Podcasts about type five

The focal point of today's discourse revolves around the Enneagram Type Five, characterized by their profound inclination towards detachment and observation as a means of navigating an overwhelmingly stimulating world. We delve into the complexities inherent in the Five's experience, particularly emphasizing their heightened sensitivity, which often compels them to create emotional distance from their surroundings. Throughout our dialogue, various participants elucidate the nuances of the Five's emotional landscape, shedding light on the intricate interplay between intellect and feeling that defines their existence. Additionally, we reflect upon the common misconceptions surrounding Fives, particularly the notion that they are devoid of emotion, highlighting instead their rich internal life and the necessity for connection. As we progress, we invite listeners to consider how understanding Type Five can foster deeper empathy and insight into their own experiences and those of others.HUMAN INTERVIEW: Melissa KircherWebsiteInstagramTwitterTicktokThe Enneagram InstituteType 5Awareness to ActionType 5The Narrative EnneagramType 5Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand - Certification ProgramMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraTikTok: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comSubstack: mariosikora.substack.comMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comPodcasts:Awareness to Action Enneagram in a MovieThe Narrative TraditionTerry Saracino:Web: https://www.narrativeenneagram.org/team/terry-saracino/Christopher Copeland:Web: illuminatingpaths.comNarrative Podcasts:Heart of the...

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth “Creek” Creekmore talk about coaching Enneagram Type Five. This type—“Striving to Feel Detached”—tends to manage interactions with people strategically and proactively by building a wall as a way to defend themselves. They are also known to say what they think which can be difficult for people to read if they're not used to it. Mario and MJ discuss their approach in addressing this type's challenges and blind spots, such as not saying what's on their mind, and why they enjoy helping them articulate how they see things without overdoing it.“What does mark them is this need to engage with the world through a feeling of detachment, which sounds contradictory, but they're trying to create their way of coping with the world. Their way of interacting is through creating an emotional or an emotion-free buffer between themselves and the world, so they can step back and kind of protect themselves.” -Mario [13:11]“They want to know more so that they can understand things and not feel overwhelmed. It's like feeling overwhelmed, it's something they want to avoid. And they're very sensitive. So when you think that they're not feeling, it's usually that it's a way to defend themselves, because they're so sensitive that they need to build a wall.” -María José [21:45]“I will admit that the Five is a bit of a blind spot for me, still trying to find the edges of it, and so like for that, for instance, how do you determine what's transmitting and what's that just the Five found their area of expertise and they're going. How do you turn those dials? ‘Cause mistyping between Five and Seven happens a lot.” -Creek [29:39]TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[02:21] This week's adjective[07:55] Experience in coaching Fives[12:03] Striving to Feel Detached[18:33] The coping mechanism is to detached[23:28] Attachment theory[27:25] Common problems[32:44] Pulling the wings off of a fly[35:20] Other issues[39:27] Defining detachment[42:06] Get your hands dirty metaphorically[48:13] Typical assignment to a Five[55:20] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on DemandIG: @ataenneagrampodEmail: info@awarenesstoaction.comSend a voice message: speakpipe.com/AwarenesstoActionMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraTikTok: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieSubstack: mariosikora.substack.comMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG:

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Five—the Investigator. We dive into the common shadows of emotional detachment, over-intellectualization, and the fear of depletion, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Fives can embrace vulnerability, connection, and presence. If you've ever felt like you need to know more before engaging with the world, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let's get into it! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When the check arrives at a group dinner, the reactions can be as varied as the personalities at the table. Rick Kahler and Enneagram expert Joan Ryan explore how different types approach this everyday financial moment. Whether it's a Type Two offering to pay to foster connection, a Type Five calculating their exact share, or a Type Seven suggesting “Let's split it and move on,” these responses reveal our deeper money motivations. Learn how to navigate these dynamics with empathy and awareness—and transform financial interactions into opportunities for growth.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them and shares them on his financial therapy podcast.

WHAT'S IT LIKE TO BE AN INVESTIGATOR? "They're ​often ​people ​with ​very ​good ​boundaries ​between ​home ​and ​work, but ​sometimes ​this ​can ​show ​itself ​in ​a ​space ​of ​avoidance. ​So ​they'll ​be ​people ​who ​are ​extremely ​boundaried, ​you ​know ​where ​you ​stand ​with ​them, ​which ​is ​a ​great ​thing, but ​that ​can ​go ​too ​far... ​actually ​they've ​put ​all ​of ​these ​walls ​and ​boundaries ​up ​in ​their ​life ​and ​sometimes ​​that ​can ​lead ​to ​them ​just ​feeling ​alone ​and ​isolated..." At Leeds Sanctuary, we run popular Retreat Days and a Book Club all about The Enneagram - an ancient personality typing tool which many people still find helpful and relevant today! In this podcast series, join Emily and Anna as they discuss the strengths and challenges of each Enneagram type, their core motivations and fears, defence mechanisms, and tips for being emotionally healthy over stressed and burnt out. This episode focuses on Enneagram Type Five, "The Investigator". Let us know if anything you hear resonates with you! Useful links: Find out more about our ongoing Enneagram Book Club: leedssanctuary.org.uk/enneagram-book-club/ Read our 2021 blog about the Enneagram: www.leedssanctuary.org.uk/2021/12/20/w…e-enneagram/ Visit David Gate's website to find the Enneagram Beatitudes: www.davidgatepoet.com/ With special thanks to Abi Thomas at Praxis Centre for editing this podcast, and to David Gate for his kind permission to read his poems. Music by Purvi Dalal on Pixabay.

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth “Creek” Creekmore talk about the vice, the virtue and the fixation for Enneagram Type Five with special guest, Ahmad Wazir. Ahmad draws from his personal experience on how the vice of avarice and the fixation of stinginess show up in his life as well as the virtue of nonattachment.TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[01:34] This week's guest, Ahmad[03:35] Defining our terms[07:54] How avarice shows up in Ahmad's life[13:17] Striving to feel to detached[22:11] Fixation: stinginess[26:01] Navigating Five in a group setting[28:16] Virtue: nonattachment, not detachment[31:41] The sense of who I am[36:36] Trying to gather information[42:52] Protecting their vulnerability [47:48] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on DemandIG: @ataenneagrampodAhmad Wazir:IG: @AhmadWazir19Pod: Totem ConfidenceMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraTikTok: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieSubstack: mariosikora.substack.comMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @_creekmorePod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional Optimism

On this week's episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Chris Schoolcraft. Chris has led and coached individuals, teams, and organizations through adversity for over 25 years. During this time, he has worked in religious, non-profit, and corporate settings, investing in urban, small towns, and suburban communities. He has learned from and supported both the disenfranchised and the ultra-wealthy, personally and professionally, partnering with non-profits and businesses to positively impact communities and lives.A little over 8 years ago, Chris's life underwent a foundation-shaking shift, prompting him to seek new tools, perspectives, and relationships. He was introduced to the Enneagram, engaged in therapy focusing on inner child work, and enlisted a professional coach. Chris discovered a newfound authenticity and resilience, leading to a richer and deeper life. Out of this life-changing journey, Chris feels a clearer call to lead and coach organizations, teams, groups, and individuals toward greater self-awareness, growth, depth, and transformation.

Hey ladies, welcome back to our podcast! Today, we're diving into a fascinating topic: how your Enneagram personality type can impact your business. If you're not familiar, the Enneagram is a personality typing system that describes nine interconnected personality types. Each type has its own set of motivations, fears, and behaviors that can greatly influence how we approach our work and business ventures. For example, Type Ones, known as "The Perfectionists," are driven by a desire to do things right and improve the world around them. In business, they might excel at creating high-quality products or services but might struggle with delegating tasks due to their high standards. On the other hand, Type Threes, "The Achievers," are goal-oriented and driven by success. They can be great at networking and promoting their business but may need to be mindful of burnout due to their relentless pursuit of success. Understanding your Enneagram type can give you valuable insights into your strengths and weaknesses as a business owner. It can help you identify areas where you excel and areas where you might need to seek support or make adjustments. Additionally, knowing the Enneagram types of your team members or business partners can improve communication and collaboration. By understanding their motivations and communication styles, you can build a more cohesive and effective team. So, whether you're a Type Two looking to balance your nurturing tendencies with self-care or a Type Five seeking to share your knowledge without withdrawing, the Enneagram can be a powerful tool for personal and professional growth in your business journey. Thanks for tuning in, and remember, understanding yourself is the first step to building a successful business. See you next time!

In this Enneagram and Coffee podcast episode, I explore the relationship dynamics between Enneagram Type One and Type Five. I discuss how both types, being competency-focused, might prioritize logic over emotions, potentially leading to challenges. I identify specific triggers for each type and advise on how they can positively influence one another. I stress the need for both types to attend to their emotional well-being to prevent issues from arising indirectly. The episode provides insights into fostering a balanced, intimate relationship between these two personality types. -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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In this podcast episode, I discuss the inner child of Enneagram Type Five and how we can connect with it. I suggest activities like taking a boxing class, going on a solo trip, and indulging in sensual experiences. I also discuss ways for Enneagram Type Eight personalities to boost their confidence, such as power poses, taking on challenges, and expressing feelings honestly. I emphasize the importance of embracing our inner child as a source of energy and life force. -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, I delve into the concept of the inner child in Enneagram Type Seven, also known as the soul child, which happens to be Type Five. As a Type Seven myself, I share my personal experiences and reflections, shedding light on the patterns of isolation I experienced during my childhood and how I used various strategies to hide my inner sense of scarcity. Throughout the episode, I offer practical steps that can assist Type Sevens in connecting with their inner Type Five. These steps revolve around recognizing our consumption habits, setting healthy boundaries, and simplifying our lives. By acknowledging and addressing these aspects, we can begin to bridge the gap between our Type Seven tendencies and our inner Type Five. -- Thank you to this week's podcast sponsor: Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code egram49. Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth "Creek" Creekmore return to their previous series on the Enneagram subtypes and talk about the subtypes for Type Five, “Striving to Feel Detached.” Type Fives are typically misread as insensitive and the hosts discuss why that is and how self-protection drives their sensitivity.“There's this myth that they're insensitive. They don't feel, but the truth is that they feel overwhelmed more easily. They can be more sensitive to stimulation. They can be more sensitive to environmental impacts, and therefore, they have to create this buffer. So a lot of what looks like stinginess or holding on to myself is kind of self-protection.” -Mario [07:46]“Having routines and regular schedules is also a way to minimize that use of their energy and a way to detach.” -María José [14:58]“Feels like there's a natural inner conflict about transmitting in general for a Five.” -Creek [24:48] TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[01:08] Common misunderstandings[06:09] What's different from a Five's perspective[11:45] The Preserving Five[22:19] The Navigating Five[29:59] The Transmitting Five[37:39] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on DemandIG: @ataenneagrampodMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @_creekmorePod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional Optimism

In this episode, Bea and Uranio answer questions about how to interact with Enneagram Type Fives. They have collected questions from different retreats, workshops, and emails from their podcast listeners. Type Fives tend not to talk about what's going on inside and those closest to them might not understand what their experience is. Listen as Uranio, a Type Five himself, dives into nuanced and detailed answers. If you want to discover which Enneagram Type you could be, visit our webpage ⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass⁠ to learn about the Enneagram Test they launched, CPS Enneagram Compass. If you have enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe and share it with others that you think would enjoy it. Also, please review this podcast. It will help us out a lot!     Check out ⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠ to learn more about our online learning portal. You can sign up for FREE and enjoy complex discussions with fellow Enneagram enthusiasts. Follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠⁠! And check out our Calendar of Events ⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/live-courses⁠⁠ to study with Bea and Uranio directly! Questions? ⁠⁠hello@cpenneagram.com⁠⁠. 

