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Best podcasts about Jaclyn Friedman

Latest podcast episodes about Jaclyn Friedman

The Puberty Podcast
Changing Landscape for Sex Ed

The Puberty Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 55:22


This is not a political episode but sex education is a political issue. At the start of a new presidential administration we are already seeing shifts in what can and cannot be taught in schools. Our guest, Jaclyn Friedman, helps clarify the facts and project what the future of sex ed may look like. Show Notes: Join our LESS AWKWARD MEMBERSHIP  Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code AWKWARD to receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers Go to Quince.com/awkward for free shipping and 365-day returns To celebrate Phyla's exciting new launch, we're offering 25% off your first order. Go to phyla.com and enter the code "puberty" at checkout. Order our book This Is So Awkward Check out all our speaking and curriculum at www.lessawkward.com and our super comfy products at www.myoomla.com To bring us to your school or community email operations@lessawkward.com To submit listener questions email podcast@lessawkward.com Watch the full episode on Youtube! Produced by Peoples Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Puberty Podcast
Sex Ed Standards Across the US

The Puberty Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 41:22


There's no federally mandated standard for sex education – in fact, there aren't consistently enforced standards across states or even local school districts. Jaclyn Friedman, founder of Educate US, joins us to un-complicate this web of loose and widely-varying recommendations, ultimately explaining where parents and educators alike go from here.Show Notes:Jaclyn Friedmanhttps://educateusaction.org/resources/https://siecus.org/state-profiles/Order our book This Is So AwkwardCheck out all of our speaking and consulting work at www.Orderofmagnitude.co and all our super comfy products at www.myOOMLA.comTo bring us to your school or community email communications@orderofmagnitude.coTo submit listener questions email thepubertypodcast@gmail.comWatch the full episode on Youtube!Produced by Peoples MediaTranscript Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Under the Radar with Callie Crossley
Advocates believe Massachusetts may finally set sex education standards

Under the Radar with Callie Crossley

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2023 35:12


For 12 years, sex education advocates in Massachusetts have been pushing for a comprehensive bill to become law. But for 12 years, that proposal has floundered. The Healthy Youth Act would standardize sex education in schools that choose to participate. Right now, sex education is “completely unregulated” in Massachusetts, said Jaclyn Friedman, chair of the Healthy Youth Act Coalition. “In some school districts, they have policy on the books. Worcester and Boston provide, for example, great sex education that actually will be perfectly in line with the Healthy Youth Act when it passes,” Friedman told Under the Radar. “But in many communities, there is nothing on the books at all. And so, you might get no sex and relationships education. You might get really harmful propaganda that teaches shame about girls and sexuality, LGBTQ students and sexuality. You might get misinformation, or you might get good sex education. It's completely the luck of the draw.” But now supporters think the bill could pass in coming months — especially with Gov. Maura Healey in office. “We have a strong supporter in Healey's administration,” said Jennifer Hart, vice president of education, learning and engagement at Planned Parenthood League of Massachusetts. “Massachusetts is a trailblazer in all of these areas and now in a post-Roe landscape, we really need to double down on making sure that our young people have all the information that they need to be able to delay sex, to decrease unintended pregnancy, to improve their own health overall.” Hart said all the pieces of the puzzle are coming together, and that she is optimistic Massachusetts will soon implement sex ed standards. Even if the bill stalls, change may be on the horizon. Healey has recently proposed new updates to Massachusetts' health education framework that could bypass the state Legislature. The draft framework will be reviewed by the Massachusetts Board of Elementary and Secondary Education on June 27. If the draft is approved to be sent out for comment, the public will have 60 days to weigh in. GUESTS Jennifer Hart, vice president of education, learning and engagement at Planned Parenthood League of Massachusetts Jaclyn Friedman, chair of the Healthy Youth Act Coalition and executive director of Educate Us, a sex education advocacy organization

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)
How to Help Transform U.S. Sex Education (& Why It's So Important) with Jaclyn Friedman

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2022 39:14


For the 96th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Jaclyn Friedman, founder and executive director of EducateUS: SIECUS In Action, to talk about sex ed in the U.S. — and why it's vital that we do better.  Jaclyn is a long-time activist. She's also the author of Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All and What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety. In this episode, Jaclyn shares her mission to transform public school sex education in the United States and how we can do that via voting and running for office on the school board level, as so much of this issue is currently decided locally. We also cover the impact of good sex ed, how the culture wars are drawing attention to work in this space, the insidious, politically co=oped language of "grooming" and how it affects childhood sexual assault survivors, and more. For more Jaclyn Friedman: Check out the EducateUS: SIECUS In Action website educateusaction.org Check out Jaclyn's website jaclynfriedman.com Follow Jaclyn on Twitter @jaclynf Follow Jaclyn on Instagram @jaclynfable ***BUY A PRO-ABORTION SHIRT TO HELP SUPPORT OUR "ABORTION IN POST-ROE AMERICA" REPORTING TRIP (use code PRIVATE to save 10%): https://www.bonfire.com/store/private-parts-unknown/ Here's a playlist of our previous abortion-related episodes, including the "Men Have Abortions Too" series: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BFDkcQYzdfq5YEV5buzzO?si=19a1d68b109845dd Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Go to RexMD.com/private today to get started with a sample pack prescription of generic Viagra. All orders come with FREE 2-day shipping. Rex MD – the authority in men's telehealth. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak and Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram and Twitter.

So Curious!
Sex Ed: In Our Classrooms, Communities and Culture

So Curious!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 32:38


On this episode, Kirstin and Bey talk with writer and speaker Jaclyn Friedman about her book, "Yes Means Yes" and how the shift in sexual culture over the past 10 years has happened. Later in this episode, health educator Janielle Bryan breaks down what sex ed curriculums look like today and her project researching what sex means to marginalized communities. Links for this episode: Learn more about https://www.janiellebryan.com/ (Janielle Bryan) Learn more about https://www.jaclynfriedman.com/ (Jaclyn Friedman) Read https://beyond.fi.edu/podcasts/transcript-sex-ed/ (episode transcript)

Spilling Chai
S4 E8: The Credibility Gap: Why Don't We Believe Women? with Jaclyn Friedman

Spilling Chai

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 41:06


Women don't just face a pain gap when it comes to their health but we also have to deal with a “credibility gap.” In Anushay's research, she finds that women are not believed about their bodies period— whether we're in pain or if we've been assaulted or anything else. We are not believed. In this episode, Anushay speaks with author, Jaclyn Friedman about the crisis of not believing women, having hope, and why sex education in America is more crucial than ever.

Disobedient Femmes
Jaclyn Friedman: Believe Me

Disobedient Femmes

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 27:36


What if we believed women? Suzanne LaGrande interviews writer Jaclyn Friedman, co-author of Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change The World. In this episode of Disobedient Femmes, Friedman discusses how women speaking up to publicly expose behavior that was previously only whispered about -- is both changing our culture and also sparking a backlash. The book draws on the contributions of many important voices in feminism today and explores how trusting women is the critical foundation for future progress.For more interviews, kickass women writers, artists, healers, and activists, subscribe to the Disobedient Femmes Podcast at the link below.Join me on Fridays at the Healing Salon where I free workshops in craft magic and other healing arts https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehealingsalon (https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehealingsalon).For even more about me, as well as strange, mostly true stories and magic spells visit me at http://suzannelagrande.com/ (suzannelagrande.com) Thanks so much for listening!★☆★ CONNECT WITH ME ★☆★Website ➜ https://www.suzannelagrande.com/ (https://www.suzannelagrande.com/)Podcast ➜https://www.shamansnotebook.com/ (https://www.shamansnotebook.com/) Facebook ➜ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehealingsalon (https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehealingsalon)Instagram ➜https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_lagrande/ (https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_lagrande/)Pinterest ➜ https://www.pinterest.com/suzannelagrande/ (https://www.pinterest.com/suzannelagrande/)Original theme music composed by Edward Givens. For more about his work, visit: https://edwardgivens.bandcamp.com/ (https://edwardgivens.bandcamp.com/) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.disobedientfemmes.com

Bawdy Storytelling
Episode 170 ’Topped by Science’ (Jaclyn Friedman)

