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In this holiday episode, we ask why Halloween leads to the sexualization of professions such as nursing, firefighting, and, most controversial of all– nuns (nunning? nunnery?). Of course, this leads us back to one of our favorite sources; the circles of sexuality. DOWNLOAD here for free. Truth is, Halloween is just one instance of society writing us all a permission slip to dress however we want, so the question really is– what does it look like to give yourself permission to live your life how you actually want to? We encourage you to look at your personal recipe for a good time (ex. Halloween) and apply it to yourself, your dates, & your free time more often. After all, a recipe is only good if you use it. RESOURCES - The Psychology of Your 20s (H's fav podcast) - Circles of Sexuality Handout FREE - Learn more about the PLISSIT Model - Dr. Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

This episode was originally released on January 20, 2018.  “I'm a 24-year-old woman who is completely and embarrassingly aroused by people who are confined to wheelchairs,” writes a woman who calls herself “Wishing to be Seen.” In her pained letter, she explains the possible origins of her isolating fetish and asks the Sugars for a way out: “I just want to have an orgasm with a real human rather than with my sad self, in my sad bed, sadly watching YouTube videos of women I feel I am objectifying and using.” “Wishing to Be Seen” is plagued by a single, shame-inducing fantasy, which Dr. Ian Kerner terms her “core erotic theme.” Where do our core erotic themes come from? And is it possible to escape their grip? In part two of our Dark Fantasies series, Dr. Kerner returns to help the Sugars answer these questions and delve deeper into the world of sexual fantasy. Dr. Kerner specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. He's also the New York Times best-selling author of “She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.” The Sugars Recommend “The Metal Bowl,” by Miranda July “The Erotic Mind,” by Jack Morin

Ready to unlock the mysteries of anal play and bring some fun into the bedroom? This episode of "Talk Dirty to Me" promises to arm you with everything you need to know. From starting the conversation with your partner to navigating pegging with confidence, our expert guests Aaron Scruggs and Tosin Aoufesso provide actionable advice. We also stress how approaching your first experience as educational can make it far less intimidating. Together, let's break the taboo and explore the depths of pleasure safely and with enthusiasm.Ever wonder about the etiquette of butt stuff? We've got you covered with crucial hygiene tips to keep infections at bay and ensure a pleasurable experience for everyone. Learn why it's essential to avoid cross-contamination and hear our personal stories that highlight the importance of clear communication and enthusiastic consent. Preparation and self-exploration are key, and we recommend resources like Jack Morin's "Anal Pleasure and Health" to help you get started. Let's make sure your exploration is safe, fun, and completely respectful.Curious about enemas and their role in anal play? We're here to bust myths and provide a step-by-step guide to effective and safe usage. From practical advice on minimizing fecal presence to understanding the benefits of condoms for hygiene, we're here to ensure you're well-prepared. We also share personal experiences and discuss the challenges and joys of accommodating different preferences and dynamics in anal sex. Wrap up this episode with us as we express our excitement for future discussions and celebrate the open forum we've created to explore these important topics. Tune in for a fun, informative ride that aims to boost your confidence and your pleasure!Support the Show.Our vampire kink discord is poppin'! It's super sexy up in there. GET INTO IT!Click here to access the Talk Dirty To Me contact form and let us know if you have a kink story, a confession, are an advocate or an enthusiast of a kink that we should discuss, or a health or wellness professional that crosses over into the kink world, etc. Literally anything. Fill it out and submit it!Support Talk Dirty To Me and Little Renegade Films. Your contribution not only helps us improve the quality of our content but also allows us to continue to create new podcasts and film content for you! Make a one-time donation here!

Join us for a fast-moving and fun conversation with Sabitha, Rosara, and Jane as we talk about sexual fantasies as we age. What are sexual fantasies? How are they useful? What's the difference between masturbatory and relational fantasies? Sabitha offered some great resources for our listeners: any of Nancy Friday's books (though they are a bit heteronormative), Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind, and Justin Lehmiller's book, Tell Me What You Want. If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half and want to support our show, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram! As always, thanks for listening!  

Mapping your Peak Erotic Experiences is a powerful practice to mine your personal history for clues to creating a better sex life for your future! The Peak Erotic Experiences Practice comes to us from the late great Dr. Jack Morin, author of The Erotic Mind, who suggests that we use our own Peak Erotic Experiences, […]

Heute sprechen Lenia und Luisa nochmal über ihre Sexfantasien. Natürlich ist hier ein Disclaimer angebracht, denn es sei nochmal ausdrücklich darauf hingewiesen, dass es sich bei den besprochenen Szenarien, um reine Fantasien und keineswegs um Wünsche handelt, die Realität werden sollen (!!!). Zum Start machen Lenia und Luisa nochmal ein kurzes Recap der in der letzten “Sex-Fantasien”-Folge besprochenen Vorstellungen. Heute wollen Lenia und Luisa das ganze Feld noch eingehender erkunden und erzählen sich zunächst von tatsächlich passierten und in Erinnerung gebliebenen Sexerfahrungen. Luisa berichtet dabei von einem geheimen Analsexerlebnis in einem Clubkeller und einem spritzigen Erlebnis im Swingerclub. Lenia bohrt nach und Luisa erzählt noch weiter in der Vergangenheit liegende Erlebnisse: eine Dreier-Story und noch eine Analsex-Story sind das Ergebnis… Lenias „Peak-Experiences“ - also Sexerfahrungen aus der Kategorie “extrem hot und deshalb extrem einprägsam” drehen sich um das Thema verbotene Liebe und spielen am Rand der Monogamie bzw. gehen teilweise auch weit darüber hinaus… Ist es vielleicht gerade das, was Lenia so in Fahrt gebracht hat? Als Inspiration für diese Folge bzw. als Theoretische Stütze dient das Buch “The erotic Mind” von Dr. Jack Morin. Wie er herausfand, sind Anziehung und Hindernis(e) , zumindest in der Theorie, die Zündstoffe sexueller Feuerwerke, die sich ins Hirn einbrennen. Auch eine Komm-Unity Ausgabe darf in dieser Folge nicht fehlen. Vor einigen Folgen hatte Lenia über ihren Traum von Leo di Caprio, Schleim und Wald erzählt. Eine Podcasthörerin, die zufällig auch Escort ist wagt sich an eine Traumdeutung, die ihr selbstredend auch zu hören bekommt… Was ist dran an der Deutung? Luisa und Lenia erläutern es natürlich direkt und ohne Umwege. Danach unterhalten sich Lenia und Luisa noch abschließend darüber, welche Gefühle die Lust auf welche Art und Weise steigern.

Sarah and Robin are exploring fantasies in this penultimate episode of season 3. They break down what constitutes a fantasy with help from the classic guide The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, deconstruct some of their own fantasies, answer the question "does Sarah even fantasize?" and talk through the process of reconstructing fantasies that feel outdated or misaligned with your current erotic self. Robin introduces Sarah to the meaning of Cathexis and how it's different from love and the poem Manic Pixie Dream Girl by Olivia Gatwood, and Sarah introduces Robin to a segment about delightfully gay dolphins. This episode features a vulva from @kokieca and the coining of the term "embodied fantasy"!Make sure to sign up for our email list at www.fuckyeahpod.com We go on hiatus in two weeks and our email list, IG and TT will be the best way to stay up-to-date on news and updates.

