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Tonight's Episode of The Above The Bar Podcast: Transforming Relationships with Andre Paradis Tonight's episode features the engaging and insightful Andre Paradis, a renowned relationship coach who delves deep into the dynamics of effective communication and understanding between genders. Andre shares his extensive knowledge on building stronger, more resilient relationships and the importance of embracing Gender Intelligence in personal and professional interactions. Early Inspirations: Andre opens up about his unconventional early career path where, against his parents' wishes, he pursued dancing, even becoming a backup dancer for Chip and Dale. Life-Changing Seminar: Discover how a single seminar dramatically shifted Andre's career trajectory, setting him on the path to becoming the influential relationship coach he is today. Expert Insights: Andre discusses his strategic approach to relationship coaching and how understanding gender dynamics can profoundly impact relationship success. Additionally, Andre has generously offered exclusive gifts for our listeners: Free Book Offer: Email Andre at andrecoaching1@gmail.com with the subject line "Irresistible" to receive a free copy of his book. Free Coaching Session: Use the subject line "Talk Now" for a chance to have a free one-hour coaching session with Andre himself. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that not only explores Andre's fascinating journey but also provides practical advice for anyone looking to enhance their interpersonal relationships. Whether you're facing challenges in your personal life or looking to improve your professional interactions, Andre's expertise will offer new perspectives and solutions. #AndreParadis #RelationshipCoaching #LivePodcast #GenderIntelligence #EffectiveCommunication #RelationshipGoals #TheAboveTheBarPodcast #BeSureToPushYourStoolIn
From professional dancer to relationship coach... coming from a fast and fun life of being an entertainer, I NEVER would have expected to end up a relationship coach. It was exactly this lifestyle, however, that led me to realize the danger of what it could do to myself and others in the realm of relationships. Through a long journey of self-discovery and education, it has become MY MISSION to help others create and maintain long-lasting and loving relationships. I created Project Equinox to help alleviate the misunderstanding and conflict between men and women by teaching the concept of GENDER INTELLIGENCE. When men can understand the perspective of a woman and women can understand the perspective of a man, we can communicate with the understanding and respect that works. Title: "From the Stage to the Heart: Andre Paradis's Journey to Relationship Coaching" Tags: #relationshipcoaching #genderintelligence #communication #selfdiscovery #professionaldancer #entertainmentindustry #lovingrelationships #couplescoaching #conflictresolution IG: https://www.instagram.com/projectequinox/?next=%2F @projectequinoxTik-tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andre_paradis @andre_paradisLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andre-paradis-16042249/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ProjectEquinox/ @ProjectEquinoxFacebook women's group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/796575984117469Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ProjectEqinoxwithAndreParadisWebsite: https://projectequinox.net/ Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@all.in.all.with.alex Follow my Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/AllinAllwithAlex/ Listen to the Audio Version https://anchor.fm/alex-morris8 Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYCE3hcGlcW_EA9o9P_gYbg?sub_confirmation=1 Interested in Music videos? Follow my videography channel https://www.youtube.com/c/TheVisualGoat?sub_confirmation=1 Interested in finding a new artist? Click the link below https://www.youtube.com/c/SirromTheRapper?sub_confirmation=1 Welcome to the All In All With ALex, your go-to resource for practical mental health tips, self-improvement strategies, and personal growth insights. In each episode, we explore topics like managing anxiety, overcoming depression, building self-confidence, developing healthy habits, and cultivating resilience. You'll hear from real mental health professionals, life coaches, and inspiring individuals who have overcome their own struggles. Our mission is to provide you with actionable advice, coping techniques, and empowering perspectives to help you live your best life. Whether you're dealing with a specific mental health challenge or simply want to level up your personal growth journey, this channel has something for you. Join our community of like-minded individuals seeking to prioritize their well-being and unlock their full potential. Subscribe now to stay up-to-date on new episode releases, and let us know in the comments what mental health or self-improvement topics you'd like us to cover. Don't go it alone on your journey towards better mental health and self-improvement. Tune in, get inspired, and start taking steps towards becoming the best version of yourself. Your growth and well-being are worth it! tags podcast, best podcasts, all in all with alex podcast, all in all with alex, alex morris podcast, depression podcast, mental health podcast, mental therapy podcast, mental health matters, million dollars worth of game, podcast
Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
Unlock the secrets of the heart with Frances Kelleher, Ireland's leading dating coach, who brings her expertise to our latest episode, infused with the wisdom of John Gray's "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus." Imagine navigating the dating world with the confidence and savvy needed to find the perfect match. That's exactly what we're offering as Frances unfolds her transformative three C's method—confidence, conversation, and connection. Through her guidance, you'll learn how to demystify the opposite sex's signals, master the art of engaging dialogue, and forge an emotional bond that's the foundation of any lasting relationship.Prepare to rewrite your online dating playbook with Frances's essential strategies for creating a profile that stands out in a sea of sameness. Discover how to brand yourself in a way that's both authentic and alluring, using the strategic use of images and a touch of mystery to draw in potential partners. Frances also shares her insights on the importance of quickly transitioning from digital dialogues to real-world encounters, stressing the significance of maintaining one's energy—whether feminine or masculine—in the intricate dance of dating. This episode is a goldmine for those ready to elevate their dating game and establish the standards that lead to a meaningful partnership.As we wrap up, our conversation shifts from the thrills of dating to the sustaining efforts needed in long-term relationships. From understanding gender-specific stress responses to the art of effective communication, you'll discover strategies to keep the flame of love alive. We discuss the importance of personal growth and self-care, reinforcing that small daily actions can lead to happiness whether you're single or coupled up. With Frances Kelleher's wisdom and our commitment to guiding you towards love, this episode is an open invitation to embrace growth, connection, and the belief that your right partner is out there waiting for you.Offers: http://subscribepage.io/The_Roadmap_For_Women_On_How_To_Keep_The_Love_Alive http://subscribepage.io/The_Roadmap_For_Men_On_How_To_Keep_The_Love_Alivehttp://subscribepage.io/How_To_DOUBLE_Your_DatingSupport the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/supportListen to some of this podcast's guests on the 2 night Frank Talk Summit here https://franktalksummit.aweb.page/p/99a5544a-6dae-4dc5-93dd-152a9ebe7ec1 Email questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @fromthesourcesmouth_franktalkTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube: Tamara_Schoon_comic
Bec Brideson is a pioneer in a space you likely haven't thought all too much about. Gender-Intelligent thinking is a skill she has developed and that she is passionate about sharing. Ever heard the term 'womenomics'? Yeah, me either. I guess it takes someone like Bec, with a specific set of skills, circumstances and attributes to see business and life through a gender specific lens and help the rest of us capitalise on her insights. In 1998, Bec Brideson became the youngest female advertising Creative Director in Australia and joined an exclusive rank attained by only 3% of female creatives in the world. She has worked with brands such as Virgin, Qantas, Holden, Cricket Australia, and recently the launch of AFLW and I dare say, she's pretty impressive! SPONSORED BY TESTART FAMILY LAWYERS Website: testartfamilylawyers.com.au BEC BRIDESON Website: becbrideson.com TIFFANEE COOK Linktree: linktr.ee/rollwiththepunches Website: rollwiththepunches.com.au LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tiffaneecook/ Facebook: facebook.com/rollwiththepunchespodcast/ Instagram: instagram.com/rollwiththepunches_podcast/ Instagram: instagram.com/tiffaneeandcoSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What exactly is political intelligence? And why is it important to have in the workplace?In Episode 130, Cari Guittard, Chief Strategy Officer & Partner at ChangeX & purposewerx and Leadership Professor at Hult International Business School, joins Melinda in a conversation around the constructive approach to addressing politics within the workplace. Drawing from her multiple experiences in the DEI, ESG, and political fields, Cari delves into practical tools to develop our political intelligence. She discusses why this skill set can be necessary for advancing our careers and positioning ourselves as purpose-driven leaders, the importance of curiosity in political conversations, and how it can enhance our situational awareness