And Then Suddenly

When Brenden Kumarasamy was 19, his life goal was to get a lucrative corporate job. When he learned about case competitions, which provided the opportunity to present to business executives, everything shifted. We talk about competition culture and how the experience led him to become an expert communicator with goals even greater than his corporate dreams.

Maynard Okereke was keeping his artistic pursuits away from his engineering job when one day he went into work and found his colleagues listening to his music. That moment sparked his pivot into entertainment and eventually led him to create the Hip Hop Science Show. We get into all things science as we talk about his road to STEM communication, what it means to find your passion, and why everyone should stay curious.

In 2016, Kate White was having a lot of pain but at the time she didn't think it was a lot. What happened a few months later made her realize she needed to take her pain seriously and that's when everything shifted. In the presence of her purring cat Penny, we talk about women's health, women's bodies, and how a series of diagnoses finally allowed Kate to understand herself.

In July 2016, Leilani was celebrating her sister's wedding in Pittsburg when she saw God- as in the actor who plays "God" in the television show Supernatural. A superfan of the show, running into the cast leaving a Supernatural convention ended up being an important sign. We talk family, religion, and the power of things we can't see.

Growing up in a rough area in Indianapolis, Kwazar Martin's grandmother kept him focused. But after she passed, he strayed from what she taught him. We talk about his journey from prison to art, life and light, and the never ending energy of his grandmother.

On episode 36, Brandon Saiz shared a moment about achieving the rank of Chief Petty Officer. He's back to share a new moment that has altered his outlook and how he views his time in the Coast Guard: a recent diagnosis of ADHD. We talk about changing perspectives, new understandings, and finally getting validation.

After genetic testing early in her second pregnancy, Lorna Rose learned her baby screened positive for a serious genetic disorder. When told she didn't have to carry the baby, Lorna's reaction to that statement changed her outlook and beliefs. We talk about guilt, high risk pregnancy, and the complexities of motherhood.   Lorna Rose is a Pacific Northwest writer and speaker. Her narrative nonfiction and poetry have been recognized by Pacific Northwest Writers Association and the Oregon Poetry Association, and have appeared in several magazines and anthologies. Lorna also speaks publicly on motherhood, finding resilience through writing, and her experience in AmeriCorps. She is at work on a memoir about going from LA party girl to trail worker in rural Alaska. For more, go to  www.lornarose.com

One Friday night, Jaimie Sherling was in bed when she got an Instagram message from a stranger that changed her marriage and home. We talk about all the brutal and beautiful aspects of her moment, from her battle with cancer to her journey becoming a drag queen aficionado.

Seeing the phrase "nothing about us without us" in action made Marinke van Riet question her actions as a person and as a leader. We talk about her subsequent resignation as director of Voice, why representation matters, the future of international development, and what it means to belong.

As a Bikers Against Child Abuse (B.A.C.A.) volunteer, Big D was working with a child and realized he was where he belonged when he saw the light come back to her eyes. We talk about epiphanies, giving back to the community, and what bikers at B.A.C.A. to help empower abused children.

Melissa Panszi Riebe was at a crossroads in her career when she shared her jewelry making dreams with an acquaintance over dinner. The conversation that followed inspired her to launch A D'Zine. We talk about her transition from social worker to maker, the power of jewelry, and running a small business with purpose.

Susan was a high school junior in Great Falls, Montana when she was accepted into a vocal performance program at Tanglewood in Massachusetts. Being in a new place with fellow creatives changed what she thought was possible. We talk about broadening horizons, the road to writing, and why a teenage moment still matters today. Susan is the first two-time visiting guest on the show! Check out episode 19 for her other moment.

Welcome to Season Three! It's been a while since I've released an episode and there's a reason for that. So let's catch up and kick off the season with where I've been. It's a story about mental health, long recoveries, and a bit about my audio destroying cat.      

Thirty episodes with guests from around the country and the world, Season Two has been quite the ride. A quick look back at the unexpected moments and a big thank you to the people who shared their stories, the listeners who tuned in, and to the incredible leadership at Voice for partnering with the show for And Then Suddenly; Rising Voices.   And the season ends with a huge thank you to the healthcare workers who impact our lives, with special messages from previous guests Jack Ridl, Becky Curran Kekula, Susan Fritz, Catherine Rondthaler, and Neema Tembele.  Until Season Three, take care and stay healthy!