In this episode, Kelsey Taylor interviews Enneagram Fives, Kyle Smith and Candace Williams on their wings. In the context of the Enneagram, your wings are the two numbers directly adjacent to your primary Type. The 5w4 is known as the “Iconoclast” or an innovator and these two combinations have a unique relationship. The Five prefers to rely on logic, while the Four finds truth through their emotions, however both have a tendency to isolate themselves. The 5w6 is known as the “Problem Solver” and this union is often in conflict with one another.. The independent Five prefers to find security through isolation, research, and information, while the dependent Six finds security through external support. References from this Episode: Type 4 - Core Motivations - The Working Enneagram Podcast Episode Type 4 - Wings - The Working Enneagram Podcast Episode Centers of Intelligence Webinar Related Enneagram Resources "What are Wings" Course Video from Solving the "Me" Mystery Online Course "Wings - Type 5" Course Video from Solving the "Me" Mystery Online Course Solving the "Me" Mystery Online Course Enneagram Assessment Enneagram Team Training Connect with Kelsey Taylor: Website: theworkingenneagram.com Instagram: @theworkingenneagram Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/kelsey-taylor-106739207 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/theworkingenneagram

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth "Creek" Creekmore continue their conversation about the process of change by talking about types Four, Five and Six. They discuss how each is framed in Mario's book, “Awareness to Action: The Enneagram, Emotional Intelligence, and Change” and the emotional intelligence that is required for each of those to engage in the ATA process.“I like to think of what happens for each of the types, for all of us, is that we break down on our fault lines.” -Mario [16:12]“Like everyone else, they can be really good people and be trying hard to do what's needed. Sometimes don't know or miss some cues, mainly emotional, I would say.” -María José [31:18]“I've seen Sixes striving to feel secure, but through constantly changing. They are adapting to every minute, little detail and change.” -Creek [38:15]TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[00:43] A quick recap[03:54] Type Four[08:38] Cultivating confidence[13:21] Breaking down fault lines[22:01] Type Five[26:09] Sheldon Cooper[30:01] Communicating with a Five[35:11] Type Six[38:15] Unskillful adaptability[41:30] How to work with a Six[45:02] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand Mario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraenneagramWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieBook: Awareness to Action: The Enneagram, Emotional Intelligence, and ChangeMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @_creekmorePod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional Optimism

In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for a truly treasured deep chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing Jennifer Passmore, school principal, pastor's wife, and mom of four adult children, Enneagram Five. Jennifer's not only a Five but she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Five and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Five as well! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 5 The Withdrawing Stance Past Orientation from the Five perspective When you feel like your Five won't reach out in an emotional capacity When a Five won't change their scarcity fixation And more! For a Deep Dive on Type Five, share here! Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here! Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth "Creek" Creekmore speak with Sali Honess-Ondrey, a clinical social worker and enneagram trainer, to discuss Enneagram Type Five. The name of this strategy, “Striving to Feel Detached,” typically gets pushback for its perceived negative connotation, but detachment is a required element of existence. Sali explains the role being a Type Five plays into her life and shares why a yucky truth is better than a sweet lie.“It's only negative when it's being done in a maladaptive way, but the reality is that life requires emotional detachment for all of us.” -Mario [09:28]“It's not like I'm indifferent, but it's that I'm just approaching it as this is the situation and we're going to figure this out.” -Sali [15:05]“I've seen Fives use that ‘Striving to Feel Powerful' by using their knowledge to eviscerate people.” -Creek [28:01]“I couldn't help thinking about this information and how it may look different for different subtypes of the Five. Like a different tone, but also a different topic.” -María José [37:54]TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[00:10] Today's guest, Sali Honess-Ondrey[03:34] Who Sali works with[09:03] About the Enneagram Type Five[13:07] How Sali discovered the Enneagram[16:13] The language Sali uses with the Five[18:19] How the ATA approach influences how she teach[20:36] Maladaptive and adaptive ways[26:21] The connecting points[29:51] How the connecting points show up[37:55] Difference in the way these navigate[40:50] Resistance to the word “detachment”[47:22] The subtypes[51:11] The negative bent in Enneagram community[57:30] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand Mario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraenneagramWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @creekmoremusicPod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional OptimismSali Honess-Ondrey:Web: salihonessondrey.com

Today I we are discussing friendship with an enneagram type five.  -- ORDER MY NEW BOOK HERE: www.theenneagramletters.com — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we are continuing our series on curiosity with yourself by exploring the part in each of us that relates to enneagram type five. -- PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK HERE: www.theenneagramletters.com Redeem your pre-order bonuses here: https://site.andrewsmcmeel.com/the-enneagram-letters-preorder Join the street team & let's have a book club together: https://sarajane-case.mykajabi.com/pl/2147613437 THANK YOU TO THIS WEEK'S PODCAST SPONSORS See yourself why they have over 30,000 5-star reviews! Right now, my listeners can get 15% off your first purchase of $50 or more at lusbrands.com With promo code: EGRAM Indeed knows that when you're doing everything for your company, you can't afford to overspend on hiring. Visit Indeed.com/egram to start hiring now. Get started today and get $120 off your first three boxes at SplendidSpoon.com/EGRAM  — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Mario Sikora, TJ Dawe and TJ Ingrassia are joined by special guests, Clay Tumey, author of “The Blue Chip Store: How Bank Robbery Changed My Life,” and Susan Olesek, founder of Enneagram Prison Project. The panel of five discuss the 1994 drama, “The Shawshank Redemption,” starring Morgan Freeman and Tim Robbins. With the film set in a prison, Clay draws from his experience in prison while Susan explores her work with incarcerated people and the Enneagram to not only look at the movie about a man who is wrongfully accused of murder, but to also examine it as a story of a person who's trapped in a personality.“I also thought that with this character captured better than almost anything I've seen about the Fives is the tenderness at the heart of the Type Five. This sweetness, this kindness that most people don't get to see because what they see is the detached piece.” - Mario Sikora [35:36]“There's so much generosity in the Five, and I love that you're highlighting it because I think that's why we love the Five so much.” - Susan Olesek [38:21]“I just didn't buy it from him in terms of feeling like he really meant it. It almost felt like he was more using that as a cover to just have power over people. But that could speak to his unhealthier… That's a way an unhealthy one would use some of that is they don't really believe it for themselves. They just believe it for other people or something.” - TJ Ingrassia [1:01:40]“Captain Hadley, he embodies everything that I appreciate about Type Eight, even when he's beating the hell out of people. The thing that I appreciate is I never have to wonder, almost never have to wonder where I stand with the Type Eight.” - Clay Tumey [1:08:07]“That got me thinking, this movie works as a metaphor for being in any life situation that you believe you're stuck in, and there's a better life somewhere on the horizon. How do I get there? And one of the ways, certainly not the only way, but the Andy Dufresne way, is a little bit at a time.” - TJ Dawe [1:21:46] TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[00:47] Our special guests, Clay Tumey and Susan Olesek[07:26] Why this week's movie: “The Shawshank Redemption”[14:03] About the movie[19:26] Hosts' reactions to the film[21:15] The casting[23:18] Andy Dufresne as Type Five[35:??] Generosity in Type Five[38:29] “If I Didn't Care” by Ink Spots[40:43] Chip's book, “The Blue Chip Store”[44:00] Red's Enneagram Type[49:27] Brooks as Type Nine[50:17] Warden Norton's Enneagram Type[1:02:00] It's about feeling perfect[1:05:15] Captain Hadley as Type Eight[1:11:00] Tommy's Enneagram Type[1:21:04] Why is this movie universally beloved?[1:24:41] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand The Awareness to Action Enneagram PodcastMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comTJ Dawe:Web: tjdawe.caTJ Ingrassia:Web: tjingrassia.comYouTube: @TypeCastSusan Olesek:Web:

Let's talk about productivity and pleasure for the enneagram type five.  If you haven't already - I encourage you to listen to the intro episode where I talk about the importance of finding our rhythm with these two things and why I think productivity should exist as an entry point to more pleasure.  In these individual episodes I want to tackle what can prevent our productivity and tips for allowing our time we create through more productivity to be pleasurable.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Mario Sikora, TJ Dawe and TJ Ingrassia discuss the 1987 film, “The Princess Bride,” and reveal how easy it can be to look at a film and interpret it differently. The hosts examine the Enneagram Types for each character, at times not agreeing. Is Iñigo Montoya a Type Three or Type Four? What Enneagram Type do they see for Wallace Shawn's Vizzini? Why was Andre the Giant's character, Fezzik, the perfect Type Nine? Listen as the hosts share their thoughts on these and other characters.“I thought Count Rugen was maybe the one of the best Fives I've ever seen in a movie. Talk about detached.” - TJ Dawe [29:18]“The Navigating One, I think, is a subtype that's often misunderstood. Other people call this the Social One, and people have a tendency to think the so-called Social One is a reformer. Somebody who wants to change the world. That's not what's going on here.” - Mario Sikora [33:24]“If I had a thousand years with this movie, I never would have guessed One. I had her as a Four all day long, and maybe part of this is because… I might be biased, because my wife is a Four. And I felt like I was watching my wife through the course of this film.” - TJ Ingrassia [35:53]TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[00:29] This week's movie: “The Princess Bride”[07:52] About the movie[12:44] The director, Rob Reiner, and the casting[19:01] Andre the Giant as Fezzik, a Type Nine[23:10] Wallace Shawn as Vizzini[29:15] Count Rugen as Type Five[32:04] Robin Wright as Buttercup[39:55] Westley's Enneagram Type[44:26] Iñigo Montoya: Type Three or Type Four?[51:59] Miracle Max's Enneagram Type[52:41] Overall tone of the movie[55:42] William Goldman and his Enneagram Type[57:57] Westley and Buttercup as a One, a Four, or an Eight?[1:02:21] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand The Awareness to Action Enneagram PodcastMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comTJ Dawe:Web: tjdawe.caTJ Ingrassia:Web: tjingrassia.comYouTube: @TypeCast