Bawdy Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2021 31:47


Do you require scientific validation of your desire? Author, Speaker, Podcaster and Consent Advocate Jaclyn Friedman wants to study her orgasm, but she’s getting first date jitters. What is sexual concordance, and why is it so difficult for this overachiever to get it up when someone is studying their sex data? Plus Bawdy’s musical muse, Rachel Lark, performs a song she wrote especially for our Nerdgasm show. Lube up, cause knowledge has never been so arousing! #OrgasmDenial #IcebergClit #Fencesitter Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large About the storyteller:   Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, educator and activist, and creator of four books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (which was one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009), What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, and her latest, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World.  Her podcast, also called Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Learn more at https://www.jaclynfriedman.com/ Song: ‘Flowers Fuck’ (Rachel Lark) Learn more about her work at https://www.rachellark.com/ Become a member of Lark’s Patreon at  https://www.patreon.com/rachellark   Episode Links Our next Bawdy Livestream will be this Saturday, April 17th at 7 PM PST. This time, our show features GirlyJuice blogger/Dildork’s podcast host Kate Sloan, standup comedian Jimmy Sorrentino, Award-winning storyteller Janelle Codianni and all new songs by Bawdy’s musical sidekick Jefferson Bergey. Bawdy’s live shows bring you phenomenal #stories #community #connection #DanceParty #Prizes and more Livestream Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyAprilLS RSVP on Facebook at https://fb.me/e/12ibc8TrG & on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/events/985418   Then, Share the ticket link on Twitter, Facebook, Fetlife and Instagram. Social media is restricting everything that relates to seggsexual pleasure these days (YES, they will shut us down if we spell it correctly, eeek). We need your help to keep doing what we do, so please spread the word about our livestreams!   Patreon: Wanna be connected to other Bawdy fans, and get great rewards? Our Patreon have brand new patron tiers like the #BPC, the Confidante, the Concierge & more. Our Hookup ($10/month) & up supporters receive free tickets to special events, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast & more. Patreon has become our Everything during COVID; A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time? While other entertainment is fading out, Patreon (and you) can help us continue to produce the the podcast & the livestreams until we can get back to live shows. 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Whether you want a story to turn you on or to wind you down for better sleep, Dipsea helps you get in touch with yourself for some extra sweet dreams.  And for listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to https://www.dipseastories.com/ and use the promo code DIXIE.  Dipsea release new stories every week, so there’s always more to explore - no matter who you’re into or what turns you on.  Download the app right now, and get a 30 day free trial when you go to https://www.dipseastories.com/Dixie   Uberlube: Are you making plans for all the sex, when the world returns?  I hear so many people talk about how we’re gonna enter the Roaring 20’s when it’s safe to be out there again. If you’re starting to think about a rich, active sex life, you need Uberlube. 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There’s also (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, lube & more. Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Ready to tell your story, and change your life? I’m offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to help you find your story. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling?  No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate with calmness & clarity. Email me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com for more info - we can book a short discovery call, I’m happy to answer any questions.   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. 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The Feminist Bar Podcast
Criminal Fantasies & Feminist Kinks.

The Feminist Bar Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 18:29


In this episode I share a drink with Anita Holland,  gender specialist from Zambia to talk about a podcast episode titled 'Feminists with Rape Fantasies' by Jaclyn Friedman. We share our thoughts on problematic fantasies as an escape from daily reality. What is appropriate and where do we draw the line ?

Radicals & Revolutionaries Lab

This week's radical is Jaclyn Friedman, a feminist activist and writer, whose mantra of "yes means yes" has set the standard for how campuses handle sexual assault. She's written and contributed to a number of books, including Unscrewed, Yes Means Yes, What You Really Really Want, and Believe Me. She also hosts the acclaimed sex podcast Unscrewed.We dive into Jaclyn's path from attending temple under the first woman rabbi through to discovering a passion for feminism and justice, her time with IMPACT, how she kept busy during election season, and so much more.Some Questions I Ask:Tell us about your latest projects? (1:15)Where did your journey to feminism begin? (14:11)Did you grow up in a progressive household? (18:17)How did you become involved with IMPACT? (22:01)What did teaching self-defence to gang-affected youth entail? (26:11)Which came first: Unscrewed the book, or Unscrewed the podcast? (38:37)What defines the era of fauxpowerment? (41:52)In This Episode, You Will Learn:Why women being treated as legitimate and credible is the next big push (3:17)How the pandemic forced a change of plans for Jaclyn (9:17)The impact of growing up around the first woman ordained as a Rabbi in the modern age (16:40)How growing up an outsider instilled a deep sense of empathy and justice in Jaclyn (19:12)How learning to say “no” gave Jaclyn a desire to learn how to say “yes” (24:29)About sexual liberation and pleasure activism, and why freedom from violence is essential to exploring pleasure (32:02)The questions that led to Jaclyn’s second book, What You Really Really Want (37:05)What Jaclyn wants to see in sex education policies (46:13)ResourcesListen to UnscrewedBuy Jaclyn's BooksJaclyn's TwitterJaclyn's InstagramFind books by your favorite R&R Lab guests—all in one place! Check out the Continuum Bookshop today, powered by Bookshop.Org.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/rrlab. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Between The Pages
8. Solo Spotlight on the State of Sex Ed

Between The Pages

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 27:56


It's just Caitlin on the mic today, and she gives a little state of the union on the state of sex ed in the U.S. We talk about little joys, sexuality news, and some not-great numbers when it comes to sex ed in schools. Caitlin also answers some listener questions on how to have a career in sex education and sex educators to follow on Instagram. Show NotesGuttmacher Institute data on adolescents and sexual health in the U.S.Cameron Glover's resources for sex educators Jaclyn Friedman's podcast UnscrewedSex Educators To Follow@whatsmybodydoing@thecameronglover@sexpositive_families@sassy_latte@theminoritysexreport@urge_org@siecus@amazeorg

Body Kindness
#159 - Bodies on the Ballot with Jaclyn Friedman, author and activist

Body Kindness

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 54:19


What does your body liberation have to do with voting this year? Everything. Everything is on the line this election, up and down the ballot. Jaclyn Friedman, author of Unscrewed, helps me link body kindness to climate change, economic justice, healthcare, and more. Don’t settle for fauxpowerment. In this lively episode chat, Jaclyn shares many ways anyone can get fired up to vote or help others get fired up... with joy and connection. Follow her 3 steps to positive well-being this election season: Look after yourself and make sure you’re safe and secure. Look out for each other. (Your post-it people) Look for opportunities for fun. And also... if you can do more, do it. Register to vote. Fill out your mail in ballot. Get it in the drop off box ASAP. Check in on friends. Reach out to people you know with texts, emails, or postcards. Offer to help. --- Links Mentioned: How to contact your U.S. Senator Learn about progressive candidates Jaclyn recommends @jaclynf on Twitter - her DMs are open if you have any questions about getting out the vote. Body Kindness Episode 142 – Believe Me: Why trusting women is essential for collective well-being with Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti Body Kindness Episode 57: Get ‘Unscrewed’ in this #MeToo world with Jaclyn Friedman activist and author of Unscrewed --- About Jaclyn Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, educator and activist, and creator of four books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009), What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, and her latest, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. Her podcast, also called Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Podcast | Patreon --- Get the Body Kindness book It's available wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Read reviews on Amazon and pick up your copy today! Order signed copies and bulk discounts here! --- Donate to support the show Thanks to our generous supporters! We're working toward our goal to fund the full season. Can you donate? Please visit our Go Fund Me page. --- Get started with Body Kindness Sign up to get started for free and stay up to date on the latest offerings --- Become a client Check out BodyKindnessBook.com/breakthrough for the latest groups and individual support sessions --- Subscribe to the podcastWe're on iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify and iHeartRadio. Enjoy the show? Please rate it on iTunes! Have a show idea or guest recommendation? E-mail podcast@bodykindnessbook.com to get in touch. --- Join the Facebook groupContinue the episode conversations with the hosts, guests, and fellow listeners on the Body Kindness Facebook group. See you there! Nothing in this podcast is meant to provide medical diagnosis, treatment, cure, or prevent any disease or condition. Individuals should consult a qualified healthcare provider for medical advice and answers to personal health questions.

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
300: Jaclyn Friedman on believing women

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2020 56:15


tl;dr Jaclyn Friedman on believing women, what happens when we disclose our trauma, and why our PERCEPTION of who is a victim impacts how we view all victims. We're talking about her new book with Jessica Valenti, "Believe Me". Explore More Summit is happening NEXT WEEK. Grab your free ticket by registering today for this free, entirely online conference that happens April 20-29th featuring 28 delicious, timely, intimate talks. Head to exploremoresummit.com now! Finally, Patrons who support at $3 and above, this week you get to hear a bonus chat between Jaclyn Friedman and I on Tina Horn's fantastic essay speaking to why pleasure should not be the measure for sex work and porn performers. It's SOOOO good and super important for folks who truly want to support those in the field. Hear it at patreon.com/sgrpodcast. I love every time I get to be in conversation with Jaclyn, and this was no different. We explore the difference between what it means to believe women versus what it means to believe ALL women, and why that distinction is important. We dive into what it means that women, femmes, and feminized folks often have a different set of memories than cis men. The ways survivors are retraumatized by courts, lawyers, and our "justice" system. So much of "Believe Me" demonstrates the ways we would all move closer to liberation if we centered Black women and trans women, and we explore all the ways so many of us are only trusted if we disclose the gory details of our trauma but in doing so we are also seen as discredited and no longer experts in anything except our trauma. Jaclyn shares what social researchers have long demonstrated: that collectively we not only hold women to much higher standards, but as a woman's credibility goes up, we like her less for it and actively punish her for that growing credibility. So what can we do about it? Where do we go? It's such an important discussion about a very important book, and I hope you'll get yourself a copy. Be sure to send in your questions! I would love to hear from you. Use the contact form at dawnserra.com. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About Jaclyn Friedman: Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, educator and activist, and creator of four books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009), What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, and her latest, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. Her podcast, also called Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. As an undergraduate, Jaclyn thought she was too smart to become a victim of sexual assault – until another student proved her wrong. That experience eventually led her to become a student and instructor of IMPACT safety training. At IMPACT, she helped bring safety skills to the communities which most need them, including gang-involved high school students and women transitioning out of abusive relationships. Friedman’s work has popularized the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent that is quickly becoming law on many US campuses. In her book, Unscrewed, she calls on the movement for women’s sexual liberation to move past individualistic “empowerment” messages (for which she coined the term “fauxpowerment”) to focus on collectively transforming the systems and institutions invested in keeping women sexually servile. Kirkus called it “a potent, convincing manifesto,” and Kate Tuttle, president of the National Book Critics Circle, called it “the book we need right now.” Friedman is a popular speaker on campuses and at conferences across the US and beyond. She has been a guest on the Today Show, Nightline, PBS News Hour, Call Your Girlfriend, and numerous other audio and TV shows, and her commentary has appeared in outlets including The New York Times, Vox, Refinery 29, The Washington Post, Glamour, and The Guardian. Friedman is a founder and the former executive director of Women, Action & the Media, where she led the successful #FBrape campaign to apply Facebook’s hate-speech ban to content that promotes gender-based violence. More recently, she has been active in the Jews Against ICE movement, with whom she was arrested at a protest this summer.  Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Stream it on Spotify Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous) Episode Transcript Visit dawnserra.com/ep300 for the transcript

