Podcasts about black girls heal

Hey girl,In today's episode, we'll explore the world of love addiction, led by renowned coach Shena from Black Girls Heal. Delving into the complexities of relationships and emotional dependency, this insightful discussion offers invaluable insights and guidance for those seeking to understand and overcome patterns of addictive behavior in love and relationships.Shena Lashey BioShena Lashey is a Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, Coach, and Licensed Professional Counselor based out of Houston, TX. She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, and coaching and therapeutic education company dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships & love addiction, heal unresolved childhood trauma, and improve their self-love to make way for the love they want. With these specializations, Shena hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things love addiction, intimacy, attachment, and healing internal wounds. She's created the Healed and Loved Woman Framework ™ to help women have a clear path to outline their healing process to become balanced and available to healthy love. Her coaching programs housed under The Recovery School help give women proven and tested systems to break these cycles and change their lives. Whenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests for to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, and my online course with 25+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $250...​​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With almost 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about calling in your man, check it out here.​Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast Episode

For the first episode of 2024, we are diving head first into healing and becoming the best version of ourselves. I've been on my healing journey for 2+ years and I have a lot of information and perspective to share. So many of us are starting new journeys this year and I want to be able to provide some crucial insight that could help you on your journey. Happy healing! Creators mentioned: Terri Cole, Alexis Sparks, Psych2Go, Dr. Tracey Marks, Lavendaire, Therapy Jeff, Therapy in a Nutshell, Stephanie Lynn Coaching (Not mentioned: RC Blakes, The Holistic Psychologist, Breeny Lee). Podcasts mentioned: Self Care IRL, Black Girls Heal, For the Healthy Hoes, Balanced Black Girl, On Purpose w/ Jay Shetty, The Self Love Fix, Unpack with Cat, Woman Evolve, The Moments Podcast, I Missed Me, Dear Future Wifey. (Not mentioned: Therapy for Black Girls, In the Light, Happy & Healthy, The Daily Grace, The Anxious Love Coach, The Christian Bae).

The purpose of CelesteTheTherapist is to help shift the way you think. Many times, we get stuck in a negative cycle and struggle with getting out. Celeste will interview guests from different backgrounds who empower people in different capacities. In this insightful episode, our host delves into the complexities of relationships and love addiction with a very special guest, Sheena Lashey. Sheena brings her expertise as a licensed professional counselor and trauma recovery coach from Houston, Texas, to the table. She shares her experience working with women who struggle with sex and love addiction, providing a deep understanding of the issues at hand. Through her work, Sheena has discovered that although some may view love addiction as a niche issue, it is widespread and impacts many lives. Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to embrace positivity and take control of their mental wellbeing, as Sheena imparts valuable truths and mind-shifting insights. Join us for a conversation that's not just about highlighting problems but also about exploring solutions and building a future filled with positive vibes.   [00:01:53] Love addiction discussion. [00:06:28] Love and Sex Addiction. [00:08:26] Childhood emotional neglect. [00:14:27] Love addiction recovery journey. [00:17:34-00:17:44] Withdrawal from addiction. [00:23:15-00:23:26] Progress, not perfection. [00:25:06] Boundaries Bootcamp Workbook. [00:30:00] Healing personal responsibility. [00:32:38] Love addiction withdrawal.

I begin today's show with a blog I first published… oh, maybe back in 2013? It's called How to Stop Having Same Old Problems… and it's about exactly that. Yeah, okay. It took me a major life crisis to move past some of the old detritus. But must it always take a crisis? I share thoughts on how to weave your way past the roadblocks and problems you're just sick to death of having.   And on to relationships!   My guest this week is Shena Lashey, host of the Black Girls Heal podcast and a coach, brings us some really good insight about the nature of addictive relationships. I learned all about the fraught give and take between love avoidants and love addicts… and I hope you will, too.   We talked about:   -       How her own relationships showed her what was needed -       What love addiction has to do with trauma -       How love avoidants can't resist love addicts and vice versa -       How systemic racism contributes to the trauma for women of color -       What to do about it, and how Shena works with her clients   Shena's perspective is warm, real and wise… I hope you love this chat as  much as I did.   Love,   Suzanne       RESOURCES   Suzanne's blog, How to Stop Having the Same Old Problems   Free Spirited; How My Daughter Healed Me From the Afterlife   Shena Lashey's podcast Black Girls Heal   Shena Lashey's website, coaching, etc.     OUR GUEST Shena Lashey is host of the Black Girls Heal podcast, and a former Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in helping women heal from unresolved childhood trauma wounds, break free of addictive relationships, compulsive sexual patterns, intimacy disorders, and build a healthy sense of self-worth and value.    

This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Connect with over 3000 licensed therapist at your fingertips by getting better assistance, better options, and BetterHelp today at betterhelp.com/MyCurlsSpeak In this episode Key is joined by Shena Lashey of Black Girls Heal podcast.  The two discussed Key's battle with codependency and love addiction and also love attachment styles and how one can navigate through them and still maintain a healthy connection, especially one with an anxious avoidant attachment like Key's .. Also the two talked about why anxious avoidant attached people usually are attracted to dismissive avoidant partners. This and so much more was discussed on this episode.You can listen to the Black Girls Heal podcast each and every week wherever you listen to this podcast.website: Blackgirlsheal.org@blackgirlsheal on all social media platformsTo follow the podcast on Instagram @mcswithkeyTo follow Key, the voice behind everything follow me @thediaryofkey and that's on all social media platforms .To send an advice letter You can email Key at key@mycurlsspeak.com Or you can call the hotline at 803-310-4075See you next week.Support the show

