Real Estate Investing With Jay Conner, The Private Money Authority

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@InvestorMelDaveDupuis "Raising Private Money Like A Pro: $2m In Just A Few Months!"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Epb08dAiKDs For new and experienced real estate investors alike, the challenge of finding funding is one of the biggest obstacles to growing a profitable portfolio. If you've ever wondered how some investors manage to raise millions in private money, without begging banks or feeling desperate in front of lenders, you'll want to pay close attention to the strategies shared by Jay Conner, known as the “Private Money Authority.” Recently, Jay joined seasoned investor couple Mel and Dave Dupuis for an in-depth discussion about the art and science of raising private capital for real estate deals.Overcoming the “Bank Said No” ClubJay's real estate journey began traditionally, with bank financing. But in 2009, when his banker abruptly cut off his line of credit, Jay was forced into what he calls the “club of being told no by the bank.” Many investors find themselves here: good credit, a history of successful deals, but suddenly, institutional partners slam the door shut. For Jay, this so-called setback was the doorway to a better way: raising private money from individuals.What Exactly is Private Money?Private money, as Jay explains, is funds lent by individuals (not institutions) who are looking for secure, high-yield investment opportunities. Unlike hard money lenders, who often charge hefty fees and high rates, private lenders can be ordinary people—friends, acquaintances, or referrals—looking to invest their savings or retirement funds through self-directed IRAs.Jay's “Secret Sauce” to Raising Millions (Without Ever Begging)Here's where Jay's approach is both counterintuitive and powerful: He never asks anyone for money. That's right. Instead of pitching deals or putting on the hard sell, Jay puts on his “teacher hat” and educates potential private lenders about the opportunity to earn attractive, safe returns by acting as the bank. He keeps the educational conversation separate from any specific asks or deals.The process goes like this:Teach, Don't Pitch: Jay hosts one-on-one conversations or small luncheons to explain how private lending works, what kinds of returns they can expect, and how their investment is secured.Let Them Volunteer: By the end of the conversation, prospective lenders often tell him how much they have available to invest, sometimes even moving retirement savings into a self-directed IRA.The “Good News Call”: Once a suitable deal comes along, Jay updates his new lender with a simple call: “I have good news! I can put your $150,000 to work on a house in Newport next Wednesday.” He explains the terms, closing date, and logistics—but crucially, he never “asks” for the money. The lender has already expressed their interest and is waiting for the opportunity.This approach eliminates desperation, builds trust, and positions Jay as a partner and educator, not a salesperson.How Jay Protects His Private LendersA major reason people hesitate to lend is concern about risk and security. Jay addresses this upfront:Each loan is secured by a deed of trust (mortgage) on the property, just like a bank loan.Maximum loan-to-value is 75% of the after-repair value, not the purchase price, ensuring enough equity for safety.Private lenders are named as mortgagees on insurance policies and as additional insureds on title policies.Loans are set up with conservative timelines (typically two years), so extensions or surprises are rare.Most importantly, if Jay ever fails to pay, the property itself secures the lender's investm

What would happen if you suddenly lost your job? For most people, the answer brings anxiety, and understandably so. But for Dustin Heiner, the experience of being laid off became the pivotal moment that launched him on a journey toward financial freedom, passive income, and what he affectionately calls “successful unemployment.”On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast with host Jay Conner, Dustin shared his powerful story of transformation—from a county IT employee in California to a full-time real estate investor, educator, and podcast host at Master Passive Income. The wisdom he offered goes far beyond real estate; it's a blueprint for anyone seeking true independence and purpose.Breaking the Traditional MoldDustin's story begins much like many of ours: he followed the “normal” path. After college, he landed what was supposed to be the most stable job one could imagine: government work in IT. “Government isn't going anywhere, and neither is technology,” he reasoned. Yet, in 2006, wanting something more, Dustin began to dabble in real estate investing after reading Rich Dad Poor Dad. He soon realized that his side hustle earned him more for less effort than his main job ever would.Everything changed, though, when Dustin returned from paternity leave after his fourth child and was unexpectedly called into his boss's office—and laid off. “Nobody gets fired from the government, but I did,” he recalls. This terrifying moment forced Dustin to confront two realities: he needed immediate income, and he needed to make sure he'd never be dependent on a job again.Embracing an Investor's MindsetWhat set Dustin apart wasn't just his willingness to hustle; it was his shift in identity. “From that day forward, I told everyone I was an investor, even if every dollar was coming from my job at the time,” Dustin says. This mindset laid the groundwork for everything that followed.He understood that his true value didn't come from his employer, it came from his skills, his drive, and his willingness to invest in himself. In Dustin's words, your boss pays you just enough to keep you from quitting, but not what you're truly worth. The only way to reclaim your worth is to build something of your own.Building Passive Income (and a Legacy)Dustin steadily grew his portfolio, buying property after property, each generating hundreds in monthly passive income. The turning point came when his cash flow allowed him to quit his job entirely by age 37. He describes the final commute from his government job as feeling like he was “walking on clouds.” Dustin was now successfully unemployed: no boss, no clock, just consistent income generated from assets.He didn't stop there. Dustin began teaching friends and family, eventually launching the Master Passive Income blog and podcast to share everything he learned. His mission? To help a million others break free, too. “The more people I serve, the more my life, and theirs, improves,” he says.Attracting Money Without Chasing ItOne of the standout lessons from Dustin's experience is the power of personal branding and trust. He raised $1.5 million in private money for real estate deals simply by sharing his journey on just two podcast episodes. How? Because he'd spent years openly sharing values and teaching others. When an opportunity arose, his audience already knew, liked, and trusted him enough to invest.Dustin's advice for aspiring investors is simple but profound:Let Everyone Know You're an Investor – Even if it's a part-time role, communicate your goals and identity.Help Others Generously – Share knowledge, answer questions, and provide value.Play the Long Game – Success comes from years of consistent action, integrity, and generosity.Your Path to Successful UnemploymentWhether you're interested in real estate o

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@creativefinanceplaybook "Private Money Mastery: How Jay Conner Transformed Real Estate Investing"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9yBCTSMkZU If you're a real estate investor (or striving to become one), the challenge isn't always about finding the right property. More often, it's about finding the money to fund your deals, especially when traditional financing decides to turn off the tap, and that can happen faster than you think.On a recent podcast episode, seasoned investor Jay Conner sat down with Jenn and Joe Delle Fave to peel back the curtain on the game-changing role private money played in his real estate business—an approach that not only rescued his investing career but tripled his business during one of the most trying economic times in recent history.The Moment Everything ChangedJay Conner, along with his wife Carol Joy, had been successfully investing in single-family homes in Morehead City, North Carolina, since 2003. Like many, he relied on the steady comfort of a bank line of credit to fund his deals. That all changed in January 2009 at the height of the financial crisis. Without warning, his bank (and trusted banker, Steve) pulled the plug: his line of credit was closed, and new loans to real estate investors dried up overnight.Faced with two lucrative deals under contract and no way to close them, Jay's back was against the wall. But rather than seeing an insurmountable problem, he asked the transformative question: “Who do I know that can help me with this problem?” That question led him to an introduction to private money—and ultimately, to financial freedom.What Is Private Money Lending?Private money in real estate refers to funds lent by individuals (not institutions) to investors, typically secured by real estate. These individuals often don't even know they want to be lenders until someone shows them what's possible, like using their retirement accounts (self-directed IRAs) to earn outsized, secure returns.For Jay, learning about private money meant a total mindset shift. Instead of begging the bank, he became the one offering an opportunity. He began teaching people in his network—friends, church members, business contacts—about private lending. No hard selling, no desperate asks. Just education and a willingness to be transparent about how the process worked and the secure, solid returns they could earn.The Power of Private Money: How It Changed the GameWhen Jay started implementing private money strategies, the results were immediate and dramatic. He raised over $2 million in new funding in under 90 days. Within a year, his business had tripled, even as many other real estate investors were leaving the business entirely due to a lack of financing.Jay explained that private money brought several advantages:Flexibility: The investor sets the terms, not the bank. That includes interest rates, payment schedules, and what deals get funded.No Limits: Unlike bank lines of credit, private lenders are only limited by their comfort and resources, not an arbitrary ceiling.Speed: Jay has closed deals in as little as five days, a feat impossible with institutional lenders.Profitability: In his market, he achieved average profits of $82,000 per deal, doing only two to three deals a month, thanks largely to the reliability and ease of private funding.Teaching, Not SellingJay's secret sauce is in his approach: separate the teaching about private money from pitching a specific deal. He positions himself as a guide and trusted resource, only calling interested lenders when he has an actual investment for their funds. “Desperation has a s

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@CommercialRealEstateProNetwork "Raising Private Money with Jay Conner - CRE PN #481"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrWWFWU5eGsAre you a real estate investor struggling to secure funding for your deals? Maybe the banks have gotten a little too picky with their lending criteria, or perhaps you're just tired of jumping through endless hoops for a loan. Jay Conner, affectionately known as “The Private Money Authority,” has walked this road and came out on the other side with a strategy anyone in real estate can leverage: raising private money.Jay Conner once again joined Darrin Gross on the CREPN Radio podcast, Jay shared his story, a compelling blend of humble beginnings, tough pivots, and the ability to turn problems into powerful opportunities.From Bank Roadblocks to OpportunityJay's journey in real estate began like many others: he visited the local bank, applied for funding, and went through the usual song and dance of credit checks, financial statements, and asset reviews. For several years, this status quo worked fine. But in 2009, everything changed. Without warning, his line of credit was closed, leaving him with two properties under contract and nowhere to turn. As Jay recalls, “Desperation has a smell to it. I had a problem, not an opportunity.”Faced with a true financial crisis (not just another “opportunity in disguise” quote people love to share), Jay leaned into his relationships and asked, “Who do I know that can help me solve this problem?” That question led him to a colleague who introduced him to the concept of private money and self-directed IRAs, sparking a complete transformation in his approach to deal funding.The Private Money BlueprintJay's method is refreshingly straightforward and, perhaps most importantly, approachable for both seasoned and new investors. Rather than chasing after people and desperately pitching deals, Jay puts on his “teacher hat.” He focuses on educating potential private lenders—often people in his existing network or local community—about what private money is, how it works, and why it's a win-win opportunity.He explains, “Not one of my 47 private lenders had ever heard of private money or self-directed IRAs. I simply taught them.” By presenting a clear, safe, and attractive program to would-be lenders, Jay flips the script, positioning himself not as a beggar but as a provider of opportunity.The three things lenders care about most?Attractive Return: Private lenders are often frustrated with the low interest rates on traditional vehicles like CDs. Jay offers up to 8% or 10%—well above what banks are paying.Security and Safety: Every loan is collateralized with a mortgage or deed of trust, up to 75% of after-repair value, giving substantial equity protection.No Volatility: Unlike the unpredictable stock market, lenders know exactly what their return will be for the life of the loan.The No-Sell ApproachOne point Jay hammered home was the importance of separating “raising money” from pitching specific deals. The worst time to ask for money is when you need it for a deal. By building the relationship and educating potential lenders ahead of time, when the right opportunity comes along, it's not a hard sell—it's just a “good news phone call:” “I have a deal ready for you, here's the terms, here's the timeline.” No pressure, no awkward conversations. Just a smooth transaction.Mindset MattersFor those interested in starting their journey with private money, Jay stresses the importance of mindset. See yourself not as a borrower, but as someone leading with a servant's heart, helping people get better returns safely

In the dynamic world of real estate investing, one challenge consistently rises to the top: finding motivated seller leads. On a recent episode of “Raising Private Money,” host Jay Conner, nationally recognized as the Private Money Authority, sat down with Nicholas Nick, founder of Lead Mining Pros, to talk shop on innovative, practical lead generation strategies that can skyrocket your investing business, whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting.From Restaurants to Real Estate: The Nicholas Nick JourneyNicholas Nick's path to real estate marketing is anything but typical. Before founding Lead Mining Pros, he spent over a decade in the restaurant industry, managing massive teams and enduring grueling workweeks. This experience fostered in him a fearless mindset and a deep understanding of people—two essential skills for real estate success.His leap from hospitality to real estate came through event coordination at a major real estate coaching company. Here, he discovered all investors' pain points: wasted money on inefficient marketing, especially direct mail campaigns with little to show for it.A pivotal moment came when a client, devastated after spending $5,000 on direct mail without a single call in return, reached out for help. Nick realized there had to be a better way, and so he shifted his approach from costly, passive marketing to proactive cold calling. This hands-on shift not only saved money but also began bringing in results.The Birth of Lead Mining ProsStarting, Nicholas personally cold-called hundreds of potential leads every day. Word spread quickly among his peers, who soon began hiring him to generate leads for their businesses. This grassroots, performance-driven approach laid the foundation for Lead Mining Pros, which now generates over $38,000 a week in sales, helping real estate investors build a robust lead pipeline.What makes Lead Mining Pros different? According to Nicholas, it's the combination of tailored lists, high-accuracy skip tracing, and a choice between American or foreign cold callers—each ideal for different markets or strategies. “Niche lists or land? Choose an American caller for the best rapport. Saturated markets or high volumes? Foreign callers, at a third of the cost, get the job done,” Nick advises.Additionally, Lead Mining Pros offers comprehensive, done-for-you texting campaigns and, perhaps most importantly, top-tier customer service. New real estate investors don't just get leads—they get direct access to Nicholas himself for coaching, feedback, and campaign optimization. Free online courses and weekly check-ins ensure that clients get the most from every campaign, and, crucially, learn how to convert warm leads into hot deals.What Works Best: Calls, Texts, or Direct Mail?Jay Conner and Nicholas Nick share a vital takeaway: the most effective lead generation strategy depends on your budget, goals, and willingness to roll up your sleeves. If funds allow, running direct mail, calling, and texting campaigns simultaneously can help you gather invaluable data and maximize response rates. But if you need to prioritize, start with cold calling and texting. These channels not only tend to generate more leads for less money, but they also allow for rapid testing and adjustment.That said, calling and texting do require real hustle. “You can't be an armchair quarterback with a calling campaign,” Nicholas stresses. “If you process and systematize your approach, you can outperform direct mail. But you have to be ready to work those leads.”Converting More Leads: The Secret SauceA persistent issue for investors is making contact with a lead after the initial inquiry. Nicholas's solution: persistence and a structured follow-up sequence. He recommends up to 18 touches (calls, texts, and voicemails) per lead, ensuring no opportunity slips through the cra

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@garretwong   "Startup Funding Explained: Everything You Need to Know"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzU9FmuVRDM In the ever-evolving world of real estate investing, access to capital can make or break a deal. But what happens when traditional funding sources dry up or become too restrictive? This was exactly the dilemma faced by Jay Conner, a seasoned real estate investor in Eastern North Carolina, whose journey and strategies were explored in depth on a recent episode of the “Investing to Win” podcast with Garret Wong.From Banks to Private Money: Jay's Turning PointFor the first six years of his real estate career, Jay relied solely on institutional financing—local banks and traditional money sources to fund his single-family home deals. But as the 2008-2009 financial crisis arrived, Jay, like many investors, found his credit lines abruptly closed by the bank, jeopardizing multiple deals overnight. Instead of throwing in the towel, Jay asked himself a powerful question: Who do I know that can help me with this problem?That introspection led him to Jeff Blankenship, a fellow investor who introduced Jay to the world of private money and self-directed IRAs. This new approach, Jay quickly learned, didn't depend on bank approvals or credit scores but rather on relationships and transparency.What Is Private Money?Private money, as Jay describes, is direct investment from individuals, not institutions or hard money lenders. It's a one-on-one relationship where investors loan funds secured against real estate, often using capital from personal savings or retirement accounts. Unlike hard money brokers who pool funds into lending operations (and charge higher rates and fees), true private lenders work directly with the investor.Jay emphasizes that private lenders come from all walks of life. Most of his 47 active private lenders wouldn't consider themselves sophisticated or accredited; many are teachers, civil servants, and retirees simply seeking better and safer returns on their investments.Key Benefits of Private Money LendingWhy does Jay champion private money with such passion? He lists several compelling advantages:Flexibility and Speed: Without lengthy bank underwriting, deals can often close in as little as five to seven days—sometimes a lifesaver for properties facing foreclosure or competitive bidding.Fewer Restrictions: Private lenders don't cap the number of deals or the size of your line of credit. Jay's deals frequently involve borrowing up to 75% of the after-repaired value (ARV), and it's common for him to leave the closing table with “excess cash to close”—funds above and beyond the purchase price, useful for renovations or reserves.No Appraisals or Red Tape: Instead of formal appraisals, Jay uses comparative market analyses (CMAs) to justify values to his lenders—trusted personal relationships eliminate most bureaucratic hurdles.True Win-Win: Lenders earn higher, predictable returns (Jay typically offers 8% straight, sometimes accruing during a flip or paid out monthly), while investors unlock funding quickly and efficiently.Building Trust and Educating LendersThe cornerstone of Jay's approach isn't just a promising rate—it's education and transparency. He never pitches deals out of desperation or attaches a project to an initial conversation. Instead, he teaches potential lenders about the opportunity, shows them exactly how they'll be protected, and only connects them to a specific deal when it matches what they want.Notably, Jay suggests that new investors leverage the credibility of an experienced partner or mentor when starting. If you haven't completed