Commonwealth Club of California Podcast
Believing Women: Jessica Valenti and Jaclyn Friedman

Commonwealth Club of California Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2020 69:28


With the nomination of Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh and the broader #MeToo movement, the political slogan “believe women” has become a rallying cry for the era. First used as a call to end false accusations of deception against women, agenda-setting feminist editors Jessica Valenti and Jaclyn Friedman go beyond the slogan with their new anthology to ask and answer the crucial question: What would happen if we didn't just believe women but acted as though they matter? Building on the success of the #MeToo movement's demand for accountability—not just discouraging actions generally but naming names—Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World is part exposé on misogyny in our culture and part outline for how trusting women creates the foundation for future progress. With essays spanning a call to action by Representative Ayanna Pressley (D–MA) and an interview with #TimesUp activist and Emmy award winner Tatiana Maslany, Valenti and Friedman bring together a powerful group of women whose diverse experiences and thoughtful solutions give us a vision of what a better future could look like. Join Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti at INFORUM this February for an honest discussion on how we might make tomorrow a brighter day in the fight for women's empowerment. ** This Podcast Contains Explicit Language ** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Commonwealth Club of California Podcast
Believing Women: Jessica Valenti and Jaclyn Friedman

Commonwealth Club of California Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2020


SPEAKERS Jessica Valenti Columnist, Medium; Founder, Feministing.com; Co-Author, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World Jaclyn Friedman Founder and Former Executive Editor, Women, Action and the Media; Podcaster, “Unscrewed”; Co-Author, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World Meena Harris Founder and CEO, Phenomenal Woman Action Campaign—Moderator This program was recorded in front of a live audience at The Commonwealth Club of California in San Francisco on February 11th, 2020. ** This Podcast Contains Explicit Language **

Body Kindness
#142 - Believe Me: Why trusting women is essential for collective well-being with Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti

Body Kindness

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 55:38


I'm joined by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti editors of a new anthology Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. We discuss why we need a book about believing women’s experiences are as credible and reliable as men. Believing women starts with believing ourselves and caring for our personal well-being. Samantha Irby contributes an essay about her chronic illness which you can read on Elle.  Anuradha Bhagwati, author of the memoir Unbecoming, writes about the disbelief of her disability from countless others. Soraya Chemaly, author of Rage Becomes Her, writes about the lack of C-level women in technology jobs and how it leaves us more vulnerable to online harassment. --- About JaclynJaclyn Friedman is an educator, activist, and the force behind four hit books: Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009), What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power & How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, and the forthcoming anthology Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. Her podcast, also called Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the best sex podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Friedman is a popular speaker on campuses and at conferences across the US and beyond. She has been a guest on the Today Show, Nightline, PBS News Hour, Call Your Girlfriend, and numerous other audio and TV shows, and her commentary has appeared in outlets including The New York Times, Vox, Refinery 29, The Washington Post, Glamour, and The Guardian. Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Podcast About JessicaJessica Valenti - called one of the Top 100 Inspiring Women in the world - is a columnist for Medium and a feminist author. Her most recent book, Sex Object: A Memoir, was a New York Times bestseller. In 2004, Jessica founded the award winning blog Feministing.com, which Columbia Journalism Review called “head and shoulders above almost any writing on women’s issues in mainstream media.” Jessica’s articles have topped the most-read lists at The New York Times, The Atlantic, the Guardian, and The Washington Post. She's also written for Salon, Bitch, Ms. Magazine and The Toast. Jessica has been interviewed on The Colbert Report, profiled in The New York Times magazine, and is a widely-sought after speaker. Website | Instagram | Twitter --- Get the Body Kindness book It's available wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Read reviews on Amazon and pick up your copy today! Order signed copies and bulk discounts here! --- Donate to support the show Thanks to our generous supporters! We're working toward our goal to fund the full season. Can you donate? Please visit our Go Fund Me page. --- Get started with Body Kindness Sign up to get started for free and stay up to date on the latest offerings --- Become a client Check out BodyKindnessBook.com/breakthrough for the latest groups and individual support sessions --- Subscribe to the podcastWe're on iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify and iHeartRadio. Enjoy the show? Please rate it on iTunes! Have a show idea or guest recommendation? E-mail podcast@bodykindnessbook.com to get in touch. --- Join the Facebook groupContinue the episode conversations with the hosts, guests, and fellow listeners on the Body Kindness Facebook group. See you there! Nothing in this podcast is meant to provide medical diagnosis, treatment, cure, or prevent any disease or condition. Individuals should consult a qualified healthcare provider for medical advice and answers to personal health questions.

MEJOR QUE EL SEXO
#18 “Sí es sí”, placer y consentimiento según Jaclyn Friedman.

MEJOR QUE EL SEXO

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2019 22:03


Jaclyn Friedman es escritora y se describe a sí misma como una feminista trouble-maker (alborotadora), activista del placer, y defensora de la sexualidad femenina segura y libre de vergüenza, culpa o miedo. Sus libros más conocidos son Yes means Yes (Sí es sí), Unscrewed (imposible de traducir) y What you really really want – the smart girl shame-free guide for sex and safety (Lo que realmente quieres, la guía de sexo seguro libre de culpa para la chica lista). Su podcast, Unscrewed, habla de las muchas maneras en las que nuestra cultura sexual está jodida y cómo podemos arreglarla. Todo sobre Jaclyn https://www.jaclynfriedman.com

MEJOR QUE EL SEXO
#18 “Sí es sí”, placer y consentimiento según Jaclyn Friedman.

MEJOR QUE EL SEXO

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2019 22:03


Jaclyn Friedman es escritora y se describe a sí misma como una feminista trouble-maker (alborotadora), activista del placer, y defensora de la sexualidad femenina segura y libre de vergüenza, culpa o miedo. Sus libros más conocidos son Yes means Yes (Sí es sí), Unscrewed (imposible de traducir) y What you really really want – the smart girl shame-free guide for sex and safety (Lo que realmente quieres, la guía de sexo seguro libre de culpa para la chica lista). Su podcast, Unscrewed, habla de las muchas maneras en las que nuestra cultura sexual está jodida y cómo podemos arreglarla. Todo sobre Jaclyn https://www.jaclynfriedman.com

When Feminists Rule the World
There Will be Peace in the Middle East

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 34:58


There is only one surefire way to create lasting peace: include women in the process. This week host Martha Chaves is talking to British-Syrian humanitarian, doctor and founder of CanDo, Rola Hallam, and Yemeni journalist and executive director of Women4Yemen, Kawkab Althaibani, about fighting for peace and equality in conflict. You better believe that when feminists rule the world—there will be peace in the Middle East. When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com

When Feminists Rule the World
They Will Also Save The Planet

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2019 28:12


The world is on fire. Who’s going to put it out? This week host Martha Chaves is talking to seventeen year-old climate striker and Youth for Climate Luxembourg organizer, Selma Vincent, alongside climate justice advocate, communicator and low-key pop icon, Anjali Appadurai, about the global youth climate movement. There is no climate justice without gender justice. When feminists rule the world – they will also save the planet.When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com

When Feminists Rule the World
Leaders Will Look Like Us

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2019 25:40


We’re tired of white male majorities. This week host Martha Chaves is getting real with poet, playwright and activist, Shailja Patel, and Mi'kmaq lawyer, professor, and activist, Pamela Palmater, about colonialism, violence, patriarchy, and how they all intersect. Representation matters, it’s time to decolonize power. Here’s how we do it. When feminists rule the world – leaders will look like all of us.  When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com