When we find ourselves in relationships that don't serve our needs or may be abusive, our partners can have attachment wounds. Shena Tubbs, creator of Black Girls Heal joins us today to discuss love addiction, love avoidance, and love deprivation. If you find that you fall in love fast with potential or fantasy, and create stories of living happily ever after before truly knowing a person - you may struggle with love addiction. If you experienced relationship trauma that causes you to fear love and relationships, thrive in independence and freedom, you may struggle with love avoidance. If you struggle with shame, self-rejection, unworthiness, and tend to push people away; then you may struggle with love deprivation. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be sensitive in nature, therefore listener discretion is advised. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.  Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Podcast To connect with Shena Tubbs visit: Black Girls Heal Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones hello@drnataliejones.com  Sign up for the free ebook on Red  Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at www.drnataliejones.com Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know here. Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: A Date With Darkness Twitter: @Adatewdarkness Facebook: A Date With Darkness To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

We're deep into Mental Health Awareness Month and there's no way we can get through this series without talking about stress! Stress is a natural part of our everyday lives. We have these bills, jobs, relationships, family…all the tings so a little stress is inevitable but we oftentimes overlook the ways stress can be beneficial. This week we're taking some time to shift our perspective on what it means to be stressed by learning the difference between good and bad stress.Last week we we're joined by Shena Leshay of Black Girls Heal to chat about mother wounds. Listen Now!Support us on Patreon | Get Bravado bonus content!Subscribe on YouTube | Our episodes are uploaded weekly.Join our Facebook group | Share your thoughts, ideas and business ventures in a safe space! Visit us:WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagram @frombeetoyou and @heygermaniShop our Statements Collection!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-black-girl-bravado1502/donationsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're coming off the heels of celebrating the mommas and while some of us have amazing relationships with our mothers, we know that's not the case for everyone. The mother daughter dynamic can be explained in many ways. It can be interesting...special...complex...challenging...nonexistent and even hurtful. *Mother wounds enters the chat*This week we've welcomed back one of absolute favorite homegirls, Shena Leshay of Black Girls Heal to dive deep into the mother wound concept. Shena explains the signs and effects of mother wounds, how to identify if you have a narcissistic mother and most importantly how to heal from a mother wound.Connect with Shena:https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/@Blackgirlsheal - InstagramSupport us on Patreon | Get Bravado bonus content!Subscribe on YouTube | Our episodes are uploaded weekly.Join our Facebook group | Share your thoughts, ideas and business ventures in a safe space! Visit us:WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagram @frombeetoyou and @heygermaniShop our Statements Collection!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-black-girl-bravado1502/donationsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I discuss how I started my own healing journey as well as sharing some tips on how you can start yours as well. I discuss cultivating hobbies, choosing peace, the important of solitude, boundaries, and so much more. I hope that you find this episode helpful. Remember to send feedback to selfcaremonologues@gmail.com. Books mentioned: F*ck No by Sarah Knight, Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur, She Felt Like Feeling Nothing by r.h. Sin, Relationship Goals by Pastor Michael Todd Podcast mentioned : Black Girls Heal, https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsheal Instagram Accounts: @Minaa_b on Instagram , https://www.instagram.com/minaa_b

Hey! This episode was a quick rant that was not outlined or planned out. So if it seems all over the place it's because it is. But I dropped so many gems in this episode just to re-evaluate your self worth. And how you see yourself. How easy it is to mentally bully ourselves without even a second thought. Also how positive self talk is necessary to life. I use the rainbow and pot of gold as a really good metaphor, which should inspire you to know that even if some things change you can still reach your happy ending. There is an author by the name of Mel Robbins who has a book discussing this topic "The High 5 Habit". I listened to her on Good Moms Bad Choices a few weeks back, that inspired this episode but at the moment it clicked but it didn't CLICK. If you know what I mean. Well this year is starting off great because it's clicked. And I haven't even read her book yet. I just listened to that one episode. Should we read this book in our book club? I think it'll be beneficial. I'm a visual manifestor so I just wanted to picture my inner child....with her little poms poms wearing her purple and green uniform on, cheering me on. What does your little cheerleader look like? How's her hair styled? Which shoulder is she standing on cheering you on? Let's talk about it! DM me on Instagram @femaleenergypod or @shaerayvonwww.instagram.com/femaleenergypod www.instagram.com/shaerayvon**Leave a RATING & REVIEW on Apple Podcast**

This is Episode 11 of The Africans Heal Podcast.

I'm back! It's been a little over a month since I dropped a podcast episode and I've taken the time to do some deep soul searching. Listen in to hear all the things I've learned about myself both professionally and personally and what that means for you and the future of Black Girls Heal. Probably the most important part of my hiatus was self-assessing my ADHD. I've spent years wondering whether or not I have ADHD. Every time I hear someone talk about the symptoms or describe their lives, I immediately think that they're talking about my life.  So, when one of my business mentors released a podcast episode describing their journey with ADHD, I decided it was time. I took several self-assessments and they all told the story of my ADHD. I then made an appointment with a psychiatrist to formalize my diagnosis and to be prescribed medication.  My doctor agreed that I do indeed have ADHD, specifically inattentive ADHD, but unfortunately I cannot take any medication at this time. Now I'm looking for ways to treat this in a naturopathic way, but my goal is to elevate my overall health so that I can, someday soon, be placed on medications to help me with my activities of daily living.  But that's not all. This hiatus was a necessity for my life and business. Listen in to hear all about my revelations and what I focused on during the hiatus. I'm feeling better than ever and I cannot wait to get back into the swing of things and help women, specifically Black women, to heal.    In this episode:  [00:34] Welcome back to the Black Girls Heal podcast! [02:15] I took this time to go through the Recovery School curriculum.  [03:26] It was also a time to self-assess for ADHD and get clear on what I'm manifesting. [05:08] Self-care was a huge focus for me during the hiatus as was personal development.  [06:08] I sought clarity around how I help women publicly and privately.  [07:57] I've suspected for several years that I qualified for the inattention version of ADHD, so I decided it was time to dig deeper.  [11:52] How I approached my self-assessment and treatment.  [14:09] The things I checked off as it applies to inattentive ADHD.  [18:57] After all this work, I'm not able to take ADHD medication.  [23:04] Why I want to be able to take medication in addition to natural therapies.  [26:54] I do not want to see black people continue to struggle with their mental health when they need more than therapy, yoga, or prayer.  [29:00] Stepping into my feminine energy has helped heal broken areas of my life.  [32:00] I'm planning to head out to New York because travel is great for my soul, especially because my trips allow me to connect with students.  [34:30] I've started dropping my excuses around exercise as self-care.  [36:55] Be careful about the things that you say you'll never participate in.  [38:15] The last few things I focused on during the hiatus revolved around the business.  [40:26] I've been wanting to start a YouTube channel for a long time, and I'm ready to do it, but in a different format.  [42:30] I am launching a planner. Listen to learn what this planner is built to do for women everywhere.  [44:42] I'm revealing the name of the new business and who this planner is for.  [46:32] How I used the hiatus to confront and overcome my own impostor syndrome.  [48:17] Stay tuned for all of these updates.   RESOURCES MENTIONED Join our weekly text inspiration list by texting PODCAST to 832-219-7815 Get our free download - The 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction Apply to work together in From Avoidant to Available Learn that YOU ARE WORTHY  - Enroll in You Are Worthy here Create balance and love in your life with The Loved Woman Planner CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org