After learning the fifth round of IVF didn't work out, Elizabeth Howard Phillips realized she couldn't keep putting her body through treatments. Less than two years later, Kenneth Phillips found himself nervously driving Elizabeth and their adopted baby away from the hospital. From their hotel room in Florida, we talk about their journey through infertility, the craziness that comes with adopting a baby during a pandemic, and their new bright light Eleanor.  Additional Resources  Connect with Elizabeth Howard Phillips Instagram Facebook 

Ashley Lauren Rogers was working in the steampunk scene when she learned a friend and colleague was accused of nonconsensual relations with someone else in the community. Seeing how willing people were able to dismiss the claims, her decision to immediately step away from the scene changed everything. We talk about the fantasy of steampunk, what happens when you decide to take a stand, why it's important to believe survivors. Additional Resources  Connect with Ashley: www.ashleylaurenrogers.com Is it Transphobic podcast Right to Play podcast  New Play Exchange: Ashley Lauren Rogers 

From her grandfather's passing on January 2nd to a friend's death in February to a global pandemic in March, the year 2020 has been a slow moving fire for Katherine Cooper. We talk about how she is navigating this collection of sudden moments during an unprecedented time and what it means to grieve "the right way." Additional Resources Harvard Business Review: "That Discomfort You're Feeling is Grief" Katherine Cooper on Instagram 

On May 23, 2015, scientist Jad Mahmoud Halabi was at a mall when he learned his Dad passed away.  As his constant support system, his Dad taught him to embrace failure, see the world, and take advantage of every opportunity. Something switched after his passing and Jad decided to live this advice. We talk about what this new outlook is teaching him about his Dad's life, how it is increasing his curiosity, and how it impacts his work in science communication.  Additional Resources  Jad Mahmoud Halabi on Twitter

When theater artist Paola Irun's father became ill, she made the choice to end her visa, her time in New York City, and return home to Paraguay. His eventual passing changed everything and sent Paola on a journey to find that "something" that had always been missing.  We talk about how grief led her into the worlds of boxing, yoga, and how the coronavirus pandemic has impacted her art and life in Paraguay.    Additional Resources Paola Irun On Facebook  On Instagram  Her theater company Enborrador On Facebook On Instagram   Translation of opening audio: I live my life the way I can. I do what I can. I go on as I can. But then the universe hits you with something. BAM! And everything stops, everything becomes still, paralyzed, immobile. And I thought about stopping today (March 8th, International Women's Day), because today March 8th everything stopped, the world stopped, women stopped. And then, I told myself … my way of stopping is to make people listen to me, to listen to what I have to say. People need to listen to us. And not just right now but all through the night! …. LISTEN -From the play "NOMBRE" which had to be cancelled due to corona virus pandemic, 4 days after its opening 

Carmel Fauci was working in insurance when she met her second husband. He was a charismatic, brilliant underwriter and she learned he was a violent alcoholic right before the wedding. We talk about their relationship, her experience with men as a successful businesswoman, and what happened when she finally met her soulmate.    Additional links Carmel on Facebook 

Jennifer Tan was working a demanding job at a management consultancy firm when she had the idea to create a business empowerment program for women. Through a series of events her idea developed into a financial literacy program for domestic abuse survivors. Now the Founder of the Shine Foundation, we talk about her unexpected journey to starting a nonprofit, how social impact work has changed her, and the financial pressures facing survivors.   Additional Resources  Shine Foundation Ladies Get Paid

