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Why can't we find normal fitting, medium wash, thick-style jeans that aren'rt JEGGINGS??? Sue and Kendra are on a mission to find the perfect fitting pair of jeans, and when we asked the listeners for help.... they came through BIG TIME:
The best pie bracket for Thanksgiving! 16 pies will battle it out. Sydney Sweeny: Women do NOT support each other in Hollywood. It's all lies. Timothee Chalamet took harmonica lessons for 5 years to play Bob Dylan, and he has never met the man. Dawn returned to Aldi to get her second set of Jeggings, and some other goodies. It's advent calendar season, let's get all hooglely with the countdown to Christmas! The five second rule game ends the show! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The best pie bracket for Thanksgiving! 16 pies will battle it out. Sydney Sweeny: Women do NOT support each other in Hollywood. It's all lies. Timothee Chalamet took harmonica lessons for 5 years to play Bob Dylan, and he has never met the man. Dawn returned to Aldi to get her second set of Jeggings, and some other goodies. It's advent calendar season, let's get all hooglely with the countdown to Christmas! The five second rule game ends the show! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jeggings are making a return!? Talk about an easy way to fix your relationship! And supermarket slowdown! That's what Paul Layendecker is BuZzin' about today on The Daily BuZz!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jeggings are making a return!? Talk about an easy way to fix your relationship! And supermarket slowdown! That's what Paul Layendecker is BuZzin' about today on The Daily BuZz!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
How long does it take the average person to pick out an outfit? There was a drone that flew over Maney and now he's creeped out, Date em or dump […] The post The Day Maney Wore Jeggings- MR Replay appeared first on Kiss 95.1.
How long does it take the average person to pick out an outfit? There was a drone that flew over Maney and now he's creeped out, Date em or dump where she liked him too much, is that possible? We played a game and none of us were good at it, and am I an A-hole for taking the package that was for someone else? Support the show: https://www.mrlshow.com/
Wir haben Fragen. Viele. Was genau ist der Unterschied zwischen Orient, Okzident und Kukident? Wie viele Jeggings hat Amina schon via Teleshopping gekauft? Wie werden die Soundeffekte für Audioporn erzeugt? Was ist los mit Cillian Murphys Rachenraum? Wohin mit all den HDMI-Kabeln? Soll Lara sich Botox gönnen und zur Bogdanoff-Sister werden? Weshalb sind die Pollen so aggro? Soll Amina sich diesen Schuh anziehen? Hat Schüge Assange Screenshots im Whatsapp-Gruppenchat gemacht? Und wer zum Teufel hat die Hunde losgelassen? Wer? Wer? Wer? | Instagram: @zimmer.101 | Playlist: 101 Banger Erster Rewe-Markt ohne tierische Produkte Video mit allen Kostümen Pat Collins Wears Grape Costume to Interview Student Suspended For Banana Costume Alle Kardashian-Businesses Interview Cillian Murphy und Margot Robbie TikTok zu "Who Let The Dogs Out" Ole Liebl Warum Pollen immer früher fliegen und aggressiver werden High und Low Visual Face Weight Kos-Vorgeschichte in Folge 59, 62, 67, 68, 72, 74, 78, 82, 96, 107, 111, 116, 131, 137
A bumper pack of highlights from this weeks show!Crossys EPIC fall after a very in depth chat about massages!You've heard of Jeggings but Zeinab has good news for the lads - male leggings aka Meggings All this weeks ins2grand players are featuredComedian Chris Kent stopped by for a chat about his upcoming Vicar St gig Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Halima's dry microwaveable dinner, Lipstick Alley and our experiences going out out! Follow us! Insta: @butalsogettherapy Mel: @kingtofu__ Halima: @iknoeaguy Music by @antonioroldao_ Get in touch with us at: butalsogettherapy@gmail.com :D
You voted and here are the Round 1 Results! Who moves onto the Sweet 16? We had blowout victories, nail biters and ties! Here were our matchups: Fads: Crocs vs. Hoverboard, Selfie Stick vs. Google Glasses, The Harlem Shake vs. Planking and Jeggings vs. #yolo TV: Work It vs. #FWBL, Here Comes Honey Boo-Boo vs. H8R, Rob vs. Allen Gregory and Dads vs. We Are Men Music: Psy vs. Ke$ha, Rebecca Black vs. The Chainsmokers, LFMAO vs. Robin Thicke and 6IX9INE vs. Enrique Iglesias Movies: Movie 43 vs. A Haunted House 2, The Cobbler vs. Transformers 4, The Devil Inside vs. I, Frankenstein and Jonah Hex vs. The Last Airbender. Find out who continues to fight for the crown of worst of 2010-2014. Slack Tide is now being served in PA and NJ Check them out at www.slacktidebrewingco.com and purchase some of their award winning beer. Come see Chris do standup at Soul Joel's every Tuesday. Go to souljoels.com for more deets. Make sure to check us out at our new website www.digginginthedome.com and join our mailing list. Go to our social media to follow, like, subscribe, like again and so on. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/digginginthedome Twitter: @diggingdome FB/IG: @digginginthedome
Is the NBA MVP discussion conversation over? Was Chris Canty wearing Jeggings? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is the NBA MVP discussion conversation over? Was Chris Canty wearing Jeggings? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is the NBA MVP discussion conversation over? Was Chris Canty wearing Jeggings? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is the NBA MVP discussion conversation over? Was Chris Canty wearing Jeggings? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ever wonder WHY you can't quite find a great pair of jeans that fit just right??? Because they kind of suck...which is what I'll be talking about in this episode... Jeans are not a one size fits all… Got thick thighs? Large calves? A small waist? JEANS WILL NOT FIT YOU. This makes shopping for jeans an absolute nightmare. Why are there so many different styles? Skinny jeans. Boyfriend jeans. ... Straight cut... Bootcut jeans. ... Flare jeans. ... Jeggings. ... Low rise jeans. ... High-waist jeans. Relaxed Boot cut Mom jeans Dad jeans Stretchy jeans Just to name a few Want to bend over? I hope you've got a belt. Riding a bike? NOT TODAY! Sitting down?? You must be in the mood to pop a button! They leave lines in your legs, you have to keep pulling them up I try on 7 or 8 pairs only to end up leaving empty-handed and PISSED. Is there something WRONG with my body? Why the hell is every pair different and why the hell does my body not fit into these jeans?? You'd think they should be made for OUR bodies and not the other way around. Seems when they don't fit us, we feel like shit and end up hating and shaming ourselves wondering why the hell none fit, and think we need to conform our bodies by making them smaller in some way just to FIT into their jeans…sound familiar?? ..fuck the jean makers. There is NOTHING wrong with our bodies and EVERYTHING wrong with the fit of these asshole jeans. It's not you, the jean cuts and sizes do NOT make sense and I don't think there is a single woman out there who hasn't had this complaint a time or two before. Let me know if you're feeling me here!!
A taboo topic no more, today's conversation is all about changing the mindset around sex so that women can sprout roots of confidence into every area of their life. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:Expectations not met Working to become sexually resilientRecognizing the impact of previous sexual messages Erasing the performance based sex mindsetIntentional sexualityHow to incorporate sex education into the homeChanging the conversation around sexBIO: Dr. Celeste Holbrook is a sexologist, speaker and author who has dedicated her life to helping women achieve soul-centered sex through perfectly planned mental and behavioral changes. She inspires women to move through mental blocks surrounding their intimate lives to truly experience the sex that was spiritually designed for her. Hundreds of women have dramatically changed their relationships by following the sexual and spiritual strategies that Dr. Holbrook has created and tailored specifically for them. Her favorite moment is the spark that appears in a woman's eyes the instant her sensual confidence is re-awakened.Episode References/Links:WebsiteIGFB OPC Flashcards:OPC Flashcards are on AmazonOPC Flashcards are on our site If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable Pilates Social MediaInstagramFacebookTik TokLinkedIn Episode Transcript:Lesley Logan 0:01 Hey, Be It babe, how are you? Ah, thank you for being here. All right, I have a very special guest and a very important topic for us today. I have Dr. Celeste Holbrook here. She is a sexologist. So she is a sex educator. And so if you are listening to this with your earpods out, and you've got little ones around, and you would like to be the voice that talks to them about sex, then I highly recommend this as an earpod moment. Save this for when you're by yourself. However, I do hope that this inspires you, for my parents out there to have conversations, conscious conversations with your children about sex. And when I heard Dr. Celeste on another podcast, I was like, "I have to have her on." I have to have her on because I too often see women um, taking on a responsibility and a role around sex in the bedroom with their partner in a way that is not shared responsibility. And it's it's just like a lot of pressure. And I didn't even know what she was going to say until I started the Zoom conversation. And I told her why I wanted to have her on. I told her what I was thinking. And she said this thing that you're going to hear. And instantly I was like, "Yeah, you have to say that again on the podcast, you have to." Because ladies, there are so, there are so many factors that keep us from being it till we see it. And there are lots of little things we can do to make the day go better. And then there's also a major part of our lives and how we see ourselves and how we, how we ask for what we need. Ask for what we want. And and if and I I know that once you listen to this interview with Dr. Celeste Holbrook, you are going to, you're going to 100% understand that really getting clear on your sexual desires and your sexual resilience is key to being it till you see it. So with that, I hope you dive in, grab a pad of paper and some notes. She has a really amazing homework assignment for you. And I want to have her back. So let me know if you want to have her back because I want to have her back. I'm gonna have her back anyways. But um, I just think that, you know, this is a really awesome conversation. And I'm grateful for you to be here. I'm grateful for Dr. Celeste for saying "yes" and for sharing her amazing knowledge and her story. Because I do think that this conversation will change lives. And it's necessary, it's necessary to be it till you see it, it's necessary to have this conversation. So thank you for being a listener. And and here she is. Here's Dr. Celeste.Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guests will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Alright, Be It, Be It babes. I have Dr. Celeste Holbrook here. She is a sex educator. And oh, my frickin' goodness when I heard her speak on our friend Amber Shaw's podcast, I was like, "How the heck do I get her on my podcast ASAP?" And it's because of what she talks about. And you're gonna hear it. I think it's gonna make so much sense. Why I want to have her on here. But I'm gonna let her introduce herself. So Celeste, thank you for being here. Can you tell everyone who you are and what you're rocking out right now?Celeste Holbrook 4:16 Oh, thanks, Lesley. It's really exciting to be on your podcast. And I really appreciate you trusting me with this content. It's definitely close to my heart and something we need to talk more about. And so I always appreciate when people provide those safe spaces for us to have these conversations. So thank you very much for having me on. My name is Celeste Holbrook. I'm a sex educator. My mission in life is to provide safe spaces for people to talk about sex. I believe that if we can, you know grow in this very vulnerable part of our life like in our sex life, we can grow in other areas of our lives that grows confidence or confident roots into other areas of our life. So it's not, it is about sex, but it's not just about sex. And I I really enjoy working with women and couples to help them find the pleasure and connection that they have always wanted in their sex life. And so that's what I do. I have a practice in Fort Worth, Texas. It's but it's all virtual. So I see everybody online on Zoom. So I see couples and individuals. And I also teach courses and work for the local sex toy shop to do education there as well. So it's a fun life. Anybody wants to go into sex education, we need more people. (Celeste laughs)Lesley Logan 5:29 I was gonna say. Okay, so so how, how does one go, "You know, I want to be when I grow up? A sex educator." Like, how did this (Lesley laughs) how did this come to be? (Celeste: Right?) (Celeste laughs)Celeste Holbrook 5:38 Right? Yeah, I'm so glad you asked that, because I grew up in a conservative household and a conservative Christian community. And I was always told that you if you, if you wait to have sex until you're married, then your marriage and your sex life are going to be great. And that was what I really believed. And so I did wait to have penetrative sex until I got married. Listen, I did everything else because (Lesley and Celeste laughs) it (Lesley: I went ...) was too much fun not to.Lesley Logan 6:06 Celeste, I went to a Christian University and (Celeste: Mm-hmm) the, I, the creative things people were doing. I was like, (Celeste: Yeah) "Wow, I didn't, I just was having sex." (Lesley and Celeste laughs)Celeste Holbrook 6:07 You're just going for it and we were just like...... I was like, "Oh, that rule I'm breaking." (Lesley laughs)Yeah. Yes. Good for you. Good for you. Yeah. Um, yeah, I got... I was real creative. (Celeste laughs) But I waited to have to have penetrative sex, till I got married. And then once I did get married, I got married in Austin in the morning, because my daddy always said "if you get married in the morning, and if doesn't work out you haven't wasted the whole day." (Lesley and Celeste laughs) So (Lesley: Oh my god.) I know. That's that's like small town, Texas that I grew up in, right. Um, so I get married. We go to the hotel. I like peel off my eyelashes and my ... clip in hair and like my spanx and everything. And we have penetrative sex for the first time. And it is terrible. It's awful. It hurts really bad. And I thought, "Oh my gosh, I have a broken vagina. I must have like, just like a rusty vagina or something." And I thought, "Okay, maybe I just need to do it more like I guess or something." But it didn't get better. Our whole first year of marriage we ha... there was an incredible pain. My partner didn't know what to do. I didn't know what to do. I hadn't gotten any sex education growing up. (Lesley: Right) So I mean, it was abstinence only. And so I was really lost as to what to do. I felt a lot of shame. I felt a lot of guilt. I felt a lot of anger toward my partner. And I went to an OB GYN after the first year and OB GYN did a whole examination sets list, "I don't see anything wrong with you." And then he proceeded to tell me like, "You should just have a baby, and this would get better." Which is ... really ...Lesley Logan 7:55 ... But but, oh, my God, I can't. (Celeste: I know. I know.) Like, because also it hurts to have the sex to have the baby. (Celeste: Right, right) And like, (Celeste: Thank you.) And ... (Celeste: Yeah) Aahh. Okay, that's a whole other topic. But but (Celeste: Yeah) isn't it... Thank you for bringing up how it made you feel? Because I think that that is really the thing, no one actually teaches women, really, you know, unless you had like some (Celeste: Yeah) very open parents, and my grandparents talked about sex all the time. But (Celeste: Yeah) we were always told, like, "Well, you have to wait till you got married." So they actually didn't teach us how to have sex. They just told us like that they had a lot (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: ... about you, that there's.) Yeah, that there's so but it's true. Like so then you're supposed to like know how to do it. And then and then if it doesn't work out, it's something you and as women, I think we obviously go, "Something's wrong with me. (Celeste: Right) It's my fault. (Celeste: Right) Yeah.Celeste Holbrook 8:46 Well, I was told if I waited until I was married, sex would be great. And so I obviously thought something must have been wrong with me. I waited but (Lesley: Yeah) it's not great. (Lesley: Yeah) So yeah, so that was kind of the beginning. Like, in that moment, I thought, "Okay, I'm going to have to do something. I don't need somebody to tell me to stretch out my vagina. I need somebody to walk with me and give me emotional tools and give me sex education. And help me along this path so that I can have sex that feels pleasurable and connective." And so what I did was I just started giving myself better sex education. And that's why I believe in this work so much, is because sex education saved my sex life and my relationship. Like it was literally the thing that saved my life. And so I thought, "Well, gosh, if I'm an educator, you know, I was getting a PhD in Health Education. So I started studying sex education. I was like, if I can help myself, like because I gave myself the sex education I never got and I learned how to have make sex better for myself. And eventually sex is not painful, and then eventually sex was pleasurable. So I thought, if I could do it for myself, I'm sure there's other women out there who experienced something like this I've never talked to anybody who did, but I was sure that there probably was. And so that was kind of the beginning of it. I just, I, it was my own problems that I had to work on fixing. And then I thought I, this has to be helpful for somebody else.Lesley Logan 10:16 Yeah. (Celeste: And I appreciate them.) And I think um, so, you know, it's, I'm sure going through it, no one wants to be through it. They just want to be on the other side of it. But there's like a reason why things happen for you. Because like, now you are educating so many people all over on something that like, it's not exactly like, it's not exactly a comfortable thing to talk about. So like, (Celeste: Yeah) I'm sure you're like, "I'm sure there's other ones going through it and like, but no one's actually talking about." Like, (Celeste: no) outside after church, women are going, "Well, yep, sex was great and like, they're not doing that no one's going. (Celeste: no) I'm actually struggling." Like, no one is saying these things. (Celeste: No) And so like, how, how did you, how did you get started teaching this? Like, how did you get people to actually be comfortable coming to you and talking to you? Do you find that that's like, the next hardest thing is like actually meeting people to say, "Hi, I have a problem I need ..." (Lesley and Celeste laughs)Celeste Holbrook 11:06 Yeah, exactly. Well, after I, I kind of started focusing on sex education, I got a job as a sex educator for a large sex toy company. And I wasn't selling sex toys. But I was internal in the corporate office, answering the questions that came in, like, "Oh, how do I use a sex toy?" You know, a lot of those questions, but a lot of like, "I don't have any libido or sex hurts, or these activities hurts. How can I help? What lubricant should I be using?" And so then I was just like answering these questions over and over. And I realized because the the company I worked for did a good job of providing like, a safe place for women to ask questions, that that's all it took, was providing like accessibility and friendliness. And like a shame free zone, you can ask anything here, there's nothing, you know, off that you can't ask. And people just poured in, it wasn't actually that hard. Like, once you provide the space, then people ask the questions.Lesley Logan 12:05 Oh, my God, that couldn't be more be it till you see it. I have to say, like, I can't believe that it has to be the sex toy company that (Celeste: Right) has to do this though. Like, it's, you know, (Lesley and Celeste laughs) like, you know, the fact that like, someone with low libido can't get that information from a health care person they have to like, that's just that it had to be a little frustrating for you. So you know, people who might be like, "Okay, Lesley and Celeste, it's like, thanks for this, but I'm just trying to like, keep, like, my household sane." (Celeste: Yeah) Can you talk about like how people's lives change if they just have some comfortability, some ownership of their sex life and confidence in that?Celeste Holbrook 12:44 Oh yeah, absolutely. So you talked about, you know, trying to keep this household together or household sane. And one of the things that can be really helpful for people to hear is that responsibility is the biggest killer of arousal. So responsibility is the biggest killer of arousal. So we often say that's why sex can make babies and often babies are the deathblow to sex. (Lesley and Celeste laughs) Because there's, yeah, there's nothing like this big response, you'd have to keep this little potato sack alive. And so it's over the course of our lives, sex changes. And we in the practice, as sex educators, we work on helping people become sexually resilient. Meaning as my body changes, as my partnership changes, as my life changes, how do I continue to find connection and pleasure? And so to answer your question about, you know, how do we, how do we become this in this area that grows roots into other areas, it really is about a continued learning about sex, you're never really done. I'm not done learning about sex. None of us are done learning about sex. Because it changes as our bodies change and our responsibilities change. And so becoming resilient to those changes means, "Okay, this no longer turns me on. I'm going to start exploring what does at this moment instead of like, I no longer get turned on. My sex life must be done." (Lesley: Right) You know ... (Lesley: like instead of ...) it's sexual resilience.Lesley Logan 14:13 Yeah. Oh that's such a go... that's so interesting. And it's so true, because like, it... Well, just to go back to your doctor's advice and how terrible that was, "Go ahead, have a baby." And it's like, that's like the number one killer to sex. (Lesley and Celeste laughs) Like it's painful, or maybe he just like here, and then you won't even have to have the reason you know, (Celeste: Yeah. All right.) But sexual resilience, I think that is really an interesting way to put it because I was I was listening to a podcast where a woman who's over 50 is like, talking about her sex life. And I was like, "Oh, that's so interesting." And then like, because of the way the universe goes, they must have known and I was an interview you because The Daily that did this enter like whole story about having sex in your 70s and 80s. And I was like, (Celeste: Yeah) "I've actually never thought about that." I'm actually (Celeste: Right) never thought like, how do people when they're old have sex? (Celeste: Right) And they were talking about how different it has to be and how and how this isn't. I just think like, "What ah... No one talks about that." (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 14:47 No one talks about that. Yeah. Not only do we not talk about it, we desexualize anybody that's not young and white. (Celeste laughs) I mean, honestly, we just decent. Like we only sexualize. Yeah, that's not totally true. But we, we definitely do desexualize older people, we (Lesley: Mm-hmm) actually desexualize people with disabilities, we desexualize anything that doesn't fit into this very narrow definition of what we think is sexual. And so yeah, people have sex and through their 90s ... You know like, it's not, you know,Lesley Logan 15:41 And and then and to that point, like, because as growing up, right, like, all I saw was like, "This is what sexy is." And (Celeste: Yeah) then like, if that doesn't make you, if you don't feel good, being sexy that way, then like, again, there's something wrong with you, or there's (Celeste: Right) something like. So, okay, what is like step one, if somebody is like, "Okay, ladies, I'm in. This is like, intriguing me. How do I get sexual resilience?" Like what, how do they or how do they even get comfortable with their sexual desire? Like, what's what do you (Celeste: Yeah) use? (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 16:12 Yeah, absolutely. I love to start out with this with everybody. I always think about what we want to feel in sex because everything that we do behaviorally, we do it because we want to feel something. So like, I pet my dog, because I want to feel calm. I ride my bike, because I want to feel free. I do certain sex, sexual activities, because I want to feel pleasure, connection, erotic, intimate, loving, whatever it is that I want to feel in sex. And so start with the feeling. So write down my dream sexual experience would feel like and then write those words down. And then you can work your way