In today's episode I unpack on finding self belonging and inner security first. By that, I mean learning to belong to yourself first and asserting that inner child in you that she is safe. Self belonging is being in a relationship with yourself and getting to know who you are the same way you would if you were in a relationship. Part of getting to know ourselves better requires sitting with our inner child. In this episode I also talk about what happens when we don't know ourselves better and get into a relationship, and how do you get to know yourself better even in a relationship. ~Show notes~ [00:00] - Intro [03:30] - On finding self-belonging and inners security [11:15] - What happens when you don't know yourself better and get into a relationship [18:40] - How do you get to know yourself better even in a relationship [22:00] - This week's affirmation The podcast I referenced her is Black Girls Heal. Thank you for being here. Produced and Hosted by @lifewithOlerato Follow the podcast on Instagram @livingcontentpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/livingcontentpodcast/message

We're still going strong with our “Heal Thyself” series and this week we're discussing intimacy disorders with our girlfriend, Shena Tubbs, of Black Girls Heal. Shena is a personal coach, trauma specialist, love addiction and trauma expert as well as a licensed professional counselor and married + family therapist. She is also the creator and host of Black Girls Heal— a podcast dedicated to helping women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships and grow into their self-worth. In this episode Shena explains the different types of intimacy disorders + the signs of each. We get a little emotional discussing our father wounds and the way our family trauma has caused intimacy disorders to manifest in our lives + relationships. Shena holds space for us while dropping gems on ways we as women can continue to grow and heal into the women we truly want to be. Website: BlackGirlsHeal.org Free Roadmap: Blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Instagram: @blackgirlsheal ( http://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsheal ) Shop the Capsule 001 Collection ( https://www.theblackgirlbravado.com/shop ) Shop the BGB x Heritage Apothecary Collab ( https://heritage-apothecary.com/collections/black-girl-bravado-product-collabs?ref=rf-el3-0gthk ) Use Code: THEBLACKGIRLBRA for 15% off your order Join us on Patreon ( https://www.patreon.com/theblackgirlbravado ) Join our Facebook group, "The Black Girl Bravado Podcast Homegirl Hangout" to engage with other likeminded women. Share your thoughts, ideas, business ventures- in a safe space. Feel free to reach out to us!! Visit us at: Website ( https://www.theblackgirlbravado.com/ ) Twitter ( https://www.twitter.com/blackgrlbravado ) Facebook ( https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackGirlBravadoPod ) Facebook Group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/199147677438093 ) Instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/theblackgirlbravadopod ) @frombeetoyou and @heygermani Brand Partners: Ned | Visit www.helloned.com/Bravado ( http://www.helloned.com/Bravado ) or enter code BRAVADO at checkout for 15% off your first one-time order or 20% off your first subscription order plus FREE shipping. Aussie | Visit @AussieHairUSA ( http://www/instagram.com/aussiehairusa ) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-black-girl-bravado1502/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Queens!! The Let Me Fix My Crown Podcast is all about helping women repair their mental, spiritual, financial, physical, and emotional health. All of these combined make up your crown, and if one is out of alignment, you are out of alignment. Coach G helps you put your crown back on and become ALIGNED.   In this inspirational episode, Coach G chats with Shena Tubbs, a licensed, professional counselor, trauma specialist, and love addiction coach based in Houston, Texas. Four years ago, she founded Black Girls Heal, an online community and coaching program. Her mission is to help women heal from the symptoms of love addiction, love avoidance, love deprivation and the trauma it causes. This allows women to break free of their trauma and make way for the love that they want and deserve. Shena transitioned from being a counselor in a private practice to an online coach, where she bridged the gap between these professions to reach more women providing them with the help they need.    Through Black Girls Heal, Shena offers healing circles and a coaching program called Recovery School. Through healing circles, women connect with a group of like-minded women to start building healthy relationships in a safe place. Recovery School is an online recovery program in which black women receive coaching, helping them heal unresolved trauma due to love addiction, love avoidance, and love deprivation. Stay tuned, as Shena is initiating a membership called “The Healed and Loved Woman”.    Review and Follow  on Apple iTunes. https://podcasts.apple.com/ug/podcast/let-me-fix-my-crown-the-podcast/id1522711695   Connect with me and the Queens Mentality community over on Facebook by joining the FREE GROUP The Self~Love Corner.    Find me on IG: @lmfmcpodcast    Website: www.thequeensmentality.com   Review and Follow Black Girls Heal on Apple iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/black-girls-heal/id1448286071    Visit the Website: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org    Head over to https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap/ and sign up to receive the FREE “5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction”   Click here to buy Shena’s “Black Girls Heal Coloring Book: Mindfulness Coloring & Activity Book”   Follow: FB @blackgirlheal IG: @blackgirlsheal