to adapt effectively to moments of transition or crisis. She also taps into how organizations can respond to anti-wokeness in a way that opens the door for creativity and creates positive change at work. About Cari Guittard (she/her)Strategic purpose design, global thought leadership and high velocity social impact. The Un-Guided Missile. A nickname given to me by one of my former bosses and mentors for my relentless approach to connection, collaboration, and driving impact. From corporate diplomacy, political intelligence, foresight and futures strategy, women's leadership/gender intelligent design, ESG, DE&I, and next gen efforts. My brain is most on fire when I am engaged with clients building, branding and leveraging unique multi-discipline tri-sector partnerships (between government agencies, NGOs, companies and private citizens) to develop solutions to complex and urgent problems. Award-Winning Professor. Keynote Speaker & Facilitator. Ghost Writer. Brand & Thought LeadershipAn endless collector and distiller of wisdom and knowledge wherever I find it. Am most known for my work as a speaker, facilitator, and writer even though I am also at home as a strategist, data analyst and researcher. I learned branding and the creative discipline directly from working with legends, seasoned leaders, and boards in the Advertising, Marketing and the Global PR space. Keith Reinhard, Charlotte Beers, Alan Siegel, and many others.Purposeful, Practical, GlobalIn 2018, 2020, and 2021 Hult San Francisco awarded me The Most Inspirational Faculty and Faculty of the Year. I develop and teach graduate leadership courses as well as electives in Political Intelligence for Work, Strategic Influence & Persuasion, Gender Intelligence, Crisis Management & International Negotiations.For educational resources from this episode, visit empovia.co.Connect With CariLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/cariguittard/Connect With UsYouTube: youtube.com/@empoviaTwitter: twitter.com/empoviacoFacebook: facebook.com/empoviaInstagram: instagram.com/empoviaLinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/empoviaProduction TeamCreator & Host: Melinda Briana EplerCo-Producers: Renzo Santos & Christina Swindlehurst ChanPodcast Rocket: Rob Scheerbarth & Nina Rugeles[Image description: LEA promo and photos of Cari Guittard, a White, cis gender female photographed in black and white with long blonde hair and dark button up shirt; and host Melinda Briana Epler, a White woman with blonde and red hair, glasses, red shirt, and black jacket.]Support the show
Andre is a relationship coach and is the president of Project Equinox.Project Equinox's mission is to clear the misunderstanding between men and women by teaching the concept of gender intelligence. When both parties understand each other's perspective, that is the only time respect and understanding communication form, a vital component in any relationship.In this episode, Andre shared the journey to finding himself, the three phases of his life, and how he eventually arrived at the career he loves.Andre talks about how he was born into the wrong family and felt different from his childhood.But eventually, his life started rolling as he discovered his talent for dancing. And soon, his first career began in the dance entertainment industry.As time goes by, Andre realizes the toxic environment he was living in in the entertainment industry and switches to having an auto repair shop business.Andre's automotive business is a success. However, because of his curiosity about everything, he finds another thing he is passionate about being a relationship coach.Andre also discusses the issue of men and women not understanding each other, which becomes the underlying problem in a relationship. However, when men and women understand each other, there will be polarity in the relationship because they will now complement each other and cover the weaknesses of one another.Andre Paradis's story shows that no matter our circumstances, we will eventually discover our path to finding ourselves and have a passionate life doing what we love.Episode 271 of The Beyond Adversity Podcast is a must-listen for anybody on the path to discovering themselves and pursuing the things they love—those looking for a story of a man who went on a long trip before finding his passion.“The Beyond Adversity Podcast with Dr. Brad Miller is published weekly with the mission of helping people “Grow Through What They Go Through” as they navigate adversity and discover their promised life of peace, prosperity and purpose.https://projectequinox.netFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ProjectEquinoxLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andre-paradis-16042249Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/projectequinox/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andre_paradis Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ProjectEquinoxwithAndreParadis/featured
Andre Paradis is a certified Life Coach, entrepreneur, business owner, artist, and Relationship and Dating Coach. He's committed to teaching individuals and couples how to create and maintain happy, successful, and long-lasting relationships through effective communication. Andre is dedicated to teaching men and women the concept of Gender Intelligence, to truly understand each other's perspectives, and empowering people to create strong, loving relationships. Download his book, Five Feminine Qualities High-Quality Men Find Absolutely Irresistible.
Acknowledging gender differences can lead to a better culture and improved company performance. So asserts Barbara Annis, CEO of Gender Intelligence, who shares bold ideas on how women and men can work and win together.
He said this. She said that. They both yell and don't talk for the rest of the night. How many of us have gone through this? Why are we like this? Why can't we stop the routine and get back to us? Well, Andre may just have the solution. With over 20 years of tutelage from other experts, esteemed colleagues and personal life experience, Andre Paradis helps me through the shit storm of modern dating. He definitely has a bone to pick with modern society & and their out of the box thinking and he's not afraid to share his feelings! Well, with that said, tune in to what he had to say!
Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
Andre and I discuss the sometimes controversial topic of equality and why scientifically it doesn't often work in relationships. Andre tells you about gender intelligence, being invested, polarity and how what we don't know about each other is dangerous and causing all the confusion and drama between men and women. You'll also hear one of the 5 things needed for a man to commit to you. Towards the end, we talk about the many women he and I both know who dreamed of their own kids and now it's too late. He wants to sound the alarm bell and have you really think about what you want sooner than later especially if want your own biological children. If you want a husband too, you need to understand men and not get mad at them for not being like you and vice versa. Men and women think and act differently and if you'd like to better understand that, check out this great episode!! Link will let you set up an hour call with Andre who coaches both men and women. http://www.andregroupcoaching.comSupport the show
Sam + Rick are joined by Relationship Coach, NLP Coach, Educator of Effective Communications, Published Writer, Public Speaker, and Ordained Minister, Andre Paradis. They open the episode by chatting about ways to raise healthy children, and carry on to discuss the importance of gender roles and gender intelligence in relationships. Andre shares his perspective on the success (or lack thereof) of relationships that begin with hooking up and the importance of "sticking it out" in long-term arrangements.In this episode:The “baggage” we take on during childhoodHow do we raise healthy children?The feminization of men and evolutionary biologyGender intelligenceAndre's thoughts on hookup cultureThe metaphor of dancing and relationshipsHow masculine and feminine energies play into same-sex relationshipsShow References:Book Your FREE VIP Hour with Andre: www.andregroupcoaching.comSponsor Info:This show is supported by:Butcher Box | http://rwrd.io/bxy895l?cNuuly | http://fbuy.me/s0MOgSomnifix Mouth Tape | Code ‘SRWELLNESS10' at somnifix.com for 10% off ClearSTEM Skincare | Code ‘SRWELLNESS' at clearstemskincare.com for 15% offSocial Tags:Follow Andre Paradis:@projectequinoxwww.projectequinox.netFollow Richard Raymond Sniegowski II:@richard_raymond_ii@yourdads_old45s@welcometolimeforestFollow Sammy Conrad:@samantharosewellnesssamantharosewellness.comsamanthaconrad.comFollow What The Fuck Is Happening:instagram.com/wtfh.podcast
This week Richie brings in Christian Braga to talk about how he built his own leadership and sales team and how he transformed his 100k business into an 18 million enterprise in just 3 years. Christian is a Business & Life Coach, NLP Trainer, entrepreneur in the field of renewable energy, and renowned expert in Gender Intelligence and leadership in national and international organizations. Learn more about having Richie speak at your next event or how he can implement the Next Play™ Accountability System in your organization: https://www.relentlessrichie.com Learn more about the Relentless Warrior Fitness accountability and coaching program: https://relentlesswarriorfit.com Free Access to Relentless University: RelentlessUniversity.com Download the Relentless University app free: http://onelink.to/6cjar9 Follow Richie on Social: IG: @RelentlessRichie Facebook: @RelentlessRichie
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Andre Paradis has been on a long journey of self discovery and education and it's his mission to help others create and maintain long lasting and loving relationships.Andre created Project Equinox to alleviate the misunderstanding and pain between men and women by teaching the concept of GENDER INTELLIGENCE.