We open the Head Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with YOBcast regular, Will! Will shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Five (the Investigator or Intellectualist). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Five-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men? Fives are heady types, supreme thinkers and philosophers, as Will confirms his "endless curiosity" for books and learning, and returning to school whenever he hits an existential crisis. Enneagram expert Ian Cron describes Fives as the most misunderstood type, people with emotions beneath their intellectual exterior, and Will confirms his journey with processing difficult emotions. He shares the appeal of intellectual attraction versus physical attraction for the Five, and he explains how his problem-solving nature wanted to "fix" his "gay problem" in adolescence. During stress Will admits getting disorganized and clingy, but during security he's passionate about strengthening the people around him -- where, as a pastor, his Five-ness particularly shines. During times of doubt and questions, Will returns to the Gospels and his love for how Jesus makes sense of this world. Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with the remaining types in our community! LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE ➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test ➡️ Truity's Type 5 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-5-investigator ➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 5 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_5_Stress_And_Growth ➡️ Sleeping at Last's "Five" on our "Heart of a Brother" playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wT6X87eTCUg&list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW&index=31 COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE ➡️ Are you an Enneagram Five? How have you grown as a Five in relation to your sexuality and masculinity? PODCAST EPISODE PAGE ➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/22/yob-convocast-050-will-is-supremely-uninterested-in-the-enneagram-as-a-five RATE/REVIEW US ON APPLE PODCASTS ➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465 FOLLOW THE CAST ➡️ Tom's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/ ➡️ Will's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/willc GET IN TOUCH

Levels of Health for the Enneagram Type Five -- THANK YOU TO THIS WEEK'S PODCAST SPONSORS  Sign up for Indeed now and get a $75 credit toward your first sponsored job. Plus earn up to $500 extra in sponsored job credits with Indeed's Virtual Interviews. Visit Indeed.com/EGRAM to learn more. — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Grab a copy of know your parenting personality https://amzn.to/37Zbh0l Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Introducing the enneagram type five.  --- THANK YOU TO THIS WEEK'S PODCAST SPONSORS Try Organifi if you want the highest-quality, plant-based ingredients for optimal health. Go to organifi.com and use code EGRAM for 15% off any item in the store  Get started with Issuu today for FREE or if you sign up for a premium account you will get 50% off when you go to ISSUU dot com slash podcast and use promo code COFFEE.  — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Grab a copy of know your parenting personality https://amzn.to/37Zbh0l Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How does the core desire (of being knowledgeable and capable) and core fear (of being incompetant) of the Enneagram Type Five play out in a work setting? In this episode Kelsey Taylor interviews Tony Hale and Rebecca Morales to get an insider peek into what it's like to be a Type Five as a CEO as well as a Standardized Patient Educator. _____________________________________ Jack Russel Parents Podcast Free Enneagram Coaching Session

How does the core desire (of being knowledgeable and capable) and core fear (of being incompetant) of the Enneagram Type Five play out in a work setting?   In this episode Kelsey Taylor interviews Tony Hale and Rebecca Morales to get an insider peek into what it's like to be a Type Five as a CEO as well as a Standardized Patient Educator. _____________________________________ Jack Russel Parents Podcast Free Enneagram Coaching Session

Today we are continuing our parenting series covering type five and what to keep in mind when it comes to parenting as your type.  --- THANK YOU TO THIS WEEK'S PODCAST SPONSORS Try the benefits for yourself! Go to AARP.org/EGRAM to join for just $12 for your first year with automatic renewal. You'll get a second membership for free, plus AARP the Magazine and a free gift! Say goodbye to generic hair care for good. today. Go to Functionofbeauty.com/EGRAM to take your Hair Goals quiz, and you'll save 25% on your first order. Get started making the most of your content with Issuu today for FREE or if you sign up for a premium account you will get 50% off when you go to ISSUU.com/podcast and use promo code COFFEE.  When you're wearing Rothy's, your footprint feels lighter than ever. Get $20 off your first purchase today at rothys.com/EGRAM. — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Grab a copy of know your parenting personality https://amzn.to/37Zbh0l Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mario and TJ continue their discussion on the films of David Fincher to explore Enneagram Type 5, “Striving to Feel Detached.” They discuss the films, “The Social Network” and “Girl with a Dragon Tattoo” and how the main characters in these movies portray Type Five characteristics. “A lot of navigating themes in there, which is really interesting and ironic given that Zuckerberg is presented as this guy with no social grace whatsoever. But he's not unaware of how people's feelings work, of social status, he uses that. He just wears this mask of ‘It doesn't affect me. I don't care.'” - TJ Dawe [20:32]“Control and autonomy is a huge, huge issue for Fives, and that's one of the themes when they first meet with Sean Parker, played by Justin Timberlake.” - Mario Sikora [14:37]TIMESTAMPS[00:04] Intro[00:34] “The Social Network”[06:48] The Type Five character[12:27] Other things that were vividly Five-ish[18:19] All about navigating[26:36] Final film: “Girl with a Dragon Tattoo”[34:53] Feeling of being God-like in a way[36:26] Lisbeth Salander as a Type Five[40:34] Honorable mentions[44:04] Final thoughts[47:00] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on Demand The Awareness to Action Enneagram PodcastMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comTJ Dawe:Web: tjdawe.ca

In this series on paths, we take a deeper look at each enneagram type by discovering how our dominant type is connected to these whole other sides of our personality through the arrow lines of the enneagram. Traditionally called “stress path” and “growth path,” Jessica teaches a different way of looking at the paths as a dynamic part of our personality that we take both positive and negative characteristics from on a day to day basis, but can lean into and grow through in seasons.

I share the coaching space with an Enneagram Five and together we explore the orientation to the strong inner world that's a significant element in the Type Five structure. We consider the energy expelled in the mental to-do list that's consistently shifting based on the remaining energy & time for the day. We also explore the sensation of being snapped back into reality when someone abruptly interrupts our thoughts & pulls us out of that internal world. And we also consider the invitation to connect with our kiddos in parenting from a heart space rather than a mental problem solving space. I hope you'll listen in with curiosity & see what resonates in your experience. Individual Coaching: Interested in Enneagram coaching? Schedule a FREE Discovery Call at www.abbirodriguez.com/coachingTeaching Audios: Check out the various Enneagram Teaching Audio available for only $15-$25 on my website at https://www.abbirodriguez.com/shop Coaching on the Podcast: Are you interested in a FREE coaching session? Fill out the Coaching Interest form to express interest in a recorded coaching session for the podcast. https://forms.gle/UTa1TG96Uj2LYetY8Connect with Abbi on Instagram at @enneagramspace to ask questions about the episode or to learn more!

Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Five in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Five, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Five in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Five right here (and all the types!) >> here 

I share the coaching space with an Enneagram Four that desires to show up well in conversations with her Type Five partner. We explore the feelings of shame that can exacerbate these moments & how we might move out of the heart space into a more embodied approach to processing emotions. We also took a look at the dynamic of Type Four & Type Fives withdrawing and how they can communicate that need well to each other. We also touched on the moment of Type Four to Type Two in seasons of stress. The Type Four in the coaching space for this episode is someone I formerly supervised years ago now, so it was such a gift to be back into a one-on-one space with her again. I hope you'll listen in with curiosity and see what resonates in your experience. Individual Coaching: Interested in Enneagram coaching? Schedule a FREE Discovery Call at www.abbirodriguez.com/coachingTeaching Audios: Check out the various Enneagram Teaching Audio available for only $15-$20 on my website at https://www.abbirodriguez.com/shopCoaching on the Podcast: Are you interested in a FREE coaching session? Fill out the Coaching Interest form to express interest in a recorded coaching session for the podcast. https://forms.gle/UTa1TG96Uj2LYetY8Connect with Abbi on Instagram at @enneagramspace to ask questions about the episode or to learn more!

Let's meet Mr. five. He:Appears lost in thought or absentmindedExtremely difficult-to-crack inner worldIn-depth knowledge on specific subjects of interestGives insightful, well-thought-out responsesThinks extensively before speakingHas clear boundaries between family, friends and workWithdrawn and extremely independentIn a Truity study of more than 54,000 respondents, Type Fives were found to make up approximately 10% of the population. Type Five is more common among men, making up only 7% of women compared to 14% of men.Are you a #5? In today's episode (Yiddish) we're diving into this fascinating discussion.

For more details on this podcast visit: https://www.sidehustlelounge.com/blog/ep41Episode 41: This week Linda Frazee unpacks the Type Five of the Enneagram, often called THE INVESTIGATORLinda Frazee has over 40 years of experience as a professional speaker, business consultant and executive coach. She is the author, "Full Heart Satisfied Belly," and is founder of Positive Imagery, Inc., a personal and professional development company located in Scottsdale, AZ. Her professional training is in Transpersonal Psychology and Imagery.Join the Authentic Wisdom Community at https://www.lindafrazee.com/authentic-community Blog Description:Often referred to as "Observers," the Five on the Enneagram is often quiet and paying attention. If you want to know what's really going on in an organization, talk to the five. When unhealthy, a five can be reclusive and dismissive. Learn more on this episode with Linda Frazee. Timestamps:12:11   I hear from parents all the time, my kid goes in their room and they don't come out. And I'm worried about them. Well, for some kids that might be a major sign of depression, but a five - that's their normal habitat. That's where they wanna be. They wanna be there. They would like to be in there by themselves. That was a recharge place for them because their core belief is it's essential to conserve personal resources in a world that often demands more or supplies too little.16:16   Fives - Their strength is they're tremendously observant, logical. They're perceptive, knowledgeable, reasonable, curious, reflective they're many times experts. They like to be experts analytical and synthetic. That means they can put all these different ideas together and come up with new unique ideas. They're self reliant pondering, and they have a very dry wit and fast on their feet.31:11   With all the types, we tend to project whatever our type is. However, we see the world from our little goldfish view. We think that everybody else sees at the same and it's always a shock to find out they don't. Full transcription of this podcast: https://www.sidehustlelounge.com/blog/ep41This episode was produced and marketed by the Get Known Podcast Service: www.getknownstrategy.com/podcast-serviceFellow pet lovers, If you've worked hard to put money aside to invest in the right side-hustle or expansion project, protect your cash reserve with the 2021 Forbes Advisor #1 Pet Insurance company, Toto. They reimburse up to 90% of unexpected vet bills and you can use any veterinarian you want to. I've tried a few of these insurance companies over the years, and Toto has been the easiest and most transparent I've ever found. Quotes and policies with Toto Pet Insurance also help support The SideHustle Lounge Podcast. Check them out for yourself and get a free quote HERE. 