Today’s episode is a rewind interview featuring Shena Tubbs, a Relational Trauma and Attachment Specialist, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Love Addiction Coach based out of Houston, TX. She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, an online community dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships and feeling not enough by healing what’s within. In addition to Black Girls Heal, Shena has a private practice where she specializes in helping women heal from unresolved childhood relational trauma, love addiction, and changing relationship patterns. She also hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things intimacy, attachment, and healing internal wounds. RESOURCES: Listen to the Black Girls Heal Podcast ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/black-girls-heal/id1448286071 ) Follow Black Girls Heal on Instagram: @blackgirlsheal ( https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsheal/ ) Apply to the Black Girls Heal Recovery School ( https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUnZqFM74TjWUvSmN5iJsOeFi3Tha4G-PT4Ee545HWi6YjRQ/viewform?usp=send_form ) This episode is sponsored by Skillshare. Head to skillshare.com/balanced to get a free trial of a premium membership. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this episode, I review 8 lessons I learned in 2020 and what I'm taking with me and Black Girls Heal into 2021.  JOIN THE RECOVERY SCHOOLClick here to learn more about enrolling!   REGISTER FOR OUR CONFERENCE Click here to learn more and register   FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction   Start Your Own Healing CirclesBlackGirlHealingCircles.com CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group  

Love addiction is more common than many know about, and impacts us deeply. Love addicts may fall in love very easily and/or quickly, they might get lost in the fantasy of being in a relationship, ignore red flags, stay in relationships that are toxic, lose themselves, or not able to let go. Today we are joined by Shena Tubbs, who is a Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, Coach, and Licensed Professional Counselor based out of Houston, TX. She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, and online community dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships & love addiction, heal unresolved childhood trauma and improve their self love to make way for the love they want. With these specializations, Shena hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things love addiction, intimacy, attachment and healing internal wounds. Her coaching programs housed under The Recovery School helps give women proven and tested systems to break these cycles and change their life. Connect and Follow Shena:BlackGirlsHeal.orgIG: @blackgirlsheal_Facebook: Black Girls HealShenaTubbs.comIG: @shenatubbsFacebook: Shena TubbsCurrent Initiative: The Self Love Experience - blackgirlsheal.org/self-loveConnect with us online and follow on Instagram to keep updated.NOTHING HIDDENwith Nikki and Dr. PiperInstagram: @nothinghidden.podcastwww.NothingHiddenPodcast.com

Guest(s): Nerissa Legg, Founder of Black Girls Heal. Nerissa Legg discusses common stereotypes about African Americans in American society. She provides insight on most chilling and age-old stereotypes on African American. She provides some insight into this problem and the effect it has on different communities. Nerissa provides a sobering interview on damaging stereotypes of African Americans. A riveting interview!

Shena Tubbs, Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, Coach, and LPC joins us to talk about how early trauma manifests in our adult relationships, recreating a cycle from childhood. As Shena shares, healing begins with getting the language and words around family trauma and what did/didn’t happen. Persistent love addiction/love avoidant adult relationships are often a recreation of early trauma, of seeking out people that would do the same, in hopes that it will turn out differently. Shena is the host of the Black Girls Heal podcast and the founder of Black Girls Heal, an online community dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships & love addiction, heal unresolved childhood trauma and improve their self love to make way for the love they want.   RESOURCES: Find Shena Tubbs’ Podcast, Recovery School, Self-Love Intensive, and Mini Program 'The Healed and Loved Woman', online at BlackGirlsHeal.org   Learn more about Rebecca’s connectfulness counseling practice at connectfulness.com/work-with-me and explore her upcoming online offerings:  Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp October 24-25,2020This is an authorized presentation of Terry Real's Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples and therapists. Through a combination of lecture, role-play, small group exercises and personal work, this workshop will help you to attain the relationships you want in your life.  Supporting Your Relational Self 6-week-online-course focuses on your relationship to Self, other intimate relations, and will help participants cultivate practices to sustain during these chaotic times filled with pandemic, uprising and beyond. Based on the teachings of Pia Mellody, we'll explore core issues that affect us all in relationships and the skills that will expand your Self & relational care practices.   This podcast is not a substitute for counseling with a licensed provider. Join our conversation on instagram & leave us a review on apple podcasts.

Welcome back & thanks for tuning into Happy Hour with Ashelei, Season 3! With our segment focused on Trauma, today we are talking about how does trauma effect relationships & steps for healing. Tune in to listen as Shena Tubbs, with Black Girls Heal give us some great information!!!

Sometimes we deal with feeling empty and unsatisfied. Sometimes we don't even realize it! In this week's episode, we dive into exactly what feeling unsatisfied looks like and haw to heal from it. We speak with a current student of the Black Girls Heal Recovery School program and hear how this feeling presented its self in her life.  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Register for the Self Love Intensive: blackgirlsheal.org/self-love Start a Healing Circle: BlackGirlHealingCircles.com Get a Healing Circle Workbook on Amazon: blackgirlsheal.org/circleworkbook FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

Continuing our "Couples Month" focus in May, this week, we're talking about how to focus on who you want to be and how you want to show up in relationships. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEHow to Change Your Internal Magnet Masterclass - Click here to register [Free]  FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

Racial trauma hits different. It goes deep, affects our bodies, and our peace.  In this episode, I talk about how it's been affecting me, and some resources I have found.    EmbodiedGatherings.com Join The Bonus Club Patreon Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

So you have a relationship and you want to make sure you do your part to keep it healthy even though you struggle with an intimacy disorder? Awesome! Let's talk about how. We dig into that and 3 ways to keep ownership of your own healing.   The Black Girls Heal Recovery School – TheRecoverySchool.com Join The Bonus Club Patreon Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

