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The Christian Parenting Podcast

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257. Mother Daughter Relationship During Teen Years and Beyond with Sandra Stanley and Allie Stanley Cooney "Love never fails." 1 Corinthians 13:8a NIV **Transcription Below** Sandra Stanley received her Bachelor of Science degree from Georgia Tech and Master of Arts from Dallas Theological Seminary. Sandra has a heart for foster kids and foster families, as she and Andy have been foster parents since 2010. Her ministry passion is promoting foster care in the local church. Much of her time these days is spent working on various writing projects and continuing her involvement with Fostering Together, the foster care initiative of North Point Ministries. Connect with her online: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandrawstanley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sandra.w.stanley/ X: https://twitter.com/sandrawstanley Website: https://www.sandrastanley.com/ Allie Stanley Cooney graduated from Auburn University with a degree in Communication. She completed the North Point Residency program and simultaneously earned a Masters of Christian Education degree from Dallas Theological Seminary. With a decade of experience guiding students along their spiritual journeys, Allie is passionate about empowering middle school, high school and college students to embrace a life devoted to following Jesus wholeheartedly. She has a heart for middle school and high school students and can often be spotted at any number of local coffee shops pouring into girls in those seasons of life. Connect with her on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alliekaycooney X: https://twitter.com/alliekaystanley Questions and Topics We Cover: How can understanding the three potential relationship stages help these daughters navigate relationships with friends and with boys? When we coach our daughters through developing friendships, what questions do you suggest we ask for clarification and what Scripture do you share for understanding our responsibility within friendships? I love how you both emphasize alone time with Jesus. How can we learn and apply this? Other Episodes Mentioned from The Savvy Sauce: 200 Planting Seeds of Faith in Our Children with Courtney DeFeo 196 Parenting for the Relationship with Sandra Stanley Related Episodes on The Savvy Sauce: Parenting the Prodigal Child And God's Desire For Redemption With Mother-Daughter Duo, Claire Stanfill and Tindell Baldwin Effective Parenting for Toddlers Through College with Wife, Mother to 8, and The Exchange Founder, Elizabeth Pehrson Intentional Questions to Ask Our Kids with Susan Seay 207 Cultivating Character in Our Children with Cynthia Yanof 212 School Series: Benefits of Homeschooling with Jodi Mockabee 217 Tween/Teen Females: How to Navigate Changes during Puberty with Dr. Jennifer Degler 220 Cultivating Healthy Family Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman Thank You to Our Sponsor: Leman Property Management Company Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts, and subscribing to this podcast! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” **Transcription** Music: (0:00 – 0:08) Laura Dugger: (0:09 - 1:46) Welcome to The Savvy Sauce, where we have practical chats for intentional living. I'm your host, Laura Duggar, and I'm so glad you're here. Leman Property Management Co. has the apartment you will be able to call home, with over 1,700 apartment units available in Central Illinois. Visit them today at lemanproperties.com or connect with them on Facebook. I am so excited to get to host these guests, Sandra Stanley and her daughter, Allie Stanley Cooney. They have co-authored this amazing book entitled, Meet Me in the Middle, and throughout it I just loved their sense of humor. I appreciated their witty comments that had me laughing in the middle of their stories, but I also appreciate the practicality this book has to offer. If you think back, Courtney DeFeo was a previous guest and we discussed the treasured Bible study, which is a great thing for mothers to walk through with their tween daughters, maybe girls of approximately ages 10 to 12, so I'll make sure and link that episode in the show notes, but today's book that we're kind of emphasizing is really good as that next step to highlight perhaps with your junior high or high school daughter. It's a beautiful book because you get really both real perspectives of the mother and the daughter from two drastically different angles, and that's kind of what our conversation is gonna look like today as I get to interview mother-daughter duo, Sandra and Allie. Here's our chat. Welcome to The Savvy Sauce, Sandra and Allie. Sandra Stanley: (1:59 - 2:03) Thank you for having us. Allie Stanley Cooney: Thank you for having us. We're excited to be here. Sandra Stanley: We really are. Laura Dugger: (2:04 - 2:13) Well, I would love for us to just begin with the two of you sharing some of the hardest and sweetest phases that you've walked through in your own mother-daughter relationship. Sandra Stanley: (2:14 - 4:00) Okay, well, let's see. Allie, this is funny and this kind of weaves through probably every question, but we are wired very differently from each other, and I am more analytical, efficient, organized, you know, all that. Allie is so creative and just spontaneous, and she is the best content creator and all of that kind of stuff, and I obsess over the details of did I capitalize everything and spell everything, and so while that has been amazing in this project working together because we kind of, you know, can just sort of coach each other along in our strengths, there were some times along the way in when she was growing up that that would just naturally cause some clashes, and that is mostly on me because I have a hard time understanding why efficiency didn't make it to the fruits of the spirit list, and you know, in parenting, efficiency is not the goal. The relationship is the goal, and I would switch those sometimes and err on the side of trying to be efficient, so often when we had those difficult times, it was on me, not her, because of all that kind of stuff, so the sweetest part, though, is she has always inspired me. Even when she was a kid, she just had a maturity and a desire to have an intimate relationship with the Lord from an early, early age, and I think she just challenged Andy and me both in our just our personal walks with the Lord and authenticity and a bunch of things like that, so it's been a sweet relationship, and we pretty much talk all day long. Allie Stanley Cooney: (4:00 - 4:34) Yeah, I was gonna say the sweetest season, I think, is definitely this one because I had a baby girl about two years ago, and I remember holding my baby girl for the first, second, third time, whatever, and just like, I love her so much, I'm so overwhelmed, and then looking at my mom and being like, wait a minute, you've loved me this much this whole time? Like, that's crazy. So I think getting to be a mom and doing this project together and all the things, I think this season has been definitely one of the sweetest for sure. Laura Dugger: (4:34 - 5:07) I think that's very encouraging to anybody raising children in their home, but with your book, there were so many topics for mothers and daughters, but I'd love to first focus on this one section that you title, Finding Your People, and it's where you're talking about relationships, especially with friends and with boys, and so Allie, how can understanding the three potential relationship stages help these daughters navigate relationships with friends and with boys? Allie Stanley Cooney: (5:08 - 7:43) Yeah, definitely, so how our book is laid out, a little bit of context, my mom wrote the first eight chapters to the moms, and then I wrote the back eight chapters to the girls, and we go through these different topics, and one of the topics, like you said, is friends and boys, so when I was thinking about that chapter, there's some, I feel like when you're in middle school, when you're in high school, friends and boys, that's what you're thinking about, that's what you care about, that's what probably you want to read about if you're gonna have to read something, so I wanted to break this down in a way that it's not natural for, you know, middle schoolers and high schoolers to think about, so we break down the three, the three potential stages, stages, that's what I'm looking for, we break down the three stages and let them know that in each stage of a potential relationship, you're called to love, and so the first stage is just before you enter into this relationship, or before you become really close friends, when you're kind of thinking through, is this something I want, is this something that will be good for you, asking the questions like, does this person make me more like Jesus, is this person a good influence, will this person help my life be better, or will it ultimately make it worse, and what does it look like to navigate that season really well, and then the next season is when you're in the relationship, and how can you love that person well while also honoring yourself and honoring that person, and then the last one I think is my favorite, because I think we forget about it potentially, and obviously a lot of our relationships, my best friend that I met in middle school is still one of my very best friends, but a lot of relationships that you have in middle school and in high school, they tend to go away, so there is a stage that is after the relationship, whether that's a breakup, or you just kind of drift apart, whatever that looks like, and the reminder that we're still called to love, because I know culture especially is like, breakup, you should just say horrible things about them, and trash them, and if anybody's friends with them, then you can't be friends with them, and I think the reality is, no, even when the relationship is over, you're still called to love them, and that doesn't mean you need to be with them, or anything like that, but it does mean being kind about them, being thoughtful, being gentle, even when you're no longer in that relationship, so I think that's something that students don't really think about, once the relationship is over, it's like moving on, yeah, you're not called to anything anymore, so yeah. Laura Dugger: (7:44 - 8:13) I love it, and you really highlight the scripture in 1 Corinthians 13, and so even though your lessons there were directed at daughters, there's something for each of us to learn for relationships, and Sandra, I'd love to hear from your side too, when we're coaching our daughters through developing friendships, what questions do you suggest we ask for clarification, and what scripture do you share for understanding our responsibility within friendships? Sandra Stanley: (8:14 - 10:28) Yes, great question. Well, and Allie talked about the structure of the book a little bit, you know, that we have eight topics. I write eight to the mom's. She writes eight to the girls, in the middle is the meet me in the middle section, where they come together, and where they can have these conversations, so that's the time when maybe we are talking about, okay, what is a good friend, you know, what does a good friend look like, what are some characteristics of someone that you want to be friends with, and that you want to see every day, and do life together with, what are those characteristics, what makes a lifelong friend, you know, what's the difference between a short-term friend and a long-term friend, what causes friendships to be short-term, you know, what are the things that can cause one to end, and another big question that we talk about is, do you, and do I, and this all applies to us too, not just to the girls, so when we're doing this meet me in the middle section, and having these conversations, this is a two-way conversation, and I think as moms, it's so important for us to be, you know, authentic, and to dive in and say, yeah, I kind of still struggle with this too, but do I want to become more like this potential friend, that's a big question, is there, you know, is this a person that I want to be like, because scripture is clear in Ephesians 5, “He who walks with the wise becomes wise, and companion of fools suffers harm.” That's an important thing to talk about with our kids. You are going to become more like the people that you spend time with. Another question is: Is this somebody I want to introduce my mom and dad to? I remember there were talking with our middle son years, you know, after college, after he was already married. He said, you know, I always knew, this is not a person for me, if I knew it wasn't someone that I would want to bring home and introduce to you and dad, or to Allie. You know, is this somebody that I want Allie to be friends with for the next bunch of decades, so you know, is this somebody I want to introduce my family to, and so we do take a deep dive into 1 Corinthians 13, the love chapter, Allie asked the girls to circle the characteristics of love, I asked the moms, hey, play along, circle the characteristics of love, let's talk about what it really looks like to love, and let's talk about what it really looks like to have friends who are lovely, and who we want to spend more time with. Laura Dugger: (10:29 - 10:58) There's so much wisdom in that, and then I think one of your secret sauces, just as a family in general, is your practical teaching, and so if we're taking this even further, let's dive in, it's between pages 64 and 65, but there are a few quotes that I'd love for you to unpack, and one of the first ones is, don't trade what you want most for what you want in the moment. Sandra Stanley: (10:59 - 11:01) Right, right, do you want to talk about that? Allie Stanley Cooney: (11:01 - 11:43) Yeah, so I think it's really easy, especially when you're in middle school and high school, and you want to be popular, and you don't want to be left out, and you might want to have a boyfriend, and the reality is, if you just zoom back a little bit, you know, it's like, okay, what do you ultimately want? You ultimately want a healthy family, you ultimately want things in the future, and unfortunately, in middle school and high school, there are certain decisions that you can make that can ultimately compromise what you ultimately want, and so I think having that wisdom and that forethought of, why don't you even think about what you want? Like, have you ever sat down and thought about what you want in your future? Let's do that together, and then back it up from there, and then see if you're making decisions that will lead to that. Sandra Stanley: (11:44 - 12:55) Yeah, I think so, and the good thing about the book is moms can contextualize some of this to the age of their daughters, so if it's an older daughter, and she's in a relationship where, you know, there's likely to be some struggle with, you know, how far do I go physically, you know, what are my standards going to be, is all that, to relate to all that, this particular quote is such an important thing to talk about. Don't trade what you want most for what you might want in the moment, and that speaks, you know, really loudly to a physical relationship, and one of the good things about doing this meet-me-in-the-middle-with-a-daughter is you can have these conversations ahead of time, before there's a face, you know, that we're talking about, or a particular boyfriend or friendship. We can have these conversations early, and then when these things come, we can go back and go, hey, remember what we talked about, about don't trade what you want most for what you want in the moment? Let's just, I want you to go on this date, but I want you to remember that, you know, the decisions that you're gonna make now, they're gonna impact what your future is gonna be like, and the story that you're gonna tell, so that was, that was just kind of what we were, had in our minds as we talked about, don't trade what you want most for what you want in the moment. Laura Dugger: (12:55 - 13:06) Well, then you follow it up with, don't let your future be negatively influenced by people who won't even be in your future, and I think that kind of... Allie Stanley Cooney: (13:07 - 13:41) I remember that clicking when I was in high school. I remember, I was dating a guy, and I was like, no, I don't want to marry him, like, no, like, that'd be crazy. What? And then I'm like, why am I dating him? Like, yeah, I don't want anything, I don't want my friendships impacted, like, I don't want to push my friendships away because I'm spending more time with him. Like there's so many things other than just physical boundaries, which obviously that's a huge one too. But even aside from that, people who aren't going to be in your life long-term do have the potential to affect your future. So I think that's a really important one too. Sandra Stanley: (13:41 - 14:28) And affect the relationships that you want to carry into your future. Your good friends, you know, the people that you want to spend time with. So that's a really important one, I think. And these are great conversation topics. You know, even if you write it on a card and hand it to your daughter and say, hey, let's talk about what this looks like. Don't let your future be negatively influenced by people who won't even be in your future. And this is where the mom in the conversation that they're having in the meet me in the middle section can talk about a relationship that she can remember having that she thought was going to be forever. And it was, you know, seven months of her life. And then it was over. So having those opportunities to have these conversations with our girls is so important. And these two particular quotes are really important to talk about ahead of time. Laura Dugger: (14:29 - 14:52) Certainly. And it just circles back to even Allie, those three things that you were talking about earlier, those three stages, your conclusion in that section is love never fails. And so if we actually are loving in the way the list of first Corinthians 13 love list, then that is hopefully going to set our daughters and us as mothers up for success. Sandra Stanley: (14:52 - 14:53) Absolutely. Laura Dugger: (14:54 - 16:57) Let's take a quick break to hear a message from our sponsor. With over 1,700 apartment units available throughout Pekin, Peoria, Peoria Heights, Morton, Washington, and Canton. And with every price range covered, you will have plenty of options when you rent through Leman Property Management Co. They have townhomes, duplexes, studios, and garden style options located in many areas throughout Pekin. In Peoria, a historic downtown location and apartments adjacent to the OSF Medical Center provide excellent choices. 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So there was one particular day, she was at school, and I had been in her room doing something and realized, wow, this is kind of off the chart messy. And so when she gets home, we're gonna have to have a conversation about this whole thing. So fast forward, we get to the afternoon, Allie's upstairs, and I know she's up there in her room, so this will be a good time. And I wasn't always the best at picking my approach or my timing, but I did work on it. So by the time she was in high school, I think I was better maybe at that. She might not think so. But anyway, so anyway, so I walk in her room and I look, and she's sitting on the floor, just furiously typing. And she goes, mom, before I can even say anything, mom, my girls are going into high school, I'm getting ready to leave to go to college, and there's just some things I need them to know. So I'm writing Allie's rules for high school. And she said, let me read them to you. So she starts reading this list. And with every single one, my heart just started, I mean, I just started melting into the messy floor with her because I thought this is so much more important. If I were to describe the bullseye on the target in parenting, it would have nothing to do with the clean room. It would have everything to do with the character of her heart. And as she was writing and reading me these rules, I thought this is Allie's heart on display. And it just kind of was a life changing moment for me. And then I asked her if I could put it on my blog. I was actively blogging at the time. And she's like, sure, nobody will see it. So you can put it on your blog. Allie Stanley Cooney: (19:09 - 19:09) Cute little blog. Sandra Stanley: (19:09 - 19:37) And as it turned out, it went viral and was all over the place and radio shows in the mornings and all that. On the first day of school, back to school in Fulton County in Atlanta, there was the Burt Show, I think it's still show, Burt Show, a radio show, drive time show. And he was reading them, reading them off. And everybody in his studio was all commenting on each one of them. So as all of Fulton County is driving to school, Allie's rules for high school were being read to them. Laura Dugger: (19:38 - 19:45) Wow. I mean, I guess knowing the list, it doesn't surprise me that it would go viral. Allie Stanley Cooney: (19:46 - 19:48) And I- Surprised me, for sure, yeah. Laura Dugger: (19:49 - 19:59) Well, I envision mothers and daughters even listening to this conversation together. I do wonder if my daughters would love to pause and go back and say, remember, mark of good parenting is not a clean room. Sandra Stanley: (20:00 - 20:03) So- Right, they're gonna bookmark that statement, yeah. Laura Dugger: (20:04 - 20:10) I was guilty of that too, growing up. But Allie, would you be willing to share some of those rules with us? Allie Stanley Cooney: (20:10 - 21:44) Yeah, no, I'd love to. Well, I will say, so I was going into high school as the small group girls that I was leading. No, no, sorry, I was going into college while the small group girls I was leading were going into high school. And there was just a lot of things I wanted them to know and to remember and things we had talked about and things that maybe I had learned the hard way or watched my friends learn the hard way. So I will say, hearing them go, like I didn't write them for everybody to hear them. You didn't write them for a universal audience. No, I think I would have written them differently, but it's sweet now and I'm glad. So I'll just read a couple. I won't do all of them because there's 20 in the book. But one, surround yourself with people who build you up, not with people who tear you down. Have an accountability partner and be willing to tell her everything. Emphasis on her. Yep, be so, so, so, so, so, so careful about who you date. This one's my favorite. I don't know why, I just, I really, this one hits home. If you're wondering if you should break up with him, break up with him. That's the one I learned the hard way. Yep. Pray, pray, pray. Don't ever forget how much you need God. Have a quiet time. It may seem like a hassle, but it will help you stay close to God. Be nice to your parents. They love you and want what's best for you. So if you disagree with them, just remember that they're a lot smarter than you. Sorry about that. Never be afraid to say no. When you fall on your face, get back up. There's a bunch more, but the last one is one of my favorites and it's selfies are for faces. That sounds like a good one. Sandra Stanley: (21:44 - 21:49) That was such an insightful one just for girls to hear. Silly. You know, you do a face, a face. Allie Stanley Cooney: (21:49 - 21:52) I mean, it was mostly like an inside joke. Sandra Stanley: (21:52 - 22:03) So there were several that were inside jokes for them, which didn't make fun and didn't make a lot of sense on the radio to drive time in Fulton County, but they made it all funny and fun. Allie Stanley Cooney: (22:03 - 22:05) So that's a couple of them. Laura Dugger: (22:05 - 22:17) I actually thought that was one of my favorites as well. It was put in a succinct way. And at that time, you were just a few years ahead of them. And so hearing that from you lands differently than hearing that from mom. Allie Stanley Cooney: (22:18 - 22:18) Yeah. Laura Dugger: (22:19 - 22:35) But Allie, you're kind of explaining, it was one of those decisions, if you reverse back a little bit, can you share, you write that it was one of the best decisions to grow your faith. And it's something pretty replicable that I'm hoping others will grasp onto as well. Allie Stanley Cooney: (22:35 - 23:12) No, and that was, if I'm remembering correctly, what I wrote in there, there's a couple of things, but deciding to be a middle school small group leader when I was in high school was probably the best decision I made for my faith because it caused me to take it really seriously. It made me realize, oh, the decisions I make aren't just going to affect me, it's actually now gonna affect these girls. I remember having a moment where I realized, okay, I don't wanna make any decision where I'm gonna be tempted to lie to these girls about it. Cause you know, middle school girls, they asked me everything. Sandra Stanley: (23:13 - 23:13) No boundaries. Allie Stanley Cooney: (23:13 - 23:46) And they were all in my business. And so realizing like, okay, I don't wanna make a decision where if they ask me, which they will, I don't want to be tempted to lie to them. So what did those decisions look like? What would I be proud to tell them? And ultimately what decisions do I want them to make when they're in high school? So it not only drew me a lot closer to Jesus, cause they also would ask me theological questions and like faith questions. And I was like, I don't know, let me dive in. But also it was a really cool