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@hbgcapital662    "Professional Capital Raiser Shares How To Raise Money Immediately with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99BpAmJOs_w If you're an aspiring or seasoned real estate investor, there's one hurdle that inevitably determines your growth: access to capital. How do you finance deals when traditional banks close their doors, market conditions shift, or you simply want more flexibility and profit? Jay Conner, a recognized authority in private money for real estate, has plenty of answers—and in a recent conversation with Brandon Cobb, he broke down the essential strategies and mindset shifts that have allowed him to thrive through market cycles.From Bank Loans to Private Money: Jay's BreakthroughJay Conner started investing in real estate in 2003, primarily focusing on single-family homes in the relatively small market of Eastern North Carolina. For years, he played by the traditional rules—going to local banks, submitting to their criteria, and letting lenders set the terms. That was until the financial crisis of 2009. Suddenly, despite a spotless record and strong deals under contract, Jay's line of credit was closed with no warning.Faced with the potential collapse of his deals and business, Jay asked himself a critical question: “Who do you know that can help fix your problem?” This led him to an old friend, who introduced him to the world of private money—individuals willing to lend their personal funds or retirement accounts for real estate investments, often at competitive rates and flexible terms.The Teacher's Mindset: Educating, Not BeggingJay's approach flipped the typical script. Instead of chasing after money, he put on his “teacher hat.” He proactively educated his network—friends, fellow churchgoers, Rotary Club members, and other contacts—about what private lending was, how it worked, and the safe, lucrative returns they could earn.A crucial point: Jay never asked anyone for money directly. He simply explained his private lending program, laid out the potential and security, and let interest organically develop. The goal was building trust, demystifying the opportunity, and leading with a servant's heart. As a result, he raised $2,150,000 in less than 90 days—without ever “pitching” a deal or acting out of desperation.Strategic Steps: Separating Education from the AskJay highlighted a key mistake many new investors make: mixing education about private lending with direct requests for funding on a specific deal. This can feel pushy and overwhelming, and it's the fastest way to turn off a potential private lender. Instead, he recommends two separate steps:Educate First: Explain your lending program, rates, security, and process. Answer questions, build confidence, and see who is interested in principle.The Good News Call: When the right deal is available, you make a simple call: “I've got great news—I can now put your money to work on this deal.” This assumes the groundwork is already laid and the lender trusts you.Expanding Beyond Your Inner CircleWhat happens when you've tapped your immediate network? Jay suggests organizations like Business Networking International (BNI) or local Rotary Clubs, which allow you to grow contacts exponentially. These groups thrive on referrals, and, as the only real estate investor in the group, you're uniquely positioned to connect with new potential lenders eager for better returns on their idle capital.Compliance & The Power of One-OffsA question that often arises: How do you make sure you're staying within SEC and legal boundaries? Jay makes it clear he only does “one-off” deals—each lender fund

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@mymenrichard "Private Money Lending with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTl7M1X3qb4 When it comes to scaling a real estate investing business, one of the biggest challenges investors face is sourcing reliable funding. Traditional routes—think bank loans and institutional finance—often come with red tape, long waits, and restrictive requirements. In a recent Raising Private Money podcast with Richard Lesperance and  Jay Conner, they cracked open the secrets of raising private money—a game-changing alternative for investors looking to close more deals, faster and with greater flexibility.What is Private Money?Put simply, private money refers to funding provided by individual investors rather than banks or hard money lenders. Jay highlights a key distinction: while hard money lenders act as intermediaries between investors and funds, private lenders are direct, one-on-one relationships. These individuals use their liquid capital or retirement accounts (often through self-directed IRAs) to passively invest in real estate, earning a healthy return while the borrower benefits from quick, customizable funding.Jay's Journey from Banks to Private MoneyJay shares his own story: after years of relying on banks, his line of credit was suddenly cut off during the 2008 financial crisis, leaving him scrambling. This “problem” forced him to look for solutions outside the conventional system. A friend introduced him to the concept of private money, and within 90 days, Jay raised over $2 million in new funding—without ever asking for money directly.The secret? Jay adopted the role of a teacher. Instead of pitching or selling, he educated potential lenders about how private money works and the advantages it offered. This educational approach attracted 47 private lenders (and counting), many of whom had never heard of private lending or realized their retirement accounts could be used in this way. Where to Find Private LendersJay breaks it down into three main categories:Your Warm Market: Friends, family, colleagues, and contacts in your phone and social networks.Expanded Network: Connections made through networking, real estate events, and referrals.Existing Private Lenders: Individuals already lending to other investors, often found at self-directed IRA company networking events.According to Jay, over 70% of self-directed IRA holders are interested in loaning money to real estate investors, making these events rich ground for connection.Advantages of Using Private MoneyThe benefits, as Jay enthusiastically outlines, are many:Control: The borrower sets the terms—interest rate, payment frequency, and loan-to-value ratio.Speed: With no bank bureaucracy, deals can close in as little as seven days—a major advantage in a competitive market.No Application Hassles: No credit score checks or drawn-out approval processes.Unlimited Potential: Unlike banks, there's no cap on how much private money you can access or how many deals you fund.Attractive Returns for Lenders: Lenders earn solid, secured returns (often much better than a local bank), creating a true win-win.Is it Safe?Investor and lender protection is paramount. Jay describes several safeguards:Funds are wired directly to the attorney or title company's escrow account, never to the investor personally.Each loan is secured by a mortgage or deed of trust, never unsecured.A conservative loan-to-value (typically 75% of after-repair value) ensures a cushion for market fluctuations.Lenders are listed on insu

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@EG_Developer "The Art of Raising Capital"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0HNrZOvtI If you're a real estate investor or developer wrestling with the age-old question—how do I find funding for my deals?—You're not alone. Most of us start in the same place: we turn to banks, endure rigorous credit checks, and cross our fingers that the funds come through. But as veteran investor Jay Conner shared in his interview with Eugene Gershman, there's a better way: Raising Private Money.In this episode, we'll break down Jay's method for leveraging private lenders—a system that not only allows you to fund deals quickly but puts you firmly in the driver's seat.The Bank Shutdown That Sparked a ChangeJay's journey into private money began out of necessity. For years, he'd relied on banks, but in 2009, his line of credit was abruptly closed. With deals under contract and no financing in sight, he asked himself, “Who do I know that can help?” That call led him to the world of private money, where individuals, often using their retirement funds, can invest in real estate for higher, safer returns.Don't Beg for Money: Teach InsteadOne of Jay's core philosophies? Don't chase money—attract it by teaching. Instead of pitching individual deals with desperation, Jay developed a private money “program.” He educated potential lenders on what private money is, how it works, and why it's mutually beneficial—all before bringing any specific investment opportunity to the table.By wearing his “teacher hat,” he positioned himself as a knowledgeable, trustworthy guide rather than someone begging for help. This simple shift allowed him to raise over $2 million in 90 days.The Secret: Separate the Funding Conversation from the DealJay Conner emphasizes that the worst time to raise money is when you need it urgently for a deal; desperation has a scent that savvy investors can detect. Instead, he recommends cultivating interest in your program beforehand. Explain your investment approach, outline your terms (like 8-10% interest, first or second lien position, borrowing up to 75% of after-repair value), and show potential lenders how their money is protected.When a deal arises, you call with “great news”—not a desperate plea. The money is already pledged, and investors are ready and waiting.Indirect Outreach: Ask for Referrals, Not FundsA genius part of Jay's approach is the indirect ask. Rather than pitching investments directly, he'd connect with well-networked locals (like the town's original Zenith TV dealer!), share that he's helping people earn high rates of return, and ask for referrals. More often than not, people would express interest themselves or spread the word to their circles.This reflective, relationship-driven technique allowed Jay to build a network of 47 private lenders, most of whom had never even heard of private money lending before he educated them.Scaling Up: From Small Deals to MillionsIs this approach scalable? Absolutely. Whether you need $500,000 or $10 million, Jay's model works by adapting your outreach. For example, he's raised nearly a million dollars in a single luncheon by teaching his program to a room of community influencers. He regularly uses presentations, podcasts, and word-of-mouth to reach potential lenders, rather than relying solely on one-on-one conversations.The Role of Self-Directed IRAsA powerful hack in the private money world is using self-directed IRAs. Many investors have retirement funds languishing with low returns. By educating them on how to use these funds for private lending, J

If you've ever wondered how successful real estate investors consistently land incredible deals, you're not alone. On a recent episode of the “Raising Private Money” podcast with host Jay Conner, Dave Payerchin shared powerful, actionable insights from his career, where he's raised over $50 million in private money and built an impressive rental portfolio. Dave's advice is gold, whether you're looking for your first deal or leveling up your investment business.Mindset: Your Most Important AssetDave starts by emphasizing the value of mindset and personal development. Before getting into tactics, he grounds his success in what he calls the “core four”—his relationship with God, his health, his family, and finally, his business. For aspiring investors, this serves as a reminder: true success is holistic and must be built on a solid personal foundation.Crucially, Dave shares a personal lesson about overcoming limiting beliefs—especially the common thought, “I'm not enough.” Through consistent, small commitments (like daily habits), you build self-trust and confidence. In the context of real estate, your mindset directly affects your ability to network, take risks, and follow through on deals.Why Dave Loves Single-Family RentalsDave is a strong believer in affordable housing—specifically single-family rentals, especially in stable, cash-flowing markets like Columbus, Ohio. He points out several reasons why:Demand: Single-family homes are in high demand since people prefer houses over apartments, especially families who want a yard and privacy.Accessibility: It's easier to raise money and get financing for single-family deals. You don't need complex investment structures or syndications.Stability: Markets like the Midwest aren't seeing the same volatility as coastal areas, making them ideal for long-term cash flow.The Power of Private MoneyBoth Dave and Jay agree: private money is one of the most powerful tools in real estate. It allows you to scale your investing without using your capital and enables you to compete as a “serious buyer.” Dave's own story starts with necessity—having no money or credit, he realized he needed to raise 100% of the capital (purchase and rehab) to get started.Often, new investors make the mistake of “shopping for cheaper money” before they've built a track record, thinking they should negotiate for the best rates right away. Dave's advice? Get in the game, even if you pay higher rates at first. Over time, as you close deals and build credibility, you'll attract lenders offering better terms.Finding Deals: The Action StepsSo, how do you break into the business and start finding great deals?Put Yourself Out There: Start by telling everyone what you're doing. Dave suggests overcoming the natural fear of being judged or not taken seriously. The market rewards those who educate and share.Network the Right Way: Use social media strategically—on Facebook, show your family and authentic self. Mix in regular updates about your deals, but keep it natural and genuine. The goal is to build relationships, not just blast advertisements.The Personal Touch: Dave is a master at relationship building. He regularly sends hundreds of personalized holiday texts to his network. Not every message is about business. It's about staying top-of-mind and nurturing relationships without strings attached.Transparency with Lenders: When it comes time to fund deals, Dave keeps it simple for his private money partners, showing basic numbers and security (like a mortgage or promissory note). He distinguishes his deals by avoiding syndications, instead offering lenders first-lien security on a single property for maximum safety.Final ThoughtsDave Payerchin's approach is refreshingly honest and actionable. He reminds us that the secret sau

In real estate investing, raising private money is often seen as a numbers game, but at its core, it's really about relationships. This is precisely the message Jay Conner and his guest, Kevin Thompson, share in their enlightening conversation on the "Raising Private Money" podcast. Kevin, an entrepreneur with a proven track record of facilitating hundreds of strategic partnerships, brings knowledge about the true power of relationship capital.The Power of Relationship CapitalBusiness success, especially in fields reliant on collaboration and investment, doesn't exist in a vacuum. Kevin Thompson's journey highlights how critical relationships are—not just transactional contacts, but meaningful, mutually beneficial connections. Over the years, Kevin has helped fellow entrepreneurs generate millions in revenue, not by relentless self-promotion, but through thoughtful introduction, collaboration, and service.A central idea in Kevin's approach is treating relationships with genuine care. Relationships aren't merely a means to an end; they are the end in themselves. The entrepreneurs who grow their businesses consistently are those who invest time and authentic energy in nurturing their network. Whether it's private lenders in real estate or partners in other industries, the principle remains the same: showing up with a servant's heart creates a ripple effect that supports long-term growth.Defining and Creating Strategic PartnershipsMany business owners misunderstand the essence of strategic partnerships. It's not simply finding someone to promote your offerings for a cut of the revenue. Kevin emphasizes that a successful partnership is two people coming together to achieve more collectively than they ever could individually. The most fruitful collaborations begin not with, ‘What can you do for me?' but with, ‘How can I help you serve your clients better?'This shift in mindset is transformative. It allows both parties to explore their unique skills and resources and see how they can uplift each other. The real value isn't just sales or dollars but the experience and trust that's built along the way. Kevin's network is a testament to this philosophy—he's facilitated over 400 strategic partnerships by focusing not on what he can gain, but on how he can help others grow.Being the ConnectorKevin has become known as "The Connector," not simply for the sheer volume of relationships he's built, but for the quality and impact of those connections. His approach is proactive and intentional. Rather than wait for opportunities to come to him, Kevin reaches out to those who inspire him, often from something as small as a thoughtful social media post. He compliments, appreciates, and asks probing questions—curious to learn what excites the other person and how he might contribute to their success.Even when facilitating introductions between others, Kevin's focus is on alignment of values, interests, and intention. True partnerships are only possible when there's a natural fit, and Kevin's intuition allows him to discern these opportunities effectively.Leading with Service—The Secret to ReciprocityOne of the most powerful lessons from Kevin's story is the approach of giving without expectation. Giving appreciation, attention, and help without any strings attached creates an environment where reciprocity happens naturally. Sometimes the benefits return directly from the person you help, other times from an unexpected source. This is the essence of the "law of reciprocity"—what goes around, comes around, often amplified.Implementing Relationship-Building in Your BusinessFor those wanting to implement these principles, the process begins with genuine curiosity. Start new conversations by asking sincerely what the other person is passionate about or currently working on. Listen with intent, not with an agenda. Look for way

If you're exploring strategies to build wealth, especially through real estate, the recent conversation between Jay Conner and Kenneth Gee on the “Raising Private Money” podcast is a must-watch. Kenneth Gee, a seasoned real estate investor, CPA, and commercial lender, has over 26 years of experience, has raised more than $50 million in private money, and has been involved in transactions totaling over $2 billion. In this episode, Ken shares his journey, insights on raising and leveraging private money, and actionable strategies for both active and passive investors.From a 3 AM Epiphany to Real Estate SuccessKen's story begins with a deeply personal motivator: time with family. While working grueling hours as a CPA at Deloitte, he found his only quality time with his newborn daughter was at 3 AM feedings. This realization sparked his pursuit of better financial freedom and work-life balance. Surrounded by successful real estate clients during his lending and accounting career, he decided to dive headfirst into the multifamily property space.His start wasn't glamorous—three small apartment buildings financed using a mix of seller financing, a home equity line, and support from his in-laws. What's notable is Ken's emphasis on starting where you are, using creativity, and not waiting for perfect conditions. He warns against being paralyzed by inexperience; instead, leverage what you have and learn as you go.Why Multifamily?While many consider starting in single-family homes, Ken chose multifamily from the get-go. His logic was straightforward: scalability and risk management. With multifamily, one vacancy doesn't devastate your income stream the way it might with a single-family unit. Plus, greater cash flow allows you to hire help, freeing up your own time—a crucial consideration for those juggling busy careers or family life.Raising Private Money—Built on Trust and TransparencyOne of the most powerful sections of the podcast focuses on Ken's approach to raising private money. Early deals were funded via personal connections, but over time, his network and credibility expanded. Now, Ken runs regular webinars—open and education-focused—for potential investors.This outreach isn't about high-pressure sales. Instead, he invites people to observe, learn, and engage at their own pace. Many followers tune in for months—even years—before choosing to invest. Ken's approach is a model in building trust: provide value, answer questions, and empower investors to make informed decisions.Education and Mentorship: The Real Difference-MakersBoth Ken and Jay stress a critical but often overlooked step: get educated before diving in. Ken's advanced multifamily acquisition program is a year-long commitment with weekly group coaching calls, resources, and hands-on support. The curriculum guides students from developing their personal financial statement and business plan, all the way through underwriting deals and asset management.Why so much focus on the details? Because, as Ken says, lenders and private investors will “sniff out” gaps in your knowledge. Being detail-oriented signals trustworthiness. It's also the key to building your confidence and making sound decisions—cornerstones for long-term success.Common Mistakes—and How to Avoid ThemKen has seen many new investors stumble by underestimating the importance of due diligence and accurate underwriting. Treat real estate as a business, not a side hustle. Those who ignore the details, rush deals, or skip coaching often pay dearly, both in lost money and missed opportunities.Jay adds an important point: don't go it alone, especially early on. A coach or mentor can help you avoid unseen pitfalls and accelerate your learning curve. The resources and podcasts available today can save you the hard lessons Ken had to learn the slow way decades ago.Final Tho

In the ever-changing world of real estate investing, asset classes rise and fall with shifting markets. Yet, according to real estate veteran Kevin Bupp, one asset continuously proves its value, resilience, and scalability: mobile home parks. On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast with Jay Conner, The Private Money Authority, Kevin Bupp shared his extensive experience, including raising over $250 million in private capital, and revealed what makes mobile home parks a standout investment opportunity.The Unexpected Journey to Mobile Home ParksKevin Bupp's real estate journey began at age 19. Like many, he poured his energy into single-family rentals, building an impressive portfolio of 22 properties by his mid-20s. He tasted success but also felt the sting of the 2008 market crash, when he lost nearly everything.Reflecting on that pivotal period, Kevin noted how inefficiencies in managing scattered single-family rentals, compounded by the inefficiency of technology at the time, exposed his business to excessive risk. The crash forced him to reevaluate, rebuild smarter, and ultimately, seek out asset classes offering not just cash flow and efficiency, but also resilience. This search led Kevin to mobile home parks.Why Mobile Home Parks Offer Superior Investment Benefits Recession ResistanceOne of the central appeals of mobile home parks is their stability during economic downturns. Historically, demand for affordable housing rises when the economy struggles. Mobile home parks cater directly to this need, providing low-cost living options that are in constant demand, regardless of market cycles.As Kevin explained, even during periods when single-family home rents fell, mobile home parks remained relatively stable. Residents of these communities rarely leave; replacing or moving a mobile home is expensive, creating natural “stickiness” and consistent occupancy for park owners. Operational Efficiency & ScalabilityUnlike single-family rentals spread across a wide geographic area, each with its operational quirks, a well-managed mobile home park can comprise dozens or even hundreds of income-producing units on one property. Kevin cited his company's experience, scaling from a 34-lot park to properties holding over 700 sites, allowing rapid expansion without proportional increases in overhead.Operationally, many residents in mobile home parks own their homes and simply rent the lots, reducing maintenance costs and management headaches for the investor. This model allows investors to focus on the land and common infrastructure, not individual unit repairs. Barriers to Entry and Limited CompetitionMunicipalities often resist the development of new mobile home parks due to lingering social stigma and zoning challenges. This makes existing parks more valuable over time, insulating owners from the risk of market oversupply. As Kevin put it, many parks were built decades ago and are still held by the original owners. Buying these properties often means acquiring from “mom and pop” operators, frequently below market value. Attractive Financing and Creative Purchasing OptionsKevin detailed how long-term relationships with owners and a reputation for fair, reliable purchases lead to creative financing opportunities, including owner financing with favorable terms, further improving margins and investor returns.The Role of Private Money and Building Investor RelationshipsA core theme of Kevin's discussion was raising and leveraging private capital to fuel growth. He emphasized the importance of sharing real results transparently, whether in networking groups, social media, or his podcast, as a magnet for investor interest. Kevin's approach is simple: prove success, speak openly about your business, an

