.Turnkeypodcast.com/gift  Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.

Ready to make this your best year ever? "Flirt Academy" host Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to map out the 12 things you need to do get out of your comfort zone, remove your boundaries, make new connections, rewire your thinking, shake up your habits, expand your possibilities...and kick-start your love life!

Could you use a Confidence Makeover?If you are curious about how to boost your confidence to attract more success, to build valuable relationships (both in your private life and in business) or maybe to find lasting love and connection, then you definitely want to hear what Kim Seltzer has to say! Join us for this brand new Energy Management Show!

(International Podcast Day) With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style & confidence coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim Seltzer has helped thousands of people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kim has changed lives by changing their style, emotional and social intelligence using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal and iDate. Kim is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and DigitalRomance.com, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo Shine and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also find Kim as a frequent co-host on the podcast The Jordan Harbinger Show with Jordan Harbinger as well as acting as the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, and the cable reality dating show, The Romance. You can also listen to her now on her own podcast, The Charisma Quotient. And she currently is hosting The Flirt Academy workshops nationwide. Devi and Kim discuss: Kim's beautiful journey into podcasting The effect of wearing something more "professional" Being mindful of what is behind you on video Having a "signature piece" for your podcast Being "camera-ready" Tonality and body language Being mindful of the energy you are bringing to the mic Making a conversation interesting Bringing more exposure to your podcast Connecting with people Using your own skillset to start podcasting Gaining more confidence in order to keep going Creating a “social calendar” for your podcast Recognizing that you have a lot to give Reaching out to people through social media Realizing that how you make other people feel matters Kim's techniques for giving a “call to action” and more… Connect with Kim @ www.seltzerstyle.com

When is the right time to ask - or share - all the who/what/where/why you want to know? The Debate Team is joined by "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer in Venice Beach, CA to find the answers to all the tough questions that can make, break, sidetrack, or jumpstart a loving and lasting relationship!

If you're gonna do it, do it right! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer joins Brian and the two of them take on and break down everything you need to know to make sure your dinner leads to breakfast. Where to go, when to plan, what to say, how to order, creating chemistry, and all the tasty tricks and tips you need to create magic over a meal!

Want to ignite the spark? Not sure how to fan the flame? Brian and GLD lead love guru Kim Seltzer launch "Flirt Academy" - everything you need to know to get noticed, make connections, increase opportunities, pump up your possibilities, and kickstart your charisma!

The Dating & Relationship Show – Sunday, February 10th, 2019 – The “Outside-In Approach” with Relationship Expert Kim Seltzer Guests Kim Seltzer // https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/ Host Laura Bilotta // https://twitter.com/singleinthecity?lang=en Co-Host Peter Anthony // https://twitter.com/peterisfunny?lang=en  

We wrap up, review, and recalibrate a crazy year in love! Our lead love guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on why things are (finally!) looking up as we launch a new year filled with new possibilities, new hope, and a fresh dating horizon. Plus, Brian gives a sneak peek at that's ahead for him - professionally and personally - in 2019!

Just in time for the holidays, our listeners sent us a big basket of their bad decisions! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to unpack a treasure trove of poor judgment, questionable choices, illicit affairs, drunken behavior, transitional romances, wrong turns, terrible timing, and so much more!

Sergiu Simmel is on a mission is to Restore Joy in Performance for entrepreneurial business leaders and the people in their organizations. Not only is there a direct correlation between business performance and joy, but also the reality is very little joy in most (not all) entrepreneurial organizations. Kim Seltzer is a Dating, Makeover and Confidence Expert. Through her extensive knowledge as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim is dedicated to helping as many people as possible build confidence, make connections and find love with her signature outside-in approach. Kim transforms the lives of her clients by amping up their personal style and dating profiles, then by teaching them foundational social and emotional intelligence skills in order to attract a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

Sergiu Simmel is on a mission is to Restore Joy in Performance for entrepreneurial business leaders and the people in their organizations. Not only is there a direct correlation between business performance and joy, but also the reality is very little joy in most (not all) entrepreneurial organizations. Kim Seltzer is a Dating, Makeover and Confidence Expert. Through her extensive knowledge as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, Kim is dedicated to helping as many people as possible build confidence, make connections and find love with her signature outside-in approach. Kim transforms the lives of her clients by amping up their personal style and dating profiles, then by teaching them foundational social and emotional intelligence skills in order to attract a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

Brian unveils and breaks down his revolutionary "Law of 20%" to get you out of the relationship you don't want and into the one that you do!  "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns as The Debate Team reveals a foolproof formula to determine when it's time to get out, why you need to draw a line in the sand, where is the point of no return, how to weigh pros and cons, and why your happiness needs to happen now!