In this episode, I teach about the natural stress response for Type Five and what it their stress behavior looks like when they get “pushed” across the Enneagram diagram to their Stress Point. We take an in-depth look at the shift to the Stress Point and how we can use that Stress Point as a resource to better cope with stress. This episode is one of nine subsequent episodes in this series exploring the stress response for each Type. These episodes are comprised of excerpts from the “Growth & Self-Care” Workshop Teaching Audio available for only $20 on my website at https://www.abbirodriguez.com/shop Type Group: Interested in joining a Type Group? Fill out the Interest Form to learn more & express interest as Type Groups are being formed for your Enneagram Number. Fill out the form at https://forms.gle/g39yjtXLiPnWLvML6Coaching: Interested in Enneagram coaching? Schedule a FREE Discovery Call at www.abbirodriguez.com/coachingConnect with Abbi on Instagram at @enneagramspace to ask questions about the episode or to learn more!

Join us for a Special Series with Enneagram Expert and Business Coach Hillarie Kay! In this episode Hillarie will tell us all about the Motivations and Characteristics of the Enneagram Type Five and it's connection points with other types on the Enneagram. Then we will talk with my friend Sarah Loxley of Wildflower Relics about being a type five, and what that as looked like in her life & business. Be sure to check out Hillarie Kay Coaching and Pre-Order her new book, Unlocking your potential at work! Hillariekay.com Pre-Order the Book! Instagram / Facebook Sarah on Facebook & Instagram. Join the Makers Chat Community for deeper conversation and be sure to follow us on Facebook and Instagram! Music License: Good Feeling by Roa https://soundcloud.com/roa_music1031 Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0 Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/-good-feeling Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/6lvyX-1IeYM --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/danielle-kaminski/message

What are the wounding and the healing message for the Type Fives? link to enneagram test: https://bit.ly/dcemenneagram

What stresses you out about Christmas? Is it trying to meet your expectations and those of others? Or maybe it's trying to do All The Things so people will think you're amazing? Or maybe you find Christmas stressful because you're out of your routine and just hate small talk? Each Enneagram type has a different stressor during the holidays.  So what is your big stress, and how can you celebrate the birth of our Savior in a healthy way? Listener, for the month of November, we are getting our hearts and minds geared up to look for Christ in all things, to be healthy and whole, and to act out of love, not fear or obligation. In this episode, you'll learn: your Enneagram type's default agenda at Christmas-time, what that looks in your real life,  and three ways to enjoy a healthy Christmas. Skip to your type by these time-stamps: Type Eight: 4:29 Type Nine: 6:29 Type One: 7:59 Type Two: 10:05 Type Three: 11:55 Type Four: 13:45 Type Five: 15:56 Type Six: 17:54 Type Seven: 19:43 Key Quotes “Ask your friend Jesus for the gift of awareness: awareness of your needs, the needs of others, and your need for Him.” “You don't have to opt-out or go all-in, you can move through Christmas at a moderate pace by doing what you enjoy.” “You're not responsible for keeping everyone happy because each person is responsible for their own happiness.” “You're not being selfish as you practice self-care. You're simply giving the best you possible to others when you take care of your heart, soul, and mind.” “Ask your friend Jesus to give you wisdom about where to exert your time and energy.” “Ask your friend Jesus to show you what activities and the number of commitments that are realistic for you and your family this season.” Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you. Facebook group Your Quick Start Guide to the Enneagram ebook How to Stay Sane on Social Media freebie Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email  Gift ideas for every Enneagram type Learn more about Jill speaking at your event  Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Facebook group  Facebook page Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email 

This Typing series is designed to offer a path to those who are starting out on their enneagram journey, and are looking for a way to find their type. Kambrie Ross joins us with some quotes and her own gathered wisdom to help demonstrate the basic qualities of each type.Start with the Introduction if you're new to the enneagram, and each of the following episodes will dive deeper into each type.This episode is for those who think they might be a Type Five; those who want to understand.Find Kambrie on Instagram (@enneagram.kam)Find us on Twitter (@enneagramcircle)Help fund future deep dives (Patreon)Our website

This Typing series is designed to offer a path to those who are starting out on their enneagram journey, and are looking for a way to find their type. Kambrie Ross joins us with some quotes and her own gathered wisdom to help demonstrate the basic qualities of each type.Start with the Introduction if you're new to the enneagram, and each of the following episodes will dive deeper into each type.This episode is for those who think they might be a Type Five; those who want to understand.Find Kambrie on Instagram (@enneagram.kam)Find us on Twitter (@enneagramcircle)Help fund future deep dives (Patreon)Our website

In this episode, I share the coaching space with an Enneagram Eight that desires to communicate well with her spouse who leads with Type Two. We explore how vulnerability comes up for Type Eights in personal conflict, and the common misconception that all confrontation is just easy for Eights because the reality is that it's not. We also take a look at the movement to Type Five as a stress point and how that can be a way of retreating for the Eight, but how it can also be a tremendous resource for us to step back and recover. Okay friends, let's listen in with compassion and curiosity to my coaching conversation with our Type Eight.Interested in joining a Type Group? Fill out the Interest Form to learn more & express interest as Type Groups are being formed for your Enneagram Number. Fill out the form at https://forms.gle/g39yjtXLiPnWLvML6Interested in Enneagram coaching? Schedule a FREE Discovery Call at www.abbirodriguez.com/coaching

This is such a fun topic for me! I love talking all about personality types and different ways to get to know yourself better and others! Christ has given us each such unique and amazing personalities and I believe that it can be so beneficial to really get to know ourselves and others so that we can grow best and learn to work well in relationships! Tune in to hear all about the Enneagram and discover which you may be! Type Two THE GIVER Twos want to be liked and find ways that they can be helpful to others so that they belong. This type fears being unlovable. Read more about Twos. Type Three THE ACHIEVER Threes want to be successful and admired by other people, and are very conscious of their public image. Type Threes fear failure and not being seen as valuable by other people. Read more about Threes. Type Four THE INDIVIDUALIST Fours want to be unique and to experience deep, authentic emotions. Type Fours fear they are flawed and are overly focused on how they are different from other people. Read more about Fours. Type Five THE INVESTIGATOR Fives seek understanding and knowledge, and are more comfortable with data than other people. The biggest fear of the Type Five is being overwhelmed by their own needs or the needs of other people. Read more about Fives. Type Six THE SKEPTIC Sixes are preoccupied with security, seek safety, and like to be prepared for problems. For the Type Six, the greatest fear is being unprepared and unable to defend themselves from danger. Read more about Sixes. Type Seven THE ENTHUSIAST Sevens want to have as much fun and adventure as possible and are easily bored. Type Sevens fear experiencing emotional pain, especially sadness, and actively seek to avoid it by staying busy. Read more about Sevens. Type Eight THE CHALLENGER Eights see themselves as strong and powerful and seek to stand up for what they believe in. The greatest fear of the Type Eight is to be powerless, so they focus on controlling their environment. Read more about Eights. Type Nine THE PEACEMAKER Nines like to go with the flow and let the people around them set the agenda. Type Nines fear pushing people away by prioritizing their own needs, and they tend to be passive. Read more about Nines. Type One THE PERFECTIONIST Ones place a lot of emphasis on following the rules and doing things correctly. Type Ones fear being imperfect and can be extremely strict with themselves and others. Read more about Ones. TAKE THE QUIZ HERE: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test?ppcga=fixed&gclid=CjwKCAjwzt6LBhBeEiwAbPGOgd_7lGxnQIo45ova7OdkNQMcQvtkPKWEw5uBRUi8FpNLuaACAWKEyhoC9ykQAvD_BwE ✨Connect with me:  ✨Hop on a Breakthrough Coaching Session with me here: KelseyJoyCo.Com/coaching ✨Haven't joined the Free Kingdom Dreamers community yet?! Join us here: bit.ly/KingdomDreamersGroup  ✨Get your FREE copy of "Renew Your Spirit & Soul" Devotional here: bit.ly/FiveDayDevotional  ✨Love this podcast? Please leave a review for Kingdom Dreamers Podcast on ITUNES: bit.ly/KingdomDreamersPodcast  ✨Have a question? Shoot me a DM on IG @KelseyJoyCo or email me at KelseyJoyCo@gmail.com ✨ Follow me on Clubhouse here @KelseyJoyCo: https://www.clubhouse.com/@kelseyjoyco?fbclid=IwAR1lYVIcE0rAXo0OjKs7aRaLPidE4umrO3zmoEEbPTM1TAJuqtzgbynMVws                

Whether we like to admit it or not, we live with a chronic case of low-grade anxiety. We disguise our fear and call it stress, but we know what it really is. The great news is that we don't have to live this way. We can break free from fear and live in the abundant peace, hope, and joy God promised us. So let's learn about fear through the lens of the Enneagram. What is your type's greatest fear, and what God-centered habits will help you live a life of peace? In this episode, you'll learn: your Enneagram type's biggest fear, why you fear it,  how worry show up in your everyday life,  and God-centered habits for shedding that fear. Grab this free resource about what the Enneagram is, what it isn't, and what you want to know about your personality type. Your Quick Start Guide to the Enneagram walks you through how to determine your type, what's up with wings, and Enneagram resources you'll want to check out. Skip to your type by these time-stamps: Type Eight: 3:00 Type Nine: 5:17 Type One: 8:03 Type Two: 11:07 Type Three: 14:04 Type Four: 16:48 Type Five: 19:04 Type Six: 21:24 Type Seven: 23:48 Mentioned in the Podcast 5 resources to help you assess you Inner Critic Challenge Free printable with insights about your biggest fear + three spiritual disciplines to help you conquer it Previous Episodes Mentioned Episode #7: What the Enneagram is, what it isn't, and why it's important for your spiritual growth Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Facebook group  Facebook page Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email 