Paul and Barbara kick off the podcast with a discussion about the quote “feedback is the breakfast of champions,” a quote by author Ken Blanchard in his groundbreaking book “One Minute Manager,” and co-authored by Spencer Johnson MD. Barbara describes giving feedback as one of the biggest challenges, particularly between men and women. She says men often find they have to be cautious in giving women sensitive feedback. Research shows that women want the ‘straight goods' in feedback, but men are often uncomfortable if the feedback is met with an emotional response. Barbara shared a story about a woman who was unsuccessful in becoming a partner in a law firm, despite meeting all the metrics for being promoted. Later, she was infuriated to receive the feedback third hand. She eventually left the firm and became a partner in a competing firm. It's an all-too common theme, and research shows men often feel they have to be more careful in giving women feedback. Paul and Barbara discussed a PowerPoint deck which was part of a workshop Barbara delivered on “Pathways to Inclusion: Giving and Receiving Feedback.” Barbara described two important components of the workshop that led to a breakthrough for the client. She provided them with insight on the science of brain differences between women and men, and a set of tools for overcoming challenges. She believes that one important key is for men to be empowered to sponsor and mentor women. Studies show that 42% of men find it difficult to receive sensitive feedback. Barbara says the first step is to be straightforward, not vague with feedback. She says men prefer getting guidance on what specifically they can do to improve. She adds that it's always best to ‘declare your intentions' from the start, to ensure the feedback is seen as a positive and constructive way to perform better at work. Paul reflected on the statistics that show 64% of women find it difficult receiving sensitive feedback, though at the same time, 82% of women say they want more feedback. Barbara explained that part of the reason for that is that the hippocampus (memory centre) is larger in women's brains. Women tend to remember a bad experience they had in receiving feedback. Barbara says men who want to improve at giving feedback to women should remember one important fact. “Women are their own worst critic. We ruminate and scrutinize ourselves all the time,” she says. On the other hand, for men, they sometimes need to step back, reflect on feedback, and replenish their testosterone. For both men and women, the key is validation. Link to “Work with Me: The 8 Blind Spots Between Men and Women in Business” by Barbara Annis and John Gray PhD: amazon.com/gp/product/B00BRALEGG/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i0 Link to the book ‘One Minute Manager' by Ken Blanchard Phd and Spencer Johnson MD amazon.ca/Minute-Manager-Kenneth-Blanchard-Ph-D/dp/074350917X
Barbara Annis and host Paul Colligan kick off this episode with a story about Barbara’s husband, also named Paul, who had a negative experience during an Unconscious Bias training session. Barbara explains that Unconscious Bias does not work, and companies need to stop delivering that kind of training. She says it has a reverse effect on people because: It’s a band-aid approach that has no correlation to learning; It lowers morale; It is a waste of money for companies because there’s no return on investment. Barbara insists that even the term has negative connotations. The first word, unconscious, is about helplessness, while the second word, bias, evokes blame. She described the work she did with a company where they removed the term Unconscious Bias and replaced it with Blind Spots. It is non-blame and focuses on a-ha moments of discovery, and new insights. Paul and Barbara discussed the experience that people have in a Gender Intelligence training session where the focus is on Blind Spots. Barbara says that once they realize it’s not about blame, but about building understanding, everything changes. There’s engagement from the start, and it’s relevant to their lives, both professionally and personally. Barbara says it takes the divisiveness out of the conversation. Barbara described a situation where a large financial services firm faced the largest gender discrimination lawsuit in the history of Wall Street. She says the legal action came on the heels of Unconscious Bias training in the firm, prompting the company to remove UB training from any mention in its culture. Harvard business review article “Why Diversity Programs Fail”: https://hbr.org/2016/07/why-diversity-programs-fail Paul reflected on the benefits of a Gender Intelligent conversation around hardwired differences between men and women, and the value each gender brings to the table. He says it’s about answering the questions, “what can we learn about each other, how can we perform better with each other, and what does each style bring to the game that gives us an advantage? Barbara referred to a quote from Dr. Fernando Flores PhD, a linguistic professor at Berkeley. He said “You can stall or initiate anything through how you use language.” Barbara says it reflects the importance of using language that engages an authentic conversation. It can make it a transformational experience for men and women. Find the Book “Be Gender Intelligent,” by Barbara Annis and Dr. Keith Merron: https://www.amazon.com/Gender-Intelligence-Breakthrough-Strategies-Increasing/dp/0062307436 Find Barbara’s first book, “Same Words Different Language” here: https://www.amazon.com/Same-Words-Different-Language-Intelligence/dp/0134513274 Are you interested in becoming a Be Gender Intelligent Ambassador? Get in touch with Barbara’s team at tdrezet@genderintelligence.com, to learn more about the advantages of becoming a Gender Intelligent leader within your organization through our digital learning programs for men and women.
On this episode, Barbara Annis and host Paul Colligan discuss the some of the biggest challenges facing women in leadership positions. The pitfalls, identified through a survey of 2,000 women leaders, were based on two simple questions. What pitfalls they worked to avoid in their careers, and what pitfalls they may have fallen into. 7 Common Themes Were Identified Barbara says the results showed that, no matter where these women leaders lived, or what their career focus was, the same themes just kept popping up, again and again. Take the free Introductory Program here: courses.genderintelligence.com/courses/introduction-to-e-learning Sign up for the full 7 Pitfalls program here: courses.genderintelligence.com/courses/the-7-pitfalls-for-women-leaders Barbara and Paul discussed the themes and how they impact women in leadership positions. The top 7 pitfalls are: Making Bold Requests Self-Promotion Being Hard On Themselves The Loyalty Trap Assigned to Grunt Work Networking Negotiations Barbara shared a story about a group of male and female executives were all in the running for the CEO role at a company in Silicon Valley. She described a key gender difference that led to one of the male executives landing the position, in sharp contrast with the approach of his female counterparts. Barbara also reflected on the differences between men and women in terms of networking. Barbara says she’s convinced it all comes down to being strategic in one’s approach. Paul suggested that organizations could benefit by making sure male employees also understand these pitfalls for women. He believes this mutual insight into gender differences would allow men and women to worth together to overcome each of their pitfalls, allowing them to build on each other’s strengths. Barbara agreed and describing how some of her corporate clients came to that same conclusion. She believes this kind of acknowledgement and understanding of gender differences and the pitfalls of both men and women should begin in high school or earlier. Barbara told the story of a young female engineer who reached out to her after the engineer had hired a highly successful male career coach, only to discover that he constantly made her cry. In his mind, his confrontation style would motivate her, but instead it made her feel less confident. The female engineer later discovered that she was the first women he had ever coached. Barbara convinced her to fire the coach, and she recommended finding a new one who ‘had her back,’ and used a more positive approach in coaching. Next Week’s Topic: Giving and Receiving Feedback with Gender Intelligence
Marcella Allison is an entrepreneur and top direct advertising copywriter. She founded the (not so secret) Order of the Titanides, a community to empower women freelancers and solopreneurs in the advertising and direct response industries. On this podcast, Marcella explains to Barbara that she knew it was time to take action on behalf of women in her industry when she began witnessing the effects of the pandemic on their businesses. She says it is essential that women in leadership positions make an effort to support others at this time, in an effort to prevent losing an entire generation of women entrepreneurs. Marcella is convinced we’re at a breaking point. Barbara reflected on how she is also finding through surveys that women are affected deeply in terms of morale, stress and overwork. She’s convinced that women at all levels – in the workplace and in the home – are working harder than they ever had. Marcella referred to a series of articles the New York Times ran on the impact of the pandemic on women. Find some of the articles here: Pandemic Will ‘Take Our Women 10 Years Back’ in the Workplace: www.nytimes.com/2020/09/26/world/covid-women-childcare-equality.html Could the Pandemic Prompt an ‘Epidemic of Loss’ of Women in the Sciences? www.nytimes.com/2021/04/13/health/women-stem-pandemic.html Why is this happening? Marcella says it’s because women have always carried much of the burden at home, and that has become an exponentially larger challenge during this pandemic. She says it’s hard to imagine how women who are copywriters and creatives are managing to work from home, with young children who may be homeschooling and without access to daycare. Marcella described a recent survey that showed the pandemic has added as many as 30 hours of extra work for the average family in terms of education and extra tasks, and women are carrying 70% of that. See the Boston Consulting Group study Marcella referred to here: www.bcg.com/en-ca/publications/2020/helping-working-parents-ease-the-burden-of-covid-19 Barbara reflected on the neuroscience of gender differences, and how that plays out in this situation. She says many CEOs have told her they recognize the extra burden placed on women right now, but they don’t know what to do about it. Marcella also reflected on another disconcerting study by Facebook’s Sheryl Sandberg and McKinsey & Company, which suggested that 1 in 4 women are thinking about downgrading their role in the workplace. Read the ‘Women in the Workplace 2020’ report here: womenintheworkplace.com Marcella says there’s no question this is also turning back the clock in terms of pay equity. She points to a recent study by the World Economic Forum showing that because of the pandemic, the gender pay gap won’t be closed for another 135 years. Equal Gender Pay Set Back a Generation by Pandemic, WEF Says: www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2021-03-31/equal-gender-pay-set-back-a-generation-by-pandemic-wef-says Barbara explained the importance of self-care for women. She says employers should be focused on creating work-life harmony in the workplace vs. work-life balance, which is really a myth. Marcella described a session the Titanides held recently with Dr. Peter Pearson, founder of the Couples Institute. He worked with the women to help make them better negotiators for themselves in relation to household tasks. Dr. Pearson also coached the women through a series of conversations to have with their partner’s and children. Find a link to the Couples Institute here: couplesinstitute.com Paul and Barbara reflected on the challenges in many workplaces during the Covid-19 pandemic. Barbara says the key is to embed Gender Intelligence in everything a company does. She says it’s incredibly validating for women and incredibly freeing for men to learn about and apply the knowledge gained from understanding the science of gender differences. Barbara says it really is about everyone coming together to solve the problem. Paul suggested that men can be proactive by asking their partners at home or in the workplace if there are any ‘unspoken requests,’ relating to ways they can contribute. Barbara praised the idea saying it addresses an important assumption that women often make – that because they notice things, men should notice them too. Barbara says women also have to exercise the muscle of “letting go.” ==== Read Marcella Allison’s professional profile here: marcellaallison.com/ Learn about the Titanides here: titanides.com/
Barbara Annis begins the program by sharing some of the fundamental differences between men and women when it comes to conflict. She says the sexes really do react to conflict differently. Women tend to internalize conflicts and ruminate about it. Men tend to externalize it. They will often make a decision to either resolve it or move on, which as Barbara explains, links to the fight or flight response. What is S.A.R.A.? Shock, Anger, Rejection, Acceptance Barbara describes SARA as the path that men and women take as they go through situations of conflict. Her advice is not to get stuck in Shock, Anger or Rejections, but to commit to a period of ‘short-term’ suffering where you truly ‘feel’ those moments, but have a genuine intention to get to Acceptance. While men tend to get stuck in being angry and women often get stuck in rejection, Barbara believes we are ineffective in communicators when we are in either state. Blame-Frame and Outcome-Frame These are the two frames of reference that Barbara refers to in her books and workshops. She says blame is really about creating a win-lose. I’m right and you’re wrong. On the other hand, Outcome Frame is really about asking ‘what’s ’the win-win here?’ How can we get to understanding? Using Triangulation Barbara’s described the theory of ‘triangulation’ where people in the workplace choose to complain to others rather than taking on conflict in a direct way with an individual. Barbara explains why ‘triangulated behavior’ only complicates things, but it’s a pattern people fall into. She believes that rather than involving other people, it’s better to go directly to the individual you are having a conflict with to resolve it. The key is having ‘zero commitment’ to triangulation. What Can We Do About It? A Gender Intelligence Worksheet: The next time you’re in a conflict situation, take a few moments to review and apply each of these 6 ways to reach a positive resolution. Ten Techniques for Resolving Conflict: Regardless of gender, these techniques will help you when you find yourself in a conflict with a colleague: 1. Stay calm. One big thing that can intensify conflict is anger. To keep the conflict from escalating, take a mental step back and remain calm. Chances are if you can remain calm, those around you will calm down as well. 2. Listen to understand. Once the anger sets in, we tend to stop listening to understand and we start listening to argue back. It will be difficult, but you need to practice your active listening skills and listen to understand. 3. Own what is yours. Are you part of the problem? Take ownership of your mistakes and apologize for them. This will usually surprise people—in a good way—and make them more open to resolving the conflict. 4. Leave a little room for doubt. Rather than insisting that you are right and the other party is wrong, leave a little room for doubt. Take the opportunity to check your sources and confirm what you know. While you still may be right, you are gathering more information. 5. Use an “I” message. “I” messages describe the experience from your point of view without blaming the other party. Using an “I” message is a way to express your needs, expectations, and problems to your listener in a non-‐confrontational way. Some examples: •I expect...•I understood you to say...•It was my understanding that...•I guess I misheard. Please...•I would appreciate it if...•I need... 6. Attack the problem, not the person. If you want your point to be heard, depersonalize your comments and talk only to the issue. Rather than accusing the other party, frame your statements towards finding a solution. For example, instead of “You’re always getting that wrong,” frame the statement as “Let’s look at why this keeps happening.” 7. Avoid finger pointing. In conflict resolution, assigning blame is only helpful in one situation—if you assign it to yourself. When trying to resolve a conflict, figuring out whose fault something is does nothing to solve the problem. Instead, focus on problem solving, not finger pointing. 8. Pick your battles. Do you need to be right, or do you need to resolve the conflict? It’s human nature to want to be right. Unfortunately, this gets in the way of conflict resolution. Right or wrong, if the issue means a lot less to you than it does the other party, it’s best to concede. 9. Focus on now. Stay out of the past — it doesn’t belong in conflict resolution. Bringing up old arguments or problems will do nothing to help solve the existing conflict. Instead of focusing on what went wrong, or who didn’t do what (both in the past), shift the focus to finding a solution. 10. Be willing to let it go. Don’t hold on to past conflict. This only gets in the way of your ability to resolve conflict in the future.