accountability that I really loved having in high school. Sandra Stanley: (23:47 - 24:21) This is really one of the things that we've done for a long time in our church. And that is allow our high school students to partner with an adult to lead these small groups. And it just has, it has impacted all three of our kids in their faith journey. And again, to Allie's point, a big part of it is accountability. Like, oh my goodness, I don't want my girls or my guys to, I don't wanna do something that's gonna cause me to either have to lie or that would be disappointing to them. And so I think it was a, I think it's a great part of the program, yeah. But so volunteering, always huge. Laura Dugger: (24:22 - 24:32) Agreed. And to get our students into ministry where they get to experience leadership early on, I think that's so profoundly impactful for faith. Sandra Stanley: (24:32 - 24:33) That's exactly right, yes. Laura Dugger: (24:34 - 24:59) Well, and something else that both of you emphasize, which I especially appreciated, was spending alone time with Jesus. And Allie, you were saying that we have to incorporate foundational beliefs and practices into our lives, specifically through two steps, learning and applying. So, will you elaborate on both of those parts? Allie Stanley Cooney: (25:00 - 26:11) Yeah, so I, yeah, I mean, that's how we grow our faith. We can't have a faith if we don't know anything, and then we can't really have a faith if we're not putting what we know into practice. So, the learning really just looks like reading your Bible. You know, it looks like it's those really obvious, quote unquote, steps. If you go to church, you've listened to the message and you take in the information about Jesus and about scripture and about God and about who you are and about who people are, and that's you're learning. You have to learn, you have to take in the information. And then the second one is when you put it into practice, you know, you actually live out what scripture says, you live out what you're learning in church, you love the people around you well, you root yourself and establish yourself in the love of Jesus and who he says you are, and you walk in your identity. So, it's so multifaceted and there's a lot to it, but ultimately, if you can break it down and tell the girls, hey, we learn, and then we take what we learn and we do it, and that's how you grow your faith. And even when it gets hard, you keep going. And even when people push back, you keep doing it, you keep learning, and you keep applying. And ultimately, that's how your faith grows. Sandra Stanley: (26:12 - 26:20) And that is how a Jesus follower consistently follows Jesus. So, it's such an important thing. Yeah, absolutely. Laura Dugger: (26:21 - 26:52) Well, and even one example of that, you first of all say, keep continually putting truth in front of you, but then you go a step further and you say, well, even before that, spend a little bit of time thinking about the best way to keep truth in front of you. And you challenge readers to consider the routines and rhythms of their normal day and see where they can put important truths in. So, do either of you have an example of how you do that in your own life? Allie Stanley Cooney: (26:53 - 27:54) Yeah, and it's looked really different throughout my life. And I think I wanna give permission to these girls that it's okay if it looks different than somebody else, because we learn and we feel close to our heavenly father in different ways than everybody else and in different seasons of life. So, I remember when I was in middle school, I had a devotional, and it was very story-based. It was like made up stories, but it had something to learn at the end of it. It had a moral and it was always Jesus-centered, and it was always about simple things like generosity and gratitude. And reading stories for me was how I connected with God. And then as I got older, I started reading scripture for myself and I'm a huge journaler. So now my time looks a lot like reading scripture and journaling and then journaling some more and then reading scripture. And that's kind of where I find my time with the Lord. Yeah, but it's definitely changed over time. Sandra Stanley: (27:54 - 31:31) I would say that mine has changed in different seasons of life too. When you're single and you've got lots of flexibility and time, it really looked one way for me. It was morning and it was longer and all of that. In the parenting seasons, it looked different throughout that journey when the little ones, I would try to get up before them and try to get my quiet time in, but it really did. It ebbed and flowed in the amount of time I was able to spend and all of that. In this season, I have more time. And for me, it's always been better in the morning. I know some people are better at night and that's fine. For me, it's been morning, and I just have to have my space, my particular place that I go with all my quiet time materials there. And when I'm there, it just, the distractions are minimal. And that's because that's just my place to be alone with my heavenly father. I've got a little spot to pray and a spot to sit and read and study. And so that's what it looks like for me. I am so often asked by moms; do we make our kids have a quiet time? Do I make my middle school son or my middle school daughter or high school daughter have a quiet time? And I always say, no, you don't need to make them do it. But I suggest three things. You model it, you encourage it, and you make it easy. You model it, you encourage it and make it easy. So, I, my kids saw me and Andy having quiet times their whole childhood. And again, it looked different, different seasons, but they knew that we both spent time in the word and in prayer. And that just modeled it for them. So, it was something that they just grew up kind of assuming is a given, which is a good thing, but you can also encourage it. And that's one of the things that we did was we just helped them as they got older, figure out what does this look like for you? You know, what kind of, are you a morning person? Are you an evening person? Is this gonna be, you know, just helping them figure out best times and best practices and all that for their personality and temperaments. And then making it easy. We always made sure our kids had age-appropriate Bibles in every season, starting when they couldn't even read little picture Bibles that were their own. We wanted them to have their own Bible and never remember a time that they didn't have their own. And so we just made sure that, you know, different seasons of their lives, they had age appropriate Bibles. And one of the things that I did, and this is just a kind of a, maybe a little fun thing, their Easter baskets every year, while, you know, it always had some chocolate bunnies, you know, and all the normal Easter basket things, I always made sure that there were quiet time tools in their Easter basket that were age appropriate and, you know, proclivity appropriate based on what they liked. And, you know, one of our sons was a reader, one wasn't so much a reader, but if it was about an athlete and the athlete's testimony, they would both read that. So, I would put all kinds of different things for Allie, journaling stuff, pens, colored pencils, just anything that I thought would encourage their journey in a quiet time. That was my big time to do that. And then of course, other times of the year, we would add some things, but model it, encourage it, make it easy. And that's the best way to set your kids up to maybe make this as a habit. And even when they don't, nagging isn't gonna help, so don't nag, you know, don't nag under the guise of I'm just reminding them, but model it, encourage it in the appropriate ways and then make it easy. Laura Dugger: (31:31 - 31:48) And I even thought there was additional practical wisdom that you shared within that section, just encouraging the mamas, guard your time. And how do you see that intentionality tying over into our time with the Lord? Sandra Stanley: (31:48 - 34:00) Definitely it ties over. I think, you know, as we think about motherhood and Allie is experiencing this now, there's a whole other layer of busyness that gets added to your life. It's almost like the things on your calendar double. And then as they get older, it's even more and more intense as they get older, because everybody, you know, has jobs. So, in this season with these moms of middle school and high school girls, they might be having their first little jobs or and your other kids also. So anyway, it's just a busy season and our time is limited. So, we always say, Andy and I say this all the time to parents, your time is limited. So, you've got to limit what you do with your time. And when you make it a priority to have that time alone with your heavenly father, that's one of your biggest yeses. And then they're just going to be some no's in different seasons. I call them categorical no's in different seasons of parenting. When the kids were little, I had all these categories of things that are just a no for now. This might be a yes for later. It's a no for now. So, things like I'm doing now, like writing projects or speaking, or, you know, just stuff like that were no's when my kids were young, because those are so time consuming. And so those were no for now, but not forever categories of things. So, I would say to moms and to daughters, you know, your time is limited. So, you've got to limit it. And so, you know, pay attention to what the most important things are. And I would say, go so far as to say calendar those things, put those things on your calendar and treat them like appointments. Because typically the mom is the calendar keeper for the whole family. And what we put on our calendars, what we actually do. And so I've always used my calendar that way to make sure that the most important things are on the calendar, even little things like call my grandmother, you know, back during those seasons, because I would get busy and, you know, two weeks would go by and, you know, I knew my time with her was limited. So just even little things like that I've always calendared. And I think our quiet time may be something we need to calendar and give it a time slot. And, you know, for me, again, I'm the efficiency person. So that just works for me. That doesn't necessarily mean that's for everybody, but it works for me. Laura Dugger: (34:00 - 34:23) I think that's so good, Sandra. Thank you for sharing. And the two of you wrote about a couple really helpful words in a different section that was titled Family is Forever. So, can you speak to the roles that gentleness and gratitude play in creating an enjoyable family culture? Yes. Allie Stanley Cooney: (34:23 - 34:31) Yeah, well, I feel like a lot of girls feel like they don't have a lot of control within their family dynamics. Sandra Stanley: (34:31 - 34:34) So, this was the topic on family in the book. Allie Stanley Cooney: (34:34 - 36:07) So, you don't choose your family. You're not choosing what you're having for dinner. You're not choosing your curfew or your classes. A lot of times in that season, it can feel like there's no control. And so, I wanted to give the girls a couple things that, hey, you do have a choice in these and you do control these as far as it depends on you. And so those things were appreciation, forgiveness, and gentleness. So, appreciation, you can choose to appreciate your family. You can choose to appreciate your mom. You can choose to say thank you to the people around you for what they do. Forgiveness, you choose to forgive. And then gentleness. This came a lot from my relationship with my brothers specifically. How is the youngest of three? Of the youngest, I have two older brothers, and they were mean. Not gentle. They were mean. And so, learning like, hey, they want you to respond in aggression. They want you to get angry. That's kind of- They want a reaction. They want a reaction from you. And so responding in gentleness is actually how you deescalate the situation. And I think that those things, it kind of gives girls like, oh, I'm not totally helpless. I'm not totally out of control. I can actually choose these things and I can choose to do them or not. And I can see how it positively affects the family or if I choose not to do them, how it negatively affects the family. And we all have ownership in the family culture and vibes and feelings. And so, I think that helps the girls kind of have a grasp on something in their family. Laura Dugger: (36:08 - 38:01) That's so good. And even, not that either one is more important for the other, but I really was thinking that sets children apart if they are grateful. And that sets parents apart if they are gentle and both are obviously encouraged in the Bible. So I just thought that was incredible how you drew that out. Do you love The Savvy Sauce? Do you gain anything when you listen? Did you know that the two ways we earn money to keep this podcast live is through generous contributions from listeners and from our paying sponsors? That means we can promote your business and you're still supporting The Savvy Sauce. It's a win-win. Please email us today at info@thesavvysauce.com to inquire about pricing for sponsoring each episode. Thank you for your consideration. And Sandra, you've been a previous guest. I'll make sure and link to that episode in the show notes. That was about parenting, even starting with younger age children, which was wonderful. But Allie, this is my first time getting to meet you. So, I'll share with you too. Your dad was actually my first pastor after I became a believer. So, I remember him preaching a series on better decisions, fewer regrets. And he would challenge us to ask ourselves a question. I think I'm getting this right. In light of my past experiences, my current circumstances and my future hopes and dreams, what's the wise thing to do? And so, as we're nearing the close of our conversation, would you like to share, after absorbing all this information from the conversation and from your book, now what? What is the wise thing to do? Allie Stanley Cooney: (38:01 - 39:57) Yeah, so our last chapter is on decision-making because I do think all of it kind of points to the decisions and we point back to Philippians 4, where Paul is saying, now put it into practice. Everything you've learned, everything you've seen, all of these things, it's time to put it into practice. And so, pointing these girls and pointing these moms to stop in a moment and ask themselves exactly what you just said. Okay, in spite of my past and my present and my future, what is the wise thing to do? What is the thing that will lead to healthier relationships? What is the thing that will lead to less regret in the future? And I think it's even just a choice to stop and just ask that, because a lot of times we just go, go, go. We don't have time to stop to really think through anything, but the idea of, okay, before we make a decision, let's actually stop and ask ourselves, what is the wise thing to do? And it's not always gonna be popular. It's not always gonna be easy. And sometimes you might be the only one doing it, but I know in my experience, and even when I was in high school, I went to public school, so I was surrounded by a lot of people who weren't making the wisest decisions and they were my friends and realizing, okay, I'm gonna, even though it's not popular, even though they might laugh at me, even though this might not go well for me, I know what I want my future to look like and therefore I'm gonna do the right thing. I'm gonna say no, or I'm gonna say yes, or I'm gonna do whatever I know the right thing to do is and just trust that it's gonna be okay and trust that my close friends will stick by me and my family will stick by me and they'll be proud of me. And so I think it's hard to do in the moment, but if you have that filter and if you stop and ask, then I think it's really, really great for you and your future. Sandra Stanley: (39:58 - 41:46) And for moms and daughters to have this question in their back pocket as these things roll out, as hard decisions come along, it's just really important to ask what is the wise thing to do? And I think an approach for parenting in general, but especially for these moms of middle and high school girls, an approach and part of a conversation is, hey, Allie, I love you so much. And my goal is for you to get to the end of these middle school years or the end of these high school years with as few regrets as possible. So, we're gonna get in the habit of asking this question, what is the wise thing for me to do? What is the wise thing for me to do in this situation? And the second question we talk about in that decision-making chapter is what story do I wanna tell? When all of this is said and done, when this decision, even this one decision, when this is over and I'm on the other side of it, what is the story that I will want to tell? I think I'm gonna make that decision based on that. So those two questions, what is the wise thing to do and what story am I gonna wanna tell? Those are big, big conversation pieces for moms and daughters to have and for moms and kids in general and dads and families to have, what's the wise thing to do and what story do you wanna tell? Because we wanna get them to a place where they have as few regrets as possible and God can certainly use our regrets, He can use our stuff. We're not gonna be perfect. We are not gonna always get it right and we're not always gonna make the wise decision. And I think us being honest and chatting with our kids about decisions we didn't make that were the right ones that we might carry a little bit of baggage around on at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way, we can have those conversations with our kids and let them know, hey, I'm not perfect and I'm not expecting you to be perfect but let's get in the habit of asking these questions because they will cause us to have fewer regrets on the other side. Laura Dugger: (41:47 - 41:53) So, good and it really puts you on the same team which you are when you're having these conversations. Sandra Stanley: (41:53 - 42:18) And sometimes your kids don't feel that. They don't feel like we're on their team. They feel like we aren't because we don't want them to have fun or we don't want them to have freedom or whatever. And it really does. These conversations do emphasize, hey, I am on your team and I am only saying no to this because I am so for you. And I think these conversations set us up for that. Laura Dugger: (42:19 - 42:27) Well, you've shared some wise questions. Would you also be willing to share the prayer that Allie, I believe you prayed through high school? Allie Stanley Cooney: (42:28 - 42:36) Yes, the prayer is give me the wisdom to know what's right and the courage to do what's right, even when it's hard and even when I have to do it by myself. Sandra Stanley: (42:36 - 43:23) We started praying that for our kids before they even knew what we were saying. When they were toddlers, we were praying this prayer with them. And as they got older, that's when we tacked on the end, even if I'm the only one, even if I'm doing it by myself. Because as you get older and you get into middle school and high school, sometimes you feel like you're the only one. And we celebrated like crazy when we caught our kids making a hard decision and especially if they were the only one. So, when we saw them making wise decisions, we didn't always catch it, but if we did, we wanted them to know this is to be celebrated because what's rewarded is repeated. And we wanted to reward our kids for making those tough decisions. And I think Allie carried that on with her all the way through, so. Laura Dugger: (43:24 - 43:36) Love that so much. And really, it's such a joy to learn from both of you. Can you tell us where to go after this conversation where we can continue learning from the wisdom of each of you? Sandra Stanley: (43:36 - 43:56) Thank you. Yeah, the book is anywhere that you buy books, you know, on Amazon, all of the different places where you buy books. My website, sandrastanley.com has lots of links. Instagram, Allie Kay Cooney, yeah. So we're talking about it a lot these days, just in the season of talking about maybe in the middle. Laura Dugger: (43:57 - 44:13) Love it. Well, you may know that I have one final question for you because we are called The Savvy Sauce because savvy is synonymous with practical knowledge. And so as my final question for each one of you today, what is your savvy sauce? Sandra Stanley: (44:14 - 45:04) You go. Okay, I'll start first. I think, Laura, it really is my calendar dictates my life. But again, that's kind of a personality thing. But for me, if I don't get it on my calendar, it may or may not get done. So for me to put the biggest, most important things on my calendar, it just makes life more smooth for me. So, I use my calendar for everything. There was a season where I even calendared exercise because it was a crazy season. I thought if I don't put it on here, I'm not gonna do it. I have a rhythm with that now, so it's a little bit easier. But even things like making sure I'm checking in with my mom and dad, because they are in there getting to their late eighties and, you know, just little reminders of things that are most important that I don't wanna miss, that are easy to miss when I get busy, I just use my calendar for everything. Allie Stanley Cooney: (45:05 - 45:51) Yeah, I think, I don't know if this is exactly what you mean, but recently, I wanna be off my phone more because it's just everyone's addicted to their phone. So, I got this thing called a brick, and I saw it on Instagram, ironically. But you can tap your phone onto it, and it basically shuts down any app other than whatever apps you want. And the whole thing is you're turning your phone back into a tool and not a distraction. And it's pretty much changed my life. Because I'll sleep with it on brick, and then so I can't wake up and just like be on my phone. So, then I have to like intentionally undo it to go on Instagram or do whatever. And then I just keep it bricked. And so, I'm not just scrolling, and it's been really, really helpful. Laura Dugger: (45:52 - 46:21) I love it, those are so wonderful. And God has just blessed both of you with so many gifts, but I'm seeing so much wisdom, so much beauty in both of you, but your generosity to share because you have a unique family situation and are very well known. And yet you just are giving of yourselves through the time here, through the knowledge and wisdom that you shared in your book. So, I want to say thank you for a thousand things, but thank you for being my guest today. Sandra Stanley: (46:21 - 46:26) Thank you for having us. We really appreciate it. This was very fun. Yeah. Laura Dugger: (46:27 - 49:41) One more thing before you go. Have you heard the term gospel before? It simply means good news. And I want to share the best news with you. But it starts with the bad news. Every single one of us were born sinners, but Christ desires to rescue us from our sin, which is something we cannot do for ourselves. This means there is absolutely no chance we can make it to heaven on our own. So for you and for me, it means we deserve death and we can never pay back the sacrifice we owe to be saved. We need a savior. But God loved us so much, he made a way for his only son to willingly die in our place as the perfect substitute. This gives us hope of life forever in right relationship with him. That is good news. Jesus lived the perfect life we could never live and died in our place for our sin. This was God's plan to make a way to reconcile with us so that God can look at us and see Jesus. We can be covered and justified through the work Jesus finished if we choose to receive what He has done for us. Romans 10:9 says, “That if you confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” So would you pray with me now? Heavenly Father, thank you for sending Jesus to take our place. I pray someone today right now is touched and chooses to turn their life over to you. Will you clearly guide them and help them take their next step in faith to declare you as Lord of their life? We trust you to work and change lives now for eternity. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. If you prayed that prayer, you are declaring him for me, so me for him. You get the opportunity to live your life for him. And at this podcast, we're called The Savvy Sauce for a reason. We want to give you practical tools to implement the knowledge you have learned. So you ready to get started? First, tell someone. Say it out loud. Get a Bible. The first day I made this decision, my parents took me to Barnes & Noble and let me choose my own Bible. I selected the Quest NIV Bible and I love it. You can start by reading the book of John. Also, get connected locally, which just means tell someone who's a part of a church in your community that you made a decision to follow Christ. I'm assuming they will be thrilled to talk with you about further steps, such as going to church and getting connected to other believers to encourage you. We want to celebrate with you too, so feel free to leave a comment for us here if you did make a decision to follow Christ. We also have show notes included where you can read Scripture that describes this process. And finally, be encouraged. Luke 15:10 says, “In the same way I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” The heavens are praising with you for your decision today. And if you've already received this good news, I pray you have someone to share it with. You are loved and I look forward to meeting you here next time.