In this scintillating episode, join Lauren and Trey as they invite listeners into the intimate realm of their long-term partnership. Delving deep into the dynamics of Longing & Anticipation, Violating Prohibitions, Searching for Power, and Overcoming Ambivalence, this episode unveils the secrets behind their enduring passion by exploring the profound influence of Jack Morin's Four Cornerstones of Eroticism. Lauren and Trey share their personal journey, discussing how these pillars of emotional intimacy, communication, novelty, and vulnerability have played pivotal roles in sustaining the fiery spark in their relationship. Through candid anecdotes and heartfelt conversations, they offer a raw and authentic portrayal of how they navigate the complexities of maintaining desire over the course of their partnership. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the importance of emotional connection in fostering a strong foundation for intimacy. Lauren and Trey share their communication strategies, highlighting the significance of open dialogue in understanding each other's needs and desires. The exploration of novelty brings a fresh perspective to keeping the desire (to want) alive, whether through spontaneous adventures or creative endeavors that add excitement to their shared experiences. Moreover, vulnerability takes center stage as the duo delves into the power of authenticity in the bedroom and beyond. By sharing their own vulnerable fantasies and the origins of their personal turn-ons, Lauren and Trey provide a roadmap for listeners to cultivate a deeper connection with their partners, fostering an environment of trust and acceptance. Get ready for an episode that goes beyond the surface of romance, offering practical tips and heartfelt stories that listeners can relate to. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or navigating the exciting world of new connections, this episode promises to inspire and ignite the flames of passion in your own journey of love. If you would like to learn more about the Four Cornerstones of Eroticism, click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education in the new year? Check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock Facts: Martial Rape was overturned in 1975 The Commonwealth of VA repealed the crime of fornication, i.e., voluntary sexual intercourse by an unmarried person, punishable under current law as a Class 4 misdemeanor in March of 2020! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thepartnershippodcast/support

Episode 54 is a follow-up to Episode 53! Make sure you listen to that HERE. Trey and Lauren dive right into the concept of anxiety as a form of sexual arousal. This is directly connected to Jack Morin's Erotic Equation: ATTRACTION + OBSTACLE = EXCITEMENT. Lauren talks about how it turns her on to have sex when other people are somewhere in the house. Trey surprises her by sharing that the spicy sexual encounters they have in public spaces are because SHE is aroused by the sneakiness, NOT because it is enticing to him. This shocks her and is precisely why we should have these conversations with our partners! Trey explores the sexual benefits of creating a life that allows him the freedom and space to be turned on. He expounds on why he has eliminated porn this week to allow more space for sexual arousal. Lauren smiles, and at minute 9:58 says her favorite phrase, “We turn ourselves on.” Our desire for our sexual partners has so little to do with them and so much to do with us! Trey talks about protecting Lauren's space to come into her sexual body and Lauren segways into the concept of desirability. She shares that it's important to cultivate a life that makes us FEEL DESIRABLE - even our friendships and the types of fun we have outside of the home affect the sex we have. She shares that she gets really turned on thinking about Trey's choice to begin therapy and the meditation practices he makes time for daily. At minute 16:15 they unpack their game changing practice of Nightly Check-Ins that includes just two simple questions. “Any ouches today? What brought you joy today?” This modality has given them so many new tools! Lauren was never given permission to have opinions of her own, and this tool of sharing an “ouch” has given her a new and playful tool to express her own voice and thoughts. Trey wants her to share her opinions and this gives her a way to do so! No more appealing here. Watch at minute 24:00 as Trey directly addresses partners whose first instinct is to say things like, “stop being ridiculous.” He questions traditional households where men are in charge simply because of their gender. They close out Episode 54 discussing the 2023 “Peace on Earth” Christmas Card trend. Lauren shares why she feels this joke is harmful and disgusting. Trey shares how jokes like this don't even deserve our time or opinions. If you would like to learn more about sexual turn-ons and turn-offs arousal in your partnership, click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education in the new year? Check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock ⁠ Want to make your own podcast? We cannot recommend Spotify for Podcasters enough. Visit⁠ https://podcasters.spotify.com/ to launch your podcast today. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thepartnershippodcast/support

Welcome to episode 44 where Lauren and Trey talk about their journey into and through Trey's vasectomy! This episode was recorded just DAYS after he was snipped and while the whole experience is still VERY fresh in his mind!  Lauren opens storytime reminding the audience about her scare over the summer with a uterine fibroid. It was at that point that Trey decided to find a urologist and get on the books! At minute 8:57 Lauren asks Trey to tell the story of his initial consult! He shares that he seriously felt like he was in middle school health class!  At minute 15:00 Trey launches into his experience of the day of surgery and how he felt far from sexual! Then at minute 18:18 Trey gets wheeled back to have his vasectomy!! Trey gives his play-by-play of the surgery which is great and short and sweet, then, at minute 21:25, Lauren comes behind and gives the much more colorful and accurate version! ;)  Trey shares how he felt “meek” in the hospital gown, which is totally a thing! At minute 29:00 Lauren shares one of her favorite moments all regarding “scrotal wear!” Lauren asks all about recovery at minute 33:00 including arousal and desire and at minute 34:00 Trey shares that he is, “afraid to come.” Lauren shares at minute 39:00 how this whole thing has created such a large obstacle to sex and has made her so very horny!! Jack Morin's Erotic Equation, ATTRACTION + OBSTACLE = EXCITEMENT is on display!! If you would like to learn more about alternate forms of birth control and how to discuss them with your partner, click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education in the new year? Check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock  ⁠ Want to make your own podcast? We cannot recommend Spotify for Podcasters enough. Visit⁠ https://podcasters.spotify.com/ to launch your podcast today. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thepartnershippodcast/support

Leola explores the concept of sexual shadow and how it relates to core erotic themes. The episode is part of a larger theme within the Higher Love Club, an online community membership program focused on personal growth and deepening connections. She explains that shadow work involves recognizing and integrating the undesirable qualities within ourselves, including those related to our sexuality. The core erotic themes, developed by sex therapist Dr. Jack Morin, are discussed as a way to understand and embrace our deepest desires without shame or guilt. The four corners of eroticism are identified as longing and anticipation, violating prohibitions, searching for power, and overcoming ambivalence. Lastly, she encourages listeners to explore their own core erotic themes and fantasies and to create a safe space for expressing and integrating these desires.Ready for a Higher Love? Join our community today.Use code LEOLA for 15% off at WAANDS.com.Let's connect IRL. Check out all upcoming events and offerings here.Find and follow Leola...www.talktantratome.comIG: @talktantratomeTwitter: @talktantratome