Is dealing with dogs a dating deal-breaker? Confidence guru and dog whisperer Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to talk about why pets matter, how a pooch can play Cupid, picking up on signals, blending pet families, overcoming fears, and sending out signals that only a loved one can hear!

Whether it's updating your image or transforming your dating life, Kim Seltzer's philosophy is simple… work from the inside-out to achieve your goals and boost your self-confidence. Kim developed her own personalized wing gal approach with men and women working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction. Her process is fun and empathic aimed at improving dating experiences and relationships. The services at SeltzerStyle provide include private phone/Skype sessions, email coaching, and dating boot camps. Is your brain being altered by video screens? The prime culprit in hijacking attention spans is the smartphone. Do you know how to unplug? Learn ways to get your focus back! Have you ever wondered where ladybugs come from and how their life cycle evolves? Cynthia Brian witnessed the metamorphous and was completely captivated by the experience. Where there are aphids, ladybugs feed. Find out more when the Goddess Gardener bugs out!

“The vision is that people should have the ultimate in convenience. Being able to get the things they care about.” Bill Gates Millennials don't remember a time without all of the tools of expediency. We are steeped in comfort and convenience while waiting anxiously for the next exciting invention that will enhance and augment expediency. Hosts Joven Hundal and Brigitte Jia read Cynthia's Brian's chapter, The Gift of Convenience form the forthcoming book, Be the Star You Are! Millennials to Boomers and theyinterview dating and makeover expert Kim Seltzer to help people work on image, charisma, and flirting. Everyday is different as she works with clients to boost their self esteem. She does virtual makeovers helping men and women all over the world unveil their most attractive self. Whether it's updating your image or transforming your dating life, her philosophy is simple… work from the inside-out to achieve your goals and boost your self-confidence.

Are you dating a narcissist? Brian is joined by "Prison Letters' host Dr. Mark Goulston and leading confidence specialist Kim Seltzer to debate the answer. The warning signs, the false alarms, the keys to avoidance, the misinformation, the points of origin, the hidden triggers, the polar opposite, and how to take control of any situation!

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: If your significant other voices negative opinions about people who have plastic surgery, should you tell them you had a nose job six years ago? How do you learn to trust your instincts to become a better judge of character? How can someone highlight the unconscious conditioning at the root of their problems to ask the real questions they need answered? A listener writes to let us know he enjoyed our episode with Neil Pasricha, and wonders if paying for the full tab on a first date (or casual meeting) makes the man come off too strong? Another listener lets us know how Kim Seltzer's advice in a past Fan Mail Friday helped him gain clarity about his life's direction. Thanks to Victor Mizrahi for being a hardcore AoC fan. It means a lot to us! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-71-like-a-neckbeard-champion/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: Is there a polite way to snap your friend out of a need for attention from the opposite sex and get them to see they're awesome as they are? Why is it sometimes so hard to stay away from people we clearly know are wrong for us -- like the narcissists Kim Seltzer has discussed on the show before? A relationship seems to be going well until the other party backs out when you set boundaries. Are we supposed to constantly put ourselves out there no matter how many times we get rejected? What are the chances of having a successful relationship with someone who is much older than you? How can you get your otherwise perfect partner to be more vocal in the bedroom? We get some good feedback for advice given regarding how to disclose a history of breast cancer and reconstruction to a new romantic interest in FMF 61. What kind of memories do you hold on to? Next time you find yourself only remembering the negatives, balance it out with positives. Here's Jordan's video: How to Retrain Your Brain to Recognize Positive Outcomes. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-63-lady-boner-killer/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #44! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!Because Jordan is out of town, Kim Seltzer joins Jason for today's Fan Mail Friday!In this episode:How does someone with Tourette syndrome make good first impressions?How do you break up with someone who has mental health issues?What do you do when you're happy with where you live, but your spouse wants to move to a city that's a thousand miles away?How does a woman who already has a boyfriend make new platonic male friends without leading anyone on?How does someone who's been out of the dating scene for a while due to self-confidence issues get back into it -- especially in an unfamiliar town?What really creates attraction? (And what do you do when you find yourself constantly attracted to the "wrong" people?)Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com!Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-44-data-dating/HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need.Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereviewStay Charming!