 Michael Naylor begins Act 2 by revealing his personal introduction to the Enneagram following what he describes as his “Oprah-worthy” divorce.Quoting from one of his teachers with his signature, self-effacing humor – “You're a fool and I'm a fool, so let's just relax” – he shares his path to men's work and busts the persistent myth that it's even possible to go it alone in one's healing journey.Michael's transparency and raw honesty are refreshing, and his stories are packed with rich, colorful, and accessible wisdom.Michael Naylor, M.Ed., CPCC, LADC, CCS, is an Authorized Riso-Hudson Enneagram Teacher and Faculty. He is the Director of The Maine Enneagram Center for Transformation and Well-Being located in South Portland, Maine. (enneagrammaine.com) He is an International Enneagram Association Professional Teacher and presents each year at the International Conference.  He does numerous workshops around the country: The Wisdom of the Enneagram, Relationships, The Three Instincts, Journey up the Levels of Health, The Enneagram and the Inner Critic.  He leads programs at addiction rehabs around the country for therapists and counselors on utilizing the Enneagram for enhanced recovery and relapse prevention.  You can read his articles at www.enneagrammaine.com.He is also a Certified Professional Co-Active coach and has a full-time Enneagram, Transformation, and Recovery coaching practice with individuals around the globe. Michael is a licensed Addiction Therapist and Certified Addiction Supervisor in Maine.  He views the Enneagram as the missing piece in Addiction Recovery and Relapse Prevention and has been involved in recovery for 39 years both as a counselor, therapist, and recovering man. He's facilitated Men's Spiritual Transformation groups at the HETI Institute for 8 years.  He has worked in the field of addictions the last 27 years as therapist, coach, and educator, most recently at Serenity House, a men's rehabilitation center, for 14 years. Michael lives with Donna, his beloved Type Two wife of 21 years, his spunky alive Type Nine daughter, Chloe, and his mysterious and off-the-grid Type Five son, Christian.Visit Michael on LinkedIn, Instagram,  Facebook and enneagrammaine.com

A quiet, shy and sensitive kid, Michael Naylor used sports to navigate the world of his younger days, finding his way via baseball to a full-ride scholarship at Oregon State University.  While competitive, Michael shares how being a “tenderhearted athlete” contributed to his team performance.He discusses how being the default “family psychologist” as a young kid got old quickly, and later, how the outside pressures of identifying as an athlete led to budding awareness and inner exploration.Michael walks us through his experience of releasing his baseball identity and crossing the wilderness of deep self-examination through reading, counselling, and a rich variety of inner work.Michael's commitment to learning and healing is inspiring – and that's all before he even touches on recovery…Michael Naylor, M.Ed., CPCC, LADC, CCS, is an Authorized Riso-Hudson Enneagram Teacher and Faculty. He is the Director of The Maine Enneagram Center for Transformation and Well-Being located in South Portland, Maine. (enneagrammaine.com) He is an International Enneagram Association Professional Teacher and presents each year at the International Conference.  He does numerous workshops around the country: The Wisdom of the Enneagram, Relationships, The Three Instincts, Journey up the Levels of Health, The Enneagram and the Inner Critic.  He leads programs at addiction rehabs around the country for therapists and counselors on utilizing the Enneagram for enhanced recovery and relapse prevention.  You can read his articles at www.enneagrammaine.com.He is also a Certified Professional Co-Active coach and has a full-time Enneagram, Transformation, and Recovery coaching practice with individuals around the globe. Michael is a licensed Addiction Therapist and Certified Addiction Supervisor in Maine.  He views the Enneagram as the missing piece in Addiction Recovery and Relapse Prevention and has been involved in recovery for 39 years both as a counselor, therapist, and recovering man. He's facilitated Men's Spiritual Transformation groups at the HETI Institute for 8 years.  He has worked in the field of addictions the last 27 years as therapist, coach, and educator, most recently at Serenity House, a men's rehabilitation center, for 14 years. Michael lives with his beloved Type Two wife of 21 years, Donna, his spunky alive Type Nine daughter, Chloe, and his mysterious and off-the-grid Type Five son, Christian.Visit Michael on LinkedIn, Instagram,  Facebook and enneagrammaine.com

In this episode, I share the coaching space with an Enneagram Five that's a working mother with five kiddos ranging from an infant to teenagers. We explore how to balance the often overwhelming expectations of motherhood with her personal need to have time alone. Whether you are a Type Five or not, I think all the mothers out there can relate to how overwhelming it can be to balance your needs with the demands of parenthood. I also share in this episode my personal opinion about Enneagram Wings, so let's see if you agree with me or not. Okay friends, let's take on a posture of curiosity as you listen to my coaching conversation.Learn more about yourself and others in an upcoming virtual workshop series with Abbi. Register at www.abbirodriguez.com/enneagram-sessionsInterested in Enneagram coaching? Schedule a FREE Discovery Call at www.abbirodriguez.com/coaching

In today's Q&A episode, Sarajane is answering two questions called into the podcast phone line about the wings attached to type five. Go to nativedeo.com/egram or use promo code: EGRAM at checkout to save 20% on your first purchase. Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at http://www.thehonestenneagram.com Join us in making the most of your time this year at http://www.thebravecollective.co Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

The Type Five guest today is Bethany Smith co-founder of Enneanerds a new community on IG to foster conversation about the Enneagram and in Bethany's words- a place to have an outlet for all her information. In this conversation, she's providing so much insight about the inner world of a type five and fabulous tips for those of us who love a type five and want to strengthen our relationship with them. Also, we chat about my exciting event happening next month. I'm hosting the Wholehearted Enneagram Summit with well over 20 well-known Enneagram experts to provide you with specific insights to help you overcome the communication obstacles that hinder your relationships with your kids, spouse, and even yourself! Make sure you are following wholehearted enneagram on IG and getting my weekly emails so you don't miss the Christmas in July bonuses for this event. By the way, If you are interested in specific episodes about the Enneagram Type Five check out episode #172 in my Motherhood and Enneagram series and episode #108 the Summer in the Enneagram Series from 2019. 

They may not be actual detectives, but type fives are known as investigators. In this episode, I discuss all the basics of type five, the deadly sin of avarice, how they deal with fear, and how fives can take control of their greed. Follow Braylon on Instagram @braylon.williams Shop Enneagram Restored Merch: merch.braylonwilliams.me . . Support Enneagram Restored Podcast: anchor.fm/enneagramrestored/support

The Passion for For type 1s is ANGER. Type 1s are often called the Reformers and hold themselves to very high standards which is a good quality, right? SO…the deceitfulness of the passions is that it seems GOOD to be conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. And being ANGRY goes against what seems to be GOOD. So they resist being angry. And when others don’t seem to hold the same standards of goodness then that anger that they resist builds. But 1s are even harder on themselves so that anger turns inward so often if they believe they haven’t lived up to their own standards. The relentless demand of the inner critic to be good and do good at all times and to set the standard for what is good, replaces personal needs and shuts down feelings which, if left unaddressed will come out in the form of resentment. Type 2s…The Passion is Pride …..This seems so opposite of what we see in type 2s who are so giving of their love, their time, knowing what everyone else needs. In fact, they are so focused on others that they take PRIDE in seeming to not have needs of their own. THEY see themselves as THE SOURCE of what others need. It seems GOOD to be so servant-hearted but when they resist acknowledging they have needs, having denied their own in service to others, they are actually denying others the gift of service. For type 3s the passion is Self-deceit or conforming to what they think is necessary to be SEEN as successful or WORTHY. 3s are often called “Shape shifters” because they will take on the role of what they think OTHERS want them to be. It seems GOOD to be success-driven and even GOOD to be adaptable but they resist resting in their authenticity and resist knowing they are fully loved apart from any external success. The passion of type 4 is Envy but this envy is a internal sense of a lack of being whole…like something about themselves is inherently missing. They tend to believe everyone else has that missing thing. They long for authenticity which leads to the desire to be unique because they actually believe they ARE unique because others have what they believe they are missing. 4s are SO in touch with this FEELING of deficiency that they seek value in an idealized external experiences or work or a relationship. It seems GOOD to BE AUTHENTIC and not conform but they resist knowing there’s nothing missing because they are so identified with that image. It becomes a never ending loop if left in an unhealthy stage. Type 5’s passion is AVARICE but in Enneagram language it is not a desire for obtaining money or possessions but of resources .They retreat inward and hoard their time and energy. This inward focus allows the Type Five ample time to focus on ideas and acquiring knowledge. That doesn’t seem like a negative thing, right? I mean…isn’t it GOOD to know what you’re talking about - to gain knowledge and to not just throw your time and energy away? It can be good for sure. BUT…they worry that if they share too much of themselves, they won’t have enough left. SO…in resisting connection by retreating inward, but it also builds a wall between them and others. As they pull back from external connections, they also become detached from their emotional self. The passion for type 6 is FEAR. They are sometimes referred to as THE LOYALISTS - great people to have on your team, right? Type 6s are so great at anticipating what could go wrong. They look for where danger could be lurking or what problems MIGHT occur at any time. We NEED these people who are cautious and security-oriented. If I’m going on a wilderness trek that’s who I want to go with! But they can become so focused on what could go WRONG that they become suspicious and filled with self-doubt. So what seems GOOD can be paralyzing. For Type 7s the passion is Gluttony. In this context it’s a almost insatiable craving to experience ALL THE THINGS. 7s see the positive in most things and are typically focused on being joyful and happy. 7s deepest fear is being trapped in emotional pain so they try to avoid anything that causes pain or sadness. In fact, they see their worth is in BEING the positive person. It seems GOOD to look for the positive, to be Joyful, to NOT dwell in pain. And so....they resist what is actually before them in the present and deny that they experience pain. This also makes them emotionally unavailable to anyone else who might need them in time of grief. And what happens? They disconnect from their heart and my body, rationalize away the pain and escape to a place in the future where there is no sadness. But that place doesn’t actually exist and instead of feeling FULL of all aspects of life, they are left feeling a hunger and emptiness through what appeared to be GOOD. Type 8s passion is called LUST which isn’t just about sexuality although it can include it. 8s have a desire for INTENSITY in whatever they do. They take the initiative and make things happen! They see the world as unjust and power imbalanced. So they feel they need to dominate so they are not controlled. They are the most assertive type in the enneagram. 8s want to be self-reliant, to prove their strength and resist weakness, to be important in their world. 8s are often referred to as THE PROTECTOR. They are often champions for the underdog. That sounds SO GOOD! But in their attempt to control and NOT BE controlled they lose touch with vulnerability. They can see it as weakness and so they resist letting their feelings be seen. Make no mistake, though…8s are very feeling people but keep up the powerful façade so they won’t be hurt. Type 9’s passion is called Sloth. So…what does ‘sloth’ mean in Enneagram language? It is sense of inertia to YOURSELF….a falling asleep to your OWN passions, abilities, desires, needs, and worth by merging with others. Why have type 9s been called the PEACEMAKERS? Because they strive to maintain peace both internally and externally. So, this means avoiding conflict at all costs! You will often read about type 9s’ desire for Peace and Harmony like they are one and the same. But they are not. I think that 9s - like all of us, actually, would love to live in HARMONY with the world but we settle for NO-CONFLICT. The tendency is to GO ALONG with others to avoid not having peace. So - where is the deceitfulness of Good here? Type 9s often make great mediators because they have an ability to see all sides of a situation. How great is that? They generally have a calming effect on people, they are usually non-judgmental, easy going. But, as we have quoted throughout this series, “what you resist not only persists, but grows stronger.” When you resist your own needs to accommodate others’ it will result in unhealthy relationships - maybe even a codependent relationship. Avoiding conflict with others keeps Nines from being fully present in relationships. Avoiding internal conflict leads to inertia and self-forgetting. When so much of their focus is on other’s then there isn’t a lot of energy to take care of your own. 9s can become passive-aggressive and resentment builds because they have so much to contribute to the world but taking on the role of THE PEACEMAKER keeps them from taking action on their own desires. Once again…this is the loop that we all get in when we don’t acknowledge our suffering. We are deceived into believing our GOOD WORKS will equal being LOVED. #Enneagram #EnneagramPassions #DeceitfulnessOfGood #SelfDeceit #Enneagram1 #Enneagram2 #Enneagram3 #Enneagram4 #Enneagram5 #Enneagram6 #Enneagram7 #Enneagram8 #Enneagram9  