Are you overparenting? with Courtney DeFeo

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 41:55

This week's episode is packed with insights and practical advice for navigating the complexities of parenting during the middle school years. I'm joined by Courtney DeFeo, and together we dive into balancing love, independence, and the continuous learning process of parenting.Here are four key takeaways from this episode:Parenting evolves as children grow, and middle school years often require creative ways to re-engage with your kids. Allowing children to experience failure helps them develop responsibility and confidence. Overparenting can hinder independence—parents should guide their children through problems, not shield them from them. Self-care for parents is crucial to maintaining balance and avoiding guilt in the parenting journey. Courtney DeFeo is the host of the Pardon the Mess podcast here on the Christian Parenting Podcast Network where she encourages parents every week to be the imperfectly perfect parent God created them to be. She is also an author, speaker, and advocate for empowering parents to create lasting family connections. With her relatable approach and passion for practical parenting, Courtney inspires families to navigate challenges with grace and joy. We had a ton of fun recording this episode and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!(01:57) Navigating Parenting Stages(06:10) Engaging with Middle Schoolers(10:07) The Balance of Hovering and Letting Go(13:57) Preparing for Independence(18:02) Overparenting: Understanding the Roots(21:06) Navigating the Challenges of Letting Go in Parenting(24:35) The Importance of Self-Care and Mom Guilt(26:54) Recognizing Red Flags in Parenting Dynamics(28:54) Practical Strategies to Avoid Over-Parenting(31:37) Embracing Independence and Building Confidence in Kids(34:49) The Balance of Love and Guidance in ParentingConnect with CourtneyPardon the Mess podcastPardon the Mess InstagramCourtney's Instagram Courtney's websiteResources MentionedWhat's In Mommy's Tummy?Family Meeting GuideIn This House We Will GiggleThe Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.comPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Parenting Wisdom with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 37:31

Parenting Wisdom with Courtney DeFeoCourtney DeFeo is an author, speaker, and host of Christian Parenting's popular podcast, Pardon the Mess. In this episode, Courtney shares tested and true parenting wisdom from her own parenting journey and sticks around to answer some of Tasha's questions and questions from the audience.SHOW NOTES:https://courtneydefeo.comLight ‘em Up Blog: https://courtneydefeo.com/light-em-up-travelers-edition/Books: https://courtneydefeo.com/shop/MORE INFORMATION about Prestonwood Women:https://prestonwoodwomen.orgVery Merry Christmas Event PLANO https://touchpoint.prestonwood.org/OnlineReg/41552Very Merry Christmas Event PROSPER https://touchpoint.prestonwood.org/OnlineReg/41553

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Choosing Purpose Over Pressure: Courtney DeFeo on Faith-Filled Parenting and Personal Growth

What Are You Made Of?

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 31:43

Mike "C-Roc" welcomes Courtney DeFeo, host of the Pardon the Mess podcast. Courtney shares her journey as a devoted wife and mother from Texas, who has dedicated her life to encouraging and equipping Christian parents. She opens up about the rewarding yet challenging aspects of raising two teenage daughters, balancing faith and values with the freedom to let her children find their own spiritual paths. Courtney reflects on her career choices, sharing how she stepped back from a promising corporate career to focus on family. She describes the mix of emotions that came when her husband achieved a major career milestone and how she reconciled her own ambitions with her role as a supportive partner and mother. Courtney reveals her "superpowers" of creativity, generosity, and faith, and how they shape her outlook on life and family. This inspiring conversation is a reminder of the impact of faith, self-reflection, and teamwork within the family and beyond. Website: CourtneyDeFeo.com Social Media Links/Handles: https://www.instagram.com/courtney_defeo/?hl=en Podcast- Pardon the Mess with Courtney DeFeo

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What's it like being a mom to all girls vs a mom to all boys? :: Courtney DeFeo and Heather [Ep 496]

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 52:40

Ever wonder how your mom friends with all boys or all girls handle parenting? Do you often wonder how in the world a “boy mom” or a “girl mom” views the opposite? Today my good friend Courtney DeFeo is here to have an in-depth conversation about her experiences as a “girl mom” and asks me tons of great questions about what life with four boys is like (spoiler alert- active and crazy). Courtney is an author, podcaster, and creative mom of two girls. We bring the conversations we have had many times over the lunch table to the podcast today. Often our worlds feel opposite, her girls used to sit and play with playdough for thirty minutes, and my boys sit for three minutes. Her girls love clothes, nails, and coloring while my boys were in a bouncy house, eating my decor, and moving their bodies constantly. We end by starting to break down the teen years and how the emotions show up differently for each gender. By discussing some of the gender stereotypes that come up we hope this conversation helps you support your mom friends better. And don't forget to go over to Courtney's podcast to finish the conversation later this week. Connect with Courtney DeFeo: Website: Home - Courtney DeFeo Facebook: Courtney DeFeo | Facebook Instagram: Courtney DeFeo (@courtney_defeo) Podcast: Pardon the Mess - Courtney DeFeo Links Mentioned: Foundations: by Ruth Chou Simons The Worry-Free Parent: by Sissy Goff What in the World?!: by Leanne Morgan The Tech-Wise Family: by Andy Crouch Whoobli Ninja Inflatable Kids Punching Bag Trampoline with handle Skylight Digital Picture Frame ZELUS Balance Ball Trainer with Resistance Bands Water Blaster 2pcs Water Gun Fight Shooting Water Guns for Kids Roller Skates for Girls Boys Ages 4-12 KidKraft Vintage Wooden Play Kitchen LEGO Creator 3 in 1 Mighty Dinosaur Toy Related Episodes: Shrinking or Swelling to Fill Your Space :: Courtney DeFeo [Ep 406] RWYB wk 5 Uninvited :: Lysa TerKeurst, Kay Wyma and Courtney DeFeo {Ep 131} Art of Nurturing Boys :: David Thomas [Ep 119] Raising Worry-Free Girls :: Sissy Goff [Bonus] Featured Sponsors: Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Let the gratitude flow, with Betterhelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/dma today to get 10% off your first month. Vegamour: This holiday season, give the gift of great hair with Vegamour. There's something for everyone, including you! Visit Vegamour.com/DMA code DMA to shop. Greenlight: Greenlight is a debit card and money app made for families. Sign up for Greenlight today at Greenlight.com/dma. Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.

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Introducing Pardon the Mess with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 47:41

We are coming to you on a Thursday to do a fun little feed swap with a podcast that we love - introducing, Pardon the Mess Podcast! As parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Each day brings wins, losses and valuable lessons. Pardon the Mess is a place where we discuss parenting and faith in a biblical, approachable and relatable way. We may cry and laugh while we learn and grow together in our beautiful mess. We know you will love Courtney and this show as much as we do. Make sure to give her show a follow and check out more episodes! Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Learn more on the socials: @christianparenting @pardonthemesspodcast . . . . . Grab a copy of Are My Kids on Track? to follow along with us through the season! Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube! Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . . If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EP.465: Back to School for Moms in Midlife: High School Senior Year with Courtney DeFeo

The Open Door Sisterhood Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 55:10

High school senior year is a special time for teens and for their parents. For many moms, the beginning of senior year means the beginning of the lasts. There is some grief there. How do we balance the end of one phase of a young person's life with the celebration of this transition? Both Krista and Alex just finished a senior year and they invited their friend Courtney DeFeo to talk about her experience facing her first senior year as a mom. This episode touches on topics like college deadlines, getting a job, and navigating parties and substances. From prom to graduation, there are so many special markers of transitioning out of the childhood school years and into adulthood. We cover how each one of us tries to be open with ongoing communication with our children, setting boundaries, and being realistic about the challenges they may face. They also highlight the need to tailor experiences and celebrations to each child's preferences and personality. Courtney DeFeo is the host of the Pardon the Mess podcast and lives in the Dallas area with her husband Ron and their two high school-aged daughters. We know you'll appreciate her honesty and sense of humor as she approaches what can be a scary time for a mom. FIND MORE ABOUT COURTNEY DEFEO Courtney Defeo's - Website and Instagram Podcast: Pardon the Mess A FEW THINGS MENTIONED Pay attention to where the child gravitates Tailor the party to the child QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU RISE What is a conversations or what are some multiple conversations you need to have with your senior? In what way can you offer more independence to your child this year? What needs to go on your calendar now to make sure you make the most of your child's senior year? How can you encourage your senior and call out all of the good things you see in him or her? What skills or experience can you help your child with in order to set him or her up for the next season of their life? LET'S CONNECT! Did you like this episode? Let us know and leave a review on itunes or share it with a friend. Or message us on Instagram – we'd love to hear from you! Get the Daily Dozen Checklist -12 habits that will immediately make you happier and healthier

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Top Ten from 2023 #5 Planting Seeds of Faith in Our Children with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 53:29

Top Ten from 2023 #5 Planting Seeds of Faith in Our Children with Courtney DeFeo Galatians 6:7 (NIV) Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Questions and Topics We Discuss: When you reflect back on parenting, what are you most pleased with, regarding ways you and your husband chose to invest in your family? What are a few of your favorite ways to plant and cultivate seeds of faith in everyday family life with your own kids? How can we disciple our children to be a friend to God? Courtney DeFeo wants to be a resource and help to YOU, more than she want you to be impressed by HER. She believes God gifted all of us with unique talents and passions. She's had fun discovering a few of hers and using them to support her fellow moms, parents and women in this journey called life. What's the point of great ideas if we just hoard them to ourselves? However, it's important to note – she in a “Season of Rest” right now! Find out more on her website: www.courtneydefeo.com. Other Episodes Mentioned: Finding Your Purpose as a Mom with Courtney DeFeo *Special Patreon Release* Ideas for Spreading Generosity with Courtney DeFeo Self-Care in Motherhood with Karen Stubbs Life is Better with the Holy Spirit with Jeannie Cunnion Special Patreon Re-Release: Patreon 2 Discipline Strategies and Managing Mom Guilt with Karen Stubbs, Founder of Birds on a Wire Thank You to Our Sponsor: Spark Academy (Mention The Savvy Sauce to Unlock Your Special Discount!) Connect with The Savvy Sauce through Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

EP88 | Embrace Your Path & Live Authentically | Courtney DeFeo

Revitalized Womanhood

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 52:20

Today on the podcast, I'm excited to chat with the inspiring Courtney DeFeo—a fellow podcast host, author, and super mom. We're diving into a topic we both cherish: recognizing your self-worth and embracing your unique purpose. Courtney shares her journey of pausing her career to rediscover her passions, and how shifting to a faith-driven perspective reshaped her view of life. We discuss the importance of moving beyond insecurities and comparisons, the impact of our actions on others, and the power of relationships. We also touch on tough topics like postpartum depression, the importance of self-care, and the strength found in community and gratitude. So, grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and join us for this heartfelt conversation. Let's inspire and empower each other! Connect with Courtney DeFeo online: www.courtneydefeo.com Connect with us on all social media platforms: ✅ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/revitalizedwomanhood ✅ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revitalizedwomanhood/ ✅ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6kO4VA94zZlKY3VS3cdbeP?si=3ec91bf5ea4c43a8

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Episode 50 How do I improve my marriage? Guests Dave & Ann Wilson

MESSmerized

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 31:54

It's week two of our new series asking “how do I _____” questions. Each week we're bringing in amazing guests with practical advice for all areas of life. If you missed last week with Courtney DeFeo, we talked about cheering on other women, and you definitely need to go back and listen if you missed it. So so good.