When Feminists Rule the World
There Will be No Wall

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 28:42


Migration is a human right. Clearly some people need a reminder. This week host Martha Chaves is talking to Honduran sociologist and feminist activist, Neesa Medina, and acclaimed American writer and journalist, Alice Driver, about the migration crisis at the US-Mexico border, and the root causes that force so many to leave their homes. When feminists rule the world — there will be no wall.When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com

When Feminists Rule the World
They Will Also Rule Their Bodies

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2019 34:54


Women’s bodies are not battlefields. This week host Martha Chaves is talking to Mexican feminist activist and executive director of Balance, Oriana López Uribe, and American writer, activist and host of the “Unscrewed” podcast, Jaclyn Friedman, about #MeToo, reproductive rights, and putting a middle finger up to patriarchy. When feminists rule the world – they will also rule their bodies.When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com

When Feminists Rule the World
When Feminists Rule the World - Coming Soon

When Feminists Rule the World

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2019 1:37


Subscribe to our podcast on social media to learn about new episode releases, guests, behind the scenes info, and more!When Feminists Rule Their World Release Schedule:November 20 – They Will Also Rule Their Bodies with Jaclyn Friedman (@jaclynf) and Oriana López UribeNovember 27 – There Will Be No Wall with Alice Driver (@alice__driver) and Neesa MadinaDecember 4 – Leaders Will Look Like Us with Pamela Palmater (@pam_palmater) and Shailja Patel (@shailjapatel)December 11 – They Will Also Save the Planet with Selma Vincent (@YRCLuxembourg) and Anjali Appadurai (@anjaliapp)December 18 – There Will Be Peace in the Middle East with Dr. Rola Hallam (@CanDoAction) and Kawkab Althaibani (@Kawkab)----Follow us on social:Facebook: @FeministsRuleTheWorldTwitter & Instagram: @FemRuleWorldPodwww.feministsruletheworld.com 

Popaganda
Popaganda: Let's Talk About (Talking About) Sex

Popaganda

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2019 58:46


Popaganda’s HEAT season marches on this week—and walks right into the bedroom. In the second episode, host Carmen Rios talks to "Wordslut" author Amanda Montell, sex educator and former rape crisis counselor Mala Munoz, Playboy features editor Anita Little and Yes Means Yes co-editor and What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety author Jaclyn Friedman about what it will take for us to rewrite the script on sex and instigate a feminist sexual revolution. Along the way, she looks back on her own feminist awakening and coming-of-sluttiness—and realizes just how necessary sexual liberation is to smashing the patriarchy.

The BadChristian Podcast
#464 Activist Jaclyn Friedman Says Voting Can Improve Sex Ed

The BadChristian Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2019 95:19


Last time we had our friend Jaclyn Friedman, author of "Yes Means Yes" and host of "Unscrewed," on the show, she helped us update our thinking on sex and purity culture. This time she gives Matt a run for his money on the topic of voting when we get into sex ed and concentration camp border patrols.   Links & Sponsors: BadChristian.com thebcclub.com Emery Tour: emerymusic.com Join Emeryland: emerymusic.com Quip: getquip.com/BADCHRISTIAN Tooth & Nail: "A Voice in the Violence" by Wolves at the Gate, bundles available at wolvesatthegate.merchnow.com

Call Your Girlfriend
Adult Sex Ed

Call Your Girlfriend

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2019 44:21


Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about sex and still haven’t learned, even though you’re an adult now. Our expert panel includes Myisha Battle and Jaclyn Friedman. You’ve got sex questions, and they have answers! Full NSFW show notes + resources at callyourgirlfriend.com. Kinda goes without saying, but you probably don't want to listen to this one with young kids around.

The Sexually Liberated Woman
42. Consent Is Actually Sexy

The Sexually Liberated Woman

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 50:37


Ev’Yan sits down with Jaclyn Friedman, author of Yes Means Yes, to talk all about consent. They explore affirmative consent as a moral philosophy, what it looks like to communicate honestly with sexual partners about what you want, and how to make consent talk sexy.Other things discussed: The difference between enthusiastic consent and affirmative consent; how to bring sexiness and playfulness to boundary setting; and what affirmative consent looks like in practice.Click here for show notes + a transcript of this episodeTo revisit old episodes and keep the TSLW thriving, go to sexuallyliberatedwoman.com.Find more about Ev'Yan and her work at evyanwhitney.com. Follow her on Instagram: @evyan.whitney.. . .CREDITSMusic: Otis MacDonald and Comfort FitEditing help: Samantha RidellCover photo: Celeste NocheDesign: Bianca Ng See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

OBSCENE
Ask About Abortion: The Importance of Discussing Abortion in Public Spaces and on Film & TV.

OBSCENE

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2019 66:02


On Episode 11 of Obscene, Host Maya Contreras interviews Reproductive Justice Advocate, Renee Bracey Sherman on the importance of Abortion Storytelling, Abortion Funds, and Abortion Access. "Renee Bracey Sherman is a Chicago-born, Midwest-raised activist, writer and reproductive justice activist committed to the visibility and representation of people who have had abortions in media and pop culture. She is among the most vital voices in the United States elevating the conversation about abortion experiences, and using creative and innovative strategies to shift the conversation centering people of color and other marginalized identities. Her work is so influential that the right-wing website Twitchy recognizes her as “the queen of all abortions”.She has trained hundreds of abortion storytellers in the United States and around the world, including elected officials. Renee developed and designed a curriculum for storyteller support and training based on her extensive interviews with abortion storytellers. In 2014, she published the results and recommendations from these interviews in two 20-page guides, Saying Abortion Aloud, which are used and referenced across the reproductive health, rights, and justice field. In 2015, Renee partnered with media critic and author Anita Sarkeesian and anti-rape activist and author Jaclyn Friedman to co-author Speak Up & Stay Safe(r), a multilingual digital guide on handling online harassment.Renee has written for New York Times, the Guardian, EBONY Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Salon, Broadly, Rewire, Bustle, Glamour, and many more. Currently, Renee serves as the Senior Public Affairs Manager at the National Network of Abortion Funds where is the creator of We Testify, the only national and intersectional leadership program for people who’ve had abortions in the United States, created by and for people who’ve had abortions, centering race, class, and gender identity."  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

en(gender)ed
Episode 45: Nicole Perry on being a feminist therapist

en(gender)ed

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2019 51:50


On this episode of engendered, our guest is Nicole Perry, a Registered psychologist with a practice in Edmonton, Canada.  For the past ten years, she has worked with survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault and uses an approach called Somatic Experiencing, a body-based therapy, for healing trauma.  She is known for her work as a “feminist counselor” and helps her clients work on setting boundaries, seeing problems within their context and making healthier decisions in their lives. We speak with Nicole about how her feminist, collaborative approach is used to help both her survivor and non-survivor clients. During our conversation, we talked about these additional resources: Tom Digby's book, Love and War:  How Militarism Shapes Sexuality and Romance and our conversation with Tom Peter Levine's book, Healing Trauma about his work on somatic experiencing Jaclyn Friedman's book, What You Really Really Want:  The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety Video of women apologizing to men --- Thanks for tuning in to the en(gender)ed podcast! Be sure to check out our en(gender)ed site and follow our blog on Medium. Consider donating because your support is what makes this work sustainable. Please also connect with us on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Don't forget to subscribe to the show!