backwards, like, "Okay, if I want to feel confident, what do I need to do behaviorally in order to feel confident? Maybe I need to learn more about my body. Maybe I need to establish a better relationship with my vulva and my clitoris. Maybe I need to have a masturbation practice. Maybe I need to read some more books." Right? So start with what you want to feel and then work your way backwards, "I want to feel connected. Okay, maybe I need to work on communication styles with my partner. Maybe I need to learn how to ask more for what I want. And maybe I don't know what I want. So maybe I need to take one more step back and figure out what I like and what I don't like and do some more creative exploration in sex," you know. So I like to start out with that list of what we want to feel. Because then you can build behaviors behind that. Lots of times we go into sex, like, "What do I want to do?" You know, like, "I want to use a spreader bar and you know, whips (Lesley laughs) and I wanna rubber and stuff like that." And all that's good and fine. But if it's not getting to what you want to feel, it's, it's gonna fall short. It's gonna fall flat in your sexual experience. So always start with what you want to feel and then build the spreader bars in behind it. (Celeste laughs)Lesley Logan 17:58 Oh my God, yes. Okay, love this. This is how I do goals. Like I people, like I like people are just taking action. And like, "Well, where are we going?" You know, you got to start there and work backwards. So like, this makes so much sense to me. (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yeah, yeah) And, and, and then it's also like, "Okay, why didn't, why didn't none of us think about that?" (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yeah) (Celeste laughs) So so so to the woman who is like, maybe because of how they are raised, maybe because like, just like different ideas of what sex is. And like, you know, maybe like, don't have it till you get married and then no one's talked about it. So like you... where do you suggest that even start with that comfortability? Because if they're, if that is like also just boring to them, you know, like, where did they start getting even masturbating might be actually uncomfortable. So like, (Celeste: For sure) where do we go there?Celeste Holbrook 18:47 For sure. And masturbation is very uncomfortable for many, many, many women. This is one of my things that comes up a lot in the practice is women will say, "I went somewhere or my friends just suggested that I get a sex toy and masturbate and that I'd find out what I like." When in reality, if you have never been encouraged to explore your genitals, or you've been told your genitals are gross, or you've grown up in a purity culture, in purity culture, where you know, you're supposed to remain pure and not touch yourself and things like that. It's far more nuanced than just grabbing a dildo and masturbating. Right? So, thinking about getting started out on your sexual journey, it can be very helpful to go back and kind of list out the sexual messages you got growing up. Like, "Who told you about sex? How old were you? What was the message? Did you have a trusted adult in your life that you could ask sex questions to? Where did you get your sexual information? What were your early sexual experiences? Did anybody clothes police you? Tell you your skirt was too short or that your bra strap was going to make boys, you know do do bad things, right? Were you told you were wearing responsible for bad behavior of men?" And so we go back, and we kind of mine for all those messages, because all of those messages harbor in our cells of our body. And we consider that traumatic neglect when you don't give a person sex education that helps them make decisions. It's like not giving a person tools to learn how to eat, right. So we do consider this traumatic neglect. So go back and look at all those messages that are being stored in your body. Because most of those messages are telling your body that sex is dangerous, like if you're told you're going to go to hell, or you're going to be unwantable or unlovable or a depetaled flower. If you have sex before you married, your body just associates that as sex is dangerous. That's its only message, right? And so when you do go to have sex and your body shuts down like mine did, and your vaginas, like, "No, we're trying to keep you safe, you know, we're gonna clamp down and get small," because we're trying to do that, it's our only job as a body is to keep you safe, then it provides pain, or it provides a low libido or it provides low arousal, all things that it thinks is trying to help keep you safe from this thing that it thought was dangerous, right? And so starting out kind of this is the long winded answer the TED the, 20 minute TED talk answer, but I feel really passionate about this, because nobody really talks about this. Is really to go back, especially with a professional can be very helpful, because it can be hard to go back and look at the messages that you've got growing up, they're harboring in your body, and then go and reparent, do inner child work to reparent those messages to tell you like, "Listen, I know you were told that you were going to be unwantable if you have sex but that's no longer true for us anymore in my 40 year old life, you know, so you don't have to be loud in my life anymore. I love you and I see you earlier me. But you don't have to be loud anymore." So it just helps our body relax into, "Okay, I don't have to put up the you know, the fight or flight in order to get out of the situation. I can relax and experience pleasure."Lesley Logan 22:06 Oh, thank you for saying that because I mean, I've heard you know, with my therapist, we've talked about that with my money mindset stuff. Because there's like, a little seven year old Lesley, like, freaking out and I have to go, "Hey, thank you. Hear ya. And we're good actually. We actually have money in the bank all the time now. (Lesley and Celeste laughs) It's okay, (Celeste. You're right ...) we can afford that. We're good." But I never, I never thought about with that. Because I got sent home from school. (Celeste: Oh) Because my my strap on my tank top was not an inch and a half. The thing I actually got sent home for was I was talking back because she said it's not an inch and a half. It has to be an inch and a half or and I said or it said wider than your bra strap and I'm not wearing a bra. So any strap matters. And she called my dad because I refuse to wear the gym clothes (Celeste: Yeah) that they would make you change into. And I was a public school. And I said, "No, I won't. I'll just I'll just take the absence. It's fine." You know, (Celeste: Yeah) and so she had to call my dad and my dad is like, "Who are you calling for?" And they said, "Lesley's not dressed appropriately today." He's like "Lesley?" (Lesley laughs) Because my as my sister is the one who always like dressed with the short skirt, she would take a change of clothes to school. And I was like, (Celeste: Yeah) I'm the upholder, the... I call myself a recovering perfectionist, but obviously then I was the perfectionist 4.2 (Celeste: Yeah) student getting sent home because (Celeste: Yes) this tank top is distracting the boys in her class. (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Mm-hmm) And it is so interesting, because as you say those things I'm sure so many people are nodding their head and listening and like that... you think you think, "Oh, that was just a thing in high school." But we forget that all those things (Celeste: That's right) over our little record players and (Celeste: That's right) they are in our body. And they are telling us things that are taking away our ability to have sexual resilience, as you mentioned, and also just like, confidence in (Celeste: Yeah) ourselves and if we are not, for you said this earlier when we're off the record, but like if we're not confident in ourselves, in our sex, can you, you say it because you have the best way of saying it.Celeste Holbrook 24:03 No, you're fine. Yeah, I I like to think about if we have the ability to ask for what we need and what we want and what we desire in our most vulnerable space. Which one one of our most vulnerable spaces is naked with, you know, maybe somebody's penis in your mouth. And so if we're able to ask for what you want in those spaces, you can ask for a raise at work, you know, like learning the tools and the skill sets to communicate in sex. It absolutely grows roots into other areas of your life. Yeah.Lesley Logan 24:34 Oh my goodness. I mean, thank you for saying that because it's true. If we can be more competent there then it's just almost like so easy to just be confident in these like, fully clothed situations (Celeste: fully clothed situations) (Celeste and Lesley laughs) where like, not like, like bad things really couldn't happen if you're asking your boss for like that. (Lesley laughs) Like (Celeste: Yeah, yeah) I just... Is that something that you discovered in your, like in your your journey of educating people, is that something you've always known? Like, how did you, how did you see that as something that was like changing people's lives?Celeste Holbrook 25:07 I mean, I didn't always know that for sure. Still not sure that I know anything. But um (Lesley and Celeste laughs) to stay one page ahead, right? Um, yeah, I don't know, I don't, I don't know, I just saw the way that things change, especially, you know, one of my specialties is talking to women who grew up in purity culture, and kind of conservative cultures and helping them, em... embracing them, get empowered in their sexuality. And so especially in these cases, where somebody grew up, thinking that they were that sex was like their wifely duty. And then having a 180 turn to, "Oh, like sex is actually pleasure for me and connection for me. And we are two individual people who co create this sex in this third space," instead of like, to becoming one, or leaving and cleaving it is to individual fully represented people, co creating sex, right, that's a big shift. And once you identify yourself as a whole individual sexual person, that's when really like the ma... the magic happens, because you're not, I'm not here to solely server, please this other person, I'm not here as a linchpin to their arousal, like we are told when our straps are too short and (Lesley: Yeah) small, like I, you know, like, if you really think about the psychology of that, it's essentially saying, like, you are in charge for the arousal of men, and that continues in your brain, and even into your married life or your or your relationships, I am responsible for the arousal of men. And so if things aren't going well, it's clearly probably my fault. Just telling somebody their skirt is too short. That's the arc of that message over time.Lesley Logan 26:53 Yeah, (Celeste: Yeah) that's, oh, my gosh, I just had a flashback because, um, my dad, he's turning 70. So when he was in high school, they would make the girls like kneel to see if their skirts (Celeste: Mm-hmm) touch the ground. And I just like, think about all those women who are like, grandparents right now, parents and like, just what that did for potential confidence to do so many things in this world. Like we we think it's just oh, that's in the bedroom, or that happens twice a week or whatever. But like, the more you and I talk, the more you say things, the more I'm just like, so many women are not able to do, something that probably feels very simple, like just like being it till you see it in their job or in their (Celeste: Right) life, or like hosting a book club or, you know, being there for as a friend. And it's like, it's, it's like that, it's almost like if you could go into this one area of your life more deeply. It will do the domino effect to all these other areas. And we started hurting people's sexual resilience when they didn't even know what sex was. (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 27:55 Right, right. You're totally right. It's I, I love how you say that. We absolutely did. We absolutely did I mean we, yeah, didn't give anybody any information and then told them they were wrong.Lesley Logan 28:05 Yeah. Okay, well, okay, I have some questions for the ladies who are listening because we got a lot of busy mamas. (Celeste: Yeah) A lot of perfectionist, they're... trying to be recovering perfectionist, and just like put a lot of pressure on themselves (Celeste: Yeah) overachievers, those things I imagine are killing a lot of libido. (Celeste laughs) Am I... (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Mama knows, mama knows) ... mama knows as you said. So what are, what