Welcome to another exciting episode of Ask a Sex Therapist, the podcast that's here to change the way you look at sex. I'm your host, Heather Shannon, and I am thrilled to dive into another Q&A session with all of you amazing listeners. Today, we have some intriguing questions to explore, covering topics like fetishes, self-discovery, and embracing our desires. But before we get started, I want to take a moment to express my gratitude for the wonderful reviews and support we've been receiving. Your kind words and feedback mean the world to me. In fact, I'll be reading out a review later in this episode that truly touched me. Plus, we're only a few ratings away from hitting 100 on Apple Podcasts, so don't forget to show your love by giving us a five-star rating. Now, let's jump into these thought-provoking questions and discover the empowering insights they hold. Stay tuned! Here are some highlights you can expect:- Discussion of the importance of open conversations about sex and body exploration- Acknowledgment of the role of the podcast in promoting self-care and spirituality- Gratitude for listener reviews and a request for more ratings- Introduction to the listener Q&A segment- Addressing a question about a panty fetish in a male listener- Encouragement to explore and understand personal thoughts and feelings about the fetish- Suggesting positive and self-empowering interpretations and perspectives- Discussing the potential reasons behind the fetish and its connection to attraction and exploration of femininity- Highlighting the importance of being comfortable with oneself and being able to share the fetish with a partner in the future- Emphasizing that there is nothing wrong or abnormal about having a fetish- Recommendation of a book, "The Erotic Mind" by Jack Morin, for further exploration of eroticism and sexual desiresTimestamps:[00:00:02] Get comfortable with yourself to improve relationships.[00:03:04] Is it okay to be this way?[00:08:12] Explore fetishes, communicate desires with partner.[00:12:11] Explain sex's importance, discover compatibility, improve relationship.[00:14:43] Querying sexual orientation, society's influence, and attraction.[00:19:45] Focus on partner, be curious, show care.[00:20:49] Sexual options are plentiful; you are more.EPISODE LINKSWORK WITH HEATHER:Apply for a no-pressure $1 discovery call to learn about Heather's 3-month “Intimacy Infusion” coaching program - https://heathershannon.co/video-page/ LET'S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website - https://HeatherShannon.co Heather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist Join Heather's free “Ask A Sex Therapist” Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1552153898553717 Heather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHeUNWJIkOPSK6-Bwvf0EOw SIMILARLY AWESOME EPISODES:Liked the episode? Here's a few more episodes of Ask A Sex Therapist that you'll enjoy:Episode 27 - Listener Q & A - https://pod.fo/e/17fd37 Episode 19 -...

In this solo episode, Kelly shares her analysis of the book she recently read — The Erotic Mind by Dr. Jack Morin. She discusses the importance of exploring our sexuality and sexual fantasies in the journey of self-reclamation. She dives deep into how childhood experiences and societal conditioning can disconnect us from our vital force and lead to victim consciousness. By bringing awareness to our sexual desires, fantasies, and emotional aphrodisiacs, we can reclaim our power of choice, heal past wounds, and experience a more fulfilling and integrated life.Today on Reclamation Radio:The development of victim consciousness in our childhoodSocietal conditioning on our sexualityExploring desires and fantasies reclaims our sense of selfThe importance of emotional aphrodisiacs in cultivating a fulfilling lifeHealing past wounds and reclaiming power through sexualityConnect with Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmd Website: kellybroganmd.comBook: A Mind of Your OwnCheckout the Vital Life Project hereJoin Kelly live in Miami, FL Nov 3-5 at her weekend event, Audacious Embodiment.This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

What is the “erotic equation”? We talk about the idea, first articulated by Jack Morin in his book The Erotic Mind, that eroticism needs obstacles to be hot. Then we revisit the topic of one of our most popular episodes, “My Wife Found Out I Cross-Dress. Help!” One of our listeners commented on the episode from the wife's point of view, and we talk about her situation. What do you think? Go to https://ctin7.com, and scroll down to the “Submit a Question” button. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer's newsletter right from our homepage. When you sign up for Dr. Chalmer's newsletter (you can do it right from our podcast website, https://ctin7.com), you'll get a link for a free download of Dr. Chalmer's booklet Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life. You can also get the book on Amazon for $2.99. But why do that when you can get it for free? You can find out more about Dr. Chalmer's new book, It's Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong, at https://ctin7.com/books.

Do you see your partner as a good co-parent, a long time friend, a roommate, or anything but an attractive, sexual being? This week, I talk about what happens when the spark starts fading within a relationship. I invite you to rethink how attraction is built, to avoid falling into that kind of rut that says attraction is only physical, and explore new ways of feeling attracted and connected with your significant other. In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why it's easy to lose attraction in a long-term relationshipA three-step plan to reignite or create the sexy spark in any relationshipHow to avoid looking at attraction not only as a physical thingThe importance of feeling sexy for yourselfHow being intentional and communicating what turns you on can improve your sex lifeWhy sharing your sexual energy is crucial to create a sexual sparkThe cornerstones of eroticism and how can they change your relationshipLosing interest in your partner sexually or feeling disconnected from them is expected in long-term relationships. But that doesn't mean it can't be prevented before it happens or reversed when it does. Resources:Book: Jack Morin - The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment/dp/0060984287 FREE DIRTY TALK GUIDECURIOUS ABOUT WORKING WITH ME?Book a discovery call ⤵️https://HeatherShannon.co/video-pageLET'S CONNECT! FIND ME HERE ⤵️:WebsiteInstagramJoin the free “Ask A Sex Therapist” Facebook GroupTwitterYouTube(Check out the video version of this podcast!)LinkedInThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Este sexualitatea un subiect rușinos sau una dintre cele mai naturale și necesar de discutat teme? Indiferent de sex și gen, mulți dintre noi trăiesc multă rușine în jurul propriei sexualități. Ne simțim inconfortabil în fața provocării de a ne exprima nevoile sau dorințele și ne conformăm unei mulțimi de norme culturale care ne spun cât, cum, când și unde este acceptabil să fim ființe sexuale. Cum facem, însă, să dezvoltăm o relație cu propria sexualitate care să contribuie la o viață mai împlinită și cu mai multă satisfacție? Vorbim astăzi cu Cristina Flueraș, psiholog și psihoterapeut și încercăm să găsim răspuns acestor întrebări și multor altora Resurse: 1. Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel, psihoterapeut, carte, 2004 2. Rethinking Infidelity, Esther Perel, psihoterapeut, carte, 2017 3. Body to Body Intimacy, Stella Resnick, psiholog clinician, carte 2012 4. The Heart of Desire, Stella Resnick, psiholog clinician, carte, 2012 5. Beyond My Control, Nancy Friday, autor, carte, 2009 6. The Erotic Mind, Jack Morin, autor, 1996

Today on Life is a Festival in a talk recorded live at Burning Man, I share my personal kink journey and how I learned to alchemize adolescent sexual shame through the archetype of “Daddy.” I was interviewed by the brilliant Chloe Macintosh, founder of the sexual wellness app, Kama, who will be a guest on a forthcoming episode. On the show we discuss where kinks come from and how accepting, embracing, and embodying them can be healing for you and your lovers. We discuss creating safe containers in specific experiences and overall relationship dynamics. Finally we end with questions and a playful Daddy embodiment practice. Kink, like psychedelics and Burning Man itself, can be a powerful transformational technology, if used wisely. Links Life is a Festival #112 “Sex and Shamanic Shadow Hunting” https://www.eamonarmstrong.com/lifeisafestival/ista Life is a Festival #119 “I Kink, Therefore I Am: The Art of Liberating Desire”: https://www.eamonarmstrong.com/lifeisafestival/cat-meyer The Erotic Blueprint: https://missjaiya.com/ BDSMtest.org “The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment” by Jack Morin: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment/dp/0060984287 Ask a Sub: https://www.askasub.com/ Timestamps :10 - Where do kinks come from :21 - How expressing and integrating kinks leads to healing :27 - How your kinks can be healing for your lover :35 - How embodying my kinks has influenced my life beyond my sexuality :42 - Safe words and the stoplight system :46 - Audience questions about solving for unconscious material, shame, and creating a safe container 1:00 - Daddy Embodiment practice