After a busy life raising a family and building a career in sales at Sony, Barbara Annis turned her interest in gender differences into a lifelong mission to bring Gender Intelligence into the workplace. In today’s episode, Barbara shares the story of her journey with Paul, and explains why there’s so much more to accomplish. One of the biggest ‘a-ha’ moments for Barbara was when she realized she wasn’t being fully authentic in her life. She describes how her persona at work, where she took on ‘alpha’ male behaviors to fit in and compete with her male colleagues, clashed with who she really was. Paul shared how when he first met Barbara, he instantly understood what she meant using the term “Gender Intelligence.” He says the title of Barbara’s first book, “Same Words, Different Language,” also rang true to him. Barbara described the process of writing, then editing her first book. She says it was well received, and a common reaction from people was “why didn’t I know this 20 years ago?” She says it was always her goal to create balanced learning for both men and women, without blame. She says men find it very freeing, and women find it incredibly validating. Find Barbara’s first book “Same Words, Different Language” here: https://www.amazon.ca/Same-Words-Different-Language-Intelligence/dp/0134513274 Barbara and Paul discussed some of the books Barbara co-authored. She described how her work with author Michael Gurian led to their partnership to write “Leadership and the Sexes. Find “Leadership and the Sexes” by Barbara Annis and Michael Gurian here: https://www.amazon.ca/Leadership-Sexes-Science-Business-2008-08-25/dp/B01FKWTYO0/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=annis+gurian&qid=1618508935&s=books&sr=1-1 Paul and Barbara also discussed Barbara’s book with John Gray entitled “Work With Me,” and how the two authors collaborated on ways to be authentically Gender Intelligent at home and at work. Find “Work With Me” by Barbara Annis and John Gray here: https://www.amazon.ca/Work-Me-Intelligence-Succeed-Barbara/dp/B00QAU26YC/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=barbara+annis+john+gray&qid=1618509058&s=books&sr=1-2 Today, Barbara describes her life as being much different than it was before the Covid-19 pandemic. Due to the success of her books and consulting work, Barbara spent many years ‘living out of a suitcase,’ and traveling from one keynote address to another. Today she does most of her work virtually. She says she’s finally convinced that workshops can be delivered virtually, and it’s an extremely useful platform for learning. That’s a big advantage for companies that wanted her to be able to scale her corporate learning programs globally. Barbara says the pandemic hasn’t changed her mission to bring the value of Gender Intelligence to thousands of organizations. She says a key to that is her “Be Gender Intelligent” online learning platform. It’s a 15-hour program where learners can earn their Gender Intelligence Ambassador certification. To learn more about the “Be Gender Intelligent” learning platform here: https://www.genderintelligence.com/digital-learning/
"Over the last 40 years, studies have shown that female officers are less authoritarian in their approach to policing, less reliant on physical force and are more effective communicators. Most importantly, female officers are better at defusing potentially violent confrontations before those encounters turn deadly." Hiring & Retaining More Women: The Advantages to Law Enforcement Agencies Kimberly A. Lonsway Link to study: https://eric.ed.gov/?id=ED473183 In this podcast, Barbara explains that she first began to consider the connection between Gender Intelligence and safety in the early 90s when some of her clients shared stories with her about how teams with women tended to outscore all-male teams on the implementation of safety practices in the workplace. Since then, many research studies have confirmed it. Barbara says that would reflect the brain differences between the genders. Because women think more contextually, they tend to be more detail oriented, and also tend to employ consequential thinking to a higher degree. In contrast men tend to be more transactional in their thinking and focused on accomplishing the task at hand. Barbara and Paul reflect on the research that demonstrates the benefits of having women in policing. Barbara explains the differences in the Amygdala, and how testosterone affects men and women differently. She shared the story of Vale, the global mining company that pivoted to embrace all forms of diversity including gender, after a tragedy in Brazil. Additional Material: Link to Barbara’s interview with Vale’s Chief Operating Officer, Dino Otranto: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GXRAe2qFJA Gender Disparities in Injury Mortality: Consistent, Persistent and Larger Than You’d Think https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3222499/ How Covid-19 is Changing Women’s Lives https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200630-how-covid-19-is-changing-womens-lives A Simple Solution to Policing Problems: Women! Mindy E. Bergman, Jessica M. Walker, Vanessa A. Jean, Texas A&M University https://www.icos.umich.edu/sites/default/files/lecturereadinglists/bergman_walker_jean%20(2016)%20IOP%20women%20policing.pdf
The Gender Intelligence community is growing. Early adopters in finance and technology are now being joined by manufacturing and mining companies, as they too recognize the benefits of building inclusive cultures through an understanding of the value of gender differences. On today’s show, Barbara and Paul discuss the progress of Vale, one of the world’s largest mining companies, with more than 76,000 employees at operations in 30 countries. The firm, founded in Brazil in 1942, has declared that its mission is to transform natural resources into prosperity and sustainable development. Part of that is a recognition that diversity is at the core of its people and the people it serves. Barbara Annis describes the challenges that Vale faced, and the catalyst that moves the company to further define and declare its goals around building a diverse, and more gender-balanced workforce. Gender Intelligence can benefit companies in several ways: “difference thinking” better leadership improved communications greater safety help individuals to feel valued empower women in the workplace Recommended Reading: For individuals interested in learning the concepts and principles of Gender Intelligence, read Barbara’s book, “Same Words, Different Language.” - https://amzn.to/38M9SHY For organizations and teams interesting in implementing Gender Intelligence within your company, read Barbara’s book, “Gender Intelligence.” - https://amzn.to/2OH3ieR Interview with Dino Otranto, COO, Vale Base Metals As part of an interview series for International Women’s Day, Barbara spoke with Dino Otranto, Chief Operating Officer, Vale Base Metals. Barbara described his authentic commitment to Gender Intelligence and inclusion, and how it connects to Vale’s mission. See the full interview with Dino Otranto here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GXRAe2qFJA For more information, contact the Gender Intelligence Group: tdrezet@genderintelligence.com or 1-877-922-2462 ext. 120
Many women are under pressure to act more like men and less as themselves, while men are chastised for being themselves. In this podcast I discuss the importance of establishing gender intelligence in the workplace and in society, to enable women and men understand each other's way of thinking and acting. This will result in all genders working effectively together to establish equity.Stay Connected with MaureenWebsite: https://www.maureenchiana.comTraining Academy: https://www.themindsightacademy.comLinkedIn: @MaureenChianaLet's have a chat:Book a Free Consultation Call: https://calendly.com/maureen-77/30min
On a day to mark the progress of women’s rights around the globe, Barbara and Paul discuss ‘mining the gold,’ to recognize and appreciate the differences and strengths that women bring to the workplace, and in leadership roles. The theme of this year’s International Women’s Day is “Choose to Challenge.” It’s a theme Barbara takes some issue with because it raises the age-old concept of Gender Equality, the ‘battle’ for being treated the same. But we’re not the same, according to Barbara, who coined the phrase “Great Minds Think Unalike.” She says we need to celebrate our differences and the unique skills and perspectives that both women and men bring to the table. As part of International Women’s Day, Barbara conducted a series of interviews with senior corporate leaders, to get a sense from them how Gender Intelligence is helping to shape their organizations in 2021. This show features some of the content from Barbara’s conversation with Scott Anderson, the President and CEO of Zion’s Bank. Anderson is a huge proponent of Gender Intelligence and says the process has empowered him and made him a better leader, partner, and community member. Watch the full interview with Zion’s Bank President and CEO Scott Anderson here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6LzJst77QA Men Speaking for Women? Paul expressed some surprise that Barbara chose to interview not just women leaders, but also men on International Women’s Day. Barbara explains that we often learn the most by ‘walking in each other’s shoes,’ because it forces us to really try and understand each other. How Have We Missed the Mark? Despite a worldwide effort, we’re still not valuing women fully, according to Barbara. She describes the story of a woman executive who describes the ‘silos’ she sees, even within organizations, that prevent women networks from truly being embraced. Barbara’s concerned that the pandemic has created further isolation. Contact the Gender Intelligence Group for more information: tdrezet@genderintelligence.com or 1-877-922-2462 ext. 120