are some reasons like they'll all those things are actually like hurting their bedroom, life?Celeste Holbrook 28:40 Right? So if we think about the way we actually learn about sex. Nobody really tells us much about sex, especially if you grew up like you and I did. Nobody really tells us about sex or how are really much about sex other than don't have it and you know, somebody used to tell me, "The best birth control is an aspirin, because you just put it in between your knees." (Celeste laughs)Lesley Logan 29:05 Oh, my gosh. (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 29:07 I know. I just thought about that. I just thought about that. Anyway, (Lesley laughs) so as far as the way that we learn about sex, we learned about it through media, through media or porn, right? We only see sex modeled in a performative way. And this is very important, because no other part of our life is only modeled performatively. Right? We see other relationships navigating through conflict, we see people cooking, we learn how to cook through seeing other people cook. We learn how to drive by being in cars with adults who are driving. Right? Sex is the only thing we don't see people having sex in a very natural setting. We only see performed sex on film. And so what happens is that becomes our identifier to what good sex is. And so let me connect this to your performers in your audience who want to do things right and correctly and perfect. Right? If our only model for sex is this very performative media kind of focused way, then we're always going to fall short, because sex in media is not real. It's scripted, it's performed, it's angled. It's all of these things that don't actually happen in real life. And so we kind of judge ourselves based on this. Like, I don't know how many times women have come to me in the practice and say, "I don't really think I'm having an orgasm." I say, "Okay, let's talk about it." And we talked about it. And it turns out, maybe she is having an orgasm, but she's not screaming from the mountaintops like it looks like they do in media. And (Lesley: Right) so she assumes that maybe she's not having one, right. And so for your, for any, any of us, all of us, me included, moving away from performance based sex, what am I doing to experience based sex. Sex, first and foremost, is an experience. And something that we feel with all of our senses, which I think is why it's so beautiful, is because it is a merge of all of our senses. And when we are rooted in our senses, we can only feel our senses in this present moment. And so that's why you hear people say, like, I was lost in the moment, it's because I can only touch in this moment, I can think about it in the future, I can think about it from from the past, but I can only experience it in this moment. And so sex is this beautiful experience of senses. And when we think about it, that way, it becomes much more pleasurable, and it becomes much more exploratory versus when we think about it, like, "These are the things I want to do. This is what I want it to look like. I definitely want to have an orgasm every time or we're going to cumm together or whatever." When you loosen the grip on what it looks like, you can feel more of the experience and probably be more fulfilled, because that's what sex really is, is an experience between the two of you, versus a performance that you're doing for some other third person, you know.Lesley Logan 32:12 Yeah. Oh, I keep going back to like, how do you want it to feel like that's like, (Celeste: Mm-hmm) just makes it so tangible? And also like some you can work with and it and you're right, like that performative thing? It's like it, it just, you know, if it's not perfect, you don't have this or you're like, you know, it becomes so much pressure (Lesley laughs) ( Celeste: It is) to put on yourself, how could you even be in the moment because you're like, trying to control all the things? (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 32:42 Yes, exactly. And if we go back to the earlier conversation of if, if responsibilities is the biggest killer of arousal, and performative sex is starting to feel like a responsibility or a chore, or I've got to do this, or I need to do this so that somebody else is happy, then like, you're just killing your arousal, right? (Lesley: Mm-hmm) If when sex becomes a chore, your arousal is just gonna continue to tank.Lesley Logan 33:04 Yeah, yeah. So for the people who are like, "I'm in, I love this. I'm in, I don't have time." The people who are like, they're so busy, they are... not ha... not, they don't have the time to have sex with their partner regularly or they... (Celeste: Yeah) Do you have advice for them? Is there like, quickies? (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Sure, yeah) Like, is that the only answer like what what can we give them to like, kind of take that excuse out? Because it's it's blocking them from from enjoying pleasure and having the sexual resilience?Celeste Holbrook 33:34 Yeah. Well, so first, I'll say there are times in your life where you have less sex, less sex, and that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that. But what I hear you saying is, is there somebody who wants to be having, you know, a little bit more sex or more pleasurable sex but feel like they can't, it's just not happening organically? Then here's what I would say. We are, we are told, from the very beginning that sex is natural, and it is not natural. It is biological. We're built for sex. We're built for pleasure, right? It's biological, it is not natural. Just like eating is biological. We're built to consume food, you still have to learn how to cook and make it a priority. (Lesley laughs) So so sex is just like this. If you wait until your partner and you are on the same page, in the soft glowing light, and you have had just enough food in your belly, and nobody has farts, you know, going on, like, you're gonna be waiting forever. If you're just waiting for that to naturally happen. And so I do not like scheduled sex. A lot of people say schedule sex, but I do like the premise of intentional sexuality. Meaning we're not just gonna say like, "Every Tuesday at four, we're gonna bang it out." That works for some people, and that's great if it does, but for some people, that feels a little bit too much like a responsibility, but if you just say, "We're just gonna leave it up to chance and hope that someday we're on the same page of arousal." That's also not great, because it's not going to happen. You have to make it a priority. So intentional sexuality looks like this, "Hey, Lesley, I know that we're both off work on Thursday, and we're both going to be home for lunch. What do you think about, you know, setting some time aside to get intentionally sexual?" And you're like, "Yeah, yeah, that sounds good. Like, I think we could do that." And then Thursday comes along, and I ate too many breadsticks. And I'm gonna, like, I've just got too much bloated belly, and I say, "Listen, I can't do it today. Like, let's pivot to something else." And so we can either pivot for to a one way situation where my partner just comes on my skin, or we can pivot to a different day, or we can pivot to something else, but you're making sex intentional, you're looking for those opportunities for you to be together in a vulnerable space and aroused. And if you do this intentionally, sex becomes a little easier, and you're talking about it. And it takes pressure off of just one person to always be initiating, and it takes pressure off of you to always, like, for example, this happens a lot for women. If you're going to bed, and you're like, either trying to avoid sex, or like, "Oh, I don't know, if I want to do it tonight. I'm going to act like I'm asleep." Or if you're, or if every time your partner reaches out to you and just an affectionate touch, and you're kind of moving away, like, "Oh, I don't want to get into sex right now." I would encourage you to make sex more intentional, because then you avoid that, like, weird middle ground of, "Is this a sexual touch or not? Are we going to have sex or not?" It just makes it more intentional, like, "Okay, Thursday, we're we have this time scheduled where we're going to, you know, be together." And if it doesn't work out, that's okay, we can pivot to something else. And that builds sexual resilience. So it's not, you know, every Thursday at noon, but it is, "Let's talk about when sex could be available for both of us. How can I help you get more aroused? What can I do during the day to help you feel more relaxed on Wednesday night? You know, can I can I take the kids pick the kids up from school? Can I you know, make sure that the house is picked up all you take a bath? Like what what are the things that we can do to make sex more intentional." So make sex, sex a priority, you do have time for it if you want to make time for it. But you have to not wait for the margin to just open up. (Lesley: Well...) Oh, my gosh, I'm sorry, that was so long. (Celeste laughs)Lesley Logan 37:23 No, it's okay because what I just want you just towards the end is like really, I love so much because it just goes back to like, it's two and the other person has to help make sure that you have less responsibility for that date, for that moment to happen. And so it requires a, those of you listening to speak up and say, "Here's what (Celeste: Yeah) we really lovely, if we could have intentional sex time, and then I would know that not every time are you kissing me, "are you trying to also..." (Celeste: Yeah) Because like, that is hard. If you're like, if you are thinking, "I have the 17 things that have to happen before five o'clock, otherwise, the whole house falls down." (Celeste: That's right) And then your partner goes to kiss you and you're like, "Oh my God, every time he kisses me, we have sex," then like you're not gonna and then that creates own other ball of (Celeste: Yeah) issues in your (Celeste: Yeah) relationship. So I love that. And I also love that you're like, it needs to be like, finding out what you need and telling your partner it would be really helpful if you could, if you pick the kids up from school on Wednesday that I'll have this and then we can actually I can be relaxed and I can have that time for you. I (Celeste: That's right) love it's just so much communication. And it's that is I mean to talk about modeling. No one communicates to us about sex. So we don't know how to communicate about sex. (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 37:31 That's right. That's right. Let's examine your on the nose. That is exactly right.Lesley Logan 38:40 Um, okay. So Celeste you're I mean, you're just a wealth of knowledge. And I just I'm loving this conversation, but I want to talk about a couple things because you I always like to bring people on like, be it till you see it story. You are a mom of twins. (Celeste: Yes) So thank goodness again that you didn't listen to that doctor, because you would have had twins (Celeste laughs) possibly (Celeste: Yeah) and then probably not had been on this earth to give us all this beautiful sex education. (Celeste and Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 39:07 And I had them via C section by the way, so it wouldn't have helped. (Lesley laughs)Lesley Logan 39:11 So his advice didn't like wouldn't have even worked for you. (Celeste: Yeah) Um, not the first time I've heard a doctor's advice around things like that for women. Um, that didn't go as planned. Can you tell us like about how you were doing a be it till you see it moment to have these twins because I do think it's really cool.Celeste Holbrook 39:29 Oh, thanks. I think this is like the coolest story. But I've always wanted twins. I don't have really twin twins that run in my family. But I just always been fascinated with twins. I'm a Gemini and so I think that's something to do with it. (Celeste and Lesley laughs) And I knew there was a slight more a bigger possibility slightly because my husband's mom is an identical twin and he has several twins in his family. Not that it typically comes from the dad's side but I was like, "Oh no, no, I could hope."Lesley Logan 39:59 Yeah, and also science like... (Celeste: Yeah) it could happen. (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 40:03 It could happen. It could totally happen. So, um, you know, my twins are almost 10 now. So this was a long time ago, but I just when we started to try and get pregnant, I got off birth control, and we were just kind of being casual about it, you know, like not trying not to have sex or not to have get pregnant and took us about a year and I finally got pregnant and I was like, super excited. And