In this episode, Kayla chops it up with Shena Tubbs! Shena Tubbs is a Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, Coach, and Licensed Professional Counselor based out of Houston, TX. She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, and online community dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships & love addiction, heal unresolved childhood trauma and improve their self love. In addition to Black Girls Heal, she has a private practice where she specializes in helping women heal from unresolved childhood relational trauma, love addiction, and changing relationship patterns. She hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things intimacy, attachment and healing internal wounds. Her coaching program, The Recovery School helps give women a proven and tested system to break these cycles and change their life. In this episode we discuss: Shena's personal experiences with intimacy disorders and how she started helping other women.  The difference between love addiction, love anorexia, and love avoidance - how we can discern between them.  Understanding what your attachment style is, and uncovering the origin of your attachment style as it relates to trauma.  The importance of understanding your own patterns in relationships and how they can be mirrors to your true self. Where you can start to up level your relationships based on your attachment style. And so much more!   This episode is brought to you by: Wellness Glow Up Media   Links mentioned in this episode Shena's Website Black Girls Heal Website  Listen to Shena's podcast: Black Girls Heal   Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): https://wellnessglowup.libsyn.com/rss Social Media Info Wellness Glow Up Podcast – @wellnessglowuppodcast Kayla Nedza – @kaylanedza Shena Tubbs – @shenatubbs Black Girls Heal - @blackgirlsheal_   Did you like this episode? If you did give it a 5 star rating and share it with your friends.

When it comes to improving our relationship health, we have to look at OUR part and what we may be contributing to the relationship. We'll be digging into 4 things to look out for and how it may be connected to your trauma. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Mother's Day Healing Workshop - Click here to get your ticket Saturday Night Lives – Click here to Save Your Seat Black Girls Heal Amazon Store - Click here to explore   MORE RESOURCES The Black Girls Heal Recovery School – TheRecoverySchool.com Join The Bonus Club Patreon Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

Someone people hang onto people that they shouldn't so they can "practice" their communication and boundary skills on them. In this episode, we're talking about why you shouldn't do that.    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE [Free Event] Saturday Night Lives – Click here to Save Your SeatThe Black Girls Heal Recovery School – TheRecoverySchool.com Join The Bonus Club Patreon Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

Everyone deals with stress and trauma a little differently... and that's okay. Take a listen to this podcast episode to learn more about your response and finding balance.      MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODESave your spot for our weekly Saturday Night Lives! Click here to register --> blackgirlsheal.org/snl Join the Bonus Club Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

In the words of Cardi B, "[Things] are getting real." Some of us are going to have a lot more time with ourselves and some of us are going to be tempted to go to unhealthy coping mechanisms.  This episode will focus on showing up as your best self and not using relationships to cope with triggers.    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODESchedule your free discovery call – Click Here Join the Black Girls Heal Bonus Club – Click here Cardi B Coronavirus Remix   CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal

We have an unclear definition of what it means to be spoiled and the words that we speak over each other. We talk about it this episode!     MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODECore Beliefs Download Work With US!The Recovery School – TheRecoverySchool.com Join the Healing Circle Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   ***Advertise on Black Girls Heal

In this episode, we talk about if your shame is controlling you and if you're reacting outwardly or inwardly. We also dig into whether or not you may be projecting your shame. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEThe Recovery School – TheRecoverySchool.com Join the Healing Circle Membership FREE DOWNLOADThe 5 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREInstagram: @BlackGirlsHeal_Facebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.org JOIN THE CONVERSATIONBlack Girls Heal Facebook Group   Advertise on Black Girls Heal me onto others.     

Today we’re talking to Shena Tubbs, a Relational Trauma and Attachment Specialist, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Love Addiction Coach based out of Houston, TX.    She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, an online community dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships and feeling not enough by healing what's within.    In addition to Black Girls Heal, Shena has a private practice where she specializes in helping women heal from unresolved childhood relational trauma, love addiction, and changing relationship patterns. She also hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things intimacy, attachment and healing internal wounds.  In this episode, we talk about… How we repeatedly get into unhealthy relationships and how we can break the cycle. Understanding and overcoming love addiction. Learning your attachment style, and the origins of your attachment style.  Unpacking relationships with unavailable people. RESOURCES: Visit Shena’s Website, BlackGirlsHeal.org Check out the Learn to Thrive course Check out the Healed and Loved Woman Mentorship program Follow Black Girls Heal on Instagram: @blackgirlsheal_ Like Black Girls Heal on Facebook Episode Sponsor: Skinny Dipped | Use the code BBG for 15% off your order at skinnydipped.com Balanced Black Girl Partners: BLK+GRN | Use code BBG20 for 20% off at blkgrn.com Black Girl Sunscreen | Use code BBG20 for 20% off at blackgirlsunscreen.com Methodology | Use code BALANCEDBLACKGIRL30 for 30% off your first Methodology shipment Organifi | Use the code BBG for 15% off Organifi supplements If you like this episode, please leave a rating and review on iTunes. Keep in touch with Les on Instagram @balancedles, follow the show @balancedblackgirlpodcast, and join the Balanced Black Girl Podcast Community on Facebook.