Jack Ridl was walking with his 7-year-old daughter when she said "with" was the most important word because people always have to be with something, someone, or themselves. When she added that it meant everyone has to makes sure they have a good "with," Jack's perception of the world changed. We talk about how a simple and profound concept has since shaped his life, health, and poetry.  Additional Resources  Jack Ridl ridl.wordpress.com on Facebook  Saint Peter and the Goldfinch by Jack Ridl (Wayne State University Press)   My Brother—A Star My mother was pregnant through the first nine games of the season. We were 7- 2. I waited for a brother. My father kept to the hard schedule. Waking the morning of the tenth game, I thought of skipping school and shooting hoops. My cornflakes were ready, soggy. There was a note: "The baby may come today. Get your haircut." We were into January, and the long December snow had turned to slush. The wind was mean. My father was gone. I looked in on my mother still asleep and hoped she'd be OK. I watched her, dreamed her dream: John at forward, me at guard. He'd learn fast. At noon, my father picked me up at the playground. My team was ahead by six. We drove toward the gym. "Mom's OK," he said and tapped his fist against my leg. The Plymouth ship that rode the hood pulled us down the street. "The baby died," he said. I felt my feet press hard against the floorboard. I put my elbow on the door handle, my head on my hand, and watched the town: Kenner's Five and Ten, Walker's Hardware, Jarret's Bakery, Shaffer's Barber Shop, the bank. Dick Green and Carl Stacey waved. "It was a boy." We drove back to school. "You gonna coach tonight?" "Yes." "Mom's OK?" "Yes. She's fine. Sad. But fine. She said for you to grab a sandwich after school. I'll see you at the game. Don't forget about your hair." I got out, walked in late to class. "We're doing geography," Mrs. Wilson said. "Page ninety-seven. The prairie." That night in bed I watched this kid firing in jump shots from everywhere on the court. He'd cut left, I'd feed him a fine pass, he'd hit. I'd dribble down the side, spot him in the corner, thread the ball through a crowd to his soft hands, and he'd loft a star up into the lights where it would pause then gently drop, fall through the cheers and through the net. The game never ended. I fell into sleep. My hair was short. We were 8 and 2.         for my mother and my father Jack Ridl First published in The Journal/Ohio State University Subsequently published in Saint Peter and the Goldfinch (Wayne State University Press)   Jack Ridl, Poet Laureate of Douglas, Michigan (Population 1100), in April 2019 released Saint Peter and the Goldfinch (Wayne State University Press, 2019).  Jack’s Practicing to Walk Like a Heron (WSUPress, 2013) was awarded the National Gold Medal for poetry by ForeWord Review./Indie Pub. His collection Broken Symmetry (WSUPress) was co-recipient of The Society of Midland Authors best book of poetry award for 2006. His Losing Season (CavanKerry Press) was named the best sports book of the year for 2009 by The Institute for International Sport, and The Boston Globe named it one of the five best books about sports. In 2017 it was developed into a Readers Theater work. Winner of The Gary Gildner Prize for Poetry, Jack has been featured on public radio (“It’s Only a Game with Bill Littlefield,” “The Story with Dick Gordon,” and Garrison Keillor’s “The Writer’s Almanac.”) Then Poet Laureate Billy Collins selected his Against Elegies for The Center for Book Arts Chapbook Award. He read in NYCity with Billy Collins and Sharon Dolin at Christmas after 9/11. He and Peter Schakel are co-authors of Approaching Poetry and Approaching Literature, and editors of 250 Poems, all from Bedford/St. Martin’s Press. With William Olsen he edited Poetry in Michigan in Poetry (New Issues Press). He has done readings in many venues including being invited to read at the international Geraldine R. Dodge Poetry Festival, and was one of twelve people in the arts from around the U.S. invited to the Fetzer Institute for their first conference on compassion and forgiveness. In 2014, Jack received the “Talent Award” from the Literacy Society of West Michigan for his “lifetime of work for poetry literacy,” and The Poetry Society of Michigan named him “Honorary Chancellor,” only the second poet so honored. His poem “Remembering the Night I Dreamed Paul Klee Married the Sky” was selected by Naomi Shihab Nye and featured in The New York Times Sunday Magazine for November 3, 2019. Following the presidential election in 2016 he started the “In Time Project,” each Thursday sending out a commentary and poem. Christian Zaschke, the NYC based U.S. correspondent for the leading German Newspaper Sueddeutsche  Zeitung, wrote a feature about his work. Jack and his wife Julie founded the visiting writers series at Hope College where he taught for 37 years. The students named him both their Outstanding Professor and Favorite Professor, and in 1996 The Carnegie (CASE) Foundation named him Michigan Professor of the Year. Nine of his students are included in the anthology Time You Let Me In: 25 Poets Under 25 edited by Naomi Shihab Nye. More than 90 of Jack’s students have earned an MFA degree and more than 90 are published authors, several of whom have received First Book Awards, national honors. In retirement Jack conducts a variety of writing workshops, welcomes readings, holds one on one sessions, etc. For further information about Jack and these activities, check out his website at www.ridl.com.