How do you measure training effectiveness when it comes to Gender Intelligence? We’ve got a tool for that! Our Online Gender Diversity Diagnostic tool allows individuals, teams, and organization to quantify their Gender Intelligence scores, and track progress over time. The tool offers organizations quantifiable data, allowing them to ‘see’ the issues, identify misalignments and discontinuities between intention and behavior, and develop solutions that work. It’s also 100% customizable for organizations. The Benefits of Diagnostic: Tangible, measurable assessment results and ease in tracking individual or team progress Improved retention resulting in savings on hiring/training Simplifies the process of identifying solutions for implementation Moves it beyond ‘quotas’ and into breakthrough results Benchmark yourself to other companies What Does the Diagnostic Tool Measure? Commitment Dignity and Respect Openness Opportunity Work-Life Flexibility Satisfaction and Commitment Diversity and Inclusiveness Gender and Ethnic Diversity in the organization How to get started to use the Gender Intelligence Assessment Tool: tdrezet@genderintelligence.com or 1-877-922-2462 ext. 120
What you'll learn from this episode: 1) Two indicators that prove your relationship is possibly past the point of no return. 2) Attachment theory (can an avoidant-attachment and anxious-attachment be compatible?)3) What it looks like to understand and respect your partner's needs and your own needs at the same time.About my guest:MARK SEPHTON is a personal mentor to entrepreneurs. His mission to help others has seen him break into global markets while working with startups and millionaire entrepreneurs around the world. When not on the big screen, Mark is a regular contributor to Entrepreneur Magazine and a speaker for corporate events, entrepreneurship summits, and major conferences worldwide. His expertise in personal and professional development has positioned him as an expert in the industry, resulting in transformational experiences for audiences, clients, and businesses alike. He is also the author of two personal development books “Inside Job” and “Plot Twist”.Instagram @sephtonmarkTwitter @sephtonmarkFacebook Facebook.com/marksephtonmentorYouTube www.youtube.com/markjamsephtonLinkedin uk.linkedin.com/in/marksephtonbusinessmentor Entrepreneur magazine http://www.entrepreneur.com/author/mark-sephtonInside Job http://goo.gl/7i72rgPlot Twist https://goo.gl/9OjBvhBook a call with Steph:https://stephanieganowski77.activehosted.com/f/5FREE E-BOOK https://stephanieganowski7.wixsite.com/mysite-2INSTAGRAMhttps://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
It's a disruptive time for everyone. Organizations are concerned about the wellbeing and productivity of employees, and individuals are facing serious challenges too. Barbara and Paul reflect on the issues facing many of us, and focus on 6 important areas where using Gender Intelligence will make a big difference. They are: Distraction - The ongoing disruption and work/lifestyle changes. Women tend to worry more, especially those on the front-line including caregivers, nurses, etc. Communication – Sometimes we’re not getting across to each other in a way that is honoring for both women and men. Stress – It’s gone through the roof. Men and women de-stress differently. Women do it through connection. Men tend to do it by tuning out. A need to be heard. Juggling work/life balance. Conflicts. How to resolve them in a win/win way. Barbara and Paul also discuss the tools for eliminating challenges. It’s important to spend some time understanding the science of brain differences (review some of the concepts in Season 1, Episode 3) 7 tools to eliminate challenges Let's start appreciating each other, standing in each other shoes Take care of yourself, create space for you and others Press the pause button if you are triggered, apply SARA Shock/Anger/Rejection/Acceptance Respond with compassion Use the chunking method set aside time to be 100% present in activities Keep your work in one space, will help in work/life harmony piece Listen deeply to other perspectives and points of view
What you'll learn from this episode: 1) Why men and women are not equals and the benefit that comes with this.2) The fine line men sometimes cross that often destroys a woman's sexual attraction to them.3) The differences in how men and women are initially attracted and what makes them want sex.4) How important it is to "check in" with your partner, especially when things are going well.Book a call with Steph:https://stephanieganowski77.activehosted.com/f/5FREE E-BOOK https://stephanieganowski7.wixsite.com/mysite-2INSTAGRAMhttps://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/About my guest:MARK SEPHTON is a personal mentor to entrepreneurs. His mission to help others has seen him break into global markets while working with startups and millionaire entrepreneurs around the world. When not on the big screen, Mark is a regular contributor to Entrepreneur Magazine and a speaker for corporate events, entrepreneurship summits, and major conferences worldwide. His expertise in personal and professional development has positioned him as an expert in the industry, resulting in transformational experiences for audiences, clients, and businesses alike. He is also the author of two personal development books “Inside Job” and “Plot Twist”.
The gender intelligence conversation gets a bit more personal as Barbara Annis, author of Results At The Top, examines why it matters "everywhere else," including the home, the hospital, and in difficult conversations. In the final episode of the Gender Intelligence mini-series, Baraba Annis talks about how gender intelligence can be the difference between life and death, as in the case of heart attacks, but also how companies have implemented the gender intelligence research to completely transform their businesses and in some cases double or triple their yearly revenue. Research on the gender differences of our bodies didn’t exist before 1990. At that time the US Health department couldn’t figure out why more women than men were dying of heart attacks, and when they looked into the cause they found that 72% of women had entirely different symptoms when they had heart attacks. They didn’t know what they didn’t know, because before 1990 the US Health department only tested men and male animals. Once they started looking they found a slew of gender differences. 80% of autoimmune diseases occur in women, Alzheimer’s is more predominant in women, so is dementia. If you want to take care of your health, particularly if you’re a woman, ask your doctor if they have any research on gender differences. Knowing these differences and being willing to push your doctor to look into the research can be a life or death situation. There are differences in the genders in how they handle difficult conversations as well. Women tend to take things personally, where they internalize conflicts, whereas men tend to externalize things. This can cause problems between men and women and create power struggles if we don’t understand where each gender is coming from. There is equal learning for both men and women in this regard. Women tend to seek understanding, men tend to seek space and resolution, and there are a few simple things that you can do to make a conversation work between the genders. Honoring each other’s differences and avoiding the blame game is the key. Dr. Hubble Hendricks says that we go through three phases of committed relationships. The first is the romantic phase where everything is great. The second is the power struggle phase where gender differences occur. Only 7% of us enter the third spontaneous acceleration phase where people can be themselves and loved for who they are. With an understanding of gender intelligence and the science around how the genders interact, more people can reach the third phase of a committed relationship. Due to the rise of the #metoo movement, many men reported that they became uncomfortable mentoring or networking with women. Dr. Annis has created a program that has empowered men to raise their standards but also to engage other men. Gender intelligence is about men and women working and winning together. When we understand the how of it, it becomes really empowering. Home relationships are becoming much more important in the age of Covid-19. The research showed that the same themes came up in most situations where the genders are working at home. Stress has increased considerably across the board, especially for women. The challenges of communication have increased as well. Men and women deal with conflict differently, with women tending to internalize conflict and men externalizing it. As stress levels have increased, so have the incidences of conflict. Men and women are different, and by celebrating and honoring those differences we can do more together. When you feel valued and heard, your happiness goes up. The more you understand the other gender and how they communicate and operate, the happier and more productive your relationship. Several companies have implemented the research of gender intelligence and transformed their businesses in as little as 12 months. Understanding the differences in the genders in your personal life can allow you to become closer to people important to you. Learn and engage in the research and it will have a lasting positive impact on your life. Imagine if we created a world that was gender intelligent, where we valued boys and men and valued girls and women for who they were. It starts with you.