In a world where career changes are increasingly common, the story of Dan Cantillana stands out as an inspiring example of how one can transition from a seemingly unrelated profession into a remarkable success in real estate. From the busy corridors of a fourth-grade classroom to the dynamic world of real estate investment, Dan's journey is one fueled by passion, purpose, and the drive to uplift others through his ventures.Dan's career began as a fourth-grade teacher, a role that instilled in him a love for educating and helping others. However, his path took an exciting turn when he connected with real estate mogul Jay Conner's podcast and book on raising private money—a pivotal moment that encouraged him to dive into the real estate market. What started as a curiosity soon transformed into a calling. Inspired by what he learned, Dan immersed himself in the world of real estate, flipping properties and improving communities while simultaneously offering investors double-digit returns.One of the most striking aspects of Dan's story is his approach to raising private money. He began by simply sharing what he was learning and doing with his network. By leveraging his ability to communicate effectively—a skill honed in his teaching years—Dan garnered attention and interest from potential investors. Embracing the power of storytelling, Dan utilized short videos and email marketing to capture the essence of each property deal, making his investors feel a part of the journey. His mantra, "Do you like making money in your sleep? Call me," encapsulates the appealing simplicity and honesty of his approach.Dan's business thrives on relationships and transparency. His commitment to his investors, whom he considers partners, is evident in his dedication to making the real estate investment experience both profitable and enjoyable. It's not just about the financial returns; it's about being part of a story that transforms communities and uplifts neighborhoods. Dan's emphasis on customer experience and communication has grown his referral-based business, building a robust network of satisfied investors.The foundation of Dan's success lies not only in his teaching skills and ability to communicate but also in his unwavering dedication to his values. His master's degree in Christian leadership underscores a life guided by principles that he applies both personally and professionally. Dan's real estate ventures are not just about making money; they are about making a difference, reinforcing community strength, and helping others build wealth.Technology and networking play a significant role in Dan's business model. From attending meetups to leveraging social media and tapping into the power of search engine optimization, his approach is multifaceted, much like a perfectly prepared dish of chicken gumbo. Every element adds flavor, culminating in a successful strategy for finding off-market properties and raising private money.Dan Cantillana's journey from a fourth-grade teacher to a real estate entrepreneur showcases the potential that lies within career transitions. His story is a testament to the power of lifelong learning and the impact of mentorship—a theme he consistently returns to, continually crediting his success to the support and guidance of those around him. By courageously stepping into real estate and sharing his journey, Dan has not only transformed his own life but has also created opportunities for others to grow and prosper. His story serves as an inspiration to anyone seeking to pivot their career toward new horizons.In conclusion, whether you're a seasoned investor or a curious beginner, the lessons from Dan's journey are clear: embrace learning, leverage your existing skills, communicate your vision, and above all, remain committed to helping others. With these principles, success is not just a goal; it's a journey worth pursuing.If you're inspired by Dan's journey

In today's fast-paced world, many of us find ourselves trapped in the endless cycle of the 9 to 5 grind, yearning for a taste of financial freedom and a lifestyle that truly resonates with our personal values. Michael Hoang, a real estate investor from Houston, Texas, once found himself in this very predicament. However, through strategic real estate investments, he managed to escape the daily grind and now dedicates his life to helping others achieve the same.Before diving into real estate, Michael was entrenched in the telecom industry, working as a risk manager with a grueling travel schedule that spanned the U.S., Canada, and even Puerto Rico. As he juggled this demanding routine, he recognized the unsustainable nature of his professional life. Motivated by the desire for stability and a gentle nudge from his wife, he embarked on a quest for financial independence through real estate.Michael's journey in real estate began with "house hacking," a strategy where one purchases a multi-unit property, lives in one unit, and rents out the others. This initial step provided a crucial foundation for his real estate business, allowing him to build capital and experience. However, he soon learned that fear and hesitation had initially held him back from progressing further, despite possessing the necessary knowledge and tools.His breakthrough came when he discovered the power of private money. Traditional financing methods, such as hard money lending, often come with cumbersome paperwork and higher costs. In contrast, private money offered a more flexible and relationship-driven approach, making it easier to secure funding quickly and efficiently. This strategy enabled him to scale his operations significantly faster.Michael credits much of his success to direct-to-seller marketing, emphasizing the importance of finding deals off-market through methods like direct mail. Despite numerous technological advancements, he attests to the timeless efficiency of direct mail in reaching potential sellers and securing profitable deals.Furthermore, Michael utilizes the BRRRR method (Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, Repeat), acquiring distressed properties, renovating them, and refinancing to recoup his initial investment. This method has allowed him to recycle his capital repeatedly, growing his portfolio and wealth without the limitations imposed by traditional financing institutions.Through networking and relationship-building at local meetups and self-directed IRA gatherings, Michael connected with private money lenders who shared his vision. He emphasizes the significance of nurturing these relationships early, suggesting that aspiring investors "dig their well before they are thirsty" to avoid desperation when a lucrative deal arises.Michael's story is not just about financial gain; it's about creating a fulfilling life based on personal values and priorities. He finds joy in knowing that his investments not only provide him with financial freedom but also benefit his private lenders, creating a cycle of opportunity and growth.His journey underscores a critical lesson: in real estate, as in life, relationships are everything. Whether it's connecting with potential sellers or building trust with private lenders, Michael's approach revolves around integrity and mutual benefit, resulting in a win-win scenario for all parties involved.As he continues to expand his real estate ventures and digital presence, Michael remains committed to sharing his knowledge and insights. Through his podcast, "The Be Someone Podcast," and his active participation on social media, he inspires others to break free from their constraints and pursue lives of passion and purpose.In a world where many feel trapped by the constraints of traditional career paths, Michael Hoang's success story offers hope and inspiration. By leveraging creative real estate strategies and cultivating meaningful relation

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@BlueCollarWealthClub  "Becoming a Private Lender with Jay Connerl"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-k2ACFciBk  In the world of real estate investing, securing funds efficiently and reliably can be the linchpin to scaling your business. Jay Conner, a seasoned real estate investor and the so-called "Private Money Authority," recently shared his invaluable insights on the Blue Collar Wealth Club podcast with host Jerry Garcia. His journey from banker-dependent investor to private money mogul presents a fascinating story of innovation, resilience, and education.The Turning Point: A Crisis into OpportunityJay's foray into private money was not born out of curiosity but necessity. After six years of relying on traditional bank loans, he faced an unexpected closure of his line of credit in 2009, despite a strong credit history. This abrupt financial crisis pushed him to seek alternative funding methods, leading him to discover private money.In a conversation with a fellow investor, Jay learned about the world of private lending and self-directed IRAs, where individuals can use their retirement funds to invest in real estate for higher returns. This discovery was pivotal. He realized that the key to raising private money lay in educating potential lenders rather than asking for loans.Educate First: The Private Money ProgramJay emphasizes the importance of separating the conversation about potential investments from actual funding requests. His approach is based on teaching individuals about the opportunity to become private lenders. He crafted a comprehensive program that includes competitive interest rates, attractive terms, and robust security measures.By conveying this knowledge through private lender luncheons and one-on-one meetings, Jay effectively secures significant funds without making direct asks. He underscores that desperation has a smell, and by providing information upfront, potential lenders are drawn in by curiosity and interest rather than pressure. This strategy has allowed him to cultivate a network of 47 private lenders, amassing $8.5 million in funds.Building Trust and Offering SecurityFor Jay and his private lenders, trust is paramount. He demonstrates his commitment by securing all loans with real estate, providing a 25% equity cushion to safeguard against market fluctuations. Additionally, lenders are named as mortgagees on insurance policies, ensuring their interests are protected.By acting as the underwriter, Jay guarantees that his deals align with the pre-established terms, eliminating any surprises for lenders. His success in consistently securing private money is rooted in transparency, reliability, and the proactive teaching of financial opportunities.Empowering Business Owners with Private LendingJay extends his insights beyond real estate, suggesting how business owners can leverage private lending. For those seeking to become lenders, he advises knowing the borrower's experience and securing loans wherever possible. For business owners in need of funds, Jay suggests having a well-planned program to present to potential lenders.He highlights the advantage of having funds lined up before they are needed, preventing the desperation-driven pitfalls seen in alternative financing options like merchant cash advances. This approach offers business owners a flexible, lower-cost borrowing option, helping them manage cash flow and growth seamlessly.Beyond Real Estate: A Broader VisionJay's teachings on private money are not confined to real estate. They offer a blueprint for financial empowerment, allow

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@BolaAlabi "How to Build a 7-Figure Real Estate Business with Less Than 10 Hours a Week"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlHGPU8cB0Q  The real estate world is a sphere of endless opportunities, yet financing often stands as the primary barrier for both new and seasoned investors. While traditional bank loans have long been the go-to option, they come with their fair share of hurdles and red tape. Enter private money—a game-changing concept that's revolutionizing how deals are funded and executed. In a recent enlightening episode on the Raisig Private Money podcast, Jay Conner joins Bola Alabi on The Career Evangelist Podcast and shares his invaluable insights on harnessing the potential of private money to transform the way you invest in real estate.Why Consider Private Money?Jay Conner's journey into private money began from a place of necessity when his bank unexpectedly cut off his line of credit. Finding himself in a predicament with two deals under contract and no funding, Conner asked a crucial question: "Who do you know that can help you with your problem?" This led him to discover private money through a fellow investor, Jeff Blankenship. Unlike traditional loans that often require personal guarantees and creaking through endless bank procedures, private money is sourced from individuals looking to invest their capital or retirement funds in real estate for attractive returns.The beauty of private money lies in its flexibility and accessibility. Whether you aim to purchase single-family homes, commercial buildings, or apartments, the structure remains consistent. The process is less about convincing hard money lenders and more about creating mutually beneficial relationships with people eager to see their money grow.The Role of Education and Relationship BuildingJay emphasizes the importance of educating potential lenders and establishing trust as fundamental to raising private money. His approach involves putting on his "teacher hat" rather than pitching deals out of desperation. By clearly explaining the investment opportunity, the security of their funds, and the expected returns, Jay reframes private lending from a transactional agreement to an educational and collaborative partnership. This helps in fostering long-term relationships where lenders are comfortable and eager to participate in future projects.To illustrate, Jay has developed a network of 47 private lenders, none of whom knew about private money until he explained it. His ability to attract constant investment is rooted in being transparent and providing sound knowledge about private lending, ensuring that both sides of the table feel informed and secure.Strategies for SuccessOne of the standout strategies Jay shared on the podcast is the benefit of having funds ready before contracting a deal. This involves separating the conversations about lending opportunities and specific deals, thus allowing investors to feel prepared and confident when entering negotiations. Unlike the conventional wisdom that suggests getting a deal and hoping for the funds to materialize, Jay insists on the contrary—having a financial plan beforehand empowers investors to act swiftly and assuredly.Moreover, he suggests structuring deals with flexibility in mind, such as offering interest-only payments, allowing lenders to earn consistently without reducing your cash flow during the holding period. This pragmatic approach to investor relations underscores Jay's philosophy of leading with a servant's heart and adds an appealing layer of security for lenders.ConclusionJay Conner's journey and expert

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@TheMHPExchange "How To Find The Money To Finance Your Next Deal"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC635vBeyTA  Navigating the world of real estate can often feel like traversing a maze, especially when it comes to securing funding for your deals. For those feeling daunted by the hurdles of traditional banking, Jay Conner, renowned as the "Private Money Authority," shares invaluable insights into how investors can break free from the constraints of conventional lending methods.Jay's journey into private money lending began out of necessity back in 2009, during the global financial crisis. Like many real estate investors at that time, Jay found himself in a bind when his reliable line of credit from the bank was abruptly closed. However, rather than seeing this as a setback, Jay turned it into an opportunity to explore alternative funding sources. This exploration introduced him to the world of private money—a realm that would transform his real estate career.Private money lending involves working with individuals who are willing to lend their personal investment capital in exchange for attractive returns. Unlike traditional banks, which often impose stringent credit checks and collateral requirements, private lenders offer flexibility, allowing you to make your own rules. Jay emphasizes that the cornerstone of his success in this arena has been education and relationship-building. By wearing his "teacher hat," he educates potential private lenders about the secure, high-return opportunities available through real estate investments.One of the key insights Jay shared on the podcast is the importance of investing in your local community—an approach he prefers, as it allows him to maintain better oversight of his investments. However, he notes that private money principles are versatile and can be applied across various real estate asset classes, from single-family homes to mobile home parks.Jay's strategy pivots around the concept of a "good news phone call," a unique approach he uses to fund deals without ever explicitly asking for money. After educating individuals on private money, Jay simply calls them with news of a potential investment that matches their pre-discussed funding capability. This approach is not just about maintaining control over investments but also about offering genuine value to lenders by securing their investments with real estate, therefore ensuring that both parties benefit.The podcast also highlighted an often-overlooked avenue—self-directed IRAs. For those with retirement accounts, directing funds into real estate can yield higher returns compared to traditional investment vehicles. Jay reiterated the importance of establishing a relationship with a self-directed IRA company, thus providing an additional pathway for potential investors to engage in real estate funding.Jay's emphasis on mindset—"owning the real estate between your ears"—is pivotal. Many potential investors are held back by fear and a scarcity mindset, unaware of the abundant capital available for real estate deals. Jay's narrative breaks these barriers, demonstrating that with confidence, knowledge, and the right network, securing private money can be a seamless process.Entrepreneurs and real estate newcomers alike stand to gain from Jay's wealth of knowledge, particularly those eager to explore non-traditional funding routes. His book, "Where to Get the Money Now," which he generously offers for free (just cover shipping), is an excellent starting point for anyone looking to delve deeper into private money lending.This episode is more than just a guide to securing funding—it's an empowering call to action for investors

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@drchrisloomdphd "Unlock Real Estate Success: Mastering Private Money Lending with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=so-s2bKVElA&t=67s In the world of real estate investing, securing funding can be one of the most critical challenges. A rigorous, time-consuming process often accompanies traditional bank loans, and the limitations they impose can stifle even the most promising deals. Enter private money lending—a game-changer for real estate investors, offering a flexible and efficient alternative that can help you seize opportunities without the usual headaches.The Journey to Private MoneyTake it from Jay Conner, a seasoned real estate investor featured on Dr. Christopher Loo's Financial Freedom Podcast. His journey into the realm of private money began out of necessity. After years of dealing with banks and having his line of credit unexpectedly pulled during a financial crisis, Jay turned his attention to private lenders—individuals who were willing to invest their funds for a solid return. This pivot not only saved his business but opened up a wealth of opportunities.Why Private Lenders Are Attracted to Real EstateJay Conner outlines several key reasons why private lenders are drawn to real estate investments. First, they earn impressive returns, far surpassing the interest rates of traditional savings accounts or CDs. While he has consistently offered his lenders an 8% return, even in volatile markets, such rates are enticing compared to the low returns at traditional banks.Second, private lenders appreciate the security real estate investments offer. Unlike stocks, which can be highly volatile, real estate deals provide a stable principal, backed by tangible assets. Lenders have the added security of a promissory note collateralized by the property, reducing their risk.Third, private lending is straightforward. Lenders know exactly what their returns will be without the unpredictability of market fluctuations. This reliability makes it an attractive option for individuals seeking to diversify their income streams with minimal stress.The Distinction Between Private and Hard MoneyIt's important to understand that private money lending is distinct from hard money lending. While both serve as alternatives to traditional financing, hard money lenders typically operate as brokers, charging higher interest rates and fees. In contrast, private money lending involves direct relationships between investors and individual lenders, offering more favorable terms.As Jay explains, private lenders are not institutions but real people who are eager to invest their savings or retirement funds into real estate. This personal connection often results in more favorable lending terms, such as no origination fees, lower interest rates, and no extension fees, allowing investors the flexibility to get paid when they buy properties.Building Credibility with LendersGaining the trust of private lenders hinges on credibility. New investors can begin by tapping into their existing networks—friends, family, colleagues, or acquaintances who might be interested in becoming private lenders. Expanding one's network can also be achieved through platforms like Business Networking International (BNI), where professionals connect to share leads and explore investment opportunities.Additionally, partnering with self-directed IRA companies can lead investors to individuals who are already familiar with private lending. These existing lenders may require negotiation, but can provide a valuable source of funding.ConclusionPrivate money lending can revolutionize your real estate investing venture by p