Ep 134: Girl's Happy Hour Maturbation Talk with Mal Harrison & Naked Ruan to Celebrate 200K downloads. Per the poll I did on Twitter for how to celebrate 200K downloads of the podcast, the winning choice was I do the podcast naked…so I did! And the other top winner was the topic of masturbation, so sexologist Mal Harrison and I did just that as we sipped on Sauvignon Blanc wine, from across the country. It was such an amazing podcast happy hour chat! It was such fun! I had a blast! As we sipped our wine, we talked about our own experiences with masturbation, how it's helpful for all people, and we even talked about sex toys that I love (including the grinding toy The Ruby Glow and The Ruby Glow Blush links to them below). Mal and I talked about how sex toys can also be used to stimulate people with penises and how they are never a threat to a couple's sex life, but an enhancement that can bring pleasure to both partners. We talked about road head, sex ed, and the sexologist Jack Morin with his focus on the erotic mind, plus his amazing study and book. We touched on masturbation in nature! Oh hell yes and getting the full 360-degree experience! We all want that! We talked about the book Chalet of Desire by my author and friend Hazel Porter. I learned from Mal about The Great Wall of Vagina and the Rule of Thumb Measure, which is a measurement that can determine if a woman can have an orgasm via penetrative sex or if clit stimulation is required. Well, it can still happen if the angle is right for the vulva owner. Angles matter! Have a listen to our fun chat that was spurred on by my desire to do something fun for reaching 200K downloads of the podcast, and thank you for listening!To connect with Mal and see her amazing animation of the erect internal clitoris and penetration, click here: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/internal-clitoris/ and here: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/the-clit-disco/Find out more here: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/https://www.malharrison.com/post/getting-f-cked-in-the-misinformation-age-we-shall-overcumhttp://malharrison.com/Instagram: http://instagram.com/MelodiousMsMThe sex toys we talked about:The Ruby Glow (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3tPIwvwThe Ruby Glow Blush https://www.therubyglow.com/The Book we talked about Chalet of Desire by Hazel Porter (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3JNikHnConnect with Ruan for erotica books, erotic audiobooks, social media, website, and more here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowHi I'm Ruan!Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy!On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.love ya,RuanCheck out my latest erotica (affiliate): Magic In Her Kisses https://amzn.to/3JTlhGzNew novella series erotic rom-com The Kitchen Sex Challenge (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3Dr0szuSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow)

"In other words, it's clear that people love moms. But why? "The classic take is the Freudian one," says Peter Kanaris, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist who has been practicing for 35 years. "The child seeks to connect sexually with the opposite-sex parent—so the male child [seeks to connect] with the mother. What prevents us from seeking the mother is the fear of castration by the father. The [MILF] fantasy could be looked at, in a way, as conquering the castration anxiety—saying, 'I'm really going for the mother figure. Another theory, Kanaris says, comes from the sex therapist Jack Morin, whose book The Erotic Mind established the concept of an individual's "core erotic themes." This is the idea that "for unknown reasons we develop a primary core sexual theme that will really act as a substantial turn-on throughout much of our lives," Kanaris says. An interest in moms might be a "primordial" core erotic theme for some people." --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support

Reddy. What a character. And wise. Our paths crossed on Twitter, which led him to ask if I wanted to do a Racket with him on tankespjärn. Sure, I said, as I am wont to do, finding a calendly-slot later that evening. We hooked up, had a blast talking and doing that Racket, so before ending out, I don't know, in total 30 minute conversation, I'd asked him if he wanted one of the slots for season two of meandering conversations. He said Sure, as he is wont to do, and not even twenty-four hours after first contact, we were recording this conversation. Reddy is a whirlwind, high energy, with a lively mind and lots of tankespjärn to share, and I cannot wait to speak to him again. However, first things first. You could say we started a relationship on that Thursday when we first hooked up on Twitter. But Reddy would name it otherwise. He actually dislikes the word relationship, pointing to its transactional vibe: ”A ship is something that takes someone from point A to point B and that's such a finite journey. Jump on here and jump off there. End of story.” Relate on the other hand has him waxing lyrical: ”Relating is a verb, relate is like present continuous […] When I say I'm relating, it's something I'm doing, I denote action. But the moment I use the word in my head, 'relationship' feels like a noun, something that's just there. It's not something that requires my input. Because relate and relating are action-oriented words that require me to be doing something, to be connecting, to be relating. Where as a relationship just feels like I'm in it. I don't have to do anything. The ship's going to take me when it's going to go. And I kind of use it as an excuse to relinquish responsibility.” Words matter. And… so does the body. Which is actually where we spend the better part of these two hours of relating. On pandiculation (don't know what that is? Imagine a cat getting up from having taken a nap, slowly stretching their entire body? That's pandiculation. When you wake in the morning, stretch your arms above your head and yawn? That's pandiculation.), walking barefoot, backwards, on all fours… you name it, we go there! I promise there's plenty of tankespjärn for you in this one! Links: Reddy on Twitter (and me on Twitter) Our first conversation, a 9-minute Racket Pseudonymous economy The Erotic Mind, Jack Morin, Ph.D Matthew & Inma, meet them both in episode 28 Dain Heer, Embodiment Merlin Sheldrake, Entangled life The Tankespjärn Patroon-community Tankespjärn monthly Zoom-call on Gifting

I'm so excited for you to listen to this episode as I speak with my incredible guest, Tamica Wilder. We share a conversation that isn't typically had in business circles, one that is potentially confronting yet so powerful and relevant to us all. Also known as the Orgasmic Mamma, Tamica is a Melbourne based somatic sex coach and multi-qualified therapist who has a deep passion for teaching humans to reattune to the wisdom of their bodies while giving full permission to shamelessly prioritise pleasure and play. In this episode, we talk about Tamica's new book, Wild Honey, which is about having full access to the spectrum of who we are as humans, unleashing all that is untamed within us as well as the soft and gentle side. Tamica talks about the importance of living from deep authenticity, breaking open patterns of shame and guilt associated with sexuality and how this translates into the way we show up in all areas of life and business. Tamica talks about boundaries, owning our erotic bodies and what it looks like when women haven't truly grounded in this. Tamica shares some advice for how to get started on the journey and so much more. This really is a conversation worth listening to and I hope will spark a desire to step into the core of who you really are as a fulfilled, playful and creative business owner.   LINKS: Website: https://www.theorgasmicmama.com/ Instagram: @theorgasmicmama Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOhMama Book: Wild Honey Erotic Embodiment Immerson: https://www.theorgasmicmama.com/eroticembodimentimmersion Books mentioned: Women Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes Untrue by Wednesday Martin Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin

Patrick is a dear friend and a sexological body worker. What is a sexological body worker you ask? Tune in to find out!We cover such juicy topics as the four corner stones of eroticism, anal massage, slowing down, orgies, making love to yourself, my shamanic horse riding journey, sequencing, trance sex and peek pleasure ceilings. Such a fun conversation!Mentions in the episode;The Institute of Somatic Sexology - https://instituteofsomaticsexology.com/Books - The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin,Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and consensual nonmonogamy by Jessica FernErotic Blueprint Test can be found @ https://missjaiya.com/Orgasmic Yoga - join the Orgasmic Yoga Tribe group on face book or email 4eroticexplorers@gmail.comAdult Swingers Club - CCK's http://www.cck.co.nz/index.htmlTahlia Brand Http://www.tahliabrand.comBetty Martins waking the hands video can be found here https://youtu.be/sU75gf6hsDYContact Patrick: patrickbellett@gmail.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/nude/donations