In May 2017, Stacy Walsh (& then write podcast) was home sick on the couch when her Dad called to say her Mom felt like her legs weren't working in the shower.  Later that day her Mom was diagnosed with an aggressive brain tumor and things rapidly changed.  We talk about how her Mom became a different person, the stress of dealing with stage 4 glioblastoma, and how Stacy has worked to see the good in a bad situation.  Additional Resources Stacy Walsh: Writer, Editor, Maker & then write & then write podcast Episode 17: Expect the Unexpected 

As a Deaf woman in Nigeria, Hellen Beyioku-Alase heard stories about the discrimination in hospitals towards the Deaf community but it wasn't until her first pregnancy that she experienced how bad the problem was. After being ignored in the waiting room and a difficult birth, she decided to advocate for Deaf women and girls.  We talk about her work to get sign language interpreters into hospitals and what she is doing so all Deaf women know their rights. *This interview is conducted with a sign language interpreter  Additional Resources Hellen's Transcript All the transcripts for the episodes in "And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s)" Deaf Women Aloud Initiative  On Facebook Hellen Beyioku-Alase on Twitter Voice On Facebook  On Twitter   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.

Neema Tembele was bartending when she had her first panic attack.  The painful physical sensations went away once she got to the hospital but the event set her on a new path.  Now the Co-Founder and Data Analytics Director TEWWY, we talk about the challenges and unexpected benefits of her moment and how she is now on a mission to increase mental health understanding and access in her homeland of Tanzania.  Additional Resources Thrive Global, "One Size Does Not Fit All…"  Neema Tembele on Instagram Tap Elderly Women’s Wisdom for Youth (TEWWY) On Facebook On Instagram On Mental Health Innovation Network (MHIN) On Movement for Global Mental Health Support TEWWY on GlobalGiving Voice On Facebook  On Twitter   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.  

When Bwiite Lydia was a young girl, she witnessed her widowed grandmother have her land taken by a family member.  The event sparked her desire to support people facing injustice, especially women.  Now a human rights lawyer, we talk about what it takes to fight for her clients and her current role supporting marginalized workers in Uganda.  Additional Resources Human Rights Day Platform for Labour Action (PLA)  On Facebook On Voice Voice On Facebook  On Twitter   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.

This episode is part of a special series: And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) Maureen Ava Mata was eighteen when she was diagnosed with bone cancer and had to have her leg amputated.  Her new life as a disabled woman changed her outlook, her family, and the views of her community.  Now a cancer survivor, we talk about her mission to challenge misperceptions and advocate for fellow disabled persons in the Philippines. This episode is in honor of International Day of Persons with Disabilities  Additional Resources Leonard Cheshire Disability Philippines Foundation Inc. (LCDPFI) on Facebook International Day of Persons with Disabilities Voice On Facebook  On Twitter And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.

This episode is part of a special series: And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) About four years ago, Anna Xwexx Morena sought asylum in Denmark for her safety and the chance to freely express herself.  But the experience was not what she expected and feeling unsafe and used as a transgender woman, she returned to Uganda.  We talk about her mission to help other Ugandan transgender women with their mental health needs, her experience as a grassroots activist, and her vision for the future.   This episode is in honor of Transgender Remembrance Day. Additional Resources  Connect with Anna Xwexx Morena on Facebook Invisible Scars: a focus on the mental health of queer people in Uganda Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR)  "331 Trans People Killed This Year," Forbes  "Ugandan MPs press for death penalty for homosexual acts," The Guardian Human Rights Day Voice On Facebook  On Twitter   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.