In the ever-evolving world of real estate investment, flexibility and innovation often pave the way to success. One such innovative strategy that has gained traction among savvy investors is the "subject to" method. This approach allows investors to acquire properties by taking over existing mortgages, offering a unique blend of flexibility, speed, and opportunity. In this blog post, we delve into the insights shared by real estate expert William Tingle, as he discusses the nuances of creative financing in his conversation with Jay Conner.What is a "Subject To" Deal?A "subject to" deal is a real estate transaction where the buyer takes over the seller's existing mortgage without formally assuming the loan. In this arrangement, the mortgage remains in the seller's name, but the purchaser takes ownership of the property and continues making the payments. This strategy often bypasses the traditional financing process, offering an intriguing solution for both buyers and sellers facing unique situations.The Mechanics Behind the StrategyWilliam Tingle, an experienced investor who has completed over 500 subject-to transactions, emphasizes the simplicity and legal foundation of this approach. These deals hinge on understanding and navigating the due-on-sale clause, a standard component of mortgages since the 1980s. This clause gives lenders the option to demand full repayment if the property is sold. However, as Tingle highlights, this option is rarely exercised as long as the payments are made on time and the loan remains in good standing.The genius lies in the practicality — investors keep the payments current, ensuring the lender rarely has a reason to call the loan due. This method allows investors like Tingle to acquire properties even when traditional financing would be cumbersome or slow.Why Sellers Opt for "Subject To" DealsOne might wonder why a seller would agree to leave their mortgage in someone else's hands. Tingle clears up the misconception that only desperate sellers or those in financial distress consider this route. Many sellers choose the "subject to" method for its speed and convenience. Individuals facing relocation for personal or medical reasons might opt out of the lengthy selling process to avoid holding two mortgages. Others may have unique circumstances, like preserving their credit while avoiding foreclosure, that make this an appealing solution.The Role of Private MoneyCombining subject-to strategies with private money amplifies the financial flexibility available to investors. Jay Conner points out that creative financing doesn't end with taking over mortgages; it can extend to raising private money for property improvements or bridging the gap between acquisition and resale. This approach unlocks additional avenues for generating cash flow and leveraging opportunities in real estate markets.Building Trust in Creative FinancingTrust and transparency form the backbone of successful subject-to transactions. William Tingle underscores the importance of clear communication with sellers. By providing reassurance through testimonials and being upfront about potential risks, investors mitigate apprehensions and lay a solid foundation for collaboration. Tingle's business thrives on its track record and positioning as a reliable problem-solver, helping people navigate the complex landscape of real estate with confidence.The Bottom LineCreative financing, particularly through subject-to deals, offers an innovative path in real estate investing. For those equipped with the knowledge and creativity to harness this strategy, it can lead to lucrative opportunities and significant cash flow. William Tingle and Jay Conner's discussion highlights the potential within this method, encouraging investors to think outside the conventional realm and explore the advantages of creative financing

When investors think of diversifying their portfolios, the immediate thought often veers towards stocks and bonds. However, as markets evolve and become increasingly volatile, alternative investment strategies are gaining traction among savvy investors. The podcast episode featuring Thomas McPherson, led by Jay Conner, provides valuable insights into how real estate and private lending can serve as powerful tools for financial growth and stability.The Value of Private MoneyOne of the key themes discussed in the episode is the role of private money in real estate investments. Unlike institutional financing, which can be laden with complex processes and stringent requirements, private money offers flexibility and a more personal touch. Tomas McPherson emphasizes the advantages of using private funds, which often result in uncorrelated returns compared to traditional stock investments. This aspect of diversification is crucial, especially in uncertain economic times.Lukrom I Fund: A Case StudyTomas McPherson outlines the workings of the Lukrom I Fund, a private money loan fund dedicated to real estate investors. The fund is heralded for its conservative approach, aiming for consistent and reliable monthly income. With a Loan-to-Value (LTV) ratio of 52%, the fund provides a layer of safety for investors, safeguarding their interests unless the market experiences severe declines exceeding 65%.Investors in the Lukrom I Fund can expect returns between 7% to 10%, which, while modest, are stable and less prone to market fluctuations. The fund's "first loss commitment," where owners absorb losses up to $5 million, further underscores the alignment of interests between fund managers and investors.Expanding Horizons: Aggressive Lending and Opportunity ZonesBeyond the Lukrom I Fund, Thomas McPherson introduces the concept of more aggressive investment vehicles, such as the soon-to-launch Lukrom Mending Fund. These funds offer higher pay rates but also carry increased risk, suitable for investors with an appetite for bolder endeavors.Moreover, opportunity zone projects are highlighted as significant undertakings for long-term wealth accumulation. Thomas McPherson's involvement in over $100 million worth of these projects showcases the potential of strategic real estate investments. Opportunity zones provide tax benefits and encourage investments in economically distressed communities, aligning financial gain with community development.Building Trust and ConfidenceAnother intriguing discussion in the episode revolves around the psychological aspects of investing. Thomas McPherson recounts his challenging trek—a metaphor for the investment journey—emphasizing the importance of self-belief and validation from supportive networks. His advice of "gathering positive affirmation" and engaging in personal interactions rather than relying solely on digital tools resonates deeply in a world brimming with virtual connections.Educating Investors: A Shared GoalJay Conner's approach to attracting private lenders through education, rather than solicitation, was another focal point. By teaching prospects about private lending and the nuances of self-directed IRAs, investors are empowered with knowledge that shapes their financial journeys.Both Thomas McPherson and Jay Conner stress the importance of relationships based on trust. Personal connections, whether established through investor dinners, unique networking strategies, or shared interests, form the backbone of successful investing. This emphasis on relationship-building is integral to sustaining long-term partnerships.Conclusion: Embrace the New Era of InvestingThe insights shared by Thomas McPherson and Jay Conner are not just about embracing alternative investments but also about reshaping how we think of risk, trust, and community involvement in our

In the ever-evolving world of real estate, striking a perfect balance between strategy and innovation is crucial. For many aspiring investors, the question often is, "How do I start and build a successful portfolio?" Look no further than Ryan Chaw's proven approach, which emphasizes student housing, automation, and smart property management.From Pharmacy to Real Estate MogulRyan Chaw's transition from a full-time pharmacist to a successful real estate investor is both extraordinary and inspiring. By leveraging a "room hacking system," he managed to multiply his rental income and accumulate significant wealth by the age of 28. At 31, Ryan retired from his pharmacy career, choosing instead to live off his rental income. His journey underlines the potential of real estate investment as a means to achieve financial freedom.The Power of Room HackingCore to Ryan's strategy is the concept of renting out single-family homes by the room, a model that significantly increases rental income as compared to leasing an entire property. For instance, by renting bedrooms individually at rates like $700 each, he maximizes earnings, often tripling the income compared to traditional rentals. His properties consistently generate substantial monthly cash flow even after mortgage and operational expenses, showcasing the financial viability of this model.Automated Tenant ManagementRyan's system relies heavily on automation and virtual assistance to streamline tenant management. By employing virtual assistants in the Philippines, he efficiently manages marketing, customer service, and day-to-day operations. This international team helps cut costs while ensuring smooth property management.Ryan's approach includes using automated platforms like Avail to list properties across various housing sites, coupled with Google Apps Script to manage lead responses automatically. He's also able to scrutinize and select quality tenants using his PRIME method, thus ensuring stability and reducing tenant turnover.Focused Strategy in Diverse MarketsRyan's success spans across various cities, from Sacramento and Stockton in California to Huntsville, Alabama, and Cleveland, Ohio. His focus primarily targets students in graduate programs, ensuring a reliable tenant base that seeks affordable yet quality housing. By avoiding distressed property purchases and instead acquiring properties at market value, Ryan's model distinguishes itself from traditional real estate strategies.Renting by the Room: A Community ApproachWhile some might view room sharing as unconventional, Ryan finds that many students prefer this co-living model as it tends to be more affordable than campus housing or apartments. By maintaining shared common areas and ensuring amenities like furnishings are provided, these properties become attractive options for students. Moreover, local "boots on the ground" and incentivized students also assist in property tours and maintenance, creating a community-driven management approach.Achieving Real Estate Success for New InvestorsRyan is a strong advocate for new investors starting as soon as possible. His blueprint suggests that with the right number of properties—typically around 4-5—an investor can replace their traditional job income over 5-8 years, achieving financial freedom. Properties under his model yield between $1,500 and $4,000 in monthly net cash flow, enabling investors to build a sustainability-focused portfolio.Resources and SupportFor those eager to dive into real estate, Ryan offers a free PDF guide on his website, which outlines how to get started. Jay Conner, a host who collaborates with Ryan, also provides valuable resources for understanding the role of private money in real estate deals.Ryan's journey and system demonstrate that success in real estate isn't merely about owning pr

In the rapidly evolving world of real estate, having the right mindset often sets apart the successful investors from the rest. Gino Barbaro, a seasoned real estate investor and author, sheds light on this pivotal concept in a recent podcast episode of Raising Private Money with Jay Conner. The discussion underscores not only the significance of mindset but also the art of attracting private money in a field often dominated by skepticism and fear.From Scarcity to Abundance: A Mindset TransformationGino Barbaro opens up about his early life, shaped by immigrant parents whose scarcity mindset dictated their relationship with money. This foundational outlook sowed seeds of fear and limiting beliefs, turning money into a source of anxiety rather than empowerment. However, Gino's journey into real estate catalyzed a profound shift. He learned that success wasn't about chasing money but creating value.One of the defining moments in Gino's career was realizing profit is merely the fuel for his ventures, not the endpoint. By treating profit as a facilitator rather than a goal, he found joy and freedom in raising capital, redefining his relationship with money from one of scarcity to abundance.Attracting Capital: The Art of Storytelling and RelationshipsJay Conner and Gino Barbaro share strategies for raising private money, emphasizing the narrative and relational aspects. In Gino's experience, multifamily investing requires more than understanding business mechanics (buying, financing, managing). It demands creating a compelling story about the investment and the investor's journey. Investors are more inclined to invest in people they trust, making personal conversations and genuine connections essential.Jay Conner supports this approach, highlighting that he has never aggressively pitched deals. Instead, he adopts an educational stance, nurturing relationships with potential lenders by focusing on value and service.Confidence Through Knowledge and PartnershipConfidence is another cornerstone of successful capital raising. Gino advises newcomers to bolster their confidence through rigorous study and real-world practice, often by partnering with seasoned investors. His transformation from an Italian restaurant owner to a full-time multifamily investor stands as a testament to the power of self-reinvention.During a pivotal negotiation, Gino embraced a new identity, shedding the "pizza guy" label and adopting that of a real estate investor. This change in self-identification provided clarity and motivation, demonstrating that confidence often emanates from how one sees oneself.Community, Relationships, and Continuous LearningBoth Conner and Barbaro stress the importance of community and relationships in building a successful real estate career. Isolation can stifle growth, whereas engaging with a community can enhance learning and confidence. For Gino, partnerships with individuals who share his values, like his business partner Jake and his wife Julia, have been instrumental in his success.Moreover, Gino's educational approach reminds us that learning is an investment. Whether through formal education or hands-on experience, continuous learning equips investors with the tools needed to navigate the complexities of real estate.Creating a Legacy of Value: The Happy Money ParadigmGino's new book, "Happy Money, Happy Family, Happy Legacy," delves into the intricate relationship between money and real estate. It challenges readers to consider not only financial legacies but also values-driven ones. By understanding why we pursue real estate, we align our financial goals with our intrinsic values, creating a more fulfilling pursuit.In conclusion, the path to success in real estate investing is paved with self-awareness, relational intelligence, and a commitment to continuous learning. By redefining our

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@larryshakman "The Real Estate Radio Show | Jay Conner | The Private Money Authority"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PdyWho_RwPg&t=244s In the world of real estate investing, access to funding is crucial. Jay Conner, a seasoned expert in private money lending, brings a wealth of knowledge to those looking to elevate their investing game. On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conners joins Larry Shakman on the Real Estate Radio Show, and shares how private money transforms the landscape for investors and why it could be a game-changer for those looking to enter the market without depending on traditional bank loans.The Concept of Private MoneyPrivate money in real estate revolves around securing funds from individual investors rather than institutional lenders like banks. Jay explains that this approach provides unparalleled flexibility. As a borrower, you can set the terms and conditions, including interest rates, loan periods, and the loan-to-value ratio. This power dynamic shift is significant compared to the traditional loan process, where banks dictate terms.Why Choose Private Money?Jay outlines several strategic advantages of using private money:Control Over Terms: As the borrower, you establish the rules—eliminating the tedious approval processes and credit checks typically required by banks.Fast Access to Funds: Investors can close deals quickly, often within seven days, making their offers more competitive in fast-moving markets.Unlimited Potential: Because there is no limit to the number of private lenders you can work with, there's also no cap on the amount you can borrow. This provides a pathway to scaling your investment portfolio more aggressively.Building Relationships with LendersJay emphasizes the importance of cultivating relationships with potential lenders, often within one's personal or professional network. Many individuals are not aware of the benefits of shifting their investments from traditional savings to real estate through self-directed IRAs or liquid capital. By educating them, investors open up new avenues for funding. Jay shares an anecdote about raising over $2 million in less than 90 days just by teaching his network about private lending.Finding Motivated SellersUnderstanding where to find deals is as crucial as having the funds to purchase them. Jay discussed how he connects with motivated sellers, focusing on for-sale-by-owners (FSBOs) and properties not listed on the traditional market. He leverages Google pay-per-lead vendors, ensuring that potential sellers reach out to him, creating warmer and more fruitful conversations. This proactive approach not only saves time but also enhances negotiation power by making investors a welcome guest rather than an unsolicited cold caller.Structuring Deals for Maximum ProfitJay outlines a threefold strategy for maximizing profits on deals:Buying Right: Use private money to purchase at a discount and always aim to buy a property at 50% or below the after-repaired value.Efficient Selling: Whether flipping or opting for a rent-to-own agreement, the goal is to secure a substantial return on investment quickly.Receiving Multiple Checks: Jay's method ensures investors receive payments at different stages—when buying, holding, and selling. This flow of funds supports the cash flow and adds to the profitability of each transaction.ConclusionJay Conner's insights on private money reveal a blueprint for real estate success that goes beyond traditional financing methods. By tapping into private money and strategically appr

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@jerryscarlato "Becoming Resilient, Private Lending, and Your Money Mindset with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-w-a6JPweUk&t=96sReal estate investing often requires substantial capital, and navigating the funding landscape can be daunting for both seasoned and new investors. In the recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner joins Jerry Scarlato in the Good Wolf Project podcast where they delve into the nuances of raising private money—a strategy that can redefine your approach to real estate investments. Understanding the Difference: Hard Money vs. Private MoneyIn the world of real estate, financing options are plentiful but can often be confusing. Jay Conner explains a common misunderstanding between hard money and private money. Hard money typically comes from brokers who pool and lend funds from individual investors, charging high interest rates and fees. This traditional route involves jumping through numerous hoops, including credit checks and financial disclosures, which can be time-consuming.Conversely, private money is a more direct transaction, where a real estate investor borrows money from an individual, cutting out the middleman. Here, the investor sets the terms, interest rates, and payment schedules, providing a more flexible and tailored financing option. This approach eliminates the need for borrowing from traditional banks or hard money lenders, offering more autonomy and speed in closing deals.Navigating the Challenges with a Resilient MindsetReal estate investing is not without its hurdles. During the conversation, Jerry and Jay highlight the importance of resilience when facing financial setbacks. Jay shares his experience during the 2008 financial crisis when he unexpectedly lost his line of credit with a local bank. This pivotal moment pushed him towards private lending, leading to a successful reevaluation and expansion of his business model.The key to overcoming challenges is adopting a proactive mindset. Rather than seeing obstacles as insurmountable problems, Jay emphasizes responding constructively and connecting with the right people who can facilitate solutions. This mindset shift from "victim" to "victor" is essential for navigating the volatile waters of real estate investing.The Power of Community and MentorshipAnother critical element of success in real estate investing is surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals and mentors. Jerry and Jay underscore the transformative impact of joining mastermind groups and engaging in communities that foster collaboration and learning. Jay recounts how mastermind groups have expedited his success by providing access to a wealth of experience and insights from industry peers.Learning from seasoned investors and sharing experiences can significantly decrease the learning curve, preventing costly mistakes and leading to more informed decision-making. As Jay aptly puts it, "What got you here today will not get you there tomorrow."Building a Sustainable Strategy for Raising Private MoneyTo successfully raise private money, Jay advises a strategic approach focused on education and relationship-building. By teaching potential lenders about the benefits of private lending and offering them a secure and appealing investment opportunity, investors can attract capital without resorting to high-pressure sales tactics. He demonstrates the power of seamless communication and structured programs in cultivating a network of private lenders eager to invest.Prospective investors can start small by hosting informational luncheons or one-on-one meetings to share insights about private lending programs. By