The Passion for For type 1s is ANGER. Type 1s are often called the Reformers and hold themselves to very high standards which is a good quality, right? SO…the deceitfulness of the passions is that it seems GOOD to be conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. And being ANGRY goes against what seems to be GOOD. So they resist being angry. And when others don't seem to hold the same standards of goodness then that anger that they resist builds. But 1s are even harder on themselves so that anger turns inward so often if they believe they haven't lived up to their own standards. The relentless demand of the inner critic to be good and do good at all times and to set the standard for what is good, replaces personal needs and shuts down feelings which, if left unaddressed will come out in the form of resentment. Type 2s…The Passion is Pride …..This seems so opposite of what we see in type 2s who are so giving of their love, their time, knowing what everyone else needs. In fact, they are so focused on others that they take PRIDE in seeming to not have needs of their own. THEY see themselves as THE SOURCE of what others need. It seems GOOD to be so servant-hearted but when they resist acknowledging they have needs, having denied their own in service to others, they are actually denying others the gift of service. For type 3s the passion is Self-deceit or conforming to what they think is necessary to be SEEN as successful or WORTHY. 3s are often called “Shape shifters” because they will take on the role of what they think OTHERS want them to be. It seems GOOD to be success-driven and even GOOD to be adaptable but they resist resting in their authenticity and resist knowing they are fully loved apart from any external success. The passion of type 4 is Envy but this envy is a internal sense of a lack of being whole…like something about themselves is inherently missing. They tend to believe everyone else has that missing thing. They long for authenticity which leads to the desire to be unique because they actually believe they ARE unique because others have what they believe they are missing. 4s are SO in touch with this FEELING of deficiency that they seek value in an idealized external experiences or work or a relationship. It seems GOOD to BE AUTHENTIC and not conform but they resist knowing there's nothing missing because they are so identified with that image. It becomes a never ending loop if left in an unhealthy stage. Type 5's passion is AVARICE but in Enneagram language it is not a desire for obtaining money or possessions but of resources .They retreat inward and hoard their time and energy. This inward focus allows the Type Five ample time to focus on ideas and acquiring knowledge. That doesn't seem like a negative thing, right? I mean…isn't it GOOD to know what you're talking about - to gain knowledge and to not just throw your time and energy away? It can be good for sure. BUT…they worry that if they share too much of themselves, they won't have enough left. SO…in resisting connection by retreating inward, but it also builds a wall between them and others. As they pull back from external connections, they also become detached from their emotional self. The passion for type 6 is FEAR. They are sometimes referred to as THE LOYALISTS - great people to have on your team, right? Type 6s are so great at anticipating what could go wrong. They look for where danger could be lurking or what problems MIGHT occur at any time. We NEED these people who are cautious and security-oriented. If I'm going on a wilderness trek that's who I want to go with! But they can become so focused on what could go WRONG that they become suspicious and filled with self-doubt. So what seems GOOD can be paralyzing. For Type 7s the passion is Gluttony. In this context it's a almost insatiable craving to experience ALL THE THINGS. 7s see the positive in most things and are typically focused on being joyful and happy. 7s deepest fear is being trapped in emotional pain so they try to avoid anything that causes pain or sadness. In fact, they see their worth is in BEING the positive person. It seems GOOD to look for the positive, to be Joyful, to NOT dwell in pain. And so....they resist what is actually before them in the present and deny that they experience pain. This also makes them emotionally unavailable to anyone else who might need them in time of grief. And what happens? They disconnect from their heart and my body, rationalize away the pain and escape to a place in the future where there is no sadness. But that place doesn't actually exist and instead of feeling FULL of all aspects of life, they are left feeling a hunger and emptiness through what appeared to be GOOD. Type 8s passion is called LUST which isn't just about sexuality although it can include it. 8s have a desire for INTENSITY in whatever they do. They take the initiative and make things happen! They see the world as unjust and power imbalanced. So they feel they need to dominate so they are not controlled. They are the most assertive type in the enneagram. 8s want to be self-reliant, to prove their strength and resist weakness, to be important in their world. 8s are often referred to as THE PROTECTOR. They are often champions for the underdog. That sounds SO GOOD! But in their attempt to control and NOT BE controlled they lose touch with vulnerability. They can see it as weakness and so they resist letting their feelings be seen. Make no mistake, though…8s are very feeling people but keep up the powerful façade so they won't be hurt. Type 9's passion is called Sloth. So…what does ‘sloth' mean in Enneagram language? It is sense of inertia to YOURSELF….a falling asleep to your OWN passions, abilities, desires, needs, and worth by merging with others. Why have type 9s been called the PEACEMAKERS? Because they strive to maintain peace both internally and externally. So, this means avoiding conflict at all costs! You will often read about type 9s' desire for Peace and Harmony like they are one and the same. But they are not. I think that 9s - like all of us, actually, would love to live in HARMONY with the world but we settle for NO-CONFLICT. The tendency is to GO ALONG with others to avoid not having peace. So - where is the deceitfulness of Good here? Type 9s often make great mediators because they have an ability to see all sides of a situation. How great is that? They generally have a calming effect on people, they are usually non-judgmental, easy going. But, as we have quoted throughout this series, “what you resist not only persists, but grows stronger.” When you resist your own needs to accommodate others' it will result in unhealthy relationships - maybe even a codependent relationship. Avoiding conflict with others keeps Nines from being fully present in relationships. Avoiding internal conflict leads to inertia and self-forgetting. When so much of their focus is on other's then there isn't a lot of energy to take care of your own. 9s can become passive-aggressive and resentment builds because they have so much to contribute to the world but taking on the role of THE PEACEMAKER keeps them from taking action on their own desires. Once again…this is the loop that we all get in when we don't acknowledge our suffering. We are deceived into believing our GOOD WORKS will equal being LOVED. #Enneagram #EnneagramPassions #DeceitfulnessOfGood #SelfDeceit #Enneagram1 #Enneagram2 #Enneagram3 #Enneagram4 #Enneagram5 #Enneagram6 #Enneagram7 #Enneagram8 #Enneagram9  

Find out how Enneagram Fives approach social media!   Modern marketing says you need to find your one, perfect customer and get to know their preferences, habits, likes, and dislikes. The Enneagram is an ancient knowledge system paired with modern-day psychology to describe nine distinct personality types. I'm on a mission to discover what the Modern Enneagram can tell Modern Marketing about the personality of your one, perfect customer.    My next guest in this series is one of my Instagram Challenge Group members, Kate Boyd.    Kate is an Enneagram Type Five. We discuss: What she likes and dislikes on social media What makes her click on a post, comment, or share The platforms she loves to hang out on How marketers can make sure Nines feel loved on their social To get the full show notes, links mentioned in this episode or to read the transcript, head to my website: https://www.meganericson.com/blog?tag=show

All Ennegram personality types struggle with at least some imbalance between their Mind, Heart and Gut knowing and processing. Getting into and staying consistently in balance - in ‘Harmony' - with those three intelligence centers is a lifelong journey. For ennea-type Fives their unconscious habit of “hoarding” is a major deterrent to being centered and harmonious. On today's podcast, listen in as an ennea-type Five describes how the past year of Covid-19 shutdown surprisingly impacted his journey in that area.

Jenn Whitmer, Enneagram coach is back again to share more about the enneagram heart triad today. If you missed the first episode, find it here and episode two is here. Today it's our heart triad -- enneagram types five, six and seven. Type Five -- the thinkers and observers.  They are the ones who will walk you through every graph and table.  They are thorough.  For the fives it's important to remember that not everyone has done the amount of research as you.   So as you prepare to speak, be ready to give a bit of the backstory but don't overwhelm your audience with details.  Type Six -- the loyal guardian.  Sixes are always ready.  And they use self-deprecating humor to connect to the audience.  As a speaker who is a type Six, remember to have confidence in your calling,  More than any other number, Sixes can struggle in this area. Type Seven - the enthusiast. This is the life of the party speaker.  Sevens are natural communicators but the challenge for this type is they are more spontaneous and can struggle with rehearsal.  So there we have it -- the three part series on the enneagram and your speaking style.  For more information on Jenn and the enneagram:Jenn Whitmer websiteEnneagram informationMy favorite books on the EnneagramThe Road back to You by Ian Cron & Suzanne StabileJeff & Beth McCords on each Enneagram Type

S1E13: Part Two of our conversation with Special Guest Russ Hudson about “Contact,” and Ennea-Type Five, Striving to Feel Detached. We continue our conversation with Russ about the movie and then discuss the importance of critical thinking to the development of discernment on one's path for personal and spiritual growth.