Many of us Millennials/Gen X-ers grew up in a time where were taught to "respect our elders" even if they inflicted serious mental and relational trauma. Now, as parents, many of us are stopping the narrative of "it runs in the family" seeking to heal the trauma that's been carried through the generations. Shena and Nicole have an in-depth conversation about healing, and Shena provides 5 actionable tips of how to break the cycle of generational trauma. Lastly, Nicole gives "gold stars" to Lash MD lash serum and Blended Designs diverse apparel. Follow Shena on IG @blackgirlsheal_ and check out Blended Designs @blendeddesigns --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hellasmartmuvas/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hellasmartmuvas/support

Welcome to Black Girls Heal where we help women break the cycle of unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships and feeling not enough to get the love they want, need, and most importantly deserve. We do this by helping you heal on both the inside AND the outside.    Have a question for the podcast? Ask it here:  http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/questions    JOIN US ON THE JOURNEY Instagram: @blackgirlsheal_ Website: blackgirlsheal.org Facebook Group: blackgirlsheal.org/group  Mailing List: blackgirlsheal.org/list 

A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in Oakland and Sacramento CA. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Shena Tubbs, LPC, CSAT-C, trauma recovery coach, host of the Love Junkie podcast, and owner of Black Girls Heal in Houston, TX joins us today to discuss love addiction, problems with intimacy, and sexual anorexia. Shena Tubbs specializes in working with African American women and helping them understand how their early childhood experiences have shaped their ideas about love, intimacy, and sex.  Resources Mentioned: Books: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine, MD and Rachel Heller, MA Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred by Patrick Carnes, PhD. Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself Power to Change the Way You Love by Pia Melody Avoidant: How to Love or Leave a Dismissive Partner, by Jeb Kennison Support: Sex Addicts Anonymous Love Addicts Anonymous Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Contact Shena Tubbs, LPC at:  www.blackgirlsheal.org  http://www.shenatubbs.com  http://www.shenathetherapist.com Email questions/comments to adatewithdarkness@gmail.com Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: A Date With Darkness Twitter: @Adatewdarkness Facebook: A Date With Darkness To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

The Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a Licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible version of ourselves. Today's episode features my conversation with Dr. Audrey Townsel, a Licensed Psychologist in Memphis, TN and my line sister. :) Dr. Townsel and I chatted about how social media platforms can impact our self esteem, why the comparisons we make between ourselves and others on social media aren’t entirely accurate, and she shared her favorite tips for helping you to have a healthier relationship with social media.  Today's episode is sponsored by Session 59 Guest Therapist, Shena Tubbs of Black Girls Heal. Shena will be launching a 12 week program giving women practical and actionable skills coupled with coaching that you can use in your everyday life while healing and reprogramming negative self beliefs from traumatic wounds. To get more information about the program or to register for the Masterclass, visit therapyforblackgirls.com/bghmasterclass.    Resources Mentioned Visit our Amazon Store for all the books mentioned on the podcast!    Where to Find Dr. Townsel Calyx Psychological Services Facebook: @calyxpsychologicalservices If you're looking for a therapist in your area, check out the directory at https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/directory. To keep digging into today's topic and other topics discussed on the podcast, join the Facebook group at https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/tribe. The TBG Merch store is now open for business! Shop therapyforblackgirls.com/shop to grab a new tee or mug! Join me for this week's Three for Thursday chat on FB & IG Live, Thursday at 12 noon ET. If you have questions or would like to discuss podcast sponsorship, email us at podcast@therapyforblackgirls.com. The hashtag for the podcast is #TBGinSession. Make sure to follow us on social media: Twitter: @therapy4bgirls Instagram: @therapyforblackgirls Facebook: @therapyforblackgirls

In this episode, the discussion centers around love and sex addiction. This focus lies in how this type of addiction is generally swept under the rug, and why it should be diagnosed and taken as seriously as other more well-known addictions. Connect with Shena at ShenaTubbs.com Join the Love Tribe community and monthly membership at shenatubbs.com/learn Join the Black Girls Heal program at BlackGirlsHeal.org   Instagram: @shenatubbs FaceBook: Shena Tubbs Twitter: @shenatubbs    ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Book Celeste for your next event or work with her on your goals.  Join Celeste every Wednesday at 9pm ET Live onInstagram Facebook Periscope Twitter as she discusses today's bonus episode.    Order "Relationship Goals" or 365 Days of Intentional Living Learn more about Celeste  Follow Celeste on Instagram Facebook Periscope Twitter Join a positive social network at LifeManagementTribe Become a Patron and support Celeste     

In the words of Pretty Ricky for all of us from the era of B2k & Bow Wow..."let’s talk about sex baby." Did you know that sex and love addictions are real? On this week’s episode, Kea is not cutting corners. It gets juicy as Kea speaks with Shena Tubbs a therapist who specializes in love and sex addiction, and codependency. Shena is the creator/host of The Love Junkie Podcast and offers resources and comfort for those who struggle with these addictions. She lets them know their addiction is not their fault. This episode will make you think twice before you call someone a whore, hoe, slut or THOT. References/Resources: Shena’s Personal Site: http://www.shenathetherapist.com Black Girls Heal: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org The Love Junkie Podcast: http://www.shenathetherapist.com/lovejunkie/ Instagram: @_blackgirlsheal & @shenathetherapist Twitter: @shenatubbs Facebook: Shena Tubbs Meetings/Fellowships Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous www.SLAA-fws.org Freedom Course By Shena: Freedom Course - shenathetherapist.com/freedom Books: Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody Attached by Amir Levine Article On Sex Addiction https://blackdoctor.org/450720/symptoms-of-sex-addiction/ Stats on Sex Addiction Recovery https://healthresearchfunding.org/39-shocking-sexual-addiction-recovery-statistics/ Therapist Shout-Out & Presenting Sponsor For SAVE OUR BABIES: Selah Wellness & Therapeutic Services http://www.myselahwellness.com/home TICKETS: Save Our Babies www.saveourbabies.eventcreate.com