In an enlightening episode of the 'Raising Private Money' podcast, host Jay Conner is joined by Brian Davis, a seasoned real estate expert. Having founded the innovative Spark Rental, Brian shares invaluable insights on how both novice and experienced investors can achieve financial freedom through co-investing and private money. Coupled with his advice on intentional lifestyle design, Brian presents a blueprint for transforming how we perceive work, time, and investments.The Concept of Co-Investing: A Gateway for Middle-Class InvestorsThe cornerstone of Brian's approach lies in making real estate investments accessible to middle-class investors. His Co-Investing Club offers a compelling solution, allowing members to pool resources and bypass the traditionally prohibitive entry costs of real estate syndications and equity funds.Unlike conventional investments, which require significant capital, the club invites members to engage with just a $5 minimum investment. This model not only opens doors for those with limited resources but also offers diversification for those with larger investment capabilities. Through collective vetting of high-return, low-risk opportunities—deemed "asymmetric returns" by Brian—the club democratizes access to quality real estate investments.Demystifying Asymmetric Returns: High Gains, Low RisksBrian introduces the idea of asymmetric returns, challenging the traditional assumption that high returns are inherently tied to high risks. Instead, he encourages a more nuanced view, recognizing investments as multifaceted opportunities influenced by factors beyond risk and return.For instance, liquidity, time commitment, and investment minimums play pivotal roles in crafting a balanced portfolio. By understanding these dynamics, investors can seek opportunities that offer substantial returns with controlled risk exposure. Brian's investment club is a testament to this, strategically positioning its members to tap into diverse, high-performing assets without conventional barriers.The Role of Lifestyle Design in Financial FreedomBeyond investments, Brian advocates for conscious lifestyle design—a principle that resonates deeply with his life as an expatriate. With his family, Brian has crafted a lifestyle that prioritizes experiences and financial efficiency over traditional job constraints. By leveraging international living, they enjoy significant cost savings while accessing rich cultural experiences.Lifestyle design is more than a trending concept. It's an intentional process where individuals identify their core values and align their life decisions accordingly. Brian emphasizes the importance of financial planning, location independence, and work flexibility in this journey. By focusing on what truly matters, individuals can design lives that are not only financially sustainable but also deeply fulfilling.Steps to Your Ideal Life: Embracing the Five FreedomsBrian outlines a practical framework called the "Five Freedoms" to aid listeners in mapping their ideal lives:Financial Freedom: Eliminate financial stress by establishing a sturdy monetary foundation—encompassing budgeting, savings, and emergency funds.Time Freedom: Adjust your work schedule to gain control over your hours, enabling a healthier work-life balance.Location Freedom: Decide where you want to live and work, embracing opportunities that might lie beyond your current locale.Work Freedom: Pursue work that aligns with your passions and values, recognizing that true satisfaction often comes from doing meaningful work.Comprehensive Financial Independence: While complete financial freedom is desirable, achieving work freedom allows for a balanced fulfillment between personal dreams and financial responsibilities.Conclusion: The Journey AheadBrian's innovative inves

In a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner delves into the inspiring journey of Jonathan Broyles, a real estate investor from Lexington, Kentucky, who, along with his wife Cara, has been making waves in the industry since attending Jay's live private money conference in February 2022. With a remarkable track record of closing 17 deals and raising nearly $2,000,000 in private funding, Jonathan shares valuable tips and insights on how to leverage private money for real estate ventures.Understanding Private Money in Real EstatePrivate money is a powerful tool for real estate investors looking to bypass traditional banking methods. Unlike loans from banks or hard money lenders, private lending involves securing funds from individuals who act in the capacity of a bank, offering investors flexibility, speed, and fewer restrictions on their transactions.Jonathan, in his discussion with Jay, highlights the simplicity and efficiency of using private money. The traditional bank processes are often slow and laden with bureaucracies, which can be a hindrance for investors needing to move quickly on a property. Private lenders provide a smooth, straightforward financing process, allowing investors like Jonathan to close deals efficiently and with confidence.The Role of Private LendersPrivate lenders are typically everyday individuals dissatisfied with the returns from traditional investments such as CDs, money markets, or volatile stock markets. By investing in real estate through private lending, they secure a consistent and often higher rate of return, backed by the real estate itself.Jonathan emphasizes the importance of building relationships with these lenders. For him and Cara, the goal is to offer financial opportunities that benefit the lenders, creating a win-win situation. They source funds from savings accounts, money markets, and retirement accounts, transforming these into lucrative investments for their private lenders.Real-Life Impact: A Case StudyJonathan shares a compelling story of one of their private lenders, a widow who was previously earning a meager $750 annually from her money market investments. By shifting her funds to a private lending structure with Jonathan and Cara, her annual earnings skyrocketed to over $12,000. Such impactful changes illustrate the profound difference private money can make not only for investors but also for the lenders themselves.Benefits for InvestorsJonathan explains how private money offers several advantages over traditional financing for real estate investors. Firstly, it provides unparalleled speed, an essential aspect when competing for properties, especially those requiring quick solutions. Secondly, there are no limitations on the number of ongoing deals, offering investors the flexibility to expand and diversify their portfolios.Furthermore, using private money allows Jonathan and Cara to adhere strictly to financial safety measures for their investors. They ensure deals are never over-leveraged, maintaining a robust equity cushion and securing investments with mortgages similar to banks.A $1,250,000 Deal: A WalkthroughOne of Jonathan's most compelling examples is a current deal with an after-repaired value of $1,250,000. He explains their meticulous process: starting with finding the property through a reputable wholesaler, assessing the extent of necessary repairs, and calculating precise offer limits based on potential returns and costs.Even when the wholesaler's asking price was significantly higher, Jonathan and Cara's disciplined approach, sticking to their formulated offer based on realistic repair estimates and conservative valuations, paid off. The wholesaler eventually agreed to their terms, demonstrating the power of adhering to solid financial principles.Final ThoughtsJonathan Broyles' j

*** Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@TheCREAMrealestate "How to raise private money without asking for money"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a58toe2v0oo Raising private money is often shrouded in misconception and apprehension. The intriguing podcast episode featuring Jay Conner, a seasoned expert in the field, hosted by Dave Payerchin and RJ Pepino, dismantles these barriers. Let's delve into the wisdom shared on the transformative power of mindset, strategic approaches to capital raising, and the pivotal role of education in dominating the real estate market.Mastering Mindset for SuccessJay Conner begins the conversation with an essential reality check – that the journey to successfully raising private money starts with owning the “real estate between your ears”. This metaphor encapsulates the fundamental idea that confidence, trust, credibility, and reliability are the cornerstones of exciting investment interest in potential partners. Jay stresses that one must exude these qualities from within to attract private lenders.Central to this is the mindset transformation from viewing oneself as a supplicant, dependent on the whims of traditional banking avenues, to adopting a posture of partnership and opportunity sharing. As Jay reveals, “The power is in the questions.” Asking who within your network can assist with your funding needs opens the door to new possibilities – a strategy that proved invaluable when traditional banks turned down their requests in 2009.The Educator's EdgeInnovation often comes through the simplest shifts in approach, and this podcast shines a light on the importance of education in raising private capital. RJ Pepino encapsulates this with the poignant statement, “He who educates the market dominates the market.” Jay echoes this sentiment by emphasizing how crucial it is to become a private money teacher, rather than a salesperson.By leading with a servant's heart, an investor can subtly but powerfully distinguish themselves as experts and stewards of opportunity, sparking interest in potential partners. Jay Conner has entirely reframed conversations with private lenders by first educating them about the potential of private money, often before even bringing up a specific deal. This signature move removes the “stink” of desperation, instead focusing on the abundant possibilities available to investors and private lenders alike.Key Strategies for Private Money SuccessJay articulates a vital strategy in capital raising: keeping investment discussions and deal presentations separately. This step is crucial in ensuring that discussions about opportunities remain educational, rather than transactional. By segregating these conversations, an investor positions themselves as a partner offering valuable knowledge, thus alleviating pressure and creating a natural entry point for later deal-specific discussions.Moreover, he highlights the benefits of flexibility through tools such as self-directed IRAs, which many potential lenders are unfamiliar with. By leveraging these tools, investors can offer novel ways for partners to gain substantial returns, guided through each step by the investor's knowledge and experience.Mindset and Success: The Symphony of GrowthThroughout the episode, Dave Payerchin and RJ Pepino passionately align with Jay Conner's vision, reminding listeners that mindset is not just about how one views the world, but also how one positions oneself within it. By exercising gratitude and positivity, even seasoned investors can further their growth and prosperity. "Focus on what you are sowing and let what you reap take care of itself," is a powerful mantra of this mindset.

***Guest AppearanceCredit to:https://www.youtube.com/@BryceMatheson "Raising Private Money Without Begging or Selling – with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5CLJHif2RsWhen it comes to real estate investment, securing funding is often the most daunting aspect of closing a deal. Jay Conner, a seasoned expert in private lending, offers invaluable insights for both budding and veteran investors. As discussed in a recent podcast hosted by Bryce Matheson, Jay breaks down the art of leveraging private money to fuel real estate ventures. Here's a comprehensive look at the strategies and insights shared by Jay Conner during the podcast episode.Understanding Private Money LendingPrivate money lending involves securing funds from individuals rather than traditional financial institutions. Jay emphasizes the significant role private money has played in transforming his real estate business, especially when traditional funding routes, like bank loans, become unavailable. For Jay, the journey into private money began out of necessity. In 2009, when his reliable line of credit was abruptly closed, he turned to private money following the advice of a fellow investor friend. This pivotal move not only sustained his business but enabled it to thrive.The Mindset of a Private Money TeacherOne key takeaway from Jay's approach is the mindset shift required to succeed in private money lending. He advises that instead of viewing oneself as desperate or in need of begging, one should adopt the role of a teacher. Jay emphasizes educating potential private lenders—ordinary people who might not even realize the potential of their idle funds—about the benefits and mechanics of private lending. This educational approach not only builds rapport but also establishes trust, which is crucial in this domain.Navigating the Private Money LandscapeJay shares a strategic method for managing and attracting private lenders without appearing desperate: separating the conversation about the lending program from the deals themselves. This involves first educating potential lenders about the attractive interest rates and security features of real estate investment, based on sound loan-to-value ratios. Only once they express interest does he present them with actual deals. This tactic keeps the process professional and positions the investor as someone offering an opportunity, rather than seeking a favor.Building and Expanding Your NetworkFor those concerned about a limited network, Jay suggests building connections through organizations like Business Networking International (BNI), which facilitates leads and introductions within professional circles. Additionally, Jay underlines the importance of using one's existing community connections, like church groups or local clubs, to identify potential lenders who are seeking better returns on their investments.Structuring Deals and Ensuring ComplianceIn his podcast discussion, Jay mentions the importance of structuring deals appropriately to remain compliant with SEC regulations, especially when involving multiple lenders per deal. By focusing on single-family home investments, he avoids complications with syndication and pooling, offering each lender a direct loan secured by a deed of trust. This approach not only offers peace of mind to the lenders but also simplifies the entire lending process.Rates, Terms, and TransparencyDespite market fluctuations, Jay Conner has maintained consistent interest rates—8% for first position and 10% for junior positions—since 2009. His transparent method of outlining lender benefits and security measures contributes to building a reliable investor network. Offering features like a 90-day call option for

In the world of real estate investing, the ability to raise and utilize private money can be transformative. Jay Conner, The Private Money Authority, engages in an enlightening conversation with Jeremy Beland, a seasoned real estate investor, about their journey in leveraging private money to build lucrative real estate portfolios. This blog post delves into the key insights and strategies discussed in their podcast episode, focusing on raising private money, educating potential lenders, and maximizing off-market deals.Understanding the Concept of Private MoneyThe Foundation of Private MoneyPrivate money refers to capital sourced from private individuals rather than traditional financial institutions. It allows real estate investors to fund their deals without the stringent requirements and red tape associated with bank loans. Jay Conner emphasizes that private money is vital for investors who want to avoid the hassle of traditional financing methods and need quick access to funds.The Misconceptions About Private LendersJeremy Beland dispels the myth that private lenders are always highly sophisticated, extremely wealthy individuals. Through his experience, Jeremy has found that private lenders are often regular people within one's network. These individuals might have savings in retirement accounts, home equity, or other untapped financial resources that they wish to invest for higher returns.Educating and Engaging Potential Private LendersThe Importance of EducationOne of the standout points in the podcast is the emphasis on educating prospective private lenders. Jeremy recounts how he would create brochures outlining deal details, projected returns, and property pictures to inform potential lenders. Educating them not only builds trust but also demystifies the investment process, making them more comfortable and likely to invest.Utilizing Social Media to Build CredibilityBoth Jay and Jeremy highlight the power of social media in establishing credibility and attracting private lenders. By consistently sharing details of deals closed, properties under contract, and success stories, investors can demonstrate their expertise and reliability. Jeremy mentions how posting regularly about his deals helped build his reputation, leading to people reaching out to him with investment interests.Strategies for Raising Private MoneyStart with Your Existing NetworkJeremy's advice for new investors is straightforward: begin by reaching out to contacts within your cell phone and social media network. He learned that often, individuals who seem unlikely to have investment funds might have savings or equity they are willing to invest. Not prejudging potential lenders can uncover unexpected opportunities.One-on-One Meetings and LuncheonsJay Conner shares his approach to educating potential lenders through one-on-one meetings at local cafes like Starbucks or organizing private lender luncheons. These settings provide a relaxed environment to explain the investment opportunity, answer questions, and build a personal connection.Maximizing Profits Through Off-Market DealsThe Power of Off-Market AcquisitionsJeremy Beland and his wife have thrived by mastering off-market acquisitions. These deals, not listed on the multiple listing service (MLS), often come with better negotiation opportunities and lower competition. Jay Conner and Jeremy agree that honing skills in off-market acquisition sales is pivotal for success in real estate investing.Pre-Marketing on MLS for Higher ReturnsJeremy introduces a strategy of pre-marketing deals on the MLS to maximize returns. With proper legal language and documentation, pre-marketing allows investors to attract a broader audience, potentially leading to higher sale prices. T

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@FusionNotes "Raising Private Money, with Jay Conner"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PF4zvLVu04Q&t=4s Raising private money is a crucial step for many real estate investors looking to grow their businesses. Understanding the mindset shift needed and how to strategize effectively can make a world of difference. In this episode, we'll delve into key insights from a recent discussion between Jay Conner,  the Private Money Authority, and Dan Deppen, host of the Note Investor podcast.Adopting the Right MindsetSwitch from Asking to AttractingOne of the foremost strategies Jay Conner emphasizes is changing your mindset from asking for money to attracting it. This mental shift transforms investors from beggars to educators. By leading with a servant's heart and imparting knowledge about private money to potential lenders, investors can attract funds without ever directly asking for them. This approach not only alleviates the fear of rejection but also positions you as a valuable resource to your lenders.Building Your Private Money ProgramKnow What You're OfferingHaving a clear, consistent program to offer potential private lenders is foundational in raising private money. Jay maintains a uniform program for all his lenders, covering interest rates, securing the funds, and the duration of the notes. This consistency helps build trust and makes the offering straightforward and attractive. Knowing exactly what you are offering allows potential lenders to clearly understand the benefits and terms, assuring them of the safety and profitability of their investment.The Power of TeachingEducating Potential LendersEducating potential lenders is crucial. Most of Jay's private lenders had never heard of private money or self-directed IRAs until he taught them. He conducts educational events and one-on-one meetings to explain how private money works and the benefits of using self-directed IRAs for investment. By taking on the role of a teacher, you can demystify the process for your lenders, showing them the promise of high returns and the security of their investments. This educational approach ensures that lenders are not just willing but eager to be part of your investment ventures.Leverage Networking GroupsExpand Your ReachNetworking groups, like Business Networking International (BNI), are potent channels for expanding your reach. These groups consist of individuals committed to helping each other grow their businesses through referrals. Leveraging these groups can amplify your message and attract more potential lenders. Regular attendance and participation in such groups can lead to valuable connections and opportunities to present your private money program in a supportive setting.Utilizing Self-Directed IRAsUnlocking Retirement FundsSelf-directed IRAs are a powerful tool for raising private money. They allow individuals to use retirement funds to invest in real estate or notes. Collaborating with companies like Directed IRA, where experts help prospective lenders set up their accounts, can significantly streamline the process. Self-directed IRAs offer a flexible and tax-efficient way for lenders to achieve high returns on their investments, thus making your program even more appealing.Maintaining and Managing RelationshipsBuilding Trust and Encouraging ReferralsTrust is paramount in maintaining relationships with private lenders. Once you've secured a lender and completed a deal, fostering that relationship can lead to valuable re

In a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner, known as the Private Money Authority, hosted an inspiring session with Willie and Haruna Oyola. This husband and wife duo have successfully raised over $1,100,000 in private money for their real estate ventures, bypassing traditional banking routes. The conversation delved deep into their journey, their strategies, particularly buying properties subject to existing notes, and how they effectively leveraged private money to expand their portfolio.The Traditional Route vs. Private MoneyWillie and Haruna began their real estate journey in 2015 using conventional banking loans. These loans required substantial down payments and came with the stringent limitations set by banks. Eventually, they reached a point where the traditional method capped their growth potential. Discovering the world of private money through Jay Conner's podcast was a game-changer. Private lending offered flexibility and scalability, drastically different from the restrictive terms of traditional banks.The Journey to Raising Private MoneyThe Oyalas first educated themselves through Jay Conner's resources and soon attended a live Private Money Conference. This pivotal shift allowed them to break through significant barriers in raising private funds. Haruna played a crucial role by encouraging Willie to fully commit to the process. For newcomers interested in private money, the advice is straightforward: seek education and mentorship, as these can accelerate learning and execution in the field.How to Start: Networking and the Elevator PitchA crucial piece of advice shared by Willie and Haruna is the importance of networking and having a refined elevator pitch. An elevator pitch is a concise, compelling introduction to what you do, designed to spark interest in brief interactions. They emphasized the need to create a succinct pitch and leverage networking opportunities to share your goals and attract investors. This initial step is vital for anyone looking to raise private money.Understanding Subject-To DealsOne of the strategies that Willie and Haruna have effectively combined with private money is purchasing properties ‘subject to' the existing mortgage. This method allows investors to acquire properties without needing to secure new financing. It is particularly attractive when dealing with distressed sellers, as it provides a viable solution for them while offering favorable terms for the buyer.A Case Study: Maximizing Profit with Subject-To and Private MoneyThe Oyalas shared a compelling case study to illustrate the effectiveness of combining private money with subject-to-deals. They acquired a property with a high market value and a much lower existing mortgage at an advantageous interest rate. They supplemented this with private money to cover the seller's arrears, make necessary repairs, and provide the seller with some additional funds.This strategic use of private funds not only alleviated the seller's distress but also positioned Willie and Haruna to rent out the property by the room, targeting military personnel and contractors in their area. This approach ensures substantial positive cash flow, demonstrating the potential for high returns in similar deals.Conclusion: The Win-Win-Win ScenarioIn the world of real estate investing, combining private money and subject-to-deals presents a powerful avenue for growth and profitability. By educating people about private money and providing secure investment opportunities, Willie and Haruna created a win-win situation for all parties involved — the sellers, the private lenders, and themselves.For those eager to dive into real estate investing or to scale their existing operations, educating oneself, networking effectively, and leveraging innovative financing strategies could be the key to unprecede