S1E12: Special Guest Russ Hudson, “Contact,” and Ennea-Type Five, Striving to Feel Detached. (The first of two parts.) How do we maintain the clarity-providing space between ourselves and the emotional messiness of life without losing contact? This is the question Fives wrestle with, and it is the question at the heart of “Contact,” the 1997 movie starring Jodie Foster and Matthew McConaughey. Foster's “Ellie Arroway” is a scientist desperate to make contact with beings from space while struggling to connect with those around her. Russ Hudson, the preeminent Enneagram teacher of our time (and an Ennea-type Five himself), joins Mario, Maria Jose, and Tamer for this wide-ranging conversation that explores how “Contact” clearly depicts the themes of the Five, as well as the futility of seeing a conflict between religion and science and how true spirituality combines the need for critical thinking with a search for the numinous. Oh, and, of course, we discuss why zombie movies matter…

How does your Enneagram type handle conflict? Where does your type get stuck in conflict? What do you need to know about your Enneagram type when you find yourself in conflict?  In this interview, speaker, writer, and Enneagram Coach Jenn Whitmer breaks down conflict and the Enneagram, going type-by-type about where each Enneagram type struggles, shines, and what would serve us well to remember.  She tells us: what each Enneagram brings to the table in conflict where each type struggles and how each type can practically handle conflict and hard conversations better. Jenn reframes conflict as an opportunity and reminds us it’s really a heart posture of humility and community so we can tackle the issue out there. To skip to a type: Type Eight: 3:35 Type Nine: 7:15 Type One: 10:52 Type Two: 14:54 Type Three: 18:43 Type Four: 21:59 Type Five: 25:50 Type Six: 29:10 Type Seven: 33:11 Key Quotes “Vulnerability is actually a strength. It takes a lot of strength and trust to expose your heart, but it’s what connects you to people.” - Jenn Whitmer “It’s a paradox of life that we are all doing the best we can, but everybody can do better.” - Jenn Whitmer “Avoiding conflict usually creates more.” - Jenn Whitmer “Conflict is not failure. Conflict is a problem-solving opportunity.” - Jenn Whitmer “You are safe to have needs.” - Jenn Whitmer “Conflict is an opportunity, not a threat.” - Jenn Whitmer “Conflict resolution is a posture of, ‘It’s the two of us together against the problem out there.’” - Jenn Whitmer Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! Jill's Inner Critic Challenge  Harry Potter Freebies from Jenn  Women’s Leader Circle private Facebook group  Previous Episodes  #60: The Enneagram + Conflict || Part 1: The Essentials with Jenn Whitmer About Jenn Whitmer Jenn helps teams and leaders solve conflict and personality clashes. She speaks, writes, and coaches about hard topics with infectious joy. Through working with Jenn, people improve communication, work through conflict, and build self-awareness with the Enneagram. She asks big questions that lead to big dreams and big ideas and big living. Usually, that means laughing.  Jenn has graduate certificates in music education, theology, and leadership along with a Master of Arts in communication and culture from Webster University and certification as an Enneagram coach.  Jenn lives in St. Louis, Missouri, with her husband, Michael, their four kids, and a cat that puts up with them all. Here’s how to connect with Jenn Facebook  Instagram Twitter LinkedIn Medium Clubhouse: @jenn_whitmer Here’s how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Facebook group  Facebook page Subscribe to Jill’s weekly “the good + the grace” email 

Characteristics that distinguish a 5w4 from a 5w6

Meet Ginger Coakley, an enneagram Five, as she talks with Megan and Deedra about facing intense work situations with limited energy, how she uses her stress and security lines to manage emotions, and what it looks like to pursue God no matter the cost. For more information on the enneagram, visit dauntlessgrace.org. 

Do you struggle with low self-esteem? Are you burned out- all the time? Are your decisions and choices Guilt driven? These are all just a few manifestations of what you might do when you think you have to do mom life in your own strength and when you feel like you have to raise yourself. Ultimately you feel alone and the behaviors I listed are things you don’t want to do- but your default behavior is often hindering you from flourishing and thriving in your season of life. Here’s the deal. Most likely these behavior patterns may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility going forward. So today I’m going to show you how to no longer mom alone.Even if you are in a brand new city, without family, no church, and your husband works overtime. I’ll be sharing: What the orphan spirit looks like.Whose fault it is that you struggle with these mindsets. And how you can get unstuck.If you listen to this episode and still want more help, I am here for you. Download my free Enneagram for Moms Guidebook and then book a 15-minute Zoom call and together we can discover your next step.

Do you know the tendencies you take on when you're stressed? What does your life look like when you're emotionally unhealthy? And what can we do to become more emotionally healthy? In this episode we cover what an Enneagram type 5 looks like under stress and what we can do to grow into the best versions of ourselves. When you're done listening, pop on over to the 'gram and say Hi - @myenneagramlifeGrab your free month membership and 2 free books on Audible here! 

Day 4: Know You’re Worth ItThis is important Believe you are worth it Know why you’re worth itEmbarking on a journey to become sugar-free requires sacrifice, energy, money, and time. You have to understand that you are worth it. When you learn to embrace that, it makes it easier to maintain your mindset. Often it is the needs of others that derail your efforts. They need this, they need that, your focus is broken and suddenly, your perspective has been clouded. Putting yourself first and understanding your worth will be easier to do for some Enneagram numbers than other. So today I want to remind you of what IS GOOD about you and what your gifting is. So here are a few reminders for you: Type One: you are honest, fair, poised, polite, and sincere. Your ideasand opinions are sound and reasonableType Two: You have the amazing ability to sustain positive affections for other people. You go out of their way to support, help, and care for others because you are loving, compassionate, and generous.Type Three: You have the desire and will to improve themselves, motivate others to be their best, and adapt to any given situation. You have a healthy sense of self and can remain positive for a long time.Type Four: are very self-aware, self-revealing, and able to communicate about your inner world in a way that helps others do the same.Type Five: you are profoundly perceptive and capable of original, brilliant, and inventive solutions to problems.Type Six: you think systematically and can predict potential problems. You are very loyal and committed! Type Seven: you do many things well because of your quick and sharp mind.Type Eight: use their remarkable instinctive intuition to see possibilities in situations, and people that are often overlooked.Type Nine: open, receptive, reassuring, and encouraging to others. You create a peaceful and harmonious atmosphere that enables others to flourish.Now is the time to write out a list of why you’re worth this hard work and effort. It’s time for you to get to know your value and worth. 

Link to bioRxiv paper: http://biorxiv.org/cgi/content/short/2020.11.14.382739v1?rss=1 Authors: Ali Hassan, A., Ibrahim, M. E. Abstract: Chemokines are small transmembrane proteins with immune surveillance and immune cell recruitment functions. the expression of CCR5 gene affects virus production and viral load(1). The CCR5 gene contains two introns, three exons, and two promoters, and it is necessary as a co-receptor for the entry of the macrophage-tropic HIV strains. Mutations in the coding region of CCR5 affect the protein structure, which will affect production, chemokine binding, transport, signaling and expression of the CCR5 receptor. SNPs within CCR5 gene were retrieved from ensemble database. Coding SNPs were analyzed using SNPnexus. Coding non-synonymous SNPs in CCR5 binding domains with Viral gp120 were analyzed using SIFT, PolyPhen and I-mutant tools. Project HOPE then used to modelled the 3D structure of the protein resulting from these SNPs. Non-coding SNPs that affects miRNAs in 3' rejoin were analyzing using PolymiRTS. SNPs that affect transcription factor binding were analyzed using regulomeDB. (178) non-synonyms missense SNPs were found to have deleterious and damaging effect on the structure and function of the protein. In CCR5 binding domains with Viral gp120: 3 SNPs rs145061115, rs199824195 and rs201797884 were found to affect both structure and function and stability of chemokine protein. The 2 SNPs rs185691679 and rs199722070 has a role in disruption and creation of the target sites in miRNA seeds due to their high conservation score. Mutations in CCR5 gene may explain and represent the molecular basis of the resistance to HIV infection. Copy rights belong to original authors. Visit the link for more info

Do you sometimes struggle with finding time to recharge? Are you challenged by demands with your time and energy?Maybe you lead as Type Five or you want to get to know one better? If so, you’ll appreciate today’s conversation as my guest, Carissa Davis shares about motherhood from the perspective as a Type Five. Carissa Davis is a mom of three little kids and she leads as a true Enneagram Five. I often hear from many of you this is a Type that most of you want to get to know better. In this episode, Carissa is going to share how Enneagram helps her to not limit her spiritual and relational growth opportunities. We also end up diving deep into the struggle for a Five when it comes to their desire to be generous and need to recharge, especially in seasons when motherhood challenges your resources. Carissa l also shares how she has learned to set boundaries on her researching tendencies, so she doesn’t end up falling down the rabbit hole of information-Don’t miss this part of the conversation. Looking for more about the 5-Day Holiday De-Stress Event? While Santa and his elves (i.e. me) work on the final touches email amy@simplywholehearted.com for more info!What the full picture of determining your communication style? Learn more about the Your Enneagram Type Roadmap here.Or Schedule your 15-minute discovery call. Say Hi! on Instagram @simplywholeheartedUse the coupon code; Amy for 10% your order at The Enneagram Candles Shop.