I remember, you know, during my pregnancy, just like, "I just, it would be so lovely if I could have twins. I would just really want twins." And I thought about it every day. And I really, I really do feel like I manifested it. I remember pulling into the first OB appointment and going, "Today is the day I get to find out if I'm having twins or not." Like that was my thought it wasn't, "Today's the day I get to hear a heartbeat" or anything like that was like, "Today's a day, I get to find out if I'm having twins or not." And it was still a big surprise. I'm still so excited. But I'm telling you it is the biggest miracle of my life. And here's the last thing I'll say this is really funny is when the girls were five I was telling them the story like, "Girls do you know that you're the, my biggest miracle and I feel like God gave me you specifically and to be your mom and I manifested having twins as like, you know what? Twins are just like the biggest miracle of my life." And my five year old Zoey, she turns to me and goes, "Well, yeah, but like besides jeggings, right?" And I was like ... (Lesley and Celeste laughs) Okay whatever. (Lesley: Oh, my God. Oh, my God kids.) Jeggings, that was her big miracle. (Lesley laughs)Lesley Logan 41:39 Oh, my God, she's she she's still a little fashionista, five years later?Celeste Holbrook 41:43 I mean... She loves her jeggings and when she's still rocking the jeggings, so who knows? Yeah. (Celeste and Lesley laughs)Lesley Logan 41:50 This, I thank you for sharing that because I do, I think people can assume that the be it's till you see it's have to be something big. Have to, "Oh, not that having twins isn't a big deal." But (Celeste: Yeah, yeah) like has to be like something that like is in business, or it has to be like some sort of project. But it could actually just be like, "I'm going to be the mom of twins. And I'm going to act like these are twins in here. And I'm going to talk (Celeste: Yeah) like and they're gonna be twins." And then they were. (Lesley laughs)Celeste Holbrook 42:14 Yeah and then they were. It was wild. It's totally wild.Lesley Logan 42:17 Yeah. Um, so because you have two girls and they're identical twins. Is your, as a ... that you are raising them for sexual resilience? Is that is that easy for you to do? Because even though it wasn't modeled for you, or is that like something you're obviously intentional about? And is that something parents can do?Celeste Holbrook 42:38 Yes. Such a good question. So here's what I hope that I can say to help people feel more comfortable is that I talk about sex for a living. I made this my whole career. And I still find myself nervous to talk to my own kids about sex because it's just hard. It's a hard thing to do. You don't know if you're doing it right. You don't know if you're doing it well. But yes, I'm raising my kids very intentionally, about their body and about masturbation and about all things and and honestly, they can't really get away with it. They walk into my office, and there's, you know, some dildos hanging out. (Lesley laughs) So, you know, they'll go like, "Are you teaching about penis anatomy tonight?" And I'm like, "Yeah, I'm teaching about penis anatomy tonight." And it's just that I make it normal, right? We make, we make shame, by being ashamed. And so I really try very hard to make sex a normal part of our conversations, which is easier for me because I'm a sexologists. So the, when I talk about work, we're talking about sex. But I, my deepest hope is that they will feel free to make their own educated choices about sex.Lesley Logan 43:52 That's cool. (Celeste: Yeah) That's really cool. I, for whatever reason, I was imagining like, like the PTA, if, (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Oh) like, it goes well at the school. (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yeah. Career, career day was a thing in kindergarten.) (Lesley and Celeste laughs) (Celeste: Yeah) Oh my gosh, that's so and you're in Texas, so no offense, but I do feel like that probably had (Celeste: Yeah) some interesting parents reactions.Celeste Holbrook 44:22 It's possible. Luckily, they have they have really cool parents in their classroom. But listen, I'm like, you know, what, if my kids are gonna say something that brings up sex at to your house, into your home, you're welcome. (Celeste laughs) Like, man up and be an adult and talk about it. (Lesley: Yeah) I'm very, like, I feel very strongly about this. Like, you got to talk to your kids about sex.Lesley Logan 44:41 I think so. I think that is the biggest mistake that that that parents can make is like, not actually explaining it to them and or then making them feel that responsibility or shame around it. And like, (Celeste: Yeah) you know, I think it's because whatever their parents said, and their parents said, it's just like, it's just the worst game of telephone we've all played. And (Celeste and Lesley laughs) you know, it just gets like watered down more (Celeste: Yeah) confused like or not there at all. So, you know, Celeste, I'm just so grateful that we can have this conversation. Thank you for saying yes when I asked you. I'm a complete stranger to you. So I really appreciate it. (Celeste: Oh, absolutely.) Because like, I really do, I, the more I talk with women and as a Pilates instructor and I work with women, and, you know, I hear mostly about the struggles for their fertility. (Celeste: Mm-hmm) But also part of those conversations has to do just with sex and confidence in the bedroom. And it's like, if you're not confident there, like it really is hard to be confident, as you mentioned anywhere else. And like, that might just be the one place we can all start exploring this year. So I'm grateful. Alright, Celeste, where do people get to find you? Are you on Instagram? Is our website like, where do they get to talk to you more?Celeste Holbrook 45:52 Yes, you can find me on my website. It's Dr. Celeste Holbrook, d r and then my name is celesteholbrook.com. And you can find me at the same handle on Instagram and Facebook - Dr. Celeste Holbrook. I really want to make you laugh on Instagram. So please come on over (Lesley and Celeste laughs) and see my ridiculous reels that I use with sex toys. (Lesley laughs) So yeah, absolutely.Lesley Logan 46:13 Oh, my God, that's amazing. I'm just so grateful for this conversation. I really do. If you're, if any of this peaked your interest, like, please, you call, go to Celeste. If you, I would love it if you feel super comfortable screenshotting this and taking a picture and tagging Dr. Celeste Holbrook and the @be_it_pod with your takeaways because we could all start making this less this weird thing that no one talks about if we can just post about it on Instagram. (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yeah) Right? (Celeste: Absolutely. It's a powerful tool.) What a great little be it... (Celeste: Yeah) First action and having a conversation and less shame around this con... this topic. Okay, I asked everyone, because it's one thing to be informed and to get educated or even be inspired. But, you know, what are some tips that people can take away and work on for themselves to be it till they see it in this area? So bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted steps? What do you, what do you think would you have for us?Celeste Holbrook 47:08 So, I really like the idea of writing down what you want to feel. And if you're not feeling pleasure, if you're not feeling connected, writing those things down and talking about it with your partner, have them write down what they want to feel in sex, too, can be really just the starting point for sex getting better. So really writing down what you want to feel and will help you, you know, be it until you see it, will help you kind of get closer to feeling those things for sure. That's that's kind of once it's it feels like a small thing, but it really does change the way that you think about sex.Lesley Logan 47:50 I mean, I think it's like, this is just be something that's like, in all like before you get married, like these are some things, before your partner, before you even like have sex with someone. Like instead of just saying "yes," like, it should be like, and the next question is, "How do you want to feel tonight?" (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yes, exactly.) Like it just (Celeste: Totally) I mean, like, you know, it's like, like, you know, after we say "Hi," we say, "How are you?" Could be like, "Would you like have sex? Yes. "And how would you like to feel?" Like that (Celeste: Yeah) could just be like the the new routine in (Celeste: I love it) how we speak. Oh my gosh, I love this so much. And it ... you, I know it's you said it sounds simple. It's not like it's (Mm-hmm) like that requires a people knowing how they want to feel, which is like another so that just is a domino chain if you don't rewind and listen. (Lesley laughs) (Celeste: Yeah) Because we talked about that, but also like, I mean like what a unique thing you could be exploring instead of like, trying to like, I can't think of a better thing to spend time getting to know except for yourself and like what pleases you and like what makes you feel whole and seen? And you know, and that's, and like you said, like, if you can do it, they're in the most vulnerable state then what else you could do everything like you're unstoppable.Celeste Holbrook 48:57 You can do anything. I love it, unstoppable. Absolutely, (Lesley laughs) absolutely.Lesley Logan 49:02 Celeste, you're making unstoppable humans all over. And I'm so appreciative you. Thank you for being here. Everyone, thank you for listening. And I'm serious, like... take a screenshot of this, tag us and your takeaway, because it could be the best way to change this conversation around this. And if you're like, "Lesley, that is like the biggest step of my life." Then please text it to a friend who needs to hear this. Like, "Ladies, I know you know how your friends are feeling or you've heard like between the lines of how they're feeling, send them this like if you don't want to give them the advice yourself. You can just send them and Celeste's words can tell them. (Lesley and Celeste laughs) (Celeste: I love it.) So thank you for being here. Everyone, thanks for listening. Until next time, Be It Till You See It.That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review. And follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcasts. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the @be_it_pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others BE IT TILL YOU SEE IT. Have an awesome day!'Be It Till You See It' is a production of 'As The Crows Fly Media'.Brad Crowell 50:14 It's written, produced, filmed and recorded by your host Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell. Our associate producer is Amanda Frattarelli.Lesley Logan 50:25 Kevin Perez at Disenyo handles all of our audio editing.Brad Crowell 50:29 Our theme music is by Ali at APEX Production Music. And our branding by designer and artist, Gianfranco Cioffi.Lesley Logan 50:38 Special thanks to our designer Jaira Mandal for creating all of our visuals (which you can't see because this is a podcast) and our digital producer, Jay Pedroso for editing all video each week so you can.Brad Crowell 50:50 And to Angelina Herico for transcribing each of our episodes so you can find them on our website. And, finally to Meridith Crowell for keeping us all on point and on time.Transcribed by https://otter.aiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Originally entitled "Leggings, Jeggings, and Ryan Pegging," this brand new episode features a peek into the life of a trucker's DM, information on the sweets and meats diet that is taking over the 209, and Ryan explains why his family feeds him dog treats. In mind-blowing news, Ryan thinks XYZ means something and Sam does not. We need your help to settle this debate. And in the world of crime and sexism, Sam and Ryan have found a way to decrease sexual assault in America, and they have clearly identified the one superpower that men have that women don't. Tune in, vibe out, and please enjoy this episode responsibly.Remember:"Do not go gentle into that good night,Old age should burn and rave at close of day;Rage, rage against the dying of the light."Send your thank you letters, fan mail, media awards, or sick burns to burnandravepodcast@gmail.comFollow us here: IG @burnandravepodcastHosts: Ryan Rosenow & Sam Pierstorff (@njapoet)Sound Engineer: Joe Zimmerer Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/ninjapoet)
Up and Toss your Salad game, Chill Jeggings, Sticky Toast, Escape the Metaverse with a Tea Cozy.