Resources mentioned: FetLife: http://www.fetlife.com (www.fetlife.com)  Sacred Kink by Lee Harrington: http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7646576-sacred-kink (www.goodreads.com/book/show/7646576-sacred-kink) The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin: http://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/174777.The_Erotic_Mind (www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/174777.The_Erotic_Mind) Tantric Immersion Course: underline.world  Connect with Rina Trevi: Visit her website: http://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com (www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com)  Follow her on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi (www.instagram.com/rina_trevi) Connect with Chris and Training Camp for the Soul: Follow Chris on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/ChrisMarhefka (www.instagram.com/ChrisMarhefka)  Follow Training Camp for the Soul on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/trainingcampforthesoul (www.instagram.com/trainingcampforthesoul) 

This week, the girlies consult Jack Morin's iconic book The Erotic Mind in order to Unlock our Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment (easy!) We discuss fantasies, peak experiences, and the necessity of obstacles and distance in a truly erotic life. Plus, we went to Olive Garden last night so you know we're feeling all hot n bothered (digestively)! Buy tickets to our live show 7/30! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/waxed-and-vaxxed-a-receipts-x-ok-stupid-live-podcast-recording-tickets-156092778703?aff=odwdwdspacecraft

Has your porn use ever felt like a problem? Where's the line between “often” and “addiction”? Learn to differentiate between the two in this ep as Karen speaks with a sex therapist and a somatic sex educator. They talk about shame, pathologized behaviors, and compassion toward ourselves when we feel out of control. In this episode:Corinne Diachuk - Yoga therapist & somatic sex educatorHelen Wyatt - Relationship & sex therapistErotic Creativity podcast episodeJoseph Kramer's Porn YogaLoving the show? Feeling generous? You can always leave a tip!April bonus for our Afterglow club members on Patreon! This month, all members (new and established) will receive a 25% discount off Corinne Diachuk's "Yoga for Sexual Happiness" video course. Experience some of the liberation that can happen when we commit to our pleasure through integrating body, breath, and spirit. Available to all member levels, starting at $5 a month! Learn more about the courseAdd to your sexual library -- you never know what you might discover. Find books mentioned on the pod, like Jack Morin's book The Erotic Mind, on our affiliate Bookshop page. Help independent booksellers and W&S!Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and TwitterLike the show? Leave a rating and review on your podcast app!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/wildandsublime)

How do we discover what turns us on? Does the erotic come from taboo, longing, surprise? How can we get more of it to juice our relationships and fantasies? Panelists offer tips to cultivate more eroticism in our lives. Plus host Karen Yates' Sermon on the Pubic Mound on sex positivity.In this episode:Jera Brown - sex writerPeter - kinkster and coach (MksThingsHappin on FetLife)Elmo Painter - sex-positive psychotherapistErotic Creativy podcast episodeAnything That Moves podcast episodeJuly 2019 live showWant more sexy stuff? Join our monthly membership club The Afterglow for episode creator notes, Wild & Sublime swag, monthly Q&As, and an ever-evolving buffet of sex-positive goodness… Or leave a tip!Books in this episode:Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns - Philip MillerEros the Bittersweet: An Essay - Anne CarsonThe Erotic Mind - Jack MorinFind them all on our affiliate Bookshop page. Help independent booksellers and W&S!Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and TwitterLike the show? Leave a rating and review on your podcast app!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/wildandsublime)

In this episode, Elaine Yonge, ISTA Lead Facilitator, explains sexual styles and discusses the four erotic themes: 1. Longing and anticipation, 2. Violating prohibitions, 3. Searching for power, and 4. Overcoming ambivalence. Referring to the brilliant book The Erotic Mind by psychologist Jack Morin, Elaine says understanding our erotic themes supports mind-expanding, heart-opening and soul-renewing sexual life. It's big!In this episode:Learn how erotic themes and sexual styles affect sexual pleasure, power and growth Begin to identify your erotic themes and sexual stylesUnderstand relationship dynamics in the context of matched or clashing themes and stylesHow intention changes EVERYTHING when it comes to sexHow to recognise the signs of trauma in sexual energy and support healingTips for practitioners, facilitators, and coaches working in the field of sexualityReleasing shame around emotion and sexThe interrelationship between emotional honesty and understanding one's sexual energy. If you liked this episode, please leave a rating and review! To find out more about ISTA trainings or to work with our faculty, see www.ista.life, or find us on social, FB: ista.life and IG:@ista_tribe

#177: Gentlemen, this is a powerful episode for you to explore the perspective of women and the impacts that secretive porn use has on them. The 3 big questions women ask me about porn and men are: Are all men addicted to porn? Why does he need porn when he has me? Is there something wrong with me if he desires porn more than me? I break down those three questions after reading a raw and painful letter from a woman listener who has recently discovered her partner’s secret world of porn habits.   The Facebook Group for Men:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheGreatManWithin That Sex Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thekaleidoscope The Erotic Mind by Dr. Jack Morin:  https://smile.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment/dp/0060984287/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+erotic+mind&qid=1603308283&sr=8-1  

Are you stuck in a sex rut? Karen talks with three knowledgeable guests from different corners of the sex-positive world about erotic creativity and how to sustain it. Their juicy in-depth conversation ranges from roleplay and kink to tantra and mindfulness. Guests:Corinne Diachuk is an advanced teacher of Therapeutic Yoga, a somatic sex educator,  and a faculty member at the Institute for the Study of Somatic EducationGoddess Erica is a Sexual Empowerment Coach, Orgasmic Birth Doula, and DominatrixBrandon Hunter-Haydon (a veteran guest on our live shows) is a psychotherapist, group facilitator, and sexual health advocateLinks:NewCity interview with Karen YatesInstitute for the Study of Somatic EducationThe Erotic Mind by Jack MorinLove the show? Support our work by making a one-time contribution! Show your love Or support us monthly and get fun benefits. Memberships start at $5/month. Join the club Purchase Jack Morin's The Erotic Mind (along with all the books mentioned on the pod!) on Bookshop and you'll be supporting independent booksellers AND Wild & Sublime! Browse our shelves What's true in sex is true in podcasting: feedback makes us better! Please leave a rating or review on your podcast app and let us know how you like it.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/wildandsublime)

Segundo a autora, o amor busca proximidade, mas o desejo precisa de distância. "Para alguns, amor e desejo são partes inseparáveis de um todo maior, ao passo que, para outros, não têm ligação alguma. Quase todos nós, porém expressamos nosso erotismo nas áreas cinzentas onde o amor e o desejo se relacionam e entram em conflito. -Jack Morin, em The Erotic Mind. Neste episódio falamos sobre a construção da nossa noção de intimidade, e como isso vai aparecendo nas nossas relações afetivas. Falamos sobre hipóteses e casos clínicos que falam sobre a diminuição de desejo, e nossa noção de equilíbrio frente ao paradoxo da proximidade e distancia. Esther propõe o conceito de inteligencia erótica, para que possamos perceber as flutuações presentes no relacionamento e como ir percebendo a evolução do relacionamento e os movimentos a serem feitos (distancia e proximidade), para assegurar o equilíbrio e a evolução dos parceiros dentro da relação. Para apoiar este projeto através do Apoia.se, acesse o link https://apoia.se/brasileiraspelomundo Para apoiar este projeto através do Patreon, acesse o link https://www.patreon.com/brasileiraspelomundo?fan_landing=true Para saber mais sobre meu trabalho acesse nathieustaquio.com Obrigada pelo apoio! _________________________________________________________________________________________ Créditos: Abertura e encerramento "Vivo na Maré" por Dom La Nena, gravado ao vivo em This Is The Modern World With Trouble (https://wfmu.org/playlists/LM) em 02-04-2015. Vírgula "Awakenings" por Ketsa / Album: Above and Bellow (https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Ketsa/Above_and_Below/Awakenings_1766) em 31-08-2019