Ein Gespräch mit Dr. Anne Graefer, Wissenschaftlerin, Beraterin für Gender und Inklusion und die Gründerin von Gender IQ über das traditionelle Frauenbild in Deutschland, den Mythos der Rabenmutter und die neue Re-Traditionalisierung zur glamourösen #Hausfrau. Welchen Einfluss diese Stereotypen auf die Wirtschaft und iher Entwicklung haben, was es bedeutet Mann zu sein, Masculinity und die gesellschaftliche Überforderung über die binäre Ordnung hinauszublicken.
In this continued conversation on Gender Intelligence, Barbara Annis, author of Same Words Different Langauge, and CEO of Gender Intelligence Group (GIG) examines the role of gender intelligence in the workplace. Topics include blindspots in the workplace and the need for gender intelligence to be a "business imperative." Find out why it’s absolutely imperative that businesses understand gender intelligence if they want to create effective teams and produce extraordinary results. Learn how gender intelligence impacts the workplace as well as what blindspots we have about the opposite gender that are holding us back and how to overcome them. There is an important difference between gender equality and gender intelligence. In the course of 30 years of research and results from implementation, we are seeing major impacts on many different areas of business. An inclusive culture in a business is a major asset. When you have men and women at the table practicing gender intelligence it increases innovation and improves decision making. There is $8 billion a year spent in corporate America on diversity training, and it has no correlation to any impact whatsoever. It actually creates education apathy, whereas by applying gender intelligence training many companies have reported massive declines in incidences of harassment. The neuroscience of gender intelligence has been around since 1990 but it’s still surprising how many people do not understand or deny the evidence of gender differences. Understanding the reality of gender differences and the neuroscience involved allows us to appreciate our differences instead of ignoring or tolerating them. Just recruiting additional women into a work culture of men is futile. Women value different things and creating a gender intelligent culture is how a business can reduce turnover. In the process of studying the sustainable impact of gender intelligence, Barbara found that companies that implemented gender intelligence made more progress in a handful of years than they did in a decade and a half with diversity and inclusivity training. Bringing women into a sales call can open up a whole new avenue of understanding. Women tend to notice things that men don’t focus on which can lead to insights into what a customer wants and feels that would be otherwise missed. Women weigh options and ruminate more than men, which is often at odds with the way men think and take action quickly. Finding a balance between the two approaches leads to better results. Girls develop their prefrontal cortex earlier than boys, which is why they tend to be more risk-wise than boys the same age. Neuroscience has proven that men and women think differently. It becomes a business imperative to see both perspectives and get better results, the key is in avoiding the blind spots that prevent us from taking the next step. Women have a blindspot in the belief that men don’t care. Men do care and want women to succeed, the challenge is in the comfort level within the #metoo era. A powerful conversation occurs when men say they do care, but they don’t know what the next step is or how to express that. For men, the blind spot is the belief that women aren’t ambitious, which couldn’t be further from the truth, but you can hamper women’s ambition if the culture is lacking. If you don’t provide a means for the ambition to be fulfilled inside of your own organization, it’s going to be fulfilled elsewhere. Another big assumption on men’s part is that women are fragile. The truth is that women negotiate differently, they tend to negotiate poorly for themselves but more effectively for other people. This is often interpreted by men as a weakness or fragility of women in the workplace. Gender intelligence applies beyond the workplace, parents need to realize the sons and daughters require a different approach to parenting. One size does not fit all. It’s the same with health differences and conflict in relationships, gender differences require a better understanding of gender intelligence in order to thrive. Be curious, learn something of the other gender and then ask. Make no assumptions and be curious about new learning.
Butting heads with your loved ones in lockdown? Listen as Barbara Annis shares how to use gender intelligence to connect deeper and resolve conflict in today’s episode of the Genius Network podcast. Don't miss another episode of Genius Network, subscribe today at GeniusNetwork.com/Subscribe. If you’d like access to the video, show notes or the exercise to help you take action on what was discussed, please visit www.GeniusNetwork.com/146. Here’s a glance at what you’ll learn from Barbara and Joe in this episode: How you can empathize and connect more deeply with family and friends while being at home. From Breakdown to Breakthrough: The different ways men and women have breakthroughs. What men and women can do right now to work together, live together, and win together. Why being curious is so important for connection (PLUS: A simple secret to greater empathy). The superpowers (and kryptonite) men and women have during a crisis like COVID-19.
Barbara Annis, author of Results At The Top, Work With Me, and Same Words, Different Language discusses the origin of the concept of Gender Intelligence, the neuroscience behind it, and where she hopes to go with the show. Gender intelligence is transforming the way we think about communication, relationships, and conflict between the genders by revealing the differences that make each gender unique. Learn how Barbara Annis coined the term of gender intelligence decades ago and has since made it her mission to take the idea of gender intelligence mainstream. The idea of gender intelligence came from Barbara’s struggle with the concept of gender equality. People tend to think gender equality means treating the genders the same and don’t take the differences between the genders into account. When you stand for gender intelligence, you are actually looking at the differences between men and women and how to appreciate them as competitive advantages. Women tend to solve problems in a way that’s more contextual with a focus on seeking to understand the issue. For men, they are more focused on getting the facts and taking action. When men and women work together to solve problems, we get the best of both approaches. The idea of gender intelligence is finding its way into more industries including engineering, mining, and space exploration. In neuroscience, we assume that men and women are mostly the same, but recent developments in the 1990s led us to looking more at the differences between male and female brains. The biggest blindspot in neuroscience has been the fact that the whole body of knowledge was based on testing the male brain exclusively up until that point. Autoimmune diseases and Covid-19 are examples of how men and women are affected differently by the same disease. Great minds think unalike. As companies learn to understand gender intelligence and appreciate the diversity of thought, they are producing better results. Brain scans of a resting male brain compared to a resting female brain reveal one of the fundamental differences between men and women. A woman’s resting brain state is still full of neural activity, and understanding this can help both genders understand what the other needs to destress and relax. The challenge in relationships between the genders is when we begin resisting the differences. A common myth that women share is that men don’t listen, when they in fact listen differently. Honoring the differences instead of resisting them is vital. Barbara started the podcast to make the knowledge of gender intelligence more accessible to people, and one of the big goals of the show is to test assumptions. Gender intelligence isn’t about making broad stereotypes and more about having the ability to adapt to the way people around you think and communicate. Barbara began her career as the first woman in sales at Sony and found herself taking on the predominant male paradigm and behaviour. She realized that today we don’t need to do that anymore and that the science of gender intelligence is revealing a better, more effective way. Future episodes of the podcast will be focused on gender differences and the challenges that each gender faces in the workplace, as well as tools and strategies to navigate those challenges. We’ll also explore the differences in health between the genders and what we need to do to understand what men and women need to stay healthy. Cross-gender communication and relationships is complex for all people and all generations. Gender intelligence is ultimately about providing understanding. When we understand each other, we improve our morale and our engagement, but also our effectiveness with one another.
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Tatiana is a skilled Businesswoman, daring Entrepreneur, passionate Speaker, gifted Executive Coach and powerful Consultant. Her thought leadership emanates from the merge of her successful entrepreneurial mastery combined with her passion for creating collective processes to integrate Gender Intelligence's biases and her relentless commitment for coaching High-Performance individuals to align with their core talents. Tatiana is a High Performance expert whose purpose is to create alignment by bridging polarized forces. Her Integrative approach to Executive Coaching inspires Leaders to bridge their inner forces to create alignment With-In and With-Out so they show up intentionally, unapologetically and purposefully to the game of Business and Life! Her Consulting services focus on bridging Genders and Generations to co-create an inclusive, coherent and collectively innovative performance for a result & purpose driven Business. Tatiana works with highly successful “OAs” – Over Achievers – who seek their next level in business and in life. People mentioned in this show * Tony Robbins * Gabby Bernstein * Nilima Bhat * Raj Sisodia * Allison Armstrong Books mentioned in this show * “Power versus Force” by David Hawkins * “The Seed of the Soul” by Gary Zukav * “Becoming” by Michele Obama Connect with Tatiana Email = tatiana@tatianadudyez.com Website = https://tatianadudyez.com Twitter = https://twitter.com/Dudyez LinkedIn = https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatiana-dudyez-3818282 Connect with AYA Website = https://aya.ai Website The Abundance Secrets Show = https://aya.ai/show Website The Abundance Secrets Angels = https://aya.ai/angels Instagram = https://www.instagram.com/iam.aya.ai Facebook = https://www.facebook.com/iam.aya.ai.angels Twitter = https://twitter.com/iam_aya_ai LinkedIn = https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamayaai Spotify = https://open.spotify.com/show/5noUiHHs11OShICRTvfAhx Apple Podcasts = https://podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/the-abundance-secrets-show/id1500424861?l=en Pocket Podcasts = https://pca.st/k6787299 Radio Public = https://radiopublic.com/the-abundance-secrets-show-69lzyp AnchorFM = https://anchor.fm/iamaya SoundCloud = https://soundcloud.com/iam-aya
Join Leslie & Kevin as they continue their discussion about the brain-based differences between female and male brains. Kevin highlights mansplaining and Leslie talks about the ironic impact of the differences in our stress response, all with the goal of raising our awareness and improving our ability to co-create in the workplace. This discussion is heavily based on the book, Gender Intelligence: Breakthrough Strategies for Increasing Diversity and Improving Your Bottom Line by Barbara Annis & Keith Merron.