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Episode 49 How do I cheer on other women? Guest Courtney DeFeo

MESSmerized

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 34:42

It's May and if you're anything like me, you're already tired just thinking about all of the end-of-year conferences, award ceremonies, track meets, class picnics, and everything else headed our way. But don't worry, we will survive it all together! That being said, I'm SUPER EXCITED that May is finally here because TODAY is the day we start a new series on MESSmerized. (And trust me, you're going to LOVE it! ❤️❤️❤️) The next few months we're examining “how do I _______?” questions on the show. In other words, each week will be conversations with amazing guests who will give their top 5 tips for “how do I” topics like these: How do I save money? How do I deepen my friendships? How do I strengthen my marriage? How do I accept my child's hard diagnosis? How do I find joy? How do I survive summer with teens? And that's just the tip of the iceberg of what's coming your way. So tune in each week for shorter, summer-friendly podcasts complete with 5 timely, practical, and biblical tips for living out the messy places of life. Oh, and speaking of practical and biblical, I can't think of anyone better than my dear friend Courtney DeFeo to kick-off this series today. Courtney is host of the Pardon the Mess podcast and joins us to talk about cheering on other women in our lives. This is especially near and dear because Courtney has done this so incredibly well in my own life. Tune in this week as we kick-off our new series with Courtney DeFeo. Oh, and leave a review and rate MESSmerized pretty please wherever you listen to podcasts! All things Cynthia Yanof Order Life is Messy, God is Good All things Courtney Defeo Christian Parenting Pardon the Mess Podcast

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Juggling Parenting & Your Career with Courtney Defeo

The Something New Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 36:21

Courtney DeFeo is known for being a factory of ideas for families & leaders. As a former marketing professional for Chick-fil-A, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs & products. She is the host of the "Pardon the Mess" Podcast and is the author of "In This House, We Will Giggle" and "Treasured". Courtney loves encouraging moms wherever possible and serving on the boards of "Lighthouse Family Retreat" and "For Girls Like You". Her most honorable mention is her husband Ron and their two wildly fun girls (Ella, 16 and Larson, 13). They reside in the DFW area and love to consume table-side guacamole. In this outstanding episode, host Mindi Linscombe and Courtney discuss: Courtney's decision to leave Chick-fil-A marketing and being a stay-at-home mom who did consulting. How there is no exact formula for working moms. It's personal and it's seasonal when you make changes in your career. How Courtney and her husband view seasons of their careers as high functioning people. The importance of discerning when it is time to pull back. What Courtney has done to be intentional with her daughters. The resources she has created for others to do the same. How Courtney was there the day Truett Kathy announced that the Chick-fil-A team will say “My Pleasure”. How Courtney tapped into her creative side to create products, resources, and a blog while being a mother.Courtney's "ABC Scripture Cards" and how they were featured on "The View". Parenting in a way that is scriptural. The importance of connecting the gap between the head and the heart. Courtney's mistake of putting too many expectations on her best friend.Why Courtney widened her circle and sought out counseling to fix that. You cannot be amazing at everything! The things that Mindi let go of as a mom. Things she does not do for her kids. : )How you can show up for friends who have a lot on their plate. Asking your kids what is important to them and having good expectations together. Why Courtney's daughter doesn't want her at her soccer games. : ) How Mindi and Courtney encourage each other while serving on the board of Lighthouse Family Retreats. Mindi and Courtney's wild plan for writing their next book on a plane.How you can enter to win one of Courtney's books! ***Connect with Courtney Defeo:

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From the Treadmill to the Dock - Courtney Defeo's Story :: [Episode 252]

StoryTellers Live

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 32:56

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 Happy 2024! We hope you have enjoyed a wonderful holiday season with your family and friends and are transitioning into the new year with great expectations of what God has in store for you! Today's podcast is the perfect story to reset your mind and focus your eyes on Jesus and the rest He is continually extending to you. Courtney DeFeo, from Dallas, Texas, and host of the “Pardon the Mess” podcast, shares her journey of learning how to get off the treadmill of life and live from the peaceful vantage point of God's perfect plan for her. If you are in a season of go, go, go, Courtney's story will encourage you to slow down, be still with God, and listen intently for His guidance in your life. IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: The importance of discerning between what you can do and what God actually wants you to do. True margin and resting is a powerful healing agent. You don't have to work and strive to earn God's love. RESOURCES : Become a Monthly Ministry Partner Give to StoryTellers Live Become a Patreon Insider Shop the STL Bible Studies (and register for the upcoming Discover Your Story workshop)

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Helping siblings forgive one another with Courtney DeFeo

The Christian Parenting Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 38:41

If your house is anything like mine, you are all too familiar with rushed and fake apologies. Siblings get in a fight and one apologized to the other under their breath while rolling their eye at the same time. Can you relate? Today I am joined by my friend, Courtney DeFeo, and she is helping us emphasize forgiveness in our houses. Courtney and her husband, Ron, decided forgiveness was going to be one of their core family values so today she is sharing how to prioritize and model forgiveness in our homes. Courtney and I also touch on the challenge of raising our oldest kids (because we don't know what we are doing), the difference between conviction and shame, and how you have to decide what is helpful in your parenting vs. what is harmful and making you feel shame. I love how she encourages us to quit comparing ourselves to other moms—God made us all unique to parent our own unique kids and we can rest in that. Courtney is the host of Pardon the Mess, an author, a speaker, a mom of two teenage daughters, wife to Ron, and a proud dog mom. I have the joy of calling her friend and you will too after this episode. Make sure to listen until the end because I ask her some rapid fire questions and you will love what she says!Connect with CourtneySocial Media:@courtneydefeo @pardonthemesspodcastWebsite:https://courtneydefeo.com/www.christianparenting.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out HelloFresh and use my code cppodcastfree for a great deal: https://www.hellofresh.com/* Visit HomeThreads.com/CPPODCAST today and get a 15% off code for your first order!Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Episode 121 | Mom Guilt

The Lighthouse Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2023 34:57

Welcome back to the Lighthouse Family Podcast, where today's episode is truly special. We have the pleasure of hosting one of our esteemed board members, Courtney DeFeo. Courtney and her husband, Ron, are the parents of two beautiful teenage daughters, Ella and Larson. She has a natural gift for communication and is passionate about writing, speaking, and providing parents with valuable tools to navigate the journey of parenthood. The conversation begins by exploring Courtney's insights and challenges in this phase of motherhood, naturally transitioning into the topic of mom guilt. Courtney guides listeners, especially those grappling with this common struggle, helping them discern the distinction between guilt as convictions from the Spirit and condemnation from the enemy. Relatable examples of convictions and condemnations are shared, making the discussion all the more relatable. Furthermore, the conversation extends to parents navigating childhood cancer, addressing the difficulty many face in seeking and accepting assistance when needed. Guidance is provided for those who struggle with asking for help, emphasizing the importance of support during challenging times. Join us in this insightful and uplifting episode as we navigate the complexities of mom guilt, discover the grace within, and empower parents with valuable tools to overcome challenges along their journey. Connect with Courtney: Courtney DeFeo Pardon the Mess Podcast Books & Gifts Follow us on Social: Facebook Instagram

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MESSmerized

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 19:24

In the last few weeks, many of you have shared how much you loved praying for our kids together the last few years. I have loved that too, and I'm so happy my friend Courtney DeFeo is continuing that legacy on Pardon the Mess. Be sure to check it out! But I feel strongly that my calling this year is to help us very intentionally consider our spiritual rhythms. Why? Because our culture desperately needs us, as Christians, to live out our faith in tangible ways every single day. And those faith-inspired moments come from the behind-the scenes time we spend in prayer, worship, and yes . . . reading our Bible. So today we're talking about how to read our Bible. There's no way a 15-minute podcast can completely cover this subject, but we're going to walk through the do's and don'ts today as well as look at a portion of John 1. Let's be honest, the right way to read the Bible is however it works for you. That being said, many of us (myself included) need to habit ourselves into a routine that includes hearing from God through his word. (Did you catch my Atomic Habits reference there?) That's why I hope you'll take a few minutes to listen today. Grateful for you! P.S. Many of you have asked how to support MESSmerized in this season. A great way is to share this podcast with your friends and help grow it by word of mouth. Another huge way is to leave a review wherever you listen to MESSmerized. Lastly, you can also provide support through our Patreon to help us with production and other related costs. Thank you for being a part of this ministry! All things Cynthia Yanof Atomic Habits The Bible Project

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Family Non-Negotiables - with Kirsten and Benjamin Watson

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 37:31

It's not every day we get to hear from an NFL football player and his wife about raising 7 children - while trying to honor God, stay married AND do ministry together. Kirsten and Benjamin are the Directors of the NFL for Pro Athletes Outreach. In addition to this important work, they also spend time equipping and encouraging families through speaking and writing. You will enjoy hearing these UGA Bulldogs (both former college athletes) chat a little about football, and we get to hear Kirsten affirm Benjamin ahead of this Father's Day weekend. My favorite part of the episode is when they discuss the non-negotiables in their family. It gives a framework for intentional parenting and how to get ahead of it all with a plan. It also encourages us to be on the same page with our spouses as we encounter the tough moments of parenting. Enjoy! Courtney DeFeo Connect with Pardon The Mess: Christian Parenting Pardon The Mess Connect with Courtney DeFeo Resources from today's show: Connect with The Watsons Pro Athletes Outreach (POA) Benjamin's New Book - New Fight For Life Kirsten's Book - Sis Take a Breath Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters Pardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Sissy Goff and David Thomas on raising children in a world this hard

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 40:59

This week, Sissy Goff and David Thomas with Daystar Counseling are here! Each of them have been counseling kids for over 30 years. I cannot think of two individuals that have impacted my parenting in a more practical and profound way. In this episode, we talk about a few of the challenges with raising our kids in a scary and sometimes dark time. From anxiety to school shootings - we've never felt more anxious or ill-equipped to raise children. David shares some encouragement and tips on raising an emotionally strong boy. Sissy shares about her upcoming book to help anxious parents raise kids in the midst of our own self work. She notes that women and girls lead the statistics in anxiety. There are also some tender moments where they both reflect back on the most horrendous time in their own Nashville community. You will be encouraged to hear more stories of God working in and around Covenant School. I know so many are grateful for the work Daystar did to step up, comfort and care for so many families (locally and nationwide). Quotes: "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” - Frederick Douglas “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me: ‘Look for the helpers.' You will always find people who are helping.” - Fred Rogers Enjoy! Courtney DeFeo Connect with Pardon The Mess: Christian Parenting Pardon The Mess Connect with Courtney DeFeo Resources from today's show: The Worry Free Parent- Pre- Order! Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas Strong and Smart: A Boy's Guide to Building Healthy Emotions by David Thomas @raisingboysandgirls @sissygoff Pardon the Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2023 27:29

This week is a big week for Pardon the Mess! If you missed last week's show, go back and hear the announcement about our new host, Courtney DeFeo. In this episode, Courtney and Cynthia talk about how this decision unfolded and the challenges of obeying God even when it's messy and unclear. Our show today is a super-fun conversation with Cynthia and Courtney giving a deep dive into these exciting changes. Join in as Courtney interviews Cynthia about her favorite Pardon the Mess moments. You can also hear the who, when, where, what, and why behind Cynthia's move to a new podcast. We are beyond excited about what's to come! This summer is going to be packed with more great interviews about parenting in the midst of our messy lives. We will continue to laugh together and possibly cry together as we pursue our relationship with God during all of life's challenges.

The Key to Walking with God + Special Announcement

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Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2023 17:00

We did it! We've made it to last week of our 2022-2023 prayer journal and praying our kids through the school year.

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Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2023 37:06

Today is a big day for Pardon the Mess! We've got an announcement that we're so excited to share with you. At the end of May, Cynthia will be leaving Pardon the Mess and passing the mic to our dear friend Courtney DeFeo. Courtney is a wife, mom, author, speaker, and 100% the authentic and hilariously real friend we all need. Our show today is a super-fun conversation with Cynthia and Courtney giving a deep dive into these exciting changes at Pardon the Mess. You will get to know (and love) Courtney DeFeo as well as hear the who, when, where, what, and why behind Cynthia's move. These next two weeks will be a big celebration of where we've been and where we're heading towards on Pardon the Mess. And above all, we want to be sure YOU have all the scoop on the amazing things coming your way. Continue to connect with Cynthia Yanof here: MESSmerized Podcast FACEBOOK | INSTAGRAM Resources from today's show: Love God Love Others Classical Conversations Pardon the Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Shrinking or Swelling to Fill Your Space :: Courtney DeFeo [Ep 406]

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 49:11

Have you ever seen a “magic towel” that swells and “grows” when you put it in water? Have you shrunk a shirt in the laundry? At different times in our lives God assigns us a space that we have to shrink or swell to occupy. This could mean giving up beloved roles, or taking on responsibilities we don't want. How do we respond when we find ourselves in these situations? My guest this week is Courtney Defeo. At God's leading she stepped back from a high-profile career and dreams of being a CEO so her husband could step forward in his career pursuits. She put certain things on hold to create the family and home culture she wants. While at first glance it might seem like she's squandering her talent and intellect, when she looks around her life she sees things that can only be done now. She feels the freedom to use her gifts in the spaces she's in now. Connect with [Courtney DeFeo]: Website: https://courtneydefeo.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CourtneyDeFeoPage/ Instagram: @courtney_defeo Links Mentioned: Right Where You Belong by Heather MacFadyen Treasured Journal: An Interactive Experience for a Tween Girl & Her Mom by Courtney DeFeo In This House, We Will Giggle: Making Virtues, Love, and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life by Courtney DeFeo Raising Them Ready: Practical Ways to Prepare Your Kids for Life on Their Own by Jonathan & Erica Catherman Related Episodes: Uninvited :: Lysa TerKeurst, Kay Wyma, & Courtney DeFeo [Ep 131] Light ‘Em Up :: Courtney DeFeo [Ep 50] Inner Healing Prayer :: Jennifer Barnett [Ep 323] Listening to the Lord :: Kelsey Phillips [Ep 279] Available Now: Heather's new book, “Right Where You Belong” is now available wherever books are sold. Featured Sponsors: Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.