In this episode, let's discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal growth. Reflecting on past conversations with coaching students, I explore three key signs that show how much you've evolved: pausing before reacting even when hurt, becoming open to alternative viewpoints, and feeling and validating your emotions. Alongside these insights, we discuss the impact of sharing emotions with safe individuals and re-evaluating your social circle for healthier relationships. We have been very attuned to keep our focus on our shortcomings but rarely do we allow ourselves to celebrate the progress that we've been making in our inner work.Tune in to learn how to acknowledge your progress, appreciate your journey, and break unhealthy patterns for a better tomorrow.In this episode, we cover…02:49 The inspiration for this episode04:00 How labels from your past are keeping you stuck from growing05:16 Why you should give yourself credit for the progress you've made06:49 Why you need to pause before reacting09:15 Are you open to seeing alternative perspectives?10:21 A tool to use when you're triggered14:43 Example of seeing the alternative perspectives in dating16:41 Example of seeing the alternative perspectives in inner work18:38 Feeling your emotions and validating them20:15 Why people *don't care* about your emotions21:14 What to do when you don't have safe people around youResources mentioned in the episode:Listen to Episode 208: How to Make Adult Female Friendships with Danielle Bayard JacksonReady to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BGH for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out NPR: npr.org* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com* Check out undefined: undefined* Get 15% off your order at happymammoth.com with code BHG at checkout.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I discuss the importance of moving from negative relationship patterns to positive, healed, and love-filled connections. I also talk about the common pitfalls of remaining in negative relational spaces, the impacts of childhood emotional neglect, and the signs of low self-worth. You'll get to know what it means to reach a baseline in emotional health and relationships and, ultimately, how to grow towards a healed and loved woman status. Listen to get actionable advice on stepping away from unhealthy relationships, identifying roadblocks, and embracing one's personal needs. In this episode, we cover…06:45 Why you operate in a deficit in relationships12:19 How childhood emotional neglect affects you and your relationships16:54 What it looks like to be in a relationship with a dominant and passive partner18:44 The risk that happens when you still don't get to the baseline of relationships22:12 Why you still struggle with low self-worth (even if you don't think that you are)25:50 Why you need to make yourself available for happiness31:13 The healed and loved woman standard for relationships32:40 What it looks like to be in the negative baseline in relationships33:44 What the baseline standard is for relationships40:06 Why you're encouraged to do healing work in a community41:09 Shena's personal story of healing in a community41:57 Why you need to share your story42:48 No contact as a healing agentResources mentioned in the episode:Join the FREE Recovery School Open House on Tuesday, June 18th at 6:30 PM CST. Register here.Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Listen to Episode 239: Secret Narcissistic Lovebombing Techniques that You Need to KnowCan't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BGH for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out NPR: npr.org* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com* Check out undefined: undefinedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today's episode, we get into the topic of the fear of being seen, exploring the underlying trauma that leads to avoidance behaviors and vulnerability in relationships. We discuss the common thoughts, actions, and patterns that arise when individuals struggle with feeling exposed and unworthy. Additionally, we address the impact of childhood trauma, emotional neglect, and exclusion on the development of these fears. Episode 249 also highlights the symptoms of low self-worth and how they manifest in perfectionism, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment. In this episode, we cover…04:04 Common patterns when you have a fear of being seen04:48 The risk of personal development07:55 Using perfectionism and people-pleasing as ways to exempt yourself from criticisms11:09 Self-abandonment as a means to hide yourself12:09 Making a list of things you're proud of about yourself13:16 Why being humble is actually quiet confidence14:47 Why you're afraid of people getting access to you15:45 The traumas that lead to fear of being seen21:08 How the fear of being seen manifests for love addicts25:04 How the fear of being seen manifests for love avoidants26:45 Disassociating to keep yourself safe31:28 How to work on your fear of being seenResources mentioned in the episode:Sign up for the Healed and Loved Woman Retreat waitlist.Listen to Episode 163: How Childhood Emotional Neglect Leads to Love AddictionReady to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BGH for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out NPR: npr.org* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com* Check out undefined: undefinedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we discuss the crucial topic of feeling deserving and why it's essential for receiving the love you desire. We explore how internalizing negative beliefs and trauma can lead to feeling undeserving, even when we outwardly affirm our worth. You'll learn practical steps to identify the emotional 'weeds' that choke your growth, including energy-draining relationships and perfectionist tendencies. Additionally, we discuss the importance of self-love, self-compassion, and clearing stored trauma from your body. This episode aims to guide you through the first step of the four-step bloom method to help your relationships flourish, ensuring you are on the path to feeling truly deserving of love and happiness.In this episode, we cover…01:03 Understanding deservingness03:04 Identifying emotional weeds05:13 Clearing emotional blockages05:29 Identifying energy drains in your relationships09:43 How perfectionism plays a role in low self-worth22:39 Tools for healing27:24 Why you need to consider bodywork to heal traumaResources mentioned in the episode:Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Listen to Episode 248: Getting Out of the Negative in RelationshipsCan't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BGH for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out NPR: npr.org* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com* Check out undefined: undefinedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we discuss the challenging yet liberating process of surrender and letting go. We explore themes such as grieving, setting boundaries, and focusing on self-love, supported by a poignant poem 'Just Let Them' by Cassie Phillips. We also go into the three key takeaways: realizing you can't control others, being open to love and connection, and mastering the art of balanced surrender. Additionally, we introduce various support resources including the co-contact support group, love avoidance healing programs, and more. This episode is a heartfelt guide towards self-healing and embracing the goodness life offers.In this episode, we cover…01:00 Why surrendering and letting go are necessary02:32 Poem: Just Let Them by Cassie Phillips04:17 Reflections on the poem10:36 Takeaway 1: Realizing you can't control others16:52 Takeaway 2: Being available to let others in30:42 Takeaway 3: Why you must surrender36:44 Program announcementsResources mentioned in the episode:Pre-enroll in The Prosperous Podcaster and save $250 off. We start on July 2, 2024.Sign up for the Healed and Loved Woman Retreat waitlist.Join the waitlist for The No Contact Guide for Love Addicts. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com* Check out undefined: undefinedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we revisit the topic of 'No Contact' and the seven-day 'Don't Text Them: Sit on Your Effing Hands Challenge.' This discussion is aimed at those caught in addictive or trauma-bonded relationships, whether romantic, familial, or friendships. We discuss topics like recognizing toxic relationships, the importance of breaking the cycle for self-healing, and the benefits of having a support system during this process. We also touch on the new 90-Day No Contact Support Group, offering 90-day support for those serious about cutting trauma bonds. Tune in to learn why you deserve fulfilling relationships and how to reclaim your power and joy.In this episode, we cover…01:05 The importance of no contact05:04 The Sit on Your Hands Challenge05:28 Who this episode is for and not for16:34 How to recognize avoidant behavior21:58 How to start making decisions from a place of wholeness23:13 Implementing the Sit on Your Hands Challenge24:06 Handling communication during the challenge25:08 Ways to focus on yourself and other relationships28:58 How to respond to their messages32:42 Ways to engage in self-care and hobbiesResources mentioned in the episode:Join our 90 Day No Contact Support Group to help you break your trauma bonded relationships, build a full life outside of the connection, heal related anxieties, and make space for healthy love.Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join our free Black Girls Heal Circle Community for access to:Inspiration and support regarding love addiction, love avoidance, healing trauma and improving your self esteemAccess to our free resource libraryConnect & build sisterhood with other women on their healing journey as wellClick here to join the new free Black Girls Heal Circle CommunityOur Sponsors:* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we dive deep into financial codependency—a pattern where you feel obligated to support others financially, even to your own detriment. We explore its roots, how it manifests in various relationships, and the emotional toll it takes. You'll learn about practical steps to break free from this cycle, including a 90-day no-contact financial challenge to help reset your finances and reclaim your well-being. We also provide resources to support your journey, including workshops on money trauma and no-contact groups. Join us as we focus on reclaiming control, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing self-care in your financial life.In this episode, we cover…02:47 What does financial codependency mean?03:47 How to recognize financial codependency in relationships08:21 How to start breaking the cycle of financial codependency25:52 How to implement no-contact with financial codependency32:34 Practical steps for financial independence43:16 Resources to support your no-contact journeyResources mentioned in the episode:Join our 90-Day No Contact Support Group to help you break your trauma bonded relationships, build a full life outside of the connection, heal related anxieties, and make space for healthy love.Start healing the wounds that sabotage financial goals, increase fear and anxiety around money, and interrupt the ability to enjoy financial abundance and prosperity through the Money Rehab workshop.Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code BGH for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, I dive deep into the lessons I've learned over my 10 years of recovery from love addiction. This journey has been incredibly personal and transformative. Many of you have watched and supported me through it all—clients, friends, and those who know me through this podcast. I reflect on the challenges, the growth, and the relationships that have shaped me, culminating in a discussion inspired by a poignant poem that has guided me. Join me as I share my story, my insights as a therapist, and the lessons that have helped me build a stronger, healthier relationship with myself. Whether you're just starting your journey or have been here for a while, I hope my experiences resonate with you and offer inspiration for your own path to self-acceptance and self-love.In this episode, we cover…00:57 My journey of love addiction recovery02:09 The poem that changed everything03:37 My personal background and struggles with love addiction06:56 Lessons from my love addiction recovery journey13:08 The turning point in my love addiction recovery journey15:29 How I embraced self-love and independence39:03 Final reflections and takeawaysResources mentioned in the episode:Join our 90-Day No Contact Support Group to help you break your trauma bonded relationships, build a full life outside of the connection, heal related anxieties, and make space for healthy love.Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code BGH for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Black Girls Heal, we're going to be talking about something really deep today: how what happened to us as kids can mess with our love lives BIG TIME. We're diving into childhood emotional neglect and how it can lead to those addictive relationships we sometimes find ourselves in.It's wild how many of us deal with the fallout from not feeling seen or heard as kids. It's like this sneaky little pattern that shows up in our adult lives, making us chase love in all the wrong places. We'll break down what emotional neglect actually looks like, how it sticks with us, and how it sparks addictive relationships.Don't worry! This episode isn't just about the problem. We're gonna talk about healing too. It's all about understanding where this stuff comes from so we can start breaking those unhealthy patterns and building the love we deserve.In this episode, we cover…00:17 What is childhood emotional neglect?01:47 The impact of childhood emotional neglect on relationships03:08 What is love addiction?03:32 Signs of emotional neglect in your life06:51 How to break the cycle of emotional neglect09:03 The connection between neglect and love addiction12:03 Steps to overcome love addiction24:00 Why you should heal with a communityResources mentioned in the episode:Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.Sign up for the Healed and Loved Woman Retreat waitlist.Running On Empty by Jonice WebbCan't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.Connect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code BGH for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out OSEA and use my code BGH for a great deal: oseamalibu.com* Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What would change if you truly believed you were worthy of love, peace, and care?In this episode of the Black Girls Heal Podcast, I am inviting you into a deeper conversation about self-love, emotional healing, and reconnecting with the relationship you have with yourself.Through guided reflection, journaling prompts, and future-self visualization, you'll explore the beliefs, experiences, and relationships that have shaped your sense of worth. This episode is designed to help you slow down, nurture yourself, and create space for the version of you that feels more grounded, secure, peaceful, and connected.In this episode, you'll explore:✨ Taking an honest inventory of your relationship with yourself✨ Examining the voices that have shaped your self-worth✨ Releasing beliefs and relationships that no longer align✨ Learning how to receive love, support, and affirmation✨ Defining the future version of yourself you want to become✨ Visualizing life after healing and inner growth✨ Giving yourself permission to grow, heal, and evolveSUMMER SALE — ALL PROGRAMS 50% OFFUse code: SUMMER50 at checkoutNEXT STEPS TO GO DEEPERHeal the AcheMother Wound Workshop BundleLove Deprivation RehabBGH MethodThe 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love AddictionConnect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealThanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don't forget to come back next week for the new episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy