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Best podcasts about Ariel Levy

Latest podcast episodes about Ariel Levy

Guys We F****d
YOU WANNA F*CK 50 CENT? ft. Adrienne Iapalucci

Guys We F****d

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 118:51 Transcription Available


On today's episode, your go-to sexual intellectuals, CORINNE FISHER and KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON, read an email from a female fcker who's turned off after realizing her boyfriend voted for the boy. Krystyna reflects on all the nasty masculinity that's coming to the surface in the form of cabinet member picks, Corinne reveals what she looks for when a guy comes out of her bathroom, and Eric reviews the book Female Chauvinist Pigs by Ariel Levy. C&K then welcome stand-up comedian, ADRIENNE IAPALUCCI, to the studio. The trio discusses boyfriends threatening to unalive themselves during a break up, losing your dad too young, having a male therapist, and exclusively gravitating towards toxic men. Plus! C&K brainstorm plans for Adrienne to bone a famous rapper who has a history of loving female comedians.   Follow ADRIENNE on IG @AdrienneIapalucci Watch Adrienne's special, THE DARK QUEEN, on Netflix.    Follow CORINNE FISHER: @PhilanthropyGal Follow KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON: @KrystynaHutch Follow ERIC FRETTY @EricFretty Want to write in for advice? Send your dilemma to: SorryAboutLastNightShow@gmail.com    Watch full episodes of GWF on YouTube www.YouTube.com/GuysWeFcked   MUSIC FEATURED ON TODAY'S EPISODE: DAN BERN WORKING MAN'S REWARD https://music.apple.com/us/album/workingmans-reward/1168227391?i=1168227550See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dave & Dave Unchained Van Halen podcast
ALEX VAN HALEN'S “BROTHERS” BOOK BONANZA 

Dave & Dave Unchained Van Halen podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 263:07


EPISODE #107 - We've waited all year and now it's here…Alex Van Halen's book, “Brothers” has dropped. Loud Dave does a full report from the Oct. 21 AVH book signing at Barnes & Noble in Manhattan where he paints a picture of the scene, interviews various fans and even has a brief encounter with VH's drummer. This is followed by the Daves' in-depth discussion about the book and Alex's “Live Talks from Los Angeles” interview with co-author Ariel Levy. Plenty of tasty VH News and a strong mailbag segment complete this November 2024 episode. Download the podcast for free on Spreaker, YouTube, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Google podcasts, Amazon Music, Podvine or iTunes. Connect with the Daves on Twitter: @ddunchained, Facebook: Dave & Dave Unchained – A Van Halen podcast, Instagram: ddunchainedpodcast or via email: ddunchainedpodcast@gmail.com

Matthew Mania
Ep. 103 - BRCW Renaissance Review Revisited

Matthew Mania

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 26:29


Matthew Neil and Nelio review BRCW Renaissance. Didn't we do this already??? We discuss Ash by Elegance fka Dana Brooke defeating BRCW Women's Champion MJ Jenkins, ending her nearly two-year title reign. BRCW Tag Team Champions Matt Riddle and Stallion Rogers defeating The Golden Chileans, Ariel Levy and Alan “S2S” Martinez. Cha Cha Charlie finally gets a win, this time over Bobby Fish. Steve Maclin defeats Kerry Morton. The crowd really adored Kerry and hated Steve. The Sons of Boca, Noah Kekoa and The Island Kings clashed with Lakay, Fulton, and Bull James in a high-stakes battle with Noah pinning Lakay.    The show also featured appearances by Matthew Mania, Neil the Heel, Dasha, Drama King Matt Rehwoldt, Mark Long, and WWE Hall of Famer Brutus “The Barber” Beefcake.   Upcoming shows:   December 15, 2024 MJF Meet and Greet and BRCW Festival of Fights, VIP Ballroom 2200 Yamato Road January 30th, 2025 Cruisn' for a Bruisin' 3 at the Pullman Hotel Blue Lagoon at the Miami Airport.  March 9, 2025 Challenge Accepted at The Studio in Mizner Park May 18th, 2025 SAVE THE DATE??? August 31, 2025 Summer Smash at The Studio in Mizner Park March 1, 2026 The Return of Birthday Bash More information and tickets at: www.BocaRatonWrestling.com   Check out our other Podcasts: www.matthewmania.com/podcasts    Shop Matthew Mania: www.prowrestlingtees.com/matthewmania     Brought to you by: Matthew H. Maschler, Esq. Real Estate Broker Signature Real Estate Finder, LLC (561) 208-3334 Matt@RealEstateFinder.com www.RealEstateFinder.com   Ask about joining the Signature team! Learn more about the Signature Real Estate Companies and why you should join South Florida's real estate industry leaders, Ranked #1 in Boca Raton, #25 in Florida and #336 in the Nation. www.SignatureRecruiter.com   Offices in Boca Raton, Delray Beach, Coral Springs / Parkland, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Naples, Palm Beach, Orlando and throughout Florida.   Help Israel Now! All support goes Straight to Israel's Soldiers www.yasharlachayal.org   Learn how to support our efforts to provide housing in Haiti www.frank-mckinney.com/caring-house-project

The Johnny Beane Podcast
Exclusively Van Halen: Brothers Live Talks LA. UPDATE #ALEXVANHALEN 10/29/24

The Johnny Beane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 52:41


Event Summary Join us for a virtual Live Talks Los Angeles event: Tuesday, October 29, 2024, 6pm PT/9pm ET Alex Van Halen in conversation with Ariel Levy discussing his memoir, "Brothers." This event is taped with an audience on October 24. TICKETS (US orders ONLY) $50 Virtual Admission + signed book* (includes shipping to US addresses only). Includes access to watch the event on October 29 at 6pm PT/9pm ET and on video-on-demand for five days. Books ship one week after the virtual event. *book has a signed book plate Alex Van Halen shares his personal story of family, friendship, music and brotherly love. Alex Van Halen is the co-founder of the rock band Van Halen and its original drummer. Born in Amsterdam and trained as a classical pianist, he graduated from Pasadena High School. Ariel Levy was Alex Van Halen's collaborator on Brothers, and is the author of her own New York Times bestselling memoir The Rules Do Not Apply. Levy has received a National Magazine Award for her work at The New Yorker, where she has been a staff writer since 2008. She is the host and co-creator of the podcast The Just Enough Family. Alex Van Halen wrote Brothers, a love letter to his younger brother, while still mourning Eddie‘s untimely death. He recounts their childhood in an 800-square foot house in Pasadena, with an itinerant musician father and proper Indonesian-born mother—how they arrived in the US from the Netherlands and struggled to fit in. He also shares stories of musical politics, infighting and bad-boy behavior. The book includes never-before-seen photos from the author's private archives, as he sets the record straight on his brother's life and death in the first-ever accurate account of his family and the band.

Matthew Mania
Ep. 101 - BRCW Renaissance Review

Matthew Mania

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 59:28


Please join Matthew Neil and Nelio to review BRCW Renaissance and the upcoming BRCW Festival of Fights PLUS the MJF Meet and Greet. We discuss Ash by Elegance fka Dana Brooke defeating BRCW Women's Champion MJ Jenkins, ending her nearly two-year title reign. BRCW Tag Team Champions Matt Riddle and Stallion Rogers defeating The Golden Chileans, Ariel Levy and Alan “S2S” Martinez. Cha Cha Charlie finally gets a win, this time over Bobby Fish. Steve Maclin defeats Kerry Morton. The crowd really adored Kerry and hated Steve. Sidney “Air” Akeem and the The Judge, EJ Nduka, beat the Heartbreakers, Rhys Maddox and Big Boy Patty. Who won between Jack Talos and FTC VS. A.J. Franci$? The Sons of Boca, Noah Kekoa and The Island Kings clashed with Lakay, Fulton, and Bull James in a high-stakes battle with Noah pinning Lakay. The show also featured appearances by Matthew Mania, Neil the Heel, Dasha, Drama King Matt Rehwoldt, Mark Long, and WWE Hall of Famer Brutus “The Barber” Beefcake.   Upcoming shows:  December 15, 2024 - BRCW Festival of Fights VIP Ballroom 2200 Yamato Road January 30th, 2025 Cruisn' for a Bruisin' 3 at the Pullman Hotel Blue Lagoon at the Miami Airport. More information and tickets at: www.BocaRatonWrestling.com Check out our other Podcasts:  www.matthewmania.com/podcasts Shop Matthew Mania: www.prowrestlingtees.com/matthewmania Brought to you by: Matthew H. Maschler, Esq. Real Estate Broker Signature Real Estate Finder, LLC (561) 208-3334 Matt@RealEstateFinder.com www.RealEstateFinder.com Ask about joining the Signature team! Learn more about the Signature Real Estate Companies and why you should join South Florida's real estate industry leaders, Ranked #1 in Boca Raton, #25 in Florida and #336 in the Nation. www.SignatureRecruiter.com Offices in Boca Raton, Delray Beach, Coral Springs / Parkland, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Naples, Palm Beach, Orlando and throughout Florida. And be sure to check out BocaRatonWrestling.com And Save the date: On November 10th we are participating in the Walk to End Alzheimer's to raise funds and awareness for Alzheimer's care, support, and research. Will you stand with us in this fight by joining our team or making a donation?  http://act.alz.org/site/TR?fr_id=17532&pg=personal&px=23561082 Every dollar you donate helps the Alzheimer's Association® provide care and support to those facing Alzheimer's and all other dementia, and advance critical research.  Over the Edge Celebrity Weekend for The Koby Mandell Foundation! December 5th-8th https://give.overtheedge.events/campaigns/62OsB6 The stars of reality television, professional wrestling, music, movies and more at Melia Orlando in Celebration, Florida.

The Johnny Beane Podcast
Exclusively Van Halen: NEWS! LA Times Interview! #ALEXVANHALEN 10/22/24

The Johnny Beane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 35:09


https://youtube.com/live/P9QH0k48nUI Alex Van Halen doesn't ‘sugar coat' complex relationship he had with Eddie in new book ‘Brothers. If rock music history has taught musicians anything, it is this: Don't start a band with your sibling. Just ask Oasis co-founders Liam and Noel Gallagher, whose well-documented mutual enmity makes their upcoming reunion tour as much a source of morbid curiosity as of excitement. However, Van Halen was something different. The powerhouse hard rock band co-founded by Alex and his brother, Eddie, sold over 70 million albums during their nearly four-decade run. It was Alex and Eddie who started the band as teenagers in their Pasadena basement, who recruited locals David Lee Roth and Michael Anthony to join the lineup, and who guided Van Halen into the highest rung of rock stardom . When Eddie, a pathbreaking prodigy who changed the way the electric guitar was played, died of cancer at 65 in 2020, it was not only the end of the band, but also a tight bond that had lifted Van Halen up from playing suburban house parties to football stadiums. With his book “Brothers,” Alex has written an elegy to Eddie, and their complex dynamic that was tested by drug abuse, power trips and all the other common traps that befall megastars who once shared the same bedroom. “This is a happy-sad moment for me,” says Alex about his book, which was written with writer Ariel Levy. “I've tried to take an objective view of things, and bring it all to light. But I didn't want to be self-serving. I tried not to sugar coat the story.”

The Johnny Beane Podcast
Exclusively Van Halen: NEWS Alex Van Halen Billboard Interview 10/18/24

The Johnny Beane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 35:07


https://www.youtube.com/live/ijwFzTTHMSQ?si=30pjq7OUSIGmAOLd In an interview with Billboard, Alex Van Halen explains why his new book, Brothers, co-written with Ariel Levy, isn't a tell-all. "If I start throwing dirt, it'll never end," Alex says. He acknowledges the appeal of sensationalism but stresses his aim is to honor the spiritual and creative side of his late brother, Eddie Van Halen. He believes much of what's been said about Eddie was inaccurate, often from third-party sources. “Before I die, I would like to at least partially set the record straight," he adds. Brothers, which releases on Oct. 22, centers on the Van Halen brothers' relationship, both personally and musically, rather than delving into band drama. Alex says the process of writing was emotional, reflecting on their 65 years together, but it also allowed him to explore his own motivations. The book details their family dynamics, including the influence of their father, Jan, a jazz musician, and their Dutch East Indies-born mother, Eugenia. Alex hopes to give a more sophisticated view of Eddie's talents, describing Eddie's ability to make the guitar "sing" and expressing frustration that people focus only on his playing, missing who Eddie was as a person. “Maybe people don't care, but I care. He's my brother." While the book covers the early days of Van Halen, it notably stops after David Lee Roth's departure in 1985. Alex acknowledges the band was “dysfunctional” but that their performances kept them together until the split. Roth's exit, he says, was “the most disappointing thing I'd experienced in my life, the thing that seemed the most wasteful and unjust. Until I lost my brother.” Despite years of tension with Roth, Alex says he's not angry, respecting Roth's work ethic. After Eddie's passing, Alex even called Roth first to inform him. Alex explains his decision not to cover the Sammy Hagar and Gary Cherone years, stating, “What happened after Dave left is not the same band." He also confirmed he's uninterested in the Best of All Worlds tour with Hagar and Michael Anthony, feeling they're not doing the band justice. Alex also clarifies his recent drum equipment auction wasn't a sign of retirement: "I'll die with sticks in my hand." Despite battling spinal issues, he plans to continue playing, with advancements in modern technology offering hope for recovery in the coming years. Regarding Eddie's health and the band's inactivity before his passing, Alex says, “Ed had been dealing with cancer for quite a number of years... He was fighting cancer. It's as simple as that.” Fans can look forward to a new instrumental track, “Unfinished,” included in the audiobook version of Brothers, part of a trove of unreleased material the brothers recorded at 5150 Studios. While Alex says more will be released when it feels right, he stresses the need for high standards and the right team to handle it. He's even approached OpenAI to help turn some of the material into songs. Looking ahead, Alex expresses interest in turning Brothers into a movie but notes the complexities of the process. In the meantime, he's focused on three book events in New York, New Jersey, and California, where he'll sign copies and answer fan questions—though he reserves the right to pass on certain topics. Reflecting on Eddie's passing, Alex says, “He's not gone for me." He believes in the connection between them, rooted in both quantum physics and their mother's spiritual upbringing. “You cannot destroy energy, it just takes different shapes... That's kind of how it is for me with Ed.” Though the pain of losing Eddie remains, Alex finds solace in the idea that their bond continues. In a poignant closing note, he recalls writing in the book, “When I see you again, I'm gonna kick yo' ass…”

The Johnny Beane Podcast
Exclusively Van Halen UNRELEASED Photos Of Alex & Edward! Book Sample 10/12/24

The Johnny Beane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2024 22:53


https://youtube.com/live/1sJldaoEwY8 Alex Van Halen Releases Rare Family Photos in Tribute to His Brother Edward Narrated by Alex Van Halen and featuring an exclusive, never-before-heard piece of music—the last ever written by the legendary Van Halen brothers—Brothers is an intimate and heartfelt memoir that stands apart from any rock-and-roll biography you've ever read. In this open and personal account, Alex Van Halen shares his story of family, friendship, music, and brotherly love, offering a remarkable tribute to his beloved brother and bandmate, Edward (never “Eddie”). Written with acclaimed New Yorker writer Ariel Levy, Brothers is a love letter from seventy-year-old Alex to Edward, written as he still mourns his untimely passing. In his rough yet sweet voice, Alex recounts the brothers' childhood, first in the Netherlands and then in working-class Pasadena, California. He shares memories of their itinerant musician father and their proud yet practical Indonesian-born mother—the kind of mom who insisted her sons “always wear a suit” no matter how famous they became. She was a woman who took pride in her boys but wasn't shy about taking leftovers from Hollywood dinners. Throughout the memoir, Alex paints a vivid picture of their rock-and-roll journey: the musical politics, infighting, and plenty of bad-boy behavior that came with stardom. Yet at its heart, this is a story of brotherhood and an enduring bond. Alex reflects on the unique connection he shared with Edward, writing, “I was with him from day one. We shared the experience of coming to this country and figuring out how to fit in. We shared a record player, an 800-square-foot house, a mom and dad, and a work ethic. Later, we shared the back of a tour bus, alcoholism, the experience of becoming successful, of becoming fathers and uncles, and of spending more hours in the studio than I've spent doing anything else in this life.” For the first time, Alex also sets the record straight about Edward's life, his struggles, and the circumstances surrounding his death. The book features never-before-seen family photos, recently released by Alex, offering an intimate glimpse into the brothers' private lives. Don't miss Exclusively Van Halen, your ultimate destination for all things Van Halen! Join us as we dive into the history, music, and stories behind one of the most iconic bands of all time. From deep-dive discussions to exciting giveaways of exclusive Van Halen merchandise, this show promises to keep you entertained and rocking. Whether you're a longtime fan or just discovering the magic of Van Halen, tune in for an unforgettable ride through the world of rock and roll legends. #vanhalen #johnnybeaneTV #eddievanhalen #exclusivelyvanhalen #DavidLeeRoth #evhgear #kramerguitars #brothersbook #unfinished #alexvanhalen

The Johnny Beane Podcast
Exclusively Van Halen: Alex Van Halen READS Brothers Audio Book SAMPLE! 10/8/24

The Johnny Beane Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 7:33


https://youtube.com/live/uqrNkeaQyMc?feature=share In Brothers, Alex Van Halen offers a deeply personal and unprecedented memoir, unlike any rock-and-roll biography you've ever read. Through this heartfelt tribute to his younger brother and bandmate, Edward (never "Eddie"), Alex opens up about their shared journey, family, music, and unbreakable bond. Written with New Yorker writer Ariel Levy, the book captures the raw emotions of Alex, now seventy years old, as he reflects on his brother's life while still mourning his untimely passing. In his candid, gritty voice, Alex recounts their upbringing, from their early days in the Netherlands to growing up in working-class Pasadena, California. He paints a vivid picture of their parents: a traveling musician father and a strict, yet loving Indonesian-born mother who, despite her pride, was unafraid to take home leftovers from Hollywood dinners and reminded her sons to "always wear a suit," no matter how famous they became. Alex shares stories not only of the ups and downs of rock stardom—musical politics, backstage feuds, and wild behavior—but at its heart, this is a story of brotherhood. He reflects on their unique connection: "I was with him from day one," Alex writes. "We came to this country together, learned how to adapt, shared an 800-square-foot house, a record player, and the work ethic our parents instilled in us. Later, we shared life on the road, alcoholism, success, fatherhood, and countless hours in the studio. Our bond was deeper than most people ever experience in a lifetime." For the first time, Alex sets the record straight about Edward's life, his struggles, and the circumstances surrounding his death. Brothers also features never-before-seen photos from Alex's personal archives, offering an intimate glimpse into the private moments of their extraordinary lives. “Exclusively Van Halen" is the ultimate destination for all things Van Halen. Step into the world of rock and roll legends as we delve deep into the history, music, and trivia surrounding one of the most iconic bands of all time. Join us as we explore Van Halen's storied career, from their electrifying performances to the making of their timeless hits. Get to know the band members, their inspirations, and the stories behind the songs that have rocked generations. But that's not all – tune in for exciting giveaways where you can win exclusive Van Halen merchandise and more. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just discovering the magic of Van Halen, this show promises to keep you entertained, informed, and rocking out from start to finish. Get ready to jump into the world of "Exclusively Van Halen" and experience the music like never before. We talk all things Van Halen!

ChrisCast
The Evolution of Feminism: Empowerment, Contradictions, and Raunch Culture by Google NotebookLM

ChrisCast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2024 9:06


Source: Manolo Blahnik Feminism: the Right to Choos In this episode, we delve into the evolving landscape of modern feminism, exploring themes from Manolo Blahnik Feminism and Not Liberating, After All: How Feminists Ended Up in Bed with Hugh Hefner. We'll discuss the intersections of sexual liberation, empowerment, and the potential contradictions within today's feminist movement. What does it mean to reclaim the sexual gaze, and are there unintended consequences of embracing raunch culture? Join us as we unpack these complexities and explore whether empowerment through sexual expression genuinely serves women's interests or if it leads to a deeper cultural hangover. Introduction to the topics of Manolo Blahnik Feminism and Raunch Culture. The empowerment narrative: reclaiming sexuality as a form of control. Ariel Levy's critique of raunch culture and the dangers it poses for the feminist movement. Contradictions: How does society, especially men, respond to these new expressions of femininity? The cultural hangover: the long-term societal impacts of sexual liberation. Comparison between early feminist goals and the modern feminist movement's emphasis on hypersexuality. Reflections on safety, objectification, and the empowerment paradox. The future of feminism: balancing sexual freedom with deeper feminist objectives. What is Manolo Blahnik Feminism? Manolo Blahnik Feminism refers to a form of feminism that emphasizes sexual freedom and outward confidence, often associated with fashion and sexual expression as a form of empowerment. Why is this form of feminism criticized? Critics argue that Manolo Blahnik Feminism may lead to further objectification of women by men, undermining its empowering intent and resulting in exploitation and increased vulnerability. What is 'raunch culture'? Raunch culture is a cultural trend where hyper-sexualized behavior, often associated with pornography and strippers, is normalized as a form of female empowerment. However, it may lead to unintended consequences, including reinforcing male-dominated dynamics. How do men perceive this form of feminism? While women may see sexual expression as empowerment, some men may view it as an invitation to exploit women, continuing old, patriarchal behaviors under a new guise. What are the long-term consequences of Manolo Blahnik Feminism and raunch culture? These movements could lead to a "cultural hangover," eroding trust, intimacy, and respect within relationships. This could ultimately diminish faith in institutions like marriage and family. Can sexual liberation and traditional feminist goals coexist? While both aim to empower women, sexual liberation that focuses on hyper-sexualized behavior may clash with traditional feminist goals of equality and combating objectification. Manolo Blahnik Feminism: A term coined to describe a branch of feminism that highlights sexual freedom and empowerment through physical appearance and fashion, symbolized by high-end fashion items like Manolo Blahnik shoes. Raunch Culture: A social phenomenon where explicit sexual behavior and imagery are normalized as a means of empowerment, often linked to stripper and porn-star aesthetics. Objectification: Treating individuals as objects of sexual desire, reducing them to their physical appearance or attractiveness. Empowerment: In the feminist context, it refers to gaining freedom and control over one's own choices, actions, and body. Gender Dynamics: The behaviors, attitudes, and power relations that society assigns based on gender roles. Cultural Hangover: The long-term negative effects that might follow a period of indulgence in behaviors that conflict with traditional values or emotional well-being. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chrisabraham/support

Reading With Celebrities
Episode 157: The Rules Do Not Apply

Reading With Celebrities

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2024 44:49


TW: Discussions of miscarriage Tifani and Lindsey discuss The Rules Do Not Apply by Ariel Levy. Happy Reading!

All Of It
Adapting 'Sabbath's Theater' with John Turturro and Ariel Levy

All Of It

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 23:17


Philip Roth's National Book Award-winning novel Sabbath's Theater has found new life on the stage, thanks to a new theatrical adaptation from John Turturro and Ariel Levy. Both join us to discuss the play, which stars Turturro as a former puppet-maker forced to confront his troubled past. "Sabbath's Theater" is running at The Romulus Linney Courtyard Theatre through December 17.

Dear Sugars
Redux: A Spy In The House Of Love

Dear Sugars

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2023 33:22


Snooping on your spouse is generally ill-advised, but what if he or she has an addiction and is constantly lying about it? The Sugars and writer Ariel Levy answer this question in this episode, originally released on December 2, 2017.

#SuplexEnVivo Lucha Libre y Wrestling

Ariel Levy, Ernesto Contreras y Felipe Monarch componen este único trio donde semana a semana conversaran de una de sus grandes pasiones, la lucha libre. Suscribete, dale like y apoya a este nuevo proyecto que trae Suplex, uno de los sitios más longevo de lucha libre en Sudamérica. Subscribete, dale like y compartenos.

Matthew Mania
Ep. 64 - AEW and Ring of Honor Live Shows in Sunrise

Matthew Mania

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 29:14


This week Matt and Neil went to the BBT arena (or whatever it's called now) to see AEW Rampage.  After four hours of televised wrestling, we had enough.  They filmed Ring of Honor, Dynamite and Rampage.  The best part was seeing BRCW All Stars in the ring!!! Should out to Ariel Levy and Cha Cha Charlie James.  Also, Neil attended NXT Sping Breaking with the OG All Star Champion Mark Long. And they did it VIP style.   Thanks for joining us on the Matthew Mania Podcast!  And check out our other Podcasts: https://www.matthewmania.com/podcasts Shop Matthew Mania:   https://www.prowrestlingtees.com/matthewmania Our Next show is Sunday, May 7th, 2023 as BRCW Presents: Challenge Accepted. Tickets available and more information at www.BocaRatonWrestling.com The Matthew Mania Podcast is brought to you by: Matthew H. Maschler, Esq. Real Estate Broker (561) 208-3334 www.RealEstateFinder.com 6699 North Federal Highway, Suite 103 Boca Raton, FL 33487 Member of the Palm Beach Board of REALTORS®, the Miami Association of REALTORS®, the Naples Areas Board of REALTORS®, Orlando Regional REALTOR® Association and R-World Broward, Palm Beaches, and St Lucie REALTORS®. Ask about joining the Signature team!    Learn more about the Signature Real Estate Companies and why you should join South Florida's real estate industry leaders, Ranked #1 in Boca Raton, #25 in Florida and #336 in the Nation. www.SignatureRecruiter.com Offices in Boca Raton, Delray Beach, Coral Springs / Parkland, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Naples, Palm Beach, Orlando and throughout Florida. Help Israel Now! All support goes Straight to Israel's Soldiers www.yasharlachayal.org Learn how to support our efforts to provide housing in Haiti http://www.frank-mckinney.com/caring-house-project And be sure to check out www.BocaRatonWrestling.com

Matthew Mania
Ep. 48 - Neil, Get the tables

Matthew Mania

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2023 42:42


Neil lets Matthew know that he has some good news regarding the upcoming event: we have tables! Neil talks about how he was able to score a wooden folding table at an incredible price from Craigslist. They sell merchandise? Stacia Garcia from The Real Estate Finder Podcast joins Matthew and Neil to add some good advice on where to find tables. Neil is shocked to learn that Staci has no idea what BocaVision is. Season 3 premiered on Youtube earlier in the week. With only three weeks to go, Matthew and Neil once again break down the Crusin' for a Bruisin' card. This is going to be BRCW's biggest card to date! It's going to be held at The VIP Ballroom at CBI. Speaking of venues, Matt and Neil discuss future plans regarding a venue they have in mind which is located right in Mizner Park. If all goes well, it will be epic! So Money in the Bank is in London, Will Matt and or Neil be going to London? The answer is… Yes! But not for MITB. Matt will be there, but unfortunately a week after.   CCW held it's 2 year anniversary show of Bash at the Brew in Hialeah, FL with the main event being a steel cage match  for the CCW championship between the champion, Ariel Levy against the Brazilian Destroyer, Viniciuos. Ariel was all bloodied up before he even entered the cage. In the end, we saw Vinicous pull out a box cutter, but it was to rip the ring canvas to expose the wooden planks and drive Ariel onto them. But that wasn't enough as Ariel had outside help. Matthew was very happy that Ariel retained as he is an Ariel Levy guy. Or maybe it's the other way around! The show closes with a very important piece of family tree history. Matthew lets us know that Luke Perry of 90210 fame and Sideshow Bob of the Simpsons are brothers. This makes AEW's Jungle Boy the nephew of Sideshow Bob. Now that is an interesting fact! And there are many other outstanding facts we learn all on this weeks episode of The Matthew Mania Podcast.   BRCW Presents: Cruisin' for a Bruisin.'  Happening on Tuesday, January 31, 2023.   2200 Yamato Road in Boca Raton.   Tickets available at www.BocaRatonWrestling.com   Thanks for joining us on the Matthew Mania Podcast!   And check out our other Podcasts: https://www.matthewmania.com/podcasts Shop Matthew Mania:   https://www.prowrestlingtees.com/matthewmania   Brought to you by: Matthew H. Maschler, Esq. Real Estate Broker (561) 208-3334 Matt@RealEstateFinder.com www.RealEstateFinder.com 6699 North Federal Highway, Suite 103 Boca Raton, FL 33487 Member of the Palm Beach Board of REALTORS®, the Miami Association of REALTORS®, the Naples Areas Board of REALTORS®, Orlando Regional REALTOR® Association and R-World Broward, Palm Beaches, and St Lucie REALTORS®. Help Israel Now! All support goes Straight to Israel's Soldiers www.yasharlachayal.org Learn how to support our efforts to provide housing in Haiti http://www.frank-mckinney.com/caring-house-project Ask about joining the Signature team!    Learn more about the Signature Real Estate Companies and why you should join South Florida's real estate industry leaders, Ranked #1 in Boca Raton, #25 in Florida and #336 in the Nation. www.SignatureRecruiter.com Offices in Boca Raton, Delray Beach, Coral Springs / Parkland, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Naples, Palm Beach, Orlando and throughout Florida. And be sure to check out www.BocaRatonWrestling.com   Upcoming RMLC events:  https://rmlclub.com/events/ Jan. 26th 7:00 Supporting Give Kids the World Village!!!!

Matthew Mania
Ep. 47 - Wrestling's Real, Santa's Fake

Matthew Mania

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2023 57:01


Matthew and Neil are back with their regular guest, owner and operator of CCW, and  BRCW partner, Nelio Cuomo Costa. Matt, Neil and Nelio discuss what they did during the Holidays and if Santa Claus exists.  With Wrestlemania season right around the corner, they talk about main event possibilities. Will it be Roman vs Rock? Roman vs Sami? Roman vs Cody? Nooooooo! Matt thinks something different this year… Roman vs Brock! Speaking of Roman, Matt tells us about his love for the Samoan family and that he actually owns the official Hall of Fame ring that was presented to Yokozuna at the 2012 WWE Hall of fame ceremony. There is a big wrestling event South Florida this weekend as CCW presents the two year anniversary of Bash tab the Brew featuring a Steel cage championship match between CCW champion Ariel Levy vs his long tome friend now rival Vinicious.   We hear at the Matthew Mania Podcast wish the best of luck to Ariel.  All of this, plus they break down the card for the next Boca Raton Championship Wresting show, Cruisin' for a Bruisin' happening on Tuesday, January 31, 2023.   2200 Yamato Road in Boca Raton.   BRCW Presents: Cruisin' for a Bruisin.'  Tickets available at www.BocaRatonWrestling.com Thanks for joining us on the Matthew Mania Podcast!  And check out our other Podcasts: https://www.matthewmania.com/podcasts Shop Matthew Mania:   https://www.prowrestlingtees.com/matthewmania Brought to you by: Matthew H. Maschler, Esq. Real Estate Broker (561) 208-3334 Matt@RealEstateFinder.com www.RealEstateFinder.com 6699 North Federal Highway, Suite 103 Boca Raton, FL 33487 Member of the Palm Beach Board of REALTORS®, the Miami Association of REALTORS®, the Naples Areas Board of REALTORS®, Orlando Regional REALTOR® Association and R-World Broward, Palm Beaches, and St Lucie REALTORS®. Help Israel Now! All support goes Straight to Israel's Soldiers www.yasharlachayal.org  Learn how to support our efforts to provide housing in Haiti http://www.frank-mckinney.com/caring-house-project Ask about joining the Signature team!    Learn more about the Signature Real Estate Companies and why you should join South Florida's real estate industry leaders, Ranked #1 in Boca Raton, #25 in Florida and #336 in the Nation. www.SignatureRecruiter.com Offices in Boca Raton, Delray Beach, Coral Springs / Parkland, Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Naples, Palm Beach, Orlando and throughout Florida. And be sure to check out www.BocaRatonWrestling.com

¡UY QUE HORROR! A Latinx Horror Movie Podcast

Jonny and Aileen are back in the Peruvian Amazon watching The Green Inferno. A group of student activists travels to the Amazon and soon discover that they are not alone, and that no good deed goes unpunished. Jonny and Aileen also discuss the controversy behind Eli Roth's film, writer Guillermo Amoedo and Chilean actors Lorenza Izzo and Ariel Levy. Remember to subscribe, rate and review! Follow our redes sociales:Twitter: @Uy_Que_HorrorInsta: @uyquehorrorFind all our movies in our Link Tree here!

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind
CCW Champ Ariel Levy Interview: Wre-Wind Wrestling Radio Show

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 35:54


CCW Champ Ariel Levy Interview: Wre-Wind Wrestling Radio Show Ted Weston has an exclusive sit-down with Coastal Championship Wrestling Heavyweight Champion of the World Ariel Levy! Bryce's Go Fund Me and All of our links (Including Merch...go buy MERCH): https://linktr.ee/WreWindWrestling Music: Fearless First by Kevin MacLeod & Slow Burn by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song... License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b... "Tyrant" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Humor Latino

Alison Mandel Maturana es una comediante y actriz chilena de teatro, cine y televisión. Es conocida por su participación en El club de la comedia. Alison Mandel es sobrina del pintor Carlos "Bororo" Maturana, y nieta de Gabriel Maturana, conocido en el Jappening con Ja como el señor Mandiola. Estudió actuación en Duoc UC entre 2002 y 2006. En televisión trabajó junto a Paulette Sève y Camila López, entre otros. Luego actuó en el proyecto vanguardista de Canal 13, Transantiaguinos, de Sobras Producciones, creada por Nicolás López, interpretando a Nataly "Naty" Montes, la rebelde colegiala del programa. Se centra en siete personajes que se encuentran diariamente en el paradero del Transantiago. El programa tenía una proyección de 180 capítulos, pero solo tuvo un total de 36 episodios, de ocho minutos cada uno. Comedor de diario (2008) fue la primera serie de ficción que realizó el canal de cable Vía X, donde Mandel protagonizó junto a Ramón Llao, Carolina Paulsen y Guilherme Sepúlveda. En julio de 2010 actuó en el episodio "Peor que pulga en... La Oreja" del programa Teatro en Chilevisión junto a Patricio Torres, Ana María Gazmuri, Iván Cabrera y Roberto Vander, donde interpretó a la hija de Torres y Gazmuri, y con Cabrera como su pololo, con quien tenía una fogosa relación que su padre reprobaba. En 2010, Alison (junto a Jenny Cavallo) se integraron al programa El Club de la Comedia de Chilevisión, reemplazando a Natalia Valdebenito (quien trabajó tres años con Cavallo en Cabras chica gritona) y Nathalie Nicloux. En el programa realizaba tanto sketches como monólogos. Algunos de los personajes que interpretó en El club de la comedia son la Pollo y la Histérica. Esta última fue un personaje de su propia creación, por lo que le tiene cariño. En 2011 participó en la obra 2010: Año de mierda junto a Jenny Cavallo, Pato Pimienta y Juan Pablo Flores, donde satirizan todo lo ocurrido en ese año. En 2011 actuó en Qué pena tu boda, secuela de la exitosa película, también dirigida por Nicolás López, Qué pena tu vida (2010), protagonizada por Ariel Levy, Andrea Velasco y Lorenza Izzo. Además aparecen junto a Alison, Claudia Celedón, Ignacia Allamand y Paz Bascuñán entre otras. En febrero de 2018 fue parte de la cuarta noche del Festival de Viña de Mar, consiguiendo Gaviota de Plata y Gaviota de Oro con su actuación.

Lucha Libre Online
Ariel Levy

Lucha Libre Online

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 41:38


Ariel Levy confiesa la importancia de Gangrel en su carrera --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lucha-libre-online/support

Novel Pairings
96. Must-read books of the summer paired with beach-worthy backlist titles

Novel Pairings

Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 66:37 Very Popular


It's that time of year, readers! Pull out your favorite book tote and get thee to pre-ordering (or library requesting) because we've got an episode full of our most anticipated reads for summer 2022. Since we can't help ourselves, we've paired each buzzy new title with a backlist pick. We're also talking about summer reading hopes (not goals), our favorite summertime genres, and what's happening in Classics Club this season.  If you're enjoying our content, please write a review on Apple Podcasts, share an episode with a friend, or shout us out on social media. Growing this show is only possible because of our lovely listeners. Thank you! A Special thank you to The Lost City for sponsoring this episode. Love these episodes? Support us on Patreon patreon.com/novelpairings and get bonus episodes full of reading recs this summer.  Follow Novel Pairings on Instagram or Twitter.  Subscribe to our weekly newsletter to get updates and behind-the-scenes info. Use our Libro.fm affiliate code NOVELPAIRINGS to get an audiobook subscription and support independent bookstores. Books mentioned (thanks for supporting us by shopping our Bookshop affiliate links!): May 5/3 The Murder of Mr. Wickham by Claudia Gray Pride and Premeditation by Tirzah Price, Sense & Second Degree Murder 5/3 When Women Were Dragons by Kelly Barnhill Good and Mad by Rebecca Traister 5/17 We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story by Simu Liu Born a Crime by Trevor Noah 5/17 Son of Elsewhere: A Memoir in Pieces by Elamin Abdelmahmoud Piccolo is Black: A Memoir of Race, Religion, and Pop Culture by Jordan Calhoun 5/24 Nightcrawling by Leila Mottley Salvage the Bones by Jesmyn Ward  5/31 Half-Blown Rose by Leesa Cross-Smith Silver Sparrow by Tayari Jones, Half Light  June 6/7 Woman of Light by Kali Farjado-Anstine A Girl is a Body of Water by Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi 6/7 Fibbed by Elizabeth Agyemang Akata Witch by Nnedi Okorafor 6/14 Horse by Geraldine Brooks The Son by Philip Meyer 6/28 American Royalty by Tracey Livesay The Royal We, Red, White & Royal Blue, or American Royals Like Lovers Do by Tracey Livesay July 7/5 Life Ceremony by Sayaka Murata Stranger Things Happen by Kelly Link 7/5 Night of the Living Rez by Morgan Talty There, There by Tommy Orange, The Secret Lives of Church Ladies by Deesha Philyaw 7/12 The Crane Wife by C.J. Hauser The Rules Do Not Apply by Ariel Levy 7/12 Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevinn The Interestings by Meg Wolitzer 7/19 Just Like Home by Sarah Gailey Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn

Rasslin Podcast
Capitulo 13:03 - FNL Reborn, Ariel Levy traiciona a su compañero, WrestleMania Backlash y mucho más

Rasslin Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2022 208:06


Revisa toda la lucha libre nacional e internacional en el regreso del Rasslin Podcast

Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith
Calf Liver Gummies Are Not Delicious.

Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2022 49:59


If you asked any of these gentle parenting experts, they would say parenting is the most important work in the world. But they are also perpetually downplaying the hardest parts of it—which means not ever making visible the parts of parenting that we most need to change.Welcome to Burnt Toast! This is the podcast where we talk about diet culture, fatphobia, parenting, and health. Today I am chatting again with Sara Louise Petersen. She’s the Burnt Toast resident momfluencer expert, and you can catch her previous episodes here and here. Sara is also the author of an upcoming book about momfluencers and the awesome new Substack newsletter In Pursuit of Clean Countertops, which is a must-subscribe!Today, Sara and I are chatting about the gentle parenting trend—and how it intersect with our conversations around gender roles, diet culture, and more. If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe, rate and review us in your podcast player! And subscribe to the Burnt Toast newsletter for episode transcripts, reported essays, and more.PS. The Burnt Toast Giving Circle is almost to $9,000! We are so close to our goal and will soon be picking which state election to fund. So if you’ve been thinking about joining, we still need you! Here’s the Burnt Toast episode where I announced it, ICYMI, and the link to donate.Episode 41 TranscriptVirginiaHi Sara! You are the resident Burnt Toast momfluencer expert, which I admit is not a category of expert I knew that I needed when I launched the podcast, but it turns out it very much is. And you just started your own Substack newsletter! So let’s talk about that first.SaraIt’s called In Pursuit of Clean Countertops. It’s not about countertops. It’s not about cleaning. The title is a nod to all of the things that momfluencer culture invites you to pursue and desire and want. I started it a little over a month ago based on an inflammatory post by @BallerinaFarm, Hannah Neeleman. She’s a big one. Her husband Daniel Neeleman started his own Instagram account relatively recently. He posted about the way that Hannah loves to clean and natural light and children like to congregate around her. It just made me feel a lot of a lot of feelings, Virginia. So that was the the post that started it at all.VirginiaI had a lot of feelings about that post, as well. I also love your new Weekly WTF which is so cathartic to read. SaraMy goal is to take the text threads that we all have with our friends, which can be more like, “Holy s**t. Did you see this? This is enraging this is infuriating,” and explore why is it infuriating. Why am I feeling these feelings? To expose the systemic issues at play.VirginiaToday you are coming back on this podcast because we want to dissect a sub-trend of momfluencing culture. We’re talking about “gentle parenting.” I also see it called “positive parenting.” It’s important to say right off the bat, there is no official definition of this concept. Jessica Grose wrote a piece for The New York Times where she described it as “a sort of open-source mélange, interpreted and remixed by moms across the country.” And yes, that is really what it is. Sara, do you want to read this definition that we found in this piece in The New Yorker by Jessica Winter, just so everyone’s on the same page about what we’re talking about here.SaraSo, okay:In its broadest outlines, gentle parenting centers on acknowledging a child’s feelings and the motivations behind challenging behavior, as opposed to correcting the behavior itself. The gentle parent holds firm boundaries, gives a child choices instead of orders, and eschews rewards, punishments, and threats—no sticker charts, no time-outs, no “I will turn this car around right now.” Instead of issuing commands (“Put on your shoes!”), the parent strives to understand why a child is acting out in the first place (“What’s up, honey? You don’t want to put your shoes on?”) or, perhaps, narrates the problem (“You’re playing with your trains because putting on shoes doesn’t feel good”).The gently parented child, the theory goes, learns to recognize and control her emotions because a caregiver is consistently affirming those emotions as real and important. The parent provides a model for keeping one’s cool, but no overt incentives for doing so—the kid becomes a person who is self-regulating, kind, and conscientious because she wants to be, not because it will result in ice cream. VirginiaThat is what I want my children to be, is the thing. This is the goal I think a lot of us have for kids. And yet the path for getting there is so convoluted. Let’s talk about when we each first became aware of this trend and how it’s showing up in our parenting.SaraI became aware of it by way of attachment parenting, which was just everywhere when I had my first kid, who is now almost 10. Attachment parenting is the whole 'if the kid is crying, the kid is not being annoying. It’s expressing needs or desires and it’s your job as the parent to interpret the cries.’ In attachment parenting, you’re not thinking of the kid’s behavior as an impediment to your life, but as the kid expressing his or her or their individuality. I was all about this when I was pregnant. I read all the Dr. Sears books. And then, almost immediately after having my first child, I just felt like I was being gaslit. I remember reading something... Kelly Something?VirginiaOh, yes, KellyMom. Oh, I’m having a trauma response. It’s been a minute.SaraI know. So my kid was not sleeping and I remember reading on KellyMom something like “when cluster feeding happens and baby only wants mom, consider it a compliment.” And I was just like fuuuuuck this. F**k this!!VirginiaIt’s not a compliment. I’m so tired.SaraAttachment parenting kind of feeds into gentle parenting really well in that it’s all about prioritizing the child’s needs. And very rarely are the parent’s needs anywhere in the conversation.VirginiaI had a pretty knee jerk reaction against attachment parenting, although, you know, my oldest is eight, so same time period. It was everywhere. But I was like, this is just code for the woman does everything. And I didn’t sign up for that. It’s not what we’ve agreed upon in my house. We’re not doing it. But then the gentle parenting thing for me, it was discovering Janet Lansbury’s work when my older daughter was a toddler and the toddler tantrums started. (Note from Virginia: I forgot to mention in our conversation that I’ve interviewed Lansbury for parenting articles a few times and think she’s incredibly smart and thoughtful, even if her tantrum advice didn’t always land for me. If you are also a Lansbury fan, this Ariel Levy profile is a must-read.)I was constantly having to negotiate with this person who is totally irrational, according to the way I understand the world. And who is demanding a lot from me in ways that just don’t make sense anymore. At least with a baby, you’re like, well, you’re hungry, or you’re cold or—their needs are just more concrete and not emotional. But suddenly, in the toddler years, you’re sorting through this emotional stuff, as well as—I’m now going to get mail from people saying babies have emotions. I know they do. I know they have emotions. But there’s something about engaging with a tiny verbal child or quasi-verbal child that is just much harder for me. So this whole gentle parenting approach, I sort of clung to it like a life raft. Will someone explain why these children scream so much? And gentle parenting has these '“answers” for you. But what was interesting, even when my older daughter was two or three, was how much it didn’t work with her. All this advice about, like, “What’s up? You don’t want to put your shoes on? Or you’re playing with trains because shoes don’t feel good?” She would just be enraged when I did that. I think it felt like very patronizing to her. She was like, “I am telling you how I feel through my yelling. You putting words to it is not making me better.” SaraWell, one of my challenges that you’re speaking to is: You’ll get this script and the lines that you’re reciting are at odds with your feelings, which are often rage, impatience, annoyance, frustration, despair. So if you’re reciting this script that is like, “I can see you’re having really big feelings right now. And that’s okay. Your big feelings are valid,” kids, I think can tell that you are feeding them a line from a script. Or at least my kids definitely can. It oftentimes in my household has made things worse.VirginiaYes. Because then you’re getting more frustrated while trying to recite the script.SaraAnd then you’re doubly frustrated because the script isn’t working.VirginiaSo, let’s talk more about the scripts because they are one of the most common tropes of the way gentle parenting is performed online. I want to talk about this Dr. Becky post. (Above.) If I have a child screaming, “I hate you! I hope you die!,” which has happened in my life, me responding with calmness is almost denying the feeling. The goal, ostensibly, is to label their feeling, but you’re denying the feeling because you’re responding so stoically to their feelings. Something about it feels so inauthentic.SaraThe other thing that just really stands out to me in this mantra is “the real story is my child’s pain.” There’s no room for the parents’ feelings in this mantra.VirginiaI don’t disagree with the argument here that a small child using that word doesn’t really mean the word the way an adult does. Like, this isn’t them being verbally abusive. I understand that. But that doesn’t stop it from feeling bad when it happens. And we are supposed to so totally center the child’s emotions to the point of having no emotional response to it. It’s just never going to happen, that way.SaraWhat if the kid is saying “I HATE YOU” to the sibling? You have to attend to the kid who’s having feelings and saying I hate you. And you have to attend to the kid who is the target of the “I hate you.” It’s just so much more complicated than any of these scripts would have you believe.VirginiaI think what’s interesting about this movement is there’s a lot of emphasis on not being punitive towards kids when they do bad things. When they hit, when they bite, when they say I hate you. An older model of parenting would have been to punish those behaviors. And their argument is: We’re never going to help kids move past these behaviors if we demonize the kid who’s doing the bad thing. Which I understand. But if you have a dynamic where an older brother has just slapped his little sister in the face, what is that girl learning? That someone who loves you can hurt you like that?SaraWe don’t want our children to internalize our feelings. But I also don’t think it’s terrible if our kids see us have an emotional reaction, such as anger or frustration. It’s natural to have a reaction when somebody says, “I hate you,” or when you get slapped in the face. We need to allow for the parents’ humanity in all of this. If your facial expression becomes angry, that’s okay. You can still value the child’s humanity and individuality and hold space for both things.VirginiaThere’s a lot of talk about how if you tell your child how you feel, you’re making them codependent. I just feel like this is a real big leap because the alternative is you’re teaching your child their emotions should always be centered. That feels like a terrible model for future relationships.SaraIn the Jessica Winter piece, she gives the example of if your kid is having a meltdown and you’re in the middle of vacuuming, you should by all means stop vacuuming and say to the kid, “your feelings are more important than housework.” Winter writes: The housework that [Robin] Einzig says to put off is a synecdoche for everything that the gentle parent—and, perhaps, the gently parented child’s invisible siblings—must push aside in order to complete a transformation into a self-renouncing, perpetually present humanoid who has nothing but time and who is programmed for nothing but calm.”Virginia And when is the vacuuming getting done? Maybe you don’t want to spend your whole day being interrupted during a chore that should take 15 minutes. This feels very much of a piece with what we see in momfleuncer culture. That’s @BallerinaFarm cleaning her house with a smile while the kids are frolicking around. This image of joy and calmness through domestic life doesn’t line up with anything I’ve ever experienced in domestic life. I don’t think it lines up with most people’s experience.SaraNo. I constantly talk to my kids when I’m feeling overwhelmed or how a lot of work goes into keeping a house and raising kids. I’m sure some gentle parenting advocates would tell me I’m burdening my kids with my own suffering or whatever. But it’s true and nobody ever talked to me about this openly, about how being a parent and being a grown up is hard.VirginiaMaking that work visible is so important for so many reasons. We are never going to make progress on our larger cultural gender roles if we are continually downplaying this work. I’m sure if you asked any of these gentle parenting experts, they would say parenting is the most important work in the world. That’s why they’ve devoted their careers to giving us all the scripts! But when you’re perpetually downplaying the hard parts of it, and when you’re needing to perform it in this really controlled way, you’re not actually ever making visible the parts of it that we need to change. SaraI can see a future where kids who are parented perfectly according to the gentle script, turn into parents themselves and say, like, “What the f**k? This is hard as s**t! Why did my parents always present as so calm and pulled together?”VirginiaI mean, that assumes anyone’s able to actually execute gentle parenting. I fhave my doubts that anybody is this parent, even three days a week. The other night, my child who, like I said, screams in fury if I try a gentle parenting script, we were having a thing. I finally said to her, “I am a human being with emotions, and you are hurting my feelings right now.” And one part of my brain was like, You are breaking all the rules. You aren’t supposed to tell her that she’s hurting your feelings. But that was what turned the corner in that particular moment. I’m not saying she was like, “Oh, I’m so sorry, I hurt your feelings.” There was no apology. But it did make her pause for a moment and have this recognition of, Oh, right. I am powerful here. My words have impact. She took a slight step back and we were able to then get on a much better track. A thought I had a lot, especially when I was parenting toddlers was: If an adult treated you like this, it would be an abusive relationship—and yet we are supposed to accept this wholeheartedly from children. It’s one of the things that is so hard about parenting. Because they are children and emotional capabilities are not fully developed, so you literally sign up for accepting abuse for several years. It’s not abuse, but it does not feel great.SaraI’m sure you’ve had this experience, where you are heated, you are furious, you’re having big emotions and the person you’re arguing with is stoic and calm and seemingly unaffected by your big emotions. VirginiaIt’s the worst! SaraIt’s the worst. So I can totally understand why being the kid at the receiving end of these scripts would be infuriating. Like, I’m kicking and screaming and like spitting at you. Why isn’t this having any impact? VirginiaIt feels kind of manipulative in that way, like you’re trying to make them feel powerless. Because kids want a reaction. They’re looking for connection. Often the yelling is an attempt to get your attention and get your connection. So if you’re giving them Robot Mom, you’re not connecting with them authentically. VirginiaOkay, so another big theme, and also m big division point with gentle parenting, is the fact that they frame timeouts as an act of trauma. This is a @biglittlefeelings post. They are big in this space and I have a lot of feelings about that. Because, with both my kids, there are times when timeouts save my family. We all need to step away from each other. I don’t think it is punitive or traumatizing to teach a kid that when your feelings are so big that you can only deliver them in hurtful ways that you need to take some time alone We call them “cool downs” which is totally trying to soften the language. But giving myself permission to use those with my kids has helped so much. SaraI have a kid who, when she’s having her biggest feelings, will remove herself. Like, her instinct is to go and sob sob, sob for 15 minutes. But if I try to go in before 15 minutes, it’s bad. It’s only after that she has that cathartic release that she’s even capable of connecting. VirginiaI am sure there are kids who want to collapse on you and need that sort of experience. But recognizing that, if you yourself are someone who needs to go be alone to think through your big feelings, maybe your kid needs that, too. And maybe it’s okay.SaraAnother thing that I want to highlight that’s giving me some big feelings is the caption. It says:When the parental response is to isolate the child, an instinctual psychological need of the child goes unmet. In fact, brain imaging shows that the experience of relational pain–like that caused by rejection–looks very similar to the experience of physical pain in terms of brain activity. This is not great. VirginiaThere’s no citation, there’s no science. We would need to fact check the heck out of that.SaraIt just feels so manipulative and like playing into parental shame and guilt.VirginiaI bet it’s stemming from the same research used to argue for attachment parenting, about how if you let a baby cry it out, you’re inflicting physical pain on them. And then when we looked at which data they were using, it was children who’d been neglected for months in orphanages. It was not children in loving homes who are being asked to cry for 15 minutes to fall asleep. I’m guessing this is orphanage research again and that research is very important for understanding the impact of true trauma. But it is not helpful to give to parents who are trying really hard to be decent parents. The other trope I wanted to hit on is: Speaking in the child’s voice. This is a post from Robin Einzig’s Facebook page: SaraI just want to describe the image because it’s doing a lot of work. It’s a painting of a very cherubic looking three or four year old, whose eyes are just full of innocent wonder and who has like rosy little pursed lips. She just looks like a blank canvas that you as the parent might be in danger of destroying. So it says, “When you cut it for me, write it for me, open it for me, set it up for me, draw it for me, and make it for me or find it for me. All I learned is that you do it better than I do. So I’ll let you do it. In the textbooks, this is called learned helplessness, but actually I call it clever on the part of the child and less than clever on the part of the adult.”VirginiaSick burn from a gentle parenting expert. SaraAlso the quote says “quote unknown.”VirginiaI mean, obviously the quote is unknown. They just made it up. They’re not quoting a human child because no child has ever said, “You know Mom, when you do this for me, all I learned is that you’re better at things than me.” SaraSo this one’s really thrown me for a loop.VirginiaIt’s another one of those super paralyzing pieces of advice. I remember reading some advice like this. The argument was, if you’re drawing with your child and if they see how you draw a cat, then they’ll never learn how to draw a cat themselves, like in their own vision of a cat. And I remember trying to do that and being like, well, this just sucked all the fun out of drawing. I’m actually kind of good at drawing cats and now I feel like I can’t draw a cat. You’re simultaneously supposed to do nothing for them so they can have all of these learning experiences, yet also be emotionally available to the point you can’t get your vacuuming done.SaraHow the hell are you supposed to get anything done if you’re letting a two-year-old do all these things? You will spend your entire day having the two-year-old cut something. VirginiaThis is just one of those constant tensions of parenting where of course they have to eventually learn to do these things for themselves. But when you’re trying to get out of the door or set them up with an activity, so you can get things done, of course, you’re going to do the hard parts for them. Because life demands it.SaraBecause of life! Like really. Because of life.VirginiaOne more good quote from the Jessica Winter piece: Gentle-parenting advocates are near-unanimous in the view that a child should never be told that she “made Mommy sad”—she should focus on her internal weather rather than peering out the window. “Good job!” is usually not O.K., even if you corroborate why the job is good. “Because I said so” is never O.K., no matter how many times a child asks why she has to go to bed.So Sara, when we were talking about this trend, you really found the mom influencer to end all momfluencers. She’s definitely at the most extreme end of the spectrum. So tell us about @milkgiver, please.SaraSo I’ve been following her for a long time. This type of momfluencer is catnip for me because they present with this very cool hipster, maybe used to live in Brooklyn type of vibe. So I’m initially attracted by their Shaker style fisherman’s sweaters. And then I get lured into the messaging, which often gets into very intense prescriptive nutrition stuff. There’s a lot of beef liver gummy making. VirginiaShe’s in a striped caftan type garment. I mean, I think I have the same mug as her right here because you know, #influenced. I’m pretty sure she has an East Fork pottery mug. So I’m not here to hate on her mug choice.SaraI have yet to pull the trigger, but I’m sure I will, Virginia. I’m sure I will.VirginiaYou will not be sorry. Anyway, she’s basically buried in children while having her morning coffee, is the image.SaraYou know Mary Cassatt paintings? It’s giving me those vibes. Like, you know, adoring children, beatific mother. It’s a long post, the thesis of which is that we, as mothers have so much power over giving our children happy, trauma-free childhoods. She says, …for the most part, I, as a mother, hold the incredible power of creating happy childhoods for my little ones or not so happy childhoods… And this is something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. there have been so many recurring themes in my life and something I keep hearing in the health and wellness circles is how disease or illness can be caused by past trauma. how interesting is that to think about? So, I’m not loving the direct connection between “I slammed the door or put my kid in timeout or lose my temper” and “down the road my kids might get cancer.” VirginiaIt defies the major thesis of all parenting research, which is that good enough parenting is all you really need. It’s reminding me quite a lot of the shaming that fat moms get. That your unruly body will be the cause of all of this downfall to your children. And again, that’s not borne out by research. SaraI have a therapist friend who is always like, “I actually take a lot of comfort in the fact that like, my kids can talk about whatever parts of their childhood in therapy later down the road. That’s okay.”VirginiaThat’s a great point.SaraIt’s okay if 20 years from now, my kid is like, “Mom always bitched about cleaning and how hard childcare was.” That’s not the end of the world.VirginiaThere are a lot of tools we can give our kids—including future therapy—to make up for our imperfections. I’m just looking at @milkgiver’s grid now and it is many whimsical hats. It is a lot of homemade. A homemade dollhouse, a homemade garland. Oh, and we should talk about the nutrition piece a little more because I definitely want us to hit on the way gentle parenting intersects with diet culture. Did you say she’s into calf liver gummies?SaraThere are so many gummies. So many.VirginiaHow do you even make liver into a gummy? I know she’ll have a tutorial for me. [Note from Virginia: Our post-recording fact-check revealed that @milkgiver actually makes beef gelatin gummies. We regret this error but not too much because calf liver gummies will surely be next.]Wait, can we also talk about the fact this woman doesn’t have a name? She’s just @milkgiver. SaraI do know her first name just because I’ve been following her forever, but yeah the fact that her identity is the giving of milk to children by way of her Instagram handle says a lot. VirginiaEven in the bio line, it’s just wife and mother of three, homeschooling, gentle parenting, Orthodox Christianity, knitting, nutrition, simple living. No name, no identity for you outside of how you serve your family. SaraDo you see the photo on the grid with the dried oranges? VirginiaOkay, so she writes: How did I get here? From being a fast food junkie, to vegan teen, to full out cigarette and alcohol addicted young adult to mama of three religiously wearing her blue blocker glasses in the evenings, taking raw liver shots and avoiding fluoride at all costs. This crunchy mama road isn’t always an easy one, and high five to anyone else desperately trying to keep their kids away from the junk being thrown at them right and left, I see you! It’s not always an easy path, but it is one I enjoy and ultimately follow because I like feeling good, I like keeping my kids healthy, and I like having energy, because that helps me to be a better mom. That’s my top goal in life currently, and being mostly healthy helps A LOT with it. It’d also be cool to live a long time. But who knows 😉🤎 #crunchymama #embracethecrunchOh, Sara. I don’t like it. I don’t like it at all.SaraI knew you wouldn’t.VirginiaI mean, she’s just combining so many different things. “Fast food junkie” is not the same thing as an alcoholic. Let’s be real clear about that. Addiction is a terrible disease that destroys lives. Eating a lot of fast food is not the same thing.SaraEven even the term junkie in that context.VirginiaYou are not a junkie because you like fast food. And then this, this whole message of, okay, you have to take the hardest road to do everything. Even if you don’t want to eat fast food every day, there’s a big gulf between that and taking raw liver shots and avoiding fluoride. We’re just combining every possible wellness trend. It’s like she needs to check every single box here in a way that’s exhausting and overwhelming, and not at all doable for anybody. And also not necessary. Nobody needs to take raw liver shots in their lives. People have lived to be 100 years old without ever taking raw liver shots.SaraI also don’t like the the use of the word “desperate.” She says, “high five to anyone else desperately trying to keep their kids away from the junk.” How about we desperately try to like give all kids access to food, period?VirginiaThat would be cool.SaraIt just feels like such a classic trope of the self-optimizing white motherhood stuff. “Because I like feeling good. I like keeping my kids healthy.” The implication is that if she were not to follow all these super strict guidelines, she would knowingly be not giving her kids a healthy life. VirginiaAlso this vibe of, “oh well, that’s just me! I like feeling good. I like having healthy kids.” Oh, really? Do you think mothers living in poverty don’t like to feel good? They’re not feeding their kids enough food every day because they don’t like having healthy kids? This isn’t a whimsical choice for you. This is something you can do because you have a ton of privilege. Let’s also talk about if you are a parent desperately trying to keep your kid away from junk food, how fast that’s going backfire and harm your child’s relationship with junk food. I mean, how many letters do I get? (For starters: This one, this one, this one, and this one.) This is probably the number one question I am asked. Sneaking food is just how it plays out every time because your kids know that your raw liver gummies are not as delicious as their friends gummy bears. SaraThe other thing that’s kind of hysterical to me is this is also not in agreement with gentle parenting. We’re supposed to enable our kids to have the tools within themselves to navigate life. So this feels like a direct contradiction. VirginiaThe interesting thing about the way gentle parenting and diet culture intersect is most gentle parenting folks are really big proponents of Division of Responsibility, which is about empowering kids to listen to their bodies and trust their own hunger and fullness. So you’re not counting bites, you’re not requiring them to finish stuff or eat their broccoli before they have the cookie. The problem is, it gets layered in with this idea of, “I have to choose things like calf flavored gummies and green smoothies and all of these perfectly healthy things.” And then I’m frustrated because my kids still is asking for Little Bites muffins and not my homemade spelt muffins or whatever. It’s using Division of Responsibility as a script for diet culture. You’re still trying to control them, but you’ve coopted this other rhetoric to do it. SaraI’m sure you’ve written and talked about this before, but what happens if you are so hyper-controlling the environment that your kid is choosing from? What happens when your kid enters the real world of actual food choice?VirginiaThose are the kids who go on playdates and eat the whole sleeve of Oreos at their friend’s house or eat sugar by the spoonful. I am not shaming those kids, I am not shaming those parents. It’s a totally natural response. You’ve been restricted, these foods have been banned. Forbidden fruit is really powerful and really tempting. Your mom’s not gonna let this stuff in the house. So it’s super understandable. This is another thing where they give us a lot of scripts! Let’s talk about this @biglittlefeelings post (above). SaraMy response as my kid is, “I don’t want either bowl. F**k the bowl, lady!”VirginiaGiving them a choice of the bowls is not going to distract them from the fact that they want cereal. Especially if you’re not offering cereal very often. I’m not saying you should cave in the moment and be a short order cook and just like immediately whisk off the bowl of yogurt and granola and give them the cereal. But you might do better to say, “let me pack cereal for your snack for school,” or “I totally hear you. Let’s make sure we have cereal for breakfast tomorrow.” If we’re gonna give kids permission to have all their big feelings, let’s spend some time on the big feeling about cereal instead of just like moving right past it and trying to distract them with the bowl choices. Again, it runs so counter to the larger message of what they tell us to do. But she doesn’t want to give in on the cereal, so she’s trying to control the food from a diet culture perspective— and then the gentle parenting quickly falls apart in the face of that goal. I also want to say it’s fine if sometimes you do say, “yeah, you know what, I’m gonna grab you the bowl of cereal.” Making a bowl of cereal is not the most time consuming thing. If this allows you to move on with your morning because it’s just been one of those mornings, it’s fine. It happens. We don’t need to feel like we failed because we did that. That’s another piece of this: When you don’t follow the scripts, you have to feel like you got it wrong.SaraTotally.VirginiaLet’s wrap up by talking about some parenting folks we do like. The person that I really liked that I wanted to talk about is Claire Lerner. She is the author of the book, Why Is My Child in Charge. I am going to put in a caveat that her chapter on food is not totally there. There’s definitely some diet culture stuff in it. But this was a really useful book for me to read because she does help parents understand why we end up in those power struggles. And a big thing I like is that she’s pro-timeouts when the kid needs it. She recognizes a place for them. She also really encourages parents to hold boundaries and not feel guilty about it. One line that she uses that I like is “you don’t have to like this.” I’ve started using this when I do say no to my kids about something and they throw a fit. I’m like, “You don’t have to like it, but this is what we’re doing.” And that has been so liberating. Because of course they’re having a tantrum. They don’t like being told TV is done for the day. But they don’t have to like it, we’re just doing it.Sara@Destini.Ann is someone I love. She’s just so approachable and the mother’s emotions are always valued. Her Instagram bio says “sign up for parent coaching below. Peaceful parent, but real AF.” That kind of tells you what you need to know. VirginiaYeah, I like it. I like it a lot. “Gentle is not my default.”SaraYes. Let’s acknowledge that gentleness is not everybody’s default and is labor.Another great one is @EricaMBurrell. I’ll limk to one of her reels where she’s talking about how gentle parenting is not something that white people own.VirginiaThat’s really interesting because that certainly is the impression you get on Instagram. SaraBlack parents have talked a lot about how Black culture plays into parenting mores and how there is a lot of judgment lobbed by white people towards Black parenting, without bothering to engage with Black culture. VirginiaYeah, that’s excellent. And then @supernova_momma?SaraIn her Instagram bio it says “Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator, Mother of Two, Autism /Neurodiversity Acceptance, Sometimes I twerk.” A lot of her content speaks specifically to neurodiversity, which I can imagine being so so tricky to maneuver in the gentle parenting space.VirginiaI think anytime your kid is dealing with something extra—whether it’s a disability, neurodiversity, or certain life experiences—there is this disconnect. You try to follow the rules they’re laying out and your kid has a completely opposite reaction to it and then you feel like you did something wrong, when in fact, the advice wasn’t inclusive and wasn’t thinking about your kid at all. SaraAlmost all the problems with gentle parenting arise from not respecting both the parent’s individuality and the kid’s individuality. Both you and I have talked about specific parenting experiences where we recognize, we intuit what our kid needs in that moment. We can intuit that this script is not going to work for either of us. So we make a choice based on our knowledge of our kids’ specific needs and specific personalities and our own specific needs and specific personalities.VirginiaI think it speaks to the fact that, as a culture, we don’t really empower parents—we especially don’t empower moms—to have that confidence in ourselves. You’re simultaneously expected to know exactly what to do and to have all this motherly intuition that guides you perfectly. But you’re also not really empowered to feel like you can make the right choices without outside experts, because we have such rigid standards and expectations. I just think it is helpful to start to realize you can make choices for yourself on this stuff. There is not a parenting police. Dr Becky’s not going to come to your house and edit your scripts. Butter For Your Burnt ToastSaraMy new obsession is Jessica Defino’s newsletter. It’s called The Unpublishable and it’s a takedown of the beauty industry. I just find it so, so delicious. She’s so funny. She’s so smart. I interviewed her recently for my newsletterVirginiaIt is so rare to find beauty content that is not tied to advertising—like so, so, so rare. So she’s a great voice. Hopefully she will be on a Burnt Toast episode soon. Stay tuned! It’s in the works. Okay, my recommendation is a recommendation that I feel I’ve been journeying to for a long time, that I was always meant to be this person and now I finally am. I am now someone who does puzzles. I think no one is surprised, if you know me at all, that I am now in the puzzling phase of my life, that I am I am a puzzler. I started it while we were on vacation. We had two days of a sick kid because that’s how family vacations roll. And so we were in our Airbnb and they had a bunch of puzzles. And I was like, I’m gonna do some puzzles while we’re hanging out here. It was so soothing! I think my husband always knew this about me, before I knew it about myself because several years ago for Christmas, he had given me an 1000 piece puzzle and he’d given me this cool felt mat thing (similar to this one). So you can do the puzzle but you can also roll it up if you’re not done. Because I have a dog and kids and you know, I can’t leave the puzzle out all the time. So I came home and dug it out of the closet and now I’m working on this puzzle in the evenings. I’m so happy. I’m just so happy. It was definitely at the point on vacation where my kids were like, “can we have lunch?” And I was like, “No, I’m doing this puzzle.”SaraIt sucks you in. VirginiaYeah, I was like, “I’m not a parent right now. I’m a puzzler. You have to raise yourself.”SaraWhen I will start a puzzle, the kids will be nowhere in sight to do the hard edges or whatever, and then they’ll come in like little vultures as soon as I’m down to like 50 pieces. Like, back off. Don’t steal my thunder.VirginiaYeah, mine did not want to do it at all. My older daughter did sort of like sit and haze me while I was doing it for a while, which was fun for both of us. But I think she’s got a puzzler in her, too. She’s just not there yet. I think it’ll come out, especially now that this is my life. SaraAnd your identity. VirginiaIt’s my identity now. And what it’s really great for is, this week I had a piece getting some pushback on Twitter and I was having a day where looking at Twitter was not going to be helpful to me. That evening, I put the phone down and puzzled away instead of looking at Twitter. I was really proud of myself!All right, Sara. Thank you so much for being here. Tell everyone where we can find you and find your newsletter!SaraDefinitely check out my newsletter, it’s called In Pursuit of Clean Countertops. I’m on Instagram at @SLouisePeterson and I am on Twitter as the same thing. The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by me, Virginia Sole-Smith. You can follow me on Instagram or Twitter.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting independent anti-diet journalism. This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com/subscribe

跳岛FM
96 隐秘的、共享的、切身的:生育,这个成为母亲的选择

跳岛FM

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 86:42


你小时候有没有问过妈妈,自己是从哪儿来的?你得到的回答,是不是也属于诸如此类的玩笑:垃圾桶捡来的、洪水冲来的、石头缝里蹦出来的......在这些堪称奇幻的叙述中,生育这件事被轻巧绕开,作为个体的母亲以及她切身的疼痛也无形中被埋进沉默。是什么造成了女性生育经验在日常讨论和文艺作品中的缺位?本期跳岛,我们邀请了华盛顿大学人类学学者许晶,她长期关注、研究儿童发展,也是一个12岁男孩的“老母亲”。在节目里,她与跳岛的主播于是、钟娜一起,聊了聊她对“成为母亲”(motherhood)的思考。 与言说生育的缺位相互映照的,是在年轻一代中越来越普遍的恐育情绪。越来越多年轻人害怕生孩子,怕的具体是什么?生育恐惧具体指向哪些恐惧?是否生养,可以作为一种划分女性的标准吗?未婚未育和已婚已育的男女,是否真的无法共情?而所谓的母爱,真的是一种“本能”吗?在聊天的过程中,我们谈到了文艺作品中的“逃跑的母亲们”,试图理解她们所体会到的“母爱的游移”。在聊天的过程中,我们也逐渐理解到,所谓的母爱不一定和生育这个动作绑定,而是在和孩子的交互过程中产生的复杂状态,是每个人都有可能获得的经验。正如主播钟娜所说的,无论是否为人父母,我们总归是女儿、是儿子。对于生育这件事,无论我们是否有生育的经验或愿望,都能在共情与思考中获得更深的理解。 【广告时间】 本期节目由Athletic Greens赞助播出 Athletic Greens是一家全球性的健康品牌,其使命是通过关注基础营养,帮助人们拥有健康的主动权。AG公司的旗舰产品AG1是一个多合一的基础营养补充剂,是包含了75种成分、9种必需营养品组合而成的一款方便美味的饮料产品,旨在为顾客提供简单、高效的营养补充解决方案。 关注Athletic Greens微信公众号,回复关键词“跳岛FM”,获得专属福利。 【本期嘉宾】 许晶,人类学学者,儿童发展研究者,著有《培养好孩子》(The Good Child),现居美国西雅图。 【本期主持】 于是,作家,译者。译有珍妮特·温特森、奥尔加·托卡尔丘克等作家的作品。著有《查无此人》《你我好时光》等。 钟娜,中英双语写作者,译者。译有《聊天记录》《正常人》。(豆瓣ID:阿枣) 【时间轴】 04:40 大多数母亲生孩子的时候都没准备好,全部想象都只是冰山一角 16:42 生孩子,是刀枪不入的当代职业女性那个“魔法失灵”的时刻 22:52 从“你是垃圾桶里捡来的”到儿童性教育:两代妈妈如何讲述生娃之痛 36:35 核心家庭的养育模式并非由来已久,养孩子不应该是妈妈一个人的事! 50:34 想逃跑的母亲和游移的爱:重新思考“母爱是一种本能” 57:40 在与孩子交互的过程中,“母爱”可以是全人类共有的经验 66:49 诚实地谈论生育不一定会“劝退”,更全面的信息有利于更理性的选择 74:48 许晶:作为一个研究者,我更清晰地看到了养育过程中的权力关系 【节目中提到的作品】 书籍、专栏文章 《成为母亲:一名知识女性的自白》[英]蕾切尔·卡斯克 《初为人母》[英] 安·奥克利 《最好的决定》[美] 梅根·多姆(编) Motherhood by Shelia Heti, 2018(中文版即将由99读书人引进) "Thanksgiving in Mongolia" by Ariel Levy, The New Yorker, 2013. 《父权制与资本主义》[日] 上野千鹤子 Mothers and Others: The Evolutionary Origins of Mutual Understanding by Sarah Hardy, 2011 《包法利夫人》[法] 福楼拜 《我的奋斗》[挪威]卡尔·奥韦·克瑙斯高 影视剧 《暗处的女儿》(The Lost Daughter, 2021),改编自费兰特的同名小说,导演玛吉·吉伦哈尔 《疼痛难免》(This Is Going to Hurt, 2022),改编自亚当·凯的同名小说 《虚构安娜》(Inventing Anna, 2022),导演大卫·弗兰科尔 《女人的碎片》(Pieces of a Woman, 2020),导演凯内尔·穆德卢佐 《凯文怎么了》(We Need To Talk About Kevin, 2011),改编自莱昂内尔·施赖弗的同名小说,导演琳恩·拉姆塞 【出品人】蔡欣 【主理人】猫弟 【节目编辑】何润哲 桑瑜 【后期制作】AURA.pote 【视觉设计】孙晓曦 陈景婧

Dear Sugars
Encore: A Spy In The House Of Love — With Ariel Levy

Dear Sugars

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 33:11


Snooping on your spouse is generally ill-advised, but what if he or she has an addiction and is constantly lying about it? The Sugars and writer Ariel Levy answer this question in this episode, originally released on December 2, 2017.

Pretty Corrupt Podcast
Liz Lange x PCP

Pretty Corrupt Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 28:38


Iconic fashion designer and current owner of GREY GARDENS, Liz Lange joins PCP to take us inside her famously rich family that lost it all- and her fascinating new podcast, The Just Enough Family. 

Call Your Girlfriend
Money, Grief, Kids

Call Your Girlfriend

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2021 53:03


We talk with one of our favorite writers, The New Yorker's Ariel Levy, about dynastic wealth, how we experience grief, and big surprises in life, including the joys of getting older and having children. Her podcast that chronicles maternity wear icon Liz Lange, of the New York Steinbergs is The Just Enough Family.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Fangin N Bangin with Gangrel
Seth Rollins Attacked | Charlette Flair Leaving WWE | Survivor Series Review | Ric Flair upset with WWE & Becky Lynch | Hulk Hogans Health | FANGIN N BANGIN with Gangrel EP. 26

Fangin N Bangin with Gangrel

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 76:22


Seth Rollins Attacked | Charlette Flair Leaving WWE | Survivor Series Review | Ric Flair upset with WWE & Becky Lynch | Hulk Hogans Health | Couples In Wrestling Pros and Cons and more | FANGIN N BANGIN with Gangrel EP. 26 Shop Merch @ https://fnbgangrel.com/ Gangrel on Cameo https://www.cameo.com/gangrel?utm_campaign=profile_share https://solo.to/fnbgangrel https://www.facebook.com/FNBGANGREL/ https://www.instagram.com/fnbgangrel/ https://www.instagram.com/gangreldavidheath/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0HXwrjPWKTYLbsuljmNWIA KID CADET https://www.instagram.com/kidcadet/ ARIEL LEVY https://www.instagram.com/ariel_levy/Bookings - Ariellevyd@Gmail.com Business Inquiries: FNBGangrel@outlook.com Produced By - Raymond Moulton https://www.instagram.com/raymondzolanski/ https://www.youtube.com/c/StaticVisionProductions STATIC VISION PRODUCTIONS, LLC

Melissa Rivers' Group Text Podcast
Family, Fame, and Financial Ruin of The Steinberg Dynasty

Melissa Rivers' Group Text Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 49:27


You know Liz Lange as the woman who changed maternity clothing forever. Now the designer with her friend and cohost, writer Ariel Levy, opens up about her infamous family's epic rise and fall on their popular podcast -- The Just Enough Family.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Fangin N Bangin with Gangrel
FANGIN N BANGIN with Gangrel | EP.22 | ft Ariel Levy from Eli Roth's "The Green Inferno"

Fangin N Bangin with Gangrel

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2021 51:25


FANGIN N BANGIN with Gangrel | EP.22 | ft Ariel Levy from Eli Roth's "The Green Inferno" Shop Merch @ https://fnbgangrel.com/ Gangrel on Cameo https://www.cameo.com/gangrel?utm_campaign=profile_share https://solo.to/fnbgangrel https://www.facebook.com/FNBGANGREL/ https://www.instagram.com/fnbgangrel/ https://www.instagram.com/gangreldavidheath/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0HXwrjPWKTYLbsuljmNWIA KID CADET https://www.instagram.com/kidcadet/ ARIEL LEVY https://www.instagram.com/ariel_levy/Bookings - Ariellevyd@Gmail.com Business Inquiries: FNBGangrel@outlook.com Produced By - Raymond Moulton https://www.instagram.com/raymondzolanski/ https://www.youtube.com/c/StaticVisionProductions STATIC VISION PRODUCTIONS, LLC

Vision For Life
Episode 59 | VFL Reads: Glennon Doyle's Honesty Gospel

Vision For Life

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 55:23


Glennon Doyle is an archetypal American celebrity, embodying trends in the broader culture in a concentrated way. Her writing, podcast and Instagram function as popular wisdom literature marketed to women. On this week's episode, Autumn and Hunter discuss a review of Doyle's career published in The New Yorker. In "Glennon Doyle's Honesty Gospel," Ariel Levy reviews Doyle from within a secular framework. And yet even from that perspective, Levy hints at inconsistencies and cracks in her narrative of self-expression. For a Christian reading this review, Levy helps us discern some of the common themes and cracks in the "secular gospel." We discuss these themes while observing how the secular, therapeutic gospel tends to echo Christian language without its substance. Article mentioned in this episode: "Glennon Doyle's Honesty Gospel" by Ariel Levy (https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2021/02/15/glennon-doyles-honesty-gospel)

The Literary Edit Podcast
S1, E15: The Literary Edit Podcast with Sophie Heawood

The Literary Edit Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2021 52:29


For the fifteenth episode of The Literary Edit Podcast, I was joined by author and journalist Sophie Heawood, who's debut memoir, The Hungover Games is one of my all-time favourite books.   You can read about Sophie's Desert Island Books here, and the ones we discuss in this episode are:   Lunch Poems by Frank O'Hara A Journey Around My Room by Xavier de Maistre The Rules Do Not Apply by Andrea Levy My Wild and Sleepless Nights by Clover Stroud Hideous Kinky by Esther Freud Freaky Dancin' by Bez Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut Christmas in Exeter Street   Other books we spoke about included Winnie the Pooh by A A Milne, The Cost of Living by Deborah Levy, Female Chauvinist Pigs by Ariel Levy, I Couldn't Love You More by Esther Freud and The Wild Other by Clover Stroud.   If you'd like to buy any of the books we discussed in the episode, please consider doing so from the list I created on Bookshop.org, an online bookstore with a mission to financially support local, independent bookstores. If you're based in Australia, please consider buying them from Gertrude & Alice, who deliver all over the country. To contact me, email lucy@thelitedit.com   Facebook The Literary Edit   Instagram: @the_litedit @heawood   Twitter: @thelitedit @heawood    

Roger Moore's Cubby Hole
Episode 2: RMCH - S03 E02 - Ariel Levy & Best Henchmen Ranking

Roger Moore's Cubby Hole

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 79:03


Join us in the Cubby Hole this week as we chat to Ariel Levy, Assistant Director on The Spy Who Loved Me! We also reveal our 007 best henchmen, Martin delves deeply into Portugal, Adam reviews Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom, and Phil shares his favourite bloopers from AVTAK! {Correspondence to: rogermoorescubbyhole@gmail.com}.

The Just Enough Family
Introducing The Just Enough Family

The Just Enough Family

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2021 2:30


Meet the Steinbergs—who have way too much. Hosted by New Yorker staff writer and bestselling author Ariel Levy. Episodes arrive September 9th. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rasslin Podcast
Capitulo 24:02 - Chilenos por el mundo, Dynamite, NXT, Hell in a Cell y más

Rasslin Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 112:44


Revisa el campeonato que ostentó por un par de horas Ariel Levy, un nuevo episodio de Dynamite, la lucha de Román Reigns con Rey Mysterio, lo sucedido en Hell in a Cell y más...