The Stacks
Ep. 55 The Art of Performance with Gabrielle Civil

The Stacks

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2019 67:46


Today we have performance artist, author, poet, and professor Gabrielle Civil on the podcast to discuss the creative process, books that bite, overachieving Black girls, and books in translation. We spend time discussing Performance Memoir as a genre and we hear about Gabrielle's books Swallow the Fish and Experiments in Joy. Purchase Gabrielle's Books on IndieBound or Amazon. Everything we talk about on today's episode can be found below in the show notes. The Stacks participates in affiliate programs, and shopping through the links below helps support the show, at no cost to you. Books Swallow the Fish by Gabrielle CivilExperiments in Joy by Gabrielle CivilBecoming by Michelle Obama (Audiobook)Thick by Tressie McMillan CottomOld in Art Schoolby Nell PainterRita DoveRigoberto Gonzales Janet MockI'm So Fine by Khadijah Queens Zetta ElliottNtozake ShangeNaomi Long MadgettWhen Fox is a Thousand by Larissa LaiSalt Fish Girl by Larissa LaiThe Island of Eternal Love by Daina ChavianoChildren of Blood and Bone by Tomi AdeyemiChildren of Vengeance and Virtue by Tomi AdeyemiBlack Leopard Red Wolf by Marlon JamesNalo HopkinsonTananarive DueOctavia E. ButlerA Wish After Midnight by Zetta ElliotKindred by Octavia E. ButlerHarriet JacobsSphinx by Anne GarrétaThe Bridge of Beyond by Simon Schwarz-BartMaud Martha by Gwendolyn BrooksMy Name is Asher Lev by Chaim PotockJane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte War and Peace by Leo TolstoyA Brief History of Seven Killings by Marlon JamesMarcel ProustOn the Come Up by Angie ThomasColor Theory edited by Maya Gomez and Vreni Michelini-CastilloNo Archive Will Restore You by Julietta SinghSo You Want to be a Wizard by Diane DuaneWritten on the Body by Jeannette WintersonFreshwater by Akwaeke EmeziJhumpa LahiriHow to Complete and Survive A Doctoral Dissertation by David SternbergMy Body, The Buddhist by Deborah HayEnglish is Broken Here by Coco FuscoA Field Guide for Female Interrogators by Coco FuscoOut of Order, Out of Sight by Adrian PiperDirty River by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinhai Care Work by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-SamarasinhaiIf Beale Street Could Talk by James BaldwinSlow Holler Tarot DeckModern Tarot by Michelle TeaThe Creative Tarot by Jessa CrispinThe Magicians by Lev GrossmanLes Miserables by Victor HugoGerminal by Emilé ZolaOld Possum's Book of Practical Cats by T. S. ElliottThe Return of the Native by Thomas HardyMadame Bouvary by Gustave FlaubertThe Woman Lit by Fireflies by Jim HarrisonYes Means Yes by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica ValentiPinocchio by Carlo CollodiDumbo by RH DisneyWild Beauty by Ntozake ShangeThe Elements of Style by William Strunken Jr. and E. B. White Everything Else Ask the Stacks-- askingthestacks@gmail.com Join the Stacks Pack Jack Jones Literary Arts Us (Jordan Peele, 2019) Anna Martine Whitehead The Jam Handy The Accomplices Publishing Nightboat Press Coffee House Press Graywolf Press  Dorothy Project Dalkey Archives Press Small Press Distribution #babygotbacklist on Instagram (@allisonreadsDC) Wolfman Books McNally Jackson Association of Writers & Writing Programs (AWP) Conference Les Miserables (Claude-Michel Schönberg,1980) The Pantages Cats (Andrew Lloyd Webber, 1982) Connect with Gabrielle's: Gabrielle's Facebook | Gabrielle's Website Connect with The Stacks: Instagram | The Stacks Website | Facebook | Twitter | Subscribe | Patreon | Goodreads | Traci's Instagram To contribute to The Stacks, join The Stacks Pack, and get exclusive perks, check out our Patreon page. We are beyond grateful for anything you're able to give to support the production of this show. If you prefer to do a one time contribution go to paypal.me/thestackspod. Sponsors Audible- to get your FREE audiobook download and FREE 30 day trial go to audibletrial.com/thestacks. The Stacks participates in affiliate programs. We receive a small commission when...

Welcome To My Vagina
Desperately Seeking Sex ED

Welcome To My Vagina

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2018 35:55


In this episode Jessy and Rebekah thank Cole and Michael for being the first two emailers! We are so excited to hear from you so please, keep in touch with us!  Spoiler alert: on average we fucking suck at providing sex education. But listen to find out details because some of this will blow your mind.  Check out GLESN, an amazing organization founded in 1990 by a group of teachers who wanted to “improve an education system that too frequently allows its lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning students to be bullied, discriminated against, or fall through the cracks.” 04:40: Listen to part one of our sex ed series here where we talked to two awesome young women from Wesleyan University about their experience teaching sex ed to high school students all around Connecticut!07:45: Here is an interesting article in Vox about consent culture by a sexual consent educator, Jaclyn Friedman. It uses the conversation around Aziz Ansari as the framework but we think it is more widely relevant.08:40: As Jessy said, there are no national standards for teaching sex education in schools, although the Trump administration did announce that the Teen Pregnancy Prevention Program (TPP) – a grant program created under Obama that works to reduce teen pregnancy rates in the US – will only provide funding to organizations that promote abstinence-only approaches. Read about this, and specific state approaches to sex education, in this article from the Center for American Progress.09:10: Here is a Snopes article that definitely says that soda (Coke in this case but I think we can extend that to include Dr. Pepper and Pepsi #science) is not an effective spermicide. Do not shoot soda up your vag.11:00: Check out uppercaseCHASE1 here. He is doing incredible work in providing a safe space for the trans community as well as educating family members and allies. We really recommend his 12-episode Trans 101 series that covers all different topics and is very informative16:55: Pam Stenzel is an awful woman.19:05: Shelly Donahue is also an awful woman.22:10: Here is the article from the Journal of Adolescent Health entitled “Abstinence-Only-Until Marriage: An Updated Review of U.S. Policies and Programs and Their Impacts.”24:15: Yale did the right thing here by banning the frat for 5 years, but is that enough? Does banning a frat actually deal with the offensive behavior expressed by its members? Just some food for thought.

Slate Daily Feed
Dear Prudence: The “Poly Wedding Invite Etiquette” Edition

Slate Daily Feed

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2018 56:04


Prudence is joined this week by writer and activist Jaclyn Friedman. Together they tackle questions about whether it’s ever ok to misgender someone when talking to a doctor, when to establish boundaries when working as a personal assistant, how to think about your own sexuality when your parents and therapist have reacted with homophobia, where to look for new purpose and joy at an older age, what kind of conversation to have with your in-laws who put their dirty shoes on the couch, and how to navigate wedding invites to friends who have multiple partners (and some of whom you don’t like). Slate Plus members will hear Prudie and Jaclyn discuss an additional letter about how a young company might need to rethink their nude beach work outings. Not yet a member? Sign up at Slate.com/PrudiePod. Email: prudencepodcast@gmail.com Production by Max Jacobs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dear Prudence | Advice on relationships, sex, work, family, and life
Dear Prudence: The “Poly Wedding Invite Etiquette” Edition

Dear Prudence | Advice on relationships, sex, work, family, and life

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2018 56:04


Prudence is joined this week by writer and activist Jaclyn Friedman. Together they tackle questions about whether it’s ever ok to misgender someone when talking to a doctor, when to establish boundaries when working as a personal assistant, how to think about your own sexuality when your parents and therapist have reacted with homophobia, where to look for new purpose and joy at an older age, what kind of conversation to have with your in-laws who put their dirty shoes on the couch, and how to navigate wedding invites to friends who have multiple partners (and some of whom you don’t like). Slate Plus members will hear Prudie and Jaclyn discuss an additional letter about how a young company might need to rethink their nude beach work outings. Not yet a member? Sign up at Slate.com/PrudiePod. Email: prudencepodcast@gmail.comProduction by Max Jacobs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 211: Amy Jo Goddard on sex, power, & leadership

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2018 67:21


SIGN UP NOW! Explore More Summit 2018 is happening now. It ends May 2nd, so grab your all-access pass for free before it's too late. exploremoresummit.com. What is changing in the wake of the #MeToo movement? How do we talk about sex and power? Amy Jo Goddard is joining me this week to talk about BIG things. Amy Jo is a powerhouse of change, fierce and uncompromising in her commitment to sexual liberation and social change. I've been working with her on her Sex, Power, and Leadership Conference - which is a free online conference all about liberation, social change, pleasure, and the world in a post #MeToo movement. It. Is. So. Fucking. Good. So, this episode is us geeking out about sexual liberation, tolerating touch in relationships, the importance of pleasure activism if we want to experience real change, the Bill Cosby verdict, what transformative and patient-centered gynecology can look like, and holy shit - so much more. If you want to sign-up for the conference, it's all happening April 30th - May 7th. It features Jaclyn Friedman, Carol Queen, Betty Martin, Dr. Willie Parker, adrienne maree brown, Dr. Chris Donaghue from LoveLine, Andre Shakti, Tina Horn, Dalychia Saah from Afrosexology, and many more. This is actually orgasmic for me - these conversations are speaking my love language. I hope you're join us. Patreon supporters - If you support the show at the $3 level and above, you can listen to this week's bonus which is me chatting with Sinclair Sexsmith all about strap-on sex. SO MUCH STRAP-ON STUFF. You do not want to miss it. patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Amy Jo Goddard: Hailing from Military Dad and Recovering-Catholic-Proudly-Sandra-Dee-Mom, Amy Jo Goddard had no other choice but to become a sex educator just to sail the shaky waters of human experience and help her family survive. Actually they don’t really take sex advice from her.   But thousands of others have—Amy Jo is author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and co-author of the best-selling classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men, recently published in second edition. She earned her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at New York University and has been teaching and speaking about feminism and sexuality for over two decades. She facilitates sexual empowerment programs for women, queer folks and couples, and works with companies to create workplace cultures that honor consent, equality, stellar communication and collaborative leadership. Join the conversation and sign-up for the Sex, Power, and Leadership Conference - it is free and online, happening April 30 - May 7, 2018. See you there. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

KPFA - Womens Magazine
Passion for Equality from the Bedroom to the Skies

KPFA - Womens Magazine

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2018 33:19


Guests: Author, educator and activist Jaclyn Friedman discusses her new book, UNSCREWED, which documents groundbreaking work being done to change the sexual culture. Juana Alicia, one of the visionary artists who created the Maestrapeace mural that wraps the San Francisco Women's Building, and Women's Building Executive Director Teresa Mejia. Gene Nora Stumbough Jessen, one of the Mercury 13, women who were tested for the Mercury space program but prevented from becoming astronauts by gender bias; Heather Walsh, director and producer of the new film, Mercury 13 (codirected by David Singdon). The film screens Tuesday as part of SFFILM. The post Passion for Equality from the Bedroom to the Skies appeared first on KPFA.