"Part of trust is being secure, not just with you as a couple but also within yourself." - The Art of Charm The Cheat Sheet: How long-distance becomes full-disclosure and why it's good. How to work backwards when you go from long distance to being in the same city. The benefits of long-distance. Why admitting you miss her is so important. Women and plants: the correlation. Why women dig it when you remember details about their lives. And so much more... Most people will tell you long-distance relationships never work. But what if you've met an incredible woman and the only way you can be together is long-distance and you want to give it a shot? What do you do then? In this episode, I talk with Kim Seltzer, a trained therapist, about how to navigate the waters of a long-distance relationship and how to make it work. We talk about the 3 phases of dating, what factors to evaluate when considering moving in with someone, behaviors that are red flags in you and in the woman you're dating, why trust is so vital and how to communicate to keep your connection no matter how far apart you are physically. More About This Show: I put myself on the hot seat for this one! With Kim, I talk about my long-distance relationship that is soon to become a same-city relationship. My girlfriend is moving back to LA and we're talking about moving in together. Because the majority of our relationship has happened while we've been in different cities, I had a lot of concerns and questions I wanted to bring up. Like even though it's practical, is it really a good idea to move in together if we've almost always been in two different cities? What if this relationship isn't moving on the timeline I would've picked? It isn't all about me though; we also talk about some basic relationship issues like communication, trust and red flags to look out for when dating. Although we've talked about it before on the show, the topic of moving in together seems to be common. Kim and and I speculate the reason so many couples who live together first eventually divorce may be because there's really nothing to signal the significant event of marriage. When you live together you just separate your stuff, you move out and you're done. Going from this I-always-have-an-out option to marriage is a tough transition because there's really nothing that signals that big change. But if you don't live together first and then you marry and move in together, the massive change all happens at once because of the wedding ceremony (but not really of course). Suddenly it's real and it's forever and you take it more seriously than when you just lived together. Another topic is the phases of dating, in response to my concern about the ideal dating timeline. The three phases, according to Kim, are: Courting phase: This is the cat and mouse chase. This is when the guy gets girl, the girl wants the guy to chase her. Pure dating phase: This is when you've been dating for a few months. At this point you're exclusive and you're figuring out if you're compatible for the long-term. Full-blown relationship: This is when you're moving towards partnership, marriage, the forever kind of situation. One thing Kim pointed out about these phases is that if you're good at one - like most guys are good at courting - you're probably weak in another phase, like the full-blown relationship. If that's you, working on yourself and listening to this show (attending one of our programs ahem), are all good ways to strengthen your abilities in the other dating phases. Now if you're dating a woman and you want to evaluate yourself and her before moving into one of those latter phases, how do you know what to look out for? What are some red flags? Here are a few we talk about: You must know what you both want. Communication is huge so you have to talk about what you both are looking for in this relationship. And that leads into talking about the longer-term picture: do you both want children? do you both want to get married? etc. Look at your values: do you see money, religion, and work the same way, etc? Does she have a career and want to keep it after marriage and you start a family? If not, why not? Your social lives: is one of you more social than the other? This is especially challenging if you go from a long-distance to same-city/living together situation. Suddenly she has no one but you. It's something to think about. Obviously those are all important considerations and factors to weigh when you're looking at your relationship, whether it's long-distance or you're in the same city. And so much of that list is dependent on communication. As guys we're not the first ones to offer up our feelings, but that is one of the best ways to make sure the woman you're dating or your girlfriend (or wife) knows how you really feel about her. This is even more critical in long-distance relationships because you aren't spending time together and you can't rely on the physical aspect of the relationship to show your feelings. There is tremendous strength in being vulnerable and showing her how you feel. Periodically telling her you care, you miss her and you're thinking of her are important in any relationship, but again especially when you're long-distance. Whether it's with a phone call, a text or a Skype chat will show her you care, you'll feel good expressing yourself and she'll feel good hearing those words from you. It becomes a positive circle that grows and strengthens your relationship, even if you live in the same city. This is actually critical if you are in a long-distance relationship, it is what will keep you together. And it'll help if you start to feel jealous. The most important thing to remember about jealousy is this: if you feel secure in who you are, you can feel secure in a relationship and not be threatened by every guy who talks to her or she hangs out with. Jealousy needlessly screws up a lot of relationships because one (or both) of the two people aren't secure in their own self and it shows up in the relationship. This is of course absolutely true of long-distance relationships. Any insecurity is going to poison the relationship than you can stop it. While this episode was devoted to the topic of long-distance relationships, so much of the content applies to any and all types of relationships. Whether you're dating, in a relationship or in a committed long-term situation, I hope you found valuable content you can take action on to get what you want out of your love life. Resources from this episode: Kim's web site Kim on Twitter You'll also like: -The Art of Charm Toolbox -Best of The Art of Charm Podcast HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dug this episode, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from all the fluff out there. FEEDBACK + PROMOTION Hit us up with your comments and guest suggestions. We read EVERYTHING. Email jordanh@theartofcharm.com Give us a call at 888.413.7177 Stay Charming!