Cohosts Leslie Grygiel and Kevin Bronson are back with Season 2! Join them in this episode as they discuss the powerful differences in male and female brains, as explained in Gender Intelligence: Breakthrough Strategies for Increasing Diversity and Improving Your Bottom Line by Barbara Annis & Keith Merron. Once we are aware of brain-based differences, we can develop more patience and appreciation for the diversity of our thought processes. This helps us to build trust and then co-create more powerfully together in the workplace and at home.
Shuchi Sharma is the Global Vice President and Lead of Gender Intelligence at SAP, responsible for the strategy that supports SAP’s goal to obtain 28 percent women in leadership positions in 2020 and 30 percent in 2022. In this role, Shuchi leads, designs and implements the gender intelligence strategy to ensure it is integrated into the fabric of SAP’s culture, values and business model. She works with global stakeholders throughout the organization to create and deliver initiatives designed to foster a culture of inclusion related to achieving SAP’s gender equity goals and will serve as a subject matter expert on gender-related issues. Shuchi oversees SAP’s Gender Intelligence programs including SAP’s Women’s Professional Growth Webinar series, Activating Men for Parity, and collaborates closely with the SAP Business Women’s Network. In this episode of Fairygodboss Radio, Romy sits down with Shuchi to discuss her fight for gender parity in the workplace.
Barbara Annis breaks down how online reviews can build or break your business. Go to www.geniusnetwork.com/131 to access the show notes for this episode along with an exercise to help you action on what Barbara teaches. Here’s a glance at what you’ll learn from Barbara in this episode: Gender Intelligence: I Was Once Blind But Now I See Barbara shares strategies for increasing diversity and improving your bottom line The powerful difference between gender equality and gender intelligence 5 brain and communication differences between men and women and why they are important Companies that do THIS ONE THING have on average a 34% increase in revenue… The interesting reason why women can be the best promoters of your business How to improve innovation, build engaged teams and culture, minimize risk and boost financial performance One simple change that tripled a company’s revenues (and how you can use it in your business)
The Diva Tech Talk team was grateful to have the amazing experience of attending Grace Hopper Conference 2018. We highlighted many conference details, discussed the Abie awards, and shared the voice of attendees on the Episode 73 Podcast. If you didn’t get a chance to listen, please check it out here: http://www.divatechtalk.com/blog/ep73 There was so much material and insight that we had to create another article and episode for our listeners to stay with us on this journey. This podcast has a special announcement for our listeners. One incredibly worthy outcome of the Grace Hopper Conference and the AnitaB.org effort is the Top Companies report for women in technology. This is a national program that identifies key trends around the representation of women in the workforce. First launched in 2011, it pairs wonderfully with the conference “vibes.” Although there are many other female technologist benchmarking programs, this is the only one that measures technical employees using a rigorous, standardized definition of the technical workforce. The 2018 Top Companies report was compiled with participation by 80 companies, 628,000 + technologists with 150,000 + women technologists in that group. Congratulations to the companies who took top honors for female tech diversity for 2018. Special Diva Tech Talks “shout-out” to Tarsha McCormick and Shuchi Sharma, two leaders in that cohort we were fortunate to interview. Check out the full Grace Hopper Conference 2018 Press Release on Top Companies here: https://anitab.org/news/press-release/2018-top-companies-report/ In addition to the keynotes, and breakouts on topics ranging in complexity from exploratory data analysis to mentoring, there were also some amazing women with whom we spent time to capture their experiences for our Diva Tech Talk audience. After reviewing their insights, the Diva Tech Talk team is proud to announce a new Diversity Leadership Series, following this event. The series will feature senior level leaders from a variety of organizations, who lead diversity and inclusion programs in their respective organizations. In this Grace Hopper Event Recap podcast, we include audio teasers for these full-length episodes, rolling out over the coming weeks and months. Here are some of the women we will include in our upcoming Diversity Leadership Series: In this episode, we feature short clips from the following amazing women in technology that we interviewed. Later, we will publish their full stories in our newly announced Diversity Leadership Series: Monica Bailey, Chief People Officer at GoDaddy Sonja Gittens Ottley, Head of Diversity and Inclusion at Asana Tarsha McCormick, Head of Diversity and Inclusion, North America for Thoughtworks Rebekah Bastian, Vice President of Community and Culture at Zillow Group Shuchi Sharma, Global Lead for Gender Intelligence at SAP Paulette R. Gerkovich, PhD, Senior Director, Diversity and Inclusion, Micron We hope you enjoy this teaser and look forward to the upcoming series as much as we do. Make sure to subscribe today so you don’t miss an episode. Make sure to check us out on online at www.divatechtalk.com on Twitter @divatechtalks, on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/divatechalk.
We continue with the topic of dating this week with men's relationship and intimacy coach, Stephanie Ganowski. Stephanie works with men to give them the tools to overcome anxiety and gain massive confidence in the dating world. She was taught by world renowned author, John Gray (Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus) in gender intelligence, which gives her clients the keys to unlocking the secret language of women, while remaining mentally confident in the process. Drawing upon her diverse background in psychology, coaching, yoga, fitness and health as well as being licensed specifically in relationships, sex and mindset, Stephanie's on a mission to improve communication between the sexes! www.sgdatingcoach.com Instagram- @Lets.talk.relationships Contact Stephanie about her 90 day coaching program!
We continue with the topic of dating this week with men’s relationship and intimacy coach, Stephanie Ganowski. Stephanie works with men to give them the tools to overcome anxiety and gain massive confidence in the dating world. She was taught by world renowned author, John Gray (Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus) in gender intelligence, which gives her clients the keys to unlocking the secret language of women, while remaining mentally confident in the process. Drawing upon her diverse background in psychology, coaching, yoga, fitness and health as well as being licensed specifically in relationships, sex and mindset, Stephanie’s on a mission to improve communication between the sexes! www.sgdatingcoach.com Instagram- @Lets.talk.relationships Contact Stephanie about her 90 day coaching program!
The Gender Pay Gap and what MUST be done to tackle this issue My guest today says that: The gender pay gap is not a simple issue that can be solved by any government, organisation or gender. It affects everyone: women, men and children. We all need greater Gender Intelligence to solve it, and other [...] The post [Ep #79] The Gender Pay Gap and what MUST be done to tackle this issue appeared first on The Ambitious Entrepreneur Podcast Network.
Richard Nesbitt shows you how to immediately improve the results of your business by using gender intelligence to create massive growth. Richard Nesbitt is the President and CEO of Global Risk Institute and an Adjunct Professor at the Rotman School of Management of the University of Toronto. He was the former CEO of CIBC World Markets, TSX Group and HSBC Securities Canada. He is the author of the new book Results at the Top: Using Gender Intelligence to Create Breakthrough Growth. Podcast Highlights Who is Richard Nesbitt? Richard was born and raised on a farm, and through his education and persistence has managed to get where he is today. There is no substitute for hard work is a very traditional approach but it’s true. Hard work is the great leveler. What is gender intelligence? Gender intelligence is essentially taking the talent of both genders and using that to improve your business. The combination of both talents is superior than just utilizing one or the other. Gender intelligence in leadership can improve dividends, earnings, cash flow, and stock prices. It can also improve employee satisfaction, innovation, and the company’s environmental record. Why is it less common to see women in leadership positions? The research in gender intelligence is only around 20 years old, so it’s taking time to filter down into the culture of business. Research has shown that as you get towards gender parity in leadership, you will see an improve across the board. How significant is the improvement? Getting closer to gender parity in leadership can significantly improve earnings. According to research, at 30% of the board being the opposite gender is where you will see significant gains but, just adding a single board member of the opposite gender can lead to immediate improvements. How did you come up with the idea for the book? The book was originally addressed to men and how they could improve their companies. The dynamics of men and women in leadership is an evolving trend. Richard’s book was an effort to organize the research and provide a resource for every business to leverage. How does this impact equal pay? Women are paid less than men on aggregate, due to not being represented in all areas in business. By focusing on bringing women into these leadership roles, we can help close the gap. What can entrepreneurs do to make sure they don’t end up in this situation? Entrepreneurs need to understand that gender balance is an important issue in the success of their business. It’s important to always hire the best person, but you have to get out of your comfort zone and consider the the benefits of a diverse set of candidates. Look outside of your traditional sources. Gender intelligence should be a priority item on your list. How can business owners begin implementing gender intelligence? CEO’s have to make this a goal they are going to achieve in their lifetime. Prepare for the expiration of a director’s term limit instead of being caught off guard and replacing them with someone just like you. Gender diversity is one of the lowest cost things you can do to improve your company’s results. Reference: Results at the Top: Using Gender Intelligence to Create Breakthrough Growth, Richard Nesbitt Richard’s Takeaway Think very carefully before you act about what you are trying to achieve and ensure you are trying to achieve it for the right reasons. Examine your own preconceptions about why you do what you do, become curious about the research and once you ar
For over 16 years, Christine has been guiding women and men to find, create and build amazing relationships by reconnecting with their authentic selves. She believes deep, powerful relationships are accessible to all of us. She specializes in Gender Intelligence which is an awareness of the intrinsic nature of men and women and the ability to be understanding and appreciative of these differences. Christine is a professional speaker, has been interviewed by over 200 media outlets and was the dating expert on 13 episodes of the TV series, LoveTrap. She has also created Hart Coaching Academy to mentor and train others to become Dating + Relationship Coaches. Recently, Ms. Hart was on our show. During our conversation, she talked about: – Some of her background growing up between Toronto and Calgary – Some of the great things about her parents (“My dad taught me about consistency. My mother taught me to go after life even if you don't know what you are doing.”) – Her professional journey including running a studio and getting into the speed dating industry including how did she becoome the dating expert on 13 episodes of the TV series, LoveTrap – Gender Intelligence – How some well-known behaviors of both men and women frequently create misunderstanding and conflict in the workplace and the tools you can use to resolve them (“Men listen for a point and a problem.”) – How men can effectively listen to a woman so she feels heard and he feels appreciated – A specific way women can ask for what they need so it feels empowering to both themselves and to men – What are millenials are telling her about relationships – The importance in investing in yourself You can find out more about Ms. Hart via: Christine Hart Coaching Hart Coaching Academy Facebook Twitter Linkedin Pinterest Instagram Ms. Hart will be one of the speakers during at the Men and Masculinity Summit on Sunday, November 19, 2017 in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. For more information about the Men and Masculinity Summit please click on the following link: http://menandmasculinity.com/ Visit our website at https://www.thedrvibeshow.com/ Please feel free to email us at dr.vibe@thedrvibeshow.com Please feel free to “Like” the “The Dr. Vibe Show” Facebook fan page here God bless, peace, be well and keep the faith, Dr. Vibe
Is your business ready for the next global economic disruption? Women offer a lucrative $28 trillion dollar market, yet they're often underserved, neglected or ignore, despite the fact they drive the majority of our purchases. In this episode, gender intelligence pioneer Bec Brideson reveals how you can tap into the modern female market and reap the financial benefits before your competitors do.