Dear Sugars
Consent Part 1: Into The Gray — With Jaclyn Friedman

Dear Sugars

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2018 39:17


In the midst of the #MeToo Movement, women and men all over the country are re-examining sexual encounters from their past. Over the course of a three-part series on consent, the Sugars answer letters from some of these women and explore the complexity and nuance of sexual consent.

Simplify
Simplify’s 2017 Sampler Episode

Simplify

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2018 39:31


What’s better than getting to the heart of a great idea? Getting to the heart of seven great ideas in under 40 minutes—which is exactly what happens in this best-of episode. Hear from Simplify Season 1 and 2’s most beloved guests, including Seth Godin, David Allen, Dan Savage, Jaclyn Friedman, Ryan Holiday, and more. And stick around after the last interview’s rolled to hear hosts Ben Schuman-Stoler and Caitlin Schiller share a very special Bookend—plus some quality overshares from their lives. For more info, including links to everything we discussed in the episode and a voucher to use Blinkist for free, go to https://www.blinkist.com/magazine/posts/simplify-everything-simplifys-2017-sampler-episode. Quick reminder: Great news: Simplify will be back! In preparation for Season 3, we’re collecting your voices. We’d love to hear how you answer one of the questions we always ask our guests: “What have you discovered was much simpler than you initially thought it was?” Just record your answer with a voice memo app of your choice and then email it to us at podcast@blinkist.com. If you want to say hi to Ben and Caitlin in the meantime, you can find them on Twitter: @bsto and @caitlinschiller. Let them know what you're reading! Thanks to Nico Guiang for our fantastic intro and outro music. Listen to more on Soundcloud or check him out on Facebook.

Serious Inquiries Only
SIO117: Jaclyn Friedman on Yes Means Yes, Feminism, and Sexual Liberation

Serious Inquiries Only

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2018 54:39


Today I'm joined by Jaclyn Friedman! From her website: She is a writer, speaker and activist, and creator of the hit books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009, and #11 on Ms. Magazine’s Top 100 Feminist Nonfiction of All Time list) and What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety. Her podcast, Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Check out these articles she has written, in particular: Vox Article on Aziz Ansari; New York Times Opinion on Consent Leave Thomas a voicemail! (916) 750-4746, remember short and to the point! Support the show at seriouspod.com/support! Follow us on Twitter: @seriouspod Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/seriouspod For comments, email thomas@seriouspod.com   Direct Download

The BadChristian Podcast
#350 Jaclyn Friedman, Sexual Liberation Activist

The BadChristian Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2018 77:29


Jaclyn in zealous to see everyone liberated from sexual limitations; orgies, open marriages, anything goes as long as it includes mutual respect. She's insightful and subversive to America's common approach towards sexual morals. Matt and Jaclyn disagree about the premise of the Aziz Ansari allegations and how they should be treated. Is the tide changing on how we view sex?   Links & Sponsors: badchristiancon.com badchristianmedia.com thebcclub.com Zip Recruiter: ziprecruiter.com/BADCHRISTIAN

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)
Live Show with Jaclyn Friedman on Her New Book "Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All"

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2017 68:45


REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 12th episode of season 3, the duo are thrilled to interview author, sex educator & feminist activist Jaclyn Friedman about her new book Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All. Thank you to The Pleasure Chest in West Hollywood for hosting this live show. They are also offering a great deal on Unscrewed, so buy a copy for yourself & give it as the gift that keeps on giving this holiday season: thepleasurechest.com/unscrewed.html! This episode is brought to you by the new gay dating app Chappy (head over to the app store & download Chappy today) & BarkBox (visit barkbox.com/reality for a FREE EXTRA MONTH when you subscribe to a 6 or 12-month plan). Please rate & review to tell us what you love!

Blinkist Podcast - Interviews | Personal Development | Productivity | Business | Psychology

Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, sex-educator, and activist. Her work helped establish the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent. Her new book, Unscrewed; Women, Sex, Power, And How To Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, was released in November, 2017. On this episode of Simplify, Caitlin Schiller talks with Friedman about sexual empowerment – or the lack thereof, which Friedman calls “Fauxpowerment.” They discuss some of the fundamental challenges to women becoming truly sexually empowered and what’s at stake if we don’t make it happen. Then, they move on to nitty gritties ranging from the politics of The Spice Girls to how to talk to your partner about sex. Plus, they break down where the term “Girl Power” comes from. After their conversation, Ben Schuman-Stoler joins Caitlin to make a booklist about good sex and working with (or against) the powers that be. Simplify is made with love by Blinkist. For more info, including links to everything we discussed in the episode and a voucher to use Blinkist for free, go to https://www.blinkist.com/magazine/posts/simplify-sexual-empowerment-jaclyn-friedman-youre-not-broken/. // This season, we are collecting your voices! It's not as creepy as it sounds, we promise. We just would love to hear how you would answer one of the questions we always ask our guests: “What have you discovered was much easier than you initially thought it was?” You can just record your answer with any voice memo app and email it to us at podcast@blinkist.com. If you want to say hi to Ben and Caitlin in the meantime, you can find them on Twitter: @bsto and @CaitlinSchiller. Let them know what you're reading! Thanks to Nico Guiang for our fantastic intro and outro music. Listen to more on Soundcloud [@niceaux] or check him out on Facebook [www.facebook.com/niceaux]. // We're phasing out this RSS feed, so if you want to hear more great stuff, subscribe to the podcast here: iTunes: apple.co/2sUeLYA PocketCasts: pca.st/qnKH Overcast: bit.ly/2uVNFlk RSS: bit.ly/2uVeF4j

Simplify
Jaclyn Friedman: No Pill Will Fix Your Sex Life (Ever)

Simplify

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2017 44:52


Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, sex-educator, and activist whose work helped establish the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent. Her new book, Unscrewed; Women, Sex, Power, And How To Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, was released in November, 2017. On this episode of Simplify, Caitlin Schiller talks with Friedman about sexual empowerment – or the lack thereof, which Friedman calls “Fauxpowerment.” They discuss some of the fundamental challenges to women becoming truly sexually empowered and what’s at stake if we don’t make it happen. In between, they touch on nitty gritties ranging from the politics of the Spice Girls to tactics for talking to your partner about sex. Plus, they break down where the term “girl power” comes from. After their conversation, Ben Schuman-Stoler joins Caitlin to make a booklist about good sex and working with (or against) the powers that be. (FYI- we're publishing this episode a day earlier than our usual Thursday release date because tomorrow Blinkist is having an all-day Holiday Party! Woot! Next week we'll be back to Thursdays.) For more info, including links to everything we discussed in the episode and a voucher to use Blinkist for free, go to https://www.blinkist.com/magazine/posts/simplify-sexual-empowerment-jaclyn-friedman-youre-not-broken/. Quick reminder: This season, we are collecting your voices! It's not as creepy as it sounds, we promise. We just would love to hear how you would answer one of the questions we always ask our guests: “What have you discovered was much easier than you initially thought it was?” You can just record your answer with any voice memo app and email it to us at podcast@blinkist.com. If you want to say hi to Ben and Caitlin in the meantime, you can find them on Twitter: @bsto and @CaitlinSchiller. Let them know what you're reading! Thanks to Nico Guiang for our fantastic intro and outro music. Listen to more on Soundcloud or check him out on Facebook.

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)
Kasey Koop on Happy Strippers, Sex Addiction, Sobriety & How Social Media is Straight Up Drugs

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2017 68:33


REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 11th episode of season 3, the pair sit down with very funny comedian, former Playboy columnist, current Cheetahs dancer & host of the Kasey's Freek Show podcast Kasey Koop to chat about stripping as her favorite job everrrrr, hipster bitches being annoying up in da club, alcoholism, sex addiction, suicidal thoughts, sobriety, the fact that social media is a drug, managing our mental health demons, mommy issues, co-dependence, doing the hard work of making healthy relationships work & changing cultural tides on sex work – plus Courtney & Steve talk Thanksgiving & escape fantasies. Angelenos, you are formally invited to our live show tomorrow Thursday 11/30 at 8pm with very special guest Jaclyn Friedman, author of Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, at the Pleasure Chest in West Hollywood. Please rate & review to tell us what you love!

Listen, Ladies
Bonus Episode: Listen, Ladies "Unscrewed"

Listen, Ladies

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2017 27:10


A Listen, Ladies bonus episode! Listen, Ladies contributor and BuzzFeed producer Julia Moser joins the podcast for a feature interview with author and activist Jaclyn Friedman. Friedman is the author of the new book, Unscrewed, which explores sex, harassment, and the abuse of power.