The Five: The Investigator It’s another episode of our EnneaTalk Tuesday series, and this week it’s all about the five—the Investigator. The fives are the most introverted type on the Enneagram and are analytical data collectors. If you lead, love, learn, or laugh with a five, I break down everything you need to know on how to communicate, support, and understand them. Listen to this episode to hear what you can learn from the fives, their core motivations, how to recognize where they go in stress, speak their language, and bring out the best in them. Listen now The driving force of a Five The Investigator is known for their analytical brains, dry sense of humor, being highly perceptive, intuitive, and wise. They are the first in our series that fall into the head triad, which is why they are driven by thought and data. They are competent, self-sufficient, and always calculate their level of energy to avoid being depleted—a characteristic that can seem avoidant but in reality, is them taking the space they need to replenish and assess. Speaking the five’s language I discuss how to understand the fives language, what their underlying fear is, and how they manage it by retaining and seeking information. They value deep conversations and are fiercely loyal to those they trust. I discuss the leading style of a five, how to lead a five, and their preferences for working alone without intrusion. I share their characteristics when under stress, how to recognize them, and support them, especially if you are loving a five. I share their superpowers, how to learn from them, and why having a five in your corner is one of the best gifts you can have.Quote:“The 5 falls into the head triad, meaning they make most of their decisions by thoughts.” 1:20“5’s are hoarders of information and their own personal energy.” 2:45“If you are in relation with a 5, know that they enjoy thoughtful conversation.” 4:42“A 5 when they are under stress, they take on the average to unhealthy parts of the 7.” 7:04“5’s are comfortable with a partner who is independent and doesn’t need them.” 9:51“When an Enneagram Type 5 speaks up and offers their advice, it’s important.” 12:11“5’s prefer to take space to think before engaging in conflict, so if you’re trying to fight with a 5, they might get quiet or isolate themselves to find space to think things through.” 16:24“Most 5’s have felt like misfits in the world, so it can be validating to feel that you want to hear what they think and feel.” 21:46“People who lead with a type 5 style, automatically attend to their strong needs for time and space so they have room to think.” 24:02“The core characteristics of a 5 leader are the ability to access and assess information very skillfully and with a lot of interest, they’re super objective.” 26:47“They’re the content kings and queens, especially on subjects they know.” 33:54

Join us on a journey into the depths of the Enneagram 5 mind on today's conversation about The Observer. Co-host, Kellie, and contributor, Lala, provide insight on what it's like to take up residence in the thinking center. The Observer, or Investigator, needs to perceive. They are objective, rational, and have a lust for acquiring knowledge. They fear being incompetent and avoid depending on others. Fives can withdraw from social interaction and often escape to their minds. In relationships, they can seem detached and are often mis-understood due to their analytical nature. It takes a lot of energy (that they so desperately try to conserve) to get in touch with their feelings. Healthy Fives are calm in a crisis, capable of true neutrality in a conflict, and are fantastic confidants.Just in case you may have missed some of our other discussions or want to refresh your memory, check out this list of episodes: The Enneagram (overview)Enneagram and Relationships (w/ Sarajane Case)Becoming Your Own Guru e-course audio files (Patreon)Prefer to read? Here are a few places to get started:Recommended Reading (all the books we love)"What is the Enneagram" (Legacy Vol. II, article)Milspo Snapshots (Nine Types-free download)Becoming Your Own Guru e-course workbook (digital download)Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus)Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus)

Ross Wright is our passenger on today's episode. Hop on in and listen as Ross & Coach Logan talk Type Five, the Black Lives Matter Monument on Monument Avenue, Ross Wright Music and much more!BOOK your free 30 minute consultation today at https://www.loganjonescoaching.comMusic for the Enneagram Taxi podcast is "Horizons" by Ross Wright Music https://rosswright.bandcamp.com/The Enneagram Taxi Podcast is a production of Stephen R. Sanders Multimedia. https://www.facebook.com/stephenrsandersmultimediaMentioned in this episode is the fantastic online catalog of Ross Wright Music which I invite you to visit and encourage you to purchase. Simply GO TO https://rosswright.bandcamp.com/ to access Ross' music and support local artists like Ross and be inspired by their craft!

We hope you guys all had a wonderful Sunday! Today is all about Enneagram Fives, the Investigators. Challenging then to a game of trivia might not be the best option, so learn why that's the case by listening to this podcast. Remember, we want the main focus right now to be EDUCATING YOURSELVES. Sure listening to our podcast is great, but also keeping yourself updated with news, supporting your local black-owned businesses, and signing petitions is really the main focus we want y'all to see. We love you all and hope everyone has a wonderful week! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Join Dr. Joseph Howell and Erika Jobes as they explore in depth the three different subtypes of Ego Type Five.

Hear directly from Uranio Paes on his inner growth journey as a type five. Go in-depth with a type five and understand how things unfold when a Type Five uses the Enneagram as a self-development tool. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @cpenneagramacademy and check out cpenneagram.com to study with Bea and Uranio in person!

In this episode, Beth McCord shares a simple overview of the traits of a Type Five.  She covers: Core Motivations  How Christ Satisfies Your Core Longing Brief Insights on that Type Levels of Alignment with the Truth of the Gospel (aligned, misaligned, or out of alignment) Wings Enneagram Paths (Stress Path and Growth Path) Relationship Issues How to Get Along with This Type What Activates This Type into Conflict Behavioral Tendencies When They are Activated How This Type Can Grow In Conflict When to Affirm This Type At Their Best   Links to resources mentioned in this show:   Free Enneagram Test: test.yourenneagramcoach.com Free Core Motivations download: www.yourenneagramcoach.com/coremotivations Free Mistyping Guide: www.yourenneagramcoach.com/mistypes Discovering You course: www.yourenneagramcoach.com/discovering-you  Exploring You course: www.yourenneagramcoach.com/exploringyou All courses: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/enneagram-online-courses Learn about all 9 Types: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/types Becoming an Enneagram Coach course: www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec

In this episode Pastor Jeff Strong provides an overview of Enneagram Type Fives. Sources: www.eclecticenergies.com https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/ https://theenneagramatwork.com/ http://drdaviddaniels.com/ The Road Back to You The Enneagram: A Christian Perspective Becoming Us Music Intro/Outro: "Enthusiast" by Tours used under a Creative Commons Attribution License (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0)

In this episode Sarajane is breaking down Type 5 - the investigator. Type 5s are motivated by the possession of knowledge and they're likely the most informed person you know. Sarajane discusses the type 5's motivation, fear, and worldview. She shares the common behaviors that show up when they're at rest and when they're stressed.  This episode also dives into subtypes, wings, and common mistypes. Referenced in this episode: Workspacery: https://workspacery.com/?ref:MTg2OS4xNjAuNjM4LlQ You can connect with Sarajane on IG @enneagramandcoffee or at www.enneagramandcoffee.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The best self-care practices for enneagram type five is explained inside. It's a subject I'm delighted to talk with an actual type five on what this looks like in life.  Self-care is a subject that I've thought long and hard about. Similar to the body positivity movement - it's one that has a lot of good and bad. But if we go back to the original definition of the word, then I think we can start to understand that self-care is not just another series of benchmarks and checkmarks, but it's a filling from abundance.  Of knowing where you are and loving yourself for being there. Yet willing to take the necessary action to fill that self up. Whether through nourishing foods, bubble baths, or anything in between. Self-care is what you need and providing that when you need it - even if it is just a morning of extra sleep.  So maybe all of that to say, we don't have to practice self-care but rather make self-care a part of who we are — living self-aware.  The Ennea-health series was born from this. A place of actual knowledge to take action, creating a healthier life that is who you are not what you do.  Today we continue digging into the Enneagram type five through an interview with an online friend. Today I talk with Cassidy Tyler about her health journey how she has learned to use her strengths to overcome her health hurdles. Learn all the details and what this could mean for you inside the podcast.   Learn more: https://simplerootswellness.com/190

Want to get healthier? Let your enneagram number be your guide. Inside I teach enneagram type five how to use their type for health. Getting outside of standard health benchmarks and learning how to live in health rather than for it!  Enneagram type five, you value understanding. Your a deep thinker and value time spent processing the world around you. You thrive on self-sufficiency, independence, and alone time - collecting thoughts, ideas, knowledge, silence, and space. You pour your soul and energy into your thoughts. As a five, you build your identity in your mind. Working to find stability and security in life through collecting or hoarding what it is that you think will keep you secure. In this, you generally live a minimalistic life, with relatively few needs and the stamina to provide for yourself. You are often suppressing your deep emotions, stirring them over in your mind for days before you’re able to articulate them. But as you work to get healthy, you’ll learn how to feel the emotion when it comes and then let it go. Through this, you’ll develop courage outside of collecting knowledge, allowing you to take action and trust your gut. In health, you’ll be able to connect with your body and recognize that you, too, are a human, and your needs are valid. Inside this episode, we talk about how an enneagram five can live in health, all while honoring the space and security they crave. We've also created a free download for teaching you how to make health who you are through your enneagram number. Download the guide, print it off, and see how much it resonates with your life.    Learn more: https://simplerootswellness.com/189

In this episode, we're describing the Instinctual Subtypes of Type 5 in detail. We hope this will help you determine which of your Subtypes is dominant! This may also explain why your Type Five may look a little different than someone else's Type Five. In the following weeks, we'll be covering the rest of the Types and their Subtypes (otherwise known as Instincts). Thanks so much for listening. . You can find us at @godblesstheenneagram and at @ginagomez.co and @kristy.fountain You can download a Mindfulness Through The Enneagram PDF at https://www.kristyfountain.com and take a free course about the foundations of the enneagram at https://www.ginagomez.co! Enjoy!

Enneagram expert Beth McCord and I conclude our exploration of “How does your enneagram type influence the way you respond to trauma/abuse/harm?" Today’s episode looks at Types 2 through 7. Type Two - 0:30 Type Three - 5:30 Type Four - 12:40 Type Five - 16:00 Type Six - 21:00 Type Seven - 25:50

Are you a gaming superstar? Do you adore everything retro? Are your dreams laced in pixels and comprised of polys? Then prove your passion with this fun but telling quiz, designed to see just how devoted you are to the world's greatest pastime. Indeed, it's the game to play when you're not actually gaming. Check out Pacario's occasionally updated blog here: https://www.destructoid.com/blogs/Pacario Thanks to Decktonic (www.decktonic.com) for the cover music

In this episode of Limitless Laowai we continue our series of podcasts that we believe can transform your working relationships. In this episode, I will introduce you to the Enneagram Type Five: The Observer. Persons who are Type Five say to themselves: "The world is invasive. I need privacy to think and to refuel my energies." Do you like to work alone, for hours at a time without interruption? Do you horde information and give it out only when absolutely necessary? You may just be a five! Tune in and find out. A special thanks to this episode's sponsors, Concordia International School Shanghai; discover more at www.concordiashanghai.org. // What'd you think of this show? Send comments, questions and feedback to the host at Pete@limitlesslaowai.com.