Episode 146 is live! This week, we talk with Barbara Annis in New York, NY. Barbara is the founder and CEO of Gender Intelligence Group. She works to build greater understanding of the unique differences that men and women bring to business. She’s also the author of multiple books, including Results at the Top: Using Gender Intelligence to Create Breakthrough Growth. Barbara encourages people to move away from the concept of “great minds think alike” to “great minds think un-alike.” On today’s episode, Barbara shares how to find gender intelligence in a new job, and how to create it in our existing workplace. She explains why we should move away from the idea of "culture fit." Barbara also shares her perspective on Silicon Valley's culture and why women really leave companies. Listen and learn more! You can play the podcast here, or download it on iTunes or Stitcher. To learn more about Barbara, visit her website at http://www.genderintelligence.com/. You can also follow her on Twitter at @GenderIntGroup. And, you can find her book Results at the Top: Using Gender Intelligence to Create Breakthrough Growth on Amazon. Thanks to everyone for listening! And, thank you to those who sent me questions. You can send your questions to Angela@CopelandCoaching.com. You can also send me questions via Twitter. I’m @CopelandCoach. And, on Facebook, I am Copeland Coaching. Don’t forget to help me out. Subscribe on iTunes and leave me a review!
Barbara Annis, Founding Partner of Gender Intelligence Group (GIG), is a world-renowned expert on Inclusive Leadership through Gender & Cultural Intelligence, advocating the value and practice of this new type of leadership in Fortune 500 companies and numerous organizations worldwide. Her insights and achievements have pioneered a transformational shift in cultural attitudes across the globe on the importance of gender unity to organizational success. Barbara began her career as the first women in sales at Sony and became the first woman Sales Manager with 14 Outstanding Sales Achievement Awards and Sony's MVP Award. Over the past 27 years, Barbara Annis and her 51 global associates have facilitated over 8,000 corporate workshops and conducted thousands of leadership assessments and executive coaching sessions. GIG has introduced breakthrough research on the practice and benefits of inclusive leadership and gender diversity. Additionally, GIG offers diagnostics, workshops, and coaching sessions both onsite and online. Barbara Annis is chair emeritus of the Women's Leadership Board at Harvard Kennedy School and was recently conferred the International Alliance for Women, Lifetime Achievement Award. Her extensive studies have included work with exceptional thinkers such as famed psychologist Dr. Virginia Satir, Dr. Fernando Flores, Director of the PhD program in Linguistics at Berkeley University, and Dr. Willis Harman, Founder and President of the Noetic Sciences Foundation. Barbara has produced four transformational books: Her latest book, Gender Intelligence: Breakthrough Strategies for Increasing Diversity and Improving Your Bottom Line (May 2014) co-authored with Dr. Keith Merron, represents the culmination of twenty-seven years of gender-based research and global practice that uniquely apply cutting-edge brain-based research to the workplace. It offers leaders the mindset and systemic changes needed to transform their organizations, bridge the gap between men and women at all levels of leadership and management, and in the process, create more inclusive and productive organizations. She is also the co-author of Results At The Top: Using Gender Intelligence To Create Breakthrough Growth. What if your company could gain a greater profit share of the market simply by promoting more women into its senior management team? Sounds like a no-brainer, and despite nearly every study done in the past three decades proving companies with women leaders deliver superior performance, the number of women in the C-suites of companies all over the world is noticeably low. Results at the Top is written for the men who know the value female leaders bring to the table and need a tangible way to get them there. Whether you're building your leadership team from scratch or trying to transform long-established norms for a competitive advantage today, the practical guidance inside wastes no space with blame for the current state of women leaders and goes straight to the immediate steps organizations can take to change it. It gives you everything you need to both create the internal systems for promoting gender diversity on every step of the career ladder and motivating employees to celebrate its shared, bottom-line benefits. Up-to-date viewpoints don't confuse equal with same and go in-depth into the scientific differences between men and women that can complement each other to produce higher performing teams. Along with neurological variances, there are societal behaviors men and women need to recognize and substitute with more productive and advantageous ones. Through eye-opening research and illustrative examples from the real world, both sexes gain a deeper understanding of how we got here and the pioneering systems companies in the highest echelons of their industries are using to evolve leadership development all the way to the top. This everyday guidebook will immediately change the way you approach work with: A powerful new evaluation method for assessing the source of gender diversity in a company's leadership Concrete strategies men can use to champion greater gender diversity along with ways men and women can improve collaboration in order to run better organizations Focused coverage on addressing gender diversity with Millennials—and don't be surprised when you find they're not so different The most satisfying part of Results at the Top is watching your company's performance soar as gender bias disappears.
John Gray is the leading relationship expert in the world and best-selling author of “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” His books have sold over 50 million copies in 50 different languages around the world. In this fascinating conversation, we discuss the philosophical and physiological components of polarity in men and women, and how to use polarity to create richer, more fulfilling relationships. John shares many insights he’s learned from his own personal relationship and experiences (and years of research, of course), and he offers countless strategies for increasing testosterone in men and oxytocin & estrogen in women. John is a true expert in his field, and this interview is brimming with juicy nuggets of information — you may want to listen more than once! Episode Breakdown: * Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus * Women, work & testosterone * How to double your testosterone in a week * Ejaculation and celibacy * Balancing polarity within ourselves * John’s first sexual experiences * Mastering sexual energy * The big “O” (oxytocin) * How men and women handle stress differently * Ladies first — how the female orgasm works * Processing emotions * The benefits of a monogamous relationship * Conscious Men * Why schedule sex? * Endure and contain * John’s advice to women for bettering their relationships * Sharing emotion is feminine; complaining is masculine * Connect with John * A tip from John on active listening in relationships
Join us today 5:30 CST as we explore the topic of gender intelligence, understanding and respecting differences. I am sure many of us have heard the term be a man or man up but when we say that what are we really saying and how is that message received..... We will consider questions surrounding gender intelligence, gender expectation and challenges that are created as a result of gender confusion....... Questions to consider: Be a man what is that and how do men react when this idea of manhood is challenge? Could gender intelligence help reduce violence? Could gender intelligence be the answer to police brutality and hyper-masculinity? Have you considered that one of the most dangerous things you can say to a boy is be a man? Did we see gender dynamics being displayed during the police stop of Sandra Bland? To view: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hc45-ptHMxo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVI1Xutc_Ws
As the recent Jill Abramson kerfuffle at the New York Times, has shown, gender issues still impact the workplaces of even the most public and apparently tolerant of companies.Perhaps in seeing that, and so many other examples, we might realize that we are approaching these issues in the wrong way. Diversity is not just about numbers, or quotas and expecting everyone to be the same. Homogenization is not diversity. Being forced to Lean In, is not about recognizing one's strengths, but about mimicking the strengths of others.We still need to learn that while overall acceptance is important, diversity lies not in one size fits all, but in celebrating differences and taking full advantage of the different intelligences that different individuals and different genders bring to the workplace. These are the issues that Barbara Annis and Keith Merron take up in Gender Intelligence: Breakthrough Strategies for Increasing Diversity and Improving Your Bottom Line.My conversation with Barbara Annis and Keith Merron:
Talking Gender Intelligence: Blind Spots between Men and Women in Business with Barbara Annis, the Author of Work with Me, the 8 Blind Spots between Men and Women in Business