The League of Awkward Unicorns
Episode 30: Hangin' Around, Bangin' Around with Jaclyn Friedman

The League of Awkward Unicorns

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2017 35:12


We're delighted to welcome back Jaclyn Friedman, author of the new book "Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All." Not timely or anything, AT ALL. We talk about watching porn for science, how sexual liberation is used against women, that men aren't--as it turns out!--helpless, and that care isn't a zero-sum game. Plus: how a video about makeup contouring can soothe your feminist soul. Links and notes at leagueofawkwardunicorns.com.

Body Kindness
#57 - Get 'Unscrewed' in this #MeToo world with Jaclyn Friedman, activist and author of Unscrewed

Body Kindness

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2017 80:00


Politics, Hollywood, and your neighborhood. Sexual abuse is happening everywhere and people are speaking up. And finally we’re believing them. If you’re shaking your head at Charlie Rose, Roy Moore, Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey (and others) you’re probably wondering what you can do about it. There’s a new book out by author and activist Jaclyn Friedman, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All. She's my guest on the show today. About Jaclyn: Jaclyn Friendman’s work has redefined the concept of “healthy sexuality” and popularized the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent that is quickly becoming law on many U.S. campuses. She is a popular speaker and opinion writer and the creator of three books: Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape, What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, and her latest book Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All. Friedman hosts Unscrewed, a critically acclaimed podcast exploring paths to sexual liberation. Follow Jaclyn: Website | Podcast | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram | Jaclyn's new book, Unscrewed --- You can subscribe to Body Kindness on iTunes and Stitcher. Enjoy the show? Please rate it on iTunes! - http://getpodcast.reviews/id/1073275062 Are you ready for Body Kindness? Get started today with my free e-course and on-demand digital training. Learn more - http://bit.ly/2k23nbT The New York Times Book Review calls Body Kindness 'simple and true'. Publisher's Weekly says it's 'a rousing guide to better health.' http://bit.ly/2k228t9 Watch my videos about why we need Body Kindness on YouTube. https://youtu.be/W7rATQpv5y8?list=PLQPvfnaYpPCUT9MOwHByVwN1f-bL2rn1V --- Enjoy the show? Please subscribe and rate it. Have a show idea or guest recommendation (even yourself!) E-mail podcast@bodykindnessbook.com to get in touch. Join us on the Body Kindness Podcast Facebook group where you can continue the episode conversations with the hosts, guests, and fellow listeners. See you there! Nothing in this podcast is meant to provide medical diagnosis, treatment, cure, or prevent any disease or condition. Individuals should consult a qualified healthcare provider for medical advice and answers to personal health questions.  

Legal Face-off
Sexual harassment, what new Virginia governor means for Trump, school liability for suicides and more

Legal Face-off

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2017


Illinois Opportunity Project Director of Communications Kathleen Murphy discusses the significance of the recent gubernatorial election in Virginia and what it means for Illinois and nationally. Author and activist Jaclyn Friedman discusses victims coming forward to report sexual harassment. Illinois State Representative Stephanie Kifowit discusses Illinois’ concussion management legislation. Author Gary Pavela discusses whether MIT […]

Why Are People Into That?!
Live! Jaclyn Friedman: Unscrewed crossover!

Why Are People Into That?!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2017 57:34


Happy Pub Day Jaclyn Friedman! Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All is now available everywhere! To celebrate, enjoy this recording from our live crossover podcast at Sex Expo NYC. We discussed Ted Cruz’ “staffing issue,” the reproductive rights actions of the Satanic Temple, psychic dicks, masturbation, our favorite vibrators, adult baby diaper lovers, tentacle porn, and how to start the resistance from your bedroomRecorded live in front of an audience at the Sex Expo in Brooklyn September 23rd by Nora Linde. Educational programming sponsored by the Pleasure Chest. Engineering sponsored by Acast.http://www.jaclynfriedman.com/unscrewed@jaclynf TinaHorn.net/Live@TinaHornsAss@thesexexpo @PleasureChestNY @acast Music by Trezure Empire See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 187: Getting Unscrewed with Jaclyn Friedman

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2017 66:51


Don't forget, the Explore More Summit: Bodies Edition kicks off December 4th and it's totally free. We'll spend 5 days going super deep into body politics, self acceptance, fat activism, diet culture, weight stigma, and shedding body shame so we can center our pleasure. To see the line-up and to enroll, pop over to exploremoresummit.com. This week, Jaclyn Friedman is here to talk all about her new book, "Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All." It is a powerful, comprehensive examination of all the ways our ideas about sex intersect with things like media, racism, justice, toxic masculinity, patriarchy. Basically, all my favorite topics wrapped up into one. We geek out about why sexual olympics and hedonism will NOT set everyone free. What it means to have "fauxpowerment" around our sexuality and why individualistic solutions aren't going to heal the world. We talk about Hugh Hefner (ugh), the ways doctors fail us, Jaclyn's visit to a sex research lab and what the vagina REALLY is. Seriously, that last bit blew my mind. We also talk about what we can do to actually start changing the world, how we can confront things like toxic masculinity and patriarchy, and why it all matters. You can pre-order the book here (it comes out November 14th, 2017). Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Jaclyn Friedman: Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, speaker and activist, and creator of the hit books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009, and #11 on Ms. Magazine’s Top 100 Feminist Nonfiction of All Time list) and What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety. Her podcast, Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Stay in touch with Jaclyn on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @jaclynf. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Simplify
Simplify Season 2: Trailer

Simplify

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2017 2:46


Simplify Season 2 launches next week with an episode featuring Seth Godin. If you want to say hi to Ben and Caitlin in the meantime, you can find them on Twitter: @bsto and @CaitlinSchiller. And we have a favor to ask! We want to include your voices in this season of Simplify. Specifically, we’d love to hear how you would answer one of the questions we always ask our guests: “What have you discovered was much easier than you initially thought it was?” Just record your answer as a Voice Memo on your phone and email the audio file to us at podcast@blinkist.com. See you next week!

Boston Athenæum
Kate Harding and Samhita Mukhopadhyay; Moderated by Jaclyn Friedman, “Nasty Women”

Boston Athenæum

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2017 40:50


October 18, 2017 at the Boston Athenæum. The 2016 election of Donald Trump to the presidency was a devastating blow to the country’s marginalized populations—immigrants, Muslims, the LGBTQ community, and Black Americans, to name a few. Intersecting with each of these groups were women, who despaired as their rights as equal citizens were called into question. Women of all walks of life bore witness as one of the most qualified candidates in history, Hillary Clinton, lost to an inexperienced reality star and real estate mogul who boasted about his predatory behavior. Has the country become more misogynistic, or simply shown its true face? If 53% of white women voted for Trump and 94% of black women voted for Hillary, can women unite in America? Can we conceive of “women” as a cohesive group? In the face of overwhelming challenge, how can we work together to persist, resist, and enact lasting change? These are some of the questions addressed in Nasty Women, an anthology of original essays from leading feminist writers on protest and solidarity. Editors Kate Harding and Samhita Mukhopadhyay will address what it means to be a woman in the Trump era.

Konflikt
Kvinnovrålet och tystnaden

Konflikt

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2017 56:21


Om tystnadskulturen runt sexuella övergrepp. Vad upprätthåller den och vad kan bryta den? Hör advokater i New York, "järnladyn" från Kongo och professionella "krokodiljägare" i Malmö. I Kongo sjunger Salima Katana Nono kvinnors berättelser om sexuella övergrepp och under hashtaggen #MeToo har miljontals kvinnor världen över delat med sig av sina erfarenheter av sexuella övergrepp och trakasserier på sociala medier. Konflikt tittar närmare på hur tystnadskulturer kring sexuella övergrepp upprätthålls och vad som bryter dem. Vi börjar på Sergels torg i Stockholm där hundratals människor tar hashtaggen #MeToo från internet och ut på gatorna. Konflikts Sara Olsson var där. I USA är sexuella övergrepp och trakasserier i strålkastarljuset efter anklagelserna mot filmproducenten Harvey Weinstein. Från Boston hör vi författaren och aktivisten Jaclyn Friedman om de amerikanska sekretessavtalen som köper kvinnors tystnad. På telefon från New York hör vi också Mariann Meier Wang, advokaten som företräder Summer Zervos - kvinnan som stämt självaste Donald Trump. Tillbaka i Sverige går vi på "krokodiljakt" i Malmö med Jeanette Paludan, VD och grundare av ett konsultbolag som hjälper företag och myndigheter att komma tillrätta med sexuella trakasserier på arbetsplatsen genom bland annat rollspel. I en studio på Münchenbryggeriet i Stockholm möts kvinnorättsaktivisterna Gégé Katana Bukuru från Kongo, Anu Kumar, Indien, och Shahira Amin från Egypten i ett samtal om sexuellt våld, tystnadskulturer och hur man kan bryta dem. Sist en krönika från en underklädesmarknad i Kairo om mäns syn på kvinnor, trakasserier och maskuliniteter av Cecilia Uddén. Programledare: Robin Olin robin.olin@sverigesradio.se Producent: Anja Sahlberg anja.sahlberg@sverigesradio.se

Feminasty
Courage with Unscrewed's Jaclyn Friedman

Feminasty

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2017 46:58


Being a feminist in Trump's America takes a great many things, but one quality it demands of everyone is courage. In this week's episode of Feminasty, co-hosts Kate Harding and Samhita Mukhopadhyay welcome Jaclyn Friedman, host of the Unscrewed podcast, for a special crossover episode. In it, the trio discuss what it means to have courage in the face of a hostile culture, and which colleagues inspire them. Learn more about the Nasty Women essay collection: http://bit.ly/FeminastyPodcast ​​This week's episode is brought to you by Modcloth. Promo code FEMINASTY25 to get 25% off your order over $100.