Mohamed Magassa was in 7th grade when he got a STEM magazine that showed a picture of a white surgeon.  Without a second thought, he closed the page.  Years later, when he was considering a career in medicine, he thought back to that moment.  Now studying to be a surgeon, we talk about why representation matters and his mission to inspire others in his Bronx community through H.O.O.D. Productions.   Additional Resources H.O.O.D. Productions on Instagram  February-May 2020: H.O.O.D. workshops and programming begins

At twenty-three weeks, Amelia Kent had a miscarriage and she was faced with an experience and grief people don't know how to talk about.  Wanting to bring a common experience into the open, she shares how the event impacted her relationships, her farm, and why it's important in today's economy to be a farmer talking about personal issues. Additional resources  Amelia Levin Kent  Kent Farms on Facebook Louisiana Farm Life: Amelia Kent - Ivy League Farmer Discusses Mental Health

Nancy Allen was the mother of two small children attending a talk at the Dallas Institute of Humanities and Culture when out of nowhere she fell in love with Robert Sardello and spiritual psychology.  A study of the soul, perception, and presence, she went on to become a student and teacher of this practice.  We talk about the impact of Sardello's work on her life, why she rarely talks about this moment, and why current events are inspiring her to talk about it now.    Additional Resources  Dante's Inferno: Canto 1 Robert Sardello Facing the World with Soul: The Reimagination of Modern Life Silence: The Mystery of Wholeness  The Power of Soul: Living the Twelve Virtues 

Derek was at church in his small hometown in Virginia when a girl he'd never seen walked through the door.  Thinking she was the one, they stayed friends for a year and a half until one New Years Eve kiss.  We talk about how two people from different worlds connected, how their relationship survived his Navy enlistment and deployment, and the benefits waiting in the friend zone.   Additional Resources Urban Dictionary: Definition of Friend Zone Delilah 

This episode is part of a special series: And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) Years into his addiction, Mike Wanjeng’u was having an argument with his parents when his father said something that cut him to the core.  Months later, he went rehab and is now three years sober.  We talk about his journey to recovery, how it led him help and advocate for those with mental health issues through Tinada Youth Organization, and the importance of love and World Mental Health Day.   Additional Resources World Health Organization World Mental Health Day: October 10th World Mental Health Day 2019: focus on suicide prevention Voice On Facebook  On Twitter Information on Tinada Tinada Youth Organization On Facebook On Twitter   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos.

This episode is part of a special series: And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) In celebration of International Day of Older Persons, I talk with two guests who are using their retirement to help fellow senior citizens.  After a career working in Cambodian hospitals, Ou Vanda was painfully aware of the health issues facing older people in her country.  Upon his return to the Philippines, former educator Rizal Balatbat found himself learning about senior issues and broadcasting.  I talk to Ou about establishing an OPA in her village and Rizal about his radio show and how both are educating and pushing for policy changes through their work. Additional Resources United Nations: International Day of Older Persons Voice On Facebook  On Twitter Information on Help Age Cambodia  Information on COSE Help Age Cambodia COSE Rizal's radio show:  Senior Citizens' TIPS - Time for Information and Public Service Episode: Ageism, IDOP (International Day of Of Older Persons, Elderly Filipino Week) Episode: Older Persons Organizations Episode: Mandatory Philhealth Coverage for all Senior Citizens   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos.

When Olivia LaBarre started doing Reiki, things began to change.  Wanting to get control of new feelings and visions, she enrolled herself in a psychic development class.  But when she complained about her misbehaving dog Milo and her teacher told her she could talk to him, things really shifted.  We talk about her journey to becoming a pet communicator and the stress of going public with an unexpected business.  Additional Resources Reiki Healing Works  John Hopkins Medicine- What is Reiki? 