Focus on the Family Weekend: Mar. 25-26 2023

Focus on the Family Weekend

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2023 55:00

This weekend, we revisit our recent Daily Broadcast "Fun Ways to Instill Virtues in Your Children."Blogger and speaker Courtney DeFeo offers practical suggestions and fun ideas on how parents can make biblically-based values, love and laughter a part of everyday life in the home.Receive a copy of Courtney DeFeo's book, In This House, We Will Giggle, for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2023-03-13?refcd=16041061604106Get Part 1 episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/fun-ways-to-instill-virtues-in-your-children-part-1-of-2/Get Part 2 episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/fun-ways-to-instill-virtues-in-your-children-part-2-of-2/If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

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Fun Ways to Instill Virtues in Your Children (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 27:01

Blogger and speaker Courtney DeFeo offers practical suggestions and fun ideas on how parents can make biblically-based values, love and laughter a part of everyday life in the home. (Part 2 of 2)Receive a copy of Courtney DeFeo's book, "In This House, We Will Giggle", for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2023-03-13?refcd=1624303Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/fun-ways-to-instill-virtues-in-your-children-part-2-of-2/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Fun Ways to Instill Virtues in Your Children (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2023 27:02

Blogger and speaker Courtney DeFeo offers practical suggestions and fun ideas on how parents can make biblically-based values, love and laughter a part of everyday life in the home. (Part 1 of 2)Receive a copy of Courtney DeFeo's book, "In This House, We Will Giggle", for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/fun-ways-to-instill-virtues-in-your-children-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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200 Planting Seeds of Faith in Our Children with Courtney DeFeo

The Journey with Jonathan Pitts

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 54:11

Planting Seeds of Faith in Our Children with Courtney DeFeo Galatians 6:7 (NIV) Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Questions and Topics We Discuss: When you reflect back on parenting, what are you most pleased with, regarding ways you and your husband chose to invest in your family? What are a few of your favorite ways to plant and cultivate seeds of faith in everyday family life with your own kids? How can we disciple our children to be a friend to God? Courtney DeFeo wants to be a resource and help to YOU, more than she want you to be impressed by HER. She believes God gifted all of us with unique talents and passions. She's had fun discovering a few of hers and using them to support her fellow moms, parents and women in this journey called life. What's the point of great ideas if we just hoard them to ourselves? However, it's important to note – she in a “Season of Rest” right now! Find out more on her website: www.courtneydefeo.com. Other Episodes Mentioned: Finding Your Purpose as a Mom with Courtney DeFeo *Special Patreon Release* Ideas for Spreading Generosity with Courtney DeFeo Self-Care in Motherhood with Karen Stubbs Life is Better with the Holy Spirit with Jeannie Cunnion Special Patreon Re-Release: Patreon 2 Discipline Strategies and Managing Mom Guilt with Karen Stubbs, Founder of Birds on a Wire Thank You to Our Sponsors: Solid Rock Christian Academy and Chick-fil-A East Peoria Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Catching Up with Courtney

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 36:55

In this episode, Jonathan has a conversation with his good friend, author, mom, wife and founder of Treasured Girlz, Courtney DeFeo. The cover a lot but mostly revolve around what it looks like to care for yourself as a parent and how to trust God as your kiddos age.

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Courtney DeFeo shares Practical Kindness Tips

Peace Project Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2021 14:15

The amazing Courtney Defeo shares tips and insight on practical ways to inspire kindness through really terrific stories about instilling kindness from her mom, the importance of tapping into humility, the power of kindness & seeing everyone walking alongside as people of great worth that matter! Courtney DeFeo is a popular blogger (CourtneyDeFeo.com), author and serial entrepreneur. She is the creator of ABC Scripture Cards, which are sold nationwide, Light 'Em UP, and Treasure Girls - a faith based curriculum that instills confidence and courage. A graduate of Auburn University, she has a background in marketing and public relations and has worked for Ketchum Public Relations and Chick-fil-A. Courtney and her husband, Ron, are the parents of two daughters.

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Fun Ways to Instil Virtues in Your Children - II

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 26:22

As a parent, you can make virtues, love and laughter a daily part of everyday life. We’ll talk with Courtney DeFeo about how you can develop faith, patience and responsibility in your child.

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Fun Ways to Instil Virtues in Your Children - I

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2021 26:18

Virtues are instilled in your children with laughter—not lectures. Courtney DeFeo will share how you can increase gratitude, generosity and joy in your children.

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Intentional Conversations: Courtney DeFeo

Focus on the Family Australia

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2020 24:25

The Raising Boys & Girls podcast is back with bonus episodes to help you finish 2020 strong! Join Sissy Goff and David Thomas this week as they talk with author, speaker, and creator of Light 'Em Up Acts, Courtney DeFeo, on simple ways you can give as a family this Christmas. Grab links, stats, and quotes you want to remember in the show notes at https://www.gominno.com/blog/raising-boys-and-girls-podcast-courtney-defeo-interview Connect with Sissy, David, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com Connect with Minno at podcast.gominno.com

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Fun ways to instill virtues in your children II

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 25:12

As a parent, you can make virtues, love and laughter a daily part of everyday life. We’ll talk with Courtney DeFeo about how you can develop faith, patience and responsibility in your child. Book by guest: In This House, We Will Giggle.

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Fun Ways To Instill Virtues In Your Children I

Focus on the Family Australia

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2020 25:05

Jim Daly and guest host Kim Trobee, talk with Courtney DeFeo, author of "In This House, We Will Giggle", about how parents can make virtues, love and laughter a daily part of everyday life. Filled with practical, easy-to-implement and fun ideas, they discuss the virtues of gratitude, generosity, joy, faith, patience and responsibility.

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Courtney's Season of Rest with Paula Faris (Ep 92)

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2020 31:01

Founder of Treasured, Courtney DeFeo, is moving into a "season of rest" due to her recent diagnosis of Chiari Malformation. Listen in as Paula Faris interviews Courtney about this decision to leave her current vocation and move into a new season despite fear. Paula is a wife, mom, author, journalist, podcaster and champion of others. In her recent book, Called Out, Paula shares her own journey of burn out and physical breakdowns from her time at ABC News and The View. She knows the peace that comes with seeking your true calling.

On the Bright Side with Melanie Shankle and Kelli McBrayer (Ep 80)

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 46:34

Melanie Shankle writes regularly at The Big Mama blog and is the New York Times bestselling author of On the Bright Side (Zondervan). Melanie is a graduate of Texas A&M and loves writing, shopping at Target, checking to see what’s on sale at Anthropologie and trying to find the lighter side in every situation. Most of all, she loves being the mother of Caroline, the wife of Perry and the official herder of two wild dogs named Piper and Mabel. The five of them live in San Antonio, Texas. Kelli is the best friend of Treasured Girlz' host, Courtney DeFeo.

#232: Treasured with Courtney DeFeo

The Struggle Well Project

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 56:26

Raising daughters is amazing/overwhelming. Today we are focusing on pre-teen girls but we also touch on the general wellness that all of us mothers are trying to maintain over here. In Courtney’s experience, our girls turn a corner around first and second grade - when things aren’t just about cool tutus and everyone being friends. Courtney is really passionate about this time in life, so with her girls, she tackles 6 subjects: identity, friendship, body, emotions, and technology in a fun and interactive way. Courtney DeFeo is most known for being a factory of ideas for families. It’s her desire to lead a life that radiates God’s love in action and His grace along the way. As a former marketing professional for Chick-fil-A, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs and ideas that motivate others to action. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. Recently, Courtney launched a new study in collaboration with Parent Cue entitled Treasured designed for tween girls and their moms. Courtney’s most honorable mention is her husband Ron and their two wildly creative girls (Ella, 13 and Larson, 10). WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: how Courtney’s faith has been tested while living away from her family sacrificing for your spouse without holding resentment not feeling well due to neglecting self needs where to start when you’re trying to get well not letting your children’s emotions pull down your emotional state helping your pre-teen/teen girl navigate emotions how finding a community and being vulnerable unites us Courtney’s passion for teaching 9-12 year-old-girls LINKS MENTIONED: Treasured Journal: An Interactive Experience for a Tween Girl & Her Mom Treasured Podcast Down Dog Yoga app CONNECT WITH COURTNEY: website | instagram | facebook CONNECT WITH EMILY: website | instagram | facebook | patreon EPISODE SPONSORS: Beekeepers Naturals: get 15% off your 1st order when you visit beekeepersnaturals.com/msw and use promo code MSW Embr Wave: get $60 off your Embr Wave bracelet when you visit embrwave.com/msw YogaSleep: get 20% off a sound machine when you visit yogasleep.com/msw Abide app: get 25% off a premium subscription when you visit abide.co/msw SUPPORT THE SHOW: Patreon SHARE THE STRUGGLE! If you've been encouraged, share this episode with a friend. The struggle is real. We might as well do this together! Do you love Mom Struggling Well? Please leave a review here!

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121: Courtney DeFeo

Thriving Beyond Belief with Cheryl Scruggs

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2020 44:58

The Thriving Beyond Belief podcast this week featuring: Courtney DeFeo! The “tween” years are a critical transition period in the life of a young girl. Girls this age are changing in profound ways. Loaded with fun activities and engaging content, Treasured will initiate meaningful conversation between moms and daughters during these critical preteen years. ABOUT THE TREASURED STUDY Whether you lead a group of moms and daughters or complete this study one-on-one with your daughter, we equip you digitally with everything you need: This 6-session faith-based study is designed to connect moms and daughters with engaging content around topics critical to the preteen years: Identity, Body, Emotions, Friendships, Technology, and Faith. It contains a flash drive of digital files that includes everything you need for a small group study with moms and daughters: teaching videos (DVD option included), discussion questions, leader guides, participant guides, and connection ideas and more. This can also be used as a one-on-one study with a mom and her daughter. To be used on its own, or in conjunction with the Treasured Study, the Treasured Journal is designed to help girls think about the questions they are already asking, and creates opportunities to interact with their moms. There are 6 weeks of topics (the same topics as the study) with 5 days of things for her to think about, doodle, and do. There are things for moms to do, too. Go through it together, and you’ll discover a deeper connection with each other, and in the process, she’ll discover just how Treasured she is. When used alongside the study, it allows moms and daughters to take what they’ve learned in the study one step further.

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Her Faith with Courtney DeFeo (EP 73)

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2020 24:10

Courtney DeFeo shares some encouragement and tips about your daughter's FAITH! This is an area moms desire for their daughters to grow - but can also seem daunting and overwhelming. Tune into this episode for perspective and practical advice around this common topic for tweens. In addition, Courtney will share some lessons learned from the Treasured Study and this final session for the girls.

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Her Technology with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 69)

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 35:35

Founder of Treasured Girlz and the Treasured Study, Courtney DeFeo, discusses the topic of Technology. She covers the challenges and opportunities that this topic brings to moms that are raising girls. She also discusses the Technology session that is featured in the Treasured Study and some tips on how to lead your girls through this discussion.

Top Ten from 2018: #6 Finding Your Purpose as a Mom with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 46:32

Finding Your Purpose as a Mom with Courtney DeFeo, Founder of Lil Light O' Mine and Author of In This House We Will Giggle 2 Peter 1:5 (ESV)“For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge," Courtney DeFeo left her corporate career to work as a mom, homemaker, and business owner. She published a book In This House, We Will Giggle, among many other initiatives, such as speaking, podcasting, and running her business called “Lil Light O' Mine”. Courtney is now living in Dallas, TX with her husband Ron and their two wildly creative and sweet girls. At The Savvy Sauce, we will only recommend resources we believe in! We want you to be aware: We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Courtney's Website ABC Scripture Cards Virtue Memory Cards Leading Girls Podcast (Now called Treasured) Light ‘em up acts of kindness Jeannie Cunnion Mom Set Free Book Jeannie Cunnion Mom Set Free Bible Study Thank You to Our Sponsor: Chick-fil-A East Peoria Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and freebies! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Her Friendships with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 66)

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019 28:14

Courtney DeFeo is the founder of this podcast and the creator of TreasuredStudy.com. In this episode, she shares on the topic of "Friendship" which is a common struggle and great teaching opportunity for our girls. Tune in to hear ideas on how to guide your girls through friendship conflict and most importantly how to be the friend you want to find.

Episode 201: Courtney DeFeo | Raising Tween Girls

Surviving Sarah

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019 36:48

I am so happy to welcome Courtney DeFeo back to the show. Courtney is an OG Surviving Sarah guest making her first appearance on the show back on episode 18. She is such a creative entrepreneur who has a big heart for helping others. She is an author and podcast host for the Treasured Podcast which is a great resource for moms of girls. Courtney has partnered with Parent Cue from Orange to create a resource for moms and tween girls so that is the basis for our conversation today. We talk about raising tween girls, the areas in which we feel inadequate to help, and even the area that we struggled with as tweens. And since we are in the throws of the holiday season, we talk about ways to make the holidays less about what we receive and more about what we give. Courtney shares some very practical and helpful ideas to light up your community during this holiday season. Connect with Sarah: Instagram // Website Support Surviving Sarah on Pateron

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Special Patreon Release Ideas for Spreading Generosity with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019 32:21

Ideas for Spreading Generosity with Courtney DeFeo Deuteronomy 5:32-33 (NIV) “So be careful to do what the LORD your God has commanded you; do not turn aside to the right or to the left. Walk in all the way that the LORD your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess.” Courtney DeFeo left her corporate career to work as a mom, homemaker, and business owner. She published a book “In This House, We Will Giggle” among many other initiatives, such as speaking, podcasting, and running her business called “Lil Light O' Mine.” Courtney is now living in Dallas, TX with her husband Ron and their two wildly creative and sweet girls. At The Savvy Sauce, we will only recommend resources we believe in! We also want you to be aware: We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.comand affiliated sites. Courtney's Podcast Courtney's Blog Post about Questions About Heritage of Faith Courtney's Planning Document Courtney's 100 Ideas Courtney's Book Courtney's ABC Scripture Cards Courtney's Virtue Memory Cards Jeannie Cunnion Mom Set Free Thank You to Our Sponsor: Chick-fil-A East Peoria Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and freebies! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Her Emotions with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 63)

Simply Wholehearted Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 27:41

Courtney DeFeo, founder of Treasured Girlz, shares some encouragement and guidance around the topic of EMOTIONS. In addition, she gives some practical tips for those walking their daughters through the Treasured Study and what to expect for Session 3: Emotions.

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#126 Treasured | a conversation with Courtney DeFeo

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2019 34:13

Remind her how she is cherished and one-of-a-kind. Get to know Courtney DeFeo and Treasured. Head on over to follow Simply Wholehearted on IG to join the Enneagram conversation! Check out the Easy Enneagram 101 Course! Here are some of the promised Enneagram links! The Simply Wholehearted Enneagram QuickStart Guide List The Enneagram One Sheet Interested in the Wholehearted Enneagram Coaching? Sign up here to put your name on the wait-list. Check out our new Timestamp feature: Intro Ends- 2:25 What was the brokenhearted moment that led to the wholehearted decision to write Treasured? -3:02 How do we help our daughters with their struggles when we find ourselves still struggling with the same things?- 9:00 “These things (the struggles) are going to stay with you but they don’t have to own you.” - 10:10 Our daughters need to see that their moms are human. It doesn’t help our daughters to see us faking it. 11:05 “These topics are too important and my daughter is too important to skip this key transition and just wait until she is a teenager.” 14:00 Do you know your Enneagram type and how has it helped your motherhood? 16:00 We need to be careful to not only examine our faults and weaknesses when determining who we are- 18:15 What was it like to take a group of girls through this curriculum? 23:35 What are three practical things that we can do to integrate meaningful conversations with their tweens? 27:50 Listen more than you talk. -28:20 Ask questions, just listen, don’t fix If you overreact, she will not come back. If you do overreact, own it and apologize. Don’t freak out -28:40 Encourage more than critique- 29:35 Outro- 32:25 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/simply-wholehearted-podcast/message

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BONUS: Raising Worry-Free Girls Launch Party Part 2

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 39:02

We loved celebrating Sissy's latest books, Raising Worry-Free Girls and Braver, Stronger, Smarter: A Girl's Guide to Overcoming Worry, back in September at her launch party. Mothers and daughters descended up Sissy's sister's store to celebrate. We recorded some interviews during the party. In this episode, you will hear from some of Sissy's friends: Sarah Bragg, The Nashville Mom, Courtney DeFeo, Jeannie Cunnion, Elisabeth Hasslebeck, David Thomas and Melissa Trevathan. Be sure to listen to Bonus Episode Part 1 for more interviews from the party.