Labels Of Love
Season 1, Episode 4: Consent

Labels Of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2017 8:27


I talk with author and activist Jaclyn Friedman about consent, sex, gender, stories, humanity, and much more.

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 159: Jaclyn Friedman on stealthing, sexual liberation, & rape

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2017 67:52


Patreons who support with just $3 per month and above get exclusive weekly bonus content, too. Literally, every pledge sends me into an excited squeal of delight. patreon.com/sgrpodcast This week Jaclyn Friedman is here. Known for her incredible work around sexual assault, sexual violence, consent, and sex education, it is a really intense discussion that I can't wait for you to hear. We talk about sexual liberation and why sex positivity must include conversations around sexual violence if it hopes to achieve it's aim. We dive into stealthing and why removing a condom without consent is rape. Jaclyn explores the ways that stealthing is dehumanizing and why this power move is about erasing the humanity of the person you're sleeping with. She also talks about what centering humanity in sex has meant for her - being able to relax into her truth by getting off the sexual Olympics train. Plus, why all this buzz about hook-up culture on college campuses is actually a myth and the impact that myth is having on students. Then we go deep into victim-centering justice, needing community to step in and hold sexually violent people accountable, why transformative justice is not the answer, and she even challenges me on being too generous around people who commit acts of sexual violence. We may not have answers, but we certainly have a lot of feelings and even bigger questions. So strap in and prepare yourself. Don't forget to send in your sex confessions about May's theme of FOOD! I created a guidelines page for you. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Jaclyn Friedman Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, speaker and activist, and creator of the hit books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009, and #11 on Ms. Magazine’s Top 100 Feminist Nonfiction of All Time list) and What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety. Her podcast, Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Friedman’s work has popularized the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent that is quickly becoming law on many US campuses. Her insistence that authentic sexual liberation is a necessary condition to end the systemic sexualization and violation of women led Lyn Mikel Brown (Co-founder of SPARK and Professor of Education and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies, Colby College) to call her “this generation’s version of Dr. Ruth.” Friedman is a popular speaker on campuses and at conferences across the U.S. and beyond. She has been a guest on the Today Show, Nightline, PBS News Hour, the Melissa Harris-Perry Show, and numerous other radio and television shows, and her commentary has appeared in outlets including The New York Times, Vox, Time, The Washington Post, Glamour and The Guardian. Friedman is a founder and the former Executive Director of Women, Action & the Media, where she led the successful #FBrape campaign to apply Facebook’s hate-speech ban to content that promotes gender-based violence. Friedman also holds an MFA in creative writing from Emerson College. You can stay in touch with Jaclyn at jaclynfriedman.com, as well as on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @jaclynf. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Sex Nerd Sandra
Yes Means Yes! Consent with Jaclyn Friedman!

Sex Nerd Sandra

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2017 58:10


ARE YOU ON TEAM FUN? Author, podcaster and feminist troublemaker Jaclyn Friedman helps Sandra as they splash around the murky waters of consent. Going beyond no-means-no, they examine issues in heterosexual context, showing how to move from awkward to confident and from clunky to kind. TOPICS: The sex-positive movement vs the anti-sexual-violence movement, unscrewing masculinity/media/sex ed, sexual liberation, romance, body language, making it sexy, bad sex vs violence, affirmative/enthusiastic consent, sex scripts, consent apps, coerced experiences, thinking ethically vs legally, body sovereignty, gender, unpacking old trauma, playing Gotcha, the rules, drugs and alcohol impairment vs taking the edge off, which questions are rapey and how to violate our very own boundaries!

What would a feminist do?
Staring down 2017 – What would a feminist do? podcast

What would a feminist do?

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2017 27:56


In the shadow of the inauguration, host Jessica Valenti talks with Syreeta McFadden, Jaclyn Friedman and Aimee Thorne-Thomsen about what comes next for feminism

Unscrewed
Sex Object

Unscrewed

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2016 34:01


What does it mean to live every day as a woman in a world that hates and objectifies women? That's the question at the heart of Jessica Valenti's brave, raw new memoir, Sex Object, and it's the subject of this intimate conversation between Valenti and our host, Jaclyn Friedman. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The League of Awkward Unicorns
Episode 11: Anger Is a Balm (with Jaclyn Friedman)

The League of Awkward Unicorns

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2016 46:17


It's a very special crossover episode! Jaclyn Friedman, host of the podcast Unscrewed, talks sexual wellness with us, while Deanna visits Jaclyn on Unscrewed this week to talk about sexual harassment (be sure to check that out!). We discuss sexual assault on campus, how being assaulted changed Jaclyn's worldview, the analogy of the broken stair, and how we should shift our mindset from sex being a commodity to sex as creative/collaborative interaction. (Rowr.) Also, why you'd never force B.B. King to jam (not just because he's dead) and how even a sexpert makes mistakes (sexually). Deanna slips “vis à vis” into the conversation real natural-like, and everyone tries to avoid using the word “journey” and fails utterly.

What would a feminist do?
Sex ed as a human right – What would a feminist do? podcast

What would a feminist do?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2016 27:48


Guardian columnist Jessica Valenti talks with Jaclyn Friedman about fixing sex education in the US. Aimee Thorne-Thomsen joins to explain what youth can teach adults

Point of Inquiry
Sex and the Safely Satisfied, with Jaclyn Friedman (Valentine's Day Special)

Point of Inquiry

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2016 30:04


Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, speaker, and sex education activist, challenging misconceptions about what it means to have consenting, satisfying sex. She’s the author of What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, and she joins us on this special Valentine’s Day episode to bring some freethought to love and sex.   In addition to having written extensively on the topic of healthy sexuality and the myriad hang-ups and myths surrounding sex and pleasure, she’s also in the process of producing a new multimedia project, including a podcast about female sexual power and freedom. 

Graphic Policy Radio
Jonesing for Jessica Episode 7 AKA Top Shelf Perverts

Graphic Policy Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2015 88:00


Are you jonesing for Jessica Jones? We know we are! Jonesing for Jessica discusses the hit Marvel and Netflix show Jessica Jones episode by episode. Graphic Policy Radio hosts Brett and Elana are discussing the series and are joined each week by special guests. For this week's episode the team is joined by Jaclyn Friedman to discuss the seventh episode "AKA Top Shelf Perverts." Malcom, Simpson and Trish go rogue to prevent Jessica from carrying out an extreme plan to outwit Kilgrave. Friedman’s work has redefined the concept of “healthy sexuality” and popularized the “yes means yes” standard of sexual consent that is quickly becoming law on many US campuses. She's written multiple books, and is a popular speaker on campuses and at conferences across the U.S. and beyond. She has appeared as a guest on PBS News Hour, MSNBC’s the Melissa Harris-Perry Show, the BBC and numerous other radio and television shows, and her commentary has appeared in outlets including CNN, Time, The Washington Post, The Nation, Jezebel and The Huffington Post. Friedman is a founder and the former Executive Director of Women, Action & the Media, where she led the successful #FBrape campaign to apply Facebook’s hate-speech ban to content that promotes gender-based violence. She is also a charter member of CounterQuo, a coalition dedicated to challenging the ways we respond to sexual violence. Friedman holds an MFA in Creative Writing from Emerson College.

Women's Media Center Live with Robin Morgan
WMC Live #60: Jenn Pozner, Rita Henley Jensen, Jaclyn Friedman, Katherine Rowlands. (Original Airdate 11/16/2013)

Women's Media Center Live with Robin Morgan

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2013 55:37


Robin on the typhoon in Southeast Asia, and on rampant prostitution in—yes—Dubai. Guests are all colleagues working on women and media: Jaclyn Fridman (WAM); Jenn Pozner (WIMN); Rita Henley Jensen (Women's e-News); and Katherine Rowlands (Journalism & Women Symposium).

V Single
Writer/activist Jaclyn Friedman

V Single

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 70:52


Writer and activist Jaclyn Friedman talks about the early days of OkCupid, dating as a feminist, how she met her partner, and her newest book, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. Follow her on Twitter at @jaclynf and Instagram at @jaclynfable. And buy her books literally anywhere books are sold!If you enjoy the podcast, support us at Patreon.com/vsingle and hear our juicy bonus episodes.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/v-single/donationsWant to advertise on this podcast? Go to https://redcircle.com/brands and sign up.