In October 2014, Mary Jo McConnell was walking across the street when she was hit by a car.  After having surgery on her broken leg, she was left to navigate New York City on crutches and had to figure how to manage her professional acting career during her recovery.  An army veteran and former nurse, for the first time she felt powerless.  We talk about the series of events that led her to different theaters, new experiences, and the inspiration to create her own work. Additional Resources Mary Jo McConnell: www.maryjomcconnell.com Trumped video trailer Music Theater Factory The Actor's Green Room DE-CRUIT  

This episode is part of a special series: And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) When a friend invited Anan Bouapha to attend a HIV prevention volunteer workshop, he went because he thought it would be a social event.  But the moment the training started, he was suddenly motivated to help his community.  Through a series of opportunities, in 2012 he organized the first Pride festival in Laos.  Now the Founder of Proud to Be Us Laos, we talk about his leadership journey and the organization's mission to create an inclusive society for LGBTI citizens. Additional Resources: Proud to Be Us Laos Facebook Twitter Voice profile Voice story: "Empowerment of Proud to be Us Laos, an emerging group" Montreal Pride Festival Grand Marshals  Voice Instagram Facebook Twitter And Then Suddenly Facebook Instagram   And Then Suddenly; Rising Voice(s) This special series of episodes features conversations with partners from Voice. Based in Africa and Asia, these individuals -often leaders of organizations or small groups- are working tirelessly to ensure that their own voices as well as those they represent are at the table and not on the menu. The moments they share are their very own and the conversations are impromptu and candid. About Voice:Voice is an innovative grant facility that promotes inclusion and diversity in Mali, Niger, Nigeria, Uganda, Tanzania, Kenya, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines and Indonesia. It aims to amplify and connect thus far unheard voices in efforts to leave no one behind based on the principle of Nothing About Us Without Us.  Voice is financed by the Netherlands Ministry of Foreign Affairs and executed by Oxfam Novib and Hivos. About And Then Suddenly:The podcast about unexpected moments, writer Angela Santillo asks one question: What’s a moment that turned your life upside down?  Never knowing what her guests will say, the conversation takes twists and turns that go beyond our ordinary stories about big life moments.  Impromptu, funny, and always honest, this show explores what really happens after everything changes in an instant.

Molika Gupta was preparing a presentation when her immigration attorney emailed to say her sponsored work visa application was not selected in the random lottery process.  A career professional who came to the US on a spousal visa, suddenly not being able to work was a jarring reality.  We talk about the challenges of moving to another country and her new mission to empower other immigrant spouses to redefine their lives. Additional Resources Facebook Group: Immigrant Spouses ReWrite Your Story Connect with Molika Twitter @mlkgpt Email: mlkgpt@gmail.com

After sixteen years in the Coast Guard, on October 1, 2013 Brandon Saiz achieved the rank of Chief Petty Officer.  Hating the tradition of initiation, he decided not to go through the voluntary indoctrination process and was ostracized by other chiefs.  We talk about the military's history of hazing, the social and mental health implications of going against the system, and how twenty years in the service impacts his life as a civilian. Trigger warning: This episode includes a candid conversation about mental health and suicidal thoughts.  If you or someone you know needs help, contact the Suicide Prevention Lifeline and if you are veteran who needs to talk to someone, contact the VA’s Crisis Line.   Additional Resources Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) VA Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1 Brandon Saiz On Twitter On Twitch  Moo Point: A Friends Podcast On Facebook On Twitter

On the night of their 30th birthday, Goldie Peacock was definitely not looking for love.  They were at the Branded Saloon in Brooklyn, getting ready to perform an epic drag king number that transformed them from an English gentleman into a unicorn when a stranger appeared on the basement stairs.  We talk about sparks, love, marriage, and what can happen when you're busy making other plans. Additional Resources www.goldiepeacock.com Huffington Post: "It’s Time For Drag Kings To Detoxify Masculinity On TV" by Goldie Peacock Definition of a Drag King

Winston Shaw was a freelance sound recordist filming on location in the Catskills.  Spending days without reception, when he finally got service his cell exploded with texts about a job offer from HBO but because he had been unreachable, the position was already filled.  Missing a rare creative opportunity, he decided to leave his artistic career in NYC for law school.  Now a public defender in Sante Fe, we talk about his passion for criminal law and the realities of working in a broken justice system.  Additional Resources  The Pairing Podcast Ways to get involved:  RAICES Texas ACLU Lambda Legal