Transitioning from flipping a house or two a year to managing a scalable, systematized business calls for expert insights and proven strategies. Enter Bill Allen, who shares the stage with Jay Conner on the "Raising Private Money" podcast to unlock the principles behind successful private money raising. Here's an in-depth look at the topics discussed, aiming to revolutionize your approach to real estate investing.Building Trust and ConfidenceOne of the first things Bill Allen emphasizes is the vital role of trust in raising private money. According to Allen, building a high level of trust and being authentic is foundational. He recounts the necessity of transferring trust from past roles, such as being a Navy test pilot, into new ventures like real estate. Friends, family, and professional connections are often the first people who will invest based on pre-existing trust.Allen's story is a testament to the power of integrity and reliability in establishing credibility. His advice is clear: believe in yourself first. Confidence is compelling and contagious. If you don't believe in your capabilities, potential investors won't either.The Importance of Framing: Investment vs. LoanJay Conner and Bill Allen agree on a critical semantic shift: talking about investments rather than loans. Conner points out that when you say "loan me money," that focuses on you, the borrower, not the investor. But when you talk about them investing, then the focus is on their benefit. This reframing not only positions you as a professional but also highlights the added value to potential investors, aligning with a servant's heart approach.Crafting Your Investor MatrixAllen introduces a powerful tool he uses: the Investor Matrix. This method involves creating columns for different phases of your life, such as high school, college, and various workplaces, and listing names of people you know from each phase. Bill emphasizes rating these connections from 1 to 5 based on trust and potential financial capacity.He elaborates that you should list out names of people you had relationships with during those times. This exercise often jogs your memory, revealing more potential investors than you initially thought possible.Leveraging Social MediaUsing social media to tell stories and plant seeds about your projects is another tactical approach discussed. Allen mentions how he makes use of Facebook and Instagram to share anecdotes about his private lenders' successes and how they enjoy high returns without managing property hassles. He believes that marketing is essentially storytelling, so sharing these stories online can effectively attract interest.Soft Approaches Over Hard PitchesJay Conner underscores the principle that desperation has a smell to it. This echoes Allen's advice to avoid pitching a deal too early and instead focus on planting seeds. Conversations should be natural and relational rather than transactional. For instance, when reconnecting with an old friend, you can share what you're up to and plant a seed about investing without pitching a specific deal.Allen provides a closing line for such conversations that removes pressure. He suggests asking if they know anyone who might be interested in these kinds of returns. This approach often leads to the person expressing interest themselves or referring you to someone else, removing the risk of outright rejection.Diversifying Investment OpportunitiesAs you grow in your venture, Allen advises creating varied investment opportunities to cater to different investor needs. Whether it's monthly payments through fix-and-flip projects or high annual returns via syndication and apartment deals, having multiple avenues ensures you can accommodate different investor preferences.Conclusion: Learning from the BestRaising private money takes ski

Descriptions/Show Notes: In a recent episode of the "Raising Private Money" podcast, hosted by Jay Conner, The Private Money Authority, acclaimed financial strategist Damion Lupo shares his extraordinary journey from losing a 20 million dollar portfolio to rebuilding and growing his wealth beyond nine figures. In an enlightening conversation, Damion reveals not only the mistakes that led to his initial downfall but also the indispensable lessons that fueled his resurgence and shaped his future endeavors. Here's an in-depth look at the crucial elements discussed during the episode.The Humbling Journey from Loss to RebirthDamion Lupo's tale is one of resilience and determination. By the age of 30, he had amassed a 20 million dollar portfolio, only to lose it in the 2008 financial crisis, ultimately finding himself 5 million dollars in debt. Reflecting on the experience, Lupo highlights the significance of surrounding oneself with people who have weathered similar storms.Isolated during this turbulent period, he battled fear and doubt, a common plight for entrepreneurs who face major setbacks. His key advice is to cultivate a network of mentors and advisors—those who have the wisdom and experience to provide sound guidance when times are tough.Mastering the Art of PerseveranceDamion's comeback wasn't a quick fix but a deliberate, five-year period of introspection and strategic action. He explains the importance of not succumbing to ego and pride, instead focusing on gaining truthful insights from mentors who aren't afraid to offer tough love.This crucial period was spent not just recovering financially, but also re-evaluating what truly mattered to him.The Importance of Clear Purpose Over PassionA critical insight from Lupo's narrative is the emphasis on having a purpose. He advises focusing on a mission that transcends personal gain. According to Lupo, passion alone is fleeting and can easily falter under pressure.For him, the primary mission became freeing people from financial shackles, inspired deeply by personal experiences, including his father's late-life financial struggles.Frametec: Revolutionizing the Housing IndustryOne tangible way Damion lives out his purpose is through Frametec. The innovative company aims to solve the housing crisis by using advanced technology to produce home components with greater efficiency and less waste. Frametec's goals align perfectly with Lupo's mission of creating impactful, positive change.Frametec is committed to building houses that are 10 times better, with 99% less waste. The drive to serve others through groundbreaking solutions underpins the success of Frametec and fuels its ambitious expansion plans.The 10-Year Millionaire Action PlanTo help others achieve financial freedom, Lupo created the 10-Year Millionaire Action Plan, aimed at guiding individuals to a solid financial footing without the ever-looming stress of monetary scarcity. This playbook is available through Turnkey Retirement, offering a structured path to a 10 million dollar net worth.Damion's plan is designed to build confidence and empowerment around investing and finances, much of which stems from his own firsthand experiences and subsequent successes.Transforming Setbacks into SuccessDamion Lupo's journey underscores the vital importance of resilience, continual learning, and serving others. By sharing his story and the strategies that propelled his comeback, he offers a roadmap for others to follow. From his innovative work with Frametec to his comprehensive action plans for financial well-being, Damion exemplifies how turning personal adversity into a mission-driven career can create lasting success for not just oneself but for society at large.Damion's insights serve as a powerful reminder: setbacks are inevitable, but with p

In the latest episode of Raising Private Money with Jay Conner, our esteemed guest Scott Aaron, a seasoned entrepreneur and LinkedIn expert, shares his inspiring resilience journey and the transformative power of leveraging LinkedIn for business success. Scott's story is a compelling testament to the power of mindset, community, and strategic action in overcoming life's toughest challenges.The Art of Resiliency: Scott Aaron's JourneyScott Aaron's journey is not just about entrepreneurial success but about mastering the art of resilience. Jay Conner introduces Scott's story, noting his initial triumph in selling his first business for a million dollars and his subsequent challenges, including facing a multimillion-dollar liability debt. Despite these setbacks, Scott never viewed them as failures but as the foundations of his comeback story.Growing up, Scott was thrust into leadership at a young age when his father, also an entrepreneur, was incarcerated. Taking over the family fitness business, Scott navigated significant personal and professional challenges. His father's advice to be his person rather than trying to emulate someone else was pivotal in shaping Scott's resilient mindset.Key Lessons in Overcoming AdversityScott emphasizes two key lessons from his experiences. Firstly, maintaining a positive outlook and focusing on solutions rather than problems. He believes that no matter what problem someone is facing, there is likely a solution for it. This mindset helped him to constantly find solutions and move forward.Secondly, Scott highlights the importance of putting pride aside and not being afraid to ask for help. He recalls a crucial turning point when a friend's question about his business sustainability prompted him to seek new opportunities. This openness to seeking help and learning from others was instrumental in his transition from the fitness industry to leveraging LinkedIn for professional growth.LinkedIn: From Personal Struggle to Business TriumphScott's shift to LinkedIn began out of necessity. Realizing that his in-person fitness training model wasn't sustainable for a fulfilling family life, he sought ways to reach his clientele online. Identifying LinkedIn as the ideal platform, he started connecting with business professionals and, within six months, matched his in-person earnings through online coaching.This success led to the realization that LinkedIn could solve a significant problem for others in his industry. Encouraged by a friend's feedback, Scott developed a business model around teaching others his LinkedIn strategies, which has since grown into a thriving enterprise. Together with his wife, Scott now runs multiple companies, all leveraging the power of LinkedIn to enhance business growth.Tips for Leveraging LinkedIn EffectivelyScott shares valuable insights on how to maximize LinkedIn for business growth. He emphasizes the importance of optimizing your LinkedIn profile with relevant keywords, professional descriptions, and showcasing testimonials. Here are some key takeaways:Profile Optimization: Ensure your LinkedIn profile is fully optimized with keywords that your ideal client or business partner might search for. This includes a detailed headline, a comprehensive about section, and a well-presented experience section.Networking Over Selling: Focus on building relationships rather than selling. Avoid spamming potential connections with generic, sales-focused messages. Personalize your communication to build genuine connections.Social Proof: Gather and display recommendations and testimonials on your profile. These serve as powerful social proof of your expertise and credibility.Continuous Engagement: Stay active by creating valuable content, engaging with your network's posts, and consistently connecting with new potential clients or partners.

In this insightful episode of the "Raising Private Money" podcast, host Jay Conner sits down with Michael Episcope, co-CEO of Origin Investments, to delve into the nuances of real estate investments. With over $2 billion in assets under management and a wealth of experience in both derivatives trading and real estate investment, Michael provides valuable perspectives on how to effectively manage risk and create long-term wealth in the real estate market.The Importance of Risk Management in Real EstateMichael Episcope brings a distinctive background to real estate, having begun his career as a derivatives trader. This experience laid a strong foundation for understanding risk management, a crucial element in real estate investing. In real estate, risk management involves recognizing opportunities, spreading risk, and maintaining financial prudence—such as not cross-collateralizing assets or guaranteeing debt. This approach allows investors to weather downturns, ensuring long-term sustainability.Lessons from the Global Financial CrisisThe 2007-2009 financial crisis was a defining period for many investors, including Michael. He emphasizes the importance of learning from past mistakes to guide current and future investment strategies. Key lessons include avoiding over-leveraging and maintaining cash flow. Michael also touches on the strategic advantage of implementing a barbell strategy—balancing risk with a mix of debt and equity investments during uncertain times.The Crystal Ball: Predicting Market TrendsForecasting the real estate market can be challenging, but Michael shares optimistic views about upcoming trends. He anticipates a recovery in the multifamily sector driven by reduced construction in recent years and pent-up housing demand. This is supported by the work of Multilytics, a team of data scientists who predict above-market rent growth in the second half of 2025. He stresses the importance of adjusting strategies according to market conditions, highlighting how Origin Investments tactically shifts its focus between debt and equity depending on the cycle.Origin Investments' Focus and StrategyOrigin Investments specializes in multifamily properties—a choice rooted in the sector's strong, risk-adjusted returns and inherent demand. The firm exclusively targets this asset class, leveraging deep expertise to drive value. Origin invests through a combination of funds and individual deals, offering a diverse portfolio designed to maximize both tax efficiency and long-term growth. This multi-faceted approach allows the firm to navigate market cycles adeptly while capitalizing on emerging opportunities.Common Pitfalls for New InvestorsOne common pitfall for new investors is focusing too heavily on potential returns without adequately considering risk or the manager's track record. Instead, priority should be given to finding experienced managers with conservative underwriting standards who have demonstrated the ability to protect and grow capital through various market cycles.Maximizing Tax Efficiency for Long-Term WealthA significant advantage of real estate investment lies in its tax efficiencies. Michael discusses how Origin Investments transitioned from a buy-fix-sell model to a buy-fix-hold strategy to leverage these benefits fully. This approach not only maximizes tax advantages but also ensures consistent cash flow and asset appreciation over time, aligning with the broader goal of sustainable wealth accumulation.ConclusionNavigating the dynamic landscape of real estate investment requires a nuanced understanding of risk, market cycles, and strategic alignment. Michael Episcope's insights underscore the importance of these elements in achieving long-term success. For those looking to explore passive investment opportunities further, Origin Investments offers a comprehensi

In the latest episode of Raising Private Money, Jay Conner and Crystal Baker divulge the secrets behind a lucrative real estate investment deal. From innovative acquisition methods to strategic exit strategies, this episode is a treasure trove for both new and seasoned investors.The Power of Referrals in Real EstateAcquiring Properties Through ReferralsOne of the standout techniques discussed in the episode is the power of obtaining deals through referrals. Crystal, for example, secured her deal via a referral from a previous seller. This method not only fosters trust but also tends to result in more favorable negotiation terms. Jay Conner emphasizes the importance of asking for referrals explicitly when closing a deal, as it can open doors to new opportunities.A Token of AppreciationAnother golden nugget from Crystal's approach is rewarding referrers with substantial thank-you gifts. She shares how she transitioned from gift baskets to $350 Amazon gift cards, which, in turn, incentivizes more referrals. As Jay comments, a well-appreciated referrer can become a continuous source of potential deals, making this investment well worth it.Negotiating the Right Purchase PriceUnderstanding the Maximum Allowable Offer (MAO)Crystal provides key insights into negotiating the purchase price effectively. At the heart of this strategy lies the Maximum Allowable Offer (MAO) formula, an essential tool for any real estate investor. MAO = After Repair Value (ARV) x 70% - Repair Costs.By factoring in repair costs and future appreciation, investors can arrive at a sound purchase price that ensures profitability. As Crystal explains, adjusting for additional room (Murphy's Law) further safeguards against unforeseen expenses.Crystal's Real-Life ExampleIn her example, the property's ARV was estimated at $200,000, with $18,000 in repairs. Applying the MAO formula, she calculated the offer to be $110,000. However, through strategic negotiation and justifying potential work needed, she secured the property for $96,000, well below her initial offer, ensuring a favorable deal.Leveraging "Work for Equity" as an Exit StrategyWhat is "Work for Equity"?One of the most innovative strategies discussed is the "Work for Equity" model. This approach involves selling the property on a rent-to-own basis, where the buyer earns credit towards the purchase price by completing specific repairs and improvements on the property. This method is particularly effective for buyers with lower pre-approval amounts, who are looking to invest sweat equity into their future home.Implementation and BenefitsCoach Crystal meticulously outlines how she implements this model. By offering a detailed scope of work with timelines, she ensures that the tenant-buyer maintains progress and upholds the contract's terms. This arrangement not only reduces initial rehab costs for Crystal but also incentivizes the buyer to invest in their new home, creating a win-win scenario. According to Crystal, properties sold on a lease-to-own basis typically demand a higher price, compensating for the terms extended.Pricing Strategy and Future AppreciationCalculating the Selling PriceCrystal's strategy of pricing properties higher on a work-for-equity deal is another critical takeaway. She shares how she marks up the sale price by 10% to 15%, accounting for potential market appreciation over the lease period. For instance, an ARV of $200,000 was leveraged to sell the property at $235,000, ensuring future appreciation and securing a safety net against market fluctuations.Ensuring Collaboration and ComplianceAn essential aspect of this approach is the collaborative effort between th

In the latest episode of Raising Private Money, Jay Conner dives into the inspiring story of Jonathan and Cara Broyles, a dynamic duo in the world of real estate investment. From starting their journey in 2021 to closing high-value deals, Jonathan and Cara have shown the power of strategic planning, persistence, and the importance of nurturing relationships with private lenders. This episode highlights their recent property acquisition and the lessons they learned along the way.Securing the Deal: 143 Royalty DriveJonathan and Cara's most recent endeavor revolves around a property located at 143 Royalty Drive. The property, after undergoing necessary repairs and renovations, boasts an impressive After Repair Value (ARV) of $550,000. However, reaching this point was no small feat.Assessing the Property:The house, previously occupied by an owner and 80 Siberian husky dogs, was in dire need of cosmetic repairs. Recognizing the potential in the property, Jonathan and Cara estimated a generous $100,000 for the rehab, including a contingency fund for unexpected expenses—a strategy they call "Murphy," named after Murphy's Law that suggests if something can go wrong, it likely will.Negotiating Purchase Price:Initially listed by a wholesaler for $367,000, Jonathan and Cara knew their maximum allowable offer based on their rehab estimates would be $310,000. Despite the significant gap between their offer and the asking price, they stuck to their numbers, a testament to their disciplined approach to real estate investment. The wholesaler initially countered with $330,000, but eventually, Jonathan and Cara's persistence paid off—their $310,000 offer was accepted.Lesson Learned:Stick to your evaluated numbers and don't let emotions sway your decisions. By adhering to their calculations, Jonathan and Cara secured the property at a price that allowed for a profitable investment.The Power of Private LendingA vital piece of Jonathan and Cara's strategy involves leveraging private lenders to fund their property acquisitions and renovations. This approach minimizes the need for traditional loans, accelerates the buying process, and often provides more favorable terms.Expanding Their Network:For the 143 Royalty Drive property, Jonathan and Cara initially anticipated using $250,000 from a new private lender. However, this transaction took an exciting turn—the lender expressed interest in funding the entire deal, boosting his investment to $410,000. This unexpected increase emphasized a crucial point in private lending: private lenders often have more funds available than they initially disclose.Key Point:Always present opportunities to your private lenders confidently. They may have more capital ready to deploy once they see a promising investment.Interest Rates and Returns:For this particular deal, the private lender agreed to an 8% interest rate on the $410,000 loan. Over the projected six-month rehabilitation period, this translates to approximately $16,000 in interest—a reasonable return for the lender while still allowing Jonathan and Cara to achieve their target profit margins.Working with Realtors: A Smart InvestmentAnother pillar of Jonathan and Cara's strategy is their partnership with a reliable realtor. Although paying realtor fees can seem daunting—30,000 in this case on a $550,000 sale—the benefits far outweigh the costs.Benefits of a Professional Realtor:Realtors handle the legwork, both pre-and post-renovation, helping to price the property appropriately and sell it quickly.They ensure the property reaches a wide audience, increasing the chances of a top-dollar sale.Advice to Investors:

Beki and Kelly Cassels' journey in the real estate investment world is both inspiring and educational. Within a short span of two and a half years, they have gone from being brand-new investors to successfully executing significant deals. Jay Conner, their mentor, plays an instrumental role in their success by providing them with the knowledge and financial resources required to thrive in the competitive market of real estate.In the latest episode of Raising Private Money, Beki and Kelly shared the details of their latest deal, providing in-depth insights about their journey, the acquisition process, repairs, and the unexpected challenges they faced. Here is a breakdown of how they transformed a problematic property into a profitable investment.Identifying and Securing the DealFinding the PropertyBeki and Kelly's latest project, located at 2332 East 10th in New Mexico, was identified through a referral from a neighbor. The property was notorious in the area for being the “problem house.” The landlord, tired of dealing with tenant issues, was looking to sell. This was a classic case of a “tired landlord” and represented a perfect opportunity for the Cassels.Understanding the Market ValueThe after-repair value (ARV) of the property was initially assessed at $230,000 by their knowledgeable realtor. This valuation was crucial as it provided a baseline for determining the potential profitability of the deal. However, due to market dynamics, they planned to list the property at a higher value of $280,000, significantly increasing their potential return on investment.Repairs and Unexpected ChallengesEstimating and Executing RepairsThe initial repair estimate for the house was $110,000, but they wisely set aside an additional $10,000 for unforeseen issues, following the well-known Murphy's Law. True to form, challenges did arise, particularly with the gas lines and HVAC system, necessitating a complete overhaul. This thorough rehabilitation included gutting the house down to the studs and installing new electrical wiring, plumbing, and insulation.Detailed Repair BudgetTheir strategy involved getting a contractor's rough estimate before making an offer on the property. While the detailed estimate came in after the property was purchased, it closely matched their projections. By diligently working with professionals and being prepared for surprises, Beki and Kelly ensured the project stayed within budget.Financing and Profit CalculationSecuring FundingOne of the standout aspects of this deal was the financing structure. Beki and Kelly borrowed $172,500 through multiple private lenders at an interest rate of 10%. The funds were wired directly to the closing agent's trust account, covering the $43,000 purchase price and leaving them with $130,000 upfront for repairs and other costs.Calculating Net ProfitAfter accounting for the $120,000 spent on repairs, realtor fees, carrying costs, and other expenses, Beki and Kelly calculated a net profit of $88,200 from this deal. They also paid a 6% realtor fee amounting to $16,800 and anticipated their private lender interest to be around $9,000 over six months. Such meticulous financial planning ensured that they could maximize their returns even with significant upfront and carrying costs.Key Takeaways and Lessons LearnedNetworking and ReferralsOne of the central lessons Beki and Kelly highlighted was the power of networking. By maintaining good relationships with neighbors and service providers, and by making their capabilities known, they secured this valuable deal. They also emphasized the importance of appreciating referral sources; rewarding their neighbor with $1,000 was not only good pract

In the latest episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner sat down with mastermind member Tim Benskin to discuss his latest deal in Swannanoa, North Carolina. Tim shared his unique approach to acquiring, financing, and profiting from real estate investments, offering invaluable lessons for aspiring and seasoned investors alike. Today, we will dive deep into the key topics discussed, providing a comprehensive guide to understanding Tim Benskin's successful strategies and tactics.A Fortuitous Encounter: The Genesis of the DealTim Benskin's latest deal began with an unexpected opportunity. While working on a property purchased from a wholesaler, Tim was approached by a neighbor who inquired if he would be interested in buying his house. This initial conversation set the stage for a profitable transaction.Key Takeaways:Networking and Relationship Building:Tim's success in this deal highlighted the importance of maintaining good relationships with contractors, neighbors, and other stakeholders in the real estate industry. An open line of communication can often lead to new opportunities.Opportunistic Mindset:Being present and attentive during property renovations can present unforeseen chances to acquire new properties at favorable prices.Negotiating the Purchase PriceThe neighbor initially asked for $150,000, but after assessing the property and understanding the seller's needs, Tim successfully negotiated the price down to $130,000. This $20,000 reduction set the foundation for a profitable investment.Key Takeaways:Negotiation Skills:Tim's ability to negotiate effectively saved him a substantial amount on the purchase price. Understanding the seller's motivations and maintaining a flexible negotiation stance is crucial.Assessing Property Value:Conducting a thorough property valuation, including an understanding of After Repair Value (ARV), is essential in negotiations.Leveraging Financing: Private Money and Profit CentersTim financed the property using private money, borrowing a total of $130,000 from two private lenders. The strategic use of private money enabled Tim to acquire the property without using his capital while structuring repayment terms that supported a positive cash flow.Key Takeaways:Private Money:Utilizing private lenders can provide flexible financing options, often with more favorable terms compared to traditional lending institutions.Multiple Profit Centers:Tim created several profit centers through this deal, including monthly cash flow, a nonrefundable lease option deposit, and potential appreciation upon sale.Innovative Selling Strategy: Work for EquityTim's decision to sell the property through a lease option with a "work for equity" component was a masterstroke. This approach not only minimized his upfront renovation costs but also incentivized the buyer to invest in the property's improvement.Key Takeaways:Work for Equity Concept:Allowing buyers to reduce their purchase price by undertaking necessary repairs encourages them to buy into the property's value and care for it. Tim's buyers stand to receive a $10,000 credit for completing specific agreed-upon repairs.Reducing Risk and Increasing Profit:This strategy reduced Tim's risk and repair costs while increasing the property's sale price to $187,000, considerably higher than its ARV.Monthly Cash Flow and Final Profit AnalysisPost-financing, Tim's monthly outgoing payments to his private lenders totaled $940. His lease option agreement brought in $1,450 a month, leading to a net positive cash flow of $284.34.Key Takeaways:

Real estate investing is an exciting and potentially lucrative venture, but it requires a comprehensive understanding of the market, strategic planning, and access to resources, particularly funding. In a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner and PMA member Erica Camardelle gave listeners an in-depth breakdown of how to execute a successful real estate deal using private money.Today we will unpack the key takeaways from Erica's deal and provide actionable insights that can help you navigate your own real estate investments profitably.The Importance of Understanding Seller MotivationOne of the pivotal lessons Erica shared was understanding the seller's motivation. This allows investors to better tailor their offers and negotiations.Identifying Key Motivations:Inheritance:The seller had inherited the property from her parents.Out-of-State Ownership:Living in a different state made managing the property inefficient for her.These factors compounded to create a seller who was highly motivated to offload the property quickly, providing Erica with a leverage point in negotiations.Negotiation Tip: Always dig deeper into the seller's circumstances. Understanding their motivations can provide hidden advantages in structuring your offer.Leveraging Private Money for Real Estate DealsErica and Jay detailed the significance of private lending, which can make or break a deal, particularly in competitive markets.Utilizing Private Lenders:Borrowing Against After Repaired Value (ARV):Erica borrowed 75% of the ARV ($166,000), amounting to $125,000. This ratio ensures a financial buffer, minimizing the investor's risks.Establishing Long-term Lender Relationships:Erica's success stemmed from a long-standing relationship with her private lender over several years. This not only facilitated quick access to funds but also built trust over time.Pro Tip: Building and nurturing relationships with private lenders can lead to more favorable terms and quick approvals, crucial for seizing opportunities swiftly.Effective Property Valuation and BudgetingUnderstanding property valuation and accurately budgeting repairs are cornerstones of successful real estate ventures.Valuation Approach:ARV Calculation:The after-repaired value was set conservatively at $166,000. Despite this, Erica listed it for $185,000 based on market dynamics, which illustrates a strategic risk-taking approach to maximize profits.Budgeting Repairs:Predictive Budgeting:Erica initially budgeted $20,000 for repairs but managed to spend only $15,000. This conservative overestimation helps in dealing with unforeseen issues.Carrying Costs:Six months of holding costs were budgeted. This includes accounting for taxes, insurance, and private lender interest, ensuring no financial surprises.Investor Insight: Always budget for higher than anticipated repair costs and consider listing slightly higher than the ARV to attract potential buyers willing to pay more.Calculating Net Profits and Key MetricsJay Conner emphasized the need for accurate calculations to understand the true profit from a real estate deal.Net Profit Breakdown:Sale Price:Listed at $185,000.Expenses Subtraction:Purchase Price: $96,000Repairs: $15,000Realtor Fees: 5%, approximately $9,250Private Lender Interest: $5,000Taxes and Insurance: Estimated at $2,250Following these deductions, the net profit was calculated to be approximately $57,500.Understanding MAO (Maximum Allowable Offer):MAO Calculation:

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@jasonbalara6929 "Raising Private Money with Jay Conner | Know your WHY"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPGp8HHtd6Q   On the latest episode of the Raising Private Money, podcast we have an inspiring conversation between Jay Conner and Dr. Jason Balara on his Know Your Why podcast. Jay Conner dives deep into the nuances of raising private money and the resilience needed to succeed in real estate investing. With a background in traditional banking turned private lending expert, Jay Conner offers invaluable insights and inspiring stories that illustrate the power of persistence, a strategic mindset, and the importance of understanding your "why."Facing the Fear: Jay Conner's Early ChallengesJay Conner begins by recounting the nervousness he faced when asking for a private lending loan for the first time. Overcoming such nerve-wracking experiences is crucial, and Jay emphasizes that action is the antidote to anxiety. His initial discomfort didn't deter him but rather fueled his drive to become proficient in raising private money.The Breakthrough Luncheon: A Turning Point in FundraisingJay's notable breakthrough came during his first private lender luncheon, a strategic event where he successfully raised $969,000 in verbal pledges within just one hour. This massive achievement, despite his initial discomfort, underscores the significance of preparation and a well-crafted presentation. He used a PowerPoint presentation to educate attendees on the private lending program, effectively communicating the benefits and security of investing.Learning from Failure: The John Maxwell PrincipleA recurring theme in the discussion is resilience through failure. Jay quotes leadership expert, John Maxwell, stating, "Success comes from failing more often," highlighting that every failure is a step towards success if viewed as a learning opportunity. Both Jay and Jason Balara draw parallels between business and sports, emphasizing that just as athletes like Michael Jordan succeeded by persisting through failure, so too must entrepreneurs and investors.Key Strategies for Securing Private FundsJay's approach to securing private funds is rooted in education and relationship building. By positioning himself as a "private money teacher," he shifts the focus from asking for money to offering an investment opportunity. This methodology not only enhances trust but also attracts potential lenders through the promise of high returns and secured investment.Additionally, Jay shares his unique strategy called the "great news phone call," informing lenders when their money is needed for a deal. This preemptive approach ensures that funds are readily available without the need for constant pitching, making the process smoother and more efficient.Mindset Shift: Overcoming Initial DiscomfortTransitioning from discomfort to confidence is a crucial part of Jay's journey. He acknowledges that initial discomfort is natural when venturing into new territory but asserts that practice and persistence lead to growing competence and comfort. Quoting Crystal Baker, Jay affirms, "Life begins at the end of your comfort zone," which is a mantra that underscores the growth experienced from tackling challenges head-on.The Importance of Resilience: Lessons from Personal ExperiencesJay shares a touching personal anecdote about his grandfather teaching him resilience. After being thrown off a pony, young Jay was encouraged to get back on, instilling a lifelong lesson in persistence. This lesson translated into his business life, especially when traditional banks cut off his credit

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@bradleysugars "Following Your Purpose: How Jay Conner Discovered the Opportunity of Private Lenders in Real Estate"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJPJqgxDZME  Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Raising Private Money podcast! Today, Jay Conner had an insightful conversation with Brad Sugars on his The Big Success podcast!From a young age, Jay Conner knew his true calling was to teach. Fast forward to 2011, and this dream came to fruition when he began coaching real estate investors, a mission driven not just by financial outcomes, but by a burning desire to positively impact others. Jay's definition of success transcends wealth; it's deeply rooted in passion and purpose. By emphasizing the importance of making a difference, Jay aims to inspire others to seek a higher purpose beyond financial gains. This ethos has shaped his approach to teaching and mentoring, making a significant impression on the real estate community.Success Defined: Passion and Purpose Beyond ProfitsJay Conner's definition of success moves beyond the simplistic idea of wealth accumulation. To him, success encompasses pursuing one's passions and making a meaningful impact on the lives of others. This philosophy is reflected in his work, where he combines his real estate expertise with a deep commitment to mentoring and teaching. For Jay, true success involves helping others realize their potential and find their paths to fulfillment. This is the hallmark of his career as an educator and real estate coach.Influential Beginnings: Lessons from the Family BusinessGrowing up in an environment of success, particularly observing his father's business endeavors, had a profound impact on Jay. At the age of 12, he was already immersed in a setting that emphasized the importance of surrounding oneself with successful individuals—a notion famously underscored by motivational speaker Jim Rohn. These early experiences laid a strong foundation for Jay's entrepreneurial journey, where he saw firsthand the value of mentorship and networking in achieving success.Transformation and Lifelong LearningA pivotal moment in Jay's life came at the age of 24 when dissatisfaction with his lifestyle spurred a transformation. Fueled by Og Mandino's "University of Success," Jay embarked on a path of continuous learning and self-improvement. This book not only helped him shift his mindset but also ignited a lifelong passion for personal development. Since then, he has avidly consumed self-help books and autobiographies, continually learning from those who have achieved success. This commitment to growth and learning has been a cornerstone of his personal and professional life.The Power of Goals and PlanningOne of the critical insights Jay shares is the importance of setting and regularly reviewing goals. By updating them every four months, he ensures they are aligned with current opportunities and challenges. Jay's approach to short-term planning reflects his understanding of the unpredictable nature of life and business. This pragmatism is also shared by fellow podcaster, Ryan Pineda, who avoids scheduling appointments more than 30 days in advance. Both emphasize the necessity of flexibility and adaptability in achieving long-term success.Embracing Failure as a Learning OpportunityJay Conner's perspective on failure is deeply influenced by David Meltzer's philosophy of viewing failures as lessons rather than mistakes. He recounts stories from his real estate career where setbacks became opportunities for growth and improvement. By treating challenges as opportunities to rethink and refine his approaches, J

Welcome to one of the most important podcast episodes you'll hear all year! In this game-changing episode, we uncover the hard truth that most real estate investors don't want to face: The majority of them will fail in 2025.But here's the kicker—it's not because they can't find deals. The deals are out there. The real reason they'll fail is simple: they won't have the funding to close those deals.If you've ever walked away from a deal because you couldn't find the money fast enough—or felt stuck, frustrated, and like you're one deal away from a breakthrough—this episode is for you!Join us as we uncover why funding is the #1 barrier holding most real estate investors back and why private money is the ultimate key to break through those limitations. You'll also hear the inspiring story of Carly Mannino, who attended her very first real estate event, made ONE phone call, and raised $90,000 in private money—leading to her first deal!  Whether you're brand new to real estate or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this episode will show you how to dominate 2025 by unlocking the power of private money.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why most real estate investors will fail in 2025 (and how to avoid being one of them).  The #1 reason deals fall through—and how to get the money need to close fast. Why relying on banks or personal cash is a losing game in today's fast-moving market. How private money gives you access to an endless stream of capital to close more deals, quickly. The inspiring real-life success story of Carly Mannino, who raised $90,000 in private money on her very first phone call after attending a private money event. Don't Miss Your Opportunity to Dominate 2025If you're serious about taking your real estate investing business to the next level, you can't afford to miss my 3-day, live event happening February 12th–14th in Atlantic Beach, North Carolina.At this event, you'll learn:  Proven scripts to confidently approach private lenders. How to structure deals so they're a win-win for everyone involved.  The secrets to building long-lasting relationships with private money partners who will fund deal after deal.  This isn't theory—it's hands-on, actionable training designed to help you take control of your funding, close more deals, and grow your business without limits.  Tickets are just $97—and that covers TWO people! Bring a partner, friend, or business associate with you and learn together.  Reserve Your Spot Now!Seats are limited, and they're filling up fast. Don't wait until it's too late—2025 is already here, and every day you wait is another missed opportunity. 