On Monday, we gave you an intro to Tantra with a podcast titled:   Tantra 101: A Man’s Intro Guide (feat. Krystal Tantric Yogi).   Today, we’re continuing the inner work on sexuality by digging into and unleashing your best sexual self.   Here are 3 questions from The Erotic Mind by Dr. Jack Morin, perhaps the most important book on sexuality I’ve read to date:   You’re not aroused…what would you call upon to most likely arouse you?   Think back to your earliest sexual memory…what were the circumstances surrounding this experience of arousal, what did you learn, and what did you carry with you?   What are your peak sexual experiences?   “[Abraham] Maslow saw peak sexual experiences as crucial sources of clean and uncontaminated data about who we are and might become.” Jack Morin, The Erotic Mind   A Great Man creates environments where he and those he cares about can thrive.   That also goes for sexual environments.   In today’s episode, I unpack my own answers to these questions and reveal how these 3 questions have opened new doors of sexual exploration and pleasure.   -DQ   PS – Don’t forget to follow our Tantra expert from Monday’s episode:   Follow @Krystal_TantricYogi

William Shakespeare, Colleen Hoover, Yokio Mishima, and Jack Morin. What do all of these fine people have in common? Well, I guess that only glue that sticks these folks together is that they all wrote something at some point in their lives. Two of them might be remotely historically important in some way and the other two well who the hell knows. Also by this point, Durgertime has hit over 1,000 subscribers on his YouTube channel! Huge congrats to him on that achievement! I don't know what else to write so here are some lines from the episode that I thought were funny. "Ron Jeremy reading Romeo and Juliet" "A Midsummer's Night Dickin'" "I've got nothing on this topic" "That's a SHIT reason!" "Let's make History sexy!" Follow us on our Social Media: Twitter @StruggleCity3 https://twitter.com/StruggleCity3 Instagram @struggle_city3 https://www.instagram.com/struggle_city3/?hl=en Facebook Struggle City https://www.facebook.com/strugglecity3/ YouTube Struggle City https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-2P2_a0sgxXhOx8aMZyQEw/featured TeeSpring Struggle City Outlet https://teespring.com/stores/struggle-city-outlet --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/struggle-city/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/struggle-city/support

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Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed relationship therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She is the founder of SexLoveYoga.com, an online platform integrating various schools of thought including science, tantra, body movement, and psychology designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. As an expert and published researcher on the topic of sexual health, Dr. Cat sees clients in her private practice office in Beverly Hills and leads workshops, lectures, and retreats internationally. Dr. Cat is the host of the podcast, Eat.Play.Sex, co-founder of Un.done women's sensual yoga experience, founder of LOVE.body online program for women, co-creator of Goddess Celebration, and author of the blog SexLoveYoga. To learn more about her work, visit her at her website or Instagram. The books mentioned during our discussion are The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous, and Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (which I HIGHLY recommend, and is one of my 75 recommended books. Click ehre for the rest.). Dr Cat also has a few free opt-in Ebooks: Empowering ourselves + our partners with fantasy and Tips on how to have better conversations about sex. Her various website and social media links are: Facebook: @SexLoveYogawithDrCat YouTube: SexLoveYoga Twitter: @drcatrawrs Undoneyoga.com GoddessCelebration.org __________________________________________________ Follow me on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs Sign up for my weekly newsletter! Each week, I share a personal story as well as my favorite books, tunes, articles, and ideas. Click here: http://eepurl.com/T0l91. It's easy and takes five seconds. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs/message

Episode 81 Ask Lindsey with Tim Norton http://www.timnortontherapy.com http://www.timnortontherapy.com/hardconversationspodcast Dr. Doe and Tim Norton (timnortontherapy.com) talk erectile issues, peter tingle, sex therapy and the mind/body relationship of erections. Tim's favorite sex tip: Lube, use it, it’s great. Book mentioned: “The Courage to Heal” https://www.amazon.com/Courage-Heal-Workbook-Survivors-Sexual/dp/0060964375 SEXtra credit: do the worksheet at end of the book “The Erotic Mind” by Jack Morin, outlining your peak erotic experiences. https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment/dp/0060984287#customerReviews Thank you dear listeners, please support this podcast on https://www.patreon.com/sexplanations Check out sexplanations channel on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/sexplanations

In This Episode We Talk About: Pleasure, exploring instead of achieving, enjoying the process, knowing ourselves as sexual beings, brutal honest communication with partners, porn being a mirror into our psyche, the spectrum of sexuality, different cultures of sexuality, kink, eroticism, respecting and honoring the seasons of your sexuality, her upcoming book, theory of leftover sex, pleasure goals for 2020  Resources: Learn more: The Yoni Empire and Onna Lifestyle  Instagram: @the_yoni_empire Magical tools we reference in this episode: The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Onna Lifestyle, Dr.David Schnarch, Dating a Capricorn  Guest Bio: Elena Rossi is a women's Orgasm Coach, Sex Educator, pleasure toy designer, full-time writer and lover of all things pleasure-related. Sensual connoisseur at heart, Elena has a no-bullshit approach to sexual wellbeing. She writes shamelessly about eroticism, supporting women with overcoming sexual challenges and tapping into their pleasure potential.   A passionate entrepreneur, Elena holds a Masters Degree in Leadership and has been creating successful wellness business concepts since 2011. She facilitates 1:1 coaching sessions and runs lectures all over the world.  She collaborates with the world's leading sexuality experts, creating top quality online content. Based in Amsterdam, Elena spends her days (mostly procrastinating), drinking coffee, self-pleasuring, trail running, supporting women in their sexual expansion journeys and working on her book series. She enjoys long walks to the fridge, sweaty Crossfit workouts and when ice-cream melts all over her hands. Elena is also famous for constantly fingering flowers on Instagram.

What makes the ins and outs of sexuality so hard to talk aboout?  It turns out, if couples do talk about sex, the conversation is often mostly about frequency. However, what is missing are the zillion of other thoughts and feelings we have about intimacy (or lack there of), desire (or lack thereof), fantasies (or lack thereof), pleasure (or lack therefo) and, oh yeah, the mechanics of sex as well.   But don’t sweat it, in this episode Therapist Uncensored co-host Dr. Ann Kelley joins guest Dr. Susan Ansorge to talk about talking about sex.   Learn to overcome the difficulties of opening up to yourself and your sexual partner about these very personal and understandably anxiety-filled conversations. Dr. Susan Ansorge is a practicing psychologist in Austin, TX. Her interest, training and experience in working with sexual issues began during her tenure as a staff psychologist at the UT Counseling and Mental Health Center, and has continued through her 17 years of private practice. Dr. Ansorge was also member of the Austin Women’s Psychotherapy Project, bringing leaders in the field of gender-aware Psychotherapy to the Austin area, as well as presenting locally and nationally on topics in the areas of gender and sexuality as they relate to psychotherapy. Her written work has appeared in the National Center for PTSD Quarterly. 0:00-10:00 Introduction General difficulties in discussing sex with your partner Learning to talk about talking about sex Desire discrepancy and more complicated questions/conversations about sex The difficulty in beginning a discussion that you are afraid might be hurtful to your partner   10:00-20:00 How best to get dialogue going with your partner about desires and likes/dislikes When and where is the right place and time for the right conversation about your shared sex life? How sex is initiated and finding a compatible middle ground Desires and fantasies can often be considered taboo, but fantasies can also be a gold mine of communication Difference in fantasies between men and women, women of different ages   20:00-30:00 The element of novelty in women’s fantasies and element of pleasing their partner in men’s fantasies Part of women’s fantasies is being desired Caretaking and nurturing is counterintuitive to sexual narcissism Avoiding arousal/desire censorship   30:00-40:00 How to bring up talking about sex to one’s partner and using available resources Appreciating one’s partners perspective just like in any communication setting Wrap up and outro   Resources Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641) by Esther Perel, former guest on our show. The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment  (https://www.harpercollins.com/9780060984281/the-erotic-mind/) by Jack Morin  Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship (https://www.amazon.com/Tired-Womans-Guide-Passionate-Sex/dp/1605501077)  by Laurie B. Mintz   Come as You Are (https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090)  by Emily Nagosaki We appreciate our sponsor TheraNest! Our show is not just for mental health professionals AT ALL, but if you are a mental health professional, you will appreciate our sponsor as well! Most of us do not want to spend our time on the business aspect of our practice. (https://www.theranest.com/TherapistUncensored?utm_source=tu&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=july-2018) . Please click above and check it out. Want to support this work and stay in touch?The best way to stay in touch right now is to  join our Facebook page (click here) (https://www.facebook.com/austinshrinks/)... Support this podcast

Before we go straight to our conversation, I would like to remind everyone that Adam and Eve are offering FREE SHIPPING plus 50% OFF to the Intimate Lifestyle listeners. Use the exclusive coupon code SEXTALKS at checkout when you shop at adamandeve.com!   Now, get ready because this episode is about to get heavy. This conversation is so mind-blowing that I found myself at a loss for words at some points. A treasure trove of information and insights on the human psychology and sexuality awaits you as we have no less than Farzana Jaffer Jeraj to scratch the surface of this iceberg.   Farzana Jaffer Jeraj is a motivational speaker, coach, hypnosis trainer and best-selling author, among the many other hats she put on. Her career spans more than 20 years with a mission to help people realize their potential and achieve their goals.   Today, we talk about subconscious sexual communication, and if the term alone discombobulates you, Farzana aims to shed light on the subject. We delved into the link of our upbringing, how our parental figures communicated, and how these impact our communication styles when it comes to relationships and sex in adulthood.   Farzana aims to explain this complex subject in layman's term for more people to understand. Some of the topics that Farzana touched into and explained are:   What a coach was called before it was called a coach and which big-name provided her first training. (06:06) How cognitive neuroscience work to understand how thoughts, emotions, and behaviour, among others, are formed. (08:54) The link between hypnosis, emotional responses, communication styles, and our parental figures. (17:33) Children's hypnosis-ready state and how one's upbringing determines communication styles in their adult life. (22:02) The difference between extroverted and introverted communicators and how to identify them. (28:33) How the communication styles of the parents (or the lack of communication) affect their children's future sexual expression. (37:54; 47:43) Introversion and extroversion as it manifests in relationships and sex. (46:15) What is involved in Farzana's hypnotherapy programs and sessions. (50:37) People's various love languages and different expectations from relationships and sex. (57:51) How one's sexual expression isn't based on their gender but their upbringing. (1:03:10)   If you want to know more about Farzana and the services that she offers, connect with her through her website. Check out her  Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter as well for updates.   Also, if you want to get more in-depth information on the books Farzana and I have been discussing on this episode, they are available online. The books are The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin and Professional Hypnotism Manual by John Kappas.    Lastly, chime in the conversation - I want to hear your thoughts! Email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle [dot] com. Until next time!   Remember to leave us a rating on iTunes.   And check out all the Sex Toys, Coaching, Courses and more at www.theintimatelifestyle.com/access.  

There is no way to cover the vast topic of Mind/Body connection and not explore the issue of sexuality. We are sexual beings, and yet culture often prevents us from discussing sex in a realistic way. The truth is that sexual gratification enhances many other aspects of our lives, including relationships, mood, and overall health.  And yet many people live unfulfilled sexual lives because they're afraid to explore what they find pleasurable. That aspect of their mind/body connection languishes out of fear or because of cultural norms. In this episode with sex therapist Dr. Hernando Chavez, we set aside all moral judgements to have a frank discussion about how to identify and ask for sexual pleasure.  We discuss a number of books in this episode, including: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cecelia Jetha Coping with Erectile Dysfunction by Barry McCarthy SM 101 by Jay Wiseman The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin   You can read the full show notes here.   Make sure you're following us around the web!   SPITR on facebook   SPITR on Instagram

This episode is short and sweet and shares and insight that will change your sex and romantic life: guaranteed.  The book I reference is called The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin.  Enjoy the show!

Founder of The Intimate Lifestyle and Modern Sex Talks podcast (http://theintimatelifestyle.com/podcasts/) In this interview, we dive into all sorts of interesting stuff, including Ryan’s background in the military, his struggles with premature ejaculation and how that led him into the world of Tantra and teaching people about sex. We talk about how to have more control over your sex life and more confidence in general. 17:00 ~ We dig into orgasms and how they tie into spirituality. 20:00 ~ Orgasm vs ejaculation 23:30 ~ Cannabis suppositories 27:30 ~ Anxiety and sex 38:30 ~ Tantra, spirituality, presence and staying grounded 49:00 ~ Taking action 54:00 ~ Transformational books in Ryan’s life The erotic mind - Jack Morin (http://amzn.to/2kx6KbB) The social animal - David Brooks (http://amzn.to/2k7wkTE) Also, if you like what you’ve heard you can also check out Ryan’s book on leadership lessons from the military: http://amzn.to/2j8m5Ps And as always, we are powered by the Grind Bar! Check them out at www.thegrindbar.com Thanks for listening!   Brought to you by the Grind Bar! The world's first performance nutrition bar infused with CBD! Check out www.thegrindbar.com to learn more!

Sex and poop. Both are natural parts of having a body. Both can be intensely pleasurable. And both are rich boiling pots of shame and cultural baggage. Which is why The Puru has teamed up with S. Ryan Johnstone and Dave McGee of Sex for Smart People* (*that means you) to bring you this very special episode tackling the mother of all modern taboos. Join us for a thoughtful, compassionate, super-honest and often hilarious hour addressing anal sex, safe scat play, and how looking at your toilet paper might just make you a better lover. Did I mention there’s a whale choir? Oh yeah. There’s a whale choir. Plus even more Sex for Smart People* at sexforsmartpeople.com Also mentioned in this episode: Victorian taboos, empowerment, grotesque body, civilizing process, normalizing culture, gender, sexuality, advice, gay, heteronormative culture, queer, frottage, Roman pederasty, cunnilingus, labels, sexual scripts, analingus, rimming, douching, health, risk assessment, stigma, therapy, fisting, Purity and Danger by Mary Douglas, sociology, dirt, status, “different kind of delicious,” polyurethane sheets, prude vs slut, dungeon, Chashama, Anatomy of Disgust by William Ian Miller , Marquis de Sade, matter out of place, Argonauts by Maggie Nelson, vulnerability, body odor, Josephus, Essenes, sanitary revolution, Thinx, menstruation, Tushy bidet, Dreck Apotheke by Christian Paullini, Buddha, fecal transplants, microbiome, North Carolina, transgender bathroom, social barriers, LaGuardia airport, House of Representatives, feminism, potty parity, giardia, diaper play, Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, shadow, iTunes, humpback whales, the bends, composer, Shawn Shafner