In 2010, Kate Wallinga (Ignorance Was Bliss podcast) gave birth to her third child and didn't feel right.  After being dismissed by her doctors, she learned she had a serious infection from being exposed to strep in the delivery room.  Out of the four million women who give birth every year, only 100 get this kind of complication and only one of those women survive.  We talk about the medical emergency that changed her mind, her life, and the new perspectives that come from surviving.  Additional Resources  Ignorance Was Bliss podcast  On Facebook On Instagram 

The morning after the 2016 election, Amanda Frankel was in her bathroom when she learned that Hillary Clinton lost.  Feeling paralyzed, she decided to fight.  For the first time, she felt her day-to-day life had to be part of a growing movement.  We talk about her decision to run for Congress against the long-time Democratic incumbent of NY-10, how she's creating policy with people in her community, and the challenges facing progressive candidates.  Additional Resources Amanda Frankel for Congress Website  Instagram  Twitter Facebook AP: "Election 2018-Turnout" US Census: "Behind the 2018 U.S. Midterm Election Turnout"

During a fashion show that included her space inspired designs, Shoshana Swell realized she could create things that could bring people to alternative universes.  When the Cornell University senior heard that NASA cancelled the first all-women spacewalk due to a lack of appropriately sized spacesuits, she jumped into action and created her company THIS IS MY SPACESUIT.  We talk about inspiring the impossible through design, science, and her surprise trip to the Kennedy Space Center.  Additional Resources THIS IS MY SPACESUIT On Instagram On Facebook World Science Festival- The Right Stuff: What It Takes to Boldly Go

When he was a student at West Point, Brian Baker had a mystical experience.  During a sermon on Maundy Thursday, he found God.  Experiencing an intense feeling of love, the moment began his journey into the priesthood.  Now ordained as an Episcopal priest for almost 30 years, we talk about how Christianity led him to become an LGBTQIA rights activist, the state of love in the country, and his time at Burning Man.    Additional Resources Brian's sermons: Welcome Home Religious AF www.deanbaker.org Brian on Facebook Brian's Burning Man Camp: Religious AF    

Twenty-eight episodes and so many topics later, Season One is complete!  Listen to the highlights and if you want to be a guest on Season Two, submit your information here. Thanks so much for listening!  

One week before our interview, Steven Pacheco was on a bus ride to Boston when the driver called the police on a young black passenger for being on his phone.  While recording the event, Steven realized he was observing the policing of black and brown bodies in a new way.  We talk about race, trauma, and how leadership opportunities are changing this self-proclaimed Renaissance man and his experience as a black man in America.

Two years ago, Uyen Trinh was diagnosed with type 2 Diabetes and it forced her to reconsider her relationship with her body and every relationship in her life.  As a refugee from Vietnam and growing up in foster care, she realized she had become the ultimate caregiver at the sacrifice of herself.  We talk about self-care, what it takes to advocate for yourself, and how she reversed her diagnosis through a ketogenic diet. 

In 1993, Paul Griffin unexpectedly lost his father and instantly everything changed.  While dealing with grief for the first time, he began to do the work that would later become his theater organization, The Possibility Project.  We talk about fathers, love and loss, and what it takes to be wise. Additional Resources The Possibility Project Website Instagram Facebook

Julie Dombo was at an AT&T store in Derby, Kansas when she was shot during a robbery.  That event on August 11, 2015 led to an extensive hospitalization and left Julie as a quadruple amputee.  We talk about her totally changed life, the optimism needed to carry on, her mission to share her story, and America's relationship with guns. Additional Resources Wichita Public Schools (video): Julie Dombo at Heights High School - March 13, 2018 The Wichita Eagle: Julie Dombo wins another battle, this time conquering breast cancer BBC News: America's gun culture in 10 charts Everytown Research: Gun Violence in America

Calvin Gimpelevich (Invasions) was in 4th grade when he realized how much time and effort the writer must have spent creating the book he was reading.  That realization turned the avid reader into a writer and that identity continues to guide his life.  We talk about his experience as a transgender writer, the role of literature in society, and what it means to be a storyteller.  Additional Resources calvingimpelevich.com Calvin on Instagram: @calvin.calvin.g