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@harcourtsauctions "Private Investing for Realtors: How to Build Your Private Lending Network from Scratch"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lo11foe4oE&t=9s In a dynamic real estate market, the ability to secure funding can often determine an investor's success or failure. Jay Conner's insights into raising private money offer a revolutionary approach that can transform your real estate ventures, making funding more accessible and flexible.Welcome back to another insightful episode of the Raising Private Money podcast! If you're a real estate investor eager to master the art of raising and leveraging private money, you're in the right place. Today, Jay Conner joins Ben Brady in his Rethink Real Estate Podcast where they dive deep into the world of private money in real estate, they discuss the strategies behind raising significant funds without ever having to ask for a dime directly. Jay shares his journey and effective methods that have helped him raise over $8 million, even in tough financial times.The Challenges of Traditional FundingTraditional funding sources such as banks and institutional lenders come with their own set of challenges. For instance, during economic downturns, banks tighten their lending criteria, making it difficult for investors to secure loans. This was evident during the global financial crisis when many investors found their lines of credit abruptly closed. Today's high interest rates and stringent lending requirements continue to pose similar challenges, making traditional funding less reliable.Enter Private MoneyPrivate money represents a more flexible and reliable way to finance real estate deals. Essentially, this involves doing business with individual lenders rather than institutional ones, allowing investors to set the terms and streamline the process. This method provides a more straightforward way to secure funding without the typical red tape associated with banks.An innovative approach to raising private money eliminates the discomfort of asking for capital. Instead, the process involves educating potential lenders about the benefits and returns of investing in real estate, transforming the conversation into one of mutual benefit rather than a plea for funds.The Process: Teaching, Not BeggingOne of the key aspects of raising private money is overcoming the fear of rejection. By focusing on teaching potential lenders about the process and benefits of private money, investors can eliminate the fear associated with asking for funds. This approach involves separating the educational conversation from specific deal discussions.Initially, investors educate lenders about private money, interest rates, and the overall investment program without mentioning any specific deals. Once the lender is comfortable and understands the potential benefits, specific deals can be introduced, making the entire process more palatable and less stressful.Setting the TermsPrivate lenders need clear details about the terms of their investments. Offering an 8% annual interest rate is a straightforward and attractive proposition, especially when compared to traditional investments like CDs, which yield much lower returns. All loans are collateralized by real estate, providing security for the lenders and making the investment more attractive.How Much Money Do You Need to Raise?Determining how much money to raise depends on several factors, including the investor's market, the average property price, and the projected number of deals each year. By using a simple formula, investors can calculate

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@TheClosingTablePod "Jay Conner Discusses Private Money Raising"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNtgseDPZMkToday, on the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner had an amazing time joining Kat Schooler on The Closing Table Podcast. During the discussion, Jay elucidated the stability of private money lending compared to traditional investment avenues and shared invaluable insights on attracting private lenders. Here's an in-depth look into the segments of their dialogue.Stability of Private Money Lending vs. Stock MarketJay Conner draws a clear distinction between private money lending and stock market investments. Unlike the stock market, where values fluctuate wildly, private money offers a more stable route. When lending private money, the principal amount remains constant until cash-out, behaving similarly to a bank CD. This stability allows for predictable returns, an invaluable feature for any investor looking to mitigate risk.Finding Private Lenders: Three Essential CategoriesJay lays out a comprehensive strategy for finding private lenders, categorizing them into three pivotal groups:Personal Connections: Utilize your existing network. Family, friends, social media contacts, and community members are all potential sources of private money. Jay emphasizes that an active online presence, akin to his, can bolster these efforts significantly.Expanded Warm Market: Build and grow your connections by joining networking groups like Business Networking International (BNI). These groups offer a fertile ground for expanding your influence and tapping into broader financial resources.Existing Private Lenders: Seek out individuals who already have self-directed IRA accounts. These seasoned investors are often keen on private lending opportunities and understand the mechanism and benefits involved.Leveraging Social Media to Attract LendersOne of the significant revelations from the discussion is the compelling use of social media for attracting private lenders. Jay advises using platforms like Facebook and Instagram to showcase ongoing projects and successful deals. However, he cautions against directly mentioning terms like "private lending." Instead, he advocates creating curiosity by inviting questions, which compels potential lenders to reach out for more information.Personal Journey and Transition to Real EstateJay Conner's journey from the mobile home industry to real estate investing is both inspiring and instructive. His transition was catalyzed by a significant disruption in 2002 when Wall Street funding for manufactured housing was cut off. By 2003, Jay had pivoted to flipping single-family homes, a venture that has seen him rehab over 500 homes with substantial average profits per deal.A key challenge early in his career was assembling a reliable team. He underscores the importance of delegating tasks and avoiding the pitfalls of trying to handle everything alone. This realization led to automating his business operations, enabling him to work a lean 5-7 hours per week while focusing on education and teaching others through platforms like his podcast, "Raising Private Money."The Game Changer: Private Money Post-2008 CrisisJay recounts the 2008 financial crisis, which abruptly closed his line of credit. This crisis turned into an opportunity when fellow investor Jeff Blankenship introduced him to private money lending using self-directed IRAs. In an impressive feat, Jay raised $2,150,000 from private lenders within just 90 days without any direct solicitation for funds.Jay underscores the importance of s

In the latest episode of "Raising Private Money," Jay Conner dives deep into the nuances of mortgage note investing and private money with his good friend, Jamie Bateman. Renowned for his success in raising over $3,000,000 in private money, Jamie shares his journey and insights into leveraging mortgage notes as a powerful investment vehicle. This episode is a goldmine for both seasoned investors and newcomers looking to expand their portfolios. Let's break down the themes and insights discussed during this illuminating conversation.Jay Conner's Real Estate WisdomA Wealth of ExperienceJay Conner, a real estate investor who began his journey in 2003, has rehabbed over 500 houses. His experience spans various facets of real estate, making him a credible guide for aspiring investors. Conner emphasizes one crucial lesson: avoid operating in isolation. He avows that seeking mentorship from experts can save you from costly mistakes and accelerate your path to success.Jamie Bateman on Mortgage NotesThe Strategic AdvantageJamie Bateman, a prominent voice in mortgage note investing, emphasizes the versatility of this investment strategy. Mortgage notes offer a unique advantage: you can invest across state lines without ever visiting the properties. This location independence is a game-changer, making it easier to diversify your investment portfolio.Moreover, mortgage notes come with a relatively low barrier to entry. Utilizing a licensed loan servicer simplifies compliance and licensing hurdles. This ease of access complements existing residential real estate investing experience and provides opportunities for creative and analytical investment strategies. However, Jamie notes that mortgage notes lack inherent tax advantages. Fortunately, this limitation can be mitigated with self-directed accounts.Passive Investors' OpportunityJamie offers a tantalizing glimpse into the potential for passive investors to earn high returns by partnering with him. For those interested, Jamie's platform offers pathways to explore these lucrative opportunities further.Understanding Private Money in Real EstateSecuring Single-Family HousesJay Conner elucidates how private money underpins real estate transactions, particularly in single-family houses. Utilizing promissory notes to secure private lenders is a prudent strategy, complemented by collateral via a deed of trust or mortgage. Insurance policies include private lenders as mortgagees, and Conner maintains a conservative loan-to-value ratio of 75%. Additionally, a 90-day call option provides a safety net for emergencies.Collateral and Mortgage NotesMortgage notes employ a similar protective measure through hypothecation, where the note and deed of trust serve as collateral. An illustrative example is purchasing a $70,000 principal balance note for $50,000 and borrowing $30,000 against it. Such flexibility in terms is mutually agreed upon between lender and borrower, making mortgage notes a versatile investment vehicle.Jamie Bateman's JourneyTransition from Defense to EntrepreneurshipJamie Bateman's career transition exemplifies the allure of real estate for control and flexibility. After 14 years at the Department of Defense, Jamie ventured into real estate, leveraging his family background in the field. His journey began with rental properties using the BRRR method and pivoted to mortgage notes in 2018. Jamie's varied experiences, including title work, have enriched his investment acumen.Evolving Strategies in Raising CapitalOrganic GrowthJamie shares his organic approach to raising private money: documenting his investment journey on social media and blogs attracted interest from potential investors. This visibility led to his first substantial investment from a former col

In a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner engaged with Ian Horowitz, a seasoned real estate investor and co-founder of Equity Warehouse. Through a rich and informative discussion, Ian Horowitz shared his journey, challenges, and invaluable advice for newcomers and seasoned investors alike in the real estate market.The Realities of Real Estate InvestmentOvercoming Initial Challenges and MisconceptionsIan Horowitz candidly discusses the numerous challenges and misconceptions about real estate investing, noting how difficult the process can be for those new to the field. Despite the high reward potential, real estate investment involves a steep learning curve, complex financial decisions, and a significant time commitment. For anyone hoping to transition smoothly into this field, it is essential to approach the process with an informed perspective and adequate preparation.Embracing a Diverse Investment NetworkThe Power of Community through CRE SyndicateIan also elaborates on the importance of a diverse group of participants in his meetups, the CRE Syndicate, which focuses on commercial real estate investments. The meetups welcome a variety of experience levels—from beginners to sophisticated investors. This diversity creates a supportive and enriching environment where experiences and knowledge are shared, establishing a strong sense of community. These meetups also teach one of Ian's key principles: to start hosting meetups without overthinking them and to expect initial challenges.Building Credibility and CommunityThe Role of Meetups for Real Estate SuccessSuccessful real estate investment is grounded in solid networking, continuous learning, and community building. Ian says meetups don't need predetermined themes for every session but can evolve based on group interests and feedback. Organizations can ensure better follow-through and consistent engagement by scheduling meetings in advance. Ian co-hosts a monthly meetup at a local firehouse in Pennsylvania, which serves as a platform for networking, sharing experiences, and fostering personal relationships with potential investors. Emphasis is placed on educating the participants without pressuring them into sales, thus building credibility and trust.Financial Strategies and Investment OpportunitiesIan's Investment Journey and Financial EvolutionIan recounted his first venture into real estate, purchasing a property for $25,000 and using high-interest hard money loans for renovation. Though initially lacking financial savvy, he learned through experience, negotiating better terms with lenders and turning to friends and family for funding. His journey wasn't devoid of skepticism or support; while some colleagues were doubtful, others showed financial interest without wanting operational involvement. Communication and transparency about his work gradually attracted more investment interest.Ian underscores the importance of offering lucrative investment opportunities and creating mutually beneficial financial arrangements. Equity Warehouse, the company he co-founded, offers co-investment or co-lending experiences, ensuring preferred returns and participation in property equity. Highlighting a recent project, Ian detailed converting a 55,000-square-foot office building into a flex space, funded through a mix of loans and investor capital.Navigating the Funding LandscapePrivate Money and Institutional LoansThe episode emphasizes the critical role of funding in real estate ventures. Jay Conner and Ian examined the contrast between raising private money and borrowing institutional money. Raising private money often stems from necessity, such as needing gap funding, and involves setting terms attractively for investors. In contrast, institutional loans come with predetermine

In the world of commercial real estate, gaining financial freedom isn't just a dream—it's an achievable goal. As discussed by host Jonathan Hayek and guest Jay Conner in this insightful episode of the Scott Paton Podcast, understanding the intricate details of raising capital, fostering meaningful relationships, and having a strategic investment approach are pivotal for success.Raising Capital for Real EstateOne of the first steps towards achieving financial freedom in commercial real estate involves raising capital. Jonathan Hayek highlights that while familiarity with real estate can be beneficial, it's not strictly necessary. Interestingly, his initial deal was made possible by borrowing $110,000 from a contact named Ryan via a self-directed IRA, and another $50,000 from a friend. This emphasizes that leveraging personal networks can be an effective strategy for securing funds.Moreover, having a proven track record can significantly attract private money lenders. Hayek himself leveraged a mix of funding sources which included private money, hard money, balance transfers from credit cards, and local banks. He stresses the importance of presenting specific deals with clear terms to potential investors rather than vague promises of future opportunities.Strategic Investment ApproachesBoth Jonathan Hayek and Jay Conner emphasize a non-aggressive approach when it comes to finding investors. Rather than chasing or begging for money, they advocate for building genuine relationships. Hayek stresses the importance of attracting investors who are confident, financially secure, and a good fit for the deal.Straightforwardly presenting investment opportunities is crucial. It promotes trust and clarity, which, in turn, can lead to successful, long-term investment partnerships. A critical takeaway from their discussion is that the quality of investors often outweighs the quantity.Growing Mindset and Overcoming Limiting BeliefsJonathan Hayek's journey from being a special education teacher and non-profit worker to a full-time real estate investor underscores the importance of personal growth and overcoming limiting beliefs. He shares how he realized the need for greater financial growth and decided to pursue bigger goals.One of Hayek's personal growth strategies involves adopting mantras like "You're Not Thinking Big Enough." He encourages listeners to challenge deeply ingrained beliefs, many of which are rooted in childhood, to achieve their true potential. This mindset shift enabled him to leave his job and fully commit to real estate, exploring non-traditional opportunities such as industrial deals.Building a Sustainable BusinessA key insight from this episode is the concept of "rightsizing" your business to fit individual, family, and lifestyle needs, as discussed by Jay Conner. Jonathan Hayek emphasizes understanding one's "why" in real estate to avoid the pervasive pressure of constant scaling driven by social media influences. Bigger isn't always better; the focus should be on creating a business that aligns with personal goals, whether it's spending more time with family or enjoying freedom.The Power of Networks and ReferralsTrust and relationships are central to raising private money. Jay Conner and Jonathan Hayek both highlight that investors essentially invest in the person, based on reliability and trustworthiness. Jonathan's network of lenders is primarily based on established relationships with friends and family, leveraging their faith in his ability to manage their investments securely.Additionally, referrals play a crucial role. By delivering successful deals, Jonathan and Jay have benefited from referrals from existing lenders, further broadening their network and enhancing their investment opportunities.Real Estate Investment StrategiesJonathan Hayek has a focused app

In the latest episode of the Raising Private Money podcast,  Jay Conner welcomes guest Randal McLeaird, a seasoned real estate expert with over 14 years of experience in the San Antonio, Texas market. This episode explores the intricacies of crowdfunding, raising private money, and the opportunities available within the single-family housing market.Introduction to Crowdfunding and Private MoneyRaising Private Money: A Game-ChangerJay Conner, renowned for his expertise in raising private money, effortlessly introduces both novice and seasoned investors to strategies that can transform their real estate businesses. Don't forget to visit https://www.JayConner.com/MoneyGuide  to download a complimentary guide that highlights seven ways private money can elevate your investing ventures.Understanding CrowdfundingRandal McLeaird delves into the concept of crowdfunding, explaining its potential to democratize real estate investment. With crowdfunding, investors of all sizes, including non-accredited ones, can participate in real estate projects, with a collective annual raise capped at $5 million. Crowdfunding platforms like Invone allow both accredited and smaller investors to contribute to large-scale projects while complying with SEC guidelines.Crowdfunding vs. Traditional InvestmentsThe Mechanics of Crowdfunding for Real EstateRandal elucidates the practical aspects of leveraging crowdfunding for real estate investments. For example, a 506(c) raise permits advertisements and marketing to accredited investors, facilitating substantial capital influx. On the other hand, a CF raise opens the door for smaller investors, promoting inclusivity and broader participation.Comparing Returns: Crowdfunding vs. Traditional InvestmentsInvestors eyeing alternatives to traditional CDs or 401(k) plans might find Randal's offering compelling. Crowdfunding deals provide a 7% return on investments starting from $10,000, which is disbursed quarterly, akin to interest-only loans. For more substantial investments, $150,000 and above, the returns can go up to 10%, providing robust opportunities for high yields compared to conventional investment vehicles.Randal McLeaird's Real Estate VenturesLocal Expertise in San AntonioRandal McLeaird shares insights from his extensive experience in San Antonio, discussing how his familiarity with the market's nuances has been instrumental in his success. Having managed over 500 transactions, Randal's deep-rooted knowledge and hands-on approach ensure meticulous oversight and efficient property management.Current Crowdfunding ProjectsA spotlight on Randal's current initiative, the Ramp Capital Fund, reveals how strategic property acquisitions and renovations culminate in high returns for investors. For example, a property recently acquired for $105,000, with $20,000 in renovation costs, is projected to sell for around $215,000, showcasing the lucrative potential of well-chosen investments.Marketing Strategies and Investor OutreachExpanding the Investor BaseRandal emphasizes the importance of diverse marketing strategies to attract investors. By attending local meetups, reconnecting with past contacts, and leveraging platforms like podcasts, he effectively casts a wider net to secure capital for his projects. His approach underscores the need for continuous engagement and visibility in the real estate community.Advantages of a Crowdfunding FundBeyond just sourcing funds, crowdfunding offers the benefit of streamlined capital channels. Randal explains how this method simplifies the funding process, avoiding the repetitive task of soliciting investors for individual properties. This allows for continuous investment without

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@AlexPardo "How to Raise Private Money Without Asking for It"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wTrV0XW52kIn the latest episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Alex Pardo and Jay Conner delve into the complexities of raising private money for real estate investments. A key takeaway from their conversation is the importance of securing investments with a mortgage or deed of trust. This not only ensures the protection of investments but also adds additional layers of security by incorporating elements such as naming the investor on the insurance policy and maintaining a conservative loan-to-value ratio. The foundation of these secure investments is built on trust, something Jay emphasizes by creating a "trust bridge" through referrals.The Crucial Role of TrustTrust is an essential element in securing private money, as highlighted by both Jay and Alex. Many of Jay's lenders are referrals, which fosters an inherent level of trust. Rather than relying on traditional credibility packages, Jay emphasizes the development of strong, transparent relationships to build and sustain trust with lenders. This approach underlines the importance of personal connections in the world of private lending.Diversifying with Self-Storage InvestmentsAlex introduces the concept of investing in self-storage facilities as an alternative to the traditional single-family home market. He enumerates the benefits of self-storage investments, which include automation, recession resistance, and the absence of tenant management issues. For investors looking to diversify their portfolios and reduce traditional property management headaches, self-storage offers an attractive avenue.Educational Approach: Transforming Conversations into Investment OpportunitiesOne of the insights shared by Jay is his approach to seeking private money—not as asking for funds but as presenting opportunities. This shift in mindset reduces the pressure on both the investor and the potential lender. Educating potential lenders about private money and high-return options helps engage them in a non-confrontational manner. Jay encourages initiating conversations with "Did you know" questions to spark interest and introduce concepts like self-directed IRAs, thereby making the idea of private lending more accessible and less intimidating.Jay Conner's 7-Day Private Money ChallengeFor those interested in mastering the art of raising private money, Jay introduces his 7-day private money challenge. This program includes concise instructional videos aimed at educating investors on effective fundraising techniques. Originally priced at $197, the challenge is now available for just $17, making it highly accessible. Alex endorses this challenge, urging listeners to take advantage of this valuable resource to enhance their investment strategies.Capital Abundance Post-COVID: A Proactive ApproachIn light of the substantial amount of cash available in the market post-COVID—approximately $31 trillion—Jay emphasizes the importance of securing funding before pursuing deals. He critiques the commonly held belief that "the money will show up" once a deal is under contract. Instead, he advocates for a proactive approach, advising investors to secure capital ahead of time to avoid financial stress and uncertainty.Building Success Through Education and NetworkingA crucial aspect of Jay's success involves educating and networking. By informing his network—including church members and club associates—about private money, Jay has built a significant pool of private lenders. He partners with a self-directed IRA company to facilitate the transfer of retirement funds an