What's Up? What's the haps fashion friends?! We are getting down with denim this week! Holly's been getting so many questions and emails...are skinny jeans out? Are they over? What if I don't like flare? Did you know that for 150 years – that's right, one hundred and fifty years – denim has been a staple of the American wardrobe? Don't get caught in the hype of what people say is “trending” for jeans, because this is a staple in your wardrobe that will not change - unless your specific body type changes. On this week's episode of the Fashion Crimes Podcast, Holly will clear up any denim confusion, misconception, bewilderment or skepticism right here and right now. We also talk about a fun vintage shopping adventure and some client styling projects she has been working on. First, Holly reminds us that the fashion cycles run on 20 years. So, what the hell does that mean? It means what was popular 20 years ago, is popular again now because people who were not born 20 years ago, are seeing the trend for the first time. #ugh #teenagers #sonotyoung Now, in the case of denim, what we're seeing now is that LOW RISE FLAIR denim is back. #omg #pleasestop Sorry to say it, but it was popular in the 70s. It was popular in the 90s. And now, it's popular again. Just to be clear: this particular denim trend skews pretty young. Like really young. Like baby-young. As a popular personal stylist, Holly has been getting a lot of questions lately asking about this particular trend, and if people should try them. For the love of GOD, skinny jeans are not out. People need to know what the jean trends are! All you need to know if this; just say no to crack; not a good look. Holly has explained this on many occasions, so just remember. Whatever body type is your body type, that is the type of jeans you need. Jeans that fit you properly will never go out of style. Live it, learn it, love it. So, if you love high-waisted jeans that are skinny, and that's the support you need for your specific body type - that will never go out of style, FOR YOU. Don't buy into the trend hype. Denim never goes out of style. But here are come key guidelines to consider when choosing your jeans: Shop for Fit: What is the support you need? Are you extra tall? Are you extra short? Are you thick in the middle? Do you need but support? Find the fit you want then the colors you like within that style. Color: Holly likes to tell her clients they need a couple of light jeans, a couple of dark, and one or two pair of black jeans. Your jeans should be different brands not all the same. And try to get a variation of colors and rinses if possible. Price Points: Expensive does not mean better. You can spend $278 on a pair of jeans or you can spend $78 on a pair of jeans. Why? Because of the garment construction and the treatment of the fabric. The more involved the dye process is the more expensive they will be. Shop within your budget, If you're not sure how to do this; just send an email. And what is a Denim Fashion Crime? JEGGINGS. Holly starts using her swear words when she gets to the part in the episode about jeggings. You'll see. DON'T DO IT. Next, Holly shares her adventures from the Manhattan Vintage Show, featuring vintage dealers that are pretty high end from all over the country. It was a clothing explosion – and total sensory overload - but, oh so fabulous! Like Candy Land for clothes. Holly shares a key insight about vintage or secondhand denim – or any item – and that is things were made a long time ago. So of course, they're not going to fit the same as they would now. If you're buying to wear, do not buy or purchase any jeans or items that are vintage or secondhand unless you could try them on. Fun Finds for Holly? A new BFFF (best fashion friend forever) from Etéreo Vintage; and #YvesSaintLaurent dress; chunky and huge statement jewelry; hats, furs, leathers from all eras – basically everything she saw. Check out the Holly Katz Styling Instagram for photos! The fun of the vintage show, and a styling tip to consider, is it is a great way to build on your style collection. If you are struggling with having your style evolve, going to some place like a vintage store or a consignment store might just spark some interest in you and give you a little inspiration! Build a collection of things you love, things that speak to you and things that – of course – fit you well. It's an investment in YOU and your fashion happiness. You got this. And speaking of happy, Holly has been working her style magic with some special clients this week. Holly helps many clients virtually via her Pinterest Boards, to help guide them on what to wear and where to buy things. The shared Boards a fun way to visually see key pieces or whole outfits. But sometimes, clients panic a bit after purchasing one or two items and then aren't sure what to wear them with. Holly wants you all to calm the down. Don't be afraid to mix your jackets with your pants and skirts. Loosen the reins a little bit and don't overthink it. Don't trip up on the details of coordinating every single thing down to the shoe. And not to stress you out more, but Holly is here to remind you that the holidays are coming up and Hanukkah is super early this year! Don't wait to start planning or shopping for your holiday wardrobe, or you will be one #hotmess. Stay tuned for the fabulous gift guide coming soon! With love, - Holly Katz, your favorite personal stylist, and let's be honest, the only Holly you need to know you know. The Fashion Crimes Podcast | The Best Fashion Friend You Never Knew You Needed New Episodes Every Friday www.fashioncrimespodcast.com Holly Katz Styling www.hollykatzstyling.com #FashionCrimesPodcast #FashionStyle #hollykatzstyling #personalstylist #denim #jeans #vintage #vintageshow #statementjewelry #fashionpodcast #fashioncrimes #podcastersofinstagram #podcast #podcasts #stylist #womenwhopodcast #womensupportingwomen #whattowear #hownottolooklikeshit #stylecoach #styletherapy #style #styleinspo #hotmessfixer
It's week 5 on Strictly and the gloves are coming OFF - and not just in Rose and Gio's fake relationship. This week, we're looking at who is starting to pull ahead in the Glitterball stakes and who may fall behind...PLUS MUCH MORE! Some receipts: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/dec/16/black-strictly-come-dancing Join us on the virtual sofa at... Twitter: @StrictlyOnSofa Insta: @StrictlyOnTheSofa Email: strictlyonthesofa@gmail.com Find us wherever you get your podcasts (and shout if we're not on your chosen platform, we'll fix that asap!). If you're enjoying our show, please rate and review us - it helps other people find us! #strictly #scd #strictlycomedancing #bbcone #ballroom #latin
Ansonsten erfahren wir, dass Markus sich eine neue Jeggings gekauft hat, Uli angefangen hat, zu ukulelisieren, und Fabian eine Krise bekommt, wenn er nochmal das Wort "ukulelisieren" oder "Ukulelistin" tippen muss, weil er sich dabei JEDES. VERDAMMTE. MAL. vertippt.
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Hi, everyone! I am Georgiana, your English teacher and founder of SpeakEnglishPodcast.com. My mission is to help you speak English fluently. Today we are going to look at some trendy words. These words have been added to the dictionary in the last decade. And with a mini-story, you are going to improve your fluency. I'll tell you a story while asking you many questions that you have to answer right away. It's like talking to another person in English. Please, visit SpeakEnglishPodcast.com to get the transcript of today's episode. And follow me on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, etc. Let's get started! As I said today, we will look at some words added to the dictionary in the last decade. These are trendy words, and I'm sure most of them sound familiar to you. Let's start with the first word: 1. Jeggings The word was introduced into the dictionary in 2015. Jeggings are a blend of jeans and leggings. When they first came out, I was fascinated by these pants. They are the most comfortable thing ever in my opinion, and yet they look so much like jeans. 2. YouTuber The term was introduced into the dictionary in 2016. YouTube appeared in 2005 and since then, millions of people have been uploading videos on the platform on a regular basis. I started creating weekly videos in 2012, but it wasn't until 2016 that the word was added to the dictionary. According to the Oxford Dictionary, a YouTuber is a person who uploads, produces, or appears in videos on YouTube. 3. LOL The word was introduced into the dictionary in 2011. Though this word is still popular, we have actually been using it for many years. So what's LOL? It's an abbreviation of laughing out loud or laugh out loud. The word abbreviation means a shortened form of a word or phrase. 4. Facebook The term was introduced into the dictionary in 2018. Did you know that we have used Facebook so many times that the verb to facebook has emerged? So “to facebook” means to spend time using the social media website or app Facebook. 5. Skype The word was introduced into the dictionary in 2014. Before other apps like Zoom or FaceTime existed, Skype was the most popular app on the Internet for video calls. According to the Oxford Dictionary, to skype means to have a spoken conversation with (someone) over the Internet using Skype, typically also viewing by webcam. Get the transcript here: SpeakEnglishpodcast.com
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This week I welcome Patrick McFarland. We discuss Comedy, sexuality, Roseanne, pop punk songs, Jeggings, keeping it at 75. And for the first time the guest has a question for the Unsanctioned 7. I love how he pronounces Lady Gaga too. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
We add Bell Biv DeVoe, war, jeggings, transphobia, Hulk Hogan, jorts, animal crackers, Bill Paxton and skorts to the List of Every Damn Thing.
So, erstmal die Hosen öffnen und dreimal kräftig in die FFP 2-Maske schnäuzen, die Ostsee-Perlen haben sich nach ihrem mutigen Eisbad direkt von der 3. Welle wieder ans Ufer spülen lassen und sind jetzt bereit, ihr anmutig anmutendes Kreuz durchzustrecken und den Kopf aus dem Sand zu ziehen. Kein Wunder, denn es darf endlich wieder gefeiert werden. Zum Kollegen-Stammtisch mit Obama, Apache 207 und Frau Merkel empfehlen die beiden eine maximal elastische Jeggings in Lederoptik, Feel Good-Sticker im Gesicht und eine gut geföhnte Justin Bieber-Gedächtnisfrisur. Wer es lieber sonntäglich gemütlich mag, kann aber auch einfach mit ihnen ein paar romantische Tierposter aufhängen und die Holsteinische Bauernkruste mit jungfräulichen Fischen genießen. Mat-Yes, yes, yes, yes! Wichtig: Wenn man negativ dioptriniert durch eine vernebelte Kleinstadt irrt, sollte man nur an solchen Menschen und Dingen lecken, die 1. definitiv neu in der Stadt sind und die 2. zu einer Vermehrung des hart erarbeiteten Wohlstands führen könnten.
I have been an avid pantyhose wearing woman for many, many years. But today, women my age do not wear pantyhose. They have bare legs, as do younger women who also have even skin tones, no varicose veins, and they don't bruise easily. They have legs that aren't dimpled or scarred, or fat or boney. But I'm sixty-something and I'm not confident with bare legs. And now I am not confident in pantyhose either! Then there are leggings. Should older women even wear leggings? If we do, are we trying too hard? If we don't, are we being old fashioned and frumpy? Are there rules for women of "a certain age?" And what about jeggings? Does anyone even know what they are? No boring retirement and Medicaid questions answered here but you will find out the latest bits and tips about Pantyhose, Leggings and Jeggings. Oh My!
**Explicit content warning: This episode is NSFW because we discovered an alternative meaning of "gape" lol. Disclaimer--- our version of GAPE is short for Good Afternoon Planet Earth. That discussion is towards the end*** In this Good Afternoon Planet Earth, GAPE-TV episode, we talk about Dom doing a live show in Time Square, reality transurfing. It's a technique hard to explain but aligned with quantum physics. We also talk about little things that could really ruin someone's day. Rants about running late, jeans, jeggings, flex fit denim, pet-peeves, how one thing can mess up one's day, getting negative for no reason. Can you relate? Comment below what one little thing would really mess up your day!!Follow us on Instagram!!Instagram.com/gapetvThank you for coming over to check out GAPE-TV!Follow, subscribe, and leave a comment if you can! Let us know if you'd like to hear our take on anything!Podcast also available on Spotify!Follow us on Instagram instagram.com/gapetvemail: thegapeshowtv@gmail.comAmy's Instagram: Instagram.com/amyjjansDom's Instagram: Instagram.com/domofnycSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/join/gapetv?)