Might the way to enlightenment just be through your anus? In this episode, The Puru cozies butt-up with Amanda Miller--writer, actor, massage therapist, yogi, and compulsively creative person--in order to investigate the inner alchemy of transforming our shit to gold. Hear how Amanda's trauma became the driving force behind her memoir and solo show One Breath, Then Another, why hemorrhoid cream should be renamed "embarrassment balm," and learn the best position for kegeling your way to nirvana. Try it at home, and let us know how it goes on our social media pages! Also mentioned in this podcast: compulsion, obsession, artist, eating disorders, BBYO, catharsis, Toilet Hackers, World Toilet Day, self-hatred, Edinburgh International Fringe Festival, sex dungeons, kegels, ashwini mudra, ashram, India, Croft Vaughn, pelvic floor, Anal Pleasure and Health, Jack Morin, Anal-Ese, mind body relationship, stool sample, parasites, microbiome, contagion, compassion, NYC subway, homeless population, Anatomy of Disgust, William Ian Miller, objectification, meat vs. flesh, What’s Your Poo Telling You?, Anish Sheth, Josh Richman, anally expressive, Sigmund Freud, Loo Lady Rachel Erickson, Allen Ginsberg, sphincter, Ganges, People’s Improv Theater, Nuyorican, Elmer Rice, Real Body Library

GETTING THE HOT SEX YOU WANT! Australian sex therapist and coach Cyndi Darnell shares how to lay the groundwork for expanding your sex life. TOPICS: Coach vs Therapist, Depths of Sexuality, Sloppy Communication, Erotic Fear, Showing Desire, Feminist Men, Learning to do it, Reproduction, Cooking, Hottest Experiences, Jack Morin, Expanding Your Sex Life, Compliment Sandwich, Conscious Sex, Fantasy, Ruining the Mood, Speaking Up for Yourself, Needing to be Liked vs Honorable and How Your Parents Effect Your Sex Life!

FOR THRILL SEEKERS AND COMFORT CREATURES! Sandra fangirls out over Ian Kerner Ph.D, MFT, sex therapist and author of the bestselling oral sex book, "She Comes First." They explore the myriad reasons why the book hits home, how to create a sex space that helps our minds deactivate and surrender, the link between female arousal and stress, and a refreshing perspective on porn. TOPICS: Unbearable Lightness of Being, Fruity Book Covers, Written for Men, Women Fans, Strunk & White, Philosophical Approach, Sexual Cripple, Satisfying Women, Intercourse Discourse, An Alternative Path to Pleasure, From Tormented to Joyful, Deconstruction, "Cunnilingus Class," Nina Hartley, A Modest Approach, Mental Deactivation, Fantasizing During Sex, Seduction, Theory of Courtship, Physiological vs Mental Aspects of Sex, Safe Space for Fantasy, Core Erotic Themes, Jack Morin, Esther Perel, The Paradox of Cozy & Thrilling, Analysis as Inhibiting Arousal, and finally the Pros and Cons of Porn Usage.  

They're fun, they're hot, they're... dangerous? Fantasies are a healthy way to explore our erotic imaginations but can fantasies go too far? On this episode Coochie, Gay Rick, and Laura Rad explore when fantasies are positive, when they might be concerning and what kind of control we have over the topics of our fantasies.Check out the book The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin.Take the Sex is Fun! Sexual Interest Inventory survey from Sex is Fun! the book.Listen to the show now! Visit our sponsors!GreatSexGames.comThe Smitten Kitten: http://smittenkittenonline.com/Call us: 651-560-6969Email us: laura [at] sexisfun [dot] net | rick [at] sexisfun [dot] net | coochie [at] sexisfun [dot] netVisit our blog: http://sif.sexisfun.netCheck out our forum: http://greatsexgames.com/forums/Join us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/76698125624/ https://www.facebook.com/gayrick | https://www.facebook.com/LauraRadSiF | https://www.facebook.com/sexisfuncoochieFollow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/sexisfunpodcast | http://twitter.com/sexisfuncoochie | http://twitter.com/gayricksexisfunJoin us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/5932https://fetlife.com/coochie | https://fetlife.com/laurarad | https://fetlife.com/gayrickImage from freedigitalphotos.net/

Laura Rad, Coochie, and Gay Rick prepare you for your next (or first) doctor's appointment. Regardless of why you are going to the doctor to discuss your sexual health, the gang gives tips and prep work to take with you. Coochie tells Rick that women aren't having their boobs crushed anymore. Laura Rad shares some warning signs of when it may be time to change doctors. The gang wraps it up by sharing ideas for how to talk to your doctor. Get ready to turn your head and cough... in delight!Resources we like:The V Book by Elizabeth G. Stewart, M.D. and Paula Spencer: http://www.thevbook.com/Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men & Women by Jack Morin: http://www.jackmorin.com/MyBooks.en.htmlListen to the show now!Visit our sponsors! GreatSexGames.comThe Smitten Kitten: https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/Call us: 651-560-6969Email us: laura [at] sexisfun [dot] net | rick [at] sexisfun [dot] net | coochie [at] sexisfun [dot] netVisit our blog: http://sif.sexisfun.netCheck out our forum: http://greatsexgames.com/forums/Join us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/76698125624/Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/sexisfunpodcast | http://twitter.com/sexisfuncoochie Friend us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gayrick | https://www.facebook.com/LauraRadSiF | https://www.facebook.com/sexisfuncoochieFriend us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/coochie | https://fetlife.com/laurarad | https://fetlife.com/gayrickImage: FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Jack Morin, Ph.D., has been studying the mysteries of Eros for three decades as a psychotherapist and sex researcher in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of "The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment," which offers a bold new psychology of desire and arousal based on his clinical experience as well as an in-depth analysis of over 7,000 anonymous descriptions of peak real-life encounters and fantasies. He is also the author of the international classic "Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women." He writes and lectures for lay and professional audiences about the paradoxes, challenges, and potentials of sexuality and intimate relationships. Support the show______________ To participate live and be notified of upcoming speakers in advance, please Like us on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/gaybuddhistfellowship) or visit https://gaybuddhist.org/calendar/ To support our efforts to share these talks with LGBTQIA audiences worldwide, please visit www.GayBuddhist.org.There you can: Donate Learn how to participate live Find our schedule of upcoming speakers Join our mailing list or discussion forum Enjoy many hundreds of these recorded talks dating back to 1996 CREDITSAudio Engineer: George HubbardProducer: Tom BrueinMusic/Logo/Artwork: Derek Lassiter

Jack Morin, Ph.D., has been studying the mysteries of Eros for three decades as a psychotherapist and sex researcher in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of "The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment," which offers a bold new psychology of desire and arousal based on his clinical experience as well as an in-depth analysis of over 7,000 anonymous descriptions of peak real-life encounters and fantasies. He is also the author of the international classic "Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women." He writes and lectures for lay and professional audiences about the paradoxes, challenges, and potentials of sexuality and intimate relationships. Support the show______________ To participate live and be notified of upcoming speakers in advance, please Like us on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/gaybuddhistfellowship) or visit https://gaybuddhist.org/calendar/ To support our efforts to share these talks with LGBTQIA audiences worldwide, please visit www.GayBuddhist.org.There you can: Donate Learn how to participate live Find our schedule of upcoming speakers Join our mailing list or discussion forum Enjoy many hundreds of these recorded talks dating back to 1996 CREDITSAudio Engineer: George HubbardProducer: Tom BrueinMusic/Logo/Artwork: Derek Lassiter