Asian Bitches Down Under
Ariel Levy, Glennon Dolye, and the expensive, exclusive brand of white, skinny feminists

Asian Bitches Down Under

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 64:28


Facebook banning on Australian users accessing and sharing news/informative contents on Facebook! it be impacting the industries and what other platforms you can use. A Sydney girls' high school pricilnpal's sexist and misogynistic announcement shocked the community. White feminism, how far would they go?! ‘Unreasonable behaviour': Media companies slam Facebook's Australian news restrictions https://www.smh.com.au/world/north-america/facebook-to-restrict-australians-sharing-or-viewing-news-content-20210218-p573j8.html Cheltenham Girls High School: Girl's clothes and men's jobs https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/cheltenham-girls-high-school-girls-clothes-and-mens-jobs/ Is Glennon Doyle's new memoir ‘Untamed' inspirational or heavy-handed? https://www.seattletimes.com/entertainment/books/is-glennon-doyles-new-memoir-untamed-inspirational-or-heavy-handed/ Amplify Bookstore https://amplifybookstore.com Self Discovery Workshop For Asian Women hosted by Soy & Spice Lingerie + Unconventional Asians with Johnson Chong self-discovery-workshop Facebook | Asian Bitches Down Under Instagram | Asian Bitches Down Under  Email: asianbdownunder@gmail.com  

Rasslin Podcast
Capitulo 4:2 - Royal Rumble, ROH, CNL y Dynamite

Rasslin Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 97:23


Conversamos todo lo sucedido en el Royal Rumble, además de la victoria de Ariel Levy a Guanchulo, todo lo sucedido en AEW y agregamos Ring of Honor a nuestro reporte habitual.

TIM NEWS
Semana de Chilenos en USA / BolBioElBuleCLuh

TIM NEWS

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 72:17


El resumen luchistico de Raw, NXT y Dynamite. Hablamos un poco de todo, pero felices de ver a Ariel Levy en AEW y a "Katrina Cortez" en NXT.

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind
AEW Dark and Fite TV star Ariel Levy On The Wre-Wind Wrestling Radio Show

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 99:09


Ted, Vinicious, Tyler, Ref Amy, and Ivy talk to returning guest Ariel Levy fresh off of his US PPV debut on Fite TV and back to back appearances on AEW DARK! The whole group discusses the use of legends int he wrestling business and some of the major happenings in Wrestling for the week. Follow/Like The Show on Instagram, Twitter, & FaceBook: @WreWindPodcast Follow Vinicious: @viniciousfights Follow Tyler Peters on Twitter: @DustinTyler86 Follow Ivy on Twitter/IG: @temptresswitch Follow Amy on Twitter: @suckerpunchnews Follow Ariel Levy on IG: @Ariel_Levy Watch Ariel Levy on AEW DARK: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9MCmlX9aJ4 **Follow Safe Wrestling Collective on Twitter and Instagram: @SafeWrestlingCo **Visit the Safe Wrestling Collective Website: www.safewrestlingcollective.org Check out all of our link and our friends' links: https://linktr.ee/WreWindWrestling Music: Fearless First by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song... License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Cinema Cult Network
Episode 23 - Green Inferno / Knock, Knock

Cinema Cult Network

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 116:44


Green Inferno (2013) Directed: by Eli Roth Starring: Lorenza Izzo, Ariel Levy, Daryl Sabara, Kirby Bliss Blanton, Magda Apanowicz, Sky Ferreira, Nicolás Martinez, Aaron Burns Ignacia , Allamand Ramón Llao, Richard Burgi Genre: Horror __________________________ Knock, Knock (2015) Directed: by Eli Roth Starring: Keanu Reeves, Ana de Armas, Lorenza Izzo, Aaron Burns, Ignacia Allamand, Colleen Camp Genre: Drama/Thriller

A Ras De Lona Podcast
Off Topic 11/12/2020: El regreso de CNL y la lucha libre chilena (con Engranaje Jack)

A Ras De Lona Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 66:24


Regreso de CNL junto a Engranaje Jack, traición de Ariel Levy y Jorge Salazar, nuevo campeonato mundial de CNL, actualidad de la lucha en Chile. La entrada Off Topic 11/12/2020: El regreso de CNL y la lucha libre chilena (con Engranaje Jack) aparece primero en A Ras De Lona.

GoBookMart Book Reviews
We Keep the Dead Close: A Murder at Harvard and a Half Century of Silence : By - Becky Cooper - Book Review

GoBookMart Book Reviews

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2020 1:56


We Keep the Dead Close: A Murder at Harvard and a Half Century of Silence : By - Becky Cooper Dive into a "tour de force of investigative reporting" (Ron Chernow): a "searching, atmospheric and ultimately entrancing" (Patrick Radden Keefe) true crime narrative of an unsolved 1969 murder at Harvard and an "exhilarating and seductive" (Ariel Levy) narrative of obsession and love for a girl who dreamt of rising among men. Website : https://gobookmart.com/book-review Follow us : Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/GoBookMart1/ Twitter : https://twitter.com/gobookmart2 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/gobookmart/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/gobookmart-review/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gobookmart-review/support

Rasslin Podcast
Capitulo 24 - Ariel Levy con Roma en CCW, Stardom, Full Gear y SS

Rasslin Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2020 61:31


Este episodio comentamos el debut de ambos luchadores nacionales en la escena independiente estadounidense, además de la final del Goddess of Stardom, todo lo sucedido en AEW Full Gear y como está el camino a Survivor Series.

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind
Wre-Wind Wrestling Radio 11/5/2020 Feat. MLW's Josef Samael and WWE personality Ariel Levy

Will & Ted's Excellent Wrestling WreWind

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 87:17


Ted, Vinicious &Tyler talk to returning friends of the show MLW's Josef Samael and WWE Personality Ariel Levy. We also intoduce our newest WWN family member ACPW's Ivy. Fan Question (From Spooky Dookie) What are some of our favorite Wrestling conspiracy theories and "what if's"? Follow/Like The Show on Instagram, Twitter, & FaceBook: @WreWindPodcast Follow Vinicious: @viniciousfights Follow Tyler Peters on Twitter: @DustinTyler86 Follow Josef Samael on Twitter: @JosefSamael Check out Josef Samael's march: https://www.prowrestlingtees.com/warbeast Follow Ariel Levy on IG: @Ariel_levy Follow Ivy on IG: @acpw_Ivy **Follow Safe Wrestling Collective on Twitter and Instagram: @SafeWrestlingCo **Visit the Safe Wrestling Collective Website: www.safewrestlingcollective.org Check out our new website: https://sites.google.com/view/wrewind... Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbt2... Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1W8O3Ca... Listen on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/wrewindpodcast Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... CCW Wrestling: www.coastalchampionshipwrestlingfl.com Check Out ACPW's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwKJ... Music: Fearless First by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song... License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

MICWEEAH
Ariel Levy EP 5

MICWEEAH

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2020 49:04


Durante el quinto episodio nos sumergimos en los inicios del destacado actor nacional y su superación durante su bajada de peso, ademas de su reciente participación en el Tryout con la empresa de entretenimiento deportivo,WWE. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/micweah/message

The Wheeler Centre
Broadside: Who Gave You Permission? Speaking Up and Speaking Out

The Wheeler Centre

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2019 64:54


Michelle Law, Nayuka Gorrie, Raquel Willis, Ariel Levy and Curtis Sittenfeld at Broadside — Photo: Hannah Koelmeyer When we're described as ‘speaking out', what people really mean is we're ‘speaking out of turn' – and that we do not have the authority to do so. Behaving well means accepting things as they are, and sticking your neck out if you're not a white guy requires the knowledge that you may be seen as difficult, and unlikeable. Many of us have to actively work at claiming the right to occupy space, jobs, or make noise that others simply take as their entitlement. Opposition and rebellion is necessary and invigorating, but bending the world until it breaks can come at a great personal cost, which is divided unevenly amongst us. So how do we blaze a trail without losing our own way? Hosted by Michelle Law as part of Broadside 2019, Nayuka Gorrie, Raquel Willis, Ariel Levy and Curtis Sittenfeld discuss their voices and how their experiences have shaped their paths.Support the Wheeler Centre: https://www.wheelercentre.com/support-us/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

E.W. Conundrum's Troubadours and Raconteurs Podcast
Episode 327 Featuring JQ - Artist, Expat, Musician, Writer and Our Resident Social Critic

E.W. Conundrum's Troubadours and Raconteurs Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2019 59:30


Episode 327 also includes an EW Essay titled "Genuine." We share an article written for the New Yorker by Ariel Levy titled, "Less Bitchy." We have an EW poem called "Vendange."    Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Django Reinhardt, Stephan Grapelli, Bon Iver, Dr. John & Odetta Holmes, Yes, Madison Cunning, Rose Petals, Branford Marsalis and Terrence Blanchard.    Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted In the Endless Mountains of Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.    Tell your Friends and Neighbors..

KPFA - Radio Wolinsky
Encore Podcast: Ariel Levy

KPFA - Radio Wolinsky

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2018 32:33


Ariel Levy, author of the memoir “The Rules Do Not Apply” in conversation with Richard Wolinsky. A paperback edition of the book was published on April 3, 2018. A staff writer for the New Yorker magazine since 2008, Ariel Levy first began her tenure focusing on issues involving sexuality and gender. She's since expanded her reach, with stories about Silvio Berlusconi, Mike Huckabee, the hip drug ayuhuaska and the photographer Catherine Opie. While on assignment in Mongolia, she developed a miscarriage and, within two weeks, saw her relationship go south. Her memoir talks about both events, her career in journalism, and coping with loss. Ariel Levy website Ariel Levy New Yorker articles A slightly shorter version of this interview aired on KPFA's Bookwaves program. The post Encore Podcast: Ariel Levy appeared first on KPFA.

Gaming and Then Some
GaTSPOD Reviews - Green Inferno

Gaming and Then Some

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2015 39:02


Sterling, Quita, and Monique review Blumhouse Tilt's "Green Inferno" starring Lorenza Izzo, Ariel Levy, Daryl Sabara Need headphones?! Check out our sponsor www.tweakedaudio.com enter code "gatspod" at checkout for 33% off your order, free international shipping and a lifetime warranty. Questions or comments? Leave us feedback! Email: podcast@gamingandthensome.com Want to support the show? Donate your account! -->donateyouraccount.com/gatspod Help us make the show better and buy something from our Amazon Wishlist! amzn.com/w/7T3EVUUO7YM7 Donate to the show, every dollar counts! www.gatspod.com/donate Shop with us at Amazon www.gatspod.com/amazon Join our Facebook group --> www.facebook.com/groups/GaTSPOD/ Join our Grand Theft Auto Online crew here--> socialclub.rockstargames.com/crew/ocean_omega Join our Destiny clan here --> www.bungie.net/en/Clan/Forum/185632 Leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher, if you want it read on the show MAKE IT 5 STARS! www.GaTSPod.com Like us - www.Facebook.com/GaTSPod Podcast Twitter www.twitter.com/GaTSPod Sterling's Twitter www.twitter.com/TheWoundGod Charles' Twitter www.twitter.com/HarposHand Quita's Twitter - www.twitter.com/doctoress Monique's Twitter - www.twitter.com/tokenpsycho Follow us on Xbox Live Sterling - The Wound God Charlie - Harpos Hand Quita - Artless Ace Monique - Token Psycho PSN Charles - HarposHand Monique - TokenPsycho