Welcome to the first ever episode of the Fighting With Friends Podcast! Join Bridget and Maddie as they delve into debates with no real-world significance such as "Is water wet?" and "Are jeggings jeans or leggings?". This podcast is also available to watch on YouTube!Follow us on Twitter @BridgetKelley98 and @mr5mar! Join our Discord community!Follow us on Twitch!"Is A Hotdog a Taco?" via Reddit"124-year-old patent solves the 'over versus under' toilet paper roll debate" via Business Insider"Why wearing socks in bed is good for you..." via Metro UK Get bonus content and early access to new episodes on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/fighting-with-friends. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode the words Behaviours, Jeggings and Jorts, Redundant are binned Please send in your own audio for the podcast to thewordbin@gmail.com Details at https://fairacrepress.co.uk/the-word-bin/ where you will also find award-winning books, podcasts and projects Please subscribe, review, share if you like what you hear
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Betsy answers all of your design questions!
The unwritten secret rules that need to go, plus Sonia Deville's attempted kidnapping, Renee Young chucking up the deuces, baseball, and where to score a decent pair of work jeggings.
Alex exposes himself as a fashionista (He thought jeggings were cool) and Jeremy used to be a scene-kid emo boy...followed by the worst mystery riddle segment ever and Jeremy's EPIC joke
On this episode of Bleav in MMAvericks, hosts Mike Straka and Ike Feldman discuss UFC 247: Jones vs. Reyes, better Michael Keaton movie: “Spotlight” or “Birdman”, jeggings for men and much more! The guys are joined by Actor Jeremy Rotolo.
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On today's episode of Draft the Universe... Ben [redacted], Chris [redacted], and Xhafer [redacted]. [redacted] . . . . . [redacted] We think you'll really like it!
Here come the hot-stepper. I'm the lyrical gangster.
Join Kate and Kyra (and their neighbour’s banging) this week to talk about the importance of moisturising, Canadian reality tv, our perfect Frankenstein hockey man, Connor McDavid longing to look like cartoon stoners, "Jamie Brown’s Benn eyes", Rick Nash concussion related retirement, the hockey traditions we like and dislike, and hockey players wearing jeans with stretch aka jeggings.
Today we all join the Disturbing Diet as we learn about items made from human skin, both real and fake. We also learn about some of the people that made them. Then we bring it all home with the tale of castorium, because who doesn't want to think about beaver butt juice? This is a real special one!Visit us at disturbinginterests.comEmail us at disturbinginterests@gmail.comFollow Neko on Instagram @NekoThePodcatSupport the show (http://patreon.com/disturbinginterests)
Byu vs Utah basketball and Bowl game predictions. and.... Jeggings?
Comments about Randy Carroll wearing jeggings this morning
In this episode we talked about Asshole Pears, Superhero TV shows, a quick Darkness counseling session, Jeggings, cutting my toe off and more! Follow us on Instagram @ChicosBrain and find us on facebook by searching for Chico's Brain. Rate the show and leave us a comment it really helps :)
Myf's dedication to the Bang Fam knows no bounds as she joins Zan from the London airport lounge to talk post Eurovision goss and the buffet spread highlights. A new Spotify policy has us once again considering the conversation around the separation of art and the artist. Zan has been devouring The Americans final season, why Myf is finding time on planes to read debut novels by Australian musicians. And there's a farshun update. Of course. It's Farshun Week. Show notes: Royal wedding: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/when-is-the-royal-wedding-and-how-can-i-watch-it-in-australia Spotify: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-05-15/r-kelly-accusations-can-you-separate-the-art-from-the-artist/9758782 Farshun - lace up jeans: https://www.simplemost.com/lace-up-jeans-latest-weird-denim-styling Farshun - Harry and Meghan swimsuits: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6262973/harry-meghan-swimsuits-wrong/ The Americans: https://www.showcasechannel.com.au/shows/the-americans/ Lovesome: https://murdochbooks.com.au/browse/books/fiction/Lovesome-Sally-Seltmann-9781760632878
Myf’s dedication to the Bang Fam knows no bounds as she joins Zan from the London airport lounge to talk post Eurovision goss and the buffet spread highlights. A new Spotify policy has us once again considering the conversation around the separation of art and the artist. Zan has been devouring The Americans final season, why Myf is finding time on planes to read debut novels by Australian musicians. And there’s a farshun update. Of course. It’s Farshun Week. Show notes: Royal wedding: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/when-is-the-royal-wedding-and-how-can-i-watch-it-in-australia Spotify: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-05-15/r-kelly-accusations-can-you-separate-the-art-from-the-artist/9758782 Farshun - lace up jeans: https://www.simplemost.com/lace-up-jeans-latest-weird-denim-styling Farshun - Harry and Meghan swimsuits: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6262973/harry-meghan-swimsuits-wrong/ The Americans: https://www.showcasechannel.com.au/shows/the-americans/ Lovesome: https://murdochbooks.com.au/browse/books/fiction/Lovesome-Sally-Seltmann-9781760632878
Myf’s dedication to the Bang Fam knows no bounds as she joins Zan from the London airport lounge to talk post Eurovision goss and the buffet spread highlights. A new Spotify policy has us once again considering the conversation around the separation of art and the artist. Zan has been devouring The Americans final season, why Myf is finding time on planes to read debut novels by Australian musicians. And there’s a farshun update. Of course. It’s Farshun Week. Show notes: Royal wedding: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/when-is-the-royal-wedding-and-how-can-i-watch-it-in-australia Spotify: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-05-15/r-kelly-accusations-can-you-separate-the-art-from-the-artist/9758782 Farshun - lace up jeans: https://www.simplemost.com/lace-up-jeans-latest-weird-denim-styling Farshun - Harry and Meghan swimsuits: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6262973/harry-meghan-swimsuits-wrong/ The Americans: https://www.showcasechannel.com.au/shows/the-americans/ Lovesome: https://murdochbooks.com.au/browse/books/fiction/Lovesome-Sally-Seltmann-9781760632878
We'll stop talking about Oprah when people stop polling about her. Plus jeggings & football: what could go wrong? Gothamist on leggings Edelman Trust Barometer Trump-landia HP Average ABC/WP poll ABC/WP on racial bias ABC/WP on Trump & Collusion CNN on Trump/Russia Shutdown ABC/WP on shutdown NBC/SurveyMonkey on DACA & shutdown CNN on shutdown 2018/2020 CNN on 2020 RCP generic 538 on generic Pew on midterms Abortion PerryUndem on Abortion Are you ready for some Football? Or how about church? PRRI on football Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Trash Boys are back in town! In fact, most of them are loitering in the Junes lobby. In this new era of the show, we’re doing fewer days at a time, so we can really savor each moment. Unfortunately, Yosuke really makes us question that decision.
Today is National Leg Wear Day and it made me wonder how many of you ladies out there take advantage of this soon to be forgotten fashion accessory? Which type do you like to wear? Are you the traditional type wearing only solid black, navy or nude? Or, are you more adventurous type wearing wild patterns, checks, prints and vibrant colors? As a professional image consultant I've learned that leg wear can make or break an outfit. Also, it is imperative to wear them if the occasion calls for it. If you notice, more and more women are steering clear of wearing them. I still consult my clients and tell them the importance of wearing a pair, especially if it's for an important meeting or if you're say, speaking on stage. When I teach my “What's My Style” fashion class, I help women and men learn what their fashion styles are – there are 7. If you're interested in learning what yours is, stop by my website at: http://dawnmariemutell.com and sign up at the bottom right hand of the page and I'll be sure to let you know of the next time I offer the webinar. Fall has arrived and now's the time to take advantage of the season by adding some cool and fun leggings as well as tights, pantyhose and other fun legwear by incorporating them into your daily fashion routines. Have you ever thought about wearing a pair of fishnets to the office? Some folks may think that's a little bit much, but, you most certainly can wear them as long as they're the right webbing. For instance, the larger the weave, the less “sexy” they look. I found several pair years ago that I love to wear to work, they're beige, white and purple. I've worn them to office meetings, network events and speaking engagements. They actually look fun, exciting and personable. Here are a couple you can try: Fishnet Stockings If you like more of the creative styles, you may like to add some of these fun and whimsical ones: Fun & Whimsical Tights Not only do these tights make your legs look more fashionable, up-to-date and pulled together; you'll also be able to camouflage some of those not-so-lovely things that you may not like about them such as spider and varicose veins, scars or stretch marks AND the best part is that you may even be able to skip a couple of leg shavings (no one will know but you and possibly your significant other). I remember when I had my ankle tendon repair surgery. It was back in 2004 and I had this terrible looking scar that ran from one end of my ankle to another (I fell in a sink hole outside my home in Brooklyn) and wearing tights and dark color pantyhose make me feel so much better about the appearance of my legs. It covered up the scar until it was lightened where I could go back to wearing au-naturel They were my saving grace. They not only kept the scar from being seen, it also kept me from constantly looking at it as a reminder of the fall. If you've never been one to wear tights, you might want to begin slowly. I'd say introduce a pair that might have a tiny tight weave or small light pattern. Nothing too flashy or revealing. But, if you're looking to go from “drab and dreary to a vixen” then try on some thigh highs. Here are a couple of my favorites: Thigh Highs You can't help but immediately feel sexier once you slide on your first pair and, another bonus, your partner will be drooling all over you once they find out what you're wearing. If you want to push the envelope, add a garter belt to match. Here are a couple of combination hosiery: Garter Belts with Stockings The last thing I want to share with you is that the legging or even Jeggings (jeans/legging combo) is one of the quickest ways to enhance your casual work pieces which you can add to your wardrobe that will not only flatter just about every leg length out there, but, they're quite easy to wear, comfortable as hell and you can wear them year-round. Some of my favorites are Lulumon just add your favorite pair of ballet flats wear a long tunic or man-tailored blouse, tie a sweater over your neck add a couple of necklaces, a chunky cuff bracelet, cool funky earrings and viola instant chic. You're on way to looking beautiful whether you're going to the office, Sunday brunch or shopping with your BFF's. Well that's all for today lovelies. I hope you enjoyed this episode. If you did, please share the love and pass it on to someone you know who will also enjoy it. Don't forget to sign up at http://dawnmariemutell.com for the next webinar of the “What's My Style” webinar. Remember to live peacefully, happily, lovingly and successfully. Until the next time, Namaste! Dawn-Marie XO Let's Stay in Touch: Sign Up For Our Newsletter Facebook Instagram
Happy Birthday to Cupcheck and Lt Fork. Show X is joined by our Author friend Jon Wasik to talk geek and his new book, Burning Skies. Having an author in the house, Ken starts things out with a list of some of the latest words to join the Oxford Dictionary, for all of you Grrrls, wearing Jeggings, while OMG sexting your Noob, Muggle, bromancing, Illiterati, boyfriends, wearing their Mankini's and Guyliner, while Chillaxing after getting away from the Po-po, but Whatevs. Wayne is going to try and support his ex family in New Mexico and will miss the next show... To make this trek he has been working on his truck to keep the old girl going. He also enjoyed a long ninja day with training and friends. Tromad hits up the show with an email to announce the launch of his new podcast, TroTalk which will be joining the VtW family in the next couple weeks. Ken has been busy with work lately, but managed to get in some gaming on Payday 2. Wayne has gotten his anime on again with the series Magi, while Ken calls him out for gaining many hours of Clicker Heroes, the game he said to never play. The guys also catch everyone up on what happened with Awesome Games Done Quickly over the last week. Wayne has also succumbed to the launch of Pokemon GO from Niantic and Nintendo. He is in good company with apparently most of the rest of the world. Show X finishes out with Jon telling us all a bit about Burning Skies and how this book progresses on from the introductory book, The Sword of Dragons. Show Notes: http://media.vtwproductions.com/forum/index.php?topic=11644.0 Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgoICotyd_w Audio Link: http://media.blubrry.com/showx/media.vtwproductions.com/archive/showx/vtw-showx-2016-07-10.mp3
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Antoine Timmins, former member of both his high school orchestra and hockey squad, was found dead and stuffed into a bass drum. Patrice Jenkins (Justine Riches), conductor of the school’s orchestra and hostess of pizza parties, is deeply concerned, and looks to get to the bottom of it. Matthew the Little Drummer Boy, fellow classmate, licks some salt off some peanuts, before Reginald the Janitor and his wife Merriweather actually bring in the bass drum with the body. I’m Jeggings!