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Her Body with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 59)

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 25:34

Courtney DeFeo talks about all things BODY today! This topic is critical for our girls. It's an area of struggle for moms and girls and often a topic we face with fear. We don't want to be the reason our girls struggle. Courtney addresses this fear and gives encouragement and hope in this episode. In addition, she gives you tips on how to lead your groups around this sensitive topic and some lessons learned from her recent experience with her daughter's group. She also gives tips and resources for having "the talks" and much more. More at TreasuredGirlz.com.

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Her Identity with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 56)

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2019 20:20

We're back! it's a new season of Treasured with Courtney DeFeo. In this episode, Courtney will chat about all things Identity. This is a topic that is a common struggle for our daughters. Every girl young and old tries to find her way. And it is TOUGH as the mom to watch that rollercoaster. Listen in as Courtney shares her journey with her own daughters and gives some practical advice about this topic. Plus, she'll share some ideas on how to walk her through "Identity" in the new Treasured Study and Treasured Journal found at TreasuredStudy.com.

Courtney DeFeo : On Creativity, Entrepreneurship and Parenting Girls

The Chris Craft Show

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2019 40:14

Courtney DeFeo of the Treasured Girlz Podcast joins us for episode of 29 of The Chris Craft Show. We discuss creativity, entrepreneurship, ministry and raising children with the love ... Read moreCourtney DeFeo : On Creativity, Entrepreneurship and Parenting Girls The post Courtney DeFeo : On Creativity, Entrepreneurship and Parenting Girls appeared first on The Chris Craft Show Podcast.

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Vivendo Virtudes : : Servir #51

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2019 26:48

Servir O que é servir? De acordo com a definição que a Courtney DeFeo usa no seu livro, servir é usar as nossas mãos, os nossos pés e os nossos corações para honrar a Deus e servir outros. No episódio de hoje, falaremos sobre a importância de cultivar uma cultura de gentileza e de serviço dentro da nossa família. Quando colocamos as necessidades dos outros acima do nosso próprio conforto, ensinamos os nossos filhos a fazerem o mesmo. Em um mundo que prega "você merece", podemos ir contra a correnteza e ensinar os nossos filhos que, se Jesus veio para servir, e não para ser servido, nós também podemos seguir esse exemplo. Recursos Mencionados Versículos Mencionados: Bem como o Filho do homem não veio para ser servido, mas para servir, e para dar a sua vida em resgate de muitos.Mateus 20:28 Porque o Filho do homem também não veio para ser servido, mas para servir e dar a sua vida em resgate de muitos.Marcos 10:45 Livro Recomendado: No episódio, eu citei o livro "A Resposta Certa" da autora Lysa Terkeurst. Também citei o podcast da Sally Clarkson. Esse é em inglês, mas é um recurso bom também! Eu citei uma frase que ela usou em um dos seus episódios. Aqui está a frase: Se vocês estão comprometidos a se tornarem uma família que seja como a luz de Cristo no mundo, a sua família se tornará aquela que está sempre buscando servir a necessidade dos outros para demonstrar o amor de Cristo. Humildemente pensar na necessidade dos outros acima do seu próprio conforto é um hábito que precisa ser formado e praticado. - Sally Clarkson Cartão da Virtude: Aqui está o cartão para a vitude desse mês. Para baixar e imprimir é só clicar na imagem abaixo! Coloque na sua geladeira ou em algum outro lugar da sua casa como lembrete para toda a família. Servir Devocional Aqui estão algumas passagens bíblicas e perguntas para te ajudar a refletir sobre a sua motivação para servir e como Deus quer te usar. O que Deus quer te ensinar? Abre a sua Bíblia e deixe Ele falar contigo. Para baixar e imprimir esse arquivo, clique na imagem logo abaixo. Para ver os outros devocionais disponíveis (tem um para cada episódio do podcast) clique na página Sondando o Coração. Sondando o Coração - Servir Como faço para me Inscrever? Você sempre tem a opção de escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 26 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player no topo do post. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY aqui no site mesmo

Vivendo Virtudes : : Humildade na Prática #45

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2019 24:53

Humildade na Prática Duas semanas atrás começamos a falar sobre humildade e como cultiva-la na nossa própria vida (no episódio 43). Essa semana vamos focar em como podemos ajudar os nossos filhos a serem humildes. Uma coisa que eu destaco logo no começo do episódio é a diferença entre ensinar humildade para os nossos filhos, e humilha-los. São duas coisas completamente distintas. Humilhar uma criança não gera humildade nela. Eu quero que os meus filhos sejam TÃO confiantes no meu amor por eles, e (mais importante ainda) no amor de Deus por eles que eles não sintam a necessidade de ser o centro de tudo. Quero que eles esbanjem amor, elogios e atenção nos outros porque eles estão seguros na sua identidade como filhos de Deus. A verdade é que eu quero isso para mim. Eu quero isso para você. Deus, nos ajude! Nos lembre diariamente da nossa identidade em Cristo e do seu amor por nós para que possamos ensinar pelo exemplo. Que os nossos filhos nos vejam colocando os holofotes em Deus e em outros, e que eles sigam o nosso exemplo. Recursos Mencionados Eu comentei que jogamos vários jogos em família, e citei um específico. Aqui está uma imagem dele em português mas não sei onde acha para comprar no Brasil. Sinto muito! Se você souber desse jogo, ou quiser sugerir qualquer outro que sua família curte, entre no nosso grupo no Facebook e compartilhe, por favor! Filmes em Família Use esse guia para uma noite de filme em família. Aproveita as perguntas já boladas e crie outras de acordo com as idades dos seus filhos e sempre estando sensível à direção que seus filhos levarem a conversa. Essa semana o guia é para o filme Universidade Monstros que é riquíssimo em exemplos de situações em que a humildade é muito melhor do que a arrogância. Universidade Monstros Estudos Bíblicos Em Família Como sempre, aqui também está um guia simples de Estudo Bíblico para ser feito em família. Aproveite ele no seu cultinho doméstico, ou pegue uma pergunta por dia e converse sobre ela nas refeições. Não se aprisionem a um formato específico. Adapte para a sua realidade! Estudo Bíblico - Humildade Cartões de Reconhecimento: Eu também mencionei que, no livro In This House We Will Giggle, a autora Courtney DeFeo sugeriu uma atividade escrevendo cartões de reconhecimento para outras pessoas. Ela criou um recurso super legal, mas está em inglês. Se você quiser acessa-lo, aqui está o link. Se você preferir uma versão em português, criei esse abaixo para vocês: Também tem a versão em branco, caso queira escrever algo um pouco diferente: Como faço para me inscrever? Você sempre tem a opção de escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 24 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player no topo do post. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY aqui no site mesmo

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Vivendo Virtudes : : Humildade #43

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2019 30:07

Humildade A Humildade me parece uma das virtudes mais difíceis de abordar. Quando achamos que a conquistamos, na verdade estamos exibindo a maior prova que ainda não compreendemos sua essência. Na passagem bíblica de Miquéias 6:8 vemos o que o Senhor exige de nós: "Pratique a justiça, ame a fidelidade e ande humildemente com o seu Deus." Creio que o segredo está nas palavras "ande com o seu Deus". Ao caminharmos com Cristo dia após dia, Ele começa a nos mostrar o orgulho que temos enraizado. O C.S. Lewis escreveu assim no seu livro "Cristianismo Puro e Simples": "Existe um vicio do qual homem algum está livre, que causa repugnância quando é notado nos outros, mas do qual ninguém se acha culpado." Vamos aprender a encarar o nosso próprio orgulho e a andar humildemente com o nosso Deus. Vamos ensinar os nossos filhos através do exemplo a importância de sair do centro do palco e colocar os holofotes todos em Cristo. Recursos Mencionados Aqui está o cartão para a vitude desse mês. Para baixar e imprimir é só clicar na imagem abaixo! Coloque na sua geladeira ou em algum outro lugar da sua casa como lembrete para toda a família. Humildade Versículos Mencionados: O orgulho vem antes da destruição; o espírito altivo, antes da queda.Provérbios 16:18 O Senhor detesta os orgulhosos de coração. Sem dúvida serão punidos.Provérbios 16:5 Mas ele nos concede graça maior. Por isso diz a Escritura: "Deus se opõe aos orgulhosos, mas concede graça aos humildes".Tiago 4:6 Você conhece alguém que se julga sábio? Há mais esperança para o insensato do que para ele.Provérbios 26:12 A lei foi introduzida para que a transgressão fosse ressaltada. Mas onde aumentou o pecado, transbordou a graça,Romanos 5:20 Eu te louvo porque me fizeste de modo especial e admirávelSalmos 139:14 Livro Recomendado: Nesse episódio eu citei o livro "Aliviando a Bagagem" do autor Max Lucado. A citação foi a seguinte: “Deus odeia a arrogância. Ele odeia a arrogância porque não temos feito coisa alguma pela qual sermos arrogantes. O crítico de artes confere prêmios à tela? Há um Pulitzer para a tinta? Você pode imaginar um bisturi se tornando presunçoso após um bem sucedido transplante de coração? Claro que não. Eles são apenas ferramentas, por isso não recebem crédito pelas realizações.” Como sempre cito, essa série de Virtudes está baseada no livro: "In This House We Will Giggle" da autora Courtney DeFeo. A oração que eu citei do livro foi a seguinte: “Senhor, permita que as falhas e fraquezas dos meus filhos sejam o que os trazem para mais perto de Ti. Senhor, permita que as suas vitórias e seus dons sejam o que trazer os outros para perto de Ti.” Devocional Aqui estão algumas passagens bíblicas e perguntas para te ajudar a refletir ainda mais sobre humildade. O que Deus quer te ensinar? Abre a sua Bíblia e deixe Ele falar contigo. Para baixar e imprimir esse arquivo, clique na imagem logo abaixo. Para ver os outros devocionais disponíveis (tem um para cada episódio do podcast) clique na página Sondando o Coração. Sondando o Coração 43 Como faço para me Inscrever? Você sempre tem a opção de escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 30 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player no topo do post. Se você tiver um iPhone,

Catch Up Chat with Courtney DeFeo (Ep 34)

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2018 19:48

Founder of Treasured Podcast Courtney DeFeo comes on to catch up! She discuss topics including generosity, friendship, balance and much more.

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Light 'Em Up with Larson DeFeo (Ep 31)

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2018 22:38

Larson DeFeo is the daughter of Courtney DeFeo and comes on to talk about generosity! Light 'Em Up is a movement to help families light up the world with kindness. Enjoy a mom/daughter conversation about kindness and loving others in really fun and simple ways. LightEmUpActs.com

Vivendo Virtudes : : Perseverança #32

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2018 27:13

Perseverança Eu quero criar filhos resilientes. Quero que eles saibam levantar depois de um tombo (literal ou simbólico). Quero que eles sempre deem o seu melhor e saibam sem sombra de dúvida de onde vem a força deles! Quero ensinar perseverança para os meus filhos. Quero que eles sejam reconhecidos pelo esforço e pela dedicação. Quero que a nossa família seja um lugar seguro para eles tentarem coisas novas e errarem. Quero que eles vejam eu e o pai deles como exemplos de perseverança, porque a nossa força está em Cristo. Vamos ensinar os nossos filhos o que o versículo de Filipenses 4:13 pode significar na vida deles. "Tudo posso naquele que me fortalece"... eles são capazes. Eles podem alcançar as coisas atraves do esforço, da dedicação e da perseverança. E ele podem tudo isso, porque Cristo é a fonte de toda a força deles. Tudo que nós temos e tudo que somos provém do Senhor, e por isso, podemos todas as coisas nEle. Nesse episódio começamos a falar sobre isso. Eu falo um pouco sobre a definição de perseverança e dou alguns exemplos da minha vida e como eu tenho aprendido sobre tudo isso. Vamos deixar Deus criar perseverança nas nossas próprias vidas, e vamos ajudar os nossos filhos a enxergarem o valor dessa virtude na vida deles. Recursos Mencionados Essa série "Vivendo Virtudes" está baseada no livro In This House We Will Giggle da autora Courtney DeFeo. Infelizmente esse livro ainda não tem tradução para o português, mas fica aí a minha indicação caso você leia em inglês. Várias das minhas idéias práticas, as definições e os versículos bíblicos usados são todos retirados desse livro (com permissão especial da autora!) Eu citei um autor americano, David Thomas. Ele escreveu um livro com mais duas autoras que gosto muito, que é Are My Kids on Track. A citação dele foi: Medo é o ponto de partida para a Coragem Dificuldade é o ponto de partida para Criatividade Eu escutei ele falando isso nesse podcast. Infelizmente, tanto o livro quando o podcast estão em inglês, mas quis referenciar para as pessoas que queiram ler/escutar! Também mencionei o cartão que você pode imprimir para colcoar na sua casa. Aqui está! Esses cartões que faço para cada virtude é uma versão simplificada (e em português!) desses cartões LINDOS que ela vende. Para achar os cartões das virtudes anteriores, clique aqui para o de Alegria, aqui para o de Fé, e aqui para o de Paciência. E para imprimir o cartão de Perseverança, só clique na imagem abaixo! :) Perseverança Devocional: A única verdade absoluta que temos é a Bíblia, então vamos deixar ela nos guiar e nos ensinar sobre todos os temas tratados aqui no podcast. Aqui está o devocional sobre perseverança. Leia os versículos, pense nas perguntas e deixe o Espirito Santo fazer a obra dEle no seu coração. Clique na imagem abaixo para baixar e imprimir. Para acessar os outros devocionais que acompanham os episódios, vá para a página Sondando o Coração. Sondando o Coração episódio 32 Como faço para me inscrever? Você sempre tem a opção de escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 27 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player no topo do post. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY aqui no site mesmo

1 Finding Your Purpose as a Mom With Author and Podcaster, Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2018 47:26

Finding Your Purpose as a Mom with Courtney DeFeo, Founder of Lil Light O' Mine and Author of In This House We Will Giggle 2 Peter 1:5 (ESV)“For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge," Courtney DeFeo left her corporate career to work as a mom, homemaker, and business owner. She published a book In This House, We Will Giggle, among many other initiatives, such as speaking, podcasting, and running her business called “Lil Light O' Mine”. Courtney is now living in Dallas, TX with her husband Ron and their two wildly creative and sweet girls. At The Savvy Sauce, we will only recommend products we believe it! And we want you to be aware:We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Courtney's Website ABC Scripture Cards Virtue Memory Cards Leading Girls Podcast (Now Called Treasured) Light ‘em up acts of kindness Jeannie Cunnion Mom Set Free Book Jeannie Cunnion Mom Set Free Bible Study Thank You to Our Sponsor: Chick-fil-A East Peoria Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Vivendo Virtudes : : Paciência #28

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2018 31:29

Paciência Já falamos sobre a diferença entre ser PACIENTE e ser PERMISSIVA com os nossos filhos no episódio 14, mas hoje nós vamos falar sobre como podemos trabalhar e desenvolver paciência nas nossas vidas, e também na vida dos nossos filhos. Paciência será a virtude do mês de Setembro. Paciência é esperar com um coração feliz. Essa é a definição que vamos usar para ensinar a virtude para os nossos filhos. Ser paciente é simplesmente uma característica nata de certas pessoas? É possível treinar e aumentar o nosso "limite" de paciência? O que nós acreditamos à respeito dessa virtude molda o nosso comportamento. Se eu achar que simplesmente algumas pessoas nascem pacientes e outras não, estou fechando a porta para crescimento e amadurecimento. Se eu achar que só preciso me esforçar mais, e que se eu tiver força de vontade o suficiente eu posso mudar, estarei sempre frustrada e fracassada. Mas se eu acredito que paciência é um fruto do Espírito, e que Ele pode trazer crescimento e progresso nessa área da minha vida, eu tenho esperança. A minha esperança não está na minha personalidade, nem na minha força de vontade. A minha esperança está em Cristo e no versículo que diz "que Aquele que começou boa obra em mim, vai completá-la até o dia de Cristo Jesus." Filipenses 1:6 Mais uma vez, quero dizer que esse projeto é baseado no livro In This House We Will Giggle da autora Courtney DeFeo. O livro não tem tradução para o português, e tudo que estou compartilhando aqui, faço com a permissão dela. Porém, se você fala/lê em inglês, por favor compre esse livro! É uma fonte inesgotável de recursos! Recursos Mencionados Aqui está o novo cartão do mês. Imprima e coloque na sua geladeira (ou em qualquer outro lugar!). Use ele para te lembrar que estamos buscando ser intencionais em treinar paciência nas nossas próprias vidas e na vida dos nossos filhos. Paciência Eu também fiz um marcador de páginas com a frase e o versículo que quero ler todas as manhas para me ajudar a intencionamente treinar a paciência. Marcador de Páginas Devocional: Como nós sabemos que a principal maneira que os nossos filhos aprendem é através da observação do nosso próprio exemplo, vamos começar esse mês pedindo para Deus nos ensinar sobre PACIÊNCIA. Vamos ver o que Deus quer nos ensinar através da palavra dEle. Aqui está o devocional semanal que acompanha o episódio. É só clicar na imagem que te levará ao arquivo para imprimir. Se quiser ver todos os devocionais que temos até agora, vá até a página Sondando o Coração. Sondando o Coração episódio 28 Como faço para me inscrever? Você sempre tem a opção de escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 31 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player no topo do post. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY aqui no site mesmo