*SPOILER ALERT* - This episode contains spoilers for the new Star Wars film. So BEWARE. An obligatory, rambling, half-hearted, ill-informed and way too late Star Wars - The Force Awakens episode. Show Links The Millennium Falcon Kitchenette Rey is a Kenobi Supermassive Black Hole - The Star Wars/Harry Potter Fan Fiction R2 D2 is Luke's Father Rey is a clone Snoke is Darth Vader The Comma Theory The Star Wars Ring Theory Kylo Ren is a double agent
As Ollie D tackles a new job and hopes Karma doesn't come get him, Mush is busy battling with White Jeggings & Jordans aka Leasing Manager, along with the time he almost worked for Foxy Brown and how Sprint Customer Service Agents don't speak English. Let us know what you think! Join the Conversation on FaceBook --bit.ly/cwffb Subscribe/RATE on ITUNES-- http://bit.ly/cwfp1 Visit our website: www.cwfpodcast.com Interested in helping with the show? Shoot us an email at info@cwfpodcast.com Follow Us on Social Media Mush King Twitter.com/Mush_FCB Instagram.com/Mush_FCB Ollie D. Coming Soon Brought to you by Fly Credentials Brand(www.14fly.com)
We started The Uglee Truth podcast because the Ugs have a slightly twisted take on just about anything worth talking about. This week is no exception as Jamie and Paula share their perspectives on the Bruce Jenner interview with both respect and humor as only they can deliver it. Plus Paula is having a bit of an identity issue of her own and Jamie uses the social uproar around a dead Dr. McDreamy to get Paula to start watching Netflix shows. All this and their Uglee and Awkward Moments of the Week await you on this brand spanking new episode of The Uglee Truth.
Eskimo Funeral A comedic podcast. Topics of discussion Jeggings & creative ways to destroy SAG DVD Screeners after viewing.
This week’s contenders: Undersea gold mining vs. Old-school prospecting, Utilikilts vs. Jeggings, Eternal bloody nose vs. Eternally peeing your pants, KIA Hamsters vs. Hotels.com, the Roaming Gnome, and Priceline Negotiator.
On day one in Tokyo we join a toenails painting cult, observe the similarities between kids and Tamagotchi’s and avoid talking to people in public. - Vicki now has an American accent. - Cults are forgetting to paint their toenails and we hate sucky massages. - We come up with some terrible analogies on how to describe Ben’s nationality. - Ben watches an hours’ worth of child rearing. - Middle Eastern Lisbeth Salander almost crashes Ben’s plane. - Australian’s don’t want to talk to people in public. - Ben gets trapped by the pee schedules of others. - Vicki’s song with her ex-boyfriend is Ushers’ ‘Yeah’. - Ben can’t sleep on the plane and Vicki is forced to watch the dinner menu for forty five minutes. - Ben buys some CalorieMate in an attempt to level up. - We take a temperature accurate Japanese shower.
On day one in Tokyo we join a toenails painting cult, observe the similarities between kids and Tamagotchi’s and avoid talking to people in public. - Vicki now has an American accent. - Cults are forgetting to paint their toenails and we hate sucky massages. - We come up with some terrible analogies on how to describe Ben’s nationality. - Ben watches an hours’ worth of child rearing. - Middle Eastern Lisbeth Salander almost crashes Ben’s plane. - Australian’s don’t want to talk to people in public. - Ben gets trapped by the pee schedules of others. - Vicki’s song with her ex-boyfriend is Ushers’ ‘Yeah’. - Ben can’t sleep on the plane and Vicki is forced to watch the dinner menu for forty five minutes. - Ben buys some CalorieMate in an attempt to level up. - We take a temperature accurate Japanese shower.
2 YEARS, BIG ANNOUNCEMENT, Finally Happening, Big Changes, KENNY B, Sickness Spreader, GUESTS: DAN CLARK AND JAIME KIRK FROM PDXYAR.ORG, Pirates, Red Goat and Dingo, Rum, Sailor Jerry, Theater Troupe, Beards, Duties, Wenches, Swashbucklers Ball, Jeggings, 10 People, M/I, Cloves, Unibrow, Kenny B's Nerd Facts, English Terms
Ironically, Justin, Cole, Ethan, Gifford, and Christina are on their best behavior this week when discussing offensive games over the years. Nothing like a conversation about Splatterhouse, BMX XXX, and Gears of War to bring out the best in people. Send in your questions to simon@horriblenight.com or @TheHorribleShow With video games under fire once again, The Horrible Show cast thought it was time to take a look back on how video games became so “evil.” In our Threesomes of the Week, Cole takes on Scientology and somehow survives. The On the Spot question asks “What has offended you the most in the world of video games” and Gifford is more than over all of the Call of Duty players. The Defend the Offenders conversation kicks off with german cursing and blood following your kids home from the arcade. Justin almost gets kicked off his show in defense of Conker’s Bad Fur Day, while Christina relives the moment she became more than ok with gore in video games. We continue to hammer out the details for our upcoming Horrible All Nighter on Xbox Live, stay tuned for an official announcement soon. Cole concludes the show with an audio hug to Telltale Games for bringing back yet another game from his bizarre childhood. Show Notes Cast: Justin (JDevL), Cole (Colefacekilla), Ethan (Wizardtrain187), Gifford (GiffTor), Christina (Jadetiger CG) Guide: Intro and Threesomes (00:44 – 22:59) On the Spot Question (23:01 – 30:17) Defend the Offenders (30:20 – 1:20:38) The Early Days (32:28 – 43:39) It Looks Real (43:40 – 59:43) Other “Offenders?” (59:53 – 1:08:30) HD Gaming (1:08:33 – 1:20:38) HorribleNight.com Updates (1:20:40 – 1:21:33) Shout Outs (1:21:35 – 1:27:33) Threesomes of the Week: Cole – You Again, Paul Haggis and Scientology, Gears of War Giff – Devil, Pet Domestication, Red Dead Redemption Christina – Back to the Future The Game, Faunts, Origami Ethan – Front Mission Evolved, Cropsey, Rebuild Justin – Lie to Me, Radiohead – The King of Limbs, NBA Jam Games: Gears of War, Red Dead Redemption, Back to the Future: The Game, Front Mission Evolved, SimCity, NBA Jam, Call of Duty, Chronicles of Riddick, Guitar Hero, Tony Hawk, Resident Evil 5, Ninja Gaiden, Tomb Raider, Bulletstorm, Duke Nukem Forever, Wolfenstein 3D, Splatterhouse, DOOM, Mortal Kombat, Postal, Leisure Suit Larry, Night Trap, BMX XXX, Conker’s Bad Fur Day, Grand Theft Auto III, Fight Night Round 3, Madden, Project Gotham Racing, Need For Speed, Burnout, God of War 3, Jurassic Park, King’s Quest, Fables, The Walking Dead, Final Fantasy XIV, Killzone 3 References: Kristen Bell, Battlefield Earth, M. Night Shyamalan, Christopher Lloyd, Jeggings, Dead Mech Podcast, Conker’s Pollinate Video, Cliffy B, Battle: Los Angeles, Alexis Madrigal @alexismadrigal Subscribe to the Horrible Show – New Episodes every Wednesday. RSS iTunes @TheHorribleShow – Twitter Formspring.me/horriblenight Related posts: Five Fight: Games We Suck At – The Horrible Show Live 092811 Game Time for the End Times – The Horrible Show #301 Live Gamecation Worthy – The Horrible Show #306 Live
Gina and Randy break down why you gotta watch Shameless, Elijah tells you why NOT to watch Skins, And Gina makes an interesting purchase at target! Plus the PGPeeps get their voices heard through the magic of email!
Cole, Vanessa and adorable Linda Cardellini ("Freaks and Geeks," "E.R.") talk jeggings, Bieber Fever, Ewe Tube, sex tapes, the American Idol finale, Nancy Grace, Brett Michaels, Top Chef Masters, satellite radio, Snapitude, unicorns, Precious, Scooby Doo, the Burger King from Back to the Future, and the importance of Dead Man On Campus' Guy #2.
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