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Vivendo Virtudes : : Fé na Prática #26

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Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2018 27:54

Fé na Prática Esse é o segundo episódio que estamos focando na virtude FÉ. Retomando o que aprendemos no episódio 24, fé é conhecer, amar e seguir a Jesus. Nesse episódio eu dou mais ideias práticas de como incorporar a nossa fé no dia-a-dia da família. Também falo um pouco sobre como tem sido fazer esse projeto na nossa família. Lembre-se que a intenção com esse projeto é dar uma ABUNDÂNCIA de idéias e recursos. Não quero que vocês pensem que eu faço tudo isso aqui em casa diariamente! Não faço! Eu também escolho o que se adapta à nossa realidade, à idade dos meus filhos e à cultura da nossa família. Se por acaso você se encontra em uma estação muito pesada ou difícil, como uma amiga minha que está grávida de 9 meses do terceiro filho, ou outra ouvinte que está de mudança para outro estado... não se cobre e não se culpe. Há tempos para tudo, e se esse é um tempo de "simplesmente sobreviver", não deixe o inimigo usar esses episódios e esses recursos como acusações falsas. Tudo isso vai ficar aqui, te esperando. Você não está perdendo nada... você simplesmente está fazendo uma sábia escolha para a sua família. Deixe Deus te carregar durante essas semanas/meses difíceis, e depois volte com um espirito renovado e forças para continuar! Mais uma vez, quero dizer que esse projeto é baseado no livro In This House We Will Giggle da autora Courtney DeFeo. O livro não tem tradução para o português, e tudo que estou compartilhando aqui, faço com a permissão dela. Porém, se você fala/lê em inglês, por favor compre esse livro! É uma fonte inesgotável de recursos! Recursos Mencionados Como mencionei no episódio, essa semana não teremos um Sondando o Coração. Já criei um para a virtude de Fé no episódio 24, então achei melhor nessa segunda quinzena do mês, providenciar um guia simples de estudo bíblico em família, e também um guia de discussão sobre o filme Os Incríveis da Pixar. Sim... eu sei que acabou de sair "Os Incríveis 2", mas esse guia é para o primeiro filme mesmo. Ele tem os temas que eu queria explorar nessa virtude, então por isso usei esse! Espero que esses recursos sirvam a sua família! Fé - Estudo Bíblico em Família Os Incríveis Eu também mencionei os estudos sobre Sticky Faith (fé que gruda) do Fuller Institute. Se quiser aprender mais, esse site tem várias informações e esse foi o livro que eu e o Thiago lemos a respeito "The Sticky Faith Guide for Your Family" da Dr. Kara Powell O versículo de Tiago que falei todo embolado no final era: Se algum de vocês tem falta de sabedoria, peça-a a Deus, que a todos dá livremente, de boa vontade; e lhe será concedida. Tiago 1:5 Agora quero escutar! Aqui está o Episódio 26! Pode clicar e escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 28 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player aqui. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY logo aqui abaixo

Episode 08 | Motherhood with Courtney Defeo

The Big Top

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2018 49:43

What do Justin Timberlake, lemurs, and motherhood have in common? Well you're about to find out! We adore Courtney Defeo and her wit, charm, and beautiful wisdom. Courtney is a mom of two girls, an author, a speaker, a visionary, a podcaster, and a woman who has enlightening thoughts on motherhood. She is so very practical which we all need! She gives us some golden truths on who YOU are as a mother, what season you are in, and what God is doing around you. More on Courtney on the show notes at www.amyseiffert.com under podcast.

Bonus Episode 07 | Motherhood Series Kick Off!

The Big Top

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2018 21:00

Who wouldn't want just a quick bonus episode where Lori and Amy talk about being moms, about how Amy wrote her book (Chin Up) on motherhood because it felt like a lopsided dress on her when it looked so beautiful on everyone else, and on some bonus encouragement for the weekend? No one, that's who.But most of all, can we talk about how amazing the line-up is for the next several episodes? Yes, let's! Courtney Defeo (author, podcaster of "Leading Girls") Ashlee Gadd (podcast: Coffee and Crumbs and author of The Magic of Motherhood) Alli Patterson (podcast: IKR? and pastor at Crossroads Church) and Meg Smalley (podcast: Give Grace, owner of Scarlet and Gold Shop)We are beside ourselves to have these killer thought leaders and cannot wait for all the laughing and learning to come! Enjoy this Friday Bonus Episode!

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Vivendo Virtudes : : Fé #24

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2018 25:01

Fé Começou o mês de Agosto e estamos partindo para a nossa segunda virtude da série Vivendo Virtudes. A virtude que vamos trabalhar esse mês é FÉ. A nossa fé em Deus é a coisa de maior valor que temos para passar para os nossos filhos. Mas como vamos definir fé para os nossos filhos pequenos? O que significa para você a palavra fé? Não quero que os meus filhos somente "acreditem em Deus". Quero que eles conhecam a Jesus. Quero que eles aprendam a ama-lo de todo o coração. Quero que eles o sigam durante todas as suas vidas. Por isso, a definição que usaremos é essa: Fé é conhecer, amar e seguir a Jesus. Nesse episódio eu falo um pouco sobre essa definição e sobre algumas ideias práticas para ajudar a incorporar a nossa fé no dia-a-dia da família. Se você tem outras ideias ou outras sugestões de recursos e materiais, por favor entre no nosso grupo do facebook e compartilhe conosco! Mais uma vez, quero lembra-los que o material que estou seguindo é o livro "In This House We Will Giggle" da autora Courtney DeFeo. Eu tenho a permissão dela para compartilhar o que estou compartilhando, mas a verdade é que estou dando uma mera amostrinha aqui. Se você lê em inglês, vale MUITO A PENA comprar esse livro para a sua família! Recursos Mencionados Aqui está o novo cartão do mês. Imprima e coloque na sua geladeira (ou em qualquer outro lugar!). Use ele para te lembrar que estamos buscando ser intencionais em encontrar maneiras de incorporar a nossa fé no dia-a-dia da família! Fé Eu mencionei um artigo que li sobre "Não Quero Criar Filhos de Igreja". Está em inglês, mas a leitura é muito boa. Eu resumi no podcast, mas vale a pena conferir o texto na íntegra. Aqui está a lista de frases que citei como idéias de como podemos criar um vocabulário novo nas nossas casas: Nós acreditamos que Deus está aqui, mesmo sem conseguir vê-lo. Deus te criou, e você é único (a) e especial. A nossa família confia em Deus de todo o coração Deus te criou com habilidades incríveis, e eu estou ansiosa para ver todas as maneiras que Ele vai te usar! Versículos: Também falei dos cartões com 10 versículos bíblicos que criei para as famílias ouvintes do podcast. Aqui estão! São os mesmos versículos em duas versões. A primeira versão tem alguns versículos encurtados, para facilitar a memorização para crianças pequenas (eu diria de idades 2-5 mais ou menos... cada mãe conhece o seu filho!) Versículos para Pitocos Essa segunda versão é com os mesmos versículos, mas esses são completos. Faça disso algo divertido! Invente joguinhos... faça competição entre pais e filhos... componha músicas engraçadas... use a sua imaginação! Insira esses versículos nos momentos pertinentes. Sua filha está com medo de dormir no escuro? "Não tenha medo pois eu estou com você" Isaías 43:5. Seu filho chegou metendo a boca no amiguinho da escola? "Guarde a sua língua do mal e os seus lábios da falsidade." Salmos 34:13. Estão tendo um dia daqueles onde todos da família estão se bicando e desentendendo? Colosseses 3:12 para todo mundo! Só vamos tentar evitar usar um tom legalista ao citar os versículos. Todos nós erramos e precisamos lembrar dessas verdades diariamente. Vamos fazer das nossas famílias um lugar onde encorajamos uns aos outros na fé, e não um lugar de condenação e julgamento. Versículos para Memorizar em Família Devocional: Como nós sabemos que a principal maneira que os nossos filhos aprendem é através da observação do nosso próprio exemplo, vamos começar esse mês pedindo para Deus nos ensinar sobre FÉ. Vamos ver o que Deus quer nos ensinar através da palavra dEle. Aqui está o devocional semanal que acompanha o episódio. É só clicar na imagem que te levará ao arquivo para imprimir. Se quiser ver todos os devocionais que temos até agora, vá até a página Sondando o Coração. Sondando o Coração episódio 24 Agora quero escutar! Aqui está o Episódio 24! Pode clicar e escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruç...

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Vivendo Virtudes : : Alegria na Prática # 22

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2018 23:13

Alegria na Prática Seguimos nesse mês de Julho aprendendo e colocando o foco na virtude da ALEGRIA. Sabe aquela velha história... "Não peça a Deus por paciência, porque senão Ele vai te dar oportunidades para exercitar a paciência"? Então... por aqui me vi nessa situação! A intenção é ensinar os meus filhos a escolher louvar a Deus em todas as coisas (essa é a definição que estamos usando), mas o que aconteceu é que eu tive que exercitar todos "os meus músculos de alegria" nessas últimas duas semanas. Tem sido 15 dias repletos de situações onde o que eu mais queria era reclamar, murmurar, e ficar com dozinha de mim mesma. Mas o que estou aprendendo? A escolher louvar a Deus em todas as coisas. Não vou mentir... murmurei um pouco e sim... rolou uma "dozinha" de mim mesma. Mas, na sua grande misericórdia, Deus me mostra o caminho de volta. Ele me perdoa, e me ajuda a voltar nos trilhos. Graças a Deus pelo projeto desse livro que estamos seguindo e por essa intencionalidade que ele incentiva. Não sei se Deus está usando isso na vida dos meus filhos, mas te garanto que na minha Ele está. Idéias Práticas Esse episódio é simples e direto. Nele eu dou algumas dicas práticas que a Courtney DeFeo menciona no seu livro, e também cito uns recursos que eu criei para ajudar a sua família nesse projeto. Lembre-se: a sua intenção ao escutar esse podcast não deve ser completar TODAS AS ATIVIDADES! A intenção é providenciar várias opções e sugerir diferentes tipos de atividades para TE AJUDAR a ser intencional no ensino de virtudes na sua casa. Eu não conheço a sua dinâmica familiar... eu não conheço os seus filhos... Quem vai saber o que irá funcionar na sua família é você! Então escute, pense, adapte, crie... e se criar algo que funciona para a sua familia, compartilhe conosco lá no nosso grupo do facebook! Queremos criar uma comunidade virtual que seja acolhedora, que sirva de apoio para a sua família e que seja um lugar que sirva de inspiração, mas nunca de comparação (não é mesmo, Hellen?) Recursos Mencionados Como mencionei no episódio, essa semana não teremos um Sondando o Coração. Já criei um para a virtude da Alegria no episódio 20, então achei melhor nessa segunda quinzena do mês, providenciar um guia simples de estudo bíblico em família, e também um guia de discussão sobre o filme Divertida Mente da Disney-Pixar. Espero que esses recursos sirvam a sua família! Alegria - Estudo Bíblico em Família Divertida Mente Agora quero escutar! Aqui está o Episódio 22! Pode clicar e escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 23 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android, ou aqui se você tem um iPhone. Se você estiver visualizando nesse momento do seu celular, você pode clicar nas palavras roxinhas logo abaixo do player aqui. Se você tiver um iPhone, clica em “Apple Podcasts” e se tiver um Android, clica em “Android”. Ou… claro… sempre tem a opção de só clicar no botão de PLAY logo aqui abaixo

Vivendo Virtudes : : Alegria #20

The Open Door Sisterhood Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2018 23:41

Vivendo Virtudes Hoje, começamos uma série que estou chamando de "Vivendo Virtudes". Todo mês iremos estudar e praticar uma virtude diferente em família, usando uma definição simples, um versículo para memorizar em família e atividades simples para colocar a virtude em prática. Os episódios de entrevista com as nossas convidadas continuam normalmente. Continuo buscando e entrevistando pessoas que podem nos ensinar sobre variados assuntos. Mas a partir de hoje, os nossos minis estarão focados nesse projeto... Vivendo Virtudes! Vamos junto comigo? Vamos ser intencionais e focar mais no que os nossos filhos DEVEM fazer, e menos no que eles NÃO DEVEM? A cultura da nossa família, e o ambiente que criamos na nossa casa é o que vai moldar a opinião que os nossos filhos vão ter sobre família e Deus. Será que estamos ensinando aos nossos filhos que seguir a Cristo é a mesma coisa que seguir uma lista de regras? Ou será que eles estão aprendendo o que realmente é amar a Deus e encontar alegria nEle? Ah como eu quero que essa segunda opção seja verdade na minha casa... Em uma entrevista, o autor Mark Foreman disse: “A boa notícia é que os nossos filhos já vem pre-programados para quererem ser iguais a gente. A má noticia é que os nossos filhos já vem pre-programados para quererem ser iguais a gente.” Então... mais importante do que elaborar atividades super divertidas, ou colar o versículo na parede, vamos entender que o trabalho acontece primeiro no nosso próprio coração! Vamos começar com a primeira virtude??? Então aqui vamos nós... ALEGRIA! Recursos Mencionados Estou baseando toda essa série no livro In This House We Will Giggle da autora Courtney DeFeo. Infelizmente esse livro ainda não tem tradução para o português, mas fica aí a minha indicação caso você leia em inglês. A grande maioria das minhas sugestões, as definições e os versículos bíblicos usados são todos retirados desse livro (com permissão especial da autora!) Eu mencionei um post que fiz no Instagram uns meses atrás. Aqui está, se quiserem dar uma olhada (gente, tentei fazer ficar menor, mas não consegui! Vai gigante assim mesmo!) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bgzg1l7lOfL/?taken-by=pdcpodcast Aqui está a lista de frases que eu citei como ideias de como podemos criar um vocabulário novo nas nossas casas: A alegria é uma escolha que a gente faz todos os dias Jesus Cristo é a fonte da nossa alegria Vamos louvar a Deus em todos os momentos, mesmo quando as coisas não vão do jeito que a gente quer. Bons amigos celebram as alegrias dos outros, mesmo se nós não estamos felizes O seu coração alegre transparece no seu rostinho feliz Nós podemos cultivar a alegria na nossa casa e espalha-la para outras pessoas Aqui está o "cartaz" da primeira virtude: ALEGRIA. Imprima e coloque em algum lugar da sua casa para que lembrem sempre o foco do mês. O meu está na minha geladeira! Alegria Todo mês vou providenciar um cartão novo para vocês colocarem na geladeira (ou grudado no espelho do banheiro, ou em um porta retrato, ou onde quiserem!) Como eu falo no episódio e já escrevi aqui nesse post, tudo isso começa com o nosso próprio coração. As crianças vão aprender a buscar a alegria deles em Cristo a medida que eles vêem os pais fazendo o mesmo. Então aqui está um devocional para nos ajudar! Aqui está o Sondando o Coração dessa semana: Sondando o Coração episódio 20 Agora Quero Escutar! Aqui está o Episódio 20! Pode clicar e escutar diretamente aqui do site, mas o que eu sugiro é que você siga as instruções para receber os episódios diretamente no seu celular. Esse episódio tem duraçao de 23 minutos, então o ideal seria você poder escutar enquanto está dirigindo, fazendo exercício, na fila do banco, fazendo compras no mercado ou guardando os mesmo brinquedos pela vigésima vez! Então se você ainda não configurou tudo no seu celular para baixar os episódios automaticamente (sem usar dados móveis) e nem sabe como fazer isso, clique aqui se você tem android,

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Heritage of Faith - Courtney DeFeo March 18, 2018

New Hope Chapel Norwell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2018 33:50

Heritage of Faith - Courtney DeFeo March 18, 2018 by New Hope Chapel Norwell

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18: Living Intentionally with Courtney DeFeo

Live It Well Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2018 43:13

Guys, you're about to meet your new best friend….. Courtney DeFeo We had so much fun chatting with Courtney! She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and Virtue Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. She is a sought-after speaker and contributing writer appearing on familiar sites and stages such as Focus on the Family, Mops International, Proverbs 31 and Parents Magazine. We cover just about everything in our conversation with Courtney! We chat about being “courage lenders”, our obsession with the Greatest Showman, the million dreams that keep her awake and how she successfully brought some of those dreams to life! One of our favorite takeaways was when she talked about how to align your life with what you value most. Guys, she is stinkin hilarious, and we just never wanted this conversation to end. We were so impacted by our conversation with Courtney Defeo we know you will be too! Enjoy! Come join the fun and check out how to win a copy of Courtney's book: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/onelifetribe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/onelife.works/

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Light 'Em Up- Courtney DeFeo [Ep. 07]

Nestled Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2017 30:25

Are you guys getting excited for Christmas? We sure are over here, especially considering we have been doing Christmas Styling for clients since the first of November. ;) As we head deeper into this holiday season, we didn't want to pass up the opportunity to encourage you guys (and ourselves) to be intentional with loving those around us. Enter Courtney DeFeo and her super practical movement that she started called Light 'Em Up! We chat with Courtney about -What Light 'Em Up is -When April first tried to implement it with her children years ago -The item that Courtney keeps for kids that come to visit their home -Courtney's passion for encouraging her kids to play -The legacy of marriage in Courtney's family -Making an effort to leave jealousy at the door -What happens when gold goes out? Links mentioned: Light 'Em Up Resources Courtney's Book: In This House, We Will Giggle Courtney's favorite designer, Truth & Co Where to find Courtney online: website l instagram Where to find April and Bayleigh instagram l facebook l website

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Ep.103: The Heart of Thanksgiving - Practical Ideas for Grace & Gratitude

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2017 48:18

Thanksgiving is a holiday that reminds us to live a life saturated with gratitude, overflowing with grace, and aware of our abundance. Let's use this seasonal opportunity to lean into these virtues and create habits that last long after the pumpkin pie and turkey are cleared from the table. Joining Krista today is Courtney DeFeo, a woman who is known for sprinkling virtues and kindness into the daily routine of life. We talk about how to help our kids practice thankfulness, how to carry a sense of dignity and joy to people we interact with, and what it looks like to love when family dynamics are hard (and even when they're not). We also take an honest look at how pride stalls and prevents relationships, why it's OK to look like a fruitcake for Jesus, and why it's important to get outside for a gratitude walk. This episode will inspire you to make the most of your Thanksgiving holiday! Our beloved listeners, we want YOU to know how very thankful we are to have you as a part of the sisterhood! As a thank you, and a “We Love You!” please download a free printable of Colossians 3:15-17 on the website for your Thanksgiving table, or to tape on your refrigerator to remind you to let Jesus have the run of the house while you cook!

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EP 50: Courtney DeFeo - Riggins Forever

Heroes For Her

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2017 43:38

“You’ll only pass this way once.” My guest today is Courtney DeFeo. Courtney is a popular blogger and the author of a book we LOVE so much, In This House, We Will Giggle. She’s a graduate of Auburn University with a background in marketing and public relations. In 2011, she started her company, Lil Light O’ Mine, and you can find her two products, ABC Scripture Cards and Conversation Cups, in stores all over the country. Courtney and her husband, Ron, are the parents of two young girls, Ella and Larson. In today’s episode, Courtney talks seasons: binge watching episodes of Friday Night Lights (Best show ever) and her early days in PR before passing the CIA-style interview process to become part of the Chik-fil-A marketing team (Chicken sandwiches!). The company was beyond supportive when she told them she was leaving to stay home and raise her kids. She continued consulting for Chik-fil-A and also launched her own company, Lil Light O’ Mine, in 2011. She launched with two products and a blog and, as they say, the rest is history. Well, her story. :) Don’t miss today’s episode, “Riggins Forever,” and be encouraged that you can experience joy, no matter what season of life you find yourself in.

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EP 50: Courtney DeFeo - Riggins Forever

Heroes For Her, Presented By Bible Belles

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2017 43:38

"You'll only pass this way once." My guest today is Courtney DeFeo. Courtney is a popular blogger and the author of a book we LOVE so much, In This House, We Will Giggle. She's a graduate of Auburn University with a background in marketing and public relations. In 2011, she started her company, Lil Light O' Mine, and you can find her two products, ABC Scripture Cards and Conversation Cups, in stores all over the country. Courtney and her husband, Ron, are the parents of two young girls, Ella and Larson. In today's episode, Courtney talks seasons: binge watching episodes of Friday Night Lights (Best show ever) and her early days in PR before passing the CIA-style interview process to become part of the Chik-fil-A marketing team (Chicken sandwiches!). The company was beyond supportive when she told them she was leaving to stay home and raise her kids. She continued consulting for Chik-fil-A and also launched her own company, Lil Light O' Mine, in 2011. She launched with two products and a blog and, as they say, the rest is history. Well, her story. :) Don't miss today's episode, "Riggins Forever," and be encouraged that you can experience joy, no matter what season of life you find yourself in.

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Lighten Up #33: Swimsuit Edition

Lighten Up with Melanie Dale

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2017 34:09

Melanie and Courtney DeFeo talk about pool etiquette and disturbing swimsuit trends. Melanie meant for this to be totally family-friendly but accidentally described her wetsuit as a body condom. You’ve been warned.

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LYP 036: How to Turn Your Idea Into a Business with Courtney DeFeo

Forth District

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2017 32:12

The Launch Youniversity Podcast helps go-getters, like you, discover what it takes to turn good intentions into reality in their career, business, and life.

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LYP 036: How to Turn Your Idea Into a Business with Courtney DeFeo

Launch Youniversity: Professional Development and Career Tips for Entrepreneurs, Executives, Intrapreneurs and Non-Profit Lea

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2017 32:12

The Launch Youniversity Podcast helps go-getters, like you, discover what it takes to turn good intentions into reality in their career, business, and life.

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Laughter over Lectures with Courtney DeFeo

Embrace Grace

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2017 28:21

As a mom in the throes of parenting, Courtney DeFeo believes that instilling virtues in children start with laughter, not lecture. That perspective propelled her to create an idea-packed book, in which she offers motivating reflections, real-life stories, and a sandbox full of inventive ways to help you turn your kids' hearts toward God. Join Amy as she chats with her friend Courtney about how to capture the hearts of our kids through FUN - so they experience the goodness of Christ, the joy of following Him, and the difference they can make in the lives of others. Purchase Courtney's book, In This House We will Giggle, Making Virtues, Love and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life and check out her Adorable Scripture Cards!

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PCL 34: Using Play to Teach Your Kids Life-Changing Values

Parent Cue Live

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2017 28:35

Courtney DeFeo, author of In This House, We Will Giggle, shares how to teach your kids life-changing virtues by doing anything but lecture them. She encourages parents to instead tap into a kid’s love of play and have some lighthearted family fun. When kids are having fun, they don’t even have to know they are learning. Courtney is full of creative ideas on how to get the fun flowing to make a lasting difference in your family. The post PCL 34: Using Play to Teach Your Kids Life-Changing Values appeared first on Parent Cue.

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Uninvited Lysa Terkeurst Kay Wyma Courtney DeFeo Ep131

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Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2016 44:42

Heather MacFadyen, mother of four boys, interviews guests discussing the topic of staying God-centered...both replacing "me" with "He" and remembering we are centered in Him.

Episode 24: Tracy Levinson

Surviving Sarah

Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2016 61:32

Tracy Levinson joins me for episode 24. Friend of the show, Courtney DeFeo, introduced me to Tracy and insisted that I read her book. And boy, was she right! I am so glad she insisted. Tracy is an empty nestor who has been pouring into young women's lives for years. She is a girl from TX who moved to LA to pursue acting only to discover new life in Jesus years later after her kids were born. We talk about how she became a Christian and why she would write a book on sexuality. If you have little ears listening as you drive, you may want to pause our conversation and pick it back up when they aren't around. She gives advice to moms of tweens and young women, advice to single women and even advice to married women in regards to sexuality. The nature of this subject can drum up different emotions and different opinions. Two friends can see things differently. Two churches can see things differently. Some things can have a black and white response and some things are more gray. But I want this to be a safe place to talk about complicated matters. Okay, so are you ready? Let's cue Salt N Pepa because we are gonna talk about sex.

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Episode 18: Courtney DeFeo

Surviving Sarah

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2016 55:12

Courtney DeFeo joins me for Episode 18. Courtney is a wife, mom of girls and a former marketing professional for Chick-fil-a. She is the creator of a small business called Lil Light O Mine that empowers moms and hopes to change little lives through innovation in the home. We talk about how she went from her dream job to staying at home with her kids. That choice is hard because no one is giving you a promotion for potty training your strong willed kid. Am I right?! But Courtney shares how she made that decision and how God uses your past experiences and skills in your life as a mom today. She shares some really great practical advice for starting a business and for how to build an authentic faith in your kids.

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Lighten Up #1: Courtney DeFeo

Lighten Up with Melanie Dale

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2016 55:58

Melanie talks with Courtney DeFeo, author of In This House We Will Giggle and creator of ABC Scripture Cards about how Courtney is helping her kids lighten up and other extremely important topics, like naked podcasting, arm-on-hip picture posing, carpool karaoke, and these dang mixed messages we hear from the world.

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MS 027 Courtney DeFeo: Identity, Comparison, and A Challenge to Giggle

Mud Stories with Jacque Watkins - Messy moments worked for our good

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2015 57:40

As we juggle our roles, figure out where to find our identity, and struggle with comparison, Courtney DeFeo shares how to cultivate virtues in our lives through experiences together in laughter and much giggling along the way through her book, In This House We Will Giggle: Making Virtues, Love, and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life. ABC Scripture Cards My Little Money Jars Conversation Cups

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Light Em Up Courtney DeFeo Ep 50

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2014 35:39

Heather MacFadyen, mother of four boys, interviews guests discussing the topic of staying God-centered...both replacing "me" with "He" and remembering we are centered in Him. /

#029: Courtney DeFeo – A House that Giggles and Mission Statements (Podcast)

Encouraging Words for Working Moms with Christy Largent

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2014 55:37

I am so excited to get to introduce you to the amazing Courtney DeFeo. She is just a dynamo with a million ideas a minute. The difference between her and some of us is that she actually moves on her ideas! You may know her because of her best selling ABC Scripture Cards, they are adorable and you’ll hear the story of how they came about in this podcast. Additionally, she just published her new book, In This House, We Will Giggle: Making Virtues, Love, and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life! It’s delightful! You’re going to love Courtney as much as I did I know! Here’s a quick overview of some of the things we talked about… Key Ideas: Part 1: Interview Effectively using your gifts How amazing stuff can happen when you wait on God’s timing How to give up what’s not working The importance of seeking wise counsel Forgiveness A strategy to stop comparing The power of a great Mission Statement Part 2: How to create Your Own Mission Statement “Find out what your lane is”, Courtney DeFeo 1. Ask – What are my passions and areas of natural giftedness? What is my special passion? What do I do better than anyone else? (Where do my gifts and talents line up?) How do I do this? What does it look like? What am I creating/designing/building? What is the result I’m looking for? What keeps me up at night? 2. Answer – What are we about? What am I about? 3. Application – Write it down, memorize it and use this as a filter for making decisions about opportunities as well as staying focused Courtney’s Website links and favorite Podcasts: courtneydefeo.com Catalyst Andy Stanley Louie Giglio Courtney’s Recommended Reading and Resources: In This House, We Will Giggle: Making Virtues, Love, and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life, by Courtney DeFeo Parenting the Wholehearted Child: Captivating Your Child’s Heart with God’s Extravagant Grace, by Jeannie Cunnion The Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands, by Lysa TerKeurst **Watch for her darling “Conversation Cups” to be available January 2015** Encouraging Word of the Week: “God has already woven in you a beautiful story.” Courtney DeFeo Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Question: What part of this interview spoke to you the most? What idea did you really connect with? Do you want Courtney’s new book? Just leave your favorite parts of this interview below and on Friday, November 14, 2014, I’ll pick one winner from all the commenters. The post #029: Courtney DeFeo – A House that Giggles and Mission Statements (Podcast) appeared first on Christy Largent.

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Heartfelt encouragement for every mom with Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 20:07

Merry Christmas friends!!!!I wanted to end the year with some heartfelt encouragement to each of you. Try to get away from all the noise and distractions when you listen to this one. Sit with your eyes closed or go on a walk - and pray God would encourage your anxious and weary heart.It's so easy to get to the end of a year and only think about the few things you didn't do right or mistakes that were made. I want to remind you of the MANY things you are doing well for your children. God sees them. I share a few letters from YOU - words you wrote to your younger self. And then I read my own letter and it was so powerful for me to do that. Try to get some time to write your own letter to the younger version of you. What did you need to hear as a young mom? And then let's receive that same tenderness and grace and love for the mom that we are right now. I am so thankful for our community. Let's keep showing up for these kids and loving God in the new year ahead. You are so very loved and you are such a great mom.Merry Christmas,CourtneyChapters00:00Reflecting on Motherhood: A Year-End Pause06:04Wisdom from Friends: Insights on Parenting11:46Embracing Imperfection in Parenting18:10Looking Forward: A Message of HopeConnect with Pardon The Mess:Christian ParentingPardon The Mess Courtney DeFeoGet your 2024-2025 prayer journal, A Life of FaithChristian Parenting Christmas Gift GuidePardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.orgPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Friendship struggles and raising girls with Grace Valentine

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 36:53

Grace Valentine is BACK! You all absolutely loved the first episode and you will love this one even more. Grace is a firecracker for Jesus. That's what a grandma would say - but it's so true. She comes in with such energy and truth that will just fire you up.She is a speaker, author and podcast host and is impacting thousands of young women around the world. On today's episode we talk about all things FRIENDS. Friendships are just hard, not just for young girls for us as women. Grace has bible-based true encouragement for how to make and maintain friends.JOURNAL alert! You will need to take notes for this one. She just casually tosses out profound statements at the speed of lightning. So, buckle in.My favorite part is when she compared homecoming to the Met Gala. I still laugh out loud when I think about it. She quickly pivots from that joke to the sting of rejection. She also asks amazing questions: will that rejection taint your view or make you wiser and kinder? Or will it make you bitter? In this episode, we chat about: Understanding shallow vs deep friendshipsHow to humble yourself in conflictChallenges of making and keeping friendsEnjoy!Courtney DeFeo (02:58) Navigating College and Post-Grad Life(05:53) Friendship Journeys and Challenges(09:00) The Complexity of Friendships(12:00) Understanding Shallow vs. Deep Friendships(15:02) Finding Your Community and Dance Floor(16:29) Navigating Loneliness and Friendship(20:45) Conflict Resolution in Friendships(28:08) The Importance of Authentic ConnectionsConnect with Pardon The Mess:Christian ParentingPardon The Mess Courtney DeFeoGet your 2024-2025 prayer journal, A Life of FaithResources from today's show:Connect with Grace ValentineThe Better Friend - Grace's new bookA Million Tiny MomentsSky Ranch CampsPardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://avocadogreenmattress.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.comPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

S3, E5: Intentional Conversations: Courtney DeFeo

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 24:24

The Raising Boys & Girls podcast is back with bonus episodes to help you finish 2020 strong! Join Sissy Goff and David Thomas this week as they talk with author, speaker, and creator of Light 'Em Up Acts, Courtney DeFeo, on simple ways you can give as a family this Christmas.Grab links, stats, and quotes you want to remember in the show notes at https://www.gominno.com/blog/raising-boys-and-girls-podcast-courtney-defeo-interviewConnect with Sissy, David, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.comConnect with Minno at podcast.gominno.com

S2 BONUS: Raising Worry-Free Girls Launch Party Part 2